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Talented? What you need to know about G&T programs and test prep Plus, back-to-school resources for every grade

Why are tweens and teens self-conscious? And the Winner Is… A behind-the-scenes look at our cover contest photo shoot!

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And the Winner Is...

A behind-the-scenes peek at the 2019 Cover Kids photo shoot.

16 Is Your Child ‘G&T’? 18 Back-to-School Resources

24 Meet the Directors

The Age of Self-Doubt

Self-consciousness in early adolesence will lead to greater well being in adulthood.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Empowering Your Differently-Abled Student 12 And the Winner Is... 38 The Age of Self-Doubt 40 Day Care Center, Nanny, or Relative? 42 Party Central 43 Open Houses 44 Professional Services 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 Savor Each Moment

29 Family Activities Calendar

41 Separation Strategies

37 Remembering 9/11 in Manhattan

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Cute Kid Alert!

id you see the beautiful teen on the cover? That’s 14-year-old Daniela from Suffolk County, the older than 6 grand-prize winner in our 2018 Cover Kids contest! She’s the last of the finalists from 2018 to grace the cover of Big Apple Parent, so it’s only fitting that the 2019 grand-prize winners be announced in the behind-the-scenes peek of the photo shoot in this issue. It took a lot of work to get here, though. More than 1,000 of you, dear readers, submitted your children in our call for cover models, and our editors narrowed down the list to 10 (who knew looking at cute pictures of kids would be so difficult?!), shopped for outfits at Macy’s Backstage, planned the photo shoot at Sarah Marians Photography & Video Company in Manhattan, and coordinated 10 kids’ schedules. The results, as they say, are priceless! Flip to p. 14 to see our finalists in action—and be sure to keep an eye out in the coming months for our new cover stars! While we can’t stop thinking about the great photos we got of our 2019 Cover Kids finalists, we’re also planning for the back-to-school season. If you’re a parent of a child with a learning disability, you’ll want to read “Empowering Your Differently-Abled Student,” p. 12, for five great tips to ensure your child has the best school year possible. And if you’re wondering how to keep the fun of summer going all year-round, read, circle, and highlight (put those new office supplies you snuck in the cart when buying school supplies to work!) the “Back-to-School Resources” directory on p. 18. It’s full of fun after-school classes that will keep your kids engaged even after the school day ends. With all this thinking about school, don’t forget to soak up the last days of summer with your kids! This issue is packed with fun for September, but you can always find great things to do every day at nymetroparents.com—and get a curated list of weekend fun hand-picked by our editors sent to you at nymetroparents.com/register. Happy first day of school! Katelin Walling Editorial Director Helping Parents Make Better Decisions P.S. Share your first-day-of-school photos with us by tagging @nymetroparents on Instagram!

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Dance School on the Upper West Side Diversifies Youth Pre-Professional Program

“Although our ballet is still our foundation, we are adding other dance forms into it so we can help train twenty first-century dancers who have a skill set that will make them employable in the dance field, and top picks for elite dance programs,” says Pam Levy, director of youth programs at Steps on Broadway.

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Who: Steps on Broadway What’s New: Contemporary and modern dance classes added to the PreProfessional Program, which is slated to begin this month. The program is part of Steps on Broadway’s Youth Programs for ages 18 months to 18 years. It gives kids who want to make dance a major part of their lives the opportunity to train with teachers and chorographers from Broadway and famous dance companies. The pre-professional program is for ages 7-18. Auditions will be held on Sept. 7 with classes beginning Sept. 9. Want More Info: 2121 Broadway, Upper West Side; 212-874-3678; stepsnyc.com/youth-programs

Who: Hofstra Continuing Education What’s New: STEM Engineering and Design and Public Speaking Debate Course, both slated to begin Oct. 19. In STEM Engineering and Design, students will learn fundamentals by designing a project, testing and evaluating it, and then taking steps to improve it. In the Public Speaking Debate Course, students will learn to get comfortable with public speaking, writing, and self-confidence. Students have the choice of a 9-11am class or 11am-1pm class on Saturdays. Enrollment is open until the day the program begins. Updates are also in the works for existing courses Game Building Academy, Painting and Digital Arts, and Motion Capture Cartooning. The updates are slated for the 2019 school year. Want More Info: 255 Hofstra University, Hempstead; 516-463-7400; ce.hofstra.edu/youth 8

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Who: Hex & Company What’s New: The Upper East Side location, slated to open Sept. 9. The board game café’s new location will offer the same experiences as its other stores, including classic and modern card and board games and tabletop role-playing games for all ages. The café plansto add new items to its menu for its hard launch in mid-September and its after-school programs will begin immediately. Founder and owner Jon Freeman, Ph.D., brings his successful program from Hex & Company and the Brooklyn Strategist, planning to expand the curriculum to suit the needs of his new students. Want More Info: 1462 First Ave., Upper East Side; 212-439-1008; hexnyc.com

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t seems like a given: Your baby should feel comfortable with your nanny. There should be warmth and trust between the two. But since your baby, though adorable, can’t yet spill the beans about the details of her day, how do you know what’s really going on? Here are the two big signs the nanny-child relationship is working.

Happy Reunions

It’s important that your baby is excited, even overjoyed, to see your nanny each day. Once your baby knows your nanny and has spent time with her, your baby should be happy when he sees her. If your nanny enjoys being with your baby, he will feel her care and genuine interest. If your baby seems fearful or anxious when your nanny arrives, you should be concerned.

A Sense of Trust

Another essential sign? Your baby appears to trust and feel safe with your nanny. Babies instinctively know who cares for them, who they can trust, and who makes them feel safe. If your baby has sudden behavioral or emotional changes—like waking up at night crying and screaming without obvious cause—you should investigate what’s going on during the daytime. The bottom line: Trust your own intuition about your nanny. You are usually right about whatever you are feeling, aren’t you?

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Empowering Your Differently-Abled Student ›› By Jacqueline Neber

ood parent-teacher communication is crucial for any successful school year, but being on the same page becomes even more important when your child has a learning disability. You should take a few key proactive steps to ensure your child has the best year possible.

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Know your rights and speak up. Parents are entitled to receive information about special education from their schools and teachers— reading up and staying informed is the best way to advocate for your kid. When attending Committee for Special Education meetings, annual review meetings, or parent-teacher conferences, if you don’t understand something, ask questions. Communicate with teachers frequently. Kathy Devine and Emily Cole co-teach at Waverly Avenue Elementary School in Holtsville. They say parents of students with special needs must be extra communicative with teachers. “We would like to know sooner when things might be happening at home, whether it’s medication changes or maybe something in the home life has changed,” Cole says. When it comes to homework, “reach out to us as soon as possible so that we’re not waiting until the end of a trimester to know [kids are] struggling,” Devine says. Another tip? Write a letter describing your child and his needs at the beginning of the year. Understand Individualized Education Plan goals. Equally important is understanding your child’s IEP goals—which can differ from her classroom goals. This difference often confuses parents who see their student accomplishing goals on one end of the spectrum and not the other. Involve your child. Cassie Reilly, the current Transition Coordinator at Northport High School, suggests involving your kid in IEP and parent-teacher conferences. Being open with kids from the time of diagnosis helps them stand up for themselves and understand their learning disability does not make them inferior to others. Be sensitive to difference. Parents should understand their kids might be different at home than at school, Reilly adds. And, even more importantly, their kids might have an atypical path toward success. Communicating with teachers is key to understanding how your kid can progress in the best way.

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And the winner is…

A behind-the-scenes peek at the 2019 Cover Kids photo shoot

t’s official: You, dear readers, have cute kids! We knew picking finalists wasn’t going to be easy. In fact, it wasn’t easy times 1,000—that’s how many children were entered. Well, 1,006 to be exact. Once our editors were done exclaiming, “I love her hair!” “Look at his outfit!” and “Kids wearing glasses are adorable,” we poured over the entries and narrowed it down to nine cuties, plus our Fan Favorite. Those 10 kids were then invited to a photo shoot at Sarah Merians Photography & Video Company in Manhattan. And, boy, did they deliver! All the kids rocked the shoot decked out in clothes from Macy’s Backstage.

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Is Your Child ‘G&T’? ››

What parents need to know about the Gifted & Talented program in New York—and how to prep for the test By Madeleine Burry

very year, tens of thousands of kids across New York City— and some in the suburbs of NYC—opt to take a test to qualify for the Gifted and Talented program. The program holds classes (within public schools) that are geared to the test’s highest scorers: kids the Department of Education deems “exceptional” students. The test is administered to kids entering kindergarten through third grade. Will your child be one of those test-takers? Find out what you need to know about the program and the exam—including the best way to prep your little ones for it.

The Basics

The city actually offers two separate district and citywide G&T programs. In the citywide option, children from all of the city’s neighborhoods attend a school with only G&T students. Districtlevel programs, in contrast, prioritize admitting students who live within the district, and these G&T students share the school with non-G&T kids. They also take some classes, such as art and PE, with the non-G&T students. Both programs rely on test results to determine eligibility. A score of 90 or above qualifies kids to apply to district programs; a score of 97 or above is required for application to the citywide programs. However, test score alone is not enough to guarantee entrance for either program—students are entered into a lottery system for programs since more kids qualify than there are available seats. That’s what happened to mom-of-two Dahlia Thompson’s oldest child. “Maya ended up scoring a 97 and made citywide,” Thompson says. But since Maya didn’t get a spot in a citywide school, she instead 16

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attended a neighborhood district G&T school for kindergarten. If you live in a school district in New York City or the metro area that doesn’t offer a Gifted and Talented program, you can explore after-school programs that offer this type of enrichment. For example, Village East Gifted in Huntington Station and Roslyn Heights and G-tec Kids in New Rochelle offer hands-on activities and classes designed for advanced students to strengthen their cognitive skills.

Taking the Test

Any child who lives in New York City, and is entering kindergarten through third grade in September, can take the G&T test during the previous January (they just have to register by late fall). This includes students with disabilities (with accommodations potentially available for kids who have IEPs, IESPs, or 504 Plans). The exam is also administered in many languages other than English, including Arabic, Mandarin, Spanish, and Cantonese. Emily Levitt, vice president of education at Sylvan Learning, explains that the test is divided into two parts. Test-takers get both a raw and percentile score on each part, which are then combined into an overall score used to determine eligibility. The first part of the exam is nonverbal, Levitt says. Questions are drawn from the Naglieri Nonverbal Ability Test—students are shown pictures and asked to predict which one would come next in a pattern or combine objects to form a new pattern. The second part of the exam is verbal, with questions from the Otis-Lennon School Ability Test. This multiple-choice portion tests verbal comprehension and reasoning, Levitt says. With applying for kindergarten, the proctor will read the questions aloud once and mark down the child’s responses.

The test is untimed, but according to the NYC Department of Education, students usually complete it within 30 minutes to 1 hour.

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Practice and Prepare

The biggest challenge for test takers is age. “Really little kids and tests don’t always go well together, for no other reason than that the kids are so little,” Levitt says. “Trying to prep a four-yearold for a test is going to look different than prepping your high schooler for the SAT.” One way to prepare your kid for the G&T exam (without causing undue stress) is to practice abstract lessons at home. Make it feel like playtime! Starting a few months before the exam, have kids identify patterns and sequences, Levitt suggests. Use toys to create a pattern of small, medium, large, and then have your child continue the pattern. Or use M&M’s to make color-based patterns. Another strategy she recommends is to ask questions throughout the day to help get kids in the habit of explaining their thinking and reasoning. The NYC DOE also publishes a booklet with practice exams (you can find it at schools.nyc.gov), though some warn against taking this too seriously. “We went through the examples in the DOE booklet a few times beforehand and that’s it,” Thompson says. Levitt also suggests parents avoid being drill sergeants—do a few questions per sitting, she says. Don’t forget: Your attitude toward the test can be contagious, and stress and anxiety aren’t helpful to your child. Frame any prep you do in terms of getting kids comfortable, so they know what to expect, Levitt says. And no need to go into detail about test results or their implications. Thompson’s son missed the cut-off score by one point. “Lev vaguely knows he didn’t pass the test, but we didn’t make a big deal out of it,” she says.

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Should your kids take the test?

