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Holiday Joys

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How to Save Money on Holiday Shopping

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16 Become a Resort Family

Find something to help your family beat that winter chill!

These tips will help you stick to your budget while snagging real bargains.

How to Raise a World-Aware Teen

Your child’s now old enough to grasp global issues—and to change the planet for the better, too.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 My Family Saved Someone’s Life 14 Keeping Your Family Healthy 34 The Pros and Cons of Elf on the Shelf 38 How to Raise a World-Aware Teen 40 Professional Services 41 Open Houses 42 Party Central 43 Academic Enrichment 43 Tutors & Test Prep at a Glance 44 Meet the Health Care Professional 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 Parenting Humor

12 Glitter Gifts

18 13 Ways to Stay Safe This Holiday Season

20 Family Fun in Manhattan

36 How to Save Money on Holiday Shopping

21 Family Activities Calendar 32 Holiday Joys

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Helping Parents Make Better Decisions ON THE COVER ›› 18 Kid-Safe Decorating 34 Elf on the Shelf: Yay or Nay? 36 Sticking to Your Gift-Giving Budget 38 World-Aware Teens facebook.com/nymetroparents

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DECEMBER 2018 • Vol.10 • No.7

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EDITORIAL

EDITORIAL DIRECTOR: Katelin Walling ASSISTANT EDITORS: Anja Webb, Melissa Wickes DIRECTOR OF CONTENT: Deborah Skolnik

Season’s Readings!

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absolutely adore this time of year, don’t you? The days may be short, but they’re jampacked full of joyful doings. Whether you’re shopping for presents for loved ones, admiring the twinkling holiday lights, or cooking up special treats, there’s a cozy feel to it all. And the only thing more delightful than savoring the season’s many pleasures is experiencing them from your child’s wide-eyed perspective.

Of course, in all the excitement we want to make sure you and your kids steer clear of hazards—that’s why we urge you to read Lambeth Hochwald’s feature “13 Ways to Stay Safe This Holiday Season” on p. 18. Don’t light a candle, buy a festive new plant, or set out special décor before reading what the experts have to say. Speaking of experts, we also have the pros’ best tips for getting discounts on all those gifts you’re buying. Turn to p. 36 for “How to Save Money on Holiday Shopping” by Denise Porretto, which offers brilliant strategies for bargain-hunting, both online and at brick-and-mortar stores.

You’ll wonder how you ever did without these easy ways to earn cash back on purchases, snag hot products at low prices, and more.

Meanwhile, what would Christmas be without a few traditions? This issue, we take a closer look at a somewhat controversial one: Elf on the Shelf. He’s meant to watch over your young kids and report back to Santa about whether they belong on the ‘nice’ or ‘naughty’ list, but does that make him sweet, or a spy? In Anja Webb’s “The Pros and Cons of Elf on the Shelf” on p. 34, real parents, plus others who grew up with the steely-eyed sprite, offer advice on how to deploy your elf so he’s fun for little ones. Yet the holiday season isn’t only for small children, which is why those of you with older kids will appreciate Allison Ingrum’s story, “Raise a World-Aware Teen” on p. 38. These days more than ever, it’s important for our youth to know what’s happening around the globe—and help change our planet for the better.

After the holidays wrap—or even before—you may just have had your fill of blustery weather and busy days. Who could blame you if you just want to get away from it all for a while? Not us! That’s what makes our travel story “Become a Resort Family” on p. 16 so timely. We’ve rounded up our picks of family-friendly all-inclusive resorts and destinations, blessed spots where all you have to do is relax. Even if you can’t book a getaway this minute, it’s a great read for fantasizing.

On that subject, here’s wishing you and yours the holiday of your dreams!

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“Circus Glow is the next generation of family fun entertainment in the circus industry, combining new school traditions with an old school twist,” says Jewell Flint, project manager of Circus Glow.

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Who: Circus Glow What’s New: The show, which is scheduled to begin Dec. 21 in Brooklyn and will move to Queens Dec. 28.

Circus Glow is a new style of circus featuring seven acts, including aerialists, contortionists, and LED robots. The performers are committed to providing children and families an illuminated experience fused with art and entertainment at the highest level of excitement. All acts are performed completely in the dark and are illuminated by LED lights or glow-in-the-dark costumes. Illuminations vary depending on the style of act. The show is all people with no animals or fire.

Circus Glow will perform eight shows over four days in Brooklyn before moving to Queens with a similar schedule.

Want More Info: PAC Dome, 1500 Paegadat Ave. N., Canarsie, Brooklyn; AMUZARA, 91-12 144th Place, Jamaica, Queens; 718-230-0891; circusglow.com

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Who: Berkshire Farm What’s New: “How to talk so kids will listen, how to listen so kids will talk” training, which was first offered in October.

The agency offered this training for foster parents to help them talk to their kids.

In addition, training on how to locate and register low-fee and free summer camp was offered in April and the information is readily available to all foster parents at any time. The training can help parents find camps that spark the foster child’s interest. Some foster children have attended music camps, police academies, sports camps, and dance camps.

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Who: Sky Zone Deer Park What’s New: A three-lane Warped Wall, which is coming to Sky Zone Deer Park this month.

The three-lane wall is the kind of challenge you might see on the Ninja Warrior competitions, except the Sky Zone Deer Park Warped Wall has three lanes to accommodate all levels of ability, according to Anthony Grassa, general manager of Sky Zone Deer Park.

The park also offers Fortnite parties and competitions, other birthday parties, dodgeball, Sky Slam and a foam pit, and toddler time in addition to Sky Zone Cares, a program for people with special needs.

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My Family Saved Someone’s Life ›› The close call that was the ultimate teachable moment for my kids.

By Jenn Colucci, as told to Deborah Skolnik

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ave you ever had an ordinary day suddenly turn extraordinary? That’s what happened to us in late July.

My husband Vinnie had come home early from work, and we’d gone to an afternoon movie at the Galleria Mall in Poughkeepsie with our four kids. As we left the theater around 4:30pm, I noticed a black BMW near our car in the parking lot.

We got in our car and I pulled out of our parking spot. That’s when I saw the BMW’s driver: He was lying on his back across the center console, and his feet were sticking out the driver’s-side door. The car was running and the radio was blasting.

“Something is wrong with this guy,” I said. Vinnie thought the man was just sleeping, but I urged him to check. Vinnie got out of the car and tapped the guy’s foot, saying “Hey buddy, hey bro.”

There was no response.

My husband looked at me. “Call nine-one-one,” he said.

The emergency operator told us to pull the man out of the car and lay him on the ground. Vinnie got a couple of passersby to help him while I stayed on the phone with the operator. I pulled our car up so my kids couldn’t see what was happening, but I looked on. The driver—he was a young man—was taking breaths every 30 seconds, if that. He was pale, white, and sweaty, and his lips were blue-purple.

The police showed up first. Immediately, they concluded the man was suffering from a drug overdose. They administered Narcan—a substance designed to counteract opioid overdose— through his nose, which did nothing. Paramedics arrived shortly thereafter and administered more Narcan through an IV. Immediately, miraculously, it brought the guy back to life. I heard him say he’d used two bags of heroin.

He bounced back so much he wanted to go home, but of course

Jenn and Vinnie Colucci with their children

the paramedics insisted he go to the hospital for observation.

As I sat there watching it all unfold, stunned, one of the police officers came up to me. “This man was dead,” he told me. “You literally just saved his life by calling nine-one-one.” The young man, now sitting up on a stretcher, looked at the police officer and said, “Thanks.”

“Don’t thank me,” the officer replied. “You can thank these two over here. They’re the ones that called.”

On the way home, my 8-year-old daughter asked me, “Mom, did that man have a heart attack?” I looked at my husband and said, “I’m just going to tell them.”

“That man was dying because he did very bad drugs,” I explained. We talked about how dangerous illegal drugs are, and why you should never use them. My husband and I turned it into a teaching moment—not only about drugs, but also about how if you see someone in trouble, you should call for help and not just walk by, as I’m sure a lot of people might have done.

The movie we’d seen was The Incredibles 2, and my son said, “Mommy, you and Daddy are just like Mr. and Mrs. Incredible!”

It’s true I did feel inspired by what we’d done—but I was also sad for what we’d seen.

I’m sure this experience will stay with my three older kids, who are 12, 8, and 6, for the rest of their lives. My 4-year-old probably won’t remember, but I’m hoping she’ll learn from her older siblings. I’m also hoping people start realizing how big the opioid addiction crisis is.

Most of all, I’m hoping the young man we saved stays safe.

What happens if he needs saving again—will anyone be there to rescue him the next time? Because the mother in me knows: He’s someone’s child.

Jenn Colucci is a mother of four and the content coordinator for the upcoming Living Lagrange magazine, as well as the receiver of taxes for the Town of Beekman.

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Glitter Gifts!

Add a little sparkle to your holiday season with these crafty gift ideas, perfect for Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or just because! Create a cozy mug with some added flair to enjoy a nice cup of hot cocoa, an abstract art canvas to unleash your inner Picasso, or a shining ornament to make your tree stand out. No matter what your occasion for gift giving, make it extra special with something handmade… and glittery! These crafts, excerpted from “Glitter!” by Adams Media, are sure to make your holiday season one to remember!

Ornament Give the gift of glitter this season with glitter ornaments!

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1. Remove metal ornament caps and pour a tablespoon of floor finish into each bulb.

2. Use paper to funnel glitter into bulbs, then swirl the bulbs around to coat the inside of the ornament with the glitter mixture.

3. Pour out excess mixture and let bulbs dry for 10 minutes before replacing metal caps. Tie off each ornament with a sparkly bow and share the shimmer with friends and family this year.

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Let sit for 28 days before washing.

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Keeping Your Family Healthy ››

By Melissa Wickes

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very parent dreads cold and flu season. Kids are still building their immune systems, so it’s normal for them to get sick frequently. “I have parents tell me that they can remember more days when their kid had a runny nose than days when they didn’t,” says Aimée Kahn, M.D., M.P.H., pediatrician at Crystal Run Healthcare in Nyack. This year, get ahead of the cold and flu game by taking these precautions, as suggested by Dr. Kahn.

Wash your hands. It’s one of the most important things anyone can do to prevent spreading infection. Teach your children to wash before eating, after playtime, and after using the bathroom, Dr. Kahn suggests. Properly washing your hands means wetting, cleaning with soap for 10-15 seconds, and rinsing completely.

Get your flu vaccinations. It’s the best way to protect yourself and your children. A record 183 pediatric deaths were reported to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention during the 2017-2018 season. Nearly 80 percent of those deaths occurred in kids who did not receive a flu vaccine, according to the CDC. Many parents are concerned their child can contract the flu from the vaccine, but it’s “not a live vaccine, so if you are feeling under the weather after receiving the vaccine, it is simply your body’s autoimmune response...

In fact, it is nothing compared to the actual flu,” Dr. Kahn says.

Maintain a healthy diet. Your child should get all the vitamins she needs—something that will happen as long as she’s eating a healthy, nutritious diet. Also, check that your county’s water supply has fluoride in it. If not, you may want to make sure your child is getting the right amount, Dr. Kahn suggests.

Don’t let your child share things that go in his mouth. After spending the last few years teaching your child the importance of sharing, flu season is the time to throw those lessons out the window.

Well, at least for utensils, pacifiers, cups, and other items that go in your child’s mouth, Dr. Kahn stresses. If your child drops his pacifier, don’t be so quick to give it a swift wipe and pop it back in his mouth.

Know when to take your child to the doctor. If he has a high fever that won’t come down with Tylenol or Motrin, you should see the doctor. Once your child is fever-free, wait 24 hours before letting her go back to school. Perhaps most importantly, if your child shows any signs of difficulty breathing, including fast breathing, nasal flaring, and using extra muscles to breathe, you should take her to the doctor immediately, Dr. Kahn says.

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Traveling with the kids can get expensive, so we found the best all-inclusive resorts that are sure to keep everyone happy. By Katelin Walling

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efore kids, traveling with your partner was relatively easy.

Sure, you had to figure out the logistics of getting from point A to destination B, along with where to stay, what to do, and places to eat, but that wasn’t too much of a hassle. Ever since kids entered the picture, though, planning a destination vacation has become a balancing act, one that includes making sure there are plenty of activities the little ones will love, that the restaurants you dine at have food your picky eaters will like, and that the hotel room has enough sleeping space for your brood.

