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A Blended Family

How reluctantly raising my son in two homes turned out to be a blessing in disguise

Family Activities Calendar

Find something to do with your kids every day this month, from fairs and farmers’ markets to movies and crafts

back-to-school 16 Choices, Choices, Choices

18 Create a Homework Hot Spot 20 After-School Classes & Programs

Cash for College

Ten ways to ﬁnd scholarships, grants, and ﬁnancial aid online

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 5 Things to Know About Raising an Entrepreneur 12 A Blended Family 34 The Different Ways to Talk to a Baby 36 A Tale of Two Tests 40 Characteristics of Coughs 41 Party Central 42 Meet the Doctor 44 Party Planner 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 Quotables

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38 Cash for College

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Back to School Before You Know It!

on’t hate me for stating the obvious: In just a few short weeks, these lazy, hazy days aren’t going to be so lazy anymore. Though technically it will still be summer, at least for a while, school (or “the S-word” as my daughters like to call it) will be back in session. Maybe you’ll be relieved, glad to no longer have bored children underfoot, demanding to be entertained or bickering with each other. Or perhaps like me you’ll feel as sad as the kids do, mourning the loss of blank-slate days and the endless possibilities that accompany them. It’s also fine to fall somewhere between these two extremes, wistful for all that delicious free time but glad your family will once again settle into a more predictable routine. If you’re the parent of a child in middle or high school, you know that kids in the upper grades have unique challenges. This month we’re tackling some of the major bigkid educational issues out there, offering guidance to help your year get off to a good start. Katelin Walling’s piece “Choices, Choices, Choices” on p. 16 examines the benefits of different types of schools, from public and parochial to charter and beyond, so you can determine what sort of environment will allow your child to ﬂourish. Of course, your home environment should be geared toward your student’s needs too! “Create a Homework Hot Spot” by Lambeth Hochwald (p. 18) shares easy ways to design a study space that will help your student buckle down and excel. And speaking of excelling, for parents of teens, the SAT and the ACT both loom large on the radar. Which test is best for your child to take? The expert insights in “A Tale of Two Tests” on p. 36 will assist you in coming up with the right answer. We’ll also help you tackle the exorbitant cost of higher education with “Cash for College” (p. 38). But don’t worry: We haven’t forgotten those of you with little ones. You’ll definitely want to read Melissa Wickes’ article, “The Different Ways to Talk to a Baby,” on p. 34. Child development pros share how to boost your little one’s speech development—and the way you may unintentionally be sabotaging it. And don’t miss popular kids’ musician Suzi Shelton’s essay (p. 12) about how raising a child under two roofs gave him a strong foundation. Wishing you lots of fun as you get in your last licks of summer!

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oes your son love to sell lemonade on the corner of your street? Is your daughter always making duct-tape wallets and decorating her own jeans? If your child demonstrates an entrepreneurial spirit, you should encourage him to pursue that. Here are five ways you can teach your child to be an entrepreneur, even as a kid, with help from Mark Cuban, owner of the Dallas Mavericks and star of the hit TV show Shark Tank, Shaan Patel, M.D., M.B.A., founder of Prep Expert, an SAT and ACT prep company that was pitched on Shark Tank in 2016, and Ian McCue, a rising senior at UNLV and the founder of Spark Skill, a technology summer camp provider. All three co-authored Kid Start-Up: How You Can Be an Entrepreneur. Be supportive of your child’s ideas. While everyone’s path is different, the first step to starting a business is to get feedback from as many people as possible before spending any money, according to Dr. Patel. So, if your kid comes up to you with an idea she wants to kickstart, encourage her, give her honest feedback and advice, and make her excited about it! Entrepreneurs often have the fear that someone will ‘steal’ their idea, however chances are, even if someone wanted to ‘steal’ the idea, they won’t put in the time, effort, and passion that your child would. “Ideas are cheap, execution is the hard part,” Cuban says. Instill perseverance. When running a business, you are very rarely going to do everything right the first time, McCue says. Unfortunately, school-age kids are often programmed to think you have to. Teaching your child it is okay to fail can make him all the more successful. “You have to be willing to try a bunch of things and accept that only a few will work out. Be persistent,” McCue says. In teaching perseverance, you will also help your child know it may take time to get traction in a business. Dr. Patel suggests committing to an idea for six months to a year before deciding it may not be the best option. He also suggests being aware that 10

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From left: Shaan Patel, Mark Cuban, and Ian McCue, co-authors of Kid Start-Up: How You Can Be an Entrepreneur

some businesses are simply seasonal and will not take off until they are ‘in season.’ “I launched Prep Expert in December, but because SAT and ACT prep doesn’t start until around May, it took about five months to get my first customer,” Dr. Patel says. Teach self-control. This is important because, when starting and running your own business, you regulate your own hours, no one is forcing you to work 9am-5pm at a desk, Dr. Patel says. By teaching your child self-control, even when she is a toddler being told to only eat one cookie from the jar that is filled, you are increasing the odds that your child will one day have a higher income, better relationships, higher SAT scores, and fewer issues involving drugs and alcohol. Encourage him to pursue his hobbies. It may seem unlikely that a kid can really be a master in anything. However, kids become infatuated with things they like, learning every facet of a game, a toy, a sport, an accessory trend, without even knowing they’re becoming experts. “My advice to all entrepreneurs is to start a business that you’re an expert in,” Dr. Patel says. “It’s pretty easy to narrow your ideas down to the things that you actually know and are good at. If you pick one of those things, this gives you a leg up.” Teach her to be a problem-solver. In a world where so many ideas have been thought of and so many inventions have been created, one might ask, where do you even begin brainstorming creative ideas? The co-authors of Kid Start-Up suggest looking at everyday problems, no matter how small, and finding a way to solve them. These challenges are familiar to us, making it easier to think of ways to fix them. Does your son’s phone constantly die before after-school activities? Does your daughter complain her backpack is the same as everyone else’s in the class? Encourage your kids to look to these seemingly small inconveniences for inspiration.

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How reluctantly raising my son in two homes turned out to be a blessing in disguise By Suzi Shelton

hen my son was just 2 years old, his father and I decided to split up. We had tried for a while to make it work, but it was clear we would all be happier apart. For me, this meant our son would live with me full time in our Brooklyn apartment, and have visitation with his dad. For his dad, splitting up meant our son would split his time equally, and live in two homes. This wasn’t something I was ready to accept. There was no way this was going to work out. It couldn’t be in the best interest of our young son. Could it? A very wise family therapist told us, “Yes, actually, it could work out.” And yes, it could be a very happy and healthy way to raise our son. As long as we were both 100 percent onboard. So, I thought long and hard about it, and decided I would get onboard. For our son. At first, it was awful. I hated having to give up Sebastian (still a baby for God’s sake) for half of the week. And overnight! I would hand him over with his little Thomas the Tank Engine backpack with tears in my eyes and a pain in my heart. I would count the hours and then minutes until he came back to me, and I would hold him so tightly when he walked in the door. Except it wasn’t actually about me. It was about Sebastian and the fact that he deserved to have quality time with his Dad. We learned (through our family therapist) how to help Sebastian make this transition easier on himself, and on us. We learned to say things like, “I can’t wait to hear what you did at Daddy’s house,” instead of, “I’ll miss you so much!” And it became our new normal for our son to live in two homes. And have two beds and two sets of toys. And, eventually, two more parents. And Sebastian was fine with this. In fact, he was more than fine. He was happy.

Our blended family (from left): Sebastian (19), Julia (3), Emma (13), and Cole (10)

The thing I didn’t really anticipate with all of this was I would meet my now husband and have another child, and his Dad would marry and do the same, and those “extra” parents and children would be part of our family, too. Our modern family had expanded and grown and there was still quite a lot of love to go around. In fact, when Sebastian was in elementary school, he and his dad wrote a poem called “Mama’s House, Daddy’s House,” which we turned into a song that I put on my second album to share our message with the world…two homes but “one heart—filled with love.” Now almost 18 years later, Sebastian’s dad and stepmom are two of my closest friends. We still share raising Sebastian, and we share raising our other children, too. My 13-year-old daughter has her own drawer of clothes at their house, and their two younger children have the same at my house. My husband and I fondly call them our “stepchildren” since there really isn’t another word for it, and you know what? It works. Our 10-year-old stepson comes over regularly after school to “hang out” and get away from his 3-year-old sister. That same 3-year-old sister calls me “Mama!,” runs into my arms when I occasionally pick her up at preschool, and loves to come over and play with our dog, Penny. They both bring me so much joy. We all decided to spend holidays together instead of alternating Sebastian between the two homes. It’s much easier this way, and actually more fun. I feel like I have four children instead of two. And when I need them, I have three other parents I can count on instead of just one. I feel lucky. I never would have imagined (way back when) that things would have turned out this way, and to be honest, I can’t imagine it any other way now.

Suzi Shelton, an award-winning singer/songwriter for the playground set, has been writing, recording, and performing music for families for more than 15 years. She is the proud mama of two and step-mama of two more. Shelton has just released her fourth solo album and is currently working on her fifth season of Sing with Suzi videos on YouTube for her preschool fans. See and hear it all at suzishelton.com.

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Pom Pom Hand Puppets While we love the summer weather and perfect beach days, sometimes it’s just too hot (or rainy) to be outside with the kids. But keeping them cooped up inside all day without planned activities can sometimes drive us crazy. So pull out the pipe cleaners and hot glue gun to make these hand puppets—a project featured in Debbie Chapman’s “Low-Mess Crafts for Kids”—and then have the kids write and perform a show for you! Who needs a fancy puppet when you can use your hand?! Slide your middle finger into one of these pom pom hand puppets and use your fingers and thumb as the mouth. Hands can be surprisingly funny when you make them talk in a silly voice! Do you want another low-mess craft tip? Look for bags of short pipe cleaners to add to your craft stash. There are no scraps to worry about when you don’t have to cut anything. Try curling a short pipe cleaner into a spiral for one set of eyes. Or use sparkly pom poms to make eyelashes on another one. A small change can inspire a completely new personality for your puppet. Materials • 5 pipe cleaners, 6 inches long (or 3 full length pipe cleaners, cut in half) • 2 large pom poms • 2 small pom poms

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Directions 1. Fold one pipe cleaner in half, then bend it into a “U” shape. 2. Spread apart the ﬂuff in one of the large pom poms. Add a small glob of hot glue into the opening, then press one of the pipe cleaner ends into the glue, pushing the ﬂuff of the pom pom back into place around the pipe cleaner. Repeat with the other end of the pipe cleaner with the second large pom pom. 3. Fold two pipe cleaners in half. Add a small dab of hot glue onto the small pom poms and press them onto the tip of each pipe cleaner half. These will be the antennae. 4. Attach the pipe cleaner antennae to the top of each of the large pom poms using a glue gun. 5. Bend the pipe cleaner antennae slightly so they curve. 6. Take the end of another pipe cleaner and fold the end by about ½ inch. Fold it by ½ inch in the other direction. Continue folding it back and forth, in opposite directions, until you get to the end. Repeat for the last pipe cleaner. These will be the puppet’s eyebrows. 7. Attach the eyebrows to the front of the large pom poms using hot glue. Then attach the googly eyes slightly over the top of the eyebrows, again using hot glue. 8. Your pom pom hand puppet is complete!

