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Build a Budget That Works

Here’s how to make a spending plan that covers the things you need—and helps you save for the things you want.

April Activities

Buy fresh produce at a local farmers’ market, root for the home (minor leage baseball) team, and more!

18 A Child on the Spectrum—and a Happy Marriage 20 Special Needs Directory

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 5 Ways to Stay Healthy While Traveling 12 A Passion for the Performing Arts 42 Planning a Blowout Birthday Party 44 Party Central 46 What Makes Toddlers Tick 48 Is Your Child Ready to be a CIT? 50 Camps for Older Kids 54 Camps-at-a-Glance Chart 56 Professional Services 58 Meet the Health Care Professional 60 Party Planner 61 Advertisers’ Index 62 Quotables

Planning a Blowout Birthday Party

Tips to create a terriﬁc bash, whether you want to make it extra-special or are celebrating a milestone

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30 Family Fun in Manhattan

26 Give Your Home a Health Check

33 Family Activities Calendar

28 Build a Budget That Works

41 April Activities

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APRIL 2018 • Vol.9 • No.11

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EDITORIAL EDITORIAL DIRECTOR: Deborah Skolnik MANAGING EDITOR: Katelin Walling SENIOR EDITOR: Bethany Braun-Silva ENGAGEMENT EDITOR: Samantha Neudorf

hen my daughter Clara turned 3, I planned an at-home party with a clown and cake. It seemed like the perfect idea—until the clown got lost on the way to our house. For 45 minutes, 20 bored preschoolers ran wildly around my living room. The clown finally arrived at the same time the pizza did, so I told her she’d have to wait till the kids were done eating. A few minutes later, I spied her through our front window: She’d set up a lawn chair in front of my neighbor’s house and was smoking a cigarette. My neighbor was freaking out at the sudden appearance of a random, smoking clown. It was a party I’ll never forget—and neither will the family next door! Birthday celebrations can be tons of fun, but only if they’re done right. That’s why I’m loving our birthday party feature this month. “Planning a Blowout Birthday Party” by Samantha Neudorf (p. 42) reveals event planners’ secrets for throwing bashes, with advice on finding a venue, vendors, and more. In addition to extraordinary occasions, extraordinary kids are on our mind right now: April is Autism Awareness Month. Turn to our Special Parent section on p. 15 to read two thoughtful pieces: “Autism Myths to Ignore,” by Katelin Walling, which debunks harmful stereotypes about those on the autism spectrum, and “A Child on the Spectrum—and a Happy Marriage,” by Madeleine Burry. April is when Earth Day is observed. On p. 26, Emma Steven explores how to freshen your home by reducing toxins. We’ve also got a fresh look at toddlers’ quirky behaviors on p. 46. And you won’t want to miss Lambeth Hochwald’s story on p. 48, “Is Your Child Ready to be a CIT?” We explore the traits that make a kid a great counselor-in-training. Of course, this month also brings us Easter and Passover. Wishing a happy holiday to all of you observing, a fun and healthy spring to everyone, and not a smoking clown in sight! Deborah Skolnik Editorial Director, NYMetroParents

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Who: Sylvan Learning Center What’s New: The Mineola location, which opened in February. Sylvan Learning Center offers tutoring in reading, writing, and math for students in pre-K through 12th grade. Children can also enroll in STEM programs, including robotics and coding. Parents can schedule a free consultation to meet with a Sylvan Learning Center director to discuss their family’s unique needs. Following that, an evaluation appointment can be made to assess where the child is performing academically and an individualized learning plan can be created. “Our biggest goal is to find a solution to help kids really catch up and feel good about school,” says Lisa Amaya, managing director of center operations for the Huntington and Mineola locations. Want More Info: 393 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola; 516-743-9943; locations.sylvanlearning.com/us/mineola-ny

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Who: Gersh Academy @ West Hills Day Camp What’s New: Increased integration opportunities for campers with special needs on campus and in the community, starting summer 2018. Gersh Academy @ West Hills Day Camp is a camp for children on the autism spectrum and who have other neurobiological disorders. Gersh Academy, a school for children on the autism spectrum, located in West Hempstead, began its partnership with West Hills Day Camp in 2009. Held on West Hills Academy’s campus, the camp gives children on the autism spectrum in kindergarten to 12th grade the opportunity to experience a traditional summer camp while receiving the support they need. Want More Info: 21 Sweet Hollow Road, Huntington; 631-4276700; gershsummerprogram.com

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5 Ways to Stay Healthy While Traveling ›› By Bethany Braun-Silva with Zak Zarbock, M.D.

t’s no secret that when traveling you put yourself at risk for getting sick. Your chances of catching a germ or two are pretty high—after all, you’ll be doing everything from mingling with crowds to breathing recycled air on the plane. And when you’re traveling with children, your chances of contracting a bug are even higher. After all, kids love to put their fingers in their mouths, roll on the floor, and do many other not-so-sanitary things. But there are precautions you can take to ensure they (and you!) stay as healthy as possible. Zak Zarbock, M.D., dad, pediatrician, and founder of Zarbee’s Naturals shares five ways you can keep kids healthy while traveling. Sanitize once you get past security. Most fliers are required to take off their shoes at airport security. With everyone touching the bottoms of their shoes, germs and bacteria are being transferred to their hands, and then on everything else they touch past that point. Quickly using a hand wipe just past security can go a long way toward keeping germs at a minimum. Be prepared. The best defense is a good offense. To ensure your family feels their best, take a multivitamin to fill any nutritional gaps in your diet. Also, focus on wholesome immune support ingredients such as vitamin C, zinc, and even elderberry.

Wipe down contact points. When you get to your seat (both at the gate and on the plane), quickly wipe down the arm rests, handles, and side or tray tables before you settle in. You’ll feel better knowing your kid’s food, drinks, snacks, toys, and activities will be handled with clean hands on fresh surfaces. Hydrate. Make sure you and your family drink lots of water. Planes are known to dehydrate people, and keeping hydrated will make everyone less vulnerable to dry skin, eyes, and mouths. Consider bringing a refillable water bottle or getting bottled water at the airport so you are prepared for the entire flight. Wash your hands. No one wants to arrive at their destination only to find an illness coming on, so hand washing is a no brainer, and soap and water are always best to fight germs you might pick up en route to your destination. If soap and water aren’t available, use a baby wipe on the hands, followed by hand sanitizer. Zak Zarbock, M.D., was inspired to create Zarbee’s Naturals after looking for alternative wellness products, only to realize there weren’t many wholesome, safe, and chemical-free options on the shelf.

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A Passion for the Performing Arts ›› How sharing my interest in the arts helped me become a better parent. By Darren Critz

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hough nothing has been disastrous (yet), I have managed to mess up many aspects of parenthood. A good example: Easter. Somewhere along the way, I began referring to the Easter Bunny as Peter—he bizarrely morphed with Peter Rabbit for a reason I can’t remember. To avoid a Sunday morning food-coloring feast because of my own aversion to chemicals in food dye, Peter would steal the Easter eggs from our house rather than leave them out to be found and consumed. Perhaps even more reflective of my failures is the fact that this alternate history about the Easter Bunny came about at all, since my family has been Jewish as far back as anyone can remember. Spoiler alert: Jews don’t celebrate Easter. But I have done a lot of things right, too. I’ve demystified swearing and curse words, taught my daughter that avant-garde jazz isn’t always as terrible as people say it is, and, perhaps most importantly, I’ve helped instill in her a love for the performing arts. From practically the moment she was born, I’ve been bringing my daughter to events, both at Symphony Space and all around the city. I’ve made efforts to make the arts a regular part of her life, and not just a once-a-year visit to the Radio City Music Hall Christmas Spectacular with the Rockettes (thereby avoiding Christmas-specific events and balancing out the whole Jewish/Easter thing, I suppose). I’ve taken her to music concerts that spanned genres, from rock to jazz to classical and just about everything in between. We’ve attended a ton of dance performances, seeing everything from tap to ballet to percussive dance. And we’ve been to more theatrical events than I can count. The results have made a huge impact on her life. We’ve had discussions about what it takes to write songs and compose music, and where the different styles of music originated. I’ve watched her choreograph dances for stuffed animals and our cat after viewing dance performances (great stuff, despite the erratic performances by the lazy stuffed bears and the overly entitled cat, who studied briefly with Balanchine—as if we needed to hear that story again for the billionth time!). I’ve also witnessed her take the things she’s seen and apply some amazing thoughts and questions to the world outside of the performances: How do bands decide where to put their instruments onstage? How do puppeteers transport their fragile-looking puppets without breaking them? How do performers create funny voices, and is that what the actor sounds like in real life? And the results have helped her in school as well. Why write yet another story about a turtle, when a critique of the lighting for

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that circus show is so much more interesting? Don’t think math is important? How are you going to settle up with the venue for your 80-percent cut of the merchandise profits if you can’t figure out how to calculate percentages? (She’s way into money—the little capitalist!) All of this is to say the arts have helped shape her as a thinker and communicator in ways I could never have done as successfully without their assistance. Sure, you could argue there’s another dad out there who lets his kids eat the damn eggs crawling with Yellow Dye No. 6 (aka benzenesulfonic acid, treated with hydrochloric acid and sodium nitrite), and whose preference for baseball means he can testify that sports have had the same effect on his child as the arts has on mine. But I guess that kind of just strengthens what I’m saying, right? When we find ways to share our passions, hobbies, loves, and interests with our children, we bond in ways we could never imagine, help expand our children’s minds, and become more communicative, responsive parents as a result. Thanks, arts! Thanks, baseball! And thanks, Easter Bunny, for burying your eggs in Mr. McGregor’s garden and not in mine!

Darren Critz is director of Performing Arts Programs at Symphony Space, a performing arts center on the Upper West Side of Manhattan. He curates Symphony Space’s Just Kidding series. The 2018-2019 season will begin in October, with such performances as New Mermaid Theatre of Nova Scotia’s The Rainbow Fish in October, Elizabeth Mitchell and You Are My Flower in December, and more family performances most weekends through March 2019.

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There are a lot of stereotypes about autism spectrum disorder that just aren’t true—here are the five biggest misconceptions. By Katelin Walling

hile the awareness of autism spectrum disorder has grown due to social media, increased research, Autism Awareness Month, and more, there are still many misconceptions about ASD, from its causes to the characteristics and abilities of those on the spectrum. As its name denotes, autism is a spectrum, meaning not everyone diagnosed with autism displays the same traits, exhibits the same behaviors, or has the same abilities—just like you or me. So applying blanket statements to those on the spectrum would be like saying girls can’t throw or boys don’t cry. We spoke to experts about stereotypes of ASD, and uncovered the truth behind five big misconceptions about the disorder and those diagnosed with it.

Myth 1: Vaccines cause autism.

Unfortunately we do still hear the misconception that autism is related to vaccinations, commonly the measles, mumps, rubella vaccination, says Sarah Kuriakose, Ph.D., BCBA-D, clinical assistant professor of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry at NYU Langone Health. “Not only was the initial study that showed that a fraudulent study, but follow-up studies have debunked that many times,” she explains. There are other concerns that autism is caused by “various environmental factors that a pregnant mother may be exposed to and in utero some of those environmental causative factors may have somehow affected the fetus,” says John Pfeifer, senior director of Clinical Services and the Family Center for Autism, part of Life’s WORC, a Long Island nonprofit that supports people with developmental disabilities and autism. “There’s still ongoing research about the expansion of electromagnetic technology and various environmental chemicals and such that may be at play, but not knowing everything in the environment that may be affecting a fetus, either seen or unseen, makes it hard to decipher that.” 16

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“What we do know about autism is there seems to be a genetic component, and about ten to twenty percent of cases with ASD are linked to an identified genetic disorder,” says Dr. Kuriakose, who is also senior director of the NYU Langone Autism and Developmental Neuroscience Initiative and the clinical director of the Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical and Research Program at NYU’s Child Study Center. “We anticipate that that number will go up with more genetics research. But even in identical twins, the concordance rate is not one-hundred percent, so we know there is some factor that is not genetic as well.”

Myth 2: People on the spectrum are anti-social and don’t have feelings.

Dr. Kuriakose says parents, teachers, and even doctors will tell her things like, “that child can’t have autism because…he’s affectionate, …she makes eye contact, or …he’s interested in other kids.” “So what can end up happening is people have this very blackand-white picture that a person with autism is someone who is anti-social and isn’t interested in other people,” she says. “We know that those aren’t necessarily true.” Yet thanks to this persistent myth, a child who does have autism might not be given a diagnosis—his parents may be hanging on to the fact that their child is affectionate though he is struggling in other ways. “It is often thought that people with autism don’t have feelings, which is a very sad misconception and very far from the truth,” adds Janet Koch, CEO of Life’s WORC. “They are capable of having loving relationships with family members and friends.”

Myth 3: People with autism exhibit challenging and/or maladaptive behaviors.

