Queens Parent April 2019

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A Birthday Bashfor Less

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Zero Waste, Zero Fuss

Learn how to make the green movement work for your family—it’s not as hard as you think!

Potty Training 101

Here’s how to make the frustrating task of getting your kids out of diapers as smooth as possible.

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Protecting Your Child’s Future Special Needs Directory Special Education Resources at-a-Glance Special Education Resources

Family Activities Calendar

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Helping Teens Through Mental Health Struggles 12 More Child Care Solutions in NYC 14 Advocating for Peri 20 Potty Training 101 24 Awkward Talks 52 Camps for Older Kids 54 Camps at-a-Glance Chart 58 Professional Services 59 Open Houses 60 Meet the Health Care Professional 61 Advertisers’ Index and Family Resource Guide 62 I Will Not Fail This Child

32 Family Fun a Ride Away 33 Family Activities Calendar 45 Spring has Sprung

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16 10 Easy Tips to Go Zero Waste 28 A Birthday Bash for Less 41 Sensory-Friendly Fun 46 Planning for Your Child’s Future

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raising kids editor’s note APRIL 2019 • Vol.24 • No.9

A Season to Celebrate

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e have a little spring in our step, and the change in seasons has (almost) nothing to do with it. In early March, we attended the annual Parenting Media Association conference, and NYMetroParents was honored with five awards for digital and editorial excellence—including a silver award for our Weekend Scoop newsletter! Sign up at nymetroparents.com/register if you don’t already get it!

Children always seem to have a little spring in their step when their birthdays roll around. So, to help you plan the ultimate birthday bash without breaking the bank, check out Madeleine Burry’s article on pg. 28. It’s full of ideas to earn you double-taps on Instagram without tapping into your savings.

Spring is also a time when we think of how we can help Mother Earth and do good for our environment (who else is excited to visit baby animals at the zoo?). Check out “Zero Waste, Zero Fuss” for 10 easy things you can do to limit the amount of trash your family creates (pg. 16).

April is Autism Awareness Month, and in honor of it, you’ll want to read Stella L. Spanakos’ heart-wrenching essay about how she turned a tragedy into a way to help her son and others on the spectrum (pg. 14). And in keeping with our goal to help you make better decisions for your kids, we’re bringing back Special Parent in digital editions full of advice, resources, and inspiring stories—all for parents of children with special needs. It’s launching Monday, April 8, so check it out then!

We’re also continuing to help you make better decisions for your kids when it comes to summer camp. If you haven’t already, make sure you read our 2019 Summer Camp Guide at nymetroparents.com/campguide/queens. Whether you’ve already chosen a camp or are still looking, the Camp Guide is full of advice for working with camp staff, ensuring your child has an amazing summer, and local camp descriptions. It’s a mustread for every parent of a camper.

Wishing you a prosperous and productive spring!

Katelin Walling Editorial Director

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Little Neck and Forest Hills Organizations Join Forces Who: Commonpoint Queens What’s New: Commonpoint Queens, the result of Samuel Field Y and Central Queens Y merging in July 2018.

The two Ys joined forces to share resources and invest in stronger outreach efforts across the entire Queens community. The merge has allowed the two organizations to collaborate on planning across its three locations: Little Neck, Bayside, and Forest Hills.

Commonpoint Queens serves an estimated 50,000 people at more than 50 locations, including 22 schools and three main centers. It offers a variety of services including day camps, after-school programs, sports, swimming, pool clubs, employment programs, senior centers, and mental health clinics.

Want More Info: Sam Field Center, 58-20 Little Neck Parkway, Little Neck, 718-225-6750; Bay Terrace Center, 212-00 23rd Ave., Bayside, 718-423-6111; Central Queens Center, 67-09 108th St., Forest Hills, 718-268-5011; commonpointqueens.org.

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Commonpoint Queens will offer a variety of new swim opportunities this summer, beginning July 1.

Who: Sky Zone Deer Park What’s New: A 90-Day-Pass for unlimited jumping within a threemonth period, which is scheduled to be offered beginning April 1.

The seasonal pass allows kids to jump for 90 minutes at a time, seven days a week. If you come twice, the 90-day pass will pay for itself in those two visits, according to Anthony Grassa, Sky Zone Deer Park’s general manager.

Visitors can also enjoy the Warped Wall, a climbing wall with three heights—8 feet, 10 feet, and 12 feet—inspired by American Ninja Warrior.

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Who: Oasis Day Camp What’s New: A preschool camp program, which is expected to begin July 1.

Children ages 3-5 will participate in swimming three times a week, introductory sports classes including basketball and floor hockey, arts, dance, nature walks through Central Park, and education components to help prepare kids for school.

Activities incorporate number and letter recognition and pre-literacy skills while preparing kids for the group dynamics of a classroom setting.

The program will run through Aug. 23, Monday-Friday, from 8:30am-5:30pm with flexible pick-up options between 4:30pm and 5:30pm. Pick-up and drop-off will be at the BASIS Independent School.

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Manhattan Day Camp to Offer Early Childhood Program

Oasis Day Camp aims to combine the care that preschoolers require with a fun, traditional summer camp program, according to Alla Zaydman, director of family engagement at Oasis Day Camps.

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Helping Teens through Mental Health Struggles ›› By Melissa Wickes

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early 20 percent of teenagers have a diagnosed mental health disorder, according to Robin Seymour, LCSW, clinical director of Newport Academy, a series of evidence-based healing centers for adolescents struggling with mental health issues. She says teens often exhibit internal mental health struggles by acting out and partaking in risky behaviors. So, to help your teen through these difficulties and limit risky behaviors, Seymour shares five effective ways to navigate your child’s mental health crisis.

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Make communication a priority. Many teens say their No. 1 issue with their parents is a lack of communication, according to Seymour.

Stay present in your child’s life, ask questions without being interrogative, and, most importantly, listen to what she has to say. When approaching these conversations, recognize your child may be struggling and acknowledge that her outlandish behaviors may be a result of a deeper struggle. Approach the situation with love and understanding and ask yourself, ‘why is my child doing this?’

Let your teen know he is not alone. Teens in general struggle a lot because they often feel as though they are the only one dealing with certain things, whether it’s anxiety or depression—or just the feeling of receiving a bad grade on an exam. And with the stigma of mental health disorders, your child may feel very alone in his fight. Reassure your teen that he is not alone by discussing struggles you may have had as a teenager.

Don’t overreact to the situation. Blowing small problems out of proportion will only make the situation worse. In order to help your teen through what may or may not be a mental health crisis, be patient and find your own middle ground. If you overreact, your teen will be less likely to come to you for help in any situation.

Reach out to other adults in your child’s life. While you know your child better than anyone else, it can always help to get the perspective of other adults that spend a lot of time with her. If you have a concern, ask her teachers, coaches, and any other adults she may be spending a good chunk of time with if they have noticed an abnormality in your daughter’s life.

Access professional help. Mental health is a delicate and serious topic that needs to be treated with empathy and often professional help. Seymour suggests looking into mental health treatment options that use evidence-based practices and those that are specific to helping adolescents.

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he hectic pace of a New York City mom’s life oftentimes requires her to be in multiple places at once. Thankfully, living in NYC makes affordable and creative child care solutions more accessible than in most places.

In February and March, we elaborated on asking neighbors for help, hiring a mother’s helper of a slightly younger age (who is less costly and can be groomed into a future experienced full-fledged babysitter), and the strategic advantages of participating in a nanny share.

Here are some additional ways in which living in the Big Apple can really work in parents’ favor when it comes to finding child care.

Put Your Friendships into Action

Take turns with family friends picking up or watching each other’s kids after school so you have time to run errands or work out. With walking and NYC transit as school commute options, you won’t be limited by the number of seats—or car seats—in a friend’s car. When swapping childcare hours with friends, money doesn’t change hands.

Search Your Social Connections

Ready to hire a sitter but need more recommendations? Spread the word to your social circle. If someone isn’t available, ask: • Your child’s teacher • Your regular sitter’s roommates • Volunteers at your church or synagogue • Child care workers at your gym • Alumni from your college • College babysitting groups • Local chapter of your sorority • Co-workers • Unemployed friends • Babysitters you meet at school pick-up

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Advocating for Peri ››

Although the past 18 years have been full of challenges, I’ve always believed my daughter could do anything she put her mind to. By Lori Finkelstein, as told to David Paone

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’ll start at the beginning: I was born in Queens in 1965 and moved to West Hempstead about two years later.

I met Paul while we both attended Queens College, but he repulsed me, in true romantic comedy fashion. Eventually we became best friends, but when I set him up on a blind date, I knew I had made a mistake and wanted him for myself.

We were married on Dec. 31, 1989. I had told him if we didn’t get married in 1989, we were never getting married. Beginning a marriage with an ultimatum is always a good idea.

Our first child is Katy, born in 1990. Our second is Joel, born in 1995. We weren’t planning on a third child, at least Paul wasn’t, but in 1999 I heard on the radio that if we were to conceive a child within the next few days, we would most likely have a millennial, born by Dec. 31. We got on that right away. Peri was born on our 10th anniversary.

Much of Peri’s young life has included medical emergencies and hospital stays that last for months. By the time she was 2, she had both CPR and the Heimlich maneuver performed on her twice, including by Paul.

Sometimes I have flashbacks of them cutting her dress open in the ER and pounding on her.

Many children born with nemaline rod myopathy, a form of muscular dystrophy, don’t survive past the age of 7. Peri has survived one muscle biopsy (at 9 months old), nearly 25 sets of ear tubes, more than a dozen bronchoscopies, a tracheotomy, the removal of her tonsils and adenoids, a broken femur, two broken tibiae, and eight scoliosis surgeries.

Physically and medically, Peri’s obstacles were immense. But one early piece of advice we took heed to was to “maximize her potential.” We’ve always been very positive with Peri. We haven’t said, “she’s never going to do this.” We always assume she can do it.

That approach has worked. Peri made honor roll every quarter in sixth grade. The year before, she won the excellence award for her class at graduation. More recently she was salutatorian at her graduation from Henry Viscardi School in Albertson.

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Lori Finkelstein with her daughter Peri, who was born with nemaline rod myopathy, a form of muscular dystrophy

I didn’t know it at the time, but all during my young life I was learning the skills that enabled me to care for such a child.

My sister was book smart. It was her job to study all the time and I took care of the house. I cooked and cleaned while my parents were at work. But I also learned how to call companies on the phone if I had a problem with their products. I learned what to say to get them to send me a replacement at no charge.

All of this repeated itself when I had to deal with insurance company appeals and the uncooperating public school system.

My knowing how to finagle has gotten Peri services she wouldn’t otherwise have had.

In 2013, we had the opportunity to meet David Wright of the New York Mets at Citi Field. I love David Wright; he’s a mensch.

David walked over to his locker, produced an All-Star game jersey, signed it, and gave it to Peri. I would have been happy with a sock.

This past September he actually called Peri on the phone to talk about a gift she had sent him. Then he mailed her a signed baseball bat. Gotta love David Wright. He didn’t have to do any of that.

Currently, Peri is a freshman at Adelphi University in Garden City, as a business marketing major. I attend class with her some days and a nurse we hired on other days.

It’s like I’m going to college again. At first, I paid attention to the lessons and even asked questions, which really bothered Peri. So now I sit in class, next to Peri, watching Netflix on my phone. I watched all of Orange Is the New Black and now I’m up to Mad Men. Sometimes the teachers will talk about something from 1912 and give me a nod and I’ll give them one back. The worst part, however, is while Peri is on a feeding tube and losing weight, I think I’m gaining the freshman 20.

The plan is for Peri, and probably me, to go all the way to an MBA. I’ve been helping her with her papers, but I can see her getting stronger and stronger and soon she won’t need any help.

One day Peri will rule the world.

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ero-waste living has become a lifestyle movement. There are now hundreds of books, blogs, and videos about it, and even a number of zero-waste stores opening in New York City. For a beginner, becoming a zero-waste household looks time consuming and difficult. So just how do you do it, and is it even possible for a busy, urban family?