Reprinted from Low-Mess Crafts for Kids with permission from Page Street Publishing Co. Photography by Debbie Chapman.

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16 Choices, Choices, Choices: A look at the various school options available in the New York metro area 18 Create a Homework Hotspot: Ten ways to make a dedicated space for your child to successfully complete homework 20 After-School Classes & Programs: Find the perfect after-school program in Rockland County.

Choices, Choices, Choices

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The New York metro area provides families with a variety of school options, allowing you to choose the best one for your child. By Katelin Walling

e all worry about whether we’re making the best choices in raising our kids, and one thing most of us fret over is whether our children are getting the best education possible that is suited to their needs. In a lot of areas in the country, traditional district public schools may be the only option for kids. But living in the New York metro area, we are #blessed with an abundance of choices in addition to great public schools, from charter and independent schools, to magnet, international, and Catholic schools. While one school option doesn’t necessarily provide a better education than another, each type has pros and cons for every individual family. It’s up to you to determine which school setting best suits your child’s needs. Read on to learn more about charter, home, independent, international, magnet, and parochial schools.

Charter Schools

“The most important concept to get is that a charter school is a public school,” says Ian Rowe, CEO of Public Prep Network, a system of three nonprofit charter schools in New York City. But charter schools often have a specific focus, one that typically responds to a need articulated by public school families. Public Prep schools, for example, are all single sex (two schools for girls and one school for boys) and have a focus in STEM education. As with public schools, charter schools are tuition-free, though students have to apply for admission. Public Prep currently admits students via a lottery system due to high demand. Charter schools, though, tend to operate with fewer regulations than traditional public schools and can set their own curriculum. But there is typically an accountability system in which charters are evaluated each year to see if they are meeting the outcomes set by the state, Rowe adds. Plus, there is a renewal process every five years to determine whether the charter is able to continue. “So, there is a much 16

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greater accountability in return for the freedoms you have to operate as a charter,” Rowe says.

Home Schools

There are numerous motivations for a family to decide to home-school their children, from religious and health reasons to a child’s learning style, aptitude level, or schedule (think child actors). There are also numerous options for home-schooling your child, whether you decide to take the lead in teaching, you enroll him in an online home-school program, such as the George Washington University Online High School, or you join a home-school community, such as Classical Conversations. Parents who decide to home-school rather than enroll their child in a physical school need to submit a letter of intent, an Individualized Home Instruction Plan, and quarterly reports by specific dates, according to the New York City Department of Education.

Independent Schools

Also known as private schools, independent schools are funded by tuition and charitable donations as opposed to taxpayer dollars. “It is independently funded for the most part and also independent from the state to a certain degree,” says Scott Nelson, headmaster of Rye Country Day School, a college preparatory day school in Rye. “For instance, we don’t follow the NYS testing program (regents testing program), so we have more independence as far as curriculum choices.” To enroll in an independent school, students have to fill out an application, parents and the student have an interview, and the student has to take an entrance exam, either the Independent School Entrance Exam or the Secondary School Admissions Test, according to Nelson. Though tuition is a factor in attending an independent school, many offer need-based financial aid. For instance, RCDS offers $5.5 million annually to 16 percent of students, Nelson says.

International Schools

A second private school option, international schools are typically multi-cultural and integrate those different cultures into everyday learning. “We have families who hail from all over the world…and we embrace their backgrounds,” says Emily Benson, director of admissions at International Academy of New York in Manhattan. “We celebrate different times of the year that are holidays for those different cultures, and if we don’t actually make a big celebration about it, we at least discuss it.” Many international schools are bilingual. IANY, for instance, teaches Mandarin and Spanish, and students spend almost 40 percent of their time interacting in those languages. “When we have a family coming from say Egypt, we might be studying Spanish or Mandarin, but we will ask that child how do you say this in Arabic,” Benson says of welcoming students’ cultures. “We encourage and embrace these other languages and we find that through the way we teach, our children are not only embracing different cultures...but they are also excited to share their home countries’ language and tradition.” As with other private schools, international schools have an application process, and some require testing while others do not. Many international schools also offer need-based financial aid.

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Another tuition-free public school option, magnet schools are federally funded by competitive grants from the U.S. Department of Education’s Office of Innovation and Improvement. Over the past few years, the NYC DOE has won funding for 31 magnet schools across 12 districts in NYC, says Todd Levitt, senior director of magnet programs of NYC DOE. Due to the grants, the NYC DOE is able to offer specialized thematic programs, innovative curriculum, and diversified approaches to teaching, and provide professional development, partnerships, residencies, and extra funding to support special programs, he adds. These 31 schools have a STEAM/STEM component, and each school follows a theme (architecture, civic leadership, and global conservation to name a few). Partnerships are tailored to each school’s individual pursuits and include Columbia University, American Ballet Theatre, Lego, CUNY, NYIT, Apple Education, and Buck Institute of Education Project Based Learning. The grants allow magnet schools to have state-of-the-art technology, purchase new art and science supplies, and provide specialty rooms like broadcast studios and STEAM labs. Though public schools, the NYC magnet schools have an application process through the NYC DOE Office of Enrollment and the magnet schools, but there is no screening or testing involved in applying. For information about open houses and school tours happening in the fall, email JGallag@schools.nyc.gov or TLevitt@schools.nyc.gov.

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Catholic schools are private schools that follow a traditional curriculum but with an added religious component. Students enrolled in a Diocese of Rockville Centre school, for instance, are taught in accordance with the New York state learning standards and take the same Regents Exam and SAT as public school students, but learning is infused with a religious curriculum directed by the Diocese, according to Gary Layton, director of marketing and enrollment for DRVC. “Because we are a school that is run by a religious institution, we take a more holistic view. It is not just about educating. It is about building character, instilling values. It is about the kindness, the respect they show each other. It is about doing service projects” Layton says. Though the schools in the Diocese are Catholic schools, teach religion courses, and prepare students for their first Holy Communion and Confirmation, not all students practice Catholicism. Those that don’t practice are required to take and pass religion classes, but are not required to participate in religious events or sacraments. DRVC requires applicants to fill out admissions paperwork, and there is a “modest tuition” that is typically supplemented by the Diocese and the Parish that runs the school, Layton says.

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f it seems like your kids find any excuse not to sit down and do their homework, it could be their workstation is lacking in the right light, the right inspiration, or even the right chair. “As parents, getting our kids to focus on homework can be a daily grind,” says Lisa Sugarman, a nationally syndicated opinion columnist and parenting expert. “But by creating a space that entices our kids to sit down and dig into their work, we’re setting them up for success without anyone kicking and screaming along the way. And that means less stress for us and for our kids.” It’s very important to pick a quiet spot without any distractions like TV, devices of any sort, and toys. “Tell your kids that it’s their spot to do their work,” Sugarman says. “Giving your kids ownership of their homework area is a really big deal to a kid. Next, always make sure to help them get invested in the space by encouraging them to help shop for the items they’d like and then set it up and get it organized together.” Now that you know why your kids need a dedicated homework station, read on as Annie Draddy, a professional organizer and co-founder of Henry & Higby, a professional organizing company in New York City, shares 10 ways to get your kids to actually sit down and get their work done—plus products that will help enhance their space. We promise that your kids will thank you later!

in a proper set-up with a table and chair instead of doing their homework on the couch. This way they establish good habits and can properly work on their handwriting and other skills.” Desk Pick: Kids Navy Blue Campaign Desk, $399 (crateandbarrel.com)

Make the space appealing.

By hanging up a corkboard for your kids to pin papers, reminders, and a calendar, you’re keeping important information within sight. “This is a space that should be within reach of their desk so they can easily add/remove important items on a regular basis,” Draddy says. “It can also give them a chance to decorate and personalize their space—and maybe even sketch out a dream board, which will hopefully inspire them to keep using it!” Corkboard Pick: Zig Zag Cork Board, $12.99 (containerstore.com)

Once you’ve carved out a room or space in your home that works for your child and is intended just for homework, make it aesthetically pleasing by adding decorative items such as a colorful accent rug, bookends, and a funky desk lamp that matches their personality. “It doesn’t matter if this spot is in a communal room of the home or a desk in their own room, provided it feels personal to them,” Draddy says. “Ultimately, the goal is to get them to work 18

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The goal here: to select a desk chair that’s as comfortable as it is supportive. “You don’t want a lousy chair to be the reason that your kids are doing their homework in front of the TV,” Draddy says. Chair Picks: Rockin’ Roller Desk Chair, $149 (pbteen.com)

Make it easy to keep a shipshape desk.

Although it may seem obvious, keeping a trash or recycling can near your child’s desk is a win-win. “Not only will this encourage him to throw out old papers, but also—perhaps with a little coaxing—purge the garbage from his backpack on a regular basis,” Draddy says. Bonus points if you encourage your child to routinely empty that trash on her own as part of her chores. Trashcan Pick: Pink or Gray Trash Can, $39 (potterybarnkids.com)

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Keep supplies close at hand.

Stowing supplies within reach of your child’s desk is one of the biggest keys to your kid’s productivity. “There needn’t be twelve trips around the house looking for the tools they need to complete each project,” Draddy says. It’s easy: Just keep pens, pencils, erasers, PostIts, highlighters, three-ring binder paper, graph paper, rulers, and a pencil sharpener within easy reach. “If desk space is an issue, consider making your own mobile supply station that can be easily wheeled in and out of the space when it’s homework time,” she says. “A version of this caddy can also be made for the road if your children won’t always be home when it comes time for homework.” Caddy Pick: Acrylic Accessory Drawers, $12.99-$13.99 (containerstore.com)

Embrace your label maker.

It’s time to dust off your label maker and use it to help your kids stay organized. “Label everything on your supply containers/caddy,” Draddy says, adding that this includes recent tests, papers, and assignment sheets as well as bins containing supplies. “This will help teach your children how to maintain their space and hopefully put an end to the continuing cycle of them asking where to put their supplies when they are done with their homework,” Draddy adds. Label Picks: Simply Remarkable Reusable Chalk Labels, $9.95 or Brother P-Touch PTD 210 Easy-to-Use Label Maker, $24.99 (both on amazon.com)

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Corral those cords.

As your kids get older, homework will often require the use of ACTIVITIES EVENTS MORE technology, whether that’s a laptop, iPad, or other plug-ins, all of which means cord and charging chaos. “Keep your kids’ homework space tidy from the cord clutter by using some of those ingenious products and hacks to help cables stay neat and handy for when it’s time to plug in and charge,” Draddy says. Cord Storage Pick: Cable Twisters, $9.99 (containerstore.com)

Time it right.

If assignments need to be timed, give your kids the tools to manage their own time by keeping a clock or timer on their workspace. “Setting time limits for each subject can help them stay on track,” Draddy says. “This is a life skill that will bode them well in life after school, too.” Timer Pick: Time Timer Original 8 Inch, 60 Minute Visual Analog Timer, $24.99 (amazon.com)

Encourage color-coding.

