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back to school 10 Shopping Smart for Supplies

Family Activities Calendar

Find something fun to do in Nassau every day this month!

Homeowner’s Insurance Check

Experts weigh in on which life events warrant an immediate review.

14 Beyond the Bell 16 Choose the Best After-School Activity for Your Child

17 Back-to-School Directory

Barefoot and Better for It

One mom discovers that incorporating ‘yoga speak’ in her daily life is good for her family.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs, Benefits of Sharing a Nanny 10 We Asked, You Delivered 12 Discover More Online

22 Family Fun in Manhattan

36 Plotting Your Return

23 Family Activities Calendar

38 Homeowner’s Insurance Check

35 Summer Classics

40 Staying on Budget

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Summer’s Out, School’s In

t feels like the summer just started and the kids were sent to their first days of camp. Believe it or not, though, right now is when many parents start thinking about the back-to-school season. Specifically, when’s the right time to enroll your child in an after-school activity—and which one should you choose (I was a band kid, flute and piccolo)? If you’re feeling stumped, or it seems like your child has multiple intrests and not enough time, you’ll want to check out our quiz on p. 16, which will help determine the type of activity best suited to your child. There’s also plenty of advice in “Beyond the Bell” (p. 14), which outlines when your child may be ready for an after-school class and how many he can likely handle. You’ll also find a guide of back-to-school resources, including after-school classes, schools, and resources for the season (p. 17). The back-to-school season was always my favorite time of year, transitioning from shorts and tanks to jeans and flannel—and stocking up on fresh school supplies (I still have a problem with buying too many Post-it Notes, pencils, and notebooks). One of my nieces seems to have the same gene; she had stocked up on all of her school supplies by the time we celebrated July 4! If the thought of spending a lot of money on school supplies makes you groan, read the saving tips from Joanie Demer, co-founder of The Krazy Coupon Lady, on p. 10. While we’re already thinking of the summer ending, there’s still plenty of time to take advantage of the last days of warm weather. There are plenty of kid-friendly events going on this month (p. 23) and maybe it’s time to take a day trip into the city to explore some cool exhibits (p. 22). However you’re taking advantage of the last days of summer, we hope you make the most of them.

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Who: Countryside Montessori What’s New: A renovated playground, which was finished in the spring. The playground was updated to be safer, more functional, and to help kids have more fun, according to Mary Ann Pastorelli, director and head of school at Countryside. The school replaced the playground’s previous wood chip ground cover with green, rubber mulch, which provides extra cushioning. Playground equipment was rearranged and centralized, so kids don’t have to go far to play on every piece of equipment. Countryside’s new playground plays a role in the school’s eightweek summer camp, which features a different theme each week. Want More Info: 354 Lakeville Road, Great Neck; 516-466-8422; info@cmsgn.com

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hat if we told you about a child care situation that provided more individualized attention than a day care—at a lower cost? Sound too good to be true? A nanny share, quite simply, is when two or more families share a nanny. It’s an arrangement with many benefits. Here are the top three:

Significant Savings

The cost is usually the nanny’s hourly rate, plus an extra fee, the total of which should be split between the families equally (based on the number of children from each family the nanny cares for). With this arrangement, each family pays less than they would alone, while the nanny gets a slightly higher salary.

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Your child gets more individualized attention, plus a nanny share allows your little one to socialize with other kids. The smaller group size will ensure each child is well cared for. Bonus: Fewer children means less germs—and less chaos—than in your typical day care classroom.

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A nanny share allows you much greater flexibility than a day care center or group provider. Staying late at work? Need someone to take your child to swim lessons? Having another baby? These are all things nannies are typically able (and willing) to take on—even in a share. A successful nanny share definitely takes a lot of advance planning and coordination, but it can be an excellent solution if you’re lucky enough to find the perfect nanny and a great family willing to share.

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Shopping Smart for Supplies

very year the list seems to get longer: two bulk packs of Sharpies (thin points, please); Post-it Notes in assorted sizes, eight glue sticks. Parents can blow through hundreds of dollars on school supplies—and that’s before buying lunchboxes, new shoes, and backpacks. Joanie Demer, co-founder of The Krazy Coupon Lady, a leading money-saving site, shares savvy tips for back-to-school shopping. If you want to save big, she says, after school starts in the fall is the ideal time to buy for the following year. If you can’t plan a full year in advance, however, there are plenty of other ways to save on supplies. Host a Swap Send your elementary school-age kids on a scavenger hunt to find pencils, notebooks, crayons, and folders—anything that could be used at school—hiding around the house. Then invite some other parents and children over to trade unneeded supplies for the ones they can use. It’s a win-win! Watch for Penny Deals At this time of year, stores are known to sell school supplies as “loss leaders,” meaning they’re priced so low the store loses money on them. Stores do this to lure you into buying pricier items while you’re shopping. At Staples, for example, you can often get up to eight

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pencils for 1 cent. “The trick is to just buy the pencils and then walk away!” Demer says. Shop Around Comparison shop to find the best prices on the items you need. For instance, perhaps you “buy spiral notebooks, crayons, and glue sticks from Walmart, ballpoint pens and scissors at Target, and Dixon Ticonderoga pencils on Amazon,” Demer suggests. And don’t overlook dollar stores. They tend to be a great yearround source for name-brand supplies—think Crayola crayons, Elmer’s glue, Bic pens—at a lower cost than big box stores. Try Online Tricks There are a few online services that can help you save, Demer suggests. When you shop online through Paribus, it tracks the items you purchase and will help you get money back when the price drops. And when you shop via sites such as Ebates and RetailMeNot, you can earn up to 10 percent of your purchase in cash back from various retailers. Double Up If you see a great deal on basics from brand names, buy extra. You may need to replenish your kid’s stash mid-year. Plus, it’s likely that whatever is on this year’s list will be needed for next year too.

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It’s official: The cutest kids live here! More than 1,000 of you, our dear readers, entered your adorable children in our annual Cover Kids Contest! Our editors had the tough job of reviewing every entry to pick nine finalists, and the 10th finalist was the Fan Favorite, the child whose picture received the most votes (699 this year!). The finalists are: • Anthony, age 3, from Suffolk • Ghianna, age 11, from Rockland • Henry, age 3, from Brooklyn • Jasper, age 2, from Manhattan • Jordan, age 13, from Nassau

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At the end of June, all 10 finalists were decked out in clothing from Macy’s Backstage for a photo shoot at Sarah Merians Photography & Video Company in Manhattan—and, boy, are we going to have a tough time selecting the two grand prize winners! The older than 6 winner will receive a scholarship and professional photo shoot at Barbizon, and the 6 and younger winner (in addition to the Fan Favorite) will receive a 2-night stay, plus 2 Paw Passes, at Great Wolf Lodge in Scotrun, PA. Keep an eye out for our September issue, which will feature all 10 kids—and announce our grand prize winners! Promotional Partners:

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“Book ownership does help raise levels of intelligence in kids. It raises curiosity, it raises their ability to feel conscious, aware, and motivated to keep on learning.” —Marley Dias, a 14-year-old from West Orange, who helped launch free book vending machines across NYC; read about it at nymetroparents.com/book-vending

“I imagined cooking all day, washing all the good dishes, having to clean the entire house. And who wants to turn on the oven in the summer? Suddenly, throwing food on a grill outside and using Chinet seemed so much easier. This, of course, was idiotic. The whole business is not, in fact, easier than turning on the oven.” —Christina Vercelletto, a Long Island mom who attempted to throw a backyard barbecue; read how it turned out at nymetroparents.com/bbq

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Beyond the Bell

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Choosing after-school activities for your children can make your head spin—art or theater, sports or chess, STEM or dance? Experts weigh in to help you determine which—and how many— extracurriculars to enroll your child in. By Anja Webb

ith the dizzying array of options—from academic enrichment to sports teams to special interest programs—how can you be sure you’ve found the right extracurriculars for your kid without spending a fortune going from activity to activity? Local after-school activity directors, moms, and child psychologists share their tips when it comes to finding the right program.

The Benefits

While after-school classes are often seen as a means of beefing up resumes for college, there are many other advantages. One key perk is the opportunity for kids to socialize. In between classes at Studio B Dance Center in Eastchester, for example, students “sit together in their group. We don’t let them take their phones out, and they just talk for a few minutes in between the classes. It kind of develops these friendships and making eye contact and interacting,” says Nancy Solomon, owner of the dance school. “After-school activities provide an ideal environment in which to nurture social skills and confidence,” adds Shawna Stewart, program accounts specialist at MakerState LLC, a STEM enrichment program in Manhattan. “Numerous extracurricular activities work to teach children the value of working as a team to achieve a mutual goal—a skill that will benefit them in their future occupations.” Extracurriculars can also increase positive emotions and feelings of accomplishment. “By doing the recital and being part of it, they experience a lot of self-confidence and self-esteem,” Solomon says. Plus, “it teaches them listening skills and respecting adults… independence, how to make friends, how to share,” she adds. And each activity offers different benefits as well. “The benefits 14

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of STEM enrichment specifically are fostering ingenuity and creativity, teaching problem-solving, building resilience, and encouraging experimentation, teamwork, knowledge application, tech use, and adaption,” Stewart says. The experiences kids have in their extracurricular classes can help shape their identity. “They have a story, when they say, ‘Hi, my name is Susie and I love to____.’ That’s who they are, that’s their interest, and that’s something to be celebrated once they do find that special interest,” Solomon says.

The Process

The timing is a fine line between starting her early enough that she has a chance to excel in her activity, but also ensuring she’s old enough to really get something out of the classes. “Any child who goes to school is old enough to begin after-school activities,” says Carole Lieberman, M.D., a psychiatrist and author of Lions and Tigers and Terrorists, Oh My! How to Protect Your Child in a Time of Terror. “[Kids] should begin by grades first, second, or third because the sooner you start enriching them with these activities, the better.” On the other hand, if your kid is not interested in after-school classes, rest assured there’s plenty of time for him to find what he enjoys. Maybe you have a budding cinematographer or robotics engineer—these interests will develop as your child gets older. “By middle school, if not before, students should be experimenting with a diverse set of after-school endeavors that align with any interests they express,” says Kat Cohen, Ph.D., college admissions counselor and founder of IvyWise, an educational consulting company.

The Options

When it comes to selecting an activity, Dr. Cohen says it’s important to provide a variety of options while ensuring your child is still pursuing her individual interests. For younger kids, a ranking system may prove useful in making choices. “Put together a list of possibilities in your neighborhood [including] arts and crafts, photography, dance, music, theater, Little League, and so on,” Dr. Lieberman recommends. “Then ask your child to rank them in the order they like best, so that they feel like they have chosen to do this.” If your little one isn’t interested in conventional after-school activities, find alternative ways to engage her passions, and eventually an appropriate extracurricular may develop. “I see what their interests are, and try to extrapolate from there. Do they have a sudden interest in Detective Pikachu? I’ll see if there’s some sort of sleuthing or mystery club they can do,” says Alexa DeKalb, a mother of three living in Manhattan. “I understand the Ivy League isn’t going to offer a scholarship for ‘Most Encyclopedia Brown Books Read,’ but that’s fine—if it makes my kid passionate, maybe it’ll lead to a junior internship with a police department, and that’s something they could write about!” In addition to personal interests, it’s also important to factor in logistics, such as time commitment, travel time, cost, and scheduling conflicts. Maybe your little one feels equally passionate about soccer and chess, but chess only meets once a week whereas soccer meets three days a week. Soccer will require certain, potentially costly, gear such as cleats, uniforms, and shin guards. You might have to drive out of town for games if he advances to the travel team. In this situation, your choice of extracurricular may come down to logistics.

