Long Island Parent (Nassau) April 2017 by City Guide NY

LongIslandParent NASSAU EDITION

APRIL 2017

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Party-Planning Timeline

Green Your Kid’s Room Tips for Earth Day

Organize the perfect birthday for your child

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Amazing Accomplishments

• A Cookbook by a Boy with Autism • How Music Lessons Helped My Son

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Contents

April 2017 ››

Features

19 Special Parent Section How a teen with autism overcame his food aversions to create a cooking show and cookbook, advice to find the right tutor for your child with special needs, and resources in the area for children with special needs

46 The Ultimate Party-Planning Timeline Give your kids the birthday of their dreams— without driving yourself crazy 48 Detox the Toy Box Simple steps to reduce your kids’ exposure to environmental hazards

Connections

6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Quotables 13 NYMP Q&A: Nicole Feliciano talks about being a “mom boss.” 62 Voices: How music lessons helped a child with autism and sensory processing disorder

Fun & Activities 14 16 31 44

Family Activities CALENDAR ››

DIY Corner: Stitching Stars Your Child Can Be IN the Circus! Family Activities Calendar Where-To Guide: Minor League Baseball

Directories 52 56 57 58 60 61

Camp Guide Open Houses Professional Services Party Central Meet the Health Care Professional Advertisers’ Index

Original photo by PhotoOp NYC (photoopnyc.com) Clothing provided by Appaman (appaman.com)

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ON THE COVER ›› 20 A Cookbook by a Boy with Autism 46 Party-Planning Timeline 48 Green Your Kids Room facebook.com/nymetroparents

62 How Music Lessons Helped My Son

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APRIL 2017 • Vol.8 • No.11

EDITOR’S NOTE

Creative Pursuits by Amazing Kids

y oldest daughter has recently gotten very interested in baking and cooking. She’s progressed quickly from brownie mix with lots of help from an adult to cookies from scratch, on her own (except for putting them in or taking them out of the oven, which we insist a grown-up still do). She follows recipes carefully, and while she occasionally expresses ideas for her own creations, she hasn’t ventured there yet. So I was fascinated to read about another young person who has his own YouTube cooking show and recently published a cookbook of his own recipes—impressive for any teen, but even more so for Chase Bailey, who has autism. As part of our Autism Awareness Month coverage, read an interview with Chase and try out some recipes from The Official Chase ‘N Yur Face Cookbook (p. 20). Chase isn’t the only super-impressive young person with special needs you’ll meet in this issue. For our Voices column (p. 62), Manhattan mom Michaela Searfoorce shares how her son James was transformed by music lessons, even participating in performances he previously would not have even been able to attend. And did you catch the beautiful photo of Ryan on our cover? The 14-year-old Queens resident was one of the finalists in our Kids’ Cover Contest last year. His mom captioned the photo she submitted: “I have autism but it doesn’t have me.” Meeting Ryan in person at our photo shoot, I realized how perfect that statement is. On a related note, this year’s Kids’ Cover Contest launches April 24. Go to nymetroparents.com/cover then to enter for a chance to see your child on our magazine cover. In the meantime, we have a unique opportunity for you to win a walk-on role for your child in Circus 1903 at the Theater at Madison Square Garden! Enter at nymetroparents.com/circus for this amazing chance to see your kid pulled onstage during a performance. Whether you hold your child’s birthday party at the circus or you’re more of a low-key athome party kind of family, planning our kids’ parties is an essential part to today’s parenting job description. Some parents enjoy and look forward to this, but I know my wife and I are not alone in feeling the pressure of our kids’ expectations and the difficulties of fitting party planning into our already busy lives. If you’re like us, you’ll want to check out our timeline for birthday planning (p. 46), so you can get organized and de-stress the process. April brings us Earth Day, our annual reminder of what we should be doing year-round to ensure our kids inherit a healthier, safer planet. If you’re looking to live greener, how about starting right at home, with your kids’ bedrooms or playrooms? Emma Steven explores some of the environmental dangers lurking in household items and offers pointers on how to eliminate them (p. 48). Of course, this month also brings Easter and Passover. Wishing a happy holiday to all of you celebrating, and a healthy, fun spring to everyone! Michael Kress Editorial Director, NYMetroParents

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We’re Looking for Great Writing—By Your Kids! Does your child have a great story to tell about something that’s happened in her life? A strong opinion about an issue affecting him? An exploration of overcoming obstacles and achieving her dreams? NYMetroParents is seeking essay submissions from local tweens and teens—and the best ones may be published online or in a future issue of this magazine! Essays can be about virtually any topic of relevance to local children and families, but should be written entirely by your child, with minimal help from Mom and Dad. Submissions should be 600-800 words. Parents should email their child’s submission to nympwriter@nymetroparents.com. Be sure to let us know how old your child is and where you live. And remember: We’re also always on the lookout for great personal essays from moms and dads in our area! Submit your best take on life as a New York metro-area parent to the same email address above.

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Who: Camps ‘R’ Us What’s New: The Syosset location, which will open this summer and welcome children ages 3-15. Camps ‘R’ Us is a day camp with seven locations across Long Island. The Syosset camp will utilize St. Edward the Confessor School’s campus, which includes an air-conditioned field house gymnasium, a children’s playground, and several athletic fields and courts. “We have a lot of families who live and work in the Syosset area who had to travel a decent way to one of our campuses,” says managing director Jason Turnier. “So we wanted to bridge the gap for them.” Want More Info: St. Edward the Confessor School, 205 Jackson Ave., Syosset; 516-935-2267; campsrus.org

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At Camps ‘R’ Us campers are divided by grade and take part in fun, age-appropriate programming.

Who: Sappo School What’s New: Performing arts, music, and visual arts programs; AP courses; CrossFit conditioning workshops; and tablets for all students—all beginning in September. Private music lessons in various instruments, including piano, guitar, and ukulele, and a dance program taught by a former Rockette and Broadway alumnus will be added to the performing arts programming. The private school will offer Art, History, and Earth Science AP courses, which “will allow students to experience college-level courses within the supportive environment of our school,” says Michelle Bowers, admissions director. In addition, Project Lead the Way, a STEM-focused program currently offered in high school, will be expanded into the lower grades. Want More Info: 40 Kings Park Road, Commack; 631-736-2146; sapposchool.com

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Commack Private School to Expand Class Offerings and In-House Programs

Sappo School’s Tailored Learning approach and emphasis on the arts foster success of students with disabilities and general education students.

Who: Future Stars Summer Camps What’s New: Flag football and golf, which will be added at the camp’s College at Old Westbury location. While Future Stars offers a regular football program in Farmingdale, it’s adding the no-contact version for second-ninth grades in Old Westbury so younger campers can learn and develop skills in a fun and safe environment. Golf will also be added in Old Westbury and will be offered in late July. “We’re trying to add on some programs to compliment the existing options we have to make it more appealing for kids that might have some different interests,” says David Stapleton, camp director. Want More Info: College at Old Westbury, 223 Store Hill Road, Old Westbury; 516-876-3490; fscamps.com 8

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Future Stars Summer Camps Adds to Sports Programs in Old Westbury

Campers in second-ninth grades at Future Stars Summer Camps’ Old Westbury location can now enroll in flag football.

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UOTABLES That first baby learning curve is steep, and there is no way to relax when, for the first time ever, you are responsible for something as huge as a human life with the tiniest toes you’ve ever seen. —Jill Krause, in a post entitled “if i knew then what i know now,” on her blog babyrabies.com

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“I know many moms have a hard time finding their footing in the career world after they have kids. I’ve already gotten over the fact that I’m not meant to be just a mom. It’s a beautiful life, it’s an unforgiving life and it’s not the life I want. I don’t feel sorry about it. Mama wants a career, kids. Sorry not sorry. —Brittany Minor, in a post entitled “Where the Hell did My 5-Year Plan Go?!” on mom.me

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“The museum combines the history of cacao and chocolate with hands-on activities to make your own chocolate, and, the best part—chocolate tastings. The kids may want to breeze through the historical part of the museum, but it is definitely worth bringing them to try samples, play in the kids’ area, and make their own chocolate.” —Samantha Neudorf in an article entitled “A Look Into New York City’s First-Ever Chocolate Museum” Read the whole thing at nymetroparents.com/chocolate-museum.

MORE NYMetroParents.com HIGHLIGHTS: FUN IN SPRING: Download a free guide to the top Spring activities in the New York area (nymetroparents.com/spring-activities). PLAN YOUR CHILD’S SUMMER: Find the perfect camp at nymetroparents.com/camp-finder. HOPPIN’ GOOD TIME: Find local Easter events at nymetroparents.com/easter-nyc. MAKE YOUR OWN MATZAH: A Passover activity for the whole family (nymetroparents.com/matzah).

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NYMP Q&A

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What is a “mom boss”? There are some women who really want to create a brand and do something like I have. If you’re looking to take a skill you’ve already got—say you’re a lawyer or you’re a consultant and you want to start up on your own— my tip would be to start getting some freelance clients before you quit your day job and see what it’s like, see what those hours turn out to be, how much money are you making per hour, could you live off of that salary if you project out what that’s going to look like in six or 12 months. But really focus on, “Where is my income going to come from and how is this going to affect my family life?” It’s a unique proposal when you’re a mom boss because I think a lot of entrepreneurs start and all they need is a great idea and the time and energy to throw into it. When you’re a mom entrepreneur you also have to factor in where your family is going to fit. You can’t work around-theclock when you’ve got young kids at home. Why do you think so many women, especially moms, are turning to entrepreneurship? I think it’s the deaf ears of corporations and the lack of flexibility in the workspace. So many of the women I spoke to said they just got so tired of asking for permission or for missing out on the moments of childhood and parenting that they were so invested in. A lot of women invest a lot of time and energy into their careers and then when they finally have kids they want to be super present; they’ve waited so long for this moment to happen and they don’t want to miss their memories. And workplaces have not flexed to accommodate the needs of working mothers. And mom boss life allows you to grow at the pace that you want to grow. When my kids were little, I was just kind of keeping the business small, and then as they’ve gotten older I’ve been able to ramp it up, and I’ve got more bandwidth to take on work projects, [so] I’ve been able to grow it at my pace. What advice do you have for moms who want to start their own business? I would definitely suggest making a one-year map for yourself. And that’s going to have the profitability. Where is that going to come from? I think a lot of women figure out products that are sellable that people will be attracted to buy but they don’t build in all of the expenses that go into marketing and building this product. So I’d love to see women spend more time and effort or get a coach or do networking where they can find a business partner who can walk them through the actual expenses of a business.