Does the thought of coordinating everything make you want to hire a vacation planner?

Fear not! For a family vacation everyone will love, consider booking a stay at an all-inclusive resort. While some locations are for adults only, many others are turning their focus to families, offering unlimited activities, kids’ clubs, and dining options that even hardto-please children will love. This list doesn’t include every single all-inclusive resort brand out there; the five chosen here offer unique experiences for families, clubs for kids and teens, and other amenities to ensure everyone in the family has an unforgettable vacation.

Beaches

A sister brand to Sandals, the first Beaches resort opened in 1997 in response to requests from couples who loved Sandals Resorts and wanted a similar experience with their families.

Destinations: Beaches has three family-friendly resorts: two are located in Jamaica and one is in Turks & Caicos.

Highlights: Each location features a Pirates Island waterpark (Turks & Caicos recently expanded its waterpark offerings) with waterslides, spray areas, waterfalls, zero-entry pools, and more. Plus, Turks & Caicos is the only Beaches resort to offer SurfStream®, a surf simulator. Beaches has an exclusive partnership with Sesame 16

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Street, so you’ll frequently spot your favorite characters roaming the grounds for kids to meet, interact with in special themed activities, and see in stage shows and character parades. Tweens and teens can take advantage of the arcade Trench Town and the Xbox Play Lounge. These resorts also offer teens-only dance time at Club Liquid before it transitions to the 21 and older night club. And for teens who want a more meaningful vacation, Beaches offers Island Impact volunteer opportunities in July and August.

Kids Clubs: All Beaches resorts have Kids Camp for younger guests, ages newborn to 12, and programs that are just for tweens and teens. And your children will be in good hands: Kids Camp staff and private child care providers are members of the International Nanny Association. In addition, Beaches’ Kids Camps are Certified Autism Centers through the International Board of Credentialing and Continuing Education Standards, so staff members are able to cater to children who are on the spectrum.

To book: beaches.com

Club Med

With more than 70 locations worldwide in a variety of destinations, you’ll find a resort in the spot of your dreams, whether you prefer tropical weather for beach lounging or snowier climates for all-day skiing.

Destinations: In addition to its Sandpiper Bay resort in Florida, Club Med has locations in Mexico; the Caribbean; the Alps in France, Italy, and Switzerland; throughout Europe and the Mediterranean, including Greece, Portugal, and Turkey; across Asia, including Thailand, Maldives, China, Indonesia, Japan, and Malaysia; Brazil; and Africa, including Morocco, Tunisia, and Senegal.

Highlights: Kids younger than 4 always stay free, though services for this age range sometimes cost extra. Some locations have a trapeze for high-flying fun, and Punta Cana in the Dominican

Republic and Opio en Provence in France are home to CREACTIVE, a Cirque du Soleil-inspired playscape at which guests can learn acrobatic and artistic skills (including trapeze, high bungee, and trampoline). Cancun Yucatan recently underwent renovations and now offers an expanded Aguamarina, a family area featuring two-bedroom accommodations with a dedicated pool area and stretch of beach only for families staying in this part of the resort.

Kids Clubs: Of the many locations worldwide, only a select few are adult-only resorts. Kids’ clubs are available at most locations for ages 4 months to 17 years, including Baby Club Med (ages 4-23 months), Petit Club Med (ages 2-3), Mini Club Med (ages 4-10), Juniors’ Club Med (ages 11-17), and Club Med Passworld (ages 11-17). In addition, Club Med offers Pyjama Club from 7-11pm and babysitting services (both an additional fee) for date nights or those times you wish to have an adults-only excursion.

To book: clubmed.us

Dreams Resorts & Spas

If staying at an environmentally conscious resort is more your speed, Dreams Resorts & Spas has eight locations that are Rainforest Alliance-certified (they follow the alliance’s eight principles of sustainability).

Destinations: Dreams has 15 destinations for families throughout Mexico, the Dominican Republic, Costa Rica, Panama, and Puerto Rico.

Highlights: There’s so much to do at Dreams, the kids will never complain of boredom. Though activities vary at each location, indoor and outdoor offerings include pingpong, volleyball, soccer, archery, painting, ocean trampoline, a scalable iceberg, Pilates and yoga, pool tables, croquet, a giant chess board, tennis, dance lessons, movies, and Euro-Bungee. In addition, water sport activities include water polo, kayaking, snorkeling, catamarans, sailing, and windsurfing. Once a week kids can have a camping adventure on the beach, hosted by the Explorer’s Club at all locations, while parents can enjoy a date night.

Kids Clubs: Dreams resorts offer Explorer’s Club for ages 3-12 and various activities just for teens. Properties in the Dominican Republic, Costa Rica, and Dreams Sands Cancun Resort & Spa offer Core Zone Teens Club for ages 13-17. Private babysitting services are available at participating locations for an additional fee.

To book: dreamsresorts.com

Grand Memories and Memories

As their names imply, Grand Memories and Memories resorts aim to help families create lasting memories with natural surroundings, white-sand beaches, and a host of activities for kids.

Destinations: Memories and Grand Memories have eight family-friendly resorts located in Cuba and the Dominican Republic.

Highlights: Memories Splash Punta Cana closed in August for renovations to become Grand Memories Splash and Grand Memories Punta Cana, both slated to open mid-November. Splash features family-friendly accommodations, including rooms with bunk beds, plus one of the largest on-site waterparks in the Caribbean, with seven slides, a wave pool, splash pads, and spray features. As a neighboring property, Grand Memories Punta Cana has access to Splash’s waterpark.

Kids Clubs: Each of the Memories and Grand Memories properties offers a kids’ club for ages 4-12, where kids can socialize, play on the playground, and enjoy games. Plus, all kids’ clubs feature Toopy & Binoo, a cat-and-mouse duo that make interactive appearances and host activities and games, as well as a live show. Grand Memories Splash and Punta Cana, as well as Memories Parasio and Flamenco, are the only locations with a Teens’ Lounge for ages 13-17. In addition, Memories Parisio, Varadero, and Flamenco offer Baby Club for ages newborn to 3.

To book: memoriesresorts.com

Royalton Luxury Resorts

Royalton resorts feature All-In Luxury®, where every aspect of your vacation has been carefully designed to meet your needs. And with the optional Diamond Club™ upgrade available at all locations, you can have access to an exclusive beach and pool, along with other amenities, for an unforgettable stay.

Destinations: Royalton has seven family-friendly locations in Jamaica, Saint Lucia, Dominican Republic, and Mexico. Plus, Royalton Antigua is slated to open in early 2019.

Highlights: Each property features a splash pad for kids, on-site entertainment, and an All-In White Party once a week featuring music, dancing, entertainment, and light shows. For extra water fun, select locations have additional waterpark attractions. Riviera Cancun features Splash Safari, with water slides for all ages, water spray features, and a Crocodile Walk Way challenge in the wading pool; White Sands features a pirate-themed splash park with water sprays and slides of varying heights; and Bavaro is the only property with a Flowrider surf machine. Meanwhile, as a sister resort to Grand Memories, Royalton Punta Cana guests and Diamond Club™ members at Bavaro have access to Grand Memories Splash’s waterpark. In addition, all locations have high-speed Wi-Fi, which makes checking in with each other easy (and prevents teens from going into social media withdrawal).

Kids Clubs: All Royalton locations offer Clubhouse Kids Club for ages 4-12 and Hangout Teens Club for ages 13-17. The kids’ club allows young resort guests to have fun with their peers while interacting with the beloved brother-sister bunny duo, Max & Ruby. Meanwhile, the club for teen vacationers features PlayStation gaming consoles, pingpong tables, and scheduled activities across the resort.

To book: royaltonresorts.com

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is the season to be jolly for sure. But the holidays are also the time of year when things get so hectic that household accidents can easily occur. Whether it’s a Christmas tree that topples over or a bubbling pot of mulled cider that splatters, it’s important to be aware of the biggest potential safety hazards around the house during the holidays, when you may be more focused on stringing lights than the toddler getting tangled in the electrical cord. Here are the 13 most important things you can do to stay safe this holiday season.

Practice smart Christmas tree set-up. Once you’ve hauled your tree into your home, make sure to place it in a sturdy, appropriately sized stand. You need to take this crucial step to ensure it doesn’t ’become a tipping hazard, says Debra Holtzman, a nationally recognized child safety and health expert and the author of The Safe Baby.

“To prevent your tree from tipping over, securely anchor it or put a safety gate around it,” she says. In addition, place your tree away from the busiest trafficked areas in your home. “Always place it out of the doorways, exits, and heat sources,” she says.

Stay on top of family members’ tree allergies. Some live Christmas trees, including cedars, can cause asthma, allergies, and an itchy skin rash because they can be filled with mold spores and allergens, says Robert Weitz, a certified microbial investigator and founder of RTK Environmental, a mold testing and mold inspection company in New York City. In addition, the needles on pine, spruce, and fir trees are a definite choking hazard.

How do you know if a family member may be allergic? “Rashes can be a sign of mold allergy or sensitivity,” Weitz says. “Other symptoms can include headaches, fatigue, throat and eye irritations, wheezing, and many respiratory problems including asthma.” If your child suffers from allergies or asthma, consider purchasing a fake tree.

Be choosy about artificial trees. Many are manufactured in China and made from two items: PVC, a petroleum-based plastic, and lead, used to stabilize PVC. “The lead in the ‘greens’ breaks down into lead dust, which is released into the air, poisoning everyone, but especially children younger than six,” Weitz says. “To protect your children from lead poisoning, be sure to buy a tree that’s made 18

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in the USA.” Tip: If you’re going the artificial tree route, also make sure it’s labeled “fire resistant,” Holtzman says.

Decorate safely. Only purchase décor that is made of non-combustible or flame-retardant materials, Holtzman advises. “If you have small children, avoid decorations that are sharp, breakable, weighted, or have small movable parts,” she says, “and avoid trimmings that resemble candy or food that may tempt a child to eat them.” Some decorations may contain lead, cadmium (a toxic metal), or other toxic materials that can be harmful to young children, so it’s best to stow all holiday decorations out of reach. Tip: There’s an easy way to identify objects that are too small for your child. “If the object itself or a detachable part fits through an empty toilet paper roll, it is unsafe and should be kept away from children under the age of three years and from any child who still puts objects in her mouth,” Holtzman says.

Assess your plants. There’s nothing like filling your home with cheery seasonal plants such as mistletoe, holly, Christmas rose, and Jerusalem cherry. However, these are all quite poisonous. “Be sure to keep these plants (and all plants) out of the reach of small children,” Holtzman says. Also, while those ubiquitous Christmastime poinsettias were once blamed for a death about a century ago, recent studies indicate they’re not as toxic as was thought at that time, Holtzman says. However, they may cause some gastric irritation and burning in the mouth if the leaves are ingested, so make sure your little ones stay away from them.

Important tip: If you suspect your child has ingested a poisonous plant, call the Poison Help Line at 1-800-222-1222 ASAP. Skip the candles. While they add wonderful atmosphere to a holiday celebration, avoid them, Holtzman says. “Consider using electric or battery-operated flameless candles instead,” she says. If you just can’t quit the candles, keep them on a stable, heat-resistant surface in sight where kids and pets cannot reach them or knock them over. “And always make sure you extinguish them when you leave the room or home or go to sleep, and never use lit candles to decorate the tree,” Holtzman adds.

Use caution with electric lights. This means using only lights that have been tested for safety by a nationally recognized testing laboratory such as Underwriters Laboratories. “And make sure to check

Practice fireplace safety. Once a year you should hire a professional chimney sweep to prevent build-up and potential fire hazards in your fireplace, Holtzman says. “In addition, be sure to put a safety gate in the doorway to the room with a fireplace or install a hearth gate around the area,” she adds. Never leave your fire unattended. “Extinguish the fire fully before leaving the house or going to bed and allow the ashes to cool before removing them,” she says.

Ashes should be disposed of in a tightly covered metal container and placed outdoors, at least 10 feet from the home and any other nearby buildings. “Never empty the ash directly into a trash can,” Holtzman says. “Always douse and saturate the ashes with water.”