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Color-coded file folders can be vital to keeping organized. Encourage your child to stow all science papers in a green folder, English compositions in their blue folder, French worksheets in a red folder, and so on. “This helps kids keep their notes organized whether on their desk or in their book bag,” Draddy says. Color-Coded File Pick: White, Pool Blue + Aqua Letter Size File Get advance notice on activities, Folders, $15 (poppin.com)

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AFTER-SCHOOL CLASSES & PROGRAMS The Academy For Martial Arts

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Bright Beginnings Preschool & Childcare

6 Charles St., New City 914-420-5785 2 Mountainview Court, Pomona brightbeginningsofrockland.com We provide a safe, loving environment accredited by the National Association for Family Childcare Accreditation. Two great locations meet your preschool and child care needs for ages newborn to school-age. Owned and operated by a NYS-certified elementary teacher with a literacy specialization, we offer before- and after-school programs, as well as a drop-in for school delays and closures. We work with your schedule, and offer discounted rates for teachers! We are a NYS-licensed facility and follow a full NYS pre-K curriculum. All staff is CPR- and first aid-certified.

Brilliant Minds Daycare and Learning Center

67 N. Little Tor Road, New City 845-535-9658 brilliantmindsdaycare.com myra@brilliantmindsdaycare.com We are a NYS-licensed day care and learning center for children ages 6 weeks to 5 years and after-school care for children ages 12 and younger. Children are taught following a common core-based curriculum and evaluated to ensure kindergarten readiness. Additional activities include baking, Spanish, dance, yoga and exercise, science experiments, daily outdoor play (weather permitting), learning centers with iPads and computers, dramatic play, and art. Infants are cared for in a designated area providing safety and space to rest, play, and eat. Staff is first aid- and CPR-certified. Flexible scheduling.

Coupé Theatre Studio

430 Market St., Nanuet 845-623-2808 coupedance.com For more than 45 years, Coupé Theatre Studio has offered the finest training in all areas of the performing arts. Classes include Ballet, Pre-Pointe and Pointe, Variations, Partnering, Jazz, Contemporary Jazz, Acro, Tap, Modern Dance, Hip-Hop, Theatre Dance, Musical Theatre, Acting, and Vocal Technique. For students ages 3 through adult.

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69 Lake Road, Congers 845-268-4669 Danceworks has been in the Clarkstown area for more than 37 years. The studio offers classes in creative dance, pre-ballet, pointe, tap, jazz, and hip-hop for ages 3 through teen. Danceworks specializes in children—encouraging a friendly and non-competitive atmosphere. Several children have gone on to study at the School of American Ballet in Manhattan. Our adult ballet workout (free babysitting) teaches you to work with your body, not against it. Beginners are welcome, and no special clothing is needed. Free trial classes are available to all. 180 Germonds Road, West Nyack 845-623-4975 jillceramics.com; jillsceramics@aol.com “Where children and adults create their own functional works of art.” Established for more than 36 years, we offer a huge variety of plaster pieces that can be painted and taken home in the same day, or glazed ceramics with a large assortment of finishes. Open Ceramic times and free instruction offered weekly—please call for days and hours. No hourly fees and all supplies are included—you pay one price per finished piece. Come and see our wonderful seasonal items as well; there’s something for everyone at Jill’s Ceramics.

Joffrey Ballet School

434 Sixth Ave., 5th Floor, Manhattan 888-438-3808 joffreyballetschool.com The Joffrey Ballet School offers classes in Musical Theater, Hip-Hop, Jazz, Contemporary Ballet, and more. We specialize in dancers ranging in age from 2-18. We also offer superb adult evening dance fitness classes. The Musical Theater classes for kids are instructed by actual Broadway stars. Come and experience our more than 60 years of excellence in dance training. You will love the way we care for your child’s dance training. Come and grow with us.

Kids Clubhouse Daycare Inc. Preschool & Childcare Summer Program

40 Gregory St., New City 845-570-1549 kidsclubhousedaycare.com 1kidsclubhouse@gmail.com We are a licensed preschool and day care in New City offering a safe, nurturing, learning, preschool environment for your child. Some of our activities include story time, arts and crafts, pre-reading activities, puzzles and games, music, and outside playtime in our large fenced in area. Before- and after-school care program. Open year-round including summer, school vacations, and during

61 Maple Ave., New City 845-634-2202 vickistudio.com Kreative Kids is a toddler and nursery program for boys and girls ages 16 months to 4 years (diapers welcomed)! Classes are divided by age. We offer arts and crafts, music with instruments, singing, creative movement, tumbling, story time, snack time, and early learning skills. Our professional staff balances active and quiet activities, as they provide comfort and love to each child, making separating from parents easy. Classes are kept small to provide individualized attention. We also offer flexible, extended hours to fit your work schedule. 75 Oak St., Norwood 201-784-6400 nvdanceacademy.com nvdance@hotmail.com At NVDA, we offer beginner through advanced classes for both recreational and competitive dancers in all styles, ages 3-18. Since 2006 we’ve been creating an environment in which children can thrive through the art of dance while building lifelong friendships. Incredibly diverse and highly trained faculty teaches in our newly constructed studio that features four beautiful, industrial-inspired dance spaces with sprung floors, one-way parent viewing windows, a spacious student lounge, and comfortable lobby. NVDA is a proud winner of 2018 Bergen Health and Life Magazine Reader’s Choice award!

Palisades Climb Adventure

4590 Palisades Center Drive, Level 4 of the Palisades Center, West Nyack 845-727-3500 palisadesclimb.com Palisades Climb Adventure offers the world’s tallest indoor ropes challenge course. Standing 85-feet tall, it has five levels and 75 unique challenge elements to explore, climb, and conquer. More advanced athletes will find a challenge, while “just for fun” climbers will experience a sense of athletic accomplishment. Our Sky Tykes kids’ ropes course is designed for ages 2-7, 48 inches max, and our new Sky Rail attraction is now open! Both courses are available for birthday parties, other groups, and special events. Book your party today!

Party Pack Crew

917-882-6660 partypackcrew.com We host creative workshops and classes for all ages. Family fun and after-school activities of art, beading, dancing, and crafts. We also create fun and effective fundraising events. We have lots of creative ideas or bring us your own ideas and we will help bring them to life. Our fabulous birthday and themed parties include more than just your favorite characters; we

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Lessons held at HNA Palisade Conference Center 334 Route 9W, Palisades 845-708-5349 phoenixaquatic.com PAC is a USA Swimming program guided by certified coaches for ages 4 through adult. Our programs encompass Swim Lessons, Developmental Age Group Swim Teams, and Master’s Swimming Programs. PAC coaches focus on step-by-step technical development for beginners to Olympic Trial Qualifiers. Try-outs for fall 2018 teams start in August. Check website for details and email us at donwagnercoach@gmail.com to confirm a try-out date and time. Lessons offered at our Palisades location. We also offer our programs out of Stony Brook Swim Club in Hillsdale, NJ and Felix Festa in West Nyack.

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80 Commerce Drive, Allendale 201-574-1800 skyzone.com/allendale Sky Zone is the world’s first indoor trampoline park. Experience “wow”–the weightlessness of bouncing, flipping, and landing into 10,000 foam cubes. Enjoy Open Jump, Toddler Time, Sky Slam, Foam Zone, Dodgeball, and now Sky Wars for ages 8 and older! Perfect for parties, events, groups, and fundraisers.

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285 N. Route 303, Congers 845-589-0990 surgestudioarts.com info@surgestudioarts.com Surge Studio is a true dance home for students of all ages and levels. Experience the Surge vibe, Surge love, and dance technique as you flourish in knowledge, confidence, and life skills that go beyond the dance floor. Perfect for students taking dance for recreational purposes, as well as students who want to take the next step in establishing a professional dance career! High energy, unforgettable memories, and smiles all appear for your child’s experience at Surge Studio, so come surge with us!

Tumble-Bee Gymnastics and Fitness

401 Market St., Nanuet Mall South, Nanuet 845-623-2553 tumble-beegymnastics.com Tumble-Bee Gymnastics, offers programs for boys and girls, ages 10 months to 12 years. Serving Rockland for more than 30 years, our preschool program offers exciting weekly lessons and theme weeks. We are the only gym in Rockland County licensed to

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Vicki’s Dance Studio

61 Maple Ave., New City 845-634-2202 vickistudio.com For more than 30 years, we have been inspiring and motivating students to follow their dreams both in dance and in their lives. Instructors at Vicki’s Studio are dedicated to their students and teaching technique, while creating fun and exciting choreography in our non-competitive studio. We offer beginner to advanced classes for boys and girls ages 2½ to adult, including jazz, tap, hip-hop, ballet, pointe, lyrical, modern, creative movement, boys’ hip-hop, gymnastics, combination classes, and our new musical theater classes. For experienced dancers, we also offer a competitive dance team (try-outs required).

West Rock Indoor Sports and Entertainment Complex

21 Pralle Lane, Nanuet 845-623-3636 westrockindoor.com Rockland’s premier facility for sports training, development, birthday parties, and special events offers programs for children and adults in basketball, soccer, lacrosse, baseball, tennis, and fitness. Our skilled staff ensures your child has the perfect mix of fun, physical activity, and training. Whether it’s our Basketball Academy, Tiny Tots Soccer classes for young children, or Tennis Academy, we offer many programs to meet your child’s needs, no matter the age or ability. Allow West Rock to be your one and only stop for your family’s sports and entertainment needs!

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Summer is almost coming to a close and school is right around the corner, so it’s time to make the most of those last weeks of vacation! What better way to close the season than by doing something memorable with your family? There are many boat rides you can take around the New York metro area, and there’s nothing like being on the water on a hot summer’s day. August also means it’s berry-picking season, so visit a local farm to pick a variety of blueberries, blackberries, and raspberries. Alternatively, you can visit your local farmers’ market to see what’s in season for late summer. Finally, if it’s just too hot to be outside, you can always bring the family indoors for a round of bowling. Stay cool!

BERRY PICKING Greig Farm 223 Pitcher Lane, Red Hook 845-758-1234; greigfarm.com Open daily, 8am-8pm Pick your own blueberries in July; blueberries and blackberries in August; and apples in September. Nursery and garden shop on-site. Kids can feed goats and visit the koi fish pond behind Grandiflora Nursery. The Hudson Daily Valley Farmers Market at the Grieg Farm is open daily, 9am-5pm, offering local vegetables, fruits, eggs, cheeses, meats, fish, flowers, and more from local Hudson Valley Farms. Also visit the Hudson Valley Saturday Farmers Market, open every Saturday year-round from 10am-3pm.

BOWLING ALLEYS Hi-Tor Lanes 40 S. Route 9W, West Haverstraw 845-429-8000; hitorlanes.com Hours: daily, 9-12am Home of the Rockland Red Raider Bowling Team, this bowling alley hosts tournaments along with cosmic bowling on Saturday nights with 20 glow-in-the-dark lanes. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/bowling

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Nyack Farmers Market Main Street Parking Lot, Downtown Nyack nyackchamber.org/nyack-farmers-market Hours: Through Nov. 30: Thursdays, 8am-2pm The Nyack Farmers’ Market features a variety of fresh, local produce, grass-fed beef, a flower booth, and a fresh mozzarella booth. Kids may enjoy performances from the kiddie bands and other entertainment. The market goes indoors to the Nyack Center from December-March.