There are few reasons not to take the test: A strong test result opens the door to potential inclusion in the program—and your child’s score will not be shared with schools. That said, the test—and in fact, the G&T program as a whole—is not without controversy. Students in wealthier districts are more likely to take the exam than students in poorer ones. And, while there are many G&T programs in Manhattan and parts of Queens, there are fewer G&T options in historically Black and Latinx districts in the Bronx and Brooklyn, according to a report from the DOE’s School Diversity Advisory Group. “The racial demographics of kindergarten G&T programs are not representative of the racial demographics of kindergarteners as a whole,” the SDAG report notes. Black and Latinx students make up 63 percent of all kindergartners, but only 18 percent of the G&T kindergarteners. Some schools are now considering phasing out their G&T programs because of these types of diversity issues. Levitt argues that you should only avoid the test if it will be a stressful event for your child. Thompson’s advice: Consider your kid’s personality. “I don’t think there’s harm in taking the exam to expand your options if the kid does well, but gauge the kid. My kids think workbooks and puzzles are fun, so the test didn’t stress them out,” she says. “But it’s not for everyone.” Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents. com, Scholastic, and About.com. Burry lives in Park Slope, Brooklyn, with her husband and their cat. You can follow her on Twitter @lovelanewest.

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Back-to-School Resources AFTER SCHOOL PROGRAMS ACADEMIC ENRICHMENT/ LANGUAGE Collina Italiana

1556 Third Ave. (at 87th Street), Suite 603 212-427-7770 collinaitaliana.com info@collinaitaliana.com Set on the Upper East Side, our Italian classes allow children to benefit from a comprehensive approach to learning in an age-appropriate, inviting atmosphere. Children gather to share learned words and expressions through playful, skill-building activities such as games, songs, dances, and stories. For all the bellissimi details visit collinaitaliana.com!

Congregation Or Zarua

127 E. 82nd St., Upper East Side 212-452-2310 x15, Sigal Hirsch orzarua.org shirsch@orzarua.org At Or Zarua’s Hebrew School, on Manhattan’s Upper East Side, children connect with Jewish heritage, gaining knowledge and skills through Hebrew language, text study, ritual, and prayer. Students of all ages learn and laugh with friends and teachers as they build a Jewish community of their own.

Cosmic Cubs

cosmiccubs.com support@cosmiccubs.com Cosmic Cubs apps are fun and engaging while teaching children 3 and older about the solar system and the 3 Rs, Reduce, Reuse, Recycle. Download Cosmic Cubs apps including Planet Puzzles, 3 Rs Puzzles, Rockitect, and Storymaker. Download Cosmic Cubs apps at the App store, Google Play, and Amazon.

Eye Level Manhattan

Eye Level offers math and English programs for ages 3-14. Whether the immediate goal is for early learning, remedial education, or academic education, Eye Level is the answer.

Hex & Company

1462 First Ave. 646-833-7574 hexmarksthespot.com kids@hexnyc.com When kids play board games together, they develop critical thinking, interpersonal, and strategy skills. That is the goal of our play-based curriculum, built upon neurodevelopmental theory. We create a learning environment that teaches problem-solving skills and encourages social engagement. Kids have a blast while learning important skills!

Huntington Learning Center

237 W. 72nd St., Upper West Side 212-362-0100 huntingtonhelps.com Huntington is the premier tutoring and test prep provider for students kindergarten-12th grades, including SAT, ACT, and state tests. The company prides itself on personalized attention and proven results. Founded in 1977, Huntington’s mission is to give every student the best education possible. Learn more about our mission at huntingtonhelps.com.

Treebath Explorers Scandinavian Outdoor After School Programs

The Battery, Central Park, Brooklyn, Queens 203-529-5379, Oskar and Nicole Elmgart, founders tree-bath.com youmatter@tree-bath.com Treebath offers Scandinavian after-school programs for pre-K to second grade that run entirely outdoors! Our science-based philosophy and sustainability curriculum foster outdoor play while encouraging children to develop a lifelong respect for the world we share. Starts Sept. 9, 3:30-5:30pm in The Battery, Central Park, Brooklyn, and Queens.

ART Children’s Museum of the Arts 103 Charlton St., Soho

212-274-0986 cmany.org Children’s Museum of the Arts is an art museum that offers workshops and classes for children ages 1-15. Taught by teaching artists specializing in a range of mediums, these courses encourage children to build critical thinking skills, develop an artistic voice, and express creativity. Learn more at cmany.org.

Future Star Music and Arts Center

646-828-5656, 646-656-1083 futurestarnyc.com futurestarmusicarts@gmail.com Future Star Music and Arts Center provides all levels of music and arts education to children. Our instructors graduated from world-top institutes with years of teaching and performing experiences. We will help children find and build their talents in music and arts. Find us, find the right choice!

DANCE Ballet Academy East

1651 Third Ave., Upper East Side 212-410-9140 balletacademyeast.com Ballet Academy East, Young Dancer Division, unleashing children’s potential through dance. Ballet Academy East is home to aspiring dancers of all ages in its Young Dancer, Pre-Professional, and Adult Divisions. BAE is internationally recognized for exceptional dance training and is the Upper East Side’s ballet school of choice.

Ellen Robbins Modern Dance for Children and Teens

Two Locations: Soho and Chelsea 212-254-0286 ellenrobbinsdance.com dance_er@verizon.net Ellen Robbins dance classes for children do what dance is supposed to do: train their bodies in technique, attune their ears to great music, immerse them in the thrill of improvisation, and coach them in composition-the natural outcome of which is performance. Modern dance for ages 5-18: technique, composition, improvisation, and performance.

Steps on Broadway Youth Programs

2121 Broadway at 74th Street, 4th Floor, Upper West Side 212-874-3678 stepsnyc.com/youth-programs theschool@stepsnyc.com For 40 years, the youth programs at the internationally celebrated Steps on Broadway have nurtured young dancers, ages 18 months to 18 years. Whether seeking a fun dance experience or comprehensive pre-professional training, there is a program suited for everyone.

FOREIGN LANGUAGE China Institute

40 Rector St., 2nd Floor, Tribeca 212-744-8181 x110 chinainstitute.org emarks@chinainstitute.org With two convenient Manhattan locations-Upper East Side and the Financial District, China Institute’s classes allow children to learn Chinese using an integrated, comprehensive approach. Classes are level and age-appropriate. Expert, native speaking teachers lead classes for kids 18 months to 17 years.

Collina Italiana

1556 Third Ave. (at 87th Street), Suite 603, Upper East Side 212-427-7770 collinaitaliana.com info@collinaitaliana.com Set on the Upper East Side, our Italian classes allow children to benefit from a comprehensive approach to learning in an age-appropriate, inviting atmosphere. Children gather to share learned words and expressions through playful, skill-building activities such as games, songs, dances, and stories. For all the bellissimi details visit collinaitaliana.com!

Speakitaly NYC

49 W. 28th St., 3rd Floor, Chelsea 212-603-9685 speakitalynyc.com info@speakitalynyc.com Speakitaly NYC offers high quality Italian language lessons for children and young learners ages 6 months and older. Children are encouraged to experiment with the language through engaging activities and start speaking Italian in a very natural way. Small groups of seven students; educational, fun, and professional native language teachers! continued on page 20 ››

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AFTER SCHOOL PROGRAMS

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MUSIC Future Star Music and Arts Center

Harlem School of the Arts

645 Saint Nicholas Ave. 212-926-4100 hsanyc.org/register Harlem School of the Arts offers world-class training and exposure to the arts across multiple disciplines. Secure your spot in new music, dance, theatre, and art and design classes for ages 18 months to 18 years. Children will stimulate creativity, build self-confidence, and add a dimension of beauty to their lives.

The Nordoff-Robbins Center for Music Therapy 35 W. 4th St., 11th floor, West Village 212-998-5162 steinhardt.nyu.edu/music/nordoff jacqueline.birnbaum@nyu.edu The Nordoff-Robbins approach to music therapy is based on the belief that everyone possesses a sensitivity to music that can be utilized for personal growth and development. We provide a variety of services, including individual music therapy, group music therapy, and specialized music instruction, for all ages, with or without disabilities.

THEATER Harlem School of the Arts

645 Saint Nicholas Ave., Harlem 212-926-4100 hsanyc.org/register Harlem School of the Arts offers world-class training and exposure to the arts across multiple disciplines. Secure your spot in new music, dance, theatre, and art and design classes for ages 18 months to 18 years. Children will stimulate creativity, build self-confidence, and add a dimension of beauty to their lives.

Play On! Studios

Church of St. Paul and St. Andrew, 263 W. 86th St., Upper West Side

347-709-4149 playonstudios.com info@playonstudios.com Play On! Studios offers after-school programming in theater. Our classes meet weekly-the perfect solution for busy NYC kids in grades kindergarten-eighth! We keep class sizes small, so kids get the personal attention and non-competitive environment they need to do their best. Explore improvisation, playwriting, or put on a play in a theater.

SAY, Confident Voices

212-414-9696 x208, Kate Detrick say.org/programs/confidentvoices kate@say.org SAYs award-winning Confident Voices after-school and weekend creative arts program for kids who stutter, ages 8-18, has three sessions during the 2019-2020 season. The Songwriting Project begins Sept. 27, followed by the Short Play Project on Dec. 13 and the Mentor Project on April 17. For more information or to register visit say.org/programs/ confidentvoices.

FITNESS Tiger Strong NYC

500 E. 77th St., Upper East Side 917-453-6503 tigerstrongnyc.com bill@tigerstrongnyc.com The Tiger Strong Program focuses on helping kids develop skills they can use in every part of their daily life. We challenge them to be the best they can be and help them learn how to learn by increasing focus and being confident about themselves while having fun and making new friends.

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GYMNASTICS & CHEERLEADING The Little Gym

2121 Broadway, 2nd Floor (between 74th and 75th Streets), Upper West Side 212-799-1225 tlgupperwestsideny.com 777 White Plains Road, Scarsdale 914-722-0072 tlgscarsdaleny.com The Little Gym is an exercise and motor development center for children, offering gymnastic classes, sports skills development, dance, cheerleading, and karate classes for children ages 4 months to 12 years, in a loving, non-competitive environment. Qualified instructors implement programs designed to build self-esteem and confidence.

MARTIAL ARTS Tiger Strong NYC

MULTI-SPORTS PROGRAMS Chelsea Piers

62 Chelsea Piers, Chelsea 212-336-6520 chelseapiers.com/youth fh@chelseapiers.com Chelsea Piers offers NYC’s best youth sports classes for children of all ages and ability levels. With a variety of sports programs all led by an extraordinary team of accomplished coaches, Chelsea Piers is the premier destination for youth sports in New York City. Registration is ongoing.

SWIMMING & WATER SPORTS British Swim School Manhattan

Offering classes in Midtown West, Herald Square, or at-home lessons in your building’s pool 917-727-9942 britishswimschool.com/manhattan goswimmanhattan@britishswimschool.com British Swim School offers a premier water survival, learn-toswim, and stroke development program. We provide lessons to

children as young as 3 months and invite families to experience the BSS difference. Mommy-, Daddy-, and Caregiver-and-me classes for kids younger than 3 years. Great after-school activity. Small class sizes.

BACK TO SCHOOL SERVICES DOCTORS Judy Goldstein M.D.

635 Madison Ave., 12th floor, Midtown East 646-727-7373 drjudygoldstein.com judy@drjudygoldstein.com Dr. Judy Goldstein is a 68-time award-winning, board-certified pediatrician whose focus is “Pediatrics Made Personal.” Providing care not only medically but also offering parental guidance in nutrition, behavioral and emotional coaching. Following the principles of the American Academy of Pediatrics, she performs mandatory vaccinations, regular checkups (school/camp), and sick visits.

EDUCATIONAL SERVICES Cosmic Cubs

creADDive Solutions Andrea Elrom, Certified ADHD & Executive Function Coach

201-240-0921 creaddivesolutions.com elrom.andrea@gmail.com Adhd/Executive Function Coach, offering extensive knowledge on parenting challenging behaviors through workshops, individual and group sessions. Through her Calm and Connected@ workshop series (fall session begins Oct. 16), learn to improve the overall dynamics of family life. Andrea works closely with independent schools to support teachers in understanding executive function in the classroom. continued on page 22 ››

AFTER SCHOOL PROGRAMS

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STORES & RESOURCES Affinity Health Plan

866-247-5678 affinityplan.org For more than 30 years, Affinity Health Plan has been offering New York state-sponsored free or low-cost health coverage to New Yorkers who have Medicaid or no health insurance at all. Our managed care programs meet the need for coverage among people who may find it hard to get health care.

Atlas Foundation For Autism Atlas School

252 W. 29th St., 3rd floor, Chelsea 212-256-0846 atlasforautism.org info@atlasforautism.org The Atlas Foundation for Autism houses the Atlas School as well as speech, OT services, music, after-school classes, and weekend social skills groups! Atlas is different in its approach to working within modalities that address communication, emotional and social thinking, as well as behavior and self-esteem!

