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22 camp 12 What Camp Directors Wish Parents Knew 14 Camp Directory 18 At-a-Glance Camp Guide

Family Fun a Ride Away

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Ways to Get (and Stay) Closer to Your Teen

Checking Out Neighborhoods

How to maintain a strong relationship with your child through her adolescence.

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FEBRUARY 2019 • Vol.24 • No.7

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s I write this, we’re getting weather warnings for Winter Storm Harper, and I couldn’t be happier about it. What can I say; this Maine-girl-at-heart loves the cold and snow! But, I’m sure many of you can’t wait for the warmer weather of summer to arrive—dreaming of beach days and no school (well, the kids are dreaming of this at least). We here at Queens Parent are also turning our thoughts to the summer months— reminiscing about our long-gone days of summer camp. While you may think it’s too early to consider your child’s summer camp plans, the American Camp Association actually suggests that now is the perfect time to start planning. And we’re here to help you make the best decisions for your children to set them up for the. Best. Summer. Ever. In this issue, camp directors and counselors tell all, revealing the top things they wish you knew about summer camp, from choosing a camp to ensuring your kids have a great experience (p. 12). You’ll also find two must-read camp planning resources: our Camp Directory (p. 14), full of the area’s best summer camp options, and our At-aGlance Camp Guide (p. 18), where you’ll be able to quickly see which camps offer transportation, extended hours, lunch, ﬂexible schedules, and other specialty programs. And to help you even more, this year we are publishing our first-ever Queens Parent Digital Camp Guide, which is full of great free content, including expert advice for planning your child’s summer, descriptions of area camps, camp comparison charts, and open house schedules. You won’t want to miss this ultimate, all-in-one, camp planning resource! You can find it at nymetroparents.com/campguide/queens beginning Feb. 15! Of course, camp isn’t the only thing on our minds right now. This issue is also full of great advice, including ways to get and stay close to your teens at a time when it feels like they’re pulling away from you (pg. 36), how you can begin to discern what your baby’s cries mean (pg. 34), tips for improving your credit score in a year (really!) (pg. 38), and how to thoroughly check out a neighborhood to see if it’s the right place for your family to live (pg. 40). Plus, February is National Children’s Dental Health Month, so local orthodontists share all you need to know about orthodontic appliances (pg. 32). And since February also brings us Valentine’s Day, we’re wishing you lots of love, laughter, and great memories with your kids! Katelin Walling Editorial Director

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Who: JEI Learning Center What’s New: Rules for 2019 math Olympiad and prizes. This year, JEI Learning Center will open the Math Olympiad to former JEI students in addition to current JEI students. Additionally, all prizes this year will be cash instead of gift cards. Winners, of which there are three per grade level, are awarded checks for varying values depending on how they place. First place will receive $250, second place will receive $150, and third place will receive $100. The grand prize winner, the person who scores the highest out of everyone regardless of grade, will be given a $1,000 college scholarship and the latest Apple iPad. Registration for the JEI Math Olympiad ends March 3. The competition will be held March 9 at 9am at Queensborough Community College. Want More Info: JEI Corporate Office; 440 Sylvan Ave., Suite 212, Englewood Cliffs, NJ; http://bit.ly/2019JEIMathOlympaid; 201-567-0677.

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Who: Bilingual Birdies What’s New: Classes offered in Little Neck at the Ally Pond Environmental Center, beginning Feb. 3. The Long Island location will also open early this year, however the date is not yet set. Bilingual Birdies aims to create a learning environment in which a second language is taught through puppetry, song, and dance while also promoting diversity and inclusion. The Queens and Long Island locations will focus on beginner and intermediate level Spanish for students of all backgrounds with ages ranging from 6 months to 5 years old. Marilyn Duque, the new franchise owner of both locations, decided to open the Queens location when she self-identified a need for such a program in her area. Want More Info: Alley Pond Environmental Center; 22806 Northern Blvd, Little Neck; 516-200-4691; longisland.bilingualbirdies@gmail.com; bilingualbirdies.com.

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Who: RIOULT Dance Center What’s New: The studio, which opened Oct. 15, 2019. The state-of-the-art facility features four studios that range in size, a theater with stadium seating, windows that offer views of the community, a full sound system, and s welcome center—all in 11,000 square feet of space. The studio is located in the Kaufman Arts District of Astoria. The studio offers a range of programs for children of all ages. Children ages 18 months to 3 years can participate in Young Movers in which they are introduced to dance that works to develop creativity, language, and fine-motor skills. Children ages 6-17 can participate in a variety of specialized dance programs including ballet, tap, jazz, modern, hip-hop, and salsa. Want More Info: 34-01 Steinway St., Astoria; 212-398-5903; rioult.org/ rioultdancecenter. 8

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Crossing the Digital Divide ›› One simple thing we do every week as a family to connect with our teens By Emily Orton

s part of the first wave of parents raising children in the digital age, I often feel like I’m in a conga line of the blind leading the blind. We’re guessing. We’re occasionally desperate. My husband and I went so far as to take our five kids to live on a sailboat for a year, so we could connect and create memories before they grew up and moved out. While a year at sea is more doable than most people think, you don’t have to go to those extremes to connect. Upon returning to the land of milk and Wi-Fi, we found ourselves digitally drifting apart again, even in our 900-squarefoot apartment. Should we embrace or eschew ubiquitous screens? How do we navigate the middle ground? My husband came up with a first-world solution for a first-world problem. Now, every Sunday evening, my family gathers for a ritual that is more Roku than Rockwell. We call it: Week in Pictures. Starting with our youngest and working our way up, each family member syncs their iPod or iPhone to our Apple TV using airplay or screen mirroring and shares their photos, videos, and snaps from the week. It’s that simple. Any smartphone or streaming TV device should do the trick. Our kids were skeptical at first. We didn’t know if it would stick, but it has for more than three years. It does not require elaborate preparation. It’s a quick, “Hey kids, grab your phones. Time for Week in Pictures.” If the Wi-Fi is wimpy, we put our phones on Airplane Mode until it’s our turn to share. Our only rule? We all stay to see each other’s photos. You might not think a few minutes once a week can make a difference, but it’s had a huge impact in our home. In a few

Emily and Erik Orton decided to spend a year sailing with their five kids. You can read about their adventure in Seven At Sea, available March 5.

minutes a whole family can orient to each other. We see into each other’s lives through each other’s eyes. Try it once. You may be surprised what you learn about one another. You may have the satisfaction of knowing you really do have a pulse on your child’s interests or you may have the pleasure of being educated. So often months blur together. Week in Pictures reveals some measure of what has made each week unique. Knowing we’ll have an opportunity to share insights, discoveries, and silly faces with each other makes us more aware of life in real time. It’s like sipping a cozy cup of Our Town. I am regularly amazed at how much life is compressed into seven days—milestones, epiphanies, emotions, and experiences—even when we’re just having a “regular” week. When we have company on Sunday evenings, we invite them to join us for Week in Pictures. When we are visiting others, we ask if our hosts would like to have a Week in Pictures. Everyone has loved it. Two of our daughters are away at college now. We call. We FaceTime. We email. We follow each other on Instagram. We have a family text group for sharing ongoing dialogue and momentous updates, so we can console or congratulate and keep our inside jokes alive. But when they come home between semesters, they want to share their pictures. We block out time over several days to make sure our grown-up kids get to show us everything they want us to know about their lives. I’m not kidding. A lot of parents are looking for the key to that secret garden where they can glimpse into their kid’s lives. If you’re one of them, the key may already be in your hand.

Emily Orton blogs with her husband, Erik, at Fezywig.com. They are the co-authors of Seven at Sea: Why a New York City Family Cast Off Convention for a Life-Changing Year on a Sailboat, available on SevenAtSea.com on March 5.

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magine this: Your regular babysitter canceled 2 hours before she was supposed to be at your place. Or perhaps your boss just scheduled a last-minute work dinner you must attend. Maybe your friends surprised you with tickets to the must-see concert or Broadway show. Whatever the case, finding last-minute child care that is affordable means embracing our beloved city. There are certain characteristics of New York City life that work in parents’ favor when it comes to creative child care solutions. Embrace those features, and you’re sure to find someone you trust to care for your children for an evening.

Treat Your Quiet Apartment Like a Hot Commodity

Once the kids are in bed, your apartment is a priceless destination for those lacking personal space. Your quiet living room provides a refuge for single friends escaping roommate drama or married couples craving breathing room. By recruiting a friend to watch Netﬂix at your place, you can have a night out without draining your bank account.

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Take advantage of the high-population density. Look for a sitter in your local neighborhood so her punctuality isn’t at the mercy of traffic or transit delays. The jackpot? Finding child care help in your own apartment building. Neighbors are also an invaluable child care resource when you need to run out to the doctor or grocery store and would rather not drag your kids along in the wintery mix.

This is part one in a two-part series of creative child care solutions in New York City. Look in March issue for part two.

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Factor in the camp’s location—and how far it is from home.

Know the camp’s reputation and accreditation.

Keep your kid’s needs (and hobbies!) in mind.

or parents, summer can present a logistical nightmare: How will your child spend all those days from June through August? Camp, of course, is the perfect solution. Attending camp builds character. At camp, your child will learn new skills, try new things, build confidence, and most importantly, have uninhibited fun in a safe environment, says Bob Budah, one of the owners of Park Shore Country Day Camp and School in Dix Hills. But which one? And what do you need to know to make your child’s experience during those weeks at camp stellar? Six camp directors and owners—from day camps across the New York metro area—share their must-know tips for parents.

Checking into the camp’s reputation should be high on your to-do list, Budah says. Do your usual due diligence: Ask fellow parents about their impression of the camp, and check online reviews. Budah also strongly urges parents to confirm the camp is accredited by the American Camping Association and inspected by the health department. The ACA sets standards for everything from the age appropriateness of activities to first-aid equipment standards. “Many entities call themselves camps and they’re not inspected,” Budah says. “A parent needs protection and has to know their child is going to a reputable camp that’s ACA-accredited.” 12

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Does this sound like a minor detail? Not so, says Jack Grosbard, owner of Mill Basin Day Camp in Brooklyn. “If a camper travels long ways back and forth, it can really ruin the experience,” Grosbard says. “It waters down the excitement both coming and going.” So, keep proximity in mind during the selection process. Think about the camp’s size, too, says Joseph O’Sullivan, camp director at Magic Day Camp in Queens. “Many camps are so big that kids can get lost, and if you’re the type of child who doesn’t make friends easily, this can be lonely,” he says. Check the camp’s website for the staff-to-child ratio, as well as its overall size.

“The first thing I really hope parents do prior to choosing a camp is understand their children and know their likes and dislikes,” Grosbard says. Just because you love crafting, doesn’t mean your child does. Same goes for other camp focuses, from sports to academics. For kids, Grosbard says, summertime is a break from school— that doesn’t just mean a respite from testing, homework, and the classroom, but an opportunity to do what they enjoy. And while it’s nice to go into the first day of camp knowing someone, don’t make the mistake of automatically opting for your child’s best friend’s camp. “You want to pick the best camp for your individual child and that might not be the camp that their friends go to,” says

Roberta Katz, co-owner and director of Deer Mountain Day Camp in Pomona. Opt for a place where your child will flourish, she says.

Trust the camp director.

If something comes up, by all means, get in touch. But one perk of sending your kid to camp, says Matt Davanzo, camp director at Squire Day Camp in Hartsdale, is feeling secure knowing your child is well taken care of by an experienced, capable staff. “What I like to impart to my parents is: We’ve got this. We’ll take care of it,” Davanzo says. “People live very busy, hectic lives and my goal is to be a non-factor,” allowing parents to have one less nagging item on their to-do list.

Feel free to pick up the phone.

Ultimately, you should feel confident in the camp you select. But if something comes up, camp directors urge you to get in touch. “Call me with anything,” Katz says. “In order to make camp the best possible experience for each child here, we need to have very open communication with each of our families,” she says. O’Sullivan agrees. At his camp, parents get cellphone numbers for every staff member their kids will encounter, from the director to the bus counselor. That way, there’s no need to navigate the office or make multiple calls in order for parents to speak to their child, or their child’s counselor. Bottom line: “The more comfortable parents feel, the more comfortable their child will be at camp,” Katz says.