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When crafting your child’s schedule, it can be a balancing act between ensuring she can explore all of her interests without overwhelming her. It may be a case of trial and error to figure out what your kid’s individual threshold is. “Start with one afterschool activity, then gradually add more as your child seems able to handle a more intense schedule,” Dr. Lieberman suggests. During this time of testing the limits of your child’s energy and focus, it’s important to make sure he isn’t losing sight of the things that may be important to your family—academics, family dinners, religious practices, etc. “Older elementary children have great after-school options including music, theater, and sports, but also have a great risk of being over-scheduled,” says Elizabeth Malson, president of Amslee Institute, an online technical school specializing in child care. “Ideally, families should pick one or two activities at a time, ensuring plenty of time for academics and health.” Make sure activities he participates in aren’t infringing on his sleep schedule or friendships. Also, if one of your kids can balance a different activity each day of the week, it doesn’t necessarily mean her sibling will be able to do the same. “Every student is different, so there is no magic number of hours that should be devoted to after-school activities: One pre-teen might be able to balance three to four pursuits while another student might feel totally overwhelmed,” Dr. Cohen says. “At the end of the day, parents should sit down with their student, brainstorm a list of activities to pursue, and create a schedule that feels manageable for the student.” Communication and flexibility with your child are incredibly important when it comes to setting a schedule that works for both of you. After all, these activities can be the groundwork for a future degree, career, or lifelong interest.

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Is she the leader of the pack?

Yes

What’s the first thing she does in the car?

Roll down window

The Arts

Turn on radio

Dance, drama, or a music class would be a great fit for your kid. She is creative and has a zest for life that just can’t be contained. You might have a potential triple-threat on your hands!

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Her favorite subject is...

Science

President

Your child’s room is...

English

Is he smarter than you?

Yes

Academic Enrichment

Clean

What’s more important?

Grades

Your smarty pants can’t get enough of reading, writing, and arithmetic. Many tutoring centers also offer enrichment classes, espeically during the summer. Get your Einstein learning all year long.

Messy

Experience

Art Class

If your child is constantly drawing or painting at home, save yourself the mess and get him into an art class. Art is a great way for your little Picasso to express himself.

Back To School Resources BACK TO SCHOOL SERVICES DENTISTS & ORTHODONTISTS Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry

959 Brush Hollow Road, Suite 101, Westbury 516-333-3033 pediatricdentistlongislandny.com kidsteethli@gmail.com Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry cares for all of your child’s oral health needs in a fun, kid-friendly environment that includes iPads and chairside TV monitors. Drs. Ehrenman and Khan are dedicated and trained to ease dental anxieties for young children as well as patients with special needs.

PDM Family Dental

295 N. Broadway, Jericho 516-388-5002 pdmfamilydental.com info@pdmfamilydental.com PDM Family Dental provides comprehensive care for your family’s dental needs. Dr. Makkar is an advocate of educating families to take care of their dental needs and of supporting communities. We accept most insurances and provide in-office dental plans so that dental care is accessible to all. We are open evenings.

The Tooth Pillow Dentistry

775 Park Ave., suite 340, Huntington 516-317-2476 toothpillowny.com The Tooth Pillow Dentistry is a group of board-certified pediatric dentists and dentist anesthesiologists who work together to safely provide dental treatment while your child “sleeps.” We provide this service for children who cannot be treated in the typical dental chair setting due to age, behavior, or other factors that hinder treatment.

DOCTORS AdvantageCare Physicians

37 medical offices across the Metropolitan New York area. acpny.com AdvantageCare Physicians understands that a child’s total health picture includes how they are doing physically and emotionally, what their diet is like, and how active they are. We help you assess these important areas of your child’s health with wellness exams, regular checkups, sports physicals, and mandatory vaccinations.

Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631689-6858 Queens: 718-640-6767 lispeech.com Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, expressive and receptive language disorders.

EDUCATIONAL SERVICES Law Offices of Brad H. Rosken, P.L.L.C.

534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He is also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law. He will guide you, decipher lingo, and develop effective strategies.

STORES & RESOURCES Affinity Health Plan

866-247-5678 affinityplan.org For more than 30 years, Affinity Health Plan has been offering New York state-sponsored free or low-cost health coverage to New Yorkers who have Medicaid or no health insurance at all. Our managed care programs meet the need for coverage among people who may find it hard to get health care.

Lice Clinics of America - Long Island

47 Jackson Ave., Syosset 516-336-4099 566 Merrick Road, Rockville Centre 401 Hawkins Avenue, Ronkonkoma liceclinicslongisland.com We remove lice in just one hour! All lice and eggs-even Super Lice-are eliminated in a single, one-hour treatment. Our treatments are affordable, starting at $99, and never more than $199. Gentle heated air treatment, no toxic chemicals! Call us 24/7. Appointments available seven days-a-week; we can even handle your after-hours emergency!

TUTORS & TEST PREP Advanced Academic Programs of Roslyn

20 Roosevelt Ave., Roslyn 516-484-1789 roslynacademics.com info@roslynacademicprograms.com Roslyn Academic Programs offers enrichment programs for school age children in mathematics, physics, chemistry, robotics, programming and engineering, languages, music, and art. We also offer standardized test (ACT, SAT, etc.) and subject test preparation for high school students.

Grady edu

1399 Jerusalem Ave., Merrick 516-401-1400 gradyedu.com Grady edu offers elite educational programs such as fashion design, culinary arts, woodworking building, dance, drama and acting, music, creative creation arts, and steam science. Grady edu is also the place for after-school programs in tutoring and homework help, and study classes for major exams, finals, or tests.

Mathnasium Learning Centers

414 Central Ave., Cedarhurst 516-569-1500 11 Great Neck Road, Great Neck 516-482-MATH (6284) 381 Sunrise Highway, Lynbrook 516-881-7997 810 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park 516-616-MATH (6284) 217A Mineola Ave., Roslyn Heights 516-484-MATH (6284) mathnasium.com Mathnasium Learning Centers, the nation’s leading math-only learning center franchise with centers throughout Nassau County, specializes in teaching kids of all ages math in a way that makes sense to them. Students go to Mathnasium year-round to catch up, keep up, and get ahead in math.

Sylvan Learning Centers of Mineola and Huntington

393 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola 516-743-9943 locations.sylvanlearning.com/us/ mineola-ny 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 locations.sylvanlearning.com/us/ huntington-ny sylvanlearning@optonline.net Sylvan’s Personalized Tutoring programs in reading, writing, mathematics, SAT and ACT Prep will improve your child’s skills and confidence. We use a state-of-theart assessment, personal learning plans, and certified teachers to ensure the high level of quality instruction and support that Sylvan prides itself on.

AFTER-SCHOOL ACADEMIC ENRICHMENT/ LANGUAGE Advanced Academic Programs of Roslyn

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfishhatchery.org info@cshfishhatchery.org Join us for a fun-filled hour of nature activities (fish feeding included). Using live animals, crafts, stories, and games, we guide you and your little ones through nature adventures. Ages 2-5 at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium Pollywog Adventures program. Catch & Keep Trout Fishing-spaces available first-come, first-served.

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Hofstra University Continuing Education - Saturday Classes for Young People and Precollegiate Career Discovery Institute

516-463-7400, Jessica Dease, program director ce.hofstra.edu/youth jessica.dease@hofstra.edu Saturday Classes for Young People wants your child to love learning. Our small classes provide individual attention and help encourage students’ curiosity. There are many classes to choose, including reading, math, writing, STEM/ STEAM, cartooning, theater, art, video game development, Minecraft, and swimming.

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The Long Island University program for gifted children was established in 1979 in response to the recognition of society’s special responsibilities for children with demonstrably superior intellectual ability. The LIU Center for Gifted Youth offers extraordinary teachers recruited from leading schools in the metropolitan area, and university-level facilities.

M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym & Early Childcare Education Center

A Rainbow Of Programs Under One Roof! 2629 Grand Ave., Bellmore 516-221-1330 171 Eileen Way, Syosset 516-496-7765 matsskidsgym.com “A Rainbow of Programs all under one roof.” Full daycare offered (Syosset), nursery school, infant and toddler classes, afterschool gymnastics, enrichment, cooking, sports, and dance classes (ages 20 months-12 years). Extended day (Syosset), summer day camp, afterschool care for grades kindergarten-fifth (Syosset), Kids Night Out (Bellmore), and birthday parties available.

Main St. Board Game Cafe - Unplug Your Game

307 Main St., Huntington 631-729-0060 mainstboardgamecafe.com/reservation info@mainstboardgamecafe.com In these two-hour drop-off sessions, kids will learn a wide variety of strategic board games with our expert staff while having a blast with friends in a screen-free, fun, caring, and individualized environment. Playing board games develops social and critical thinking skills that will last a lifetime.

Mathnasium Learning Centers

Sylvan Learning Centers of Mineola and Huntington 393 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola 516-743-9943 locations.sylvanlearning.com/us/ mineola-ny

1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 locations.sylvanlearning.com/us/ huntington-ny sylvanlearning@optonline.net Sylvan’s Personalized Tutoring programs in reading, writing, mathematics, SAT and ACT Prep will improve your child’s skills and confidence. We use a state-of-the-art assessment, personal learning plans, and certified teachers to ensure the high level of quality instruction and support that Sylvan prides itself on.

Village East Gifted - Enrichment Center for the Gifted Learner

Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted (VEG), open seven days-a-week, offers a rigorous and highly-creative academic program, in all subject areas, to gifted students ages 2-16. Its CORE curriculum includes instructional writing/grammar, geography, global studies, STEAM, mathematics, Latin/Greek Etymology, SAT/ACT vocabulary enrichment, business, anatomy/ physiology, advanced study skills, and creative problem solving.

DANCE Eglevsky Ballet

700 Hicksville Road, suite 102, Bethpage 516-746-1115 eglevskyballet.org Eglevsky Ballet, under the artistic direction of Maurice Brandon Curry, provides professional caliber training for students of all ages and abilities. Eglevsky presents an annual production of The Nutcracker, two summer intensives, master classes, performing opportunities, and community outreach. Classes are offered in ballet, pointe, modern, character, Pilates, pre-ballet, and adult ballet.

CLASSES MUSIC The Argyle Academy of the Arts at The Argyle Theatre

34 W. Main St., Babylon Village 844-631-LIVE (5483) argyletheatre.com boxoffice@argyletheatre.com The Argyle Academy of the Arts Fall Intensive offers classes in acting, singing, and dancing for grades kindergarten-12th. Classes are taught in a supportive environment with theatre professionals. Students build self-confidence

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and have fun while learning and working on acting, singing, and dancing skills. Fall Intensive runs Sept. 23–Dec. 17.

Music Institute of Long Island

90 Plandome Road, Manhasset 516-627-7052 milimusic.com; miligirls@gmail.com Celebrating our 30th year, Music Institute of Long Island voted No. 1 Best Music School on Long Island and the North Shore. Outstanding faculty with years of experience. Programs include violin, viola, cello, guitar, piano, voice, clarinet, saxophone, trumpet, trombone, and tuba. Traditional, Suzuki, and ABRSM methods, ages 3-99, beginner-advanced.

STEM Village East Gifted - Enrichment Center for the Gifted Learner

THEATER The Argyle Academy of the Arts at The Argyle Theatre

YMCA of Long Island

nity to surpass their potential. With swim lessons, youth sports, theater and dance classes, the possibilities are endless. Registration for fall programs begins Aug. 25. Session runs Sept. 8 to Nov. 16.

