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health 14 The Vaccine Debate 16 Stay Calm and Carry On 17 Health Directory

special needs 32 Do You Need a Special Education Attorney? 34 “We’re a Package.” 36 Special Needs Directory

The Payoffs of Chores

Family Fun a Ride Away

Safe and Sound

Routine housework can help teach children vital life skills.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 The Payoffs of Chores 12 Nine Ways to Celebrate Your Nanny 39 Education Directory 40 Why Teens Drive Us Crazy 41 Open Houses 42 Professional Services 43 Meet the Health Care Professional 44 Party Central 45 Family Resource Guide & Advertisers’ Index 46 If I Can’t See You, I Can’t Hear You

18 Family Fun a Ride Away 19 Family Activities Calendar

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A Season for Caring

chool’s been in session for two months now—how many times has your family gotten sick? Right now, the cold count for the edit team here at Queens Parent is zero (knock on wood!). To protect your family from getting completely knocked out by the nasty bug, you’ve likely all already gotten your flu shots, but there are some parents who still choose not to vaccinate their kids (who could forget the measles outbreak that occurred earlier this year?). We took a dive into “The Vaccine Debate” (p. 14) to uncover why it is people still aren’t vaccinating their kids—and got straight answers from local doctors debunking some common myths. If you’re looking for a new provider to give your family the flu shot, need a teeth cleaning, or have another health care need, check out our Health Directory (p. 17). It’s full of health care providers in Queens, so you can choose the best one for your family. We’re also shining a light on special education this month. If your child has a diagnosed special need and is struggling in school despite their school’s efforts, you might want to consider consulting with a special education attorney. We outline when it’s time to hire one and how they can help you secure the education your child is entitled to on p. 36. While raising kids means dealing with some serious topics (like the ones mentioned above), a lot of the time we’re looking for fun things to do with our family. So, turn to p. 19 for our November calendar of activities, where you’ll find more than 100 kidfocused events all month long. We’re positive you’ll find the best things to do with your kids—we can’t wait for the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade! Speaking of which…this month we all give thanks, and we here at Queens Parent are thankful for you, dear reader! Happy turkey day! Katelin Walling Editorial Director

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The Payoffs of Chores

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hores have a bad rap among kids, tweens, and teens for a reason: They’re often boring, difficult, and cut into screen or social time. But parents have many good reasons to ignore the complaints. Routine housework can help teach children vital life skills—not just how to vacuum and do laundry, but habits and strengths that will serve them well in the future. Financial planner Gregg Murset, CEO of chores and financial literacy app BusyKid and a father of six, explains five benefits your children will get from chores.

Work Ethic

Your child may not have his first job until well into his teens, so chores can actually function as a first job—teaching him about accountability, quality of work, organization, and planning. Paying your child biweekly for chores can also help him understand how paychecks work.

An Appreciation of the Value of a Dollar

When kids see parents shopping online, it can look like they are just picking out items that show up at the house. In this increasingly cash-free society, it’s difficult for kids to understand our “invisible” transactions. Murset recommends parents download a chore management app, such as Chore Check, that is linked to a debit-type card that you put money on based on chores completed, to illustrate the concepts of receiving payments and paying for purchases.

The Ability to Budget

If your child wants a new toy or game, have her save money from chores to make the purchase. When kids are given freedom to spend their earned money, they quickly learn the value of hard work vs. the cost of goods.

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Kids often aren’t in charge of managing their own busy schedules— school, sports, extra-curriculars—so give your child a sense of control by letting him set the schedule for getting his weekly chores done. Incentivize him by paying only for the chores that get done in a timely fashion.

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Kids who start chores young learn skills—say, pet sitting or lawn care—that they can turn into a neighborhood-wide job. By teaching her that hard work pays, you will inspire her to put down her phone and gaming controller in favor of earning an income.

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The Vaccine Debate

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Why are parents still refusing to vaccinate? We examine the myths and truths.

ew York City’s biggest measles outbreak in almost 30 years ended in September, according to Health Department officials, but the conversation about vaccinations is still raging. Headlines in the media, warnings at doctor’s offices, regulations by schools, and even celebrities’ social media posts have perpetuated the debate about the truths and myths of vaccinating. We spoke with pediatricians about this controversial issue that continues to baffle many parents.

Personal Choice or Civic Duty?

Vaccinations are classified into two groups, explains Harvey Karp, M.D., pediatrician, faculty member of University of Southern California School of Medicine, and author of Happiest Baby on the Block. The first group of shots includes rotavirus, hepatitis A, hepatitis B, and chicken pox. While Dr. Karp recommends all vaccines, he classifies these vaccinations as a parent’s choice because the risk you are imposing is limited to your child and family, not the community. That’s because those illnesses are either difficult for a child to pass onto another or are very common—and can spread quickly even with a vaccine. The second classification of shots (including those for whooping cough, flu, meningitis, pneumococcus, and measles) are given to protect your child and your neighbor’s child. “[These vaccinations] halt diseases that are so contagious that 14

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just one cough, one airplane flight, or one germy doorknob can spread them like wildfire throughout your town,” Dr. Karp says. “I believe giving this second group of shots is an important civic responsibility because delaying them creates a serious public health risk.” Specifically, these vaccines protect other kids who are too young to receive vaccinations, as well as people with cancer, those who are older than 60, and others who are considered especially vulnerable to these diseases. A minimum percentage of the population must be vaccinated against a virus to prevent its spread, according to Daniel Sinyor, pediatrician at Crystal Run Healthcare in Nyack. By ensuring that at least 95 percent of children are immunized against a certain virus, you are creating herd immunity, which “stymies the spread of disease the way that frequent rain keeps lightning strikes from starting raging forest fires,” Dr. Karp says.

The Major Misconceptions

Several misconceptions have surrounded vaccines for years, but perhaps the most disruptive one is that the MMR (measles, mumps, and rubella) vaccine causes autism. In 1998, Andrew Wakefield, a discredited British ex-physician, published a fraudulent paper suggesting there was a link between the MMR vaccine and autism. The data was found to be incorrect, and throughout the decade following the publication, many epidemiological studies proved there is no link between the two.

Still, the paper did its damage, and, combined with the fact that the MMR vaccine is given around the same time autism is usually detected (ages 1-2), many parents still believe there is a causal relationship between the two, according to Dr. Sinyor. Similarly, because children generally receive the flu vaccine at a time of year when they are picking up other illnesses, people have grown to believe the vaccine can cause the flu. That’s impossible, Dr. Sinyor says, because the vaccine does not carry the flu virus. Another common misconception is there is mercury in vaccines. However, in 1999 the Food and Drug Administration and the U.S. Public Health Service removed thimerosal (a mercury-containing compound used as a preservative) from all vaccines except multi-dose vials of flu vaccine. Aluminum, an element that is present in vaccines, has also caused worry among parents. Not only has aluminum been safely used in vaccines for more than 70 years, the amount used is similar to that found in 32 ounces of infant formula, according to Dr. Sinyor. Unfortunately, these myths are still widely circulating. The list of celebrities who have spoken out or expressed concern about vaccinations includes Jessica Biel and Jenny McCarthy. The latter has been claiming for more than 10 years that her son’s autism was caused by a vaccine. “I would venture a guess that the spread of false information through social media, celebrities, and anecdotal stories of friends who claim to have been harmed by vaccines all contribute to parental fear and distrust of vaccines,” Dr. Sinyor says.

Truths About Vaccines

The main misconceptions aside, there are potentially concerning aspects of vaccines that are valid. For example, some shots have an effectiveness rate as low as 30-60 percent, which has long upset parents. But, as Dr. Sinyor says, “if I told you I could give you a shot with minimal side effects that would reduce your chances of getting into a car accident by sixty percent—or even thirty—would you not take it?” Another upsetting truth? Not all children will develop immunity after a vaccination, according to Robert Segal, M.D., founder of Medical Offices of Manhattan. However, this does not discount the fact that 85-95 percent of children do. And finally, “in very rare cases, vaccines can cause allergic reactions. It’s important that parents tell their doctor of any history of allergies,” Dr. Segal advises. While vaccines are not perfect, they are still widely administered. In fact, in light of the recent measles outbreak, the list of doctor’s offices, day cares, schools, and other children’s facilities that will exclude your child if unvaccinated is growing, according to Dr. Segal. In August, the Supreme Court of the State of New York instated a ban on religious exceptions to vaccines for school attendance. New York is now 1 of 5 states that have banned religious vaccination exceptions. This is a good thing; all the doctors we spoke to agree. After all, vaccinations are our best protection against potentially life-threatening illnesses. Choosing to forgo them significantly increases the risk of making not only our own children sick, but also spreading illness in our community, Dr. Karp says.

