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Summer A Z 26 ways to have a blast with your kids Plus, there’s still time to register for summer programs!

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Sun Protection 101

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Precautions to protect you and your child’s skin from the harmful effects of UV rays

Family Activities Calendar

Find something fun to do with your family every day of the month!

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Summer A to Z Is Your Teen Ready for a Job? Summer Fun Listings Camps at-a-Glance Chart

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Time to Sell?

From kids’ rooms to bathrooms and the kitchen, easy solutions to keep your home clutter-free.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Fear of Carrots 12 The Nanny Search of 2019, Sun Protection 101 25 Party Central 40 My Baby Hates Tummy Time 42 Meet the Health Care Professional 45 Professional Services, Advertisers’ Index 46 LGBTQ+ Books for Kids

26 Family Fun a Ride Away

38 Why You Need an Emergency Fund 39 Time to Sell?

27 Family Activities Calendar

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raising kids editor’s note JUNE 2019 • Vol.16 • No.10

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h, summer! With school vacation on the horizon and the start of camp quickly approaching, it’s the season our kids look forward to most. If your children are going to summer camp this year, or you’re still looking for the perfect dance, art, sports, or day camp, take a look the Camp Planner if you haven’t yet. It’s full of great advice to be the best camp parent possible—you won’t want to miss the best-kept secrets camp directors shared!—and local camp descriptions to find the right camp for your children. Read it at nymetroparents.com/campguide/brooklyn. On the other hand, if your children are spending their summer days at home, you might be wondering what the heck you’re going to do to keep them from repeating the dreaded “I’m bored!” multiple times a day. Turn to p. 15 for “Summer A to Z.” We searched the area for 26 things to do with your kids—from minor league baseball games and amusement parks to strawberry festivals and making your own ice cream—all so you can spend your time doing what’s most important: having fun with your children. If your kids have aged out of summer camp and are looking for something to do, a part-time job may be on their minds. But is your really teen ready to take on the responsibility? Check out the four questions to gauge job readiness on p. 22 to see if the time is right for your child to fill out applications. Here’s to a fun, relaxing summer! Katelin Walling Editorial Director

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A Fear of Carrots ››

How I’m learning to live with my picky eater By Shana Liebman

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e’ve all met this kid before. He only eats pasta with butter and plain oatmeal. Or Cheerios and french fries. Before I had children, it was impossible for me to imagine that I—a home cook, a frequent restaurant-goer, a lifetime subscriber to Gourmet—would call this kind of kid my own. But as fate would have it, I have a picky eater. His name is Nate, and he is adorable, smart, funny, warm, creative, talented, and a terrible, no good, very bad eater. His staples are hot dogs, cheese sticks, and pasta without sauce. He refuses all vegetables and fruits and anything slightly outside his comfort zone. Which is everything. It started when he was a baby (he was revolted by his first piece of avocado) and at age 4, he would rather forgo TV than eat a snap pea. I have gone through the stages of grief: 1. No way not me! 2. I can change him with my clever cooking. 3. I will punish him until he changes. 4. I don’t care. Let him starve. 5. I cracked the code! 6. I don’t care. Let him starve. 7. Help! For years, family dinners went something like this: 6:15pm: Nate refuses to even try the cauliflower with cheese sauce or hummus and carrots. He asks for ketchup. 6:18pm: Nate eats four strands of pasta and asks to be excused. We say no and he slides off his chair onto the floor, then tries to stick forks into water bottles. We tell Nate to join us; he cries. Nate goes to his room. We eat his dinner. 6:25pm: I clean up a million dishes. In 2014, Nate ate a carrot, and I got so excited that I served carrots with every meal and as a prerequisite for every treat. That is until Nate, under the adoring gaze of his grandparents, refused his one baby carrot. I pushed and threatened and 30 minutes later when he finally finished the tiny carrot, he made a weird gagging noise, came over to me, and threw it up in my lap. It wasn’t a lot of vomit—but it was the whole baby carrot, the one I made him eat, in regurgitated flecks on my lap. (My husband Michael and I later noted that this was a pretty brilliant move that we now refer to as “throwing up the carrot”—when a kid makes it almost impossible to continue to make him do something.) By then I was fully in stage eight, denial, so I soldiered on. I 10

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Nate, the picky eater who prefers hot dogs, cheese sticks, and plain pasta

tried all the tricks, including instituting schedules for meals and snacks, as Dina Rose recommends in her brilliant book It’s Not About the Broccoli. We tried mandatory tasting to no avail, and I had little success with the hide-the-veggies approach to recipes a la Jessica Seinfeld. My banana-peanut butter-spinach muffins were bland and dense. Nobody liked them…all 48 of them. There was one that was successful—Melissa Clark’s Carroty Mac and Cheese. Then in 2015, a study published in the Journal of Pediatrics claimed picky eaters had a higher tendency toward mental health problems: “Their sensory experience is more intense in the areas of taste, texture, and visual cues. And their internal experience may be more intense, so they have stronger feelings. They’re sensitive kids who may be anxious or a little depressed; so cutting up fruits into funny shapes is not going to do the trick for these kids.” While I hope Nate never suffers from anxiety or depression, the study hit home. I’d long noticed Nate’s aversion to foods was not remedied with games or tricks. It goes deep. Something about a texture or smell will completely disgust him. While I’ve fantasized that he will turn into a “super taster” or foodie with highly developed senses who actually excels at all things culinary, it’s probably more likely this extreme sensitivity will apply to other aspects of his life. Also, maybe this whole picky eating thing was beyond his control. Around then I heard a PBS investigation into the science of picky eating that seemed to support that theory. “Biologists have discovered that, out of the thousands of genes in our DNA, there’s one that determines if we like the taste of some healthy greens or if we can’t stand them,” explained NOVA host Neil DeGrasse Tyson. In other words: “It is biologically predetermined. They are innocent in this accusatory world.” Both of these studies urged parents to create positive experiences around eating. Family dinner should be more about family than dinner. And this is ultimately what became our solution. Lay off him. Make sure he gets a minimum of nutrients, gently urge him to try new foods and talk about something else. Five years later, he’s still a picky eater but at least we now eat dinner without tears.


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ew things are as nerve-racking as choosing a person to watch your children for extended periods of time. Here are some of the most important things you should be thinking about during your nanny search.

Knowledge

Once upon a time, the nanny-hiring process involved questions as simple as: “Can you feed and dress a child?” and “Can you put her to bed?” But in this digital age, the standards are higher. Your nanny should be well-versed in things like food allergies and baby development exercises. For example, he or she should be able to diagnose an itchy throat as a possible allergic reaction to pineapple and know that your 18-month-old has officially entered full-blown exploration mode.

Communication Skills

Your nanny should be able to relay important information to you regarding your child and his or her day. It’s also useful if your caretaker can explain complex subjects and engage in challenging conversations with your children.

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Your 15-year-old niece might be a cute babysitter, but a trust-worthy nanny will require a solid recommendation. If you find yourself running out of options, consider reaching out to a local church, synagogue, pediatrician, or even—if you’re in the NYC area—the Mommybites Nanny Board! Whatever direction you choose for child care, make sure to go into the process with a plan in place, parameters set, and questions to ask.

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Sun Protection 101

›› By Melissa Wickes

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id you know it only takes about 7 minutes for the receptors in your skin cells to become fully saturated with Vitamin D? With summer approaching, your family may be itching to get outside. However, it’s important to protect you and your kids from the harm the sun can cause, including greater risk for skin cancer and a variety of rashes. Kenneth T. Kircher, D.O., FAOCD, dermatologist on the medical staff of HealthAlliance Hospital in Kingston, shares five things to know to best protect your family. Use zinc oxide sunscreen. When it comes to sunscreen, there are two main categories: physical blocks and chemical blocks. While chemical blocks absorb the harmful UV rays from the sun, physical blocks cause those rays to bounce off your skin. Both are useful, but Dr. Kircher recommends zinc oxide (a physical block) because as a naturally occurring mineral, zinc is thought to be safer to use on small children. Titanium dioxide is another physical block, while everything else is a chemical block. Sunscreens won’t harm you. A recent study by the Food and Drug Administration shows that an amount of chemicals is absorbed in the body when chemical blocks are used. However, the main chemicals in those sunscreens are not harmful to the body. The FDA’s study was simply conducted to find out more safety data, according to the American Academy of Dermatology. The ingredients used most frequently in sunscreens in the U.S. are safe. The higher the SPF, the better. You’ve likely heard that an SPF higher than 50 does not make a difference. While the 12

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increase in protection is quite small once you go above 50, it does make a difference. “When [a brand tests] a sunscreen, they put them on way thicker than you would wear it,” Dr. Kircher says. With SPF 50, you may actually only be getting an SPF of 30-35, he explains. Limit sun exposure. When avoiding the sun is unavoidable, wearing a rash guard in the water, a hat, SPF-protected clothing, or even a regular cotton T-shirt can protect your skin. Be cognizant of the amount of time you’re in the sun. A sunburn is an inflammatory process that will take hours to manifest, says Dr. Kircher, so you may not see the effects until later. He recommends covering up infants younger than 6 months as much as possible using clothing. This includes sunglasses which should have a UVA/UVB blocking label. Reapplication time depends on your activity. Sunscreens now provide a water-resistance time factor on the label. However, this is all relative to your activity. “If your child is in the waves, you will have to reapply more frequently than if they’re just walking around on a cool day,” Dr. Kircher says.


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Summer A Work your way through the alphabet for 26 fun things to do with your kids this season!

