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contents table of

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What Your Teen Really Needs From You

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Where There’s a Will

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Family Fun a Ride Away

Ten things your teen is still relying on you for, despite her newfound independence.

Having a plan in place will protect your children and prepare them for the future.

education 38 Full STEAM Ahead 42 Highlighted Programs 44 Education Directory

raising kids 6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 5 Reasons It’s Okay to Be a Lazy Parent 12 A Healthy Obsession 20 What Your Teen Really Needs From You 22 Ready, Set, Sibling!

50 Party Central 51 Professional Services 52 Meet the Director 52 Meet the Health Care Professional 53 Advertiser’s Index 53 Family Resource Guide 54 Stuff We Like

Things to do and shows to see this month a train ride away!

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family life

14 Starry Slime

18 Are You Ready to Move?

26 Family Fun in Manhattan

24 Where There’s a Will

29 Family Activities Calendar

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raising kids editor’s note

JANUARY 2019 • Vol.24 • No.6

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New Year, New Resolutions

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EDITORIAL DIRECTOR: Katelin Walling ASSISTANT EDITORS: Anja Webb, Melissa Wickes DIRECTOR OF CONTENT: Deborah Skolnik

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appy New Year!

For many of us, January means turning over a new leaf (or at least trying!). We make resolutions we promise ourselves we will keep only to let our family take priority. It’s only natural; after all, you want to make the best decisions for your kids, from finding fun and exciting things to do with your children any day of the month to selecting the right camps, health care providers, schools, or after-school activities for your brood. We here at Queens Parent are here to help find just what you’re looking for and make better decisions for your family!

Ensuring our kids get a great education is always a priority, so we’re also here to tell you about a big trend in more and more schools: Art is being added to STEM studies.

In “Full STEAM Ahead” by Madeleine Burry (p. 38), you’ll find six reasons schools are embracing art as part of science, technology, engineering, and math education. And turn to our Education Directory on p. 44 to find a school, academic enrichment program, or tutor for your child to kick the new semester off on a great start.

If you’re expecting a second child, you’ll want to make sure your first-born is fully prepared. In “Ready, Set, Sibling!” (p. 22), Denise Porretto shares tips on everything, from sharing the news to post-birth bonding. Speaking of growing your family: The size of your home or where you live may soon become a hot-button topic, so check out “Are You Ready to Move?” by Lambeth Hochwald (p. 18).

Are you the parent of a teen? Once upon a time, you were your teen’s social director, homework-helper, and more, but most of those roles have been phased out. While it may seem like your oh-so-grown-up child needs you less, she actually still needs a lot from you.

Read Deborah Skolnik’s “What Your Teen Really Needs from You” (pg. 20) for 10 reasons you shouldn’t keep your distance. Go ahead, give your teen a hug—just maybe not in public.

Another thing that should be a priority? Take time to establish a will (see p. 24 for willwriting advice). While no one wants to think about the unimaginable, having a plan in place will protect your children should something happen to you and your partner.

From our family—me, Melissa, Anja, Alice, Whitney, and Debbie—to yours, we wish you all a happy, healthy New Year!

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Music School Opens Flushing Location

Further Music School boasts a top-n otch faculty of professional musicians with degrees from music schools such as The Juilliard School and Berkl ee College of Music.

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Who: Further Music School What’s New: The Flushing location, the school’s third outpost, which opened Sept.

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The new facility has modernized classrooms, including nine large practice rooms and a recital room, each with a new piano.

At this location, students have the opportunity to attend free monthly recitals to meet with peers from the two other locations. In addition, students can sign up for master classes led by world class musicians.

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Who: Monsignor McClancy Memorial High School What’s New: STEAM programs, which began September 2018.

Some of the new initiatives include the integration of the robotics club and the computer coding class, which will include teaching the students to design and code mobile apps.

During the first week of January, students will partake in an excavational dig while learning about paleontology. The school received a box of soil matrix from an excavation site in North Dakota, and students will dig for 55- to 60-million-year-old fossils, which will be catalogued and sent back to the dig site.

The STEAM approach aims to benefit a wide array of students through both textbook work and hands-on activities.

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Who: Clowns.com What’s New: STEM-themed birthday parties for kids, which are slated to begin this month.

The science parties will consist of two scientists, Scientist X and Scientist Y (named after the chromosomes). Each scientist will perform demonstrations and lead hands-on experiments with the partygoers. The experiments can be anything from making slime to learning about magnetic fields, with each activity tailored to the party attendee’s age group. Comedy is a key aspect of the party performance as well.

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Birthday Party Provider to Offer STEM-themed Parties

Experiment with slim e and other scientific demonstrations at Clowns.com science parties.

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5 Ways to ‘Not Quite Ruin Your Child’

›› By Melissa Wickes

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here’s an abundance of resources—from books and magazines to Facebook and parent groups—to turn to when seeking advice on how to raise the smartest, highest-achieving, and most successful children. We all want what’s best for our kids, after all. But James Breakwell, professional comedy writer and selfproclaimed amateur father of four girls (and two pigs), suggests it’s simply a waste of time. “In the long run, we all work out to be average,” he says. “Your child would be better off if you just relax and do a little less for them, rather than stress yourself out and push them as hard as possible.”

Breakwell, author of Bare Minimum Parenting: The Ultimate Guide to Not-Quite Ruining Your Child, shares advice that proves it’s okay to be a “lazy parent.”

Say no to (parental) peer pressure. When the mother of a boy in your son’s Boy Scout troop makes comments about the KitKat you put in his lunch or your daughter’s field hockey coach asks why she’s not on a travel team yet (in fourth grade), it can be difficult to stick to your own parenting ways. But if every parent thinks they’re right about how to parent and you’re wrong, then everyone is wrong, according to Breakwell. “If someone tells you you’re a terrible parent, who cares,” he says.

“They can’t stop you from giving your kid that candy bar. We’ve been raising kids for hundreds of thousands of years before Facebook and online forums. Don’t let parent-shaming control your decisions.”

Show up sometimes, but not all the time. “Raise your kid to think they’re a member of the family, not the entire family,” Breakwell suggests. By dropping everything, leaving work, and traveling far and wide to go to every single one of your son’s lacrosse games, you’re teaching him that he’s the epicenter of the universe and he should only do things in search of your validation, not because he loves them. Instead, Breakwell suggests showing up when you can, and when you do, take him out for dinner after the game. “After all, your kids aren’t going to remember the games you weren’t at, but they will remember the one time you took them for pizza after,” he says.

Speaking of sports, are you spending all of your time and money to fly around the country, pay tournament fees, and book hotels so your child can potentially get a scholarship to college and you can save money? Breakwell compares that to spending $1,000 at a claw machine for a $5 stuffed animal. “Why not take all of that money 10

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James Breakwell (middle), author of Bare Minimum Parenting: The Ultimage Guide to Not-Quite Ruining Your Child, with his family

you’re wasting and save it for college?” Breakwell suggests. Plus, it’s likely your kid won’t become a professional sports player.

Convince them they had a great childhood. When parents post pictures on Facebook, Breakwell says they’re lying to their friends.

“You post your best picture, I post my best picture, and we create an echo chamber of lying where everyone thinks the other is telling the truth,” Breakwell says. “Use this to your advantage.”

Due to the strange phenomenon known as childhood amnesia, kids can only remember events that occurred before age 3 when they’re little, according to Popular Science. By the time they’re 7, these early memories are almost entirely gone and what they “remember” is a product of what you tell them and the photos they see. “If they don’t remember anyway, why are we stressing out?!” Breakwell asks. “Save the pictures that frame you in a good light and tell your kid she had a happy childhood, and, when she grows up, she won’t blame you for all of her problems.”

Stop worrying about preschool (and middle school, high school, college…). “Overachieving parents say that all they care about is their child getting a good education and that education is all that matters. Honestly, I don’t think education matters all that much as long as your kid somehow gets one somewhere,” Breakwell says. “Nobody has secret math. Math at one school will be the same as it is at another school even if the other school has a swimming pool and a polo field.” If a parent is saying she wants her son to go to the best school, does this mean the school that will make him the happiest and feel the most fulfilled, or is it the one that will ensure he makes the most money? Instead of focusing on getting your kid into the school with the ‘best reputation,’ focus on helping your child make the most of his education.

Gently shove your child out the door. The first benchmark of successful parenting is if you raised your child to ultimately support themselves, according to Breakwell. Now, no one is suggesting your 7-year-old live off of lemonade stand money. However, when the time is right, if your child doesn’t get a job, he will certainly never leave.

While every parent ideally wants to encourage his child to follow her dreams of becoming a freelance traveling poet, money does ultimately matter. If she’s not making any, it’s coming from you. While you don’t have to explicitly discourage your child from choosing a “fun but impoverishing career,” it can’t hurt to not encourage her to choose a career that will lead to her living in your basement.

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Courtesy Christopher Dale

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A Healthy Obsession ››

My son is my best reason yet to learn to limit my OCD behaviors. By Christopher Dale

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did not hit the genetic lottery. Depression, anxiety, and addiction run in my family, and in early adulthood I battled all three.

Fortunately, a combination of psychiatry, medication, and Alcoholics Anonymous have made my 30s far better than my 20s.

I got well—or at least well enough—just in time to salvage my marriage and become a father.

Now, as my toddler marches steadily toward constant cognizance— into remembering and mimicking his parents’ mannerisms—I feel urgency to address another diagnosis, one less dangerous but nonetheless a source of angst and alienation.

I want to overcome my obsessive-compulsive disorder—before it affects my son.

At its root, OCD is a fear-based mental illness. It involves counterproductive efforts to maintain a sense of safety when feeling threatened or at risk. A telltale peculiarity is the actions taken to offset these uneasy feelings are completely unassociated with the perceived threats. For example, my OCD might compel me to mitigate fear of failing at work by adjusting a framed photo in the bedroom.

Thus commences a cycle where, contrary to intentions, the safety-seeking actions actually lead to worsening anxiety. It’s the feeling of hopelessness attached to knowing that what you’re doing is patently illogical…and being incapable of doing anything about it.

Though no specific gene has been pinpointed, research indicates OCD runs in families. Those with a parent or sibling with OCD have a higher risk of developing it. Experts also believe environmental factors can cause OCD tendencies to develop—a “monkey see, monkey do” effect.

In other words, the more my son, Nicholas, sees my OCD-mandated movements, the more likely he is to develop his own.

I got off lightly compared to many others with OCD, as my obsessive thoughts and routines aren’t extreme or dangerous. I’m compelled to rigidly arrange my shoes, and often fail to flick a light switch per my compulsion’s inexplicable ideal, leading to multiple repeats. I do this pinching thing with my hands (the pressure quells my OCD), and, stereotypically, I’m uneasy stepping on sidewalk cracks.

