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camp 18 10 Lessons Learned at Camp that Beneﬁt Kids in School

22 Camp Directory 24 Camps-at-a-Glance Chart

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The best parenting quotes from the web, and how your deﬁnition of love changed after becoming a parent!

Staying Inside

Indoor fun in Brooklyn, including hot cocoa spots, play spaces, and indoor water parks

How Babies Learn to Love

Your little one is hard-wired to adore you, and there’s plenty you can do to help build that bond.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 5 Things You Need to Know About Your Postpartum Body 12 A Parenting Mantra 26 Private Schools in Brooklyn 42 How Babies Learn to Love 48 Help Your Teen Get More Exercise 52 Healthy Smiles 54 Professional Services 55 Meet the Doctor 56 Party Central and Open Houses 57 Advertisers’ Index 58 Quotables

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44 House Hunters

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46 Hey Google! Can You Teach My Kid Some Manners...Please?

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t’s cold out there! (Those strange shuffling figures outside your window aren’t extras from The Walking Dead, btw—they’re kids whose moms dressed them in too many layers.) But here inside the offices of NYMetroParents, we’re thinking about summer. Yes, now’s the time to begin making your kids’ camp plans. Bewildered by all the choices? We’ve made it easier than ever for you to find the exact camp that you want. In addition to a comprehensive camp directory, we’ve created an ata-glance chart on page 24. Need a program that offers transportation or lunch? Flexible hours, art, or special-needs services? We break it all down for you with checkboxes—we know you’ve got better things to do than to dig around for all that info! Once you’ve settled on the best camp for your child, it’s only natural to wonder what he’ll get out of the experience. In addition to having lots of fun, he’ll learn some serious life lessons—ones that can turn him into a super student once school is back in session. We asked Stacey Ebert, a former educator, camper, and counselor herself, to share the lowdown in “10 Lessons Learned at Camp that Benefit Kids in School” (p. 18). Of course, February is a month when love is in the air, so check out my story on “How Babies Learn to Love” (p. 42). Don’t expect flowers and candy for a while, but if you know what to look for, there are all sorts of reassuring signs that your relationship with your little one is a two-way street! I’ll walk you through every sweet little milestone. If you’ve got a growing family, you may also be searching for a home to love, and live in, for many happy years to come. For most of us, it will be the largest purchase of our lives. That’s one scary commitment to make! To help you in the process, read Samantha Neudorf’s “House Hunters” story (p. 44). It gives the inside scoop from the pros on how to scope out neighborhoods, figure out how much house you can afford, show sellers you’re serious, and much more. And, in a most unlikely love story, can you get your teen to actually adore exercise? We asked trainers what it takes to get your favorite phone-obsessed couch potato up and moving (p. 48). The good news is, it’s easier than you think, as long as you’re prepared to get in the game yourself. Why wouldn’t you? It’s always a smart idea to work a little more healthy activity into your day. You’ll both look and feel better, and just in time, too—if you ask us, at least, summer is just around the corner.

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5 Things You Need To Know About Your Postpartum Body›› By Bethany Braun-Silva with Marianne Ryan, PT, OCS

o much comes with the territory of getting pregnant. Body changes such as aches and pains, acid reflux, hair growth, and of course, weight gain are all part of the deal. It would be great if these unwanted symptoms would simply go away after a woman gives birth—after all, a new mom has enough to worry about—but that’s simply just not the case. Our bodies continue to change postpartum. It’s important that we are aware of these changes and continue to take care of ourselves along with our new bundle of joy. We asked Marianne Ryan, PT, OCS, physical therapist, clinical director of Marianne Ryan Physical Therapy, and author of Baby Bod– Turn Flab to Fab in 12 Weeks Flat, what women can expect from their bodies after giving birth. Ryan runs a physical therapy practice in New York City dedicated to helping women recover postpartum, so she has plenty of advice to offer. Here, she shares five things women should know about their postpartum bodies: 1. Just because you gave birth, that doesn’t mean you lost weight. Whatever you do, don’t even think of stepping on that scale for at least 30 days after you deliver your baby. I remember breaking down into tears after I weighed myself three days after I delivered my first daughter. I had only lost a few pounds! I asked myself, ‘How can that be?’ My daughter weighed 8½ pounds and the placenta and amniotic fluid weighed about 3 or 4 pounds, so I should have weighed at least 12 pounds less, right? Wrong! Right after giving birth, your body is still going through a lot changes. The amount of fluid you retain can fluctuate hourly, especially if you are nursing. It takes a few weeks for your body to lose the excess fluid you built up during your pregnancy and for your uterus to return to normal size. So as much fun as it may seem to find out how much you weigh, don’t do it; it can drive you crazy. 2. You can exercise, just take it slow. As a general rule I advise women to protect their bodies during the first six postpartum

weeks. For example, don’t lift anything heavier than your newborn baby. If you have an older toddler, try to teach them to climb up to you while you sit on a chair or bed. After your six-week postpartum check up, you can gradually return to pre-pregnancy activities as long as you do not develop pain or have other symptoms that indicate your pelvic floor muscles have not fully recovered. 3. You might still look pregnant. This can be due to a condition called diastasis recti—it’s a separation of abdominal muscles, which can occur during pregnancy and remain afterward, resulting in a protruding belly. To keep it from getting worse, avoid activities that put pressure on your abdomen, such as getting out of bed by doing a sit up. Instead, get out of bed by rolling over onto your side and swinging your legs over the side of the bed before sitting up. And whenever you lift something heavy, such as a grocery bag or a large pot of pasta, exhale to reduce the strain on your pelvic floor and abdominal muscles. 4. You might feel a little leaky. It’s common to experience incontinence right after childbirth, but it is not normal if it continues for more than a couple of months. When you leak urine, it means there is a fault in the system that supports your bladder, and you should seek help to get it fixed. The best way to approach it is to consider going for pelvic physical therapy with a women’s health specialist. 5. Expect some pain. Pain in the back, pelvis, pelvic floor area, or abdomen is a common complaint of new moms, but it is not normal if the pain continues. Make sure to report it to your doctor or midwife. Most people assume pain is just a normal occurrence new moms have to learn to live with, but it shouldn’t be! If you have persistent pain, consider getting it treated by a women’s health care professional such as a physical therapist or chiropractor.

Marianne Ryan, PT, OCS, has mastered the highest level of advanced orthopedic manual therapy techniques. She is a thought leader in the field, known for her special knowledge in the areas of prenatal and postpartum physical therapy, TMJ, and headaches. A frequent lecturer and source for national media, she is also the author of the international best-selling book Baby Bod-Turn Flab to Fab in 12 Weeks Flat, available on amazon.com.

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A Parenting Mantra ››

How one mom’s newfound approach to life—discovered during pregnancy—allowed her to pursue a music career while raising a daughter in Brooklyn. By Janie Barnett

was pregnant when my album, Shake the Ladder, was released. Surprise! While my pregnancy wasn’t planned, my husband and I had always wanted children. So we welcomed the news, albeit with a bit of breathless naiveté. Four months into the pregnancy, we performed at a holiday party for a premier rehearsal studio in New York, with numerous appearances planned for the months ahead. At the end of the evening, exhausted, I said to my husband, “Maybe we have to rethink this schedule.” Rethink. That word was to become our mantra in the juggling of work and parenthood. Yes, there was a master plan, reflecting the needs of two freelancer parents. But executing “the plan” meant embracing a mantra, plus several other bits of wisdom: Nothing is engraved in stone. Every challenge has its unique set of choices. And…be ready to drop everything. I was offered the chance to go on tour when my daughter was just 3 months old. Would we hire a live-in nanny to help my husband? Would I take my daughter with me? We considered these options; then came another moment of recognition. Time to rethink again. That rethink came in the form of an acknowledgment: I had no interest in being away from my daughter for weeks at a time. This clarity brought a kind of relief that surprised me. I wouldn’t wrestle with this particular choice, but how would I keep my career moving forward while being a fully engaged parent? There was no single formula. My daughter loves the fact that her mom is a musician. As a little girl, when someone was singing on the radio or a CD, she would ask, “Do we know her?” But freelance life meant that my young daughter had a babysitter in place right from the beginning. The call to run to the recording studio could come at any time. The babysitter—who, more than 20 years later, I still consider part of the family—was not always available. And my husband, also a freelance musician, was often out working as well. Sometimes I brought my daughter to the studio. The rethink: Maybe my colleagues at the studio will not mind…maybe my daughter will be easy-going…maybe this can be managed in a different way than my working mother had to manage it. She came to the studio and delighted all, while Mommy put the headphones on and sang. On

Janie Barnett’s daughter, Adrienne, who is now 25

several occasions I worked in the studios during school hours, ran to pick her up from school, ate dinner and did the bedtime routine with her, then headed back to the studios for a 10pm recording session. During the elementary- and middle-school years, I came upon one of the most profound gifts to the working parent: the larger community of working families. My daughter had great friends, and those friends had great parents who “got it.” I recall an afternoon, hanging out with friends two blocks over in Brooklyn, when the stress-inducing beeper went off. Mommy was called to the studio. “Sweetie, we gotta go in to town,” I told my daughter. Her response? “Mommy, how about I stay with Barbara?” Barbara was her best friend Julia’s mommy. I teared up. My kid had figured it out. Rethink in the moment: Be flexible. Look for other ways to ride with it. Help, and be helped. Spot the people who are also rethinking every day. Love their kids as they love yours. On a late fall afternoon, walking from the subway to pick up my daughter from science club, I wrote the chorus to a new song in my head. She was 10 then, fully her own person, but she always hoped Mommy would be the one to pick her up. That afternoon I felt the surge of creativity that I knew was borne out of necessity. The old model: I need hours to do my best work, and my sitter to provide me with those indulgent hours. The rethink: Seize the moment! Flip the switch! Get on with it! It’s the advice I got from my cousin, a mathematician, who would work just one step of a proof while her infant daughter napped. Moving into high school years, one might expect that I was “cut loose” from daily hands-on parenting. Few teenage girls want their mother in the trenches with them: “Get outta my face, Mom!” But my girl? Magically, she wanted me right there with her, at least most of the time. Time to rethink again. Just keep yourself in the game, keep expanding your skills, get ready (no, it’s not too late!) for the time when you will fully step away, and have that undivided time again. As a working parent, I learned a lesson that I’ve come to understand is essential for a happy life in general—and it’s a lesson my daughter fully acknowledges she’s learned in our journey together: Be flexible, be ingenious, be ready to rethink. My daughter and I are grateful every day for the relationship that was borne from this fluidity.

Janie Barnett is a performing singer-songwriter in the Americana tradition. Her work and recent album release can be found at janiebarnett.com. She has been part of the New York recording session scene for many years, as well a producer/arranger and educator. Barnett is an Associate Professor at Berklee College of Music in Boston, while maintaining her life in Brooklyn, where her daughter, Adrienne Hanson, was raised.

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alentine’s Day is quickly approaching, and that means hearts, candy, flowers, and cards—especially cards for your kids’ classmates. Rather than buying premade Valentine’s Day cards that are a dime a dozen (how many variations of superhero and popular cartoon Valentine’s Day puns can there really be?), try making these adorable love bugs with your kids for their friends. We’re almost positive these critters will be hanging out on desks long after the holiday has passed. Editor’s note: While this DIY calls for specific brands readily available at Michael’s stores, feel free to use your favorite brands or products that are available in your local craft store.

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Materials: Foam Heart Stickers By Creatology® Creatology™ Pom Poms, Sparkle Mix Creatology™ Assorted Wiggle Eyes Creatology™ Chenille Stems Elmer’s® Washable School Glue Artist’s Loft™ Aluminum Straight Edge Ruler Instructions: 1. Choose a large heart sticker for the Critter’s feet. Do not peel the backing paper off the sticker. Lay it flat on the table with the rounded part of the heart facing forward. 2. Choose a large pompom and glue it to the top of the heart sticker. 3. Optional: Glue a medium pompom on top of the large pompom to create a head, separate from the body. 4. G lue two wiggle eyes to the large pompom. Tip: Another fun way to add eyes is to glue two wiggle eyes to two tiny pompoms and then glue the tiny pompoms to the large pompom. 5. Cut a piece of chenille stem about 2 inches long and fold in half. Glue two tiny pompoms to each end and then glue the folded part to the top of the large Pompom Critter’s body. Let dry. 6. Optional: Choose a heart sticker and glue the bottom pointed end of the heart to the lower back of the body, creating a tail. Craft and photography courtesy and reprinted with permission of Michaels // Michaels.com; share photos of your project with #MakeItWithMichaels.

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18 10 Lessons Learned at Camp that Benefit Kids in School: Sending your children to summer camp has many lasting benefits—especially when it comes to education. 22 Camp Directory: Find day camps, specialty camps, and sleepaway camps in and near Brooklyn. 24 C amp Guide: This camps-at-a-glance chart makes it easier to find exactly what you want in a summer camp.

10 Lessons Learned at Camp that Benefit Kids in School ››

Sending your children to summer camp has many lasting benefits—especially when it comes to education. By Stacey Ebert

t my sleepaway camp, Maryanne was the camp cook. From the time I was 10, she and her husband called me ‘the camper’. The nickname stuck, and it still exists at reunions and on social media messages decades later. Although I never mentioned that tidbit to my high school students (I used to be a teacher), I learned at an early age that relationships matter. Forming bonds matters. And no matter who you are, where you come from, or what position you hold (at camp, in school, or at work), interacting with people allows us to learn lessons we never knew would make such a difference in our lives. There are lessons in everything. Some of the most important ones take shape in our youth while we’re at camp, such as learning to clean up the cabin, clear the dishes, and help out a fellow camper. These, along with other camp lessons—be an

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active listener, pay attention to the little things, and be excited to learn new things—influence us well beyond the camp cabins. Sometimes it’s hard for parents to send their little ones away to camp for the day, the week, the month, or the entire summer. But when they do, it’s clear that these lessons learned in the summer months will last far into kids’ adult years—and more immediately help them in the classroom. Here’s a look at some camp wisdom that can also help kids be better students:

Do unto others.