The River Rose Newburgh Waterfront, 70 Front St., Newburgh 845-562-1067; riverrosecruises.com Rides: This 2-hour cruise aboard the River Rose,, an authentic stern-driven Mississippi paddle wheeler, heads south from Newburgh and includes a narrated tour of historically significant sites such as Bannerman’s Island, the Catskill Water Aqueduct, the Village of Cold Spring, World’s End, and the military academy at West Point. Passengers will also learn the history of the many cities and towns on both banks of the Hudson River. The River Rose also hosts a Sunday Brunch Cruise and a Dinner Cruise, both of which are buffet style. Hours: Narrated Sightseeing Cruise: Usually 2-4pm every Saturday-Sunday, plus some Tuesdays-Thursdays until Oct. 28. Sunday Brunch Cruise: 11am-1pm on Sept. 23 and Oct. 21. See the website for exact dates and times. Cost: Sightseeing Cruise: $22; $16 children ages 4-12. Brunch Cruise: $42; $26 children ages 4-12. Dinner Cruise: $48; $26 children ages 4-12. Free for children younger than 4 on all cruises. Advanced ticket purchase is highly recommended.

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the eight events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Native American Heritage Celebration & Powwow

WHEN: Aug. 4-5, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-8pm WHERE: Anthony Wayne Recreation Center, Exit 17 off the Palisades Interstate Parkway, Bear Mountain AGES: All WHAT: A full contest powwow attracting more than 500 Native American artists, educators, singers, dancers, and performing groups from across the Americas. Enjoy more than 40 artist booths selling crafts, jewelry, and authentic cuisine, plus a tipi raising and more. Visitors can interact with representatives from various tribes, including Lakota, Navajo, Mohawk, Seneca, Cherokee, Aztec, Mayan, Samoan, and Hawaiian. Grand Entry of Dancers: 1pm and 4pm. WHY WE LOVE IT: Celebrate Native-American heritage with a day of dancing, crafts, food, and more! WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $8 ages 6-12; free for children 5 and younger; $6 parking fee. 845-786-2731. redhawkcouncil.org.

Painting in the Park with Pinot’s Palate

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 7, 5:45-7:45pm WHERE: Germonds Park Picnic Pavilion, 10085 Germonds Road, West Nyack AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Enjoy a night in the park while painting a 16-by20-inch masterpiece. Be inspired by local artists who will guide you, step by step, through a featured painting. Please arrive up to 30 minutes early. Registration is required. WHY WE LOVE IT: A chance for tweens and teens to show their creativity! WANT TO GO? $38 per painter. pinotspalette.com.

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Movie in the Park: ‘Jumanji’ (2017) FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 9, 8-11pm WHERE: Palisades Credit Union Park, 1 Palisades Credit Union Park Drive, Pomona AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Spend the night under the stars, and enjoy the hilarious cast of Jumanji in this 2017 remake. Outside food and drink are welcome, but no glass bottles or alcohol. Bring a blanket! WHY WE LOVE IT: Outdoor movies are they best way to watch films with friends! WANT TO GO? 845-354-2111. ramapoparks.org.

Slide The City: Pearl River

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 11, 12-7pm WHERE: Downtown Pearl River, North Henry Street and East Central Avenue, Pearl River AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A family-friendly, giant slip-and-slide party. There will be music, food, drinks, water, and, of course, the biggest slip-and-slide ever to hit asphalt. All participants must have a tube to slide, which will be provided, or you can purchase one for $2 if you wish to take home a souvenir of the fun day. Don’t forget your swimsuit and shoes. See website for more details. Prepaid registration is required. WHY WE LOVE IT: This giant slip-and-slide is the actual slip-and-slide of every child’s dream! WANT TO GO? $25-$50 based on wave times. slidethecity.com.

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Newburgh Jazz Series FREE

WHEN: Aug. 10-24, Fridays, 6:30pm WHERE: Newburgh Waterfront at People’s Park, 1 Washington St., Newburgh AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a free concert in a variety of jazz styles on the Newburgh waterfront, also live shows, gospel, doowop, oldies, and Jewish music. Check the website for more information. WHY WE LOVE IT: Music on the water under the summer stars! WANT TO GO? iloveny.com.

The Music of Tom Petty for Kids

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 25, Doors: 2:30pm; Show: 3pm WHERE: Garcia’s at The Capitol Theatre Featuring The Mighty Fergusons, 145 Westchester Ave., Port Chester AGES: All WHAT: Using the songs created by the most iconic musicians in rock history, The Rock and Roll Playhouse offers games, movement, stories, and an opportunity to rock out to its core audience of babies and kids. WHY WE LOVE IT: A great first introduction to live music and rock and roll legends. WANT TO GO? $12 in advance; $17 day of. 914-937-4126. thecapitoltheatre.com.

Butterfly Weekend

WHEN: Aug. 25-26, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: At 11:30am and 1:30pm enjoy a presentation about monarch butterflies and participate in citizen science by tagging and releasing monarch butterflies as part of Monarch Watch. Spend some time in the Butterfly Tent (one ticket with each paid admission) and make a craft. Admission to Grasshopper Grove included. WHY WE LOVE IT: Discover the beauty of butterflies, moths, and caterpillars! WANT TO GO? $10, $7 children. 845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

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New York Renaissance Faire

WHEN: Aug. 4-Sept. 30, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-7pm WHERE: Sterling Forest, 600 Route 17A, Tuxedo AGES: All WHAT: Travel back in time to an age of adventure! Feast on savory sweets and tempting treats. See amazing acrobats, magical fairies, swashbuckling pirates, and more! Play a game of skill or chance. Stroll our quaint village as the music of the Renaissance surrounds you. Shop the marketplace, featuring more than 100 artisans offering the finest in handmade wares. Check the website for special events and theme weekends. WHY WE LOVE IT: Everyone’s favorite faire is back! WANT TO GO? $29.95; $13 children; $25.95 military and seniors. 845-351-5171. renfair.com. ››

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WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Prenatal Classes FREE

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 6, 5-6pm WHERE: Crystal Run Healthcare, 2 Centerock Road, West Nyack AGES: Adult WHAT: Learn valuable information on how to care for your child, what to expect in the first weeks and months, and when to call the doctor. WANT TO GO? 845-348-1100. crystalrunhealthcare.com.

Family Music Festival FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 8, Tuesday-Wednesday, 7:30pm WHERE: Germonds Park & Congers Station Park, see website for addresses, Clarkstown AGES: All WHAT: This year’s music festival will feature a wide variety of family concert artists and groups. WANT TO GO? town.clarkstown.ny.us.

Munchkin Monday: Summer Concert Series FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 20, Mondays, 11am WHERE: Palisades Center, 1000 Palisades Center Drive, West Nyack AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Bring your dancing shoes and celebrate the summer at this concert series. Located on Level 1 in the East Court. WANT TO GO? 845-348-1000. palisadescenter.com.

Children and Family Programs FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 25, Sundays, 1pm WHERE: Storm King Art Center, 1 Museum Road, New Windsor AGES: All WHAT: Hands-on experiences are created and led by artists, conservators, arts educators, and environmental educators at these drop-in workshops. Check the website for activity details. WANT TO GO? 845-534-3115. stormkingartcenter.org.

Weekly Drop-In at Rockland Baby Café FREE

WHEN: Through Jan. 31, 2019, Tuesdays, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Rockland Baby Café, 14 S. Main St., Spring Valley AGES: Newborn to 2, adult WHAT: Meet and talk to new moms, learn how to make breast-feeding easier, make sure your baby is latching and gaining well, and get tips on pumping, going back to work, and other parenting topics. WANT TO GO? 914-922-2240. rocklandgov.com.

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WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 5, 12-10pm WHERE: Playland Park, 1 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: All WHAT: A special, flat rate of $15 for rides all day. WANT TO GO? Rides: $15; parking: $15. 914-813-7010. playlandpark.org.

NJ Wine Festival

WHEN: Aug. 11-12, Saturday-Sunday, 12-6pm WHERE: Demarest Farms, 244 Wierimus Road, Hillsdale, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Annual food and wine celebration, featuring top New Jersey wines and great entertainment. WANT TO GO? $12; $6 children younger than 21. 201-666-0472. demarestfarms.com.

Car Show

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 16, 5:30-7:30pm WHERE: Congers Lake Memorial Park, Gilchrest Road, Congers AGES: All WHAT: See collectible cars judged for awards. “People’s Choice” trophies will be given to first, second, and third place. Food available for purchase. WANT TO GO? Free admission. 845-268-9700. town.clarkstown.ny.us.

Grateful Dead Tribute Festival

WHEN: Aug. 18-19, Saturday-Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Warwick Valley Winery and Distillery, 114 Little York Road, Warwick AGES: All WHAT: A day dedicated to the music of the Grateful Dead. Check website for band list. Rain or Shine. WANT TO GO? $12 in advance; $15 at the door; $5 children ages 5-12 payable at the door; free for children younger than 5. 845-258-4858. wvwinery.com.

Summer BBQ Thursdays

WHEN: Through Aug. 30, Thursdays, 5:30-8:30pm WHERE: Demarest Farms, 244 Wierimus Road, Hillsdale, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy ribs, chicken, hot dogs, corn, watermelon, beverages, music, and more. WANT TO GO? $19.95; $10.95 children ages 5-12; $5.95 for children 4 and younger. 201-666-0472. demarestfarms.com.

Dead Mans Curve Presents The Wild Hot Rod Weekend 7

WHEN: Aug. 30-Sept. 2, 12-11pm WHERE: Sheraton Crossroads Hotel, 1 International Blvd., Route 17N, Mahwah, NJ AGES: All WHAT: More than 25 bands, celebrities, nostalgia funny cars, dragsters, vendors, a swap meet, and much more! Food truck festival on Sunday, Sept. 2. Come see special guests and custom-car builder Gene Winfield, Dennis Gage of TV’s My Classic Car, and Butch Patrick aka Eddie Munster of the hit TV series The Munsters. WANT TO GO? $20. deadmanscurveusa.com.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Slide The City: Goshen

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 4, See website for times WHERE: Downtown Goshen, Erie Street, Route 201 to Lincoln Avenue, Goshen AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A water-party-meets-block-party with a 1,000-foot slide, live music, food, drinks, and more! WANT TO GO? $45 day of; advance tickets recommended. See website for more details. goshen.slidethecity.com.

Pick Your Own Peaches

WHEN: July 21-Aug. 26, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-3pm WHERE: Demarest Farms, 244 Wierimus Road, Hillsdale, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Features well-manicured trees, spectacular views, and tasty peach varieties—more than 12 varieties of pick-your-own peaches. General admission includes parking, entrance to peach orchard, hay wagon ride, petting zoo, and picnic area with tables. WANT TO GO? $10 per bag with $5 admission. 201-666-0472. demarestfarms.com.

Family Nature Explore: Incredible Insects

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 26, 10am WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Families will participate in fun, hands-on learning activities. Dip a net in the pond, meet animals, and more as you learn and explore nature with your children. Registration is recommended. WANT TO GO? $5 members; $10 non-members. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Rachel’s Rangers

WHEN: Aug. 7-28, Tuesdays, 10am WHERE: Palisades Interstate Park, see website for hike locations. AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Summertime hiking adventures for children on weekday mornings in August. Each hike meets at 10am at a different place in the park and covers approximately 3 miles in 2 hours over relatively easy trails. WANT TO GO? Parking fees may apply. njpalisades.org.