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By Katelin Walling and Shana Liebman

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ith school coming to a close, you may be wondering what the heck you’re going to do to keep your kids entertained if they’re not going to summer camp this year (or they’re going for a week or two). We’ve got you covered! From boat rides and visits to the zoo to picnicking, watching movies outside, and a trip back in time to an Elizabethan England village, you’ll find 26 ideas for summer fun. Whether you start at A, Z, or somewhere in the middle, make sure to go through the whole alphabet for a summer of fun right here at home!


Anchors aweigh!

Don your sea legs and take a Circle Line (circleline.com) boat tour to see Manhattan from a different point of view. Family-friendly cruises from Pier 83 in Midtown include Best of NYC (2½ hours), which circumnavigates the city; Liberty (1 hour); Landmarks (1½ hours); and Harbor Lights (2 hours). Cruises departing from Pier 16 in Downtown Manhattan include Statue of Liberty Express and Statue by Night, both 1 hour.

Build sand castles at adjacent Brighton and Coney Island beaches. You’ll also find a 2.7-mile boardwalk, New York Aquarium, Luna Park (including the Cyclone rollercoaster), eateries, and outdoor spray showers. For more information, and more nearby beaches, visit nymetroparents.com/beaches.

Carry out a

random act of kindness!

Inspire your kids to hold the door open for a stranger, help an elderly person with his or her groceries, or pick up litter. Performing random acts of kindness can be contagious, especially when you turn it into a game. That’s where Boom Boom! Cards Family Edition ($14.99), which includes 26 RAKs, comes in handy. Each deck has a unique code that you register at boomboomcards.com. After performing an act of kindness, log in and tell your fellow “agents of altruism” about it; then pass along that particular card to another family. Via the website, you can track your friends’ acts of kindness, too.

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Day trip, anyone?

If you’re itching for an adventure and your family vacation is still weeks away, you’re in luck! We’ve compiled itineraries for the best day trips (all within 150 miles of NYC) with your family, whether you want to explore the Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown, Mystic Seaport in Mystic, CT, or the Crayola Experience in Easton, PA. Check it out at nymetroparents.com/day-trips.

Eat al fresco. There’s no better way to shake up meal time than dining al fresco, whether it’s at a restaurant that has outdoor seating, in your backyard, or on your apartment building’s rooftop terrace. We love spreading out a blanket and dining among nature (and other picnickers) at the neighborhood park.

Find fresh produce and baked goods at the farmers’ market. Nestled between Williamsburg and Greenpoint, the McCarren Park Greenmarket offers an assortment of fresh produce meats, fresh milk, honey, eggs, and more, plus cooking demos and family activities. For more information, and other markets in Brooklyn, visit nymetroparents.com/farmers-markets.

Gobble up some strawberry treats

at the Nassau County Strawberry Festival in Bellmore. It features live entertainment, carnival rides and games, and all the strawberry-themed treats you could want! Held at the Bellmore BOCES School, this year’s festival will run Thursday, May 30 through Sunday, June 2. For more information, visit nymetroparents.com/strawberries.

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Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate! It’s especially important to drink plenty of water when you’re out and about with your family during the summer months, and you can’t go wrong with the tried-and-true Nalgene (nalgene.com) water bottles, which are manufactured in Rochester! From Grip-n-Gulps ($13) for toddlers to age 6, to Kids On-the-Fly ($14) and 16oz-32oz bottles for adults ($7-$16)— all of which come in an assortment of colors and prints—you’ll find a BPA-, BPS-, and phthalate-free bottle for everyone in your family.

Indulge in ice cream to beat the heat. While we love stopping by the local scoop shop for a dish of our favorite flavor, there’s nothing quite like making your own ice cream at home! For a sciencefilled recipe that will have your kids learning, visit nymetroparents.com/icecream-science. Or for a super-easy recipe that only calls for frozen bananas, peanut butter (optional), cocoa powder, and vanilla, visit nymetroparents.com/easy-icecream.

Jump, jump, jump around! The Big Bounce America is bringing 20,000 square feet of inflatable fun to Aviator Sports and Events Center in Marine Park, Brooklyn for two weekends: July 26-28 and Aug. 2-4. Trust us, the trip to Brooklyn is worth it! Find more information at nymetroparents.com/big-bounce. 18

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Kick back and relax with a book.

Visit your local public library branch, have each child in your family (and you!) pick out a book or two, check them out, and bring them home for a family story time.


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After your picnic, let the kids run around the park or play on the playground until dark, when you can lay back and look for shooting stars. Or, if you want to know what you’re looking at, visit the Hayden Planetarium at American Museum of Natural History (amnh.org) on the Upper West Side for a viewing of Dark Space, narrated by Neal deGrasse Tyson.

Munch on peanuts and Cracker Jack while rooting for the Brooklyn Cyclones!

The Can-Am League team, based in Pomona, offers BoulderBird’s Kids Club, a free club for ages 13 and younger. Members get a free ticket to Sunday home games, discounts, and more! Find more minor league baseball teams in the New York metro area at nymetroparents.com/baseball.

Nurture a passion for giving back. The New York Mets affiliate will host its home opener on Friday, June 14 against the Staten Island Yankees in Coney Island, Brooklyn. Plus, there are fireworks after Friday and Saturday home games, and kids can run the bases after home games on Sundays. Find more minor league baseball teams in the New York metro area at nymetroparents.com/volunteer.

Outdoor movies are one of summer’s greatest pleasures.

Putt your way to a hole in one!

Mini-golf has something for everyone: from scenic views along the course to glow-in-the-dark pirates. Shipwrecked Miniature Golf in Red Hook takes you a pirate-themed journey— enhanced by theatrical lighting and special effects. For more information, and more mini golf courses in Brooklyn, visit nymetroparents.com/mini-golf.

Stake out your spot before the sun sets, lay out a picnic, and let the kids frolic nearby. At McCarren Park in Williamsburg, you can see movies on Wednesdays in July and August. Schedule was not yet announced at time of press. For more information, and other outdoor movies in Brooklyn, visit nymetroparents.com/outdoor-movies. BrooklynParent 19


Quiet time is easier to come by in summer.

Take a couple hours off to find solace in peaceful outdoor places. Take a walk in the park, visit the serene Cloisters in upper Manhattan or bike one of the many beautiful trails in Rockland or Bergen counties. Whatever you choose, make sure you leave the noise behind.

Round & Round we go!

Climb aboard your favorite horse and take a spin or two on Jane’s Carousel, located in Brooklyn Bridge Park in Dumbo. This 1922 structure features 48 horses, two chariots, and 1,200 lights. It’s housed in a glass-enclosed pavilion, so it can be open yearround. For more carousels in Brooklyn, visit nymetroparents. com/carousels.

Scamper through the rain. Don your rain coats and boots to jump in puddles with your kids. Whoever makes the biggest splash wins!

Thrill your kids with a day at Adventurer’s Park! With 22 rides, including bumper cars, tea cups, and a merry-go-round, this Bensonhurst park (adventurerspark.com) has plenty of family-friendly options. For the more adventurous, the park offers gokarts. But if a more relaxed day is more your speed, check out the mini-golf course and midway games.

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Vitamin D? Yes, please!

But before you head outside, make sure everyone in the family slathers on the sunscreen—and re-applies it every hour. After all, we don’t want any sunburns to hamper our summer fun! We’re loving Supergoop’s new Sunnyscreen, three 100-percent mineral sunscreen formulas specifically for babies and kids ($24-$26; supergoop.com).


Wander

through Elizabethan England.

Back in the Orange County town of Tuxedo for its 42nd season, the New York Renaissance Faire (renfair.com/ny) will be held Saturday-Sunday and Labor Day, Aug. 17-Oct. 6. The 65-acre village celebrates life in the 16th century with costumed performers, jousting tournaments, music, festive foods, magicians, rides, and more than 100 shops selling handmade wares. Don’t miss the Children’s Knighting Ceremony, the Enchanted Forest, or Kidsquest, where kids can participate in a 30-minute adventure in which they work together to help the fairies save their enchanted homes.

X-treme sports are not just for athletes. Warm weather and summer adrenaline can inspire even the most reluctant adventurers to get outdoors and try something new. Now’s the time to sign up for the group trapeze class or a ziplining trip. Get out there—it’s the season to explore!

Yard sales, flea markets, tag sales, oh my! Before spending a day browsing for treasures, make your own scavenger hunt with unique things like “the weirdest thing you found,” “a book with the letter z in the title,” “a gadget you’ve never seen before,” “a blast from the past (an old game system, old telephone, or typewriter).” Happy hunting!

Zoos are

easy family fun. At the Wildlife Conservation Society’s Prospect Park Zoo in Prospect Heights, you can meet a troop of Hamadryas baboons; experience a variety of animal habitats, including gardens, marshes, and scrubland; visit the Barn & Garden area, where you’ll find farm animals such as sheep, cows, and llamas; and watch some high-fiving sea lions catch fish on the fly. For more information, and more local zoos, visit nymetroparents.com/zoos.

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Is Your Teen Ready for a Job?

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Your high-schooler may need money, but that doesn’t mean jumping into the workforce is the right move. By Christina Vercelletto

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arents of teens commiserate over many things, but if there is one universal they can all relate to, it is the phrase “I need money for….” The possibilities for the second half of the sentence are endless: new sneakers, a ticket for the school play, a team jacket, a friend’s birthday gift, a MetroCard. So, when your high-schooler brings up getting a job, it may be all you can do to resist shouting “Yesssss!” But your jubilation should be tempered with a bit of caution.