SPORTS FITNESS Thomas School of Horsemanship Riding Academy

250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com; tsh@tshcamp.com Thomas School of Horsemanship offers unique after-school programs for all levels of riding from beginners to advanced. We offer group or private lessons in seasonal series. Many students ride all year-round and compete in horse shows. We also offer our students the possibility of leasing a horse.

HORSEBACK RIDING Thomas School of Horsemanship Riding Academy

ICE-SKATING & ICE HOCKEY Northwell Health Ice Center

200 Merrick Ave., East Meadow 516-441-0070 northwellhealthicecenter.com Northwell Health Ice Center, the coolest place on Long Island, is the premier hockey destination and official practice facility of the New York Islanders. Starting Sept. 28, our inhouse hockey programs are perfect for young players (ages 5-14) to learn and develop their hockey skills in a fun, exciting atmosphere.

SOCCER Soccer Shots West

171 Eileen Way, Syosset 516-558-2266 soccershots.org/longislandwest liwest@soccershots.org Soccer Shots is an engaging children’s soccer program with a focus on character development. Our caring team positively impacts children’s lives on and off the field through best-in-class coaching, communication, and curriculum. Our expert-approved curriculum is age-appropriate and aligns with childhood education standards, visit the website at soccershots.org/liwest.

SWIMMING & WATER SPORTS

Hofstra University Continuing Education - Saturday Classes for Young People and Precollegiate Career Discovery Institute

516-463-7400, Jessica Dease, program director ce.hofstra.edu/youth jessica.dease@hofstra.edu Saturday Classes for Young People wants your child to love learning. Our small classes provide individual attention and help encourage students’ curiosity. There are many classes to choose, including reading, math, writing, STEM/STEAM, cartooning, theater, art, video game development, Minecraft, and swimming.

YMCA of Long Island

855-2YMCALI (962254) Bay Shore, East Hampton, Glen Cove, Holtsville, Huntington, and Patchogue ymcali.org; info@ymcali.org “Find your awesome”-from swim lessons to the swim team. At the YMCA, everyone has the opportunity to surpass their potential. With swim lessons, youth sports, theater and dance classes, the possibilities are endless. Registration for fall programs begins Aug. 25. Session runs Sept. 8 to Nov. 16.

EDUCATION DAY CARE & CHILD CARE Ivy Prep Early Learning Academy of Deer Park

80 W. Industry Court, Deer Park 631-667-3507 ivyprep.org/locations/deer-park deerpark@ivyprep.org Licensed daycare dedicated to providing a fun, safe, and enriching environment for the care of your young ones. Our dedicated staff work to get to know every child to

develop a trusting bond. We strive to give the best possible care to all children ages 6 weeks to pre-K.

PAROCHIAL & RELIGIOUS SCHOOLS

Trinity Episcopal Church Roslyn Childcare Center

1579 Northern Blvd., Roslyn 516-626-0293 trinitychild.org At Trinity Episcopal Church Roslyn Childcare Center, we specialize in pre-K, preschool, and all-day quality childcare. We are licensed for children from 6 weeks-5 years. Our commitment is to provide a loving, positive, spirited setting that builds self-esteem, and forms character and a positive self-image.

PRESCHOOLS

Countryside Montessori School

354 Lakeville Road, lower level, Great Neck 516-466-8422 cmsgn.com; info@cmsgn.com Countryside Montessori School was founded in 1998 with the aim of providing a high quality early childhood education based on the philosophy, methods, and techniques developed 100 years ago by educational pioneer Dr. Maria Montessori. Everything in our school is designed to encourage and aid a child’s natural curiosity.

Ivy Prep Early Learning Academy of Deer Park 80 W. Industry Court, Deer Park 631-667-3507 ivyprep.org/locations/deer-park deerpark@ivyprep.org Ivy League Learning Academy Preschool Program is designed to allow children to grow and develop into lifelong learners. Our certified teachers and specialized curriculum embrace each child’s individuality.

The pre-K program focus is on preparing children for kindergarten. We make sure all children are on track with developing socially, cognitively, communicatively, and physically.

Kiddie Playland

310 Hillside Ave., Williston Park 516-294-0111 kiddieplayland.com Our preschool program is designed for ages 18 months-4 years. We offer flexible half-day programs. Our curriculum includes circle time, learning the alphabet, shapes, numbers, colors, learning centers, art and crafts, music and movement, and playtime at our indoor playground.

M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym & Early Childcare Education Center

PRIVATE SCHOOLS

East Woods School

31 Yellow Cote Road, Oyster Bay 516-922-4400 eastwoods.org East Woods, in Oyster Bay, is a private school for age 2-eighth grade. We are a friendly community of students, faculty, and parents that feels more like one big family. We have been inspiring confidence, excellence, and kindness since 1946. We develop confident, motivated, and kind leaders.

Love of Learning Montessori School

105 Prospect Road, Centerport 631-629-5599 lolmontessori.org An AMS member school, Love of Learning Montessori has for 20 years provided an authentic handson education for children ages 3 through sixth grade. Exploration in our woods and on our beach is actively encouraged. Love of Learning-where we love to learn, and learn to love. Financial aid is available.

SPECIAL NEEDS

Law Offices of Brad H. Rosken, P.L.L.C.

534 Broadhollow Road, suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law. He’ll guide you, decipher lingo, and develop effective strategies.

Variety Child Learning Center

47 Humphrey Drive, Syosset 516-921-7171 Variety Child Learning Center at the Gallow School 72 Farmedge Road, Levittown 516-490-3301 vclc.org Variety Child Learning Center provides services to more than 750 children and families annually. Services include evaluation to determine eligibility, early intervention, special education, Special Classes in an Integrated Setting, Special Education Itinerant Services, Applied Behavioral Analysis, Family Center Sunday Respite and Recreation Program, Social Skills Training Groups, and Lufrano Training.

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At Love of Learning, we educate the whole child. We provide an excellent academic education as we cultivate our students with an intrinsically driven joy in learning that will last throughout their lives. Exploration, independently and in company, physically and intellectually, is encouraged at every age level. And the work of our children is supported by an intentional sense of community that permeates everything we do. CHILDREN AGES 3 THROUGH SIXTH GRADE WELCOME

Love of Learning - where we love to learn and learn to love. Love of Learning Montessori School (631) 629-5599 105 Prospect Road Centerport, NY 11721 www.lolmontessori.org

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Raising Independent Teens

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Teaching your teen to be a successful, self-sufficient adult will take time and patience, but it’s worth it (trust us!). By Emma Steven

ne minute you’re changing your kid’s diapers, and the next you’re arguing with her about curfew. Your baby has grown into a young person with strong opinions and a fierce desire to be independent. As a parent, it’s your job to teach him life skills. But, like everything with teenagers, it’s complicated. Raising independent teens starts in preschool, according to Julie Lythcott-Haims, former dean of freshmen at Stanford University and author of How to Raise an Adult: Break Free from the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success. “Kids don’t acquire life skills by magic at the stroke of midnight on their eighteenth birthday,” she writes. “Childhood is meant to be a training ground. Parents can assist, not by always being there to do it or to tell them how to do it via cellphone—but by getting out of the way and letting them figure it out by themselves.” Unfortunately, this isn’t happening as often as it should. We are in the midst of an overparenting era, Lythcott-Haims says, and our kids are suffering for it. The 2018 Cooperative Institutional Research Program Freshman Study by the Higher Education Research Institute reported the emotional and mental health of freshmen in 1,900 U.S. colleges has declined since 1985. While there are many factors at play, researchers have found a strong correlation between parents who are overinvolved in their kids lives and undergraduates who report poor psychological well-being, problems making friends, low self-efficacy, and anxiety. 20

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Lythcott-Haims warns that if we want our kids to be happy and successful adults, we urgently need to let them do more. “The narrative has to shift so we see that it is most loving to be interested in our children learning skills for themselves,” she writes. “It feels unloving…in the moment, but when we remember that our job is to put ourselves out of a job, that’s actually the most loving thing we can do.”

Choose Chores

Doing tasks around the house from an early age is a predictor of success in adult life, according to Marty Rossmann, professor emeritus at the University of Minnesota. Yet the amount of time kids spend doing chores has been declining since the ’80s. Psychologists believe household work teaches kids how to look after themselves and develop a good work ethic. By 10 a child can take on laundry, change the bed, and mow the lawn. Highschoolers can manage most adult chores, such as shopping for and preparing meals and unclogging drains. Your kids will definitely complain, but at least they won’t be calling you asking how to vacuum after they’ve moved out.

Dollars and Sense

“It’s never too early, or too late, to begin teaching about financial literacy,” says Jennifer Myers, CFP and president of SageVest Wealth Management and SageVest Kids. “Kids can really begin to conceptualize money as tweens.”

“Budgeting is the most important thing a parent can teach their child,” Myers says. “We always recommend attaching purchase responsibilities with allowances. It forces kids to learn about the importance of budgeting and saving.” By the teen years, kids should be paying for outings with friends, makeup, clothing, and more (think things they want, not things they need), to help conceptualize real life costs, Myers suggests. Most money experts and psychologists recommend teens hold a part-time job (and not just during the summer). “It gives them the understanding that when they fill up the car tank it might cost five hours of work,” says Cary Siegel, author of Why Didn’t They Teach Me This at School: 99 Personal Money Management Lessons to Live By.

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Change a Tire

Lauren Fix, the “Car Coach,” says American teenagers should be learning basic car maintenance—as they do in other countries. Not only will it give her confidence, it also saves money. All she needs is the owner’s manual, Youtube, and the local auto parts store. Teach him to check and change the oil, check tire pressure and add air, change a tire, fill the gas tank, replace basic parts (wiper blades and air filters), and what to do when the “check engine” light comes on.

Time Management

The recent admissions scandal is an extreme example of how far some will go to get their kid into the “right” college. More common, Lythcott-Haims says, is the helicopter parent who constantly monitors their child’s academics and chooses her classes and extracurricular activities. Parents doing homework is also not unusual. The average U.S. parent spends six hours a week helping their child with academics, according to the Varkey Foundation’s Global Parent’ Survey. While well-intentioned, micromanaging stops kids from experiencing the natural consequences of their actions, such as missing deadlines and getting good or bad grades. Lythcott-Haims also warns that it can leave children feeling like their parents have no faith in them, and that they are doing their homework for their parents, not themselves. “None of this is good for the child,” she says.

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Let Them Struggle

Young adults have to be able to cope with the ups and downs of life and keep going. Learning to manage conflict, hurt feelings, and cope when things go wrong is important. If we try and solve every one of our child’s minor problems, we rob him of experiences that help to build resilience. As Mogel says: “When they come to you in distress, resist responding like a concierge, talent agent, or the secret police. Assume they are capable of figuring out—through trial and error—how to solve their own problems.” If you’re feeling a little behind, don’t worry! It’s never too late to start. Lythcott-Haims has this advice: “The first thing is to acknowledge to the kid, with a small bit of apology, ‘We realized that we are a bit behind when it comes to teaching you to be independent and it’s time for us to start teaching you a lot of things.’ A teen needs to hear that because otherwise they will view your shift with a lot of skepticism.” Let her choose which chores she’s going to take on. Then tell him you will stop asking him about school work all the time because you know he has it under control, and let him decide what skills, like money management or car care, he would like to learn first. The process will probably elicit an eye roll now, but her future self will thank you. Emma Steven is a British freelance writer living in Manhattan with her husband, two small kids, and two cats. She writes about parenting and New York City.

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The immersive deep-sea experience provides plenty of Insta-worthy moments while educating visitors about environmentalism.

