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14 The Ultimate Party-Planning Timeline Give your kids the birthday of their dreams— without driving yourself crazy 16 Detox the Toy Box Simple steps to reduce your kids’ exposure to environmental hazards
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20 Mindful Games Two activities to help kids practice mindfulness 36 Chasing His Dreams How a teen with autism overcame his food aversions to create a cooking show and cookbook 40 15 Questions to Ask When Looking for a Special Needs Tutor Advice to find the right one
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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Quotables 11 NYMP Q&A: Nicole Feliciano talks about being a “mom boss.” 50 Voices: How music lessons helped a child with autism and sensory processing disorder
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ON THE COVER ›› 14 Party-Planning Timeline 16 Green Your Kids Room facebook.com/nymetroparents
DIY Corner: Stitching Stars Media Matters: What to Watch for Earth Day Outing: Minnewaska State Park Family Activities Calendar Where-To Guide: Minor League Baseball
36 A Cookbook by a Boy with Autism
50 How Music Lessons Helped My Son
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APRIL 2017 • Vol.10 • No.6
EDITOR’S NOTE
Creative Pursuits by Amazing Kids
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y oldest daughter has recently gotten very interested in baking and cooking. She’s progressed quickly from brownie mix with lots of help from an adult to cookies from scratch, on her own (except for putting them in or taking them out of the oven, which we insist a grown-up still do). She follows recipes carefully, and while she occasionally expresses ideas for her own creations, she hasn’t ventured there yet. So I was fascinated to read about another young person who has his own YouTube cooking show and recently published a cookbook of his own recipes—impressive for any teen, but even more so for Chase Bailey, who has autism. As part of our Autism Awareness Month coverage, read an interview with Chase and try out some recipes from The Official Chase ‘N Yur Face Cookbook (p. 36). Chase isn’t the only super-impressive young person with special needs you’ll meet in this issue. For our Voices column (p. 50), Manhattan mom Michaela Searfoorce shares how her son James was transformed by music lessons, even participating in performances he previously would not have even been able to attend. And did you catch the beautiful photo of Ryan on our cover? The 14-year-old Queens resident was one of the finalists in our Kids’ Cover Contest last year. His mom captioned the photo she submitted: “I have autism but it doesn’t have me.” Meeting Ryan in person at our photo shoot, I realized how perfect that statement is. On a related note, this year’s Kids’ Cover Contest launches April 24! Go to nymetroparents.com/cover then to enter for a chance to see your child on our magazine cover. In our family, we’ve made some admittedly half-hearted attempts to practice mindfulness with the kids. Focusing on breathing, we hope to all learn to remain calmer in the face of stress and disappointment, and ideally, help our kids avoid descending into tantrums. The effort has been difficult and spotty, but in this issue, we’re excerpting a book that might help. Mindful Games, as the name implies, offers fun activities for families to do together to teach mindfulness (p. 20). For us, mindfulness would certainly come in handy when we’re planning our kids’ birthday parties. Some parents enjoy and look forward to this, but I know my wife and I are not alone in feeling the pressure of our kids’ expectations and the difficulties of fitting party planning into our already busy lives. If you’re like us, you’ll want to check out our timeline for birthday planning (p. 14), so you can get organized and de-stress the process. April brings us Earth Day, our annual reminder of what we should be doing year-round to ensure our kids inherit a healthier, safer planet. If you’re looking to live greener, how about starting right at home, with your kids’ bedrooms or playrooms? Emma Steven explores some of the environmental dangers lurking in household items and offers pointers on how to eliminate them (p. 16). Of course, this month also brings Easter and Passover. Wishing a happy holiday to all of you celebrating, and a healthy, fun spring to everyone! Michael Kress Editorial Director, NYMetroParents
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Who: Clarkstown Reformed Church What’s New: A Mothers of Preschoolers group, which provides support for moms of newborns to 5-year-olds. Through the MOPS group, Clarkstown Reformed Church in West Nyack offers mentoring, leadership development, and practical teaching. Moms can discuss the joys and frustrations of motherhood, exchange information or advice, participate in demonstrations and presentations, and find community. “Our goals are to be a service to the community and create a place where moms can come together and get support,” says Pastor Sheree Lear, minister at the Clarkstown Reformed Church. Want More Info: 107 Strawtown Road, West Nyack; 845-3584320; clarkstownreformedchurch.org
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UOTABLES That first baby learning curve is steep, and there is no way to relax when, for the first time ever, you are responsible for something as huge as a human life with the tiniest toes you’ve ever seen. —Jill Krause, in a post entitled “if i knew then what i know now,” on her blog babyrabies.com
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“I know many moms have a hard time finding their footing in the career world after they have kids. I’ve already gotten over the fact that I’m not meant to be just a mom. It’s a beautiful life, it’s an unforgiving life and it’s not the life I want. I don’t feel sorry about it. Mama wants a career, kids. Sorry not sorry. —Brittany Minor, in a post entitled “Where the Hell did My 5-Year Plan Go?!” on mom.me
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“The museum combines the history of cacao and chocolate with hands-on activities to make your own chocolate, and, the best part—chocolate tastings. The kids may want to breeze through the historical part of the museum, but it is definitely worth bringing them to try samples, play in the kids’ area, and make their own chocolate.” —Samantha Neudorf in an article entitled “A Look Into New York City’s First-Ever Chocolate Museum” Read the whole thing at nymetroparents.com/chocolate-museum.
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Stitching Stars
Sometimes equations are too hard to solve, even for professionals! For these problems, people invent methods that are easy to compute and approximate the solution. This branch of mathematics is called Numerical Analysis. These numerical algorithms are usually done on a computer, and by doing more calculations you can make your approximate solution as good as you need. Curve stitching is a way to approximate a curve by drawing only straight lines, without any computation needed. The closer you draw the lines together, the better the approximation to the curve you make. We can use the same technique to make a variety of curves and shapes that can be turned into beautiful art. Materials Pencil and eraser Manila folder or very lightweight cardboard Ruler Pushpin
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Stitch a Star 1. Using a pencil, lightly draw two lines in the shape of a plus sign on your manila folder. (Don’t press too hard; you’re going to erase them later.) Using your ruler, make even marks from the center point and moving outward along each line. 2. Using the pushpin, carefully poke a hole at each mark on your folder. This is easier to do if you put your folder over something that you can push pins into safely, such as a piece of corrugated cardboard or a thick, folded towel. 3. Lightly number two of the lines as shown (fig. 2). 4. Cut a piece of thread about the length of your arm and thread it onto your needle. 5. Starting from the back of your folder, push the needle through the hole you labeled No. 1. That is at the tip of your star. As you pull the thread through the hole, stop when there are a few inches still sticking through and tape the end of the thread down on the back of the folder very securely. Tug on the thread a little to make sure it won’t slip through.
Fig. 2: Lightly number two of the lines.
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Fig. 4: Make a short stitch through the back of hole No. 2. From the front, connect the two No. 2 holes with another long stitch.
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6. Your needle should be on the front side of your folder now. Push the needle down through the other hole marked No. 1 to make a long stitch. Your thread should connect the two dots. 7. Starting on the backside of your folder again, push the needle through the hole right next to it, which should be hole No. 2, making a short stitch. Then, from the front side, you can make another long stitch to connect both No. 2 holes (fig. 4). 8. Continue like this for the rest of the holes. You should have long stitches on the front side of your folder, and short stitches on the back. When you run out of thread, tape the end down on the back of your folder, cut another piece of thread, thread your needle, and keep going! When you’ve finished your curve, tape the end of the thread on the back of the folder and trim any long ends (fig. 5). 9. S titch the other three parabolas in the same way to finish your four-pointed star! You can number the other axes if you need to. Experiment with using different colors for your lines (fig. 6). 10. Gently erase any visible pencil marks. Excerpted from Math Lab for Kids by Rebecca Rapoport and J.A. Yoder with permission of Quarry Books
Fig. 5: Continue like this for the rest of the holes.
Fig. 6: Stitch the other three parabolas in the same way.
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ids may look forward to their birthday parties all year long, but let’s face it: For many of us, planning that party can be stressful, yet another project in our already hectic lives. It can feel overwhelming even before you consider kids’ high expectations for the perfect birthday. But don’t panic— we are here to help! To keep you organized, here’s a timeline of everything you need to make the planning process run smoothly, whether you are hosting the party at home or at one of the many local birthday party places. From when to book the venue to when to buy supplies (hint, not as early as you may think!), we’ve got you covered.
Six Months Prior
This might seem like a very long time in advance to start planning your child’s birthday party, but if you’re thinking of doing it at a party venue, it can book up fast. Now is the time to start getting an idea of what your child wants, including themes, places, and the size of the guest list. It wouldn’t hurt to start calling possible venues about availability.
Three Months Prior
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Start thinking about a theme. If your child is old enough, discuss it with him. You can start putting together a Pinterest board to collect all of your ideas and inspiration. This is also a great way to get the birthday boy or girl involved, says Seri Kertzner, owner of Little Miss Party Planner, a party planning service in New York City and the Hamptons. “Kids love talking and planning for a specific theme especially when it comes to the look of the cake,” she says. “Let your little one help you sketch a picture of the cake to show your bakery.” Do you want entertainment at your child’s party? Now is the time to start thinking about booking clowns, magicians, or any characters that will make an appearance. Be sure to ask all entertainers about set-up requirements and backups in case they are sick.
Two Months Prior
Confirm the date with the venue and go over the details. Be sure to find out what they will they be providing in the way of food, cake, decorations, and favors. Pick menu items and décor and make a list of anything additional you will need to buy or prepare. Make arrangements to get whatever is not provided by the venue.