Four Questions to Assess Job Readiness

Teens may all need money, but not all of them are actually ready to handle a job. Whether seeking gainful employment was her idea or yours, here’s what to consider before you sign the working papers. Can he manage his time pretty well? This is one of the most fundamental skill sets for job readiness, affirms Alexandra Hamlet, Psy.D., at Child Mind Institute in Manhattan. “Teens who can show respect for their co-workers’ and boss’ time are on their way to becoming successful in their first job,” she says. If your kid is the one forever missing the bus, waiting on applying for that first job might be wise. How are her communication skills? “Communication skills development is key for many areas of life, and especially in the workforce,” Dr. Hamlet notes. If your teen seems comfortable holding conversations with adults, and is able to express her thoughts clearly, those are good signs she’s ready to respond to that help-wanted post. Kids who are afraid to ask questions (and tend to pretend they know more than they do to avoid looking “stupid”) would likely do well to work on breaking those habits before taking a job. Does he seem to have a solid sense of what’s appropriate in different situations? Professionalism is another key readiness factor that can be expressed in several ways: showing up in appropriate attire, coming prepared for the workday, and being able to maintain a respectful, friendly demeanor (even when he’s in a bad mood), Dr. Hamlet says. When deciding if your child has the ability to present himself appropriately, look to what happens at school. Does he wear clean, weather-appropriate clothes, or is he a wrinkled mess? Is he usually prepared with his school work? Does he follow the rules? Is she a team player? Most jobs these days, for students or grownups, require at least some teamwork. “Teaching your teen a teamwork ethic could be helpful,” Dr. Hamlet says. “This would include

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formation of overall leadership abilities, learning to be helpful and collaborative with others, and valuing contributions from members of the team.” If your child seems to work well during group projects, or has successfully been playing a team sport, those are good signs. Even if your teen seems to be coming up a bit short in one or two of these areas, it doesn’t necessarily mean she or he shouldn’t apply for a job. All of these job-readiness criteria are moderated by the prefrontal cortex, the area of the brain responsible for planning complex cognitive behavior, decision making and impulse control, and moderating social behavior, which isn’t fully mature until the early 20s. “Waiting for them to be one-hundred percent in all of those areas would probably require you to wait until they graduate from college to allow them to have their first job!” Dr. Hamlet notes. “Working toward growth in each of these areas is more realistic.”

Know the Labor Laws

Your teen wants a job. You think he’s ready to handle it. The next step is applying, and it’s important to educate yourself about child labor laws. Make sure you understand the rules that apply to your child, because not every employer can be trusted to adhere to them. Christine Koehler’s daughter, Mari, was 15 when she was hired as a hostess for a pub-style restaurant near the family’s Long Beach home. “She loved it at first, but the owner kept giving her more and more hours,” Koehler recalls. “Before long, I was picking her up at [one in the morning] on Saturday nights. The owner didn’t really seem to care she was a young girl working nights with...the bar crowd.” “New York state has one of the strictest child labor laws in the country,” says Wendy Gildin, an attorney in Garden City specializing in issues surrounding students. Kids younger than 14 can’t work, period. Fourteen and 15-year-olds can’t work more than 3 hours on a school day, or more than 18 hours in any given week. There are also laws around how late at night minors can work on school vs. nonschool days, with some exceptions for babysitters, Gilden notes. New York state requires all 14- to 17-year-olds to file working papers. These are available through your child’s school. “Your child will have to have had a doctor’s exam in the last year,” Gildin adds. Our very first job is one we all remember, even if it wasn’t the perfect experience. Talk with your teen, about what he needs money for and how much, what the world of work entails, and how it can be part of his healthy march toward adulthood. Prepare him well, and his job will be a life-long memory, too.


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1003 Surf Ave. 718-996-2000 artshouseschools.org arts_house1@yahoo.com Art’s House Schools’ July Dance and Music session, welcomes children to try something new for the summer or get ready for their fall lessons. Music and dance intensive programs prepare students for junior and high school specialized testing. Classes in ballet, tap, jazz, acro/tumbling, contemporary, piano, guitar, and voice.

Brienza’s Academic Advantage Inc.

Several Locations in Brooklyn and Staten Island Call for a location near you! 718-232-0114 brienzas.com Brienza’s Academic Advantage offers a wide variety of academic programs for students in kindergarten through 12th grade. Specializing in reading and math tutoring, TACHS, SHSAT, Regents, and SAT and ACT preparation. Programs offered include tutoring in all subjects, test preparation, Mandated Summer School programs, and SETSS (P-4) services to qualified students.

Cumbe: Center for African and Diaspora Dance

1368 Fulton St. 718-935-9700 cumbedance.org jimena@cumbedance.com The time has come for young artists (ages 3-8) to unleash their imagination and learn about African-rooted music and dance from across the Diaspora! Join us this summer as we explore our creative voices through four exciting weeks of dance and movement, song, percussion, and a variety of visual art forms.

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New York Surf School

Rockaway Beach 718-916-5359 surflessonsnewyork101.com nysurfschool@gmail.com Kids, teens, and adult surf camp is available from June 17-Sept. 20 at Rockaway Beach, NYC. Beginner, intermediate, and advanced sessions are offered. Easy to reach from all parts of Brooklyn. Become part of the greatest lifestyle on earth! Surfing is one of New York’s best kept secrets.

The Park Slope Day Camp

Ronny Schindler, executive director 718-788-7732 parkslopedaycamp.com The Park Slope Day Camp has programs for every camper. Our Traditional Camp is great for a well-rounded summer experience, Sports Academy is perfect for campers interested an athletic environment, and Cirque d’Ete is a performance experience where children explore their imagination and skills to put on a show for their families.

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Family Fun a Ride Away By Melissa Wickes

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In Suffolk County, NY…

Last year, more than 100 makers and 2,000 participants of all ages participated in experiences involving various STEM concepts.

On Run Days, Long Island Live Steamers is open to the public to experience ride-on trains from 10:30am-3pm.

Long Island Explorium

Long Island Live Steamers

Courtesy The Dinosaur Place at Natures Art Village

The Eastern Long Island Mini Maker Faire will be at the Long Island Explorium on Saturday, June 8. Thousands of participants of all ages will have the opportunity to join together to feast their eyes on kinetic and interactive art, fire sculptures, robots, and more. Experience creative, hands-on exhibits, including virtual reality ocean exploration. Visit it: 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson; 631-331-3277; longislandexplorium.org

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You and the family can take a photo under the 40-foot tall Brachiosaurus, which is tall enough to drive a car under.

The Dinosaur Place at Nature’s Art Village

This is not your average hike with the family. At the Dinosaur Place, you’ll hike 1½ miles alongside more than 40 life-sized dinosaurs at this 60-acre, outdoor adventure park. Expect to see the 40-foot tall Brachiosaurus and the Therizinosaurus, with claws longer than 3 feet. You’ll even encounter a life-like, roaring, animatronic Dilophosaurus! Visit It: 1650 Hartford-New London Turnpike, Montville, CT; naturesartvillage.com/the-dinosaur-place; 860-443-4367 26

This nonprofit aims to educate and preserve the history of railroading on Long Island. View scale model steam boilers, engines, boats, tractors, and fully functional railroad models on any visit. Twice monthly on Sundays, the family can ride steam, diesel, and electric trains on 8 acres of scale tracks on Public Run Days. Run days this month are June 9 and 30. Visit It: 189 Gerard Road, Brookhaven; 631-345-0499; longislandlivesteamers.org

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Diggerland

Does your daughter love to play with toy dumpster trucks? Does your son stare in awe whenever there’s a crane within sight? If the answer is yes, Diggerland is a must visit. This construction-themed adventure park allows families to drive, ride on, and operate heavy machinery in a safe environment. For smaller visitors, the park also offers a playground, Barrel Train, Military Truck, and arcade. Visit It: 100 Pinedge Drive, West Berlin, NJ; diggerlandusa.com; 856-888-4609


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Red Hook Fest FREE

WHEN: Through June 1: Saturdays, 2-7pm WHERE: Valentino Park and Pier, Coffey and Ferris streets, Red Hook AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy free barbecue, a DJ-led dance party, stunning performances by musicians and dancers, and pre-professional youth performances. WHY WE LOVE IT: Other activities include scavenger hunts, reading tents, and free kayaking on the harbor. WANT TO GO? 718-643-6790. redhookfest.com.

12th Annual Go Green Brooklyn Festival FREE

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WHEN: Saturday, June 1, 12-5pm WHERE: McCarren Park, 900 Lorimer St., Williamsburg AGES: All WHAT: Learn about sustainability initiatives while enjoying local food, live-action art projects, and musical performances. WHY WE LOVE IT: The fun includes live music by Anna Banana and Hopalong Andrew, and a children’s pop-up playground. WANT TO GO? 347-987-2765. townsquareinc.com.

World Science Festival NYC FREE

WHEN: June 1-2, Saturday-Sunday, see website for schedule WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 1, 334 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: The fun includes stargazing, as well as a session by a former White House pastry chef, discussing the unpredictability of cooking and eating in outer space. WHY WE LOVE IT: This festival takes science out of the lab and into the streets, parks, and museums. WANT TO GO? 718-683-5600. brooklynbridgepark.org/events.

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WHEN: Sunday, June 9, 2-6pm WHERE: Coney Island Boardwalk, Boardwalk and West 12th Street, Coney Island AGES: All WHAT: Watch performances by musicians and dancers representing cultures of countries from which people have emigrated to Coney Island. WHY WE LOVE IT: Families can enjoy 3 hours of live entertainment on the boardwalk stage! WANT TO GO? coneyislandhistory.org.

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Live at the Archway Series 2019 FREE

WHEN: June 6-27, Thursdays, 5:30pm WHERE: Archway Under the Manhattan Bridge, Water Street between Anchorage Place and Adams Street, Dumbo

AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy dynamic musical performances, pop-up galleries, and interactive art experiences. WHY WE LOVE IT: New this year is a special Family Jam that opens each night with puppets, hula-hoopers, and more. WANT TO GO? dumbo.is/live-at-the-archway.

