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NOVEMBER 2016

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An Ounce of Prevention Tips for keeping your kids healthy

Toddlers & 911

Teaching kids to handle emergencies

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NYMetroParents Helping Parents Make Better Decisions

Contents

November 2016 ›› Features

16 The Voters of Tomorrow How local teachers are using the election to engage students and raise civic awareness

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18 Better Than an Apple a Day Tips to help kids aviod common health problems, and how to treat them when it fails 26 A New Spin on Thanksgiving Favorites Three variations on traditional side dishes to amp up our favorite fall feast 48 All Grown Up What to consider when your child with special needs turns 21—and is no longer a child 54 Planning for the Worst Teaching toddlers and preschoolers how to handle emergencies

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Connections

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Quotables 12 Voices: When Awkward Becomes Unsafe 15 NYMP Q&A: Marie Kondo talks about the art of organizing

Fun & Activities

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14 Media Matters: Apps for Learning & Fun 14 DIY Corner: Hot Glue Magic Wand 28 Outing: Morris-Jumel Mansion 31 Family Activities Calendar 44 Where-To Guide: Ice-Skating

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Health & Wellness Directory Special Needs Directory Meet the Health Care Professional Open Houses Party Planner and Family Resource Guide Advertisers’ Index

ON THE COVER ›› 16 Decision 2016 18 An Ounce of Prevention 26 Thanksgiving Side Dishes

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44 Where to Go Ice-Skating 48 Planning for When They Grow Up

54 Toddlers & 911

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NOVEMBER 2016 • Vol.8 • No.6

NYMetroParents Publications EDITORIAL

EDITORIAL DIRECTOR: Michael Kress

EDITOR’S NOTE

DEPUTY EDITOR: Bethany Braun-Silva MANAGING EDITOR: Katelin Walling

Planning for Whatever Comes

ASSISTANT EDITOR: Samantha Neudorf REGIONAL EDITORS: Karen Demeter (Fairfield, Suffolk); Rosalind Muggeridge (Brooklyn); Jamie McGillian (Westchester);

W

e had a fire in our home last year, small but terrifying. A crackling noise woke my wife and me early one morning, and it took only a groggy second to notice flames leaping up just beyond the foot of our bed, sparked by an old extension cord.

While my wife hustled the kids outside, I doused the fire before the firefighters even arrived.

Afterward, we talked to our children about what to do in case of another fire, especially if a grown-up can’t get to them. I was reminded of this scary episode while editing this month’s feature about teaching toddlers to handle emergencies (p. 54)—and learned that we didn’t go far enough in training our children to handle such situations. There is more we can do to prepare them for a moment we hope will never come, and I hope all of you will do the same.

When it comes to avoiding dangerous situations, we parents are always on guard. But illness—short-term and long-term, serious and less so—seems to lurk everywhere. To help, we’ve put together a helpful guide to preventing common childhood health problems, from cold and flu to diabetes and depression (p. 18). And since illness will sometimes come despite our best efforts, we offer our seasonal directory of health care professionals (p. 22).

As parents, we all have a certain vision for how our kids’ lives will progress. For parents of children with severe special needs, however, these milestones are not always possible, and the vision of their children’s future may be very different. As their children approach adulthood, there are many unique issues parents of kids with special needs face. To help them, Samantha Neudorf speaks with experts about how parents should prepare for the future (p. 48).

At Thanksgiving time, we can all take a moment to count the blessings we have in life, no matter what challenges we face. It’s also a time when many of us focus on helping others through community service. If your kids—or your whole family—do volunteer work, we want to hear about it! We’re launching the NYMetroParents Caring Kids Awards to recognize those who are helping to make the world a better place. See below for details.

Wishing everyone a happy Thanksgiving, filled with blessings and peace.

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Here’s how it works: • Go to nymetroparents.com/caring-kids between Nov. 1 and Nov. 30.

• Follow the directions there to tell us—in 75 words or less—about your child’s or your family’s community service efforts and the impact this volunteer work has on others. If you’d like, you can upload a photo or link to a video of them volunteering.

• Eight Caring Kids will each receive a $500 gift card and a letter of commendation, and many more will be featured in our magazine and/or website.

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Who: Prime Time Early Learning Center What’s New: Enrichment programs, including Spanish enrichment, art, and Zumba for students ages 18 months and older.

Director Michelle Friedman says the art enrichment program is perhaps the most exciting for young ones. Students will be able to fully exercise their freedom of expression in this messy art program. Smocks keep the kids clean as they “have a grand old time just making a mess creating something, taking it home, and being proud of it,” Friedman says.

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“Parents look for tutors with an understanding of their kids,” says Cindy Goldrich, ADHD coach, teacher trainer, and parenting specialist. “Instead of telling kids, Hey, pay attention when they don’t pay attention, teachers will say, Let’s figure it out together.”

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UOTABLES My daughter, a quintessential all-American girl, loves to sing, dance, and perform. She has indulged in ballet, gymnastics, drama, musical theater, piano lessons—and she’s only 6 years old. I tell her she can do anything she can imagine and I want to make sure she knows it and gets to try.

—NYC mom Galina Nemirovsky in a post entitled “’Living Vicariously Through My Children’ Club” on her blog heartseverywhere.com

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“Having a sibling is a gift, which should be savored forever.”

—Roslyn Haber, Ed.D., and Marlyn Press, Ed.D., in an article on nymetroparents.com entitled “How to Promote Positive Sibling Relationships.” Read more at nymetroparents.com/siblings

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“Listen to your body, and especially to that little voice deep inside. I promise there are no guidebooks that will lead you into this journey of parenting feeling fully equipped, but if you listen to that voice you will always be led in the right direction for you.”

—Holly Schumacher in a post entitled “My Best Parenting Advice: Go Easy On Yourself “on the website scarymommy.com

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MORE NYMetroParents.com HIGHLIGHTS: MAKE IT A MEANINGFUL THANKSGIVING: Find new traditions to try at nymetroparents.com/thanks NURTURE GRATITUDE: How to teach your kids to be thankful (nymetroparents.com/thankful) MAKE A DIFFERENCE: Find places to volunteer this Thanksgiving (nymetroparents.com/volunteer) NAVIGATING THE SYSTEM: Find tips for applying to NYC high schools at nymetroparents.com/high-school

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VOICES When Awkward Becomes Unsafe ›› Our kids interact regularly with people who are different and might make them uncomfortable. Sometimes, though, ‘uncomfortable’ becomes dangerous. By Ann Lapin

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don’t know if it was a parenting fail or not but it certainly didn’t feel good—not for me, and not for her.

Our middle child had an after-school function with three other schools. Gavri, our eldest, had attended the same function two years before and joined us, curious to see if she’d recognize any alumni from her year.

Sure enough, close to the end of the evening, I spotted Gavri sitting on a windowsill with a teenager from one of the other schools. I snapped a picture of the two girls in long skirts, one with fair skin and a sweater modestly covering her shoulders, one with dark skin and a hijab. I planned to caption it, “Stolen Moments,” along with some witty hashtag, no doubt. I recognized the young woman from earlier in the evening: She had approached me when the schools—two Jewish and two Muslim—took time to recite their respective afternoon prayers.

I suspected from her overly affectionate behavior that she might have some social delays. But Gavri was smiling and nodding her head as the girl talked to her.

My children spend a lot of time with people who are “different.”

Our family hosts a free meal at our synagogue every week. Every week, my children interact with folks who want a free meal and folks who need a free meal. My husband serves as rabbi for a local retirement residence, and we visit their Shabbat (Sabbath) table at least monthly. My kids help set the table and serve the residents.

My children are used to feeling uncomfortable. They are sometimes annoyed that this is how we have chosen to live our lives—surrounded by people who are “different”—as well as the fact that we expect them to actively engage with all of these people.

“Arrrrgh! But I’m BORED! I don’t WANT to!” they might argue.

“I don’t care,” I have responded. I have definitely told my children that I don’t care about their feelings in situations like these.

Big mistake.

At one point during the after-school function, I looked up and the girl had her arm around Gavri. But what had at first looked like two teenage girls sharing personal space and innocent secrets soon looked more like the other girl dragging my daughter from one person to the other. I finally realized Gavri had a combined look of “I’m so flattered she likes me!” and “OK, this dragging is a little awkward and uncomfortable—OMG, when will she STOP?!”

I had ignored any inclination I had that my daughter was unsafe

because they were such a vision of harmony—a picture of peace and unity and the innocence of youth. But there was something about the way Gavri was pressing her lips into a smile as she was dragged from person to person. There was something about the way she seemed to plead with me with her eyes. I knew something was wrong even if I didn’t know what it was.

So I approached them.

“Do you need a break?” I asked Gavri.

She didn’t quite answer.

So I asked in Hebrew, a language we both speak but I knew the other child would not understand, “Do you need help?”

She replied. “Maybe...kinda...yeah...”

I ended up having to remove the girl’s arm from around Gavri’s shoulders. When she walked away, Gavri started crying. She hadn’t really believed that anything bad would happen, but felt scared nonetheless. The girl had actually whispered threatening comments in her ear, but Gavri could tell the girl had delays and didn’t want to hurt her feelings by asking for help “I realized afterward I should have asked you for help in Hebrew,” she said the next day. I pointed out that because she is regularly pushed outside her comfort zone, spending time with people who are different than she is, she is used to suppressing expressions of discomfort. But this crossed a line.

“There doesn’t have to be a ‘should have,’” I told her. “Now you know, going forward, sometimes your feelings have to be more important than someone else’s. It wasn’t so nice for me to speak to you in Hebrew in front of someone else (who wouldn’t understand), was it?”

Gavri nodded.

“It’s not my job to be nice. It’s my job to be your mommy.”

I know it’s the exposure Gavri has to people who make her feel uncomfortable and the fact that she placed greater emphasis on the other girl’s feelings than her own that caused Gavri to not ask for help outright or even to really advocate for herself.

It really is important to us that our children learn to tolerate a little discomfort. I’m hoping, going forward, our children will feel confident and understand the distinction between “uncomfortable” and “unsafe.”

I’ve also made an effort to begin reminding my children that everybody’s feelings count—including theirs.

Ann Lapin and her family live in Riverdale, Bronx. They have been an interim boarding care family for more than four years. Ann owns a Mary Kay business and teaches classes at Fit Figure Boot Camp in the northwest Bronx. Follow her at facebook.com/annephrat and on Twitter @ann4marykay.

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In Theaters Nov. 18: Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them Parents need to know that Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them is based on J.K. Rowling’s original story about Newt Scamander (Eddie Redmayne), the author of a Hogwarts textbook that describes various beasts and dragons. The movie follows Newt’s adventures in New York’s secret community of witches and wizards 70 years before Harry Potter first arrived at Hogwarts. As in the Harry Potter movie saga, there may be some action and violence to watch out for as Newt searches for his misplaced magical creatures in the No-Maj (American for “Muggle”) world.

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DIY CORNER IMAGINARY PLAY

Hot Glue Magic Wand

Constructed from everyday materials, this magic wand is both customizable and quick to assemble, making this a project perfect for mass production and outfitting a classroom full of wizards.

Supplies 1 sheet of copy paper Clear tape or masking tape 1 unsharpened wooden pencil 1 marble or similar small trinket Craft paint (brown suggested)

Tools Hot glue gun Pliers (optional) Paintbrush

Directions 1. On a flat surface, slowly roll a sheet of copy paper (or an old wizard wanted poster) into a tight paper cone. When finished, one end should come to a point, while the other end should have a ¼to ½-inch opening in it. Once it’s tightly rolled, use clear tape or masking tape along the side of the cone to fasten it in place. The finished cone will be roughly 10-13 inches long.

2. Slide an unsharpened wooden pencil into the open end of the paper cone, with the eraser end facing out. Wedge the pencil into the tip of the cone until the combined assembly is 11-15 inches long. Secure the pencil by adding some hot glue to the open end of the paper cone, around the wedged pencil. Additional hot glue can be used to strengthen the wand tip as well.