Butterfly House

WHEN: Through Sept. 5, Wednesday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: See if a butterfly will land on your nectar stick or just watch them fly around you as they move between nectar plants. Observe butterfly chrysalis in the chrysalis box, and maybe you will be lucky enough to see a butterfly emerge! WANT TO GO? $5. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

SMARTY PANTS In the Good Old Summertime FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 4, 10am WHERE: Knox’s Headquarters, 289 Forge Hill Road, Vails Gate AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate 100 years of Knox’s headquarters being a historic site. Enjoy Edwardian games on the lawn, tours of and a lecture about the plant sanctuary, and preservation-themed tours of the Ellison House. WANT TO GO? 845-561-1765 x22. palisadesparksconservancy.org.

Early American Tea Party FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 11, 11am-1pm WHERE: Orangetown Historical Museum and Archives, 213 Blue Hill Road, Pearl River AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Enjoy early American and colonial crafts. Make a tri-corner hat, learn to weave, and enjoy iced tea, lemonade, and cookies. WANT TO GO? 845-398-1302. orangetownmuseum.com.

Open Cockpit Weekend

WHEN: Aug. 18-19, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-4pm WHERE: The Aviation Hall of Fame of New Jersey, 400 Fred Wehran Drive, Teterboro, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Fully open cockpits include a very rare Lockheed Bushmaster, a Convair 880 circa 1958, a M*A*S*H Bell helicopter, a Walter Aircraft Rescue & Fire Fighting Truck, and the world’s only surviving Martin 202 Cockpit. Access to the museum is included. WANT TO GO? $12; $9 children and seniors. 201-288-6344. njahof.org. ›› RocklandParent 29

Ridgewood Farmers Market

WHEN: Through Nov. 18, Sundays, 9am-3pm WHERE: Train Station Parking Lot, Godwin and West Ridgewood avenues, Ridgewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Find farm-to-table, fresh produce, homemade jams with unique flavors, preservative-free baked goods, and more. WANT TO GO? Free admission. 201-445-2600. ridgewoodchamber.com.

Ramsey Farmers’ Market

WHEN: Through Nov. 25, Sundays, 9am-2pm WHERE: Erie Plaza, 2 W. Main St., Ramsey AGES: All WHAT: Stroll the market and enjoy a variety of local produce and products, music, children’s crafts, chef demos, and more. WANT TO GO? Free admission. 201-675-6866. ramseyfarmersmarket.org.

BROWSE & BUY Outdoor Craft Show

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 11, 10am-5pm WHERE: The Hermitage Museum, 335 N. Franklin Turnpike, Ho-Ho-Kus AGES: All WHAT: Exhibitors will display a variety of arts, crafts, and photography, including wood work, jewelry, pottery, fiber, soft sculpture, florals, and candles. The museum is open for tours. The show is held rain or shine. WANT TO GO? $4. thehermitage.org.

Crafts in the Park

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 26, 10am-5pm WHERE: Veterans Park, Broadway and Third Avenue, Westwood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Exhibitors will sell a variety of handmade goods, including jewelry, stained glass, pottery, fiber, apparel, soaps, wood crafts, florals, pillows and totes, olive oils, honey, and hand-painted furniture. There will also be homemade pickles, Italian ice, ice cream, kettle korn, and festival foods. WANT TO GO? Free admission. dpjspromotions.com.

Piermont’s Down to Earth Farmer Market

WHEN: Through Oct. 14, Sundays, 9:30am-3pm WHERE: M&T Bank Parking Lot, Piermont Avenue and Ash Street, Piermont AGES: All WHAT: Local farmers and area food makers are brought together. WANT TO GO? Free admission. 914-923-4837. downtoearthmarkets.com.

Suffern Farmers’ Market

WHEN: Through Oct. 27, Saturdays, 8:30am-1pm WHERE: Commuter Parking Lot A, Lafayette Avenue, between Orange and Wayne avenues, Suffern AGES: All WHAT: A family-friendly market with food and craft vendors, children’s activities, and live entertainment. WANT TO GO? Free admission. 845-659-9203. suffernchamber.org.

Farmers’ Market at the Village of Haverstraw

WHEN: Through Oct. 28, Sundays, 9am-1pm WHERE: Village Hall, Maple Avenue, Haverstraw AGES: All WHAT: Support local businesses selling fresh produce, jams, spices, and more. WANT TO GO? Free admission. 845-429-0300. voh-ny.com. 30

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Nyack Farmers Market

WHEN: Through Nov. 29, Thursdays, 8am-2pm WHERE: Downtown Nyack, Main Street Parking Lot, Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Local artists and craftspeople in the region come together to bring locally produced food such as fresh produce, baked goods, sweets, and other great items. WANT TO GO? Free admission. 845-642-0859. nyackchamber.org.

ANIMAL LOVERS Hummingbirds

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 4, 10am WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Learn all about these flying jewels, then take a walk to identify plants that attract them, and maybe catch a glimpse of a hummingbird feeding! Same-day admission to the Wildlife Education Center is free after paid attendance to this program. WANT TO GO? $8; $6 children. 845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

Bird Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 4, 11am-3pm WHERE: Trailside Museum and Zoo at Bear Mountain State Park, 55 Hessian Drive, Highland Falls AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the birds of New York state at Trailside! Visit the bald

eagle, owls, hawks, and turkeys! Enjoy family-friendly activities, including Bird Olympics and the Great Migration Challenge! WANT TO GO? $1 per person suggested donation; $10 parking fee. 845-786-2701 x293. trailsidezoo.org.

Give A Hoot!

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 4, 6:30-8pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 5 and older WHAT: In honor of International Owl Day, join an Environmental Educator for a short introduction to these raptors, plus a visit from a live owl. Then venture outside in search of nocturnal feathered friends. WANT TO GO? $10. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Special Animal Events

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 12 and Saturday, Aug. 18, 11am-2pm WHERE: Bergen County Zoo, 216 Forest Ave., Paramus, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Activities may include crafts, animal encounters, short programs, and exhibit chats. Aug. 12: Elephant Day; Aug. 18: Cotton-Top Tamarins Day. WANT TO GO? $8; $5 for children ages 3-14; $2 for seniors. 201-2623771. co.bergen.nj.us.

Bats for Beginners!

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 19, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Learn how bats use echolocation to play a vital ecological role. Understand more about the only flying mammal in New Jersey, and walk along trails using a sonar detector to search for signs of bat life. Registration is required. WANT TO GO? $10. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

SHOW TIME! Summer Kids Series FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 15, Tuesday-Wednesday, 10am WHERE: Bow Tie Warner Theater, 190 E. Ridgewood Ave., Ridgewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the new classic kids movies all summer long, including Trolls, Ferdinand, Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs 2, and more. WANT TO GO? 201-444-1234. bowtiecinemas.com.

American Idol Live!

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 18, 7pm WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood, NJ AGES: 5 and older WHAT: American Idol is taking the show on the road with the American Idol Live! 2018 tour. The shows will feature this season’s talented top seven finalists with special guest, Season 8 winner, Kris Allen. WANT TO GO? Limited availability. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.

Events at the Lake FREE

WHEN: Aug. 4-28, days and times vary, see website for details WHERE: Crestwood Lake, West Crescent Avenue, Allendale, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live music at the lake, including One Fine Tapestry on Aug. 4 at 8pm, Sunday with Sinatra on Aug. 11 at 7pm, and Slideshow Heros at 8pm on Aug. 26. WANT TO GO? allendalenj.gov.

Movies in the Park: ‘Beauty and the Beast’ (Live Action) FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 29, Field opens at 7:30pm; movie begins at 8:30pm WHERE: Parsons Pond Park, 500 Parsons Pond Road, Across from Express Scripts, Franklin Lakes, NJ AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Don’t forget your blankets, lawn chairs, coolers, and snacks. Refreshments and giveaways sponsored by Kindercare Learning Center at Franklin Lakes. WANT TO GO? franklinlakes.org.

Summer Concert Series FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 30, Tuesdays and Thursdays, 7pm WHERE: Huyler and Davis-Johnson Parks, Huyler Park, Hillside Avenue and Piermont Road; Davis-Johnson Park, Engle Street and Westervelt Avenue, Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Come with your blanket or chair and enjoy entertainment. See the website for schedule. WANT TO GO? tenaflynj.org.

Summer Concert Series FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 30, Thursdays, 7:30pm WHERE: Bowline Point Park, Bowline Road, Haverstraw AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live music outdoors. See the website for schedule. WANT TO GO? townofhaverstraw.org.

5th Annual Summer Concert Series FREE

WHEN: Aug. 2-30, See website for schedule WHERE: The Shops at Nanuet, 5101 Fashion Drive, Nanuet AGES: All WHAT: Family entertainment, activities, and food trucks beginning at 5pm. Music will begin at 7pm. WANT TO GO? 845-367-9450. simon.com.

On The Lawn 2018 Summer Concert Series FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 30, Thursdays, 6:30-8:30pm WHERE: Sugar Loaf Crossing, 1405 Kings Highway, Sugar Loaf AGES: All WHAT: Bring lawn chairs, blankets, picnic baskets, family, and friends. Refreshments will be available on-site. See the website for lineup. WANT TO GO? onthelawnconcerts.org.

Free Summer Movies FREE

WHEN: Aug. 13-22, 10:30am and 7:30pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Take a break from the heat to enjoy great family classic films. Aug. 13: Sing and Ghostbusters; Aug. 22: Coco. WANT TO GO? 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

Coming up next month: SEPT. 9: Italian Feast and Carnival at Tappan Masonic Park Fair Grounds, Tappan SEPT. 16: Ridgewood Fall Street Fair in Downtown Ridgewood, Ridgewood, NJ SEPT. 30: Food Truck Festival at MacCalman Field, Nyack

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Charles A. Dana Discovery Center in Central Park

Families will get a breathtaking view of the late summer sky through powerful telescopes.

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Ever wonder exactly where are we among the stars in the Milky Way? Do we hold a special place among the planets, stars, and galaxies in the universe? Brian Abbott and Jillian Bellovary guide families from Earth to the most distant objects in the observable universe at Astronomy Live: The Grand Tour of the Universe at the American Museum of Natural History on the Upper West Side. Aug. 28, 6:30pm. Age: 9 and older. $15; $13.50 seniors and students. Central Park West and 79th Street, Upper West Side. amnh.org. 32

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Located on the northern shore of the Harlem Meer, this discovery center is Central Park’s newest building and the first to be built primarily as a visitor center. The center offers a variety of community programs and free education, as well as the opportunity to borrow discovery kits, take an official Central Park tour, and learn all about the park. The Charles A. Dana Discovery Center is also home to the catch-and-release fishing program and allows visitors to borrow fishing poles. Visit it: West 110th Street, between Malcom X Boulevard and Fifth Avenue, Harlem Can’t-miss event: Harlem Meer Performance Festival: Calpulli Mexican Dance Company: Aug. 5, 2pm Directions: Approximately a 45-minute drive from New City

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The guitar-wielding Captain Jam and his live band of musicians, storytellers, and dancers take the stage and invite the audience to join a musical adventure—even giving children the chance to come up on stage, play a drum solo, or sing in a microphone at FunikiJam’s Totally Awesome Summer. By the end of the show, imagination, live music, colorful costumes, and lots of audience interaction will have helped Captain Jam complete the three-part FunikiJam mission: to have fun, jam, and celebrate summer around the world. Aug. 12 and 26, 11am. Age: 3-8. $30. Actors Temple Theatre, 339 W. 47th St., Midtown. funikijam.com/offbroadway.