Fidelis Care New York

888-FIDELIS (343-3547) fideliscare.org Fidelis Care is a mission-driven health plan offering quality, affordable coverage for children and adults of all ages and at all stages of life. With more than 1.7 million members statewide, Fidelis Care believes that all New Yorkers should have access to affordable, quality health insurance.

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TUTORS & TEST PREP China Institute

40 Rector St., 2nd floor, Tribeca 212-744-8181 x110 chinainstitute.org emarks@chinainstitute.org With two convenient Man-

hattan locations-Upper East Side and the Financial District, China Institute’s classes allow children to learn Chinese using an integrated, comprehensive approach. Classes are level and age-appropriate. We also offer private tutoring in the comfort of your home or any location.

Eye Level Manhattan

437 E. 12th St., East Village 212-260-8020 eastvillage@myeyelevel.com 104 Reade St., Tribeca 212-346-PREP (7737) info@rsprep.com 307 E. 84th St., Upper East Side 212-737-3344 uppereastside@myeyelevel.com eyelevelny.com Eye Level offers math and English programs for ages 3-14. Whether the immediate goal is early learning, remedial education, or academic education, Eye Level is the answer.

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EDUCATION CHARTER SCHOOLS Manhattan Charter School

100 Attorney St., Lower East Side 212-533-2743 Manhattan Charter School II 220 Henry St., Lower East Side 212-964-3792 manhattancharterschool.org info@manhattancharterschool.org Two small public elementary schools educating children kindergarten-fifth grades. Committed to offering a well-rounded education designed to help students develop critical thinking and problem-solving skills. Never more than 25 students in a class. All students receive weekly French, art, physical education, and technology instruction, in addition to daily music instruction.

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PAROCHIAL & RELIGIOUS SCHOOLS Congregation Or Zarua

The Epiphany School

Gramercy, Murray Hill Early Childhood Center: 152 E. 29th St. 212-725-7220 Lower School: 234 E. 22nd St. 212-473-4128 Upper School: 141 E. 28th St. 212-725-7220 theepiphanyschool.org admissions@theepiphanyschool.org Serving approximately 500 students of all faiths, age 2 through eighth grade, The Epiphany School provides a value-centered education that educates the whole child and inspires academic success. Low teacher-student ratios, bright, colorful classrooms, and outdoor play space provide students an inviting and comfortable environment to begin their educational journey.

First Presbyterian Church Nursery School

12 W. 12th St., Greenwich Village 212-691-3432 fpcns.org First Presbyterian Church Nursery School was founded in 1952 in Greenwich Village. Our school offers a non-sectarian program, welcoming children and families of all configurations, religions, races, cultures, and economic backgrounds. FPCNS is dedicated to the development of the whole child in a warm and nurturing environment.

Immaculate Conception School

419 E. 13th St., East Village 212-475-2590 immaculateconceptionschoolnyc.org info@immaculateconceptionschoolnyc.org Immaculate Conception School is dedicated to achieving excel-

lence in learning. From pre-K3 and UPK, through eighth grade, we provide a caring, well-run, high-performance foundation for children of all faiths and cultures. Well-equipped classrooms offer technological innovations in learning and committed educators create a safe and inspiring environment in which to grow.

PRESCHOOLS The Epiphany School

Gramercy, Murray Hill Early Childhood Center: 152 E. 29th St. 212-725-7220 Lower School: 234 E. 22nd St. 212-473-4128 Upper School: 141 E. 28th St. 212-725-7220 theepiphanyschool.org admissions@theepiphanyschool.org Early Childhood classes at The Epiphany School utilize art, music, movement, learning centers, and socialization activities to support the growth of each child’s cognitive, linguistic, physical, and social emotional skills. Low teacher-student ratios, bright, colorful classrooms, and outdoor play space provide students an inviting, comfortable environment to begin their educational journey.

First Presbyterian Church Nursery School

International Academy of New York

4 E. 90th St., Upper East Side 212-641-0260 ianyc.org info@ianyc.org The International Academy of New York is multi-cultural and diverse, developing culturally astute, confident, and empathetic students with fluency in Mandarin or Spanish, while excelling in literacy, math, and the arts. Pre-nursery (2s)-eighth

grade, but accepting applications through fourth grade for 2019-20.

The Montessori School of New York International

347 E. 55th St., Sutton Place 212-223-4630 montessorischoolny.com Children explore academic dimensions at their own pace and interest level. Classes are equipped with didactic Montessori materials that encourage absorption of concepts through play, leading children to become well-rounded and confident. Program includes science, music, foreign language, musical theatre, swimming, dance, yoga, chess, cultural events, and robotics.

Pusteblume International Preschool and Afterschool Programs

244 W. 14th St., Chelsea 212-206-1137 pusteblumenyc.org info@pusteblumenyc.org Pusteblume International Preschool provides children with a fun and community-oriented multicultural environment. Our preschool program welcomes families with children from ages 2-5 of all international backgrounds who are interested in having their child learn German, Spanish, or both, in a language immersion classroom.

PRIVATE SCHOOLS Blue School

Pre-primary and Primary School 241 Water St., Seaport Upper-primary and Middle School 156 William St. 212-228-6341 blueschool.org Blue School is an independent school for ages 2 through eighth grade where the dynamic balance of academic mastery, creative thinking, self and social intelligence instills a lifelong passion for learning. The curriculum emphasizes inquiry, observation, and reflection, encouraging children to become bold, creative, and compassionate innovators.

The British International School of New York

20 Waterside Plaza, Kips Bay 212-481-2700 x204 bis-ny.org info@bis-ny.org With a stunning campus full of

light, and a proven, portable curriculum which both stretches and supports every student across a breadth of subject areas, BIS-NY offers a supportive and truly balanced approach to education. For children 3 years and older.

Dwight School

291 Central Park West, Upper West Side 212-724-6360 dwight.edu admissions@dwight.edu Founded in 1872, Dwight is a leading nursery-12th grade private school dedicated to igniting the spark of genius in every child. Dwight has one of the lowest student-teacher ratios among NYC independent schools and was the first in the Americas to offer the comprehensive International Baccalaureate curriculum for ages 3-18.

The École

111 E. 22nd St. 646-410-2238 theecole.org admissions@theecole.org The École, formerly École Internationale de New York, is an intimate and independent French-American school that cultivates an internationally-minded community of students. From Maternelle to Middle School, we blend the best of the French and American educational systems, gifting our students with deep academic bi-literacy and an optimistic, multi-cultural perspective.

The Gateway School

211 W. 61st St., 6th floor, Upper West Side 212-777-5966 gatewayschool.org admissions@gatewayschool.org The Gateway School is an independent day school for children ages 5-14 with language-based learning disabilities or attention deficits. It was among the first schools to recognize that bright children who had difficulty learning simply had to be taught differently. At Gateway, students recognize their strengths and develop self-advocacy skills.

The Green Vale School

250 Valentine’s Lane, Old Brookville 516-621-2420 greenvaleschool.org

Green Vale is Long Island’s premier and largest coed, independent elementary school for pre-nursery through eighth grade. A program of exceptional academics and small class sizes is combined with emphasis on athletics, visual and performing arts, and character education at every grade level.

International Academy of New York

Rossall School, UK

Broadway, Fleetwood, Lancashire, FY7 8JW rossall.org.uk Celebrating 175 years, Rossall is a coeducational boarding and day school for ages 2-19, situated next to the sea and only an hour from Manchester airport. Educating more than 40 nationalities, we offer semester and yearlong courses alongside a wealth of extracurricular opportunities with first-rate signature programs for golf and soccer.

Wetherby–Pembridge School

7 E. 96th St., Upper East Side 646-213-3400 wetherby-pembridge.org info@wetherbypembridge.org A British independent school for ages 3-14, our school vision is to awaken curiosity, cultivate high standards, and celebrate successes. Our curriculum is based on the rigorous English National Curriculum and combines the merits of single-sex and coeducation, infused with our three school values of respect, responsibility, and resilience.

PUBLIC SCHOOLS Manhattan Charter School

100 Attorney St., Lower East Side 212-533-2743 Manhattan Charter School II 220 Henry St. 212-964-3792 manhattancharterschool.org info@manhattancharterschool.org

Two small public elementary schools educating children kindergarten-fifth grades. Committed to offering a well-rounded education designed to help students develop critical thinking and problem-solving skills. Never more than 25 students in a class. All students receive weekly French, art, physical education, and technology instruction, in addition to daily music instruction.

SPECIAL NEEDS Atlas Foundation For Autism Atlas School

The Gateway School

Otto Specht School

260 Hungry Hollow Road, Chestnut Ridge 845-352-5020 x130 ottospechtschool.org info@ottospecht.org At Otto Specht School, we work to discover each child’s path to lifelong learning, offering exceptional educational programs that reach beyond the four walls of a traditional classroom. Designed for students with learning challenges and developmental delays, we offer kindergarten-12th, Transitional Life Skills, and 21 plus programming.

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Director Atlas Foundation For Autism

Atlas School Amanda Friedman, founder and executive director 252 W. 29th St., 3rd floor 212-256-0846 atlasforautism.org info@atlasforautism.org Amanda Friedman is the founder and executive director of the Atlas Foundation for Autism and a special education teacher with more than 18 years of experience. Amanda has worked with students ranging in age from 3-25 with an array of differences including autism, cognitive delays, emotional disturbances (PTSD, schizophrenia, oppositional defiance disorder), and other learning and developmental challenges. Amanda has been through certified trainings in ABA, TEACCH, BART, and multiple trainings in DIR/Floortime. She is proud to act as a liaison within the NY ASD and special education community.

The British International School of New York

Jason Morrow 20 Waterside Plaza 212-481-2700 x204 bis-ny.org info@bis-ny.org In his fifth year as head at BIS-NY, Jason Morrow is inspired by the opportunity to provide NY families with access to an exceptional international education. Originally from Belfast, and an Oxford University graduate, Jason continued his studies at Wake Forest University. Back in Oxford, while researching U.S. immigration studies and identity, Jason started working as a supply teacher–discovering his real passion. With 20 years experience in leadership posts in the UK’s top schools, Jason’s greatest motivator is helping each child grow in confidence and self-belief and to discover what inspires them.

Steps on Broadway Youth Programs

Pamela Levy, director 2121 Broadway at 74th Street, 4th floor, Upper West Side 212-874-3678 stepsnyc.com/youth-programs theschool@stepsnyc.com Pam Levy holds an M.A. in Dance Education/ABT Ballet Pedagogy from NYU, and a B.F.A. in Dance from Mason Gross School of the Arts/Rutgers. She is a member of ABT’s National Training Curriculum’s Artistic Board of Examiners. She served on the faculties of ABT’s JKO School Children’s Division, Mason Gross, Marymount, Princeton, Rider, and Teachers College at Columbia University. She served as director of the Princeton Ballet School, ABT Certified School at Mason Gross Extension Division, and Mark Morris Student Company II. She danced with Murray Louis and Nikolais Dance, and the Metropolitan Opera Ballet.

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Cosmic Cubs

Ann Kirsten Kennis cosmiccubs.com support@cosmiccubs.com Back in the 90s Ann Kirsten Kennis, a former Ford and Elite model created a line of plush space bears that were sold in planetariums, science centers, and specialty stores nationwide. Years later Ann’s daughter Alex had the idea to bring the bears to the internet. It was then that the Cosmic Cubs website and apps were created. Cosmic Cubs’ mission is to educate and entertain children around the world through fun and engaging apps and website.

Blue School

Gina Farrar, head of school Pre-primary and Primary School 241 Water St. Upper-primary and Middle School 156 William St. 212-228-6341 blueschool.org Gina Farrar, Ph.D. brings intellect, spirit, and tenacity, combined with an extensive educational work history, to Blue School in her role as head of school. Graduating from Wesleyan University, she began her career teaching math at Elisabeth Irwin High School (now LREI), completed her doctorate degree in clinical and school psychology, and worked as a psychologist, clinical director, and program director of both mainstream and special education early childhood programs, overseeing multiple sites for more than 18 years.

British Swim School Manhattan

Offering classes in Midtown West, Herald Square, or at-home lessons in your building’s pool Lisa Godek, owner/operator 917-727-9942 britishswimschool.com/manhattan goswimmanhattan@britishswimschool.com Lisa Godek, owner/operator, brings BSS to Manhattan, a near 40-year-old, premier water survival and swim instruction program. Starting in September, BSS will operate five days per week across two locations, offering a full roster of lessons for children as young as 3 months through to adults. After spending 20 years in industry, Lisa decided to write a new chapter in her life where she could have a clear and direct impact on people’s well-being. I’m thrilled to have found a home where I can contribute to saving lives.

