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Parent OCTOBER 2017

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Birthday Trendsof 2017 Emojis, unicorns, Shopkins, and more!

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Haunted houses, corn mazes, and other Halloween activities

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Contents

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Features

16 The 7 Hottest Birthday Party Trends of 2017 This year brought new movies, toys, and fun ideas for your child’s next birthday party.

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24 The Importance of EQ High emotional intelligence translates to success across the board—in children academically and in adults professionally.

44 The Payoff of Teaching Kids Financial Literacy Experts discuss how parents can establish skills from a young age to ensure kids will know how to handle their money.

46 An Unimaginable Tragedy Though local infant mortality rates are lower than the national average, more babies die in their first year than most of us expect. Here’s how parents can reduce the risk.

50 Conquering Bake Sales Surviving the minefield of baking treats for your kid’s class, and tips to make allergy-free baked goods.

Connections

6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Check Out Our New Website!

12 Quotables 13 NYMP Q&A: Laurie Gelman talks about being the class mom and why she was fired.

62 Voices: Stop With the Trophies Already!

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Fun & Activities

14 DIY Corner: Ring Toss Challenge 28 Outing: Randall’s Island 31 Family Activities Calendar 41 Where-To Guide: Pick Your Own Pumpkins 42 Where-To Guide: Haunted Houses, Corn Mazes, and Pumpkin Activities

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OCTOBER 2017 • Vol.9 • No.5

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MANAGING EDITOR: Katelin Walling DEPUTY EDITOR: Caitlin Berens SENIOR EDITOR: Bethany Braun-Silva ENGAGEMENT EDITOR: Samantha Neudorf

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n our family, we have a birthday season: From Nov. 5 (my youngest daughter’s birthday) through Jan. 16 (mine), all five of us celebrate our special days. Sprinkle in a gaggle of other close-but-not-immediate family members—a cousin’s daughter, my brother and his son, a sister-in-law, among others—and it is a busy time.

Joyful, to be sure, but even joy brings its stresses, especially when you need to plan three kids’ birthday parties over the course of almost six weeks while scheduling around a bevvy of others’ parties, not to mention Thanksgiving, Hanukkah, and New Year’s.

It’s around the middle of October when my wife and I kick into planning mode, and out come the Google spreadsheets, which we use to plan the parties and coordinate gifts. And, of course, the kids themselves are old enough to be involved and have their own wishes and opinions—which seem to change daily, especially as the event gets close. To help figure out this year’s parties, Bethany Braun-Silva looked into the hottest birthday themes of 2017, and she came back with unicorns, Shopkins, Star Wars, and much more (p. 16).

As our kids settle into the new school year, we’re offering articles about how to teach them essential life skills: Samantha Neudorf looks at teaching kids financial literacy (p. 44), while Katelin Walling offers a report on the value of kids’ emotional intelligence (p. 24). Together, they remind us that not all crucial skills come from classroom learning, and that we parents play such an important role in readying our kids for a successful, independent adult life.

October has been designated Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, so we’re offering a special report on a subject none of us wants to contemplate: Why do some babies die before they even turn 1? Stacey Pfeffer looks at local infant mortality rates and offers tips on how we can minimize the risks—and how parents who’ve experienced this horrific tragedy cope with a pain that will never go away (p. 46).

This month also, of course, brings Halloween and related fall fun. Find haunted houses and other Halloween venues near you (p. 42), discover where to pick pumpkins in our region (p. 41), or plan your kids’ Halloween activities with our calendar (p. 31).

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Costume Stores Expand Offerings for Halloween Who: Rubie’s Costume Company What’s New: Additional and revamped in-store attractions, which are free and available daily, as well as new costumes at its Long Island and Queens stores.

The Melville store has a giant, light-up pumpkin and brought back the animatronic Dr. BacktoLife.

The Westbury location revamped and expanded the Dark Zone, added a “swamp room” and a virtual reality machine with 15 experiences for ages 10 and older.

The location in Richmond Hill, Queens, has new animatronic props and a Ghost Chamber.

The stores also have costumes and props from recent Spider-Man, Wonder Woman, and Despicable Me movies.

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Rubie’s Costume Company has interactive in-store attractions, such as this virtual reality machine, which visitors can experience for free in Westbury.

Counselor Brianna Calle (left) joined Holy Family School in September to help improve the student experience and prevent bullying.

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Who: Holy Family School What’s New: Counselor Brianna Calle, who oversees a new curriculum for students in nursery school to eighth grade that focuses on healthy living, cultivating friendships, and kindness.

Calle started at Holy Family School Sept. 6, teaching lessons on communication and being kind and welcoming to new students. One interactive role-playing lesson involves students taking turns acting as bully and victim in order to learn effective ways to deal with bullying and deescalate a tense situation.

“We’re already seeing students who were cliquey not be cliquey anymore,” says principal Maryalice Doherty.

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Physical Therapy Clinic Expands Practice for Pediatric Clients Who: Physical Therapy Options What’s New: A pediatric therapy room designed specifically for pediatric patients, which opened early September.

Patients work 1-on-1 with a licensed physical therapist inside the pediatric therapy room. It has been decorated with bright colors and filled with educational toys.

Physical Therapy Options also expanded its programming for pediatric patients who require physical therapy for gross motor delays through the Committee on Preschool Special Education (CPSE).

“We try to make it fun so that the kids can have a positive experience with physical therapy,” says Lisa Coors, P.T., D.P.T., clinical director and owner.

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s our kids were heading back to school with their new outfits and freshly chosen backpacks and lunch boxes, we here at NYMetroParents decided to get in the spirit and debut a new look of our own with the relaunch of NYMetroParents.com. The website is now cleaner, faster, easier to use, and more attractive—all to help you be a more informed parent. Our goal is to connect you seamlessly to all the relevant, useful local information and resources our site offers: business listings, kid-focused events and activities, and news and tips essential to moms and dads.

Here are some of the highlights of our new site:

A cleaner look, softer color scheme, and new logo to match the new feel. We’re excited about our updated logo, which you can also find on the cover of this magazine, while our uncluttered design helps you focus on the content and information for which you’re looking with fewer distractions.

Find your region easier. We know you need to find ballet schools and pediatricians and therapists close to your home, so we’ve made it super easy to find your region’s content, via a pop-up that greets you when you arrive and/or the “My Region” option on the navigation bar. Each region has its own color scheme, adding to the vibrancy of the site and giving each region a bit of its own flavor and personality.

The new “megamenu” displaying the breadth and depth of the content the site offers.

Easier, clearer navigation. Across the top of our desktop site—and in the top-right “Topics” menu on mobile—you’ll find the core types of information we provide: business and resource listings, tips about things to do, advice and news about local parenting, and a comprehensive events calendar.

For a deeper dive into the site and to find more specific listings, use our new “megamenu,” the “Search Categories” link at the top left of the page (“menu” on mobile). There you will find virtually our entire catalog of listings categories, from specific sports to special needs resources to summer camp options.

You’ll see this tool throughout the site to help you find the resources you need in your area.

New ways to find businesses and resources. Connecting you with the local professionals, businesses, and resources that keep your family healthy, happy, and enriched is central to our mission. In addition to the easier navigation, you’ll find a tool throughout the site that asks you what kind of business you need and in what location—make your choices, click the arrow, and search the results to find what you’re looking for.

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A better mobile experience. As parents, we’re all on the go (sometimes it seems like we’re in motion 24/7!) and using our phones to access the content and information that helps us make the decisions we need to make. To help, our new site focuses on the mobile experience, ensuring it is just as rich, easy to use, and attractive as it is on desktop. And it’s fast. Because we know you don’t have time to wait!

As we all well know, being a parent requires making decisions large and small for our kids every day—no matter how busy we are.

We spent the past several months designing a website to help you find what you need to make better decisions faster, easier, and more accurately and fully.

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UOTABLES This was also about the point that they both started begging me to carry their treat bags. ‘I’ll carry your treat bags but that means I’m allowed to eat your candy,’ was my rule. That put a stop to the laziness real quick.

—Illana Wiles, a NYC mom, in a post entitled “Halloween in NYC Gets Better Every Year” on her blog mommyshorts.com

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HALLOWEEN FOR THE FRIGHTENED “If you can get kids to realize that Halloween involves fun activities that the whole family can take part in, they’ll feel more at ease about it. You can all carve pumpkins, bake cookies or make other Halloween treats, and decorate the house with items your child picked out. You can even forego trick-or-treating and just spend the evening roasting marshmallows or reading books as a family. ”

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NYMP Q&A

Class Mom Qualms

›› By Bethany Braun-Silva

Laurie Gelman talks about her novel Class Mom and how she got fired from her class mom position after five years.

Is Jennifer Dixon (the main character) based on anyone in particular? She’s someone I just pieced together. I wish she was me, she’s so cool. The only thing that comes from reality are the emails [in the book] because I sent emails either exactly like that or very similar to my class when I was class mom.

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But I read that this backfired on you and you got fired from the class mom position, is that true? Well to be fair, it was in my fifth year, I’d been doing it for four years and everybody loved it and it’s all good until somebody doesn’t like you. In my fifth year I upset someone or someone didn’t understand my humor, so they complained to the PTA and asked me to step down as class mom, which was very hurtful.

Do you have any advice for moms who may be contemplating taking on the class mom role? I think you have to make it your own and make it fun. Make it something the parents can’t resist being a part of. I used to give awards for the quickest response time to one of my emails or the person who embodied the spirit of a class mom the most. I just made it fun for everybody. I wrote one email for the Christmas party that had to be sung to the tune of “Santa Claus is Coming to Town”. Everybody loved that because you end up humming it to yourself. I just tried to do things that piqued everybody’s interest and make it more fun for them. I think that’s the best way to be a great class mom.

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DIY CORNER Birthday Party Game

Ring Toss Challenge

Do you love fairground games but hardly ever get to play them? Why not create your own ring toss game at home? Invite your friends to play, then work on perfecting your aim.

The game is very easy to make and will provide hours of fun for you and your friends. Make sure you store the board inside so you can use it again and again!

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Difficulty Level: Easy What you will need: • Adhesive putty • Ruler • Scissors • Pencil • Paintbrushes • Paints • Large cardboard sheet Directions: 1. To make your target board, draw the outline of the board on a sheet of cardboard and add sloping flaps on either side. These will make the board stand up.

2. Carefully cut out your target board with scissors. Make sure you don’t cut off the sloping flaps!

3. Use a ruler and the tops of your scissors to score both sloping ends of the target board. Fold them back to create flaps to stand your board up.

4. It’s time to decorate the board. Paint the stand one color and each pin a different color, so they stand out.

5. Place your ring template (visit nymetroparents.com/ ring-toss to download) on a piece of cardboard and draw around it. Repeat the process to draw as many rings as you want.

6. Cut the rings out. Cut around the outside first, then place the adhesive putty underneath, pierce the center of the ring with a sharp pencil, and cut it out.

7. Paint the rings and leave them to dry. You can make them any color you like. You could even add patterns like stripes or dots to your set.

8. The ring toss board is ready. Find some friends and try it out. If you want to make things competitive, paint different point values on the pins and see who can reach 100 points first.

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The 7 Hottest Birthday Party Trends of 2017 This year brought new movies, toys, and fun ideas for your child’s birthday party. Here are our favorites. By Bethany Braun-Silva

the Tail on the Donkey. “I found a picture of Princess Leia and my husband printed it out on nine sheets of paper that I taped together. I then covered the bulk of the poster with clear adhesive contact paper. The kids wore a C3PO mask that I made so that they couldn’t see and attempted to ‘Pin the Bun on Princess Leia.’

The bun is brown yarn wrapped and hot glued to cardboard,” she writes on her blog.

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Courtesy Amy Friend

We scoured the mom blogs and studied our Instagram feed in search of the trendiest kids’ birthday party themes of the year. And what did we find? Plenty of unicorns, emojis, and Shopkins, among many other fun ideas. Here are our picks for the hottest birthday party themes of 2017:

Unicorn Poop Cupcake Cones, a hilarious and easy-to-make treat for a memorable unicorn-themed birthday party

Unicorns A Star Wars-themed version of Pin the Tail on the Donkey

Star Wars

With the release of Rogue One: A Star Wars Movie late last year and the impending December debut of The Last Jedi, many kids will be wanting a Star Wars-themed party, complete with light sabers, storm troopers, and more. Blogger Amy Friend of DuringQuietTime.com created a Stars Wars spin on the classic Pin 16

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These mythical creatures are definitely having a moment this year.

With the launch of the Unicorn Frappuccino at Starbucks and a unicorn horn store in Brooklyn, it seems like unicorns are everywhere, including very possibly at your little one’s next birthday party. Think pastel colors and lots of glitter to make this party extra special. You can create personalized horns for each child, or have them decorate their own as a fun activity. Trisha Haas, who blogs at momdot.com, made fun Unicorn Poop Cupcake Cones that are as easy to create as they are hilarious. You just need some cake mix, ice cream cones, and food coloring to create this one-of-a-kind-treat.

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Sugar cookies easily become emoji cookies for a fun addition to an emojithemed party.

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The Emoji Movie was released this summer, and since then my 5-year-old has been running around the house screaming, “We’re number two! We’re number two!” So it’s no surprise we are considering an emoji-themed party for his next birthday. One easy-todo idea is creating emojis out of clementines. It’s a healthy snack option and a creative way to let the kids make their very own emoji.

Hand out clementines to each of the children and lay out permanent markers. You can hang some emoji print outs for inspiration.

Less healthy but lots of fun, you can also decorate sugar cookies for fun, edible emoji. This party is also great for teens and tweens.

Invite guests to play “name that movie” using only emojis. Or if you’ve got an avid texter—is there a teen who isn’t?—an emoji party is a fun way for Mom and Dad to play the “cool card.”

Pokémon cupcakes round out a birthday party of Pokémon-themed activities.

Pokémon

No mobile devices are necessary to have a good time at this party.

Manhattan mom blogger Nicole Gonzalez of LilliesandLeon.com threw a Pokémon-themed party for her son’s 5th birthday. “Lucas is Pokémon obsessed, and we wanted his party to be simple but true to the characters and theme,” Gonzalez says. “A highlight for the kids were the Pokéball cupcakes made by Chloe Sackett.”

You can also create your very own Pokémon Go hunt right in your own home, sans cellphones. Just take a cue from the game and hide cut outs around the house. You can divide up the kids into teams and award points for each Pokémon found. Nothing like an old-fashioned scavenger hunt to keep the kids entertained. continued on next page ››

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A fun idea for favors to top off a fun Lego-themed party

Lego

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For endless options and ways to play, Lego is the go-to toy—and it can also be the go-to option for birthday parties. Create a “bricks station” where partygoers can make an original creation to take home. And baking a Lego cake is fairly easy for the not-so-crafty parent: All you need is a cake pan, cupcake molds, and colorful frosting.

Blogger Victoria Saley of www.Obseussed.com created Lego-themed party favors and put a mystery mini figurine in each one!

All ready for a Shopkins-themed birthday party

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A colorful, Hawaiian-focused Moana birthday party

Moana

Thanks to Disney’s hit Moana, you can expect to see a lot of Hawaiian-themed parties this year and next. Parents can get creative by using tons of flowers for decoration as well as DIY costumes for the partygoers. Why not set up a designated area where kids can dress up like characters from the movie? Have temporary tattoos and straw skirts ready for your guests to get into the spirit.

Christy Bergerson from Itsy Belle Studio, a Printable Party Shop in Washington state, used pineapple blow-ups for her daughter’s Moana pool party. “I was hesitant when my daughter first said she wanted a Moana-themed birthday party, but I decided to run with it and it ended up being one of our favorite events to date!,” she says.

“Playing with bright colors and tropical touches instead of going strictly character based allowed us to really create a fun, playful event with just enough elements of her favorite movie included.”

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These delicious little toys are all the rage, and since they’re food-centric, planning sweets and treats for a Shopkins party should be a breeze. Create shopping basket party favors that kids can fill themselves. Fill several bins with toys, treats, and other party favor paraphilia. Give each kid a basket and have her take a treat from each bin—it will be like they are “shopping” for their own favors.

Natalie Lesnefsky of AtHomewithNatalie.com created a balloon garland over the must-have dessert table. “We were deep in the Shopkins craze over here so the party theme was a no brainer!,” she says. “It was really fun because both girls were old enough to help a lot with the party details. I had a balloon pump and they worked together to pump up almost all of the balloons... even tying them on their own! Together we created a fun balloon garland for the Dessert Table that immediately made it a party! The secret to the arch is the chicken wire! It’s awesome because it’s lightweight and moldable. All you do is hot glue clusters of balloons together, then make a tape tail and attach it to the chicken wire that you shaped and attached to the wall. (I had two nails holding it up.) Then go in and add more with tape or hot glue.”