“It’s not fair to say that challenging behaviors are inherent in the diagnosis,” Pfeifer says. “They are often a byproduct of ineffective treatment

of some of the things that are inherent in the diagnosis, which are communication and socialization difficulties.” These behaviors could include flapping hands, rocking, or other self-stimulatory behaviors. “We still unfortunately have the misconception from previous media portrayals that kids with autism are nonverbal, are going to sit in the corner, and just rock or flap their hands,” Dr. Kuriakose says. As society becomes more educated about autism, people are learning about adapting communication efforts. “I have young children, and they’re learning in integrated classrooms about what these behaviors may mean. It could actually help a person [on the spectrum] to not escalate to such a significant behavior because they’ll be able to communicate more easily with people who have been taught how to communicate with them,” Koch says.

Myth 4: Those on the spectrum are savants and/or are fixated on one topic.

The media commonly portrays those with autism as being savants or having restricted interest in a singular subject area: Sam Gardner in Netflix’s Atypical and Shaun Murphy in ABC’s The Good Doctor are two recent portrayals. “Certainly we have kids and adults with autism who have an amazing depth of knowledge in a particular area, incredible memory, incredible pattern recognition skills, things like that that are going to set them up for a particular career,” Dr. Kuriakose says, but not all people on the spectrum show these characteristics. In fact, the most recent criteria for an ASD diagnosis from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders fall into two categories: social communication and restricted, repetitive behaviors (RRB). There are four traits that fall under the RRB category—repetitive speech or behavior/mannerisms, restricted interest, sensory challenges, and difficulty with transitions or insistence on sameness—and a person needs to only exhibit two of the RRB traits (and meet criteria from

the social communication category) to receive a diagnosis of autism, according to Dr. Kuriakose. “So you could have a kid who has some sensory challenges and insistence on sameness without any restricted interest at all and you could still have the diagnosis,” she says.

Myth 5: People with ASD can’t go to college, have jobs, or get married.

Because some people with autism may struggle with social situations, have communication challenges, and have difficulty with flexibility, there’s the misconception that they will not be able to attend higher education, have a job, or get married and have kids. “There are lots of examples of folks with autism who do successfully do those things, and the big thing that’s important is it’s all about the supports the environment can provide,” Dr. Kuriakose says. When working with a patient who is looking at colleges or employment opportunities, Dr. Kuriakose looks for a setting that is supportive of that patient’s strengths and challenges. In fact, “a lot of individuals with autism are actually really great, dedicated, passionate employees, but it has to be a setting that can understand that they might process information and interact in ways that are slightly different from typical.” In terms of getting married, Dr. Kuriakose says there are quite a few instances where she’s diagnosed a child with autism, and a few months later their parent will observe that they’re seeing some of the same characteristics in themselves or another family member. “And these are all people who had families,” she says. So how can we continue to combat these and other myths about people on the spectrum? “Just like with any other group, you shed your misconceptions when you have more close relationships with people in that group,” Dr. Kuriakose says. “And so I really would encourage people to engage with lots of individuals with autism.”

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A Child on the Spectrum—and a Happy Marriage ››

Your child’s diagnosis can be challenging to your relationship. Experts share how to keep your bond strong. By Madeleine Burry

ere’s a fundamental truth: Being married with children is wonderful and rewarding—but also really, really hard. And for parents of children with autism spectrum disorder, raising a child is a whole other level of difficulty. More and more moms and dads face this situation; 1 in 68 children have ASD, according to the most recent data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. It’s a diagnosis that’s life changing for the entire family. “The diagnosis of a child with autism and the breakdown in communication create a major strain on a marriage,” says Alisha Griffith, Aud.D., CCC-SLP, autism parenting coach, author of Au-mazing Gift: A Journey to Autism Acceptance, and mom to an 11-year-old son with autism. That sounds ominous. Marriage is hard enough without additional stress or strain. And it’s true: The time-consuming daily grind of parenting a child on the spectrum, along with the financial and emotional burden involved, can take over moms’ and dads’ lives, leaving little time to nurture your partnership. Neglecting a marriage does not tend to lead to good things. In fact, for years, despite no actual scientific source, people thought the divorce rates were significantly higher—80 percent—for parents of children on the spectrum. A 2010 study from the Kennedy Krieger Institute debunked the anecdotal rumor. The reality: The divorce rate for parents is the same, regardless of whether they have a child with ASD or not. That points to something reassuring: Maintaining a healthy, happy marriage as a parent of a child on the spectrum may be challenging, but it’s definitely doable. We spoke to experts—couples therapists, coaches, and psychiatrists who are deeply familiar with the impact of this diagnosis on relationships—to find out practical tips to help your marriage stay strong. 18

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Pick a Path Together

Often, parents react to a diagnosis in very different ways: One parent may seek to become an expert, researching the condition constantly, while the other is subsumed by emotions, feeling sorrow, grief, and frustration. “There’s a misalignment in this response that creates distance,” says Tracy Ross, LCSW, a couples and family therapist who specializes in treating parents of children on the spectrum. How can couples feel united in this fragmented moment? If it’s a matter of disagreeing over next steps, pick an expert and trust her to steer your path forward, recommends Gail Saltz, M.D., psychiatrist and author of The Power of Different: The Link Between Disorder and Genius. “To some degree, it’s useful to pick your maven and go with that. Pick someone you really both can feel confident in and then let them direct some of that decision-making,” she says. This is also a moment to sharpen your communication skills, discussing everything from feelings to treatment. That can be harder than it sounds (there’s a reason we praise preschoolers and kindergarteners when they’re good listeners; listening isn’t easy!). Schedule time for judgment-free conversations, recommends Dr. Griffith. “Respect the role of speaker and listener. Take turns to truly listen to each other. Create rules for a safe conversation,” she says, so it doesn’t break down in screams or stony silence.

Make Sure Work is Shared

Typically, one parent becomes the primary caretaker for a child on the spectrum, Dr. Saltz says. (Yes, it’s usually the mom.) And that’s fine, so long as both parents have responsibilities and acknowledge

each other’s contributions. “Caretaking doesn’t have to be fifty-fifty,” Dr. Saltz says, but without participation from both moms and dads, resentment festers. Ross adds that it’s helpful to recognize your spouse’s talents. Consider how your partner can help you become a better parent, and where your different skills can be most helpful to your child. “You can’t both be working on the same thing—there’s just too much to do. Divide and conquer is really better,” Ross says.

Bring Back Date Night (Or Day)

Your child can easily become the focus of your every conversation, activity, and thought. And, doing otherwise may induce feelings of guilt (I shouldn’t go to the movies when I have that towering pile of paperwork to tackle). But your marriage requires attention, too. “Make sure you do carve out time to do pleasurable things together and do not spend every waking moment on your child,” Dr. Saltz says. “You have to keep your relationship interesting and spicy. You were married way before you were a parent, so you still have to nurture your marriage,” Dr. Griffith says. To that end, put date night on the calendar, just like any other important appointment. If you don’t feel comfortable leaving your child with a caretaker, or can’t afford one, Dr. Griffith suggests shifting date night to date day—after you drop your child off at school, skip out of your responsibilities for a few hours in favor of a long lunch, coffee at your local café, a walk in the park, or a trip to the museum or movies together.

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It can be deeply lonely to be a parent of a child with ASD. “Parents who don’t have kids with special needs don’t know how hard it is. [They] don’t know what you go through,” says Jennifer Kaufman, an occupational therapist who works in NYC public schools and mom to a 9-year-old son who is on the spectrum. “When you have a typical child, you meet other families with kids and your world expands, but when you have a kid on the spectrum your world can constrict, and that’s harder,” Ross says. Simple social gatherings—like a trip to the park or a birthday party—are difficult for kids who are on the spectrum. That leads many parents to just opt out. “Parents with kids on the spectrum get embarrassed, feel judged, feel upset, so they tend to isolate, which can cause stress,” Ross says. Instead of RSVPing no until the invites end, Ross recommends educating the people around you: Have a conversation with friends about what to expect from your child, and how to talk to their own child about being around kids on the spectrum. As well as maintaining pre-existing relationships, look to make new connections. “Find other parents who may be having a similar struggle, so you have a community to be able to talk to about these [struggles],” Dr. Saltz says. Ross recommends seeking out parent groups.

Consider Volunteering

It can feel relieving and world opening to raise money or volunteer for autism-related causes, Dr. Saltz says. “Doing volunteer work together can be helpful and bonding,” she says. Immersed in therapy, testing, and schedules, it’s easy to neglect caring for your marriage—but it’s not a small thing to overlook. As Ross points out, “It’s not a luxury to work on your relationship. It’s really important for the adults and the whole family.” Having a strong partnership reduces the likelihood of burnout, and allows you to do more on behalf of your children. So go ahead: Enjoy some time with your spouse, and make your partnership a top priority. Madeleine Burry is a Brooklyn-based freelance writer and editor, covering everything from parenting to open data to workplace productivity. She’s held staff positions at Parents.com, Scholastic, and About.com. You can follow her on Twitter @lovelanewest.

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Special Needs Directory Be The Best Sport

30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-453-0990 bethebestsport.org info@bethebestsport.org Be The Best Sport is an adaptive sports program for children and adults who have intellectual disabilities as well as physical impairments. At Be The Best Sport we offer a variety of sports and programs that focus on exposing the participants to the world of sports and to help develop and strengthen their motor, cognitive, and social abilities. Our athletes have the opportunity to learn the basics of each sport, through a hands-on, multisensory approach. The program helps facilitate the building of sport skills, confidence, self-esteem, and sportsmanship, while meeting the needs of each individual.

Camp Huntington

56 Bruceville Road, High Falls 855-707-2267 camphuntington.com dfalk@camphuntington.com Camp Huntington, a coed, residential summer camp for children and young adults with autism and related developmental and learning disabilities, and ADD. Ability levels mild to moderate-severe. Located in High Falls in the beautiful Catskill Mountain region, the camp provides therapeutically and instructionally designed recreation programs in summer and certain weekends during the year. Programs offer structured daily activities designed to be safe, learning-based, fun, and rewarding. Positive reinforcement motivates children to be happy and participate meaningfully. Activities encourage improvement in self-management and independence, and advancement in social and life skills.

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helping families discover the benefits of chiropractic care to Bellmore as ChiroMom. ChiroMom offers chiropractic care utilizing techniques including immune boosting treatments, musculoskeletal and nutritional work, activator techniques, massage therapy, and lifestyle education. As a mom, Dr. Walters experiences first-hand how chiropractic care throughout pregnancy, birth, and childhood sets a solid foundation for greater health and well-being.

Dr. Michael Gruttadauria, The Center for Integrative and Innovative Therapies (The CIIT Center)

131 Sunnyside Blvd., Suite 100, Plainview 516-243-8660 theciitcenter.com Dr. Michael Gruttadauria leads the operations at an advanced treatment center for autism spectrum disorder called The CIIT Center. The CIIT Center’s mission is to approach each child with autism as a total entity by enhancing the biomedical, neurological, nutritional, electrical, and immune system of each of our patients and combining this with occupational, physical, and speech therapies, along with applied behavioral analysis. Our comprehensive approach starts with identifying the underlying factors that may be holding the child back, not just treating their symptoms. This gives each child every opportunity to reach their potential.

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disabilities. Dr. Imber is a professor of special education and a special education expert. He addresses needs of students in public, private, and charter schools. Services are available to parents, students, pediatricians, and attorneys. A confidential complimentary phone consultation is available upon request (Nassau and Suffolk counties and the five boroughs of NYC).

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The Gersh Academy

21 Sweet Hollow Road, Suite 1, Huntington 631-385-3342 gershacademy.org In 1999 Gersh Academy opened with a vision of creating a world in which individuals on the autism spectrum are empowered to thrive. Today our vision remains the same, but we’re more than just a school. We are a collective of professionals dedicated to making a real difference in the world. We’re dedicated to fulfilling the hopes and dreams of parents by bringing autism spectrum disorder out of the shadows and into the light. We’re committed to expanding our reach across the globe, in order to create the world we know is possible.

Gersh Academy at West Hills Day Camp (for children on the autism spectrum)

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diagnosed with autism and other neurobiological disorders. Gersh Academy, with more than 25 years of experience helping children with special needs, and West Hills Day Camp, with more than 60 years of camping excellence, joined forces to provide the ultimate summer camp program for children on the autism spectrum. Located on 18 acres of Long Island’s beautiful North Shore, it offers children on the autism spectrum the opportunity to participate in a traditional summer camp experience.

The Hagedorn Little Village School, Jack Joel Center for Special Children

750 Hicksville Road, Seaford 516-520-6000 littlevillage.org jon.feingold@littlevillage.org The Hagedorn Little Village School is a nonprofit school highly regarded for providing outstanding educational and therapeutic services for children with a wide range of developmental disabilities. HLVS provides year-round programs and services that include diagnostic evaluations and treatment, early intervention, a preschool, an elementary school, SEIT, and related services. Services provided on-site and in homes, nursery schools, and day care centers include speech, feeding, occupational, physical, and movement therapies; behavior management or Applied Behavior Analysis; counseling; and support groups.

Huntington Learning Centers

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Laura Adler-Greene, Esq. Associate Attorney at Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen, P.C.

1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com lag@amcohenlaw.com Laura Adler-Greene is an experienced attorney providing legal representation throughout Long Island for students with disabilities. Adler-Greene provides training to school personnel, parents, and advocates on education law issues. She is also an adjunct professor at Jacob D. Fuchsberg, Touro Law Center. Adler-Greene is an associate at the Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen, which also specializes in estate and special needs planning. The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen helps you achieve your objectives through careful legal planning and educational support for your child.

Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen, P.C. 1100 Franklin Avenue, Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com Andrew Cohen’s vast professional and personal experience has led

him to become an author and frequent lecturer on special needs planning. In order to legally protect loved ones with disabilities, a comprehensive estate plan must consider the following: eligibility for government benefits, a supplemental needs trust, guardianship proceedings, and the letter of intent. The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen can help you achieve your objectives through careful legal planning, regardless of the size of your estate. All clients are provided with high quality service at a reasonable cost.

Law Offices of Brad H. Rosken, P.L.L.C.

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Life’s WORC The Family Center for Autism

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Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success Queens: 718-640-6767; Nassau: 516-216-1791; Suffolk: 631-689-6858 lispeech.com Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, is owner and operator of Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. Along with her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES—Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. There is a total of seven affiliated offices across Long Island, all participating with most major health insurance companies and offering evening and Saturday hours.

Long Island Children’s Museum

11 Davis Ave., Garden City 516-224-5800 licm.org/licm4all info@licm.org Play for all at LICM. Ensuring that the full museum experience is available to all children is evident in a dynamic accessibility and inclusion initiative, LICM4all. The program provides resources to families of children with a range of neurodivergences and mobility difficulties. Resources include exclusive play time at the museum, sensory-friendly performances, relaxed versions of popular workshops, assistive devices, and a dedicated Sensory Room. A free LICM4all app enables visitors to preview exhibits, create a custom-

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Long Island Whole Child Academy School for Twice Exceptional Learning

175 Wolf Hill Road, Melville 347-668-3676 liwholechild.org info@liwholechild.org The Long Island Whole Child Academy, School for Twice Exceptional Learning, is the only Long Island school dedicated to serving once highly capable students who also cope with anxiety, executive functioning, social cognition, and sensory processing challenges; ADHD; and high-functioning ASD youth, who do not thrive in a traditional school setting. Our mission is to provide a cutting-edge, integrated educational experience that raises the academic bar while building social and emotional strength and resilience through individualized attention and best clinical and gifted education practices.

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Sappo School

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Variety Child Learning Center

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47 Humphrey Drive, Syosset 516-921-7171 Variety Child Learning Center at the Gallow School 72 Farmedge Road, Levittown 516-490-3301 vclc.org Variety Child Learning Center offers Social Skills Training Groups for children and teens (ages 4-16) who are experiencing difficulties in social situations and forming friendships. It also offers Saturday enrichment groups (Sparkling Artists and Movement) focused on social and emotional development, for children ages 3-8, on Saturday mornings during summer, fall, winter, and spring sessions. Call or email for additional information and fees: 516-921-7171 x2179 or ahamel@vclc.org.

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o you want to detox your home but don’t know where to start? Got a couple of green products in your kitchen but want to know what else you should you be doing? Consider this: The average family is exposed to thousands of environmental toxins and the majority of this occurs in the home. The good news? There are simple things you can do to make your living space greener and healthier for your family. “The first point I would say is don’t get overwhelmed,” reassures Nneka Leibe, director of healthy living science at the Environmental Working Group. “There are simple changes that can make an impactful difference.” Here are five expert-approved priority tasks you can do in your home to go a little greener:

Improve your air quality.

“One thing people don’t realize is that the indoor air is a poorer quality than the outdoors. Even in cities,” says Maia James, green home consultant and founder of gimmethegoodstuff.org. In fact, indoor air is as much as two to five times more polluted than air outside. “A lot of people are thinking about the pollution they are exposed to outdoors,” Leibe says. “When we started to dig into the products we have indoors, we realized that a lot of the things we have in our home and furniture either release chemicals or are made with chemicals that we suggest to avoid.” 26

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Don’t panic: You can improve your air quality by replacing or eliminating poly vinyl chloride (especially the flexible kind found in shower curtains, toys, raincoats, and kids’ mattress covers), flame-retardants, conventional cleaning products and air fresheners, dry cleaning that uses perchloroethylene (PERC), particle board and MDF, furniture with waterproof or stain-guard finishes, chemical pesticides, synthetic carpeting, lead paint, asbestos, and radon gas. Visit nymetroparents.com/green-home for more details about these common problem areas. If you want to go one step further, James recommends investing in an air filter to actively clean the air. For a low-fi option, you can add wool rugs and plants—both have been shown in studies to be natural Volatile Organic Compound (VOCs include formaldehyde and benzene) absorbers. And don’t forget to open your windows every day!

Reduce household dust.

Those dust bunnies may look harmless, but nasties like lead, phthalates (endocrine disrupting chemicals or EDCs), BPA, flame-retardants, perfluorinated chemicals (PFCs), and chemicals from cleaning products lurk in them. Gary Ginsberg, Ph.D., an assistant professor and toxicologist at Yale School of Public Health, has studied household dust extensively. He says dust is a key source of children’s exposure to contaminants at home, with levels of phthalates, lead, and flame-retardants in dust relating closely to

levels in blood and urine. Children and babies ingest a lot because they spend more time on the floor and put things in their mouths. They are also much smaller and still developing, so toxins have a much bigger potential impact on their health. Vacuum regularly using a HEPA filter vacuum, wet-mop floors, and wipe down surfaces. Fit filters to heating and air-conditioning units, take off your shoes when you get home, and use a doormat to reduce the amount of outdoor dust and soil coming into your home.

Buy a water filter.

“Another small change that is really impactful is purchasing a water filter,” Leibe says. The quality of tap water can vary widely, so it’s important to check yours via your water utility’s website or a resource like the EWG Tap Water Database (ewg.org/tapwater). Just make sure to regularly clean the water container and change the filter.

Switch to cleaner personal care items.

Many beauty products contain small amounts of chemicals, including EDCs and lead. James recommends starting with the products that are used the most often and on the biggest areas such as moisturizers, sunscreen, and shampoos. Many people are surprised to hear the U.S. Food and Drug Administration does not require safety testing for personal care and cosmetic products, so it’s up to the consumer to check labels. The EWG Skin Deep Cosmetics Database (ewg.org/skindeep) is a great resource for researching ingredients as are apps such as Think Dirty, which let you check on the go.

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Ditch plastic and non-stick cookware.

Replace plastic bottles with stainless steel or glass. The dangers of BPA are well known, but the plastics used to replace it (like bisphenol S aka BPS) are also thought to contain EDCs, according to the EWG and James. Never heat food in the microwave in plastic as this can lead to chemicals such as phthalates leaching into it, and replace non-stick cookware as these are made with PFCs.

Don’t obsess.

All of the experts interviewed were keen to emphasize that we should not be lying awake at night (on our non-organic mattresses) panicking. “I know it’s hard to not freak out about this stuff as you begin to educate yourself,” James says. “But it’s helpful to remember that it’s all about cumulative risk. No one item in the home is going to make or break your family’s health.” “It’s not a life or death situation,” Dr. Ginsberg agrees. “There are a lot of low-level risks out there. We are doing much better today than we were when I was a kid. We don’t want to overwhelm people because then [they] will be paralyzed.” “All of these changes combine to reduce our body burden of chemical exposure,” Leibe adds. “They’re small changes but very, very important to reducing the number of chemicals we’re exposed to that lead to adverse health impacts.” The onus is now on us, as consumers, to do the legwork to find out what’s in the things we use. “The biggest piece of advice is that because of lapses in regulation, parents have to become amateur investigators,” Leibe concludes. “They can’t rely on claims and advertising hype.” By increasing your knowledge and making smart choices, it is possible to make your home a greener and healthier place. So you can sleep better in more ways than one! Emma Steven is a British freelance writer living in Manhattan with her husband, two small kids, and two cats. Previously the Manhattan calendar editor for NYMetroparents.com, she writes about parenting and New York City. When asked about what she most misses about the UK she’s most likely to say British humor and least likely to say British weather.

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o you know how much, on average, you’ll spend each year on raising a child? $12,980, according to the U.S. Department of Agriculture if your child was born in 2015. That’s $233,610 over the course of your child’s underage years, ages newborn to 17. For good measure, add in another $51,000 for projected inflation. And that’s not even taking into consideration how much you’ll need to save if you want to buy a house for your family, pay for a chunk of your children’s college educations, or contribute to your retirement. Oh, and speaking of college: Most parents in their 20s and 30s are paying off their student loans, too. Is thinking about all of these numbers making your head spin? Before you panic, consider doing this: making a budget. It will help you “create realistic goals by understanding your spending and savings behaviors and make sure you don’t spend more than you earn,” says Keri Danielski, consumer finance expert and spokeswoman for Intuit’s money management tools Mint and Turbo. If you’re hoping the magic fix is cutting your daily latte habit or bringing a lunch from home instead of buying a $15 salad, you’re in for a rude awakening. While those small changes will certainly help you save money (as long as you actually save it), they’re only the start. What you really need to do is step back and take in the big picture of how much you earn—and spend. “I know a lot of people struggle with this, but it’s worth the struggle. I tell my clients all the time: This is the foundation to financial planning,” says Kristen Euretig, CFP, founder of Brooklyn 28

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Plans, a financial planning service geared toward women in their 20s to early 40s. “This is what’s coming in and going out every month, and if you can get this piece right, you can do everything else.” Before sitting down to tackle your finances, set yourself up for success by finding a system that both you and your partner feel comfortable using. “Whether it’s tracking everything manually in a spreadsheet or using a personal finance tracker like Mint to help track in real-time, you need something that works for you,” Danielski says. “This will make budgeting easier and more enjoyable for you.” Once you have a system figured out, creating your budget can be accomplished in four steps: Know how much you’re bringing in. Before you and your partner can even think about determining how much money to allocate to various expenses, you need to know your total net annual income. That’s how much you’re both taking home after taxes. “When we go to create a budget, we automatically go to the expenses side,” Euretig says. “But that side is meaningless if you don’t have the right income number because that’s how you actually figure out if you can afford your monthly expenses. So that’s the first step.” The easiest way to figure out your total net annual income, if you’re salaried employees, is to multiply your last paycheck amount by however many pay periods are in a year. This will be a little trickier for freelancers, Euretig notes.

Determine your current spending habits. “People tend to underestimate what they spend and overestimate what they save,” says Daniel D’Ordine, CFP, founder of DDO Advisory Services LLC, which offers financial planning, investment management, and insurance solutions for families and business owners in New York City, the Hudson Valley, and New England. “You have to get a very good sense of what your steady spending habits are.” He suggests reviewing 12 months of statements from credit cards and bank accounts to see what you actually spent in a year and on what. Categorize what you spent into fixed expenses (rent, transportation or commute, groceries, utilities, child care, etc.) and discretionary expenses (takeout, entertainment, clothes, gym memberships, vacations, birthday parties, etc.). Then use the total amount you spent in the past year as a baseline to determine an average monthly expenditure. “It’s as simple as knowing that we spend around $8,500 a month all-in,” D’Ordine says. This will help you figure out how much of your total net monthly income you have left over to save for various goals. Figure out your goals. First and foremost, D’Ordine suggests bulking up your emergency fund if you don’t have one. He advises keeping approximately three months of expenses in your savings account in case something happens, like you lose your job or your partner needs to take an extended leave. Then sit down together and write down your goals, “and be very realistic,” Danielski says. Do some research on how much these goals will cost and how long it will take to reach them—a down payment on a house, retirement, paying off debt (find tips at nymetroparents. com/decrease-debt). “Once you identify how much you need to start saving, you can figure out your budget,” Danielski adds.

Periodically check in on your budget to make sure you’re meeting your goals. “I think that a monthly check-in provides accountability,” D’Ordine says. “So that when unexpected opportunities arise to spend money that maybe aren’t in the budget, something will go off in the individual’s brain that will say ‘this is going to come back to haunt me when we check in at the end of the month.’” “The more you’re aware of your spending and savings habits, the better you’ll be able to meet your budget goals,” adds Danielski, who suggests couples plan “money dates” out of the house to make these check-ins something to look forward to. “Weekly or bi-weekly meetings are helpful if you’re trying to cut back on spending habits,” she says. “Monthly and quarterly meetings may be a better fit if you’re checking in on the overall health of your budget and goals.” These periodic check-ins are also a good time to take a peek at your emergency fund. “If it’s being depleted, that means you’re spending more than your average monthly amount or you’re spending more than is coming in,” D’Ordine says. You’ll want to review your discretionary expenses to see what you can trim (find tips at nymetroparents.com/spending-cuts). But, D’Ordine adds, “if that emergency buffer is creeping up, then that extra money is what you can throw into the college fund or save for a down payment.” While all of this might seem like a massive undertaking, setting up a budget and attacking problem areas now will set you up for success down the road. “Once you’re cash-flow positive and you have more savings and you’re spending less than you earn, you can pay off debt, you can save for a home, you can save for other goals,” Euretig says. “So it’s really crucial and it’s worth the time to get right because it sets you up for literally anything else you want to do financially.”

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The Big Umbrella Festival at Lincoln Center is the world’s first month-long festival dedicated to performing arts programs for children on the autism spectrum and their families. Over the course of five weeks, there will be a wide range of experiences, including three original interactive theater productions, as well as relaxed performances across the LC campus. There will also be a symposium and various professional development opportunities for artists, arts professionals, and presenters interested in creating a learning community around neurodiversity and the arts. April 14-May 6, see website for times. Age: All. See website for ticketed event prices. Lincoln Center, Broadway and 65th Street. bigumbrellafestival.org.

