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Family Fun in Manhattan

What Your Teen Really Needs From You

Where There’s a Will

Things to do and shows to see this month in the Big Apple.

Ten things your teen is still relying on you for, despite her newfound independence.

education 16 Full STEAM Ahead 20 Education Directory 28 Highlighted Programs

Having a plan in place will protect your children and prepare them for the future.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 5 Reasons It’s Okay to Be a Lazy Parent 12 A Healthy Obsession 42 What Your Teen Really Needs From You 44 Ready, Set, Sibling! 48 Professional Services 51 Party Central 52 Meet the Health Care Professional 53 Advertiser’s Index 54 Stuff We Like

14 Starry Slime

40 Are You Ready to Move?

30 Family Fun in Manhattan

46 Where There’s a Will

31 Family Activities Calendar

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JANUARY 2019 • Vol.10 • No.8

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New Year, New Resolutions

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EDITORIAL DIRECTOR: Katelin Walling ASSISTANT EDITORS: Anja Webb, Melissa Wickes DIRECTOR OF CONTENT: Deborah Skolnik

appy New Year! For many of us, January means turning over a new leaf (or at least trying!). We make resolutions we promise ourselves we will keep only to let our family take priority. It’s only natural; after all, you want to make the best decisions for your kids, from finding fun and exciting things to do with your children any day of the month to selecting the right camps, health care providers, schools, or after-school activities for your brood. We here at Nassau Parent are here to help find just what you’re looking for and make better decisions for your family! Ensuring our kids get a great education is always a priority, so we’re also here to tell you about a big trend in more and more schools: Art is being added to STEM studies. In “Full STEAM Ahead” by Madeleine Burry (p. 16), you’ll find six reasons schools are embracing art as part of science, technology, engineering, and math education. And turn to our Education Directory on p. 20 to find a school, academic enrichment program, or tutor for your child to kick the new semester off on a great start. If you’re expecting a second child, you’ll want to make sure your first-born is fully prepared. In “Ready, Set, Sibling!” (p. 44), Denise Porretto shares tips on everything, from sharing the news to post-birth bonding. Speaking of growing your family: The size of your home or where you live may soon become a hot-button topic, so check out “Are You Ready to Move?” by Lambeth Hochwald (p. 40). Are you the parent of a teen? Once upon a time, you were your teen’s social director, homework-helper, and more, but most of those roles have been phased out. While it may seem like your oh-so-grown-up child needs you less, she actually still needs a lot from you. Read Deborah Skolnik’s “What Your Teen Really Needs from You” (pg. 42) for 10 reasons you shouldn’t keep your distance. Go ahead, give your teen a hug—just maybe not in public. Another thing that should be a priority? Take time to establish a will (see p. 46 for willwriting advice). While no one wants to think about the unimaginable, having a plan in place will protect your children should something happen to you and your partner. From our family—me, Melissa, Anja, Alice, Whitney, and Debbie—to yours, we wish you all a happy, healthy New Year!

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Who: As You Wish What’s New: The location in Merrick, which is scheduled to open Jan. 5. Formerly based in Bellmore, the new venue in Merrick offers a larger party space with room for up to 50 children per party. The party packages offered for ages 4-14 include food, favors, and invitations. One of the most popular themes is spa, which offers manicures, pedicures, makeup application, and hairstyling for each guest. Other themes include Doll Spa Tea Party, Painting Party, Golden Ticket PJ (candy party in your PJs), and Slime Party. Want More Info: 59 Merrick Ave., Merrick; 516-590-7878; asyouwishparties.org

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here’s an abundance of resources—from books and magazines to Facebook and parent groups—to turn to when seeking advice on how to raise the smartest, highest-achieving, and most successful children. We all want what’s best for our kids, after all. But James Breakwell, professional comedy writer and selfproclaimed amateur father of four girls (and two pigs), suggests it’s simply a waste of time. “In the long run, we all work out to be average,” he says. “Your child would be better off if you just relax and do a little less for them, rather than stress yourself out and push them as hard as possible.” Breakwell, author of Bare Minimum Parenting: The Ultimate Guide to Not-Quite Ruining Your Child, shares advice that proves it’s okay to be a “lazy parent.” Say no to (parental) peer pressure. When the mother of a boy in your son’s Boy Scout troop makes comments about the KitKat you put in his lunch or your daughter’s field hockey coach asks why she’s not on a travel team yet (in fourth grade), it can be difficult to stick to your own parenting ways. But if every parent thinks they’re right about how to parent and you’re wrong, then everyone is wrong, according to Breakwell. “If someone tells you you’re a terrible parent, who cares,” he says. “They can’t stop you from giving your kid that candy bar. We’ve been raising kids for hundreds of thousands of years before Facebook and online forums. Don’t let parent-shaming control your decisions.” Show up sometimes, but not all the time. “Raise your kid to think they’re a member of the family, not the entire family,” Breakwell suggests. By dropping everything, leaving work, and traveling far and wide to go to every single one of your son’s lacrosse games, you’re teaching him that he’s the epicenter of the universe and he should only do things in search of your validation, not because he loves them. Instead, Breakwell suggests showing up when you can, and when you do, take him out for dinner after the game. “After all, your kids aren’t going to remember the games you weren’t at, but they will remember the one time you took them for pizza after,” he says. Speaking of sports, are you spending all of your time and money to fly around the country, pay tournament fees, and book hotels so your child can potentially get a scholarship to college and you can save money? Breakwell compares that to spending $1,000 at a claw machine for a $5 stuffed animal. “Why not take all of that money 10

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James Breakwell (middle), author of Bare Minimum Parenting: The Ultimage Guide to Not-Quite Ruining Your Child, with his family

you’re wasting and save it for college?” Breakwell suggests. Plus, it’s likely your kid won’t become a professional sports player. Convince them they had a great childhood. When parents post pictures on Facebook, Breakwell says they’re lying to their friends. “You post your best picture, I post my best picture, and we create an echo chamber of lying where everyone thinks the other is telling the truth,” Breakwell says. “Use this to your advantage.” Due to the strange phenomenon known as childhood amnesia, kids can only remember events that occurred before age 3 when they’re little, according to Popular Science. By the time they’re 7, these early memories are almost entirely gone and what they “remember” is a product of what you tell them and the photos they see. “If they don’t remember anyway, why are we stressing out?!” Breakwell asks. “Save the pictures that frame you in a good light and tell your kid she had a happy childhood, and, when she grows up, she won’t blame you for all of her problems.” Stop worrying about preschool (and middle school, high school, college…). “Overachieving parents say that all they care about is their child getting a good education and that education is all that matters. Honestly, I don’t think education matters all that much as long as your kid somehow gets one somewhere,” Breakwell says. “Nobody has secret math. Math at one school will be the same as it is at another school even if the other school has a swimming pool and a polo field.” If a parent is saying she wants her son to go to the best school, does this mean the school that will make him the happiest and feel the most fulfilled, or is it the one that will ensure he makes the most money? Instead of focusing on getting your kid into the school with the ‘best reputation,’ focus on helping your child make the most of his education. Gently shove your child out the door. The first benchmark of successful parenting is if you raised your child to ultimately support themselves, according to Breakwell. Now, no one is suggesting your 7-year-old live off of lemonade stand money. However, when the time is right, if your child doesn’t get a job, he will certainly never leave. While every parent ideally wants to encourage his child to follow her dreams of becoming a freelance traveling poet, money does ultimately matter. If she’s not making any, it’s coming from you. While you don’t have to explicitly discourage your child from choosing a “fun but impoverishing career,” it can’t hurt to not encourage her to choose a career that will lead to her living in your basement.

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My son is my best reason yet to learn to limit my OCD behaviors. By Christopher Dale

did not hit the genetic lottery. Depression, anxiety, and addiction run in my family, and in early adulthood I battled all three. Fortunately, a combination of psychiatry, medication, and Alcoholics Anonymous have made my 30s far better than my 20s. I got well—or at least well enough—just in time to salvage my marriage and become a father. Now, as my toddler marches steadily toward constant cognizance— into remembering and mimicking his parents’ mannerisms—I feel urgency to address another diagnosis, one less dangerous but nonetheless a source of angst and alienation. I want to overcome my obsessive-compulsive disorder—before it affects my son. At its root, OCD is a fear-based mental illness. It involves counterproductive efforts to maintain a sense of safety when feeling threatened or at risk. A telltale peculiarity is the actions taken to offset these uneasy feelings are completely unassociated with the perceived threats. For example, my OCD might compel me to mitigate fear of failing at work by adjusting a framed photo in the bedroom. Thus commences a cycle where, contrary to intentions, the safety-seeking actions actually lead to worsening anxiety. It’s the feeling of hopelessness attached to knowing that what you’re doing is patently illogical…and being incapable of doing anything about it. Though no specific gene has been pinpointed, research indicates OCD runs in families. Those with a parent or sibling with OCD have a higher risk of developing it. Experts also believe environmental factors can cause OCD tendencies to develop—a “monkey see, monkey do” effect. In other words, the more my son, Nicholas, sees my OCD-mandated movements, the more likely he is to develop his own. I got off lightly compared to many others with OCD, as my obsessive thoughts and routines aren’t extreme or dangerous. I’m compelled to rigidly arrange my shoes, and often fail to flick a light switch per my compulsion’s inexplicable ideal, leading to multiple repeats. I do this pinching thing with my hands (the pressure quells my OCD), and, stereotypically, I’m uneasy stepping on sidewalk cracks. I also fight the urge to grind my teeth—often unsuccessfully, considering my dental records. These bodily compulsions are particularly burdensome since, unlike shoes and light switches, I can’t just walk away from my teeth. Constant triggers require constant vigilance. And though it hasn’t impacted my career, relationships, or other big-ticket items, my OCD is still a significant source of alienation,

The author with his son, Nicholas

humiliation, and stress. Despite this, I’ve never hit an “immediate pain vs. long-term reward” ratio sufficient to commit myself to truly overcoming my OCD. Until now. Until Nicholas. If Nicholas develops OCD via overwhelming genetics, so be it. But if nurture plays a determining role, it’s my responsibility to prevent my son from following in my pavement crack-averse footsteps. From a parenting perspective, this dilemma’s simplicity is refreshing. Even at age 2, raising Nicholas presents a spectrum of gray areas. Is he eating enough? Learning enough? Interacting enough? Answers typically fall into the “probably,” “I think so,” or “I have no idea” columns. Clear-cut cases of yes and no are elusive. Not so with this issue. It’s a must-do. In spite—or perhaps because—of this, the execution is exceptionally intimidating. So are the stakes: There is absolutely nothing in which I am more invested than my only child. For his sake, I simply cannot fail at this, and that fact is overwhelming. Sometimes I watch him at play—a carefree mind concocting universes where roaring dinosaurs and anthropomorphized trains coexist—and can’t imagine burdening that innocence with my compulsions. That my failing is even a possibility brings deep shame, and I feel guilty even though the jury is still out. The disorder’s volatility adds even more pressure. My OCD is relatively minor, but those who are not as lucky as I am can be hindered or even debilitated by it. What if Nicholas not only gets it from me, but gets it worse than me? It is with this tenuous poker hand—these imperfect cards, these unknowable variables and outcomes—that I simply have to go all in. I do this by default, as neither standing pat nor folding are viable options. My path to success is straight but uphill: Cognitive behavioral therapy is the most proven way to overcome mild-to-moderate OCD such as mine. The specific therapy is astoundingly simple, yet exceedingly difficult: exposure and response prevention, which is clinical speak for facing my triggers without acting on my fear-based physical impulses. Apparently, there’s a catch phrase to this: “Better sane than safe.” The fact that such a phrase exists is, well, kind of insane. Nevertheless, here we go. The shoe rack is about to get less tidy, the light fixtures less flickered, my teeth less clenched (and hopefully less sore). Wish me luck. It’ll be a tough road. Thankfully my son—my ultimate motivator—is riding shotgun.

Christopher Dale is a freelance writer and public relations executive who resides in Little Falls, NJ. His work has appeared in a variety of outlets, including NY Daily News, Newsday, The Daily Beast, and Parents.com. Follow him on Twitter at @ChrisDaleWriter.

