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Safety Tricks (and Treats) for Halloween

Halloween Fun in Manhattan

Prepare your kids, so Halloween is safe and stress-free for everyone

birthdays 12 Wild and Wilder 14 Birthday Party Directory 46 The (Not-So) Sweet Season

Events to kick off the spooky season and guides for other fall activities

Moving Right Along

Ways to make a move easier on the whole family

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Safety Tricks (and Treats) for Halloween 10 Working with Your Nanny—When You Work from Home 18 Back-to-School Resources 36 Baby’s Wish List 40 The Disaster Zone 41 Open Houses 42 Profesional Services 43 Meet the Health Care Professional 45 Advertisers’ Index

24 Halloween Fun in Manhattan

38 Moving Right Along

25 Family Activities Calendar

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Helping Parents Make Better Decisions ON THE COVER ›› 10 Keeping kids safe while trick-or-treating 12 Three major party trends 14 Planning Resources 24 Haunted houses, pumpkin patches, and more 36 Crafting the Perfect Baby Registry 46 Surviving the Sweet 16 facebook.com/nymetroparents

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OCTOBER 2019 • Vol.11 • No.5

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It’s Spooky Season

risp air, cooler temperatures, and (soon) the changing of the leaves. Those are a few of our favorite things, but nothing beats our favorite fall holiday: Halloween! Some people celebrate their birthdays for the whole month, but we celebrate Halloween all month long—and affectionately refer to it as Spooky Season. (Though, if we’re being honest, we officially started celebrating on Friday the 13th.) In this issue, you’ll find a roundup of the best Halloween events in the community (p. 32), from spooky movie screenings to Halloween scavenger hunts, as well as a few can’t-miss celebrations in Manhattan (haunted hayride anyone?), to get you in a ghoulish mood (p. 24). Plus, you’ll find tips to keep your kids safe while trick-ortreating (p. 10). Bonus: We’re creating a Halloween e-book just for you, full of advice, 2019’s hottest costumes, places to celebrate, and more! Look for it on nymetroparents.com in early October. Speaking of celebrating birthdays all month long, this also happens to be our birthday issue! We spoke to moms, party planners, and trend experts to find the three most-popular party themes that break the mold—and provide tips for throwing them (p. 12). I didn’t have a huge bash for my Sweet 16—they weren’t really a thing in Maine. We likely celebrated with dinner at my favorite restaurant, followed by blueberry pie and presents at home. Looking back, I don’t mind that the affair was low-key— especially after reading about Suzanne Bergen’s experience. In “The (Not-So) Sweet Season” (p. 46), Bergen compares organizing her daughter’s Sweet 16 to planning her own wedding. Ultimately, though, it was all worth it. If you’re getting ready to plan a birthday party, make the best decisions for your child’s celebration by checking out the birthday party resources directory (p. 14). However you choose to celebrate (Halloween or birthdays), we hope it’s a blast! Katelin Walling Editorial Director

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Montessori School in Centerport Adds Online Enrollment, Staff Members Who: Love of Learning What’s New: Denise Brazeau joined the leadership team on Aug 1. Sawyer, an online enrollment system, launched Sept. 4. Francesca Love, a Love of Learning alumna, began assisting with extended hours on Sept. 4. Brazeu was an early education teacher at LOL for 11 years and is currently an adult instructor for rising Montessori teachers. Sawyer was implemented to streamline the process of enrolling kids in the Montessori program, according to outgoing director Lille Craig. Love will enhance the extended hours program by instructing in activities, such as yoga, that support the growth of children’s cognitive skills and emotional intelligence in a safe and nurturing environment. Want More Info: 105 Prospect Road, Centerport; 631-629-6599; lolmontessori.org

Who: Hofstra Continuing Education What’s New: STEM Engineering and Design and Public Speaking Debate Course, both slated to begin Oct. 19. In STEM Engineering and Design, students will learn fundamentals by designing a project, testing and evaluating it, and then taking steps to improve it. In the Public Speaking Debate Course, students will learn to get comfortable with public speaking, writing, and self-confidence. Students have the choice of a 9-11am class or 11am-1pm class on Saturdays. Enrollment is open until the day the program begins. Updates are also in the works for existing courses Game Building Academy, Painting and Digital Arts, and Motion Capture Cartooning. The updates are slated for the 2019 school year. Want More Info: 255 Hofstra University, Hempstead; 516-463-7400; ce.hofstra.edu/youth 8

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Who: Advanced Academic Programs of Roslyn What’s New: Redesigned math, robotics, and physics curriculums, which began in the fall. The math curriculum will now offer three levels for each grade to better suit the diverse student community: fundamental, advanced, and competition math. The robotics program will now include coding, physical computing, artificial intelligence, and machine learning with opportunities to learn from industry professionals. Physics classes will now be offered in five main levels, beginning with pre-physics (fifth-seventh grades) and then physics 0-4, taught by a former physics professor aiming to help students understand physics from an engineer’s viewpoint. Want More Info: 20 Roosevelt Ave., Roslyn; 516-484-1789; roslynacademics.com

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Safety Tricks (and Treats) for Halloween ›› By Jacqueline Neber

alloween is one of kids’ favorite nights of the year, but it can also present some scary situations. Walking in the dark, wearing costumes, and receiving candy from strangers can make kids vulnerable to danger. Fortunately, there are ways to prepare your kids so Halloween is safe and stress-free for everyone.

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When it comes to Halloween safety, there’s no substitute for parental supervision, says Chris Hughes, the chief of police at Northport Police Department in Suffolk County. Kids younger than 12 should not go trick-or-treating without an adult, adds Debra Holtzman, J.D., M.A., author of The Safe Baby, and a national child safety expert.

Stay Local

When kids are ready to go out on their own, they should not trickor-treat in any unfamiliar part of town, Hughes says. Knowing where they are, how to get home, and who to go to for help—such as a neighbor or other trusted adult in the neighborhood—is crucial. They should only go up to houses with lights on, keep their cellphones charged, and never go inside any home, Holtzman advises.

Be Careful About Candy

Make sure your child knows to never eat anything that is unwrapped or appears to be homemade, Hughes says. You should “discard any candy that is a choking hazard, or your child is allergic to, or that is not in its original wrapper, or looks as though it has been opened,” Holtzman adds.

Choose Costumes Wisely

“Children are more than twice as likely to be hit by a car and killed on Halloween than on any other day of the year,” Holtzman says. Crossing the street carefully can help prevent car accidents— but costumes matter too. Kids should wear reflective tape on their costumes, and costumes should allow for 100-percent visibility. Consider face-paint instead of masks, Holtzman suggests, because it ensures they can see and won’t restrict breathing. Costumes should also be flame resistant, and short enough that kids won’t trip or fall.

Don’t Be Spooked

Halloween is and should remain a fun and festive holiday—as long as a few safety rules are in place. In general, Hughes says, kids should stay aware of their surroundings and avoid engaging with strangers. This will help everyone have more fun—even parents, who won’t have to worry while their kids trick-or-treat.

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or moms and dads who work at home, establishing rules and boundaries with the nanny can be tricky. Because you’re sharing a space, it’s essential that everyone knows who is boss during business hours. Here are a few guidelines that will help everyone work well together. • Have a weekly or biweekly meeting (though not in front of the kids) to discuss how things are going. • Avoid interrupting conversation between the nanny and children when they are engaged. • Don’t intervene. Even when a child is crying, throwing a tantrum, or having some sort of problem at school, let the nanny handle this as though you were working out of the house. • You and the nanny should set up a routine for mealtime,

naptime, bathing, bedtime, and social activities. If you need to step out of the home office, try to do it when the kids are otherwise engaged. • The day should operate as if the parent commuted to a job outside the home. Say a quick goodbye each day and then head to the home office. Although maneuvering between work and home mindsets (when office and home are in the same place!) can be confusing, it can be done successfully and smoothly as long as you and your nanny respect each other’s workspaces. In fact, it could be the best of both worlds— the people who care most about the kids are all in one place!

Mommybites’ nanny boards only feature postings from nannies’ current families. You can rely on their recommendations. If you need a nanny or babysitter, visit Mommybites.com.

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“If you don’t have a funny, entertaining guy, it’s just a bunch of animals and the kids are going to zone out.” Favors: Try this Pinterest favorite: Put animal crackers in mini mason jars or clear bags and decorate them with homemade tags. Or have the kids create mini terrariums, which double as favors, says Seri Kertzner, founder of Little Miss Party, a New York events company. Another idea: stuffed animals the kids can “adopt” and take home.

Kidchella

Throwing your own festival became a popular trend after Kim Kardashian celebrated her daughter North’s first birthday party with a kids’ version of the famous music festival Coachella. (Etsy has recently seen a 33 percent increase in searches for festival-themed items, Johnson says.) Kardashian’s bash featured a Ferris wheel, food stands, tents, and a stage, but fear not! You don’t need to have her budget to throw your own Kidchella. Tips: Festivals are all about the music. There are DJs out there who specialize in kids’ parties, and will do dance games and give out prizes. If a DJ isn’t in the budget, create a great playlist. You could also hire a face painter or use a tool like Blinger to decorate hair and clothes with sparkles. When it comes to décor, hang outdoor fairy lights and make your own festival signs. Favors: Set up a craft station and make flower crowns (Little Miss Party has a great online tutorial).

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Enchanted Forest

One of Pinterest’s biggest party trends of 2019 (searches jumped by 238 percent since last year, according to Johnson) is fairy forests. Think: fairy and elf costumes, toadstool seats, and lots of natural decorations like flowers, wood, grass, and moss. With all this magic, it’s a great theme to inspire little imaginations. Tips: Summer Ticas, a Manhattan mom, brought the enchanted forest inside for her daughter Andrea’s fourth birthday party. She used online tutorials from Pinterest to create trees out of twisted green and brown craft paper, and fairy lanterns using jars and glitter. She then sourced fairy garden miniatures (think mini-houses and toadstools) to decorate. For activities she set up craft stations for kids to make fairy dust necklaces and mini terrariums they could take home. Favors: Ticas made fairy tutus, wands and wings, elf hats, and capes for her daughter’s guests. The kids loved running around the enchanted forest in their fairy garb. Plus, Pinterest has some great DIY fairy houses, which could work as favors. Emma Steven is a British freelance writer living in Manhattan with her husband, two small kids, and two cats.

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At Clowns.com, our goal is to create an unforgettable and memorable party experience for you and your family. We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.

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Your special event needs just the right mix of creativity, energy, and professionalism to get the celebration started. Dynamic Beat Entertainment has been making events memorable for 20 years. Our services include DJ, lighting, photo booths, lounge décor, and video production.

Erik’s Reptile Edventure

P.O. Box 612, Middle Island 631-335-9308 edventureshow.com edventures1@yahoo.com

Have a World of Reptiles Party featuring 12 animals from all around the world! Wildlife education and fun with live reptiles and museum animals. All of our animals are adopted, or rescued, and cared for by Erik for years! We are ready to make your party an unforgettable event!

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BIRTHDAY PARTY PLACES As You Wish Parties

59 Merrick Ave, Merrick 516-590-7878 asyouwishparties.org/index.html info@asyouwishparties.org

Whether your child is a toddler or a tween, As You Wish Parties make your child’s party dreams come true. Our welcoming staff will help you choose from many party themes that include Pretty Princess, Knightly Knights, Traditional Tea, PJ Party, Rock Star and Superheroes, Dessert Party, or Kids Canvas Painting.

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1015 Port Washington Blvd., Port Washington 516-441-5526 portwashington.bachtorock.com portwashington@bachtorock.com

Celebrations In The Kitchen

63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com

The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event! We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy, including sugar cookie baking, all about pizza, cupcakes from scratch, doughnuts, chocolate and candy projects. Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen.com for more information on parties.

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfishhatchery.org info@cshfishhatchery.org

Be a star at B2R! At Bach To Rock music school, our parties will have everyone recording in a state-of-the-art studio with pro engineers. Choose from current pop and classic rock tunes, then sing on the main stage and enjoy pizza and cake!

