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Spring 2016

Why kids need risks

CONSTANCE HALL SMASHES MUMMY LAWS

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42 OFFSPRING’S PREPARING FOR BABY SPECIAL FEATURE A bible of everything you need before that little bundle-of-joy arrives.

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PARENTING 56

CHALLENGING YOUR CHILDREN The need of children to be stimulated, challenged and encouraged to take risks is as great as their need for stability and security.

SPECIAL FEATURE

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58 Our Christmas gift-buying selections for the family

GETAWAY GUIDE

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GETAWAY IN WA! Whether it’s a weekend you want or a few weeks, WA has it all.

FOOD & NUTRITION

72 EAT AND BE HAPPY! Take a trip to your local market and stock up on fresh fruit and vegetables to improve your mental health and happiness.

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PREGNANCY & BIRTH

42 OFFSPRING’S PREPARING FOR BABY SPECIAL FEATURE A bible of everything you need before that little bundle-of-joy arrives.

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PARENTING 56

CHALLENGING YOUR CHILDREN The need of children to be stimulated, challenged and encouraged to take risks is as great as their need for stability and security.

SPECIAL FEATURE

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58 Our Christmas gift-buying selections for the family

GETAWAY GUIDE

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GETAWAY IN WA! Whether it’s a weekend you want or a few weeks, WA has it all.

FOOD & NUTRITION

72 EAT AND BE HAPPY! Take a trip to your local market and stock up on fresh fruit and vegetables to improve your mental health and happiness.

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74 DIRECTORY

ISSUE 32 SPRING 2016

CONSTANCE HALL BY BRONNIE JOEL PHOTOGRAPHY

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Editor in Chief Kate Durack Contributing writers Ari Chavez, Gary Ausbruch, Kate Bullen, Ngala Parenting Education Team, Brooke Evans-Butler, Elise Papamihail, Claire Armstrong, Tania Connelly, Lisa O’Rourke, Emma Saurus, Colleen Willis Graphic Designers Steven Lillywhite, Anna Drake Printed by Offset Alpine Printing

Circulation: 110,000 copies per edition across Melbourne, Sydney and Perth

Distribution 110,000 copies distributed in Sydney (40,000 copies), Perth (30,000 copies) and Melbourne (40,000 copies) by paid subscriptions and for free at selected locations.

Also available online via www.offspringmagazine.com.au Offspring magazine is an independent magazine published quarterly by Offspring Magazine Pty Ltd. Opinions represented are not necessarily those of the publisher. Offspring magazine contains general information and does not claim to substitute for health or parenting advice. All content is subject to copyright, and may not be reproduced without permission.

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love this issue. In fact, I think it’s my favourite edition yet, and am very grateful to my staff for their contributions to the editorial, advertising and design; as well our as advertisers who enable us to provide you this magazine for free. Please support them.

Constance Hall as our cover feature is pretty exciting.

That girl has guts!

I admire how true she is to herself and the realities of motherhood, not to mention she’s supportive and nurturing towards her ‘Queens’ – Facebook mums from all walks of life.

It’s interesting Constance talks about an increasing tendency for postbirth slimdown to be seemingly more important than the creation of another

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life, as does our Funny Mummy columnist, Ari Chavez in “Amazing Grace”.

“Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby” is fascinating for the voyeurs like myself.

Ann Marie Bradstreet investigates polyamory (and I learnt a new word!) and how other couples keep the intimacy alive by involving other people.

I love anything Spiritual, so was intrigued to read about the miraculous healing results a Perth medical doctor is experiencing since implementing Reiki to her practise.

Many of us are prone to wrapping our children in cottonwool so I thought “Challenging Your Children” was excellent, in that it explores the

benefits of kids taking risks and facing challenges, in order to grow.

We also have a couple of special features in this issue - our annual Having a Baby feature, a good checklist for expecting mums; a special Christmas Gift Guide to stimulate gift ideas; and a Getaway Guide for traveling with the family in your state.

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ARI CHÁVEZ COLUMNIST has had work published in Australia, England, Japan and Singapore. She has a delightful toddler, Gabriel, who was born with coffee in his veins. She is currently completing her first novel as part of a PhD project.

ELISE PAPAMIHAIL FASHION & STYLE is Mummy to Chloé and Olivia and is a passionate stylist and fashion writer, embracing the latest trends without compromising on timeless style.

LETITIA ROWLANDS JOURNALIST Letitia worked for daily newspapers for 20 years covering a wide variety of topics but since becoming a mother five years ago, her writing has focussed on family and parenting topics. Letitia lives in Sydney with her husband and two young sons Hugo and Jasper and enjoys a freelance career writing for magazines and websites.

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GARY AUSBRUCH ACCOUNTANT/COLUMNIST is financial controller for a Perth-based mining company.

He has had columns published on the challenging subject of the lighter side of accountancy, and has written for SBS TV. He is married to Sue and has two young children, Ella and Sebastian.

DEVON PLUMLEY MIDWIFE believes her work is most satisfying when she can empower a woman and her partner to birth their baby naturally; and the new little human being thanks his mummy with a squeal!

TANIA CONNOLLY JOURNALIST Tania Connolly is a freelance writer who has been published in a variety of magazines. Her passion is people and sharing their inspirational journeys. With a husband and two teenagers life is hectic but she wouldn’t want it any other way.

LISA O’ROURKE WRITER Lisa is a freelance writer and her work has been published in print and online for more than 15 years.

She is also a singer/songwriter and the Founding Director of popular edutainment pre-schooler program Rock ‘n’ Toddle. Lisa’s three children (all under eight) inform and inspire her work, and reward both her and her husband daily with precious gifts beyond words.

CLAIRE ARMSTRONG JOURNALIST of 10 years across a range of mediums and publications from mining and financial to bridal and pregnancy.

She has a passion for all things parenting and a love of sharing stories about the parenthood journey. She is also a busy mum of three beautiful girls and is a trained post-natal doula.

KATE BULLEN DIETITIAN runs www.dietitianonline.com. au and is mum to three young children. Kate has translated her love of all things online to providing expert nutrition coaching online – it works well for anyone who is busy! Kate’s passion lies in making healthy eating simple and enjoyable.

BROOKE EVANS-BUTLER JOURNALIST has written for home improvement, bridal and women’s lifestyle publications, but says Offspring enables her to combine writing with her new favourite hobby, being a mum to her boys Caleb and Jonah.

JANE MILLINGTON INTERIOR DESIGNER has over 15 years’ experience in all facets of the design industry including Interior Design, Styling, Sales and Business Development. Jane specialises in colour design and styling of children’s bedrooms and nurseries with her biggest fans being her two children, Samson and Liv.

COLLEEN WILLIS TRAVEL WRITER has roamed the world for many years on her own and with her husband and daughter, Rebekah. During this time, Colleen has been a teacher and an award-winning travel advisor for Australia and overseas. Colleen will guide you through family travel the way she knows best!

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Hall you can’t say that!

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hen I asked my friend Nina if she’d heard of Constance Hall, her eyes took on the kind of look I normally reserve for chocolate desserts. “I’ve pre-ordered

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her book!” she said.

“Con talks about parenting like it really is. She says we should

embrace our queenliness, not our failures. We should be helping each other, not judging each other. So that’s why I like her. And because she says ‘fuck’ a lot.”

Constance Hall, tragicomic blogging queen, has an army of Facebook followers that includes Ashton Kutcher. Her page’s comments are full of women enjoying a good swear. Her critics are also vocal and vicious.

Constance has broken ground by breaking the Mummy Rules flagrantly and frequently. You know the Mummy Rules. Did you change yourself to keep them? They may be unspoken, but break them, and maybe no one will chat with you at the school gate or invite your kid around for play-dates. There are consequences, so you stick to the rules. Unless you are Con. “This is who I am,” she says, simply. Her warm, husky voice makes me remember conversations shouted over loud music with my arms around friends. “I’ve always been a big swearer. I have strong opinions, and I don’t really hold back.

“I noticed, as soon as I became a mum, that I was expected to just lose a huge element of myself. I found that really strange. So, I never changed. I got judged a lot.

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Supermarket magazines feature celebrity post-birth slim-down speed records, as if weight loss is a more important achievement than the creation of a new life.

We’re not living up to our expectations because they were too high.

you, because you’re not just controlling your life, you’re controlling the kid’s as well.

So it gives the judgy parents these open gateways to go to town on you. The only thing that I do differently is that I don’t really care.”

Actually, Constance’s notoriety is

based on how much she cares – about connecting honestly with other mothers. And Constance is well-qualified to talk about motherhood. As well as a teenage step-daughter, she has four small children: Billie-Violet (aged 7), Arlo Love (5), and twins Snow (a girl) and Rumi (a boy, 2). On her blog, she describes how her twins were conceived a month after separating from and reconciling with her husband, right after making a decision not to have any more kids. Constance chronicled her struggles on Facebook, and it turns out that many parents appreciate her irreverent candour. As she put it, her writing went “as viral as herpes”.

I noticed, as soon as I became a mum, that I was expected to just lose a huge element of myself. I found that really strange. So, I never changed.

I got judged a lot.

It would be easy to dismiss this former Big Brother contestant as an attention-seeker if she didn’t have such important things to say. Supermarket magazines feature celebrity post-birth slim-down speed records, as if weight loss is a more important achievement than the creation of a new life. Constance shares pictures of her mum-body in underwear with nothing sucked in and talks about self-love.

“I think we’re allowed to love our bodies,” she says. “I had a realisation after having the twins – that my whole life, I had put a lot of value on my weight. Even my psychologist said to me one day, ‘You know, all you ever say is that you’re going to lose some weight, and then you’re going to do this and this and this. Maybe losing the weight isn’t the answer.’ And I was like, ‘What? It’s always the answer! Losing five kilos makes everything better!’

“Having the twins played a huge part in realising that, because I was almost defenceless. I was stuck. With all my other kids, I was like, ‘Okay, cool, I’ve got one baby, I’ll go back to work.’ I lost the weight, I did everything

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properly. When I had two babies, I opened up a hairdressing salon,

‘Only a fucking slut cheats.’ So there are certain topics that I don’t

lost the weight and kept going. Then when I had my twins, I couldn’t

really have the energy to write about online.

even go to the shops, because I had the C-section scar, me and Bill

“I wanted to say, ‘You can fuck up. You can have someone fuck

weren’t talking to each other; it was just horrible.

up on you, but things can be okay. And if they’re not, you’re still

“I cried all the time. After a while, I just surrendered to it and went, ‘Hang on, I

it was really important to get that message

actually don’t need any more than this.

across, because I know first-hand how

I don’t need to have a cool career that I can tell people about at dinner parties, and I don’t need to be extra-fit, and I don’t need anyone to think that I’m

many women are struggling out there.

They tell me privately. I get these personal emails all the time.”

Another Mummy Rule broken, Constance! No-one else will

a super-mum. I just want to

tell you about ‘parent sex’,

hang out with these kids,

“Where you position the bed to

’cos they’re really cool.’

have one foot against the door

Six months later I felt so different about the world, myself – everything. It was really quite healing.”

Now Constance has put her mummy manifesto down on paper in her book, Like a Queen. When asked why she decided to publish her work, Con said, “There are a lot of trolls on the internet. It’s a nasty place.

“There were things I wanted to say about my relationship with Bill, about things that happened during motherhood that were either too long for a post, or they were too intimate, or they were

‘Fuck off! I have not slept!’ Sleeping is a necessity. It’s like saying, ‘I don’t need to eat, because you work.’ It’s just ridiculous. too scary. But while I was writing the book, I felt really uninhibited because I realised that the person who would be reading it would be a beautiful woman lying in bed, flicking through pages with a glass of wine. It’s not a horrible arsehole on the internet just waiting for the chance to tear me down. So it was much more of an intimate experience between me and my girls.”

