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Vol. 01, No. 52
Saturday, January 11, 2014
Celebrating women of substance
I was naïve & scared, yet stupidly in love – Broadcaster Yemi Adenuga
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Feminine story
Nigeria’s female achievers and their public ‘buzz’ Some women are born great while some have greatness thrust on them as a result of the power that comes with the professional seats they occupy. There are also those that enjoy the status as an extension of the prominence they are given by the media. All over the world, such women find themselves in the public eyes of admirers, fans and paparazzi showering them attention, and Nigeria is no exception. In this piece, TAYO MUSTAPHA and SAMAD BIOBAKU take a peep into the lives of some prominent women and what Nigerians think about the level of popularity they enjoy in comparison with their husbands, who apparently do not command as much public attention. Ngozi Okonjo – Iweala
Nigeria’s Finance Minister, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala and her husband Ikemba are two individuals who fit the picture of a family where the man is under the shadow. A typical Nigerian man whose wife literally shines. Her husband - a surgeon - happens to be her childhood friend, and their love story is one that would inspire generations ahead. Mostly stepping into public glare in her Ankara attire, and head gear, Ngozi is one of Nigeria’s most powerful women. In fact, her spell at the World Bank, coupled with the fact that she came close to emerging President of the World Bank is a strong reference point in her career. In 2007, she was considered as a possible replacement for the then World Bank President, Paul Wolfowitz; then only in 2012, she was also tipped as one of the three candidates to replace World Bank President, Robert Zoellick. With four children - three sons and a daughter - Ngozi adorns the garb of popularity and global admiration. She hails from a Royal family in Ogwashi-Uku, Delta State but married to a professional from Abia State.
Titi Oseni
She was Ogun State House of Assembly’s first female speaker. Of course, she has had her fair share of the good, bad and ugly pills of politics. Clearly, Titi stands out as one of Nigeria’s most popular housewives today. Her husband - Mr. Shodunke Oseni - would not make the mistake of competing with her for popularity. The former business woman-turned politician is by far more popular than her husband, and the factors responsible for this do not require rocket science to prove. As the first female Speaker of the Ogun State House of Assembly, her name, face, and views are hot items on the news menu. It appears that the 47-year-old is not in a hurry to quit active politics, and by extension the fame that goes with it. Yet the politician is married, and more importantly loyal to Mr. Oseni for upward of 22 years. She unwinds by travelling, listening to music and enjoying a day at the beach whenever her schedule permits.
Kema Chikwe
She is another Nigerian woman in the spotlight, making her more of a public figure than her husband, Chief Albert Chikwe. A former Minister of Aviation, Nigeria’s Ambassador to Ireland and PDP’s National women’s leader, Kema has been in the limelight for as long as one can remember. Besides, she is the mother of Naeto C, a popular rap singer in the country. All these confer on her so much power, respect, prestige and privileges that are not available to her spouse.
Dora Akunyili
The list would not be complete without a mention of the former Director-General of the National Agency for Foods and Drugs Administration and Control (NAFDAC), Prof. Dora Akunyili. Indeed, Akunyili is popularity personified, an attribute her hubby Chike, a university don, does not possess. For those who might be tempted to question the source of her popularity, the story of how she gained international recognition and won countless awards as a direct result of her work in pharmacology, public health and human rights might offer an insight. Not forgetting that she was Minister of Information in the adminsitration of now deceased President Umaru Musa Yar’Adua. The 58-year-old hails from Anambra State but was born in Makurdi, Benue State. If she wasn’t popular, Dora would not have contemplated being a Senator of the Federal Republic, which she contested to become in Anambra. In a contest, she could easily emerge the most popular among her peers in Nigeria. Prof Akunyili is strongly committed to her Catholic beliefs and Christianity. She is happily married to Dr. Chike Akunyili, a surgeon at the University of Nigeria Teaching Hospital(UNTH), Enugu. Her passionate campaign against the eradication of fake and counterfeit
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drugs as well as substandard foods saw her rise from an advocate of safe health to a champion and global crusader in the same vein. One element that further fuelled the flames of her growing popularity was the number of attempts on her life by cabals and individuals who considered her work a huge threat to the existence of their life-threatening pharmaceutical businesses. Interestingly, her hobbies include reading and writing.
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Omotola Jalade-Ekehinde
Next on the list is multi-award-winning Nollywood actress and singer, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde. Anyone who comes across at least five indigenous box office hits would understand why Omotola is one woman that needs little introduction. She is married to Captain Matthew Ekeinde - a pilot - and would easily occupy the seat of the most successful and most popular actress in Nollywood. In March, 1996, Omotola got married at the Ikeja Registry, at only 18. The Church wedding - on board a DASH 7 Aircraft flying from Lagos to Benin - was on the April 19, 2001. The sexy actress is 34 years old and remains the mother of Meraiah Ekeinde, Princess Ekeinde, Michael Ekeinde and M.J. Ekeinde. Yet her hubby can’t come close to her fame, depsite being an airline pilot.
Toyin Olakunri
Another Nigerian woman who dwarfs her husband in terms of popularity is Nigeria’s first female Chartered Accountant, Mrs. Toyin Olakunri. While her name hardly leaves the chambers of recognition, her husband leads a life devoid of media buzz. She was once the Executive Secretary of the Education Trust Fund, a position she justified by efficiently discharging her duties.
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Aloma Mariam Mukhtar
Justice Aloma Mariam Mukhtar, the new Chief Justice of Nigeria (CJN) is another role model. Role models are those that are often regarded as the leading light in the society, and she is one. Justice Muktar has led the way for women several times in her life. She started her legal career as a pupil counsel in the Ministry of Justice of Northern Nigeria in 1967. She was later appointed female Magistrate Grade I, North Eastern Government (1969 – 1973), the first in the whole of the Northern region. She was also a first with her appointment as the Chief Registrar, Kano State Government Judiciary (1973 – 1977) and Judge, High Court of Kano State in 1977 and Justice, Court of Appeal in 1987. Justice Mukhtar recently rejected an international appointment as the Chief Judge of The Gambia. She was also the first female President of the nation’s Court of Appeal from 1993 to 2005. Justice Muktar had her primary education at the St. George’s School, Zaria and also at St. Bartholomews’s School, Wusasa, also in Zaria between1950 and 1957. She furthered her education at Rossholme School for Girls in East Brent, Somerset, England for GCE O’ Levels in 1962 and later proceeded to the Technical College, Berkshire, England. She graduated from Gibson and Welder College in law in 1966 and was subsequently called to the English Bar in absentia. She was called to the Bar on June 26, 1967. In all of these, not a few know anything about her husband. It is doubtful if he is as famous as the jurist.
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Onyeka Onwenu
She has been consistently in the limelight right from when she broke into the entertainment scene in the early 1970s. Her evergreen songs and sonorous voice stand her out in Nigeria. The Elegant Stallion - as she is popularly called - is a foremost singer, actress, broadcaster, politician and an administrator. Among her feats is her recent appointment as the Director-General of the National Women Development Center. She was born in Onitsha, Anambra State, on May 17, 1961. Onyeka, in 2006, won the African Movie Academy Award for Best Actress in a supporting role. Until her recent
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Catherine Acholonu
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Born on October 26 1951, Dr. Catherine Acholonu is a committed mother of four children. But this role has not stopped her from driving her ambition. With an overwhelming resume Acholonu dared to contest the for the presidency of the country, even when her husband was still a deputy governor. Recently her works won personal appreciation by the former president of the United States bill Clinton. Commending her on the thoughtfulness expressed in two of her books titled The Earth Unchained, a quantum leap in the consciousness and Motherise the Afrocentric Alternative to Feminism. Acholonu is the author of 13 published books she has also bagged the award of fellow of the institute of corporate administration and women of merit gold for her strong leadership qualities and outstanding contributions. In 1997 during the African first ladies peace mission in Abuja. Acholonu was voted one of Nigeria’s most out standing women achievers at a national conference organised by the National Council for Women Societies (NCWS) she was also nominated for inclusion into the 17th edition of the elitist international authors and writers who’s who of world renowned authors published in Cambridge, United Kingdom Acholonu is an alumnus of the university of Dusseldorf, Germany an associate professor in English and African studies and a former Fulbight scholar and writer-in residence at the Westchester consortium for international studies new York USA her books are used as text books and resource materials around the world.