This is also a good time to start thinking about the guest list. If your child’s in school, there might be a policy in which all children in her class must be invited. If not, decide on the size of the party and be sure to keep your budget in mind. Many venues offer parties for 10-12 kids and can charge a hefty price for additional guests.
One Month Prior
Mail (or email) invitations and make sure they have a clear RSVP date. This is also another prime opportunity to get your child involved. The experts at MarthaStewart.com suggest, “Have him or her draw on paper (or a blank puzzle) and color in the designs, cut out pictures to glue onto blank invitations, or put stickers on cards.” Make sure you line up help for the day of the party. Confirm that a babysitter, close friend, or relative will be on hand to help in whatever way you need. Start shopping for supplies. “You don’t want to shop too far in advance for kids ages 3-6 years old—that may be too early,” says Marla Mase, of owner of Party Poopers, a party planning company in NYC. “Remember, kids change their minds a lot— and what they liked three months ago may be very different than what they like today.”
Two Weeks Prior
Order the cake if you don’t plan on baking it yourself. And if you are baking it yourself, check the recipe, make your shopping list, and get the necessary ingredients. If the party is at home, start thinking of games and activities for the children to play. There are plenty of online resources with ideas, and be sure to ask your child because he may have a very specific idea of what he wants to do at the party.
snacks, and movies, and you’re set if you find you need to make a last-minute change,” Kertzner says.
The Day of the Party
Deep breaths! Hopefully, you have planned far enough ahead to only need to take care of a few minor details and do prep work on the big day. Here are some things to consider: • Get the house ready for the big day. • Decorate, set the table, prepare activities, and confirm with entertainment that morning. • Bake or pick up the cake. • Know where the candles and matches are. • Set up the food. • Clear a table for presents. • Make sure to have a pad and pen on hand when you open presents to record who gave what. Finally, “Be relaxed!” Kertzner says. “The most important thing is for your kids to have a good time. If you chose a good venue they will take care of every detail so you can be a guest and enjoy your child’s party.”
Several Days After
Write thank you notes. Have your child assist you in thanking her guests for coming to her party. Younger kids can dictate their message to you or draw a picture on the notes; older kids can sign their names, while those who can write their own notes should do so themselves.
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The party is getting close! This is the time to start tying up loose ends and confirming all details are correct. Follow up on any unanswered invitations. Prepare the goodie bags. You’ll need the bags themselves, of course, and the contents to go in them. And remember, you can give small games, pencils and erasers, or even small books in addition to, or instead of, candy, to cut down on the sugar. Make sure you have enough storage on your phone for pictures. Time to make some tough decisions! But better than being caught without a camera available at the party. Get the space ready. If you are having the party at home, now is a time to clean, clear space, and move valuables and breakable things out of the way.
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he majority of Americans have at least 300 different environmental chemicals in their blood, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. These include flame retardants in crib mattresses, formaldehyde in furniture, bisphenol A (BPA) in food, and phthalates in toys and toiletries; it’s enough to make even the most laid back parent anxious. Feeling overwhelmed? Here are some simple things you can do to help green your home, starting with kids’ rooms and playrooms.
Reality Check
The most common dangers at home are lead, pesticides, flame retardants, endocrine disruptors, cleaning products, and air pollutants. Before you start freaking out, give yourself a break— you can’t possibly stop your children from coming into contact with these chemicals completely. “I know that feeling of being the frontline of protection for your family, and it’s exhausting,” says Sonya Lunder, senior analyst at the nonprofit Environmental Working Group. “It’s not possible, and it’s not necessary.”
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paint. Dust and flakes are dangerous to children, who breathe in more than adults and put their hands in their mouths a lot. Make sure any renovations are properly sealed, and check paint regularly for chips. Vacuum and wipe down surfaces weekly, using a vacuum with a high-efficiency particulate air (HEPA) filter. My son’s lead levels became elevated last year after a workman scraped off lead paint from a door in his room without taking precautions.
Don’t Use Bug Treatments
A 2015 study found that use of household insecticides was connected to increased risk of leukemia and lymphoma in kids. Look for natural ways of controlling pests, such as blocking off access and vacuuming regularly. Never use pesticides in children’s rooms, and if you have to use them on your pets, keep them away from your kids and high-traffic areas for at least 24 hours.
A Safe Night’s Sleep
“The one thing you should do in your kid’s room is buy a new non-toxic mattress,” says Maia James, founder of the website Gimme The Good Stuff and a healthy home consultant. Many conventional mattresses are made from petroleum-based
polyurethane foam covered with vinyl containing phthalates and sprayed with flame retardants. All of these things off-gas while your child is asleep. Don’t use hand-me-downs; mattresses made before 2005 may contain polybrominated diphenyl ethers (PBDEs), highly toxic fire retardants that are now banned. There are lots of manufacturers who now make mattresses without flame retardants, and if you want to go even further, buy one made of natural materials such as cotton and wool and that has been certified by an independent body such as GreenGuard or Oeko-Tex. Don’t use pillows or changing pads that contain foam; replace them with organic wool or cotton instead. Finally, make sure you wash any new bedding, as lots of textiles are processed with dyes and formaldehyde.
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When buying kids’ furniture, the best choice is solid wood rubbed with oil and made with non-toxic glues. However this isn’t an option for everyone due to budget or decor. The biggest dangers are flame retardants in foam and volatile organic compounds (VOCs) such as formaldehyde from composite wood, paint, furniture glue, and varnishes. The good news is that all furniture is becoming safer, thanks to laws that limit off-gassing. Look for brands with low emission standards such as California Air Resources Board (CARB or European equivalents) and foam without flame retardants. Avoid products with stain- or water-resistant finishes, which can contain perfluorinated chemicals (PFCs). There are lowor no-VOC paints and varnishes available, and if you have already renovated you can buy sealants to stop off-gasing.
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Choose solid wood floors and natural flooring, as some carpets and their glues can off-gas formaldehyde and acetone. Avoid vinyl tiles (which can contain phthalates) and don’t forget rugs. “One simple thing I tell people to do is get a wool rug,” James says. Studies have shown that wool flooring absorbs formaldehyde and nitrogen, making it a great choice for kids’ rooms.
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Put a spider plant or peace lily on your kid’s dresser—not only will it look good, it will also improve the air quality. “Houseplants are surprisingly effective,” James says. In 1989, NASA conducted a now-famous study that revealed many common houseplants were able to filter VOCs such as formaldehyde, ammonia, and benzene.
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The good news is you don’t have to throw away all of your kids plastic toys, Lunder says. “The really toxic phthalates have been banned from kids’ toys, and plastics are pretty hard to avoid,” she explains. “It’s nice to minimize plastic, but it’s almost impossible to avoid.” Some plastics are marked with a recycling symbol and a number, to tell you what sort of plastic they are; avoid anything marked with a “3” or made from polyvinyl chloride or PVC (such as beach balls), as these often have phthalates in them. Get rid of soft plastic bath toys and books, and don’t let young kids put plastic toys in their mouths. Use toys and teethers made of natural materials, such as wood and cloth, instead of plastic. Don’t let kids play with polycarbonate water bottles or containers (marked with a “7” or PC), as these are most likely to contain BPA, or chew on electronics such as phones and remotes, as they can contain flame retardants. Finally, be careful with kid’s jewelry; it can contain lead and cadmium.
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Break out that vacuum regularly in kids’ rooms and play areas to get rid of toxins that collect in dust. Choose one with a HEPA filter and follow up with a wet mop as often as possible. With cleaning products less is more. “Disinfecting products are simply not necessary outside a clinical setting,” Lunder says. Many contain strong chemicals that cause asthma, skin irritation, and even cancer. Warm water and soap is enough for daily cleaning. For something stronger, look for active ingredients such as hydrogen peroxide or citric acid. Using microfiber cloths and mops will also make it easier to clean up without chemicals.
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CHEMICAL GLOSSARY Flame Retardants Found in polyurethane foam, such as nursing pillows, mattresses, changing pads, and car seats, as well as electronic items such as remote controls. Known carcinogens, neurotoxins, and endocrine disruptors. A recent study found that levels in the bodies of children were nearly five times higher than their mothers. Phthalates Found in personal care products, soft plastic toys (especially polyvinyl chloride, or PVC), teethers, vinyl clothes, some paints, air fresheners (parfum), food, and plastic food containers. Linked to a variety of health problems, including asthma, allergies, male infertility, and abnormal hormonal development. Bisphenol A (BPA) Found in plastic bottles and utensils, sippy cups, teethers, bottled formula, and canned food. Known endocrine disruptor that has been linked to breast cancer. Its replacement, bisphenol S (BPS), is also thought to be toxic. Formaldehyde Found in composite wood, furniture and carpet glues, and cleaning and personal care products. Known carcinogen. Causes asthma, eye and throat irritation, and allergies. Triclosan Found in antibacterial soaps, toothpaste, and hand sanitizers. Linked to cancer, endocrine disruption, liver toxicity, and thyroid dysfunction. Recently banned by the Food and Drug Administration for use in hand soaps. Perfluorinated Chemicals (PFCs) Found in waterproof and stainproof shoes and clothes, furniture, and carpets. Suspected to be carcinogenic and to cause liver and thyroid problems.
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Parabens Used as preservatives in food, cosmetics, and pharmaceuticals Some have been linked to endocrine disruption, sperm damage, breast cancer, and neurological and hormonal conditions.
disruptors. Triclosan was recently banned by the Food and Drug Administration and is also found in antibacterial soap.
Lose the Air Fresheners
Throw away the air freshener, as it may contain phthalates among other nasties. James recommends a low-fi option: activated charcoal bags. Charcoal is a natural air purifier and may absorb some toxins, as well as bad odors. If you want to go one step further, buy an air filter such as the Austin Air Healthmate, which filters gases, odors, and particles. Finally remember to open windows often, as indoor air often contains higher levels of VOCs such as formaldehyde.
