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from the publisher This month we obsess with love, liefde, l’amour, liebe, amore, ahavah, upendo. No matter the language, it is a many splendored thing. Beware! In combining Valentine’s Day, wedding and honeymoon content in one publication we raise the temperature considerably. If you’re of a more sober disposition, we recommend you swap your monthly DAVID read for another magazine: maybe a fly fishing monthly. But if you’re a hot-blooded reader and make the wise choice to remain loyal, we’ll reward you with sizzling content. Valentine’s Day in Sin City does not have to be just chocolates and roses; we explore creative and unusual ways to target Cupid’s arrow. Our piece Vegas Valentine is designed as encouragement, a source of inspiration. For intrepid couples wishing to venture out beyond the state line, we offer weekend escapes. A change of environment can get you in the mood. Consider taking your significant other to the mountains, the desert or the seaside. Speaking of getting in the mood, we grill Dr. Limor Blockman, a clinical sex therapist and relationship and family counselor; she helps with guidance — most importantly what to do once the mood has struck. Humans need to procreate; the survival of the species depends on intimacy. The genetics of attraction is the subject of university curricula. We focus, however, on the path from initial desire to wedded bliss: no small journey. The three couples interviewed seem to have found the Holy Grail of love and commitment. I wanted to replace my usual publisher’s note photo with one from the only honeymoon I’ve ever packed for. Sadly, I have to report that, notwithstanding their elegant album, the photos have yellowed and degraded. What has not faded, however, are the myriad memories of island-hopping in the Indian Ocean. The year is 1981; the newly minted marital unit of Max and Joanne Friedland, sanctified by the rabbinate and certified by the state, certainly celebrated their new tax status in grand style. I cannot be sure if the choice of content for this month’s fashion spread was prejudiced by personal experiences. What I can say, however, is that it was not our first choice. Marisa Finetti, our style editor, had planned for a lingerie piece featuring a high-end European line. The challenge with such a feature is to find images and items that are appropriate (no unmentionable body parts) and sexy at the same time. Days were spent combing through images of dominatrixes, whips, chains and handcuffs – and I have not even gotten to the undies yet. Thank g-d we were saved from the error of our ways by an uncooperative New York PR firm and its lack of high-resolution printable images. Sometimes it’s all about the Plan B’s. I have to thank the wonderful people at Orsi Public Relations in Los Angeles, who jumped in at the last moment to save me from another stroke. Ah, the life of an editor/publisher … ‘tis grand.

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ROCK N ROLL FANTASY CAMP - SAMMY HAGAR + PAT TRAVERS: Through Feb. 15, times vary, $499-$8,999. Mandalay Bay, 3950 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-632-7777. mandalaybay.com JEWISH FEDERATION MAJOR GIFTS RECEPTION: 6 p.m. Towbin Motorcars, 5550 W. Sahara Avenue, Las Vegas. For more details, call Stefanie Tuzman at 702-4794441. jewishlasvegas.com

southpointcasino.com IN ITS ENTIRETY - PINK FLOYD - THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON: 7:30 p.m., $15. Red Rock Hotel, 11011 W. Charleston Blvd., Las Vegas. 702-797-7777. redrock.sclv.com

LAS VEGAS PHILHARMONIC - POPS III - A GERSHWIN VALENTINE: 7:30 p.m., $26. The Smith Center, 361 Symphony Park Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-749-2012. thesmithcenter.com

WHILE I AM STILL ART EXHIBIT: Through May 9, times vary, free. Sahara West Library, 9600 W. Sahara Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-507-3630. lvccld.org

LIPSHTICK COMEDY SERIES PRESENTS LONI LOVE: Time TBA, cost TBA. Venetian, 3355 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-414-1000. venetian.com

TIZER: Through Feb. 14, 7 p.m., $35. The Smith Center, 361 Symphony Park Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-749-2012. thesmithcenter.com

LOTUS: Through Feb. 15, 12 a.m., $15. Brooklyn Bowl Las Vegas, 3545 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-862-2695. vegas. brooklynbowl.com

RON WHITE: Through Feb. 14, 10 p.m., $59.99. Mirage, 3400 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-791-7111. mirage.com THE STRING CHEESE INCIDENT: Through Feb. 15, 8 p.m., $49.50-$50. Brooklyn Bowl Las Vegas, 3545 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-862-2695. vegas.brooklynbowl.com USA SEVENS INTERNATIONAL RUGBY TOURNAMENT: Through Feb. 15, times vary, $20-$765. Sam Boyd Stadium, 7000 E. Russell Road, Las Vegas. 702-895-3761. samboydstadium.com TOWER OF POWER: Through Feb. 15, 7:30 p.m., $45-$55. South Point, 9777 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-796-7111.

RITA COOLIDGE: Through Feb. 15, 7:30 p.m., $17.50-$44. Suncoast, 9090 Alta Drive, Las Vegas. 702-636-7111. suncoast.com MARILYN MCCOO AND BILLY DAVIS, JR.: Through Feb. 15, 8 p.m., $29.95. Orleans, 4500 W. Tropicana Avenue, Las Vegas. 702365-7075. orleanscasino.com SOUL SPARKING SESSIONS WITH TONI SESSION TOPIC - LOVE - LOVE THY SELF: 2 p.m., free. West Las Vegas Library, 951 W. Lake Mead Blvd., Las Vegas. 702-507-3989. lvccld.org CUPID'S UNDIE RUN: 12 p.m., cost TBA. Commonwealth, 525 E. Fremont Street, Las

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ENGELBERT HUMPERDINCK: 7:30 p.m., $29. The Smith Center, 361 Symphony Park Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-749-2012. thesmithcenter.com

IRATION - TALES BY THE SEA: 8 p.m., $25.85$27.50. Brooklyn Bowl Las Vegas, 3545 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-862-2695. vegas.brooklynbowl.com

CLEVELAND MUSEUM OF ART RENAISSANCE PAINTING: 11 a.m., free. Lou Ruvo Center for Brain Health, 888 W. Bonneville, Las Vegas. 702-483-6055. myclevelandclinic.org WOMEN'S PHILANTHROPY POMEGRANATE DINNER: 6 p.m. Silk Road at Vdara, 2600 E. Harmon Road, Las Vegas. For more details and to register, call Stefanie Tuzman at 702479-4441. jewishlasvegas.com

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UROLOGY FOR THE GOLDEN YEARS: 12 p.m., free. Lou Ruvo Center for Brain Health, 888 W. Bonneville, Las Vegas. 702-483-6055. myclevelandclinic.org

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CHINESE NEW YEAR CELEBRATION: 6 p.m., free. The M Resort, 12300 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Henderson. 702-797-1000. themresort.com BLACK MOUNTAIN INSTITUTE - READING - MANUEL GONZALES: 7 p.m., free. UNLV, 4505 Maryland Parkway, Las Vegas. blackmountaininstitute.org

RAY ROMANO AND DAVID SPADE: Through Feb. 21, 10 p.m., $79.99. Mirage, 3400 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-791-7111. mirage.com SIN CITY OPERA - TROUBLE IN TAHITI: Through Feb. 28, time TBA, $15. The Onyx Theatre, 953 E. Sahara Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-732-7225. onyxtheatre.com ANA GASTEYER: Through Feb. 21, 7:30 p.m., $39. The Smith Center, 361 Symphony Park Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-749-2012. thesmithcenter.com

KEVIN NEALON: Through Feb. 21, 7:30 p.m., $15.95. Suncoast, 9090 Alta Drive, Las Vegas. 702-636-7075. suncoast.com

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BROADWAY BOUND - THE ADDAMS FAMILY: Through March 7, times vary, $15. Summerlin Library, 1771 Inner Circle Drive, Las Vegas. 702-838-5131. broadwayboundlv.com