The Coney Island boardwalk has food options and fun for the whole family.

Coney Island Beach and Boardwalk

Between the beach, Luna Park, the boardwalk, the food, and more, Coney Island is the perfect city summer destination. There is no shortage of fun at the seaside amusement park, filled with rides for all ages. Visit the New York Aquarium this summer to view the newly rebuilt Shark exhibit or enjoy a hotdog on the boardwalk. Visit it: West 10th to West 12th streets, Coney Island, Brooklyn Can’t-miss event: Coney Island Sand Sculpting Contest: Aug. 18, 12pm Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 15-minute drive from New City

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6 Revolutionary War Sites to Visit

Plan an educational day trip to get your kids back in the school mindset. By Brigitt Earley

ew York—and Orange County, in particular—played a pivotal role in American history, and now, in partnership with Orange County Tourism (orangetourism.org), current residents and visitors can visit the many Hudson Valley sites that were at the epicenter of the Revolutionary War. Visitors will be transported back to the 1700s through battle re-enactments, lectures, and guided tours at New York’s most famous historical sites. Trace George Washington’s steps to the New Windsor Cantonment where his famous “farewell address” was made, visit the homes occupied by his generals, and tour the forts where the Continental Army defended our freedom. Here, a list of the historic landmarks in nearby Orange County: United States Military Academy at West Point 2107 New South Post Road, West Point usma.edu Bus tours of the Military Academy and the West Point Museum depart the Orange County Visitor’s Center daily. Visitors can also take a ferry to the fortifications on Constitution Island and its charming Warner House from West Point’s South Dock on designated weekdays through September. Fort Montgomery State Historic Site 690 Route 9W, Fort Montgomery palisadesparksconservancy.org Take a hike past the historic ruins where the fierce battle of 1777 for control over the Hudson River turned the course of the Revolutionary War. Guests will get sweeping views of the river, plus see a 15-minute film and view original artifacts and weapons. Special events feature costumed interpreters and demonstrations. Washington’s Headquarters State Historic Site 84 Liberty St., Newburgh parks.ny.gov

In 1850, this property, which was home to George and Martha Washington and served as George’s Continental Army Headquarters, became our nation’s first public historic site. Tour the Dutch-style stone Hasbrouck House and explore Unpacked and Rediscovered, an interactive exhibit that showcases pieces from the museum’s collection. Knox’s Headquarters State Historic Site 289 Old Forge Hill Road, New Windsor palisadesparksconservancy.org Once known as Mount Ellison, this elegant 1754 fieldstone mansion showcases the unique blend of English and Dutch influences in the Hudson Valley’s history. During the Revolutionary War, the property served as a bustling military headquarters for some of Washington’s highest-ranking officers. New Windsor Cantonment State Historic Site and National Purple Heart Hall of Honor 374 Temple Hill Road, New Windsor parks.ny.gov Visit the site of the final winter encampment of 8,000 soldiers, civilians, and artisans during the closing days of the Revolutionary War. The property has also recently become the site of the National Purple Heart Hall of Honor, since it is here that Washington awarded the first badges of military merit. Last Encampment of the Continental Army and Edmonston House 19 Causeway Road, Vails Gate parks.ny.gov In addition to replicated 1782 military huts, guests can roam nature trails and explore an observation tower. Just around the corner, visit the restored 1755 Edmonston House—the headquarters of Generals Horatio Gates and Arthur St. Clair—to see period exhibits, a blacksmith shop, and slave quarters.

Brigitt Earley is a freelance writer and editor based in NJ. She’s a new mom to a baby boy, runs an Instagram account full of the most delicious food she can find (@literallyallthefood), and loves to hate a good barre class.

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The Different Ways to Talk to a Baby There’s more than one method to building up your little one’s speech skills.

alking to your baby can be fun, but it’s not all fun and games. Everything you say to an infant (and even a toddler) influences the way and the speed at which he learns to speak. Narrating what you do every day, singing, reading, speaking in “baby talk,” asking questions, facilitating conversations, and virtually any noises you make when you are around your infant affects her speech development as well as other skills. In all, babies and toddlers need to hear more than 20,000 words a day, according to Krysti Maloney, M.S., CCC-SLP, speech-language pathologist and supervisor at The Suffolk Center for Speech. Clearly you need to talk a lot to your little one. But how should you speak, exactly? Whether you use nonsense words like “ittle-widdle,” sing-song speech, or address her like she is a full-grown adult, each of these approaches has a different impact on your child’s speech development. Certain methods such as baby-babble may come more naturally, while tactics like narrating what you’re doing may feel forced or uncomfortable at first. However you talk to your baby, it is important to recognize the benefits and disadvantages of each method—and know when and how to use each. 34

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Don’t Be Afraid of ‘Parentese’

Many experts have weighed in on the topic of baby talk, saying the best way to teach adult language to a baby is to speak to him as though he is a grown-up. However, ‘parentese’ (also known as infant-directed speech or ‘motherese’), a sing-song voice that puts emphasis on certain sounds, may be the best way to help a baby learn how to speak, according to a new Rutgers UniversityNewark study on infant-directed speech. Parentese refers to the fluctuating speech patterns people use when speaking to babies, according to Corie Viscomi, M.A., CCC-SLP, director and speech-language pathologist at The Speech Studio in Chappaqua. While it may be second nature to speak to your baby in this cutesy, fun manner, you are actually facilitating speech development in doing so. This speech pattern makes it easier for babies to determine which words are the most important to the meaning of what you are saying because you are placing emphasis on the key words in the sentence. “Changing the emphasis, speed, and pitch is a very good thing for infants because it helps kids differentiate between your words and background noise,” Viscomi says. “Motherese tells babies

what words to pay attention to and breaks down speech a little more, and infants need that.” This form of speech will generally fade out gradually in accordance with the baby’s speech development, according to Viscomi, so there’s no need to determine a set time to stop speaking this way. While changing intonation and melody when speaking, using elongated vowels and consonants, and changing pitches, it is important to remember to speak with precise pronunciation and accurate grammar, according to Maloney. Part of speaking in parentese, according to Viscomi, is using a lot of repetition. Lisa Orban, mother of five and author of It’ll Feel Better when it Quits Hurting, found that using repetitive phrases such as ‘Who’s a good baby?’ or ‘Where’s the baby?’ were helpful in teaching her children to talk, but not accompanied by any sort of baby-talk. “I used conversational English with them throughout their infancy going forward and never ‘dumbed down’ my speaking around them,” Orban says. By the time her children entered preschool, Orban says they each had a far wider vocabulary than their peers and had an easier time determining words through context. “They also had a more nuanced understanding of humor and sarcasm, much higher than their age level,” she says. Still, Megan Carolan, mother and director of policy research at the Institute for Child Success in Jersey City, NJ, emphasizes the fact that using baby talk is okay. “Babies babble as they start finding their own abilities and they eventually try to imitate sounds,” Carolan says. “Cooing back and forth with them, especially when they are very little and just starting these noises, is a great contribution to their language development. It’s good to incorporate real words that they might hear more often (bottle, milk, crib, toy) alongside the cute versions like ‘baba.’ It doesn’t need to be one or the other.”

Avoid the Temptation of Telegraphic Speech

Telegraphic speech refers to the way children begin to speak—in shortened phrases, using only nouns and verbs, and omitting the “small words” such as adjectives and articles that make the sentence grammatically correct, according to Viscomi. Examples of telegraphic speech include “more cookie,” “mommy help,” and “doggie run.” “Parents can be tempted to speak the same way to toddlers, assuming that it is easier for them to learn language this way,” Viscomi says. “This is not the case! Young children learn language by hearing language, so it is important to model grammatically correct sentences but in a simple way.” Parents who use telegraphic speech more frequently tend to have children who know fewer words and take longer to learn to speak, according to a 2015 study published in the Journal of Speech, Language, and Hearing. The study observed 55 parentchild pairs in which the children were on average 3 and 4 years old. While speaking this way to your young child may feel natural, it is not recommended, especially to children with delayed language development and autism spectrum disorder.

“Telegraphic speech won’t help the child learn grammar,” Viscomi says. “Kids can’t use proper grammar unless they’re hearing it. If you use the full grammatical structure of a sentence, young kids will be provided with a better language model.”

Facilitate Conversation, Don’t Interrogate

The more words a child hears a day, the better. But this doesn’t mean putting her in front of the TV or downloading apps on his iPad. Make conversation with your child, no matter her age or stage of development. It is important to keep interactions with a child at any age as lengthy as possible, but 1- to 2-year-olds often feel interrogated when we quiz them with a bunch of questions, according to Viscomi. One way to keep the conversation going without putting pressure on your young child is to make statements instead of asking questions. For example, try saying, “Oh, this cow looks hungry, I think it’s going to eat something” as opposed to “What animal is this? What does a cow eat? What does the cow say?” (This tactic is helpful with older kids and teens as well.) “With children who are beginning to exhibit babbling, I often suggest imitating the sounds you hear them make,” Maloney says. “A ‘conversation’ made up of pure baby-babble can be a helpful learning moment—your little one will start to learn the give-andtake of conversation and be more likely to imitate things he hears you say.” Talking about what you’re doing while you’re doing it may feel silly or seem uncomfortable, but it is actually the best and easiest way to incorporate language learning into the everyday lives of kids, according to Viscomi. This kind of learning provides kids with tangible models for new concepts and vocabulary they may not have been exposed to otherwise. “Babies take in so much well before they are able to respond,” Carolan says. “If you have your child in the stroller and you’re in the grocery store, talk about walking down the aisle, picking up pasta for dinner, etc.” Facilitating open-ended conversations even before children can respond fosters language engagement, according to Carolan. It is important to be conscious of the fact that a lot of conversations young children have with adults consist of instruction: “Don’t touch that,” “No,” “Put on your coat.” Instead of leading primarily with instruction, Carolan suggests creating scenarios in which children can choose between options, such as deciding which color sweatshirt they want to wear. This not only fosters a richer vocabulary and language skills, but also self-regulation skills, she says. Reading to, singing to, talking to, and having face-to-face interaction with your child is teaching him way more than you think. Reading is such a huge ‘life hack’ for fostering language development and literacy skills,” Carolan says. “I find that when I try to make up a story off the top of my head, I freeze up. However, keeping a book in the diaper bag is so helpful. Even if we don’t read it word for word, we talk about the pictures and what’s going on.” While the words we choose and the way we use them matter, “the most important thing to remember is to talk to your child,” Maloney says.

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A Tale of Two Tests

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The SAT and ACT for college-bound teens are more alike than different—but one may still be a better fit for your child. By Deborah Skolnik

f you have a teenager, she’s probably planning on taking a standardized test for college admissions. And you almost certainly know there are two main tests to choose between: the SAT and its somewhat newer rival, the ACT. Both tests are operated by nonprofit organizations, follow a roughly similar format, and serve the same purpose: “It’s to try to estimate your potential college readiness,” says Tony DiGiacomo, Ph.D., of Novella Prep, an academic advising, college planning, standardized test prep, and tutoring company in Westchester and Fairfield counties. That being the case, could a child possibly score higher on one or the other? Is it a question even worth asking? The answer, say the people who know best, is yes. Though both tests assess scholastic skills, there are subtle differences between the two. We asked experts to share their thoughts and observations on the SAT and ACT and their design; use their insights to your child’s advantage.