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or new moms and dads, an infant’s first few months of life are thrilling—and a little nerve-wracking. Everything is so new, and your infant seems so fragile. “Between birth and three months, there are a lot of things that new parents especially worry about,” says Victoria Riese, M.D., of Flatiron Pediatrics in Manhattan. These can include baby acne, constipation, noisy breathing, and other frequent—but not worrisome—conditions. So, when can you relax, and when should you reach out to your pediatrician?

Digestive Issues

Does your baby have gas? Constipation? Act a bit fussy when feeding? These are all normal things, Dr. Riese says, and don’t require a doctor’s call unless they start to interfere with baby’s development. “When babies are having so much trouble eating that they’re crying or losing weight, we want to make sure that it’s not something more serious,” she says.

Noisy Breathing

Your baby’s air passageways in the nose are quite small, Dr. Riese points out. This can lead to funny breathing or wheezing—it may even seem like your baby has a snoring problem. Not to worry! “Noisy breathing is not a sign that the baby is in distress,” Dr. Riese says. So long as your baby is acting normally while awake, and can eat and breathe at the same time, he’s most likely just fine.

Milia

Skin conditions are common in babies. For example, those little white bumps on her nose or face? “These are called milia and are caused by trapped skin debris near the surface of the skin. They are benign and will pass with time,” says Dyan Hes, M.D., F.A.A.P., pediatrician and medical director of Gramercy Pediatrics in Manhattan.

Baby Acne

Another skin ailment, baby acne can look red and inflamed—but it’s completely benign. “It can come out in the first month or two of life. It is due to hormonal changes in the baby, either from the birth itself or sometimes from breast milk,” Dr. Hes says. She recommends cleaning baby’s face daily with a mild hypoallergenic baby soap.

Jaundice

If your baby has jaundice—or slightly yellow skin—he’s far from alone. “About half of all babies have some amount of jaundice,” says Jennifer Janco, M.D., board-certified pediatrician and chairman of pediatrics at St. Luke’s University Heath Network in Bethlehem, PA. “The yellow color in the skin is a result of elevated bilirubin levels in the blood,” she adds, noting it can take a few days for a healthy baby’s liver to mature and handle bilirubin properly. If you are

breast-feeding, supplementing with formula for the first few days will often treat the condition, Dr. Hes says, but some babies require phototherapy in the hospital. Therefore, if your baby appears yellowish, it’s a good idea to reach out to a pediatrician, Dr. Hes advises.

Bluish Skin

A faint blue cast on your newborn’s hands or feet sounds like an alarming symptom—but it’s not necessarily a cause for worry. In fact, Dr. Janco says it’s quite common, because your baby’s body is still figuring out temperature and circulation regulation. Though, “a baby who appears blue in the face, tongue, or around the lips should prompt immediate evaluation,” Dr. Janco warns. Call your doctor or 911 if the situation does not resolve.

Heat Rash

Too much time in pajamas or a warm stroller can lead to heat rash, Dr. Hes says. Apply an over-the-counter baby eczema cream twice a day for a week. “If the rash spreads, let your doctor know,” she says.

Thrush

A yeast infection known as candida, thrush is also common in newborns, Dr. Janco says. The white patches on the sides of cheeks, inner lips, or tongue can’t easily be wiped off. “Let your doctor know if you suspect thrush,” she says—it’s easily treatable and not an emergency.

Cradle Cap

Does your baby have yellow or white crusty patches on his scalp? This benign condition is known as cradle cap or seborrhea capitis, Dr. Hes says. The biggest downside is your baby may lose some hair as it spreads. “Initially, I like to treat mild cradle cap with some olive oil on the scalp to loosen the flakes, and then comb it out with a fine baby comb,” she says. “Parents can also apply dandruff shampoo to the baby’s scalp, leave it on for two to three minutes, and rinse it, away from the baby’s eyes.” If neither of these options work, check in with your pediatrician.

When to Reach for the Phone

Your pediatrician expects you to have concerns and questions—after all, these curious symptoms are new to you. So, “in between visits, write down questions if they can wait,” Dr. Riese advises. When in doubt, call. And always get in touch with a doctor if your baby has a fever (any temperature above 100.3 in a newborn), Dr. Riese says. The other big warning sign: Your baby isn’t acting like herself, including not wanting to wake up, not interacting as usual, or not feeding. In these cases, contact your pediatrician immediately.

Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents.com, Scholastic, and About.com.

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Health Directory Able Health Care Service

Serendipity art school Located in Broadway Flushing North Established 1997

91-31 Queens Blvd., 6th floor, Elmhurst 718- 606-7222 44 Court St., 10th floor (1001), Brooklyn 718- 606-7222 ablehealthcare.com info@ablehealthcare.com

For Ages 6 to Senior Citizens. Small, Flexible, Personalized classes for beginners to the experienced

Able’s special needs-certified home health agency provides comprehensive support to clients and their families with developmental disabilities. Services include: home health aide, therapy, skilled nursing, medical social worker, and nutritional counseling. We are a privately-owned and -operated agency, providing service since 1976.

All Star Studios

108-21 72nd Ave. (4th floor), Forest Hills 718-268-2280 allstarstudiosnyc.com allstarstudios@gmail.com

All Star Studios program is designed to encourage and educate students on how to increase flexibility, improve coordination, focus on muscle strengthening, build poise, and have fun. All instructors have experience in teaching and performing. Instructors assist students in reaching their goals, build their selfconfidence, and encourage a healthy, active lifestyle.

Comprehensive Consultation Psychological Services, P.C.

Weekly Classes for: 1. Young Watercolor (6 yrs+) 2. Oil for all levels Monthly Workshops: 1. Graphite 3. Watercolor 2. Color Pencil 4. Pen & Ink Enriched curriculum including learning about artist’s lives, their techniques and their personalities. • Students may participate in annual local art show • Special May Session: Try out a new Media for 4 weeks • Summer Program begins in July

(718) 359-5696 dipity1983@gmail.com

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114-20 Queens Blvd., Suite CS 2, Forest Hills 180 E. 79th St., suite 1C, Manhattan 1-888-441-0015 comprehendthemind.com

Comprehensive Consultation Psychological Services, P.C. is a group of school and neuropsychologists, that diagnose and assess a variety of conditions. We perform neuropsychological, educational, speech and language, and psychiatric evaluations to help you understand your child’s strengths and weaknesses, and plan for their educational success and emotional well-being.

Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success Queens: 718-640-6767 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 lispeech.com

Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, expressive and receptive language disorders.

Rose Academy of Ballet

70-11 Austin St., Forest Hills 718-520-0207 roseacademyofballet.com racademyofballet@gmail.com

Dance at Rose Academy of Ballet promotes an active body and mind! Our dance program allows students to develop dance technique, while leaving space for personal creativity. Our ballet classes feature professional instruction and live accompaniment. Children gain physical strength, personal confidence, and increased body awareness, while learning fundamentals of dance.

Beautiful Minds Childcare Monday - Friday 7AM –6PM • Ages 2–5

ABOUT THE PROGRAM:

• Foreign Language • Baby Yoga

INCLUDED IN TUITION:

• A Year-Round Program

• Music and Movement

• Creative Curriculum with Thematic Units

• Arts & Crafts

• 7,500 Sq. Ft. Facility

• Potty Training

• Indoor/Outdoor Playgrounds

• Science and Explorations

• Daily STEM Activities

• Cooking Classes

• Large Classrooms

• Healthy Hot Meals Prepared (Breakfast, Lunch & Snack Provided)

• Candy and Nut Free Environment • ACS/HRA VOUCHERS ACCEPTED

62-02 Myrtle Ave Ridgewood, NY 11385 BeautifulMindsNYC@gmail.com • (347) 987-3270

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Family Fun a Ride Away Courtesy Tenafly Nature Center

Courtesy Nickelodeon Universe

In Bergen County, NJ…

The Tenafly Nature Center welcomes families to walk along more than 7 miles of trails between dawn and dusk.

Among the 35 rides at Nickelodeon Universe is the Shellraiser, which has a 122foot drop.

Tenafly Nature Center

Nickelodeon Universe

Courtesy Westchester’s Winter Wonderland

Families can meet Santa and take their own photos with him—free of charge!

