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health 14 The Vaccine Debate 16 Stay Calm and Carry On 18 Health Directory
special needs 34 Do You Need a Special Education Attorney? 36 “We’re a Package.” 37 Special Needs Directory
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The Payoffs of Chores
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8 Editor’s Note 10 The Payoffs of Chores 12 Nine Ways to Celebrate Your Nanny 20 Why Teens Drive Us Crazy 38 Why Preschool is So Important 39 Preschools Directory 40 Preschools at-a-Glance 42 Meet the Health Care Professional 43 Open Houses 44 Profesional Services, Party Central 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 If I Can’t See You, I Can’t Hear You
22 Family Fun a Ride Away 23 Family Activities Calendar
family life 41 Safe and Sound
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NOVEMBER 2019 • Vol.17 • No.3
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EDITORIAL
A Season for Caring
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chool’s been in session for two months now—how many times has your family gotten sick? Right now, the cold count for the edit team here at Brooklyn Parent is zero (knock on wood!). To protect your family from getting completely knocked out by the nasty bug, you’ve likely all already gotten your flu shots, but there are some parents who still choose not to vaccinate their kids (who could forget the measles outbreak that occurred earlier this year?). We took a dive into “The Vaccine Debate” (p. 14) to uncover why it is people still aren’t vaccinating their kids—and got straight answers from local doctors debunking some common myths. If you’re looking for a new provider to give your family the flu shot, need a teeth cleaning, or have another health care need, check out our Health Directory (p. 18). It’s full of health care providers in Brooklyn, so you can choose the best one for your family. We’re also shining a light on special education this month. If your child has a diagnosed special need and is struggling in school despite their school’s efforts, you might want to consider consulting with a special education attorney. We outline when it’s time to hire one and how they can help you secure the education your child is entitled to on p. 37. While raising kids means dealing with some serious topics (like the ones mentioned above), a lot of the time we’re looking for fun things to do with our family. So, turn to p. 23 for our November calendar of activities, where you’ll find more than 100 kidfocused events all month long. We’re positive you’ll find the best things to do with your kids—we can’t wait for the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade! Speaking of which…this month we all give thanks, and we here at Brooklyn Parent are thankful for you, dear reader! Happy turkey day! Katelin Walling Editorial Director
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hores have a bad rap among kids, tweens, and teens for a reason: They’re often boring, difficult, and cut into screen or social time. But parents have many good reasons to ignore the complaints. Routine housework can help teach children vital life skills—not just how to vacuum and do laundry, but habits and strengths that will serve them well in the future. Financial planner Gregg Murset, CEO of chores and financial literacy app BusyKid and a father of six, explains five benefits your children will get from chores.
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Your child may not have his first job until well into his teens, so chores can actually function as a first job—teaching him about accountability, quality of work, organization, and planning. Paying your child biweekly for chores can also help him understand how paychecks work. When kids see parents shopping online, it can look like they are just picking out items that show up at the house. In this increasingly cash-free society, it’s difficult for kids to understand our “invisible” transactions. Murset recommends parents download a chore management app, such as Chore Check, 10
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The Ability to Budget
If your child wants a new toy or game, have her save money from chores to make the purchase. When kids are given freedom to spend their earned money, they quickly learn the value of hard work vs. the cost of goods. Kids often aren’t in charge of managing their own busy schedules—school, sports, extra-curriculars—so give your child a sense of control by letting him set the schedule for getting his weekly chores done. Incentivize her by paying only for the chores that get done in a timely fashion. Kids who start chores young learn skills—say, pet sitting or lawn care—that they can turn into a neighborhood-wide job. By teaching her that hard work pays, you will inspire her to put down her phone and gaming controller in favor of earning an income.
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The Vaccine Debate
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ew York City’s biggest measles outbreak in almost 30 years ended in September, according to Health Department officials, but the conversation about vaccinations is still raging. Headlines in the media, warnings at doctor’s offices, regulations by schools, and even celebrities’ social media posts have perpetuated the debate about the truths and myths of vaccinating. We spoke with pediatricians about this controversial issue that continues to baffle many parents.
Personal Choice or Civic Duty?
Vaccinations are classified into two groups, explains Harvey Karp, M.D., pediatrician, faculty member of University of Southern California School of Medicine, and author of Happiest Baby on the Block. The first group of shots includes rotavirus, hepatitis A, hepatitis B, and chicken pox. While Dr. Karp recommends all vaccines, he classifies these vaccinations as a parent’s choice because the risk you are imposing is limited to your child and family, not the community. That’s because those illnesses are either difficult for a child to pass onto another or are very common—and can spread quickly even with a vaccine. The second classification of shots (including those for whooping cough, flu, meningitis, pneumococcus, and measles) 14
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are given to protect your child and your neighbor’s child. “[These vaccinations] halt diseases that are so contagious that just one cough, one airplane flight, or one germy doorknob can spread them like wildfire throughout your town,” Dr. Karp says. “I believe giving this second group of shots is an important civic responsibility because delaying them creates a serious public health risk.” Specifically, these vaccines protect other kids who are too young to receive vaccinations, as well as people with cancer, those who are older than 60, and others who are considered especially vulnerable to these diseases. A minimum percentage of the population must be vaccinated against a virus to prevent its spread, according to Daniel Sinyor, pediatrician at Crystal Run Healthcare in Nyack. By ensuring that at least 95 percent of children are immunized against a certain virus, you are creating herd immunity, which “stymies the spread of disease the way that frequent rain keeps lightning strikes from starting raging forest fires,” Dr. Karp says.
The Major Misconceptions
Several misconceptions have surrounded vaccines for years, but perhaps the most disruptive one is that the MMR (measles, mumps, and rubella) vaccine causes autism. In 1998, Andrew Wakefield, a discredited British ex-physician, published a fraudulent paper suggesting
there was a link between the MMR vaccine and autism. The data was found to be incorrect, and throughout the decade following the publication, many epidemiological studies proved there is no link between the two. Still, the paper did its damage, and, combined with the fact that the MMR vaccine is given around the same time autism is usually detected (ages 1-2), many parents still believe there is a causal relationship between the two, according to Dr. Sinyor. Similarly, because children generally receive the flu vaccine at a time of year when they are picking up other illnesses, people have grown to believe the vaccine can cause the flu. That’s impossible, Dr. Sinyor says, because the vaccine does not carry the flu virus. Another common misconception is there is mercury in vaccines. However, in 1999 the Food and Drug Administration and the U.S. Public Health Service removed thimerosal (a mercury-containing compound used as a preservative) from all vaccines except multi-dose vials of flu vaccine. Aluminum, an element that is present in vaccines, has also caused worry among parents. Not only has aluminum been safely used in vaccines for more than 70 years, the amount used is similar to that found in 32 ounces of infant formula, according to Dr. Sinyor. Unfortunately, these myths are still widely circulating. The list of celebrities who have spoken out or expressed concern about vaccinations includes Jessica Biel and Jenny McCarthy. The latter has been claiming for more than 10 years that her son’s autism was caused by a vaccine. “I would venture a guess that the spread of false information through social media, celebrities, and anecdotal stories of friends who claim to have been harmed by vaccines all contribute to parental fear and distrust of vaccines,” Dr. Sinyor says.
Truths About Vaccines
The main misconceptions aside, there are potentially concerning aspects of vaccines that are valid. For example, some shots have an effectiveness rate as low as 30-60 percent, which has long upset parents. But, as Dr. Sinyor says, “if I told you I could give you a shot with minimal side effects that would reduce your chances of getting into a car accident by sixty percent—or even thirty—would you not take it?” Another upsetting truth? Not all children will develop immunity after a vaccination, according to Robert Segal, M.D., founder of Medical Offices of Manhattan. However, this does not discount the fact that 85-95 percent of children do. And finally, “in very rare cases, vaccines can cause allergic reactions. It’s important that parents tell their doctor of any history of allergies,” Dr. Segal advises. While vaccines are not perfect, they are still widely administered. In fact, in light of the recent measles outbreak, the list of doctor’s offices, day cares, schools, and other children’s facilities that will exclude your child if unvaccinated is growing, according to Dr. Segal. In August, the Supreme Court of the State of New York instated a ban on religious exceptions to vaccines for school attendance. New York is now 1 of 5 states that have banned religious vaccination exceptions. This is a good thing; all the doctors we spoke to agree. After all, vaccinations are our best protection against potentially life-threatening illnesses. Choosing to forgo them significantly increases the risk of making not only our own children sick, but also spreading illness in our community, Dr. Karp says.
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Stay Calm and Carry On ›› Don’t panic: These baby ailments are common By Madeleine Burry
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or new moms and dads, an infant’s first few months of life are thrilling—and a little nerve-wracking. Everything is so new, and your infant seems so fragile. “Between birth and three months, there are a lot of things that new parents especially worry about,” says Victoria Riese, M.D., of Flatiron Pediatrics in Manhattan. These can include baby acne, constipation, noisy breathing, and other frequent—but not worrisome—conditions. So, when can you relax, and when should you reach out to your pediatrician?
Digestive Issues
Does your baby have gas? Constipation? Act a bit fussy when feeding? These are all normal things, Dr. Riese says, and don’t require a doctor’s call unless they start to interfere with baby’s development. “When babies are having so much trouble eating that they’re crying or losing weight, we want to make sure that it’s not something more serious,” she says, adding that your doctor can help determine what is a possible cause for concern.
Noisy Breathing
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breathing or wheezing—it may even seem like your baby has a snoring problem. Not to worry! “Noisy breathing is not a sign that the baby is in distress,” Dr. Riese says. So long as your baby is acting normally while awake, and can eat and breathe at the same time, he’s most likely just fine.
Milia
Skin conditions are common in babies. “Sometimes being a pediatrician feels like being a dermatologist,” says Dyan Hes, M.D., F.A.A.P., pediatrician and medical director of Gramercy Pediatrics in Manhattan. For example, those little white bumps on her nose or face? “These are called milia and are caused by trapped skin debris near the surface of the skin. They are benign and will pass with time,” she says.
Baby Acne
Another skin ailment, baby acne can look red and inflamed—but it’s completely benign. “It can come out in the first month or two of life. It is due to hormonal changes in the baby, either from the birth itself or sometimes from breast milk,” Dr. Hes says. She recommends cleaning baby’s face daily with a mild hypoallergenic baby soap, which will help the acne resolve.
Jaundice
If your baby has jaundice—or slightly yellow skin—he’s far from alone. “About half of all babies have some amount of jaundice,” says Jennifer Janco, M.D., board-certified pediatrician and chairman of pediatrics at St. Luke’s University Heath Network in Bethlehem, PA. “The yellow color in the skin is a result of elevated bilirubin levels in the blood,” she adds, noting it can take a few days for a healthy baby’s liver to mature and handle bilirubin properly. If you are breast-feeding, supplementing with formula for the first few days will often treat the condition, Dr. Hes says, but some babies require phototherapy in the hospital. Therefore, if your baby appears yellowish, it’s a good idea to reach out to a pediatrician, Dr. Hes advises.
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Bluish Skin
A faint blue cast on your newborn’s hands or feet sounds like an alarming symptom—but it’s not necessarily a cause for worry. In fact, Dr. Janco says it’s quite common, because your baby’s body is still figuring out temperature and circulation regulation. The situation only warrants a visit to the doctor if the bluish tone is facial. “A baby who appears blue in the face, tongue, or around the lips should prompt immediate evaluation,” Dr. Janco warns. Call your doctor or 911 if the situation does not resolve.