ELLIS MANIA 10: 8 p.m., $20. Hard Rock Hotel, 4455 Paradise Road, Las Vegas. 702693-5000. hardrockhotel.com NEVADA BALLET THEATRE - A GALA PERFORMANCE: 7:30 p.m., $29. The Smith Center, 361 Symphony Park Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-749-2012. thesmithcenter.com BILLY IDOL: With special guest Broncho. 9 p.m., $50-$65. Cosmopolitan, 3708 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-698-7000. cosmopolitanlasvegas.com LIPSHTICK COMEDY SERIES PRESENTS JENNIFER COOLIDGE: Time TBA, cost TBA. Venetian, 3355 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-414-1000. venetian.com TAKE BACK THE CITY COMMUNITY EDUCATION EVENT: Time TBA, cost TBA. Cashman Center, 850 Las Vegas Blvd. N., Las Vegas. 702-386-7100. lvcva.com

3RD ANNUAL LOVE OF LITERACY FESTIVAL: 10 a.m., free. West Las Vegas Library, 951 W. Lake Mead Blvd., Las Vegas. 702-507-3989. lvccld.org NEIL SEDAKA: Through Feb. 22, 8 p.m., $44.95. Orleans, 4500 W. Tropicana Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-365-7075. orleanscasino.com

TRAILER PARK BOYS - RICKY, JULIAN AND BUBBLES STILL DRUNK, HIGH AND UNEMPLOYED TOUR: 8 p.m., $39.50. Hard Rock Hotel, 4455 Paradise Road, Las Vegas. 702-693-5000. hardrockhotel.com

6TH ANNUAL VARIETY SALUTES HOLLYWOOD OSCAR VIEWING PARTY: To benefit Variety the Children's Charity. 4 p.m., $25. Palms, 4321 W. Flamingo Road, Las Vegas. 702-944-3200. palms.com

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BOOMER WEDNESDAYS - BEST OF THE CROONERS: 6:30 p.m., free. Santa Fe, 4949 N. Rancho Drive, Las Vegas. 702-658-4900. santafestation.sclv.com

THE DIAMONDS: Through Feb. 22, 7:30 p.m., $25. South Point, 9777 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-796-7111. southpointcasino.com

SUPER SUNDAY PHONEATHON: 9 a.m., free. Desert Torah Academy, 1312 Vista Drive, Las Vegas. For more information and to sign up to volunteer, contact Marni Unger at 702-4794437 or email her at marni@jewishlasvegas. com. jewishlasvegas.com

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WEST PREP 8TH ANNUAL DR. MARTIN LUTHER KING JR. ORATORICAL COMPETITION AND ART FESTIVAL: 5 p.m., free. West Las Vegas Library, 951 W. Lake Mead Blvd., Las Vegas. 702-507-3989. lvccld.org

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GALA PERFORMANCE Featuring celebrated street dancer LIL BUCK and Ce2le2brating3

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Evening will include excerpts from Swan Lake Act II performed by Nevada Ballet Theatre, a World Premiere by Artistic Director James Canfield with Vegas icon Frankie Moreno, and performances by guest artists from American Ballet Theatre and Pacific Northwest Ballet.

SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 21, 2015

Call (702) 749-2000 or visit NevadaBallet.org The Resident Ballet Company of

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ART IN THE AFTERNOON: 11 a.m., free. Lou Ruvo Center for Brain Health, 888 W. Bonneville, Las Vegas. 702-483-6055. http:// www.cosmopolitanlasvegas.com/fitist.

NICE WORK IF YOU CAN GET IT: Through March 1, times vary, $39. The Smith Center, 361 Symphony Park Avenue, Las Vegas. 702749-2012. thesmithcenter.com

RASCAL FLATTS VEGAS RIOT: Encore Jan. 27-28. 8 p.m., $39.50. Hard Rock Hotel, 4455 Paradise Road, Las Vegas. 702-693-5000. hardrockhotel.com ISRAELI AMERICAN COUNCIL PRESENTS COMEDIAN SHALOM ASAYAG: 8:30 p.m., $20. The Venetian Theater, 3355S. Las Vegas Blvd., Las Vegas. venetian.com/entertainment/ shows/shalomasayag.html

JIMMY MULIDORE - JAZZ FOR THE AGES: 7 p.m., $35. The Smith Center, 361 Symphony Park Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-749-2012. thesmithcenter.com

WAYNE BRADY: 10 p.m., $39.99. Mirage, 3400 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-791-7111. mirage.com HOME EXPO LAS VEGAS: Through March 1, times vary, costs vary. Cashman Center, 850

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Las Vegas Blvd. N., Las Vegas. 702-386-7100. lvcva.com MCCARTNEY YEARS: Through March 1, 7:30 p.m., $25. South Point, 9777 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-796-7111. southpointcasino.com

FLIGHT FACILITIES: 8 p.m., $20. Brooklyn Bowl Las Vegas, 3545 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-862-2695. vegas. brooklynbowl.com

PENTATONIX - THE ON MY WAY HOME TOUR: 8 p.m., $20-$40. Cosmopolitan, 3708 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-698-7000. cosmopolitanlasvegas.com LIPSHTICK COMEDY SERIES PRESENTS ROSEANNE BARR: Time TBA, cost TBA. Venetian, 3355 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-414-1000. venetian.com JAY LENO: 10 p.m., $59.99. Mirage, 3400 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-791-7111. mirage.com ROBERT CRAY BAND: Through March 1, 8 p.m., $33. Orleans, 4500 W. Tropicana Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-365-7111. orleanscasino.com TUSKEGEE LOVE LETTERS: 7 p.m., free. West Charleston Library, 6301 W. Charleston Blvd., Las Vegas. 702-507-3964. lvccld.org THE LON BRONSON BAND WITH SPECIAL GUEST STAR LARRY BRAGGS - THE GREAT AMERICAN SOUL BOOK: 8 p.m., $15. The Smith Center, 361 Symphony Park Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-749-2012. thesmithcenter.com 12TH ANNUAL WALK WITH THE HEART OF A CHILD: To benefit Nevada Children's Heart Foundation. 8 a.m., $15-$25. Fashion Show Mall, 3200 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-967-3522. walkwiththeheartofachild. kintera.org

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LOVE-raki Lavraki is as prized for its elusiveness as it is for its distinct flavor, and is a favorite of spear fishers and coastal fishermen alike. By its very nature, it is a delicacy. The Estiatorio Milos kitchens can prepare Lavraki in a number of ways. Seasoned and grilled, it perfectly, nurtures the heart and soul. Estiatorio Milos, Cosmopolitan Las Vegas, 3708 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-698-7930.

Spellbinding San Valentino Seductive, playful and sophisticated – the San Valentino cocktail is flirtatious in every way. Crafted just for Valentine’s Day and available at Carnevino Italian Steakhouse, the variation of a classic cosmopolitan was developed by beverage director Kirk Peterson for Batali & Bastianich Hospitality Group Las Vegas. He describes San Valentino as “a beautifully sublime potion for the hopeless romantic — perfectly capable of fluttering the heart.”