Bea Johnson is a mother of two, blogger, author of the best-selling book Zero Waste Home, and the founder of the zero-waste lifestyle movement. Her family of four famously collects less than a glass jar’s worth of waste a year, and she travels the world talking about it. Her passion and conviction for zero waste is the driving force behind the lifestyle’s growing popularity. “To me it’s a life hack,” she sums it up. “It’s a way of saving time and money in so many different areas, so that all you regret is not having started earlier.”

But before you panic about having to throw away your trash can, it’s important to remember the world is not currently set up for us to be 100-percent zero waste. “Pretty much no one is completely zero waste,” says Celia Ristow, a zero-waste writer, organizer, founder of the blog Litterless. “You can still make

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some trash and that’s perfectly fine,” she reassures. “It’s less about making zero waste and more about zero-waste principles.”

Why Go Zero Waste?

Though it may seem like a massive undertaking, there are seven big reasons to live a zero-waste lifestyle.

• It reduces your landfill. New Yorkers create an average of 12,000 tons of waste each day (not including commercial waste), and the majority of it ends up in landfill, according to the Mayor’s Office of Sustainability.

• It reduces greenhouse gases. Landfill is the third biggest source of methane gas, which is more potent than carbon dioxide and contributes significantly to climate change, according to the United States Environmental Protection Agency.

• It reduces plastic waste, a global problem that is poisoning our oceans and waterways. By 2025 we will be dumping 16 million metric tons of plastic waste into the sea, per year, according to a 2015 study by the UC Santa Barbara’s National Center for Ecological Analysis. continued on page 18

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• It conserves natural resources. Creating single-use items uses precious resources (e.g. plastic forks), and those items can’t be re-used or recycled.

• Recycling isn’t enough. Although the EPA estimates that Americans recycle more than 87 million tons of waste a year, plastic is usually recycled into something that can’t be recycled, so it eventually ends up in landfill. Recycling also takes up a huge amount of resources, including shipping overseas.

• It can improve your health. It reduces your exposure to plastics and chemicals in conventional consumer products and forces you to eat fewer processed foods.

• It can save you time and money. “When you eliminate over consumption and buying disposables, then all of a sudden it’s more time and money in your life to do what’s important to you,” Johnson says. You’ll spend less time and money on cleaning, buying, repairing, and disposing of things.

Getting Started

“When people get started, they think, ‘Oh boy, this sounds so complicated. It’s so different from what we’re doing,’” Johnson says. “But it actually isn’t. We’re talking about things that your grandparents used to do, really quite simple.” She gives the example of replacing tissues with handkerchiefs. Instead of spending time and money going to the store to buy tissues and disposing of them once used, you carry a handkerchief (like Grandma) that you wash and reuse.

Johnson also wants to dispel the myth that you need to spend all of your time making zero-waste replacements for things. While some people may enjoy it, this isn’t necessary.

Instead of making your own toothpaste, breakfast cereal, or five different types of homemade kitchen cleaner, make lowwaste swaps instead.

“If you can find the ingredients zero waste and you have the time and the curiosity then great,” Ristow says. “If not, someone probably already makes it and so you can save yourself time.”

For example, if your grocery store only stocks packaged bread, you don’t need to make it yourself; look around for a local bakery and bring your own bag. Ristow’s blog has a great shopping directory (litterless.com/wheretoshop) to help you find lowwaste alternatives.

“Zero waste becomes a lifestyle—not a short-term project— when you let it simplify your life, not complicate it,” Johnson says. “It’s all about finding super-simple solutions that you can see yourself sticking to for life.”

In her book, Johnson introduces five zero-waste rules: refuse, reduce, reuse, recycle, and rot. Read on to discover how to implement them, as well as further tips to get you started.

Refuse what you do not need, especially single-use items. Say no to the plastic bag, coffee cup, plastic fork, freebie pen, hotel shampoo, and toy at the dentist. This simple step will drastically reduce the waste you are bringing into your home. Then you can start working on what is already there.

to the grocery store. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to do this, just use what you have at home. Make produce bags and handkerchiefs out of old sheets and use glass jars to transport your lunch or wet food like meat and cheese from the store. Need to buy something? Reuse by buying second hand items.

Go slow to avoid burn out and overwhelm. Ristow recommends replacing items one at a time, for a more sustainable change. “Start small, and start where you can make a big impact,” she says. “You don’t have to change everything at once.

You’ll feel really good when you notice your small changes making a difference, which will motivate you to keep going.”

Recycle correctly. Don’t just put it all in and hope for the best.

Approximately 77 percent of New Yorker’s trash could be recycled, donated, or composted instead, according to the New York City Department of Sanitation. Read your borough’s recycling rules carefully to avoid contaminating your collection (causing it to end up in landfill). NYC has an excellent program in place.

With a little research you can find a home for most things, even if they can’t be left at the curb.

Rot what you can’t recycle, reuse, or refuse. The simple act of composting will reduce your trash by 34 percent and you don’t need a garden to do it. Visit grownyc.org for more information about local collection and drop-off locations.

Shop at a farmer’s market, which is a great way of reducing waste. You’ll buy more fresh produce, support local farms, and you can bring your own bags and containers. There are more than 50 farmer’s markets in NYC, visit grownyc.org or downtoearthmarkets.com to find one near you.

Buy unpackaged foods. Once you get started, you’ll realize there are lots of options you aren’t using. Check out the bulk aisle of your local health food or grocery store, go to the bakery for your bread and cookies, get meats and cheeses from the deli counter, and stock up on lunch items at the salad bar. In some cases, you’ll even save money doing this. Find a bulk store near you with the Bulk Finder tool zerowastehome.com.

Switch cleaning and beauty products. You don’t need five different cleaners and rolls of paper towels for a clean house. All you need is baking soda, vinegar, some soap, and old rags. In the bathroom you can switch to soap bars and refillable shampoo.

There are now many companies offering refillable, package free products such as Brooklyn’s own Package Free Shop, set up by zero-waste blogger Lauren Singer of trashisfortossers.com.

Focus on what’s important. “People think [zero waste] is about reducing your trash, but ultimately it actually translates into a simpler life: a life that is based on experiences instead of things and a life focused on being rather than having,” Johnson says. “For us, that’s what makes life richer.”

Reduce your belongings to make you more aware of what you are bringing into your home. Do you need three different types of moisturizer? Do you have a full closet but keep buying clothes? Do your kids play with all of their toys or could you donate some? Go slow and start with easy areas. You can then see where you need to make zero-waste swaps.

The zero-waste lifestyle movement began in one woman’s kitchen in California and has grown into something with the power to influence corporations. In May 2019, eight of the biggest plastic polluting companies in the world, including Procter & Gamble and Unilever, will start trialing a new venture called LOOP, in which their products are shipped to consumers in refillable packaging that they then return. The future, we hope, is zero waste.

Switch to reusables. Bring a reusable coffee cup to the coffee shop, a lunch box to work, a handkerchief in your bag, and reusable bags

Emma Steven is a British freelance writer living in Manhattan with her husband, two small kids, and two cats.

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Potty Training 101

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otty training is a big step in your child’s development. It’s a very important milestone for both you and your toddler. But how do you know it’s time for your little one to make the transition from diapers to toilet?

We spoke to some potty-training experts, and they agree that watching for the signs is key.

“The biggest factor contributing to the success of potty training is the readiness of the child. The average age of readiness varies between twenty-two and thirty months,” says Devan Van LanenWanek, M.D., of Cohen Children’s Medical Center in New Hyde Park. “Some subtle signs that your kid wants to learn how to use the toilet are showing interest in other people’s bathroom habits and expressing disgust at their dirty diapers.”

Additionally, your child needs to be able to hold her bodily functions, communicate her need to go, undress and redress, and wash her hands on her own, Dr. Van Lanen-Wanek says.

So now that you’ve established a solid foundation of readiness, here are some tips to keep in mind for making the potty-training experience a smooth one for both you and your child.

Don’t Force It

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can be disastrous.

“One study found that initiation of toilet training before twentyseven months was not associated with earlier completion of toilet training success,” Dr. Van Lanen-Wanek says. “This suggests there is little benefit to starting before this age.” But if your child shows signs of readiness before, there’s no harm in starting then.

Don’t Get Frustrated

Keep in mind that the process of potty training can take a long time and have many ups and downs.

“The average length of toilet training is six to seven months, tends to be longer for boys than girls, and also longer in first-born children than subsequent children,” Dr. Van Lanen-Wanek says. “Remember that every kid is unique and develops at their own pace.”

Be Consistent

Once you move out of diapers, it’s important not to go back, says Wendy Goldstein, a teacher at the 92Y Parenting Center in Manhattan.

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to understand what’s happening. Children don’t generally like the feeling of being wet, so this trains them for what their bodies need.”

Jody Bernstein, another teacher at the 92Y Parenting Center, adds that when accidents do happen, encourage your child to help you clean up.

“You may need to set aside some time to focus on toilet training for a weekend or holiday break,” Bernstein suggests. “Stay close to home as you work on this. Let your child be naked or wear just underpants.”

Make a Tool Kit

One of the biggest challenges of potty training is figuring out how to prevent accidents. They’re messy, time-consuming situations that no parent is thrilled to deal with.

“To alleviate this, parents need to make sure they have all the supplies needed to be successful, as well as a clear plan of action before they begin, rather than the ‘let’s just wing it’ approach,” says Kaylee Sallak, founder of Parenting Made Joyful Lifestyle, and teacher of parenting classes at Buy Buy Baby.

Sallak recommends the following supplies for your tool kit: • A small potty chair • An insert for the big potty • A squatty potty stool to go under a big potty • Thick cloth underwear • Lose pants that have no zippers or buttons • A timer • Potty books • Potty songs • Tangible rewards (like candy) • Cleaning supplies ready for messes • Plastic bags with you always • Spare clothes with you always

And as for the plan of action? “It needs to be decided upon ahead of time and agreed upon by both parents and any caregiver so there is consistency across the board,” Sallak says. “Whatever approach is selected, it should be a solid three days of no plans whatsoever to focus completely on getting a strong start to potty training.”

Bedtime Considerations

Nighttime should have special considerations, according to the experts. Craig Hammond, founder and CEO of Peejamas, functional pajamas designed to eliminate the need for nighttime diapers, recommends establishing a routine at night that includes going to the bathroom before bed and limiting fluid intake in the evening.

“Parents don’t need to force their child to completely fast from water or fluids at night, but definitely start winding it down after dinner,” Hammond says. “This helps to limit fluid building in the bladder, potentially leading to a release during the night. Coupled with the routine of going potty prior to bed, this will help your child learn.”

Hammond also recommends—if possible—not using a diaper at night, just as your child wouldn’t in the day time during potty training.

“Putting a child back in a diaper during the night, is inconsistent and contrary to the daytime training recommendations,” Hammond says. “Of course, this can lead to potential messes, which there are solutions to avoid that, and may not be realistic for children with individual needs. But if you can do it, it is a much better way to help them really nail the nighttime phase of potty training.”

Potty training your child can be fun and rewarding, but as with all things, should you have any concerns or questions, call your child’s doctor or health-care provider.

Barbara Russo is a freelance writer who holds a bachelor’s degree in communications

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Experts suggest taking cues from your environment to broach uncomfortable topics with your teens. For example, if characters in a show or movie you’re both watching are smoking or drinking, it’s an opportune time to talk to your teen about drugs and alcohol use.

Awkward Talks

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As our kids get older, it’s time to have conversations that make us uncomfortable. Here’s how to approach those topics—and get your teens to open up. By Lambeth Hochwald

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f it feels like your heart-to-hearts with your teen have ground to a halt, take solace in the fact that this is very much par for the course at this age and stage.

Blame it on the teenage brain that’s going through incredibly important changes that ultimately help prepare kids to function in the adult world, says Teodora Pavkovic, a psychologist and parenting coach in New York City. “Not only does this have a psychological impact, but a physical one, too, which can be really scary for kids,” she says.

Get ready for these changes to take several years to shake out.

“The brain won’t stop going through this rollercoaster of a ride until kids are about twenty-five and brain change stabilizes,” Pavkovic says.

To help us navigate through this awkward time, we asked top experts to sketch out what kids are going through at this age and then offer some key tips for getting your child to actually open up and talk about even the most uncomfortable of topics.