Take precautions with button batteries. You know those small, shiny batteries that are found in flashing holiday jewelry or holiday decorations? They’re a severe choking hazard. “When swallowed, a coin-sized lithium battery can lodge in the throat of a child,” Holtzman says. “Saliva then triggers an electrical current, causing a chemical reaction that can severely burn the esophagus in as little as two hours. The chemicals in the battery can also cause serious harm to a child if the battery is inserted into the ear or nose.” Your best bet: Corral any item that contains lithium batteries including your remote controls, toys, singing greeting cards, digital thermometers, flameless candles, calculators, key fobs, watches, flashing holiday jewelry, or decorations. “Know which items and devices in your home have button batteries,” Holtzman says. “Children love to pick up gadgets, play with them, and take them apart. Duct tape battery compartments if they do not have a screw to secure them closed, and keep these objects out of the sight and reach of small children.”

Keep alcohol out of reach. That bowl of spiked holiday punch and those cups of leftover drinks (including the ice cubes in them) that may be strewn around the house should be kept out of reach of children at all times. Ditto for the eggnog. “Alcohol affects children more drastically than adults, so even small amounts of alcohol can be dangerous,” Holtzman says. “Remove all empty and partially empty cups as soon as possible.”

Plan menus around guests’ allergies. The holidays are a wonderful time for friends and family to get together, but a celebration can go seriously awry if any guests have allergies to the foods you are serving or the ones that are being brought to a potluck. Send around a list of foods you plan to serve to your guests before they arrive at your house so you’re sure to keep your visitors safe.

Place choking-hazard treats out of reach. For many families, holiday parties are best known for featuring delicious homemade Chex mix and bowls of mixed nuts. “Those are exactly the types of foods you should keep out of the reach of young children,” Holtzman says. “Any firm round foods such as popcorn, nuts, and candy canes should be kept as far away from children as possible because they pose a choking risk.”

Create an no-kid zone. If you’re planning to serve food from your stovetop, whether it’s a bowl of chili, stew, or other cold-weather goodies, make your kitchen a no-kid zone, Holtzman says. Consider this a safe way to make sure your cuties don’t get splashed, burned, or injured while you’re cooking.

Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

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From a luminous owl that flies above the audience to mice dressed in polka dots and dancers with huge chopsticks, this re-imagined version of The Nutcracker bursts with energy and excitement. The production is danced to Tchaikovsky’s beloved score and set in Art Nouveau style circa 1907 with choreography by Keith Michael, set design by Gillian Bradshaw-Smith, and costumes by Resident Costume Designer of the Metropolitan Opera, Sylvia Taalsohn Nolan. Dec. 14-16: Friday, 6pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11am, 1pm, and 3:30pm. Age: All. $27; $15 children. Florence Gould Hall, 55 E. 59th St., Upper East Side. nytb.org.

Train-obsessed children will delight at the sight of mini locomotives.

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Dazzling children and adults alike, the Transit Museum’s 17th Annual Holiday Train Show will feature Lionel trains traveling along a 34-foot, two-level, “O” gauge model train layout in the Shuttle Passage of Grand Central Terminal. Departing from a miniature replica of Grand Central on their way to the North Pole, the model trains featured in this year’s exhibit will be set against a backdrop designed by artist Ebony Bolt. Through Feb. 3: Monday-Friday, 8am-8pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-6pm. Age: All. FREE. New York Transit Museum Gallery and Store, Grand Central Terminal, Midtown. grandcentralterminal.com.

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At American Girl Holiday Cookie Decorating, visitors will decorate three cookies with festive frosting and sprinkles and then take them home in a to-go box that can be decorated with stickers.

American Girl Place

For a day filled with fun and imagination, head over to American Girl Place to dine with your doll at the American Girl Café for brunch, afternoon tea, lunch, or dinner. Then, visit the salon for a spa treatment, ear piercing for both you and your doll, or get your hair done. It’s way more than just a store; it’s a whole day filled with activities.

Visit it: American Girl Place Rockefeller Plaza, 75 Rockefeller Plaza, Midtown; americangirl.com; 877-247-5223 Can’t-miss event: Holiday Cookie Decorating: Fridays, Dec. 7-14 at 11am Directions: Approximately a 1-hour drive or LIRR and subway ride from Garden City.

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Family Fun in Manhattan

At the second annual Winter Onederland, your family will experience the holidaytransformed observatory, with visits from Santa, the Glacier Cave, the Giant Snow Globe, and more.

One World Observatory

See the city from a new perspective at One World Observatory, where you’ll climb 102 stories in 47 seconds in a SkyPod elevator.

Step onto the Sky Portal and see the streets 100 floors below, and, of course, experience 360 views of the greatest city in the world from the top of the tallest building in the Western Hemisphere!

Visit it: One World Observatory, 285 Fulton St., Financial District; 844-595-1776; oneworldobservatory.com Can’t-miss event: Winter Onederland, Nov. 26-Jan. 7, 2019 Directions: Approximately a 1-hour drive or 1-hour LIRR and subway ride from Garden City.

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

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Renaldo and Little Lou: Circus Clowns

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 11am WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: All WHAT: When Pete the Cat gets caught rocking out after bedtime, the cat-catcher sends him to live with the Biddle family to learn his manners.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The characters have an adventure where they find friendship, all the way to Paris and back in a VW Bus! WANT TO GO? $20. 516-767-1384. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

WHEN: Dec. 1-2, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Laugh and clap along with the juggling, pranks, magic, and humor of these world-class clowns. They engage with the audience directly and bring volunteers on stage.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a humorous, interactive show the whole family can enjoy!

WANT TO GO? $12. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

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WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 6:30-9pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live holiday music, a performance by members of the Bethel Concert Choir, a visit from Santa Claus, a tree lighting ceremony, and refreshments.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The house will be enchantingly illuminated for this special evening!

WANT TO GO? $15; $8 children ages 7-17; free for children younger than 7. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

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WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 8pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: Adult WHAT: Enjoy multiple flights of chocolates amongst the dazzling holiday décor of Westbury House.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Cheers! There’ll be a chocolate sommelier on hand to explain the nuances of pairing artisan chocolates from around the world with wine.

WANT TO GO? $45. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

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A Magical Cirque Christmas

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 14, 7:30pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale

AGES: All WHAT: A Magical Cirque Christmas has it all–magic, circus acts, and angelic voices singing our favorite Christmas carols live on stage WHY WE LOVE IT: The show transports you to the golden age of entertainment with great talent and stunning costumes.

WANT TO GO? $38.50 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

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WHEN: Dec. 15-16, Saturday, 1pm and 5pm; Sunday, 2pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts at LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: The professional company along with students from the Eglevsky Ballet academy present the annual holiday classic.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a beautifully choreographed and graceful performance.

WANT TO GO? $48 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

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Ohman’s New York Dance Theatre ‘The Nutcracker’

WHEN: Dec. 16-17, Saturday-Sunday, 12pm and 5pm WHERE: Hofstra University, 102B Adams Playhouse, Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: Ohman’s The Nutcracker brings joy to young and old alike with added music, scenes, and dances.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s the only one on Long Island performed in the tradition of New York City Ballet’s George Balanchine.

WANT TO GO? $42; $32 seniors and children. 631-462-0964. ohmanballet.org.

The Original Harlem Globetrotters

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 28, 2pm and 7pm WHERE: NYCB Live Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: A star-studded roster will have fans on the edge of their seats to witness the ball handling wizardry and basketball artistry.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This must-see event is guaranteed to entertain the whole family.

WANT TO GO? $26.50 and up. 516-231-4848. ticketmaster.com.

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‘The Big Bolt!’

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: See website for schedule WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Jimmi is a confident, curious girl and aspiring engineer who loves to build and explore the neighborhood with her friendly dog Conrad.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This show teaches valuable lessons about honesty, consequences, and forgiveness.

WANT TO GO? $23; $22 seniors and children; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

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Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

Ride the Reindeer Crazy Christmas Celebration FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 1-5pm WHERE: New Life Assembly of God, 816 Main St., Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Come out to test your skills on the mechanical reindeer, win the grand prize, and take a photo with Santa.

WANT TO GO? 516-694-3883. newlifeag.org.

An Intimate Holiday Concert FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 2pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: Adult WHAT: Enjoy an intimate hour of traditional American and Irish holiday songs.

WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Kids Play Free Week! FREE

WHEN: Dec. 2-8, by appointment only WHERE: New York Musician’s Center, 701 Bedford Ave., Bellmore AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Come play or sing for free with our top notch music teachers in piano, voice, guitar, drums, violin, and more!

WANT TO GO? 516-515-0236. nymcmusic.com.

Nassau Lionel Operating Engineers Fall and Winter 2018 Open House FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 9: 8-10pm or 1-4pm depending on date WHERE: Nassau Lionel Operating Engineers, 2953 Hempstead Turnpike, Levittown AGES: All WHAT: View authentic model trains, including working models.

WANT TO GO? 516-735-6370. nloe.org.

Santaland FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 24: daily, see website for store hours WHERE: Macy’s, 151 W. 34th St., 8th floor, Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Every holiday season, visitors from around the world gather at the 13,000-square-foot Christmas village for a special visit with Santa Claus.

WANT TO GO? 212-494-4495. macys.com/santaland. ››

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WHEN: Dec. 8-31, see website for schedule WHERE: The Showplace at the Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore AGES: 3-12 WHAT: The popular redhead, Little Orphan Annie, takes center stage in this adaptation of one of the world’s best-loved and most-performed musicals.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Don’t miss Daddy Warbucks, adorable Annie, and the song “Tomorrow!”

WANT TO GO? $12. 516-599-6870. plazatheatrical.com.

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WHAT: Kids can play, relax, socialize, and develop new skills while parents meet with local resource professionals.

WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Speech Services for Toddlers

WHEN: Through Dec. 14: Mondays, 2-3pm; Tuesdays, 9:30-10:30am; Fridays, 9:30-10:30am WHERE: Hofstra University, Joan and Arnold Saltzman Community Services Center, 1000 Fulton Ave., Hempstead AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Through developmentally appropriate play, sensory-based activities, craft, and story time, children develop social communication skills.

WANT TO GO? Call for more appointment and information. 516-463-7042. hofstra.edu/saltzmancenter.

SMARTY PANTS Relationship Repair and Reconnection Workshop

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 3, 7-9pm WHERE: Paul Schreiber High School Adult Education, 101 Campus Drive, Port Washington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Aviva Chansky Guttmann, an advanced imago clinician and certified imago relationship therapist, will offer an interactive workshop demonstrating the key components of Imago Therapy.

WANT TO GO? $35. 516-767-5023. avivachanskyguttmann.com.

Learn How To Draw Anime FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 5, 4:30pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 9-17 WHAT: McKel Supreme of Night & Day Anime Studios will teach stepby-step drawing classes.

WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Italian Classes for Children

WHEN: Dec. 1-8, Saturdays, 10-11am WHERE: Camp Italia, 223 Stewart Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Enjoy drop-in Italian classes.

WANT TO GO? $27.50. 855-226-7481. campitaliausa.org.

Open House FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 11, 7-9pm WHERE: Vincent Smith School, 322 Port Washington Blvd., Port Washington AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Discover how the Vincent Smith School can help your child not just progress in school, but succeed WANT TO GO? 516-365-4900. vincentsmithschool.org.

STEM: Binary Code and Binary Bracelets FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 11, 3:30pm WHERE: Queens Village Library, 94-11 217th St., Queens Village AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn the uses of binary code, such as speaking to a spacecraft, and make a binary bracelet.

WANT TO GO? 718-776-6800. queenslibrary.org.

Parent/Child Workshop FREE

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Sunday Science- Animals in Action!

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 16, 2pm WHERE: Center for Science Teaching and Learning-Tanglewood Preserve, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids will hone in on their animal observation skills, investigating how animals behave, move, and communicate.

WANT TO GO? $14. 516-764-0045. cstl.org.

STEMtastic presents Fantastic Flight FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 27, 11am WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Use trial and error to build and design flying contraptions from roto-copters to gliders to hot air balloons!

WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

STEM Story Time FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 28, 1:30pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Explore scientific concepts through stories and fun experiments!

WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Seashell...Nature’s Inspired Design Exhibition

WHEN: Through Dec. 28: See website WHERE: Garvies Point Museum, 50 Barry Drive, Glen Cove AGES: All WHAT: Join for a exhibit of exquisite seashells from around the world.

WANT TO GO? $4; $2 children 5-12. 516-571-8010. garviespointmuseum.com.

True Colors: Exhibition

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: daily, 10am-4:45pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: The full range of color’s magic is on display in this exuberant show of more than 100 works from the nineteenth-century to today.

WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors/student; $4 children. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

Financial Planning Series: 529 College Savings Program

WHEN: Through Jan. 8, 2019: Tuesdays, 7:30pm WHERE: Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Drive, East Hills AGES: Adult WHAT: Learn how to maintain financial security while balancing the responsibilities of raising children and caring for aging parents.

WANT TO GO? $10. 516-484-1545. sjjcc.org/parenting.

SHOW TIME! The Mavericks

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts at LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 13 and older WHAT: This musical show has a Dance Alert; audience members will be standing, participating, and dancing.

WANT TO GO? $43 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

Chris Young Concert

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 7:30pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Catch the ACM Male Vocalist nominee, Chris Young, on his Losing Sleep 2018 World Tour.

WANT TO GO? $50 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

Adelphi Chorale and Adelphi Vocal Ensemble: Holiday Celebration

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 4pm WHERE: Adelphi University, 1 South Ave., Garden City AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Join in bringing the joy, hope, and wonder of the season to life with both contemporary and classic works.

WANT TO GO? $20. 516-877-4040. adelphi.edu.

Jay And The Americans

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 3pm WHERE: NYCB Theatre At Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: See Jay And The Americans, one of the greatest rock ‘n’ roll vocal groups of the ’60s and ’70s.

WANT TO GO? $49 and up. 516-247-6200. thetheatreatwestbury.com.

Stacey Kent Concert

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 7pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts at LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Hear Stacey Kent, a jazz singer with a host of honors and awards including a Grammy nomination, album sales in excess of 2 million, and Gold, Double-Gold, and Platinum-selling albums.

WANT TO GO? $50. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

Madison Theatre Holiday Spectacular

WHEN: Dec. 15-16, Saturday, 2pm and 7pm; Sunday, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: With new songs and dances mixed in with your favorite holiday tunes, you’ll visit the many wonderful worlds of the holiday season.

WANT TO GO? $35 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

‘Scrooge’

WHEN: Dec. 1-16, Saturday, 11am; Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Showplace at the Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Follow miserly Ebenezer Scrooge as he learns the true spirit of the holidays!

WANT TO GO? $12. 516-783-7200. bellmoremovie.com.

The Magic of Al Garber: Children’s Magic Show FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 27, 2:30pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: All WHAT: Magician Al Garber will keep you laughing and gasping in awe during his exciting magic show.

WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

‘Rudolph’

WHEN: Dec. 1-29, See website for schedule WHERE: BroadHollow at Elmont, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: All WHAT: Excluded by his peers because of his differences, Rudolph proves himself after Santa catches sight of his nose and ask him to lead the sleigh.

WANT TO GO? $11 in advance; $13 at the door. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

ON SCREEN ‘Apollo 13’ FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 10, 6pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: See the film about the NASA program WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Children’s Holiday Movie Showing: ‘Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer’ FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 10, 4:30pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a classic movie showing of Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer with snacks.

WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

‘The Way It Goes: Nathan Slate Joseph’

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Tuesday-Sunday, 1pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 9 and older WHAT: An intimate documentary biography of an artist WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors and students; $4 children. 516-4849337. nassaumuseum.org.

‘Rothko: An Abstract Humanist’

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Tuesday-Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Rothko painted ideas and created a pictorial language.

WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors and students; $4 children. 516-4849337. nassaumuseum.org.

‘Seeing Color’ Documentary

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Tuesday-Sunday, 11am and 3pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Produced for the National Gallery, this HD video explores how painters use color.

WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors and students; $4 children. 516-4849337. nassaumuseum.org. ›› LongIslandParent 25

Teen Paint Night FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 27, 7:30pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Learn about color mixing and acrylic painting techniques.

WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Craft Corner FREE

WHEN: Dec. 1-29, Saturdays, 10am WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Stop by each week to make a craft with a Wantagh buddy.

WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

CRAFTY KIDS

Messy Afternoons

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 3:30pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Obleck, clean mud, slime, and other messy activities.

WANT TO GO? $13; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Sled with Reindeer FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 9am-12pm WHERE: Home Depot, 600 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Build a model sleigh pulled by a reindeer and decorate it.

WANT TO GO? 516-488-8500. homedepot.com.

First Tuesdays FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 4: Tuesdays, 6pm WHERE: IKEA Long Island, 1100 Broadway Mall, Hicksville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Fun arts and crafts and tasty treat decorating.

WANT TO GO? 888-888-4532. ikea.com.

Family p[ART]y ART Event FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 2pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Create an “outer space” canvas painting!

WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

stART: Story + Art

Family Sundays

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Sundays, 1pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Reconnect while talking about and making art together.

WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors and students; $4 children. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

Crafts For Kids FREE

WHEN: Through March 31, 2019: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Lakeshore Learning Store, 2079 Hillside Ave., New Hyde Park AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Kids will have a ball making exciting, educational crafts.

WANT TO GO? 516-616-9360. lakeshorelearning.com.

ONCE UPON A TIME Storytelling by the Fireside ‘Felicity’s Surprise: A Christmas Story’ WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 6, 6pm WHERE: Rock Hall Museum, 199 Broadway, Lawrence AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Listen to the story of the American Girl, Felicity.

WANT TO GO? $5. 516-239-1157. friendsofrockhall.org.

Evening Tot Time

WHEN: Through Dec. 10: Mondays, 6:45pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Children will participate in songs, simple movement, and more.

WANT TO GO? $20. 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Ready, Set, Story Time FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 11: Tuesdays, 10am WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Introduction to literacy through stories, movement, and more WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 13, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Hear Polar Bear Night, a story about a polar bear cub who embarks on a magical nighttime journey WANT TO GO? $17; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Family Preschool Hour FREE

Teens Care: Cards for Kids at Children’s Hospital FREE

Baby Time FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 14, 4pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Make cards and banners for kids in the hospital!

WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

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WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 11, 11am WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy an hour of singing, dancing, storytelling, and crafts.

WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

WHEN: Through Dec. 17: Mondays, 9:30am WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Bring your little one to a morning of stories, songs, and rhymes.

WANT TO GO? 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

DANCE PARTY

MOVERS & SHAKERS

Tchaikovsky’s Nutcracker

Music and Movement

WHEN: Through Dec. 2, Friday, 7:30pm; Saturday, 5pm; Sunday, 4pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: This extravaganza features guest ballet stars of international prestige and talented young dancers from the metropolitan area.

WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 5, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy creative exercises and interactive sing-alongs.

WANT TO GO? $17; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

PlayHooray Kids! FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 12:30pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Music, movement, and fun with our friend Molly Mouse.

WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Dance Adelphi: Le Lien

WHEN: Dec. 1-2, Saturday-Sunday, 7:30pm WHERE: Adelphi University, 1 South Ave., Garden City AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Explore the connection between humans and nature.

WANT TO GO? $25. 516-877-4010. adelphi.edu.

Men’s College Hockey: Colgate vs. Quinnipiac

Zumba with Desiree

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 29, 5pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: See Colgate take on Quinnipiac!

WANT TO GO? $20. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com. ››

WHEN: Through Jan. 10, 2019: Thursdays, 5:30-6:30pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Zumba combines Latin and international music with exercise WANT TO GO? $44. 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

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Swingtime Big Band: Swing In The Holidays!

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Madison Theatre’s 20-piece house band celebrates the holidays with a high-energy performance of seasonal favorites!

WANT TO GO? $35 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

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MUSICIANS Loudon Wainwright III, Suzzy Roche, Lucy Wainwright Roche: All in a Family

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 7pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Three Landmark favorite singer-songwriters return for an evening of thoughtful songs and plenty of familial harmonies.

WANT TO GO? $38 and up. 516-767-1384. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

Boston Pops Esplanade Orchestra: Holiday Pops

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts at LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 9 and older WHAT: A heartwarming performance filled with holiday music favorites, the traditional Pops sing-along, and a visit from Santa Claus!

WANT TO GO? $52 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

Long Island Flute Club Holiday Concert

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 1pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: The Long Island Flute Club performs holiday favorites in the Red Ballroom.

WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children younger than 7. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Adelphi Jazz Ensemble

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 7:30pm WHERE: Adelphi University Performing Arts Center, 1 South Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: The group covers the spectrum from traditional to cuttingedge jazz.

WANT TO GO? $20. 516-877-4000. pac.adelphi.edu.

Dennis DeYoung: The Grand Illusion 40th Anniversary Album Tour

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 8, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts at LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Hear Dennis DeYoung, a founding member of Styx and the lead singer and songwriter on seven of the bands eight Top 10 hits.

WANT TO GO? $42 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

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WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 11, 8pm WHERE: Building Q105, Nassau Community College, 1 Education Drive, Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Join the Singles Association of Long Island when they attend the Nassau Community College Orchestra Concert.

WANT TO GO? $4. 516-465-3953. meetup.com.

Trans-Siberian Orchestra: Ghosts of Christmas Eve

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 20, 7:30pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Trans-Siberian Orchestra has become a critically-acclaimed, multi-platinum, musical powerhouse. Its annual winter tour’s a beloved, multi-generational holiday tradition.

WANT TO GO? $50 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

David Glukh FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 26, 2pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Check out an afternoon of Klezmer, Jazz, and Holiday Classics performed on Glukh’s signature piccolo trumpet accompanied by piano.

WANT TO GO? 516-767-1384. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

Laughin’ Rockin’ New Year’s Eve 2018

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 31, 6pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Enjoy the music and stories of Sinatra and Bennet, played by the great sidemen of the era, plus top notch comedians.

WANT TO GO? See website. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

LITTLE FOODIES Cream Tea and Tour

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 5, 11am WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Enjoy a cream tea, which features scones, clotted cream and jam, and tea, then take a tour with a docents of the Magical Westbury House.

WANT TO GO? $20. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Gingerbread House Workshop

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 5, 7pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Build your own gingerbread house using cookie cutouts, royal icing, and lots of candy.

WANT TO GO? $5. 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Milk and Cookies Night FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 6, 6pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Come spend a night at the library with snacks, crafts, a movie, and your comfiest pajamas.

WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Make Your Own Gingerbread House FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 6, 4pm WHERE: Bellerose Library, 250-06 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Time to decorate the gingerbread house before Christmas so you can give it to your loved ones.

WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org.

Christmas with Mickey and Minnie

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 12-2pm WHERE: M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym - Bellmore, 2629 Grand Ave., Bellmore AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Come join a play date with Christmas Mickey and Minnie.

WANT TO GO? $28 children; $22 siblings. 516- 221-1330. matsskidsgym.com.

Chefs of d’Future: Gingerbread Houses

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 13, 6pm and 7:30pm FREE WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Chef Julie Reilly will be here with all the components of her wonderful gingerbread houses.

WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

End of the Year Christmas Dinner Social

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 15, 6pm WHERE: Domenico’s Pizzeria Ristorante, Levittown Plaza, 3270A Hempstead Turnpike, Levittown AGES: Adult WHAT: The Singles Association of Long Island meets for fun and fellowship.

WANT TO GO? $37. 516-465-3953. meetup.com.

Kids in the Kitchen

WHEN: Dec. 7 -21, Fridays, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Little chefs use real cooking tools (with some help from adults) to make kid-friendly snacks from start to finish.

WANT TO GO? $18; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Winter Holiday Magic

WHEN: Dec. 20-23, Thursday, 5-7pm; Friday, 4-6pm; and Sunday, 12-2pm and 3-5pm WHERE: What’s Cooking?, 30 E. Main St., Oyster Bay AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Children will enjoy a Christmas and Hanukkah menu, make a beautiful Gingerbread House and bake and decorate yummy sugar cookies to take home! Children will also make their own Personal Pizza and Edible Dreidels with hot cocoa too!

WANT TO GO? $49.99. 516-922-2665. whatscookingny.com.

2018 Gingerbread Lane Workshops

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Saturdays-Sundays, and Friday, Dec. 27, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona, Queens AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Each participant will receive a kit with all of the materials to create gingerbread houses and trains.

WANT TO GO? $15. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Holiday Extravaganza FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 6-10pm WHERE: Chamber of Commerce of the Bellmores, 2700 Pettit Ave., Bellmore AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the tree lighting with horse and buggy rides and a trolley ride.

WANT TO GO? 516-809-5892. BellmoreChamber.com.

