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birthday parties 14 What Kids Really Want at Their Birthday Parties

16 Birthday Party Directory 20 Birthday Planner

October Chills & Spooky Thrills

Get in the Halloween spirit with some ghoulish fun and light-hearted haunts

‘Sharental’ Advisory

Which moments with your baby you should share, and which ones you shouldn’t

401K vs. IRA vs. Nothing

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 The Road to Happy Motherhood 12 How to Help Your Teen Be Active & Healthy 22 Parochial Schools and Private Schools 36 ‘Sharental’ Advisory 40 Teen Milestones You Need to Know 47 Open Houses 46 Professional Services and Party Central 48 Meet the Doctor 49 Advertisers’ Index 50 Quotables

13 Dream Catcher

38 Babyprooﬁng 2.0

25 Family Activities Calendar

42 401K vs. IRA vs. Nothing

35 October Chills & Spooky Thrills

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Party Secrets

DIRECTOR OF CONTENT: Deborah Skolnik

love every issue of Nassau Parent we publish, but there’s something extra-sweet about the months when we cover kids’ birthday parties. After all, who doesn’t love a celebration? It’s a blast seeing your child so happy, and it’s also a terrific chance to put your parental pride on display. But when it comes to kids’ parties, is bigger always better? What do our children actually remember about their special day? We asked writer Lambeth Hochwald to investigate. The result: “What Kids Really Want at Their Birthday Parties” on p. 14, an unflinching look at the gotta-haves, nice-to-haves, and don’t-really-needs, through the eyes of those who know children the best. Read this insightful piece right now—it may significantly change the way you go about your party planning in the future. Speaking of public shows of parental pride, do you run to social media and share the news each time your baby does something cute or new? There’s a name for that— ‘sharenting’—and we’re almost all doing it. Dasha Kofman examines our motives, as well as this trend’s pros and cons, in her report “Sharental Advisory” (p. 36). It may make you think twice about safeguarding your little one’s privacy. Meanwhile over on p. 38, Anja Webb’s story, “Baby Proofing 2.0,” will have you thinking about how to safeguard your little one in general. It gives a terrific rundown of ways to keep active and curious toddlers safe at home; you’ll want to make sure you take every tip to heart. Then there’s a story near and dear to my own heart: “Teen Milestones You Need to Know,” on p. 40. As the mom of two teenage daughters, I know kids make some real quantum leaps in their adolescent years, especially when it comes to cognitive and emotional development. No, these milestones aren’t Insta-worthy—sorry, sharents!—but they’re important signs that your child’s growth is right on track. Read on and you’ll see why it’s actually a good (if annoying) thing that your teen is embarrassed by you or disagrees with your politics. While you’re focused on your child’s well-being (and what decent parent isn’t?) it’s easy to forget your own. That’s why Melissa Wickes’s article, “Saving for Retirement” (p. 42), is so vital to read. It demystifies the most common types of savings vehicles, and explains painless ways to build your nest egg now so it’s ready when you need it most. And don’t miss my essay, “The Road to Happy Motherhood” on p. 10. I share the “selfish” decision that helped me escape a dreary bout of postpartum blues, and made me a happier, better mom—I guess it wasn’t so selfish doing something for myself after all. Would you like to share your personal essay about parenthood with us? We’re always looking for great new submissions for our Voices page. Feel free to send yours to editor@nymetroparents.com! Of course, no October issue of our magazine would be complete without a celebration of my favorite holiday: Halloween! There’s something about the sight of little kids in costumes (and, I’ll admit, mounds of candy) that makes me so happy, and you too, I bet. For some chills and thrills, turn to p. 35, where we share information on pumpkinpicking spots, haunted houses, and more. Wishing you a boo-tiful month ahead!

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one friend voiced the true sticking point: “It’s a two-seater. Where will you put the kids?” she pressed, even knowing we were keeping the minivan and the Buick. I was disappointed in, or rather for, my friends. We mothers have only come so far. We urge one another to do things that affirm our individuality—provided they tie into our families. We cheer each other on to assert our financial power—so long as our purchases can be stashed in the closet, away from judgmental eyes. It’s fine for a dad to buy himself a sports car— in fact my neighbor just had—but if a mom buys herself one, it’s unseemly. Rattled, I called my oldest friend, Matt, for advice. “You’re in a full-fledged midlife crisis!” he teased. Then he grew serious. “My buddy used to drive me around in his sports car,” he mused. “On the highway, it felt like all four wheels had lifted off the ground.” He paused. “Buy the car.” So I did. I had to learn to drive stick, which was intimidating. It takes finesse to start a manual transmission car from a dead stop. At first I either stalled out or hit the gas too fast, sending the engine into frenetic revolutions. Yet each day, my driving improved, and so did my blues, until both miraculously smoothed out. Who knew a car had healing powers? Okay, it wasn’t really the car; it was the fact that I had done something solely for myself. Some shifts, I came to see, are automatic—girlhood’s dreams give way to motherhood’s realities. But figuring out how to be a mom while still asserting your individuality? That’s a conscious shift, but one worth making. After weeks of practice, I drove my daughter to preschool in the Miata. As I pulled out of the parking lot, several mothers gathered around. One stroked the Miata’s door. “Looks fun,” she said. I smiled. Then I prayed, Please God, don’t let me stall out in front of everyone. I pulled out smoothly. I was barely going 10 miles per hour, but it felt like all four wheels had lifted off the ground.

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ood exercise and eating habits are vital and are best established at a young age. By teaching your teen effective and enjoyable ways to exercise and stay well, you are setting her up to live a healthy, happy life. Here are five ways you can help your teen get excited about fitness and wellness, according to Christian Palmer, strength and conditioning coach and personal trainer at Equinox Mamaroneck. Make sure his focus isn’t the scale. In a world dominated by social media and superficial mindsets, teens are very conscious of how they look versus how they feel. Palmer suggests the first thing to teach your child when it comes to exercising is not to focus on the scale, but instead on the way exercising makes him feel.

athletes, and ultimately more confidence,” Palmer says. Help your child develop a structured weightlifting plan, and keep it simple!

Help her eat healthy, but don’t enforce a strict diet. Developing a healthy and well-balanced diet is important, especially in growing teenagers. But, giving a strict, structured diet to a teen may not be necessary or the best option for her. Instead, Palmer suggests encouraging her to make the best choices she can and emphasize eating from the ground (unprocessed, natural foods).

Make sure she loves what she’s doing. Forcing your kid to work out in a way she doesn’t find enjoyable can be the easiest way to make her hate exercising, Palmer warns. Find out what she loves and integrate it into the exercise plan. “Take your daughter to the field, invite her friend, and make it a competition. Make it fun but add a challenge so she gets the cardiovascular benefit as well,” Palmer says

Don’t be afraid of weights. A lot of parents are afraid their child will stunt his growth if he begins lifting weights at a young age. The reality, Palmer says, is most kids aren’t strong enough to lift weights that would negatively impact their growth in any way. Teach him the proper form for motions such as squatting, deadlifting, and pressing. “Strength is typically what translates to better movers, better

Lead by example. “A lot of kids come to me and say, ‘my dad wants me to go to the gym but he doesn’t really do it so I don’t really think it’s that important,’” Palmer says. Parents are the strongest influence on their children. If you are implementing healthy eating and exercise habits in your own life, it will not only be easier for your teen to do so, but it might make him want to.

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Going to bed alone can be scary for children, especially those who tend to have nightmares or difﬁculty getting settled down for the night. One thing that can help relieve bedtime anxiety is the reassurance a dream catcher can provide. Because they were made to protect children from bad dreams, you can help your kid get some shut-eye by making this dream catcher craft from Laura Minter and Tia Williams’s “The Big Book of 100 Outdoor Activities.” This dream catcher is made from the center part of an embroidery hoop, which you can find in most craft stores. A dream catcher is traditionally woven to resemble a spider’s web. You will need some feathers, which you can search for on a woodland walk, and some beads to decorate. You will need

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1. To make the weave on the embroidery hoop, begin by tying the end of the twine onto the hoop. Pull the twine about 1½ inches along and fold it over the top of the hoop from the front. Bring the twine in through the loop and pull tight. Continue all the way along the hoop. 2. When you get to the beginning, continue to loop the twine and go forward, but instead of looping around the hoop, loop through the previous row of twine, in the center of each loop. Pull tight each time. 3. Keep going round, looping and pulling tight, until the gaps become too small to continue easily. Tie the twine in the center and trim the loose ends. 4. Tie three pieces of twine onto the bottom of the hoop, evenly spaced out. Add beads to each one, then cut to your preferred lengths (this one was about 10 inches in the center). Glue two feathers onto the bottom of each piece of twine. Add another length of twine to the top of the hoop to enable you to hang your dream catcher. Extract reprinted here with permission from GMC Publications, The Big Book of 100 Outdoor Activities by Laura Minter and Tia Williams, RRP $19.95, published July 2018

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What Kids Really Want at Their Birthday Parties ››

Bigger isn’t always better—learn what will make the celebration truly special.

ake it from parents who know: Your kids may say they want a huge birthday blowout at the local arcade, but what they really want is a celebration that’s far more meaningful—and less chaotic. “A birthday is a time to enter your child’s world,” says Julie Morganstern, author of several books, including her latest, Time to Parent: Organizing Your Life to Bring Out the Best in Your Child and You. “All kids want is for someone to see [them] and to understand [them] and that’s what I think a birthday celebration is really about.” In fact, keeping the party smaller and simpler may make a bigger impression on your kid in the long run. “The most memorable experiences are those that incorporate multiple senses, evoke an emotional connection, and incorporate an element of novelty,” says Chrissy Khachane, an educational consultant and parenting coach. “Slowing down a bit to focus on some of life’s simple pleasures—family, good food, and laughter—affords children a party that incorporates the most important parts of childhood.” So this year, instead of getting into a frenzy planning your child’s party, consider tapping into your sense of nostalgia. Plan a day that involves playing tag in the backyard, tossing a ball, gathering on a beach or in the park, or playing board games or Duck, Duck, Goose. And whatever you do, consider taking a few cues from these parents and experts as they share their take on rethinking our kids’ birthday parties.

Step Away from the Competition

It’s super easy for birthday parties to become competitive, or all about status, where parents are one-upping each other over everything from the venue to just how deluxe the goodie bags are, Morganstern warns. Instead, “you want to establish values and make sure your kids 14 October 2018 | nymetroparents.com

By Lambeth Hochwald

don’t get caught up in all that external pressure to compete,” Moganstern says. “You also want to focus on redefining what the real value is of a birthday party. In my book it’s all about celebrating who you are, it’s connecting with the people you really love and the ones who care most about you. That’s your family and friends. It’s not about impressing anybody. If it’s about competition with other parents then the party isn’t about [your child], it’s about other people.”

Let Your Child Play Party Planner

If your child insists on helping out with the party planning, don’t hesitate to invite him to play an important role—depending on how old he is, of course. “One way you can let your child take the lead is picking out the party theme,” says Amy Horta, owner of AEH Events, a custom event planning and design firm in Westchester County. Horta let her own 3-year-old son have a hand in creating his construction-themed birthday party. “He went with me on a trip to Home Depot (his favorite place!) for décor,” she says. “He also helped paint toolbox favors for all his guests.”

Exercise Crowd Control

If you have a toddler who doesn’t love big crowds, having a party with lots of guests just won’t be fun for her. “If there are loads of family and friends who want to shower the birthday boy or girl with good wishes, consider inviting family over for cake the weekend before the birthday and then have a small kids’ party the weekend after,” Horta recommends. “It may be a little more work planning two events, but it helps make sure that the birthday boy or girl doesn’t get completely overwhelmed on his or her big day!”

Teens, too, may feel that a crowded bash isn’t right for them. birthday parties have been ways to meet other families in town. They may prefer to do a special activity with couple of friends in “My daughter always wanted to invite her whole class so these S T U D Y S K I place of a bustling party. “Think indoor rock climbing, a trapeze gatherings were a great way for me to get to know the parents,” class, a double feature at the movies—with popcorn—or even a day Corso says. “Best of all, my daughter has wonderful memories of out in Manhattan,” Horta says. those gatherings and I got to meet so many other families, too.”

