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14 Processed Foods 101 16 Health & Wellness Directory

5 Ways to Instill Gratitude in Children

How to encourage your kids to show their thanks all year long, not just during this season of giving

Sensory-Friendly Theater in NYC

A roundup of inclusive performances in New York City for children with special needs

Speed-Clean Your House

Holiday guests are on the way, so make sure you hit these spots when you tidy up.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 The Quiet Child 12 5 Ways to Instill Gratitude in Children 32 Kids & Politics 34 Out and About with Baby 42 Party Central 43 Meet the Doctor 44 Preschool Directory 44 Open Houses 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 Quotables

18 Sensory-Friendly Theater in NYC

36 Stay Safe While Shopping Online

20 Family Fun in Manhattan

38 Speed-Clean Your House

21 Family Activities Calendar 30 Activities to be Thankful For

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NOVEMBER 2018 • Vol.10 • No.6

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hh, fall. The delightfully crisp weather before Old Man Winter rolls in, the start of the NHL season, and pumpkin spice everything (is my millennial showing?) makes it my favorite time of year. Let me take a minute to introduce myself: I’m NYMetroParents’ new editorial director, though you may recognize my name, as I’ve been with Nassau Parent for almost seven years now. While Deborah Skolnik will return with her editor’s letter next month, I wanted to take advantage of this season of showing gratitude to share what I’m thankful for. First and foremost, I’m thankful for my health; I’ll bet most of you are as well. While I try to eat a well-balanced diet, I’ll inevitably grab a granola bar as a snack on the go. Usually I end up thinking I should have chosen an apple instead of a processed treat, but Emma Steven’s article “Processed Foods 101” on pg. 14 tempered my food guilt. She spoke to nutrition experts to get the low down on processed foods and how you can cut back the amount of it your family eats. I’m also thankful for my best friend who is more like a sister. She’s planning to come stay with me for Thanksgiving, which I’m very much looking forward to. What I’m not looking forward to? Cleaning my apartment before her arrival. That’s why I’m going to take the advice given in Deborah Skolnik’s “Speed-Clean Your House” (pg. 38), in which professional cleaners give pointers on the areas you should tackle in your home ﬁrst for minimal effort but maximal results. (As someone who isn’t fond of cleaning, I’m also thankful for these tips.) Family is another thing for which I’m thankful. I have seven nieces and nephews, with one on the way, so I’ll be taking a look at “Out and About with Baby” (pg. 34) for some ideas on what to get the expecting parents in my life. And I know these products are good because local parents recommend their favorite gear to make a day out with the kids as smooth as possible. I learned that I should express my gratitude to those I’m thankful for in Melissa Wickes’s “5 Ways to Instill Gratitude in Children” (pg. 12), so, dear readers, please know that I’m especially thankful for you. Happy Thanksgiving!

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The Quiet Child ››

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braced myself for our third grade parent-teacher interview. By this time, I had come to expect the usual comments from teachers and other adults who came into contact with my daughter. “We wish she would speak up more,” or the slightly accusatory, “We’re wondering if there’s a reason she’s so quiet?” or the cheerier, “We want to get to know your daughter better!” Sometimes well-meaning people try to connect with her, (and use the word I’ve come to strongly dislike), “I was shy like you too, when I was young.” Since my daughter has been very little, I’ve been perplexed by the assessment made by many of the (again, wellintentioned) adults she encounters. Though in my gut I’ve always known she was fine just the way she is, there was something about her entering school—her first large group setting—that started making me second-guess everything. My 3am spiral went something like this: Would she actually “grow” out of this? (There was usually an implication that she would, that she should, mature beyond this, that it was at worst some sort of inadequacy, and at best just a phase of growing up.) Maybe she wasn’t comfortable at her current school? Maybe she should be in another environment where the classes were smaller and she received more individual attention, which in turn would make her feel more at ease, which in turn would make her speak out more, which in turn would make her more accepted by her teachers and peers, which in turn would make her life easier? Obviously, this got me nowhere. Then I picked up Susan Cain’s brilliant book, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking. Although I thought I knew a lot of what the author wrote about already, the way she broke everything down was a Rosalind Muggeridge lives in Prospect Heights, Brooklyn with her husband and two children.

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revelation for me. The gist of the book is so-called quiet people (those with introverted tendencies) have calmly gotten down to the business of accomplishing a lot of the real work done in the world: inventions, scientific breakthroughs, brilliant novels, etc. In other words, introversion isn’t a shortcoming that needs to be overcome; it’s simply a type of personality that lends itself to different pursuits—some really useful ones as it happens. The problem is not with people who fall into that category, but with the world we live in that seems to reward and most value the loudest voices in the room. Now when I’m met with the usual comments about how quiet my daughter is, I try to honor her character without being defensive. I try to emphasize her strengths: She flourishes in very small group settings and loves individual work. I also try to check in now and then to make sure her environment isn’t causing her to withhold at all. Beyond that, I try not to stress. Now that she and I both have the language and tools to better frame her character, we can do our best to ignore any expectations about how outspoken she needs to be. I can get out of her way, and she can get on with whatever contribution she chooses to make to the world. It’s the most important lesson I’ve learned as a parent (and one I evidently need to learn over and over): Following your child’s lead is usually the smoothest and happiest way toward growth and development. Obviously, that doesn’t mean feeding her chocolate cake for breakfast when she asks for it or buying her every random can of slime she wants. For me it means learning to stay quiet for a moment, take a beat, and let my kid not do the talking.

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5 Ways to Instill Gratitude in Children ››

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ovember is a time when we tend to think about gratitude; your family is likely familiar with the ‘what are you thankful for’ exercise at the Thanksgiving dinner table. But it is vital to instill the importance of gratitude in your children year-round. Alan Daniel Schlechter, M.D., clinical assistant professor at the department of child and adolescent psychiatry at NYU Langone Health, director of outpatient child and adolescent psychiatry at Bellevue Hospital, and instructor of the course The Science of Happiness at New York University shares ﬁve ways you can instill gratitude in your children.

Model being grateful. As is the case with most traits you want to instill in your children, the best way to do so is by modeling this behavior. Dr. Schlechter, co-author of U Thrive: How to Succeed in College (and Life), emphasizes the importance of taking the time to thank the people around you. “Thank [your] waiter... Write handwritten thank-you notes instead of emails to make sure your kids see you doing it,” he suggests. Play Best, Best, Worst. At Dr. Schlechter’s dinner table, everyone in the family says their two best moments of the day and their one worst. What makes this exercise unique in his house, though, is each family member also states a time someone helped them. “Sometimes the best parts of your day can be when someone else supported you,” Dr. Schlechter says. “If the best part of your child’s day was scoring a goal in soccer, ask ‘who helped you score that goal?’” Write gratitude letters and journals. Jotting down the things you’re grateful for increases your well-being, according to Dr. Schlechter. So try keeping a family gratitude journal in which each member writes down what they are thankful for. Or encourage your kids to write gratitude letters to those they are thankful for (and let them see you do this, too). Point out examples of gratitude. When you’re reading, watching TV, or just going about your everyday life, point out people who do a great job of expressing gratitude to those around them, Dr. Schlechter suggests.

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Ask how it makes them feel. Many people get into the habit of saying thank you because it’s the right thing to do. But expressing gratitude toward someone makes you feel happy, and that should be the reason to do it, Dr. Schlechter says. “What you want to do with all of these exercises is make sure that it makes [your children] feel good and that they know it makes them feel good,” he says. Feeling happy when you’re giving gratitude encourages you to keep doing it.

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Experts say it’s okay to eat some processed foods, but the bulk of your diet should consist of whole foods.

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We spoke to nutrition experts to get the skinny on processed foods and your kids’ health, so you can make smart choices in the grocery store. By Emma Steven

here is an overwhelming amount of information about what we should and should not be eating. The everyday job of grocery shopping or planning meals for our families is a maze of choices. We hear a lot about processed foods, but what are they and why are they bad? First, let’s clear things up. Processed foods are defined as any foods that have been changed before they reach the consumer, according to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics. Unless you grow and raise all of your own food, this means almost everything. “All foods undergo some level of processing. The level falls on something of a spectrum,” says Malina Malkani M.S., R.D., C.D.N., registered dietician nutritionist and spokesperson for AND. “To call all processing unhealthy is a bit of a misnomer.” Processed foods typically fall into 1 of 5 categories: • Minimally processed: prepared fruits and vegetables, bagged salads, nuts, and coffee • Processed to preserve freshness at harvest: canned food, frozen fruits and vegetables, and jarred purees • Packaged foods with added ingredients to improve vitamin content, taste, color, texture, and shelf life: rice, jarred tomato sauce, and boxed pasta and mashed potatoes • Ready-to-eat foods: soda, cereal, snack foods, deli meats, yogurt, and ice cream • Pre-made meals: toaster pastries and frozen meals The healthiest foods are whole foods and those that are minimally processed. The unhealthiest are hyper- or ultra-processed foods, which are “foods that really don’t resemble their original state and have a lot of ingredients,” says Sally Kuzemchak, M.S., R.D., author of The 101 Healthiest Foods for Kids and founder of RealMomNutrition.com. 14

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Low in Nutrients, High in “Bad” Stuff

A high intake of ultra-processed foods has been linked in studies to obesity, diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease, and cancer, according to BMJ Open, American Institute for Cancer Research, and National Institutes of Health. “The more heavily processed foods tend to be higher in the nutrients that we want to limit, namely added sugars, sodium, saturated fat, and artificial trans fat,” Malkani explains. “These, when eaten in large quantities over time, do lead to more detrimental health effects.” Yet because these foods are convenient and taste good, we eat a lot of them. A 2016 study published in BMJ Open revealed that ultra-processed foods make up more than half of Americans’ diets. The same study found that as we eat more of them, we consume fewer essential nutrients (protein, fiber, vitamins, and minerals) and more added sugar, salt, carbohydrates, and saturated and trans fats overall. Because they contain very little protein, fiber, and whole grains, ultra-processed foods can be unsatisfying. This means you eat more than you should, and are more likely to go over the recommended daily allowance of salt, sugar, and saturated and trans fats.

The Hidden Additives

In July, the American Academy of Pediatrics made a statement warning of the dangers to children of chemicals from additives, colorings, preservatives, and packaging of many processed foods. “There are critical weaknesses in the current food additives regulatory process, which doesn’t do enough to ensure all chemicals added to foods are safe enough to be part of a family’s diet,” said Leonardo Trasande, M.D., M.P.P., F.A.A.P.

Small Steps, Big Impact

Experts suggest doing the following to reduce the amount of processed foods you and your children eat: Choose the products with the fewest ingredients. “The lower the amount of ingredients, usually the better,” says Natalie Monson, R.D.N., C.D., registered dietitian and co-founder of Super Healthy Kids. Anything with a long list of ingredients you cannot pronounce means it’s ultra processed. Pick whole grains. Even if the front of the package says whole grain, check the ingredients for refined or enriched flours, which are stripped of their nutritional value. Read the ingredients list. “Ingredients are listed in descending order by weight. If you look at the first three and they are white flour and sugar, then you know that these are going to predominantly make up the food,” Malkani says. Avoid artificial colorings. Studies have linked them to behavioral problems in some kids. Don’t eat processed meats, especially when pregnant, unless marked nitrate-free. Check how much of the recommended 2,300mg of sodium a day a product contains. “The vast majority of our sodium comes from processed foods and restaurant foods, only ten percent comes from the salt shaker,” Kuzemchak says. “A quick tip is to compare grams of sodium and calories,” says Bridget Murphy, R.D.N., registered dietitian at Hassenfeld Children’s Hospital, NYU Langone. “If a food has more grams of sodium than calories, it’s probably very salty.” Beware trans fats, which are listed as hydrogenated or partially hydrogenated oils. Since the U.S. Food and Drug Administration announced in 2015 that trans fats were “not recognized as safe,” food companies are being forced to remove them. If a product has 0.5g of trans fat or less per serving, manufacturers can round down to zero, so it’s important to look at the ingredient list, not just the nutrition label.