Westchester’s Winter Wonderland

Lights, Santa, unlimited ice-skating, a circus show, the Holiday Train and the Winter Hayride, and a 40-foot Christmas tree—what else does a family need to get into the holiday spirit? Westchester’s Winter Wonderland is an all-encompassing experience, providing family fun (and food!) as well as a variety of spots—the Christmas tree, on Santa’s lap, or at the holiday light show—for the perfect holiday Instagram. Want to go: $20; free for children 3 and younger. Nov. 29-Jan 4, 2020, 5-10pm. Kenisco Dam Plaza, 1 Bronx River Parkway, Valhalla; 914231-4600; wwinterwonderland.com 18

If your kids are Nickelodeon fans, this 8½-acre theme park that opened in late October—the largest indoor theme park in North America—is a can’t-miss. With 35 rides, roller coasters, a ropes course, and a game center; Nickelodeon characters, such as Spongebob, Dora the Explorer, and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles; and, of course, the Slime Stage, this interactive experience is unlike any other theme park in our area. Visit It: The American Dream, 1 American Dream Way, East Rutherford, NJ; 201-340-2900; americandream.com

Courtesy Stamford Downtown Parade Spectacular

This nonprofit offers a variety of educational programs, events, and exhibits—including the Junior Naturalist program, Hiking, Walking, & Wildlife Watching, and photography workshops. You can even search the property for Pokémon by visiting nine Pokéstops on TNC’s Yellow Trail and the PokéGym at the entrance. Self-guided visits, for 10 or more participants, are free and allow you to explore the premises at your own leisure. Visit it: 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ; 201-568-6093; tenaflynaturecenter.org

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Scooby Doo is one of the many crowd-pleasing balloons you can see at the Stamford Downtown Parade Spectacular.

Stamford Downtown Parade Spectacular

If you’re looking for a Thanksgiving Parade, but the NYC one is just a little too chaotic for your family, the Stamford Downtown Parade Spectacular might be for you. Crowd favorite balloons such as Mr. Potato Head, Clifford the Big Red Dog, Daniel Tiger, and Peppa Pig will fly by along with a variety of floats, marching bands, dance troupes, and other entertainment from the area. Want to go: Free. Sunday, Nov. 24, 12pm. Stamford Downtown: Summer to Broad to Atlantic streets. 203-348-5285; stamford-downtown.com

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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the nine events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Sunnyside Shorts International Film Festival

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WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 1-3pm, 7-10pm WHERE: Sunnyside Reformed Church, 48-03 Skillman Ave., Sunnyside AGES: 13 and older WHAT: See 11 award-winning shorts from the USA (including Sunnyside and Woodside), Estonia, Iran, Spain, and France. To compliment the afternoon with Charlie Chaplin’s 1919 short film, Sunnyside, the evening will close with Sunnyside made in 2019 by Jihyun Shin. WHY WE LOVE IT: Enjoy free refreshments at intermission and a Q&A after the show. WANT TO GO? $12. 718-426-5997. sunnysidenyc.rcachurches.org.

WHEN: Nov. 2-3, see website for schedule WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Minecraft players and their families unite to compete in tournaments and build battles, participate in the famed costume contest, witness live stage shows, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: Solve your way out of the Minecraft Escape Room, experience Minecraft with Acer VR Mixed Reality headsets, and show off your creativity in the LEGO building zones! WANT TO GO? See website for details. 718-699-0005. minefaire.com.

Diwali Dance Party: Kathak, Bhangra & Beyond

Little Cooks: Tea Party with Yoga and Guided Meditation

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 1-4pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: An all-ages festival and dance party, featuring Kathak classical dancer Abha Roy and Basement Bhangra’s DJ Rekha. WHY WE LOVE IT: Learn Bollywood, bhangra, and Kathak dance moves, and enjoy special performances, cooking workshops, henna painting, Indian handicrafts, and Indian foods! WANT TO GO? $20; $10 Students and Children. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org. 20

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WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 11am-12pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Little ones will partake in yoga and meditation. Then celebrate with a tea party! WHY WE LOVE IT: Children will learn a bit about tea and also meet a fluffy rabbit from APEC. WANT TO GO? $22. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Fall Fest

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 2:30-4:30pm WHERE: Kingsland Homestead, 143-35 37th Ave., Flushing AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Enjoy fall activities like making apple cider and candied apples and decorating pumpkins. WHY WE LOVE IT: This festival promises to be an event the whole family won’t want to miss! WANT TO GO? $5 per child (free for parents/guardians and children younger than 3). 718-939-0647. queenshistoricalsociety.org.

Pirate Pete’s Parrot

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 2:30pm WHERE: The Secret Theatre, 44-02 23rd St. (between 44th Avenue and 44th Road), Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: A melodic medley of misfits promises music, mischief, and a boatload of laughs for everyone. Pirate Pete is a lovable rogue on a mission: to find his beloved runaway parrot, Polly, along with his buried treasure, and to pay the rent to Baron Big-Butt. WHY WE LOVE IT: As The Secret Theatre’s longest-running children’s musical in Queens, it’s a must-see! WANT TO GO? $15 adults; $10 children. 718-392-0722. secrettheatre.com.

Decorate the Castle for the Holidays FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 12-3pm WHERE: Castle at Fort Totten, Bayside, 208 Totten Ave., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: Families can come together to help with decking the halls and trimming the tree. Get in the holiday spirit as you beautify the Castle for the winter festivities. WHY WE LOVE IT: There will be cookies and cocoa for all! WANT TO GO? 718-352-1548. baysidehistorical.org.

Disney on Ice Presents: Road Trip Adventures

WHEN: Nov. 21-30, see website for show times WHERE: NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Hit the road with Mickey Mouse and his pals for a high-octane ride. WHY WE LOVE IT: Audiences can expect hilarious hijinks and upclose character interactions. WANT TO GO? $20 and up. 516-334-0800. nycblive.com.

Gingerbread Lane 2019

WHEN: Nov. 23-Jan. 12, Weekdays, 9:30am–5pm; Weekends, 10am–6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Visitors can marvel at homemade gingerbread houses made entirely of edible gingerbread, royal icing, and candy. The houses are drafted, designed, baked, planned, built, and decorated by chef Jon Lovitch over the course of an entire year. WHY WE LOVE IT: Visitors can make their own gingerbread houses or trains during dedicated workshops. WANT TO GO? FREE with museum admission ($16 adults; $13 children ages 2-17). 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the six no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Jazz Shabbat FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 1, 8-9:30pm WHERE: Temple Beth Sholom of Flushing, 171-39 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: The jazz Shabbat service will feature Cantor Jerry Korobow, Rabbi Sharon Ballan, musician David Close, and a professional jazz trio, as well as the TBS volunteer choir. WANT TO GO? FREE. 718-463-4143. templebethsholom.org.

It’s Time for Kind: Thank You Cards for Community Helpers FREE WHEN: Monday, Nov. 4, 6-7pm WHERE: Queens Library-Poppenhusen Branch, 121-23 14 Ave., College Point AGES: All WHAT: Let’s show our community helpers that we appreciate them by sending cards to veterans, firefighters, police, health care facilities, seniors, and more in our community. WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.

Indian Dance Adventure FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 13, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library-Arverne, 312 Beach 54 St., Arverne AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Travel to India in this interactive, dance-and music-filled workshop extravaganza. After watching some Mohiniyattam-style dance, and listening to the music of the tablas, you will have a chance to try out the moves yourself! WANT TO GO? 718-634-4784.

Fall Film Festival: ‘Home For The Holidays’ FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 14, 6-8pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: 13 and older WHAT: In this sentimental comedy, a single woman dreads the annual Thanksgiving visit with her loving but overbearing family. (1995, PG-13) WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

Leaf Crunch 2019 FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 10am-1pm WHERE: George Seuffert Bandshell, Forest Park, Woodhaven Boulevard and Forest Park Drive, Woodhaven AGES: All WHAT: Help rake leaves that will be composted and used for local greening projects. Tools and refreshments will be provided. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 718-235-4100. nyc.gov/parks.

It’s Time for Kind: Cards for the Homebound FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 21, 4-5pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Head to the Children’s Room for a family art project! Materials will be provided in making cards for the homebound. WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org. ››

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Robotics For Families FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 11am-1pm WHERE: Queensbridge Park, Queensboro Bridge, 41 Road, 40 Avenue between the East River, Vernon Boulevard, and 21 Street, Long Island City AGES: 7-14 WHAT: Families will explore the world of junior robotics through making with LEGO bricks, BBC Micro:bit, and craft materials. Registration required. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Discover Exoplanets! FREE

SMARTY PANTS First Friday FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 1, 10am-5pm WHERE: Noguchi Museum, 32-37 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy free admission all day at the Museum. WANT TO GO? 718-204-7088. noguchi.org.

It’s Rocket Science STEAM Workshop for Children FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 1, 4:15-5:15pm WHERE: Queens Library: Baisley Park Branch, 117-11 Sutphin Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 7-12 WHAT: An interactive workshop for ages 7-12 that explores rocketry basics and scientific concepts such as Newton’s laws of motion through various crafts and activities. Preregistration required. WANT TO GO? 718-529-1590. queenslibrary.org.

Static Shock: It’s Electric!

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 10:30-11:30 am WHERE: Queens Historical Society, 143-35 37th Ave., Kingsland Homestead, Flushing AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Learn all about the wonders of static electricity. Kids will get to perform a series of mini-experiments to put this phenomenon to test! WANT TO GO? $10 per child; FREE for adults/guardians. 718-9390647. queenshistoricalsociety.org.