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Experiment with chemistry, astronomy, and art with this out-of-this-world craft! Slime is huge these days—what kid doesn’t have a can full of this stuff to squish, pull, and shape? Your kids may already have a batch slime or two, but do they have one with a galactic (and educational) twist? Explore the patterns and colors of the Milky Way while spending a little quality time crafting. Use this project to segway the conversation into a STEM (or STEAM) learning opportunity to think creatively about outer space or how something sticky like glue can produce something smooth like slime. You’ll Need 2 Elmer’s® Washable Clear School Glue, 5 oz. 1 Creatology™ Jumbo Wood Craft Sticks 1 Glitter Shakers By Creatology®

1 Creatology™ Glitter, 3 oz. 2 Elmer’s® Washable School Glue, 4 oz. Wilton® Gel Icing Colors, 12 Pieces

Instructions Project Notes: All types of Elmer’s® glue work with this recipe; however, this project uses two 5 fl. oz. bottles of clear glue and two 4 fl. oz. bottles of white glue to make Starry Slime as shown. Be careful when children are crafting with sequins, as the product does have a choke hazard warning on the label. Protect your work surface with wax (or palette) paper and wear an apron (or other protective garment) to protect clothing, as the food coloring may stain. 1. First, find your favorite glue slime recipe [visit michaels.com for a few options]. For the Starry Slime, add color to each slime according to your recipe’s instructions. 2. This slime has four colored stripes: black star slime, pink slime, teal slime, and crystal slime. To make black star slime, use one 5 fl. oz. bottle of clear glue. To get the color shown, add black food coloring and a very small quantity of royal blue food coloring, according to your recipe’s instructions. (Tip: Dip a craft stick into the food-coloring container, then mix the color into the glue, stirring thoroughly until it’s completely blended.

Always use a new, clean craft stick when dipping into your food coloring to avoid cross-contamination.) 3. Flatten out your slime on a piece of wax (or palette) paper and sprinkle on fine glitter in silver, pink, purple, peacock blue, and dark blue. Fold the slime’s edges in toward the center to blend the glitters into the slime. Continue until they are evenly distributed throughout the slime. Repeat to mix tiny silver stars into the slime. 4. T o make crystal slime, make your favorite 5 oz. clear glue recipe. Repeat Step 3 to blend white iridescent glitter into the slime. Continue until it is evenly distributed throughout the slime. 5. To make pink slime, use a recipe that calls for a 4 fl. oz. bottle of white glue. To get the color shown add pink food coloring and a tiny quantity of violet food coloring, according to your recipe’s directions. 6. To make teal slime, use a recipe that calls for a 4 fl. oz. bottle of white glue. To get the color shown add teal food coloring according to your recipe’s instructions. 7. Form each slime into a long strip and lay each one next to the other on your non-stick surface. Now, fold and twist the slimes together until you have blended them just the way you like. 8. Store your slime in an airtight, sealable container (or re-sealable plastic bag).

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How the arts play an important role in your child’s science, technology, engineering, and math education By Madeleine Burry

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’ve always loved both science and art,” says Liz Heinecke, author of several STEAM project books for children, including STEAM Lab for Kids: 52 Creative Hands-On Projects for Exploring Science, Technology, Engineering, Art, and Math. If you think about it, she says, science and art are inseparable. But that’s not always how educators and learning experts have approached the two disciplines. Nowadays, STEAM is a common phrase. The acronym, as Heinecke’s book title suggests, stands for science, technology, engineering, art, and math. Rewind just a few years, though, and the buzzed-about term was STEM—science, technology, engineering, and math, without the arts included. And earlier still, elementary, middle, and high schools didn’t devote much time to engineering and technology, and math and science were typically taught in different classrooms, without much exploration of the interactions between the two topics. We asked experts to explain the evolution, and why it makes sense from an educational perspective.

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STEM was first mentioned in the 1990s, says Jackie Speake, Ed.D., STEM education consultant and author of Designing Meaningful STEM Lessons. The concept “spread like wildfire through the educational landscape,” she says. Driving STEM’s popularity were concerns that American children lack the skills required for a 21st-century workforce, from problem solving to a strong backbone of knowledge. That’s backed up by data: American students “rank around the middle of the pack” in international math and science assessments, Pew Research notes. With STEM, the focus is not primarily on knowledge—for instance, how accurately students can recite times tables or elements in the periodic table—but on the application of information, and growing problem-solving, observational, and exploratory skills. And rather than treating the four pillars as separate and distinct from each other, STEM education focuses on how they’re connected and inform each other.

So, what about that “A”? Artist and author John Maeda, former president of Rhode Island School of Art and Design, was the first champion of adding the arts to STEM and growing the acronym to STEAM. “There is great power in these fields [design and technology] taken separately, and even more when they are put together,” he wrote in a 2013 op-ed for Seattle Times. But, he went on to note, the key is to develop creative, critical-thinking skills in kindergarten through 12th-grade schools.

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Why add the arts to STEM? For one thing, the arts make for an inviting, easy access point to STEM topics. “Art is a great on-ramp for a lot of kids, to get them doing science, technology, engineering, and math experiments in a way that is entertaining and approachable,” Heinecke says. And that’s just one reason why it’s smart to embrace the arts within STEM. These are some others: The arts are already a vital part of science, technology, engineering, and math. No need to shoehorn in the arts when it comes to learning—or teaching—science, technology, engineering, and math. “Art and design have played a prominent role in STEM, whether it’s pointed out to people or not,” Heinecke notes. Speake agrees. “STEM lessons naturally involve art (for example, product design), language arts (communication), and social studies and history (setting the context for engineering challenges),” she says. Here’s where a schism occurs, however, between STEAM and STEM proponents: “I’m not necessarily supportive of additional disciplines as separate entities within STEM,” Speake says. This isn’t due to a lack of appreciation for the arts. “STEM projects do not deliberately exclude the arts or any other subject,” she says, noting that they’re included as needed. She—and other educators and experts—have concerns that giving the arts equal weight dilutes the focus on the core STEM disciplines. STEAM advocates, on the other hand, see art’s presence as just surfacing a discipline that was already involved and integral to learning STEM topics. Arts make STEM topics more engaging—even to kids who don’t think they like science or math. Does your child say, “I hate science” or “I’m just not good at math”? These phrases can start early but including the arts in learning can be transformative for some kids. It’s easy to find memorizing a long litany of facts and formulas unappealing, but Heinecke points out math is also a language that helps us describe the universe. If we can get kids to see math as art and beauty and nature, that changes the way they think about the world and the way they approach subjects in school,” Heinecke says. Doing hands-on projects and experiments that involve the arts solidifies a child’s understanding of concepts. Take tessellations— they’re a pattern of repeated shapes without any gaps. Think: the tiles on your kitchen backsplash or bathroom walls. Explain the concept and it’s possible kids will follow, but also possible they’ll be intimidated by the long word or struggle to find the relevance. A better option? Have kids create tessellations of their own, Heinecke suggests. This is a project in one of her books, done using candy wrappers or dried pasta as the pattern-making device. By creating tessellations, kids see the concept in action and may be inspired to seek out other tessellations in nature (the design on the continued on next page ››

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back of a turtle’s shell, for instance). Plus, the creation process is most likely more memorable than a lecture or slides. STEAM connects your child’s interests to the real world. Watch any popular cooking show (say, The Great British Baking Show, Top Chef, or MasterChef Junior) and you and your kids will see science and art, and possibly engineering and technology, in action, Heinecke points out. There’s the wizardry of sous vide cooking, the science to temper chocolate, architectural decorations, and so on. “Kids connect best with things when they can touch, see, or understand how to use it everyday life,” Heinecke says. “One great thing about adding the arts is that it’s just another way for kids to connect their interests in the real world to the STEM disciplines.” The arts show children how to be creative problem-solvers, and the value of mistakes. Amazing engineers aren’t good at their jobs because of their fast, mental arithmetic or equation-solving abilities. Those are important skills, but it’s creative approaches to problem solving that truly make the difference between a flip phone and an iPhone. “People come from all around the world to be educated in the United States because kids here learn to be creative. A big part of that is art,” Heinecke says. “Art forces you to be creative and brings you out of your shell.” And, art gives kids a place to make interesting mistakes and challenge themselves. “Our kids don’t have enough space to be creative,” she says. “Art gives kids an arena where there isn’t always a right answer.”

Art reduces STEM’s intimidation factor—and helps raise informed children. In day-to-day life as grown-ups, even if we work in fields and industries far removed from STEM, we need to have a basic understanding of the topics involved. “Not every kid has to be a scientist or engineer, but the more you embrace the STEM disciplines, the better citizen of the world you’ll be,” Heinecke says. “The more well-informed people are as children, the more they’ll grow up to be well-informed adults.”

How Parents Can Encourage STEAM Learning

Avoid any kids’ play or building kits that do not encourage creative, independent thinking, Speake advises. “It is not STEM (or STEAM) if there is little creativity in the solving of problems,” Speake says. There’s little value to kits where each child builds the same projects, without options for individualization and exploration, she says. Heinecke’s advice is simple: “Throw some math tools in with your kids’ art supplies.” Rulers, protractors, and compasses are all fair game. And highlight the moments when disciplines overlap, Heinecke says. As your child learns about patterns and shapes, let her know this is geometry, a type of math. Ultimately, Heinecke says, a big goal is to make kids comfortable and familiar with STEM before they hit middle school. And inclusion of the arts can help, she says. “The idea is really to get kids engaged—and keep them engaged.” Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents.com, Scholastic, and About.com. Burry lives in Brooklyn with her husband and their cat. You can follow her on Twitter @lovelanewest.

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LIU Post’s Center for Gifted Youth announces its 38th annual fall and spring program for gifted children. The spring program runs on Saturdays from February 2nd to April 27th. The program is open to gifted children entering grades K-8 in September 2018. The program expands students’ knowledge, develops creative and critical thinking skills, and offers children the opportunity to learn in an exciting and accepting environment.

For information call 516-299-2160 liu.edu/post/giftedyouth Now find us on Facebook

Admission is highly selective and enrollment is limited.

LIU Post • College of Education, Information and Technology • 720 Northern Blvd. • Brookville, NY 11548-1300 liu.edu/post/giftedyouth • Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, Director

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Holy Family School

Our Lady of Lourdes

Winston Preparatory School

30 Deforest Road, Dix Hills 212-719-5598 x2213 winstonprep.edu liadmissions@winstonprep.edu Winston Preparatory School is a highly individualized and responsive setting for students in grades third through 12th with learning differences. Our unique model of education for the individual provides intense skill remediation while encouraging students to build independence, resilience, responsibility, self-awareness, and self-advocacy.

PUBLIC SCHOOLS Long Island High School for the Arts

239 Cold Spring Road, Syosset 516-622-5678 nassauboces.org/lihsa The Long Island High School for the Arts (LIHSA) offers a free, public, half-day high school program (grades ninth to 12th) for talented young artists who are passionately exploring the world of dance, drama, filmmaking, instrumental and vocal music, theater technology, musical theater, and visual arts.

Special Needs

The Waldorf School of Garden City

225 Cambridge Ave., Garden City 516-742-3434 waldorfgarden.org The Waldorf School of Garden City, accredited by NYSAIS and AWSNA, educates nursery through 12th grade children to meet the world with purpose, gratitude, and respect. Our curriculum awakens students to the experience of knowledge, strengthening their sense of moral responsibility, and empowering them to act with courage and conviction.

Dr. Steve Imber, Psychoeducational Consultants

Serving Nassau and Suffolk counties as well as the ﬁve boroughs of NYC 61-43 186th St., Fresh Meadows 516-273-1961 Sprout Building 166 Valley St., Providence, RI 401-421-4004 dr-imber.com scimber1@aol.com Dr. Imber has more than 40 years of experience consulting, evaluating, and advocating for children,

adolescents, and adults with various disabilities including autism (e.g. Asperger’s syndrome), attention deficit disorders, intellectual disabilities, emotional and behavioral disorders, and learning disabilities.

The Hagedorn Little Village School, Jack Joel Center for Special Children

750 Hicksville Road, Seaford 516-520-6000 littlevillage.org jon.feingold@littlevillage.org The Hagedorn Little Village School is a nonprofit school highly regarded for providing outstanding educational and therapeutic services for children with a wide range of developmental disabilities. HLVS provides year-round programs and services that include diagnostic evaluations and treatment, early intervention, a preschool, an elementary school, SEIT, and related services.