Celebrate your child’s next birthday at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium! See the Hatchery & Aquarium’s exciting live exhibits. Feed the hungry trout and learn about fish, reptiles, and amphibians with an up-close animal encounter. Fishing Parties are available too, (for children turning age 4 and older).

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30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-453-0990 bethebestsport.org info@bethebestsport.org

Be The Best Sport provides sport birthday parties for children with special needs. Our qualified staff will make sure your son or daughter has a once in a lifetime experience! Please contact us to inquire about a birthday party!

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101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com

BounceU Farmingdale was voted “Best of Long Island” for Children’s Party Place and Family Amusement Center. We provide the ideal combination of inflatable structures, a clean environment, incredible customer service, and non-stop excitement. Private parties are meticulously planned and prepared by our knowledgeable staff, so parents can relax and enjoy themselves.

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Long Island’s leading gymnastics center, “Where Every Child is a Champion” since 1973. Island-wide with six locations and fully certified instructors. We offer classes for boys and girls 3 months to 18 years, beginner to advanced, licensed Ninja Zone Program and action-packed birthday parties!

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1399 Jerusalem Ave., N. Merrick 516-401-4100 gradyedu.com parties@gradyedu.com

Grady edu offers elite educational programs such as fashion design, culinary arts, woodworking building, dance, drama and acting, music, creative creation arts, and steam science. We also offer educational birthday parties with custom

culinary workshops, a fashion design pajama party, or girl day jewelry making pamper day.

Gravity Vault Melville Indoor Rock Gym 40 Melville Park Road, Melville 516-777-9255 gravityvault.com/locations/melville-ny melville@gravityvault.com

Host a birthday party with The Gravity Vault where ages 5 and older can come climb and have fun. Climbing is a great way to celebrate your birthday! Our awesome climbing parties give kids an exciting day they will never forget! Offering different party package options to accommodate your needs.

Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum

Pier 86, W. 46th Street and Twelfth Avenue, Manhattan 646-381-5010 intrepidmuseum.org groupsales@intrepidmuseum.org

Celebrate your child’s birthday with a one-of-a-kind party! The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum captivates groups of all ages and interests. Choose from exciting themes, value packages, and customization options to create an original birthday adventure they’ll never forget. Packages start at $30 per person.

Key to My Art, Inc.

10 W. Oak St., Amityville 131 Main St., East Rockaway 877-539-2278 keytomyart.com info@keytomyart.com

Celebrate your child’s birthday with us at Key to My Art! Your child chooses what the group paints. They can choose any theme, character, animal, or place. Parties include all supplies from aprons to easels, plus step-by-step instruction, pizza, and juice for all the children. Everyone leaves with a finished painting.

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The Lanyard Ladies

433 Merrick Road, Oceanside 516-578-2248 thelanyardladies.com thelanyardladies@yahoo.com

The Lanyard Ladies friendship bracelet and lanyard birthday parties bring the party to you, or you can come to their party place! Learn to make your favorite friendship bracelets and lanyard stitches. Many amazing themes and packages. We will customize any birthday party to fit your needs.

The Little Ladies Club

246 W. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-939-CLUB (2582) thelittleladiesclub.com party@thelittleladiesclub.com

The Little Ladies Club has been dedicated to making birthday parties extra special for more than 18 years! Your two-hour party includes; a mini makeover, Red Carpet Fashion Show, Tea Party with pizza and drinks, and dazzling dance time. Party favors and invitations included too!

Long Island Aquarium

431 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-208-9200 xH2O (426) or 631208-9200 x125 longislandaquarium.com

Have your child’s birthday party at the Long Island Aquarium. Party options include a choice of private rooms, select food items, and ice cream cake. All parties include a guided tour of the aquarium, special seating at the Sea Lion Show, and rides on the submarine simulator!

Long Island Nets

NYCB LIVE, home of the Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale longisland.gleague.nba.com

Long Island Nets birthday party packages are a great way to celebrate your next birthday. Receive exclusive gear and birthday shout outs.

M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym & Early Childcare Education Center A Rainbow Of Programs Under One Roof! 2629 Grand Ave., Bellmore 516-221-1330

171 Eileen Way, Syosset 516-496-7765 matsskidsgym.com corporate@matsskidsgym.com

M.A.T.S.S. is the ultimate weekend children’s party venue! We offer a rainbow of themes, specialties, and activities customized for your child’s next birthday celebration. Try an all-inclusive Beach Blast, Princess Tea Party, or Super Heroes theme and add a character or moon-bouncer to play in our spacious gyms.

Main St. Board Game Cafe - Unplug Your Game

307 Main St., Huntington 631-729-0060 mainstboardgamecafe.com/ reservation info@mainstboardgamecafe.com

Unplug your game! Main St. Board Game Cafe hosts parties for kids, tweens, and teens. Supervised by our staff of board game experts, our parties are a fun yet enriching experience for your next birthday or event. Ask about our Dungeons & Dragons parties as well!

Monster Mini Golf

410-C Commack Road, Deer Park 631-940-8900 monsterminigolf.com/locations/ deer-park

Your celebration at Monster Mini Golf is a one-of-a-kind party! All birthday packages include 90 minutes in a haunted mansion-themed private party room and a dedicated party host leading monster-themed, age appropriate, interactive games. Guests will play a round of golf under black lights with monster-themed décor featuring fun-loving, animated monsters.

My Gym Children’s Fitness Center

1320 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook 631-751-KIDS (5437) mygym.com/stonybrook 128 W Jericho Turnpike, Huntington Station 631-427-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/huntingtonstation Great South Bay Shopping Center 985 W. Montauk Highway, West Babylon 631-314-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/babylon

At My Gym the goal is to make your party an amazing, customized celebration and a wonderful memory for all guests. You will have exclusive use of the entire gym with a rock wall, trampoline, trapeze, climbing structures, and slides. Highly trained, enthusi-

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astic instructors lead your guests through action-packed activities.

Northwell Health Ice Center

200 Merrick Ave., East Meadow 516-441-0070 northwellhealthicecenter.com

It’s party time! Host your child’s birthday at Northwell Health Ice Center and have the coolest party in town. Our party planner will work with you to help plan a fun and memorable birthday party experience that include ice skating, skate rentals, pizza, and drinks. Call 516-441-0070 to learn more.

Not Just Art

183 South St., Oyster Bay 516-922-8300 notjustart.com create@notjustart.com

Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and older. Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard. We customize the fun to your child’s interest!

Saf-T-Swim

Nassau: 2050 Bellmore Ave., Bellmore 516-557-2114 625 Merrick Ave., East Meadow 516-538-6900 Located inside New York Sports Club 210 Gardiners Ave., Levittown 516-597-5193 1 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park 516-519-8787 3194 Lawson Blvd., Oceanside 516-442-2825 570 Main St., Westbury 516-876-0848 saf-t-swim.com

A Saf-T-Swim pool party is a great way to celebrate yearround! You and 24 guests will enjoy two hours or more of fun in our 88-degree heated pools, followed by a celebration with pizza in your own private party room. Invitations, party host, lifeguard, and thank you cards included.

Social Play Haus

200 Express St., Plainview 516-200-6444 socialplayhaus.com info@socialplayhaus.com

Social Play Haus is the newest and hippest cafe and event space created for modern families on Long Island. Our innovative concept allows kids and adults to play, eat, work, and lounge together. We specialize in first birthday cel-

ebrations, birthdays, showers, baptisms, reveals, fundraisers, and corporate events.

Sugar Factory

Sugar Factory - Meatpacking District 835 Washington St. Sugar Factory - The Row 700 8th Ave. Sugar Factory - Upper West Side 1991 Broadway 212-414-8700 sugarfactory.com sfny@sugarfactory.com

Party where the stars play! Here at Sugar Factory, we offer pre-fixed and customizable party packages for any celebration and budget! From private large-scale events to private dinners for two, a Sugar Factory celebration is one you will never forget!

Thomas School of Horsemanship Riding Academy

250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com tsh@tshcamp.com

Birthdays are more fun with horses and friends! Ride, play, and have exclusive use of our party room! Children receive one hour of riding time taught by one of our certified ride instructors who will teach them a fun-filled beginner lesson. Our facilities allow parties to run rain or shine!

Unlimited Sports Action

30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-767-7675 unlimitedsportsaction.com info@unlimitedsportsaction.com

Unlimited Sports Action offers sports birthdays for ages 2 and older. Our parties offer one hour of sports and activities on a climate-controlled turf field, followed by 30 minutes of food, drinks, and birthday cake in a private room.

Wowmoms World Long Island

328 E. Jericho Turnpike, Mineola 516-741-6667 wowmomsworld.com

We do children’s birthday parties differently-ours are health-oriented, educational, and fun! With kids’ meals and cake included, parents can relax and enjoy while our staff handles the details to ensure a special day. Choose from activity options like princess and superhero visits, face painting, and obstacle courses!

BIRTHDAY MARKETPLACE Social Play Haus is the newest and hippest event space on Long

Island. Our one of a kind, modern play space was created to indulge the needs of modern families by focusing on both children and adults.

CAFÉ: • Fresh Baked Goods, Small Plates • Locally Roasted Coffee & Espresso • Nitro Cold Brew, Craft Beer & Wine

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First Birthday Celebrations • Birthdays • Showers • Reveals • Baptisms • Fundraisers • Corporate Events

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Our party planner will work with you to plan everything from start to finish, to ensure that the guest of honor and his/her friends have a fun and memorable birthday party experience.

• Ice skating • Skate rental • Pizza • Soda, water or juice

ASK ABOUT OUR NEW ARCADE PACKAGE

Birthday parties take place during one of our indoor open skate sessions (maximum of two hours), and are available for kids ages six and older.

Call Kaitlin Santino at 516-441-0070 to learn more. Deposit of $100 required to book a party.

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Trout Fishing-spaces available first-come, first-served.

ACADEMIC ENRICHMENT/ LANGUAGE

61 Hillside Ave., Williston Park 516-747-7700 eyelevelny.com Whether the immediate goal is for early learning, remedial education, or academic education, Eye Level is the answer. Eye Level offers math and English programs for ages 3-14. Our instructors tailor a curriculum by understanding the learning abilities of the student. With each success the student grows more self-confident.

Advanced Academic Programs of Roslyn

20 Roosevelt Ave., Roslyn 516-484-1789 roslynacademics.com info@roslynacademicprograms.com Roslyn Academic Programs offers enrichment programs for school age children in mathematics, physics, chemistry, robotics, programming and engineering, languages, music, and art. We also offer standardized test (ACT, SAT, etc.) and subject test preparation for high school students.

Grady edu

1399 Jerusalem Ave., N. Merrick 516-401-4100 gradyedu.com info@gradyedu.com Grady edu offers elite educational programs such as fashion design, culinary arts, woodworking building, dance, drama and acting, music, creative creation arts, and steam science. Grady edu is also the place for after-school programs in tutoring and homework help, and study classes for major exams, finals, or tests.

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfishhatchery.org info@cshfishhatchery.org Join us for a fun-filled hour of nature activities (fish feeding included). Using live animals, crafts, stories, and games, we guide you and your little ones through nature adventures. Ages 2-5 at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium Pollywog Adventures program. Catch & Keep 18

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Hofstra University Continuing Education - Saturday Classes for Young People and Precollegiate Career Discovery Institute

516-463-7400, Jessica Dease, program director ce.hofstra.edu/youth jessica.dease@hofstra.edu Saturday Classes for Young People wants your child to love learning. Our small classes provide individual attention and help encourage students’ curiosity. There are many classes to choose, including reading, math, writing, STEM/STEAM, cartooning, theater, art, video game development, Minecraft, and swimming.