Focus on the last day of camp–not the first.

The first day of camp can be nerve-wracking—for you, and for your child. To quell those concerns, Katz urges parents to focus on how your child will feel at the end of the experience—after weeks of activities, friend-making, and growth.

And worry less about your kid fitting in or making friends right away too, she recommends. “I try to make parents feel comfortable with the idea of helping kids flourish as individuals,” she says. “Campers should be able to be who they are when they’re here. ...Everyone is different, and we want to celebrate those differences.”

Familiarize yourself with the camp’s procedures.

Every camp will have a set of rules and procedures, so consider getting to know these guidelines your homework. And “pay attention to correspondence,” Grosbard says. That way, if there’s a dance show with everyone wearing white T-shirts, your kid won’t be the lone performer in a red tank top. (Sounds like a small thing, but for children, these moments can really be embarrassing and diminish the experience.) And, Grosbard adds: be on time (not too early, not too late) for pick-up and drop-off. Even more than keeping up with logistics, it’s nice to have a sense of what your kid does during the day, says David Stapleton, camp director of Future Stars Summer Camps in Old Westbury. That way, you can lend support and see how the program builds from week to week, he says. Tip: Depending on your camp, social media can be a way to keep up with your kid’s daytime adventures.

Talk to your kid about their day.

Parents should talk to their kids about their camp experience every day, Grosbard says. He suggests asking questions like: What did you do? Did you like it? What was exciting? What would you like to do more or less of? What new skills did you learn? And, when your child shares, be excited in response! Don’t make the conversation a quick stopover before TV time; be genuinely engaged, Grosbard urges. This will help keep your child’s camp memories alive. Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents.com, Scholastic, and About.com. You can follow her on Twitter: @lovelanewest.

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Camp Directory Day Camps Beth Sholom Day Camp

401 Roslyn Road, Roslyn Heights 516-621-9257 bethsholomdaycamp.com Beth Sholom Day Camp offers children, ages 3-15, the opportunity to reach their goals in a friendly, noncompetitive atmosphere. Activities include music, dance, arts and crafts, and karate, as well as outdoor sports. Red cross swim instruction is offered in our three heated pools. BSDC provides door-to-door, air-conditioned transportation.

CK Kids Summer Camps

68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 718-366-7454 ctkny.org; jmichel@ctkny.org Don’t miss the summer fun at CK with four exciting summer camps to offer children of all ages. Camps appeal to all interests, including soccer, basketball, dance, drama, cooking, arts, water slides, and ninja. On-site math and ELA programs available. Come for a week or the whole summer!

Countryside Montessori School

354 Lakeville Road, lower level, Great Neck 516-466-8422 cmsgn.com; info@cmsgn.com Countryside Montessori school runs summer camp during July and August for children ages 18 months-6 years. Camp has weekly themes. Toddlers have play-based mornings, and Primary (ages 3 years and older) spend time doing academics and on the playground. Camp is a great way to acclimate your child to school.

Hillcrest Jewish Center Day Camp

183-02 Union Turnpike, Flushing 718-380-4145 hjcdaycamp.org; daycamp@hillcrestjc.org The camp “where everybody knows your name” offers programs for preschoolers through the teen CIT program. The age-appropriate programs include Red Cross swim instruction, arts and crafts, outdoor play and exercise, sports, tennis, field trips, Jewish culture program, organized games and activities, and weekly cookout.

Magic Day Camp

216-15 Peck Ave., Bayside 718-634-8109 magicdaycamp.com Magic Day Camp, “Where Every Day Is Magical,” offers children ages 4-15 adventures and activities that stimulate and motivate minds and physical ability. We swim every day in an Olympic country club pool. With exciting weekly trips, our rates include door-to-door transportation, healthy lunches, professional tennis, dance, and instructional sports programs.

Mill Basin Day Camp

5945 Strickland Ave., Brooklyn 718-251-6200 millbasindaycamp.com Mill Basin Day Camp is dedicated to

providing exciting and fulfilling camp experiences with fun, recreational, and safe activities for children entering pre-K through ninth grade. Attend an open house and please bring the whole family for a personal tour of the facility and discussion of the camp program.

Oasis Day Camp in Bayside

Queensborough Community College 222-05 56th Ave., Bayside 646-519-5055 oasischildren.com bayside@oasischildren.com Oasis Day Camp prides itself on age-appropriate programming for ages 3-15. Early Start (ages 3-5) is a nurturing camp environment. Lower (first-second grade) offers sports, arts, swim, enrichment, and nature. Upper (third-sixth grades) is bigger and better for older campers. Teen Travel (seventh-ninth grades) offers unique trips, overnights, friendships.

Tiny Footsteps

167-01 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 718-969-5500 tinyfootstepsny@yahoo.com Tiny Footsteps is the place to be for kids ages 1-5! Our hands-on curriculum is theme based allowing for student growth, exploration, and creativity. Students are prepared academically and socially for the big step into elementary school. Call for more information and to find out about our summer program.

World of Discovery Day Camp

718-229-3037 worldofdiscovery.org info@worldofdiscovery.org World of Discovery Day Camp creates an environment where kids can just be kids. Since 1977, children ages 4-15 have enjoyed baseball, volleyball, basketball, gymnastics, dance and drama, carnivals, scavenger hunts, swimming, Olympic week, and trips. Counselors meet stringent standards and all directors and assistant directors are New York state-certified.

Young People’s Day Camp of Queens

800-856-1043 queenscamp.com Since 1972, our family-run camp has provided safe, fun-filled summers for thousands of Queens youngsters. YPDCQ is accredited by the American Camp Association. Activities include swimming, sports, arts and crafts, music and dance, nature science, academics, and educational and recreational field trips as well as many other special events. Ages 4-15.

YMCA Summer Camps

ymcanyc.org/camp At YMCA Summer Camps, children learn leadership skills and develop self-confidence in a safe, accepting, and stimulating environment. They also build robots, go on field trips, shoot hoops, learn to swim, make new friends, and laugh all summer long! Six locations in Manhattan and the Bronx!

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Specialty Camps 82nd Street Academics

81-10 35th Ave., Jackson Heights 718-457-0429 x200 82ndst.com Summer Academics Gold is an eightweek educational program during July and August. Each week each grade has two learning modules math and English. We follow the public school curriculum that they will work on in fall 2019. Science, technology, a college trip, and daily moments of motivation keep students engaged.

All Star Studios

108-21 72nd Ave., 4th floor, Forest Hills 718-268-2280 allstarstudiosnyc.com allstarstudios@gmail.com Sign up now for summer and fall classes, limited space available. All Star Studios program is designed to encourage and educate students on how to increase flexibility, improve coordination, focus on muscle strengthening, build poise, and have fun. All instructors have experience in both teaching and performing.

Archbishop Molloy High School

83-53 Manton St., Briarwood 718-441-2100 x155 or x110 molloyhs.org admissions@molloyhs.org, Basketball and Baseball: mmccleary@molloyhs. org Theater: swinters@molloyhs.org STEM: eboral@molloyhs.org Archbishop Molloy HS offers summer camps for basketball, baseball, theater, and STEM. The camps are open to rising sixth, seventh, and eighth graders and incoming freshmen. Molloy is a safe environment where students can develop and have fun. Check our website molloyhs. org over the upcoming months for further details!

Bilingual Birdies - Marilyn Duque

Alley Pond Environmental Center, 22806 Northern Blvd., Little Neck 516-200-4691 bilingualbirdies.com longisland.bilingualbirdies@gmail.com Join Myla Birdie, a bright yellow puppet for a summer adventure during our six-week summer series. Learn Spanish and all fun summer things. Bilingual Birdies is the leading bilingual music education program in New York that serves toddlers and preschoolers through song, dance, and puppetry.

The DanceSource

98-11 Queens Blvd. (at 65th Ave.), Rego Park/Forest Hills 718-997-1278 dancesource.net info@dancesource.net The DanceSource begins its 25th year. We offer classes for children 2 ½ years, up to adult. We offer all the classic dance classes and ethnic styles of dance. Our smaller, boutique-sized classes offer lots of individual attention. We will run a six-week summer session July 6– Aug. 9.

Further Music School

110-06 72nd Ave., Forest Hills 718-544-8886 140-75 Ash Ave., Suite 2B, Flushing 917-563-1480 furthermusic.com; info@furthermusic.com 2017 National Music School of the Year. Since 2007, Further Music School has grown to be one of the most popular and recognized music schools in Queens. Reaching more than 3000 students, our award-winning facility provides music lessons for all instruments and singing. Explore your summer music classes with us!

Hofstra Summer Camps

101 Oak St., Uniondale 516-463-CAMP (2267) hofstra.edu/camp hofstra.edu/campli ce-camps@hofstra.edu Hofstra Summer Camps offer children, ages 5-17, more than 70 programs from theater to sports, gaming, art, music, STEM and STEAM, academics, culinary, dance, YouTube Studio, Adventure Education, and Super Hero Academy. At our camp, kids will explore their interests, learn valuable social skills, and have fun while gaining confidence.

JEI Learning Centers

Auburndale: 347-408-4098 Floral Park: 718-347-3138 Forest Hills: 718-268-2890 Fresh Meadows: 718-740-7888 Great Neck: 516-482-2234 Rego Park: 718-441-3762 Whitestone: 718-819-8813 jei.com JEI Learning Center helps children achieve academic success through summer enrichment and tutoring programs for children pre-K to ninth grades. Excel in math, Problem Solving Math, reading and writing, and English! JEI’s curriculum aligns with Common Core State Standards. Reach out to your local center to learn more about summer enrichment programs today!

Kent Prep

194-11A Northern Blvd., Bayside 718-423-5757 kentprep.com This seven-week program helps prepare high-achieving students, from kindergarten to 12th grade, for success by allowing them to “pre-learn” next grade level material before the 2019 semester begins. Certified instructors lead small classes to provide focused instruction to improve critical thinking skills, test taking proficiency, reading comprehension, and writing.

LIU Post Center for Gifted Youth

Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, director LIU Post, Brookville 516-299-2160 liu.edu/giftedyouth The Long Island University program for gifted children was established in 1979 in response to the recognition of society’s special responsibilities for children with demonstrably superior intellectual ability. The LIU Center for Gifted Youth offers extraordinary teachers recruited from leading schools in the metropolitan area, and university-level facilities. continued on pg. 16 ››

THE WINDSOR SCHOOL LE AR N TO DAY. LE AD TO M O R ROW.

A Private College Preparatory Middle and High School in NYC for Students in Grades 7–12 • Celebrating our 50th Anniversary! • Recently reaccredited by the Middle States Association of Secondary Schools and Colleges • Small class size offering individualized instruction • Convenient to the 7 train and 12 MTA bus lines

CURRENTLY ACCEPTING APPLICATIONS FOR 2019-2020 Affordable Tuition – Merit Scholarship & Financial Aid Available

SUMMER ENRICHMENT PROGRAM • Regents Classes for Credit Advancement Jump a year ahead in one or two subjects! • SAT/ACT Test Prep Classes Prepare for the August or October test!

THE WINDSOR SCHOOL 37-02 Main Street, Flushing, New York 11354 (718) 359-8300 • www.thewindsorschool.com

Dr. Zweihorn is a board-certified orthodontist specializing in the treatment of children, teens and adults. Our team focuses on helping you achieve your best smile!

CALL TO SCHEDULE YOUR FREE CONSULTATION 718.969.9234 • www.drzweinhorn.com

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8702 Grand Ave., Elmhurst 718-205-7508 92-22 Corona Ave., Elmhurst 718-606-1056 tutornina@hotmail.com We tutor kids in grades kindergarten to 12th. For the past 11 years, we have provided quality education that helps kids excel in school. We help improve skills in math, ELA, science, and social studies. We have an intensive preparation program for ELA, math, science, citywide and statewide exams, and SAT and ACT prep.