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The museum is home to the private library of financier Pierpont Morgan and has expanded to include rare artifacts, books, music manuscripts, and more for visitors to see. Besides concerts, lectures, films, tours, and gallery talks, the museum hosts family programming, such as Morgan Explorers, which is a drop-in experience with hands-on activities to learn more about the library. Visit it: 225 Madison Ave., Murray Hill; 212-685-0008; themorgan.org Can’t-miss event: Spring Family Fair on April 15, 2-4:30pm Directions: Approximately a 1-hour drive or LIRR ride from Garden City Courtesy American Museum of Natural History

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Welcome the spring season and celebrate Japanese culture at the Cherry Blossom Festival at Randall’s Island Park. There will be lots of paper flower making, face painting, kite flying, yo-yo balloon fishing, origami, kimono try-ons, crafts, games, and more. Expect performances from J.D. Patch Band, NY Suwa Taiko Drumming, and Taisan Tanaka Calligraphy, too. April 21, 12-4pm. Age: All. FREE. Randall’s Island Park, Fields 62/63. randallsisland.org.

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American Museum of Natural History

As one of the world’s leading scientific and cultural institutions, the American Museum of Natural History offers a plethora of kid-friendly, educational exhibits to learn about dinosaurs, animals, fossils, space, and human origins. View the Titanosaur—a 122-foot-long dinosaur—on display in the Miriam and Ira D. Wallach Orientation Center, or take part in a self-guided tour throughout the museum. Visit it: Central Park West and 79th Street, Upper West Side; 212769-5100; amnh.org Can’t-miss event: Butterfly Conservatory through May 28: daily, 10am-5:45pm Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 20-minute drive or a 1-hour LIRR and subway ride from Garden City

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the nine events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

‘One Morning I Left…’

WHEN: Friday, April 6, 11:30am and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-12 WHAT: This is the story of Ana’s imaginative trip to discover what inhabits nature. Join her as she milks a cow in a field, flies on a great bird through the desert, dives among bubbles, and explores the jungle with music, sounds, and live songs on the guitar, clarinet, percussion instruments, and effects. WHY WE LOVE IT: Fabrics, buckets, funnels and ropes come to life weaving a sense of magic and wonder throughout the story. WANT TO GO? $9 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

The Silk Road Ensemble with Yo-Yo Ma: Endowment Concert 2018

WHEN: Saturday, April 7, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 9 and older WHAT: An evening of music that will span the world through cultures and time. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s sheer delight to bask in the music of prestigious cellist Yo-Yo Ma. WANT TO GO? $70 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org. 34

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‘Sleeping Beauty’ Presented by the Moscow Festival Ballet

WHEN: Sunday, April 8, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The fairy tale—replete with a king and queen, fairies both good and evil, and a beautiful princess and dream prince—lends itself perfectly to the full evening ballet. WHY WE LOVE IT: This full-length production comes directly from Moscow, with all the grace and charm we’ve come to expect from the Moscow Festival Ballet. WANT TO GO? $35 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

‘Disney Live! Mickey and Minnie’s Doorway to Magic’ WHEN: April 7-8, Saturday-Sunday, see website for times WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: Join Mickey Mouse, Minnie Mouse, and the comical duo of Donald and Goofy as 25 of your favorite Disney characters surprise and captivate at every turn of the knob. WHY WE LOVE IT: There are special appearances and you never know what to expect or who might join in the fun! WANT TO GO? $19 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

‘Awesome Allie: First Kid Astronaut’

WHEN: Through April 8: daily, 11am WHERE: Cradle of Aviation Museum, Charles Lindbergh Boulevard, Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Yesterday Allie was just a normal kid, but today she’s headed into outer space. Grab your space suit and get ready for an adventure that’s out of this world. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids will have fun and learn some fascinating science facts along the way! WANT TO GO? $15; $13 seniors and for children 12 and younger. 516-572-4066. cradleofaviation.org.

‘PJ Masks Live! Time to be a Hero’

WHEN: Saturday, April 21, 4pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: Watch Catboy, Owlette, and Gekko as they try to save the day from sneaky villains Romeo, Night Ninja, and Luna Girl. WHY WE LOVE IT: Complete with your favorite music and brand-new songs you’ve never heard before. WANT TO GO? $39 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

‘Stars on Ice’

WHEN: Saturday, April 21, 7:30pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: The best of the U.S. will be coming to you direct from the 2018 Winter Games in Pyeongchang, South Korea to skate together live in an all-new Stars on Ice show. WHY WE LOVE IT: Three cheers for the show—it’s a triumph on ice! WANT TO GO? $29.50 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

‘The Polar Bears Go Up!’ Sensory Friendly Performance

WHEN: Thursday, April 26, 7-8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: The Polar Bears are moving up in the world. They’ll be climbing trees, jumping on clouds, and reaching for the stars as they race all the way up to space. WHY WE LOVE IT: Children of all abilities get the opportunity to enjoy the fun and hilarity of this show. WANT TO GO? $15. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

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Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the four no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Make A Terrarium FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 6, 1pm WHERE: Rockville Centre Library, 221 N. Village Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Make your own terrarium. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-766-6257. rvclibrary.org.

International Slow Art Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 14, 12-2pm WHERE: Hofstra University Museum, Emily Lowe Gallery, 112 Hofstra University Museum, Hempstead AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Slow Art Day is a global event with a simple mission: to help people discover the joy of looking at and loving art. Join museum educators for a slow “look” at five works on view and then gather for a lively discussion about the work. WANT TO GO? 516-463-5672. hofstra.edu.

Long Island Private School Fair FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 17, 6-8pm WHERE: Chateau Briand, 400 Old Country Road, Carle Place AGES: Adult WHAT: You’re invited to join more than 20 Long Island private schools and hundreds of educators and parents for this annual education-centered event. WANT TO GO? 516-364-5414. eventbrite.com.

Willem de Kooning: Reimagining the Figure FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 24, 6pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Participants will create individual pieces of art that will be exhibited at the Long Island Children’s Museum. WANT TO GO? 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org. ››

All Kids Fair

WHEN: Sunday, April 29, 10am-4:30pm WHERE: Long Island Hilton/Huntington - Grand Ballroom, 598 Broad Hollow Road, Melville AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy this celebration of life on Long Island for kids and their families. Included with admission is access to a bounce house, petting zoo, popcorn, photo booth, cotton candy, face painting, water ice samples, balloon animals, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: There will be more than 80 exhibitors on hand plus tons of kids’ classes for all ages to enjoy with their adults. WANT TO GO? $5; free for children younger than 3. 516-621-1446. allkidsfair.com.

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With more than 70 programs, Hofstra Summer Camps has something for everyone. Learn more at a FREE Open House on April 21, featuring discounts for parents and carnival fun for kids from 12-2 p.m.

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Harry Potter STEAM Train FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 20, 4pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Hop aboard the Hogwarts Express for an easy “magical” science experiment worthy of any potions master! Snacks will follow and costumes welcome. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

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SMARTY PANTS Egg to Chick FREE

WHEN: Thursday, April 5, 10am WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 5-12 WHAT: The Suffolk County Farm and Education Center will be here to explore the life cycle of the chicken and learn how the chick embryo develops inside the egg. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Spring Break Holiday Camp 2018

WHEN: April 3-6, Tuesday-Friday, 9am-4pm WHERE: Rolling River Day Camp, 477 Ocean Ave., East Rockaway AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Holiday campers participate in fun activities such as arts and crafts, computers, Nintendo Wii games, cooking, gymnastics, yoga, relay races, off-campus trips, and more. WANT TO GO? $45 and up. 516-593-2267. rollingriver.com.

Grow Your Own: Seed Starting Workshop FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 7, 1pm WHERE: Glen Cove Library, 4 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Cove AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Besides giving you the basics on growing successful vegetable starts, learn about different varieties of peppers, tomatoes, and eggplants that you would not typically find in the big box stores and garden centers. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-676-2130. glencovelibrary.org.

Structure Superstars: Family Program FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 7, 2pm WHERE: Glen Cove Library, 4 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Cove AGES: All WHAT: Families will work together to build a variety of fun structures using cups, paper, toothpicks, marshmallows, masking tape, foil, and bendy straws. WANT TO GO? 516-676-2130. glencovelibrary.org.

Martin Luther King, Jr. FactFinders FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 16, 7pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Be a fact-finder and discover what made Martin Luther King, Jr. a leader. Work in teams using picture book biographies to find as many facts as you can. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org. 36

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WHEN: Saturday, April 21, 2-4pm WHERE: Center for Science Teaching & Learning, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Center AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Celebrate Earth Day by learning about biodiversity and how plants and animals interact, then recycle plastic to make beautiful works of art. WANT TO GO? $14. 516-764-0045. cstl.org.

Chess

WHEN: Through April 28: Saturdays, 10am-12pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn to play chess from a member of the Long Island Industrial Chess League. Experienced players are also welcome. WANT TO GO? $7; $2 per drop-in session. 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Photography Art Exhibit & Opening Reception FREE

WHEN: April 1-30, daily, 10am-6pm WHERE: The Dolphin Bookshop, 299 Main St., Port Washington AGES: All WHAT: Willy Airaldi is an award-winning photographer who captures unique details of New York’s diverse neighborhoods. His work is on exhibit during the month of April. WANT TO GO? 516-767-2650. thedolphinbookshop.com.

Dinosaurs: Land of Fire and Ice™

WHEN: Through May 13: 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Travel back to the Cretaceous Period and come face to face with dinosaurs of all sizes in their prehistoric environments. The immersive bilingual exhibit takes you to two dinosaur habitats (warm and cold environments), as well as a Field Research Station. WANT TO GO? $13; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

SHOW TIME! ‘Beauty and the Beast’

WHEN: April 2-5, Monday-Thursday, 11am WHERE: The Showplace at the Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore AGES: All WHAT: The brainy and beautiful Belle yearns to escape her provincial life... and her brute of a suitor, Gaston. However, Belle gets more adventurous than she wanted when she becomes a captive in the Beast’s enchanted castle. WANT TO GO? $12. 516-599-6870. plazatheatrical.com.

‘Peter Rabbit’

WHEN: Through April 7: Saturdays, 2pm WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre at Elmont, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: All WHAT: Peter Rabbit disregards his mother’s advice and he and his cousin Benjamin venture into a world filled with excitement, adventure, and scrumptious vegetables: Farmer McGregor’s garden. WANT TO GO? $11. 516-775-4420. broadhollow.org.

‘The Wizard of Oz’

WHEN: Saturday, April 14, 2-4pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The entire family will be captivated as they travel down the Yellow Brick Road and beyond. WANT TO GO? $35 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

37th Asbury Shory Film Concert

WHEN: Friday, April 20, 7:30pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Sample the elite of the short films without competition. WANT TO GO? $15. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

‘How I Became a Pirate’

WHEN: Sunday, April 22, 2pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Sail off on a swashbuckling musical excursion as young Jeremy Jacobs joins Captain Braid Beard’s band of comical pirates and searches for the perfect spot to bury their treasure. WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

‘Peter Pan’

WHEN: April 6-28, Saturday-Sunday, see website for times WHERE: The Showplace at the Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore AGES: All WHAT: Join Peter Pan, Wendy, Michael, and John as they travel to Neverland with Tinkerbell. Sing and dance with the Lost Boys, pirates, and Indians. WANT TO GO? $12. 516-599-6870. plazatheatrical.com.

‘Aladdin’

WHEN: April 21-May 12, Saturday, 2pm; Sunday, 11am WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre at Elmont, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: All WHAT: A musical adventure filled with magic, mayhem, and flying carpet rides. WANT TO GO? $11. 516-775-4420. broadhollow.org.

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‘Elephant & Piggie’s We Are in a Play!’ Sensory Friendly Performance WHEN: Monday, April 2, 6pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Introduce young people to theater with a comedic musical adventure, ripped from the pages of Mo Willems’ beloved, award-winning, best-selling children’s books. Sensory-friendly performances allow for individuals on the autism spectrum to attend theater performances in a more comfortable setting that include lighting and sound adjustments. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516224-5800. licm.org.

Art Compass: Building Social and Vocational Skills for Teens and Young Adults with Autism

WHEN: April 10-June 12, Tuesdays, 4pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Students with autism will have the opportunity to apply their artistic skills and functional academic learning in a real-world setting, while preparing to transition to after-school life. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

After School in the Arts

WHEN: Through June 14, Wednesday-Thursday, 4pm and 5pm WHERE: Theresa Academy of Performing Arts, 250 Lido Blvd., Lido Beach AGES: All WHAT: Classes are small in size, and taught by passionate, talented, certified teachers. Each student receives individual attention and a 1-on-1 buddy. WANT TO GO? $20. 516-432-0200. tapany.org.