Heat Rash
Too much time in pajamas or a warm stroller can lead to heat rash on baby’s upper chest and back, Dr. Hes says. To treat it, apply an over-the-counter baby eczema cream twice a day for a week. “If the rash spreads, let your doctor know,” she says.
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A yeast infection known as candida, thrush is also common in newborns, Dr. Janco says. The white patches on the sides of cheeks, inner lips, or tongue can’t easily be wiped off. “Let your doctor know if you suspect thrush,” she says—it’s easily treatable and not an emergency.
Cradle Cap
Does your baby have yellow or white crusty patches on his scalp? This benign condition is known as cradle cap or seborrhea capitis, Dr. Hes says. The biggest downside is your baby may lose some hair as it spreads. “Initially, I like to treat mild cradle cap with some olive oil on the scalp to loosen the flakes, and then comb it out with a fine baby comb,” she says. “Parents can also apply dandruff shampoo to the baby’s scalp, leave it on for two to three minutes, and rinse it, away from the baby’s eyes.” If neither of these options work, check in with your pediatrician.
When to Reach for the Phone
Your pediatrician expects you to have concerns and questions— after all, these curious symptoms are new to you. So, “in between visits, write down questions if they can wait,” Dr. Riese advises. And if you’re in doubt? Call. Also, always get in touch with a doctor if your baby has a fever, which in a newborn is any temperature above 100.3, Dr. Riese says. The other big warning sign: Your baby isn’t acting like herself, including not wanting to wake up, not interacting as usual, or not feeding. In these cases, contact your pediatrician immediately. Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents. com, Scholastic, and About.com. Burry lives in Park Slope, Brooklyn, with her husband and their cat. You can follow her on Twitter @lovelanewest.
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Having open and honest conversations with your teen can help prevent some bad choices from being made.
Why Teens Drive Us Crazy
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There is a reason your teen making bad or questionable decisions is the (unfortunate) norm in the adolescent years. But don’t worry! It’s just a phase. By Lambeth Hochwald
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s a parent of a teenager, you probably know some vexing behavior often comes with this stage—whether it’s making choices without regard to consequences, questioning authority, or just becoming more distant. It’s a challenging time for both parent and child—and it’s often impossible for us to understand why our kids are acting out. One of the best ways to cope and communicate, however, is to understand the reasons for their behavior.
Their Brains Work Against Them
“While teenagers’ brains are growing at a rapid rate, they are still many years away from maturity—as brains typically complete growth at age twenty-five,” says David Ezell, founder and CEO of Darien Wellness, a counseling and psychiatry group in Darien, CT. “The last part of the brain to develop is the frontal cortex, which is the part that contains the executive functioning area and is involved with abstract thought, planning, and impulse control.” What does this mean for your teen who is juggling many new thoughts and emotions? “Executive functions allow us to plan and see consequences,” Ezell says. “So, what adults perceive to be obviously ‘risky’ behavior does not seem that way to teenagers because their brains have difficulty connecting today to tomorrow. The combination of a lack of experience and a developing brain sets young people up to put themselves in situations that most adults would consider to be very dangerous.” 20
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They Lack Experience
There’s another very important reason your teens are acting out, and it’s actually quite simple: Teenagers haven’t had anywhere near the life experience you’ve had. “As adults, we know that if we don’t pay the ConEd bill, the lights will be turned off,” Ezell says. “Most teens lack that experience of cause and effect, nor have they seen their peers experience a similar situation.” Remember: Being a teenager is a developmental stage, albeit one that may involve intense mood swings, lying, social media obsession, and trading communication with you for spending way more time with his friends. “This is a time when a child is going from being a child to becoming an independent adult, which is also why there is so much change happening in their body, minds, and actions,” says Shuli Sandler, Psy.D., a clinical psychologist in Teaneck, NJ. “A lot of this time is about figuring out who they are and part of that is pushing limits in the service of that exploration and discovery.”
Hormones are Surging
Along with changing bodies come changing hormones, which play a large role in what teens are feeling. “All of these new hormones can also contribute to a lack of impulse control,” says Nikita Banks, LCSW, a licensed
HOW TO MAKE THINGS EASIER
We’re not going to sugarcoat it: This is a challenging phase in your life as a parent, but you can get through it in a healthy way—and keep your relationship as strong as it ever was— by following these three tips from Shuli Sandler, Psy.D., a clinical psychologist in Teaneck, NJ. Be open to hearing about anything. Try to have as many candid conversations as possible with your teenagers, in which you talk about everything, including, but not limited to, sex, drugs, friends, and school. Make sure the rules are clear. Spell out your rules of conduct but understand your teen may not follow them. If she doesn’t, she needs to know exactly what the consequences will be.
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Be there to help him. Make sure your teen understands that he can and should ask for help whenever he needs it. He should also know that he will not be penalized for asking for help—even if he’s at a party and needs to call you for a ride at 1am because his ride has been drinking.
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Given all of this change, keeping the lines of communication open with your teen is very important—especially when he makes bad or questionable choices. Plan regular outings together or eat meals as a family to bridge the gaps and enable everyone to feel heard. “This time together is very important, and it serves another purpose, too. It’s actually a really good way to get an inside view of what is going on in their life,” Banks says. “Your goal should be twofold: You want to monitor their social interactions with friends Saving money on a New York City to the best of your ability, but also give your child a voice.” family day is easy! After all, any strong connection you can keep with your teen is crucial and will help ease the very important transition she is moving through. “When teens feel that they are not only seen but heard at home, it helps them develop a greater sense of self-esteem,” Banks adds. “It also provides a strong foundation for them to be able to withstand the social pressures of this time of life.”
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Lights, Santa, unlimited ice-skating, a circus show, the Holiday Train and the Winter Hayride, and a 40-foot Christmas tree—what else does a family need to get into the holiday spirit? Westchester’s Winter Wonderland is an all-encompassing experience, providing family fun (and food!) as well as a variety of spots—the Christmas tree, on Santa’s lap, or at the holiday light show—for the perfect holiday Instagram. Want to go: $20; free for children 3 and younger. Nov. 29-Jan 4, 2020, 5-10pm. Kenisco Dam Plaza, 1 Bronx River Parkway, Valhalla; 914231-4600; wwinterwonderland.com 22
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If your kids are Nickelodeon fans, this 8½-acre theme park that opened in late October—the largest indoor theme park in North America—is a can’t-miss. With 35 rides, roller coasters, a ropes course, and a game center; Nickelodeon characters, such as Spongebob, Dora the Explorer, and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles; and, of course, the Slime Stage, this interactive experience is unlike any other theme park in our area. Visit It: The American Dream, 1 American Dream Way, East Rutherford, NJ; 201-340-2900; americandream.com
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This nonprofit offers a variety of educational programs, events, and exhibits—including the Junior Naturalist program, Hiking, Walking, & Wildlife Watching, and photography workshops. You can even search the property for Pokémon by visiting nine Pokéstops on TNC’s Yellow Trail and the PokéGym at the entrance. Self-guided visits, for 10 or more participants, are free and allow you to explore the premises at your own leisure. Visit it: 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ; 201-568-6093; tenaflynaturecenter.org
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If you’re looking for a Thanksgiving Parade, but the NYC one is just a little too chaotic for your family, the Stamford Downtown Parade Spectacular might be for you. Crowd favorite balloons such as Mr. Potato Head, Clifford the Big Red Dog, Daniel Tiger, and Peppa Pig will fly by along with a variety of floats, marching bands, dance troupes, and other entertainment from the area. Want to go: Free. Sunday, Nov. 24, 12pm. Stamford Downtown: Summer to Broad to Atlantic streets. 203-348-5285; stamford-downtown.com
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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the eight events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month! Dia de los Muertos at the Brooklyn Children’s Museum
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WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 10am WHERE: Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 145 Brooklyn Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Families mark the festival by making and decorating colorful altars to honor family and friends who have died. Join in for a Spanish language lesson with Espáñate, make art inspired by tamales, and bake your very own Pan de Muertos with the expert bakers from Don Paco López Panaderia. WHY WE LOVE IT: This year also features Somos Familia (We Are Family), a pop-up podcast show where community members share memories, hopes, dreams, reflections, and stories. WANT TO GO? $11. 718-735-4400. brooklynkids.org.
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WHEN: Nov. 2-3, see website for schedule WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: MINECRAFT players and their families unite to compete in tournaments and build battles, participate in the famed costume contest, witness live stage shows, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: Solve your way out of the MINECRAFT Escape Room, experience MINECRAFT with Acer VR Mixed Reality headsets, and show off your creativity in the LEGO building zones! WANT TO GO? See website for details. 718-699-0005. minefaire.com.
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BAMkids Music Series: Lucy Kalantari & the Jazz Cats
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 10:30am and 2pm WHERE: BAM Peter Jay Sharp Building, 30 Lafayette Ave., Downtown Brooklyn AGES: 3-8
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WHAT: An interactive concert of delightful, jazz-age inspired music. Kids dance and sing along with playful scatting and are encouraged to join in. WHY WE LOVE IT: Come early for a free musical warm-up with teaching artist Jono Waldman, where kids learn a jazz tune and devise a song. Activities begin 30 minutes before the show. WANT TO GO? $10. bam.org.
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November Farmhouse Family Day FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 11am-3pm WHERE: Wyckoff House Museum, 5816 Clarendon Road, East Flatbush AGES: 4-10 WHAT: Drop in with the family to explore New York City’s oldest house. Family Day is open to everyone. Activities are designed for families with kids ages 4 to 10. WHY WE LOVE IT: Arrive by 1pm for a unique, hands-on making activity! WANT TO GO? 718-629-5400. wyckoffmuseum.org.
‘A Charlie Brown Christmas’
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 17, 2pm WHERE: Kingsborough Community College, 2001 Oriental Blvd., Manhattan Beach AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Join Charlie Brown, Snoopy, Lucy, Linus, and the Peanuts gang as they produce their own Christmas play and ultimately learn the true meaning of the season. Adapted from Charles M. Schulz’s timeless story of the spirit of Christmas! WHY WE LOVE IT: This heart-warming show boasts a live trio playing the music of Vince Guaraldi, as well as a concert of holiday carols performed by the Peanuts characters. WANT TO GO? $13. 718-368-5596. onstageatkingsborough.org.
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Disney on Ice Presents ‘Road Trip Adventures’
WHEN: Nov. 15-17, see website for show times WHERE: Barclays Center, 620 Atlantic Ave., Prospect Heights/Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: Hit the road with Mickey Mouse and his pals for a high-octane ride. WHY WE LOVE IT: Audiences can expect hilarious hijinks and up-close character interactions. WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 917-618-6100. barclayscenter.com.
13th Annual Brooklyn Children’s Book Fair FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 11:30am-4pm WHERE: Brooklyn Museum, 200 Eastern Parkway, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Meet your favorite Brooklyn authors and illustrators! This free event features author readings, illustrator presentations, and book-related art-making opportunities with more than 40 creators presenting storybooks, picture books, and graphic novels. WHY WE LOVE IT: Tad Hills, Lori Richmond, Hyewon Yum and John Patrick Green are just some of the talent at the fair! WANT TO GO? 718-638-5000. brooklynmuseum.org.
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Gingerbread Lane 2019
WHEN: Nov. 23-Jan. 12, Weekdays, 9:30am–5pm; Weekends, 10am–6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Visitors can marvel at homemade gingerbread houses made entirely of edible gingerbread, royal icing, and candy. The houses are drafted, designed, baked, planned, built, and decorated by chef Jon Lovitch over the course of an entire year. WHY WE LOVE IT: Visitors can make their own gingerbread houses or trains during dedicated workshops. WANT TO GO? FREE with museum admission ($16 adults; $13 children ages 2-17). 718-699-0005. nysci.org.
