Do Men Really Want the 'Cool Girl?'
"Being the Cool Girl implies I am a hot, splendid, clever lady who reveres football, poker, grimy jokes, and burping, who plays computer games, drinks shabby lager, adores trios and butt-centric sex, and sticks wieners and ground sirloin sandwiches into her mouth like she's facilitating the world's greatest culinary group blast while by one means or another keeping up a size 2, in light of the fact that Cool Girls are most importantly hot. Hot and understanding."— Gillian Flynn, Gone Girl A day or two ago a companion sent me the quote above and asked, "Do gentlemen truly need the Cool Girl?" The short answer is "yes" furthermore "no." Let's separation the Cool's meaning "Young lady" and perceive what number of these things really matter to men. Being a Bro There is a gigantic suspicion that all men seek a lady with whom they could brother out. The lady who not just knows the ins-and-outs of football yet has a most loved group, and was raised with undying reliability to them (which embroils, by chance, that they would demonstrate comparative dedication to their sweetheart). Not really. Not all men love football, for one. In any case, more than that, fellows are searching for more than a brother in their sentimental accomplice. They don't need a companion with whom they can play computer games. They have a lot of those. They need somebody they can chat with, impart their heart to, and obviously have intercourse with. This is not to say that a few gentlemen won't cherish that their lady knows a considerable measure of about The Ohio State football or can sub in on poker night. That can be really damn hot. In any case, it's not a major issue if that is essentially not you're thing. It's not in the slightest degree expected or considered super cool for a lady to brother out. Being a Sex Maniac Its a dependable fact that men fantasize about sex. For hetero men I let it be known; we have a tendency to fantasize about sexual acts that may be forbidden to a few individuals, for example,
trios and butt-centric sex. In any case, for some men there's a Madonna/prostitute complex. For these gentlemen, in principle they need a lady who might do a wide range of insane things in bed, yet the ladies they really decide to date would seldom put it all on the line. In case you're not the sort to pull out all the stops, that is alright. Truly. Truth be told, on the off chance that you swung to your gentleman and solicited to do something way out from your typical sexual wheelhouse it may crack him out. Which is not to dishearten anybody from testing in the room; that is dependably fun if straightforwardly conveyed and settled upon ahead of time of the real demonstration. Yet, no gentleman just expect his better half would do these things in light of the fact that she's "cool." If anything like that happens this is on account of you have a steady relationship and can explore. It's reliant on the kind of man, however a large portion of us fellows aren't expecting or even intrigued by being that unusua