Stacked With Love It’s said that the red color originates from a natural reaction when combining cocoa and buttermilk, and the “velvet” comes from the luscious texture of fine crumb. Regardless of how this delightful confection is made, the combination is a desirable treat. Nurture the chocolate addiction with Godiva Red Velvet pancakes, made with cocoa, dark chocolate and Godiva liqueur served with vanilla cream cheese frosting. Wicked Spoon, Cosmopolitan Las Vegas, 3708 S. Las Vegas Blvd., Las Vegas. 877-551-7772

2 ounces Absolut Elyx 1 ounce Aperol ¾ ounce Luxardo Maraschino 1 ounce fresh lime juice Add ingredients to a shaker and fill with ice. Shake and strain into a chilled martini glass. Garnish with lime twist. Carnevino, inside The Palazzo, 3325 Las Vegas Blvd., S., Las Vegas. 702-789-4141 www.davidlv.com | FEBRUARY 2015

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Spread Love A renowned name during the Art Deco movement, Lalique has continued to create exquisite crystal pieces for modern times. Two hearts intertwine to create functional art in this stunning red heart paperweight. $350. Lalique, The Shops at Crystals, 3720 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-507-2375

Set hearts on fire in this sheer tulle and beautiful lace bustier, a curve-defining shape starring sparkly Swarovski® rhinestones and a sultry lace-up back. $258. Victoria’s Secret, Fashion Show, 3200 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-369-0110. Victoria’s Secret, Grand Canal Shops, 3327 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-696-0110.

Get armed with love. Guess’ pink and rose goldtoned dazzling hearts oversized watch features a patterned dial to showcase your romantic side and high-shine crystals give it that coveted touch of glamour. $100. Guess, Town Square Las Vegas, 6543 South Las Vegas Boulevard Las Vegas. 702-617-3489.

Cloud your vision with love, silk and French lace. Hand-beading over a floral lace motif makes this semi-opaque veil the ultimate tool for seduction. $375. Kiki De Montparnasse, Shops at Crystals, 3720 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-736-7883.

Virtuosity and perfect harmony between the setting and the cut are the characteristics of this Cartier 1895 ring with 18k rose gold solitaire diamond. $2,517. Cartier, The Shops at Crystals, 3720 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-487-3160

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The Shirley kimono makes a striking impact with teasing luxury, silk satin in an elegant yet uncompromising shade of cherry red. Gracefully appliqued at the shoulders, the sweeping kimono sleeves with sheer panels of delicate French Chantilly lace comes with a matching wide tie belt that cinches at the waist. $1,390. Agent Provocateur, Forum Shops at Caesars, 3500 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-696-7174

Sweet, smart and sexy, Valentinoâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s lock micro mini shoulder bag in pink rocks a chain shoulder strap and signature Rockstud trim. $1,895. Neiman Marcus, 3200 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas 702-731-3636.

A scrawled sentiment romances a statementmaking necklace polished to a bright golden shine and adorned with a Swarovski crystal by Lanvin. $1,185. Nordstrom, Fashion Show, 3200 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-862-2525.

There are many ways to give her a key to your heart, but this charm will be a constant reminder of love and affection. The Key to My Heart Gold Charm, price upon request. Links of London, Grand Canal Shops, 3327 Las Vegas Blvd., S., Las Vegas. 702-733-4065.

Creamy, milk chocolate-kissed bonbons, filled with almond praline and coconut center, are the perfect little pack of pecks for that special someone. $15. Va Bene CaffĂ¨, Cosmpolitan Las Vegas, 3708 Las Vegas Boulevard, S., Las Vegas. 702-698-7000. www.davidlv.com | FEBRUARY 2015

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discover Rugby Fever With rugby returning to the Olympics for the first time since 1924, the 2014-2015 USA Sevens Tournament, held at Sam Boyd on Feb. 13-15, is an Olympic-qualifying event for the 2016 Rio games. See teams from Argentina, Australia, Canada, England, France, Portugal, New Zealand, Scotland, the U.S. and more compete. During Rugby Week, fans will enjoy nonstop festivities: international culture, cuisine, nightlife events, familyfriendly entertainment, rugby clinics and events citywide. 2015 USA Sevens International Rugby Tournament, Feb. 13-15 at Sam Boyd Stadium. Visit usasevens.com.

It Had to Be You I t ’ s not o f t e n t he f a br i c of Hol l yw od hi s t or y i s di s c ove r e d. I n L a s V e ga s , i t ’ s a r a r e ﬁnd. But The Nevada State Museum is now home to actress Ginger Rogers’ blush-colored suit/costume worn in the 1947 production of It Had to be You. This exquisite piece, designed by Jean Louis, was donated by local resident and vintage clothing collector Terry McFall. Karan Feder, a volunteer curator at the museum, discovered a label sewn into the garment’s right sleeve with the handwritten inscription “1138 Ginger Rogers.” The number is presumed to be the production num er of t e ﬁlm. ee piece of Hollywood history: now s o ing t e e d t te Museum through April. Nevada State Museum 0 . Valley View Blvd., Las Vegas. 702-486-5205.

For Both Your Kneads Dim the lights and melt into bliss alongside someone special. The luxurious 50- or 80-minute Couple’s Massage allows you to escape from the everyday and sink into relaxation through a combination of modalities, including Swedish, deep tissue and sports massage. Realign deeper layers of muscles, ease tightness, increase circulation and emerge feeling rejuvenated. Ciel Spa, SLS Las Vegas, 2535 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702761-7088.

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THE JEWISH FEDERATION OF LAS VEGAS, THE JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER OF SOUTHERN NEVADA & DAVID MAGAZINE PRESENT “LIGHT IT UP” A HANUKKAH CELEBRATION Venue Ghostbar, Palms Casino Resort

Date Wednesday, December 24

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Mandi Laub, Dana Amster and Chad Silver.

Sarah Steinberg, Eve Breier, Lilly Posner, and Brittany Goldman.

Eve Breier, Marni Unger, Lilly Posner, Sarah Steinberg, Jen Specter, Brittany Goldman, Marty Paz, Donny Perach, Ben Brody and Azin Azma.

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Russell Letizia, Jessica Poole, Sarah Levin, Eve Breier and Max Berkley.

Shirley Reginiano, Elad Bicer, Leor Reginiano and Asaf Bicer.

Alex Lichtblau, Marni Unger, Sarah and Clay Steinberg.

Haleema Linares, Eli Rabinovich, Corey Platner, Sheri Goldman, and Chad Silver.

Jen Specter, Jacyln Lazarus, Ben Wegener, and Jon Smith.

Jenny Finder, Glenn Zieve and Lauren Brown.

10. Zoe Friedland, Ofir Barashy and Mandi Laub.

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mingle COMMUNITY KOLLEL OF GREATER LAS VEGAS, 7TH ANNUAL GALA “A CELEBRATION OF TORAH LEARNING” HONORING YONAH AND AVI BARASHI & JULIE AND NEAL KATZ

Venue TPC Summerlin

Date Thursday, January 8

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Dovid Malerus and Nathan Nehoraoff

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Rabbi Shimon Gewirtz and Ira Epstein

Samuel Charm and the new Sefer Torah

Sam and Jordan Elbaz, Mrs Rachel Cutler and Rabbi Avi Cutler

Photos by Marc Frye

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Jaq enjoys an alfresco nap as Laika stands guard .