SAT Savvy

The SAT is the older of the two tests, first administered to high school students in 1926. (Its letters, which originally stood for Scholastic Aptitude Test, now merely connote the brand.) But just because the SAT has a more extensive history, is it the better test for your kid? The answer: It depends. Your child may do better on the SAT if he… …attends a public school. Public schools follow the Common Core, a set of standards for teaching and testing math and English. And as it happens, “the person who revamped the SAT [most recently] was one of the key architects behind the Common Core curriculum,” says Greg Kaplan, a college counselor, author of Earning Admission and creator of CollegePath, a free and premium app that 36

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guides college-bound students with advice tailored to their interests and school goals. It should be no surprise, then, that the SAT more closely covers what public-school kids may learn in class. …does well with evidence-based questions. “One of the differences is the SAT allegedly gives you a little more information to use to answer some of their verbal questions,” Dr. DiGiacomo says. “Let’s say there’s a passage and a question—the ACT will tend to just ask the question, such as ‘the main character was courageous because…’ But the SAT will give you a line to look it up. They are pushing evidence-based textual understanding, the idea of being able to look it up and find it.” …has a rich vocabulary. The often-perplexing analogy questions you may remember from your own days taking the SAT are a thing of the past. The reason? “This privileged understanding of vocabulary words wasn’t a way to understand a student’s skill level,” Dr. DiGiacomo says. The SAT creators “have worked very hard to de-emphasize this. If you grow up in a lower-income household, you may not hear the same vocabulary in the home. Even if you go to the same school as a wealthier student, your overall exposure to vocabulary may be limited. But your ability to interpret and defend an argument are learned in school.” That said, the SAT “does a bit more vocabulary [than the ACT] still,” Dr. DiGiacomo notes. …is a big reader and can easily stay focused. “The reading comprehension portion on the SAT is much trickier,” Kaplan shares, so a kid who has a superior ability to pay attention to written material may distinguish himself on the SAT: “They take very boring, dense passages and use them as a pressure point to see who can get through it.”

…hasn’t yet taken Algebra 2 or trigonometry. Both the SAT and the ACT cover this material, Kaplan says, “but the SAT is a more even playing field. The questions are more complex, and they require more creative thinking than the ACT questions. If I have a student who is a year behind in math I tend to recommend the SAT. It’s easier to improvise.”

ACT Insights

The ACT (its initials originally stood for American College Testing but now, like the SAT, just signify the brand) is the newer standardized test, first offered in 1959 as a competitor to the SAT. Your child may do better on the ACT if she…

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…tends to work quickly. If she prides herself on her ability to get through material speedily, and prefers doing so to poring over questions at length, the ACT may suit her. “The SAT offers thirty-three percent more time per question than the ACT,” Kaplan says. But there’s a catch, he adds: “The flip slide of that coin is that the SAT questions are more complex and may require more thought and analysis.” …excels in science. The ACT has a discrete section called science. But, Dr. DiGiacomo adds, “the SAT is offering a science subscore now.” While the score isn’t based on a science section per se, it’s based on similar questions to the ACT science section—“math questions using vocabulary that implies an understanding of sciences, such as orbits and velocity. But they are really at the end of the day math questions,” he explains. …is math-minded “The ACT does cover a little more content than the SAT in mathematics,” Dr. DiGiacomo says—he tracks these subtle variations by creating a matrix of topical differences between the tests. If your child has studied math broadly and extensively, he may be better prepared for the multitude of math topics on the ACT. …likes the security of having a calculator by her side. “The SAT [math] has two parts—calculator and no calculator,” Dr. DiGiacomo says. By contrast, “the ACT lets you use the calculator for the entire test,” he notes. But don’t automatically assume this will always be the case: “Any given year, the College Board [which makes the SAT] and the ACT can change their policy,” he cautions. …is a stickler for grammar. “The ACT is a little more focused on grammar, punctuation, and syntax,” Dr. DiGiacomo says. “The SAT might focus more on a student’s writing style and use of evidence.”

The Power of Personal Preference

While all the insights listed here can be helpful, nothing will inform your child better than first-hand experience. “I recommend for all students to take a real, released practice exam for both the ACT and the SAT. That way you’re comparing apples to apples,” Kaplan says. Use a convergence chart—there are many available on the web—to determine on which test your child scored higher. “Eighty percent of students have a clear-cut preference,” Kaplan continues. “That difference is worth up to one hundred points right out of the gate.” And rest assured that colleges are fine with that: “There is not one college in the U.S. that prefers one [test] over the other,” Kaplan says. No matter which test your child decides to go with, Kaplan recommends she start reading either The Economist or The New Yorker. “They actually pull passages from those magazines in the reading tests,” he says. “Get familiar with the complexity of the language and the structure. Sometimes students like to prepare in a way that doesn’t involve a workbook. When you actually are studying but you don’t feel like it, I think that’s a win.” By making an informed choice, and properly preparing, your child can get a score that truly adds up to success.

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Cash for College

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If your teen puts in the work, she can graduate college with minimal debt. By Barbara Russo

ollege is expensive. Even with financial aid, many students still have to take out loans to help with tuition, books, and other costs that go along with achieving a higher education. This often leaves them in debt long after they’ve graduated. Fortunately, there are many scholarship opportunities out there. The U.S. Department of Education and universities give out billions of dollars in scholarship and grant money each year, according to Debt.org. Other organizations, including private corporations and nonprofit groups, offer scholarships too. This is all money that is given to qualifying students as gifts and does not need to be paid back. The term “qualifying” can mean many different things, depending on the scholarship’s criteria. A student doesn’t necessarily have to excel at sports or academics; scholarship opportunities are available to students from a variety of backgrounds and who have a wide range of hobbies or interests. There’s an abundance of information online about these opportunities, but it can be overwhelming. The good news is, we’ve spoken to some experts and compiled a list of 10 online resources that offer different kinds of scholarships and scholarship information. Keep in mind there are many more scholarship information sites out there. No matter your child’s age, it’s worth it to start looking early so you don’t miss any deadlines—and have time to gather as much information as possible. One important tip to keep in mind before you even launch your favorite Internet browser: Write down your child’s family background and academic statistics and achievements. Almost all of these sites will require this information for setting up profiles or applying for scholarships. “You go to these scholarship search engines, and they’ll want you to enter this specific information. They ask really specific questions about your family heritage and stuff, and that’s what they’re using in their algorithms,” says Kim Stezala, The Scholarship Lady® and author 38

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of Scholarships 101: The Real-World Guide to Getting Cash for College. “If you just hop on the Internet and don’t have that information, it’s going to take you more time.” Now, on to our list:

Scholarships.com

One of the most popular and established scholarship search sites, it boasts more than 16 million registered users. Its free, quick profile format allows you to enter your child’s basic information to get instant match results to potential scholarship opportunities.

Fastweb.com

Owned by Monster.com, the site offers access to more than 1.5 million scholarships. It’s a free student-to-scholarship matching service that uses a quick profile format and also offers an array of college prep tools. Bonus: The site’s new Deals and Promos feature lists discounts available to students from major retailers, including Dell, J. Crew, and Ford.

Scholly

This is both a website (myscholly.com) and mobile app. Like the sites listed above, it uses the scholarship-matching platform to generate a list of scholarships suited for the individual user. The site was founded by Christopher Gray, who grew up in poverty in Birmingham, AL, and was able to win $1.3 million in scholarship money. His experience gave him the idea for Scholly, which has helped hundreds of thousands of students and families find more than $70 million in scholarship awards for college.

JLVCollegeCounseling.com

Founded by Jessica Velasco, a former college-admissions professional, the site provides free information about scholarships, college prep, admission, and financial aid. The scholarships are organized in lists with

deadlines for each month. There are also scholarships based on grade level, major, residence, hobbies, and religion. With 10 years of experience in higher education, Velasco knows how much work it takes to apply for scholarships and recommends students take the time to perfect each application. “Quality is always better than quantity,” she says. “Many times students get so caught up in sending out as many scholarship applications as possible and forget to make sure their applications are of the highest quality. In addition to proofreading applications...students must make sure their applications are unique.”

Cappex.com

Using the popular student-scholarship match system, the free site lists thousands of private scholarships. It also provides more than $30,000 in its own unique scholarships.

Niche.com

Applicants can search by category or get matched to scholarships by creating a quick profile. The site also offers information on college rankings plus an admissions calculator.

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In many cases, a college admissions office is given a budget it can use to give varying amounts of scholarships to incoming students based on merit factors such as high test scores, good grades, or talents. Money that comes this way is renewed all four years of schooling, but each school’s application process is different. “We want students to go on the school’s websites and in the top search window type ‘scholarships,’ and it will tell you, ‘here’s how we handle scholarships, here’s how we get them out,’” says Elizabeth Hartley, owner of Scholarship Gold Consulting. “A school’s website is one of their most powerful tools for scholarships.” Some universities, particularly prestigious ones, have endowments that can provide financial aid to students, Hartley adds. “Even if a family makes too much money to get aid to go to a local state school, they may be able to get money from a more elite school,” she says.

Googling for Dollars

Stezala recommends coming up with list of traits about your teen and family background—things that go beyond academics and can help uncover hidden dollars—and use these terms in your searches. “Is either parent or a grandparent part of the military or a veteran? And is anyone in your family a member of any kind of professional organization or civic group?,” Stezala poses. “I find sometimes that students make the mistake of only doing Internet searches about themselves, so the keywords that they’re using aren’t going to peel back the layers of some of these smaller local scholarships that can really add up.”

Local Community Foundation Websites

Some of these manage what are called donor-advised funds, Stezala says. Donors who may not want to set up their own scholarship program will give their money to a community foundation, and it’s the foundation’s responsibility to collect applications and do the judging. “They are a great resource...even if they don’t give out scholarships, their websites might have links to local scholarships,” Stezala says.

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Parents should be aware of these seven types of coughs. By Opeyemi Daramola, M.D.

oughs are generic symptoms of many different acute and chronic illnesses. Children of all ages may exhibit coughs, mostly from viral infections, hypersensitivity to environmental factors, or as a response to frequent transitions from the cold outdoors to heated indoor air and vice versa. Typically, ill children with a runny nose, cough, and sore throat tend to have the common cold, which they are happy to share with you; a majority of these cases are self-limited and resolve without intervention. However, here are some cough varieties that may raise your eyebrows and prompt medical attention.

The Barking Seal Cough

Sometimes children with colds may develop a sudden barking cough in the middle of the night after sleeping without issues for a few hours. The barking cough then returns for more nights and may be associated with a hoarse voice, a whistling sound while breathing (stridor), or skin between the ribs pulling in during breathing (retraction). This may be a sign of croup—an infection of the airway caused by viruses similar to those that cause the common cold. This can affect children age 5 and younger. Usually, most children get better with conservative therapy, including a cool mist humidifier, rest, and supportive care. However, any sign of croup warrants a phone call and/or visit to the doctor.

