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ByronThomas Story Prostitution, Strippers, and

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Call Girls Don’t Let Your Low Self Esteem Live Your Life

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Are You Allowing Your Man to Get the Milk For Free

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Are You Living As an Unsaved Adult?

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The Father’s Love

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Part 1 Is It the Sign of End Times, God’s Wrath, or Just a Coincidence?

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Let’s Get Prayer Back In Our Schools

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Happy New Year Happy New Year

Happy New Year Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new. 2 Corinthians 5:17

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2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come.

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H

appy New Year! I pray that 2013 will be a prosperous year for you and your family.

Don’t forget to include God in all your decisions.

Some of you will have horrific memories of 2012, maybe due to the death of a loved one, a divorce, a lost job, or a natural disaster that caused you to lose everything you own, but do not let these memories distract you. Roman 8:28 says: And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.

However, you must understand you have to live your life according to His purpose, not yours. The Bible also says: For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet was without sin. Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Hebrews 4:15-16 (NIV).

For 2013, approach the throne of grace so you may receive mercy and find grace to help you emotionally and physically through whatever your situation might be or whatever pain you might be feeling.

For 2013, Christian Women Lifestyle xPress Online Magazine has lined up several exciting guests, has planned some inspirational articles, and has much more in store! I could really use your support: please leave your comments and feedback on the magazine’s website, www.cwlxpress.com. You can also join us on Facebook or Twitter and blend in with the rest of our Christian community.

My goal is to honor God by sharing His word and interviewing people with testimonies that let others know how God’s word changed their lives forever. If you have a story to share, please contact CWL xPress for submission rules at submission@cwlxpress.com.

Promoting God’s word is what Christian Women Lifestyle xPress Online Magazine does best!

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Treasure Chest Christian Women Lifestyle xPress Online Magazine welcomes you to the Treasure Chest.

Legend holds that pirates would go through any means necessary to find hidden treasure chests full of gold and other valuables. They knew once they found and opened a chest, its contents would be priceless.

For us, the Bible is like one gigantic treasure chest: once you open it, the contents are invaluable! There is no problem or situation on earth that humans have to deal with on a day-to-day basis that the Bible cannot answer.

By giving us a treasure chest, God made sure we had access to specific instructions on how we were to live as women of holiness here on earth. Unfortunately, some women never open the treasure chest or do not value what is in it. This has led them to plenty of bumps and obstacles along the way.

We created the Treasure Chest magazine for women all around the world to share their life experiences, to discuss how God delivered them through something, or to encourage those who are getting to know Christ.

We also created this magazine for those who are searching to find what is in the treasure chest and how they can use it to build and maintain a relationship with Christ.

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A Piece of My Passion I am a Preacher’s Kid, the majority of my life was spent in church. So there are some things that when I see and hear them my first thought is “oh God would not be pleased with this.” Last night, I tuned into TLC’s new reality series, The Sisterhood, a show marketed as reality with a spiritual twist complete with an insider’s view into the lives of preacher’s wives outside of the church.

Overall, I am increasingly disgusted by reality television and the stereotypes that it perpetuates. Tuning into ‘The Sisterhood’, deep down inside, I hoped that I was about to view an unscripted, positive reflection of the black family and the black church. I thought that I was going to see a show that highlighted the daily duties of a few preacher’s wive’s who were working as an extension of their husbands church ministry making an impact in their church and community. I hoped that I wouldn’t see women whispering in a corner talking about one another, but I did. I wished that I wouldn’t see neck rolling, “who gone check me boo? moments, but I did. What I viewed was a direct contrast to what I was expecting, religion set in and after only two minutes my first thought was “God would not be pleased with this.”

But I continued to watch because I know that reality television is just a conglomerate of real moments edited by line editors and producers who leverage their own ideas of reality into the final cut. Today, I am ready to admit that perhaps I was hasty in my initial reaction because there were some “highlightable moments” from the show.

