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back to school 10 Shopping Smart for Supplies 14 Beyond the Bell 16 Raising Independent Teens

Where Fantasy Rules

Immerse yourself in a 16th-century Elizabethan village at the New York Renaissance Faire!

Homeowner’s Insurance Check

Experts weigh in on which life events warrant an immediate review.

18 Back-to-School Directory 22 After-School At-a-Glance

23 Choose the Best After-School Activity for Your Child 24 Education Planner

Barefoot and Better for It

One mom discovers that incorporating ‘yoga speak’ in her daily life is good for her family.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 12 Benefits of Sharing a Nanny 26 We Asked, You Delivered 45 Meet the Health Care Professional 50 Party Central 51 Professional Services 53 Family Resource Guide & Advertisers’ Index 54 Barefoot and Better for It

27 Family Activities Calendar

44 Plotting Your Return

40 Summer Classics

46 Homeowner’s Insurance Check

42 Where Fantasy Rules

48 Staying on Budget

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Summer’s Out, School’s In

t feels like the summer just started and the kids were sent to their first days of camp. Believe it or not, though, right now is when many parents start thinking about the back-to-school season. Specifically, when’s the right time to enroll your child in an after-school activity—and which one should you choose (I was a band kid, flute and piccolo)? If you’re feeling stumped, or it seems like your child has multiple intrests and not enough time, you’ll want to check out our quiz on p. 23, which will help determine the type of activity best suited to your child. There’s also plenty of advice in “Beyond the Bell” (p. 14), which outlines when your child may be ready for an after-school class and how many he can likely handle. You’ll also find a guide of back-to-school resources, including after-school classes, schools, and resources for the season (p. 18). The back-to-school season was always my favorite time of year, transitioning from shorts and tanks to jeans and flannel—and stocking up on fresh school supplies (I still have a problem with buying too many Post-it Notes, pencils, and notebooks). One of my nieces seems to have the same gene; she had stocked up on all of her school supplies by the time we celebrated July 4! If the thought of spending a lot of money on school supplies makes you groan, read the saving tips from Joanie Demer, co-founder of The Krazy Coupon Lady, on p. 10. While we’re already thinking of the summer ending, there’s still plenty of time to take advantage of the last days of warm weather. The Renaissance Faire is coming back to the area in mid-August (p. 42), there are plenty of kid-friendly events going on this month (p. 27), and maybe it’s time to take a day trip to explore the suburbs. However you’re taking advantage of the last days of summer, we hope you make the most of them.

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Who: Lisa Macbeth What’s New: Financing Baby, a series of seminars introducing families to financial planning, which launched in June. Seminars are held once monthly across various NYC neighborhoods. In each two-day session, Macbeth covers crucial financial topics, including what happens if a family member becomes ill, how to pay for school and college, how to transfer wealth, how to take advantage of tax deductions, and life insurance. The next seminar will take place over two sessions on Aug. 14 and 16 from 10-11:30am. Topics will be relevant to families of all income levels. Anyone, from first-time moms and dads to parents with multiple children, is welcome to attend. Want More Info: lisa_macbeth@natfin.com; financingbabylic.eventbrite.com; 646-726-8332

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Who: Bee You Art Studio What’s New: Bee You Paint Parties, which began in June, and weekly summer camps, which began July 2. Parties are open to groups of eight or more and offer 2 hours of refreshments. Partygoers will learn to paint a painting of their choosing. Canvases and supplies are included in the registration fee. The weekly summer camps are available Monday-Friday from 10am-1pm. Each week has a different theme. During dessert week, kids paint pastries and dip pretzels into chocolate, and during tie-dye week, they play with various dyes and designs. Want More Info: 3243 Francis Lewis Blvd., Bayside; 646-7255516; beeyouartstudio.com; beeyouartstudio@gmail.com 8

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Shopping Smart for Supplies

very year the list seems to get longer: two bulk packs of Sharpies (thin points, please); Post-it Notes in assorted sizes, eight glue sticks. Parents can blow through hundreds of dollars on school supplies—and that’s before buying lunchboxes, new shoes, and backpacks. Joanie Demer, co-founder of The Krazy Coupon Lady, a leading money-saving site, shares savvy tips for back-to-school shopping. If you want to save big, she says, after school starts in the fall is the ideal time to buy for the following year. If you can’t plan a full year in advance, however, there are plenty of other ways to save on supplies. Host a Swap Send your elementary school-age kids on a scavenger hunt to find pencils, notebooks, crayons, and folders—anything that could be used at school—hiding around the house. Then invite some other parents and children over to trade unneeded supplies for the ones they can use. It’s a win-win! Watch for Penny Deals At this time of year, stores are known to sell school supplies as “loss leaders,” meaning they’re priced so low the store loses money on them. Stores do this to lure you into buying pricier items while you’re shopping. At Staples, for example, you can often get up to eight

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pencils for 1 cent. “The trick is to just buy the pencils and then walk away!” Demer says. Shop Around Comparison shop to find the best prices on the items you need. For instance, perhaps you “buy spiral notebooks, crayons, and glue sticks from Walmart, ballpoint pens and scissors at Target, and Dixon Ticonderoga pencils on Amazon,” Demer suggests. And don’t overlook dollar stores. They tend to be a great yearround source for name-brand supplies—think Crayola crayons, Elmer’s glue, Bic pens—at a lower cost than big box stores. Try Online Tricks There are a few online services that can help you save, Demer suggests. When you shop online through Paribus, it tracks the items you purchase and will help you get money back when the price drops. And when you shop via sites such as Ebates and RetailMeNot, you can earn up to 10 percent of your purchase in cash back from various retailers. Double Up If you see a great deal on basics from brand names, buy extra. You may need to replenish your kid’s stash mid-year. Plus, it’s likely that whatever is on this year’s list will be needed for next year too.

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The Benefits of Sharing a Nanny

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hat if we told you about a child care situation that provided more individualized attention than a day care—at a lower cost? Sound too good to be true? A nanny share, quite simply, is when two or more families share a nanny. It’s an arrangement with many benefits. Here are the top three:

Significant Savings

The cost is usually the nanny’s hourly rate, plus an extra fee, the total of which should be split between the families equally (based on the number of children from each family the nanny cares for). With this arrangement, each family pays less than they would alone, while the nanny gets a slightly higher salary.

Personalized Environment

Your child gets more individualized attention, plus a nanny share allows your little one to socialize with other kids. The smaller group size will ensure each child is well cared for. Bonus: Fewer children means less germs—and less chaos—than in your typical day care classroom.

Flexibility

A nanny share allows you much greater flexibility than a day care center or group provider. Staying late at work? Need someone to take your child to swim lessons? Having another baby? These are all things nannies are typically able (and willing) to take on—even in a share. A successful nanny share definitely takes a lot of advance planning and coordination, but it can be an excellent solution if you’re lucky enough to find the perfect nanny and a great family willing to share.

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Beyond the Bell

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Choosing after-school activities for your children can make your head spin—art or theater, sports or chess, STEM or dance? Experts weigh in to help you determine which—and how many— extracurriculars to enroll your child in. By Anja Webb

ith the dizzying array of options—from academic enrichment to sports teams to special interest programs—how can you be sure you’ve found the right extracurriculars for your kid without spending a fortune going from activity to activity? Local after-school activity directors, moms, and child psychologists share their tips when it comes to finding the right program.

The Benefits

While after-school classes are often seen as a means of beefing up resumes for college, there are many other advantages. One key perk is the opportunity for kids to socialize. In between classes at Studio B Dance Center in Eastchester, for example, students “sit together in their group. We don’t let them take their phones out, and they just talk for a few minutes in between the classes. It kind of develops these friendships and making eye contact and interacting,” says Nancy Solomon, owner of the dance school. “After-school activities provide an ideal environment in which to nurture social skills and confidence,” adds Shawna Stewart, program accounts specialist at MakerState LLC, a STEM enrichment program in Manhattan. “Numerous extracurricular activities work to teach children the value of working as a team to achieve a mutual goal—a skill that will benefit them in their future occupations.” Extracurriculars can also increase positive emotions and feelings of accomplishment. “By doing the recital and being part of it, they experience a lot of self-confidence and self-esteem,” Solomon says. Plus, “it teaches them listening skills and respecting adults… independence, how to make friends, how to share,” she adds. And each activity offers different benefits as well. “The benefits 14

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of STEM enrichment specifically are fostering ingenuity and creativity, teaching problem-solving, building resilience, and encouraging experimentation, teamwork, knowledge application, tech use, and adaption,” Stewart says. The experiences kids have in their extracurricular classes can help shape their identity. “They have a story, when they say, ‘Hi, my name is Susie and I love to____.’ That’s who they are, that’s their interest, and that’s something to be celebrated once they do find that special interest,” Solomon says.

The Process

The timing is a fine line between starting her early enough that she has a chance to excel in her activity, but also ensuring she’s old enough to really get something out of the classes. “Any child who goes to school is old enough to begin after-school activities,” says Carole Lieberman, M.D., a psychiatrist and author of Lions and Tigers and Terrorists, Oh My! How to Protect Your Child in a Time of Terror. “[Kids] should begin by grades first, second, or third because the sooner you start enriching them with these activities, the better.” On the other hand, if your kid is not interested in after-school classes, rest assured there’s plenty of time for him to find what he enjoys. Maybe you have a budding cinematographer or robotics engineer—these interests will develop as your child gets older. “By middle school, if not before, students should be experimenting with a diverse set of after-school endeavors that align with any interests they express,” says Kat Cohen, Ph.D., college admissions counselor and founder of IvyWise, an educational consulting company.

The Options

When it comes to selecting an activity, Dr. Cohen says it’s important to provide a variety of options while ensuring your child is still pursuing her individual interests. For younger kids, a ranking system may prove useful in making choices. “Put together a list of possibilities in your neighborhood [including] arts and crafts, photography, dance, music, theater, Little League, and so on,” Dr. Lieberman recommends. “Then ask your child to rank them in the order they like best, so that they feel like they have chosen to do this.” If your little one isn’t interested in conventional after-school activities, find alternative ways to engage her passions, and eventually an appropriate extracurricular may develop. “I see what their interests are, and try to extrapolate from there. Do they have a sudden interest in Detective Pikachu? I’ll see if there’s some sort of sleuthing or mystery club they can do,” says Alexa DeKalb, a mother of three living in Manhattan. “I understand the Ivy League isn’t going to offer a scholarship for ‘Most Encyclopedia Brown Books Read,’ but that’s fine—if it makes my kid passionate, maybe it’ll lead to a junior internship with a police department, and that’s something they could write about!” In addition to personal interests, it’s also important to factor in logistics, such as time commitment, travel time, cost, and scheduling conflicts. Maybe your little one feels equally passionate about soccer and chess, but chess only meets once a week whereas soccer meets three days a week. Soccer will require certain, potentially costly, gear such as cleats, uniforms, and shin guards. You might have to drive out of town for games if he advances to the travel team. In this situation, your choice of extracurricular may come down to logistics.

The Ideal Number

When crafting your child’s schedule, it can be a balancing act between ensuring she can explore all of her interests without overwhelming her. It may be a case of trial and error to figure out what your kid’s individual threshold is. “Start with one afterschool activity, then gradually add more as your child seems able to handle a more intense schedule,” Dr. Lieberman suggests. During this time of testing the limits of your child’s energy and focus, it’s important to make sure he isn’t losing sight of the things that may be important to your family—academics, family dinners, religious practices, etc. “Older elementary children have great after-school options including music, theater, and sports, but also have a great risk of being over-scheduled,” says Elizabeth Malson, president of Amslee Institute, an online technical school specializing in child care. “Ideally, families should pick one or two activities at a time, ensuring plenty of time for academics and health.” Make sure activities he participates in aren’t infringing on his sleep schedule or friendships. Also, if one of your kids can balance a different activity each day of the week, it doesn’t necessarily mean her sibling will be able to do the same. “Every student is different, so there is no magic number of hours that should be devoted to after-school activities: One pre-teen might be able to balance three to four pursuits while another student might feel totally overwhelmed,” Dr. Cohen says. “At the end of the day, parents should sit down with their student, brainstorm a list of activities to pursue, and create a schedule that feels manageable for the student.” Communication and flexibility with your child are incredibly important when it comes to setting a schedule that works for both of you. After all, these activities can be the groundwork for a future degree, career, or lifelong interest.

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Raising Independent Teens

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Teaching your teen to be a successful, self-sufficient adult will take time and patience, but it’s worth it (trust us!). By Emma Steven

ne minute you’re changing your kid’s diapers, and the next you’re arguing with her about curfew. Your baby has grown into a young person with strong opinions and a fierce desire to be independent. As a parent, it’s your job to teach him life skills. But, like everything with teenagers, it’s complicated. Raising independent teens starts in preschool, according to Julie Lythcott-Haims, former dean of freshmen at Stanford University and author of How to Raise an Adult: Break Free from the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success. “Kids don’t acquire life skills by magic at the stroke of midnight on their eighteenth birthday,” she writes. “Childhood is meant to be a training ground. Parents can assist, not by always being there to do it or to tell them how to do it via cellphone—but by getting out of the way and letting them figure it out by themselves.” Unfortunately, this isn’t happening as often as it should. We are in the midst of an overparenting era, Lythcott-Haims says, and our kids are suffering for it. The 2018 Cooperative Institutional Research Program Freshman Study by the Higher Education Research Institute reported the emotional and mental health of freshmen in 1,900 U.S. colleges has declined since 1985. While there are many factors at play, researchers have found a strong correlation between parents who are overinvolved in their kids lives and undergraduates who report poor psychological well-being, problems making friends, low self-efficacy, and anxiety. 16

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Lythcott-Haims warns that if we want our kids to be happy and successful adults, we urgently need to let them do more. “The narrative has to shift so we see that it is most loving to be interested in our children learning skills for themselves,” she writes. “It feels unloving…in the moment, but when we remember that our job is to put ourselves out of a job, that’s actually the most loving thing we can do.”