Huntington Learning Centers

656 Sunrise Highway, Baldwin 516-867-4041 607 E. Main St., Bay Shore 631-968-5100 79-81 Westbury Ave., Carle Place 516-747-5600 Elwood Shopping Center 1928B Jericho Turnpike, East Northport 631-462-8900 Phillips Plaza 639 Sunrise Highway, Lynbrook 516-568-1900 1506 Northern Blvd., Manhasset 516-365-4455 S. Gate Shopping Center 49-34 Merrick Road, Massapequa Park 516-799-9500 Gateway Plaza 499-5 Sunrise Highway, Patchogue 631-289-4900 443 South Oyster Bay Road, Suite B, 2nd floor Plainview 516-681-0400

Smithtown Shopping Center 8 Miller Place, Smithtown 631-360-0422 huntingtonhelps.com Huntington Learning Center is the premier tutoring and test prep provider for kindergarten students through 12th grade. Founded in 1977, its mission is to give every student the best education possible. The company prides itself on personalized attention and proven results with individualized programs taught by certified teachers at accredited centers.

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For 90 years St. Christopher School has been providing quality Catholic education to young people. Full Day Programs Available for 3 & 4 Year Olds! Half Day can Still be an Option! Principal: Mrs. Anne Lederer

• Infant, Toddler, Preschool & Pre-K Available • Open 7:30 am – 6:00 pm, Mon – Fri, Year Round • Flexible Scheduling • Loving & Experienced Teachers • Bright, Cheerful, Spacious Classrooms • Outdoor Playground • Licensed by NYS Office of Children & Family Services • Excellent Kindergarten Readiness Prep

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Trinity Episcopal Church Roslyn Childcare Center – Where Education is Child’s Play 1579 Northern Blvd. Bldg.1 Roslyn, New York 11576 | 516-626-0293 | trinitychild.org

Pre-K through Grade 8 • After School Activities • Before & After Care Open Registration | Call any time for a tour

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OPEN HOUSE: January 10th & 29th at 9:15 AM • January 23rd at 6:30 PM Please contact the admissions office at 631-779-2400 or liadmissions@winstonprep.edu to register

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Good Shepherd Lutheran School 99 Central Park Rd Plainview, NY 11803 (516) 349-1966

gsplainview.org Email: contact@gsplainview.org

Our Lady of Mercy 520 South Oyster Bay Road Hicksville, NY 11801

1 Higbie Drive, Smithtown 631-265-3334 learnwithscs.org Smithtown Christian School’s art department received first place in the Congressional Art Competition, as well as the Heckscher Museum Art Award. Our music department participated in adjudicated festivals on both the state and national level. The Arts at Smithtown Christian School stand above the rest!

Sylvan Learning Centers of Mineola and Huntington

393 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola 516-743-9943 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 sylvanlearning.com; sylvanlearning@optonline.net Sylvan’s Personalized Tutoring programs in reading, writing, mathematics, study skills, and SAT/ACT Prep will improve your child’s skills and boost their confidence. We use assessments, personal learning plans, and certified teachers to ensure the high level of quality instruction and support that Sylvan prides itself on.

Village East Gifted - Enrichment Center for the Gifted Learner

Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com; info@villageeastgifted.com Why do so many gifted children dislike writing? Our weekly writing workshops can change their minds. We replace pencils and paper with creativity, etymology, and hands-on grammar activities. Perfection of the written (and spoken) word is not a process here... improvement is noticed after one class. Ages 6-15. Open seven days.

The Waldorf School of Garden City

225 Cambridge Ave., Garden City 516-742-3434 waldorfgarden.org Located in Southwest New Hampshire, this educational facility of The Waldorf School of Garden City, is attended by students in grades third to 12th grade yearly. These weeklong programs dovetail their Waldorf Education with Camp Glen Brook’s unique offerings.

Winston Preparatory School

30 Deforest Road, Dix Hills 212-719-5598 x2213 winstonprep.edu; liadmissions@winstonprep.edu Winston Prep is a highly individualized and responsive setting for students with learning differences. Our unique model of education for the individual provides intense skill remediation while encouraging students to build independence, resilience, responsibility, self-awareness, and self-advocacy. Visit winstonprep.edu/apply now to sign up for an open house. NOURISHING HEARTS, MINDS AND SOULS. | Nursery – 8th Grade · After Care available

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Sunday, January 27, 2019 11:45-2:00 PM Wednesday, January 30, 2019 9:30 - 10:30 and 1:15 - 2:00 Additional Tours- Call 516-433-7040

OUR LADY OF LOURDES

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Holy Child Academy

Nurturing the Spirit, Challenging the Mind A premier, independent Catholic School for children of all faiths – Toddler through 8th Grade.

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Admissions Open House Sunday, January 27th 12-2pm

Bring the family, enjoy a winter themed art project, hot cocoa & cookies, a STEAM activity and music by our hand bell and vocal choirs. Please email RSVP to admissions@hcali.org

25 Store Hill Road, Old Westbury, NY 11568 516-626-9300 www.holychildacademy.org

Bar Bat Mitzvah

Joan and Arnold Saltzman Community Services Center Literacy instruction programs for children and youth offer: • Individual or small-group classes in a relaxed and enjoyable atmosphere • Classes taught by New York state-certified teachers • Personalized consultations that offer parents straightforward advice

about how to support their child’s literacy growth • Literacy instruction that builds on each learner’s strengths to build

confidence and improve reading and writing proficiency

SPRING CLASSES NOW FORMING For more information, including registration and summer program options, visit hofstra.edu/rwlclinic or call 516-463-5805.

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Families will love the witty lyrics and off-the-wall humor of the Okee Dokee Brothers.

Singin’ in a Winterland

Courtesy 2019 Progressive® Insurance New York Boat Show®

The Okee Dokee Brothers are coming to Symphony Space for A ‘Winterland’ Concert featuring music from their latest album. Justin Lansing and Joe Mailander have been exploring the outdoors together since they were kids. Now they’re a Grammy Awardwinning folk-and-roots music duo that puts the natural world at the heart of their Americana music. Performing songs from their new album Winterland, the Okee Dokee Brothers make room for kids to dance, for parents to share stories, and for everyone to gain respect for nature, each other, and the world in which we live. Saturday, Jan. 5, 11am. Ages: 2 and older. $14-$17. Symphony Space, 2537 Broadway, Upper West Side. symphonyspace.org.

Boat-lovers big and small can check out some impressive vessels up close.

Boats, Boats, Everywhere!

The 2019 Progressive® Insurance New York Boat Show® docks at the Javits Center this month, bringing lifelong boaters and enthusiastic dreamers the latest in luxury motor yachts, sport fishers, performance boats, watersport boats, and thousands of new marine technologies and accessories. A New York tradition since 1905, the five-day event delivers a shopping paradise for boaters with the latest in boating innovations, plus interactive boating workshops and fun for the whole family. Jan. 23-27, Wednesday-Friday, 12-9pm; Saturday, 10am-9pm; Sunday, 10am-6pm. Age: All. $16; free for children 12 and younger. Jacob Javits Center, 655 W. 34th St., Chelsea. nyboatshow.com.

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The Bryant Park ice-skating rink is the only free rink in Manhattan.

Bank of America Winter Village at Bryant Park

In its 17th season, the iconic holiday experience features the beloved ice-skating rink (the only free admission skating rink in NYC), more than 170 holiday shop vendors curated by Urbanspace (through Jan. 2), and the debut of The Lodge, an après skate-style escape from the cold anchored by a festive cocktail bar and a luxury Champagne Bollinger bar, along with 12 new and classic restaurant concepts. Visit it: 40th Street, between Fifth and Sixth avenues, Midtown; 212768-4242; bryantpark.org Can’t-miss event: Read-to-Skate Storytime: Jan. 12-Feb. 23, Saturdays, 12-1pm Directions: Approximately a 1-hour drive or a 50-minute LIRR and subway ride from Garden City

Courtesy Big Apple Circus

Alex Johnson

By Whitney C. Harris

The Big Apple Circus is back for its 41st season at Lincoln Center.

Lincoln Center

Whether you love dance, music, film, or theater, there’s always something spectacular to be seen at Lincoln Center, especially in the wintertime. LC Kids has an always-evolving smorgasboard of arts and culture for children, as does CMS Kids (Chamber Music Society of Lincoln Center). Plus, it’s always fun to let the littles run around the adjacent plazas and burn some energy before and after showtime! Visit it: 10 Lincoln Center Plaza, Upper West Side; 212-257-2330; bryantpark.org Can’t-miss event: The Big Apple Circus: through Jan. 27, see website for schedule Directions: Approximately a 1-hour drive or a 50-minute LIRR and subway ride from Garden City

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

‘Christmas Spectacular’ Starring the Radio City Rockettes

WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 1, 2:30pm; 5:30pm; 8pm WHERE: Radio City Music Hall, 1260 Sixth Ave., Midtown AGES: All WHAT: The 90-minute show features more than 140 performers, an original musical score, and combines singing, dancing, and humor with traditional scenes. WHY WE LOVE IT: The holidays would not the same without the Radio City Rockettes! WANT TO GO? $56 and up. 212-465-6741. radiocity.com.

Sensory Sensitive Sundays

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 6, 9-11am WHERE: Chuck E. Cheese’s, 162 Fulton Ave., Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: The facility reduces the lighting and noise specifically for children with autism and other special needs, and the time includes food, games, and a trained staff. WHY WE LOVE IT: An inclusive opportunity for all children to enjoy Chuck E. Cheese! WANT TO GO? Cost varies. 516-483-3166. Chuckecheese.com.

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‘PBS Kids Live! Really BIG tiny Adventure’ Presented by Zappos Adaptive WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 12, 2pm and 6pm WHERE: The Space at Westbury, 250 Post Ave., Westbury

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AGES: All WHAT: Dot, Dee, and Del are looking forward to crossing their backyard to attend a friend’s birthday party. However it becomes an unexpected adventure when the group gets shrunk to the size of grasshoppers. WHY WE LOVE IT: Meet all your favorite characters from Arthur, Nature Cat, Ready Jet Go!, Princess Presto, and Super WHY! WANT TO GO? $29 and up. 516-283-5566. thespaceatwestbury.com.

Disney On Ice Presents ‘Frozen’

WHEN: Jan. 10-13, see website for show times WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: Discover the full story of Disney’s Frozen like never before with dazzling ice skating, special effects, and unforgettable music that will magically transport you to wintry Arendelle. WHY WE LOVE IT: Anna and Elsa fans will flip to see them skating their hearts out! WANT TO GO? $30 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

Chinese Artists in America! Opening Reception FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 13, 4-7pm WHERE: Gold Coast Arts Center, 113 Middle Neck Road, Great Neck AGES: All WHAT: These artists created a new visual language that embodies aspects of traditional Chinese art while expressing personal beliefs, national pride, and international awareness.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This Opening Reception will include dragon dancers, Chinese string instruments, and, of course, the wonderful Exhibition. WANT TO GO? 516-829-2570. goldcoastarts.org.

New York Islanders vs. New Jersey Devils

WHEN: Thursday, Jan. 17, 7pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: Prepare for a devilish time as the New York Islanders take on the New Jersey Devils! WHY WE LOVE IT: So hard to choose sides, but so much fun! WANT TO GO? $21 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

100 Years at A Gold Coast Mansion

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 20, 1pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Make a mask, build a puppet, and eat birthday cake! WHY WE LOVE IT: Celebrate the 100th birthday of the Nassau County Museum of Art! WANT TO GO? $15 materials fee with admission: $12; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12; $2 weekend parking fee. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

The Whiffenpoofs

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 27, 3pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: All WHAT: Every year, the most talented senior Yale students are selected to be in the Whiffenpoofs, the world’s oldest and best known collegiate a cappella group. WHY WE LOVE IT: Ah! The sound of harmonious voices without music—there’s nothing like it! WANT TO GO? $20; $17 children younger than 17. 516-767-1384. Landmarkonmainstreet.org.