Our Mindful Child

254-18 Northern Blvd., Suite 3, Little Neck 929-267-5853 ourmindfulchild.com contact@ourmindfulchild.com Our Mindful Child is a learning center designed to promote social, emotional, and cognitive skills among children attending kindergarten—fifth grade. We provide highly structured methods of teaching based on evidence-based research and a curriculum developed by a neuropsychologist. Summer programs will be available. Visit our website for more information.

RIOULT Dance Center

34-01 Steinway St., entrance on 34th Avenue, Astoria 212-398-5903 rioult.org/rioultdancecenter Twirl into a world of fun at RIOULT’s summer program! Your child’s dance technique will soar as they explore a plethora of styles including ballet, modern, hip-hop, tap, jazz, and drumming. In this nurturing environment, your child’s creativity and athleticism will flourish. Open for all levels ages 6-16 years.

Rose Academy of Ballet

70-11 Austin St., Forest Hills 718-520-0207 roseacademyofballet.com racademyofballet@gmail.com Located in Forest Hills, our dance program combines movement and

music, while always leaving space for personal creativity. We offer dance classes for ages 2 through adult. Join us for pre-ballet, tap, jazz, musical theater, and dance teams. Don’t miss our flexible and fun dance camp. Extended care is available!

Soccer Friends USA, Inc.

106-06 Queens Blvd., 3rd Floor Gym, Forest Hills 718-261-2403, 347-756-2568 (para Español) soccerfriendsusa.com soccerfriendsusa@hotmail.com SFUSA offers two types of soccer summer camps. The first option is a drop-off summer camp that can be booked on a weekly or daily basis. The second option is a Flexible Class Pass. You will have the entire sixweek season to use up the number of classes you purchase.

Tinker Lab at Lewis Latimer House Museum

3441 137th St., Flushing 718-961-8585 latimernow.org/tinker-lab education@latimernow.org Tinker Lab participants will explore design, hands-on making, circuitry, and programming using micro-controllers. Projects include biologically inspired robots, electronic instruments, and video game design incorporating science and arts. Activities are held at African American electrical pioneer Lewis H. Latimer’s science lab. Register for summer camps at latimernow.org/tinker-lab.

The Windsor School

37-02 Main St., Flushing 718-359-8300 thewindsorschool.com admin@thewindsorschool.com Students attend our summer school to earn course and Regents credit for acceleration, or to preview a course which will be taken during the upcoming school year. Our schedule allows students to take up to two full year Regents courses. SAT/ACT prep classes are also offered. Classes begin July 1.

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Countryside Montessori School An Education Where Children Thrive Under the Guidance of Great Teacher in an Environment that Stimulates Creativity and Individual Potential!

The DanceSource Have you ever tried a Dance Class?

A proven system celebrating over 100 years of practice, research and worldwide recognition • Our fully equipped spacious classroom offer the most enriched curriculum available for 18 months - 6 years. • Fully affiliated with the American Montessori Society since 1998. • Early drop-off and Extended day available. Register Now for Summer Camp

The DanceSource offers 13 styles of dance, from the classics (Ballet, Tap, Gymnastics) to ethnic (Georgian, Barata Nathyam, Kathak, Bollywood), and more (Modern, Ballroom). Contact us for private lessons

The DanceSource is open after school Mon - Thur 5:30 - 8:30pm | Sat 9:30am - 8:00pm and Sun 9:30am - 3:00pm

354 Lakeville Road Great Neck, NY 516-466-8422 Visit our website: www.CMSGN.com

98-11 Queens Blvd at 65th Avenue • Rego Park, NY Tel: 718-997-1278 • info@dancesource.net www.dancesource.net • Check out our website!

HILLCREST JEWISH CENTER DAY CAMP “The Camp Where Everybody Knows Your Name”

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World of Discovery Day Camp worldofdiscovery.org

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Help your child build the skills that matter for life! Small, structured classes Research-based curriculum

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Feb 2nd – April 27th for students entering grades K-8

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LIU Post’s Center for Gifted Youth announces its 38th annual fall and spring program for gifted children. The spring program runs on Saturdays from February 2nd to April 27th. The program is open to gifted children entering grades K-8 in September 2018. The program expands students’ knowledge, develops creative and critical thinking skills, and offers children the opportunity to learn in an exciting and accepting environment.

For information call 516-299-2160 liu.edu/post/giftedyouth Now find us on Facebook

Admission is highly selective and enrollment is limited.

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Family Fun a Ride Away By Whitney C. Harris

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In Bergen County, NJ...

All you have to do is show up for fun in the snow; you can rent all equipment, including helmets.

Campgaw Mountain Ski Area

As New Jersey’s premier learn-to-ski or -snowboard and tubing destination, Campgaw Mountain offers an alpine escape less than an hour from the city. Located in northern Bergen County, it’s the closest ski area to the New York metro area with 100-percent snowmaking capabilities, only 18 miles north of the George Washington Bridge. Enjoy skiing, snowboarding, and tubing (with a surface lift!) for all abilities on uncrowded trails. Equipment rentals and instruction available for all ages. Visit it: Mahwah, NJ; skicampgaw.com; 201-327-7800

Bergen County Zoo

Bergen County Zoological Park is a 15-acre animal park within the beautiful Van Saun Park. This Association of Zoos & Aquariums-accredited zoo houses animals from North, South, and Central America including tapir, spider monkeys, bison, elk, and a Colonial Dutch Farmyard featuring rare-breed farm animals. Be sure to stop by the Education Center to visit with the reptiles, amphibians, and more. Visit it: Paramus, NJ; co.bergen.nj.us; 201-262-3771

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Bear Mountain Ice Rink is open through March 2; see website for public skate hours.

Bear Mountain Ice Rink

If you head up to Bear Mountain State Park this winter, a stop by the ice rink is a must. Lace-up and enjoy skating outdoors around an open-air rink. Five bucks will give you access to a 90-minute session. There are figure skating and hockey clubs, plus private parties. Rental skates run as small as toddler size 8. Check the website for any unscheduled closure due to inclement weather or mechanical maintenance. Visit it: Tomkins Cove, Rockland County; bearmountainicerink.com; 845-786-2701 22

Through the end of February, enjoy ice-skating, face painting, balloon artists, and ice carving demonstrations at the zoo’s annual Winter Wonderland.

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This month’s Eaglefest, hosted by Trailside Museums and Zoo at Croton Point Park, features bird presentations, nature walks, and more.

Trailside Museums and Zoo

Woodchucks, and coyotes, and bears, oh my! Trailside Museums and Zoo has it all when it comes to mammals, birds, amphibians, reptiles, and fish. This wildlife mecca on the Hudson River is worth a visit for both its vistas and its animal inhabitants. Plus, there are four museums all devoted to different aspects of nature, including geology. Trailside will host Eaglefest at Croton Point Park this month, with bird presentations, nature walks, live music, food trucks, and more. Visit it: Highland Falls, Rockland County; trailsidezoo.org; 845-786-2701

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the ten events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Flour Dough Sculpture Making

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 3, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Join master flour dough artist Xun Ye for this workshop. Participants will learn basic dough art techniques to create their own animal or flower sculptures. WHY WE LOVE IT: Ye will also share a brief history of this art form and will demonstrate the sculpting of a child’s face. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 members and children. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

Love is in the Air

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Make a yummy treat for the guinea pigs, build a comfy nest for the doves, and enjoy a snack together. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids will get to visit with live animal guests and go on a short nature walk too. WANT TO GO? $21. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

‘Princess Particular’

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 2:30pm WHERE: The Secret Theatre, 44-02 23rd St., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: All Princess Particular can think about is her latest scheme to 24

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become a ballerina. WHY WE LOVE IT: Audiences, who are encouraged to dress up in costume, will get to interact during the show and take a photo with the actors afterwards. WANT TO GO? See website for tickets. 718-392-0722. secrettheatre.com.

Flushing Lunar New Year Parade FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 9:30-10:30am WHERE: Historic St. George’s Church, 135-32 38th Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Gather at St. George’s Church (Queens) to connect and stay warm with hot coffee and doughnuts before heading to the parade site together. Then celebrate with a fencing demonstration by Queens Fencing Club and a lively parade! WHY WE LOVE IT: There will also be a New Year’s intentions-making activity! WANT TO GO? 646-820-5163. flushingchamber.nyc

Queens Symphony Orchestra Celebrates Black History Month FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 10, 2:30pm WHERE: Kupferberg Center for the Arts, 153-49 Reeves Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Commemorate the 50th anniversary of the assassination of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. with a poignant work using the speech by Senator Robert Kennedy on the night of the assassination. WHY WE LOVE IT: A chance to bring your family to the symphony and to honor a great activist—all for free. WANT TO GO? $10 parking fee. 718-793-8080. kupferbergcenter.org.

How Many Zombies Are Too Many Zombies?

WHEN: Through Feb. 15: See website for schedule WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 5 and older WHAT: In this simulation, players take on the role of scientists helping the “Center for Calamity Control” mitigate a zombie outbreak. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids will learn mathematical modeling while playing zombie tag. WANT TO GO? $16; $13 seniors, students, and children ages 2-17. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Temple Bazaar

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 17, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy performances, art making, lantern making, and food to celebrate the Year of the Pig! Add to the community Red Envelope Show as well. WHY WE LOVE IT: This celebration is offered in two sessions, and everyone can join the dragon parade first at Flushing Library at 9:30am. WANT TO GO? $5; $3 for members. flushingtownhall.org.

‘Sesame Street Live! Make Your Magic’

WHEN: Feb. 15-24, check schedule for details WHERE: The Hulu Theater at Madison Square Garden, 4 Pennsylvania Plaza, Midtown AGES: All WHAT: With high-energy dance numbers and a soundtrack that’s sure to get everyone out of their seats, Sesame Street Live! Make Your Magic is showcases live theater and the art of illusion. WHY WE LOVE IT: A good introduction to stage productions for littlest ones! WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 800-345-3000. msg.com/sesame.

Disney’s ‘Frozen: The Broadway Musical’

WHEN: Through March 10: Tuesday-Sunday, see website for times WHERE: St. James Theatre, 246 W. 44th St., Midtown AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Frozen: the Broadway Musical expands on the story of two sisters, giving more time to the characters we’ve come to love. WHY WE LOVE IT: The show has kept many members of the creative team from the film, so everything on stage is faithful to the original story. WANT TO GO? $35 and up. 877-250-2900. seatsforeveryone.com/frozen.

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the ﬁve no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Blood Drive FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 8:45am-2:45pm WHERE: Advance Temple, 21-14 30th Ave., Astoria AGES: Adult WHAT: Give the gift of life and save up to three lives by donating blood. Bring your New York Blood Center donor card. WANT TO GO? 516-478-5094. donate.nybc.org.

Lantern Festival Event FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 10, 2-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Flushing Branch, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Children will learn about Chinese cultures and customs, make their own lanterns, and celebrate Lantern Festival. WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

Live to Ride Blood Drive FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 10, 10:30am-4:30pm WHERE: New York Honda Yamaha, 36-02 38th St., Long Island City AGES: Adult WHAT: Donate at NY Honda Yamaha to give back to the community and find out your blood type. WANT TO GO? 516-478-5094. donate.nybc.org.

Crafty Tuesday: Valentine’s Day Craft FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 12, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Rochdale Village Branch, 169-09 137 Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Make a hands-on craft to share with your Valentine. WANT TO GO? 718-723-4440. queenslibrary.org.

Color In Milk FREE

WHEN: Through Feb. 23: Tuesdays and Thursdays, 3-5pm WHERE: PYE Education Center, 41-32 75th St., Elmhurst AGES: 5-12 WHAT: In this STEM program run by high school students, young children will conduct hands-on experiments and projects, and learn coding and robotics. WANT TO GO? 718-565-1846. colorinmilk.org. ››

The Socrates Annual, 2018 Exhibition FREE

WHEN: Through March 10: See website for hours after opening day WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Each year Socrates presents an exhibition of new commissions made by artists awarded the Park’s Emerging Artist Fellowship. For the 2018 exhibition, projects range from a decolonial greenhouse to audio-sculptural portraits of Queens hip-hop legends. WHY WE LOVE IT: These pieces respond to the park’s unique history, landscape, and community. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

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exhibition Akari: Sculpture by Other Means. WANT TO GO? 718-204-7088. noguchi.org.