FG Graphic Novel Book Group FREE
WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 5, 7:30pm WHERE: Greenlight Bookstore, 686 Fulton St. (at South Portland Street), Fort Greene AGES: All WHAT: Led by Greenlight bookseller Emily, this new graphic novel book group in Fort Greene reads and discusses comics and graphic novels in a variety of genres. For November, the group discusses manga creator Nagabe’s ethereal fantasy, The Girl From the Other Side: Siúil, A Rún Vol. 1. WANT TO GO? 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com.
Hattie Carthan Sunday Market FREE
WHEN: Nov. 2-30, Saturdays: 11am-3pm, Sundays: 1-6pm WHERE: Hattie Carthan Herban Farm, 49 Van Buren St., Red Hook AGES: All WHAT: Shop at this community market, where you’ll find specialty farm products, youth cooking demos, and communal dinners in the Marketplace. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.
New York Road Runners Open Run FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Tuesdays, 7pm WHERE: Brooklyn Bridge Park, Pier 6, Atlantic Avenue and Furman Street, Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: Participate in free weekly 2.5-to 3-mile runs or walks, directed by volunteers. WANT TO GO? 718-222-9939. brooklynbridgepark.org. ››
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WHEN: Friday, Nov. 1, 3-6pm WHERE: Green-Wood Cemetery, 500 25th St., Sunset Park AGES: All WHAT: Throughout Mexico, from October 31 to November 2, departed loved ones are commemorated through prayer, offerings, altars, music, dance, and food. Join an afternoon celebrating Día de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) with crafts, storytelling, and snacks. WANT TO GO? 718-768-7300. green-wood.com.
Family Workshop: Beyond Geography FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 11am-2pm WHERE: Gallery at BRIC House, 647 Fulton St., Brooklyn AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This hands-on workshop allows families to work together on a creative art project. Inspired by the works in the Gallery at BRIC House, and made accessible with easy-to-follow instructions and the guidance of BRIC Teaching Artists, these projects celebrate the creative potential of
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ONCE UPON A TIME PLG Graphic Novel Book Group FREE
WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 6, 7:30pm WHERE: Greenlight Bookstore PLG, 632 Flatbush Ave., Prospect Lefferts Garden AGES: All WHAT: Led by Greenlight bookseller Emily, this graphic novel book group in Prospect Lefferts Gardens reads and discusses comics and graphic novels in a variety of genres. For November, the group discusses manga creator Nagabe’s ethereal fantasy, The Girl From the Other Side: Siúil, A Rún Vol. 1. WANT TO GO? 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com.
ON SCREEN BAMkids Movie Matinees: ‘Okko’s Inn’
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 2pm WHERE: BAM Rose Cinemas, 30 Lafayette Ave., Fort Greene AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This series offers families the perfect introduction to classic and new independent films on the big screen. WANT TO GO? $10 adults; $7 children 12 and younger. 718-636-4100. bam.org.
‘Wu-Tang Clan: Of Mics & Men’–Screening and Behind the Scenes Talk WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 7, 7-9pm WHERE: Staten Island Museum, 75 Stuyvesant Place, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Following a screening of the Showtime Emmy nominated docu-series “Wu-Tang Clan: Of Mics & Men,” join filmmakers and contributors from Wu-Tang Clan for a panel discussion linking research and history to documentary filmmaking. Bonus content will also be presented. WANT TO GO? $10 suggested donation. 718-907-3488. statenislandmuseum.org.
BAMkids Movie Matinees: ‘Queen of Katwe’
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 17, 2pm WHERE: BAM Rose Cinemas, 30 Lafayette Ave., Fort Greene AGES: 9 and older WHAT: In this true story set in Uganda, a young girl’s world changes when she discovers chess, setting her on a journey toward self-discovery and new opportunities. Featuring Lupita Nyong’o and David Oyelowo alongside local non-actors, Queen of Katwe paints a vibrant portrait of Africa—from bustling markets to serene landscapes—telling an inspiring story of compassion, perseverance, and triumph on the streets of Kampala. WANT TO GO? $10 adults; $7 children 12 and younger. 718-636-4100. bam.org.
Events for Youth and Families: Book Launch: ‘Juno Valentine and the Fantastic Fashion Adventure’ by Eva Chen FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 1-2pm WHERE: Brooklyn Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Brooklyn Public Library and Stories Bookshop partner to present an afternoon with Eva Chen for Brooklyn families. Hear her new picture book, Juno Valentine and the Fantastic Fashion Adventure. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.
Read with a Therapy Dog FREE
WHEN: Nov. 9-16, Nov. 9 & 16: 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Read to a certified therapy dog. Sign up for a slot the day of the program at the children’s reference desk. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.
Events for Youth and Families: ‘The Monster Who Ate My Peas’ by ArtsPower FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 1-2pm WHERE: Brooklyn Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Based on the multi-award winning book written by Danny Schnitzlein and illustrated by Matthew Faulkner, ArtsPower’s musical tells the story of a young boy who doesn’t want to eat his peas. When a crafty monster appears underneath his kitchen table, the boy is ready to make a deal with the monster. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.
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Family Movie: ‘Toy Story 4’ (2019) FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 30, 2:30-4:30pm WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: All WHAT: Join for a family screening of Toy Story 4, rated G. All ages welcome! WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.
WHEN: Nov. 2-16; Saturdays, 1:30pm WHERE: Greenlight Bookstore PLG, 632 Flatbush Ave., Prospect Lefferts Garden AGES: All WHAT: Neighborhood families are invited to join the booksellers of Greenlight for story time every Saturday afternoon! Greenlight staff choose their favorite read-alouds to share with the youngest book lovers, with books ranging from classics and award-winners to the best new releases and local favorites. WANT TO GO? 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com.
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Sunday Story Time: ‘Alma and the Beast’ by Esmé Shapiro FREE
WHEN: Through May 31: Time TBD WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Join an immersive 3D adventure to experience the life-saving superpowers and extraordinary bravery of some of the world’s most amazing dogs. WANT TO GO? $6 adults; $5 children plus museum admission: $16 adults; $13 children, students & senior citizens. nysci.org. 26
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WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 17, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Powerhouse on 8th, 1111 8th Ave., Park Slope AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: This quirky and charming story about friendship, inclusion, and perspective invites readers into a surreal, fantastical world that evokes Alice in Wonderland, Where the Wild Things Are, and The Lorax. WANT TO GO? 718-801-8375. powerhousearena.com.
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WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 19, 5:30pm WHERE: Greenlight Bookstore, 686 Fulton St. (at South Portland Street), Fort Greene AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Led by Greenlight bookseller Sarah, the young readers book group in Fort Greene reads great contemporary and classic chapter books. Parents are welcome (but not required) to attend, and pizza is served. WANT TO GO? 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com.
PLG Young Readers Book Group FREE
WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 20, 5:30pm WHERE: Greenlight Bookstore PLG, 632 Flatbush Ave., Prospect Lefferts Garden AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Led by Greenlight bookseller Wynne, the young readers book group in Prospect Lefferts Garden reads great contemporary and classic chapter books. Parents are welcome (but not required) to attend, and pizza is served. For November, the group discusses the Newberry Honor Book Feathers by 2018-2019 National Ambassador for Young People’s Literature Jacqueline Woodson. WANT TO GO? 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com.
SAGE Story Time
WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 21, 4-5pm WHERE: Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: In collaboration with SAGE-Pride Center of Staten Island, enjoy this multigenerational story time with the senior members of SAGE. WANT TO GO? $8 ages 1 and older. sichildrensmuseum.org.
Babies & Books FREE
WHEN: Nov. 7-21, Nov 7 & 21: 10am WHERE: Brooklyn Public Library, McKinley Park, 6802 Fort Hamilton Parkway, Dyker Heights AGES: Newborn-18 months WHAT: For ages birth to 18 months. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 718-748-8001. bklynlibrary.org.
POW! Kids Books Sunday Story Time: ‘The Climbing Tree’ by John Stith FREE WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 24, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Powerhouse on 8th, 1111 8th Ave., Park Slope AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Little Brother wants to follow Big Brother up the branches of the Climbing Tree, but Mom tells him he has to wait until he’s older. When he’s finally big enough to go up, Little Brother makes a difficult discovery: no matter how high he climbs, Big Brother will always be a branch ahead. WANT TO GO? 718-801-8375. powerhouseon8th.com.
Saturday Author Story Time FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 28: Saturdays, 11:30am WHERE: Greenlight Bookstore, 686 Fulton St., Fort Greene AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Authors present their books with interactive readings and drawings, and often activities and crafts. WANT TO GO? 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com.
Sunday Bookseller Story Time FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Sundays, 11:30am WHERE: Greenlight Bookstore, 632 Flatbush Ave., Prospect Lefferts Gardens AGES: All WHAT: Greenlight staff choose their favorite read-alouds to share with young booklovers. WANT TO GO? 718-246-0200. greenlightbookstore.com.
KINDNESS CRUSADERS One Medical Pediatrics Park Slope-Open Houses FREE
WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 5, 6pm WHERE: One Medical Park Slope, 794 Union St., Park Slope AGES: Adult WHAT: Ask questions and meet pediatrician Penelope Hsu, MD. Learn about her philosophy of care, the One Medical experience, and check out the office space featuring stroller parking and a Nurture Room for infant care and feeding. WANT TO GO? onemedical.com.
Canarsie Forest Restoration FREE
WHEN: Friday, Nov. 8, 9am-12pm WHERE: Canarsie Park, East 88th Street and Seaview Avenue, Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Volunteer with the Stewardship Team in Canarsie Park! Volunteers will learn how to identify and safely remove invasive plants in order to help restore natural areas and create a healthier ecosystem. WANT TO GO? 718-649-7653. nycgovparks.org.
Calvert Vaux Wetland Cleanup FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 9am-12pm WHERE: Calvert Faux Park, Bay 44th Street and Hunter Avenue, Gravesend AGES: All WHAT: Volunteer with the Stewardship Team at Calvert Vaux Park! Volunteers will be removing debris from the Calvert Vaux Wetlands. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.
Help the Garden Day–November FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 10am-1pm WHERE: Highland Park Community Garden, Jamaica Avenue and Ashford Street, Glendale AGES: All WHAT: Nestled at the far end of Highland Park is a delightful community garden filled with beds of shade trees, flowers, fruits, and herbs. Join community gardeners and winterize the garden and “put it to bed.” Learn some basic garden skills, such as composting, pruning, cover crop planting, and irrigation storage. WANT TO GO? 718-235-4100. agostinoarts.com.
Conservation Heroes
WHEN: Nov. 2-30, Saturdays and Sundays, 11am-4pm WHERE: Prospect Park Zoo, 450 Flatbush Ave., Prospect Park AGES: All WHAT: Say thanks to the people who are working around the world to keep the amazing diversity of life on this planet safe. Join Prospect Park Zoo for fun activities and a celebration of conservation successes by WCS researchers at home and around the globe. WANT TO GO? $9.95; $6.95 children ages 3-12; free for children 2 and younger. 718-399-7339. prospectparkzoo.com. ›› BrooklynParent 27
demonstrations, performance poet and BAM teaching artist Jashua Sa-Ra introduces the rhythmic, poetic, and performance skills that make a great emcee. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-636-4100. bam.org.