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BIRTHDAY PARTIES 2017 Birthday Party Entertainment

Clowns.com

Proudly Serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000; 718-971-5862 clowns.com At Clowns.com, our goal is to create an unforgettable and memorable party experience for you and your family. We provide the highest quality children’s entertainment and rental services in the industry. If you’re looking for a professional, dependable, and enthusiastic team, you’ve come to the right place! We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.

The Food Wizard for Kids

Serving all of Long Island 631-606-2680 thefoodwizardforkids.com info@thefoodwizardforkids.com Try a healthy twist on birthday parties! The Food Wizard for Kids provides birthday party workshops for younger children.

Kids discover new foods (mainly fruits and vegetables) through fun activities including taste tests and art projects as well as fun discussions about mealtime behavior. Call 631-606-2680 for more information.

GameTruck Long Island

917-327-8700 gametruck.com david.schwartz@gametruck.com Whether you want a Video Game Party, your own laser tag arena, inflatables, or a game of bubble soccer, GameTruck’s unique mobile video gaming theaters and arenas can make your ultimate party wishes come true. With our expert GameCoaches and state-of-the-art equipment, your party will be as stress-free as it is spectacular!

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Key to My Art Inc.

10 W. Oak St., Amityville 631-608-9048 keytomyart.com info@keytomyart.com Key to My Art on Wheels. Looking to host a painting party at your home or special venue? Key to My Art on Wheels brings the paint party to you! We will set up your home or venue with easels, aprons, and all supplies needed to have a fun, creative paint event.

You choose the subject matter!

We can work with any theme you want. All ages! We paint with toddlers, school age kids, adults, and seniors! Anyone can paint!

Great for birthdays, surprise parties, showers, fundraisers, PTA, Scouts, and school groups!

Mad Science of Long Island

Call for locations throughout Long Island 855-264-1672 madscienceli.com info@madscienceli.com For more than 30 years Mad Science has provided top-quality educational and fun science programs for children. Its hands-on, high-energy parties are performed by a trained Mad Scientist, who brings all the necessary equipment to your home or the location of your choice. All birthday party packages include Mad Science invitations and a take-home activity each child works on during the party. It also offers fantastic grand finales such as Bubbling Potions, Rocket Launching, and Science Goodie Bags.

Royal Events Princess Parties Inc.

516-729-4970 royaleventsli.com royal.events@aol.com Thank you for considering Royal Events! We are a family-owned company that provides princess performers for birthday parties, hospital visits, and all your special events! Our performers are professionally trained in theater arts, and our costumes are custom made to ensure your party has just the right amount of fairy dust! We pride ourselves on making sure our packages suit your needs so that every client

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Spin DJ Academy

202 Merrick Road, 2nd Floor, Rockville Centre 631-608-8858 16 Broadway, Amityville spindjcademy.com Spin DJ Birthday Parties are a fun and personalized experience for your child! Partygoers get to be the life of the party and learn basic DJ skills with today’s top hits!

Customize your DJ dance party with songs and instruments your child loves, then head to our play space for food and fun! Add to the party with music videos, character appearance, glitter tattoos, party favors, and more! Spin DJ can bring the party to you! We’ll bring DJ equipment and instruments to create an experience to remember!

Birthday Party Places

@ Play Amusements

229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com Have your next party at the newly renovated @ Play Amusements! It offers 40,000 square feet of fun ranging from arcade games, inflatables, and bumper cars to roller coaster, a carousel, disco room, and laser tag! It even provides all the paper goods, invites, thank-you notes, food, and private hostess! It features five glow-in-the-dark private party rooms that are sure to be a hit!

The action-packed amusement center will make your child’s special day be one they will never forget! Fun for all ages!

Art Buzz Kids

35 Jackson Ave., Syosset 516-802-4954 syosset@wineanddesign.com 21 N. Village Ave., Rockville Centre 516-442-0330 rvc.ny@wineanddesign.com wineanddesign.com Spark your child’s creativity and imagination! Art Buzz Kids offers family-friendly painting and craft

classes for children of all ages.

Our birthday party themes are designed to inspire and excite all children. Art Buzz Kids is perfect for birthday parties, after-school classes, and summer camps. Our passion is art and inspiring children to have fun, get creative, and feel proud of their work! Your child’s inner artist is guaranteed to shine while being taught by a great team of professionals. You’ll always take home a masterpiece with Art Buzz Kids.

BounceU Farmingdale

101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com BounceU Farmingdale was voted “Best of Long Island” for Children’s Party Place and Family Amusement Center. We provide the ideal combination of inflatable structures, a clean environment, incredible customer service, and non-stop excitement in a private party atmosphere. We feature giant inflatable toys and a wide variety of activities for children and adults, including basketball and boxing, obstacle courses, and slides. We take pride in providing superior customer service. Private parties are meticulously planned and prepared by our knowledgeable staff, so parents can relax and enjoy themselves.

Celebrations In The Kitchen

63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event! We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy—children, parents, family, friends, and boys and girls of any age. Guests enjoy our first-class facility complete with a huge exhibition-size kitchen, private party rooms, and a fabulous café and espresso bar for the adults to socialize! Baking experiences include cookie baking and decorating, cupcakes “from scratch,” muffin and scone baking, and brownies. Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen.com for more information on parties and classes.

45 Ira Road, Syosset 516-584-4244 syosset.thecoderschool.com syosset@thecoderschool.com If you’re looking for a fun and memorable way to celebrate your child’s birthday, The Coder School Syosset has a range of birthday party packages kids love.

Our innovative packages have been designed to help kids learn, create, play, and, ultimately, have a great time. Each birthday party includes a hands-on and interactive workshop led by a skilled instructor. Let us take care of everything—the setup, cleanup, refreshments, and entertainment—so you can enjoy the day as much as your kid will.

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfishhatchery.org steved@cshfishhatchery.org Celebrate your child’s next birthday at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium! See the Hatchery & Aquarium’s exciting live exhibits. Feed the hungry trout and learn about fish, reptiles, and amphibians with an up-close animal encounter. For children turning ages 3 and older. Fishing Parties available too! Fishing Partygoers will enjoy a 45-minute fishing bonanza. Fishing is catch-andrelease only. For children turning ages 4 and older. All parties will be followed by your desired festivities.

Educational party hosts and goodie bags included.

Fabulosity at The Toddlewood Studios 818 Merrick Road, Baldwin 646-596-4227 toddlewoodparties.com parties@toddlewood.com Welcome to Toddlewood!

Named “The Best Party Ever” by birthday girls from all of Long Island and beyond. This high-end fashion photo studio has a large hair and makeup station, nail station, arts and crafts, dancing, music, and the best professional photography session for your next top model birthday girl. She and her friends will love posing on set and will take home their pictures to show everyone at school. This two-hour party is the talk of Long Island and is hosted by celebrity photographer, Tricia Messeroux and her team. Call today!

The Fashion Class

1812 Merrick Road, Merrick 516-246-2000 thefashionclass.com Learn from real fashion designers with a runway or sewing party this year in our 3,000-square-foot, bright, sunny, and pink fashion studio! Guests can choose from a variety of our most popular sewing projects, or put on a full runway show complete with makeup and hair styling. Sewers use our stateof-the-art touch-screen Singer sewing machines, which are easy to use and complete with loads of safety features. Runway shows take place on our 24-foot, light-up runway with a take-home runway photo.

Starting at age 6, Fashion Class parties are fabulous for any age!

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Great Play of Syosset

180 Michael Drive, Syosset 516-364-1500 greatplay.com/syosset info@syosset.greatplay.com Our award-winning, high-energy parties are truly spectacular events, and we make your child the star of the show! Your guests will have a blast and your child will receive All-Star treatment in our amazing Interactive Gym™.

We offer customized parties for ages 1-10 and you start by picking one of our six great themes. Then you work with our party planner to customize the rest based on the interests of the party star.

Huntington Center for Performing Arts 310 New York Ave., Huntington 631-271-4626 huntingtoncenteronline.com huntingtoncenter@yahoo.com Make your child’s birthday a memorable and creative event with our dance-themed birthday parties. We offer a variety of parties and will also customize anything for you. Choose a theme and we provide the rest. Our staff will help you be creative with your theme; your choice of ballerina, nutcracker, soldier, princess, sugar plum fairy, and more! As a special treat, a guest artist will come in costume to perform for your guests! We specialize in making your child’s birthday a magical memory to cherish for a lifetime!

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Celebrate your child’s birthday or special occasion with us at Key to My Art! It’s a mini paint night for kids! Your child chooses what the group paints! They can choose any theme, character, animal, or place!

Our children’s paint parties include all supplies from aprons to easels, plus step-by-step instruction, pizza, and juice for all the children!

Everyone leaves with a finished painting they can proudly hang on their wall at home! Our paint events are also great for showers, Girl Scout troops, and fundraisers.

KIDZHITZ

304 Main St., Huntington 631-470-9788 kidzhitz.biz; kidzhitz@gmail.com RockStar Parties at KIDZHITZ are like no other party experience. Children record their own song in our state-of-the-art recording studio built just for kids. They design their own CD cover and perform for each other on our Main Street location stage. Everything is included in our 1½-hour party, from pizza to juice and all paper goods. Visit us at kidzhitz.biz or call 631-470-9788.

The Little Ladies Club

246 W. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-939-CLUB (2582) thelittleladiesclub.com party@thelittleladiesclub.com The Little Ladies Club has been dedicated to making birthday parties extra special for more than 18 years! Your 2-hour party includes a mini makeover with a glamorous hairstyle using a personalized comb, a take-home hair accessory, a manicure, and a pedicure. Boys will have their hair spiked and colored, along with a bandana and tattoos.

Next is a Red Carpet Fashion Show, a Tea Party with pizza and drinks, and dazzling dance time!

Party favors and invitations, too!

Long Island Aquarium & Exhibition Center

431 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-208-9200 x186 longislandaquarium.com Have an Aquatic Birthday Party at the Long Island Aquarium! Take a private tour of the aquarium with one of our expert educators. Receive preferential treatment at our Simulator and Discovery Tower rides and special seating at our Sea Lion Show, during which the birthday child will get a shout-out from one of the stars! Have lunch and an ice cream cake in your private party room. The party doesn’t

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end when the candles are blown out; your guests have access to the aquarium for the entire day.

Long Island Sports Complex

103 Mill Road, Freeport 516-546-0900 longislandsportscomplex.com Long Island Sports Complex is your field of dreams! Long Island’s newest, state-of-the-art, well-lit, and climate-controlled indoor turf field. The field, 40-by-80 yards, is available for sports ranging from soccer, baseball, softball, and lacrosse to football and more. The facility is available to rent on an hourly basis. We are also known to have the “greatest party on turf” offering special sports or inflatable parties and bubble soccer parties.

LISC also offers leagues, tournaments, and clinics in all sports throughout the year. Open seven days a week, and 24 hours a day.

M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym & Early Childcare Education Center A Rainbow Of Programs Under One Roof!

2629 Grand Ave., Bellmore 516-221-1330 171 Eileen Way, Syosset 516-496-7765 matsskidsgym.com corporate@matsskidsgym.com M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym offers a rainbow of themes and activities that will make your child’s next birthday party the ultimate celebration of their special day! From themed party games to music, make-yourown sundaes, or face painting, each party can be customized to your child’s desire. Try an all-inclusive Princess Tea Party or Super Heroes theme party—add a moon-bouncer or inflatable. We can tailor parties small to large in any of our spacious gyms. And remember the birthday child is always free! Visit our website for more information or contact our party consultant at one of the locations nearest you. Enjoy your customized party—we’ll do the rest!

My Gym Children’s Fitness Center

1320 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook 631-751-KIDS (5437) mgym.com/stonybrook 128 W. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington Station 631-427-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/huntingtonstation At My Gym the goal is to not only make your party amazing but to make it a wonderful memory for all who attend. Parties include special touches such as our “Birthday

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March,” and customized music and activities. You will also have exclusive use of the gym, including a zip line, rock wall, trampoline, trapeze, climbing structures, and slides. The highly trained, enthusiastic instructors lead your guests through action-packed activities, with theme options such as Superheroes, Mickey Mouse, Princesses, or any theme you choose.

Not Just Art

183 South St., Oyster Bay 516-922-8300 notjustart.com; create@notjustart.com Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and older.

Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard. We customize the fun to your child’s interest! Each party is thoughtfully designed with variations and adaptations to make sure all children feel successful and included. Staffed by seasoned teachers and party helpers, our celebrations are unique and personalized experiences! Parties can be adapted for playgroups, Scout troops, field trips, and other events.

Spin DJ Academy

631-608-8858 202 Merrick Road, 2nd Floor, Rockville Centre 16 Broadway, Amityville spindjcademy.com Spin DJ Birthday Parties are a fun and personalized experience for your child! Partygoers get to be the life of the party and learn basic DJ skills with today’s top hits!

Customize your DJ dance party with songs and instruments your child loves, then head to our play space for food and fun! Add to the party with music videos, character appearance, glitter tattoos, party favors, and more! Spin DJ can bring the party to you! We’ll bring DJ equipment and instruments to create an experience to remember!

Thinkertots

1818 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park 516-488-3414 thinkertots.com thinkertotsnhp@gmail.com Your birthday activities will be custom designed to be just right for your little guests. Packages include open playtime and music playing or you can rent out our location.

We provide all themed paper goods for your party. We have a separate party room for your entertainment needs. You can enjoy

your party while you have two hosts to attend to your guests. Call us to book your birthday party!

Unlimited Sports Action

30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-767-7675 unlimitedsportsaction.com info@unlimitedsportsaction.com Unlimited Sports Action offers sports birthdays for ages 2 and older. We provide everything (pizza, cake, drinks, paper goods, and invitations) so that parents can sit back, relax, and enjoy the party! Our parties are 1½ hours, consisting of 1 hour of sports and activities on a climate-controlled turf field, with a choice of three sports, followed by 30 minutes of food, drinks, and birthday cake in a private room. We also offer at-home parties! We can come to pool parties, backyard parties, or other outdoor venues year-round!

The Village Artist

630 New York Ave., Huntington 631-271-0715 thevillageartist.com lori@thevillageartist.com Create art for your next birthday party! The Village Artist Fine Arts Center is proud to host your next birthday party. Enjoy a fun and creative time with your family and friends. Celebrate your child’s birthday in a unique and fun way.

Party services include 2 hours of studio time, creative art project of your choice (clay sculpture, painting, drawing, wood creations), step-by-step instructions, art supplies, free art class gift certificates for each child, invitations with directions, and separate dining area.

Bringing creativity to Huntington Village since 1995.

What’s Cooking?

30 E. Main St., Oyster Bay 516-922-COOK (2665) whatscookingny.com info@whatscookingny.com Martha Stewart, Newsday, and News 12 boast What’s Cooking? is a No. 1 Choice Birthday Party Place where children can explore their creativity in culinary arts.

Offering a wide variety of party themes, we exceed customer’s expectations with superior service, quality, and value. Hottest party theme: Cupcake Wars! Funtastic cookie, cupcake, chocolate, pretzel, or pizza parties can be customized in our spacious party room with an ice cream candy bar or chocolate fountain, making your party memorable!

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Being able to discern others’ feelings and acting based on that information is part of emotional intelligence, so experts suggest parents begin clearly demonstrating empathy around elementary school-aged children to help them learn what it means to be a good friend.

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And members of Bachelor Nation will undoubtedly remember the showdown between Corinne Olympios and Taylor Nolan on Nick Viall’s season of ABC’s The Bachelor, when Nolan told Olympios she lacked emotional intelligence.

But what exactly is emotional intelligence, and how can parents ensure their children have a high level? We spoke to experts to get a clear picture of EQ, its benefits to children, and how parents can help children build their emotional intelligence skills.

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definition of EQ is “the ability to monitor one’s own and others’ feelings and emotions, to discriminate among them, and to use this information to guide one’s thinking and action.” This is the definition the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence uses, says Kathryn Lee, M.A., director of RULER for Families at the center.

(RULER is an acronym for the building blocks of emotional intelligence: recognizing, understanding, labeling, expressing, and regulating emotions.)

Meanwhile, The Collaborative for Academic, Social and Emotional Learning combines social and emotional intelligences and divides those into five skill areas: self-awareness, selfmanagement, social awareness, relationship skills, and responsible decision making, according to Jennifer Miller, M.Ed., who formerly worked with CASEL and is currently an expert contributor for NBC’s Parent Toolkit and creator and author of the blog Confident Parents, Confident Kids.

Keeping these two definitions in mind, Lee and Miller say a child has a good EQ level if she is able to: name her feelings and moods, respond flexibly to changes in her environment, show empathy toward others, appraise how others are feeling, recover more quickly from upset or disappointment, and manage emotions in a challenging environment (calm herself down, articulate what she’s feeling, and move forward).