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3. With your fingers, dislodge the pencil’s eraser from the metal band that holds it in place. Avoid bending the metal band. Add hot glue to the inside of the empty metal band, and then attach a small marble or a similar small trinket. Add more hot glue around the bottom of the attached item for increased strength. When dry, the attached item will serve as the wellspring of your wand’s mystical powers—and the ideal base for your wand’s finger grip!

4. With the glue gun, add front and back grip details 3-4 inches apart. As the glue dries, increase the thickness of the new grip details by adding additional layers of glue. With more glue, create custom textures around the grip area of the wand shaft. When the hot glue has dried, use craft paint to add some color.

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Marie Kondo is an organizing guru, founder of the KonMari method, and author of the New York Times best-sellers The Life‑Changing Magic of Tidying Up and Spark Joy. What are your tips for parents to stay organized with kids?

The first thing parents should teach their child is not how to organize toys, but how to fold clothes correctly. Folding clothes is equivalent to taking care of what you wear daily, and by habituating your children to fold clothes, they naturally begin to learn the KonMari way of organizing—to value the things that are important to you.

Do you find that there is value for children in being raised in an organized home? Being organized means knowing what is important to you, and also knowing what it means to value what is important to you. Children with these skills have the power to make decisions and accomplish things under their own criteria when they face many situations as they grow up.

Any tips for negotiating with a child who might not want to give up or let go of certain items? If the item is something valuable to the child, there is absolutely no need to let go of it.

Parents should not decide whether the item is necessary or not.

What is important is how the child feels about it, and whether the child wants to keep and take care of the item.

Can you recommend any organizational tips that children can practice? Like I said before, to teach children how to fold clothes first. Other than that, it is basically the same with adults—to keep only what you want to keep and value, to designate a “home” (a specific spot to keep things) for each item that you own, and to put the items back to their “homes” every day.

How do you balance children’s creativity, which can also be messy, with an organized home? There are two points.

First, designate a play area for the child. Teach the child where the play area is, and whatever goes out of the area, put it back every time. The second point is to put each item back to its “home” every day. It depends on the age of the child, but if they are still little, parents should put the item back in its “home.” If they are big enough to think for themselves, parents should teach them to put the things that they value back to their “home” every day.

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The Voters of Tomorrow

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How local teachers are using the election and its aftermath to engage students and raise civic awareness. By Melissa Kagan

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very four years, educators use the presidential election to impart valuable lessons to students about the electoral process, democracy, government, and the responsibilities of citizenship. While many teachers avoid discussing matters of personal opinion, they are finding creative ways to use the campaign as fodder for especially impactful lessons and classroom activities. Teachers across the region have implemented lesson plans and programs for students of all ages, and many have ambitious plans for the weeks leading up to Election Day and beyond, as they dissect and discuss the results.

Because the 2016 election has been especially contentious, Jen Hickey, a sixth grade Individuals and Societies (formerly known as social studies) teacher at Dobbs Ferry Middle School in Dobbs Ferry is using this opportunity to teach her students about respect and how it’s possible to get a point across without using inflammatory language. “This will prepare them for adulthood,” she says. “In order to be taken seriously, it’s important to sound educated while discussing topics such as the election.”

Hickey oversees a lesson in which students work in small groups and read excerpts from the candidate’s websites.

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as Candidate A and Candidate B, instead of identifying the candidate with whom they are associated.

“After reading all of the text excerpts, students decide which candidate their views align better with and vote for that candidate,” Hickey says. “After all of the classes have voted, at the end of the day, we announce who was Candidate A and who was Candidate B. In our next class, we talk about their vote and would it have been any different if they knew which candidate was A and B. It’s a great opportunity for students to have conversations with each other and also their families about how they voted on certain issues.”

Debating the Issues

Students at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Hall Regional School in Bellmore are required to watch the presidential debates and engage in discussions about the campaign during time set aside for current events every Friday. “I want my students to know where each candidate stands on key issues so they can see how their opinions impact our country’s economy,” says Laura Sena, a middle school social studies teacher at the school.

The seniors in Richard Salerno’s Advanced Placement Government class at Iona Preparatory School in New Rochelle are also encouraged

to engage in debate. “I partner up with our speech-and-debate coach Charles Sloat, using his debate methodology on our shared project,” Salerno says. “We coordinate topics to be debated by my students on our blog. This year our first two topics were fashioned to discuss the 2016 presidential election.”

The first topic for debate was whether social media coverage of the presidential race this year will do more to influence the outcome of the election than traditional news outlets. The second topic focused on whether contempt for the candidates has made many Americans feel disenfranchised—and whether that will lead to a particularly low voter turnout.

Voter Registration

Speaking of turnout, eighth grade students at Pelham Middle School in Pelham are focusing heavily on voter registration and how to get people to the polls. The students have been tasked with creating public service announcements to encourage voting, and discussions and lessons have emphasized citizens’ responsibilities.

“In addition to the PSAs and the analysis of last year’s voter turnout, we are also asking students to interview relatives about their voting experiences,” says Maria Thompson, director of humanities at the Pelham Public Schools. “We want to find out what they remember most about their first time voting and their last time voting.”

Some schools took their election lessons outside of the classroom. Five Oceanside High School students were randomly selected by their social studies teacher, Laura Trongard, to attend a day-long series of election-related events at Hofstra University in Hempstead. Their day culminated with attending the first debate between Hillary Clinton and Donald Trump, which took place on campus.

Members of the Massapequa mock trial team also spent the day on Hofstra’s campus, taking part in various media events. They were involved in panel discussions led by political correspondents, witnessed historical reenactments of the 1872 and 1972 debates, learned about the role social media is playing in this election, saw a video art display on the issues at stake, and participated in a mock vote.

Their day concluded by participating in a debate party, during which they were able to watch a live feed of the debate in an auditorium on campus with students from other area high schools.

Mock Elections

Pelham students will participate in a mock online election, which will occur just prior to Election Day, with the results posted online as well. Mock elections like this are particularly successful at energizing young people to take an interest in voting, teachers say.

“The mock election gives students the chance to understand how the election system works,” Hickey says. “My hope is that when the students become old enough to vote, they will remember what they learned here and take the time to study the issues before they vote in a real election.”

The mock election at Dobbs Ferry Middle School will require students in sixth through eighth grades to “sign in” at a polling site and cast their vote. The school will post interviews with students at the “polling site” throughout the day on its Facebook page and announce who the students “elected” for President.

Engaging Even the Youngest Students

This time of the year, even the youngest children know something is up. They see a running stream of political advertisements on television, flyers coming in the mail with photos of politicians, and the ubiquitous lawn signs. To address the election with the younger set, many schools are turning to visual displays. Elementary schools in Pelham, for instance, have set up “word walls” highlighting vocabulary related to the election so kids can make the connection between what they sometimes hear at home and how it relates to the real world.

Some educators, such as those at the Green Ivy Schools in Manhattan, approach the topic differently when it comes to the younger grades, waiting for them to raise the issue and ask questions. “Because we are committed to relevant and purposeful inquiry, we would explore the particular aspects of the election children ask about and want to pursue deeper knowledge in,” says Christina Stanfield, chief marketing officer at Green Ivy, “rather than preformulating how we want them to view any important election.”

Whatever the approach, teachers know that a presidential election offers a once-in-four years opportunity to add some real-world excitement and engagement to their curriculum. “Our lessons are ideal for preparing students for life outside of the classroom,” Hickey says. “We want to open their eyes beyond Dobbs Ferry to create educated global citizens,” she says.

Melissa Kagan is the former editor-in-chief of the now-defunct lifetimemoms.com.

She is currently a freelance writer whose work has been featured in Mommy Poppins, Westchester Magazine, and Westchester Family. She lives in Pelham with her husband and two children.

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hat’s more challenging than dealing with the ever-changing demands of parenting? Dealing with sick children: They’re miserable, and you want to do everything you can to make them better, fast. Your first instinct might be to call your pediatrician for advice once they’re under the weather, but let’s face it: You’d rather they didn’t get sick in the first place. It’s easy to get overwhelmed by conflicting online research and advice, so we asked local pediatricians how to prevent and treat several common health problems, so your little one can get back to happy and healthy, fast.

Cold and Flu

Among the most common and easily transmitted fall/winter/backto-school illnesses, colds and flu can strike regularly, as they’re spread by mucus and saliva.

Symptoms: While a stuffy or runny nose, coughing, sore throat, and fever can be symptoms of both cold and flu, you’ll know if it’s the flu if your child is complaining—a lot. “I tell my parents all the time that snots are ok—kids are full of snots,” says Elissa Rubin, M.D., of Happy and Healthy Pediatrics in Mineola. “If they’re miserable, that’s what you should pay attention to and look to avoid.”

Causes: Sharing food or drink, or spending time in close contact with someone who is already sick Prevention: The flu vaccine is the best preventative measure: Once your child is 6 months old, it’s safe to get it. Other than that, “there’s no bubble to put our kids in to avoid all germ 18

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exposure,” says Stanley Jacob, M.D., of Helping Kids Pediatrics in New City. But you can reduce the spread of germs by encouraging frequent hand washing to stop the illness from spreading.

Treatment: Lots of rest, and avoiding exposure to others who are sick will help; electrolyte-enhanced fluids such as juice will go a long way toward helping strengthen the immune system to help it fight off infection.

Ear Infection

Aside from cavities, ear infections are one of the most common bacterial infections, and they occur when the middle ear becomes inflamed: Fluid builds up behind the eardrum, causing an earache.

While five out of six kids will have one by their third birthday, these infections drop off by age 5 or 6.

Symptoms: While ear pain is the most recognizable (your child will probably tell you she’s hurting), look out for ear pulling, which could be a sign of wax buildup and/or infection.

Causes: In some children, viruses are the culprit; others might just be more prone to them. However, environmental factors such as smoking in the home or allowing your child to go to sleep with a bottle can also contribute.

Prevention: “There is no way to prevent an ear infection, but talk to your doctor if your child is having recurrent ones for a otolaryngology referral,” recommends Dyan Hes, M.D., medical director of Gramercy Pediatrics in Manhattan.

Treatment: While your initial reaction might be to agree to put your child on antibiotics, stat, many physicians and parents are opting for the “watch and wait” approach. “If a child comes in with pain and an infection and has a cold, the recommendation is to wait for 24 hours and see how they’re doing, rather than just knee-jerk prescribe antibiotics,” says Christina Johns, M.D., senior medical advisor for PM Pediatrics, which has locations in New Jersey and the New York metro area.

“Sometimes they feel better naturally, and the body becomes better at getting rid of it faster.”

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Diabetes

In children without diabetes, the pancreas releases insulin into the bloodstream after meals, helping the body regulate blood sugar naturally; between meals, the liver releases stored glycogen and converts it into glucose, keeping blood sugar within a normal range. While the causes of Type 1 and Type 2 diabetes are different, both cause a buildup of sugar in the blood that needs to be regulated.

Symptoms: Extreme hunger, weight loss, excessive thirst, frequent urination, fatigue, irritability, and blurred vision Causes: While Type 1 diabetes is thought to be caused by genetics or exposure to viruses such as Coxsackie or EpsteinBarr, as children’s lifestyles become increasingly more sedentary (thanks, television and technology!), Type 2 diabetes is becoming more common: “We think of Type 2 as adult-onset diabetes, but with the obesity epidemic on the rise, we’re seeing it in 9- and 10-year-old kids,” Dr. Johns says.

Prevention: There is no known way to prevent or cure Type 1—you’ll need to administer insulin shots for life—but Type 2 is avoidable. To prevent Type 2 diabetes, it’s important to be a good role model through your own exercise and dietary habits.

“If you keep your children active with at least 30-45 minutes of exercise daily and limit television and video games to no more than two hours, you can stay ahead of the potential development of diabetes and manage it if it comes—hopefully prevent it,” Dr. Jacob says.

Treatment: If your child has Type 1 diabetes, topical anesthetics and a pep talk can ease the anxiety that can come with daily shots, Dr. Jacob says. A child psychiatrist can also assist with open communication about how to manage a chronic disease. For kids with Type 2, a healthy diet and daily exercise is key. Plus, studies have shown that people with diabetes tend to have low vitamin D, so adding dairy can help, too: Aim for two or three 8-ounce glasses of milk per day.