Choose Chores

Doing tasks around the house from an early age is a predictor of success in adult life, according to Marty Rossmann, professor emeritus at the University of Minnesota. Yet the amount of time kids spend doing chores has been declining since the ’80s. Psychologists believe household work teaches kids how to look after themselves and develop a good work ethic. By 10 a child can take on laundry, change the bed, and mow the lawn. Highschoolers can manage most adult chores, such as shopping for and preparing meals and unclogging drains. Your kids will definitely complain, but at least they won’t be calling you asking how to vacuum after they’ve moved out.

Dollars and Sense

“It’s never too early, or too late, to begin teaching about financial literacy,” says Jennifer Myers, CFP and president of SageVest Wealth Management and SageVest Kids. “Kids can really begin to conceptualize money as tweens.”

“Budgeting is the most important thing a parent can teach their child,” Myers says. “We always recommend attaching purchase responsibilities with allowances. It forces kids to learn about the importance of budgeting and saving.” By the teen years, kids should be paying for outings with friends, makeup, clothing, and more (think things they want, not things they need), to help conceptualize real life costs, Myers suggests. Most money experts and psychologists recommend teens hold a part-time job (and not just during the summer). “It gives them the understanding that when they fill up the car tank it might cost five hours of work,” says Cary Siegel, author of Why Didn’t They Teach Me This at School: 99 Personal Money Management Lessons to Live By.

Change a Tire

Lauren Fix, the “Car Coach,” says American teenagers should be learning basic car maintenance—as they do in other countries. Not only will it give her confidence, it also saves money. All she needs is the owner’s manual, Youtube, and the local auto parts store. Teach him to check and change the oil, check tire pressure and add air, change a tire, fill the gas tank, replace basic parts (wiper blades and air filters), and what to do when the “check engine” light comes on.

Time Management

The recent admissions scandal is an extreme example of how far some will go to get their kid into the “right” college. More common, Lythcott-Haims says, is the helicopter parent who constantly monitors their child’s academics and chooses her classes and extracurricular activities. Parents doing homework is also not unusual. The average U.S. parent spends six hours a week helping their child with academics, according to the Varkey Foundation’s Global Parent’ Survey. While well-intentioned, micromanaging stops kids from experiencing the natural consequences of their actions, such as missing deadlines and getting good or bad grades. Lythcott-Haims also warns that it can leave children feeling like their parents have no faith in them, and that they are doing their homework for their parents, not themselves. “None of this is good for the child,” she says.

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Let Them Struggle

Young adults have to be able to cope with the ups and downs of life and keep going. Learning to manage conflict, hurt feelings, and cope when things go wrong is important. If we try and solve every one of our child’s minor problems, we rob him of experiences that help to build resilience. As Mogel says: “When they come to you in distress, resist responding like a concierge, talent agent, or the secret police. Assume they are capable of figuring out—through trial and error—how to solve their own problems.” If you’re feeling a little behind, don’t worry! It’s never too late to start. Lythcott-Haims has this advice: “The first thing is to acknowledge to the kid, with a small bit of apology, ‘We realized that we are a bit behind when it comes to teaching you to be independent and it’s time for us to start teaching you a lot of things.’ A teen needs to hear that because otherwise they will view your shift with a lot of skepticism.” Let her choose which chores she’s going to take on. Then tell him you will stop asking him about school work all the time because you know he has it under control, and let him decide what skills, like money management or car care, he would like to learn first. The process will probably elicit an eye roll now, but her future self will thank you.

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classes provide a safe environment for students to ask questions.

ACADEMIC ENRICHMENT & LANGUAGE

195-05 69th Ave., Fresh Meadows 718-679-9908 kueiluck.com For more than 20 years, we have been providing a wide variety of programs for grades kindergarten-12th. We provide after-school (including pick-up), Chinese school, enrichment classes, summer camp, Regents, SAT I/II, SHSAT, ELA, and math test prep programs. Test prep is designed to hone testing skills and strategies.

CK Kids

68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 718-366-7400 x247 ctkny.org CK Kids offers families one location for their educational and leisure activities. We offer a variety of programs for ages 2-18. Our educational support programs for grades kindergarten-12th are designed to review and reinforce subject matter and skills necessary to achieve success. On-site parking, reasonable prices, and flexible scheduling!

Girl Scouts of Greater New York

40 Wall St., suite 708 212-645-4000 girlscoutsnyc.org customercare@girlscoutsnyc.org Girl Scouting builds girls of courage, confidence, and character, who make the world a better place. GSGNY is NYC’s largest girls-only leadership program, reaching more than 31,000 girls in each of the five boroughs. Girl Scouts enjoy programs that include business and entrepreneurship, outdoor adventure and education, STEM, and leadership development.

Hofstra University Continuing Education - Saturday Classes for Young People and Precollegiate Career Discovery Institute

516-463-7400, Jessica Dease, program director ce.hofstra.edu/youth jessica.dease@hofstra.edu Saturday Classes for Young People wants your child to love learning. Our small classes provide individual attention and help encourage students’ curiosity. There are many classes to choose, including reading, math, writing, STEM/STEAM, cartooning, theater, art, video game development, Minecraft, and swimming.

Kent Prep

194-11A Northern Blvd., Bayside 718-423-5757 kentprep.com For more than 30 years, Kent Prep’s team of teachers, curriculum developers, and counselors have successfully prepared students for various standardized tests such as Gifted and Talented test, NYS Common Core exams, SSAT, and SHSAT. All year-round, small

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LIU Post Center for Gifted Youth

Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, director LIU Post, Brookville 516-299-2160 liu.edu/giftedyouth The Long Island University program for gifted children was established in 1979 in response to the recognition of society’s special responsibilities for children with demonstrably superior intellectual ability. The LIU Center for Gifted Youth offers extraordinary teachers recruited from leading schools in the metropolitan area, and university-level facilities.

Miss Anita – Private Math Tutor and Advisor

917-477-7953 workinganita@gmail.com Do you need a mathematics tutor who is talented, understanding, terrific, outstanding, and resourceful (T.U.T.O.R.)? Tutoring available for various levels of math: elementary and middle math, algebra 1, algebra 2, geometry, and tests like the GED. Experienced teacher, tutor, and advisor of 23 years who can help students pass any test.

Nina’s Tutoring Center

8702 Grand Ave., Elmhurst 718-205-7508 92-22 Corona Ave., Elmhurst 718-606-1056 tutornina@hotmail.com We tutor kids in kindergarten-12th. For the past 11 years, we have provided quality education that helps kids excel. We help improve skills in math, ELA, science, and social studies. We have an intensive preparation program for ELA, math, science, citywide and statewide exams, SAT and ACT.

ART Bee You Art Studio

32-43 Francis Lewis Blvd., inside Bayside Plaza, upper level, Bayside

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718-926-9728 beeyouartstudio.com beeyouartstudio@gmail.com Bee You Art Studio offers after-school classes Tuesday-Fridays from 4-6pm. Classes are taught by a New York State-certified art teacher. Classes consist of painting, watercolor, drawing, charcoal, and pastel. Portfolio classes also available. Discover the ultimate art class for ages 5 and older!

DANCE All Star Studios

108-21 72nd Ave. (4th floor), Forest Hills 718-268-2280 allstarstudiosnyc.com allstarstudios@gmail.com Sign up now for summer and fall classes-limited space available. All Star Studios program is designed to encourage and educate students on how to increase flexibility, improve coordination, focus on muscle strengthening, build poise, and have fun. All instructors have experience in both teaching and performing.

The DanceSource

98-11 Queens Blvd. (at 65th Ave.), Rego Park/Forest Hills 718-997-1278 dancesource.net info@dancesource.net The DanceSource begins its 25th year. We offer classes for children age 2 to adult. We offer all the classic dance classes and ethnic styles of dance. Our smaller, boutique-sized classes offer lots of individual attention.

Queens Ballet Center

72-35 112th St. PR11, Forest Hills 718-521-5276 queensballet.com info@queensballet.com Queens Ballet Center offers comprehensive dance training for all skill levels from 18 months old to adult. Whether you or your child want to join early childhood creative movement class, classical ballet, contemporary, or are interested in pursuing a career in dance, we have a class for you.

Robert Mann Dance Centre

214-10 41st Ave., Bayside 718-225-3696 robertmanndance.com dmamann@aol.com Since 1965, we have stressed the importance of quality dance education and meeting the needs of both our students and the dance community. We offer classes for all ages, with several programs specially designed for children ages 2½ to 6½. Our dance center has an excellent reputation in the dance world.

Rose Academy of Ballet

70-11 Austin St., Forest Hills 718-520-0207 roseacademyofballet.com racademyofballet@gmail.com Our dance program allows students to develop dance technique, while always leaving space for personal creativity. Our ballet classes feature professional instruction and live accompaniment. Our level ballet and level tap students make up our student dance company, which has several performance opportunities each year.

FITNESS All Star Studios

108-21 72nd Ave. (4th floor), Forest Hills 718-268-2280 allstarstudiosnyc.com allstarstudios@gmail.com Sign up now for fall classes-limited space available. All Star Studios program is designed to encourage and educate students on how to increase flexibility, improve coordination, focus on muscle strengthening, build poise, and have fun. All instructors have experience in both teaching and performing.

The DanceSource

98-11 Queens Blvd. (at 65th Ave.), Rego Park/Forest Hills 718-997-1278 dancesource.net; info@dancesource.net The DanceSource begins its 25th year. We offer classes for children age 2 to adult. We offer all the classic dance classes and ethnic styles of dance. Our smaller, boutique-sized classes offer lots of individual attention.

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Soccer Friends USA, Inc.

106-06 Queens Blvd., 3rd Floor Gym, Forest Hills 718-261-2403, 347-756-2568 (para Español) soccerfriendsusa.com soccerfriendsusa@hotmail.com Soccer Friends USA is a yearround soccer program for children ages 18 months to 16 years. We emphasize fun and learning in our full-service soccer school. We have fun-filled programs for our Queens community. We offer after-school programs, private groups, skill clinics, birthday parties, summer camps, futsal leagues, and competitive travel teams.

MOMMY & ME Just Wee Two

Bayside, Manhasset, Plainview, plus Brooklyn and Connecticut 516-433-0003, 800-404-2204 justweetwo.com This program for children ages 8 months through 3 years and their parents, provides an environment that enables grown-ups to share the joy of a child’s early learning. Toddlers enjoy arts and crafts, creative movement, stories, and play time. We are now registering for summer and fall sessions.

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CK Kids

68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 718-366-7400 x247 ctkny.org CK Kids offers families one location for their educational and leisure activities. We offer a variety of programs for ages 2-18. Dance, karate, hip-hop, and acrobatics classes are offered for children of all ages and skill levels. Our soccer and basketball clinics develop players’ individual skills in a non-competitive setting.

MUSIC Further Music School

110-06 72nd Ave., Forest Hills 718-544-8886 140-75 Ash Ave., Suite 2B, Flushing 917-563-1480 furthermusic.com; info@furthermusic.com

2017 National Music School of the Year. Since our founding in 2007, Further Music School has grown to be one of the most recognized music schools in Queens. Reaching more than 3000 students of all ages and skill levels, our award-winning facility provides music lessons for all instruments and voice.

ISTEIN Education Center

107-06 71st Road 2nd floor, Forest Hills 718-575-8877 isteinny.com; info@isteinny.com Music is about creativity, communication, and cooperation. ISTEIN students have the opportunity to build on these skills, enrich their lives, and experience the world from a new perspective. Our music program includes instruction and performance. We offer piano, violin, viola, cello, flute, guitar, drum, saxophone, vocal, theory, and composition classes.

Music Together® With Music and Me

Licensed Provider of Music Together® Since 2003 Astoria, Bayside, Forest Hills, and Glendale 718-229-0033 Astoria at Gym-Azing! Bayside at Shotokai Karate, USA upper level of the Baybridge Commons Shopping Center Forest Hills at the Reform Temple of Forest Hills Forest Hills at the Church-In-TheGardens Glendale at Tiger Schulmann’s Glendale musictogetherwithmusicandme.com info@musictogetherwithmusicandme.com Since 2003, we have provided the gold standard-Music Together music and movement program for children and their grown-ups who love to dance, sing, learn, and play! Thousands of families with babies, toddlers, and preschoolers have experienced our classes with highly trained, registered Music Together teachers.

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SOCCER

68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 718-366-7400 x247 ctkny.org CK Kids offers families one location for their educational and leisure activities. We offer a variety of programs for ages 2-18. Dance, karate, hip-hop, and acrobatics classes are offered for children of all ages and skill levels. Our soccer and basketball clinics develop players’ individual skills in a non-competitive setting.

Soccer Friends USA, Inc.

106-06 Queens Blvd., 3rd Floor Gym, Forest Hills 718-261-2403, 347-756-2568 (para Español) soccerfriendsusa.com

soccerfriendsusa@hotmail.com Soccer Friends USA is a yearround soccer program for children ages 18 months to 16 years. We emphasize fun and learning in our full-service soccer school. We have fun-filled programs for our Queens community. We offer after-school programs, private groups, skill clinics, birthday parties, summer camps, futsal leagues, and competitive travel teams.

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Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success Queens: 718-640-6767 Nassau: 516216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 lispeech.com Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, expressive and receptive language disorders.

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Kuei Luck Enrichment Center

195-05 69th Ave., Fresh Meadows 718-679-9908 kueiluck.com For more than 20 years, we have been providing a wide variety of programs for grades kindergarten-12th. We provide after-school (including pick-up), Chinese school, enrichment classes, summer camp, Regents, SAT I/II, SHSAT, ELA and math test prep programs. Test prep is designed to hone testing skills and strategies.

Miss Anita – Private Math Tutor and Advisor

866-247-5678 affinityplan.org For more than 30 years, Affinity Health Plan has been offering New York state-sponsored free or lowcost health coverage to New Yorkers who have Medicaid or no health insurance at all. Our managed care programs meet the need for coverage among people who may find it hard to get health care.

The Bay Terrace at Bayside

Nina’s Tutoring Center

Affinity Health Plan

bayterrace.com Get ready for back to school at The Bay Terrace. The Bay Terrace Shopping Center, located on Bell Boulevard and 26th Avenue in Bayside has been proudly serving the Bayside area and surrounding neighborhoods for more than 50 years. It offers an excellent mix of shops, restaurants, and services for the community.