Laurie Berkner LIVE! The Greatest Hits Solo Tour

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 27, 11am and 3pm WHERE: The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Best-selling, award-winning children’s musician Laurie Berkner’s music speaks to kids without talking down to them, charming youngsters without boring grown-ups. WHY WE LOVE IT: Laurie Berkner is the uncrowned queen of children’s music and the power behind the progressive ”kindie rock” movement. WANT TO GO? $29.50. 631-673-7300. paramountny.com/shows/laurie-berkner-live.

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Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. FIRST Robotics Competition Kickoff FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 5, 8:30am WHERE: LIU Post Tilles Center, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Teams from all over Long Island and a few from around the world will meet to receive the 2019 season’s robotics challenge. WANT TO GO? 631-627-8400. sbpli-lifirst.org.

Build an Easel FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 5, 9am-12pm WHERE: Home Depot, 600 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 5-12 WHAT: You and your child can build an easel with a hands-on workshop. WANT TO GO? 516-488-8500. Homedepot.com.

The Karpenteers in Concert FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 27, 2pm WHERE: Glen Cove Library, 4 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Cove AGES: All WHAT: Join in for a delightful time of music and singing with the group the Karpenteers. WANT TO GO? 516-676-2130. Glencovelibrary.org.

The Great Art Caper FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 29, 11am-3pm WHERE: Hofstra University Museum, 112 Hofstra University, Hempstead AGES: 5-12, adult WHAT: Children become detectives and have fun while discovering more about the outdoor sculpture collection. WANT TO GO? 516-463-5672. hofstra.edu/museum.

Getting Ready to Babysit FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Jan. 31, 4pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Develop the skills necessary to be a sitter, including child safety, developmental stages of children, and how to plan activities that are age appropriate. Hands-on activities and course certification are included. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info. ››

‘Mary Poppins’

WHEN: Jan. 12-27, Saturdays and MLK Day, 11am; Sundays, 12pm WHERE: The Showplace at Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Everyone’s favorite practically perfect nanny takes the stage in this “supercalifragilisticexpialidocious” musical adventure! Audience members can meet the characters after each show. WHY WE LOVE IT: It gives us another chance to memorize “Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious!” WANT TO GO? $12. 516-599-6870. plazatheatrical.com.

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1-2-3 Full STEAM Ahead for Kids age 3 to 5 FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 23, 1pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Your child will explore, experiment, create, build, and learn to think critically through trial and error. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Chess Workshop FREE

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WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 26, 11:15am WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join a Long Island Chess Nuts instructor for instruction and games! WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

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Sunday Science: Get to Know H20!

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 7, 9:30-11am WHERE: Center for Science Teaching and Learning at Tanglewood Preserve, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Each week brings offers new themes and activities. WANT TO GO? $8. 516-764-0045. cstl.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 27, 2-4pm WHERE: The Center for Science Teaching and Learning, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: 5-12 WHAT: This workshop will explore the importance and power of water! WANT TO GO? $14. 516-764-0045. cstl.org.

Financial Planning Series: 529 College Savings Program

Fortnite Party for Teens FREE

WHEN: Through Jan. 8: Tuesdays, 7:30pm WHERE: Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Drive, East Hills AGES: Adult WHAT: Learn how to maintain financial security while balancing the responsibilities of raising children and caring for aging parents. WANT TO GO? $10. 516-484-1545. sjjcc.org/parenting.

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 28, 7pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Floss, do the Robot, or try your best Orange Justice as we make supply drops and drink slurp juice! Enjoy games, crafts and snacks. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

I Didn’t Know That! by Johnny Saldana, Rachael Winfree, Joyce C. Selber, and Louis Moloney

Coding for Tweens: Exploring Python FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 12, 11:30am and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3 and older WHAT: The GUINNESS BOOK OF WORLD RECORDS is now featured in a creative and exciting musical comedy for children. WANT TO GO? $3 with museum admission: $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Sunday Science: Geology Rocks!

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 13, 2-4pm WHERE: The Center for Science Teaching and Learning, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about what lies under the Earth’s surface that makes it quake! WANT TO GO? $14. 516-764-0045. cstl.org.

Green Teens: Surrounded by STEM

WHEN: Jan. 12-13, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Join the Green Teens for a weekend filled with hands-on activities and demonstrations by STEM professionals. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Mommy Mingle

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 16, 10:15am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: Newborn to 2, adult WHAT: Join in conversation and socialize while children play in the TotSpot. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org. 34

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WHEN: Monday, Jan. 28, 7pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Explore how to develop games like Hangman, create a web app, and other cool techniques using Python. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

Video Game Tournament FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Jan. 31, 6:30pm WHERE: Glen Cove Library, 4 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Cove AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens will compete in a video game tournament for a $25 gift card to GameStop. WANT TO GO? 516-676-2130. glencovelibrary.org.

Hidden in Sight: Photographing Incarceration

WHEN: Through March 10: Tuesday-Friday, 11am-4pm; Saturday-Sunday, 12-4pm WHERE: Hofstra University Museum, 112 Hofstra University, Hempstead AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This exhibition features photographs spanning more than 50 years by three artists, highlighting critical issues within the prison system in America. WANT TO GO? Call for cost. 516-463-5672. hofstra.edu/museum.

New Traveling Exhibit- Sonic Sensation

WHEN: Jan. 26-May 5, Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Visitors will experience the sonic world through 14 interactive learning stations to discover key listening skills. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

ANIMAL LOVERS

LITTLE FOODIES

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 5, 2-4pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Celebrate National Bird Day by creating your very own winter bird feeder to bring home. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

WHEN: Friday, Jan. 11, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Little chefs use real cooking tools (with some help from adults) as we make easy, yummy, kid-friendly snacks from start to finish. WANT TO GO? $3 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

For the Birds

Kids in the Kitchen

Curators Gallery Talk

Fine Wine & Food Festival

Raptors of the Night

Cooking Demo and Tasting: Pollo a la Chilindron: Chicken Stew FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 5, 3pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The only thing more fun than a show featuring animals is the opportunity to join a guided tour of the exhibition. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12; $2 weekend parking fee. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org. WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 5, 2-4pm WHERE: The Center for Science Teaching and Learning, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn owl about these magnificent nocturnal creatures! WANT TO GO? $14. 5167640045. cstl.org.

Tales to Tails FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 8, 4pm WHERE: Rockville Centre Library, 221 N. Village Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Kids read to specially trained dogs, who act as non-judgmental reading partners WANT TO GO? 516-766-6257. Rvclibrary.org.

Conservation Kids: Protecting Predators!

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 19, 2-4pm WHERE: The Center for Science Teaching and Learning, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: 5-12 WHAT: In this program, we will learn about predator animals and how we can help conserve them! WANT TO GO? $14. 516-764-0045. cstl.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 19, 11:30am and 4pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Sample the region’s best wines, taste the local cuisine, shop down the merchants row, or check out a variety of games and entertainment! WANT TO GO? $49 advance, $65 day of. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com. WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 19, 3pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Make sautéed chicken with roasted red peppers, tomatoes, onions, Serrano ham, and black and white olives- easy, delicious, and the perfect comfort food for the winter months. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Bacon and Cheddar Pinwheels FREE

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 21, 2pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Make this great appetizer for your Super Bowl party. Bring your rolling pin! WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Italian Cuisine: Beyond Spaghetti and Meatballs FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 30, 7pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Elena Florenzano will teach fun facts about spaghetti, and a regional spaghetti recipe will be presented and shared. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info. ››

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Sock Puppet Workshop for Kids in Grades K-3 FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Jan. 17, 5pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 5-12 WHAT: This workshop is all about socks! You’ll make your very own sock friend, make it come alive, and of course take it home to keep. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

CRAFTY KIDS

Mannequins Dress Forms Jewelry Holder

WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 1, 6pm WHERE: IKEA Long Island, 1100 Broadway Mall, Hicksville AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Whether arts and crafts or tasty treat decorating, you can be sure these kids activities are fun! WANT TO GO? 888-888-4532. Ikea.com.

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 27, 3pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Trudy Borenstein-Sugiura is creating portraits out of the important documents of her subject’s lives. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12; $2 weekend parking fee. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

Teddy Bear Workshop FREE

Little Hands Art FREE

Family Maker Space

‘Owl’ Be Your Friend!

Traveling Exhibit: TINKERTOY: Build Your Imagination

Crochet Club for Kids FREE

First Tuesdays FREE

WHEN: Friday, Jan. 4, 4pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children will stuff their own Teddy Bear! WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org. WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 6, 10am-12pm WHERE: The Center for Science Teaching and Learning, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Design, build, and test your own contraption that completes a task! WANT TO GO? $9. 516-764-0045. cstl.org. WHEN: Through Jan. 6: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Visitors can explore a walk-in size replica of the canister, create their own designs, take part in a scavenger hunt, and more. WANT TO GO? $13; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

All Aboard! FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 26, 2pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Linda Reilly will help you make a Dress Form jewelry holder to hang your favorite necklaces or bracelets. Please bring a glue gun. WANT TO GO? $12. 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Trudy Borenstein-Sugiura: Artist in the Gallery

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 30, 4pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Create art for little hands and read a book inspired by art. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info. WHEN: Jan. 2-31, Tuesday-Friday, 2:30-4pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Create your own feathered owl friend using a Styrofoam cup! WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org. WHEN: Jan. 8-Feb. 12, Tuesdays, 6:30pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Learn basic crochet stitches and techniques. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Crafts For Kids FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 8, 4:30pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Dress in your “choo-choo” best, play with trains, and make a craft! WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

WHEN: Through March 31: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Lakeshore Learning Store, 2079 Hillside Ave., New Hyde Park AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Kids will have a ball making exciting, educational crafts. WANT TO GO? 516-616-9360. lakeshorelearning.com.

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Made with Love FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Jan. 10, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Hear stories, followed by a take-home, book-inspired craft. WANT TO GO? $3 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org. 36

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WHEN: Jan. 2-Dec. 18, Wednesdays, 11:30am WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Made with Love knitting and crocheting group welcomes all to their afternoon group. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

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MUSICIANS John Oates with The Good Road Band

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 5, 8pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: John Oates is one half of Hall & Oates, the best-selling duo of all time, as well as an accomplished solo artist. WANT TO GO? $42 and up. 516-767-1384. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

Aaron Neville Duo

WHEN: Friday, Jan. 11, 8pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Enjoy a smaller, more intimate show that features Neville and keyboard player, Michael Goods. WANT TO GO? $55. 516-767-1384. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

Music at the Mansion: The World Trad Orchestra

WHEN: Friday, Jan. 18, 7pm WHERE: Planting Fields Arboretum State Park, 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: The World Trad Orchestra brings together four of the most inspired, inventive jazz musicians on the East Coast. WANT TO GO? $40. 516-922-8678. plantingfields.org.

An Evening of Vintage Rock Music with the Precisions FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 19, 7:30pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 13 and older WHAT: The Precisions went from performing as young, urban balladeers from Brooklyn to a contract with a major record label. In 1962, The Precisions hit the national record charts. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

Songs of Freedom

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 21, 11:30am and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Sing freedom and protest songs like “We Shall Overcome,” “If I Had a Hammer,” and “Marchin’ Down to Selma.” Clap and movie to the stories the songs tell. WANT TO GO? $9 with museum admission: $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

HOLIDAY FUN Bayville Winter Wonderland

WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 1, see website WHERE: Bayville Adventure Park, 8 Bayville Ave., Bayville AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a holiday light show, the Bayville Holiday Express Train Ride, Arctic Ice Skating Adventure, Bradley Bay’s Rock Climbing, character meet and greet, arts and crafts, storytelling, an arcade, mini golf, and more. WANT TO GO? Varies by activity chosen. 516-628-8697. bayvillewinterwonderland.com.

New Year’s Celebration-Gospel Skate Night

WHEN: Friday, Jan. 4, 9:30pm-12am WHERE: United Skates of America Inc., 1276 Hicksville Road, Seaford AGES: All WHAT: Featuring NYC’s blessed kept secret DJ Tony Tone. Fee includes admission, skate rental, and small order of wings. WANT TO GO? $11 skaters; $8 non-skaters. 516-795-7454. unitedskates.com.