LIU Post Center for Gifted Youth

Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, director LIU Post, Brookville 516-299-2160 liu.edu/giftedyouth The Long Island University program for gifted children was established in 1979 in response to the recognition of society’s special responsibilities for children with demonstrably superior intellectual ability. The LIU Center for Gifted Youth offers extraordinary teachers recruited from leading schools in the metropolitan area, and university-level facilities.

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Mathnasium Learning Centers

414 Central Ave., Cedarhurst 516-569-1500 11 Great Neck Road, Great Neck 516-482-MATH (6284) 381 Sunrise Highway, Lynbrook 516-881-7997 810 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park 516-616-MATH (6284) 217A Mineola Ave., Roslyn Heights 516-484-MATH (6284) mathnasium.com Mathnasium Learning Centers, the nation’s leading math-only learning center franchise with centers throughout Nassau County, specializes in teaching kids of all ages math in a way that makes sense to them. Students go to Mathnasium year-round to catch up, keep up, and get ahead in math.

Sylvan Learning Centers of Mineola and Huntington 393 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola

516-743-9943 locations.sylvanlearning.com/ us/mineola-ny 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 locations.sylvanlearning.com/ us/huntington-ny sylvanlearning@optonline.net Sylvan’s Personalized Tutoring programs in reading, writing, mathematics, SAT and ACT Prep will improve your child’s skills and confidence. We use a state-of-the-art assessment, personal learning plans, and certified teachers to ensure the high level of quality instruction and support that Sylvan prides itself on.

Village East Gifted - Enrichment Center for the Gifted Learner

Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights

631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted (VEG), open seven days-a-week, offers a rigorous and highly-creative academic program, in all subject areas, to gifted students ages 2-16. Its CORE curriculum includes instructional writing/grammar, geography, global studies, STEAM, mathematics, Latin/ Greek Etymology, SAT/ ACT vocabulary enrichment, business, anatomy/physiology, advanced study skills, and creative problem solving.

ART Key to My Art, Inc.

10 W. Oak St., Amityville 631-608-9048 131 Main St., East Rockaway 516-218-2920 keytomyart.com/nymetroparents. info@keytomyart.com Key to My Art is owned and operated by a New York State-certified art teacher who believes that anyone can create art if they want to. We teach your child how to work with different materials and mediums, while using a variety of techniques and styles.

MUSIC Music Institute of Long Island

90 Plandome Road, Manhasset 516-627-7052 milimusic.com miligirls@gmail.com Celebrating our 30th year, Music Institute of Long Island voted No. 1 Best Music School on Long Island and the North Shore. Outstanding faculty with years of experience. Programs include violin, viola, cello, guitar, piano, voice, clarinet, saxophone, trumpet, trombone, and tuba. Traditional, Suzuki, and ABRSM methods, ages 3-99, beginner-advanced.

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STEM Village East Gifted - Enrichment Center for the Gifted Learner

Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted (VEG), open seven days-a-week, offers a rigorous and highly-creative academic program, in all subject areas, to gifted students ages 2-16. Its CORE curriculum includes instructional writing/grammar, geography, global studies, STEAM, mathematics, Latin/Greek Etymology, SAT/ACT vocabulary enrichment, business, anatomy/physiology, advanced study skills, and creative problem solving.

FITNESS Thomas School of Horsemanship Riding Academy

250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com tsh@tshcamp.com Thomas School of Horsemanship offers unique after-school programs for all levels of riding from beginners to advanced. We offer group or private lessons in seasonal series. Many students ride all year-round and compete in horse shows. We also offer our students the possibility of leasing a horse.

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programs for all levels of riding from beginners to advanced. We offer group or private lessons in seasonal series. Many students ride all year-round and compete in horse shows. We also offer our students the possibility of leasing a horse.

SWIMMING & WATER SPORTS Hofstra University Continuing Education - Saturday Classes for Young People and Precollegiate Career Discovery Institute

BACK-TO-SCHOOL SERVICES DENTISTS & ORTHODONTISTS Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry 959 Brush Hollow Road, Suite 101, Westbury

516-333-3033 pediatricdentistlongislandny.com kidsteethli@gmail.com Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry cares for all of your child’s oral health needs in a fun, kid-friendly environment that includes iPads and chairside TV monitors. Drs. Ehrenman and Khan are dedicated and trained to ease dental anxieties for young children as well as patients with special needs.

PDM Family Dental

295 N. Broadway, Jericho 516-388-5002 pdmfamilydental.com info@pdmfamilydental.com PDM Family Dental provides comprehensive care for your family’s dental needs. Dr. Makkar is an advocate of educating families to take care of their dental needs and of supporting communities. We accept most insurances and provide in-office dental plans so that dental care is accessible to all. We are open evenings.

The Tooth Pillow Dentistry

775 Park Ave., Suite 340, Huntington 516-317-2476 toothpillowny.com The Tooth Pillow Dentistry is a group of board-certified pediatric dentists and dentist anesthesiologists who work together to safely provide

dental treatment while your child “sleeps.” We provide this service for children who cannot be treated in the typical dental chair setting due to age, behavior, or other factors that hinder treatment.

DOCTORS Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631689-6858 Queens: 718-640-6767 lispeech.com Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, expressive and receptive language disorders.

EDUCATIONAL SERVICES Andrew Cohen, Esq., Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen 250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305,

Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen provide personalized, high quality special needs estate planning and special education legal services at a reasonable cost. Attorneys Cohen and Adler-Greene also conduct free workshops on several topics for agencies, schools, and parent groups.

Laura Adler-Greene, Esq., Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen

250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com lag@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen provides personalized, high quality special needs estate planning and special education legal services at a reasonable cost. Attorneys Cohen and Adler-Greene also conduct free workshops on several topics for agencies, schools, and parent groups.

Law Offices of Brad H. Rosken, PLLC

534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He is also

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BIRTHDAY PARTIES!

CELEBRATE WITH US! Explore the aquarium, feed fish & enjoy a live animal presentation!

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SUMMER CAMPS Pre-K thru HS

a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law. He will guide you, decipher lingo, and develop effective strategies.

Osmo

playosmo.com Osmo merges tactile exploration with iPad and Fire tablets, actively engaging children in the learning process. Whether your child is a music lover, budding coder, or aspiring mathematician, Osmo has the right games to inspire your child.

STORES & RESOURCES Andrew Cohen, Esq., Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen

250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen provide personalized, high quality special needs estate planning and special education legal services at a reasonable cost. Attorneys Cohen and Adler-Greene also conduct free workshops on several topics for agencies, schools and parent groups.

Family First

100 E. Old Country Road, Suite 14, Mineola 516-804-1010 hello@familyfirstli.org Family First is a sliding-scale psychotherapy practice offering professional services for children age 6 and older, teens, and their families. Effectively addressing the mental health concerns students are facing as they navigate the transition back to school is vital for their overall growth, development, and well-being. Call us today, 516-804-1010.

Laura Adler-Greene, Esq., Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen 250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595

1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com lag@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen provides personalized, high quality special needs estate planning and special education legal services at a reasonable cost. Attorneys Cohen and Adler-Greene also conduct free workshops on several topics for agencies, schools, and parent groups.

Law Offices of Brad H. Rosken, PLLC

534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He is also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law. He will guide you, decipher lingo, and develop effective strategies.

Lice Clinics of America - Long Island

47 Jackson Ave., Syosset 516-336-4099 566 Merrick Road, Rockville Centre 401 Hawkins Avenue, Ronkonkoma liceclinicslongisland.com We remove lice in just one hour! All lice and eggs-even Super Lice-are eliminated in a single, one-hour treatment. Our treatments are affordable, starting at $99, and never more than $199. Gentle heated air treatment, no toxic chemicals! Call us 24/7. Appointments available seven days-a-week; we can even handle your after-hours emergency!

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Holy Child Academy

Nurturing the Spirit, Challenging the Mind

Start Your Journey Today!

Visit a Fall Open House

Oct 6 Grades 5-8 12-2pm Oct 22 Toddler-Kindergarten 10am-12pm Oct 24 Toddler-Kindergarten 5-8pm Nov 5 Toddler-8th Grade 10am-12pm Nov 19 Toddler-8th Grade 10am-12pm A premier, independent Catholic school for children of all faiths - Toddler through Grade 8 25 Store Hill Road, Old Westbury, NY 11568 516-626-9300 RSVP at www.holychildacademy.org or email admissions@hcali.org

HOLY FAMILY SCHOOL

Holy Family School. Making a difference one child at a time. Our nurturing yet challenging environment educates the whole child, in mind, body and spirit. At Holy Family each child is known by name and loved for his/her God-given talents. Holy Family students share love, understanding, compassion and kindness each school day. Nursery through 8th Grade.

OFFERING NEW PROGRAMS

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516-579-4200 onceuponachildseaford.com kndkidsouac@aol.com We buy and sell gently used and new kids clothing, furniture, equipment, and toys! We pay cash for an array of gently used name brand items. Each item brought into our store is individually reviewed. We will purchase gently used and new items that meet current style and safety standards.

TUTORS & TEST PREP Advanced Academic Programs of Roslyn

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11 Great Neck Road, Great Neck 516-482-MATH (6284) 381 Sunrise Highway, Lynbrook 516-881-7997 810 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park 516-616-MATH (6284) 217A Mineola Ave., Roslyn Heights 516-484-MATH (6284) mathnasium.com Mathnasium Learning Centers, the nation’s leading math-only learning center franchise with centers throughout Nassau County, specializes in teaching kids of all ages math in a way that makes sense to them. Students go to Mathnasium year-round to catch up, keep up, and get ahead in math.

Sylvan Learning Centers of Mineola and Huntington

393 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola 516-743-9943 locations.sylvanlearning.com/us/ mineola-ny 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 locations.sylvanlearning.com/us/ huntington-ny sylvanlearning@optonline.net Sylvan’s Personalized Tutoring programs in reading, writing, mathematics, SAT and ACT Prep will improve your child’s skills and confidence. We use a state-of-theart assessment, personal learning plans, and certified teachers to ensure the high level of quality instruction and support that Sylvan prides itself on.

EDUCATION PAROCHIAL & RELIGIOUS SCHOOLS Catholic Elementary Schools of Long Island Diocese of Rockville Centre

Multiple Locations 516-280-2479 licatholicelementaryschools.org Long Island’s Catholic elementary schools are 43 unique and beautiful schools in Nassau and Suffolk counties that educate the whole child in the spirit of service and compassion. Coupled with God’s love, we strive to inspire each child to grow spiritually and academically in a diverse and challenging world.

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Holy Child Academy

25 Store Hill Road, Old Westbury 516-626-9300 holychildacademy.org Holy Child Academy is Long Island’s only premier, independent Catholic elementary and middle school for children of all faiths-toddler through eighth grade. Our creative educators help each child develop a joy for learning by seamlessly integrating our humanities and science curriculum with technology, fine arts, music, theater, and athletics.

Holy Family School

17 Fordham Ave., Hicksville 516-938-3846 x329 hfsli.org Making a difference one child at a time. Students come from 31 Catholic parishes, 34 Long Island school districts to be a part of this one great school. Our nurturing yet challenging program educates the whole child, in mind, body, and spirit.

Long Island Lutheran Middle & High School

131 Brookville Road, Brookville 516-626-1700 x546 luhi.org; admissions@luhi.org LuHi is a faith-based, college preparatory school serving students from sixth-12th grades and developing tomorrow’s leaders. We empower every member of our close-knit community to achieve and grow personally, academically, and spiritually. With an education at LuHi, students leave our campus fully prepared for the challenges of higher education.

Saint Mary’s Elementary School

1340 Northern Blvd., Manhasset 516-627 0184 stmary11030.org St. Mary’s Elementary School students flourish in an environment characterized by academic excellence, inspired faith, and creative learning as they grow in mind and spirit. With small classes, skilled teachers, the latest technology, and exciting extracurricular activities, we inspire excitement for learning while integrating Catholic values into our daily curriculum.