City of Science FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 10am-4pm WHERE: York College, Health/Physical Education Complex, 160-02 Liberty Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Interact with robots, conduct experiments, defy gravity, and more! WANT TO GO? 212-348-1400. worldsciencefestival.com.

Imaging Women in the Space Age

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: Weekdays, 9:30am-5pm; weekends, 10am– 6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: This exhibition includes vintage and current images of women as aviators and astronauts from fashion, television, film, pop culture, and toys, as well as new developments in space-inspired fashion. WANT TO GO? free with museum admission ($16 adults; $13 children, students and senior citizens). 718-699-0005. nysci.org. 22

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WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 11am-3pm WHERE: Queens Library-Central Library, 89-11 Merrick Blvd., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: The whole family can jump on board to blast off to the far reaches of the universe to explore this traveling exhibit. Plus, the Intrepid Sea, Air, and Space Museum and the Discovery Team will have a stellar array of space-related activities. WANT TO GO? 718-990-0778. queenslibrary.org.

Queens Open House FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 13, 6pm WHERE: United Nations International School, 173-53 Croydon Road, Jamaica Estates AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Parents and guardians who are interested in applying for grades K through 8 are invited to visit the Queens Campus to learn more about the curriculum and take a tour. WANT TO GO? 718-658-6166. unis.org.

A Day of Magic FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 18, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library-Ozone Park Branch, 92-24 Rockaway Blvd., Ozone Park AGES: All WHAT: Learn some card tricks, tarot cards, and more. WANT TO GO? 718-845-3127.

STEM: Marbles and Momentum FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 19, 3-3:45pm WHERE: Queens Library-Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: 5-9 WHAT: Children can join in a momentum-themed STEM program. WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

The Matinicocks: The Forgotten People Of Northeastern Queens FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 26, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library-Poppenhusen Branch, 121-23 14 Ave., College Point AGES: All WHAT: Explore the history and culture of these ancient people who are still here today, examine a real Indian arrowhead, and create a Native American-themed craft to take home. WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.

Native American Picture Stories FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 27, 4-5:15pm WHERE: Queens Library: Baisley Park Branch, 117-11 Sutphin Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 7-12 WHAT: Children ages 7-12 will learn how the Native Americans communicated with other tribes. WANT TO GO? 718-529-1590. queenslibrary.org.

Crazy 8s STEM Club FREE

The Art of the Brick

WHEN: Through Dec. 3: Tuesdays, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library-Rochdale Village Branch, 169-09 137 Ave., Jamaica AGES: 8-11 WHAT: Kids in grades 3 through 5, join us for Rochdale’s Crazy 8s STEM Club focusing on math, where you’ll build stuff, run and jump, make music, and make a mess. WANT TO GO? 718-723-4440. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Through Jan. 26, 2020: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; SturdaySunday, 10am–6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Museum visitors can experience the world’s largest display of LEGO art during this special exhibition. WANT TO GO? $7 per person, plus museum admission ($16 adults; $13 children, students and senior citizens). 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Book Jeopardy FREE

STEAM Activitie FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 17: Tuesdays, 5-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library-Ridgewood Branch, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: 7-12 WHAT: Children ages 7 to 12 years old are invited to join for an exciting, book-themed, kid version of the trivia game Jeopardy. WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

Girls Who Code FREE

WHEN: Nov. 12-Dec. 17, Tuesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library-Corona Branch, 38-23 104 St., Corona AGES: 8-11 WHAT: A free program for girls in grades 3-5, where kids can learn computer science and talk about female role models in science and technology. WANT TO GO? 718-426-2844. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Through June 18, 2020: Thursdays, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library-Astoria Branch, 14-01 Astoria Blvd., Long Island City AGES: 6-11 WHAT: This program introduces children 6-11 years old to the amazing world of science, technology, engineering, art, and math through simple science experiments and related activities. WANT TO GO? 718-278-2220. queenslibrary.org.

Chess with Mr. Fariad FREE

WHEN: Through June 27, 2020: Saturdays, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: Queens Library-Rosedale Branch, 144-20 243 St., Rosedale AGES: All WHAT: All chess lovers are welcome to this program: advanced players, intermediate, and beginners. WANT TO GO? 718-528-8490. queenslibrary.org. ››

African American History FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 26: Thursdays, 3-4pm WHERE: Laurelton Library, 134-26 225 St., Laurelton AGES: 5-10 WHAT: Experience an educational discussion about African American history. WANT TO GO? 718-528-2822. queenslibrary.org.

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Chess Club FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Mondays, 5-6pm WHERE: Queens Library-Seaside Branch, 116-15 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Park AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Challenge your brain, make new friends, and have fun while learning critical thinking and problem-solving skills! WANT TO GO? 718-634-1876.

Sit & Think (Sudoku) FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Monday-Saturday, 1-1:15pm WHERE: Queens Library-Richmond Hill Branch, 118-14 Hillside Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Try a Sudoku puzzle or just refresh your math skills. WANT TO GO? 718-849-7150. queenslibrary.org.

Weather the Weather

WHEN: Through Jan. 10, 2020: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; SaturdaySunday, 10am–6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: The weather is ever-present, often dramatic, and always uncontrollable. Submissions for this exhibition cover the topics of studying, understanding, and experiencing the weather. WANT TO GO? Free with museum admission ($16 adults; $13 children ages 2-17). 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

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‘Tales from the Shed’

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 10, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing Meadows Corona Park AGES: 3-8 WHAT: With stories, songs, and dancing, you won’t be able to stop laughing. Tales From the Shed is a special chance for young children of all abilities to enjoy a unique, interactive theatrical experience. WANT TO GO? $15. 718-760-0064. queenstheatre.org.

DDAT: Native American Hip Hop Jazz Fusion Family Performance

SHOW TIME! Showtime with Shakespeare

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Avenue South, Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Queens AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The No. 1 best-selling chapter book of all time gets the hip-hop treatment in Magic Tree House: Showtime With Shakespeare. Based on Osborne’s Stage Fright on a Summer Night, Showtime with Shakespeare follows the adventures of beloved brother-sister duo Jack and Annie, as they climb aboard their famous time-traveling treehouse and transport themselves back to Merry Olde England. WANT TO GO? $15. 718-760-0064. queenstheatre.org.

‘Muse’

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: see website for showtimes WHERE: The Secret Theatre, 4402 23rd St., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Muse is an immersive, multisensory show designed for audiences with autism and other developmental disabilities. Muse draws from mythology and folklore, with a spotlight on unlikely heroes! WANT TO GO? $25 per audience member; $15 for observer (i.e, caregiver). 646-883-2583. bluelaces.org.

LIC: Mozart for Munchkins Presents Little Jazz Cats!

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 4pm WHERE: Book Culture LIC, 26-09 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: This concert is for lovers of jazzy keys, a stand-up bass, and bubbles! Each interactive performance is followed by an «instrument petting zoo» where everyone is welcome to try the instruments and meet the performers. WANT TO GO? $35 adults; free for children. 718-440-3120. bookculture.com.

‘Let There Be Love’ – Keith David Celebrates The Music of Nat King Cole

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 3pm WHERE: St. John’s University-The Little Theatre, 8000 Utopia Parkway, Jamaica AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Keith David’s Let There Be Love is a joyful, swinging and theatrical journey into the music and life of one of America’s greatest artists. WANT TO GO? $42-48. 718-631-6311. visitqpac.org.

Owen and Mzee the Musical-Saturday Family Matinee

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 2-3pm WHERE: Jamaica Center for Arts and Learning (JCAL), 161-04 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: The inspiring true story of two great friends, a baby hippo named Owen and a 130-year-old giant tortoise named Mzee. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-658-7400. jcal.org. 24

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WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 2:15pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Full of energy and excitement, dancing, improvisation, audience participation, live painting, and more! WANT TO GO? $14; $8 children. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

The Boy Band Project

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 8pm WHERE: The Lexington Center, 25-26 75th St., East Elmhurst AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The Boy Band Project reunites your favorite bands. Part parody, with talent that is off the charts, these boys will make you want to get up and dance! WANT TO GO? $42-48. 718-631-6311. visitqpac.org.

A Journey: Bach to Piazzolla

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 7pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Presented in partnership with the Korea Music Foundation, this chamber concert brings a unique opportunity to hear re-imagined jazz and tango, inspired by Bach and composed by masters including Schoenfield, Piazzolla, and Haydn. WANT TO GO? $16. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

‘Barefoot in the Park’

WHEN: Nov. 15-24, See website for days and times WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Avenue South, Flushing Meadows Corona Park AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Queens Theatre takes you back to New York City of the early 1960s in Neil Simon’s biggest hit, Barefoot in the Park. WANT TO GO? $25-$40. 718-760-0064. queenstheatre.org.

