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august 2019

back to school

Raising Independent Teens

Teaching your teen to be a successful, selfsufficient adult will take time and patience.

8 Shopping Smart for Supplies 11 Choose the Best After-School Activity

for Your Child 12 Beyond the Bell 14 Back-to-School Directory 16 Education Planner

Where Fantasy Rules

Immerse yourself in a 16th-century Elizabethan village at the New York Renaissance Faire!

17 Back-to-School At-a-Glance

Homeowner’s Insurance Check

Experts weigh in on which life events warrant an immediate review.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 We Asked, You Delivered 9 Benefits of Sharing a Nanny 10 Discover More Online 18 Raising Independent Teens 39 Professional Services, Party Central, Open Houses 44 Meet the Health Care Professional 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 Barefoot and Better for It

20 Family Fun a Ride Away

38 Act Like a Kid

21 Family Activities Calendar

40 Plotting Your Return

34 Summer Classics

42 Homeowner’s Insurance Check

36 Where Fantasy Rules

43 Staying on Budget

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Summer’s Out, School’s In

t feels like the summer just started and the kids were sent to their first days of camp. Believe it or not, though, right now is when many parents start thinking about the back-to-school season. Specifically, when’s the right time to enroll your child in an after-school activity—and which one should you choose (I was a band kid, flute and piccolo)? If you’re feeling stumped, or it seems like your child has multiple intrests and not enough time, you’ll want to check out our quiz on p. 11, which will help determine the type of activity best suited to your child. There’s also plenty of advice in “Beyond the Bell” (p. 12), which outlines when your child may be ready for an after-school class and how many he can likely handle. You’ll also find a guide of back-to-school resources, including after-school classes, schools, and resources for the season. The back-to-school season was always my favorite time of year, transitioning from shorts and tanks to jeans and flannel—and stocking up on fresh school supplies (I still have a problem with buying too many Post-it Notes, pencils, and notebooks). One of my nieces seems to have the same gene; she had stocked up on all of her school supplies by the time we celebrated July 4! If the thought of spending a lot of money on school supplies makes you groan, read the saving tips from Joanie Demer, co-founder of The Krazy Coupon Lady, on p. 8. While we’re already thinking of the summer ending, there’s still plenty of time to take advantage of the last days of warm weather. The Renaissance Faire is coming back to the area in mid-August (p. 36), there are plenty of kid-friendly events going on this month (p. 21), and maybe it’s time to take a day trip into the city to explore some cool exhibits. However you’re taking advantage of the last days of summer, we hope you make the most of them.

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Shopping Smart for Supplies

very year the list seems to get longer: two bulk packs of Sharpies (thin points, please); Post-it Notes in assorted sizes, eight glue sticks. Parents can blow through hundreds of dollars on school supplies—and that’s before buying lunchboxes, new shoes, and backpacks. Joanie Demer, co-founder of The Krazy Coupon Lady, a leading money-saving site, shares savvy tips for back-to-school shopping. If you want to save big, she says, after school starts in the fall is the ideal time to buy for the following year. If you can’t plan a full year in advance, however, there are plenty of other ways to save on supplies. Host a Swap Send your elementary school-age kids on a scavenger hunt to find pencils, notebooks, crayons, and folders—anything that could be used at school—hiding around the house. Then invite some other parents and children over to trade unneeded supplies for the ones they can use. It’s a win-win! Watch for Penny Deals At this time of year, stores are known to sell school supplies as “loss leaders,” meaning they’re priced so low the store loses money on them. Stores do this to lure you into buying pricier items while you’re shopping. At Staples, for example, you can often get up to eight

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pencils for 1 cent. “The trick is to just buy the pencils and then walk away!” Demer says. Shop Around Comparison shop to find the best prices on the items you need. For instance, perhaps you “buy spiral notebooks, crayons, and glue sticks from Walmart, ballpoint pens and scissors at Target, and Dixon Ticonderoga pencils on Amazon,” Demer suggests. And don’t overlook dollar stores. They tend to be a great yearround source for name-brand supplies—think Crayola crayons, Elmer’s glue, Bic pens—at a lower cost than big box stores. Try Online Tricks There are a few online services that can help you save, Demer suggests. When you shop online through Paribus, it tracks the items you purchase and will help you get money back when the price drops. And when you shop via sites such as Ebates and RetailMeNot, you can earn up to 10 percent of your purchase in cash back from various retailers. Double Up If you see a great deal on basics from brand names, buy extra. You may need to replenish your kid’s stash mid-year. Plus, it’s likely that whatever is on this year’s list will be needed for next year too.

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It’s official: The cutest kids live here! More than 1,000 of you, our dear readers, entered your adorable children in our annual Cover Kids Contest! Our editors had the tough job of reviewing every entry to pick nine finalists, and the 10th finalist was the Fan Favorite, the child whose picture received the most votes (699 this year!). The finalists are: • Anthony, age 3, from Suffolk • Ghianna, age 11, from Rockland • Henry, age 3, from Brooklyn • Jasper, age 2, from Manhattan • Jordan, age 13, from Nassau

• Leilani, age 9, from the Bronx • Nyla, age 5, from Brooklyn • Olivia, age 9, from Westchester • Teagan, age 7, from Suffolk • Zachary, age 4, from Queens

At the end of June, all 10 finalists were decked out in clothing from Macy’s Backstage for a photo shoot at Sarah Merians Photography & Video Company in Manhattan—and, boy, are we going to have a tough time selecting the two grand prize winners! The older than 6 winner will receive a scholarship and professional photo shoot at Barbizon, and the 6 and younger winner (in addition to the Fan Favorite) will receive a 2-night stay, plus 2 Paw Passes, at Great Wolf Lodge in Scotrun, PA. Keep an eye out for our September issue, which will feature all 10 kids—and announce our grand prize winners! Promotional Partners:

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Photographer Sarah Merians, of Sarah Merians Photography & Video Company, makes minor adjustments to Nyla’s outfit. Nyla was voted the Fan Favorite of the cover contest, securing 1 of 10 finalist spots.

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The cost is usually the nanny’s hourly rate, plus an extra fee, the total of which should be split between the families equally (based on the number of children from each family the nanny cares for). With this arrangement, each family pays less than they would alone, while the nanny gets a slightly higher salary.

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Your child gets more individualized attention, plus a nanny share allows your little one to socialize with other kids. The smaller group size will ensure each child is well cared for. Bonus: Fewer children means less germs—and less chaos—than in your typical day care classroom.

Flexibility

A nanny share allows you much greater flexibility than a day care center or group provider. Staying late at work? Need someone to take your child to swim lessons? Having another baby? These are all things nannies are typically able (and willing) to take on—even in a share. A successful nanny share definitely takes a lot of advance planning and coordination, but it can be an excellent solution if you’re lucky enough to find the perfect nanny and a great family willing to share.

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A peek at what’s happening on NYMetroParents.com! “As a parent of a child on the autism spectrum, you probably have some great resources. If you want to share some of them with your child’s teacher, approach him or her with an attitude of: I know my child is challenging, and you are going to have your work cut out for you. But I found this great book, and it helped me and other teachers. If you think it would help you, I am happy to give you my copy.” —Barbara Boroson, LMSW, on being a respectful advocate for your child with autism; read the 10 do’s and don’ts of mainstreaming your child with ASD at nymetroparents.com/mainstream

“Book ownership does help raise levels of intelligence in kids. It raises curiosity, it raises their ability to feel conscious, aware, and motivated to keep on learning.” —Marley Dias, a 14-year-old from West Orange, who helped launch free book vending machines across NYC; read about it at nymetroparents.com/book-vending

“I imagined cooking all day, washing all the good dishes, having to clean the entire house. And who wants to turn on the oven in the summer? Suddenly, throwing food on a grill outside and using Chinet seemed so much easier. This, of course, was idiotic. The whole business is not, in fact, easier than turning on the oven.” —Christina Vercelletto, a Long Island mom who attempted to throw a backyard barbecue; read how it turned out at nymetroparents.com/bbq

nymetroparents Congrats to John Cronin, a 23-year-old from Long Island and founder of @johnscrazysocks, who made history as the first person with Down syndrome to win an Ernst and Young Entrepreneur of the Year Award!

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These are two similar but technically different conditions that can affect anyone, although children are especially vulnerable. As the names imply, both affect their victims after they’ve left the pool, usually with no idea anything is wrong.

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Choose the Best After-School Activity for Your Child With myriad activities available to children these days, it’s easy to get bogged down with all the options. Take this fun quiz to see which activity best suits your child. ››

Your child is a...

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Lone wolf

On the weekends your kid is...

Outside

Is he a picky eater?

Yes

Does he love being physical?

Yes

Sports

Your child is a ball of energy, so make sure you put it to good use. Team sports, such as basketball or soccer, are a great way to learn team work while also staying fit and active.

Your child’s dream job is...

Watching TV

Astronaut

Is she the leader of the pack?

Yes

What’s the first thing she does in the car?

Roll down window

The Arts

Her favorite subject is...

Science

Turn on radio

Dance, drama, or a music class would be a great fit for your kid. She is creative and has a zest for life that just can’t be contained. You might have a potential triple-threat on your hands!

President

Your child’s room is...

English

Is he smarter than you?

Yes

Academic Enrichment

Clean

What’s more important?

Grades

Your smarty pants can’t get enough of reading, writing, and arithmetic. Many tutoring centers also offer enrichment classes, espeically during the summer. Get your Einstein learning all year long.

Messy

Experience

Art Class

If your child is constantly drawing or painting at home, save yourself the mess and get him into an art class. Art is a great way for your little Picasso to express himself.

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Beyond the Bell

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Choosing after-school activities for your children can make your head spin—art or theater, sports or chess, STEM or dance? Experts weigh in to help you determine which—and how many— extracurriculars to enroll your child in. By Anja Webb

ith the dizzying array of options—from academic enrichment to sports teams to special interest programs—how can you be sure you’ve found the right extracurriculars for your kid without spending a fortune going from activity to activity? Local after-school activity directors, moms, and child psychologists share their tips when it comes to finding the right program.

The Benefits

While after-school classes are often seen as a means of beefing up resumes for college, there are many other advantages. One key perk is the opportunity for kids to socialize. In between classes at Studio B Dance Center in Eastchester, for example, students “sit together in their group. We don’t let them take their phones out, and they just talk for a few minutes in between the classes. It kind of develops these friendships and making eye contact and interacting,” says Nancy Solomon, owner of the dance school. “After-school activities provide an ideal environment in which to nurture social skills and confidence,” adds Shawna Stewart, program accounts specialist at MakerState LLC, a STEM enrichment program in Manhattan. “Numerous extracurricular activities work to teach children the value of working as a team to achieve a mutual goal—a skill that will benefit them in their future occupations.” Extracurriculars can also increase positive emotions and feelings of accomplishment. “By doing the recital and being part of it, they experience a lot of self-confidence and self-esteem,” Solomon says. Plus, “it teaches them listening skills and respecting adults… independence, how to make friends, how to share,” she adds. And each activity offers different benefits as well. “The benefits 12

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of STEM enrichment specifically are fostering ingenuity and creativity, teaching problem-solving, building resilience, and encouraging experimentation, teamwork, knowledge application, tech use, and adaption,” Stewart says. The experiences kids have in their extracurricular classes can help shape their identity. “They have a story, when they say, ‘Hi, my name is Susie and I love to____.’ That’s who they are, that’s their interest, and that’s something to be celebrated once they do find that special interest,” Solomon says.

The Process

The timing is a fine line between starting her early enough that she has a chance to excel in her activity, but also ensuring she’s old enough to really get something out of the classes. “Any child who goes to school is old enough to begin after-school activities,” says Carole Lieberman, M.D., a psychiatrist and author of Lions and Tigers and Terrorists, Oh My! How to Protect Your Child in a Time of Terror. “[Kids] should begin by grades first, second, or third because the sooner you start enriching them with these activities, the better.” On the other hand, if your kid is not interested in after-school classes, rest assured there’s plenty of time for him to find what he enjoys. Maybe you have a budding cinematographer or robotics engineer—these interests will develop as your child gets older. “By middle school, if not before, students should be experimenting with a diverse set of after-school endeavors that align with any interests they express,” says Kat Cohen, Ph.D., college admissions counselor and founder of IvyWise, an educational consulting company.

The Options

When it comes to selecting an activity, Dr. Cohen says it’s important to provide a variety of options while ensuring your child is still pursuing her individual interests. For younger kids, a ranking system may prove useful in making choices. “Put together a list of possibilities in your neighborhood [including] arts and crafts, photography, dance, music, theater, Little League, and so on,” Dr. Lieberman recommends. “Then ask your child to rank them in the order they like best, so that they feel like they have chosen to do this.” If your little one isn’t interested in conventional after-school activities, find alternative ways to engage her passions, and eventually an appropriate extracurricular may develop. “I see what their interests are, and try to extrapolate from there. Do they have a sudden interest in Detective Pikachu? I’ll see if there’s some sort of sleuthing or mystery club they can do,” says Alexa DeKalb, a mother of three living in Manhattan. “I understand the Ivy League isn’t going to offer a scholarship for ‘Most Encyclopedia Brown Books Read,’ but that’s fine—if it makes my kid passionate, maybe it’ll lead to a junior internship with a police department, and that’s something they could write about!” In addition to personal interests, it’s also important to factor in logistics, such as time commitment, travel time, cost, and scheduling conflicts. Maybe your little one feels equally passionate about soccer and chess, but chess only meets once a week whereas soccer meets three days a week. Soccer will require certain, potentially costly, gear such as cleats, uniforms, and shin guards. You might have to drive out of town for games if he advances to the travel team. In this situation, your choice of extracurricular may come down to logistics.