Treebath Explorers Scandinavian Outdoor After School Programs

The Battery, Central Park, Brooklyn, Queens 203-529-5379, Oskar and Nicole Elmgart, founders tree-bath.com; youmatter@tree-bath.com Oskar and Nicole Elmgart founded Treebath to help families disconnect from technology and get outside. As parents of two boys the Treebath Explorers program grew out of their frustration with the lack of fun, educational outdoor activities after-school in New York City. Growing up in Sweden, Oskar spent his childhood attending an outdoor after-school program-which meant spending time outside regardless of weather. They recreated this experience by developing a sustainability curriculum with a science-based philosophy. Treebath uses outdoor play to enhance the development of mindfulness, sensory perception, focus, and social well-being.

Collina Italiana

Patrizia Saglio, director 1556 Third Ave. (at 87th Street), Suite 603 212-427-7770 collinaitaliana.com info@collinaitaliana.com Patrizia Saglio, director of Collina Italiana, was born in Switzerland and grew up speaking Italian, French, and German. She graduated in political science from Universita Cattolica del Sacro Cuore in Milan, where she worked for several years as an assistant professor and private teacher. After moving to NY, she opened an Italian Cultural Center, offering classes in an authentic cultural setting and combining them with culinary arts, wine, and film. The goal of Collina Italiana is to introduce, through conversation, both children and adults to the beautiful life and language of Italy!

Ellen Robbins Modern Dance for Children and Teens

Ellen Robbins, director Two Locations: Soho and Chelsea 212-254-0286 ellenrobbinsdance.com dance_er@verizon.net Ellen Robbins has been teaching dance independently since 1980. She has been on the faculties of the 92nd St. Y, Bennington College July program, and ArtsConnection. She has directed the Young Dancers School at the American Dance Festival at Duke University. In the summer of 2001, Dances By Very Young Choreographers (Ellen Robbins’ students 6–18) was produced at the Jacob’s Pillow Dance Festival in the Doris Duke Theater. She was the honoree of the 2016 LaMama Moves Gala and is a Bessie Award recipient for her work with children.

Does Your Child Love Music? The reknowned Nordoff-Robbins Center for Music Therapy at New York University is now in its 30th year of providing group and individual music therapy for children of all ages. steinhardt.nyu.edu/music/nordoff Call 212-998-5151 for more information

ellen robbins Modern Dance Technique, Improvisation, Composition. Ages 5 - Teens Classes meet in: Soho & Chelsea

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International Academy of New York

Shelley Borror Jackson, head of school 4 E. 90th St., Upper East Side 212-641-0260 ianyc.org info@ianyc.org Shelley Borror Jackson has been leading schools for more than 30 years. She served for 16 years as head of The Bement School, a K-ninth junior boarding school in Deerfield, MA. She is a regular columnist for the International Reading Association, and is widely published in a range of professional journals. As founder of IANY, she believes that small class sizes create opportunities for meaningful investigation; that truly diverse schools produce students who are culturally astute and intellectually stimulated; and that bilingual education is a necessity in an ever-shrinking world.

Tiger Strong karate!

Our core philosophy is to teach children skills that they can use in their normal everyday life. We help develop a child’s core athleticism and physical skills through basic gymnastics and martial art techniques using music, skill-based activities and games in fun, safe and nurturing environment. Kids are introduced to the basics of karate including the correct and safe method for punching and kicking.

Tiger Strong NYC • 917-453-6503 tigerstrongnyc.com

Rossall School, UK

Mr. Jeremy Quartermain, M.A, M.Phil (Cambridge, Trinity Dublin) headmaster Broadway, Fleetwood, Lancashire, FY7 8JW rossall.org.uk Celebrating 175 years of educating boys and girls ages 2-19 this year, Rossall School appointed Mr. Jeremy Quartermain headmaster just over a year ago. After studying for a history degree at Cambridge University, he completed an M.Phil at Trinity College Dublin and had a period of teaching overseas before gaining his teaching qualification. Mr Quartermain works as a freelance educator for the Holocaust Educational Trust. Email l.barnwell@rossall.org.uk to meet with Mr. Quartermain in New York on Sept. 23-24 to speak about our educational offerings and signature programs in golf and soccer. continued on next page ››

ITALIAN LANGUAGE CLASSES for kids www.speakitalynyc.com

Programs anchored in the Common European Framework of Reference

49 west 28th St. FL 3, New York, NY 10001 - (212) 603-9685

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49 W. 28th St., 3rd Floor 212-603-9685 speakitalynyc.com info@speakitalynyc.com Valentina is a native Italian speaker born in Parma, fluent in English and Spanish. She holds a degree in early education and has nine years of experience working with children. She started as a teacher in Italian daycare for three years and then moved to the States to be an au pair and teach Italian. She interacts with children using books, songs, games, and interesting activities. In her free time she loves to volunteer and has been part of hospital clown therapy for more than six years.

The Nordoff-Robbins Center for Music Therapy

Alan Turry, managing director 35 W. 4th St., 11th floor 212-998-5162 steinhardt.nyu.edu/music/nordoff jacqueline.birnbaum@nyu.edu Alan Turry, D.A., M.T.-B.C.,L.C.A.T., Nordoff-Robbins Music Therapist. As managing director of the Nordoff-Robbins Center for Music Therapy at NYU Steinhardt, Dr. Turry is responsible for the Center’s overall administration, research, clinical services, and the graduate and post-graduate training programs. An expert in clinical improvisation, he has conducted funded research on the effectiveness of music therapy for a variety of neurodiverse populations including autism and stroke rehabilitation. Dr. Turry has been instrumental in supporting the development of Nordoff-Robbins practice and training nationally and internationally.

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China Institute

Ms. Shenzhan Liao, head of school 40 Rector St., 2nd floor 212-744-8181 x110 chinainstitute.org emarks@chinainstitute.org Ms. Shenzhan Liao is head of school at China Institute and dean of Confucius Institute at China Institute. Ms. Liao graduated with an M.ED. in anthropology and education from Teachers College, Columbia University, after receiving an M.A. in comparative education from Beijing Normal University, China. Ms. Liao served as a member of the Alumni Council at Columbia University’s Teachers College from 2014-2019.

SAY, Confident Voices

Kate Detrick, director of programming 212-414-9696 x208 say.org/programs/confidentvoices kate@say.org Kate Detrick is a person who stutters and believes deeply in the power of community and hard work. Originally grown in California, Kate graduated from Smith College and found SAY by a happy twist of fate, beginning a super-generative journey of channeling her passions, hopes, and dreams into purpose. As the Director of Programming for Confident Voices, SAY’s award-winning after-school and weekend creative arts program for kids and teens who stutter, Kate gets to watch people of all ages being brave, fabulous, and freely expressing exactly who they are!

Sigal Hirsch, director of Youth Education and Programming 127 E. 82nd St., Upper East Side 212-452-2310 x15 orzarua.org shirsch@orzarua.org Sigal Hirsch is excited to begin her fifth year as director of Youth Education and Programming at Congregation Or Zarua. As director of Or L’Atid, OZ’s program of education and engagement for youth and families, Sigal seeks to deepen connections with Judaism for kids and parents alike. It brings her true joy and fulfillment to facilitate experiences that enable students to increase knowledge and develop skills in Hebrew School and other youth programs, while they begin to create a lifelong love for Jewish life and practice.

Hex & Company

Dr. Jon Freeman 1462 First Ave., Upper East Side 646-833-7574 hexmarksthespot.com; kids@hexnyc.com Dr. Jon Freeman is a clinical psychologist, neuroscience researcher, and board and card game enthusiast. Prior to his work with Hex & Company, Dr. Freeman developed and ran a neuroscience research facility in a Manhattan-based organization. He also held a private psychotherapy practice, where he worked with children, adolescents, and families. There he gained an understanding of the importance of social spaces within a community. Dr. Jon endeavors to create this space, blending his experience with his lifelong passion for board games and teaching to develop the enrichment program.

AFTER SCHOOL PROGRAMS

Day Camp

Day-long immersive camps run during school holidays. Have an enriching break in the studios and media lab!

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 9 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

27th Annual Tugboat Race & Competition sponsored by the Working Harbor Committee

Mid-Autumn Moon Family Festival

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 1, 10am-12:30pm WHERE: Circle Line Sightseeing Cruises, Pier 83, West 42nd Street and Twelfth Avenue, Hell’s Kitchen AGES: All WHAT: Cruise alongside the Tugboat Parade of Boats to the finish line at Pier 84. After tugboats tie up, kids of all ages can test their mettle in the amateur line-toss competition. WHY WE LOVE IT: Families can try their luck in the spinach-eating contest! WANT TO GO? $25; $20 seniors; $12 kids. 212-757-1600. workingharbor.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 7, 12-4pm WHERE: Museum of Chinese in America, 215 Centre St., Little Italy AGES: All WHAT: Explore the customs and traditions behind this harvest festival with a mooncake tasting, arts and crafts, story time, and more family fun. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids will love the shadow puppets and the Jade Rabbit on the moon! WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 3. 212-619-4785. mocanyc.org.

NYC Unifest FREE

The Table of Silence Project 9/11 FREE

WHEN: Sept. 2, see website for schedule WHERE: Governors Island and various locations, ferries leave from 10 South St., Lower Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: This festival brings together recreational riders, world-class performers, mountain and off-road unicycle enthusiasts, mono-wheel vehicle inventors, and anyone seeking an unusual sight–even for NYC! WHY WE LOVE IT: The main events on Governors Island include races, competitions, exhibitions, and a variety of unicycle sports including basketball, hockey, and sumo, plus DJ music. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

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WHEN: Wednesday, Sept. 11, 8:15-8:46am WHERE: Lincoln Center Josie Robertson Fountain Plaza, 64th Street and Columbus Avenue, Lincoln Center AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The Buglisi Dance Theatre leads an ensemble of more than 150 dancers in this breathtaking ceremony, which begins at 8:15am and ends precisely at 8:46am, the time the first plane hit the North Tower. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s an exquisite public tribute to 9/11 and prayer for peace. WANT TO GO? 212-719-3301. tableofsilence.org.

The Big Chocolate Show

WHEN: Sept. 21-22, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Resorts World NYC, 110-00 Rockaway Blvd., South Ozone Park, Queens AGES: All WHAT: This family-friendly event features samples, chocolate tastings, live demonstrations, classes, and more. Families will enjoy the s’mores workshop, lollipop, truffle making, and cake decorating classes. WHY WE LOVE IT: Indulge for a good cause! The show benefits Cookies for Kids Cancer, a national nonprofit committed to putting an end to pediatric cancers. WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 800-630-4405. thebigchocolateshow.com.

SummerStage 2019 FREE

WHEN: Through Sept. 24: See website for showtimes WHERE: SummerStage in Central Park at Rumsey Playfield, East 71st Street, Central Park AGES: All WHAT: New York City’s largest free outdoor performing arts festival, bringing nearly 100 free and benefit shows to Central Park and 17 neighborhood parks throughout the five boroughs. WHY WE LOVE IT: You can expect some distinctly New York genres, such as salsa, jazz, and hip-hop, alongside indie, reggae, Afrobeat, soul, contemporary dance, and more. WANT TO GO? 212-360-2777. cityparksfoundation.org/summerstage.

Kite Flight for Peace & Human Rights FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 28, 11am-4pm WHERE: Four Freedoms Park, Franklin D. Roosevelt Four Freedoms Park, Roosevelt Island AGES: All WHAT: In recognition of the United Nations General Assembly and International Peace Day, visitors are invited to design and fly kites. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids are given a chance to select stripes, colors, and symbols that represent personal ideas about peace and freedom. WANT TO GO? 212-204-8831. fdrfourfreedomspark.org.

Submerge Marine Science Festival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 28, 11am-4pm WHERE: Hudson River Park: Pier 84, Twelfth Avenue and West 44th Street, Hell’s Kitchen AGES: All WHAT: Experience awesome experiments, kidapproved science entertainment, catch-and-release fishing, kayaking, and more! WHY WE LOVE IT: The festival celebrates NYC’s coastal waters by bringing marine science to life for families with children of all ages. WANT TO GO? 773-577-8763. hope.abta.org.