Donald Zucker and Barbara Hrbek Zucker Ocean Wonders: Sharks! FREE

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WHEN: Through June 30: daily, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Aquarium, 602 Surf Ave., Coney Island AGES: All WHAT: See the more than 115 species, including sand tiger sharks and sandbar sharks, that live in this state-of-the-art exhibit. WHY WE LOVE IT: Sharks aren’t your thing? There are also rays, sea turtles, and other marine life that live right off the Coney Island Boardwalk. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children 2 and younger. 718-265-3474. nyaquarium.com.

‘Peter & the Wolf’ & ‘The Frog Prince’

History Day at Deno’s Wonder Wheel Park FREE

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WHEN: June 1-30, Saturday-Sunday, 12:30pm and 2:30pm WHERE: Puppetworks Inc, 338 6th Ave., Park Slope AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Enjoy a special showing of Peter & the Wolf and The Frog Prince, adapted for marionettes. WHY WE LOVE IT: Children will love seeing these classic stories come to life using expertly crafted string puppets. WANT TO GO? $20; $10 child. 718-965-3391. puppetworks.org.

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WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE

Chancellor’s Day in Prospect Park FREE

Brooklyn Book Bodega FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 1, 11am WHERE: Ingersoll Community Center, 472 Myrtle Ave., Clinton Hill AGES: All WHAT: There will also be readings, crafts, a book swap, and activities for kids. WANT TO GO? 718-522-5051. downtownbrooklyn.com.

Brooklyn Traditional Slow Jam FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, June 5, 7-9pm WHERE: Old Stone House & Stone Park, 336 3rd St., Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: This acoustic instrumental meet-up focuses on traditional fiddle tunes. WANT TO GO? 718-614-2919. nycgovparks.org.

The Mini Brooklyn Playdate FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, June 12, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy fun games and activities that encourage early literacy. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org/locations/central.

Coney Island Fireworks FREE

WHEN: Thursday, June 6, 12-4pm WHERE: Prospect Park Audubon Center, 101 East Drive, Flatbush AGES: All WHAT: Join for nature education programs, animal encounters, a family bird walk, and field games. WANT TO GO? 646-393-9031. prospectpark.org.

Aquarium Mornings with The Animals

WHEN: Saturday, June 8, 9-10:30am WHERE: New York Aquarium, 602 Surf Ave., Coney Island AGES: 3-8, adult WHAT: Enjoy early access while you create, play, and move together. WANT TO GO? $30; $25 members. 718-265-3474. nyaquarium.com.

Mini Marine Medics

WHEN: Saturday, June 15, 9-10:30am WHERE: New York Aquarium, 602 Surf Ave., Coney Island AGES: 3-8, adult WHAT: Learn how a WCS veterinarian takes care of the aquatic animals. WANT TO GO? $30; $25 Members. 718-265-3474. nyaquarium.com.

Fishing Clinics FREE

WHEN: Sunday, June 16, 7-8:45pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 5, 334 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn how to tie fishing knots, bait a hook, cast a fishing rod, and catch a fish. WANT TO GO? 718-683-5600. brooklynbridgepark.org. ››

WHEN: June 21-28, Fridays, 9:30-10pm WHERE: Coney Island USA, 1208 Surf Ave., Coney Island AGES: All WHAT: Sing karaoke then watch fireworks illuminate the sky! WANT TO GO? 718-372-5159. coneyisland.com.

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Family Time at BHS Dumbo: Storytelling FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 29, 10:30am-1:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Historical Society Dumbo, 55 Water St., Dumbo AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Check out the exhibit Waterfront, then stay for a story time featuring a reading and a hands-on component. WANT TO GO? brooklynhistory.org.

Saturday Author Story Time FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 28: Saturdays, 11:30am WHERE: Greenlight Bookstore, 686 Fulton St., Fort Greene AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Authors present their books with interactive readings and drawings, and often activities and crafts. WANT TO GO? 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com.

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Sunday Bookseller Story Time FREE

Drag Queen Story Hour

WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Sundays, 11:30am WHERE: Greenlight Bookstore, 632 Flatbush Ave., Prospect Lefferts Gardens AGES: All WHAT: Greenlight staff choose their favorite read-aloud books to share with young booklovers. WANT TO GO? 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com.

Stephen Savage: Book Reading and Signing for ‘SIGN OFF’ FREE

SHOW TIME!

WHEN: Saturday, June 8, 11am-12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 145 Brooklyn Ave., Crown Heights AGES: 3 and older WHAT: This interactive art and story time program celebrates the uniqueness of kids and families. WANT TO GO? $11; free for children younger than 1. 718-735-4400. brooklynkids.org. WHEN: June 8-9, Saturday-Sunday, 11:30am WHERE: Powerhouse on 8th, 1111 8th Ave., Park Slope AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Join the fun at this children’s book reading and signing. WANT TO GO? 718-666-3049. powerhouseon8th.com.

Story Time in the Secret Garden: ‘Jack and the Beanstalk’

WHEN: Sunday, June 16, 11am-12pm WHERE: Snug Harbor Cultural Arts Center, 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Your children will feel swept away in the newly restored Connie Gretz Secret Garden while they listen to engaging readings. WANT TO GO? $5 per child; free for adults. 718-425-3504. snug-harbor.org.

Adam Auerbach: Book Reading and Signing for ‘The Three Vikings’ FREE WHEN: Sunday, June 16, 11:30am WHERE: Powerhouse on 8th, 1111 8th Ave., Park Slope AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Hear a story and get a copy of the book signed. WANT TO GO? 718-666-3049. powerhouseon8th.com.

Story Time in the Secret Garden: ‘The Tiny Seed’

WHEN: Sunday, June 23, 11am-12pm WHERE: Snug Harbor Cultural Arts Center, 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Carried from its flower home by the autumn wind, a tiny seed travels around the world. WANT TO GO? $5 per child; free for adults. 718-425-3504. snug-harbor.org.

Summer Reading Storytime at Brooklyn Bridge Park FREE

WHEN: June 12-26, Wednesdays, 10:30am WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 3, 146-300 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: The Brooklyn Public Library presents weekly stories and songs for kids. WANT TO GO? 718-624-4719. nycgovparks.org. 30

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Rite of Summer: Ensemble Connect FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 1, 1-4pm WHERE: Governors Island, ferries leave from Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 6, New York Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Ensemble Connect presents a program juxtaposing a nostalgia for an idyllic past and an uncertainty about a sustainable future. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

The Rock n Roll Playhouse Presents The Music of Aretha Franklin for Kids WHEN: Sunday, June 9, 12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bowl, 61 Wythe Ave., Williamsburg AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Kids get their groove on to the music of Aretha Franklin at this weekly family-friendly concert. WANT TO GO? $12. 718-963-3369. therockandrollplayhouse.com.

Brooklyn Symphony Orchestra: Borodin, Stravinsky, and Shostakovich

WHEN: Sunday, June 9, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Museum, 200 Eastern Parkway, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Hear a program of grand Russian music. WANT TO GO? $20; $25 at door. 718-638-5000. brooklynmuseum.org.

New York Philharmonic Concerts In the Park: Brooklyn FREE

WHEN: Friday, June 14, 8pm WHERE: Prospect Park Long Meadow, Grand Army Plaza entrance, Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: This concert provides music lovers with an opportunity to hear the classical music under the stars. Stay after for fireworks! WANT TO GO? 718-965-8951. prospectpark.org.


FAB Fridays Kids’ Concerts FREE

WHEN: June 7-21, select Fridays, 10am WHERE: Crispus Attucks Playground, 1030 Fulton St., Bedford-Stuyvesant AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy a lineup of some of the best local children’s talent. WANT TO GO? fabfulton.org.

‘That Musical About a Helper Unicorn’

WHEN: Saturday, June 22, 4pm WHERE: Brooklyn Music School, 126 Saint Felix St., Fort Greene AGES: All WHAT: Set in a Magical Forest, this comedy tells a story of fantastical creatures. WANT TO GO? $10-$20. 718-638-5660. brooklynmusicschool.org.

‘The Importance of Being Earnest’ (Two Ways) FREE

WHEN: June 18-23, Tuesday-Sunday, 7pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 1, 334 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The entire cast will swap roles (and genders) every other performance to explore the power dynamics in the script. WANT TO GO? 718-683-5600. brooklynbridgepark.org/events.

Worldpride Opening Ceremony

WHEN: Wednesday, June 26, 7pm WHERE: Barclays Center, 620 Atlantic Ave., Prospect Heights/Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: Whoopi Goldberg will host WorldPride Opening Ceremony and Cyndi Lauper, Ciara, and Todrick Hall will perform. WANT TO GO? $45 and up. 917-618-6100. barclayscenter.com.

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A Brooklyn State of Mind: Brooklyn Borough Arts Festival Student Show

WHEN: June 1-4, see website for schedule WHERE: Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 145 Brooklyn Ave., Crown Heights AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This art show and exhibit features the work of students in pre-K through 12th grade from throughout the borough. WANT TO GO? $11. 718-735-4400. brooklynkids.org.

Family Time at BHS Dumbo: Color a Mural FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 8, 10:30am-1:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Historical Society Dumbo, 55 Water St., Dumbo AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Check out the exhibit Waterfront and stay for a mix-and-match activity in which children learn about life on Brooklyn’s waterfront at different points in history. WANT TO GO? 718-222-4111. brooklynhistory.org/dumbo.

Unplugged Music Series at Brooklyn Bridge Park FREE

Public Art: Bridge Over Tree FREE

Magic At Coney!!!