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The Ideal Number

When crafting your child’s schedule, it can be a balancing act between ensuring she can explore all of her interests without overwhelming her. It may be a case of trial and error to figure out what your kid’s individual threshold is. “Start with one afterschool activity, then gradually add more as your child seems able to handle a more intense schedule,” Dr. Lieberman suggests. During this time of testing the limits of your child’s energy and focus, it’s important to make sure he isn’t losing sight of the things that may be important to your family—academics, family dinners, religious practices, etc. “Older elementary children have great after-school options including music, theater, and sports, but also have a great risk of being over-scheduled,” says Elizabeth Malson, president of Amslee Institute, an online technical school specializing in child care. “Ideally, families should pick one or two activities at a time, ensuring plenty of time for academics and health.” Make sure activities he participates in aren’t infringing on his sleep schedule or friendships. Also, if one of your kids can balance a different activity each day of the week, it doesn’t necessarily mean her sibling will be able to do the same. “Every student is different, so there is no magic number of hours that should be devoted to after-school activities: One pre-teen might be able to balance three to four pursuits while another student might feel totally overwhelmed,” Dr. Cohen says. “At the end of the day, parents should sit down with their student, brainstorm a list of activities to pursue, and create a schedule that feels manageable for the student.” Communication and flexibility with your child are incredibly important when it comes to setting a schedule that works for both of you. After all, these activities can be the groundwork for a future degree, career, or lifelong interest.

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Several Locations in Brooklyn and Staten Island. Call for a location near you! 718-232-0114 brienzas.com Brienza’s Academic Advantage offers a wide variety of academic programs for students in kindergarten through 12th grade. Specializing in reading and math tutoring, TACHS, SHSAT, Regents, SAT and ACT preparation. Programs offered include tutoring in all subjects, test preparation, Mandated Summer School programs, and SETSS (P4) services to qualified students.

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40 Wall St., suite 708 212-645-4000 girlscoutsnyc.org customercare@girlscoutsnyc.org Girl Scouting builds girls of courage, confidence, and character, who make the world a better place. GSGNY is NYC’s largest girls-only leadership program, reaching more than 31,000 girls in each of the five boroughs. Girl Scouts enjoy programs that include business and entrepreneurship, outdoor adventure and education, STEM, and leadership development.

League of Young Inventors

347 7th Ave. 347-443-5285 yileague.org This fall we’ll be sparking kids’ curiosity after school through STEAM-based engineering projects and real world problem-solving. The League of Young Inventors is a place for kids to experiment, invent, and put their creativity to the test.

ART Art’s House Schools of Music, Dance & Fine Art 1003 Surf Ave. 718-996-2000 artshouseschools.org arts_house1@yahoo.com Art’s House Schools’, (AHS) mission is to provide culture in the humanities for children, while providing them with the opportunity to build self-esteem, self-confidence, and develop poise, grace, and balance. AHS

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274 Garfield Place, Park Slope 718-768-3814 cbebk.org CBE KIDS after-school program at Congregation Beth Elohim offers children a wide variety of enrichment classes and recreational activities in a safe and caring environment. Our enrichment classes are taught by teachers or experienced artists. Classes include: art, video, sewing, jewelry, bit bots, Legos, swimming, circus arts, ballet, and theater.

MUSIC Art’s House Schools of Music, Dance & Fine Art

1003 Surf Ave. 718-996-2000 artshouseschools.org arts_house1@yahoo.com Art’s House Schools’, (AHS) mission is to provide culture in the humanities for children, while providing them with the opportunity to build self-esteem, self-confidence, and develop poise, grace, and balance. AHS provides music, dance, and art training and instruction to children ages 3-17.

Brooklyn Music School

126 Saint Felix St. 718-638-5660 brooklynmusicschool.org contactus@brooklynmusicschool.org BMS’s after-school program, Arts Reaching Youth (ARY), offers a range of creative options with classes in music, dance, theater, and the performing arts, along with school pick-up, homework support, and healthy snacks. Appropriate for children ages 5-11.

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McCarren Tennis

McCarren Park, 50 Bedford Ave. 347-873-9698 mccarren.tennis info@mccarren.tennis McCarren Tennis Center in Williamsburg offers premier kids tennis programming for beginners to tournament level, ages 3-17. Integrating USTA development guidelines including footwork training, modern stroke technique with drills and games, players progress while enjoying immediate benefits of tennis: fun, exercise, and competition! We offer school pick-up and affordable after-school programs.

THEATER Brooklyn College Preparatory Center for the Performing Arts 234 Roosevelt Hall, 2900 Bedford Ave. 718-951-4111 bcprepcenter.org For more than 40 years, The Preparatory Center for the Performing Arts at Brooklyn College has offered private and group classes in music, theater, and dance for children and teens of all levels. Prep Center’s Teen Division includes live-action film-making and beat-making classes, focusing on the newest technologies in film and composition!

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BACK-TO-SCHOOL SERVICES DENTISTS & ORTHODONTISTS Brooklyn Family Orthodontics

Alexis K. Fermanis, D.D.S., M.S. 142 Joralemon St. 6B, Brooklyn Heights 73 8th Ave. at Union Street, Park Slope 718-395-6582

bkfamilyortho.com Dr. Alexis Fermanis is an orthodontic specialist who practiced in Brooklyn for 10 years before starting Brooklyn Family Orthodontics in 2014. Dr. Fermanis believes that a beautiful smile makes a great first impression and is passionate about providing that to her patients.

Dr. Sue Liebman

Brooklyn Heights Orthodontics 185 Montague St., 8th floor 718-622-6741 brooklyn-orthodontist.com info@brooklyn-orthodontist.com Exceptional smiles-Brooklyn Heights Orthodontics has been serving the Brooklyn community for more than 30 years. Under the compassionate leadership of Dr. Sue Liebman we are dedicated to providing the most advanced treatments, including braces and Invisalign, to patients of all ages with convenient Saturday hours and affordable payment plans.

DOCTORS Charlot, Dr. Cascya

Allergy and Asthma Care of Brooklyn 10 Plaza St. E., Suite 1E 311 Saint Nicholas Ave., Ridgewood 347-564-3211 brooklynallergydr.com Dr. Cascya Charlot is an award-winning, Harvard Medical School-trained physician who is board-certified in pediatric and adult allergy and immunology. She evaluates patients for a wide variety of allergic conditions including asthma, eczema, food allergies, sinusitis, and environmental allergies.

Maimonides Children’s Hospital

Brooklyn’s only children’s hospital and pediatric trauma center 4801 10th Ave. 718-283-7500 maimonidesmed.org/childrens Maimonides Children’s Hospital is one of New York City’s leading pediatric hospitals and is recognized by the National Association of Children’s Hospitals and Related Institutions (NACHRI). Our expert team of board-certified pediatric physicians, surgeons, nurses, and nurse practitioners provides compassionate, family-centered care for infants, children, and adolescents.

Gary N. McAbee, D.O.

Maimonides Children’s Hospital Pediatric Neurology 4802 10th Ave. 718-283-7500 Dr. Gary McAbee is an experienced pediatric neurologist at the Maimonides Children’s Hospital. He is board-certified in pediatric neurology and general pediatrics. Dr. McAbee evaluates and treats infants, children, and adolescents with neurological disorders such as migraines and headaches, developmental delay, and autism spectrum disorder.

Monita Mendiratta, M.D.

Maimonides Children’s Hospital Pediatric Pulmonology & Sleep Medicine 4802 10th Ave. 718-283-7500 Dr. Monita Mendiratta is a highly experienced, board-certified pediatric pulmonologist specializing in pediatric sleep medicine and pediatric pulmonology. She leads a multidisciplinary team of pediatric specialists who diagnose and treat sleep disorders in infants, children, and adolescents that are related to medical, developmental, or behavioral conditions.

Pediatric Immediate Care

698 Manhattan Ave. 718-389-PEDS (7337) 150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337) pediatricimmediatecare.com Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-of-the-art medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kid-friendly, walk-ins welcome, most insurance plans accepted. More than 30 years of dedication to our patients. We are open seven days-a-week, including holidays.

Tina Rakitt, M.D.

Maimonides Children’s Hospital Pediatric Gastroenterology 4802 10th Ave. 718-283-7500 Dr. Tina Rakitt is a board-certified pediatric gastroenterologist at the Maimonides Children’s Hospital. She completed subspecialty training at the Children’s Hospital of Pittsburgh and has more than 10 years of experience in treating a variety of conditions, including inflammatory bowel disease (Crohn’s disease and ulcerative colitis), celiac disease, and gastroesophageal reflux disease (GERD).

STORES & RESOURCES Affinity Health Plan

866-247-5678 affinityplan.org For more than 30 years, Affinity Health Plan has been offering New York state-sponsored free or low-cost health coverage to New Yorkers who have Medicaid or no health insurance at all. Our managed care programs meet the need for coverage among people who may find it hard to get health care.

TUTORS & TEST PREP Brienza’s Academic Advantage Inc. Several Locations in Brooklyn and Staten Island. Call for a location near you! 718-232-0114 brienzas.com Brienza’s Academic Advantage offers a wide variety of academic programs for students in kindergarten through 12th grade. Specializing in reading and math tutoring, TACHS, SHSAT, Regents, SAT and ACT preparation. Programs offered include tutoring in all subjects, test preparation, Mandated Summer School programs, and SETSS (P4) services to qualified students.

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Bryan’s Educational Center

3922-3924 Church Ave. 718-282-6944 bryanseducationalcenter.com info@bryanseducationalcenter.com Give your child a strong start at Bryan’s Educational Center! We strive to provide access to high quality early childhood programming. Bryan’s is accepting applications for our preschool (ages 2-3), UPK, Kindergarten, and After-school programs. Schedule your tour today or join our open house on Aug. 10 from 11:30am-2:30pm.

Smart Start Early Learning Center

8411 Fort Hamilton Parkway 718-921-1868 smartstart@verizon.net While providing a safe, warm, and nurturing environment, our staff addresses the social, emotional, and physical needs of children. Through thematic units, arts and crafts, and dramatic play, the whole child will flourish. Full- and part-time classes for ages 2-3, and free universal pre-K for age 4, with extended-day option.

Stepping Stones Nursery School 245 86th St., Bay Ridge 718-630-1000

Stepping Stones-The Next Step 9321 Ridge Blvd. 718-630-1001 steppingstones86.com steppingstones86@aol.com Join Stepping Stones to share the joys of early exploration and discovery. The children at Stepping Stones achieve successful social skills and build a wonderful rapport with their peers and teachers. Watch your child grow through hands-on learning and small group instruction based on an independent and creative curriculum.

Treasure Island

347 74th St. (corner of 4th Avenue and 74th Street) 718-238-7676 silbekidz@aol.com Every child deserves a champion who connects with them and helps them to become the best that they can be. At Treasure Island our staff are champions for all children, helping each child to become a confident, motivated, engaged learner. The program promotes social competencies, active thinking, and problem-solving skills.

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A Whole New World Academy

910 Union St. 718-230-0022, 718-230-0026 awnwa.com A Whole New World Academy provides a safe and supportive environment. “The Mother Goose Time” curriculum embraces your child’s uniqueness to ensure they will learn 33 key skills. Lunch and snacks are provided by Yumble Kids, since we believe in nurturing a child’s body as well as their mind.

Brooklyn Amity School

3867 Shore Parkway 718-891-6100 amityschool.org; info@amityschool.org Brooklyn Amity School will now be offering a tuition-based pre-K-3 program. This early childhood program will offer two enrollment options: halfday (8am-12pm), and full-day (8am-3pm). Our free UPK program provides an integrated curriculum of activities balancing emotional, social, physical, and intellectual development. Visit amityschool.org, for more details about the program.

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Teaching your teen to be a successful, self-sufficient adult will take time and patience, but it’s worth it (trust us!). By Emma Steven

ne minute you’re changing your kid’s diapers, and the next you’re arguing with her about curfew. Your baby has grown into a young person with strong opinions and a fierce desire to be independent. As a parent, it’s your job to teach him life skills. But, like everything with teenagers, it’s complicated. Raising independent teens starts in preschool, according to Julie Lythcott-Haims, former dean of freshmen at Stanford University and author of How to Raise an Adult: Break Free from the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success. “Kids don’t acquire life skills by magic at the stroke of midnight on their eighteenth birthday,” she writes. “Childhood is meant to be a training ground. Parents can assist, not by always being there to do it or to tell them how to do it via cellphone—but by getting out of the way and letting them figure it out by themselves.” Unfortunately, this isn’t happening as often as it should. We are in the midst of an overparenting era, Lythcott-Haims says, and our kids are suffering for it. The 2018 Cooperative Institutional Research Program Freshman Study by the Higher Education Research Institute reported the emotional and mental health of freshmen in 1,900 U.S. colleges has declined since 1985. While there are many factors at play, researchers have found a strong correlation between parents who are overinvolved in their kids lives and undergraduates who report poor psychological well-being, problems making friends, low self-efficacy, and anxiety. Lythcott-Haims warns that if we want our kids to be happy and successful adults, we urgently need to let them do more. “The narrative has to shift so we see that it is most loving to 18 August 2019 | nymetroparents.com

be interested in our children learning skills for themselves,” she writes. “It feels unloving…in the moment, but when we remember that our job is to put ourselves out of a job, that’s actually the most loving thing we can do.”

Choose Chores

Doing tasks around the house from an early age is a predictor of success in adult life, according to Marty Rossmann, professor emeritus at the University of Minnesota. Yet the amount of time kids spend doing chores has been declining since the ’80s. Psychologists believe household work teaches kids how to look after themselves and develop a good work ethic. By 10 a child can take on laundry, change the bed, and mow the lawn. Highschoolers can manage most adult chores, such as shopping for and preparing meals and unclogging drains. Your kids will definitely complain, but at least they won’t be calling you asking how to vacuum after they’ve moved out.