Annual Interfaith Ecumenical Martin Luther King Jr. Celebration FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 20, 6:30pm WHERE: Congregation Sharaay Shalom, 711 Dogwood Ave., West Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: The organizers respect and welcome all faiths at this event, as their main goal is to come together as a community to reflect on the life and vision of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. WANT TO GO? 516-318-6237. nassaucountyny.gov.

Martin Luther King Day Party

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 21, 12-2pm WHERE: What’s Cooking?, 30 E. Main St., East Norwich AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Come make colorful sugar cookie people, mac ‘n cheese, smiley face potatoes, and more! WANT TO GO? $49.99. 516-922-2665. whatscookingny.com.

Peaceful Painting

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 21, 11am, 1pm, and 3pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Pay tribute to Dr. King’s message of peace by creating a colorful collage of the white dove, a universal symbol of peace, love, and harmony. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Scotty McCreery: Seasons Change Tour

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 26, 8pm WHERE: NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Scotty McCreery’s deep voice and irresistible sound create a perfect blend of contemporary and traditional country. He has quickly become a crowd favorite. WANT TO GO? $30 and up. 516-334-0800. thetheatreatwestbury.com. ›› LongIslandParent 37

MOVERS & SHAKERS Winter Family Carnival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 5, 1pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: All WHAT: Play carnival games, enjoy a craft, or relax with snacks and hot coco! WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Open Play

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 7, 10am-6pm WHERE: MoMo’s Club House, 140 Eileen Way, Suite 200, Syosset AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join the fun with lots of activities. WANT TO GO? $18 (1 child walker and 2 adults); $9 (1 child crawler and 2 adults); $5 additional adults. 516-921-1004. momosclubhouse.com.

Tot’s Night Out FREE

THE GREAT OUTDOORS 1st Day Hike: New Year’s Day Seal Walk

WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 1, 10:30am WHERE: Jones Beach State Park Nature Center, 1 Ocean Parkway, Wantagh AGES: All WHAT: Welcome 2019 by taking a stroll along the beach to see our winter visitors. WANT TO GO? $4. 516-780-3295. parks.ny.gov.

Studio Saturdays

WHEN: Jan. 5-26, Saturdays, 12pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Spend up to an hour exploring a range of materials, techniques, and themes before continuing out onto our lush grounds filled with trails, a sculpture park, and gardens. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12; $2 weekend parking fee. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

Paradise Garden Festival

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 27, 11am WHERE: Planting Fields Arboretum, 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Come and enjoy a touch of paradise with gorgeous tropical plants, colorful orchids, palm trees, begonias, and ferns at the winter garden! WANT TO GO? $8. 516-922-8668. plantingfields.org.

Let’s Explore Backpacks FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 29, 11am-4pm WHERE: Hofstra University Museum, Emily Lowe Gallery, 112 Hofstra University Museum, Hempstead AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy activity-filled ways to explore the outdoor sculpture collection on the University’s beautiful campus, then create works of art to take home. WANT TO GO? 516-463-5672. hofstra.edu/museum. 38

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WHEN: Monday, Jan. 7, 7pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Interactive fun includes singing, dancing, storytelling, and more! WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

New York Islanders vs. Carolina Hurricanes

WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 8, 7pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Cheer for your favorite team as the Islanders take on the Hurricanes! WANT TO GO? $19 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

Baby & Me FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 9, 9:30am WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: Newborn to 2, adult WHAT: Sing and play with your baby! WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

Just 2 Fun FREE

WHEN: Friday, Jan. 11, 10:30am WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 2 WHAT: A special program designed just for 2-year-olds where they make simple crafts and play together. WANT TO GO? 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Jump N Glow

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 12, 8-10pm WHERE: Bounce! Trampoline Sports, 310 Michael Drive, Syosset AGES: All WHAT: It’s a fun time for your children to exercise. WANT TO GO? $22 per hour. 516-762-1300. bouncesyosset.com.

Family Bounce Night

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 16, 5-7pm WHERE: BounceU, 101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Family Bounce Night is easy, affordable, and fun! WANT TO GO? $12.95. 631-777-5867. bounceu.com.

Messy Afternoons

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 20, 3:30pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8

WHAT: Get up to your elbows in oobleck, clean mud, and slime for artistic activities that everyone loves, but no one likes to cleanup after. WANT TO GO? $3 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Open Play

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 21, 10am-3pm WHERE: Cup O Fun Cafe, 6 Rockaway Ave., Valley Stream AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Kids can unwind, play dress up, or team up with other kids for an interactive experience. WANT TO GO? Call for cost. 516-872-2600. cupoffuncafe.com.

Open Jump

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 27, 1:40pm WHERE: Pump It Up-Great Neck, 225 Community Drive, Suite 250, Great Neck AGES: All WHAT: Open Jump is not only fun for the kids, but provides a healthy workout that burns off excess energy and helps keep them fit. WANT TO GO? $14.95. 516-466-7867. pumpitupparty.com/great-neck-ny.

SHOW TIME! ‘Once Upon a Snowflake’

WHEN: Jan. 5-6, Saturday-Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Showplace at the Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore AGES: 3-8 WHAT: This musical tells the story of a small snow girl with big dreams! WANT TO GO? $12. 516-783-7200. bellmoremovie.com.

‘The Very Hungry Caterpillar & Other E. Carle Favorites’

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 12, 2pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: See The Very Hungry Caterpillar’s metamorphosis into a beautiful butterfly, the fanciful account of Little Cloud’s travels through the sky, and The Mixed Up Chameleon’s discovery of his own unique nature. WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

The Wall Live Extravaganza!

DANCE PARTY

WHEN: Friday, Jan. 25, 8pm WHERE: NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury AGES: 13 and older WHAT: The critically-acclaimed show travels through every song of The Wall universe with a precision nowhere to be seen. WANT TO GO? $29.50 and up. 516-334-0800. thetheatreatwestbury.com.

Merry Mini Nutcracker featuring Integral Ballet

‘Tinkerbell’

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 6, 12:30pm, 3pm, and 7pm WHERE: Adelphi University -Olmsted Theatre, 1 South Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Be awed by the graceful, little ballerinas as they perform this Nutcracker. WANT TO GO? See website. 516-877-4000. integralballet.org.

Zumba with Desiree

WHEN: Through Jan. 10: Thursdays, 5:30-6:30pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Zumba combines Latin and international music with exercise to burn calories, tone muscle, and improve the cardiovascular system. WANT TO GO? $44. 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Music and Movement

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 16, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy creative movement exercises and interactive sing-alongs that get little bodies moving to the rhythm. WANT TO GO? $3 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Zumba Fitness Classes

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 26, 10:15am WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 9 and older WHAT: At the core of each class is music from all over the world that produces international rhythms and moves to make the class time fly by. WANT TO GO? $25. 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Zumbini (Dance Class) FREE

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 28, 10:30am WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join Linda Bancalari for this early childhood program that uses original music and movement to promote flexibility. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info. ››

WHEN: Fridays, Jan. 5, 19-26, 2pm; Sunday, Jan. 20, 11:30am WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre at Elmont, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Tinkerbell has always been Peter Pan’s loyal sidekick but how much do we really know about this beloved fairy? WANT TO GO? $13. 516-775-4420. broadhollow.org.

Monster Jam Triple Threat Series

WHEN: Jan. 25-27, Friday, 7pm; Saturday, 1pm and 7pm; Sunday, 1pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: These world-class Monster Jam vehicles and athletes deliver what fans want to see most…more trucks, racing, freestyle, doughnuts, wheelies, and action! WANT TO GO? $20 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

Aesop’s Fables by Mike Kenny

WHEN: Jan. 29-31, Tuesday-Thursday, 10:15am and 12:15pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Aesop’s Fables is presented in the tradition of comedy teams such as the Marx Brothers or Abbott and Costello. Come join the cast as they entertain you and bring these tales to life. WANT TO GO? $9 with museum admission: $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

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Real-estate experts (and real parents!) share the factors that make families relocate. By Lambeth Hochwald

he signs might be right in front of you: Maybe you and your family are feeling squished into a too-small apartment or perhaps your children are getting ready to start school and you aren’t sure your local school district is right for your kids. These are just two scenarios in which it feels like you might be ready to switch neighborhoods or spend your savings on upgrading to your first home. “Many moves are dictated by lifecycles in the family,” says Alison Bernstein, founder of Suburban Jungle, a real estate firm exclusively focused on buyers leaving the city for the suburbs. “If thinking down the road about your kids’ school experience causes you to break into a cold sweat, it may be time to go. Ultimately, whether you move or stay in your neighborhood comes down to the level of happiness you have day to day, and whether there is a need for change.” The following, experts say, are all signs it may be time to start reading the real estate ads: Your place is less kid-friendly than you thought. For Becky Margel, mom of Remy (3) and Reese (6 months), it was a staircase that prompted her and her husband, Jesse, to move from Manhattan to Glen Rock, NJ in February 2018. “We lived in a duplex and when our three-year-old began walking up and down the very steep spiral staircase on her own. It started to make us nervous,” says Margel, who lived in NYC for a decade before the move to the suburbs. Your family is growing—but your space isn’t. Another nudge for the Margels was the fact that Becky was pregnant again. “With baby two on the way and additional baby gear entering our apartment, 40

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we knew it was time to get out of the city and move to the suburbs,” she says. “With no space to put all the toys that was another sign that it was time to live somewhere with way more space.” Bernstein sees families in similar situations all the time: “Often the addition of a child into an already at-capacity apartment is enough to signal that it’s time for a change,” she says. Ultimately, it may no longer be fun to stow toilet paper under the bed and extra diapers in your clothing closet. You’re longing for a lawn. Outdoor space may be one of the biggest reasons families opt to relocate, says Greg McHale, a real estate agent at Compass. “While we have seen city folks adapt to living with kids in living quarters your cousin in Oshkosh, Wisconsin, would deem postage stamp-sized, for many parents, not being able to essentially kick your kids outside when they are rowdy ultimately becomes a major sticking point,” he says. Of course, you don’t always have to leave the city to get a yard. “Whether the family can afford an apartment or a house with private outdoor space in their favorite neighborhood or school district can sometimes be the ‘make or break’ decision,” McHale says. Your local parks suddenly seem puny. Another way to gauge your need for greenery is by doing this exercise, which McHale recommends to his clients: “If you’re okay with spending the day in Central or Prospect park for your weekend expeditions, then stick with the city,” he says. City life is starting to feel overwhelming. Cramped conditions and a lack of green space can prompt an exodus, but so can other re-

alities of an urban existence. Add in the strain of school applications, the sleep issues if you’re in a noisy apartment, the expense, and other annoyances, and you’ve got a family ready to make a move. That’s exactly the scenario Amy Hill, who moved from Brooklyn to Tarrytown with her husband and two sons, faced last year. “We were getting kicked out of our apartment (the owners wanted to sell it), so we didn’t have much of a choice,” Hill says. But the decision to leave Brooklyn—where Hill’s entire family still lives— was one they made on their own, due not only to a desire for more space, but also a list of irritants that included the grime of urban living. “Our other triggers included the broken glass on the sidewalks, the worry over the kids running into the street, and navigating the narrow [store] aisles with our double stroller,” she says. You haven’t found your parent tribe. Loneliness is another reason many parents find it’s time to move. “When you are a new parent living in New York City and you find yourself feeling isolated or without any baby playmates for your little one, it may be time to consider a move,” says Amy Owens, a real estate broker at Keller Williams in NYC. The same thing can happen in the suburbs if you’re living in a neighborhood populated by mostly older families. You feel like you’ve aged out of your ’hood, as in you’re the only one with a baby and everyone else is crowding into your favorite local bar for happy hour. While this neighborhood once felt familiar, it can suddenly feel strange to be in a different life stage from pretty much everyone else around you.