Pet Sounds A Countryman Abroad and his Canine Companion By Jaq Greenspon

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n October 2009, an almost 9-year-old rat terrier named Rocko was dropped off at the NSPCA. It seemed his owners had gotten divorced sometime earlier and Rocko went to live with his “mom.” Then, in late October, she moved somewhere pets weren’t allowed and he was sent to doggy detention camp. Being a mediumsized dog, about 20 pounds, Rocko was already close to being a “senior.” He had a non-cancerous lump on his belly. It wasn’t anything dangerous, but it suggested expensive vet bills. Rocko was a relatively quiet dog, a bit less energetic perhaps than his fellows. He didn’t fit in with the yappy, smaller breeds. He was placed alone in a cage in the Big Dog corridor. He looked incredibly out of place, but there was nowhere else for him to go. About seven weeks later, I walked into the NSPCA with no thought of actually getting a dog. I wanted one, sure. I’d wanted one

for a while. I’d even made stops at the shelter before but had always come away empty. Empty. That was a pretty apt description of where I was. In December 2009, I was alone. A long time on-again/off-again relationship had ended for real about the same time that Rocko was being sent to the big house. I had a job that I generally liked, but it wasn’t exactly as advertised. I had a roommate with a baby daughter and she had her own set of troubles. Then, on the last day of Hanukkah, a week before Christmas, I was driving with my friend Tom when, for no particular reason, I decided to make a random stop at the animal shelter. I walked around just looking at all the animals. I knew were I to get a dog at some point (not today; definitely not today) I’d want a smaller one. I lived in an apartment so no yard. And no yard meant I needed a pet who’d www.davidlv.com | FEBRUARY 2015

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be able to make do in the living space we had. I wandered the small dog aisle and spotted some cute critters. But, just like the other times I’d been there, none of them spoke to me. It was heartbreaking to leave them there, but I knew I couldn’t take any of them home. Then, on a wild whim, I turned a corner and onto big dog boulevard. There, amid the deep-throated barking and huge dogs pacing, I spied one little guy, sitting by himself near the back of a cage. He looked at me as I passed. Our eyes locked. I stopped walking. He didn’t move. He’d been through this before. I looked at his info. “Rocko.” A volunteer walked by. I asked if I could take him out. Sure, she said, and got me a rope leash. I wanted to check his temperament. Again – apartment. Other dogs. Was he loud? Did he bark? Would he pull on the leash, straining to run away, or would I have to drag him along after me? The answer was … nothing. He walked beside me. He didn’t react to the other dogs at all. I didn’t even let them put him back in the cage. He had picked me to take him home. So I did. We stopped at one of the big pet stores on the way home and I let him pick out his own toys. I got him a collar with a new name (I’d renamed him Laika, after the first dog in space) and our address and then took him home. They say there are all sorts of advantages to owning a pet, a dog in particular. According to HelpGuide.org, “People with dogs often experience the greatest health benefits, but … even watching fish in an aquarium can help reduce muscle tension and lower pulse rate.” Not bad. Now that I was a pet owner, this meant I was now less likely to suffer from depression and would “have lower blood pressure in stressful situations.” Well, OK. That would be good. It was the holiday season and depression was commonplace. That also

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went hand-in-hand with the fact that having a pet could elevate my levels of serotonin and dopamine, two chemicals in the body whose main function was to help keep you calm and relaxed. The site even suggests “pet owners have lower triglyceride and cholesterol levels (indicators of heart disease) than those without pets.” All these bonus benefits I didn’t even know about. All I really knew was that when he jumped on the couch and snuggled in next to me, I felt good. I felt happy and loved. HelpGuide.org continues: “One of the reasons for these therapeutic effects is that most pets fulfill the basic human need to touch … Stroking, holding, cuddling, or otherwise touching a loving animal can rapidly calm and soothe us when we’re stressed.” All of this sounded great to me. But it wasn’t until a few months later that I really understood what having Laika would do for me. We went to the dog park on a daily basis. I learned his quirks; he liked little green tennis balls (no other colors) and he enjoyed swimming. Other dogs didn’t bother him so much as he ignored them completely. He just wanted to do his thing, which was play with the ball. But just by being out with him, I met people at the dog park. I have a friend who met her two best friends because they happened to be at the dog park at the same time. So dogs are good for social interaction. They get us talking. About 10 months after adopting Laika, we found ourselves moving to a foreign country for work. We went through the whole rigmarole. He got a puppy passport and travel crate big enough for him to sit down and not have his ears touch the top (that’s the requirement). He got his lump removed before travel (it was, indeed, nothing). We flew 15 hours, with him crated up in the belly of the plane. I read everything I could to make sure his flight would be as easy on

him as possible. When we landed in Budapest, Hungary, I was nervous. He came out and I claimed him, opened his crate and he bolted outside, desperately needing to relieve himself. He was fine. More so, I was fine. I had my friend with me. When we finally settled in our small village, a place where few people spoke English and I spoke no Hungarian, he was my companion. He would make sure I’d get exercise (we were on the third floor and he made sure we went out several times a day). He helped me explore my new surroundings, leading me around town. We went swimming in the nearby river and jogging along the railroad tracks. He would chase horses and became a language conduit. People would stop to pet him, so even if we couldn’t speak the same language, I soon had a group of “wave-to” friends. Of course, as a single guy, having a cute, friendly dog around doesn’t hurt. In that respect, he’s the ultimate wingman. And always, at the end of the day, when I’d come home from work, he’d be there. He’d listen and understand my English and when I had a hard day or was feeling depressed, he was there for me. He’d jump up and snuggle in next to me, push his head under my hand and let me know that as long as we had each other, we’d never be alone. Over the last five years, he and I have had some fantastic adventures. We’ve taken road trips and train trips together, gone for walks and played in rivers. He’s been able to pee on castles and play in snow, something he wouldn’t have gotten to do in Las Vegas. He’s my partner. At times he’s been the single light at the end of a dark tunnel. Even as I write this, he’s curled up next to me, snoring peacefully. At this time of year, people are always talking about their “loved ones.” I have loved ones, but I’ve got Laika and I wouldn’t trade that for anything.

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s with so many holiday rituals, Valentine’s Day celebrations can become stale after a few years. If you’ve grown disenchanted with chocolates, fancy dinners and roses, not to worry. DAVID has some unconventional VDAY ideas to combat the season’s predictability. Everyone knows that love is a universal theme. But not everybody around the world celebrates the way we do in the U.S. Take Japan, for instance. Women there give men chocolates on Feb. 14. And in some parts of Britain buns baked with caraway seeds and raisins are served. Do some research and try mixing in a couple of fun new traditions into your date night. Celebrate singular love. We’ll concede that Valentine’s Day is a little overrated and that the idea of celebrating it when you’re single can lead to self-pity. But instead of ignoring the day altogether, embrace it with a feel-good party celebrating gratitude and love. It’s a great excuse to enjoy Valentine’s Day with friends and family that

you love, and who love you back. While in Las Vegas, do the touristy thing. Plan a few activities you and your partner have never gotten around to doing. Ride the High Roller at The Linq, take in the Rasul Ceremony at Canyon Ranch SpaClub, where you and your honey can paint each other with purifying mud in an herbal steam chamber. Check into a hotel on the Strip, and don’t forget to take a bunch of selfies while visiting our city’s attractions. Open your heart even further. On the day of love itself, consider branching out from romance into charity and friendship. Volunteer at the Las Vegas Rescue Mission, send flowers to nursing home residents, bake treats to show appreciation to caregivers. Such remembrances can make all the difference for people who’ve suffered because of unhealthy relationships. Here are a few more unique ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day around our city.

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Mob Museum Valentine’s Day in Chicago in 1929 was one of the bloodiest days in mob history. Guests at The Mob Museum in Las Vegas will be able to experience a different shade of red on the holiday this year (Feb. 14-15). The museum will temporarily showcase two of the Thompson machine guns used in the Prohibition Era murders of six mob associates and a mechanic. The artifacts go hand-in-hand with the St. Valentine’s Day Massacre Wall that’s been part of the Museum collection since its opening three years ago. Don’t miss the free admission for locals on Valentine’s Day. The Mob Museum, 300 Stewart Ave., Las Vegas. 702-229-2734.

Cupid’s Undie Run The multi-city, 1-mile(ish) fun-run through city streets (in your underwear) to raise money for the Children’s Tumor Foundation is presented by Vegas Seven magazine and Commonwealth. The event (doors open at noon; undie run at 2 p.m.) features pre- and post-run fun and libations. Saturday afternoon, Feb. 14. Starts/ends at Commonwealth in the Fremont East District. Fun for singles AND couples! See http://www.cupidsundierun. com/city/las-vegas/ to sign up.