35th Annual Medieval Festival FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 29, 11:30am-6pm WHERE: Fort Tryon Park, 741 Ft. Washington Ave., Fort Washington AGES: All WHAT: Fort Tryon Park is transformed into a medieval market town decorated with bright banners and processional flags. Performers, guests, and festival-goers dress in medieval costume. Visitors are greeted by authentic period music, dance, magic, and minstrels, as well as jugglers and jesters. WHY WE LOVE IT: The afternoon concludes with a thrilling joust between four knights on horseback! WANT TO GO? 212-795-1600. whidc.org

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Hudson RiverKids FREE

WHEN: Through Sept. 19: select Mondays and select Thursdays, 4-4:45pm WHERE: Hudson River Park - Pier 25 and Pier 62, Tribeca AGES: All WHAT: Expect a multitude of interactive programs and performances including The Pop Ups, Suzi Shelton, and Bilingual Birdies. WANT TO GO? 212-274-0986. cmany.org.

Kids Yoga with Sacred Sounds Yoga FREE

WHEN: Through Sept. 19: Wednesday-Thursdays, 10-10:45am WHERE: Washington Square Park, Washington Square North, Greenwich Village AGES: All WHAT: Kids can stretch and move to songs, rhymes, and more. WANT TO GO? worldsciencefestival.com.

Trial Drama Class FREE

WHEN: Sept. 21-26, Tuesday, 3:45pm; Thursday, 4pm; Saturday, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Play On! Studios, 263 W. 86th St., Upper West Side AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Does your kid like to sing, dance, or act? Try a free trial drama class! WANT TO GO? free. 347-709-4149. playonstudios.com.

CityParks PuppetMobile: Bessie’s Big Shot FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 1: see website for showtimes WHERE: Various locations AGES: All WHAT: Come root for Bessie the Cow in this variety show as she attempts the impossible and searches for her special talents. WANT TO GO? cityparksfoundation.org.

Hester Street Fair FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 26: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-6pm WHERE: Hester Street, Hester and Essex streets, Chinatown AGES: All WHAT: Peruse handmade goods, creative products, and artisanal food. WANT TO GO? hesterstreetfair.com. ››

Smithsonian Museum Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 21, see website for schedule WHERE: Various museums citywide AGES: All WHAT: Participating museums and cultural institutions across the country provide free entry to anyone presenting a Museum Day ticket. WANT TO GO? smithsonianmag.com.

Spy Week

SMARTY PANTS Math Encounters: ‘Irrational Investigation: Why Pi Sometimes Equals 4’ with Cornelia A. Van Cott FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Sept. 4, 4-5:30 pm; 7-8:30pm WHERE: National Museum of Mathematics, 11 E 26th St., Nomad AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Be surprised at the twists and turns you encounter when you leave the safety of traditional distance measures for uncharted territories. WANT TO GO? 212-542-0566. momath.org.

Math Gym, a workout for your brain FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Sept. 10, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: National Museum of Mathematics, 11 E. 26th St., Nomad AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Spend an hour independently working on engaging and beautiful math problems, hand-selected by MoMath’s advisory council of math Ph.D.s. WANT TO GO? 212-542-0566. momath.org.

Family Day: Language of Architecture

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 14, 11am-1pm and 2-4pm WHERE: Center for Architecture, 536 LaGuardia Place, Murray Hill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Families learn to read buildings for clues about their design and function as they observe and sketch architectural elements through an interactive slide show and neighborhood walk. Then design your own scale model of a building to take home. WANT TO GO? $12 per child; $6 per adult. 212-358-6133. centerforarchitecture.org.

Archaeology Mondays

WHEN: Monday, Sept. 16, 3pm-5pm WHERE: The Jewish Museum, 1109 Fifth Ave., Upper East Side AGES: 3-8 WHAT: This archaeological dig highlights replicas from ancient to modern times in a hands-on experience. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $18; free for children younger than 19. 212-423-3200. thejewishmuseum.org.

Life Lab

WHEN: Sept. 11-18, 3:30pm WHERE: New York Public Library, Jefferson Market, 425 Sixth Ave., Greenwich Village AGES: 13-18 WHAT: Do you have questions about college and career readiness or life? Head to Life Lab and get connected to resources that will expand your world. WANT TO GO? nypl.org. 32

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WHEN: Sept. 14-21, see website for times and programming WHERE: Fraunces Tavern Museum, 54 Pearl St., Downtown Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Learn the secrets of America’s first spy ring, hear stories of famed spies such as Benjamin Tallmadge and Nathan Hale, and discover the truth about some of the Revolutionary War’s unsung heroes who were instrumental in the efforts of espionage. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $7; $4 children ages 6-17; free for children younger than 6. frauncestavernmuseum.org.

Kids Eat History: The Story of School Lunch

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 22, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Henry Street Settlement, 265 Henry St., Lower East Side AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Explore the origin of the school lunch program in New York City schools and how it transformed the lives of turn-of-the-20th century Lower East Side kids at the very place where it all began, the Henry Street Settlement. WANT TO GO? $18; $10 children. eldridgestreet.org.

Banned Books Week FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Sept. 25, 3:30pm WHERE: New York Public Library, Jefferson Market, 425 Sixth Ave., Greenwich Village AGES: 13-18 WHAT: Why are books banned and what does it mean about censorship, literature, and free speech? Learn about the most frequently challenged books with games and trivia! WANT TO GO? nypl.org.

Teen Writing Workshop FREE

WHEN: Sept. 4-26, Wednesdays, 3pm and Thursday, Sept. 26, 4:30pm WHERE: New York Public Library, Columbus, 742 10th Ave., Upper West Side AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Spend an hour a week writing and sharing your work in a safe and fun environment! Writers of all levels and genres are welcome. WANT TO GO? nypl.org.

Family Fridays at MoMath presented by Two Sigma: ‘Puzzling with Pentominoes’ with Vince Matsko FREE WHEN: Friday, Sept. 27, 6:30-8pm WHERE: National Museum of Mathematics, 11 E 26th St., Nomad AGES: All WHAT: Join mathematician and puzzle enthusiast Vince Matsko for an evening of intense puzzledom using deceptively simple shapes. WANT TO GO? 212-542-0566. momath.org.

Intrepid Adventures

WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Saturday-Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum, Pier 86, West 46th Street at Twelfth Avenue, Hell’s Kitchen AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Each adventure is inspired by a museum exhibit. Register in advance. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $33; $24 children ages 5-12; free for children younger than 5. 212-245-0072. intrepidmuseum.org.

CRAFTY KIDS

Wings, Wands & Woodlands: Fairy Workshop FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 7, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Randall’s Island Park, Water’s Edge Garden, 20 Randall’s Island Park, Randall’s Island AGES: All WHAT: Make all things fairy: wands, wings, and little houses. Walk along the forest path to look for signs of fairies! WANT TO GO? 212-830-7722. randallsisland.org.

Backpack Creature Creator

WHEN: Sept. 7-8, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of Manhattan, 212 W. 83rd St., Upper West Side AGES: All WHAT: Design a fuzzy friend to “hang” out on your backpack all school year. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $15; free for children younger than 1. 212-721-1223. cmom.org.

Bookmark Buddies

WHEN: Sept. 7-8, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-12pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of Manhattan, 212 W. 83rd St., Upper West Side AGES: All WHAT: Create a 3-D bookmark creature to join your reading adventures. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $15; free for children younger than 1. 212-721-1223. cmom.org.

Family Art Tour FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Sept. 10, 4-4:30pm WHERE: Madison Square Park, Madison Avenue and 23rd Street, Flatiron District AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy an interactive tour and activity centered around Leonardo Drew’s “City in the Grass.” WANT TO GO? 212-520-7600. madisonsquarepark.org.

Teen Back-to-School Craft Thursday FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Sept. 12, 3pm WHERE: New York Public Library - Riverside, 127 Amsterdam Ave., Lincoln Square AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Learn how to make a pencil and pen holder for the new school year. WANT TO GO? nypl.org.

Myths & Fairy Tales

WHEN: Sept. 14-15, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of the Arts, 103 Charlton St., Soho AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Create dragons, knights, and mythical figures to tell an epic story! WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $13; free for children younger than 1. 212-274-0986. cmany.org.

MOCACREATE: Neighborhood Sounds

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 21, 1-4pm WHERE: Museum of Chinese in America, 215 Centre St., Lower Manhattan AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Go on a walk and make art inspired by the soundscapes of our streets. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $12; $8 children, students, and seniors; free for children younger than 2. 855-955-6622. mocanyc.org.

Alebrije Animal Puppets

WHEN: Sept. 21-22, Saturday-Sunday, 3-3:45pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of Manhattan, 212 W. 83rd St., Upper West Side AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Use neon paper to create and decorate folk art inspired puppets WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $15; free for children younger than 1. 212-721-1223. cmom.org.

Tweens: Swag Out Your Stuff! FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Sept. 24, 5:15pm WHERE: New York Public Library, Webster Library, 1465 York Ave., Upper East Side AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Reclaim old stuff with iron-on patches, buttons, and fabric markers. WANT TO GO? 212-288-5049. nypl.org.

Family Workshops

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 15, 2:30pm WHERE: Japan Society, 333 E. 47th St., Midtown AGES: 6-10 WHAT: Families will construct and decorate a beautifully bound project WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 3. 212-832-1155. japansociety.org.

Open Studio

WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Saturday-Sunday, 10:30am-3pm WHERE: Whitney Museum of American Art, 99 Gansevoort St., Chelsea AGES: All WHAT: Make your own art inspired by works on view. WANT TO GO? $25; $18 seniors and students; free for children younger than 18. 212-570-7713. whitney.org.

Open Studio for Families

WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Sundays, 1-4pm WHERE: Solomon R. Guggenheim Museum, 1071 Fifth Ave., Upper East Side AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Enjoy a drop-in studio art-making program. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 students and seniors; free for children younger than 12. 212-423-3500. guggenheim.org.

Sundays: Studio Art Sessions

WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Sundays, 1-4pm WHERE: The Jewish Museum, 1109 Fifth Avenue, Carnegie Hill AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Paint, draw, sculpt, or craft a work of art inspired by exhibits on view. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $18 adults; free for children and teens. 212-423-3200. thejewishmuseum.org. ››

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City Parks Foundation Presents ‘Puss In Boots’

WHEN: Through Sept. 22: see website for schedule WHERE: Swedish Cottage Marionette Theatre in Central Park, West 81st Street and Central Park West, Upper West Side AGES: All WHAT: The tale of two friends who are tired of their penniless lifestyle. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 children younger than 12; free for children younger than 18 months. 212-988-9093. cityparksfoundation.org.

No Brainer or the Solution to Parasites FREE

WHEN: Sept. 7-25, see website for scheudle WHERE: Various locations throughout Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: A rip-roaring musical which portrays our road to national madness as a bad trip to Hades. TNC’s productions are suited for family audiences, since social issues are presented through children’s allegories. WANT TO GO? 212-254-1109. theaterforthenewcity.net.

SHOW TIME! Open House: Children’s Theatre Workshops FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 7, 12:30-2pm WHERE: Chickenshed NYC, Wetherby-Pembridge School, 7 E. 96th St., Upper East Side AGES: 6-13 WHAT: Learn about theatre workshops where children of all abilities and backgrounds can come together to create, learn, and perform. WANT TO GO? 646-569-5742. chickenshednyc.org.

Improv 4 Kids Off-Broadway Comedy Show for all ages!

WHEN: Sept. 7-8, Saturday-Sunday, 3pm WHERE: Broadway Comedy Club, 318 West 53rd St., Eighth Avenue, Theater District AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Interactive musical comedy improvised based on audience suggestions and participation. WANT TO GO? $35. 212-568-6560. improv4kids.com.

Ralph Lee’s ‘The Ringdove’

WHEN: Sept. 6-8, Friday-Sunday, 7:30pm WHERE: Outdoor Garden of St. John the Divine, 111th Street and Amsterdam Avenue, Morningside Heights AGES: All WHAT: Renowned puppet/mask maker Ralph Lee presents his Mettawee River Theatre Company in “The Ringdove,” a fanciful production that incorporates a range of Lee’s masks, puppets, and other visual elements. WANT TO GO? $15; $7 children and seniors. 212-929-4777. mettawee.org.

Bard In The Park FREE

WHEN: Sept. 13, 7pm WHERE: Hudson River Park, Clinton Cove, West 54th to West 59th streets, Midtown West AGES: All WHAT: Join local artists for A Midsummer Night’s Song. WANT TO GO? hudsonriverpark.org.