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My teacher can't believe how well “When my daughter was seven, we decided to focus her birthday Focus on the Love I'm reading. Thanks Sylvan. party around her interest in dance,” Morganstern says. “I invited a “Satya just wants to feel loved and celebrated,” Singh says. “I don’t woman who did dance parties to come and lead the kids in a series think she cares about the specifics of the venue, the cake, or anything of dances. It was so wonderful to watch our daughter share someelse...As for gifts, we’re pretty aggressive in our ‘no gifts’ policy and have thing she loved with her friends.” been since her first birthday as Satya is a cancer survivor. Our friends Incorporating your child’s interests is a great way to make a party bring gift cards to the party that we donate to the Tomorrows Chilspecial, Khachane agrees: “Through focusing on something that is dren’s Fund in Hackensack,” she says. “Truth is, the kid has everything important to the birthday girl or boy there is a strong connection that a little girl could want and then some: good health, sneakers that light takes the experience beyond what one might find at a [generic] party.” up, parents who adore her, and more Wonder Woman junk than I ever

See a Party as a Way to Build Community

A birthday party should absolutely focus fully on the birthday boy or girl, but it can also serve another purpose. For Cherie Corso, a Westchester parent expert, blogger, and mom of a 15-year-old daughter,

thought humanly possible. So we encourage her to share with others.” And isn’t that the point of an awesome birthday party after all?

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Birthday Party Directory BIRTHDAY PARTY ENTERTAINMENT Clowns.com

Proudly serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000, 718-971-5862 clowns.com At Clowns.com, our goal is to create an unforgettable and memorable party experience for you and your family. We provide the highest quality children’s entertainment and rental services in the industry. If you’re looking for a professional, dependable, and enthusiastic team, you’ve come to the right place! We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.

Legendary Entertainment

Serving Nassau and Suffolk Counties 631-680-8453 legendaryentertainmentny.com Legendary Entertainment is a full-service entertainment company serving Nassau and Suffolk with more than 20 years of experience. We offer DJs, emcees, karaoke, more than 100 characters, photo booth, magic shows, party machine rentals, and theme parties. We offer Legendary Entertainment at a reasonable price!

Mad Science of Long Island

Call for locations throughout Long Island 855-264-1672, 516-620-6768 madscienceli.com info@madscienceli.com For more than 30 years Mad Science has provided top-quality educational and fun science programs for children. Their hands-on, high-energy parties are performed by a trained Mad Scientist who brings all the necessary equipment to your home or location of your choice. All birthday party packages include Mad Science invitations and a take-home activity each child works on during the party. They also offer fantastic grand finales such as Bubbling Potions, Rocket Launching, and Science Goodie Bags.

Spin DJ Academy

202 Merrick Road, 2nd floor, Rockville Centre 16 Broadway, Amityville 631-608-8858 spindjacademy.com Spin DJ Birthday Parties are a fun and personalized experience for your child! Party goers get to be the life of the party and learn basic DJ skills with today’s top hits! Customize your DJ dance party with songs and instruments your child loves, then head to our playspace for food and fun! Add to the party with music videos, character appearance, glitter tattoos, and party favors! Spin DJ can bring the party to you! We’ll bring DJ equipment and instruments to create an experience to remember!

BIRTHDAY PARTY PLACES @ Play Amusements

229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com Have your next party at the newly renovated @ Play Amusements! It offers 40,000-square-feet of fun ranging from arcade games, inflatables, bumper cars, roller coaster, a carousel, disco room, and laser tag! It even provides all the paper goods, invites, thank you notes, food, and a private hostess! It features five glow-in-the-dark private party rooms that are sure to be a hit! The action-packed amusement center will make your child’s special day be one that they will never forget! Fun for all ages!

As You Wish Parties

418A Bedford Ave., Bellmore 516-590-7878 asyouwishparties.org Whether your child is a toddler or a tween, As You Wish Parties will make your child’s party dreams come true. Our warm and welcoming staff will help you and your child choose from many party themes that include Pretty Princess, Knightly Knights, Traditional Tea, PJ Party, Rock Star and Superheroes, Dessert Party, or Kids Canvas Painting.

BACH TO ROCK Music School

1015 Port Washington Blvd., Port Washington 516-441-5526 portwashington.bachtorock.com portwashington@bachtorock.com Be a star at B2R! At Bach To Rock music school, our Karaoke Party-Rock Star Party will have everyone recording in a state-of-the-art studio with pro engineers. Choose from current pop and classic rock tunes, then sing on the main stage and enjoy pizza and cake! Ages 7 to adult! Or plan a Rock City Party for your budding rock star ages 4-6! This action-packed party allows kids to explore rock ‘n’ roll instruments up close. If you want an amazing experience at a great price, call B2R at 516-441-5526.

Be The Best Sport

30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-453-0990 bethebestsport.org info@bethebestsport.org Be The Best Sport provides sport birthday parties for children with special needs. Our qualified staff will make sure your son or daughter has a once in a lifetime experience! Please contact us to inquire about a birthday party!

BounceU Farmingdale

tion of inflatable structures, a clean environment, incredible customer service, and non-stop excitement in a private party atmosphere. We feature giant inflatable toys and a wide variety of activities for children and adults, including basketball and boxing, obstacle courses, and slides. We take pride in providing superior customer service. Private parties are meticulously planned and prepared by our knowledgeable staff, so parents can relax and enjoy themselves.

Celebrations In The Kitchen

63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event! We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy—children, parents, family, friends, and boys and girls of any age. Guests enjoy our first-class facility complete with a huge exhibition-size kitchen and private party rooms. Baking experiences for adults and children include fabulous children’s birthday parties, classes, social gatherings for teens, and adult night out. Popular events include, sugar cookie baking, all about pizza, cupcakes from scratch, doughnuts, and chocolate and candy projects. Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen.com for more information.

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfishhatchery.org info@cshfishhatchery.org Celebrate your child’s next birthday at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium! See the Hatchery & Aquarium’s exciting live exhibits. Feed the hungry trout and learn about fish, reptiles, and amphibians with an up-close animal encounter. For children turning ages 4 and older. Fishing Parties available too! Fishing Party goers will enjoy a 45-minute fishing bonanza. Fishing is catch and release only. All parties will be followed by your desired festivities. Educational party hosts and goodie bags included.

Great Play of Syosset

180 Michael Drive, Syosset 516-364-1500 greatplay.com/syosset info@syosset.greatplay.com Our award-winning, high-energy parties are truly spectacular events, and we make your child the star of the show! Your guests will have a blast and your child will receive all-star treatment in our amazing Interactive Gym™. We offer customized parties for ages 1-10 and you start by picking one of our six great themes. Then you work with our party planner to customize the rest based on the interests of the party star.

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creative event with our dance-themed birthday parties. We offer a variety of parties and will also customize anything for you. Choose a theme and we provide the rest. Our staff will help you be creative with your theme; your choice of ballerina, nutcracker, soldier, princess, or sugar plum fairy! As a special treat, a guest artist will come in costume to perform for your guests! We specialize in making your child’s birthday a magical memory to cherish for a lifetime!

Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum

Pier 86, West 46th Street and Twelfth Avenue, Manhattan 646-381-5010 intrepidmuseum.org groupsales@intrepidmuseum.org Celebrate your child’s birthday with a one-of-a-kind party! The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum will captivate groups of all ages and interests. Choose from exciting themes, value packages, and customization options to create a birthday adventure they’ll remember forever. Packages start at $30 per person. Experience life aboard an aircraft carrier during Operation Slumber! Enjoy after-hours access to the ship and the Space Shuttle Pavilion as well as tours and activities. It’s ideal for scouts, students, and campers ages 6–17.

Key to My Art, Inc.

10 W. Oak St., Amityville 131 Main St., East Rockaway 877-539-2278 Celebrate your child’s birthday or special occasion with us at Key to My Art! It’s a mini paint night for kids! Your child chooses what the group paints! They can choose any theme, character, animal, or place! Our children’s paint parties include all supplies from aprons to easels, plus step by step instruction, pizza, and juice for all the children! Everyone leaves with a finished painting that they can proudly hang on their wall at home! Our paint events are also great for showers, Girl Scout troops, and fundraisers.

The Lanyard Ladies

433 Merrick Road, Oceanside 516-578-2248 thelanyardladies.com info@thelanyardladies.com The Lanyard Ladies friendship bracelet and lanyard birthday parties bring the party to you, or you can come to their brand-new party place! Learn to make your favorite friendship bracelets and lanyard stitches. Many amazing themes and packages: Slime Party, Emoji, LOL Surprise, JoJo Siwa, Pajama, and American Girl Doll! We will customize any birthday party to fit your needs. New bigger party place for up to 75 guests, and private seating area for parents. School events, corporate events, Girl Scouts, bar and bat mitzvah too.

The Little Ladies Club

246 W. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-939-CLUB (2582) thelittleladiesclub.com party@thelittleladiesclub.com The Little Ladies Club has been dedicated to making birthday parties extra special for more than 18 years! Your two-hour party includes a mini makeover with a glamorous hairstyle using a personalized comb, a take-home hair accessory, a manicure, and a pedicure. Boys will have their hair spiked and colored, along with a bandana and tattoos. Next is a Red Carpet Fashion Show, a Tea Party with pizza and drinks, and dazzling dance time! Party favors and invitations too!

Long Island Aquarium

431 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-208-9200 xH2O (426) or 631-208-9200 x125 longislandaquarium.com Have your child’s birthday party at the Long Island Aquarium. Party options include a choice of private rooms, select food items, and ice cream cake. All parties include a guided tour of the aquarium, special seating at the Sea Lion Show, and rides on the submarine simulator! Add an animal interaction, like a visit from an alligator or penguin, for extra fun! Let us take care of all the details as you sit back and enjoy the fun-filled day! Ask about our Sweet 16 and bar or bat mitzvah packages.

M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym & Early Childcare Education Center A Rainbow Of Programs Under One Roof!

2629 Grand Ave., Bellmore 516-221-1330 171 Eileen Way, Syosset 516-496-7765 matsskidsgym.com M.A.T.S.S. is the ultimate weekend children’s party venue! We offer a rainbow of themes, specialties, and activities that can be customized for your child’s next birthday celebration and the birthday child is always free! Try an all-inclusive Beach Blast, Princess Tea Party, or Super Heroes theme and add a character or moon-bouncer to play in our spacious gyms. Visit our website for more information and pricing. Call our party consultant today to book a date that works for you. Tour our gyms and play spaces by appointment.

My Gym Children’s Fitness Center

1320 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook 631-751-KIDS (5437) mygym.com/stonybrook 128 W. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington Station 631-427-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/huntingtonstation At My Gym the goal is to not only to make your party amazing but to make it a wonderful memory for all that attend. Parties include special touches like our “Birthday March,” and customized music and activities. You will also have exclusive use of the gym, including a zip line, rock wall, trampoline, trapeze, climbing structures, and slides. The highly trained, enthusiastic instructors lead your guests through action-packed activities, with theme options like Superheroes, Mickey Mouse, Princesses, or any theme you choose.

Not Just Art

183 South St., Oyster Bay 516-922-8300 notjustart.com create@notjustart.com Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and older. Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard. We customize the fun to your child’s interest! Each party is thoughtfully designed with variations and adaptations to make sure all children feel successful and included. Staffed by seasoned teachers and party helpers, our celebrations are unique and personalized experiences! Parties can be adapted for playgroups, scout troops, field trips, and other events.

Sky Zone Trampoline Park-Deer Park

111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park 631-392-2600 skyzone.com/deerpark deerparkinfo@skyzone.com The best birthday parties are always at Sky Zone,

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Deer Park, Long Island. We customize every birthday party to create your party, your way. We have multiple packages to fit every budget creating unforgettable birthdays for kids, parents, and especially the birthday child. We have themed parties and super hero parties. We offer dodgeball, Foam Zone, Sky Slam, and endless jumping opportunities. Private trampoline courts are available. A Sky Zone Deer Park Party is not only the best party ever, but also the easiest party ever for you.

Spin DJ Academy

202 Merrick Road, 2nd floor, Rockville Centre 16 Broadway, Amityville 631-608-8858 spindjacademy.com Spin DJ birthday parties are a fun and personalized experience for your child! Party goers get to be the life of the party and learn basic DJ skills with today’s top hits! Customize your DJ dance party with songs and instruments your child loves, then head to our playspace for food and fun! Add to the party with music videos, character appearance, glitter tattoos, and party favors! Spin DJ can bring the party to you! We’ll bring DJ equipment and instruments to create an experience to remember!

TAS New York – Theory of Arts and Sciences

153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 1-888-827-8188 tasnewyork.com The Theory of Arts & Sciences (TAS) provides the best birthday party services in Long Island. Your children can make their very own work of art to treasure for years to come. Our packages include everything you need for a two-hour guided paint or arts and crafts party; we even offer special add-ons such as face painting, henna, and custom invitations to give your guest an unparalleled experience. Everything you need to give your child a unique, memorable party is at TAS. For more information call 1-888-827-8188.