I also fight the urge to grind my teeth—often unsuccessfully, considering my dental records. These bodily compulsions are particularly burdensome since, unlike shoes and light switches, I can’t just walk away from my teeth. Constant triggers require constant vigilance.

And though it hasn’t impacted my career, relationships, or other big-ticket items, my OCD is still a significant source of alienation,

The author with his son, Nicholas

humiliation, and stress. Despite this, I’ve never hit an “immediate pain vs. long-term reward” ratio sufficient to commit myself to truly overcoming my OCD. Until now. Until Nicholas.

If Nicholas develops OCD via overwhelming genetics, so be it.

But if nurture plays a determining role, it’s my responsibility to prevent my son from following in my pavement crack-averse footsteps.

From a parenting perspective, this dilemma’s simplicity is refreshing. Even at age 2, raising Nicholas presents a spectrum of gray areas. Is he eating enough? Learning enough? Interacting enough?

Answers typically fall into the “probably,” “I think so,” or “I have no idea” columns. Clear-cut cases of yes and no are elusive.

Not so with this issue. It’s a must-do.

In spite—or perhaps because—of this, the execution is exceptionally intimidating. So are the stakes: There is absolutely nothing in which I am more invested than my only child. For his sake, I simply cannot fail at this, and that fact is overwhelming.

Sometimes I watch him at play—a carefree mind concocting universes where roaring dinosaurs and anthropomorphized trains coexist—and can’t imagine burdening that innocence with my compulsions. That my failing is even a possibility brings deep shame, and I feel guilty even though the jury is still out.

The disorder’s volatility adds even more pressure. My OCD is relatively minor, but those who are not as lucky as I am can be hindered or even debilitated by it. What if Nicholas not only gets it from me, but gets it worse than me?

It is with this tenuous poker hand—these imperfect cards, these unknowable variables and outcomes—that I simply have to go all in. I do this by default, as neither standing pat nor folding are viable options.

My path to success is straight but uphill: Cognitive behavioral therapy is the most proven way to overcome mild-to-moderate OCD such as mine. The specific therapy is astoundingly simple, yet exceedingly difficult: exposure and response prevention, which is clinical speak for facing my triggers without acting on my fear-based physical impulses.

Apparently, there’s a catch phrase to this: “Better sane than safe.” The fact that such a phrase exists is, well, kind of insane.

Nevertheless, here we go. The shoe rack is about to get less tidy, the light fixtures less flickered, my teeth less clenched (and hopefully less sore).

Wish me luck. It’ll be a tough road. Thankfully my son—my ultimate motivator—is riding shotgun.

Christopher Dale is a freelance writer and public relations executive who resides in Little Falls, NJ. His work has appeared in a variety of outlets, including NY Daily News, Newsday, The Daily Beast, and Parents.com. Follow him on Twitter at @ChrisDaleWriter.

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things to do

Starry Slime

Experiment with chemistry, astronomy, and art with this out-of-this-world craft! Slime is huge these days—what kid doesn’t have a can full of this stuff to squish, pull, and shape? Your kids may already have a batch slime or two, but do they have one with a galactic (and educational) twist?

Explore the patterns and colors of the Milky Way while spending a little quality time crafting. Use this project to segway the conversation into a STEM (or STEAM) learning opportunity to think creatively about outer space or how something sticky like glue can produce something smooth like slime.

You’ll Need 2 Elmer’s® Washable Clear School Glue, 5 oz.

1 Creatology™ Jumbo Wood Craft Sticks 1 Glitter Shakers By Creatology®

1 Creatology™ Glitter, 3 oz.

2 Elmer’s® Washable School Glue, 4 oz.

Wilton® Gel Icing Colors, 12 Pieces

Instructions Project Notes: All types of Elmer’s® glue work with this recipe; however, this project uses two 5 fl. oz. bottles of clear glue and two 4 fl. oz. bottles of white glue to make Starry Slime as shown.

Be careful when children are crafting with sequins, as the product does have a choke hazard warning on the label.

Protect your work surface with wax (or palette) paper and wear an apron (or other protective garment) to protect clothing, as the food coloring may stain.

1. First, find your favorite glue slime recipe [visit michaels.com for a few options]. For the Starry Slime, add color to each slime according to your recipe’s instructions.

2. This slime has four colored stripes: black star slime, pink slime, teal slime, and crystal slime. To make black star slime, use one 5 fl. oz. bottle of clear glue. To get the color shown, add black food coloring and a very small quantity of royal blue food coloring, according to your recipe’s instructions. (Tip: Dip a craft stick into the food-coloring container, then mix the color into the glue, stirring thoroughly until it’s completely blended.

Always use a new, clean craft stick when dipping into your food coloring to avoid cross-contamination.)

3. Flatten out your slime on a piece of wax (or palette) paper and sprinkle on fine glitter in silver, pink, purple, peacock blue, and dark blue. Fold the slime’s edges in toward the center to blend the glitters into the slime. Continue until they are evenly distributed throughout the slime. Repeat to mix tiny silver stars into the slime.

4. To make crystal slime, make your favorite 5 oz. clear glue recipe. Repeat Step 3 to blend white iridescent glitter into the slime. Continue until it is evenly distributed throughout the slime.

5. To make pink slime, use a recipe that calls for a 4 fl. oz. bottle of white glue. To get the color shown add pink food coloring and a tiny quantity of violet food coloring, according to your recipe’s directions.

6. To make teal slime, use a recipe that calls for a 4 fl. oz. bottle of white glue. To get the color shown add teal food coloring according to your recipe’s instructions.

7. Form each slime into a long strip and lay each one next to the other on your non-stick surface. Now, fold and twist the slimes together until you have blended them just the way you like.

8. Store your slime in an airtight, sealable container (or re-sealable plastic bag).

Craft and photography courtesy and reprinted with permission of Michaels // Michaels.com; share photos of your project with #MakeItWithMichaels.

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nanny is an invaluable resource, a specialist who loves and cares for your kids in your absence. For many families, their nanny is more than just someone who works for them. Here are some important must-knows before you start the hiring process.

Assess your needs. A nanny’s primary role is to oversee the well-being of your child while you are away, but before you start looking for a nanny, consider what your exact needs are. Will your nanny’s responsibilities be general (meal prep, cleaning, changing diapers, taking the kids to activities), or will he specialize in specific social or intellectual development (helping with toilet training, language development, or homework) in addition to regular duties? Be sure you are clear about what your must-haves are vs. your nice-to-haves.

Determine a salary. Closely examine your budget and what you can afford when it comes to wages, as well as the employment taxes and possible worker’s compensation you need to pay. You may want to consider a part-time or nanny-share arrangement.

Know where to look. You can choose to find a nanny on your own by using an online resource such as mommybites.com or reading ads online, or you can work with an agency that is experienced in match-

ing families with screened nannies. Whichever way you go, be sure to interview the candidates, so you can get a feel for their personality.

Choose a living arrangement. Your nanny can either live in your home with you or she can live off-site. Before you decide which arrangement is right for your family, weigh the pros and cons of each.

Know your employer responsibilities. Hiring a nanny is equal to hiring a household employee, which means you will become an employer. Understand what your responsibilities are as an employer, including how to address wages, taxes, and human resources laws.

A work agreement that clearly outlines everything related to the job will help you and your nanny avoid confusion later down the road.

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Are You Ready to Move?

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By Lambeth Hochwald

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he signs might be right in front of you: Maybe you and your family are feeling squished into a too-small apartment or perhaps your children are getting ready to start school and you aren’t sure your local school district is right for your kids. These are just two scenarios in which it feels like you might be ready to switch neighborhoods or spend your savings on upgrading to your first home.

“Many moves are dictated by lifecycles in the family,” says Alison Bernstein, founder of Suburban Jungle, a real estate firm exclusively focused on buyers leaving the city for the suburbs. “If thinking down the road about your kids’ school experience causes you to break into a cold sweat, it may be time to go. Ultimately, whether you move or stay in your neighborhood comes down to the level of happiness you have day to day, and whether there is a need for change.”

The following, experts say, are all signs it may be time to start reading the real estate ads: Your place is less kid-friendly than you thought. For Becky Margel, mom of Remy (3) and Reese (6 months), it was a staircase that prompted her and her husband, Jesse, to move from Manhattan to Glen Rock, NJ in February 2018.

“We lived in a duplex and when our three-year-old began walking up and down the very steep spiral staircase on her own. It started to make us nervous,” says Margel, who lived in NYC for a decade before the move to the suburbs.

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urbs,” she says. “With no space to put all the toys that was another sign that it was time to live somewhere with way more space.”

Bernstein sees families in similar situations all the time: “Often the addition of a child into an already at-capacity apartment is enough to signal that it’s time for a change,” she says. Ultimately, it may no longer be fun to stow toilet paper under the bed and extra diapers in your clothing closet.

You’re longing for a lawn. Outdoor space may be one of the biggest reasons families opt to relocate, says Greg McHale, a real estate agent at Compass.

“While we have seen city folks adapt to living with kids in living quarters your cousin in Oshkosh, Wisconsin, would deem postage stamp-sized, for many parents, not being able to essentially kick your kids outside when they are rowdy ultimately becomes a major sticking point,” he says.

Of course, you don’t always have to leave the city to get a yard.

“Whether the family can afford an apartment or a house with private outdoor space in their favorite neighborhood or school district can sometimes be the ‘make or break’ decision,” McHale says.

Your local parks suddenly seem puny. Another way to gauge your need for greenery is by doing this exercise, which McHale recommends to his clients: “If you’re okay with spending the day in Central or Prospect park for your weekend expeditions, then stick with the city,” he says.

City life is starting to feel overwhelming. Cramped conditions and a lack of green space can prompt an exodus, but so can other re-

alities of an urban existence. Add in the strain of school applications, the sleep issues if you’re in a noisy apartment, the expense, and other annoyances, and you’ve got a family ready to make a move.

That’s exactly the scenario Amy Hill, who moved from Brooklyn to Tarrytown with her husband and two sons, faced last year.

“We were getting kicked out of our apartment (the owners wanted to sell it), so we didn’t have much of a choice,” Hill says. But the decision to leave Brooklyn—where Hill’s entire family still lives— was one they made on their own, due not only to a desire for more space, but also a list of irritants that included the grime of urban living. “Our other triggers included the broken glass on the sidewalks, the worry over the kids running into the street, and navigating the narrow [store] aisles with our double stroller,” she says.

night vibe, it can also feel like a big disconnect.