Benefits of Emotional Intelligence

While kids will utilize emotional intelligence skills in everyday life and social interactions, building those skills can help children be more successful academically and, later on, professionally.

Schools with a focus on social-emotional learning had an 11-percent advantage on high-stakes achievement tests as compared to schools without such a focus, according to a 2011 meta-analysis published in the journal Child Development, which looked at the effectiveness of 213 school-based social and emotional learning programs.

“That’s pretty significant when you look at moving the needle on academic performance,” Miller says.

A 20-year retrospective study published in the American Journal of Public Health in 2015 compared the social-emotional competencies in children as kindergarteners and again as 25-yearolds. The study found that for every point increase in the person’s original score, he was 54 percent more likely to graduate from high school, twice as likely to attain a college degree, and 46 percent more likely to have a full-time job at the age of 25.

As children become members of the workplace of today and the future, they are required to be critical, creative, and innovative thinkers. Employers require employees that are able to collaborate, work in teams, and understand cross-cultural communications in a global economy, including perspective taking, empathy, and social awareness, Miller says. “You go down the list of social-emotional competencies, and they have become the foundation of what employers are looking for in the workforce, so it is absolutely critical in looking to the future,” she says.

How to Help Kids Build Emotional Intelligence

Since social-emotional intelligence is a set of skills, “they can be learned at any point. You’re not born with it, it’s not static, it’s dynamic,” Miller says. “There is not a kid in the world that doesn’t need support in this area. As they develop, they are working on their skills, so [support] is critical. It’s not a low income issue, it’s not a cultural issue, it’s very much every child needs to understand and relate to each other effectively.”

So how can parents help their children build social-emotional skills?

Miller and Lee share their tips for various stages of development.

Toddlers and Pre-K

Build your child’s feeling-word vocabulary. Help her learn to identify and name how she is feeling. “Even preschoolers can use words like frustrated, lonely, or surprised—and when they are able to name their feelings, they become more able to understand and work with their feelings,” Lee says.

One way parents can help their toddler or pre-K age child is to separate him from the situation to take stock of his feelings. Lead “a young child into a safe space—in other words not in a public forum where a bunch of people are looking at them where they can get even more upset because they’re humiliated by the social context,” Miller says. “Walk them to a safe place where they can calm down, you can model breathing, help them breathe, and then give them words to ask them whether you’re right about

their feelings. It seems like you’re really frustrated, is that right? It seems like you’re angry, like you’re hurt, is that right?” This very brief statement about what he is feeling and experiencing can help him begin to name and label those feelings.

Elementary School

Cultivate friend-making skills. Pre-K to second-grade children are beginning to create genuine friendships, but they’re new to creating friendships, Miller says. “Children need a lot of help in figuring out how to be a good friend and to have friends,” she says. “At the beginning of the school year, you can practice making introductions if they’re nervous about not knowing other kids, and you can do that with stuffed animals or action figures that they play with: Hi, I want to introduce you to Betsy Bear. It’s nice to meet you, this is so-and-so.”

Demonstrate empathy. “In elementary school, friends become increasingly important. Elementary school-aged children learn to identify and become attuned to peers’ facial expressions and perspectives. So parents can support their children by helping them learn how to understand others’ feelings, and to empathize with them, creating the basis for becoming a true friend,” Lee says.

In the home, where emotions are okay to talk about and explore, Lee recommends parents try to model empathy by saying, I wonder how your friend’s doing. She looked a little sad when she was here the other day—have you noticed that? or Gosh, I remember his parents are separated. I wonder if there is anything we can do to show our love and support for him? “Helping your child learn to develop an empathic frame for their experience can really mean a lot for a child during those elementary school years,” Lee says.

Practice self-management techniques. Third- through sixthgraders start to encounter more complicated social problems, such as bullying. So, Miller says, their self-management skills become really important. To help your child become a responsible decision-maker, discern what her values are, and act responsibly in social environments, Miller suggests practicing these scenarios with your child at home: how to deal when she is picked on, help her practice ways to respond to bullies whether she is the one being bullied or witnessing it, what to do when her friend is being bullied, when to disengage and not be an audience giving the bully power.

Kids at this age can also become very performance oriented, worried about how teachers and peers are judging them, whether it’s sports or academic. Because of this pressure, Miller says kids need really good coping skills. Talk to your child about dealing with frustration, persisting toward a goal when the outcome isn’t perfect immediately, and dealing with feelings of embarrassment or humiliation in front of peers when he doesn’t first succeed.

Middle School

Explore morals and ethics. In middle school, kids’ moral and ethical development begins, and awareness starts to shift from “me and my accomplishments to an awareness of one’s membership in a larger community and humanity,” Lee says. “So parents exploring those topics with their middle-schoolers helps support their efforts to develop this larger vision and to formulate their own values.” continued on next page ››

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Talk and listen. “I think a critical aspect of being a middleschool parent is keeping the lines of communication open,” Miller says. At this age, kids are in the throes of puberty, and part of it is parental pushback and pushing boundaries. So talk about those boundaries and discuss why they are important, she says. “Kids are learning and caring more about social justice as it relates to the world and as it relates to them, and so they want to know why.”

When you are open with your child, she will come to you on her own time. You may not talk about little issues, “but when the big issues come up, they come to you, not somebody else,” Miller adds.

High School

Give your teen space to create an identity. “High-schoolers are really working hard at creating their own identity and independence, so sometimes they’re going to need more alone time and time with their friends and away from you. I think it’s a tough time to create independence when you are still dependent in a household,” Miller says; so allow your teen space to develop his self-identity.

Miller also suggests telling your teen stories from her childhood when she demonstrated strength and perseverance.

“I think it’s really helpful because at the time when social pressure is at it’s height and they’re trying to figure out who they’re going to be in all of it, you want them to feel strong and feel like they can stand their ground if they need to,” she says.

While giving your teen space to cultivate independence, stay connected to him and keep the relationship strong. “Parents can support their high-schooler’s development by thoughtfully thinking issues through with them, by encouraging the ability of their teen to think critically in their decision-making. If we can recognize that this is a time when kids naturally begin to differentiate themselves from other adults, often including their parents, then we can avoid taking it personally and arguing,” Lee advises. “This is a healthy development—a necessary part of formulating their own identities.”

As with most life skills, parents are their children’s first and main teachers. So to help your child build her emotional and social skills, you have to demonstrate and build these skills yourself.

As Miller says, “Every human being can continue to hone their social and emotional competence.”

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Our nurturing yet challenging environment educates the whole child, in mind, body and spirit. At Holy Family each child is known by name and loved for his/her God-given talents.

Holy Family students share love, understanding, compassion and kindness each school day.

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1 Hit a hole-in-one on the island’s 36-hole miniature-golf course. 2 Decorate pumpkins, enjoy live music, and watch the Randall’s Island Chef Showdown at the Harvest Festival. 3 The Urban Farm is an educational stop at which families can learn about sustainable gardening practices. 4 Randall’s Island contains more than 60 playing fields, so you can cheer on a local team or play ball. 5 Randall’s Island is home to six bee hotels.

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andall’s Island Park, a multifaceted public park covering most of a 480-acre island in the East River between East Harlem, the South Bronx, and Astoria, Queens, is home to a variety of facilities and natural areas for every member of the family to enjoy.

Farm in the City

The seasonal Urban Farm gives families the opportunity to plant, harvest, and compost. It offers lessons on sustainable gardening practices such as rainwater capture, soil fertility, pollination, and botany. Your family can see chickens, the only known rice paddies in New York, an apple orchard, greenhouses, and a berry patch.

Explore Themed Gardens

Check out five themed gardens created using native species and sustainable practices, including the Rock Garden and the Waters Edge Garden. The White Garden is composed of plants with flowers or foliate in various tones of white. The Hell Gate Wildflower Meadow provides food and shelter for insects, and the Freshwater Wetlands Wildflower Meadow contains unusual native plants. There are also six bee hotels on the island.

The park also has freshwater wetlands, a tidal salt marsh, an urban forest, and nearly 5 miles of coastal upland habitat. Bike or walk the almost 8 miles of pathways to catch a glimpse.

Play Sports (or Cheer on a Local Team)

Randall’s Island is home to more than 60 playing fields. Come out to play and enjoy a good game of soccer, softball, lacrosse, rugby, and more. Randall’s Island Park Alliance works to ensure the fields are available for NYC children and adult leagues and teams.

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There’s also Icahn Stadium, a 400-meter running track used for local, national, and international track and field events.

Become the Next Tennis Star

The Sportime Tennis Center has 20 indoor and outdoor courts, a fitness center, locker rooms, a café, a pro shop, and more.

Programs, athletic training, and youth camps are available for all ages and levels.

Hit a Hole-in-One

The Golf Center includes an indoor-outdoor, two-tier driving range with 80 stalls, a 36-hole miniature-golf course, batting cages, golf lessons, and free Wi-Fi.

Celebrate the Harvest

In addition to the yoga, tours, birding, and outdoor movie nights on the island, the Harvest Festival on Oct. 15 will have live music, face painting, and pumpkins for kids to decorate, as well as the Randall’s Island Chef Showdown, during which three chefs will be judged on their creations using the Urban Farm’s harvest. Run the River 5K on Oct. 28 also includes a children’s fun run.

Want to Go?

Address: 20 Randall’s Island Park, Randall’s Island Directions: Approximately a 35-minute drive from Garden City Hours: Park: daily, 5am-12am; Urban Farm: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm through Oct. 15 For more information: 212-830-7722 or randallsisland.org

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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS

Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to.

Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

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‘Shopkins Live! Shop It Up!’

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 1, 12:30pm and 5pm WHERE: NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury AGES: 3-8 WHAT: The kid-friendly Shoppies make their theatrical debut in an original new live show featuring musical performances by Jessicake, Bubbleisha, Peppa-Mint, Rainbow Kate, Cocolette, Polli Polish, and more.

WHY WE LOVE IT: An ensemble cast of multi-talented performers brings the show to life on stage through urban style music, song, and dance.

WANT TO GO? $29 and up. 516-334-0800. thetheatreatwestbury.com.

‘La Boheme’

WHEN: Oct. 7-8, Saturday, 7pm; Sunday, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: La Boheme is the passionate, timeless, and indelible story of love among young artists in Paris.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It can stake its claim as the world’s most popular opera.

WANT TO GO? $45 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

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Twice Exceptional Children’s Advocacy (TECA) Conference: Building 2e Awareness & Community WHEN: Friday, Oct. 13, 8am-5:30pm WHERE: The Madison Theatre/Public Square at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre

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AGES: 13 and older WHAT: The day includes more than 20 informative workshops and panel discussions, community building activities, and networking opportunities.

WHY WE LOVE IT: If you know a child who is really bright, this is a conference you’ll want to attend.

WANT TO GO? $50 and up. 347-889-6333. teca2e.org.

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‘Flip Fabrique’

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 14, 4pm WHERE: Staller Center - Stony Brook University, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook AGES: 5 and older WHAT: These young acrobats learned their circus skills from Cirque du Soleil and Cirque Eloize.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Their tricks will take your breath away.

WANT TO GO? $20. 631-632-6000. stallercenter.com.

The Oyster Festival FREE

WHEN: Oct. 14-15, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-6pm WHERE: Theodore Roosevelt Memorial Park, West End and Audrey avenues, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: This popular event will feature live entertainment, top-notch artisans, various shows, rides, and the iconic oyster eating and shucking contest, as well as a food court.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Shucks, could 200,000 annual visitors be wrong?

WANT TO GO? 516-628-1625. theoysterfestival.org.

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WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 22, 3pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 3-12 WHAT: In an exciting tale filled with music, you’ll discover how this amazing story ends as the kingdom comes back to life.

WHY WE LOVE IT: A tale of a beautiful princess, a sleeping enchantment, and a handsome prince come to life.

WANT TO GO? $25. 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

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WHEN: Oct. 21-22, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Rock Hall Museum, 199 Broadway, Lawrence AGES: All WHAT: Visit with colonial historians. Activities include harvest market, raffles, craft vendors, scarecrow making, pumpkin patch, food court, pony rides, animal farm, antique cars, and a craft area for children.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a weekend of country fun!

WANT TO GO? 516-239-1157. toh.li.

‘Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood Live: King for a Day!’

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 29, 4pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Daniel and all of his friends invite you for a brand-new adventure in the Neighborhood of MakeBelieve where Daniel learns just what it takes to be King.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s an event filled with tigertastic fun, teaching the valuable lessons of kindness, helping others, and being a friend.

WANT TO GO? $28 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

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WHEN: Oct. 6-29, see website for dates, 6-10:30pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Come see 5,000 hand-carved illuminated jack-o’lanterns creatively arranged along a scenic walking path and set to a musical score designed to bring out the fall spirit in visitors of all ages.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s artistically jaw-dropping and ghoulishly fun!

WANT TO GO? $26; $22 children ages 3-12 and seniors; free for children 2 and younger. 818-639-8981. therise.org.

‘Fiddler on the Roof’

WHEN: Oct. 22-Nov. 5, Sundays, 2pm WHERE: The Showplace at Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Tevye, the father of five daughters, attempts to maintain his Jewish religious and cultural traditions, as outside influences encroach upon the family’s lives.

WHY WE LOVE IT: “Fiddler” is a classic theatrical performance that points out some of the same struggles parents have today.

WANT TO GO? $12. 516-599-6870. plazatheatrical.com.

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Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

Kids Workshop FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 7, 9am-12pm WHERE: Home Depot, 600 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Join our hands-on workshop, and you and your child can build a cute coin bank with a fire station design. Once the bank is built, your child can decorate it with paint and stickers.

WANT TO GO? 516-488-8500. homedepot.com.

Manny’s Carnival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 7, 2pm WHERE: Hempstead Public Library, 115 Nichols Court, Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: Singing and performing on conga drums such musical styles as meringue, salsa, rumba, bolero, plus jazz standards in a Latin style, Manny will excite young and old with his energetic show.

WANT TO GO? 516-481-6990. hempsteadlibrary.info.

Garden City Street Fair FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 14, 10am-6pm WHERE: 7th Street, between Franklin and Hilton avenues, Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Lots of handmade products made by fine artisans will be on sale.

WANT TO GO? 516-442-6000. gardencitychamberny.chambermaster.com.

Sirens of Song: Adele and Lady Gaga FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 17, 2pm WHERE: Manhasset Public Library, 30 Onderdonk Ave., Manhasset AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Join us for an afternoon of songs and stories that highlight the musical careers of these luminous divas.

WANT TO GO? 516-627-2300. manhassetlibrary.org.

Fall Family Freshwater Fishing Festival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 21, 10am-4pm WHERE: Hempstead Lake State Park, 100 Lake Drive, Lakeview AGES: All WHAT: Family-oriented annual fishing festival integrates fishing with fall activities, such as a casting for pumpkins contest and pumpkin decorating.

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SMARTY PANTS Trinkets, Treasures, and Trade: Exhibition Opening FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 8, 1:30pm WHERE: Rock Hall Museum, 199 Broadway, Lawrence AGES: All WHAT: Join Dutch historian and curator Arthur Kirmss for a tour of this exhibit.

WANT TO GO? 516-239-1157. toh.li.

Brown Bag Lectures

SHOW TIME! Swingtime Big Band: Moonglow

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 1, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: The Madison Theatre’s 20-piece ‘house band’ returns to launch our season with a swingin’ harvest moon celebration.

WANT TO GO? $35 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

The Chapin Family Live in Concert

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 7, 8pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: All WHAT: This concert brings together Harry Chapin’s family and friends, whose successful musical careers are a testament to Chapin’s enduring legacy.

WANT TO GO? $25. 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

‘The Legend of Sleepy Hollow’

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 12, 1pm WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre in Elmont, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 3-12 WHAT: The Legend of Sleepy Hollow tells the story of Ichabod Crane and his hapless attempt to win the heart and hand of Katrina Van Tassel.

WANT TO GO? $13; $11 in advance. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

Lisa Fischer & Grand Baton

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 15, 7pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: After four decades of singing background for icons such as the Rolling Stones and Tina Turner, Fischer is offering her own songs.

WANT TO GO? $38 and up. 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

‘Give Our Regards to Broadway’

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 22, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the great Broadway musicals, concentrating on the 1940s.

WANT TO GO? $45 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

‘Into the Woods’

WHEN: Oct. 28-29, Saturday, 2pm and 8pm; Sunday, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 9 and older WHAT: James Lapine and Stephen Sondheim take everyone’s favorite storybook characters and bring them together for a timeless, yet relevant, piece.

WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

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WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 19, 1pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Bring a sandwich and enjoy lunch as Museum Docent Riva Ettus presents an informative talk on the art and artists included in the current exhibit. Then, join the 2pm public exhibition tour. First-come, first-seated.