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Virgy Etiaba
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She is the first female governor in Nigeria. Dame Virgy Etiaba was born on the 11th day of November 1942. A native of Nnewi, in Nnewi North Local Government Area of Anambra State, her educational career traversed institutions in Eastern, North Western, North Central and South Southern geo-political zones of Nigeria, as well as in London, England. Her primary school education was at the famous Ibo Union School in Kano, before proceeding to Sudan Interior Mission in Kaltungo, in today’s Gombe State, for her Teachers Training programme. Next stop was W.T.C. in Omu-Aran in today’s Kwara State. She holds qualifications that include the National Certificate of Education from Abraka College of Education, Delta State; Bachelor of Education (Hon.) from the University of Nigeria, Nsukka and a Certificate in Information Technology from Goldsmith College, University of London. She retired voluntarily from the employment of Anambra State government in 1991 after 31 years of meritorious active service. A seasoned Educationist, Her Excellency speaks Ibo, Hausa and English fluently. On her retirement she founded Bennet Etiaba Memorial Schools, in memory of her late dear husband, Barrister B.M.C Etiaba, a highly accomplished legal luminary. On the 17th day of March 2006, she was sworn in as the Deputy Governor of Anambra State making history as the first female Deputy Governor in the South East and South-South geo-political zones of Nigeria. She was later sworn in as the Executive Governor of Anambra State, making her the first female Governor in Nigeria on the 3rd day of November 2006 following the impeachment of Governor Peter Gregory Obi. As a result of the reversal of that impeachment by the Court of Appeal, Her Excellency duly and happily handed back the position of Governor of Anambra State to His Excellency Mr. Peter Obi within two hours of the Court of Appeal judgement on the 9th day of February 2007 and reverted to the position of Deputy Governor, a position she held till 16th March 2010.
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ho is Yemi Adenuga? Yemi is a broadcast media executive, social entrepreneur, HR/Project management/business & personal development consultant, relationship counsellor, writer, philanthropist, activist, mentor, tutor, wife, mother and a friend. I am a graduate of Accountacy and Mass Communication from the Moshood Abiola Polytechnic, Abeokuta, Ogun State. I also hold a Bachelors degree in Business Studies (Human Resource Management Stream) from University College, Dublin, and a Master of Business Administration (MBA) degree (Project Management Stream) from the Liverpool John Moores University, United Kingdom. I am an experienced training and development consultant with a certificate in First Line Management from the Institute of Leadership and Management, Ireland; and a Diploma in Television Directing from the CEFAP Institute of Television Production and Directing, Paris, France. I am a member of several professional bodies including the Institute of leadership and Management, Ireland; the MBA Association of Ireland and Project Management Association, Ireland; as well as an Associate of the Irish Institute of Training and Development. What about your background? I was born in Ikare, Ondo State, into a polygamous family, to late Pa Isaac Olujimi Solaru and Deaconess Christian Solaru as the 16th of 27 children. My father is from Iperu-Remo, Ogun State, while my mother is from Ejukwu, Kogi State. As a little girl, we moved around Nigeria a lot, by virtue of my father’s job at the time as a Police officer. I grew up in Shell Residential Area, Rumukwurushi, Port Harcout, Rivers State, where my father, after his retirement from the police force, worked as a senior manager for Shell Petroleum Development Company. I did primary and secondary schools at Army Children’s School, GRA and Government Secondary School, Eneka, both in Port Harcourt, before completing at Christ Apostolic Grammar School, Iperu-Remo, Ogun State. As a renowned broadcaster, where did you get the flair for the job from; parents or relative? None of the above!
He proposed in a way I could not resist – Broadcaster Yemi Adenuga
Her face and voice dominated the airwaves especially at the inception of Ogun State Broadcasting Corporation (OGBC) and Raypower FM as well as AIT in the early nineties until she sought the proverbial greener pasture in the Republic of Ireland. Prior to going abroad, Yemi was regarded as one of the best female broadcasters in Nigeria - an acknowledgement of her personality and professionalism. Incidentally, Yemi is married to theatre icon and Nollywood star, Deji Adenuga. She has proven to be multi-faceted; currently CEO, Dymensions Communications Ltd; Chairperson, Migrant Women Leaders Council, Ireland; President, African Women Development Initiative and Carnival Director, Nigerian Carnival, Ireland. In this on-line chat with TAYO MUSTAPHA, she shares her experience as a broadcaster, her staying power, the romance tale with her husband as well as her professional adventures. Excepts:
If none, who and what influenced you into the broadcast profession? I suppose the initial influence would be my background and love for music but the main influence is Val, my husband. I love music passionately. While growing up, I used to listen to this lady presenter (I’ve forgotten her name now) on radio in Port Harcourt. She was good, very good, and I looked forward to when she was on air. On one occasion, listening to her for a brief moment, I thought about how nice it would be to do what she did, but it was only a brief thought that ended as quickly as it came because I wanted to be an accountant. Fast forward to 12 years later - 1990 - I was studying Accountancy at the Ogun State Polytechnic (now Moshood Abiola Polytechnic), Abeokuta, when the opportunity to go into broadcasting came knocking. My husband, who was my boyfriend at the time, had heard an announcement over Radio (Ogun State Broadcasting Corporation) that they were looking for new presenters to audition for the new FM Radio Station. He felt I would be the perfect presenter because his friends used to call me VOA (Voice of America), saying I have a very distinct voice. It took days for him to convince me to attend the auditioning, as I gave all excuses, like I had nothing to wear, and he got me a new dress. Looking back now, I think it was nerves. To cut a long story short, I finally agreed to go and, like they say, the rest is history. I was one of the 11 presenters selected out of about 500 that attended the auditioning. That’s how I became a pioneer presenter at OGBC 2 FM and my broadcasting career began. Tell us the story of your professional trajectory. Honestly, it’s been a roller coaster and I had a fantastic ride. I was trained by the best in the industry - ace broadcaster Olusesan Ekisola, in the days when the Daniel Jones was every presenter’s bible. (it’s such a pity that those days are gone). I also subsequently trained at Federal Radio Coporation of Nigeria (FRCN), Lagos. We were trained to be newscasters, scriptwriters, presenters and radio producers. You had to be on point and you had no excuses for mispronunciations or mistakes. Ekisola told us that our voices were ‘God’s gifts’, given to us for a reason, and we were taught to use the gift perfectly. I remember the first day I read the news on Radio and I had ‘murdered’ an Oba’s name. I felt like the ground should open and swallow me up. To make matters worse, the Ogun State Governor, (I think it was Rear Admiral Oladeinde Joseph at the time) had been listening to the news that evening. The next day, the General Manager called me and told me the governor had sent word inquiring who I was. He told me that the governor said I was very good and must not make such a mistake again. You can image my relief. From then
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on, it was smooth delivery all the way. I took the job seriously and began to build a brand - YEMI SOLARU - which evolved into the YEMI ADENUGA you know today. In 1991, I became known on radio as ‘The fox that rocks the box’. I guess I was doing something right. I presented and produced several programmes including ‘On a Personal Note; FM Mail Bag; Weekend Special and Early Bird. In 1994, I joined DAAR Communications Plc, to become a pioneering staff member of Nigeria’s first private radio station, Ray Power 100FM and subsequently became Manager of Programmes. While there, I presented and produced programmes like ‘Straight from the Heart’, ‘Bone of my Bones’, ‘Thank God it’s Friday’, ‘Sunny Side Up’, ‘The Ultimate Morning Show’ and ‘Raypower Express’. I produced several radio documentaries on developmental issues most of which I did in collaboration with UNICEF. I made my move to Television in 1996 to work for Africa Independent Television (AIT), Nigeria’s first private Television station. I am privileged to have made history as the first female presenter to go on air and present a programme on the first private Radio station in Nigeria - Raypower 100FM - and also the Director/Producer of the first programme to be aired on the first private television station in Nigeria - AIT. I loved working behind the camera, especially producing documentaries and I researched, produced and directed several documentaries