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DIY CORNER MATH FUN

Stitching Stars

Sometimes equations are too hard to solve, even for professionals! For these problems, people invent methods that are easy to compute and approximate the solution. This branch of mathematics is called Numerical Analysis. These numerical algorithms are usually done on a computer, and by doing more calculations you can make your approximate solution as good as you need. Curve stitching is a way to approximate a curve by drawing only straight lines, without any computation needed. The closer you draw the lines together, the better the approximation to the curve you make. We can use the same technique to make a variety of curves and shapes that can be turned into beautiful art. Materials Pencil and eraser Manila folder or very lightweight cardboard Ruler Pushpin

Corrugated cardboard or a bath towel Scissors Thread (embroidery thread, yarn, or other thick thread) Blunt needle

Stitch a Star 1. Using a pencil, lightly draw two lines in the shape of a plus sign on your manila folder. (Don’t press too hard; you’re going to erase them later.) Using your ruler, make even marks from the center point and moving outward along each line. 2. Using the pushpin, carefully poke a hole at each mark on your folder. This is easier to do if you put your folder over something that you can push pins into safely, such as a piece of corrugated cardboard or a thick, folded towel. 3. Lightly number two of the lines as shown (fig. 2). 4. Cut a piece of thread about the length of your arm and thread it onto your needle. 5. Starting from the back of your folder, push the needle through the hole you labeled No. 1. That is at the tip of your star. As you pull the thread through the hole, stop when there are a few inches still sticking through and tape the end of the thread down on the back of the folder very securely. Tug on the thread a little to make sure it won’t slip through.

Fig. 2: Lightly number two of the lines.

Fig. 4: Make a short stitch through the back of hole No. 2. From the front, connect the two No. 2 holes with another long stitch.

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6. Your needle should be on the front side of your folder now. Push the needle down through the other hole marked No. 1 to make a long stitch. Your thread should connect the two dots. 7. Starting on the backside of your folder again, push the needle through the hole right next to it, which should be hole No. 2, making a short stitch. Then, from the front side, you can make another long stitch to connect both No. 2 holes (fig. 4). 8. Continue like this for the rest of the holes. You should have long stitches on the front side of your folder, and short stitches on the back. When you run out of thread, tape the end down on the back of your folder, cut another piece of thread, thread your needle, and keep going! When you’ve finished your curve, tape the end of the thread on the back of the folder and trim any long ends (fig. 5). 9. S titch the other three parabolas in the same way to finish your four-pointed star! You can number the other axes if you need to. Experiment with using different colors for your lines (fig. 6). 10. Gently erase any visible pencil marks. Excerpted from Math Lab for Kids by Rebecca Rapoport and J.A. Yoder with permission of Quarry Books

Fig. 5: Continue like this for the rest of the holes.

Fig. 6: Stitch the other three parabolas in the same way.

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Your Child Can Be IN the Circus! ›› Enter for a chance to win a unique opportunity to see your kid on stage.

YMetroParents has a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for one lucky child to have a part in an upcoming performance of Circus 1903 at the Theater at Madison Square Garden! The winner’s family will be sitting in premier seats while your child is invited to join the performers on stage. Kids dream about being in the circus—now yours may have a chance to make that dream come true! Go to nymetroparents.com/circus to enter. The Grand Prize winner’s celebrity moment will take place at the 6pm performance on Saturday, April 15, and the winner will receive four free premium tickets to the show. In addition, two second-prize winners will each receive a family four-pack of tickets to a Circus 1903 show in April. Enter today to for a chance to win this unique opportunity to make a memory that will last forever. There is no charge for entry; simply fill out the form at nymetroparents.com/circus.

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hase Bailey is a 15-year-old chef with his own cooking show on YouTube and a recently released cookbook, The Official Chase ‘N Yur Face Cookbook—and he’s using part of the proceeds to set up his Chase Yur Dreams Foundation. That is a huge accomplishment on its own, but what makes it even more impressive is Chase was diagnosed with autism as a toddler, a diagnosis that includes severe food aversions, speech delay, and other developmental and physical issues. “Some doctors told my mom that I would probably never speak, and would not be able to take care of myself,” Chase said in his cookbook introduction. He goes on to reveal that when he was 8, he started watching cooking shows with his grandfather—Eat Street is a favorite— which helped him overcome his food aversions. “These cooking shows helped me to see that food could actually be fun, and a big part of traveling—which is one of my favorite things,” he said. Chase took a minute to tell us about his inspiration, how he overcomes challenges, and advice he has for others. Plus, he shares three of his own recipes with us.

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What inspired you to write your own cookbook? I didn’t plan on doing a cookbook. But someone asked my mom if I would be interested, so she told me about it and all the amazing stuff that doing a cookbook would be. I already had a journal of recipes, so I thought, why not bring it to the world, right? How do you come up with your recipes? Sometimes ideas literally just pop in my head. Sometimes when I’m eating something or see food on a show, I start thinking about how I would make something like it with different ingredients. Are there any challenges you’ve had to overcome—both with your YouTube channel and cookbook—as a young man with autism? One of the challenges I have is speaking. I know the words I want to say but it takes time for me to put them in order. I have an acting coach who helps me speak properly for my shows and interviews. I also have challenges with fine motor skills. Sometimes my hand strength is not very good, so l use tools like a

chopper and food processor to help me in the kitchen. Everybody has challenges to overcome. We all do life with a little bit of help. Can you tell me about the Chase Yur Dreams Foundation (ChaseYurDreams.org)—its mission and goals? There are a lot of kids with autism who have challenges and dreams like me. I want to help them with education, jobs, and things they need to make their dreams come true. Do you have advice for other children on the spectrum, or with other disabilities, about pursuing their passion? Find out what you love to do and go for it! And ask for help!

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If your child has expressed an interest in learning to cook, check out these programs on Long Island that offer cooking programs for children and teens with special needs. Celebrations in the Kitchen 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com This party service offers baking events for children and adults with special needs. It provides hands-on baking experiences for participants in a kitchen environment. Each guest makes their own creation, from kneading, rolling, and cutting sugar cookie dough to stretching pizza dough for a personal pie. The projects allow people of many capabilities to focus while being creative, and enjoy the final baked results, recognizing their own sense of accomplishment. LilChefs.com Special Events Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, Staten Island, Bronx, Nassau, Suffolk, Westchester, Rockland, New Jersey 516-338-0552 lilchefs.com paula@lilchefs.com Chef Paula offers hands-on workshops and birthday parties at your location for ages 3-14 that include chef hats and aprons, as well as a personalized recipe booklet specific to the event, for each young chef. All parties and workshops are conducted in an inclusive environment, and Chef Paula can customize an event specifically for children with special needs, geared toward different abilities. Recipes can also be created for various dietary needs, and every event includes multi-sensory components relating to sight, smell, touch, taste, and sound. Sid Jacobson JCC 300 Forest Drive, East Hills 516-484-1545

sjjcc.org The Special Needs Center offers a weekly Wednesday night cooking club for ages 18 and older to learn new recipes, how to cook with friends, and dine in a restaurant (once a month). It also offers three programs that include cooking components: Kehilla Kids Mini-Camp, a year-round recreation program for ages 3-13; Kehilla YA for ages 14 and older; and Sunday Rave Program, a socialization program for ages 14 and older. Suffolk Y JCC 74 Hauppauge Road, Commack 631-462-9800 syjcc.org The Butler Special Needs Center offers Emunah, an after-school program for ages 5-21 that focuses on group interaction and building socialization skills, which includes cooking classes, fitness, and more. It also offers Sunday Lunch Bunch in which ages 12-21 will learn to clean, cook, and work together to prepare a lunch to enjoy as a group, as well as full-day programs on school holidays that include swimming, fitness, and cooking components. What’s Cooking 30 E. Main St., Oyster Bay 516-922-COOK (2665) whatscookingny.com This culinary school offers a handful of 10-week cooking class sessions, workshops, cooking clubs, and parties for children of all ages. Children with special needs are welcome to enroll in any classes and workshops offered.

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f your child is struggling in math, spelling, or reading, you might be considering a tutor. If so, there are a lot of options to consider: Home or tutoring center? What can you afford? How often can you meet? When you add into the mix a child with additional special needs, things can quickly become overwhelming. Fortunately, many tutors and tutoring services are experienced in working with kids who have special needs. Finding the right one may require a little more research on the parent’s part, but those seeking clients who have special needs should be happy to spend the time answering parents’ questions to ensure they are the right fit for your child. I spoke with two experts—Carol Lovallo, an educational development supervisor from Huntington Learning Center, and Emily Levy, Ed.D., the founder and director of EBL Coaching— who were friendly, knowledgeable about the field, and helped me come up with this list of 15 things you may want to consider when seeking out the right tutor for your child with special needs: What disabilities do your tutors have experience with? As all of us parents are painfully aware, different disabilities are not created equal. A tutor who has experience with dyslexia may not know what to do with learning issues caused by autism, ADHD, or OCD. Instead of starting with, “My child has _________,” or “Do you 24

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have experience with __________,” I have found it more helpful (and enlightening) to simply ask, “What disabilities and special needs have you had experience with?” Lovallo, for instance, touted Huntington Learning Center’s special ADHD program, in which the centers offer individualized help to children diagnosed with ADHD from teachers who have had specific training. Do you have any special qualifications, certifications, or credentials? Dr. Levy says parents should be asking about what specialized and research-based techniques are being used. As just one example, her company specializes in the Orton-Gillingham method for students who struggle with reading. How long have you been tutoring? This apparently means “how old are you?” in our house. Tutors come in all ages and experience levels, but it’s important to consider who your children will enjoy learning from and listening to—with whom they’ll click. My children have made their preferences known loud and clear and we do our best to accommodate. My oldest son and daughter prefer someone “not old like mommy,” and do very well with young, energetic, qualified college students. One of my middle boys, however, responds best to a woman closer to my own mother’s age who has more experience and a calm, quiet demeanor (to balance him bouncing off the wall, perhaps?).