Activism for Change
Now for some good news: “Levels of BPA, triclosan, parabens, and some phthalate levels in blood have gone down between 2003 and 2014,” Lunder says This is thanks to increased awareness and new laws and regulations. So speak up and support groups such as the Environmental Working Group that is campaigning to change legislation, and educate your friends and family to make smart choices. “It’s not a job that one person can do on their own, we have to change it on a national level,” Lunder says.
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indfulness is a popular buzzword these days. It is being used everywhere from the home, to the workplace, to how we parent and deal with other personal relationships. Now kids can get in on the action, too. Susan Kaiser Greenland is a mediation practitioner and an expert when it comes to teaching mindfulness to kids. She wrote the book Mindful Games as a way for children to develop focusing skills and respond in a calm way to situations. The games are simple and fun to play and Greenland suggests they are as equally beneficial for parents to play as well. Below is an excerpt from the book that includes two “mindful games.”
With the help of a colorful plastic toy, we build a chain of monkeys to demonstrate how we can notice thoughts and let them go. Life Skills: Focusing, seeing Target Ages: Young children, older children
Drop the Monkeys
2. In this game, each monkey represents a thought, emotion, or sensation that has grabbed our attention. Offer an example of a distracting thought and hold up a monkey.
Drop the Monkeys is a remarkably useful visual demonstration of how kids work with the thoughts, emotions, and sensations that bubble up during anchor games. It is also a wonderful group facilitation tool that brings playfulness and a sense of humor to the check-ins that follow introspective practices. Using a children’s toy called Barrel of Monkeys as a prop, children joke about the thoughts that grabbed their attention. 20
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Leading The Demonstration 1. Talking points: Do you ever notice that instead of paying attention to what’s happening in the moment, you become distracted by a thought about something that happened in the past or something that might happen in the future? What are some examples?
3. Now you give me an example. For each distraction we think of, I’ll add another monkey to the chain. Take three to four examples from children, and add a monkey to the chain for each example.
4. These are all monkeys we can let go of, right? We don’t need any of these thoughts and emotions distracting us right now, so let’s drop them. Drop the monkey chain back into the plastic barrel. 5. That was fun. Let’s try it again. Can you think of more examples? Tips 1. Although the barrel of monkeys is used more like a toy with younger children, it can be a helpful visual aid when working with older children (and adults!). 2. Extend the demonstration by adding a discussion at the end. Here are some talking points: How often does your mind wander away from the present into the past or future? Do thoughts and emotions stay the same, or do they change over time? 3. Drop the Monkeys helps children turn distractions into success stories. Hold up the monkey chain and ask children what to call the moment when they notice they’re distracted. Kids shout, “Mindfulness!” because they know where their minds are at that instant. 4. Occasionally, children bring up a serious topic that merits further inquiry. If the timing and venue are right, there’s no better time to talk about what’s bothering them. But sensitive topics are sometimes raised at inappropriate times. If that happens, acknowledge the topic and the child’s concern, then shift the tone and subject matter of the discussion. Be sure to revisit the topic with the child privately at a more appropriate time and place. Next, young meditators choose a breathing anchor by noticing where they feel their breath most easily—near their noses, in their chests, or inside their bellies.
Choose Your Breathing Anchor
6. Now I’m going to ask you to make a choice and focus on your breathing where you feel it most. Wherever that is, that’s the place I’ll be talking about when I use the word “anchor.” We’re going to use this anchor for the rest of the game, so if you need to check again to see where it’s easiest to feel your breathing right now, go ahead. 7. Great. Let’s try this for a few more breaths together. See if you can keep your body relaxed and lightly rest your attention on your anchor at the same time. This is how we rest in the feeling of the movement of our breath. Tips 1. Choose Your Breathing Anchor can also be practiced lying down or standing. 2. When leading more than one child, ask them to put one hand on their head when they’ve chosen an anchor. Wait for everyone to choose an anchor before you continue. 3. It can be helpful to start the activity with a relaxing body scan. For example, “Feel your eyelids closed, feel your shoulders relaxed, feel your hands touching your knees, feel your legs touching the floor or the chair . . .” 4. When children have had some practice sitting for longer periods, you can extend this activity with a few minutes of Mindful Breathing. 5. To vary the game, ask children to choose another simple, neutral object to anchor their attention: a sound, a sensation, or counting, for example. Susan Kaiser Greenland is an internationally recognized leader in teaching mindfulness and meditation to children, teens, and families. She is the author of The Mindful Child and Mindful Games, and has studied meditation with teachers from the Tibetan Buddhist tradition since 1997.
We pay attention to the feeling of breathing where we notice it most—near the nose, chest, or belly—to help us relax and focus on the present moment. Life Skills: Focusing Target Ages: All ages From Mindful Games by Susan Kaiser Greenland © 2016 by Susan Kaiser Greenland. Illustrations © 2016 by Lindsay DuPont. Reprinted in arrangement with Shambhala Publications, Inc. Boulder, CO.
Leading The Game 1. Sit with your back straight and your body relaxed, resting your hands gently on your knees, and close your eyes if you’re comfortable. Notice what it feels like to breathe in and out right now. 2. Place one finger under your nose and feel your breath going in and out. Can you feel it? 3. Next, place your hand on your chest, above your heart. Can you feel your hand moving when you breathe? 4. Now place your hand on your belly and feel the movement of your breathing there. 5. Put your hands back on your knees and breathe naturally. Notice where you feel the movement of your breath most easily. Is it just beneath your nose, at your chest, or at your belly?
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1 An aerial view of the vast landscape of Minnewaska State Park Preserve. 2 Guided hikes provide a group environment to take in the surroundings, including numerous waterfalls, while community conservation days provide an opportunity to clean up the park and give back. 3 Mountain laurels bloom in abundance during the early summer in Minnewaska State Park Preserve. 4 Nature-focused and family-friendly events take place year-round, giving kids of all ages an opportunity to interact with and learn more about their natural surroundings. 5 Minnewaska State Park Preserve is home to a Bird Conservation Area and has an Early Morning Birders program from April to October.
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panning more than 23,000 acres of wild and scenic land, Minnewaska State Park Preserve in Ulster County is the largest of six New York state parks holding the distinction of being classified and protected as a park preserve. Take a hike, take a swim, and take in the picturesque views.
Year-Round Fun
Minnewaska State Park Preserve rests on land that used to hold a thriving mountaintop resort, dating back to the late 1870s. The park was founded in the early 1970s, and gained distinction as a park reserve in 1993. Set on the Shawangunk Mountain ridge, the park includes several waterfalls, sheer cliffs, dense hardwood forests, and four crystalline sky lakes fed by rainwater. Rock climbing is permitted and visitors can swim and scuba dive in the lifeguarded swimming areas of Lake Minnewaska and Lake Awosting in the summer. The park has a total of 85 miles of carriage roads, footpaths, and wood roads, on 22
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which families can enjoy horseback riding, biking, hiking, snowshoeing, or even crosscountry skiing. The Shawangunk Ridge, a 500-foot tall prominent cliff, is home to rare plants and animals. Peregrine falcons are known to nest along the cliff lines of the ridge. Stop by the 3,000-square-foot Sam’s Point Visitor Center to learn more about the area.
Annual Events
A guided outing, Tuesday Trek, is offered the second and fourth Tuesday of the month from October to May. Depending on the weather, participants may rent snowshoes. Kids who are home-schooled can join others for an afternoon of nature and discovery through the Homeschooler Programs, offered the first Thursday of each month from March to June and September to December in the afternoon. I Love My Park Day, held on May 6, will mark the sixth year of the statewide event to improve and enhance New York’s state parks and historic sites. Volunteers will clean
up parklands and beaches, plant trees and gardens, restore trails and wildlife habitat, and more. Volunteer Trails Day on Sept. 17 is another opportunity to show the park some love by volunteering to help clean up.
April Highlights
Minnewaska State Park Preserve is home to a Bird Conservation Area. The Early Morning Birders program is designed for birding enthusiasts or those just looking to learn the basics and will be led by experienced birding volunteers and park naturalists. The family-friendly program runs Tuesday mornings from April to October. Bring your binoculars to see what you can find!
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Opening Day of Grasshopper Grove
WHEN: Saturday, April 8, 10am WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum, Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy special opening day activities and gear up for spring at this unique play space. WHY WE LOVE IT: Nothing better than being able to play and explore outdoors! WANT TO GO? $3 per person. 845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.
SpringFest Street Fair FREE
WHEN: Sunday, April 9, 10am-5pm WHERE: Nyack Chamber of Commerce, North Broadway and Main Street, Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy more than 300 vendors offering fine crafts, jewelry, art, photography, collectibles, antiques, quality handmade crafts, unique gifts, and much more. The fair will also feature live entertainment and street performers, plus fair food including Greek, Jamaican, Polish, and Italian specialties, as well as homemade fudge, dipped pretzels, and kettle corn. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kick off the spring season at this popular unofficial season opener! WANT TO GO? 845-721-5059. visitnyack.org.
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WHEN: Saturday, April 15, 9-10:30am WHERE: Palisades Credit Union Park, 1 Palisades Credit Union Park Drive, Pomona AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Visit BoulderBird and the Rockland Boulders and try and find the 5,000 eggs hidden in the field. WHY WE LOVE IT: Sure to be the biggest egg hunt and fun for all! WANT TO GO? 845-364-0009. rocklandboulders.com.