Look for added sugar. Government dietary guidelines recommend consuming no more than 10 percent of our daily calories from added sugars. To stay on track, a trick is to remember that 4 grams equals 1 teaspoon. Kids should only eat 6-11 teaspoons a day.

Finding a Balance

If cutting out ultra-processed foods seems like a daunting task, don’t panic—it isn’t necessary to avoid them completely. “I don’t think you should

have hard rules surrounding foods. There are different options that are definitely healthier for us. Try to eat the majority of your foods as whole foods, but you really can’t avoid processed foods,” Monson says. By feeding your family nutrient-dense foods you’ll automatically reduce the amount of processed foods they eat. “All meals and snacks should have a variety of the main food groups,” Monson suggests. “If you do that it becomes less of a

big deal because they are getting that other nutrition.” Remember: Every day doesn’t need to be perfect. It’s all about creating a healthy food environment at home, not banning foods. As Pulitzer Prize-winning reporter Michael Moss said in his book, Salt Sugar Fat: How the Food Giants Hooked Us: “They may have salt, sugar, and fat on their side, but we, ultimately, have the power to make choices.” Emma Steven is a British writer in Manhattan with her husband, two kids, and two cats.

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Health&Wellness Advantage Care Health Center

189 Wheatley Road, Brookville 516-686-4400 230 Hanse Ave., Freeport advantagecaredtc.org Advantage Care Health Centers and The Fay J. Lindner Center are Long Island’s premier Federally Qualified Health Care Centers (FQHC). We provide comprehensive medical, dental, and mental and behavioral health services to children and adults. We offer services to all members of the community with a commitment to those who might otherwise be excluded from the healthcare system, while still remaining cost-effective and efficient. The center specializes in providing services to individuals with Autism and intellectual and developmental disabilities. We accept Medicaid, Medicare, and Managed Care plans.

Allied Physicians Group

3 Huntington Quadrangle, Melville 866-621-2769 alliedphysiciansgroup.com The more than 120 physicians that comprise Allied Physicians Group are among the top pediatricians throughout Long Island, New York City, Westchester County, the Hudson Valley, and beyond. When you bring your children to an Allied pediatric practice, you know they are getting the very best care. Our doctors have access to resources, technology, and support that other, stand-alone pediatric practices simply cannot offer. Our doctors have more time for what matters most-you and your child! For more information, visit alliedphysiciansgroup. com or call us at 866-621-2769.

Aviva Chansky Guttmann, L.M.S.W., C.I.R.T.

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C.I.R.T., is an advanced imago clinician and certified imago relationship therapist specializing in home based relationship therapy for parents, partners, and families. Imago Relationship Therapy offers relationship partners a therapeutic dialoguing technique providing a safe, focused, and non-confrontational method of dealing with relationship conﬂict. Aviva teaches this interactive process and partners experience enhanced empathy, sharpened listening skills, and emotional intimacy. Services are available in the comfort and privacy of your home.

Berkshire Farm Center and Services For Youth

535 Broad Hollow Road, Suite B30, Melville 631-420-4444 berkshirefarm.org Many children in our communities are placed in foster care due to an unhealthy environment. For the emotional and psychical well-being of a child, it’s important that children who come into care be placed in an environment where their needs can be met. Currently, Berkshire Farm Center is looking for families to open their homes and hearts to children in need. We work as a team to plan for a successful stay in foster care and to help children reach their goals of returning to a safe, healthy environment, or becoming available for adoption.

Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry

959 Brush Hollow Road, Suite #101, Westbury 516-333-3033 pediatricdentistlongislandny.com kidsteethli@gmail.com Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry cares for all of your child’s oral health needs in a fun, kid-friendly environ-

ment that includes iPads and chairside TV monitors. Drs. Ehrenman and Khan are dedicated and trained to ease dental anxieties for young children as well as patients with special needs. Their years of advanced training include hospital and sedation dentistry. Please visit kidsteeth4li.com to learn more about what Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry has to offer!

expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES—Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. Seven affiliated offices across Long Island participate with most health insurance and offer evening and Saturday hours.

Lice Tamers, Inc.

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900 Walt Whitman Road, Suite LL2, Melville 631-479-2595 licetamers.com licetamers@gmail.com Head lice infestations can be traumatic for families. At Lice Tamers our goal is to make the experience of having lice as stress-free as possible. Owned and operated by a medical professional, Lice Tamers offers sameday lice treatment and head checks at our comfortable, child-friendly treatment center or in the comfort of your home. All of our products are safe and non-toxic. We are dedicated to dispelling the myths surrounding head lice and offer free presentations to schools and camps. Call us today to learn more!

Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631689-6858 Queens: 718-640-6767 lispeech.com Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, ﬂuency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders,

1756A Merrick Ave., Merrick 516-547-1997 merrickpediatricdentistry.com Dr. Rania Elbaz is a board-certified pediatric dentist. She earned her dental degree from Columbia University. She then completed her pediatric dental training at UMDNJ-New Jersey Dental School. Dr. Elbaz loves working with children and strives to create a warm and fun environment that children look forward to visiting. Dr. Elbaz sees every patient in order to ensure consistency that is so important to young children. The office welcomes and gives extra time and attention to patients with special needs. The office also participates with most major insurance plans.

PDM Family Dental

295 N. Broadway, Jericho 516-388-5002 pdmfamilydental.com info@pdmfamilydental.com PDM Family Dental is a new dental office at the Hicksville Jericho border. We are here to provide comprehensive care for your children and your entire family’s dental needs. We strive to provide a comfortable dental experience and aim to help you walk out with a smile. Dr. Makkar is a huge advocate for supporting communities and educating families to take care of their dental needs. We do accept most insurances but also provide in-office dental plans so that dental care is accessible to all. We are open evenings.

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FROZEN: the Musical will perform its sensory-friendly show Sunday, Nov. 4; tickets are currently on sale at tdf.org/autism.

Sensory-Friendly Theater in NYC

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These inclusive performances feature adaptations to noise and lighting—and offer calming rooms when your child needs a break from the stimuli. By Emma Steven

or families affected by autism or sensory sensitivities, going to see a show or theater production can seem impossible. The good news is many top venues in NYC are now trying to be more accessible and inclusive. We found the best autism- and sensory-friendly shows for the 2018-2019 season at New York City theaters and venues. The list includes Broadway shows, kids’ theater and music, the circus, and those famous blue men! Buy your tickets soon, as these shows tend to sell out.

TDF

This nonprofit aims to bring the performing arts to everyone, regardless of their special needs. Its autism-friendly season of Broadway shows is now in its eighth year. Each show is performed in a fully supportive environment, with adaptions to noise and light where possible. Fully staffed quiet and play areas are provided in the lobby for anyone who needs to leave their seats. Tickets sell out quickly and can only be purchased via tdf.org/autism. Sign up early to get alerts when the tickets go on sale, at a discounted price of $55-$80. These are full-length Broadway shows, so may not be suitable for younger kids. FROZEN: the Musical When: Sunday, Nov. 4, 1pm Where: St. James Theatre, 246 W. 44th St., Times Square Theater District Ages: 8 and older What: The Broadway version of the Disney movie you know and love.

Aladdin When: Sunday, March 3, 2019, 1pm Where: The New Amsterdam Theatre, 14 W. 42nd St., Times Square Theater District Ages: 6 and older What: The award-winning show about a genie and a magical lamp (and other things).

Lerner and Loewe’s My Fair Lady When: Sunday, May 5, 2019, 1pm Where: The Vivian Beaumont Theater, 50 Lincoln Center Plaza, Upper West Side Ages: 8 and older What: A lavish revival of a beloved musical.

Autism Speaks

This nonprofit has partnered with two shows this fall to offer adapted productions. It also has a national calendar of autism-friendly events on its website (autismspeaks.org). Blue Man Group When: Saturday, Nov. 3, 2pm

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Where: Astor Place Theatre, 434 Lafayette St., East Village Ages: 7 and older What: This version of the unique show will be calmer, with less audience interaction, as well as sound and light modifications. Earplugs and a calming zone in the lobby will also be made available. Tickets: $65.50, with $5 going to Autism Speaks

The New Victory Theater

One of the first venues to offer autismfriendly shows every season, this children’s theater offers lots of support to parents and kids. There are break out zones, trained staff, show information, family bathrooms, help with transitions, and fidget toys. Tickets: $25; visit newvictory.org or call 646-223-3010 for more information. 209 W. 42nd St., Times Square Theater District.

Beauty and the Beast When: Sunday, Nov. 4, 11am Ages: 6 and older What: A re-telling of the familiar story with a Jazz Age score. Circus Abyssinia: Ethiopian Dreams When: Friday, Dec. 14, 7pm Ages: 5 and older What: The New Victory’s circus show is always a crowd pleaser. Emily Brown and The Thing When: Saturday, Jan. 26, 2019, 3pm Ages: 4-7 What: Musical adventure based on the much-loved book. Ajijaak on Turtle Island When: Saturday, March 2, 2019, 7pm Ages: 7 and older What: Songs, puppetry, and dance tell the tale of a whooping crane facing her first migration.

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There are a few shows on this venue’s schedule that are adapted for neuro-diverse audiences. Tickets: $25; visit lincolncenter. org or call 212-721-6500 for more information; Clark Studio Theater, 165 W. 65th St., 7th Floor, Upper West Side.

Variety Child Learning Center Social Skills Training Groups for Children Ages 4-16 A curriculum-based program for children with and without disabili�es who face social challenges, such as interac�ng appropriately with others and making and maintaining friendships. Groups are led by professionals with Master’s Degrees in educa�on, speech, social work, psychology or other related disciplines.

9 When: Sunday, Nov. 4, 11am Ages: 6 and older What: The popular Quebecois dance company’s show about Beethoven’s Ninth Symphony. You and Me and the Space Between When: Sunday, March 17, 2pm Ages: 6-12 What: An adventure using storytelling, choreographed projections, and live-drawn animation. Emma Steven is a British writer in Manhattan with her husband, two kids, and two cats.

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Fall 2018/Winter 2019 Session: 9:30 – 11:00 AM Call for Fees November 3, 17 December 1, 8, 15 January 5, 12, 26 February 2 *If VCLC cancels a session, the make-up date will be February 9, 2019. Group size: 8 – 10 children grouped by age and level of func�oning Staﬃng: 1 Leader and 1-2 Teacher Assistants All programs take place at: VCLC, 47 Humphrey Drive, Syosset, NY

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Mouseketeers Unite!

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Celebrate 90 years of Mickey Mouse’s influence on art and pop culture in an immersive experience that explores the Disney icon’s status as an anything-but-mousy muse. The exhibit will feature historic and contemporary artwork and highlight Mickey’s contributions to fashion, commerce, media, and beyond—one of the first pieces of Mickey merchandise, a wristwatch from the Ingersoll-Waterbury Company, was so popular it helped save the company from bankruptcy! See it and more at Mickey: The True Original Exhibition. Nov. 8-Feb. 10, 2019, Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-8pm. Age: All; no strollers. $38; free for children 3 and younger. 60 Tenth Ave., Chelsea. disney.com.

Macy’s Great American Marching Band is comprised of the country’s finest highschool musicians, accompanied by nearly 40 flags and dancers.