This from a woman whose website features a picture of herself on the toilet, who has described post-birth incontinence and the size of her nervous poos. Constance, there were details you were holding back?

“You get so much hate on the internet. I’ve talked about infidelity, and all of a sudden I get fifty emails from these arseholes going, 22

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because for a loud bunch of kids, yours can be pretty quiet when they’re sneaking up on people.” Nowhere else will you read an argument against slut-shaming asserting that sexually liberated women make the best wives.

“Men are seen as heroes because they’ve shagged half of the town, whereas women are tainted goods and are untouchable because we’ve had too much sex, when that’s absolute rubbish.”

Constance’s husband, Bill,

“Would anyone want a wifey

features regularly in her writing.

that didn’t love love?” asks

Con announced Bill’s vasectomy

Constance. But mummies are

on her blog and posted a video

supposed to shut the memories

of him dancing because “he

of their wild years away in a

thinks he’s getting a root”.

cupboard with hefty locks.

“I loved having a lot of sex when I was young. My husband loves hearing that,” Constance laughs.

“Bill is a show-pony,” she giggles. “He loves it. He gets this little grin on his face when I read him a blog and read the comments. I

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easier to say, ‘Me neither.’ So, whatever I’m struggling in, I try and share, because

Hang on, I actually don’t need any more than this. I don’t need to have a cool career that I can tell people about at dinner parties, and I don’t need to be extra-fit, and I don’t need anyone to think that I’m a supermum. I just want to hang out with these kids, ’cos they’re really cool.

then I get a lot of women going, ‘Yeah, me too.’

“Me and Bill, when we had our first baby, we were living in this small unit. It was only two-bedroom. Then I got pregnant again. Bill was earning whatever he could as a carpenter, and I was just going, ‘What happened? How come everyone’s in these milliondollar houses with flash cars?’

Even my best friends, they had the most beautiful interior-designed houses.

wouldn’t do it if it offended him or if he ever asked

When I get to their house, they’re like, ‘Oh

me not to. He thinks he’s the star of this show, not me.”

“Honestly, in my household, Bill’s the clean one. We fight all the

We fight every day. We can’t even afford to buy the good milk;

time over housework, because he thinks I should be doing more,

we have to buy the cheap milk.’ But you need to get really close to

whereas I’m not that fussed about a messy house. I’m like, ‘I can

people before you learn all of that. On the outside, everyone’s lives

live with that pile of dirty washing. I want to go to the beach.’ And

look amazing. And it’s stressful, because you can’t keep up.”

Bill’s like [she puts on a deep, gruff voice], ‘You can’t go to the beach because the house is a pigsty!’ And I’m like [high voice], ‘Well, you do it!’ My house looks like shit at the moment, and I just walked out.”

Most of us could not bear to have our lives scrutinised to

Forget keeping up with the Joneses, Constance was kept up by the twins regularly.

“It was horrible,” she said. “Every half hour one would wake up, and then twenty minutes later the other one would wake up. Bill

this degree, but Con does not know the meaning of ‘too much

didn’t wake up ever. In the mornings I was like [her voice high and

information’. She lets us know her intimately, exposing the details

desperate], ‘Bill, I haven’t slept at all.’ And he was like [her voice low

of her daily grind, allowing her readers close enough to share their

and gruff], ‘Yeah, well, I’ve got to go to work.’ And I was like [even

struggles. She helps us laugh together about the same things that

higher], ‘Fuck off! I have not slept!’ Sleeping is a necessity. It’s like

make us cry alone. Her Facebook comments are full of women

saying, ‘I don’t need to eat, because you work.’ It’s just ridiculous.”

expressing gratitude for the feeling of community and acceptance

“I think that, if I can see the funny side, it’s going to be okay.

she creates. Her work is a reality check for the parenting experts

My girlfriends and I have a competition about whose life is worse,

who push for perfection.

whose husband is being the biggest dickhead, who’s had less sleep.

One fan comments, “Constance, after every book I read I’m always inspired to change, be more organised, eat healthier, [be] a better mother … But your book didn’t make me want to change a thing about myself.” By fiercely baring her vulnerabilities and daring the reader to judge her wanting, Constance forces us to confront the things we judge in ourselves.

“We’re not living up to our expectations because they were

I always win.”

Constance has used her considerable influence to assist women worldwide. She and her followers raised $200,000 to build a house for sexually abused Kenyan girls through the charity Rafiki Mwema. She said, “It has actually been a life-long dream of mine to help in some way.”

too high,” Constance argues.

A one-woman movement against

“People just don’t talk about

competitive mothering, Constance

their struggles. Rather than

Hall proves that you don’t need to

saying, ‘Are you okay?’ it’s

know how to spell to

much more healing to say,

write astoundingly

‘I’m not okay.’ Because then the person in front of you, instead of having to take that step of saying, ‘No, I’m not okay,’ they actually go, ‘Oh, me neither.’ It’s so much

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The Child and my Beloved had skedaddled to the park for an hour - THANK YOU, GOD - so I grabbed the stash of chocolates that no one else had yet found - THANKS AGAIN, GOD - and hit the sofa for some mindless net surfing and sugar-high-ing.

T

he first article I saw was about

birthing war stories – blood, guts and zombies - and wished,

a woman who had just given

hope-lessly, that the goddamn stork was the delivery

birth but managed, somehow,

mechanism, not me.

the stupendous achievement of

In the birthing suite, before things turned all Horror

looking AH-MAY-ZING one hour later.

Movie, I could hear another labouring woman screaming

She looked so amaz-ing, in fact, that

in agony.

someone took a photo of her and flung

“What is that noise?” I asked my Beloved, palely.

it around the internet for the world’s

He looked panicked. “What noise?” he said,

admiration.

ridiculously.

Ahem.

Okay, so she looked glorious, and she was half-naked and smiling in some frilly white-knicker concoction.

Good for her. But for feck’s sake, she’d just spent nine months growing a human, who is probably the size of a couple of pumpkins, and then however many hours screaming and bellowing as she pushed that two-pumpkin-human out of her

unblinking. “Ah, that noise,” he said. “That noise is a cat.”

I began to pace, as the woman in the suite next to me erupted into a crescendo of auditory agony.

“That is not a bloody cat,” I said. “That is a woman giving birth.”

down-belows. Unless she did one of those silent birth things –

My husband said nothing.

WHO DOES THESE AND HOW? – and didn’t scream or bellow.

“WELL GO AND TELL HER TO STOP,” I said. “She is making

It doesn’t matter, really, the woman had a baby and that is the

me VERY nervous, and it’s EX-TREMELY inconsiderate of her.

shining achievement, not how she looked one hour later.

HURRY UP!”

Isn’t having a baby enough, nowadays? I seem to recall,

My husband silently considered how to placate both me and

hazily thank goodness, that labour and birth was more than

the screaming Cat Woman. Cat Woman kept yowling. Maybe she

enough achievement for one day, but I am not one of those

was birthing a seven-pumpkin baby, so I can’t really blame her,

I-AM-WOMAN-HEAR-ME-ROAR types about birthing. I’m the

but, my goodness, she set me on a terrible path.

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“That HOWLING AND SCREAMING,” I yelled.

My Beloved put his best poker face on and stared at me

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I want to go home NOW. I DON’T WANT TO BE HERE. TELL THAT CAT WOMAN TO STOP!” My Beloved stood in front of the door. “You can do

Maybe she was birthing a sevenpumpkin baby, so I can’t really blame her, but, my goodness, she set me on a terrible path.

this, sweetheart,” he said.

“No,” I said, “I actually can’t. And don’t tell me I have to. WHY DON’T YOU DO IT!? WHY DO I HAVE TO DO IT!? YOU DO IT! YOU DO IT!!!!

WHY DO I HAVE TO DO EVERYTHING? YOU HAVE THE BABY, I’VE DONE EVERYTHING ELSE!” Clearly, it was the beginning of a very downward spiral. It went on. And on. For hours. It got worse. There was blood and guts and zombies. Some Dracula and a few

clown masks. Basi-cally, it was all your horror movies rolled into one.

And then, at the end, there was him. The Child. Our Grace.

The most beautiful thing we’d ever seen. As beautiful as the day.

A couple of pumpkins’ worth. Amazing.

And I looked like hell, for days, years even. I spent all my time in ugly flannelette PJs, feeding the Child, who had an abnormally large appetite, and not sleeping because he never slept. Ever.

And I didn’t give a hoot, because I’d grown my own pumpkin, survived the horror mov-ie birth and he was mine.

Well, I probably did give a hoot, actually, but I was too sleep deprived to do anything about it.

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Let’s talk about sex baby!

BY ANN MARIE BRADSTREET

Or, alternately let’s talk about the lack of sex parenthood seems to inspire. Let’s examine the factors creating such a dismal correlation. I’ll go first – with my full and diverse life filled with nappy changes, school runs, regular incidences of one of my three children vomiting or urinating in my bed at midnight, and amusing myself each day with an enduring mountain of washing, could it be related that I find my libido is a wasteland?

Cue tumble weeds and a haunting whistling wind.

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A

side from clearing my

communicate and respect each

spam folder every now

other’s ever-changing boundaries.

and then, and driving

Just because we have no limits

past SexyLand en route to the

doesn’t mean we reach them, it just

supermarket (Yes - That is the real

means we never feel trapped by

name of the adult shop in my town),

each other. My partner is bisexual

I’ve been completely estranged

and we’ve always had an open

from my sexual self. I have relegated

relationship but since having kids

sex to another chore on my to-do

he’s only been with a few guys and

list, hardly a rousing aphrodisiac.

I’ve had a few drunken make-outs.

“I used to think it meant I

Suffice to say, my husband of 10

didn’t love my partner when I

years is tearing his hair out, grasping at straws and other metaphorical behaviours I shan’t elaborate on.

Understandably, he is becoming less enamoured with the pity shag of

desired another but I discovered

Lucinda practised an open relationship with her husband Sam in the past with varying success and admits that jealousy got in the way but she is currently interested in the idea of polyamory.

when I spend time with someone and drown in their pheromones I come home and my partner’s pheromones are brand new again.

I feel like we have a perfect partnership and wouldn’t have it any other way.

predictable narrative

Everyone is different though, it works for me

that is allocated a twominute window on my domestic schedule every blue moon, in the conscious pursuit of staving off extramarital affairs - just joking, well, sort of, I’m a little bit serious.

Let’s just conclude that my sex life is scant at best and for the public record (I’d also like to avoid divorce) IS NOT DUE TO MY HUSBAND’S LACK OF TRYING. His dedicated

because freedom is the most important thing to me in a relationship.”

Even though an open relationship is not for me, I envy the intimacy and safety that exists in the way Kara and her partner communicate, and despite having the same pressures of family life, they make a conscious effort to spend time together.

“We usually put on a two-hour long movie and spend that

campaign of trying, however, has had a disappointing run of

time pleasuring each other, the actual intercourse is only

counterproductive results. It is a conundrum in need of urgent

minutes but that’s not necessarily the fun part. We do this about

resolution – the answer, however, seems to continually elude our

twice a week and take advantage of time when the kids are tired

fatigue-addled brains.

and fed, it’s rarely uninterrupted and that’s generally why it takes

So, I decided to put a whole lot of fatigue-addled brains together to see if I could find an answer by consulting my online

the whole movie.”

Kara does admit that her sex life has improved since she

secret mother’s group. The response and suggestions I received

stopped working full-time, and prior to that there were times she

from this cherished community, where all and nothing is sacred,

was just too tired to bother. It is somewhat comforting to find

were as varied as the spectrum of sexual appetites in a vintage

that fatigue snatches the romance from even the most sexually

Dutch porn movie. Help was at hand!

dedicated.