Keep in Mind, It’s a Phase

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mate partner violence. “At the same time, their personalities haven’t been fully formed. Remember: It’s their role and responsibility to be testing boundaries, to be exploring, to be figuring out what their identity is.” Given this, you want to try to be as open as possible to talking to your teen.

Start Young

If your kids haven’t hit the teen stage quite yet, here’s some good news: Now’s the time to build trust with them. “Make sure the children in your household feel comfortable talking to you,” Nilva says. Then, when they’re older, make sure your overall concern with their health and safety comes first. “In other words, urge them to talk to you even if you’re upset that your teen violated an understanding you had whether it’s about violating a curfew or anything else—that trust is what’s most important.”

It’s Okay if Your Teen Prefers to Talk to Peers

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Relationships with Your Child Through Daily Conversation. “It can be awkward to talk to your teen if the conversation feels forced or inauthentic,” she says. “It’s natural for teens to prefer to talk to their peers and keep some things private. That’s okay and healthy for your teen but don’t give up. You always want to keep working on better ways to communicate one-on-one with your teen.”

While this doesn’t mean you should avoid consequences, Alamar suggests the conversation should be more about the experience than punishment. “Your goal is to help your child to understand the real dangers and your concerns,” she says. “Listen to find out why your child chose to do this or is thinking about it. Ask questions like ‘Why do you like it?’ and help your child to find alternative behaviors and/or help him or her to feel comfortable coming to you.”

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The best way to talk about almost anything with your teen is to be open and direct, Alamar says, and this comes into play, especially, broaching an awkward topic such as personal hygiene. “Don’t beat around the bush,” Alamar says. “Of course, with hygiene and other touchy topics you’ll make the most impact if you broach it in a positive or lighthearted way and avoid sarcasm. You can say things like, ‘This is normal,’ ‘Everyone has body odor,’ or ‘Have you thought about using deodorant?’ Help your teen to see that this is a state of humanity and not a reflection on who they are as a person.”

Speak Up About Vaping and Drugs

When it comes to the topic of alcohol, smoking, vaping, or drug use of any kind, you have two goals: Be clear about why you’re concerned and don’t shelter your child from the subject. “It’s better your child learns about risky behavior from you as it offers you the ability to share your values and expectations,” Alamar says. “It also shows your child that you are a trusted adult they can come to and they shouldn’t be afraid to. It’s very possible that your teen has experimented with vaping, drugs, or alcohol or at least been exposed to it. Rather than judge them and come down hard with punishment, open up the conversation.”

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In other words, time your talk. “Don’t start these conversations…right after coming back from work exhausted or right after finding inappropriate texts on your child’s phone,” she adds. “You need to be the stabilizing factor for them—remember there’s a storm going on inside of them.”

If You Don’t Like Your Child’s Friends, Be Supportive Anyway

Remember: The core struggle for teens is, again, their immeasurable need to belong to their peer group, Alamar says. “This means you should try to support friendships as best you can so your child can learn to have intimate relationships and build trust outside of just the immediate family,” she says. “If you want to raise an independent adult who can sustain meaningful relationships, then you have to offer opportunities for your child to explore relationships—even ones you are suspect of.”

If you judge your teen’s friends, she may take personal offense so tread lightly. “If you’re having trouble accepting your teen’s friends, consider inviting them to your home or see if you can get to know their families,” Alamar suggests. “In the end, your child is going to choose their friends, and the more you judge, the less likely they are to come to you with questions, concerns, or things to celebrate. They should have the opportunity to experience great friendships they’ve cultivated on their own and also experience disappointments and conflicts.”

Remember: You Won’t Have All the Answers

When you’re parenting during this phase, give yourself permission to be vulnerable, Pavkovic says. “Be kind to yourself by going into this phase knowing that you don’t know all the answers,” she says.

“The important thing is to get the conversation going and to be able to say, ‘You know what, this is a tough one and I may not know what to tell you, but let’s talk it out anyway.’”

It’s also key to keep your child’s strengths in mind. “This is your most powerful tool,” she says. “As you try to help them with each challenge they face, if you know their strengths you can coach them through using these strengths to resolve these issues.”

No pressure, but the steps you take now will forever make a difference in your teen’s life. “What you are also doing then is not only helping your child make healthier decisions, but you are hitting the parental bingo by teaching them how to help themselves once they are living out there in the world without you,” Pavkovic says.

Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

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A Birthday Bash for Less

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You don’t have to break the bank to throw a memorable party for your child. Party planners and parents who’ve been there share their top tips for keeping costs down. By Madeleine Burry

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birthday and the accompanying party are a big deal for kids.

That’s no surprise—after all, what’s not to love about cake and presents? Thanks to the Internet (and especially Instagram and Pinterest), you can find plenty of inspiration when it’s time to plan your child’s annual celebration.

But some of those stunning decor, activity, and food options you’ll spot online require hours of painstaking work—and often, hefty price tags, too. It can be easy to DIY yourself to exhaustion or exceed your budget, but that’s not necessary. “Children will have fun no matter what,” points out Rehaab Zohny, director of operations at Gymtime Rhythm and Glues in Manhattan.

If you’re on a budget (of time or money…or both), you can still throw a blowout party—we spoke with moms, dads, and party planning pros, to get their very best tips for hosting a birthday party that’ll deliver Instagram double-taps without breaking the bank.

Take advantage of your location.

If your child was born in a temperate month, you’ve hit the jackpot living in the New York metro area. “For twenty-five dollars, plus a processing fee, you can get a permit for various locations across NYC parks and dress the party to any theme you like,” says Manhattan mom Noelle Pileggi.

That’s just one of many outdoor options. You can do a carousel party in Brooklyn’s Prospect Park (with wristbands that get kids unlimited rides), suggests Louise Simon, a Brooklyn mom of two.

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castles. “For a smoking ten-dollar bill you buy your kid a wristband that lets them bounce all day. So, a ten-kid party costs a hundred dollars, plus a cake and pizza, and you are out for under a hundred and fifty dollars!” Lyren says. You can also petition the city to close down your street, then rent a bouncy castle yourself, he adds.

There are still plenty of options for kids born in colder months: try the skating rink, a bowling alley, or hand out a roll of quarters to each attendee at an arcade. Or, go DIY-free and head to a party destination. This can offer some real perks. For one, you don’t need to worry about setup—or cleanup, Zohny notes.

Another option is to host at home. An indoor, at-home party means you won’t need to have a weather back-up plan.

Figure out a theme.

A theme really ties the party together, says Julie Ontaneda of My Classic Party, an event planning and styling company in Rye. That’s true even if it’s very simple, such as a color or your kid’s favorite things (think: unicorns, trucks, dinosaurs, or “favorites” for older kids), she says. “A theme allows for simple touches, like theme-named food items, that are Pinterest-worthy and memorable without breaking the bank,” Ontaneda says.

Save more by going all out in only a few select areas, she recommends.

You can also encourage guests to get involved, suggests Amy Spielholtz, a Manhattan mom. For her daughter’s birthday, the theme was The Enchantment Under the Sea Dance, and guests were encouraged to dress as their favorite Back to the Future character or sea creature. “We were surprised by how many people got into it and it made things so much more festive as a result,” Spielholz says.

Choose an activity.

An activity is often the priciest aspect of a party, Ontaneda says, so start there, then see what’s left in your budget. If you’re doing the event at a destination, this step may already be taken care of.

If not, you can hire someone, or figure out a fun, age-appropriate activity. “When it comes to entertainment, do a treasure hunt. It can last a long time, the treasure can be things on the less expensive side, and the children will have a ball. Play musical chairs or musical statues—fun doesn’t have to be expensive,” says Lucy Harris, mom and CEO of Hello Baby Bump, which is based in Queens.

In fact, doing too many activities, and overly complicated ones, can lead to a party that feels rushed and chaotic, Zohny says.

“Keep it basic and simple for the best outcome,” she recommends.

And remember: An activity can sometimes outlast the big event.

“I wanted some type of activity, but I wasn’t looking to pay for an entertainer or rent equipment,” Spielholtz says—so for around a hundred dollars, she bought a ball pit holder and hundreds of balls online. She says she sees it as an investment—the ball pit is stashed at her daughter’s grandparents’ house for occasional play, and it will be available to use again at birthday parties for several years to come.

Trim your guest list.

It’s tempting to invite all your friends, along with your kid’s whole class. Resist! Keeping the guest list trimmed down means fewer decorations, fewer cupcakes, and fewer supplies, Harris says.

“Keep the guest list small, figure out the maximum number you want, and talk with your child about who they want,” Harris says.

But if you really crave a big bash (or if your kid’s school or day care requires that every kid get invited), “consider a joint party with a friend,” Ontaneda suggests. It’s “half the cost and double the fun!”

Consider skipping paper invites, too, Harris urges, and opt for text messages and Facebook invites instead.

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Benefit from other parents’ parties.

Party supplies await on Facebook marketplace and local Facebook groups, says Kristin Fuerst, mom of two. “You can often find someone unloading their used (but perfectly fine) party stuff at a big discount, and you might be able to score some cool things you might not otherwise have been able or willing to spring for,” Fuerst says. “Lots of moms just want to help out another mom— or just get stuff out of the house and not in a landfill.”

Let your friends lend a hand, too. Nearly any parent will understand that you don’t always have the space to stash endless chairs and other big items. Borrow items from friends and family, Harris recommends.

And “when people offer to help out, there is nothing wrong accepting it. You will more than likely offer it back in return,” Harris says.

Create a keepsake item for memories down the road.

Photos are a big path to a memorable party for guests. But Harris suggests having guests craft and sign a keepsake item, too. It can be simple, like a canvas board with attendees’ handprints with their names below.

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Don’t forget to enjoy yourself!

If you’re stressed, it’ll show. Same goes if you’re enjoying yourself. “If you’re having a good time, your guests will have a good time,” Zohny says.

Bottom line: few people will remember the decor and cake.

What’ll stick is if the event is fun. “Remember, it’s for the children! Make sure they are having fun and you are there every step of the party enjoying just as much as they are. They only turn this age once!” Zohny says.

Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents. com, Scholastic, and About.com. Burry lives in Brooklyn with her husband and their cat.

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Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Little Neck 516-200-4691; bilingualbirdies.com longisland.bilingualbirdies@gmail.com Bilingual Birdies is the leading bilingual music education program in New York that serves toddlers and preschoolers through song, dance, and puppetry.

Celebrate your child’s birthday with Myla Birdie,a bright yellow puppet that enchants every child while on an adventure of learning and fun.

Clowns.com

Proudly serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000, 718-971-5862 clowns.com At Clowns.com, our goal is to create an unforgettable and memorable party experience for you and your family.

We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.

Birthday Party Places @ Play Amusements

229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com Have your next party at @ Play Amusements! It offers 40,000-squarefeet of fun ranging from arcade games, inflatables, bumper cars, roller coaster, a carousel, disco room, laser tag, and five glow-in-the-dark private party rooms! It even provides all the paper goods, invites, thank you notes, food, and private hostess!

American Dance & Drama

188-22 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 718-479-8522 68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village americandanceanddrama.net We are one of Queens’s largest and

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We also offer a tunnel maze, moon bounce, ball pit, bubbles, fog machines, cotton candy, plus crazy craft, princess parties, and first birthday parties.

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Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Little Neck 516-200-4691 bilingualbirdies.com longisland.bilingualbirdies@gmail.com Bilingual Birdies is the leading bilingual music education program in New York that serves toddlers and preschoolers through song, dance, and puppetry. Celebrate your child’s birthday with Myla Birdie, a bright yellow puppet that enchants every child while on an adventure of learning and fun.

Celebrations In The Kitchen

63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event! We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy, including sugar cookie baking, all about pizza, cupcakes from scratch, doughnuts, chocolate and candy projects. Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen.com for more information on parties.

CK Kids Birthday Parties

68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 917-602-6271 ctkny.org jmichel@ctkny.org We know your child’s birthday is a special day so we only book one party at time! Private party room available with two bounce houses, a ball pit, disco lighting, cotton candy, face painting, tattoos, music, and games! Add-on party activities include dress-up, karate, hip-hop, and cooking.