Creative Expeditions

WHEN: April 14-June 16, Saturdays, 10am WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Families will engage in fun interactive gallery experiences that provide opportunities for everyone to look at and talk about art in a group setting followed by hands on art making activities that encourage experimentation with new materials, processes, and creative play. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org. ››

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CRAFTY KIDS Moveable Toy Workshop FREE

WHEN: Thursday, April 5, 2pm WHERE: Glen Cove Library, 4 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Cove AGES: 5-12 WHAT: This hands-on workshop focuses on the creation of a cardboard car capable of moving through the use of magnets, rubber hands, or balloons. WANT TO GO? 516-676-2130. glencovelibrary.org.

ONCE UPON A TIME Vacation Story Times with Rosie FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 4, 2pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy stories with Rosie the therapy dog. WANT TO GO? 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Storybook Strolls: ‘Curious George Plants a Tree’

WHEN: Saturday, April 7, 12pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Open your ears to classic and modern tales as you stroll the gardens and create a craft to take home. WANT TO GO? $12; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children 6 and younger. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Froggy Fun FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 11, 4:30pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Stories, activities, crafts, and lots of fun with Jonathan London’s lovable Froggy character. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Sunday Morning Storytime FREE

WHEN: Sunday, April 15, 11:30am WHERE: The Dolphin Bookshop, 299 Main St., Port Washington AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Join in for storytime, craft, and music hosted by Nadine Haruni, author of Freeda the Frog and her New Blue Family. See how Freeda gets used to her new family after divorce. WANT TO GO? 516-767-2650. thedolphinbookshop.com.

Toddler Story Time FREE

WHEN: April 4-27, Wednesdays and Fridays, 10:30am WHERE: Queens Library, Bellerose Branch, 250-06 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: A fun time for the little ones and their caregivers featuring stories, songs, and finger plays. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org.

Family Preschool Hour FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 30, 11am WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy an hour of singing, dancing, storytelling, and crafts with A Time for Kids Inc. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org. 38

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Slime Time Spring Break Week

WHEN: April 3-6, Tuesday-Friday, 10am-12pm WHERE: The Lanyard Ladies, 433 Merrick Road, Oceanside AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Make slime and more. Pizza and drinks included. WANT TO GO? $25 per day. 516-578-2248. thelanyardladies.com.

Art & Sensory Fun Studio

WHEN: April 2-6, 10-11:30am and 12:30-2pm WHERE: Not Just Art, 183 South St., Oyster Bay AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Artful blossoms, birdies, bugs, and other green activities fill the studio to celebrate spring. WANT TO GO? $24; $18 each sibling. 516-922-8300. notjustart.com.

Bookish Butterfly Canvas FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 9, 4:30pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Create a beautiful wall decoration using paper butterflies, book print, paint, glitter, and more on a canvas. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Hungry Caterpillar Mobile

WHEN: Monday, April 9, 4pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Color and construct a Very Hungry Caterpillar mobile. WANT TO GO? $1. 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Mouse in a Book FREE

WHEN: Thursday, April 12, 12:15pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Look who’s hiding in a book—it’s an adorable mouse! Learn how to make this cute rodent pop out of a book. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Springtime Mother-Daughter Craft

WHEN: Monday, April 23, 6:30pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Mothers and daughters create special projects together. WANT TO GO? $2. 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Upcycled Jewelry Making with Cathy Buckley FREE WHEN: Monday, April 30, 6:45pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Come to this fun jewelry making class. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

LITTLE FOODIES Blindfolded Taste Test Contest FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 2, 3pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens will be blindfolded and will have to rely on their senses of taste and smell to guess different foods. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Chefs of d’Future FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 9, 5:30pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Join in to have fun making something delicious. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Cupcake Wars FREE

WHEN: Thursday, April 12, 6:30pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Teams brainstorm and decorate a half-dozen cupcakes and present one cupcake to be judged. The winning group will get a prize. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Eat Up! What’s Cookin’ in the Gardens: Edible Soil

WHEN: Saturday, April 14, 12pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Discover tasty delights growing in the garden beds. Concoct and sample a simple recipe full of delicious seasonal flavors. WANT TO GO? $12; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children 6 and younger. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Pond Exploration

WHEN: Saturday, April 14, 10am and 12pm WHERE: Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road, Sands Point AGES: All WHAT: We’ll get our hands dirty as we explore our freshwater pond with nets, buckets, and magnifying lenses. WANT TO GO? $20 per car. 516-571-7901. sandspointpreserve.org.

Dog Exhibitors and Vendors

WHEN: Saturday, April 21, 11am-4pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Visit with rescue groups, animal welfare organizations, and vendors selling dog-related merchandise. WANT TO GO? $12; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children 6 and younger. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

What Doesn’t Belong? Nature Hike

WHEN: Sunday, April 29, 2-4pm WHERE: Center for Science Teaching & Learning, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Look for anything in the preserve that doesn’t belong—from litter to plants and animals—during this Nature Hike Scavenger Hunt. WANT TO GO? $10. 516-764-0045. cstl.org. ››

Fondant Cupcake Wars FREE

WHEN: Thursday, April 19, 7pm WHERE: Glen Cove Library, 4 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Cove AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Join our expert bakers from Fanny Cakes. WANT TO GO? 516-676-2130. glencovelibrary.org.

Carrot Cake Parfait FREE

WHEN: Sunday, April 22, 2pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Take home great recipes and two carrot cake desserts in 10-ounce parfait cups. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Cake Decorating

WHEN: Tuesday, April 24, 7pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Chef Mary T. Sydor will teach you the skills of cake decorating. WANT TO GO? $3. 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Teen Cuisine Event: Edible Cookie Dough Cones FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 27, 4pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Fill your cones with this tasty treat after you have mixed in all kinds of yummy toppings such as gummy bears, Oreos, chocolate morsels, M&M’s, and more. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org. LongIslandParent 39

WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 13 and older WHAT: RnR is exciting and lively, yet warm and mellow. WANT TO GO? $35 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

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MUSICIANS The United States Air Force Concert Band and Singing Sergeants from Washington, D.C. FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 4, 7:30pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: The two groups perform together on a regular basis, representing the U.S. Air Force and our country. WANT TO GO? 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

Musical Playalong!

WHEN: April 2-6, Monday-Friday, 10:15-11am and 11:30am-12:15pm WHERE: Not Just Art, 183 South St., Oyster Bay AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Hop, bop, and sing into spring. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 each sibling. 516-922-8300. notjustart.com.

Julian Gargiulo in Concert

WHEN: Saturday, April 7, 8pm WHERE: Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road, Sands Point AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Gargiulo captivates audiences with his technical precision and comic wit. WANT TO GO? $55. 516-571-7901. sandspointpreserve.org.

Poetica Musica: Northern Lights

WHEN: Saturday, April 14, 6:45pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Performances include Mozart’s Piano Trio in B flat major, K.502; Dvorak’s Piano Trio in E minor, Opus 90 “Dumky”; and Schubert’s “Notturno” in E flat major, Op.148 (D.897). WANT TO GO? $30. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

26th Annual Long Island Guitar Festival: Berta Rojas

WHEN: Sunday, April 15, 3pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Berta Rojas ranks among today’s foremost classical guitarists. WANT TO GO? $25. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

WHEN: Friday, April 27, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: The program will include Sibelius’ Pohjola’s Daughter, Debussy’s Fantaisie for Piano and Orchestra, and Bartók’s Concerto for Orchestra. WANT TO GO? $60 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

‘A Dream is a Wish: Princess Tea & Concert’

WHEN: Saturday, April 28, 11:15am, 2:15pm, and 5:15pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Come sing-along to all your favorite Disney songs. WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Buddy Guy Concert

WHEN: Saturday, April 28, 8pm WHERE: NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Don’t miss the concert with blues guitarist Buddy Guy. WANT TO GO? $39.50. 516-334-0800. thetheatreatwestbury.com.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Long Island’s Got Talent

WHEN: Saturday, April 14, 2-5pm WHERE: Educational and Cultural Center, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Submit a registration form, entry fee, audition tape, and proof of age. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-751-2244. wmho.org.

Longines Masters of New York

WHEN: April 26-29, Thursday-Sunday, see website for times WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: 13 and older WHAT: The Longines Masters of New York attracts top-ranked equestrians. WANT TO GO? $40.50 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

Junior Golf Lessons FREE

WHEN: April 28-May 19, Saturdays, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Lido Golf Club, 255 Lido Blvd., Lido Beach AGES: 9-17 WHAT: A great way for children to learn the basic techniques. WANT TO GO? 516-889-8181. lidogolf.com.

Ryu Shu Taiko Presents Drums of Japan FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 21, 1pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: All WHAT: A program of drumming, Kyoto (Japanese Harp), and dance. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

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Coming up next month: MAY 12: Charlotte’s Web at Adelphi University Performing Arts Center, Garden City MAY 13: Mother’s Day Tea at Sands Point Preserve, Sands Point MAY 17-JUNE 10: Cirque du Soleil VOLTA at NYCB Live! home of Nassau Veteran’s Memorial Coliseum, Uniondale

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They say April showers bring May flowers, but why should a little rain stop you from getting outside? With the onset of warmer weather (and quite frankly more daylight now that we have sprung forward for Daylight Saving Time), there is no excuse to hibernate at home anymore. Get out to a farmers’ market to gather local, in-season produce or head to a fundraising walk to support a cause. Minor league baseball season is also around the corner, which is always a great reason to root for your home team. And finally, books are always in season, so there’s no reason why you shouldn’t pay a visit your local bookstore to sharpen your child’s mind and imagination.

FARMERS’ MARKETS Long Beach Farmers’ Market

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Kennedy Plaza, 1 W. Chester St., Long Beach ligreenmarket.org/long-beach May 5-Nov. 21: Wednesdays and Saturdays, 9am-2pm Find certified organic produce and herbs, along with goods from local farms such as Long Island corn, heirloom tomatoes, potatoes, squash, onions, milk, fresh pasta, baked goods, soaps, preserves, shellfish, vegan treats, gluten-free cookies, and more. Find more>> farmers’ markets in Nassau County at nymetroparents.com/farmers-markets.

Long Island Ducks mascot QuackerJack enjoys time with a family during one of the team’s regular season home games.

MINOR LEAGUE BASEBALL Long Island Ducks

Bethpage Ballpark, 3 Court House Drive, Central Islip liducks.com Season begins April 27; home game on May 4 Tickets: $12-$15; discounts for groups of 25 or more Kids ages 14 and younger can join the Kids Club for discounts and special events. Members are invited to Kids Club Day, when they can go on a behind-the-scenes tour of Bethpage Ballpark and get a chance to run the bases. Find more>> local minor league teams at nymetroparents.com/ballparks.

BOOKSTORES Blue Door Books

501A Central Ave., Cedarhurst 516-837-0040; bluedoorbooks.com This independent shop offers an array of children’s books, as well as kid-specific services such as story-themed parties (think pirates and dress-up!).

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FUNDRAISING WALKS NAMIWalks Long Island/Queens

Jones Beach, 1 Ocean Parkway, Wantagh namiwalks.org Supporting the National Alliance on Mental Illness, these walking events collectively are the largest and most successful mental illness awareness events in America. Funds raised at these walks support NAMI’s mission to build better lives for the 60 million Americans who experience a mental health condition each year. Join the Long Island/Queens walk May 5. Find more>> fundraising walks in Nassau County at nymetroparents.com/walks.

Planning a Blowout Birthday Party Whether you’re celebrating a major milestone or simply want to have an extra-special party, these tips from event planners can help you create a totally terrific bash. By Samantha Neudorf

hen I turned 9, my mom rented a limousine for my friends and me to ride in for an afternoon tea party. To this day it has been a favorite birthday party of mine, and a memory I continue to treasure. Birthdays are occasions that kids will remember for the rest of their lives, and birthday parties are a way to hold those memories in place. Sometimes, you want to make those celebrations extra-big, either because you’re marking a major milestone—such as a bar or bat mitzvah, quinceañera, or sweet 16—or simply for the fun of it. Where do you begin? We asked event planners (though you may think they’re only for weddings, you can find those who plan children’s birthday parties, too) what to keep in mind.

Pick the venue and DJ (if you’re having one) first.

The venue is key when piecing together the rest of the details for your child’s party. This locks you into a specific neighborhood or town, and helps narrow down the options for additional elements, if desired, such as caterers and entertainment. If you’re planning a bar or bat mitzvah and live in a town with a large Jewish population, book your venue early. “If you wait too long, you may end up with a venue that’s too big or not big enough, or too expensive and not your style because you were stuck with what was available,” says Melisa Imberman, president of The Event of a Lifetime Inc., an event planning company in Westchester County. For other types of birthday parties, families should start booking a venue at least a month beforehand. Marla Mase, founder of PARTYpoopers, a kids’ party planning company serving the greater New York area, says families call her anywhere from a month to six months in advance for all types of parties, including first birthdays. Securing a venue also allows you (or your event planner, if you’re using one) to see the space and pick out the décor and design for the party. “You can’t really plan décor and design if you don’t know where [the venue] is because you need to know what kind of space you’re working with,” Mase says.

Set a budget.