The Ultimate Turkey Trot

Everyone’s favorite Thanksgiving tradition is back! The 92nd Annual Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade promises its awe-inspiring classic balloons—Charlie Brown, the Macy’s Stars, and more—plus marching bands, performers, floats, and clowns. Arrive early to snag a spot with a view, or turn your TV to NBC and watch in your PJs. Keep an eye out for some new additions, including the Three Baby Dinos ballonicles and the newly designed Tom Turkey float. Nov. 22, 9am-12pm. Age: All. FREE. Central Park West and 77th Street, moving south via Central Park South and Sixth Avenue, to Macy’s Herald Square on 34th Street. macys.com/parade.

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Mickey: The True Original Exhibition follows the 90-year history of Walt Disney’s little mouse that danced, sang, and waved his way to an empire.

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This exhibition explores the traditions of folklore and magic at the heart of the Harry Potter stories.

New-York Historical Society

Established in 1804 as New York’s first museum, the New-York Historical Society aims to educate visitors about the history of New York and America. Its DiMenna Children’s History Museum is the first history museum in the U.S. designed for kids, and it features interactive exhibits, games, and programming for toddlers to teens. Visit it: 170 Central Park West, Upper West Side; nyhistory.org; 212-873-3400 Can’t-miss event: Harry Potter: A History of Magic; through Jan. 27, 2019: See website for hours. Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 15-minute drive or LIRR and subway ride from Garden City.

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This 1912 American-LaFrance Tractor-Steamer, a coal-fired steam engine, was dubbed “Old 93” upon its retirement in 1933 when it was used as a parade vehicle.

New York City Fire Museum

Located in the former quarts of Engine Company No. 3, this museum takes you through the history of firefighting by displaying techniques, equipment, and more. Climb on a fire truck for the perfect Instagram photo or visit one of the permanent exhibits. Visit it: 278 Spring St., Hudson Square; nycfiremuseum.org; 212-352-3117 Can’t-miss event: NYC Fire Museum Cook Off; Thursday, Nov. 8, 6pm Directions: Approximately a 1-hour drive or LIRR and subway ride from Garden City.

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Long Island Nets vs. Westchester Knicks

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WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 7pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: Long Island Nets take on the Westchester Knicks, plus lots of entertainment. WHY WE LOVE IT: it’s the first battle of the ‘burbs match up for the 201819 season. WANT TO GO? $20; $5 parking fee. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 9, 7pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: Adult WHAT: Elaine Langsam provides the materials and the motivation in this creative program. WHY WE LOVE IT: What better time to say “thank you” to someone (or yourself )? WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Chinese Warriors of Peking

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WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 3pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookeville AGES: All WHAT: This production for the whole family is filled with high-intensity martial arts and breathtaking acrobatics, telling the tale of two rival martial arts disciplines competing in ancient Peking. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s masterful and riveting! WANT TO GO? $36 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org/event/chinesewarriors.

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WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 13, 7pm WHERE: Farmingdale Multiplex Cinemas, 1001 Broad Hollow Road, Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Step into the curio cabinet of an inventor who defies the laws of time, space, and dimension in order to reinvent everything. WHY WE LOVE IT: Movie-going just got jaw dropping! WANT TO GO? $16. 631-777-7399. FathomEvents.com.

10th Annual Bethpage Turkey Drive Benefiting Island Harvest FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 16, 7am-6:30pm WHERE: Bethpage Federal Credit Union, 899 S. Oyster Bay Ave., Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Donations of frozen turkeys and non-perishable goods, supermarket gift cards, or cash donations will help feed more than 300,000 families in need. WHY WE LOVE IT: Thanksgiving is the time to give back and this event helps us support our neighbors. WANT TO GO? 516-263-6546. bit.ly/BethpageTurkeyDrive.

LI Festival of Trees

WHEN: Nov. 23-25, Friday-Saturday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Cradle of Aviation, Charles Lindbergh Boulevard, Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Holiday extravaganza with designed decorated tree, continuous entertainment, kids activities, and a vendor marketplace! Proceeds benefit Cerebral Palsy Association of Nassau and Cradle of Aviation Museum. WHY WE LOVE IT: Everyone can have lots of fun while supporting a great cause! WANT TO GO? $15; $10 for children; free for children 2 and younger. 516-572-4111. cpnassau.org.

‘Caps for Sale’/’Three Billy Goats Gruff’

WHEN: Nov. 24 -25, Saturday, 11am; Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Showplace at the Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Help the peddler find his caps and help big Billy Goat Gruff find his brothers. WHY WE LOVE IT: Children learn valuable life lessons from both stories. WANT TO GO? $12. 516-783-7200. bellmoremovie.com.

Disney On Ice presents Mickey’s Search Party

WHEN: Nov. 15 -25, See website for exact dates and times WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Join Mickey Mouse for a new adventure filled with world-class skating, high-flying acrobatics, and unexpected stunts. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a delightful, magical celebration of all our favorite characters—on ice! WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

‘The Big Bolt!’

WHEN: Nov. 15-Dec. 30, See website for dates and times WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Jimmi is a confident, curious girl and aspiring engineer who loves to build and explore the neighborhood with her friendly dog Conrad. WHY WE LOVE IT: This show teaches valuable lessons about honesty, consequences, and forgiveness. WANT TO GO? $23; $22 seniors and children; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

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Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

Veterans Breakfast FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 2, 9am WHERE: Clinton G. Martin Park, 1601 Marcus Ave., New Hyde Park AGES: Adult WHAT: Attendees will be able to meet with representatives from agencies who will provide information about services and benefits available to veterans. WANT TO GO? 516-869-6311. northhempsteadny.gov.

The Long Island Home Show FREE

WHEN: Nov. 3-4, Saturday-Sunday, 11am WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: The Home Show brings together homeowners with local and national companies for two full days of ideas, resources, and expert advice. WANT TO GO? 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

Teaching Children the Power of Saving & Understanding a 529 Plan FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 6, 7:30pm WHERE: Sid Jacobson Jewish Community Center, 300 Forest Drive, East Hills AGES: Adult WHAT: Join for a panel discussion about saving for college. WANT TO GO? 516-484-1545. sjjcc.org/parenting.

Museum Makers: Designing With Data FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 15: Thursdays, 3:30-5:30pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 5-8, Adult WHAT: Participants can ask questions, collect data, uncover patterns, and design and create their very own exhibit. A light dinner will be provided after each workshop, registration required. WANT TO GO? 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Party Art FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 20, 4:30pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Try making something Thanksgiving related with your favorite local art programmers! WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Santa Claus’ Arrival FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 27, 5pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 261 Airport Plaza, Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Families are invited to take pictures with Santa at the event and enjoy a variety of holiday songs performed by Woodward Parkway Elementary School’s 3rd Grade Chorus. WANT TO GO? 516-962-8210. stewleonards.com. ››

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WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 4, 1:30pm WHERE: Rock Hall Museum, 199 Broadway, Lawrence AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Darrel Blaine Ford will read from Whitman’s collection of poems. WANT TO GO? $10; $8 seniors. 516-239-1157. friendsofrockhall.org.

Ranger Talk: The Roosevelt Women and World War I FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 10, 2pm WHERE: Sagamore Hill National Historic Site, Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Take a step back in time to discuss the Great War, how it impacted women across the globe, and how two Roosevelt women made a difference. WANT TO GO? 516-922-4788. nps.gov/sahi.

Help Me Grow FREE

SMARTY PANTS LEGO Club FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 1, 4:15pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 3-12 WHAT: All are welcome to come and build! WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Italian Classes

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: 10-11am WHERE: Camp Italia, 223 Stewart Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Learn Italian! WANT TO GO? $27.50. 855-226-7481. campitaliausa.org.

Ranger Talk: Life of Quentin Roosevelt FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 2pm WHERE: Sagamore Hill National Historic Site, 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Join a park ranger for a program on Quentin Roosevelt’s life. WANT TO GO? 516-922-4788. nps.gov/sahi.

The Great War Lecture Series: Harlem’s Rattlers and the Great War: The 369th Regiment

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 4, 2pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Presented by Jeffery Sammons, professor of history at New York University and co-author of Harlem’s Rattlers and the Great War: The Undaunted 369th Regiment and the African American Quest for Equality. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children younger than 7. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Family Mini Comic Con FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 4, 2pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Learn the ways of the force and how to use a light saber! WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org. 24

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WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 13, 7pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: This interactive class focuses on language development and literary skills through crafts, songs, and reading activities. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

College Prep for 10th Graders FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 13, 7pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Topics to be covered include financial aid, essay writing, and more. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Oh Shift!- Teen Workshop FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 14: Wednesdays, 7pm WHERE: Mid Island Y JCC, 45 Manetto Hill Road, Plainview AGES: 13-17 WHAT: This workshop helps teens become more confident, build self-awareness, and learn how to take control of their actions/reactions. WANT TO GO? 866-599-8783. tsvf.org.

Children’s Readers Theater FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 15, 4:15pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Kids will read and practice in the downstairs meeting room, then the audience will be invited in to see the finished production. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Italian Classes for Children

WHEN: Nov. 10-17, 10-11am: see website for exact days WHERE: Camp Italia, 223 Stewart Ave., Garden City AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Enjoy Italian classes for kids! WANT TO GO? $27.50. 855-226-7481. campitaliausa.org.

Nanny Rose School of Etiquette for Children

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 12pm WHERE: Rock Hall Museum, 199 Broadway, Lawrence AGES: 5-12 WHAT: This is a special way to teach youngsters proper table manners. WANT TO GO? $40. 516-239-1157. friendsofrockhall.org.

Falaise Mansion Tour

WHEN: Through Nov. 18: Thursday-Sunday, 12-3pm WHERE: Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road, Sands Point AGES: 13 and older WHAT: This mansion was the residence of Captain Harry F. Guggenheim and Alicia Patterson. WANT TO GO? $10. 516-571-7901. sandspointpreserve.org.

Introduction to Genealogy Online FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 29, 6:45pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Sharper Training helps navigate through Ancestry.com and 23andme.com in this lecture. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Mommy & Me Tot Shabbat

WHEN: Through Dec. 7: Saturdays, 11:15am-12pm WHERE: Chabad of Port Washington, 80 Shore Road, Port Washington AGES: 3-5 WHAT: There’ll be music, movement, and Challah braiding, and moms will have the opportunity to socialize with other local moms. WANT TO GO? $20. 516-767-8672. chabadpw.org/mommyandme.

Parent/Child Workshop FREE

WHEN: Nov. 16-Dec. 14, Fridays, 1:30pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Parents/caregivers and children play, relax, socialize, and develop new skills. WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Speech Services for Toddlers

WHEN: Through Dec. 14: Mondays, 2-3pm; Tuesdays, 9:30-10:30am; Fridays, 9:30-10:30am WHERE: Hofstra University, Joan and Arnold Saltzman Community Services Center, 1000 Fulton Ave., Hempstead AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Through developmentally appropriate play, sensory-based activities, snack, and craft, children develop vocabulary and social skills. WANT TO GO? Call for more appointment and information. 516-463-7042. hofstra.edu/saltzmancenter.

Seashell...Nature’s Inspired Design Exhibition

WHEN: Through Dec. 28: See website for exact dates and times. WHERE: Garvies Point Museum, 50 Barry Drive, Glen Cove AGES: All WHAT: In celebration of the museum’s 50th anniversary, join for a exhibit of exquisite seashells from around the world. WANT TO GO? $4; $2 children 5-12. 516-571-8010. garviespointmuseum.com.