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 seniors; $4 children. 516-484-9338. nassaumuseum.org.

Gallery Talk with the Curator Constance Schwartz

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 22, 3pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Schwartz, the museum’s former director, meets in the galleries with visitors to discuss the exhibition and the works and artists included.

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 seniors; $4 children. 516-484-9338. nassaumuseum.org.

Sketching in the Galleries

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 24, 1-2pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Led by museum educators, this program will encourage visitors to engage in a variety of drawing assignments.

WANT TO GO? $17. 516-484-9338. nassaumuseum.org.

Chess

WHEN: Through Oct. 28: Saturdays, 10am-12pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Learn to play chess from a member of the Long Island Industrial Chess League. Experienced players are also welcome.

WANT TO GO? $8; $2 per drop-in session. 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Early Childhood Education Open Houses FREE

WHEN: Oct. 22-28, see website for specific locations and times WHERE: Catholic Schools Week, Multiple locations in Nassau and Suffolk AGES: 3-5 WHAT: The Catholic Elementary Schools open their Early Childhood centers up to meet prospective new families.

WANT TO GO? 516-678-5800. licatholicelementaryschools.org.

Afternoon Game Time: Open Play for Scrabble, Mah Jongg, & Canasta Fans FREE

WHEN: Oct. 17-31, Tuesdays, 2:30pm WHERE: Peninsula Public Library, 280 Central Ave., Lawrence AGES: All WHAT: Come learn or upgrade your skills. An instructor will be on-site.

WANT TO GO? 516-239-3262. peninsulapublic.org.

Converging Voices: Gender and Identity Exhibition FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 15: Tuesday-Friday, 11am-4pm WHERE: Hofstra University Museum, 112 Hofstra University, Hempstead AGES: All

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Courtesy Summer on the Hudson

WHEN: Through June 14, 2018: Wednesday-Thursday, 4pm and 5pm WHERE: Theresa Academy of Performing Arts, 250 Lido Blvd., Lido Beach AGES: All WHAT: Classes are small in size, and taught by certified teachers. Each student receives individual attention and has a 1-on-1 buddy.

WANT TO GO? $20 per class. 516-432-0200. tapany.org.

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WHAT: This exhibition focuses on issues of gender and identity, reflecting an international scope.

WANT TO GO? 516-463-5672. hofstra.edu/museum.

Autumn Sculpture Stroll

Gardening by the Book: A Celebration of Rare Botanical Volumes WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 19, 11am WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 13 and older WHAT: A discussion about gardening, dating from the 17th-20th centuries.

A buffet lunch on the West Porch will follow. Advance tickets required.

WANT TO GO? $22. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Get swept up by the playful spirit of medieval times.

Hither and Yon! Let your kids go medieval for the day at the Medieval Festival at Fort Tryon Park. Aside from costumes, bountiful cuisine, and courtly gestures (jesters, too!), the child-friendly offerings include magic and puppet shows, juggling lessons, and arts and crafts. There will even be a joust between four knights on horseback to conclude the afternoon. Oct. 1, 11:30am-6pm. Age: All. FREE. Fort Tryon Park, 741 Fort Washington Ave., Washington Heights. 212-795-1600. whidc.org.

End of Season Garden Tour

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WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 22, 2pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Discover the change of colors, the attractive (and useful to birds) berries on the callicarpa and the beauty of the Walled Garden, emphasizing the beauty of this garden.

WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children 6 and younger. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Sensory Garden Sundays

WHEN: Through Oct. 29: Sundays, 9am-5pm WHERE: Planting Fields Arboretum, Coe Hall, 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Children will have the opportunity to see, taste, touch, smell, and listen to the wonders of the Sensory Garden.

WANT TO GO? $8 per car. 516-922-8668. plantingfields.org.

Mill Neck Manor House Tour

WHEN: Through Nov. 5, Sundays, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Mill Neck Manor House, 40 Frost Mill Road, Mill Neck AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Step back in time to experience and savor the mansion’s exquisite appointments and its 86-acre scenic estate overlooking the Long Island Sound. Learn about its history, the life of Lillian Sefton Dodge, and the Mill Neck Manor School for the Deaf.

WANT TO GO? $25; $20 seniors; $15 students; $5 for children 12 and younger. 516-628-4243. millneckmanorhouse.org. ››

Courtesy the Laurie Berkner Band/Jayme Thornton

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 5, 5:30pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Walk through the grounds guided by Laura Lynch and Katie Hillman of the museum’s education department. Meet on the front terrace.

WANT TO GO? $10. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

New York kids will rock out at Laurie’s only NYC concert stop this fall!

Monster Boogie Catch award-winning and best-selling children’s music star Laurie Berkner in concert at the New York Society for Ethical Culture on the Upper West Side. The Laurie Berkner Band’s Monster Boogie Halloween Concert promises 90 minutes of your favorite Laurie Berkner Band songs. Little kids and the young elementary set will love spending a Saturday afternoon rocking to “Rocketship Run,” “The Airplane Song,” and “We Are The Dinosaurs.” Oct. 28, 2pm doors, 3pm show. Age: 4-8. $39 and up; free for children younger than 1 on adult’s lap. 2 W. 64th St., Upper West Side. nysec.org.

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HOLIDAY FUN Children’s Workshop: Decorate a House for Otto

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 13, 4pm and 6pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Children will create a candy house for Otto. Call for reservations.

WANT TO GO? $15. 516-334-0066. hicksnurseries.com.

Children’s Workshop: Decorate a Spooky Pumpkin

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALES

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 20, 4pm and 6pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Children will decorate a spooky pumpkin. Reservations required.

WANT TO GO? $10. 516-334-0066. hicksnurseries.com.

Giant Pumpkin Weigh-Off & Fall Harvest Competition FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 21, 1pm WHERE: Elmont Library, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: All WHAT: Meet the NYC Ghostbusters to learn what it’s like to be a real ghostbuster.

WANT TO GO? 516-354-5280. elmontlibrary.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 1, 11am WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Everyone is invited to participate in this exciting competition which not only includes giant pumpkins but additional categories for large, unique, and decorated vegetables.

WANT TO GO? 516-334-0066. hicksnurseries.com.

Fall Family Festival

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 8, 11am-4pm WHERE: Coe Hall-Planting Fields, 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Halloween trick or treat and costume parade, live music, jumbo garden games, pumpkins for sale, pony rides, potato sack races, face painting, watercolor demonstrations, and a bounce house.

WANT TO GO? $20 per vehicle. 516-922-8688. plantingfields.org.

Halloween & Psychic Faire

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 14, 11am-6pm WHERE: The Community Space at The Fellowship, 109 Browns Road, Huntington AGES: All WHAT: For children there will be a haunted house, live animal program, storytelling, costume parade, and more. For adults, there are psychic readings and other mystical, macabre activities.

WANT TO GO? $15; $12 children ages 13-18; $5 children ages 6-12; free for children younger than 6. 631-427-9547. uufh.org.

Halloween Fun Festival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 21, 11am-4pm WHERE: Madison Theatre At Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Prepare yourself for a day of fun, wear a costume, and be part of the parade. Enjoy a pumpkin patch, pumpkin decorating, haunted house, scarecrow garden, mask making, corn maze, chalk talk, costume contest, bowling, cupcake decorating, and food.

WANT TO GO? 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Rolling River Fall Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 21, 12-4pm WHERE: Rolling River Camp, 477 Ocean Ave., East Rockaway AGES: 3-12 WHAT: This much-anticipated festival is open to the public and includes a variety of kid-friendly activities and rides. Food and refreshments will be available on-site.

WANT TO GO? $10. 516-593-2267. rollingriver.com.

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Spooky Fest

WHEN: Oct. 14-29, Friday-Sunday, 6:30-9:30pm WHERE: Tanglewood Nature Preserve, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Wooded paths, exhibits, and festivities on the preserve, with eerie lighting, special effects, and characters along the way.

WANT TO GO? $15; $10 for non-spooky attractions only. 516-764-0045. cstl.org/spooky-fest.

Enchanted Halloween: A Family-Friendly Forest Adventure

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 29, 1-4pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: The museum’s forest is transformed into a magical place.

WANT TO GO? $10 with admission: $10; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12; $2 weekend parking fee. 516-484-9338. nassaumuseum.org.

Tiny Tots: Halloween Science

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 30, 9:30am WHERE: Center for Science Teaching and Learning at Tanglewood Preserve, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Little ones get a science lesson and learn about Halloween.

WANT TO GO? $8. 516-764-0045. cstl.org.

Not-so-Spooky Tuesday Afternoon Movies FREE

WHEN: Oct. 3-31, Tuesdays, 4pm WHERE: Bellerose Library, 250-08 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy Halloween-themed films. Watch Where the Wild Things Are on Oct. 3; Hotel Transylvania on Oct. 10; The Nightmare Before Christmas on Oct. 17; Goosebumps on Oct. 24; and Gremlins on Oct. 31.

WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org.

The Haunted House at Bayville Adventure Park

WHEN: Through Nov. 5: See website for dates, 6-10pm WHERE: Bayville Scream Park, 8 Bayville Ave., Bayville AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Bayville Adventure Park transforms into a spooky world of frights and surprises to become Bayville Scream Park.

WANT TO GO? $11.75 and up. 516-624-4678. bayvillescreampark.com.

CRAFTY KIDS Knit & Crochet

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 2, 1:30pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Join Knit & Crochet as Angie Gallo guides you through the steps of learning how to knit and/or crochet. You can bring your own project or choose from the many instruction books available.

WANT TO GO? $10. 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Sailing on the Seas

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 9, 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Assemble your own floating ships using sponges and picks, and go forth, Brave Adventurers, in the spirit of exploration.

WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Monster Mash Puppets

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 10, 2:30pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Scare up some fun as you create your own monster puppet with colorful materials.

WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Painted Pumpkins

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 14, 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Get ready to paint, glue, and glitter your own colorful pumpkin to display at home this fall.

WANT TO GO? $5 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Green Teens: Colorful Fall Leaves

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 21, 1pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Learn about different leaf shapes and take home your own leaf rubbing.

WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Neiman Marcus Family Sundays at the Museum

WHEN: Oct. 1-Nov. 5, Sundays, 1pm except Oct. 29 WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Family Sundays allow children and the adults in their lives to take time to reconnect while talking about and making art together.

WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12; $2 weekend parking fee. 516-484-9338. nassaumuseum.org.

Crafts For Kids FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Lakeshore Learning Store, 2079 Hillside Ave., New Hyde Park AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Kids will have a ball making exciting crafts they can use or display. Every craft is educational and fun.

WANT TO GO? 516-616-9360. lakeshorelearning.com.

DANCE PARTY Festival of South African Dance Featuring The Gumboots and Pantsula Dance Companies

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 1, 2pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: A unique South African masterpiece of rural African men who come by train from all walks of life in search of greener pastures in Johannesburg.

WANT TO GO? $44 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

Alonzo King: Lines-Ballet

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 15, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: Collaborating with noted composers, musicians, and visual artists from around the world, choreographer Alonzo King creates works that draw a diverse set of deeply rooted cultural traditions.

WANT TO GO? $44 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

Tango Buenos Aires

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 15, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Tango Buenos Aires has become one of Argentina’s great exports, as the most authentic and uncompromising representative of the tango.

WANT TO GO? $45 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Zumba4Kids FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 25, 5:30pm WHERE: Peninsula Public Library, 280 Central Ave., Lawrence AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Get a workout with dance at this drop-off program.

WANT TO GO? 516-239-3262. peninsulapublic.org.

BROWSE & BUY

Long Island Tag Sale

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 15, 10am-3pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, home of the Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum Presented

By New York Community Bank, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: Find new treasures at a bargain price or find thousands of buyers for your summer tag sale.

WANT TO GO? $3 cash at the door. 800-745-3000. nycblive.com.

Long Beach Farmers Market FREE

WHEN: Oct. 4-Nov. 1, Wednesdays and Saturdays, 9am-2pm WHERE: Kennedy Plaza, 1 W. Chester St., Long Beach AGES: All WHAT: Fresh fruit and vegetables including Long Island corn, heirloom tomatoes, potatoes, squash and onions, fresh fruits and juices, cheese, milk, wine, pasta, pickles, smoked pork, soaps, and preserves.

WANT TO GO? 516-543-6033. ligreenmarket.org/long beach. ›› LongIslandParent 37

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MUSICIANS Music and Fun for Your Little One FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 2: Mondays, 11am WHERE: Massapequa Public Library, 40 Harbour Lane, Massapequa AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Join in for 45 minutes of music and fun.

WANT TO GO? 516-799-0770. massapequalibrary.org.

Bring-A-Friend Kids Music Day FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 6, 3-8pm WHERE: Music School of New York City, 234D Jericho Turnpike, Mineola AGES: 5-17 WHAT: To start off a weekend of free activities in music and arts, free private lessons are being offered. Call for more information.

WANT TO GO? 516-515-0144. musicschoolofnewyorkcity.com.

ONCE UPON A TIME

Sunday Morning Story Time & Craft with Author Brad Spiegel FREE WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 1, 11:30am WHERE: The Dolphin Bookshop, 299 Main St., Port Washington AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy story time and a craft with Brad Spiegel, author of You Can’t Ride the Subway in Your Pajamas. Book signing to follow.

WANT TO GO? 516-767-2650. thedolphinbookshop.com.

Bilingual Storytime FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 7, 11am WHERE: Hempstead Public Library, 115 Nichols Court, Hempstead AGES: 3-8 WHAT: A good way to expose your child to a second language.

WANT TO GO? 516-481-6990. hempsteadlibrary.info.

Paws2Read FREE

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 30, 5pm WHERE: Peninsula Public Library, 280 Central Ave., Lawrence AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Does your child hate reading in front of people? Practice reading to a licensed therapy dog.

WANT TO GO? 516-239-3262. peninsulapublic.org.

‘Otto’s Special Pumpkin’ - Animated Storytime FREE

Kids Music Day Open House FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 7, 10:30am-1:30pm WHERE: Music School of New York City, 234D Jericho Turnpike, Mineola AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Visit the music school, have a private consultation with the director to see what musical path you or your child should take.

WANT TO GO? 516-515-0144. musicschoolofnewyorkcity.com.

Kids Music & Arts Fair FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 8, 12-5pm WHERE: Music School of New York City, 234D Jericho Turnpike, Mineola AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Musicians and artists from all over NYC and Nassau are gathering to offer free music lessons, art and dance classes, face painting, and more.

WANT TO GO? 516-515-0144. musicschoolofnewyorkcity.com.

Sessions in Hempstead House: Bobby Katz Quintet

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 12, 8pm WHERE: Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road, Port Washington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: The band will perform Katz’s new compositions and original arrangements of jazz standards.

WANT TO GO? $45. 516-571-7901. sandspointpreserve.org.

SPECIAL NEEDS

WHEN: Through Oct. 31: daily, 8am-6pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: The story explores Otto’s relationship with friends Spider and Bat and the importance of respecting each other’s differences. Please bring donations of non-perishable food items for Long Island Cares.

WANT TO GO? 516-334-0066. hicksnurseries.com.

Open House FREE

Halloween Storytime FREE

‘Rapunzel’ FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 31, 11am WHERE: Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Join in for Halloween stories, music, and a craft. Costumes welcome and registration required.

WANT TO GO? 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com.

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WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 14, 12-5pm WHERE: Vincent Smith School, 322 Port Washington Blvd., Port Washington AGES: All WHAT: Tour our 5-acre campus, and discover how we excel in educating reluctant learners, school avoiders, or kids with ADHD or learning disorders.

WANT TO GO? 516-365-4900. vincentsmithschool.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 15, 12-1pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: All WHAT: This performance is designed and adapted by Plaza Productions Inc. for children with autism spectrum disorders. Call for tickets.

WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

LITTLE FOODIES Cooking Demo: Cuisine Español FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 4, 2pm WHERE: Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Learn how to prepare two classic Spanish tapas recipes: Andalusian-Style Chicken and Patatas Bravas, classic roasted potatoes.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com.

Afternoon Tea & Tour

WHEN: Oct. 11-12, Wednesday-Thursday, 1pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Make your visit to Westbury House extra special by enjoying a tour of the decorated house and a full afternoon tea.

WANT TO GO? $40. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Kids in the Kitchen

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 13, 1:30-2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-5 WHAT: As they make their treat, kids gain experience measuring ingredients, following directions, and building their vocabularies.

WANT TO GO? $5 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Teens Help: Cookies for Charity FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 19, 6:30pm WHERE: Elmont Library, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Earn community service by prepping cookies to bake for people in need. Community service certificate given to participants.

WANT TO GO? 516-354-5280. elmontlibrary.org.

Breakfast for Dinner with Julie Reilly FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 19, 7pm WHERE: Elmont Library, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Get ready to make some spooky french toast and ghostly booberry compote, just in time for Halloween.