One helpful hint is to decide what aspects of the party to prioritize. For example, a family planning a daughter’s sweet 16 may invest more in having a DJ and photo booth, and may opt for cheaper food because it’s not the focal point of the party. “Your number of guests is the biggest contributor to your budget,” Imberman says. “There are some variables that are not going to change with your number of guests, but there are some, like food and beverage, that will.” A benefit of hiring an event planner is they develop a rapport 42

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Morgan I. celebrates her bat mitzvah, planned by The Event of a Lifetime Inc., with her friends

with vendors and venues and can offer discounts. Event planners have a list of clients they continually work with, which saves families the time and effort of doing their own research. “I represent a potential party every weekend, so although most people want to make customers happy, [vendors] want to make me happy because I bring them repeated business,” Imberman says.

Adjust the party to your child’s personality.

The party and vibe should reflect your child’s character and feel like it’s very much his own party. Mase plans parties for children of all ages and remembers planning a bat mitzvah for a shy girl who did not want a DJ or dancing, so she instead planned a murder mystery theme. “It was a huge success without any dancing,” Mase says. “You have to know your kids—don’t create an event for them that’s not for them.”

Discuss details.

Event planners consider everything when putting together a party, from when food will be served to when dancing should start, and serve as liaisons to all moving parts. It’s a smart strategy for families to follow as well. “Even if you have the best caterer and the best DJ, they likely will not talk to each other before the day, Imberman says: “I do a very detailed timeline and communicate it with everyone prior rather than running into an issue before the party.”

Consider hiring security.

It’s strongly recommended for sweet 16s, when teenagers may get rowdy. Security can help keep kids in the party an out of trouble. It’s also advisable to have adult chaperones on buses (if there are any) to monitor the kids.

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y toddler will not keep his clothes on. Seconds upon entering our apartment he strips down to his diaper and pretty much stays like that until it’s time to leave again. He also answers almost every question with a “no,” and will only eat out of a green bowl. While we entertain this weirdness because he is only 2, it turns out it might not be so weird after all. I’m sure most parents of toddlers have at least a few things they consider out-of-the-ordinary behavior, and like me, find themselves constantly chasing after a naked dictator while dodging attacks from his green bowl. Toddlers are new to this earth and are figuring things out at their own speed and in their own weird way. Read on for some of the strangest things they do, and why they do them.

No Means No

Chances are if you ask a toddler a question, you will be met with… “No!” “Do you want to go outside?” “No.” “Do you want to eat dinner?” “No.” “How about you put some pants on.” “No!” That last one wasn’t really a question, but you get my drift. So what’s with the negative attitude, tots? Turns out, it’s not 46

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really so negative. Toddlers who are learning to express themselves use “no” as way to assert their independence and gain just a bit of control in a world where they are constantly told what to do and when to do it. “Toddlers are gaining independence from their parents. Up until about eighteen months or so, kids really feel as though they are one with their mom (or primary caregiver). Their little brains don’t have the maturity to understand seeing the perspective of another person,” says Amy Webb, creator of the blog thoughtfulparent.com, who has a doctorate in Human Development and Family Sciences and is mom of two. “So as they are gaining this independence, they want to ‘do it myself’ for just about everything, and this could include dressing or just about anything else.” While hearing “no” from your toddler all day long can be increasingly frustrating, just know it means your little one is growing up and growing into herself. Here’s what you can do if your child’s refusal is becoming a bit too much: • Offer choices. Instead of telling your child to put pants

on, ask what color pants he would like to wear today. This leaves little room for a negative answer. • Make it a learning game. Help your child count how many peas are left on her plate as she eats them one at a time. Make it fun! • Watch your language. Toddlers are sponges and will pick up your behavior. Instead of telling your spouse, “No, I’m not watching another episode of The Bachelor tonight,” try saying, “How about we watch a movie we will all enjoy.” • Don’t back down. Toddlers can be defiant, but they need their parents to set boundaries. If what your child is saying no to is a non-negotiable, stand your ground. It will get better.

Again, Again!

I have seen Moana at least 50 times. While it’s a great movie, I’m ready to move on. In fact, since starting this article we have moved on…I am currently on my 20th viewing of Trolls. Ughhhhh. When my toddler finds a movie he likes, he will watch it every day, sometimes twice a day. Melissa Robles from Kew Gardens, Queens, has the same issue with her 2½-year-old. “Gracie is obsessed with reading Green Eggs and Ham. She would have me read it to her ten times in a day, and on more than one occasion, I have,” she says. While this repetition is frustrating for parents, it’s extremely comforting for little ones. “Toddlers really thrive on repetition and it makes them feel safe and it’s also exciting and fun to them,” says Tanya Altmann, M.D., pediatrician, mother, and author of Baby & Toddler Basics: Expert Answers to Parents’ Top 150 Questions. “They like patterns, they like counting the steps walking up to preschool the same way every day, and will get mad if you skip a step.” Toddlers rely on repetitive behavior to know what to expect. Their communications skills are so minimal at this age that knowing what to expect is, in fact, key to their health and happiness. Repetition is actually a great tool for parents, too because if you stick to the same routine, your toddler will know what’s expected of him and will likely do it. Dr. Altmann suggests using this behavior to your advantage. “The good thing about repetition is that you can change any toddler behavior that you want to change. Whether it’s getting them to sleep through the night or eat green vegetables, as long as you’re consistent for a week and offer positive reinforcements and ignore undesired behavior, you can change their behavior,” she says.

Nudity, Nose Picking, and Head Banging

No, this is not the name of the latest Tarantino film, but rather three distinct (and strange) behaviors you might witness from your little one. As I mentioned earlier, the main problem we deal with in our family is getting my toddler to keep his clothes on. While

we manage to keep our little nudist contained at home, sometimes he starts stripping in public. Toddlers have no concept of what’s socially acceptable, so they don’t really see this as a problem. Same goes for nose picking. If your toddler has an itch or a booger, she will stick her finger up her nose because she doesn’t realize it’s a gross thing to do. Teaching your toddler social cues and what’s expected of him in the house and outside of the house will go a long way to making his behavior more acceptable. As for head banging, that’s a bit different. Some toddlers will bang their heads against their crib at night or before falling asleep for a nap. While this behavior can seem worrisome or outright scary, it’s actually completely normal and a way for your toddler to self-soothe. Often head banging happens at night as way for her to get herself to sleep. She is soothed by the rhythm she is creating and will most likely outgrow it in no time.

When to Worry

Toddlers definitely display some strange behaviors from time to time, but there are certain behaviors that could raise a red flag. For instance if your child is using the above-mentioned head banging as a way of cutting off interaction from you and others, it might be time to reach out to your pediatrician. Also, “if your child consistently is testing limits to the point where it’s driving you crazy and it’s disrupting everyone in the house and causing a lot of extra stress, that could be a sign that there is something else going on with your toddler, and you may want to talk to your pediatrician,” Dr. Altmann says. Rafi Bilek, LCSW, director of Baltimore Therapy Center, suggests parents watch out for certain behaviors, as they may be indicators of something more serious going on, such as autism or a behavioral disorder: • Regression in language or motor skills (e.g., child was using many words but then can’t seem to speak in words at all; child was running but now can’t seem to walk) • Child screams for hours without a break • Child clutches at private parts anxiously (possible sign of sexual abuse) • Child is violent to the point of causing serious injury to self or others As the parent, you know your child. If any of your toddler’s behaviors seem really strange or off to you, make an appointment with his pediatrician or even ask to chat over the phone. That’s what they’re there for. Raising a toddler is one of the most challenging times for parents—they don’t call it the Terrible 2s for nothing. One thing I know for sure is my toddler is weird (but adorable!), and it’s my job as his mom to help him feel comfortable and safe enough to let his little freak flag fly.

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Find out what being a counselor-in-training really means, and what camp directors look for in their trainees. By Lambeth Hochwald

f you’re the parent of a teen who lives for anything related to camp, now might be the time to talk to him about applying for a summer job as a counselor-in-training. Turns out, becoming a CIT is the next best thing to being a camper because your teen will get firsthand experience and job training, and have a little fun, too.

How Do I Know My Child Is Ready?

Your teenager may have set up many a lemonade stand or sold Girl Scout cookies, but for most kids a CIT position will be their first job. As a parent, you’ll know that your teen is a great CIT candidate if he or she is extra trustworthy. “An important question for parents to consider is, ‘Would I trust my teen to watch other people’s children?’ suggests Michael Halpern, director of Mosholu Day Camp in the Bronx. If your answer is yes, “That’s usually a good sign that you, as a parent, think that your child would be a great counselor-in-training.” Also ask yourself how reliable your teen is, says Colleen Barnhart, camp director at Camp Claire in Lyme, CT. “When you ask him or her to do something and walk away, does it get done?” she asks. Again, if you’re able to answer ‘yes’ to this question, your child probably is conscientious enough to make a good CIT. To help your teen get ready for the job, give her responsibilities around the house and hold her accountable, Barnhart says. “Assign her chores, show her exactly how to do them by participating with her as a partner, and then have her do that task alone the next week. If she messes up, don’t tell her that it is not her fault. Instead, be constructive. Tell her it’s okay because she is learning and show her how to do better next time.” There’s one more important character trait your child should have: He should really love camp. At Mosholu, for example, 95 48 April 2018 | nymetroparents.com

percent of CITs are ex-campers, and supervisors there have worked up the ranks all the way from their days as campers to unit leader. “The perfect CIT is one who grew up in my camp because they know how things go,” Halpern says. “That’s even more important to us than an application filled with babysitting experience. The fact that you’ve been in camp means that you know about the group dynamic,” Halpern explains. “As CITs, you’re not going to be oneon-one with a child ever, so we need to know that you’ve had that experience interacting in groups.” Last of all, make sure your teen has the right motivation for applying for a CIT job. Does he want to work with kids, or does he just want to be back at camp? “CIT work is hard work,” Barnhart says. “To know if your child is really ready to be a CIT, ask what his goals are for the summer. Be sure he’s clear on why he wants this job.”

The Qualities Camp Directors Value

One of the key qualities of a CIT is an eagerness to learn. “I want my CITs to take on a leadership role and add more responsibilities as they get experiences,” says Peter Corbin, founder and director of Corbin’s Crusaders Sports Club in Greenwich, CT, who hires five to 10 CITs each summer. “When they come to us as a CIT they don’t have a lot of experience. That’s why at the beginning we give them a taste of responsibility, and as they get more and more successful, we give them more. If they’re not as successful, we’ll give them more direction.” The other qualities camp directors look for include good communication skills, maturity, responsibility, respect, care for others, interest in working and engaging with children, teamwork, and initiative, Barnhart says.

“At the beginning, initiative looks like being a willing buddy to a camper for trips to the bathroom or nurse,” she explains. “It’s also helping campers clean their area without being asked, and starting games with campers during downtime...Initiative is one of many qualities that is important for a camp staff to function as a team, because that is what we essentially are when it comes down to it.” Familiarity with the camp can also be an important factor when a teen is hired to be a CIT, Halpern says. “We look at the type of camp they went to and if their camp was similar to ours,” he says. In the end, a meeting without the parents present is a critical part of most hiring procedures. “We like to have a conversation with teens— without their parents there—so we can speak to their maturity and their abilities to be outgoing and friendly,” Halpern says.

What Kids Can Expect From a CIT Program

As a CIT, your teen may stay with her assigned bunk or switch around the camp depending on the need for extra help. She could be asked to pitch in on a variety of tasks, such as setting up the baseball fields before campers arrive (including making sure all the equipment is in place), assisting the arts and crafts counselors, or helping the swim instructors. “Typically we give the CITs the option to either be with a group or with an activity,” Corbin says. “I’ve had CITs learn how to become swim instructors and ultimately work as lifeguards, while others tend to work with a particular age group all summer.” Regardless, CITs should expect to always have someone supervising them. Your child should also be prepared for long, tiring days. “CITs tend to get tired very easily because they’re working the full day and may have never done so before,” Corbin says. “They realize quickly that the work isn’t always easy, but it’s also really wonderful to see their sense of pride in the job—they often tell me how cool it was to work with such and such kids, or do a particular job.”

In addition, Barnhart says that while CITs should expect fun lessons and team-building activities, they should also realize that, unlike camp itself, not every second is going to be fun. “Working at a camp is a lot of hard, sometimes gross work, especially at resident camps where we are on duty twenty hours a day, six days a week,” she says. “CITs will get tired and frustrated, but it is all part of the process of maturing and learning how to be a camp counselor.” Another thing your child needs to realize is he will in all likelihood not get paid. CITs “are legally campers, so they pay to attend, but we write them letters for community service hours,” Barnhart says. Of course, CIT experience may lead to a paid counselor job in future years. For some kids, it can be a bit of a transition to move from camper to counselor. Barnhart understands this. “I firmly believe in giving CITs the chance to grow into the role and rise to expectations, which is why I don’t call them ‘kids’ anymore,” she says. “They are no longer campers, except legally, so we start treating them like the young adults they are. They are never in charge of supervision but they certainly can assist us with it.” In the end, consider this: Being a CIT is essentially one giant job interview for the next year. “We look for CITs to use feedback to grow,” Barnhart says. “We constantly give CITs feedback on how they are doing, what their strengths are, what we would like to see more of, and specifically what negative behaviors we would like them to be aware of and change. A great CIT will often go out of their way to ask for feedback...reflect on it, and actively try to do better.” That feedback loop is what will enable your teen to become a CIT and then, hopefully, be asked back as a counselor for a future summer. Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

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Held at Camp Claire 15 Oakland Ave., Lyme, CT Middlesex County Camp 298 E. Haddam Moodus Road, Moodus, CT 212-472-5207 campclio.org Camp Clio and our new Camp Clio Teen offer a unique experience for adopted children (ages 9-12) and teens (ages 13-16). Camp Clio campers and counselors, themselves adopted and serving as role models, share the intimacy and safety of being with other adopted friends, providing the opportunity to share feelings and adoption stories with others who understand adoption without explanation because they are “just like me”—all in a fun camp environment. Camp Clio Teen: July 1-13. Camp Clio Youth: July 1-21. Campers may come for one or more sessions. Scholarships available.