Some truth moments: 1. Most people interact with their pastors wife for 2 hours on the holiest day of her week (Sunday). So to emphatically state “my pastors wife is not like this” is misguided. Do I know pastors wives who act like these women? Yep, I sure do. Do I know pastors wives who are completely different? Yes, I sure do. My point here is that there is no way for us to know the full intent of these women’s hearts from a 1 hour episode.

2. The discussion that Pastor Anthony had with his daughters about sex was absolutely necessary. Admittedly, I thought that some of that moment was private and a bit much for television. But the truth is STDs are real and yes there are pastors daughters who have contracted them. What I saw in that moment was a father being authentic and acknowledging that he didn’t come into this world a perfect Pastor, but along the way he made some mistakes. Hopefully by having this real talk sex session, he has equipped his daughters with natural and spiritual tools to discern well about sex.

3. As one of the pastors wives whose husband had just closed the doors of his church visited another pastors wives thriving church, she had a moment where she thought, “this should be me.” A real moment, that happens more often than most in church leadership are willing to admit. The unspoken competition to be greater instead of being better. And a chilling reminder that when we compare our lives to others it keeps us from clearly seeing the provision and promise that God has for us.

Now most will read this and like me will want to defend the pulpit in their own church as being so not like this show and want to immediately categorize the show as disgraceful and damaging to the church. Because I am a firm believer that the questionable actions of a few can’t destroy the reputations of many, I don’t view this show as detrimental, but that could be the optimistic side of me. I recognize that there is an overwhelming opposing viewpoint and to those who think otherwise I offer the following points to ponder.

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1. It’s Time To Invest - We worship in buildings that seat thousands and use them two days out of the week. If we want to change the way that the Christian lifestyle is recorded by Hollywood Executives, a real investment in the next generation of potential Television Executives, Producers, Writers and Editors is necessary. Why aren’t we using the church’s resources to provide a scriptural based spiritual foundation along with educational, vocational and training programs for young people? The next generation of creative contributors can take Hollywood over with a moral compass that seeks to bring honor and reverence to God in all that they do. We need to get back to the basics of teaching our children the principles recognizing that His promises are automatic if they live the principle.

2. It’s Time to Commit - How often do we start and stop outreach initiatives because the success we envisioned is not immediate? It’s time to commit. Lack of commitment breeds indecision. Our individual commitment provides confidence to others that we expect that the outcome will be success. We need to show the world that we are committed to His work and His ways and will not be pushed around or dismayed by their attempts to decrease and destroy the greatness of our God. 3. It’s Past Time for Change - Change begins with each of us individually. And, truthfully we shouldn’t wait until another person’s actions bring justification for the need to change. I believe that the smallest change can yield significant rewards. So if Christians want to change the way that the world sees us and responds to us, we need to start with ourselves. Downgrading, despising and/or defending the works of others is a detriment to personal elevation (change). Allow your personal change to be what leads others to want to know Christ.

Stop Believing the Press Clippings - Don’t allow what you hear and see in mass media, television or news to make you start to believe that this world is hopeless or that your contribution won’t matter. The race isn’t finished and none of us knows the end. Our work is not done, nor is it ever in vain. We must continue to focus our efforts and attentions on contributing to progress with sincerity of heart and mind for His glory and not our own.

Mrs. Kermeseha Evans-Hillard is the author of “Going To Church To Catch Hell,” and “What Now Finding The Confidence To Move On.” She is the daughter of Dr. I.V. & Bridget Hillard, founders of megachurch New Light Christen Center located in Houston, Texas.

Kermeshea have seen and felt all the heartaches behind the pulpit. To view this article in it’s original context please visit her website and take advantage of the opportunity to learn more about her ministry.

Kermesheaevans.ning.com.

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A truck driver his entire life, Byron began feeling sick early this spring. While on the road in April 2012, Byron passed out and totaled his semi. Doctors concluded the accident was caused by carbon monoxide poisoning. After numerous dizzy spells and finally, his wife Sandy finding him on the floor having a seizure Byron Thomas was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer. Despite surgery and chemo treatment, doctors still gave him a hopeless report but what does God’s report say?