Dollars and Sense

“It’s never too early, or too late, to begin teaching about financial literacy,” says Jennifer Myers, CFP and president of SageVest Wealth Management and SageVest Kids. “Kids can really begin to conceptualize money as tweens.” “Budgeting is the most important thing a parent can teach their child,” Myers says. “We always recommend attaching purchase responsibilities with allowances. It forces kids to learn about the importance of budgeting and saving.” By the teen years, kids should be paying for outings with friends, makeup, clothing, and

more (think things they want, not things they need), to help conceptualize real life costs, Myers suggests. Most money experts and psychologists recommend teens hold a part-time job (and not just during the summer). “It gives them the understanding that when they fill up the car tank it might cost five hours of work,” says Cary Siegel, author of Why Didn’t They Teach Me This at School: 99 Personal Money Management Lessons to Live By.

Change a Tire

Lauren Fix, the “Car Coach,” says American teenagers should be learning basic car maintenance—as they do in other countries. Not only will it give her confidence, it also saves money. All she needs is the owner’s manual, Youtube, and the local auto parts store. Teach him to check and change the oil, check tire pressure and add air, change a tire, fill the gas tank, replace basic parts (wiper blades and air filters), and what to do when the “check engine” light comes on.

Let Them Struggle

Young adults have to be able to cope with the ups and downs of life and keep going. Learning to manage conflict, hurt feelings, and cope when things go wrong is important. If we try and solve every one of our child’s minor problems, we rob him of experiences that help to build resilience. As Mogel says: “When they come to you in distress, resist responding like a concierge, talent agent, or the secret police. Assume they are capable of figuring out—

If you’re feeling a little behind, don’t worry! It’s never too late to start. Lythcott-Haims has this advice: “The first thing is to acknowledge to the kid, with a small bit of apology, ‘We realized that we are a bit behind when it comes to teaching you to be independent and it’s time for us to start teaching you a lot of things.’ A teen needs to hear that because otherwise they will view your shift with a lot of skepticism.”

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Let her choose which chores she’s going to take on. Then tell him you will stop asking him about school work all the time because you know he has it under control, and let him decide what skills, like money management or car care, he would like to learn first. The process will probably elicit an eye roll now, but her future self will thank you. Emma Steven is a British freelance writer living in Manhattan with her husband, two small kids, and two cats. She writes about parenting and New York City.

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The recent admissions scandal is an extreme example of how far some will go to get their kid into the “right” college. More common, Lythcott-Haims says, is the helicopter parent who constantly monitors their child’s academics and chooses her classes and extracurricular activities. Parents doing homework is also not unusual. The average U.S. parent spends six hours a week helping their child with academics, according to the Varkey Foundation’s Global Parent’ Survey. While well-intentioned, micromanaging stops kids from experiencing the natural consequences of their actions, such as missing deadlines and getting good or bad grades. Lythcott-Haims also warns that it can leave children feeling like their parents have no faith in them, and that they are doing their homework for their parents, not themselves. “None of this is good for the child,” she says.

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In between or after the fun, the whole family can refuel by grabbing a slice (or a whole pie) at Extreme Pizza, next door to Space Farms Zoo & Museum.

Space Farms Zoo & Museum

Experience the excitement of live animals including lions, tigers, bears, leopards, jaguars, lemurs, buffalo, sheep, deer, and snakes while immersing yourself in the history that nine large museum buildings bring you. Exhibits include more than 50 antique cars, motorcycles, old horse drawn carriages, and sleighs; antique dolls; old farm machinery; and Native American artifacts. Visit it: 218 County Road 519, Sussex, NJ; 973-875-5800; spacefarms.com

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Give your family several hours to go through the many exhibits, view shows, and interact with the Wild West City reenactors.

Wild West City

This western heritage theme park takes families back in time to 1880s life in Dodge City, KS. You’ll have the opportunity to see museum-quality exhibits; take stagecoach, train, and pony rides; visit the barnyard zoo; and so much more. Walk down Main Street to see (and participate in) 22 live-action shows, visit the old-time candy store, or make a memory at the Old Time Photo Center dressed up in Western garb. Visit It: 50 Lackawanna Drive, Stanhope, NJ; 973-347-8900; wildwestcity.com

The Croc-O-Nile lazy river is the perfect way to relax in between high energy amusement rides.

Lake Compounce and Crocodile Cove

If your family is looking for a thrill or relief from the August heat, spend the day at Lake Compounce and Crocodile Cove. The oldest continuously operating amusement park in North America, Lake Compounce is home to more than 30 traditional amusement park attractions, and Crocodile Cove boasts water rides that kids of all ages will love. Visit It: 185 Enterprise Drive, Bristol, CT; 860-583-3300; lakecompounce.com

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The Walkway Over the Hudson was originally built as a double-track railroad bridge and reopened as a pedestrian walkway in 2009.

Walkway Over the Hudson

Dubbed ‘The Great Connector,’ this linear park crosses over the Hudson River from the Town of Lloyd in Ulster County to the City of Poughkeepsie in Dutchess County. Your family will love the beautiful views of the Hudson while spending some time breathing in the fresh air of Hudson Valley. Though usually closed after dark, the bridge offers moonlight walks and movie nights on select evenings. Visit It: Highland entrance: 87 Haviland Road, Highland; Poughkeepsie entrance: 61 Parker Ave., Poughkeepsie; Elevator entrance at Upper Landing Park: 83 N. Water St., Poughkeepsie; 845-454-9649; walkway.org

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23 We Can’t Believe It’s FREE!

28 The Great Outdoors

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

New York Musical Festival

WHEN: Through Aug. 4: see website for schedule WHERE: Various locations, see website for details. AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Selections include My Real Mother and Head and Heart, created by an all-female team. WHY WE LOVE IT: The festival is a chance to see stylistically, thematically, and culturally diverse new musicals. WANT TO GO? See website for details. nymf.org.

The World’s Biggest Bounce House Comes to Brooklyn

WHEN: Aug. 2-4, Friday-Sunday, see website for schedule WHERE: Aviator Sports and Events Center, Floyd Bennett Field, 3159 Flatbush Ave., Marine Park AGES: All WHAT: The Big Bounce America—the world’s largest touring inflatable event—is coming to Brooklyn! There will be unique custom-built inflatable attractions including the world largest bounce house (Guinness certified!), a 900-foot-long inflatable obstacle course, and a giant maze. WHY WE LOVE IT: The fun includes live DJs, confetti blasts, bubbles, and crazy dance competitions. WANT TO GO? $19 and up. 718-758-7500. aviatorsports.com.

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Parkside-Empire 5th Annual Street Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 12-7pm WHERE: Greenlight Bookstore PLG, 632 Flatbush Ave., Prospect Lefferts Garden AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy great local music, food, and merchandise.

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WHY WE LOVE IT: The booth promises great summer reading, giveaways, local authors, and fun craft activities for kids! WANT TO GO? Prices for merchandise, food, and some games vary. 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com.

Celebrate the Caribbean Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 11am-4:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Museum, 200 Eastern Parkway, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Get ready to celebrate Caribbean history and culture overseas and in the community through a day of music, food, movement, storytelling, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: The fun includes art making, souvenirs at the bazaar, and fun with special guests. WANT TO GO? Free with museum admission: $16; $10 students, seniors, and visitors with disabilities; free for ages 19 and younger. 718-638-5000. brooklynmuseum.org.

BRIC Celebrate Brooklyn! Concert Series FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 10: select Thursdays, Fridays, and Saturdays, 7:30pm WHERE: Prospect Park Bandshell, 7th Avenue and 2nd Street, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: See 29 performances reflective of Brooklyn’s eclecticism and diversity. WHY WE LOVE IT: Stroller parking will be available on the 9th Street side! WANT TO GO? 718-683-5600. bricartsmedia.org.

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‘Peter and the Wolf’ and ‘The Frog Prince’

WHEN: Aug. 3-10, Saturday-Sunday, 12:30 and 2:30pm WHERE: Puppetworks Inc, 338 6th Ave., Park Slope AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Puppetworks presents Prokofiev’s orchestral adventure, Peter & the Wolf, and on the same program, The Frog Prince, by the Brothers Grimm, with music from Kabalevsky’s The Comedians and Andersen’s The Ugly Duckling. WHY WE LOVE IT: The show is just an hour—perfect for young children! WANT TO GO? $11; $10 children. puppetworks.org.

29th Annual Sand Sculpting Competition FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 17, 12pm WHERE: Coney Island Boardwalk, Boardwalk and West 10th Street, Coney Island AGES: All WHAT: Everyone has the hidden talent of sand sculpting and every year, hundreds descend down to Coney Island to create these beautiful works of art using our natural elements at the beach. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s an afternoon of fun in the sun, with some friendly competition! WANT TO GO? allianceforconeyisland.org.

FAMAJAM Family Dance Party Series

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 17, 11am-1pm WHERE: Greenwood Park Beer Garden , 555 7th Ave., between 19th and 20th streets, Greenwood Heights AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: FAMAJAM is an outdoor, family dance party. Enjoy dancing, music, food, contests, prizes, games, activities, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: The fun happens rain or shine thanks to the Greenwood Park Beer Garden’s new 50-foot tented lawn. WANT TO GO? Free activities with fees for food and drink. greenwoodparkbk.com.

Cool Pools NYC: Media Education at Douglass and DeGraw Pool FREE

WHEN: Aug. 7-28, Wednesdays, 2-5pm WHERE: Thomas Greene Playground, 225 Nevins St., Gowanus AGES: All WHAT: Learn photography and videography in these pop-up workshops while waiting on line or spending time by the pool. WHY WE LOVE IT: The park has a summer upgrade with new lounge chairs, cabana-style shade, fun summer-themed wall art, and poolside programs! WANT TO GO? 212-360-2702. nycgovparks.org.

Live at the Archway Series 2019 FREE

WHEN: Aug. 1-29, 5:30pm WHERE: Archway Under the Manhattan Bridge, Water Street (between Anchorage Place and Adams Street), Dumbo AGES: All WHAT: Live at the Archway is Dumbo’s signature series features dynamic musical performances, pop-up galleries, and interactive art experiences in a magical, only-in-Dumbo setting. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s your last chance to enjoy Family Jam each night with puppets, hula hoopers, and more spectacle fun for kids and adults. WANT TO GO? dumbo.is.

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American Indian Community House FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 18: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Governors Island, ferries leave from Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 6, New York Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy art exhibitions and artist talks with three Native artists. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

Stomp, Clap & Sing with The Jolly Lollies FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 20, 11am-12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Liz Corwin and Holly Johnson are both singer-songwriters who teamed up to create Liz, Holly, & The Jolly Lollies. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

Teen Tech Time FREE

WHEN: Aug. 5-26, Mondays, 4pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Spring Creek, 12143 Flatlands Ave., East New York AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Enjoy playing with the library’s Playstation 4 or any of the other new technology! WANT TO GO? 718-257-6571. bklynlibrary.org.

Prospect Park Yoga FREE

WHEN: Aug. 1-29, Thursdays: 7-8pm WHERE: Prospect Park Long Meadow, 70 West Drive, Park Slope AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Join Bend + Bloom Yoga, Prospect Park Alliance, and New York-Presbyterian Brooklyn Methodist Hospital to celebrate summer with an hour-long, free yoga class every Thursday evening. WANT TO GO? 718-965-8951. prospectpark.org.

Kids Tech Time

WHEN: Aug. 2-30, Fridays, 4pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Spring Creek, 12143 Flatlands Ave., East New York AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids can have fun with the Playstation 4 or any of the other new technology! WANT TO GO? 718-257-6571. bklynlibrary.org. ››

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Sing-Along with Hannah from The Buttons Band

WHEN: Aug. 1-29, Thursdays, 3:30pm WHERE: Wild Was Mama, 272 Driggs Ave., Greenpoint AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join Hannah from the band every week for a lively song and dance party to keep little ones moving through their afternoon. WANT TO GO? $20. 718-576-3806. shop-thewild.com.

ANIMAL LOVERS Sky Kings Raptor Show

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 12:30, 1:30, and 2:30pm WHERE: Staten Island Zoo, 614 Broadway, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Featuring hawks, owls, falcons, vultures, and other raptors in free flight that will leave you thrilled and amazed. Learn the natural history of these incredible birds of prey, along with their unique traits and natural abilities. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $10; $7 seniors; $6 children ages 14 and younger; free for children 2 and younger. 718-4423100. statenislandzoo.org.

Horse Power

DANCE PARTY Dance and Music with Cumbe Kidz FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 6, 10-11am WHERE: Fort Greene Park, Washington Park Street, Fort Greene AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join FGPC and Cumbe: Center for African and Diaspora Dance to take a fun journey through the African diaspora by way of Fort Greene Park. WANT TO GO? 212-639-9675. fortgreenepark.org.

Moving Together Family Dance Series FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 11, 1-2pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park, Pier 3, 146-300 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Afro-Caribbean Dance Live drummers will bring this Moving Together class to life as participants explore the rhythms and movements of African Dance. Everyone will enjoy the exploration from footwork to the history and meaning of each movement. WANT TO GO? 718-624-4719. brooklynbridgepark.org.

Willie Villegas Presents: Salsa Sunday FREE

WHEN: Aug. 4-25, Sundays, 12-6pm WHERE: Industry City, 274 36th St., Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Local musician and salsa aficionado Willie Villegas hosts this event that features live outdoor salsa classes. WANT TO GO? industrycity.com.

Waterfront Workouts: Broadway Dance FREE

WHEN: Aug. 5-26, Mondays, 10am WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park, Pier 2, Furman and Clark streets, Brooklyn Heights AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Brooklyn resident James Martinelli’s Cardio Dance and Range of Movement workout offers improved strength and increased flexibility. WANT TO GO? 718-802-0603. brooklynbridgepark.org. 24

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WHEN: Aug. 3-11, Saturday-Sunday, 1:30-2:30 WHERE: New York Transit Museum, 99 Schermerhorn St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn all about working horses and the history of the horsecar in New York. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $10; $5 children; $5 seniors and visitors with disabilities. 718-694-1600. nytransitmuseum.org.