Art Force 5 FREE

WHEN: June 7-28, Fridays, 6-8pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 3, 146-300 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy intimate, unplugged sets performed by local artists. WANT TO GO? 718-624-4719. nycgovparks.org. WHEN: June 2-30, Sundays, 12-2pm WHERE: Coney Island Museum, 1208 Surf Ave., Coney Island AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Marvel at illusionists, escape artists, mentalists, and close-up magicians from around the world. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children 12 and younger. 347-699-4386. magicatconey.com.

WHEN: June 1-30, see website for schedule WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park, 334 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: The newest Public Art Fund installation, Siah Armajani’s Bridge Over Tree, is now open. WANT TO GO? 718-222-9939. brooklynbridgepark.org. WHEN: June 1-July 4, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Governors Island, Ferries leave from Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 6, New York Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Craft a superhero action figure and customized cape. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

American Indian Community House FREE

WHEN: June 1-Aug. 18, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Governors Island, Ferries leave from Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 6, New York Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy art exhibitions and artists talks with three Native artists. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

Transit Tots

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Thursdays, 10:15-11am WHERE: New York Transit Museum, 99 Schermerhorn St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Young train enthusiasts explore themes such as animals underground, the people and buildings of New York City, colors and shapes, and the city’s subways and buses. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children ages 2-17. 718-694-1600. nytransitmuseum.org. ››

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The Mermaid Parade FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 22, 1pm WHERE: Coney Island USA, 1208 Surf Ave., Coney Island AGES: All WHAT: The Mermaid Parade showcases more than 1,500 creative individuals from all over NYC and beyond. WANT TO GO? 718-372-5159. coneyisland.com.

FAD mini | Kids and Family Market FREE

WHEN: June 29-30, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-6pm WHERE: The Invisible Dog Art Center, 51 Bergen St., Cobble Hill AGES: All WHAT: While parents shop, kids can have their faces painted, join story time in the garden, check out a glass blowing demo, or head to the OMY coloring station. WANT TO GO? 917-775-4636. fadmarket.co.

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS McKinley Family Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 1, 12-3pm WHERE: McKinley Park, 7th Avenue and 75th Street, Bay Ridge AGES: All WHAT: Join for an afternoon of games, arts and crafts, face painting, music, and popcorn! WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org/parks/mckinley-park.

BookCon

WHEN: June 1-2, Saturday, 10am-6pm; Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Jacob Javits Center, 655 W. 34th St., Chelsea AGES: All WHAT: Interact with authors, publishers, celebrities, and creators of content. WANT TO GO? Saturday: $35 advance, $45 at door; Sunday: $30 advance, $40 at door; Saturday-Sunday, $10 kids ages 6-12; free for children younger than 6. 212-216-2000. bookcon.com.

Conservation Party

WHEN: Saturday, June 8, 12-3pm WHERE: Staten Island Zoo, 614 Broadway, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a variety of education demonstrations, crafts, keeper talks, and a greater awareness of the health of the planet. WANT TO GO? $10; $7 seniors; $6 children 14 and younger; free for children 2 and younger. 718-442-3100. statenislandzoo.org.

Farmhouse Family Day: Summer Solstice Sun Prints FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 15, 11am-3pm WHERE: Wyckoff House Museum, 5816 Clarendon Road, East Flatbush AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Explore the farm and grounds, enjoy outdoor toys and games, or tour the historic home. WANT TO GO? 718-629-5400. wyckoffmuseum.org.

Brooklyn Comic Con 2019

WHEN: June 15-16, Saturday-Sunday, 10am WHERE: Brooklyn Expo Center, 72 Noble St., Greenpoint AGES: All WHAT: Join the fun with cosplay, gaming, music, and local eats. WANT TO GO? $14.99 and up. 718-775-3315. bkcomiccon.com.

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SMARTY PANTS Kids’ Discovery Stations

WHEN: Friday, June 7, 10:15am-12:15pm WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Explore plants and use real science tools at hands-on activity stations. WANT TO GO? $15; $8 seniors and students; free for children 12 and younger. 718-623-7200. bbg.org.

Family Day at BRIC FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 8, 12-3pm WHERE: BRIC House, 647 Fulton St., Fort Greene AGES: All WHAT: Join in a guided tour and hands-on activities. WANT TO GO? 718-683-5600. bricartsmedia.org.

Family Programs at BHS Dumbo: Eye Spy: Picture This FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 8, 10:30am-1:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Historical Society DUMBO, 55 Water St., Dumbo AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Create collages on background line drawings that depict either the Dumbo waterfront, the Empire Stores, or New York City landmarks. WANT TO GO? brooklynhistory.org/dumbo.


Journey to the Stars FREE

WHEN: June 7-14, Fridays, 8:30-10:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 1, 334 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Members of the Amateur Astronomers Association of New York will set up high-powered telescopes for stargazing sessions. Photo by Alexa Hoyer WANT TO GO? 718-683-5600. brooklynbridgepark.org/events.

New York Virtual Volcano Observatory FREE

WHEN: June 1-Oct. 27, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Governors Island, ferries leave from Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 6, New York Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Join volcanologists to discover the complex life of magmas and volcanoes through virtual reality experiences, a volcano sound gallery, and kid-friendly activities. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

Friday Drop-Off

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 6:30-9:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Game Lab, 310 7th Ave., Park Slope AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Drop in for Dungeons and Dragons and go on a multi-month campaign each week. WANT TO GO? $48. 718-788-1122. Brooklyngamelab.com.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Community Roller Skating Party FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 8, 12-3pm WHERE: Harry Maze Playground, East 57th Street and Ditmas Avenue, East Flatbush AGES: All WHAT: Join Council Member Chaim Deutsch for roller skating and music! Roller skates will be provided. WANT TO GO? 212-639-9675. nycgovparks.org.

Night Nation Run

WHEN: Saturday, June 8, 5:30pm WHERE: Aviator Sports and Events Center, Floyd Bennett Field, 3159 Flatbush Ave., Marine Park AGES: All WHAT: A 5K musical voyage filled with live music, lights, lasers, and celebration of EDM. WANT TO GO? $29.99 and up. 718-758-7500. aviatorsports.com.

Pop-Up Adventure play:ground NYC FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 15, 12-3pm WHERE: Christ Church Cobble Hill, 326 Clinton St., Cobble Hill AGES: All WHAT: Create, build, and dream big using recycled materials. WANT TO GO? play-ground.nyc.

BSI Day at the Brooklyn Cyclones

WHEN: Sunday, June 16, 3-6pm WHERE: MCU Park, 1904 Surf Ave., Coney Island AGES: All WHAT: Brooklyn School of Inquiry families can enjoy a pre-game School Spirit Parade around the field. WANT TO GO? $17. 718-449-8497. brooklyncyclones.com.

Take Me Out to the Ball Game!

WHEN: Sunday, June 23, 4pm WHERE: Bay Ridge Jewish Center, Fourth Avenue and 81 Street, Bay Ridge AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Jewish Heritage Day at the Cyclones game with a free souvenir hat, hot dog, and soda. Kids even get to run the bases. WANT TO GO? $25. 718-836-3103. brjc.org.

Monday Evening Yoga

WHEN: June 3-24, Mondays, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Grange Rooftop Farm, Flushing Avenue at Clinton Avenue, Fort Greene AGES: 13 and older WHAT: This all-levels asana practice will inspire you to slow and find a deeper breath. WANT TO GO? $20. 347-670-3660. brooklyngrangefarm.com.

Owl’s Head Yoga FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, June 26, 10am-12pm WHERE: Owl’s Head Park, 68th Street and Colonial Road, Bay Ridge AGES: All WHAT: Yoga at Owl’s Head Park returns for a fourth season with instructors from the Owl’s Head Yoga studio. WANT TO GO? 718-965-8992. facebook.com/owlsheadvolunteers.

play:groundNYC’s The Yard FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Saturday-Sunday, 12-4pm WHERE: Governors Island, ferries leave from Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 6, New York Harbor AGES: All WHAT: The Yard is a 50,000-square-foot adventure playground stocked with loose parts, tools, and space for kids to play. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

New York Road Runners Open Run FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Tuesdays, 7pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 6, Atlantic Avenue and Furman Street, Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Participate in free weekly 2½- to 3-mile runs, directed by volunteers. Open to all experience levels, walkers, strollers, and dogs. WANT TO GO? 718-222-9939. brooklynbridgepark.org. ››

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The Rock and Roll Playhouse Plays the Music of Talking Heads for Kids

WHEN: Sunday, June 23, 12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bowl, 61 Wythe Ave., Williamsburg AGES: All WHAT: The Rock and Roll Playhouse offers kids and families an opportunity to participate in games, stories, and movement. WANT TO GO? $12. 718-963-3369. brooklynbowl.com.

Sing A Long with Lloyd Miller

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MUSICIANS The Rock and Roll Playhouse Plays the Music of Tom Petty for Kids featuring The Mighty Fergusons WHEN: Sunday, June 2, 12:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bowl, 61 Wythe Ave., Williamsburg AGES: All WHAT: This family concert bridges the gap between the music you love and your children. WANT TO GO? $12. 718-963-3369. brooklynbowl.com.

Free Music Class FREE

WHEN: Sunday, June 2, 9am WHERE: Feed Dumbo, 55 Water St., Dumbo AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join for a kids music session with Dan the Music Man. WANT TO GO? feedprojects.com.

Stomp, Clap & Sing with Vered and the Babes FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, June 4, 11am-12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Vered and the Babes are reminiscent of a Doo-Wop band, using playful vocal harmonies, horns, pots and pans, and beatboxing. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org/locations/central.