Gravity Vault Melville Indoor Rock Gym

40 Melville Park Road 516-777-9255 gravityvault.com/locations/melville-ny melville@gravityvault.com

Host a birthday party with The Gravity Vault where ages 5 and older can come climb and have fun. Climbing is a great way to celebrate your birthday! Our awesome climbing parties give kids an exciting day they will never forget! Offering different party package options to accommodate your needs.

The Lanyard Ladies

433 Merrick Road, Oceanside 516-578-2248 thelanyardladies.com info@thelanyardladies.com The Lanyard Ladies friendship bracelet and lanyard birthday parties bring the party to you, or you can come to their party place! Learn to make your favorite friendship bracelets and lanyard stitches.

Many amazing themes and packages offered. We will customize any birthday party to fit your needs.

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Bayside at Bay Terrace Karate Center, Upper Level Baybridge Commons Shopping Center Forest Hills at the Reform Temple of Forest Hills Forest Hills at the Church-In-The-Gardens Glendale at Tiger Schulmann’s Glendale musictogetherwithmusicandme.com info@musictogetherwithmusicandme.com We provide unique birthday party musical experiences for first-sixth birthdays.

Families and friends participate and celebrate a birthday child’s day in a way in which everyone shares in the fun. Call us to customize your child’s musical birthday. We can come to your space.

Soccer Friends USA, Inc.

106-06 Queens Blvd., 3rd Floor Gym, Forest Hills 718-261-2403, 347-756-2568 (para Español) soccerfriendsusa.com soccerfriendsusa@hotmail.com Soccer Friends USA Inc. offers soccer birthday parties for children ages 2 and older. Its parties are fun, dynamic, and energetic. Its aim is to keep all the children moving and engaged. It offers both excellent indoor and outdoor locations in the Forest Hills-Rego Park area.

Sky Zone Trampoline Park-Deer Park

111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park 631-392-2600 skyzone.com/deerpark deerparkinfo@skyzone.com The best birthday parties are always at Sky Zone, Deer Park, Long Island. We customize every birthday party to create your party, your way. We have themed parties and super hero parties. We offer Dodgeball, Foam Zone, Sky Slam, and endless jumping opportunities. Private trampoline courts are available.

USTA Billie Jean King National Tennis Center

Flushing Meadows-Corona Park, Flushing 718-760-6200 x0 ntc.usta.com Let the National Tennis Center host your next birthday party. Our birthday party packages include one hour of court time with tennis drills and games organized by our USTA Pro staff. You will also have a one-hour private room for your birthday celebration which includes pizza for all your party guests.

Whitestone Lanes

30-05 Whitestone Expressway, Flushing 718-353-6300 whitestonebowlinglanes.com We offer children’s and teen birthday parties, starting at $17.95 per child and $25.95 per teen. Your child and their friends will bowl for one hour and then enjoy 45 minutes in our private party room, where they will receive one slice of pizza, a beverage, and a trophy!

Wildlife Conservation Society (WCS) Zoos and Aquarium

1-800-433-4149 The Bronx Zoo: 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx Central Park Zoo: 830 Fifth Ave., Manhattan Queens Zoo: 53-51 111th St., Corona Prospect Park Zoo: 450 Flatbush Ave., Brooklyn New York Aquarium: 602 Surf Ave., Brooklyn wcs.org/birthdays Make your wildlife lover’s birthday an unforgettable experience with a party at our zoos or aquarium! Parties include park admission, a private party room with host, special animal guests, visits to our exhibits, and hands-on activities to make your party animal’s birthday a truly unforgettable experience!

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Children can participate in a variety of hands-on activities, including spiking rails, with the help of an adult.

Kids will learn a variety of science-related topics in the many exhibits at the Discovery Museum.

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Visitors of The Whaling Museum and Education Center of Cold Spring Harbor can engrave designs on a ‘fauxshaw keepsake box,’ which is a synthetic whalebone scrimshaw box.

The Whaling Museum & Education Center of Cold Spring Harbor

Did you know whaling was once one of Long Island’s most important industries? This detailed and unique museum will teach your kids all about whaling and, just in time for Earth day, how the industry launched a conservation movement. Smell cooking blubber, stand under a sperm whale jaw, see models of ships, explore artifacts and tools used by whalers, view whale bones up close, and more!

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Antarctica, the moon, physics, LED lights, circuits, and the Earth are just some of the topics the Discovery Museum covers in its many exhibits. Visitors can also sit back in the planetarium for a number of breathtaking shows including One World, One Sky: Big Bird’s Adventure, We Are Aliens, and The Skies Tonight. There’s so much to discover.

Visit It: 4450 Park Ave., Bridgeport; discoverymuseum.org; 203-372-3521

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Located in a historic station and rail yard in downtown Danbury, this nonprofit museum is staffed solely by volunteers who teach its visitors all about railroad history through tours, train rides, and a collection of restored rolling stock. Take a 20-minute tour of the Rail Yard, climb aboard the 90-foot New Haven RR operating turntable, or go inside the Boston & Maine 1455 Steam Engine.

Visit It: 120 White St., Danbury; danburyrailwaymuseum.org; 203-778-8337

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The Native American Replica Village includes a life-sized wigwam, longhouse, dugout canoe, and hide drying rack.

Greenburgh Nature Center

As the weather begins to get nicer, get your family outdoors to the Greenburgh Nature Center for 33 acres of beauty and fun. Visit sheep, goats, and chickens in the barnyard; meet eagles, hawks, and owls; or see a life-sized wigwam, longhouse, and dugout canoe at Native American Village. The interactive experiences are endless and will connect your family to nature in new and exciting ways.

Visit It: 99 Dromore Road, Scarsdale, Westchester County; greenburghnaturecenter.org; 914-723-3470

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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS

Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the ten events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to.

Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

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Macy’s Flower Show FREE

WHEN: Through April 7: Monday-Saturday, 10am-10pm, Sunday, 10am-9pm WHERE: Macy’s, 100-104 W. 35th St., Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Journey to Paradisios gives visitors a glimpse of the cosmos reimagined through flowers and garden landscapes.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Special in-store events include floral, food, and fashion demonstrations, and celebrity appearances.

WANT TO GO? 212-695-4400. macys.com.

Spartan Kids Race Citi Field

WHEN: Saturday, April 13, 8am-3pm WHERE: Citi Field, 126-01 Roosevelt Ave., New York AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Kids can race through a half-mile and 1-mile obstacle course that’s a unique blend of fun, fitness, and hard work.

WHY WE LOVE IT: A 3pm heat will be available for racers with special needs.

WANT TO GO? $25.99-$30.99. 781-801-4936. spartan.com.

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Green Meadows Easter Egg Hunt

WHEN: April 13-22, select weekends, 10am-4pm WHERE: Alley Park, 67 Avenue and 230 Street, Bayside AGES: All

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WHAT: Take photos with Whiskers the Easter Bunny, and enjoy the Hay Wagon Slide, Giant Corn Box, and Fun House.

WHY WE LOVE IT: For a small fee kids can enjoy pony rides and a petting zoo.

WANT TO GO? $9. nycgovparks.org.

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Earth Day: Earthly Legends

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 6-8pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: All WHAT: Take a walk through trails looking for wildlife, then gather round a fire to hear legends of our planet’s beginning.

WHY WE LOVE IT: A craft and snacks are included!

WANT TO GO? $3. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Spring Celebration

WHEN: Wednesday, April 24, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Enjoy an interactive lesson and nature walk. Live animal guests will include turtles, birds, and bunnies.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Children will also decorate a flowerpot and plant seeds to take home.

WANT TO GO? $21. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

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Autism Awareness Action Day 2019 FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 27, 12-5pm WHERE: The Shops at Atlas Park, 8000 Cooper Ave., Glendale AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a live DJ, games, face painting, a car and slingshot show, interactive sports stations, arts and crafts, martial arts demonstrations, and autograph sessions with professional athletes.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids will love Star Wars demos and training too!

WANT TO GO? 718-326-3300. shopatlaspark.com.

‘Anne of Green Gables’

WHEN: Sunday, April 28, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Corona AGES: 5-12 WHAT: A vivacious orphan with a wild imagination goes on a journey to find the family she’s always wanted.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The 3pm performance features ASL interpretation and is sensory relaxed.

WANT TO GO? $14 per person; $12 seniors and members. 718-860-0064. queenstheatre.org.

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WHEN: Sunday, April 28, 11am-5pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live music, arts and crafts, demonstrations, a petting zoo, and local food vendors.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a fun-filled celebration of trees and the environment!

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 children; $15 parking; free for members.

718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

‘SNAP’

WHEN: April 12-28, see website for times WHERE: The New Victory Theater, 209 W. 42nd St., Midtown, Manhattan AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Playing with space and time this ensemble of South Korean illusionists will boggle minds!

WHY WE LOVE IT: With impressive visual effects, Chaplin-esque comedy, and a running time of 70 minutes, this is an ideal family show.

WANT TO GO? $17 and up. 646-223-3010. newvictory.org.

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‘Pirate Pete’s Parrot’

WHEN: Saturday, April 27, 2:30pm WHERE: The Secret Theatre, 44-02 23rd St., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Pirate Pete is a lovable rogue on a mission to find his runaway parrot Polly.

WHY WE LOVE IT: There will be plenty of audience interaction and a photo opportunity after the performance with the actors.

WANT TO GO? $15; $10 children younger than 17; $40 family four-pack. 718-392-0722. secrettheatre.com.

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

Breakfast with the Easter Bunny FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 6, 8-10am WHERE: Queens Center Mall, 90-15 Queens Blvd., Elmhurst AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy Applebee’s breakfast, music, dance, prizes, and contests with DJ Omar.

WANT TO GO? 718-592-3900. shopqueenscenter.com.

Game Day FREE

WHEN: Through April 26: Fridays, 3:30pm-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Village Library, 94-11 217 St., Queens Village AGES: All WHAT: Children of all ages are welcome to join game day for some board game fun.

WANT TO GO? 718-776-6800. queenslibrary.org.

Mother Goose Time FREE

WHEN: Saturdays, April 13, 10-10:30am; April 27, 10:30-11am WHERE: Queens Library, Rochdale Village Branch, 169-09 137 Ave., Jamaica AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy bouncing rhymes, puppets, and free play with toys and puzzles.

WANT TO GO? 718-723-4440. queenslibrary.org.

Toddler Learning Center FREE

WHEN: April 18-May 16, Thursdays, 10-11am WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: Newborn to 5, adult WHAT: Adults will learn about parenting topics, while toddlers play with educational toys and develop social skills.

WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

Ping Pong Club FREE

WHEN: Through June 29: Saturdays, 2-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, South Hollis Branch, 204-01 Hollis Ave., South Hollis AGES: All WHAT: Challenge friends to ping pong every Saturday afternoon.

WANT TO GO? 718-465-6779. queenslibrary.org. ››

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WHERE: Queens Library, Howard Beach Branch, 92-06 156 Ave., Howard Beach AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Explore and learn about the properties of water.

WANT TO GO? 718-641-7086. queenslibrary.org.

TechCraft: DIY Balloon Rocket Cars! FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 15, 4-5pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Make your own automaton machine, jet-powered car, or hologram projector.

WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

SMARTY PANTS Meditation for Kids FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 1, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Woodhaven Branch, 85-41 Forest Parkway, Woodhaven AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn the benefits and different forms of meditation.

WANT TO GO? 718-849-1010. queenslibrary.org.

Circuits and Currents: Its Electric!

WHEN: Sunday, April 7, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Queens Historical Society, 143-35 37th Ave., Flushing AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Learn all about electricity and how it powers almost everything then build your very own circuit!

WANT TO GO? $10. 718-939-0647. queenshistoricalsociety.org.

STEM: Penny Spinners FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 8, 3:30-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Queens Village Branch, 94-11 217 St., Queens Village AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children get to complete a STEM challenge!

WANT TO GO? 718-776-6800. queenslibrary.org.

S.T.E.A.M! FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 8, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Woodhaven Branch, 85-41 Forest Parkway, Woodhaven AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Participate in hands-on activities in science, technology, engineering, arts, and math.

WANT TO GO? 718-849-1010. queenslibrary.org.