Black History Jeopardy FREE

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 11, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, South Ozone Park Branch, 128-16 Rockaway Blvd., South Ozone Park AGES: All WHAT: There will be questions about black history, famous AfricanAmericans, musicians, athletes, and other topics. WANT TO GO? 718-529-1660. queenslibrary.org.

Traveling Shoes: Black Migrations: Recreate Jacob Lawrence’s Migration Series Panel FREE

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 11, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Ridgewood Branch, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: All WHAT: Learn about The Migration Series, a 60-panel series portraying the flight of more than a million African-Americans WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

Black History Bingo FREE

SMARTY PANTS STEM Night: Engineering Night FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 1, 5:30-7:30pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 5-17 WHAT: A special evening event to learn about the many different career opportunities available in the field of engineering. WANT TO GO? 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Traveling Shoes: Black Migrations: Children’s Trivia FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 19, 2-3pm WHERE: Queens Library, South Ozone Park Branch, 128-16 Rockaway Blvd., South Ozone Park AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Learn about prominent African-Americans while playing bingo. WANT TO GO? 718-529-1660. queenslibrary.org.

Coding with Matpreneur FREE

WHEN: Feb. 1-22, Fridays, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Rosedale Branch, 144-20 243 St., Rosedale AGES: All WHAT: This computer programming club aims to help launch the path of future coders and data scientists. WANT TO GO? 718-528-8490. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 1, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Arverne Branch, 312 Beach 54th St., Arverne AGES: All WHAT: Test your knowledge during a celebration and commemoration of Black History Month focusing on black migrations. WANT TO GO? 718-634-4784. queenslibrary.org.

Black History Weekend

Free Comic Book Writing Class for Kids FREE

Black History Month: Getting to Know Langston Hughes FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Queens Library at Briarwood, 85-12 Main St., Briarwood AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Begin to construct your own characters and learn the basics behind crafting a comic book script. WANT TO GO? 718-658-1680. newtownliterary.org.

Think Tank: Seeing Sound

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 23, 1-4pm WHERE: The Bowne House Historical Society, 37-01 Bowne St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Bowne House residents’ discuss their history as Abolitionists WANT TO GO? Free admission; $5 for crafting. 718-359-0528. bownehouse.org. WHEN: Feb. 4-25, Fridays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Langston Hughes Branch, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Take inspiration from Langston Hughes’s poems to make emoji poetry, a collage, and other designs. WANT TO GO? 718-651-1100. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children will explore their inner scientist with this fun-filled, hands-on experimenting class. WANT TO GO? $24. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Chess For All FREE

Center of Attention FREE

Introduction to Web Design FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 10, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Noguchi Museum, 9-01 33rd Road, Long Island City AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Visitors are invited to engage in a guided conversation about the 26

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WHEN: Feb. 2-26, Tuesdays, 4-5:30pm; Saturdays, 1:45-3:45pm WHERE: Queens Library, Rosedale Branch, 144-20 243 St., Rosedale AGES: All WHAT: This program is opened to all chess lovers including beginners, intermediates, and advanced players. WANT TO GO? 718-528-8490. queenslibrary.org. WHEN: Feb. 5-26, Tuesdays, 5:30-8pm WHERE: Queens Library, Central Library, 89-11 Merrick Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Build websites using HTML, CSS, and JavaScript. Get trained

in the basics of web design and development with hands-on practice. WANT TO GO? 718-990-0778. queenslibrary.org.

New Traveling Exhibit: Sonic Sensation

WHEN: Through May 5: TuesdaySunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Visitors will experience the sonic world through 14 interactive learning stations to discover key listening skills. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Traveling Shoes: Black Migrations: Movie Series FREE

WHEN: Saturdays, Feb. 9, 3:454:45pm and Feb. 16, 2:30-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Ridgewood Branch, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: All WHAT: Watch free screenings of Going to Chicago: Personal Stories

of the Great African American Migration California Newsreel and Don’t Shout Too Soon. WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

‘Backyard Wilderness’ 3-D

WHEN: Feb. 2-Sept. 30, daily, 11am and 2pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona

AGES: All WHAT: Backyard Wilderness will surprise and entertain viewers with the unexpected wonders of nature that are in our own backyards. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children, students, and seniors (with NYSCI admission); $4 members. 718-6990005. nysci.org.

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WHEN: Through June 30: daily, 1-3pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Planet Power 3D explores the history of electricity—from the first spark created by man’s hand to today’s industrial power plants. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children, students, and seniors (with NYSCI admission); $4 members. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

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Teen Digital Media Lab FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 8, 4-6pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens can work with everything from vintage arcade games to web-based hacking tools to explore the museum’s collection. WANT TO GO? 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

Moving Image Studio FREE

WHEN: Through Feb. 9: SaturdaySunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Moving Image Studio is the museum’s drop-in space where visitors can create media and other projects. WANT TO GO? 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

2019 SUMMER CAMPS CAMP SCHEDULE:

Boys Basketball Camp Girls Basketball Camp Baseball Camp Theater Camp STEM Camp

Week 1: July 8th to 12th Week 2: July 15th to 19th July 29th to August 2nd July 29th to August 1st July 15th to 19th July 15th to 19th

Contact Mike McCleary (mmccleary@molloyhs.org) for Baseball & Basketball Camp info. Contact Shannon Winters (swinters@molloyhs.org) for Theater Camp info. Contact Edit Boral (eboral@molloyhs.org) for STEM Camp info. 83-53 Manton Street, Briarwood, NY 11435 718-441-2100

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WHAT: Kids craft, you shop! Kids can enjoy making a Valentine’s frame. WANT TO GO? $2 children ages 2-5; $5 children ages 6 and older. 718371-0480. Michaels.com.

MAKE Break Slime Your Heart Out FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 1-3pm WHERE: Michaels Flushing, 131-07 40th Road, Suite C305, Flushing AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Fill slime with glittery mix-ins for a little Valen-slime fun. WANT TO GO? 718-878-3488. michaels.com.

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HOLIDAY FUN Valentine Crafts for Kids

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 12-2pm WHERE: Bayside Historical Society, 208 Totten Ave., Bayside AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Join for a fun afternoon of Valentine crafts, activities, and snacks. WANT TO GO? $5 per child; $15 maximum per family. 718-352-1548. baysidehistorical.org.

Annual Lunar New Year Celebration for Families Celebrating the Year of the Pig with New York Chinese Cultural Center FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 3, 1-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Museum, 111-01 Corona Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Check out a visual arts demonstration and workshop, folk dances, traditional arts and crafts, and Chinese Lantern-making workshops, plus storytelling about the Chinese zodiac. WANT TO GO? 718-592-9700. queensmuseum.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Prepare chocolate cake in a mug and chocolate oatmeal bars, while sipping a warm cup of homemade hot cocoa. WANT TO GO? $24. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Lunar New Year Celebration

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 1-4pm WHERE: The Bowne House Historical Society, 37-01 Bowne St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Head to the Bowne House to celebrate the New Year! WANT TO GO? $5. 718-359-0528. bownehouse.org.

Fingerprint Bugs

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 23, 10am-12pm WHERE: Michaels Rego Park, 9030 Metropolitan Ave., Rego Park AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Kids can create bug art with their fingerprints. WANT TO GO? $2 children ages 2-5, $5 children ages 6 and older. 718-459-2375. michaels.com.

Kids’ Club Celebrates Black History! FREE

Lunar New Year Celebration: Red Envelope Craft FREE

WHEN: Feb. 6-27, Wednesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, South Jamaica Branch, 108-41 Guy R. Brewer Blvd., South Jamaica AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join the kids’ club for stories and crafts celebrating Black History Month. WANT TO GO? 718-739-4088. queenslibrary.org.

Lunar New Year Plant Sale FREE

SHOW TIME!

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 7, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: All WHAT: Make red envelopes to celebrate the Lunar New Year. WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org. WHEN: Feb. 2-9, Saturdays, 10am and 4pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Bring home a lucky plant for the Lunar New Year. WANT TO GO? 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

Lunar New Year Celebration: Learn How to Make KoreanStyle Pumpkin Porridge, Hobakjuk FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 1-3pm WHERE: Queens Library, McGoldrick branch, 155-06 Roosevelt Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Learn how to make smooth, colorful Hobakjuk—a Koreanstyle pumpkin porridge. WANT TO GO? 718-461-1616. queenslibrary.org.

Lovely Frames

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 10am-12pm WHERE: Michaels, various locations throughout Queens AGES: All 28

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KCA and Arts on Stage NY Present: Cirque Zuma Zuma

WHEN: Feb. 2-24, 3pm WHERE: Kupferberg Center for the Arts, 153-49 Reeves Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Acrobats, tumblers, lion dancers, contortionists, singers, and gymnasts band together for a high-flying spectacle of rhythmic music and movement. WANT TO GO? $20-$35. 718-793-8080. kupferbergcenter.org.

Sleeping Beauty Workshop by David Gonzales

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 1pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: David Gonzalez presents an interactive storytelling workshop featuring four distinct elements of communication language, voice, gesture, and imagination. WANT TO GO? $8; $5 children; free for members and teens with tickets to the 2:15pm show. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

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Animal Care Trainee

‘Black Angels Over Tuskegee’ JCAL Saturday Family Matinee

APEC ADVENTURE TIME: Animal Movements: Hop, Flap and Slither

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 2:15pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This performance is a rhymed-verse spin on a classic fairy tale with music and projections that create a multimedia world in which a princess is awakened by true love’s kiss…or not. WANT TO GO? $14; $10 members; $8 children; $6 member children; free for teens. 718-463-7700. Flushingtownhall.org. WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Jamaica Center for Arts and Learning, 161-04 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Black Angels Over Tuskegee chronicles the stories of the Tuskegee Airmen, the first African-American fighter pilots in U.S. military history, who broke racial barriers during World War II. WANT TO GO? $5-$10. 718-658-7400. jcal.org.

‘Pirate Pete’s Parrot’

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 23, 2:30pm WHERE: The Secret Theatre, 44-02 23rd St., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: The Secret Theatre’s longest-running, interactive children’s musical features a photo opportunity with the actors. Feel free to dress up in costume! WANT TO GO? See website for tickets. 718-392-0722. secrettheatre.com.

ANIMAL LOVERS I Want to Be a Vet

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 3, 9-11am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Does your child dream of being a veterinarian? Send them to APEC to learn the basics of animal care. WANT TO GO? $24. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Animal Tales: Animal Friends

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 3, 10:30-11:45am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Share a seasonal book, make a craft, enjoy a nature walk, and meet live animal guests that are characters from the story. WANT TO GO? $18. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 3, 9-11am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9-12 WHAT: This program introduces children to the unique responsibility of being an animal caretaker. WANT TO GO? $23. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 10, 10:30-11:45am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Pet three different animals and try moving like them. WANT TO GO? $18. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

February Break Family Programs: Bugging Out!

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 22, 2-2:30pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Explore the world of bugs by examining an earthworm, creating your own insect, and searching for bug homes outdoors. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

‘Flight of the Butterflies 3D’

WHEN: Through June 30: daily, 11am and 1pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Follow the monarchs’ perilous journey and join hundreds of real butterflies in the remote mountain peaks of Mexico, with breathtaking cinematography from Peter Parks. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children, students, and seniors. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Sea Lion Feeding

WHEN: Through Jan. 31, 2020: daily, 11:15am, 2pm, and 4pm WHERE: Queens Zoo, 53-51 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: See the sea lions get their meals and maybe do a trick or two! WANT TO GO? $9.95; $7.95 seniors ages 65 and older; $6.95 children ages 3-12; free for children 2 and younger. 718-271-1500. queenszoo.com.

