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Safety Tricks (and Treats) for Halloween

Halloween Fun a Ride Away

Prepare your kids, so Halloween is safe and stress-free for everyone

birthdays 12 Wild and Wilder 14 Birthday Party Directory 46 The (Not-So) Sweet Season

Events to kick off the spooky season and guides for other fall activities

Can You Afford to Stay Home?

What to consider when deciding whether to go back to work or become a stay-at-home parent

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Safety Tricks (and Treats) for Halloween 16 Back-to-School Resources 22 After-School at-a-Glance 23 Education Planner 38 Baby’s Wish List 41 Open Houses, Meet the Health Care Professional 43 The Disaster Zone 44 Profesional Services 45 Family Resource Guide & Advertisers’ Index

26 Halloween Fun a Ride Away

40 Moving Right Along

27 Family Activities Calendar

42 Can You Afford to Stay Home?

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Helping Parents Make Better Decisions ON THE COVER ›› 10 Keeping kids safe while trick-or-treating 12 Three major party trends 14 Planning Resources 26 Haunted houses, pumpkin patches, and more 38 Crafting the Perfect Baby Registry 46 Surviving the Sweet 16 facebook.com/nymetroparents

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OCTOBER 2019 • Vol.25 • No.2

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It’s Spooky Season

risp air, cooler temperatures, and (soon) the changing of the leaves. Those are a few of our favorite things, but nothing beats our favorite fall holiday: Halloween! Some people celebrate their birthdays for the whole month, but we celebrate Halloween all month long—and affectionately refer to it as Spooky Season. (Though, if we’re being honest, we officially started celebrating on Friday the 13th.) In this issue, you’ll find a roundup of the best Halloween events in the community (p. 34), from spooky movie screenings to Halloween scavenger hunts, as well as a few can’t-miss celebrations in Manhattan (haunted hayride anyone?), to get you in a ghoulish mood (p. 26). Plus, you’ll find tips to keep your kids safe while trick-ortreating (p. 10). Bonus: We’re creating a Halloween e-book just for you, full of advice, 2019’s hottest costumes, places to celebrate, and more! Look for it on nymetroparents.com in early October. Speaking of celebrating birthdays all month long, this also happens to be our birthday issue! We spoke to moms, party planners, and trend experts to find the three most-popular party themes that break the mold—and provide tips for throwing them (p. 12). I didn’t have a huge bash for my Sweet 16—they weren’t really a thing in Maine. We likely celebrated with dinner at my favorite restaurant, followed by blueberry pie and presents at home. Looking back, I don’t mind that the affair was low-key— especially after reading about Suzanne Bergen’s experience. In “The (Not-So) Sweet Season” (p. 46), Bergen compares organizing her daughter’s Sweet 16 to planning her own wedding. Ultimately, though, it was all worth it. If you’re getting ready to plan a birthday party, make the best decisions for your child’s celebration by checking out the birthday party resources directory (p. 14). However you choose to celebrate (Halloween or birthdays), we hope it’s a blast! Katelin Walling Editorial Director

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Who: Further Music School What’s New: Further Fruits, a keyboard-concentrated early education program, which began Sept. 15. The program divides children ages 3 months to 4 years old into four fruity groups—orange, apple, grape, and watermelon—and explores music history and appreciation, singing, and the beginnings of keyboard work. Orange classes (ages 3 months to 1 year) will sing simple melodies and songs to begin their music education and learn the social aspects of music. Apple classes (ages 1-2) will focus on singing, clapping, and beginning to read music. Grape and watermelon classes (ages 2-4) will begin learning keyboard techniques and more advanced music knowledge. Want More Info: 110-06 72nd Ave., Suite MD2, Forest Hills; 718-5448886; furthermusic.com; info@furthermusic.com

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Safety Tricks (and Treats) for Halloween ›› By Jacqueline Neber

alloween is one of kids’ favorite nights of the year, but it can also present some scary situations. Walking in the dark, wearing costumes, and receiving candy from strangers can make kids vulnerable to danger. Fortunately, there are ways to prepare your kids so Halloween is safe and stress-free for everyone.

Travel in Numbers

When it comes to Halloween safety, there’s no substitute for parental supervision, says Chris Hughes, the chief of police at Northport Police Department in Suffolk County. Kids younger than 12 should not go trick-or-treating without an adult, adds Debra Holtzman, J.D., M.A., author of The Safe Baby, and a national child safety expert.

Stay Local

When kids are ready to go out on their own, they should not trickor-treat in any unfamiliar part of town, Hughes says. Knowing where they are, how to get home, and who to go to for help—such as a neighbor or other trusted adult in the neighborhood—is crucial. They should only go up to houses with lights on, keep their cellphones charged, and never go inside any home, Holtzman advises.

Be Careful About Candy

Make sure your child knows to never eat anything that is unwrapped or appears to be homemade, Hughes says. You should “discard any candy that is a choking hazard, or your child is allergic to, or that is not in its original wrapper, or looks as though it has been opened,” Holtzman adds.

Choose Costumes Wisely

“Children are more than twice as likely to be hit by a car and killed on Halloween than on any other day of the year,” Holtzman says. Crossing the street carefully can help prevent car accidents— but costumes matter too. Kids should wear reflective tape on their costumes, and costumes should allow for 100-percent visibility. Consider face-paint instead of masks, Holtzman suggests, because it ensures they can see and won’t restrict breathing. Costumes should also be flame resistant, and short enough that kids won’t trip or fall.

Don’t Be Spooked

Halloween is and should remain a fun and festive holiday—as long as a few safety rules are in place. In general, Hughes says, kids should stay aware of their surroundings and avoid engaging with strangers. This will help everyone have more fun—even parents, who won’t have to worry while their kids trick-or-treat.

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of animals and the kids are going to zone out.” Favors: Try this Pinterest favorite: Put animal crackers in mini mason jars or clear bags and decorate them with homemade tags. Or have the kids create mini terrariums, which double as favors, says Seri Kertzner, founder of Little Miss Party, a New York events company. Another idea: stuffed animals the kids can “adopt” and take home.

Kidchella

Throwing your own festival became a popular trend after Kim Kardashian celebrated her daughter North’s first birthday party with a kids’ version of the famous music festival Coachella. (Etsy has recently seen a 33 percent increase in searches for festival-themed items, Johnson says.) Kardashian’s bash featured a Ferris wheel, food stands, tents, and a stage, but fear not! You don’t need to have her budget to throw your own Kidchella. Tips: Festivals are all about the music. There are DJs out there who specialize in kids’ parties, and will do dance games and give out prizes. If a DJ isn’t in the budget, create a great playlist. You could also hire a face painter or use a tool like Blinger to decorate hair and clothes with sparkles. When it comes to décor, hang outdoor fairy lights and make your own festival signs. Favors: Set up a craft station and make flower crowns (Little Miss Party has a great online tutorial).

Enchanted Forest

One of Pinterest’s biggest party trends of 2019 (searches jumped by 238 percent since last year, according to Johnson) is fairy forests. Think: fairy and elf costumes, toadstool seats, and lots of natural decorations like flowers, wood, grass, and moss. With all this magic, it’s a great theme to inspire little imaginations. Tips: Summer Ticas, a Manhattan mom, brought the enchanted forest inside for her daughter Andrea’s fourth birthday party. She used online tutorials from Pinterest to create trees out of twisted green and brown craft paper, and fairy lanterns using jars and glitter. She then sourced fairy garden miniatures (think mini-houses and toadstools) to decorate. For activities she set up craft stations for kids to make fairy dust necklaces and mini terrariums they could take home. Favors: Ticas made fairy tutus, wands and wings, elf hats, and capes for her daughter’s guests. The kids loved running around the enchanted forest in their fairy garb. Plus, Pinterest has some great DIY fairy houses, which could work as favors. Emma Steven is a British freelance writer living in Manhattan with her husband, two small kids, and two cats.

HELPFUL TIPS FOR PLANNING A CREATIVE BASH Decorations

Creating themed party décor looks easy enough on social media, but it can be overwhelming to do yourself. You could consult a party planner, or you could try one of these tricks: • U tilize Etsy. It’s a great place to find creative décor, favors, and invitations that look like you made them yourself. • F or DIYers, start early and stay organized with a timeline. Manhattan mom Summer Ticas, who often creates all the décor herself, says she starts planning six months out. • Plan with Pinterest. “I look at all the ideas that come out of the themes and I do spend quite a bit of time creating a board,” Ticas says. • S ource from wholesalers. In order to save money, Ticas says she sourced fairy gardens for her daughter’s enchanted forest party direct from wholesalers rather than the craft store. • C reate a balloon garland. It’s one of the most requested items but very easy to do yourself, according to Seri Kertzner, founder of Little Miss Party. “They can be enormous or much more low-key,” Kertzner says, but anything around 10 feet long (approximately 30 balloons) looks fancy and is affordable because there’s no helium. For instructions, check out Little Miss Party’s YouTube tutorial.

Entertainment

Now that you’ve decided to host your own party, figuring out the entertainment is key to happy partygoers. • M ake the theme age-appropriate. Tarantulas might be great for older kids, but choose something a little easier to handle for toddlers. • D o your research. Irvington mom Stephanie Minkoff used word of mouth recommendations and Facebook reviews to help her choose a wild animal handler for her sons’ party. “I probably contacted ten different people, and I got prices from four hundred dollars to four thousand dollars,” she says. • B ook early. “These guys get booked quickly!” Minkoff says. • C onsider low-cost options that fit with the theme. Think: a scavenger hunt, an epic game of hide and seek, or DIY party favors.

Favors

If you’ve settled on giving favors to each guest, consider these tips: • D on’t give a favor that’s just going to end up in the trash. “I will always do something that is seasonally related or something that’s going to be useful to the parent or child,” Kertzner says. For example, personalized water bottles in the summer and mittens in the winter. • B ring spares in case an extra guest turns up. “I always have extra favors on hand now,” Kertzner says. “If I end up with extras at the end of the party, I use them as gifts or return them.”

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CK Kids Birthday Parties

68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 917-602-6271 ctkny.org;ckkids@ctkny.org We know your child’s birthday is a special day-so we only book one party at time! Private party room available with two bounce houses, ball pit, disco lighting, cotton candy, face painting, tattoos, music, and games! Add-on party activities include dress-up, karate, hip-hop, and cooking.

Gravity Vault Melville Indoor Rock Gym 40 Melville Park Road, Melville 516-777-9255 gravityvault.com/locations/ melville-ny melville@gravityvault.com Host a birthday party with The Gravity Vault where ages 5 and older can come climb and have fun. Climbing is a great way to celebrate your birthday! Our awesome climbing parties give kids an exciting day they will never forget! Offering different party package options to accommodate your needs.

The Lanyard Ladies

433 Merrick Road, Oceanside 516-578-2248 thelanyardladies.com thelanyardladies@yahoo.com

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The Lanyard Ladies friendship bracelet and lanyard birthday parties bring the party to you, or you can come to their party place! Learn to make your favorite friendship bracelets and lanyard stitches. Many amazing themes and packages. We will customize any birthday party to fit your needs.

Laser Bounce – Family Fun Center

The Shops at Atlas Park, 80-28 Cooper Ave., Glendale 347-599-1919 laserbounce.net Laser Bounce’s birthday parties are distinguished by their commitment to making an overwhelming room of dazzling spectacles feel like home. Your guests enjoy private sessions in Bouncy Houses and Laser Tag Arenas, and access to the arcade and attractions. Party rooms are spacious, with pizza and unlimited drinks for kids.

Music Together® With Music and Me

Licensed Provider of Music Together® 2003 Astoria, Bayside, Forest Hills, and Glendale 718-229-0033 Astoria at Gym-Azing! Bayside at Shotokai Karate, USA upper level of the Baybridge Commons Shopping Center Forest Hills at the Reform Temple of Forest Hills Forest Hills at the Church-In-TheGardens Glendale at Tiger Schulmann’s Glendale musictogetherwithmusicandme.com info@musictogetherwithmusicandme.com We provide unique birthday party musical experiences for first through sixth birthdays. Families and friends participate and celebrate a birthday child’s day in a way in which everyone shares in the fun. Call us to customize your child’s musical birthday. We can come to your space.

Sugar Factory

Sugar Factory - Meatpacking District 835 Washington St. Sugar Factory - The Row 700 8th Ave. Sugar Factory - Upper West Side 1991 Broadway 212-414-8700 sugarfactory.com sfny@sugarfactory.com Party where the stars play! Here at Sugar Factory, we offer prefixed and customizable party packages for any celebration and budget! From private large-scale events to private dinners for two, a Sugar Factory celebration is one you will never forget!

SUPERKICKERS

P.S. 69, Jackson Heights 718-350-1535 superkickers.com info@superkickers.com Super kickers party is a fun way to celebrate your child’s birthday! Super kickers party consists of soccer games, bouncy house, two staff members, setup and cleanup, basic color paper goods, pizzas, and juice for each child. Party is for 20 kids plus the birthday child.

USTA Billie Jean King National Tennis Center

Flushing Meadows-Corona Park, Flushing 718-760-6200 x0 ntc.usta.com Let the National Tennis Center host your next birthday party. Our birthday party packages include one hour of court time with tennis drills and games organized by our USTA Pro staff. You will also have a one-hour private room for your birthday celebration which includes pizza for all your party guests.