Embrace the Abyss

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The Hester Street Fair has a variety of theme days through October, including Lobster and Beer Day, Vintage Day, and Octoberfest.

Kids Just Wanna Have Fun

The Hester Street Fair brings fun to the Lower East side all summer long. On Aug. 10, the fair will hold Hester Street Fair Kids Day to thank neighborhood kids and their families for supporting the fair and to celebrate a successful summer. Enjoy artisanal fashion, art, design, music, food vendors, and more at this unique and family-friendly festival that will connect you to all the culture the Lower East Side has to offer. Saturday, Aug. 10, 11am-6pm. Ages: All. Free to attend; Hester and Essex streets; hesterstreetfair.com. 22

Belvedere Castle

Complete with structural and decorative upgrades along with the familiar features New Yorkers have grown to love, the Belvedere Castle in Central Park reopened in June. The historic landmark is atop the park’s second-highest point, offering views of the Great Lawn, Turtle Pond, the Delacorte Theater, and more. Visit it: Middle of the park at 79th Street; 212-628-2345; centralparknyc.org Can’t-miss event: The Belvedere: Beautiful View Tour; various dates and times throughout August Directions: Approximately a 1-hour drive or a 1-hour LIRR and subway ride from Garden City

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August is your last chance to explore the futuristic, undersea world that is Ocean Cube NYC. The immersive pop-up invites all ages into an oceanic, futuristic world complete with beautiful, bio-luminescent creatures. The exhibit aims to remind visitors of the beauty of our oceans through vibrant colors and light effects while teaching us how to maintain them. Through Aug. 18: daily, 10am-8pm. Ages: All. 60 Grand St., Soho; oceancubenyc.com.

Belvedere Castle’s name translates to “beautiful view” in Italian.

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The Math Square allows you to play mathematical games, all controlled by the movement of your feet.

National Museum of Mathematics

What better way to help prevent the summer slide than by incorporating math in your family’s summer fun? The National Museum of Mathematics highlights the role math plays in everyday life through the patterns and structures that surround us. Visit it: 11 E. 26th St., Nomad; momath.org Can’t-miss event: Solar Eclipses: Math, Science, and Spectacle; Aug. 6, 6:30pm; $15 Directions: Approximately a 1-hour drive or a 1-hour, 20-minute LIRR and subway ride from Garden City

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30 Show Time!, The Great Outdoors

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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 9 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Family Game Show Night FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 1, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: All WHAT: Equipped with a real live game show podium, trivia questions, and very funny hosts, it’s always fun for the whole family. Registration required. WHY WE LOVE IT: Families can engage in some friendly competition, be it trivia, a singing contest, or a funny physical challenge! WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

The Annual Massapequa Park Street Fair FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 4, 11am-6pm WHERE: Downtown Massapequa Park AGES: All WHAT: The fair will feature more than 150 craft and merchandise vendors, live bands, and food trucks. WHY WE LOVE IT: The fun includes an NY Islanders’ Slapshot Booth, a 250-foot zipline, and a mechanical bull. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 516-644-5615. masspk.com.

Huntington Summer Arts Festival Family Show: ‘Caps for Sale’ and ‘Three Billy Goats Gruff’ FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 6, 6-8pm WHERE: Heckscher Park, NY-25A and Prime Avenue, Huntington AGES: All WHAT: See large scale puppet portrayals of two classic children’s stories. WHY WE LOVE IT: Arrive early for a free craft! WANT TO GO? 631-271-8423. huntingtonarts.org.

Long Island Water Lantern Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 5-10pm WHERE: Bar Beach, West Shore Road, Port Washington AGES: All WHAT: Witness the magic of lanterns as they light up the water. WHY WE LOVE IT: Make a night of it with food trucks and music! WANT TO GO? $25; $12 children ages 8-14; free for children ages 7 and younger. waterlanternfestival.com.

Sesame Street Sing-Along With Alan From Hooper’s Store

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 11, 3pm WHERE: The Patchogue Theatre for the Performing Arts, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: All WHAT: Alan Muraoka has played Alan, the proprietor of Hooper’s Store, for the past 21 years. Join him and Sesame Street Muppeteer Jennifer 24

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3 Barnhart and Avenue Q puppeteer Jason Jacoby in a high-energy show featuring some of your favorite Sesame Street songs. WHY WE LOVE IT: This interactive show is packed with songs that both parents and children will know and love. WANT TO GO? $20-$40. 631-207-1313. patchoguetheatre.org.

‘The Wizard of Oz’

WHEN: Aug. 13, 10am WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre at Elmont, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: All WHAT: Follow Dorothy and her friends, the Scarecrow, the Tin Man, and the Cowardly Lion as they venture to the Emerald City. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids and parents alike can appreciate this timeless classic. WANT TO GO? $13; $11 in advance. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

Beyond Fab: Beatles Tribute FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 13, 7-8:15pm WHERE: Grant Park, Broadway and Sheridan Avenue, Hewlett AGES: All WHAT: “Twist and Shout” while listening to this Beatles Tribute band. Bring a chair or blanket. WHY WE LOVE IT: This concert is just over an hour long, making it perfect for families who value bedtime! WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov.

Pablo’s Guitar

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 28, 3-4pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about the life and art of Pablo Picasso, Cubism, and abstract art as you create unique guitars using a variety of materials. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids can create a piece of art worthy of hanging in your home. WANT TO GO? $14 museum admission, plus $5; $4 for members. 516224-5800. licm.org.

Bethpage Polo at the Park

WHEN: Through Sept. 29: Sundays, 3pm WHERE: Bethpage State Park, Plainview Road and Manchester Drive, Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Catch a live polo match this summer. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a relaxing way to wrap up a summer weekend as a family. WANT TO GO? $15; $5 senior citizens, active military, college ID. bethpagepolo.com.

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Rocket Pencil Box FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 9am-12pm WHERE: Home Depot, 600 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Your young aerospace engineer can study the anatomy of a rocket while you construct a handmade case together. Register online. WANT TO GO? 516-488-8500. homedepot.com/workshops/#store/1208.

National Night Out 2019 FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 6, 6-8pm WHERE: Broadway Commons, 358 N. Broadway Mall, Outside of Entry 6 (located in the back of the center by ROUND1), Hicksville AGES: All WHAT: Join members of your community and local police for a night of education, music, food, activities, and more. WANT TO GO? 516-822-6336. broadwaycommons.com.

Summer Concerts at Roosevelt Field FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 7pm WHERE: Roosevelt Field Mall, 630 Old Country Road, Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Bring a folding chair to relax and enjoy an evening filled with music and fun! WANT TO GO? 516-742-8001. simon.com/mall/roosevelt-field.

Farmingdale Village Pops

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 7:30pm WHERE: The Village Green, 361 Main St., Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy these summer concerts! WANT TO GO? 516-249-0093. farmingdalevillage.com.

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Kids Zone Event: Make A Cool Nerf Target Board FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 11am-12pm WHERE: Green Acres Mall, 2034 Green Acres Mall, JC Penney, Valley Stream AGES: All WHAT: Build your own super cool Nerf target board at the JC Penney Kids Zone! Kids will also get to test out the awesome new merchandise. WANT TO GO? 516-561-1157. greenacresmallonline.com. ››

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WHAT: Discover how to transfer your sketch onto watercolor paper and then create your own design. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Confetti Hearts

CRAFTY KIDS Teen Manga Drawing FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 3-4pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Create your very own pop heart inspired by pop artist Jim Dine. WANT TO GO? $4; $3 members, plus $14 museum admission. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Sketch & Stretch FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 9, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Explore various yoga postures as well as fundamentals of painting. Children entering grades 2-6. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 1, 7-8pm WHERE: Port Washington Public Library, 1 Library Drive, Port Washington AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Learn to draw in this Japanese style popular in graphic novels. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-883-4400. pwpl.org.

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Mobile Craft

Aliens Love Underpants Pillow FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 1, 2pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Color a mobile featuring rockets, planets, and aliens. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $1. 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Rocket Book Folding Craft FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 10am-12pm WHERE: Port Washington Public Library, 1 Library Drive, Port Washington AGES: 6-11 WHAT: Create your own rocket using recycled materials. Grades 1 to 6. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-883-4400. pwpl.org.

Cottage Imagination Station

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 4, 12-4pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Visit Peggie Phipps’ childhood cottage for independent playtime designed to spur imaginative and creative fun. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children ages 6 and younger and members. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Paper Bag Aliens

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 5, 2pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Design your own alien puppet. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $1. 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Floral Park Crew Event: Teen Watercolor Class FREE WHEN: Monday, Aug. 5, 2-5pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13-17

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WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 1-4pm WHERE: The Art Guild at Elderfields Preserve, 200 Port Washington Blvd., Manhasset AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Projects include printmaking, painting, clay, tie-dye, drawing, and more! WANT TO GO? 516-304-5797. theartguild.org. WHEN: Monday, Aug. 12, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 5-10 WHAT: Paint a pillow with a cosmic theme, then attach colorful underwear to your alien! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Solar System Mobile

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 12, 2pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Construct a mobile of the planets. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $1. 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Shooting Stars presented by the Whaling Museum

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 14, 2-2:45pm WHERE: Freeport Memorial Library, 144 West Merrick Road, Freeport AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Explore the unusual world of sea stars and create a colorful seastar craft. WANT TO GO? $1. 516-379-3274. freeportlibrary.info.

Glittering Galaxies presented by the Whaling Museum

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 14, 3:30-4:15pm WHERE: Freeport Memorial Library, 144 West Merrick Road, Freeport AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Explore some of the strangest oceans in the universe, from pools of plasma to seas of slime. Then whip up a batch of galaxy goo. WANT TO GO? $1. 516-379-3274. freeportlibrary.info.

Quark Puzzles

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 14, 2pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Use Quark puzzle pieces to make a 3-D figure. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $1. 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Rocket Windspinners

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 15, 2pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 8-12 WHAT: Decorate a rocket wind spinner. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $1. 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Space Scrub FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 21, 12-1pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Create your own space scrub with sugar, oil, edible stars, and more! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

All About Aquariums

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 21, 3-4pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Design an “aquarium” for your own underwater world! WANT TO GO? $14 museum admission, plus $5; $4 for members. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Summertime Slime Making Workshop

WHEN: Through Aug. 21: Monday-Wednesdays, 12pm WHERE: The Lanyard Ladies, 433 Merrick Road, Oceanside AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Join The Lanyard Ladies for two hours of making slime and summertime theme crafts. WANT TO GO? $25. 516-578-2248. thelanyardladies.com.

DIY Constellation Lightboxes FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 22, 7-8pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Bring your own box and create a constellation lightbox. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Mash-Up Banks

WHEN: Aug. 1-23, Monday-Friday, 1pm, 1:40pm, 2:20pm and 3pm. WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Use paint, foam, and a variety of materials to make the ultimate creative creature! WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors, plus $5 per participant or $4 for members. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Splatter Art FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 27, 4-5pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Trace, paint, and add a splatter effect to a cool unicorn or dragon image. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

DIY Wednesday: Pencil Case FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 28, 6-7pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 9-15 WHAT: Customize a canvas pencil case. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Robot Banks

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 28, 2pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 8-12

WHAT: Paint a ceramic robot bank. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $1. 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Kids Sip & Paint

WHEN: Wednesdays, Aug. 14 and 28, 2pm WHERE: Masone Beach, 32 Waterford Road, Island Park AGES: All WHAT: Paint at the beach. Includes canvas, supplies, and instruction. WANT TO GO? $20. 516-431-0600. villageofislandpark.com.