Tree Lighting and Visit from Santa FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 6pm WHERE: Planting Fields Arboretum, 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live music with Jack Kohl and an outdoor tree lighting!

WANT TO GO? 516-922-8678. plantingfields.org.

Family Animal Show

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 8, 2pm WHERE: Center for Science Teaching and Learning Tanglewood Preserve, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Meet some of the animals face to face.

WANT TO GO? $9. 516-764-0045. cstl.org.

Winter Owl Prowl

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 22, 4pm and 5:30pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: A wildlife expert from Volunteers for Wildlife brings live owls for a meet and greet and later leads the outdoor search.

WANT TO GO? $14; $10 children ages 7-17. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Empire State Market FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 23: Sundays, 8am-4pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: Browse new and collectible goods, including jewelry, apparel, household items, artwork and crafts, and food.

WANT TO GO? 516-231-4848. nycblive.com. ›› LongIslandParent 29

WHAT: The Christmas concert will feature a program of Orthodox and Western hymns and carols.

WANT TO GO? 516-483-3649. htocem.org.

Sensitive Breakfast with Santa Extravaganza (an autism-friendly event)

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 8, 9-11:30 am WHERE: The Mansion at Oyster Bay, 1 S. Woods Road, Woodbury AGES: All WHAT: Check out the free photos with Santa, holiday boutique sale, craft activities, and face painting!

WANT TO GO? $29.99; $19.99 children. 516-937-1397 x1328. eden2.org.

Holiday Carols with the United Methodist Choir FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 2:30pm WHERE: Floral Park Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Ring in some holiday cheer with delightful Christmas carols.

WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Girl Scouts Holiday Concert

HOLIDAY FUN Holiday Tales at the Hearth

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 1-4pm WHERE: Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road, Sands Point AGES: All WHAT: Festive music will play, Santa and Mrs. Claus will visit, and special guest readers will share stories by the fireplace.

WANT TO GO? $20. 516-571-7901. sandspointpreserve.org.

Holiday Gingerbread House

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 5, 6pm WHERE: Wantagh Public Library, 3285 Park Ave., Wantagh AGES: All WHAT: Each family will design their own gingerbread house using candy, icing, and cookies.

WANT TO GO? $10. 516-221-1200. wantaghlibrary.org.

Annual Menorah Lighting FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 5, 6-8pm WHERE: Chamber of Commerce of the Bellmores, 2700 Pettit Ave., Bellmore AGES: All WHAT: Come celebrate the Festival of Lights at the annual menorah lighting.

WANT TO GO? 516-809-5892. BellmoreChamber.com.

It’s Time for Kind: Holiday Cards FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 5, 3:30pm WHERE: Queens Village Library, 94-11 217 St., Queens Village AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Celebrate the holidays by making cards for senior citizens and the homebound as an act of kindness.

WANT TO GO? queenslibrary.org.

Free Christmas Concert FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 8, 7pm WHERE: Holy Trinity Orthodox Church of East Meadow, 369 Green Ave., East Meadow AGES: All 30

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WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 1pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: The Girl Scouts Chorus of Nassau County performs holiday favorites.

WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free children younger than 7. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

A Reading of ‘A Christmas Carol’: Adelphi University Performing Arts FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 15, 2pm WHERE: Cathedral of the Incarnation, 50 Cathedral Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Adelphi brings the Victorian classic to life as it would have been performed in a radio studio in the 1930s. Bring a nonperishable food item to be donated.

WANT TO GO? 516-877-4000. pac.adelphi.edu.

Santa is Coming! FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 15, 1-2:30pm WHERE: The Dolphin Bookshop, 299 Main St., Port Washington AGES: All WHAT: Santa will read a story and have a little treat for every child.

WANT TO GO? 516-767-2650. thedolphinbookshop.com.

Breakfast with Santa

WHEN: Dec. 15-16, Saturday-Sunday, 10am and 12pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1897 Front St., East Meadow AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Families are invited to a special holiday breakfast and photo op with Santa and Wow the Cow. WANT TO GO? $14.99 children 12 and older, $12.99 children 11 and younger. 516-394-9001. stewleonards.com.

Holiday Festival at Coe Hall

WHEN: Dec. 8-16, dates vary, 11am-4pm WHERE: Planting Fields Arboretum, 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: See Santa, get your face painted, and listen to wonderful live music.

WANT TO GO? $10. 516-922-8678. plantingfields.org.

Mail A Letter to Santa... And He’ll Respond! FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 17: daily, 8am-6pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Mail a letter to Santa in the North Pole mailbox at Hicks Nurseries and he will respond!

WANT TO GO? 516-334-0066. HicksNurseries.com.

Winter Wonderland FREE

WHEN: Dec. 16-19, Sunday-Wednesday, 10am WHERE: Clark Botanic Garden, 193 I.U. Willets Road, Albertson AGES: All WHAT: There will be a holiday train exhibit, crafts, and more!

WANT TO GO? 516-484-2208.

‘The Polar Express’ Celebration FREE

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WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 19, 4:30pm WHERE: Mineola Memorial Library, 195 Marcellus Road, Mineola AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy hot cocoa, make a “Believe Bell,” and watch the movie.

WANT TO GO? 516-746-8488. mineolalibrary.info.

Christmas at Westbury House

WHEN: Dec. 2-23, 10am-5pm, see website for dates WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Decorated rooms, Santa, cookies, and cider, for the whole family.

WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors and students; $7 children ages 7-17.

516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Meet Santa In-Person! FREE

Learn more at

hofstra.edu/camp or call 516-463-CAMP.

WHEN: Through Dec. 23: Monday-Friday, 1pm-4pm and 5pm-8pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm and 2pm-6pm.

WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Meet Santa in person!

WANT TO GO? 516-334-0066. HicksNurseries.com.

Children’s Animated Christmas Story FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 24: daily, 8am-6pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Come and see the all-new story titled, “Something Special for Santa.”

WANT TO GO? 516-334-0066. HicksNurseries.com.

Gingerbread Lane

WHEN: Through Jan. 21, 2019: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Homemade houses made of edible gingerbread, icing, and candy.

WANT TO GO? $16 adults; $13 children, students, and senior citizens.

718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Coming up next month: JAN. 10-13, 2019: Disney On Ice Presents Frozen at NYCB LIVE, Home of the Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, Uniondale JAN. 12, 2019: The Very Hungry Caterpillar & Other E. Carle Favorites at Tilles Center, Brookville JAN. 27, 2019: The Whiffenpoofs at Landmark on Main Street, Port Washington

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Happy Holidays! Whether you’re celebrating Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or Christmas, or just enjoying a cozy winter with your loved ones, December is certainly the most wonderful time of the year! Spend some time outside at an ice-skating rink (or inside, too!) and grab a delicious hot cocoa afterward to warm up from the chilly weather. Head out of town to hand cut your Christmas tree. And if the frost and snow of a winter day doesn’t make your heart sing, check out one of our favorite indoor play spaces to beat cabin fever without freezing.

BEST HOT COCOA SPOTS The Cup Coffeehouse 3268 Railroad Ave., Wantagh 516-826-9533; thecupcoffeehouse.com Sunday-Thursday, 6pm-12am; Friday-Saturday, 6pm-2am A Brooklyn-style coffee shop straight out of the 1970s, serves up a variety of hot beverages, such as mocha cocoa, hot chocolates, gingerbread lattes, and specialty teas. If you want it cold, try the frozen hot chocolate or an ice cream frappe. Also serves pies, desserts, hot fudge sundaes, and classic diner snacks such as spicy fries, nachos, and flatbread sandwiches.

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CUT-YOUR-OWN CHRISTMAS TREE Shamrock Christmas Tree Farm 20685 Main Road, Mattituck 631-298-4619 or 631-298-4118; shamrockchristmastreefarm.com Hours: Nov. 23-Dec. 24, daily, 9am-5pm Tools and assistance provided. Pre-cut trees, handmade wreaths, and crafts also available. Santa appearances on weekends, 12-5pm.

Shamrock Express train rides (weather permitting) and a fire pit to enjoy while you’re waiting for your ride. Ornaments, nutcrackers, tree toppers, and more available in the gift shop. No pets allowed.

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INDOOR PLAYSPACES Bounce U Oceanside 3495 Lawson Blvd., Oceanside 516-593-5867; bounceu.com/oceanside-ny There are bouncy houses galore at this indoor play space. Open bounce is offered, as well as family night and preschool events for littler ones.

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ICE-SKATING Grant Park Skating Rink Broadway and Sheridan Avenue, Hewlett 516-571-7821; nassaucountyny.gov/parks Hours: Through mid-March: Monday-Tuesday, 1:15-3pm; Wednesday-Thursday, 10:30am-12:30pm and 1:15-3:15pm; Friday, 1:15-3:15pm, 4-6pm, and 7-9pm; Saturday, 10:30am12:30pm, 1:15pm-3:15pm, 4-9pm, and 7-9pm; Sunday, 10:30am-12:30pm, 1:15-3:15pm, and 4-6pm.

Price: $22; $15 children. With Leisure Pass: $8; $6 children (children ages 12 and younger must be accompanied by an adult); $4 seniors. Skate rental: $5.

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The Pros and Cons of Elf on the Shelf ›› The little guy has sparked some big controversy! Which side of the shelf are you on? By Anja Webb

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appy holidays! Many of you who celebrate Christmas have already unpacked your Elf on the Shelf and begun plotting the hijinks your little guy will get into for the ’gram. But is Elf on the Shelf really for everyone?

While he’s loved by many, there are those who find the steelyeyed sprite manipulative or even—dare we say?—creepy. Let’s take a moment to think about the pros and cons of Santa’s little spy.

A Cute and Cherished Tradition

Now don’t get us wrong: We can see the value in creating a holiday tradition for your household. And, of course, we’ve all seen the pictures on social media of the little cuties bathing in marshmallow baths, sleeping in tissue boxes, and playing mini games of Twister with My Little Pony. A lot of families think their elf adds that extra dash of Christmas magic to their holiday season.

“My kids absolutely love it! It’s such a fun experience for them in preparation for Christmas,” says Antoinette McCune, a mother of three. “It’s also a fun, and sometimes stressful, game for us as parents to try and think of new ways to hide our little elf.”

And let’s not forget that the elf encourages kids to be on their best behavior during the month of December, which can certainly make parenting a little bit easier. “My son loves it! It works to remind him that Santa is watching if he is being good,” says Frank Martinez, a father of two. After all, a big part of the Santa lore is that ‘he sees you when you’re sleeping,’ whether that be through good old-fashioned omniscience or a scout elf.

(S)elfish Motives?

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his parents misplaced it. The parents didn’t think anything of it, but every day after school he would come home and search the whole house for his elf. After seeing it wasn’t there, he assumed he was disliked by the elf,” says Sadie Sparks. “Trying to instill positive morals on a child by tricking them also seems very counterproductive to society.”

Though it may seem a bit harsh, others also feel it’s selfinterested for parents to use the Elf to teach morals. And, they add, it’s an approach that may backfire: The concept of being constantly under surveillance could scare the child or teach him that he should only behave when there is some tangible benefit to him, like getting presents.

“It really depends on the level of trust in the parent-child relationship. I definitely valued my privacy and my mom respected it to a degree,” says Brandon Klemm, a chef and pizza maker who grew up with the elf. “I don’t know how I feel about kids being afraid of being themselves because they believe they’re being watched at all times.” Now, that’s not entirely the Elf ’s fault; as previously mentioned, legend has it that Santa’s constantly watching kids. But something about having that abstract concept materialized and in the home doesn’t quite sit well with everyone.

A Less Invasive Elf

So what can we parents do if we still want a snazzy little add-on to our holiday celebrations, but one that doesn’t instill in our child a fear of being watched at all times? Well, we could try repurposing our Elf on the Shelf.

“I had an alternate version in my house growing up. It was called the Kindness Elf and my mom did a pretty good job of

making it a positive thing,” says Lauren Farrell, a student at New York University. “It was generally kept in public spaces within the house and every day I had to find the elf and it was always holding a different card that challenged me to do something kind for someone that day.”

Elf Alternative

If the elf doesn’t quite match your aesthetic (even though felt is so in right now) you can always give Reindeer in Here a chance: It’s a plush toy children are meant to bond with during the month of December. It’s similar to the elf, except children can touch and play with it, and its purpose is to listen to what the child really wants for Christmas and then inform Santa. “It’s not about watching a child, or intimidating a child,” says Adam Reed, an author, television producer, and creator of Reindeer in Here. “It’s about empowering and creating a positive Christmas tradition that families can look back to.”