WANT TO GO? 516-354-5280. elmontlibrary.org.

Halloween Cookie Class

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 28, 9am WHERE: Celebrations In the Kitchen, 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville AGES: 3-12 WHAT: You will use our cookie dough to make up to 20 Halloweenthemed cookies. You will get to decorate the cookies with chocolate chips and colored sprinkles.

WANT TO GO? $39.95. 516-396-2193. celebrationsinthekitchen.com.

Cooking Demonstration: The Art of Pie

WHEN: Oct. 30-Nov. 13, Mondays, 1pm WHERE: Rock Hall Museum, 199 Broadway, Lawrence AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Learn to make pumpkin pie, apple and pear tart, and shepherd’s pie. At the completion of each class, everyone eats pie.

WANT TO GO? $22. 516-239-1157. toh.li.

ANIMAL LOVERS Dog Show: 85th Anniversary Event

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 1, 7:30am-5:30pm WHERE: Planting Fields Arboretum State Historic Park, 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: The Westbury Kennel Association’s conformation show features more than 100 breeds along with an obedience trial.

WANT TO GO? $20 per car. 631-957-1189. westburykennelassoc.org.

Tiny Tots: Live Animals

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 2, 9:30am WHERE: Center for Science Teaching and Learning at Tanglewood Preserve, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Little ones get to interact and learn all about various live animals.

WANT TO GO? $8. 516-764-0045. cstl.org.

Pet Parade & Costume Competition FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 18, 5pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Bring your pets for the pet parade and enter your pet in the pet costume competition. Donate pet food, new toys, cat litter, leashes, and other items to Long Island Cares for pets in need in Nassau and Suffolk counties.

WANT TO GO? 516-334-0066. hicksnurseries.com.

Claws, Paws, and Scales Pet Education and Adoption Fair FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 21, 11am WHERE: Mineola Public Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: All WHAT: Local animal rescues and shelters will be on-site with adoptable animals and face painting. There will also be animal-related items for purchase.

WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Dog Festival

WHEN: Oct. 28-29, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: The festival features exhibits by animal welfare organizations, vendors, and rescue groups. Sunday displays and activities 12-4pm, dog costume contest, and parade at 3pm.

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 seniors; $5 children ages 7-17; free for children younger than 7. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org. ›› LongIslandParent 39

Light The Night Walk FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 21, 5:30pm WHERE: Eisenhower Park, Field 6A, East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: Light The Night Walk is an inspirational event that raises awareness and funding for groundbreaking research and treatment options to eliminate cancer.

WANT TO GO? 631-370-7557. lightthenight.org/long island.

Cinderella’s Masquerade Ball

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 22, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Tots on Track, 4290 Hicksville Road, Bethpage AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Your little one is cordially invited to a Royal Masquerade Ball hosted by Cinderella herself. Kids will be able to design their own masks, dance and sing, have open play, and meet and take photos with Cinderella.

WANT TO GO? $20; $15 per sibling. 516-795-5726. totsontrack.net.

Parent-Child Art & Yoga Workshop

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 22, 10am-1pm WHERE: Theresa Academy of Performing Arts, 250 Lido Blvd., Lido Beach AGES: All WHAT: Work together, learn new relaxation techniques, and create a beautiful masterpiece.

WANT TO GO? $40. 516-432-0200. tapany.org.

Music and Movement

MOVERS & SHAKERS Polo at Bethpage State Park

WHEN: Through Oct. 8, Sundays, 3pm WHERE: Bethpage State Park, 99 Quaker Meeting House Road, Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Come and enjoy an afternoon of polo games at Bethpage State Park.

WANT TO GO? $5; $8 vehicle fee. 631-669-1000. bethpagepolo.com.

Brooklyn Nets vs. Philadelphia 76ers Preseason Game

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 11, 7:30pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, home of the Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum Presented By New York Community Bank, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The Brooklyn Nets will face the Philadelphia 76ers in an exciting preseason game.

WANT TO GO? $23.50 and up. 800-745-3000. nycblive.com.

Galactic Jump N Glow

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 13, 8pm WHERE: Bounce Trampoline Sports, 310 Michael Drive, Syosset AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Today’s greatest hits set the tone for a spectacular laser/black light show that transforms Bounce! into a glow-in-the-dark, laserpulsating extravaganza.

WANT TO GO? $22 per hour. 516-762-1300. bouncesyosset.com.

Gaga

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 18, 4-6pm WHERE: Seaford American Legion, 1132 Penatiquit Ave., Seaford AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Gaga is a fun hand-eye coordination game that promises high energy, good exercise, a great time.

WANT TO GO? $20; $5 each sibling. southshorerecreation.com.

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WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 25, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Enjoy creative movement exercises and interactive sing-alongs that get little bodies moving to the rhythm.

WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Yoga in the Gardens

WHEN: Through Oct. 28: Thursdays and Saturdays, 11:15am WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Professional Kripalu Yoga instructor, Lorili Henry, will lead students through a gentle, continuous flow of postures and conscious breathing.

WANT TO GO? $18. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Mommy & Me Tot Shabbat

WHEN: Oct. 20-Dec. 15, Fridays, 11:15am-12pm WHERE: Chabad of Port Washington, 80 Shore Road, Port Washington AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Each session includes music and movement, Challah-braiding, and tons of fun.

WANT TO GO? $18. 516-767-8672. chabadpw.org.

Coming up next month: SELECT DATES NOV. 15-26: Disney On Ice Presents Dare To Dream at NYCB Live, home of the Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum Presented By New York Community Bank, Uniondale NOV. 25: Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer: The Musical at Tilles Center, Brookville NOV. 25: The Great Turkey Chase at Broadhollow at Elmont, Elmont

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Pick Your Own Pumpkins ››

Research by Lindsay Roussin

You can paint them, carve them, bake with them, and decorate with them! This fall, get out and pick your own pumpkins, then playfully master them into crafts or treats! Many pumpkin patches offer fun autumn activities, such as hayrides, corn mazes, and farm stands with fresh fruits, vegetables, and delicious pastries. Spooky or silly, picking your own pumpkin is definitely one thing: fun for the whole family.

As always, confirm details ahead of time.

Albert H. Schmitt Family Farms 6 Bagatelle Road, Dix Hills 631-549-1159; schmittsfamilyfarms.com Pick your own pumpkins Sept. 16 through October, daily, 9am-6pm. Fall festival featuring hayrides and a haunted maze on weekends, as well as a train ride, John Deere trike play area, duck races, and fire truck slides. Fall decorations for sale, as well as roasted corn, fresh baked pies, candy apples, mums, and ornamental kale.

Benner’s Farm 56 Gnarled Hollow Road, East Setauket 631-689-8172; bennersfarm.com Pick your own pumpkins through October, weekends, 12-4pm. Hayrides (including a haunted hayride), Big Swing, and farm animals. Select Saturdays and Sundays feature special guests, and Sundays feature live music. Admission: $8; $6 children (includes corn and hayrides). Harvest Festival: Oct. 9, 12-4pm.

Borellas Farm Stand 485 Edgewood Ave., Saint James 631-862-7330; borellasfarmstand.com U-pick pumpkins starting Sept. 30, weekends, 11am-5pm. Hayrides, snacks,

corn maze, live music, and other activities.

Farm stand with homegrown fruits and vegetables. Free parking. Free admission for children younger than 3. Live music and tasting room available on weekends (Saturdays, 12-7pm; Sundays, 12-6pm).

Brightwaters Farms & Nursery 1624 Manatuck Blvd., Bay Shore 631-665-5411; brightwatersfarms.com U-pick pumpkins through Oct. 30, daily, 9am-5pm. Hayrides, inflatable rides, and a farm store with novelty decorations, apples, candy apples, and full concession stand on weekends only. Admission is charged on weekends and Columbus Day, and includes face painting, clown entertainment, animal viewing, and unlimited hay rides. The Fall Festival starts Sept. 24 with pumpkin fields, a beer festival, and live music.

F&W Schmitt’s Family Farm 26 Pinelawn Road, Melville 631-271-3276; schmittfarms.com Pick your own pumpkins and fall vegetables through October, daily, 9am5pm. Free hayrides. Seven-acre corn maze with admission. Country store on premises. Weekend and Columbus Day

activities include inflatable rides and food concessions. Haunted corn maze and haunted mansion Friday-Sunday through October.

Fairview Farm 69 Horsemill Lane, Bridgehampton (GPS: 69 Horsemill Road, Watermill) 631-537-6154; fairviewfarmatmecox.com Pick your own pumpkins, gourds, and squash through the second week of November, Thursday-Sunday, plus Monday holidays, 10am-6pm. Eight-acre corn maze. Admission: $12; $10 children ages 4-11; free for children younger than 4.

Greenland Family Farms 17155 County Road 48, Cutchogue 631-734-5791; greenlandfamilyfarms.com Pumpkin picking throughout October, daily, 9am-5pm. Hayrides by appointment only. Fall decorations, kites, statues, trees, bushes, and perennials for sale.

Harbes Family Farm 715 Sound Ave. Mattituck 631-298-0800; harbesfamilyfarm.com U-pick pumpkins through Nov. 1, 9am6pm. Apple picking on weekends (and Columbus Day), 9am-6pm. Hayrides weekends only, corn maze, pony rides, farm animals, and snacks available. Fall decorations for sale. Restrooms on-site.

Hank’s Pumpkintown 240 Montauk Highway, Watermill 631-726-4667; hankspumpkintown.com U-pick pumpkins and apples through October, daily, 9:30am-6pm. Three corn mazes, wagon rides, tractor rides, pedal cart racetrack, and more. New attractions include a giant chair for family photos, a wooden dairy barn play structure, and tractor seesaws. Maze Park and apple orchard are only open on weekends and school holidays. Admission to Maze Park: $13.

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Haunted Houses, Corn Mazes, and Pumpkin Activities ››

Research by Melissa Wickes

Tom Nycz/Historic Hudson Valley

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Whether you’re looking for something spooky or just outdoor fall fun this Halloween season, these haunted houses, corn mazes, pumpkin blazes, and autumn activities are sure to make this Halloween one to remember.

The Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze features more than 7,000 illuminated jack-o’-lanterns at Van Cortlandt Manor in Croton-on-Hudson.

Bayville Scream Park 8 Bayville Ave., Bayville 516-624-7433; bayvillescreampark.com Amusement park enthusiasts will want to take advantage of unlimited one- and twoday passes to the scream park, featuring tamer versions of the park’s nighttime haunted houses. Other fun activities include the tombstone treasure hunt, storytelling, and Halloween arts and crafts.

Returning for its sixth year at Old Westbury Gardens, this event features more than 5,000 hand-carved glowing pumpkins and live celebrity carving artists.

Follow the 1/3-mile-long jack-o’-lantern walking trail made extra festive with an original Halloween-themed musical score.

Look out for a 50-foot dragon comprised entirely of pumpkins, plus safari-themed creations at this year’s event.

Pumpkin Park at Adventureland 2245 Broad Hollow Road (Route 110), Farmingdale 631-694-6868; adventureland.us Sick of haunted houses? Visit Pumpkin Park Oct. 21-22 for haunted train rides instead: one for children of all ages, and a scarier version for teens and adults. In lieu of admission, this attraction accepts food, personal care items, and/or pet food donations to Helping Hands Foundation. Bonus: Your kids can enjoy free trick-or-treating in the park, and unlimited admission bracelets to use on other rides during the day.

Wantagh Halloween Haunted House 1632 Wantagh Ave., Wantagh 516-804-9047 In lieu of admission, this haunted house accepts food, personal care items, and/or pet food donations to Long Island Cares.

Come in costume for the haunted house; stay for the Halloween party and spook walk on haunted trails.

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Suffolk County Chamber of Horrors 1745 Express Drive N., Hauppauge 855-227-6384; chamberofhorrorsny.com Great for groups (you can buy tickets in advance for specific dates and times) and younger children: This haunted house offers family days, when costumed guides

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provide tours of the house with the lights on and without spooky noises. Bring your camera for a memorable post-tour photo with your guide!

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Experts discuss how parents can establish skills from a young age to ensure kids will know how to handle their money. By Samantha Neudorf

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hough teenagers may be successfully juggling AP classes, extracurricular activities, and standardized tests, they are failing at a vital subject necessary for life: financial literacy.

A study released by the Program for International Student Assessment in May found that 1 in 5 teenagers in the U.S. lacks basic financial literacy skills, which is approximately 22 percent of the country’s teenage population. PISA surveyed 15-year-olds from 15 countries to test how well they understand financial concepts, products, and risks, and the U.S. ranked seventh overall, while China secured first place, followed by Belgium and Canada.

Unfortunately, financial literacy skills are often not taught at school, so it is up to parents to equip their children with the knowledge and tools to be able to manage their money wisely. These conversations should not just take place during high school either. Experts say financial literacy skills should be instilled from a young age—even as young as 3. Here, financial experts share their strategies for teaching kids money skills for life.

Ages 3-6

Learn your 1, 2, 3s. Your child may learn how to count by the time she is 3 years old and start to grasp the idea that you need money to pay for items while shopping. Jean Chatzky, financial editor of NBC’s Today Show, says she had discussions about money with her kids when they were young. For example, she explained that one particular brand of orange juice was cheaper than another, so that’s why she bought it. “It’s 44

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just a running dialogue where you talk about money,” Chatzky says.

In learning that you need money to buy goods, this might also be the age your child understands how to count coins and dollars and may even begin to receive an allowance for doing chores.

Elementary School

Give cash rewards for chores. When your child reaches elementary school, he may begin to take on more chores, such as folding laundry and putting it away or feeding a pet, and receive an allowance in cash to be able to see money as a tangible asset. This is a fundamental way to teach him how to earn and save money, and he will be able to physically see and count his cash. Chatzky recommends having two different jars: one for saving and one for spending money. (Some experts recommend adding a third jar, for money to be given to charity.) “So much of our money these days is invisible with Venmo and direct deposit,” Chatzky says. “It’s important that kids actually see and use money before transitioning into electronic spending.”

Differentiate between credit and debit cards. Though it may seem kids are too young to learn this, it is an opportune time to teach them the difference between credit and debit cards. Gregg Murset is the founder of BusyKid.com—an app to keep track of your child’s chores and allowance—and a certified financial planner based in Arizona. He says parents can create a teachable

moment while waiting in line at a grocery store to compare the two types of cards. “That’s an easy way to teach them, and your cards are right there in your wallet,” Murset says.

Open a savings account for your child, and have her go with you to learn how to deposit money into the account. Roy Paul, executive director of Cents Ability—a New York City-based nonprofit dedicated to teaching students from low-income families financial literacy—expressed the importance of teaching kids how to save allowance. “It really helps them understand how to take that money and put it into an institution that will protect it,” Paul says. “That’s also a good time to explain how interest works, and that when you put this money into an account, it will grow over a period of time.”

Middle School

Get them involved. Middle school is the time when your child can learn about the value of real world items, such as the property value of your house and how much bills cost. This is also the age when he might receive his first debit card and learn how to deposit and withdraw money.

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Talk about saving for college. If your child wants to go to college, it is important for her to understand how expensive tuition will be and that saving for it should start now. “A lot of kids, poor and wealthy, do not really have an understanding of how you pay for college, from the savings that happens on the parents’ ends to taking out loans and borrowing money,” Paul says. This is also a good opportunity to talk to your child about loans—that they’re not free money and they have to be paid back with an interest rate.

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Have them start “adulting.” High school students will soon enough become full-fledged adults and should begin taking on more responsibilities. Many high school-aged kids may get their licenses, so this can be an opportunity to send them out to run errands at the grocery store, or even have them pay for gas or oil changes to get the experience of making everyday transactions independently.

Think about the big picture. Paul shared that Cents Ability teaches kids a 50-30-20 rule to manage their money. From each paycheck, 50 percent of it should go to absolute needs such as bills, rent, car insurance, etc.; 30 percent can go to miscellaneous items such as a vacation or clothes; and 20 percent should be saved in a bank account.

Make an investment. Stocks are an equity investment, and when you invest in one, there is a chance that it will yield a higher return over time. Murset advises teens buy stocks as a first step in learning how to invest money, even if it is just $20. “The best learning is done by doing,” Murset says, “Just jump in and buy some [stocks] and start watching them grow.”

Speak with a professional together. It’s okay to ask for help when you do not know the answer to your child’s question. Paul recalls a time when his mother set up an appointment for the two of them to speak with her tax accountant to learn about interest rates for college. “If parents do not know the answers to these questions, they should not feel embarrassed about it,” Paul says.

“If you have someone who does your taxes every year, ask them to take a few extra minutes to explain these concepts to your kids. Most of them are happy to do it.”

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Photos of Aaron Follman and his mom, Stacey Follman, from his too-short life. Aaron died from a genetic disorder days shy of his 8-month birthday.