Previously unbeknown to me, open relationships appear to

Lucinda practised an open relationship with her husband

play a key role in keeping the sex lives of some couples robust. As

Sam in the past with varying success, and admits that jealousy

someone whose relationship values rely heavily on loyalty and

got in the way. However, she is currently interested in the idea

fidelity, and the fact I am struggling to rally enough enthusiasm

of polyamory, which on a quick Google search I discovered can

to have sex with just one person, I can’t see it working for me, but

be described as, rather than having casual sexual encounters

am fascinated enough to ask a lot of questions.

outside of a traditional partnership, a polyamorist engages in

Kara, who is in a long term open partnership writes, “My

loving committed relationships with more than one partner and

libido does die down when things become stagnant, which can

sometimes even a network of people, all respectful and aware of

be attributed to motherhood, but things get spiced up again when

the situation.

one of us takes on a new sexual experience; sometimes a kiss is all it takes from somebody new.”

Lucinda writes, “Sam and I still haven’t found something we are totally happy with. At the beginning of motherhood, I was so

On querying which rules applied to keep the relationship

not into sex and so I encouraged him to welcome any advances

intact, I was surprised to find there were none and learned the

at gigs that he played. When he told me about it I actually found

relationship relied on open, honest, communication.

him more attractive, zero jealousy. He came home to me and

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PARENTING

“I’ve let myself succumb to his sexual desire of me and we have been rocketed to a new depth of passion.”

“I used to think it meant I didn’t love my partner when I desired another, but I discovered when I spend time with someone and drown in their pheromones I come home and my partner’s pheromones are brand new again.”

“We usually put on a two-hour long movie and spend that time pleasuring each other, the actual intercourse is only minutes but that’s not necessarily the fun part.”

Mums with older children and others whose younger kids sleep well did offer hope that things can get better. Two key points kept arising from those that were getting some. Communication, openness, honesty, and prioritising time for each other to allow

could do ‘open’ I felt really free and happy although I didn’t sleep

intimacy to grow, whether it’s a date night (that can be attempted

with anyone. But he changed his mind and said he couldn’t do

at home with the kids in bed with a nice meal if babysitting or

jealousy.

finances are obstacles), sending a sexy text message or email to

“Now I am beginning to believe in polyamory, in that every

over several days, or allowing the sensual kiss to happen without

sex. I want someone in particular and the chemistry took me

feeling pressure to go further - whatever it is that sparks the

by surprise. It’s not about avoiding or fixing anything in the

romance.

relationship as Sam and I are probably happier than we’ve ever

Sexually-fulfilled Casey sums it up best when she writes, “It

been right now but I feel I want something to do with this other

goes to show that what may work for one won’t work for another,

person as well. Sam and I chat about it and it’s a work in progress

but communication is the most important factor. Sex is extremely

to me. We have books to try and understand how it works for

important to my relationship with my husband. We rarely go a

others and a jealousy workbook. Anyway, I don’t really have

week without it, excluding post birth and my cycle. We have a very

answers as far as an outcome goes – it’s definitely a work in

strong chemistry but we have had to work on it. Talking honestly

progress.”

is important as is my husband’s patience and understanding.”

Polyamory doesn’t stand out as a solution in sprucing up my

“I struggled (sex) drive wise after my second and third child

sex life, but nor do I think it is meant to. Polyamorous blogger,

and there have been periods when being touched has left me

Angie Becker Stevens, writes about her lifestyle choice and

feeling annoyed because he was only doing it to get some head

explains that she is equally committed to and deeply in love with

and I found that selfish but post-bub number four I’ve been open

both her husband of seventeen years and her boyfriend of two

about these issues and we’ve found a new spark.”

and a half years.

“I’ve let myself succumb to his sexual desire of me and we

I have no judgement in consenting adults structuring a love

have been rocketed to a new depth of passion. Our youngest is 13

life that brings no harm to others, but it does seem an increase

months and we just try to grab each other when we can. Foreplay

in workload in my view. It may be a stretch to split my two

is generally a build up over a couple of days and I guess this keeps

minute blue moon shag between multiple slots, pardoning any

things exciting….”

unintentional puns, especially if I have to make everyone dinner and listen to their problems.

The forum did reveal many mums with very young kids and

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your partner at work and allowing something to simmer and build

relationship is consensual and meaningful and not just about

If communication is the most important factor, then - Let’s Talk About Sex Baby! You owe it to yourself and the one you love, or ones if you happen to be polyamorous.

babies, or with children who had special needs, found themselves

Footnote….it appears that communication is the remedy, my

too tired for sex with their partner. Many described how intimacy

husband and I are back in the sack, let a conversation take you all

on all levels erodes when a kiss is deflected or a massage declined

the way to SexyLand! *all names in article have been changed to

in case it is misconstrued as an invitation for sex.

protect privacy.

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Six years ago, Giulia Lake gave birth to her daughter, Téa, and knew nothing of the Zika virus.

By 2015, as thousands of Brazilian babies were born with smaller-than-average heads due to microcephaly – a condition linked to the virus – she could only empathise.

Téa had been diagnosed with a similar but much more severe and rare neurodevelopment disorder called microcephaly-capillary malformation syndrome for which there is no known cure.

BY TANIA CONNOLLY

Téa tackles rare disease B

outs of morning sickness and other associated symptoms endured by millions of women worldwide, bypassed a happily relaxed Giulia Lake. She confesses she breezed

Twenty minutes later, Téa arrived at the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) at the local children’s hospital where she

through her pregnancy and hoped her baby’s birth would proceed

remained for four weeks as doctors attempted to pinpoint the

just as smoothly. Unfortunately, her perfectly natural, preconceived

origin of her seizures.

notion of blissfully cradling a healthy newborn, while surrounded by smiling visitors, was shattered mere minutes after Téa was born.

During the second Appearance, Pulse, Grimace, Activity and Respiration (APGAR) evaluation, performed on Téa five minutes

“They just didn’t know,” Giulia says. “They basically had a meeting with us and gave us all the options that might be out there.

So we kind of knew that severe disability was on the cards.”

Looking back, Giulia suspects Téa’s health issues began in

after her birth, on 21st September 2010, Giulia says she was advised

the womb. She says a 23-week scan depicted Téa’s head to be

her daughter appeared to be having seizures. They didn’t present

disproportionately small, but she recalls no concerns being raised

as violent convulsions, but instead as “little movements” Giulia

or follow-ups requested. At the same time, she felt continual

thought looked completely normal. She began to comprehend the

rhythmic movements in her belly. “I thought Téa was having

gravity of the situation when drugs were immediately administered,

hiccups which, in hindsight, were probably seizures.”

and panic set in. She admits, “[I] didn’t know what was going on. It 32

was very emotional and horrible.”

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Since her birth, Giulia says Téa averages 20 seizures a day,

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sometimes over 40, and they continue throughout the night like clockwork - 10pm, 2am and 4am - each one lasting between 10 and

15 minutes. “I’m not entirely certain if she’s actually awake during the seizure, but she’s asleep when it starts and asleep when it finishes.” Giulia concedes the triggers continue to remain a mystery.

The source of Téa’s issues puzzled doctors until her dermatologist chanced upon a newsletter, detailing a study carried out by a Washington doctor on children with symptoms mirroring Téa’s; specifically a head circumference less than the first percentile, numerous tiny red birthmarks and epilepsy.

Giulia’s little girl is also afflicted with profound intellectual delay, resulting in an inability to walk or speak.

Confined to a wheelchair, she has no

Photo: Krystle Ricci

Téa averages www.krystlericci.com 20 seizures a day, sometimes over 40, and they continue throughout the night To correct her scoliosis, Téa wears a ‘secondskin’ like clockwork - 10pm, - a garment which is rigid around her torso ensuring 2am and 4am - each she remains upright with her lungs open. Recurrent one lasting between pneumonia and aspirations have resulted in lung disease 10 and 15 minutes. and a constant patchy left lung. Her epilepsy is controlled

control over her hands so cannot perform sign language, but will soon begin a trial to learn to communicate with her feet. Tests conclude Téa is vision impaired, able to distinguish only shadows and lights. She struggles to swallow so meals are fed into a percutaneous

as best as possible with diet and a variety of drugs. With “a mini ICU going on” in their home, the Lakes avoid transporting Téa to hospital where possible, as it’s paramount to keep her delicate respiratory system free from infection.

Data compiled on all Téa’s health challenges and forwarded

endoscopic gastrostomy (PEG) tube attached to her stomach, in

to America prior to her first birthday, confirmed a diagnosis of

which medications are also directly injected.

microcephaly-capillary malformation. The condition is so rare, only

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we’re okay with it. When you’re first in that position you feel like you’re completely alone because you look around and see ‘normal’ people, ‘normal’ families going about their business.”

She admits it took her six months and an encounter with another mother with a special needs child to come to terms with the tangent her life had taken. “It was pretty much at that point that I thought, she’s surviving, she’s getting on with life and her life is still relatively normal. It’s terrifying at the start because you’ve got no idea. You just manage. Fall into your routine. It just turns into ‘normal’.”

Movies, shows, parks and shopping; Giulia ensures Téa experiences everything, although being cuddled by her family is her favourite thing to do. “She’s cheeky. She’s really beautiful,” Giulia says with pride, but is aware outings tend to highlight her differences. She is more relaxed when Téa is in the hospital ward or at gatherings surrounded by children with similar issues.

“It’s nice because you can kinda plonk them down together and they touch hands and make little noises to each other. It’s really cute. All the parents understand what’s going on.” She pauses and adds quietly, “Your kid’s not the weird one.”

Giulia credits Danny, her stepson Jamie, her parents and close friends for providing much-needed assistance.

“My parents are very supportive. They can both care for Téa [just] as well as us,” Giulia says and adds, “I’ve got a friend I’ve managed to quietly train up, so she’s looked after Téa a couple of times as well.

12 cases have been reported globally and Téa is believed to be the only child in Australia who suffers from it. The study also revealed the cause of the condition to be genetic. Subsequent blood

Movies, shows, It’s not easy for someone not used to doing parks and shopping; Giulia that.” She insists she and Danny have had to ensures Téa experiences become stronger or risk “falling in a heap”. everything, although Giulia knows of four other children from being cuddled by her overseas who have passed away in recent years family is her favourite from complications related to this condition. She thing to do

tests indicate both Giulia and her husband Danny carry a mutated gene. “There’s nothing that connects us in any way so it’s just a random throw of the dice,” Giulia sighs. Their decision to have more children hinged on this information and she reflects sadly on the consequences.

that ultimately claim them so is adamant they live in a warm climate. Currently the oldest child living with the condition is eight years old, only two years older than Téa. This causes Giulia angst which is why she prefers to focus on the present and is reluctant to plan

Told there is a one in four chance of future

too far ahead.

children inheriting the condition, Giulia

“It’s hard because Téa is

says, “[It’s] not good odds. I don’t think

a palliative patient. She’s

I’d be able to terminate but then at the

part of end of life care

same time I wouldn’t willingly do

now, with the hospital.

that to another child … I wouldn’t

Now everything that

want another child to go through

is done for her is

what she does every day.”

purely for comfort.”

Téa requires 24-hour care and

Giulia stresses Téa

Giulia says she and Danny only

will not be subjected

stopped floundering when they

to invasive, painful or

discovered other parents in the

uncomfortable tests and

same situation.

procedures that provide

“Being around people who knew

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explains that generally it is respiratory problems

no obvious benefit to her

exactly what we were going through,

wellbeing. “We just want

that kind of got us to the point where

quality of life, that’s all.”

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Blended learning caters for individual children Maragon Early Learning demonstrates a blended learning philosophy and how this is executed in a purpose-built centre.