Campers and counselors share hopes, dreams, fears, challenges, struggles, wishes for the future, and much more. We all bring a different level of baggage and gifts to the table, and all of us deserve to be treated with kindness, respect, empathy, and

compassion. Camp opens minds, breaks boundaries, and enriches souls. As an educator, I taught my ninth-graders about religions and philosophies and how although each has its differences, most have something similar to the Golden Rule: Treat others as you would like to be treated. I learned that lesson at camp far before I ever set foot in a global history classroom, and my students practiced it regularly. Sometimes it meant sharing snacks with one another. Sometimes it meant stepping in when a fellow student was bullied. Sometimes it meant saying hello to a staffer who treated them with kindness. Without question, there is no expiration date on kindness and treating others with respect.

Find your creativity.

My first class at sleepaway camp was painting on rocks. Perhaps that’s not a skill I use on a daily basis, but the message behind it? Definitely. Feel the feelings, listen to your heart, create what speaks to you, and, even if you think it won’t be understood, don’t be afraid to show the world your idea or creation. Students benefit from this on a daily basis. Taking up a musical instrument when their friends’ choices are different, trying out for a school play, expressing oneself through writing, or jumping into graphic design classes are only some of the ways that creativity shines in school settings. These lessons apply in education, in the arts, in job performance, in hobbies, and in life.

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Learn new things.

I rode my first horse, became a lifeguard, and learned how to make a one-match campfire at camp. Each of these was fairly terrifying, yet today I continue to use all of these skills (well, most of them). The desire to learn things doesn’t end when the buses leave camp on the last day. From the first day of school onward, learning things is part of a student’s existence; perhaps it’s a new scientific equation, a new culinary technique, a new sport in physical education, or a new way of interpreting a classic novel. Learning new things keeps our minds open and our continued on next page ››

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I have three best friends from sleepaway camp. One loved horseback riding, one adored farming, one was a fan of arts and crafts; three of us became lifeguards; and all of us became counselors. Later in life, three of us became educators and two of us took to the creative arts. Theater arts, community service, music, sports, and internships are only some of the many avenues out there, and whether we are young or young-at-heart, there is always a place for all of us. These four words embody the characteristics of many of my favorite counselors, and I passed those lessons and skills on to campers when I became a counselor. Sometimes kids were homesick and a positive attitude boosted their spirits. Sometimes kids were frustrated when they tried something new, and persistence and perseverance were the lessons of the day. And sometimes some kids took longer at learning, accepting, or changing, and patience was more important than our counselors ever knew. Every day in the classroom, students put these lessons into action. They try harder at math, work diligently at acquiring a second language, and use mindfulness techniques to bring their positivity to light. We may outgrow the ability to be campers, but we never outgrow the need for these significant lessons— especially in a learning environment.

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perspective broadening. Whether traditional schooling, home schooling, or the learning that comes from being out in the world, the yearning for more knowledge, more culture, more skills, and more growth never fades.

Try new things, especially if they make you uncomfortable.

There was a giant rock called Geronimo on the shoreline at camp. I always thought those who climbed it and jumped off were exceptionally brave. I was petrified to try this myself, yet somehow when I wiped the foamy sea from my face and came up for air, I felt exhilarated. The idea of being afraid, taking a deep breath, and doing it anyway applies to core classes in school and far beyond. Walking into a new high school, not having any friends in your lunch period, or deciding to join the Robotics Club when everyone else is going to chorus—every day at school there’s a bit of discomfort, but applying this lesson from camp creates ease, lessens stress, and empowers youth. Later in life, my best friends from camp and I lived in other parts of the world, grew gardens, raised children, started businesses, got married, and even made new friends. Each of these things involved stepping beyond our comfort zone, yet even the bumps and bruises along the way have been incredibly worthwhile. George Addair is right: “Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear.”

Show empathy.

At every camp I went to and worked at, at some point in the day, there was swimming of some kind—whether it meant walking down more than 200 steps to the beach or leaving the locker room, getting a buddy, and heading to the pool. The exercise it provided was good for both mind and body, but the empathy learned through swimming sessions delved deeper. Learning to swim is scary. For some campers, it’s their first time seeing open water. Some have had a traumatic experience in the water and must overcome something far more challenging than stepping their toes over the many unsteady rocks. Some take longer to learn one portion of a stroke before moving on to the next. The instructors taught all of us with ease, kindness, patience, and most importantly empathy. Throughout the school year, students put into action those life lessons: listening to understand each other, utilizing each others’ strengths, lending a hand with each others’ weaknesses, and being aware of various needs and abilities.

Diversity matters.

There were approximately 10 campers per cabin, five cabins per unit, and nearly 15 cabins that formed all of upper girls camp at my summer camp. If an outsider took a straw poll, the diversity levels would have rated off the charts. The differences made us stronger, taught us tolerance, built community, empowered empathy, encouraged perspective, raised our awareness of others’ journeys, and made us better people. School is much the same; there are as many differences as there are students in a school, from backgrounds and traditions, to interests and

hobbies, to family units and dreams for life after school. Seeing these differences as vital, enriching, and encouraging creates safe spaces, enables growth, and opens minds. A classroom has 30 different students with 30 different stories. Each peer has merit, value, and purpose. Camp teaches us to embrace them all.

Sharing is caring.

Everyone is a teacher at camp. Debbie inspired me to be a lifeguard. Katie shared her love of travel, inspiring me to go off on my own adventures. Millie taught me to cook. Krista taught me to swim and shared her snacks. Each of them, along with many others, shared their wisdom. Each camper and counselor has something to offer, creating a sense of community that in turn benefits students and schools. Campers, and later students, learn that school is a safe space where adults share wisdom and advice, and guidance comes in many forms. Some students learn best from a teacher, others confide in their coaches and advisors, some chat with the nurse, cafeteria workers, librarians, or the many others who are a part of the school setting. Students become better friends, better learners, and are more willing to put their talents out there in the world. Compassion, knowledge, and talents are shared at lunch tables, in after-school activities, and in the classroom. It truly does take a village, and embracing that mindset creates a culture of community-minded youth.

Be proud of your achievements.

As a sleepaway camper, I couldn’t wait for Sunday night’s council fire. That was when the entire girls camp got together and sang songs, and one cabin was awarded Honor Cabin. People got their swim certificates, and the whole camp celebrated newly appointed lifeguards. As an aquatics director at a day camp, I gave out swimmer of the week certificates to various campers. As a student, it feels good to have your work honored, your creations displayed, and your efforts encouraged. Success isn’t built overnight and learning to take pride in your achievements begins at camp and continues into school—and later into adulthood. At camp I learned from an early age to strive for goals, be proud of achievements, and continue reaching for the next, often seemingly unattainable, goal. My camp brochure had pictures of open water, cool cabins, enticing evening activities, animals and arts, fields and farming; it looked as if you could jump directly into all of the fun. The pictures couldn’t possibly quantify the learning that happened, all of the skills acquired, the positive experiences, or the personal growth that took place. Ask any former camper what they remember and you’ll get stories of escapades with friends, cool counselors, awesome activities, and endless fun. Ask them what they learned at camp and be prepared to settle in for an infinite list of hard skills, soft skills, and life lessons that helped turn them into the person standing in front of you today. Camp lessons aren’t scored on a rubric or a bubble sheet, on a multiple-choice assessment or in a three-page essay. These lessons stand the test of time, open minds, build bridges, impart skills and wisdom, and create communities of happy, kind, fulfilled humans. It’s hard to imagine a better score than that.

Stacey Ebert is a camper at heart who has spent more than 25 years in the camping and education industries in New York as a teacher, club advisor, counselor, and aquatics director. She is a published writer, blogger, event planner, volunteer manager, and educator always in search of joy. She loves travel, spending time outside, and is an avid yogi. She has visited more than 50 of the world’s countries, and met her Australian-born husband while on a trip in New Zealand. Check out her blog at thegiftoftravel.wordpress.com.

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3159 Flatbush Ave. Jason Vasquez, Youth Programs director 718-758-7510 jason@aviatorsports.com Jenna Jones, Hospitality Department manager 718-758-7549 jenna@aviatorsports.com aviatorsports.com/summer-day-camps Aviator Sports Summer Day Camp is a traditional summer camp located within Floyd Bennett Field in Brooklyn. The camp is separated into four divisions: Junior Camp, Younger Division, Older Division, and Teen Division. Campers will have 15 peers within their coed group, with two general counselors, and one head counselor, and overseen by a division leader. Our dedicated and highly trained staff will ensure each camper has a safe and fulfilling summer experience through low camper-to-staff ratios and individualized attention. Groups follow a daily rotating schedule of five activities a day.

Brooklyn Waldorf School

11 Jefferson Ave. 718-783-3270 brooklynwaldorf.org/culture/ summer-camp Educational enrichment extends beyond the classroom at Brooklyn Waldorf School! BWS offers Summer Camp for Early Childhood students, starting the week of June 26. Early Childhood students have the chance to explore Prospect Park to take nature walks, engage in relaxed play, have snack, and also have ample time for rest. For more information, please visit brooklynwaldorf. org/culture/summer-camp.

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CBE Kids Camps offer campers a summer of new experiences! The Elementary Division (ages 4½9) includes swimming, sports, music, gymnastics, arts and crafts, nature, and circus arts. Movin’ On, CBE’s Travel Camp, uses the Temple House as a base for daily trips in and around Manhattan, two overnights, electives, and special events. Ha’Geemnasia, CBE KIDS Hebrew Camp, offers native Hebrew-speaking counselors. Hebrew is integrated into the daily activities such as swim, sports, art, cooking, and dance. Transportation is available.

The Learnatory

St. Francis College, 180 Remsen St. 347-787-0435 thelearnatory.org dthompson@thelearnatory.org The Learnatory Summer Camp is the fast track to developing kids for 21st-century success! Academic growth, personal development, and professional preparation are all rolled into one fun-filled summer of excitement at The Learnatory! From math to music, reading to robotics, summertime becomes a memorable experience for kids ages 7-17 as they do new things, make new friends, and keep their minds sharp. Your child could kick-start a pathway to success with more than 30 innovative courses that are so much fun, they won’t even notice they’re learning!

Mill Basin Day Camp

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through ninth grade. There are five individual camps, each with unique and innovative programming. Bring the family for a personal tour of the facility and discussion of the camp program.

The Park Slope Day Camp

Ronny Schindler, executive director 718-788-7732 parkslopedaycamp.com For 27 years, Park Slope Day Camp has been providing Brooklyn families with a safe, nurturing, and unique day camp experience. Located in Park Slope, Windsor Terrace, Carroll Gardens, and Bay Ridge, we offer a wide variety of activities and options including traditional, circus, soccer, and travel camps. Flexible and accommodating schedules for parents; professional management; enthusiastic, caring, and welltrained staff; air-conditioned buses; transportation to and from camp in most Brooklyn locations; accredited by American Camp Association. Be part of the spirit that has kept us growing for 27 years!

Smart Start Early Learning Center

8411 Fort Hamilton Parkway 718-921-1868 smartstart@verizon.net Summer Fun at Smart Start is an extension of our preschool program with the addition of water play and fun outdoor activities. Enrollment options include our regular school day program (8:30am-3pm), our full-time program (7am6:30pm), and a five-week, part-time (9am-12pm) summer program. Your child’s day will be filled with fun and learning. Activities include art, music, and movement, outdoor playtime, and center time. Smart Start Early Childhood Center Inc. is licensed for children ages 2-5. Call 718-921-1868 for further information or check us out on the web at smartstartecc.com.

Stepping Stones Nursery School

245 86th St., Bay Ridge 718-630-1000 Stepping Stones-The Next Step 9321 Ridge Blvd. 718-630-1001 steppingstones86.com steppingstones86@aol.com Stepping Stones believes in engaging every child in large and small muscle activities, sensory and discovery exploration, social interaction, and creative expression for ages 2-9. Join us for a fun summer camp at which your child will be creating fun activities, traveling on local trips, going to the park, playing with water in our playground, and learning in themed lessons and enrichment classes including yoga, science, and no-bake cooking. Stepping Stones is open from 7am-6:30pm from July 2-Aug. 24.

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347 74th St. (corner of 4th Avenue and 74th Street) 718-238-7676 silbekidz@aol.com Treasure Island provides each camper with a nurturing, supportive, intellectually stimulating environment that promotes learning and exploration; builds self-esteem and self-confidence; empowers each child; promotes socialization, kindness, and empathy; builds upon the diversity of our campers; and encourages campers to be independent and unique individuals. Campers explore exciting themes and enjoy enrichment experiences such as Kindermusik, cultural dance program, and the creative movement program “Jump for Joy.” Outdoor water play is an essential part of the camp experience. Maria Nogueria, director.

YMCA Summer Camps

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environment. They also build robots, go on field trips, shoot hoops, learn to swim, make new friends, and laugh all summer long! Our creative, educational camp programming—structured around the Y’s values of caring, honesty, respect, and responsibility—helps campers reach their fullest potential, physically, mentally, and emotionally. With six locations in Brooklyn, find the perfect camp for your child! Visit us at ymcanyc.org/camp to learn more today!

SPECIALTY CAMPS The Bible Speaks Academy

5205 Foster Ave. 718-629-4559 tbsbrooklyn.org info@tbsbrooklyn.org With more than 30 years of solid Christian education and academic excellence, The Bible Speaks Academy is offering an exciting S.T.E.A.M. Summer Enrichment Program that meets the needs of families, and will be fun and challenging for students! We look forward to investing in students who have various skill sets—the visionary, the builder, the team player. We offer Computer Literacy, 3D Modeling, Web Design, Animation, Spa Science, and academic enrichment that includes foundational and character-building principles, (recognizing the child’s need for a fun summer experience, and learning throughout the year).

Brienza’s Academic Advantage

Several locations in Brooklyn and Staten Island. Call for a location near you! 718-232-0114 brienzas.com Brienza’s Academic Advantage offers a wide variety of academic programs for students attending kindergarten through 12th grade. We specialize in reading and math tutoring along with TACHS, SHSAT, Regents, SAT, and ACT preparation. Our programs provide students with the opportunity to increase their skills and knowledge, enabling them to reach their full potential and gain motivation and confidence. Programs offered are tutoring in all subjects, test preparation courses, Mandated Summer School

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234 Roosevelt Hall, 2900 Bedford Ave. 718-951-4111 bcprepcenter.org For 40 years, The Preparatory Center for the Performing Arts at Brooklyn College has offered private and group classes in music (piano, winds, percussion, brass, traditional and Suzuki strings), theater (audition prep, acting, and musical theater), and dance (from ballet to hip-hop and beyond), for children and teens of all levels. Prep Center’s Teen Division also includes Live-Action Filmmaking and Beat-Making classes, focusing on the newest technologies in film and composition! Our professional teachers, well-known experts in their fields, encourage students’ growth at all levels. Registration is underway for our spring and summer.