Galli’s ‘The Princess and the Pea’

WHEN: Sept. 7-15, Saturday-Sunday, 2pm WHERE: Galli Theater, 74 Warren St., Tribeca AGES: 3-12 WHAT: A Prince is looking for a princess. After a failed attempt at speed dating, the right woman shows up at his door. Only the Royal Pea Test will reveal if she is a true princess. WANT TO GO? $20; $15 children. 212-731-0668. gallitheaternyc.com. 34

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Piano-Cello Duo Perform Concert to Benefit We’ve Got Rhythm Kids WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 29, 2pm WHERE: Carnegie Hall, 57th Street at Seventh Avenue, Midtown AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Russian pianist Katya Grineva returns to Carnegie Hall with a benefit concert featuring cellist and Juilliard professor Byron Duckwall. WANT TO GO? $65 and up. 212-247-7800. carnegiehall.org.

Galli’s ‘The Three Little Pigs’

WHEN: Sept. 21-29, Saturday-Sunday, 2pm WHERE: Galli Theater, 74 Warren St., Tribeca AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Gordy, Perkey, and Snoozy have left the nest and must build houses of their own. One settles for a quick fix. But only one takes the time to make a house that stands up to the persistence of a certain wolf. WANT TO GO? $20; $15 children. 212-731-0668. gallitheaternyc.com.

FunikiJam’s ‘Baby Likes To Rock!’ Family Musical

WHEN: Sept. 22-Oct. 27, Sundays, 11am-12pm WHERE: Actors Temple Theatre, 339 W. 47th St., Times Square AGES: All WHAT: Captain Jam invites the coolest, hippest, grooviest Agents of Jam from around the world to join him at the World Music Fair to explore Mexico, Africa, Germany, Ireland, Arabia, and more. WANT TO GO? $37.50 and up. actorstempletheatre.com.

‘Alice in Wonderland the Musical’

WHEN: Sept. 21-Nov. 17, Saturdays, 3pm and 7pm; Sundays, 11am WHERE: The Players Theatre, 115 MacDougal St., Greenwich Village AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Tumble down the rabbit hole with the whimsical cast of characters. WANT TO GO? $32-$52. 212-475-1237. literallyalive.com.

Kids ‘N Comedy

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 22, 12:30pm WHERE: Gotham Comedy Club, 208 W. 28th St., Chelsea AGES: 9 and older WHAT: See the funniest young comedians in New York. WANT TO GO? $15 cover, plus 1 item minimum per person. 212-367-9000. gothamcomedyclub.com.

‘The Wizard of Oz’: A Jazz Musical for All Ages

WHEN: Through Jan. 11, 2020: see website for schedule WHERE: Harlem Rep/Tato Laviera Theatre, 240 E. 123rd St., Harlem AGES: All WHAT: With its timeless score, this show is a magical experience. WANT TO GO? $10 general admission; $20 premium seating. 212-868-4444. wizardofozjazzmusical.com.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Tour FDNY’s Training Academy ‘The Rock’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 7, 2-3:30pm WHERE: FDNY Fire Academy, 20 Randall’s Island Park, Randall’s Island AGES: All WHAT: Join Randall’s Island Park Alliance and NYC’s Bravest for a tour of this unique and active training academy. Pre-registration required. WANT TO GO? 212-830-7722. randallsisland.org.

Watson Adventures’ Wizard School Scavenger Hunt for Harry Potter Fans

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 1, 2-4pm and Saturday, Sept. 14, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Metropolitan Museum of Art, 1000 Fifth Ave., Upper East Side AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Young wizards will enjoy a trip to the museum in search of art that echoes characters and enchanted objects in the Harry Potter books. WANT TO GO? $32.50-$44 (includes museum admission). 877-946-4868. watsonadventures.com.

Skyscraper Yoga Family Program

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 14, 10:30-11:45am WHERE: The Skyscraper Museum, 39 Battery Place, Battery Park City AGES: 3 and older WHAT: After a tour of the museum’s models, kids will connect to their foundations and stretch to new heights in a 30-minute yoga session! WANT TO GO? $5 per child; members free. 212-945-6324. skyscraper.org.

Watson Adventures’ Hamilton: The Family Scavenger Hunt

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 22, 11am-1pm WHERE: Watson Adventures Meet-Up Location, Broad Street and Exchange Place, Financial District AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Kids and adults work together to discover the places where the Founding Father worked, played, debated, fought, and planned his fatal duel. WANT TO GO? $17.50-$21.50. 877-946-4868. watsonadventures.com.

Human Chess FREE

WHEN: Sept. 5-26, Thursdays, 4pm-6pm WHERE: Riverside Park, Soldiers’ and Sailors’ Monument, Enter at West 79th Street Boat Basin Rotunda, Upper West Side AGES: All WHAT: Play as your favorite game piece and navigate the chess board from inside a human chess game! WANT TO GO? 914-777-3127. pcfwalk.org.

Bingo! FREE

WHEN: Sept. 6-27, Fridays, 5:30-7:30pm WHERE: West Harlem Piers Park, West 125th Street, West Harlem AGES: All WHAT: BYO food and beverages to this all ages, free-to-enter BINGO night. Each game winner receives a prize. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Watson Adventures’ Whodunit at the Met Family Scavenger Hunt WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 28, 10:30am-2:30pm WHERE: Metropolitan Museum of Art, 1000 Fifth Ave., Upper East Side AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Follow the trail of clues throughout the museum and answer tricky questions to solve the crime. WANT TO GO? $32.50-$44 (includes museum admission). 877-946-4868. watsonadventures.com.

DANCE PARTY The 2019 Goya Foods New York International Salsa Congress

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 1, 11am WHERE: The Marriott Marquis, 1535 Broadway, Times Square AGES: All WHAT: A multi-day Latin music and dance festival offering multi-level group workshops and boot camps for beginner and advanced levels, youth and adult performances, and live music. WANT TO GO? $20 and up. newyorksalsacongress.com.

#TotallyPublicKaraoke FREE

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 6, 6-10pm WHERE: Pier I, Riverside Park South, Riverside Drive (between 65th and 72nd streets), Upper West Side AGES: All WHAT: Bring your friends, your voice, and your courage. Sign-ups are required and close between 8:30-9pm depending on attendance. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Rock and Roll Playhouse FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 14, 11am-12pm WHERE: Rockefeller Center, 30 Rockefeller Plaza, Midtown AGES: All WHAT: The Rock and Roll Playhouse uses music to educate children and explore their creativity. WANT TO GO? rockefellercenter.com.

The Back to School Boogie!

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 14, 11am-2pm WHERE: Kids Dance Revolution, 246 Lenox Ave., Harlem AGES: 9 months to 7 WHAT: Kids with their families will dance, sing, rock, and clap the afternoon away at this kiddie disco. WANT TO GO? $30. 201-565-2564. KidsDanceRevolution.com.

Silent Disco FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 21, 6-10pm WHERE: Pier I, Riverside Park South, Riverside Drive (between 65th and 72nd streets), Upper West Side AGES: All WHAT: Don headphones and party on the pier at this Quiet Clubbing event featuring three live DJs spinning tunes of different genres. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Square Dance FREE

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 27, 5-10pm WHERE: Bryant Park, 40th Street between Fifth and Sixth avenues, Midtown AGES: All WHAT: Do-si-do and promenade at a dance party like no other, with a whole lot of country food, music, and fun. Photo by Angelito Jusay. WANT TO GO? 212-768-4242. bryantpark.org. ›› BigAppleParent 35

4th Annual Camp Doughboy WWI History Weekend FREE

WHEN: Sept. 14-15, Saturday, 10am-5pm; Sunday, 9am-3pm WHERE: Governors Island, ferries leave from 10 South St., Lower Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Each day will bring living history, re-enactors, authors, experts, vintage vehicles, and animals. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

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FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS West Side County Fair FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 8, 1-6pm WHERE: Pier I, Riverside Park South, Riverside Drive between 65th and 72nd streets, Upper West Side AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live bands, sideshow performers, carnival rides and games, cotton candy, Grow NYC Stop ‘N’ Swap, and more! WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Washington Square Park Folk Festival FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 8, 1-5pm WHERE: Washington Square Park, Washington Square North, Greenwich Village AGES: All WHAT: The festival celebrates and continues the long tradition of folk music performance in Greenwich Village’s legendary Washington Square Park. WANT TO GO? wspfolkfest.com.

Kids Fest: Circus in the Circle FREE

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 13, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Madison Square Park, Madison Avenue and 23rd Street, Flatiron District AGES: All WHAT: Performers Seth Bloom and Christina Gelsone of ACROBUFFOS will clown around to create a laughter-filled zone of wet, water balloon-fueled fun. WANT TO GO? 212-520-7600. madisonsquarepark.org.

Kids Fest: Stages in the Square 2019 FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 21, 10am-3pm WHERE: Street Fair, West 80th Street (between Amsterdam and Columbus avenues), Upper East Side AGES: 3-5 WHAT: There will be bounce houses, rides and games, live music, food from local vendors, arts and crafts, and more, open to all families. WANT TO GO? Free admission; tickets for rides and games sold separately. 212-874-1341. brownstoneschool.org.

German American Steuben Parade FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 21, 12-2pm WHERE: Fifth Avenue, Fifth Avenue and East 78th Street, Upper East Side AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the colorful music and dance groups, the groups in Karneval costumes, and historic Tracht. WANT TO GO? 718-231-4400. germanparadenyc.org.

Annual Community Fall Festival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 21, 11am-3:30pm WHERE: Dyckman Farmhouse Museum, 4881 Broadway, Inwood AGES: All WHAT: Have fun with your friends and neighbors at DFM’s 6th Annual Community Fall Festival, featuring free family friendly events including face painting, art workshops, cider pressing and much more. WANT TO GO? 212-304-9422. dyckmanfarmhouse.org.

8th Annual Morningside Lights FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 21, 8pm WHERE: Morningside Park, Morningside Avenue and West 114th Street, Morningside Heights AGES: All WHAT: Illuminate the night in a sea of blue light as part of a procession of awe-inspiring handmade lanterns floating through Morningside Park. WANT TO GO? 646-839-6486. morningside-lights.com.

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 14, 11am-3pm WHERE: Madison Square Park, Madison Avenue and 23rd Street, Flatiron District AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a diverse lineup of performing arts programming including music, dance, theater, puppetry, magic, and storytelling. WANT TO GO? 212-520-7600. madisonsquarepark.org.

Feast of San Gennaro FREE

12th Annual African Film Festival Inc. Family Day Celebration FREE

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 27, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Madison Square Park, Madison Avenue and 23rd Street, Flatiron District AGES: All WHAT: Performing duo Chen Lo and Asante’ Amin present a concert chronicling the joys of world travel, cultural exploration, building a brighter future, and universal messages of self-empowerment. WANT TO GO? 212-520-7600. madisonsquarepark.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 14, 11am-5pm WHERE: Governors Island, ferries leave from 10 South St., Lower Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: A day of free activities including storytelling, double-dutch, dance and drum workshops, and more celebrating Africa and the diaspora. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com. 36

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WHEN: Sept. 12-22, daily, 11:30am-11pm (12am on weekends) WHERE: Mulberry Street, between Houston and Canal streets, Little Italy AGES: All WHAT: This festival features fun, games, and all the Italian food you can eat. WANT TO GO? Free admission, prices vary for food. nycgo.com.

Fall Family Night FREE

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Remembering 9/11 in NYC By Melissa Wickes

The Table of Silence Project aims to celebrate and honor peace in a united moment of silence.

A Moment of Silence

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The 9th Annual 9/11 Table of Silence Project is a free public dance tribute to Sept. 11 designed to commemorate those lost and pray for peace. More than 100 dancers from major companies and schools in New York City come together for a presentation that begins at 8:15am and ends exactly at 8:46am, the time the North Tower was struck. Wednesday, Sept. 11. Ages: All. Free to attend. Josie Robertson Plaza, 10 Lincoln Center Plaza, Upper West Side. tableofsilence.org.

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On Sept. 11, 9/11 Memorial & Museum visitors place flowers in the names of victims on the memorial panels.

9/11 Memorial & Museum

Every year on Sept. 11, New Yorkers and Americans remember the thousands of lives lost in 2001. The reflecting pools and the new 9/11 Memorial Glade, a dedication to recovery workers and community members who have become sick or died due to toxins at the WTC site, offer a peaceful place for remembrance and meditation. And the museum offers an in-depth experience for families of all kinds. Visit it: 180 Greenwich St., Tribeca. 911memorial.org. Can’t-miss event: Tribute in Light; Wednesday, Sept. 11

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W he hile y re ou , v ’r isit e …

The NYC Fire Museum’s 9/11 Memorial Room is the first permanent memorial to the members of the FDNY who lost their lives on Sept. 11, 2001.