Depression

While the occasional bout of sadness is normal, depression can often go untreated because parents mistake it for normal emotional or psychological changes that occur as your child matures—and early depression can also be masked by acting out.

Symptoms: Loss of interest in activities at home or school, hopelessness, appetite or sleep fluctuations, lack of energy, anxiety, anger, and not spending time with friends Causes: Change in family setting (divorce, death of a family member, moving); bullying, academic or social pressure. Lack of parental connection can also be an issue: “We live in a generation where parents look at their cellphones more than their children,” Dr. Rubin says. Be aware that the causes of a child’s depression are not always apparent, and it may not take a major event or obvious problem to spark depression. continued on next page ››

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Prevention: Trust your instincts, and let your children know you’re there to talk (and just as importantly, listen) during the tough times. “Let them know that you’re there but be open minded, and remember what it was like to be their age,” Dr. Jacob advises. “Actively listen and engage, be observant and ask questions—but realize when they need space.”

Treatment: Since depression can be caused by neurotransmitters being out of balance, this is one case where a child’s psychiatrist can recommend medication—in combination with cognitive behavioral therapy—as a form of treatment. Just as important: Tending to your own mental health. “Parents need to be aware of their own anxieties, since issues from their own childhood often resurface,” adds Dr. Rubin. “Anxiety and depression is taught behavior. Break that cycle by being aware of your own emotions and monitoring them.”

Obesity

While some children are naturally heavier due to excess muscle from fat, bone, muscle, water, or a combination of all of the above, obesity is on the rise: According to the CDC, 1 in 6 children in the United States is obese.

Symptoms: Children are considered obese when their body mass index is at or above the 95th percentile compared to children of similar age and sex. (To calculate BMI, divide your child’s weight in kilograms by the square of their height in meters).

Causes: Poor diet and a lack of exercise are top causes, but stress (and the emotional eating response to it) can also be contributing factors, especially if you’re guilty of this as a parent. “If you eat when you’re stressed or relate emotions to food, kids will notice that and do it too,” Dr. Rubin says.

Prevention: Getting your kids interested in and excited about food at an early age is key. Try taking them to the store and letting them pick out their own fruits and vegetables, or allowing them to be involved in food preparation at home. Doing this will encourage kids to select fruit as a snack instead of sugary treats, Dr. Johns says. Another tip: Instead of rewarding accomplishments like a great report card with ice cream, ask your child what activity or outing he wants to do to celebrate instead.

Treatment: If your child isn’t involved or interested in sports, take a walk with her, or offer to watch him doing his favorite activity.

“What kids like more than anything is attention,” Dr. Johns says.

“Whether it’s jumping rope or shooting hoops, they’ll be more likely to do something if you watch and give them positive feedback.”

Asthma

If you’re wondering if your child’s cough could possibly be asthma, consider this: Most children with asthma have symptoms before age 5 and experience recurring coughing or wheezing that gets worse in the presence of irritants such as smoke or dust mites.

Symptoms: Coughing at night, wheezing while breathing out, and/or fast breathing that causes the skin to tighten around the neck or ribs. A good test if you can’t tell: Have your child take a deep breath. If he starts coughing at the end or has spastic, relentless coughing fits, he likely has asthma, Dr. Rubin says.

Causes: Although allergens and exercise can trigger asthma, the change in seasons can, too—especially the cold, dry air that winter brings. Genetics can also play a part, and so can your family pet (but don’t worry, you won’t need to get rid of it!)

Prevention: If your household has pets, your pediatrician can administer a blood test to find out if your fluffy loved ones are the culprit. If they are, don’t worry: You can limit the pet to certain rooms in the house, or install a HEPA air filter to purify air in your 20

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child’s room. Cleaning your home regularly (to reduce dust) and not smoking indoors can also help her breathe easy.

Treatment: While a rescue inhaler can help children with intermittent asthma ward off periodic attacks, children with prolonged attacks will need to administer medication from a controller inhaler daily. Regardless of the type of asthma your child has, it’s wise to have an inhaler on hand—at home and at school.

“Kids will let you know when they have tightness in their chest and ask for relief,” Dr. Rubin adds.

Bedwetting

Also known as enuresis, bedwetting is a common childhood problem that can be embarrassing for children, and frustrating and stressful for parents. The good news is that it’s usually easy to treat and typically stops on its own as your child learns how to control his or her bladder during the late stages of potty training.

Symptoms: Touch your child’s sheets in the morning. If they’re wet or she comes downstairs with wet PJs, you’ll know something’s up.

Causes: While some children can inherit it from their parents, others fall into such a deep sleep that their bladder just lets go.

Even if your child is already potty trained when it occurs, younger children often regress due to divorce, separation, or during life changes, such as moving.

Prevention: Behavioral change, such as limiting drinks and caffeine prior to bedtime, can help. In addition, products designed to treat the condition, called wet stop alarms, trigger an alarm that reminds your child to get up to use the bathroom.

Treatment: Whatever you do, don’t make your child feel ashamed. Some children experience it until age 9 or 10, and pullups are a great solution to avoid frequent loads of laundry. Finally, don’t torture yourself thinking you’re doing something wrong.

“No child will go to college wearing a diaper—they just need time to mature,” Dr. Rubin says.

Nightmares

Any parent who’s had to comfort her child in the middle of the night knows that nightmares are a common—but easily fixed— childhood health problem. While young children in their “afraid of the dark” phase are most susceptible to nightmares, they can affect children at any age.

Symptoms: Luckily, this one’s easy: Your child will likely let you know that she’s scared to go to bed (or wake you in the middle of the night, looking for comfort).

Causes: Fear of the dark, lack of sleep, exposure to scary or unsettling TV without context Prevention: “Parents should make sure that children aren’t exposed to anything frightening on the TV or Internet, and discuss if there are any stressors leading to nightmares. Often, they will pass with time,” Dr. Hes says.

Treatment: “There’s not much a parent can do but comfort during these times,” Dr. Hes says. A night-light, bedtime security object, or temporary distraction—such as face-washing, a back rub, or calming conversation about what’s troubling them—can help soothe them back to sleep.

Remember, no child is healthy all the time and no amount of preventative effort is going to be 100-percent effective. So don’t beat yourself up when your child gets sick, and focus instead on giving her the TLC and medical care she needs to get back on her feet as quickly as she can!

Alison Kotch is a writer living in Brooklyn.

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Oyster Stuffing for American Thanksgiving American Thanksgiving is always a big hit at our farmhouse. Each year, I carefully plan a harvest menu using as many ingredients from the farm as possible. We invite family and friends and generally serve the traditional stuffed turkey, mashed potatoes, cranberry sauce, and pumpkin pie, but I always like to add a few surprises depending on what is left in the garden as well.

One Thanksgiving, a fellow American expat living in Dublin joined us at the farm. She made an unforgettable oyster stuffing that we have adopted as a new Thanksgiving tradition ever since. Here’s my take on it.

Serves 8-10 Ingredients 11 cups crusty bread cut into ½-inch cubes 6 slices bacon, coarsely chopped 6 tbsp. unsalted butter, melted, plus more for greasing the pan 6 shallots, thinly sliced 1 leek, thinly sliced 4 celery stalks, thinly sliced 40 medium (about 1 lb) oysters, shucked, with 1 cup of the liquor reserved

1 cup chicken stock ¼ cup sherry 1/ 3 cup chopped flat-leaf parsley 2 tbsp. chopped thyme leaves 2 tbsp. chopped sage leaves 1 tsp. sweet marjoram, chopped 1 tbsp. fennel seeds ½ tsp. hot pepper sauce Sea salt and freshly ground black pepper, to taste

Directions 1. P reheat the oven to 300˚F. Butter a 2-quart oval baking dish; set aside.

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2. Arrange the bread cubes on a baking sheet in a single layer and bake, stirring occasionally, until dried but not browned, approximately 15 minutes. Remove from the oven and let cool.

3. Cook the bacon in a 12-inch skillet over medium-high heat, stirring frequently, until it is crisp and the fat has rendered, approximately 10 minutes. Add 4 tablespoons of the melted butter. Add the shallots, leek, and celery; reduce the heat to medium and cook, stirring occasionally, until the vegetables are soft, approximately 10 minutes.

4. Add the oyster liquor, chicken stock, sherry, parsley, thyme, sage, marjoram, fennel seeds, hot pepper sauce, and salt and pepper. Bring to a boil over high heat and cook, stirring occasionally, for 5 minutes. Scrape the mixture into a large bowl, and stir in the bread cubes and oysters. Set aside to allow the flavors to come together for 10 minutes.

5. Raise the oven temperature to 400°F. Transfer the oyster mixture to the prepared baking dish and cover with foil. Bake for 30 minutes. Remove the foil, drizzle with the remaining butter, and continue baking until golden brown and crusty, approximately 15 minutes more.

6. Serve immediately.

Scullery Notes Fresh oysters are best, but if you are in a pinch, canned or jarred oysters in liquor will work as well.

From The Farmette Cookbook, © 2016 by Imen McDonnell.

Reprinted by arrangement with Roost Books, an imprint of Shambhala Publications Inc., Boulder, CO. roostbooks.com

Eggplant Mashed Potatoes

Roasted Squash with Ginger Shallot Browned Butter

Eggplant mashed potatoes? Sounds a little crazy, right? Trust me— they’re not! This recipe is perfection, as well as a wonderfully creative way of hiding extra veggies in a well-loved dish. The inspiration for this was sort of random: I once had a comment on my blog about putting tahini in mashed potatoes. Months and months later, while I was cooking, my mind jumped back to that comment. My taste buds and brain went from tahini to hummus to babaganoush to eggplant to “Hey! That might not be too bad!” And it wasn’t bad—in fact, it was awesome! Just make sure you roast the eggplant to complete creaminess, and you’ll have yourself a surprisingly delicious side dish featuring a double dose of vegetables!

I could happily eat plain roasted squash on a regular basis. Its natural sweetness paired with a sprinkle of salt and wrapped in a crisp-on-theoutside, soft-on-the-inside bite is near perfection. But since I like to make it easy to spice things up, I often dress my roasted squash in ginger shallot browned butter. And boy, is it mouthwateringly good.

Serves 4 as a side dish Ingredients 1 small eggplant, halved Olive oil for roasting 1 tsp. salt, plus more for baking eggplant 3 medium creamer potatoes, chopped

2 tbsp. dairy-free butter Splash of dairy-free milk Freshly cracked black pepper to taste

Directions 1. P reheat the oven to 400°F. 2. B rush the flesh side of the eggplant with olive oil and sprinkle it with salt.

3. P lace the eggplant halves peel side down on a baking sheet and cook for 30-40 minutes (depending on the size), until the insides are very, very tender. Pierce through the top to test the inside; the softer, the better.

4. W hile the eggplant is roasting, place the potatoes in a medium pot and cover them with water. Bring to a boil, then simmer until the potatoes are soft.

5. D rain the water from the potatoes and place them in a large bowl. Remove the peel, if you prefer.

6. S coop out the inside of the eggplant and place it in the mixing bowl with the potato. Discard the peel.

7. W hip the potatoes, eggplant, butter, and salt together until smooth and creamy. Add a splash of milk, if necessary.

8. Season with salt and pepper.

A Note About This Recipe: While I don’t like to rely on “hidden vegetable” meals, since I think kids should learn to love every vegetable on its own (okay, well, maybe not every one), sometimes they are the quickest way to get your kid to start eating less-palatable veggies. This dish works like a charm.

Tip: Garlic mashed potatoes? Yes, please! Since you’ll be heating up the oven to cook the eggplant anyway, consider roasting a whole head of garlic, too, and mixing it in with the potatoes.

Kid-Friendly Tip: Nutritional yeast, always and forever. A sad day for Marlowe (the author’s daughter) involves mashed potatoes without it. Throw in a tablespoon when you whip the potatoes.