Thomas School of Horsemanship Riding Academy

250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com tsh@tshcamp.com Birthday parties, scout parties, and class trips are always a blast at the Thomas School of Horsemanship. For groups of 14-18 children. They receive one hour of riding time taught by one of our certified ride instructors who will teach them a fun-filled beginner lesson. We provide the paper goods, the party room, playground, and party host so you can focus on having fun. Scouts can earn their Horse Care and Riding badges. Call and speak with our party specialist to plan the perfect outing!

Unlimited Sports Action

30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-767-7675 unlimitedsportsaction.com info@unlimitedsportsaction.com Unlimited Sports Action offers sports birthdays for children ages 2 and older. We provide everything (pizza, cake, drinks, paper goods, and invitations) so that parents can sit back, relax, and enjoy the party! Our parties are 1½ hours, consisting of one hour of sports and activities on a climate-controlled turf field, with a choice of three sports, followed by 30 minutes of food, drinks, and birthday cake in a private room. We also offer at-home parties! We can come to pool parties, backyard parties, or other outdoor venues year-round!

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25 Store Hill Road, Old Westbury 516-626-9300 holychildacademy.org Holy Child Academy is a premier, independent Catholic school, for children of all faiths, from toddler-eighth grade. Our exceptional teachers provide an intellectually challenging and creative program of study that develops a child’s love for learning. The average class size of 14 honors the learning style and pace of each child. Our joyful, whole child approach to mind, body, and spirit integrates art, music, and exercise daily. Students leave our beautiful, wooded campus as happy, responsible, and compassionate young adults, ready to excel in high school and beyond. Visit us at holychildacademy.org.

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17 Fordham Ave., Hicksville 516-938-3846 x329 hfsli.org Making a difference one child at a time. Students come from 31 Catholic parishes and 34 Long Island school districts to be a part of this one great school. Our nurturing yet challenging program educates the whole child in mind, body, and spirit. At Holy Family each child is known by name and loved for their God-given talents. Holy Family students share love, understanding, compassion, and kindness. Full- and half-day nursery and pre-K, kindergarten-eighth grade, morning and aftercare, academic intervention and enrichment, and after-school enrichment clubs. Call anytime for a tour.

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76 Park Blvd., Malverne 516-599-7328 ollmalverne.org Nourishing hearts, minds, and souls. It’s more than religion classes. Our faith comes alive when we live it. OLL provides an opportunity for each child to grow in knowledge, friendship, and love of the Lord while aspiring to reach their full potential spiritually, academically, and socially. All classes have a special Saint they align with and each year has a unique theme. Each child is known by name and loved for their unique qualities. We offer early childhood, lower school, and middle school with a special enrichment program. After-care available.

Our Lady of Mercy

520 S. Oyster Bay Road, Hicksville 516-433-7040 olmshicks.org Our Lady of Mercy School strives in the spirit of service and love to inspire our students to grow spiritually, academically, and socially. Our goal is to enable all students to meet the challenges of the future through a strong, faith-based academic program enhanced by extracurricular activities. A variety of early childhood classes, full-day kindergarten-eighth grade, before- and after-care programs are available. Weekday, evening, and weekend tours are available by appointment.

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1 Higbie Drive, Smithtown 631-265-3334 learnwithscs.org Smithtown Christian School was founded in 1978. Its student body is comprised of more than 400 students from preschool through 12th grade, and draws from numerous churches and more than 40 school districts. The mission of Smithtown Christian School is to teach with excellence in the classroom and through life-on-life influence to produce exceptional young Christian leaders with a heart for God, a mind for truth, and a passion to change the world. The curriculum at SCS is designed to prepare students for college and exceeds NYS requirements for graduation.

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15 Pershing Blvd., Baldwin 516-223-4404 stchris-school.org St. Christopher School has been educating children for more than 90 years in a safe, caring, Catholic environment. Tours are always available. We offer programs for grades pre-kindergarten-eighth. We recognize that each child is unique and strive to help her reach her potential. We offer an AIS program, enrichment and STEM classes. Technology is integrated throughout the curriculum. Each student in sixth-eighth grades has his own Chromebook, and uses it in every subject. Extracurricular activities and before- and after-school programs are available.

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35 School St., Oyster Bay 516-922-4233 stdomsob.org St. Dominic Elementary School, established in 1924 as one of the first Catholic schools on Long Island, provides an academic program for students grades pre-K-eighth. Our curriculum focuses on development of reading and writing skills, critical and computational thinking, and problem-solving skills. As a faith-centered program, we connect Catholic values to students’ lives. An integrated STEM program, and student-based technology help make learning relevant, accessible, and current. Curriculum based on Next Generation Learning Standards, and guidelines of the NY State Education Department and Diocesan Office of Education.

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East Woods School

31 Yellow Cote Road, Oyster Bay 516-922-4400 eastwoods.org East Woods, in Oyster Bay, is a private school for age 2 through eighth grade. We are a friendly community of students, faculty, and parents that feels more like one big family. We have been inspiring confidence, excellence, and kindness since 1946. East Woods is small by design, and promotes excellence in a nurturing environment where advanced learning opportunities abound. We develop confident, motivated, and kind leaders. We believe that your child’s potential is only the beginning.

Green Vale School

250 Valentine’s Lane, Old Brookville 516-621-2420 greenvaleschool.org Green Vale is Long Island’s premier and largest coed, independent elementary school for prenursery-eighth grade. A program of exceptional academics and small class sizes is combined with emphasis on athletics, visual and performing arts, and character education at every grade level. After a culminating experience in the middle school years (sixth-eighth grades), GVS graduates go on to excel at independent, public, and boarding secondary schools. Learn more at greenvaleschool.org.

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The Waldorf School of Garden City

225 Cambridge Ave., Garden City 516-742-3434 waldorfgarden.org The Waldorf School of Garden City, accredited by NYSAIS and AWSNA, educates nursery through 12th grade children to meet the world with purpose, gratitude, and respect. Our curriculum awakens students to the experience of knowledge, strengthening their sense of moral responsibility, and empowering them to act with courage and conviction. High academic standards reinforce the school’s aim to graduate a diverse group of young people distinguished by the scope and acuity of their minds as well as the depth and integrity of their character. Call for a tour: 516742-3434 x302.

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Hempstead Lake Fall Family Freshwater Fishing Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 10am-4pm WHERE: Hempstead Lake State Park, Lake Side Drive, West Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: This family-oriented annual fishing festival integrates fishing with fall activities, such as a casting for pumpkins contest and pumpkin decorating. WHY WE LOVE IT: Children can also enjoy an inflatable, pumpkin decorating, face painting and much more! WANT TO GO? 516-766-1029. nysparks.com.

Rock Hall Country Fair FREE

WHEN: Oct. 20-21: daily, 11am-5pm WHERE: Rock Hall Museum, 199 Broadway, Lawrence AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the harvest market, pumpkin patch, and children’s craft area, as well as farm animals, pony rides, craft vendors, and antique cars. WHY WE LOVE IT: This 33-year-old fair gets better with age! WANT TO GO? 516-239-1157. friendsofrockhall.org.

The Amazing Maize

WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Weekends and Columbus Day, 11am-4:30pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All 26

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WHAT: Challenge yourself with finding clues, solving puzzles, and making your way out of the 3-acre maze. WHY WE LOVE IT: Who knew getting lost could be so much fun? WANT TO GO? $10 adult; $5 children ages 4-11; free for children ages 3 and younger. 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

Ghostly Gala

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 6-9pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Halloween in a fun, safe and spooky way! WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids get to make some cool and creepy craft projects! WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Spooky Fest

WHEN: Oct. 13-28, dates vary, 6:30-9:30pm WHERE: Tanglewood Preserve, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Center AGES: All WHAT: The preserve is decorated with both scary and friendly walks including haunted woods, a zombie maze, children’s maze, and a friendly walk in the meadow. WHY WE LOVE IT: Parents have the option of bringing all their kids and treating the little ones to the non-scary attractions. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 children. 516-764-0045. cstl.org/spooky-fest.

Rise of the Jack O’Lanterns

WHEN: Oct. 5-29, check website for exact dates and times WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Some of the top pumpkin sculptors in the country will carve a dozen pumpkin sculptures! WHY WE LOVE IT: The pumpkin trail is well lit to ensure that the experience is always safe and enjoyable for everyone. WANT TO GO? $26; $22 children ages 3-17 and seniors; free for children 2 and younger. 818-639-8981. therise.org.

Blood Manor- Crypts of the Coliseum

WHEN: Oct. 5- Nov. 3, check website WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Blood Manor is a haunted house comprised of approximately 5,000-square-feet of themed rooms, corridors, and a labyrinth of passageways. WHY WE LOVE IT: Maximize your fear! WANT TO GO? Check website. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

True Colors- Exhibition

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: daily, 10am-4:45pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: The full range of color’s magic is on display in this exuberant show of more than 100 works from the nineteenth-century to today. WHY WE LOVE IT: It features a monumental painting by Titian, considered the original champion of color in art, in a dramatic installation. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors/student; $4 children. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

Traveling Exhibit -TINKERTOY®: Build Your Imagination

WHEN: Through Jan. 6, 2019: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Visitors can explore a walk-in size replica of the canister, create their own designs, experiment with renewable energy and water filtration, and take part in a scavenger hunt. WHY WE LOVE IT: A great way to introduce children to STEM concepts! WANT TO GO? $13; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.

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Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

Strategies for Successful College Planning Seminar FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 2, 7pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Chris Eschman presents five strategies for achieving college funding goals. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Bravura Soprani: Our Musical Journey FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 3, 2pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Bravura Soprani presents an afternoon of classical songs, arias, and duets. WANT TO GO? 516-767-1384. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

Basics of Fishing FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 11am WHERE: Sagamore Hill National Historic Site, 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Join a park ranger for a discussion about the basics of fishing, including fishing regulations, equipment, and tools. WANT TO GO? 516-922-4788. eventbrite.com.

Fall Events FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 28: dates and times vary WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Take a picture with Otto the Ghost, enjoy a hayride, farm animals, plus fresh picked apples, fudge, roasted corn, and other treats! WANT TO GO? 516-334-0066. hicksnurseries.com.

Museum Makers: Designing With Data FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 8: Thursdays, 3:30-5:30pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 5-8, Adult WHAT: Participants can ask questions, collect data, uncover patterns, and design and create their very own exhibit. WANT TO GO? 718-699-0005. nysci.org. ›› LongIslandParent 27

AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy an overview of Theodore Roosevelt’s time as a ranch owner and how it impacted his presidency. WANT TO GO? 516-922-4788. nps.gov/sahi.

Talking Toddlers FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 9, 10:30am WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: Newborn-2 WHAT: This interactive, mommy-and-me class focuses on language development, motor skills, and early literacy skills through songs, games, and reading activities. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

SMARTY PANTS How to Nail a Panel Interview FREE

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 1, 5:45-7:45pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Bring questions about your resume, cover letter, LinkedIn profile, career, and more for a focused, 15-minute coaching session. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Jodi Picoult in Conversation With Meg Wolitzer

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 2, 7:30pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Jodi Picoult is the No. 1 bestselling author of 24 novels. WANT TO GO? $35. 516-767-1384. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

Next Level Thinking: Ten Powerful Thoughts For A Successful, Abundant Life -Joel Osteen FREE WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 2, 7pm WHERE: Barnes and Noble- Country Glen Center, 91 Old Country Road, Carle Place AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Best-selling author and motivational speaker book signing WANT TO GO? 516-741-9850. barnesandnoble.com.

Computer Class- Microsoft Excel FREE

WHEN: Oct. 1-2, Monday-Tuesday, 6pm WHERE: Hicksville Public Library, 169 Jerusalem Ave., Hicksville AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Discuss formatting, managing cells, formulas, functions, and more. WANT TO GO? 516-931-1417. hicksvillelibrary.org.

Baby Sign Language 101 FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 2: Tuesdays, 11:30am WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 3-5, Adult WHAT: Learn more than 80 simple signs. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Maximizing Your College Financial Aid FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 4, 7pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 13 and older WHAT: This is a workshop about arranging your family’s financial picture to enhance your likelihood of receiving a generous financial aid package. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Ranger Talk: TR and the Cowboy Years FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 2pm WHERE: Sagamore Hill National Historic Site, 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay 28

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Buckley Country Day School Open House FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 14, 2-4pm WHERE: Buckley Country Day School, 2 I.U. Willets Road, Roslyn AGES: All WHAT: Learn about all of the programs that are offered at Buckley. WANT TO GO? 516-627-1910. buckleycountryday.com.