How do you handle disruptive behavior, acting out, and attention issues? What’s your discipline strategy? Look, I love my kid, but when he starts rapidly clicking his pen for the 90th time after being asked to make change for a dollar, I can lose my cool. In calmer moments I’m redirecting, using mini M&M’S as positive reinforcement, or offering extra screen time for a successful finish to our homework session. It’s comforting to know the tutor’s (or tutoring center’s) strategies. What’s your expertise in the content area my child is studying? Now that you know the tutoring center specializes in ADHD, make sure it has tutors who also are knowledgeable in Spanish, calculus, or whatever subject(s) your child is struggling with. Do you have special needs references I can speak to?  “Special needs” is the key phrase here, because while Joe’s mom might rave about this place, Joe might be a B student who needed some basic math test prep. How does Maria’s mom, whose daughter has an autism spectrum disorder and is upset easily by certain noises, feel about their approach? Even better, do they have any clients with your child’s specific disability who would be willing to speak with you? Do you tutor at my home or only on-site? You should be able to find what you need fairly easily, and don’t need to compromise on this; do what is best for you and your child. Huntington Learning Center offers on-site tutoring with locations nationwide along with a search function on the website that will bring up a map of its nearby centers. EBL Coaching has tutors at several locations around the New York City area, as well as tutors who travel to students’ homes. What will the environment be like? If tutoring won’t be taking place in your home, it’s important to understand the surroundings where your child will be learning. Since my son has sensory processing disorder it’s important that there aren’t loud electric pencil sharpeners being used while he’s around. During his lessons, distractions and loud noises from sources such as gum, bubble wrap, or balloons need to be avoided. Will you be tutoring my child alone or in a group? Think about what approach might be best for your child. Is he motivated by a group and enjoys being around other children? Or does she struggle with social issues and is easily distracted? Many tutors and tutoring centers have different approaches. Some may start with a 1-on-1 approach and then increase the number of students per teacher (a practice which can help promote independence in the classroom). If you only want 1-on-1 tutoring, let it be known. How much do you charge per session? Is there a sliding scale? Are other fees involved? Make sure your budget includes the extras, such as possible fees for materials or assessments. How long is each tutoring session? What hours are sessions available? If your child struggles with attention issues, you might want to seek out a place that offers shorter, more frequent sessions. But if you’re trying to squeeze meetings into an already-packed schedule of extracurricular activities and therapists, perhaps fewer, longer sessions are what you’re looking for. What’s your policy for cancellations and make-up sessions? Don’t forget to check the policy both ways. What happens if your child is sick? How much notice is required to be able to reschedule without a penalty? What happens if the tutor can’t make it? At a larger center, perhaps a substitute is available, but ask: Will the substitute be brought up to speed on your child before you arrive? How do you evaluate progress? And what happens if my child doesn’t make progress? While you as a parent need to be clear on what progress you’re looking for your child to make, it should also be made clear how the center or tutor evaluates progress. Is it through test scores and report cards, or anecdotes gathered from your child’s teachers?

Huntington Learning Center uses more than one approach to form a baseline against which progress is measured, including interviews with parents and teachers as well as research-based tests. Lovallo says Huntington Learning Center actually uses hundreds of different curricula so there is always another way for a student to learn the material. At EBL Coaching, Dr. Levy says each student is constantly measured against his or her original baseline. She assures me that if a student isn’t making progress or responding, the plan is tweaked immediately. How will you communicate with me, and how often? How can I contact you with concerns? Some places opt for in-person meetings, while others include written reports for parents. Will you work with and communicate with my child’s teachers? With six kids, in my house a unified front is sometimes the only way we get through dinner, time-outs, and especially school work. Lovallo says tutors should be in touch with teachers as often as parents—they try to meet with or reach out to teachers at least once a month to make sure progress is being carried over to the classroom.

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This might seem obvious, but make sure that you explain your goals and ask for concrete steps on how they will be met. At the end of our conversation, Lovallo remarks, “You need to understand who is going to be working with your child. When you’re looking for a tutor, you want to make sure the person is qualified, and at our center what is important about us is that we are a research-based, professional institution.” This particularly hit home for me. Many excellent tutors and centers focus primarily on academics and their ability to raise your child’s test score and report card grades. However, this might not always be the main focus for a parent of a child with special needs. My oldest child is seven grade levels behind in math, exempt from New York state testing, and has an IQ hovering in the mid-70s. I just want him to be able to tell time and make change as he gets older. Make sure you and any potential tutor have the same vision for what your goals are and what progress you are seeking ahead of time. Michaela Searfoorce is a home-schooling mother of six children. She makes time to write in the wee hours. You can find more of her stories at thefoorce.com or thecentralparkzoo.com.

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CALENDAR 32 Editor’s Hot Tickets

38 Crafty Kids, Holiday Fun

34 We Can’t Believe It’s FREE!, Smarty Pants

39 Animal Lovers

35 Must-Sees in NYC

40 The Great Outdoors, Show Time!

36 Mini Musicians, Movers & Shakers

42 Special Needs, On Screen

37 Dance Party

43 Little Foodies

EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

‘Junie B. Jones, The Musical’

WHEN: Through April 2: Saturdays, 11am; Sundays, 12pm WHERE: The Showplace at Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Everyone’s favorite first-grader is back! Junie B. and her zany friends will thrill audiences young and old. WHY WE LOVE IT: ‘Cause everyone absolutely adores Junie B. Jones! WANT TO GO? $12. 516-599-6870. plazatheatrical.com.

Idina Menzel 2017 World Tour

WHEN: Friday, April 7, 8pm WHERE: Nassau Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Tony Award-winning icon Idina Menzel will perform as part of her 2017 World Tour. WHY WE LOVE IT: Who doesn’t love her song “Let It Go” from Frozen? WANT TO GO? $43.50 and up. 800-745-3000. nassaucoliseum.com.

‘Alice in Wonderland’

WHEN: Saturday, April 8, 2pm and 7pm WHERE: Patchogue Theatre for the Performing Arts, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: All WHAT: Featuring colourful characters such as the White Rabbit, the eccentric Mad Hatter, the Cheshire Cat and, of course, the boisterous Queen of Hearts, Alice in Wonderland has delighted audiences young and old for generations. WHY WE LOVE IT: A handful of actors and puppeteers play more than 20 unforgettable characters using their ingenious stagecraft and limitless possibilities of imagination to bring this beloved story to life. WANT TO GO? $23 and up. 631-207-1313. patchoguetheatre.org.

Celtic Woman: ‘Voices of Angels’

WHEN: Saturday, April 8, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: Featuring many songs from their Voices of Angels album, this inspiring live concert experience features all new stage designs, wardrobe, choreography, and arrangements of timeless Irish traditional and contemporary standards in the group’s award-winning signature style. WHY WE LOVE IT: Their exceptional skill and high energy bring a fresh fusion to centuries of musical and cultural tradition. WANT TO GO? $42 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

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Children’s Carnival

WHEN: April 1-9, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-6pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: The kids’ carnival in the apple orchard features midway games, food, hayrides, pony rides, and a seasonal petting zoo for an additional fee. Admission includes carnival rides. WHY WE LOVE IT: A great day of fun for the kid in all of us. WANT TO GO? $15. 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

Harlem Globetrotters 2017 World Tour

WHEN: Tuesday, April 11, 7pm WHERE: Nassau Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: A star-studded roster will have fans on the edge of their seats to witness the ball handling wizardry, basketball artistry and one-of-a-kind family entertainment that thrills fans of all ages. Join Globetrotter stars after the game for an autograph, photograph, and high-five session for fans. WHY WE LOVE IT: This must-see event is guaranteed to entertain the whole family. WANT TO GO? $26.50 and up. 516-231-4848. ticketmaster.com.

‘Red Riding Hood’

WHEN: April 1-12, see website for times WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Two siblings on a sleepover at their grandmother’s house have trouble falling asleep. To pass the time, they decide to act out their favorite story with items found in their grandmother’s attic. Soon, what’s real and what’s imagined begin to blur, and the children find themselves in the deep dark woods with a wolf tracking them down. WHY WE LOVE IT: Experience this innovative musical that offers an interactive take on a classic tale. WANT TO GO? $9 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Treehouse Shakers presents ‘Olive & Pearl’

WHEN: April 13-14, Thursday-Friday, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-5, adult WHAT: Meet Olive, a young girl who is lovingly being raised by her Granny. The characters play fairy house, go on an imaginary journey to the moon, and learn the jig. WHY WE LOVE IT: Audiences feel different textures, smell rich aromas, and actively participate in movements in this intimate show. WANT TO GO? $9 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Monster Jam Triple Threat Series

WHEN: April 21-23, Friday-Saturday, 7pm; SaturdaySunday, 1pm WHERE: Nassau Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This series tests the versatility of the athletes as they go headto-head in seven different competitions driving three different vehicles: Monster Jam trucks, Monster Jam Speedsters, and Monster Jam ATVs. WHY WE LOVE IT: These athletes battle for points in challenging racing and freestyle events that push themselves and their machines to the limit. WANT TO GO? $18 and up. 800-745-3000. nassaucoliseum.com.

All Kids Fair

WHEN: Sunday, April 30, 10am-4:30pm WHERE: Huntington Hilton, Grand Ballroom, 598 Broad Hollow Road, Melville AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy this celebration of life on Long Island for kids and their families with a bounce house, petting zoo, popcorn, sand art, face painting, balloons, craft projects, chocolate samples, and more. Now in a new, bigger location to accommodate a larger crowd. WHY WE LOVE IT: There will be more than 80 exhibitors introducing local products and services, plus kids’ classes for all ages including gymnastics, ballet, music, and messy toddler art. WANT TO GO? $5; free for children 2 and younger. 516-621-1446. allkidsfair.com. ››

Long Island’s First

PRIVATE SCHOOL FAIR FEATURING DR. SHEFALI | MAY 2 | 6-9 PM

You’re invited to join more than 20 greater Long Island private schools and hundreds of educators and parents for this inaugural, education-centered event. Dr. Shefali Tsabary, renowned author and speaker, will be presenting on new ideas in mindfulness and emotional intelligence that you can use at home or in the classroom. Seats are limited. Pre-register for this event at: www.LIPrivateSchoolFair.com.

6:00 - 9:00pm Greater Long Island Private School Fair 7:30 - 8:30pm Keynote, Dr. Shefali: Being Mindful for Joy in School and Harmony at Home 8:30 – 9:00pm Dr. Shefali Q&A and Book Signing Sponsored by:

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SMARTY PANTS Take-Home Snot

WHEN: Saturday, April 1, 11am-1pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Learn about chemical changes, your immune system, and how to gross people out when you make your own take-home snot. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Kids Workshop FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 1, 9am-12pm WHERE: Home Depot, 600 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Kids learn to build or create a useful, fun product. WANT TO GO? 516-488-8500. homedepot.com.

Pajama Storycrafters FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 5, 7-7:30pm WHERE: Mineola Public Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Put on your pajamas, grab your favorite stuffed animal, and get ready for exciting stories, favorite songs, and simple crafts. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Sound Off! (Save Long Island Sound) FREE

WHEN: Sunday, April 23, 12-4pm WHERE: Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Sag Harbor AGES: 3-12 WHAT: A hands-on afternoon for the whole family to learn the importance of Long Island Sound. WANT TO GO? 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Earth Day Craft Fun with Angela DePalma FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 25, 1:45pm WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Participate in mommy-and-me fun for Earth Day. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Star Wars Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 29, 10am-4pm WHERE: Garden City Public Library, 60 Seventh St., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Participate in Star Wars-themed programs, including a Star Wars scavenger hunt, word games, activities, and more. Star Wars characters will be available in the library for meet-and-greet and photo ops during the afternoon. WANT TO GO? 516-742-8405. gardencitypl.org. 34

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International Slow Art Day

WHEN: Saturday, April 8, 11am-4:45pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: An annual event at which people around the world commit to slowing their pace and really taking the time to look at art, WANT TO GO? $10 with museum admission: $10; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

Spring Break Rolling River Holiday Camp

WHEN: April 10-13, Monday-Thursday, 9am-4pm WHERE: Rolling River Day Camp, 477 Ocean Ave., East Rockaway AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Campers participate in fun activities such as arts and crafts, computers, Nintendo Wii games, cooking, playgrounds, gymnastics, yoga, relay races, off-campus trips, and more. WANT TO GO? $45 half day. 516-593-2267. rollingriver.com.