Camp Clio

Held at Camp Claire 15 Oakland Ave., Lyme, CT Middlesex County Camp 298 E. Haddam Moodus Road, Moodus, CT 212-472-5207 campclio.org Camp Clio and our new Camp Clio Teen offer a unique experience for adopted children (ages 9-12) and teens (ages 13-16). Camp Clio campers and counselors (themselves adopted and serving as role models) share the intimacy and safety of being with other adopted friends, providing the opportunity to share feelings and adoption stories with others who understand adoption without explanation because they are “just like me”—all in a fun camp environment. Camp Clio Teen: July 1-13. Camp Clio Youth: July 1-21. Campers may come for one or more sessions. Scholarships available.

Chelsea Piers Sports and Entertainment Complex Summer Camps

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chelseapiers.com/camp Located along the Hudson River, Chelsea Piers is a 28acre sports village that offers NYC’s biggest and most flexible summer camp program! For 22 summers, athletes of all ages have enjoyed the most dynamic sports curriculum available. With up to 11 weeks and 15 sports to choose from, we have a camp for every athlete and schedule. Our coaches are dedicated yearround to provide athletes with a clean, safe, friendly, and fun environment. Transportation service from many Manhattan and Brooklyn neighborhoods, and after care are available. Summer Camps run June 18-Aug. 31. Early bird pricing available through May 18.

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Williamsburg, Sheepshead Bay, Bay Ridge/Dyker, Park Slope 347-983-2229 ftkny.com Summer camp is designed for children ages 4-10. Sessions last for one week at a time. We have full- or half-day sessions available. Fast-paced, fun, and fully interactive, these learning adventures will captivate and entertain as they deliver truly meaningful lessons. Nine enrichment topics are explored. Math and English classes, as well as computers, arts and crafts, puzzles, games, and yoga are offered. Call for details!

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94 Luquer St. 718-576-3514 keylab.nyc info@keylab.nyc Keylab offers flexible scheduling and pricing for summer camps! Our camps are educational, inspiring, and fun! Booking a camp experience at Keylab is a great way to get your kids involved with music, film, podcasting, and more. Camps run Monday-Friday, 9:30am-3:30pm, for kids ages 6-12 of all skill levels. Book a full five-day camp, a single day, or purchase three-, five- or, 10-day camp packages. The more days you book, the better your price! Visit keylab.nyc/ camps, email info@keylab.nyc, or call 718-576-3514 for more information.

Leif Ericson Day School’s Summer Creative Arts & Music Program (SCAMP)

1037 72nd St. 718-748-9023 ledsny.org Leif Ericson Day School’s Summer Creative Arts and Music Program begins its 20th year of fun this June through the end of July. Children in pre-K to seventh grade enjoy computers, art, music, movement, and drama. Professional, caring staff and junior counselors are enthusiastic and attentive. Limited group size allows for a more fulfilling experience. All activities are onsite. Two snacks provided daily. SCAMP hours are 9am-3pm with “Early Bird” care (8am) and “Late Bird” care (5pm) for additional fees.

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This 40,000-square-foot museum is a destination for nearly 250,000 children and adults each year and offers educational and cultural experiences through events, activities, and 14 interactive exhibits (including a new traveling exhibit, Dinosaurs: Land of Fire and Ice™ through May 13). The LICM Theater offers live, family-focused performances with Q-and-A sessions, photo-ops, and meet-and-greets after each show. Visit it: 11 Davis Ave., Garden City; 516-224-5800; licm.org

A visit to this indoor play space will please both parents and young kids alike—while children run around the more than 8,000-squarefoot facility, parents can enjoy a cup of coffee or snack in the café. Cup O’Fun Café has a BEAM virtual playground, a miniature rock wall, a multi-level climbing unit with slides, a train table, a special area for infants, and more. Visit it: 6 Rockaway Ave., Valley Stream; 516-872-2600; cupofuncafe.com

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Ski, snowboard, or go tubing at this mountain destination that has equipment rentals and instruction for all ages. Enjoy gliding down a snowy hill and simply ride your tube back up via a surface lift. Campgaw Mountain offers a variety of terrain for all abilities as well as short lift lines and uncrowded trails—perfect for families. Open through March 31 (weather-dependent). Visit It: 200 Campgaw Road, Mahwah, NJ; 201-327-7800; skicampgaw.com

A visit to the Maritime Aquarium is an opportunity to get up close to marine life such as harbor seals, sea turtles, crabs, and lobsters. Curious kids can learn more about creatures such as stingrays, jellyfish, and sharks through touch experiences and the whole family can enjoy a film on the large IMAX® screen. Visit It: 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT (Metro-North New Haven Line); 203-852-0700; maritimeaquarium.org

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Story Time: Kabir Sehgal presents ‘Festival of Colors’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 3, 11:30am WHERE: Greenlight Bookstores, 686 Fulton St., Fort Greene AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Spring is here, and it’s almost time for Holi, the Indian Festival of Colors. Siblings Mintoo and Chintoo are busy gathering flowers to make into colorful powders to toss during the festival. And when at last the big day comes, they gather with their friends, family, and neighbors for a vibrant celebration of fresh starts, friendship, forgiveness, and fun. WHY WE LOVE IT: This interactive story time with Kabir teaches kids about a wonderful winter festival. WANT TO GO? 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com.

BAMkids Film Festival

WHEN: Feb. 3-4, Saturday-Sunday, see website for schedule WHERE: BAM Rose Cinemas, 30 Lafayette Ave., Fort Greene AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Brooklyn’s favorite children’s film festival returns for its 20th year, presenting the best shorts and features from around the world, representing 31 countries in total. This year’s fun-filled program showcases curated selections from the top children’s festivals in North America and the renowned Jim Henson Foundation. WHY WE LOVE IT: Stop by BAMcafé before or after your screening for performances and a host of fun activities. WANT TO GO? $14; $10 for children 13 and younger. 718-636-4100. bam.org.

Events for Youth and Families: The Language of the Drum with Bambara Drum and Dance Ensemble FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 10, 1-2pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Branch, Dweck Center, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Black History Month with Bambara Drum and Dance Ensemble! Led by founder Joseph Barnes and artistic director Jewel Love, 30

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Bambara brings the black aesthetic from its beginnings in Africa to the present day with high energy and creativity WHY WE LOVE IT: The intergenerational company encourages cross-cultural understanding by celebrating traditional African culture. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

Brooklyn Center for the Performing Arts Presents: Lunar New Year Celebration

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 11, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Kumble Theater, 1 University Plaza, Downtown Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the oncoming arrival of spring with a festival of Chinese music and dance commemorating the Year of the Dog. This family-friendly event includes graceful dancers, a colorful Chinese marketplace, and red lions and golden dragons frolicking to the sounds of traditional instruments. WHY WE LOVE IT: This show highlights the elegant splendor and rich culture of one of Brooklyn’s most vibrant communities. WANT TO GO? $25. 718-951-4500. kumbletheater.org.

Mural Making in the Garden FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 15, 6:30-8:30pm WHERE: Groundswell, 540 President St., #1A, Gowanus AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Murals and public art not only beautify neighborhoods, but they can deepen community connections and spark public dialogue. Hear from artists and community gardeners who have gone through the process of creating murals for their gardens. WHY WE LOVE IT: Learn the ins and outs of creating a mural at your community garden. WANT TO GO? 212-602-5300. nycgovparks.org.

Lunar New Year in Prospect Park FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 16, 12-4pm WHERE: Prospect Park, Lincoln Road and Ocean Avenue, Prospect Park

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AGES: All WHAT: Bundle up and celebrate the holiday by finding out what your favorite park animals are doing this winter. Join Alliance naturalists to discover the winter survival strategies of animals that live in Prospect Park. Enjoy nature games, science activities, bird watching, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: Join Alliance naturalists in learning more about the animals in the Audubon Center’s collection and even assist in an actual feeding. WANT TO GO? 718-965-8951. prospectpark.org.

Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

Jazz for Kids: Timbalooloo

Dance with MMDG FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 17, 11am WHERE: National Sawdust, 80 N. 6th St., Williamsburg AGES: All WHAT: Timbalooloo strives to fundamentally reimagine the way music is taught and language is formed. Through fun games, stories, songs and movements, children engage with rich musical and cultural heritage. The method was developed by internationally renowned musician Oran Etkin. WHY WE LOVE IT: Children learn to express themselves by making instruments come alive and speak the language of music. WANT TO GO? $20; $5 children. 646-779-8455. nationalsawdust.org.

‘The Secret Subway’

WHEN: Feb. 20-23, Tuesday-Friday, 10:30am, 11:30am, 12:30pm, and 2pm WHERE: New York Transit Museum, Boerum Place and Schermerhorn Street, Downtown Brooklyn AGES: 5-12 WHAT: The streets of New York City in the 1860s were overcrowded with streetcars, horses, and people, prompting inventor Alfred Ely Beach to secretly construct a brand-new, air-powered train underground. Join Beach on opening day of his revolutionary “Broadway Pneumatic Railway” and discover the excitement of traveling via subway for the very first time. WHY WE LOVE IT: This show explores a little-known moment in NYC transportation history. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children ages 2-17. 718-694-1600. nytransitmuseum.org.

‘Marvel Universe Live! Age of Heroes’

WHEN: Feb. 22-25, Thursday-Sunday, see website for times WHERE: Barclays Center, 620 Atlantic Ave., Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Marvel fans won’t want to miss this live, action-packed battle to defend the universe from evil. This all-new show unites Spider-Man, the Avengers, the Guardians of the Galaxy, and Doctor Strange in a race against time to recover the Wand of Watoomb before Loki gains control. This ancient artifact would allow Loki to achieve his eternal quest to crown himself ruler of the universe. WHY WE LOVE IT: With cutting-edge special effects, aerial stunts, and immersive video projection, fans of all ages will be immersed in the Marvel Universe. WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 718-933-3000. barclayscenter.com.

Block Party Exhibit

WHEN: Through June 30: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm; Thursday, 10am-6pm WHERE: Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 145 Brooklyn Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Experience a real Brooklyn block party in the middle of winter. Come hang out on the stoops at this cultural celebration featuring street games such as hopscotch, jump rope, and skelly; sidewalk chalk drawing; mixing tunes at a DJ booth; “grilling” some summer treats; and getting to know your neighbors. WHY WE LOVE IT: This exhibit features photographs by Anderson Zaca, who has been documenting block parties in New York since 2005. WANT TO GO? $11; free for children younger than 1; pay as you wish on Thursdays, 2-6pm. 718-735-4400. brooklynkids.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 3, 3-4pm WHERE: Mark Morris Dance Center, 3 Lafayette Ave., Fort Greene AGES: All WHAT: This free class is taught by Mark Morris Dance Group company members and accompanied by live music. The featured repertory is Pepperland, taught by Domingo Estrada Jr. and Nicole Sabella with accompaniment by Ai Isshiki on piano. WANT TO GO? 718-624-8400. markmorrisdancegroup.org.

Black History Month: Bedford-Stuyvesant FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 3, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Herbert Von King Park, Clifton Place and Marcy Avenue, Bedford-Stuyvesant AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Discover the history of Bedford-Stuyvesant and the African-American community leaders that had a positive impact on the neighborhood. WANT TO GO? 212-360-2777. nyc.govparks.org.

Martin Luther King’s The Drum Major Instinct FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 4, 2-4pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Branch, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This dramatic reading by acclaimed actors of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s final sermon delivered 50 years ago, The Drum Major’s Instinct is a powerful, cautionary speech about the impulse in all humans to be first. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

Earth Line FREE

WHEN: Through Feb. 17: daily, 8am-11pm WHERE: 99 Plymouth, Plymouth and Main streets, Dumbo AGES: All WHAT: Created using ordinary household refuse, this installation consists of a 3-D representation of the New York City skyline as seen from Brooklyn Bridge Park, as well as a series of photographs highlighting the intricate detail of the work. The New York-based artist’s installation reveals the impact of the city landscape, and the objects the same city discards. WANT TO GO? brooklynbridgepark.org.

Kids Week Brooklyn: Fort Greene History and Colonial Games FREE

WHEN: Feb. 20-22, Tuesday and Thursday, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Fort Greene Park Visitor Center, Myrtle Avenue and Washington Park, Fort Greene AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Head to the park and join Urban Park Rangers for free Kids Week programs. Topics covered include colonial games and trees. WANT TO GO? 718-722-3218. nycgovparks.org. ››

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The Pneumatic Subway

WHEN: Feb. 16-25, Tuesday-Sunday, 1:30-2:15pm WHERE: New York Transit Museum, Boerum Place and Schermerhorn Street, Downtown Brooklyn AGES: 5-12 WHAT: In 1870, inventor Alfred Beach caused a sensation when he opened his experimental subway powered by air. Kids will learn more about his unique design and use air power to conduct experiments of their own. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children ages 2-17. 718-694-1600. nytransitmuseum.org.

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Puppetry Masterclass: Building Rodette-Style Puppets

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 3, 7pm WHERE: BAM Fisher, Hillman Studio, 321 Ashland Place, Fort Greene AGES: 13 and older WHAT: North Carolina-based puppeteer Tarish “Jeghetto” Pipkins teaches participants the mechanics of his signature-style hybrid puppets, which combine elements of marionette and hand puppetry. His innovative process leaves participants with new techniques for creating and manipulating puppets that are dynamic in both movement and expression. WANT TO GO? $25. 718-636-4100. bam.org/kids.

Nature Illustrations (Beginner) FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 10, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Salt Marsh Nature Center - Marine Park, East 33rd Street and Avenue U, Marine Park AGES: All WHAT: Illustrate the landscape, waterway, and wildlife of the salt marsh. The workshop will take place indoors and basic materials will be provided. WANT TO GO? 718-421-2021. nycgovparks.org.