Little Makers: Recycled Robots

WHEN: April 7-14, Sundays, 10:30am-12:15pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Kids transform recycled materials into fun toy robots.

WANT TO GO? $6 per child, plus admission: $16; $13 children, students, and senior citizens. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

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STEM: Fossils FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 16, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Hone scientific skills by studying shark teeth and fossils.

WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

Spies & Spying: A Dangerous Business FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 16, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Maspeth Branch, 69-70 Grand Ave., Maspeth AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Learn about famous spies in history, how spies operate, and how to make secret codes.

WANT TO GO? 718-639-5228. queenslibrary.org.

Rosedale Spell-A-Thon FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 20, 1-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Rosedale Branch, 144-20 243 St., Rosedale AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Children are invited to explore their spelling talents.

WANT TO GO? 718-528-8490. queenslibrary.org.

Sky-High: Building Sculptures

WHEN: Through April 21: select weekends, 10:30-11:45am WHERE: Noguchi Museum, 32-37 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Learn strategies for engaging your child during museum visits.

WANT TO GO? $10 per family. 718-204-7088. noguchi.org.

STEAM Arcade Challenge FREE

WHEN: April 23-24, Tuesday-Wednesday, 1-5pm WHERE: Long Island City Library, 37-44 21 St., Long Island City AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Spend spring break creating games out of cardboard.

WANT TO GO? 718-752-3700. queenslibrary.org.

LEGO Robotics Club FREE

WHEN: April 6-27, Saturdays, 2-3pm WHERE: Queens Library, McGoldrick branch, 155-06 Roosevelt Ave., Flushing AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Kids and teens will learn how to code control their own robot to walk, talk, drive, grab, and spin.

WANT TO GO? 718-461-1616. queenslibrary.org.

Tell Me Again: Stories We Share

WHEN: April 14-28, select weekends, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Noguchi Museum, 32-37 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Work together or individually to make your own works of art.

WANT TO GO? $10 per family. 718-204-7088. noguchi.org.

Little Makers: Sink and Float

WHEN: April 21-28, Sundays, 10:30am-12:15pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Kids can explore buoyancy by testing whether everyday objects sink or float and building creations to test.

WANT TO GO? $6 per child, plus admission: $16; $13 children, students, and senior citizens. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Traveling Exhibit: Sonic Sensation

WHEN: Through May 5: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Visitors will experience the sonic world through 14 interactive learning stations to discover key listening skills.

WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1.

516-224-5800. licm.org.

Bionic Me

WHEN: Through May 5: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; Saturday & Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: This exhibition explores the medical and industrial breakthroughs that have enhanced the human experience.

WANT TO GO? $16; $13 children, students, and senior citizens.

718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Toddler Learning Center FREE

WHEN: April 12-May 10, Fridays, 10:30-11:45am WHERE: Forest Hills Library, 108-19 71 Ave., Forest Hills AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Parents learn about nutrition, speech development, early literacy, and more while their toddlers play and socialize.

WANT TO GO? 718-268-7934. queenslibrary.org.

Earthly Creations: Nature and Art

WHEN: April 27-May 19, select Saturdays, 10:30-11:45 am WHERE: Noguchi Museum, 32-37 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Explore art materials and Noguchi Museum galleries as a family.

WANT TO GO? $10 per family. 718-204-7088. noguchi.org.

Sit & Think (Sudoku)

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Monday-Saturday, 1-1:15pm WHERE: Queens Library, Richmond Hill Branch, 118-14 Hillside Ave., Richmond Hill AGES: All WHAT: Try your hand at a Sudoku puzzle for fun or just refresh your math skills.

WANT TO GO? 718-849-7150. queenslibrary.org.

SHOW TIME! ‘Shrek: The Musical’

WHEN: Through April 7: select dates, 2:30pm and 7:30pm WHERE: St. Luke’s Church, 85 Greenway S., Forest Hills AGES: All WHAT: The Gingerbread Players present Shrek: The Musical, a familyfriendly theater event!

WANT TO GO? $15; $12 per person with groups of 6 or more. 718-268-7772. gingerbreadplayers.org.

Puppetry for Parents: Using Puppets in the Home to Make Meaningful Connections

WHEN: Friday, April 12, 5-8pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: Adult WHAT: Learn the basics of performance and technique as well as discuss ways to utilize puppets to build emotional connections.

WANT TO GO? $20; $15 members. 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

Saturday Family Matinee: Family Bash!

WHEN: Sunday, April 14, 2-3pm WHERE: Jamaica Center for Arts and Learning, 161-04 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Packed with amazing science demos and fun music, this musical show will inspire your family to explore art and science.

WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children. 718-658-7400. jcal.org.

‘Guess What’ - The Family-Friendly Stand Up Comedy Show

WHEN: Saturday, April 20, 12:30pm WHERE: The Creek & The Cave, 10-93 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: The show is hosted by an 11-year-old and her dad.

WANT TO GO? $10. 718-706-8783. creeklic.com.

Elephant & Piggie’s ‘We Are in a Play!’

WHEN: Through April 26: see website for schedule WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Elephant and Piggie storm the stage in a musical filled with plenty of pachydermal peril and swiney suspense.

WANT TO GO? $9; $7 members; $12 theater only tickets. 516-224-5828. licm.org.

‘Princess Particular’

WHEN: Through May 11: second Saturdays, 2:30pm WHERE: The Secret Theatre, 44-02 23rd St., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: All Princess Particular can think about is her latest scheme to become a ballerina.

WANT TO GO? $15; $10 kids younger than 17. 718-392-0722. secrettheatre.com. ›› QueensParent 37

WHAT: There will be three hunts for separate age groups.

WANT TO GO? 718-361-2922. queenseasterfestival.com.

Annual Egg Hunt and Festival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 20, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Queensbridge Park, 41 Road and 40 Avenue, Queens AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Celebrate Easter with some holiday fun!

WANT TO GO? queenseasterfestival.com.

Barnyard Egg Hunt

WHEN: Saturday, April 20, 11am-3pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Meet Whiskers the Bunny and enjoy egg hunts, tossing and rolling games, visiting farm animals, a hayride, and food vendors.

WANT TO GO? $10; free for members. 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

Easter Eggstravaganza

HOLIDAY FUN Egg Painting Craft FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 12, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Arverne, 312 Beach 54 St., Arverne AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Color and decorate eggs.

WANT TO GO? 718-634-4784. queenslibrary.org.

Easter Crafts for Children FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 16, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Astoria Branch, 14-01 Astoria Blvd., Long Island City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Expect a fun time making greeting cards.

WANT TO GO? 718-278-2220. queenslibrary.org.

Easter Egg Hunt FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 17, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, McGoldrick branch, 155-06 Roosevelt Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Participate in an Easter egg hunt with prizes!

WANT TO GO? 718-461-1616. queenslibrary.org.

Family Easter Brunch with Easter Bunny Photos

WHEN: Saturday, April 20, 11am-3pm WHERE: Katch Astoria, 31-19 Newtown Ave., Astoria AGES: All WHAT: The Easter Bunny will hop in for photo ops and refreshments.

WANT TO GO? $25 at the door; $18 if ordering brunch. 718-777-2230. katchastoria.com.

Annual Egg Hunt and Festival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 20, 10am-12pm WHERE: Gantry Plaza State Park, Center Boulevard at 48th Avenue, Long Island City AGES: Newborn to 5

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WHEN: April 20-21, see website for schedule WHERE: Queens Zoo, 3-51 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: In addition to an egg hunt, there will be crafts, interactive stations, photos with the Easter bunny, and fun for the whole family. Preregistration and early ticket sales will be available online starting April 1.

WANT TO GO? $9.95; $6.95 children ages 3-12; free for children 2 and younger. 800-433-4149. queenszoo.com.

Passover Seder

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 5-9pm WHERE: La Baraka Restaurant, 255-09 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Passover with a Humanistic Haggadah and Seder meal.

WANT TO GO? prices vary. 718-428-1461. labarakarest.com.

Green Garden/Green Planet

WHEN: Thursday, April 25, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: Voelker Orth Museum, 149-19 38th Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Create multidimensional animals or collages with natural materials.

WANT TO GO? $5 per person; $12 per family; free for children younger than 3. 718-359-6227. vomuseum.org.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Activity Table

WHEN: Thursday, April 4, 2-4pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy family-friendly arts and crafts activities.

WANT TO GO? $6; $4 seniors; $2 children ages 4-12; free for children younger than 3. 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

First Weekend: The Herbal Garden

WHEN: Saturday, April 6, 11am-4pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: QBG’s First Weekend activities are all about herbs, including a kids activity table.

WANT TO GO? $6 adults; $4 seniors; $2 children ages 4 to 12; free for children 3 and younger. 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

Compost Crafts: Summer Veggie Starts

WHEN: Saturday, April 20, 2-4pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: 3 and older WHAT: See how compost can be used in potting mixes and take home a compostable pot with veggie seeds.

WANT TO GO? $6; $4 seniors; $2 children ages 4-12; free for children younger than 3. 718886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

Spring Break Activities For Kids WHEN: April 23-26, TuesdayFriday, 2-4pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Stop by for self-guided nature activities.

WANT TO GO? $6; $4 seniors; $2 children ages 4-12; free for children younger than 3. 718-8863800. queensbotanical.org.

Kids’ Garden Club FREE

WHEN: April 2-30, Tuesdays, 4-5pm (no session April 16) WHERE: Queens Library, Peninsula, 92-25 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Beach AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children will learn the importance of gardening and grow plants and vegetables.

WANT TO GO? 718-634-1110. queenslibrary.org.

Bird Walk with NYC Audubon FREE

WHEN: April 7-May 18, see website for schedule WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Identify creatures of flight and learn how QBG provides birds with water, shelter, and food.

WANT TO GO? 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

Earth Day: Community Day of Service FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 20, 10am1pm WHERE: Astoria Park, 19 Street and Astoria Park South, Astoria AGES: All WHAT: Expect live music, local artists, raffles, and crafts.

WANT TO GO? 646-404-4103. nycgovparks.org.

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Earth Day Celebration: Flower Planting and Caterpillar Reveal FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 2-3pm WHERE: Long Island City Library, 37-44 21 St., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Help plant a flower garden and then meet the LIC caterpillars.

WANT TO GO? 718-752-3700. queenslibrary.org.

Earth Day Activity: Plant a Tree FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Arverne, 312 Beach 54 St., Arverne AGES: All WHAT: Plant a seed, seedling, or flower and watch it grow!

WANT TO GO? 718-634-4784. queenslibrary.org.

Earth Day Special Events for Families: Earth Day Drop, Swap and Shop FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 24, 1-4pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: All WHAT: Drop off your gently used children’s toys and books, and fill up a bag with new-to-you goodies.

WANT TO GO? 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

2019 SUMMER CAMPS Boys Basketball Camp Girls Basketball Camp Baseball Camp Boys Soccer Camp Girls Soccer Camp Theater Camp STEM Camp

CAMP SCHEDULE:

Week 1: July 8th to 12th Week 2: July 15th to 19th July 29th to August 2nd July 29th to August 1st July 22nd to July 26th July 29th to August 2nd July 15th to 19th July 15th to 19th

Register on our website www.molloyhs.org within “Academics” under “Summer Camps.”

For additional questions: Contact Mike McCleary (mmccleary@molloyhs.org) for Baseball & Basketball Camp info.

Contact Andy Kostel (andykostel@gmail.com) for Soccer Camp info.

Contact Shannon Winters (swinters@molloyhs.org) for Theater Camp info.

Contact Edit Boral (eboral@molloyhs.org) for STEM Camp info.

83-53 Manton Street, Briarwood, NY 11435 718-441-2100

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MUSICIANS Flor De Toloache

WHEN: Friday, April 5, 8-10pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This all-female mariachi group is pushing boundaries with their fresh take on traditional Mexican music.

WANT TO GO? $16; $10 members and students; free for teens.

718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

Music and Movement for Infants and Toddlers FREE

KINDNESS CRUSADERS Ridgewood Reservoir Volunteer Work Day FREE

WHEN: Sunday, April 7, 10am-1pm WHERE: Highland Park Ridgewood Reservoir, Vermont Place Parking Lot, Ridgewood AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Join a reservoir landscape maintenance volunteer workday to clean up the neighborhood green space.