SPECIAL NEEDS Open Art Studio for Young Adults with Autism FREE

WHEN: Feb. 3-June 2, see website for schedule WHERE: Queens Museum, 111-01 Corona Ave., Flushing AGES: Adult WHAT: Participants work on projects of their choosing with mentors, encouraging exploration and expression. WANT TO GO? 718-592-9700. queensmuseum.org.

Circle of Friends for Autistic Children FREE

WHEN: Through June 21: Fridays, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Astoria Branch, 14-01 Astoria Blvd., Long Island City AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Discover the wonders of science doing simple experiments, develop social skills, and have fun playing games. WANT TO GO? 718-278-2220. queenslibrary.org. ›› QueensParent 29

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MUSICIANS First Friday: Jazz with Keith Jordan FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 1, 7:30-9pm WHERE: Jamaica Center for Arts and Learning, 161-04 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Jazz musician Keith Jordan puts on an unforgettable show. WANT TO GO? 718-658-7400. jcal.org.

Traveling Shoes: Black Migrations: Music from Santo Domingo with Berto Reyes and his Band! FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 7, 5-6pm WHERE: Queens Library, Langston Hughes Branch, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Berto Reyes will perform merengue típico and merenhouse. WANT TO GO? 718-651-1100. queenslibrary.org.

Traveling Shoes: Black Migrations - Bohio Music and Riva Nyri Precil Perform Haitian Fusion Music FREE WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 2-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, South Hollis Branch, 204-01 Hollis Ave., South Hollis AGES: All WHAT: Riva and Monvelyno, who were born and raised in Haiti, began collaborating musically five years ago, WANT TO GO? 718-465-6779. queenslibrary.org.

Thursday Night Jazz: Jasper Dutz

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 14, 8-9pm WHERE: Jamaica Center for Arts and Learning, 161-04 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Multi-instrumentalist, gamer, and composer performs WANT TO GO? $10. 718-658-7400. jcal.org.

Kupferberg Presents: Victor Manuelle

MOMIX

WHEN: Feb. 9-10, Saturday, 2pm and 8pm; Sunday, 3pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing MeadowsCorona Park AGES: All WHAT: MOMIX’s new piece features everything this company is known for: illusion, beauty, magic, and inventiveness. WANT TO GO? $20-$42. 718-860-0064. queenstheatre.org.

Black History Month: African American Dance Workshops with Christine Campbell FREE WHEN: Monday, Feb. 11, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Baisley Park Branch, 117-11 Sutphin Blvd., Jamaica AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Move and groove to African-American dance workshops with Christine Campbell. WANT TO GO? 718-529-1590. queenslibrary.org.

Valentine’s Family Dance Party Class

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 13, 6-7:30pm WHERE: MTS Productions, 38-34 31st St, Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Grab a parent, friend, or family member for this Valentine’s Zumba dance. WANT TO GO? $20. 347-801-4381. Mtsproductions.com.

Hip-Hop and Dance FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 21, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Maspeth Branch, 69-70 Grand Ave., Maspeth AGES: All WHAT: Instructor Darlene Arrington demonstrates her hip-hop workout WANT TO GO? 718-639-5228. queenslibrary.org.

‘The Beauty of Ballet’ FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 24, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing MeadowsCorona Park AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This enchanting production is an introduction to classical ballet. WANT TO GO? 718-860-0064. queenstheatre.org.

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 15, 8pm WHERE: Kupferberg Center for the Arts, 153-49 Reeves Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Expect complex, personal lyrics with sing-along choruses. WANT TO GO? $49-$109. 718-793-8080. kupferbergcenter.org.

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DANCE PARTY

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 2-3:15pm WHERE: Queens Library - Central Library, 89-11 Merrick Blvd., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: She Would Be King is a novel that uses the trans-Atlantic slave trade as the backdrop. Join for a discussion with author Wayétu Moore. WANT TO GO? 718-990-0778. queenslibrary.org.

Classic and Folk Dances from India FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 2:30-3:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Bellerose Branch, 250-06 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: All WHAT: The Srijan Dance Center performs North Indian semi-classical and classical dance known as Kathak WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org.

Bharatanatyam & Bollywood Dance FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Sunnyside Branch, 43-06 Greenpoint Ave., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a program of South Indian dance, WANT TO GO? 718-784-3033. queenslibrary.org. 30

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Traveling Shoes: Black Migrations: Meet the Author: ‘She Would Be King’ by Wayétu Moore FREE

Middle School Book Club: ‘Hidden Figures’ FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 15, 3:30-4:15pm WHERE: Middle Village Library, 72-31 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Read Hidden Figures in honor of Black History Month WANT TO GO? 718-326-1390. queenslibrary.org.

February Break Family Programs: Storytime & Craft FREE WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 20, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: Newborn to 5

WHAT: An afternoon of nature-inspired stories and a botanical craft. WANT TO GO? 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

‘Who Was....?’ Book Club FREE

WHEN: Feb. 4-March 25, Mondays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Broadway Branch, 40-20 Broadway, Long Island City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: For Black History Month, each week will focus on one book in this biography series or on important African-Americans WANT TO GO? 718-721-2462. queenslibrary.org.

Toddler Time FREE

MOVERS & SHAKERS Tai Chi

WHEN: Through Feb. 14: Thursdays, 5:30-6:30pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Learn exercises to reduce stress and anxiety WANT TO GO? Cost varies. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

WHEN: Through Nov. 29: Monday, 12-12:30pm; Wednesday and Friday, 11-11:30am WHERE: Queens Library, Mitchell-Linden Branch, 31-32 Union St., Flushing AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join Mrs. H for songs, plays, and simple picture books for toddlers. WANT TO GO? 718-539-2330. queenslibrary.org. ››

DreamWorks Trolls The Experience

THE GREAT OUTDOORS

NYRR Open Run: Astoria Park FREE

Nature Photography Hike FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Highland Park Ridgewood Reservoir, Vermont Place Parking Lot, Ridgewood AGES: All WHAT: Bring your camera on this hike and immerse yourself in nature. WANT TO GO? 718-846-2731. nyc.gov/parks.

Nature Exploration Hike FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Bayswater Park, 701 Bay 32nd St., Far Rockaway AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Explore nature, discover urban forests, or just unplug from the world to clear your head. WANT TO GO? 718-846-2731. nycgovparks.org.

Historic New York: George Washington’s Path FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 17, 1-2:30 pm WHERE: Alley Pond Park, Winchester Boulevard and Grand Central Parkway, Oakland Gardens AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Urban Park Rangers specialize in interpretation of historic turning points, both natural and man-made, on our city’s long history. WANT TO GO? 718-352-1769. nycgovparks.org.

WHEN: Through May 31: Monday-Friday, 10am-8pm; SaturdaySunday, 9am-8pm WHERE: 218 W. 57th St., 218 W. 57th St., Midtown AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Guided by a rainbow path, visitors will sing, dance, hug, and celebrate alongside DreamWorks Trolls. WANT TO GO? $40. 800-844-3545. trollstheexperience.com. WHEN: Through June 1: Saturdays, 9-10am WHERE: Astoria Park, Astoria Park, Astoria AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Enjoy a community-based, volunteer-led running initiative bringing free weekly runs and walks. WANT TO GO? 646-404-4103. nycgovparks.org.

Ping Pong FREE

WHEN: Feb. 7-June 27, Thursdays, 6-7pm WHERE: Queens Library, Cambria Heights Branch, 218-13 Linden Blvd., Cambria Heights AGES: All WHAT: Play ping pong in the library with friends both old and new. WANT TO GO? 718-528-3535. queenslibrary.org.

Ping Pong Club FREE

WHEN: Feb. 2-June 29, Saturdays, 2-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, South Hollis Branch, 204-01 Hollis Ave., South Hollis AGES: All WHAT: Challenge friends to ping pong every Saturday afternoon. WANT TO GO? 718-465-6779. queenslibrary.org.

Animal Tracks FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 23, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Forest Park Visitor Center, Woodhaven Boulevard between Myrtle Avenue and Forest Park Drive, Woodhaven AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Learn the basics of wildlife tracking. WANT TO GO? 718-235-4100. nyc.gov/parks.

Astronomy FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 24, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Alley Pond Adventure Center, 2161 Cloverdale Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Astronomy programs feature the use of telescopes and binoculars to observe specific astronomical events. WANT TO GO? 718-352-1769. nycgovparks.org. ›› QueensParent 31

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Orthodontia Explained

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What you need to know about the various orthodontic treatments available

hen it comes to oral health, we know to take our kids to the dentist for regular teeth cleanings and check-ups, but there’s another aspect of dental health you might be overlooking: orthodontics. In honor of February as National Children’s Dental Health Month, local orthodontists weigh in on important topics such as when to see an orthodontist, which apparatuses are used for treatment, and why orthodontia is an important aspect of kids’ oral health.

What is Orthodontics?

Though it may seem like orthodontics is solely about the cosmetic appeal of a smile, the practice has greater benefits than just aesthetics. “Orthodontics is a specialty that involves aligning the teeth and improving the bite,” says Alexis Fermanis, D.D.S., of Brooklyn Family Orthodontist. In short, orthodontia corrects a number of issues, from under bites, overbites, and cross bites, to misaligned jaws, teeth that grew in improperly, and overcrowded teeth. However, that doesn’t mean orthodontic work will cramp your child’s style. “What orthodontics basically does is not just aligns the teeth within the jaws, but also aligns them such that it maintains the balance with the soft tissue of the face,” says Ameeta Sachdev, D.M.D., of Sachdev Family Orthodontics in Garnerville. In other words, treatment can be customized for your child’s looks.

When to See an Orthodontist

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By Anja Webb

a bit off about her smile or your dentist made a referral. Regardless, at a certain age, it’s a good idea to bring kids in for a quick check-up. “Every seven-year-old should be brought to see an orthodontist,” says Chaninah Zweihorn, D.D.S., owner of Zweihorn Orthodontics in Brooklyn and Queens. “It’s very rare for the orthodontist to have to do any treatment or intervention at that point. It’s just a check in to see that everything is proceeding as expected.” There are a few things you can check for at home that would indicate a visit is necessary. “The one that most people notice is crooked teeth or spaced teeth,” Dr. Zweihorn says. “In terms of bite and health of the jaws, [check] if a tooth is biting in the wrong place. If a bottom tooth is in front of a top tooth [under bite], that is a very significant issue.” Besides an under bite, Dr. Fermanis recommends checking for asymmetry in your child’s jaw or bite, having to shift the jaw in order to close his mouth, or severely crowded teeth. If your child has an overbite (her front teeth stick out significantly), the severity of it and her age are factors to consider before seeing the orthodontist. For a young child, a large overbite that he gets teased about is worth treating to avoid bullying. If there aren’t any emotional downsides, it might be best to wait until he’s older because it can be difficult to entirely fix an overbite at a young age, according to Dr. Fermanis. For an older child, consider the severity of the condition. A significant overbite can lead to “increased risk of trauma to the teeth during a fall,” Dr. Zweihorn says. As a general rule, if your child can fit her lower lip between her top and bottom teeth, she should see an orthodontist.