9/11 Tribute Museum Walking Tours are personal, emotional tours given by people who were there and directly affected by Sept. 11, 2001.

Honor and Commemorate First Responders

9/11 Tribute Museum Walking Tours

The NYC Fire Museum holds a 9/11 Memorial Ceremony on the anniversary each year, led by a NYFD commissioner with a speech by the museum director. While you are there, spend some time at the museum’s memorial to the 343 members of the FDNY who lost their lives that day. The exhibit chronicles and commemorates with a marble and tile memorial, tools recovered from Ground Zero, and opportunities to learn more about the late firefighters. Wednesday, Sept. 11, 11am. Ages: All. Free to attend event. NYC Fire Museum, 278 Spring St., Hudson Square. Visit website for museum admission information: nycfiremuseum.org.

Survivors, family members of lost loved ones, first responders, recovery workers, and other people who lived and worked in lower Manhattan in 2001 offer their personal, emotional experiences of Sept. 11. Each tour is unique to your guide while also providing history of the WTC and the aftermath, stops at the Firefighter Memorial Wall, an opportunity to tour the 9/11 Tribute Museum, and more. Visit it: 92 Greenwich St., Tribeca. 911tributemuseum.org. Can’t-miss event: Annual 9/11 National Day of Service & Remembrance: Bike Build; Wednesday, Sept. 25, 10am-3:30pm BigAppleParent 37

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The Age of Self-Doubt

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While self-consciousness in early adolescence can seem crippling for your child, it’s a phase that will lead to greater well-being in adulthood. By Jaimie Seaton

nyone with a teenager has witnessed the transformation: Their fearless, confident child becoming a reticent, self-conscious teen. One day, he marches out of the house on adventures, happily clad in clothes picked out by his parents. The next? He’s hiding out in his room with his phone, with zero interest in any ideas you have in regard to his clothes, his hairstyle, or even his backpack. She becomes obsessed with her looks and studies her face in the mirror as if it were an undiscovered country. A bad hair day or emergence of a pimple can turn into a crisis and leave her wishing she could stay home from school. As a parent, it’s hard to make sense of this—and even harder to know how to help.

Belonging Above All

Parents may be tempted to dismiss their teen’s behavior as typical adolescent self-absorption, but what may seem like egocentricity actually serves a higher purpose. It goes back to evolution and our need to belong. “If the goal in adulthood, at the most basic level, is to have social skills in order to ensure social belonging and the associated positive outcomes, then adolescence is a time of learning social competency,” explains Alexandra Rodman, Ph.D., lead author of a 2017 Harvard study on how adolescents and adults process and integrate peer feedback. “One way in which we learn all the complex social rules is by being hyper-attuned to feedback from others.” For example, your teen isn’t fixated on his looks, per se, but because he is so highly preoccupied by what others may think of him, he notices changes in himself more keenly than he did as a child, Dr. Rodman explains. His reaction to those changes depends on how he is viewed in the peer group. “It all depends on what enhances belonging and it corresponds with changing trends,” Dr. Rodman says. “If it was a sign of health and highly coveted to have a pimple, then maybe it wouldn’t lead to such distress to have a pimple.”

The Instagram Age

Most teenagers think they have it worse than their parents—and they’re right. When it comes to pressure to fit in, at least, today’s

Because your teen is preoccupied with how others perceive him, he’ll notice changes in himself more keenly than when he was younger.

teens really do have it worse, according to Seoka Salstrom, Ph.D., a child and adolescent psychologist who practices in New Hampshire. “There are so many more opportunities for compare and despair,” Dr. Salstrom says. “Before social media, we had half of our day at school and half of our day at home or with a few friends, but we didn’t have 45 people that we were interacting with in some way, often times in picture perfect form. Every time we see something like that, our mind is automatically geared toward, ‘How do I fit in to this?’ and sees the inadequacies.”

Coping Strategies

When teens express anxiety or distress about their looks or not fitting in, Dr. Salstrom advises parents to start from a place of “your feelings make perfect sense.” “It’s not to say that you agree with the statement behind it or the content. If they say, ‘I’m so ugly,’ of course you’re not going to agree with that,” Dr. Salstrom says. “But if we don’t start from the place of ‘it makes perfect sense that this thought/feeling is showing up’ (given our evolutionary and cultural context), then anything we say in that moment has the potential to be invalidating.” There’s no denying it can be difficult for parents to see their teens go through this stage, but Dr. Rodman explains it’s a normal and healthy part of development—and it does eventually end. “When you have this low-level or moderate level feedback from your peers, and you feel this drop in self-esteem, that actually feels bad in the short term, but in the long term it leads to greater gains and better outcomes and well-being in adulthood,” Dr. Rodman says. In late adolescence, a self-protective bias kicks in and teens no longer experience that drop in self-esteem after rejection, Dr. Rodman explains. Older teens start to buffer themselves from their peers’ rejection because they’ve gained social skills and learned the social rules they didn’t have or know as an early adolescent. “That’s all to say for parents that a little bit of feedback from peers isn’t a catastrophe, and feeling a little down on yourself, that’s just part of being a teenager,” Dr. Rodman says. “I think a helpful reframe is, it just helps kids learn how to get along with their peers.”

Jaimie Seaton has been a journalist for more than 20 years and is the former Thailand correspondent for Newsweek. Her work on divorce, parenting, dating, and a wide range of topics has been featured in The Washington Post, The Guardian, Glamour, and numerous other publications.

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Day Care Center, Nanny, or Relative? ››

Choosing a child care provider can be an anxiety-filled decision—you are leaving your infant with someone else, after all—but selecting the best option for your family is easier if you understand the pros and cons of each. By Christina Vercelletto

dding a new baby to your family, whether it’s your first or your fifth, is probably life’s most memorable milestone. And of course, along with the excitement and joy comes a long list of to-dos, including the task of identifying the right child care arrangement for your family if you’re heading back to work. This should be sorted out as early as possible—before birth, if possible. (Trust us: Your three months of maternity leave will feel more like three weeks.) But how do you make this very important and often challenging decision? Here, we weigh the three most popular options to help you choose.

That said, day care centers are not cheap. In our area, you’re easily looking at $1,500 a month, if not more, for full-time day care. It can start to get cost prohibitive if a second child comes along and you, naturally, want both your kids in the same place. Also, day care centers charge extra for late pick-up or early drop-off.

Day Care Center

Pros: Nannies (and plenty of mannies!) are committed sitters who enjoy being part of a family and watching their charges grow up. It’s hard to beat the concept of a caring professional utterly dedicated to your child.

Pros: One major advantage of day care centers is they are state-licensed and regulated. (The U.S. Administration for Children & Families recommends you ask about a license when you visit.) They offer a structured day for children (yes, even for infants), with outdoor time, naps, meals, and snacks. And caregivers typically have a degree (or are earning one) in early childhood education. Many parents like the social aspect of day care centers— children are grouped by age, and starting at 2 years old spend the day in a preschool classroom with a real curriculum and progress reports. Plus, a familiar environment from infanthood through kindergarten is appealing. “The social element cannot be overstated,” says Jessica Wertheim, chief learning officer at Dearest Inc., a child care-sharing marketplace based in New York City. “Social-emotional skills that support children’s ability to focus and engage in other classroom environments, manage their own emotions, and socialize well with peers are often taught more directly during day care and preschool than at any other time.” Cons: The day will come when your baby will have a wet diaper at pick-up, or your child will be given the center-provided snack instead of the special one you bring in every day, no matter how great the caregivers are. If these sorts of instances sound like dealbreakers, this probably isn’t the way to go. Cost: Due to state-regulated child-to-teacher ratios, the older the child, the lower the cost. Centers have to charge the most for infants, since they are required to hire more people to care for them. 40

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Bottom Line: Day care centers can be the right choice for parents with a 9-5 job, who don’t often work late, and prefer a socialized group setting for their child.

Nanny

Cons: All your eggs are in one person’s basket. Nannies get the flu, wake up to a busted water pipe in their home, have car trouble, and need to take their suddenly-sick cat to the vet like anyone else. When that happens, you’re stuck scrambling. Also, nannies can quit even under the best of circumstances (say, their spouse gets a new job out of state), and depending on the age of your child, this can be a devastating loss. Cost: Nannies are costly. In our area, parents can expect to pay upwards of $15 an hour for one child, according to payscale.com. As her employer, you need to provide your nanny with disability insurance, and you may need to pay the IRS an employment tax. It’s also expected that you ante up for birthday and holiday gifts, food in the fridge, and paid vacation. Live-in nannies earn a lower salary, but many families don’t have enough space to make that option possible. Bottom Line: If you can afford it and prize personal attention above all else, this is the way to go.

Family Care

Pros: “Having a relative care for their baby often gives parents a sense of relief,” says Martha Mendez-Baldwin, Ph.D., a psychology of childhood assistant professor at Manhattan College in the Bronx.

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Separation Strategies

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How to develop a solid co-parenting plan you both will follow By Lambeth Hochwald

f you’re separated or divorced, you know how important it is to make a plan for sharing time with your child. However, this isn’t always easy, and can lead to frustration or even anger. Here are eight tips to develop—and agree on—a plan to co-parent successfully. Consider everyone’s schedules. If a father leaves for work at 6am and doesn’t come home until 7pm, his schedule could make shared parenting hard, says Tanya Helfand, a divorced mom, lawyer in New York City, and author of 20 Great Tips for a Successful Divorce. “In this case, it’s important for his ex-partner to allow him to have a nanny so he can get to work,” she suggests.

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Keep it consistent. A set schedule is key for fostering stability, says Emily Stulman Klein, a divorced life strategist and mom of a 12-year-old daughter who lives in Montclair, NJ. Put yourself in your kids’ shoes. Children should have an open relationship with both parents—and never feel like the gobetweens. “A major problem arises when the parents prevent that relationship from happening and then put the children in the middle,” Helfand says. Be practical and precise. Leave the emotion out of discussions and decisions as much as possible. “I also suggest that communication between the parties be in a written form,” says Steven J. Mandel, a family law attorney in NYC. Skip the good-cop, bad-cop scenario. It’s very common for kids to play the “mommy vs. daddy” game. “That is why it is in the best interests of all concerned for everyone to be on the same page,” Mandel says. Make kids feel treasured. Kids should feel like both parents are choosing to spend time with them. “We use the words who ‘gets to’ be with [our daughter] rather than who ‘has to’ be with her.” Klein says. Be accommodating. Life happens and sometimes you will need to swap times. Do your best to always be gracious about it. Remember: You will be in each other’s lives—for life. “Just because it didn’t work out for us doesn’t mean we have to be mean,” Klein says. “The happier we are individually, the happier we all are as co-parents.”

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PartyCentral Your local guide to entertainers, party places, activities, and other resources. PARTY ENTERTAINMENT BOLD ARTS

Upper East Side and Upper West Side 419-349-2465 bold-arts.com; info@bold-arts.com BOLD Arts offers fun and personalized dance birthday parties for children ages 4 and older! You provide the space and BOLD will provide a memorable, high-energy dance party. BOLD Birthdays are a unique way to celebrate with dance and friends.

CLOWNS.COM

Proudly Serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000, 718-971-5862 clowns.com We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.

MYSTERY & MAYHEM

212-260-2295 mysteryandmayhem.com mitzvahzoe@aol.com Mystery & Mayhem offers hilarious, interactive, age-appropriate dress-up mystery parties in which guests ages 8-18 become suspects in a crime. Choose from five mysterious, winning dramas or a Nancy Drew, Sherlock Holmes, or Harry Potter theme.

NYC BIRTHDAY CLOWNS

646-961-4808 nycbirthdayclowns.com nycbirthdayclowns@gmail.com New York’s favorite kids party entertainment! We come to you with two entertainers, face painting, balloon animals, cotton candy, games, dancing, bubbles, a crowning ceremony, music, and magic. Best value in New York!

PARTY PLACES 92Y

1395 Lexington Ave. 212-415-5710 92y.org/birthday; parties@92y.org Gymnastics party, dance party, pool party, kids channeling their inner Cirque du Soleil in an epic, afternoon penthouse bash. Talk to us about the many possibilities for celebrating your little one’s next big day.