Rascally Rabbits
WHEN: Saturday, April 15, 9:30am and 11am WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum, Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Learn why rabbits have so many babies and how they protect themselves. Hear about the native Eastern Cottontail, and then take a walk to search for signs of wild rabbits. Meet a live rabbit and make a bunny craft to take home. Registration required. WHY WE LOVE IT: Who doesn’t love bunnies? WANT TO GO? $8; $6 children. 845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.
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WHEN: Sunday, April 23, 10am-4pm WHERE: Bergen County Zoo, Van Saun County Park, Paramus, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Discover ways to connect to the local environment this Earth Day. Learn about eco-friendly products, programs, and services available in this area. Children will receive a Party for the Planet passport and can have it stamped by the exhibitors to receive a small prize from the zoo. WHY WE LOVE IT: A chance to celebrate our planet. WANT TO GO? 201-262-3771. co.bergen.nj.us.
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WHEN: April 1-May 6, see website for times WHERE: Keep Rockland Beautiful, check the website for community locations, schedule, and times AGES: All WHAT: Join the 2017 Great American Cleanup Campaign and help remove tons of litter from our streets, parks, and waterways to make a visible difference in the community. It’s an excellent teachable moment for children and youth to learn more about the environment around them. This year’s campaign kick-off will be the Stony Point Community Cleanup on April 1. WHY WE LOVE IT: This is us, our community at its best! WANT TO GO? 845-708-9164. keeprocklandbeautiful.org.
WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. PopCon Nyack FREE
WHEN: Saturday, April 1, 10am-4pm WHERE: Nyack Center, 58 Depew Ave., Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Nyack’s first ever pop culture convention with fun for the whole family, including more than 30 vendors, featuring comics, vinyl records, CDs, clothing, collectibles, and more. Special guest Denny O’Neil, Marvel/DC author, will be there from 1-4pm. WANT TO GO? 845-521-0364. facebook.com/popconnyack.
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WHEN: Saturday, April 1, 10am-2pm WHERE: Bach to Rock Music School, 150 E. Route 59, Nanuet AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy free trial classes including early childhood demo classes and demo private lessons. There will also be live music, free giveaways, and a raffle. WANT TO GO? 845-215-9536. nanuet.bachtorock.com.
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WHEN: April 17-18, Monday, 10-10:30am; Tuesday, 6-6:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Make a fun craft together. Parent or caregiver participation and registration required. WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.
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WHEN: Sunday, April 23, 1-3pm WHERE: Red Owl Academy, 645 Main St., Suite 1, Sparkill AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Red Owl Academy in collaboration with Edward Hopper House is offering an exciting art painting workshop for children. Learn more about bringing original visions and ideas to life using colors and paint. WANT TO GO? 845-848 2407. redowlacademy.com.
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WHEN: April 4-25, Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Gamers are invited to play the PS4 on the big screen. WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org. ››
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what’s growing wild and edible in the area. Learn plant names, properties, tastes, uses in cooking, and get an overall feel for a number of plants. WANT TO GO? 845-356-1234. thenatureplace.com.
Summer Play Camp Open House FREE
WHEN: Saturday, April 29, 1-2:15pm WHERE: Blue Rock School, 110 Demarest Mill Road, West Nyack AGES: 3-12, adult WHAT: Come meet the Summer Play Camp director and hear all about Blue Rock’s summer program. Refreshments will be served and reservations required. WANT TO GO? 845-627-0234. summerplaycamp.org.
THE GREAT OUTDOORS Trout Weekend
WHEN: April 1-2, Saturday-Sunday, 12-4pm WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum, Wildlife Education Center, 25 Boulevard, Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy two days of fishy fun, including a Meet the Trout presentation at 1pm and 2:30pm, and feeding time for Brook Trout at 1:30pm and 3pm. Fun activities and stories plus crafts for kids. WANT TO GO? $3 per person. 845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.
Camp Open House FREE
WHEN: Saturday, April 8, 1-4pm WHERE: The Nature Place Day Camp, 307 Hungry Hollow Road, Chestnut Ridge AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Take a tour and learn about the ins and outs of camp. WANT TO GO? 845-356-1234. thenatureplace.com.
Earth Day Celebration
WHEN: Saturday, April 22, 10:30am-3pm WHERE: Trailside Museums & Zoo, Bear Mountain State Park, Bear Mountain AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Help make treats for the bears at 10:30am. Then watch them emerge from their dens to gobble the treats up at 11am. Throughout the day, there will be nature-related displays, activities, and games, plus some tips to help you look after Mother Earth. WANT TO GO? $10 parking; donations welcome. 845-786-2701 x293. trailsidezoo.org.
Earth Day Celebration and Annual Hike-A-Thon
WHEN: Saturday, April 22, 9:30am-3pm WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum, Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Earth Day is a family-friendly event and includes a green zone of child-friendly games and activities, farm animals, live music, hay rides, nature play at Grasshopper Grove, and more. WANT TO GO? $5 per car. 845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.
Wild Food Foraging FREE
WHEN: Sunday, April 23, 12-1pm WHERE: The Nature Place Day Camp, 307 Hungry Hollow Road, Chestnut Ridge AGES: All WHAT: Early spring should yield a bounty of tender flora. Discover 28
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HOLIDAY FUN Bunny Brunch
WHEN: Sunday, April 2, 10-11am WHERE: Dave & Busters, Palisades Center, 4661 Palisades Center Drive, West Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Join the Easter Bunny for brunch! Reservations required, call 845-348-1000 x0. WANT TO GO? See website for prices. 845-348-1000. palisadescenter.com.
Easter Egg Hunt FREE
WHEN: Saturday, April 8, 2-4:40pm WHERE: Mania Training Facility, 24 Holt Drive, Stony Point AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Bring an Easter basket and your best hunting skills and find the glitter egg for a special prize. Registration required. Sign up by age group on the website. WANT TO GO? 845-269-3300. join.maniatrainingfacility.com.
Pre-Pesach Pizza Party at CSI FREE
WHEN: Sunday, April 9, 10am WHERE: Congregation Sons of Israel, 300 N. Broadway, Upper Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Sing, dance, burn your Chametz, and meet the fireman and Sparky the Firedog. Enjoy seeing an antique fire truck and eating pizza. WANT TO GO? 845-358-3767. csinyack.org.
Pet Night
WHEN: Sunday, April 9, 7-9pm WHERE: Palisades Center, West Court Level 1, 1000 Palisades Center Drive, West Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Bring your furry friend to meet the Easter Bunny. All pets must be on a leash or in a carrier. WANT TO GO? See website for prices. 845-348-1000. palisadescenter.com.
WHEN: April 3-14, Monday-Tuesday, 10am-12pm; Friday, 3-5pm WHERE: Jill’s Ceramics, 180 Germonds Road, West Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Young artists can pick out and paint spring holiday items such as Seder plates and Kiddush cups for Passover and bunny figurines and Easter-themed plates, cups, bowls, mugs, and more. Items can be painted and taken home the same day or left for glazing. WANT TO GO? Prices vary per piece. 845-623-4975. jillsceramics.com.
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WHEN: Through April 15: daily, see website for times WHERE: Palisades Center, West Court Level 1, 1000 Palisades Center Drive, West Nyack AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Hop on over to the Bunny Patch for your Easter photos. WANT TO GO? See website for prices. 845-348-1000. palisadescenter.com.
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ONCE UPON A TIME Pajama Storytime FREE
WHEN: Tuesday, April 18, 7-7:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Preschoolers can enjoy storytime, songs, fingerplays, and more in pajamas. WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.
See the real-life Kratt brothers live on stage.
Wild on the Upper West Side April brings another hit TV show to the stage. This month it’s the Emmy-nominated PBS show, Wild Kratts. In Wild Kratts Live! kids learn about the natural world and have fun—with puppets, animation, and the Kratt brothers themselves. Your kids will come away excited about nature and animals, and they might learn something new, too. April 30, 2pm and 6pm. Age: All. $45-$65. Beacon Theatre, 2124 Broadway, Upper West Side. 212-465-6225. beacontheatre.com. Courtesy New York International Auto Show
WHEN: Saturday, April 15, 10-11am WHERE: Piermont Civic Association, Flywheel Park, 554 Piermont Ave., Piermont AGES: All WHAT: Come early and bring a basket or container to collect eggs. Weather permitting. WANT TO GO? piermontchamber.org.
Sensory Storytime FREE
WHEN: Saturday, April 22, 10:30am WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Miss Amy welcomes children to a program that considers the developmental needs of children on the autism spectrum. Enjoy stories, music, movement, and play in a safe and accepting environment. WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.
Tales and Tunes FREE
WHEN: Through May 15: Mondays, 11:30am and 7pm; Tuesdays, 11:30am WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Stories, fingerplays, songs, and bubbles! Registration and caregiver participation required. WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.
Stories and Craft FREE
WHEN: Through May 17: Mondays, 2pm; Wednesdays, 10:30am WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Stories, crafts, and more! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org. ››
The show is a fun day out if you have little car fans in your family.
Automobiles for All Buckle up and head on down to the Javits Center. If your kids like cars you won’t want to miss the New York International Auto Show, which is the oldest and one of the most famous automotive shows in the U.S. In addition to the new cars on display, many exhibitors have activities specifically for kids. Last year’s show included diggers, teen safety education, and interactive displays. Strollers are welcome, making it a great day out for all ages. April 14-23; Monday-Saturday, 10am-10pm; Sunday, 10am-7pm. Age: All. $17; $7 for children (ages 2-12); free for children 2 and younger. Javits Convention Center, 655 W. 34th St., Chelsea. autoshowny.com.
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SMARTY PANTS Public Planetarium Show
WHEN: Sunday, April 9, 2-4pm WHERE: Town of Ramapo Challenger Center, 225 Route 59, Airmont AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Step into the Challenger Center planetarium and see the night sky in a whole new light. Travel to the planets and moons of our Solar System and observe comets, meteors, eclipses, nebulae, galaxies, and black holes. Following a 1-hour planetarium show, participants will take part in a 1-hour hands-on astronomy-related project in the enter’s activity room. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 seniors and for children younger than 9. 845357-3416. lhvcc.com.
