How To Manage Your Parents (Without Manipulation) by
Askia H. Bashir
Student Activity Workbook
Prepared by Abdul H. Bin-Asad
KYD PUBLISHERS Atlanta, Georgia
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Activity 3 & 4
Begin by Forgiving, Chap. 3 Accepting Total Responsibility, Chap. 4
Part A–Word Recognition Directions: Match the term in Column A with the correct description in column B. Place the letter of your answer in the space provided; See text and dictionary for additional information. Column A _____ 1. Depression
_____ 2. Reprogram
_____ 3. Forgive
_____ 4. Apologize
Column B a. Something difficult to bear emotionally or physically. A responsibility or duty. b. A statement of acknowledgement asking pardon or expressing regret for a fault or offense. To make regretful of or excuse for a fault. c. In psychology, a neurotic or psychotic condition marked by an inability to concentrate, and feelings of dejection and guilt. To lower in spirit. d. Changing your mind to a different way of thinking. e. To pardon. To excuse for a fault or offense.
_____ 5. Burden
_____ 6. Responsibility
_____ 7. Initiative
f. Something that completes, makes up a whole or bring to perfection. g. Measure or moving in a direction to increase, progress, or forward motion. h. The power, ability or instinct to begin or follow through energetically with a plan or task.
_____ 8. Positives
i. Having the same relationship each to the other. Directed and received in equal amounts. Possessed in common.
_____ 9. Complimentary
j. Being responsible. Something for which one is accountable. Personal accountability.
_____10. Mutual
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Activity 3 & 4 (continued)
Part B – Review Questions:
1. How do I begin by forgiving? p. 21
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2. Where do I first start making changes? p. 22
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3. Name some of the influences that you are trained or programmed by? p. 22
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4. Why is it important that I forgive my parents? p. 22, 23
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5. Why should I forgive myself? pp. 23, 24
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6. What are the benefits of asking forgiveness for my parents, others and myself? p. 24
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7. What are some of the consequences of negative thoughts? p. 24
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8. How do I get rid of negative thoughts? pp. 24, 25
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9. When I have mastered exercising forgiveness, what positive feeling will I experience? p. 25
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10 Activity 3 & 4 (continued)
Part C Directions: Answer True or False to the following statements, by indicating the letters “F” or “T”. _____ 1. Blaming others for your unfavorable condition, improves your self-image. p. 26 _____ 2. Children are responsible for fifty-one percent or more of the quality of family relationship. p. 27 _____ 3. Parents become upset when their children do not live up to their expections. p. 28
OPTIONAL ACTIVITY Using the Vocabulary Directions: Fill in the blank spaces with the correct term from the following words:
initiative burden
forgive
depression reprogram
1. He has been in a state of ______________________________ every since his parents separated.
2. I know it will relieve a __________________________ from my mind if I ________________ my mother for what she said to me.
3. I know I will have to _____________________________ my mind if I want to have a better way of looking at things.
4. You have to take the _____________________________ if you want to get something done that others have failed to do.
5. My mind was relieved of a heavy ________________________ when I forgave my sister for misinforming my parents of my after school activities.
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