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Fifty Shades of Grey, the Movie Fifty Shades is the fastest-selling R-rated movie in history, having exceeded $1 million in advance e-ticket sales. The first book in the hit erotica series that essentially gave birth to the “mommy porn” genre has sold more than 70 million copies. The wait for the feature adaptation of E.L. James’ Fifty Shades of Grey has been a bit longer than originally expected. But the film is due in theaters Feb. 13. Pre-sale is available now at Fandango.

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A Gershwin Valentine This Valentine’s Day join double Grammy® winner Sylvia McNair for a romantic evening that showcases the timeless talent of George Gershwin, one of America’s greatest composers. McNair lays claim to a remarkable three-decade career in the musical realms of opera, oratorio, cabaret and musical theater. This all-Gershwin program will feature such classics as “Summertime,” “‘S Wonderful” and “Man I Love,” making this the perfect night out for sweethearts, lovers and romantics alike. Las Vegas Philharmonic - Pops III: A Gershwin Valentine, Saturday, Feb. 14, The Smith Center, 361 Symphony Park Ave., Las Vegas 702-749-2012.

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ood and passion have intertwined in our minds since civilization began. Food itself can inspire our passion to eat. And, by some accounts, certain foods can incite the more prurient passions of consenting adults. Yes, aphrodisiacs are usually where the conversation leads. Some humans entertain superstitions, or hold quasi-medical beliefs, that certain foods can, indeed, jumpstart attraction and romance, as well as libido and “performance.” Hippocrates, considered the father of medicine, suggested (of all things) that lentils had such properties. Aristotle agreed with the lentils approach, and suggested adding saffron to the mix. Other ancients favored artichokes, leeks, wild orchids, onions, even garlic! And a few years back, archeologists discovered a cache of nectarine seeds inside an 800-year-old tomb in Peru, suggesting the local culture 12 centuries ago considered them an aphrodisiac. The early Arab world believed in the passion-inducing properties of pine nuts. And in Genesis, mandrake (part of the nightshade family) is credited with aiding and abetting a conception. Other anecdotal evidence, cited through the centuries, ascribes similar properties to avocados, basil, ginger and asparagus. To this day, however, no scientific proof has been established to certify these supposed links between food, lovemaking and procreation. But many of the aforementioned substances do happen to contain concentrations of zinc, folic acid or other vitamins crucial

to healthy sexuality and good circulation — and mandrake actually contains some hallucinogenic compounds. Dr. Michael Uzmann, a Las Vegas endocrinologist, who also happens to blog about food at endoedibles.com, offers this by way of explanation: “In terms of biochemistry, the pleasure derived from both eating and sex act upon the same cascade of neurotransmitters. Add in the way that sensations like touch, taste, and visual appeal influence our perception of both activities, and you can understand why people often compare, and connect food and romance.”

The Kitchen Connection But perhaps there’s more to it than chemistry. What do some of our favorite local chefs think? “One doesn’t exist without the other,” avers Scott Commings (executive chef, Gordon Ramsay Pub & Grill). “I have cooked plenty of ‘aphrodisiac’ menus – oysters, avocados, pomegranate,” says Mark Andelbradt (executive chef, Wolfgang Puck Bar & Grill, Summerlin). “But I think the real aphrodisiac of food is the joy of creating something for somebody else. … You can see how much pleasure they get out of it.” Nicole Brisson (executive chef, Carnevino) agrees. “When I see somebody have a great meal, it’s intoxicating. And I love having control over people’s experience and memory.” www.davidlv.com | FEBRUARY 2015

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For John Church (chef/owner, M.T.O. Café), however, “It’s more about the whole experience of creating it together. Having someone in there and cooking with you, and having her discover that she has a side she didn’t know before … I think it brings us together more.” Brisson concurs, but giggles over the cliché of a male chef preparing a special meal for his object of affection — something that doesn’t have the same effect coming from a female chef. “When you’re sharing an experience,” she says, “it’s building memories and sharing sensations. People’s passion for food is infectious.” Recalling one recent partner, she adds: “Probably the most intimate part of our relationship was discovering each other through food.” Khai Vu, chef/owner, District One, says, “It doesn’t have to be fancy. Nice home cooking, some seafood, because you don’t have to do too much to it, and a bottle of wine.” Commings sums it up: “It’s fun to be playful with food, and have things you can share and experience together.”

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What foods do these chefs consider sexy? Oysters, of course, and some of the other usual go-tos. But the chefs offer some surprising suggestions as well. “I like to braise meat, because it’s personal,” says Andelbradt — something Church and others echoed. “When you make things that take a lot of time, you put a lot of care into it.” For Commings, “One of my favorite things to do is baking bread. When you’re making a loaf of bread, you’re adjusting the amount of flour based on your touch. And building it can be a sensual experience. It reflects in the taste, when you put that much love into something.” Daniel Bolling (head chef, Made L.V.) turned it into a personal challenge: When getting to know his wife, he actually created a seven-course menu from a list of her least favorite foods. “It was a gutsy move. She was a very picky eater!”

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Romance at the Restaurant On their own menus, the chefs point to some unexpected dishes as popular items with couples, and appealing to their own senses of sensuality. Although few might think of his modern Vietnamese bistro as a romantic spot, Vu says he gets a lot of couples ordering the sashimi scallops or the Japanese oysters with caviar on dates. But there’s one dish that Khai thinks is even sexier on his menu: “The big bone soup! You’d think it would be popular with guys, but a lot of women order it — and they just go at it! That’s sexy!!” Picking up on the braising theme, Andelbradt points to the WP Bar & Grill’s oxtail pappardelle, a dish whose simplicity belies its texture and earthy satisfaction. For Bolling at Made L.V, it’s the beer-steamed clams with chicken chorizo. Commings cites the Gordon Ramsay Pub’s salmon, served atop fennel puree, with tricolor cauliflower and topped with a watercress and fennel salad. “It’s very visually appealing, a symphony of colors and tastes.” And for Steve Benjamin (executive chef, L’Atelier du Joel Robuchon), who feels that his restaurant’s design, presentations and service all contribute to a feeling of sensuality and interaction? “Everything on the menu, really.” Leave it to a Parisian to be the most philosophic about love and food, and to make the connection seem a fait accompli: “Food is the beginning of all communication,” Benjamin says. And food, like love, “Needs to be shared.”

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Mountain, Desert & Sea Location, location, location. By E.C. Gladstone

hen it comes to romance, it’s the person not the place that truly matters. And yet, so much about sparking a flame can be affected by the setting. Here in Las Vegas, for instance, we’re in reach of such natural wonder that you can easily choose between sea, sand or snow — all within a few hours’ drive or an even faster flight.

Some of my favorites? Well, I’m glad you asked! To the north of Vegas, another sort of mountain experience awaits, with bracing runs in the snow and cozy fireplaces for cuddling. Colorado also has a variety of destinations in that vein — but most offer activity and camaraderie rather than a romantic experience.