Space Stickers

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 29, 2pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Make a placemat with various space stickers. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $1. 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

DANCE PARTY Dance Party with Ms. Lesley FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 8, 7-7:45pm WHERE: Port Washington Public Library, 1 Library Drive, Port Washington AGES: Newborn to 5, adult WHAT: Children and their adults will dance, dance, dance, at the library! WANT TO GO? 516-883-4400. pwpl.org.

PlayHooray Kids FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 9, 12:30-1:15pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Music, movement, and lots of fun with Molly Mouse. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Long Island Nets Kids Dance Team Workshop Session 1

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 11am-1pm WHERE: Yes We Can Center, 141 Garden Street, Westbury AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn a Long Island Nets Kids routine and get audition tips from the coaching staff to help prepare for auditions. WANT TO GO? $50. 844-LINETS-1 (546-3871). longisland.gleague.nba.com.

Fishy Fun Family Pre-School Hour with A Time For Kids Inc

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 12, 1-2pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 18 months to 5 years WHAT: Enjoy an hour of singing, dancing, and more! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Long Island Nets 2019-2020 Kids Dance Team Auditions FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 17, Registration at 10am; must arrive by 10:30am WHERE: Yes We Can Center, 141 Garden Street, Westbury AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Audition to be a part of the Long Island Nets Kids Dance Team. WANT TO GO? 844-LINETS-1 (546-3871). longisland.gleague.nba.com.

Disco Unlimited FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 30, 8pm WHERE: Eisenhower Park, Merrick and Stewart avenues, Lakeside Theater, Parking Field #6, East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: Boogie down to Disco Unlimited at this free concert in the park. WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov. ››

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Eat Smart New York Presented by Cornell Cooperative Extension of Nassau County FREE

ANIMAL LOVERS Llamas FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 2, 10:30am WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about llamas and then meet them. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Party Animals NY FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 2, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Rock Hall Museum, 199 Broadway, Lawrence AGES: All WHAT: Party Animals NY is designed to educate youngsters about the importance of nature and science. Children will learn to respect these creatures, cast off their fears, and accept them as part of our natural world. WANT TO GO? 516-239-1157. friendsofrockhall.org.

Calling Young Scientists: Dissect the Food Chain

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 12, 1:3a0pm and 3pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about carnivores, herbivores, and omnivores as you explore the food chain. Dissect an owl pellet to discover what they eat and take home your very own bone sorting guide. WANT TO GO? $4; $3 members, plus $14 museum admission. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Bug Safari

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 17, 11am-12pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Hunt elusive grasshoppers, butterflies, predatory insects and more. Bring a butterfly net and collecting jars. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 ages 7-17; free for children six and younger, and members, are free. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Citizen Science: Monarch Larva Monitoring Project

WHEN: Aug. 2-23, Fridays, 2-3pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Collect real data about monarch butterflies that scientists at the University of Minnesota Monarch Lab can analyze! WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $14; $13 seniors. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Splish Splash, Animal Baths

WHEN: Aug. 2-30, Fridays, 3-3:30pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Join LICM’s Animal Program Educator to observe animal bath time. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $14; $13 seniors. 516-224-5800. licm.org. 28

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WHEN: Friday, Aug. 2, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Freeport Memorial Library, 144 W. Merrick Road, Freeport AGES: All WHAT: Learn ways to eat more fruits and vegetables, drink fewer sweetened beverages, and exercise every day. WANT TO GO? 516-379-3274. freeportlibrary.info.

Kids in the Kitchen Family Series: Strawberry Lemonade

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 2, 11:30am and 1:30pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Make easy, yummy, kid-friendly snacks from start to finish. WANT TO GO? $5; $4 members, plus museum admission: $14; $13 seniors. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Popping Unicorn Dip FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 6-7pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Make unicorn dip garnished with sprinkles and pop rocks. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Far-Out Cupcake Decorating FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 11:30am-1pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Decorate cupcakes to reflect the 50th anniversaries of the Apollo 11 Moon Landing and the Woodstock Music Festival. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Teen Blindfolded Taste Test Contest FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 8, 4-5pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens will be blindfolded and have to rely only on their senses of taste and smell to guess different foods. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Kids in the Kitchen Family Series: Grilled Mexican Street Corn WHEN: Friday, Aug. 9, 11:30am and 1:30pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Use real cooking tools to make easy, yummy, kid-friendly snacks from start to finish. WANT TO GO? $5; $4 members, plus museum admission: $14; $13 seniors. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

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Cupcake Decorating

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 13, 7pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 9-14 WHAT: Chef Mary T. Sydor will be decorating cupcakes. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $3. 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Galaxy Cupcakes Presented by the Baking Coach

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 15, tweens: 5-6pm; teens: 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Freeport Memorial Library, 144 West Merrick Road, Freeport AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Decorate three cupcakes to look like the galaxy. WANT TO GO? $1. 516-379-3274. freeportlibrary.info.

Kids in the Kitchen Family Series: Turkey Meatball and Spinach Stuffed Shells

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 16, Friday, 11:30am and 1:30pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Use real cooking tools to make easy, yummy, kid-friendly snacks from start to finish. WANT TO GO? $5; $4 members, plus museum admission: $14; $13 seniors. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Kids in the Kitchen Family Series: Cheesy Veggie Quinoa Bites

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 23, 11:30am and 1:30pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Use real cooking tools to make easy, yummy, kid-friendly snacks from start to finish. WANT TO GO? $5; $4 members, plus museum admission: $14; $13 seniors. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

SUMAQ Peruvian Food Festival 2019

WHEN: Aug. 24-25, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-8pm WHERE: Cradle of Aviation Museum, Charles Lindbergh Blvd., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Check out more than 20 food vendors and learn cooking techniques from top chefs. WANT TO GO? $15; $7 children ages 2-12. 516-572-0557. cradleofaviation.org.

Kids in the Kitchen Family Series: Breakfast Yogurt Sundae

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 30, 11:30am and 1:30pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Use real cooking tools to make easy, yummy, kid-friendly snacks from start to finish. WANT TO GO? $5; $4 members, plus museum admission: $14; $13 seniors. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

ON SCREEN Tuesday Movies: ‘Parent Trap’ (1998) FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 6, 8:30pm WHERE: Cedar Creek Park, 3340 Merrick Road, Seaford AGES: All WHAT: See the 1998 re-make of the classic Parent Trap, rated PG. WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov.

Kids Movie Wednesdays: ‘Lilo & Stitch’ FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 2-4pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: All WHAT: Bring your own snacks and drinks to watch Lilo & Stitch. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Popcorn & Pajamas Family Movie Night: ‘How to Train Your Dragon: The Hidden World’ WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 8pm; movie at dusk WHERE: Bailey Arboretum, Bayville Road, Locust Valley AGES: All WHAT: Children are encouraged to come in their PJs, and moms and dads should bring chairs and a cozy blanket for the kids. WANT TO GO? $2; free for members. 516-801-1458. baileyarboretum.org.

Tuesday Movies: ‘School of Rock’ FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 13, 8pm WHERE: North Woodmere Park, Branch Boulevard and Hungry Harbor Road, North Woodmere AGES: All WHAT: See Jack Black teach in the School of Rock (PG-13). WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov.

Nickerson Beach Movie Nights FREE

WHEN: Aug. 4-18, see website for schedule WHERE: Nickerson Beach Park, 880 Lido Blvd., Lido Beach AGES: All WHAT: Bring a blanket and see films like Madagascar (PG), The Goonies (PG), and The Sandlot (PG). WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov.

Family Movie Nights FREE

WHEN: Aug. 1-29, Thursdays, 8:30pm WHERE: Eisenhower Park, Merrick and Stewart avenues, East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: Bring a blanket and watch a different movie every week, including Instant Family (PG-13), The Lego Movie 2: The Second Part (PG), Smallfoot (PG), The Kid Who Would be King (PG), and Fantastic Beasts: The Crimes of Grindelwald (PG-13). WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov. ››

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‘A Journey to Africa’

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 24, 6pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Experience the beauty of Nigerian culture, music, dance, language, and more. WANT TO GO? $35. 516-767-1384. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

‘Mouse on the Move’

SHOW TIME! A Salute to our Veterans: Concert and Ceremony FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 7:30-10pm WHERE: Eisenhower Park, Harry Chapin Lake Side Theatre, East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate local community members who help our veterans and enjoy a concert. WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov.

Mounted Cowboy Shooting Show

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 11, 11am WHERE: Old Bethpage Restoration Village, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Riders race their horses as they speed through several different courses while shooting balloons. It is based on the re-enactment of historic shooting events held at Wild West Shows in the late 19th century. This family-friendly event is fun and safe for all ages. WANT TO GO? $13; $8 children 5-12, seniors, volunteer firefighters, and persons with disabilities; free for children 4 and younger and active military. 631-930-9054. obvrnassau.com.

‘Cinderella’: Play in the Park FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 13, 7pm WHERE: Westwood Park, Foster Avenue, Malverne AGES: All WHAT: Cinderella continues to delight audiences everywhere. WANT TO GO? 516-599-1200. malvernevillage.org.

Summer Concerts at Memorial Park: ‘Cinderella’ FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 15, 7pm WHERE: New Hyde Park Memorial Park, 1351-1399 Lincoln Ave., New Hyde Park AGES: All WHAT: Cinderella continues to delight audiences everywhere. WANT TO GO? 516-354-4043. vnhp.org/memorial-park.

‘I Spy Butterfly’

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 21, 11:30am; 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3 and older WHAT: How does a nature-loving explorer become a bug’s best friend? Find out when award-winning puppeteer Faye Dupras brings a delightful eco-story about the ways we all grow and change to the LICM Theater. WANT TO GO? $9 (museum admission can be purchased separately). 516-224-5828. licm.org. 30

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WHEN: Aug. 24-30, daily, 11:30am and 2:00pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: In this interactive piece, audience members become active in the storytelling as they use props and their imagination to help the mice. WANT TO GO? $9 (museum admission can be purchased separately). 516-224-5828. licm.org.

Village of Hempstead Summer Concert Series FREE

WHEN: Aug. 2-30, Fridays, 6-8pm WHERE: Kennedy Memorial Park, 335 Greenwich St., Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: Bring your chairs and blankets and expect an amazing show—everything from R&B to Gospel music. WANT TO GO? 516-478-6247. villageofhempstead.org.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Crafts in the Garden FREE

WHEN: Aug. 7, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Merrick Library, 2279 Merrick Ave., Merrick AGES: 2-5 WHAT: Children will create fun crafts while enjoying the outdoors. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-377-6112. merricklibrary.org.

The Whaling Museum Presents: Living Light FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 8, 4-5pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Learn about the phenomenon of bioluminescence then create a ‘bioluminescent ocean’ salt painting! WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Birding For Beginners FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 18, 9-11am WHERE: Sagamore Hill NHS, 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Learn the basics of birdwatching and take a guided bird walk. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-922-4788. eventbrite.com

Green Teens

WHEN: Aug. 1-22, Tuesdays and Thursdays, 11am-3pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Dig deeper into the unknown through hands-on learning experiences, guided by trained high school students known as “Green Teens,” on alternative energy, water, habitats, and more. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

My First Hike FREE

2019 Italian Festival in New Hyde Park

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 25, 11am-12pm WHERE: Sagamore Hill NHS, 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay AGES: 3-7 WHAT: Children will be encouraged to use all of their senses while on the hike. Register online. WANT TO GO? 516-922-4788. eventbrite.com

WHEN: Aug. 21-25, Wednesday-Friday, 6-11pm; Saturday, 3-11pm; Sunday, 3-10pm WHERE: Tully Park, 1801 Evergreen Ave., New Hyde Park AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy rides, food, live music, crafts, games, and more. WANT TO GO? $1. cellinilodge2206.org.