Computer Class: File Management FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 17, 6:30pm WHERE: Hicksville Public Library, 169 Jerusalem Ave., Hicksville AGES: 13 and older WHAT: A hands-on class to teach cut, copy, and paste, plus managing, selecting and deleting files and folders. WANT TO GO? 516-931-1417. hicksvillelibrary.org.

Mommy Mingle

WHEN: Through Oct. 23: daily, 10:15-11am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Mothers socialize as their child plays in the TotSpot area. WANT TO GO? $13; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

East Woods School Open House FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 23, 9-11am WHERE: East Woods School, 31 Yellow Cote Road, Oyster Bay AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Attend the Open House to learn more about East Woods’s STEAM-based curriculum. WANT TO GO? 516-922-4400. eastwoods.org.

Long Island Vegetable Orchestra FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 2pm WHERE: Sagamore Hill National Historic Site, 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: The Long Island Vegetable Orchestra uses homemade instruments including carrot pan pipes, squash trombones, and pumpkin drums. WANT TO GO? 516-922-4788. nps.gov/sahi.

One-to-One Career Coaching FREE

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 29, 6-8pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13 and older WHAT: 15-minute coaching session with Ellen O’Brien, who helps with resumes. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Sign Language for Kids FREE

WHEN: Oct. 9-30, Tuesdays, 5pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Learn the basics of this beautiful language WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Parent-Child Workshop FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 31: Wednesdays, 11:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: This five-week program allows parents and children time to play, relax, socialize, and meet with local resource professionals. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

100 Crescent Beach Road, Glen Cove AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The story of Great Britain offering refuge to more 10,000 unaccompanied children whose parents smuggled them out of Nazi territory. WANT TO GO? $10. 516-463-5067.

‘The Rainbow Fish’

WHEN: Oct. 13- Nov. 3, 10-11am, see website for exact dates WHERE: Camp Italia, 223 Stewart Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Learn Italian! WANT TO GO? $27.50. 855-226-7481. campitaliausa.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 2pm WHERE: Tiles Center for the Performing Arts at LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookeville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: The Rainbow Fish will include an original stage adaptation of Marcus Pfizer’s colorful stories. WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

Oh Shift! Teen Workshop FREE

‘Nine’ The Musical

Italian Classes

WHEN: Oct. 3- Nov. 14, Wednesdays, 7pm WHERE: Mid Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Road, Plainview AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens learn confidence, self-awareness, and self control. WANT TO GO? 866-599-8783. tsvf.org.

Falaise Mansion Tour

WHEN: Through Nov. 18: Thursday-Sunday, 12-3pm WHERE: Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road, Sands Point AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Once the residence of Captain Harry F. Guggenheim and Alicia Patterson. WANT TO GO? $10. 516-571-7901. sandspointpreserve.org.

Seashell...Nature’s Inspired Design Exhibition

WHEN: Through Dec. 28: See website for dates and times WHERE: Garvies Point Museum, 50 Barry Drive, Glen Cove AGES: All WHAT: In celebration of the museum’s 50th anniversary, join for a exhibit of exquisite seashells from around the world. WANT TO GO? $4; $2 children 5-12. 516-571-8010. garviespointmuseum.com.

SHOW TIME!

Broadway at Coe Hall

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 5, 7pm WHERE: Planting Fields Arboretum, 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Performers will be accompanied by pianist Jack Kohl. WANT TO GO? $50. 516-922-8678. plantingfields.org.

Giaconda Puccini’s ‘La Tosca’

WHEN: Oct. 6-7, Saturday, 7pm; Sunday, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: A fully-staged opera accompanied by the South Shore Symphony! WANT TO GO? See website. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

WHEN: Oct. 27-28, Saturday, 2pm and 8pm; Sunday, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 13 and older WHAT: The Tony award-winning musical, NINE, is based on Federico Fellini’s semi-autobiographical film 8½. WANT TO GO? See website for costs. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

‘The Way It Goes: Nathan Slate Joseph’

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Tuesday-Sunday, 1pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 9 and older WHAT: An intimate documentary biography of an artist with an unconventional approach to metal and form. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors/student; $4 children. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

‘Rothko: An Abstract Humanist’

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Tuesday-Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Rothko painted ideas rather than objects and, created a pictorial language. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors/student; $4 children. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

‘Seeing Color’ Documentary

WHEN: Through Dec. 30, Tuesday-Sunday, 11am and 3pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This video explores how painters use color. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors/student; $4 children. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

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‘Any Friend of Percy Angelino is a Friend of Mine’ FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 7, 2pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 9-12, Adult WHAT: This side-splitting comedy opens with a mysterious stranger arriving at the Long Island estate of a renowned mob boss. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Film: ‘Into the Arms of Strangers-Stories of the Kinder transport’ WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 14, 1pm WHERE: Holocaust Memorial & Tolerance Center of Nassau County,

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HOLIDAY FUN Adult Halloween Paint Event - Witch Shoes!

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 26, 7-9pm WHERE: Key to My Art East Rockaway, 131 Main St., East Rockaway AGES: Adult WHAT: Paint cute witch shoes to celebrate fall and Halloween! WANT TO GO? $25. 516-218-2920. keytomyart.com.

Spooky Walk

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS

WHEN: Oct. 26-27, Friday and Saturday, 6:30-9:30pm WHERE: Clark Botanic Garden, 193 I.U. Willets Road, Albertson AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Clark Botanic transforms into a haunted maze with goblins, ghosts, zombies, and more! WANT TO GO? $5. 516-484-2208. clarkbotanic.org.

Fall Family Festival-Planting Fields

Charlie Brown Halloween Paint Event

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 7, 11am-4pm WHERE: Planting Fields Arboretum, 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Expect live music, jumbo garden games, pumpkins for sale, pony rides, face painting, and a Halloween bounce house! WANT TO GO? $20 vehicle fee. 516-922-8678. plantingfields.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art East Rockaway, 131 Main St., East Rockaway AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Paint Charlie Brown for Halloween! WANT TO GO? $20. 516-218-2920. keytomyart.com.

Halloween Family Fun Fest

WHEN: Oct. 6-7, Saturday-Sunday, 9am to 5pm WHERE: Mill Neck Manor, 34 Frost Mill Road, Mill Neck AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy fresh apples, baked goods, house tours, carnival rides, children’s activities, a pumpkin patch, crafts, a country store, and more! WANT TO GO? $10 parking. 516-628-4241. millneck.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 11am-4pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Pumpkin picking and decorating, mask making, cupcake decorating, face painting, balloon creations, a magician, and more. WANT TO GO? Prices not yet available. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Rolling River Fall Festival FREE

‘The Mystery of Halloween High’

Mill Neck Apple Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 12-4pm WHERE: Rolling River Day Camp, 477 Ocean Ave., East Rockaway AGES: 3-12 WHAT: This event celebrates fall with carnival rides, a petting zoo, balloon animals, craft projects, giveaways, food and more. WANT TO GO? 516-593-2267. rollingriver.com.

Pumpkin Patch FREE

WHEN: Oct. 6-27, see website for exact days and times WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: All WHAT: The students of BHT Middle School are suspicious of their new substitute teacher’s odd and wacky behavior. WANT TO GO? $11 in advance; $13 after advance closes. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

WHEN: Oct. 6-27, Weekends and Columbus Day, 11am-4:30pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the crisp fall air and wander through the patch to find the perfect pumpkin. WANT TO GO? 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

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Children’s Fall Festival

Not So Spooky Walk

WHEN: Through Oct. 28: daily, 10am-5pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: 9-12, All WHAT: Enjoy hayrides, roasted corn, apple cider, live farm animals, and a host of new events. WANT TO GO? 516-334-0066. HicksNurseries.com. WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 28, 11am-4pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Hayrides, haunted house, pony rides, and the Amazing Maize maze! WANT TO GO? $20. 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

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WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 1-7pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: 5-12, Adult WHAT: This ghoulish adventure puts everyone in the Halloween spirit. WANT TO GO? $4. 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org. WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 28, 1-4pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: The museum’s forest is transformed into a magical place. WANT TO GO? $15 with Museum admission: $12; $8 seniors; $4 children. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org. WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 28, 12-4pm WHERE: Clark Botanic Gardens, 193 I.U. Willets Road, Albertson AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: A Halloween celebration at Clark Botanic Garden with funfilled activities especially for young children. WANT TO GO? $5. 516-484-2208. clarkbotanic.org.

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MUSICIANS Music Under the Stars FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 7:30pm WHERE: Sagamore Hill National Historic Site, 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Join for a fun night of music and astronomy with a band, crafts, activities, and telescopes for public viewing. WANT TO GO? 516-922-4788. nps.gov/sahi.

‘The Australian Pink Floyd Show’ - Time 2018

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 9, 8pm WHERE: NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury AGES: 13 and older WHAT: The set list will represent the best of Pink Floyd’s music, plus state-of-the-art lighting, sound, lasers, and inflatables. WANT TO GO? $35 and up. 516-334-0800. thetheatreatwestbury.com.

Elton John - ‘Farewell Yellow Brick Road’ Tour

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 9, 8pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: 13 and older WHAT: It’s a not-to-be-missed show! WANT TO GO? See website for cost. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

Kids Play Free Week! FREE

WHEN: Oct. 7-13, Call for appointment WHERE: New York Musician’s Center, 701 Bedford Ave., Bellmore AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Kids of all ages can take one piano, voice, guitar, violin, or drum lesson! WANT TO GO? 516-515-0236. nymcmusic.com.

Candy Dulfer Concert

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 8pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Candy was inspired by all that’s great in jazz, disco, soul, dance, and R&B. WANT TO GO? $45 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Rocktopia Concert

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts at LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 13 and older WHAT: This concert event fuses the most iconic 20th-century rock with world-renowned classical masterpieces. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s sheer genius to fuse rock and classical music! WANT TO GO? $39 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

Concert: Vic Vincent Group FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 21, 2pm WHERE: Hicksville Public Library, 169 Jerusalem Ave., Hicksville AGES: All WHAT: Experience the music and enjoy trivia about the artists. WANT TO GO? 516-931-1417. hicksvillelibrary.org.

Toddler Music Time on the Porch FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 28: Wednesday and Sunday, 11am WHERE: Sagamore Hill National Historic Site, 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Join Park Rangers for a fun time of interactive music on the porch of Theodore Roosevelt’s home. WANT TO GO? 516-922-4788. eventbrite.com.

KINDNESS CRUSADERS Bullying Stops Today FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 2, 7:15pm WHERE: Hicksville Public Library, 169 Jerusalem Ave., Hicksville AGES: All WHAT: These strategies will give parents and students a way to deal with bullying issues. WANT TO GO? 516-931-1417. hicksvillelibrary.org.

Family Event - The Great Give Back FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 7, 2pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Make dog bandanas and creative projects to help shelter dogs look even cuter and get adopted! WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Sensory Sensitive Sundays

WHEN: Through Oct. 7: Sundays, 9-11am WHERE: Chuck E. Cheese’s, 162 Fulton Ave., Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: Chuck E. Cheese’s is open 2 hours early on the first Sunday of each month, specifically for children with autism and other special needs. WHY WE LOVE IT: An inclusive opportunity for all kids to enjoy Chuck E. Cheese! WANT TO GO? Cost varies. 516-483-3166. chuckecheese.com.

Fourteenth Annual Gala Benefit for Cerebral Palsy of Nassau County

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 14, 3pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts at LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: Hear Louis Panacciulli and The Nassau Pops Symphony Orchestra, with special guests Let’s Hang On! WANT TO GO? $38 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

EAC Network’s Over The Edge Event

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 9am-5pm WHERE: Nassau Community College, Tower Building, One Education Drive, Garden City AGES: Adult WHAT: Take the opportunity to rappel a 13-story building, while raising support and awareness for those who are in crisis. WANT TO GO? Call for cost. 516-539-0150. eac-network.org.

2nd Annual 5k Walk- Walk the Talk

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 28, 9:30am WHERE: Holocaust Memorial & Tolerance Center of Nassau County, 100 Crescent Beach Road, Glen Cove AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This year’s Grand Marshal will be NYS Assemblyman Tony D’Urso. All proceeds support HMTC. WANT TO GO? Visit website for information. 516-571-8040 x107. hmtcli.org. ›› LongIslandParent 31

Clay Sculptures

WHEN: Oct. 10-24, Wednesdays except 10/17, 7:15pm WHERE: Hicksville Public Library, 169 Jerusalem Ave., Hicksville AGES: Adult WHAT: Meagan Meehan will be teaching sculptural techniques which can be used for any style, abstract or traditional. WANT TO GO? $5. 516-931-1417. hicksvillelibrary.org.