Expressing Gratitude Through Poetry & Dance
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 24, 3-5pm WHERE: Cynthia King Dance Studio, 21 Snyder Ave., Prospect Park South AGES: All WHAT: Express gratitude through poetry and dance at this annual event. Join in for a live performance and fun for all ages. WANT TO GO? $10 suggested donation. 718-521-4043. calendly. com/ckds/expressing-gratitude-through-poetry-and-danceclone?back=1&month=2019-11.
MOVERS & SHAKERS
HOLIDAY FUN Halloween Fun Weekends
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 10am-1:30pm WHERE: The Plaza at Ashland, 300 Ashland Place, Boerum Hill AGES: All WHAT: Head to Mile 8 of the NYC Marathon at the Plaza at 300 Ashland to cheer on the marathoners and enjoy music and treats. WANT TO GO? 212-721-1234. downtownbrooklyn.com/.
WHEN: Nov. 2-3, 11am-5pm WHERE: Aviator Sports and Events Center, Floyd Bennett Field, 3159 Flatbush Ave., Marine Park AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Enjoy trick-or-treat scavenger hunts, a kid-friendly haunted house, a free pumpkin, jack-o’-lantern displays, a hay ride, friendly animals to pet, a giant slide, and more. Costumes encouraged! Pony rides available for an additional fee. WANT TO GO? $9. 718-758-7500. aviatorsports.com.
Youth Adaptive Running Program with Fast Feet NYC FREE
Brooklyn Diwali-Garba Celebration
NYRR NYC Marathon Cheering Station FREE
WHEN: Monday, Nov. 4, 5-6pm WHERE: McCarren Park Play Center, 776 Lorimer St., Williamsburg AGES: All WHAT: Is your child with a disability looking for a running program? Join NYC Parks and Fast Feet NYC for an opportunity to foster physical wellness, teamwork, and sportsmanship. WANT TO GO? 347-987-2765. townsquareinc.com.
Tiny Tots Yoga Workshop
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 1-2pm WHERE: Bend + Bloom Yoga, 708 Sackett St., Park Slope AGES: Newborn-2 WHAT: Bond and breathe with babies in this special event designed for parents with mobile babies who are not yet walking. This weekend event focuses on baby-centered activities, language-building games, and fun! WANT TO GO? $30 per pair, $10 additional parent. 347-987-3162. bendandbloom.com.
‘Moove to the Moozika!’ Album Release Celebration
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 10am WHERE: Dekalb Market Hall, 445 Albee Square West, Brooklyn AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Brooklyn favorites Jesse Goldman and Moozika! are ready to raise the roof and kick up their heels with a family show to celebrate the release of their debut album, Moove to the Moozika! WANT TO GO? $15 at the door. $10 in advance for adults and children age 1 and older. $8.75 per person for families of four or more. 917-6703618. moozika.com.
Get Up Family Workshop
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 1pm WHERE: BAM Fisher, 321 Ashland Place, Fort Greene AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Discover the power and fun of hip-hop in this playful pre-show workshop for budding emcees and their families. Through games and dynamic
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WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 3-5:30pm WHERE: Camp Friendship, 339 8th St., Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: A family-friendly Diwali and Navratri celebration! There will be arts and crafts and diyas will be lit at the end. Please feel free to wear cultural dress or something easy to dance in. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children 12 and younger. eventbrite.com/e/ brooklyn-diwali-garba-celebration-tickets-75179422677.
Election Day In Prospect Park
WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 5, 12-4pm WHERE: Lefferts Historic House, 452 Flatbush Ave., Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Join Prospect Park Alliance for family programming on Election Day that includes a nature exploration, an animal encounter, carousel rides, and an opportunity for kids to vote too. WANT TO GO? $3 suggested donation. 718-789-2822. prospectpark.org.
Special Art Workshop: Cast Your Vote!
WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 5, 1pm WHERE: Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Create custom I Voted buttons and cast your vote in a special Museum election. WANT TO GO? $8 ages 1 and older. sichildrensmuseum.org.
Pumpkin Smash
WHEN: Nov. 9-10, 11am-5pm WHERE: Aviator Sports and Events Center, Floyd Bennett Field, 3159 Flatbush Ave., Marine Park AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Have a great time smashing pumpkins! The farm’s cows, pigs, sheep, and goats will love eating what’s left behind, and you’ll also get access to a kid-friendly haunted house, hayride, bunny barn, and a real bulldozer. WANT TO GO? $9. 718-758-7500. aviatorsports.com.
Holiday Lighting Ceremony at Albee Square FREE
WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 21, 5pm WHERE: Albee Square on Fulton Mall, Fulton Street and Bond Street, Downtown Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Kick off the holiday season with the Downtown Brooklyn Gets Lit: Holiday Lighting Party at Albee Square. Join in for special guest performances and, of course, the countdown to turning on the holiday lights. WANT TO GO? 212-889-0808. downtownbrooklyn.com.
The Brooklyn Chocolate Fest
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 24, 10am-5pm WHERE: Aviator Sports and Event Center, Floyd Bennett Field, 3159 Flatbush Ave., Marine Park AGES: All WHAT: Taste chocolate bars, toffee, pudding shots, fudge, brownies; dark, white, and spicy chocolates; dipped pretzels, chocolate spreads, cocoa sauces, vegan truffles, gelato and sorbetto, cookies, pies, brittle, chocolate-filled wontons, chocolate-covered fruits, frozen hot chocolate, fancy Oreos, and more! WANT TO GO? $10. 718-758-7500. https://www.facebook.com/ events/465854284274477/.
Halloween Fun Weekends
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 24, 11am-5pm WHERE: Aviator Sports and Events Center, Floyd Bennett Field, 3159 Flatbush Ave., Marine Park AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Trick-or-treat scavenger hunts, a kid-friendly haunted house, a free pumpkin, jack-o’-lantern displays, a hay ride, friendly animals to pet, a giant slide, and more. Costumes encouraged! WANT TO GO? $9. 718-758-7500. aviatorsports.com.
Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade FREE
WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 28 , 9am-12pm WHERE: Macy’s Herald Square, 151 W. 34th St., Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: The annual parade celebrates Thanksgiving with over-the-top fun, epic balloons and floats, and major stars. WANT TO GO? 212-695-4400. macys.com.
CRAFTY KIDS
Family Art Workshops: Unicorn and Dragon Crowns
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 1-3pm WHERE: Staten Island Museum, 75 Stuyvesant Place, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Make your own unicorn or dragon crown from recycled materials, found objects, and magic, of course. Registration recommended. WANT TO GO? $8 adults; $5 students and seniors; $2 children ages 2-12. 718-907-3488. statenislandmuseum.org.
Let’s Build a Castle
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 12-2pm WHERE: The Little Cool School, 596 Franklin Ave., Basement, Prospect Heights AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Young audiences experiment with different building materials,
such as foam, pillows, blankets, and boxes, working together with their parents and other children to add elements to a giant fort. WANT TO GO? $20 child; FREE for adults. nyplays.org.
Sculpt & Shape: 3D Art Day
WHEN: Nov. 7-21, Thursdays: 1:30-4:30pm WHERE: Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Create your own artwork! WANT TO GO? $8 ages 1 and older. sichildrensmuseum.org.
Paint, Stamp & Draw: 2D Art Day
WHEN: Nov. 6-27, Wednesdays: 1:30-4:30pm WHERE: Staten Island Children’s Museum, 614 Broadway, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Join this Walk-In Workshop and create your own artwork! WANT TO GO? $8 ages 1 and older. 718-442-3100. sichildrensmuseum.org.
Tots Cook
WHEN: Nov. 6-27; Wednesdays, 11am-1pm WHERE: Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island AGES: 2-4 WHAT: A hands-on cooking program for children ages 2-4 provides guided recipes, instructions and age-appropriate kitchen tools. WANT TO GO? $6 plus admission of $8 ages 1 and older.
ShopRite Kidz Cook
WHEN: Nov. 1-29, 3-4pm and 4-5pm; Nov 29: sessions at 12pm, 1pm, 2pm and 3pm WHERE: Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Devour some all-American delicacies with favorite foods from past presidents. WANT TO GO? $8 ages 1 and older. sichildrensmuseum.org.
Weekend Art Studio
WHEN: Nov. 2-30, 1pm WHERE: Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Remember iconic folk artist Grandma Moses by creating landscape paintings in her unique, self-taught style. WANT TO GO? $8 ages 1 and up. sichildrensmuseum.org.
Saturday Art Workshop for Kids: Color with Studio Finna
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 30, 2pm WHERE: Scandinavia House, 58 Park Ave., Murray Hill AGES: 5-17 WHAT: This fall, kids will explore themes related to the exhibition “Cutting Edges,” with artist-led workshops that each address one of the central themes of concrete art explored in the Gallery show. WANT TO GO? Up to $12. 212-847-9729. scandinaviahouse.org.
Transit Tots
WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Thursdays, 10:15-11am WHERE: New York Transit Museum, 99 Schermerhorn St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Young train enthusiasts explore themes like animals underground, the people and buildings of New York City, colors and shapes, and the city’s subways and buses. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children ages 2-17. 718-694-1600. nytransitmuseum.org. ›› BrooklynParent 29
Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Meet representatives from the 2020 Census Bureau to learn more and then join in some fun counting games and matching activities. WANT TO GO? $8 ages 1 and older. sichildrensmuseum.org.
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HOLIDAY FUN Opening Week: Survival of the Slowest Exhibit
WHEN: Nov. 1-3, various times WHERE: Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 145 Brooklyn Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Meet animals that have thrived in unconventional ways, including Roger the two-toed sloth, a blood python, a roughneck monitor lizard, and more. Each day “Survival of the Slowest” will offer up-close experiences with the species that survive and thrive in a world where large, strong, and fast animals are often at the top of the food chain. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $11. 718-735-4400. brooklynkids.org.
City of Science FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 10am-4pm WHERE: York College, Health/Physical Education Complex: 160-02 Liberty Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Interact with robots, conduct experiments, defy gravity, and more! WANT TO GO? 212-348-1400. worldsciencefestival.com.
Imaging Women In The Space Age
WHEN: Through Nov. 3: Various Times WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: This exhibition includes vintage and current images of women as aviators and astronauts from fashion, television, film, pop culture and toys (e.g. Barbie and LEGO astronaut dolls), as well as new developments in space-inspired fashion. WANT TO GO? FREE with museum admission: $16 adults; $13 children ages 2-17, students, and senior citizens. nysci.org.
Radio Waves
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 12-1pm WHERE: Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island AGES: All WHAT: Con Edison Second Saturday Science! Learn about U.S. maritime history and electronic communications with the Museum of Maritime Navigation and Communication. WANT TO GO? $8 ages 1 and older. sichildrensmuseum.org.
History Lecture: 1619 - 400 Years
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 2-4pm WHERE: Staten Island Museum, 75 Stuyvesant Place, Staten Island AGES: Adult, All WHAT: A discussion centered on the historic arrival of Africans to the first permanent English colony that began a complex story of resilience. WANT TO GO? Registration recommended. 718-907-3488. statenislandmuseum.org.
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WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 11am-1pm WHERE: Staten Island Museum, 75 Stuyvesant Place, Staten Island AGES: 5-12 WHAT: The properties of oxygen, hydrogen, and carbon dioxide will be demonstrated and compared during this session. Participants will learn how to isolate these gases and test their characteristics. The practical uses of these gases will be the subject of experiments as well. WANT TO GO? $8 adults; $5 students and seniors; $2 children ages 2-12. 718-907-3488. statenislandmuseum.org.