Astronomy Night FREE

Long Beach Historical Society Craft Fair FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 30, 8-9pm WHERE: Sagamore Hill NHS, 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Get your folding chairs and flashlights ready for evenings gazing into the cosmos! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-922-4788. eventbrite.com

WHEN: Aug. 24-25, Saturday-Sunday, 9am-6pm WHERE: Long Beach Boardwalk, 45 Riverside Blvd., Long Beach AGES: All WHAT: See original artwork and one-of-a-kind handicrafts. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 516-432-1192. longbeachhistoricalsociety.org.

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS

Farmers Market FREE

St. Rocco’s Feast 2019

WHEN: Through Aug. 4: 6-10pm WHERE: Church of St. Rocco, 18 3rd St., Glen Cove AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the Best Feast in the East with live music, rides and games for the kids, food and more! WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 516-676-2482. stroccoglencove.com.

Long Island Retro Gaming Expo 2019

WHEN: Aug. 10-11, Saturday, 10am-10pm; Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Cradle of Aviation Museum, Charles Lindbergh Blvd., Garden City AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Play all of your retro favorites, browse vendors, bring your best cosplay, and enter tournaments! WANT TO GO? $25; $15 child; see website for other ticket options. 516572-4111. cradleofaviation.org.

WHEN: Through Aug. 31: Saturdays, 10am-2pm WHERE: Good Shepherd Levittown Farmers Market, 3434 Hempstead Turnpike, Levittown AGES: All WHAT: Support local businesses and check out produce, breads, and handmade crafters. WANT TO GO? 516-448-5126.

Friday Night Car Show

WHEN: Through Oct. 4: Fridays, 6-10pm WHERE: Chamber of Commerce of the Bellmores, Bellmore and Bedford Avenues, Bellmore AGES: All WHAT: See all types of cars at this weekly event. WANT TO GO? $5 for cars; free to spectators to walk through. 516-679-1875. bellmorechamber.com.

Farmingdale Weekly Farmers’ Market On The Village Green FREE WHEN: Through Nov. 17: Sundays, 10am-3pm WHERE: 361 Main St., Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Shop the fresh selection of produce and other items. WANT TO GO? farmingdalevillage.com. ››

59th Annual Long Island Scottish Festival and Highland Games

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 24, 8am-5pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: With bagpipes, caber tossing, concerts, food, and kids’ games, this festival is for everyone. WANT TO GO? $20; $18 ages 62 and older; $8 ages 7-17; $10 members; free for ages 6 and younger. 516-252-3392. liscots.org.

Back To School Event FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 24, 1-3pm WHERE: Broadway Commons, 358 N. Broadway Mall, Hicksville AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy complimentary face painting, cotton candy, balloon animals, giveaways, and more! WANT TO GO? 516-822-6336. broadwaycommons.com.

Inbeon Con

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 24, 10am-6pm WHERE: Hofstra University Students Center, East Circle, Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate your love of anime, comics, cosplay, and gaming. WANT TO GO? $20-$50. inbeoncon.com. LongIslandParent 31

WHAT: Tour Coe Hall and make your own stained glass masterpiece. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-922-8678. plantingfields.org.

Let’s Learn to Sign FREE

SMARTY PANTS Earth, Moon & Stars FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 2, 2-3pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Children will use their bodies to learn how the Earth, moon, and sun rotate and revolve. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

STEM Discoveries: Magnetism

WHEN: Aug. 3-4, Saturday-Sunday, 12-2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 4-12 WHAT: Learn about magnetic properties, and make your own magnet to take home. WANT TO GO? Freewith admission: $14; $13 seniors. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Calling Young Scientists: Eye Spy

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 5, 1:30pm and 3pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Dissect a cow eye and make interesting discoveries! WANT TO GO? $4; $3 members, plus $14 museum admission. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Rocket n Rollin’ Presented by The Long Island Children’s Museum FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 2pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join the Long Island Children’s Museum for a program on rockets. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Up in the Air with the Long Island Children’s Museum FREE WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 4-5pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 6-11 WHAT: Explore the science of flight and make your own gliders. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

STEM Discoveries: Botany

WHEN: Aug. 10-11, 12-2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Germinate seeds in a bag to watch them grow. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Nature Sundays for Kids Coe Hall Exploration FREE

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WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 13, 10:15-11am WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Jumpstart communication, reduce frustration, and develop literacy skills for your little one! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

College Admissions Essay Workshop FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 15, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Ethan Mann will teach you the basics, show you essays that worked, and help you start to tell your story. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Living Light Presented by the Whaling Museum

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 16, 2-2:45pm WHERE: Freeport Memorial Library, 144 West Merrick Road, Freeport AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Learn about the phenomenon of bioluminescence then create a “bioluminescent ocean” salt painting. WANT TO GO? $1. 516-379-3274. freeportlibrary.info.

Camp Know Where: Rule the Arcade FREE

WHEN: Aug. 3-17, Saturdays, 11am-1pm WHERE: Microsoft Store, Roosevelt Field, 630 Old Country Road, Space #1140A on the Main Level, Garden City AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Create a game in this Stranger Things inspired class. Register online. WANT TO GO? 516-368-0060. microsoft.com.

The Humble Honey Bee

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 17, 2-4pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Check out LICM’s indoor bee hive and make a beeswax candle to take home. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Harry Potter Creative Coding Camp FREE

WHEN: Sundays, Aug. 4 and 18, 12-4pm WHERE: Microsoft Store, Roosevelt Field, 630 Old Country Road, Space #1140A on the Main Level, Garden City AGES: 8-17 WHAT: Learn to make and then hack “spells” with the Harry Potter Kano Coding Kit wand. RSVP online. WANT TO GO? 516-368-0060. microsoft.com.

Calling Young Scientists: Pollinator Pals

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 19, 1:30pm and 3pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about the important role that bees, butterflies, and birds play in nature and make a habitat to attract them to your outdoor space. WANT TO GO? $4; $3 members, plus $14 museum admission. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Summer STEM classes FREE

WHEN: Aug. 21-22, Wednesday for kindergarten-second grades; Thursday for third-sixth grades; 2pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Use various coding and building kits. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Hour of Code Minecraft FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 9 and Saturday, Aug. 24, 10am-12pm WHERE: Microsoft Store, Roosevelt Field, 630 Old Country Road, Space #1140A on the Main Level near Bloomingdale’s and across from Helzberg Diamonds, Garden City AGES: 8-17 WHAT: Using the power of code, students will explore aquatic worlds with the new Minecraft Voyage Aquatic tutorial. RSVP online. WANT TO GO? 516-368-0060. microsoft.com.

Nature Sundays for Kids Fairies & Gnomes FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 25, 12-2pm WHERE: Planting Fields Arboretum, 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Experience the magic of the Children’s Playhouse, enjoy whimsical face painting, and make your own miniature garden for fairies and gnomes. WANT TO GO? 516-922-8678. plantingfields.org.

Fee Free for Founder’s Day FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 25, 10am-4pm WHERE: Sagamore Hill NHS, 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Free walk-throughs of the first floor of the Roosevelt home WANT TO GO? 516-922-4788. nps.gov.

Dog Days of Summer

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 27, 2-4pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Celebrate National Dog Day and design your own dog ear headband WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Code Your Own Video Game With Makecode Arcade FREE

WHEN: Aug. 2-30, see website for days and times WHERE: Microsoft Store, Roosevelt Field, 630 Old Country Road, Space #1140A on the Main Level, Garden City AGES: 8-17 WHAT: Kids learn to use block coding to create a video game with MakeCode Arcade. Register online. WANT TO GO? 516-368-0060. microsoft.com

Messy Afternoons

WHEN: Aug. 3-31, Saturday-Sunday, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Get up to your elbows in oobleck, clean mud, and slime for the type of artistic activities that everyone loves. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

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MUSICIANS Chinese American Night FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 4, 7pm WHERE: Eisenhower Park, Merrick and Stewart avenues, Lakeside Theater, Parking Field #6, East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: Everyone is invited to celebrate Chinese-American night with a concert. WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov.

Irish American Night FREE

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 5, 7pm WHERE: Eisenhower Park, Merrick and Stewart avenues, Lakeside Theater,

Parking Field #6, East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: Everyone is invited to celebrate Irish-American night with a concert. WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov.

Noontime Concert FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 12-2pm WHERE: Eisenhower Park, Merrick and Stewart avenues, Parking Field #1, East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: Bring a blanket and enjoy a summer afternoon concert. WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov.

Tuney Tots FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 10:30am WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 2-4 WHAT: Enjoy a musical morning with Tuney Tots. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Jungle Bungle Friends FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 9:30-10:15am WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: Newborn to 6 WHAT: Explore nature through stories, the soothing sounds of a rainstick, and wooden percussion instruments. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Pakistani American Night FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 11, 7pm WHERE: Eisenhower Park, Merrick and Stewart avenues, Lakeside Theater, Parking Field #6, East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: Everyone is invited to celebrate Pakistani-American night with a concert. WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov.

Country In The Park: Morgan Evans and Hunter Hayes FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 16, 8pm WHERE: Eisenhower Park, Merrick and Stewart avenues, Lakeside Theater, Parking Field #6, East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: See two country musicians perform live! WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov.

Punjabi American Night FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 18, 7pm WHERE: Eisenhower Park, Merrick and Stewart Avenues, Lakeside Theater, Parking Field #6, East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: Everyone is invited to celebrate Punjabi-American night with a concert. WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov.

Dean Karahalis and the Concert Pops of L.I. FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 23, 8pm WHERE: Eisenhower Park, Merrick and Stewart Avenues, Lakeside Theater, Parking Field #6, East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: See Dean Karahalis and the Concert Pops of Long Island at this free show in the park. WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov.

Korean American Night FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 25, 7pm WHERE: Eisenhower Park, Merrick and Stewart avenues, Lakeside Theater, Parking Field #6, East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: Everyone is invited to celebrate Korean-American night with a concert. WANT TO GO? nassaucountyny.gov. LongIslandParent 33

Yoga and Mindfulness Arts & Crafts

WHEN: Through Aug. 9: Fridays, 3:30-4:45pm WHERE: Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy a fun-filled yoga session, followed by a craft related to yoga and meditation. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $20. 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com.

Cosmic Teen Yoga FREE

MOVERS & SHAKERS

WHEN: Through Aug. 13: Tuesdays, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Oyster Bay East Norwich Public Library, 89 E. Main St., Oyster Bay AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Learn poses, such as five-pointed star, rocket pose, and moon walking. Explore cosmic meditation and, for fun, the Stars Wars sound will be a part of the playlist! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-922-1212. oysterbaylibrary.org.

Zumba on the Library Lawn FREE

‘Madden NFL 20’ Launch Tournament FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 2, 5:30-9pm WHERE: Microsoft Store, Roosevelt Field, 630 Old Country Road, Space #1140A on the Main Level, Garden City AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Celebrate the launch of Madden NFL 20 and participate in a local tournament, meet local fans, and more. WANT TO GO? 516-368-0060. microsoft.com.

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 13, 6-7pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Join the Library on the lawn for a fun hour of music and movement. No prior Zumba (or dance) experience necessary. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Teen Sphero Robots FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 28, 4-4:45pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Join the library for an engaging yoga class that fosters a sense of curiosity, community, and fun. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 7-8pm WHERE: Port Washington Public Library, 1 Library Drive, Port Washington AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Learn to navigate and play with a Sphero robot. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-883-4400. pwpl.org.