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hilst people immediately know what you’re talking about when you mention ‘Montessori’, the up-and-coming pedagogical buzzword, ‘Reggio Emilia’ is less commonly recognised. As educational approaches, Montessori and Reggio Emilia both have the intrinsic motivation nomenclature of the child as its foundation. cards to learn about the Whilst Montessori encompasses a more structured flowers different parts, and scientific approach, Reggio Emilia emphasises selfReggio Emilia would guided learning through play with a strong focus on nature. provoke learning through Acknowledging the strengths of both methodologies, Maragon painting the flower or Early Learning has created its own blended approach to embrace placing flowers from the the unique needs of children in the modern age. garden on the dining tables.

As Maragon Australia’s Chief Operating Officer, Leanda At Maragon Early Learning, children are encouraged to selfVisagie, states, “Pedagogical approaches often reflect the age in guide the learning process and will be encouraged to draw the which they are conceptualised and do not completely enable an flower, measure the flower, touch and smell to form a balanced optimum learning environment in a modern and holistic foundation of knowledge. context, which comes with different At Maragon Early Learning’s newest, learning tools and new challenges.” purpose-built, early learning and discovery Maragon has chosen to Ms Visagie further mentions, “It is centre in Wellard, WA, the blended blend what we consider important that learning approaches are approach is evident in many ways. The new fluid with environmental changes and new to be the best and most centre has a state-of-the-art, interactive knowledge. In acknowledgment of this, relevant elements from kitchen, in which children will be Maragon has chosen to blend what we Reggio and Montessori. encouraged to conceptualise and execute consider to be the best and most relevant delicious, nutritious meals. Combining the elements from Reggio and Montessori.” ingredients in a bowl engages a multitude This can be likened to the evolution of an of senses – smell, taste, touch, and sight, whilst counting and automobile. Whilst conceptually the same, cars are now powered spacing cutlery at an even distance when setting the table, in a multitude of different ways eg. by gas and electrics, due to highlights the Montessori approach. emerging industry knowledge.

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DAD’S WORLD

with Gary Ausbruch

Tween challenges “L

ike, seriously Dad?” Ella asked

deserting, it was the colour. Pink, that is. Her

assume it was a question by the,

bedroom was gradually being de-pinked and was

Like, seriously strong upward inflection at the

now starting to exhibit much more mature

end of the phrase. I’d been on the receiving end

hues. When we built our house four years

of a few “Like seriously dads” from her recently,

ago, she would have gleefully accepted an

often in combination with a brilliantly executed left eyebrow raise.

My mistake this time was to ask her whether she liked a particular

offer to paint her walls pink (thank goodness there was no offer). But now, gone were the

doll, a question that wouldn’t have seemed so completely and

bubblegum-coloured cushions and dusty pink

unfathomably ridiculous even as recently as a year ago. But now,

pillow slips. About the only exception to the

aged eight (and three quarters, if you were to ask her), Ella had

eradication of all things pink, was a lamb’s wool

reached the stage where she was able to recognise that some dolls

throw draped fashionably over her bed, its colour

look, well, pretty freaky.

way down at the subtle end of the pink spectrum. Rose,

I’d never really thought too much about the characteristics of a tween – those years in between child and teenager – but it was clear

or perhaps blush at a stretch.

Her tween-ness was also being borne out in the way

that Ella was undergoing some sort of transition by ditching some

she’d started to dress. The more mature palette continued

parts of her past, while embracing new things.

here too, but it was the choice of garments that were most

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It wasn’t just the toys of her childhood she was

me in the toy shop. I could only

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noticeable, all making me think she now wore

I’m not up with here. But on the other hand, it signalled the start of

“proper clothes”, rather than kids wear.

some of the stuff that goes along with being a teenager, and to be

A typical “proper clothes” outfit would be something along these lines. First, there were the skinny jeans with long boots, emphasising these elongated legs she’d sprouted. Then, there was the active wear top that looks like a sports bra, worn under an oversized sweater with the specific purpose of allowing her fellow tweens a glimpse of strap on shoulder. And finally, given the age for ear piercing had been settled as 12, the magnetic stud earrings, not just one on each lobe mind you; another

honest, I’m just not ready for the pain.

What I really love about Ella’s transition to tween are the little bits of her early childhood she just can’t get rid of.

Although she declares that along with, so hating pink, she also now so hates princesses, she clearly still doesn’t hate fairies. If

“While she’s old enough to declare Justin Bieber as “sexy”, she only has a vague idea of what this actually means.”

stud would often be found positioned high up on the cartilage of one ear!

I wasn’t sure how I felt about tween Ella. On one hand, I guess I was thankful

anything, the fairy communication attempts and near-miss fairy sightings are increasing.

She’s not ready to stay up half the night for a slumber party, but she’ll stay up half the night to try and catch Pickles or Silvermist coming to play in the miniature fairy garden in the corner of her bedroom.

She’s still not so self-conscious not to wear in public the slightly garish, multi-coloured

patchwork shorts she made at sewing class.

And while she’s old enough to declare Justin Bieber as “sexy”, she only has a vague idea of what this actually means.

In fact, if I had to rate each stage of her life from baby to toddler to

that she still wanted to go into toy shops with me at all, even if

kid to tween in relation to how much how much enjoyment I got out

the doll section was now bypassed in favour of the self-tattoo

of being her parent, I would say that tween is easily the best so far.

kits, beauty packs or beads/loom bands/insert latest trend that

Tweens are like, seriously so the coolest age.

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Her healing hands

BY LISA O’ROURKE

Passionate about providing the absolute best care for her patients, medical doctor, Priscilla Brockman, disillusioned and frustrated with the limitations of traditional medicine, left her career eight years ago to follow her heart and heal with her hands.

S

and CT Scan and what he had actually found during surgery.

“The tumour had shrunk considerably.

Initially extending beyond three layers of bowel wall and dangerously close to the liver, the tumour had quite significantly

ome things truly defy belief. Time

complementing her treatment with this

shrunk to become a small tumour in the

and time again, Dr Brockman

energy, yet she still needed further proof.

inner lining of her bowel,” Priscilla says.

habitually dismissed her unusual

A friend then invited Priscilla to attend

“We were just so happy and relieved

experiences that were beyond the realm

a Reiki workshop. Shortly after this

with the outcome, we didn’t tell the

of her scientific understanding and

training, Priscilla’s mother was diagnosed

surgeon what we had done. Yet, even

education, as mere coincidence.

with advanced bowel cancer requiring

with such profound results, I was still

urgent surgery. A, then, Reiki novice,

sceptical!”

In 2000, feeling particularly heavy-

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between the pre-op colonoscopy report

hearted, plagued daily with worries of

Priscilla lovingly treated her mother

her patient’s ails in the Psychology Ward

over ten days until the day of surgery

experience for Priscilla was an impromptu

at Fremantle Hospital, Priscilla stumbled

arrived. The baffled surgeon emerged

distance healing she performed on a kind

upon a crystal shop during a lunch hour

post op, explaining some “discrepancies”

stranger’s dog. While walking her puppy

Not long after, the most validating

stroll to clear her head. She later defined

in the local park, Priscilla encountered

this moment as the threshold to her future,

a sullen dog with a bandage on his leg.

altering her path to greater fulfilment, yet

Priscilla and the stranger exchanged the

she notched it up to chance.

usual pleasant dialogue all dog owners

There she stood, holding a crystal.

understand. Priscilla was horrified to learn

Feeling it resonate in the palm of her

that the dog’s leg was to be amputated due

hand, awakened to its power, Priscilla

to the necrotic tissue remaining following

grew excited at the possibilities of

a recent operation on a benign tumour.

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“Usually I didn’t tell people I

With surmounting, unequivocal

performed Reiki for fear of judgement,

evidence, Priscilla’s confidence in her

but I was so horrified about this poor dog’s

innate healing abilities began to grow, as

prospects I asked if I could send some

too did her quest for knowledge to further

Reiki,” says Priscilla.

her skills which would see her evolve and

With the owner’s blessing, Priscilla sent

flourish in this alternate healing approach.

Reiki to the convalescing canine that night

Energy healing presented Priscilla with

and a few weeks later another coincidental

a refreshing limitlessness of possibilities

encounter with the kind stranger and his

and weightlessness to the worries of

dog was both joyous and remarkable.

traditional medicine. She was relieved and

The dog was completely healed! With

eager to move forward.

his bandage abandoned, Priscilla’s

She started to experiment and “see

non-human patient was running happily

what I could really do around the place,”

through the park with equal measure of

she says, “I started to feel that I could do

recklessness. He was happily bounding on all fours across the park towards her.

The stranger reported that the morning after his chance liaison with Priscilla (and the distant healing) his dog resumed normal function in his leg. A subsequent assessment by the vet confirmed the wonderful news that there was now no need to amputate!

Thus ends a spectacular series of remarkable truths she could no longer

The tumour had shrunk considerably.

Initially extending beyond three layers of bowel wall and dangerously close to the liver, the tumour had quite significantly shrunk to become a small tumour in the inner lining of her bowel.

ignore.

more with energy work than I could do with medicine.”

Priscilla had always suspected her abilities existed throughout her childhood, yet had never completely accepted or pursued them. She began to vigorously learn all that she could from the very best about crystals and healing, revealing and developing her skills as a gift she now felt could no longer be denied her patients.

So, in 2008, Priscilla took a courageous leap into an unknown future, leaving the

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medical profession behind to become a Healer. “It was definitely difficult initially because there were many unforeseeable and unexpected obstacles and issues,” says Priscilla. “People automatically have a respect for the medical profession and this certainly doesn’t exist in the case of Reiki. I have learnt to accept this and really believe in myself, develop confidence and be okay if people think it’s crazy!”

Operating her own business from home, Healing Divine, for the last eight years, Priscilla has honed her healing skills, offering patients Reiki as well as crystal therapy. “Reiki that is taught today, and hence the way I was taught, has literally been passed down in a direct line of succession training,” says

they love it and want to return because it is

We need to find a way to release it, not

Priscilla, “In this way, Reiki is preserved

such a love-filled experience bringing with

suppress it.”

and protected by the Reiki Masters, being

it an unlimited supply of energy.”

the only people permitted to teach. I was

Priscilla fondly recalls a young girl

including some displayed by our animal

trained by an Australian lady, Barbara

who recently came to her for treatment.

friends, which Priscilla advocates alleviate

McGregor, who teaches both in Australia

According to her concerned parents, she

stress. She offers classes on how people

and abroad.”

was filled with anger, extremely anxious

can protect themselves from negative

and displaying extreme behavioural

energy.

Today, Priscilla particularly delights in

“You will notice that when a dog is

treating children, who she describes are

problems such as social withdrawal with

the most responsive to the healing powers

inexplicably sudden outbursts of anger.

over-excited or frightened they give

Priscilla cleared “a lot of negative

a shake. This is actually immediately

results. Priscilla describes herself as a

energy” while the girl slept through her

clearing negative energy.” She says,

spiritually aware child. Growing up on a

first treatment. The girl awoke happy and

“Literally, ‘shaking it off ’ really works! Use

sheep farm in Muradup (near Katanning)

relieved, proclaiming, “All of the pain in

your breath and intention as you release

in the South West of Western Australia,

my heart is gone now.”

and sweep negative energy away to the

of Reiki energy, with the most rewarding

universe where it can be turned into light

she reflects on loving animals, rescuing abandoned lambs, seeing fairies, talking to trees, praying a lot and connecting with nature. It is this very “openness” which all children demonstrate, that Priscilla believes is the reason why they are so responsive to Reiki. “I really love treating children as they are so open and receive energy so beautifully,” she says. “A child will only require one treatment compared with adults, who require three of four sessions to achieve the same healing

People automatically have a respect for the medical profession and this certainly doesn’t exist in the case of Reiki.