Lisa Macbeth, Financial Advisor 7 Hanover Square, suite 800 212-764-6262 x-2820 mobile: 646-726-8332

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EDUCATION DAY CARE & CHILD CARE Beautiful Minds Childcare

62-02 Myrtle Ave., Ridgewood 347-987-3270 beautifulmindsnyc.com beautifulmindsnyc@gmail.com We strive to find fun and creative approaches to empower children to be the best they can be. Our goal is to strengthen and encourage every child’s emotional, intellectual, social, and physical well-being through the expertise of our staff and a unique partnership with parents. Full and part-time available!

Commonpoint Queens Sam Field Center – Early Childhood Programs

58-20 Little Neck Parkway, Little Neck 718-255-6750 x246 commonpointqueens.org/program/early-childhood-programs tcampo@commonpointqueens.org Early Childhood Programs are designed for children ages 2-5, and include Nursery School, Childcare, and Summer Camp. We offer flexible scheduling with full- and part-time options. Our programs provide young children an opportunity to play, explore, and engage in multi-faceted learning activities under the guidance of professionally-trained teachers.

The Crayon Box Preschool

44-10 192nd St., Flushing 718-888-9341 crayonboxpreschool.com Children at The Crayon Box are encouraged to learn by doing. The curriculum is planned by creative and dedicated professionals. Children experience the fun of learning by participating in activities designed to stimulate growth in a wide range of areas, including social and cognitive development, and gross and fine motor skills.

Ivy Day School

65-01 Kissena Blvd., Flushing 718-460-6366 70-44 Kissena Blvd., Flushing 718-880-1888 104-70 Queens Blvd., Forest Hills 718-997-1997 ivydayschool.com dinam@ivydayschool.com Books and blocks, music and dance, art and creativity! At Ivy Day School (three locations), we provide our decade-long standard of academic excellence to children ages 2-5. We envision students will develop essential skills for a lifetime of achievements via fun, stimulating activities.

Kon Gen International Preschool 196-25 42nd Ave., Bayside 718-281-2338

Kon Wah Day School 135-27 38th Ave., 2nd floor, Flushing 718-353-4388 We provide a nurturing environment that celebrates the uniqueness of each child. We offer creative dance, music, and art appreciation. Our educational program is based on monthly unit studies and a project-based curriculum. We offer a roof-top playground, indoor play space, and a dance room!

Kuei Luck Early Childhood Center

99-39 66th Ave., Rego Park 718-679-9909 klpreschool.com We are a Mandarin immersion and Reggio inspired school for children ages 1-5. We believe in developing independent thinkers and motivated learners through an inspiring child-led environment. Call to schedule a tour and find out more about our summer and fall programs.

Tiny Footsteps

167-01 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 718-969-5500 tinyfootstepsny@yahoo.com Tiny Footsteps is the place to be for kids ages 1-5! Our hands-on curriculum is theme based allowing for student growth, exploration, and creativity. Students are prepared academically and socially for elementary school. All of our educators are dedicated to the profession of early childhood with extensive experience.

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Commonpoint Queens Sam Field Center – Early Childhood Programs

58-20 Little Neck Parkway, Little Neck 718-255-6750 x246 commonpointqueens.org/program/ early-childhood-programs tcampo@commonpointqueens.org Early Childhood Programs are designed for children ages 2-5, and include Nursery School, Childcare, and Summer Camp. We offer flexible scheduling with full- and part-time options. Our programs provide young children an opportunity to play, explore, and engage

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in multi-faceted learning activities under the guidance of professionally-trained teachers.

Countryside Montessori School

354 Lakeville Road, lower level, Great Neck 516-466-8422 cmsgn.com; info@cmsgn.com Countryside Montessori School was founded in 1998 with the aim of providing a high-quality early childhood education based on the philosophy, methods, and techniques developed 100 years ago by educational pioneer Dr. Maria Montessori. Everything in our school is designed to encourage and aid a child’s natural curiosity.

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Ivy Day School

65-01 Kissena Blvd. Flushing 718-460-6366 70-44 Kissena Blvd. Flushing 718-880-1888 104-70 Queens Blvd., Forest Hills 718-997-1997 ivydayschool.com dinam@ivydayschool.com Books and blocks, music and dance, art and creativity! At Ivy Day School (three locations), we provide our decade-long standard of academic excellence to children ages 2-5. We envision students will develop essential skills for a lifetime of achievements via fun, stimulating activities.

Kon Gen International Preschool

196-25 42nd Ave., Bayside 718-281-2338 Kon Wah Day School 135-27 38th Ave., 2nd floor, Flushing 718-353-4388 We provide a nurturing environment that celebrates the uniqueness of each child. We offer creative dance, music, and art appreciation. Our educational program is based on monthly unit studies and a project-based curriculum. We offer a roof-top playground, indoor play space, and a dance room!

Kuei Luck Early Childhood Center

99-39 66th Ave., Rego Park 718-679-9909 klpreschool.com We are a Mandarin immersion and

Reggio inspired school for children ages 1-5. We believe in developing independent thinkers and motivated learners through an inspiring child-led environment. Call to schedule a tour and find out more about our programs available throughout the year.

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PRIVATE SCHOOLS The Windsor School

37-02 Main St., Flushing 718-359-8300 thewindsorschool.com admin@thewindsorschool.com Founded in 1969, The Windsor School is an independent, coeducational, college preparatory school for middle and high school students. Students are provided a rigorous curriculum designed to help gain admission to top-ranked colleges and universities. Merit scholarship and financial aid are available, offering an affordable tuition for most families.

PUBLIC & MAGNET SCHOOLS District 25.30 New York City Magnet Schools

The Harry T. Stewart, Sr. Magnet School for Engineering, Architecture, and the Arts, PS 92 The Joseph Pulitzer Magnet School of Innovation and Applied Learning, IS 145 The Magnet School of Global Studies and Leadership, PS/MS 200 The Discovery School for Inquiry and Research: STEAM Magnet School, PS 201 718-759-4977 info@magnetschools.nyc Each magnet school offers a unique program designed to promote diversity, academic excellence, and equity. The specialized thematic programs, innovative curriculum, and diversified approaches to teaching offer rigorous instruction that builds proficiency in creativity, collaboration, and critical thinking for all students. To learn more, come visit and apply!

District 27.29 New York City Magnet Schools

The Magnet School of Innovation, Exploration, and Engineering, PS 52 The Chester Park Magnet School of Computer Science and Innovation, PS 62 The William Haberle Magnet School of Multimedia, Arts, and STEAM, PS 195 The Rosa Parks Magnet School of Leadership Development and the Arts, PS 254 The Queens Explorers Magnet School of Global Conservation and Service Learning, PS 316 718-968-6179 The Queens District 27-29 Magnet Grant includes five elementary schools that feature innovative curriculum and specialized programming. Each school has a theme that connects students to careers and develops 21st century skills. Themes include computer science, engineering, media arts, service learning, and leadership. Schools incorporate STEM and the arts into instruction.

District 28 New York City Magnet Schools

The Maure Magnet School of Communication Arts, Technology and Multimedia, PS 55 The Edward K. Ellington Magnet School of Science, Technology and the Arts, PS 140 The Magnet School of Leadership and Innovation Through STEAM, PS 349 The Magnet School of STEAM Exploration and Experiential Learning, MS 358 718-759-4977 info@magnetschools.nyc Each magnet school offers a unique program designed to promote diversity, academic excellence, and equity. Specialized thematic programs, innovative curriculum, and diversified approaches to teaching offer rigorous instruction that builds proficiency in creativity, collaboration, and critical thinking for all students. Magnet schools welcome all families and students. Come visit!

IS 145: The Joseph Pulitzer Magnet School of Innovation and Applied Learning

33-34 80th St., Jackson Heights 718-457-1242, 718-759-4977 145innovators.com info@magnetschools.nyc I.S. 145: A 21st century learning community. By infusing science, technology, engineering, arts, and math (STEAM) into the curriculum, students are engaging in collaboration, creativity, communication, and critical thinking on a daily basis. Regents track and Spanish-English dual-language programming and enrichment

courses are offered during and after school hours.

MS 358: The Magnet School of Steam Exploration and Experiential Learning 88-08 164th St., Jamaica 718-558-6240 ms358.org info@magnetschools.nyc At The Magnet School of STEAM Exploration and Experiential Learning, everyone learns with purpose. Classroom instruction incorporates passionate speaking, purposeful writing, powerful presentations, and digital literacy. Experiential learning supports students in taking intellectual risks, making real world connections, increasing engagement, and providing opportunities to explore authentic topics and challenges.

PS 140Q: The Edward K. Ellington Magnet School of Science, Technology and The Arts - A Steam Magnet School 166-01 116th Ave., Jamaica 718-657-4760, 718-759-4977 theedwardkellingtonschool.org info@magnetschools.nyc The Edward K. Ellington Magnet School of Science, Technology, and the Arts - our motto, “Where Greatness Occurs, One Step At A Time.” Project-based STEAM curriculum, advanced technology, arts, music, enrichment clubs, and middle-school prep. We strive to develop productive, self-thinking, problem-solving citizens, capable of thriving in an ever-evolving world.

PS 195: The William Haberle Magnet School of Multimedia, Arts, and STEM 84-40 101st St. 718-846-1840 ps195magnet.org PS 195 - The Magnet Academy of Multimedia Arts and STEM is a warm community environment where every student is welcomed. Students use technology to create animations, news broadcasts, and documentaries that illustrate their learning. STEM is woven throughout the curriculum, giving students opportunities to learn science content in new ways.

PS 201: The Discovery School for Inquiry and Research: Steam Magnet School

65-11 155th St., Flushing 718-359-0620 ps201.org info@magnetschools.nyc info@ps201.org At PS 201: A STEAM Magnet School, inquiry-based learning encourages students to become independent thinkers, ask questions, and actively research answers. The innovative curriculum is motivating

for all students. STEAM learning combines the study of science, technology, engineering, art, and mathematics into projects that prepare students for college and careers.

PS 254: The Rosa Parks Magnet School of Leadership Development and the Arts

84-40 101st St. 718-846-1840 ps254q27.com PS 254 - The Rosa Parks Magnet School of Leadership Development and the Arts is a place where every child is a leader. Children internalize the “seven habits of highly effective leaders” through the Leader in Me program. Students develop creativity through a theatrical production, dance classes, music, and visual arts.

PS 316: The Queens Explorers Magnet School of Global Conservation and Service Learning

90-07 101st Ave. 718-558-7088 qemagnetschool.org PS 316 - The Queens Explorers Magnet School for Conservation and Service Learning uses project-based learning to engage students and connect them in an authentic way with the world while instilling empathy in their students. Learners participate in five large scale community service projects throughout the year.

PS 349: The Magnet School of Leadership and Innovation Through Steam 88-08 164th St., Jamaica 718-558-6220, 718-759-4977 ps349.info; info@magnetschools.nyc PS 349 offers a rigorous STEAM curriculum designed to ignite students’ imagination through engineering and design, spark their curiosity, and engage through exploration. Leadership instruction integrates The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People into all classes, allowing for collaboration and leadership through self–management, self–awareness, and responsible decision-making.

PS 52: The Magnet School of Innovation, Exploration, and Engineering

178-37 146th Terrace 718-528-2238 ps52magnet.org PS 52 - The Magnet School of Innovation, Exploration, and Engineering features a STEM lab and engineering spaces where students solve real world problems and work collaboratively. Students use the Engineering Design Process to analyze challenges and generate solutions. Teachers use a hands-on approach to make learning come alive.

PS 55: The Maure Magnet School of Communication Arts, Technology and Multimedia

131-10 97th Ave., Richmond Hill 718-849-3845, 718-759-4977 ps55q.com info@magnetschools.nyc, info@ ps55q.com At PS 55 every student has a voice. Theme-based instruction, project-based units, arts and technology integration. Students develop higher order thinking skills, share ideas, connect with each other, engage and explore. Learning is expanded by writing code, creating audio and video presentations, performing music, graphic design, and using 3D printers.

PS 62: The Chester Park Magnet School of Computer Science and Innovation 97-25 108th St. 718-286-4460 ps062.org PS 62- The Magnet School for Computer Science and Innovation has established itself as a leader in elementary computer science instruction. Teachers integrate coding, robotics, 3D printing, and other technologies into everyday instruction. Students participate in an annual Makerfaire where they showcase their innovation.

PS 92: The Harry T. Stewart, Sr. Magnet School for Engineering, Architecture & the Arts

99-01 34th Ave., Corona 718-533-1013, 718-759-4977 ps92q.org info@magnetschools.nyc All grades at PS 92 participate in hands-on Project Based Learning (PBL) themed around engineering, architecture, and the arts. Our rigorous curriculum is designed for students to explore and generate evidence to support learning through projects and culminating events. Students learn to discuss ideas, refine prototypes, and collaborate with others.

PS/MS 200: The Magnet School of Global Studies & Leadership

70-10 164th St., Flushing 718-969-7780, 718-759-4977 globalstudiesandleadership.org info@magnetschools.nyc Students at The Magnet School of Global Studies & Leadership graduate with a profound understanding of the worldwide challenges and the necessary leadership skills needed to effect change in the 21st century. Students celebrate countries and cultures through an emphasis on global competence, geographic literacy, project-based learning, and STEM education.

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Choose the Best After-School Activity for Your Child With myriad activities available to children these days, it’s easy to get bogged down with all the options. Take this fun quiz to see which activity best suits your child. ››

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On the weekends your kid is...

Outside

Is he a picky eater?

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Your child is a ball of energy, so make sure you put it to good use. Team sports, such as basketball or soccer, are a great way to learn team work while also staying fit and active.

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Your smarty pants can’t get enough of reading, writing, and arithmetic. Many tutoring centers also offer enrichment classes, espeically during the summer. Get your Einstein learning all year long.

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If your child is constantly drawing or painting at home, save yourself the mess and get him into an art class. Art is a great way for your little Picasso to express himself.