St. Christopher School

15 Pershing Blvd., Baldwin 516-223-4404 stchris-school.org St. Christopher School has been educating children for more than 90 years in a safe, caring, Catholic environment. We offer programs for grades pre-kindergarten to eighth. We recognize that each child is unique and strive to help them reach their potential. We offer an AIS program, enrichment, and STEM classes.

St. Dominic Elementary School

35 School St., Oyster Bay 516-922-4233 stdomsob.org Saint Dominic Elementary School was established in 1924 as one of the first Catholic schools on Long Island. Our primary mission is to incorporate the teachings, values, and traditions of Catholic faith into the religious, academic, physical, and social development of students to prepare them to become leaders of tomorrow.

PRESCHOOLS Countryside Montessori School

354 Lakeville Road, lower level, Great Neck 516-466-8422 cmsgn.com; info@cmsgn.com Countryside Montessori School was founded in 1998 with the aim of providing a high quality early childhood education based on the philosophy, methods, and techniques developed 100 years ago by educational pioneer Dr. Maria Montessori. Everything in our school is designed to encourage and aid a child’s natural curiosity.

East Woods School

31 Yellow Cote Road, Oyster Bay 516-922-4400 eastwoods.org East Woods, in Oyster Bay, is a private school for age 2-eighth grade. We are a friendly community of students, faculty, and parents that feels more like one big family. We have been inspiring confidence, excellence, and kindness since 1946. We develop confident, motivated, and kind leaders.

M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym & Early Childcare Education Center A Rainbow Of Programs Under One Roof!

2629 Grand Ave., Bellmore 516-221-1330 171 Eileen Way, Syosset 516-496-7765 matsskidsgym.com “A Rainbow of Programs all under one roof.” Full daycare offered (Syosset), nursery school, infant and toddler classes, afterschool gymnastics, enrichment, cooking, sports, and dance classes (ages 20 months-12 years). Extended day (Syosset), summer day camp, afterschool care for grades kindergarten-fifth (Syosset), Kids Night Out (Bellmore), and birthday parties available.

PRIVATE SCHOOLS Catholic Elementary Schools of Long Island Diocese of Rockville Centre

East Woods School

Holy Child Academy

help each child develop a joy for learning by seamlessly integrating our humanities and science curriculum with technology, fine arts, music, theater, and athletics.

SAINT MARY’S ELEMENTARY SCHOOL

A great place to grow.

Holy Family School

Saint Mary’s Elementary School

A great place to learn. Nursery through Eighth Grade

OPEN HOUSE SUNDAY, OCT 20 | 2:00-4:30 PM

VISIT OUR WEBSITE FOR PROGRAM HIGHLIGHTS AND OPTIONS

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St. Christopher School

St. Dominic Elementary School

READING/WRITING LEARNING CLINIC at the

Joan and Arnold Saltzman Community Services Center Literacy instruction programs for children and youth offer: • Individual or small-group classes in a relaxed and enjoyable atmosphere • Classes taught by New York state-certified teachers • Personalized consultations that offer parents straightforward advice

about how to support their child’s literacy growth • Literacy instruction that builds on each learner’s strengths to build

confidence and improve reading and writing proficiency

FALL CLASSES ARE NOW FORMING For more information, including registration and fall program options, visit hofstra.edu/rwlclinic or call 516-463-5805.

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hen it comes to October, all we can think about is Halloween. What better way to enjoy the crisp fall air, the changing colors of the leaves, and decorating for the ghoulish season than getting outside with the family and picking the perfect pumpkin to take home and carve. And if carving pumpkins isn’t your thing, but you still want in on Halloween fun, the Halloween Harvest festival at Socrates Sculpture Park has a ton of spooky activities for the whole family.

The Carl Schurz Park event invites families to bring their decked-out dogs on Sunday, Oct. 20.

Happy Howl-oween!

We love kids in Halloween costumes, but there’s nothing cuter than dogs in Halloween costumes! Carl Schurz Park invites more than 200 uniquely dressed pups to show off in front of a bluechip fashion industry board of judges at the Howl-oween Howl Healthy Hound Fair. Watch, gush, and cheer on the four-legged friends as they wag their tails and strut their stuff. Careful, your little one might be asking for a dog of his own by the end of the day! Sunday, Oct. 20; 12-3pm; Ages: All; Basketball and Hockey Court and John Finley Walk at Carl Schurz Park, 86th Street and East End Avenue, Upper East Side; carlschurzparknyc.org

PICK PUMPKINS

Queens County Farm Museum 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park 718-347-3276 queensfarm.org Hours: Through Oct. 26: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4:30pm Admission: Free Pumpkin picking, hayrides, and a 3-acre, interactive corn maze on-site.

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>> For more places to pick pumpkins in your area, visit nymetroparents.com/pumpkins.

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Lions and Goblins and Ghouls, Oh My!

The Bronx Zoo’s annual Halloween favorite Boo at the Zoo is back with spooky fun for the whole family. Favorites include magic shows, the extinct animal graveyard, a corn maze, a costume parade, pumpkin carving demos, mind reading, and (who could forget) a candy trail! Special events, including the Dinosaur Safari and Spooktacular Night Walks, are available with the purchase of extra an ticket on the website. Saturday-Sunday, Sept. 28-Nov. 3, including Monday, Oct. 14., 10am-5:30pm; Ages: All. $39.95; $34.95 ages 65 and older; $29.95 ages 3-12; free for children 2 and younger. Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx; 718-220-5100; bronxzoo.com/boo-at-the-zoo 24

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The Halloween-themed weekends at Boo at the Zoo incorporate wildlife while highlighting the best parts of the season.

Halloween Harvest Festival 32-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City 718-956-1819 socratessculpturepark.org Hours: Saturday, Oct. 26, 12-4pm Admission: Free At this free event, enjoy a Gede song workshop, card readings, and a procession culminating in a powerful dance and drum performance conceived and directed by Alexandra Jean-Joseph, with choreography by Mikerline Pierre and music by Menesky “Sky” Magloire. >> For more fun Halloween events like this, visit nymetroparents.com/halloween-fun.

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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the eight events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 1-5pm WHERE: West End Parking Lot of Seaford LIRR Station, Between Jackson Avenue and Seaman’s Neck Road, Seaford AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy food trucks, live entertainment, Metrocard Game Truck, pies, craft vendors, beer, and more at this first annual event! WHY WE LOVE IT: Cover band Vinyl Revival will perform classic rock, dance, disco, soul, and Motown. WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 516-242-6910. seafordchamberofcommerce.com.

Apple Festival at Mill Neck Manor

WHEN: Oct. 12-13, Saturday-Sunday, 9am-5pm WHERE: Mill Neck Manor School for the Deaf, 40 Frost Mill Road, Mill Neck AGES: All WHAT: The 2019 Apple Festival promises to be better than ever, with the return of ripe apples, handmade country crafts, seasonal produce, delicious food, children’s activities, and many more activities throughout the weekend. WHY WE LOVE IT: There will be face painting and a pumpkin patch for the children to enjoy. WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods; $15 parking. 516-922-4100. millneck.org/events/the-apple-festival.

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Spellbound Theatre presents ‘Wink’

Family Halloween Party & Pet Parade

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, 2-4pm WHERE: Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road, Sands Point AGES: All WHAT: Children can come in costume and bring pets in costumes too for a parade and to spy adorable woodland plush animals celebrating Halloween in a charming display. WHY WE LOVE IT: Explore the preserve’s grounds on a treasure hunt for wildlife and objects and enjoy seasonal crafts as well. WANT TO GO? $20 per car; $10 per car for members. 516-571-7901. sandspointpreserve.org.

Rock Hall Country Fair

WHEN: Oct. 19-20, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Rock Hall Museum, 199 Broadway, Lawrence AGES: All WHAT: Visit with Colonial historians and enjoy craft vendors, antique cars, farm animals, pony rides, a children’s craft area, a pumpkin patch, food, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids can make their own scarecrows, and the featured entertainment is Stephen Christopher’s Time Traveling Magical Medicine Show. WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 516-239-1157. friendsofrockhall.org.

Fall Festival

WHEN: Oct. 13-14, Sunday-Monday, 11:30am and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Inspired by the classic poem, “Wynken, Blynken and Nod,” Wink transforms a familiar bedroom into an imaginative world full of surprises. WHY WE LOVE IT: The performance combines shadow puppetry, physical theater, and animation to inspire young audiences. WANT TO GO? $7-$23. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

WHEN: Through Oct. 27: see website for schedule WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Have fun with hayrides, crafts, stories, animals, face painting, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: Decorate a pumpkin and have fun with sand art too! WANT TO GO? Purchase activities a la carte or with a pay-one-price $25 bracelet. 516-334-0066. hicksnurseries.com.

Long Island Book Fair 2019 FREE

RISE of the Jack O’Lanterns

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 12-5pm WHERE: Holiday Inn Westbury, 369 Old Country Road, Carle Place AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a fun-filled afternoon filled with inquisitive minds and tons of book readings and signings. WHY WE LOVE IT: Activities beyond the books include face painting, a magic show, balloon animals, interactive games, and raffles too. WANT TO GO? 516-456-9324. yourlongislandbookfair.com.

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WHEN: Oct. 4-28, see website for schedule WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: See more than 1,000 hand-carved illuminated jack-o’-lanterns designed to bring out the fall spirit in visitors of all ages! WHY WE LOVE IT: A thrill for the whole family set to a musical score. WANT TO GO? $26; $22 ages 3-17; free for children 2 and younger. 516-252-3392. therise.org.

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WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 10, 7-8pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 8-11 WHAT: Make ghostly gloop with Miss Amanda! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. Islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Ghosts, Goblins, and Witches of Long Island FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 24, 7pm WHERE: Hicksville Public Library, 169 Jerusalem Ave., Hicksville AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Join The Paranormal Adventurers in an examination of the paranormal activity known to manifest in Hicksville. WANT TO GO? 516-931-1417. hicksvillelibrary.org.

Halloween Hay Bale Theater FREE

WHEN: Oct. 11-25, Fridays, 5:30pm; film starts at 6pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1897 Front St., East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: See a free children’s Halloween-themed movie with complimentary juice and popcorn. Seating is on a first-come, first-served basis. WANT TO GO? 516-394-9001. stewleonards.com.

Farmingdale Halloween Parade & Petting Zoo FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 27, 12:45-2:45pm WHERE: Village Green, 361 Main St., Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Watch the parade, then enjoy pony rides and a petting zoo. WANT TO GO? 516-286-7800. farmingdalenychamber.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 11am-1pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children will have the opportunity to discuss and view treaties designed to protect Native Americans before creating their own treaty to address an issue of concern to them. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors 65 and older. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Everything You Should Know About the College Application and Admission Process and Needn’t Be Afraid FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 16, 7:15pm WHERE: Hicksville Public Library, 169 Jerusalem Ave., Hicksville AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Leslie and Bernie Bilawsky, college admission consultants, will discuss the college application and admission process, and answer your questions. WANT TO GO? 516-931-1417. hicksvillelibrary.org.

Pokemon Science Workshop FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 24, 7-8pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 South Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 6-8 WHAT: Visit the library’s Pokémon research lab for an easy and fun Pokémon science experiment. Grades 1-3. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

Green Teens: Spooky Science

SPECIAL NEEDS Sensory Sensitive Sundays

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 6, 9-11am WHERE: Chuck E. Cheese’s, 162 Fulton Ave., Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: Chuck E. Cheese’s is open 2 hours early specifically for children with autism and other special needs. WANT TO GO? Cost varies. 516-483-3166. chuckecheese.com.

Schoolhouse Rock: an Autism-Friendly Performance FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 12-1pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: All WHAT: A calming corner and coping tools will be available during the performance to assist families if necessary. Register by phone or email. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161 x209. syossetlibrary.org.