I have learnt to accept this and really believe in myself, develop confidence and be okay if people think it’s crazy!

and love and not be collected by anyone else.”

Priscilla laughs about her mother’s initial struggles with this technique. “It’s quite hilarious. She would wave it onto me. I would tell her to send it elsewhere!”

Priscilla says.

While Priscilla has realised her ambition to pursue a life of healing outside of the Medical faculty, she continues to expand her knowledge and develop her

results…Children see the magic and enjoy

specialised skills. This learning journey

the process. I see their guides and receive

has also been self-serving. She has

different messages from them, which the children can then learn to experience too.”

The girl’s family reported “a complete

discovered new ways to nurture her own

turn-around” in their daughter’s

emotional and spiritual needs by clearing

behaviour. Returning about six months

negative energy and letting things go more

of the energy and feel the warm, tingling

later, Priscilla again treated the young

easily. Learning how to protect and heal

sensation, enabling them to identify where

girl for a “hurting heart” with repeated

her own heart and health is a gift not only

energy is shifting in their body. They are

success. Priscilla explains that “the

to herself but to the lucky others who she

so open to that. They all say how much

inability to release stress can take its toll.

treats every day with her hands.

She says that children “see the colours

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g n i r a Prep y b a b for

BY BROOKE EVANS-BUTLER

Finding out you are having a baby is without a doubt one of life’s most exciting experiences – but it can also be overwhelming when you start thinking about everything you need to do before you welcome your bundle-of-joy into the world.

Fear not, the Offspring Preparing for Baby Guide will help keep you on track.

PRAM/STROLLER

mainly for getting around shopping centres? If so, a pram that features a

You might think you are buying a small

basket underneath can be handy for

car when you look at purchasing a pram.

storage.

Indeed, there are many features to consider – and the price can also range

expecting twins or planning on having

drastically (with some prams costing

children close together? If so, a double

thousands).

or twin pram might be the best option

So, what do you want in a pram? It is

(or look at prams that have added

important to consider how you will be

options, such as a toddler seat/or

using the pram before you go shopping.

skateboard attachment).

Consider the following:

• Remember some accessories can make

Car restraint aby carrier/sling (this can be a B good option for those times you don’t want to use a pram – some mums find carrying the baby in a sling is also great for around the house).

Pram

a big difference! Buy a rain cover and

Pram Liner

for newborns and that the pram meets

sun cover just in case. Another great

Pram rain/sun/insect cover

Australian Standards. Like all baby

option, which can be just as much

equipment, safety is very important.

a fashion statement as a practical

Ensure that the pram has a five-point

accessory, is a pram insert/cover,

harness and tyre brakes.

which makes the pram much easier to

rolley cover (great for comfort T and to protect your baby from trolley germs when you go shopping).

• C heck that the pram you buy is suitable

• Do you want to run/exercise with your pram? If so, check where you buy your

clean if needed.

• How easy is the pram to fold down/put

Baby on Board sign Blanket/rug

pram that the tyres are going to be

up? Try it out at the shops when you

Portable cot (optional)

suitable.

buy.

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sanitiser, scented nappy bag, age-appropriate

the size of the pram depending on the intended purpose. If you

toy, nappy rash cream, bottle/

mainly want your pram for when you go to the shops, it will not

formula, dummy (optional) and

be a good choice to get a pram that is so wide it is difficult to fit

a change of top for mum in case

down the aisles.

you are the one that ends up messy

• Consider features. Do you want a reversible handle so you

after a feed or nappy change.

have the choice of your baby facing towards you or away from you? This can be a handy feature if you want to face your baby away from sun glare or wind – or simple so you can look at your gorgeous baby as you push the pram!

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The first decision to make is if you want to put your baby in disposable or cloth nappies.

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Cloth Modern cloth nappies are so easy to use. With either press studs or Velcro, they are easy to change (no sharp and fiddly nappy pins). They are also easy to take care of. You store the

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• Check that the bag is easy to clean – inside and out.

• Ensure it has enough storage. You don’t want to overload your baby bag, but some easy-to-access pockets/zips can be a good feature.

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dirty nappies in a dry bucket (no soaking required), until cleaning time, when then

Disposable nappies checklist

they are simply washed in the

Nappies

washing machine. Disposable

Wipes

liners are available – giving you

Wipe warmer (optional)

the option of simply flushing

Odour neutralising bags

solid waste straight down the toilet. They are also suitable to wear at night – with boosters available for heavy night-time wetters.

TIP: Even if you are

Nappy bin (optional)

MCN nappies checklist

planning on using MCNs for

Nappies

your baby, buy a packet of disposable nappies for the

Wipes (either cloth or disposable)

early days/weeks. Newborn

Nappy liners

babies can go through many

Night-time boosters

nappies (and an infant first bowel movements, Meconium, is very sticky) so using disposables even for the first few days can be good option so you don’t have any

BABY ROOM

Sleep time

‘Wet bags’ (to carry dirty nappies in)

A bassinet is an ideal sleeping place for a baby in the early weeks/months. It is much smaller than

Nappy bucket (for nappy storage between washes)

a cot and if on wheels can easily be moved around

Appropriate washing powder (such as Rockin’ Green)

the house during the day and then beside your bed at night. If you do not want to purchase a bassinet

extra washing while you are

as it will be only be used for a short amount of time,

recovering from the birth.

bassinets can be hired.

An alternative to the traditional bassinet or Moses basket is a ‘Baby Box’ from the Baby Box Company. This product stems from the tradition in Finland where mums-to-be were given a box of baby essentials. As well as housing clothes and accessories for the baby, the box that the goodies came in is used as a sleeping place for the baby (without the lid of course), with a fitted mattress making this specially designed box a very handy option.

The cot Walk into a baby store and you could be overwhelmed by the number of cots to choose from – it’s not a simple choice between timber and white!

Some cots may have clever storage options and drawers.

Some may have the option of converting into a toddler bed or a day bed.

It is important to ensure the cot you choose meets Australian Standards – and that the cot mattress is clean and fits snugly.

Linen Cot mattresses can vary in size – so check the measurements of your mattress before you buy sheets and then buy at least two sets – one for the cot and one in the wash.

TIP: Safe sleeping: SIDS and Kids does not recommend using pillows, doonas, soft toys, cot bumpers or lambswools in the cot.

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have had a C-section, because you do not have to bend over a bed or low surface to change the baby.

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If you don’t want a dedicated change table, you can get a change mat for on a set of drawers. Or portable

Note

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Kidsafe recommends babies sleep in their own cot or bassinette in the same room as you for the first six to 12 months.

a changing facility are also handy. Regardless of whether you get a change table or not, it is important that everything you need to change your baby (nappies/wipes etc) is within reach and that the baby is never left unattended for any amount of time in case the baby falls.

and face remain uncovered. It is important if you are using a baby

Storage is important for any room – and remember, your baby

sleeping bag that the correct size is chosen and the correct weight

is going to grow! A tallboy is a good option for any bedroom (but

for the season, so your baby doesn’t overheat.

remember to fix it to the wall to prevent it tipping over). A toy box

Remember to buy a couple of good quality mattress protectors to protect the mattress in case of late night nappy leaks.

is also a great addition to the nursery to store toys or even linen, but ensure it is a safe toy box, with soft-closing lid to prevent pinched fingers, so it is a safe addition to the room as your baby

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Although, again not essential, a feeding chair is handy in the nursery for late night feeds and cuddles.

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Décor You don’t have to have the baby’s room complete and perfect by the time they are born (many parents choose to keep the baby’s cot in the parents’ room for the first year), but the décor available is just irresistible!).

A theme is a great way to bring a room together and looks very effective – but you don’t have to go overboard. You can introduce colour or animal/pattern theme simply by adding a few well-chosen key elements – perhaps some wall art, linen in your chosen colour/theme a floor rug or accessories on a shelf.

Personalised options are a great addition to the baby’s room – and now with so many online options, no matter how unique your baby’s name is, you can order custom-made décor –

Bottle feeding checklist

from canvases to their name for the door.

Formula Bottles and teats Bottle brush

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Chosen formula Formula dispenser Steriliser Bottle warmer (optional) Feeding pillow or wedge

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When your baby starts solids, invest in a ‘mess mat’ to go under the highchair. It will catch most of the food the baby drops, and will save you time cleaning the floor.

ACCESSORIES Depending on your feeding choice you will need bottles (don’t overstock on these before your baby is born – many babies take to certain bottles and teats so you may go through several brands

FEEDING

before settling on one.

If you are breastfeeding, consider breastmilk storage containers, so you can freeze expressed milk if needed. Storage

Are you breastfeeding or formula feeding? Your essentials will differ depending on the feeding option that is best for you and your baby.

Breastfeeding is very convenient – the milk is always the right

cups or special freezer bags are available.

When your baby is ready to start solids, stock up on baby bowls and spoons (there are spoons available that change colour if the food is too hot, which is a clever safety option).

temperature and you can feed your baby anytime, anywhere.

Bottle feeding There are many formulas on the market, so talk to your health professional about how to choose the right option for your baby.

Starting solids A high chair is also an important feeding tool (but not something your newborn will need until they start solids, so this

Newborns don’t need a bath every day, but many parents like to give their baby a bath every night to make it part of a relaxing prebed routine.

Baby baths are available; however you can bathe your baby in a sink or laundry trough.

A water thermometer is essential (Kidsafe says 38°C is the

can be a later purchase). As with all other baby equipment, safety

recommended temperature for bathing young children). However,

the most important feature. A great tip is for whatever highchair

it is also important for a parent to check the water temperature as

you are considering – imagine how easy it would be to clean if it

well as checking the thermometer to prevent accidental scolding.

was covered in spaghetti bolognaise. Always go for the easy-clean option.

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Bath time checklist Baby bath (optional) Bath support (optional) Baby body wash/ shampoo (optional) Thermometer

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KEEPSAKES

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Your baby is tiny for about a second (it goes too quickly!) so ensure

Wash cloths

you create some keepsakes to remember this very special time.

Safety products (such as slip mats and tap covers)

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familiar routine.

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Labour bag checklist

your baby is so brand new. Another option is to hire a newborn photographer to do a photoshoot (ideally within your baby’s first

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two weeks). Photographs are such a special keepsake and can also

Lip balm

be used to make birth announcement cards or to send to family

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and friends.

Print kits – inkless print kits are available, which are handy to be able to take to the hospital. Capture your baby’s tiny, perfect finger prints, hand prints and footprints. You can then make them into a special canvas or put them in your baby’s record book.

Baby record book – A baby record book is great to remember all of your baby’s important firsts and milestones. Remember to fill things out as they happen (because they do grow so quickly).

AT HOME

TENS machine – these can be hired and offer another pain-relief option if you prefer (ask your hospital if they supply or hire these) Comfortable nighty/t-shirt that you don’t mind getting stained Lollies Some snacks for your partner/birth support person

Hospital bag checklist Pyjamas/nightie Maternity bra/singlet

Before you go into hospital, organising a few things can make your

Underwear

homecoming less stressful.

Maternity pads

Food – Stock up the freezer so you and your partner can spend less time in the kitchen and more time gazing at your precious

Comfortable clothes (yoga pants, track pants)

newborn. Make things that are nourishing, easy-to-reheat and

Comfortable slippers

that can be cooked in bulk, such as casseroles and hearty soups.

oiletries (toothbrush, toothpaste, brush, hairdryer, T shampoo, body wash, lip balm)

Remember to also freeze some snacks (very handy when hungry strikes during late feeds), such as sausage rolls and fruit muffins.

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Cleaning – When you are recovering (especially from a c-section) housework will be very low on the list of priorities. If you don’t have a partner or family close by to help, organising a reputable house cleaner (even just to do the floors and the

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bathrooms) is a good idea, if budget allows.