Wild About Art

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 25, 12-3pm WHERE: Staten Island Zoo, 614 Broadway, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Join in the fun and celebrate the zoo’s animals through exploring different art techniques. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $10; $7 seniors; $6 children ages 14 and younger; free for children 2 and younger. 718-4423100. statenislandzoo.org.

Discovery Room Animals All Around

WHEN: Aug. 3-25, Saturday-Sunday, 11:30am-12:30pm WHERE: New York Transit Museum, 99 Schermerhorn St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Stop by the Education Center to explore animals that help New York transportation. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $10; $5 children; $5 seniors and visitors with disabilities. 718-694-1600. nytransitmuseum.org.

Calypso at the Zoo

WHEN: Aug. 3-31, Saturday-Sundays, 11am-4pm WHERE: Prospect Park Zoo, 450 Flatbush Ave., Prospect Lefferts Gardens AGES: All WHAT: It’s an explosion of Island Culture for Brooklyn’s own West Indian carnival featuring steel pan and calypso music, carnival-inspired crafts, and, of course, island wildlife. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $9.95; $7.95 seniors; $6.95 children ages 3-12; free for children ages 2 and younger. 718-399-7339. prospectparkzoo.com.

ONCE UPON A TIME Toddler Time FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 1, 11am WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Park Slope, 431 6th Ave., Park Slope AGES: 1-2 WHAT: Songs, books, stories, fingerplays, and rhymes! WANT TO GO? 718-832-1853. bklynlibrary.org.

Circus Tales with Julie Pasqual FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 20, 3:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Park Slope, 431 6th Ave., Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: The antics of Julie the Clown will keep you smiling. Julie encourages the entire audience to get involved, making this a delightful experience for everyone. WANT TO GO? 718-832-1853. bklynlibrary.org.

Saturday Storytime FREE

WHEN: Aug. 3-24, Saturdays, 11am WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, 109 Remsen St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Join each Saturday to hear new stories and favorite tales read aloud. WANT TO GO? 718-623-7100. bklynlibrary.org.

Garden Story Hour: Feelings FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 24, 11am-12pm WHERE: Wyckoff House Museum, 5816 Clarendon Road, East Flatbush AGES: 3-8 WHAT: This month’s theme: feelings, with a reading from Feelings to Share from A to Z by Todd and Peggy Snow. WANT TO GO? 718-629-5400. wyckoffmuseum.org.

Ezra Jack Keats Story Hour FREE

WHEN: Aug. 3-24, Saturdays, 2-3pm WHERE: Prospect Park, Imagination Playground, Lincoln Road and Ocean Avenue, Flatbush AGES: All WHAT: Join Prospect Park Alliance at the Imagination Playground for storytelling adventures brought to life by Tammy Hall. WANT TO GO? 718-965-8951. prospectpark.org.

Babies & Books FREE

WHEN: Aug. 6-27, Tuesdays, 1pm and 2pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Brooklyn Heights, 109 Remsen St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: Newborn to 18 months WHAT: Join for songs, fingerplays, stories, and more while meeting other babies and caregivers in the neighborhood! Register online. WANT TO GO? 718-623-7100. bklynlibrary.org/locations/brooklyn-heights.

Story Play with RIF FREE

WHEN: Aug. 6-27, Tuesdays, 11am WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Spring Creek, 12143 Flatlands Ave., East New York AGES: All WHAT: Join us for stories, singing, and playtime! WANT TO GO? 718-257-6571. bklynlibrary.org.

Storytime at Brooklyn Bridge Park, Granite Terrace! FREE

WHEN: Aug. 7-28, Wednesdays, 10:30am WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, 109 Remsen St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Join this storytime in the Granite Terrace, which has a view of the Brooklyn Bridge. WANT TO GO? 718-623-7100. bklynlibrary.org.

PreK Story & Play FREE

WHEN: Aug. 1-29, Thursdays, 10:45am WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, 109 Remsen St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Have a blast reading stories, singing songs, and learning fingerplays. After storytime, enjoy a craft or exploration stations. WANT TO GO? 718-623-7100. bklynlibrary.org.

Musical Yoga Storytime FREE

WHEN: Aug. 1-29, Thursdays, 10:15am and 11am WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Join for a storytime for toddlers incorporating live music and yoga! WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

Saturday Storytime FREE

WHEN: Aug. 3-31, Saturdays, 11:30am WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Spring Creek, 12143 Flatlands Ave., East New York AGES: All WHAT: Hear new stories and favorite tales read aloud. WANT TO GO? 718-257-6571. bklynlibrary.org.

Saturday Storytime with Imagination Playground FREE

WHEN: Aug. 3-31, Saturdays, 10:30am WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Park Slope, 431 6th Ave., Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: Head to the story garden (or the children’s room, if it’s raining!) for stories and songs old and new for kids of all ages. WANT TO GO? 718-832-1853. bklynlibrary.org.

Ezra Jack Keats Story Hour FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 31, Saturdays, 2-3pm WHERE: Prospect Park, Imagination Playground, Lincoln Road and Ocean Avenue, Flatbush AGES: All WHAT: Storytelling adventures are brought to life by Tammy Hall. WANT TO GO? 718-965-8951. prospectpark.org.

Story and Play FREE

WHEN: Aug. 3-31, Saturdays, 10am WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Hear wonderful stories, play with toys, and make new friends at this fun and informal program. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

Saturday Author Story Time FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 28: Saturdays, 11:30am WHERE: Greenlight Bookstore, 686 Fulton St., Fort Greene AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Authors present their books with interactive readings and drawings, and often activities and crafts. WANT TO GO? 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com.

Sunday Bookseller Story Time FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Sundays, 11:30am WHERE: Greenlight Bookstore, 632 Flatbush Ave., Prospect Lefferts Gardens AGES: All WHAT: Greenlight staff choose their favorite read-alouds to share with young booklovers. WANT TO GO? 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com. ››

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Sing A Long with Lloyd Miller

WHEN: Aug. 6-13, Tuesdays, 10-11am WHERE: Nunu Chocolates, 179 5th Ave., Park Slope AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Bring your little ones to this weekly sing-along with Lloyd Miller. WANT TO GO? $10 per family. 718-622-3212. newyorkcitywol.org.

Stomp, Clap & Sing with Will Leet FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 13, 11am-12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Singing guitarist Will Leet and jazz singer/pianist Sammy Rae Bowers will sing an exciting mix of children’s songs and contemporary pop songs, and foster exploration with musical instruments and fun movement activities. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

The Sparrow Sisters at Norman and Jules Backyard

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MUSICIANS Rock and Roll Playhouse at Industry City: Afrobeat for Kids featuring The Music of Fela Kuti and More FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 1pm WHERE: Industry City, 274 36th St., Greenwood Heights AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: The Rock and Roll Playhouse, a family concert series hosted on Saturdays at Industry City, allows kids to get down to songs created by the most iconic musicians in rock history. WANT TO GO? therockandrollplayhouse.com.

Music Class at Feed Dumbo FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 4, 9am WHERE: Feed Dumbo, 55 Water St., Brooklyn AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join in on the first Sunday of every month for a kids music session with Dan the Music Man. WANT TO GO? RSVP required. feedprojects.com.

Stomp, Clap & Sing with Shira Kobren FREE

WHEN: Aug. 5-26, Mondays, 4pm WHERE: Norman and Jules, 158 7th Ave., Park Slope AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: The Sparrow Sisters perform a sweet mixture of folk and nursery songs with guitar, ukulele, vocal harmony...plus a visit from resident puppet Henry the Caterpillar. WANT TO GO? $10. 347-987-3323. normanandjules.com.

Stomp, Clap & Sing with Amy Miles FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 27, 11am-12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: 3-12 WHAT: At these guitar and uke-driven sing-alongs you can expect great songs—some original and some well-known—stories and fun all led by musician and performer Amy Miles. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

Music & Art

WHEN: Through Aug. 28: Wednesdays, 3:30-4:15pm WHERE: Stories Bookshop + Storytelling Lab, 458 Bergen St., Park Slope AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Explore jazz, rock, folk, and classical! WANT TO GO? $28. 718-369-1167. storiesbk.com.

ON SCREEN Outdoor Films: ‘Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind’ FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 6, 11am-12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Shira Kobren performs all over the tri-state area, bringing her high energy, catchy tunes to her favorite kinds of audiences—the ones that love to dance along with her and become part of her show. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org/locations/central.

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 9, 6pm WHERE: Governors Island, ferries leave from Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 6, New York Harbor AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Watch this modern romantic classic on the big screen. Pre-show entertainment includes a DJ kicking off at 6pm and the films beginning at dusk. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

Brooklyn Traditional Slow Jam FREE

SummerStarz Movies FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 7-9pm WHERE: Old Stone House & Stone Park, 4th Street, between 4th and 5th Avenues, Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: This group is intended to provide a musical home for folks interested in playing tunes with other musicians, learning to play by ear, and overall increasing their own musical skill. It’s fun and welcoming to all ages and levels of playing. WANT TO GO? 718-614-2919. theoldstonehouse.org. 26

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WHEN: Aug. 2-16, Fridays, 8-10pm WHERE: Transmitter Park, Greenpoint Avenue and the East River, Greenpoint AGES: All WHAT: Town Square’s SummerSTARZ free family movie nights beckon families to the gorgeous Greenpoint waterfront. August movies will be The Wizard of Oz, How to Train Your Dragon: The Hidden World, and Captain Marvel. WANT TO GO? 347-559-1410. townsquareinc.com.

Outdoor Movie Night FREE

Movie Night at Habana Outpost

WHEN: Aug. 11-18, Sundays, 8:15pm WHERE: Randall’s Island Park Alliance, 20 Randalls Island Park, New York AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Watch a free movie under the stars at Randall’s Island Park. Aug. 11 features Crazy Rich Asians (PG-13) and Aug. 18 is Ralph Breaks the Internet (PG). Fun activities before the movie! Free popcorn while supplies last. WANT TO GO? 212-830-7722. randallsisland.org.

WHEN: Aug. 4-25, Sundays, 8pm WHERE: Habana Outpost, 757 Fulton St., Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Habana Outpost projects classic films (many are rated PG) onto its big outdoor screen from late spring to late fall. WANT TO GO? Free with food or drink purchase. 718-858-9500. cafehabana.com.

Coney Island Flicks on the Beach FREE

WHEN: Aug. 6-27, Tuesdays, 8:30pm WHERE: Valentino Pier, Van Dyke and Ferris streets, Red Hook AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Red Hook Flicks, in association with Red Hook Labs, presents Summer Movies on the Pier. WANT TO GO? redhookflicks.com.

WHEN: Aug. 5-19, Mondays, 8pm WHERE: Coney Island Boardwalk, Boardwalk and West 10th Street, Coney Island AGES: All WHAT: A giant 40-foot inflatable screen turns the beach into an outdoor movie theater. WANT TO GO? coneyisland.com.

Regal Summer Movie Express

WHEN: Aug. 6-21, Tuesday-Wednesday: 10am WHERE: UA Sheepshead Bay Stadium 14 IMAX & RPX, 3907 Shore Parkway, Sheepshead Bay AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Regal Cinemas offers $1 movies for little ones on Tuesday and Wednesday mornings this summer. A portion of the proceeds goes to supporting The Will Rogers Institute. WANT TO GO? $1.

Movie Parties: ‘The Goonies’

WHEN: Aug 18-22; Sunday, 12pm; Monday, 9:30pm; Tuesday-Thursday, 7pm WHERE: Alamo Drafthouse Cinema, City Point, 445 Albee Square W., 4th Floor, Downtown Brooklyn AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Join this movie party to celebrate beloved 80s movie, The Goonies. There will be a pirate ship’s worth of fun props for you to play with, including flashlights (for bully blinding), a pirate’s eye patch, and a SmellAlong card, featuring Goonies-themed scents like bubble gum. WANT TO GO? $16.36. drafthouse.com.

Movie Night in the Garden FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 23: select Fridays, 8:30pm WHERE: Narrows Botanical Gardens, Shore Road, between Bay Ridge Avenue and 72nd Street, Bay Ridge AGES: All WHAT: Films include Wonder Woman and Spider-Man: Into the Spider-Verse. WANT TO GO? narrowsbg.org.

Red Hook Flicks FREE

Movies with a View FREE

WHEN: Aug. 1-29, Thursdays, 6pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park, Pier 1, 334 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Celebrating 20 years of evening film screening, Movies with a View attracts tens of thousands of people each summer to the waterfront park. WANT TO GO? 718-683-5600. brooklynbridgepark.org.

SPECIAL NEEDS

Navigating Your Child’s Disability: One to One Assistance FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 10am-1pm WHERE: Brooklyn Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: Adult WHAT: Experts provide 1-to-1 help for you and your child with: Individualized Education Program process, early childhood services and programs, transition planning, transportation issues, camps, after school, and more. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

Wash Day: An Event for Children with ASD

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 25, 11am-12pm WHERE: Prospect Park Audubon Center, 101 East Drive, Flatbush AGES: All WHAT: Join Prospect Park Alliance at Lefferts Historic House for an exclusive event for children with autism spectrum disorder. The museum will open an hour early and you and your family can cool off from the summer sun and help get the dirt out of 19th-century reproduction clothing the old-fashioned way: using tubs, washboards, and bar soap! WANT TO GO? Suggested donation: $3. 646-393-9031. prospectpark.org. ››

Private Lessons Group Classes Dance After School Classes Musical Theater & Performance Jazz & Rock Ensembles, Orchestra Adult Classes

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Nature Center Adventures FREE

WHEN: Aug. 1-17, Thursday-Sunday, 11am-12pm and 2-3pm WHERE: Marine Park Salt Marsh Nature Center, East 33rd Street and Avenue U, Marine Park AGES: All WHAT: Nature Center Adventure programs include scavenger hunts, nature crafts and games, and getting up close and personal with nature center animals. WANT TO GO? 718-421-2021. nycgovparks.org.