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Education Planner Schools

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thewindsorschool.com

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IS 145: The Joseph Pulitzer Magnet School of Innovation and Applied Learning

145innovators.com

718-457-1242

MS 358: The Magnet School of Steam Exploration and Experiential Learning

ms358.org

718-558-6240

PS 140Q: The Edward K. Ellington Magnet School of Science, Technology and The Arts - A Steam Magnet School

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718-657-4760

PS 195: The William Haberle Magnet School of Multimedia, Arts, and STEM

ps195magnet.org

718-846-1840

PS 201: The Discovery School for Inquiry and Research: Steam Magnet School PS 254: The Rosa Parks Magnet School of Leadership Development and the Arts

ps201.org

718-359-0620

ps254q27.com

718-846-1840

qemagnetschool.org

718-558-7088

PS 349: The Magnet School of Leadership and Innovation Through Steam

ps349.info

718-558-6220

PS 52: The Magnet School of Innovation, Exploration, and Engineering

ps52magnet.org

718-528-2238

PS 55: The Maure Magnet School of Communication Arts, Technology and Multimedia

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718-849-3845

PS 62: The Chester Park Magnet School of Computer Science and Innovation

ps062.org

718-286-4460

PS 92: The Harry T. Stewart, Sr. Magnet School for Engineering, Architecture & the Arts

ps92q.org

718-533-1013

PS/MS 200: The Magnet School of Global Studies & Leadership

globalstudiesandleadership.org

718-969-7780

PS 316: The Queens Explorers Magnet School of Global Conservation and Service Learning

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We Asked, You Delivered!

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It’s official: The cutest kids live here! More than 1,000 of you, our dear readers, entered your adorable children in our annual Cover Kids Contest! Our editors had the tough job of reviewing every entry to pick nine finalists, and the 10th finalist was the Fan Favorite, the child whose picture received the most votes (699 this year!). The finalists are: • Anthony, age 3, from Suffolk • Ghianna, age 11, from Rockland • Henry, age 3, from Brooklyn • Jasper, age 2, from Manhattan • Jordan, age 13, from Nassau

• Leilani, age 9, from the Bronx • Nyla, age 5, from Brooklyn • Olivia, age 9, from Westchester • Teagan, age 7, from Suffolk • Zachary, age 4, from Queens

At the end of June, all 10 finalists were decked out in clothing from Macy’s Backstage for a photo shoot at Sarah Merians Photography & Video Company in Manhattan—and, boy, are we going to have a tough time selecting the two grand prize winners! The older than 6 winner will receive a scholarship and professional photo shoot at Barbizon, and the 6 and younger winner (in addition to the Fan Favorite) will receive a 2-night stay, plus 2 Paw Passes, at Great Wolf Lodge in Scotrun, PA. Keep an eye out for our September issue, which will feature all 10 kids—and announce our grand prize winners! Promotional Partners:

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 9 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Family Camping and Astronomy: Queens FREE

WHEN: Aug. 2-3, Friday, 7pm to Saturday, 7am WHERE: Fort Totten Park, Cross Island Parkway (between Totten Avenue and 15th Road), Fort Totten AGES: All WHAT: Sleep under the stars! Camp overnight in the park with the Urban Park Rangers. Participants are chosen by lottery. To enter your family in the lottery, visit nyc.gov/parks/rangers/register. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a great way to unplug and unwind with the fam! WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Water Festival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 11am-2pm WHERE: Beach 108th Street Roller Rink, Beach 109th Street and Shore Front Parkway, Rockaway AGES: All WHAT: Join Councilman Erich Ulrich and NYC Parks for an afternoon of summer fun! There will be waterslides, a bounce house, arts and crafts, music, face painting, games, playmobile, and refreshments. WHY WE LOVE IT: After 3 hours of outdoor fun, the kids will be tired enough for some quiet time when you return home! WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

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Hudson Vagabond Puppets Presents ‘Caps for Sale’ and ‘Three Billy Goats Gruff’ FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 7, 6-7pm WHERE: Highland Park, Jamaica Avenue and Elton Street, Cypress Hill

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AGES: All WHAT: Two classic stories come to life. First, a hat salesman falls asleep and wakes to find his hats missing! In the second story, three billy goats try to avoid an ogre while attempting to cross a bridge. WHY WE LOVE IT: You’ll be awed by a bevy of beautiful, life-size puppets. WANT TO GO? 718-235-4100. nycgovparks.org.

Summer Streets FREE

WHEN: Aug. 3-17, Saturdays, 7am-1pm WHERE: Between Brooklyn Bridge and Central Park, along Park Avenue and connecting Streets (as far north as East 72nd Street), Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Summer Streets attracts 300,000 people over three Saturdays in August. Park Avenue and Lafayette Street are closed to vehicles for 7 miles, creating car-free space from Brooklyn Bridge to Central Park. WHY WE LOVE IT: Families can roam free, run around, and practice biking and skating in the streets. WANT TO GO? nyc.gov/html/dot/summerstreets/html/home/home.shtml.

Queens Night Market FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 17: Saturdays, 5pm-12am WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy 100 independent vendors selling merchandise, art, and food. WHY WE LOVE IT: There will also be small-scale cultural performances, all celebrating the rich cultural diversity and heritage of NYC and Queens. WANT TO GO? 718-699-0005. queensnightmarket.com.

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Annual Honey Harvest Festival

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 21, 1-3:30pm WHERE: The Voelker Orth Museum, 149-19 38th Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: See how the beekeeper harvests honey, make beeinspired art, sample honey from different hives and regions, and learn what it takes to make a bee-friendly garden. WHY WE LOVE IT: The fun includes delicious house punch and snacks! WANT TO GO? $5 per person; $12 per family; free for children younger than 3. 718-359-6227. vomuseum.org.

Arthur Ashe Kids Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 24, 9:30am WHERE: USTA Billie Jean King National Tennis Center, Flushing Meadows-Corona Park, Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Arthur Ashe Kids’ Day powered by Net Generation is the largest single-day, grassroots tennis and entertainment event in the world, with chart-topping music acts and today’s best tennis players coming together to celebrate tennis legend and humanitarian Arthur Ashe. WHY WE LOVE IT: The day includes interactive games, music, and tennis activities for all ages, plus a free concert hosted by Radio Disney. WANT TO GO? Free for grounds festival; tickets start at $25 for stadium shows. usta.com.

Live At The Gantries: 1, 2, 3 Andrés FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 27, 7pm WHERE: Gantry Plaza State Park, Center Boulevard at 48th Avenue, Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Catch a free performance by Andrés Salguero, better known as 1, 2, 3 Andrés, one of the most exciting new voices on the family music scene in the United States and Latin America. WHY WE LOVE IT: Andrés brings to audiences joyful sounds, passion for bilingualism, and a high-energy love of music that gets kids singing and dancing in Spanish and English. WANT TO GO? 718-361-2922. licconcerts.com.

Arts, Culture & Fun: Queensboro Dance Festival FREE WHEN: Through Oct. 6: see website for schedule WHERE: Various locations AGES: All WHAT: Head to a local park or library for performances and dance activities by Queens-based dance companies! WHY WE LOVE IT: Styles include Indian, Flamenco, hip-hop, Greek, contemporary, tap, Filipino, Ecuadorian, African, and more. WANT TO GO? queensborodancefestival.com.

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Potions Class with Harry Potter FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 1, 5-6pm WHERE: Kew Gardens Hills Library, 72-33 Vleigh Place, Flushing AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Celebrate Harry Potter’s birthday by making potions out of surprising ingredients. WANT TO GO? 718-261-6654.

Movie Making FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 19: Mondays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Woodhaven Branch, 85-41 Forest Parkway, Woodhaven AGES: 8-15 WHAT: Write, film, direct, and act in a movie of your own creation and then post it on YouTube! All participants must have signed permission slip from parents/guardians. WANT TO GO? 718-849-1010.

Saturday Sculpture Workshop: Inflating Colors FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 31, 12-3pm WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Design and craft your own colorful inflatables using plastic sheets and tape, then inflate your creations for an interactive movement performance. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

Roots Saturdays FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 26: Saturdays, 12-3pm WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy drop-in workshops, food demos, and activities for kids and families. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

Nail Polish Workshop FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 5-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Ridgewood, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: All WHAT: Design and polish your own nails or have them done for you. WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org. ››

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Cosmic Cities FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 12-3pm WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: What does a city in space look like? Inspired by the Chronos Cosmos: Deep Time, Open Space exhibition at the park, participants go out of this world to imagine and build oversized alien cityscapes. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

Garden Creativi-Tea: Drop-in Art Workshops

WHEN: Through Aug. 7: Wednesdays, 1-3:30pm WHERE: The Voelker Orth Museum, 149-19 38th Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy crafts with nature, and a glass of iced tea. WANT TO GO? $5; $12 per family; free for children younger than 4. 718-359-6227. vomuseum.org.

Saturday Sculpture Workshop: Plastic Bag Couture FREE

CRAFTY KIDS Food Scrap Paints

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 1, 6-8pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Learn how to make paint from your food scraps, then compost them! Participants will extract color from food scraps, such as avocado rinds and pits, beet peels, and onion skins, and create designs on paper and fabric. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $10; $8 members (includes garden admission). 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

Extraterrestrial Origami FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 2, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Pomonok Library, 158-21 Jewel Ave., Flushing AGES: 7-17 WHAT: Children are invited to learn and create alien and Star Wars origami. WANT TO GO? 718-591-4343. queenslibrary.org.

Bee Inspired Workshop

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 2-4pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Learn the what, how, and why of honeybee creations. Participants taste local honey and make household items, such as beeswax candles and salve with bee products. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $30; $20 members (includes garden admission). 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

Kids Club: Building a Stronger Future FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 8-10am WHERE: Queens Center Mall, 90-15 Queens Blvd, Elmhurst AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a back-to-school celebration. Breakfast provided by Applebee’s. Music, dancing, contests, and prizes with DJ Omar. Plus, face painting and a special craft project. The first 250 kids to arrive will receive a free backpack and other goodies! WANT TO GO? shopqueenscenter.com.

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WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 12-3pm WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Couture magic happens with everyday plastic bags by using a simple cut-and-fuse process to transform them into a large fashionable tote bag of your own design. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

Watercolors on the Waterfront FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 14: every other Wednesday, 6:30-8:00pm WHERE: Hunter’s Point South Park, Center Boulevard and 51st Avenue, Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy stunning sunset views while painting the famous NYC skyline or whatever else your heart desires. The event is free and all supplies are included! WANT TO GO? 212-843-8053. hunterspointsouthliving.com.

Paint Club for Kids FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 14: Wednesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Forest Hills Library, 108-19 71st Ave., Forest Hills AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy painting! WANT TO GO? 718-268-7934. queenslibrary.org.

Art for Families

WHEN: Aug. 10-17, Saturdays, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Noguchi Museum, 32-37 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Work together or individually to make works of art. WANT TO GO? $10 per family. 718-204-7088. noguchi.org.

Saturday Sculpture Workshop: Underwater Urbanites FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 17, 12-3pm WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Learn about the diversity of species in NYC’s waterways by creating a biodegradable underwater creature sculpture that will be embedded with native or edible plant seeds. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

Flat Stanley Vacation Club FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 19: Mondays, 3-3:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Whitestone Branch, 151-10 14 Road, Whitestone AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Pick up your Flat Stanley package. Color your Flat Stanley doll, then take him on vacation with you and fill out the journal. Vacation packs available while supplies last. WANT TO GO? 718-767-8010. queenslibrary.org.

Drawing with Sherry FREE

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WHEN: Through Aug. 20: select Tuesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Windsor Park, 79-50 Bell Blvd., Bayside AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Complete a simple pencil drawing. WANT TO GO? 718-468-8300. queenslibrary.org.

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STEAM Mobile Maker Cart FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 23: Fridays, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, South Jamaica, 108-41 Guy R. Brewer Blvd., South Jamaica AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Create Maker Projects. WANT TO GO? 718-739-4088. queenslibrary.org.

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Saturday Sculpture Workshop: Zodiac Shadow Puppets FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 24, 12:00-3:00pm WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Inspired by the Chronos Cosmos: Deep Time, Open Space exhibition, discover your Chinese zodiac and its associated folklore, then create paper shadow puppets to tell your zodiac story. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

Children and Tween Art Studio FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 24: Saturdays, 2-3pm WHERE: Queens Library, South Jamaica, 108-41 Guy R. Brewer Blvd., South Jamaica AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy a variety of art projects. WANT TO GO? 718-739-4088. queenslibrary.org.

Drop-in Make A Craft FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 26: Mondays, 12-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Hillcrest, 187-05 Union Turnpike., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Drop in to make a surprise craft! WANT TO GO? 718-454-2786. queenslibrary.org.

Make Your Own Magazine FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 29: Thursdays, 2-3pm WHERE: Queens Library, Ridgewood Branch, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Children and teens are invited to create their own magazine compiled of reviews of books, comics, movies, video games, and more this summer for their friends and classmates. WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

Art on the Farm FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 20: Saturday-Sunday, 2-4pm WHERE: Randall’s Island Park, 20 Randall’s Island Park, Randall’s Island AGES: All WHAT: Join for art projects inspired by the farm. WANT TO GO? 212-830-7722. randallsisland.org.

Arts Island Outpost FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Governors Island, ferries leave from Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 6, New York Harbor AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy free hands-on art making workshops and art-viewing experiences. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

A Morning of Music with Darlene Graham FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 6, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Alley Pond Park, Little Neck Bay, Union Turnpike, between Springfield Boulevard, Douglaston Parkway, Hanford Street, Oakland Gardens AGES: All WHAT: Darlene Graham performs her upbeat and interactive songs with instruments, drums, parachutes, bubbles, and more! Please bring a lawn chair or blanket for this free event. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Yesterday and Today: A Tribute to the Beatles FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 14, 7-9pm WHERE: The Shops at Atlas Park, 8000 Cooper Ave., Glendale AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a free, outdoor, summer concert on the lawn. Bring a chair or a blanket, and bring your family and friends! WANT TO GO? 718-326-3300. shopatlaspark.com.

Talent Show FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 20: Tuesdays, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, 312 Beach 54 St., Arverne AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Showcase talents such as singing, dancing, lip-syncing, acting, drumming, martial arts, or playing an instrument. WANT TO GO? 718-634-4784. queenslibrary.org.