including ‘Africa, what hope for tomorrow?’, the very first programme broadcast on AIT, ‘Life After These’, on girls in difficult situations in Nigeria, ‘The Italian Connection’, on situations of Nigerian girls prostituting in Italy, ‘If only I was a Boy’, on sexual and reproductive health of adolescent girls in Nigeria, ‘We can speak for Ourselves’, for 1996 day of the African child on the state of the African child, ‘The Legend Lives On’, on King Sunny Ade at 50. ‘Healing with a Smile’ on the power of helping others, ‘Love for Sale’ on young undergraduates prostituting in schools. ‘She had no Choice’ on girls with VVF resulting from early marriages. I could go on and on. High Chief (Raymond) Dokpesi called me mid-1996 and said ‘Yemi, I think you will make a huge difference in this industry and make a big impact on broadcasting.If you could produce these programmes with little TV production training, I believe you’ll perform magic with a formal training’. I was humbled. He shared his thoughts with my husband subsequently and I went to study for a Diploma in Television Directing from the CEFAP Institute of Television Production and Directing, Paris, France. That got me constantly thinking outside the box. I wrote and still write scripts, cast the news, produce, present and direct for Radio and TV. I am what you call ‘a versatile broadcaster’. But of all the things I did, my talk show Sharing with Yemi opened a whole new world of possibilities and drove home the reality of ‘anything is possible if you believe’, for me. I built an amazing team of fast-thinking, goal-getting and pacesetting people around me who became the ‘sharing with Yemi think tank’. My husband made time out of his extremely tight schedule to support me and produce the show. My friends - Tosin Dokpesi and Namure Edoimioya - were also very supportive. We did things that had never been done on Nigerian Television with the Talk Show and were blown away by the audience base. Nigeria was talking about the issues we dealt with and we raised the bar. We set a standard which we worked hard to exceed with each production. On our very first show, we wanted to make a huge impression, so we discussed prostitution and brought two prostitutes to the show. Everyone, including Chief Dokpesi, said it was not possible to get real prostitutes to come on the show. But I proved them wrong. It cost me an arm and a leg, but we did it and made them all take back their words. The best part of that production, for me, was that we were able to get patrons who changed the lives of those two ladies. How fulfilled are you as a broadcaster? I am very fulfilled where I am at in my career as a broadcaster right now, for hitherto the Lord helped me. Being a broadcaster has taught me a number of things in life, like how to stay grounded, be consistent, be me and never settle for less. In this industry, there is the tendency for people to forget themselves, get carried away and get lost in the stardom-bubble. I thank God that while the industry has opened doors for me, my background equipped me with life’s lessons on how to keep good doors open and bad doors permanently shut. Any regrets? In my life, no, I have no regrets. I’ve received God’s favour in many ways and I feel blessed beyond measure. I have survived challenges that have made me stronger, and I couldn’t be more grateful to God. I am a very happy woman with peace of mind and that is priceless. As one of the pioneer staffs of AIT/Raypower, why did you relocate abroad? My relocating abroad wasn’t actually planned. It just happened and the decision to stay abroad at the time was for personal reasons. I was, at a stage in my life then, where I needed to choose between my career and making sacrifices for my family and I chose family. I am grateful to God that I did, because if I didn’t, I wouldn’t have what I have today.
He loves to take me out, buy me beautiful gifts; he treats me like a queen and makes me feel loads of inches tall. In his words, he loves to ‘show me off’. He loves cooking and always wants to impress me with his cooking. He loves to cuddle me, says I’m his cuddly teddy bear
my bathroom mirror, the Yemi my husband and children see, is the same Yemi everyone sees. What you see is what you get. As one of the most well dressed ladies in television broadcast, what influences your dress sense? I don’t do trendy; I don’t do designer labels. When I see anything good, I like to put a little twist to it and make it mine. I love to look good, because for me, it speaks volumes. So I have my own style. I have developed an expertise for putting fabulous ensembles together. Before I put my money on a fabric, the design on it has to speak to me, my skin has to love the fabric to kiss it. I love to wear heels. Unfortunately, there’s a limit to how high they can be now since I broke my ankle five years ago. My Physiotherapist was always on my case about not wearing heels at all, but he has given up on trying, and now tells me to, at least reduce the inches, so I have decided to be a good girl and comply. Looking good is good business.
What are the challenges (in terms of inconveniences) that come with being a popular face considering your ‘television’ job? You lose your privacy. People automatically make themselves authorities where your life is concerned. If you spit, it means you must be pregnant; if you board public transport, it means you must be broke; if you have lunch with a person of the opposite sex, you must be having an affair. The tabloids don’t help matters. They make up all kinds of headlines to sell their papers and leave people miserable and relationships broken. People love you when the going is good, and hate you when you make wrong moves. I know some celebrities mess up big time, but that doesn’t mean every celebrity will mess up. We will certainly make mistakes because we are human, but it doesn’t mean people and the press should bring the sledge hammer down as judge and jury with hardly any chance of an appeal. I believe also that if celebrities stay true to themselves and remain consistent, whatever people say or write, the truth will eventually be known. Without planning to, because we are in the public eye, we become role models for many (people) and have to work towards doing the right things always, as people constantly watch our lives. It’s a privilege to be a popular face, but it comes with its challenges. What are the benefits that also come with being a popular face considering your ‘television’ job? You have a platform to influence, change and impact on lives. It’s up to you how you use it. Like I said before, you become a role model and you can influence situations, people, and decisions by what you say or do. When you speak, many hang on to your every word, so you would be wise to speak knowledgably, wisely and from the heart. Your face and name can also open doors for you. You can garner support for projects because of who you are and many will respond. Personaly, a major benefit is that it helps me stay very true to myself. All the talk about popularity and fame is made possible by the people who say you are good - the fans. If they hate you, you are finished. The truth is, no matter how popular I am, how rich I am, how influential I am, when I get behind closed doors in my crib, the Yemi I see in
Where and how do you shop for your clothes? I have an eye for good things, so when I travel anywhere in the word, my eyes rove for that dress, that shirt, that shirt that says ‘come, Yemi, come’. It could take a while, but the minute I see it, we fall in love, and it comes home with me. I’m not a shopaholic. I shop deliberately and don’t settle for anything but what I want. I love wearing African designs and my sister Tolu Dazzle - who just finished her youth service and is a budding designer in Nigeria, makes all my African designs. She knows what I like and she customises my style for me. Currently, what are you doing in Ireland; personally and professionally? I worked with IBM International Holdings for close to eight years first in manufacturing then as a cost accountant. But ‘meeen’, I found accounting work very boring and monotonous. Imagine the irony. I had always wanted to be an accountant and when I finally get to work as one, I wanted the quickest door out. The media is my love, my passion, my pleasure. So it was time to go back to my love. My husband and I started D-Dymensions Communications Ltd in 2007 and the company has so grown that it is now the parent company to five subsidiaries through which it offers a wide range of creative, strategic, high-quality and effective services designed to meet the needs of clientele with excellent and satisfactory deliverables. Our goal is simple: Know the needs of our clients and develop strategic interventions to meet them. Our new projects to watch out for include a Reality TV Show, a series of documentaries, which we are happy has just received the endorsement of the House of Representatives) Committee on Diaspora Affairs and its Chairman, the Family Album magazine and the return of Sharing with Yemi. Our subsidiaries are Phoenix Institute of Training & Development (PITD), Ireland, PITD provides high-quality training and development programmes for individuals, groups, corporate executives and organisations from different parts of the globe. The heart of our knowledge impartation is our ability to offer contemporary and relevant training programmes tailored to meet our client’s specific requirements using the latest learning technologies, facilities, and methods to match our client’s experience, availability, career and corporate objectives with their ultimate goal. Also, we have Floodlights Productions that specialises in the development, production and directing of high-quality television and radio entertaining/informative/educative programmes. We produce all our own content and partner with corporate, cultural, broadcast and com-