Spanish Music Show with Rock n Lolo FREE

WHEN: June 4-25, Tuesdays, 10-11am WHERE: Nunu Chocolates, 179 5th Ave., Park Slope AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Bring your little ones to this weekly sing-along with Lloyd Miller. WANT TO GO? $10 per family. 718-622-3212. nunuchocolates.com.

Rock and Roll Playhouse FREE

WHEN: June 1-29, select Saturdays, 12:30-2:30pm WHERE: Industry City, 220 36th St., Sunset Park AGES: All WHAT: Rock and Roll Playhouse features live music of iconic rock stars, dancing and interactive games—all in an effort to educate and promote creativity. WANT TO GO? industrycity.com.

Sing-Along with Hannah from The Buttons

WHEN: June 2-30, select Sundays, 10am WHERE: The Great Room, 194 Columbia St., Columbia Street Waterfront District AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Hannah Winkler from plays a mixture of classic children’s songs, favorite oldies, and original songs. WANT TO GO? $20. thegreatroom.org.

The Rock and Roll Playhouse Plays the Music of Karina’s Funk Revue for Kids WHEN: Sunday, June 30, 12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bowl, 61 Wythe Ave., Williamsburg AGES: All WHAT: Inspire your children through your favorite musical artists. WANT TO GO? $12. 718-963-3369. brooklynbowl.com.

WHEN: Sunday, June 9, 10am WHERE: Randolph Beer, 82 Prospect St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Rock n LoLo teaches Spanish using fun tunes and catchy lyrics. WANT TO GO? rocknlolokids.com.

SPECIAL NEEDS

The Rock and Roll Playhouse Plays the Music of Grateful Dead for Kids

WHEN: Sunday, June 16, 12:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bowl, 61 Wythe Ave., Williamsburg AGES: All WHAT: Introduce your kids to songs created by the most iconic rock musicians. WANT TO GO? $12. 718-963-3369. brooklynbowl.com.

WHEN: Saturday, June 8, 9-11am WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 455 Flatbush Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Explore the garden at your own pace and participate in multisensory activities at facilitated stations. WANT TO GO? Preregistration required. 718-623-7200. bbg.org.

Stomp, Clap & Sing with The Sparrow Sisters FREE

CP Soccer for Kids With Cerebral Palsy FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, June 18, 11am-12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: The Sparrow Sisters are parents from Brooklyn who perform a sweet mixture of folk and nursery songs. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org. 34

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Discovery Garden Early Opening for Children and Families of All Abilities FREE

WHEN: Through June 16: Sundays, 1-3pm WHERE: Cadman Plaza, Cadman Plaza East, Downtown Brooklyn AGES: 9-17 WHAT: CP soccer is a league for kids with cerebral palsy, hemiplegia, or traumatic brain injury. WANT TO GO? 347-328-3390. cpsoccer.us.


THE GREAT OUTDOORS Junior Garden Workshop FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 1, 10am-12pm WHERE: Highland Park, Jamaica Avenue and Elton Street, Cypress Hill AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Learn about soil ecology, composting, how to plant a vegetable garden, common garden weeds and insects, and nutrition basics. WANT TO GO? 718-235-4100. nyc.gov/parks.

Family Discovery Weekends

WHEN: June 1-2, Saturday, 10:30am-12:30pm; Sunday, 1-3pm WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Hands-on stations encourage families to explore nature together. WANT TO GO? $15; $8 seniors and students; free for children ages 12 and younger. 718-623-7200. bbg.org.

Kids Day at the Garden FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, June 4, 11am-1pm WHERE: Highland Park, Jamaica Avenue and Elton Street, Cypress Hill AGES: All WHAT: Learn about insects, flowers, and what makes the garden grow! WANT TO GO? 718-235-4100. nyc.gov/parks.

Foraging Tour with Wildman Steve Brill

Prospect Park Tour: Brooklyn’s Backyard

WHEN: Sunday, June 23, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Prospect Park, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: This tour includes an interactive scavenger hunt and a special visit to the zoo and tickets to ride the carousel. WANT TO GO? $30; $15 kids 5-11; free for children younger than 5. 718-965-8951. prospectpark.org.

WHEN: Saturday, June 8, 11:45am WHERE: Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Park West and Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Wildman Steve Brill celebrates 37 years of foraging with a romp through Prospect Park. WANT TO GO? $20; $10 children younger than 12. 718-965-8945. prospectpark.org.

Farm Tour/Brooklyn Navy Yard

Foraging Tour with Wildman Steve Brill

WHEN: June 2-30, Sundays, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Prospect Park Audubon Center, 101 East Drive, Flatbush AGES: All WHAT: These walking tours examine the many layers of natural and human history in Brooklyn’s Backyard. WANT TO GO? Prices vary. 646-393-9031. prospectpark.org.

WHEN: Sunday, June 9, 11:45am WHERE: Msgr. McGolrick Park, Driggs Avenue and Russell Street, Greenpoint AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Experience a 30-minute presentation and a 2-hour walking tour. WANT TO GO? $20; $10 children younger than 12. 347-559-1410. wildmanstevebrill.com.

Family Camping: Brooklyn FREE

WHEN: June 5-26, Wednesdays, 10am, 11:30am WHERE: Brooklyn Grange Rooftop Farm, Flushing Avenue at Clinton Avenue, Fort Greene AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy tours at the Brooklyn Navy Yard location. WANT TO GO? $18. 347-670-3660. brooklyngrangefarm.com.

Prospect Park Walking Tours

Brooklyn Bridge Park: Environmental Education Center Open Hours FREE

WHEN: Friday, June 14, 7am-7pm WHERE: Prospect Park Eastside, Prospect Lefferts Garden AGES: All WHAT: Camp overnight in the park that is home to Brooklyn’s only lake and last remaining natural forest. WANT TO GO? 718-965-8951. prospectpark.org.

WHEN: June 1-30, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm; Tuesday and Thursday, 3-5pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park, 334 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Visit aquarium filled with critters from the East River, a 10-foot scale model of Brooklyn Bridge Park, and enjoy crafts, a reading corner, and more. WANT TO GO? 718-222-9939. brooklynbridgepark.org.

Seining FREE

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WHEN: Saturdays, June 1, 11:30am-1pm; June 22, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 4, 334 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Discover the biodiversity of the Hudson River Estuary as staff and scientists use a seine net to humanely catch aquatic beings. Photo by Navid Baraty WANT TO GO? 718-222-9939. brooklynbridgepark.org.

WHEN: Through Dec. 7: Saturdays, 8am-5pm WHERE: Brooklyn Borough Hall, 209 Joralemon St., Downtown Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Buy fresh and locally grown fruits and vegetables and take part in nutrition workshops, clothing collections, and food scrap collections. WANT TO GO? grownyc.org. ››

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HOLIDAY FUN Eid al-Fitr in Prospect Park FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, June 4, 12-4pm WHERE: Prospect Park Audubon Center, 101 East Drive, Flatbush AGES: All WHAT: Join for family friendly programming on Eid al-Fitr, including nature exploration, animal encounters, and a family bird walk. WANT TO GO? 646-393-9031. prospectpark.org.

DANCE PARTY DanceAfrica at Weeksville Weekends FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 8, 4pm WHERE: Weeksville Heritage Center, 158 Buffalo Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Each class focuses on a variety of dances, songs, and traditions from Africa. WANT TO GO? 718-756-5250. bam.org/classes/2018/weeksville-weekends.

Purelements Presents Legends of Dance: Past, Present, and Forever

WHEN: Sunday, June 9, 5pm WHERE: Kings Theatre, 1027 Flatbush Ave., Flatbush AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the cultural contributions from some of the most noted and respected dance creators, such as Kevin Iega Jeff, Pearl Primus, and Katherine Dunham. WANT TO GO? $30 and up. 845-469-2287. kingstheatre.com.

Celebrate Brooklyn! Family Concert FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 15, 3pm WHERE: Prospect Park, 9th Street and Prospect Park West Bandshell, Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: DJ Rich Medina and Shareef Keyes & the Groove put on a show guaranteed to get little feet moving. WANT TO GO? bricartsmedia.org.

Willie Villegas Presents: Salsa Sunday FREE

WHEN: June 9-23, Sundays, 12-6pm WHERE: Industry City, 238 36th St., Sunset Park AGES: All WHAT: Join for live salsa music, dancing, and drink specials. WANT TO GO? 718-965-6450. industrycity.com.

Waterfront Workouts: Broadway Dance FREE

WHEN: June 3-24, Mondays, 10am WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 2, Furman and Clark Streets, Brooklyn Heights AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Cardio Dance and Range of Movement workout offers improved strength and increased flexibility, with moves set to swinging show tunes. WANT TO GO? 718-802-0603. brooklynbridgepark.org.

Latin Night featuring Orquesta Afinke FREE

WHEN: Friday, June 28, 6:30pm WHERE: Highland Park, Jamaica Avenue and Elton Street, Cypress Hills AGES: All WHAT: Dance to salsa, merengue, cumbia, bolero, plena, and Latin jazz. WANT TO GO? 718-235-4100. nyc.gov/parks.

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Juneteenth Family Fun Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 15, 11am-6pm WHERE: Gershwin Park, 800 Van Siclen Ave., East New York AGES: All WHAT: Visitors will journey through the African-American experience by going back and forth between the past and the present. WANT TO GO? facebook.com/JuneteenthFamilyDay.

Father’s Day Celebration

WHEN: Sunday, June 16, 11am-3pm WHERE: Fort Hamilton Community Club, 207 Sterling Drive, Fort Hamilton AGES: All WHAT: Brunch buffet with fresh cut prime rib, omelet stations, and seafood WANT TO GO? $28; $15 children ages 4-12. 718-765-7368. forthamiltoncommunityclub.weebly.com.