“It’s extremely taxing as well when people are out partying in the streets until all hours of the night keeping you and/or your whole family awake,” Bernstein adds.

You haven’t found your parent tribe. Loneliness is another reason many parents find it’s time to move.

“When you are a new parent living in New York City and you find yourself feeling isolated or without any baby playmates for your little one, it may be time to consider a move,” says Amy Owens, a real estate broker at Keller Williams in NYC. The same thing can happen in the suburbs if you’re living in a neighborhood populated by mostly older families.

You’ve always dreamed of owning a home. For many families, saving for a home of their own is an important goal.

You feel like you’ve aged out of your ’hood, as in you’re the only one with a baby and everyone else is crowding into your favorite local bar for happy hour. While this neighborhood once felt familiar, it can suddenly feel strange to be in a different life stage from pretty much everyone else around you.

Your bustling neighborhood is starting to be annoying. When your busy morning schedule clashes with the neighborhood’s late-

You already know people in the town you’re considering. Having pals already in place always eases the transition. They can show you where to buy groceries, what the schools are like, and which pediatrician to choose, as well as clue you in to favorite traditions in town, Margel advises.

And you just might find other urbanites living in your new town, too. “Many New York City suburbs are loaded with residents who just a few short years ago were your Brooklyn and Manhattan neighbors,” Owens says.

For Margel and Hill, leaving the city for the suburbs turned out to be one of the best things they ever did and have zero regrets about it.

“We love the shopping,” Margel says. “We have every store imaginable within 15 minutes. Well, I love it, my husband not so much!”

And if you end up missing things about your former neighborhood, you can vent about this, too, with your new neighbors who are likely going to be easily able to relate to how you feel.

“No matter how much we love our new town, we do miss my family, the pizza, and the bagels,” Hill says.

An easy fix: Just take the train, bus, or ferry back to your old neighborhood for the day. You might just come to realize you miss fewer and fewer things about it the longer you’ve put down roots in a new place.

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What Your Teen Really Needs from You

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Your oh-so-grown-up child is less independent than she seems—here’s what she’s still relying on you to provide. By Deborah Skolnik

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f you have a teen, you probably look at him—on those rare moments when he isn’t holed up in his room or out somewhere with his friends—and wonder: “How’d you get so big?” And the bigger your child gets, the smaller the list of things he relies on you for becomes. Once upon a time, you were his wardrobe coordinator, social activities director, and on and on, but most of those roles have long been phased out. In fact, aside from food, money, rides, and more food, it’s easy to conclude your teen needs nothing from you at all.

But thinking that way is a mistake. “Teens look like little adults, and so a lot of times parents treat them like little adults, but their brains are not caught up yet,” says Emily Roberts, M.A., L.P.C., psychotherapist and author of Express Yourself. And adolescents have lots of big tasks to accomplish, from hammering out their moral code to making plans for the future. With so much on their plates, it’s a time kids still rely on their parents, says Kashmira Rustomji, M.D., M.P.H., a child and adolescent psychiatrist at Mount Sinai Adolescent Health Center.

So don’t keep your distance. Make sure your child is still getting what he needs from you, especially the following: Praise (when appropriate). “There tends to be a lot more conflict in parent-adolescent relationships,” Dr. Rustomji says. “Often that conflict is about trivial things.”

Take time to give your teen props when she’s earned it, whether that’s for a good grade, going out of her way to help a younger sibling (or you!), or being a great friend. It will balance out some of the times you and your teen find yourselves at odds, and boost her self-esteem.

Your good example. Teens “are still very sensitive creatures at this time and they’re still very impressionable, so they may hear half of what you’re saying and they make that their reality,” Roberts points

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out. That’s why it’s important not to just tell your teen what’s right and what’s wrong, but to show it to him through everything you do.

“Teens are always watching you,” Dr. Rustomji adds. So be a good role model—“show them how to cope with stress, how to be respectful, and model the moral code you developed for yourself,” she urges.

Chores. No one wants them, but all teens need them, Roberts says. “A lot of parents forget that that practice of helping around the house is not only about [teens] showing their family they are involved, it’s really a habit they need to have especially as they ease into adulthood,” she explains.

Yes, teens tend to have busy lives, but that’s not a reason to do away with chores altogether: “You and I sometimes have a lot of work, and we still have to go home and clean our rooms and do our laundry,” Roberts says. Just be considerate of your teen’s hectic weeks: “Have a conversation with them about their schedule, especially in the beginning and middle of the school year with midterms and homework and homecoming and all that, asking how you can help,” Roberts advises. Some weeks you may need to make your teen’s chore load a little lighter. The key is to keep her responsibilities as consistent as possible over time, so she accepts chores as a part of life.

Help managing his hectic schedule. Your child’s time commitments are growing exponentially—faster than his brain can keep up, Roberts says. “The adolescent brain doesn’t stop growing until the early twenties, and sometimes teens overestimate or underestimate [things],” she explains, including how long certain activities may take. Roberts suggests saying, “Let’s look at how we can schedule your time together,” and then doing just that.

Tammy Gold, M.S.W., L.C.S.W., a family therapist, is a fan of putting a calendar in your teen’s room. “Studies show that children really

love structure,” she says. “Show them what their week looks like...so they know when the soccer game is, when the test is.”

Time spent hanging out with you. Yes, it can seem like you’re the last person your child wants to pass the time with, but that’s not true, Gold says. Look for lulls in your teen’s busy social schedule: “Maybe they weren’t invited somewhere and they’re not going to say that to you, but they could be suffering, so you make the plans,” Gold explains. Even if they weren’t snubbed, teens often don’t like being alone, and could be up for a little company. You can also make a ritual to spend time together at a certain time each week.

Spending time together isn’t just nice; it has important developmental benefits for your teen. “Obviously, for a toddler you need to be there to say things like ‘Don’t touch the flame!’ But for a teenager you need to be there not only to teach appropriate social behavior and values and model them, but to help them decode what they’re seeing,” Gold says.

Help understanding social media. Speaking of things your teen may need your assistance in decoding, social media tops the list, Gold says. “For kids on social media, they need to know that this is a fictitious life, not real life,” she explains. “Everyone is just putting the best of themselves out there, so don’t let it make you feel bad.”

If your teen is often down because she finds out via social media that she wasn’t invited somewhere with pals, or because her posts got too few likes, it may be time for a social media break. Gold’s own 13-year-old is only allowed to use Snapchat. “That still has the ability to make you say ‘OMG I missed that party, it stinks that I wasn’t invited,’ but that’s gone after twenty-four hours,” Gold says.

Rules and limits. Oh, we know you’re going to get some eye rolls when you say, “Be home before ten!” or “No walking home from the party alone!” but that’s no reason to hold back. “Adolescents...tend to

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want to do things that give them thrills and give them excitement, and sometimes that behavior leads to maladaptive behavior like drugs and alcohol and unsafe sex,” Dr. Rustomji says. “So this is a time when it’s really important for parents to set those limits to protect their child.”

It’s also helpful to walk through some sticky scenarios ahead of time. Pose questions to your teen, like, “If someone is drinking at a party and wants you to drink too, how do you say no?” or “If someone gets drunk, what do you do?” Again, your teen may think it’s silly, but try anyway. “If your family has a certain set of values that you want to impart in your children, just make those clear,” Dr. Rustomji says. “And also tell your teen why.”

Reassurance that you’re always there. “It’s important to tell teens ‘Hey, you’re growing, you’re maturing and because of that you get to go to the mall, you get to go out, but we’re still here to help you,’” Gold says. And it’s even more crucial to make that clear when you and your teen are fighting, she adds. “[Tell your teen] ‘You can yell at me and scream at me, but I’m never going away,’” she urges.

Your apologies (when appropriate). Did you lose control and scream at your teen? “That happens, it’s normal,” Gold says. “What are you going to do about it now? Recover and say you’re sorry. Teach your child how to say you’re sorry.” Not only will your child learn it’s right to apologize when he’s wrong, he’ll also learn nobody’s perfect.

Your love. “Teens need holding, as silly as it sounds,” Gold says. “I like to spoon my 13-year-old for ten minutes a night, and we talk about what happened during the day, and she loves it.” So go ahead, give your big kid a hug. Who knows? You might even get a hug back.

Deborah Skolnik is the former editorial director of NYMetroParents. She lives in Westchester with her husband and 14-year-old, both of whom are much taller than she is.

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Ready, Set, Sibling!

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Pregnant again? Learn how to prepare your first-born for the baby on the way. By Denise Porretto

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t was once believed that Earth was the center of the universe.

But those early scientists got it wrong: Ask any mom and she will tell you that everything revolves around her first-born.

Whether it’s for 10 months or a few years, the oldest child has Mom and Dad’s attention to herself. So while parents may be delighted they’re expecting a second child, they may worry about how to break the news to their first-born and prevent any jealousy that might arise.

“Bringing a new baby into the world is a very complex and magical process,” says Kenneth Schuster, Psy.D., clinical neuropsychologist in the Learning and Development Center and director of clinical training at the Child Mind Institute. “But for a child, it is best to keep things simple and concrete. Introduce the subject in an age-appropriate manner. Answer his or her questions using age-appropriate language. ...You need to meet your child where he is, and remember that anecdotal stories about what may have worked for another family will not necessarily work for your child.”

With that in mind, read on for ways to prepare your child for the new baby.

Time the talk

If being pregnant for nine months seems like forever to you, imagine how long it would seem to a 2-year-old! After all, a 1-minute timeout feels like an hour to a kid that age. So if you have a very young child, breaking the baby news early may not be best. He may not even understand at first or remember what you’ve said.

Many other factors may impact your decision about when to share your news. For instance, if you’re not feeling well, you may consider telling her sooner rather than later, or else she may worry you’re really sick.

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talk inevitable. “The news that a baby is on the way becomes more meaningful to a young child when there are perceptible changes to their physical environment,” Dr. Schuster says. “For instance, perhaps the child is noticing mommy’s shrinking lap. Or the child has taken note that his parents are moving in furniture and painting walls.”

Until you’re ready to share the news, be discreet. Even a young child hears her parents talking and can pick up on “secret” information. More importantly, you don’t want your child hearing the news from anyone else. “You want to make sure you’re keeping them in the loop,” says Jen Trachtenberg, M.D., assistant clinical professor of pediatrics at Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai.

Keep It Simple

When sharing the news with your young child, be direct. Simply say, “Mommy has a baby in her belly.” Even older children don’t need to hear additional details. This is not the time for a “birds and bees” talk, Dr. Schuster says. There will be plenty of time for your child to ask questions should she need further explanation.

Be sure not to ask your child if he wants a baby brother or sister.

This could backfire! (What are you going to do if she says, “No”?)