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Orthodontia relies on using various appliances to correct issues, and as technology advances, so do the materials used in treatment. The braces available today have made advances since the braces of your childhood, but braces aren’t the only option. Palate Expanders. Braces are not recommended for children younger than 7, but there are pre-braces appliances that can be used to help set your child up for a lifetime of good oral health. “One of the more famous ones is an expander,” Dr. Zweihorn says, “which helps the upper jaw to grow properly, helps to have enough room for teeth to grow in if that’s needed, and helps the jaws to relate to each other with a proper bite if necessary.” Traditional Braces. This is the most common and well-known method of correcting orthodontic issues. Braces involve gluing brackets to the teeth and using connecting wires to reposition the teeth and/or jaws. One of the biggest benefits of braces is the orthodontist has more control of your child’s treatment, according to Dr. Fermanis. Additionally, the impact braces will have on his teeth is very predictable, and they are easy to adjust in office. Unfortunately, braces have some downsides worth thinking about. “The disadvantage is you have to watch what you eat,” Dr. Sachdev says. “You have to take care of your braces because if you keep breaking them, your treatment can be prolonged.” Lingual Braces. For the cosmetically conscious patient, there are lingual braces, which attach to the back of the teeth instead of the front. Lingual braces “are the most aesthetic option because they’re the least noticeable,” Dr. Fermanis says. “You’re not taking something in and out of your mouth all the time, but those are the most difficult to get used to because they’re next to your tongue.” Clear Aligners. Made popular by the brand Invisalign, clear aligners are pieces of plastic specifically molded to the individual’s mouth that can be taken out when necessary. However, this convenience can also reduce effectiveness. “Because they’re removable, they’re much more dependent upon the cooperation of the patient and wearing them as they’re supposed to,” Dr. Zweihorn says. Clear aligners also make it more difficult to have a flexible treatment plan, as is available with traditional braces. “Because the appliances are made by a laboratory, changes need to be made working with the laboratory and are harder to make in the office as needed,” Dr. Zweihorn says. Head Gear. Though less popular in recent times, another means of orthodontic treatment is headgear, or night braces, which attaches via straps around the head and/or neck. “Headgear is typically used to correct a skeletal problem in younger children such as a severe overbite or an underbite,” Dr. Fermanis says. Though it may seem like an appliance doomed to cramp your kid’s style, headgear is “prescribed for home-only wear to address growth problems in the upper jaw,” Dr. Zweihorn says. Retainers. After orthodontic treatment is completed, it’s common to have a retainer prescribed. There are a number of different types, both removable and semi-permanent, but the function is more or less the same. “A retainer won’t necessarily move the teeth,” Dr. Fermanis says. “Instead, a retainer is supposed to hold the teeth in their current position.” The goal is “to maintain the results achieved with braces or aligners,” Dr. Zweihorn says. “Believe it or not there are a lot of people don’t like to smile… because they’re very conscious about their teeth,” Dr. Sachdev says. Maintaining a good bite and healthy teeth are valuable, but orthodontic care can do more than that; it can boost your child’s confidence.

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Baby Cry Decoder

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With a little practice, it is possible to distinguish between your infant’s different cries— and respond to her more effectively. By Barbara Russo

t’s 2am, and you just woke up to your baby crying uncontrollably. Exhausted, you get up to tend to her. What could it be this time? Is she hungry? Does she need to be changed? At that hour, you’re hoping it’s an easy fix, so both of you can get back to bed. Crying is a normal part of a baby’s development. It’s his way of communicating something is wrong. Hunger, tiredness, frustration, colic, and pain are among the reasons he brings on the tears. But wouldn’t it be nice to hear a particular cry and know immediately which of these causes is making your baby so upset? Some parents and experts say it’s possible. “I have a two-year-old and a six-month-old, and yes I can absolutely tell what is wrong when they cry,” says Brittany Bailey, of Atlanta. “The louder, more desperate cry is the hungry or discomfort cry such as gas or a full diaper, but usually it’s hunger. The pitiful whimper that grows to a nagging, impatient, dosomething-right-now cry is when they are sleepy.” Although the sounds of the cries were the same for both of Bailey’s children, the level of desperation she heard was different. “My daughter is mellow, so her hunger cry was nowhere near as loud as my son’s,” she says. “And her tired cry was more desperate than his, but they had similar tones and sounds, just different passions.” Of course, every baby is different. While Bailey’s children cried loudly when they wanted food, Melissa Petruzzi of Staten

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Island, has an infant son, Nick, who takes the quieter approach to getting fed. “When we brought our son home, he was a quiet baby,” Petruzzi says. “He only fussed when he was hungry, and it was more like a whimper than a cry. Sometimes he’ll put his fist to his mouth, too, giving off another cue that he’s hungry.” By the time her son turned 3 months, Petruzzi was able to start recognizing what his other cries meant. “The ‘pick me up’ cry would start as a normal cry, then go to full-on sob where his mouth was open, but no sound came out. His frustrated cry was a high-pitched scream,” she says.

Learning to Decipher the Cries

Some babies cry more than others, but research shows maximum crying occurs during the first three months of life. From birth to 6 weeks, babies cry approximately about 110-118 minutes total daily. And certain cries in that almost 2 hours of daily crying can be characteristic of a baby’s need, according to Terry Cralle, R.N., sleep educator, and author of Snoozby and the Great Big Bedtime Battle. And while your baby’s cries for exactly what’s going on will be unique to her, the following characteristics can help you learn those cries a little quicker: He’s hungry: This is the most common reason babies cry, and crying is said to be a late sign of hunger, according to Cralle. “A

hungry cry is described as usually short and low-pitched, and it rises and falls,” she says. “Hungry cries are sometimes described as repetitive and rhythmic.” She’s tired: This cry is sometimes accompanied by physical signals, such as yawning, pulling on ears, restlessness, hand clenching, blinking, closed eyes, or eye rubbing, according to Cralle. He’s in pain. Cries from babies with colic last longer. Colic usually resolves when a baby turns 3 or 4 months old. Cries of a baby in pain have been described as harsh, sudden, shrill, loud, and long, followed by a quiet pause when your baby catches his breath. A high-pitched or very low-pitched cry that persists can be indicative of illness.

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Determining the reasons for your child’s cries doesn’t come easily, especially if you’re a first-time parent. It takes time to get to know the different sounds and signals that go along with each crying episode, so don’t be hard on yourself if you haven’t been able to quickly dry your baby’s tears yet. “We learn in residency the different cries. Hunger, pain, obstinance, fear. Baby cries can be weak or strong and can have different pitches,” says Amy Luedemann-Lazar, D.D.S., a pediatric Waterlase dentist. “It would be hard for a first-time parent to understand or recognize the difference, but a well-seasoned provider and someone like myself who treats dozens of babies a day recognizes the cries right away.” For many parents, deciphering their child’s cries is a learning curve. And sometimes, a baby will cry for reasons that remain a mystery to mom and dad. “Each cry has a different nuance to it that you learn as you go,” says Ann-louise Brennan, a mother of two who lives in Bedford, U.K. “Sometimes it’s a cry you have never heard before, so you stand there begging this child to tell you what the problem is. Typically, it’s an ‘I have no idea why I am crying I just am’ type of cry. You change them, they still cry. You feed them, they still cry. You rock them, they still cry.”

Can You Spoil a Crying Child?

It’s a fact that babies will always cry. And not every parent will become a pro at recognizing the reason for each and every cry. Many experienced parents and medical experts disagree with the popular notion that constantly running to a crying baby spoils them. Parents should always respond to a crying baby, even if they aren’t sure why she’s crying, according to Cralle. “It’s a myth that promptly picking up a baby every time he or she cries will spoil a child,” she says. “Toddlers can be spoiled and are smart and know how to manipulate to get their way,” Bailey says. “Babies aren’t being manipulative when they cry. It is their sole means of communication. They’re trying to tell us something is wrong.” Bottom line? Don’t worry if you can’t immediately pinpoint the reason for your baby’s tears. Crying bouts are inevitable when you have an infant. But if you have any questions, doubts, or concerns, especially if the crying is sudden or lasts a long time or is accompanied with physical symptoms such as fever or diarrhea, contact your pediatrician. Barbara Russo is a freelance writer who holds a bachelor’s degree in communications from the City University of New York. She enjoys playing guitar, following current events, and hanging out with her pet rabbits.

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ere’s what it felt like to me: There was a time when I couldn’t do a thing wrong in my child’s eyes, and I often found myself thinking, “I don’t deserve this sweet, forgiving kid.” Then, in a twinkling, I couldn’t do a thing right in my child’s eyes, and I often found myself thinking, “I don’t deserve this...kid.” And I’m far from alone. As Nanci Kenny, a mom of three in Suffolk County, puts it about her 15-year-old, “the teen years are truly a tough time for both of us. I feel so distant from my daughter, even though I know she needs me.” There is a reason the teen years are notorious for being tricky for parents to navigate, and you’ll be happy to hear it’s got nothing to do with terrible parenting. “The task of adolescence is to be more independent, to develop satisfying relationships outside of your family unit, and to develop one’s identity and personal moral code,” says Kashmira Rustomji, M.D., M.P.H., a psychiatrist at the Mount Sinai Adolescent Health Center in Manhattan. And that natural and beneficial struggle for independence causes the friction. “Teens alternate between a wish to be autonomous and their wish to be taken care of,” Dr. Rustomji explains. So, the way most teens act defiant, or indifferent, is them trying to fight the feeling of being dependent on you, which they, on some level, know will keep them from having a successful life. While it can be all too easy for teens and parents to drift apart, the good news is it doesn’t have to be that way. Here’s what to do to stay close to your aspiring adult. Pick your battles. Decide what is and isn’t worth fighting over and stick to those lines in the sand. You might start by identifying which behaviors your teen is exhibiting are annoying, as opposed to those that are in opposition to your family’s important values or a safety concern. 36

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“To thwart fatigue and feelings of anger, pick your battles and combine warmth and responsiveness with firmness—especially on your core values,” Dr. Rustomji says. “Adolescents still need rules but set your limits and be clear about your ‘no’s.” Kenny has found that allowing her daughter some slack has helped their bond. “I stay close to her by giving her some freedom to make her own decisions and become her own person,” she shares. “When she does need me, I give her my full attention.” Resist judging. This may be a bit harder than you think. As you may have noticed, teens are super-sensitive to your conveying disapproval—even non-verbally. “You have to learn how to have a poker face when talking to a teen about their life,” urges Justine Carino, a licensed mental health counselor at the Family Institute of Westchester in White Plains. That goes double for anything having to do with her friend group. A teen’s biggest priority is fitting in, Carino explains. That ties back to the healthy adolescent urge to develop strong relationships beyond family. “If they start to tell you something about their friend that you have a negative reaction to, try your best to put your feelings aside,” Carino suggests. Instead, “ask your teen how they feel about their friend’s decision.” Let personality be your guide. Think of your teen first and foremost as a unique individual. Siblings may share DNA and have been raised in the same home, but an approach that elicits a positive reaction from one may not have the same effect on the other. What you should be looking at most are how your child communicates, tolerates stress, and shows emotion, Dr. Rustomji notes. Gender shouldn’t influence your approach too much, our experts agree. Personality should be your touchstone. That said, “there is some limited evidence that girls tend to express more internalized emotions, such as anxiety

and sadness, and that boys express more externalizing emotions, like anger,” Dr. Rustomji says. The most prominent difference between genders is girls mature faster than boys, says John E. Mayer, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist specializing in treating families with adolescents and the author of Family Fit: Find Your Balance. “Parents need to be mindful of that and adjust their expectations accordingly,” he adds. Observe. “If we observe our kids, we can intervene when they need us and learn who they are,” Dr. Mayer says. The only way to truly do that is to participate in his life. Aside from attending games, performances, and the like, and staying in contact with his teachers, make your home the hang-out place. “Try inviting their friends over for dinner, and on weekends,” Dr. Rustomji suggests. “This is a way for you to keep your eyes and ears open to their inner world, without seeming nosey.” Leveraging car rides accomplishes the same thing. Offer to pick up and drop off friends when you’re driving your own kid to a party, the mall, or a school event. You might be surprised how much you learn about your teen by listening on a 15-minute ride. A car ride with only the two of you is still an opportunity to build your bond. “Face-to-face conversations can be uncomfortable and intimidating for a teen,” Carino says. “Having the music on low and not looking at each other may create an environment in which a teen feels more comfortable opening up.” Work on yourself. Who says your teen will grow out of idolizing you? True, eventually we all realize our parents are flawed. Nevertheless, your lease on being a role model never has to expire. “Be someone they want to admire,” Dr. Mayer insists. “Be healthy. Keep yourself fit. Be socially engaged. Be dynamic. Don’t let yourself go.” If you have a cheerful, positive attitude and continually try to improve yourself in whatever ways resonate with you, others will want to be around you. That includes your kid and her friends. “If you do all that, their friends will say, ‘You have a cool mom or dad’.” And once that happens, it may not be a stretch to say you’re golden. Never give up. Ever. The senior year of high school can be a difficult time to try to forge a better relationship because of the focus on college and the future. Plus, “seniors tend to zone in even more on their friendships because they know many changes will be happening socially once they graduate,” Carino notes. If your son is in his later teens, and you’ve had a rough ride of a relationship, you may think it’s too late to close the gap between you. Don’t. “It’s never too late,” Carino insists. “It’s usually after high school that young adults connect with their parents in ways they didn’t before. Especially if they’re away at college, relationships often improve because of the space and distance.” Try to remember you’re aiming for the long haul. “We have many more years of a close, meaningful relationship with our children in adulthood than the short span of adolescence,” Dr. Mayer says. Whether we like it or not, our relationships with our children will change. “Being prepared for this change will help you overcome the loss and grief of going from the always-needed parent to one who is supportive from a distance,” Dr. Rustomji says. Your child—even when she technically isn’t a child—will always benefit from your comfort and guidance. Parenting a teen is rarely easy. Getting and staying close to your older child won’t happen in a weekend. Consider it a work in progress. Christina Vercelletto is a former editor at NYMetroParents, Parenting, Scholastic Parent & Child, and Woman’s Day.