Recipe from The Plantiful Table: Easy, From-the-Earth Recipes for the Whole Family, copyright © Andrea Duclos, 2015. Reprinted by permission of the publisher, The Experiment. Available wherever books are sold. theexperimentpublishing.com

Serves 4 Ingredients Approximately 6 cups peeled, seeded, and cubed butternut squash, cut into 1- to 2-inch pieces (from one mediumsize squash or two 20-ounce packages of precut squash) 2 tbsp. olive oil

¼ tsp. salt, plus more to taste Freshly ground black pepper 4 tbsp. (½ stick) unsalted butter ½ cup thinly sliced shallots 2 tsp. chopped fresh ginger Chives, chopped, for garnish (optional)

Directions 1. Preheat the oven to 425°F. In a large bowl, toss the squash with the olive oil, the ¼ teaspoon of salt, and a pinch of pepper.

Spread the squash in a single layer on a rimmed baking sheet (set the empty bowl aside to keep cleanup to a minimum) and roast until tender all the way through and caramelized in spots, approximately 40 minutes. (Make sure that the squash can hold its shape well enough to be handled without getting mushy.)

2. In the meantime, in a small pan, melt the butter over medium heat. Once the butter has melted completely and begins to foam, start swirling the pan continuously. Watch carefully as the butter cooks and turns color: once you see it turn chestnut brown, remove the pan from the heat and add the shallots and ginger.

Swirl the pan a couple more times and return to the heat.

3. Continue to cook, stirring constantly, until the ginger is fragrant and the shallots are soft and caramelized in spots, approximately 3 minutes. Take off the heat for good and set aside.

4. R emove the squash from the oven and carefully transfer it to the bowl you’ve set aside. Pour the ginger shallot browned butter over the squash and gently toss. Season with more salt and pepper to taste, if desired, and garnish with chives, if using. Serve immediately.

Make It Easier: Get help from the store—or a very sharp knife.

Let’s be honest, dealing with butternut squash can be a total drag. Although you don’t always get the same vibrant flavor out of the precut kind you can find in most supermarkets nowadays, I find the shortcut totally worth it, especially when roasting will coax out so much delicious flavor. If you can’t find or just refuse to buy precut (hey, we all choose the hard path for something!), make it easy by using a sharp knife and sharp peeler.

Start by cutting off each end of the squash, then peel—with a peeler, not your knife. Once you’ve removed all the skin, stand the squash upright on one of the cut ends. It should be stable so that you can cut the vegetable in half lengthwise. Once split open, you can scoop out the seeds with a spoon and cut each half where the neck meets the body. The neck will be solid; cut it into slices at whatever thickness you like (1½-2 inches is good), then cut each slice into strips and, after that, cubes. Cut each remaining half in slices and each slice into cubes. You did it.

Excerpted from Make It Easy: 120 Mix-and-Match Recipes to Cook From Scratch—with Smart Store-Bought Shortcuts When You Need Them by Stacie Billis. Copyright © 2016. Available from Da Capo Lifelong Books, an imprint of Perseus Books, LLC, a subsidiary of Hachette Book Group, Inc.

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yoga on the grounds.

Morris-Jumel Mansion serves as a cultural resource for national and international visitors and particularly the diverse residents of New York City. Visitors will learn about the lives of the people who have been an important part of the history of this mansion, which includes both the Morris and Jumel families and even George Washington. Harlem Renaissance artists and many immigrant groups have been neighbors to the mansion as well.

Year-Round Features

The mansion provides an unsurpassed educational history for children and young adults via writing, critical thinking, and art.

The adult program focuses on theater, music, lectures, and tours of the mansion.

Docent-guided tours of the mansion are offered regularly—$12 for adults and $9 for students and seniors. Lead by one of the mansion’s expert docents, families can learn about the rich history of the mansion, the famous people who have come through it over the years, and the rich lives of people from centuries ago.

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School tours, full of hands-on learning adventures, are beloved by students. Kids learn about archaeology, the Revolutionary War, and more.

The garden and grounds are spectacular, and events such as yoga and picnicking are a wonderful way to see the manicured landscape, the lush greenery, and fresh flowers. Various art exhibitions from artists worldwide are on display year-round and change season by season.

illusions that create a moving image. The event is free with the price of museum admission. RSVP by calling 212-923-8008 or email education@morrisjumel.org. This event is recommended for kids ages 8-14.

An additional Family Day is scheduled for Nov. 19 during which you can make homemade butter and learn about colonial-style cooking to prep for Thanksgiving. It’s free to attend this mouthwatering event with the price of museum admission.

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This month offers some exciting programs and events that are not to be missed. From Nov. 3-5, see a theatrical performance from 8-9pm entitled Fancy Me Mad. The play is set in Baltimore and will intrigue the audience with a story of a young man visiting the home of his recently deceased grandmother at which he learns of her obsession with Edgar Allen Poe. Family Day will be held Nov. 5 from 11am1pm. Families can create a movie as they were made in the 1860s using zoetropes—optical

Address: 65 Jumel Terrace, Manhattan Directions: Approximately a 45-minute drive from Garden City Hours: Monday, by appointment only; Tuesday-Friday, 10am-4pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm. The museum is closed on New Year’s, Memorial, Labor, Thanksgiving, and Christmas days.

Admission: $10; $8 seniors and students; free for children 12 and younger and members For more information: 212-923-8008 or morrisjumel.org

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WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 10, 8pm WHERE: NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Her distinctive sultry vocal blend of R&B, pop, jazz, and gospel has made her one of the most outstanding voices of this generation.

WHY WE LOVE IT: From her first solo album, seven-time Grammy winner Toni Braxton has been an instantaneous international sensation.

WANT TO GO? $49.50 and up. 516-247-5213. thetheatreatwestbury.com.

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 13, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Brimming with music, charm, and humor, this new production—based on the book by renowned author James Preller— will make audiences laugh out loud.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This production touches upon the topics of friendship, bullying, and trust.

WANT TO GO? $15-$25. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

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‘The Lightning Thief’

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 13, 2pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Port Washington AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Casey Carle is “Yesac Elrac The Bubblemaniac,” a bubble artist extraordinaire with a flair for showmanship and infectious energy for bubbling.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s the dawn of undiluted joy when circus meets soap!

WANT TO GO? $23. 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

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WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 20, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, Hillwood Recital Hall, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Mythological monsters and the gods of Mount Olympus seem to be walking straight out of the pages of Percy’s Greek mythology textbook and into his life.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Percy Jackson is about to be kicked out of boarding school again, and that’s the least of his troubles.

WANT TO GO? $20. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

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‘Goodnight Moon’

WHEN: Nov. 2-20, see website for dates and times WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: The classic story is brought vibrantly to life with fanciful song, dance, and puppetry.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Watch as the red balloon floats around the room and the cow jumps over the moon.

WANT TO GO? $9 with admission: $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

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WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 26, 2pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: The show features brand-new and fan-favorite songs from the entire crew of beloved underwater explorers, led by the intrepid Captain Barnacles, Lieutenant Kwazii, and Medic Peso.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s the perfect theater show for all fans of the Disney Jr. series!

WANT TO GO? $32.50 and up. 516-931-6849. tillescenter.org.

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Danny Weinkauf and the Red Pants Band

WHEN: Nov. 25-26, Friday, 11:30am and 2pm; Saturday, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: With loads of energy, clever lyrics, and delightful melodies, these songs will instantly grab the attention of kids and parents.

WHY WE LOVE IT: He is backed up by the Red Pants Band, a top flight group of musicians.

WANT TO GO? $9 with admission: $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

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WHEN: Nov. 26–Dec. 21, Monday-Saturday, 8am9pm; Sundays, 8am-8pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Come see real, live reindeer during store hours.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It may be our last chance to have the reindeer put in a good word for us with Santa!

WANT TO GO? 516-334-0066. hicksnurseries.com. ››

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WHEN: Friday, Nov. 11, 11am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Help us honor our heroes by sending special letters of thanks on Veteran’s Day. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1.

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Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

Shabbat Stop FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 5, 2:30-5pm WHERE: Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Drive, Greenvale AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Games, face painting, stories, and dancing, along with relaxation and exercise.

WANT TO GO? 516-484-1545. sjjcc.org.

Ron Darling & Daniel Paisner: Conversations from Main Street FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 15, 7:30pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Port Washington AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Every little kid who’s ever taken the mound in Little League dreams of someday getting the ball for Game Seven of the World Series.

Ron Darling got to live that dream, only it didn’t go exactly as planned.

WANT TO GO? 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

Animals Program FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 17, 4pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 5-12 WHAT: The Tackapausha Nature Preserve will introduce Long Island animals.

WANT TO GO? 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Thanksgiving Craft

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 16, 6:30pm WHERE: Hempstead Public Library, 115 Nichols Court, Hempstead AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Create a fall turkey sculpture from a pine cone, feathers, leaves, and other materials.

WANT TO GO? $0.50. 516-481-6990. hempsteadlibrary.info.

Children’s Workshop: Create a Potted Turkey

WHEN: Nov. 15-17, Tuesday-Thursday, 4:30pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Decorate a clay pot with feathers, eyes, mouth, and feet, then place a colorful corton plant in it.

WANT TO GO? $10 per child. 516-334-0066. hicksnurseries.com.

Turkey Talk

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 19, 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Learn why turkey is a mainstay of Thanksgiving dinner and “dress up” your own turkey decoration for the occasion.

WANT TO GO? $3 with admission: $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Give Thanks for Thanksgiving FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 20, 2:30pm WHERE: Sun Harbor Manor, 255 Warner Ave., Roslyn Heights AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Bring a smile to the residents of Sun Harbor Manor with crafts, songs, and stories.

WANT TO GO? 516-484-1545. sjjcc.org.

90th Annual Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 25, 2pm WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park, Queens AGES: All WHAT: See many butterflies from all over the world.

WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 24, 9am-12pm WHERE: Central Park West and 77th Street to Macy’s Herald Square on 34th Street, via Central Park South and Sixth Avenue, Upper West Side and Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: The one and only! If you want to see it in person, arrive early and well before the parade starts to secure a good spot, or watch the whole thing on TV while still in your PJs. WANT TO GO? 212-494-4495. macys.com/parade.

Calling All Fish Detectives FREE

‘Who Took Tom the Turkey?’

The Butterfly Man FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 26, 10:30am WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Nemo and Dory are lost in the library and they need your help. Track down Nemo with a special map, then sit down and watch the movie Finding Dory. Popcorn and drinks will be provided.

WANT TO GO? 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

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WHEN: Friday, Nov. 25, 11am WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Tom Turkey has gone missing and Chief Clumsy Bull and the rest of the gang need to find him before the autumn festival.

WANT TO GO? $11 in advance; $13 at door. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

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Macy’s Inc.

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 26, 4pm and 8pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Saxophonist Kirk Whalum kicks off his annual tour, bringing excellent holiday entertainment for all. This year’s concert will feature Norman Brown and pianist Keiko Matsui with special guests Kevin Whalum, John Stoddart, Shelea.

WANT TO GO? $45 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Meet Santa FREE

‘A Christmas Carol’

WHEN: Nov. 19–Dec. 30, Thursday-Sunday, 7pm; Sundays, 3pm WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Follow the miser Ebenezer Scrooge on a journey that teaches him the true meaning of Christmas—past, present, and future.

WANT TO GO? $35; $28 children ages 13-17; $20 children ages 5-12.

631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

Animated Christmas Story FREE

WHEN: Nov. 11–Dec. 31, Monday-Saturday 8am-9pm; Sundays, 8am-8pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: The walk-through story features child-sized animated Christmas characters, including Santa. Non-perishable food donations will be accepted for Long Island Cares.

WANT TO GO? 516-334-0066. hicksnurseries.com. ››

Flying High for 90 Years The Annual Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade marches onto Central Park West for its 90th (yes 90th!) year this month. Get up really early (6am) on Turkey Day to secure a spot to see the parade and take in the holiday atmosphere. Seeing the giant helium balloons, performers, and marching bands in person is a must-do Thanksgiving tradition. The whole family will be transfixed at the sight of favorites such as Spider-Man, Buzz Lightyear, and SpongeBob. You can also check out the helium giants up close at the popular big balloon inflation event the day before, which has become as big an event as the parade itself! See nymetroparents. com for details. Nov. 24, 9am-12pm. Age: All. Parade begins at 77th Street and Central Park West, Upper West Side. 212-494-4495. macys.com/parade.