Wu-Tang Clan: 36 Chambers 25th Anniversary Celebration Tour

WHEN: Sunday, June 16, 8pm WHERE: Ford Amphitheater at Coney Island Boardwalk, Boardwalk and West 10th Street, Coney Island AGES: All WHAT: Take Dad to see Wu Tang Clan on Father’s Day night. WANT TO GO? $16 and up. amphitheater-brooklyn.org.

ON SCREEN 15th Annual KidsFilmFest

WHEN: Saturday, June 1, 1pm WHERE: Made in NY Center Theater, 30 John St., Dumbo AGES: All WHAT: This film program consists of numerous short animation, liveaction, and documentary films. WANT TO GO? $15; children 12 and younger free. 646-234-5080.

Films on the Green: ‘Minuscule, Valley of the Lost Ants’ FREE

WHEN: Monday, June 10, 8:30-10:30pm WHERE: Msgr. McGolrick Park, Russell Street and Nassau Avenue, Greenpoint AGES: All WHAT: In a peaceful little valley, the remains of an abandoned picnic spark warfare between two tribes of ants. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org/parks/msgr-mcgolrick-park.

Movies Under the Stars: ‘Ralph Breaks the Internet’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 22, 8:30-10:30pm WHERE: Harry Maze Playground, East 57th Street and Ditmas Avenue, East Flatbush AGES: All WHAT: Six years after the events of Wreck-It Ralph, Ralph and Vanellope discover a Wi-Fi router in their arcade. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.


Movie Night at Habana Outpost FREE

WHEN: June 2-30, Sundays, 8pm WHERE: Habana Outpost, 757 Fulton St., Fort Greene AGES: All WHAT: Movies include The Wedding Singer and What Women Want. WANT TO GO? 718-858-9500. cafehabana.com.

Lafayette Ave., Fort Greene AGES: All WHAT: This is a wild ride investigation into the nature of documentary ethics. WANT TO GO? $20; $15 members. bam.org.

Greenup at Owl’s Head Park FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 15, 10am-12pm

Movie Night in the Garden FREE

WHERE: Owl’s Head Park, 68th Street and Colonial Road, Bay Ridge AGES: All WHAT: Join the volunteer effort to green up Owl’s Head Park. Tools and garden gloves will be provided. WANT TO GO? 718-965-8992. facebook.com/owlsheadvolunteers.

The 2019 Brooklyn Mile

WHERE: Kent Avenue, Williamsburg AGES: 13 and older WHAT: A nonprofit event benefiting Girls on the Run NYC, Brooklyn’s only road mile returns for its fourth running on Father’s Day. WANT TO GO? $40. brooklynmile.com.

WHEN: Sunday, June 16, 9:30am-12:30pm

WHEN: June 21-Aug. 23, select Fridays, 8:30pm WHERE: Narrows Botanical Gardens, Shore Road between Bay Ridge Avenue and 72nd Street, Bay Ridge AGES: All WHAT: Films include Black Panther and Wonder Woman. WANT TO GO? narrowsbg.org/ events.

KINDNESS CRUSADERS EMIT Bookfair FREE

WHEN: Sunday, June 2, 11am WHERE: Barnes & Noble Park Slope, 267 7th Ave., Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: Join a bookfair event to benefit EMIT, a nonprofit dedicated to bringing immersive theater experiences to everyone. WANT TO GO? 718-832-9066. bn.com.

March United for Public Schools FREE

WHEN: Sunday, June 2, 9am-2pm WHERE: Borough Hall, Brooklyn, 209 Joralemon St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: 3 and older WHAT: This walk concludes with a family festival with student performers, marching bands, cheerleaders, and a cappella choirs. WANT TO GO? 212-251-4008. marchunited.org.

Maimonides Children’s Hospital The Only Children’s Hospital in Brooklyn

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aimonides Children’s Hospital is one of New York’s leading pediatric hospitals, and is proud to be recognized by the National Association of Children’s Hospitals and Related Institutions (NACHRI). Our expert team of board-certified pediatric physicians, surgeons, nurses and nurse practitioners provides compassionate, family-centered care for infants, children and adolescents. Our extensive range of pediatric services and specialties include allergy and immunology, cardiac care, neurology, orthopedic care, neonatal intensive care and critical care.

Maimonides Children’s Hospital is also Brooklyn’s only pediatric trauma center, and provides comprehensive pediatric emergency care in our fully-accredited Pediatric Emergency Room, a division of both Emergency Medicine and Pediatrics.

BAMcinemaFest 2019: ‘The Amazing Johnathan Documentary’

WHEN: Friday, June 14, 9:30pm WHERE: BAM Rose Cinemas, 30

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Why You Need an Emergency Fund ›› Also known as a rainy-day fund, the money in this savings account will tide you over in case you lose your income or have a major expense come up. By Niko Vercelletto

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hink about this: If your family had an emergency that required a large amount of money—unexpected car repairs, job loss, or a major medical expense—would you have enough cash on hand to pay it? If you’re like most Americans, you would probably have a difficult time coming up with the money without selling something or taking out a loan. More than half of all Americans have less than $1,000 saved, according to a 2017 GoBankingRates survey. Even scarier, 39 percent have no savings at all. With the average household spending $60,000 in 2017, many aren’t even saving enough for weekly grocery bills, let alone car repairs and doctors’ visits. What’s causing this inability to save? There are many reasons, but the three biggest are high-cost of living, low salaries, and high debt balances. With a bachelor’s degree from a private university costing an average of $43,000 per year and the average adult racking up almost $7,000 in credit-card debt, it’s no wonder many aren’t saving. Even if there were no barriers to saving, banks aren’t exactly enticing customers to deposit money. The average interest rate on a savings account is a measly 0.10 percent (for every $1,000 you put in, you receive $1 per year), with many of the major banks offering even less. Yet despite the negativity surrounding savings rates and accounts in America, creating an emergency fund is one of the most important things you can do for financial stability and peace of mind. One of the biggest reasons you want this fund is in case of job loss. The latter half of 2018 saw 1.8 million people either laid off or discharged per month, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics. There is no way to know if, and when, a major change will occur, but an emergency fund can soften the blow. “Life happens,” says Todd Christensen, education manager at MoneyFit, a nonprofit based on Long Island that helps with debt and credit counseling. “[Things will go wrong] whether you are saving or not. Having an emergency fund just makes it less stressful.”

Choose an Emergency Fund Account

First, you need a place to save your money. The most important rule in choosing an account to deposit your funds is to make sure it’s easily accessible. This means do not invest your emergency fund into stocks, bonds, IRAs, or 401Ks; you don’t want to be cashing in bonds to pay for a trip to the emergency room. The most common choices are Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC)-insured savings or checking accounts or a

combination of both. This means that if your bank goes out of business or loses your money, you are protected against that loss. Banks are not mandated to be FDIC-insured, but it’s become a point of competition among many. Another thing to consider is interest. Despite the aforementioned terrible rates, not all accounts are created equal; there are banks that offer upwards of 2 percent. Lastly, look for accounts that have no or low minimum balances, as well as ones that do not have annual or monthly fees. Some banks charge you simply for the privilege of opening a savings account.

How Much Should Be in My Emergency Fund?

The short answer, and general rule of thumb, is six months’ worth of expenses. The long answer? It depends on a number of factors, including how much debt you have and the stability of your income. A larger emergency fund (nine to 12 months) may be warranted if your income is variable or uncertain. However, no matter what your goal, you want to commit. “Too many parents are worried that they won’t be able to save the ten to fifteen percent of their income many experts recommend, so they do not even start,” Christensen says. “Initially, committing to save something (even five dollars) is more important than the amount you are saving.” The foundation of financial well-being is knowing what you’re spending your money on. If you don’t know how much you spend per month, you’ll need to create a budget and reduce expenses. Michele Lee, a registered representative of Guardian Life Insurance in Jericho, has tips for cutting expenses. “[First], examine current bills. See where the money is going and think of cutting out extras and finding cheaper alternatives. [Next], pay with cash. There’s something about the tactile quality of cash that makes it hard to part with. [Finally], adjust your habits. All of us have habits that we fall into that can be revised and made more financially healthy,” she says. If you have debts with interest rates higher than 10 percent, you should “focus the bulk of your discretionary cash on paying down your debts,” Christensen advises. “But still contribute something— even five or twenty-five dollars a month.” Figuring how to create an emergency fund can be scary; after all, the word “emergency” is in the name. However, the benefits of having one—financial, emotional, mental—all outweigh the slight headache that comes with budgeting and saving.

Niko Vercelletto is a New York native. His work can be found in publications such as Popular Mechanics, Realtor.com, NYMetroParents, and CityGuideNY.

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If you’re getting ready to sell your house, experts suggest boosting the curb appeal by cleaning up the yard and making sure planters are full of flowering plants.

elling your home is stressful. In addition to loads of paperwork and prepping your kids for a new neighborhood, you have to present your house in its best light. This is where the experts come in—to help prioritize fix-ups and offer staging tips to make your home as attractive as possible to potential buyers.

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a licensed real estate salesperson with the Friedman team at Compass in NYC. “In addition, if you’ve painted rooms a certain color that feels tired, repaint in nice, light, neutral colors. You can’t go wrong with white.”

Do a walk through—with a critical eye.

You may have ignored certain flaws in your home, but a potential buyer won’t be pleased with the cracked paint or drippy faucet. Now’s the time to make a room-to-room punch list of what needs to be fixed before the first open house, says Ted Karagannis, a real estate broker at Warburg Realty in New York City.