Special Needs Storytime FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 22, 6:30pm WHERE: Shelter Rock Public Library, 165 Searingtown Road S., Albertson AGES: 5-12, adult WHAT: Join the library for stories, songs, sensory activities and a craftr! WANT TO GO? 516-248-7363. srpl.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 1-3pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Learn about some spooky science topics from spider webs to skeletons. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors 65 and older. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Introduction to Game Development FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 30, 6:30-8:30pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 10-13 WHAT: Learn to build a fully functional 2-D game using just HTML5, CSS3, and JavaScript. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

Tiny Tots

WHEN: Oct. 7-Nov. 4, select Mondays, 9:30-11am WHERE: Center for Science Teaching and Learning-Tanglewood Preserve, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Center AGES: 18 months to 3 years WHAT: This weekly event introduces your toddler to a wide variety of science topics, teaching them to think and explore in new ways each day! WANT TO GO? $8. 516-764-0045. cstl.org. ›› LongIslandParent 27

Constellation Lightbox Craft FREE

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 7, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 11-17 WHAT: Design your own constellation using a cereal box and string lights! Dress for a mess. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Mosaic Owl on Canvas with Library Arts FREE

CRAFTY KIDS Crafty Animal Collars for Teens FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 1, 4-5pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Create crafty fall collars for cats and dogs to make shelter animals shine in photos! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

Tot’s Night Out FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 2, 7-8pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 18 months to 5 years WHAT: Enjoy an evening of crafts, movement activities, and songs with your child. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

Pumpkin Painting Party

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 4, 5pm and 6:30pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1897 Front St., East Meadow AGES: 2-10 WHAT: Paint a pumpkin and enjoy snacks and juice. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $12.99. 516-394-9001. stewleonards.com.

Boo to You House FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 4, 12:15-1:15pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Decorate a small house and create a spooky look using lots of ghoulish trim with Shirley Ruby. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. Islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Fire Plane FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 9am-12pm WHERE: Home Depot, 600 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Save the day during Fire & Safety Month and let your imagination soar as you build a fire plane. You’ll be able to attach the wings, landing gear, adjust the tail fin, decorate the propellers with stickers, and be ready to fly. Register online. WANT TO GO? 516-488-8500. homedepot.com.

‘Dragonball Z’ Paint Event

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Key to My Art East Rockaway, 131 Main St., East Rockaway AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Kids will have fun while learning to paint Dragonball Z’s Goku. WANT TO GO? $20. 516-218-2920. keytomyart.com. 28

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WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 9, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 9-10 WHAT: Create a whimsical owl project using mosaics, gems, paint, and glue! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

You Bat-ter Believe It

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 2-4pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Learn all about bats and then create your own hanging bat to take home. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors 65 and older. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Vampirina Paint Event

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Key to My Art East Rockaway, 131 Main St., East Rockaway AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Kids will have fun and learn to paint Vampirina. WANT TO GO? $20. 516-218-2920. keytomyart.com.

Silly Slime Craft FREE

WHEN: Oct. 12-13, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Lakeshore Learning Store, 2079 Hillside Ave., New Hyde Park AGES: 3-8 WHAT: All supplies are provided; just bring your imagination! WANT TO GO? 516-616-9360. lakeshorelearning.com.

Anime Drawing Class FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 15, 7-8pm WHERE: Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside AGES: 11-17 WHAT: Learn how to bring your favorite characters to life. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com.

Meet the Artist: Annette Mitchell FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 17, 7pm WHERE: Hicksville Public Library, 169 Jerusalem Ave., Hicksville AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Join Tina Geller and create a block print in Annette Mitchell’s style. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-931-1417. hicksvillelibrary.org.

Spooky Trick or Treat Tote FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 17, 7-8pm WHERE: Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside AGES: 9-13 WHAT: Create your own trick or treat bag by painting a quadrant of ghosts onto a canvas. WANT TO GO? 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com.

Teen Titans Paint Event

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Key to My Art East Rockaway, 131 Main St., East Rockaway AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Kids will have fun learning how to paint Beast Boy. WANT TO GO? $20. 516-218-2920. keytomyart.com.

Family Sundays

WHEN: Oct. 6-20, Sundays, family tour: 1pm; drop-in: 1:30-4pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Family Sundays provide children and the adults in their lives the opportunity to take time to reconnect while talking about and making art together. Each week explore new art materials, vocabulary, and ideas in their studio with the museum educator. WANT TO GO? $3 materials fee per child, plus admission: $12; $8 seniors 62 and older; $4 children ages 4-12 and students with valid photo ID; free for members and children younger than 4. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

Monster Pennants FREE

WHEN: Oct. 19-20, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Lakeshore Learning Store, 2079 Hillside Ave., New Hyde Park AGES: 3-8 WHAT: All supplies are provided; just bring your imagination! WANT TO GO? 516-616-9360. lakeshorelearning.com.

Batty for Bats FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 23, 4-5pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 South Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Learn about these nocturnal creatures while using modeling and painting techniques to design a diorama of a bat in its natural habitat. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

SHOW TIME! Give Our Regards to Broadway: A Salute to the 1960s

WHEN: Through Oct. 24: Thursdays, 6-8pm (No session Oct. 17) WHERE: Baldwin Public Library, 2385 Grand Ave., Baldwin AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Ever wanted to learn how to knit or crochet or just want to improve your skills? Now you can! Materials will be provided. WANT TO GO? 516-223-6228. baldwinpl.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 3pm WHERE: The Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Featuring Broadway hits from classics such as Fiddler on the Roof, Cabaret, Oliver!, Bye Bye Birdie, and Camelot, this evening will guide you through the magic of the 1960s with narration and fun tidbits from selected songs. WANT TO GO? $40-$50. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

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Crafting Corner: Knitting & Crochet FREE

WHEN: Oct. 5-26, Saturdays, 12-3pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Drop into The Manes Education Center for hands-on activities inspired by current exhibitions. Spend up to an hour exploring a range of materials, techniques, and themes before continuing out onto the lush grounds filled with trails, a sculpture park, and gardens. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors 62 and older; $4 children ages 4-12 and students with valid photo ID; free for members and children younger than 4. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

SPOOKtacular Haunted House

WHEN: Oct. 1-31, Tuesday-Friday, 2:30-4pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Join LICM to scare up some fun as you create your own scary haunted house. The craft takes about 10 minutes to complete. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors 65 and older. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Made with Love FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Wednesdays, 11:30am WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13 and older WHAT: This knitting and crocheting group welcomes all. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, 6pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: A company of 40 Chinese artists and acrobats perform routines including hoop diving, contortion, and a ladder balancing act! WANT TO GO? $36 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

‘World Of Dance’ Live! Tour

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 23, 8pm WHERE: NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: See the world’s hottest dancers from the NBC World of Dance television show and top-notch dance celebrities on stage for an exclusive, high-production concert. WANT TO GO? $45-$99.50. 516-334-0800. thetheatreatwestbury.com.

‘So You Think You Can Dance’ Live! 2019

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: The dancers will captivate with genres varying from lyrical to salsa, hiphop to contemporary, and the latest street moves, in original choreography. WANT TO GO? $49 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org. ›› LongIslandParent 29

Music and Movement

WHEN: Oct. 2-30, Wednesdays, 11:30am-12pm (No session Oct. 9) WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy creative movement exercises and interactive sing-alongs that get little bodies moving to the rhythm. WANT TO GO? $14 museum admission, plus $4; plus $3 for members. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

ANIMAL LOVERS MOVERS & SHAKERS Game Night in Italian FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 4, 7-8pm WHERE: Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside AGES: 9-13 WHAT: Play some traditional games like “red light, green light” in Italian. Players will be taught the Italian version of some all-time favorite games. Registration required WANT TO GO? 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com.

Old Time Base Ball

WHEN: Oct. 5-6, Saturday-Sunday, 11:30am WHERE: Old Bethpage Restoration Village, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Watch as teams from the 1864 league play “base ball” following the rules of the 19th century. WANT TO GO? $13; $8 children ages 5-12, seniors, volunteer firefighters, and persons with disabilities; free for children 4 and younger and active military. 631-930-9054. obvrnassau.com.

PlayHooray Kids FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 11, 12:30-1:15pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 6 months to 5 years WHAT: Music, movement, and loads of fun with Molly Mouse. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Sid Jacobson JCC’s Stronger Than Cancer 5K

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 9:30am WHERE: Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Drive, East Hills AGES: All WHAT: Sid Jacobson JCC invites community members of all ages to walk, run, and cheer each other on at its 2019 Stronger Than Cancer 5K. WANT TO GO? $20 registration before Oct. 2; $25 registration Oct. 3-13. 516-484-1545. sjjcc.org/5k.

Candy Bar Bingo! FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 23, 7-8pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: All WHAT: Join the library for a candy-themed Bingo where the prizes are... candy! Registration required. Please bring an unopened, not expired, bag of candy to donate to the prize table. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info. 30

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Visit with a Vet FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 1, 4-5pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Vets will talk about how to become a vet, their most interesting furry patients, good manners around animals, and simple pet first aid. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

4th Annual Doggie Runway Show & Pet Expo

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 9am-4pm WHERE: Village Green, 361 Main St., Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Bring the family out to this day for the dogs! There will be a red carpet, a Blessing of the Dogs, a costume and fashion contest, and a pet expo. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; $20 dog registration fee. 516-249-8720. farmingdalenychamber.org.

My Reptile Guys Explorer Show FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 2-3pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: All WHAT: Join the library for an interactive show featuring amazing reptiles. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Sit. Stay. Read! FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 25, 4-5pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 South Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Bideawee’s Reading to Dogs program provides a fun, non-judgmental environment where children can improve their literacy skills. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

Splish Splash, Animal Baths

WHEN: Saturdays, Oct. 5 and 26, 3-3:30pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Learn about what goes into the care of the museum’s animals. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors 65 and older. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Seal Watching Cruise Long Island

WHEN: Oct. 19-April 26, 2020, Saturday-Sunday, 12-2pm (No session Nov. 3) WHERE: Freeport Water Taxi & Tours, 211 Woodcleft Ave., Freeport AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a leisurely tour of the local bays in the comfort of a 44-foot enclosed boat and encounter seals and other wildlife. WANT TO GO? $25; $15 children ages 5-10; free for children 4 and younger. 516-521-7744. freeportwatertaxi.com.

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WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 1, 5-6pm WHERE: Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Celebrate David Shannon’s birthday, the author who brought you No David! Enjoy cupcakes, games, and a trivia contest. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com.

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WHEN: Monday, Oct. 28, 3-4pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 10 and older WHAT: Share your favorite scary story, make a spooky craft, and enjoy candy. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

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Get advance notice on activities, Pre-School Storytime FREE participate in groupexcept discussions WHEN: Oct. 2-Nov. 6, Wednesdays, Oct. 16 and 30, 1-1:30pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park and receive special notices. AGES: 3½-5 WHAT: Stories, songs, and rhymes. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

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Ukulele Festival 11/17

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Teen Spooky Halloween Book Art FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 18, 4-5:30pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Create unusually spooky art pieces out of books and enjoyed some Halloween treats. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Tot’s Night Out: Pumpkin Fun!

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 10-11am WHERE: Friends Academy, 270 Duck Pond Road, Locust Valley AGES: 3-5 WHAT: An hour of music, movement, art, storytelling, and more. Plus, create a Halloween craft to bring home! WANT TO GO? $20. 516-393-4207. fa.org.

Halloween Maker Crafts 2019 FREE

HALLOWEEN FUN Trick or Treat Tray FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 2, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 5-10 WHAT: Paint a spooky-cute design on a plastic tray with Shirley Ruby. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Halloween Frames for Kittens FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 8, 4-5pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens will design beautiful frames to be donated to the animal shelter so they can add pictures of kittens. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Skull Cookies and Halloween Milk Shakes FREE

WHEN: Oct. 8-9, 7:15-8:45pm WHERE: Hicksville Public Library, 169 Jerusalem Ave., Hicksville AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Decorate two skull cookies with the Baking Coach to take home and enjoy a Halloween Extreme Milk Shake with gummy eyeballs and worms! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-931-1417. hicksvillelibrary.org.