MSG Entertainment

WHEN: Nov. 25–Dec. 23, Monday-Friday, 1-4pm and 5-8pm; SaturdaySunday, 10am-1pm and 2-6pm WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Don’t miss Santa in the store, and don’t forget to bring your camera.

WANT TO GO? 516-334-0066. hicksnurseries.com.

High Kicks and Holiday Fun Whether it’s your first time or your 10th, a visit to the iconic Radio City Music Hall to see the The Christmas Spectacular Featuring The Radio City Rockettes is a New York holiday tradition.

Audiences have been lining up since 1933 to see classic routines such as The Parade of the Wooden Soldiers and The Living Nativity as well as high-kicking new numbers. Old fashioned fun that will appeal to all ages. Nov. 11-Jan. 2, 2016. Check website for show times. Age: 6 and older. $49-$120. Radio City Music Hall, 1260 Sixth Ave., Midtown. 866-858-0007. radiocitychristmas.com.

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MUSICIANS Poetica Musica: Twenty On One

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 5, 6:45pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Hear works by Dvorák, Mozart, Barber, and more.

WANT TO GO? $30; $25 students and seniors. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

The Kingston Trio

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 11, 8pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Port Washington AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The Kingston Trio’s trademark three-part harmony and clean, crisp sound has resulted in an increasing number of new fans, both young and old.

WANT TO GO? $38 and up. 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

The Music of Copland & Barber

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 12, 8pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 13 and older WHAT: South Shore Symphony presents a program of classic scores by two of our country’s most important composers, Samuel Barber and Aaron Copland.

WANT TO GO? $20. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

The Machine Tribute to Pink Floyd

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 12, 8pm WHERE: NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury AGES: 13 and older WHAT: The New York-based band focuses on making every show an authentic Floydian experience for their fans.

WANT TO GO? $20 and up. 516-247-5213. thetheatreatwestbury.com.

Brett Band for Kids

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 13, 11:15am-12pm WHERE: Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Drive, Greenvale AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Enjoy Brett’s original kids songs and some classics that will be sure to get your kids dancing, clapping, and singing along.

WANT TO GO? $40; $25 per family. 516-484-1545. sjjcc.org.

Andre Watts

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 19, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: The piano program includes Scarlatti: “Two Sonatas”; Mozart: “Rondo, K. 485, D Major” and “Rondo, K. 511, A minor”; Schubert: “Fantasie in C Major, Op. 15 Wanderer”; and Chopin: “Etudes”.

WANT TO GO? $40 and up. 516-931-6849. tillescenter.org.

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The Metropolitan Youth Orchestra of New York

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 20, 7:30pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: MYO has grown from a 15-piece orchestra to seven orchestras, a flute choir, and seven choral ensembles, serving more than 975 young musicians.

WANT TO GO? $25; $10 seniors and students. 516-931-6849. tillescenter.org.

The Brian Setzer 13th Annual Christmas Rocks! Tour

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 27, 8pm WHERE: NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Brian Setzer is a Musician’s Musician credited with continually taking chances with innovative and daring musical styles.

WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 516-247-5213. thetheatreatwestbury.com.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Mounted Cowboy Shooting Match

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 5, 11:30am-1:30pm WHERE: Old Bethpage Village Restoration Fairgrounds, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Watch as New York’s original mounted shooting club The Island Long Riders, dressed in Old-West attire, navigate a course on horseback while shooting targets. The show is based on the historical reenactment of shooting events held at Wild West Shows during the 19th century.

WANT TO GO? $10; $7 children ages 5-12; free for children younger than 5. 516-572-8400. islandlongriders.com.

Play Hooray Kids FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 17, 12pm WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park, Queens AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Families with little ones can sing, dance, and play with the library’s friend Molly Mouse.

WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Infant & Toddler Classes

WHEN: Through Jan. 25, 2017: daily, 10am-12:15pm WHERE: M.A.T.S.S. Kids’ Gym, 171 Eileen Way, Syosset AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Kids socialize with other children and play, learn, and grow through movement, tumbling, and music.

WANT TO GO? See website for prices. 516-496-7765. matsskidsgym.com.

ONCE UPON A TIME Picture Book Time FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 1, 11am WHERE: Hempstead Public Library, 115 Nichols Court, Hempstead AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children are invited to a program of stories, songs, and stuffed animals.

WANT TO GO? 516-481-6990. hempsteadlibrary.info.

Pajama Storytime FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 14, 6:30pm WHERE: Queens Village Library, 94-11 217th St., Queens Village, Queens AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Kids and their caregivers enjoy a fun storytime. Be sure to wear your PJs. WANT TO GO? 718-776-6800. queenslibrary.org.

Story Time FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 17, 10:30am WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Preschoolers listen to stories.

WANT TO GO? 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Bilingual Storytime FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 19, 11am WHERE: Hempstead Public Library, 115 Nichols Court, Hempstead AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy stories in Spanish and English.

WANT TO GO? 516-481-6990. hempsteadlibrary.info.

Meet the Author: ‘The Water Princess’

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 20, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Join popular kids author Susan Verde for readings of her new book The Water Princess.

WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516224-5800. licm.org.

LITTLE FOODIES Spice Up Your Holidays FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 19, 1pm WHERE: Hempstead Public Library, 115 Nichols Court, Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: Learn what spices complement each other and which ones can add a whole new twist to your culinary endeavors.

WANT TO GO? 516-481-6990. hempsteadlibrary.info.

The I Love Chocolate Fest

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 20, 10am-5pm WHERE: Old Bethpage Village Restoration, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: More than 40 chocolate exhibitors will be in attendance, plus wine, crafts, giveaways, and other delicious and unique artisanal treats.

Attendees will receive complimentary tickets for 10 guaranteed samples.

WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors and children ages 5-12; free for children younger than 5. 631-488-0521. lovechocolatefest.com.

Teen Thanksgiving Pumpkin Loaf FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 29, 4pm WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park, Queens AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Make fresh pumpkin loaves to be donated to those in need. Take home a loaf to put on your own Thanksgiving holiday table.

WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Building Gingerbread Houses

WHEN: Through Dec. 17: call for dates and times WHERE: Riesterer’s Bakery, 282 Hempstead Ave., West Hempstead AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Build beautiful gingerbread or chocolate houses to take home and enjoy.

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Scarecrow Suncatchers

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 15, 7pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Decorate your scarecrow with glass stain. Wear old clothes, as this product stains.

WANT TO GO? $2. 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

The Beat of Your Own Drum

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 26, 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Come create and decorate your own paper cup drum craft.

WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516224-5800. licm.org.

Christmas Tree Ceramic Night with pARTy Art FREE

CRAFTY KIDS Goodnight Little House

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 5, 1pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Goodnight Moon is a best-selling classic children’s book and a popular musical running in the LICM Theater. Come celebrate the legacy of this popular bedtime story and be inspired by our new exhibit, Your House My House, as you craft your own miniature paper dollhouse in the style of the colorful book.

WANT TO GO? $3 plus admission: $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Made with Love FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 7, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park, Queens AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Create hats, scarves, blankets, and other items for hospitals, shelters, and the military in a friendly atmosphere.

WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Upcycled Jewelry Making

WHEN: Sept. 22–Nov. 10, Thursdays, 6:45-8:15pm WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park, Queens AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Join Cathy Buckley, Floral Park’s creative upcycled jewelry designer and maker, for a four-session adventure in creating your own baubles.

WANT TO GO? $15. 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Tinker Tools

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 13, 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Decorate your own “toolbelt” for all the gizmos and gadgets you’ll need for any fix-up.

WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516224-5800. licm.org.

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WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 29, 4pm WHERE: Floral Park Public Library, 17 Caroline Place, Floral Park AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Regale your friends and family with your very own made-fromthe-heart ceramic Christmas tree.

WANT TO GO? 516-326-6330. floralparklibrary.org.

Fox Friends

WHEN: Nov. 1-30, Tuesday-Friday, 2:30-4pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Create a friendly fox craft to take home.

WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516224-5800. licm.org.

Crafts For Kids FREE

WHEN: Nov. 5–Dec. 31, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Lakeshore Learning Store, 2079 Hillside Ave., New Hyde Park AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Kids will have a ball making exciting crafts that they can use or display. Every craft is educational and fun.

WANT TO GO? 516-616-9360. lakeshorelearning.com.

Science Inspires Art: Food

WHEN: Through Feb. 26, 2017: Monday-Friday, 2-5pm; SaturdaySunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona, Queens AGES: All WHAT: This 18th art-science, juried exhibition includes more than two dozen images of art that reflect on the topic of food from all angles: from the historical record to the elite haute-cuisine of today’s molecular gastronomy.

WANT TO GO? $15; $12 children ages 2-17, students, and seniors. 718699-0005. nysci.org.

SMARTY PANTS Admissions Open House Upper School FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 6, 9:30am WHERE: Schechter School of Long Island, 6 Cross St., Williston Park AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Meet students, faculty, and administration, and see for yourself how a Schechter High School education delivers academic excellence, warm community, and Jewish values. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 516-539-3700 x1115. schechterli.org.

AGES: All WHAT: Conduct a search into your family history using our genealogy databases and other sources.

WANT TO GO? 516-481-6990. hempsteadlibrary.info.

Ikebana Flower Arranging FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 18, 2pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Class will illustrate the different styles of arrangements and introduce the concepts and principles behind the arrangements.

WANT TO GO? 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

Giving Thanks: Basic Children’s Etiquette Class Buckley Country Day School Open House FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 6, 2pm WHERE: Buckley Country Day School, 2 I.U. Willets Road, Roslyn AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Meet the headmaster, principals, faculty, students, and alumni.

WANT TO GO? 516-627-1910. buckleycountryday.com.

Talk & Tour: The Phipps’ Family in the News

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 6, 1pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Join in a guided tour of Westbury House stopping in rooms and learning how the media reported on the lives and interests of the Phipps.

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 seniors; $5 children ages 7-17; free for children younger than 7. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 19, 12pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Learn the essentials of being a considerate guest, including warm greetings, how to set the table, and proper passing techniques.

WANT TO GO? $15. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Green Teens: Water Conservation

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 20, 1pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Green Teens will lead a Water Wisdom activity, where visitors will create a fortune teller filled with water conservation tips.

WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516224-5800. licm.org. ››

Sunday Science: Crazy Concoctions

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 6, 2-4pm WHERE: Center for Science Teaching and Learning at Tanglewood Preserve, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids will get to experiment with chemical mixtures to make slime, goo, and more in this drop-off program.

WANT TO GO? $14. 516-764-0045. cstl.org.

Reflection Study by Zachary Lieberman

WHEN: Through Nov. 8: Monday-Friday, 2-5pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona, Queens AGES: All WHAT: Reflection Study is an interactive artwork based on a series of software explorations of how light reflects and how visitors can paint with light by using different techniques such as refraction and caustics. A special light table has been created to allow for interaction, exploration, and creation with light and shadow.

WANT TO GO? $15; $12 children ages 2-17, students, and seniors. 718699-0005. nysci.org.

Talk & Tour: What Are They Thinking?

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 13, 1pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Discuss what the subjects of the historic paintings in the Westbury House were thinking then, and what they may be thinking now.

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 seniors; $5 children ages 7-17; free for children younger than 7. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Create Your Family Tree FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 16, 7pm WHERE: Hempstead Public Library, 115 Nichols Court, Hempstead

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WHAT: An evening of classic and new work featuring a hand-chosen and meticulously rehearsed cast.

WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 516-931-6849. tillescenter.org.

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SHOW TIME! ‘The Jungle Book’

WHEN: Through Nov. 5: Saturdays, 2pm; Sundays, 12pm WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Adapted from Disney’s beloved animated film and the works of Rudyard Kipling, the “man cub” Mowgli, bounds through the jungle and learns what it means to be human.

WANT TO GO? $11. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

‘The Wiz of Oz’

WHEN: Through Nov. 5: Saturdays, 1pm WHERE: Studio Theatre, 141 S. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Dorothy and her friends face witches, munchkins, and flying monkeys as they learn the valuable lessons of friendship and bravery.