‘Guess What’-The Family-Friendly Stand Up Comedy Show

WHEN: Through March 21: Third Saturdays, 12:30pm WHERE: The Creek & The Cave, 10-93 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: The show is hosted by an 11-year-old and her dad. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-706-8783. creeklic.com.

Children’s Book Club and Performance Series

WHEN: Nov. 18-June 3, 10am and 11:45am WHERE: Queensborough Performing Arts Center, 222-05 56th Ave., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: At an Arts On Stage show, the theater is converted into a learning laboratory deepening and enriching student learning. A combination of live adaptations of children’s literature and academic and rich cultural programs enable real-life lessons in friendship, math, science, and history. November programs include the Thunderbird-Native American Dancers and School House Rock. WANT TO GO? $9. 718-631-6311. visitqpac.org.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Kids Club: Building a Stronger Future FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 8-10am WHERE: Queens Center Mall, 90-15 Queens Blvd., Elmhurst AGES: All WHAT: This kids club will focus on having fun and building healthy people and a healthy planet. Learn ways to have an impact on planet earth and keep people healthy with the help of music, games, and magic. WANT TO GO? shopqueenscenter.com.

APEC Adventure Time-Fall Colors

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 10:30-11:45am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Enjoy a nature walk looking for the oranges, yellows, reds, and browns of the season and meet some animals with fall colors. WANT TO GO? $20. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Trips Around The World (Virtual Reality) FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 4, 3:45-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library for Teens, 2002 Cornaga Ave., Far Rockaway AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Take a trip (without your passport!) using Oculus Rift Virtual Reality to visit famous monuments across the globe. WANT TO GO? queenslibrary.org.

WHAT: Ever wanted to fire a Magic Missile or slay a dragon? Make new friends and work cooperatively to survive the dungeon! No experience required! WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

Virtual Reality For Kids FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library-Cambria Heights Branch, 218-13 Linden Blvd., Cambria Heights AGES: All WHAT: Relax and have fun by trying out some virtual reality glasses! WANT TO GO? 718-528-3535. queenslibrary.org.

Baby Playdate FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Mondays, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Queens Library: Court Square, 25-01 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Drop in for an unstructured playdate. WANT TO GO? 718-937-2790. queenslibrary.org.

NYRR Open Run Baisley Pond Park FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 26: 9am; Check-in 8:45 am WHERE: Baisley Pond Park, 156-10 Baisley Blvd., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: NYRR Open Run is a community-based, volunteer-led running initiative bringing free weekly runs and walks to local neighborhood parks. WANT TO GO? FREE. 347-692-0488. facebook.com/groups/328717541146271/. ››

Softball Clinic FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 12-3pm WHERE: Juniper Valley Park, 80th Street and Juniper Blvd., Middle Village AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Join NYC Parks and Baruch College Women’s Softball Team to strengthen your softball skills through this clinic focusing on hitting, fielding, and running. Youth of all ages will be able to build their skills in this supervised clinic. WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Girls Flag Football Invitational FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 11, 10am-2pm WHERE: Rockaway Beach Boardwalk, Beach 32 and the Boardwalk, Rockaway Beach AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Join NYC Parks in this free Girls Flag Football Invitational. This one-day tournament will emphasize participation and sportsmanship, as all players will get the opportunity to play. WANT TO GO? 718-318-4000. nycgovparks.gov.

OPEN REGISTRATION! Pre-ballet through Level Program Ages 2 to Adult

Family Fun Time FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 23: Saturdays, 2-4pm WHERE: Queens Library-Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: All WHAT: Play board games, build with LEGO bricks, work puzzles, and more. WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

Dungeons and Dragons FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 30, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library-Ridgewood Branch, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: 13-17

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Advanced Animal Care Trainee

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Study APEC animals’ species-specific behavior and practice techniques that help us better connect to birds, reptiles, and small mammals. Please note there is a prerequisite requirement. WANT TO GO? $26. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Nature Detectives

ANIMAL LOVERS Friends of Briarwood Presents Animals Alive FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 3-3:45pm WHERE: Queens Library: Briarwood Branch, 85-12 Main St., Briarwood AGES: All WHAT: Alley Pond Environmental Center offers an interactive lesson with observation and handling of live animals. WANT TO GO? 718-658-1680. queenslibrary.org.

Vet Tech 101

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Practice conducting animal check-ups, handling live animals, and studying animal anatomy. WANT TO GO? $28. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Wildlife Weekends

WHEN: Nov. 2-10, Weekends, 11am-4:30pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy pony rides, hayrides, animal feeding, and the always entertaining (and sometimes slimy) Frogs, Bugs & Animals Show, in addition to historic farmhouse tours. WANT TO GO? $15 all ages (advance tickets: $12 all ages). 718-3473276. queensfarm.org.

Family Animal Meet & Greet

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 11, 11am-12pm and 1-2pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Learn some interesting facts about animals and meet five different animals from APEC. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $18. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

I Want to be a Vet

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Does your child dream of being a veterinarian? Send them to APEC to learn the basics of animal care. Students will love meeting the live animal guests. WANT TO GO? $26. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com. 26

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WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 17, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Develop your investigation skills by examining items from APEC’s trails, looking at model animal tracks and scat, and taking a hike to look for new critter clues. WANT TO GO? $22. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Animal Tales – Fall Harvest

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 17, 1-2:15pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Encourage your child’s love of reading by sharing a nature-related story especially chosen for littlest nature lovers. Create a nature craft, meet some of APEC’s animals, and enjoy a nature walk. WANT TO GO? $20. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Vet Tech 201

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Work with the Vet Tech one-on-one using tools and techniques at a more advanced level. Vet Tech 101 required prerequisite. WANT TO GO? $32. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Sea Lion Feeding

WHEN: Year-round, daily, 11:15am, 2pm, and 4pm WHERE: Queens Zoo, 53-51 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: See the sea lions get their meals and maybe do a trick or two! WANT TO GO? $9.95; $7.95 seniors ages 65 and older; $6.95 children ages 3-12; free for children 2 and younger. 718-271-1500. Queenszoo.com.

ONCE UPON A TIME! Yoga Storytime FREE

WHEN: Nov. 7-21, Thursdays, 3:30-4pm and 4:30-5pm WHERE: Queens Library-Court Square Branch, 25-01 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Read stories, sing songs, and do some simple yoga stretches! Children ages 3-5 years old with their caregivers are welcome. Please register. WANT TO GO? 718-937-2790. queenslibrary.org.

Spooky Adventures

WHEN: Through Nov. 29: 5:30-8pm WHERE: Queens Zoo, 53-51 111th St., Corona AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Go on a tour through our haunted habitat and other areas around the zoo! Afterwards, have an encounter with some animal visitors inside the classroom. Families will end the evening with a spooky story and tasty snacks. WANT TO GO? $24. 718-271-1500. queenszoo.com.

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Tell Me a Story FREE

SPRING 2020 AND SUMMER 2020 PROGRAMS

WHEN: Through Dec. 11: Wednesdays, 3:30-4pm WHERE: Pomonok Library, 158-21 Jewel Ave., Flushing AGES: 3-9 WHAT: This is a storytime program for ages 3-9. WANT TO GO? 718-591-4343. queenslibrary.org.

Are You the Parent of a Gifted Child? LIU Post’s Center for Gifted Youth announces its 40th annual program for gifted children. The spring program runs Saturdays from Feb. 1, 2019 to April 25, 2020 and the summer program runs Monday to Friday from July 6 to July 30, 2020. The spring program is open to gifted children K-8 and the summer program is open to gifted children 2-8. The program expands students’ knowledge, develops creative and critical

Picture Book Time FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Wednesdays, 11:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Queens Library: Richmond Hill, 118-14 Hillside Ave., Richmond Hill AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join for stories, songs, finger plays, and simple crafts. WANT TO GO? 718-849-7150. queenslibrary.org.

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Babies & Books FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Queens Library-Seaside Branch, 116-15 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Park AGES: 6-17 months WHAT: Enjoy a variety of board books, nurture pre-literacy skills, meet up with other caregivers, and discover the joy of reading with your baby at the library! This program is for infants ages 6-17 months. WANT TO GO? 718-634-1876.

Picture Book Time FREE

WHEN: Through Jan. 31, Fridays, 10:15-11:15am WHERE: Queens Library-Ozone Park Branch, 92-24 Rockaway Blvd., Ozone Park AGES: Newborn to 4 WHAT: Children ages 4 and younger and their parents or other adult caregivers are welcome for storytelling, music, and games. WANT TO GO? 718-845-3127. ››

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Movie Screenings FREE

WHEN: Nov. 9-Dec. 28, See website for days and times WHERE: Bayside Library, 214-20 Northern Blvd., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: Watch fun family movies including Toy Story 4 and Frozen. WANT TO GO? 718-229-1834. queenslibrary.org.