Karaoke FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 22: Thursdays, 3-4:15pm WHERE: Queens Library, 312 Beach 54 St., Arverne AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Students will sing and dance to music. WANT TO GO? 718-634-4784. queenslibrary.org.

Disney Karaoke for Kids FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 24: Saturdays, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library: 85-12 Main St., Briarwood AGES: All WHAT: Have fun and sing Disney songs! WANT TO GO? 718-658-1680. queenslibrary.org.

Katz Summer Concert Series FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 25: see website for schedule WHERE: Various Locations, see website for details AGES: All WHAT: Queens Borough President Melinda Katz presents this annual free summer concert series in partnership with Kupferberg Center for the Arts and NYC Parks. WANT TO GO? kupferbergcenter.org/katzconcertseries. ›› QueensParent 31

‘A Midsummer Night’s Dream’ FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 11, 5pm (Kids program at 4:30pm) WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: 4 and older WHAT: Take in a performance of the Shakespeare classic, with an accompanying free interactive workshop 30 minutes before the show that gives kids ages 4-12 a chance to create links between the Shakespearean text and their own lives through close reading, theatre games, and previews of characters and situations. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

CityParks Foundation PuppetMobile: ‘Bessie’s Big Shot’ FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 13, 11am-1pm WHERE: Rockaway Beach Boardwalk, Beach 17th Street and Seagirt Boulevard, Rockaway Beach AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy CityParks Foundation’s re-imagined, family friendly, free production of Bessie’s Big Shot. Root for Bessie in this variety show as she attempts the impossible and searches for her special talents. WANT TO GO? 718-318-4000. nycgovparks.gov.

Patty Cake Theater Presents ‘Donkey Jote’ FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 14, 6-7pm WHERE: Highland Park, Jamaica Avenue and Elton Street, Cypress Hill AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy this bilingual adaptation of the adventures of Don Quixote as seen from his donkey. WANT TO GO? 718-235-4100. nycgovparks.org.

SHOW TIME! ‘The Tragedy of King Richard III’ FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 4, 5pm (Kids program at 4:30pm) WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: 4 and older WHAT: Catch a performance of The Tragedy of King Richard III, accompanied by a free interactive workshop offered 30 minutes before the start that gives kids ages 4-12 a chance to create links between the Shakespearean text and their own lives through close reading, theater games, and previews of characters and situations. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

‘Bessie’s Big Shot’ FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 6, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Gorman Playground, 25th to 30th avenues, between 84th and 85th Streets, Elmhurst AGES: All WHAT: Root for Bessie in this variety show as she attempts the impossible and searches for her special talents. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Renegade Performance Group FREE

WHEN: Aug. 3-10, Saturdays, 3pm and 6pm WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Renegade Performance Group debuts a new site-specific performance at Socrates. Hidden Tracks is a multimedia expounding on black futuring actions, such as migration, ancestral calling, selftransformation, and reclaiming cultural residue, and references the African-American tradition of “Ring Shout,” a spiritual time vessel of movement, sound, and chanting. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

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Hip to Hip Theatre: Shakespeare in the Garden FREE

WHEN: Aug. 9-16, Fridays, 7:30pm (kids workshop at 7:00pm) WHERE: The Voelker Orth Museum, 149-19 38th Ave., Flushing AGES: 4-12 WHAT: Hip to Hip Theatre brings their two new productions—The Tragedy of King Richard III and A Midsummer Night’s Dream—to the Voelker Orth garden on two Friday evenings, including a free interactive workshop offered 30 minutes before each performance designed for children ages 4 to 12. WANT TO GO? 718-359-6227. vomuseum.org.

Arts, Culture & Fun: City Stompers FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 18, 5-6:30pm WHERE: Rockaway Beach Boardwalk, at Beach 17th Street, Rockaway Beach AGES: All WHAT: Get on your feet and move to the sounds of live American fiddle music. Swing your corner and do-si-do, join hands for a Virginia Reel, and step right up and holler “yeehoo!” WANT TO GO? 718-318-4000. nycgovparks.org.

‘Guess What’: The Family-Friendly Stand Up Comedy Show

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 17, 12:30pm WHERE: The Creek & The Cave, 10-93 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: The show is hosted by an 11-year-old and her dad. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-706-8783. creeklic.com.

‘Mouse on the Move’

WHEN: Aug. 24-30, daily, 11:30am and 2:00pm WHERE: Long Island Children›s Museum, 11 Davis Avenue, Garden City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: In this interactive piece, audience members become active in the storytelling as they use props and their imagination to help the mice. WANT TO GO? $9 (museum admission can be purchased separately). 516-224-5828. licm.org.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Kayaking and Canoeing FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 4, 1-4pm WHERE: Hallets Cove, 31-10 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: LIC Community Boathouse offers free kayaking and canoeing from Socrates’ Beach at Hallets Cove! Minors must have parent/guardian present. WANT TO GO? licboathouse.org.

Mets Hawaiian Shirt Day

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 7:10pm WHERE: Citi Field, 120-01 Roosevelt Ave., Corona AGES: All WHAT: The first 15,000 fans attending the game will receive a free Mets Hawaiian shirt. WANT TO GO? $25 and up. mlb.com/mets.

National Baseball Card Day

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 11, 1:10pm WHERE: Citi Field, 120-01 Roosevelt Ave., Corona AGES: All WHAT: All fans attending the Mets game will receive a free pack of baseball cards. WANT TO GO? $25 and up. mlb.com/mets.

Kids Days with the Ridgewood YMCA FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 13: Tuesdays, 11am-12pm WHERE: The Shops at Atlas Park, 8000 Cooper Ave., Glendale AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy gymnastics, hip-hop, and youth art in action. WANT TO GO? 718-326-3300. shopatlaspark.com.

Summer Sports Experience FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 13, 11am-4pm WHERE: Mafera Park, 65 Place (between Shaler Avenue and the rail yards), Forest Park AGES: 8-14 WHAT: This instructional youth program will train kids in basketball, soccer, and flag football. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

5, 4, 3, 2, 1...Blastoff! Toddler Dance Party! FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 16: Fridays, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library: Elmhurst, 86-07 Broadway, Elmhurst AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Sing, dance, and receive a take-home craft. WANT TO GO? 718-271-1020. queenslibrary.org.

Family Scavenger Hunt FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 16: Fridays, 3-3:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, 35-51 81st St., Jackson Heights AGES: All WHAT: Earn a small prize while seeking answers to space trivia or library questions! WANT TO GO? 718-899-2500. queenslibrary.org.

Meditation for Kids FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 21: select Wednesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Woodhaven, 85-41 Forest Parkway, Woodhaven AGES: 5-12

WHAT: Learn benefits and techniques of meditation. WANT TO GO? 718-849-1010. queenslibrary.org.

Fireworks Night

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 24, 7:10pm WHERE: Citi Field, 120-01 Roosevelt Ave., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Stick around after the Mets game for a spectacular fireworks display. WANT TO GO? $25 and up. mlb.com/mets.

Mets Bandana Day

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 25, 1:10pm WHERE: Citi Field, 120-01 Roosevelt Ave., Corona AGES: All WHAT: The first 15,000 fans to arrive at the Mets game will receive a free tie-dye Mets bandana. Kids can hit the field after the game for the Mr. Met dash. WANT TO GO? $25 and up. mlb.com/mets.

Board Games FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 28: Wednesdays, 2-3pm WHERE: Queens Library, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy all types of board games. WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

Feel the Breeze Program for Toddlers and Preschoolers FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 30: Fridays, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Queens Library, 196-36 Northern Blvd., East Flushing AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Play with toys that teach about wind. WANT TO GO? 718-357-6643. queenslibrary.org.

Uno Tournament FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 30: Fridays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, McGoldrick, 155-06 Roosevelt Ave., Flushing AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Join an Uno tournament. WANT TO GO? 718-461-1616. queenslibrary.org.

Shabbos Playdate FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 31, 4:30-6:30pm WHERE: Queens Jewish Center, 66-05 108th St., Forest Hills AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Play at the QJC playground! WANT TO GO? 718-459-8432. myqjc.org.

Free Shirt Fridays

WHEN: Fridays, Aug. 9 and 23, 7:10pm WHERE: Citi Field, 120-01 Roosevelt Ave., Corona AGES: All WHAT: All fans attending the game will receive a free Mets T-shirt. WANT TO GO? $25 and up. mlb.com/mets.

Baby Playdate FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Mondays, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Court Square, 25-01 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Drop in for an unstructured playdate. WANT TO GO? 718-937-2790. queenslibrary.org. ››

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ONCE UPON A TIME Special Storytime! Kyle Lukoff FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 1, 11am-12pm WHERE: The Astoria Bookshop, 31-29 31st St., Astoria AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Join children’s book author Kyle Lukoff for a special storytime and reading of his books A Storytelling of Ravens and When Aidan Became a Brother. WANT TO GO? 718-278-2665. facebook.com.events/2281388302110467.

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS Jamaica JAMS FREE

WHEN: Aug. 2-3, Friday, 6-10pm; Saturday, 11am-7pm WHERE: Jamaica Avenue, from Parsons Boulevard to 170th Street, Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Check out this fun festival featuring multi-cultural family fun, shopping, foods, community resources, and entertainment. WANT TO GO? 718-526-8700. jamaicajams.nyc.

Spirit of the Caribbean FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 4, 12-5pm WHERE: Jamaica Center for Arts and Learning, 161-04 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: This fun festival celebrates the food, music, arts, and dance of the Caribbean. WANT TO GO? 718-658-7400. jcal.org.

Hong Kong Dragon Boat Festival FREE

WHEN: Aug. 3-4, Saturday-Sunday, 9am-5pm WHERE: Flushing Meadows Corona Park, 111th Street to Van Wyck Boulevard, Queens AGES: All WHAT: The festival takes place over two days on the site of the 1964 World’s Fair, featuring events for the entire family. HKDBF-NY keeps up the age-old tradition of Dragon Boat Racing in colorful, custom made teak boats, which are works of art gliding on water. WANT TO GO? 516-671-4041. nycgovparks.org.

Steinway Street Festival FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 11, 10am-6pm WHERE: Steinway Street, between 28th and 34th avenues, Astoria AGES: All WHAT: This fun festival features rides, games, food, live music, and more! WANT TO GO? clearviewfestival.com.

Rockaway Caribbean Carnival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 17, 11am-8pm WHERE: Bayswater Park, Bay 32nd Street and Beach Channel Drive, Rockaway AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate various cultures, arts, and traditions of the Caribbean with music and dancing. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Rockaway Beach Boardwalk Art Craft & Gift Fair FREE

WHEN: Aug. 17-18, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: Beach 79th Street through Beach 82nd Street on the Boardwalk, Rockaway Beach AGES: All WHAT: A free family shopping event! Emerging and established artisans and high quality craft and gift vendors offer their handpicked items at recognizable savings. WANT TO GO? 718-318-4000. nycgovparks.org. 34

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Pajama Storytime and Stuffed Animal Sleepover FREE

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 5, 6-7pm WHERE: Queens Library, 92-24 Rockaway Blvd., Ozone Park AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Wear your pajamas to storytime, and bring your favorite stuffed friend. Children will share books and art and then the stuffed animals will stay for a library sleepover. You can pick up your friend the next day and find out about their overnight adventures in the library! WANT TO GO? 718-845-3127. queenslibrary.org.

Special Storytime! Galia Bernstein FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 8, 11am-12pm WHERE: The Astoria Bookshop, 31-29 31st St., Astoria AGES: 3-8 WHAT: A special storytime with children’s book author Galia Bernstein, who will be reading her latest book, Leyla. WANT TO GO? 718-278-2665. facebook.com/events/582142378977724.

Pajama Storytime FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 15: Thursdays, 6-6:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, 94-11 217 St., Queens Village AGES: 1½-5 WHAT: Join us for stories, finger plays, and fun! Feel free to dress children in slippers and pajamas, and bring a favorite stuffed animal. Registration required. WANT TO GO? queenslibrary.org.

Fabulous Fridays FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 16: Fridays, 4-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, 151-10 14th Road, Whitestone AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Read a story and do a related craft. WANT TO GO? 718-767-8010. queenslibrary.org.

Family Story Time: Babies and Books FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 21: Wednesdays, 11-11:45am WHERE: Queens Library, 108-41 Guy R. Brewer Blvd., South Jamaica AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: This story time is appropriate for newborns and prewalkers. WANT TO GO? 718-739-4088. queenslibrary.org.

Zoom! Zoom! Babies! FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 21: Wednesdays, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library, 86-07 Broadway, Elmhurst AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Enjoy a story time. WANT TO GO? 718-271-1020. queenslibrary.org.

Twilight Tales FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 22: Thursdays, 6:30-7:15pm WHERE: Queens Library, North Hills, 57-04 Marathon Pkwy., Little Neck AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Listen to stories and learn songs and finger plays. WANT TO GO? 718-225-3550. queenslibrary.org.

STEM Storytime FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 23: Fridays, 11-11:45am WHERE: Queens Library, 108-41 Guy R. Brewer Blvd., South Jamaica AGES: 4-6 WHAT: Enjoy a picture book along with a STEM craft and activity. WANT TO GO? 718-739-4088. queenslibrary.org.

Playdate: A Sky Full of Stories FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 24: Saturdays, 11am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library, 92-06 156 Ave., Howard Beach AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Explore stars through songs and stories. WANT TO GO? 718-641-7086. queenslibrary.org.

Mother Goose FREE

Storytime for Toddlers and Preschoolers FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 31: Wednesdays and Saturdays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Queens Library, East Flushing, 196-36 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Read picture books, sing songs, do finger plays, and color. WANT TO GO? 718-357-6643. queenslibrary.org.

Picture Book Time FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Wednesdays, 11:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Richmond Hill, 118-14 Hillside Ave. AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join for stories, songs, finger plays, and simple crafts. WANT TO GO? 718-849-7150. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Through Aug. 26: Mondays, 12-12:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Mitchell-Linden, 31-32 Union St., Flushing AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Join Mrs. H for songs and finger plays. WANT TO GO? 718-539-2330. queenslibrary.org.

