Gaining Conviction

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Gaining Conviction How to Transform Potential Clients into Current Clients Part 4 of a 7 part series By Mike Davids and Kelly Newcomb

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ow do you close the deal and convince a potential client that you are the best resource to handle their business? It goes without saying that you should be

competent and capable of doing a good job for them. You should charge a reasonable fee, and you should have the time, experience and resources to accomplish what needs to be done.

Is that all? If you only cover these points, you are merely equal to your competitors.

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Closing the deal requires more than a proper fit with client needs, it requires a decision from your prospects in favor of you. What you say or do can influence them to choose you.

and decisions— guided by proven rules of relationship building— good or bad.”

Many professionals make things more difficult by providing mountains of information—case studies, referrals, and curricula vitas. Most prospects neither understand nor have the expertise to compare this information to your rivals’ qualifications. In the real world, decisions are made more often on criteria so trivial that it is almost embarrassing to take seriously—the cut of your suit, a mutual friend, the timing of your presentation, personal chit chat, living in the same suburb or belonging to the same club. Essentially, improving your closing skills is a matter of understanding the nuances of human relations and developing the art of getting people to do what you want them to do – choose you. Is this manipulation or marketing? We call it “building conviction.” You are simply becoming more convincing to your prospect. Any hint of manipulation and you will instantly lose their trust.

When you are up against nearly equal competitors, your prospect’s decision most likely will come down to their “gut” reaction. That’s actually the most common way people make important decisions. Think of how people choose a spouse. Surely, this is a very important decision in their life, but it’s normally not done through detailed background analysis. The moment of conviction is often based on details that are completely trivial and superficial, but they seem to be the right details, at the right time. Business relationships are similar. Prospects will always choose someone whom they feel comfortable with over someone who doesn’t strike them as personable. There are several powerful forces in human relationships that have been substantiated frequently in behavioral and marketing research. In his landmark 1984 book, The Psychology of Influence, Robert B. Cialdini, Ph.D., names six of these forces in the “Weapons of Influence.” We prefer to call them the “tools of marketing.” While they have been used as weapons by great manipulators like Hitler, Mussolini, or Osama Bin Laden, they are also used by great leaders like FDR and Churchill. Great humanitarians like Gandhi and Martin Luther King also used them. These are simply tools that help people make commitments and decisions—guided by proven rules of relationship building—good or bad. (continued on page 32)

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