WANT TO GO? 718-235-4100. nyc.gov/parks.

Astoria Park Shoreline Cleanup & Beautification FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 13, 11am-1pm WHERE: Astoria Park, 19 19th St., Astoria AGES: All WHAT: Spend the day cleaning the shoreline and monarch butterfly garden.

WANT TO GO? 646-404-4103. nycgovparks.org.

Rainbow Unicorn Paint Party Fundraiser

WHEN: Friday, April 26, 1-3:30pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Go step by step through the process of creating a unicorn painting.

WANT TO GO? $35. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Earth Day Beautification FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 27, 10am-2pm WHERE: Forest Park, Sobelsohn Playground, 80-30 Park Lane, Kew Gardens AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Earth Day with a volunteer day to beautify the gardens.

WANT TO GO? 718-235-4462. nycgovparks.org.

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WHEN: Through April 7: Mondays, 12:15-1pm; Wednesdays, 10:15-11:30am WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Enjoy songs, movement, finger plays, puppets, and other activities.

WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.

Koh ‘Mr. Saxman’ & John di Martino Trio

WHEN: Saturday, April 13, 8-10pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 13 and older WHAT: In celebration of the Thai New Year: Songkran, Thai saxophone legend Koh “Mr. Saxman” and pianist John di Martino Trio will perform.

WANT TO GO? $16; $10 members and students; free for teens. 718463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

Gemini Journey: Movie Music Magic!

WHEN: Sunday, April 14, 2pm WHERE: Voelker Orth Museum, 149-19 38th Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Diane Block, violinist, and Terry Batts, cellist, perform musical soundtracks from iconic films.

WANT TO GO? $12; $10 members and students. 718-359-6227. vomuseum.org.

Renee Rosnes Quartet

WHEN: Friday, April 26, 8-10pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Renee Rosnes is one of the premiere pianists and composers of her generation.

WANT TO GO? $25; $20 members and students; free for teens. 718463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

Music Appreciation for Kids FREE

WHEN: April 13-27, select Saturdays, 1-1:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, McGoldrick branch, 155-06 Roosevelt Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Listen to classical music and discuss the lives of the composers.

WANT TO GO? 718-461-1616. queenslibrary.org.

MOVERS & SHAKERS SPECIAL NEEDS Bilingual Birdies Presents Movin’ to Mandarin FREE

Sensory Storytime FREE

WHEN: Through April 10: Wednesdays, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Pomonok Library, 158-21 Jewel Ave., Flushing AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Get grooving to songs in both Mandarin and English!

WANT TO GO? 718-591-4343. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Monday, April 15, 12:15-1pm WHERE: Queens Library, Woodhaven Branch, 85-41 Forest Parkway, Woodhaven AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Participate in activities designed for children with sensory challenges.

WANT TO GO? 718-849-1010. queenslibrary.org.

World’s Fair Walking Tours FREE

NY Mets Autism Awareness Day

WHEN: Sunday, April 14, 11am-12pm and 1-2pm WHERE: Olmstead Center, 117-2 Roosevelt Ave., New York AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Enjoy a walking tour of World’s Fair sites in the park.

WANT TO GO? 718-760-6437. allianceforfmcp.org.

Beth Sholom Day Camp Open House FREE

WHEN: Sunday, April 14, 10am-1pm WHERE: Beth Sholom Day Camp, 401 Roslyn Road, Roslyn Heights AGES: All WHAT: BSDC has a 30-acre facility that features three heated pools, an adventure park, and a early childhood center. Campers participate in American Red Cross swim instruction, athletics, arts, STEM, and more.

WANT TO GO? 516-621-9257. bethsholomdaycamp.com.

Yoga Storytime FREE

WHEN: April 4-25, Thursdays, 3:30-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Court Square Branch, 25-01 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Read stories, sing songs, and do some simple yoga poses.

WANT TO GO? 718-937-2790. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Sunday, April 28, 1-4pm WHERE: Citi Field, 120-01 Roosevelt Ave., Corona AGES: All WHAT: With each ticket sold, Autism Speaks will receive a donation!

WANT TO GO? $25-$44. 718-507-8499. mlb.com.

Open Art Studio for Young Adults with Autism FREE

WHEN: Through June 2: select Sundays, 12-12:45pm, see website WHERE: Queens Museum, 111-01 Corona Ave., Flushing AGES: Adult WHAT: Participants work on projects of their choosing with mentors.

WANT TO GO? 718-592-9700. queensmuseum.org.

Circle of Friends for Autistic Children FREE

WHEN: Through June 21: 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Astoria Branch, 14-01 Astoria Blvd., Long Island City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Discover the wonders of science doing simple experiments, develop social skills, and have fun playing games.

WANT TO GO? 718-278-2220. queenslibrary.org. ››

Playdate for Infants and Toddlers FREE

WHEN: Through April 27: Saturdays, 11am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library, Howard Beach Branch, 92-06 156 Ave., Howard Beach AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Enjoy early development fun and socialization for babies.

WANT TO GO? 718-641-7086. queenslibrary.org.

Toy Time FREE

WHEN: Through April 30: Tuesdays, 1:30-2:15pm WHERE: Queens Library, Queens Village Branch, 94-11 217 St., Queens Village AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Play with toys and socialize with other tots!

WANT TO GO? queenslibrary.org.

NYRR Open Run: Astoria Park FREE

WHEN: Through June 1: Saturdays, 9-10am WHERE: Astoria Park, Astoria AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Enjoy a community-based, volunteer-led running initiative bringing free weekly runs and walks.

WANT TO GO? 646-404-4103. nycgovparks.org.

Ping Pong FREE

WHEN: Through June 27: Thursdays, 6-7pm WHERE: Queens Library, Cambria Heights Branch, 218-13 Linden Blvd., Cambria Heights AGES: All WHAT: Play Ping-Pong in the library with friends both old and new.

WANT TO GO? 718-528-3535. queenslibrary.org.

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ON SCREEN Movie Time: ‘Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone’ FREE

WHEN: Through April 26: 3-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: All WHAT: An afternoon of fun and adventure.

WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

Family Movie FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 12, 3:30-5:30pm WHERE: Pomonok Library, 158-21 Jewel Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Join for a movie for children and their caregivers.

WANT TO GO? 718-591-4343. queenslibrary.org.

Discover the Spider-Verse Virtual Field Trip Showing FREE

WHEN: Thursday, April 18, 3-3:45pm WHERE: Queens Library, Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Watch and discuss this behind-the-scenes 30-minute STEM video.

WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

Earth Day Movie: ‘Arctic Tale’ FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Queens Library, Court Square Branch, 25-01 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: This nature study is about a polar bear and walrus and the challenges they face growing up in the North Pole.

WANT TO GO? 718-937-2790. queenslibrary.org.

Family Movie: ‘Charlotte’s Web’ FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 23, 2-4pm WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a family screening of Charlotte’s Web. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.

Cinema Saturdays FREE

WHEN: April 6-27, Saturdays, 2:30-4:30pm WHERE: Forest Hills Library, 108-19 71 Ave., Forest Hills AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Movies include Mary Poppins Returns and A Dog’s Way Home.

WANT TO GO? 718-268-7934. queenslibrary.org.

‘Planet Power 3D’

WHEN: Through June 30: daily, 1-3pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Planet Power 3D explores the history of electricity—from the first spark created by man’s hand to today’s industrial power plants.

WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children, students, and seniors (with NYSCI admission); $4 members. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

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WHEN: Tuesday, April 2, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about birds and make bird feeders.

WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

Wednesday Craft Series FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 3, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Hillcrest, 187-05 Union Turnpike, Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Have fun crafting.

WANT TO GO? 718-454-2786. queenslibrary.org.

Poetry Month: Poem In Your Pocket Wall FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 3, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Rosedale Branch, 144-20 243 St., Rosedale AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate National Poetry Month and create pockets containing hidden poems.

WANT TO GO? 718-528-8490. queenslibrary.org.

Native American Folktale and Craft FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 3, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Poppenhusen Branch, 121-23 14 Ave., College Point AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Hear a Native-American folktale and do a related activity.

WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.

Hands on History: Weave a Potholder or Placemat! FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 6, 1-4pm WHERE: King Manor Museum, 150-03 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Try hand weaving, then card real wool inside the museum and get it ready to be spun.

WANT TO GO? 718-206-0545. kingmanor.org/events.

Flower Pot Painting FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, April 9, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Arverne, 312 Beach 54 St., Arverne AGES: All WHAT: Embrace spring by decorating clay flowerpots.

WANT TO GO? 718-634-4784. queenslibrary.org.

Celebrate National Library Week: Design Your Own Bookmark Craft FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 10, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Hillcrest, 187-05 Union Turnpike, Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Create a bookmark with your favorite book, character, or design.

WANT TO GO? 718-454-2786. queenslibrary.org.

Crafternoon FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 10, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Rosedale Branch, 144-20 243 St., Rosedale AGES: All WHAT: Make arts and crafts to take home.

WANT TO GO? 718-528-8490. queenslibrary.org.

Urban Comics Workshop FREE

Picture Book/Storytime FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 12, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Cambria Heights Branch, 218-13 Linden Blvd., Cambria Heights AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn how to draw street style.

WANT TO GO? 718-528-3535. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Through April 24: Wednesdays, 11am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library, Rosedale Branch, 144-20 243 St., Rosedale AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy a picture book reading, interlaced with music, finger plays, dancing, and arts and crafts.

WANT TO GO? 718-528-8490. queenslibrary.org.

Spider-Man Day At Queensboro Hill FREE

Toddler Craft FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 12, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Queensboro Hill Branch, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Learn about the animation of Spider-Man: Into the Spider-Verse and parallel universes, then design your own Spider-Mask.

WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332. queenslibrary.org.

Spring Craft for Kids FREE

WHEN: Saturday, April 13, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: All WHAT: Join for spring craft ideas.

WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Through April 24: Wednesdays, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library, Queens Village Branch, 94-11 217 St., Queens Village AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Children and their parents and caregivers are welcome to make a craft.

WANT TO GO? queenslibrary.org.

Beading Bonanza FREE

WHEN: April 4-25, Thursdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Poppenhusen Branch, 121-23 14 Ave., College Point AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Create bracelets, necklaces, and more with colorful beads.

WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.

Crochet for Kids FREE

Children’s Museum of the Arts: Culture Craft FREE

WHEN: April 8-May 20, Mondays, 5-5:45pm WHERE: Queens Library, Hillcrest, 187-05 Union Turnpike, Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn the basics of single crochet, finger crocheting, or try out new stitches.

WANT TO GO? 718-454-2786. queenslibrary.org.

Magical Unicorns FREE

WHEN: April 6- June 1, select Saturdays, 1-2pm WHERE: Queens Library, Corona Branch, 38-23 104 St., Corona AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Visual artists and poets introduce students to creative exercises to be bound into a book.

WANT TO GO? 718-426-2844. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Monday, April 15, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Pomonok Branch, 158-21 Jewel Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Welcome the Children’s Museum of the Arts for a fun culture craft.

WANT TO GO? 718-591-4343. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, April 17, 5-5:45pm WHERE: Queens Library, Hillcrest, 187-05 Union Turnpike, Flushing AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Explore unicorns through fun activities and a craft.

WANT TO GO? 718-454-2786. queenslibrary.org.

Rabbit/Earth Day Arts & Crafts Project FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 19, 3:30-4:15pm WHERE: Queens Library, Briarwood Branch, 85-12 Main St., Briarwood AGES: All WHAT: Create a special project for Earth Day. WANT TO GO? 718-658-1680. queenslibrary.org.

Earth Day Craft FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 2-3pm WHERE: Hollis Library, 202-05 Hillside Ave., Hollis AGES: All WHAT: Have fun with an Earth Day craft!

WANT TO GO? 718-465-7355. queenslibrary.org.

Celebrate Earth Day with Up-cycled Crafts FREE

WHEN: Monday, April 22, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: All WHAT: Make flowers and other crafts using recycled materials.

WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.

Celebrate Earth Day: Recycled Materials Craft FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, April 24, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Hillcrest, 187-05 Union Turnpike, Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Use recycled materials such as paper tubes, gallon water jugs, and more.