Fall Festival Face Painting

CRAFTY KIDS Emoji Unicorn Paint Event for Kids!

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art East Rockaway, 131 Main St., East Rockaway AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Come paint the Emoji Unicorn! No experience necessary! WANT TO GO? $20. 516-218-2920. keytomyart.com.

Columbus Day Paint Event- Ship!

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 8, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art East Rockaway, 131 Main St., East Rockaway AGES: 5-17 WHAT: While the kids are off from school, get them out of the house for some painting fun at Key to My Art! WANT TO GO? $20. 516-218-2920. keytomyart.com.

Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Paint and Chat FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 9, 3:30pm WHERE: Queens Village Library, 94-11 217 St., Queens Village AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children will indulge their inner artist with this painting activity. WANT TO GO? queenslibrary.org.

Fall Family Pumpkin Paint Event

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art East Rockaway!, 131 Main St., East Rockaway AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Enjoy painting with your kids or drop them off and take a break! No experience necessary! WANT TO GO? $20. 516-218-2920. keytomyart.com.

Zombie Workshop FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 17, 6:30pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 9-17 WHAT: In this hands-on workshop students will turn themselves into zombies using latex, face paint, and tissue paper. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Star Wars Paint Event! Paint R2D2 and Meet an R2 Android Mech! WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 21, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art East Rockaway, 131 Main St., East Rockaway AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Paint R2-D2 and meet R2-AE! WANT TO GO? $30. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com. 32

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WHEN: Through Oct. 28: daily, 10am-5pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Children and adults are encouraged to get into the fall spirit by having their face painted at the fall festival. WANT TO GO? $8. 516-334-0066. HicksNurseries.com.

Build Your Own Scarecrow

WHEN: Through Oct. 28: daily, 10am-5pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Create your very own scarecrow! WANT TO GO? $15. 516-334-0066. HicksNurseries.com.

Make It: Lightsabers

WHEN: Oct. 6-28, Saturdays-Sundays, 1:30pm and 5pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 5-12, Adult WHAT: Explore light and simple circuits while creating brilliantly glowing lightsabers. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Joy of Water Color

WHEN: Through Oct. 29: Mondays, 10am WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Learn to communicate what you sense and feel about the world you see. Beginner as well as intermediate students are welcome. WANT TO GO? $16 Library fee; $12 materials fee. 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

In the Eyes of the Beholder: The Connection Between Art, Nature, and Community FREE WHEN: Through Oct. 31: Tuesday-Friday, 10am-2pm; Saturday, 11am3pm; Sunday, 1-4pm; closed Mondays. WHERE: Oyster Bay Historical Society, 20 Summit St., Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Featuring nature-inspired artwork created by students. WANT TO GO? 516-922-5032. oysterbayhistoricalsociety.org.

First Tuesdays FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 4: Tuesdays, 6pm WHERE: IKEA Long Island, 1100 Broadway Mall, Hicksville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Whether arts and crafts or tasty treat decorating, you can be sure these kids activities are fun for all ages! WANT TO GO? 888-888-4532. ikea.com.

Family Sundays

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: daily, 1pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Reconnect while talking about and making art together. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors and students; $4 children. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

BROWSE & BUY How to Buy Technology FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 4, 6:30pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Learn what to consider before buying, and how to find evaluations and shop for bargains online. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Kick Off To Fall FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 11am-4:30pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Explore the grounds and buy a variety of Hudson Valley apples, fresh cider, doughnuts, and apple pie. WANT TO GO? 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

Rockville Centre Farmers Market FREE

WHEN: June 3- Nov. 18, Sundays, 7am-12pm WHERE: Rockville Centre Railroad Station, Municipal Lot #12, Sunrise Highway and Long Beach Road, Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: View an array of produce and products, including fresh fruits and vegetables, jams, jellies, cakes, and coffee. WANT TO GO? 631-323-3653. longislandgrowersmarket.com.

WHAT: The program features a presentation on getting started in birding, including a guided bird walk. WANT TO GO? 516-922-4788. nps.gov/sahi.

Maze By Moonlight

WHEN: Oct. 13-20, Saturdays, 4:30-9pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Navigate The Amazing Maize Maze by the starry night sky and your flashlight. WANT TO GO? $12; $7 children ages 4-11; free for children ages 3 and younger. 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

Fall Harvest and Giant Pumpkin Contest FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 23, 10am WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: This newly expanded competition includes giant pumpkins and additional categories for large, decorated vegetables. WANT TO GO? 516-334-0066. hicksnurseries.com.

Hayrides Down a Decorated Path

WHEN: Through Oct. 28: daily, 10am-5pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Highlights include hay bale art, a haunted forest, and a ghoulish graveyard. WANT TO GO? $5 per person. 516-334-0066. HicksNurseries.com.

Garden City Farmers Market FREE

WHEN: June 5- Nov. 20, Tuesdays, 7am-1pm WHERE: Behind State Supreme Court, 101 County Seat Drive, Mineola AGES: All WHAT: Pick from an assortment of fruits, vegetables, eggs, soaps, oils, pickles, juices, breads, and more. WANT TO GO? 631-323-3653. longislandgrowersmarket.com.

Empire State Market FREE

WHEN: May 6- Dec. 23, Sundays, 8am-4pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: Browse new and collectible goods, including jewelry, apparel and fashion accessories, household items, various artwork and crafts, and food. WANT TO GO? 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Grand Unveiling: Sculpture Garden New Additions FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 11, 5:30pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a festive opening, with refreshments, and guided tour with the director of the exciting new additions. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors; $4 children and students. 516-4849337. nassaumuseum.org.

Birding for Beginners FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13, 9am WHERE: Sagamore Hill National Historic Site, 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All LongIslandParent 33

DANCE PARTY Baby Time/Circle Time FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 2, 10:30am WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: Newborn-2 WHAT: This 30-minute, multi-session program includes a series of songs, story time, and simple movement. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Autism/Sensory-friendly Turtle Dance Music: Music, Bubble, & Comedy Show FREE

LITTLE FOODIES Spanish Tapas FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 5, 6pm WHERE: Hicksville Public Library, 169 Jerusalem Ave., Hicksville AGES: Adult WHAT: Join Chef Robert Dell’Amore as he returns to prepare two classic Spanish Tapas recipes. WANT TO GO? 516-931-1417. hicksvillelibrary.org.

German Apple Cake FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 11, 1pm WHERE: Hicksville Public Library, 169 Jerusalem Ave., Hicksville AGES: Adult WHAT: Celebrate Oktoberfest with Chef Rob Scott as you make a delicious German Apple Cake. WANT TO GO? 516-931-1417. hicksvillelibrary.org.

Halloween Pumpkin Cake Decorating

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 16, 7pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Learn how to make a spooky Halloween cake using fondant. WANT TO GO? $5. 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Pizza Party with Otto

WHEN: Through Oct. 26: Fridays, 4pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Chef Otto invites children to join him for a pizza party and hayride. WANT TO GO? $19.99. 516-334-0066. HicksNurseries.com.

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 7, 12:15pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 3-17 WHAT: This sensory-friendly show is a musical experience designed to engage with children through comedy, movement, and stories! WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161 x222. syossetlibrary.org.

Compania Flamenca Eduardo Guerrero presents ‘Flamenco Pasion’

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 14, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Eduardo Guerrero combines classical and contemporary Spanish dance, ballet, and contortion to express the skill of this beloved Spanish art form. WANT TO GO? $45 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Ballroom Dancing FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 29: daily except October 8, 7:30pm WHERE: Hicksville Public Library, 169 Jerusalem Ave., Hicksville AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Learn the art of ballroom dancing. WANT TO GO? 516-931-1417. hicksvillelibrary.org.

Zumba with Desiree

WHEN: Through Nov. 1: Thursdays, 5:30-6:30pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Zumba combines Latin and international music with exercise to burn calories, tone muscle, and improve the cardiovascular system. WANT TO GO? $44. 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Breakfast with Otto

WHEN: Through Oct. 28: Monday, Wednesday, Friday, 10am WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Breakfast with Otto and take a hayride at 11:30am WANT TO GO? $19.99. 516-334-0066. HicksNurseries.com.

Coming up next month:

What’s Cooking? Halloween Spooktacular!

NOV. 4-25: Who Took Tom Turkey? at Broadhollow Theatre at Elmont, Elmont

WHEN: Oct. 26-30, Wednesday, Saturday, and Sunday, 5-7pm WHERE: What’s Cooking, 30 E. Main St., Oyster Bay AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Decorate a haunted chocolate house as a beautiful centerpiece and make a spooky meal! WANT TO GO? $49. 516-922-2665. whatscookingny.com.

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NOV. 4: Chinese Warriors of Peking at Madison Theatre, Rockville Centre NOV. 15-25: Disney on Ice Presents Mickey’s Search Party at NYCB Live, home of the Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum Presented By New York Community Bank, Uniondale

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October Chills & Spooky Thrills Compiled by Anja Webb

Get in the Halloween spirit and get ready for a fun-filled fall! Whether you’re looking for some ghoulish fun to scare the pants off your teens or some more light-hearted haunts for the little ones, we’ve got you covered with our ultimate Halloween guide. Keep the thrills going with escape rooms that allow you to embrace your inner Houdini and give your kids the perfect opportunity to show off their detective skills. Or, if you’d rather take it easy, try taking a family day trip to the farm for some pumpkin picking. Now if it’s already a little too chilly outside, you might want to stay indoors and go for a skate at your local roller rink instead. Whatever you’re looking for, we’ve got what you need to get ready for the Halloween season and make it a great October with your family!

PUMPKIN PICKING Harbes Family Farm’s Middle Earth Pumpkin Farm

715 Sound Ave., Mattituck 631-298-0800; harbesfamilyfarm.com U-pick pumpkins through Nov. 1, 9am-6pm. Apple picking on weekends (and Columbus Day), 9am-6pm. Hayrides weekends only, corn maze, pony rides, farm animals, and snacks available. Fall decorations for sale. Restrooms on-site. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/pumpkins

HALLOWEEN FOR KIDS Rise of the Jack O’Lanterns’ Garden of Gourds

71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury 516-252-3392; therise.org Oct. 5-29; see website for schedule With three locations (Old Westbury, Los Angeles, and San Diego), this event features more than 5,000 hand-carved glowing pumpkins and live celebrity carving artists. Follow the 1/3-mile-long jacko’-lantern walking trail made extra festive with an original Halloween-themed musical score. Look out for a 50-foot dragon comprised entirely of pumpkins, plus safari-themed creations at this year’s event.

ROLLER RINKS Hot Skates

Can You Escape?

44 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola 516-246-9939; canyouescapeli.com Escape room themes include Once Upon a Time, The Interrogation Room, The Subway, The Apartment, and The Prison Break. It also has a mobile escape room available for special events.

14 Merrick Road, Lynbrook 516-593-1424; hotskates.com If you’re looking for an enjoyable day out, where the kids (and you!) can learn or practice roller-skating in a fun and safe environment, Hot Skates is the place to go. The venue boasts a real maple wood rink, a superb state-of-the-art sound system and game room. There is also an on-site snack bar, which serves up classic American fare, including pizza, nachos, and Buffalo wings. The center also offers a variety of different party packages for kids ages 4 and older.

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Posting about your little one’s life on social media is big-time fun—but is it smart? And safe?

n parenthood, there are moments of mayhem we don’t want anyone else to see and moments we want to highlight on Instagram—and, if we’re being honest, moments of mayhem that are totally worthy of a post on Instagram. If this is something you know all too well, welcome to ‘sharenthood.’ It is no secret that as we scroll through our various social media feeds, most (if not all) of what we see is staged. Everyone has a different motive for posting their children on social media, and some choose to keep their babies off Facebook and Instagram completely. The 38,000-follower Instagram account @thispugslife, winner of The Ellen DeGeneres Show’s Ellen Rate My Baby, began as an account showcasing Charlie, a black pug. Account creator Meredith Kreuger’s daughter was added to the mix when she was born. “Followers tell me all the time that the two of them make them smile and make them happy,” Kreuger says. “My goal is to make people laugh via Instagram and blogging. I love captioning photos and I love to write!” There are parents who post pictures to keep their families in the loop, some who use Instagram as a scrapbook of sorts, others who are aiming to send a greater message, and in some cases, to receive a sense of validation. This all leads us to the question: to post or not to post?

Why Sharent?