WANT TO GO? $10. 631-226-8400. studiotheatreli.com.

Wayne Brady

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 5, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: The Emmy Award-winning actor, singer, dancer, and comedian is best known for his show-stealing role on the improvisational comedy television series Whose Line Is It Anyway?

WANT TO GO? $45 and up. 516-931-6849. tillescenter.org.

‘Rent: 20th Anniversary Tour’

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 6, 7pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: This Tony Award®-winning masterpiece continues to speak loudly and defiantly across generations and around the world.

WANT TO GO? $33 and up. 516-931-6849. tillescenter.org.

Miranda Sings

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 11, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: You will not want to miss seeing this lipstick-wearing, epileptic eye-browed, crooked-smiling beauty live and in person.

WANT TO GO? $42.50. 516-931-6849. tillescenter.org.

Twyla Tharp Dance: Fiftieth Anniversary Tour

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 12, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All 40

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WHEN: Nov. 5-20, Saturdays, 11am; Sundays, 12pm WHERE: The Showplace at the Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Ave., Bellmore AGES: 3-8 WHAT: This fast-paced musical adaptation brings the classic story to life.

WANT TO GO? $12. 516-599-6870. plazatheatrical.com.

Shanghai Nights: Direct from Shanghai, the P.R. of China

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 20, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Come watch as these phenomenal acrobats balance, climb, jump, spin, and wow you with their talents.

WANT TO GO? $45 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Doo Wop Project

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 27, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Featuring current and former stars of Broadway’s smash hits Jersey Boys and Motown: The Musical.

WANT TO GO? $45 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

‘Annie Jr.’

WHEN: Nov. 19–Dec. 3, Saturdays, 1pm WHERE: Studio Theatre, 141 S. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst AGES: All WHAT: Join Little Orphan Annie and her friends, Daddy Warbucks, and Miss Hannigan in this fun-filled, 1-hour musical for the entire family.

WANT TO GO? $10. 631-226-8400. studiotheatreli.com.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Creatures of the Night Hike

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 4, 7:30pm WHERE: Center for Science Teaching and Learning at Tanglewood Preserve, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Take a guided walk, then visit the Amazing Animals Exhibit to meet our nocturnal animals when they’re awake. Bring a flashlight.

WANT TO GO? $7. 516-764-0045. cstl.org.

Walking Tour

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 5, 3pm WHERE: Oyster Bay Historical Society, 20 Summit St., Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Embark on a foot tour of Oyster Bay, featuring the historical sites along East and West Main streets, Audrey Avenue, and South Street in the heart of the hamlet.

WANT TO GO? $10; $5 for children 12 and younger. 516-922-5032. oysterbayhistorical.org.

Early Bird Walk

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 5, 9am WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: A wildlife expert from the Theodore Roosevelt Sanctuary and Audubon Center leads the outdoor tour and shares expertise on local species.

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 seniors; $5 children ages 7-17; free for children younger than 7. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Woodland Wildflowers Nature Walk

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 13, 10am-12pm WHERE: Muttontown Preserve, Muttontown Lane, East Norwich AGES: All WHAT: The preserve includes miles of marked nature trails with local wildflowers, trees, birds, mammals, reptiles, and amphibians.

WANT TO GO? $5 donation. 516-571-8500. nassaucountyny.gov.

Wildlife Weekend

WHEN: Nov. 5-13, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park, Queens AGES: All WHAT: Learn about critters big and small at this pay-one-price event.

Admission includes the Birds of Prey Show, Frogs, Bugs, and Animals Show, hayrides, animal feeding, and pony rides (80 lb. limit).

WANT TO GO? $9. 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

Based on the beloved holiday film, this hilarious fish-out-of-water comedy follows Buddy the Elf in his quest to find his true identity.

Shows every Sat. & Sun. @ 2:00PM Friday 11/25 @ 2:00PM No Show Sun. 12/18 Shows Daily 12/26-12/30 @ 1:00PM

Long Island Long Ago

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 20, 10-11am WHERE: Bailey Arboretum, 194 Bayville Road, Lattington AGES: 3-12 WHAT: With games, activities, and stories learn what life was like long ago while exploring Bailey Arboretum’s forest.

WANT TO GO? $10 per family. 516-801-1458. baileyarboretum.org.

Sunday Science: Bugs

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 20, 2-4pm WHERE: Center for Science Teaching and Learning at Tanglewood Preserve, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about insects and spiders, examine their homes and habitats, and even meet some up close.

WANT TO GO? $14. 516-764-0045. cstl.org. ››

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KINDNESS CRUSADERS CancerCare’s 14th Annual Lung Cancer Walk for Hope

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 6, 9:30am WHERE: Town of Oyster Bay Golf Course, 1 Southwoods Road, Woodbury AGES: All WHAT: This family-friendly 5K walk supports CancerCare’s free programs and services for patients, caregivers, and loved ones impacted by lung cancer.

WANT TO GO? $40; $20 students ages 13-22; $10 for children 12 and younger. 212-712-8369. cancercare.org/lungcancerwalk.

Shababa Cooks for Veterans

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 11, 11am-1pm WHERE: Sid Jacobson JCC, 300 Forest Drive, Greenvale AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Join us to make soup and pies for local veterans and others in need.

WANT TO GO? $25; $15 members. 516-484-1545. sjjcc.org.

Community Service Project: Friends With Paws Charity Dog Treats FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 17, 7pm WHERE: Franklin Square Public Library, 19 Lincoln Road, Franklin Square AGES: 9-17 WHAT: A community service certificate will be given to each participant who joins in making homemade dog treats which will later be delivered to a local rescue shelter.

WANT TO GO? 516-488-3444. franklinsquarepl.org.

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Bethpage Turkey Drive to Benefit Island Harvest FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 18, 7am-6pm WHERE: Bethpage Federal Credit Union Headquarters, 899 S. Oyster Bay Road, Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Donate frozen turkeys, non-perishable food items, or cash donations to help Long Island families in need enjoy a Thanksgiving meal.

WANT TO GO? 800-628-7070. lovebethpage.com.

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American Heart Association’s 8th Annual Healing Heart 5K Run/Walk

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WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 20, 10am WHERE: Pugliese Vineyards, 34515 Main Road, Cutchogue AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The event creates a culture of health and physical activity, giving families the opportunity to participate in heart healthy activities together.

WANT TO GO? $35; $20 for children younger than 16. 631-7342804. healingheart5k.org.

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Developmental classes that work on motor skills, hand-eye coordination, socialization, and sport-specific skills. Classes include baseball, basketball, flag football, lacrosse, multi-sport, soccer & volleyball.

SCHOOL VACATION PROGRAMS •AGES 3-10

Half-day and Full-day drop-off is offered to our athletes when school is not in session. “Turf-time” is a multi-sport program where the athletes are broken down by age. Athletes can choose from playing baseball, dodge ball, soccer, basketball, obstacle coarse, and more!

BIRTHDAY PARTIES •AGES 2 & UP

We provide everything needed so that parents can sit back, relax, and enjoy the party! Athletes can choose from a variety of sports and we will make sure to cater to your every need!

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WHEN: Through Dec. 28: Tuesday-Wednesday, 3-6pm WHERE: Theresa Academy of Performing Arts, 250 Lido Blvd., Lido Beach AGES: All WHAT: Children with special needs as well as typically developing children are welcome. After-school classes include music, art, dance, drama, and yoga.

WANT TO GO? $30 per day; $20 individual classes. 516-432-0200. tapany.org.

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WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 29, Tuesdays, 4-5:15pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children on the spectrum, along with their families, engage in gallery experiences that encourage talking about and making art.

WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12; $2 weekend parking fee. 516-484-9338. nassaumuseum.org.

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WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 6, 12-1pm WHERE: Syosset Public Library, 225 S. Oyster Bay Road, Syosset AGES: All WHAT: Syosset Public Library invites you to an autism-friendly performance of Alice in Wonderland. This performance is specially designed and adapted by Plaza Productions, Inc. for children with autism spectrum disorder, and their families.

WANT TO GO? 516-921-7161. syossetlibrary.org.

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WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Saturdays, 9am-12pm WHERE: Theresa Academy of Performing Arts, 250 Lido Blvd., Lido Beach AGES: All WHAT: Respite classes for children with special needs as well as typically developing children. Classes include music, art, dance, drama, and yoga.

WANT TO GO? $40 per week. 516-432-0200. tapany.org.

Coming up next month: DEC. 4: Max and Ruby in the Nutcracker Suite at NYCB Westbury Theatre, Westbury DEC. 17: The Nutcracker performed by Eglevsky Ballet at Tilles Center, Greenvale DEC. 3-18: Madeline’s Christmas at The Showplace at the Bellmore Movies, Bellmore

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Time to lace up your skates and practice your figure eights! Winter is upon us and local rinks are ready to have you on the ice. Whether you’re just learning to skate or a total pro, ice-skating is fun for the whole family. Plus, if you don’t land that jump you’ve been working on, you can always cheer up with a cup of cocoa at many ice rink concession stands. As always, call ahead to verify hours and prices before your ice-skating outing.

12:30-2:30pm; Friday, 12:30-3:15pm, 3:30-5:30pm, and 8-10pm (Teen Night); Saturday, 3-5:30pm, 8-10pm; Sunday, 9:30-11:30am, 2-4pm, 7:30-9:30pm (14 years and older).

Price: Residents or customers with Park Card: $7; $5 children and seniors. Nonresidents or customers without Park Card: $10; $7 children; $3.50 skate rental.

Outdoor Rinks

Grant Park Skating Rink Broadway and Sheridan Avenue, Hewlett 516-571-7821; nassaucountyny.gov/parks Hours: Nov. 28 through mid-March: daily, 1-3pm; Tuesday and Friday, 3:30-5:30pm; Wednesday-Thursday and SaturdaySunday, 10:30am-12:30pm; FridaySaturday, 7-9pm; Sunday, 4-6pm.

Price: $22; $15 children. With Leisure Pass: $8; $6 children 12 and younger (must be accompanied by an adult); $4 seniors; $5 skate rental.

Marjorie R. Post Community Park Ice Rink 451 Unqua Road (at Merrick Road), Massapequa 516-797-7990; oysterbaytown.com Hours: Opens Friday, Nov. 25. Updated hours were not available at press time; call or check the website for updates.

Price: Admission per 2-hour session.

Residents: $5; $4 children ages 5-17; $2 children ages 2-4 and seniors ages 60 and older. Non-residents: $8; $7 children ages 5-17; $2 children ages 2-4 and seniors ages 60 and older; $3 skate rental.

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Syosset-Woodbury Community Park Ice Rink 7800 Jericho Turnpike, Syosset 516-677-5990 oysterbaytown.com Hours: Opens Friday, Nov. 25 for the season. Skating hours were not available at press time; call or check the website for updates.

Price: Admission per 2-hour session.

Residents: $5; $4 children ages 5-17; $2 children ages 2-4 and seniors ages 60 and older. Non-residents: $8; $7 children ages 5-17; $2 children ages 2-4 and seniors; $3 skate rental.

Cantiague Park Ice Skating Rink 480 W. John St., Hicksville 516-571-7056; 516-571-7058 nassaucountyny.gov/parks Hours: Through June: 1-3pm daily; additional sessions on Fridays, 3:30-5:30pm.

Hours vary by month; call to confirm.

Price: $22 for non-resident adults; $15 for non-resident children (with accompanying adult) and seniors. $8 for resident adults; $6 for resident children; $5 seniors. With Leisure Pass: $8; $6 children ages 12 and younger with adult; $5 seniors, veterans, disabled, and civil volunteers; free for children ages 3 and younger with paying adult; $6 skate rental.

Freeport Recreation Center 130 E. Merrick Road, Freeport 516-377-2314; freeportny.com Hours: Through March 31, 2017: Thursday, 3:30-6pm; Friday, 7:30-9pm; Saturday, 1-3pm; Sunday, 1:30-3pm and 3:15-4:45pm. Check the website for school recess hours.

Price: Residents: $6; $7 non-residents; $9 guests; $4 skate rental.