Poco a Poco: Spanish Language Playgroup
WHEN: Nov. 6-27; Wednesdays, 4pm WHERE: Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island AGES: 2-8 WHAT: Conducted in English and Spanish, this program offers children ages 2-8 a fun way to learn about Latin American culture through music, crafts, storytelling, and more! WANT TO GO? $8 ages 1 and older. sichildrensmuseum.org.
Girls Who Code Club FREE
WHEN: Nov. 1-29, 4pm WHERE: Northeast Brooklyn Housing Development Corporation, 753 Lafayette Ave., Bedford-Stuyvesant AGES: 8-11 WHAT: Girls Who Code is a community of girls in third to fifth grade who actively design, code, read, and explore together, and it features activities, characters, and vocabulary drawn from the best-selling “Girls Who Code” books. WANT TO GO? girlswhocode.com.
Friday Drop-Off
WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 6:30-9:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Game Lab, 310 7th Ave., Park Slope AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Drop in for Dungeons and Dragons and go on a multi-month campaign each week. WANT TO GO? $48. 718-788-1122. brooklyngamelab.com.
‘Apollo 11: First Steps Edition’
WHEN: Through Jan. 21: Daily at 3pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Timed to coincide with the 50th anniversary of NASA’s celebrated Apollo 11 mission, Apollo 11: First Steps Edition is a thrilling 2D cinematic experience showcasing the real-life moments of the first lunar landing. WANT TO GO? $6 adults; $5 children plus museum admission: $16 adults; $13 children, students & senior citizens. nysci.org.
‘An Opening’
WHEN: Through June 30: Tuesday-Sunday, 11am-6pm WHERE: Brooklyn Historical Society, 128 Pierrepont St., Brooklyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: ‘An Opening,’ an installation of audio and visual artworks by Brooklyn-based artist Kameelah Janan Rasheed, engages with a multiplicity of Muslim experiences in Brooklyn. WANT TO GO? Suggested admission: $10; $6 seniors and teachers; free for children and visitors with disabilities. 718-222-4111. brooklynhistory.org.
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First Discoveries for Toddlers
WHEN: Friday, Nov. 1, 9:30am WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave., Crown Heights AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Calling all explorers up to 5 years old (and their caregivers)! Plant a seed, touch a wriggly worm, read a story, or create a unique nature craft at special Discovery Garden activity stations designed for toddlers. Activities rotate weekly. WANT TO GO? Free with Garden admission: $15 adults; $8 seniors and students 12 and older; free children 11 and younger. 718-623-7200. bbg.org.
Kids’ Discovery Stations
WHEN: Friday, Nov. 1, 10:15am-12:15pm WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Explore plants and use real science tools alongside Discovery Docents at hands-on activity stations throughout the Discovery Garden. WANT TO GO? Free with Garden admission: $15 adults; $8 seniors and students 12 and older; free children 11 and younger. 718-623-7200. bbg.org.
Discover Gardening
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Drop in and practice gardening skills alongside Discovery Docents in the Hamm Children’s Learning Courtyard inside the Discovery Garden. Water and weed fruit and vegetable beds, plant a seed, and learn about what’s growing! Create a plant-inspired craft to take home. WANT TO GO? Free with Garden admission: $15 adults; $8 seniors and students 12 and older; free children 11 and younger. 718-623-7200. bbg.org.
Discovery Garden Early Opening for Children and Families of All Abilities
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 9-11am WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Brooklyn Botanic Garden invites you to make a special morning visit to the Discovery Garden with your family before BBG opens to the public. Explore the garden at your own pace and participate in multisensory activities at facilitated stations. WANT TO GO? Free with Garden admission: $15 adults; $8 seniors and students 12 and older; free children 11 and younger. 718-623-7200. bbg.org.
Family Discovery Weekends
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 1-3pm WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Experiment, learn, and play together in the Discovery Garden. Hands-on stations throughout the garden’s meadow, woodland, and marsh habitats and in the vegetable garden encourage families to explore nature together. Create a nature-based craft to take home, working with volunteer Discovery Docents. WANT TO GO? Free with Garden admission: $15 adults; $8 seniors and students 12 and older; free children 11 and younger. 718-623-7200. bbg.org.
Foraging Tour with Wildman Steve Brill
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 10am WHERE: Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Park West and Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A great abundance of edible and medicinal wild plants and mushrooms makes this park a great place for foraging in late fall. Burdock, an expensive detoxifying herb sold in health food stores, abounds in cultivated areas throughout the park. You can cook it like other root vegetables, or marinate and bake it, to make Wildman’s Vegan Beef Jerky. WANT TO GO? $20 adults suggested donation; $10 children younger than 12. 718-965-8945. prospectpark.org.
Honey Bee Extravaganza FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 11am-1pm WHERE: Lentol Garden, 178 Bayard St., Greenpoint AGES: All WHAT: Join NYU and Queens Botanical Garden for a Honey Bee Extravaganza! Activities include honey tasting, bee education, candle making, and bee hive artifacts. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.
Prospect Park Walking Tours
WHEN: Nov. 3-24, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Prospect Park Peninsula, Well House Drive, Flatbush AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy Prospect Park while learning about its incredible history! Prospect Park Alliance and Turnstile Tours host a series of walking tours that examine the many layers of natural and human history to be found in Brooklyn’s backyard. WANT TO GO? Various prices. 718-965-8951. prospectpark.org.
Brooklyn Borough Hall Saturday Greenmarket FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 7, Saturdays, 8am-5pm WHERE: Brooklyn Borough Hall, 209 Joralemon St., Downtown Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Buy fresh and locally grown fruits and vegetables and take part in nutrition workshops, clothing collections, and food scrap collections. WANT TO GO? grownyc.org.
Fight for Sunlight Exhibit
WHEN: Through Dec. 31: 10am-5:30pm WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave., Crown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Brooklyn Botanic Garden’s greenhouse complex was built in the 1980s to cultivate and display plants from environments around the world. Specifically selected for its access to sunlight, this is one of the only places in New York City where you can see such a diverse collection of rare plants in bloom year-round. WANT TO GO? Free with Garden admission: $15 adults; $8 seniors and students 12 and older; free children 11 and younger. 718-623-7200. bbg.org. ›› BrooklynParent 31
SHOW TIME! Arts, Culture & Fun: Measure for Measure FREE
WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 6, 11:30am-1:30pm WHERE: Brownsville Recreation Center, 1555 Linden Boulevard, Brownsville AGES: All WHAT: The Public’s acclaimed Mobile Unit transports communities of the five boroughs to the vibrant streets of New Orleans for a bold new production of Shakespeare’s Measure for Measure directed by LA Williams. WANT TO GO? RSVP required. nycgovparks.org.
‘Baby Shark’ Live
WHEN: Friday, Nov. 8, 6-8pm WHERE: Kings Theatre, 1027 Flatbush Ave., Flatbush AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Fans of all ages will delight as Baby Shark joins up with his friend Pinkfong to take an adventure into the sea, singing and dancing through new and classic songs including “Five Little Monkeys”, “Wheels on the Bus”, “Jungle Boogie”, “Monkey Banana Dance”, and, of course, “Baby Shark”! WANT TO GO? $39.50. 845-469-2287. kingstheatre.com.
Ariana Grande with Special Guest Social House
WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 12, 7:30pm WHERE: Barclays Center, 620 Atlantic Ave., Prospect Heights/Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: Ariana Grande returns to Brooklyn on her Sweetener World Tour. WANT TO GO? Various prices. 917-618-6100. barclayscenter.com.
Get Up, Stand Up!
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 2pm WHERE: BAM Fisher, 321 Ashland Place, Fort Greene AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Voices will rise in this family-friendly concert celebrating the power of music and song, featuring a performance by Brown Rice Family. Get Up, Stand Up! is hosted by Mikal Amin and features local performers and student poets who embrace and embody the spirit and culture of hip-hop. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-636-4100. bam.org.
The Knights: Family Show
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of all ages are introduced to classical music in a fun, relaxed, and interactive setting. WANT TO GO? $14 day of show/$10 advanced purchase. 718-683-5600. bricartsmedia.org.
Jonas Brothers Happiness Begins Tour
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 7:30pm WHERE: Barclays Center, 620 Atlantic Ave., Prospect Heights/Park Slope AGES: All WHAT: The Jonas Brothers are coming to Brooklyn! WANT TO GO? $86 and up. 917-618-6100. barclayscenter.com.
Events for Youth and Families: Cara’s Caterpillars FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 1-2pm WHERE: Brooklyn Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights AGES: All WHAT: Party, clap, dance, and sing along with Cara Samantha and her musicians as they present their variety of pop, Motown, Disney, and family favorite songs. WANT TO GO? 718-230-2100. bklynlibrary.org.
Curious, Unusual, and Extraordinary!
WHEN: Nov. 2-30, 4pm WHERE: Barbes, 376 9th St., Park Slope AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Quirky author and composer Michael Hearst, along with his band, presents songs about “Unusual Creatures”, “Extraordinary People”, and “Curious Constructions” geared towards curious families, extraordinary children, and their unusual friends. WANT TO GO? $10. barbesbrooklyn.com.
Saturday Family Music with Mr. Simon
WHEN: Nov. 2-30, 10-10:45am WHERE: Ladybug Preschool, 413 Smith St., Carroll Gardens AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: If you’re looking for something to do with your little ones on Saturday mornings, check out Mr. Simon’s Family Music Sessions. Kids will have a fun and interactive experience playing and singing along to their favorite songs. WANT TO GO? $20. 917-941-0141. mistersimonmusic.com.
‘The Sleeping Beauty’
WHEN: Through Dec. 22: see website for show times WHERE: Puppetworks Inc., 338 6th Ave., Brooklyn AGES: 4 and older WHAT: Perrault’s real faery tale with music by Tchaikovsky is adapted for marionettes by Nicolas Coppola. Suggested for ages 4 and older. WANT TO GO? $11; $10 children. 718-965-3391. puppetworks.org.
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Hiring a special needs attorney to get your child the education she deserves, which can make all the difference in her growth and happiness.
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By Jacqueline Neber
ou know when your child isn’t receiving the education that is right for him. Maybe he’s struggling in a class that’s not a good fit. Perhaps he’s not receiving the supports and services he’s entitled to outside of class. He might even be in the wrong school altogether. But going up against a school district and the New York State Department of Education to fight for your child can be a daunting task for any parent. That’s where special education attorneys come in. They can help you understand your child’s rights, fight for his free and appropriate education, reach an agreement with your school, or get him into a new one. In fact, a special education attorney can make all the difference.
Cohen in Garden City, says she believes district leaders do know the law. If they don’t, they have law firms to inform them. On the other hand, many parents get stuck on the difference between an appropriate education and the best education their child can receive, says Gerald Raymond, a managing partner at Tully Rinckey PLLC in Syracuse. If parents have their child evaluated by someone outside the district, they could walk into a planning meeting for their child’s services with an idea that’s completely different from what school representatives are prepared to offer. In that case, conflict arises not because school authorities don’t know what they’re meant to provide, but because parents have a different idea.