Cloud Gazing

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Gather Around the Campfire FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 7-8:30pm WHERE: McCarren Park, 900 Lorimer St., Williamsburg AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy an evening of games, songs, and fun activities around the campfire. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 347-987-2765. townsquareinc.com.

Journey to the Stars FREE

WHEN: Aug. 2-9, Fridays: 8:30-10:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park, Pier 1, 334 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Gaze across the New York sky and all the wonders it holds. Members of the Amateur Astronomers Association of New York will set up high-powered telescopes for stargazing sessions that are free and open to the public. WANT TO GO? 718-683-5600. brooklynbridgepark.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 17, 12-3pm WHERE: Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Stretch out in the meadow by the Staten Island Children’s Museum and draw the clouds! WANT TO GO? Fee with admission: $8. sichildrensmuseum.org.

Discover Gardening

WHEN: Aug. 7-21, Wednesdays, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Practice gardening skills alongside Discovery Docents in the Hamm Children’s Learning Courtyard inside the Discovery Garden. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $15 adults; $8 seniors and students 12 and older; free for children 12 and under. 718-623-7200. bbg.org.

Pop-Up Audubon: Macy’s Fishing Clinic FREE

WHEN: Aug. 4-24; see website for schedule WHERE: Prospect Park Peninsula, Well House Drive, Flatbush AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This popular summer program offers kids and adults the opportunity to fish. Participants learn about aquatic ecology, fishing safety, how to use a cane pole, and will even get to collect their own bait. WANT TO GO? 718-965-8951. prospectpark.org.

Prospect Park Walking Tours

WHEN: Aug. 10-11, Saturday, 6pm to Sunday, 7am WHERE: Prospect Park Long Meadow, 70 W. Drive, Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: The Urban Park Rangers celebrate the tradition of camping with local families. WANT TO GO? 718-965-8951. prospectpark.org.

WHEN: Aug. 4-25, Sundays, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Prospect Park Westside, 95 Prospect Park West, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Prospect Park Alliance and Turnstile Tours host a series of walking tours that examine the many layers of natural and human history to be found in Brooklyn’s Backyard. WANT TO GO? Prices vary. prospectpark.org.

Nature Walks with Bradley Klein: Interesting Insects

Seining FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 11, 11am-12pm WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Join naturalist Bradley Klein to learn about the life histories of insects and how to identify them in the field. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $15; $8 seniors and students 12 and older, free for children 12 and younger. 718-623-7200. bbg.org.

WHEN: Saturdays, Aug. 10, 11am-12:30pm; Aug. 31, 4:30-6pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 4, 334 Furman St., Pier 4 Beach, Brooklyn Heights AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Discover the amazing biodiversity of the Hudson River Estuary as staff and scientists use a seine net to humanely catch incredible creatures that live below the water’s surface. Photo by Navid Baraty. WANT TO GO? Free with RSVP. 718-222-9939. brooklynbridgepark.org.

Foraging Tour with Wildman Steve Brill

Environmental Education Center Open Hours FREE

Family Camping: Brooklyn FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 11, 11:45am WHERE: Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Park West and Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This 4-hour foraging tour of Prospect Park takes you through many different varieties of wild foods, including brittle russulas, prized chanterelles, earthy meadow mushrooms, and gigantic chicken mushrooms. WANT TO GO? Suggested donation: $20; $10 children younger than 12. 718-965-8945. prospectpark.org.

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WHEN: Aug. 1-31, Tuesday and Thursday, 3-5pm; Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park, 99 Plymouth St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Get to know Brooklyn Bridge Park by visiting the Environmental Education Center’s 250-gallon aquarium filled with critters from the East River, a 10-foot scale model of Brooklyn Bridge Park, crafts, a reading corner, and more. WANT TO GO? 718-222-9939. brooklynbridgepark.org.

SMARTY PANTS

Mini Meditations

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 2-3pm WHERE: Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Kids can reach Nirvana with this meditation workshop led by the Compassion Center. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $8. sichildrensmuseum.org.

Chess at Three (Beginners/Intermediate, drop-off)

WHEN: Through Aug. 7: Wednesdays, 4-4:45pm WHERE: Stories Bookshop + Storytelling Lab, 458 Bergen St., Park Slope AGES: 3-8 WHAT: These classes are centered around stories that explain why the chess pieces move the way they do. Your children will learn how all the pieces like to move, some chess theory, and the importance of sportsmanship. WANT TO GO? $38. 718-369-1167. storiesbk.com.

Chess at Three (Advanced, drop-off)

WHEN: Through Aug. 8: Thursdays, 4-4:45pm WHERE: Stories Bookshop + Storytelling Lab, 458 Bergen St., Park Slope AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children will delve deeper into chess theory, figure out difficult puzzles, strengthen the importance of sportsmanship, and hear the occasional hilarious story. WANT TO GO? $38 per class. 718-369-1167. storiesbk.com.

The Science of Sleep: Con Edison Second Saturday Science

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 12pm WHERE: Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Discover what happens to our bodies when we sleep and then try to interpret your dreams! WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $8. sichildrensmuseum.org.

Nostalgia Ride: Remembering the Myrtle Avenue Elevated

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 18, 11am-5pm WHERE: New York Transit Museum, 99 Schermerhorn St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: To commemorate the 50th anniversary of the closing of the Myrtle Avenue Elevated, participants will venture along the El’s route. WANT TO GO? $50 Adults. 718-694-1600. nytransitmuseum.org.

Ready, Set, Kindergarten! FREE

Super Science: Rocket Science

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 24, 11am-1pm WHERE: Staten Island Museum, 75 Stuyvesant Place, Staten Island AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Hands-on science experiments! WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $8; $5 students and seniors; $2 children ages 2-12. 718-907-3488. statenislandmuseum.org.

History on Wheels

WHEN: Aug. 3-25, Saturday-Sunday, 11:30am-12:30pm WHERE: New York Transit Museum, 99 Schermerhorn St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Make discoveries and learn fun facts, exploring photographs and artifacts that relay the history of horse-powered transportation in New York City. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $10; $5 children; $5 seniors and visitors with disabilities. 718-694-1600. nytransitmuseum.org.

Reading Is Fundamental (RIF) FREE

WHEN: Aug. 6-27, Tuesdays, 10am WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Spring Creek, 12143 Flatlands Ave., East New York AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Checkout two books every week and receive a free book every third week. WANT TO GO? 718-257-6571. bklynlibrary.org.

Teen Tech Time FREE

WHEN: Aug. 1-29, Thursdays, 4pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, 61 Glenmore Ave., Brownsville AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Play various games in a friendly and competitive environment. WANT TO GO? 718-498-9721. bklynlibrary.org.

NYTM Train Operators Workshop

WHEN: Aug. 3-Sept. 1, Saturday-Sunday, 11:30am-12:30pm WHERE: New York Transit Museum, 99 Schermerhorn St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: 10 and older WHAT: Drop by the Computer Lab to take control of a NYC Subway car and operate it over virtual miles of track, using some incredibly realistic software. Limited capacity. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $10; $5 children; $5 seniors and visitors with disabilities. 718-694-1600. nytransitmuseum.org.

New York Virtual Volcano Observatory FREE

WHEN: Aug. 4-18, Sundays, 2:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: 3-8 WHAT: In this special six-session series, families enjoy stories and activities designed to encourage the development of early learning practices. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Governors Island, ferries leave from Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 6, New York Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Join volcanologists to discover the complex life of magmas and volcanos through virtual reality experiences, a volcano sound gallery, and kid-friendly activities. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

Battle of Brooklyn Monuments Tour

Friday Drop-Off

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 18, 10-11am WHERE: Lefferts Historic House, 452 Flatbush Ave., Prospect Park AGES: All WHAT: Join Prospect Park Alliance for a guided tour to view some of Prospect Park’s Revolutionary War monuments. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-789-2822. prospectpark.org.

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 6:30-9:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Game Lab, 310 7th Ave., Park Slope AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Drop in for Dungeons and Dragons and go on a multi-month campaign each week. WANT TO GO? $48. 718-788-1122. brooklyngamelab.com. ››

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Coney Island Fireworks FREE

WHEN: Aug. 2-30, Fridays, 9:30-10pm WHERE: Coney Island Boardwalk, Boardwalk and West 10th Street, Coney Island AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy singing karaoke with family and friends on the Coney Island Boardwalk in front of Deno’s Wonder Wheel, and then watch the fireworks illuminate the sky. WANT TO GO? coneyisland.com.

NYC Unicycle Festival 2019 FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 30, 2pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge, Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: This 13-mile ride across the Brooklyn Bridge to Coney Island is the beginning of the NYC Unicycle Festival. WANT TO GO? Donations are encouraged. nycunifest.com.

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS Hindu Lamp Ceremony FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 4pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park (Pebble Beach), 334 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: The Aarti ceremony is traditionally presented each morning and evening in order to convey gratitude and ask for protection from mother river. Join in to decorate palm leaf lamps and set them afloat along the East River. Photo by Etienne Frossard. WANT TO GO? 718-222-9939. brooklynbridgepark.org.

Terrific Tuesdays

WHEN: Through Aug. 13: Tuesdays, 10am WHERE: Greenbelt Conservancy, Carousel for All Children, 1 Eton Place, Staten Island AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Take a spin on the carousel, enjoy a nature activity, and learn about upcoming programs. WANT TO GO? $2.25. 718-351-3450. sigreenbelt.org.

Community Baking Day with Brick Oven Brooklyn

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 17, 12-4:40pm WHERE: Old Stone House & Stone Park, 336 3rd St., between 4th and 5th avenues, Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: Join your neighbors at the outdoor wood-fired oven at the Old Stone House, where you can bring any dish to bake and then share your baked treats and swap recipes with new friends. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-614-2919. theoldstonehouse.org.

The 15th Annual Fort Greene Summer Literary Festival FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 25, 3-5pm WHERE: Roulette Intermedium, 509 Atlantic Ave., Boerum Hill AGES: All WHAT: Bringing generations of writers together to build on the literary traditions of Fort Greene, this year’s event features four exciting poets and performers. Then check out the afterparty at Greenlight’s Fort Greene store. WANT TO GO? greenlightbookstore.com.

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Smorgasburg FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Sundays, 11am-6pm WHERE: Prospect Park, Eastside, Breeze Hill, Ocean Avenue, Prospect Lefferts Garden AGES: All WHAT: This open-air food fair returns with more than 100 local and regional food purveyors. WANT TO GO? 718-965-8951. prospectpark.org.

SHOW TIME!

Unplugged Music Series at Brooklyn Bridge Park FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 2, 6-8pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park, Pier 3, 146-300 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy intimate, unplugged sets performed by local artists and intimate acoustic acts curated by Sophie Colette/8090. WANT TO GO? 718-624-4719. brooklynbridgepark.org.

Living Room Comedy Show FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 2, 8pm WHERE: Postmark Café, 326 6th St., Park Slope AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Come to this clean, all-ages show to see some of TV’s funniest comedians and hear jokes they’re working on for their next TV appearance on Comedy Central, Fallon, Conan, The Tonight Show, and more! WANT TO GO? 916-693-8387. livingroomshowny.com.

Masterworks Series

WHEN: Aug. 2-3, Friday, 7pm; Saturday, 6pm WHERE: Bargemusic, 1 Water St., Dumbo AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy classical music in New York City’s unique floating concert hall. WANT TO GO? $35; $20 students and children; $30 seniors. brownpapertickets.com.

The 70s Soul Jam: The Stylistics, The Manhattans, Harold Melvin’s Blue Notes, Fred ‘Bugsy’ Buggs, and DJ Chuck Chillout FREE WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 7-10pm WHERE: Ford Amphitheater at Coney Island Boardwalk, 3052 W. 21st St., Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: This ‘70s soul revue features three of the decade’s classic groups, revered by a generation of R&B fans and living on today as forerunners of hip-hop music. WANT TO GO? fordamphitheaterconeyisland.com.

The Rock and Roll Playhouse Plays the Music of Dave Matthews Band for Kids WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 4, 12:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bowl, 61 Wythe Ave., Williamsburg AGES: All WHAT: During each fun-filled show, children explore live music, movement, and collaborative creativity. WANT TO GO? $12. 718-963-3369. therockandrollplayhouse.com.

Music in the Grove Kids Concerts FREE

Magic At Coney!

WHEN: Aug. 4-25, Sundays: 12-2pm WHERE: Coney Island Museum, 1208 Surf Ave., Coney Island AGES: 3 and older WHAT: A magical variety show highlighting a vast array of magicians, featuring illusionists, escape artists, mentalists, and close-up magicians from around the world. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children ages 12 and younger. 347-699-4386. magicatconey.com.

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 10-11am WHERE: Fort Greene Park, Washingon Park St., Fort Greene AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: These hour-long concerts bring parents and children of all ages together with some of the finest talent in Brooklyn for a romping, stomping good time. WANT TO GO? 212-639-9675. fortgreenepark.org.

‘Bessie’s Big Shot’ FREE

The Rock and Roll Playhouse Plays Salsa Sounds for Kids FREE

Magic Show: Amazing Ken with Ken Levy FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 1pm WHERE: Industry City, 220 36th St., Suite #2-A, Greenwood Heights AGES: All WHAT: During each fun-filled show, children explore live music, movement, and collaborative creativity. WANT TO GO? 718-965-6450. therockandrollplayhouse.com.

The Rock and Roll Playhouse Plays the Music of Phish for Kids WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 11, 12:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bowl, 61 Wythe Ave., Williamsburg AGES: All WHAT: During each fun-filled show, children explore live music, movement, and collaborative creativity. WANT TO GO? $12. 718-963-3369. therockandrollplayhouse.com.

Backstreet Boys

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 15, 8pm WHERE: Barclays Center, 620 Atlantic Ave., Prospect Heights/Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: Backstreet Boys are coming to Brooklyn! WANT TO GO? $100 and up. 917-618-6100. barclayscenter.com.