Indoor Rinks

Andrew Stergiopoulos Ice Rink /Parkwood Ice Skating Rink Parkwood Sports Complex 65 Arrandale Ave., Great Neck 516-487-2975 x3 greatneckparks.com Hours: Through May: Monday, 12:302:30pm; Tuesday, 10am-12pm and 12:30-2:30pm; Wednesday, 10am-12pm, 12:30-2:30pm, 3-5pm, and 8:3010:30pm; Thursday, 10am-12pm and

Iceland Ice Skating 3345 Hillside Ave., New Hyde Park 516-746-1100 x1 icelandlongisland.com Hours: Year-round: Friday, 3:30-5:30pm and 8:30-10:30pm (Teen Night for ages 11 and older only); Saturday, 12-2pm, all ages; Sunday, 11:15am-12:45pm (children’s session for ages 10 and younger only) and 1-3pm, all ages.

Price: $9; $7 ages 9 and younger; $10 for Teen Night admission; $5 skate rental.

Children’s session: $8 parents; $7 children. Prices and times are subject to change.

Newbridge Arena 2600 Newbridge Road, Bellmore 516-783-6181 newbridgearena.com Hours: Open year-round; Wednesday, 4:15-6:15pm; Thursday, 8-10am; Friday, 8:30-10:30am, 4:30-6:30pm, and 8:30-10:30pm; SaturdaySunday, 12:30-2:30pm and 2:45-4:45pm. Call or check the website for holiday hours.

Price: Wednesday-Friday before 6pm, excluding holidays: $6; $4 Town of Hempstead residents; $3 resident seniors; $5 Non-resident seniors.

Nights, weekends, and holidays: $9; $7 Town of Hempstead residents; $6 fire, police, ambulance, and military personnel; free for children younger than 5 on Mondays and Fridays until 6pm (with paid adult); $4 skate rental.

and 8-10pm; Saturday-Sunday, 1-3pm and 3:30-5:30pm.

Schedule is subject to change.

Price: Town of Oyster Bay residents: $6; $4 seniors ages 60 and older, veterans, and firefighters; $5 children ages 5-17; $3 children ages 2-4. Non-residents: $10; $8 children ages 5-17; $5 seniors ages 60 and older, veterans, and firefighters; $4 children ages 2-4; $4 skate rental.

Suffolk County, Long Island Outdoor Rinks

Mitchell Park Ice Rink Mitchell Park on Front Street, Greenport 631-477-2200 greenportvillage.com; villageofgreenport.org Hours: Opening date TBA; weather permitting: Monday, 3-6pm; Tuesday-Friday,

3-5pm; Saturday, 11am6pm; Sunday, 11am-5:30pm.

Holiday hours vary. Open for all Greenport school holidays from 11am-5pm.

Price: Weekdays: $5; $3 children and seniors. Weekends and school holidays: $10; $7 children and seniors; $5 skate rental. Season passes and youth group discounts available. Prices subject to change.

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Port Washington Skating Center 70 Seaview Blvd., Port Washington 516-484-6800; pwskating.com Hours: Open year-round: Schedule through November: Monday, Wednesday, and Thursday, 1-4pm; Tuesday, 2:30-4pm; Friday, 1-2:30pm; Saturday-Sunday, 2:153:45pm. Hours subject to change in December. See website for more information and special holiday hours.

Skating and hockey instruction are offered for children.

Price: $8; $4 skate rental.

Town of Oyster Bay Ice Skating Center Bethpage Community Park, 1001 Stewart Ave. (at Cherry Avenue), Bethpage 516-433-7465 x1 oysterbaytown.com Hours: Through April 9, 2017: Monday, 4-6pm; Tuesday, 10am-12pm; Wednesday, 4-6pm; Thursday, 10am-12pm; Friday, 4-6pm LongIslandParent 45

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NG EY I NN N TH A PL HE UP R W ROW O F G 48 A ll Grown Up: What to consider when your child with special needs turns 21—and is no longer a child.

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What to consider when your child with special needs turns 21—and is no longer a child. By Samantha Neudorf

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s parents, we hope for our children to grow up and— difficult though it may be for us emotionally—fly the coop to live on their own as full-fledged, independent adults.

But if you have a child with special needs, these concerns may run deeper, and that goal may seem elusive or even impossible.

That is why parents should start to consider what happens to their children with special needs, no matter how young they may be, well before they turn 21.

The first thing to consider is what your child with special needs will do after completing high school. Will she go to college? Will he attend a vocational school? Will she live on her own? These are all conversations you should be having now. Here are some points to consider when planning the future for your child with special needs.

Obtaining Guardianship

If your child has health issues, you may want to consider applying for guardianship, because once your child with special needs turns 18, you as the parent may not have access to his health care information because of HIPAA: the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996. Under HIPAA, patients older than 18 have their own rights to privacy for their medical records, meaning parents or caregivers do not automatically have the right to this information. One way to work around this, if your child is unable to take care of himself,

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is to obtain guardianship—which means, essentially, that you will retain legal responsibility for your child even though he is of age to be considered an adult.

Bernard Krooks is an attorney and founding partner of Littman Krooks, a law firm that specializes in elder law and special-needs planning, with offices in Manhattan and White Plains. Krooks advises that parents start to apply for guardianship by the time their child is 17 years old because the process could take longer than six months.

The guardianship process involves petitioning the court. Parents begin by filling out an application to certify that their child does indeed have a disability, and a doctor must submit a form to verify this. The application must also specify why the child with special needs is not able to care for himself. Then there will be a hearing in front of a judge, which is why it may be valuable to hire a special needs attorney to assist in the process.

Krooks also suggests setting up a special needs trust to create a supplementary source of funds to pay for everyday necessities that government benefits will not cover, such as services that are not covered by Medicaid.

“The reality is what the government gives you is decreasing due to fiscal constraints,” Krooks says, “so it’s very important to have a special needs trust to pay for things that help improve the quality of life of somebody with disabilities.”

Pursuing Higher Education

Under the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act, children are entitled to free and appropriate public education by federal law, and schools must provide them with an education through 12th grade. The IDEA covers 13 kinds of disabilities, including autism, deafness, orthopedic impairment, and visual impairment.

As a part of the IDEA, children with special needs will receive an Individualized Education Program, which is a document that specifies what your child’s disability is and how the school will support her. The IEP will specify how the child is doing in school, educational goals, and transition planning to prepare him for life after high school.

In order for a child to move on to college, she will need a regents diploma if she went to high school in New York, and will have to undergo psychoeducational testing to analyze the mental processes that might affect her educational performance. Once a child takes this test, he can apply to college and the school will provide the proper accommodations when taking exams.

Lara Bakshi, special needs and special education attorney and founder of Bakshi Law in Manhattan and West Islip, strongly advises that, if they are able to, children with special needs either receive a higher education or pursue a vocational program.

“The most important thing for a child with special needs is to be able to interact with their peers that are not special,” Bakshi says.

Bakshi suggests that a child with special needs attend a small liberal arts college because it will be more structured and less overwhelming than a large university.

If he decides to attend a vocational school, programs such as the Boards of Cooperative Educational Services, which has 37 locations across New York state, are popular choices. There are programs, such as Career and Technical Education to learn how to operate different machineries.

Littman Krooks, among other companies, employs people with special needs in its office to help with administrative tasks that include making photocopies, filing paperwork, and helping with shredding and scanning documents.

Deciding Where to Live

The other big question to consider is where your child with special needs should live because she will technically no longer be a child after turning 21. Krooks says that parents tend to keep their children at home, but the problem is it’s not preparing them to live independently.

“Statistically speaking, the parents will predecease the child,” Krooks says. “Years ago, children with special needs did not have a normal, typical life expectancy, but now many kids, even with Down syndrome and other special needs, are able to live a full or close to full life expectancy.”

Parents should therefore consider helping their child with special needs find a place to live in proximity to his doctors, he says. Krooks suggests finding a specialist who has worked in the area for a long time and to establish a relationship with the doctor throughout the child’s lifetime.

“The sooner you plan for this, the fewer things that you’ll be unprepared for along the way,” Krooks says.

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Adelberg Montalvan Pediatric Dental and Orthodontics

1000 F. Park Blvd., Massapequa Park 516-798-1111 62 Lake Ave. S., Suite A, Nesconset 631-360-PEDS (7337) 615 Montauk Highway, West Islip 631-661-PEDS (7337) ampediatricdental.com adelbergped@optonline.net We specialize in treating children with special needs. We know that you have enough to worry about so let us take the stress and worry out of taking your child to the dentist. We have an anesthesiologist on call to safely put your child to sleep right here in our offices. Please feel free to call for more information.

Advantage Care Health Center

189 Wheatley Road, Brookville 516-686-4400 advantagecaredtc.org Advantage Care as a Patient-Centered Medical Home meets standards consistent with those of the National Committee for Quality Assurance’s Physician Practice Connections® Patient-Centered Medical Home Program (PPC-PCMH™). This is a model of care that strengthens the physician-patient relationship by promoting improved access, coordinated care, and enhanced communication with the patient, family, providers, and staff. Each patient has an ongoing relationship with a personal physician who leads a team that takes collective responsibility for the patient’s care. Advantage Care provides the highest quality medical care with a range of health services.

Bakshi Law

Offices in the Financial District, Manhattan, Long Island, and Westchester 917-244-6133; lawbakshi.com lara.bakshi@gmail.com Bakshi Law specializes in special education law. We represent parents and children with disabilities, acquire correct classification under IDEA, ensure proper implementation of IEP, ascertain correct placement for children, and tuition reimbursement. We attend CSE

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meetings, resolution meetings, and suspension hearings, and all disciplinary hearings for special needs and general education students. Bakshi Law’s attorneys are passionate about your child’s education and offer assistance on a sliding scale for parents experiencing financial difficulties.

Camp Huntington

56 Bruceville Road, High Falls 855-707-2267; camphuntington.com dfalk@camphuntington.com Camp Huntington is a coed, residential program for children (ages 6-22) with autism and related learning and developmental needs. Our summer and weekend camp programs maximize a child’s potential, and locate and develop strengths and hidden abilities.

Campers enjoy fun-filled days while learning practical social and life skills. Our unique program of adaptive, therapeutic recreation combines key elements that encourage progress: structured programming, nurturing care, a positive setting, and academic instruction to meet IEP goals.

Camp Loyaltown

516-293-2016 x5608 camployaltown.org Each year, Camp Loyaltown welcomes more than 650 campers to enjoy the wonders of the outdoors in a safe and fun environment. Located in the Catskill Mountains, Camp Loyaltown is a summer sleepaway camp for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Campers enjoy amenities such as the sensory garden, pedal-boating, therapeutic horseback riding, a nature barn, and most of all, the heated, water park-type swimming pool. Camp Loyaltown is accredited by the American Campers Association and provides a 4-to-1 camper-to-counselor ratio and provides 1-on-1 care when needed.

ChiroMom

2874 Merrick Road, Bellmore 516-221-1212; mychiromom.com mychiromom@gmail.com Dr. Dana Walters is a chiropractor specializing in prenatal and

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pediatric care. Dr. Walters has practiced in a variety of areas, including Manhattan’s Upper West Side, and has brought her passion for helping families discover the benefits of chiropractic care to Bellmore as ChiroMom. ChiroMom offers chiropractic care utilizing techniques including immune boosting treatments, musculoskeletal and nutritional work, activator techniques, massage therapy, and lifestyle education. As a mom, Dr. Walters experiences first-hand how chiropractic care throughout pregnancy, birth, and childhood sets a solid foundation for greater health and well-being.

Dr. Steve Imber, Psychoeducational Consultants

Serving Nassau and Suffolk counties as well as the five boroughs of NYC 61-43 186th St., Fresh Meadows 516-273-1961 dr-imber.com scimber1@aol.com Dr. Imber has more than 40 years of experience consulting, evaluating, and advocating for children, adolescents, and adults with various disabilities including autism (e.g. Asperger’s syndrome), attention deficit disorders, intellectual disabilities, emotional and behavioral disorders, and learning disabilities. Dr. Imber is a professor of special education and a special education expert.