True Colors- Exhibition

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: 10am-4:45pm: See website for exact dates. WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: The full range of color’s magic is on display in this exuberant show of more than 100 works from the nineteenth-century to today. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors/student; $4 children. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

HOLIDAY FUN Blood Manor- Crypts of the Coliseum

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: check website for exact dates and times. WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Blood Manor is a haunted house comprised of approximately 5,000-square-feet of themed rooms, corridors, and passageways. WANT TO GO? Check website. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

Veteran’s Day Commemoration

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 12, 10:30am-2pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Join us for a day of remembrance and historical appreciation as we travel back in time to the years of the First World War. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free children younger than 7. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Thanksgiving Drop-In Craft for Kids FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 14, 10am-5pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Make a cute Thanksgiving craft at the library. WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Thanksgiving Centerpiece

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 17, 10:30am WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Participants will create a centerpiece through the use of a variety of textures and colors. WANT TO GO? $50. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Thanksgiving Basket

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 20, 7pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Weave a basket to put on your table. WANT TO GO? $2. 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Christmas at Westbury House

WHEN: Friday-Sunday, Nov. 23-25, 10am-5pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: With decorated period rooms, Santa, cookies, and cider, our holiday celebration is a must for the entire family. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free children 6 and younger. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Children’s Holiday Crafts: Craft A Card

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 25, 10am-1pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Create a holiday-themed, take-home card to deck your halls. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free children 6 and younger. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org. ›› LongIslandParent 25

Messy Afternoons

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 25, 3:30pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Oobleck, clean mud, and slime … join for artistic activities. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

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‘Five Nights at Freddy’s’ Paint Event! Paint Bonnie

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 2, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art East Rockaway, 131 Main St., East Rockaway AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Paint Bonnie from Five Nights at Freddy’s! WANT TO GO? $20. 516-218-2920. keytomyart.com.

Mommy & Me Fall Split Canvas

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 4, 10am-12pm WHERE: As You Wish Parties, 418A Bedford Ave., Bellmore AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Paint a canvas that connects together to make one larger picture WANT TO GO? $39 per couple. 516-590-7878. asyouwishparties.org.

Thank a Veteran Craft FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 5, 4pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Make a “thank you” craft to be donated to a Veteran WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

stART (Story + Art)

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 6, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Read classics and new favorites and craft WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Election Day Paint Event! Paint Blue Dog!

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 6, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art East Rockaway, 131 Main St., East Rockaway AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Price includes all supplies, canvas, paint, and step-by-step instruction! WANT TO GO? $20. 516-218-2920. keytomyart.com.

Colorful Autumn Tree Canvas FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 14, 4:30pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Paint and decorate a large canvas with your own tree designs. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org. 26

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WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 27, 6:45pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: Adult WHAT: Join this just-in-time-for-the-holidays ceramics session. WANT TO GO? $15. 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

First Tuesdays FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 4: Tuesdays, 6pm WHERE: IKEA Long Island, 1100 Broadway Mall, Hicksville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Whether arts and crafts or tasty treat decorating, you can be sure these kids activities are fun for all ages! WANT TO GO? 888-888-4532. ikea.com.

Family Sundays

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Sundays, 1pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Reconnect while talking about and making art together WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors and students; $4 children. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

Traveling Exhibit -TINKERTOY: Build Your Imagination?

WHEN: Through Jan. 6, 2019: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Visitors can explore a walk-in size replica of the canister, create their own designs, experiment with renewable energy and water filtration, and take part in a scavenger hunt. WANT TO GO? $13; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Old Time Base Ball

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: Saturdays, 11am WHERE: Old Bethpage Restoration Village, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Watch as teams from the 1864 league play base ball (as it was spelled then) following the rules and customs of the time. WANT TO GO? See website for cost. 631-930-9054. obvrnassau.com.

Long Island Nets vs. Capital City Go-Go

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 8, 7pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: Long Island Nets take on the Capital City Go-Go. WANT TO GO? $20 and up; $5 parking. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

Baby & Me

WHERE: Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road, Sands Point AGES: All WHAT: The walks explore different aspects of the preserve’s environment, encompassing its unique physical features and wildlife. WANT TO GO? $20 per car. 516-571-7901. sandspointpreserve.org.

PlayHooray Kids FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 17, 10:30am WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Join a guided garden walk to unearth your inner artist! WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free children younger than 7. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org. ››

WHEN: Through Nov. 15: Thursdays, 1:15pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: Newborn to 2, Adult WHAT: Play and sing together with Molly Mouse. WANT TO GO? $10. 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org. WHEN: Friday, Nov. 16, 12:30pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy movement, music, and smiles with Molly Mouse! WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Tai Chi

WHEN: Through Dec. 3: Mondays, 5:30pm WHERE: Hicksville Public Library, 169 Jerusalem Ave., Hicksville AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Join this class to experience peace of mind and body. WANT TO GO? $35. 516-931-1417. hicksvillelibrary.org.

Yoga

WHEN: Through Dec. 4: Tuesdays, 5:30pm, except Nov. 6 and 20 WHERE: Hicksville Public Library, 169 Jerusalem Ave., Hicksville AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Experience the benefits of yoga in this instructor-led class. WANT TO GO? $30. 516-931-1417. hicksvillelibrary.org.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Early Bird Walk

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 9am WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: A wildlife expert leads the outdoor tour and shares expertise on local species. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children younger than 7. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Eat Up! What’s cooking in the Gardens? Pumpkins

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 10, 10:30am WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Dlassic and modern tales as we stroll the gardens and craft. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children younger than 7. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Wildlife Weekends

WHEN: Nov. 3 -11, Saturdays-Sundays, 11am-4pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Have fun learning about interesting critters and enjoy hayrides, animal feeding, and pony rides. WANT TO GO? $9. 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

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WHEN: Through Nov. 11: Sundays, 3-4pm

Make Up! Maker Project Leaf Monoprints and Collage

DANCE PARTY Dorrance Dance

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 9, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts at LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: The company aims to honor tap dance’s uniquely beautiful history in a new and dynamically compelling context. WANT TO GO? $44 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

Music and Movement

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 21, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy creative movement exercises and an interactive sing along that get little bodies moving to the rhythm. WANT TO GO? $18; $17 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

John Mueller’s ‘Winter Dance Party’

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 25, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: John Mueller’s “Winter Dance Party”® is the official live and authentic re-creation of Buddy Holly, Ritchie Valens, and the Big Bopper’s final tour. WANT TO GO? $45 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Tchaikovsky’s Nutcracker

WHEN: Nov. 30-Dec. 2, Friday, 7:30pm; Saturday, 5pm; Sunday, 4pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: With a full score, this magical extravaganza features guest ballet stars of international prestige and talented young dancers from the metropolitan area. WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Zumba with Desiree

WHEN: Through Jan. 10, 2019: Thursdays, 5:30-6:30pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Zumba combines Latin and international music with exercise to burn calories, tone muscle, and improve the cardiovascular system. WANT TO GO? $44. 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org. LongIslandParent 27

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MUSICIANS Unbegun, Beginning & Unfinished: North Shore Symphony Orchestra

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 2, 8pm WHERE: Adelphi University Performing Arts Center, 1 South Ave., Garden City AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The 75-member North Shore Symphony Orchestra WANT TO GO? $15; $12 seniors and students; free for children 12 and younger. 631-827-5401. northshoresymphonyorch.org.

Poetica Musica: Carnival of the Animals

SHOW TIME! Molloy College 2018 Gala: An Evening of Entertainment

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 2, 9pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 13 and older WHAT: A one-of-a-kind concert celebrating the music that defined the ’60s. WANT TO GO? see website. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

‘Pinocchio’

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 11, 3pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 3-12 WHAT: We’ll join Pinocchio on an adventure full of magic and wonder. WANT TO GO? $25; $20 children. 516-767-1384. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

Peace Starts With Me- Healing America

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 12, 3pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: Musical performances by Hezekiah Walker, Yolanda Adams, and a choir. WANT TO GO? $33 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

‘Petra and the Wolf’

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Captivating large-scale puppetry and a new instrumental score. WANT TO GO? $18. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

‘Pinkalicious!’

WHEN: Nov. 3 -18, Saturdays, 11am; Sundays, 12pm WHERE: Showplace at the Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore AGES: 3-8 WHAT: A musical tale of a young girl with an appetite for pink cupcakes! WANT TO GO? $12. 516-783-7200. bellmoremovie.com.

‘Who Took Tom Turkey?’

WHEN: Nov. 4 -25: see website for exact dates and times WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre at Elmont, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: All WHAT: Tom the Turkey is missing and everyone is a suspect. WANT TO GO? $13; $11 in advance. 516-775-4420. broadhollow.org. 28

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WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 6:45pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Enjoy a guided tour of Westbury House, pre-concert talk, and concert. WANT TO GO? $30. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Special Needs/Autism Friendly Music Workshop FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 10, 10am WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Different stations will encourage students to experience the fun of making music, singing along, or just enjoying sounds! WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

The Metropolitan Youth Orchestra of New York: Suffolk Orchestras

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 11, 12pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts at LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: The Metropolitan Youth Orchestra of New York is committed to fostering a community of talented young musicians from Long Island. WANT TO GO? $25; $10 students and seniors. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

The Metropolitan Youth Orchestra of New York: Suffolk Choirs

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 11, 5pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts at LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: Hear this group of gifted young singers from Long Island. WANT TO GO? $25, $10 students and seniors. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

TOTO- 40 Trips Around the Sun

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 16, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts at LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 13 and older WHAT: See the rock band tour in support of its 40th Anniversary. WANT TO GO? $39 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

Video Games Live?

WHEN: Nov. 17-18, Saturday, 8pm; Sunday, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Video Games Live™ exposes new generations of music lovers and fans to the orchestral experience while also providing a completely new experience for families and non-gamers. WANT TO GO? check website. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

LITTLE FOODIES Apple Dumplings & Caramel Sauce FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 17, 2pm WHERE: Island Trees Public Library, 38 Farmedge Road, Island Trees AGES: Adult WHAT: The Baking Coach is here to show you how to make apple dumplings with caramel sauce- a perfect Thanksgiving dessert. WANT TO GO? 516-731-2211. islandtreespubliclibrary.org.

In the Kitchen with the Roosevelts FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 10:30am WHERE: Sagamore Hill National Historic Site, 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join us for a behind-the-scenes program in the Theodore Roosevelt Home to learn how the family used their farm and kitchen during WWI. WANT TO GO? 516-922-4788. nps.gov/sahi.

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Thanksgiving Cupcake

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 19, 4pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Decorate a foam cupcake for Thanksgiving. WANT TO GO? $1. 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Cream Tea and Tour

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 28, 11am WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Enjoy Scones, clotted cream, and jam, then take a tour. WANT TO GO? $32; $30 seniors; $27 children ages 7-17; $20 children 6 and younger. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Kids in the Kitchen

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 30, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Little chefs use real cooking tools (with some help from adults) to make yummy, kid-friendly snacks. WANT TO GO? $19; $18 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516224-5800. licm.org.

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While you’re celebrating Thanksgiving, be someone else’s reason to give thanks by volunteering with the kids. And with the leaves finally changing, now is a perfect time to venture into the great outdoors and go leaf peeping with your family. On days when it’s a bit too chilly to hit the trails, round up the kids for an exciting evening of laser tag, an indoor activity that’s sure to beat any cabin fever boredom. However, if you’re on a budget, fear not! Check out our complete guide to finding when to visit a museum for free admission!

LEAF PEEPING Montauk Point Lighthouse Museum

2000 Montauk Highway, Montauk 631-668-2544; montauklighthouse.com Hours: Nov. 3-25, Saturday-Sunday, 10:30am-4pm Admission: $11; $8 seniors; $5 children; $8 parking fee from 8am-4pm. Located on the eastern-most point of Long Island—it’s worth the drive out there, we promise!—the oldest lighthouse in the state offers stunning views of fall foliage from above. Explore the museum, which features an assortment of historical documents (including ones signed by Thomas Jefferson and George Washington), photographs, drawings, and the lighthouse’s old lens, which was removed when the lighthouse was automated in 1987. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/leaf-peeping

LASER TAG Q-Zar

151 Voice Road, Carle Place 516-877-7200; qzarny.com Head over to Q-Zar for special laser tag mines in a game of Battlefield. Your kids can play on teams or try out the arena alone in a one-person game. This place is great for all ages and makes for an exciting indoor weekend activity. Check out the arcade games too if the kids ever get enough of laser for the day. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/laser-tag

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Island Harvest

47-01 111th St., Corona 718-699-0005; nysci.org Hours: Monday- Friday, 9:30am-5pm; Saturday and Sunday, 10am-6pm. Free admission on Fridays, 2-5pm and Sundays, 10-11am. Enjoy special events, the 3D Theater, and interactive, educational exhibits. Exhibits include The Hidden Mathematics, Winged Jewels of the Forest, and Animation Academy: From Pencils to Pixels.