Wheel Fun Rentals

Flushing Meadows Corona Park at David Dinkins Circle Meridian Road Flushing Meadows Corona Park at North Meadow Lake Meadow Lake Road West Marine Park Avenue U and East 33rd Street, Brooklyn Prospect Park LeFrak Center at Lakeside 171 East Drive, Brooklyn Bensonhurst Park 9000 Bay Parkway, Brooklyn 917-231-6229 wheelfunrentals.com/nyc wheelfunrentals.com Wheel Fun Rentals is the perfect place for birthday parties! Explore the area on one of our specialty bikes or go on a Surrey Scavenger Hunt. Visit us in Queens at Flushing Meadows North Meadow Lake and David Dinkins’ Circle, or Brooklyn’s Marine Park, Bensonhurst Park, or Lakeside Prospect Park.

Whitestone Lanes

30-05 Whitestone Expressway, Flushing 718-353-6300 whitestonebowlinglanes.com We offer children and teen birthday parties, starting at $17.95 per child and $25.95 per child for teens. Your child and their friends will bowl for one hour and then enjoy 45 minutes in our private party room, where they will receive one slice of pizza, beverage, and a trophy!

Give your child the best Fall ever! Fun SOCCER CLASSES!

NYC's Premiere Indoor Fun Center featuring a gigantic arcade, laser tag, virtual reality, bouncers, 3D Simulator, bowling and much more!!! Laser Arcade Parties STARTING AT ONLY $379

Super Kickers offers kids soccer classes for kids ages 1-12 years old.

Classes are offered every day of the week and range from 30 minutes to 1 hour. • Warm-up, • Stretches CLASSES • Soccer Basics INCLUDE • Soccer Activities • Soccer Games Contact us for more info: info@superkickers.com www.superkickers.com

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The DanceSource

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Have you ever tried a Dance Class?

Offering Classes in: Ballet Tap

Jazz/Contemporary Hip Hop Acrobatics The DanceSource offers 13 styles of dance!

Everything from classics (Ballet, Tap, Gymnastics) to ethnic (Georgian, Barata Nathyam, Kathak, Bollywood), and more (Modern, Ballroom). Contact us for private lessons

The DanceSource is open after school

Mon-Thur 5:30-8:30pm | Sat 9:30am-8:00pm | Sun 9:30am-3:00pm

98-11 Queens Blvd at 65th Avenue • Rego Park, NY Tel: 718-997-1278 • info@dancesource.net www.dancesource.net • Check out our website!

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Back-to-School Resources CLASSES

ACADEMIC ENRICHMENT/ LANGUAGE CK Kids

68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 718-366-7400 x247 ctkny.org CK Kids offers families one location for their educational and leisure activities. We offer a variety of programs for ages 2-18. Our educational support programs for grades kindergarten-12th are designed to review and reinforce subject matter and skills necessary to achieve success. On-site parking, reasonable prices, and flexible scheduling!

Gooroo

646-791-3081 gooroo.com; support@gooroo.com Gooroo offers in-person tutoring in your neighborhood! Our tutoring membership matches students to tutors based on their unique learning needs. Members have access to experts in more than 300 subjects. Gooroo provides continuous feedback, progress reports, and a designated Personal Learning Consultant to guide students through their learning journey.

ISTEIN Education Center

107-06 71st Road 2nd floor, Forest Hills 718-575-8877 isteinny.com;info@isteinny.com ISTEIN after-school program offers rigorous academic enrichment in our State Test Prep (grades third-sixth), and Little Winner Program (kindergarten-second grade). Our staff is comprised of professional teachers and assistants whose goal is to make sure your child has a rewarding experience.

JEI Learning Centers

Auburndale 347-408-4098 Forest Hills 718-268-2890 Fresh Meadows 718-740-7888 Great Neck 516-482-2234 Rego Park 718-441-3762 Whitestone 718-819-8813 jei.com JEI Learning Centers have helped children achieve academic success around the world since 1977. We offer a variety of academic enrichment and tutoring programs for children in pre-K through ninth grade, including math, problem-solving, English, reading, and writing. Our program is designed to elevate each student’s abilities to the next level.

LIU Post Center for Gifted Youth

Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, director LIU Post, Brookville 516-299-2160 liu.edu/giftedyouth The Long Island University program for gifted children was established in 1979 in response to the recognition of society’s special responsibilities for children with demonstrably superior intellectual ability. The LIU Center for Gifted Youth offers extraordinary teachers recruited from leading schools in the metropolitan area, and university-level facilities.

Miss Anita – Private Math Tutor and Advisor

Nina’s Tutoring Center

8702 Grand Ave., Elmhurst 718-205-7508 92-22 Corona Ave., Elmhurst 718-606-1056 tutornina@hotmail.com We tutor kids in kindergarten-12th. For the past 11 years, we have provided quality education that helps kids excel. We help improve skills in math, ELA, science, and social studies. We have an intensive preparation program for ELA, math, science, citywide and statewide exams, SAT and ACT.

DANCE All Star Studios

108-21 72nd Ave. (4th floor), Forest Hills 718-268-2280 allstarstudiosnyc.com allstarstudios@gmail.com Sign up now for summer and fall classes-limited space available. All Star Studios program is designed to encourage and educate students on how to increase flexibility, improve coordination, focus on muscle strengthening, build poise, and have fun. All instructors have experience in both teaching and performing.

American Dance & Drama

188-22 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows

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718-479-8522 68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village americandanceanddrama.net American Dance & Drama Studio was established more than 46 years ago at the same location. Visit our multi-level, high-tech studios-the largest in Queens at 7,000-squarefeet! We offer classes for ages 2 through adults in all types of dance, as well as gymnastics, drama, Zumba, and singing.

The DanceSource

98-11 Queens Blvd. (at 65th Ave.), Rego Park/Forest Hills 718-997-1278 dancesource.net info@dancesource.net The DanceSource begins its 25th year. We offer classes for children age 2 to adult. We offer all the classic dance classes and ethnic styles of dance. Our smaller, boutique-sized classes offer lots of individual attention.

Performing Arts Conservatory of New York 35-57 89th St., Jackson Heights 718-639-1425, 917-774-3411 paconyschool.com info@paconyschool.com We offer music instruction in piano, violin, guitar, voice, brass, and woodwinds; dance instruction in ballet, folk dance, modern, and flamenco; art instruction in drawing and painting. Dalcroze, music and movement for preschoolers, drama and musical theater classes, and Spanish for kids is also available. Adults are welcome.

MUSIC

Further Music School

110-06 72nd Ave., Forest Hills 718-544-8886 140-75 Ash Ave., Suite 2B, Flushing 917-563-1480 furthermusic.com info@furthermusic.com 2017 National Music School of the Year. Since our founding in 2007, Further Music School has grown to be one of the most recognized music schools in Queens. Reaching more than 3000 students of all ages and skill levels, our award-winning facility provides music lessons for all instruments and voice.

ISTEIN Education Center

107-06 71st Road 2nd floor, Forest Hills 718-575-8877 isteinny.com; info@isteinny.com Music is about creativity, communication, and cooperation. ISTEIN students have the opportunity to build on these skills, enrich their lives, and experience the world from a new perspective. Our music

program includes instruction and performance. We offer piano, violin, viola, cello, flute, guitar, drum, saxophone, vocal, theory, and composition classes.

School of Rock Queens

929-999-7625 Karen Flyer, general manager 150-34 14th Ave., Whitestone (temporary space until opening) Bayside grand opening later in 2019 (34-43 Francis Lewis Blvd., LL, suite 2, Bayside queens.schoolofrock.com queens@schoolofrock.com School of Rock is the ultimate performance-based music school, combining weekly private lessons with weekly rehearsals in rock bands, culminating in live shows at real rock venues. With our motivational song-first approach, we teach keys, vocals, guitar, bass, and drums to kids of all ages as well as adults.

FITNESS All Star Studios

108-21 72nd Ave. (4th floor), Forest Hills 718-268-2280 allstarstudiosnyc.com allstarstudios@gmail.com Sign up now for fall classes-limited space available. All Star Studios program is designed to encourage and educate students on how to increase flexibility, improve coordination, focus on muscle strengthening, build poise, and have fun. All instructors have experience in both teaching and performing.

American Dance & Drama

188-22 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 718-479-8522 68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village americandanceanddrama.net American Dance & Drama Studio was established more than 46 years ago at the same location. Visit our multi-level, high-tech studios-the largest in Queens at 7,000-squarefeet! We offer classes for ages

2 through adults in all types of dance, as well as gymnastics, drama, Zumba, and singing.

The DanceSource

SUPERKICKERS

Various locations throughout Queens 718-350-1535 superkickers.com info@superkickers.com Our soccer program runs yearround with many indoor locations. We offer kids soccer classes for ages 1-12. Classes are offered every day of the week. They range from 30 minutes to one hour and consist of a warm-up, stretches, soccer basics, soccer activities, and soccer games.

Our soccer program runs yearround with many indoor locations. We offer kids soccer classes for ages 1-12. Classes are offered every day of the week. They range from 30 minutes to one hour and consist of a warm-up, stretches, soccer basics, soccer activities, and soccer games.

BACK TO SCHOOL SERVICES DOCTORS

Comprehensive Consultation Psychological Services, P.C.

114-20 Queens Blvd. Suite CS 2, Forest Hills 180 E. 79th St. suite 1C, Manhattan

1-888-441-0015 comprehendthemind.com Comprehensive Consultation Psychological Services, P.C. is a group of school and neuro-psychologists, that diagnose and assess a variety of conditions. We perform neuropsychological, educational, speech and language, and psychiatric evaluations to help you understand your child’s strengths and weaknesses, and plan for their educational success and emotional well-being.

Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho,

Wantagh, and Lake Success Queens: 718-640-6767 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 lispeech.com Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, expressive and receptive language disorders. continued on next page ››

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PROGRAMS CK Kids

68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 718-366-7400 x247 ctkny.org CK Kids offers families one location for their educational and leisure activities. We offer a variety of programs for ages 2-18. Dance, karate, hip-hop, and acrobatics classes are offered for children of all ages and skill levels. Our soccer and basketball clinics develop players’ individual skills in a non-competitive setting.

Broadening Perspectives, Deepening Beliefs

SOCCER

Creating the Leaders of Tomorrow

CK Kids

68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 718-366-7400 x247 ctkny.org CK Kids offers families one location for their educational and leisure activities. We offer a variety of programs for ages 2-18. Dance, karate, hip-hop, and acrobatics classes are offered for children of all ages and skill levels. Our soccer and basketball clinics develop players’ individual skills in a non-competitive setting.

SUPERKICKERS

Various locations throughout Queens 718-350-1535 superkickers.com info@superkickers.com

OPEN HOUSE

October 20, 2019 11am-4pm TO APPLY TO MOLLOY, TAKE THE TACHS OR CHSEE EXAM: Register at: Exam Date: Molloy Code: @molloyhs

TACHS www.tachsinfo.com Nov. 9, 2019 012 /ArchbishopMolloy

CHSEE www.chsee.org Oct. 26, 2019 012 @molloyhs

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EDUCATIONAL SERVICES Comprehensive Consultation Psychological Services, P.C.

114-20 Queens Blvd., Suite CS 2, Forest Hills 180 E. 79th St. suite 1C, Manhattan 1-888-441-0015 comprehendthemind.com Comprehensive Consultation Psychological Services, P.C. is a group of school and neuro-psychologists, that diagnose and assess a variety of conditions. We perform neuropsychological, educational, speech and language, and psychiatric evaluations to help you understand your child’s strengths and weaknesses, and plan for their educational success and emotional well-being.

PJ Library – Free Jewish Children’s Books

67 Hunt St., Suite 100, Agawam 413-276-0800 pjlibrary.org/metro pjlibrary@hgf.org PJ Library is a free program for families raising Jewish kids ages 6 months to 12 years old, offering books that capture children’s imaginations with fun characters, compelling stories, and vibrant illustrations. We send your child an age-appropriate, expertly curated Jewish children’s book every month. Sign up at pjlibrary.org/metro.

STORES & RESOURCES

Lisa Macbeth, Financial Advisor

7 Hanover Square, Suite 800 212-764-6262 x-2820 mobile: 646-726-8332 noalgoldfarb.com/team lisa_macbeth@natfin.net Lisa Macbeth, M.B.A., non-fee financial planner with 20 years of experience in finance and investments-helping individuals, families, and businesses of all income levels develop realistic financial plans to achieve their dreams.

TUTORS & TEST PREP Gooroo

JEI Learning Centers

Auburndale 347-408-4098 Floral Park 718-347-3138 Forest Hills 718-268-2890

Fresh Meadows 718-740-7888 Great Neck 516-482-2234 Rego Park 718-441-3762 Whitestone 718-819-8813 jei.com JEI Learning Centers have helped children achieve academic success around the world since 1977. We offer a variety of academic enrichment and tutoring programs for children in pre-K through ninth grade, including math, problem-solving, English, reading, and writing. Our program is designed to elevate each student’s abilities to the next level.