Piermont Library 10th Anniversary Celebration
WHEN: Sunday, April 9, 10am-5pm WHERE: The Dennis P. McHugh Piermont Public Library, 25 Flywheel Park W., Piermont AGES: All WHAT: Festivities will include live music by the Old No. 7 Band, food trucks, tech demos, children’s art, stories, crafts, library history and trivia, grounds tours, mini golf in the stacks, an “edible books” baking contest, and more. WANT TO GO? Donations welcome. 845-359-4595. piermontchamber.org.
Maker Mondays FREE
WHEN: April 3-17, Mondays, 5-6pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Different programs every week including straw rockets, tower challenges, Builders Club, 3-D fun with 3-D pens, littleBits, crafts, Code Club, Science Squad, and more. WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.
Imagination Station FREE
WHEN: April 4-18, Tuesdays, 1:30pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Dress up, play some music, see a movie, make a craft, use puppets, or listen to some great stories. There will be a different activity each week. WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.
Activism in Art: Art Changes Things FREE
WHEN: Feb. 19- April 23, Monday-Friday, 10am-4pm; SaturdaySunday, 1-4pm
WHERE: Rockland Center for the Arts Inc., 27 S. Greenbush Road, West Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Art Changes Things looks at art that transcends boundaries and operates as an empowering agent of change, presenting work that challenges notions of class. This work is meant to start conversations and breakdown stereotypes. WANT TO GO? 845-358-0877. rocklandartcenter.org.
Public Space Mission
WHEN: Sunday, April 23, 2-5pm WHERE: Town of Ramapo Challenger Center, 225 Route 59, Airmont AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Just like the real astronauts, public crewmembers will attend a briefing session and then select tasks to perform on the mission. Small teams of space adventurers will conduct research, perform scientific experiments, and even deploy a probe. Tasks are detailed enough to feel real and challenging, fun and simple enough for kids to do. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 seniors and for children younger than 9. 845357-3416. lhvcc.com.
Friday Fun FREE
WHEN: April 7-28, Fridays, 4-5pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids can participate in a different program every week including straw rockets, tower challenges, Builders Club, 3-D fun with 3-D pens, Code Club, crafts, and Science Squad. WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org.
Tot Shabbat at CSI Nyack FREE
WHEN: April 1-29, Saturdays, 11am WHERE: Congregation Sons of Israel, 300 N. Broadway, Upper Nyack AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Celebrate Shabbat morning with stories and games. Enjoy grape juice and challah with Rabbi Russo, followed by a free lunch for all. WANT TO GO? 845-358-3767. csinyack.org.
SHOW TIME! Kelly Carlin in Conversation with Elliott Forrest
WHEN: Saturday, April 1, 8pm WHERE: Nyack Library, 20 S. Broadway, Nyack AGES: Adult WHAT: With rich humor and deep insight, Kelly Carlin pulls back the curtain on what it was like to grow up as the daughter of one of the most recognizable comedians of our time and become a woman in her own right as she discusses her book A Carlin Companion: Growing Up with George. WANT TO GO? $15; $35 with signed book. 855-278-7762. artsrock.org.
Children’s Shakespeare Theatre Presents ‘Queen Lear’
WHEN: Through April 1: Friday-Saturday, 7pm WHERE: Palisades Presbyterian Church, 117 Washington Spring Road, Palisades AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This cast of 18 teens brings this classic tale to life. In this epic story, see the themes of family, clarity of vision, leadership, corruption, and love clash, resolve, and ultimately teach us about relationships, patience, and loyalty. WANT TO GO? $15; $12 seniors; $10 children. 845-262-0278. childrensshakespeare.org.
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WHEN: Sunday, April 9, 10am-5pm WHERE: Nyack Chamber of Commerce’s SpringFest Street Fair, Memorial Park, Piermont and Depew avenues, Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Test your skills at the Circus Skill Stations, which include aerial silks, tightwire, juggling, spinning plates, diabolos, and human pyramids. All proceeds benefit the outreach program of AGC! for atrisk children in Rockland County. WANT TO GO? 845-721-5059. amazinggracecircus.org.
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WHEN: Saturday, April 29, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Bergen PAC Kidz Cabaret Series, Drapkin Cabaret & Lounge, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood, NJ AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Witness amazing illusions choreographed to high-energy music. It is a carefully blended combination of magic, comedy, dance, and audience participation that will leave you breathless. WANT TO GO? $17. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.
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WHEN: Through May 27: Saturdays, 9am-1pm WHERE: Palisades Community Center, 675 Oak Tree Road, Palisades AGES: All WHAT: Select vendors offer a wide-range of products including fish and seafood, meat, veggies, fruit, cheese, bakery, desserts, and prepared foods. WANT TO GO? 845-359-3988. palisadesfm.org. ››
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WHEN: April 10-14, Monday-Friday, 10am-2pm WHERE: West Rock Indoor Sports Complex, 21 Pralle Lane, Nanuet AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Come enjoy a fun-filled day of sports, inflatables, arts and crafts, and other activities. Counselors will create teams to compete in relay races, kickball, dodgeball, basketball, soccer, and more. WANT TO GO? $50 per day. 845-623-3636. westrockindoor.com.
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WHEN: Saturday, April 22, 2:30-3:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Play games, win prizes, and eat jelly beans. WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.
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WHEN: Saturday, April 22, 11am-12pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Put an extra spring in your step and dance your sillies out. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.
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WHEN: April 2-May 7, Sundays, 4pm WHERE: Bryan Elementary School Field, 51 Brookside Ave., Cresskill, NJ AGES: 3-12 WHAT: A five-week running program for kids from pre-K through eighth grade that provides kids with a positive, educational, and fun experience in the world of running. Each Race Series takes place once a week and offers age appropriate running events. Check the website for other community locations and times. WANT TO GO? $10 per race; $35 for all 5 races. 516-413-9788. healthykidsrunningseries.org.
Sensory Tuesdays
WHEN: Through June 27: Tuesdays, 6-7pm WHERE: Bounce! Trampoline Sports, 612 Corporate Way, Valley Cottage AGES: 3-8 WHAT: For children with sensory issues and those with autism, this program offers fun structured activities with decreased auditory and visual stimuli in a less crowded environment with limited class size. WANT TO GO? $12. 845-268-4000. bouncevalleycottage.com.
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WHEN: Wednesday, April 19, 5:45pm WHERE: The Nyack Seaport, 21 Burd St., Nyack AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A celebration to honor those who have performed outstanding service in working with young children and their families in Rockland County. WANT TO GO? $60; $20 children. 845-425-0009. childcarerockland.org.
Celebrate Earth Day and Annual Blessing of the Soil FREE
WHEN: Saturday, April 22, 12pm WHERE: Catholic Charities Community Serivces of Rockland, 78 Hudson Ave., Haverstraw AGES: All WHAT: Family-friendly activities will include a master gardener demonstration, face painting, arts and crafts, clowns, a Tai Chi mini class, a yoga demonstration, and refreshments. One of the highlights of the day will be the ribbon cutting for a greenhouse on the property, the first of its kind in the New York region to be constructed for the benefit a food pantry. WANT TO GO? 845-942-5791. ccsrockland.org.
LuLaRoe Fundraiser for Big Brothers Big Sisters of Rockland
WHEN: April 25-26, Tuesday-Wednesday, see website for times WHERE: LuLaRoe with Michelle Padovani, 65 N. Main St., New City AGES: All WHAT: Ten percent of sales will be donated to Big Brothers Big Sisters of Rockland County and an additional donation directly from LuLaRoe. Purchase online by joining the LuLaRoe with Michele Padovani group on Facebook. WANT TO GO? Prices vary depending on purchase. 845-634-2199. bbbsofrc.com.
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WHEN: Sunday, April 30, 8am WHERE: Rockland Lake State Park, North entrance, 300 Route 9W, Congers AGES: All WHAT: Individuals who have been touched by United Hospice of Rockland are invited to come together to walk side by side to remember loved ones. To register for the walk or the George Wodicka Hook Half Marathon and 5K, which also takes place on April 30, go to rocklandroadrunners.org/hook. WANT TO GO? $30. 845-634-4974. runsignup.com/uhrwalk.
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Take the family out to a ball game! For a fraction of the cost of a Mets or Yankees game, you can check out some of the sport’s up-andcoming big hitters at a local minor league game and soak up tons of fun perks for kids, such as hanging out on the field before the game, meeting the players, and free admission to some games. Please note that dates and prices are projected for the season. We recommend confirming details before heading out to the ballpark.
Kids are allowed to play catch on the field and run the bases after Rockland Boulders games.
Southeast New York Hudson Valley Renegades Class A Short-Season New York-Penn League (Tampa Bay Rays) Dutchess Stadium, 1500 Route 9D, Wappingers Falls hvrenegades.com Season begins June 19; home game June 21 See website for ticket prices. The Renegades offers special discounts and packages for groups of 15 or more. 34
There will be an All-Scout Sleepover on June 1. Rockland Boulders CanAm League Palisades Credit Union Park, 1 Palisades Credit Union Park Drive, Pomona rocklandboulders.com Season begins May 18 Tickets: $11-$16 Kids ages 12 and younger can get on the field every Sunday and run the bases after the game. Kids are also allowed
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to play catch on the field after the games.