Day Camp Open House FREE

WHEN: Sunday, April 23, 10am-12pm WHERE: Beth Sholom Day Camp, 401 Roslyn Road, Roslyn Heights AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Meet camp leadership, tour the beautiful indoor and outdoor facility, and ask all of your questions. WANT TO GO? 516-621-9257. bethsholomdaycamp.com.

Summer Courses Open House FREE

WHEN: April 22-23, Saturday-Sunday, 2-7pm WHERE: Genius Design Lab, 1812 Merrick Road, Merrick AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Visit the open house to learn more about these summer courses, including graphic design, 3-D design and printing, and video game design. WANT TO GO? 888-378-3822. geniusdesignlab.com.

Braille Fest

WHEN: Saturday, April 29, 1-4:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Learn about Louis Braille, the inventor of a tactile system that assists blind and visually impaired people read and write. Through hands-on experiences, understand how a person who is blind can enjoy the same activities as a person who is sighted. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Star Wars Science with Chris Buchman FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 29, 11am-12pm WHERE: Garden City Public Library, 60 Seventh St., Garden City AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Do Star Wars-themed science experiments with science teacher Chris Buchman. WANT TO GO? 516-742-8405. gardencitypl.org.

WHEN: Sunday, April 30, 11am-1pm WHERE: Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton Regional School, 2341 Washington Ave., Bellmore AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Visit and see the amazing benefits an education at SEAS can provide for your child. The program provides a great introduction to the classroom and sets the stage for a life-long love of learning. WANT TO GO? 516-785-5709. steas.com.

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Early Childhood Open House FREE

KLUTZ® Amazingly Immature

WHEN: Through May 7: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Families are encouraged to embrace their inner zany genius while exploring what these behaviors can teach about science, engineering, math, and literacy. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

KaleidoZone Gallery: Javaka Steptoe’s Radiant Child

See the real-life Kratt brothers live on stage.

Wild on the Upper West Side April brings another hit TV show to the stage. This month it’s the Emmy-nominated PBS show, Wild Kratts. In Wild Kratts Live! kids learn about the natural world and have fun—with puppets, animation, and the Kratt brothers themselves. Your kids will come away excited about nature and animals, and they might learn something new, too. April 30, 2pm and 6pm. Age: All. $45-$65. Beacon Theatre, 2124 Broadway, Upper West Side. 212-465-6225. beacontheatre.com. Courtesy New York International Auto Show

WHEN: Through May 14: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Traditional illustration techniques combined with unusual material choices create exciting multi-layered images that capture the life of a dynamic artist. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org. ››

The show is a fun day out if you have little car fans in your family.

Automobiles for All Buckle up and head on down to the Javits Center. If your kids like cars you won’t want to miss the New York International Auto Show, which is the oldest and one of the most famous automotive shows in the U.S. In addition to the new cars on display, many exhibitors have activities specifically for kids. Last year’s show included diggers, teen safety education, and interactive displays. Strollers are welcome, making it a great day out for all ages. April 14-23; Monday-Saturday, 10am-10pm; Sunday, 10am-7pm. Age: All. $17; $7 for children (ages 2-12); free for children 2 and younger. Javits Convention Center, 655 W. 34th St., Chelsea. autoshowny.com.

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MUSICIANS Hot Peas ‘N Butter

WHEN: Saturday, April 1, 11am WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Port Washington AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Hot Peas ‘N Butter is a unique children’s musical group that incorporates elements of traditional Latin music, Afro-Caribbean rhythms, jazz, folk, and rock. WANT TO GO? $18. 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

Suzuki on the Island: Pianists Spring Recital

WHEN: Sunday, April 2, 3pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Join us for an afternoon of beautiful solo piano music performed by students from the Manhasset-based program, Suzuki on the Island. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children younger than 7. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Stan Wiest: Piano Music & Storytelling FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 5, 2pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Enjoy an afternoon of beautiful piano songs from classical to jazz, with stories and humorous anecdotes. WANT TO GO? 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

The Fifth Symphony of Gustav Mahler

WHEN: Saturday, April 8, 8pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 13 and older WHAT: The program will open with the effervescent “Overture to Il Matrimonio Segreto” by the early classical Italian composer Domenico Cimarosa, followed by Vaughan Williams’ lush and lyrical “Fantasia on Themes of Thomas Tallis.” WANT TO GO? $20 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Peter White: Jazz Concert

WHEN: Saturday, April 22, 8pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Peter White has maintained a reputation as one of the most versatile and prolific acoustic guitarists on the contemporary jazz landscape. WANT TO GO? $40 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org. 36

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WHEN: Saturday, April 22, 8pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 9 and older WHAT: See a performance of works by Beethoven, Debussy, Boulanger, and more. There will be a guided tour of Westbury House at 6:45pm and pre-concert talk at 7:30pm. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $30; $25 students and seniors. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Sixth Annual NY Guitar Show & Exposition

WHEN: April 22-23, Saturday, 10am-5:30pm; Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Freeport Recreation Center, 130 E. Merrick Road, Freeport AGES: All WHAT: Guitar players and enthusiasts will have their chance to buy, sell, and trade with a wide range of dealers and collectors. WANT TO GO? $10; $6 children ages 5-14; free for children younger than 5. 516-377-2314. nyguitarexpo.com.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Princess Day with Rapunzel

WHEN: Saturday, April 1, 2-4pm WHERE: Tots on Track, 4871 Merrick Road, Massapequa Park AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Come meet Rapunzel at Princess Day. Make a craft, have open play, and meet our adventurous princess. WANT TO GO? $20 per child; $10 per sibling. 516-795-5726. totsontrack.net.

Family Preschool Hour FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 5, 11am-12pm WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Enjoy an hour of singing, dancing, storytelling, and a craft with our friends from A Time for Kids Inc. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

April Mini-Camp

WHEN: April 11-13, Tuesday-Thursday, 10am-2pm WHERE: M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym Syosset, 171 Eileen Way, Syosset AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Spring into lots of games, crafts, gymnastics, and lunch with daily-themed activities. WANT TO GO? $50 per day. 516-496-7765. matsskidsgym.com.

Music and Movement

WHEN: Wednesday, April 19, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Musical instruments and sing-along songs get the youngest children’s bodies moving. WANT TO GO? $3 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

PlayHooray Kids FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 28, 12pm WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Sing, dance, and play with our friend Molly Mouse. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Dance India with the Ajna Dance Company FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 8, 2pm WHERE: Mineola Public Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the grace and beauty of different Indian dance styles: classical, folk, Bollywood, and semi-classical with performers of the Ajna Dance Company. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Latin Dance Fiesta

WHEN: Saturday, April 22, 8pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, Flushing Meadows Corona Park, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing, Queens AGES: 3 and older WHAT: In this lively and colorful show, four renowned Latin dance companies will showcase traditional dances from their country of origin. WANT TO GO? $25. 718-760-0064. queenstheatre.org.

Lincoln Center Local Screening: Curtain Up The School of American Ballet Workshop FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 22, 2:30pm WHERE: Bellerose Library, 250-08 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Nicole Pastorelli of Love to Dance Performing Arts Center will discuss the influence of ballet on other dance forms and demonstrate some basic ballet steps after this family-friendly screening that takes the audience behind the scenes to experience the intensive training. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org.

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New York Lizards vs. Denver Outlaws

WHEN: Saturday, April 29, 6pm WHERE: James M. Shuart Stadium, 900 Fulton Ave., Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: Bring your family and friends to watch Major League Lacrosse. Join in for the 2017 season at any of the Lizards’ seven upcoming home games. WANT TO GO? $22 and up. 516-742-1180. nylizards.com.

Open Bounce

WHEN: Through Dec. 28: Thursdays, 4:15pm WHERE: BounceU, 101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale AGES: 3-12 WHAT: The sessions include music, games, and of course, play time on the giant inflatable toys. Parents must remain on premises. WANT TO GO? $12.95. 631-777-5867. bounceu.com.

WHEN: Sunday, April 23, 7pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: Brown uses movement as a way to reinforce the importance of community in African-American culture and to acquaint audiences with the beauty of traditional African forms and rhythms. WANT TO GO? $20 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

Casey at the Bat FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 29, 2pm WHERE: Mineola Public Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a performance that incorporates the artistic elements of story, music, poetry, choreography, costumes, and scenery in a unified and seamless production. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info. ››

DANCE PARTY Dinner Dance Social

WHEN: Saturday, April 8, 6pm WHERE: La Focaccia Italian Restaurant Lounge, 70 E. Village Green, Levittown AGES: Adult WHAT: Singles Association of Long Island meets for fellowship and fun. Meet for a social hour gathering at 6pm, follwed by dinner and dancing with a live band. WANT TO GO? $34. 516-465-3953. meetup.com. LongIslandParent 37

Mad Props

WHEN: Sunday, April 16, 11am-1pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Join us as we make “Mad Props” (mustaches, bowties, and lips from paper and coffee stirrers) to post to the national #amazinglyimmature social media contest. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Upcycled Jewelry Making

CRAFTY KIDS Messy Immature Paintings

WHEN: Saturday, April 1, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Come get messy and make an immature masterpiece. Choose from a variety of fun objects to make your next immature painting. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Made with Love FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 12, 11am WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Make hats, scarves, blankets, and other items for hospitals, shelters, and the military in a friendly atmosphere. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Spring Break for Art: Family Art-Making Days

WHEN: April 11-13, Tuesday-Thursday, 11am-2pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: A different art project will be offered every day. WANT TO GO? $10 with admission: $10; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org/events.

Spring Art & Sensory Fun Studio

WHEN: April 10-14, Monday-Friday, 10-11:30am and 12:30-2pm WHERE: Not Just Art, 183 South St., Oyster Bay AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Artful blossoms, birdies, bugs, and other green activities fill the studio as we celebrate spring. WANT TO GO? $24; $18 per sibling. 516-922-8300. notjustart.com.