Yoga and Mindfulness FREE

Scavenger Hunt for Tweens

LIU POST’S CENTER FOR GIFTED YOUTH

FALL 2019 AND SPRING 2020 SATURDAY PROGRAM

Are You the Parent of a Gifted Child? LIU Post’s Center for Gifted Youth announces its 40th annual summer program for gifted children. The fall program runs on Saturdays from Oct. 5th to

Dec. 14th, 2019 and the spring program runs on Saturdays from Feb. 1st to April 25th, 2020. The program is open to gifted children entering grades 2-8 in Sept. 2019. The program expands students’ knowledge,

develops creative and critical thinking skills, and offers children the opportunity to learn in an exciting and accepting environment.

INQUIRE ABOUT TRANSPORTATION!

Admission is highly selective and enrollment is limited.

Oct 5th - Dec 14th, 2019 & Feb 1st - April 25th, 2020 for students entering Kindergarten in September 2019

For information call 516-299-2160 liu.edu/post/giftedyouth Now find us on Facebook

LIU Post • College of Education, Information and Technology • 720 Northern Blvd. • Brookville, NY 11548-1300 liu.edu/post/giftedyouth • Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, Director

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WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 28, 9-11am WHERE: Freeport Memorial Library, 144 West Merrick Road, Freeport AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Participate in this hunt at the library and win prizes! WANT TO GO? $1. 516-379-3274. freeportlibrary.info.

Music and Movement

WHEN: Aug. 7-28, Wednesdays, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy creative movement exercises and interactive sing-alongs. WANT TO GO? $4; $3 members, plus museum admission: $14; $13 seniors. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Table Tennis League

WHEN: Through Aug. 29: Thursdays, 7-9:30pm WHERE: Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil Court, Oceanside AGES: All WHAT: Grab your paddle and get ready to play this competitive, social game! WANT TO GO? $10 per day; $5 children younger than 16; free for members. 516-634-7172. friedbergjcc.org.

Old Time Base Ball

WHEN: Through Sept. 15: Sundays, 11:30am WHERE: Old Bethpage Restoration Village, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Watch as teams from the 1864 league play “base ball” following the rules of the 19th century. WANT TO GO? $13; $8 children 5-12, seniors, volunteer firefighters, and persons with disabilities; free for children 4 and younger and active military. 631-930-9054. obvrnassau.com.

Summer Classics things to do

where-to guide

Compiled by Melissa Wickes

Before back-to-school shopping and carpool planning become your reality, enjoy the final days of summer with your family by getting outdoors as much as you can! Ride a wave and build a sandcastle at one of the best beaches in Nassau or embrace the fun of red-stained fingers when picking strawberries, blueberries, and more at a nearby farm. Looking to go for an adventure? Spend the day riding roller coaster at a local amusement park or take a horse out for a trot at one of the many stables in our area. However you soak up the last of the summer sun, make sure the whole family has proper protection from UV rays!

AMUSEMENT PARKS

Adventureland 2245 Route 110, Farmingdale 631-694-6868 adventureland.us Hours: See schedule on the website Admission: $1.50 per ticket (rides cost three to five tickets). Pay-one-price bracelet: $31.99. Free admission and parking. Open since 1962, Adventureland has roller coasters and thrill rides; family, kiddie, and water rides; and games. Season passes, gift cards, birthday party packages, and group rates available. New this year: Mystery Mansion, a two-story dark ride to replace the Ghost House.

BEACHES

Jones Beach State Park 2400 Ocean Parkway, Wantagh 516-785-1600 parks.ny.gov/parks/jonesbeach Hours: Park: Year-round. Zach’s Bay swimming area: through Sept. 19: daily. Call regarding hours for the West End Ocean swimming beach. Admission: $10 parking when beach is open. Ocean beach, showers, recreation programs, pool, playground, picnic tables, performing arts theater, museum/visitor center, marina, golf, gift shop, food, fishing. (Note: No pets allowed.) Find more>>nymetroparents.com/beaches

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BERRY PICKING

HORSEBACK RIDING

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Seven Ponds Orchard 65 Seven Ponds Road, Water Mill 631-726-8015 Hours: Daily, 9am-6pm Pick your own raspberries and blackberries through November. Blueberries also available. Apple picking begins the end of August and continues through November. Also offers on-site market with baked goods and jams, children’s play area, and corn maze.

Nassau Equestrian Center 62 Route 106, Jericho 516-342-1771 nassauequestriancenter.com Lessons are offered for ages 6 and older, beginners through advanced. Semi-annual horse shows are held to showcase students’ progress. Guided trail rides are given for two to four people ages 12 and older.

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Plotting Your Return ››

The transition from maternity leave to being back at work isn’t always smooth, but the good news is you can make it easier on you and your family. By Madeleine Burry

ere’s the thing about maternity leave: It’s finite. You may have several months or just a few weeks of 1-on-1 time with your new baby, but eventually, you’ll return to your workplace. That transition isn’t always easy. “New moms may feel a range of feelings when returning to work,” says Dana Dorfman, Ph.D., psychotherapist and co-host of the podcast 2 Moms on the Couch. Those feelings can include everything from guilt to sadness to excitement. Then there is the sheer volume of logistical questions to tackle: Who will care for your baby? Where and when will you pump if you’re breast-feeding? Do your professional outfits still fit? With each question that hits you, heading back to work feels more intimidating. Since countless other working moms have dealt with these same concerns, we spoke to some of them, as well as human resources professionals and psychologists, to find the best strategies for your return to work.

Securing Child Care

Don’t delay when it comes to sorting out child care. Day care spots fill up early, and interviewing potential nannies will take longer than you think. “Secure child care early in the pregnancy,” recommends Angel Montfort, Psy.D., a clinical psychologist at the Center for Maternal Mental Health in Florida. Or at least put child care on the top of your transitional to-do list, and consider these factors as you evaluate your options. Location matters. “If you are looking for a day care for your child, remember the most important factor is location, location, location!” says Eirene Heidelberger, certified parent coach and founder of GIT Mom (Get It Together, Mom!). Your time will be precious, she points out—don’t waste it adding an extra leg to your commute. Plus, you’ll appreciate a location near home (or your office), especially if you have to pick up a sick little one in the middle of your workday. Caregiver rapport is important. The best way to feel comfortable about your baby being away from you is to be able to visualize how each day is spent. “I encourage moms to spend time with caregivers prior to returning to work,” Dr. Dorfman says. That might mean 36

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shadowing a nanny or sitter for a few days or long visits to the day care. (If the day care you’re considering seems to frown on “surprise” visits as opposed to scheduled tours, keep looking!) Schedule this time a few weeks before you head back to work— that way, if need be, you will have time to find an alternative. “Ideally, this time together will enhance mom’s connection and trust with a caregiver,” Dr. Dorfman says. Open communication is key. Moms should feel comfortable speaking with caregivers about their family’s needs. “It’s advisable to have regular check-ins to discuss concerns and mitigate potential conflicts,” Dr. Dorfman says. It can be as casual as chatting with the day care staff at drop-off or as formal as a weekly meeting with your nanny. A backup plan is a must. Babies get sick. Nannies do too. And sometimes, day care is closed when your workplace is open. Along with your partner, think through how you’ll handle these moments—maybe you have family or a trusted friend who can help out, or perhaps you and your partner can alternate caretaking.

Plan Your Return

Although you began strategizing before you went on leave (setting up a return date, etc.), be open to the possibility that your notion of what makes sense for you and your family may shift during maternity leave, Dr. Montfort urges. “As much as we try to plan ahead, it’s important to be adaptable and work together to find a plan that makes sense for everyone,” says Marshall Stanton, human resources director at Aeroflow Healthcare. The following expert tips can help you navigate this process: Prepare for a mix of emotions. “It’s normal to feel excited, scared, anxious, sad, or anything else…as your first day back approaches,” Stanton says. And don’t discount the possibility that you’ll welcome going back, Dr. Dorfman adds. “Often, work can be a welcome reprieve from allconsuming child care,” she says, noting that it’s a return to interacting with adults and reconnecting with your pre-motherhood identity. Know your rights. Legally, your employer needs to provide a private space and reasonable break time for you to pump, Stanton says. If the

space is bedraggled—say, an old supply closet with a rickety folding chair—schedule a time to meet with your manager about it. “I think most people will find their companies really want to support them but often just don’t fully understand what a new mom needs,” he adds. Do a trial run. Your morning routine likely looks quite different these days. Before your first day back at work, try a test run. Wake up, do your routine with baby, put on a work outfit, and commute to the office. This might reveal aspects that need adjustment— such as waking up earlier so you have time to change your shirt after it’s covered in spit-up. Skip Monday your first week back. A short week will make the transition easier on you. In addition, some moms at Stanton’s company work a modified schedule for the first few weeks back in the office. If that’s financially feasible, you may want to check if a flexible work schedule is an option at your workplace. Make a schedule. If you are pumping at work, try to schedule your day around it, Stanton suggests. If you need a firm exit time in place to avoid late fees from your caregiver, make sure to put that on your calendar so you don’t get pulled into a surprise 5pm meeting. Ask for what you need. “A mom must advocate for herself because no one else will,” Heidelberger says. Seek to negotiate expectations in a way that’s mutually beneficial, she advises. For example, a workfrom-home day may help you get more work done, while also being able to accommodate your nanny’s schedule. Find peers in and out of the office. It’s hard to overestimate the value of an in-office support system. These people really get it—and can often help you navigate new HR situations. “Finding a few fellow parents in the office who understand...what you’re going through is one of the best ways to help moms transition back smoothly,” Stanton says. Moms particularly benefit from other moms’ support, Dr. Dorfman says. “Those who are in the same phase of working motherhood can commiserate and deeply understand the way a mom feels,” she adds. In addition, find like-minded friends to add to your social circle. “Build your village so you can have a reality-check when you need it,” Heidelberger recommends.

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Turn to professionals. “Seek therapy if you need help navigating the emotional transition of returning to work,” Dr. Montfort says. A therapist provides a safe space to explore your feelings, and allows you to think through your new identity, she says. Ask for help—and accept it too! If the people in your life offer help with this transition or to care for your little one, take them up on it, Dr. Montfort says. After all, it really does take a village. Prioritize yourself. Experts agree: Mom guilt is hard for any mom to avoid, frankly. But “just because a mom may feel guilt, it doesn’t mean that it’s warranted,” Dr. Dorfman points out. Caring for yourself may help alleviate some of that guilt—and keep you sane. So take the time to figure out what you need for yourself. Maybe it’s an hour to attend a weekly yoga class, watching your favorite TV show, or a coffee date with a friend. “These restorative moments help moms to be more present with baby and more productive at work,” Dr. Dorfman observes. “They do wonders for the psyche and soul.” Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents.com, Scholastic, and About.com. Burry lives in Park Slope, Brooklyn, with her husband and their cat.

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Homeowner’s Insurance Check ››

Your policy should be sized up on a yearly basis (at least), but which life events warrant an immediate review? By Melissa Wickes

hen a disaster strikes your home—flood, burglary, fire, or worse—the last thing you want to worry about is whether your homeowner’s insurance is up to date. Even if you review your coverage annually, there are several life-changing events that may require policy modification—big purchases, home renovation, or family changes. With a little help from local homeowner’s insurance experts, we explain how and when to make the necessary adjustments.