WANT TO GO? 718-454-2786. queenslibrary.org.

Youth Book Creation Workshop with Libro Abierto/Open Book FREE

Knit and Crochet Circle FREE

WHEN: Through June 24: Mondays, 6-7pm WHERE: Queens Library, Poppenhusen Branch, 121-23 14 Ave., College Point AGES: All WHAT: Learn to knit, get help with projects, share patterns and techniques, or have an enjoyable chat as you work on your projects.

WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.

Coloring Time FREE

WHEN: Through June 29: Saturdays, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Poppenhusen Branch, 121-23 14 Ave., College Point AGES: All WHAT: Relax and make new friends while having fun with family coloring time.

WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.

Moving Image Studio

WHEN: April 6-Sept. 1, weekends, 11am-4pm (no session April 7) WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Experiment with puppet making and animation inspired by The Jim Henson Exhibition.

WANT TO GO? $15; $11 seniors; $9 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3. 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

Nail Polish Workshop FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 5-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Ridgewood Branch, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: All WHAT: Design and polish your own nails or have them done for you.

WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org. ›› QueensParent 43

ANIMAL LOVERS Read to a Dog FREE

WHEN: Thursday, April 4, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: North Hills Library, 57-04 Marathon Parkway, Little Neck AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children can read aloud to Jami, a certified therapy pet partner.

WANT TO GO? 718-225-3550. queenslibrary.org.

Pajama Story Time: Spring Has Sprung

WHEN: Friday, April 12, 5:30-8pm WHERE: Queens Zoo, 3-51 111th St., Flushing AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Spend an evening with animals, crafts, games, cookies and milk, and a great story.

WANT TO GO? $20. 800-433-4149. queenszoo.com/programs.

Pet CPR & First Aid

WHEN: Tuesday, April 23, 4-8pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Learn lifesaving skills needed to save your pet in an emergency.

WANT TO GO? $65. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Animal Care Club

WHEN: Wednesday, April 24, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Enjoy the spring air with animals and learn the responsibility of being an animal caretaker.

WANT TO GO? $17. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Birds & Bunnies

WHEN: Wednesday, April 24, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 2-5 WHAT: Celebrate spring with live animal guests, a nature hike, a craft, and a springtime book.

WANT TO GO? $21. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

‘Flight of the Butterflies 3D’

WHEN: Through June 30: daily, 11am and 1pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Follow the monarchs’ perilous journey and join hundreds of real butterflies in the remote mountain peaks of Mexico, with breathtaking cinematography from Peter Parks.

WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children, students, and seniors. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Sea Lion Feeding

WHEN: Through Jan. 31, 2020: daily, 11:15am, 2pm, and 4pm WHERE: Queens Zoo, 53-51 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: See the sea lions get their meals and maybe do a trick or two!

WANT TO GO? $9.95; $7.95 seniors ages 65 and older; $6.95 children ages 3-12; Free for children 2 and younger. 718-271-1500. queenszoo.com.

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DANCE PARTY

Multicultural Dance with Madeline Hoak FREE

WHEN: Thursday, April 4, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, South Jamaica Branch, 108-41 Guy R. Brewer Blvd., South Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Children will enjoy different dances.

WANT TO GO? 718-739-4088. queenslibrary.org.

Arts, Culture & Fun: City Center On the Move FREE

WHEN: Friday, April 5, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Lost Battalion Hall Recreation Center, 93-29 Queens Blvd., Rego Park AGES: All WHAT: Bronx-born tap artist Ayodele Casel will be joined by dancers and musicians.

WANT TO GO? 718-263-1163. nycgovparks.org.

Global Mashup 3: Latin Boogaloo Meets Klezmer

WHEN: Saturday, April 6, 8-10pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Starting with dance lessons, each band plays a set, then the two meet and jam.

WANT TO GO? $16; $10 members and students; free for teens. 718-4637700. flushingtownhall.org.

Gotta Dance- Kids Edition!

WHEN: Through April 13: Saturdays, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Queensborough Performing Arts Center, 222-05 56th Ave., Bayside AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Participate in a new dance workout.

WANT TO GO? $5. 718-631-6311. visitqpac.org.

Global Mashup 4: Bluegrass Meets Cuba

WHEN: Saturday, April 20, 7pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Square dance with bluegrass and dance to Afro-Cuban rhythms.

WANT TO GO? $16; $10 members and students; free for teens.

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Has Sprung

Now that it’s finally warming up, you can take this time to enjoy all the best parts of the season: the blooming flowers, the not-toohot and not-too-cold weather, and, of course, spring break. While the kids are out of school you can take a family trip to a botanical garden to revel in the newly sprouted greenery, or a take a ride on the wild side with a carousel. On a sunny day, you can “putt” each other to the test with a friendly game of mini golf! And if the April showers seem unending you can try for a strike at a bowling alley!

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Battery Park (entrance at State and Water streets), Lower Manhattan 212-344-3491; seaglasscarousel.nyc Hours: Monday-Friday, 10am-7pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-8pm Price: $5 This aquatic-themed carousel is made entirely of glass and steel and features 30 sea creatures under color-changing LED lights, designed to make you feel like you are in an underwater garden.

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30-05 Whitestone Expressway, Whitestone 718-353-6300; whitestonebowlinglanes.com Hours: Open 24 hours Price: Varies The venue features 48 lanes, a snack bar, VIP lounge, and party area.

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ZOOS, NATURE CENTERS, AND BOTANICAL GARDENS

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Forest Park

Rocket Park Mini Golf

Myrtle Avenue, Union Turnpike, Park Lane South between BrooklynQueens County Line and Park Lane, Forest Hills/Woodhaven 718-235-0815; nycgovparks.org/parks/Q015 Hours: Dawn to dusk, unless otherwise posted Admission: Free, excluding golf course and carousel rides.

In this large, multi-neighborhood park, there is a golf course, carousel ($3 per ride), seven playgrounds, a picnic area, hiking trails, and a walking and bike trail that weaves through the entire park. Visitors can also explore the park on horseback.

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New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona 718-699-0005 x365; nysci.org Hours: April-October: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; SaturdaySunday, 10am-6pm; November: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-4pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-4pm (weather permitting) Price: NYSCI general admission, plus $6; $5 children and seniors Two real NASA rockets loom in the background of this 9-hole course, which is designed to teach golfers ages 6 and older how the same laws of motion and gravity that guide the path of a spaceship control the motion of golf balls here on Earth.

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Parents of children with special needs must plan for the years ahead in important ways.

Here’s where to begin. By Christina Vercelletto

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arenting is challenging no matter what. But as Nicole Johnson of Port Washington in Nassau County puts it, “parenting a severely disabled child is just very different. Our concerns are not ordinary.”

Johnson’s daughter, Josie, 7, has FOXG1 syndrome, a neurological disorder caused by a mutation in the FOXG1 gene.

“I worry about lifting her as she gets older,” Johnson continues.

“She’s 50 pounds, and it’s getting very hard.” Josie could have a life-threatening seizure at any time, so “it’s critical she is always with someone. I worry about her care,” shares Johnson, who is a co-founder of the FOXG1 Research Foundation.

Johnson’s worries about how her child will be taken care of when she’s no longer able to do it are likely familiar to many parents of children with special needs. Exactly what legal and financial steps need to be taken to ensure your child’s care and well-being down the road will be dictated by the specifics of your family’s situation and your child’s diagnosis.

A one-size-fits-all approach doesn’t exist, but consulting with an attorney who specializes in estate and guardianship law to discuss your unique situation is an essential step. Seeking the guidance of a financial planner with expertise in family matters could also be necessary. Given the personal, emotional nature of the topics you’ll 46

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be discussing, it’s important you feel very much at ease with him or her. If you enlist a large firm, make sure the person you first met with and liked is actually the one who will be working with you through the conclusion of the process.

When you’ve selected your planning “team,” prepare to discuss these key points, and go to your initial meetings with a list of specific questions in hand.

Government Services

Is Social Security Income (SSI), Social Security Disability Insurance (SSDI), Medicaid, or any other state or federal benefit available to your child, and what are the respective qualifications to receive them? This is the first thing to look into, and ask your attorney about, says Wendy Gildin, a special education lawyer in Garden City.

Income and Asset Limitations

Is there a limit to how much money your child can have in his or her name in order to receive the maximum amount of available benefits and services? “The answer is yes for many. For example, to qualify for SSI, your child must have less than two thousand dollars in assets,” Gilden explains. And it’s about more

than financial concerns. You will likely want to make sure there would be the least upset to your child’s current arrangements as possible, adds Naomi Becker Collier, Esq., of Pashman Stein in Purchase. Losing benefits can necessitate switching caregivers and disrupt your child’s routine.

Special Needs (or Supplemental Need) Trusts

Setting up a SNT for the benefit of the child with special needs is vital, says Michelle Peretz, counsel to Rivkin Radler’s Trusts & Estates Practice Group, with offices in Manhattan and Uniondale.

“By utilizing a special needs trust, you can protect the assets from claims and creditors, while retaining the disabled child’s eligibility for government services. Then the funds are used to pay expenses,” Peretz says. “Note, though, that the money in the trust cannot be given outright to the beneficiary, but [only] be used to pay expenses on their behalf.”

Try to set up a budget for your dependent’s needs, so you can get a rough estimate of what those expenses would be. “Once you have an idea of how much money will be needed for him or her, then you can evaluate how you are going to fund that need in a trust,” Collier says.

Guardians and Trustees

Consider carefully who will be the people to provide support for your child, Gildin urges. “Some adults with disabilities will require a guardian who has the legal ability to make decisions for him or her, while someone [else] may need to act as a trustee to oversee the special needs trust,” Gildin says.

She encourages parents to involve their child in this planning process as much as is practical.

Trustees have complete control of the finances and assets in the SNT. Parents do not need to give this control over to one relative or close friend; they can choose co-trustees instead. Peretz recommends three: “This will avoid the autonomy associated with having one trustee appointed, and the potential for deadlocks between an even number of trustees,” she explains.

Guardians, rather than controlling the financial side of your child’s life, will make decisions such as living arrangements, doctor selection, and transportation arrangements. Although it can be helpful if a trustee is also the guardian, Peretz notes, it’s quite possible that a person perfectly suited to making financial decisions isn’t necessarily the ideal caretaker. If you do decide to split up those responsibilities, make sure the respective parties’ temperaments and perspectives on such practical matters align. You may love and trust both your sister and your childhood best friend, but if the two don’t usually see eye-to-eye, it may not be wise to pair them in these important roles.

it’s smart to have health care proxies and related directives in place, she adds.

Properly Executed Life Insurance

Parents should make sure life insurance will be payable to the special needs trust, not directly paid out to the child, which could negate any government benefits for him or her. Lou Cannataro, partner at Cannataro Park Avenue Financial in Manhattan, advises purchasing separate life insurance policies for the spouse and any other children in the family. He points to “second to die” coverage as the most efficient life insurance for this type of situation. “Second to die is one policy that covers both parents.

There is no payout until the second parent dies, for typically this is when the child is truly on their own.”

Planning for a child’s future is important for all parents, but for parents of a child with special needs, the conversation is taken to another level. “We all nurture and plan for our child with the hope that our responsibility wanes once they begin to build their own lives,” Cannataro observes. “For parents with a [child with special needs], this role never ends.” So, while thinking ahead to a time when you won’t be able to care for your child as you do now is unsettling, even overwhelming, the best thing you can do for your child, and your own peace of mind, is to get started now.

Christina Vercelletto is a former editor at NYMetroParents, Parenting, Scholastic Parent & Child, and Woman’s Day. She lives on Long Island with her kids, a chiweenie, Pickles, and a 20-pound calico, Chub-Chub.

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Your will is where you name your child’s trustee(s) and guardian. Once you decide on them, it is crucial to consult your attorney to make sure your will is executed properly, and any and all beneficiary designations are spelled out as they should be, Collier says.