An Unimaginable Tragedy

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Though local infant mortality rates are lower than the national average, more babies die in their first year than most of us expect. Here’s a look at this tragedy and what parents can do to reduce the risk. By Stacey Pfeffer

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tacey Follman, a Westchester mom, had a healthy pregnancy, with everything progressing normally and as she and her doctors expected. But when her son Aaron Ross Follman was born on May 21, 2002, and taken to the neonatal intensive care unit immediately, she knew something obviously was wrong. Aaron had a seizure shortly after delivery and hardly moved or cried. It took the doctors 10 days to figure out he suffered from a rare congenital disorder called Zellweger Syndrome. The doctors expected Aaron to have a life expectancy of about 12 months. He died just a few days short of his 8-month birthday on Jan. 16, 2003.

Nothing can prepare parents for losing a baby. Follman believed Aaron would live longer despite being told he probably would die within a year. “We were buying him new pajamas because he was growing,” she says. “We had faith that he was going to live until the day he died.”

It’s a heartbreak that will never go away. Most parents thankfully do not have to face the horrors of losing a baby, and it’s difficult to imagine the pain endured by that small minority of parents who, like Follman, never see their babies make it to their 1st birthday.

Despite its advanced health care system, America still lags behind other industrialized nations in its infant mortality rate (IMR), which is defined as “the death of a child under the age of 1— 46

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from birth through 364 days,” explains Deborah E. Campbell, M.D., the director of neonatology at The Children’s Hospital at Montefiore in the Bronx. The reasons for this are complicated and varied, and with October designated as Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, it’s a moment to try to understand why some babies die in the first year, how our area compares to the nation as a whole, and what parents can do to minimize the risk.

Understanding the Statistics

Experts break down the IMR into two categories: neonatal mortality, which occurs the first 28 days after birth, and post-neonatal mortality (29-364 days). “Most infant deaths take place in the neonatal period,” says Dr. Campbell, who lost a baby herself many years ago.

The IMR does not include miscarriages or stillbirths.

Although the U.S. is a developed nation, 25 other industrialized nations do a better job at keeping babies alive in the first year of life. While these statistics are startling for expectant parents, the relatively good news for New Yorkers is the IMR in New York City and the surrounding areas is at a historic low. In 2013, the most recent year IMR statistics are available, our area’s IMR averaged nearly 30 percent lower than the overall U.S. rate of 6 deaths per 1,000 live births (see sidebar on p. 48 for details).

The three leading causes of infant death in our region were prematurity, birth defects or congenital diseases—such as Aaron’s Zellweger Syndrome—and cardiovascular disease. Other infant death causes include babies born to a mother with an underlying medical condition and babies who die from sudden infant death syndrome or accidental suffocation while sleeping, usually with other family members, Dr. Campbell explains.

Disparities in Infant Death Rates

Infant death rates vary greatly depending on the mother’s race and ethnicity. The infant mortality rate for African-American infants in the metropolitan area was 8.3 per 1,000 births versus a rate of 3.0 among white infants in 2013. Infant mortality rates were also higher for Puerto Ricans (4.8) and other Hispanics and Latinas (4.3). Infant mortality rates likewise differ by socioeconomic status, with high-poverty areas such as the South Bronx reporting 1.9 times greater rates—5.2 per 1,000 live births compared to 2.8 in higher-income places such as the Upper East Side or Scarsdale.

Dr. Campbell notes that years ago certain areas of Brooklyn had a much higher IMR but with gentrification those numbers have been dropping significantly.

David Bateman, M.D., an attending neonatologist and professor of pediatrics at Columbia University Medical Center, has been treating newborns for more than four decades. In the 1980s, he practiced at Harlem Hospital and witnessed firsthand how the trifecta of AIDS, crack, and syphilis in Harlem was wreaking havoc on the IMR rates in that neighborhood. “In the past 30 years, IMR in New York City has had a threefold drop,” Dr. Bateman says. “You can look at changes in medical care, you can look at access to medical care, but it is all about poverty and the changing demographics of NYC. Our IMR

has been dropping because you don’t have the same concentration of desperately poor people in NYC that you used to.”

IMR tends to drop as doctors discover new ways to save infants’ lives, such as the increased availability of clean water in the first half of the 20th century and the advent of neonatal intensive care units in the 1960s and early ’70s. However, Dr. Bateman cautions, “until the social and economic problems are taken care of, the problem of high IMR is not going to go away.”

There have been many studies looking at the inequity of health care delivery and how that correlates with infant mortality. “There are still women who get late or no prenatal care or have trouble accessing prenatal care, particularly minority women,” Dr. Campbell says. While the teen pregnancy rate has dropped almost 50 percent in recent years, babies born to women younger than 20 have higher infant mortality rates and their mothers are less likely to have had prenatal care. On the flip side, many studies have shown that women with advanced maternal age (defined by doctors as older than 35) also have babies who are at a higher risk of infant mortality.

Other factors also play a role. Babies born to obese mothers, for instance, face higher infant mortality rates, as obesity can lead to health problems in the mother such as hypertensive disorders or preeclampsia, putting her baby at a higher risk of complications for pre-term or low birth weight. And some experts believe assisted reproductive technology may play a role in infant mortality, especially when several embryos have been implanted, Dr. Campbell says.

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with getting prenatal care; moms who do not receive prenatal care have babies that are at a higher risk of infant mortality. Doctors prescribe prenatal vitamins, recommend exercises and offer instruction on healthy pregnancy diets, and monitor the mom and baby to help ensure a successful pregnancy, delivery, and infancy.

In addition, tests during the prenatal period can pinpoint a fetus’ growth and show if there are any genetic defects or other problems in utero. Doctors are regularly developing more advanced tests that can screen for a multitude of genetic disorders. When Aaron Follman was born 15 years ago, there were no genetic tests for his disease, but today, with the help of genetic counseling, expectant parents can now test for that and many other congenital diseases.

Armed with this information, doctors can sometimes perform interventions in utero or soon after birth to help the baby, while parents can make informed decisions about whether to continue the pregnancy or how to care for the baby after birth.

As terrifying as it is to prepare for the worst, expectant parents should learn about the differences in NICUs and what types of services are offered at different hospitals in the area. NICUs are rated on levels from 1-4, with Level 1 offering basic newborn care for healthy infants and Level 2 offering advanced newborn care for babies born at 32 weeks or more or those recovering from more serious conditions. Levels 3 and 4 are for the most complex cases, with Level 3 providing care for babies born at less than 32 weeks who may require access to pediatric sub-specialists or babies who are born with critical illnesses. Level 4 NICUs provide the most acute care. These nurseries are located in hospitals that can provide surgical repair of complex congenital or acquired conditions. If the delivery is expected to be complicated or the baby is determined to be high-risk, having access to a level 3 or 4 NICU is key.

Once a baby is born, doctors obviously do everything they can to keep her healthy, and a lot of medical research focuses on keeping babies alive in this neonatal period. Parents can also take steps to maintain their baby’s overall health, including getting children immunized on schedule, experts say.

Ensuring a safe sleep environment is also essential, as many babies die during their first year because of SIDS or suffocation while sleeping. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends parents follow the ABCs of safe sleep: Alone, On Back, In a Crib.

That translates to having babies share a room with their parents if possible, but not in the same bed. And babies should always be put to sleep on their backs.

‘I Don’t Want Aaron to be Forgotten’

For those who have endured the loss of a baby, the grieving process varies from individual to individual. Family, friends, and community members are left to try to offer some comfort to those parents; however, even the best-intentioned efforts can sometimes cause the mourning parents pain and leave them feeling lonely.

“Our society is very uncomfortable with baby loss, so people express their sympathy with platitudes such as, ‘You are young, you can have another kid,’ which really minimizes the loss,” says Marianne Walsh, a grief counselor at the Maggie Rose Perinatal Bereavement Program at Northern Westchester Hospital in Mount Kisco. Dr. Campbell echoes that sentiment, saying she often hears people say to the parents, “At least the baby didn’t live long—you didn’t have time to get too attached.”

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baby, which often happens by memorializing their lost loved one, whether it be through a ritual or by joining or starting a group.

Follman decided to take that last route after Aaron died. To raise awareness of the disease that killed him, she created a nonprofit called the Aaron Ross Foundation (zellweger-syndrome.org).

“I want people to know about Zellweger Syndrome and I want Aaron’s name to live on and for our nonprofit to outlive me,” Follman says. “I don’t want Aaron to be forgotten.”

The process of memorializing or honoring a deceased baby has changed dramatically during recent years with the help of social media and groups such as Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep, a nonprofit that provides professional-quality photographers free of charge to grieving parents to take photos of their child prior to the funeral. This remembrance photography can be a very powerful part of the healing process for grieving parents.

The grieving process is not a linear progression, Walsh says, and the needs of the bereaved parents will fluctuate over time. “I often use the analogy of a roller coaster. After a while it [the grief] becomes like a kiddie roller coaster; the highs aren’t so high and the lows aren’t so low.” It is impossible to predict the duration of grieving from person to person. “Bereavement groups provide wrap-around support because when a baby dies the world stops for these families,” Walsh says.

Follman says she found it very difficult to be in a bereavement group with other parents who had lost older children. For her and her husband, individual counseling was a better option, and the doctors at Mount Sinai Hospital, where she delivered, were able to put them in touch with other couples who had babies with ZS. “They were the only ones who truly understood us,” she says.

After Aaron died, Follman says she felt very selfish for a long time. Despite knowing that Aaron had no quality of life, she wondered if she did the right thing by signing a “do not resuscitate” order. “In hindsight, I know I gave everything to my child. His whole life he knew people loved him,” she now says.

Dr. Campbell says many parents drift in and out of support groups, often showing an elevated need for help around birthdays, the anniversary of their due dates, or family holidays. “After the funeral, everyone is around but then the world wants everything to go back to normal,” she says. “People are worried to talk to the mother about it because they don’t want her to dwell on the death. But as a mother, you are going to think about that loss every single day. And then there comes a day that you don’t think about it and then you realize you are more upset, so you beat yourself up that you forgot about your baby.”

No matter how short a life the child lived, that time was still important and marks the life of a human being. “Having lost a child, even if it was a newborn or baby, still means you are a parent,” Dr. Campbell says. “You may not have that child with you physically in your arms anymore but you are still a parent and that child will always be in your head and in your heart.”

Stacey Pfeffer is a writer based in Chappaqua.

Local Infant Mortality Rates The following are IMR expressed per 1,000 live births in 2013, the most recent year statistics are available: Bronx: 5.1 Brooklyn: 3.6 Manhattan: 3.7 Nassau: 4.0 Queens: 4.2

Rockland County: 4.4 Staten Island: 3.8 Suffolk: 4.8 Westchester County: 4.7 United States overall: 6.0

Sources: NYC Department of Health; March of Dimes Perinatal Stats; health.ny.gov

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Conquering Bake Sales

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Gluten-free, nut-free, vegan—with variety of dietary needs becoming more common, baking treats for your kid’s class can be a minefield. Here’s how to win the battle. By April Peveteaux

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t’s hard enough to prepare food for your own family with all of their “I can’t eat anything with green stuff on it,” and “Oh, I didn’t tell you? I’m a ‘porkaterian’ now” bulls**t. Add in a few other kids to the mix, and it’s downright terrifying. So, it makes sense to just forget about this whole baking for others thing and move on. I get it.

If you’re like me, you mostly ignore any and all emails that come from your child’s school for this reason, and many other good ones. You can only read about the latest pinkeye breakout so many times before you embrace the philosophy of, “Let Go and Let God.” And this is how I have mostly avoided providing baked goods for five-plus years of elementary school events! Apparently, God doesn’t want me baking for kindergarteners. Understood.

But I did reconsider my no-baking policy once I learned about a newly diagnosed celiac in our community. I realized that if I didn’t provide some gluten-free chocolate chip cookies, no one would.

Except for his parents, of course, but they were probably too busy freaking out about letting their little dude eat in public, much less trying to find a great gluten-free, nut-free, kosher recipe for shortbread.

As I began to hear about more and more kids with food allergies and intolerances, I knew that a bake sale without options would be a very sad bake sale, indeed. All of a sudden, I wasn’t the only one walking by the rows of bento box-shaped cookies and luscious pieces of chocolate cake, crying because I would never know the feel of a pecan tart pie crust crunching all around my mouth ever again. The exclusive bake sale treats were no longer only upsetting to me—an adult who, in theory, can tolerate the pain of flaky pastry denial. I knew at that point that I must think about the children. THE CHILDREN!!!! Of course, I also wanted to eat a lemon bar that wouldn’t make me poop my pants, but if I lost control of my bowels, at least it wouldn’t be in front of a group of 8-year-old boys during gym class. Probably. From that point on, I vowed to re-create allergy-friendly treats to offer up 50

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whenever I was called upon to do so. This, my friends, is easier said than done. That doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t do it, though.

How to Not Screw Up

There are many ways to screw up in the kitchen, and, believe me, I’ve done most of them. We’re still trying to get that chocolate-barbecue sauce off my kitchen ceiling. It becomes very crucial to avoid screwing up, however, when you’re handling food for kids who could react badly to an allergen. Crucial. While you’re preparing these allergy-free recipes, please keep the following in mind.

Wrap It for Safety You must prepare allergy-free food on clean surfaces and in clean pots, pans, and baking sheets. You absolutely cannot boil some gluten-free pasta for your mac and cheese in the same pot you just used to boil up your gluten-filled pasta. You cannot bake an egg- and dairy-free cookie on a sheet that has been habitually used to bake cookies chock-full of eggs and dairy without covering it with parchment or scrubbing it so hard you probably scrub off the nonstick surface. You can scrub pots and pans within an inch of their lives, but if they have even a crumb of allergen left over, it’s possible it will stick on your nice, allergy-free dough. You also cannot bake nutfilled cookies on the same sheet as their nutless brothers and sisters.

This may sound like a pain, so I have two words that will make it much easier to keep things clean and separate: aluminum foil. Oh, and two more: parchment paper.

Before you bake, cover your bakeware with aluminum foil, or parchment paper for the cookies that stick. Before you grill, place aluminum foil down on the grill that will hold your allergy-free options. If you don’t have a cutting board, or very clean surface to prepare your safe food, put down aluminum foil or parchment pa-

Chia Seeds: Chia seeds work in the same manner as flaxseeds, and are truly gelatinous. My only issue is if you’re creating something light in color, you can get a little black spot action in the final No Holding Hands or PDA product. Both work well, so go with what you like.

When you’re preparing food, keep the allergens far away from the Follow Your Heart VeganEgg: What’s great about this all allerallergen-free ingredients. If they get mixed up, your allergen-free gen-free product is that you can even cook this up and make an omdish is toast. Don’t use the same cutting board for fish that you do elet if you’ve been craving one since you had to go egg-free. for chicken, if you have a fish-allergic guest. Also, don’t think fish Baking Soda and Vinegar: I’ve used the baking-soda-and-vinegar is a great ingredient for a school bake sale or a 6-year-old birthday combo in a pinch and, while it didn’t seem to work as well as the magic party. That’s a mistake you’ll only make once. flax meal, it’s definitely serviceable in your baked goods. Combine 1 Additionally, don’t let all this hard work keeping surfaces bleached teaspoon of baking soda and 1 tablespoon of vinegar (watch, as it will and ingredients separate go to waste by serving up all of your safe food bubble up), allow to dissolve, and you have a substitute for 1 egg. on a platter alongside the dangerous food. Continue to keep these foods separate, using separate cooking pots, pans, and sheets, as well Gluten Substitutes as separate utensils. Consciously uncouple the allergy-laden from the Cup4Cup: For baking, I’ve always loved Cup4Cup multi-purpose gluallergy-free foods to make sure that the end result is safe for all. ten-free flour, but it will not work as a flour in the dairy-free recipes, as Whew! That’s a lot, but if you remember to keep your allerone of the ingredients is milk powder. I also like to use all-purpose flours gy-safe treats safe from the first time you pick up the ingredients so I don’t have to experiment with xanthan gum or add anything else to until they are safely delivered to the sale, you’ll make a heck of a lot the mix. It makes it easier, and that makes me happier. of kiddos happy, as well as their very anxious parents. It’s like farm Better Batter: Luckily, my other favorite gluten-free, all-purpose to table, but without the hipster element. flour is dairy-free (and every other allergen-free, plus kosher), and it A much more exhaustive list of allergy-friendly products lives in also gives fantastic results. It’s become one of my go-tos now that I’m the resource section of [Bake Sales are My B*tch], but if you want experimenting with gluten- and dairy-free recipes, but it is sadly harder to get started baking right away, here are a few items to consider to find than many other popular brands. I recommend ordering online stocking in your pantry before you put on your allergen-free apron. and stocking up if you’re going to be the bake-sale queen.