House Party: Movers and Shakers FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 10, 12-5pm WHERE: BRIC Arts Media House, Gallery at BRIC House, 647 Fulton St., Fort Greene AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The February party will be a day to celebrate the movers who make change and the shakers who challenge the status quo. Enjoy hands-on art making, gaming and technology exploration, storytelling, and live performances. WANT TO GO? 718-683-5600. bricartsmedia.org.

Nature’s Workshop: Natural Fibers FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 24, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Fort Greene Park Visitor Center, Myrtle Avenue and Washington Park, Fort Greene AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Learn how to extract fiber and dyes from natural plants, and try your hand at tying and weaving techniques using cordage made from plant fiber. WANT TO GO? 718-722-3218. nycgovparks.org. 32

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Art Adventures

WHEN: Through March 28: Wednesdays, 11:15am-12:15pm WHERE: Spark by Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 1 John St., Dumbo AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Each week children and caregivers explore art in the Spark studio, experiment with materials, discover hidden objects from the BCM collection on scavenger hunt challenges and create masterworks in this 1-hour class. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $36. 718-852-2470. brooklynkids.org/spark.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Sundays@Senesh

WHEN: Through March 25: Sundays, 9am-12pm WHERE: Hannah Senesh Community Day School, 342 Smith St., Carroll Gardens AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Bring the little ones to this Sunday morning programming and indoor playspace that includes a full-size, sunlit gym play area that encourages exploration, interaction, and discovery. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-858-8663. hannahsenesh.org.

Storytime & Sensory Lounge

WHEN: Through March 28: Wednesdays, 10-11am WHERE: Spark by Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 1 John St., Dumbo AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children and caregivers explore their senses in this interactive

class that includes song, storytelling, dramatic role-play, and an art project with different materials to explore every week. WANT TO GO? $36. 718-852-2470. brooklynkids.org/spark.

Lavender Blues Music & Movement

WHEN: Through March 29: Thursdays, 10:45-11:45 am WHERE: Spark by Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 1 John St., Dumbo AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Teaching musician Lavender Blues explores music, movement, and rhythm with children in this jam session. During this class kids develop an understanding of rhythm and music, build awareness and control of their body, as well as develop social and coordination skills. WANT TO GO? $36. 718-852-2470. brooklynkids.org/spark.

Ice-Skating Season

WHEN: Through April 2: Monday-Thursday, 9am-5:15pm; Friday, 9am-9pm; Saturday, 11:30am-9pm; Sunday, 11:30am-5:15pm WHERE: Le Frak Center at Lakeside, Prospect Park, Parkside/Ocean avenues entrance or Lincoln Road/Ocean Avenue entrance, Prospect Lefferts Gardens AGES: All WHAT: The Samuel J. and Ethel LeFrak Center at Lakeside is open for ice-skating. In addition to public ice-skating, the LeFrak Center features figure skating, ice hockey, and curling; indoor and outdoor dining at Bluestone Café; and an array of special events and public recreational programming. WANT TO GO? $6 weekdays; $9 weekends and holidays; $6 skate rentals. 718-462-0010. lakesidebrooklyn.com.

The Little People Party Open Play

WHEN: Through June 1: Monday-Friday, 10am-5pm WHERE: The Backyard, 196 N. 14th St., Williamsburg AGES: 6 months to 3 years WHAT: The Little People Party is a children’s entertainment company with a current pop up tot party held at an indoor soccer field. The giant, enclosed, Astroturf-covered field is decked out with games and toys for kids and the bar sells refreshments for the adults. WANT TO GO? $20. 646-707-4372. facebook.com/thelittlepeopleparty.

New York Road Runners Open Run FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Tuesdays, 7pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park, Pier 6, Atlantic Avenue and Furman Street, Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Open Run is a community-based initiative that empowers local volunteers to bring free weekly runs to local neighborhood parks all over NYC. All runs are directed by volunteers, and courses are usually between 2½-3 miles. Open to all ages, experience levels, walkers, strollers, and dogs. WANT TO GO? 718-222-9939. brooklynbridgepark.org.

ANIMAL LOVERS Breakfast with the Animals

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 10, 9-10:30am WHERE: New York Aquarium, Surf Avenue and West 8th Street, Coney Island AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy a light morning meal of “people food” along with child-focused activities incorporating movement, discovery, crafts, and guided and free play opportunities. Education instructors help facilitate an engaging and fun experience for all. Finish the fun with an amazing animal encounter. WANT TO GO? $45; $40 members. 718-265-3474. nyaquarium.com.

Early Morning Bird Walk: Backyard Birds FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 16, 10-11am WHERE: Prospect Park Audubon Center, Lincoln Road and Ocean Avenue, Flatbush AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Join the Prospect Park Alliance and learn about the Great Backyard Bird Count and search for your favorite “backyard bird.” Find woodpeckers, chickadees, and nuthatches eating from feeders along Prospect Park’s nature trails. WANT TO GO? 718-287-3400. prospectpark.org.

Nature Walks with Brad Klein

WHEN: Through March 4: Sundays, 11am-12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden Visitor Atrium, 990 Washington Ave., Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Join naturalist Bradley Klein and look for birds, mammals, and insects that remain active in winter, and observe clues hinting at life sleeping through the season. WANT TO GO? $15; free for children younger than 12. 718-6237200. bbg.org.

Brian and His Wild Animals FREE

WHEN: Through March 11: Sundays, 12:30pm WHERE: Temple Israel, 315 Forest Ave., Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Brian Wild and his interactive animals are coming to Temple Israel. Learn about animals and their lifestyles, and parents will receive handouts that will help them talk to their children about the Jewish value of caring for animals. This event is sponsored by the Dr. Ronald Avis Foundation for Temple Israel. WANT TO GO? 718-727-2231. templeisraelsiny.org.

Live Animal Adventure

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Saturday-Sunday, 4:15pm WHERE: Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 145 Brooklyn Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Join a museum educator for this popular live animal show. Learn about and touch an animal from the museum’s living collection. WANT TO GO? $11. 718-224-5863. brooklynkids.org. ››

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AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Stolen Moments introduces teen audiences to jazz music’s rich history and to the names, faces, and music of some of its many masters. It also highlights the interplay between the jazz movement and the evolution of American culture throughout the 20th Century, emphasizing the ways in which jazz has acted as a unifying force—bridging cultural, ethnic, and economic differences—and influenced other genres of music. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-951-4500. kumbletheater.org.

Stomp, Clap & Sing with FunikiJam’s City of Hope FREE

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MUSICIANS Inspirations and Tributes: An African American Lineage

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 3, 2pm WHERE: The New York Philharmonic, 129 W. 67th St., Merkin Concert Hall, Upper West Side, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: A musical program exploring how composers influence and pay tribute to each other. Attendees are invited to arrive early (12:45pm) to take part in YPC Overtures, when children meet Philharmonic musicians and try out orchestral instruments. WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 212-875-5656. nyphil.org.

Events for Youth & Families: Shine and the Moonbeams FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 3, 1-2pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Branch, Dweck Center, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Shine and the Moonbeams create a soulful musical extravaganza that captures the sweetness, uncertainty and simplicity of youth. Guitarist John Heagle currently plays with the faux French garage-rockers Les Sans Culottes. Singer-songwriter Shawana Kemp’s other gig is teaching social studies in a NYC public school. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

The Knights: Love Sick Family Matinee

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 4, 2pm WHERE: BRIC Media House, 647 Fulton St., Fort Greene AGES: 5 and older WHAT: At this 1-hour family matinee, The Knights will introduce your little ones to classical music in a fun, relaxed, and interactive setting. WANT TO GO? $14; $10 in advance. 718-683-5600. bricartsmedia.org.

Stomp, Clap, and Sing with Conroy Warren FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 13, 11am-12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Branch, Dweck Center, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy the power and pleasure of Jazz, Calypso and Reggae through singing and dancing in this interactive performance with versatile entertainer Conroy Warren. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

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WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 27, 11am-12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Branch, Dweck Center, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: This family-friendly event features Motor City Motown, with Love from Paris and New Orleans Mardi Gras. Seating is limited and available on a first-come, first-served basis. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

The Yellow Sneaker Puppet Show

WHEN: Through March 14: Wednesdays, 10-10:45am WHERE: Blue Marble Ice Cream, 186 Underhill Ave., Prospect Heights AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Kids will love this 45-minute interactive sing-along with puppets, combining original songs, oldies, and traditional children’s music. Bring your little ones to sing, clap, dance, and shake their sillies out. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 siblings. 718-399-6926. bluemarbleicecream.com.

Sing-Along with Ari the Singalong Guy

WHEN: Through June 29: Fridays, 11am WHERE: The Knitting Factory, 361 Metropolitan Ave., Williamsburg AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Ari leads kids in an interactive sing-along with a rock-show feel, filled with classic songs that everyone knows and a few easy-to-learn originals sprinkled in. WANT TO GO? $10 per family. 347-529-6696. aribrand.com.

Shabbat Songs and Stories FREE

WHEN: Through June 29: Fridays, 9:30-10:15am WHERE: Kings Bay Y at Fort Greene Clinton Hill, 309 Grand Ave., Suite 1, Clinton Hill AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join every Friday morning to wrap up the week and celebrate Shabbat as a community. Neighborhood families are encouraged to join with students from the Early Childhood Programs for music, dancing, stories, and snacks. This event is open to all, regardless of background. WANT TO GO? 718-872-9445. fortgreeneclintonhilly.org.

SHOW TIME! Treehouse Shakers’ ‘Under the Tangle’

WHEN: Feb. 1-3, Thursday-Friday, 11am; Saturday, 1pm WHERE: Gelsey Kirkland Arts Center, 29 Jay St., Dumbo AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This is the original dance-play about an adolescent girl who becomes ensnarled in a labyrinth after the sudden loss of her parents. Throughout her journey, she twists along the brambling pathways being confronted with obstacles, finding numerous clues, and meeting many unusual characters: a flock of birds, the daunting labyrinth guards, and the Queen of the Lost perched upon a grim tower. WANT TO GO? $20-$35. 212-715-1914. treehouseshakers.org.

‘The Magic City’

WHEN: Feb. 9-11, Friday, 7pm; Saturday, 2pm and 7pm; Sunday, 2pm WHERE: BAM Fisher, Fishman Space, 321 Ashland Place, Fort Greene AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Nine-year-old Philomena’s inner world materializes as a pintsize metropolis of found objects in this magical retelling of Edith Nesbit’s 1910 fantasy novel. She copes with the loss of her parents and the challenges of her new blended family, eventually finding a way to reconcile her Magic City with the reality of the world outside it. Includes pre-show workshop and post-show Q-and-A. WANT TO GO? $16. 718-636-4100. bam.org/kids.

‘The Perfect Monster’

WHEN: Through Feb. 16: Friday, 7pm; Saturday-Sunday, 2pm and 4pm WHERE: TADA! Youth Theater, 15 W. 28th St., Chelsea, Manhattan AGES: 5-12 WHAT: A young science nerd sets out to create the perfect friend in the basement, but ends up with a room full of marvelous, mischievous monsters. WANT TO GO? $25; $15 children. 212-353-9585. tadatheater.com.

‘Sesame Street Live! Let’s Party!’

WHEN: Feb. 9-19, Thursday-Monday, see website for times WHERE: The Theater at Madison Square Garden, 4 Pennsylvania Plaza, Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Introducing an all-new, interactive show that unfolds on one of the world’s most famous streets at the funniest, furriest party in the neighborhood. Check out the pre-show experience for the opportunity to tour the on-stage neighborhood. WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 800-844-3545. sesamestreetlive.com.

Magic at Coney

WHEN: Through March 18, Sundays, 12pm WHERE: Coney Island Museum, 1208 Surf Ave., Coney Island AGES: All WHAT: Magical Promotions together with Coney Island USA presents an afternoon of fun and wonder for the entire family. Enjoy a magical variety show highlighting a vast array of magicians and featuring illusionists, escape artists, and mentalists from around the world. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 for children 12 and younger. 347-699-4386. coneyisland.com.

Tiny Tot Theater

WHEN: Through March 29, Thursdays, 9:30-10:30am WHERE: Spark by Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 1 John St., Dumbo AGES: 3-5, adult WHAT: Join the enchanting world of puppets and stories in this class for children and their caretakers. Along with a storyteller/puppeteer from Spellbound Theater, you and your child will explore creative play, movement, and puppet making. WANT TO GO? $36. 718-852-2470. brooklynkids.org/spark.

‘The Prince and the Magic Flute’

WHEN: Through April 1, Saturday-Sunday, 12:30pm and 2:30pm WHERE: Puppetworks, 338 6th Ave., Park Slope AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy this classic fairly tale as performed at the Smithsonian Institution and incuding glimpses of Mozart’s original score. Adapted for marionettes by Nicolas Coppola. WANT TO GO? $10; $9 for children younger than 12. 718-965-3391. puppetworks.org. ››

Spellbound Theatre: ‘Babywild’

WHEN: Feb. 23-25, Friday, 3:30pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am and 11:15am WHERE: The Old Stone House, Washington Park, Third Street and 5th Avenue, Park Slope AGES: Newborn to 2, adult WHAT: What does the world look like through the eyes of a baby? In this playful performance, a regular-seeming home is transformed into a magical world of surprising discoveries. Babies, toddlers, and their caregivers touch, climb, and explore along with the performers and puppets. WANT TO GO? $15. 718-768-3195. spellboundtheatre.com.

Kids’ Night on Broadway

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 27, see website for times WHERE: Various theaters, see website for theater addresses, Theater District, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Take your child to see a Broadway performance for free during this one-night-only event. Particpating shows include Aladdin, Anastasia, The Lion King, Spongebob Squarepants, and Wicked. A Kids’ Night on Broadway ticket also includes restaurant discounts, and parking discounts. Select shows will offer in-theater activities for kids including talkbacks, activity books, and other events still to be announced. WANT TO GO? Free for children when accompanied by a full-paying adult. kidsnightonbroadway.com.

