7 Ways to be a Lovable Person
By Daniel Harper
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Everybody wants to be loved. We all crave affection from other people especially from the person we desire to be with the most. The sad truth is, not everyone will like or love you. And not everyone will reciprocate the same amount of affection that you express. The good news is you don’t need everyone to love you or like you. By being the most lovable person that you can be is enough to attract the right people deserving your love. Here are 7 ways on how you can do it.
Be nice. Everyone wants to be around nice people, including you. If you’re not nice, how would anyone be comfortable around you? If they’re not comfortable around you then how would they know that you are a lovable person? Being nice however is not about giving out fake smiles, saying yes all the time and doing things that you don’t like doing. Rather it’s about being polite, patient, considerate, and understanding. Just tap on the goodness in your heart and express it through your actions. Trust me, people will notice.
Be yourself. It’s difficult to be loved if you’re as shy as a turtle. How would anyone know how wonderful you are if you’re just hiding and not meeting other people? If this is the case then all you have to do is to be who you are. Be the kind of person that your family and friends love about you. Find out what you do best, what you’re good at, what is beautiful about you and use it to your advantage. If you have weaknesses then turn them into strengths. Your goal is to be yourself and be confident about it.
Show your funny side. You don’t have to be a stand-up comedian to show your funny side. Everyone has their own flavor of humor and way of making other people laugh. But be careful not to overdo it or others will notice that you’re just trying too hard. Just be yourself and don’t forget to be NICE.
Loosen up. If you’re scared or worried about a lot of things to the point that you’ve become so uptight, people will think that you’re no fun to be around. It’s also good to be on the safe side of things but most of the time you’ll just restrict yourself to the things that you’re comfortable of doing. If you’re shy then this will be a bigger problem. Loosen up a bit and have good fun. Don’t be afraid to try new things and live your life.
Be a good listener. Whenever you’re experiencing problems or undergoing a tough time things become easier when someone is there to listen, right? Why don’t you become a listener for other people. Everyone has a story to tell and wants their story told. If people know that you listen, they will eventually learn to appreciate your worth and trust you. This will be a bridge that will help you become a more lovable person.
Be positive. Negative people are difficult to get along with. They always think and talk about things that are wrong and could go wrong. If you want to be loved then you have to get rid of negativity. Don’t be a pessimist and become a positive person that people will look up to as a source of inspiration and fun. Remember, positivity attracts people.
Stand out. It pays to be different and unique. It just means that you know who you are and you respect yourself. Don’t try too hard to fit in and become like everybody else. The most important part of being loved is to be loved for who you really are. Stand out and be brave. Be thankful for your gifts and show people that you have a different flavor to add to the mix. People will respect and love you for that.
Love is a wonderful thing to give and receive. But if you want to be loved you have to learn how to love yourself and be lovable. If you are willing to show people that you are lovable then love will come to you. Love may not come to you the way you expect it but you can be sure that it’s something that you deserve. “At the heart of personality is the need to feel a sense of being lovable without having to qualify for that acceptance.” ~Paul Tournier
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