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mercial clients at different locations all over the world to bring ideas to live. Our experience and expertise allows us to produce content across all genres from feature film, to television drama, reality show, talk show and documentaries. How has life been outside Nigeria? Very good for me. The purpose for staying abroad was achieved with fringe benefits even. I am a happier and better person for it. I think I’m a perfect example of receiving full restoration of all the years the locust had eaten, as written in the Bible. Life outside Nigeria is different. Anyone who lives abroad will tell you that. Its peaceful; you can achieve a lot of things quicker because of orderliness and an organised system etc, but I’ll tell you one thing for nothing: I’ve come to realise something unique about us Nigerians, it seems our hearts have trackers installed automatically at birth and wherever we are on the surface of the earth, the radar finds us and pulls us home. Our hearts gravitate towards Naija somewhat involuntarily at some stage. Honestly, east or west, home is the best. I know a lot of Nigerians have given the country a bad name out there, but I always say, in this age and time, one bad apple does not necessarily have to spoil the whole bunch anymore. Take out the one bad apple and you have a basket full of great apples. I love Nigeria and I am proudly Nigerian any day. I am a good Nigerian making Nigeria proud in the Diaspora and you can take that to the bank. Any plan to come home soon? That’s for me to know and you to wonder. Where, when and how did you meet your husband? We met in Church in 1985, at the choir rehearsal for our annual convention in church in Ikenne, Ogun State. What was your instinct at the first interaction? I thought, ‘Hmmm… fine guy, too dark, but not bad looking’. Were you struck by Cupid’s arrow at the first sight or what? Nothing struck anything. I simply thought he was a nice looking guy, that’s all. When he ‘toasted’ you, what went through your mind? How are you sure I didn’t toast him? (just kidding). There wasn’t really a ‘toasting’ as such. We became friends; wrote to each other regularly and I suppose the content of our letters said plenty without being direct. We became so fond of each other that things naturally fell into place. Did you play hard-to-get during the ‘chasing’ period? Hard-to-get? What does that even mean? By the time it hit me that he wanted us to become an item, I was already stupidly in love with this man. He was my first love, so there was no playing hard-to-get. He got me at hello. After you had agreed to date him, did you nurse any
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fears? Oh, plenty of fears. I was young; I was very naïve and never been in love before, so I was afraid of getting hurt. Also, he was actually going out with a lady he was to marry at the time, so I felt there was no future if I went into a relationship with him. But I was already in love with him, so… How did he propose to you? It was in the balcony of his three bedroom flat in IjebuOde, Ogun State. He first rattled some mumbo-jumbo about the past, the future and the reasons why he loves me. Then, out of the blue, he got on one knee and asked me to marry him. He even had a cake with a candle in it. How does one resist that? Was he romantic? Very romantic! He really went out of his way. Is he still romantic? If he’s anymore romantic than he is now, I’ll begin to think he’s trying to marinade me for some impending sacrifice. Val is a sweetheart. He loves to take me out, buy me beautiful gifts; he treats me like a queen and makes me feel loads of inches taller. In his words, he loves to ‘show me off’. He loves cooking and always wants to impress me with his cooking. He loves to cuddle me, says I’m his cuddly teddy bear. Given your husband’s job schedule, which takes him away from home or from you often, how do you feel and cope in his absence? Being an actor or producer is not the only job that can take men away from home, so for me it has never been a big deal. Interestingly, we work together a lot now, so we spend a lot of time together, but when he needs to travel for work, he must travel for work. He’s a man, and he works to put food on the table. Do you feel jealous at the sight of women around him considering his career also? Val has always had women around him from the first day I met him not just as an actor. And if he decided to marry me out of all those beautiful women, then I must have struck a cord in him and done something right. Not that many don’t try to get his attention, but I know he loves me and is mindful of the vows he made to me. He’s a good man with a kind heart and the fear of God, and I trust him to always try to do the right thing. Why do you call him Val? I call my husband Val because he is my Valentine. I asked him to be my Valentine about 29 years ago, and since then, he’s been my Val. With your beauty and nature of job, doesn’t he feel threatened at times too? Perhaps he can answer that question better than I could. I however know that he knows he has no reason to be threatened. He knows exactly how I feel about him. How do you manage male pressures and advances? When I first got married 21 years ago, it was difficult, as a media personality to find the right way to ward off some men without being rude. You know they only want one thing, even though they know you are married and you try as hard as you can to tell them you’re not that kind of person. But some of them care less about your marital status, in fact that is sometimes the very reason they want you. I never accepted gifts from men; never went to any invitation of lunch or dinner which wasn’t work related and involved other people because I didn’t want to be rude to anyone after accepting their gifts or going to lunch with them. Now I’m older and many years wiser. Aside from still not accepting unnecessary gifts and not going to unnecessary lunches, I have perfected the art of ‘how to be politely rude’ to all the stubborn men who refuse to respect the fact that I am married. If they make advances, knowing I am married, then they should be prepared for the consequential unpleasant end. What if the handshake is going beyond the elbow? The handshake can go beyond the elbow if they shake my hand in the first place. My people say: ‘whatever you know you won’t eat, don’t smell it’. My husband is a man of the gift of wisdom. I have learnt so much from him over the years. I use what I have learnt.
How does the home front fare when daddy and mummy are not around given the nature of their work? The children are used to it now. We spend a lot of time with them when we are home to make up for when we are not. Would you encourage any of your children to go into broadcast? I have learnt and resolved never to choose a career for any of my children. I want them to choose themselves and I always pray that they choose what they love and enjoy doing, not what seems the ideal career to pick. Whatever they decided to do, I will support them to make the best of it. If any of them decides to go into broadcasting, then they have a readymade practical training ground right under their nose. Interestingly, all my children have totally different personalities and characters. My first daughter is in her final year in the University; she’s known exactly what she wants and she’s pursuing it passionately with our support. When the others get to that stage of deciding, we’ll support them to achieve the best. What are the values broadcasting added to your life? Authenticity, professionalism, fun, friendship, consistency, determination, spirituality and integrity. These have joined my long list of values. If given another opportunity, would you still marry your husband? No question about it. He’s my everyday Santa. What really and actually attracted you to him? He’s sincerity and kindness. He’s very genuine. He’s never afraid to admit a mistake and apologise for it. He sees the good in everyone and always has a kind word for people. He is nice to a fault, but I love him like that. What don’t you like about him that you wish he could stop doing? Honestly, there is nothing I don’t like about him, even his ‘bad habits’. Those are the things that make him Val. If he has to change anything, then he wouldn’t be Val anymore. He’ll be somebody else. Please describe your husband in the way YOU see him Simple…My Val. What are your favourites? For colour, black, food, Chinese rice, Designer, Tolu Dazzle and Yemi’s ensemble. Jaguar and Mercedes are my favourites for cars while my perfumes are Miracle, Pleasures, Dune, Prada and Clinique Happy What does fashion mean to you? It means confidence, poise, carriage, business, because looking good is good business. How fashionable are you? Very comfortable in my skin and anything that sits on it speaks fashion. What won’t you be caught without anytime? My dairy.