‘Apollo 11: First Steps’

ON SCREEN Pride Night Out

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 7, 6:30-8:30 pm WHERE: Queens Historical Society, 143-35 37th Ave., Kingsland Homestead, Flushing AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Join the Queens Historical Society for an inclusive movie night centered around LGBTQIA+ youth films that address topics such as selfacceptance, safe spaces, and sexuality. WANT TO GO? $10 adults; $5 students. 718-939-0647. queenshistoricalsociety.org.

‘Sesame Street’: The Premiere

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 10, 2pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: All WHAT: On the 50th anniversary of Sesame Street’s debut, MoMI will present a screening of the first show with a special panel of guests including Bob McGrath (Bob), Frank Biondo (Camera Operator), and Dick Maitland (Sound Effects). WANT TO GO? Free with museum admission ($15 adults; $11 seniors; $9 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3). 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

Morning Movie Time: ‘Winnie The Pooh’ FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 15, 11:30am-1pm WHERE: Kew Gardens Hills Library, 72-33 Vleigh Place, Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Watch a movie after storytime! This month it will be Winnie the Pooh (2011, G). WANT TO GO? 718-261-6654.

Sesame Street ‘Lost and Found’

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 24, 2pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: All WHAT: MoMI is cracking the vault wide open to take a look at rare footage of Sesame Street that never aired, was shelved after initial broadcast, or features characters that have been retired. WANT TO GO? Free with museum admission ($15 adults; $11 seniors; $9 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3). 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

Wii Games FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library-Poppenhusen Branch, 121-23 14 Ave., College Point AGES: All WHAT: Play Wii games and relax at the end of the week! WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org. 28

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WHEN: Through Jan. 21: 2pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: This film showcases the real-life moments of the first lunar landing. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children, students, and senior citizens, plus museum admission. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Friday At The Movies FREE

WHEN: Through Jan. 31: Every other Friday, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Queens Library-Ozone Park Branch, 92-24 Rockaway Blvd., Ozone Park AGES: All WHAT: Head to the library to see a G or PG movie. WANT TO GO? 718-845-3127.

Teen Digital Media Lab

WHEN: Nov. 1-May 22, 2020, select Fridays, 4-6pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: 13-17 WHAT: A series of free design jams just for teens and a unique opportunity to get exclusive access to the museum, to share in your favorite kinds of media-making, or to experiment with something new. WANT TO GO? Free with museum admission ($15 adults; $11 seniors; $9 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3). 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

‘Superpower Dogs 3D’

WHEN: Through May 31: daily; 11am and 1pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: This immersive 3D movie showcases the life-saving superpowers and extraordinary bravery of some of the world’s most amazing dogs. WANT TO GO? $6 adults; $5 children, students & senior citizens, plus museum admission. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

CRAFTY KIDS Cuff Bracelets – Jewelry Workshop

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 1-3:30pm WHERE: The Voelker Orth Museum, 149-19 38th Ave., Flushing AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Make and take home your own stylish cuff bracelet adorned with pearls and jewels. Design and fabrication tips included with a fabulous selection of materials available. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-359-6227. vomuseum.org.

Hands on History: Paint Your Own Miniature Portrait! FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 1-4pm WHERE: King Manor Museum, 150-03 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Though 18th century artists produced some very large paintings, they also loved to make extremely tiny ones too! Learn about the art of miniature painting around the world and then make your own to take home. WANT TO GO? 718-206-0545. kingmanor.org.

Paint Night FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 4, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Queens Library-Hunters Point Branch, 47-40 Center Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Practice artistic skills and paint the subject of the month! Supplies will be provided. WANT TO GO? queenslibrary.org.

Dinovember! FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 4, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library-Howard Beach Branch, 92-06 156 Ave., Howard Beach AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Celebrate all things dinosaur with a Dino Dig, crafts, stories, and a special guest! WANT TO GO? 718-641-7086. queenslibrary.org.

Autumn Craft FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 5, 3-3:45pm WHERE: Queens Library-Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Create a beautiful leaf craft for autumn decoration. WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

Art Factory Workshops FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 6, 11-11:45am WHERE: Queens Library-Rosedale Branch, 144-20 243 St., Rosedale AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Preschool children and their caregivers will explore quality art time together. WANT TO GO? 718-528-8490. queenslibrary.org.

Children’s Paint Night FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 12, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library-Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Children ages 6 and up are welcome to join in this activity to make a painting. WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

Make Marshmallow Animals! FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 14, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library-Poppenhusen Branch, 121-23 14 Ave., College Point AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Try your hand at making pigs, lions, giraffes, and more with minimarshmallows and toothpicks. WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.

Jewelry Making Workshop for Children FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 15, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library-South Hollis Branch, 204-01 Hollis Ave., South Hollis AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Design and create a jewelry masterpiece. Preregistration required. WANT TO GO? 718-465-6779. queenslibrary.org.

Found Objects Puppet Making FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 15, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library: Baisley Park Branch, 117-11 Sutphin Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 3-12

WHAT: Learn how just about anything can be animated and brought to life as a puppet. A puppeteer will show you how objects you might readily discard can be recycled to create magical creatures. WANT TO GO? 718-529-1590. queenslibrary.org.

Art With LEGO Bricks With RPGA Studio, Inc. FREE

WHEN: Nov. 13-20, Wednesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Lefferts Library, 103-34 Lefferts Blvd., Richmond Hill AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Learn about some of the great LEGO artists and designers, how they use layering to create their work, and what effects the laws of physics have on LEGO constructions. Then, build! Registration required. WANT TO GO? 718-843-5950. queenslibrary.org.

Cosmic Colors With The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum FREE WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 20, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library-Central Library, 89-11 Merrick Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Create your own deep space pictures using real data from the Hubble Space Telescope, and learn about some of Hubble’s instruments and what they tell us about the farthest reaches of space. WANT TO GO? 718-990-0778. queenslibrary.org.

Access Mornings @ MoMI

WHEN: Nov. 2-Dec. 7, 11/2 and 12/7, 9:30-10:30am WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: All WHAT: This early access hour, before the Museum is open to the general public, will allow visitors of all ages to explore the exhibitions and participate in art making projects, facilitated by Museum educators. For families with members on the autism spectrum. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

Crafts and Stories FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 17: Tuesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library-Jackson Heights Branch, 35-51 81st St., Jackson Heights AGES: 4-7 WHAT: Join for stories and crafts for children ages 4-7. Caregiver must attend with the child.

Mommy and Me FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library: Cambria Heights, 218-13 Linden Blvd., Cambria Heights AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join for playtime with arts and crafts. WANT TO GO? 718-528-3535. queenslibrary.org.

Coloring Club FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Mondays, 3-5pm WHERE: Queens Library-Seaside Branch, 116-15 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Park AGES: All WHAT: Come down to the Seaside Library and de-stress with some coloring! WANT TO GO? 718-634-1876.

Knitting Club FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Tuesdays, 2:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library-Bellerose Branch, 250-06 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: All WHAT: Learn to knit! Yarns and needles are provided during the sessions. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org. ››

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Time For Kind: Thank You Veterans! FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 8, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library-Hunters Point Branch, 47-40 Center Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Make greeting cards for veterans to thank them for their service to our country. For kids and teens of all ages. WANT TO GO? queenslibrary.org.

Thanksgiving Crafts FREE

HOLIDAY FUN Celebrate with the Glen Oaks Library! FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 15, 3:30-4:15pm WHERE: Queens Library-Auburndale Branch, 25-55 Francis Lewis Blvd., Flushing AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children and their caregivers will enjoy making a beautiful craft relating to Thanksgiving. WANT TO GO? 718-352-2027. queenslibrary.org

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 1-3pm WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Diwali with henna hand painting with Anowara Ahmed at 1pm and classical dances of southern India with the Sadhanalaya Dance School at 3pm. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.

Thanksgiving Family Movie

Halloween Tinker Festival FREE

Thanksgiving Crafts with Artist Sol Aramendi [In Spanish] FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 3-6pm WHERE: Lewis Latimer House Museum, 3441 137th St., Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Featuring artist-led activities that combine art and science to create projects that come alive in the dark! RSVP required. WANT TO GO? 718-961-8585. lewislatimerhouse.org.

Be Thankful Collage Card Making FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 7, 6-7pm WHERE: Laurelton Library, 134-26 225 St., Laurelton AGES: All WHAT: In honor of Thanksgiving, join us in giving thanks by creating Thanksgiving collage cards! Bring in your favorite pictures and magazine clippings, and create a collage of all the things you’re thankful for this year. WANT TO GO? 718-528-2822. queenslibrary.org.

Veterans Day Activity for Teens FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 7, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library-Peninsula, 92-25 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Beach AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Join for a special activity to honor those who have served our country. WANT TO GO? 718-634-1110.