The Rock and Roll Playhouse Plays the Music of Lady Gaga for Kids FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 17, 1pm WHERE: Industry City, 220 36th St., Suite #2-A, Greenwood Heights AGES: All WHAT: During each fun-filled show, children explore live music, movement, and collaborative creativity. WANT TO GO? 718-965-6450. therockandrollplayhouse.com.

WHEN: Aug. 9-26; see website for showtimes WHERE: Various Locations, Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Root for Bessie the cow in this variety show as she attempts the impossible and searches for her special talents. WANT TO GO? cityparksfoundation.org. WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 28, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Prepare to be amazed as Brooklyn’s own “Amazing Ken” delights with magic. Music, illusions, and full audience participation make this an engaging experience for the entire family. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.

Soulfrito Music Fest 2019

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 30, 8pm WHERE: Barclays Center, 620 Atlantic Ave., Prospect Heights/Park Slope AGES: 13 and older WHAT: The one-night-only concert will feature a mash-up between the new wave of hip-hop stars and Latin trap. WANT TO GO? $81 and up. 917-618-6100. barclayscenter.com.

The Rock and Roll Playhouse Plays the Music of Reggae for Kids FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 31, 1pm WHERE: Industry City, 220 36th St., Suite #2-A, Greenwood Heights AGES: All WHAT: During each fun-filled show, children explore live music, movement, and collaborative creativity. WANT TO GO? 718-965-6450. therockandrollplayhouse.com.

SUMMER ADVENTURE!

Shawn Mendes

WHEN: Aug. 23-24, Friday-Saturday, 7:30pm WHERE: Barclays Center, 620 Atlantic Ave., Prospect Heights/Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: Shawn Mendes will be performing with special guest Alessia Cara. WANT TO GO? $69.50 and up. 917-618-6100. barclayscenter.com.

The Rock and Roll Playhouse Plays the Music of The Strokes for Kids FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 24, 1pm WHERE: Industry City, 220 36th St., Suite #2-A, Greenwood Heights AGES: All WHAT: During each fun-filled show, children explore live music, movement, and collaborative creativity. WANT TO GO? 718-965-6450. therockandrollplayhouse.com.

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Basketball Clinics FREE

WHEN: Aug. 4-27, Sundays, 12-2pm; Tuesdays, 5-7pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park, 334 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Join the two-hour basketball clinics at Pier 2 led by NYC youth basketball organization, KING Hoops. Learn basketball basics as head coaches lead participants through drills and games. WANT TO GO? 718-222-9939. brooklynbridgepark.org.

Kayaking FREE

WHEN: Aug. 1-31, Thursday, 5:30-6:45pm; Saturday-Sundays 10am-2pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park Boathouse, 334 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Glide along the water while kayaking with the Brooklyn Bridge Park Boathouse at the Pier 2 floating dock. WANT TO GO? 718-222-9939. brooklynbridgepark.org.

play:groundNYC’s The Yard FREE

MOVERS & SHAKERS New York Liberty In Brooklyn

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 11, 3pm WHERE: Barclays Center, 620 Atlantic Ave., Prospect Heights/Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: The New York Liberty will host the reigning WNBA champion Seattle Storm. WANT TO GO? Prices vary. 917-618-6100. barclayscenter.com.

Kayaking in Red Hook FREE

WHEN: Aug. 1-15, Thursdays, 6-8pm WHERE: Louis Valentino Jr. Park Pier, Van Dyke and Ferris streets, Brooklyn AGES: 5 and older WHAT: With a mission is to help people get on the water and enjoy the New York Harbor, The Red Hook Boaters provide free kayaking in Red Hook. A legal guardian must be present for minor to paddle. WANT TO GO? redhookboaters.org.

Fishing Clinics FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 9, 4-6pm; and Saurday, Aug. 17, 11am-1pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 5, at the end of Joralemon Street, Brooklyn Heights AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn how to tie fishing knots, bait a hook, cast a fishing rod, and maybe even catch a fish. WANT TO GO? brooklynbridgepark.org.

Lil’ Yogis

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 25, 1pm WHERE: Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Experience mindfulness through play and stretching in this guided yoga class led by Be Yoga Dance Studio. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $8. sichildrensmuseum.org.

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WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Saturday-Sunday, 12-4pm WHERE: Governors Island, ferries leave from Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 6, New York Harbor AGES: All WHAT: The Yard is a 50,000 square-foot adventure playground stocked with loose parts, tools, and space for kids to play. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

New York Road Runners Open Run FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Tuesdays, 7pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park, Pier 6, Atlantic Avenue and Furman Street, Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Participate in free weekly 2½- to 3-mile runs or walks, directed by volunteers. WANT TO GO? 718-222-9939. brooklynbridgepark.org.

CRAFTY KIDS Family Art Workshop: Marker Monoprints

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 1-3pm WHERE: Staten Island Museum, 75 Stuyvesant Place, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Drop-in art workshops fun for all ages! WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $8; $5 students and seniors; $2 children ages 2-12. 718-907-3488. statenislandmuseum.org.

Art Force 5 FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 4: Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Governors Island, ferries leave from Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 6, New York Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Superheroes-in-training can make an action figure and customized cape. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

Watercolor & the Sketchbook: Recording the Story of Your Life!

WHEN: Through Aug. 9: Fridays, 4-5:30pm WHERE: Stories Bookshop + Storytelling Lab, 458 Bergen St., Park Slope AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Start a sketchbook practice and talk about different ways of recording experiences. WANT TO GO? $35. 718-369-1167. storiesbk.com.

Beyond the Streets Exhibit

WHEN: Aug. 1-25, Wednesday-Sunday, 11am-8pm WHERE: 25 Kent Ave., Williamsburg AGES: All WHAT: Beyond the Streets is a major exhibition of graffiti and street art showcasing the work of more than 150 artists from around the world. WANT TO GO? $25; $12 children ages 6-11; free for children ages 5 and younger. beyondthestreets.com.

2-5pm; Friday, 2-4:30pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 145 Brooklyn Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Educators will guide young artists and their families through the exploration of themes, techniques, tools, vocabulary, and materials related to each Muse Artist’s process. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $11. 718-735-4400. brooklynkids.org.

Public Art: Bridge Over Tree FREE

WHEN: Through Sept. 29: daily, 6am-1am WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park, 334 Furman St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Armajani’s artwork features a 91-foot-long walkway with a set of stairs that rise and fall over a single evergreen tree. WANT TO GO? 718-222-9939. brooklynbridgepark.org.

Transit Tots

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Thursdays, 10:15-11am WHERE: New York Transit Museum, 99 Schermerhorn St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Young train enthusiasts explore themes like animals underground, the people and buildings of New York City, colors and shapes, and the city’s subways and buses. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children ages 2-17. 718-694-1600. nytransitmuseum.org.

Art Playgroup for Babies!

WHEN: Through Aug. 26: Mondays, 10:15-11:15am WHERE: Private Picassos, 237 5th Ave., Park Slope AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Let your child explore art materials in a whimsical art studio. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-2150589. privatepicassos.com.

Toddler Art Adventures

WHEN: Through Aug. 27: Tuesdays, 10:15-11am WHERE: Private Picassos, 237 5th Ave., Park Slope AGES: 1½-3 WHAT: Explore paint, crayons, oil pastels, collage materials, air-dry clay, and recycled sculpture. WANT TO GO? $28. 718-2150589. privatepicassos.com.

Anime Club FREE

WHEN: Aug. 7-28, Wednesdays, 4pm WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, 61 Glenmore Ave., Brownsville AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Come check out our anime club where members will watch, read, and discuss their favorite shows and series! WANT TO GO? 718-498-9721. bklynlibrary.org.

Move Your Body!

WHEN: Through Aug. 29: Thursdays, 3:30-4:15pm WHERE: Stories Bookshop + Storytelling Lab, 458 Bergen St., Park Slope AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Budding artists use their whole body to make art. WANT TO GO? $28. 718-3691167. storiesbk.com.

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Maimonides Children’s Hospital The Only Children’s Hospital in Brooklyn Maimonides Children’s Hospital is one of New York’s leading pediatric hospitals, and is proud to be a member of the Children’s Hospital Association (CHA). Our expert team of board-certified pediatric physicians, surgeons, nurses and nurse practitioners provides compassionate, family-centered care for infants, children and adolescents. Our extensive range of pediatric services and specialties include allergy and immunology, cardiac care, neurology, orthopedic care, neonatal intensive care and critical care. Maimonides Children’s Hospital is also Brooklyn’s only Pediatric Trauma Center, and provides comprehensive pediatric emergency care in our fully-accredited Pediatric Emergency Room, a division of both Emergency Medicine and Pediatrics.

4802 Tenth Avenue Brooklyn, NY 11219 718.283.7500 MaimonidesMed.org Jeffrey Avner, MD, Chair George Foltin, MD, Vice Chair – Clinical Michael Marcus, MD, Vice Chair – Ambulatory Ingrid Walker-Descartes, MD, MPH, Vice Chair – Education

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Summer Classics Compiled by Melissa Wickes

Before back-to-school shopping and carpool planning become your reality, enjoy the final days of summer with your family by getting outdoors as much as you can! Ride a wave and build a sandcastle at one of the best beaches in Brooklyn or embrace the fun of redstained fingers when picking strawberries, blueberries, and more at a nearby farm. Looking to go for an adventure? Spend the day riding a roller coaster at a local amusement park or take a horse out for a trot at one of the many stables in our area. However you soak up the last of the summer sun, make sure the whole family has proper protection from UV rays!

AMUSEMENT PARKS

Fantasy Forest at the Flushing Meadows Carousel 111th Street and 55th Avenue, Flushing 718-788-2676 fantasyforestnyc.com Hours: Through Oct. 8: daily; hours vary. Check online for full details. Admission: Single ticket: $3.50; 3 tickets: $10; 10 tickets: $30; 20 tickets: $55; 40 tickets: $100. Weekly unlimited ride wristband: $25 (valid until 4pm) One roller coaster, family rides and games, and a carousel are right in the heart of Queens. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/amusementparks

BEACHES

Brighton Beach Brightwater Avenue, East of Coney Island, Brighton Beach 718-946-1350; 212-639-9675 nycgovparks.org/parks/coney-island-beach-and-boardwalk/facilities/beaches Hours: Beach and boardwalk: daily, 10am-6pm. Lifeguards on duty daily, 10am-6pm, through Labor Day. Admission: Free A 2.7-mile boardwalk, New York Aquarium, Luna Park (including the Cyclone rollercoaster), eateries, and outdoor spray showers Find more>>nymetroparents.com/beaches

HORSEBACK RIDING Seven Ponds Orchard 65 Seven Ponds Road, Water Mill 631-726-8015 Hours: daily, 9am-6pm Pick your own raspberries and blackberries through November. Blueberries also available. Apple picking begins at the end of August and continues through November. Also offers on-site market with baked goods and jams, childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s play area, and corn maze.

Jamaica Bay Riding Academy 7000 Shore Parkway, Mill Basin 718-531-8949 horsebackride.com Private and family lessons are offered for kids of all ages and levels. Private and group trail rides, pony rides, and birthday parties are available. Summer camp for kids ages 5-15 includes daily lessons, beach riding, arts and crafts, and animal care. There is an elementary and middle school/high school riding team for appropriate ages and skill levels.

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renaissance faire

All photos: Deborah Grosmark

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he New York Renaissance Faire is back in the Orange County town of Tuxedo for its 42nd season! This 65-acre Elizabethan village celebrates life in the 16th century with jousting, theater, acrobatics, magicians, music, shows, games, food, and more. Read on as Estée Pouleris shares what her first experience at the New York Renaissance Faire was like. Three years ago, I hadn’t attended this event before, so I wasn’t sure what to expect. My then 4-year-old daughter Brooklyn, her dad, and I made the scenic 45-minute drive from upper Manhattan to see what the Renaissance Faire is all about. And we experienced a show you may find yourself looking forward to each and every year. Once we arrived, the faire completely blew my mind. It is set up as a 65-acre Elizabethan village, and it feels like being on a movie set. This celebration of the 16th century is filled with hundreds of costumed performers, jousting tournaments, music, festive foods, magicians, manually powered rides, and more than 100 shops selling mostly handmade wares. To add to the fun, most of the attendees dress up, too. The venue even offers rental costumes if you feel inspired to fully immerse yourself in the experience.

Renaissance Faire.

Queens, and Knights, and Fairies, Oh My!

We began our day around 3pm, and stopped first at the Queen’s Glade, where Brooklyn participated in the Children’s Knighting Ceremony. Here we were able to spend some time with “her majesty” and her court. It was a cute ceremony led by costumed knights who taught the kids about knighthood and their job to protect the realm. Brooklyn received a certificate of knighthood for her extraordinary courage, honor, and truthfulness, and was renamed Lady Brooklyn. Our next stop was The Enchanted Forest, where Brooklyn settled in and fell in love with the fairies. Fairies don’t talk, but Brooklyn quickly found a way to communicate with them: They made gestures back and forth and mimicked each other’s facial expressions. Some fairies even gave away treasures such as buttons and pixie dust. Several times throughout the day, this area is also turned into Kids’ Quest, where kids can participate in a 30-minute adventure in which they work together to help the fairies save their enchanted homes.