718-969-5500 tinyfootstepsny.com tinyfootstepsny@yahoo.com Tiny Footsteps is the place to be for kids ages 1-5! Our hands-on curriculum is theme based allowing for student growth, exploration, and creativity. Students are prepared academically and socially for elementary school. All of our educators are dedicated to the profession of early childhood with extensive experience.

PAROCHIAL & RELIGIOUS SCHOOLS

Miss Anita – Private Math Tutor and Advisor

Archbishop Molloy High School

Nina’s Tutoring Center

Monsignor McClancy Memorial High School

917-477-7953 workinganita@gmail.com Do you need a mathematics tutor who is talented, understanding, terrific, outstanding, and resourceful (T.U.T.O.R.)? Tutoring available for various levels of math: elementary and middle math, algebra 1, algebra 2, geometry, and tests like the GED. Experienced teacher, tutor, and advisor of 23 years who can help students pass any test. 8702 Grand Ave., Elmhurst 718-205-7508 92-22 Corona Ave., Elmhurst 718-606-1056 tutornina@hotmail.com We tutor kids in kindergarten-12th. For the past 11 years, we have provided quality education that helps kids excel. We help improve skills in math, ELA, science, and social studies. We have an intensive preparation program for ELA, math, science, citywide and statewide exams, SAT and ACT.

EDUCATION

DAY CARE & CHILD CARE Adventureland Child Care Center

32-04 31st Ave., Astoria 718-777-2011 adventurelandchildcarecenter.com adventureland.astoria@daycaremail.com 41-31 58th St., Woodside 718-274-4769 adventurelandchildcarecenter.com 58stdaycare@daycaremail.com Adventureland Child Care offers exceptional care to families-since 1992! We offer full- and part-time programs for infants and toddlers, 2-year-olds, preschool, PreK for All, and afterschool. We Inspire learning through discovery of learning centers including: blocks, dramatic play, art, library, and writing. We offer yoga and our Kindergarten Readiness Promise!

Tiny Footsteps

167-01 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows

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83-53 Manton St., Briarwood 718-441-2100 x155, x140, x110 molloyhs.org admissions@molloyhs.org Archbishop Molloy High School promotes intellectual curiosity, creativity, personal growth, and faith. Rooted in a tradition of high standards in academics, athletics, and service to others, students are challenged to excel by our top-tier faculty, dedicated coaching staff, and competitive curriculum.

71-06 31st Ave. E., East Elmhurst 718-898-3800 x2 msgrmcclancy.org Monsignor McClancy Memorial High School is a Catholic, coeducational, college preparatory school conducted in the educational tradition of the Brothers of the Sacred Heart, providing a quality education for young men and women, fully interweaving gospel values and Catholic teachings with core curriculum. Opportunities available for college credit and advanced placement.

Saint Mary’s Elementary School

1340 Northern Blvd., Manhasset 516-627-0184 stmary11030.org St. Mary’s Elementary School students flourish in an environment characterized by academic excellence, inspired faith, and creative learning as they grow in mind and spirit. With small classes, skilled teachers, the latest technology, and exciting extracurricular activities, we inspire excitement for learning while integrating Catholic values into our daily curriculum.

St. John’s Preparatory School

programs that include science and health internships and museum apprenticeships. Creative visual and performing arts, competitive athletics program, and international travel available.

PRESCHOOLS Adventureland Child Care Center

Countryside Montessori School

354 Lakeville Road, lower level, Great Neck 516-466-8422 cmsgn.com; info@cmsgn.com Countryside Montessori School was founded in 1998 with the aim of providing a high quality early childhood education based on the philosophy, methods, and techniques developed 100 years ago by educational pioneer Dr. Maria Montessori. Everything in our school is designed to encourage and aid a child’s natural curiosity.

SteppingStone Day School, Inc.

77-40 Vleigh Place, Kew Garden Hills 718-591-9093 steppingstonedayschool.com Since 1983, SteppingStone Day School has offered a unique, nurturing, and innovative preschool program for children of all abilities. In this enriched, diverse setting, children learn to play, negotiate, and interact with others, as a strong sense of well-being and the foundation for future learning success is instilled.

Tiny Footsteps

167-01 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 718-969-5500 tinyfootstepsny.com tinyfootstepsny@yahoo.com Tiny Footsteps is the place to be for kids ages 1-5! Our hands-on curriculum is theme based allowing for student growth, exploration, and creativity. Students are prepared academically and socially for elementary school. All of our educators are dedicated to the

profession of early childhood with extensive experience.

PRIVATE SCHOOLS Archbishop Molloy High School

718-658-6166 unis.org; rsorrentini@unis.org The United Nations International School Queens campus provides an intimate learning environment promoting academic achievement, personal growth, and a passion for learning. Inspired by the ideals of the United Nations, students become active and thoughtful global citizens. Modern languages and a strong fine arts program complement a rigorous academic curriculum.

The Windsor School

37-02 Main St., Flushing 718-359-8300 thewindsorschool.com

admin@thewindsorschool.com Founded in 1969, The Windsor School is an independent, coeducational, college preparatory school for middle and high school students. Students are provided a rigorous curriculum designed to help gain admission to top-ranked colleges and universities. Merit scholarship and financial aid are available, offering an affordable tuition for most families.

PUBLIC AND MAGNET SCHOOLS District 25.30 New York City Magnet Schools The Harry T. Stewart, Sr. Magnet

School for Engineering, Architecture, and the Arts, PS 92 The Joseph Pulitzer Magnet School of Innovation and Applied Learning, IS 145 The Magnet School of Global Studies and Leadership, PS/MS 200 The Discovery School for Inquiry and Research: STEAM Magnet School, PS 201 718-759-4977 info@magnetschools.nyc Each magnet school offers a unique program designed to promote diversity, academic excellence, and equity. The specialized thematic programs, innovative curriculum, and diversified apcontinued on next page ››

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Saint Mary’s Elementary School

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OPEN HOUSE October 12th, 2019 12 PM to 4 PM 71-06 31st Avenue

St. John’s Preparatory School

21-21 Crescent St., Astoria 718-721-7200 stjohnsprepschool.org Faith, scholarship, and service are the hallmarks of a St. John’s Prep education. Exclusive Baccalaureate Program with S.J.U., challenging honors and AP Courses for college credit. Exciting STEM programs that include science and health internships and museum apprenticeships. Creative visual and performing arts, competitive athletics program, and international travel available.

United Nations International School

“We make conscious efforts to make the school a sanctuary for young people—a place where they feel protected, welcomed, and nurtured.” Contact: Oﬃce of Admissions Mr. Nicholas Melito (718) 898-3800 Ext. 0

Conducted in the Educational Tradition of the Brothers of the Sacred Heart Serving young people in the United States since 1847

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proaches to teaching offer rigorous instruction that builds proficiency in creativity, collaboration, and critical thinking for all students. To learn more, come visit and apply!

District 27.29 New York City Magnet Schools

The Magnet School of Innovation, Exploration, and Engineering, PS 52 The Chester Park Magnet School of Computer Science and Innovation, PS 62 The William Haberle Magnet School of Multimedia, Arts, and STEAM, PS 195 The Rosa Parks Magnet School of Leadership Development and the Arts, PS 254 The Queens Explorers Magnet School of Global Conservation and Service Learning, PS 316 718-968-6179 The Queens District 27-29 Magnet Grant includes five elementary schools that feature innovative curriculum and specialized programming. Each school has a theme that connects students to careers and develops 21st century skills. Themes include computer science, engineering, media arts, service learning, and leadership. Schools incorporate STEM and the arts into instruction.

District 28 New York City Magnet Schools

The Maure Magnet School of Communication Arts, Technology and Multimedia, PS 55 The Edward K. Ellington Magnet School of Science, Technology and the Arts, PS 140 The Magnet School of Leadership and Innovation Through STEAM, PS 349 The Magnet School of STEAM Exploration and Experiential Learning, MS 358 718-759-4977 info@magnetschools.nyc Each magnet school offers a unique program designed to promote diversity, academic excellence, and equity. Specialized thematic programs, innovative curriculum, and diversified approaches to teaching offer rigorous instruction that builds proficiency in creativity, collaboration, and critical thinking for all students. Magnet schools welcome all families and students. Come visit!

IS 145: The Joseph Pulitzer Magnet School of Innovation and Applied Learning

33-34 80th St., Jackson Heights 718-457-1242, 718-759-4977 145innovators.com info@magnetschools.nyc I.S. 145: A 21st century learning community. By infusing science, technology, engineering, arts, and

math (STEAM) into the curriculum, students are engaging in collaboration, creativity, communication, and critical thinking on a daily basis. Regents track and Spanish-English dual-language programming and enrichment courses are offered during and after school hours.

MS 358: The Magnet School of Steam Exploration and Experiential Learning

88-08 164th St., Jamaica 718-558-6240 ms358.org; info@magnetschools.nyc At The Magnet School of STEAM Exploration and Experiential Learning, everyone learns with purpose. Classroom instruction incorporates passionate speaking, purposeful writing, powerful presentations, and digital literacy. Experiential learning supports students in taking intellectual risks, making real world connections, increasing engagement, and providing opportunities to explore authentic topics and challenges.

PS 140Q: The Edward K. Ellington Magnet School of Science, Technology and The Arts - A Steam Magnet School

166-01 116th Ave., Jamaica 718-657-4760, 718-759-4977 theedwardkellingtonschool.org info@magnetschools.nyc The Edward K. Ellington Magnet School of Science, Technology, and the Arts - our motto, “Where Greatness Occurs, One Step At A Time.” Project-based STEAM curriculum, advanced technology, arts, music, enrichment clubs, and middle-school prep. We strive to develop productive, self-thinking, problem-solving citizens, capable of thriving in an ever-evolving world.

PS 195: The William Haberle Magnet School of Multimedia, Arts, and STEM

84-40 101st St. 718-846-1840 ps195magnet.org PS 195 - The Magnet Academy of Multimedia Arts and STEM is a warm community environment where every student is welcomed. Students use technology to create animations, news broadcasts, and documentaries that illustrate their learning. STEM is woven throughout the curriculum, giving students opportunities to learn science content in new ways.

PS 201: The Discovery School for Inquiry and Research: Steam Magnet School 65-11 155th St., Flushing 718-359-0620 ps201.org info@magnetschools.nyc info@ps201.org At PS 201: A STEAM Magnet School, inquiry-based learning encourages students to become independent thinkers, ask

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questions, and actively research answers. The innovative curriculum is motivating for all students. STEAM learning combines the study of science, technology, engineering, art, and mathematics into projects that prepare students for college and careers.

PS 254: The Rosa Parks Magnet School of Leadership Development and the Arts

84-40 101st St. 718-846-1840 ps254q27.com PS 254 - The Rosa Parks Magnet School of Leadership Development and the Arts is a place where every child is a leader. Children internalize the “seven habits of highly effective leaders” through the Leader in Me program. Students develop creativity through a theatrical production, dance classes, music, and visual arts.

PS 316: The Queens Explorers Magnet School of Global Conservation and Service Learning

90-07 101st Ave. 718-558-7088 qemagnetschool.org PS 316 - The Queens Explorers Magnet School for Conservation and Service Learning uses project based learning to engage students and connect them in an authentic way with the world while instilling empathy in their students. Learners participate in five large scale community service projects throughout the year.

PS 349: The Magnet School of Leadership and Innovation Through Steam

88-08 164th St., Jamaica 718-558-6220, 718-759-4977 ps349.info info@magnetschools.nyc PS 349 offers a rigorous STEAM curriculum designed to ignite students’ imagination through engineering and design, spark their curiosity, and engage through exploration. Leadership instruction integrates The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People into all classes, allowing for collaboration and leadership through self–management, self–awareness, and responsible decision-making.

PS 52: The Magnet School of Innovation, Exploration, and Engineering

178-37 146th Terrace 718-528-2238 ps52magnet.org PS 52 - The Magnet School of Innovation, Exploration, and Engineering features a STEM lab and engineering spaces where students solve real world problems and work collaboratively. Students use the Engineering Design Process to analyze challenges and generate solutions.

Teachers use a hands-on approach to make learning come alive.

PS 55: The Maure Magnet School of Communication Arts, Technology and Multimedia

131-10 97th Ave., Richmond Hill 718-849-3845, 718-759-4977 ps55q.com info@magnetschools.nyc info@ps55q.com At PS 55 every student has a voice. Theme-based instruction, project-based units, arts and technology integration. Students develop higher order thinking skills, share ideas, connect with each other, engage and explore. Learning is expanded by writing code, creating audio and video presentations, performing music, graphic design, and using 3D printers.

PS 62: The Chester Park Magnet School of Computer Science and Innovation

97-25 108th St. 718-286-4460 ps062.org PS 62- The Magnet School for Computer Science and Innovation has established itself as a leader in elementary computer science instruction. Teachers integrate coding, robotics, 3D printing, and other technologies into everyday instruction. Students participate in an annual Makerfaire where they showcase their innovation.

PS 92: The Harry T. Stewart, Sr. Magnet School for Engineering, Architecture & the Arts

99-01 34th Ave., Corona 718-533-1013, 718-759-4977 ps92q.org info@magnetschools.nyc All grades at PS 92 participate in hands-on Project Based Learning (PBL) themed around engineering, architecture, and the arts. Our rigorous curriculum is designed for students to explore and generate evidence to support learning through projects and culminating events. Students learn to discuss ideas, refine prototypes, and collaborate with others.