New Jersey New Jersey Jackals CanAm League Yogi Berra Stadium, 8 Yogi Berra Drive, Little Falls jackals.com Season begins May 18 Tickets: $12-$17 The Baseball Buddies program allows youngsters to be introduced like the pro players and take the field with the Jackals for the national anthem. See website for details. Trenton Thunder Double-A (New York Yankees) Arm & Hammer Park, 1 Thunder Road, Trenton trentonthunder.com Season begins April 13 Tickets: $8-$13 The team offers Boomer’s Kids Club, presented by the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia at University Medical Center Princeton at Plainsboro. The club is for fans younger than 12 and features special discounts, one-of-akind experiences, and on-field opportunities. Memberships are $25 for the first child and $10 per child after. Lakewood BlueClaws Single-A (Philadelphia Phillies) FirstEnergy Park, 2 Stadium Way, Lakewood blueclaws.com Season begins April 13 Tickets: $8-$13 With the Future BlueClaws package, your child’s Little
League team can take to the field with the BlueClaws during the starting lineups and the national anthem, and join the Kid’s Club for free.
New York City Brooklyn Cyclones Class A Short-Season New YorkPenn League (New York Mets) MCU Park, 1904 Surf Ave., Coney Island, Brooklyn brooklyncyclones.com Season begins June 17 Tickets: $10-$17 in advance Through the Field of Dreams program, youth baseball, softball, and Little League teams can stand side by side, in uniform, with the Cyclones while the national anthem plays at the start of the game (you must purchase a minimum of 15 tickets to participate in this program). Fireworks are free after every Tuesday, Friday, and Saturday home game. On Sunday Fundays, kids can run the bases after the game and get the chance to play catch on the field before the game. Staten Island Yankees Class A Short-Season New YorkPenn League (New York Yankees) Richmond County Bank Ballpark, 75 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island siyanks.com Season begins June 19 See website for ticket prices. The stadium offers group tickets that include discount ticket prices, fan gear, a chance for kids (ages 12 and younger) to run the
bases after the game, and the opportunity to join Scooter’s Kids Club.
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Long Island Ducks Bethpage Ballpark, 3 Court House Drive, Central Islip liducks.com Season begins April 20; home game April 28 Tickets: $12-$15; discounts for groups of 25 or more Kids ages 14 and younger can join the Kids Club for discounts and special events. Members are invited to Kids Club Day, when they can go on a behind-the-scenes tour of Bethpage Ballpark and get a chance to run the bases. Somerset Patriots TD Bank Ballpark, 1 Patriots Park, Bridgewater, NJ somersetpatriots.com Season begins April 21 Tickets: $9-$25 Children can join the Somerset Sluggers Kids Club for special opportunities such as posing with the entire Somerset Patriots team in the Somerset Sluggers team poster, exclusive Q-and-A’s with Patriots Players, and ballpark tours. All-Star birthday parties are available. Bridgeport Bluefish The Ballpark at Harbor Yard, 500 Main St., Bridgeport, CT bridgeportbluefish.com Season begins April 28 Tickets: $12; discounted rates for groups of 20 or more Kids ages 13 and younger can join the Kids Club for special events and activities throughout the season and during the off-season. Young athletes can join a Youth League Outing to accompany the players on the field during the national anthem, join the players on the field during team introductions, play catch with the players before the game, and more; see the website for details.
Lancaster Barnstormers Clipper Magazine Stadium, 650 N. Prince St., Lancaster, PA lancasterbarnstormers.com Season begins April 21; home game April 28 Tickets: $7-$13 Several ticket packages available for groups and families. Children ages 12 and younger can gain one free lawn admission ticket if they wear their local, organized sport uniform to any home game. York Revolution PeoplesBank Park, 5 Brooks Robinson Way, York, PA yorkrevolution.com Season begins April 28 Tickets: $8-$14 Kids can join the Rookie Revs ($27) for special events, and receive six ticket vouchers for any game.
Connecticut Hartford Yard Goats Double-A (Colorado Rockies) Dunkin Donuts Park, 1214 Main St., Hartford yardgoatsbaseball.com Season begins April 6; home game April 13 Tickets: $6-$22 Kids ages 12 and younger can become members of the Red Robin Kid’s Club (free membership). They’ll also get a chance to receive invitations to special events, exclusive Yard Goats giveaways, a 10-percent discount at the team store, and club ticket packages for parents of members. See the website for details. Connecticut Tigers Class A Short-Season New YorkPenn League (Detroit Tigers) Dodd Stadium, 14 Stott Ave., Norwich cttigers.com Season begins June 19 Tickets: $10-$20; groups of 15 or more receive a discounted rate Fun birthday parties and group outings available at Connecticut Tigers games. There will be a baseball clinic for aspiring players ages 6-15, the date is TBD at the time of publication.
Pennsylvania Lehigh Valley IronPigs Triple-A (Philadelphia Phillies) Coca-Cola Park, 1050 IronPigs Way, Allentown ironpigsbaseball.com Season begins April 6 Tickets: $9-$16 (save $2 per ticket by purchasing any single game ticket in advance to day of game) Youth baseball or softball teams can take the field with the IronPigs players with the Field of Dreams package and stand alongside the future Phillies during the singing of the national anthem before the game. Scranton/Wilkes Barre RailRiders Triple-A (New York Yankees) PNC Field, 235 Montage Mountain Road, Moosic swbrailriders.com Season begins April 6; home game April 10 Tickets: $9-$14; $1 line seats on Mondays, $2 line seats on Tuesdays Sundays are Family Fun Day, when kids can run the bases after the game and get autographs from the players. Youth sports teams can be a part of the Field of Dreams program, and stand with RailRiders during the national anthem. Visit the website for details. Reading Fightin Phils Double-A (Philadelphia Phillies) FirstEnergy Stadium, 1900 Centre Ave./Route 61 S., Reading fightins.com Season begins April 13 Tickets: $5-$25 Several group ticket packages are available, including those with access to the pool pavilion and third base picnic area. Harrisburg Senators Double-A (Washington Nationals) Metro Bank Park, 1 Championship Way, Harrisburg senatorsbaseball.com
Season begins April 6 Tickets: $9-$35 Offers a Kids Club membership that gives children younger than 12 access to special events held at Sunday home games, including autograph sessions, fireworks, and free admission to select games. Williamsport Crosscutters Class A Short-Season New York-Penn League (Philadelphia Phillies) BB&T Ballpark at Historic Bowman Field, 1700 W. Fourth St., Williamsport crosscutters.com Season begins June 19 Tickets: $8-$15; reduced ticket pricing available for groups The Picnics in Cutters Cove package offers groups of 15 or more third base deck seating and an all-you-caneat pregame meal ($25; $15 ages 5-12; free for children younger than 5).
Upstate New York Binghamton Rumble Ponies Double-A (New York Mets) NYSEG Stadium, 211 Henry St., Binghamton bmets.com Season begins April 13 Tickets: $9-$11 Groups of 10 or more qualify for ticket discounts and other limited benefits, including an on-field performance. There will be a Girl Scouts Night on June 2. Check the website for information about joining Buddy’s Kids Club. Tri-City ValleyCats Class A Short-Season New YorkPenn League (Houston Astros) Joseph L. Bruno Stadium, 80 Vandenburg Ave., Troy tcvalleycats.com Season begins June 21 See website for ticket prices. Youth league players can join the ValleyCats players on the field for the national anthem through the Baseball Buddies program.
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Chase Bailey, a 15-year-old chef with autism who is host of his own cooking show on YouTube.com, recently published The Official Chase ’N Yur Face Cookbook.
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hase Bailey is a 15-year-old chef with his own cooking show on YouTube and a recently released cookbook, The Official Chase ‘N Yur Face Cookbook—and he’s using part of the proceeds to set up his Chase Yur Dreams Foundation. That is a huge accomplishment on its own, but what makes it even more impressive is Chase was diagnosed with autism as a toddler, a diagnosis that includes severe food aversions, speech delay, and other developmental and physical issues. “Some doctors told my mom that I would probably never speak, and would not be able to take care of myself,” Chase said in his cookbook introduction. He goes on to reveal that when he was 8, he started watching cooking shows with his grandfather—Eat Street is a favorite— which helped him overcome his food aversions. “These cooking shows helped me to see that food could actually be fun, and a big part of traveling—which is one of my favorite things,” he said. Chase took a minute to tell us about his inspiration, how he overcomes challenges, and advice he has for others. Plus, he shares three of his own recipes with us.
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What inspired you to write your own cookbook? I didn’t plan on doing a cookbook. But someone asked my mom if I would be interested, so she told me about it and all the amazing stuff that doing a cookbook would be. I already had a journal of recipes, so I thought, why not bring it to the world, right? How do you come up with your recipes? Sometimes ideas literally just pop in my head. Sometimes when I’m eating something or see food on a show, I start thinking about how I would make something like it with different ingredients. Are there any challenges you’ve had to overcome—both with your YouTube channel and cookbook—as a young man with autism? One of the challenges I have is speaking. I know the words I want to say but it takes time for me to put them in order. I have an acting coach who helps me speak properly for my shows and interviews. I also have challenges with fine motor skills. Sometimes my hand strength is not very good, so l use tools like a
chopper and food processor to help me in the kitchen. Everybody has challenges to overcome. We all do life with a little bit of help. Can you tell me about the Chase Yur Dreams Foundation (ChaseYurDreams.org)—its mission and goals? There are a lot of kids with autism who have challenges and dreams like me. I want to help them with education, jobs, and things they need to make their dreams come true. Do you have advice for other children on the spectrum, or with other disabilities, about pursuing their passion? Find out what you love to do and go for it! And ask for help! If you could say anything to those without special needs about having an autism diagnosis, what would it be? People with autism have dreams and can do things, too. Autism is like having something special or an extra body part. You just have figure how to make it work for you.