613-873-4775 x228; islandharvest.org Island Harvest works to end hunger and reduce food waste on Long Island. The organization offers opportunities for all ages to make a difference, including children involved in a school club, scout troop, or youth group. Kids and adults alike can help out at community fairs, food drives, and other special events. Groups can also organize their own “food raisers” or fundraisers with help from Island Harvest. One idea is to run a themed food drive through your group or in your neighborhood, with themes like “sandwich fixings,” or “holiday trimmings.”

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Five ways to encourage tweens and teens to get involved in democracy

hen I was in sixth grade, my middle school held a mock election during the George W. Bush vs. Al Gore election in 2000. Leading up to mock Election Day, social studies teachers taught the student body about the democratic process and educated us on the candidates’ political stances, so we could make well-informed decisions. While I don’t remember which candidate I voted for or who won the mock election, I do remember the anticipation my class buzzed with as we waited for the principal to announce the winner. That was my first experience with politics. And while participating in my school’s mock election didn’t inspire me to pursue a career in politics, it, and the actual election’s hotly contested outcome (ultimately decided by the Supreme Court of the United States), cemented the importance of doing my civic duty. I knew that once I turned 18, I needed to register and vote in elections to make my voice heard. I have since voted in three Presidential elections. The 2016 election cycle was the most contentious (but you don’t need me to tell you that) because how we consumed and shared information had evolved. With the breakneck pace at which media is being shared and the tumultuous political landscape of today, how can we ensure our children will be well-informed, active participants in democracy?

Encourage an Informed Interest

Regardless of where you live, how much money you make, or what your career is, politics impact your day-to-day life whether you know it or not, says Anil R. Beephan, Jr., a town councilman at-large in East Fishkill in Dutchess County; he is a representative for a New York state senator for Dutchess and Putnam counties, and an active county committee member. He knows first-hand how politics and government can affect lives. As a first-generation American, Beephan watched his parents, who are from Trinidad and Tobago, go through a difficult immigration process. “I always thought that one day I’d like to get involved in government and see what it’s like to maybe 32

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help fix that process,” he says. Participating in government club in high school and the 2012 election solidified his interest in politics. James Kuntz, a junior at the Dalton School in Manhattan, credits the 2016 election for his interest in politics. “There was something about the election cycle that really drew me to it, and I think it was also my age,” he says. “I was 13, 14 years old leading up to the election, so I was beginning to find my own interests and politics happened to be one.” That interest led him to found Teens in Politics, an organization to help teens find political internships in the NYC area. Another reason Kuntz says he founded Teens in Politics? He says he’s noticing a lot of political apathy in his generation, and “it’s a real problem for democracy.” So how can you prevent that political indifference in your tweens and teens? Read with your kids. From an early age you can encourage an interest in civics by reading political- and activism-related books to your children. Try reading Voting with a Porpoise, written by Rock the Vote board member Russell Glass and children’s book author Sean Callahan, which brings the election process to life under the sea. If You’re Going to a March, by Martha Freeman, illustrates what kids can expect if they’re attending a march with their parents. For the elementary school set, Eleanor Roosevelt’s When You Grow Up to Vote explains how the government works for the people—from the police officers in your town all the way through the role of the SCOTUS—and instills the importance of voting in kids. Originally published in 1932, after Franklin D. Roosevelt was first elected as President, this book was updated and re-released in September. Tweens and teens can read denser books, such as biographies about presidents, nonfiction works about history, or any of the number of recently released books about the current political environment. Take them with you, Beephan suggests. If your kids are 18, carpool to the polls on Election Day, and if they’re not yet old enough to vote,

they can still see democracy in action. Considering attending a march or rally for an issue you feel passionately about? Bring your kids along (even if they’re young) and explain what you’re marching for, why you’re marching, and how it makes you feel to participate. After all, modeling a behavior for your children is the best way to instill it. Watch the news together and talk about it. Kuntz and Beephan both suggest you start doing this when your kids are in elementary school. You should “really explain to them why [following current events] is important, what’s going on, and try to inform them at a very early age about the real facts behind each story and what’s going on in the media and government itself,” Beephan advises. You can do the same with newspapers or credible online news sites. After all, encouraging an interest in following the news and current events fosters a curious intellectual mindset in children, Kuntz adds. And if listening is more your family’s style, there are a host of political and current event podcasts available. Encourage your teen to pursue an internship. “If you’re in high school, you’re at an age where you can take internships at the state senate, state assembly, or congressional offices, or even help out at the local town level,” Beephan says. Kuntz, who is a member of his district’s congressional youth cabinet, aims to make finding an internship in politics easy for teens: “I’m very interested in politics myself, and when I was looking for opportunities to get involved in politics—volunteer opportunities and internships specifically—I didn’t find any place where the information was centralized,” he says. “The only way that somebody my age would be able to find those opportunities would be to look at individual members of the city council or state assembly or state senate.” “You can also get involved with the political party when you’re in high school, more so you could even actively participate in campaigns,” Beephan adds. If your teen knows which party she identifies with, encourage her to research internship opportunities with the New York Democratic or Republican national committees. Volunteer for a campaign together. If you’re introducing your younger children to politics or you and your teen agree on a party or candidate, find opportunities to put your boots to the ground. Canvas neighborhoods and knock on doors to talk to other voters or sign up for a shift to make calls for a candidate. In fact, Beephan says high school students have become more and more involved in campaigns. “It actually makes a difference because, when you’re at the door, people notice when a kid takes an interest in an issue, and it kind of makes them think twice. They question: aren’t you a little too young to be at the door?” he says. “But when a kid actually justifies why they’re there, why they’re doing what they’re doing, it kind of reinvigorates the person to pay more attention to what’s going on. I think kids sometimes underestimate the impact they have in the political realm, even if they can’t vote.”

Toe the Line

When encouraging an interest in politics, remember to let your teens form their own opinions. “I think it’s vital for the parent to not force their opinions on their kids,” Beephan says. “Trust that your kids are able to make a conscious decision on which side of the aisle they’d like to sit on certain issues.” Urge your teens to read opposing views of the same issue so they can figure out their own opinions. And if your teen aligns with a different political party than you? “I think it’s actually a good thing because being in an environment where your views are being questioned strengthens your own opinions and forces you to reconsider things with a more critical lens,” Kuntz says—a perfect opportunity to bolster your teen before he heads out into the world on his own.

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f you’re hesitant to go on outings now that you’re a new parent, we’re here to tell you that getting out and about with your baby is not only good for your wee one, but it’s especially good for you too. Being in the fresh air, surrounded by sights, sounds, and energy will work wonders to help you adjust to new-parent life. We asked the experts—all New York-area parents—to weigh in and everyone agreed: To have the best exploration experience you need to be ready for every scenario. Whether they shared their favorite products or just a little bit of advice that worked for them, these parents are enthusiastic about the benefits of exploring, baby in tow. Read on for their tried-and-true tips.

Take a Fun Walk Outside

With the weather changing and cool mornings on the horizon, you want to dress your baby in clothing that’s versatile and adapts to a chilly morning followed by bright midday sun, says Allison Chiaramonte, a real estate agent at Warburg Realty and mom of two kids. “When I’m out and about with my kids I usually have a long list of errands,” she says. “This means we are constantly in and out of houses, offices, and stores. When it’s cold outside this can cause problems, but I have found the best thing ever for my son—a cute winter jacket with a hood. Easy on and off with the hood means I don’t have to keep track of where he left his hat, which he rips off as soon as we get inside. Also the jacket distracts from the fact I sometimes take him out in PJs when we are having one of those mornings!” For Anna Zak, mom of a 5-month-old son, a fully packed bag 34

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of ‘what-if’ supplies makes a day outside a win-win. “I always pack a big park blanket folded tightly and placed at the base of my stroller—we opted for the Bugaboo Bee5 because it’s lightweight for the city,” she says. “I make sure to pack my Munchkin Arm & Hammer diaper disposal bags because as long as I have them I have somewhere to put a dirty diaper.”

Ride the Subway—and Bus

Public transportation is not only a quicker way to get from place to place, it offers its own share of amusement for kids of all ages. But being prepared for the journey is ultra-important. Loving the ride is half the fun, says Heath Fradkoff, a Brooklyn dad whose 2-year-old son, Hugh, adores public transportation. “Hugh has a little wooden MTA bus and subway car. When he plays with them he shouts, ‘Please exit through the rear door’ and ‘Stand clear of the closing doors, please,’ respectively,” he says. As for gear, Fradkoff is a fan of his trusty Maclaren Triumph umbrella stroller. “It’s good on stairs, and it folds up easily so we can quickly get it out of the way of other passengers,” he says. For walks around town, Fradkoff has another fave method of toting Hugh. “During the spring and fall weather I love taking Hugh around in an Osprey backpack,” he says. “This keeps my hands free to walk the dog or run errands and Hugh likes the higher vantage point.” Marisa Pincas, who lives on the Upper East Side with her 2-yearold son, is also a big fan of taking public transportation for jaunts. “My husband and I travel all over the city with our son,” she says.

The key to a smooth trip: a lightweight, easily foldable stroller. “New York City buses require you to fold up a stroller and, while I find most New Yorkers will help you carry a stroller up and down the stairs, it can be a real challenge if it’s just you and your child!” Pincas says. All the more reason she suggests mapping out your route first. “This way you can make sure you know how you will exit—escalator, stairs, or elevator. I also suggest making sure that the elevators are working before heading out, especially if you have an infant or a larger stroller that you can’t easily fold or carry,” Pincas says. (This information can be found at web.mta.info/mta/eles.html). Also, Pincas suggests parents always leave themselves extra time when traveling on the subway. “This way you can account for navigating the corridors in search of those elevators,” she explains. “I’ve forgotten to do this in the past and have missed my train out of Penn!” In the end, the best tip might just be this: Be sure to take along plenty of hand sanitizer and baby wipes. “Pediatricians advise parents to avoid public transportation until your baby is at least two months,” Zak says. “After the two-month mark, we were happy to take the subway. We just made sure to cover our son’s hands with sanitizer.”