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Your bustling neighborhood is starting to be annoying. When your busy morning schedule clashes with the neighborhood’s latenight vibe, it can also feel like a big disconnect. “It’s extremely taxing as well when people are out partying in the streets until all hours of the night keeping you and/or your whole family awake,” Bernstein adds. 4050 DMLI 1-4.indd You already know people in the town you’re considering. Having pals already in place always eases the transition. They can show you where to buy groceries, what the schools are like, and which pediatrician to choose, as well as clue you in to favorite traditions in town, Margel advises. And you just might find other urbanites living in your new town, too. “Many New York City suburbs are loaded with residents who just a few short years ago were your Brooklyn and Manhattan neighbors,” Owens says. You’ve always dreamed of owning a home. For many families, saving for a home of their own is an important goal. For Margel and Hill, leaving the city for the suburbs turned out to be one of the best things they ever did and have zero regrets about it. “We love the shopping,” Margel says. “We have every store imaginable within 15 minutes. Well, I love it, my husband not so much!” And if you end up missing things about your former neighborhood, you can vent about this, too, with your new neighbors who are likely going to be easily able to relate to how you feel. “No matter how much we love our new town, we do miss my family, the pizza, and the bagels,” Hill says. An easy fix: Just take the train, bus, or ferry back to your old neighborhood for the day. You might just come to realize you miss fewer and fewer things about it the longer you’ve put down roots in a new place. Lambeth Hochwald covers trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

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What Your Teen Really Needs from You

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Your oh-so-grown-up child is less independent than she seems—here’s what she’s still relying on you to provide. By Deborah Skolnik

f you have a teen, you probably look at him—on those rare moments when he isn’t holed up in his room or out somewhere with his friends—and wonder: “How’d you get so big?” And the bigger your child gets, the smaller the list of things he relies on you for becomes. Once upon a time, you were his wardrobe coordinator, social activities director, and on and on, but most of those roles have long been phased out. In fact, aside from food, money, rides, and more food, it’s easy to conclude your teen needs nothing from you at all. But thinking that way is a mistake. “Teens look like little adults, and so a lot of times parents treat them like little adults, but their brains are not caught up yet,” says Emily Roberts, M.A., L.P.C., psychotherapist and author of Express Yourself. And adolescents have lots of big tasks to accomplish, from hammering out their moral code to making plans for the future. With so much on their plates, it’s a time kids still rely on their parents, says Kashmira Rustomji, M.D., M.P.H., a child and adolescent psychiatrist at Mount Sinai Adolescent Health Center. So don’t keep your distance. Make sure your child is still getting what he needs from you, especially the following: Praise (when appropriate). “There tends to be a lot more conflict in parent-adolescent relationships,” Dr. Rustomji says. “Often that conflict is about trivial things.” Take time to give your teen props when she’s earned it, whether that’s for a good grade, going out of her way to help a younger sibling (or you!), or being a great friend. It will balance out some of the times you and your teen find yourselves at odds, and boost her self-esteem. Your good example. Teens “are still very sensitive creatures at this time and they’re still very impressionable, so they may hear half of

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what you’re saying and they make that their reality,” Roberts points out. That’s why it’s important not to just tell your teen what’s right and what’s wrong, but to show it to him through everything you do. “Teens are always watching you,” Dr. Rustomji adds. So be a good role model—“show them how to cope with stress, how to be respectful, and model the moral code you developed for yourself,” she urges. Chores. No one wants them, but all teens need them, Roberts says. “A lot of parents forget that that practice of helping around the house is not only about [teens] showing their family they are involved, it’s really a habit they need to have especially as they ease into adulthood,” she explains. Yes, teens tend to have busy lives, but that’s not a reason to do away with chores altogether: “You and I sometimes have a lot of work, and we still have to go home and clean our rooms and do our laundry,” Roberts says. Just be considerate of your teen’s hectic weeks: “Have a conversation with them about their schedule, especially in the beginning and middle of the school year with midterms and homework and homecoming and all that, asking how you can help,” Roberts advises. Some weeks you may need to make your teen’s chore load a little lighter. The key is to keep her responsibilities as consistent as possible over time, so she accepts chores as a part of life. Help managing his hectic schedule. Your child’s time commitments are growing exponentially—faster than his brain can keep up, Roberts says. “The adolescent brain doesn’t stop growing until the early twenties, and sometimes teens overestimate or underestimate [things],” she explains, including how long certain activities may take. Roberts suggests saying, “Let’s look at how we can schedule your time together,” and then doing just that.

Tammy Gold, M.S.W., L.C.S.W., a family therapist, is a fan of putting a calendar in your teen’s room. “Studies show that children really love structure,” she says. “Show them what their week looks like...so they know when the soccer game is, when the test is.” Time spent hanging out with you. Yes, it can seem like you’re the last person your child wants to pass the time with, but that’s not true, Gold says. Look for lulls in your teen’s busy social schedule: “Maybe they weren’t invited somewhere and they’re not going to say that to you, but they could be suffering, so you make the plans,” Gold explains. Even if they weren’t snubbed, teens often don’t like being alone, and could be up for a little company. You can also make a ritual to spend time together at a certain time each week. Spending time together isn’t just nice; it has important developmental benefits for your teen. “Obviously, for a toddler you need to be there to say things like ‘Don’t touch the flame!’ But for a teenager you need to be there not only to teach appropriate social behavior and values and model them, but to help them decode what they’re seeing,” Gold says. Help understanding social media. Speaking of things your teen may need your assistance in decoding, social media tops the list, Gold says. “For kids on social media, they need to know that this is a fictitious life, not real life,” she explains. “Everyone is just putting the best of themselves out there, so don’t let it make you feel bad.” If your teen is often down because she finds out via social media that she wasn’t invited somewhere with pals, or because her posts got too few likes, it may be time for a social media break. Gold’s own 13-year-old is only allowed to use Snapchat. “That still has the ability to make you say ‘OMG I missed that party, it stinks that I wasn’t invited,’ but that’s gone after twenty-four hours,” Gold says.

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Rules and limits. Oh, we know you’re going to get some eye rolls when you say, “Be home before ten!” or “No walking home from the party alone!” but that’s no reason to hold back. “Adolescents...tend to want to do things that give them thrills and give them excitement, and sometimes that behavior leads to maladaptive behavior like drugs and alcohol and unsafe sex,” Dr. Rustomji says. “So this is a time when it’s really important for parents to set those limits to protect their child.” It’s also helpful to walk through some sticky scenarios ahead of time. Pose questions to your teen, like, “If someone is drinking at a party and wants you to drink too, how do you say no?” or “If someone gets drunk, what do you do?” Again, your teen may think it’s silly, but try anyway. “If your family has a certain set of values that you want to impart in your children, just make those clear,” Dr. Rustomji says. “And also tell your teen why.” Reassurance that you’re always there. “It’s important to tell teens ‘Hey, you’re growing, you’re maturing and because of that you get to go to the mall, you get to go out, but we’re still here to help you,’” Gold says. And it’s even more crucial to make that clear when you and your teen are fighting, she adds. “[Tell your teen] ‘You can yell at me and scream at me, but I’m never going away,’” she urges. Your apologies (when appropriate). Did you lose control and scream at your teen? “That happens, it’s normal,” Gold says. “What are you going to do about it now? Recover and say you’re sorry. Teach your child how to say you’re sorry.” Not only will your child learn it’s right to apologize when he’s wrong, he’ll also learn nobody’s perfect. Your love. “Teens need holding, as silly as it sounds,” Gold says. “I like to spoon my 13-year-old for ten minutes a night, and we talk about what happened during the day, and she loves it.” So go ahead, give your big kid a hug. Who knows? You might even get a hug back. Deborah Skolnik is the former editorial director of NYMetroParents. She lives in Westchester with her husband and 14-year-old, both of whom are much taller than she is.

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Ready, Set, Sibling!

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Pregnant again? Learn how to prepare your first-born for the baby on the way. By Denise Porretto

t was once believed that Earth was the center of the universe. But those early scientists got it wrong: Ask any mom and she will tell you that everything revolves around her first-born. Whether it’s for 10 months or a few years, the oldest child has Mom and Dad’s attention to herself. So while parents may be delighted they’re expecting a second child, they may worry about how to break the news to their first-born and prevent any jealousy that might arise. “Bringing a new baby into the world is a very complex and magical process,” says Kenneth Schuster, Psy.D., clinical neuropsychologist in the Learning and Development Center and director of clinical training at the Child Mind Institute. “But for a child, it is best to keep things simple and concrete. Introduce the subject in an age-appropriate manner. Answer his or her questions using age-appropriate language. ...You need to meet your child where he is, and remember that anecdotal stories about what may have worked for another family will not necessarily work for your child.” With that in mind, read on for ways to prepare your child for the new baby.

Time the talk

If being pregnant for nine months seems like forever to you, imagine how long it would seem to a 2-year-old! After all, a 1-minute timeout feels like an hour to a kid that age. So if you have a very young child, breaking the baby news early may not be best. He may not even understand at first or remember what you’ve said. Many other factors may impact your decision about when to share your news. For instance, if you’re not feeling well, you may consider telling her sooner rather than later, or else she may worry you’re really sick. Your growing belly will eventually become noticeable, making the 44

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talk inevitable. “The news that a baby is on the way becomes more meaningful to a young child when there are perceptible changes to their physical environment,” Dr. Schuster says. “For instance, perhaps the child is noticing mommy’s shrinking lap. Or the child has taken note that his parents are moving in furniture and painting walls.” Until you’re ready to share the news, be discreet. Even a young child hears her parents talking and can pick up on “secret” information. More importantly, you don’t want your child hearing the news from anyone else. “You want to make sure you’re keeping them in the loop,” says Jen Trachtenberg, M.D., assistant clinical professor of pediatrics at Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai.

Keep It Simple

When sharing the news with your young child, be direct. Simply say, “Mommy has a baby in her belly.” Even older children don’t need to hear additional details. This is not the time for a “birds and bees” talk, Dr. Schuster says. There will be plenty of time for your child to ask questions should she need further explanation. Be sure not to ask your child if he wants a baby brother or sister. This could backfire! (What are you going to do if she says, “No”?)

Accentuate the Positive

Over the coming months, there will be many opportunities for you to prepare your child for the big event. Of course, not everything you tell him about the new baby will be rosy. Explain that new baby brothers and sisters are not born ready to play, but rather spend a lot of time sleeping, eating, crying, and pooping (expect a giggle for that one). Tell your child he did the same when he was a baby. The trick is to spin the “bad news” in a positive way. For instance, tell

your child the baby will cry a lot, but also say it will be like a game to figure out what she needs. Is she hungry? Tired? Needing a diaper change? Emma L., who lives in NYC with her husband and two children, Ella (7) and Rafa (4), believes finding a good marketing angle is the best way to deal with potential issues. “Need to transition the older child to a bed, so the newborn can have the crib? Market it as an amazing new bed she gets to have because she is such a big girl!” she suggests.

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Once you’ve shared the news, build on it with age-appropriate activities: • Read books together about having a new sibling. Many favorite TV characters have siblings as well. Watch the show your child likes and talk about how those siblings interact. • Give your child a baby doll and feed, change, and rock it together. • Introduce your child to a friend or relative’s baby. The baby should be older than 3 months, and you should exercise caution if you let your child hold the baby. • Share old photos of you and your siblings, and tell stories about what life was like growing up. Don’t forget current photos. Fran L., a mother of two boys in Syosset, told 3½-year-old Ben about the baby on the way by surprising him with her sonogram photo. • Allow your child to pick out clothes or toys for the new baby. • Have your child participate in a sibling-preparation class. • Enlist your first-born as an all-important “mommy’s helper,” Dr. Schuster suggests. “Tell your two-year-old that you will need her help letting you know when the baby is crying and figuring out what the baby needs. You can tell older children you’ll need their help getting clean diapers ready and making the baby laugh.” • When referring to the baby-to-be, use language such as “our baby” and “your baby sister/brother”—it suggests your child has a relationship with the baby and has an important role to play.