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Top Nollywood’s bootilicious babes
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In 20 years of the existence of Nollywood, only a few stars have demonstrated courage to display their voluptuous parts to fans and colleagues except Cossy Orjiakor, who sometimes comes close to baring it all. However, in the last couple of years, some have inadvertently taunted men with their sexy curves. These days, there seems to be a craze by Nollywood babes to show off their booties and curves. This, they’ve done live at movie locations, Instagram pages, regular events, award ceremonies, red carpets and musical concerts. So much is the craze for booty displays that some actresses go as far as enhancing theirs through surgery, while others settle for body enhancement suits. In this edition, TAYO MUSTAPHA parades some of Nollywood’s ‘bootilicious’ queens and their enchanting virtues. Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde
Widely acclaimed the pathfinder in this miniature genre of Nollywood, Time Magazine’s acclaimed Nollywood Queen; Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde might be referred to as the touch bearer of ‘bootilicious’ queens of Nollywood. Her booty is of no comparison, so much that it made headlines in Nigeria’s softsales. Shown in tight fitted gowns and attires, they leave colleagues and fans breathless. For her booty, Omotola was tagged the real ‘African Magic’ by Big Brother Africa host, Ik Osakioduwa, at the maiden edition of the Africa Magic Viewers Choice Awards. Surprisingly, Omotola has four lovely kids!
ceremony of the 2013 African International Film Festival, which held in Calabar, Cross River State. Lydia flaunts her booty whenever necessary, but she’s a bold and proud black woman, who believes she’s the true and essence of an African woman. She’s a popular Ghanaian actress and has gotten several raunchy roles that left her wriggling and whining her booty to the admiration of fans and the audience.
Halima Abubakar
One of the actresses to discover the tenacity of sexual appeal in Nollywood, Halima Abubakar has got some considerable booty. Hers is a cynosure of all eyes and when many couldn’t, she has dared, been there and seen it all. Though her booty rarely make news in recent Joselyn Dumas days, Halima can’t be ignored while compiling a list of She is a Ghanaian and had lived unnoticed until recently. Joselyn Dumas had carried on with her booty ‘bootilicious’ Nollywood queens. for years as a presenter and part-time actress without Biodun Okeowo Sofuyi attracting much attention - largely because she sits Another ‘Yoruba’ actress with an impressive booty most times on her TV programme. But became a is Biodun Okeowo Sofuyi. Widely referred to as Tolani source of attraction when the craze for voluptuous Osinrin and Omo Butty, Biodun’s booty remains one booties became an added advantage for getting roles of the fascinating ones even after two kids! She tows the in Nigerian movie industry. The sultry actress can same path with Omotola and Mercy and has impressed conveniently compete with Omotola, save for her several male fans and admirers with her massive height. feature. Aside flaunting her booty and sultry looks on Instagram, a meeting with Biodun on a red carpet event Mercy Johnson-Okojie would leave every man the envy of his peers and friends. The story of Mercy Johnson’s booty would be incomplete without the fore knowledge that she grew Earning herself considerable movie roles and producing a few, Biodun’s booty is regarded as being seductively in Nollywood-both in age and stature. Young Mercy appealing. was the cynosure of all eyes at 27. She was young, curvy - with massive boobs and booty and her career was blossoming regadless that she had a few scandals Anita Joseph Not many movie lovers would accept that her to deal with. Mercy headlined several newspapers, booty ranks her amongst Nollywood queens but her magazines, blogs and entertainment websites for tenacity in flaunting and showing the Nigerian male weeks and months daring fashion buffs and leaving and female audience what she’s got qualifies her as one. men breathless with her growing booty and boobs. Her Facebook account reeks of pictures of the actress Before becoming Mrs. Okojie, Mercy became the target of several photojournalists as shots of her made showing off her considerable booty. She makes efforts front page, and earned them accolades. Her booty has to create attention with her backside, just like few names on this list, and even though she doesn’t get the much grown to become one of the most fantasized by the expected attention, she has got her retinue of fans and malefolk. male admirers.
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Ronke Odusanya
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Not many would remember the name Ronke Odusanya but when Flakky Ididowo is mentioned, everyone remembers the ‘Yoruba’ actress as one with one of the most irresistible figures! Dark, effervescent and fashionable, Ronke undoubtedly is one of the reigning Nollywood ‘bootilicious queens’. So much is Ronke’s booty that she earned herself the booty title role in the popular flick, Flakky Ididowo. Not one who flaunts her booty but like almost every actress on this list, her booty has literary turned her a golden fish with little or no hiding place.
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Daniella Okeke
Daniella Okeke is the star of one of Emem Isong’s flicks - Lagos Cougars . She has become a regular celebrity for photshoots, for her booty flaunting on Instagram and red carpets. Though her massive tits and booty remain a subject of discourse having amassed the voluptuous features in just two years, she has become one of the head turners at events. Not the most pretty of them all, but the Igbo lady is not shy to flaunts her backside at the slightest opportunity. Without doubts, her ‘assests’ have earned her several roles in Nollywood movies.
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Halima
She is another Ghanaian actress who knows what her booty causes when she adorns those tight-fitted pants! Lydia Forson causes a stir at almost all events and she knows how to make herself a subject of discourse. She left men fantacising at the opening
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Trip More about Emeka Offor’s N100m society wedding
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hat sells a film? I think the Americans are the closest to defining what’s an effective film – that’s what they call it. You know, for them, an effective film is the one that brings the audience to the cinema. The trick they use, which I’ve found out from research, is that they make the audience understand and empathise with a particular character and in so doing they worry along and struggle along with the character. In the end, they want the character to win because the character winning is also their own win. Because really, when you look at, and if you check it, the way the adrenalin rushes, if you are hungry for a while and you are anticipating food, when you finally eat it, you are satisfied. It is the same trick; it is the same use of adrenalin. So it is the one that creates enough adrenalin rushing in an individual. That’s what the Americans have said and I think it’s true to a large extent. Which of your works gives you the greatest joy and why? Each one is peculiar…
We know that they are all peculiar, but we want you to single out one? I can’t, I can’t…I like Rattlesnake because it was my first born, I must say. That’s among the films. If it’s soaps, then I love Checkmate. These are my kids, the things that came out first and they give me peculiar joy because when people turn around and tell you that we are waiting for you to surpass those two, it becomes an ambition that you will want to work on. For me, if you must insist, then those two are it. Well, I like Violated also because the mistakes I made in Rattlesnake, I corrected in Violated.
illionaire businessman, Sir Emeka Offor, married his 28-year-old bride, Barrister Adaora Ufondu in Nnewi, Anambra State, early in the year. Adaora is the daughter of Mr. Alexander Okey Ufondu, a wealthy Onitsha trader. Flavour, Kcee, Harrysong and PSquare performed at the extravagant wedding said to have gulped over N100million, while seven serving governors reportedly graced the occasion. Emeka Offor is said to control a large business empire encompassing power, oil and gas, as well as other areas of the economy. His eldest child Ndidi, 30, and first son Chuka, 28, played major roles at the event, while sources close to the billionaire claimed that the marriage is actually his third.