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Left and Above: The Tempter House, Telluride, Colorado

For that, I’d point you to the town of Telluride, with no shortage of activities, where unique stays focus not so much on wholepackage resorts as exclusive vacation rental residences. One of the most notable is the Tempter House, a five-level architectural wonder built of local stone, situated at 12,000 feet above sea level and overlooking the dramatic Tempter Chute. Want to talk about seclusion? You can only get to the house via skis (or snowmobile), and the property manager advises staying indoors after dark to avoid possible avalanches! Don’t think this is some miner’s cabin: amenities include a steam shower, Jacuzzi tub, pool table, Sub Zero appliances, feather beds, an ample outdoor deck, and, of course, wood-burning fireplaces. The house’s history alone, though brief, is fascinating: Envisioned by international marathon runner David Eckley and his mother Anne (a recognized designer), it took four years to build — as you can imagine — in this remote site. Although you’ll feel incredibly alone, the security of a nearby ski patrol and the convenience of grocery and housekeeping services ensure that you won’t be too. Also close by, atop Gold Hill (a historic mining claim) sits Alpino Vino. This restaurant inside a rustic hand-hewn chalet evokes the Italian Dolomites, with heavy beams, stone floors and furniture crafted from reclaimed wine barrels. The property is accessed by its own snow coach. The daytime experience here includes an outdoor

wine bar. But it’s in the evening that the experience becomes most special, with a set five course Italian meal offering reserved for diners 21 and above. Even in this kind of setting, cabin fever is likely to set in, especially with so many adventures to consider. Down in Telluride village, you’ll be able to pursue snowmobiling, snowshoeing, snow biking, dog sledding, ice climbing, more than 100 ski trails … and it continues. And if you’re thinking off-season might suit alone time even better, you couldn’t be more right. Spring and summer are said to be equally beautiful here. Whatever your inclination as a Las Vegan, there are so many opportunities within close range to refresh your romantic perspective. And if you’re wondering about whether any of these locales has good wedding potential … the answer is yes, yes and yes. The deserts of Arizona offer another kind of landscape, physically and mentally, and there is no shortage of noteworthy resorts, particularly around Scottsdale. But for pure romance, none compares to the Omni Scottsdale at Montelucia. Like a journey within a journey, Omni’s Montelucia evokes a fantasy enclave of southern Spain, with ochre walls, patterned accents, cisterns and columns framing the adjacent rocky terrain and Camelback Mountain. The whole property surrounds a large, languid pool that will become your home base. But if you get the urge to move around, hiking and biking trails are right at the doorstep. Rooms offer www.davidlv.com | FEBRUARY 2015

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Left and above: Omni Scottsdale Resort & Spa at Montelucia, Arizona

carved wood and comfort, on a level you’d expect from this brand. You won’t be surprised to hear me say that the spa and restaurant are the gems here. Joya Spa is designed by Silvia Sepielli, a name spa junkies will recognize. Lavish with detail, Joya takes the resort’s Andalucian inspiration to the highest degree, creating an environment of blissful wonder. A couples treatment room here is so palatial it literally has reappeared in my dreams, truly fulfilling the overused term “unforgettable.” Besides a lengthy list of expected services, Joya also offers a naturopathic menu. Prado restaurant is not quite so ambitious. But its cozy,

communal spaces suggest the kind of bodega you’d love to discover in a small Iberian town. Pinxtos, tapas and a Mediterranean menu, ranging from wood-fired meat and fish to tagines, are offered. Trying a variety of share plates with a good wine, or a paella to order, will fulfill the spirit of the room. Definitely the closest seaside destination resort to Vegas, Terranea in Rancho Palos Verdes, California, is less than a fivehours drive (or perhaps a half hour from Los Angeles International Airport). But proximity isn’t the only positive. Set atop a high bluff, Terranea is distinct from a typical Southern California beach hotel. Rolling lawns, pool decks and abundantly colorful landscaping lead to meandering, bluff top paths that guide you, in either direction, to a rocky shoreline. It offers a mini-adventure of exploration, or a view of the Rancho’s historic lighthouse, which screams “selfie!” Views? As many as you can count. One of the most picturesque — intentionally, I think— is from the co-ed relaxation patio of The Spa at Terranea. This separate enclave within the grounds has won awards deservedly for its gorgeous decor, ample amenities, extensive and creative services, as well as its relaxing private pool deck, healthy café and inspiring boutique. Once here, you’ll be loath to leave. So block out some time, and make sure it includes relaxing together.

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Above and right: Terranea Spa & Resort, Rancho Palos Verdes, California

Dining is nicely varied here, with several California, Asian and classically inspired restaurants under executive chef Bernard Ibarra, who is so driven to use local ingredients that the property even makes its own flaky delicate sea salt (it’s excellent). The jewel in the crown here is certainly Mar’Sel, where the view from the patio at night will transport you much further than you expected to go. We’ve enjoyed meals here under several chefs at different times, but none has failed to impress on a world-class level. Most recently, chef Charles Olalia’s winter menu combined Filipino and French inspirations in surprising but satisfying ways — Hokkaido scallops with Sicilian pistachios, cauliflower Grenobloise, caper-raisin relish; celery root “risotto” with black truffle and champignons de Paris; oxtail Bolognese with “melted” tomatoes and pecorino that make you want to alternately jump across the table or cuddle up by the fire pit. Both reactions are encouraged. The resort’s other culinary highlight is a weekend brunch at Catalina Kitchen of not only epic but exacting proportions, an indulgence that sells itself smartly (one note: most of the food is “resort priced,” so it actually makes more sense to devote your budget to the bigger, more meaningful meals, and bring your own munchies). Of course, there is the real threat that once you settle into your airy, bright but homey room, you won’t want to leave (the amount

of room service trays you’ll see in the hallways attests to this). Fight the urge, but not too hard. Terranea’s environmentally sensitive practices, pet- and familyfriendly policies and strong service culture add up to a sense of not just luxury but true comfort. For a travel writer, few properties really inspire many returns — so many places to see — but Terranea is one that I know my girlfriend and I are always happy to return to. If it fits into your plans, there is par-3 golf too — and should you never want to leave — a wide offering of vacation homes on the property. www.davidlv.com | FEBRUARY 2015

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Keep it cool and comfortable for Him: Island Breezer Bliss shirt constructed of 100% linen, $110; Lighthouse Authentic Fit soft lightweight cotton pants $110 and For Her: Ikat Floral Tunic with island botanicals on an ikat-style pattern, $94. Tommy Bahama Town Square, 6635 South Las Vegas Boulevard, Las Vegas. (702) 948-8006.

et’s face it. This is meant to be the biggest vacation of your life. After the wedding, you could opt for some classic elegance amid a bustling city. But barefoot chic has its place, too. (Hint: It’s called the beach.) And when thinking of a honeymoon, we’re all for those places that offer the most sand. So, for now, let’s skip the wedding season and think about how we’ll dress for the post-nuptials chill — and where we might go. Wardrobe? Think white, pastels. Relaxed attire that segues best from that world you’re leaving behind to the sand-between-the-toes feeling you crave. Tommy Bahama, among other brands, has perfected the style — with its casual sophistication collection. For men, shoot for relaxed confidence from head to toe. Dinner on a balmy terrace, overlooking the blue, fits well with a crisp, white linen blazer and pants, paired with woven slip-ons or cognac-hued leather sandals. And, by day, whether you’re seeking hidden coves or browsing market stalls, loose-fitting camp shirts (in pale solids or florals) married with walking shorts (with deep pockets to hold all your island treasures) always fit the bill. For women, resort maxi dresses should be at the top of the list. They’ll complement his linen suit for a fancy dinner and stroll through town. For more active day-tripping excursions, look for light tunics and halter tops, matched with board shorts, twill skirts or clam diggers (if you fancy a bit more coverage than shorts). Suitcase forget-me-nots include a crushable hat — crochet cowboy style or fedora — a good pair of sunglasses and that one jewelry piece that accessorizes everything in your portmanteau. www.davidlv.com | FEBRUARY 2015

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Get playful on the beach with Her: Island Bliss silk halter dress, $228; 100% and with Him: masculine and luxurious Cayman cable V-neck sweater, $148. Tommy Bahama Town Square, 6635 South Las Vegas Boulevard, Las Vegas. (702) 948-8006.