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Credit Check-Up

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Experts share how you can improve your credit score in a year.

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re you considering getting a new car or putting a down payment on your dream house? Unless you’ve been diligently saving, you’ll likely need to apply for a loan to make one of those purchases. The biggest obstacle that could be standing between you and getting approved for a loan? A low credit score, which can also affect the job hunt and prevent you from getting new credit cards. “When applying for these types of loans, lenders perform a credit check. This helps lenders decide if they want to do business with you,” says Jake Lunduski, a financial industry analyst at Credit Card Insider. “Generally, the better your credit, the better the interest rates you’ll be able to secure.” Credit scores range from 300-850 and tell lenders how reliable you are when it comes to repaying debt. It’s possible you’ll be approved for a loan if you have a lower score, but you may be required to put down a larger deposit or pay more interest. For example, someone with a score of 720 may have a 5 percent interest rate on a $500,000 30-year mortgage while someone with a score of 800 may have a 4.5 percent interest rate on the same mortgage. That .5 percent difference is like giving away $40,000-$50,000, says Roxana McKinney, founder of Women Wealth & Worth. “There are multiple scoring organizations that have different scoring systems. However, the type of score most commonly used by lenders is one of your FICO scores,” Lunduski says. Thankfully, consumer credit scores tend to follow common principles, which makes improving your score a less daunting task.

usage, since they make up the bulk of your score. In addition to one free credit report per year from each credit bureau at AnnualCreditReport.com, McKinney recommends checking your credit score every three months on a free credit score site such as Credit Karma, which won’t hurt your score. Hard inquiries—when a potential lender reviews your credit—may pull your score down by five to 10 points. You can dispute a hard inquiry, but it will generally fall off your report in 2 years.

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Look for Inaccuracies

When requesting your annual report, make sure each major consumer credit bureau is checked, including Equifax, Experian, and TransUnion, in addition to free credit score sites. There are six things you should check when you get your report, according to Lunduski: • Is your personal information accurate and up to date? • Do you recognize every account listed? Are all the dates and lenders names correct? • Do account balances listed match the balances on recent statements? • Make sure hard inquiries on your reports were made at your request. • Are any late payments listed that don’t belong? If you do have late payments, make sure they are classified correctly (30 days late, 60 days late, etc.). • Check for any bankruptcies, tax liens, and collection accounts and make sure the details are correct.

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repair credit score damaged by identity theft, so why not be one step ahead? Whether or not you suspect fraud, Daniel D’Ordine, CFP, founder of DDO Advisory Services LLC, recommends “LifeLock.com because it aggressively monitors for negative activity, especially when there are too many things to lose track of and data breaches.”

Watch Those Credit Card Balances

The smaller your credit utilization (how much of your credit card limit you use month to month), the better your score. So, to have an immediate impact, you want to pay your debt down, D’Ordine says. Another way to lower your utilization is to increase your credit lines. “This way, you can spend the same amount or more without a negative ding, because your utilization amount is higher,” McKinney says. Remember: Just because you have a higher credit line, doesn’t mean you need to use it.

Pay Off Debt

If you find yourself in debt across multiple credit accounts, Lunduski recommends the Avalanche Method, explained by his colleague Brendan Harkness. First, make the minimum payments on all of your accounts. Then, put as much extra money as possible toward the account with the highest interest rate. Once that debt is paid, do the same on the account with the next highest interest rate. Use this method until all of your debt is paid off. “After any debts are paid off, ensure that you’re using your credit cards with discipline,” Lunduski adds. “Always make sure you’re paying off your statement balances on time and in full to take advantage of the grace period most cards have to avoid expensive interest.”

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Many people believe closing a credit card is better for credit scores, but, in fact, it can have the opposite effect. “Young people who opened their first card in college will move to others for points or miles, and will close their first card,” McKinney says. “This will bring down your total available credit and average account age.” So, keep your starter credit card from college in addition to newer cards because it will boost two categories of your FICO criteria. As long as a card is paid off and has no fees, it can continue to help your credit score.

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“Because too many cards can become unmanageable, get them all paid in one day,” McKinney advises. You can ensure your bills are being paid on time by changing the payment dates, turning on online-billing Auto-Pay, which automatically takes money out of your bank account, or paying as soon as you get a statement in the mail. Above all, “let your life events drive your financial decisions,” D’Ordine recommends. As much as you may want to plan and budget, life happens. If it all seems too daunting to do on your own, don’t be afraid to seek out a certified financial planner. Megan Vasquez, a junior at New York University, is a former NYMetroParents editorial intern.

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Before you set out to find your dream home, you need figure out where you want to live. Experts share what you should consider before handing over a down payment. By Melissa Wickes

t the beginning of the home-buying process, there are surely 100 different factors swirling around your head that will determine on which house you put an offer. One of the most important things to consider before starting the house hunt? Finding the right neighborhood for your family. After all, you can’t change things about the neighborhood, but you can renovate a less-than-perfect house. Solving that mystery will be completely individual for your family, as your check list of must-haves, things that would be nice, and those that are not a deal-breaker will be different from your friends. Once you narrow down which neighborhood or town is right for your family, you’ll be one step closer to finding the perfect place to raise your little ones. Read on for a little help from the experts for finding the right neighborhood for your family.

Visit at varying times.

You should always consider the time of day and time of year you visit a neighborhood, which can vary depending on the nature of the location. For example, if the house you’re interested in is near a school, visit during drop-off and pick-up times to see how busy it gets, suggests Melanie Kalmaer Lichaa, CBR, BFA, MA, M.Ed., licensed salesperson at Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International Realty. “If you’re near a highway or busy street with a double yellow line, you should go at various times throughout the day to determine which is the busiest,” she says. “Visiting during the weekend 40

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is also beneficial to see if it’s a family neighborhood where people walk around and ride bikes or if it’s really quiet.”

Pay attention to the neighborhood vibe.

In addition to visiting the area at different times, spend time exploring the neighborhood and chatting with others who live there, recommends Alison Bernstein, founder and CEO of The Suburban Jungle, a real estate firm focused on buyers leaving the city for the suburbs. “What if the whole town goes to Nantucket over the summer, but you pictured yourself having barbecues with your neighbors?” she poses. When you’re visiting the neighborhood, consider the characteristics that are important to your family. If you want to live in a place where your family can safely ride bikes in the streets or go for a walk with the stroller, do these things when visiting. Go for a walk after school when kids would normally be riding scooters to their friends’ houses or playing hockey in the street. Talk to the parents walking by and get the story from the people who know the neighborhood best. “It’s very important to look in between the data points because that’s where the real story of the town exists,” Bernstein says. “Feel out what people are doing on the weekends, how involved they are in the school systems, and so on.” “I bought my house seven years ago solely because of the block it was on! I absolutely hated the house itself,” says Ellie Makris, an East Williston resident and mother of two boys. “We knocked it

down and built new, and throughout the difficulties with construction I would not change a thing. My son gets to ride his bike down the street as I walk next to him with the stroller, and we know that our neighbors will slow down when they pass in their cars.” If you want a little extra help when finding the perfect neighborhood for your family, a buyer’s representative can point you in the right direction. Buyer’s representatives obtain specialized information, programs, and updates that can help you best determine what neighborhood to look in, according to the Association of Realtors. The Suburban Jungle also aims to convey the overall culture of a neighborhood by partnering with local agents who can explore the area for you.

Take a look at the statistics.

Everyone’s definition of what makes a town safe varies, and if you’re a numbers person who feels more secure making decisions based on proven statistics, there are various online resources that can help give you peace of mind. Multiple Listing Service, a network of real estate offices on Long Island as well as in Queens and Brooklyn, provides a variety of information about neighborhoods including community and school information, housing statistics, and news. Searching a neighborhood in the Community and School Info section of the website will turn up visual statistics measuring quality of life such as commute time, crime risks, air quality, physicians per capita, environment, schools, economy, people, and housing. Another resource that measures the livability of a neighborhood is Total Home Score. It aims to make the things that may be less obvious more transparent, so you can determine which parts of the home search are a priority to you, including Road Safety, Quiet, Traffic, and Entertainment scores.

Determine what “a good school” means to you.

While you can learn which school is deemed “better” in terms of test scores, what are the factors that define a good school to you? Do you have a child who requires special education services? Or, perhaps, your child is gifted and talented. Will your child need an Individualized Education Plan? Does she need extra help in math? “I always recommend parents call up and speak to the head of their child’s grade level for the upcoming year to ask these sorts of questions,” says Lichaa, who is a mom of two and a former educator. “Different districts have different ways of analyzing a child and their grade readiness when they enter the district.” “Read between the lines and determine what a great school system means to you,” Bernstein suggests. “Do I want my child in a class of two thousand or a class of sixty, and what are the pros and cons of each? Do I want a district where everyone is...gunning for the [Ivy League], or do I want a more laid-back environment?” While you’re getting the answers to these important questions, it’s also a good idea to find out about transportation within that district. Some districts have rules that children who live less than a mile from the school will not receive transportation, according to Lichaa. And don’t be afraid to ask questions about the more personal things that are important to your family. If your child is a swimmer, find out if the school has a swim team. If not, but it checks all of your other boxes, see if there is a local Y, JCC, or Boys and Girls Club with a team that your child can join. Ultimately, what makes a neighborhood “the right neighborhood” for your family may be the one with the highest scoring school district. It also could be the one with a little league team that practices within walking distance of your home. As long as you know what your family needs to be happy, learning to love a new neighborhood will be as easy as learning to hate the parking restrictions in your old one.

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Your local guide to tutors, teachers, lawyers, financial planners, and other professionals DENTISTS & DENTAL PROVIDERS ZWEIHORN ORTHODONTICS “All for a Smile” Office hours include Sundays and evenings 150-25 Union Turnpike, Flushing 718-969-9234 drzweihorn.com Dr. Zweihorn is a board-certified orthodontist specializing in the treatment of children, teens, and adults. Our team focuses on helping you achieve your best smile!

DOCTORS & MEDICAL PROVIDERS LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Queens: 718-640-6767 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

LICE FAIRY LICEMOTHERS 2463 S. Long Beach Road, Oceanside 866-561-0492 1755 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 866-561-0492 679 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Head 866-561-0492 fairylicemothers.com fairylicemothers@gmail.com Our treatment centers are kid-friendly and our products are 100-percent non toxic. Treatments include two free re-checks. Whether or not you use our service, we are here to help you.