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Pigs In A Waffle Ingredients 4 Waffles (recipe below) 12 thin slices of uncured maple honey ham 8 slices of provolone cheese ½ cup breakfast slaw (recipe below)
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Directions 1. In a medium pan, heat oil on medium-high heat and sauté onions for 3-4 minutes. 2. Add in garlic, yellow peppers, orange peppers, mushrooms, salt, and pepper. 3. Sauté for an additional 2 minutes. 4. Add ground lamb into sautéed vegetable mixture and cook until meat is done. 5. Drain excess grease. 6. Pour vegetable and ground lamb
5. Place desired amount of apple slices on top of the peanut butter and place the Nutella slice on top. 6. Brush a small amount of butter on the top and bottom half of the sandwich or spray the top and bottom of the Panini maker with cooking spray. 7. Place the sandwich in the Panini maker and cook until golden on both sides.
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If your child has expressed an interest in learning to cook, check out these programs in Rockland and Bergen counties that offer cooking programs for children and teens with special needs. Friendship Circle Ma’ayanot Yeshiva High School, 1650 Palisade Ave., Teaneck, NJ 201-262-7172 bcfriendship.com The Teen Cooking Club is a monthly, school-year program that gives teens the opportunity to socialize with peers, with and without special needs, and grow their culinary skills. Chef Nina will lead participants through a range of cooking and baking activities. HealthBarn USA 1057 Hillcrest Road, Ridgewood, NJ 201-444-2955 healthbarnusa.com HealthBarn USA offers 10-week programs for children ages 3 and older, which children with special needs are welcome to join (depending on ability). These programs introduce kids to and help build skills in cooking, gardening, and nutrition. The facility also hosts community and school field trips for children with special needs, which parents can arrange for a group. LilChefs.com Special Events Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, Staten Island, Bronx, Nassau, Suffolk, Westchester, Rockland, New Jersey 516-338-0552 lilchefs.com paula@lilchefs.com Chef Paula offers hands-on workshops and birthday parties at your location for ages 3-14 that include chef hats and aprons, as well as a personalized recipe booklet specific to the event, for each young chef. All parties and workshops are conducted in an inclusive environment, and Chef Paula can customize an event specifically for children with special needs, geared toward different abilities. Recipes can also be created for various dietary needs, and every event includes multi-sensory components relating to sight, smell, touch, taste, and sound. Rockland BOCES 65 Parrott Road, West Nyack 845-627-4770 rocklandboces.org In the summer Teen Tech Camp, campers ages 11-16 will learn the basics of cooking and baking—including desserts, cake decorating, and international cuisine—in a state-of-the-art kitchen. The camp is open to teens of all abilities, however campers must be able to safely function in a kitchen with up to 15 campers and one instructor.
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15 Questions to Ask When Looking For a Special Needs Tutor ›› There are lots of considerations when looking for a tutor for your child with special needs. A mom of six—two of whom have special needs—offers advice on how to find the right one. By Michaela Searfoorce
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f your child is struggling in math, spelling, or reading, you might be considering a tutor. If so, there are a lot of options to consider: Home or tutoring center? What can you afford? How often can you meet? When you add into the mix a child with additional special needs, things can quickly become overwhelming. Fortunately, many tutors and tutoring services are experienced in working with kids who have special needs. Finding the right one may require a little more research on the parent’s part, but those seeking clients who have special needs should be happy to spend the time answering parents’ questions to ensure they are the right fit for your child. I spoke with two experts—Carol Lovallo, an educational development supervisor from Huntington Learning Center, and Emily Levy, Ed.D., the founder and director of EBL Coaching—who were friendly, knowledgeable about the field, and helped me come up with this list of 15 things you may want to consider when seeking out the right tutor for your child with special needs:
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What disabilities do your tutors have experience with? As all of us parents are painfully aware, different disabilities are not created equal. A tutor who has experience with dyslexia may not know what to do with learning issues caused by autism, ADHD, or OCD. Instead of starting with, “My child has _________,” or “Do you have experience with __________,” I have found it more helpful (and enlightening) to simply ask, “What disabilities and special needs have you had experience with?” Lovallo, for instance, touted Huntington Learning Center’s special ADHD program, in which the centers offer individualized help to children with diagnosed ADHD from teachers who have had specific training. Do you have any special qualifications, certifications, or credentials? Dr. Levy says parents should be asking about what specialized and research-based techniques are being used. As just one example, her company specializes in the OrtonGillingham method for students who struggle with reading. How long have you been tutoring? This apparently means
“how old are you?” in our house. Tutors come in all ages and experience levels, but it’s important to consider who your children will enjoy learning from and listening to—with whom they’ll click. My children have made their preferences known loud and clear and we do our best to accommodate. My oldest son and daughter prefer someone “not old like mommy,” and do very well with young, energetic, qualified college students. One of my middle boys, however, responds best to a woman closer to my own mother’s age who has more experience and a calm, quiet demeanor (to balance him bouncing off the wall, perhaps?). How do you handle disruptive behavior, acting out, and attention issues? What’s your discipline strategy? Look, I love my kid, but when he starts rapidly clicking his pen for the 90th time after being asked to make change for a dollar, I can lose my cool. In calmer moments I’m redirecting, using mini M&M’S as positive reinforcement, or offering extra screen time for a successful finish to our homework session. It’s comforting to know the tutor’s (or tutoring center’s) strategies. What’s your expertise in the content area my child is studying? Now that you know the tutoring center specializes in ADHD, make sure it has tutors who also are knowledgeable in Spanish, calculus, or whatever subject(s) your child is struggling with. Do you have special needs references I can speak to? “Special needs” is the key phrase here, because while Joe’s mom might rave about this place, Joe might be a B student who needed some basic math test prep. How does Maria’s mom, whose daughter has an autism spectrum disorder and is upset easily by certain noises, feel about their approach? Even better, do they have any clients with your child’s specific disability who would be willing to speak with you? Do you tutor at my home or only on-site? You should be able to find what you need fairly easily, and don’t need to compromise on this; do what is best for you and your child. Huntington Learning Center offers on-site tutoring with locations nationwide along with a search function on the website that will bring up a map of its nearby centers. EBL Coaching has tutors at several locations around the New York City area, as well as tutors who travel to students’ homes. What will the environment be like? If tutoring won’t be taking place in your home, it’s important to understand the surroundings where your child will be learning. Since my son has sensory processing disorder it’s important that there aren’t loud electric pencil sharpeners being used while he’s around. During his lessons, distractions and loud noises from sources such as gum, bubble wrap, or balloons need to be avoided. Will you be tutoring my child alone or in a group? Think about what approach might be best for your child. Is he motivated by a group and enjoys being around other children? Or does she struggle with social issues and is easily distracted? Many tutors and tutoring centers have different approaches. Some may start with a 1-on-1 approach and then increase the number of students per teacher (a practice which can help promote independence in the classroom). If you only want 1-on-1 tutoring, let it be known. How much do you charge per session? Is there a sliding scale? Are other fees involved? Make sure your budget includes the extras, such as possible fees for materials or assessments. How long is each tutoring session? What hours are sessions available? If your child struggles with attention issues, you
might want to seek out a place that offers shorter, more frequent sessions. But if you’re trying to squeeze meetings into an alreadypacked schedule of extracurricular activities and therapists, perhaps fewer, longer sessions are what you’re looking for. What’s your policy for cancellations and make-up sessions? Don’t forget to check the policy both ways. What happens if your child is sick? How much notice is required to be able to reschedule without a penalty? What happens if the tutor can’t make it? At a larger center, perhaps a substitute is available, but ask: Will the substitute be brought up to speed on your child before you arrive? How do you evaluate progress? And what happens if my child doesn’t make progress? While you as a parent need to be clear on what progress you’re looking for your child to make, it should also be made clear how the center or tutor evaluates progress. Is it through test scores and report cards, or anecdotes gathered from your child’s teachers? Huntington Learning Center uses more than one approach to form a baseline against which progress is measured, including interviews with parents and teachers as well as research-based tests. Lovallo says Huntington Learning Center actually uses hundreds of different curricula so there is always another way for a student to learn the material. At EBL Coaching, Dr. Levy says each student is constantly measured against his or her original baseline. She assures me that if a student isn’t making progress or responding, the plan is tweaked immediately. How will you communicate with me, and how often? How can I contact you with concerns? Some places opt for in-person meetings, while others include written reports for parents. Will you work with and communicate with my child’s teachers? With six kids, in my house a unified front is sometimes the only way we get through dinner, time-outs, and especially school work. Lovallo says tutors should be in touch with teachers as often as parents—they try to meet with or reach out to teachers at least once a month to make sure progress is being carried over to the classroom.
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This might seem obvious, but make sure that you explain your goals and ask for concrete steps on how they will be met. At the end of our conversation, Lovallo remarks, “You need to understand who is going to be working with your child. When you’re looking for a tutor, you want to make sure the person is qualified, and at our center what is important about us is that we are a research-based, professional institution.” This particularly hit home for me. Many excellent tutors and centers focus primarily on academics and their ability to raise your child’s test score and report card grades. However, this might not always be the main focus for a parent of a child with special needs. My oldest child is seven grade levels behind in math, exempt from New York state testing, and has an IQ hovering in the mid-70s. I just want him to be able to tell time and make change as he gets older. Make sure you and any potential tutor have the same vision for what your goals are and what progress you are seeking ahead of time.
Michaela Searfoorce is a home-schooling mother of six children. She makes time to write in the wee hours. You can find more of her stories at thefoorce.com or thecentralparkzoo.com.