Mother Goose Rhyme & Storytime FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 26: Mondays, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Queens Library, Hillcrest, 187-05 Union Turnpike, Flushing AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy nursery rhymes, story times, and free play. WANT TO GO? 718-454-2786. queenslibrary.org.

LITTLE FOODIES Little Cooks: Berry Yummy S’mores

WHEN: Through Aug. 26, Mondays, 1-2pm WHERE: Queens Library, 92-06 156 Ave., Howard Beach AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Celebrate favorite books and themes. WANT TO GO? 718-641-7086. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 11am-12pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Meet Bandit the Guinea pig and feed him some berries. Then build your own summertime s’mores. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $16. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Toddler Time in Space FREE

Summer Meals & Music for Kids & Teens FREE

Playdate: Take Me to Your Reader FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 28: Wednesdays, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library, Peninsula, 92-25 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Beach AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy space-themed stories, songs, finger plays, and rhymes. WANT TO GO? 718-634-1110. queenslibrary.org.

Summer Reading: Storytime FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 28: Wednesdays, 10:30-11am WHERE: Glendale Library, 78-60 73rd Place, Glen Oaks AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: A story time with songs, stories, and rhymes. WANT TO GO? 718-821-4980. queenslibrary.org.

Storytime and Me FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 30: Fridays, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Queens Library, Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: 8-18 months WHAT: Enjoy a story time and activity time together. WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

Summer Reading: Super Space Storytime! FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 30: Fridays, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library, Peninsula, 92-25 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Beach AGES: All WHAT: Join for a space-themed story time! WANT TO GO? 718-634-1110. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Through Aug. 30: Monday-Friday, 1-2pm WHERE: Queens Library: 250-06 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy a free lunch and music. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org.

Lunch and Listen FREE

WHEN: Through Sept. 4: Monday-Friday, 1-2:45pm WHERE: Queens Library: 108-41 Guy R. Brewer Blvd., South Jamaica AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Listen to a book or watch a movie while eating free lunch. WANT TO GO? 718-739-4088. queenslibrary.org.

Lunch and a Movie FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 30: Monday-Friday, 1-2pm WHERE: Queens Library, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy free lunch and a movie. WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

Summer Meal and A Movie Program FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 30: Weekdays, 1-2pm WHERE: Queens Library, 204-01 Hollis Ave., South Hollis AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Come for a free meal and watch a movie. WANT TO GO? 718-465-6779. queenslibrary.org. ›› QueensParent 35

Outdoor Movie Night at Randall’s Island Park: ‘Crazy Rich Asians’ (PG-13) FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 11, 8:15-10:15pm WHERE: Randall’s Island Park, 20 Randall’s Island Park, New York City AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Rachel Chu is excited to accompany her longtime boyfriend, Nick, to his best friend’s wedding in Singapore. But little does she know that the guy she views as just Nick is not only wealthy but one of the most eligible bachelors in the country. WANT TO GO? 212-830-7722. randallsisland.org.

Family Film Friday FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 16: Fridays, 3-4:45pm WHERE: Queens Library: 40-20 Broadway, Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a family-friendly movie! WANT TO GO? 718-721-2462. queenslibrary.org.

Sunnyside Outdoor Movie Nights: ‘Coco’ FREE

ON SCREEN Movies Under the Stars: ‘Carousel’ FREE

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 5, 7:30-10pm WHERE: George Seuffert Bandshell, Woodhaven Boulevard and Forest Park Drive, Woodhaven AGES: All WHAT: Based on the Rodgers and Hammerstein stage musical, a carousel barker is granted permission to return to Earth for one day to make amends to his widow and their daughter. WANT TO GO? 718-235-4100. nycgovparks.org.

Summer Movies Under the Stars: ‘Spider-Man into the SpiderVerse’ FREE

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 5, 8-10pm WHERE: Cunningham Park, 200-00 73rd Ave., Queens AGES: All WHAT: This Oscar-winning animated feature is based on the Marvel Comics character, Miles Morales / Spider-Man, and follows Miles as he becomes one of the many Spider-Men that team up to save New York City from Kingpin. WANT TO GO? 718-463-6677. facebook.com/wonkwangcommunityservicecenter.

Movies On The Waterfront Series: ‘Spider-Man: Into the Spider-Verse’ FREE

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 5, 8:15-10:15pm WHERE: Astoria Park, Astoria AGES: All WHAT: Central Astoria LDC continues the 2019 Movies on the Waterfront Series with a showing of Spider-Man: Into the Spider-Verse. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Movie Night at Alley Pond Park: ‘Frozen’ FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 8, 8:20-10:05pm WHERE: Alley Pond Park, Little Neck Bay, Union Turnpike, between Springfield Boulevard, Douglaston Parkway, and Hanford Street, Oakland Gardens AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy this outdoor film screening at Alley Pond Park with your friends and family! Please bring your own lawn chair or blanket. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

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WHEN: Friday, Aug. 16, 8-10pm WHERE: Noonan Playground, Greenpoint Avenue (between 42nd and 43rd streets) Sunnyside AGES: All WHAT: Watch Coco under the stars. The movie follows a young musician, Miguel, as he ventures into the Land of the Dead to learn about his ancestors and heritage. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Galactic Movie Matinee FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 19: Mondays, 4-6pm WHERE: Queens Library, Richmond Hill, 118-14 Hillside Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Watch movies such as Space Jam and Mars Needs Moms. WANT TO GO? 718-849-7150. queenslibrary.org/branch/Richmond-Hill.

Movies on the Green FREE

WHEN: Wednesdays, Aug. 7 and 21; movies begin at dusk WHERE: The Shops at Atlas Park, 8000 Cooper Ave., Glendale AGES: All WHAT: All movies start at dusk but come early to enjoy periodic entertainment. August movies include Incredibles 2 and The LEGO Movie 2. WANT TO GO? 718-326-3300. shopatlaspark.com.

Summer Movie Express

WHEN: Through Aug. 21: Tuesday-Wednesday, times vary WHERE: Regal UA Kaufman Astoria & RPX, 35-30 38th St., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Movie ticket deals are just $1 on Tuesdays and Wednesdays, featuring summer movies the whole family will enjoy, such as Shrek, Despicable Me, Kung Fu Panda, and more. WANT TO GO? $1. regmovies.com.

Outdoor Cinema: ‘The March of the Penguins’ FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 21, 7pm WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Each autumn, the emperor penguins of Antarctica travel hundreds of miles from the sea to their inland mating grounds, subjected to one of the harshest climates on the planet. French director Luc Jacquet shot these regal creatures for over 13 months to capture one annual cycle. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

Summer Matinees: Fantastic Worlds FREE

Nature Center Adventures: Forest Park FREE

Film Friday FREE

Science in the Woods with the New York Hall of Science FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 25: Wednesday-Sunday, 12pm (Note: Some films begin at 11:30am on weekends) WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: All WHAT: Beat the heat this summer and see your favorite family films, both old and new, on the museum’s big screen, including Labyrinth and The Dark Crystal. WANT TO GO? $15; $9 children ages 3-17; includes museum admission. 718-429-2579. movingimage.us. WHEN: Through Aug. 30: Fridays, 2-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Each week features a kid-friendly film. WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

Movie Night FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 30: Friday, 4:30-6pm WHERE: Queens Library, Astoria, 14-01 Astoria Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Watch age-appropriate movies. WANT TO GO? 718-278-2220. queenslibrary.org.

Family Movie FREE

WHEN: Through Sept. 3: Tuesdays, 3-5pm WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: All WHAT: Check out movies such as Paddington 2 and Sherlock Gnomes. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.

Apollo 11: First Steps

WHEN: Through Jan. 21: daily, 3pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: This film showcases the real-life moments of the first lunar landing. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children, students, and senior citizens, plus museum admission. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

WHEN: Through Aug. 17: Thursday-Sunday, 11am-12pm and 2-3pm WHERE: Forest Park Visitor Center, Woodhaven Boulevard and Forest Park Drive, Woodhaven AGES: All WHAT: Nature Center Adventures connect New Yorkers of all ages to nature through experiential learning. Nature Center Adventure programs include scavenger hunts, nature crafts and games, and getting up close and personal with our nature center animals. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org. WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 17, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Alley Pond Park, 76th Avenue and Springfield Boulevard, Oakland Gardens AGES: All WHAT: Join the New York Hall of Science for fun, free, hands-on science programming in Alley Pond Park. There will be four stations of engineering-themed activities. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Summer Nights

WHEN: Through Sept. 12: Thursdays, 6-8pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: QBG is extending its open hours so you can enjoy twilight at the garden. Plus, have a blast at a Flower Power Party on Aug. 8, with live music and dance, botanical crafts, food and beverages available for purchase, as well as other programming. WANT TO GO? Free with garden admission: $6 adults; $2 children ages 4 to 12; free for children younger than 4. 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org. ››

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THE GREAT OUTDOORS Family Camping: Queens FREE

WHEN: Aug. 10-11, Saturday, 6pm to Sunday, 7am WHERE: Alley Pond Park, Little Neck Bay, Union Turnpike, between Springfield Boulevard, Douglaston Parkway, and Hanford Street, Oakland Gardens AGES: All WHAT: The Urban Park Rangers celebrate the tradition of camping and look forward to welcoming your family. Participants are chosen by lottery. To enter your family in the lottery, visit nyc.gov/parks/rangers/register. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org/parks/Q001.

Nature Center Adventures: Fort Totten Park FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 17: Thursday-Sunday, 11am-12pm and 2-3pm WHERE: Fort Totten Park, Cross Island Parkway, between Totten Avenue and 15th Road, Fort Totten AGES: All WHAT: Nature Center Adventure programs include scavenger hunts, nature crafts and games, and getting up close and personal with nature center animals. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

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‘Backyard Wilderness’ 3-D

WHEN: Through Sept. 30: daily, 11am and 2pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Backyard Wilderness will surprise and entertain viewers with the unexpected wonders of nature that are right under our noses—in our own backyards. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children, students, and seniors (with NYSCI admission); $4 members. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Sea Lion Feeding

WHEN: Year-round, daily, 11:15am, 2pm, and 4pm WHERE: Queens Zoo, 53-51 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Watch the sea lions enjoy their meals and maybe do a trick or two! WANT TO GO? $9.95; $7.95 seniors ages 65 and older; $6.95 children ages 3-12; Free for children 2 and younger. 718-271-1500. queenszoo.com.

ANIMAL LOVERS Family Animal Meet & Greet

WHEN: Aug. 3-4, Saturday-Sunday, 1:30-2:30pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Learn some interesting facts about animals and meet five different animals from APEC’s Animal Collection. WANT TO GO? $18 per family of four or fewer. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Colorful Creatures

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 10, 10:30-11:45am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Learn about local plants and animals for each color of the rainbow. Share a book, make a colorful salad for the turtles, and enjoy a nature walk. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $20. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

APEC Adventure Time: Soft & Furry Animals

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 11, 11am-12:15pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Explore a variety of mammal pelts and learn about the importance of camouflage. Toddlers and parents/caregivers enjoy some special time together as they socialize with other youngsters and learn about nature. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $20. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

I Want to Be a Vet

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3 and Sunday, Aug. 18, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Does your child dream of being a veterinarian? Send them to APEC to learn the basics of animal care. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $26. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com. 38

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SMARTY PANTS Who Would You Be In An Alternate Universe? FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 2, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, 69-70 Grand Ave., Maspeth AGES: 9-17 WHAT: This is a fun creative writing program for older children and teens. If you were in a different universe, what would it be like? How would you be different or the same? The possibilities are endless. WANT TO GO? 718-639-5228. queenslibrary.org.

Doctor for a Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about doctors’ tools, nutrition, and hygiene. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.

Jeopardy for Kids FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 4-4:45pm WHERE: Queens Library, 85-12 Main St., Briarwood AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Use your knowledge to answer questions on various topics. WANT TO GO? 718-658-1680. queenslibrary.org.

Hands on History: Play 19th Century Historic Games! FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 3, 1-4pm WHERE: King Manor Museum, 150-03 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Ever wondered what toys children played with in the 19th century? Come try out classic games that John King and his brothers would have played on King Manor’s lawn, weather permitting. WANT TO GO? 718-206-0545. kingmanor.org.

Mad Science: Spin, Pop.....Boom! FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 6, 11am-12pm WHERE: Flushing Meadows Corona Park, 111th Street to Van Wyck Boulevard, Queens AGES: All WHAT: Have a blast with awesome experiments! Witness amazing feats of chemistry as you explore all sorts of spectacular reactions. WANT TO GO? 516-671-4041. nycgovparks.org.

Summer Enrichment Program: Crime Scene Investigation FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 9: Monday-Friday, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Langston Hughes Library, Community Cultural Center, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Participants will take part in five different investigations using science and technology tools. Follow clues to dissect what happened at a crime scene and use your deductive reasoning skills to figure out who is the culprit. This is a collaboration between the Library Action Committee of Corona-East Elmhurst and the administrative instruction of the NY Hall of Science. WANT TO GO? 718-875-3500. queenslibrary.org..

Spelling Bee for Kids FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 13: Tuesdays, 4-5:15pm WHERE: Queens Library, Central Library, 89-11 Merrick Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Enjoy a spelling bee summer program. WANT TO GO? 718-990-0778. queenslibrary.org.

STEM Science FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 14: Wednesdays, 3-3:45pm WHERE: Queens Library, McGoldrick, 155-06 Roosevelt Ave., Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join for cool science activities. WANT TO GO? 718-461-1616. queenslibrary.org.

Library Jeopardy FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 14: Wednesdays, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Central Library, 89-11 Merrick Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Show off your knowledge playing Jeopardy. WANT TO GO? 718-990-0778. queenslibrary.org.

Making History Workshop FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 14: Wednesdays, 10am-12pm WHERE: King Manor Museum, 150-03 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Try real recipes, methods, and concepts from the 19th century. WANT TO GO? 718-206-0545. kingmanor.org.