CWL xPress: Thank you Byron for this awesome testimony sharing with readers how your faith in God strengthens you to face any adversity this illness might cause you to have. What was life like for you before your illness?

Byron: Before I was diagnosed, I felt life was perfect - like one big vacation.

CWL xPress: What happen in your life that lead you to believe something was wrong?

Byron: I had dizziness, which led to a seizure.

CWL xPress: After all your test were administered, and you received a prognosis from your doctor what was the first thing that filtered through your mind? What was the prognosis?

Byron: They did an MRI and found a tumor the size of a golf ball on my brain. I believed I would die in the near future and I should make sure I was at peace with God. CWL xPress: After the surgery what did doctors in Sioux Falls tell you about the tumor they removed?

Byron: The doctors sat down with the family and told us they sent the tumor to pathology. However, they were not able to remove all of it. They diagnosed me with having a grade four glioblastoma located on my right frontal lobe. This tumor was a bad form of cancer. Doctors also informed us with treatment patients last about 12-24 months with this disease. I was told to apply for disability, I would never be able to work again and prepare myself for a short life.

I was given three options. Standard radiation and outpatient chemo, a referral to Mayo, or being a part of a research study program which included radiation and chemo, but also another drug. Me and my wife wanted a second opinion. After receiving a second opinion from doctors in Rochester, Minn. It was noted doctors in Sioux Falls did a good job.

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They also felt I should go back to Sioux Falls for treatment because treatment would still be the same. July 24th I began my first round of chemo and radiation; I also had my staples removed from the surgery.

CWL xPress: What is life like during and after Chemo treatment?

Byron: I felt like my mind was too good to be dying. I believed God was going to give me a miracle. After six weeks, the radiation was done, but I had to continue chemo. I am currently on a five day on, 23 days off schedule for chemo and will continue this for the next six months. Through it all most days, I feel pretty good. Although I can still continue my running, driving is not allowed because of my seizures. However, I discovered that is not the most important thing in life. God is more important. I always lived a normal life as what I thought was a Christian. However, I did not have the faith I do now.

CWL xPress: How important is the bible to you and what scriptures do you rely on to get you through the day?

Byron: Reading the Bible has become one of the most important things for me to do. And I read Psalms 16:11 every day. “You have made known to me the path of life. You will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand.”

CWL xPress: What are your expectations about the future and do you feel you have come to know God in a much different way?

Byron: My future plans are in God’s hands and I know if we put our faith in him, anything is possible because when this first happened to me, the doctors said, “It was terminal with no chance of a cure.” As of October 23, the MRI showed no cancer. This to me, is only possible from a complete miracle from Jesus.

Glory be to God. CWL xPress: Thank you Byron for this interview and I pray God bless you and your family abundantly.

When you are feeling better I pray to interview you for a second part to this interview.

Psalm 16:11

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Are you a survivor? What doctor’s report did you receive? What challenges do you face during and after your struggles? Do you cry out to God? What scripture's brought you through some trying times?

Share your story with us at CWL xPress online magazine. Be a testimony to someone else.

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Be Fruitful and Multiply

So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.

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Praise & Worship

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Praise & Worship Saying with a loud voice, Fear God, and give glory to him; for the hour of his judgment is come: and worship him that made heaven, and earth, and the sea, and the fountains of waters.

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Prostitution, Strippers, and Call Girls… They’re God’s Children too!

In Biblical times there was prostitution, and it’s still around today. Women normally do it for drugs or money, which is truly sad. The women who do it for the money tell themselves “Just this one time,” but find they can’t quit because they enjoy the lifestyle they have with the money they have earned. Prostitution, strippers, and call girls are not good in the eyes of the Lord, but that doesn’t stop women from doing it. As hard as it may be, it’s important to remember these women are God’s children too.