Medicine cabinet – Ensure the medicine cabinet is stocked with the essentials to prevent late night dashes to the chemist.

Include a digital thermometer, baby saline nasal drops and Baby Panadol (but ensure you check the age and dosage

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Furry friends – Is your furry friend prepared for the arrival of your new baby? Preparations are best to start early (such as keeping pets out of the baby’s room or on the furniture). When the baby has been born, bring home a blanket the baby has been wrapped in so your dog gets familiar with the new scent is often recommended. Enlisting the help of some friends or a dog walker/pet sitter to take your dog on extra walks or give some extra attention during the early weeks is also a good idea.

Siblings – A new baby can be a big adjustment for an older child, so make some preparations to help ease the change.

Organising some special outings with friends or grandparents for your older child is a great idea when you are busy with the

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STEM CELLS

SAVED

HIS LIFE

When Dani and Pete received the news that no parent ever wants to hear they were grateful they’d taken out an insurance policy from the day their first son was born. Miles’ life was saved by his brother Jasper’s cord blood stem cells.

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of our children with Cryosite, a private cord blood bank we

blood meant Miles would have a pure source to go to transplant –

discovered at a parenting and baby expo. We were expecting our

reducing the likelihood of infection post transplant. We had the

first child, Jasper at the time.

‘golden ticket’ to give Miles the best possible chance of survival!

y partner Pete and I possibly made the

moment!!! This meant we would

smartest decision of our lives! It was

be able to use Jasper’s stored cord

when we decided to store the cord blood

blood to treat Miles. Having the cord

Collecting and storing the cord blood from the placenta

Once the transplant was complete there was a long, 120-

at birth meant that our babies could benefit from stem cell

day rejection countdown. Miles had his up and down days, but

advancements in the future. Stem cells are cells in the blood or

overall with the cord blood and our quarantine boot camp, we

bone marrow that are capable of producing all mature blood cells

were extremely lucky to avoid any major infections through the

including both red and white blood cells and platelets. There are

transplant period. It was fantastic. Miles was recovering extremely

current studies showing the potential for stem cells from cord

well and left the hospital after just 8 weeks, not the usual 6

blood to repair damaged spinal cords, or to help stroke or liver

months. We had broken hospital records!

failure patients. Cord blood is also widely used to treat leukaemia and several other types of cancer. Pete and I felt that storing the

Miles is now completely drug free, which is hard to believe as he was on 45+ medications at one point. Now his overall health,

cord blood was an insurance policy for our

weight and growth are all spot on. He is the

children’s future health.

most social little boy who sings everywhere

We have two beautiful little boys, Jasper 8 and Miles 6. On Monday morning, 17th August 2009, I received news that no parent ever wants to hear. Miles, then 10 months old, was suspected of having a rare form of leukaemia known as JMML (Juvenile Myelomonocytic Leukaemia). JMML is a

Our two children often stun adults with the story of their ‘superhero blood’ that came together and now they can fix everything!

cancer of the blood and is found in infancy or

on life. He is very aware of what happened to him.

In fact, it really is quite magical to hear the two brothers talking about the transplant. Miles often asks Jasper to remind him about what happened because he was only very young and doesn’t remember all

early childhood. It is fatal if left untreated and the only treatment

the details. The two of them often stun adults with the story of

is a stem cell or bone marrow transplant.

their ‘superhero blood’ that came together and now they can fix

Miles’ only chance of survival was a bone marrow transplant.

Pete, Jasper and I were all tested to see if we could donate our

everything!

We have learnt from this experience to take life one day at a

bone marrow. At this stage we told the doctors that we had stored

time, that there is nothing more important than family and you

both Jasper and Miles’ cord blood. Would this help? The doctor

never know what is around the corner. Appreciate every second!

was pleasantly surprised and confirmed it was great news! I

I would appeal to everyone to become bone marrow donors

remember feeling relief. Since the nightmare began, we had felt

and for new mums, please consider storing your cord blood as an

totally helpless, now maybe we had done one thing right that

insurance policy for your child’s future health.

could potentially give Miles a better chance of survival!

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First Aid saves lives

TWENTY MINUTES OF COOL, CLEAR, RUNNING WATER REDUCES THE IMPACT OF BURN INJURY IN CHILDREN BY 80 PER CENT.

not been for his mother’s quick thinking, the outcome could have

Quick thinking by a Perth mum shows why knowing First Aid makes all the difference.

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been far worse.

Winthrop Professor Wood says, “Twenty minutes of cool, clear, running water reduces the impact of burn injury in children

Perth toddler suffered from third degree burns after

by 80 per cent, so this First Aid message is fundamental not just

he tipped boiling water onto his chest. His mother had

for parents of children but all members of the community.”

recently completed a First Aid course and knew what to do in an emergency.

Following her First Aid training, she responded quickly and stripped off his clothes and put him in a cold shower for 20 minutes before taking him to hospital.

Once in hospital, the toddler was cared for by renowned

St John First Aid Services and Training General Manager, Aaron Harding, says, “Providing First Aid in a medical emergency can have a huge impact, and supports the efforts of paramedics and doctors.”

St John’s Caring for Kids course covers a range of First Aid topics, including how to treat burns. For information on First

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months of treatment, he has no visible scars on his body. If it had

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Playtime is good for all of us!

As an adult, you might not think you need to play – that you left all that back at the school gate – but research shows play is just as important for adults as it is for children.

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lay is important for our physical, psychological and social

Once completed, there will be exercise equipment, a flying fox, a

health. It builds wellbeing through relaxation, physical

picnic area, community garden, even a pizza oven in later stages,

activity and socialisation. It helps us learn new skills and regain lost ones.

and much more!

Some of the play equipment has been designed to help small

It can also help build a more inclusive community, bringing

children develop fine motor skills, skills that older people also

different groups of people together in a relaxed setting. Play

need to practice, especially if they have suffered a stroke or similar

makes us healthy!

condition that reduces motor skills.

The All Abilities Play Space is designed with everyone in mind – kids, adults, people with a disability, even older people, so everyone can play together.

The All Abilities Play Space will be built at Beaton Park on the Nedlands foreshore of the beautiful Swan River. It will be huge – 10,000 square metres. But we can only build it with your help.

The playground’s designer, Fiona Robbe,

Once completed, there will be exercise equipment, a flying fox, a picnic area, community garden, even a pizza oven in later stages, and much more!

Four local Rotary clubs are asking for your

Rotary has already raised around $750,000 from WA businesses and secured a Lotterywest grant of $750,000. A

to develop the potential of all children.” She has also said the site at Beaton Park is “the best playground site in Australia”.

Cricket legend Justin Langer has also thrown his support behind the project, as has the Hon Julie Bishop, Federal Member for Curtin and Minister for Foreign Affairs.

Why not join us and throw your support

help to raise much-needed funds to build this fantastic facility.

says, “Instinctive, spontaneous play is vital

behind it as well!

Play makes you smarter, happier and more creative! So please go to the donations page and help make this fabulous play space a reality!

further $2.5 million is necessary to complete the $4 million facility over four stages.

Imagine three generations of a family going to a playground, including someone of any age in a wheelchair. At the All Abilities Play Space, everyone would be able to hang out together. Much of the equipment will be able to accommodate people with a disability, or teenagers, who are often excluded from playgrounds.

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Parenting

The need of children to be stimulated, challenged and encouraged to take risks is as great as their need for stability and security.

BY KEITH READ, NGALA EDUCATOR

CHALLENGING YOUR CHILDREN O

ur instincts focus around protecting our children and

otherwise known as resilience. Simply put, resilient children do

keeping them safe from harm, so messages arguing for

better in later life.

challenging our children and actually encouraging them

to take risks may seem contradictory.

RESPONSIBLE RISK-TAKING

But this is exactly what child development experts and their

Why is risk-taking so important? We are not talking about reckless,

research is telling us: in order to help our children prepare for life

life-threatening risks, but responsible and appropriate risk-taking.

outside our direct supervision and develop the capacity to deal with

We all need to take social and physical risks in life; to form new

unexpected events such as failure, we need to support children to

relationships, get better jobs, and access new experiences and

develop the skills and frame of mind to do this. In other words, by

learning, and appropriate risk-taking is a skill we need to teach our

providing children with training and experience in managing risk,

children. We do this by stimulating and challenging them, guiding

solving challenges, recovering from setbacks, and dealing with

them through the process with encouragement, and by setting

disappointment and failure, we are helping them learn to make better

boundaries to help decision-making.

decisions and prepare for life. If not us as parents, then who?

BUILDING BRAINS

Think about your child’s future – teenagers’ brains are geared toward taking risks and they will be more equipped to better assess big risks and make appropriate decisions if their brains have training

Children’s brains are primed for learning in the early

and experience with smaller risks in their early years.

years, and experiences in the first five years lay the foundation for future learning and development.

By guiding our children through appropriate, challenging situations, providing a stimulating environment, and encouraging risk-taking, we help the child’s brain form problem-solving templates they can draw on when faced with difficulties and roadblocks in life. This can provide the child with confidence in dealing with life’s unexpected events and the resources to recover from setbacks, 56

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“Children’s brains are primed for learning in the early years, and experiences in the first five years lay the foundation for future learning and development.”

EMOTIONAL REGULATION So what does challenging and stimulating our children mean, and how do we do this? One researcher described this as “temporarily destabilising” children; briefly raising their excitement levels above normal so they learn to manage this situation (with our support) and return to emotional balance. This teaches emotional regulation, a vital part of resilience. www.offspringmagazine.com.au

With older children, this can include physical play with a degree of unpredictability – chasey and play wrestling, as well as friendly scaring and teasing games and use of humour.

Babies need more care with appropriate support and safety, but can be gently stimulated by slow movement through the air, lifting, and bouncing on your knees or tummy. The golden rule is of course safety, and checking in with your child to ensure they

“Children who have lots of unstructured, challenging play and feel confident to take risks, will most likely be more ready to face the challenges of life as they grow older.”

are happy and a willing participant in this activity.

Every child has a different temperament; some can’t get enough of these games, while others prefer less boisterous

longer as it gets more difficult compared to children praised for how smart they are.

FRIENDLY COMPETITION As well as letting children explore and play outside, we can play friendly competitive games with our children as they grow (chasey, keepie-off, play wrestling etc). While always keeping in mind the golden rules mentioned above, share the winning and losing with your child and ensure that in order to “win”, your child has tried hard.

When they “lose” we can encourage with words such as “you almost

activities, so keep this in mind. The important thing is that by exciting

got it that time, keep trying harder”, help them develop new strategies

our child and then helping them learn to calm themselves down, we

and approaches, and of course praise their effort when it is evident. It is

are training their brains and bodies to deal with unexpected events

not difficult to see the lesson here – sometimes we win, sometimes we

and changes in emotion.

lose, but success takes planning, effort and persistence. This practical

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lesson will be far more effective than any lecture from us.

Experience shows that dads, in particular, enjoy engaging with

Providing appropriate challenges for our children promotes problem-

their children in this way, but these types of interactions from both

solving skills, effort and persistence (keeping at it) – all important

parents play a vital role in their child’s development and future

parts of resilience. Praise alone does not build resilience.

outcomes. Children who have lots of unstructured, challenging play

In fact research has shown that overpraising children about their

and feel confident to take risks, will most likely be more ready to face

abilities can have the reverse effect by promoting a false sense of

the challenges of life as they grow older, and isn’t that what we want

confidence. We are learning that praise for effort is far more effective

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than just praise about ability. A number of studies have shown that children who are praised for trying hard consistently persist at a task

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Parents can wander through our new classrooms at their leisure, while the children participate in some fun learning activities with our teachers.