Super Space Spelling Bee! FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 15: Thursdays, 2-3pm WHERE: Hollis Library, 202-05 Hillside Ave., Hollis AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Get ready for a space-themed spelling bee. There will be practice sessions followed by a fun spelling contest. WANT TO GO? 718-465-7355. queenslibrary.org.

Star Wars Coding Series for Kids FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 20: select Wednesdays, 2-3pm WHERE: Queens Library, Queensboro Hill, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Design and code a Star Wars-themed video. WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332. queenslibrary.org.

Coding with Google CS First - Art FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 20: Tuesdays, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Queens Library, 108-19 71st Ave., Forest Hills

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AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Learn to code with Google CS First! WANT TO GO? 718-268-7934. queenslibrary.org.

Kickoff to Kindergarten FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 20: Tuesdays, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library, Woodhaven, 85-41 Forest Parkway, Woodhaven AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Learn how to use book-reading, games, and hands-on activities to build language skills. WANT TO GO? 718-849-1010. queenslibrary.org.

STAR Net’s ‘Summer of Space’ FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 20: Tuesdays, 2-3pm WHERE: Queens Library, 108-41 Guy R. Brewer Blvd., South Jamaica AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Enjoy STEM activities geared towards the exploration of space. WANT TO GO? 718-739-4088. queenslibrary.org.

Coding Classes FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 22: Tuesday and Thursday, 4-5pm WHERE: P.Y.E Education Center, 4132 75th St., Queens AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Students will learn about programming basics by working through coding challenges and working with Python. WANT TO GO? 718-565-1846. colorinmilk.org.

Explore the Solar System FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 28: Wednesdays, 2-3pm WHERE: Queens Library, Hillcrest, 187-05 Union Turnpike, Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Each week explore a different part of our solar system. WANT TO GO? 718-454-2786. queenslibrary.org.

Space Station Moon Fort Engineering Challenge FREE

WHEN: Aug. 1-29, Thursdays, 2-3pm WHERE: Queens Library, Hillcrest, 187-05 Union Turnpike, Flushing AGES: 4-10 WHAT: Build a space station moon fort in this new engineering challenge at the Hillcrest library! There are over-sized foam blocks to create your fort on the moon! WANT TO GO? 718-454-2786. queenslibrary.org.

Minecraft Coding FREE

WHEN: Aug. 1-29, Thursdays, 4pm-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, South Hollis Branch, 204-01 Hollis Ave., South Hollis AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Challenge yourself with Minecraft coding. WANT TO GO? 718-465-6779. queenslibrary.org.

Sit & Think (Sudoku) FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Monday-Saturday, 1-1:15pm WHERE: Queens Library, Richmond Hill Branch, 118-14 Hillside Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Try a Sudoku puzzle or just refresh your math skills. WANT TO GO? 718-849-7150. queenslibrary.org.

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Summer Classics Compiled by Melissa Wickes

Before back-to-school shopping and carpool planning become your reality, enjoy the final days of summer with your family by getting outdoors as much as you can! Ride a wave and build a sandcastle at one of the best beaches in Queens or embrace the fun of red-stained fingers when picking strawberries, blueberries, and more at a nearby farm. Looking to go for an adventure? Spend the day riding a roller coaster at a local amusement park or take a horse out for a trot at one of the many stables in our area. However you soak up the last of the summer sun, make sure the whole family has proper protection from UV rays!

AMUSEMENT PARKS

Fantasy Forest at the Flushing Meadows Carousel 111th Street and 55th Avenue, Flushing 718-788-2676 fantasyforestnyc.com Hours: Through Oct. 8: daily; hours vary. Check online for full details. Admission: Single ticket: $3.50; 3 tickets: $10; 10 tickets: $30; 20 tickets: $55; 40 tickets: $100. Weekly unlimited ride wristband: $25 (valid until 4pm) One roller coaster, family rides and games, and a carousel are right in the heart of Queens. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/amusementparks

BEACHES Rockaway Beach and Boardwalk Far Rockaway to Neponsit (Beach 9th to Beach 149th streets; see website for entrance changes) 718-318-4000 nycgovparks.org/parks/rockaway-beach-and-boardwalk Hours: Daily, 10am-6pm; lifeguards on duty daily, 10am-6pm. Swimming allowed through Labor Day. Admission: FREE Basketball and handball courts, beach tennis, skate park, surfing, sitting areas, playgrounds along the boardwalk and adjoining areas Find more>>nymetroparents.com/beaches

BERRY PICKING

HORSEBACK RIDING

Seven Ponds Orchard 65 Seven Ponds Road, Water Mill 631-726-8015 Hours: Daily, 9am-6pm Pick your own raspberries and blackberries through November. Blueberries also available. Apple picking begins at the end of August and continues through November. Also offers on-site market with baked goods and jams, childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s play area, and corn maze.

GallopNYC 8803 70th Road, Lindenwood 718-261-7689 gallopnyc.org Lessons are offered to all riders, including lessons to help people in NYC with disabilities walk, talk, and learn. The center offers lesson programs for young riders and adults using an indoor arena, as well as trail lessons offered in Forest Park. Western and English both offered.

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Where Fantasy Rules Immerse yourself in a 16th-century Elizabethan village for a day

he New York Renaissance Faire is back for its 42nd season! This 65-acre Elizabethan village celebrates life in the 16th century with jousting, theater, acrobatics, magicians, music, shows, games, food, and more. Read on as Estée Pouleris shares what her first experience at the New York Renaissance Faire was like. Three years ago, I hadn’t attended this event before, so I wasn’t sure what to expect. My then 4-year-old daughter Brooklyn, her dad, and I made the scenic 45-minute drive from upper Manhattan to see what the Renaissance Faire is all about. And we experienced a show you may find yourself looking forward to each and every year. Once we arrived, the faire completely blew my mind. It is set up as a 65-acre Elizabethan village, and it feels like being on a movie set. This celebration of the 16th century is filled with hundreds of costumed performers, jousting tournaments, music, festive foods, magicians, manually powered rides, and more than 100 shops selling mostly handmade wares. To add to the fun, most of the attendees dress up, too. The venue even offers rental costumes if you feel inspired to fully immerse yourself in the experience.

Queens, and Knights, and Fairies, Oh My!

We began our day around 3pm, and stopped first at the Queen’s Glade, where Brooklyn participated in the Children’s Knighting Ceremony. Here we were able to spend some time with “her majesty” and her court. It was a cute ceremony led by costumed knights who taught the kids about knighthood and their job to protect the realm. Brooklyn received a certificate of knighthood for her extraordinary courage, honor, and truthfulness, and was renamed Lady Brooklyn. Our next stop was The Enchanted Forest, where Brooklyn settled in and fell in love with the fairies. Fairies don’t talk, but Brooklyn 42

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quickly found a way to communicate with them: They made gestures back and forth and mimicked each other’s facial expressions. Some fairies even gave away treasures such as buttons and pixie dust. Several times throughout the day, this area is also turned into Kids’ Quest, where kids can participate in a 30-minute adventure in which they work together to help the fairies save their enchanted homes.

Renaissance Fare and Fun

Next, we tried the amusement rides. There are about a half dozen manually powered rides spread throughout the grounds. We rode the Dragon Swing, Bedlam Barrel, Crow’s Nest, and carousel. These are all unique, hand crafted, and pushed or spun by hard-working faire employees, all dressed in character. As much fun as these were, I think the highlight was the games, including axe throwing, a maze, ring toss, darts, strength tests, and dragon slaying. Brooklyn and her dad played four rounds of archery, both eventually hitting the bullseye! We refueled with delicious food. The faire offers a smorgasbord of treats, including vegetarian, vegan, and gluten-free options. We ended up with sausage on a stick, pizza, and dragon chips. All were deliciously greasy and perfect fair food. While eating we watched dancers and performers while many attendees joined in on the fun. It was a great break in our day and gave us a moment to take in the spirit of the festival and see how much fun everyone was having.

Royal Entertainment

Our next stop was Teatro Del Sol, where we caught an act by the famous Gypsy Geoff. He’s known for juggling, fire manipulation, and other circus acts. We’ll never forget this show because he ended up inviting Brooklyn onstage to do some tricks with him.

She held sticks while a plate spun on one and a metal bin on the other. Geoff then began playing them like drums. To top it off, he poured a pitcher of water in the spinning metal bin, giving Brooklyn a little shower. Our last planned stop for the day was the Royal Joust at the Roselawn Tournament Field. This event is free and offers a lot of great seating, including a VIP option. Jousting is intense, so I had to reassure Brooklyn that the competitors were unharmed. We all enjoyed it, though, and got to meet the riders and horses afterward. As the jousting tournament ended, the faire started closing down for the day. Brooklyn asked if she could be the leader to show us the way out, when a performer by the name of Daniel Liberti stepped by her side and said, “I’ll lead!” He asked her name and if she likes to make wishes. He put a pebble in her hand, told her to squeeze her hands and eyes as tight as she could, and make a wish. She announced her wish for a unicorn. He then took his staff and touched her hands with it, and told her to open her eyes and hands—well, there was no unicorn, but there was a crystal marble. It was a fun, spontaneous experience, so much in line with the vibe of a Renaissance Faire. We made our way toward the exit around 7pm and noticed all the performers gathering along the hills and paths on our route. A band started playing live Renaissance-style music, and everyone started dancing. Performers and attendees all danced together and celebrated a wonderful day of fantasy. My daughter found her favorite fairy up on the hill and they danced together until it was time to call it a day. It’s official: I am now a Renaissance Faire fan, and I will likely visit this one every year.

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The Renaissance Faire hosts themed weekends all season, including Pirate Weekend, Time Travelers’ Weekend, and Celtic Weekend. Plus, various entertainers stroll the grounds all season, so you’re never without something fun to see! There is free parking about ¼ mile from the faire, and free shuttle buses take visitors back and forth. There is $10 parking closer to the faire, but the lot fills quickly. The grounds are very stroller and wheelchair friendly. Diaper changing stations are in men’s and women’s bathrooms. Wagons are available to rent if you don’t bring a stroller. Pets are not allowed, though service animals are welcome. You can get a stamp if you leave the park to return later that day. Outside food is not allowed, but you can return to your car for a picnic if you would prefer your own food. Many shows are not appropriate for kids. All of these are indicated on the schedule or online. However, overall, this is a very kid-friendly venue. Nearly all activities, with few exceptions (such as the shows and performances), require additional fees. Activities and food stands don’t accept credit cards. There are ATMs around the faire, but bringing cash is helpful. There is direct bus transportation provided by Shortline from the Port Authority Bus Terminal in Manhattan to the faire. It offers either a round-trip bus-only ticket to the faire or a day-trip package that includes round-trip bus ticket, plus faire admission and a program (shortlinebus.com; 800-631-8405).

Want to Go?

Address: Sterling Forest, 600 Route 17A, Tuxedo, Orange County Hours: Aug. 17-Oct. 6, Saturday-Sunday and Labor Day, 10am-7pm Admission: $29.95; $25.95 seniors (62 and older) and military personnel with identification; $13 ages 5-12; free for ages 4 and younger. Check website for discounts and promotions. More info: renfair.com/ny or 845-351-5171

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Plotting Your Return ››

The transition from maternity leave to being back at work isn’t always smooth, but the good news is you can make it easier on you and your family. By Madeleine Burry

ere’s the thing about maternity leave: It’s finite. You may have several months or just a few weeks of 1-on-1 time with your new baby, but eventually, you’ll return to your workplace. That transition isn’t always easy. “New moms may feel a range of feelings when returning to work,” says Dana Dorfman, Ph.D., psychotherapist and co-host of the podcast 2 Moms on the Couch. Those feelings can include everything from guilt to sadness to excitement. Then there is the sheer volume of logistical questions to tackle: Who will care for your baby? Where and when will you pump if you’re breast-feeding? Do your professional outfits still fit? With each question that hits you, heading back to work feels more intimidating. Since countless other working moms have dealt with these same concerns, we spoke to some of them, as well as human resources professionals and psychologists, to find the best strategies for your return to work.

Securing Child Care

Don’t delay when it comes to sorting out child care. Day care spots fill up early, and interviewing potential nannies will take longer than you think. “Secure child care early in the pregnancy,” recommends Angel Montfort, Psy.D., a clinical psychologist at the Center for Maternal Mental Health in Florida. Or at least put child care on the top of your transitional to-do list, and consider these factors as you evaluate your options. Location matters. “If you are looking for a day care for your child, remember the most important factor is location, location, location!” says Eirene Heidelberger, certified parent coach and founder of GIT Mom (Get It Together, Mom!). Your time will be precious, she points out—don’t waste it adding an extra leg to your commute. Plus, you’ll appreciate a location near home (or your office), especially if you have to pick up a sick little one in the middle of your workday. Caregiver rapport is important. The best way to feel comfortable about your baby being away from you is to be able to visualize how each day is spent. “I encourage moms to spend time with caregivers prior to returning to work,” Dr. Dorfman says. That might mean 44

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shadowing a nanny or sitter for a few days or long visits to the day care. (If the day care you’re considering seems to frown on “surprise” visits as opposed to scheduled tours, keep looking!) Schedule this time a few weeks before you head back to work— that way, if need be, you will have time to find an alternative. “Ideally, this time together will enhance mom’s connection and trust with a caregiver,” Dr. Dorfman says. Open communication is key. Moms should feel comfortable speaking with caregivers about their family’s needs. “It’s advisable to have regular check-ins to discuss concerns and mitigate potential conflicts,” Dr. Dorfman says. It can be as casual as chatting with the day care staff at drop-off or as formal as a weekly meeting with your nanny. A backup plan is a must. Babies get sick. Nannies do too. And sometimes, day care is closed when your workplace is open. Along with your partner, think through how you’ll handle these moments—maybe you have family or a trusted friend who can help out, or perhaps you and your partner can alternate caretaking.