Mac & Mia, an online children’s clothing service, surveyed 2,000 new parents about how they felt when it came to posting their babies on social media. The survey concluded there are two types 36

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of parents: those who claim they use social media to keep friends and family involved and develop content for future scrapbooking projects (87 percent) and those who have no shame in saying ‘it just feels good to show off my kid’ (13 percent). Although parents link their posting motives to being about their kids, it turns out it’s more about appeasing themselves, according to Ida Jeltova, Ph.D., a licensed psychologist in Rockland and Bergen counties with more than 14 years of clinical experience working with children, youths, and families. “Social media provides a perception, if not actual validation, of ‘my child is liked and doing well. I am a good parent’,” she says. There is a small population of parents who are competitive due to insecurity, Dr. Jeltova adds, which forces the child to develop an extension of parental ego and self-esteem. “The parent needs the child to be liked to feel likeable themselves,” she says. At the end of the day, every parent is different, and there’s nothing wrong with feeling validated, whether you’re helping others by sending a message or it gives you an extra boost—as long as it’s all in good spirit.

Sending a Message

A national survey conducted by Edison Research, as a part of Minute Maid’s this is GOOD campaign, revealed that 94 percent of sharents stage their social media posts. Although this might seem shocking, it is important to remember that social media is meant for an audience and the photos are staged to project a motive, whether it’s clear or ambiguous.

For example, the Instagram account @papaanddaddy, which has 44,600 followers, is clear in its message and role in the social media world: to normalize same-sex parenting. “There’s a lot of work left to be done in normalizing same-sex parenting. This is our small way of paying it forward,” says James Loduca, one of the dads behind the account. “At the end of the day, representation matters. It’s hard to dream about what you can’t see. As kids, there weren’t gay families represented in media. We want to do our part to change that for generations to come.”

But Be Conscious of Cyber Bullying

Christine Di’Amore, a Youtuber with nearly 300,000 subscribers, is best known for her videos about makeup and lifestyle. Despite her Internet presence, she has chosen to keep her daughter out of the public eye for now. “While hateful comments don’t hurt me, a lot of people who aren’t conditioned to the harsh world that social media can be (like my daughter) might be more affected by those words, regardless of how ridiculous or untrue they are,” Di’Amore says. “If my daughter does come across any negative comments, she knows I will have a conversation with her and try to help her understand the psyche behind those who bully others, and the reason they want to bring others down to their level.” As children grow older and have more access to the Internet they will come to realize cyber bullies are everywhere. While their hurtful comments can be ignored, they might be hard to brush off. On the flip side, being exposed to cyber bullying at a young age can help children understand how to deal with it as they enter their teenage years. “Another reason for not sharing that I often hear is a desire to protect the child’s privacy. The child has the right to be growing up in a protected, emotionally safe environment,” Dr. Jeltova says. “Having his or her images posted is inviting feedback and judgment and potentially jeopardizes the privacy and emotional safety.” When you place yourself in the public eye, whether it’s to express a message to thousands of followers or you’re sharing your child’s preschool graduation, there is a safety concern and a leeway for hatred. “There are a ton of people out there that are looking to do harm in a variety of ways,” says Amaliya Makarovskaya, a Manhattan mom of two. “I find that there is very little to be gained from social media in general, especially through my kids posts.” Circling back to the Mac & Mia survey, 42 percent of parents say they have planned posts of their children in advance and have spent up to 2 hours to get the perfect shot. As with all things when it comes to parenting, it’s ultimately up to you to weigh the pros and cons of sharing snapshots of your children on social media, but think beyond safety and look into your true motive for posting a photo of your child. Remember: There is a definitive line between remembering a moment and wasting time.

School Districts Consult Attorneys. Why Shouldn’t You?

School Districts ask their attorneys what is the minimum amount of services the law requires them to provide to special education students. Why shouldn’t you ask your attorney what are the maximum amount of services the law requires the School District to provide? Going for your child’s first Individualized Education Plan (IEP) and don’t know what to expect? I can give you the answers to those questions and many more. As your attorney, I solve problems.

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Make sure to put child-proof latches on all cabinets and drawers containing hazardous materials, such as household cleaners, to keep your toddler safe.

Baby Proof ing 2.0

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How to update your safety measures at home once your baby becomes a toddler

hen your little one starts walking and begins exploring in greater depth, you may start to wonder what the next step is for child proofing your living space. It’s a good question to ask yourself: “As you prepare your home for the toddler stage, every part of the home should be reviewed to ensure the safety of your newly and very mobile little one,” says Geneuviève Thibault, founder of bblüv, a baby and toddler accessory retailer. “As your toddler grows and develops strength and ability, some tools, such as gates and play yards, can become obsolete as they triumphantly climb right over them. Now, the little things we can easily overlook, like outlet covers, cabinet door locks, door handles, potentially hazardous house plants, pets, and cleaning products, become critically important as your toddler expands and explores his environment.” With this in mind, here are five areas of your home that you’ll want to scrutinize.

Bathroom

There are so many things a child could get into—and make a major mess with—in a bathroom, from lipstick to toilet-paper rolls. “The toddler stage finds little ones still testing every object with their hands and mouth,” Thibault says. As a result, parents should lock all cabinets with a child-proof latch to keep any cleaners and medications out of reach. It’s also important to keep your poisons and sharps “well out of reach…high up above the reach of the child,” in case someone forgets to relock the cabinet after use, says Carolyn Ziegler, a child proofer with 35 years of experience and 38

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founder of Dreambaby, a child safety company. There’s another potential danger lurking in your bathroom: the toilet. Besides the obvious sanitary issues surrounding children playing in the toilet, they could also drown, according to the Consumer Product Safety Commission. The water may seem shallow enough to us, but it’s the perfect height and depth for a toddler to fall in face first and get stuck with his head underwater. “You have to be very careful that your child does not have access to the toilet,” Ziegler says. “There are a number of products that can be used to close your toilet and make sure it is fully closed.” You can either purchase a latch specifically for the toilet, or use a childproof safety lock like the ones on your cabinets.

Windows

Nearly 5,000 children fall out of windows annually, with urban children being the most frequently affected, according to the CPSC. Though most modern homes have windows with screens and locks, those measures just simply aren’t enough. Screens are meant to stop insects, not children, so they are not a means of preventing falls. “When living in an apartment you need to understand the height of your apartment. You do not want children to have access to fall out of those windows,” Ziegler says. “So you must make sure you have a restrictor on [windows] so they will only open four inches, no more. You want to be able to make sure you can get a bit of fresh air, but the children are secured within.” Though there’s no substitute for parental supervision, parents

can’t keep a watchful eye 24/7. “Window and door alarms also alert parents quickly to potential dangers and are especially helpful during times when parents are sleeping,” Thibault recommends. “Avoid putting shelves or climbable furniture under windows.” Falling isn’t the only window-related danger for children. A study by the Center for Injury Research and Policy shows that nearly 17,000 children younger than 6 are hospitalized annually for injuries caused by window blinds, which can be a potential strangulation hazard. “Many blinds have got long cords,” Ziegler says. “Make sure you keep those well out of reach of children.” In order to prevent injury, replace traditional blinds with cordless blinds, or get a retrofitting kit that allows you to tie up cords in spaces that are out of reach of children. And don’t let renting inhibit your toddler proofing. “If you can’t screw things in because you’re renters, don’t do it. There are plenty of products that are adhesive, or work on handles that you can slide over,” according to Ziegler.

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The CPSC advises parents anchor all furniture to the wall, or secure it with anti-tip brackets. This includes dressers, entertainment sets, televisions, and any furnishings with drawers. Additionally, to reduce risk of any of these items toppling over, be certain to use all products according to manufacturer instructions. Even if your furniture is safely mounted, children can climb up shelves, according to anchorit.gov. To discourage children from scaling furnishings in an attempt to reach appealing objects, never store toys, remote controls, or other desirable items on top of tall furniture.

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Just like the bathroom, the kitchen is filled with potential hazards. As always, you’ll want to secure all cabinets and drawers with childproof latches, but that’s not all. “One of the things I try to encourage parents to do is actually do most of the cooking while the child Ad SaltzmanRW_Fall2018_NassauParent_QtrPg.indd is asleep so you haven’t got all of this buzzing activity, sharp knives, hot stoves, ovens, and everything at the same time,” Ziegler advises. Of course, on a busy day it’s not always convenient to wait until nighttime to prepare dinner or do the week’s meal prep. When waiting isn’t an option, try to cook on the back burners so children can’t reach up and grab anything. Additionally, “make sure you always turn [pots’ and pans’] handles inwards,” Ziegler says.

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We all know how cold it can get in New York when winter rolls around. However, radiators may be a potential hazard. “Parents with radiators can install covers that are both functional and fashionable,” Thibault says. These covers can prevent children from coming into direct contact and sustaining serious burns. Also begin educating your children about the risk of injury from burns. “Start teaching them the word ‘hot’ very early,” Ziegler advises. “You need to sound a little alarming when you say the word. You need to start instilling the understanding of hot. You don’t want them to be touching that hot radiator and getting that burn.” And though a nice hot bath may seem ideal after a day in the snow, keep your water heater set to lower than 120 degrees Fahrenheit. “A lot of water that comes out of your tap is very, very hot and a child can be scalded by it,” Ziegler warns. “Make sure that if there is a temperature gauge that you can vary, bring it down.” If you’re not sure if an area of your home is fully toddler proofed, you may need a change of perspective. “Check out your home from your toddler’s viewpoint,” Thibault advises. “What looks interesting but is potentially dangerous?” This could point out any aspects of child proofing you might have overlooked.

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t seems like only yesterday your child was a baby and you were cooing over his every breakthrough. From first smile to first laugh to first wobbly step, your days were filled with scrapbook-stuffers and Insta-worthy occasions. Guess what? As your child enters the teen years, she’ll be launching into a period of all-new milestones. No, they’re (mostly) not so cute—no need to pull out that scrapbook again!—but they are important signs that he’s growing up and branching out in healthy new ways. While children develop at their own pace, we asked leading experts to identify some of the leaps forward you might experience soon, and offer advice to help you cope with the challenges they may present.

Peer-Group Preference

Remember the good old days when your child wanted you to accompany her everywhere, and fought with her siblings and even your partner for the right to sit next to you at dinners out? Steel yourself: Your days at the top of the A-list may be numbered. “One [milestone] I think is common is shifting to your peer group instead of your family as a source of guidance and companionship,” says Rachel Annunziato, Ph.D., an associate professor of clinical psychology at Fordham University in the Bronx. “That can be hard for us as parents, but it can be a normal part of adolescent development,” Dr. Annunziato says. Teens “are being given more autonomy, and it’s a time when there’s more experimenting. It’s more of a chance to socialize on their own terms.” Your best response? Give your child some of the space he’s craving. “This is where they are working things out in a way that will be helpful before going into the college environment,” Dr. Annunziato explains. It doesn’t mean you have to retreat entirely— plan parent-kid activities scheduled around his other obligations. 40

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“I sometimes call it ‘calendaring backwards,’ where you set up the stuff that’s fixed and you can’t change in the calendar, and then put in the stuff that you want to prioritize,” says Mark Bertin, M.D., a developmental pediatrician in Pleasantville and author of How Children Thrive and Mindful Parenting for ADHD.

Social Calendar Commandeering

It can be a little distressing when your child’s social plans no longer include you. But if you’re at least consulted, you’re better off than many parents! That’s because the day may come when your kid makes plans for herself without asking your permission at all. (It may happen sooner in the city and in areas where there’s good public transportation.) In part, your child has become his own social director because he’s developing a better sense of time management. But for you it can be “very fear-inducing,” Dr. Annunziato says, especially if your child’s plans involve new friends you haven’t met yet. Your greatest ally, she says, is social media; thanks to it you may have more of an opportunity to get to know your kids’ friends’ parents, not to mention the friend herself. Alternatively, you can suggest the kids come over before going out. Don’t be afraid to nix a plan that seems unsafe or involves unsavory people, or a locale or return time that breaks family rules.

Extreme Embarrassment

Times were, you could be yourself around your child and his friends. Doing your victory dance at sports games will send her into a red-faced tizzy. And singing? Don’t even try. Why are you suddenly such a disgrace, no matter what you do? “That sense of being embarrassed by your parents is kind of exactly what you’d expect from teens. It’s because of the kind of

tightrope they’re trying to walk, of staying connected to their parents—which you know is still the goal even though they’re trying to become individuals—while also becoming more and more involved with their peers for support,” Dr. Bertin says. “That sense of embarrassment is probably just a natural reflection of a situation that’s confusing to them. They’re trying to be their own person and that puts them in a situation where they’re still connecting to you and connecting to their social group and trying to find a place that fits for all of that.” Again, the solution is to give your child some space (and tone down any of your embarrassing behaviors). Of course, adds Dr. Bertin, “know as a parent that there are still going to be times when you need to set a boundary and do something even if it’s embarrassing,” such as being stricter than everyone else’s parents (according to your child).