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To keep the sibling relationship growing after the baby arrives: • Help your child choose a gift for the newborn. Give your first-born a gift the newborn “picked out” as well. • Avoid introducing big changes in your older child’s routine while baby is settling in (toilet training, giving up the pacifier, etc.). • Allow your child to help with the baby. Closely supervised older children can hold the baby while sitting, or can pass diapering supplies to the parent. Children of all ages can sing songs to a fussy newborn. (If your child doesn’t want to help, though, don’t force it. Let the relationship blossom on its own.) • Praise your first-born whenever she is behaving well. • Have her spend time with other family members, such as grandparents, to deepen those relationships. Even if you do all of the above, there may be some bumps in the road. For one thing, expect a bit of regression—sliding backward on previously mastered skills is not unusual. Emma’s daughter, who had been toilet-trained for five months, briefly went back to diapers after her little brother’s birth. The key is not to make a big deal of it. A certain amount of jealousy and acting out may be unavoidable. Stay the course, and remain positive—hugs, kisses, and kind words will go a long way. And be sure to have regular 1-on-1 time with your older child. Realize that for a child, no matter what age, having a baby brother or sister enter the family is nowhere near as tumultuous as parents imagine it to be. “Most of the time it’s a smooth transition,” Dr. Trachtenberg says. “Whether the children are close in age or far apart, it’s super rare that there’s any ongoing jealousy. It will work out.” Denise Porretto is a freelance writer in Princeton, NJ.

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Where There’s a Will

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Though you may not want to consider the unthinkable, having a plan in place will protect your children and prepare them for the future. By Anja Webb

o you know who would have legal guardianship of your children if something were to happen to you or your partner? Do you know for certain your estate would be quickly and indisputably transferred to your heirs? On that note, have you selected your heirs? Though you may think there’s no need to create a will because you’re young and healthy, life is unpredictable. “The sooner you put a comprehensive plan in place, the better off you and your family will be,” say Rosanna Guardavaccaro, a registered representative and financial advisor of Strategies For Wealth and a financial representative of Guardian based in New York City and Rye. Here’s what you need to know when it comes to planning your will.

Choose a Will-Writing Method

There are a number of ways you can set up your will, and, depending on your financial resources, each method has its pros and cons. A lawyer is the best option, especially if you have a large estate, according to Guardavaccaro. A typical fee for a simple will is approximately $500, Guardavaccaro says, but that extra expense is worth it for the peace of mind that comes with hiring a professional. If hiring a lawyer is out of your budget, or if you just don’t have the time to sit down with one, there are online forms and apps that can help you get started. For example, USLegalWills.com allows you to make your will at home by simply filling in a form and answering questions. With a fee of approximately $40, it’s a more affordable option for young professionals or those with young 46

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children. You could also use an app to develop your will, such as Tomorrow, which offers the software free of charge. In extreme cases, a holographic will, one written in your own handwriting and typically without multiple witnesses, is an option in certain states. Though not legal in New York in most instances, holographic wills are accepted in New Jersey. “To be clear, not all do-it-yourself approaches to will writing result in a holographic will,” says Tim Hewson, president of USLegalWills.com. “It is an absolutely terrible way to prepare your own will and is almost certainly going to result in a very poorly drafted document. Holographic wills are written into law to cover extreme circumstances, like being pinned under a rock, where witnesses are not available. It is not a will-writing approach that should be considered under normal circumstances.”

Think About the Details

Once you’ve selected the method to create your will, it’s time to think about the details. Guardavaccaro suggests consulting with a lawyer to ensure this is done right, “but the basic process is relatively straightforward: Make a list of your assets, decide who gets what, and pick someone to serve as an executor for your estate,” she says. “Meet with the attorney and iron out expectations both monetarily and the actual creation of the will. Once an attorney is chosen and the will is created, the individual picks three witnesses. …The witnesses should be friends you trust.”

When planning your will, it can also be easy to overlook a few aspects like social media and gifting rights. It’s good to think about who will shut off your Facebook and Instagram, and whether or not your heirs can give away their inheritance as they see fit. Be sure to discuss these with your lawyer, if you have one, or make provisions for them otherwise.

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If you haven’t already done so, now’s the time to appoint a guardian for your children if they’re younger than 18. “The parent has to figure out who will…take care of the assets for the benefit of the children,” Guardavaccaro says. “When appointing a guardian, it is best to look at either a family member or friend that you can currently count on and raises their children in a similar fashion that you do.” Some aspects you might want to take into consideration are fiscal responsibility and religious or ethical values. When it comes to selecting an heir, you’ll want to keep in mind how old your children are. For younger children, the guardian will likely also be named as the property guardian and manage the estate until the kids are old enough to take over, according to Nolo.com, a resource with easy-to-understand legal information. For children who are 18 or older, it’s important to have a clear line of communication about what to expect should anything happen to you. “Make sure they’re aware of any wills, accounts, or trusts that name them as beneficiaries,” Guardavaccaro advises. “Also, give them the name of your lawyer and your financial representative, as well as details on accessing your financial holdings.” This will help prepare them for the future and simplify the process in the future. But what if you and your partner pass away or become incapacitated without having selected either a guardian or an heir? “Without having a clear directive from you, the state takes over and the next of kin can be brought in to take care of the children and assets,” Guardavaccaro says. This means your loved ones and belongings can very easily end up in the hands of the wrong person, especially if you’ve had a falling out with certain members of your immediate family. For this reason, you should clearly specify who you want to look after your children. Though this is a big decision, if you end up changing your mind or part ways with the person you had selected as your guardian, you can always amend the document later, according to Guardavaccaro.

The Ramifications of No Will

Aside from the obvious concerns of your property and family going to the wrong people, not having a will can cause strife and disagreements among your relatives. “I have encountered squabbles over small items of sentimental value to large, truly valuable items like paintings,” says David Reischer, Esq., a New York attorney and CEO of LegalAdvice.com. “Families seem to fight over anything and everything. Therefore, always remember: Have the deceased execute a last will and testament prior to leaving this world, in order to determine his intent how to distribute any remaining items in the estate.” After all, it’s better to have a will in place and not need it, rather than leave your loved ones to scrap over your possessions. The emotional aspect of setting up a will—coming to grips with your mortality, imagining a world where your children grow up without you, divvying up your possessions with the understanding that all you own and all you love will someday be out of your grasp—is intense. But don’t let that stop you from taking the steps to ensure your family and friends will be prepared in the event the unthinkable happens. Parenting is full of tough decisions that can make you stop in your tracks, but at the end of the day, you have to do what you can to ensure your family will be okay.

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THERAPY & COUNSELORS AVIVA CHANSKY GUTTMANN, L.M.S.W., C.I.R.T. 631-885-4375 avivachanskyguttmann.com helpconnectingus@gmail.com Aviva Chansky Guttmann is a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist offering home-based therapy for couples, partners, and families. Flexible scheduling and large travel radius.

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OPEN HOUSES 2019 Beth Sholom Day Camp

401 Roslyn Road, Roslyn Heights 516-621-9257 bethsholomdaycamp.com Come see what everyone is talking about on Jan. 13. BSDC is a summer camp for children ages 3-15 serving Nassau and Queens.

Catholic Elementary Schools of Long Island Diocese of Rockville Centre

Multiple Locations 516-678-5800 licatholicelementaryschools.org Catholic Schools Week is Jan. 27-Feb. 2, the Catholic elementary schools open their early childhood centers to meet prospective new families. See website for specific locations and times.

Friends Academy

270 Duck Pond Road, Locust Valley 516-676-0393 fa.org Join us for an open house Tuesday, Jan. 15 at 8:30am (Middle and Upper School), or Thursday, Jan. 17 at 8:30am (Lower School).

Green Vale School

250 Valentine’s Lane, Old Brookville 516-621-2420 greenvaleschool.org Join us for an open house Jan. 24 at 9am. Visit greenvaleschool.org to RSVP.

Holy Child Academy

25 Store Hill Road, Old Westbury 516-626-9300 holychildacademy.org Holy Child Academy offers an exceptional curriculum that lays the foundation for future success. Call anytime for a tour.

Holy Family School

17 Fordham Ave., Hicksville 516-938-3846 x329 hfsli.org Making a difference one child at a time. Join us for an open house on Sunday, Jan. 27 from 11:30am2pm. Tours Jan. 28-31 from 9am-2pm and Friday Feb. 1 from 10-11am.

Long Island High School for the Arts

239 Cold Spring Road, Syosset 516-622-5678 nassauboces.org/lihsa LIHSA offers a unique opportunity for Nassau and Suffolk County students grades ninth to 12th.

Open houses held Feb. 2 and April 13, 11am-2pm. Parent Open House Feb. 13 at 8am.

Long Island Lutheran Middle & High School

131 Brookville Road, Brookville 516-626-1700 x546 luhi.org admissions@luhi.org Join us for an open house on Sunday, Jan. 27 from 2:30-4:30pm and Thursday, Jan. 24 from 9-11am.

Oasis at LIU Post

720 Northern Blvd., Greenvale 646-519-5066 oasischildren.com liupost@oasischildren.com Join us for an open house on Jan. 12 at 11am and Jan. 28 at 7pm.

St. Christopher School

15 Pershing Blvd., Baldwin 516-223-4404 stchris-school.org Come visit our school on Sunday, Jan. 27 from 10:30am-1pm or Tuesday, Jan. 29.

St. Dominic Elementary School

35 School St., Oyster Bay 516-922-4233 stdomsob.org One journey through faith and education. Call anytime for a tour.

Trinity Episcopal Church Roslyn Childcare Center

1579 Northern Blvd., Roslyn 516-626-0293 trinitychild.org Looking for a safe and nurturing childcare center for your child? We welcome families from all backgrounds. Please call us for more information or to schedule a visit.

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts

76 Park Blvd., Malverne 516-599-7328 ollmalverne.org Join us for an open house Sunday, Jan. 27 from 10:30am-12pm.

185 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights 631-643-7900 usdan.org Join us for an open house Sundays, Jan. 13 and 27. The campus is yours to visit and explore. Receive a chance to “spin to win” a tuition discount. Register at usdan.org/visit.

Our Lady of Mercy

The Waldorf School of Garden City

520 S. Oyster Bay Road, Hicksville 516-433-7040 olmshicks.org Join us for an open house on Sunday, Jan. 27 from 11:45am-2pm, Wednesday, Jan. 30 from 9:3010:30am and 1:15-2pm. Additional tours available, call 516-433-7040.

225 Cambridge Ave., Garden City 516-742-3434 waldorfgarden.org Join us for an open house on Jan. 23 at 5:30pm, (grades sixth to 12th); Jan. 26, 10:30am-12pm, (grades first-third); Jan. 30, 6:30-8pm (nursery); Jan. 29, 2-3pm (Parent & Child Tea and Play).

Saint Mary’s Elementary School

Winston Preparatory School

Our Lady of Lourdes

1340 Northern Blvd., Manhasset 516-627 0184 stmary11030.org St. Mary’s Elementary School will host an open house on Sunday, Jan. 27 at 12pm.

Smithtown Christian School 1 Higbie Drive, Smithtown

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631-265-3334 learnwithscs.org Join us at our open house Monday, Jan. 14, at 7pm. See what makes SCS stand apart from the rest! Take a tour of our school and meet our directors.

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30 Deforest Road, Dix Hills 212-719-5598 x2213 winstonprep.edu liadmissions@winstonprep.edu Winston Prep is a highly individualized setting for third to 12th grade students with specific learning differences. Open house: Thursday, Jan. 10 at 9:15am and Tuesday, Jan. 29 at 9:15am.

PartyCentral PARTY ENTERTAINMENT CLOWNS.COM

Proudly Serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000, 718-971-5862 clowns.com We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.

LEGENDARY ENTERTAINMENT

Serving Nassau and Suffolk counties 631-680-8453 legendaryentertainmentny.com Legendary Entertainment offers DJs, emcees, karaoke, more than 100 characters, a photo booth, magic shows, party machine rentals, and theme parties.

PARTY PLACES @ PLAY AMUSEMENTS

229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com Have your next party at the newly renovated @ Play Amusements! It offers 40,000-square-feet of fun ranging from 92 arcade games, inflatables, bumper cars, a roller coaster, a carousel, disco room, and laser tag!

AS YOU WISH PARTIES

418A Bedford Ave., Bellmore 516-590-7878 asyouwishparties.org As You Wish Parties will make your child’s party dreams come true. Themes include Pretty Princess, Knightly Knights, Traditional Tea, PJ Party, Rock Star and Superheroes, Dessert Party, or Kids Canvas Painting.