Revealed! Fresh facts about Ayo Adesanya’s ‘hellish’ marriage
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ctress Ayo Adesanya has sensationally revealed a little about her domestic violence experience while living with her former husband, Mr. Goriola Hassan. She says if a man shows any slightest form of violence, ladies don’t go in. Her words: “I thought I was in a loving relationship; I mean it was all fun until the beatings started and then got worse...and I just couldn’t let go because I was emotionally confused. This is the same man that touches me lovingly, caters for my needs and calls me baby, yet beats me up. The loving moments make me think that he will change but when it got so bad, I had to convince myself that he will never change. Women must watch out for men who shove them here and there...”
Outside of your own works, which is the best Nigerian film that you have watched?
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Oh, I love Igodo, I love Igodo. I think it was a very well told adventure story. I’ve even promoted it beyond Nigeria. People have asked for it and I’ve bought for them. Beyond it, I can’t remember immediately any other Nigerian film that I have seen that caught me like that. It kept me and I watched it all night. Igodo, for me, was a very good film. The editing also was very good.
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yetade, daughter of Nobel laureate, Wole Soyinka was buried last Friday amidst sorrow and wailing at the Chapel of Resurrection, University of Ibadan, Oyo State. The late Ms. Soyinka died on December 28, 2013 at the University Teaching Hospital, Ibadan, a consequence of brief illness. She was born on June 5, 1965. According to reports, Iyetade is survived by two children - a daughter, Oreofe, and son, Adeoto. According to a member
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Folorunsho Ala to wed soon
Which of your works do you feel you could have done better anytime you watch it? All of them, all of them and that is why I don’t watch my films after I’ve made them. God has been very nice to you, what more do you want from Him? Honestly, to ask for more will be good. But I think health. Very good health, perfect health is what I want. Ability to do what I want to do without the blood pressures, the back pains, losing a lot of weight and to feel good. Apart from that, for my children to be healthy. I think that’s it. For me, I’m as content as you can; even with little I’ve always been a contented person in my life. But I think if we can have good health, we will be able to do more; we will be able to progress and enjoy our lives. It’s not enough to do things and then you can’t enjoy them. But with good health, you can. For me, the present challenge I want is perfect health, to be able to do more.
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of the Soyinka family, “Iyetade’s death has brought sadness and an overwhelming sense of loss,” describing the deceased as their cherished daughter. Late Iyetade had her education in Nigeria but later moved to England where, according to a relative, she chose to explore the world of theatre arts, culture and writing. Learnt that hervolume of poetry - Stars, Fill My Skies - was scheduled for release at the end of last year.
otimi, one of the sons of billionaire businesswoman, Folorunsho Alakija, is to wed soon, sto pretty Miss Kike Fajemirokun, whom he dated for a while after they met in the United Kingdom where they both schooled. Kike attended University of Lancaster while Rotimi studied at Bristol and got a master’s degree from University of Surrey. Rotimi is an executive director at his mum’s Famfa Oil Limited, and is specifically in charge of marketing, sales and export of Agbami crude. No date has yet been fixed for the wedding, but inside sources said it will hold soon. Rotimi is said to have three siblings - Dele, Ladi and Folarin.
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ce comedian, Basketmouth, has apologised for his joke on rape, which was posted on the social media last Saturday. The said joke compared dates between white and black girls. According to Basketmouth, after receiving criticisms for the joke from across the continent, the comedian later posted an apology on the internet. He disclosed that his joke was misunderstood and stated that he will never make such a mistake again. “Ok guys, I’m sorry about the rape joke. I won’t crack such jokes again. I have a daughter, wife, sisters and a mother whom I will give my life to protect. Anything done for a woman is less than they deserve for their roles in our lives. I would never in a thousand lifetimes encourage rape; the joke was clearly misunderstood and has been found offensive. To all the women that make our lives
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colourful, the ones we literally owe our lives to, I apologise for the joke. It wasn’t meant that way by a long shot.”
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Why I gave my husband my kidney –OJB’s wife
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JB’s wife of 20 years, Mabel Okungbowa, donated her kidney to the prolific music producer a few months ago. In a chat with yours truly, she said: “I did not even think twice about it, I had it and I gave it to him. He is my husband, the father of our children and I love him. This is somebody I have been with all my life. I did not tell anybody before I decided to, not even my parents because I had foreseen their reaction. There was no reason to inform them. When I married him, I told God I wanted both of us to grow old together and live to see many generations. I am sure God knew this situation before he brought us together because not only am I a match for him, we are of the same blood group too”.
JosephYobo and wife celebrate 3rd wedding anniversary
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enultimate week, Super Eagles Skipper, Joseph Yobo and his wife Adaeze threw the doors of their palatial home in Nigeria open to friends, family and associates in celebration of their 3rd year wedding anniversary. They reportedly met in 2010 and after a brief courtship, became husband and wife in a ceremony held in Jos. The marriage is blessed with a son, Baby Joey.
Bayo Fatunsi Foundation fetes widows, others
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ast Christmas, the Bayo Fatunsi Foundation put smiles on the faces of widows through its empowerment gesture of foodstuff, cash and educational grants. Held at St. Dominic’s Church, Ondo, Ondo State, the widows otherwise called ‘Sisters of Rita’ expressed gratitude to the Foundation while Most Rev Jude Arogundade did the presentation. Founded by Mr. Bayo Fatusin, a successful businessman with hands in real estate, oil, gas, and hospitality ventures, the Foundation aims at alleviating the immediate sufferings of the people. “We not only help Catholic Church widows, our
volunteers regularly visit poverty-stricken areas and charity homes to distribute food and supplies to women, children, and the less privileged. On education, the Foundation supports education through the building of classrooms and laboratories and by providing financial education. By educating those in need, we can help them become self-reliant and break the recurring, generational pattern of poverty”. With head office in Ondo Kingdom, the Bayo Fatusin Foundation is led by elder statesman, Chief Bayo Akinola, the Lisa of Ondo Kingdom, who serves as the Chairman of the Board of Trustees.
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Wizkid finally breaks silence on Headies snub
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izkid got just one nomination at the just concluded HEADIES and that has sparked a lot of controversies. A lot of people felt Wizkid ruled the airways in 2013, especially with his international awards, and wonder why he got just one nomination in the HEADIES. None of his 2013 songs amongst which are ‘Jaiye jaiye’, ‘Caro’, ‘Back to the matter’, ‘Lagos to Soweto’ got any nomination, while the singer was only nominated under the ‘Artiste of the year’ category. His fans have been complaining while TV presenters have also talked about it. Wizkid recently broke the silence when he said that his fans see and appreciate all the work and that’s enough award to last him a life time.
Governor Okorocha’s daughter welcomes twins
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overnor Rochas Okorocha has become a grandfather and that is good news to the Imo first family. His first daughter, Uloma Okorocha Nwosu, welcomed twins late last year. Uloma, in January last year, married Uche Nwosu, a serving commissioner in her father’s cabinet. Uloma is the Director General of her fathers Foundation - Rochas Okorocha Foundation - while her husband is the Commissioner for Lands, Survey and Urban Planning in Imo State.
I wasn’t stoned on stage –Terry G
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nergetic entertainer, Terry G, has debunked rumours that he was chased out of stage by irate fans during a performance in Makurdi, Benue State, few weeks ago. Reports have it that Terry G, alongside Ice Prince and J Martins were at the IBB Square, Makurdi for a show. The first to perform was Ice Prince, who left nothing behind to excite the audience. Coming after him was Terry G, who also, in his usual way gave an energetic performance. After the songs - Free Madness and Akpako Bombom - the anxious fans were already crossing the barricade erected by the security operatives. By the time Terry G was performing the song ‘Halleluyah’, the overzealous fans, who apparently picked special love for the singer, because he is an indigene of the State, trooped to the stage, and in the process, efforts by the security personnel to push them back resulted to a protest. While the security men continued to hit the crowd, they responded by throwing objects back at them. This prompted
organisers of the event to move Terry G, his crew and other artistes away from the scene through the backstage. “It is simply impossible for my fans, not even in my State where I’m being treated like a King to throw stones at me or chase me out of the stage, it’s not realistic. The problem was purely between the security guys and the audience, but for security reasons, I and the other artistes had to be taken out of the scene. Whoever is spreading the rumour that I was stoned is simply ignorant of what happened,” Terry G said.