Teknopolis 2018

WHEN: Feb. 26-March 9, Monday-Friday, 9:30am and 11:15am WHERE: BAM Fisher, Fishman Space, 321 Ashland Place, Fort Greene AGES: 5 and older WHAT: BAM’s tech takeover returns for its second year, featuring installations by digital artists and technologists that build innovative bridges between the arts and technology. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-636-4100. bam.org/kids. BrooklynParent 35

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Outdoor Skills: Shelter Building FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 4, 1pm WHERE: Prospect Park Audubon Center, Lincoln Road and Ocean Avenue, Flatbush AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Urban Park Rangers are well versed in outdoor lore. Learn tips and tricks that will enhance your knowledge of the natural world, and might just save your life. WANT TO GO? 718-287-3400. prospectpark.org.

First Sundays

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 4, 10am-4:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 990 Washington Ave., Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Programs every first Sunday of the month include discovery workshops for kids, family storytime, a winter wildlife nature walk, and a tour inside the Steinhardt Conservatory featuring tropical, desert, and Mediterranean climates. After touring the garden, warm up with seasonal brunch and lunch menus in Yellow Magnolia Cafe. WANT TO GO? $15; free for children younger than 12. 718-623-7200. bbg.org.

Campfire Conversations

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 16, 12-4pm WHERE: Lefferts Historic House, Flatbush Avenue and Empire Boulevard, Flatbush AGES: All WHAT: Prospect Park Alliance and Brooklyn Public Library present Campfire Conversations, a series of themed community conversations set around an outdoor campfire, complete with music and refreshments. WANT TO GO? $3 suggested donation. 718-789-2822. nycgovparks.org.

Winter Tree ID (Light) FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 17, 11am WHERE: Prospect Park Audubon Center, Lincoln Road and Ocean Avenue, Flatbush AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Whether on the street or in the woods, the Urban Park Rangers will show distinguishable characteristics for identifying trees in the winter. WANT TO GO? 718-287-3400. prospectpark.org.

Farmhouse Family Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 17, 11am-3pm WHERE: The Wyckoff House Museum, 5816 Clarendon Road, Canarsie AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Bring the family to explore New York City’s oldest house every. Seasonal activities inside the historic house and around the gardens include scavenger hunts, artifact investigation, gardening, self-guided exploration, and hands-on activities. WANT TO GO? 718-629-5400. wyckoffmuseum.org.

February Break Discovery Days FREE

WHEN: Feb. 19-22, Monday-Thursday, 11am-1pm WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 900 Washington Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Explore exotic habitats from around the world and have some hands-on science fun during the midwinter school break. WANT TO GO? 718-623-7200. bbg.org.

Kids Week Brooklyn: Finding Your Way FREE

WHEN: Feb. 19-23, Monday-Friday, 1pm WHERE: Marine Park Salt Marsh Nature Center, East 33rd Street and Avenue U, Marine Park AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Head to the park and join Urban Park Rangers for free Kids Week programs. Topics covered include animal adventures, scavenger hunt, birding, and outdoor skills. WANT TO GO? 718-421-2021. nycgovparks.org.

Art in the Parks: Fitzhugh Karol FREE

WHEN: Through March 1: daily, 5am-1am WHERE: Bartel-Pritchard Square, Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Park, Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: Prospect Park Alliance and NYC Parks presents a public sculpture exhibition by artist Fitzhugh Karol. The two sculptures, titled “Searches” and “Reaches,” are colorful, intersecting steel shapes referencing familiar silhouettes of stairs and hillsides. Their abstract and playful shapes invite interaction and are a reminder of man’s imprint on the landscape. WANT TO GO? 718-965-8945. prospectpark.org.

The Means of a Ready Escape

WHEN: Through July 13: Wednesday-Sunday, 12-5pm WHERE: Brooklyn Historical Society, 128 Pierrepont St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This exhibition highlights the 150 years of social history in Brooklyn’s backyard. Featuring more than 100 artifacts and documents, it tells the story of the 585 acres of forest, field, and swamp that Frederick Law Olmsted and Calvert Vaux transformed into an urban oasis, and how the park has sustained generations of Brooklynites throughout the borough’s many eras of change. WANT TO GO? $10; free for children younger than 12. 718-222-4111. brooklynhistory.org.

SMARTY PANTS STEM Night: Engineering FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 2, 5:30-8pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona, Queens AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Middle school, high school, and college students can learn about career opportunities in the engineering field at this event. The evening includes hands-on activities, career conversations with experts in the field, and networking with STEM professionals. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? 718-699-0005. nysci.org. 36

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Songs For Extraordinary People

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 3, 4pm WHERE: Barbès, 376 9th St., Park Slope AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Author and composer Michael Hearst, along with his five-piece band, presents this highly geeky A/V presentation of some of the most fascinating individuals in the world. WANT TO GO? $10 suggested donation. 347-422-0248. barbesbrooklyn.com.

Circuit Power

WHEN: Feb. 3-11, Saturday-Sunday, 1:30-2:15pm WHERE: New York Transit Museum, Boerum Place and Schermerhorn Street, Downtown Brooklyn AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Create a “paper circuit” light switch that will show off your electricity know-how. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children ages 2-17. 718-694-1600. nytransitmuseum.org.

Black History Month: Sandy Ground FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 17, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Bloomingdale Park Playground, Lenevar and Ramona avenues, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Urban Park Rangers specialize in interpretation of historic turning points, both natural and man-made, in our city’s long history. Learn more about one of the oldest surviving communities in the United States that was founded by African Americans prior to the American Civil War. WANT TO GO? 718-430-1890. nycgovparks.org.

intake, the workings of the digestive system, creating a balanced diet, and the origin of foods that populate grocery store shelves. WANT TO GO? $16; $13 children, students, and seniors. 718-6990005. nysci.org.

Get Kinetic

Train Operators Workshop

WHEN: Feb. 20-23, Tuesday-Friday, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: New York Transit Museum, Boerum Place and Schermerhorn Street, Downtown Brooklyn AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Inspired by Rube Goldberg devices, this workshop involves joining a team to plan and construct wacky, winding machines of miraculous motion. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children ages 2-17. 718-694-1600. nytransitmuseum.org.

From Fulton Ferry: Building Downtown Brooklyn

WHEN: Through March 31: Tuesday-Friday, 10am-4pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: New York Transit Museum, Boerum Place and Schermerhorn Street, Downtown Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Using archival photographs and objects from the museum’s extensive collection, this exhibit celebrates centuries of investment and innovation in transportation that made the evolution of Downtown Brooklyn possible, and explores transportation’s key role in the commercial and residential development of Brooklyn and the Greater New York region. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children ages 2-17. 718-694-1600. nytransitmuseum.org.

Bon Appétit

WHEN: Feb. 16-May 13, Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona, Queens AGES: All WHAT: This fun and interactive exhibition helps visitors explore their own personal eating habits, as well as the eating habits of other cultures. Visitors can discover topics such as physical activity versus food

WHEN: Through June 30: Saturday-Sunday, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: New York Transit Museum, Boerum Place and Schermerhorn Street, Downtown Brooklyn AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Drop by the computer lab to take control of a NYC subway car and operate it over virtual miles of track in an incredibly realistic game. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 seniors and children ages 2-17. 718-694-1792. nytransitmuseum.org.

Brooklyn Block Lab and Studio

WHEN: Through June 30: Thursday-Sunday, see website for times WHERE: Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 145 Brooklyn Ave., Crown Heights AGES: 3-8 WHAT: In the museum’s second floor studio, which focuses on art and architecture, visitors of all ages develop their engineering skills as they engage in open block play with large Imagination Playground blocks and table top sized Kapla Planks and Magnatiles, as well as artist James Paulius’ house-shaped wooden blocks and pegs from his installation Sky Village. WANT TO GO? $11; free for children younger than 1. 718-224-5863. brooklynkids.org.

Holding History

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Sundays, 11am WHERE: Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 145 Brooklyn Ave., Crown Heights AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children will learn about the history of artifacts from the museum’s collection through this tactical investigation and by relating them to their own lives. WANT TO GO? $11. 718-735-4400. brooklynkids.org. ››

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ONCE UPON A TIME Brooklyn Center for the Performing Arts Presents ‘Goodnight Moon’ and ‘The Runaway Bunny’ WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 1, 10:15am and 12pm WHERE: Kumble Theater, 1 University Plaza, Downtown Brooklyn AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Adapted from Margaret Wise Brown’s bedtime stories, these theatrical adaptations of childhood classics feature endearing animal puppets, stunning scenic effects, and evocative music. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-951-4500. kumbletheater.org.

Play with Puppets Workshop

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS Camp Fair 2018 FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 10, 11am-3pm WHERE: P.S. 84, 250 Berry St., Williamsburg AGES: All WHAT: Join the first P.S. 84 Camp Fair, showcasing holiday camps, afterschool, and enrichment programs in North Brooklyn and beyond. A variety of exhibitors will be at this event, representing a full range of interests including music, performing and visual arts, science, dance, gymnastics, tennis and sports, coding, robotics, textile arts, and sleepaway camp. WANT TO GO? 718-384-8063. ps84k.org.

Events for Youth & Families: Chinese New Year Celebration FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 17, 1-2pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Branch, Dweck Center, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Red is the traditional Chinese color and the color of the Chinese New Year. Developed from a story line of how the Chinese celebrate Lunar New Year, Ba Ban Chinese Music Society of NY will feature the show Red, which is both entertaining and informative. This event features festive music, folk songs, handkerchief acrobatics, and red ribbon dance to celebrate the Year of the Dog. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

19th Chinatown Lunar New Year Parade and Festival FREE

WHEN: Feb. 3-4, Saturday-Sunday, 10am WHERE: Peter Jay Sharp Building, BAMcafé, 30 Lafayette Ave., Fort Greene AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Take your puppetry skills to the next level in this stimulating workshop for kids and kids at heart. North Carolina-based puppeteer Tarish “Jeghetto” Pipkins offers fun techniques for bringing life and character to his imaginative array of puppets. WANT TO GO? $15. 718-636-4100. bam.org/kids.

Story Time: Nadia Hohn Presents ‘Malaika’s Winter Carnival’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 10, 1:30pm WHERE: Greenlight Bookstore, 632 Flatbush Ave., Prospect Lefferts Gardens AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Join author Nadia Hohn for reading, crafts, and a celebratory Carnival story time. WANT TO GO? 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com.

Events for Youth & Families: ‘Pinocchio’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 24, 1-2pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Branch, Dweck Center, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: This enchanting musical fairytale begins with the woodcarver, Gepetto. With the help of the Blue Fairy, the puppet comes to life. His adventures are exciting: Gepetto sends him to school, but Pinocchio runs off with a group of little boys who get into trouble and turn into donkeys; he is kidnapped by an evil coachman; he is swallowed by a whale; and of course every time he tells a lie his nose grows and grows and grows. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

Story Time: Drag Queen Story Hour Presents ‘How Mamas Love Their Babies’ FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 25, 1pm WHERE: Chinatown, Parade begins on the corner of Mott and Canal streets, Chinatown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Ring in the Year of the Dog at this popular New York parade and street festival. Join thousands of New Yorkers and visitors alike in the streets of Chinatown and Little Italy for traditional Chinese New Year performances, beautiful decorations and costumes, and delicious food. WANT TO GO? 917-660-2402. betterchinatown.com.

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 24, 1:30pm WHERE: Greenlight Bookstore, 632 Flatbush Ave., Prospect Lefferts Gardens AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Celebrates the release How Mamas Love Their Babies. Illustrating the myriad of ways that mothers provide for their children—piloting airplanes, washing floors, or dancing at a strip club—it provides an expanded notion of working mothers and challenges the idea that only some jobs result in good parenting. We’re reminded that, while every mama’s work looks different, every mama works to make their baby’s world better. WANT TO GO? 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com.

New York International Children’s Film Festival

Drop-in Art, Poems, and Stories

WHEN: Feb. 23-March 18, Friday-Sunday, see website for times WHERE: Various theaters, see website for addresses, Manhattan AGES: 3 and older WHAT: For four weekends, New York International Children’s Film Festival invites you and your imagination to explore new frontiers through the best new films from around the world. WANT TO GO? See website for prices. 212-349-0330. nyicff.org. 38

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WHEN: Through June 25: Mondays, 4pm WHERE: Stories Bookshop + Storytelling Lab, 458 Bergen St., Park Slope AGES: 6-9 WHAT: Kids read a book and make a craft inspired by it. The story and project change each week, and throughout the year kids will explore a range of subjects, styles and materials. Each session begins with a reading. WANT TO GO? $15. 718-369-1167. storiesbk.com.

BROWSE & BUY Brooklyn Flea

WHEN: Through March 31: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-6pm WHERE: Industry City, 241 37th St., Sunset Park AGES: 3-12 WHAT: For the holidays and the winter months the Flea returns to its Brooklyn digs at Industry City. Find 50 vendors from Brooklyn Flea, plus 10 Smorgasburg vendors. WANT TO GO? Free admission. 201-417-6423. brooklynflea.com.

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Down to Earth McGolrick Park Farmers Market FREE

WHEN: Through April 29: Sundays, 10am-4pm WHERE: Park Church Co-op, 129 Russell St., Greenpoint AGES: All WHAT: Shop for local foods all through the winter at the indoor McGolrick Park Farmers Market located in the basement of the Park Church Co-op just outside McGolrick Park. Find regional farmers and local food makers. WANT TO GO? 914-923-4837. downtoearthmarkets.com.

Farmer’s Market FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Saturdays, 8am-4pm WHERE: Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Park West and Grand Army Plaza, Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: Grand Army Plaza is Greenmarket’s flagship Brooklyn market, and the second largest market in the program behind Union Square. View an array of farm-fresh products and participate in the programming and cooking demonstrations that take place every Saturday. WANT TO GO? 718-965-8945. prospectpark.org.

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With temperatures dropping and snow falling, who actually wants to be outside? Cozy up with some hot chocolate or tea, or spend the rest of this short month exploring an indoor play space. If you still want a taste of winter without worrying about the weather, visit an indoor ice-skating rink (it’ll probably be warmer inside than the temperature outside!). And if you are not a fan of winter, you can even pretend it’s summer at one of these indoor water parks in the Northeast. Stay warm!

INDOOR PLAY SPACES PLAY Greenpoint 33 Nassau Ave., Greenpoint 718-387-2071; playgreenpoint.com This place has it all. The 3,000-square-foot space is full of imaginative toys, musical instruments, and books. Not to mention the playground structures and beautiful murals, which give the feeling of being outdoors. Drop-ins cost $22 for one child and $11 for additional siblings.