SPECIAL NEEDS DR. STEVE IMBER, PSYCHOEDUCATIONAL CONSULTANTS Serving Nassau and Suffolk counties, as well as the five boroughs of NYC 61-43 186th St., Fresh Meadows 516-273-1961 Sprout Building 166 Valley St., Providence, RI 401-421-4004 dr-imber.com scimber1@aol.com Dr. Imber has more than 40 years of experience consulting, evaluating, and advocating for children, adolescents, and adults with various disabilities including autism (e.g. Asperger’s syndrome), attention deficit disorders, intellectual disabilities, emotional and behavioral disorders, and learning disabilities. LITTLE STEPS 1, INC. SPEECH & LANGUAGE CLINIC Adelina Samuels, M.A. C.C.C.-S.L.P. speech pathologist 63-70 Woodhaven Blvd., Rego Park 929-335-7707 littlestepsspeech.com Little Steps 1, Inc. aims to help people develop their communication abilities, as well as treat speech, language, swallowing, and voice disorders. Services include prevention, identification, evaluation, diagnosis, treatment, and rehabilitation. LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Queens: 718-640-6767 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders. STEPS TO SOCIALIZATION 13 S. Bayles Ave., Port Washington 516-767-0266

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Steps to Socialization was created to help children who have difficulty socializing. We teach children how to think socially, step by step. Working in small groups, we cover a variety of topics, including how to establish and maintain friendships and initiating and maintaining conversations.

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TUTORS & TEST PREP VILLAGE EAST GIFTED - ENRICHMENT CENTER FOR THE GIFTED LEARNER Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted provides after-school enrichment and private tutoring for gifted and talented students. We are a designated John Hopkins CTY and SAT testing center.

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CLOWNS.COM Proudly serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000 718-971-5862 clowns.com

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Have your next party at the newly renovated @ Play Amusements! It offers 40,000-square-feet of fun ranging from 92 arcade games, inflatables, bumper cars, roller coaster, a carousel, disco room, and laser tag!

ACD PLAYSPACE 31-24 38th St., Astoria 718-204-ACDP (2237) acdplayspace.com info@acdplayspace.com

Create your own party package or choose one of our many options. Choices include music, BEAM projection screen, games, bounce house, music, pizza, cake, decorations, and face painting. Check our website for more information: acdplayspace.com/parties.

AMERICAN DANCE & DRAMA 188-22 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 718-479-8522 americandanceanddrama.net

We are one of Queens’s largest and most exciting birthday party locations, offering dress-up, disco, and gymnastics parties. We also offer bubbles and fog machines, cotton candy, plus crazy craft, and princess parties!

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BILINGUAL BIRDIES - MARILYN DUQUE Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Little Neck 516-200-4691 bilingualbirdies.com longisland.bilingualbirdies@gmail.com An adventure awaits with Myla Birdie, a bright yellow puppet that enchants every child through music and play while celebrating your child’s birthday.

BOUNCEU OF COLLEGE POINT Whitepoint Center, 13225 14th Ave., College Point 646-883-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/college-point-ny collegepoint.ny@bounceu.com BounceU of College Point is where birthdays come to life! We provide the ultimate private party and play experience. Come celebrate with us today!

BROOKLYN BOULDERS - QUEENSBRIDGE 23-10 41st Ave., Long Island City 718-482-7078 brooklynboulders.com

Brooklyn Boulders hosts birthday parties, after-school and weekend youth programs, and adventure camps. Our friendly, highly trained staff teaches kids how to climb, solve problems, and conquer challenges. BKB is the place to be for your next party!

CELEBRATIONS IN THE KITCHEN 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com

The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event! We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy, including sugar cookie baking, all about pizza, cupcakes from scratch, doughnuts, and chocolate and candy projects. Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen. com for more information on parties.

CK KIDS BIRTHDAY PARTIES 68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 917-602-6271 ctkny.org jmichel@ctkny.org

We know your child’s birthday is a special day so we only book one party at time! Private party room available with two bounce houses, a ball pit, disco lighting, cotton candy, face painting, tattoos, music, and games!

THE LANYARD LADIES 433 Merrick Road, Oceanside 516-578-2248 thelanyardladies.com info@thelanyardladies.com

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MUSIC TOGETHER® WITH MUSIC AND ME Celebrating our new look with our new name! Wendy DeAngelis, center director (Mommy, Music & Me, Inc. since 2003) Gym-Azing in Astoria Shotokai USA Karate in Bayside The Reform Temple of Forest Hills in Forest Hills The Church in The Gardens in Forest Hills Tiger Schulmann’s MMA in Glendale 718-229-0033 musictogetherwithmusicandme.com info@musictogetherwithmusicandme.com

We provide unique birthday party musical experiences for first—sixth birthdays. Call us to customize your child’s musical birthday. We can also come to your space.

SKY ZONE TRAMPOLINE PARK-DEER PARK 111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park 631-392-2600 skyzone.com/deerpark deerparkinfo@skyzone.com

The best birthday parties are at Sky Zone, Deer Park. We customize every birthday party. We have themed parties and super hero parties that include Dodgeball, Foam Zone, Sky Slam, and endless jumping opportunities!

SOCCER FRIENDS USA, INC. 106-06 Queens Blvd., 3rd Floor Gym, Forest Hills 718-261-2403, 718-261-2400, 347-756-2568 (para Español) soccerfriendsusa.com soccerfriendsusa@hotmail.com

Soccer Friends USA wants to celebrate your child’s next birthday party with you! We offer soccer parties for children ages 2 and older at several fantastic locations.

USTA BILLIE JEAN KING NATIONAL TENNIS CENTER Flushing Meadows-Corona Park, Flushing 718-760-6200 x0 ntc.usta.com

Birthday party packages include one hour of court time with drills and games organized by our USTA Pro staff and a one-hour private room for pizza.

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We are now booking children and teen birthday parties as well as corporate and team building events for 20182019. Call our party hostess, Lisa, for more information.

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OPEN HOUSES 2019 82nd Street Academics

81-10 35th Ave., Jackson Heights 718-457-0429 x200 82ndst.com Please join us for our Preschool Open Houses on Feb. 8 at 6pm and Feb. 21 from 8-11am for a walk-in tour.

Beth Sholom Day Camp

401 Roslyn Road, Roslyn Heights 516-621-9257 bethsholomdaycamp.com Come see what everyone is talking about on Feb. 10 from 10am-1pm. BSDC is a summer camp for children ages 3-15 serving Nassau and Queens.

Further Music School

140-75 Ash Ave., Suite 2B, Flushing 917-563-1480 furthermusic.com info@furthermusic.com Jazz weekends with free saxophone lessons! Enjoy a free 30-minute saxophone lesson with our world-renowned instructors. Appointments available Feb. 2 and 9 between 10am2pm, Flushing location only.

Hillcrest Jewish Center Day Camp 183-02 Union Turnpike, Flushing 718-380-4145 hjcdaycamp.org daycamp@hillcrestjc.org For the month of February the

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Magic Day Camp

216-15 Peck Ave., Bayside 718-634-8109 magicdaycamp.com Come to our open house session on Sunday, Feb. 17 starting at 12pm at Jib Lanes. Summer magic is here with swimming daily and several trips each week!

Mill Basin Day Camp

5945 Strickland Ave., Brooklyn 718-251-6200 millbasindaycamp.com For children entering pre-K through 10th grade. Register online to attend an open house. All are invited for a personal tour of the facility and discussion of the camp program.

St. Sebastian Catholic Academy

39-76 58th St., Woodside 718-429-1982 stsebastianacademy.org St. Sebastian Catholic Academy, building strong values. Nursery—eighth grade. Join us for an open house on Tuesday, Jan. 29 and Thursday, Jan 31 from 9-11am or by appointment.

Education SAT & ACT Prep CK Kids

68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 718-366-7400 x247 ctkny.org Using experienced instructors, current materials, small class sizes, and direct instruction we can help you improve your scores on the SAT. CK Kids has more than 30 years of test preparation experience.

Kent Prep

194-11A Northern Blvd., Bayside 718-423-5757 kentprep.com Throughout the year, Kent Prep offers SAT and ACT preparation programs that are adaptable to targeted test dates and score goals. With more than 30 years experience, Kent’s team of test specialists and admissions counselors give students a huge advantage through an effective combination of expert instruction, mock exams, and personalized advising.

92-22 Corona Ave., Elmhurst 718-606-1056 tutornina@hotmail.com We tutor students all year long for the SAT and ACT. For the past 11 years, we have provided quality education that helps students prepare for these tests with our intensive programs. We offer multiple sessions during the week after school and on weekends. Call to find out more.

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37-02 Main St., Flushing 718-359-8300 thewindsorschool.com admin@thewindsorschool.com SAT and ACT test prep classes are offered Monday-Friday from July 1– Aug. 12. Three hours of instruction is provided daily covering the English and math sections of the test. Our instructors are highly skilled and trained in preparing students for the SAT and ACT.

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Traveling with Young Children ›› By Melissa Wickes

very parent is familiar with the stares and groans aimed in their direction when boarding an airplane with a baby. Unfortunately, it’s difficult to predict how your little one will react to being in a contained space like this for an extended period of time. Similarly, it’s difficult to predict how your child will be once you reach your destination. After all, you’re turning your tot’s world upside down for a couple of days, if not more. Harvey Karp, M.D., pediatrician, faculty member of University of Southern California School of Medicine, and author of Happiest Baby on the Block, shares how to make traveling with young children a little easier. Pre-trip prep. Before traveling anywhere with your children, make sure you have a local doctor’s contact information on hand. If your child is old enough, tell them about where they’re going, Dr. Karp suggests. Children are very visual, so show them pictures of where they’re going, the people they’ll meet, and the things they’re going to see. If you can, make a little book to get your child excited about the adventure. In order to later create familiarity in the new place you’re staying, rub some essential oils on your child’s crib at home, and bring that same scent on the trip. If you anticipate needing to help your child sleep during a longer trip, make sure you talk to your doctor and test out medications to ensure they don’t make your child hyper instead of drowsy. If you’re driving, plan stops for snacks, bathroom breaks, and getting out of the car seat. Have modest expectations. This is one of the most important things, according to Dr. Karp. If you are traveling with an infant, you can easily wear your baby in a baby carrier and walk around a museum as long as your heart desires. However, once your baby begins to toddle, these sorts of activities are no longer a breeze. Plan kid-friendly activities, but don’t over-schedule; having some days to just relax by the pool is a good idea. If you’re staying in a different time zone for a very short period of time, keep your watches in your

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usual time zone, suggests Dr. Karp, because your child won’t have enough time to adjust to a new one. Be prepared. Always bring a kit filled with essentials and medicines just in case to minimize frantic trips to the pharmacy while you’re traveling. Dr. Karp suggests ibuprofen for fevers, cortisone creams for burns, Benadryl for allergies, and anything your child may need specific to his health needs. Other things to bring include your child’s “lovie,” a backup “lovie,” and of course, a Marry Poppins-style bag of tricks. If you’re on a long plane ride, distractions are key, Dr. Karp says. Bring a supply of trinkets and toys you can use to keep the child interested throughout the period including electronic distractions. Anticipate pressure changes on a plane. One of the most difficult parts of taking a baby on a plane are the pressure changes. Think about it: When you experience that painful throbbing in your ears as a result of take-off or landing, you respond by popping your ears by chewing gum, holding your nose, or drinking water. However, babies don’t know what is causing this pain, or how to fix it. The last thing you want is a shrieking baby on a flight, so Dr. Karp suggests giving your baby a bottle 10 minutes into take-off and again 30 minutes before landing to get your baby swallowing to relieve some of that pressure. Baby-proof your space. “Be prepared to baby-proof wherever you’re going to stay, which is often a lot easier in a hotel than in another person’s home because you can rearrange whatever you want,” Dr. Karp says. “Bring paper bandage tape to tape electric outlets, cords up against walls, and the toilet and fridge shut. You can also tape cotton balls on sharp corners.” While baby-proofing the hotel room, or whatever space you may be staying in, Dr. Karp suggests creating a sense of familiarity in the space, whether it’s by playing white noise in the hotel room, hanging up your child’s drawings on the wall, or packing your child’s favorite blanket.

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