Reindeer in Here is also designed with one antler shorter than the other and has a companion book that features a cast of sidekicks with visible differences, such as a cross-eyed penguin and a polar bear with a bit of a bald patch. “The true message is being different is normal, not being different is special,” Reed says. “This book is about getting to the heart of why each child is unique and different and finding what their true Christmas wishes are.”

Make Room for a Mensch

But let’s not forget that the holiday season is more than just Christmas. For all you guys and gals who celebrate Hanukkah, there’s a Mensch on the Bench—a Jewish man sitting on a bench—just for you. “It’s tough to be Jewish during the month of December. There’s Christmas music on every radio, and there’s decorations up, and all your friends have trees. You’re already feeling a little left out, and then Elf on the Shelf comes along and now we’re seeing that on social media as well,” says Neal Hoffman, creator of Mensch on a Bench. “There was an opportunity for what would be a Jewish alternative.”

Enter the Mensch (which translated literally means a person of integrity and honor). It’s a plush toy that watches over the menorah at night and encourages more family time and engagement with pre-existing Hanukkah traditions such as playing dreidel and eating latkes (potato pancakes) and gelt (chocolate coins).

The Mensch also places an emphasis on charity and doing good, as the name would imply. “Mensches encourage kids to do one good deed,” Hoffman says. “One of the rules for having a mensch is that on one night of Hanukkah you give presents to someone in need rather than get presents yourself.”

Whether you love your elf (or mensch) or wish it would just stop staring at you, here’s to a happy and wholesome holiday season with your family.

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How to Save Money on Holiday Shopping

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You don’t have to go into debt to buy great gifts for everyone on your list! These tips will help you stick to your budget while snagging real bargains. By Denise Porretto

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t’s that time of year again, when gifts and toys are delivered free of charge to your living room, pre-wrapped and labeled, making every family member’s dreams come true. All you need to do is leave out a few cookies.

If only it were so.

In reality, holiday prep plays out more like this: You overpay for the popular toys your kids want. Giftwrap is surprisingly expensive— newspaper, anyone? In exasperation, you eat all the cookies.

Holiday shopping is difficult, but don’t lose hope. There are plenty of ways to save money. We’ve spoken to some experts who know just how you can control your seasonal spending; read on for their smart advice.

each name and stick to it!” says Rachel Cruze, New York Times best-selling co-author, with her dad Dave Ramsey, of Smart Money Smart Kids. Download a free budgeting app such as EveryDollar, which has interactive visuals and goal-planning features. Another handy app, one for your phone, is Santa’s Bag. It includes holiday-specific features such as the ability to import receipts, plan budgets, create shopping lists, locate gifts, and track shopping progress.

Pre-Shopping Strategies

Locate any unused gift cards you have. You can spend them to buy holiday gifts, food, and décor, or sell them at a gift card exchange site such as Cardpool.com or Raise.com for some ready cash. (If you’re looking for gift cards, you can also purchase them on these sites at a percentage off face value.)

Create a list and a budget. “As you write down the names of everyone that you have to buy for, put a dollar amount next to

Sign up for cash-back sites that give you a rebate—typically 2-5 percent—on just about anything you buy online. Popular sites include Ebates.com, Shopathome.com, Mrrebates.com, and TopCashback.com. They work very simply: You go to the

Before you set foot in a brick-and-mortar store or click the “purchase” button, do the following:

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cash-back site and locate the store you want to shop. Then you purchase your desired item to earn your rebate, which can be paid to you in a variety of ways. Ebates, for example, will send you your accumulated rebate every quarter in the form of a check, a PayPal deposit, or, in some instances, as a digital gift card.

Collect coupons. Many consumers think coupons are relics from the past. Not so; they’ve just gone digital. So put down those scissors and go online. Some well-trafficked coupon sites include Coupons.com, TheKrazyCouponLady.com, RetailMeNot.com, and CouponSherpa. com. Most of the sites offer coupons that can be used in a physical or digital store. Additionally, Honey is a browser extension that will automatically apply all coupon codes available to find the one that will save you the most money at select online retailers.

Sign up with online stores, “like” their Facebook page, or follow them on Twitter, so you can be alerted to upcoming sales and promotions. You may end up getting an enormous amount of emails, but if you’re patient enough you may find what you’re looking for at a great price, and sometimes with free shipping too.

While You’re Shopping

Now that you’ve planned and are ready to stock up on gifts, remember to: Track the rise and fall of prices. It’s difficult to pin down an item’s price during the hectic holidays; even Amazon changes the prices of individual items frequently. The site CamelCamelCamel.com is designed for shopping on Amazon—it generates alerts based on price and availability, so you can be notified when the price for a desired item drops to a predetermined point. In addition, the site has price history charts for more than 18 million Amazon items.

Be cyber-cart smart. One way you can potentially score coupons to an online store is by providing your email address and adding merchandise to your cart—and then abandoning it. This may trigger an automated coupon to be delivered to your inbox. You may have been willing to purchase the items at full price, but by waiting a couple of days, you can buy your merchandise at 10-20 percent off.

Harness the power of price-matching apps. Whether you’re shopping online or at the mall, you can use a price-matching app to compare prices. The Flipp app brings up flyers from other stores, so you can easily determine where to find the best bargains. If the app shows a better price for an item at another store, you can show the cashier proof. (Many big box stores will match a lower price for the same item.) With Earny, your credit card and email link to the app so your past purchases can be tracked.

If you’re eligible for a price adjustment you can get the money back automatically. Finally, InvisibleHand is a browser extension that notifies you if the product you’re shopping for is available for less from another retailer. A convenient button links you to the relevant page on the competing website.

Come to stores prepared to crunch numbers. If you’re headed to a brick-and-mortar shop, have a calculator available so you can figure out the exact price of an item, including any discounts and sales tax. (You may lose the ability to do calculations in your head when you’re tired and the store is crowded).

Bring cold, hard cash. “You actually spend less when you use cash,” Cruze explains. “Cash is emotional. You feel it when you pay with tangible currency. You don’t get that same sensation when you

swipe a piece of plastic. Also, you’ll be less anxious when you use cash because you know to stop spending when the money runs out.

Even if you can’t buy everything you want, you’ll still feel relieved about not having to make a payment in the new year!”

Don’t overlook off-peak shopping times. After the big sale days are over, try either shopping online on Tuesdays, as cyber retailers tend to offer their best deals on that day, or at brick-and-mortar stores in the evenings. Some retailers may have the next day’s early-morning sales already in effect, saving you from having to rise at the crack of dawn.

Look for last-minute steals. For all the procrastinators out there, you may even do well shopping late in the season. Some of the best deals arrive the week before Christmas, according to the New York Times.

Outsmart the shopping environment. Sure, you love stores’ holiday music and ambience—but they’re up to no good. Studies have shown that Christmas songs evoke nostalgia and generosity, leading to larger purchases, explains Mari Corella, a retail specialist who has worked for major retailers such as Sears and Saks Fifth Avenue. The same is true of scent. “During the holidays, stores often smell of gingerbread and pine, invoking a sense of warmth,” she says, leading to—yep—more spending. Some experts recommend wearing headphones with soothing music playing to calm you during the stress of shopping. (Can you guess what stress leads to?)

Even the placement of products is designed to make you spend more. Brands pay to have their items on the end of the aisles or at eye level, Corella shares: “The cost of this additional exposure is added to the cost of the product.” She recommends browsing the entire section to make sure you’re getting the best price.

Think out of the (gift) box. Not everything you buy has to be expensive or from a popular retailer. Consider shopping at thrift shops for vintage items, or gathering the family together to make DIY gifts, such as personalized stationery for the grandparents. Something handmade, and from the heart, is priceless—in every sense of the word.

Denise Porretto is a freelance writer living in Princeton, NJ.

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Experts suggest teens volunteer to get involved with the community and broaden their view of the world around them.

How to Raise A World-Aware Teen ›› Your child’s now old enough to grasp global issues—and to change the planet for the better, too. By Allison Ingrum

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very few minutes our phones light up with the latest news alert. From social issues to politics, there seems to be a constant flow of news cycling from around the globe. Being world-aware means understanding these issues and educating yourself about what is going on outside of yourself, your home, and your immediate neighborhood. For your teen, it also means realizing there is a world outside the latest video game or most recent post on Instagram.

It isn’t always easy for your child to look beyond the bubble he exists in, though. A variety of things, from the technology that surrounds him to your own protective parenting style, can make it difficult. But with a little guidance from you, your teen can get on track to becoming a global citizen. It will benefit him, and the whole world, in the long run.

Big Kids, Big Ideas

We constantly hear that children are most likely to take risks when they’re in their teens. Sure, this can lead to accidents. But their risk-taking can also be a positive thing, putting them on the path to innovation, says Teodora Pavkovic, a parenting coach with a master’s degree in clinical psychology.

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are just naturally very inquisitive, innovative. They have ideas all of the time. They want to try things out. I think they can probably help us figure things out more than we can do on our own.”

The teenage years are also a time of self-exploration, and being world-aware aids a teen in figuring out her own identity, says Sophie Stoyadinovich, M.D., a life coach at Nobel Coaching, an online coaching and tutoring platform. Your teen should have as much information as possible to see where her particular interests lie and what kinds of problems she may like to solve. In fact, being world-aware might completely alter her direction in life.

What’s Blocking Your Teen’s Worldview?

While it’s only natural to feel protective of your child, being a helicopter parent can cause more harm than good. “[Kids] could get so comfortable that they become fearful of doing anything outside of their comfort zone, or you will have the flip side when they become very rebellious at some point, and you don’t want either one,” Pavkovic says.

Technology can act as the other main roadblock that keeps children from being world-aware, she adds. While our devices give us access to almost any information we may need, a passive use of technology (such as scrolling through social media) has the potential to draw people into themselves in a negative way, she explains.

Along with this comes a lack of critical-thinking skills. “We take our view of the world from the media, from the news...and from the things that elicit the click response,” says Andrew Sachs, CEO of Nobel Coaching. “That is a… severely distorted version.”

Instead, parents should teach children of all ages to have a critical eye toward the information they take in. “They will be on social media. They will read things and they will see things on TV. I think it is always good to keep that conversation going about what they think, why they think so, how accurate they think it is, and whether they have any other sources for that,” Stoyadinovich says.

Teaching Your Child to Think Global

While your child can grow up to be world-aware on his own, this is rarely the case. We humans have an instinctive tribal nature.

While this tribalism served a great purpose when humans were pack animals, now it is simply a fear that holds us back from interacting with people and places that are different, Sachs explains. It takes a team of parents and teachers to coax a child into becoming more world-aware. Try these steps: Start simple. Talk about current events around the dinner table. These stress-free, no-pressure conversations foster an environment in which your child can speak her mind. Listen to what she is passionate about and try to incorporate that into the conversations.

Pair your child with a pal from another place. When your teen tries to learn a language, connect her with a student in another country who speaks the language fluently. In the process of helping each other learn, they will hear about each other’s daily life. Even if it’s only an online call or chat, it is an immersive experience.

Volunteer. It’s an easy yet effective way to get your child involved with the surrounding community, explains Zelda Warner, president of the Volunteer Referral Center. And it’s a two-way street: As your child helps someone, that person simultaneously impacts his life by opening his eyes and allowing him to see the world through a new lens. He will learn to appreciate those differences, and also see how lucky he is to live the life he leads.

Travel. If you can, take a family vacation to another country or give your child the opportunity to participate in a studentexchange program. And do so as soon as you are able; the sooner you travel, the earlier your child’s brain begins to expand, Sachs says. “They are able to see the world for what it is, and they are not constrained by the little bubble. A lot of us exist in a bubble,” he explains. “Having that kind of opportunity to connect with real people I think can drastically change your view on the countries they are from and the rest of the world.”

Likewise, even short cruises or camps expose children to others from around the country, or possibly the world, who will share experiences and stories. Dan Appleman, author of Developing Teen Leadership, suggests enrolling your child in a summer camp outside of her comfort zone. Send an athlete to theater camp or a musician to art camp. Send your teen to an overnight camp farther from home. These small changes will allow your child to meet peers with different backgrounds and experiences.

Take a cultural field trip to NYC. Not up for international travel right now? You don’t have to venture far from home to help your child become more world-aware. Luckily, here in the New York area, we have the luxury of being surrounded by many different cultures and people from diverse backgrounds.