Line Up for Willem de Kooning

WHEN: April 10-14, Monday-Friday, 11am, 1pm, and 3pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Using a variety of materials, explore how lines create energy within a composition and take us on a visual trip. WANT TO GO? $3 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

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WHEN: Thursday, April 20, 6:45-8:15pm WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Join Cathy Buckley, Floral Park’s creative upcycled jewelry designer and maker, for an adventure in creating your own baubles. WANT TO GO? $15. 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Family Paint Party with p[ART]y Art FREE

WHEN: Sunday, April 23, 2pm WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Join in for a fun afternoon for kids to learn how to create a beautiful painting. Each child will receive a canvas, and adults will help the children create. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Sweet Little Snails

WHEN: Sunday, April 30, 2:30pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Make your own garden snail with colorful pom-poms, pipe cleaners, and more. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Crafts For Kids FREE

WHEN: April 1-30, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Lakeshore Learning Store, 2079 Hillside Ave., New Hyde Park AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Kids will have a ball making exciting crafts that they can use or display. WANT TO GO? 516-616-9360. lakeshorelearning.com.

Neiman Marcus Family Sundays at the Museum

WHEN: April 1-30, Sundays, 1pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Be inspired by the works in the galleries and explore new art materials. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12; $2 weekend parking fee. 516-484-9338. nassaumuseum.org.

HOLIDAY FUN Afikoman Bags

WHEN: Sunday, April 2, 2-4pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Learn about the Passover tradition and decorate your own Afikoman Bag with felt and embellishments. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Our Earth, Our Home

WHEN: Saturday, April 22, 11am-3pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Learn how you can make a difference in keeping our planet healthy! WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Egg-Cellent Celebration

WHEN: Sunday, April 2, 11am-12pm and 1-2pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3-12 WHAT: See a scrimshawed Ostrich egg, go on an egg hunt in the museum, and decorate a Fabergé-style egg. The first session is for ages 3-6 and second is for ages 6-12. WANT TO GO? $5 with admission: $6; $5 children. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Easter Egg Hunt FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 8, 11am WHERE: Trinity Episcopal Church Roslyn Childcare Center, 1579 Northern Blvd., Roslyn AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Bring your little ones for a great time at the Easter egg hunt. The event is open to the public and refreshments will be served. WANT TO GO? 516-626-0293. trinitychild.org.

Passover Scavenger Hunt Storytime & Craft FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 8, 11am WHERE: The Dolphin Bookshop, 299 Main St., Port Washington AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Join author Shanna Silva for story time and craft followed by a book signing. WANT TO GO? 516-767-2650. thedolphinbookshop.com.

It’s an Easter Party, Charlie Brown! FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 11, 4:30pm WHERE: Mineola Public Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy Easter-related snacks, such as chocolates and Peeps, while watching a film showing of It’s the Easter Beagle, Charlie Brown! Take home a fun goodie bag. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Barnyard Egg Hunt

WHEN: Saturday, April 15, 11am-3pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park, Queens AGES: All WHAT: Egg hunts will be ongoing in the orchard and Whiskers the Bunny will be hopping about ready for photo-ops, and there will be games, food, and more. Bring your own baskets; registration required. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

ANIMAL LOVERS Feathered Friends

WHEN: Friday, April 14, 1pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Create your own spring bird using colorful feathers and fun craft materials. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Victoria’s Amazing Pets FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 22, 2pm WHERE: Mineola Public Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: All WHAT: Explore various breeds of pigeons and chickens through this fascinating presentation, which includes a live animal exhibit. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Meet Dagger FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 22, 2pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: All WHAT: Come meet Dagger, the painting dog. He and his owner will be showing off his skills. WANT TO GO? 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Seal Watching Weekend Cruises

WHEN: Through April 30: Saturday-Sunday, 1pm WHERE: Captain Lou Fleet & Sapphire Cruises, 28 Woodcleft Ave., Freeport AGES: All WHAT: A naturalist is on board to discuss the behavior and biology of seals and other wildlife encountered. WANT TO GO? $26; $22 children ages 4-12. 631-369-9840. captloufleet.com.

All the Little Birdies

WHEN: Sunday, April 30, 1pm; 1:30pm; 2pm; and 2:30pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Come welcome the spring season as we decorate lovely little birdhouses for our winged friends. WANT TO GO? $3 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org. ››

Eggsactly It!

WHEN: Saturday, April 15, 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Commemorate the Easter holiday by embellishing your own egg using the method of decoupage, the art of decorating with paper cut-outs. WANT TO GO? $3 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org. LongIslandParent 39

Arbor Day Festival

WHEN: April 29-30, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Planting Fields Arboretum, Greenhouse Classroom, 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Activities include stilt walkers from National Circus Project, caricaturists, Muttville Dog Show, and more. Proceeds benefit Planting Fields Arboretum State Historic Park. WANT TO GO? $20 per vehicle. 516-922-3200. plantingfields.org.

The Butterfly Conservatory

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Listen Up! Storybook Stroll: ‘Peter Rabbit’ by Beatrix Potter

WHEN: Saturday, April 1, 12pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Open your ears to classic and modern tales as we stroll the gardens, then create a unique craft to take home. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors, $7 children ages 7-17; free for children 6 and younger. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Macy’s Flower Show 2017 FREE

WHEN: Through April 9: daily, Monday-Friday, 9am-9:30pm; Saturday, 10am-9:30pm; Sunday, 11am-8:30pm WHERE: Macy’s Herald Square, 151 W. 34th St., Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Macy’s Flower Show has delighted generations of New Yorkers with its over-the-top presentations featuring millions of live flowers and lavish gardens. This year’s theme is a celebration of the iconic American carnival. WANT TO GO? 212-695-4400. macys.com.

Make Up! Maker Projects: Seedballs

WHEN: Saturday, April 15, 12pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Join a guided gardens walk to unearth your inner artist. Gather natural inspiration to form a seasonally inspired take home craft. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $12. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Spring Dog Weekend

WHEN: April 22-23, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Bring your leashed dog for an invigorating walk in designated areas of the grounds. Meet fellow dog lovers in an amazing environment. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children younger than 7. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org. 40

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WHEN: Through May 28: Daily, 10am-5:45pm WHERE: The American Museum of Natural History, 200 Central Park W., Upper West Side, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: One of the museum’s most popular, annual events, this exhibit features up to 500 live, iridescent, tropical butterflies from the Americas, Africa, and Asia. WANT TO GO? $27; $22 seniors and students; $16 children ages 2-12; free for children younger than 2. 212-769-5100. amnh.org.

SHOW TIME! ‘Brighton Beach Memoirs’

WHEN: Through April 2: Daily, see website for times WHERE: Adelphi University Performing Arts Center, 1 South Ave., Garden City AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This bittersweet memoir evocatively captures the life of a struggling Jewish household. WANT TO GO? $25. 516-877-4040. aupac.adelphi.edu.

Laura Ingalls Wilder

WHEN: Sunday, April 2, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This uplifting story of one of America’s most beloved authors comes to life in ArtsPower’s popular musical. WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

‘Twelfth Night’

WHEN: Through April 9: Friday-Saturday, 7:30pm; Sunday, 4pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, Flushing Meadows Corona Park, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing, Queens AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Magic, mayhem, and mistaken identities come to the stage in Shakespeare’s cherished romantic comedy of revelry, reunion, and love. WANT TO GO? $18. 718-760-0064. queenstheatre.org.

Liz Joyce and a Couple of Puppets Present ‘The Doubtful Sprout’

WHEN: Saturday, April 22, 11:30am and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Tunnel down with Worm and Sprout as they discover the mysterious life found inside soil. Along the way, kids help figure out the secrets that help Sprout grow. WANT TO GO? $9 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

‘Seussical’

WHEN: Sunday, April 23, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, Flushing Meadows Corona Park, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing, Queens

AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Dr. Seuss’s beloved characters find themselves intertwined in an incredible crazy-quilt adventure, in which the power of imagination and the most miraculous “think” ever saves the day. WANT TO GO? $14. 718-760-0064. queenstheatre.org.

The Road to Oz: Hollywood Hits from Harold Arlen

WHEN: Sunday, April 23, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 9 and older WHAT: A toast to Harold Arlen, who composed the beloved songs for MGM’s timeless classic, The Wizard of Oz. WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Norm Lewis in Concert

WHEN: Friday, April 28, 8pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Norm Lewis made history as The Phantom of the Opera’s first African-American Phantom on Broadway. WANT TO GO? $47 and up. 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

A Dream is a Wish: Princess Concert

WHEN: Saturday, April 29, 11am and 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Tap and sing along to all of your favorite Disney songs as we take you through a magical journey. You’ll even get to meet your favorite princess! WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Les Degen Sings Sinatra FREE

WHEN: Sunday, April 30, 2pm WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Les Degen will perform selections from Ol’ Blue Eyes, Bobby Darin, and more. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

‘Curious George and the Golden Meatball’

WHEN: April 15-May 7, Saturdays, 2pm; Sundays, 12pm WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre in Elmont, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Everyone’s favorite mischievous monkey and his friend in the yellow hat sing and dance up a storm in this adventure-filled musical. WANT TO GO? $13; $11 in advance. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org. ››

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ON SCREEN ‘From Italy with Love’ Presented by Marilyn Carminio FREE WHEN: Wednesday, April 12, 2pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: This multimedia presentation unveils the personal stories of both Sophia Loren and Marcello Mastroianni, and examines the impact of their work in the 17 films made together. WANT TO GO? 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

Planetary FREE

SPECIAL NEEDS ‘Red Riding Hood’: Sensory Performance

The Sixth Annual Asbury Short Films

WHEN: Sunday, April 2, 5pm and 7pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Presented exclusively for families with children with sensory difficulties with lower sound levels, lowered lights, and the ability to move freely and talk during the performance. WANT TO GO? $9 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

WHEN: Friday, April 28, 7:30pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 9 and older WHAT: An evening of world-renowned, award winning short films from the past and present. WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

TAPA Workshop

WHEN: Through June 30: Monday-Friday, 12pm and 3pm; SaturdaySunday, 1pm and 4pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona, Queens AGES: All WHAT: Moviegoers will learn about the important role of the International Space Station, uncover what NASA and the space community are working on, and discover the challenges they face to carry out bold missions such as capturing asteroids and landing astronauts on Mars. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children with admission: $15; $12 children, students, and seniors. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

WHEN: Sunday, April 23, 11am-1pm WHERE: Theresa Academy of Performing Arts, 250 Lido Blvd., Lido Beach AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy creative arts classes featuring the musical The Wizard of Oz. Activities may include dance, music, art, drumming, drama, and yoga. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $20. 516-432-0200. tapany.org.

Creative Expeditions

WHEN: Tuesday, April 25, 4-5:15pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children who are on the autism spectrum, along with their families or caregivers, engage in gallery experiences that encourage talking about and making art. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12; $2 weekend parking fee. 516-484-9338. nassaumuseum.org.