“I buy a fresh set of white towels and bathmats from Target and I don’t wash them so they remain fresh looking,” says Katy Winter, a professional organizer and founder of Katy’s Organized Home in Chappaqua, who adds that it’s super important for your home to smell good during walk-throughs. She recommends lighting scented candles or baking some chocolate chip cookies.

Clean from ceiling to floor.

Declutter and streamline décor.

“Use this as an opportunity to dust off that chandelier or ceiling fan you’ve neglected for years,” advises Shawn Wilson, a real estate broker at Compass Real Estate in NYC. “Wash the walls and baseboards. Clean the kitchen, especially the stove and refrigerator, to make the place look as turn-key as possible.”

Make easy DIY upgrades.

“Doing things like changing knobs on cabinets and closets can be a powerful way to create contrast and heighten a space,” says Nicolas Paredes, a broker at Warburg. “I like to stick with simple, organic color palettes like brushed nickel or ceramic knobs.”

Avoid doing major projects.

Undertaking major overhauls is not advisable, says Alison Bernstein, founder and president of Suburban Jungle, a real estate and lifestyle advisory firm dedicated to helping young families leave urban homes for suburban ones. “You are better off taking a discount rather than investing in additional construction or renovation costs as your tastes may very well be different than those of the potential buyers.”

Remove the outdated.

Get rid of window treatments, light fixtures, and any oversized furniture that isn’t retro in a cool way, says Lewis Friedman,

Draw inspiration from hotels.

“Buyers want to feel like the house is move-in ready, and this is especially important when it comes to kitchen and bathroom counters that shouldn’t be stacked with items that will look messy and disorganized,” Winter says. “Also, always keep bookshelves as simple and accessory-free as possible. Try to stay with the same color story—either display whites and neutrals or blues and grays.”

Refresh your outdoor space.

Outdoor space is the first impression of your home. Make sure your lawn looks shipshape and your planters are full of flowering plants. “You’ll want to take a close look at your front door, too, and make sure it’s painted in a fresh, inviting color,” Winter says. “And always put away outdoor clutter, whether that’s a bunch of scooters and bikes or grungy garbage cans.”

Focus on the light.

“Floor lamps or torchieres are a great way to shoot light up at the ceiling and then reflect it back down again,” says Steven Gottlieb, a broker at Warburg. “Those lights will enhance your walls, so make sure that every single wall is bright and clean. A fresh coat of paint will not only eliminate possible cracks from an older paint job, but lighter colors reflect the light and make rooms seem bigger, cleaner, and brighter.”

Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

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My Baby Hates Tummy Time! ›› All of your questions about this activity for infants are answered. By Emma Steven

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f your baby hates tummy time, you’re not alone. We talked to the experts to find out why pediatricians recommend it, and the answers to the most-common tummy time questions.

What is tummy time? It’s the activity of placing your newborn baby on its stomach when he’s awake and supervised, according to the American Academy of Pediatricians. The AAP views this time as important as putting your baby on her back to sleep. Who should do it? All infants, unless instructed by a pediatrician, should be doing some form of tummy time as soon as they get home from the hospital, says Catherine Workman, M.D., developmental pediatrician at Hassenfeld Children’s Hospital at NYU Langone in Manhattan. “It doesn’t have to be a long amount of time at once, particularly at the beginning,” she says. “Start with just three to five minutes at a time and work up.” Isn’t putting an infant on his tummy dangerous? It’s complicated. In 1992, the AAP launched its Back to Sleep campaign, announcing what many pediatricians had believed for years: Putting a baby to sleep on his stomach was dangerous. The AAP recommended all babies sleep on their backs until the age of 1. Back to Sleep led to a dramatic reduction in the amount of SIDS deaths but an increase in anxiety in parents about baby being on her stomach. A 1995 study in the Journal of Pediatric Medicine found that a quarter of parents never put their babies on their front to play due to fear of SIDS. However, putting baby in this position is perfectly safe as long as he is awake and supervised. Why does my infant need tummy time? After the Back to Sleep campaign, doctors and physiotherapists began to notice it was taking babies a little longer to reach some developmental milestones such as sitting up, rolling over, and crawling. Studies also showed an increase in the number of babies with a condition called plagiocephaly, or flat spots on their head, caused by spending most of their time lying on their backs. After concerns were raised in 2003, the AAP made the recommendation that all babies should be placed on their tummies as much as possible when they are awake, and the term tummy time was officially born. The AAP then coined the phrase Back to Sleep, Tummy to Play. “Tummy time sets you up for strengthening and coordination,” 40

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says Amanda Math, MPT, C-SIPT, physical therapist and coowner of Jumping Jax Speech, Physical and Occupational Therapy, which has locations in Manhattan and Westchester County. Math treats babies and young children with developmental delays and is passionate about the benefits of daily tummy time. “When you strengthen those head-neck muscles, upper back muscles, and shoulder muscles early on, you’re going to start to get some head control, which points you in the direction of achieving all of your early developmental milestones.” How often do I do it? Whenever your infant isn’t feeding or sleeping, look for opportunities to put her on her stomach (under your supervision). The key is to start early, do it for frequent, short periods of time, and build up time gradually. “By four or five months you want them on their tummy for forty minutes to an hour a day cumulatively,” Math says. My baby is so busy sleeping, eating, and napping; how do I fit tummy time in? A common misconception is tummy time is a specific activity that’s scheduled every day at a set time. In fact, the best way to approach it is to build it into whatever you’re doing with your baby during the day (and night!). Anytime baby is leaning on his stomach counts. My baby screams so much, what do I do? Remember the old parenting adage: this too shall pass. “As the baby gets stronger, they will like the time more,” Dr. Workman says. “Kids eventually learn to roll over. Once they’re rolling over on their own it’s less of an issue, so it’s a time-limited problem.” When your baby gets upset during tummy time, it can be hard to distinguish between minor discomfort and distress, but you know your baby best. Math recommends watching for central nervous system reactions such as his face turning red, or holding his breath. A bit of frustration and discomfort at the beginning is normal, but don’t push a distressed baby. “Get down on your tummy yourself,” she says. “It’s hard when we put them down and they sense that we’re far away from them. Modified positions are great to help, and then you just do whatever you can. You sing songs, you’re silly, you move that rattle, and just do your best to encourage it because it really sets them up to be in the best developmental position.”


My baby has reflux, do I still have to do it? As a mother of two babies who suffered from severe reflux, I can still remember how difficult tummy time was. Lying down flat caused them to throw up and cry in pain, sometimes at the same time! Dr. Workman recommends having tummy time after a nap so a long period has passed since the last feeding. Math suggests using modified positions like using a bolster or on a caregiver’s chest as more reflux-friendly versions. My mom friend says her pediatrician told her not to force it if her baby hates it, but mine says it’s essential. Who is right? Although most experts recommend tummy time, there are some who view it as unnecessary and suggest parents instead let babies reach milestones in their own time. Studies suggest the delays in development are transient and resolve by 18 months. Michel Cohen, M.D., is a pediatrician with more than 25 years of experience and is founder of Tribeca Pediatrics. He is known for a low-intervention approach. His view? We should be letting babies develop their own muscles at their own pace. “Why are we tampering with nature?” he says, adding tummy time can even create more stress for parents: “The baby can end up liking it,” he says. “And they have a problem because now you have a two-month-old who likes being on his belly.” In his 2004 parenting book, The New Basics: A-Z Baby and Childcare for the Modern Parent, his simple, yet controversial, advice is, if baby hates it, skip it. “Since there’s no need to strengthen any specific muscle group, I advise you not to act as Lucy’s personal trainer. Skip the tummy time and tickle her tummy so she’ll exercise her giggling muscles instead.” As with everything in parenting, deciding what’s right for your child is a personal decision made between you and your pediatrician.

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By Katelin Walling

Come as You Are Jacob and Sophie don’t look like the other boys and girls in their class. They are gender non-conforming: Jacob has long hair and wears a dress to school, while Sophie has short hair and prefers to wear pants. Because of how they look, their peers chase them out of the boys’ and girls’ bathrooms. Jacob’s Room to Choose, by Sarah and Ian Hoffman, helps kids understand gender expression and stereotypes—and asks, if everyone needs to use the bathroom, why can’t bathrooms be for everyone? (Ages 5-8; APA/Magination Press; $17.99)

Parents are Parents Cultivating a culture of acceptance of everyone begins with the littlest citizens. Enter My Two Moms and Me and My Two Dads and Me, both written by Michael Joosten and illustrated by Izak Zenou. These board books celebrate LGBTQ+ parents and show incredible diversity in the families. Most importantly, the books illustrate the fact that children with two moms or two dads have just as much love as kids with a mom and a dad. (Ages newborn to 3; Doubleday; $8.99 each)

History Makers

Coming into Her Own Zenobia July is starting a new chapter in her life. She moves to Maine to live with her aunts after becoming an orphan, starts at a new school, and comes out of her shell to find her own community of new friends. The biggest change for her? She’s now living her life openly as the girl she always knew she was. But when someone anonymously posts hateful memes on the school’s website, Zen, who used to spend all her time coding and hacking, knows she’s the only one able to solve the cyber mystery. (Ages 10 and older; Viking; $17.99)

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The 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Uprising is being commemorated in numerous ways this year, the biggest of which is the fact that New York City was chosen to host WorldPride this month. Another way the uprising is being honored? With Rob Sanders’ Stonewall: A Building. An Uprising. A Revolution. This picture book—told from the perspective of Stonewall Inn—takes readers through the history and significance of the Greenwich Village building that started out as a horse stable in the 1840s and is now part of the National Historic Monument, the first of which that honors the LGBTQ+ community. (Ages 5-8; Random House Children’s Books; $17.99)


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