PS/MS 200: The Magnet School of Global Studies & Leadership

70-10 164th St., Flushing 718-969-7780, 718-759-4977 globalstudiesandleadership.org info@magnetschools.nyc Students at The Magnet School of Global Studies & Leadership graduate with a profound understanding of the worldwide challenges and the necessary leadership skills needed to effect change in the 21st century. Students celebrate countries and cultures through an emphasis on global competence, geographic literacy, project-based learning, and STEM education.

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Adventureland Child Care Center

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718-777-2011

Beautiful Minds Childcare

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347-987-3270

Commonpoint Queens Sam Field Center – Early Childhood Programs The Crayon Box Preschool

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crayonboxpreschool.com

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ivydayschool.com

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Tiny Footsteps Parochial & Religious Schools

Archbishop Molloy High School Monsignor McClancy Memorial High School Saint Mary’s Elementary School

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tinyfootstepsny.com

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St. John’s Preparatory School Preschools

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Countryside Montessori School

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516-466-8422

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The Crayon Box Preschool Ivy Day School

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718-888-9341

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Rossall School, UK Saint Mary’s Elementary School

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516-627 0184

St. John’s Preparatory School

stjohnsprepschool.org

718-721-7200

United Nations International School

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718-658-6166

thewindsorschool.com

718-359-8300

IS 145: The Joseph Pulitzer Magnet School of Innovation and Applied Learning

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718-846-1840

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qemagnetschool.org

347-987-3270

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Halloween Fun a Ride Away By Melissa Wickes

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When it comes to October, all we can think about is Halloween. What better way to enjoy the crisp fall air, the changing colors of the leaves, and decorating for the ghoulish season than getting outside with the family and picking the perfect pumpkin to take home and carve? And if carving pumpkins isn’t your thing, but you want to see epic jack-o’-lanterns, why not meander through a display of 5,000 of them on Long Island?

After the Haunted Hayride, there is a free block party on Beekman Avenue with live music, vendors, a photobooth, and more.

Hold onto Your Head!

Sleepy Hollow’s annual Haunted Hayride invites you on a journey through the dark woods of the town. You’ll hear shrieks and sounds of hoof beats amongst a spooky setting. The ride is recommended for children ages 8 and older who don’t mind a little scare. But if anyone is too spooked for the ride, there’s a free block party on Beekman Avenue with bounce castles, a photobooth, and live music to lift your ‘spirits.’ Oct. 2526; see website for schedule. 28 Beekman Ave., Sleepy Hollow; 914-366-5100; sleepyhollowny.ticketleap.com

PICK PUMPKINS

Brightwaters Farms & Nursery

1624 Manatuck Blvd., Bay Shore 631-665-5411 brightwatersfarms.com Hours: through Oct. 30: daily, 9am-5pm Admission: Free on weekdays; $10 per person on weekends and Columbus Day; free for children younger than 1. Pumpkins $0.69 per pound; $2 per cone for farm animal feeding; hayrides $3 per person Hay rides, inflatable rides, and a farm store with novelty decorations, apples, candy apples, and a full concession stand on weekends only. Weekends include face painting, clown entertainment, animal viewing, and unlimited hay rides.

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>> For more places to pick pumpkins in your area, visit nymetroparents.com/pumpkins.

Rise of the Jack O’ Lanterns

The Halloween-themed weekends at Boo at the Zoo incorporate wildlife while highlighting the best parts of the season.

Lions and Goblins and Gouls, Oh My!

The Bronx Zoo’s annual Halloween favorite Boo at the Zoo is back with spooky fun for the whole family. Favorites include magic shows, the extinct animal graveyard, a corn maze, a costume parade, pumpkin carving demos, mind reading, and (who could forget) a candy trail! Special events, including the Dinosaur Safari and Spooktacular Night Walks, are available with the purchase of an extra ticket on the website. Saturday-Sunday, Sept. 28-Nov. 3, including Monday, Oct. 14., 10am-5:30pm; Ages: All. $39.95; $34.95 ages 65 and older; $29.95 ages 3-12; free for children 2 and younger. 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx; 718-220-5100; bronxzoo.com/boo-at-the-zoo 26

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GET IN THE SPIRIT OF THE SEASON Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury 516-252-3392 therise.org Hours: Friday-Sunday, Oct. 4-11, Thursday-Sunday, Oct. 17-27, and Monday, Oct. 28. 6-10:30pm Admission: $26; $22 children ages 3-17; free for children 2 and younger See 5,000 jack-o’-lanterns carved by professional artists from the tristate area staged along an illuminated, scenic walking path and set to a spooky, fall-themed musical score. Advanced tickets are required. >> For more fun Halloween events like this, visit nymetroparents.com/halloween-fun.

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29 We Can’t Believe it’s Free

30 Fun Fairs & Festivals,

34 Halloween Fun

36 Animal Lovers, Special Needs

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the eight events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Live at the Archway: Oktoberfest FREE

WHEN: Oct. 4-5, see website for schedule WHERE: Archway Under the Manhattan Bridge, Water Street between Anchorage Place and Adams Street, Dumbo AGES: All WHAT: The Manhattan Bridge Archway is transformed into a traditional German “beer hall” with two days of festive musical performances, contests, photo opportunities, and themed food and beverage offerings. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids will love the arts and crafts offerings, plus pretzels, brats, and sauerkraut to taste. WANT TO GO? dumbo.is.

2019 Sunnyside Gardens Park Oktoberfest FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 12-5pm WHERE: Sunnyside Gardens Park, 48-21 39th Ave., Sunnyside AGES: All WHAT: See picnic grove transform into an authentic Biergarten, with live music and entertainment for the whole family. WHY WE LOVE IT: The fun includes an arts and crafts fair, pumpkin patch, kids’ crafts, carnival rides, and face painters. WANT TO GO? 323-428-5352. sunnysidegardenspark.org.

Arts, Culture & Fun: Queensboro Dance Festival FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 6: see website for schedule WHERE: Various locations AGES: All WHAT: Head to a local park or library for performances and dance activities by Queens-based dance companies! WHY WE LOVE IT: Styles include Indian, Flamenco, hip-hop, Greek, contemporary, tap, Filipino, Ecuadorian, African, and more. WANT TO GO? queensborodancefestival.com.

Harvest Fest

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 11am-5pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live music, inflatables, a petting zoo, face painting, tours, garden and composting demonstrations, craft and food vendors, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: Festival admission includes free entry to the everpopular Pumpkin Patch! WANT TO GO? $15; $13 children; free for children younger than 4. 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

Halloween Harvest Festival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 12-4pm WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: The festival features costume-making, face-painting, Blessing of the Animals, and a Doggie Costume Contest! WHY WE LOVE IT: Vibrant cultural activities also include card readings and a procession culminating in a dance and drum performance. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org. 28

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WHEN: Oct. 26-27, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: A weekend of exploring the science of the creepy. Use household materials to make fake blood or prosthetic wounds, learn how geometry and perspective are used in set design, and explore video and lighting effects. WHY WE LOVE IT: Prizes will be handed out for those who come in costume. Don’t have a costume? Make one with recycled materials! WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $16 adults; $13 children ages 2-17. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Children’s Halloween Festival

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 27, 11am-4pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Two-step to live country western music, take a hayride, visit the Haunted Farmhouse, and enjoy pony rides and a seasonal petting zoo. WHY WE LOVE IT: Families will have fun finding their way out of The Amazing Maize Maze and getting crafty with farm educators. WANT TO GO? $20. 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

Halloween Boo Bash FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 3:30-5:30pm WHERE: Randall’s Island Park, 20 Randall’s Island Park, Randall’s Island AGES: All WHAT: Join for crafts, games, treats, and spooky fun before trick-or-treating. WHY WE LOVE IT: The event is fairly low-key and great for little ones! WANT TO GO? 212-830-7722. randallsisland.org.

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WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the six no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Fall Festival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 12-4pm WHERE: King Manor Museum, 150-03 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Play games, make corn husk dolls, churn butter 19th-century style, press your own apple cider, interact with a historic interpreter, and more. WANT TO GO? 718-206-0545. kingmanor.org/events.

Saturday, October 5th |10:30am-12pm Sunday, October 13th | 4:30-6pm

Basic Guitar Lessons FREE

WHEN: Oct. 1-22, Tuesdays, 4-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Woodhaven Branch, 85-41 Forest Parkway, Woodhaven AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Learn basic chords and songs in four weeks of lessons. Guitars available with library cards. Pre-registration required. WANT TO GO? 718-849-1010. queenslibrary.org.

Roots Saturdays FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 26: Saturdays, 12-3pm WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Drop-in workshops, food demos, and activities for kids and families. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

The Haunted Hallway FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Woodhaven Branch, 85-41 Forest Parkway, Woodhaven AGES: 8-15 WHAT: The haunted hallway returns! Walk it if you dare! WANT TO GO? 718-849-1010. queenslibrary.org.

Nail Polish Workshop FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 5-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Ridgewood, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: All WHAT: Design and polish your own nails or have them done for you. WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

Nature Play Club FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, 2pm WHERE: Queens Zoo, 53-51 111th St., Corona AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy free monthly sessions at the zoo and in nearby parks, connecting families back to nature through unstructured, free-play exploration. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 718-271-1500. queenszoo.com. ››

QUEENS CAMPUS K - 8

OPEN HOUSE Tuesday, October 1st at 9:00 a.m. RSVP rsorrentini@unis.org • Rigorous international curriculum • Multicultural music, art, and drama programs • French and Spanish taught from Kindergarten • Environmental Center • Flexible after-care and after school activities

173-53 Croydon Rd. Jamaica Estates, NY 11432 718-658-6166 | www.unis.org QueensParent 29

MOVERS & SHAKERS Rosh Hashanah in Prospect Park

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 1, 12-4pm WHERE: Prospect Park Audubon Center, 101 East Drive, Flatbush, Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Join Prospect Park Alliance during the Rosh Hashanah holiday for family-friendly activities, including badminton, croquet, and cornhole, and enjoy a Bird Nerd Game Hour and animal encounters. WANT TO GO? $2.50 per carousel ride. 646-393-9031. prospectpark.org.

Meditation for Kids FREE

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS Fall Festival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 12-3pm WHERE: Forest Park Victory Field, Woodhaven Boulevard between Myrtle Avenue and Forest Park Drive, Woodhaven AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate fall with crafts, games, music, live entertainment, pumpkins, and more! WANT TO GO? 718-235-4100. nycgovparks.org.

Bayswater Fall Festival FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 12-3pm WHERE: Bayswater Park, Dwight Avenue, Seagirt Boulevard, between Beach 38 Street and Bay 32 Street, Far Rockaway AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate fall with a pumpkin patch, pony and hayrides, music, face painting, arts and crafts, inflatables, a magician, play mobile, games, and refreshments. WANT TO GO? 718-318-4000. nycgovparks.org.

Queens Night Market FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 26: Saturdays, 5pm-12am WHERE: Flushing Meadows Corona Park, 111th Street to Van Wyck Expressway, Corona AGES: All WHAT: A family-friendly, open-air night market featuring up to 100 independent vendors selling merchandise, art, and food, and featuring small-scale cultural performances. WANT TO GO? 516-671-4041. nycgovparks.org.

The Amazing Maize Maze

WHEN: Through Oct. 26: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4:30pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Get lost in NYC’s only corn maze! The adventure begins with a stalk talk to prepare you for the 3-acre challenge of finding clues, solving puzzles and making your way out of this interactive maze. WANT TO GO? $15; $8 children younger than 13. In advance: $10, $5 children younger than 13. 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org. 30

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WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 2, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Woodhaven Branch, 85-41 Forest Parkway, Woodhaven AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids a can learn about the benefits and techniques of meditation. WANT TO GO? 718-849-1010. queenslibrary.org.

Making Strides Against Breast Cancer Walk FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, 8am registration; 10am walk WHERE: Flushing Meadows Corona Park, 111th Street to Van Wyck Expressway, Corona AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate survivors, have fun, and raise money and awareness for the American Cancer Society’s efforts to save lives from breast cancer. WANT TO GO? 516-671-4041. nycgovparks.org.

Construction Junction FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 30: Wednesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Poppenhusen Branch, 121-23 14 Ave., College Point AGES: 5 and older WHAT: What can you make out of marshmallows and toothpicks? Find out and use Lego bricks, Jenga, and Joinks to make creative structures. WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.

Family Fun Time FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 23: Saturday, 2-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: All WHAT: Play with board games, Lego bricks, puzzles, and more. WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

Baby Playdate FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Mondays, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Court Square, 25-01 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Drop in for an unstructured playdate. WANT TO GO? 718-937-2790. queenslibrary.org.

NYRR Open Run Baisley Pond Park FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 26: Check-in: 8:45am; run: 9am WHERE: Baisley Pond Park, 156-10 Baisley Blvd., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: NYRR Open Run is a community-based, volunteer-led running initiative bringing free weekly runs and walks to local neighborhood parks. WANT TO GO? 347-692-0488. facebook.com/groups/328717541146271.