Teen Compass: Autism and the Arts

WHEN: April 4-June 13, Tuesdays, 4-5:15pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Students with autism will have the opportunity to apply their artistic skills and functional academic learning in a real world setting, while preparing to transition to after-school life. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12; $2 weekend parking fee. 516-484-9338. nassaumuseum.org. 42

WHEN: Thursday, April 20, 7pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Planetary is a provocative and breathtaking wakeup call—a cross continental, cinematic journey, that explores our cosmic origins and our future as a species. WANT TO GO? 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

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‘Journey to Space’ 3-D Movie

Bring in your nearly new kid’s stuff, and we’ll pay you cash on the spot for all items accepted

Shoes and Accessories

• Casual and Dress Shoes • Sleepwear

WE ACCEPT ALL SEASON CHILDREN’S APPAREL All equipment and toys must be less than 5 years old and not be recalled

Furniture

• Changing Tables & Dressers • Bassinets & Cradles • Glider Rockers, Book Cases, Toy Boxes

Books and Toys

• Children’s Books • Infant-Preschool Toys • Outdoor Toys • Puzzles

Clothing

• Newborn to Size 14

(0-12 months must have tags)

• Play Clothes • Dresswear & Outerwear

Equipment • High Chairs & Swings • Gates • Pack N Plays , Bouncy Seats, Walkers, Exersaucers

LITTLE FOODIES Family Fun: Hop Into Spring Bunny Cake FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 3, 6:30pm WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Turn a delicious cake into an adorable bunny with decorative elements provided by Miss Julie from Chefs of d’Future. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Teen Earth Day Edible Treat FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 7, 4pm WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens will make a scrumptious treat to celebrate Earth Day. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

What’s Cookin’: Leafy Greens

WHEN: Saturday, April 8, 12pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Discover tasty delights growing in our garden beds. Make a simple recipe filled with seasonal ingredients. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children 6 and younger. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Our Lady of Mercy 520 South Oyster Bay Road Hicksville, NY 11801

Scone Workshop with the Baking Coach FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 18, 7pm WHERE: Garden City Public Library, 60 Seventh St., Garden City AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Learn how to make scones from scratch. Take home in a tin to bake. WANT TO GO? 516-742-8405. gardencitypl.org.

Coming up next month: MAY 6: Chinese Theatre Works at Landmark on Main Street, Port Washington MAY 12-21: Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Presents Out of This World at NYCB Live, home of the Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum Presented By New York Community Bank, Uniondale MAY 13: Elephant & Piggie’s We Are in a Play! at Tilles Center, Brookville

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WHERE-TO GUIDE

Catch a Minor League Baseball Game ››

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Research by Sabrina Sooknanan

Courtesy Long Island Ducks

Take the family out to a ball game! For a fraction of the cost of a Mets or Yankees game, you can check out some of the sport’s up-andcoming big hitters at a local minor league game and soak up tons of fun perks for kids, such as hanging out on the field before the game, meeting the players, and free admission to some games. Please note that dates and prices are projected for the season. We recommend confirming details before heading out to the ballpark. Season begins April 20; home game April 28 Tickets: $12-$15; discounts for groups of 25 or more Kids ages 14 and younger can join the Kids Club for discounts and special events. Members are invited to Kids Club Day, when they can go on a behind-thescenes tour of Bethpage Ballpark and get a chance to run the bases. Somerset Patriots TD Bank Ballpark, 1 Patriots Park, Bridgewater, NJ somersetpatriots.com Season begins April 21 Tickets: $9-$25 Children can join the Somerset Sluggers Kids Club for special opportunities such as posing with the entire Somerset Patriots team in the Somerset Sluggers team poster, exclusive Q-and-A’s with Patriots Players, and ballpark tours. AllStar birthday parties are available.

Long Island Ducks mascot QuackerJack, Long Island’s Best Mascot for six consecutive years, enjoys time with a family during one of the team’s regular season home games.

New York City Brooklyn Cyclones Class A Short-Season New York-Penn League (New York Mets) MCU Park, 1904 Surf Ave., Coney Island, Brooklyn brooklyncyclones.com Season begins June 17 Tickets: $10-$17 in advance Through the Field of Dreams program, youth baseball, softball, and Little League teams can stand side by side, in uniform, with the Cyclones while the national anthem plays at the start of the game (you must purchase a minimum of 15 tickets to participate in this program). Fireworks are free after every Tuesday, Friday, and Saturday home game. On Sunday Fundays, kids can run the bases after the game and get the chance to play catch on the field before the game. 44

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Staten Island Yankees Class A Short-Season New York-Penn League (New York Yankees) Richmond County Bank Ballpark, 75 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island siyanks.com Season begins June 19 See website for ticket prices. The stadium offers group tickets that include discount ticket prices, fan gear, a chance for kids (ages 12 and younger) to run the bases after the game, and the opportunity to join Scooter’s Kids Club.

Atlantic League of Professional Baseball Double A – Triple A

Long Island Ducks Bethpage Ballpark, 3 Court House Drive, Central Islip liducks.com

Bridgeport Bluefish The Ballpark at Harbor Yard, 500 Main St., Bridgeport, CT bridgeportbluefish.com Season begins April 28 Tickets: $12; discounted rates for groups of 20 or more Kids ages 13 and younger can join the Kids Club for special events and activities throughout the season and during the offseason. Young athletes can join a Youth League Outing to accompany the players on the field during the national anthem, join the players on the field during team introductions, play catch with the players before the game, and more; see the website for details. Lancaster Barnstormers Clipper Magazine Stadium, 650 N. Prince St., Lancaster, PA lancasterbarnstormers.com Season begins April 21; home game April 28 Tickets: $7-$13

Several ticket packages available for groups and families. Children ages 12 and younger can gain one free lawn admission ticket if they wear their local, organized sport uniform to any home game. York Revolution PeoplesBank Park, 5 Brooks Robinson Way, York, PA yorkrevolution.com Season begins April 28 Tickets: $8-$14 Kids can join Rookie Revs ($27) for special events, and receive six ticket vouchers for any game.

Southeast New York Hudson Valley Renegades Class A Short-Season New YorkPenn League (Tampa Bay Rays) Dutchess Stadium, 1500 Route 9D, Wappingers Falls hvrenegades.com Season begins June 19; home game June 21 See website for ticket prices. The Renegades offers special discounts and packages for groups of 15 or more. There will be an All-Scout Sleepover on June 1. Rockland Boulders CanAm League Palisades Credit Union Park, 1 Palisades Credit Union Park Drive, Pomona rocklandboulders.com Season begins May 18 Tickets: $11-$16 Kids ages 12 and younger can get on the field every Sunday and run the bases after the game. Kids are also allowed to play catch on the field after the games.

Connecticut Hartford Yard Goats Double-A (Colorado Rockies) Dunkin Donuts Park, 1214 Main St., Hartford yardgoatsbaseball.com Season begins April 6; home game April 13 Tickets: $6-$22 Kids ages 12 and younger

can become members of the Red Robin Kid’s Club (free membership). They’ll also get a chance to receive invitations to special events, exclusive Yard Goats giveaways, a 10-percent discount at the team store, and club ticket packages for parents of members. See the website for details. Connecticut Tigers Class A Short-Season New YorkPenn League (Detroit Tigers) Dodd Stadium, 14 Stott Ave., Norwich cttigers.com Season begins June 19 Tickets: $10-$20; groups of 15 or more receive a discount rate Fun birthday parties and group outings available at Connecticut Tigers games. There will be a baseball clinic for aspiring players ages 6-15, the date is TBD at the time of publication.

4th Annual

PREGNANT ISLAND

Local Health and Wellness Event

THE WOODBURY JEWISH CENTER VIVIEN GROSSMAN EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATION PROGRAM 200 South Woods Road Woodbury, New York 11797 SUNDAY, MAY 21ST, 2017 12:00 - 2:00pm PURCHASE TICKETS VIA WWW.PREGNANTISLAND.COM $20 IN ADVANCE | $25 AT THE DOOR Meet other expecting Long-Islanders and new parents Learn from prenatal/postpartum professional speakers Win luxury mommy-approved raffle prizes! Take home baby-friendly swag bags!

New Jersey New Jersey Jackals CanAm League Yogi Berra Stadium, 8 Yogi Berra Drive, Little Falls jackals.com Season begins May 18 Tickets: $12-$17 The Baseball Buddies program allows youngsters to be introduced like the pro players and take the field with the Jackals for the national anthem. See website for details. Trenton Thunder Double-A (New York Yankees) Arm & Hammer Park, 1 Thunder Road, Trenton trentonthunder.com Season begins April 13 Tickets: $8-$13 The team offers Boomer’s Kids Club, presented by the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia at University Medical Center Princeton at Plainsboro. The club is for fans younger than 12 and features special discounts, one-of-akind experiences, and on-field opportunities. Memberships are $25 for the first child and $10 per child after.

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The Road to Oz: Hollywood Hits from

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APRIL 30 A Dream is a Wish

Princess Concert

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The Ultimate Party-Planning Timeline ›› How to give your kids the birthday of their dreams—without driving yourself crazy in the process By Bethany Braun-Silva

ids may look forward to their birthday parties all year long, but let’s face it: For many of us, planning that party can be stressful, yet another project in our already hectic lives. It can feel overwhelming even before you consider kids’ high expectations for the perfect birthday. But don’t panic— we are here to help! To keep you organized, here’s a timeline of everything you need to make the planning process run smoothly, whether you are hosting the party at home or at one of the many local birthday party places. From when to book the venue to when to buy supplies (hint, not as early as you may think!), we’ve got you covered.

Six Months Prior

This might seem like a very long time in advance to start planning your child’s birthday party, but if you’re thinking of doing it at a party venue, it can book up fast. Now is the time to start getting an idea of what your child wants, including themes, places, and the size of the guest list. It wouldn’t hurt to start calling possible venues about availability.

Three Months Prior

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Start thinking about a theme. If your child is old enough, discuss it with him. You can start putting together a Pinterest board to collect all of your ideas and inspiration. This is also a great way to get the birthday boy or girl involved, says Seri Kertzner, owner of Little Miss Party Planner, a party planning service in New York City and the Hamptons. “Kids love talking and planning for a specific theme especially when it comes to the look of the cake,” she says. “Let your little one help you sketch a picture of the cake to show your bakery.”   Do you want entertainment at your child’s party? Now is the time to start thinking about booking clowns, magicians, or any characters that will make an appearance. Be sure to ask all entertainers about set-up requirements and backups in case they are sick.

Two Months Prior

Confirm the date with the venue and go over the details. Be sure to find out what they will be providing in the way of food, cake, decorations, and favors. Pick menu items and décor and make a list of anything additional you will need to buy or prepare. Make arrangements to get whatever is not provided by the venue.