A durable power of attorney appoints the individuals who can act on your behalf while you are still alive. “This is a very powerful tool to ensure that your child is taken care of should you become incapacitated,” says Nadine Gordon Lee, a certified financial planner with the Colony Group Family Offices in Manhattan and Armonk. For much the same reason,

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56 Bruceville Road, High Falls 855-707-2267 camphuntington.com dfalk@camphuntington.com Camp Huntington is a coed, residential summer camp for children and young adults with autism, related developmental and learning disabilities, and ADD. Ability levels mild to moderate-severe. Located in High Falls in the beautiful Catskill Mountain region, the camp provides therapeutically and instructionally designed recreation programs in summer.

Comprehensive Consultation Psychological Services, P.C.

1-888-441-0015 Queens location: 114-20 Queens Blvd., Suite CS 2, Forest Hills Manhattan location: 180 E. 79th St., Suite 1C, Upper East Side comprehendthemind.com Comprehensive Consultation Psychological Services, P.C. is a group of school psychologists and neuro-psychologists who diagnose and assess a variety of conditions. They perform neuropsychological, educational, speech and language, and psychiatric evaluations to help you understand your child’s strengths and weaknesses, and plan for his/her educational success and emotional wellbeing.

Elsa Lee, Ph.D. licensed psychologist

254-18 Northern Blvd., Suite 3, Little Neck 646-389-2283 queenspsychology.com contact@queenspsychology.com Dr. Lee is a licensed psychologist who has

more than 10 years of clinical experience working with children and adults in clinical and educational settings. Services include neuropsychological assessments, psychoeducational evaluations, and psychotherapy. Specialize in testing and conditions including ADHD, learning difficulties, depression, and anxiety. Some insurance plans accepted.

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108-21 72nd Ave.,4th floor, Forest Hills 718-268-2280 allstarstudiosnyc.com allstarstudios@gmail.com New to dance? Interested in trying different genres? Maybe your dancer only takes one style of dance class during the year and is curious about other styles? Our Summer Intensive is a great way to help your child become a well-rounded dancer. The three-day August intensive is for preteens and teens.

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718-847-6470 bluedolphincamp.com bluedolphincamp@aol.com Blue Dolphin Summer Camp is a place where friends return each summer to rekindle the magic and spirit unique to Blue Dolphin.

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Camp Kids ‘N Comedy at The Gotham Comedy Club

gardenschool.org gardenschool.org/programs/summer On-site pool with certified lifeguards, full- and half-day schedules for all campers, lunch and snack, and program variety make Garden Summer Camp the best camp in Queens! Ages 1½–13! Camp offers a variety of activities including sports, crafts, swim, themes, and a game room. Extended day, and transportation available.

Hillcrest Jewish Center Day Camp

183-02 Union Turnpike, Flushing 718-380-4145 hjcdaycamp.org daycamp@hillcrestjc.org The Hillcrest Jewish Center Day Camp offers tweens and young teens ages 11-14 a variety of exciting programs. All groups go on three age-appropriate outings every week. Our age 14 group is enrolled in our CIT (Counselor in Training) program with the hopes of one day gaining employment at the camp.

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Archbishop Molloy High School

68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 718-366-7454 Ages: 3-16 ctkny.org; jmichel@ctkny.org Christ the King has four exciting summer camps including soccer, basketball, dance, and drama.

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101 Oak St., Uniondale 516-463-CAMP (2267) hofstra.edu/academics/ce/ summer-camp/index.html hofstra.edu/camps ce-camps@hofstra.edu Hofstra Summer Camps’ partnership with Nassau BOCES gives high school students the opportunity to explore potential career paths all summer long at the Nassau BOCES Barry Tech Center. Course options include Aviation, Audio, Video, and Graphic Design, Construction Trade, Culinary Arts, STEM, and Veterinary Science.

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Laurissa Jane Music Summer Arts Camp

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Magic Day Camp

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Mill Basin Day Camp

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Oasis Day Camp

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Soccer Friends USA, Inc.

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St. Francis Preparatory School – Summer at SFP

6100 Francis Lewis Blvd., Fresh Meadows 718-423-8810 x223 sfponline.org Each summer St. Francis Prep offers a broad, varied program to benefit students who are not yet in high school. These programs, taught by Prep teachers and coaches, range from sports camps such as basketball, baseball, and volleyball, to special interest areas, such as music theater and video game design.

Ultimate Enrichment Summer Camp

P.S. 376, 210-21 48th Ave., Bayside 718-684-1187 uecamps.com Ultimate Enrichment Summer Camp located in the Bayside area makes it an enjoyable, educational, fun-filled summer where the child can grow into a well-rounded individual. All children will participate in theater, dance, art, robotics, engineering, swim, sports, cooking, and academic enrichment. Register now at uecamps.com or call 718-684-1187.

USTA Billie Jean King National Tennis Center

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The Windsor School

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All Star Studio............................................................................31 American Dance & Drama ........................................................10 Archbishop Molloy High School - Summer Camp ....................39 Bilingual Birdies LI-Queens ......................................................30 Blue Dolphin Summer Day Camp .............................................41 Christ the King Continuing Education .......................................55 Countryside Montessori School ................................................17 Further Music Studio ................................................................55 Garden School ..........................................................................17 Hillcrest Jewish Center Day Camp ...........................................55 Hofstra Summer Camps ...........................................................12 Istein..........................................................................................51 Ivy Day School ..........................................................................21 Jack -N- Jill Nursery .................................................................55 JEI Learning Systems Inc. - Queens ........................................64 Kids ‘N Comedy ........................................................................31 Laurissa Jane Music Summer Arts Camp ................................53 Magic Day Camp ....................................................................5, 7 Metrokids Preschool .................................................................21 Mill Basin Day Camp ................................................................23 Mommy Music & Me Inc. ..........................................................29 Oasis Children Services .............................................................2 Rose Academy of Ballet ...........................................................19 Sam’s Camp and Swim Club.....................................................22 School of American Ballet .........................................................27 Soccer Friends, USA Inc...........................................................30 St. Francis Preparatory School .................................................26 Tiny Footsteps...........................................................................27 Ultimate Enrichment Summer Camp ........................................23 USTA BJK National Tennis Center ...........................................25 Wildlife Conservation Society ...................................................53 Windsor School (The) ...............................................................25 World of Discovery Camp .........................................................31 YMCA of Greater New York ......................................................51 Young People’s Day Camps - Queens .....................................63

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Ivy Day School ..........................................................................21 Jack -N- Jill Nursery .................................................................55 Metrokids Preschool .................................................................21 Mommybites..............................................................................59 Sam’s Camp and Swim Club.....................................................22 Tiny Footsteps...........................................................................27

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Kids ‘N Comedy ........................................................................31 LIU Center for Gifted Youth.......................................................60 YMCA of Greater New York ......................................................51

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All Star Studio............................................................................31 American Dance & Drama ........................................................10 Christ the King Continuing Education .......................................55 Rose Academy of Ballet ...........................................................19 School of American Ballet .........................................................27

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Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech.............................49, 60 Kids ‘N Comedy ........................................................................31 Little Steps 1 Inc .......................................................................11 Marra & Glick Applied Behavior Analysts .................................15

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Istein..........................................................................................51 Ivy Day School ..........................................................................21 Jack -N- Jill Nursery .................................................................55 JEI Learning Systems Inc. - Queens ........................................64 LIU Center for Gifted Youth.......................................................60 Marra & Glick Applied Behavior Analysts .................................15 Metrokids Preschool .................................................................21 Our World Neighborhood School ..............................................19 Sam’s Camp and Swim Club.....................................................22 Sherald Anita ............................................................................48 St. Mary Elementary School .....................................................31 Tiny Footsteps...........................................................................27 Windsor School (The) ...............................................................25

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Bilingual Birdies LI-Queens ......................................................30 Further Music Studio ................................................................55 Istein..........................................................................................51 Laurissa Jane Music Summer Arts Camp ................................53 Mommy Music & Me Inc. ..........................................................29 St. Francis Preparatory School .................................................26

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Laurissa Jane Music Summer Arts Camp ................................53 Ultimate Enrichment Summer Camp ........................................23

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Comprehensive Consultation Psychological ..............................9 Huntington Learning Center .....................................................13 Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech.............................49, 60 Little Steps 1 Inc .......................................................................11 Marra & Glick Applied Behavior Analysts .................................15 Sherald Anita ............................................................................48

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Archbishop Molloy High School - Summer Camp ....................39 Blue Dolphin Summer Day Camp .............................................41 Christ the King Continuing Education .......................................55 Hillcrest Jewish Center Day Camp ...........................................55 Magic Day Camp ....................................................................5, 7 Soccer Friends, USA Inc...........................................................30 St. Francis Preparatory School .................................................26 Ultimate Enrichment Summer Camp ........................................23 USTA BJK National Tennis Center ...........................................25 Whitestone Lanes .....................................................................29 World of Discovery Camp .........................................................31

theater

Archbishop Molloy High School - Summer Camp ....................39 St. Francis Preparatory School .................................................26

tutors

Huntington Learning Center .....................................................13 Sherald Anita ............................................................................48 Windsor School (The) ...............................................................25

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I Will Not Fail This Child ›› How I turned a tragedy into opportunities for young adults with special needs By Stella L Spanakos

W

hen people ask what it’s like to have a child with special needs, my response is: It’s like dark chocolate, bittersweet. My beautiful, healthy, 9-pound baby boy was diagnosed with autism at age 3, from that day forward a revolving door of therapists came to our home every day until 6pm.

To make matters worse, Nicholas never developed speech and started having seizures at age 17.

When Nicholas was young, we wanted to believe he would “outgrow” autism, or science would find a “cure” for the diagnosis. But, as the years passed and reality set in, we started dealing better with the “what is” and “what needs to happen.”

Three years before Nicholas was going to transition from high school to the real world, I started looking toward the next chapter of his life. What were his options? Day-hab, residential, supported employment? I visited many programs but started crying when I returned to my car after the tour. A tsunami of young adults on the autism spectrum would be transitioning in three years, with more going forward every year and New York state was most definitely not prepared.

To discuss Nicholas’ future with my husband was painful. He could not accept that we had to carve out a different future for our son; one without a driver’s license, college, marriage, children, and grandchildren, but one that needed much thought and financial planning. Autism broke my husband’s heart, and then my heart was broken for a second time on June 7, 2010 when my husband boarded a business flight to Vegas, suffered a massive heart attack, and died at the age of 55.

Kobi Yamada wrote a book called What Do You Do with a Chance? The moral of the story is, when given a chance, you always take it “because it just might be the start of something incredible.” And that’s precisely what I did.

I had an opportunity to make the worst day of my life become

Stella L. Spanakos with her son Nicholas, who was diagnosed with autism at the age of 3

the beginning of something incredible to help Nicholas, his classmates, and many others. I decided to close my husband’s business, sell everything, and use the proceeds from his life insurance to start the Nicholas Center and Spectrum Designs Foundation, both located in Port Washington. The Nicholas Center supports individuals with autism to lead full and productive lives in the community. Spectrum Designs Foundation is an apparel customizing business, specializing in screen printing, DTG (Direct to Garment), and embroidery.

My co-founders, Nicole Sugrue and Patrick Bardsley, and I experimented with our first DTG machine in my barn and never looked back.

The relationship between the Nicholas Center and Spectrum Designs is the perfect example of how business can work with agencies to support employees with intellectual disabilities.

Eighty percent of individuals with disabilities are unemployed but very capable of work.

We started with both organizations in the same building, and one DTG machine printing 75 T-shirts a day. I used to pray that I could pay the bills and support our payroll during our first two years but as the saying goes: “build it and they will come,” and so they did.

At the close of 2018, just eight years after opening our doors, Nicholas Center serves 85 families with vocational and community experiences, and Spectrum Designs’ client list has grown to include Uber, Google, NYU Langone Medical Center, Northwell Health, St. John’s University Law School, Town of North Hempstead, and MTA Metro-North. Spectrum Designs has impacted the lives of 70 individuals and their families and created more than 15,000 paid hours of meaningful work for individuals with autism.

Stella L. Spanakos co-founded The Nicholas Center Ltd., where she is the director of development, and Spectrum Designs Foundation. For more information about the Nicholas Center and Spectrum Designs Foundation, or to help change the world “one t-shirt at a time,” visit nicholascenterusa.org or spectrumdesigns.org.

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