(Okay, that’s not a real thing, so don’t panic. Any old apron withKing Arthur Gluten-Free All-Purpose: Another great glutenout clumps of food on it will do.) and dairy-free option, I also love to use King Arthur’s recipes. It’s a solid choice, and I almost always have a box in my cupboard.

Butter Substitutes Almond Meal: Only if you know there are no nut allergies Earth Balance: This vegan butter alternative comes in many forms, around, almond meal makes for some delicious cakes. The texture but you’ll most likely be picking up the baking sticks. If you’re is lovely and moist, and the slight nutty flavor can enhance any cake making a soy-free treat, do not buy the buttery baking sticks, but recipe. You do have to experiment with it, unlike the all-purpose instead pick up the soy-free version. flours above, but if you’re 100-percent sure that you don’t need to Nutiva Organic Vegan Superfood Shortening: This soy-free, keep it tree nut-free, have some fun with the almond flour family. dairy-free, gluten-free, GMO (genetically modified organism)-free, fair-trade product is a combination of red palm oil and virgin coco- Milk Substitutes nut oil. You can find a million different coconut oils on the market, The trouble with milk substitutes in baking is the lack of eight but Nutiva’s combination with palm oil makes it a better option for main allergen-free options if (and this is a pretty big if) you have a baking when you’re avoiding the eight main allergens. coconut problem. While rice milk fits the bill, it is not as rich and Crisco Vegetable Shortening, Butter Flavor: I grew up using Crisco appropriate for baking as coconut milk cream and coconut milk butter flavor in so many family recipes that I naturally tried it first when I are. Soy milk and nut milks are also great substitutes, but have the went about experimenting with dairy-free baked goods. While my fam- obvious problem of being in the eight main allergen family. ily probably used Crisco as a butter substitute for completely different, I generally recommend coconut cream and coconut milk regardless, now-defunct reasons (it was the 1980s, and butter was the enemy), it as a coconut allergy as part of a tree-nut allergy is so incredibly rare. And does hold up in recipes pretty well. Crisco contains soy, along with artiwhen it comes to baked goods, coconut milk does have the best result ficial flavors, so if you’re not on board with either of those, you should in a recipe. Still, be sure you know the specifics of any allergies kids may probably try Spectrum organic all-vegetable shortening. The main ingre- have before you start to mix up your eight main allergen-free brownies. dient in both vegetable shortening brands is also palm oil.

One more note for the bake-sale bakers: If you’re preparing food for a party, bake sale, or anywhere that you will be dropping off Egg Substitutes and not sticking around to explain what’s up with your cookies, Ener-G Egg Replacer: The OG of egg replacement, Ener-G has label your treats. Let the dairy-free know if something is safe to been helping out egg-free bakers for a very long time. If you’re eat by being very clear with your packaging. After all, what’s the going to be baking egg-free a lot, I would suggest grabbing a box point of making allergy-friendly treats if no one knows about it? and going to town. Since it’s also eight main allergen-free, it’s a (Note to parents of the severely allergic: You still don’t want to risk good substitute for the kids. homemade treats from someone’s kitchen unless you’ve had a very Golden Flax Meal: Flax meal has become my go-to for baking detailed convo and know without a doubt that they’re safe for your without eggs. You combine 1 tablespoon of flax meal with 3 tablekiddo. But you knew that already, I’m sure.) spoons of water per egg called for in the recipe. The key is in letting it Now, stock up on your cellophane and decorative twine...it’s sit for a little while before you use it. (I say at least 10 minutes, but if bake sale time! you have a half-hour to wait, do that for optimum egglike properties.)

You can either buy the golden flaxseeds and grind them in a coffee Reprinted from Bake Sales are My B*tch by April Peveteaux.

Copyright (c) 2016 by April Peveteaux. By permission of grinder when you’re ready to use them, or buy the meal and keep it Rodale Books. Available wherever books are sold. sealed up tight so it will retain its freshness. per. Your new best friend is aluminum foil. Get to know him, along with his BFF, parchment paper.

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THE FOOD WIZARD FOR KIDS Serving all of Long Island 631-606-2680 thefoodwizardforkids.com info@thefoodwizardforkids.com Try a healthy twist on birthday parties!

The Food Wizard for Kids provides birthday party workshops for younger children. Kids discover new foods through fun activities including taste tests and art projects.

GAMETRUCK LONG ISLAND 917-327-8700 gametruck.com david.schwartz@gametruck.com Video Game Party, laser tag arena, inflatables, or bubble soccer—GameTruck’s unique mobile video gaming theaters and arenas can make your ultimate party wishes come true!

MAD SCIENCE OF LONG ISLAND Call for locations throughout Long Island: 855-264-1672 madscienceli.com info@madscienceli.com A Mad Scientist brings all the necessary equipment to you. Party packages include invitations and a take-home activity each child makes. Optional grand finales include Bubbling Potions, Rockets, Cotton Candy, and more.

ROYAL EVENTS PRINCESS PARTIES INC. 516-729-4970 royaleventsli.com royal.events@aol.com Thank you for considering Royal Events!

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PARTY PLACES ART BUZZ KIDS 35 Jackson Ave., Syosset 516-802-4954 syosset@wineanddesign.com 21 N. Village Ave., Rockville Centre 516-442-0330 rvc.ny@wineanddesign.com wineanddesign.com Spark your child’s creativity and imagination! Art Buzz Kids offers family-friendly painting and craft classes for children of all ages. Our birthday party themes are designed to inspire and excite all children. @ PLAY AMUSEMENTS 229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com Have your next party at the newly renovated @ Play Amusements! It offers 30,000 square feet of fun including 92 arcade games, inflatables, bumper cars, roller coaster, a carousel, disco room, and laser tag!

BOUNCEU FARMINGDALE 101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com BounceU Farmingdale was voted “Best of Long Island” for Children’s Party Place and Family Amusement Center. We provide the ideal combination of inflatable structures, a clean environment, incredible customer service, and non-stop excitement in a private party atmosphere.

CELEBRATIONS IN THE KITCHEN 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event! We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy, including cookie baking and decorating, cupcakes “from scratch,” muffin and scone baking, and brownies. Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen. com for more information on parties.

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cshfha.org steved@cshfishhatchery.org Celebrate your child’s next birthday at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium! See the hatchery and aquarium’s exciting live exhibits. Feed the hungry trout and learn about fish, reptiles, and amphibians with an upclose animal encounter.

FABULOSITY AT THE TODDLEWOOD STUDIOS 818 Merrick Road, Baldwin 646-596-4227 toddlewoodparties.com parties@toddlewood.com Welcome to Toddlewood! This high-end fashion photo studio has a large hair and makeup station, nail station, arts and crafts, dancing, music, and the best professional photography session for your next top model birthday girl and her friends.

THE FASHION CLASS 1812 Merrick Road, Merrick 516-246-2000 thefashionclass.com Learn from real fashion designers with a runway or sewing party this year in our 3000-square-foot, bright, sunny, and pink fashion studio! Guests can choose from a variety of our most popular sewing projects, or put on a full runway show!

GREAT PLAY OF SYOSSET 180 Michael Drive, Syosset 516-364-1500 greatplay.com/syosset info@syosset.greatplay.com We offer customized parties for ages 1-10. Your guests will have a blast and your child will receive All-Star treatment in our amazing Interactive Gym™.

HUNTINGTON CENTER FOR PERFORMING ARTS 310 New York Ave., Huntington 631-271-4626 huntingtoncenteronline.com huntingtoncenter@yahoo.com Make your child’s birthday a memorable and creative event with our dancethemed birthday parties. As a special treat, a guest artist will come in costume to perform for your guests!

KEY TO MY ART INC. 10 W. Oak St., Amityville 631-608-9048 keytomyart.com At Key to My Art, our children’s paint

parties include all supplies from aprons to easels. The guest of honor picks the theme, we provide the instruction, and each guest leaves with a finished painting!

KIDZHITZ 304 Main St., Huntington 631-470-9788 kidzhitz.biz kidzhitz@gmail.com RockStar Parties at KIDZHITZ are like no other party. Children record their own song in our state-of-the-art recording studio, design their own CD cover, and perform for each other on our Main Street location stage.

THE LITTLE LADIES CLUB 246 W. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-939-CLUB (2582) thelittleladiesclub.com party@thelittleladiesclub.com The Little Ladies Club has been providing glamorous makeover parties for girls since 1998! Her Majesty will be sure to receive the royal treatment!

LONG ISLAND AQUARIUM & EXHIBITION CENTER 431 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-208-9200 xH20 (426) 631-208-9200 x186 longislandaquarium.com Have an Aquatic Birthday Party at the Long Island Aquarium! Take a private tour of the aquarium, receive preferential treatment at our Submarine Simulator and Discovery Tower rides, and special seating at our Sea Lion Show!

LONG ISLAND SPORTS COMPLEX 103 Mill Road, Freeport 516-546-0900 longislandsportscomplex.com Long Island Sports Complex is your field of dreams! Long Island’s state-of-theart, climate-controlled, indoor turf field.

Known to have the “greatest party on turf,” offering special sports or inflatable parties, and bubble soccer parties.

M.A.T.S.S. KID’S GYM & EARLY CHILDCARE EDUCATION CENTER A RAINBOW OF PROGRAMS UNDER ONE ROOF! 2629 Grand Ave., Bellmore 516-221-1330 171 Eileen Way, Syosset 516-496-7765 matsskidsgym.com

corporate@matsskidsgym.com M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym offers a rainbow of themes and activities that will make your child’s next birthday party the ultimate celebration of their special day!

open playtime and music or you can rent out our location. We provide themed paper goods.

MY GYM CHILDREN’S FITNESS CENTER 1320 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook 631-751-KIDS (5437) 128 W Jericho Turnpike, Huntington Station 631-427-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/huntingtonstation mgym.com/stonybrook My Gym parties include exclusive use of the gym, including a zip line, rock wall, trampoline, trapeze, climbing structures, and slides. Instructors lead your guests through action-packed activities with theme options including Superheroes, Princesses, Mickey Mouse—any theme you want.

NOT JUST ART 183 South St., Oyster Bay 516-922-8300 notjustart.com create@notjustart.com Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and beyond. Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard.

THINKERTOTS 1818 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park 516-488-3414 thinkertots.com thinkertotsnhp@gmail.com We can custom design your party with

UNLIMITED SPORTS ACTION 30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-767-7675 unlimitedsportsaction.com info@unlimitedsportsaction.com Unlimited Sports Action offers sports birthdays for ages 2 and older. Our parties offer 1 hour of sports and activities on a climatecontrolled turf field, followed by 30 minutes of food, drinks, and birthday cake in a private room.

THE VILLAGE ARTIST 630 New York Ave., Huntington 631-271-0715 thevillageartist.com lori@thevillageartist.com Create art for your next birthday party!

The Village Artist Fine Arts Center is proud to host your next birthday party.

Enjoy a fun and creative time with your family and friends including an art project of your choice.

WHAT’S COOKING? 30 E. Main St., Oyster Bay 516-922-COOK (2665) whatscookingny.com info@whatscookingny.com Martha Stewart, Newsday, and News 12 boast What’s Cooking? is a No. 1 Choice Birthday Party Place where children can explore their creativity in culinary arts.

Funtastic cookie, cupcake, Cupcake Wars, chocolate, or pizza party can be customized in our spacious party room making your party memorable!

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DOCTORS & MEDICAL PROVIDERS LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

RMG SPEECH PATHOLOGY RACHEAL MCINNES, M.A., C.C.C.-S.L.P., SPEECH-LANGUAGE PATHOLOGIST 775 Park Ave., Suite 255-4, Huntington 631-372-4142 rmgtherapy.com Racheal Gardega McInnes, speech-language pathologist, is founder of RMG Speech Pathology.

Treatment areas include expressive and receptive language disorders, articulation disorders, fluency, voice disorders, auditory processing disorders, and feeding and swallowing disorders.

EDUCATIONAL CONSULTANTS STRATEGIC STAFFING WORKS Brooklyn and Long Island locations 631-649-6573 strategicstaffingworks.com strategicstaffingworks@gmail.com Offers workshops designed to help parents, family, and friends aid people with diverse abilities in their search for volunteer opportunities related to their field of college interest.

FOOD & NUTRITION THE FOOD WIZARD FOR KIDS Serving all of Long Island 631-606-2680 thefoodwizardforkids.com info@thefoodwizardforkids.com Making food and nutrition fun for the whole family. Available for speaking engagements.

Also provides workshops for kids, family night dinners, and healthy weight counseling.

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LEGAL SERVICES LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW COHEN 250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com; ac@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen can help you achieve your objectives through careful special needs legal planning, regardless of the size of your estate. All clients are provided with high quality service at a reasonable cost.

LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C. 534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney.

He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law.

SPECIAL NEEDS DR. ELLEN T RICHER, EDUCATION CLINICIAN & COUNSELOR Convenient Long Island Locations 347-668-3676; etrdream@aol.com We co-develop strategies to improve executive functioning, sensory processing, and social cognition challenges, and provide enrichment opportunities to engage and motivate highly capable yet underachieving children.

LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C. 534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law.

LIFE’S WORC THE FAMILY CENTER FOR AUTISM 1501 Franklin Ave., Garden City 516-741-9000 familycenterforautism.org The Family Center for Autism provides services and support for people with autism and their families.

Programs include insurance services, birthday parties, art, music, sports and culinary classes, camps, parent and sibling programs, social events, vocational programs, and behavior intervention.

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LITTLE OPTICS INC. 192-07 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows, Queens 53-15 Roosevelt Ave., Woodside, Queens 718-468-7500 Hablamos Español littleopticsinc@yahoo.com We provide eyeglasses and professional eye care for children, including infants and young adults. We also alleviate any self-esteem issues associated with the stigma of wearing glasses.

When your child leaves Little Optics, rest assured that they will feel confident.

LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

RMG SPEECH PATHOLOGY RACHEAL MCINNES, M.A., C.C.C.-S.L.P., SPEECH-LANGUAGE PATHOLOGIST 775 Park Ave., Suite 255-4, Huntington 631-372-4142 rmgtherapy.com Racheal Gardega McInnes, speech-language pathologist, is founder of RMG Speech Pathology. Treatment areas include expressive and receptive language disorders, articulation disorders, fluency, voice disorders, auditory processing disorders, and feeding and swallowing disorders.

STEPS TO SOCIALIZATION 13 S. Bayles Ave., Port Washington 516-767-0266 Steps to Socialization was created to help children who have difficulty socializing. We teach children how to think socially, step by step. Working in small groups, we cover a variety of topics, including how to establish and maintain friendships and initiating and maintaining conversations.

SPECIAL NEEDS EMPLOYMENT STRATEGIC STAFFING WORKS Brooklyn and Long Island locations 631-649-6573 strategicstaffingworks.com strategicstaffingworks@gmail.com Offers workshops designed to help parents, family, and friends aid people with diverse abilities in their search for employment and life-fulfilling volunteer opportunities.

THERAPY & COUNSELORS LOUIS E. MORA, PH.D., PSYCHOLOGIST P.C. 70 Glen Cove Road, Suite 201, Roslyn Heights 347-740-5690 lmoraphd.com Dr. Mora specializes in psychological testing. This includes neuropsychological testing, giftedness examinations, and evaluating for the presence of psychological disorders.

DR. ELLEN T RICHER, EDUCATION CLINICIAN & COUNSELOR Convenient Long Island Locations 347-668-3676 etrdream@aol.com We co-develop strategies to improve executive functioning, sensory processing, and social cognition challenges, and provide enrichment opportunities to engage and motivate highly capable yet underachieving children.

TUTORS & TEST PREP EYE LEVEL Eye Level Hicksville 760 S. Broadway, Hicksville Jyoti Dhingra: 516-597 5300

or 888-835-1212 Eye Level Williston Park 61 Hillside Ave., Williston Park Alida Vucemilovich: 516-747-7700 or 888-835-1212 Eye Level New Hyde Park Coming soon!

Min Bittaf: 516-226-0323 or 888-835-1212 myeyelevel.com Eye Level offers math and English programs for ages 3-12. Whether the immediate goal is for early learning, remedial education, or academic education, Eye Level is the answer.

SYLVAN LEARNING CENTER OF HUNTINGTON 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 sylvanlearning.com sylvanlearning@optonline.net Sylvan of Huntington offers personalized tutoring programs in reading, writing, mathematics, and SAT and ACT prep. Sylvan will help identify the right program for your child and exactly where your child needs to start to get the best results.

VILLAGE EAST GIFTED: ENRICHMENT CENTER FOR THE GIFTED LEARNER Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted provides after-school enrichment and private tutoring. Enriching every qualified, gifted child. We are also a John Hopkins CTY info and SAT testing center.