BALLET ACADEMY EAST 1651 Third Ave., Upper East Side 212-410-9140 Danielle Cortier, birthday party coordinator balletacademyeast.com Birthday parties begin with a personalized ballet class with live piano accompaniment. Refreshments are served in a separate studio after the class. Parties are staffed with teachers, a party host, and pianist. A party

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BREAKAWAY HOOPS

646-776-2021x0 office hours: Monday-Friday, 9am-6pm breakawayhoops.com info@breakawayhoops.com Breakaway Hoops offers birthday packages for your child’s special occasion. Come celebrate the special day with us and we will make it memorable.

BRICKS 4 KIDZ®

646-927-9129 bricks4kidz.com/450 bricks4kidzny@gmail.com Celebrate your child’s next birthday with a fun and exciting LEGO® party! We offer several party packages that include LEGO® games and builds, plus bricks galore to keep your little builders happy.

BROADWAY DANCE CENTER CHILDREN AND TEENS

37 W. 65th St. 3rd floor, Upper West Side 212-582-9304 broadwaydancecenter.com Your birthday dancer and guests are sure to love a birthday party set in our beautiful, spacious studios. Choose a favorite theme and party package that fits your needs.

CHELSEA PIERS SPORTS AND ENTERTAINMENT COMPLEX

West 23rd Street and Hudson River Park Field House Registration Desk: 212-336-6500 x6520 chelseapiers.com/birthday Why cross the bridge for your next birthday party? Because Chelsea Piers parties are action-packed, entertaining, and hassle-free, with more sports, activities, and fun than any other party venue in NYC!

CHILDREN’S MUSEUM OF THE ARTS 103 Charlton St. cmany.org/about/birthdays-rentals/ birthdays Art-filled parties begin with time to explore the museum’s hands-on workshops. Experienced teaching artists lead children in your choice of private workshop. Parties end with food and cake.

FUNFUZION AT NEW ROC CITY 29 LeCount Place (Exit 16 off I-95), New Rochelle Party Central: 914-637-7575, option 1 funfuziononline.com FunFuzion is the only place where kids can “Fuze the Fun” for their fantastic day! Come celebrate at the home of the world’s greatest birthday party!

GALLI THEATER 74 Warren St., Tribeca 212-731-0668 gallitheaternyc.com; galliny@gmail.com Party with the Galli Theater New York. Your child loves the theater and would love to be

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on stage? Are they dreaming of a birthday party their friends will rave about for years to come? Allow your child to experience the most amazing theater party in town!

HEX & COMPANY

1462 First Ave., Upper East Side 646-833-7574 hexmarksthespot.com; kids@hexnyc.com Bust out the perfect party games at Hex & Company. We host parties of all kinds both in-store and offsite. We work with you to fit any theme and build a menu and game list around it.

INTREPID SEA, AIR & SPACE MUSEUM Pier 86, W. 46th Street and Twelfth Avenue, Hell’s Kitchen 646-381-5010 intrepidmuseum.org groupsales@intrepidmuseum.org Celebrate your child’s birthday with a one-of-a-kind party! The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum captivates groups of all ages and interests. Choose from exciting themes, value packages, and customization options to create an original birthday adventure they’ll never forget. Packages start at $30 per person.

JUST KIDDING AT SYMPHONY SPACE 2537 Broadway, Upper West Side 212-864-1414 x289 symphonyspace.org/events/series/77/ just-kidding Just Kidding parties are artsy, imaginative, and fun, designed to make party planning easy and engaging! Through the show kids have the chance to interact with Just Kidding artists creating a once in a lifetime birthday party experience.

KATE TEMPESTA’S URBAN GOLF ACADEMY

917-270-7257 ktuga.com/birthday-parties mari@ktuga.com KTUGA’s parties are customized to your child’s interests. Think Pirate Golf Fun to Princess Castle Chipping. Ideal for ages 3-8. Select from different activities to highlight our golf games including storytelling, shadow screen play, and music and movement.

THE LITTLE GYM

2121 Broadway, 2nd Floor (between 74th and 75th streets), Upper West Side 212-799-1225 tlgupperwestsideny.com 777 White Plains Road, Scarsdale 914-722-0072 tlgscarsdaleny.com A private party at The Little Gym is a perfect way to celebrate your child’s next birthday. Gymnastics, games, obstacle courses, trampoline, sports, and music are tailored to your child’s interests!

MAKERSTATE BUILDER BIRTHDAYS 917-780-2345 builderbirthdays.com parties@maker-state.com Builder Birthday Parties are perfect for your budding engineer, Minecraft enthusiast, rocket scientist, robot artist, coder, circuit inventor, designer, and laser tag player!

PALISADES CLIMB ADVENTURE

4590 Palisades Center Drive, Level 4 of the Palisades Center, West Nyack 845-727-3500 palisadesclimb.com Palisades Climb Adventure offers the world’s tallest indoor ropes challenge course with 75 unique challenge elements. Our Sky Tykes kids’ ropes course is designed for ages 2-7. Both courses are available for birthday parties. Book your party today!

ROBOFUN

2672 Broadway, Upper West Side 212-245-0444 robofun.org; robofun@robofun.org Celebrate your child’s next birthday party making robots, video games, or animations! Robofun birthday parties are the perfect combination of fun and creativity!

SUGAR FACTORY

Sugar Factory - Meatpacking District 835 Washington St. Sugar Factory - The Row 700 8th Ave. Sugar Factory - Upper West Side 1991 Broadway 212-414-8700 sugarfactory.com; sfny@sugarfactory.com Party where the stars play! Here at Sugar Factory, we offer pre-fixed and customizable party packages for any celebration and budget! From private large-scale events to private dinners for two, a Sugar Factory celebration is one you will never forget!

TIGER STRONG NYC

500 E. 77th St., Upper East Side 917-453-6503 tigerstrongnyc.com; bill@tigerstrongnyc. com Tiger Strong Parties gives your child a unique birthday party experience they will remember forever. We offer a wide variety of options to fit every budget. The kids will have a great time, get lots of exercise, and leave feeling like black belts.

USTA BILLIE JEAN KING NATIONAL TENNIS CENTER

Flushing Meadows-Corona Park, Flushing 718-760-6200 x0 ntc.usta.com Birthday party packages include one hour of court time with drills and games organized by our USTA Pro staff and one-hour private room for pizza.

WILDLIFE CONSERVATION SOCIETY (WCS) ZOOS AND AQUARIUM

1-800- 433-4149 The Bronx Zoo: 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx Central Park Zoo: 830 Fifth Ave. Queens Zoo: 53-51 111th St., Corona Prospect Park Zoo: 450 Flatbush Ave., Brooklyn New York Aquarium: 602 Surf Ave., Brooklyn wcs.org/birthdays Make your wildlife lover’s birthday an unforgettable experience with a party at our zoos or aquarium! Parties include park admission, a private party room with host, special animal guests, visits to our exhibits, and hands-on activities to make your party animal’s birthday a truly unforgettable experience!

OPEN HOUSES 2019 Blue School

Pre-primary and Primary School, 241 Water St. Upper-primary and Middle School, 156 William St. 212-228-6341 blueschool.org Join us for an open house on Oct. 16 at 241 Water Street (2s-third grade) at 6pm, and Oct. 29 at 156 William (grades fourth-eighth) at 6pm.

The British International School of New York 20 Waterside Plaza 212-481-2700 x204 bis-ny.org; info@bis-ny.org Book a private tour to see just what makes BIS-NY the right choice for so many families looking for a truly balanced approach to education.

British Swim School Manhattan

Offering classes in Midtown West, Herald Square, or at-home lessons in your building’s pool Open House address: The Skyline Hotel, 725 Tenth Ave. (between 49th and 50th) 917-727-9942 britishswimschool.com/manhattan goswimmanhattan@britishswimschool.com Free evaluations of swim skills for families interested in knowing which level is right. Evaluations in September and October on Monday or Wednesday afternoons. Please call to reserve a space.

Chickenshed NYC

7 E. 96th St., Upper East Side 646-569-5742 chickenshednyc.org; info@chickenshednyc.org Learn about our Children’s Theatre workshops for ages 6-13 launching on Sept 14. Open house takes place on Saturday, Sept. 7, from 12:302pm, at Wetherby-Pembridge School, 7 E. 96th St.

China Institute

40 Rector St., 2nd floor 212-744-8181 x110 chinainstitute.org; emarks@ chinainstitute.org Join us for an open house Saturday, Sept. 21, 3–5pm (families), Thursday, Oct. 24, 6:30–8:30pm (parents only), Thursday, Nov. 21, 6:30–8:30pm (parents only), or Saturday, Dec. 14, 11am–1pm (families).

Dwight School

291 Central Park West, Upper West Side 212-724-6360 dwight.edu/admissions to register for an open house admissions@dwight.edu Visit us to find out what makes a world-class Dwight School education special, Sept. 18, 5-8 pm, Middle and Upper School Open House; Sept. 24, 8-10:30 am, Lower School Open House.

The Ecole

206 Fifth Ave., Nomad 646-582-9941 admissions@theecole.org

theecole.org Join us for coffee and croissants on Wednesday, Oct. 3 at 8:15am. Meet the faculty, tour our facilities, and learn more about The École!

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Epiphany Community Nursery School

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Savor Each Moment? ››

It wasn’t until my own babies were tweens that I truly understood what “enjoy them while they’re young” means. By Kate Haas

hey were everywhere when my kids were small: older women smiling at me in the grocery store, approaching me at the library, their expressions softening at the sight of my baby’s plump cheeks, my toddler’s irrepressible grin. Before they opened their mouths to speak, I knew exactly what they were about to tell me: It all goes so fast. Enjoy them while they’re young. These women did not tend to catch me at my most serene. Typically, I was attempting to locate the mac and cheese on sale or explain to a distraught 3-year-old that Muncha! Muncha! Muncha! wasn’t on the library shelf today, but there were lots of other books—really!—that we could take home instead. Still, when approached by a member of the “treasure each moment” brigade, I always smiled politely and assured them I would do exactly that. Naturally, I didn’t mean a word of it. Life with young kids is full of moments no one treasures, and the hours until a toddler’s naptime can seem slower than the day of labor it took to produce him. Didn’t those old ladies remember that? Why, I wondered, did they feel so compelled to urge me to enjoy every second? Once my kids were tweens, those older women disappeared. There is universal agreement, it seems, that the parent of a 10-year-old need not be advised to enjoy every second. By then I felt far removed from the world of babies. My friends and I were focused on matters such as basketball practice and homework, and how to get our children to clean up their appalling rooms. I’d certainly acknowledge a cute infant when I spotted one in my daily rounds, but always with quick sigh of thankfulness to be done with diapers and sleepless nights. It was only when my kids were teenagers that I began to notice babies again—really notice them. One day, minding my own business at the grocery store, I became aware of a curious pair of eyes regarding me unblinkingly from over the shoulder of a woman in the produce department. The baby’s cheeks were so delectably plump that I was tempted to give them a squeeze, like an avocado. Instead I smiled—and was rewarded by a huge, delighted grin.

I wanted to scoop that baby up and give her a kiss. The impulse was so strong that I actually had to take a step back to avoid being mistaken for a creepy hoverer. The mother turned around and caught my smile. “Um, your baby’s super cute,” I said. She thanked me and moved on to the bananas. As she walked away, I realized there was something I wanted to tell that woman. But following her and her baby would have been stalkerish, so I didn’t. It was the sight of that baby’s uncomplicated smile that did it, that finally made me understand what those women had been trying to tell me all those years ago, when they repeatedly noted how fast it goes and urged me to enjoy each moment. Frazzled and sleep deprived, I could only interpret that advice literally, and puzzle over it. Which was not, I now realize, the intent. What those women were telling me to enjoy in my little kids was something specific, something I took for granted until it disappeared from my life as a parent: unconditional love and affection. I get it. I was a quiet, withdrawn teen myself, spending hours alone in my room with a book. I wasn’t particularly demonstrative—at least, not where my parents were concerned. I accepted their affection routinely, as my due. So I am unsurprised that my two teen boys don’t greet me with joy when I return home after a few hours away. I don’t expect them to tell me how much they love me, or to offer spontaneous hugs and kisses. But it sure was nice when they did those things. I’ll never be the type to advise a weary mother to treasure each moment. But that day in the produce section, I wanted to tell that woman something else: to soak up the embraces, the sweet heft of a toddler on the hip, the fun of coaxing a smile from a baby, the joy of a preschooler spotting you at pickup. Because if I had understood how much I’d miss all that affection, maybe I really would have tried to savor it a little more. Of course, I didn’t say a word to that mother at the grocery store. I’m not one of those older ladies. Not yet, anyway.

Kate Haas is a freelance writer and editor. A mother of two boys, she has written on parenthood for various publications, including The New York Times, The Washington Post, Slate, and Salon.

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