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Have Yourself a Merry Little

Christmas

BY BROOKE EVANS-BUTLER shops Don’t wander around the your aimlessly when attempting will Christmas shopping – you e too spend too much, it will tak , you much time and chances are will not find a perfect gift.

for

baby

Stocking stuffers:

CUTE ONESIES, BATH TOYS, BATH LOTIONS/MOISTURISERS, KEEPSAKE TOY/DOLL, SOCKS, BIBS, BOOKS

Time to start your Christmas shopping?

We have ideas sorted for the entire family.

Every baby needs a Christmas-themed onesie, and we love this one for new parents who would like a little more sleep! $32 from Unique Baby Boutique, www.uniquebabyboutique.com. au/collections/christmas

For an extra special first Christmas gift that can be used for years to come, a beautifully-made Santa Sack is a wonderful gift. Santa Sack, $44.95 from Unique Baby Boutique, www.uniquebabyboutique. com.au/collections/christmas

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et’s face it – babies don’t need much and, yes, they probably

will not notice what they receive because they are asleep or too interested in the wrapping paper.

However, choosing Christmas gifts for a baby can be an excuse to get something very special (think sentimental gifts for their first Christmas) – and remember, you can definitely give gifts that will be useful as they grow.

Cute soft toys that provide soft music to lull your little one to sleep can quickly become a child’s firm favourites.

Teletubbies™ 10inch Musical Lullaby Laa-Laa, RRP $59.99 (suitable for 18months+), available from Big W, Myer, Target, Kmart, Kid Stuff, Toyworld, and Mr Toys.

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How cute is this! Babies love to learn and explore, so this sensory dome is a great gift choice. Worlds Apart Zebra Sensory Dome Tent. For ages 12 months plus, RRP $49.95, go to www.childsmart.com.au for stockist details. www.offspringmagazine.com.au

for Stocking stuffers:

toddlers

PLAYDOH, BOOKS, BUBBLES, BATH TOYS, BUCKET AND SPADE FOR THE BEACH, BALL, CLOTHES What toddler doesn’t love the pups from Paw Patrol? PAW Patrol Treat Time Marshall, RRP $49.95, features play modes including letters, learning rescue, search and rescue, and music time. For details go to www.vtech.com .au

Personalised gifts are always a hit with kids, and if you are planning on going away during the Christmas holidays a large backpack is a really useful purchase, like this cutie from Hippo Blue (Large Backpack, RRP $50). www.hippoblue.com.au

Every child should receive a beautiful book for Christmas – and this personalised gem allows the names of your child’s family and friends to be added to this lovely alphabet book. RRP $30 from www.hippoblue.com.au

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his is really when the fun of Christmas begins! Toddlers find the

Christmas experience so magical and there is so much excitement about even the smallest things. This is a great age to get something that a toddler can use

Toddlers love to do what their parents do! So when you are cooking a Christmas barbie for friends, your little one can be role playing too. Young Ones my first Barbecue, $29 from Target.

as they grow (such as a trike or balance bike), and toys for imaginative play (a dolls house and dress-ups are great for toddlers).

Plush animal pillow toys are always great to have on-hand for when your toddler falls asleep out-and-about – and they double as a favourite toy. FlipaZoo animal pillows features two plush characters that flip back and forth so your child can have two toys (and an emergency pillow) with them.

Available in ‘Unicorn to Dragon’, ‘Giraffe to Hippo’, ‘Tiger to Elephant’, ‘Hedgehog to Turtle’, ‘Bee to Ladybug’, and ‘Husky to Polar Bear’. RRP $29.99 from Big W, www.flipazoo.com

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Do you have a child that loves art and craft? Once placed in the ‘Magic Swivel’, Cut It Out! Markers can cut and colour at the same time, so they can create beautiful masterpieces, even on the busiest days. Cut It Out! Starter Blister, $12.99, available at Woolworths.

Stocking stuffers:

for

girls

BUBBLE BATHS AND GELS, COLOURING BOOKS, CRAYONS/PENCILS, BOOKS, FUN STATIONERY, FASHION ACCESSORIES – SUCH AS HEADBANDS AND BRACELETS.

The tweens will love their own camera to record holiday activities and fun moments with friends. Fuji Instax Mini 8 Camera Pink, RRP $88.00. Available in store and online at Officeworks, www.officeworks.com.au

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here are so many present ideas for girls this age. Get a good mix of toys,

The Rainbows and Clover teepees come in three sizes, so it is suitable gift option for children to teens. RRP is $109.95 (for the regular size). For more options, to buy online or for stockist details go to www.rainbowsandclover .com.au

things that are secretly educational and some necessities (such as fun fashion).

Many tweens want to be grown up right now – so they will love electronics, fashion and accessories – but don’t forget to include some fun toys and things to get them outdoors and active, such as pool toys or even a skipping rope.

Who knew a pen could be so exciting! The Smiggle Party Marker Duo Pen enables you to write secret messages with invisible ink – which is revealed with the attached light. RRP $7.95 www.smiggle.com.au

Girl Lane – a fun tween skincare and haircare range – features some great stocking fillers, including Hair Sparkle Shine (RRP $19.99), Tinted Moisturiser (RRP $16.99) and Everyday Face Moisturiser ($14.99). Girl Lane products are sold exclusively through Priceline, or online at www.girllane.com.au

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Is the force strong with your son? If you want a special gift for a Star Wars fan, the Star Wars R2D2 Interactive Robotic Droid, $175 from Target, is sure to delight! www.target.com.au

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boys

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ames and toys are still very ‘cool’ at this age (find out their latest craze and you are sorted), they will

also love anything that keeps them busy (think Lego and building/craft kits). Shopping for tween boys doesn’t have to be scary. With a good mix of funny books, crafts/

For a tween boy, some body products that help him smell great are handy stocking fillers.

808 Dude Shampoo & Body Wash R.R.P $13.95, 250ml, 808 Dude No More Stinky Pits Deodorant RRP $8.89, 50ml. Available from selected natural health food stores and pharmacies www.808dude.com

science kits, latest fashion and sport gear available, there will be something for all personalities and interests.

Why not forego the chocolate this year (it is likely to melt in the hot weather) and include this game for something a bit different? The BeanBoozled Spinner Gift Box, RRP $15, is a game where you never know which flavoured jelly bean you are going to get, as weird and wacky flavoured jelly beans are mixed in with traditional Jelly Belly flavours. Will you end up with a Booger or Sticky Sock flavoured jelly bean? Eww! www.jellybelly.com.au

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Stocking stuffers: ART AND CRAFT SUPPLIES, A COOL HAT, COLLECTABLE/ SWAPPING CARDS (AFL, POKEMON ETC), TOOTHBRUSH, BOOKS, WATER BALLOONS, ITUNES CARDS, BOOKS, MOVIE TICKETS

If you have a tween curious about the world, Lonely Planet Kids: The Cities Book is packed full of pictures and facts about 86 of the world’s greatest cities. $29.99, www.lonelyplanetkids.com

Do the kids cry ‘I’m bored!’ on the holidays? A camera could give them a different way of looking at everyday objects and events. Qpix Full HD Action Camera, RRP $69.84. Available in store and online at Officeworks, www.officeworks.com.au

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for

mums & dads

Stocking stuffers: BODY PRODUCTS AND PERFUMES, GOURMET DELIGHTS, BOOKS/MAGAZINE SUBSCRIPTIONS

For Mums and Dads that want to prioritise fitness as their New Year’s Resolution, a Fitbit is a fantastic gift to keep them on track. Fitbit Alta Activity Tracker Large Teal, $179.00. Available in store and online at Officeworks www.officeworks.com.au

Philips MoistureProtect Straightener Styling can damage hair – but the Philips MoistureProtect Dryer helps preserve the hair’s hydration levels with MoistureProtect sensor.

RRP $139.00, available at retailers nationally

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es, Christmas is always very exciting for the kids – but make sure you

remember the Mums and Dads when you go shopping. Useful gifts, such as things for the home, are always appreciated, but some gifts to encourage relaxation and fun over the Christmas break is a great idea too.

Note: All prices listed may be subject to change. Some prices listed may not include postage costs for online purchases.

Check with your retailer or online store for details and product availability.

This great book will give Mum the tools to focus on habits to prioritise health and wellbeing.

The Fit Busy Mum: Seven Habits for Success by Rosemary Marchese, RRP $29.95. Available online or in all good book stores, www.thefitbusymum.com.au

Did you know robots can also take care of the mopping? That’s right…we hope we are that much closer to finding a robot that can also make the beds!

Treat your loved one to the Braava 380t, which is a whisper-quiet mopping robot that uses dry or damp cloths to mop hard-surface floors. Braava 380t, rrp $599. For further details go to www.irobot.com.au

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Spring

READS

0-3 years

0-3 yearsMy Pig Paulina

The weather is warming up and so is our love for the written word. Let’s celebrate with a good book! From too cute to too true - you can’t go wrong with this season’s top picks.

| Hans Limmer and David Crossley

Angelica has to save to her best friend - a piglet named Paulina. In the spirit of My Donkey Benjamin, comes this heartwarming tale of a young girl and her pig. Told with the purity and innocence that can only be found in a child’s point of view. Angelica is a little adventurer who loves to explore her natural surroundings. When Angelica adopts Paulina, a piglet in danger of being taken away by a farmer, things get really interesting… Set on the idyllic Mediterranean island of Rhodes, with gorgeous black and white photographs, My Pig Paulina is everything that’s missing from your little adventurer’s bookshelf.

3-6 years

0-3 years

Who Is Fitzy Fox?

| Amelia Trompf and Jennifer Bruce

Courageous little Fitzy Fox crosses continents in search of his identity. But like all good stories, the answer to the most important life questions lies within. From the cosmopolitan suburban streets of Fitzroy, Melbourne to the iconic landmarks of Britain, confused little Fitzy Fox journeys to try and figure out why everyone calls him ‘Foxy’ when he thought he was a dog.

Who Is Fitzy Fox?, Amelia Trompfs debut picture book, will inspire your 4 to 8 year olds to harness their individuality, value their uniqueness, and be their wonderful little selves.

6-9 years

0-3 yearsThe Internet Is Like a Puddle

| Shona Innes and Irisz Agocs

Simple solutions for sticky situations. For the modern child being raised in a tech-heavy society, The Internet Is Like a Puddle gently introduces young readers to the potential dangers of electronic communication.

Part of the Big Hugs Books series, which are based on letters sent to children and their families following their psychology sessions and hence address real issues, The Internet Is Like a Puddle is recommended for readers aged 5 to 8 years.

9-12 years

0-3 years

Australia: Illustrated | Tania McCartney A visual tribute to all things that make our country wonderfully unique. Presented in various art mediums such as vibrant watercolours, digital art and mono-printing, Australia: Illustrated wholeheartedly celebrates our great nation’s traditional natural features as well as it’s everyday idiosyncrasies in a whimsical and fun light.

Award winning Tania McCartney’s Australia: Illustrated is recommended for readers aged 6 to 12 years and beyond.

FOR ADULTS

0-3 yearsTry Hard: Tales from the Life of a Needy Overachiever Em Rusciano

Arn’t we all? Don’t we Try Hard everyday? In a society that falters this trait - let’s celebrate it!

Em Rusciano candidly admits “I do and I am one - always have been, always will be” - and transforms a lifelong insult into something wonderful…

Em gives us a raw behind the scenes tour of her glittery world of mayhem in this hilarious and heartfelt memoir. She’s fabulous and fearless! Read a memoir this spring - and let this be it!

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TRAVEL

GETAWAY TO WA!

BY COLLEEN WILLIS

Who doesn’t dream of some time away from the hustle and bustle of daily life?

Whether it’s a weekend you want or a few weeks, WA has it all. From the northern splendours, the riches of the goldfields and down to Dog Rock, WA has it covered!