This is also a good time to start thinking about the guest list. If your child’s in school, there might be a policy in which all children in her class must be invited. If not, decide on the size of the party and be sure to keep your budget in mind. Many venues offer parties for 10-12 kids and can charge a hefty price for additional guests.

One Month Prior

Mail (or email) invitations and make sure they have a clear RSVP date. This is also another prime opportunity to get your child involved. The experts at MarthaStewart.com suggest, “Have him or her draw on paper (or a blank puzzle) and color in the designs, cut out pictures to glue onto blank invitations, or put stickers on cards.”   Make sure you line up help for the day of the party. Confirm that a babysitter, close friend, or relative will be on hand to help in whatever way you need.   Start shopping for supplies. “You don’t want to shop too far in advance for kids ages 3-6 years old—that may be too early,” says Marla Mase, owner of Party Poopers, a party planning company in NYC. “Remember, kids change their minds a lot— and what they liked three months ago may be very different than what they like today.”

Two Weeks Prior

Order the cake if you don’t plan on baking it yourself. And if you are baking it yourself, check the recipe, make your shopping list, and get the necessary ingredients.

snacks, and movies, and you’re set if you find you need to make a last-minute change,” Kertzner says.

The Day of the Party

Deep breaths! Hopefully, you have planned far enough ahead to only need to take care of a few minor details and do prep work on the big day. Here are some things to consider: • Get the house ready for the big day.   • Decorate, set the table, prepare activities, and confirm with entertainment that morning.   • Bake or pick up the cake.   • Know where the candles and matches are.   • Set up the food.   • Clear a table for presents.   • Make sure to have a pad and pen on hand when you open presents to record who gave what. Finally, “Be relaxed!” Kertzner says. “The most important thing is for your kids to have a good time. If you chose a good venue they will take care of every detail so you can be a guest and enjoy your child’s party.”

Several Days After

Write thank you notes. Have your child assist you in thanking her guests for coming to her party. Younger kids can dictate their message to you or draw a picture on the notes; older kids can sign their names, while those who can write their own notes should do so themselves.

If the party is at home, start thinking of games and activities for the children to play. There are plenty of online resources with ideas, and be sure to ask your child because he may have a very specific idea of what he wants to do at the party.

One Week Prior

The party is getting close! This is the time to start tying up loose ends and confirming all details are correct. Follow up on any unanswered invitations.   Prepare the goodie bags. You’ll need the bags themselves, of course, and the contents to go in them. And remember, you can give small games, pencils and erasers, or even small books in addition to, or instead of, candy, to cut down on the sugar. Make sure you have enough storage on your phone for pictures. Time to make some tough decisions! But better than being caught without a camera available at the party. Get the space ready. If you are having the party at home, now is a time to clean, clear space, and move valuables and breakable things out of the way.   If the party is not at home, confirm the timeline with your venue. What is the order of activities? When should the food arrive? And so on.   Have a back-up plan. “If you’re hosting a party outdoors you must have a back-up plan, including a space indoors. Check the weather and two days out make your call. Board games,

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he majority of Americans have at least 300 different environmental chemicals in their blood, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. These include flame retardants in crib mattresses, formaldehyde in furniture, bisphenol A (BPA) in food, and phthalates in toys and toiletries; it’s enough to make even the most laid back parent anxious. Feeling overwhelmed? Here are some simple things you can do to help green your home, starting with kids’ rooms and playrooms.

Reality Check

The most common dangers at home are lead, pesticides, flame retardants, endocrine disruptors, cleaning products, and air pollutants. Before you start freaking out, give yourself a break— you can’t possibly stop your children from coming into contact with these chemicals completely. “I know that feeling of being the frontline of protection for your family, and it’s exhausting,” says Sonya Lunder, senior analyst at the nonprofit Environmental Working Group. “It’s not possible, and it’s not necessary.” 48

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Beware of Lead Paint

If your home was built before 1978, have it inspected for lead paint. Dust and flakes are dangerous to children, who breathe in more than adults and put their hands in their mouths a lot. Make sure any renovations are properly sealed, and check paint regularly for chips. Vacuum and wipe down surfaces weekly, using a vacuum with a high-efficiency particulate air (HEPA) filter. My son’s lead levels became elevated last year after a workman scraped off lead paint from a door in his room without taking precautions.

Don’t Use Bug Treatments

A 2015 study found that use of household insecticides was connected to increased risk of leukemia and lymphoma in kids. Look for natural ways of controlling pests, such as blocking off access and vacuuming regularly. Never use pesticides in children’s rooms, and if you have to use them on your pets, keep them away from your kids and high-traffic areas for at least 24 hours.

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“The one thing you should do in your kid’s room is buy a new non-toxic mattress,” says Maia James, founder of the website Gimme The Good Stuff and a healthy home consultant. Many conventional mattresses are made from petroleum-based polyurethane foam covered with vinyl containing phthalates and sprayed with flame retardants. All of these things off-gas while your child is asleep. Don’t use hand-me-downs; mattresses made before 2005 may contain polybrominated diphenyl ethers (PBDEs), highly toxic fire retardants that are now banned. There are lots of manufacturers who now make mattresses without flame retardants, and if you want to go even further, buy one made of natural materials such as cotton and wool and that has been certified by an independent body such as GreenGuard or Oeko-Tex. Don’t use pillows or changing pads that contain foam; replace them with organic wool or cotton instead. Finally, make sure you wash any new bedding, as lots of textiles are processed with dyes and formaldehyde.

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When buying kids’ furniture, the best choice is solid wood rubbed with oil and made with non-toxic glues. However this isn’t an option for everyone due to budget or decor. The biggest dangers are flame retardants in foam and volatile organic compounds (VOCs) such as formaldehyde from composite wood, paint, furniture glue, and varnishes. The good news is that all furniture is becoming safer, thanks to laws that limit off-gassing. Look for brands with low emission standards such as California Air Resources Board (CARB or European equivalents) and foam without flame retardants. Avoid products with stain- or water-resistant finishes, which can contain perfluorinated chemicals (PFCs). There are lowor no-VOC paints and varnishes available, and if you have already renovated you can buy sealants to stop off-gasing.

Get a Wool Rug

Choose solid wood floors and natural flooring, as some carpets and their glues can off-gas formaldehyde and acetone. Avoid vinyl tiles (which can contain phthalates) and don’t forget rugs. “One simple thing I tell people to do is get a wool rug,” James says. Studies have shown that wool flooring absorbs formaldehyde and nitrogen, making it a great choice for kids’ rooms.

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Use Air-Cleaning Plants

Put a spider plant or peace lily on your kid’s dresser—not only will it look good, it will also improve the air quality. “Houseplants are surprisingly effective,” James says. In 1989, NASA conducted a now-famous study that revealed many common houseplants were able to filter VOCs such as formaldehyde, ammonia, and benzene.

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mouths. Use toys and teethers made of natural materials, such as wood and cloth, instead of plastic. Don’t let kids play with polycarbonate water bottles or containers (marked with a “7” or PC), as these are most likely to contain BPA, or chew on electronics such as phones and remotes, as they can contain flame retardants. Finally, be careful with kid’s jewelry; it can contain lead and cadmium.

Clean Up Safely

Break out that vacuum regularly in kids’ rooms and play areas to get rid of toxins that collect in dust. Choose one with a HEPA filter and follow up with a wet mop as often as possible. With cleaning products less is more. “Disinfecting products are simply

CHEMICAL GLOSSARY Flame Retardants Found in polyurethane foam, such as nursing pillows, mattresses, changing pads, and car seats, as well as electronic items such as remote controls. Known carcinogens, neurotoxins, and endocrine disruptors. A recent study found that levels in the bodies of children were nearly five times higher than their mothers.

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Triclosan Found in antibacterial soaps, toothpaste, and hand sanitizers. Linked to cancer, endocrine disruption, liver toxicity, and thyroid dysfunction. Recently banned by the Food and Drug Administration for use in hand soaps. Perfluorinated Chemicals (PFCs) Found in waterproof and stainproof shoes and clothes, furniture, and carpets. Suspected to be carcinogenic and to cause liver and thyroid problems. Parabens Used as preservatives in food, cosmetics, and pharmaceuticals Some have been linked to endocrine disruption, sperm damage, breast cancer, and neurological and hormonal conditions.

not necessary outside a clinical setting,” Lunder says. Many contain strong chemicals that cause asthma, skin irritation, and even cancer. Warm water and soap is enough for daily cleaning. For something stronger, look for active ingredients such as hydrogen peroxide or citric acid. Using microfiber cloths and mops will also make it easier to clean up without chemicals.

Wash Your Hands

Get rid of the hand sanitizer by the changing mat and don’t use it on your kids’ hands. It may contain triclosan, trilocarbon, or fragrances, which are suspected carcinogens and endocrine disruptors. Triclosan was recently banned by the Food and Drug Administration and is also found in antibacterial soap.

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Throw away the air freshener, as it may contain phthalates among other nasties. James recommends a low-fi option: activated charcoal bags. Charcoal is a natural air purifier and may absorb some toxins, as well as bad odors. If you want to go one step further, buy an air filter such as the Austin Air Healthmate, which filters gases, odors, and particles. Finally remember to open windows often, as indoor air often contains higher levels of VOCs such as formaldehyde.

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Now for some good news: “Levels of BPA, triclosan, parabens, and some phthalate levels in blood have gone down between 2003 and 2014,” Lunder says. This is thanks to increased awareness and new laws and regulations. So speak up and support groups such as the Environmental Working Group that is campaigning to change legislation, and educate your friends and family to make smart choices. “It’s not a job that one person can do on their own, we have to change it on a national level,” Lunder says.

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amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen can help you achieve your objectives through careful special needs legal planning, regardless of the size of your estate. All clients are provided with high quality service at a reasonable cost. LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C. 1772 E. Jericho Turnpike, Suite 2, Huntington 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law. SPECIAL NEEDS BAKSHI LAW Offices in the Financial District, Long Island, and Westchester 917-244-6133 lawbakshi.com lara.bakshi@gmail.com Bakshi Law specializes in special education law, representing parents and children with disabilities, attending suspension hearings, CSE, and resolution meetings. Our attorneys offer assistance on a sliding scale. DR. ELLEN T RICHER, EDUCATION CLINICIAN & COUNSELOR Convenient Long Island Locations 347-668-3676 etrdream@aol.com We co-develop strategies to improve executive functioning, sensory processing, and social cognition challenges, and provide enrichment opportunities to engage and motivate highly capable yet underachieving children. LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C. 1772 E. Jericho Turnpike, Suite 2, Huntington 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com

brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law. LITTLE OPTICS INC. 192-07 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows, Queens 53-15 Roosevelt Ave., Woodside, Queens 718-468-7500 Hablamos Español littleopticsinc@yahoo.com We provide eyeglasses and professional eye care for children, including infants and young adults. We also alleviate any self-esteem issues associated with the stigma of wearing glasses. When your child leaves Little Optics, rest assured that they will feel confident. LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders. STEPS TO SOCIALIZATION 13 S. Bayles Ave., Port Washington 516-767-0266 Steps to Socialization was created to help children who have difficulty socializing. We teach children how to think socially, step by step. Working in small groups, we cover a variety of topics, including how to establish and maintain friendships and initiating and maintaining conversations.