HOT CHOCOLATE SPOTS

The Chocolate Room 51 5th Ave., Park Slope; 718-783-2900 269 Court St., Cobble Hill; 718-246-2600 thechocolateroombrooklyn.com Hours: Sunday-Thursday, 12-11pm; Friday-Saturday, 12pm-12am Hot cocoa three ways: classic milk chocolate, a 61-percent dark bittersweet chocolate, or a spiced dark chocolate made with ancho chiles, cloves, cinnamon, and chipotle. Find more>> hot chocolate spots in Brooklyn at nymetroparents.com/hot-chocolate. Courtesy Sahara Sam’s Oasis

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INDOOR ICE-SKATING RINKS

Aviator Sports and Event Center Floyd Bennett Field, 3159 Flatbush Ave., Marine Park/Mill Basin 718-758-7500; 718-757-7567; aviatorsports.com Hours: Year-round: Monday-Thursday, 11:30am-3:50pm; Friday, 11am-3:45pm and 7:30-11pm; Saturday, 1:45-5:50pm and 7:30-11:30pm (through April); Sunday, 12:15-6:30pm. Call for holiday schedule. Price: Non-members: $12; $10 children ages 11 and younger; $6 skate rental. Members: $11; $9.10 children ages 11 and younger. Free lockers; bring your own lock.

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INDOOR WATER PARKS Sahara Sam’s Oasis 535 N. Route 73, West Berlin, NJ 856-767-7580; saharasams.com Hours: Thursday-Friday, 4-9pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-7pm. See website for updates. Admission: $39.99; $34.99 in advance; $32.99 for a halfday ticket; free for seniors older than 65 and for children 2 and younger. Even when it’s snowing outside, it is always a balmy 84 degrees inside Sahara Sam’s in West Berlin. Eleven water rides make Sam’s 58,000 square feet chock-full of fun. Lizard Lagoon is the hangout for the little ones, while teens will love The Flow Rider, the only indoor surfing simulator in New Jersey. Find more>> indoor water parks in the New York metro area at nymetroparents.com/indoor-water-parks.

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The good news: Your little one is hard-wired to adore you. The better news: There’s plenty you can do to help build that bond. By Deborah Skolnik

hroughout my first pregnancy, I dreamed of the moment I’d welcome my newborn. We’d cuddle and look into each other’s eyes adoringly, just like in the diaper commercials. And when my daughter finally arrived, that’s exactly what happened—on my end. I gazed at her lovingly, but she gave me a blank stare, showing me about as much affection as if she were a strange cat I’d bumped into on the sidewalk. I had to laugh. Why had I expected more? Babies and parents share the sweetest relationship, but it isn’t instantaneous. It takes time for the relationship to flourish, deepening through little interactions that build closeness. How does your baby’s love grow? We asked experts to share their insights, plus offer advice about what you can do to help things along.

All Set to Attach

Your little one may not seem smitten with you at first sight, but he’s built to feel close to you. “Babies are hard-wired to attach to their parents, or to one or two primary caregivers who are reliable,” says Rahill Briggs, founder of pediatric behavioral health services at Montefiore Medical Group in the Bronx and national director of HealthySteps, a program aimed at ensuring babies and toddlers have nurturing care. Scientifically, it makes sense: Your baby seeks a close tie to a caring adult or two because it’s essential for her survival. 42

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And if you happen to be your baby’s biological mom, you’ve got a head start on being his true love. That’s because he already recognizes you on a couple of very fundamental levels, says Erica Komisar, LCSW, author of Being There: Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years Matters. “Babies can hear your voice in utero, and so they recognize your voice [after birth], and they can recognize your smell,” she says. “And once they connect with you [or dad, if he’s the primary caregiver], and they make contact with your eyes, it’s only your eyes that they seek.”

Feeding the Feelings

One of the best ways to build attachment and affection in your baby is through doing something that already comes naturally: feeding her. As you hold your little one and look deeply into each other’s eyes while she nurses or drinks from a bottle, it sparks serious chemistry, literally, sending a lovey-dovey hormone called oxytocin flowing through both your bodies. “That hormone is critical,” Komisar says. Created in the right side of the brain, oxytocin especially surges in your baby when you hold him on your left side. He uses his left-side visual field then, which actually is wired, crisscross fashion, to his right brain. (This also makes it a great idea to cradle your baby on your left side whenever you can.)

Of course, this loving eyeful only happens if you’re actually focused on your baby during feeding sessions. Komisar warns against letting your attention wander too often to the TV or your favorite tech tools. When you focus on a screen instead of your child, “you’re basically not doing what nature intended…the fact that we’ve manipulated the situation now to look at phones and iPads [while feeding] is very strange,” she says. And if you aren’t breast-feeding, Komisar suggests taking off your shirt for feeding anyway, when possible, since skin-to-skin contact is another cue for your and your baby’s bodies to produce oxytocin.

In fact, Komisar believes that early smiles are more than just the gas pains they’re commonly chalked up to: “Babies have emotions from the very beginning,” she says. “You can see from the very start a kind of joyful connection between mothers and babies. The idea is that from the earliest moments, a baby can smile at a mother and resonate with a mother, and a mother can resonate with a baby.” Whenever you do see that smile, it’s bound to spur your own affection: “For a parent who’s just been through those first two months of a newborn and is barely sort of hanging on, that social smile can be like the key to keep going,” Briggs says.

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Attending to your baby’s other needs, namely for diaper changes and bathing, is another great way to build attachment. “Human babies so desperately need caregivers to love them, and to be reliable and consistent and empathetic,” Briggs says. “Babies are then just built to return that affection, as long as it’s a secure attachment relationship, and the primary caregiver has been relating in a way that’s reliable and empathetic and consistent and warm.” This doesn’t mean that you must slavishly attend to your baby’s every whimper: “We know that actually babies don’t want that,” Briggs says. “They want some downtime and they seem to need some resting time. But being reliably empathic and pretty consistent means that when your baby lets out a really big cry, the one that means ‘I am so starving and my diaper is wet,’ that you respond.” The empathy aspect is major, Briggs adds. “By that, we mean that what a parent does in response to her baby is related to what the baby did.” So try to mirror your baby’s emotions; if she’s crying, make a sad face and say, “Aw, sweetie, I know you’re tired!” rather than rolling your eyes or trying hard to cheer her up. She’ll sense that you really ‘get’ her—and don’t you feel closest to the people who really get you?

Talking the Talk

Speaking of, well, speaking, it’s super-important to talk or vocalize to your baby. He’s heard your voice since before birth, and gets all warm and fuzzy-feeling at its comforting tones. So do you; it’s the third cue to the brain to produce oxytocin. And you don’t always have to use words; cooing, singing, and making other affectionate sounds all create that baby-mommy love. When you speak to your child, Komisar recommends using “Motherese,” the high-pitched, sing-songy tones people so often use in addressing babies. “It’s a very healthy thing,” she says. “It has something to do with the intonations…it tends to grow the right brain of the baby.” In fact, she says, one sign that a mother may have postpartum depression is if she refuses to speak in Motherese, and instead only addresses her baby in flat, adult-sounding tones.

Little Signs of Love

Of course, having shown your baby love without bounds, you’d like at least a little reassurance that it’s a two-way street. How can you tell whether or not she’s as into you as you are into her? At the beginning, the signs may be subtle—she may seek out your gaze or even imitate some of your expressions. And then, by around 2 or 3 months of age (or even sooner), you’ll see more definite proof: She’ll smile at you.

Around 8 months of age, your baby’s behavior may abruptly change. Try to let your neighbor hold him, and he’ll fuss and reach back to you instead. This is the start of what’s known as stranger anxiety. “You’ll be like, ‘Where did that baby go that I used to be able to pass off to anybody in my office?’” Briggs says. This phenomenon peaks at around 15 months, then begins to fade out by 18 months. The flip side of this fear of unfamiliar people is love for immediate family: Clearly, your baby feels you and your partner are his ‘special people,’ and draws a line between you and the rest of the adults out there. At the same time, your child may start showing affection for her most special friends. It’s wonderful to watch her face light up when you bump into a pal from the park, or when your sitter shows up at your doorstep after a weekend away. Overjoyed facial expressions may be accompanied by happy-sounding vocalizations or generalized, delighted wiggliness. Either way, there’s no doubt your child now has a group that she considers her posse.

Rescue Me!

Strangers aren’t the only things that will spook your baby as he nears his first birthday. Other scary-seeming things may set him off now too, like the loud siren of a passing fire engine or the sight of a large dog as you’re walking down the street. His reaction? He’ll look for you, or cry and reach out to you. This, too, is a form of showing love. “There could be alternative attachment figures around, such as aunts and grandmothers, but when the baby is in distress, he’ll reach back for the mother,” Komisar says. “So you know that if your baby reaches back for you or looks for you when she’s in distress that she needs you, loves you, and is calling for you. It’s your eyes and your smell that she’s seeking.”

Smooches and Swag

By the time your baby celebrates her first birthday, you may see some of the classic signs of love—she’ll come in for a great big hug with those deliciously chubby little arms, or lean on in and plant a wet one on you (or even on grandma or grandpa, if nicely asked). And, as he starts walking and nears his second birthday, you may find yourself on the receiving end of more than just an embrace. Take your baby to a park, and she just may pick a flower and bring it to you. “It’s hard to know whether it’s a present of love or whether it’s just saying ‘Hey, look at this really pretty thing I found and let’s talk about it,’” Briggs says. Of course, if you’re like most parents, you’ll see it as a gift—why not? It’s just one of many signs that the baby you love so much is growing up to be a loving human being.

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What first-time homebuyers need to know to navigate the market and find the right home By Samantha Neudorf

hen you hear the word “home,” you may recall fond memories from your childhood, such as gathering together for Thanksgiving, waking up to the smell of breakfast on weekends, or cozying up on the couch to watch a movie. Home may be a state of mind, but a house is where all of those memories are made. Now that you’re a parent, you may be looking for a house of your own—one where your children will take their first steps, and, many years later, return with their own families. Real estate shopping can be a tricky process, but by doing some homework (see what we did there?) in advance, you can avoid many common newbie mistakes. Here’s how to navigate the market to ensure you will find the perfect home to grow your family.

Figure Out Your Finances

Though it’s tempting to begin looking at houses right away, it’s not the best idea—later on you may realize you’ve fallen in love with a house you can’t afford. Greg McBride, the chief financial analyst for Bankrate, an online tool to compare financial rates, 44

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says the biggest mistake prospective homebuyers make is looking at properties before reviewing their finances. “That’s a recipe for trouble,” he says. “Instead, it pays to know how much you can afford and get pre-approved for a loan amount. That sets boundaries around your shopping.” The first step is to request your credit score from each of the three major credit bureaus: Experian, Equifax, and TransUnion. An ideal score is one that’s higher than 700—it makes you attractive to lenders and could help you get a lower interest rate on a mortgage. Getting your scores early on helps you know where you stand, and also gives you the opportunity to dispute any errors on your credit reports before beginning the mortgage application process with a mortgage lender. The next step is to pick a mortgage lender. This can be a bank or a credit union—and does not have to be one at which you have an account. McBride advises shopping around for a lender to find the best rate; you can do this by using tools such as the Bankrate search engine to compare prices in your area. Once you settle on a lender, request a pre-approval letter—this

shows home sellers you are a serious buyer and will able to be approved for a loan. After you decide on a house, place an offer, and the offer is accepted, it is important to know you are not obligated to the mortgage lender who gave you the pre-approval letter. In fact, it’s smart to put in applications with one or two other lenders at the same time, to figure out which one will give you the best price. “That can really give you an apples-to-apples comparison of who’s offering the best deal, both in terms of interest rate as well as the fees that are being charged,” McBride says. So how much house can you afford? In terms of the mortgage itself, the rule of thumb is to pay no more than 30 percent of your gross monthly income, which would include property taxes, property insurance, and any homeowner dues. When choosing the mortgage loan duration, most lenders recommend a 30-year loan to keep payments manageable while saving money for other things. “It’s better to keep your payments lower so you still have enough breathing room in your monthly budget to be able to save money for other purposes, such as emergencies, retirement, and your kids’ education,” McBride says. “You don’t want to be house-rich and cash-poor.” The loan may take 30-45 days to be approved, and in the meantime, you will need to pay for a home inspection, home appraisal, title work, and closing costs. Once you own the home and begin making mortgage payments, other fees will include principal and interest on the mortgage, property tax, property insurance, homeowners insurance, and utilities.

Know Your Neighborhood

Finding the right neighborhood for you and your family is crucial before settling on a home, because this will set the tone for your living situation. Jamie Marcantonio, a real estate broker for Coldwell Banker in Suffolk County, recommends researching neighborhoods and visiting them to get a feel for it. “I always emphasize that [prospective homebuyers] check every single town that they’re looking in and make sure that the school system is highly rated,” Marcantonio says. “That seems to be a real hot button for first-time homebuyers.” Visit the neighborhood and take mental notes of what you observe, and keep it in mind when viewing homes. For example, is there a lot of traffic on the main road? Is public transportation readily available? Are there a lot of parks? Is the area close to something undesirable, like a wastewater plant or high-tension wires? Another big decision is figuring out whether you want to raise your family in the city or the suburbs. Many first-time homebuyers in the greater New York area are looking to move away from the city and into a suburb. Deciding which town is best can be challenging, but there’s help. Suburban Jungle Realty, for instance, is a real estate advisory firm that connects homebuyers free of charge to “suburb strategists,” who then pair them with towns outside of the city. “Our strategists make sure you’re looking in the right places, asking the right questions,” says Alison Bernstein, Suburban Jungle Realty’s founder. The strategists also provide information, talk about the intangibles, and get homebuyers thinking about the right questions, such as what day cares are nearby? Can I get live-in help if I’m a stay-at-home mom? What kinds of restaurants are in the area? Where are your favorite places to take your own kids?