A train ride will take you to Chinatown with Little Italy one block away. Talk to your child about these cultures and eat at authentic restaurants. You can also take him to one of the

many museums around New York. No matter what you do, this engaging experience will ignite his brain and get him thinking outside of his home.

Model world-aware behaviors. Ultimately, remember your children are both mirrors and sponges, Pavkovic says—they reflect your behavior and absorb lessons from your actions. Whether you want your kids to use technology less, spend more time outdoors, or speak more kindly, you must do the same.

Appleman seconds this sentiment, recalling parents he knows who bring their children to protests. “Have them be world-aware and have them involved in your life. Yes, there are other things one can do in providing guidance, but there is nothing like setting an example,” he says.

This being said, “we need to take into account that the older your child is, the less they are under your influence. If they are seven, yes, obviously you are their greatest role model and you are the best,” Stoyadinovich says. “But as they grow older, their peers become that for them…Your direct influence, I think, at that point gets a little bit smaller and you need to lean more toward consulting with them and providing them with opportunities rather than instructing them and pushing them to do something.”

Look at what the students of Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School have done in Parkland, FL to raise awareness of gun violence. When one teen is world-aware and a leader, others will follow. In that case, millions from all over the world already have.

At this rate, world-aware teens will be the ones to create a worldaware society.

Allison Ingrum, a former NYMP editorial intern, is a junior at Syracuse University.

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LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

FOSTER CARE & ADOPTION BERKSHIRE FARM CENTER AND SERVICES FOR YOUTH

535 Broad Hollow Road, Suite B30, Melville 631-420-4444 berkshirefarm.org

Berkshire Farm Center & Services for Youth helps children find safety and comfort in the homes of foster parents. Become a foster parent and give the gift of family!

LICE TAMERS, INC.

900 Walt Whitman Road, Suite LL2, Melville 877-237-LICE (5423) licetamers.com licetamers@gmail.com

Lice Tamers offers same-day lice treatment and head checks at our comfortable, child-friendly treatment center or in the comfort of your home. All of our products are safe and nontoxic.

SPECIAL NEEDS LEGAL SERVICES ANDREW COHEN, ESQ., LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW M. COHEN

250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com

The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen can help you achieve your objectives through careful special needs legal planning, regardless of the size of your estate. All clients are provided with high quality service at a reasonable cost.

LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C.

534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com

Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law.

LICE FAIRY LICEMOTHERS

2463 S. Long Beach Road, Oceanside 866-561-0492 1755 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 866-561-0492 679 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Head 866-561-0492 fairylicemothers.com fairylicemothers@gmail.com

Our treatment centers are kid-friendly and our products are 100 percent non-toxic. Treatments include two free re-checks.

Whether or not you use our service, we are here to help you.

LICE CLINICS OF AMERICA - LONG ISLAND

47 Jackson Ave., Syosset 566 Merrick Road, Rockville Centre 516-336-4099 liceclinicslongisland.com

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ANDREW COHEN, ESQ., LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW M. COHEN 250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen can help you achieve your objectives through careful special needs legal planning, regardless of the size of your estate. All clients are provided with high quality service at a reasonable cost.

DR. STEVE IMBER, PSYCHOEDUCATIONAL CONSULTANTS Serving Nassau and Suffolk counties as well as the five boroughs of NYC 61-43 186th St., Fresh Meadows 516-273-1961 Sprout Building 166 Valley St., Providence, RI 401-421-4004 dr-imber.com scimber1@aol.com Dr. Imber has more than 40 years of experience consulting, evaluating, and advocating for children, adolescents, and adults with various disabilities including autism (e.g. Asperger’s syndrome), attention deficit disorders, intellectual disabilities, emotional and behavioral disorders, and learning disabilities.

LIFE’S WORC THE FAMILY CENTER FOR AUTISM 1501 Franklin Ave., Garden City 516-741-9000 familycenterforautism.org The Family Center for Autism provides services and support for people with autism and their families. Programs include insurance services, birthday parties, art, music, sports and culinary classes, camps, parent and sibling programs, social events, vocational programs, and behavior intervention.

LITTLE OPTICS, INC. 192-07 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 53-15 Roosevelt Ave., Woodside 718-468-7500 Hablamos Español. littleopticsinc@yahoo.com We provide eyeglasses and professional eye care for children, including infants, and young adults. We also alleviate any

self-esteem issues associated with the stigma of wearing glasses. When your child leaves Little Optics, rest assured that they will feel confident.

programs for ages 3-14. Whether the immediate goal is early learning, remedial education, or academic advancement, Eye Level is the answer.

LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-6896858 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

MATHNASIUM LEARNING CENTERS Five Towns 414 Central Ave., Cedarhurst 516-569-1500 Great Neck 11 Great Neck Road, Great Neck 516-482-MATH (6284) Lynbrook 381 Sunrise Highway, Lynbrook 516-881-7997 New Hyde Park 810 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park 516-616-MATH (6284) Roslyn 217A Mineola Ave., Roslyn Heights 516-484-MATH (6284) mathnasium.com Students go to Mathnasium year-round to catch up, keep up, and get ahead in math.

Our instructional approach goes beyond traditional math tutoring to develop understanding and build a love for math.

LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C. 534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law.

STEPS TO SOCIALIZATION 13 S. Bayles Ave., Port Washington 516-767-0266 Steps to Socialization was created to help children who have difficulty socializing. We teach children how to think socially, step by step. Working in small groups, we cover a variety of topics, including how to establish and maintain friendships and initiating and maintaining conversations.

THERAPY & COUNSELORS AVIVA CHANSKY GUTTMANN, L.M.S.W., C.I.R.T. 631-885-4375 avivachanskyguttmann.com helpconnectingus@gmail.com Aviva Chansky Guttmann is a certified imago relationship therapist offering home-based therapy for couples, partners, and families.

Flexible scheduling and large travel radius.

TUTORS & TEST PREP EYE LEVEL NASSAU Eye Level Hicksville 760 S. Broadway, Hicksville 516-597 5300, Eye Level Williston Park 61 Hillside Ave., Williston Park 516-747-7700 Eye Level New Hyde Park 1 Jericho Turnpike 516-775-1000 myeyelevel.com Eye Level offers math and English

SYLVAN LEARNING CENTERS OF MINEOLA AND HUNTINGTON 393 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola 516-743-9943 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 sylvanlearning.com sylvanlearning@optonline.net Sylvan of Mineola and Huntington offers personalized tutoring programs in reading, writing, mathematics, SAT and ACT prep. Sylvan will help identify the right program for your child and exactly where your child needs to start to get the best results.

TAS NEW YORK – THEORY OF ARTS AND SCIENCES 153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 1-888-827-8188 tasnewyork.com Here education matters. The No. 1 learning center in New York. We offer after-school programs, private and group tutoring, kids and adult art classes, computer coding, SAT and ACT prep, Create and Meditate sessions, and summer camp!

VILLAGE EAST GIFTED - ENRICHMENT CENTER FOR THE GIFTED LEARNER Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted provides after-school enrichment and private tutoring for gifted and talented students. We are a designated John Hopkins CTY and SAT testing center.

OPEN HOUSES 2018 Beth Sholom Day Camp

401 Roslyn Road, Roslyn Heights 516-621-9257 bethsholomdaycamp.com Come see what everyone is talking about on Sunday, Dec. 9 from 10am-1pm. BSDC is a summer camp for children ages 3-15 serving Nassau and Queens.

Green Vale School

250 Valentine’s Lane, Old Brookville 516-621-2420 greenvaleschool.org Join us for an open house Jan. 24 at 9am. Visit greenvaleschool.org to RSVP.

Smithtown Christian School

1 Higbie Drive, Smithtown 631-265-3334 learnwithscs.org Join us at our open house in January; call us for details. See what makes SCS stand apart from the rest. Take a tour of our school and meet our directors.

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts 185 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights 631-643-7900

usdan.org Join us for an open house Sundays, Jan. 13 and 27. The campus is yours to visit and explore. Receive a chance to “spin to win” a tuition discount.

Register at usdan.org/visit.

Vincent Smith School

322 Port Washington Blvd., Port Washington 516-365-4900 vincentsmithschool.org Tour our beautiful four-acre campus in Port Washington on Dec. 11 from 7-9pm. Learn about our small, personalized classes for students grades first to 12th with dyslexia, ASD, ADHD, anxiety, or other learning issues.

Winston Preparatory School

30 Deforest Road, Dix Hills 212-719-5598 x2213 winstonprep.edu/our-campuses/li liadmissions@winstonprep.edu Winston Prep is a highly individualized setting for third to 12th grade students with specific learning differences. Open house: Thursday, Dec. 6 at 9:15am and Thursday, Jan. 10 at 9:15am.

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PartyCentral PARTY ENTERTAINMENT CLOWNS.COM

Proudly serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000, 718-971-5862 clowns.com We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.

LEGENDARY ENTERTAINMENT

Serving Nassau and Suffolk counties 631-680-8453 legendaryentertainmentny.com Legendary Entertainment offers DJs, emcees, karaoke, more than 100 characters, a photo booth, magic shows, party machine rentals, and theme parties.

PARTY PLACES @ PLAY AMUSEMENTS

229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com Have your next party at the newly renovated @ Play Amusements! It offers 40,000 square feet of fun ranging from 92 arcade games, inflatables, bumper cars, a roller coaster, a carousel, a disco room, and laser tag!

AS YOU WISH PARTIES

418A Bedford Ave., Bellmore 516-590-7878 asyouwishparties.org As You Wish Parties will make your child’s party dreams come true. Themes include Pretty Princess, Knightly Knights, Traditional Tea, PJ Party, Rock Star and Superheroes, Dessert Party, or Kids Canvas Painting.

BACH TO ROCK MUSIC SCHOOL

1015 Port Washington Blvd., Port Washington 516-441-5526 portwashington.bachtorock.com portwashington@bachtorock.com Be a star at B2R! At Bach To Rock music school, our parties will have everyone recording in a state-of-the-art studio with pro engineers. Choose from current pop and classic rock tunes, then sing on the main stage and enjoy pizza and cake!

BE THE BEST SPORT

30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-453-0990 bethebestsport.org info@bethebestsport.org Be The Best Sport provides sport birthday parties for children with special needs.

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BOUNCEU FARMINGDALE

101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com BounceU Farmingdale was voted “Best of Long Island” for Children’s Party Place and Family Amusement Center. We provide the ideal combination of inflatable structures, a clean environment, incredible customer service, and non-stop excitement in a private party atmosphere.

CELEBRATIONS IN THE KITCHEN

63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event!

We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy, including sugar cookie baking, all about pizza, cupcakes from scratch, doughnuts, and chocolate and candy projects.

Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen. com for more information on parties.

COLD SPRING HARBOR FISH HATCHERY & AQUARIUM

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfha.org steved@cshfha.org Celebrate your child’s next birthday at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium! See the Hatchery & Aquarium’s exciting live exhibits. Feed the hungry trout and learn about fish, reptiles, and amphibians with an up-close animal encounter.

GREAT PLAY OF SYOSSET

180 Michael Drive, Syosset 516-364-1500 greatplay.com/syosset info@syosset.greatplay.com We offer customized parties for ages 1-10.

Your guests will have a blast and your child will receive all-star treatment in our amazing Interactive Gym™.

HUNTINGTON CENTER FOR PERFORMING ARTS

310 New York Ave., Huntington 631-271-4626 huntingtoncenteronline.com huntingtoncenter@yahoo.com Make your child’s birthday a memorable and creative event with our dance-themed birthday parties. As a special treat, a guest artist will come in costume to perform for your guests!

INTREPID SEA, AIR & SPACE MUSEUM

Pier 86, West 46th Street and Twelfth Avenue, Manhattan 646-381-5010

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intrepidmuseum.org groupsales@intrepidmuseum.org Celebrate your child’s birthday with a one-ofa-kind party! The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum will captivate groups of all ages and interests. Choose from exciting themes, value packages, and customization options to create a birthday adventure they’ll remember forever!

KEY TO MY ART, INC.

10 W. Oak St., Amityville 131 Main St., East Rockaway 877-539-2278 keytomyart.com At Key to My Art, our children’s paint parties include all supplies from aprons to easels. The guest of honor picks the theme, we provide the instruction, and each guest leaves with a finished painting!