BACH TO ROCK MUSIC SCHOOL

1015 Port Washington Blvd., Port Washington 516-441-5526 portwashington.bachtorock.com portwashington@bachtorock.com Be a star at B2R! At Bach To Rock music school, our parties will have everyone recording in a state-of-the-art studio with pro engineers. Choose from current pop and classic rock tunes, then sing on the main stage and enjoy pizza and cake!

BE THE BEST SPORT

30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-453-0990 bethebestsport.org info@bethebestsport.org

Be The Best Sport provides sport birthday parties for children with special needs. Our qualified staff will make sure your son or daughter has a once in a lifetime experience! Please contact us to inquire about a birthday party!

BOUNCEU FARMINGDALE

101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com BounceU Farmingdale was voted “Best of Long Island” for Children’s Party Place and Family Amusement Center. We provide the ideal combination of inflatable structures, a clean environment, incredible customer service, and non-stop excitement in a private party atmosphere.

CELEBRATIONS IN THE KITCHEN

63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event! We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy, including sugar cookie baking, all about pizza, cupcakes from scratch, doughnuts, and chocolate and candy projects. Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen.com for more information on parties.

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INTREPID SEA, AIR & SPACE MUSEUM

Pier 86, West 46th Street and Twelfth Avenue, Manhattan 646-381-5010 intrepidmuseum.org groupsales@intrepidmuseum.org Celebrate your child’s birthday with a one-ofa-kind party! The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum will captivate groups of all ages and interests. Choose from exciting themes, value packages, and customization options to create a birthday adventure they’ll remember forever!

KEY TO MY ART, INC.

10 W. Oak St., Amityville 131 Main St., East Rockaway 877-539-2278 keytomyart.com At Key to My Art, our children’s paint parties include all supplies from aprons to easels. The guest of honor picks the theme, we provide the instruction, and each guest leaves with a finished painting!

THE LANYARD LADIES

433 Merrick Road, Oceanside 516-578-2248 thelanyardladies.com info@thelanyardladies.com The Lanyard Ladies friendship bracelet and lanyard birthday parties bring the party to you, or you can come to their brand-new party place! Many amazing themes and packages to choose from.

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfha.org steved@cshfha.org Celebrate your child’s next birthday at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium! See the Hatchery & Aquarium’s exciting live exhibits. Feed the hungry trout and learn about fish, reptiles, and amphibians with an up-close animal encounter.

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431 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-208-9200 xH20 (426), 631-208-9200 x125 longislandaquarium.com Have your child’s birthday party at the Long Island Aquarium. Party options include a choice of private rooms, select food items, and an ice cream cake. All parties get a guided tour, special seating at the Sea Lion Show, and rides on the submarine simulator!

180 Michael Drive, Syosset 516-364-1500 greatplay.com/syosset info@syosset.greatplay.com We offer customized parties for ages 1-10. Your guests will have a blast and your child will receive All-Star treatment in our amazing Interactive Gym™.

HUNTINGTON CENTER FOR PERFORMING ARTS

310 New York Ave., Huntington 631-271-4626 huntingtoncenteronline.com huntingtoncenter@yahoo.com Make your child’s birthday a memorable and creative event with our dancethemed birthday parties. As a special treat, a guest artist will come in costume to perform for your guests!

246 W. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-939-CLUB (2582) thelittleladiesclub.com party@thelittleladiesclub.com The Little Ladies Club has been providing glamorous makeover parties for girls since 1998! Her Majesty will be sure to receive the royal treatment!

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M.A.T.S.S. KID’S GYM & EARLY CHILDCARE EDUCATION CENTER A Rainbow Of Programs Under One Roof! 2629 Grand Ave., Bellmore 516-221-1330 171 Eileen Way, Syosset 516-496-7765 matsskidsgym.com corporate@matsskidsgym.com

M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym offers a rainbow of themes and activities that will make your child’s next birthday party the ultimate celebration of their special day!

MY GYM CHILDREN’S FITNESS CENTER

1320 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook 631-751-KIDS (5437) mygym.com/stonybrook 128 W. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington Station 631-427-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/huntingtonstation My Gym parties include exclusive use of the gym, including a zip line, rock wall, trampoline, trapeze, climbing structures, and slides. Instructors lead your guests through action-packed activities with theme options including Superheroes, Princesses, Mickey Mouse-any theme you want.

NOT JUST ART

183 South St., Oyster Bay 516-922-8300 notjustart.com create@notjust art.com Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and beyond. Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard.

SKY ZONE TRAMPOLINE PARK-DEER PARK 111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park 631-392-2600 skyzone.com/deerpark deerparkinfo@skyzone.com The best birthday parties are at Sky Zone, Deer Park. We customize every birthday party. We have themed parties and super hero parties that include Dodgeball, Foam Zone, Sky Slam, and endless jumping opportunities!

THOMAS SCHOOL OF HORSEMANSHIP RIDING ACADEMY

250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com tsh@tshcamp.com Birthday parties, scout parties, and class trips are always a blast at the Thomas School of Horsemanship. For groups of 14-18 children. They receive one hour of riding time.

UNLIMITED SPORTS ACTION

30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-767-7675 unlimitedsportsaction.com info@unlimitedsportsaction.com Unlimited Sports Action offers sports birthdays for ages 2 and older. Our parties offer one hour of sports and activities on a climate-controlled turf field, followed by 30 minutes of food, drinks, and birthday cake in a private room.

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Health Care Professional Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry 959 Brush Hollow Road, Suite #101, Westbury 516-333-3033 pediatricdentistlongislandny.com kidsteethli@gmail.com

Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry cares for all of your child’s oral health needs in a fun, kid-friendly environment that includes iPads and chairside TV monitors. Drs. Ehrenman and Khan are dedicated and trained to ease dental anxieties for young children, as well as patients with special needs. Their years of advanced training include hospital and sedation dentistry. Please visit kidsteeth4li.com to learn more about what Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry has to offer!

Mesbah OB-GYN Women’s Health Care & Wellness 877 Stewart Ave., Suite 3, Garden City 516-794-1500 mesbahobgyn.com

Michael Mesbah, M.D. is board certified with more than 20 years of private practice experience. His experience and expertise in obstetrics has made him one of the most respected physicians on Long Island. He has extensive training in gynecological surgery, and is a certified robotic surgeon. Karyn Wat, M.D. is multilingual in English, Spanish, and Chinese. She has been trained in general and high-risk obstetric care, as well as gynecological surgery. She is compassionate, dedicated, and knowledgeable in issues pertaining to teenagers, family planning, menstrual and hormonal abnormalities, and menopausal symptoms.

PDM Family Dental 295 N. Broadway, Jericho pdmfamilydental.com info@pdmfamilydental.com

PDM Family Dental is a new dental office at the Hicksville Jericho border. We are here to provide comprehensive care for your children and your entire family’s dental needs. We strive to provide a comfortable dental experience and aim to help you walk out with a smile. Dr. Makkar is a huge advocate of educating families to take care of their dental needs and of supporting communities. We do accept most insurances but also provide in-office dental plans so that dental care is accessible to all. We are open evenings.

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Merrick Pediatric Dentistry 1756A Merrick Ave., Merrick 516-547-1997 merrickpediatricdentistry.com

Dr. Rania Elbaz is a board-certified pediatric dentist. She earned her dental degree from Columbia University. She then completed her pediatric dental training at UMDNJ-New Jersey Dental School. Dr. Elbaz loves working with children and strives to create a warm and fun environment that children look forward to visiting. Dr. Elbaz sees every patient in order to ensure consistency that is so important to young children. The office welcomes and gives extra time and attention to patients with special needs. The office also participates with most major insurance plans.

Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES (Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing) are also offered. Seven affiliated offices across Long Island participate with most health insurance and offer evening and Saturday hours.

Lice Tamers, Inc. 900 Walt Whitman Road, Suite LL2, Melville 631-479-2595 licetamers.com licetamers@gmail.com

Melissa Levin is a board-certified family nurse practitioner. She is also the owner and operator of Lice Tamers. For the past 15 years Melissa has treated children and their families for lice using a natural, holistic approach. She has also worked tirelessly to educate parents about lice prevention, and to help remove the stigma associated with contracting lice. Lice Tamers offers a child-friendly approach to lice removal, in a relaxed, fun environment with snacks, WiFi, and toys. Melissa also offers free educational seminars to schools and camps.

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After a nearly 3-year hiatus, Johnson’s brought back the fanfavorite Baby Creamy Oil with Aloe & Vitamin E last July due to consumer demand. If that doesn’t tell you how great this moisturizer is, maybe this will: It’s paraben-, phthalate-, sulfate-, and dye-free due to Johnson’s total brand relaunch last year. The company is now being 100-percent transparent about the ingredients in its products, and is using more naturally derived (and fewer total) components. The nongreasy formula of the creamy oil absorbs quickly—and it’s great for the whole family! ($3.99; target.com)

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A super-gentle moisturizer, miniOrganic’s Superﬁne Jojoba can be used from cradle to parenthood. Use it on babies during infant massage, to relieve cradle cap, or add a few drops to the bath. Meanwhile, moms can use it as makeup remover and for treating cuticles and nails. What we’re most excited about is dads and teens can use it, too! Encourage your hubby to use it postshave as a soothing balm. And the certified organic, vegan, cruelty-free moisturizer is gentle enough to use if you or your teen has acne-prone skin. ($38; miniorganics.com)

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Inspired by proven, centuries-old remedies from various countries, Vivaiodays Rose Geranium Cleansing Water takes its cue from Zulu women healers, who use Rose Geranium leaves as a treatment. While formulated as a sanitizer for easy cleanup on the go, just add a bit to a cotton pad and use it as oil-free makeup remover. It’s ophthalmologistand dermatologist-tested, plus gluten- and cruelty-free, and certified vegan. Bonus: For every Vivaiodays product sold, the company donates money to fund a day of school for a deserving student somewhere in the world. ($14; vivaiodays.com)

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Catholic Schools Week Open Houses, Jan. 27-Feb. 2

See why a Catholic education is a better education.

Visit an Open House near you during Catholic Schools Week. St. Martin of Tours School Amityville • www.smtschool.org St. Christopher School Baldwin • www.stchris-school.org St. Patrick School Bay Shore • www.spsbayshore.org St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Regional School Bellmore • www.steas.com Our Lady of Providence Regional Central Islip • www.olprov.org Our Lady Queen of Apostles School Center Moriches • www.olqany.org Holy Family Regional School Commack • www.holyfamilyregional.com S S Cyril and Methodius School Deer Park • www.sscmweb.org St. Mary School East Islip • www.saintmaryschoolei.org Trinity Regional School East Northport • www.trinityregional.org

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Our Lady Of Peace School Lynbrook • www.olpschoollynbrook.org Our Lady of Lourdes School Malverne • www.ollmalverne.org Our Lady of Grace Montessori* Manhasset • www.olgmanhasset.com St. Mary's Elementary School Manhasset • www.stmary11030.org St. Rose of Lima School Massapequa • www.stroseschool.net Notre Dame School New Hyde Park • www.ndsnet.org Holy Child Academy* Old Westbury • www.holychildacademy.org St. Dominic Elementary School Oyster Bay • www.stdomsob.org Holy Angels Regional School Patchogue • www.holyangelsregional.org Our Lady of Wisdom Regional School Port Jeﬀerson • www.olowregional.org

St. Peter of Alcantara School Port Washington • www.stpeterspw.org St. John Paul II Regional School Riverhead • www.sjp2regional.org St. Agnes Cathedral School Rockville Centre • www.stagnes-school.org St. Joseph School Ronkonkoma • www.stjoeronkelem.org Sts. Philip and James School St. James • www.sspjschool.net Maria Regina School Seaford • www.mariareginaschool.org St. William the Abbot School Seaford • www.stwilliamtheabbot.net St. Patrick School Smithtown • www.spssmith.org Our Lady of the Hamptons Regional Southampton • www.olhamptons.org St. Edward The Confessor School Syosset • www.stedwardconfessor.org

St. Martin De Porres Marianist School* Uniondale • www.stmartinmarianist.org St. Brigid/Our Lady of Hope Regional Westbury • www.stbolh.org St. Thomas the Apostle W Hempstead • www.stthomasschool.net St. Aidan School Williston Park • www.staidanschool.org Holy Name of Mary School Valley Stream • www.hnomschool.org *Private Schools