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Every parent we spoke to agreed: You’re better off going to dinner early-bird style, say, before 6pm or whenever the dinner rush commences. In addition, distraction is key when taking baby to breakfast, lunch, or dinner at your favorite restaurant. This becomes more and more important the older your little one gets. “Always come prepared with toys or coloring books to keep them occupied,” Pincas says. “When you are waiting for a meal to arrive, having something for my son to focus on has saved me and my fellow patrons from witnessing a meltdown.” Another way to plan ahead: Make sure the restaurant is actually baby- and/or child-friendly. “For example, some bars don’t let babies in past a certain hour or at all,” Zak says. “As a young mom I often take my son with us when we meet up with family or friends for a drink. We’ve taken him to plenty of bars/rooftops during the day and have had no problem doing so. Recently, however, when some family was in town we attempted to walk into a bar that had a strict ‘no baby’ policy. While at first we were offended on behalf of our baby, after reconsidering it we realized that after a certain hour this is as much for his safety as it is for the convenience of the patrons.” No matter the restaurant you plan to dine in, bringing snacks will save the day, Chiaramonte adds. “It may seem counterintuitive to bring food to a restaurant, but this ensures there are no hunger-induced tantrums while waiting for your food!” And believe it or not, it’s never a bad idea to opt for outdoor seating and have an escape route should the meal go south, Zak adds. “Look for tables that are spacious and have easy access to head out the door in case your baby gets cranky,” she says. “Also, at any point, be okay with the fact that you may have to abandon your plans and get your food to go.” No matter what, you’ll have gotten a bit of fresh air—and had an adventure you can laugh about. Lambeth Hochwald covers trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

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hen I was in high school, one of my friends bought a prom dress online. She had never heard of the company before, but the dress was hundreds of dollars cheaper than retail value, and the photo in the advertisements looked beautiful. She took her parents’ debit card and bought the discount “designer” gown without telling anyone. When it finally arrived in the mail weeks later in a package from China, she was overjoyed. But once she put on the dress, her excitement quickly turned to disappointment: The fabric was cheap and poorly cut, and the dress fit her like a trash bag despite the precise measurements she had sent the company. The “Swarovski” crystals were nothing more than cheap, poorly adhered rhinestones. My friend had been the victim of an online shopping scam, and her parents had to pay the price. Unfortunately, this isn’t an isolated incident. With Cyber Monday (the Monday after Black Friday, which falls on Nov. 26 this year) becoming one of the biggest days for online shopping, it’s important to know how to recognize Internet shopping scams and phishing, or the act of stealing private information through viruses or malicious computer codes. What may seem like the perfect gift for a great price could very easily be a sneaky way to rob you. And the methods of fooling people are getting more and more creative. So how can you avoid these schemes and keep your family safe? Here are a few things to look for when shopping online to help you recognize shady sites and keep your information private. 36

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Be Leery of Links

“You should never, ever trust a link in an email,” says Eric Cole, Ph.D., a consultant, author, and former CIA employee with more than 30 years of experience in cyber security. “[People] get an email from a store that says, ‘Hey, we have a seventy-percent-off sale, but it’s only good for the next two hours. Click on the link below to take advantage of it.’ And they’re so excited about the sale they never look at the link very closely.” If you do get an unfamiliar email, “click on the name in the ‘sent from’ box to view the actual email address,” suggests Justin Lavelle, chief communications officer of BeenVerified, an online background check platform. “If you don’t recognize the sender, your best bet is to not open the email, period, and never click on a link, attachment, or file within.” And, as obvious as it sounds, “if it seems to good to be true, it is,” says Alex Krush, a development operations engineer at Royal Bank of Canada. Finding $100 discounts or deals that are significantly below market value is a huge red flag, as are those 2-hour sales. These incredible deals are a means of luring in customers to a shady site. “More than not, an item that has an incredibly low price tag or out-of-the-world features is probably part of a scam,” says Alayna Pehrson, manager of identity theft content for BestCompany.com, a consumer-review data company. You might think you’re saving money, but the potential savings are never worth the risk.

Learn to Spot Suspicious Sites

Of course, this is the season when some legitimate retailers do offer sweet deals. How do you know if the offer (and seller) you’re looking at is on the level? There are a few other factors to be wary of when visiting a potentially sketchy site. “If you think the website lacks some design skills, has a disorganized layout, and/or has several grammar and language mistakes, then you should probably not purchase anything from it,” Pehrson says. It’s important to keep in mind that retailers will care about their aesthetic, but a scam site likely won’t. Dr. Cole advises you to “make sure you’re using an up-to-date browser that’s verifying the digital certificate of the site.” Most modern browsers will let you know if something is secure. On Chrome, there will be a green lock next to the URL; that’s an indicator that your information going in a secure manner, and it’s verifying and validating the digital certificate of that site to give a higher level of trust, Dr. Cole says. In other browsers the lock may be yellow or appear as a key. If your Internet browser doesn’t have an icon to indicate security, “Look for ‘https’ in the website address,” says Jacob Lunduski, a financial industry analyst for Credit Card Insider, a site that helps people find the right credit card for their finances. “This means the website is ‘secure’ and provides credibility when purchasing an item.”

Think Twice About Third-Party Sellers

What if you’re shopping from a big company like Amazon? Even though the distributor is trusted, some of the retailers that operate on the site might not always be legitimate. For Amazon purchases, look out for third-party sales that are neither sold nor fulfilled by Amazon. “When you click on an item it will tell you whether you’re buying it directly from Amazon or if it’s going through a third party,” Dr. Cole says. “Anytime you’re buying things from a third-party, your credit card is now being charged and sent to that third-party, and if they’re not legitimate…they could easily be able to steal your information.” If you’re determined to purchase something from a third-party vendor, there are a few things you can do to minimize your risk. “Always read descriptions and reviews when possible,” Krush says. Predominantly bad reviews are a sign that something is fishy. And good reviews can be faked, so Will Geddes, author of Parent Alert, recommends you be wary of “a small number of short, generic, and positive reviews all posted within a short period of time and from the same country.” Also try to check how long the retailer has been a vendor on Amazon. “If they’ve been a retailer for Amazon for five years, that’s probably an indicator that they’re somewhat legit,” Dr. Cole says.

Be Careful with Your Credit

Even if you take all possible precautions, fraud and identity theft are still possibilities. The reason for this is simple: Every day, hackers are getting better and better at what they do. “The number one thing families can do is to utilize a separate credit card just for online purchases that has a small balance,” Dr. Cole advises. “If fraudulent activity occurs or if it gets stolen, now all you have to do is get a new card and you don’t have to worry about if you’re using that card for bills.” There are other good reasons to use a credit card for your online shopping. “With credit cards, the liability is with the credit card provider. With debit cards, the liability is with you,” Dr. Cole says. Additionally, it’s important to note that “credit cards offer many purchase and fraud protections where you’ll have time to report and manage the fraud before your bill is due,” Lunduski says. “With a debit card, fraudulent purchases leave your account immediately, causing you to have to work with your bank to get your money back.” When it comes to safety features, you should always “go to your credit card’s website or call them, [and] turn [these features] on,” says Dr. Cole, who personally receives text messages every time his card is used. If somehow your credit card is compromised, he recommends that you activate this feature, so you can stay informed at all times.

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clean house. If you’re a parent, that concept is probably nothing more than a dream, right up there with kids who love veggies. Even if you were a neat freak before you had a family, chances are these days you struggle to stay ahead of dirty laundry, strewn-about shoes, and that somehow-always-sticky refrigerator door handle. You’ve probably made peace with a certain level of chaos (mostly because you have no choice). But how about when guests are coming over? Before you hit the panic button—or bolt the door—read on. We asked two cleaning authorities to explain how you can get your house company-ready in a rush.

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Conceal the clutter. Your first step is to put away all the jumbled-up stuff in any rooms your company might glimpse. “Hide the shoes, hide the coats, and take out any boxes from deliveries,” says Ann Harasim, owner of Ann’s Cleaning Service in New York City. In the kitchen, clear the countertops. Everything will instantly look better. Concentrate on areas where guests will go. “If you’re in a jam and you need to do things quickly, you need to prioritize the most important spaces,” says Jennifer Gregory, marketing director of Molly Maid, a cleaning service with branches throughout the New York metropolitan area. Usually, after your initial de-cluttering, that means attacking the foyer, living room, kitchen, and bathrooms.

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ally good job of removing the dust from intricate carvings,” Gregory says. (She advises against furniture polish: “It tends to grab dirt faster and make it stick to the furniture,” she explains.) Address areas above your eye level. “People tend to look around at where their height is [as they clean]. They forget to look up,” Gregory warns. Using a high duster, skim the place where the walls meet the ceiling, making sure to dust ceiling fans and light fixtures. Fold and fluff. “If you have any blankets in the living room, make sure they’re folded,” Harasim says. Fluff up non-woolen throw pillows and smaller throw rugs by placing them in the dryer with a clean tennis ball and drying them on low for 5-10 minutes, Gregory recommends. Shine up mirrors, windows, and glass-framed photos and paintings. Give them a quick once-over with a slightly damp microfiber cloth, Gregory says, or use a microfiber cloth and Molly Maid’s DIY cleaner: 1 gallon of water, ½ cup white vinegar, ½ cup rubbing alcohol, and about 2 squirts of Dawn dish detergent. For photos that aren’t covered in glass, dust them with an unused large paintbrush. Dust the mantle. Use a microfiber cloth to dust the fireplace mantle (if you have one) and any knick-knacks that you keep on it. Clear away any wood debris in front of the fireplace, and if there’s tile in front of the hearth, make sure it’s dusted, mopped, and dried. If you have a gas fireplace, use your microfiber cloth to clean the outside. Don’t forget the floors. Vacuum or sweep them, then mop them with a microfiber mop. “We use a little bit of degreaser—about a

quarter-cup of all-purpose cleaner in a gallon of water—as long as the floors are sealed. If not, use plain water,” Gregory says.

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Remove the trash. Put out the garbage and recycling, Harasim says. After that, “remove your stovetop burners, fill your sink with hot water and dish soap, and put your stove burners in that water and let them soak while you start moving around,” Gregory advises.

Work your way around the room. Clean the stovetop with a microfiber cloth and a degreaser, Gregory says. Then wipe down the countertops with a microfiber cloth and a solution of half white vinegar and half water, working your way around the room. (If your countertop is granite, simply use water or a cleaner specially formulated for this use.) As you go, put away and straighten up any utensils and cookbooks. Fix up the fridge front. Move any magnets and other things on your refrigerator’s door or sides and then wipe down the front with your microfiber cloth and the vinegar-water mixture. Make sure you also wipe down any ledges formed by the doors and handles, Gregory adds. Scrub the stovetop burners. Dry and replace them on the stove. At that point the refrigerator will have dried, so you can (neatly) replace anything usually kept on the door or sides, Gregory says. Mop the floor using a microfiber mop and a ¼ cup of degreaser mixed with a gallon of water, or just water for unsealed floors, Gregory says.

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Hide cleaners, Harasim stresses, “especially if you know someone’s coming with their kids,” as they may pose a safety hazard. Tackle the toilet. Spray the lid, seat, rim, and base with the vinegar-water mixture, Gregory says. Add two to three tablespoons of baking soda inside the toilet and swish it around. Let everything sit for a few minutes as you tackle other areas. Replace the toilet paper and tissues if you’re running low, Harasim says. Set out fresh towels too, she adds. Take out any trash and replace the trash bag. Shine the mirrors and faucets with Molly Maid’s homemade glass cleaner (see Foyer and Living Room) and use a microfiber cloth and water on the countertops. Once you’re done, wipe down the exterior of the toilet with a microfiber cloth, starting with the lid and working your way down to the base. Scrub the interior with a toilet brush and flush everything away. Focus on the floor. Remove all items from the floor, and shake any throw rugs in the hallway, just hard enough to remove dust and debris, Gregory says. Vacuum or sweep the floor quickly. Next, use a dampened microfiber mop on the floor. After the floor has dried a bit, replace the trashcan and rugs and vacuum the hallway.

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Got a little time left over? If you live in a house, go outside and “walk up [to your home] the way your guests would walk, and remove anything your guests would find,” Gregory suggests. Make sure your pathways are cleared (and salted, if it’s snowy or icy out). Use an outdoor broom to sweep the walkway and clear away any cobwebs. Clean the storm door and sidelight windows with glass cleaner and a microfiber cloth. “If you have time, you’ll want to clean the bedroom along with the rest of the house,” Gregory says. “Worst case, shut the door, but absolutely make the bed.” That way, if anyone stumbles in, they’ll get an overall impression that—kids and all—you keep a tidy home.