SMARTY PANTS Think Tank: Water in the Ecosystem

culture and toys (e.g. Barbie and Lego astronaut dolls), as well as new developments in space-inspired fashion. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $16; $13 children, students, and senior citizens. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Discover the water cycle, learn how important clean water is to humans, and how to help make sure everyone has access to it. Children will explore their inner scientist with this fun-filled, handson experimenting class. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $23. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Crazy 8s STEM Club FREE

Living Lab: The Environment In the Fall

Book Jeopardy FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-12 WHAT: We know what is happening to the weather, but what is happening to the plants and animals when seasons change? Program will include fall outdoor activities, an art project, and meeting APEC animals! Registration required. WANT TO GO? $21. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

The Past, Present, and Future of Space Flight

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 18, 7-8pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Jessica Cimini-Samuels, NASA ambassador and science educator, will explore the history of manned science flight, including the Mercury, Gemini, Apollo, and shuttle programs. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Chemistry Day

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, 11am-4pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 4 and older WHAT: Celebrate chemistry with NYSCI and the New York section of the American Chemical Society! The event will showcase chemistry principles using demonstrations performed by local college students and volunteers from local industries. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $16; $13 children ages 2-17. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

STEM: Leaves And Rubbings FREE

WHEN: Oct. 8-Dec. 3, Tuesdays, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Rochdale Village Branch, 169-09 137 Ave., Jamaica AGES: 9-11 WHAT: Kids in third-fifth grades, join us for Rochdale’s Crazy 8s STEM Club focusing on math, where you’ll build stuff, run and jump, make music, and make a mess. WANT TO GO? 718-723-4440. queenslibrary.org. WHEN: Through Dec. 17: Tuesdays, 5-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Ridgewood Branch, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: 7-12 WHAT: Children are invited to join an exciting, book-themed, kid version of the trivia game Jeopardy. WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

African American History FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 26: Thursdays, 3-4pm WHERE: Laurelton Library, 134-26 225 St., Laurelton AGES: 5-10 WHAT: Learn about and discuss African American history. WANT TO GO? 718-528-2822. queenslibrary.org.

Chess Club FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Mondays, 5-6pm WHERE: Queens Library, Seaside Branch, 116-15 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Park AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Challenge your brain, make new friends, and have fun while learning critical thinking and problem-solving skills! WANT TO GO? 718-634-1876.

Sit & Think (Sudoku) FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Monday-Saturday, 1-1:15pm WHERE: Queens Library, Richmond Hill Branch, 118-14 Hillside Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Try a Sudoku puzzle or just refresh your math skills. WANT TO GO? 718-849-7150. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 22, 2:30-3:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Children can join in the seasonal STEM program about leaves. WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

Chess with Mr. Fariad FREE

‘Imaging Women in the Space Age’

Chess For All FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; SaturdaySunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: This exhibition includes vintage and current images of women as aviators and astronauts from fashion, television, film, pop

WHEN: Through June 27, 2020: Saturdays, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Rosedale Branch, 144-20 243 St., Rosedale AGES: All WHAT: All chess lovers are welcome to this program: advanced players, intermediate, and beginners. WANT TO GO? 718-528-8490. queenslibrary.org. WHEN: Through June 30, 2020: Tuesdays, 4-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Rosedale Branch, 144-20 243 St., Rosedale AGES: All WHAT: This program is open to all chess lovers from beginners to advanced players. WANT TO GO? 718-528-8490. queenslibrary.org. ›› QueensParent 31

Friday at the Movies FREE

WHEN: Through Jan. 31, 2020: see website for schedule WHERE: Queens Library, Ozone Park Branch, 92-24 Rockaway Blvd., Ozone Park AGES: All WHAT: Head to the library to see a G or PG movie. WANT TO GO? 718-845-3127. queenslibrary.org.

Superpower Dogs 3D

WHEN: Through May 31, 2020: daily; 11am and 1pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: This immersive 3D movie showcases the life-saving superpowers and extraordinary bravery of some of the world’s most amazing dogs. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children, students, and senior citizens, plus museum admission. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

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ON SCREEN Saturday Family Movie FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 3-5pm WHERE: Long Island City Library, 37-44 21 St., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Catch a family-friendly movie at the library. WANT TO GO? 718-752-3700. queenslibrary.org.

‘Won’t You Be My Neighbor’ FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 17, 4-5pm WHERE: Queensboro Hill Library, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Head to the library for Won’t You Be My Neighbor: A Mr. Roger’s Storytime Celebration. Hear stories starring Daniel the Tiger and make a Daniel the Tiger puppet craft. WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332.

Family Movie: ‘Toy Story 4’ FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 25, 3:30-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Ridgewood Branch, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: All WHAT: Watch Toy Story 4 with the whole family. WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

Marvel Movie Marathon FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 26: Saturdays, 2-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Howard Beach Branch, 92-06 156 Ave., Howard Beach AGES: All WHAT: See the Marvel Cinematic Universe in what is considered the best viewing order. WANT TO GO? 718-641-7086. queenslibrary.org.

Frightful Flicks FREE

WHEN: Oct. 7-28, Mondays, 3:30-5pm (no movie Oct. 14) WHERE: Queens Library, Queens Village Branch, 94-11 217 St., Queens Village AGES: All WHAT: Spooky movies include Goosebumps 2: Haunted Halloween, Hotel Transylvania 3: Summer Vacation, and The Nightmare Before Christmas. WANT TO GO? queenslibrary.org. 32

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Mozart for Munchkins Presents The Triumphant Trumpet!

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 4pm WHERE: Book Culture LIC, 26-09 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: NYC trumpet extraordinaire Kate Amrine and The Hawaii Symphony’s JoAnn Lamolino will show off how exciting the trumpet is! Each interactive performance is followed by an “instrument petting zoo.” WANT TO GO? $35; free for children younger than 13. 718-440-3120. bookculture.com.

Kobo Town

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 11, 8pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 13 and older WHAT: The JUNO Award-winning group brings their distinct calypso-inspired sound to audiences across the world. WANT TO GO? $16; free for teens. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

Jazzmobile@55 Presents Taylor Made

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 7pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Jazz masters, greats, and emerging artists will take to the stage for a hard-swinging concert celebrating NEA Jazz Master Dr. Billy Taylor WANT TO GO? $20; free for teens. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

Karaoke! FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 23, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, 85-41 Forest Parkway, Woodhaven AGES: All WHAT: Sing your heart out or listen to others have fun belting out tunes. WANT TO GO? 718-849-1010. queenslibrary.org.

Music and Movement for Infants and Toddlers FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 28: Wednesdays, 10:15-11:15am WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Infants, toddlers, and caregivers enjoy songs, movement, finger plays, puppets, and other activities. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.

SHOW TIME! Antonio Hart Quintet

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 8pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Check out a fun jazz show by Antonio Hart, recognized as one of the most talented instrumentalists of his generation. WANT TO GO? $16; free for teens. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

‘Rent’

WHEN: Through Oct. 6: see website for show times WHERE: The Secret Theatre, 44-02 23rd St. (between 44th Avenue and 44th Road), Long Island City AGES: 13 and older WHAT: With its premiere in 1996, this production became a pop culture powerhouse and a story that all ages can relate to. WANT TO GO? $25; $22 advance. 718-392-0722. secrettheatre.com.

‘Bessie’s Big Shot’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 12-12:45pm WHERE: Forest Park, Forest Park Drive and Woodhaven Boulevard, Woodhaven AGES: All WHAT: Bessie the cow dreams of joining the circus. But can she lift more than Ziegfried, the strongest man in the world? Fly on the trapeze high above the crowd? Come root Bessie on in this variety show as she attempts the impossible and searches for her special talents. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Cardboard Explosion!

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 4pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-12 WHAT: This one-of-a-kind puppetry experience brings four original stories to life using nothing but cardboard and the power of your imagination. With help from the audience, puppeteer Brad Shur transforms simple cardboard shapes into elaborate puppet characters, then brings them to life right before your eyes. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

SOLE Defined VIBEZ

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Avenue S., Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Corona AGES: All WHAT: An interactive journey back in time, blending the hip-hop sounds of DJ RBI, mind-blowing tap dancing, and high-energy stepping. WANT TO GO? $15. 718-860-0064. queenstheatre.org.

Friends Of Briarwood Presents: A Magic Show FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 4:30-5:15pm WHERE: Queens Library, Briarwood Branch, 85-12 Main St., Briarwood AGES: All WHAT: The Rogue Magician will be performing illusions relating to Halloween! They are a little spooky, but appropriate for all ages. WANT TO GO? 718-658-1680. queenslibrary.org.

‘Guess What’: The Family-Friendly Stand Up Comedy Show

WHEN: Through March 21, 2020: see website for schedule WHERE: The Creek & The Cave, 10-93 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: The show is hosted by an 11-year-old and her dad. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-706-8783. creeklic.com.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Fall Bird Walk for Beginners FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Walk through APEC’s trails, accompanied by a member of Queens County Bird Club. Learn to view and listen to our various species of birds. Learn to use binoculars and a field guide. WANT TO GO? 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Pumpkin Patch

WHEN: Oct. 12-14, Saturday-Monday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: A quintessential fall family experience! Patch activities include harvest-themed photo opportunities, pumpkin decorating, crafts, and botanical demonstrations. Face painting is available for an additional fee. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 children. 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

Nature in Your Neighborhood FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 23: Wednesdays, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Gantry Plaza State Park, Center Boulevard at 48th Avenue, Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Join the New York State Parks Environmental Education Team in exploring a new nature theme each week with hands-on activities, arts and crafts, scavenger hunts, games, and more! WANT TO GO? 718-361-2922. licconcerts.com.

Harvest Weekends FREE

WHEN: Oct. 5-26, Saturday-Sunday and Columbus Day, 11am-4:30pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Explore the grounds and buy a variety of Hudson Valley apples, doughnuts, fresh cider, and apple pie. WANT TO GO? 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org. ›› QueensParent 33

Children’s Movie: ‘Goosebumps 2: Haunted Halloween’ FREE

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 25, 3:30-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Broadway Branch, 40-20 Broadway, Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Children and their parent or caregiver are invited to watch Goosebumps 2: Haunted Halloween (2018, PG). WANT TO GO? 718-721-2462. queenslibrary.org.

Spooky Board Games for Teens FREE

HALLOWEEN FUN Make Your Own Halloween Basket for Kids FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 17, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Queensboro Hill Branch, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Children will learn to weave and make a Halloween basket. WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332. queenslibrary.org.

Maze by Moonlight

WHEN: Oct. 12-19, Saturdays, 4:30-9pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Navigate The Amazing Maize Maze by the starry night! Bring your flashlight and enjoy the fun. WANT TO GO? $17 ($12 advance); $10 ($7 advance) children ages 4-11; free for children younger than 4. 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

Make Your Own Haunted House FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 22, 4pm-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Queensboro Hill Branch, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children will make a small haunted house. WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332. queenslibrary.org.

Pumpkin Decorating FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 23, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Howard Beach Branch, 92-06 156 Ave., Howard Beach AGES: All WHAT: Decorate a pumpkin in time for Halloween! All supplies included. WANT TO GO? 718-641-7086. queenslibrary.org.

Halloween Crafts FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 23, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Ozone Park Branch, 92-24 Rockaway Blvd., Ozone Park AGES: All WHAT: Create masks and accessories for Halloween. WANT TO GO? 718-845-3127. queenslibrary.org.

Hello Halloween Craft FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 24, 4-5pm WHERE: Forest Hills Library, 108-19 71 Ave., Forest Hills AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Participate in a delightfully scary craft activity to get ready for Halloween. Limited to 16 children and on a first-come, first-served basis. WANT TO GO? 718-268-7934. queenslibrary.org. 34

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WHEN: Fridays, Oct. 11 and 25, 3-4:15pm WHERE: Queens Library, Jackson Heights Branch, 35-51 81st St., Jackson Heights AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Play horror-themed board games! WANT TO GO? 718-899-2500. queenslibrary.org.

‘Boo’tiful: Saturday Family Movie FREE

WHEN: Oct. 5-26, Saturdays, 2-6pm WHERE: Queens Library, Arverne, 312 Beach 54 St., Arverne AGES: All WHAT: A spooky and fun afternoon of movies. WANT TO GO? 718-634-4784.

Haunted Farmhouse

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 1-7pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Prepare for a scare inside a haunted farmhouse! This ghoulish adventure is the perfect way to twist and turn in to Halloween. WANT TO GO? $7; $4 in advance. 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

Halloween Harvest: Lantern Workshop FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 12-4pm WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Create a lantern from everyday materials and explore aspects of illumination with translucency, opacity, and cut-outs. RSVP: rsvp@socratessculpturepark.org. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

Frights and Phantoms of Flushing

WHEN: Through Oct. 26: see website for schedule WHERE: Quaker Meeting House, 137-16 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Venture into the neighborhood of Flushing, home to some of the oldest, best-preserved, and most significant buildings in the United States. This tour will examine the fascinating history of the neighborhood, as well as its abundant ghoulish and ghostly stories. WANT TO GO? $25. queenshistoricalsociety.org.

Trunk or Treat

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 2-4:30pm WHERE: Maple Grove Cemetery, 127-15 Kew Gardens Road, Kew Gardens AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Halloween a few days early with this fun Trunk or Treat and Fall Family Celebration. WANT TO GO? Free with canned good donation. 347-878-6614.