Big Purchases

Homeowner’s insurance is not just meant to protect your physical home (the bricks, walls, and roof). It should also cover what’s inside your home—everything from furniture to designer handbags. “It is extremely important to check in with your insurance agent when you make significant purchases to ensure everything is covered,” says Christina Trapani, senior branch manager at Liberty Mutual Insurance in Valley Stream. “For high-valued items, like engagement rings, artwork, consumers should look into ‘scheduling’ the property,” Trapani suggests. “Scheduling is an insurance term meaning the item is on a ‘schedule’ and insured separately—it is not covered under the general personal property limit.” A vacation might also warrant a change in policy. “Say you have a big trip coming up this summer, maybe overseas. We should talk about if you have off-premise theft (coverage). Meaning, if you’re in the airport and your luggage is stolen, where does your coverage end and begin?” offers Christina Shaw, an Allstate agent in Wantagh. Making a purchase that could be considered high-risk—such as a pool or a new trampoline—is another reason to review your policy. Another example? A pet. “Getting a dog is a good reason to call your agent because you want to make sure your liability coverage on your homeowner’s insurance policy includes if your dog bites a neighbor or something like that,” explains Kelly Qu, homeowners insurance agent for Allstate in Manhattan.

Home Renovations

A renovation should absolutely trigger a policy review—what if the construction itself damages your property or someone gets hurt on the job? Even if your neighbor trips over lumber that was left in your yard from your kitchen extension, liability coverage can help pay for the medical costs. 38

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Another policy to re-read before renovating your home is your umbrella policy—which is excess liability that sits on top of your home (and auto) insurance and will kick in if your homeowners insurance runs out before the issue is financially resolved, according to Shaw. If the neighbor who fell over some lumber in your backyard ends up needing an ambulance, an overnight stay in the ER, and additional medical care, your liability coverage might be spent before you can even think about the legal fees you’ll have to pay if he sues you for pain and suffering. “If your liability is exhausted, the umbrella policy will kick in for an additional million [dollars] or more, depending on what you purchase,” explains Shaw, noting that those with equity in their home or large incomes should be aware of it. “Really, it’s a shield between you and your assets.” Finally, if your home reno includes upgrades that will greatly increase your overall home value, you want to make sure your ‘new’ residence is not underinsured. For example, if you recently replaced your cabinets, make sure a claim will cover the new ones, not the 30-year-old cabinets that were there when you first [purchased the policy],” Qu says.

Family Changes

You should review your policy if you get married, divorced, or if your spouse passes away. “The policy should have the same names as the title of your home,” says Rosa Mejias, exclusive agent at Allstate in Yonkers. And take a look at your plan when a new baby joins the family, or even a few months before. A new baby can mean new furniture, toys, electronics, and other expenses that might put you over your current coverage limits. If this is the case, consider a rider—an optional addition to your homeowner’s policy, which can be used to cover things that aren’t covered by your standard home policy, according to Trapani. A money-saving trick? Bundle. Some insurance companies will allow you to purchase bundles for a discount on your home and auto insurance, per Shaw. No matter what is going on in your life, homeowner’s insurance does not stop at the end of your driveway. It should be reviewed on a regular basis, especially if any life-changing events have occurred. And if you’re unsure about whether changes should be made, don’t be afraid to pick up the phone and call your agent to discuss them.

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While it’s easy for home renovations to cost more than you were anticipating (old wiring, anyone?), it is possible to stay within your original budget. By Jacqueline Neber

enovating your home can be exciting—there are so many ways to make your vision come to life. Unfortunately, it can also be incredibly stressful—and one of the most challenging aspects is staying within your budget. We polled contractors and designers for tips and tricks to contain the costs from start to finish.

Start with a Realistic Budget

People often come up with an arbitrary budget number they believe makes sense for their project, says Chip Wade, a host and designer for HGTV and DIY Network and owner of WadeWorks Creative. That number, however, is usually inaccurate. “Where a lot of us go wrong is, even if we have a general scope of the project, we want what we want,” Wade says. “And we want our budget to buy what we want, but that’s just not reality.” Uzi Ovadia, president and owner of Oz General Contracting in Bellmore, agrees. “People sometimes think they’re smarter than the contractor, and that’s not necessarily the case,” he says. He has seen renovators buy materials themselves and then bring in a cheap contractor to finish the job, which never seems to cut costs. On the other hand, many homeowners sign on with contractors too early, before they’ve brought in a designer or made a finite plan. “You actually have no idea of the scope that captures the overall essence of your design,” Wade says. “And that’s because you’re not designing first. You’re just doing a rough scope pricing, which is very dangerous.” And oftentimes, people wind up busting their budgets because they can’t stick to a plan, says Ann Marie Little, who runs Little John Remodeling Inc. in Northport. “They get their numbers, and then they change the plan as they go or add things on the fly, and they don’t think things through. Sometimes it’s because they’re not waiting for the right person. They’ll take whomever is available and make their decisions hastily.”

Plan with a Pro

One of the most important steps for a renovator is to create a full design plan before they call a contractor, and before assigning their project a budget. The best way to do this is to bring in a designer who can map out all of the materials, fixtures, and the scope of work to scale so there’s no ambiguity. WadeWorks Creative pairs renovators with designers to create a “full-scale, comprehensive design and construction set” that can 40

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be brought to multiple contractors to ensure they are comparing apples to apples when giving quotes. Wade says this is key. Renovators should also pick out all of their materials and know exactly what they are willing to pay for different aspects of their project. “The general homeowner has no idea if two-thousand dollars is going to buy the lighting fixtures that they want,” Wade says. “So go ahead and select, and have an exact number.” Some contractors, such as Oz General Contracting, source materials in-house and never use subcontractors, which allows them to provide a more accurate cost estimate. At Oz, after several design sessions, clients “will find out exactly to the penny where [their project] will be,” Ovadia says.

Stay on Track

Wade stresses that renovators should give their contractors incentives to finish the job on time. He recommends putting down only 35-40 percent of the budget for the project at first, then adding another 30 percent when the plumbing, electric, and framing are in and the project is ready for drywall. Don’t pay that last 30 percent until final walkthrough, he says, because leaving the company with only 10 percent of the money left to make before they’re finished means they might get caught up in other jobs. “Any contractor that wants fifty to sixty percent down, that puts you at a disadvantaged position,” Wade says. “Whoever controls the money, controls the job.”

Do Your Homework

It is essential that renovators do their homework, do their homework, do their homework, Ovadia stresses. One way to do this, according to Little, is to make a list of every last thing you want from your renovation—before hiring a contractor, designer, or making any product selections. She recommends using home product sites, such as Kohler.com or Moen.com, to price out the fixtures you’d like rather than going by a third-party seller’s estimates. Then take your list to a professional who knows each and every product you’ll need for your renovation. Most importantly, she says, as you move through the process, cross things off that you can’t afford—and do not deviate from the list. “If the plan is to redo the bathroom and take out a window, that’s the plan,” Little says. “Stick to the plan!”

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THOMAS SCHOOL OF HORSEMANSHIP RIDING ACADEMY 250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com; tsh@tshcamp.com Birthday parties, scout parties, and class trips are always a blast at the Thomas School of Horsemanship. For groups of 14-18 children. They receive one hour of riding time.

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Unplug your game! Main St. Board Game Cafe hosts parties for kids, tweens, and teens. Supervised by our staff of board game experts, our parties are a fun yet enriching experience for your next birthday or event.

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Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and beyond. Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard.

We do children’s birthday parties differently-ours are health-oriented, educational, and fun! Kids’ meals and cake are included, choose from activity options like princess and superhero visits, face painting, and obstacle courses!

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THE TOOTH PILLOW DENTISTRY

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Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry cares for all of your child’s oral health needs in a fun, kid-friendly environment that includes iPads and chairside TV monitors. Drs. Ehrenman and Khan are dedicated and trained to ease dental anxieties for young children as well as patients with special needs. Their years of advanced training include hospital and sedation dentistry. Please visit kidsteeth4li.com to learn more about what Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry has to offer!

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107 E. Deer Park Road, Dix Hills 631-462-5400 artleagueli.net Tour the studios Aug. 24- Nov. 3, with live painting, drawing, ceramics, and jewelry making demonstrations. Learn about year-round classes for children ages 5-18. Enjoy hands-on art activities.

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Barefoot and Better for It ››

How speaking the language of yoga is good for my family By Peshie Needleman

like my Nikes. I like my kettlebell. I like my sweatband, child of the ’80s that I am. I especially like my medicine ball. I do cardio, weight training, and high intensity interval training. I also have six kids, so when I do have time to go to the gym, I only sign up for very sweaty, very intense workouts. But then came a week with a weird schedule of randomly timed appointments and early school dismissals. I wasn’t able to fit in my usual classes—but I could make it to a yoga class. I had never tried yoga before. When I showed up and saw I was the only one wearing sneakers, I felt like a fish out of water. But I do like new experiences, so I removed my socks and stuffed them deep into my Nikes. I found a studio mat and took my place. I did the best I could, sometimes acing the pose, sometimes struggling through the pose, very often getting my rights and lefts mixed up until I realized I was supposed to mirror the instructor. By the end of the class, I liked yoga, but I was absolutely, totally, positively in love with the yoga language. It was a revelation—this incredibly validating and encouraging talk is soothing and positive. In my life, with kids who range in age from 4-23 and a husband, my interactions consist of me telling others what to do or others telling me what to do. “Fill out the forms and sign by the X.” “Pick up your pajamas from the bathroom floor. If they need to be washed, put them in the hamper. If not, put them on your pillow.” “Pick up my dry cleaning. Please.” “Add cottage cheese to the list.” Even my regular workout sounds like orders: “Sit ups. Starting at one, two, three. Go!” Everything is instructions and facts, black and white, statements and requests. But yoga talk is a murmuring brook of suggestions. “Perhaps you would like to join us in downward dog.” “Pedal your legs if that feels good to you.” “You’re welcome to join us in plank.” Of course, I appreciated the other parts of yoga—the reminder

to unclench my jaw and stay present in the moment. The idea of “coming to stillness” for even 2 minutes during my busy day made me feel tethered to the calm feeling I had captured in class. But more than the mindfulness and the grounded feeling yoga gave me, its language appealed to my inner being (which apparently wants to be spoken to in a gentle voice). After that class, I was easier on myself. “If it feels like the right thing to do, turn on the radio. But if you think checking the news is going to up your stress level, feel free to keep the radio turned off.” And I was easier on others. That night, when I told my 5-yearold to brush his teeth, I peppered our conversation with terms of endearment. “Get up on the stepstool, honey, and tell me if you want the Paw Patrol Bubble Yum Toothpaste or the Minion Mint?” And to my daughter: “Hey, princess, remember to put your empty lunch containers in the sink, sweetie.” With my older kids, my kids-in-law, and my husband, I sprinkled on the sweetness with a light touch, so as not to make them think an alien had somehow taken over my brain. Just a little “honey” tacked on to the beginning or end was a gentle reminder that my suggestions and instructions are coming from a place of love. As I enjoined my family to do this or that in yoga speak more often, they actually started to listen. “You might want to take the trash out as you’re leaving,” I said with a smile—and bit my lip to keep myself from adding a snarky “before our kitchen starts smelling like a landfill!” “What do you think about finally getting rid of the old car seat, so the garage looks less crowded?” “I wonder if your morning might go easier for you if you packed your Color War shirt in your backpack tonight. How does that sound to you?” It’s going to take me some time and patience to master camel pose, but I will definitely be going to a yoga again. Yes, it’s good for my core, but more importantly, it’s good for my family.

Peshie Needleman lives in Rockland County with her husband and their six children. She writes two humor columns for local magazines. In her spare time, she enjoys…wait. Actually, she doesn’t have any spare time.

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