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Meet the locals in town and choose for Her: a casual, subtropical cotton print Impero Leaves Dress, $98; with matching Blue Opal Disc necklace, $208; and for Him: Capri by the see silk and cotton printed shirt, $138. Del Chino flat-front shorts, $118; Win Some Cruise Some sunglasses, $125. Kona Grand Prix Chronograph Watch, $250. Tommy Bahama Town Square, 6635 South Las Vegas Boulevard, Las Vegas. (702) 948-8006. www.davidlv.com | FEBRUARY 2015

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Forestay Blouson Dress; $198; metallic stripe dress Tossed Treasure Bracelet; $98; textural sealife charms and shimmering bead bracelet. Tommy Bahama Town Square, 6635 South Las Vegas Boulevard, Las Vegas. (702) 948-8006.

Distinguished meets laid-back for Him: Tropic of Conversation Crew reverse printed sweater, $128 under a Milano Lino two-button Blazer with patch pockets, $325 and Venice Vintage Five-Pocket cotton Pant, $128. Tommy B ahamaTown Square, 6635 South Las Vegas Boulevard, Las Vegas. (702) 948-8006.

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Islands in the Sun Backdrops for your Honeymoon Photographs Now that you’re packed, here are a few honeymoon destination suggestions, broken down by category: easy on the wallet; exclusive; off-the-beaten path; and solid standby.

and Mediterranean overtones, Anguilla boasts exceptional dining, state-of-the-art spas, sugar-fine sand, and a remote beach accessed by rope. Drop in!

Easy On The Wallet A tropical honeymoon may sound dreamy, but it may be too pricey in some cases. Destinations with direct air service from multiple U.S. airports not only offer airfare savings but less travel time and fewer hassles as well. And locales with a wide selection of accommodations — including great all-inclusive resorts — can make budgeting easier.

Off The Beaten Path Beyond the typical fun-in-the-sun getaway, the Caribbean offers an incredibly rich bounty of nature, and historical and cultural elements. Think of roads less traveled and filled with surprises. Instead of late-night clubbing, find inspiration in local activities and become one with the land (and sea).

Our pick: Mexican Caribbean Full of cultural flavor, this region is safe, friendly and packed with activities. For a glam, urban-style experience on a well-developed beach, Cancun’s resort strip is famous for its forest of high-rise hotels and grove of restaurants, bars and nightclubs. Just south along the Riviera Maya, you’ll find all-inclusive options, plus charming boutique offerings. Tulum, an off-the-grid beach town, has a boho vibe and a handful of eco-resorts. Nearby Isla Mujeres and Cozumel offer first-rate diving and relaxation ops. Exclusive Thankfully in this world, few destinations offer just the right cachet, augmented by fine dining, exquisite scenery and that ultimatetrip-to-nowhere feel. Our Pick: Anguilla Anguilla is the quintessential A-list island. Here, celebrities fly mostly under the radar and enjoy the island’s great beaches and casual-but-classy hospitality scene. Known for its outstanding villas and a few small five-star resort hotels, with friendly atmosphere

Our Pick: Grenada You may have to go the distance to get there, but most visitors agree it’s worth the struggle. This traditional British West Indies island operates at a high standard, with a small footprint. Pretty hotels cluster in the south, leaving the rest of the island for unmarred exploration. Trek through the jungle in the mountainous interior, splash into waterfalls, tube down a river, or shop local markets and learn why Grenada is called the Spice Island. Solid Standby One of the biggest worries in choosing a honeymoon destination is whether its reality will match your dream: palm-studded beaches, cerulean seas, great golf courses, blissful spas, fine restaurants, a solid reputation. Our Pick: Jamaica For generations, this island has been closely tied to American visitors and how we like to travel. Find Jamaican ambience among the smaller properties lining the cliffs of Negril and the hip South Coast, or head inland to the Blue Mountains. It’s the place to relax, mon! www.davidlv.com | FEBRUARY 2015

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What’s Love Got To Do With It? The Science Of Attraction … The Art Of Love By Lynn Wexler

ove and allure play a consuming and inescapable role in our lives and culture. They’re a constant theme in songs, films, and books — depicted as drama and trauma, humor and foible, romance and folly. Since the time of the ancient Greeks the concept of love has generated discussion and conjecture. They range from the notion of love as an animalistic or genetic urge toward a potential mate or object of sexual gratification to an intensely spiritual affair that, as Aristotle put it, permits one to touch divinity as “two bodies and one soul.” In her 1984 hit “What’s Love Got to Do With It?” Tina Turner sang that love is “... a sweet old-fashioned notion. Who needs a heart if a heart can be broken?” In “The Rose,”the 1979 song in honor of a film about singer/songwriter Janis Joplin, composer Amanda McBroom averred that “ … Love, it is a flower. … And you, its only seed.” What is this gripping sentiment that makes the world go ‘round, brings it to its knees, raises it to wondrous heights, and fuels the therapy and social theory industries? Volumes continue to be written on the subject, and it is the frequent preoccupation of radio and TV talk shows and magazine covers. The dizzying array of opinions and findings present a minefield for both the social scientist and lay person to navigate. One thing seems certain, according to sex therapist/author Laura Berman, host of In the Bedroom with Dr. Laura Berman on the Oprah Winfrey Network. “Attraction has a lot more to do with science and evolution than people thought. We are innately all puppies in heat. We are capable of discerning 10,000 different scents consciously.” These odors let people know when a woman is fertile and when a man’s testosterone levels are high, Berman says. Ergo, individuals can tell when someone’s most ripe for reproduction. “It’s all about survival of the species,” says Berman. Oprah Winfrey says the “Bars and nightclubs across the world are the battlefield for this invisible biochemical war.” Scientists call this chemical attraction a function of the “selfish gene” — DNA whose role is to instruct men and women to have sex, as often as possible, and to make babies — civilization after civilization, war after war, through poverty, sickness, toil – to preserve the human species. Not exactly romantic, but it serves a supreme purpose. Women, however, have an additional gene that drives them to not only seek sex, but with a partner who is powerful — one best-suited to protecting her and her young. “It goes back to evolution,” says Berman. “In the primal days, we were having babies who were dependent on us; yet we couldn’t hunt and take care of ourselves. So we sought after the strongest male in the tribe who was the best hunter and could bring home the biggest chunk of meat for our babies.” Recent studies, says Berman, have shown that when a man makes a lot of money, a woman will rate him higher on an attractiveness

scale than that same man with a smaller income. Size of income, at least, would seem to matter in the self-preservation world of females. For $1,995, you can try your genetic luck at finding the love of your life on the online dating site called Scientific Match. It bases its searches on both personality and DNA compatibility – or lack thereof, in the belief, perhaps, that opposites do attract. Clients are asked to submit a cheek swab of DNA for matching with a potential mate’s dissimilar DNA. Chemistry based on dissimilar DNA was first studied in 1995 by Claus Wedekind, a Swiss biological researcher, and best known for his “Sweaty T-shirt Experiment.” Women were asked to rate how sexy T-shirts smelled after being worn by men for two days. A correlation was found between how good the T-shirts smelled to the women with how dissimilar their immune DNA was to the man who wore it. Scientists suspect this seemingly genetically inclined trait toward opposite attraction is to provide diversity in the mating gene pool, guarding against similar genes getting passed down through the generations, as with inbreeding. But with all this attention to human sexual predisposition, where does monogamy fit into the picture? And just how realistic is it to expect eternal devotion to one partner anyway? Experience and biology suggest that humans, like most in the animal kingdom, aren’t hard-wired for strict monogamy. Some social scientists posit that the rise of single mate commitment was motivated by socioeconomic advantage, namely the protection of property and the sharing of labor. By some accounts, marrying for love reflects religious mores in Western societies and the material comfort levels made possible by cultural and economic gains achieved in the 18th and 19th centuries. For the first time in human evolution, the social scientists say, the pursuit of happiness became a legitimate goal. With the science of allure unrevealed at that time, the art of attraction held center stage. Courtship practices and romancing styles were seen as outgrowths of affairs of the heart and soul. Poetry and novels on the subject flooded the growing world of literature. Getting struck by Cupid’s arrow, as it were, may take our breath away and cause our hearts to flutter. But science classifies such romantic sensations as hormone-driven lust, followed by endorphins and oxytocin to induce a sense of well-being that’s conducive to a lasting relationship. Romantics call it the soul’s ecstasy. One is beguiling, the other clinical. Both are necessary to understanding the human imperative. Science points to our inclinations to connect. Cupid aims at our affinities to bond, love, grow, value, and sustain meaning and purpose together. One thing appears certain … love has a lot to do with it! www.davidlv.com | FEBRUARY 2015