Accentuate the Positive

Over the coming months, there will be many opportunities for you to prepare your child for the big event. Of course, not everything you tell him about the new baby will be rosy. Explain that new baby brothers and sisters are not born ready to play, but rather spend a lot of time sleeping, eating, crying, and pooping (expect a giggle for that one). Tell your child he did the same when he was a baby.

The trick is to spin the “bad news” in a positive way. For instance, tell

your child the baby will cry a lot, but also say it will be like a game to figure out what she needs. Is she hungry? Tired? Needing a diaper change?

Emma L., who lives in NYC with her husband and two children, Ella (7) and Rafa (4), believes finding a good marketing angle is the best way to deal with potential issues. “Need to transition the older child to a bed, so the newborn can have the crib? Market it as an amazing new bed she gets to have because she is such a big girl!” she suggests.

Get Ready Together

Once you’ve shared the news, build on it with age-appropriate activities: • Read books together about having a new sibling. Many favorite TV characters have siblings as well. Watch the show your child likes and talk about how those siblings interact.

• Give your child a baby doll and feed, change, and rock it together.

• Introduce your child to a friend or relative’s baby. The baby should be older than 3 months, and you should exercise caution if you let your child hold the baby.

• Share old photos of you and your siblings, and tell stories about what life was like growing up. Don’t forget current photos. Fran L., a mother of two boys in Syosset, told 3½-year-old Ben about the baby on the way by surprising him with her sonogram photo.

• Allow your child to pick out clothes or toys for the new baby.

• Have your child participate in a sibling-preparation class.

• Enlist your first-born as an all-important “mommy’s helper,” Dr. Schuster suggests. “Tell your two-year-old that you will need her help letting you know when the baby is crying and figuring out what the baby needs. You can tell older children you’ll need their help getting clean diapers ready and making the baby laugh.”

• When referring to the baby-to-be, use language such as “our baby” and “your baby sister/brother”—it suggests your child has a relationship with the baby and has an important role to play.

Post-Birth Bonding

To keep the sibling relationship growing after the baby arrives: • Help your child choose a gift for the newborn. Give your firstborn a gift the newborn “picked out” as well.

• Avoid introducing big changes in your older child’s routine while baby is settling in (toilet training, giving up the pacifier, etc.).

• Allow your child to help with the baby. Closely supervised older children can hold the baby while sitting, or can pass diapering supplies to the parent. Children of all ages can sing songs to a fussy newborn. (If your child doesn’t want to help, though, don’t force it. Let the relationship blossom on its own.)

• Praise your first-born whenever she is behaving well.

• Have her spend time with other family members, such as grandparents, to deepen those relationships.

Even if you do all of the above, there may be some bumps in the road. For one thing, expect a bit of regression—sliding backward on previously mastered skills is not unusual. Emma’s daughter, who had been toilet-trained for five months, briefly went back to diapers after her little brother’s birth. The key is not to make a big deal of it.

A certain amount of jealousy and acting out may be unavoidable.

Stay the course, and remain positive—hugs, kisses, and kind words will go a long way. And be sure to have regular 1-on-1 time with your older child.

Realize that for a child, no matter what age, having a baby brother or sister enter the family is nowhere near as tumultuous as parents imagine it to be. “Most of the time it’s a smooth transition,” Dr. Trachtenberg says. “Whether the children are close in age or far apart, it’s super rare that there’s any ongoing jealousy. It will work out.”

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Where There’s a Will

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Though you may not want to consider the unthinkable, having a plan in place will protect your children and prepare them for the future. By Anja Webb

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o you know who would have legal guardianship of your children if something were to happen to you or your partner? Do you know for certain your estate would be quickly and indisputably transferred to your heirs? On that note, have you selected your heirs? Though you may think there’s no need to create a will because you’re young and healthy, life is unpredictable. “The sooner you put a comprehensive plan in place, the better off you and your family will be,” say Rosanna Guardavaccaro, a registered representative and financial advisor of Strategies For Wealth and a financial representative of Guardian based in New York City and Rye. Here’s what you need to know when it comes to planning your will.

Choose a Will-Writing Method

There are a number of ways you can set up your will, and, depending on your financial resources, each method has its pros and cons.

A lawyer is the best option, especially if you have a large estate, according to Guardavaccaro. A typical fee for a simple will is approximately $500, Guardavaccaro says, but that extra expense is worth it for the peace of mind that comes with hiring a professional.

If hiring a lawyer is out of your budget, or if you just don’t have the time to sit down with one, there are online forms and apps that can help you get started. For example, USLegalWills.com allows you to make your will at home by simply filling in a form and answering questions. With a fee of approximately $40, it’s a more affordable option for young professionals or those with young 24

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children. You could also use an app to develop your will, such as Tomorrow, which offers the software free of charge.

In extreme cases, a holographic will, one written in your own handwriting and typically without multiple witnesses, is an option in certain states. Though not legal in New York in most instances, holographic wills are accepted in New Jersey.

“To be clear, not all do-it-yourself approaches to will writing result in a holographic will,” says Tim Hewson, president of USLegalWills.com. “It is an absolutely terrible way to prepare your own will and is almost certainly going to result in a very poorly drafted document. Holographic wills are written into law to cover extreme circumstances, like being pinned under a rock, where witnesses are not available. It is not a will-writing approach that should be considered under normal circumstances.”

Think About the Details

Once you’ve selected the method to create your will, it’s time to think about the details. Guardavaccaro suggests consulting with a lawyer to ensure this is done right, “but the basic process is relatively straightforward: Make a list of your assets, decide who gets what, and pick someone to serve as an executor for your estate,” she says.

“Meet with the attorney and iron out expectations both monetarily and the actual creation of the will. Once an attorney is chosen and the will is created, the individual picks three witnesses. …The witnesses should be friends you trust.”

When planning your will, it can also be easy to overlook a few aspects like social media and gifting rights. It’s good to think about who will shut off your Facebook and Instagram, and whether or not your heirs can give away their inheritance as they see fit. Be sure to discuss these with your lawyer, if you have one, or make provisions for them otherwise.

Select a Guardian and Heir

If you haven’t already done so, now’s the time to appoint a guardian for your children if they’re younger than 18. “The parent has to figure out who will…take care of the assets for the benefit of the children,” Guardavaccaro says. “When appointing a guardian, it is best to look at either a family member or friend that you can currently count on and raises their children in a similar fashion that you do.” Some aspects you might want to take into consideration are fiscal responsibility and religious or ethical values.

When it comes to selecting an heir, you’ll want to keep in mind how old your children are. For younger children, the guardian will likely also be named as the property guardian and manage the estate until the kids are old enough to take over, according to Nolo.com, a resource with easy-to-understand legal information. For children who are 18 or older, it’s important to have a clear line of communication about what to expect should anything happen to you. “Make sure they’re aware of any wills, accounts, or trusts that name them as beneficiaries,” Guardavaccaro advises. “Also, give them the name of your lawyer and your financial representative, as well as details on accessing your financial holdings.” This will help prepare them for the future and simplify the process in the future.

But what if you and your partner pass away or become incapacitated without having selected either a guardian or an heir?

“Without having a clear directive from you, the state takes over and the next of kin can be brought in to take care of the children

and assets,” Guardavaccaro says. This means your loved ones and belongings can very easily end up in the hands of the wrong person, especially if you’ve had a falling out with certain members of your immediate family. For this reason, you should clearly specify who you want to look after your children. Though this is a big decision, if you end up changing your mind or part ways with the person you had selected as your guardian, you can always amend the document later, according to Guardavaccaro.

The Ramifications of No Will

Aside from the obvious concerns of your property and family going to the wrong people, not having a will can cause strife and disagreements among your relatives. “I have encountered squabbles over small items of sentimental value to large, truly valuable items like paintings,” says David Reischer, Esq., a New York attorney and CEO of LegalAdvice.com. “Families seem to fight over anything and everything. Therefore, always remember: Have the deceased execute a last will and testament prior to leaving this world, in order to determine his intent how to distribute any remaining items in the estate.”

After all, it’s better to have a will in place and not need it, rather than leave your loved ones to scrap over your possessions.

The emotional aspect of setting up a will—coming to grips with your mortality, imagining a world where your children grow up without you, divvying up your possessions with the understanding that all you own and all you love will someday be out of your grasp—is intense. But don’t let that stop you from taking the steps to ensure your family and friends will be prepared in the event the unthinkable happens. Parenting is full of tough decisions that can make you stop in your tracks, but at the end of the day, you have to do what you can to ensure your family will be okay.

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History buff fams will appreciate this multidisciplinary complex that draws its identity from its site on the banks of the Hudson River. The museum collections focus on 19th-century through contemporary American art; Glenview, an 1876 house on the National Register of Historic Places; Hudson Riverama, an environmental teaching gallery; a state-of-the-art, 120seat planetarium; and a 400-seat outdoor amphitheater with programs every weekend, special days for families, and events throughout the year.

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One of the busiest theaters in the region, Tarrytown Music Hall is a cultural destination, attracting more than 85,000 people, including 25,000 children, on an annual basis from all over the tri-state area. The 843-seat venue is a nonprofit, educational, and cultural organization attracting talent including the Laurie Berkner Band, Random Farms Kids’ Theater Productions, and The Hungry Caterpillar & Other Eric Carle Favorites.

Visit It: 13 Main St., Tarrytown; Metro-North Hudson Line; tarrytownmusichall.org; 877-840-0457

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A trip to the far end of Long Island is worth it for so many reasons, including the performing arts.

Families can craft fun and creative works of art inspired by the museum’s collections and exhibitions.

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The Bruce Museum

Highlighting art, science, and natural history, the Bruce Museum houses more than a dozen changing exhibitions annually. The permanent galleries feature the natural sciences that encompass regional to global perspectives. The museum was originally built as a private home in 1853.

It’s worth a visit for family-friendly events such as Bruce Beginnings, Jr., Design Time, and Art Adventures.

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the ten events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to.

Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

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The Okee Dokee Brothers: A ‘Winterland’ Concert

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 5, 11am WHERE: Symphony Space, 2537 Broadway, Upper West Side, Manhattan AGES: 3-8, adult WHAT: This Grammy Award-winning folk and roots music duo puts the natural world at the heart of their Americana music, with songs written under wide-open skies and harmonies fine-tuned around the campfire.

WHY WE LOVE IT: They just might inspire your family to get outside and get creative!

WANT TO GO? $14-17. 212-864-5400. symphonyspace.org.

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WHEN: Jan. 10-13, see website for showtimes WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: Discover the full story of Disney’s Frozen like never before with dazzling ice skating, special effects, and unforgettable music that will magically transport you to wintry Arendelle.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Anna and Elsa fans will flip to see them skating their hearts out!