The Spooktacular Pumpkin Painting Party FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 17, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens will paint and decorate their own plastic pumpkins to be displayed at the library! The pumpkin voted favorite will win a prize. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Spooktacular Dance Party

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 18, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1897 Front St., East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: Show off your costume and your best dance moves, enjoy brick-oven pizza, apple cider donuts, and apple cider, and go home with a Halloween goodie bag. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $12.99; $10.99 children ages 11 and younger. 516-3949001. stewleonards.com. 32

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WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 22, 3:30-4:45pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 South Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Make spooky crafts and cards for Halloween using the MakerBot 3-D printers and the Cricut Explore in Creation Station. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

Zombie Face Painting FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 24, 6:30-8:30pm WHERE: Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside AGES: 11-17 WHAT: Using latex, face paint, and tissue paper, make yourself into a zombie. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com.

Family Science Nights: Spooky Science

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 25, 5-9pm WHERE: Cradle of Aviation Museum, Charles Lindbergh Blvd., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Explore a witch’s cauldron and the colors of fall through chemistry, enjoy trick or treating, and create your own Frankenstein monster. Costumes are encouraged! Don’t have a costume? There will be face painting and mask making. WANT TO GO? $8; $5 members. 516-238-6159. cradleofaviation.org.

Creepy Skull Banks FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 25, 4:15-5:15pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Decorate a ceramic skull bank for the Day of the Dead (Día de los Muertos) or for Halloween! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Halloween Costume Party WHEN: Friday, Oct. 25, 6pm

WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1897 Front St., East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: Meet WOW the Cow and enjoy arts and crafts, games, food, and tons of fun! Register online WANT TO GO? $14.99; $12.99 children ages 11 and younger. 516-394-9001. stewleonards.com.

Halloween Spooktakular FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 12-2pm WHERE: Hicksville McDonald’s, 280 N. Broadway, Hicksville

AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Dress in your costume and enjoy lunch with Spider-Man and Friends, along with music, dancing, games, and prizes. WANT TO GO? 516-681-2434. mcdonalds.com.

WHAT: Show off your little one’s Halloween costume and join the library for spooktacular songs, fingerplays, and stories, and more. Make an adorable keepsake using your little one’s footprint. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Halloween Paint Event

Stories and More: Halloween FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Key to My Art East Rockaway, 131 Main St., East Rockaway AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Kids will have fun while learning how to paint Jack Skellington from The Nightmare Before Christmas during this drop-off class. WANT TO GO? $20. 516-218-2920. keytomyart.com.

Halloween Fun Fest

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 11am-3pm WHERE: The Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Lots of pumpkin fun and Halloween activities for everyone, including pick-a- pumpkin, paint-a-pumpkin, decorate-a-cupcake, mask making, face painting, a haunted house, trick-or-treating, a princess sing-along, and more. WANT TO GO? $20. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Enchanted Forest: A Super Family Sunday

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 27, 1-4pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: During this family-friendly Halloween celebration, design a night sky mobile, visit animals, and use fall leaves, printmaking, and special papers to create a layered collage inspired by the forest. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 seniors 62 and older; $5 children ages 4-12 and students with valid photo ID; free for members and children younger than 4; additional $20 material fee per person; additional $15 material fee per member. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

Spooktacular Body Scrub FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 30, 7-8pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Listen to some stories and make two crafts, one of which is edible! WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Halloween Family Fun FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 30, 4:30-5:15pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: All WHAT: Wear your costume and enjoy some spooky stories and make a spider cookie and monster doughnut. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Trick-or-Treat in the Children’s Room FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 10am-9pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: All WHAT: Drop by the Children’s Room desk for a special Halloween treat. While supplies last! WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

‘Supernatural’ Marathon FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 6-8:30pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Stop by the library and watch Supernatural while enjoying candy and snacks! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Halloween Craft N’ Treat FREE

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 28, 7-8pm WHERE: Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside AGES: 9-13 WHAT: Create a fall festive body scrub from scratch. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com.

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 10-10:30am WHERE: Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside AGES: 2-4 WHAT: Join the library for a craft and a sweet treat. Costumes welcome. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com.

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Spooky Fest

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 28, 7-7:45pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 South Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Make a special spooky craft! Come in costume and go trickor-treating in the library. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org. WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 29, 4:30-5:15pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Color your own pumpkin squishy for Halloween and take it home with you. WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Peek-a-BOO! Baby FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 29, 10:45-11:30am WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 3-18 months

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 South Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: All WHAT: Visit the library decked out in your costume to make a fun craft, followed by a Halloween costume parade and trick-or-treating in the library. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org. WHEN: Oct. 12-Nov. 2, see website for schedule WHERE: Center for Science Teaching and Learning-Tanglewood Preserve, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Center AGES: All WHAT: Wooded paths, exhibits, and festivities on the preserve will be featured, with eerie lighting, special effects, and characters along the way. Creatures of all kinds inhabit the woods; the strange and beautiful will draw you into the eerie paths! Choose between non-scary attractions and all spooky attractions. WANT TO GO? $15 all spooky attractions; $10 non-scary attractions; $11 additional for dinosaurs and live animals. 516-764-0045. cstl.org. ››

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31st Annual Farmingdale Fall Street Fair

WHEN: Oct. 12-13, Saturday, 11am-5pm; Sunday, 10am-4pm WHERE: Farmingdale Street Fair, Main Street, Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy delicious food, various vendors, and more. WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 888-334-2723. facebook.com/events/2221769944740543.

Rolling River Annual Fall Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 12-4pm WHERE: Rolling River Day Camp, 477 Ocean Ave., East Rockaway AGES: All WHAT: This fun-filled event celebrates fall with carnival rides, pony rides, a petting zoo, food and refreshments, and more. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; ride bracelets: $20. 516-593-2267. rollingriver.com.

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FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS Friday Night Car Show

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 4, 6-10pm WHERE: Chamber of Commerce of the Bellmores, Bellmore and Bedford avenues, Bellmore AGES: All WHAT: See all types of cars at this weekly event. WANT TO GO? $5 for cars; free to spectators to walk through. 516-6791875. bellmorechamber.com.

Lynbrook Village Oktoberfest

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 3-8pm WHERE: Greis Park Lynbrook, 60 Wright Ave., Lynbrook AGES: All WHAT: Join your Lynbrook neighbors for a fun day of live music, delicious food, beer, and games for all. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 kids. lynbrookvillage.net.

Plainview-Old Bethpage Chamber of Commerce Fall Festival

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 6, 10am-5pm WHERE: Plainview-Old Bethpage Library Parking Lot, 999 Old Country Road, Plainview AGES: All WHAT: Come out for fun, music, great shopping, and more, rain or shine. WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 516-937-5646. pobcoc.com.

Annual Family Fun Day at East Meadow Farm

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, sensory-friendly hour: 10-11am; regular schedule: 11am-4pm WHERE: East Meadow Farm, 832 Merrick Ave., East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy music, food, hands-on children’s activities, crafts, story time, garden tours, and more. WANT TO GO? $10 per family donation. 516-565-5265. ccenassau.org.

With Pride: National Coming Out Day Readings and Reception FREE WHEN: Friday, Oct. 11, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 13-17 WHAT: The library is partnering with the LGBT Network and Syosset High School’s Gay-Straight Alliance for an evening of readings, support, and giveaways. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org. 34

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WHEN: Through Oct. 26: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4:30pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Get lost in NYC’s only corn maze! The adventure begins with a stalk talk to prepare you for the 3-acre challenge of finding clues, solving puzzles and making your way out of this interactive maze. WANT TO GO? $15; $8 children younger than 13. Advance tickets: $10, $5 children younger than 13. 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

Harvest Weekends FREE

WHEN: Oct. 5-26, Saturday-Sunday and Columbus Day, 11am-4:30pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Explore the grounds and buy a variety of Hudson Valley apples, doughnuts, fresh cider, and apple pie. WANT TO GO? 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

Farmingdale Weekly Farmer’s Market on The Village Green FREE WHEN: Through Nov. 17: Sunday, 10am-3pm WHERE: Farmingdale Village, 361 Main St., Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Shop the fresh selection of produce and other items. WANT TO GO? farmingdalevillage.com.

LITTLE FOODIES Junior Pastry Wars FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 2, 4-5pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Children will work in teams and take part in two dessert challenges. First place wins a prize! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

YA Margherita Pizza FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 10, 7-8pm WHERE: Oceanside Library, 30 Davison Ave., Oceanside AGES: 11-17 WHAT: Learn to make pizza from scratch. Shape your dough, add the sauce and cheese, and take it home to bake. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-766-2360. oceansidelibrary.com.

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Are You the Parent of a Gifted Child? LIU Post’s Center for Gifted Youth announces its 40th annual program for gifted children. The fall program runs on Saturdays from Oct. 5 to Dec. 14, 2019 and the spring program runs on Saturdays from Feb. 1 to April 25, 2020. The program is open to gifted children entering grades 2-8 in Sept. 2019. The program expands

Kids in the Kitchen: Spider Chocolate Pudding Pie

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 11, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Little chefs use real cooking tools to make easy, yummy, kid-friendly snacks from start to finish. WANT TO GO? $14 museum admission, plus $5; plus $4 for members. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Spooky Candy Sushi FREE

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 14, 6-7pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens will make yummy candy sushi with a spooky twist! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

Columbus Day Workshop

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 14, 11am-1pm and 2-4pm WHERE: What’s Cooking?, 30 E. Main St., Oyster Bay AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Each child will create and enjoy a main course to eat along with a delicious dessert. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $59. 516-922-2665. whatscookingny.com.

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Kids in the Kitchen: Monster Eyes Meatball Sub

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 25, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Little chefs use real cooking tools as they make easy, yummy, kid-friendly snacks from start to finish. WANT TO GO? $14 museum admission plus $4; plus $3 for members. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Halloween Kids Baking Class: Halloween Cookie Baking/Decorating WHEN: Oct. 27-30, Sunday, 9am; Wednesday, 4pm WHERE: Celebrations In The Kitchen, 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville AGES: 3-10 WHAT: Cut out Halloween-shaped cookies and decorate them with confections for the spooky holiday. WANT TO GO? $39.95. 516-396-2193. celebrationsinthekitchen.com.

Halloween Kids Baking Class: Halloween Goolish Cupcakes

WHEN: Oct. 27-30, Sunday, 9am; Wednesday, 4pm WHERE: Celebrations In The Kitchen, 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Make a “special” cupcake batter from scratch and then challenge your decorating skills with unique candy and confections to decorate it. WANT TO GO? $39.95. 516-396-2193. celebrationsinthekitchen.com.

Halloween Kids Baking Class: Halloween Chocolate Haunted House

WHEN: Oct. 27-30, Sunday, 9am; Wednesday, 4pm WHERE: Celebrations In The Kitchen, 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Handmade chocolate houses will be prepared to decorate with creamy royal icing and special holiday candy and accessories. WANT TO GO? $49.95. 516-396-2193. celebrationsinthekitchen.com.

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Baby’s Wish List ›› Don’t be overwhelmed by all the doodads and cute outfits—here’s how to streamline the process of creating a baby registry By Madeleine Burry

abies may arrive in their birthday suits, but these tiny humans need a whole lot of gear, products, and clothing on hand from day one. The task of creating a baby registry for all that stuff can be overwhelming. “And it doesn’t help that the market is oversaturated and ever-changing,” says Molly Pross, a baby gear expert and founder of Bump Bestie, a baby-planning service. Parents should register for 85-120 items, according to Pross. But which items are must-haves, and which can you safely skip? We asked experts—along with parents, the ultimate pros—to identify their picks for registries, along with advice for crafting a just-right list for your growing family.

Do you need a registry?