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Sparkle with By Laide Sotunde
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hey are shiny, sparkly and very glamorous. They can make you look like a star and the center of attention! Reserve them for special occasions when you want to look better than you ever have before. Sequins are dramatic, so a dramatic shoe choice can amp up your look and bring your feet (and what’s on them) to the party. Suede, velvet, patent leather, transparent plastic and patterned leather (think a weave or peek-a-boo cutout) can all work very well.
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This handsome, classy and stylish actor/producer sure knows how to turn heads. Check him out!
20 WAYS TO LOVE YOUR BODY 1. Think of your body as the vehicle to your dreams. Honour it. Respect it. Fuel it. 2. Create a list of all the things your body lets you do. Read it and add to it often. 3. Become aware of what your body can do each day. Remember it is the instrument of your life, not just an ornament. 4. Create a list of people you admire: people who have contributed to your life, your community, or the world. Consider whether their appearance was important to their success and accomplishments. 5. Walk with your head held high, supported by pride and confidence in yourself as a person. 6. Don’t let your weight or shape keep you from activities that you enjoy. 7. Wear comfortable clothes that you like, that express your personal style, and that feel good to your body. 8. Count your blessings, not your blemishes. 9. Think about all the things you could
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accomplish with the time and energy you currently spend worrying about your body and appearance. Try one! Be your body’s friend and supporter, not its enemy. Consider this: your skin replaces itself once a month, your stomach lining every five days, your liver every six weeks, and your skeleton every three months. Your body is extraordinary--begin to respect and appreciate it. Every morning when you wake up, thank your body for resting and rejuvenating itself so you can enjoy the day. Every evening when you go to bed, tell your body how much you appreciate what it has allowed you to do throughout the day. Find a method of exercise that you enjoy and do it regularly. Don’t exercise to lose weight or to fight your body. Do it
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to make your body healthy and strong and because it makes you feel good. Exercise for the Three F’s: Fun, Fitness, and Friendship. Think back to a time in your life when you felt good about your body. Tell yourself you can feel like that again, even in this body at this age. Keep a list of 10 positive things about yourself--without mentioning your appearance. Add to it! Put a sign on each of your mirrors saying, “I’m beautiful inside and out.” Choose to find the beauty in the world and in yourself. Start saying to yourself, “Life is too short to waste my time hating my body this way.” Eat when you are hungry. Rest when you are tired. Surround yourself with people that remind you of your inner strength and beauty.
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LifeStyle -
ETIQUETTE with Sola Sanusi
sola.sanusi@mydailynewswatchng.com
Adapting to a new work environment
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his is a New Year; a couple of people will like to start the New Year on a new note especially, the job. Many resigned from the former job to pick up a new one; job change is a stressful situation not only for young professionals, but also for experienced and professional specialists. Always there are doubts, what if a new employee will not be able to find common ground with colleagues and to become a part of the team? What are to be done in order not to spoil the impression in the first working day? Here are some adaptation rule for you, pay attention to create a positive image and build a good relationship with co-workers. Respect the rules of the company It is believed that the first impression is the most strongest. The professional image of a new employee is formed for a very short period of time and is rather difficult to be changed. Therefore, you should not neglect such important things like punctuality or compliance to the dress code. Try to come 10-15 minutes before the beginning of the working day. Consider what clothes is appropriate - in a team, where everyone wears suits, there is no place for t-shirts or jeans. Compliance with internal regulations of the company cause subconscious respect for your persona and your personal qualities. Be in a positive mood You should not be upset if you notice that the attitude of colleagues is not changing. This is not surprising because there has always been the ambiguous and cautious opinion about the newcomers, which eventually may change for the worse or better side. Demonstrate your friendly attitude and willingness to find a common language with colleagues. Do not hesitate to ask questions It is rather difficult for new employee to penetrate immediately into the work process, so he/she often makes stupid mistakes and gets into silly situations. That is why you do not hesitate to ask questions from your colleagues. In most cases, co-workers will help you and advise you how to proceed in a particular situation. Be a good worker Attitude to work is the important quality for which a new employee is estimated by other workers. Uncover all your best skills - professionalism, responsibility, teamwork and ability to learn from mistakes. Conscientious performance of job duties will gain respect in the team and create a good business reputation. It is likely that management can take an interest in your affairs (especially during the probationary period) and someone from colleagues will give a positive recommendation. Accept advice Many employees, especially those who have many years of experience, consider that their
duty is to help every beginner. Listen to their advice carefully and quietly - perhaps some of them will seem really interesting and effective. In no case take such recommendations as criticism or doubt in your competence. It is better to thank for their help and promise to contact them in case of other issues. Do not engage in conflicts Even if you have become a witness of the conflict situation, do not rush to support someone or become an indispensable part of the discussion. Neutral position is the most correct variant of your behavior under these circumstances. Do not impose your opinion and do not criticize the actions of other colleagues, especially those who are highly respected. Watch the team and eventually you will realize whom you may ask the advice in the difficult moments and how to behave in the presence of other employees. Beware of intrigue Despite the fact that every team has its fans of gossip, the newcomer should not take an active participation in the discussion of management work or other colleagues as that will cause rather ambiguous reaction. Furthermore, the spreading of rumors contributes to the situation that in the nearest future you will find detractors and enemies that could adversely affect your career. Do not talk too much Do not tell a lot of personal information from your life - colleagues can find you too talkative. Answer the questions briefly but succinctly. Your restraint and at the same time openness will play the decent service for building relationships with the team. Try not to impose Try not show the importunity in the communicating with colleagues. In this case be patient, because all relationships are built gradually. Be polite and answer questions in a friendly tone. Do not be afraid to hold a conversation or offer help, especially if you see that a colleague needs support. Keep the distance Many people mistakenly believe that the best way to get along in a team is try to become friends immediately with someone from colleagues. However, it is not the right way. Keep the distance, but at the same time show respect and patience to each employee of the company. Look closely perhaps the company has its own culture and unspoken rules that should be taken and considered? Other workers will soon see it and appreciate your personal qualities. Do not neglect corporate holidays and other events - it helps know each other better.
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Chartered Institute of Bankers of Nigeria celebrateD 50th Anniversary in Lagos Recently.
President/Chairman of Council, Chartered Institute of Bankers of Nigeria, Dr. Segun Aina, presenting an award to former Registrar/CEO of the Institute, Chief Esan Ogunleye, while its Registrar/CEO, Dr. Uju Ugbuska, watches in admiration
R-L: Chief Esan Ogunleye, Chief Sunday Adegbeye (KSA) , Otunba (Mrs.) Debola Osibogun, Mr. Tayo Badru (left) and others.
Lagos State Medical Guild’s Annual AGM in Lagos, Recently.
L-R: Public Healthcare Specialist, Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), Prof. OIayinka Abosede, with Special Adviser on Public Health to Lagos State Governor , Dr. Yowande Adesina, at the 2013 AGM of Lagos State Medical Guild held at the LCCI Events Centre, Laqgos. Ikeja.
Newly-elected chairman, Lagos State Medical Guild, Dr. Biyi Kufo (left), with his predecessor, Dr. Muyiwa OIdusote, after the election at the Guild’s 2013 AGM held at the LCCI Events Centre, Ikeja.