WANT TO GO? $30 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

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WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 19, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Walk around Oakland Lake to look for ducks, coots, grebes, swans, geese, and more. Learn to use binoculars and a field guide.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Oakland Lake never complete freezes because of all of the spring water constantly feeding it, so it becomes a freshwater duck magnet!

WANT TO GO? 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Little Cooks: Yellow Snow? Oh, No!

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 12, 9-11am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens will practice conducting animal check-ups, handling live animals, and studying animal anatomy.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Vet Tech students will learn the ins and outs of keeping some of the most common pet animals in peak medical condition.

WANT TO GO? $25. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

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Winter Bird Walk For Beginners FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 26, 11am-12pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: APEC little cooks will have fun learning about an animal, and then help make a delicious snack to complement what they’ve learned.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Your kid might be inspired to help out more in the kitchen!

WANT TO GO? $22. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

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WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 26, 2:30pm WHERE: The Secret Theatre, 44-02 23rd St., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Pirate Pete is a lovable rogue on a mission: to find his beloved runaway parrot Polly, to find his buried treasure, and to pay the rent to Baron Big-Butt.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Dress up like a pirate and then take a pic with the actors after the performance!

WANT TO GO? $15; $10 children 17 and younger; $40 family fourpack. 718-392-0722. secrettheatre.com.

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2019 Progressive Insurance New York Boat Show

WHEN: Jan. 23-27, Wednesday-Friday, 12-9pm; Saturday, 10am-9pm; Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: Jacob Javits Center, 655 W. 34th St., Chelsea, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Little skippers can create a one-of-a kind nautical masterpiece to take home as a show souvenir. There’s also a Touch-A-Boat Tour for Kids and the Progressive® Boat Club interactive space where attendees can enjoy a hands-on boating courses for all levels of experience.

WHY WE LOVE IT: A chance to try Progressive’s Oculus Rift virtual reality experience and be at the helm of a virtual boat race.

WANT TO GO? $16; children 12 and younger get in free when accompanied by an adult; save $2 when you buy tickets in advance online; military and first responders get $3 off on-site on Jan. 23; visit after 5pm on Jan. 24 and pay only $5. 212-216-2000. nyboatshow.com.

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WHEN: Jan. 25-27, Friday, 7pm; Saturday, 1pm and 7pm; Sunday, 1pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: These world-class Monster Jam vehicles and athletes deliver what fans want to see most…more trucks, racing, freestyle, doughnuts, wheelies, and action!

WHY WE LOVE IT: Two words: Monster. Trucks.

WANT TO GO? $20 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

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How Many Zombies Are Too Many Zombies?

WHEN: Jan. 2-Feb. 15, see website for schedule WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 5 and older WHAT: In this simulation, players take on the role of scientists helping the “Center for Calamity Control” mitigate a zombie outbreak. Participants play through the simulation while the facilitator tracks the population of zombies and humans. At the end, players see graphs detailing the population swing and see different results through play.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids will learn mathematical modeling while playing zombie tag.

WANT TO GO? $16; $13 seniors, students, and children ages 2-17.

718-699-0005. nysci.org.

The Socrates Annual, 2018 Exhibition FREE

WHEN: Through March 10: See website for hours WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Each year Socrates presents an exhibition of new commissions made by artists awarded the Park’s Emerging Artist Fellowship. For the 2018 exhibition, projects range from a decolonial greenhouse to audio-sculptural portraits of Queens hip-hop legends.

WHY WE LOVE IT: These pieces respond to the Park’s unique history, landscape, and community.

WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

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Teen LGBTQIA Club FREE

WHEN: Jan. 4-18, select Fridays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library - Queensboro Hill Branch, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: 13-17 WHAT: A welcome club for LGBTQIA teens and their allies. Dive into teen-led topics every meeting.

WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332. queenslibrary.org.

Playdate for Infants and Toddlers FREE

WHEN: Jan. 7-28, Mondays, 1-2pm; no class Jan. 21 WHERE: Queens Library - Howard Beach Branch, 92-06 156 Ave., Howard Beach AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Enjoy an afternoon of early development fun and socialization using books and toys. Space for everyone!

WANT TO GO? 718-641-7086. queenslibrary.org.

Table Top Gaming for Teens FREE

WHEN: Jan. 7-28, Mondays, 2-4pm; Library closed Jan. 21 WHERE: Queens Library - Queensboro Hill Branch, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: 13-17 WHAT: A chance to play new and rare table top games with friends.

WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332. queenslibrary.org.

Teen Time FREE

WHEN: Jan. 2-31, Monday-Friday, 2-4pm; Library closed Jan. 21 WHERE: Queens Library - Queensboro Hill Branch, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens can wind down after each school day with their friends.

Games and other programs available daily with dedicated quiet space available for homework and studying.

WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332. queenslibrary.org.

Color In Milk FREE

WHEN: Jan. 5-Feb. 23, Tuesdays and Thursdays, 3-5pm WHERE: PYE Education Center, 41-32 75th St., Elmhurst AGES: 5-12 WHAT: In this STEM program run by high school students, young children will conduct hands-on experiments and projects, and learn coding and robotics.

WANT TO GO? 718-565-1846. colorinmilk.org. ›› QueensParent 31

CRAFTY KIDS Moving Image Studio

WHEN: Through Jan. 21, Saturday-Sunday and Columbus Day, 11am-4pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Visitors can create media and other projects.

WANT TO GO? $15; $11 seniors and students with ID; $7 children ages 3-17. 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

The Crafting Corner FREE

HOLIDAY FUN Family Resolutions to Help Wildlife

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 6, 10am WHERE: Queens Zoo, 3-51 111th St., Corona AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Start the year off right and learn ways the whole family can live more sustainably and help animal friends all over the globe!

WANT TO GO? $20. 800-433-4149. queenszoo.com.

Second Annual Winter ONEderland

WHEN: Through Jan. 7: See website for schedule WHERE: One World Observatory, 285 Fulton St., World Trade Center, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: The magical journey starts with a snowy ride to the top of One World Trade Center, includes family-friendly displays, festive food and beverage, and visits with Santa.

WANT TO GO? $34 and up. 844-696-1776. oneworldobservatory.com.

Year Of The Pig Community Art Project

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 12, 12-1pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Drop in to work on collaborative sculptures to celebrate the Year of the Pig. The project will be displayed in the Garden for QBG’s Lunar New Year Celebration. This family-friendly activity involves papier maché and paint.

WANT TO GO? $12. 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

Dance Theatre of Harlem

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 20, 4pm WHERE: Kupferberg Center for the Arts, 153-49 Reeves Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Dance Theater of Harlem—founded to offer children the opportunity to learn about dance and the allied arts—honors Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s legacy with a performance.

WANT TO GO? $35. 718-793-8080. kupferbergcenter.org.

Gingerbread Lane

WHEN: Through Jan. 21: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; Saturday and Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: A holiday tradition not to be missed! Visitors marvel at homemade gingerbread houses made entirely of edible gingerbread, royal icing, and candy.

WANT TO GO? $16 adults; $13 children, students, and senior citizens.

718-699-0005. nysci.org.

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WHEN: Jan. 8-22, select Tuesdays, 4-4:45pm WHERE: Middle Village Library, 72-31 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Join the crafting corner to make something fun you can take home.

WANT TO GO? 718-326-1390. queenslibrary.org.

Coloring Club FREE

WHEN: Jan. 2-25, Mondays, 1-1:30pm; Wednesdays, 12-12:30pm; Fridays, 12-12:30pm WHERE: Queens Library - Mitchell-Linden Branch, 31-32 Union St., Flushing AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: A chance for toddlers and their caregivers to dig in and color together.

WANT TO GO? 718-539-2330. queenslibrary.org.

Make and Take Crafts FREE

WHEN: Jan. 8-29, Tuesdays, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library - Glendale Branch, 78-60 73 Place, Glendale AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children can make a simple arts and crafts project to take home.

WANT TO GO? 718-821-4980. queenslibrary.org.

Lanyard Club FREE

WHEN: Jan. 2-31, Monday-Saturday, 3:30-4pm WHERE: Queens Library - Richmond Hill Branch, 118-14 Hillside Ave., AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens and tweens can make a lanyard keychain or bracelet.

WANT TO GO? 718-849-7150. queenslibrary.org.

SPECIAL NEEDS Family Science Adventures for Young Children With Autism: My Home, My Habitat FREE WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 19, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Young children with autism spectrum disorder can transform recycled materials into fun toy robots.

WANT TO GO? 718-683-9366. dmeza@nysci.org.

Museum Explorers Workshop

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 20, 1:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Museum, 111-01 Corona Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: This workshop, geared to families with children with autism spectrum disorder, is lead by a licensed art therapist.

WANT TO GO? $8; $4 seniors; free for children 18 and younger.

718-592-9700. queensmuseum.org.

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Silk Road: An Exploration of the Jaap or Bajan Tradition FREE

WHEN: Friday, Jan. 4, 7:30-9pm WHERE: Jamaica Center for Arts & Learning, 161-04 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: This performance documents the dying art of the Bajan song tradition to conserve Indo-Caribbean culture for future generations.

WANT TO GO? 718-658-7400. jcal.org.

‘Princess Particular’

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 12, 2:30pm WHERE: The Secret Theatre, 44-02 23rd St., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: The spirited and feisty young Princess Particular is used to getting what she wants. And today she wants to be a ballerina. Dress up in costume and take a photo after the performance with the actors.

WANT TO GO? $15; $10 children 17 and younger; $40 family fourpack. 718-392-0722. secrettheatre.com.

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‘CRICK! CRACK!’ - JCAL Saturday Family Matinee

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 19, 2-3pm WHERE: Jamaica Performing Arts Center, 153-10 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: This show brings together the spice and the allure of the African-Caribbean culture. Participate with them in the spectacle of song and dance steeped in folklore, suspense, and excitement.

WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children. 718-618-6170. jamaicapac.org.

Guess What: A PG Stand Up Comedy Show for Families FREE WHEN: Through Jan. 19: See website for dates, 1pm WHERE: The Creek and the Cave Comedy Club, 10-93 Jackson Ave, Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Watch top NYC comics do their PG best jokes and, in between, kids gets a chance to go on stage and tell a joke themselves.

The hosts of the show are a dad comic and his 9-year-old daughter.

WANT TO GO? 718-706-8783. paulbennettcomedy.com.

Family Movie: ‘A Wrinkle in Time’ FREE

WHEN: Friday, Jan. 25, 3pm WHERE: Middle Village Library, 72-31 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village AGES: All WHAT: Patrons of all ages are welcome to join for A Wrinkle in Time.