DOWN SOUTH

The southwest is home to world-class wineries, yet it is so much more than that. It has long been a favourite with families and friends.

One of its biggest draw cards is its distance from Perth, making it ideal for both weekends and longer stays.

CAVES For something magical, why not visit a real cave? There are a few in the Margaret River/Augusta area, with Jewel Cave being the biggest.

Highlights include • Caves

• Dolphins

• Whale watching

• The Busselton Jetty

• Farm stays

• Food, food, food!

• Wonderful wine

• Beaches, swimming, surfing

AMAZING MAZES!

• Forests

• Fishing

These are great places to get ‘lost’ in for young and old.

• The Valley of the Giants and Tree Top Walk • Camping

For longer stays, Margaret River is a great spot to base yourself in. It has so many attractions to suit young and old.

You really can let your imagination go wild there.

For more information visit www.margaretriver.com

• A Maze’n Margaret River (You can also play mini golf!)

• The Yallingup Maze

• The Mythic Maze

For more information visit www.amazenmargaretriver.com.au

www.yallingupmaze.com.au

TASTY TREATS

For something a bit

As a self-confessed chocoholic, The Margaret River Chocolate

more educational, climb

Company is always high on my list. It’s about 20 mins away

a lighthouse at either Cape

from Margaret River and Busselton. It is open every day (except

Naturaliste or Cape Leeuwin.

Christmas) and has a café, shop and manufacturing facilities on site.

For more information visit

www.geographebay.com/ cape-naturaliste-lighthouse

Other tasty spots • The Candy Cow

• The Margaret River Fudge Factory

• The Margaret River Nougat Company For more information visit

www.chocolatefactory.com.au | www.candycow.com.au www.fudgefactory.com.au | www.margaretrivernougat.com.au If you decide to burn some of those kilojoules off, there are plenty of other activities to do. The beaches are world renowned for surfing and there are several surf schools in the area.

For more information visit www.margaretriversurfschool.com

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TREE TOP WALK WALPOLE This is great for all the family for the following reasons: • You literally are walking amongst the tops of the trees

bound to come across one you like! However, there are some that

• Suitable for prams (I’ve pushed one myself there)

are more ‘family friendly’ than others and include kids’ menus,

• Strollers and wheelchairs can be hired

playgrounds and large grassy areas for the kids to enjoy. This then

• Suitable for all ages

allows the adults get onto the serious business of eating and drinking!

Highlights include

For more information visit

www.valleyofthegiants.com.au

WHALE WATCHING

• Watershed Winery.

• Xanadu Wines.

• The Berry Farm.

• Bootleg Brewery

• Cowaramup Brewery (it has its own bouncy castle!)

If you’re keen to do some whale watching, then Albany is the place

For more information visit

to go. Whale watching is run from June until early October and can

www.margaretriverguide.com.au/wineries/which-margaret-

be absolutely amazing.

river-wineries | www.margaretriverguide.com.au/breweries

For more information visit

www.whaleworld.org | www.albanywhaletours.com.au

Accommodation • Farm stays - they provide entertainment right on your doorstep

For something a bit

• Hotels, motels, resorts, from budget to 5 star

more suitable for the

• Apartments

• House rentals

littlies, why not visit/

• Tourist Parks

• Camping

stay at a farm? There are several around and it’s great fun for everyone. Most children love the opportunity to ‘look after’ the animals. Imagine their faces while

I’ve stayed at the Amalfi Resort and the Abbey Beach Resort in Busselton as well as Seashells at Yallingup and all of these have been great family spots.

For more information visit

www.australiassouthwest.com/Accommodation

milking a cow!

WINE AND BEER

www.margaretriverguide.com.au/accommodation/ www.westernaustralia.com

What would a trip to the southwest be without at least mentioning the great wineries and breweries?? With approximately 150 wine producers and breweries a plenty, you’re

Getting there With the family, driving really is your best bet. You can load the car with everything you need and come and go as you want.

You can choose to drive along the coast or go inland, depending on your preference. Perth to Margaret River is approximately 225 km while Perth to Albany is approximately 415km.

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TRAVEL

UP NORTH

North of Perth is truly such a vast size that planning your trip is very important. You can go from having day trips to months away.

For shorter trips, Geraldton and Kalbarri are perfect.

Highlights include • The Batavia shipwreck

• The Abrolhos Islands

• Swimming

• Diving

• Pelican Feeding

• Relaxing!

EXMOUTH

Accommodation

Exmouth was originally a support for the communication base in

• Resorts • Holiday Units • Tourist Parks

the North West Cape, however, tourism has now taken over as the

For more information visit

town’s major contributor.

www.visitgeraldton.com.au | www.kalbarri.org.au

Highlights • Ningaloo Reef

• Swimming

• Snorkelling

Getting there

• Scuba diving

• Boat trips

• Fishing

Geraldton is approximately 420km from Perth while Kalbarri is

• Whale Sharks

approximately 580km, so I would recommend driving.

For more information visit

www.visitningaloo.com.au/ | www.ningaloodreaming.com

MONKEY MIA Monkey Mia has become synonymous with dolphin encounters and

Accommodation

is just amazing. It is about 850km from Perth, 25km from Denham

There are a variety of accommodation styles to choose from,

and located in Shark Bay.

ranging from backpacker to the Novotel Ningaloo Resort.

Another popular option is the holiday parks which offer several

Highlights • The dolphins!

• Day cruises

styles of accommodation. These include chalets, bungalows and

• Snorkelling

• Camel rides

cabins, powered and unpowered sites.

• Fishing

• Aboriginal Cultural Walk.

For more information visit

For more information visit www.monkeymia.com.au

www.novotelningaloo.com.au | www.australiascoralcoast.com

Accommodation

• The Monkey Mia Resort

• Dolphin Lodge

For more information visit www.sharkbayvisit.

com

Getting there • Drive. Approximately 8-10 hours. I would

suggest stopping in or Kalbarri on the way • Air – Skippers Aviation

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Geraldton

Getting there The drive is approximately 1270km. If this

“IF YOU DON’T HAVE MUCH TIME, BROOME IS DEFINITELY DOABLE FOR A LONG WEEKEND AS SOME FLIGHTS LEAVE IN THE MORNING AND DEPART IN THE EVENING!”

isn’t for you, then flying is the way to go.

Qantas and Virgin fly to the nearest airport, Learmonth, which is 36km from Exmouth.

You can hire a car or the Exmouth Bus Charter can be booked to collect you.

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from everything.

Rediscover life’s simple pleasures as you follow a sandy track, run barefoot through the waves and discover intriguing wildlife, including our resident (and very friendly) quokkas; the cute marsupials that the Island is world-famous for (recently dubbed by Huffington Post as the

is a clear favourite for families, famous for its limestone formations,

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which form a natural swimming pool and underwater snorkelling

As a stunning natural A-class reserve, the Island is essentially a car-free zone, with bicycles the most common mode of transport.

playground!

Golf lovers can challenge mates on the unique 9-hole golf

Scenic joy rides of the Island can by enjoyed by air, eco boat or

course, or bring the kids over for a game of mini golf at the Family

a hop-on - hop-off bus service that tours the perimeter of the

Fun Park. After a big day, relax and pamper yourself with day

Island. If you prefer to explore by foot, traverse the Island’s unique

spa facilities, poolside tapas menus, wine dinners and relaxing

landscapes along the Wadjemup

beachside accommodation. Enjoy

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Surrounded by the sparkling Indian Ocean, Island visitors can choose from a smorgasbord of coastal activities. Snorkel through vibrant coral reefs protected by marine sanctuary zones, dive among shipwrecks, fish for delicious local seafood or surf some of WA’s best breaks.

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Eat FOOD & NUTRITION

and be

happy!

BY KATE BULLEN

Take a trip to your local market to stock up on fresh fruit and vegetables to improve your mental health and happiness. Fresh fruit and veggies contain important carbohydrates, B Vitamins and antioxidants and we can’t expect tablets to provide us with the same results.

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ecent research from Australia and England measured 12,000 people’s happiness and wellbeing. The research focused on whether there were improvements in people’s

wellbeing after eating more fruit and vegetables. People were asked a few questions about how often they ate fruit and vegetables and how much they ate. Two years later they were asked the same questions. The outcome was positive for those who had increased the amount of fruit and vegetables, resulting in increased happiness and wellbeing.

Why am I writing about food and happiness?

We know mental illness is common. Around 20 per cent of Australians experience a mental illness in any year. Teenagers and young adults (18 to 24 year olds) are most likely to show signs of mental illness of any age group. If we can set up good eating habits now for our children, then this could help reduce and improve their happiness, and maybe improve their mental health.

Of course food is just one part of improving our mental health and happiness. There are many, many

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Low glycemic fruits and vegetables Fruits:

Vegetables:

Apples l Bananas l Strawberries l Kiwi fruit l Oranges l Berries (fresh or frozen) l Mango l Pear

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Sweetcorn l Peas l Cauliflower l Celery l Zucchini l Green Beans l Mushrooms

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FOOD & NUTRITION

can affect our mood. Fruits and vegetables with a low glycemic index release glucose in a slow and steady fashion which may help to regulate our moods and our happiness.

Unlike highly processed food (think: lollies, cake, biscuits) which give that sugar hit that we can all relate to (think: kids just came home from a birthday party) usually results in a pretty big crash in mood. So, slow and steady

Make a toastie with these delicious fruit and vegetable fillings:

wins the race.

• Banana, ricotta cheese, sultanas and pinch cinnamon • Banana, peanut butter • Grated cheese, tomato, avocado • Baby spinach, avocado, cheese • Ham, cheese, pineapple • Baked beans, mushroom, cheese • Tinned tuna/salmon, cheese, sweetcorn • Chicken, coleslaw, cheese

2. B VITAMINS Fruits and vegetables are great sources of B vitamins, including folate and vitamin B6. These two vitamins are again important in our brains making serotonin and other chemicals that affect mood. Low levels of B vitamins may be linked to depression. As an aside, Vitamin B12 is also an important B group vitamin in helping making serotonin and other neurotransmitters. Vitamin B12 is not usually found in fruits and vegetables, but instead in fish, lean meat,

factors including genetics and where we live, for example, that also impact on our happiness. Exercise, getting out in the

eggs and dairy – so all food groups are important.

sunshine, fresh air and being with supportive friends, are all

3. ANTIOXIDANTS

healthy strategies that we can encourage our children to do.

Research looking at antioxidant content in fruits and vegetables has

In Australia we have the ‘Go for 2 fruit and 5 veg’

increased over the last few decades. Vitamins C and E and other

campaign which aims to increase awareness of the need

components such as phytochemicals, are all found in fruits and

to eat more fruit and vegetables. The campaign also offers

vegetables. It is thought that these types of antioxidants protect

useful tips and strategies to increase the amount of fruit and

our body cells against damage and they may also reduce body

vegetables we eat.

inflammation, which has been linked to poor mental health.

The research suggests that fruits and

I would like to emphasise the importance of eating

vegetables might impact on our mental

fresh (or frozen, tinned) fruit and vegetables and not

health and happiness based on the

just taking a few multivitamins and antioxidant tablets. Not only are fruits and vegetables

following components that are in fruits

cheaper, but more and more the research

and vegetables:

1. CARBOHYDRATE TYPE We know that when we eat fruits and vegetables, our body releases insulin and causes the carbohydrate to be broken down into glucose. Our brain is then triggered to make important neurotransmitters such as serotonin, which

“If we can set up good eating habits now for our children, then this could help reduce and improve their happiness, and maybe improve their mental health.”

is showing the importance of eating the whole food and we can’t just isolate certain components of food into a tablet and expect the same results. So, take a trip to your fruit and vegetable market and stock up. Even better take your children with you and let them choose some of the fruits and vegetables. perth | spring 2016 | Offspring

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