Plan Your Return

Although you began strategizing before you went on leave (setting up a return date, etc.), be open to the possibility that your notion of what makes sense for you and your family may shift during maternity leave, Dr. Montfort urges. “As much as we try to plan ahead, it’s important to be adaptable and work together to find a plan that makes sense for everyone,” says Marshall Stanton, human resources director at Aeroflow Healthcare. The following expert tips can help you navigate this process: Prepare for a mix of emotions. “It’s normal to feel excited, scared, anxious, sad, or anything else…as your first day back approaches,” Stanton says. And don’t discount the possibility that you’ll welcome going back, Dr. Dorfman adds. “Often, work can be a welcome reprieve from allconsuming child care,” she says, noting that it’s a return to interacting with adults and reconnecting with your pre-motherhood identity. Know your rights. Legally, your employer needs to provide a private space and reasonable break time for you to pump, Stanton says. If the

space is bedraggled—say, an old supply closet with a rickety folding chair—schedule a time to meet with your manager about it. “I think most people will find their companies really want to support them but often just don’t fully understand what a new mom needs,” he adds. Do a trial run. Your morning routine likely looks quite different these days. Before your first day back at work, try a test run. Wake up, do your routine with baby, put on a work outfit, and commute to the office. This might reveal aspects that need adjustment— such as waking up earlier so you have time to change your shirt after it’s covered in spit-up. Skip Monday your first week back. A short week will make the transition easier on you. In addition, some moms at Stanton’s company work a modified schedule for the first few weeks back in the office. If that’s financially feasible, you may want to check if a flexible work schedule is an option at your workplace. Make a schedule. If you are pumping at work, try to schedule your day around it, Stanton suggests. If you need a firm exit time in place to avoid late fees from your caregiver, make sure to put that on your calendar so you don’t get pulled into a surprise 5pm meeting. Ask for what you need. “A mom must advocate for herself because no one else will,” Heidelberger says. Seek to negotiate expectations in a way that’s mutually beneficial, she advises. For example, a workfrom-home day may help you get more work done, while also being able to accommodate your nanny’s schedule. Find peers in and out of the office. It’s hard to overestimate the value of an in-office support system. These people really get it—and can often help you navigate new HR situations. “Finding a few fellow parents in the office who understand...what you’re going through is one of the best ways to help moms transition back smoothly,” Stanton says. Moms particularly benefit from other moms’ support, Dr. Dorfman says. “Those who are in the same phase of working motherhood can commiserate and deeply understand the way a mom feels,” she adds. In addition, find like-minded friends to add to your social circle. “Build your village so you can have a reality-check when you need it,” Heidelberger recommends. Turn to professionals. “Seek therapy if you need help navigating the emotional transition of returning to work,” Dr. Montfort says. A therapist provides a safe space to explore your feelings, and allows you to think through your new identity, she says. Ask for help—and accept it too! If the people in your life offer help with this transition or to care for your little one, take them up on it, Dr. Montfort says. After all, it really does take a village. Prioritize yourself. Experts agree: Mom guilt is hard for any mom to avoid, frankly. But “just because a mom may feel guilt, it doesn’t mean that it’s warranted,” Dr. Dorfman points out. Caring for yourself may help alleviate some of that guilt—and keep you sane. So take the time to figure out what you need for yourself. Maybe it’s an hour to attend a weekly yoga class, watching your favorite TV show, or a coffee date with a friend. “These restorative moments help moms to be more present with baby and more productive at work,” Dr. Dorfman observes. “They do wonders for the psyche and soul.”

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Homeowner’s Insurance Check ››

Your policy should be sized up on a yearly basis (at least), but which life events warrant an immediate review? By Melissa Wickes

hen a disaster strikes your home—flood, burglary, fire, or worse—the last thing you want to worry about is whether your homeowner’s insurance is up to date. Even if you review your coverage annually, there are several life-changing events that may require policy modification—big purchases, home renovation, or family changes. With a little help from local homeowner’s insurance experts, we explain how and when to make the necessary adjustments.

Big Purchases

Homeowner’s insurance is not just meant to protect your physical home (the bricks, walls, and roof). It should also cover what’s inside your home—everything from furniture to designer handbags. “It is extremely important to check in with your insurance agent when you make significant purchases to ensure everything is covered,” says Christina Trapani, senior branch manager at Liberty Mutual Insurance in Valley Stream. “For high-valued items, like engagement rings, artwork, consumers should look into ‘scheduling’ the property,” Trapani suggests. “Scheduling is an insurance term meaning the item is on a ‘schedule’ and insured separately—it is not covered under the general personal property limit.” A vacation might also warrant a change in policy. “Say you have a big trip coming up this summer, maybe overseas. We should talk about if you have off-premise theft (coverage). Meaning, if you’re in the airport and your luggage is stolen, where does your coverage end and begin?” offers Christina Shaw, an Allstate agent in Wantagh. Making a purchase that could be considered high-risk—such as a pool or a new trampoline—is another reason to review your policy. Another example? A pet. “Getting a dog is a good reason to call your agent because you want to make sure your liability coverage on your homeowner’s insurance policy includes if your dog bites a neighbor or something like that,” explains Kelly Qu, homeowners insurance agent for Allstate in Manhattan.

Home Renovations

A renovation should absolutely trigger a policy review—what if the construction itself damages your property or someone gets hurt on the job? Even if your neighbor trips over lumber that was left in your yard from your kitchen extension, liability coverage can help pay for the medical costs. 46

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Another policy to re-read before renovating your home is your umbrella policy—which is excess liability that sits on top of your home (and auto) insurance and will kick in if your homeowners insurance runs out before the issue is financially resolved, according to Shaw. If the neighbor who fell over some lumber in your backyard ends up needing an ambulance, an overnight stay in the ER, and additional medical care, your liability coverage might be spent before you can even think about the legal fees you’ll have to pay if he sues you for pain and suffering. “If your liability is exhausted, the umbrella policy will kick in for an additional million [dollars] or more, depending on what you purchase,” explains Shaw, noting that those with equity in their home or large incomes should be aware of it. “Really, it’s a shield between you and your assets.” Finally, if your home reno includes upgrades that will greatly increase your overall home value, you want to make sure your ‘new’ residence is not underinsured. For example, if you recently replaced your cabinets, make sure a claim will cover the new ones, not the 30-year-old cabinets that were there when you first [purchased the policy],” Qu says.

Family Changes

You should review your policy if you get married, divorced, or if your spouse passes away. “The policy should have the same names as the title of your home,” says Rosa Mejias, exclusive agent at Allstate in Yonkers. And take a look at your plan when a new baby joins the family, or even a few months before. A new baby can mean new furniture, toys, electronics, and other expenses that might put you over your current coverage limits. If this is the case, consider a rider—an optional addition to your homeowner’s policy, which can be used to cover things that aren’t covered by your standard home policy, according to Trapani. A money-saving trick? Bundle. Some insurance companies will allow you to purchase bundles for a discount on your home and auto insurance, per Shaw. No matter what is going on in your life, homeowner’s insurance does not stop at the end of your driveway. It should be reviewed on a regular basis, especially if any life-changing events have occurred. And if you’re unsure about whether changes should be made, don’t be afraid to pick up the phone and call your agent to discuss them.

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Are You the Parent of a Gifted Child? LIU Post’s Center for Gifted Youth announces its 40th annual summer program for gifted children. The fall program runs on Saturdays from Oct. 5th to

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Staying on Budget ››

While it’s easy for home renovations to cost more than you were anticipating (old wiring, anyone?), it is possible to stay within your original budget. By Jacqueline Neber

enovating your home can be exciting—there are so many ways to make your vision come to life. Unfortunately, it can also be incredibly stressful—and one of the most challenging aspects is staying within your budget. We polled contractors and designers for tips and tricks to contain the costs from start to finish.

Start with a Realistic Budget

People often come up with an arbitrary budget number they believe makes sense for their project, says Chip Wade, a host and designer for HGTV and DIY Network and owner of WadeWorks Creative. That number, however, is usually inaccurate. “Where a lot of us go wrong is, even if we have a general scope of the project, we want what we want,” Wade says. “And we want our budget to buy what we want, but that’s just not reality.” Uzi Ovadia, president and owner of Oz General Contracting in Bellmore, agrees. “People sometimes think they’re smarter than the contractor, and that’s not necessarily the case,” he says. He has seen renovators buy materials themselves and then bring in a cheap contractor to finish the job, which never seems to cut costs. On the other hand, many homeowners sign on with contractors too early, before they’ve brought in a designer or made a finite plan. “You actually have no idea of the scope that captures the overall essence of your design,” Wade says. “And that’s because you’re not designing first. You’re just doing a rough scope pricing, which is very dangerous.” And oftentimes, people wind up busting their budgets because they can’t stick to a plan, says Ann Marie Little, who runs Little John Remodeling Inc. in Northport. “They get their numbers, and then they change the plan as they go or add things on the fly, and they don’t think things through. Sometimes it’s because they’re not waiting for the right person. They’ll take whomever is available and make their decisions hastily.”

Plan with a Pro

One of the most important steps for a renovator is to create a full design plan before they call a contractor, and before assigning their project a budget. The best way to do this is to bring in a designer who can map out all of the materials, fixtures, and the scope of work to scale so there’s no ambiguity. WadeWorks Creative pairs renovators with designers to create a “full-scale, comprehensive design and construction set” that can 48

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be brought to multiple contractors to ensure they are comparing apples to apples when giving quotes. Wade says this is key. Renovators should also pick out all of their materials and know exactly what they are willing to pay for different aspects of their project. “The general homeowner has no idea if two-thousand dollars is going to buy the lighting fixtures that they want,” Wade says. “So go ahead and select, and have an exact number.” Some contractors, such as Oz General Contracting, source materials in-house and never use subcontractors, which allows them to provide a more accurate cost estimate. At Oz, after several design sessions, clients “will find out exactly to the penny where [their project] will be,” Ovadia says.

Stay on Track

Wade stresses that renovators should give their contractors incentives to finish the job on time. He recommends putting down only 35-40 percent of the budget for the project at first, then adding another 30 percent when the plumbing, electric, and framing are in and the project is ready for drywall. Don’t pay that last 30 percent until final walkthrough, he says, because leaving the company with only 10 percent of the money left to make before they’re finished means they might get caught up in other jobs. “Any contractor that wants fifty to sixty percent down, that puts you at a disadvantaged position,” Wade says. “Whoever controls the money, controls the job.”

Do Your Homework

It is essential that renovators do their homework, do their homework, do their homework, Ovadia stresses. One way to do this, according to Little, is to make a list of every last thing you want from your renovation—before hiring a contractor, designer, or making any product selections. She recommends using home product sites, such as Kohler.com or Moen.com, to price out the fixtures you’d like rather than going by a third-party seller’s estimates. Then take your list to a professional who knows each and every product you’ll need for your renovation. Most importantly, she says, as you move through the process, cross things off that you can’t afford—and do not deviate from the list. “If the plan is to redo the bathroom and take out a window, that’s the plan,” Little says. “Stick to the plan!”

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Barefoot and Better for It ››

How speaking the language of yoga is good for my family By Peshie Needleman

like my Nikes. I like my kettlebell. I like my sweatband, child of the ’80s that I am. I especially like my medicine ball. I do cardio, weight training, and high intensity interval training. I also have six kids, so when I do have time to go to the gym, I only sign up for very sweaty, very intense workouts. But then came a week with a weird schedule of randomly timed appointments and early school dismissals. I wasn’t able to fit in my usual classes—but I could make it to a yoga class. I had never tried yoga before. When I showed up and saw I was the only one wearing sneakers, I felt like a fish out of water. But I do like new experiences, so I removed my socks and stuffed them deep into my Nikes. I found a studio mat and took my place. I did the best I could, sometimes acing the pose, sometimes struggling through the pose, very often getting my rights and lefts mixed up until I realized I was supposed to mirror the instructor. By the end of the class, I liked yoga, but I was absolutely, totally, positively in love with the yoga language. It was a revelation—this incredibly validating and encouraging talk is soothing and positive. In my life, with kids who range in age from 4-23 and a husband, my interactions consist of me telling others what to do or others telling me what to do. “Fill out the forms and sign by the X.” “Pick up your pajamas from the bathroom floor. If they need to be washed, put them in the hamper. If not, put them on your pillow.” “Pick up my dry cleaning. Please.” “Add cottage cheese to the list.” Even my regular workout sounds like orders: “Sit ups. Starting at one, two, three. Go!” Everything is instructions and facts, black and white, statements and requests. But yoga talk is a murmuring brook of suggestions. “Perhaps you would like to join us in downward dog.” “Pedal your legs if that feels good to you.” “You’re welcome to join us in plank.” Of course, I appreciated the other parts of yoga—the reminder

to unclench my jaw and stay present in the moment. The idea of “coming to stillness” for even 2 minutes during my busy day made me feel tethered to the calm feeling I had captured in class. But more than the mindfulness and the grounded feeling yoga gave me, its language appealed to my inner being (which apparently wants to be spoken to in a gentle voice). After that class, I was easier on myself. “If it feels like the right thing to do, turn on the radio. But if you think checking the news is going to up your stress level, feel free to keep the radio turned off.” And I was easier on others. That night, when I told my 5-yearold to brush his teeth, I peppered our conversation with terms of endearment. “Get up on the stepstool, honey, and tell me if you want the Paw Patrol Bubble Yum Toothpaste or the Minion Mint?” And to my daughter: “Hey, princess, remember to put your empty lunch containers in the sink, sweetie.” With my older kids, my kids-in-law, and my husband, I sprinkled on the sweetness with a light touch, so as not to make them think an alien had somehow taken over my brain. Just a little “honey” tacked on to the beginning or end was a gentle reminder that my suggestions and instructions are coming from a place of love. As I enjoined my family to do this or that in yoga speak more often, they actually started to listen. “You might want to take the trash out as you’re leaving,” I said with a smile—and bit my lip to keep myself from adding a snarky “before our kitchen starts smelling like a landfill!” “What do you think about finally getting rid of the old car seat, so the garage looks less crowded?” “I wonder if your morning might go easier for you if you packed your Color War shirt in your backpack tonight. How does that sound to you?” It’s going to take me some time and patience to master camel pose, but I will definitely be going to a yoga again. Yes, it’s good for my core, but more importantly, it’s good for my family.

Peshie Needleman lives in Rockland County with her husband and their six children. She writes two humor columns for local magazines. In her spare time, she enjoys…wait. Actually, she doesn’t have any spare time.

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