SPECIAL NEEDS EMPLOYMENT STRATEGIC STAFFING WORKS Brooklyn and Long Island locations 631-649-6573 strategicstaffingworks.com strategicstaffingworks@gmail.com Offers workshops designed to help parents, family, and friends aid people with diverse abilities in their search for employment and life-fulfilling volunteer opportunities. THERAPY & COUNSELORS DR. ELLEN T RICHER, EDUCATION CLINICIAN & COUNSELOR Convenient Long Island Locations 347-668-3676 etrdream@aol.com We co-develop strategies to improve executive functioning, sensory processing, and social cognition challenges, and provide enrichment opportunities to engage and motivate highly capable yet underachieving children. TUTORS & TEST PREP JEI LEARNING CENTERS (NASSAU) Herricks-Williston Park: 516-742-5534 Hicksville-Jericho: 917-815-0977 Merrick-Bellmore: 516-308-4705 jei.com JEI Learning Centers offer a variety of academic enrichment and tutoring programs for children in pre-K through ninth grade, including math, problem solving, English, reading, and writing. VILLAGE EAST GIFTED: ENRICHMENT CENTER FOR THE GIFTED LEARNER Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted provides after-school enrichment and private tutoring. Enriching every qualified, gifted child. We are also a John Hopkins CTY info and SAT testing center.

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BOUNCEU FARMINGDALE 101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com BounceU Farmingdale was voted “Best of Long Island” for Children’s Party Place and Family Amusement Center. We provide the ideal combination of inflatable structures, a clean environment, incredible customer service, and non-stop excitement in a private party atmosphere.

GAMETRUCK LONG ISLAND 917-327-8700 gametruck.com david.schwartz@gametruck.com Video Game Party, laser tag arena, inflatables, or bubble soccer—GameTruck’s unique mobile video gaming theaters and arenas can make your ultimate party wishes come true!

CELEBRATIONS IN THE KITCHEN 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event! We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy, including cookie baking and decorating, cupcakes “from scratch,” muffin and scone baking, and brownies. Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen. com for more information on parties.

MAD SCIENCE OF LONG ISLAND Call for locations throughout Long Island: 855-264-1672 madscienceli.com info@madscienceli.com Mad Science hands-on, high-energy A Mad Scientist brings all the necessary equipment to you. Party packages include invitations and a take-home activity each child makes. Optional grand finales include Bubbling Potions, Rockets, and Cotton Candy. ROYAL EVENTS PRINCESS PARTIES INC. 516-729-4970 royaleventsli.com royal.events@aol.com Thank you for considering Royal Events! We are a family-owned company that provides princess performers for birthday parties, hospital visits, and all your special events! PARTY PLACES ART BUZZ KIDS 35 Jackson Ave., Syosset 516-802-4954 syosset@wineanddesign.com 21 N. Village Ave., Rockville Centre wineanddesign.com Spark your child’s creativity and imagination! Art Buzz Kids offers family-friendly painting and craft classes for children of all ages. Our birthday party themes are designed to inspire and excite all children. @ PLAY AMUSEMENTS 229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com Have your next party at the newly renovated @ Play Amusements! It offers 30,000 square feet of fun including 58

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COLD SPRING HARBOR FISH HATCHERY & AQUARIUM 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfha.org steved@cshfha.org Celebrate your child’s next birthday at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium! See the Hatchery & Aquarium’s exciting live exhibits. Feed the hungry trout and learn about fish, reptiles, and amphibians with an up-close animal encounter. FABULOSITY AT THE TODDLEWOOD STUDIOS 818 Merrick Road, Baldwin 646-596-4227 toddlewoodparties.com parties@toddlewood.com Welcome to Toddlewood! This high-end fashion photo studio has a large hair and makeup station, nail station, arts and crafts, dancing, music, and the best professional photography session for your next top model birthday girl and her friends. THE FASHION CLASS 1812 Merrick Road, Merrick 516-246-2000 thefashionclass.com Learn from real fashion designers with a runway or sewing party this year in our 3000-square-foot, bright, sunny, and pink fashion studio! Guests can choose from a variety of our most popular sewing projects, or put on a full runway show!

THE FASHION DESIGN LAB 235 N. Robbins Lane, Syosset 516-778-7240 1500 Old Northern Blvd., #3, Roslyn 497 N. Broadway, Jericho 1163 Old Country Road, Plainview 6333 Jericho Turnpike, Commack thefashiondesignlab.com info@thefashiondesignlab.com We offer Fabulous Fashion Parties for kids! Choose from our multiple creative design project options, our sewing parties, or our Project Runway party. Pick your project and we will do the rest! KEY TO MY ART INC. 10 W. Oak St., Amityville 631-608-9048 keytomyart.com At Key to My Art, we have a birthday party package to fit all budgets. The guest of honor picks the theme, and we provide the instruction so each guest leaves with a masterpiece! THE LITTLE LADIES CLUB 246 W. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-939-CLUB (2582) thelittleladiesclub.com party@thelittleladiesclub.com The Little Ladies Club has been providing glamorous makeover parties for girls since 1998! Her Majesty will be sure to receive the royal treatment! LONG ISLAND AQUARIUM & EXHIBITION CENTER 431 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-208-9200 xH20 (426) 631-208-9200 x186 longislandaquarium.com Have an Aquatic Birthday Party at the Long Island Aquarium! Take a private tour of the Aquarium, receive preferential treatment at our Submarine Simulator and Discovery Tower rides, and special seating at our Sea Lion Show! M.A.T.S.S. KID’S GYM & EARLY CHILDCARE EDUCATION CENTER A RAINBOW OF PROGRAMS UNDER ONE ROOF! 2629 Grand Ave., Bellmore 516-221-1330 171 Eileen Way, Syosset 516-496-7765 matsskidsgym.com corporate@matsskidsgym.com M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym offers a rainbow of themes and activities that will make your child’s next birthday party the ultimate celebration of their special day! MY GYM CHILDREN’S FITNESS CENTER 1320 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook 631-751-KIDS (5437) 128 W Jericho Turnpike, Huntington Station 631-427-GYMS (4967)

mygym.com/huntingtonstation mgym.com/stonybrook My Gym parties include exclusive use of the gym, including a zip line, rock wall, trampoline, trapeze, climbing structures, and slides. Instructors lead your guests through action-packed activities with theme options including Superheroes, Princesses, Mickey Mouse—any theme you want. NOT JUST ART 183 South St., Oyster Bay 516-922-8300 notjustart.com create@notjust art.com Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and beyond. Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard. SLOTS-A-LOT RACEWAY AND PARTY PLACE 1100 Hempstead Turnpike, Franklin Square 516-616-7075 slotsalotraceway.com info@slotsalotraceway.com Partygoers race 6-inch scale model cars around three 150-foot, professionally

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s a former music teacher, I pride myself on all of the musical ways my children learn in our household. We have mastered the continents, days of the week, months of the year, and even our phone number and address through songs. My kids still can’t say their phone number without singing it. My oldest son, James, was born with a chromosome defect and multiple disabilities, among them autism and sensory processing disorder. Needless to say, his sensory issues and my knack for singing loudly in the car or playing Christmas carols on the piano at home didn’t make for a peaceful household. Instead of me passing on my love for music, we stopped attending concerts and started avoiding birthday parties just to circumvent the pre-song anxiety and the post-song meltdown. At school, I was called in more than once after James had become overwhelmed by a choir concert or classmate’s birthday. It reached a point where it became a given that if his class was performing in an assembly, James would stay back in the classroom. Even movie soundtracks or church hymns were enough to make him put a blanket over his head and start crying. As a musician, this music-phobia was particularly upsetting for me. When James turned 7 we moved to Manhattan. New York City was chock-full of special needs everything, integrated classrooms, sports teams—and as I would soon discover, music classes. After being called several times to pick James up early due to birthday songs, fire alarms, and choir assemblies at school, I decided it was time for drastic measures. With minimal searching online I found Daniel’s Music Foundation, which provides music classes to children and adults with disabilities. When I contacted DMF we were asked to come in for an interview, after which James was formally invited to join in on a drumming and percussion class as well as a recreational music and movement session. Incredibly, James seemed at ease both during the interview and the initial classes, in which he was able to participate as much or as little as he felt comfortable. The volunteers were helpful and friendly, and the other students were eager while not without their own struggles, which seemed to comfort James. It was as if he knew that music was being explored and shared in a safe space, which made the exposure to it less frightening. It wasn’t until several weeks later, when James made it through his first classmate’s birthday without tears, that I realized something incredible was happening. Later that

month, he did not hesitate when we broached the topic about participating in a performance. “Do you want to sing with your class? Up on a stage in front of a crowd?” I asked. “Sure, why not? Everyone in my class will be there,” he reasoned. But even considering this amazing progress, it was with no small amount of anxiety that I headed to his first winter concert at the end of the semester. The auditorium was packed and the audience was very enthusiastic throughout the show. As James walked onto the stage for the last number, people began to cheer and clap along and I could see him starting to lose his composure. I felt a thrill of dread in my stomach—what had I been thinking putting James up on stage when he couldn’t even sit through his own birthday cake? As I watched James grow more and more agitated and began formulating his escape route, a young man hopped up onto the stage next to James and whispered something into his ear. It was Michael Trush, one of DMF’s founders. Within moments he and James were high-fiving and the song reached its conclusion, with Michael and James still standing together. James stood on stage wearing a nervous, but triumphant smile. That miraculous moment occurred eight years ago. I want to make the story more interesting and say it was a long road with detours and U-turns, with setbacks and trials, but it was nothing so dramatic. It was more like finally finding the right exit off of the highway and smooth sailing to our destination from that point on. Many semesters later, James has performed on stage with DMF nearly a dozen times, including with the New York Yankees during HOPE Week and on the field at a Brooklyn Cyclones game. He sings hymns loudly at church and “Happy Birthday” to his siblings. There is a continuous stream of Michael Jackson and John Williams blasting out of his room, and I still can’t help but smile when I ask him to turn it down a little.

Michaela Searfoorce is a home-schooling mother of six children. She makes time to write in the wee hours. You can find more of her stories at thefoorce.com and thecentralparkzoo.com

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