WANT TO GO? 718-326-1390. queenslibrary.org.

La Cumbiamba eNeYé: Season Opening Party

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 26, workshop, 3pm; family concert, 4pm; jam and party, 5:30pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Flushing Town Hall’s 40th anniversary season with an interactive workshop and family concert with La Cumbiamba eNeYé.

WANT TO GO? $14; $10 members; $8 children; $6 member children; free for teens. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

The Paper Bag Players: Stand Up And Cheer, We’re 60 This Year WHEN: Thursday, Jan. 31, 10:30am WHERE: Queensborough Performing Arts Center, 222-05 56th Ave., Bayside AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy music and dance, raucous audience participation, sing-alongs, and hilarious stories, all wrapped in paper costumes and cardboard sets.

WANT TO GO? $8. 718-631-6311. visitqpac.org.

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ANIMAL LOVERS APEC ADVENTURE TIME: Animal Movements: Hop, Flap and Slither

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 12, 10:30-11:45am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Pet three different animals and try moving like them. Toddlers and caregivers will enjoy some special time together as they socialize with other youngsters and learn about nature.

WANT TO GO? $18. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

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MUSICIANS JCAL Thursday Night Jazz: Nick Dunston’s Atlantic Extraction

WHEN: Thursday, Jan. 10, 8-9pm WHERE: Jamaica Center for Arts & Learning, 161-04 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Listen to a jazz performance by bassist Nick Dunston.

WANT TO GO? $10. 718-658-7400. jcal.org/thursday-night-jazz.

Mozart for Munchkins

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 13, 4pm WHERE: Book Culture LIC, 26-09 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Children of all ages are welcome to roll, crawl, squeal, and dance to their hearts’ content. Each interactive performance is followed by an “instrument petting zoo” where everyone is welcome to try the instruments and meet the performers.

WANT TO GO? $30; free for children 12 and younger. 718-440-3120. bookculture.com.

Musical Bubble Mother Goose FREE

WHEN: Jan. 2-23, Wednesdays, 10:30-11am WHERE: Queens Library - Queensboro Hill Branch, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Children and their parents/caregivers will learn hand rhymes, hear stories, and enjoy music and bubbles.

WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332. queenslibrary.org.

Scotty McCreery: Seasons Change Tour

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 26, 8pm WHERE: NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Scotty McCreery’s deep voice and irresistible sound create a perfect blend of contemporary and traditional country. He has quickly become a crowd favorite.

WANT TO GO? $30 and up. 516-334-0800. thetheatreatwestbury.com.

Mother Goose FREE

WHEN: Jan. 2-28, Mondays, 12:30-1pm; Wednesdays, 11:30am-12pm; Fridays, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library - Mitchell-Linden Branch, 31-32 Union St., Flushing AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join for songs and finger plays for toddlers and their parents.

WANT TO GO? 718-539-2330. queenslibrary.org.

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Winter Birds

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 19, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: The Voelker Orth Museum, 149-19 38th Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Make a simple bird feeder to hang outdoors. Learn about resources for urban birds and birding in the community.

WANT TO GO? $5 admission; $12 per family; $4 VOM members.

718-359-6227. vomuseum.org.

Wildlife Mini-Camp

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 21, 9am-3pm WHERE: Queens Zoo, 53-51 111th St., Corona AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Campers will learn about the rights that animals have today and conservation efforts happening at the zoo! New England Cotton tail rabbits are one species of animal the zoo is trying to save in the wild, so meet a domestic rabbit and talk about how they are related!

WANT TO GO? $75; $60 members. 718-271-1500. queenszoo.com.

Animal Meet & Greet

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 27, 11am-2pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Introduce your animal-lover to a variety of APEC’s animals.

Children will touch and observe four different animals and play a fun critter guessing game during this class.

WANT TO GO? $10. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Bilingual Birdies presents Movin’ to Music in Spanish FREE

WHEN: Jan. 3-31, Thursdays, 12:15-1:15pm WHERE: Queens Library - Ridgewood Branch, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Bilingual Birdies presents adventures under the sea, a trip to discover fun arctic animals, and the celebration of an authentic Carnaval! This program includes live music, movement, dance, and puppetry.

WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

‘Flight of the Butterflies 3D’

WHEN: Through June 30: daily, 11am and 1pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Follow the monarchs’ perilous journey and join hundreds of real butterflies in the remote mountain peaks of Mexico, with breathtaking cinematography from Peter Parks.

WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children, students, and seniors. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Toddler Fun Time FREE

WHEN: Friday, Jan. 11, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Queens Library - Maspeth Branch, 69-70 Grand Ave., Maspeth AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join this toddler family fun time that includes toys, games, puzzles, and other items selected to enhance a toddler’s educational and physical development.

WANT TO GO? 718-639-5228. queenslibrary.org.

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WHEN: Monday, Jan. 21, 10am-1pm WHERE: My Gym Fresh Meadows, 176-60 Union Turnpike, Suite 310, Fresh Meadows AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Drop the kids off for a morning of gymnastics, games, and crafting. Pizza lunch is included.

WANT TO GO? $25 for members; $30 for non-members. 718-380-4599. mygym.com/queens.

Game Day for Kids FREE

WHEN: Jan. 4-25, Fridays, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library - Queensboro Hill Branch, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Children can play various board games such as Scrabble, Life, Jenga, Monopoly, and chess.

WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332. queenslibrary.org.

Playdate for Infants and Toddlers FREE

WHEN: Jan. 5-26, Saturdays, 11am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library - Howard Beach Branch, 92-06 156 Ave., Howard Beach AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Bring your baby to this play date all about early development fun and socialization using books and toys. There’s room for everyone!

WANT TO GO? 718-641-7086. queenslibrary.org.

STEM Lego Building Fun for Kids FREE

WHEN: Jan. 2-30, Wednesdays, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library - Queensboro Hill Branch, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children can build a different project each week as a team.

WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332. queenslibrary.org.

Toddler Time FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 30, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Queens Library - Langston Hughes Branch, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Corona AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Bring your toddler to share songs, a story, finger plays, and craft activities.

WANT TO GO? 718-651-1100. queenslibrary.org.

LEGO Robotics for Kids FREE

WHEN: Jan. 10-31, Thursdays, 4-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library - Queensboro Hill Branch, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Queens Library is putting together a Lego Robotics League! A six-month commitment is needed to be part of Queensboro Hill’s team.

Register in person with the children’s librarian.

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Langston Hughes Spelling Bee 2019 FREE

WHEN: Jan. 2-16, Wednesdays, 4-6pm WHERE: Queens Library - Langston Hughes Branch, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Corona AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children will compete in one of three spelling bees. Winners will compete in the Queens Library Spelling Bee in April.

WANT TO GO? 718-651-1100. queenslibrary.org.

Literacy INC FREE

WHEN: Jan. 9-23, Wednesdays, 4-5pm; no class Jan. 16 WHERE: Queens Library: Baisley Park Branch, 117-11 Sutphin Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children will listen to a read-aloud and conduct a writing activity that enhances their reading comprehension and writing skills.

WANT TO GO? 718-529-1590. queenslibrary.org.

Spies & Spying: A Dangerous Business FREE

SMARTY PANTS Make it! STEAM FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 2, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library - Flushing Branch, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: 9-12 WHAT: A STEAM Challenge to see what you can make! All materials provided.

WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

Moving Image Studio

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 5, 11am-4pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Experiment with puppet making and animation inspired by The Jim Henson Exhibition and the core exhibition Behind the Screen.

WANT TO GO? $15; $11 seniors and students with ID; $7 children ages 3-17. 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 23, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library - Maspeth Branch, 69-70 Grand Ave., Maspeth AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Learn about some of the most famous spies in history WANT TO GO? 718-639-5228. queenslibrary.org.

Chess & Games FREE

WHEN: Jan. 5-26, Saturdays, 2-3pm WHERE: Queens Library - Mitchell-Linden Branch, 31-32 Union St., Flushing AGES: 3-8 WHAT: An afternoon of games and chess.

WANT TO GO? 718-539-2330. queenslibrary.org.

Lego Club FREE

WHEN: Jan. 7-28, Mondays, 4-5pm; no class Jan. 21 WHERE: Queens Library - Poppenhusen Branch, 121-23 14 Ave., College Point AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Use your imagination to build Lego structures!

WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.

Homework Help FREE

WHEN: Friday, Jan. 11, 3-4pm WHERE: Middle Village Library, 72-31 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village AGES: 5-12 WHAT: An annual community spelling bee!

WANT TO GO? 718-326-1390. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Jan. 2-28, Monday-Saturday, 3-5pm WHERE: Queens Library - Mitchell-Linden Branch, 31-32 Union St., Flushing AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Need help with your homework? Head to the Mitchell-Linden Library where teen volunteers will help you with your work.

WANT TO GO? 718-539-2330. queenslibrary.org.

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Community Spelling Bee FREE

WHEN: Through Jan. 13: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; SaturdaySunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 5 and older WHAT: View the exhibition of stem cell-inspired art from around the world.

WANT TO GO? $16; $13 seniors, students, and children ages 2-17.

718-699-0005. nysci.org.

East Flushing Spelling Bee FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 16, 4-4:45pm WHERE: Queens Library - East Flushing Branch, 196-36 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Winners will have a chance to participate in the Queens Librarywide spelling bee.

WANT TO GO? 718-357-6643. queenslibrary.org.

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WHEN: Through Jan. 29: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; SaturdaySunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Stop by to see NYSCI’s model railroading experiment using analog equipment from German model train maker Marklin.

WANT TO GO? $16; $13 seniors, students, and children ages 2-17.

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LEGO Building Club FREE

WHEN: Jan. 2-30, Wednesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library - Bellerose Branch, 250-06 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children can have fun being creative with Legos!

WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org.

Mind Blowing Puzzles for Kids FREE

WHEN: Jan. 2-31, Monday-Friday, 2-3pm; Library closed Jan. 21 WHERE: Queens Library - Queensboro Hill Branch, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Kids get to do cardboard puzzles, Sudoku, message decoding, crossword puzzles, word searches, and more.

WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332. queenslibrary.org.

Spelling Bee FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Jan. 31, 5:30-7:30pm WHERE: Queens Library - South Jamaica Branch, 108-41 Guy R. Brewer Blvd., South Jamaica AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Join the South Jamaica Library for the first annual spelling bee.

WANT TO GO? 718-739-4088. queenslibrary.org.

Homework Help FREE

WHEN: Jan. 2-31, Monday-Thursday, 4-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library - Bellerose Branch, 250-06 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Homework help is available after school.

WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org.

New Traveling Exhibit- Sonic Sensation

WHEN: Jan. 26-May 5, Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Visitors will experience the sonic world through 14 interactive learning stations to discover key listening skills.

WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1.

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THE GREAT OUTDOORS Winter Family Programs: Plants We Eat!

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 12, 11am-12pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Learn all about different plant parts WANT TO GO? $12. 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

Bugging Out!

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 19, 11am-12pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Explore the world of bugs and look for bug homes WANT TO GO? $12. 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

NYRR Open Run: Astoria Park FREE

WHEN: Jan. 5-26, Saturdays, 9-10am WHERE: Astoria Park, Queens, Astoria Park (great lawn), Astoria AGES: All WHAT: Community-based, volunteer-led, free running initiative WANT TO GO? 917-586-8692. openrun.nyrr.org.

Winter Trees

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 26, 11am-12pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids will learn about the various parts of trees WANT TO GO? $12 per child. 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

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How the arts play an important role in your child’s science, technology, engineering, and math education By Madeleine Burry

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’ve always loved both science and art,” says Liz Heinecke, author of several STEAM project books for children, including STEAM Lab for Kids: 52 Creative Hands-On Projects for Exploring Science, Technology, Engineering, Art, and Math. If you think about it, she says, science and art are inseparable. But that’s not always how educators and learning experts have approached the two disciplines.

Nowadays, STEAM is a common phrase. The acronym, as Heinecke’s book title suggests, stands for science, technology, engineering, art, and math. Rewind just a few years, though, and the buzzed-about term was STEM—science, technology, engineering, and math, without the arts included. And earlier still, elementary, middle, and high schools didn’t devote much time to engineering and technology, and math and science were typically taught in different classrooms, without much exploration of the interactions between the two topics. We asked experts to explain the evolution, and why it makes sense from an educational perspective.

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STEM Lessons. The concept “spread like wildfire through the educational landscape,” she says.

Driving STEM’s popularity were concerns that American children lack the skills required for a 21st-century workforce, from problem solving to a strong backbone of knowledge. That’s backed up by data: American students “rank around the middle of the pack” in international math and science assessments, Pew Research notes.

With STEM, the focus is not primarily on knowledge—for instance, how accurately students can recite times tables or elements in the periodic table—but on the application of information, and growing problem-solving, observational, and exploratory skills.

And rather than treating the four pillars as separate and distinct from each other, STEM education focuses on how they’re connected and inform each other.

So, what about that “A”?

Artist and author John Maeda, former president of Rhode Island School of Art and Design, was the first champion of adding the arts to STEM and growing the acronym to STEAM. “There is great power in these fields [design and technology] taken separately, and even more when they are put together,” he wrote in a 2013 op-ed

for Seattle Times. But, he went on to note, the key is to develop creative, critical-thinking skills in kindergarten through 12th-grade schools.

Benefits of Going STEAM

Why add the arts to STEM? For one thing, the arts make for an inviting, easy access point to STEM topics.

“Art is a great on-ramp for a lot of kids, to get them doing science, technology, engineering, and math experiments in a way that is entertaining and approachable,” Heinecke says.

And that’s just one reason why it’s smart to embrace the arts within STEM. These are some others: The arts are already a vital part of science, technology, engineering, and math. No need to shoehorn in the arts when it comes to learning—or teaching—science, technology, engineering, and math. “Art and design have played a prominent role in STEM, whether it’s pointed out to people or not,” Heinecke notes.

Speake agrees. “STEM lessons naturally involve art (for example, product design), language arts (communication), and social studies and history (setting the context for engineering challenges),” she says.

Here’s where a schism occurs, however, between STEAM and STEM proponents: “I’m not necessarily supportive of additional disciplines as separate entities within STEM,” Speake says. This isn’t due to a lack of appreciation for the arts. “STEM projects do not deliberately exclude the arts or any other subject,” she says, noting that they’re included as needed. She—and other educators and experts—have concerns that giving the arts equal weight dilutes the focus on the core STEM disciplines.

STEAM advocates, on the other hand, see art’s presence as just surfacing a discipline that was already involved and integral to learning STEM topics.

Arts make STEM topics more engaging—even to kids who don’t think they like science or math. Does your child say, “I hate science” or “I’m just not good at math”? These phrases can start early but including the arts in learning can be transformative for some kids.

It’s easy to find memorizing a long litany of facts and formulas unappealing, but Heinecke points out math is also a language that helps us describe the universe. If we can get kids to

see math as art and beauty and nature, that changes the way they think about the world and the way they approach subjects in school,” Heinecke says.

Doing hands-on projects and experiments that involve the arts solidifies a child’s understanding of concepts. Take tessellations—they’re a pattern of repeated shapes without any gaps. Think: the tiles on your kitchen backsplash or bathroom walls. Explain the concept and

it’s possible kids will follow, but also possible they’ll be intimidated by the long word or struggle to find the relevance.

A better option? Have kids create tessellations of their own, Heinecke suggests. This is a project in one of her books, done using candy wrappers or dried pasta as the pattern-making device. By creating tessellations, kids see the concept in action and may be inspired to seek out other tessellations in nature (the design continued on next page ››

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on the back of a turtle’s shell, for instance). Plus, the creation process is most likely more memorable than a lecture or slides.

STEAM connects your child’s interests to the real world.

Watch any popular cooking show (say, The Great British Baking Show or MasterChef Junior) and you and your kids will see science and art, and possibly engineering and technology, in action, Heinecke points out.

There’s the wizardry of sous vide cooking, the science to temper chocolate, and so on.

“Kids connect best with things when they can touch, see, or understand how to use it everyday life,” Heinecke says. “One great thing about adding the arts is that it’s just another way for kids to connect their interests in the real world to the STEM disciplines.”

The arts show children how to be creative problem-solvers, and the value of mistakes.

Amazing engineers aren’t good at their jobs because of their fast, mental arithmetic or equation-solving abilities. Those are important skills, but it’s creative approaches to problem solving that truly make the difference between a flip phone and an iPhone.

“People come from all around the world to be educated in the United States because kids here learn to be creative. A big part of that is art,” Heinecke says. “Art forces you to be creative and brings you out of your shell.”

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And, art gives kids a place to make interesting mistakes and challenge themselves. “Our kids don’t have enough space to be creative,” she says. “Art gives kids an arena where there isn’t always a right answer.”

Art reduces STEM’s intimidation factor—and helps raise informed children. In day-today life as grown-ups, even if we work in fields and industries far removed from STEM, we need to have a basic understanding of the topics involved.

“Not every kid has to be a scientist or engineer, but the more you embrace the STEM disciplines, the better citizen of the world you’ll be,” Heinecke says. “The more well-informed people are as children, the more they’ll grow up to be well-informed adults.”

How Parents Can Encourage STEAM Learning

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Avoid any kids’ play or building kits that do not encourage creative, independent thinking, Speake advises.

“It is not STEM (or STEAM) if there is little creativity in the solving of problems,” Speake says. There’s little value to kits where each child builds the same projects, without options for exploration, she says.

Heinecke’s advice is simple: “Throw some math tools in with your kids’ art supplies.”

Rulers, protractors, and compasses are all fair game.

And highlight the moments when disciplines overlap, Heinecke says. As your child learns about patterns and shapes, let her know this is geometry, a type of math.

Ultimately, Heinecke says, a big goal is to make kids comfortable and familiar with STEM before they hit middle school. And including art can help, she says. “The idea is really to get kids engaged—and keep them engaged.”

Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents.com, Scholastic, and About.com.

Burry lives in Brooklyn with her husband and their cat. You can follow her on Twitter @lovelanewest.

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Our small group test prep camp is dedicated to not only provide students with tools to master these subject areas, but also coach them on test taking strategies.

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Hofstra University Continuing Education - Saturday Classes for Young People and Precollegiate Career Discovery Institute

516-463-7400, Jessica Dease, program director ce.hofstra.edu/youth jessica.dease@hofstra.edu Saturday Classes for Young People wants your child to love learning. Our small classes provide individual attention and help encourage students’ curiosity. There are many classes to choose from including reading, math, writing, STEM/STEAM, cartooning, theater, art, video game development, Minecraft, and swimming.

Huntington Learning Center

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LIU Post Center for Gifted Youth

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Nina’s Tutoring Center

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Village East Gifted - Enrichment Center for the Gifted Learner

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Parochial Schools Archbishop Molloy High School

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Monsignor McClancy Memorial High School

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Saint Mary’s Elementary School

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St. Sebastian Catholic Academy

39-76 58th St., Woodside 718-429-1982 stsebastianacademy.org Nursery-eighth grade, including free Universal Pre-K for All. Free after-school academic and recreational programs are offered daily for students in grades sixth-eighth, sponsored on site by Maspeth Town Hall. An extended day program for students in grades nursery-fifth is available for an additional fee.

Preschools 82nd Street Academics

81-10 35th Ave., Jackson Heights 718-457-0429 x200 82ndst.com 82nd Street Academics focuses on student developmental areas of social-emotional skills, physical development, language and literacy development, and mathematical/cognitive thinking. Our curiosity driven approach uses an adaptive curriculum. Using several domains of learning, we are able to individualize each child’s instruction and experience in our program.

Braithwaite Nursery School

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Jack & Jill Nursery Schools

43-23 Colden St., Flushing 718-762-1218 Jack & Jill Nursery School II 68-05 Fresh Meadow Lane, Fresh Meadows 718-939-8687 jackandjillschools.com With Flushing and Fresh Meadows locations, Jack & Jill is celebrating 45 years of excellence in early childhood education. We are a family-owned and -operated preschool offering a nurturing home-away-from-home environment for children ages 2-5. Full-day or part-time classes for ages 2, 3, and 4 with extended hours from 7:30am-6pm.

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I.S. 145: The Joseph Pulitzer Magnet School of Innovation and Applied Learning

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Brendan Mims, principal 88-08 164th St., Jamaica 718-558-6240 ms358.org info@magnetschools.nyc Join us for an open house on Tuesday, Jan. 29 from 5-7pm. Come to explore the innovative opportunities that our magnet school offers its students.

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P.S. 140Q: The Edward K. Ellington Magnet School of Science, Technology and the Arts - A STEAM Magnet School

David Norment, principal 166-01 116th Ave., Jamaica 718-657-4760 theedwardkellingtonschool.org kcobos@schools.nyc.gov P.S. 140 offers amazing learning experiences through project based learning and STEAM curriculum. Join us for an open house Thursday, Jan. 17 from 9-10:30am.