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Our junior farmers program provides all the fun of summer camp while providing invaluable lessons on sustainability and healthy living. Your child will spend their their days planting, harvesting, caring for the chickens, going on bug scavenger hunts, cooking, playing in nature, and lots of time in the sprinklers! Cost: $360 per week *CSA and Sibling discounts available! For more on our 25 week veggie CSA share visit www.rocklandfarm.org
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Dental Wellness of Suffern provides natural, effective, quality dental care for your family, making your visit enjoyable, comfortable, and relaxing. A parent herself, Dr. Alpert enjoys working with children who are apprehensive about the dentist, creating a fun environment with magic tricks, interactive Wii games, a wall mural, and a Find the Dental Helpers game. Author of two books, Cassandra Gets Her Smile Back and Attack of the Sugar Bugs, Dr. Alpert makes visiting the dentist fun. Dental Wellness of Suffern—let them create the smile you were born to have.
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Dr. Crohn graduated from SUNY Stony Brook with a degree in biology. He received his Doctor of Dental Surgery from the University at Buffalo in 1992, and he completed his general practice residency at Danbury Hospital in 1993. Dr. Crohn has done extensive additional training in implant dentistry including training with Dr. Nick Elian at Vistara Institute, DentalXP Symposiums, and training at Zimmerman Institute.
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Dr. David Schaumberger is one of the pediatricians working out of our newly expanded Park Ridge office. As someone who lives nearby, he enjoys working in Northern Bergen and Rockland counties. Dr. Schaumberger completed his pediatric residency from the Mount Sinai School of Medicine in New York and has been working at Tenafly Pediatrics since 2001. On a personal note, he enjoys ethnic cuisine and spending time with his three children. Tenafly Pediatrics is a recent Angie’s List Winner with offices conveniently located throughout Bergen County.
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Rockland Behavioral Health.......................................... 47
Galaxy Gymnastics........................................................ 44
Kreative Kids / Vicki’s Studio......................................... 45
Smile More Dentistry............................................... 18, 46
Tumble-Bee Gymnastics............................................... 19 BIRTHDAY / PARTY SERVICES Academy for Martial Arts............................................... 44 Blue Moon Mexican Café ............................................... 7 Bounce! Trampoline Sports............................................. 7 Galaxy Gymnastics........................................................ 44 Jill’s Ceramics................................................................ 38 K&A House of Bounce................................................... 37 Master Jung & Yu Traditional Taekwondo..................... 33 New City Bowling & Batting Cages................................ 19 Palisades Climb Adventure............................................ 23 Rockin’ Jump - Mount Kisco.......................................... 43 Rockland Parent Party Planner..................................... 48
DEVELOPMENTAL Huntington Learning Center.......................................... 39 EDUCATION Blue Rock School.......................................................... 11
J.E.P. of Rockland......................................................... 33
Kreative Kids / Vicki’s Studio......................................... 45 Lindgren School & Camp............................................... 43 Mathnasium of Nanuet.................................................. 31 Palisades Country Day School & Camp........................ 45
RESTAURANT / FOOD SERVICES Blue Moon Mexican Café ............................................... 7 Palisades Center ............................................................ 2
Red Owl Academy........................................................... 9
RETAIL
Tuxedo Union Free School District - STEM Academy.....27
Palisades Center ............................................................ 2
EVENTS / OUTINGS
Galaxy Gymnastics........................................................ 44
Applause Performing Arts Center.................................. 43
J.E.P. of Rockland......................................................... 33
West Rock Tennis Club................................................... 5
Camp Huntington........................................................... 39
PERFORMING ARTS / ACTING
RELIGIOUS
FAMILY ENTERTAINMENT /
Applause Performing Arts Center.................................. 43
Tenafly Pediatrics.................................................... 31, 47
Huntington Learning Center.......................................... 39
Tumble-Bee Gymnastics............................................... 19
CAMPS
Smith’s Little Smiles Pediatric Dentistry.................. 17, 46
Bounce! Trampoline Sports............................................. 7 Jill’s Ceramics................................................................ 38 K&A House of Bounce................................................... 37
Tilly...A Deer’s Tale......................................................... 33 Toy Box (The)................................................................ 13 Toyriffic 2....................................................................... 47 SERVICES Geico Insurance............................................................ 51
New City Bowling & Batting Cages................................ 19 Nyack Chamber of Commerce........................................ 3
SPECIAL EVENTS
Palisades Center ............................................................ 2
Jewish Week (The).......................................................... 7
Rockin’ Jump - Mount Kisco.......................................... 43
Nyack Chamber of Commerce........................................ 3
Mosholu Montefiore Community Center........................ 43
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Nature Place Day Camp.................................................. 5
Academy for Martial Arts............................................... 44
Camp Huntington........................................................... 39
Palisades Country Day School & Camp........................ 45
Galaxy Gymnastics........................................................ 44
Huntington Learning Center.......................................... 39
Ramapo College Camps............................................... 42
i9 Sports - Rockland County.......................................... 37
Tumble-Bee Gymnastics............................................... 19
Red Owl Academy........................................................... 9
Master Jung & Yu Traditional Taekwondo..................... 33
Rockland Farm Alliance................................................. 44
Palisades Climb Adventure............................................ 23
West Rock Tennis Club................................................... 5
Tumble-Bee Gymnastics............................................... 19
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A&R Advanced Dental .................................................. 46
i9 Sports - Rockland County.......................................... 37
Galaxy Gymnastics........................................................ 44
Clemente Orthodontics.................................................. 46
Master Jung & Yu Traditional Taekwondo..................... 33
Jill’s Ceramics................................................................ 38
Crystal Run Healthcare................................................. 52
New City Bowling & Batting Cages................................ 19
Mathnasium of Nanuet.................................................. 31
Dental Wellness of Suffern................................ 15, 46, 47
Palisades Climb Adventure............................................ 23
Rockland Farm Alliance................................................. 44
Kastin & Newman Orthodontics..................................... 46
Rockin’ Jump - Mount Kisco.......................................... 43
Tumble-Bee Gymnastics............................................... 19
Kupchik Dental, PLLC............................................. 37, 46
West Rock Tennis Club................................................... 5
Kreative Kids / Vicki’s Studio......................................... 45 Lindgren School & Camp............................................... 43 Mathnasium of Nanuet.................................................. 31
SPORTS Academy for Martial Arts............................................... 44 Bounce! Trampoline Sports............................................. 7
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How music lessons helped my child with autism and sensory processing disorder By Michaela Searfoorce
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s a former music teacher, I pride myself on all of the musical ways my children learn in our household. We have mastered the continents, days of the week, months of the year, and even our phone number and address through songs. My kids still can’t say their phone number without singing it. My oldest son, James, was born with a chromosome defect and multiple disabilities, among them autism and sensory processing disorder. Needless to say, his sensory issues and my knack for singing loudly in the car or playing Christmas carols on the piano at home didn’t make for a peaceful household. Instead of me passing on my love for music, we stopped attending concerts and started avoiding birthday parties just to circumvent the pre-song anxiety and the post-song meltdown. At school, I was called in more than once after James had become overwhelmed by a choir concert or classmate’s birthday. It reached a point where it became a given that if his class was performing in an assembly, James would stay back in the classroom. Even movie soundtracks or church hymns were enough to make him put a blanket over his head and start crying. As a musician, this music-phobia was particularly upsetting for me. When James turned 7 we moved to Manhattan. New York City was chock-full of special needs everything, integrated classrooms, sports teams—and as I would soon discover, music classes. After being called several times to pick James up early due to birthday songs, fire alarms, and choir assemblies at school, I decided it was time for drastic measures. With minimal searching online I found Daniel’s Music Foundation, which provides music classes to children and adults with disabilities. When I contacted DMF we were asked to come in for an interview, after which James was formally invited to join in on a drumming and percussion class as well as a recreational music and movement session. Incredibly, James seemed at ease both during the interview and the initial classes, in which he was able to participate as much or as little as he felt comfortable. The volunteers were helpful and friendly, and the other students were eager while not without their own struggles, which seemed to comfort James. It was as if he knew that music was being explored and shared in a safe space, which made the exposure to it less frightening. It wasn’t until several weeks later, when James made it through his first classmate’s birthday without tears, that I realized something incredible was happening. Later that
month, he did not hesitate when we broached the topic about participating in a performance. “Do you want to sing with your class? Up on a stage in front of a crowd?” I asked. “Sure, why not? Everyone in my class will be there,” he reasoned. But even considering this amazing progress, it was with no small amount of anxiety that I headed to his first winter concert at the end of the semester. The auditorium was packed and the audience was very enthusiastic throughout the show. As James walked onto the stage for the last number, people began to cheer and clap along and I could see him starting to lose his composure. I felt a thrill of dread in my stomach—what had I been thinking putting James up on stage when he couldn’t even sit through his own birthday cake? As I watched James grow more and more agitated and began formulating his escape route, a young man hopped up onto the stage next to James and whispered something into his ear. It was Michael Trush, one of DMF’s founders. Within moments he and James were high-fiving and the song reached its conclusion, with Michael and James still standing together. James stood on stage wearing a nervous, but triumphant smile. That miraculous moment occurred eight years ago. I want to make the story more interesting and say it was a long road with detours and U-turns, with setbacks and trials, but it was nothing so dramatic. It was more like finally finding the right exit off of the highway and smooth sailing to our destination from that point on. Many semesters later, James has performed on stage with DMF nearly a dozen times, including with the New York Yankees during HOPE Week and on the field at a Brooklyn Cyclones game. He sings hymns loudly at church and “Happy Birthday” to his siblings. There is a continuous stream of Michael Jackson and John Williams blasting out of his room, and I still can’t help but smile when I ask him to turn it down a little.
Michaela Searfoorce is a home-schooling mother of six children. She makes time to write in the wee hours. You can find more of her stories at thefoorce.com and thecentralparkzoo.com
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