If you’re planning to have a baby shower—or anticipate that friends and family will gift your little one with presents—it’s a good idea to have a registry or wish list in place. That way, you can avoid receiving multiple sets of bassinet sheets when you don’t have a bassinet (or getting sheets that don’t fit your particular bassinet). You don’t want to worry about complicated exchanges and returns after baby’s arrival. Creating a registry also helps you get clear on what you’ll want and need to have on hand.

Where should you register?

Thanks to the Internet, registering is easier than ever. You can choose from any number of brick-and-mortar stores or online establishments, such as Target or Amazon. You can also create a registry that pulls in options from several retailers with sites such as babylist.com and myregistry.com. In general: Be mindful of the store’s return policy (just in case you change your mind), as well as Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents. com, Scholastic, and About.com. Burry lives in Park Slope, Brooklyn, with her husband and their cat. You can follow her on Twitter @lovelanewest.

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perks the store may offer to parents who register with them. In addition to registering online, Pross recommends registering at a local boutique. That way, people can touch and feel items, and you’re supporting a local business.

How do you make your wish list?

Try thinking in categories, Pross suggests. “Organizing into buckets gives you a much better picture and helps you prioritize. For example, nursery furniture can have a ten- to fourteen-week lead time [for delivery], so it’s best to get the big items ordered first,” she says. And while it may be tempting to add tons of items to your list— every single adorable outfit and every might-be-helpful product— Pross suggests a better strategy is to keep your list focused. “If you have everything on there, guests may end up buying things that you don’t need immediately,” Pross notes. It can be helpful to create a private section of your wish list—that only you and your partner can see—to save items you’re considering and to track the items you’ve purchased yourself, Pross suggests. Safety is an important consideration as you add items to your registry, says Joe Shamie, president of Delta Children. “Parents should check that the products they are interested in are Juvenile Products Manufacturers Association-certified,” he advises. Products with that certification meet the standards of the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, as well as ASTM International, which develops standards used around the world. And don’t shy away from practical essentials, says Liz Jeneault, vice president of marketing for Faveable, and a Philadelphia-based mom of a toddler. Diapers, she says, are especially critical (since you’ll go through so many) as well as baby laundry detergent.

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Moving Right Along ››

9 ways to make a move easier on the whole family By Lambeth Hochwald

oving is considered one of the most stressful life events, and anyone who has done it knows why. The packing, organizing, and (literal) heavy lifting are always harder than anticipated. Then there are the emotional detachments and re-attachments. “A move is a huge transition even if you’re going down the street,” says Nicole Black, who runs Coffee and Carpool, a parenting advice site. She should know—she has moved her three school-aged kids to three different states in three years because of her husband’s career. “While a move away from friends, family, and the only home a child has known can be traumatic and overwhelming, when you take the time to focus on helping your kids through this process, it becomes a smoother, more positive experience for everyone.” It’s never easy, but experts have found 10 time-tested ways to cope with a big move and ease the journey to a new home.

if it is the home your kids were brought home to as infants,” Stitt says. “Have them go around and photograph or video a tour of the house, the neighborhood, and even their school. If they are moving more than an hour or two away, having pictures of their old life will give them something to share with their new life.”

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“Moving means two things: You want to be open with your kids about what they’re leaving behind, but you also want to get them focused on new adventures,” says Liz Tenety, co-founder of Motherly, a site for millennial moms, and a mom of three who has moved 10 times as a parent due to graduate schools, changing careers, and a growing family. “My husband and I know that our moves were hard on our kids, but by focusing on new people and experiences, they were able to stay resilient.”

Be Specific About Timing

“Especially if your kids are very little, you want to make the timing of a move very specific,” says Elisabeth Stitt, a parenting coach at Joyful Parenting Coaching. “This means you should put dates on the family calendar (even if they might change). Refer often to how much more time you have. For toddlers and preschoolers, make it as concrete as possible by tying the date to their regular routine, as in, ‘two more library visits before we go to the new library.’”

Reassure Your Children

“Your goal is to make sure your kids are involved in the process from beginning to end,” says Lisa Jacobs, a professional organizer in New York City. “Have a conversation with them about how exciting it is to move into a new home with a brand-new room, while assuring them that all of their favorite toys will go wherever they go.”

Savor the Memories

“One way for your kids to adjust to this big move is to create a picture book about the house you are currently living in, especially

Make Decluttering Fun

“When it came time to move, I created a ‘toy store’ so my kids could be part of decluttering their toys and books,” says Ali Wenzke, author of The Art of Happy Moving: How to Declutter, Pack, and Start Over While Maintaining Your Sanity and Finding Happiness. “We bring every single toy into one space and we display it like a toy store. Then the kids can ‘buy’ all of the toys they want to keep, and we donate whatever remains.” “Kids can easily get freaked out by the frantic scene that occurs when the movers arrive,” says T.J. Peterson, digital media coordinator at Oz Moving & Storage. “When parents hire a sitter, the kids will stay calm during the chaotic moving day scene, and your movers will be able to handle tasks unfettered.”

Focus on a Cool, New Bedroom

“If your child is especially stressed about an upcoming move, recast it and focus on how cool his or her new room will be,” suggests Kristen Wilkenson, founder of Mom Managing Chaos, a site that focuses on helping families stay organized. The mom of three children has moved 11 times in the last 15 years to facilitate job changes. “Is there a paint color he or she has in mind for the room, and how does he or she want it to be decorated? Make it fun by looking through décor magazines and Pinterest to get ideas.”

Get the Kids Settled First

“Set up the bedding and create a quiet spot where he or she can be alone, if needed,” Wenzke says. “This way, your child will have a private oasis to escape to during the moving chaos. Plus, you may even get a few minutes to unpack some of your own boxes.”

Scout the Neighborhood for Other Kids

“Having moved my own children several times, I found that it was very important for my kids to meet other kids their age,” Drennan says. “Ask friends of friends if they know of any families with kids the same age or check out local mom groups. I noticed that once my kids had a friend or two nearby, they were better able to settle in.”

Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in NYC.

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If your teen can’t seem to keep her room clean, no matter how much you nag her, we’ve got expert tips to help! By Lambeth Hochwald

f the last time you walked into your teen’s bedroom you walked right out, shocked by the sheer disarray, you’re not alone. Whether due to hormones or disinterest in cleaning, your teen’s bedroom can easily become tornados of dirt and mess. But is it her fault? “Teenagers’ brains are full,” says Jennifer Snyder, a certified professional organizer and owner of Neat as a Pin Organizing and Cleaning, who works with teens and their parents on ways to keep their rooms tidy. “They have school, driving, tests, sports, work, and other activities. Keeping their rooms clean is usually at the bottom of their priority list.” Another factor is parents are often the ones who design the layouts of their kid’s rooms—often without the child’s input—which is usually not consistent with how the teen wants to live. So, without letting your teen too far off the hook, how can you help him maintain some order?

Set Her Up for Success

Leslie Josel, an academic/life coach for teens and a parenting coach in Westchester, says parents have a responsibility to help their teens keep clean. “When parents ask me how to get their kids to organize their room and keep it that way, I lob a question right back at them,” she says. “I ask if their child’s bedroom is set up in a manner that makes it easy for them to create and maintain an organizing system. If they can’t answer that, I send them on a tour of the room.” Then she asks parents to answer the following questions to help them configure a neater space: • Can your teen open his closet door easily or is it partially blocked? • C an she reach the rod and shelves? • A re the dresser drawers hard to open? • I s his dresser crammed full? • Is there enough room for your teen to store all of her clothes? • Does he have enough hangers, hooks, storage bins, and boxes? • D oes she have adequate shelf space for books, memorabilia, electronics, etc.? • I s there a bulletin board or cork squares on the wall? • I s there a trash can and hamper? Are they in good condition and easy to use? • I s there a nightstand for a phone charger, tissues, lamp, water bottle? • A re there items that belong to other family members stored in your teen’s room? • D oes your teen know where everything in her room goes?

Tackle the Mess

The first rule of thumb when organizing is everything needs a home. “It’s really that simple,” Josel says. “No matter what your organizing style, if you don’t know where something lives in your room, you’re more apt to let it sit wherever it lands. That partially explains the landmine that is their floor!” Josel

offers 10 steps to get the cleanup underway. Before organizing begins, purge. Is the room loaded with empty water bottles, food wrappers, cords to electronics he doesn’t own anymore? Grab a garbage bag and out everything goes. Start designating specific “homes” for all her belongings. And make sure these spaces are clearly labeled. When your teen is tired after a long day, visual reminders make cleaning up that much easier. If your teen needs to see his stuff, remove the closet door. If you hate looking at his crowded closet, hang curtains above the opening so he can close it off when friends come over. Replace her dresser with bins lined against a wall to store shirts, jeans, socks, and underwear. This gives her an easy and simple way to get and stay organized. Hang hooks if he can’t seem to grasp the concept of putting clothes on hangers. Put all essentials in your teen’s “prime real estate,” which means these items should be stored between his shoulders and knees for easy access. If you have to reach high or move several items out of the way in the closet to put something away, then the likelihood of your teen doing it is super slim. Leverage the walls. If there’s ample wall space in your teen’s room, hang a bulletin board, cork squares, or even a peg board. They all come in fun colors, are easy to hang, and provide space for notes, invites, and anything else that is hard to organize. Maximize space with a clear shoe bag. Hang one in her closet or behind the bedroom door and stash small items, like device chargers, jewelry, socks and underwear, belts, and toiletries, for an instant catch-all. Clear is king: If your teen can’t see it, it doesn’t exist. Don’t stop at clear shoe bags! Consider purchasing transparent bins to help your teen remember what he owns and strategize where it goes. Pair like with like. This means storing printer paper, ink, toner, and even batteries together. The fewer places your teen needs to look for things, the more likely she will be able to find what she’s looking for quickly and efficiently.

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OPEN HOUSES 2019 Catholic Elementary Schools of Long Island

ACADEMIC PROGRAMS Aca demic Enrichment an d Test Prepa ra tion Center

Diocese of Rockville Centre Multiple Locations 516-280-2479 licatholicelementaryschools.org

AFT ER SCHOOL school days

CLASSES

Early Childhood Education Open Houses run Sunday, Oct. 20-Saturday, Oct. 26 at a Catholic Elementary School in your neighborhood. The Catholic Elementary Schools open their early childhood centers to meet prospective new families.

all year round

Ask about our School Holiday Camps!

East Woods School

31 Yellow Cote Road, Oyster Bay 516-922-4400 eastwoods.org

Join us for an open house on Oct. 18 or Nov. 16. Inspiring confidence, excellence, and kindness since 1946.

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Friends Academy

270 Duck Pond Road, Locust Valley 516-676-0393 fa.org

St Christopher School 15 Pershing Boulevard Baldwin, NY 11510

Come visit us today. Join this extraordinary school tomorrow. Open houses offered Nov. 7 and 12. RSVP at admissions@fa.org or call for more information.

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The Green Vale School

FAITH

250 Valentine’s Lane, Old Brookville 516-621-2420 greenvaleschool.org

MEETS

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Join us for an open house on Oct. 16, Nov. 5, Jan. 15, or Feb. 12 from 9:30-10:30am.

Where Faith Meets Learning

Holy Child Academy

25 Store Hill Road, Old Westbury 516-626-9300 holychildacademy.org

Holy Child Academy offers an exceptional curriculum that lays the foundation for future success. Call anytime for a tour.

For over 90 years St. Christopher School has been providing quality Catholic education to young people.

Full Day or Half Day Option Available for Nursery and Pre-K Pre-K through Grade 8 • After School Activities • Before & After Care

Principal: Mrs. Marianne Carberry

Holy Family School

Open Registration | Call any time for a tour

17 Fordham Ave., Hicksville 516-938-3846 x329 hfsli.org

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Making a difference one child at a time. Come see what we’re all about– call anytime for a tour. ACTIVITIES

Long Island Lutheran Middle & High School

EVENTS

131 Brookville Road, Brookville 516-626-1700 x546 luhi.org; admissions@luhi.org

LuHi invites prospective families to campus to learn about the admissions process, hear from students and administration, and tour LuHi’s facilities on Sept. 30 and Nov. 5.