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Next, we tried the amusement rides. There are about a half dozen manually powered rides spread throughout the grounds. We rode the Dragon Swing, Bedlam Barrel, Crow’s Nest, and carousel. These are all unique, hand crafted, and pushed or spun by hard-working faire employees, all dressed in character. As much fun as these were, I think the highlight was the games, including axe throwing, a maze, ring toss, darts, strength tests, and dragon slaying. Brooklyn and her dad played four rounds of archery, both eventually hitting the bullseye! We refueled with delicious food. The faire offers a smorgasbord of treats, including vegetarian, vegan, and gluten-free options. We ended up with sausage on a stick, pizza, and dragon chips. All were deliciously greasy and perfect fair food. While eating we watched dancers and performers while many attendees joined in on the fun. It was a great break in our day and gave us a moment to take in the spirit of the festival and see how much fun everyone was having. 36

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Royal Entertainment

Our next stop was Teatro Del Sol, where we caught an act by the famous Gypsy Geoff. He’s known for juggling, fire manipulation, and other circus acts. We’ll never forget this show because he ended up inviting Brooklyn onstage to do some tricks with him. She held sticks while a plate spun on one and a metal bin on the other. Geoff then began playing them like drums. To top it off, he poured a pitcher of water in the spinning metal bin, giving Brooklyn a little shower. We all laughed about it, and since it was 90 degrees out, she was happy for the refreshing spray. Our last planned stop for the day was the Royal Joust at the Roselawn Tournament Field. This event is free and offers a lot of great seating, including a VIP option. Jousting is intense, so I had to reassure Brooklyn that the competitors were unharmed. We all enjoyed it, though, and even got to meet the riders and horses afterward. As the jousting tournament ended, the faire started closing down for the day. Brooklyn asked if she could be the leader to show us the way out, when a performer by the name of Daniel Liberti stepped by her side and said, “I’ll lead!” He asked her name and if she likes to make wishes. He put a pebble in her hand, told her to squeeze her hands and eyes as tight as she could, and make a wish. She announced her wish for a unicorn. He then took his staff and touched her hands with it, and told her to open her eyes and hands—well, there was no unicorn, but there was a crystal marble. It was such a fun, spontaneous experience, so much in line with the vibe of a Renaissance Faire. We made our way toward the exit around 7pm and noticed all the performers gathering along the hills and paths on our route. A band started playing live Renaissance-style music, and everyone started dancing. Performers and attendees all danced together and celebrated a wonderful day of fantasy. My daughter found her favorite fairy up on the hill and they danced together until it was time to call it a day. It’s official: I am now a Renaissance Faire fan, and I will likely visit this one every year.

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The Renaissance Faire hosts themed weekends all season, including Pirate Weekend, Time Travelers’ Weekend, and Celtic Weekend. Plus, various entertainers stroll the grounds all season, so you’re never without something fun to see! There is free parking about ¼ mile from the faire, and free shuttle buses take visitors back and forth. There is $10 parking closer to the faire, but the lot fills quickly. The grounds are very stroller and wheelchair friendly. Diaper changing stations are in men’s and women’s bathrooms. Wagons are available to rent if you don’t bring a stroller but realize you should have. Pets are not allowed, though service animals are welcome. You can get a stamp if you leave the park to return later that day. Outside food is not allowed, but you can return to your car for a picnic if you would prefer your own food. Many shows are not appropriate for kids. All of these are indicated on the schedule or online. However, overall, this is a very kid-friendly venue. Nearly all activities, with few exceptions (such as the shows and performances), require additional fees. Activities and food stands don’t accept credit cards. There are ATMs around the faire, but bringing cash is helpful. There is direct bus transportation provided by Shortline from the Port Authority Bus Terminal in Manhattan to the faire. It offers either a round-trip bus-only ticket to the faire or a day-trip package that includes round-trip bus ticket, plus faire admission and a program. Contact Shortline for more details: shortlinebus.com or 800-631-8405.

Want to Go?

Address: Sterling Forest, 600 Route 17A, Tuxedo, Orange County Hours: Aug. 17-Oct. 6, Saturday-Sunday and Labor Day, 10am-7pm Admission: $29.95; $25.95 seniors (62 and older) and military personnel with identification; $13 ages 5-12; free for ages 4 and younger. Check website for discounts and promotions. More info: renfair.com/ny or 845-351-5171

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7 date night ideas that will let you re-live your childhood By Katelin Walling

Graff Tours offers street art tours and graffiti lessons in Brooklyn and Manhattan.

aying bills, choosing a preschool, working a 9-to-5 job. The duties of adult- and parenthood can make you long for the days when you didn’t have a care in the world. Sometimes parents can press pause on the duties of adulthood—if for only an evening—on date nights. But if you’re tired of the same old dinner-drinks-movie routine, we’ve compiled a list of seven date night ideas in New York City that will make you feel like a kid again. So book your kids’ favorite babysitter, and re-create some of your favorite childhood memories—or fulfill some childhood dreams.

games we all used to play as kids, so battle it out against your partner. Full Circle Bar in Williamsburg is home to Skee-Ball and offers a Brewskee-Ball league, trivia night, and free Skee-Ball on Sundays and Thursdays. Royal Palms Shuffleboard Club, located in Gowanus has 10 shuffleboard courts—and if you’re not familiar with the game, everyone gets a free lesson! If Forrest Gump’s hobby is more your style, SPiN, located in the Flatiron District, Manhattan, is a ping-pong paradise with 19 tables for playing. Up the ante: No matter where you go, whoever wins the most games gets out of dishes duty for a week.

Soar through the air.

Take part in the street art scene.

Nothing takes us back to childhood like the thrill and adrenaline rush of a zooming through the air. The Bronx Zoo’s Treetop Adventure features a 400-foot zip line and seven aerial adventure courses. While riding along the wires, adventurers will pass through the zoo’s 265-acre forest and see the Bronx River’s wetlands from 50 feet in the air. The last ride is at 5pm, so this is a great way to kick off your childhood-adventures date!

Learn some circus skills.

If you ever wanted to run away with the circus, or are dying to learn some Cirque skills, Trapeze School New York, located on Pier 40 in Greenwich Village, Manhattan and Williamsburg should be your next date-night destination. The school offers a variety of aerial classes, including flying trapeze, silks and rope, trampoline, and aerial hoop. And the Manhattan location is outdoors, so you’ll be front row to some spectacular evening views of the Statue of Liberty.

Complete a heist.

You’ve undoubtedly seen photos on your newsfeed of a group a friends holding either “We escaped” or “We didn’t get out in time” signs. Know where those are from? Escape rooms, in which participants work with a partner or a team to solve the puzzles in an allotted amount of time to free themselves. While some rooms are bank heist or jail break themed, there are a slew of escape rooms in NYC that offer other themes, including spy, prohibition, aliens, and medieval (nymetroparents.com/escape-rooms).

Challenge your partner to a duel.

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Anyone who lives in NYC has absolutely seen graffiti, from beautiful murals to random tags. If you’re a creative-type, you may be itching to try your hand at street art, and you can do just that with Graff Tours. The company offers 1½-hour street art tours and 1-hour graffiti lessons in Brooklyn and Manhattan, and you can make an afternoon of it by doing both. Start off with a tour to see area street art and learn about the artists, then head over to a lesson (all supplies are included), in which you’ll learn tips and tricks of aerosol art from an NYC graffiti artist. Plus, you can bring items to spray paint as a one-of-a-kind souvenir.

Play the now-vintage games of your childhood.

Forget the latest gaming system, classic arcade games are back in style (though did they ever go out?)! The popular Barcade is exactly what the name suggests—a bar-arcade combo that focuses on classic video games and American craft beer. The original location is housed in a former metal shop in Williamsburg, with two more locations in Chelsea and the East Village in Manhattan. More of a pinball wizard? Head over to Milo’s Yard in Ridgewood, Queens (right next to Bushwick), which is home a selection of pinball machines, a backyard, and a vintage jukebox.

Bust out those ‘Xanadu’ dance moves.

Or, if you’re like me, relive your middle-school Friday nights at Lakeside in Prospect Park. Friday and Saturday nights, Dreamland Roller Disco hosts a dance party on the roller rink for those 21 and older. Friday nights are often themed—upcoming ones include Soul Train, Beyonce vs. Jay Z, and Flashdance—and everyone is encouraged to come dressed for the theme.

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Plotting Your Return ››

The transition from maternity leave to being back at work isn’t always smooth, but the good news is you can make it easier on you and your family. By Madeleine Burry

ere’s the thing about maternity leave: It’s finite. You may have several months or just a few weeks of 1-on-1 time with your new baby, but eventually, you’ll return to your workplace. That transition isn’t always easy. “New moms may feel a range of feelings when returning to work,” says Dana Dorfman, Ph.D., psychotherapist and co-host of the podcast 2 Moms on the Couch. Those feelings can include everything from guilt to sadness to excitement. Then there is the sheer volume of logistical questions to tackle: Who will care for your baby? Where and when will you pump if you’re breast-feeding? Do your professional outfits still fit? With each question that hits you, heading back to work feels more intimidating. Since countless other working moms have dealt with these same concerns, we spoke to some of them, as well as human resources professionals and psychologists, to find the best strategies for your return to work.

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Don’t delay when it comes to sorting out child care. Day care spots fill up early, and interviewing potential nannies will take longer than you think. “Secure child care early in the pregnancy,” recommends Angel Montfort, Psy.D., a clinical psychologist at the Center for Maternal Mental Health in Florida. Or at least put child care on the top of your transitional to-do list, and consider these factors as you evaluate your options. Location matters. “If you are looking for a day care for your child, remember the most important factor is location, location, location!” says Eirene Heidelberger, certified parent coach and founder of GIT Mom (Get It Together, Mom!). Your time will be precious, she points out—don’t waste it adding an extra leg to your commute. Plus, you’ll appreciate a location near home (or your office), especially if you have to pick up a sick little one in the middle of your workday. Caregiver rapport is important. The best way to feel comfortable about your baby being away from you is to be able to visualize how each day is spent. “I encourage moms to spend time with caregivers prior to returning to work,” Dr. Dorfman says. That might mean 40

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shadowing a nanny or sitter for a few days or long visits to the day care. (If the day care you’re considering seems to frown on “surprise” visits as opposed to scheduled tours, keep looking!) Schedule this time a few weeks before you head back to work— that way, if need be, you will have time to find an alternative. “Ideally, this time together will enhance mom’s connection and trust with a caregiver,” Dr. Dorfman says. Open communication is key. Moms should feel comfortable speaking with caregivers about their family’s needs. “It’s advisable to have regular check-ins to discuss concerns and mitigate potential conflicts,” Dr. Dorfman says. It can be as casual as chatting with the day care staff at drop-off or as formal as a weekly meeting with your nanny. A backup plan is a must. Babies get sick. Nannies do too. And sometimes, day care is closed when your workplace is open. Along with your partner, think through how you’ll handle these moments—maybe you have family or a trusted friend who can help out, or perhaps you and your partner can alternate caretaking.

Plan Your Return

Although you began strategizing before you went on leave (setting up a return date, etc.), be open to the possibility that your notion of what makes sense for you and your family may shift during maternity leave, Dr. Montfort urges. “As much as we try to plan ahead, it’s important to be adaptable and work together to find a plan that makes sense for everyone,” says Marshall Stanton, human resources director at Aeroflow Healthcare. The following expert tips can help you navigate this process: Prepare for a mix of emotions. “It’s normal to feel excited, scared, anxious, sad, or anything else…as your first day back approaches,” Stanton says. And don’t discount the possibility that you’ll welcome going back, Dr. Dorfman adds. “Often, work can be a welcome reprieve from allconsuming child care,” she says, noting that it’s a return to interacting with adults and reconnecting with your pre-motherhood identity. Know your rights. Legally, your employer needs to provide a private space and reasonable break time for you to pump, Stanton says. If the

space is bedraggled—say, an old supply closet with a rickety folding chair—schedule a time to meet with your manager about it. “I think most people will find their companies really want to support them but often just don’t fully understand what a new mom needs,” he adds. Do a trial run. Your morning routine likely looks quite different these days. Before your first day back at work, try a test run. Wake up, do your routine with baby, put on a work outfit, and commute to the office. This might reveal aspects that need adjustment— such as waking up earlier so you have time to change your shirt after it’s covered in spit-up. Skip Monday your first week back. A short week will make the transition easier on you. In addition, some moms at Stanton’s company work a modified schedule for the first few weeks back in the office. If that’s financially feasible, you may want to check if a flexible work schedule is an option at your workplace. Make a schedule. If you are pumping at work, try to schedule your day around it, Stanton suggests. If you need a firm exit time in place to avoid late fees from your caregiver, make sure to put that on your calendar so you don’t get pulled into a surprise 5pm meeting.

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Ask for what you need. “A mom must advocate for herself because no one else will,” Heidelberger says. Seek to negotiate expectations in a way that’s mutually beneficial, she advises. For example, a workfrom-home day may help you get more work done, while also being able to accommodate your nanny’s schedule. Find peers in and out of the office. It’s hard to overestimate the value of an in-office support system. These people really get it—and can often help you navigate new HR situations. “Finding a few fellow parents in the office who understand...what you’re going through is one of the best ways to help moms transition back smoothly,” Stanton says. Moms particularly benefit from other moms’ support, Dr. Dorfman says. “Those who are in the same phase of working motherhood can commiserate and deeply understand the way a mom feels,” she adds. In addition, find like-minded friends to add to your social circle. “Build your village so you can have a reality-check when you need it,” Heidelberger recommends.

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Homeowner’s Insurance Check ››

Your policy should be sized up on a yearly basis (at least), but which life events warrant an immediate review? By Melissa Wickes

hen a disaster strikes your home—flood, burglary, fire, or worse—the last thing you want to worry about is whether your homeowner’s insurance is up to date. Even if you review your coverage annually, there are several life-changing events that may require policy modification—big purchases, home renovation, or family changes. With a little help from local homeowner’s insurance experts, we explain how and when to make the necessary adjustments.