Celebrate Thanksgiving With Erika The Baker! FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 8, 3-5pm WHERE: Queens Library-Astoria Branch, 14-01 Astoria Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Erika the Baker developed her baking talent and creativity by observing famous chef bakers who specialize in “fondant.” For every family birthday, she always made and decorated an exquisite, delicious cake. WANT TO GO? 718-278-2220. queenslibrary.org. 30

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WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 2-4pm WHERE: Queens Library-Arverne, 312 Beach 54 St., Arverne AGES: All WHAT: Families are invited to join for a Thanksgiving afternoon movie screening. WANT TO GO? 718-634-4784. WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 19, 4-6pm WHERE: Langston Hughes Library-Community Cultural Center, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Bring your little ones to enjoy an afternoon of creativity by making paper bag turkeys while they listen to the story of the first Thanksgiving Day. This event is in Spanish. WANT TO GO? 718-875-3500. littleflowerny.org.

Turkey Craft FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 19, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library: Baisley Park Branch, 117-11 Sutphin Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Make a turkey hat with your friends and family. Ages 6-12. Children younger than 8 must be accompanied by a grown-up. WANT TO GO? 718-529-1590. queenslibrary.org.

Thanksgiving Crafts With Shahnaz Begum FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 20, 4-6pm WHERE: Queens Library-Broadway Branch, 40-20 Broadway, Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Make a cute and fun paper turkey ornament with artist Shahnaz Begum that you can use to decorate your house for Thanksgiving. Programs in English and Bengali. WANT TO GO? 718-721-2462. queenslibrary.org.

Teen Thanksgiving Day Activity FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 21, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library-Peninsula, 92-25 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Beach AGES: 13-17 WHAT: A fun Thanksgiving activity for teens at Peninsula! WANT TO GO? 718-634-1110.

Thanksgiving Craft FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 21, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library-Woodhaven Branch, 85-41 Forest Parkway, Woodhaven AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Ages 6-12 make a craft and bring some joy into the world! WANT TO GO? 718-849-1010.

Thanksgiving Story & Craft FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 21, 4-5pm WHERE: Forest Hills Library, 108-19 71 Ave., Forest Hills AGES: 6-12 WHAT: A Thanksgiving story and craft for ages 6-12. Get your ticket at the Children’s Room reference desk before the start of the program. WANT TO GO? 718-268-7934. queenslibrary.org.

Thanksgiving Placemat Craft FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 22, 4:30-5:15pm WHERE: Queens Library: Briarwood Branch, 85-12 Main St., Briarwood AGES: All WHAT: Color a Thanksgiving placemat. WANT TO GO? 718-658-1680. queenslibrary.org.

LED Thanksgiving Cards: It’s Electric!

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 11am-12pm WHERE: Queens Historical Society at Kingsland Homestead, 143-35 37th Ave., Flushing AGES: WHAT: Kids will learn about circuits and get to create their own personalized Thanksgiving greeting card that features sustainable LED lights. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-939-0647. queenshistoricalsociety.org.

It’s Time For Kind: Thanksgiving Placemat Craft FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 25, 6-7pm WHERE: Queens Library-Poppenhusen Branch, 121-23 14 Ave., College Point AGES: All WHAT: Get ready for your family celebration by creating a handmade placemat for your favorite dish using natural materials, such as leaves, twigs, and acorns. WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.

Thanksgiving Arts and Crafts FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 26, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library-South Hollis Branch, 204-01 Hollis Ave., South Hollis AGES: All WHAT: Make a Thanksgiving handprint, footprint, and turkey crafts and participate in gratitude activities. WANT TO GO? 718-465-6779. queenslibrary.org.

Thanksgiving Craft FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 26, 3-3:45pm WHERE: Queens Library-Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: 2-12 WHAT: Children ages 2-12 can make fun Thanksgiving crafts to celebrate the holiday. WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

Thanksgiving Craft FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 26, 3-3:45pm WHERE: Queens Library-Queens Village Branch, 94-11 217 St., Queens Village

AGES: 4-12 WHAT: Children ages 4 to 12 are welcome to celebrate Thanksgiving with a craft. WANT TO GO? queenslibrary.org.

Thanksgiving Craft FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 26, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library-Maspeth Branch, 69-70 Grand Ave., Maspeth AGES: All WHAT: Children of all ages are welcome to stop in and create a fun Thanksgiving craft. WANT TO GO? 718-639-5228. queenslibrary.org.

It’s Time for Kind: Books & Crafts Thanksgiving Special FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 26, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library-Flushing Branch, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: 7-10 WHAT: Readers in grades 2-4 explore and create with their favorite books! Discover what it means to be kind and give thanks for all the kindness you’ve experienced with a card-making craft. WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

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Hiring a special needs attorney to get your child the education she deserves, which can make all the difference in her growth and happiness.

Do You Need a Special Education Attorney? ››

Hiring a lawyer can ensure your child’s rights are respected

By Jacqueline Neber

ou know when your child isn’t receiving the education that is right for him. Maybe he’s struggling in a class that’s not a good fit. Perhaps he’s not receiving the supports and services he’s entitled to outside of class. He might even be in the wrong school altogether. But going up against a school district and the New York State Department of Education to fight for your child can be a daunting task for any parent. That’s where special education attorneys come in. They can help you understand your child’s rights, fight for his free and appropriate education, reach an agreement with your school, or get him into a new one. In fact, a special education attorney can make all the difference.

district leaders do know the law. If they don’t, they have law firms to inform them. On the other hand, many parents get stuck on the difference between an appropriate education and the best education their child can receive, says Gerald Raymond, a managing partner at Tully Rinckey PLLC in Syracuse. If parents have their child evaluated by someone outside the district, they could walk into a planning meeting for their child’s services with an idea that’s completely different from what school representatives are prepared to offer. In that case, conflict arises not because school authorities don’t know what they’re meant to provide, but because parents have a different idea.

Why an Attorney is Necessary

How Lawyers Help

The special education system in New York is complex. Some attorneys claim school districts don’t know which services are required for students with special needs, while others say schools are deliberately not providing the services these kids deserve. Laura Adler-Greene, an associate attorney at the law offices of Andrew Cohen in Garden City, says she believes 32

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Often a lawyer is necessary to get your school district to do what it must, says Bernard A. Krooks, founding partner of Littman Krooks LLP and head of its special needs department. A lawyer can help you get your child into a different type of class, receive the right services as dictated by her Individualized Education Program, or transfer to a different type of school.

A lawyer can also help when your student has behavioral challenges, and help your student avoid the school-to-prison pipeline—a trend in which students with special needs are funneled out of public schools and into the criminal justice system. The American Civil Liberties Union reports that students with disabilities are disproportionately represented in the pipeline because of schools’ inadequate special education resources and a reliance on zero tolerance policies. Once you’ve retained a lawyer, she can be as involved in your family’s progress as you want. Your attorney can attend IEP, Committee on Special Education, or annual review meetings with you or call for an impartial hearing or mediation. In some cases, a lawyer will take a family’s case all the way to federal court. Raymond says having an attorney can make a big difference in your child’s well-being. In one case, after a student fell behind in school when the district took his 1-to-1 aide away, Raymond’s firm provided the CSE with documentation as to why the child needed an aide—and got the aide restored to the child. Having an aide can significantly increase a child’s wellbeing, performance in school, and safety. Laura Davis, director of the Special Education Unit at New York Legal Assistance Group, says sometimes the impact of a lawyer might not look like much to an untrained eye, but it can mean the world to parents. “I’m working with a family whose child spent four years in an inappropriate six-one-one [six students, one teacher, and one aide] class in a public school, and is now at Gersh [Academy],” Davis says. “[The mother says] her child can now look at her, sit in a chair for a couple of minutes at a time, wave goodbye. This is all so meaningful to the parent. To somebody else it might look like nothing, but to her, her eight-year-old child is now, for the first time, making progress.”

Finding an Attorney

In his experience, the special needs community is a connected, supportive one, Krooks says. Information, such as lawyer recommendations, tends to get passed around quickly. “You can also use Facebook, discussion and support groups, or simply search online,” he adds. But at the end of the day, Krooks says, it’s not necessarily that difficult to find someone who has the knowledge needed—though it may be a challenge to find a good match. That’s why it’s important to vet each name. “You have to hire someone you can build a relationship with, someone who’s compassionate, who’s empathetic, who can represent your interests and your child’s, and who cares about your case,” Krooks says. “Trust your instincts. You have to feel comfortable.”