Children’s Halloween Party FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 2-4pm WHERE: Queens Library, Peninsula, 92-25 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Beach AGES: 4-8 WHAT: Join for a fantastically spooky Halloween party. There will be fun games, Bingo, a freeze dance contest, costume show, and a Halloween parade. WANT TO GO? 718-634-1110.

Young Chefs: Spooky Halloween Snacks

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Young APEC Chefs will prepare tasty treats during this ghoulish cooking class. Menu will include Oreo Pumpkin Pops, Strawberry Ghosts, Cheesy Eyeballs, and Witch’s Halloween Brew! Registration required. WANT TO GO? $24. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Halloween Masks and Crafts For Kids FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 11am-1pm WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Stop by the children’s room to make Halloween masks and crafts. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.

Halloween Blood Fest 2019 FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 12-4pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: This event features a spook house, the rock band Decembers Fall, a magical light show by Warlock, costume and scream contests, the zombie short film The Pit, and, live on stage, Frankenstein’s resurrection. WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

Halloween at the Garden

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 27, 12-4pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Everything you need to celebrate Halloween: trick-or-treat trail, seasonal crafts, performances including a magic show, a carnivorous plant display, and a costume dance party. Bring your trick-or-treat bags! WANT TO GO? $6 (includes admission). 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

KCA Cinema Sundays: ‘Hotel Transylvania’

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 27, 3pm WHERE: Kupferberg Center for the Arts, 65-30 Kissena Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Dracula, who operates a high-end resort away from the human world, goes into overprotective mode when a boy discovers the resort and falls for the count’s teenaged daughter. WANT TO GO? $9; $6 children. 718-793-8080. kupferbergcenter.org.

Family Movie: ‘Hocus Pocus’ FREE

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 28, 4:30-6pm WHERE: Queens Library, Briarwood Branch, 85-12 Main St., Briarwood AGES: All WHAT: Come watch Hocus Pocus (1993, PG). WANT TO GO? 718-658-1680. queenslibrary.org.

Children’s Halloween Costume Contest FREE

Halloween Costume Creation and Fashion Show FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 30, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Ridgewood Branch, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: All WHAT: Design your own costume to be presented in a fun fashion show. WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

Halloween Slime Making FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 30, 4-4:45pm WHERE: Queens Library, East Flushing Branch, 196-36 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 4-12 WHAT: Children are welcome to participate in the fun art of making slime! WANT TO GO? 718-357-6643. queenslibrary.org/branch/East-Flushing.

Halloween Magic Show FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 30, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Langston Hughes Branch, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Corona AGES: All WHAT: The Rogue Magician will be performing illusions that are a little spooky, but appropriate for all ages. WANT TO GO? 718-651-1100. queenslibrary.org.

Kids Halloween Silent Disco

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 30, 11am-3pm WHERE: Katch Astoria, 31-19 Newtown Ave., Astoria AGES: All WHAT: Live DJs will be spinning your favorite hits and leading your kids in dancing, singing, and interactive games. Costumes highly encouraged! WANT TO GO? $20 in advance; $30 at door. katchastoria.com.

Bongsan Talchum: Korean Mask Dance

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 8pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Celebrate Halloween with Korean mask dance! Bongsan Talchum is the 17th Important Intangible Cultural Property of Korea and one of Korea’s most representative mask dances. WANT TO GO? $16; $10 students and children. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

The Third Annual Ozone Park Halloween Ball FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Ozone Park Branch, 92-24 Rockaway Blvd., Ozone Park AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Costumes are optional but be sure to wear your smile! WANT TO GO? 718-845-3127. queenslibrary.org.

Spooktacular Celebration

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 29, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: All WHAT: Show off those Halloween costumes! Please register in advance. WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 12:30-2pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Go in costume to play games, design a creepy craft, and pick a pumpkin to take home. Pre-registration required. WANT TO GO? $16. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Books & Crafts: Spooky Special FREE

Haunted Halloween FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 29, 4-5pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: 7-10 WHAT: Celebrate the spooky, twitchy season with special activities: scary stories, games, a craft, and photo booth! WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 5:30-7:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, South Jamaica Branch, 108-41 Guy R. Brewer Blvd., South Jamaica AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Wear your Halloween costume, join in spooky crafts, and more! WANT TO GO? 718-739-4088. queenslibrary.org. ›› QueensParent 35

Art on the Farm FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 20: Saturday-Sunday, 2-4pm WHERE: Randall’s Island Park, 20 Randall’s Island Park, Randall’s Island AGES: All WHAT: Join for art projects inspired by the farm. WANT TO GO? 212-830-7722. randallsisland.org.

Auburndale 50th Anniversary Celebration: Frogs Bugs & Animals Show FREE WHEN: Monday, Oct. 21, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Auburndale Branch, 25-55 Francis Lewis Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: This program features frogs, bugs, chinchillas, and a chicken. Learn about where these animals are from, what they eat, when they sleep, and how they protect themselves. Pre-registration required. WANT TO GO? 718-352-2027. queenslibrary.org.

APEC Adventure Time: Scaly Creatures

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 11am-12:15pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: Newborn to 2, adult WHAT: Snakes, turtles, and lizards will be special guests in this exciting program about reptiles. Toddlers and parents/caregivers enjoy some special time together as they socialize with other youngsters and learn about nature. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $20. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

ANIMAL LOVERS Bee Thankful: A Honey Bee Workshop

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 1:30-3:00pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The world would be a lot different without the honey bee. Join beekeeper Nick Hoefly of Astor Apiaries for an afternoon all about these sweet little insects. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 children ages 7-17. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Animal Tales: Creepy Crawling Critters

Sea Lion Feeding

WHEN: Year-round, daily, 11:15am, 2pm, and 4pm WHERE: Queens Zoo, 53-51 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: See the sea lions get their meals and maybe do a trick or two! WANT TO GO? $9.95; $7.95 seniors ages 65 and older; $6.95 children ages 3-12; free for children 2 and younger. 718-271-1500. queenszoo.com.

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Puppetry for Parents: Using Puppets in the Home to Make Meaningful Connections

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 10:30-11:45am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Spiders, roaches, and crickets will prepare children for a spooky Halloween season. Encourage your child’s love of reading by sharing a nature story, create a nature craft, meet some of APEC’s animals, and enjoy a nature walk. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $20. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

WHEN: Friday, Oct. 25, 5-8pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: Adult WHAT: Participants will learn the basics of performance and technique as well as discuss ways to utilize puppets within the home to build emotional connections. Puppets can be especially effective with children on the autism spectrum and children with developmental delays. Each participant will receive their own puppet to take home. The workshop is intended for parents and caregivers. WANT TO GO? $20. 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

I Want to be a Vet

Circle of Friends FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Does your child dream of being a veterinarian? Send them to APEC to learn the basics of animal care. Enjoy pretend play examining animals, look at animal X-rays, groom the rabbits, and help take care of the turtles. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $24. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com. 36

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WHEN: Oct. 4-June 19, 2020, Fridays, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Astoria Branch, 14-01 Astoria Blvd., Long Island City AGES: 6-13 WHAT: This program is for children with autism spectrum disorder. The goal of this program is to help children to learn social skills through simple science experiments, art projects, and board games. A therapist or caregiver must be present. WANT TO GO? 718-278-2220. queenslibrary.org.

CRAFTY KIDS Autumn Wreath Craft FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 1, 2:30-3:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children make beautiful autumn wreaths. WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

Hands on History: Design Your Own 19th-Century Jewelry! FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 1-4pm WHERE: King Manor Museum, 150-03 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: 5 and older WHAT: In honor of the lady of King Manor, learn about 19th century jewelry and styles like the necklace and hair pin Mary Alsop King wore in her portrait. Then make your own 19th-century inspired jewelry to take home and wear. WANT TO GO? 718-206-0545. kingmanor.org.

Storytime and Craft

WHEN: Oct. 5-6, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Bring your little nature lovers to hear seasonally inspired stories that will open their imaginations to the different natural worlds found at QBG, followed by a botanically themed craft activity. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $6 adults; $2 children ages 4-12; free for children younger than 4. 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

Flour Dough Sculpture Making

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join master flour dough artist, Xun Ye, for this unique workshop in traditional Chinese flour dough sculpture. Participants will learn basic dough art techniques to create their own animal or flower sculptures. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Wear: T-Shirt Printing Workshop FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, 3pm WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 35-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Give depth and texture to your T-shirt in a printing workshop led by artists Rirkrit Tiravanija and Tomas Vu. RSVP: rsvp@socratessculpturepark.org WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

Tot Time Wednesdays: Nature, Stories, and Crafts FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 23: Wednesdays, 10am-11:30am WHERE: Gantry Plaza State Park, Center Boulevard at 48th Avenue, Long Island City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy a guided story time where you will discover a different nature topic each week through crafts, games, and a read-aloud. WANT TO GO? 718-361-2922. licconcerts.com.

Super Saturday Morning FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 26: Saturdays, 11am-12pm WHERE: Forest Hills Library, 108-19 71 Ave., Forest Hills

AGES: 3-6 WHAT: Have fun with origami, coloring pages, board games, and puzzles, plus Lincoln Logs, Mega Bloks, and Star Builders for the little ones. WANT TO GO? 718-268-7934. queenslibrary.org.

Activity Table

WHEN: Through Oct. 26: see website for schedule WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Have fun with family-friendly botanical-themed arts and crafts activities. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $6 adults; $2 children ages 4-12; free for children younger than 4. 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

Arts Island Outpost FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Governors Island, ferries leave from Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 6, Brooklyn Heights and 10 South St., Lower Manhattan AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy free hands-on art making workshops and art-viewing experiences. WANT TO GO? 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

Sachiko Embroidery Workshop with Linda Rettich

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 27, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: The Voelker Orth Museum, 149-19 38th Ave., Flushing AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Learn the basic technique and stitches of Sashiko, a type of embroidery, originally developed in Japan using white or red thread to fortify and decorate homespun garments. Participants will make and take home a hand-sewn project. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-359-6227. vomuseum.org.

Crafts and Stories FREE

WHEN: Oct. 8-Dec. 17, Tuesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Jackson Heights Branch, 35-51 81st St., Jackson Heights AGES: 4-7 WHAT: Join for stories and crafts. Caregiver must attend with the child. WANT TO GO? 718-899-2500. queenslibrary.org.

Mommy and Me FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library, Cambria Heights, 218-13 Linden Blvd., Cambria Heights AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join for playtime with arts and crafts. WANT TO GO? 718-528-3535. queenslibrary.org.

Coloring Club FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Mondays, 3-5pm WHERE: Queens Library, Seaside Branch, 116-15 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Park AGES: All WHAT: Come down to the Seaside Library and de-stress with some coloring! WANT TO GO? 718-634-1876. queenslibrary.org.

Knitting Club FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Tuesdays, 2:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library, Bellerose Branch, 250-06 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: All WHAT: Come learn knitting and enjoy the fun! Yarns and needles are provided during the sessions. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org. QueensParent 37

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Baby’s Wish List ›› Don’t be overwhelmed by all the doodads and cute outfits—here’s how to streamline the process of creating a baby registry By Madeleine Burry

abies may arrive in their birthday suits, but these tiny humans need a whole lot of gear, products, and clothing on hand from day one. The task of creating a baby registry for all that stuff can be overwhelming. “And it doesn’t help that the market is oversaturated and ever-changing,” says Molly Pross, a baby gear expert and founder of Bump Bestie, a baby-planning service. Parents should register for 85-120 items, according to Pross. But which items are must-haves, and which can you safely skip? We asked experts—along with parents, the ultimate pros—to identify their picks for registries, along with advice for crafting a just-right list for your growing family.

Do you need a registry?

If you’re planning to have a baby shower—or anticipate that friends and family will gift your little one with presents—it’s a good idea to have a registry or wish list in place. That way, you can avoid receiving multiple sets of bassinet sheets when you don’t have a bassinet (or getting sheets that don’t fit your particular bassinet). You don’t want to worry about complicated exchanges and returns after baby’s arrival. Creating a registry also helps you get clear on what you’ll want and need to have on hand.

Where should you register?

Thanks to the Internet, registering is easier than ever. You can choose from any number of brick-and-mortar stores or online establishments, such as Target or Amazon. You can also create a registry that pulls in options from several retailers with sites such as babylist.com and myregistry.com. In general: Be mindful of the store’s return policy (just in case you change your mind), as well as

perks the store may offer to parents who register with them. In addition to registering online, Pross recommends registering at a local boutique. That way, people can touch and feel items, and you’re supporting a local business.

How do you make your wish list?

Try thinking in categories, Pross suggests. “Organizing into buckets gives you a much better picture and helps you prioritize. For example, nursery furniture can have a ten- to fourteen-week lead time [for delivery], so it’s best to get the big items ordered first,” she says. And while it may be tempting to add tons of items to your list— every single adorable outfit and every might-be-helpful product— Pross suggests a better strategy is to keep your list focused. “If you have everything on there, guests may end up buying things that you don’t need immediately,” Pross notes. It can be helpful to create a private section of your wish list—that only you and your partner can see—to save items you’re considering and to track the items you’ve purchased yourself, Pross suggests. Safety is an important consideration as you add items to your registry, says Joe Shamie, president of Delta Children. “Parents should check that the products they are interested in are Juvenile Products Manufacturers Association-certified,” he advises. Products with that certification meet the standards of the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, as well as ASTM International, which develops standards used around the world. And don’t shy away from practical essentials, says Liz Jeneault, vice president of marketing for Faveable, and a Philadelphia-based mom of a toddler. Diapers, she says, are especially critical (since you’ll go through so many) as well as baby laundry detergent.

Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents.com, Scholastic, and About.com. Burry lives in Park Slope, Brooklyn, with her husband and their cat. You can follow her on Twitter @lovelanewest.

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AN IDEAL REGISTRY ››

The list of specific purchases varies from one parent to another. If you are planning to take advantage of a lot of hand-me-downs, for instance, your needs may be slimmer. A mom who plans to breast-feed will have different needs than a parent who’s opting to bottle- feed. That said, these are the most important items to consider. Nursery and Sleep A safe place for your baby to sleep is the No. 1 registry must-have, says Joe Shamie, president of Delta Children. “Portable cribs and play yards are the next best place for a baby to sleep if a crib isn’t available, making them great for short vacations or trips to Grandma’s,” he says. q Crib, along with a mattress and sheets q Changing table—or a changing table topper that you can fit on top of a dresser q Baby monitor q Rocker or gliding chair

q B aby bottles, a breast pump, and bottle cleaning supplies, including a drying rack: Check whether your health insurance plan covers the cost of a breast pump before adding it to your registry. q Formula q N ursing bras and supportive pillows: Liz Jeneault, vice president of marketing for Faveable and a Philadelphiabased mom of a toddler, recommends the My Brest Friend pillow. “It definitely helped me when I was super tired and struggling to stay awake! I feel it also helped my baby latch on better,” she says.

q S torage: closets, drawers, and other organizational systems. “Baby clothes are small, so it’s easier to have drawer separators or boxes to keep things organized,” says Molly Pross, a baby gear expert and founder of Bump Bestie.

Bath Time What will you need for bathing your infant?

q B aby swing and bouncy chair: These will allow you to put baby down in a comfortable—and safe—space, says Eva Klein, certified infant and child sleep consultant, mom of three, and owner and founder of My Sleeping Baby. “Otherwise, [parents] could find themselves holding the baby all day, which is exhausting!” she adds.

q Bath toys

q S waddle blankets: Klein notes that infants sleep best when they’re properly swaddled.

q A baby-sized towel and washcloths

q A soft cover for the bathtub faucet q An infant tub q S hampoo, soap, and lotion: Look for products specifically made for baby.

q W hite noise machine: Opt for one that won’t automatically shut off, Klein advises.

Transportation Even city parents who only rarely drive should get a car seat, says Sarah Haverstick, safety advocate at Evenflo. “You never know when you may need to utilize a taxi or ride-share vehicle,” she notes.

q S oothing and play items: Think: pacifiers and blankets, Pross says. And, you’ll want to have some toys and books for baby’s first six months, too.

q C ar seat: “Infant car seats are often compatible with strollers—which can make walking around town or getting in and out of ride-share vehicles even easier,” Haverstick says.

Clothing and Diapering What will baby wear? You may be surprised by how many times in a day you’ll change baby’s outfits—and diapers.

q Stroller

q A n outfit for coming home from the hospital—remember, you’ll be buckling your baby into a car seat, so choose something slim fitting with legs.

Safe to Skip q O utfits: Yes, you do need clothes for baby, but it might be a good idea to keep the number included on your registry low. “They grow out of them quickly, and I had so many left over,” Jeneault says.

q C lothing—including footed pajamas, bodysuits, side-snap tops, socks, and booties q Burp cloths q Sleep sacks q H ats, sweaters, swimsuits, snowsuits: These, of course, will vary depending on the season q Diapers, diaper cream, and wipes Feeding Your needs here will vary depending on if you’ll be breast-feeding or bottle-feeding.

q Wearable baby carrier

q C ar seat covers and accessories: These can present a health risk, Haverstick says, who recommends avoiding extra inserts, cushions, or fluffy harness covers. “You should only use items that are approved by your car seat manufacturer,” she says. Using ones that are not approved may compromise the performance of the car seat in a crash, she adds. q P illows and soft crib items: These are also best avoided for safety reasons, Shamie says, who advises parents to skip baby pillows, crib bumpers, plush toys, and other decorative items destined to live in the crib. “To keep your child safe, we recommend keeping a completely bare crib,” he says. QueensParent 39

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Moving Right Along ››

10 ways to make a move easier on the whole family By Lambeth Hochwald

oving is considered one of the most stressful life events, and anyone who has done it knows why. The packing, organizing, re-organizing, and (literal) heavy lifting are always harder than anyone anticipated. Then there are the emotional detachments and re-attachments. “A move is a huge transition even if you’re going down the street,” says Nicole Black, who runs Coffee and Carpool, a parenting advice site. She should know—she has moved her three school-aged kids to three different states in three years because of her husband’s career. “While a move away from friends, family, and the only home a child has known can be traumatic and overwhelming, when you take the time to focus on helping your kids through this process, it becomes a smoother, more positive experience for everyone.” It’s never easy, but experts have found 10 time-tested ways to cope with a big move and ease the journey to a new home.

Focus on the Future

“Moving means two things: You want to be open with your kids about what they’re leaving behind, but you also want to get them focused on new adventures to come,” says Liz Tenety, co-founder of Motherly, a site for millennial moms, and a mom of three who has moved 10 times as a parent due to graduate schools, changing careers, and a growing family. “My husband and I know that our moves were hard on our kids, but by focusing on new people and experiences, they were able to stay resilient.”

Be Specific About Timing

“Especially if your kids are very little, you want to make the timing of a move very specific,” says Elisabeth Stitt, a parenting coach at Joyful Parenting Coaching. “This means you should put dates on the family calendar (even if they might change). Refer often to how much more time you have. For toddlers and preschoolers, make it as concrete as possible by tying the date to their regular routine, as in, ‘two more library visits before we go to the new library.’”

Reassure Your Children

“Your goal is to make sure your kids are involved in the process from beginning to end,” says Lisa Jacobs, a professional organizer in New York City. “Have a conversation with them about how exciting it is to move into a new home with a brand-new room, while assuring them that all of their favorite toys will go wherever they go.”

Savor the Memories

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if it is the home your kids were brought home to as infants,” Stitt says. “Have them go around and photograph or video a tour of the house, the neighborhood, and even their school. If they are moving more than an hour or two away, having pictures of their old life will give them something to share with their new life, and a younger child might even be able to bring the book to school for show-and-tell.”

Make Decluttering Fun

“When it came time to move, I created a ‘toy store’ so my kids could be part of decluttering their toys and books,” says Ali Wenzke, author of The Art of Happy Moving: How to Declutter, Pack, and Start Over While Maintaining Your Sanity and Finding Happiness. “We bring every single toy into one space and we display it like a toy store. Then the kids can ‘buy’ all of the toys they want to keep, and we donate whatever remains. Since we create toy store sections such as dolls, cars, puzzles, and board games, everything is already organized in sub-categories. Decluttering by sub-category makes the items easy to pack and unpack when you get to your new place.”

Don’t Forget to Supervise

“It’s easy to get overwhelmed the days before and during a move,” says Sarah Drennan, a realtor at Terrie O’Connor Realtors in Allendale, NJ. “All the more reason to keep an eye on your kids to avoid what happened to me. I left my toddlers in a room with crayons and packing paper while I was cleaning, only to return to the room to find their art covering every wall. They drew on every wall the night before we were to close and hand our home over to the new buyers. Thank goodness for Mr. Clean Magic Eraser!”

Hire a Sitter on Moving Day

“Kids can easily get freaked out by the frantic scene that occurs when the movers arrive,” says T.J. Peterson, digital media coordinator at Oz Moving & Storage. “When parents hire a sitter, the kids will stay calm during the chaotic moving day scene, and your movers will be able to handle tasks unfettered.”

Focus on a Cool, New Bedroom

“If your child is especially stressed about an upcoming move, recast it and focus on how cool his or her new room will be,” suggests Kristen Wilkenson, founder of Mom Managing Chaos, a site that focuses on helping families stay organized. The mom of three children has moved 11 times in the last 15 years to facilitate job changes. “Is there a paint color he or she has in mind for the room, and how does he or she want it to be decorated? Make

it fun by looking through décor magazines and Pinterest to get ideas. Start making the idea of the new place an exciting one.”

Get the Kids Settled First

“The first day you get to your new home will be very stressful, but it’s most important that you arrange your child’s space first,” Wenzke says. “Set up the bedding and create a quiet spot where he or she can be alone, if needed. This way, your child will have a private oasis to escape to during the moving chaos. Plus, you may even get a few minutes to unpack some of your own boxes.”

Scout the Neighborhood for Other Kids

“Having moved my own children several times, I found that it was very important for my kids to meet other kids their age,” Drennan says. “Ask friends of friends if they know of any families with kids the same age or check out local mom groups. I noticed that once my kids had a friend or two nearby, they were better able to settle in.” Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in NYC.

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OPEN HOUSES 2019 Archbishop Molloy High School

83-53 Manton St., Briarwood 718-441-2100 x155, x140, x110 molloyhs.org admissions@molloyhs.org Archbishop Molloy High School offers a unique, challenging, and comprehensive program of instruction, guidance, athletics, and activities. Come to the open house on Sunday, Oct. 20 from 11am-4pm.

Buckley Country Day School

2 I.U. Willets Road, Roslyn 516-627-1910 buckleycountryday.com Please join us for our upcoming Admissions Open House on Oct. 6. Meet our headmaster, principals, faculty, students, and alumni; Q&A with a panel of upper school students, and tour of the Buckley campus.

IS 145: The Joseph Pulitzer Magnet School of Innovation and Applied Learning 33-34 80th St., Jackson Heights 718-457-1242, 718-759-4977 145innovators.com info@magnetschools.nyc Join us for open houses on Wednesday, Oct. 16 from 5:30-7:30pm or Oct. 21 from 6-8pm. Learn about all the academic experiences designed to engage, inspire, and promote student achievement.

The Kew-Forest School

119-17 Union Turnpike, Forest Hills 718-268-4667 x125 kewforest.org/openhouse Join us for an open house for preschool to 12th grade on Thursday, Sept. 26 at 8:15am or Saturday, Oct. 19 at 1pm. Please RSVP at kewforest.org/openhouse.

Monsignor McClancy Memorial High School

71-06 31st Ave. E., East Elmhurst 718-898-3800 x2 msgrmcclancy.org McClancy’s open house is Saturday, Oct. 12 from 12-4pm, providing an opportunity for families to tour the school, speak to McClancy student volunteers, and experience the energy.

MS 358: The Magnet School of Steam Exploration and Experiential Learning

88-08 164th St., Jamaica 718-558-6240 ms358.org; info@magnetschools.nyc Join us for an open house on Tuesday, Oct. 29 from 5–7pm. Learn about the middle school experience at MS 358 where students learn by doing and by taking responsibility.

PS 140Q: The Edward K. Ellington Magnet School of Science, Technology and the Arts - A Steam Magnet School 166-01 116th Ave., Jamaica 718-657-4760, 718-759-4977 theedwardkellingtonschool.org info@magnetschools.nyc Join us for an open house on Tuesday, Oct. 17 from 9:3010:30am. Come to learn about all the academic experiences designed to engage, inspire, and promote student achievement.

PS 201: The Discovery School for Inquiry and Research: Steam Magnet School

65-11 155th St., Flushing 718-359-0620 ps201.org info@magnetschools.nyc, info@ps201.org Join us for an open house on Tuesday, Oct. 29 from 2:30-4pm. Come to learn about our exciting STEAM curriculum through project-based, hands-on learning, and stay for a tour!

PS 349: The Magnet School of Leadership and Innovation Through Steam

88-08 164th St., Jamaica 718-558-6220, 718-759-4977 ps349.info info@magnetschools.nyc Join us for open house on Oct. 23 from 4:30-6:30pm. Learn about the rigorous STEAM curriculum designed to ignite imaginations through engineering and design, and spark curiosity in science and leadership.

PS 55: The Maure Magnet School of Communication Arts, Technology and Multimedia

131-10 97th Ave., Richmond Hill 718-849-3845, 718-759-4977 ps55q.com info@magnetschools.nyc, info@ps55q.com Join us for open house on Thursday, Oct. 17 from 6-7:30pm. Learn about the interesting innovative academic experiences designed to engage, inspire, and promote student achievement.

PS 92: The Harry T. Stewart, Sr. Magnet School for Engineering, Architecture & the Arts

99-01 34th Ave., Corona 718-533-1013, 718-759-4977 ps92q.org; info@magnetschools.nyc Join us for open houses on Tuesday, Oct. 8 or Tuesday, Oct. 22 from 2:453:45 pm. Learn about all the academic experiences designed to engage, inspire, and promote student achievement.

PS/MS 200: The Magnet School of Global Studies & Leadership

70-10 164th St., Flushing 718-969-7780, 718-759-4977 globalstudiesandleadership.org info@magnetschools.nyc Join us for an open house on Wednesday, Oct. 16 all day from 8:30am-2pm. Come to explore the innovative opportunities that our magnet school offers its students.