He addresses needs of students in public, private, and charter schools. Services are available to parents, students, pediatricians, and attorneys. A confidential complimentary phone consultation is available upon request (Nassau and Suffolk counties and the five boroughs of NYC).

Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry

959 Brush Hollow Road, Suite 101, Westbury 516-333-3033; kidsteeth4li.com kidds@optonline.net Why choose us? Our expert care and a compassionate approach. We have a special place in our hearts for children with special needs. We

know they require and deserve care tailored to meet their unique needs. Our doctors have completed two years of specialty training in behavior management, sedation, and hospital dentistry. This clinical expertise, combined with our gentle touch, makes us the clinicians of choice for the dental care of children with special needs.

Huntington Learning Centers

656 Sunrise Highway, Baldwin 516-867-4041 607 E. Main St., Bay Shore 631-968-5100 79-81 Westbury Ave., Carle Place 516-747-5600 Elwood Shopping Center 1928B Jericho Turnpike, East Northport 631-462-8900 Phillips Plaza 639 Sunrise Highway, Lynbrook 516-568-1900 1506 Northern Blvd., Manhasset 516-365-4455 South Gate Shopping Center 49-34 Merrick Road, Massapequa Park 516-799-9500 Gateway Plaza 499-5 Sunrise Highway, Patchogue 631-289-4900 443 South Oyster Bay Road, Suite B, 2nd floor, Plainview Smithtown Shopping Center 8 Miller Place, Smithtown 631-360-0422 huntingtonhelps.com Huntington Learning Center is an accredited K-12 tutoring and test prep leader with certified teachers providing individualized instruction in phonics, reading, writing, math, science, study skills, executive functioning skills, SAT, ACT, and state and standardized exams. Huntington helps students at all levels achieve results including students with dyslexia, ADHD, and other learning disabilities. The skills, confidence, and motivation developed by Huntington help students succeed and meet Common Core State Standards.

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Law Offices of Brad H. Rosken, P.L.L.C.

1772 E. Jericho Turnpike, Suite 2, Huntington 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com School districts consult their attorneys, why shouldn’t you?

Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law. He’ll guide you, decipher lingo, and develop effective strategies. He’s also a New York state-certified Impartial Hearing Officer and is hearing Due Process Hearings in New York City.

Long Island Whole Child Academy School for Twice Exceptional Learning

175 Wolf Hill Road, Melville 347-668-3676 liwholechild.org etrdream@aol.com The Long Island Whole Child Academy, School for Twice Exceptional Learning, is the only Long Island school dedicated to serving once highly capable students who also cope with anxiety, executive functioning, social cognition, and sensory processing challenges; ADHD; and high-functioning ASD youth, who do not thrive in a traditional school setting. Our mission is to provide a cutting-edge, integrated educational experience that raises the academic bar while building social and emotional strength and resilience through individualized attention and best clinical and gifted education practices. We also offer Saturday adventures and mid-week homeschoolers’ clubs.

Merrick Pediatric Dentistry

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1756A Merrick Ave., Merrick 516-547-1997 merrickpediatricdentistry.com Dr. Rania Elbaz is a board-certified pediatric dentist. She earned her dental degree from Columbia University and completed pediatric dental training at UMDNJ-New Jersey Dental School. Dr. Elbaz strives to create an environment that children look forward to visiting.

She sees every patient in order to insure consistency. The office gives extra time and attention to

patients with special needs, and is wheelchair accessible. Sedation is available after all other alternatives have been considered. The office participates with most major insurance plans.

PTS Coaching - Cindy Goldrich, Ed.M., A.C.A.C. Certified ADHD Parent Coach

Long Island ptscoaching.com info@ptscoaching.com Cindy Goldrich specializes in parenting children and teens with ADHD. She helps parents reduce arguing, stress, and chaos to help children reach their true potential. Cindy conducts a parent workshop series to help parents develop the tools to create a calm, more compliant environment. Specific strategies are developed to establish workable, realistic rules and expectations; reduce homework stress; and improve children’s problem solving, self-advocacy, and communication skills. Additional services include school support, staff development, and presentations.

Coaching is available in person on Long Island and Manhattan or via phone.

Dr. Ellen T Richer, Education Clinician & Counselor

Convenient Long Island Locations 347-668-3676 etrdream@aol.com With more than 20 years of research, observation, interaction, and listening, Dr. Richer has pulled back the curtain surrounding underachieving, at-risk, and non-thriving students to expose these simple truths: all children, teens, and adults, will thrive when we invite them to thrive, and will invest in their own success when we invest in them, and help them feel connected, competent, and empowered to control their lives. We co-develop strategies to improve executive functioning, sensory processing, and social cognition challenges, and provide enrichment opportunities to engage and motivate highly capable yet underachieving children.

Steps to Socialization

13 S. Bayles Ave., Port Washington 516-767-0266 Steps to Socialization was created by Evelyn Kashinsky, a parent of children with special

needs, to help children who have difficulty socializing. Steps to Socialization is more than just a social skills program. We teach children how to think socially, step by step. Working in small groups of three to four students, we cover a variety of topics, including how to establish and maintain friendships and initiating and maintaining conversations.

Variety Child Learning Center

47 Humphrey Drive, Syosset 516-921-7171 Variety Child Learning Center at the Gallow School 72 Farmedge Road, Levittown 516-490-3301; vclc.org Variety Child Learning Center provides programs and services to more than 750 children (ages birth to 7) and their families annually, at two sites in Syosset and Levittown, and off-site, including Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA Home Program); Special education preschool and K-2; Early Intervention; Evaluation Center to determine eligibility; Special Classes in an Integrated Setting (SCIS); SEIT (Special Education

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47 Humphrey Drive, Syosset 516-921-7171 Variety Child Learning Center at the Gallow School 72 Farmedge Road, Levittown 516-490-3301; vclc.org Variety Child Learning Center offers Social Skills Training Groups for children and teens (ages 4–16) who are experiencing difficulties in social situations and forming friendships. It also offers Saturday enrichment groups (Sparkling Artists and Movement) focused on social and emotional development, for children ages 3-8, on Saturday mornings during summer, fall, winter, and spring sessions. Call or email for additional information moneyx2179 on or andSaving fees: 516-921-7171 ahamel@vclc.org.

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Teaching toddlers and preschoolers how to handle emergencies. By Melissa Kagan

D

o your little ones know what to do in the event of an emergency? If the answer is no, it’s time to equip them with some basic skills so they can manage worst-case scenarios independently and confidently. While it’s a topic many parents avoid because they don’t want to scare their toddlers and preschoolers, readying your family for a fire, serious injury, or any other emergency is one of the most important lessons you can teach them.

Most small children can be taught to handle the basics of emergency situations, but the first step is to define what an actual emergency is.

Generally speaking, a problem requires the attention of a parent or trusted adult, while an actual emergency warrants the assistance of police, emergency medical, or firefighter services. Giving examples will make it easier to establish which situations fall under which category.

A fire in the house or an unconscious family member qualifies as emergencies. A stolen bike, a scraped knee, or a lost pet do not.

Calling 911

The first step is to teach your kids how to dial 911. You can unplug a landline and teach even a 3-year-old to dial the numbers.

And while you may think your kid is an expert at mobile devices, show them how to use a cellphone. “Many cellphones also have an emergency button that can be used to call for help,” explains Michelle Tween, director of early childhood education at The Chapel School in Bronxville. It’s also important to stress to kids that they should only dial 911 for emergencies. “Kids of all ages need to realize that police or fire trucks will arrive, even if the kids call just out of curiosity,” says Barbara Schori, director of the Ridge Street Country School in Rye Brook.

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Also, prepare youngsters for any questions they will be asked by an emergency operator, such as “Where are you calling from?” or “What is your emergency?” It’s natural to be nervous when urgent situations arise, but being prepared for these questions will help.

“A small child may forget his or her own address,” Tween says, “but calls can be traced, so if they do forget, they will still get the help they need.” Paul J. Donahue, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist and founder and director of Child Development Associates in Scarsdale, recommends telling kids ahead of time that the operator is there to help them and that they can trust the voice at the other end of the line. “This will help little kids to remain calm so that they will be able to stay on the line for as long as the operator needs to them to.”

Take the Fear Out of Situations Ahead of Time

Loud sirens, smoke alarms, and firefighters in uniform are all examples of things that can be very scary to young children. Tween recommends taking the time to familiarize toddlers and preschoolers with them ahead of time. “Take a family trip to your local fire department and show them the equipment the firefighters will be wearing or holding,” she says. “This will give them a frame of reference should a fire actually occur and the fire department shows up.” This would also be a good time to have a discussion about the Stop, Drop, and Roll and Stay Low and Roll techniques.

Tween also recommends intentionally setting off fire alarms and the carbon monoxide detectors in your house during a family meeting so that your kids can hear what they sound like in a controlled environment. (If your alarms connect directly with the

local fire department, don’t forget to disable them beforehand, or else you will have real-life firefighters at your door in minutes.)

“These sounds can be very loud and scary so you want your kids to be familiar with what they sound like ahead of time in order to reduce panic or anxiety,” she says.

You can further involve toddlers and preschoolers by asking them to help you change batteries in fire detection devices and assemble emergency supply kits. Create and practice your escape plan with your family from every room in the house. Practice staying low to the floor and checking for hot doors using the back of your hand. It’s just like a routine school fire drill—but in your home. “Involving your kids will empower them,” Tween says.

Provide Reassurance

It’s easy to become so wrapped up in teaching small children the basics of emergency preparedness you forget how easily overwhelmed they can become. While you’re teaching them how to handle an emergency, make sure you also explain they are safe and protected. Let them know these things probably won’t happen, but it’s your job to make sure they know what to do in a worst-case scenario.

Barbara Klein, director of the Huguenot Nursery School in Pelham, runs emergency drills during the school year, but it is done without frightening her students. “Our goal is to be prepared for any event, but to keep it low key for the children,” she says. “I feel strongly that at this age the children should not have to worry about ‘what might happen’ and to feel safe knowing the teachers will always look out for them.”

First Aid

Emergencies happen, but it isn’t always the child who needs emergency care. If a parent or caregiver is injured, it may be the child who must administer basic care until emergency medical services arrives. For this reason, children should be taught basic first aid. If a child finds herself with an incapacitated caregiver, her own survival may depend on knowing what steps to take. Her sharp mind is limited only by her physical strength and emotional state.

Helping feels good and soothing someone feels important and grown-up. Learning a few first-aid principles does more than prepare kids for the worst: It also helps them develop their compassion, self-esteem, and sense of purpose.

Here’s how to do it in an age-appropriate way: • Introduce basic first aid (treating scrapes and bruises) by using a doll.

• Videotape your child treating a friend’s mock injury and then review the tape with all of the children, asking what could have been done better or more safely.

• Engage with their natural love of playing “doctor” by pretending to be their imaginary patient and telling them your symptoms.

• Ham it up! Use ketchup for blood, white rags for bandages, socks stuffed inside clothing to indicate swelling.

• Go through the first aid kit together, and have some extra bits of gauze, tape, and cotton balls on hand so your child can practice with real tools—smaller kids get a special thrill out of these materials.

• Focus on emergencies your family is most likely to encounter such as someone who has epilepsy. Make sure your child is aware of the conditions and knows how to name them to emergency personnel.

• Finally, remember part of our job as parents is to assure kids they never need to be a hero or overstep their abilities.

Make sure children know their first and most important job is to stay safe themselves.

Melissa Kagan is the former editor-in-chief of the now-defunct lifetimemoms. com. She is currently a freelance writer whose work has been featured in Mommy Poppins, Westchester Magazine, and Westchester Family. She lives in Pelham with her husband and two children.

MORE NON-THREATENING IDEAS TO GET YOUR KIDS READY FOR EMERGENCIES • B rainstorm words that relate to emergency preparedness and create flashcards to review and discuss with your child.

• Encourage children to prepare a skit or role-play how your family should respond to an emergency such as a fire in the house.

• Preschoolers may find it easier to use songs to learn your phone number. Tunes such as “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star” and “Row, Row, Row Your Boat” lend themselves to this exercise.

• Break out the glitter glue, scissors, and construction paper to have your child write out important phone numbers in a decorative fashion.

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