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Visit our website for program highlights and options and join us for an open house on Sunday, Oct. 20 from 2-4:30pm.

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Your local guide to tutors, teachers, lawyers, financial planners, and other professionals DENTISTS & DENTAL PROVIDERS

EHRENMAN & KHAN PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY

959 Brush Hollow Road, Suite 101, Westbury 516-333-3033 pediatricdentistlongislandny.com kidsteethli@gmail.com Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry cares for all of your child’s oral health needs in a fun, kid-friendly environment that includes iPads and chairside TV monitors.

PDM FAMILY DENTAL

295 N. Broadway, Jericho 516-388-5002 pdmfamilydental.com info@pdmfamilydental.com PDM Family Dental is a new dental office at the Hicksville Jericho border. We are here to provide comprehensive care for your entire family’s dental needs. We are open evenings.

THE TOOTH PILLOW DENTISTRY

775 Park Ave, Suite 340, Huntington 516-317-2476 toothpillowny.com Your child will leave our office with all of their dental work completed, free from pain and bad memories. Trust your child with the experts in pediatric dental sedation.

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ADVANTAGE CARE HEALTH CENTER

189 Wheatley Road, Brookville 230 Hanse Ave., Freeport 516-686-4400 advantagecaredtc.org Advantage Care Health Centers and The Fay J. Lindner Center are Long Island’s premier Federally Qualified Health Care Centers (FQHC). We provide comprehensive medical, dental, and mental and behavioral health services to children and adults.

augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

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ANDREW COHEN, ESQ., LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW M. COHEN

250 West 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen provide personalized, high quality special needs estate planning and special education legal services at a reasonable cost. It also conducts free workshops on several topics for agencies, schools, and parent groups.

LICE CLINICS OF AMERICA - LONG ISLAND

47 Jackson Ave., Syosset 566 Merrick Road, Rockville Centre 516-336-4099 liceclinicslongisland.com Lice Clinics of America will remove lice in just one hour! All lice and eggs—even Super Lice—are eliminated in a single, one-hour treatment. Affordable treatments, no toxic chemicals.

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ANDREW COHEN, ESQ., LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW M. COHEN

VISHNICK MCGOVERN MILIZIO LLP

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LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency,

Our treatment centers are kid-friendly and our products are 100 percent non-toxic. Treatments include two free re-checks. Whether or not you use our service, we are here to help you.

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LIFE’S WORC THE FAMILY CENTER FOR AUTISM

1501 Franklin Ave., Garden City 516-741-9000 familycenterforautism.org The Family Center for Autism provides services and support for people with autism and their families. Programs include: insurance services, birthday parties, art, music, sports and culinary classes, camps, parent and sibling programs, social events, vocational programs, and behavior intervention.

LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success

lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-6896858 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

MARRA & GLICK APPLIED BEHAVIOR ANALYSTS

1737 Veterans Memorial Highway, Suite 1, Islandia 2341 New Hyde Park Road, New Hyde Park 631-479-2900 mg-aba.com Marra & Glick Applied Behavior Analysts specialize in Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) to serve people with autism spectrum disorders in our center-based programs, at school, in the home, and community.

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FAMILY FIRST

100 E. Old Country Road, Suite 14, Mineola 516-804-1010 hello@familyfirstli.org Family First is a sliding-scale psychotherapy practice offering professional services for children age 6 and older, teens, and their families. Effectively addressing the mental health concerns students are facing is vital for their overall growth, development, and well-being.

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EYE LEVEL

Eye Level Williston Park 61 Hillside Ave., Williston Park 516-747-7700 eyelevelny.com Eye Level offers math and English programs for ages 3-14. Whether the immediate goal is for early learning, remedial education, or academic advancement, Eye Level is the answer.

LONG ISLAND TUTORIAL SERVICES

173 N. Main St., Sayville 631-316-0426 litutorialservices.com litutorialservices@gmail .com Long Island Tutorial Services (LITS) provides award-winning customer service and firstrate instruction to families island-wide. Call for a confidential consultation.

MATHNASIUM LEARNING CENTERS Five Towns 414 Central Ave., Cedarhurst 516-569-1500 11 Great Neck Road, Great Neck 516-482-MATH (6284) 381 Sunrise Highway, Lynbrook 516-881-7997 810 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park 516-616-MATH (6284) 217A Mineola Ave., Roslyn Heights 516-484-MATH (6284) mathnasium.com Students go to Mathnasium year-round to catch up, keep up, and get ahead in math. Our instructional approach goes beyond traditional math tutoring to develop understanding and build a love for math.

SYLVAN LEARNING CENTERS OF MINEOLA AND HUNTINGTON

393 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola 516-743-9943 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 sylvanlearning.com sylvanlearning@optonline.net Sylvan of Mineola and Huntington offer personalized tutoring programs in reading, writing, mathematics, SAT and ACT prep. Sylvan will help identify the right program for your child and exactly where your child needs to start to get the best results.

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Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted provides after-school enrichment and private tutoring for gifted and talented students. We are a designated Johns Hopkins CTY and SAT testing center.

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Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing (FEES) are also offered. Seven affiliated offices across Long Island participate with most health insurance and offer evening and Saturday hours.

The Tooth Pillow Dentistry 775 Park Ave, Suite 340, Huntington 516-317-2476 toothpillowny.com The Tooth Pillow Dentistry is a group of board-certified pediatric dentists and dentist anesthesiologists who work together to safely provide dental treatment while your child “sleeps.” We provide this service for children who cannot be treated in the typical dental chair setting due to age, behavior, or other factors that hinder treatment. Your child will leave our office with all of their dental work completed, free from pain and bad memories. We will treat your child as if they were our own. Trust your child with the experts in pediatric dental sedation. Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry 959 Brush Hollow Road, Suite 101, Westbury 516-333-3033 pediatricdentistlongislandny.com kidsteethli@gmail.com Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry cares for all of your child’s oral health needs in a fun, kid-friendly environment that includes iPads and chairside TV monitors. Drs. Ehrenman and Khan are dedicated and trained to ease dental anxieties for young children as well as patients with special needs. Their years of advanced training include hospital and sedation dentistry. Please visit kidsteeth4li.com to learn more about what Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry has to offer! PDM Family Dental 295 N. Broadway, Jericho 516-388-5002 pdmfamilydental.com info@pdmfamilydental.com PDM Family Dental is a new dental office at the Hicksville Jericho border. We are here to provide comprehensive care for your children and your entire family’s dental needs. We strive to provide a comfortable dental experience and aim to help you walk out with a smile. Dr. Makkar is a huge advocate of educating families to take care of their dental needs and of supporting communities. We do accept most insurances but also provide in-office dental plans so that dental care is accessible to all. We are open evenings. LongIslandParent 43

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The (Not-So) Sweet Season ›› One mom’s account of surviving the planning of the epic birthday blowout By Suzanne Bergen

y daughter, Kasey, just had her Sweet 16. That thing sucked up more time and energy than my wedding did. The extravaganza, from what I can tell, is a phenomenon unique to our area and coastal California. Relatives and friends in Florida, Michigan, Pennsylvania, Maryland, Rhode Island, North Carolina, Ohio, and, for that matter, Canada, were all like, “What are you talking about…?” Kasey has been invited to six Sweets (as the girls call them) in as many months, with plenty more in the pipeline. Not a one is what we might remember from our high school days, i.e., a backyard barbecue in summer or a sleepover. Among them was a Vegas Night blowout of 150 guests at country club. Another invitation, to an Under the Sea gala, came wrapped in an aquamarine tulle ribbon adorned with a real sand dollar that had been sealed to keep it from breaking in the mail. Yes, this is all nuts for a seemingly random birthday. But as a mom, you want your kid to have and do what her friends have and do. It’s a hard emotion to resist, even if your brain knows the money could be better spent. Here’s how Kasey’s fete compared to my 1994 wedding: Wedding: The caterer asked what color flowers I wanted on the tables, since they came with the standard wedding package. “Red, I guess, since the bridesmaids are wearing red.” The End. Sweet 16: To come up with the perfect centerpieces for Kasey’s Fashion theme, we evaluated 8,997 Pinterest images. We settled on square glass jars with Chanel labels and a drop of pink food coloring in the water (One drop! Not too dark!) so they look like perfume bottles, but with light pink, white, and blush wildfloweresque flowers in them. No roses. (Even the florist didn’t know the difference between blush and light pink.) I had to go to a craft store to buy the exact right glass jars…well, two craft stores, because the first one didn’t have enough. Then we downloaded and printed out Chanel perfume labels, changing No. 5 to No. 16 (get it?), bought food coloring, and picked up strands of fake pearls to drape over the flowers, because wasn’t Coco Chanel famous for her pearls? After presenting all of this to the florist, he informed me I had to Mod Podge the labels in case water splattered on them. Wedding: I ordered the second dress I tried on. It came in. It fit fine…I didn’t really love the sleeves, but I didn’t want to complain because the lady was nice. The End. Sweet 16: I took Kasey to nine stores over the course of six Saturdays before she found The Dress. These outings were always accompanied by Kasey’s BFF, Molly, who would buzz around fishing out about a dozen dresses she thought Kasey would like.

Kasey wound up trying on eight to 10 of Molly’s dozen at each of the stores, so you do the math. At the end of each exhausting expedition, the three of us were hungry, and given Molly’s undying patience, I felt the least I could do was treat her to the diner. I spent I don’t know how much on diner meals capping off fruitless dress searches, listening to the girls discuss high-level matters (should the boyfriends of Kasey’s friends get their own invitations?). We finally secured The Dress at a shop 50 minutes away, and Kasey needed not one, not two, but three fittings at this far-flung locale. Wedding: The best man gave a short, nice speech. The End. Sweet 16: The candle ceremony, during which the birthday girl recites a short poem in honor of each important person in her life, has more moving parts than 16 candles (Sorry; 17. I kept forgetting the one for good luck). Kasey decided on floating candles, so there were canisters of varying heights. Don’t even ask about the water. A specially decorated candle lighter was needed, as was her name spelled out in big sparkling letters in front of the candles. Then there was the matter of drafting 17 poems that not only, obviously, rhymed, but suitably encapsulated Kasey’s history with and feelings for that person, yet wouldn’t take longer than 45 seconds to recite. One candle had two people attached to it (her Girl Scout co-leaders), so that poem alone took an entire evening to craft. Then the DJ reminded us that Kasey needed to pick a song snippet for him to play as each person was called up. Seventeen song snippets that suitably encapsulated Kasey’s history with and feelings for that person (or Girl Scout co-leaders). I asked one sympathetic veteran mom, “Please tell me it will be worth it?!” She said it would be when I saw how happy Kasey was. She was right. My Kasey was beaming all night long. The restrained, quiet, hard-to-read teen was gone, replaced by a silly, laughing girl, clapping, spinning, and jumping up and down—and not just on the dance floor. The last candle lit that night was for me. Kasey said she saved the best for last and thanked me far more eloquently than I had ever heard her speak. The feeling I couldn’t shake in the weeks running up to the big day, that I had done all this, and she wouldn’t appreciate it, was unfounded. My song snippet was from “Wind Beneath My Wings:” It might have appeared to go unnoticed; But I’ve got it all here in my heart; I want you to know I know the truth, of course I know it; I would be nothing without you. Now I’m among the veterans. Molly’s Sweet is up next. Kasey’s been running around with her dress shopping (payback is…well, you know). Her mom asked if she could use our floating candle canisters. When I dropped them off, she said, “This is a lot!” I said, “Yep…Let me know how I can help. But it will all be worth it.”

Suzanne Bergen is Long Island writer who marked her son’s 16th birthday with bagels and new sneakers.

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