Proverbs 23:27 says “For a harlot is a deep ditch; And a foreign woman is a narrow pit.” And Proverbs 23:28 says “Yea, she lieth in wait as a robber, And increaseth the treacherous among men.” These verses indicate how immoral this act is, and how she waits for men to come to her unfaithfully. In most cases, these acts can ruin lives. This is not what God had in mind when he created man and woman.

These acts are a sin in the eyes of God; however, it doesn’t mean they won’t be forgiven. If these women go to God, an ask for forgiveness, and begin to follow the word of God they will be forgiven. In some cases, it is not as easy as it sounds, some women need counseling because of certain traumas in their lives.

It’s important to know struggles will occur at first, and they may fall back into the devil’s trap on occasions, but when we continue to pray for them and help them, they too will be successful and end this path of destruction. They will learn how to overcome these habits and begin to do acts of God, and grow into Godly women.

They will lead healthy lives God will be happy with, and over time they will forget about these sinful activities.

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As children of God it’s important for us to help them see what God is like; and how He can help them come to the realization that the career choice they chose is not pleasing in his eyes. It’s our job also to help them see they are God’s daughters, and why they were created. We must learn how to help them get out of this evil environment and into careers, God would be happy with.

This type of ministry (outreach) is most challenging because you are entering some dark areas that might take you completely out your comfort zone. If you are not experienced with this type of lifestyle, you will have to seek God in prayer asking him to show you the best way to enter the devil’s playground.

You are not only dealing with sexually promiscuous women, but some are drug addicts as well. It is also wise to seek other Christians for counsel who have experienced this type of ministry. Once your mission is successful you will allow these women to see the advantages of obedience to God and living a healthy and prosperous life.

Outreach ministry is not glamorous. Some people would prefer something more simpler like the youth ministry; no one wants to walk the streets and minister to those who live in a society that is dark, vicious, and cruel. It is important for these ladies to know their self-worth!

We know that all things work together for those who are called according to His purpose. For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren. Romans 8:28-29

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Don’t Let Your Low Self-Esteem Live Your Life Self-esteem is described as the way we feel about ourselves or the way we think about ourselves. If we feel good about life, then our self-esteem is pretty high, but on the other hand, if we feel like life is falling apart our self-esteem is extremely low. The way we feel about ourselves generally comes from the words of others as unfortunate as it may be, those words can be damaging. Some people feel so badly when it comes to how they feel the only way to solve it is to take matters into their own hands, and the outcome may not be for the best. Others may decide to overcome this feeling and make huge changes to their lives.

It is easy for someone whose self-esteem is high to say, “Ignore what others say about you.” That is great for some; however, it is harder for others who allow people’s words to control their thinking about their self-worth. Low self-esteem can cause problems in your life, including making wrong or bad decisions. You may think leaving your spouse is the solution or quitting your job is the way to go. While both things may solve the problem, it’s best to know it may only be a temporary fix, and before you know it the feelings are back again.

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One of the hardest things in life to handle is the words’ others speak about us. That old saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me,” is true; however, when others continually speak negatively about you, and to you, it becomes difficult at best to handle those feelings.

You can only go so long with these negative words before you get to a point where you can’t handle them anymore.

Once you get to this stage it’s time to let God handle things for you. It’s time to live your life in a positive way that makes you happy. It’s time to learn how to let God take over and guide you down a path with positive and encouraging words. When you make this happen you’ll begin to see your selfesteem rise to new levels.

God can control the thoughts that go through your mind, but the only way that will happen if you let Him, and allow Him to change your thoughts and your way of thinking. 1 Peter 2:11-12 says, “Beloved, I implore you as aliens and strangers and exiles [in this world] to abstain from the sensual urges (the evil desires, the passions of the flesh, your lower nature) that wage war against the soul.

Conduct yourselves properly (honorably, righteously) among the Gentiles, so that, although they may slander you as evildoers, [yet] they may by witnessing your good deeds [come to] glorify God in the day of inspection [when God shall look upon you wanderers as a pastor or shepherd looks over his Christian Women Lifestyle xPress Online Magazine

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Are You Allowing Your Man to Get the Milk for Free?