Choose a Home

After figuring out what type of home is in your price range, and what town, city, or neighborhood you want to live in, the fun part is going to showings and attending open houses. Marcantonio says finding the right broker is key to finding the right home. She advises homebuyers to interview realtors in person to decide who will be a good fit personality-wise and will be most attentive to their needs. “Go to open houses to see these brokers in real time,” Marcantonio says. “Watch how they’re interacting, interfacing, and what kind of information they are giving.” Once you find the right broker for you, sit down with them and begin a dialogue about what exactly you are looking for: Do you want a ranch- or colonial-style house? How many bedrooms and bathrooms do you need? Are you hoping for a large or small yard? When deciding whether you want to buy something on the lower end that will need renovations down the line or something that’s move-in ready, Marcantonio advises to think about whether you have the money to do renovations and if you are emotionally ready to go through with waiting for the work to be done—it’s not always as fun and easy as some well-loved TV shows make it seem. “Many people think ‘I’ll get a fixer upper, I’ll save money there,’ and in the long run they sometimes end up spending more money because they begin to take walls down and run into more expenses,” Marcantonio says. Remember that it’s okay to not feel pressured to find a dream house to show off. At the end of the day, a house provides shelter, but the memories you create and share with your family there is what makes it a home.

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Hey Google! Can You Teach My Kid Some Manners…Please? ››

Smart home devices have many advantages, but are they turning our children into brats? By Bethany Braun-Silva

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ust Google it,” my husband said when, last year, I asked him what day of the week Christmas fell on. Before I could whip out my phone and start typing, I heard my 5-year-old say, “Hey Google, what day is Christmas this year?” This is our life these days. We were recently gifted a Google Assistant, or Google Home device, an internet-connected speaker that does everything from play music to sync our calendars to answer any question, no matter how random. Within seconds Google replies with an answer, and we are on to the next thing. No “thank you” needed—it is, after all, a virtual assistant that’s plugged into our wall. But it didn’t escape me that if my husband had answered the question, I would have at least tossed a “Thanks, babe,” his way. This got me thinking about my kids. They are absolute sponges, picking up new phrases and mannerisms every day—from TV shows, videos on their iPad, and me and my husband. I, of course, want them to be polite and considerate kids who grow up to be 46

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polite and considerate adults. I started to wonder: Should I make them say “thank you” to the tech device that sits on top of our family desk? Amazon’s Alexa, Google Home, and Apple’s Siri will answer any question regardless of whether it’s asked politely. Kids can even be intentionally rude to the device, calling it a “jerk” or “stupid,” with no repercussions of hurt feelings or a scolding from Mom or Dad. However, it is a device, not a person, so I find myself torn on this issue.

Technology and Our Society

I’ve heard many times throughout the years that technology is ruining our social interactions. In fact, it’s contributing to the lack of empathy we see online—especially with kids and teens. “When social media relationships replace real-time, real-life, in-person human relationships, problems arise…That’s because when interacting with others from behind a keyboard, the communication rules are different—easier…You can say what you

want without having to witness firsthand the emotional fallout of poor choices or unkind words, even those that are misspoken,” according to “Is Technology Dehumanizing Our Society?,” an article published on dialogmagazine.com. This lack of human interaction is the norm these days. Internet trolls run rampant. I hardly know anyone who prefers talking on the phone rather than texting. And now, with these in-home devices, tech is literally everywhere. But even if this is the norm, should it be?

The Pros

Paulina R., a mom from Forest Hills, isn’t too worried about the social side effects that smart home devices may have on her kids. “The benefits far outweigh the potential drawbacks,” she says. “My kids use our Alexa like a modern-day library. They absorb so much information from that little machine, it’s incredible.” Meanwhile, Manhattan mom Vanessa McDaniels has found another advantage to her family’s Google Home device. “When my two boys get into an argument over who wants the iPad or who gets to pick the family movie, we ask Google to flip a coin,” she says. Arguments are settled in mere seconds, which makes for a much more peaceful household. Similarly, many parents of children with special needs praise virtual assistants such as Alexa and Google Assistant. “While on the one hand kids using Alexa may develop an attitude, there are also ways that creators, such as myself, are using Alexa to help children lead better lives,” says Daphne Mallory, a virtual reality screenwriter and producer. She recently developed the Alexa skill Autism Help, which is designed to help parents teach social, verbal, and functional skills to children with autism. “It may be easier and less stressful for children on the autism spectrum to interact with Alexa and learn skills, than solely with a parent or other adult,” she explains. “That’s the benefit of voice interface technology and how we can use Alexa in a positive way.”

The Cons

Even with the best of intentions, though, parents can find themselves at odds with their kids’ behavior when it comes to these devices. McDaniels is a bit worried about how their smart device may affect the way her children act outside the house. “The Google Home device answers our kids whether they are rude or not,” she says. “I’m concerned that this might get repeated with a family member or even a teacher one day.” And McDaniels recently caught her 6-year-old son Connor hitting the device when it didn’t understand his question. “We talked to him about his behavior and explained that that’s not how we treat things in our house,” she says. “But there was this thought in the back of my head that even though this behavior is totally unacceptable, we were essentially talking about something inanimate.” There’s also the issue of safety. Who’s to say these devices can’t get hacked or steal personal information? Certainly if a smart device resides in your kids’ room, there might be some cause for concern when it comes to privacy. “Google’s activities may affect the ads you get, the deals you are exposed to, the purchases you make, the discounts you receive, the entertainment and news you see, and your very sense that surveillance is natural. Plus, Google is only one of a gaggle of large companies involved in these sorts of activities—all the while seemingly hoping we don’t understand and are too resigned to push back,” writes Joseph Turow in an article titled “Google Still Doesn’t Care About Your Privacy” on fortune.com.

Manners and the Machine

So, is there a risk of these smart home devices making kids less empathetic—or even more demanding? “Devices are not turning kids into brats. Devices are merely tools,” says Donna Volpitta, Ed.D., founder of the Center for Resilient Leadership and a former special education teacher. “However, with the increase in technology and devices, parents need to be more and more mindful about the way they are parenting. Currently, there is a wide misuse of these devices, which puts kids at risk in many ways, including being at risk of becoming brats.” Lilian Rincon, product management director for the Google Assistant, is being more mindful by changing how she speaks to the assistant. “In my house, we say things like, ‘Ok Google, please tell me the weather’ and try to remember to say ‘thank you’ when we get the answer. We don’t always remember, and it’s definitely a balance, but I think my kids learn from how we talk to the assistant, and it has made an impact,” she says. “There’s always some level of risk with new technology and children learning about it at younger and younger ages, but as a parent I can model the behavior I want them to replicate, similar to how we do in real relationships with people.” Paulina takes a similar approach to ensuring her kids learn manners: “That’s something they will learn from my husband and me, and I don’t think my kids will grow up to be rude just from using Alexa,” she says. “Teaching manners is the parent’s job, and we need to adapt our parenting to these modern times.” Dr. Volpitta also suggests using the following tips to stop kids’ bratty behavior toward the devices—and toward other people: • S et limits and stick to them: It is our job, as parents, to establish and enforce rules and boundaries, and it’s our children’s job (whether we like it or not) to test those rules and boundaries. If you see your child pushing the limits as far as rude behavior is concerned, step in and explain why that behavior is unacceptable. If the behavior was toward a smart device, remove the device to be used another time. If it was directed at a person, have them apologize. • Enforce privilege guidelines: Using any kind of technology for fun is a privilege, not a right. “When kids are acting responsibly, they are able to earn privileges and use devices. When they are being brats, they should not be able to use devices,” Dr. Volpitta says. • Show you won’t give in to whining: Kids should accept the consequences of acting in a negative manner toward the devices, so stand your ground if your child starts to whine or bargain to use the virtual assistant before they’ve earned the privilege again. So like everything in our tech-crazy world, in-home devices come with pros and cons. My kids will continue to emulate what they see and hear, so my husband and I will start saying “please” and “thank you” to our Google Assistant to set a good example. Though while my kids were out of the house the other day, I did ask it a bunch of questions, both appropriate and inappropriate—in the name of research, of course. One was, “Hey Google, what makes you happy?” It replied, “I’m happy when I can help out.” Maybe the device can teach my kids some manners after all. BrooklynParent 47

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Help Your Teen Get More Exercise ›› Most adolescents are a lot less active than they should be—get yours moving with these expert-approved tips. By Deborah Skolnik

he teenage years. What do you think of when you hear that phrase? Probably kids growing like weeds and busily exploring new things, and, because of this, being more active than they’ll ever be again. But research released last June shows that this just isn’t true, at least not these days. The study, part of the National Health and Nutrition Examination survey, found something alarming: Physical activity peaks at age 6, then declines throughout childhood. Just how steeply does daily exercise decrease? By age 19, the average teen is as sedentary as a 60-year-old. Blame the tech revolution for a lot of this, says Jane Diamond, a master personal trainer and certified health and wellness coach. Kids aren’t outside all day until dinner, the way that we, or our parents, were as kids. “Our society has changed into an information society,” she says. “We sit at computers, we play games, and we’re on our phones. Kids come home from school and go onto Facebook and Snapchat.” Add in a lot of scheduled time for things like after-school help, homework, and instrument lessons, and it’s easy to see why today’s teens aren’t movers and shakers, at least in the physical sense. 48

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But it doesn’t have to be that way. With a little prodding from you, your teen can adopt a more active lifestyle, one that will serve her well throughout her life. We asked exercise pros how to make it happen.

Household Help

There’s plenty you can do around the house to encourage your teen to exercise. “Create an environment that reflects the change you want,” Diamond says. Steps like these can make a big difference: Lead by example. Show your teen that you embrace workouts. Keep an exercise bag at the door for trips to the gym, tennis lessons, or whatever physical activity you pursue. Invite him to come along with you whenever possible. If he can’t accompany you, make a point of letting him see you come home feeling energized and raring to go. “A little bit of that does sink in,” Diamond says. Load up your video game console with active games. “There are so many that make you exercise or dance,” Diamond says. And

get in the game yourself. Tell your teen, “I want to play too!” If it’s a competitive game, throw down a challenge to amp up the excitement factor and keep the activity going longer. Wean from the screen. While workout-based video games are fine in moderation, try limiting the number of hours your teen spends on optional, nonacademic screen time. Designate certain times of day, such as mealtimes, to be phone-free, so she gets used to the idea of letting go of her trusty device. And make certain areas of your house no-phone zones—especially the bedrooms. Your teen may end up getting more sleep at night, which will give her more energy to exercise during the day. Commercial-cize with your kids. When you do watch TV together, exercise together each time a commercial comes on, says Len Saunders, author of Keeping Kids Fit, who organizes programs on a national level for school-age kids regarding health and fitness. “If you watch a lot of TV, this can accumulate to a lot of exercise,” he says. Create a mini indoor gym. “For about fifty dollars, you can get all the equipment you need,” Diamond says. She recommends buying an exercise ball, a jump rope, carpet sliders, and a couple of sets of small weights. These are all easy to use, and there’s an abundance of videos and articles on the web to show you all the things you can do with them. Dole out some old-fashioned chores. Make your teen responsible for physical tasks around the house, such as sweeping the walkways, vacuuming the carpets, or mopping the kitchen floor. These responsibilities will get him off the sofa and onto his feet. Create an exercise chart for the whole family, with built-in rewards for your teen. Set the goal of an hour a day of physical activity for each of you, and have your child mark her progress. The incentive can be anything that you know motivates her, such as extra allowance money or the chance to get you to finance her Friday night out with her pals.

Take It Outside

There are even more opportunities for exercise outside the house. Get your teen up, out, and at ’em with these tips. Have the right outdoor equipment on hand, says Nedra Lopez, co-owner of P.E. Club on Manhattan’s Upper East Side. Hang a basketball hoop above your garage if you live in a house, and challenge your child to a quick game after school (or head to the nearest public court to do the same). Buy a set of orange cones for your yard or take them to the park and use them to play a simple game: Line up all the cones on one side of a patch of lawn, and challenge your kid to see which of you can pick up and rearrange the cones on the other side the fastest. Lopez is also a fan of resistance parachutes—small parachutes you strap around your waist that catch the wind as you run, creating muscle-building resistance. Want more fun? Invest in an agility ladder, which is a ladder-like device you lay on the ground. Play hopscotch with it, or check out YouTube videos of beginner agility ladder drills. Sign up together for an athletic event for charity, says Sandra Liang, a trainer at Crunch in Manhattan. It can be as simple as a walk or as ambitious as a 5K you train for together, “and it also introduces your child to volunteer work,” Liang adds. Revisit your favorite childhood games. “Whether you played tennis or racquetball or something else, explore them together,” Lopez says. It’s a great opportunity for you to teach your child a sport you know, and it’s quality bonding time, too.

Have your teen walk the dog if you own one and your neighborhood is safe for a solo excursion. One recent study published in the journal BMC Public Health found that dog owners walk 22 more minutes per day than people without pooches. Plan active outings—and tell your teen to invite a friend. Hiking in a state park with Mom and Dad? Lame. Hiking in a state park with Mom, Dad, and Hailey from bio class? Way cool. Pals are everything to kids at this age, so provide a chance for some buddy time along with exercise. “They’ll do a lot more when they’re with their own peers,” Liang notes. Run errands without using a car, bus, or subway. If your destination is within walking distance, go on foot or by bicycle. “If you own bikes, get bike baskets so it’s easy to take purchases home,” Lopez says, “and if you’re going on foot, take along backpacks.” Don’t be discouraged by bad weather. “There are so many wonderful indoor exercise facilities,” Diamond says. “There are places that you can go that have indoor skating, indoor rock climbing, basketball courts, tennis, and squash.” Whichever strategy or strategies you use, set aside regular time for exercise, and make it a habit. “We didn’t wake up at age 2 able to go to the bathroom and brush our teeth on our own,” Diamond observes. “Someone taught us day in and day out. We practiced for years until it became so routine that we didn’t even think about it anymore, and exercise needs to become a habit, too.” With your help, your teen will get moving in the right direction, one healthy step at a time.

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Vegan Snacks for a Super Bowl Party ›› Two affordable, easy-to-make vegan treats that will appeal to everyone

ow that we know the New England Patriots and the Philadelphia Eagles will huddle up for Super Bowl LII, which will air on NBC Feb. 4, we’re thinking about what delicious treats we’ll be making for our viewing parties—and how to accommodate all tastes and dietary needs. These recipes from Frugal Vegan by Katie Koteen and Kate Kasbee are vegan (of course), nut-free, and can be made gluten-free if not already; are affordable and easy to make; and will even appeal to meat-eaters. So enjoy watching the QBs throw the pigskin without any actual pigskins.