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Often a lawyer is necessary to get your school district to do what it must, says Bernard A. Krooks, founding partner of Littman Krooks LLP and head of its special needs department. A lawyer can help you get your child into a different type of class, receive the right services as dictated by her Individualized Education
Program, or transfer to a different type of school. A lawyer can also help when your student has behavioral challenges, and help your student avoid the school-to-prison pipeline—a trend in which students with special needs are funneled out of public schools and into the criminal justice system. The American Civil Liberties Union reports that students with disabilities are disproportionately represented in the pipeline because of schools’ inadequate special education resources and a reliance on zero tolerance policies. Once you’ve retained a lawyer, she can be as involved in your family’s progress as you want. Your attorney can attend IEP, Committee on Special Education, or annual review meetings with you or call for an impartial hearing or mediation. In some cases, a lawyer will take a family’s case all the way to federal court. Raymond says having an attorney can make a big difference in your child’s well-being. In one case, after a student fell behind in school when the district took his 1-to-1 aide away, Raymond’s firm provided the CSE with documentation as to why the child needed an aide—and got the aide restored to the child. Having an aide can significantly increase a child’s well-being, performance in school, and safety. Laura Davis, director of the Special Education Unit at New York Legal Assistance Group, says sometimes the impact of a lawyer might not look like much to an untrained eye, but it can mean the world to parents. “I’m working with a family whose child spent four years in an inappropriate six-one-one [six students, one teacher, and one aide] class in a public school, and is now at Gersh [Academy],” Davis says. “[The mother says] her child can now look at her, sit in a chair for a couple of minutes at a time, wave goodbye. This is all so meaningful to the parent. To somebody else it might look like nothing, but to her, her eight-year-old child is now, for the first time, making progress.”
Finding an Attorney
In his experience, the special needs community is a connected, supportive one, Krooks says. Information, such as lawyer recommendations, tends to get passed around quickly. “You can also use Facebook, discussion and support groups, or simply search online,” he adds. But at the end of the day, Krooks says, it’s not necessarily that difficult to find someone who has the knowledge needed—though it may be a challenge to find a good match. That’s why it’s important to vet each name. “You have to hire someone you can build a relationship with, someone who’s compassionate, who’s empathetic, who can represent your interests and your child’s, and who cares about your case,” Krooks says. “Trust your instincts. You have to feel comfortable.”
Affording Services
An attorney might be necessary to go up against your child’s school—especially in wealthier districts where schools often have big law firms on retainer. But affording a lawyer can be tricky no matter where you live—and, unfortunately, petitioners in education law cases do not get attorneys appointed for them by the court, as petitioners in family law cases do. As Davis explains, it is especially important for families making lower incomes and families whose native language is not English to understand their parental rights. Many of these families, however, don’t have the means to pay retainers and fees, according to Ashley
Grant, supervising staff attorney at Advocates for Children in New York City. But these fees, she says, should not prevent parents from seeking assistance. For example, families can reach out to Advocates for Children, which is just one of several organizations in the city that connects families with lower incomes to legal resources. Some law firms will take on cases regardless of family income. As Krooks points out: “We’ll take on cases like this because we went to law school to help people.” When a lawyer helps a family win a case in New York, the firm can have their attorney’s fees reimbursed by the Department of Education, at no cost to the family.
AN EDUCATION SUCCESS STORY Alicia Lewis’s* 6-year-old daughter has global developmental delays and is largely nonverbal. She needs a very small classroom, autism-specific methodologies, and an individualized teaching approach. When the New York City Department of Education placed her in an inadequate school last fall—twice—Lewis realized she needed the help of an attorney. Lewis had gone through an initial placement meeting, in which she says DOE representatives “did not seem to factor in our input and the evaluations we submitted, and did not allow the professionals who evaluated our daughter to testify.” Lewis asked for a reconvene, but the placement recommendations made at that second meeting were the same. “We were [finally] given a District 75 placement,” she says, “and we wanted to visit it, but it was a new site that wouldn’t be open until the first day of school. We were told to visit a similar site, and we did. But it seemed like none of our daughter’s needs would be met there. They had no autismspecific methodologies. We couldn’t even see any of the teachers or therapists. They hadn’t been hired yet.” That’s when Lewis knew she had to hire an attorney. “When the DOE fails completely to provide an appropriate educational setting for your child, and you have no other choice but to seek resolution through an impartial hearing, having a lawyer is imperative.” With the help of an attorney, Lewis informed the DOE she’d placed her daughter in a private special education school and would be moving forward with an impartial hearing. During the hearing, Lewis won the tuition for her daughter’s new school, meaning the DOE would handle all costs. Lewis also won at-home therapy for her daughter’s needs. Since then, her daughter has changed tremendously, both in school and at home. “She’s much more attentive and responsive. She has made a lot of progress. She’s really grown,” Lewis says. “She is so much more focused, she shows that she’s interested, she participates, she’s much more engaged with us at home.” Lewis attributes this success to having a lawyer. “The impartial hearing process is not something I would have been able to maneuver on my own,” she says. “Without an attorney, I would not have known the specific steps we needed to follow, the timeline, and the legal terminology.” *Name has been changed to protect the identity of the family involved.
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“We’re a Package.” ››
The moment I realized my daughter understood—and accepted—the responsibility of caring for her twin brother. By Ceilann Neber
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y twins were never in the same play group, class, or even grade. They were together only in the womb, the NICU and, later, our home. They were on complete opposite ends of the spectrum. Why couldn’t they meet somewhere in the middle? I often asked myself. Born 16 weeks premature, my baby girl had her struggles, but I knew she would prevail. My instinct was right; she did. Relentless in my efforts to somehow change the course of his outcome, I knew my baby boy’s struggles would be permanent. And they were—a mother’s intuition. Now, 23 years later, I still wonder what life would have been like. Seeing neurotypical twins is a reminder of what they (and honestly, I) did not have. It’s a reminder of everything that was missed, how nothing was typical—and, ultimately, how it has affected my daughter. What would it have been like to bring my healthy twins home, memorialize their milestones in their baby books, and open our home to visitors wanting to celebrate them? What would it have been like to take my babies to the store or a friend’s home, to smile rather than cry, to savor each moment rather than worry about the next? What would it have been like to experience my babies developing typically? What would it have been like for my baby girl to have a playmate, a best friend, a partner in crime—to grow up like I did with my brother, who is 15 months older than me? What would it have been like for her to grow up without the constant flow of nurses and therapists in our home, visits to the hospital, or doctor and therapist appointments? What would it have been like to not worry about my son’s future—or about my daughter’s, for that matter, as the only sibling of a brother with multiple disabilities? What would it have been like to not feel guilty? When they were 10 years old, I drove the three of us home from yet another doctor’s appointment—an appointment I was hoping would bring a different diagnosis for my boy. It was during that car ride that I realized my daughter already understood what her future was going to look like. “Mommy...do you think Matt will ever get married?” she asked. “I’m not sure, why?” “Well, while we were in the doctor’s office, there was something on TV that said kids like Matt will probably never get married or have children.” I held back tears. Ceilann Neber lives on Long Island with her husband and twins.
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The author’s twins, Matt and Jacqui (our assistant editor), dancing together when they were 5
“It’s okay, Mom,” she said. “He will live with me when you and Dad can’t take care of him anymore.” “Oh, Sweetie,” I said. “I know you love your brother. But you will have your own life and your future husband may not want your brother to live with you.” Without hesitation she said, “I wouldn’t marry anyone that didn’t want Matt, Mom. We’re a package. We’re twins!” In these 23 years, every one of my daughter’s accomplishments has been met with celebration and happiness—but deep down those same accomplishments were always bittersweet for me. She felt it, too, because she wanted her brother to be able to accomplish the same things. I knew she felt it, and it makes me sad still. She has watched me move through this journey, and she wants me to be wholly happy—not the half-happy I am because I wish her brother could be beside her. She gets it, and she always has. I sat down to write this essay about what it was like to raise twins when one has a disability. But, ultimately, it’s an essay about my daughter. My son is the happiest boy. His innocent smile is the most beautiful thing. He is our light. But my daughter understands and feels more than any mother would wish for her child. It’s been a long and complicated path, and yet despite this, or perhaps because of this, she has grown into an amazing young adult. Her journey, our family’s journey, has grounded and humbled her, given her strength and understanding, and taught her compassion and kindness firsthand. Will I ever stop wondering what it would be like if my twins were both neurotypical? Maybe. One thing I won’t have to question is who will take care of my son when my husband and I aren’t able to. My daughter chose to take on the responsibility of making sure her brother is safe in the future. That is a responsibility she has understood for a long time, though it’s not what I hoped for her future. It’s something I think about all the time, and I know she thinks about it, too. Despite these worries, I wouldn’t change either of my twins for anything. The reality of life and her future responsibilities can seem overwhelming, but my daughter will approach all of it with the same compassion and strength her brother has helped her learn from the beginning. My twins will always be on opposite ends of the spectrum in many ways. I will always worry about them equally, too. But they give light to each other. And while my intuition about my son was correct, it was also correct about my daughter. She will prevail, she will keep him safe, and she will be okay.
Special Needs Directory Able Health Care Service
44 Court St., 10th floor #1001 718- 606-7222 91-31 Queens Blvd., 6th floor Elmhurst, Queens 718- 606-7222 ablehealthcare.com info@ablehealthcare.com Able’s special needs-certified home health agency provides comprehensive support to clients and their families with developmental disabilities. Services include: home health aide, therapy, skilled nursing, medical social worker, and nutritional counseling. We are a privatelyowned and -operated agency, providing service since 1976.
Huntington Learning Center
808 Union St., Park Slope 718-230-4600 huntingtonhelps.com Huntington is the leader in kindergarten-12th tutoring and test prep. Our
certified tutors provide individualized instruction in all areas including executive functioning, ADHD, dyslexia, and learning disabilities. We help students prep for the SAT, ACT, and state exams. Huntington also testifies on the student’s behalf and attends IEP/504 meetings.
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Why Preschool is So Important ›› By Melissa Wickes
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ids play together, sit in a circle with their teachers and sing songs, eventually moving to the table for a snack. Maybe they discuss the weather or the calendar or learn about letters and numbers. From the outside, you’d be forgiven for seeing preschool as a nice-to-have, rather than a necessity—and, for those not in public pre-K programs, a potentially expensive option at that. Indeed, some parents have argued that preschool is simply a glorified day care, that anything taught there can easily be learned at home. There is, however, more going on in that classroom than the untrained eye might observe. Educators and child development experts say early childhood education offers kids advantages long after they leave their preschool classroom and helps set them up for success in school and beyond. Research shows the benefits of preschool are tangible and visible in more ways than one. Preschool not only provides more opportunities for children, it helps them learn how to face social interactions as well, according to Rina Collins, a former preschool teacher and director of the early childhood enrichment program Book Nook, with locations on the Upper West Side and in Tribeca. There are, as a result, big differences between at-home learning and in-school learning.
Kids learn from trained teachers with their peers.
Schools provide teachers who are professionally trained to mold young minds and are equipped with certain skills parents alone may not have. An important aspect of in-school learning is instilling in kids the ability to interact successfully with other people. It may seem straightforward, but getting along with others, especially at 2-4 years old, is not so easy. Being in a classroom with multiple children their own age allows children to develop social and emotional skills that cannot be learned solely at home, Collins says. At preschool, children become accustomed to being in group settings, separating from parents, and making decisions on their own—even if those decisions are as simple as, “Do I want to play with Legos or finger paint today?” All of the social experiences children undergo in preschool contribute to their overall confidence, according to Tovah Klein, Ph.D., author of How Toddlers Thrive and director of the Barnard College Center for Toddler Development. “People think of it as the ABCs and 123s, but it’s much, much 38
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more than that,” Dr. Klein says. “Children gain a lot of confidence by being able to handle themselves away from their parents and then reuniting with them later in the day.” Preschool classrooms also teach kids a great deal about resiliency and curiosity, according to Dr. Klein. Being able to handle disappointment and moving on from it, learning to be proud of your own work, and the ability to make decisions all play into a child’s curiosity and overall desire to learn.
It prepares kids to learn.