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If you live with your boyfriend, you are allowing him to get the milk for free. While, you may not see a problem with this God does. You should only live with a man if you are married. Once you are married you should be dedicated to each other, and honest with each other. In God’s eyes that’s the way you should live.

When a marriage commitment is not made your boyfriend may feel he can come and go as he wants, or he may feel marriage is not needed. If someone shows him they are willing to do more then you; he may leave you for this person without feeling any moral, or financial repercussions.

When you are in a committed marriage God will hold him responsible for his actions. We’re judged every day by God, and when you’re not living by his word, you will not be judged in the way you want to be judged

by Him. Ezekiel 16:38 says “And I will judge thee, as women that break wedlock and shed blood are judged: and I will give thee blood in fury and jealousy.” When you understand what this verse means you will understand how God feels about a man and a woman living together outside of wedlock.

When your man knows he is not tied to you in any way he won’t be terrified to leave. He won’t be afraid to step away to see if the grass is greener on the other side, and he won’t be afraid to be intimate with someone else. If he’s getting the milk for free it is very possible he has the idea in his head it won’t matter what he does you’ll always be there.

If you are allowing him to get the milk for free it’s time to stop. It is time to sit down and talk to him and share your thoughts and feelings about the way you are living. It’s time to tell him it’s not the Godly way to live, and you also need to make sure he knows Ezekiel 16:38 says, “You’ll be judged if you continue to live in this manner, and you don’t want to handle the wrath of God! Sexual intimacy in marriage is God’s design.

Genesis 2:24 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.” This next scripture say it best when you hear “everyone is doing it this is a better way.”

Proverbs 14:12 states, “There is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death.”

It’s time to put your foot down and tell him the milk will no longer be free for the taking.

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Tips for Getting Saved Now!

Are You Living As an Unsaved Adult?

As an adult some people may feel they have complete and udder control of their lives; what they need to know is they will never have total control. If they are saved God has control of their lives if they let him. If they are unsaved, the devil will do everything he can to take over their lives, and when they continue to be unsaved, he will win. A person’s life is worth more when it comes to what the devil will continually try to do.

John 10:10 says “The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.�

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Do you feel you need to take your life back? Are you ready to dump the devil? Here are a few tips to get you started: 1. The first thing you must do is admit you’ve sinned. When you know you have sinned, and you admit your sins, you will be on the path to getting saved and freedom. Confession leads to healing. Proverbs 28:13 2. Ask God for forgiveness (repent). God will forgive you for the sins you have committed. He wants you to submit to his will and have everlasting life. John 3:16 says “for God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life.

3. Pray and ask God to help you find a church to attend. It is important you learn how to live as a saved adult and understand God’s word. Stay consistently in prayer and His word. Get a clear understanding on wearing the “Christians new clothes.” Colossians 3:12-14. The new clothes are beautiful gifts from God. Putting them on is the work of every individual Christian.

4. The last thing you need to do is get baptized. John the Baptist appeared in the wilderness preaching a baptism of repentance for the forgiveness of sins. All the country of Judea was going out to him, and all the people of Jerusalem, and they were being baptized by him in the Jordan River confessing their sins. Mark 1:4-5. You will know as a saved adult that God will always forgive you. You will begin to learn what it takes to live your life in God’s eyes.

Living life as an unsaved adult is not the way to live. It is hard to live in a world full of sin and hate. Unsaved people will constantly live in a world of torment during hard times. Saved people will always have a sense of peace no matter how hard times get, because they know to whom they belong! Exodus 33:14

Repent ye therefore, and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord. Acts 3:19

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In this amazing amazing interview, you will experience Dave Moore’s anguish in going through a father’s worst nightmare-a missing child. Through his fear, Dave confronts his soul’s emptiness and learns the heavenly Father’s Love.

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CWL xPress: Thank you for your participation in this interview. Please tell the readers about your ministry and yourself.