Big Purchases

Homeowner’s insurance is not just meant to protect your physical home (the bricks, walls, and roof). It should also cover what’s inside your home—everything from furniture to designer handbags. “It is extremely important to check in with your insurance agent when you make significant purchases to ensure everything is covered,” says Christina Trapani, senior branch manager at Liberty Mutual Insurance in Valley Stream. “For high-valued items, like engagement rings, artwork, consumers should look into ‘scheduling’ the property,” Trapani suggests. “Scheduling is an insurance term meaning the item is on a ‘schedule’ and insured separately—it is not covered under the general personal property limit.” A vacation might also warrant a change in policy. “Say you have a big trip coming up this summer, maybe overseas. We should talk about if you have off-premise theft (coverage). Meaning, if you’re in the airport and your luggage is stolen, where does your coverage end and begin?” offers Christina Shaw, an Allstate agent in Wantagh. Making a purchase that could be considered high-risk—such as a pool or a new trampoline—is another reason to review your policy. Another example? A pet. “Getting a dog is a good reason to call your agent because you want to make sure your liability coverage on your homeowner’s insurance policy includes if your dog bites a neighbor or something like that,” explains Kelly Qu, homeowners insurance agent for Allstate in Manhattan.

Home Renovations

A renovation should absolutely trigger a policy review—what if the construction itself damages your property or someone gets hurt on the job? Even if your neighbor trips over lumber that was left in your yard from your kitchen extension, liability coverage can help pay for the medical costs. 42

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Another policy to re-read before renovating your home is your umbrella policy—which is excess liability that sits on top of your home (and auto) insurance and will kick in if your homeowners insurance runs out before the issue is financially resolved, according to Shaw. If the neighbor who fell over some lumber in your backyard ends up needing an ambulance, an overnight stay in the ER, and additional medical care, your liability coverage might be spent before you can even think about the legal fees you’ll have to pay if he sues you for pain and suffering. “If your liability is exhausted, the umbrella policy will kick in for an additional million [dollars] or more, depending on what you purchase,” explains Shaw, noting that those with equity in their home or large incomes should be aware of it. “Really, it’s a shield between you and your assets.” Finally, if your home reno includes upgrades that will greatly increase your overall home value, you want to make sure your ‘new’ residence is not underinsured. For example, if you recently replaced your cabinets, make sure a claim will cover the new ones, not the 30-year-old cabinets that were there when you first [purchased the policy],” Qu says.

Family Changes

You should review your policy if you get married, divorced, or if your spouse passes away. “The policy should have the same names as the title of your home,” says Rosa Mejias, exclusive agent at Allstate in Yonkers. And take a look at your plan when a new baby joins the family, or even a few months before. A new baby can mean new furniture, toys, electronics, and other expenses that might put you over your current coverage limits. If this is the case, consider a rider—an optional addition to your homeowner’s policy, which can be used to cover things that aren’t covered by your standard home policy, according to Trapani. A money-saving trick? Bundle. Some insurance companies will allow you to purchase bundles for a discount on your home and auto insurance, per Shaw. No matter what is going on in your life, homeowner’s insurance does not stop at the end of your driveway. It should be reviewed on a regular basis, especially if any life-changing events have occurred. And if you’re unsure about whether changes should be made, don’t be afraid to pick up the phone and call your agent to discuss them.

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While it’s easy for home renovations to cost more than you were anticipating (old wiring, anyone?), it is possible to stay within your original budget. By Jacqueline Neber

enovating your home can be exciting—there are so many ways to make your vision come to life. Unfortunately, it can also be incredibly stressful—and one of the most challenging aspects is staying within your budget. We polled contractors and designers for tips and tricks to contain the costs from start to finish.

Start with a Realistic Budget

People often come up with an arbitrary budget number they believe makes sense for their project, says Chip Wade, a host and designer for HGTV and DIY Network and owner of WadeWorks Creative. That number, however, is usually inaccurate. “Where a lot of us go wrong is, even if we have a general scope of the project, we want what we want,” Wade says. “And we want our budget to buy what we want, but that’s just not reality.” Uzi Ovadia, president and owner of Oz General Contracting in Bellmore, agrees. “People sometimes think they’re smarter than the contractor, and that’s not necessarily the case,” he says. He has seen renovators buy materials themselves and then bring in a cheap contractor to finish the job, which never seems to cut costs. On the other hand, many homeowners sign on with contractors too early, before they’ve brought in a designer or made a finite plan. “You actually have no idea of the scope that captures the overall essence of your design,” Wade says. “And that’s because you’re not designing first. You’re just doing a rough scope pricing, which is very dangerous.” And oftentimes, people wind up busting their budgets because they can’t stick to a plan, says Ann Marie Little, who runs Little John Remodeling Inc. in Northport. “They get their numbers, and then they change the plan as they go or add things on the fly, and they don’t think things through. Sometimes it’s because they’re not waiting for the right person. They’ll take whomever is available and make their decisions hastily.”

Plan with a Pro

One of the most important steps for a renovator is to create a full design plan before they call a contractor, and before assigning their project a budget. The best way to do this is to bring in a designer who can map out all of the materials, fixtures, and the scope of work to scale so there’s no ambiguity. WadeWorks Creative pairs renovators with designers to create a “full-scale, comprehensive design and construction set” that can

be brought to multiple contractors to ensure they are comparing apples to apples when giving quotes. Wade says this is key. Renovators should also pick out all of their materials and know exactly what they are willing to pay for different aspects of their project. “The general homeowner has no idea if two-thousand dollars is going to buy the lighting fixtures that they want,” Wade says. “So go ahead and select, and have an exact number.” Some contractors, such as Oz General Contracting, source materials in-house and never use subcontractors, which allows them to provide a more accurate cost estimate. At Oz, after several design sessions, clients “will find out exactly to the penny where [their project] will be,” Ovadia says.

Stay on Track

Wade stresses that renovators should give their contractors incentives to finish the job on time. He recommends putting down only 35-40 percent of the budget for the project at first, then adding another 30 percent when the plumbing, electric, and framing are in and the project is ready for drywall. Don’t pay that last 30 percent until final walkthrough, he says, because leaving the company with only 10 percent of the money left to make before they’re finished means they might get caught up in other jobs. “Any contractor that wants fifty to sixty percent down, that puts you at a disadvantaged position,” Wade says. “Whoever controls the money, controls the job.”

Do Your Homework

It is essential that renovators do their homework, do their homework, do their homework, Ovadia stresses. One way to do this, according to Little, is to make a list of every last thing you want from your renovation—before hiring a contractor, designer, or making any product selections. She recommends using home product sites, such as Kohler.com or Moen.com, to price out the fixtures you’d like rather than going by a third-party seller’s estimates. Then take your list to a professional who knows each and every product you’ll need for your renovation. Most importantly, she says, as you move through the process, cross things off that you can’t afford—and do not deviate from the list. “If the plan is to redo the bathroom and take out a window, that’s the plan,” Little says. “Stick to the plan!” BrooklynParent 43

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Dr. Sue Liebman literally grew up in the field of orthodontics. Following in her dad’s footsteps, a love of orthodontics and changing people’s smiles was contagious. Board-certified as well as being a renowned lecturer, leader, and mentor, Dr. Liebman brings her own unique dedication to the field. What sets Dr. Liebman apart, is her commitment to truly understanding every patient’s concerns and combining her vast knowledge, experience, and expertise to develop the best treatment possible for each of her patients, at any age and any stage.

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Dr. Charlot Cascya - Allergy and Asthma Care of Brooklyn 10 Plaza St. E., Suite 1E 311 Saint Nicholas Ave., Ridgewood 347-564-3211 brooklynallergydr.com

Monita Mendiratta, M.D. Maimonides Children’s Hospital Pediatric Pulmonology & Sleep Medicine 4802 10th Ave. 718-283-7500

Tina Rakitt, M.D. Maimonides Children’s Hospital Pediatric Gastroenterology 4802 10th Ave. 718-283-7500

Dr. Alexis Fermanis is an orthodontic specialist who practiced in Brooklyn for 10 years before starting Brooklyn Family Orthodontics in 2014. She is a native New Yorker and enjoys running and traveling in her free time. Dr. Fermanis believes that a beautiful smile makes a great first impression and she is passionate about providing that to her patients. She is active in her alumni societies and local dental organizations and regularly attends continuing education classes so that she can provide the most successful results for her patients.

Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-of-theart medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kid-friendly; walk-ins welcome; most insurance plans accepted. Complete pediatric and adolescent care, as well as baby, camp, school, and sports physicals. Certified urgent care recommended by Urgent Care Association of America. Thirty years of dedication to our patients. The offices are open seven days a week including holidays, 8am-11pm.

Dr. Monita Mendiratta is a highly experienced, board-certified pediatric pulmonologist specializing in pediatric sleep medicine and pediatric pulmonology. Dr. Mendiratta completed her pulmonary fellowship at the nationally renowned Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia. She leads a multidisciplinary team of pediatric specialists who diagnose and treat sleep disorders in infants, children, and adolescents that are related to medical, developmental, or behavioral conditions. The Maimonides Pediatric Sleep Center is a recently constructed, state-of-the-art facility specially designed to accommodate young patients. Dr. Mendiratta also has expertise in respiratory conditions such as asthma, pneumonia, and chronic cough.

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Dr. Gary McAbee is an experienced pediatric neurologist at the Maimonides Children’s Hospital. He is board-certified in pediatric neurology and general pediatrics. Dr. McAbee evaluates and treats infants, children, and adolescents with neurological disorders such as migraines and headaches, developmental delay, and autism spectrum disorder. In addition, Maimonides has a pediatric epilepsy monitoring unit with video EEG capability. He is a professor of pediatrics at SUNY Downstate College of Medicine, has been widely published in peer-reviewed publications, and has lectured extensively regionally and nationally.

Dr. Cascya Charlot is an award-winning, Harvard Medical School-trained physician who is board-certified in pediatric and adult allergy and immunology. She is the chief of pediatric allergy at Methodist Hospital in Park Slope, and medical director of Allergy and Asthma Care of Brooklyn, in Park Slope and Williamsburg. She evaluates patients for a wide variety of allergic conditions including asthma, eczema, food allergies, sinusitis, and environmental allergies. Throughout her career, she has received numerous accolades including the prestigious Patients’ Choice “Most Compassionate Doctor” award in 2012 and 2013.

Dr. Tina Rakitt is a board-certified pediatric gastroenterologist at the Maimonides Children’s Hospital. She completed subspecialty training at the prestigious Children’s Hospital of Pittsburgh and has more than 10 years of experience in treating a variety of conditions, including inflammatory bowel disease (Crohn’s disease and ulcerative colitis), celiac disease, and gastroesophageal reflux disease (GERD). Dr. Rakitt’s warm and engaging manner focuses not only on treating the disease itself, but also on combating any fears and concerns children and their parents may have.

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How speaking the language of yoga is good for my family By Peshie Needleman

like my Nikes. I like my kettlebell. I like my sweatband, child of the ’80s that I am. I especially like my medicine ball. I do cardio, weight training, and high intensity interval training. I also have six kids, so when I do have time to go to the gym, I only sign up for very sweaty, very intense workouts. But then came a week with a weird schedule of randomly timed appointments and early school dismissals. I wasn’t able to fit in my usual classes—but I could make it to a yoga class. I had never tried yoga before. When I showed up and saw I was the only one wearing sneakers, I felt like a fish out of water. But I do like new experiences, so I removed my socks and stuffed them deep into my Nikes. I found a studio mat and took my place. I did the best I could, sometimes acing the pose, sometimes struggling through the pose, very often getting my rights and lefts mixed up until I realized I was supposed to mirror the instructor. By the end of the class, I liked yoga, but I was absolutely, totally, positively in love with the yoga language. It was a revelation—this incredibly validating and encouraging talk is soothing and positive. In my life, with kids who range in age from 4-23 and a husband, my interactions consist of me telling others what to do or others telling me what to do. “Fill out the forms and sign by the X.” “Pick up your pajamas from the bathroom floor. If they need to be washed, put them in the hamper. If not, put them on your pillow.” “Pick up my dry cleaning. Please.” “Add cottage cheese to the list.” Even my regular workout sounds like orders: “Sit ups. Starting at one, two, three. Go!” Everything is instructions and facts, black and white, statements and requests. But yoga talk is a murmuring brook of suggestions. “Perhaps you would like to join us in downward dog.” “Pedal your legs if that feels good to you.” “You’re welcome to join us in plank.” Of course, I appreciated the other parts of yoga—the reminder

to unclench my jaw and stay present in the moment. The idea of “coming to stillness” for even 2 minutes during my busy day made me feel tethered to the calm feeling I had captured in class. But more than the mindfulness and the grounded feeling yoga gave me, its language appealed to my inner being (which apparently wants to be spoken to in a gentle voice). After that class, I was easier on myself. “If it feels like the right thing to do, turn on the radio. But if you think checking the news is going to up your stress level, feel free to keep the radio turned off.” And I was easier on others. That night, when I told my 5-yearold to brush his teeth, I peppered our conversation with terms of endearment. “Get up on the stepstool, honey, and tell me if you want the Paw Patrol Bubble Yum Toothpaste or the Minion Mint?” And to my daughter: “Hey, princess, remember to put your empty lunch containers in the sink, sweetie.” With my older kids, my kids-in-law, and my husband, I sprinkled on the sweetness with a light touch, so as not to make them think an alien had somehow taken over my brain. Just a little “honey” tacked on to the beginning or end was a gentle reminder that my suggestions and instructions are coming from a place of love. As I enjoined my family to do this or that in yoga speak more often, they actually started to listen. “You might want to take the trash out as you’re leaving,” I said with a smile—and bit my lip to keep myself from adding a snarky “before our kitchen starts smelling like a landfill!” “What do you think about finally getting rid of the old car seat, so the garage looks less crowded?” “I wonder if your morning might go easier for you if you packed your Color War shirt in your backpack tonight. How does that sound to you?” It’s going to take me some time and patience to master camel pose, but I will definitely be going to a yoga again. Yes, it’s good for my core, but more importantly, it’s good for my family.

Peshie Needleman lives in Rockland County with her husband and their six children. She writes two humor columns for local magazines. In her spare time, she enjoys…wait. Actually, she doesn’t have any spare time.

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