Camps ‘R’ Us Where Summer Vacation Is Our Job Locations in: Baldwin, Bellmore, East Rockaway, Farmingdale, Hicksville, Saint James, Syosset, Valley Stream, and West Islip 516-935-CAMP (2267) campsrus.org info@campsrus.org Camps ‘R’ Us Teen and Tween Programs. Seventh and eighth graders comprise our most senior camper division. Tweens and teens enjoy a dynamic summer camp experience, with a combination of traditional day camp activities and a flexible program providing an array of choicebased programming, electives, and workshops. Campers also enjoy unique on and off-campus programming, with exclusives just for seventh and eighth graders. Learn more at campsrus.org/ division-78. The C2 Program is for campers who have completed ninth grade. It’s our version of a

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfishhatchery.org steved@cshfishhatchery.org Naturalist in Training at the CSH Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, for students in eighth to 12th grades. Students will learn what it is like to work at a summer camp, gaining leadership skills and participating in fun, outdoor adventures. NITs work in a team assisting hatchery education staff and become small group leaders during camp activities. There are opportunities throughout the summer to participate in at least one week of camp. Naturalists in Training must have participated in Junior Biologists in previous years. Exceptions for students entering ninth to 12th grades will be made on a case-by-case basis.

Destination Science - The fun science day camp for curious kids 5 to 11!

Multiple locations in Nassau and Suffolk counties 888-909-2822 destinationscience.org Leaders in Training is a hands-on leadership experience for kids entering seventh through 11th grade. Perfect for graduates of Destination Science camp, student body officers, or any students interested in gaining real-world leadership experience. Has your teen previously participated in our camp experience and mentioned how they wish they could still be involved with Destination Science? Are they looking for something new and exciting to do this summer and to add real leadership experience to their school resumes? They may want to consider becoming a Leader in Training with Destination Science!

Drama Kids

Locations throughout North Nassau County 516-360-5026 dramakids.com/ny6 Our Acting Academy mini camps are great for ages 11-15. Our campers show off their creativity to deliver a self-scripted, self-directed performance. Campers will explore all aspects of theater from acting and directing to set design. Our campers will bring the house down during their end of camp Drama Kids Playhouse Presentation, performing a play for fellow campers that their team creates. Want to know how the show ends? So do we! Check out our mini camps and all of our camps and events at dramakids.com/ny6.

Eglevsky Ballet

700 Hicksville Road, Suite 102, Bethpage 516-746-1115 eglevskyballet.org Eglevsky Ballet, under the artistic direction of Maurice Brandon Curry, provides professional caliber training for students of all ages and abilities. Eglevsky

presents an annual production of The Nutcracker, two summer intensives, master classes, performing opportunities, and community education. The July Summer Intensive is geared toward serious dancers. This is a full-day program, with classes in ballet, pointe, variations, modern, jazz, character, Pilates, and pas de deux. Housing is available. The August Summer Intensive is a half-day program, Monday-Friday, and focuses on development of ballet fundamentals.

Eye Level of Williston Park Long Island

61 Hillside Ave., Williston Park 516-747-7700 eyelevelwillistonpark.com Don’t let your child suffer from Summer Brain Drain! After a year of rigorous academia, it can be easy for a child to slip into the relaxing activities of summer without a care in the world. However, three months free of school can often have a detrimental impact on a child’s education. Fortunately, Eye Level of Williston Park offers the academic programs that students need to enter

the coming school year prepared to take on any challenge! Call us now at 516-747-7700 to schedule a free diagnostic assessment.

Future Stars Summer Camps

The College at Old Westbury, Old Westbury 516-876-3490 Farmingdale State College 2350 Broadhollow Road, Farmingdale St. Joseph’s College 155 W. Roe Blvd., Patchogue fscamps.com Future Stars Summer Camps offer weekly Sports, STEAM, and Specialty camp programs at three outstanding collegiate locations (The College at Old Westbury, Farmingdale State College, and St. Joseph’s College Patchogue). Programs are offered to boys and girls entering kindergarten-ninth grade. Future Stars programs help campers improve their skills in their chosen activities and a balanced day ensures the perfect blend of instruction and fun. Stop by open house events to view the facilities, meet the staff, and take advantage of enrollment savings. See you in the summer!

Gersh Academy at West Hills Day Camp

21 Sweet Hollow Road, Huntington 631-427-6700 gershsummerprogram.com scott@westhillscamp.com At West Hills Day Camp, campers entering sixth and seventh grades can enjoy a traditional camp program or our Junior Travel program that incorporates camp days, day trips, and extended overnight trips covering the East Coast and Canada. Teens entering eighth, ninth, and 10th grades have three options: a day camp experience, a Leadership in Training Program, and Teen Travel. LITs have the opportunity for peer socialization and also receive mentored handson training working at our camp. Travel combines day trips and overnight travel trips including weeklong experiences.

Hofstra Summer Camps

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SUMMER 2018 MONDAY - FRIDAY PROGRAM July 2-27, 2018 | 9:00am to 3:30pm

Are You the Parent of a Gifted Child?

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announces its 38th annual summer program for gifted children. The summer

art · filmmaking · dance · digital media · music special effects · theatre · theatre tech summer arts academy

program runs on Monday to Friday from July 2-27. The program is open to gifted children entering grades 2-8 in September 2018. The program

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expands students’ knowledge, develops creative and critical thinking skills, and offers children the opportunity to learn in an exciting and accepting environment.

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LIU Post • College of Education, Information and Technology • 720 Northern Blvd. • Brookville, NY 11548-1300 liu.edu/post/giftedyouth • Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, Director

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children, ages 5-17, more than 70 programs. There’s something for everyone—from theater to sports, gaming, art, music, STEM and STEAM, YouTube Studio, and Adventure Education. There are even pre-collegiate programs in which teens and tweens can try out careers such as aviation, culinary, law, and journalism. At our camp kids explore their interests, learn social skills, and have fun. Daily swim instruction for many programs in Hofstra’s Olympic-sized, indoor pool. Door-to-door, air-conditioned transportation available. Lunch included—we offer glutenfree and Kosher food, and are peanut-allergy sensitive. Contact: 516-463-CAMP (2267) or ce-camps@hofstra.edu.

Kenwal Day Camp

100 Drexel Ave., Melville 631-694-3399 kenwaldaycamp.com Kenwal Day Camp, the “camp that cares,” fosters a positive attitude and high self-esteem in its campers, ages 3-15, who participate, have fun, and try their best. Situated on 20 magnificent acres, with nature trails, a man-made lake, with the finest facilities and equipment. Campers enjoy hours of exploration, excitement, and maximum attention from our staff. Activities include inflatable water park, mini golf, arts and crafts, sports, theater, dance, swimming, zip lines, go-karts, rope rappelling, and special events. We provide an atmosphere filled with memories that your child will cherish forever.

Kenwal Day Camp-Extreme Teens Travel Program

100 Drexel Ave., Melville 631-694-3399 kenwaldaycamp.com Kenwal’s Extreme Teens Travel Program is the perfect blend of outdoor camp activities, as well as overnight and local travel experiences. The program creates an opportunity for campers in seventh through 11th grades, to enjoy an unforgettable summer on the road with their peers. Additionally, Extreme Teens will enjoy the comforts of home during camp days and local day trips. Our extreme teen program is a chance for campers to be active, confi-

dent, and resilient; unplug from technology; develop lifelong skills; grow more independent; learn social skills; and make true friends.

Key to My Art Inc.

10 W. Oak St., Amityville 631-608-9048 131 Main St., East Rockaway keytomyart.com/nymetroparents.html info@keytomyart.com Camps for Tweens and Teens. Join us at Key to My Art this summer to create some amazing art projects! We offer a 2-hour afternoon art-making camp session for your children ages 8 and older! We work in all mediums, from drawing and painting to clay and collage. Each week we follow a special theme, and every day is a new project. We have flexible scheduling: You can book one day, one week, one month, or the entire summer. The more you book, the more you save!

LIU Post Center for Gifted Youth

Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, director LIU Post, Brookville 516-299-2160 liu.edu/giftedyouth The Long Island University program for gifted children was established in 1979 in response to the increasing recognition of society’s special responsibilities for children with demonstrably superior intellectual ability. The LIU Center for Gifted Youth brings together two important elements of education for the gifted: extraordinary teachers recruited from leading schools in the metropolitan area and university-level facilities. These two factors, combined with an administrative and psychological team schooled in the needs of gifted children, give the program at LIU Post unique strengths in producing positive benefits for young people admitted to the program.

Long Island High School for the Arts Summer Arts Academy: sixth to 12th grades

239 Cold Spring Road, Syosset 516-622-5678 nassauboces.org/lihsa The Long Island High School for the Arts offers a four-week Summer Arts Academy that promises to be a rewarding experience for all aspiring artists in sixth through 12th grade. The program offers students profes-

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sional-level classes designed to provide challenging artistic opportunities taught by practicing artists. Students have the choice to focus on one of LIHSA’s major disciplines: Theatre, Music, Dance, Fine Art, Digital Media, Special Effect, or Filmmaking. For more information or to find out what’s new for summer 2018, please call 516-622-5678. Open house April 28.

Long Island Voyager’s Day Camp

516-238-4586 livoyagersdaycamp.com livoyagersdaycamp@gmail.com Long Island Voyager’s Teen and CIT Program. Long Island Voyager’s offers our teens an amazing summer program and if desired, the opportunity to work with our counselors and younger campers. Our CIT program builds confidence, teaches responsibility, and leadership, and prepares them to enter the workforce. CITs can also make tips throughout the summer while enjoying our amazing trips and activities including Splish Splash, Adventureland, Bounce, Sky Zone, movies, bowling, boomers, go-karts, lazer tag, Bayville Adventure Park, and zip lining. CITs receive a discount and door-todoor transportation. Call us for details: 516-238-4586.

Long Island Whole Child Academy Mentoring Scientific Minds Summer STEM Program

175 Wolf Hill Road, Melville 347-668-3676 liwholechild.org info@liwholechild.org Looking for an exciting, flexible addition to your child’s summer adventure? Mentoring Scientific Minds3 offers three, two-week sessions for children ages 3-16, guaranteed to engross the most curious minds. Build submersible ROVs, “see” underwater, study rescued sunken treasures, and learn orienteering and survival skills outdoors at Environmental Boot Camp. Join our Flight Team to fly any airplane to any airport in the world with our own “Captain Joe” and flight simulator. Build mini drones and robots, and learn electronics and engineering at our own Makers’ Space. Call now for information: 347-558-3676.

Mathnasium Learning Centers

Five Towns 414 Central Ave., Cedarhurst 516-569-1500 11 Great Neck Road, Great Neck 516-482-MATH (6284) 381 Sunrise Highway, Lynbrook 516-881-7997 810 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park 516-616-MATH (6284) Roslyn 217A Mineola Ave., Roslyn Heights 516-484-MATH (6284) mathnasium.com Do you want your child to avoid the “summer slide?” Summer is a great time to catch up on math and get ahead! In our relaxed, homework-free environment, Mathnasium enables kids to focus on sharpening their mental math skills. Instead of the dreaded “summer slide,” Mathnasium students develop and maintain the knowledge and confidence needed to hit the ground running when school begins in the fall. Mathnasium is a learning center where kids go to catch up, keep up, or get ahead in math. Programs run year-round for kids of all ages.

Sappo School

40 Kings Park Road, Commack 631-736-2146 sapposchool.com info@sapposchool.com Sappo School will be offering a four-week summer program for students in third to 12th grades. With Dr. Concetta Russo as the newly appointed director of reading, Sappo School now offers a tailor-made Orton Gillingham (OG) program for students with reading disorders, including but not limited to children with dyslexia. The language arts program follows OG methodology, which offers a research-based, multisensory curriculum. Summer students will receive 3 hours of instruction per day, with the program available 8:30-11:30am from July 9-Aug. 3. It is designed to improve the reading and writing skills of any student.

Spin DJ Academy

202 Merrick Road, 2nd floor, Rockville Centre 16 Broadway, Amityville 631-608-8858 spindjacademy.com Spin DJ Camp is an interactive DJ education camp teaching campers everything they need to

be the life of the party in a social and creative setting! Our twoweek camp program includes DJ and Music Production classes using the hottest gear, a fun and social group environment, special guest DJs to inspire, and at the end of each session students will create a live performance, recorded DJ set, and live video!