Beyond the realm of confidence and social skills, going to preschool prepares children for life in other ways, such as getting them ready to learn in school. Attending preschool has been shown to improve children’s IQ, their receptive and expressive vocabulary skills, and early reading and math skills. By enrolling your child in a preschool program, you are preparing him to acquire academic skills he will be expected to use as early as kindergarten—and offering him a head start in his academic career. Studies show that a crucial part of preschool education lies in stimulating interactions between students and their preschool teachers. By supporting their students emotionally and academically, teachers help children learn to develop skills, respond both verbally and physically, and enjoy learning. Young children often struggle with the transition from a play environment to a learning environment, which can cause a “learning anxiety,” or fear of learning, according to Collins. By introducing your child to this learning environment as early as preschool, you eliminate the anxiety as early as possible, preparing her for future learning.
It teaches kids routine.
Preschool also helps children develop and understand the concept of a routine. The school day is structured, which helps acclimate children into a daily routine and learning environment in a gentle and enjoyable way. This, in turn, helps children prepare for higher levels of grade school, college, and professional life, according to Collins. “When I was in a kindergarten classroom with children who didn’t go to preschool prior to entering, they were experiencing social anxiety and learning anxiety simply because they didn’t know what to expect,” Collins says. “Preschool fills those separation and learning anxieties so your child has a better idea and is better prepared for the future.”
Preschools Directory A Whole New World Academy
910 Union St. 718-230-0022, 718-230-0026 awnwa.com A Whole New World Academy provides a safe and supportive environment. “The Mother Goose Time” curriculum embraces your child’s uniqueness to ensure they will learn 33 key skills. Lunch and snacks are provided by Yumble Kids, since we believe in nurturing a child’s body as well as their mind.
ABC Child Center
109 Nassau Ave., Greenpoint 718-389-9004 abcchildcenter.com info@abcchildcenter.com Providing childcare since 1993. ABC’s goal is to provide safe, age-appropriate, and stimulating programs for children from ages 3 months to 4 years, while fulfilling their need to laugh, learn, play, make new friends, and discover new things. ABC is open year-round, Monday-Friday, 8am-6pm with rolling admission.
Bryan’s Educational Center
3922-3924 Church Ave. 718-282-6944 bryanseducationalcenter.com info@bryanseducationalcenter.com Give your child a strong start at Bryan’s Educational Center! We strive to provide access to high quality, early childhood programming. Bryan’s is accepting applications for our preschool (ages 2-3), UPK, kindergarten, and after-school programs. Schedule your tour today.
Guidepost Montessori
717 Driggs Ave., Williamsburg 347-464-0490 guidepostmontessori.com/williamsburg 212 Hicks St., Brooklyn Heights 929-524-3588 guidepostmontessori.com/ brooklyn-heights Guidepost Montessori is among a growing network of schools that serves more than 2,200 families worldwide. Our campuses in Brooklyn serve children age 12 months through fifth grade. Guidepost’s exception-
ally beautiful classrooms are equipped with lovingly chosen furniture and authentic Montessori materials, designed to inspire your child. Visit guidepostmontessori.com.
International Academy of New York
4 E. 90th St., Manhattan 212-641-0260 ianyc.org info@ianyc.org The International Academy of New York is multi-cultural and diverse, developing culturally astute, confident, and empathetic students with fluency in Mandarin or Spanish, while excelling in literacy, math, and the arts. Pre-nursery (2s)eighth grade.
Little Scholars Learning Center
52 Quentin Road 448 Neptune Ave. 104 West End Ave. 4123 Avenue U 1502 W. 1st St. 631 E. 18th St. 718-210-3233 littlescholarsnyc.com littlescholarsnyc@gmail.com At Little Scholars Childcare Center, we provide a carefully crafted curriculum to fit various learning styles. Children are provided opportunities to explore with hands-on learning activities to inspire creativity and learning. Our philosophy centers on the idea that children should be taught how to think and not what to think.
Saint Saviour Catholic Academy
701 8th Ave., Park Slope 718-768-8000 x4 saintsaviourcatholicacademy.org nlynch@sscaparkslope.org Saint Saviour Catholic Academy prepares students from nursery to eighth grade for higher education. Our academy offers a balanced curriculum of rigorous academics designed to meet the common core standards, and a vibrant arts and extracurricular program, paired with the spiritual teachings of Catholicism.
Smart Start Early Learning Center 8411 Fort Hamilton Parkway 718-921-1868 smartstart@verizon.net While providing a safe, warm, and nurturing environment, our staff addresses the social, emotional, and physical needs of children. Through themat-
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Treasure Island
347 74th St. (corner of 4th Avenue and 74th Street) 718-238-7676 silbekidz@aol.com Every child deserves a champion who connects with them and helps them to become the best that they can be. At Treasure Island our staff are champions for all children, helping each child to become a confident, motivated, engaged learner. The program promotes social competencies, active thinking, and problem-solving skills.
MUSE Academy
126 Saint Felix St. 929-400-1751 museacademybk.com info@museacademybk.com MUSE Academy is an independent school the heart of Brooklyn’s cultural district—a new alternative for parents who want the proven intellectual benefits that come with intensive exposure to music and performing arts from a young age, combined with rigorous academics. MUSE Academy offers small class sizes and affordable tuition.
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These tips from security experts will go a long way to keeping your home secure, especially during the upcoming holiday season. By Jaimie Seaton
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ith the holidays just around the corner, apartment doormats and front stoops will soon be stacked with packages—and that means “porch pirates” will be out in full force. Many of us will be traveling, leaving our homes unattended, during the holidays. Many residents have turned to video doorbells, such as Ring and Nest Hello, to give them an edge over the package-stealing crooks and burglars, but this latest craze in home security isn’t a cure-all. In fact, there’s a lot more to home safety than filming people who come to your door.
Mind the Basics
It’s hard to believe, but some people fail to take the most basic precautions, including locking their doors. “They may feel a false sense of security, and they may live in a safe area, but you can never be too certain,” says Cassandra Anderson, vice president of the New York Insurance Association, who adds that it’s a good idea to have a deadbolt lock. It can also be easy to overlook the door itself, but all doors are not created equal. An exterior door should be metal or solid wood, not the hollow-core type used for interiors. And remember, a lock is only as strong as the door and the door is only as strong as its frame. “You can have very good locks, but if your door frame is rotted, it defeats the purpose,” says Jessica Corey, commanding officer of the NYPD’s Crime Prevention Division. “Somebody can just push the door in. You can’t install a lock or a door without looking at the whole system.” Corey also notes that many people overlook the hinges. If the door’s hinges are on the outside and the pins exposed, someone can remove the pins and remove the door. She suggests either changing the door or installing non-removable pins. Another basic step many people forget about is to make a video inventory of your possessions. That way, if you are burglarized (or suffer a house fire or flood), you have a detailed record for police and insurance.
Secure the Perimeter
Both Corey and Anderson advise homeowners to secure their home from the outside-in, beginning with the yard. For example, make sure landscaping doesn’t block your windows, and that shrubbery can’t be used to shield an intruder from passing neighbors or a police patrol car. Corey also reminds people to secure their windows—particularly at ground level. When installing window air conditioners, make sure to secure them with the proper (and usually included) hardware so they can’t be pushed in. And use outside lighting. “Lighting is one of the cheapest and most effective deterrents that you have,” Corey says. “Either lighting that comes on from dusk to dawn, or lighting that’s motion-activated. That’s something that’s easily installed.”
Keep Up Appearances
When you broadcast news of your vacation plans across social me-
dia (or to the clerk at the local store) you never know who else is watching and listening, including thieves. It’s best to be cautious about whom you talk to—and wait to post pictures of your trip until you return. Remember that scene in Home Alone, when Kevin rigs up mannequins and lights to make it look like his empty house is full of people? You don’t have to go quite that far, but when you’re away, you want your house to look lived-in. Ask the post office to hold your mail, ensure there won’t be any packages delivered, and arrange for someone to take out the trash and recycling. It’s also a good idea to put interior and exterior lights on timers. Then there are the not-so-obvious things, like putting a television or two on a timer and asking a neighbor to park one of their cars in your driveway if you normally park your car in your driveway. (Anderson actually advises people to park their car in their garage if possible, so people won’t know their habits of coming and going.) The key is to make your house look the way it does when you are home. “A lot of people think when they go away that they should close all their curtains. If you don’t normally close all your curtains, you shouldn’t do it when you’re away,” Corey advises. And don’t forget to have someone mow the lawn or shovel snow if you’re away for more than a week. Both Corey and Anderson say leaving your house to the elements while you’re away is a sure sign the home isn’t occupied.
Be Smart with Your Smart Home
Aside from all these low-tech strategies, both Anderson and Corey recommend installing a home security system and/or video doorbell. “There’s a lot of new types of technologies out there that create video display in real time, where you’re aware of what’s going on in your house when you’re away. I think that those are certainly things that individuals could consider, to increase the security at their house,” Anderson says. “I can’t speak to any one technology, but having multiple security features is always better,” Corey says. “If you have video, if you have lighting, if you have an alarm system, that’s going to be better than if you had none of those things.” She recommends an alarm system with motion detectors and installing video cameras connected to a phone app but cautions people to remember that online systems can be hacked. “Use two-factor authentication and anything else the security or doorbell company recommends to protect the system,” Corey says. Nothing will guarantee 100-percent safety and security but taking a strategic approach and implementing the measures recommended by experts will reduce your chances of being victimized. Jaimie Seaton has been a journalist for more than 20 years and is the former Thailand correspondent for “Newsweek.” Her work on divorce, parenting, dating, and a wide range of topics has been featured in “The Washington Post,” “The Guardian,” “Glamour,” and numerous other publications. Follow her on Twitter @JaimieSeaton.
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Dr. Sue Liebman literally grew up in the field of orthodontics. Following in her dad’s footsteps, a love of orthodontics and changing people’s smiles was contagious. Board-certified as well as being a renowned lecturer, leader, and mentor, Dr. Liebman brings her own unique dedication to the field. What sets Dr. Liebman apart, is her commitment to truly understanding every patient’s concerns and combining her vast knowledge, experience, and expertise to develop the best treatment possible for each of her patients, at any age and any stage.
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Dr. Alexis Fermanis is an orthodontic specialist who practiced in Brooklyn for 10 years before starting Brooklyn Family Orthodontics in 2014. She is a native New Yorker and enjoys running and traveling in her free time. Dr. Fermanis believes that a beautiful smile makes a great first impression and she is passionate about providing that to her patients. She is active in her alumni societies and local dental organizations and regularly attends continuing education classes so that she can provide the most successful results for her patients.
Dr. Amr Abdelgawad is a highly regarded pediatric orthopedic surgeon at Maimonides Children’s Hospital. Dr. Abdelgawad is fellowship-trained in pediatric orthopedics, orthopedic trauma, limb lengthening and reconstruction. For the past 11 years, Dr. Abdelgawad worked at Texas Tech University Health Science Center of El Paso, where he performed more than 6,500 operative orthopedic procedures. He is editor of Pediatric Orthopedics, A Handbook For Primary Care Physicians. Dr. Abdelgawad treats various pediatric orthopedic conditions including difficult fractures, Blount’s disease, foot deformities, limb length discrepancy, hip deformities, cerebral palsy, and other neuromuscular conditions.
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Yelena Kogelman, M.D. Maimonides Children’s Hospital Pediatric Endocrinology 4802 10th Ave. 6701 Bay Parkway, 4th floor 718-283-7500
Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-ofthe-art medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kid-friendly; walk-ins welcome; most insurance plans accepted. Complete pediatric and adolescent care, as well as baby, camp, school, and sports physicals. Certified urgent care recommended by Urgent Care Association of America. Thirty years of dedication to our patients. The offices are open seven days a week including holidays, 8am-11pm.