BBQ Chickpea Sliders

Twice-Baked Potato Bites

Though they first debuted at White Castle, sliders have evolved to include pretty much anything served on a tiny bun. We took a plantbased approach with this recipe by using nothing but chickpeas, BBQ sauce, and a few seasonings to create the savory, delicious filling on these bad boys. If it fits in your budget, don’t skimp on the Pineapple Slaw. It adds just the right amount of sweetness and crunch for an irresistible party snack or summery dinnertime dish.

Bust out the melon baller. You’ve got tiny potatoes to scoop out and that’s the perfect tool for the job. If you don’t have a baller, any small spoon will work. When it comes time for scooping, be sure to wait until the potatoes are cool before you scoop. Those little spuds can really hold their heat.

Nut-free, soy-free Splurge: Roasted sunflower seed topping Serves 4-6 • 15 minutes to prepare

Ingredients 1 (15-oz.) can chickpeas, rinsed and drained ½ cup BBQ sauce ½ tsp. garlic powder ½ tsp. chili powder Salt, to taste 12 whole-wheat slider buns 1 cup Pineapple Slaw (p. 143 in Frugal Vegan, or your favorite coleslaw recipe) Roasted sunflower seeds, for serving, optional Directions Add the chickpeas, BBQ sauce, garlic powder, and chili powder to a saucepan. Cook over medium heat for 10 to 15 minutes, stirring constantly and smashing about half of the chickpeas with the back of a fork or slotted spoon. Add water 1 tablespoon at a time if the mixture starts sticking to the bottom of the saucepan. Remove from heat and season with salt to taste. To assemble, spread a spoonful of the BBQ chickpeas on the bottom portion of a whole-wheat slider bun. Top with a scoop of Pineapple Slaw, and sprinkle with roasted sunflower seeds for some extra crunch, if desired. 50

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Nut-free, soy-free, gluten-free Splurge: Use fresh chives in place of dried Serves 4-6 • 60 minutes to prepare

Ingredients 2 lbs. red new potatoes (about 14), halved 1 tbsp. olive oil Coarse salt and ground pepper ¾ cup Vegan Sour Cream (p. 167 in Frugal Vegan, or your favorite recipe) 2 tbsp. chives, plus more for garnish Directions Preheat the oven to 450ºF. Line a rimmed baking sheet with parchment paper. Cut a thin slice off the bottom of each of your halved potatoes, so they sit flat. In a large bowl, toss the potatoes with oil; season with salt and pepper and arrange bottom-side down on the baking sheet. Bake until tender, 30 to 35 minutes. Let them cool on the sheet. When the potatoes are cool enough, scoop out about a teaspoon from the center of each potato and place in a medium bowl. Add vegan sour cream and chives, and mash; season with salt and pepper. Stuff the potatoes with the filling. Bake the potatoes until lightly browned, about 15 minutes.

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Local dentists and orthodontists answer frequently asked questions about kids’ dental health.

rom the time we were young children, our parents took us to the dentist every 6 months for regular checkups and cleanings. Now that we’re parents, we’re doing the same for our children to ensure they have healthy pearly whites from the time their baby teeth grow in through the time they leave the nest. As with most things medical-related, it can be confusing what the latest recommendations are when it comes to oral health and how to help our children. So in honor of National Children’s Dental Health Month, we compiled some of the best advice we’ve received from dentists, orthodontists, and even a psychologist in the New York metro area to keep your kids’ smiles healthy and happy. Here’s what they had to say:

Good Habits Start in Infancy

Before your child has any teeth, you should wipe the mouth and gums with moist gauze or a soft wet washcloth after feedings and before bedtime. Once the first tooth comes in, you should use a small, soft bristled, age-appropriate toothbrush to clean the teeth two times per day: in the morning after breakfast and in the evening before bedtime. The last thing to touch a child’s teeth before bed should be a toothbrush. At first, no toothpaste is necessary; simply wet the toothbrush 52

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with water. For children younger than 3, a rice-sized amount of fluoridated toothpaste should be used; for children ages 3-6, use a pea-sized amount. It is best if a parent assists children preschool-age and younger in brushing. Take care to brush on the inside and outside of each tooth and the tongue, if possible. In order to maximize the beneficial effect of fluoride—a mineral that helps prevent tooth decay by making enamel more resistant to acids and harmful bacteria—your child should not rinse after brushing his teeth. Flossing should be initiated when adjacent tooth surfaces cannot be cleansed with a toothbrush. Kid’s flossers are an excellent aid in flossing children’s teeth. Evidence shows that in order to succeed in preventing oral disease, interventions must begin at infancy. The American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry suggests that your child should have a comprehensive oral exam, an assessment for oral diseases, caries risk assessment, dietary recommendations, and oral hygiene instructions by the time she reaches her first birthday. Good oral hygiene practices that are implemented very early on can have a positive outcome on her overall well-being. —Marita Smith, D.D.S., board-certified pediatric dentist and owner of Smith’s Little Smiles Pediatric Dentistry in Pomona

Know When Thumb Sucking Gets a Thumbs Down

The better a parent or caregiver takes care of her teeth, the less likely it is that she will transmit the bacteria. Parents can Thumb sucking is okay as long as the habit stops after 5 years of lower the bacteria in their mouth with basic oral hygiene and age. After 5 years of age, the child’s permanent teeth will begin regular visits to the dentist. Treating and preventing cavities erupting—the first molars, the incisors on the lower arch—and in a parent’s mouth helps both the parent and child. Just like thumb sucking will cause the child to develop an anterior open avoiding sharing other germs, caregivers should refrain from bite, where the teeth in the front do not come together and, as a tasting children’s food using the kids’ utensils, kissing children result, the tongue has a lot more space to thrust forward. Because on the lips, and other actions that could cause the spread of of this, the child may also develop speech impediments, since they the bacteria. cannot pronounce certain sounds due to the teeth not closing Brushing and flossing regularly, and visiting the dentist at least correctly and the tongue thrusting forward. two times a year, can control the bacteria in your child’s mouth— If your child breaks the thumb-sucking habit by age 5 without and starting early helps a lot. any orthodontic intervention, the open bite will usually close on —Marc Bennet, D.M.D., M.S., a board-certified pediatric dentist its own by age 10 or 11, depending on the severity. at Adelberg Montalvan Pediatric Dentistry with locations in Another thing is the upper arch will form in a v-shaped arch— Massapequa Park, Nesconset, and West Islip kind of elongated forward—because of the constant pressure of the thumb on the upper teeth. That creates a cross bite, or scissor There’s Lots to Love About Laser Treatments bite, in the back. Laser treatment is a method of handling delicate procedures A cross bite needs to be corrected by expanding the arch with in children as young as 2-3, such as cavities and lip ties, which a special appliance called a palate expander. The palate expander happen when the upper lips of infants are tethered to the upper could also be used in combination with a habit-breaking appliance gums from birth. It can be used in multiple procedures in children to correct both problems. without instilling any trauma like anesthesia shots. For example, To break the thumb-sucking habit, the first recommendation is dentists can use laser treatment in place of the conventional drill to talk to the child and encourage the child to minimize the habit when treating cavities, eliminating as much as possible. For the need for anesthesia shots and example, it shouldn’t be done $4.66: the average amount the making your child’s experience for the whole day. Some kids the least invasive and painful as don’t do it during the day tooth fairy paid per tooth in late possible. The laser can remove because they’re involved in 2016 through early 2017, according tooth decay without touching the activities, and when they go tooth, and it numbs the tooth as to sleep, they start sucking to Delta Dental Plans Association’s an added bonus for your child’s their thumb. It still needs to national poll comfort level. Another added bonus be broken in that case. is that the treatment is shorter If that doesn’t work, and less dramatic, which gives the they can always go to the patient a healthy experience and prevents a fear of the dentist from orthodontist, who can talk to the child. Sometimes kids forget developing early on. However, laser treatment is not a common they need to work on breaking the habit, and parents are so treatment, and only select offices have this equipment. caught up with their work that they also forget, so what I advise —Renuka Bijoor, D.D.S., a board-certified pediatric dentist at is to put up sticky notes all over as reminders for the child to Briarcliff Pediatric Dentistry in Briarcliff Manor take their thumb out of their mouth. Some parents also try thumb guards. Got Braces? Be Proud! As a last resort, there are habit-breaking appliances the In our society, particularly in the adolescent age group, orthodontist can cement in the child’s mouth. They come in how people look really relates directly to their popularity. different forms to prevent either tongue thrusting or thumb And a good chunk of kids want to be popular. Their selfsucking. They have a roller that prevents the thumb from getting consciousness comes from the fear of whether they will be into a secure position in the mouth, and that will break the habit. popular because now there’s something making them look —Larissa Davids, D.D.S., orthodontist and owner of Rego Park Orthodontics different. I think some kids take advantage of this by pointing in Rego Park, Queens out these differences and bullying those children with braces. A lot of people get braces and want to hide them—a fact that Cavities Are Contagious! our culture has embraced and addressed by coming up with Believe it or not, you can catch a cavity. invisible options such as Invisalign. Dental cavities are the single most common chronic childhood We want kids to be proud and show their braces off. There is a disease. While the cause of dental decay is multi-factorial, most Twitter account (@GirlsWithBraces) where there are pictures of parents blame candy, snacking, or sugary drinks such as juice or girls with big smiles showing off their braces. Their approach is soda. These certainly contribute to dental decay, but bacteria also having braces is a positive thing rather than one that should make cause cavities. The main culprit is a bacteria called Streptococcus you hide in fear. mutans, which lives in the plaque on your teeth and feeds off the If a kid gets braces and approaches it with fear and wants to sugars in your mouth, producing an acid that weakens your teeth hide, other kids pick up on that fear and that’s where a lot of the and causes cavities. teasing really comes in and it really erodes their self-esteem. Like most bacteria, Streptococcus mutans can be transmitted — Jill M. Emanuele, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist at the Anxiety and from one person to another. 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First, try not to panic too much as you approach your child. Oftentimes there is a lot of bleeding if the injury involves the mouth. The oral tissues are highly vascular, so profuse bleeding is common. If the school nurse has not done so already, place an ice pack on the injury and apply light gauze pressure to the site of injury. This will usually control the bleeding, and the ice will help with any swelling. If the injury involves the mouth or jaw, call your child’s dentist right away. You may want to call your dental office as you head to the school so they are prepared to see your little one as soon as possible. If there is general head trauma, and your child is complaining of headache, dizziness, or disorientation, take your child to the emergency room immediately to rule out a concussion. If a permanent tooth has been knocked out of your child’s mouth, do everything you can to locate the tooth. Try not to handle the tooth by the root. Make no attempt to clean the tooth if there is visible dirt or debris. Place the tooth in a cup of milk or a “tooth saver solution” if the school nurse has it. The most ideal scenario is to place the tooth back in the socket if your child allows, but we often find that the parent and child are too nervous to do so, and that is okay. Take your child and the tooth to your dentist as soon as possible. Time really is important in this case; the sooner the tooth is re-implanted and stabilized, the better the prognosis. If the tooth is a baby tooth, it will not be re-implanted. You still want to have your child examined, and take the baby tooth with you, if you have it. Your pediatric dentist will evaluate the other teeth for any signs of mobility or damage as well as evaluate the jaws and bite to rule out a fracture. —Mahnaz Khan, D.D.S., a board-certified pediatric dentist at Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry in Westbury

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raising kids quotables

How did your deﬁnition of love change after becoming a parent? “Becoming a mom taught me to love from a different part of who I was before my kids were born. Before I became a mom I thought I knew the boundaries of my heart. From the moment I found out I was pregnant and then first saw my children, I knew that this kind of love is totally different than any other love I’ve felt before and that love truly is limitless, life altering, boundless, and completely unconditional.” —Monica Shulman, artist and photographer, Lower Hudson Valley

“Before becoming a parent, I have to admit that my idea of love was fickle, superficial, and often materialistic. After having children, my definition of love became seriously unconditional because even though my little ones do & say things that may hurt me, I still care about them immensely and want to continue protecting and nurturing them. My parental love is selfless and my whole being is devoted to my children. This kind of love is physical and emotional and encompasses my life and affects every decision I make.” —Scherrie Donaldson, aka @thirtymommy, East Flatbush

“...I came around to the front of the stroller, grabbed his legs and as words started to come out of my mouth, I felt my eyes ﬁll with hot tears and my voice catch in my throat. I barely managed to say, “You are making mommy very sad” before the tears started cascading down my face.” Anyone else have experience with raising a strongwilled child?

“Love means catching throw up in your hands. Love means staying up with a sick child. Love means making four different sandwiches for four children. Love means that your favorite present is the one they chose from the boutique at school. Love means your favorite days are the ones where you see how proud they are of themselves and their accomplishments. Love means helping them through difficult times with a smile even though it breaks your heart. Love means my heart grew every time I had another child and that my life is full of love every day.”

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I swear our emotions and psyches are inextricably linked with our children’s in some deep, cosmic way. What they feel, we feel. What they experience, we experience. We may not feel or experience what they do to the same degree or with the same intensity, but parental empathy is real. And it’s freaking exhausting. —Annie Reneau in a post entitled “We Feel Our Kids’ Feelings, And It’s Exhausting,” on scarymommy.com

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“Having kids unlocked an entire new compartment in my heart for love. I tell them every second that I get that I love them and mean it sincerely. My heart feels full now and I am so happy to experience the love of a mother. It truly has no bounds.” —Suzanne Cohen, aka @gothamlove, Manhattan

Young Love “My son’s first crush was Victoria. It was love at first sight when they met in kindergarten and it continued in elementary school. Then Titanic came out and their relationship tanked too—until my son declared his affection on national television. During an appearance on the show Kids Say the Darndest Things, he said in the cutest little 6-year-old voice that he loved Victoria, but then explained: ‘She dumped me…because she loves Leonardo DiCaprio.’” —Laurie Sue Brockway in an article entitled “How to Handle Your Child’s First Crush;” read the whole thing at nymetroparents.com/ﬁrst-crush.

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