THE LANYARD LADIES

433 Merrick Road, Oceanside 516-578-2248 thelanyardladies.com info@thelanyardladies.com The Lanyard Ladies friendship bracelet and lanyard birthday parties bring the party to you, or you can come to their brand-new party place! Many amazing themes and packages to choose from.

THE LITTLE LADIES CLUB

246 W. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-939-CLUB (2582) thelittleladiesclub.com party@thelittleladiesclub.com The Little Ladies Club has been providing glamorous makeover parties for girls since 1998! Her Majesty will be sure to receive the royal treatment!

LONG ISLAND AQUARIUM

431 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-208-9200 xH20 (426), 631-208-9200x125 longislandaquarium.com Have your child’s birthday party at the Long Island Aquarium. Party options include a choice of private rooms, select food items, and an ice cream cake. All parties get a guided tour, special seating at the Sea Lion Show, and rides on the submarine simulator!

M.A.T.S.S. KID’S GYM & EARLY CHILDCARE EDUCATION CENTER

A Rainbow Of Programs Under One Roof!

2629 Grand Ave., Bellmore 516-221-1330 171 Eileen Way, Syosset 516-496-7765 matsskidsgym.com corporate@matsskidsgym.com M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym offers a rainbow of themes and activities that will make your child’s next birthday party the ultimate celebration of their special day!

MY GYM CHILDREN’S FITNESS CENTER

1320 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook 631-751-KIDS (5437)

mygym.com/stonybrook 128 W. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington Station 631-427-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/huntingtonstation My Gym parties include exclusive use of the gym, including a zip line, rock wall, trampoline, trapeze, climbing structures, and slides. Instructors lead your guests through action-packed activities with theme options including Superheroes, Princesses, Mickey Mouse; any theme you want.

NOT JUST ART

183 South St., Oyster Bay 516-922-8300 notjustart.com create@notjust art.com Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and beyond. Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard.

SKY ZONE TRAMPOLINE PARK-DEER PARK 111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park

631-392-2600 skyzone.com/deerpark deerparkinfo@skyzone.com The best birthday parties are at Sky Zone, Deer Park. We customize every birthday party.

We have themed parties and super hero parties that include Dodgeball, Foam Zone, Sky Slam, and endless jumping opportunities!

TAS NEW YORK – THEORY OF ARTS AND SCIENCES 153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 1-888-827-8188 tasnewyork.com The Theory of Arts & Sciences (TAS) birthday packages include all you need for a two-hour guided paint or arts and crafts party. We also offer special add-ons including face painting, henna, and custom invitations.

THOMAS SCHOOL OF HORSEMANSHIP RIDING ACADEMY

250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com tsh@tshcamp.com Birthday parties, scout parties, and class trips are always a blast at the Thomas School of Horsemanship. For groups of 14-18 children.

They receive one hour of riding time.

UNLIMITED SPORTS ACTION

30 Beechwood Ave., Port Washington 516-767-7675 unlimitedsportsaction.com info@unlimitedsportsaction.com Unlimited Sports Action offers sports birthdays for ages 2 and older. Our parties offer one hour of sports and activities on a climate-controlled turf field, followed by 30 minutes of food, drinks, and birthday cake in a private room.

Academic Enrichment Lynbrook 381 Sunrise Highway, Lynbrook 516-881-7997 New Hyde Park 810 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park 516-616-MATH (6284) Roslyn 217A Mineola Ave., Roslyn Heights 516-484-MATH (6284) mathnasium.com Mathnasium Learning Centers, the nation’s leading math-only learning center franchise with centers throughout Nassau County, specializes in teaching kids of all ages math in a way that makes sense to them. Students go to Mathnasium year-round to catch up, keep up, and get ahead in math. Our experienced math tutors utilize our proprietary teaching materials and techniques, The Mathnasium Method™, to deliver a customized learning plan designed to address each student’s needs. Our instructional approach goes beyond traditional math tutoring to develop understanding and build a love for math.

Sylvan Learning Centers of Mineola and Huntington 393 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola 516-743-9943 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 sylvanlearning.com; sylvanlearning@optonline.net Every child’s learning plan is unique! At Sylvan students are posed with challenges that are tailored to their specific skill set, mixing the best

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Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com; info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted® (VEG) is a rigorous and creative academic enrichment program for gifted students ages 2-16 open seven days a week. Its CORE curriculum includes Latin, writing and grammar, geography, global studies, STEAM, mathematics, living science, SAT/ACT vocabulary enrichment, advanced study skills, and creative problem solving. A gifted pre-K/Kindergarten program (ages 4-5) is offered during the day and after-school as well as a day program for ages 2-4.

All enrolled students have placed in the 90th percentile or higher on national tests with IQ scores between 130 and 150.

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Five Towns 414 Central Ave., Cedarhurst 516-569-1500 Great Neck 11 Great Neck Road, Great Neck 516-482-MATH (6284)

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in teaching and technology, ensuring your child gets just what he or she needs. Advanced topics in math, enhancing writing skills, and learning how to interact with text on a higher level are just some of our many enriching opportunities. Robotics and coding programs are also fun enrichment activities to enhance your child’s after-school routine. Our team of college-readiness experts help teens with personalized SAT and ACT test prep.

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Eye Level Hicksville 760 S. Broadway, Hicksville 516-597 5300 Eye Level Williston Park 61 Hillside Ave., Williston Park 516-747-7700 Eye Level New Hyde Park 1 Jericho Turnpike, New Hyde Park 516-775-1000 myeyelevel.com Many parents today are facing educational challenges and looking for answers to help their children succeed academically. Whether the immediate goal is early learning, remedial education, or academic advancement, Eye Level is the answer. Eye Level offers math and English programs for ages 3-14. Our instructors tailor a curriculum by understanding the learning abilities of the student. With ongoing guidance, each student will set attainable goals and learn at a comfortable pace. With each success, the student grows more self-confident, self-motivated, and self-directed in the quest for knowledge.

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Health Care Professional Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry 959 Brush Hollow Road, Suite #101, Westbury 516-333-3033 pediatricdentistlongislandny.com kidsteethli@gmail.com

Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry cares for all of your child’s oral health needs in a fun, kid-friendly environment that includes iPads and chairside TV monitors. Drs. Ehrenman and Khan are dedicated and trained to ease dental anxieties for young children as well as patients with special needs.

Their years of advanced training include hospital and sedation dentistry.

Please visit kidsteeth4li.com to learn more about what Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry has to offer!

Mesbah OB-GYN Women’s Health Care & Wellness 877 Stewart Ave., Suite 3, Garden City 516-794-1500 mesbahobgyn.com

Michael Mesbah, M.D. is board-certified with more than 20 years of private practice experience. His experience and expertise in obstetrics has made him one of the most respected physicians on Long Island. He has extensive training in gynecological surgery, and is a certified robotic surgeon. Karyn Wat, M.D. is multilingual in English, Spanish, and Chinese. She has been trained in general and high-risk obstetric care, as well as gynecological surgery. She is compassionate, dedicated, and knowledgeable in issues pertaining to teenagers, family planning, menstrual and hormonal abnormalities, and menopausal symptoms.

PDM Family Dental 295 N. Broadway, Jericho pdmfamilydental.com info@pdmfamilydental.com

PDM Family Dental is a new dental office at the Hicksville Jericho border. We are here to provide comprehensive care for your children and your entire family’s dental needs. We strive to provide a comfortable dental experience and aim to help you walk out with a smile. Dr. Makkar is a huge advocate of supporting communities and educating families to take care of their dental needs. We accept most insurances but also provide in-office dental plans so that dental care is accessible to all. We are open evenings.

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Merrick Pediatric Dentistry 1756A Merrick Ave., Merrick 516-547-1997 merrickpediatricdentistry.com

Dr. Rania Elbaz is a board-certified pediatric dentist.

She earned her dental degree from Columbia University. She then completed her pediatric dental training at UMDNJNew Jersey Dental School. Dr. Elbaz loves working with children and strives to create a warm and fun environment that children look forward to visiting. Dr. Elbaz sees every patient in order to ensure the consistency that is so important to young children. The office welcomes and gives extra time and attention to patients with special needs. The office also participates with most major insurance plans.

Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders in adults and children. Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES (Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing) are also offered. Seven affiliated offices across Long Island participate with most health insurance and offer evening and Saturday hours.

Lice Tamers, Inc. 900 Walt Whitman Road, Suite LL2, Melville 631-479-2595 licetamers.com licetamers@gmail.com

Melissa Levin is a board-certified family nurse practitioner. She is also the owner and operator of Lice Tamers. For the past 15 years, Melissa has treated children and their families for lice using a natural, holistic approach. She has also worked tirelessly to educate parents about lice prevention and to help remove the stigma associated with contracting lice. Lice Tamers offers a child-friendly approach to lice removal, in a relaxed, fun environment with snacks, WiFi, and toys. Melissa also offers free educational seminars to schools and camps.

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Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry ......................................44

Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry ......................................44

Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech.............................33, 44

dance

Lice Tamers ..............................................................................44

Winston Prepatory School - Long Island ..................................13

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts ..............................................2

Merrick Pediatric Dentistry.....................................................7, 44

developmental

Mesbah OB-GYN ......................................................................44

sports

PDM Family Dental ...............................................................5, 44

Goldfish Swim School ...............................................................35 Harlem Globtrotters ..................................................................13

Eden 2 ......................................................................................14 Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech.............................33, 44

home services

Winston Prepatory School - Long Island ..................................13

Lice Tamers ..............................................................................44

theater Illusionists .................................................................................12

education

music

Countryside Montessori School ................................................33

Music Together LLC ..................................................................33

Green Vale School ....................................................................11

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts ..............................................2

Madison Theatre at Molloy College ..........................................19

tutors Mathnasium - Roslyn ..................................................................9

LIU Center for Gifted Youth.......................................................33 Mathnasium - Roslyn ..................................................................9

performing arts / acting

Sylvan Learning Center - Huntington .......................................39

Sylvan Learning Center - Huntington .......................................39

Eglevsky Ballet Co. of Long Island Inc......................................15

Village East Gifted ....................................................................31

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How to Un-Fun the Holidays in 8 Easy Steps It’s easy to suck the joy right out of the holiday season, especially when you have kids—just follow this guide. If, by some chance, that’s not what you want to do, we have other recommendations for you!

1. Insist on getting the perfect photo for your annual holiday card.

Dress up everyone in their finest clothes and keep stage-directing them (“a little to the left…a little to the right”) until their smiles are as frozen as a snowman’s.

Instead: Go for a shot that’s casual or silly—it’s what life is really like with kids.

2. Knock yourself out trying to find this season’s hottest overpriced toy, even if your child didn’t ask for it. After all, isn’t that what caring parents do?

Instead: Have your child help you pick out a toy for Toys for Tots or another organization that brings joy to children in need.

Show her that it’s what caring families do.

3. Write a glowing holiday letter to your family and friends, then spend the rest of the season wishing your life were half as awesome as you made it sound.

Instead: Be honest about some of the struggles you’ve faced, like losing your battle with the scale or struggling to make your kids understand that “no means no.” People will appreciate your honesty.

4. Scurry around so much getting ready for the holidays that you spend less time with your kids than you want to.

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Instead: Remember to slow down and enjoy the season together. Take an evening to drive around and admire the holiday lights, or go skating one afternoon. Your child may remember those moments more than all the fancy presents that come his way.

5. Decorate your home with lots of “don’t-touch” holiday objects, then get upset when your child breaks one (or worse, get scared when he ends up hurting himself).

Instead: Learn how to keep your home festive, but hazard free, by reading “13 Ways to Stay Safe This Holiday Season” on p. 18.

6. Drag your children to a nighttime holiday religious service, then feel embarrassed when they can’t keep it together.

Instead: Look for a “family” service, where kids are welcome and a certain amount of squirminess is permitted.

7. Pressure your kids to give hugs and kisses to family friends and relatives they barely know.

Instead: Remember that kids, like adults, have the right to decide whom they want to be cozy with. If your child doesn’t feel like it, ask him to give a simple wave or say a friendly hello. Really young kids may not even be able to manage that much, but it’s okay; the adults around them will almost certainly understand.

8. Go into debt making this “the best holiday ever.”

Instead: Create a reasonable budget and stick to it. You’ll start the new year feeling refreshed—not impoverished.

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