Sylvan Learning Centers of Mineola and Huntington

393 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola 516-743-9943 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 sylvanlearning.com sylvanlearning@optonline.net Summer learning loss. It’s real! If kids don’t stay engaged in learning, they can lose up to 2½ months of what they learned. Sylvan can tackle any subject or need so your child can take on the next school year with confidence. Our flexible schedules ensure we fit into your plans. With personalized and small group options available, there is something for everyone. Ask about our Comprehension Edge program (third-seventh grades) and Elementary Math and High School Math Edge programs (first to 12th grades), catch up or preview next year’s concepts! Make this summer count!

Thomas School of Horsemanship Summer Camp

250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com tsh@tshcamp.com Our Campers in Leadership Training for ages 13-15 will enjoy the same activities as the rest of camp. Our teens are

given more responsibilities with horses and younger campers, are allowed more freedom with their schedules, and enjoy extra privileges such as off-site trips and free periods. Our CITS are offered many unique learning opportunities including Pre-Vet Care and Lifeguard Training. Outstanding CITs have the opportunity to become assistant group counselors, and may be offered staff positions upon completion of the program.

Unlimited Sports Action

30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-767-7675 unlimitedsportsaction.com info@unlimitedsportsaction.com Day camp at Unlimited Sports Action gives your child the opportunity to play a variety of sports and fun-filled activities each day. Your child will have a unique opportunity to play and have fun with other campers the same age. Designed to inspire learning through a range of physical activities and games, our multi-sport summer camp offers a low-pressure, yet high-energy environment allowing your child to excel in a range of sports. These games and activities, combined with our professional coaching staff, ensure a great summer experience!

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts

185 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights 631-643-7900 usdan.org Get your camp on at Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts—the perfect place for young artists ages 12 and older. With more than 100 classes to choose from

including Ukulele, Rock Band, Mobile Photography, Yoga, Quidditch, Cosplay, Matinee Idol: Mean Girls, Sculpture, and Hip-Hop Dance. There’s something for everyone, whatever your interest. Interested in having fun and honing your leadership skills? Check out Usdan’s Leadership Institute, where campers can meet and be mentored by visiting artists and performers. Enroll with promo code CampOn for $100 off. More info at usdan.org.

Village East Gifted Camp ThinkTank Summer Program

Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted, a yearround enrichment center for students ages 2-16, is offering 17 summer workshops many of which are designed for gifted students in fifth-eighth grades. Workshops are held between 4:30-8:30pm at its Huntington and Roslyn locations. Participants can sign up for just one or all of them. Topics covered include engineering, 3-D printing, foreign language, business, physics, trigonometry, algebra, Newtonian Mechanics, oceanography, culinary art, and linguistic improvisation. Sibling, military, and multiple workshop discounts are available. Enroll early!

YMCA of Long Island

Camp Locations: Bay Shore, East Hampton, Glen Cove, Holtsville,

Huntington, and Patchogue 855-2YMCALI (296-2254) ymcali.org/summer-day-camp tamar.simpson@ymcali.org YMCA Teen Camps are designed to develop decision-making skills in young teens by encouraging positive values and providing challenging, fun, and character-building experiences as well as making long lasting friendships. All campers will have the opportunity to participate in activities such as athletics, arts and crafts, swimming, fitness, games, and—the best part—trips! Our Counselor in Training program combines the fun of camp with leadership and on-the-job training skills. It is an exceptional opportunity for young adults to develop their leadership skills by assisting counselors with camp groups.

Young People’s Day Camps Nassau

516-650-1856; 631-476-3330 ypdc.com Young People’s Day Camp of Nassau County, conveniently located in Hicksville, caters to children ages 4-15. We have been providing boys and girls with summer fun for more than 45 years! YPDC’s philosophy is to “grow” children intellectually, physically, and spiritually in a safe, fun environment! We offer two- to eight-week programs with exciting trips, arts and crafts, yoga, karate, carnivals, talent shows, special event days, instructional sports, and both recreational and instructional swim. YPDC is a family-owned and -operated program that offers a lunch program for a nominal fee and free door-todoor transportation to all areas in Nassau County.

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Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium cshfishhatchery.org

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Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders. STEPS TO SOCIALIZATION 13 S. Bayles Ave., Port Washington 516-767-0266 Steps to Socialization was created to help children who have difficulty socializing. We teach children how to think socially, step by step. Working in small groups, we cover a variety of topics, including how to establish and maintain friendships and initiating and maintaining conversations. THERAPY & COUNSELORS EYE LEVEL OF WILLISTON PARK Long Island 516-747-7700 eyelevelwillistonpark.com Whether the immediate goal is for early learning, remedial education, or academic education, Eye Level is the answer. Eye Level offers math and English programs for ages 3-12. MATHNASIUM LEARNING CENTERS Five Towns 414 Central Ave., Cedarhurst 516-569-1500 Great Neck 11 Great Neck Road, Great Neck 516-482-MATH (6284) Lynbrook 381 Sunrise Highway, Lynbrook 516-881-7997 New Hyde Park

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Dr. Dana Walters is a chiropractor specializing in prenatal and pediatric care. Dr. Walters has practiced in a variety of areas, including Manhattan’s Upper West Side, and has brought her passion for helping families discover the benefits of chiropractic care to Bellmore as ChiroMom. ChiroMom offers chiropractic care utilizing techniques including immune boosting treatments, musculoskeletal and nutritional work, activator techniques, massage therapy, and lifestyle education. As a mom, Dr. Walters experiences first-hand how chiropractic care throughout pregnancy, birth, and childhood sets a solid foundation for greater health and well-being.

Dr. Michael Gruttadauria, The Center for Integrative and Innovative Therapies (The CIIT Center) 131 Sunnyside Blvd., Suite 100, Plainview 516-243-8660; theciitcenter.com

Dr. Michael Gruttadauria leads the operations at an advanced treatment center for autism spectrum disorder called The CIIT Center. The CIIT Center’s mission is to approach each child with autism as a total entity by enhancing the biomedical, neurological, nutritional, electrical, and immune system of each of our patients and combining this with occupational, physical, and speech therapies, along with applied behavioral analysis. Our comprehensive approach starts with identifying the underlying factors that may be holding the child back, not just treating their symptoms. This gives each child every opportunity to reach their potential.

Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry 959 Brush Hollow Road, Suite #101, Westbury 516-333-3033 pediatricdentistlongislandny.com kidsteethli@gmail.com

Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry cares for all of your child’s oral health needs in a fun, kid-friendly environment that includes iPads and chairside TV monitors. Drs. Ehrenman and Khan are dedicated and trained to ease dental anxieties for young children as well as patients with special needs. Their years of advanced training include hospital and sedation dentistry. Please visit kidsteeth4li.com to learn more about what Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry has to offer!

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Merrick Pediatric Dentistry 1756A Merrick Ave., Merrick 516-547-1997 merrickpediatricdentistry.com

Dr. Rania Elbaz is a board-certified pediatric dentist. She earned her dental degree from Columbia University. She then completed her pediatric dental training at UMDNJNew Jersey Dental School. Dr. Elbaz loves working with children and strives to create a warm and fun environment that children look forward to visiting. Dr. Elbaz sees every patient in order to ensure consistency that is so important to young children. The office welcomes and gives extra time and attention to patients with special needs. The office also participates with most major insurance plans.

Mesbah OB-GYN Women’s Health Care & Wellness 877 Stewart Ave., Suite 3, Garden City 516-794-1500 mesbahobgyn.com

Michael Mesbah, M.D., is board-certified with more than 20 years of private practice experience. His experience and expertise in obstetrics has made him one of the most respected physicians on Long Island. He has extensive training in gynecological surgery, and is a certified robotic surgeon. Karyn Wat, M.D., is multilingual in English, Spanish, and Chinese. She has been trained in general and high-risk obstetric care, as well as gynecological surgery. She is compassionate, dedicated, and knowledgeable in issues pertaining to teenagers, family planning, menstrual and hormonal abnormalities, and menopausal symptoms.

Pediatric Dentistry of Nassau County 300 Garden City Plaza, Garden City 516-280-6734 supermolar.com

Dr. Danielle Cooper received her degree in dental medicine and completed her two-year pediatric dental residency at the University of Pittsburgh School of Dental Medicine. She is a board-certified pediatric dentist specialized in treating children of all ages. She loves working with children every day and strives to make her patients feel comfortable, safe, and excited about their oral health. Her patients leaving with a smile is the best part of her day. In her free time Dr. Cooper enjoys reading, movies, good food, and spending quality time with her friends and family.

Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 • Suffolk: 631-689-6858 • Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, is owner and operator of Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. Along with her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, ﬂuency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES— Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. There is a total of seven affiliated offices across Long Island, all participating with most major health insurance companies and offering evening and Saturday hours.

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Shining Smiles Pediatric Dentistry, P.C. 444 Community Drive, #201, Manhasset 516-487-5437 shiningsmilespediatricdentistry.com

Dr. Rod is a diplomate of the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry. He truly cares about children and understands that kids need to feel like they are in a safe, comfortable, relaxed, and friendly environment. At Shining Smiles Pediatric Dentistry, P.C., we strive to use the healthiest materials. Our office uses no mercury and no BPA in any of our fillings and sealants. Additionally, all of our materials are gluten-free to provide optimal oral health for your child.

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431 E. Main Street, Riverhead | LongIslandAquarium.com Closed Christmas & Thanksgiving. *Admission must be used within 7 days of your birthday. No exceptions and no refunds for previously purchased tickets. Valid ID is required. No ID no admittance. Birthday offer cannot be combined with any other offer. Good for 2018.

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OPEN HOUSES 2018 Beth Sholom Day Camp

401 Roslyn Road, Roslyn Heights 516-621-9257 bethsholomdaycamp.com Come check out Beth Sholom Day Camp on April 15 from 10am-1pm. Our facility offers ages 3-15 the opportunity to reach their goals in a friendly, noncompetitive atmosphere. No appointments necessary; private tours available.

Camps ‘R’ Us Where Summer Vacation Is Our Job

Locations in Baldwin, Bellmore, East Rockaway, Farmingdale, Hicksville, Saint James, Syosset, Valley Stream, and West Islip 516-935-CAMP (2267) campsrus.org/openhouse info@campsrus.org Join us for an open house in Baldwin, Bellmore, East Rockaway, Syosset, and Valley Stream on April 21 from 12:302:30pm; and in Farmingdale, Hicksville, Saint James, and West Islip on April 22, from 11:30am-1:30pm.

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium Nature Summer Camp

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfishhatchery.org steved@cshfishhatchery.org Give your young explorer a summer surrounded by nature at our summer science and outdoor nature camps for ages pre-K through teens. Call us to learn more and schedule a personal tour.

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grams—there’s something for everyone, from theater, to sports, to gaming, even a Super Hero Academy. Special one-day discounts. Plus-inflatables, games, and face painting. April 21 from 12-2pm.

Kenwal Day Camp

100 Drexel Ave., Melville 631-694-3399 kenwaldaycamp.com Visit Kenwal to meet with our directors and tour our beautiful 20-acre campgrounds. Sundays through June from 12-3pm, or call for a personal tour. Lock in discounted rates through Summer 2020!

Long Island High School for the Arts Summer Arts Academy: sixth to 12th grades

239 Cold Spring Road, Syosset 516-622-5678 nassauboces.org/lihsa Nassau BOCES Long Island High School for the Arts invites all students with artistic talent, passion, and ambition to an open house on April 28 from 10am-2pm.

Long Island Voyager’s Day Camp

516-238-4586 livoyagersdaycamp.com livoyagersdaycamp@gmail.com Join us at our open house on April 7 and 28, from 12-2pm at Adventureland, 2245 Broad Hollow Road (Route 110), Farmingdale. Registered new campers receive $100 off of tuition and a day bracelet!

April 19 at 7pm in the Aquatics Building at Michael J. Tully Park.

Oasis on the Sound

David Zimmerman, camp director 718-596-4900 Port Washington Senior Center 80 Manorhaven Blvd., Manorhaven oasischildren.com onthesound@oasischildren.com Join us for an information session at the Port Washington Senior Center on April 7 or 24 at 12pm.

St. Elizabeth Ann Seton School

2341 Washington Ave., Bellmore 516-785-5709 steas.com Come to our carnival-themed Early Childhood Open House on Sunday, April 29 from 11am-1pm. All are welcome to join in the games, music, and fun! #EmbraceYourFuture at SEAS!

Thomas School of Horsemanship Summer Day Camp

250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com tsh@tshcamp.com Thomas School of Horsemanship open house: April 7, 8, 28, and 29 from 123pm. Take a guided tour of the facility with a camp director and meet some of our horses.

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts

720 Northern Blvd., Greenvale 646-519-5066 oasischildren.com liupost@oasischildren.com Join us at the Hillwood Commons Building for an information session on April 12 and 26 at 6:30pm.

185 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights 631-643-7900 usdan.org Join new families interested in learning more about Usdan. Meet with our admissions counselors and tour the campus. Refreshments, warm drinks, information, and 2018 registration available. Sundays, April 15 and May 20 from 11am-2pm.

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Jason Miradoli, camp director Michael J. Tully Park 1801 Evergreen Ave., New Hyde Park 718-596-4900 oasischildren.com tullypark@oasischildren.com Join us for an information session on

322 Port Washington Blvd., Port Washington 516-365-4900 vincentsmithschool.org Visit our next open house Tuesday, April 24 at 7pm. Please register online at vincentsmithschool.org or call 516365-4900.

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