Chaplain Moore: I am a Church of God Chaplain serving in Ypsilanti Michigan. I visit and pray with the sick and the lost in hospitals, nursing homes, prisons and jails, really wherever I am called to go. I am also the author of the book “The Father’s Love.” It is my testimony of how I became a true believer in Jesus Christ and the miracle working power of God. Through this book I have been able to tell many people my testimony of how God answered my prayer and completely transformed my whole families lives, and also that there is always hope with God! I am married to the love of my life Dorinda. We have three sons, Shane, Adam, and David.

CWL xPress: It has been noted in your latest book “The Father’s Love,” you have an awesome testimony and how God brought you through every hair raising event, involving the search for your son. This is every parent’s nightmare. Can you tell us what that ordeal was like and how God navigated you through this turmoil despite the fact you did not have a relationship with him at the time?

Chaplain Moore: It is impossible to understand, and I pray none of your readers ever will, the physical, emotional, and mental pain, a parent feels in the midst of this terrible ordeal. I could not eat, drink, or sleep. My stomach was tied up in knots and I was walking around with chest pains for days. My mind was in panic and chaos. Nothing unrelated matters, not work, not your own health or safety, nothing.

When my son disappeared I did not know Christ as my Savior. As I had throughout my life I believed that I could handle this like I had handled life up until that point, by myself. But in my 5 day search I began to see things along the way that were undoubtedly the love of God working because of the prayers of God’s people.

In Dayton Ohio in a restaurant where I stopped to talk to police a man took me by the hands and prayed with me after overhearing my conversation with the officers. A short time later driving on the highway I had decided that my son’s disappearance was all my fault. In my depressed state, awake over thirty hours, I made a decision to drive my truck into a bridge. Speeding my truck to close to 100 MPH and actually seeing the bridge, a soft voice inside of me said “if David is alive what will this do to him?” Tears pouring down my face I pulled off the road and wept. As I again began to drive and restart the search, I thought of my best friend in the world who was only about an hour south of where I was heading. Calling him on the phone he answered and told me that he was never home on Saturday’s, but he was setting next to the phone when I called. He said to come to his house he was going with me to help search for David. This saved my life. God was quietly working, speaking with a still, small voice, and connecting the dots. Looking back I can see other ways that God led us and protected us.

CWL xPress: As you went through each day navigating and planning each strategy in hopes this would get you closer to your son God showed you mercy and grace. What scripture would best describe how his mercy and grace covers us even when we don’t deserve it?

That in the ages to come he might shew the exceeding riches of his grace in his kindness toward us through Christ Jesus. For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Ephesians 2:7-8

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Chaplain Moore: Justice would be getting what we deserve; Mercy is being spared what we deserve; Grace is being given what we do not deserve. I love what the scriptures say in the MSG Ephesians 2:7-8 “Now God has us where he wants us, with all the time in this world and the next to shower grace and kindness upon us in Christ Jesus. Saving is all His idea, and all His work. All we do is trust Him enough to let Him do it. It’s God’s gift from start to finish.” Even though we are guilty and have no defense, He suffered and died for us because of His mercy, grace, and great love for us.

CWL xPress: Looking back on it do you feel your journey looking for your son would have been much easier if you would were in a relationship with Christ at the time?

Chaplain Moore: Absolutely, positively, no doubt about it. Christ in me has given me a hope in all situations.

That doesn’t mean that I am never without fear or worry. But when I began to think and pray on the things of God a peace and comfort comes in that can be explained by Jesus’ words in John 14:16 “And I will pray the Father, and He shall give you another Comforter, that He may abide with you forever.” The Holy Spirit Comforter is given to help strengthen, to teach, to comfort in difficult situations, intercede in prayer, and to further our best interests.

My father died in 1999 before I knew Christ as my Savior. My mother died in 2009 after I had surrendered my life to Christ. I was so much closer to my mother than my father. When my father died I was devastated and I would go and sit at his grave for long periods of time thinking that I would never see him again. When my mother died it was hard but the Holy Spirit Comforter gave me such a peace and a knowing in my heart that my mother and father were with Him and I would see them both again.