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Your local guide to tutors, teachers, lawyers, financial planners, and other professionals. DENTISTS & DENTAL PROVIDERS CUMMINGS FAMILY DENTAL 42 High St., Huntington 631-425-1650 cummingsfamilydentistry.com cummingsfamilydentistry@aol.com At Cummings Family Dentistry, we believe that a dentist and patient become a team. We spend time listening to understand your concerns and respond with the best treatment options for you. EHRENMAN & KHAN PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY 959 Brush Hollow Road, Suite #101, Westbury 516-333-3033 pediatricdentistlongislandny.com kidsteethli@gmail.com Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry cares for all of your child’s oral health needs in a fun, kid-friendly environment that includes iPads and chairside TV monitors. MERRICK PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY 1756A Merrick Ave., Merrick 516-547-1997 merrickpediatricdentistry.com Dr. Rania Elbaz is a board-certified pediatric dentist who loves working with children and strives to create a warm and fun environment that children look forward to visiting. PDM FAMILY DENTAL 295 N. Broadway, Jericho 516-388-5002 pdmfamilydental.com info@pdmfamilydental.com PDM Family Dental is a new dental office at the Hicksville Jericho border. We are here to provide comprehensive care for your entire family’s dental needs. We are open evenings.

DOCTORS & MEDICAL PROVIDERS ADVANTAGE CARE HEALTH CENTER 189 Wheatley Road, Brookville 230 Hanse Ave., Freeport 516-686-4400 advantagecaredtc.org Advantage Care Health Centers and The Fay J. Lindner Center are Long Island’s premier Federally Qualified Health Care Centers (FQHC). We provide comprehensive medical, dental, and mental and behavioral health services to children and adults. LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her

group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

FOSTER CARE & ADOPTION BERKSHIRE FARM CENTER AND SERVICES FOR YOUTH

535 Broad Hollow Road, Suite B30, Melville 631-420-4444 berkshirefarm.org

Berkshire Farm Center & Services for Youth helps children find safety and comfort in the homes of foster parents. Become a foster parent and give the gift of family!

LEGAL SERVICES ANDREW COHEN, ESQ., LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW M. COHEN

250 W. 57th St,, Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com

The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen can help you achieve your objectives through careful special needs legal planning, regardless of the size of your estate. All clients are provided with high quality service at a reasonable cost. LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C.

534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com

Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law.

LICE FAIRY LICEMOTHERS

2463 S. Long Beach Road, Oceanside 866-561-0492 1755 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 866-561-0492 679 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Head 866-561-0492 fairylicemothers.com fairylicemothers@gmail.com

Our treatment centers are kid-friendly and our products are 100 percent non-toxic. Treatments include two free re-checks. Whether or not you use our service, we are here to help you. LICE CLINICS OF AMERICA - LONG ISLAND

47 Jackson Ave., Syosset 566 Merrick Road, Rockville Centre November 2018 | nymetroparents.com

516-336-4099 liceclinicslongisland.com

Lice Clinics of America will remove lice in just one hour! All lice and eggs—even Super Lice—are eliminated in a single, onehour treatment. Affordable treatments, no toxic chemicals. LICE TAMERS, INC.

900 Walt Whitman Road, Suite LL2, Melville 877-237-LICE (5423) licetamers.com licetamers@gmail.com

Lice Tamers offers same-day lice treatment and head checks at our comfortable, child-friendly treatment center or in the comfort of your home. All of our products are safe and non-toxic.

SPECIAL NEEDS ANDREW COHEN, ESQ., LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW M. COHEN

250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com

Serving Nassau and Suffolk counties as well as the five boroughs of NYC 61-43 186th St., Fresh Meadows 516-273-1961 Sprout Building 166 Valley St., Providence, RI 401-421-4004 dr-imber.com scimber1@aol.com

Dr. Imber has more than 40 years of experience consulting, evaluating, and advocating for children, adolescents, and adults with various disabilities including autism (e.g. Asperger’s syndrome), attention deficit disorders, intellectual disabilities, emotional and behavioral disorders, and learning disabilities. LIFE’S WORC THE FAMILY CENTER FOR AUTISM

1501 Franklin Ave., Garden City 516-741-9000 familycenterforautism.org

The Family Center for Autism provides services and support for people with autism and their families. Programs include insurance services, birthday parties, art, music, sports and culinary classes, camps, parent and sibling programs, social events, vocational programs, and behavior intervention. LITTLE OPTICS, INC.

192-07 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 53-15 Roosevelt Ave., Woodside 718-468-7500

hablamos espanol littleopticsinc@yahoo.com

We provide eyeglasses and professional eye care for children, including infants, and young adults. We also alleviate any self-esteem issues associated with the stigma of wearing glasses. When your children leave Little Optics, rest assured that they will feel confident. LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631689-6858 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C.

534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com

13 South Bayles Ave., Port Washington 516-767-0266 Steps to Socialization was created to help children who have difficulty socializing. We teach children how to think socially, step by step. Working in small groups, we cover a variety of topics, including how to establish and maintain friendships and initiating and maintaining conversations.

THERAPY & COUNSELORS AVIVA CHANSKY GUTTMANN, L.M.S.W., C.I.R.T.

631-885-4375 avivachanskyguttmann.com helpconnectingus@gmail.com

Aviva Chansky Guttmann is a certified imago relationship therapist offering home-based therapy for couples, partners, and families. Flexible scheduling and large travel radius.

TUTORS & TEST PREP EYE LEVEL NASSAU Eye Level Hicksville 760 S. Broadway, Hicksville 516-597 5300, Jyoti Dhingra Eye Level Williston Park 61 Hillside Ave., Williston Park 516-747-7700, Alida Vucemilovich Eye Level New Hyde Park

1 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park 516-775-1000, Min Bittaf myeyelevel.com Eye Level offers math and English programs for ages 3-14. Whether the immediate goal is early learning, remedial education, or academic advancement, Eye Level is the answer. MATHNASIUM LEARNING CENTERS Five Towns 414 Central Ave., Cedarhurst 516-569-1500 Great Neck 11 Great Neck Road, Great Neck 516-482-MATH (6284) Lynbrook 381 Sunrise Highway, Lynbrook 516-881-7997 New Hyde Park 810 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park 516-616-MATH (6284) Roslyn 217A Mineola Ave., Roslyn Heights 516-484-MATH (6284) mathnasium.com Students go to Mathnasium year-round to catch up, keep up, and get ahead in math. Our instructional approach goes beyond traditional math tutoring to develop understanding and build a love for math. SYLVAN LEARNING CENTERS OF MINEOLA AND HUNTINGTON 393 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola 516-743-9943 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 sylvanlearning.com sylvanlearning@optonline.net Sylvan of Mineola and Huntington offer personalized tutoring programs in reading, writing, mathematics, and SAT and ACT prep. Sylvan will help identify the right program for your child and exactly where your child needs to start to get the best results. TAS NEW YORK – THEORY OF ARTS AND SCIENCES 153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 1-888-827-8188 tasnewyork.com Here education matters. The No. 1 learning center in New York. We offer after-school programs, private and group tutoring, kids and adult art classes, computer coding, SAT and ACT prep, Create and Meditate sessions, and summer camp! VILLAGE EAST GIFTED - ENRICHMENT CENTER FOR THE GIFTED LEARNER Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted provides after-school enrichment and private tutoring for gifted and talented students. We are a designated John Hopkins CTY and SAT testing center.

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PartyCentral PARTY ENTERTAINMENT CLOWNS.COM

Proudly Serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000, 718-971-5862 clowns.com We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.

LEGENDARY ENTERTAINMENT

Serving Nassau and Suffolk County 631-680-8453 legendaryentertainmentny.com Legendary Entertainment offers DJs, emcees, karaoke, more than 100 characters, a photo booth, magic shows, party machine rentals, and theme parties.

PARTY PLACES @ PLAY AMUSEMENTS

229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com Have your next party at the newly renovated @ Play Amusements! It offers 40,000-squarefeet of fun ranging from 92 arcade games, inflatables, bumper cars, a roller coaster, a carousel, a disco room, and laser tag!

AS YOU WISH PARTIES

418A Bedford Ave., Bellmore 516-590-7878 asyouwishparties.org As You Wish Parties will make your child’s party dreams come true. Themes include Pretty Princess, Knightly Knights, Traditional Tea, PJ Party, Rock Star and Superheroes, Dessert Party, or Kids Canvas Painting.

BACH TO ROCK MUSIC SCHOOL

1015 Port Washington Blvd., Port Washington 516-441-5526 portwashington.bachtorock.com portwashington@bachtorock.com Be a star at B2R! At Bach To Rock music school, our parties will have everyone recording in a state-of-the-art studio with pro engineers. Choose from current pop and classic rock tunes, then sing on the main stage and enjoy pizza and cake!

BE THE BEST SPORT

30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-453-0990 bethebestsport.org info@bethebestsport.org Be The Best Sport provides sport birthday parties for children with special needs. Our

qualified staff will make sure your son or daughter has a once in a lifetime experience! Please contact us to inquire about a birthday party!

BOUNCEU FARMINGDALE

101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com BounceU Farmingdale was voted “Best of Long Island” for Children’s Party Place and Family Amusement Center. We provide the ideal combination of inflatable structures, a clean environment, incredible customer service, and non-stop excitement in a private party atmosphere.

CELEBRATIONS IN THE KITCHEN

63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event! We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy, including sugar cookie baking, all about pizza, cupcakes from scratch, doughnuts, and chocolate and candy projects. Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen. com for more information on parties.

COLD SPRING HARBOR FISH HATCHERY & AQUARIUM

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfha.org; steved@cshfha.org Celebrate your child’s next birthday at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium! See the Hatchery & Aquarium’s exciting live exhibits. Feed the hungry trout and learn about fish, reptiles, and amphibians with an up-close animal encounter.

GREAT PLAY OF SYOSSET

180 Michael Drive, Syosset 516-364-1500 greatplay.com/syosset info@syosset.greatplay.com We offer customized parties for ages 1-10. Your guests will have a blast and your child will receive all-star treatment in our amazing Interactive Gym™.

HUNTINGTON CENTER FOR PERFORMING ARTS

310 New York Ave., Huntington 631-271-4626 huntingtoncenteronline.com huntingtoncenter@yahoo.com Make your child’s birthday a memorable and creative event with our dance-themed birthday parties. As a special treat, a guest artist will come in costume to perform for your guests!

INTREPID SEA, AIR & SPACE MUSEUM

Pier 86, West 46th Street and Twelfth Avenue, Manhattan 646-381-5010

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intrepidmuseum.org groupsales@intrepidmuseum.org Celebrate your child’s birthday with a one-ofa-kind party! The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum will captivate groups of all ages and interests. Choose from exciting themes, value packages, and customization options to create a birthday adventure they’ll remember forever!

KEY TO MY ART, INC.

10 W. Oak St., Amityville 131 Main St., East Rockaway 877-539-2278 keytomyart.com At Key to My Art, our children’s paint parties include all supplies from aprons to easels. The guest of honor picks the theme, we provide the instruction, and each guest leaves with a finished painting!

THE LANYARD LADIES

433 Merrick Road, Oceanside 516-578-2248 thelanyardladies.com info@thelanyardladies.com The Lanyard Ladies friendship bracelet and lanyard birthday parties bring the party to you, or you can come to their brand-new party place! Many amazing themes and packages to choose from.

THE LITTLE LADIES CLUB

246 W. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-939-CLUB (2582) thelittleladiesclub.com party@thelittleladiesclub.com The Little Ladies Club has been providing glamorous makeover parties for girls since 1998! Her Majesty will be sure to receive the royal treatment!

LONG ISLAND AQUARIUM

431 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-208-9200 xH20 (426), 631-208-9200 x125 longislandaquarium.com Have your child’s birthday party at the Long Island Aquarium. Party options include a choice of private rooms, select food items, and an ice cream cake. All parties get a guided tour, special seating at the Sea Lion Show, and rides on the submarine simulator!