The Night Cough That Won’t Go Away

If your child has a dry cough in the winter that rears its head at night or when he runs around, it could be a sign of asthma. This cough may occur with shortness of breath. Many parents have the impression that wheezing must be noted as an absolute sign of asthma, but not all wheezes are asthma and not all asthmatics wheeze. This type of cough should prompt a visit to the pediatrician.

A Cough with Phlegm, Mucus, and Runny Nose

Do you find that your child has a yellow runny nose for weeks with a productive cough? Do they also have a foul mouth odor that you inhale as you kiss them goodnight? This is usually concerning for upper respiratory infections including sinusitis. Viral colds may worsen into a sinus infection requiring antibiotic treatment and nasal sprays. Of note, children with bacterial upper respiratory infections may also develop some temporary snoring from swelling in the nasal passages and at back of their throat.

A Cough Accompanied by a Sneeze

Dry, unproductive coughs lasting for weeks with a seasonal pattern is concerning for allergic hyper-responsiveness in many children. These patients may also have recurrent nosebleeds, chronic red eyes, “shiners” from rubbing the eyes, and bouts of sneezing. A simple nasal spray or temporary course of oral medication can help. Not all children need allergy testing: sometimes the parental history, a simple exam, and trial of medication are all that is needed for peace in the house.

The Coughing Cheerleader

Children with acid reflux, voice overuse, or vocal abuse may have scar tissue on the voice or a polyp. These types of coughs can occur at any time of the year in the absence of all other symptoms and can be confirmed with direct visualization of the voice box.

A Wet Cough

A whistling, rapidly breathing, irritable child with a wet productive cough over a few days may be suffering from bronchiolitis, which is an infection of the tiny spaces in the lungs. Children with pneumonia may share similar symptoms and require medical attention.

The Whoop Cough

When a child (or adolescent) has a chronic cough for several days that transitions into violent coughing fits, gasps for air, and vomiting, your child may have whooping cough. No longer considered a relic from the Great Depression, whooping cough is encountered now primarily because of lack of herd immunity based on vaccination choices. Occasionally, the immunity in adolescents and adults may also wear off and they may get infected. If you suspect whooping cough, discuss this with a doctor immediately. Overall, parents should be reassured that most coughs are self-limited and go away, but some of the ones listed above require more than just a hug and a warm blanket. Your pediatrician will help with most of these concerns but may need to involve pulmonary doctors and/or ear nose and throat specialists when a cough is more than just a cold.

Opeyemi Daramola, M.D., is an otolaryngologist (ear, nose, and throat specialist) at Crystal Run Healthcare. He is board-certified in Otolaryngology - Head and Neck Surgery and completed Fellowship training in Rhinology and Endoscopic Skull Base Surgery at Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine in Chicago, IL. Dr. Daramola provides treatment for a full range of ear, nose, and throat problems in children and adults, and patients with sinus, nasal and intranasal skull base disease, thyroid disease, and voice and throat issues. He sees patients at Crystal Run’s West Nyack office in Rockland County.

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PARTY ANIMALS 1302 Palisades Center Drive, Palisades Mall, 1st floor near Best Buy, West Nyack 914-336-0144 partyanimalsonline.com Whether at our location or yours, Party Animals provides a fun and customized party experience with plush electronic animal rides, bouncy house, arts and crafts, and face painting. ROCKLAND FENCERS CLUB 40 Lydecker St., Nyack 718-697-1440 rocklandfencersclub.com info@rocklandfencersclub.com Rockland Fencers Club is excited to announce its new Private Fencing Party Package for ages 8-16. No experience required and all necessary equipment included. SKY ZONE ALLENDALE 80 Commerce Drive, Allendale 201-574-1800 skyzone.com/allendale Experience “wow”—the weightlessness of bouncing, flipping, and landing into 10,000 foam cubes at Sky Zone indoor trampoline park. Call or check our website for customizable party packages. TUMBLE-BEE GYMNASTICS AND FITNESS 401 Market St., Nanuet Mall South, Nanuet 845-623-2553 tumble-beegymnastics.com Our bright, colorful facility is the perfect place for your child’s private birthday party (ages 1-12). We’ll provide two wonderful, exciting, and energetic party instructors, and free invitations, paper products, and utensils. The birthday child receives a free gift and balloons. Reserve in advance. They book quickly!! VICKI’S DANCE STUDIO AND KREATIVE KIDS 61 Maple Ave., New City 845-634-2202 vickistudio.com We offer a variety of birthday parties for boys and girls of all ages. Great party theme options include Hip-Hop Dance Party & Games Mix, Jumping Gymnastics, Disney Dance Mix, and Dress-Up Princess Party! WEST ROCK INDOOR SPORTS AND ENTERTAINMENT COMPLEX 21 Pralle Lane, Nanuet 845-623-3636 westrockindoor.com West Rock offers the ultimate place to hold your birthday party. Our unique and versatile facility boasts 40-foot ceilings, 26,000 square feet of turf, two regulation-size basketball courts, six Har-Tru tennis courts, indoor bouncers, and private party room. YOUNG CHEFS ACADEMY OF NEW CITY 59 S. Main St., New City 845-638-0601 newcityny.youngchefsacademy.com newcityny@youngchefsacademy.com Birthday party options include “Make Your Own Pizza” or “Little Princess Tea” (ages 4 and older), “Pasta Party” (make your own pasta and sauce from scratch), or “Fun-todo Fondue” with cheese and chocolate for dipping (ages 8 and older).

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Dr. Alpert is excited to offer drill-free, needle-free dentistry with the Solea CO2 Laser. Her practice offers comfortable cosmetic dentistry for the entire family, including implants and full mouth reconstruction if necessary. Dental Wellness of Suffern provides natural, effective, quality dental care to make your visit as enjoyable, comfortable, and relaxing as possible. A parent herself, Dr. Alpert enjoys working with children who are apprehensive about the dentist, creating a fun environment with magic tricks, a wall mural, and a Find the Dental Helpers game.

With 17 years of orthodontic experience, Dr. Brett Kastin prides his practice on conservative early treatment and cost-free childhood dental monitoring, enabling the most effective treatment possible, as well as being a knowledgeable, compassionate clinician and friend. He utilizes state-of-theart materials and customized treatment. Dr. Kastin is a certified Invisalign® provider, has been president of the Rockland County Dental Society since 2006, and was voted Rockland’s “Top Orthodontist” by the dentists of Rockland County for the past 10 years. Initial exams are complimentary, as are children’s recall appointments.

Marita Smith, D.D.S. Smith’s Little Smiles Pediatric Dentistry 5C Medical Park Drive, Pomona 845-414-9626 smithslittlesmiles.com; drsmith@smithslittlesmiles.com

Tenafly Pediatrics 74 Pascack Road, Park Ridge, NJ 201-326-7120 Offices also in Tenafly, Fort Lee, Clifton, Paramus, and Oakland, NJ tenaflypediatrics.com

Sachdev Family Orthodontics 124 E. Ramapo Road, Suite 2, Garnerville 845-786-7736 sfojustsmile.com sfojustsmile@gmail.com Facebook.com/sachdevfamilyorthodontics Instagram: @sachdevfamilyorthodontics

Crystal Run Healthcare 2 Centerock Road, West Nyack 845-348-1100 crystalrunhealthcare.com

Dr. Marita Smith is a board-certified pediatric dentist dedicated to providing excellent dental care for children from infancy through adolescence in a warm and friendly environment. As a mother of two, Dr. Smith knows how important it is for a child to be comfortable and stressfree during their dental visits. Dr. Smith places great focus on prevention and her goal is to keep your child’s smile healthy! Most insurances accepted. Evening and Saturday hours and 24-hour emergency service available. Se habla Español.

At Sachdev Family Orthodontics, we provide individualized braces and Invisalign treatment to kids and adults. Dr. Ameeta Sachdev has been in the dental field for two decades with dual dental degrees from India and U.S. She teaches orthodontics at St. Barnabas Hospital, Bronx. She pays attention to detail, whether it is designing the state-of-the-art office herself or perfecting your smile. Being committed to serve, she is an active supporter of community events and local art. Free consults, most insurance accepted, evening and Saturday hours and 24-hour emergency service available.

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Dr. David Schaumberger is one of the pediatricians working out of our newly expanded Park Ridge office. As someone who lives nearby, he enjoys working in Northern Bergen and Rockland counties. Dr. Schaumberger completed his pediatric residency from the Mount Sinai School of Medicine in New York and has been working at Tenafly Pediatrics since 2001. On a personal note, he enjoys ethnic cuisine and spending time with his three children. Tenafly Pediatrics is a recent Angie’s List Winner with offices conveniently located throughout Bergen County.

Crystal Run Healthcare is a premier multispecialty group medical practice with more than 400 providers, offering the convenience of Primary Care and nearly 50 medical specialties. Our state-of-the-art West Nyack facility offers patients easy access to quality health care with more than 20 medical and surgical specialties, including Adolescent Medicine, Pediatrics, Maternal-Fetal Medicine, Obstetrics and Gynecology, including Urogynecology. Our innovative facility boasts an Infusion Center, Urgent Care, diagnostic testing services, on-site laboratory services, diagnostic imaging, and women’s imaging. Crystal Run also has offices in Haverstraw, Stony Point, and Suffern.

Clemente Orthodontics 603 S. Route 304, New City 845-638-6646 60 W. Ridgewood Ave., Ridgewood, NJ 201-447-2888 clementeorthodontics.com

At Clemente Orthodontics, our patients receive the benefit of experience, quality, and energy that comes with a multigenerational team. Dr. Michael Clemente and his daughters, Dr. Nicole Clemente and Dr. Marissa Clemente, work together seamlessly to care for your orthodontic needs. They run a state-of-the-art practice with digital X-rays, private treatment rooms, impression-free Invisalign, and a highly experienced staff. They are an Invisalign Super Elite Premier provider, offering Invisalign and Invisalign Teen as treatment options. Consultations are complimentary.

Smile More Kidz Meet Your Smile Team 140 Oak Tree Road, Tappan 845-367–4866 smilemorekidz.com

At Smile More Kidz, we are part of a local tradition of providing your children with the very best that dentistry has to offer in a friendly, comfortable setting. Our entire team understands how children develop and learn, and make sure nervous kids feel comfortable and respected. We offer 8am-7pm and Saturday appointments so our patients don’t have to miss school for their care. We believe in building a foundation for a lifetime of healthy smiles by making every visit to our office a fun and informative experience.

Bobby Crohn, D.D.S., Monroe Dental Office 400 State Route 17M, Suite 2, Monroe 845-782-0189 monroedentaloffice.com monroedental@optonline.net

Dr. Crohn graduated from SUNY Stony Brook with a degree in biology. He received his Doctor of Dental Surgery from the University at Buffalo in 1992, and he completed his general practice residency at Danbury Hospital in 1993. Dr. Crohn has done extensive additional training in implant dentistry including training with Dr. Nick Elian at Vistara Institute, DentalXP Symposiums, and training at Zimmerman Institute. Dr. Crohn is a Fellow of the International Congress of Oral Implantologists. He offers state-of-the art treatment including on-site cone beam 3-D imaging.

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