St. John’s Preparatory School

21-21 Crescent St., Astoria 718-721-7200 stjohnsprepschool.org Faith, scholarship, and service are the hallmarks of a St. John’s Prep education. Join us at our open house on Sat., Oct. 19 11am-3pm to learn about all our program offerings.

United Nations International School

173-53 Croyden Road, Jamaica Estates 718-658-6166 unis.org; rsorrentini@unis.org Join us at our Queens campus school for students in kindergarten to eighth grade for an open house on Tuesday, Oct. 1 at 9am. RSVP to rsorrentini@unis.org.

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Can You Afford to Stay Home? ››

Financial advisors outline what to consider when deciding whether to go back to work or become a stay-at-home parent. By Jacqueline Neber

any new parents wonder if one of them can stay at home with the kids without straining their finances and current lifestyle. There are several factors at play in that decision, including salary, retirement outlook, and plans for education. It’s a stressful analysis, but financial advisors can offer families crucial feedback about the potential consequences of a parent leaving work, and if stay-at-home parenting makes sense for them. Sheraz Iftikhar, a managing partner at Arch Global Advisors in New York City, uses several different metrics to figure out how much time at home families can afford. If one parent stays home, he says, the family should ideally be able to afford the same lifestyle as before. Sometimes staying home with your child is more important than the potential revenue from going back to work, but before making that decision, you must consider all of the variables.

Planning for Retirement

If one parent leaves work, the couple should still be able to contribute the same amount to their retirement fund. Iftikhar says 5-10 percent of disposable income made by a couple between the ages of 30-40 should go into retirement savings; that number should increase by 5 percent for a couple between 40-50. “Now why is that important?” Iftikhar asks. “If you are in your thirties and you’re not able to put away five to ten percent, because now one spouse decides to stay at home, that becomes a difficult decision. Our advice then would be, yeah, you may be able to survive today, but what happens five years down the road and ten years down the road?”

College Tuition

Saving for college is another big issue to consider. Inflation in education is just north of 6 percent for private institution tuition— which means a private college’s current tuition will double in 1213 years. Parents must be aware that if one stops working, they might not be able to save comfortably for their kids’ college. However, parents can take some of the anxiety out of the college situation by talking about what kind of college they are targeting, Iftikhar says. Private tuition can be incredibly expensive and public schools can be much more affordable. In fact, the price disparity is so large, Iftikhar suggests parents make the discussion a priority. Brian Cohen, a principle investment advisor at Landmark Wealth Management in Melville, agrees it’s vital that parents are on the same page about education. Beyond public versus private schools, 42

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both should agree on whether they want to pay for their children’s entire education or make the kids contribute. “What I wanted [my kids] to do is at least have skin in the game. I said, ‘I’ll pay for a SUNY—anything above a SUNY cost is on you if you really want that,’” Cohen says. On the other hand, if parents want to pay the entire tuition cost at whatever their child’s dream school may be, they may not be able to afford to have one parent stay at home. “There are tradeoffs on both sides,” Cohen says.

Re-Entering the Workforce

Chris Congema, a certified financial planner at Landmark, raises another potential consequence of one parent leaving the workforce—it’s difficult to get back into it. “If someone’s going to be leaving the workplace for ten years or five years as they’re raising their children…as technology and time pass them by, do they lose some of the skills that made them employable?” Congema asks. “Do they have to change careers? Will their education still make sense now? Getting back into the workforce can be a challenge after you’ve been out for so long.”

Making Difficult Decisions

Despite these challenges, Cohen and Congema have noticed a shift in how parents are able to continue working and be with the kids by keeping flexible schedules or working from home. They have also seen an increase in stay-at-home dads with moms remaining in the workforce. And they’ve noticed that as couples marry and have kids later in life, they are more aware of the preciousness of watching their kids grow up—and of being around for early milestones. When making the difficult stay-at-home decision, having a financial planner can be vital. At Landmark, Cohen and Congema help couples figure out how much disposable income they have each month, whether they can go without one person’s income, and whether there is any “fat” in their spending that can be cut to mitigate losing one person’s salary. But even when all the numbers are in, some parents will still decide to buck the financial repercussions in order to spend more time with the kids. This is a decision that ultimately only parents can make. As Congema says, “[Spending time with the kids] during this important time when they’re forming a personality and who they will be in the future…that’s something that can’t be overlooked or understated.”

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The Disaster Zone

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If your teen can’t seem to keep her room clean, no matter how much you nag her, we’ve got expert tips to help! By Lambeth Hochwald

f the last time you walked into your teen’s bedroom you walked right out, shocked by the sheer disarray, you’re not alone. Whether due to hormones or disinterest in cleaning, your teen’s bedroom can easily become tornados of dirt and mess. But is it her fault? “Teenagers’ brains are full,” says Jennifer Snyder, a certified professional organizer and owner of Neat as a Pin Organizing and Cleaning, who works with teens and their parents on ways to keep their rooms tidy. “They have school, driving, tests, sports, work, and other activities. Keeping their rooms clean is usually at the bottom of their priority list.” Another factor is parents are often the ones who design the layouts of their kid’s rooms—often without the child’s input—which is usually not consistent with how the teen wants to live. So, without letting your teen too far off the hook, how can you help him maintain some order?

Set Her Up for Success

Leslie Josel, an academic/life coach for teens and a parenting coach in Westchester, says parents have a responsibility to help their teens keep clean. “When parents ask me how to get their kids to organize their room and keep it that way, I lob a question right back at them,” she says. “I ask if their child’s bedroom is set up in a manner that makes it easy for them to create and maintain an organizing system. If they can’t answer that, I send them on a tour of the room.” Then she asks parents to answer the following questions to help them configure a neater space: • Can your teen open his closet door easily or is it partially blocked? • C an she reach the rod and shelves? • A re the dresser drawers hard to open? • I s his dresser crammed full? • Is there enough room for your teen to store all of her clothes? • Does he have enough hangers, hooks, storage bins, and boxes? • D oes she have adequate shelf space for books, memorabilia, electronics, etc.? • I s there a bulletin board or cork squares on the wall? • I s there a trash can and hamper? Are they in good condition and easy to use? • I s there a nightstand for a phone charger, tissues, lamp, water bottle? • A re there items that belong to other family members stored in your teen’s room? • D oes your teen know where everything in her room goes?

Tackle the Mess

The first rule of thumb when organizing is everything needs a home. “It’s really that simple,” Josel says. “No matter what your organizing style, if you don’t know where something lives in your room, you’re more apt to let it sit wherever it lands. That partially explains the landmine that is their floor!” Josel

offers 10 steps to get the cleanup underway. Before organizing begins, purge. Is the room loaded with empty water bottles, food wrappers, cords to electronics he doesn’t own anymore? Grab a garbage bag and out everything goes. Start designating specific “homes” for all her belongings. And make sure these spaces are clearly labeled. When your teen is tired after a long day, visual reminders make cleaning up that much easier. If your teen needs to see his stuff, remove the closet door. If you hate looking at his crowded closet, hang curtains above the opening so he can close it off when friends come over. Replace her dresser with bins lined against a wall to store shirts, jeans, socks, and underwear. This gives her an easy and simple way to get and stay organized. Hang hooks if he can’t seem to grasp the concept of putting clothes on hangers. Put all essentials in your teen’s “prime real estate,” which means these items should be stored between his shoulders and knees for easy access. If you have to reach high or move several items out of the way in the closet to put something away, then the likelihood of your teen doing it is super slim. Leverage the walls. If there’s ample wall space in your teen’s room, hang a bulletin board, cork squares, or even a peg board. They all come in fun colors, are easy to hang, and provide space for notes, invites, and anything else that is hard to organize. Maximize space with a clear shoe bag. Hang one in her closet or behind the bedroom door and stash small items, like device chargers, jewelry, socks and underwear, belts, and toiletries, for an instant catch-all. Clear is king: If your teen can’t see it, it doesn’t exist. Don’t stop at clear shoe bags! Consider purchasing transparent bins to help your teen remember what he owns and strategize where it goes. Pair like with like. This means storing printer paper, ink, toner, and even batteries together. The fewer places your teen needs to look for things, the more likely she will be able to find what she’s looking for quickly and efficiently.

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The (Not-So) Sweet Season ›› One mom’s account of surviving the planning of the epic birthday blowout By Suzanne Bergen

y daughter, Kasey, just had her Sweet 16. That thing sucked up more time and energy than my wedding did. The extravaganza, from what I can tell, is a phenomenon unique to our area and coastal California. Relatives and friends in Florida, Michigan, Pennsylvania, Maryland, Rhode Island, North Carolina, Ohio, and, for that matter, Canada, were all like, “What are you talking about…?” Kasey has been invited to six Sweets (as the girls call them) in as many months, with plenty more in the pipeline. Not a one is what we might remember from our high school days, i.e., a backyard barbecue in summer or a sleepover. Among them was a Vegas Night blowout of 150 guests at country club. Another invitation, to an Under the Sea gala, came wrapped in an aquamarine tulle ribbon adorned with a real sand dollar that had been sealed to keep it from breaking in the mail. Yes, this is all nuts for a seemingly random birthday. But as a mom, you want your kid to have and do what her friends have and do. It’s a hard emotion to resist, even if your brain knows the money could be better spent. Here’s how Kasey’s fete compared to my 1994 wedding: Wedding: The caterer asked what color flowers I wanted on the tables, since they came with the standard wedding package. “Red, I guess, since the bridesmaids are wearing red.” The End. Sweet 16: To come up with the perfect centerpieces for Kasey’s Fashion theme, we evaluated 8,997 Pinterest images. We settled on square glass jars with Chanel labels and a drop of pink food coloring in the water (One drop! Not too dark!) so they look like perfume bottles, but with light pink, white, and blush wildfloweresque flowers in them. No roses. (Even the florist didn’t know the difference between blush and light pink.) I had to go to a craft store to buy the exact right glass jars…well, two craft stores, because the first one didn’t have enough. Then we downloaded and printed out Chanel perfume labels, changing No. 5 to No. 16 (get it?), bought food coloring, and picked up strands of fake pearls to drape over the flowers, because wasn’t Coco Chanel famous for her pearls? After presenting all of this to the florist, he informed me I had to Mod Podge the labels in case water splattered on them. Wedding: I ordered the second dress I tried on. It came in. It fit fine…I didn’t really love the sleeves, but I didn’t want to complain because the lady was nice. The End. Sweet 16: I took Kasey to nine stores over the course of six Saturdays before she found The Dress. These outings were always accompanied by Kasey’s BFF, Molly, who would buzz around fishing out about a dozen dresses she thought Kasey would like.

Kasey wound up trying on eight to 10 of Molly’s dozen at each of the stores, so you do the math. At the end of each exhausting expedition, the three of us were hungry, and given Molly’s undying patience, I felt the least I could do was treat her to the diner. I spent I don’t know how much on diner meals capping off fruitless dress searches, listening to the girls discuss high-level matters (should the boyfriends of Kasey’s friends get their own invitations?). We finally secured The Dress at a shop 50 minutes away, and Kasey needed not one, not two, but three fittings at this far-flung locale. Wedding: The best man gave a short, nice speech. The End. Sweet 16: The candle ceremony, during which the birthday girl recites a short poem in honor of each important person in her life, has more moving parts than 16 candles (Sorry; 17. I kept forgetting the one for good luck). Kasey decided on floating candles, so there were canisters of varying heights. Don’t even ask about the water. A specially decorated candle lighter was needed, as was her name spelled out in big sparkling letters in front of the candles. Then there was the matter of drafting 17 poems that not only, obviously, rhymed, but suitably encapsulated Kasey’s history with and feelings for that person, yet wouldn’t take longer than 45 seconds to recite. One candle had two people attached to it (her Girl Scout co-leaders), so that poem alone took an entire evening to craft. Then the DJ reminded us that Kasey needed to pick a song snippet for him to play as each person was called up. Seventeen song snippets that suitably encapsulated Kasey’s history with and feelings for that person (or Girl Scout co-leaders). I asked one sympathetic veteran mom, “Please tell me it will be worth it?!” She said it would be when I saw how happy Kasey was. She was right. My Kasey was beaming all night long. The restrained, quiet, hard-to-read teen was gone, replaced by a silly, laughing girl, clapping, spinning, and jumping up and down—and not just on the dance floor. The last candle lit that night was for me. Kasey said she saved the best for last and thanked me far more eloquently than I had ever heard her speak. The feeling I couldn’t shake in the weeks running up to the big day, that I had done all this, and she wouldn’t appreciate it, was unfounded. My song snippet was from “Wind Beneath My Wings:” It might have appeared to go unnoticed; But I’ve got it all here in my heart; I want you to know I know the truth, of course I know it; I would be nothing without you. Now I’m among the veterans. Molly’s Sweet is up next. Kasey’s been running around with her dress shopping (payback is…well, you know). Her mom asked if she could use our floating candle canisters. When I dropped them off, she said, “This is a lot!” I said, “Yep…Let me know how I can help. But it will all be worth it.”

Suzanne Bergen is Long Island writer who marked her son’s 16th birthday with bagels and new sneakers.

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