Real Romance

Sure, your child may have given a valentine to Jane a few years ago, and then had a crush on another girl the next year. But sometime in your kid’s mid-teens, you may start to realize that you’re no longer his main squeeze. “Certainly [there’s] more interest in dating; that will start around then, whether it’s with the opposite sex or the same sex,” Dr. Annunziato says. While pairing off can stem from genuine interest, it can also be a result of dating pressure. How do you help your child resist the urge to follow the crowd in forming couples? “To the extent you can, keep communication open,” Dr. Annunziato recommends. Let your child know she can always come to you for guidance. As for when to allow your child to date, Dr. Annunziato says it’s all a matter of individual maturity—make sure he understands what it means, and is prepared for potentially getting hurt. And set ground rules and stick to them.

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Philosophical Pushiness

Your child’s been learning a lot in school, and from you, lately. “Maybe empathy for others is changing and increasing,” Dr. Annunziato says. “This is a time when moral reasoning really amps up and cognitively a lot is happening.” These changes may manifest themselves in strident ways: Your child could proclaim that meat is murder or argue with your politics heatedly. This is a positive transformation, Dr. Annunziato says. “It’s great to foster teens’ expression...to teach them how to respectfully disagree,” she explains. Acknowledge your teen’s opinions, and accommodate his wishes whenever possible without necessarily backing off of your viewpoints.

Future-Facing Planning

No one’s saying your child didn’t plot out her future when she was younger. Perhaps she planned on being a rock star, but now her dreams may come down to earth and start taking on a more realistic slant—she may say she wants to become a physician or a mechanical engineer. Teens “begin to become more goal oriented,” Dr. Annunziato says. “I think that it’s something that I am seeing even younger, and it lasts into the college years.” As teens’ sense of time becomes refined and their cognitive skills develop, planning for the future seems more doable. “If someone is showing an interest in [their future], run with it, make sure their plans make sense, let them take the lead if they’re showing maturity in that way,” Dr. Bertin says. But not all kids will be laser-focused on their life after school, he cautions.” And don’t be disappointed if your child’s desire ultimately peters out: “A lot of us are a lot different in college than in high school... Things are going to keep changing,” he says—an apt description of the teen years.

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Saving for Retirement

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IRAs and 401Ks can be overwhelming for many. Fear not: We’re here to help!

hether you’re just starting your career, switching jobs, or you’ve been working for three decades, making sure you’re saving for retirement is one of the most important things you can do to set yourself up for the future. And the sooner you start saving, the better off you’ll be financially. After all, of those who participated in the Charles Schwab 2018 401K Participant Survey, 60 percent said their 401K will be their main source of income in retirement. In that same survey, though, 40 percent said saving enough money for a comfortable retirement was their most significant source of financial stress. And with all of the savings options available, you may be feeling the stress too. It can be difficult to navigate what retirement savings vehicle is best for you, especially if financial knowledge isn’t your strong suit. The two most-common ways to save for retirement are a 401K and an Individual Retirement Account. Both are great tax-advantaged options, but it is a common misconception that you have to choose one. Those who are aggressively saving for retirement may have both a 401K and an IRA.

What is a 401K?

A 401K is an employer-sponsored program that allows eligible employees of a company to save and invest a percentage of their own salary for retirement without paying taxes on it, according to Rosanna Guardavaccaro, financial advisor with Strategies for Wealth in Rye Brook and The Guardian Life Insurance Company of America. This savings plan allows you to put away up to $18,500 each year. Only an employer can sponsor a 401K for its employees, and this includes if you work for yourself. 42

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If you are lucky enough to work for a company that offers a 401K, especially one that will make a matching contribution, Daniel D’Ordine, CPF, founder of DDO Advisory Services in Rhinebeck, suggests contributing at least the matching percentage, if it’s financially feasible for you to do so. For example, if your employer will make a matching contribution of up to 6 percent of your salary, you should contribute 6 percent of your salary. There are a handful of benefits to a 401K. “Contribution limits are so high that you can really lower your current income tax bill by taking money and putting it into your 401K,” D’Ordine says. If you live in a high tax area, this is especially valuable because you are lowering your tax bracket by contributing to your 401K. For example, if you pocket $12,000 of your paycheck, you will have to pay up to 40 percent of taxes on that amount. However, if you put that same $12,000 into your 401K, it’s tax-free money and you have the opportunity to have a portion of that matched by your company (aka free money). Another advantage is a 401K is ‘automated invisible savings,’ D’Ordine says. “Once you can adjust to this slight reduction in your paycheck, the savings are happening automatically,” he says. “You forget about it and it takes away the emotional component of saving.” Another great benefit of investing in a 401K is dollar-cost averaging, which means you are investing a fixed dollar amount on a regular schedule and any market fluctuations will not affect this investment, D’Ordine says. Should your salary or your financial situation change, you can change your investment contributions on a quarterly or yearly basis, depending on your company’s policy.

What is an IRA?

An IRA is a mini-federal retirement account you can set up on your own, without sponsorship from an employer, according to D’Ordine. An investment custodian, bank, mutual fund company, or advisor can help you set up a traditional or Roth IRA. With both IRAs, you can put away up to $5,500 each year, plus an additional $1,000 if you are older than 50. The difference between the two is in contributions. When you contribute to a traditional IRA, you can claim the contribution on your tax return. This means you will pay taxes on the money when you retire, Guardavaccaro says. But you might not get the full amount back in your refund. If your employer offers a retirement plan and your income exceeds certain levels, your deduction may be limited; if your employer doesn’t offer a plan, your deduction is allowed in full, according to the Internal Revenue Service. Roth IRA contributions are not tax-deductible, and you will receive that sum of money tax-free when you retire. If your modified adjusted gross income (the total income you report that is eligible to be taxed, minus some adjustments you can make) is more than $120,000 as a single or $189,000 as a couple, you may no longer qualify for an IRA. It’s best to consult your accountant or tax advisor if you think this may be the case.

Choosing a Retirement Fund

Determining which plan is best for you is easier than you may think. If your company will match any amount of your 401K contribution, D’Ordine suggests to do that. A matching contribution should be your number-one priority when determining how to invest for your future since it is a 100-percent return on investment. Many people believe 401Ks are not the most beneficial options due to fees and investment selections, however having access to one is actually a huge benefit of working for a company, D’Ordine says. “Put in enough to get your match, and if you don’t love the idea of solely investing in a 401K, invest in other stuff as well,” D’Ordine says. While most large companies offer 401K plans, some ‘mom and pop shop’ businesses may not, D’Ordine says. However, this doesn’t mean your boss doesn’t have a retirement plan in place. Some small business owners may put away money for employees in their own plan. Things get a little more jumbled when your company doesn’t match or doesn’t begin to match until after a few years of employment, or if your company doesn’t offer a 401K. At that point, look into an IRA. When opening an IRA, whether traditional or Roth, D’Ordine suggests working with an investment professional who can give you advice, as well as a CPA who can double check all of the numbers for you. It is important to know the difference between an investment shop, which can help you set up your plan, and someone who is in the business of giving tax advice because there is a huge tax component to investing for retirement, according to D’Ordine. An IRA is a great option for anyone, whether your company offers a 401K plan or not, so why not have both if you can afford it?

Is it okay to have neither?

“Retirement is an important goal and individuals should continuously save for it,” Guardavaccaro says. This is, of course, subject to the individual, the time she is at in her life, and where she currently stands in the economic ecosystem, D’Ordine says. If you are saving toward a shorter-term goal (a down payment on a house), it may be best for you to stop 401K contributions for that period of time. “Bite the bullet for those couple of years, pay the taxes, and throw all of your money into that goal,” D’Ordine says. A lot of companies will allow you to pause your 401K or adjust your contribution, according to D’Ordine. Your IRA is up to your discretion as far as changing contributions and pausing. The most important thing is making choices about where your money goes that make sense for you.

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183 South St., Oyster Bay 516-922-8300 notjustart.com create@notjust art.com Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and beyond. Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard.

SKY ZONE TRAMPOLINE PARK-DEER PARK 111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park 631-392-2600

ing t t Pe oo Z skyzone.com/deerpark deerparkinfo@skyzone.com The best birthday parties are at Sky Zone, Deer Park. We customize every birthday party. We have themed parties and super hero parties that include dodgeball, Foam Zone, Sky Slam, and endless jumping opportunities!

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THOMAS SCHOOL OF HORSEMANSHIP RIDING ACADEMY 250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com tsh@tshcamp.com Birthday parties, scout parties, and class trips are always a blast at the Thomas School of Horsemanship. For groups of 14-18 children. They receive one hour of riding time.

SPIN DJ ACADEMY

202 Merrick Road, 2nd floor, Rockville Centre 16 Broadway, Amityville 631-608-8858 spindjacademy.com Customize your own DJ dance party with songs and instruments your child loves. Then head to our playspace for play and pizza!

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30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-767-7675 unlimitedsportsaction.com info@unlimitedsportsaction.com Unlimited Sports Action offers sports birthdays for ages 2 and older. Our parties offer one hour of sports and activities on a climate-controlled turf field, followed by 30 minutes of food, drinks, and birthday cake in a private room.

TAS NEW YORK – THEORY OF ARTS AND SCIENCES 153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 1-888-827-8188 tasnewyork.com The Theory of Arts & Sciences (TAS) birthday packages include all you need for a two-hour guided paint or arts and

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Your local guide to tutors, teachers, lawyers, financial planners, and other professionals. DENTISTS & DENTAL PROVIDERS CUMMINGS FAMILY DENTAL 42 High St., Huntington 631-425-1650 cummingsfamilydentistry.com cummingsfamilydentistry@aol.com At Cummings Family Dentistry, we believe that a dentist and patient become a team. We spend time listening to your concerns and responding with the best treatment options for you. EHRENMAN & KHAN PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY 959 Brush Hollow Road, Suite #101, Westbury 516-333-3033 pediatricdentistlongislandny.com kidsteethli@gmail.com Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry cares for all of your child’s oral health needs in a fun, kid-friendly environment that includes iPads and chairside TV monitors. MERRICK PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY 1756A Merrick Ave., Merrick 516-547-1997 merrickpediatricdentistry.com Dr. Rania Elbaz is a board-certified pediatric dentist who loves working with children and strives to create a warm and fun environment that children look forward to.

DOCTORS & MEDICAL PROVIDERS ADVANTAGE CARE HEALTH CENTER 189 Wheatley Road, Brookville 230 Hanse Ave., Freeport 516-686-4400 advantagecaredtc.org Advantage Care Health Centers and The Fay J. Lindner Center are Long Island’s premier Federally Qualified Health Care Centers (FQHC). We provide comprehensive medical, dental, and mental and behavioral health services to children and adults. LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk; 631-689-6858 Queens; 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

FOSTER CARE & ADOPTION BERKSHIRE FARM CENTER AND SERVICES FOR YOUTH

535 Broad Hollow Road, Suite B30, Melville 631-420-4444 berkshirefarm.org

Berkshire Farm Center & Services for Youth helps children find safety and comfort in the homes of foster parents. Become a foster parent and give the gift of family!

LEGAL SERVICES ANDREW COHEN, ESQ., LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW M. COHEN

250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com

The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen can help you achieve your objectives through careful special needs legal planning, regardless of the size of your estate. All clients are provided with high quality service at a reasonable cost. LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C.

534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com

Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law.

LICE FAIRY LICEMOTHERS

2463 S. Long Beach Road, Oceanside 866-561-0492 1755 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 866-561-0492 679 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Head 866-561-0492 fairylicemothers.com fairylicemothers@gmail.com

Our treatment centers are kid-friendly and our products are 100-percent non-toxic. Treatments include two free re-checks. Whether or not you use our service, we are here to help you. LICE CLINICS OF AMERICA - LONG ISLAND

47 Jackson Ave., Syosset 566 Merrick Road, Rockville Centre 516-336-4099 liceclinicslongisland.com

Lice Clinics of America will remove lice in just one hour! All lice and eggs—even Super Lice—are eliminated in a single, onehour treatment. Affordable treatments, no toxic chemicals.

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LICE TAMERS, INC.

900 Walt Whitman Road, Suite LL2, Melville 877-237-LICE (5423) licetamers.com licetamers@gmail.com

Lice Tamers offers same-day lice treatment and head checks at our comfortable, child-friendly treatment center or in the comfort of your home. All of our products are safe and non-toxic.