P.S. 201Q: The Discovery School for Inquiry and Research: STEAM Magnet School

Umit Serin, principal 65-11 155th St., Flushing 718-359-0620 PS201.org info@magnetschools.nyc Join us on Tuesday, Feb. 12 from 2:30-4pm.

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St. Agnes Academic High School

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St. Sebastian Catholic Academy

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AMERICAN DANCE & DRAMA 188-22 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 718-479-8522 americandanceanddrama.net

We are one of Queens’s largest and most exciting birthday party locations, offering dress-up, disco, and gymnastics parties. We also offer bubble and fog machines, cotton candy, plus crazy craft, and princess parties!

BOUNCEU OF COLLEGE POINT Whitepoint Center, 13225 14th Ave., College Point 646-883-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/college-point-ny collegepoint.ny@bounceu.com BounceU of College Point is where birthdays come to life! We provide the ultimate private party and play experience. Come celebrate with us today!

BROOKLYN BOULDERS - QUEENSBRIDGE 23-10 41st Ave., Long Island City 718-482-7078 brooklynboulders.com

and weekend youth programs, and adventure camps.

Our friendly, highly-trained staff teaches kids how to climb, solve problems, and conquer challenges. BKB is the place to be for your next party!

CELEBRATIONS IN THE KITCHEN 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com

The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event! We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy, including sugar cookie baking, all about pizza, cupcakes from scratch, doughnuts, and chocolate and candy projects. Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen. com for more information on parties.

CK KIDS BIRTHDAY PARTIES 68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 917-602-6271 ctkny.org jmichel@ctkny.org

We know your child’s birthday is a special day so we only book one party at time! Private party room available with two bounce houses, ball pit, disco lighting, cotton candy, face painting, tattoos, music, and games!

FANTASY FOREST AMUSEMENT PARK Fantasy Forest Amusement Park at the Flushing Meadows Carousel 111th Street and 55th Avenue, Flushing Meadows-Corona Park next to the Queens Zoo 718-788-2676 fantasyforestnyc.com info@nycarousel.com

Give your child the best birthday with our VIP Birthday Party Package at Queens’s No. 1 destination for family fun! Book our custom birthday package and personalize it with our exclusive food and entertainment add-ons.

FOREST PARK CAROUSEL AMUSEMENT VILLAGE Woodhaven Boulevard and Forest Park Drive, Woodhaven 718-788-2676 forestparkcarousel.com info@nycarousel.com Give your child the best birthday with our VIP Birthday Party Package at “The Crown Jewel of Queens!” Book our custom birthday package and personalize it with our exclusive food and entertainment add-ons.

THE LANYARD LADIES 433 Merrick Road, Oceanside 516-578-2248 thelanyardladies.com info@thelanyardladies.com

The Lanyard Ladies friendship bracelet and lanyard birthday parties bring the party to you, or you can come to their brand-new party place! Many amazing themes and packages to choose from.

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MUSIC TOGETHER® WITH MUSIC AND ME Celebrating our new look with our new name!

Wendy DeAngelis, center director (Mommy, Music & Me, Inc. since 2003) Gym-Azing in Astoria Shotokai USA Karate in Bayside The Reform Temple of Forest Hills in Forest Hills The Church in The Gardens in Forest Hills Tiger Schulmann’s MMA in Glendale 718-229-0033 musictogetherwithmusicandme.com info@musictogetherwithmusicandme.com

We provide unique birthday party musical experiences for first-sixth birthdays. Call us to customize your child’s musical birthday. We can also come to your space.

SKY ZONE TRAMPOLINE PARK-DEER PARK 111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park 631-392-2600 skyzone.com/deerpark deerparkinfo@skyzone.com

The best birthday parties are at Sky Zone, Deer Park. We customize every birthday party. We have themed parties and super hero parties that include Dodgeball, Foam Zone, Sky Slam, and endless jumping opportunities!

SOCCER FRIENDS USA, INC. 106-06 Queens Blvd., 3rd Floor Gym, Forest Hills 718-261-2403, 718-261-2400, 347-756-2568 (para Español) soccerfriendsusa.com soccerfriendsusa@hotmail.com

Soccer Friends USA wants to celebrate your child’s next birthday party with you! We offer soccer parties for children ages 2 and older at several fantastic locations.

USTA BILLIE JEAN KING NATIONAL TENNIS CENTER Flushing Meadows-Corona Park, Flushing 718-760-6200 x0 ntc.usta.com

Birthday party packages include one hour of court time with drills and games organized by our USTA Pro staff and a one-hour private room for pizza.

WHITESTONE LANES 30-05 Whitestone Expressway, Flushing 718-353-6300 whitestonebowlinglanes.com

We are now booking children and teen birthday parties as well as corporate and team building events for 20182019. Call our party hostess Lisa for more information.

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DENTISTS & DENTAL PROVIDERS ZWEIHORN ORTHODONTICS “All for a Smile” Office hours include Sundays and evenings 150-25 Union Turnpike, Flushing 718-969-9234 drzweihorn.com Dr. Zweihorn is a board-certified orthodontist specializing in the treatment of children, teens, and adults. Our team focuses on helping you achieve your best smile!

DOCTORS & MEDICAL PROVIDERS LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Queens: 718-640-6767 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

LICE FAIRY LICEMOTHERS 2463 S. Long Beach Road, Oceanside 866-561-0492 1755 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 866-561-0492 679 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Head 866-561-0492 fairylicemothers.com fairylicemothers@gmail.com Our treatment centers are kid-friendly and our products are 100 percent non-toxic. Treatments include two free re-checks. Whether or not you use our service, we are here to help you.

SPECIAL NEEDS DR. STEVE IMBER, PSYCHOEDUCATIONAL CONSULTANTS Serving Nassau and Suffolk Counties as well as the five boroughs of NYC 61-43 186th St., Fresh Meadows

516-273-1961 Sprout Building 166 Valley St., Providence, RI 401-421-4004 dr-imber.com scimber1@aol.com Dr. Imber has more than 40 years of experience consulting, evaluating, and advocating for children, adolescents, and adults with various disabilities including autism (e.g.

Asperger’s syndrome), attention deficit disorders, intellectual disabilities, emotional and behavioral disorders, and learning disabilities.

HUG MUSIC, CREATIVE & NURTURING MUSIC LESSONS FOR EVERYBODY Music Lessons and Music Therapy 112-01 75th Ave., Lower Level, Forest Hills 718-487-4309 hugmusicny.com contact@hugmusicny.com We offer various fun and nurturing music classes including music lessons on multiple instruments, music therapy for children with special needs, and baby-toddler music classes.

LITTLE STEPS 1, INC. SPEECH & LANGUAGE CLINIC Adelina Samuels, M.A. C.C.C.-S.L.P. speech pathologist 63-70 Woodhaven Blvd., Rego Park 929-335-7707 littlestepsspeech.com Little Steps 1, Inc. aims to help people develop their communication abilities, as well as treat speech, language, swallowing, and voice disorders. Services include prevention, identification, evaluation, diagnosis, treatment, and rehabilitation.

LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho,

Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Queens: 718-640-6767 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

STEPS TO SOCIALIZATION 13 S. Bayles Ave., Port Washington 516-767-0266 Steps to Socialization was created to help children who have difficulty socializing. We teach children how to think socially, step by step. Working in small groups, we cover a variety of topics, including how to establish and maintain friendships and initiating and maintaining conversations.

THERAPY & COUNSELORS COMPREHENSIVE CONSULTATION PSYCHOLOGICAL SERVICES, P.C. 114-20 Queens Blvd., Suite CS 2, Forest Hills 180 E. 79th St., Suite 1C, Manhattan 1-888-441-0015 comprehendthemind.com Dr. Sanam Hafeez, an expert in diagnosing and treating all childhood psychological and learning conditions, has a refreshing approach- direct, warm, and competent.

These qualities have made her sought after in the field of neuropsychology and child development.

ELSA LEE, PH.D., LICENSED PSYCHOLOGIST 254-18 Northern Blvd., Suite 3, Little Neck 646-389-2283 queenspsychology.com contact@queenspsychology.com Dr. Lee is a psychologist who provides counseling and neuropsychological/psychoeducational evaluations.

She has more than 10 years of experience in clinical and school settings. Free consultation. Services also available in Chinese.

TUTORS & TEST PREP VILLAGE EAST GIFTED - ENRICHMENT CENTER FOR THE GIFTED LEARNER Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted provides after-school enrichment and private tutoring for gifted and talented students.

We are a designated John Hopkins CTY and SAT testing center.

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Created specifically for the delicate skin of premature babies, the nutrientrich BEB Organic Silky Cream and Nourishing Oil pack a supermoisturizing one-two punch when used together—and since they were created for preemie skin, they’re super gentle and NICU-safe. For moms who need a little extra moisture in the winter, use the Silky Cream at night to relieve dry skin followed by the Nourishing Oil to lock in moisture. And if pregnancy has caused hormonal acne, or your little one has infant acne, apply some Healing Gel, which is great for treating break outs, healing eczema, and minimizing scars. (Silky Cream: $68; Nourishing Oil: $52; Healing Gel: $64; beborganic.com)

After a nearly 3-year hiatus, Johnson’s brought back the fanfavorite Baby Creamy Oil with Aloe & Vitamin E last July due to consumer demand. If that doesn’t tell you how great this moisturizer is, maybe this will: It’s paraben-, phthalate-, sulfate-, and dye-free due to Johnson’s total brand relaunch last year. The company is now being 100-percent transparent about the ingredients in its products, and is using more naturally derived (and fewer total) components. The nongreasy formula of the creamy oil absorbs quickly—and it’s great for the whole family! ($3.99; target.com)

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A super-gentle moisturizer, miniOrganic’s Superfine Jojoba can be used from cradle to parenthood.

Use it on babies during infant massage, to relieve cradle cap, or add a few drops to the bath. Meanwhile, moms can use it as makeup remover and for treating cuticles and nails.

What we’re most excited about is dads and teens can use it, too!

Encourage your hubby to use it postshave as a soothing balm. And the certified organic, vegan, cruelty-free moisturizer is gentle enough to use if you or your teen has acne-prone skin. ($38; miniorganics.com)

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Inspired by proven, centuries-old remedies from various countries, Vivaiodays Rose Geranium Cleansing Water takes its cue from Zulu women healers, who use Rose Geranium leaves as a treatment. While formulated as a sanitizer for easy cleanup on the go, just add a bit to a cotton pad and use it as oil-free makeup remover. It’s ophthalmologistand dermatologist-tested, plus gluten- and cruelty-free, and certified vegan. Bonus: For every Vivaiodays product sold, the company donates money to fund a day of school for a deserving student somewhere in the world. ($14; vivaiodays.com)

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