CWL xPress: What advice would you give to a parent who doesn’t have a relationship with Christ in the same situation you were in and what scriptures would you recommend?

Chaplain Moore: First let me say that you might be able to avoid the situation altogether. I was a very tough father. I loved my son more than anything. But I had led my son to believe that he could not come to me with a problem because of my anger and no compromise attitude. I was wrong. My son deserved not only my love but my respect, my understanding, and a willingness to really listen to him and really HEAR him. Parents need to keep the lines of communication open, be calm, concerned, engaged, and always loving towards their children. Children are a responsibility but more importantly a gift from God. Father’s you are the spiritual leaders of the home so act like it. First and foremost parents ask Jesus Christ into your heart and ask him to forgive you of your sins, Romans 10: 9-13. Secondly remember Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Thirdly, there is always hope with God! Psalm 16:8-11.

CWL xPress: Looking back do you feel God was trying to get your attention or the works of Satan?

Chaplain Moore: I believe that God is always trying to get our attention. Just as I was searching for my lost son God is always searching for his lost sons and daughters. The devil meant my sons disappearance for bad.

God turned it around for good. Jesus said in John 10:10 “The thief (satan) does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy.” I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.”

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CWL xPress: What are some of the early signs or warnings to parents something is wrong with their child and what is the biggest alarm?

Chaplain Moore: Any behavior that is out of the ordinary would be a red flag. Also when they isolate themselves from friends and family, avoid activities that you know that they enjoy, or become more quiet than usual. The biggest alarm might possibly be their body language, moodiness, unhappy looks and demeanor, not taking care of themselves.

CWL xPress: When reading the bible it is evident God’s love for his children involves patience, grace and mercy. What is involved when a parent give that earthly love for their child? What scriptures say it best for the love of Christ for us and the love of a parent for their child?

Chaplain Moore: I think that we as parents want to give them as many things (toys, gifts, etc.) that we can. I believe that more importantly we should give them love, encouragement, a sense of worth, and as they grow up an understanding of what it means to be a good person, and what it takes to become independent and succeed in life. A biblical foundation is at the top of the list for the Bible says in Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it.”

For me the scripture in Luke 23:34 says it all about Jesus’ love for us and is bringing tears to my eyes as a type this; “Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do. Jesus has been beaten, bloodied, torn to shreds, humiliated, and crucified. He was in excruciating pain, dying, and He asked God to not only forgive those that had done this to Him but all of us too. For God so loved the world. No greater love is possible.

In the Message Bible 1Corinthians 13:3-8 the Apostle Paul talking to the Corinthian Church says this; ‘Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have. Love doesn’t strut. Doesn’t have a swelled head, Doesn’t force itself on others, Isn’t always “me first,” Doesn’t fly off the handle, Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others, Doesn’t revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end. Love never dies.

CWL xPress: Thank you Chaplin for sharing your testimony. Please tell the readers where they can purchase your book “The Father’s Love,” for more of your story in the search for your son. If there is a hurting parent out there who need counseling or seeking advice how can they contact you? For any readers in your area where can they hear you minister? May God bless you, your family and your ministry.

Chaplain Moore: My website www.thefatherslovebook.com has author info, book excerpts, a video trailer, and you can purchase the book there. You can see reader comments via the Facebook fan page, connect to my blog, and contact me with a question. The book is also available at many bookstores and at Amazon.com and BarnesAndNoble.com. I am just beginning to talk at churches about my book and I have no regular ministry dates at this time. God willing I will continue to take this story of His glory to the whole world! To God be all the glory forever!

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Hurricane Sandi Sandy Hook Elementary Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the LORD thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee. Deuteronomy 31:6

Therefore the redeemed of the LORD shall return, and come with singing unto Zion; and everlasting joy shall be upon their head: they shall obtain gladness and joy; and sorrow and mourning shall flee away. Isaiah 51:11

He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.