Dr. Cynthia Amirtharaj is a board-certified pediatric cardiologist at the Maimonides Children’s Hospital. She is part of a dedicated team of pediatric cardiologists providing infants, children, and adolescents with comprehensive evaluation and treatment for congenital heart disease, murmurs, arrhythmias, and other cardiac disorders. Dr. Amirtharaj is a compassionate and dedicated physician who combines her vast knowledge, experience, and evidence-based medicine to provide individualized care plans for every patient. The Maimonides Children’s Hospital is equipped with state-of-the art technologies, including fetal and pediatric transthoracic echocardiography.
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Dr. Cascya Charlot is an award-winning, Harvard Medical School-trained physician who is board-certified in pediatric and adult allergy and immunology. She is the chief of pediatric allergy at Methodist Hospital in Park Slope, and medical director of Allergy and Asthma Care of Brooklyn, in Park Slope and Williamsburg. She evaluates patients for a wide variety of allergic conditions including asthma, eczema, food allergies, sinusitis, and environmental allergies. Throughout her career, she has received numerous accolades including the prestigious Patients’ Choice “Most Compassionate Doctor” award in 2012 and 2013.
Dr. Kogelman is a highly respected board-certified pediatric endocrinologist who, as part of a team of experienced pediatric endocrine subspecialists, provides care for children and teens who have problems with growth, puberty, obesity, diabetes, hypoglycemia, and other disorders related to hormones and the glands that produce them. She also has expertise in transgender care. Dr. Kogelman provides the highest level of compassionate, family-centered care in an environment designed just for children.
OPEN HOUSES 2019 Gotham Gymnastics
315 Douglass St. 718-722-7122, 718-722-7211 gothamgymnastics.com; info@gothamgymnastics.com Join us for an open house on Nov. 3 during the marathon, from 10am-12pm and 2-4pm.
Guidepost Montessori
717 Driggs Ave., Williamsburg 347-464-0490 guidepostmontessori.com/williamsburg 212 Hicks St., Brooklyn Heights 929-524-3588 guidepostmontessori.com/brooklyn-heights Join us for an open house in Brooklyn Heights on Nov. 21, from 6:30-7:30pm.
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International Academy of New York
4 E. 90th St., Manhattan 212-641-0260 ianyc.org; info@ianyc.org Learn more at an open house this fall: Nov. 6 at 6pm, Nov. 21 at 9am, Dec. 4 at 6pm, or Dec. 18 at 9am. Registration required at admissions@ianyc.org.
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352-8 Classon Ave. 347-763-8520 winchendon.org/campuses/new-york-city Join us for an open house on Nov. 18 from 5:45-7pm.
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Professional services Your local guide to tutors, teachers, lawyers, financial planners, and other professionals DENTISTS & DENTAL PROVIDERS BROOKLYN FAMILY ORTHODONTICS Alexis K. Fermanis, D.D.S., M.S. 142 Joralemon St. 6B, Brooklyn Heights 73 8th Ave. at Union Street, Park Slope 718-395-6582 bkfamilyortho.com Dr. Alexis Fermanis is an orthodontic specialist who practiced in Brooklyn for 10 years before starting Brooklyn Family Orthodontics in 2014. Dr. Fermanis believes that a beautiful smile makes a great first impression and is passionate about providing that to her patients.
DR. SUE LIEBMAN - BROOKLYN HEIGHTS ORTHODONTICS
185 Montague St., 8th floor 718-622-6741 brooklyn-orthodontist.com info@brooklyn-orthodontist.com Under the compassionate leadership of Dr. Sue Liebman we are dedicated to providing the most advanced treatments, including braces and Invisalign, to patients of all ages with convenient Saturday hours and affordable payment plans.
DOCTORS & MEDICAL PROVIDERS AMR ABDELGAWAD, M.D., PH.D.
Maimonides Children’s Hospital Pediatric Orthopedics 6010 Bay Parkway 718-283-7400 Dr. Amr Abdelgawad is a highly regarded pediatric orthopedic surgeon at Maimonides Children’s Hospital. Dr. Abdelgawad treats various pediatric orthopedic conditions including difficult fractures, Blount’s disease, foot deformities, limb length discrepancy, hip deformities, cerebral palsy, and other neuromuscular conditions.
CYNTHIA AMIRTHARAJ, M.D.
Maimonides Children’s Hospital Pediatric Cardiology 4802 Tenth Ave., G1 6701 Bay Parkway, 4th floor 718-283-7500 Dr. Cynthia Amirtharaj is a boardcertified pediatric cardiologist at the Maimonides Children’s Hospital. She is part of a dedicated team of pediatric cardiologists providing infants, children, and adolescents with comprehensive evaluation and treatment for congenital heart disease, murmurs, arrhythmias, and other cardiac disorders.
DR. CASCYA CHARLOT
Allergy and Asthma Care of Brooklyn 10 Plaza St. E., suite 1E 311 Saint Nicholas Ave., Ridgewood 347-564-3211 brooklynallergydr.com
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Dr. Cascya Charlot is an award-winning, Harvard Medical School-trained physician who is board-certified in pediatric and adult allergy and immunology. She evaluates patients for a wide variety of allergic conditions including asthma, eczema, food allergies, sinusitis, and environmental allergies.
YELENA KOGELMAN, M.D.
Maimonides Children’s Hospital Pediatric Endocrinology 4802 Tenth Ave. 6701 Bay Parkway, 4th floor 718-283-7500 Dr. Kogelman is a highly respected boardcertified pediatric endocrinologist who, as part of a team of experienced pediatric endocrine subspecialists, provides care for children and teens who have problems with growth, puberty, obesity, diabetes, hypoglycemia, and other disorders.
PEDIATRIC IMMEDIATE CARE
698 Manhattan Ave. 718-389-PEDS (7337) 150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337) pediatricimmediatecare.com Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-of-the-art medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kid-friendly; walk-ins welcome; most insurance plans accepted.
LEGAL SERVICES VISHNICK MCGOVERN MILIZIO LLP
3000 Marcus Ave., Suite 1E9, Lake Success 516-437-4385 570 Lexington Ave., Suite 1600, Manhattan 212-759-3500 255 Monmouth Road, 2nd floor, Oakhurst, NJ 732-531-8900 vmmlegal.com For 50 years, the law firm of Vishnick McGovern Milizio has helped private and business clients ensure their well-being, plan for their future, and protect their interests.
SPECIAL NEEDS ABLE HEALTH CARE SERVICE
44 Court St., 10th floor #1001 718- 606-7222 91-31 Queens Blvd., 6th floor, Elmhurst, Queens 718- 606-7222 ablehealthcare.com; info@ablehealthcare.com Able’s special needs-certified home health agency provides comprehensive support to clients and their families with developmental disabilities. Services include: home health aide, therapy, skilled nursing, medical social worker, and nutritional counseling.
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PartyCentral Your local guide to entertainers, party places, activities, and other resources. PARTY ENTERTAINMENT CLOWNS.COM
Proudly Serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000 718-971-5862 clowns.com We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.
PARTY PLACES ART FUN STUDIO
547 92nd St. 718-680-0508 artfunstudio.com alla@artfunstudio.com Canvas and ceramic painting art studio in Brooklyn. Plan a child’s budget-friendly birthday party or adult’s Sip and Paint event, check our classes or just walk in for spontaneous fun! 70 five-star reviews on Google and Yelp. Fun and creative packages for all ages.
INTREPID SEA, AIR & SPACE MUSEUM
Pier 86, W. 46th Street and Twelfth Avenue, Manhattan 646-381-5166 intrepidmuseum.org Celebrate your child’s birthday with a one-of-a-kind party! The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum captivates groups of all ages and interests. Choose from exciting themes, value packages, and customization options to create an original birthday adventure they’ll never forget. Packages start at $30 per person.
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Sugar Factory - Meatpacking District 835 Washington St. Sugar Factory - The Row 700 8th Ave. Sugar Factory - Upper West Side 1991 Broadway 212-414-8700 sugarfactory.com sfny@sugarfactory.com Party where the stars play! Here at Sugar Factory, we offer pre-fixed and customizable party packages for any celebration and budget! From private large-scale events to private dinners for two, a Sugar Factory celebration is one you will never forget!
WHEEL FUN RENTALS
Marine Park Avenue U and East 33rd Street Prospect Park LeFrak Center at Lakeside 171 East Drive Bensonhurst Park 9000 Bay Parkway Flushing Meadows Corona Park at David Dinkins Circle Meridian Road Flushing Meadows Corona Park at North Meadow Lake Meadow Lake Road West 917-231-6229 wheelfunrentals.com/nyc wheelfunrentals.com Wheel Fun Rentals is the perfect place for birthday parties! Kids and adults can explore the area on one of our specialty bikes-or go on a Surrey Scavenger Hunt!
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Shari Eberts and her family at a recent Hearing Loss Association of America Walk4Hearing
If I Can’t See You, I Can’t Hear You ›› The challenges of being a mother with hearing loss
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“ s this the year we can finally get earbuds?” It’s a question my teenagers ask me every year on their birthday, but they already know the answer: No. And they know the reason why. I have an adult-onset genetic hearing loss passed down through my father’s side of the family. Thankfully, my children have healthy hearing so far, but I need them to guard it with a vengeance. If they develop problems with their hearing in adulthood, like I did, I want them to be starting off with as little residual damage as possible—hence, no earbuds. That’s not our first struggle triggered by my hearing issues. When you’re a mom with hearing loss, communication with your children is always a bit difficult. It’s just the nature of the challenge that changes as they grow. When they were infants, I would strain to hear their cries through the baby monitor. At night, with my hearing aids removed, I might sleep through the sound, even with the volume turned up to the max. Luckily, my husband would usually hear them and wake me up when necessary. If he was traveling for work, I slept fitfully, worried my babies might need me, but I wouldn’t hear them. In later years, I trained my children to seek me out at night if a problem arose, so I would be sure to respond. The struggles weren’t all bad. As toddlers, my kids reveled in the game hide-and-seek, probably because they were at such an advantage. I could hear their giggles and squeals, but had a hard
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time pinpointing the location of the sounds. When I walked past their hiding place, giggles would erupt, but I wouldn’t know exactly where to look. Circling back, I would hear laughter again. They enjoyed it so much, I made a point to wander back and forth calling, “Where are you?” for several minutes. I knew a limb would eventually poke out from their secret spot, and I would find them. When they started school, communication became even more important, and a few logistical rules were required: Remember to face me when you talk to me; speak slower so I can understand you; don’t cover your mouth with your hands; if I can’t see you, I can’t hear you. I know I sound like a broken record, but what choice do I have? Some days they remember, others they forget. They face me for one sentence but turn away for the next. It causes sadness and irritation on both sides. I wonder why they can’t consistently speak so I can understand them, and they get annoyed that their nagging mom can’t hear them. There are some tough moments, especially when they wave their hands at me in frustration and say, “Never mind.” That really brings me to a boil. The good news is, children can be very accepting. One day I asked my children if it bothered them to have a mom with hearing loss. They looked at me like they didn’t understand the question. It is all they have ever known.
Shari Eberts is a hearing health advocate, writer, and the founder of livingwithhearingloss.com, a blog and online community for people living with hearing loss and tinnitus. She serves on the board of trustees of Hearing Loss Association of America. Connect with Eberts on Facebook @livingwithhearingloss and Twitter @sharieberts.
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