SPECIAL NEEDS ANDREW COHEN, ESQ., LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW M. COHEN

250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com

Serving Nassau and Suffolk counties as well as the five boroughs of NYC 61-43 186th St., Fresh Meadows 516-273-1961 Sprout Building 166 Valley St., Providence, RI 401-421-4004 dr-imber.com scimber1@aol.com

Dr. Imber has more than 40 years of experience consulting, evaluating, and advocating for children, adolescents, and adults with various disabilities including autism (e.g. Asperger’s syndrome), attention deficit disorders, intellectual disabilities, emotional and behavioral disorders, and learning disabilities. LIFE’S WORC THE FAMILY CENTER FOR AUTISM

1501 Franklin Ave., Garden City 516-741-9000 familycenterforautism.org

The Family Center for Autism provides services and support for people with autism and their families. Programs include: insurance services, birthday parties, art, music, sports and culinary classes, camps, parent and sibling programs, social events, vocational programs, and behavior intervention. LITTLE OPTICS, INC.

192-07 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 53-15 Roosevelt Ave., Woodside 718-468-7500 Hablamos Español. littleopticsinc@yahoo.com

We provide eyeglasses and professional eye care for children, including infants and young adults. We also alleviate any self-esteem issues associated with the stigma of wearing

glasses. When your child leaves Little Optics, rest assured that they will feel confident. LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk; 631-6896858 Queens; 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders. LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C.

534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com

13 South Bayles Ave., Port Washington 516-767-0266

Steps to Socialization was created to help children who have difficulty socializing. We teach children how to think socially, step by step. Working in small groups, we cover a variety of topics, including how to establish and maintain friendships and initiating and maintaining conversations.

THERAPY & COUNSELORS AVIVA CHANSKY GUTTMANN, L.M.S.W. CERTIFIED IMAGO RELATIONSHIP THERAPIST 631-885-4375 avivachanskyguttmann.com helpconnectingus@gmail.com Aviva Chansky Guttmann is a certified Imago Relationship Therapist offering home-based therapy for couples, partners, and families. Flexible scheduling and large travel radius.

TUTORS & TEST PREP EYE LEVEL NASSAU Eye Level Hicksville 760 S. Broadway, Hicksville 516-597 5300, Jyoti Dhingra Eye Level Williston Park 61 Hillside Ave., Williston Park 516-747-7700, Alida Vucemilovich Eye Level New Hyde Park-Coming Soon! 1 Jericho Turnpike 516-775-1000, Min Bittaf myeyelevel.com

Eye Level offers math and English programs for ages 3-14. Whether the immediate goal is for early learning, remedial education, or academic advancement, Eye Level is the answer. MATHNASIUM LEARNING CENTERS Five Towns 414 Central Ave., Cedarhurst 516-569-1500 Great Neck 11 Great Neck Road, Great Neck 516-482-MATH (6284) Lynbrook 381 Sunrise Highway, Lynbrook 516-881-7997 New Hyde Park 810 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park 516-616-MATH (6284) Roslyn 217A Mineola Ave., Roslyn Heights 516-484-MATH (6284) mathnasium.com Students go to Mathnasium year-round to catch up, keep up, and get ahead in math. Our instructional approach goes beyond traditional math tutoring to develop understanding and build a love for math. SYLVAN LEARNING CENTERS OF MINEOLA AND HUNTINGTON 393 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola 516-743-9943 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 sylvanlearning.com sylvanlearning@optonline.net Sylvan of Mineola and Huntington offer personalized tutoring programs in reading, writing, mathematics, and SAT and ACT prep. Sylvan will help identify the right program for your child and exactly where your child needs to start to get the best results. TAS NEW YORK – THEORY OF ARTS AND SCIENCES 153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 1-888-827-8188 tasnewyork.com Here education matters. The No. 1 learning center in New York. We offer after-school programs, private and group tutoring, kids and adult art classes, computer coding, SAT and ACT prep, Create and Meditate sessions, and summer camp! VILLAGE EAST GIFTED - ENRICHMENT CENTER FOR THE GIFTED LEARNER Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted provides after-school enrichment and private tutoring for gifted and talented students. We are a designated John Hopkins CTY and SAT testing center.

OPEN HOUSES 2018 Buckley Country Day School

2 I.U. Willets Road, Roslyn 516-627-1910 buckleycountryday.com Join us on Sunday, Oct. 14 at 2pm for our first fall open house. Learn about programs offered at Buckley, a coeducational independent day school serving 350 children, grades toddler-eighth.

Catholic Elementary Schools of Long Island Diocese of Rockville Centre

Multiple locations 516-678-5800 licatholicelementaryschools.org Early Childhood Education Open Houses run from Sunday, Oct. 21-Saturday, Oct. 26 at a Catholic elementary school in your neighborhood. Classes begin at age 3 in our safe and loving environment.

Friends Academy

270 Duck Pond Road, Locust Valley 516-676-0393 fa.org Join us for an open house Monday, Nov. 5 (Middle School), Tuesday, Nov. 6 (Upper School), and Thursday, Nov. 8 (Lower School).

Green Vale School

250 Valentine’s Lane, Old Brookville 516-621-2420 greenvaleschool.org Join us for an open house on Oct. 16 and Nov. 14 from 9-10:30am.

Holy Child Academy

25 Store Hill Road, Old Westbury 516-626-9300 holychildacademy.org Holy Child Academy offers an exceptional curriculum that lays the foundation for future success. Call any time for a tour.

Holy Family School

17 Fordham Ave., Hicksville 516-938-3846 x329 hfsli.org Making a difference one child at a time. Call any time for a tour.

Long Island School For The Gifted

165 Pidgeon Hill Road, Huntington Station 631-423-3557 lisg.org info@lisg.org Learn about LISG, a private school for academically gifted children in grades pre-K through ninth. Meet LISG administrators and teachers who will explain our accelerated program and admissions criteria.

Long Island Whole Child Academy School for Twice Exceptional Learning 175 Wolf Hill Road, Melville 347-668-3676

liwholechild.org info@liwholechild.org Visit LIWCA to meet with our director, tour our facility, and learn more about our school for the twice exceptional learner. Call us to register for our October open house.

Our Lady of Mercy

520 S. Oyster Bay Road, Hicksville 516-433-7040 olmshicks.org Where students, parents, and staff are encouraged to learn, believe, and achieve. Call any time for a tour.

Smithtown Christian School

1 Higbie Drive, Smithtown 631-265-3334 learnwithscs.org Join us at our open house Saturday, Oct. 20, from 10-11:30am. See what makes SCS stand apart from the rest. Take a tour of our school and meet our directors.

St. Dominic Elementary School

35 School St., Oyster Bay 516-922-4233 stdomsob.org One journey through faith and education. Call any time for a tour.

Village East Gifted - Enrichment Center for the Gifted Learner

Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com VEG is an academic enrichment program for gifted students in preschool through 12th grade. Register for an October demo class, followed by a facility tour and an evaluation with our director.

The Waldorf School of Garden City

225 Cambridge Ave., Garden City 516-742-3434 waldorfgarden.org/admissions/ events-tours/open-house-tours Parents of prospective students grades fourth to 12th are welcome to join us Oct. 10 to tour the school and understand how our curriculum awakens students to knowledge and strengthens moral responsibility.

Winston Preparatory School

30 Deforest Road, Dix Hills 212-719-5598 x2213 winstonprep.edu/our-campuses/li liadmissions@winstonprep.edu Register for an open house to learn about our educational philosophy and participate in a Q-and-A session. Thursdays, Oct. 11 and 25, at 9:15 am.

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Health Care Professional Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry 959 Brush Hollow Road, Suite #101, Westbury 516-333-3033 pediatricdentistlongislandny.com kidsteethli@gmail.com

Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry cares for all of your child’s oral health needs in a fun, kid-friendly environment that includes iPads and chairside TV monitors. Drs. Ehrenman and Khan are dedicated and trained to ease dental anxieties for young children as well as patients with special needs. Their years of advanced training include hospital and sedation dentistry. Please visit kidsteeth4li.com to learn more about what Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry has to offer!

Mesbah OB-GYN Women’s Health Care & Wellness 877 Stewart Ave., Suite 3, Garden City 516-794-1500 mesbahobgyn.com

Michael Mesbah, M.D. is board-certified with more than 20 years of private practice experience. His experience and expertise in obstetrics has made him one of the most respected physicians on Long Island. He has extensive training in gynecological surgery, and is a certified robotic surgeon. Karyn Wat, M.D. is multilingual in English, Spanish, and Chinese. She has been trained in general and high-risk obstetric care, as well as gynecological surgery. She is compassionate, dedicated, and knowledgeable in issues pertaining to teenagers, family planning, menstrual and hormonal abnormalities, and menopausal symptoms.

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Merrick Pediatric Dentistry 1756A Merrick Ave., Merrick 516-547-1997 merrickpediatricdentistry.com

Dr. Rania Elbaz is a board-certified pediatric dentist. She earned her dental degree from Columbia University. She then completed her pediatric dental training at UMDNJNew Jersey Dental School. Dr. Elbaz loves working with children and strives to create a warm and fun environment that children look forward to visiting. Dr. Elbaz sees every patient in order to ensure the consistency that is so important to young children. The office welcomes and gives extra time and attention to patients with special needs. The office also participates with most major insurance plans.

Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 • Suffolk: 631-689-6858 • Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES—Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. Seven affiliated offices across Long Island participate with most health insurance and offer evening and Saturday hours.

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What do you think your kids will be for Halloween? “My six-year-old son, Dillon, and four-year-old son, Reed, can’t get enough of Star Wars. My husband and I are trying to influence them to dress up as a member of the Resistance, but it is looking more likely that Dillon will be a Tusken Raider and Reed will be Darth Vader!” —Felicia Soler, Westchester County

“My five-year-old daughter is obsessed with Cookie Monster (second year in a row), so she will probably wear that costume again. My seven-year-old son is thinking of being a character from his favorite video game, Fortnite.” —Karen Ann, Rockland County

“Last year, for my daughter’s first Halloween, she was a peapod. This year I was thinking some kind of a woodland animal like a fox or a raccoon. I asked my three-year-old niece what Baby Gigi should be and she said a witch. When I said I wasn’t sure about that one, she said a pumpkin without hesitation. So a pumpkin it is!” —Amy Elliott, Brooklyn

“My daughter is four and she wants to be a fairy.” —Cathy Como-Marcotrigiano, Queens

“A giraffe. We already have the costume because I was so excited.” —Leslie Brachfeld Sanchez, Manhattan

Ultimately, my goal is for my girls to know that their ideas and creations are loved and valued. Whether it be a drawing, a dance move, a song they made up, or a funny-looking batch of peanut butter cookies. — Ilana Wiles, in a post entitled “Encouraging Creativity and Conﬁdence in My Girls” on mommyshorts.com

“Stop putting kids ﬁrst. Imagine a relationship that centers on the two of you, and all the stability and care your kids will take from that. Accept that a truly wonderful relationship only multiplies the love available to your kids— not robs them of some of yours. Because in those families, there is all the more love to go around.” — Emma Johnson, in a post entitled “Why Single Parents Should Put Their Kids Second When Dating” on wealthysinglemommy.com

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“Since my one-year-old son loves airplanes, he will most likely be dressed as a pilot. My daughter? Definitely Peppa Pig! She loves everything Peppa, especially ‘Princess Peppa.’” —Vanessa Gordon, Suffolk County

“Seriously, any Fortnite character.” —Chrissy MonteMastro, Nassau County

YOU SNOOZE OR YOU LOSE “Anyone with a toddler who woke up a little too early, stayed up a little too late, or missed a nap knows the dreaded consequences: whines that escalate into ear-shattering screams that make you want to run away and join the circus — if that were an option. One simpler remedy is adequate sleep. In about a third of all-cases, sleep-deprived behavior is often misdiagnosed as ADHD.” —Rebecca Kempton, JD, in an article entitled “10 Ways Good Sleep Habits Make Kids Smarter, Happier, and Healthier.” Read the whole story at nymetroparents.com/sleep-habits.

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Early Childhood Education Week • October 21-27

Give your children a leg up, with Early Childhood Education. You want to give them a safe, loving environment. With structure and discipline. Not just day care, but a real school with certified teachers. A school that supports working Moms (and Dads), with before and after care—and gives students as young as three years old the fundamental skills they need to develop a lifetime love of learning. Of course, choosing a Catholic education gives them much more than an educational advantage. It also helps them understand their purpose in life and their obligations to others, reinforcing the values you live at home. Isn’t that what you want for your children? To learn more about why Catholic Elementary School is a better place to start, and to find a school near you, visit us online at www.LICatholicElementarySchools.org or call 516-678-5800 x 258.