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Bobby And Helen Feldman — Forever Young Married for 28 years – his fourth and her second marriage – Helen and Bobby have turned differences, and a love for each other’s children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, into the solid foundation upon which they’ve built a loving, enduring, exciting friendship and romantic union. “We were introduced by a friend,” Bobby recalls. “I was rough around the edges. She was a refined lady. I was an outdoorsman – biking, mountain climbing, river rafting. She was a college educator and involved and cultured in the arts. She agreed to go biking with me on our first date, and to my surprise she effortlessly kept up with the 46-mile trek! She proved her mettle and won her medal! I knew I was in love!” “I fell in love with him instantly!,” Helen says. “He was strong, vibrant and intense. I called him my electrician.” They’ve not been apart for a day since, sharing global travel, business, culture, family, philanthropy, and health issues. They continue their passion for and leadership in support of Israel and numerous Jewish organizations and institutions.

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Lior And Annette Gal — The Bold And The Beautiful If you didn’t know better, you’d think they were stars on The Bold and the Beautiful. The value they place on physical fitness and a healthy lifestyle is evident. Married and with three children, they met when he was 19 and working in his sister’s boutique in Los Angeles. She was 18 and came in looking for a job. The rest, well, is their history. Annette was born and raised in Los Angeles. Lior is originally from Israel. “We had no money at the time,” he says, “and I was scared to commit to a relationship and a family that I might not be able to support.” But opportunity knocked eventually and he opened a high-end fashion boutique called LIOR along the Grande Canal Shoppes at the Venetian Hotel & Casino in Las Vegas. That’s when he asked Annette to marry him. It’s been 16 years since. And, according to Lior, both business and marriage have been outstanding successes. “I thank G-d everyday I wake up next to the most beautiful woman in the world, inside and out!” he gushes. “She is an amazing mother and partner. We share great respect and trust and value the same interests regarding our love for Israel, religion, traditions, health, home design, family, community,” Lior says. “It’s the secret to a great marriage!”

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Ryan and Adam Reisman — Effortless Brotherhood As a married gay couple, their journey began under clandestine and often painful circumstances. It was 1996, a time when they could not easily reveal their sexual preference. Ryan had been married and Adam had just ended a relationship with a girl. “We met online at one of the first sites for gay relationships,” Adam says. “Ryan lived in Wisconsin. I was in Las Vegas. We would never go to a gay bar. The Internet opened the door to the only opportunity to meet someone in the privacy of home.” In those days, photos weren’t being used on dating sites. They emailed and within three days began to express a love for one another. Three months later they met in person. They knew it was right as they sat in the rain on the roof of Ryan’s house, considering their future as a couple. They confirmed their domestic partnership in 2009 and were legally married in 2011. In 2012 they adopted two siblings and began a family. “It wasn’t until we joined Temple Sinai in 2007 that we finally felt accepted as a gay couple and began to make real friends,” Adam says. They attribute the strength of their marriage to shared Jewish values: each knowing when to compromise and back down, and a mutual desire to do what it takes to always make it work.

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Clinical Sex Therapist, Relationship & Family Counselor Limor Blockman looks more like an exotic Penthouse playmate than the educated, articulate and thoughtful professional her credentials and experience reveal. The renowned clinical sex therapist has a master’s degree in public health and community medicine, and a doctorate in human sexuality. Born in 1977 in Haifa, she served in the Israel Defense Forces and is well known in her homeland for Dr. L’s Love Boutique, and for hosting radio and TV shows on human sexuality. Now based in Los Angeles, she’s been counseling individuals and couples in the U.S. for more than a decade. She has written three bestselling books (in Hebrew) and collaborated on a mobile app that offers steps to a more enhanced and committed relationship. She’s been featured globally on magazine covers, notably as “The Sexy Sexologist.” Her explicit stories and poems on erotica, called The Smut Diaries, are published on many online outlets.

believe me, I have a few tattoos. Dr. Ruth looks like she never had sex!

DAVID: Why did you choose human sexuality as your academic and professional focus?

BLOCKMAN: We are taught that sex is meaningful and important but we are not encouraged to enjoy it. Twenty percent of society lives in sexless relationships. We are sexual creatures. A life and relationship, devoid of satisfying the passions within – not only our sexual passion – is empty and lonely. I don’t tell the people I counsel what to do sexually. I help them to discard old notions that block them from pursuing their own individual expressions of sexuality.

BLOCKMAN: I’ve always been interested in human expression and communication between the sexes. … Why people approach sex as they do and why sex lies at the core of so many relationship problems, particularly in conventional societies, although not to the same degree in Europe as in America. DAVID: Your approach is bold, entirely uninhibited and, for some, intimidating. Why did you choose this particular path to help people achieve sexual understanding? BLOCKMAN: I learned early in my studies that I could not tolerate clinical work that concentrated on analyzing the difficult and often grim events in a person’s past and present. I would have pursued anthropology if not for my education and work in the field of human sexual interaction. DAVID: Are you married and do you have children? BLOCKMAN: I was married for seven years, now divorced, and helped to raise his child through the teen years. I wasn’t happy or fulfilled, however, in a monogamous relationship. I wanted the white picket fence but it didn’t want me. I don’t believe humans are programmed for monogamy, even though we are free to make monogamous choices. I don’t promote or prescribe sexual lifestyles in my counseling. This is just the right choice for me. DAVID: Are you ever compared to Dr. Ruth Westheimer? BLOCKMAN: Not usually. I am the opposite of Dr. Ruth! I would never go to a tattoo artist who did not have tattoos him/herself – and,

DAVID: What is your definition of sexual expression? BLOCKMAN: Modern Western societies, especially in America, have tied sex to love and marriage, thus repressing any opportunity to experience sex as a great mental, emotional and physically liberating expression of desire, meant to be enjoyed, not stifled, self-conscious and guilt ridden. When you deny what is natural and necessary to human need, problems occur — and sometimesserious ones. The line between lust and love becomes blurred, causing confusion, particularly for women who are so emotionally driven. DAVID: What are the most common difficulties people face in their sexual interactions that you witness in your practice?

DAVID: Can you share some of the advice you offer? BLOCKMAN: Sex is a powerful and deeply romantic bond. The stronger the bond between two people, the more satisfying and successful the relationship. If you want monogamy you need to make sex great, and that takes a lot of work. The missionary position, over and over again, is not going to cut it. The demise of any relationship is not recognizing the work that goes into making it a success. DAVID: What do you recommend? BLOCKMAN: Your readers should visit my website at www.drlimor.com. I offer readings and opportunities to follow me in many and inspiring ways. But, in brief, no one signed up for celibacy. Feeling desired is 80 percent of fulﬁllment. For women in particular, don’t fake emotions, ideas or orgasms. You will never be able to achieve bliss, satisfaction or what you want if you fake it. Communicate with your partner. Teach him how to make you happy, and listen in turn to what makes him happy. — Lynn Wexler

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