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PROFESSIONAL To be in this section, call 516-883-4543 or email nympads@davlermedia.com ChiroMom 2874 Merrick Road, Bellmore 516-221-1212 mychiromom.com mychiromom@gmail.com

Dr. Dana Walters is a chiropractor specializing in prenatal and pediatric care. Dr. Walters has practiced in a variety of areas, including Manhattan’s Upper West Side, and has brought her passion for helping families discover the benefits of chiropractic care to Bellmore, as ChiroMom. ChiroMom offers chiropractic care utilizing techniques including immune boosting treatments, musculoskeletal and nutritional work, activator techniques, massage therapy, and lifestyle education. As a mom, Dr. Walters experiences first-hand how chiropractic care throughout pregnancy, birth, and childhood sets a solid foundation for greater health and well-being

Physical Therapy Options P.C. 226 Seventh St., Suite 101, Garden City 516-747-1520 ptoptions.com

Dr. Lisa Coors, P.T., D.P.T., is a physical therapist who provides PT services to pediatric and adult patients. PTO has recently expanded the practice to include CPSE. We offer pediatric services for a variety of conditions including Torticollis, gross motor delays, and toe walkers. The office is a friendly and warm environment.

Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 • Suffolk: 631-689-6858 • Queens: 718-640-6767

Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, is owner and operator of Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. Along with her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES—Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. There is a total of seven affiliated offices across Long Island, all participating with most major health insurance companies and offering evening and Saturday hours.

Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry 959 Brush Hollow Road, Suite #101, Westbury 516-333-3033 kidsteeth4li.com kidds@optonline.net

Tiny Sparkles Pediatric Dentistry 164 Main St., Port Washington 516-888-9789 tinysparkles.com

Dr. Michael Gruttadauria, The Center for Integrative and Innovative Therapies (The CIIT Center) 131 Sunnyside Blvd., Suite 100, Plainview 516-243-8660; theciitcenter.com

Merrick Pediatric Dentistry 1756A Merrick Ave., Merrick 516-547-1997 merrickpediatricdentistry.com

Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry cares for all of your child’s oral health needs in a fun, kid-friendly environment that includes iPads and chairside TV monitors. Drs. Ehrenman and Khan are dedicated and trained to ease dental anxieties for young children as well as patients with special needs. Their years of advanced training include hospital and sedation dentistry. Please visit kidsteeth4li.com to learn more about what Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry has to offer!

Dr. Michael Gruttadauria leads the operations at an advanced treatment center for autism spectrum disorder called The CIIT Center. The CIIT Center’s mission is to approach each child with autism as a total entity by enhancing the biomedical, neurological, nutritional, electrical, and immune system of each of our patients and combining this with occupational, physical, and speech therapies, along with applied behavioral analysis. Our comprehensive approach starts with identifying the underlying factors that may be holding the child back, not just treating their symptoms. This gives each child every opportunity to reach their potential.

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Dr. Angie Chin welcomes everyone to her new office in Port Washington. The office is modern and child-friendly with themed treatment rooms, iPads and games in the waiting room, movies and cartoons available during treatment, and digital animal X-rays. Dr. Chin’s practice philosophy is centered on promoting preventive care and helping parents and children develop a healthy and happy dental home. With her light-hearted approach and welcoming demeanor, kids of all ages have grown to truly love going to the dentist!

Dr. Rania Elbaz is a board-certified pediatric dentist. She earned her dental degree from Columbia University. She then completed her pediatric dental training at UMDNJ-New Jersey Dental School. Dr. Elbaz loves working with children and strives to create a warm and fun environment that children look forward to visiting. Dr. Elbaz sees every patient in order to ensure consistency that is so important to young children.

The office welcomes and gives extra time and attention to patients with special needs. The office also participates with most major insurance plans.

Allied Physicians Group Children’s Medical Group of Bayside and Plainview Thomas Capilupi, M.D. 26-11 Corporal Kennedy St., Bayside 718-224-6000 1171 Old Country Road, Suite 2A, Plainview 516-931-4343 childrensmedicalgroupny.com

Dr. Thomas Capilupi grew up in New York and attended Fordham University, graduating in 1983 with a B.S. He then went on to New York Medical College, graduating in 1987. Dr. Capilupi completed his internship and residency at North Shore University Hospital and has been practicing in Bayside and Plainview. He is a member of the Nassau Pediatric Society.

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Louis E. Mora, Ph.D., Psychologist P.C. 70 Glen Cove Road, Suite 201, Roslyn Heights 347-740-5690 lmoraphd.com

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Religious Schools Catholic Elementary Schools of Long Island Diocese of Rockville Centre

Multiple locations 516-678-5800 licatholicelementaryschools.org Long Island’s Catholic elementary schools are 43 unique and beautiful schools in Nassau and Suffolk counties. Academically, the expectations of each student are high and the historical performance has been exceptional. The schools are differentiated from their public counterparts by their integrated program of learning and living the Catholic faith and values. We help instill the moral values, self-respect, and study habits that go on to serve our students well as they continue their education, and for the rest of their lives.

Holy Family School

17 Fordham Ave., Hicksville 516-938-3846 x329 hfsli.org Making a difference one child at a time. Students come from 31 Catholic parishes, 34 Long Island school districts, to be a part of this one great school. Our nurturing yet challenging program educates the whole child, in mind, body, and spirit. At Holy Family each child is known by name and loved for his or her God-given talents.

Holy Family students share love, understanding, compassion, and kindness each school day. Fulland half-day nursery and pre-K, kindergarten through eighth grade, morning and after care, academic intervention and enrichment, after-school enrichment clubs. Call anytime for a tour.

Holy Trinity Diocesan High School

98 Cherry Lane, Hicksville 516-433-2900 x151 holytrinityhs.org jgovernale@holytrinityhs.org Holy Trinity High School is a private, coeducational Catholic high school founded in 1966 drawing students from Nassau, Suffolk, and Queens counties. We seek to educate the whole person— mind, heart, soul, and body—and to motivate all students in the pursuit of truth and academic excellence, preparing them for future educational opportunities and service to both the church

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Our Lady of Grace Montessori School

instruction, creates an environment dedicated to the future of intelligent, well-rounded Catholics. Cooperation and support among home, school, church, and community are the cornerstones for the excellent education that is provided at OLV School.

29 Shelter Rock Road, Manhasset 516-365-9832 olgmanhasset.com sister.kelly@olgmanhasset.com Our Lady of Grace is committed to providing an atmosphere that is conducive to spiritual and educational growth. The school strives to foster and maintain an educational experience for children from nursery to third grade, inspiring them to pursue lifelong learning. The school has offered high quality education for 50 years and is rooted in the core values of love, spirituality, respect, community, and beauty. Our teachers recognize that children learn in different ways and accommodate all learning styles.

Saint Aidan School

Our Lady of Mercy

St. Christopher School

520 S. Oyster Bay Road, Hicksville 516-433-7040 olmshicks.org Our Lady of Mercy School strives in the spirit of service and love to inspire our students to grow spiritually, academically, and socially.

Our goal is to enable all students to meet the challenges of the future through a strong faith-based academic program enhanced by extracurricular activities. A variety of early childhood classes, fullday kindergarten through eighth grade, before- and after-care programs are available. Weekday, evening, and weekend tours are available by appointment.

Our Lady of Victory

2 Bellmore St., Floral Park 516-352-4466 olvfp.org Our Lady of Victory School seeks to ensure that the Catholic faith within each of our students becomes alive and active through the light of instruction. Our school fittingly adjusts itself to the circumstances of advancing times while remaining true to our beliefs. Staying current on the latest technology, while being steadfast in providing excellent, faith-based

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510/525 Willis Ave., Williston Park 516-746-6585 x9202 or x9302 staidanschool.org Saint Aidan School, in partnership with the home and parish, commits itself to nurturing students’ lifelong faith formation, spirituality, compassionate service, and intellectual growth by promoting Gospel values and by fostering an environment of academic excellence. This is accomplished through rigorous curricula. We offer extracurricular activities, several early childhood programs, full-day pre-K through eighth grade, and after-school care program. Tours are available upon request.

15 Pershing Blvd., Baldwin 516-223-4404 stchris-school.org St. Christopher School has been educating children for more than 90 years in a safe, caring, Catholic environment. Tours are always available. We offer programs for pre-kindergarten to eighth grades. We recognize that each child is unique and strive to help them reach their potential. We offer an AIS program, enrichment, and STEM classes. Technology is integrated throughout the curriculum.

Each student in sixth-eighth grades has their own Chromebook, and uses it in every subject. Extracurricular activities, before- and after-school programs are available.

St. Edward the Confessor School

2 Teibrook Ave., Syosset 516-921-7767 stedwardconfessor.org St. Edward the Confessor School is a Catholic faith-based school located in the heart of Syosset, with more than 50 years of excellence in education.

The Early Childhood program provides a strong foundation

for the elementary school years, providing multi-faceted activities, which allow the children to develop socially and academically.

The curriculum in the elementary years uses many strategies to strengthen skills in writing, reading, and comprehension.

The middle school students use Chromebooks to take notes, research, and watch tutorials.

St. Edward’s incorporates 21st century technology including interactive Smartboards, iPads, and robotics.

St. Elizabeth Ann Seton School

2341 Washington Ave., Bellmore 516-785-5709 steas.com St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Regional School is a middle states accredited parochial school for nursery through eighth-grade children providing a top quality education since 1992. We offer an early childhood program that consists of half-day nursery, half- and fullday pre-K and kindergarten, as well as Our Time, which is a transitional program for children age 2 with a parent. “SEAS” provides a comprehensive curriculum that includes language, music, art, computer technology, academic intervention services, sports, clubs, and after-school enrichment and care. At SEAS we learn and grow in respect, responsibility, and reverence.

Saint Mary’s Elementary School

1340 Northern Blvd., Manhasset 516-627-0184 stmary11030.org At St. Mary’s Elementary School, our students flourish in an environment characterized by academic excellence, inspired faith, and creative learning, where they are prepared to achieve their greatest academic potential as they grow in mind and spirit.

With small classes, skilled teachers, the latest technology, and exciting extracurricular activities, we inspire excitement in learning while integrating Catholic values into our daily curriculum; offering a strong liturgical life on campus, instilling a sense of service and outreach into every student, and promoting an atmosphere of respect, tolerance, and generosity.

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250 Valentine’s Lane, Old Brookville 516-621-2420 greenvaleschool.org Join us for a guided campus tour and brief panel discussion with admissions staff, faculty, and student representatives on Oct. 17, Jan. 25, 2018, or April 12, 2018. Register on website or call 516-628-5146.

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40 Kings Park Road, Commack 631-736-2146 sapposchool.com info@sapposchool.com Join us on Tuesday, Oct. 3 at 9:30am for our Fall Open House.

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The Schools of Saint Mary

1300 Northern Blvd., Manhasset 516-627-0385 stmary.ws Join us for an open house for admissions for nursery through 12th grades, on Sunday, Oct. 15 from 2:30-4:30pm. For more information or a personal tour, please visit stmary.ws or call 516627-0385.

St. Edward the Confessor School

2 Teibrook Ave., Syosset 516-921-7767 stedwardconfessor.org Every Tuesday we celebrate “Welcome Home Tuesdays” and invite any prospective new family members to come for a tour between 10am and 12pm.

St. Elizabeth Ann Seton School

2341 Washington Ave., Bellmore 516-785-5709 steas.com Early Childhood Open House for prospective parents with children entering nursery-second grade on Oct. 29 from 11am-1pm. Meet teachers and see classrooms as we embrace faith, academics, and service as team SEAS!

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BIRTHDAY / PARTY SERVICES @ Play Amusement...............................................................59 BounceU - Farmingdale.........................................................43 Coder School (The)...............................................................15 Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery.........................................29 Great Play of Syosset............................................................30 Key to My Art.........................................................................29 Long Island Aquarium & Exhibition Center............................57 M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym............................................................15 Rubie’s Costume Company.....................................................2 Spin DJ Academy @ 202 RVC Group LLC...........................47

Eye Level Learning Center....................................................23 Green Vale School.................................................................19 Hofstra University / Saltzman Center....................................27 Holy Family School................................................................26 Holy Trinity Diocesan High School........................................29 Law Offices of Brad H Rosken..............................................57 LIU Center for Gifted Youth...................................................29 Mathnasium.............................................................................5 Our Lady of Grace Montessori School..................................59 Our Lady of Mercy.................................................................26 Our Lady of Victory................................................................29

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Sappo School........................................................................23

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St. Edward The Confessor School........................................27

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Green Vale School.................................................................19

St. Mary Elementary School .................................................59

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LIU Center for Gifted Youth...................................................29 M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym............................................................15 Mathnasium.............................................................................5 RoboMindTech.......................................................................27

PLAY SPACES @ Play Amusement...............................................................59 BounceU - Farmingdale.........................................................43 RELIGIOUS Diocese of RVC.....................................................................64 Holy Family School................................................................26 Holy Trinity Diocesan High School........................................29 Our Lady of Grace Montessori School..................................59 Our Lady of Mercy.................................................................26 Our Lady of Victory................................................................29 St. Edward The Confessor School........................................27 St. Elizabeth Ann Seton ........................................................19 St. Mary Elementary School .................................................59 RETAIL

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Rubie’s Costume Company.....................................................2

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Village East Gifted.................................................................21

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery.........................................29

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Louis Mora, Ph.D...................................................................57

Jewish Education Project (The).............................................27

Stars of Tomorrow.................................................................17

Physical Therapy Options................................................45, 56

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Stop With the Trophies Already! ››

One mom offers a plea for kids to be awarded trophies only when they’ve accomplished something that deserves the recognition.

By Karen J. Bannan

M

y kids are 12 and 8. They have been playing sports since they were little. They aren’t superstars, and yet we have more than 20 trophies sitting in our home. Trophies that take up room, gather dust, and are pretty much meaningless.

We’ve got trophies for kindergarten Catholic Youth Organization basketball, our beach club’s swim team, the National PTA Reflections contest, a first-grade soccer tournament, and cheerleading. Last month the girls and I cleaned their rooms. All those trophies ended up sitting in the hallway of our upstairs. The girls didn’t want them cluttering up their shelves. “Mommy,” they said, “we don’t need them.” No kidding, I thought. No kidding.

I have been against giving out trophies since we got the first shiny plastic and stone monstrosity complete with a little soccer ball. (That one was for participating in a local peewee soccer program that didn’t even have games!) My biggest complaint has always been that trophies should be for real accomplishments. Big wins. Amazing feats of prowess, academic or athletic. You don’t need a trophy to commemorate 10 weeks of kindergarten sports skills classes!

I’m not the only one who feels this way. Pittsburgh Steelers linebacker James Harrison created a firestorm when he posted on Instagram about taking away trophies his little ones got. The photo was accompanied by this post: “I came home to find out that my boys received two trophies for nothing, participation trophies! While I am very proud of my boys for everything they do and will encourage them till the day I die, these

trophies will be given back until they EARN a real trophy. I’m sorry I’m not sorry for believing that everything in life should be earned and I’m not about to raise two boys to be men by making them believe that they are entitled to something just because they tried their best… cause sometimes your best is not enough, and that should drive you to want to do better…not cry and whine until somebody gives you something to shut u up and keep you happy. #harrisonfamilyvalues” I totally agree and wish others did, but alas, I am in the minority. For example, a few years ago I ran our elementary school’s Reflections program and I championed phasing out the trophies. We could give out ribbons and medals, I said. It would be cheaper, I said. It didn’t fly. The trophies were ordered, and I silently cursed the fact that I would have another four of them in my house. (My kids tend to do well at those types of contests.)

But I digress, as usual. When my kids handed over their shiny loot I took to the Internet to find out if I could recycle them.

Yes, I discovered, there are companies that will recycle trophies, but I couldn’t find any close by. Today I posted on Facebook and a friend sent me a link about a place way out east that takes them and refurbishes them for charities. It’s about an hour away from my home, but it may be worth the trip just to get them out of my sight.

In the meantime, I know I am blessed that my kids are able to be involved with sports and contests to earn trophies at all. There are many children who don’t have the same opportunities.

Does that earn me a medal?

Karen J. Bannan is a Long Island writer who blogs at naturalaspossiblemom.com, where this post first appeared.

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Early Childhood Education is the foundation for success. You want to give them a safe, loving environment.

With structure and discipline. Not just day care, but a real school with certified teachers. A school that supports working Moms (and Dads), with before and after care—and gives students as young as three years old the fundamental skills they need to develop a lifetime love of learning. Of course, choosing a Catholic education gives them much more than an educational advantage. It also helps them understand their purpose in life and their obligations to others, reinforcing the values you live at home. Isn’t that what you want for your children?

To learn more about why Catholic Elementary School is a better place to start, and to find a school near you, visit us online at www.LICatholicElementarySchools.org or call 516-678-5800 x 258.