Saturday Newswatch, January 11, 2014
PEOPLE &
Lagos State GOVERNMENT’S 2014 thanksgiving service held at the State House, Alausa, RECENTLY.
L-R: Pastor Enoch Adeboye, Governor Babatunde Fashola, Mr. & Mrs Lateef Jakande and Rear Admiral Ndubuisi Kanu (rtd).
L-R: Mr. & Mrs. Henry Ajomale, Pastor & Pastor (Mrs.) Enoch Adeboye, Governor Babatunde Fashola and wife, Abimbola; and Deputy Governor, Mrs. Adejoke Orelope Adefulire of Lagos State.
the Christmas Carol service held at Senator Anthony Adefuye’s Lekki home recently.
L-R: Mr Adedeji Davies, Dr. Veronica Iwayemi, Public Relations Consultant, Mr. Aramide Tola Noibi and Engr. Olusola Ayo-Vaughan
Host, Senator Anthony Adefuye (left) with former Chief of Gen. Staff, Lt. Gen. Oladipo Diya (rtd).
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Saturday Newswatch, January 11, 2014
PLACES
At Senator Rasheed Ladoja’s daughter’s wedding ceremony held recently in Lagos
During the swearing-in of new executive members of ICAN, Ikorodu District recently in Lagos.
L-R: The couple, flanked by Mr and Mrs Richard Mofe-Damijo Immediate past Chairman, Rev. Samson Disu (left) and General Secretary, Mr Odewale Oluniyi.
Bride’s father, Senator Rasheed Ladoja, flanked by the couple
At the wedding ceremony of Chukwukere Akiwiwu and Ure Obowuu held at Our Savious Church, Tafawa Balewa, Lagos.
The couple, Mr & Mrs Chukwukere Akiwiwu
R-L: Deputy Speaker, House of Representatives, Hon. Emeka Ihedioha and Dr & Mrs Photos:Godwin Irekhe Maduka Nwokwobi
Cross section of the executive members
Chief Chris Ogunbanjo celebrated his 90th birthday in Lagos recently
L-R: Governor, Ogun State, Senator Ibikunle Amosun; celebrant, Chief Chris Ogunbanjo, Mr Akintola Williams and Asiwaju Bola Tinubu
Otunba Adekunle Ojora (left), Asiwaju Bola Tinubu and Chief Mrs. Ojora (right). Photos: Samuel Aluko
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Saturday Newswatch, January 11, 2014
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Consume hearthealthy fats
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raving for sugar can be alleviated by ensuring that you have some of the good fats in your diet. People have these erroneous beliefs that all fats are dangerous. This is not true! Your body needs healthy fats because they help to strengthen the brain, heart, skin, lungs eyes, and virtually all parts of the body. The bad fats are called killer fats. They are hydrogenated fats and trans fats that are produced when plant-based oils are hydrogenated to produce solid spreads, such as margarine, confectionaries like cakes, cookies, pies, doughnuts and most salad dressings. They are dead foods which are toxic to the body. The “OK” fats (saturated fats) are fats that can kill when in excess. They are primarily found in animal fats and raise (bad) cholesterol in the body. Examples are fats found in cured meat such as sausage, bacon, ham, hot dogs, etc; red meats, duck and goose meat; confectionaries such as hamburgers, chicken strips, commercial fried foods and processes foods, such as cakes, cookies, etc; salad dressings and some vegetable oil such as palm oil, coconut oil, corn oil and sun flower oil. Limited intake of this kind of fat is required. Saturated fat enhance our immune system, protects the liver from toxic substances, help promote weight loss, prevents breast and colon cancer and allows calcium to be incorporated into our bones when moderate quantity is taken. There is a strong link between high blood cholesterol levels and the risk of heart disease. Reducing the proportion of saturated fat in the diet, can help to reduce blood cholesterol levels. For those who do not have cardiovascular disease or are not considered to be at high risk of cardiovascular diseases, normal blood cholesterol levels are below 5mmol/litre. People with average energy needs should aim to consume no more than 70g/day of fat and less than 20g/day of saturated fat. Healthy fats are basically found in living foods. They include Omega-6 fats such as those found in virgin olive oil, grapeseed oil, rice bran oil or raw nuts and seeds like natural organic peanuts butter, avocados, walnuts and almonds. And Omega-3 fats such as those found in cold water fish, marine mammals, etc. Healthy fats can actually make us more metabolically active, which means we will burn more calories if we eat them. They heal the body by strengthening and nourishing the cell membranes, protects the brain, reversing signs of brain aging, prevents Alzheimer’s disease and dementia development, protects the heart from inflammation, prevents colon and breast cancers, reduces the risk of stroke and it has anti- hypertensive effects. It is therefore important to cut down saturated fats to improve heart health, especially in children and the aged. Studies have shown that: dietary surveys of older people contained much saturated fat. It is vital to understand that the nutritional value of any edible oil can be destroyed and turned into toxins depending on the processing and cooking techniques used. If you enjoy fried foods, lightly stir-fry on low heat using healthy oils as mentioned above. Avoid deep-frying your food because the oils used in deep frying are usually heated at high temperatures converting these oils to dangerous lipid peroxides, which creates a huge amount of free radicals that can damage the liver and cause chromosomal damages as well. Remember that moderation is key. Moderate amounts of saturated fats would help combat some health challenges. Thankfully, many manufacturers have now modified processing techniques to keep these fats to a minimum. When reducing total fat, it’s important not to cut out the heart healthy fats from the diet including mono and poly-unsaturated fats and omega-3, mostly found in plant and fish oils.
Spaghetti Bolognese Laide Sotunde
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he Bolognese special sauce is an Italian delicacy which originating from Bologna, Italy. Served on-top spaghetti /any pasta of your choice or cooked the ‘jollof way’, this delicious and tasty meal will make you ask for more. Try it out! Ingredients • 400g Spaghetti. • 500g Fresh Beef (Mince) • 4 sticks of sausage (finely diced). • 2 Chopped Tomatoes. • 2 Medium Onions, (peeled and finely diced). • 2 Sticks of Celery, (trimmed and finely diced). • 2 Carrots, (trimmed and finely diced). • 2 Cloves of Garlic, (peeled and finely diced). • 1 Medium Chilli (optional), (seeded and finely sliced) • 2 tbsp Tomato Puree • 1 Beef Stock Cube. • Glass of red wine (optional) • 2-3 Sprigs of Fresh Rosemary. • Handful of Fresh Basil, plus extra for Garnish. • 1-2 Fresh Bay Leaves. • Olive oil. • Sea Salt to taste • Black Pepper (as desired) Method 1. Get yourself a large heavy-bottomed saucepan, and place it on a medium heat. Add a good lug of olive oil and gently fry your sausages until golden and crisp, then reduce the heat slightly and add your onions, carrots, celery and garlic. Next remove the leaves from the Rosemary sprigs and add them to the pot, discarding the sprigs. Move everything
around and fry for around 8-10 minutes until the vegetables are soft.
vours develop into a wonderfully rich tomatoey sauce. Stir occasionally, season to taste.
2. Next, increase the heat slightly, add the minced meat and stir until the meat is browned all over.
5. Meanwhile add salt to a pan of boiling water and cook the spaghetti with salt to taste. Once the spaghetti is ready, drain it in a colander and add it to the pan with the sauce. Give it all a good stir, coating the pasta in the lovely tomato sauce. Serve and use the extra basil leaves to make a great little garnish. Enjoy!
3. Stir in your chopped tomatoes, Add your tomato puree, stock cube, chilli, black pepper and if using, the wine. 4. Give everything a stir with a wooden spoon, breaking up the plum tomatoes as you go and bring to a gentle simmer. Reduce the heat to lowmedium, put the lid on and leave it blipping away for about an hour and 15 minutes until the fla-