M.A.T.S.S. KID’S GYM & EARLY CHILDCARE EDUCATION CENTER

A Rainbow Of Programs Under One Roof! 2629 Grand Ave., Bellmore 516-221-1330 171 Eileen Way, Syosset 516-496-7765 matsskidsgym.com corporate@matsskidsgym.com M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym offers a rainbow of themes and activities that will make your child’s next birthday party the ultimate celebration of his/her special day!

MY GYM CHILDREN’S FITNESS CENTER

1320 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook 631-751-KIDS (5437)

mygym.com/stonybrook 128 W. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington Station 631-427-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/huntingtonstation My Gym parties include exclusive use of the gym, including a zip line, rock wall, trampoline, trapeze, and climbing structures and slides. Instructors lead your guests through action-packed activities with theme options including Super heroes, Princesses, Mickey Mouse or any theme you want.

NOT JUST ART

183 South St., Oyster Bay 516-922-8300 notjustart.com create@notjust art.com Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and beyond. Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard.

SKY ZONE TRAMPOLINE PARK-DEER PARK

111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park 631-392-2600 skyzone.com/deerpark deerparkinfo@skyzone.com The best birthday parties are at Sky Zone, Deer Park. We customize every birthday party. We have themed parties and super hero parties that include Dodgeball, Foam Zone, Sky Slam, and endless jumping opportunities!

TAS NEW YORK – THEORY OF ARTS AND SCIENCES

153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 1-888-827-8188 tasnewyork.com The Theory of Arts & Sciences (TAS) birthday packages include all you need for a twohour guided paint or arts and crafts party. We also offer special add-ons including face painting, henna, and custom invitations.

THOMAS SCHOOL OF HORSEMANSHIP RIDING ACADEMY

250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com; tsh@tshcamp.com Birthday parties, scout parties, and class trips are always a blast at the Thomas School of Horsemanship. For groups of 14-18 children. They receive one hour of riding time.

UNLIMITED SPORTS ACTION

30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-767-7675 unlimitedsportsaction.com info@unlimitedsportsaction.com Unlimited Sports Action offers sports birthdays for ages 2 and older. Our parties offer one hour of sports and activities on a climate-controlled turf field, followed by 30 minutes of food, drinks, and birthday cake in a private room.

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Health Care Professional Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry 959 Brush Hollow Road, Suite #101, Westbury 516-333-3033 pediatricdentistlongislandny.com kidsteethli@gmail.com

Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry cares for all of your child’s oral health needs in a fun, kid-friendly environment that includes iPads and chairside TV monitors. Drs. Ehrenman and Khan are dedicated and trained to ease dental anxieties for young children as well as patients with special needs. Their years of advanced training include hospital and sedation dentistry. Please visit kidsteeth4li.com to learn more about what Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry has to offer!

Mesbah OB-GYN Women’s Health Care & Wellness 877 Stewart Ave., Suite 3, Garden City 516-794-1500 mesbahobgyn.com

Michael Mesbah, M.D. is board-certified with more than 20 years of private practice experience. His experience and expertise in obstetrics has made him one of the most respected physicians on Long Island. He has extensive training in gynecological surgery, and is a certified robotic surgeon. Karyn Wat, M.D. is multilingual in English, Spanish, and Chinese. She has been trained in general and high-risk obstetric care, as well as gynecological surgery. She is compassionate, dedicated, and knowledgeable in issues pertaining to teenagers, family planning, menstrual and hormonal abnormalities, and menopausal symptoms.

PDM Family Dental 295 N. Broadway, Jericho 516-388-5002 pdmfamilydental.com info@pdmfamilydental.com

PDM Family Dental is a new dental office at the Hicksville Jericho border. We are here to provide comprehensive care for your children and your entire family’s dental needs. We strive to provide a comfortable dental experience and aim to help you walk out with a smile. Dr. Makkar is a huge advocate for supporting communities and educating families to take care of their dental needs. We do accept most insurances but also provide in-office dental plans so that dental care is accessible to all. We are open evenings.

Merrick Pediatric Dentistry 1756A Merrick Ave., Merrick 516-547-1997 merrickpediatricdentistry.com

Dr. Rania Elbaz is a board-certified pediatric dentist. She earned her dental degree from Columbia University. She then completed her pediatric dental training at UMDNJNew Jersey Dental School. Dr. Elbaz loves working with children and strives to create a warm and fun environment that children look forward to visiting. Dr. Elbaz sees every patient in order to ensure the consistency that is so important to young children. The office welcomes and gives extra time and attention to patients with special needs. The office also participates with most major insurance plans.

Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 • Suffolk: 631-689-6858 • Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES (Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing) are also offered. Seven affiliated offices across Long Island participate with most health insurance and offer evening and Saturday hours.

Lice Tamers, Inc. 900 Walt Whitman Road, Suite LL2, Melville 631-479-2595 licetamers.com licetamers@gmail.com

Melissa Levin is a board-certified family nurse practitioner. She is also the owner and operator of Lice Tamers. For the past 15 years Melissa has treated children and their families for lice using a natural, holistic approach. She has also worked tirelessly to educate parents about lice prevention, and to help remove the stigma associated with contracting lice. Lice Tamers offers a child-friendly approach to lice removal, in a relaxed, fun environment with snacks, WiFi, and toys. Melissa also offers free educational seminars to schools and camps.

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OPEN HOUSES 2018

Catholic Elementary Schools of Long Island Diocese of Rockville Centre

Buckley Country Day School

Multiple Locations 516-678-5800 licatholicelementaryschools.org Catholic Elementary Schools offer one of Long Island’s best childcare alternatives for students age 3 through kindergarten with a warm, loving, and accepting atmosphere. Some schools offer mommy-and-me classes for students as young as 2. You’ll find safe and warm classrooms, certified teachers and trained aides, and curriculum that invites students to embrace reading and learning skills that will serve them throughout their academic career. The schools offer before- and after-care to support working parents, state-of-theart technology to challenge developing minds, and a Christian environment to reinforce values.

Smithtown Christian School

1 Higbie Drive, Smithtown 631-265-3334 learnwithscs.org Smithtown Christian Preschool has been in existence since 1972 and has maintained a high standard of excellence. Our preschool program and teachers are registered and permanently certified with the New York State Department of Education. In all curriculum areas of our three-year-old and four-year-old programs, emphasis is placed on inspiring a love for one another as explained in God’s Word-the Bible; developing a love for learning; developing the ability to think logically, make associations, and solve problems independently.

Village East Gifted Enrichment Center for the Gifted Learner Kindergarten and Preschool

Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com The Village East Gifted® (VEG) Preschool, Pre-K, and Kindergarten programs implement a “100-percent academic” curriculum designed for young accelerated learners ages 2-5. The classes are small and lessons are differentiated to accommodate the highest level of comprehension in each class. Students are taught skills to prepare them for the VEG CORE after-school classes (grades kindergarten to 11th) which include Latin, writing and grammar, geography, global studies, SAT and ACT vocabulary, mathematics, living science, study skills, and creative problem solving. IQ scores are not required but an interview must be scheduled to determine academic readiness.

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2 I.U. Willets Road, Roslyn 516-627-1910 buckleycountryday.com Please join us for our upcoming Admissions Open House. Meet our headmaster, principals, faculty, students, and alumni. Tuesday, Nov. 27 at 9am.

Friends Academy

270 Duck Pond Road, Locust Valley 516-676-0393 fa.org Join us for an open house Monday Nov. 5 (Middle School), Tuesday, Nov. 6 (Upper School), and Thursday, Nov. 8 (Lower School).

Green Vale School

250 Valentine’s Lane, Old Brookville 516-621-2420 greenvaleschool.org Join us for an open house on Nov. 14 from 9-10:30am.

Smithtown Christian School

1 Higbie Drive, Smithtown 631-265-3334 learnwithscs.org Join us at our open house Tuesday Nov. 27, from 7-8:30pm. See what makes SCS stand apart from the rest. Take a tour of our school and meet our directors.

St. Dominic Elementary School

35 School St., Oyster Bay 516-922-4233 stdomsob.org One journey through faith and education. Call any time for a tour.

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts

185 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights 631-643-7900 usdan.org Join us for an open house Sunday, Nov. 18. The campus is yours to visit and explore. Receive a chance to “spin to win” a tuition discount. Register at usdan. org/visit.

Winston Preparatory School

30 Deforest Road, Dix Hills 212-719-5598 x2213 winstonprep.edu/our-campuses/li liadmissions@winstonprep.edu Winston Prep is a highly individualized setting for third to 12th grade students with specific learning differences. Open house: Tuesday, Nov. 13 at 6:30pm and Thursday, Nov. 29 at 9:15am.

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How to Have a Forgettable Thanksgiving By Deborah Skolnik

If you want to have a turkey of a Thanksgiving, just follow these steps. (And in case you don’t, we have some suggestions for you!) 1. Before everyone arrives, bet out loud that your uncle will tell his same dumb jokes again. (Of course, you also won’t be laughing when your kids ask, “Is he the one who tells bad jokes, mommy?” when he’s standing right in front of them.) Instead: Be tolerant of your family’s flaws—after all, you’ll only be spending a few hours together. And remember that young kids pick up on what you say, but don’t always realize it isn’t nice to repeat it. 2. Apologize to everyone for everything—the state of your house, the size of the table, the overdone green beans… Instead: Relax! Your guests can’t unwind unless you do. Focus on the positive and that will be what they—and you—remember. 3. Spend the entire meal fretting that one of the children will spill cranberry sauce on your best tablecloth. Instead: Use a paper tablecloth and put out some crayons so the kids can color on it. (Then watch as an adult, not a kid, spills the cranberry sauce. Oops.) 4. Discuss politics over pumpkin pie and watch everyone get into a big ole Thanksgiving fight. Instead: Go around the table and have everyone share what they’re most grateful for this year. Even little kids can participate. 5. Get pouty when people want to watch football instead of eating. Instead: Realize that for some guests, football is a highlight of the holiday. Pick the game that matters the most to everyone, and schedule your meal around it. 6. Leave the kids to do their own thing during the football game or adult conversation time, then get upset because they made a mess or broke a vase. Instead: Set up a dedicated play space—away from breakable items—with games, crafts, and other fun stuff for the kiddos to enjoy.

Kids Giving Back “‘I’ve always lived an incredibly fortunate life,’ [Hannah] Taylor says. ‘Always had a bed to sleep in, food to eat, and love and care. I didn’t realize that anybody in Canada had to live a homeless life. It hit me right in the gut. I think that everyone has a moment like that in life. A striking realization that you just cannot let go and forget about. For me, this was it.’” —as told to Julia Hyman in “Making a Difference: Meet 5 Young Adults Who Started Nonprofit Organizations”; read the full article at nymetroparents.com/making-a-difference.

More NYMetroParents.com Highlights: CLOWNING AROUND: Find out what it takes to be in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade at nymetroparents.com/clowns. GIVING THANKS: 10 Thanksgiving traditions you can start this year (nymetroparents.com/traditions) BEST FALL EVER!: See our list of 50 ways to make the most of the season at nymetroparents.com/fall. DISH UP: Try these new spins on old Thanksgiving favorites (nymetroparents.com/thanksgiving-sides)

7. Let an overtired child throw a monster tantrum. Instead: Make a bedroom, den, or other space available for napping.

POTTERHEADS REJOICE: Read about New-York Historical Society’s new Harry Potter exhibit at nymetroparents.com/harry-potter.

8. Heroically refuse offers to help with cleanup. Instead: Say, “Yes, thanks!” You’ll get your kids (and yourself) to bed sooner.

COLLEGE BOUND: A grade-by-grade timeline for applying to college (nymetroparents.com/college-planning)

November 2018 | nymetroparents.com

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