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Step Out of the Past Into the Future

With God All Baggage Is Welcome

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Is It the Sign of End Times, God’s Wrath, or Just a Coincidence?

Part 1 The year 2013 is the year for prayer and repentance. It seems we are no longer one nation under God. Sometimes it seems we are one nation growing under Satan and enduring the wrath of God! In October 2012, Hurricane Sandy paralyzed New York and New Jersey, leaving in its wake many deaths, destroyed homes, spoiled food, and severe power outages that caused transportation to be shut down completely.

Several months before this horrific event, in August 2012, a strong earthquake hit the East Coast, with trembling felt in Washington, D.C.; New York and other states were also affected.

What happened, America? Did we miss the message? Was this a coincidence? Is it the sign of end times or of God’s wrath? The Bible clearly warned us that this was coming: 3 And as he sat upon the mount of Olives, the disciples came unto him privately, saying, Tell us, when shall these things be? and what shall be the sign of thy coming, and of the end of the world? 4 And Jesus answered and said unto them, Take heed that no man deceive you. 5 For many shall come in my name, saying, I am Christ; and shall deceive many. 6 And ye shall hear of wars and rumours of wars: see that ye be not troubled: for all these things must come to pass, but the end is not yet. 7 For nation shall rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom: and there shall be famines, and pestilences, and earthquakes, in divers places. Matthew 24:1-7 (KJV) In November 2012, Maryland, Maine, Washington, and New York approved same-sex marriage. The following quotes were taken from an article entitled “Maryland, Maine, Washington Approve Gay Marriage” on Reuters.com: “We made history and sent a powerful message that we have truly reached a tipping point on gay and lesbian civil rights in this country,” said Brian Ellner, head of the pro-gay marriage group The Four. “By winning for the first time on marriage at the ballot box, we made clear what national polls already show— that Americans support fairness and equality for all families.” President Barack Obama this year became the first U.S. president to support gay marriage. His campaign endorsed the gay marriage measures in the three states.

Yes, God is a merciful God, and he is a loving God, but remember that he is also a God of wrath!

Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. Colossians 3:56 (NIV) Within the last 10 years, television has become more detrimental to our children. Cartoons have become more violent, and the majority of television shows that cater to teenagers feature fornication, adultery, and homosexuality. These shows plant evil seeds in our children’s heads and send them spiraling into a world of destruction and illusion.

Our leaders’ decisions and God’s laws no longer match. God made it perfectly clear that he was adamant about one law when giving the laws to the Kings of Israel. He still holds our leaders to the same standards: And it shall be, when he sitteth upon the throne of his kingdom, that he shall write him a copy of this law in a book out of that which is before the priests the Levites: And it shall be with him, and he shall read therein all the days of his life: that he may learn to fear the LORD his God, to keep all the words of this law and these statutes, to do them: That his heart be not lifted up above his brethren, and that he turn not aside from the commandment, to the right hand, or to the left: to the end that he may prolong his days in his kingdom, he, and his children, in the midst of Israel. Deuteronomy 17:18-20 (KJV) Christian Women Lifestyle xPress Online Magazine

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Do our leaders follow God’s commandments? Do our leaders know God’s commandments? Do our leaders run this nation according to God’s laws? Do we follow God’s commandments or endorse leaders who do not try and follow his commandments?

We are not the creators of this world. Remember that we are on borrowed time. Pray and seek His counsel before you make a decision that could cost you your soul!

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Dr. Clara Barnes

Purchase The lives of the Taylor family were deeply affected by the harsh conditions of plantation life in the rural south. They were not to be burdened by circumstances. Families were broken, battered and bruised. Lives and loves were lost. Yet, they believed God would enable them to endure every hardship. Humiliation and degradation was not enough to deter them from their faith. The Taylor family was a well respected family in the Church and community. Out of their own unselfish need to love and be loved, they reached out to others. When it was not always favorable, encouragement and hope was offered during tumultuous and stressful situations. Through determination and conviction they persevered and turned tragedy into triumph.

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