Affording Services

An attorney might be necessary to go up against your child’s school—especially in wealthier districts where schools often have big law firms on retainer. But affording a lawyer can be tricky no matter where you live—and, unfortunately, petitioners in education law cases do not get attorneys appointed for them by the court, as petitioners in family law cases do. As Davis explains, it is especially important for families making lower incomes and families whose native language is not English to understand their parental rights. Many of these families, however, don’t have the means to pay retainers and

fees, according to Ashley Grant, supervising staff attorney at Advocates for Children in New York City. But these fees, she says, should not prevent parents from seeking assistance. For example, families can reach out to Advocates for Children, which is just one of several organizations in the city that connects families with lower incomes to legal resources. Some law firms will take on cases regardless of family income. As Krooks points out: “We’ll take on cases like this because we went to law school to help people.” When a lawyer helps a family win a case in New York, the firm can have their attorney’s fees reimbursed by the Department of Education, at no cost to the family.

AN EDUCATION SUCCESS STORY Alicia Lewis’s* 6-year-old daughter has global developmental delays and is largely nonverbal. She needs a very small classroom, autism-specific methodologies, and an individualized teaching approach. When the New York City Department of Education placed her in an inadequate school last fall—twice—Lewis realized she needed the help of an attorney. Lewis had gone through an initial placement meeting, in which she says DOE representatives “did not seem to factor in our input and the evaluations we submitted, and did not allow the professionals who evaluated our daughter to testify.” Lewis asked for a reconvene, but the placement recommendations made at that second meeting were the same. “We were [finally] given a District 75 placement,” she says, “and we wanted to visit it, but it was a new site that wouldn’t be open until the first day of school. We were told to visit a similar site, and we did. But it seemed like none of our daughter’s needs would be met there. They had no autismspecific methodologies. We couldn’t even see any of the teachers or therapists. They hadn’t been hired yet.” That’s when Lewis knew she had to hire an attorney. “When the DOE fails completely to provide an appropriate educational setting for your child, and you have no other choice but to seek resolution through an impartial hearing, having a lawyer is imperative.” With the help of an attorney, Lewis informed the DOE she’d placed her daughter in a private special education school and would be moving forward with an impartial hearing. During the hearing, Lewis won the tuition for her daughter’s new school, meaning the DOE would handle all costs. Lewis also won at-home therapy for her daughter’s needs. Since then, her daughter has changed tremendously, both in school and at home. “She’s much more attentive and responsive. She has made a lot of progress. She’s really grown,” Lewis says. “She is so much more focused, she shows that she’s interested, she participates, she’s much more engaged with us at home.” Lewis attributes this success to having a lawyer. “The impartial hearing process is not something I would have been able to maneuver on my own,” she says. “Without an attorney, I would not have known the specific steps we needed to follow, the timeline, and the legal terminology.” *Name has been changed to protect the identity of the family involved.

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The moment I realized my daughter understood—and accepted—the responsibility of caring for her twin brother. By Ceilann Neber

y twins were never in the same play group, class, or even grade. They were together only in the womb, the NICU and, later, our home. They were on complete opposite ends of the spectrum. Why couldn’t they meet somewhere in the middle? I often asked myself. Born 16 weeks premature, my baby girl had her struggles, but I knew she would prevail. My instinct was right; she did. Relentless in my efforts to somehow change the course of his outcome, I knew my baby boy’s struggles would be permanent. And they were—a mother’s intuition. Now, 23 years later, I still wonder what life would have been like. Seeing neurotypical twins is a reminder of what they (and honestly, I) did not have. It’s a reminder of everything that was missed, how nothing was typical—and, ultimately, how it has affected my daughter. What would it have been like to bring my healthy twins home, memorialize their milestones in their baby books, and open our home to visitors wanting to celebrate them? What would it have been like to take my babies to the store or a friend’s home, to smile rather than cry, to savor each moment rather than worry about the next? What would it have been like to experience my babies developing typically? What would it have been like for my baby girl to have a playmate, a best friend, a partner in crime—to grow up like I did with my brother, who is 15 months older than me? What would it have been like for her to grow up without the constant flow of nurses and therapists in our home, visits to the hospital, or doctor and therapist appointments? What would it have been like to not worry about my son’s future—or about my daughter’s, for that matter, as the only sibling of a brother with multiple disabilities? What would it have been like to not feel guilty? When they were 10 years old, I drove the three of us home from yet another doctor’s appointment—an appointment I was hoping would bring a different diagnosis for my boy. It was during that car ride that I realized my daughter already understood what her future was going to look like. “Mommy...do you think Matt will ever get married?” she asked. “I’m not sure, why?” “Well, while we were in the doctor’s office, there was something on TV that said kids like Matt will probably never get married or have children.” I held back tears. Ceilann Neber lives on Long Island with her husband and twins.

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The author’s twins, Matt and Jacqui (our assistant editor), dancing together when they were 5

“It’s okay, Mom,” she said. “He will live with me when you and Dad can’t take care of him anymore.” “Oh, Sweetie,” I said. “I know you love your brother. But you will have your own life and your future husband may not want your brother to live with you.” Without hesitation she said, “I wouldn’t marry anyone that didn’t want Matt, Mom. We’re a package. We’re twins!” In these 23 years, every one of my daughter’s accomplishments has been met with celebration and happiness—but deep down those same accomplishments were always bittersweet for me. She felt it, too, because she wanted her brother to be able to accomplish the same things. I knew she felt it, and it makes me sad still. She has watched me move through this journey, and she wants me to be wholly happy—not the half-happy I am because I wish her brother could be beside her. She gets it, and she always has. I sat down to write this essay about what it was like to raise twins when one has a disability. But, ultimately, it’s an essay about my daughter. My son is the happiest boy. His innocent smile is the most beautiful thing. He is our light. But my daughter understands and feels more than any mother would wish for her child. It’s been a long and complicated path, and yet despite this, or perhaps because of this, she has grown into an amazing young adult. Her journey, our family’s journey, has grounded and humbled her, given her strength and understanding, and taught her compassion and kindness firsthand. Will I ever stop wondering what it would be like if my twins were both neurotypical? Maybe. One thing I won’t have to question is who will take care of my son when my husband and I aren’t able to. My daughter chose to take on the responsibility of making sure her brother is safe in the future. That is a responsibility she has understood for a long time, though it’s not what I hoped for her future. It’s something I think about all the time, and I know she thinks about it, too. Despite these worries, I wouldn’t change either of my twins for anything. The reality of life and her future responsibilities can seem overwhelming, but my daughter will approach all of it with the same compassion and strength her brother has helped her learn from the beginning. My twins will always be on opposite ends of the spectrum in many ways. I will always worry about them equally, too. But they give light to each other. And while my intuition about my son was correct, it was also correct about my daughter. She will prevail, she will keep him safe, and she will be okay.

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ith the holidays just around the corner, apartment doormats and front stoops will soon be stacked with packages—and that means “porch pirates” will be out in full force. Many of us will be traveling, leaving our homes unattended, during the holidays. Many residents have turned to video doorbells, such as Ring and Nest Hello, to give them an edge over the package-stealing crooks and burglars, but this latest craze in home security isn’t a cure-all. In fact, there’s a lot more to home safety than filming people who come to your door.

Mind the Basics

It’s hard to believe, but some people fail to take the most basic precautions, including locking their doors. “They may feel a false sense of security, and they may live in a safe area, but you can never be too certain,” says Cassandra Anderson, vice president of the New York Insurance Association, who adds that it’s a good idea to have a deadbolt lock. It can also be easy to overlook the door itself, but all doors are not created equal. An exterior door should be metal or solid wood, not the hollow-core type used for interiors. And remember, a lock is only as strong as the door and the door is only as strong as its frame. “You can have very good locks, but if your door frame is rotted, it defeats the purpose,” says Jessica Corey, commanding officer of the NYPD’s Crime Prevention Division. “Somebody can just push the door in. You can’t install a lock or a door without looking at the whole system.” Corey also notes that many people overlook the hinges. If the door’s hinges are on the outside and the pins exposed, someone can remove the pins and remove the door. She suggests either changing the door or installing non-removable pins. Another basic step many people forget about is to make a video inventory of your possessions. That way, if you are burglarized (or suffer a house fire or flood), you have a detailed record for police and insurance.

Secure the Perimeter

Both Corey and Anderson advise homeowners to secure their home from the outside-in, beginning with the yard. For example, make sure landscaping doesn’t block your windows, and that shrubbery can’t be used to shield an intruder from passing neighbors or a police patrol car. Corey also reminds people to secure their windows—particularly at ground level. When installing window air conditioners, make sure to secure them with the proper (and usually included) hardware so they can’t be pushed in. And use outside lighting. “Lighting is one of the cheapest and most effective deterrents that you have,” Corey says. “Either lighting that comes on from dusk to dawn, or lighting that’s motion-activated. That’s something that’s easily installed.”

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dia (or to the clerk at the local store) you never know who else is watching and listening, including thieves. It’s best to be cautious about whom you talk to—and wait to post pictures of your trip until you return. Remember that scene in Home Alone, when Kevin rigs up mannequins and lights to make it look like his empty house is full of people? You don’t have to go quite that far, but when you’re away, you want your house to look lived-in. Ask the post office to hold your mail, ensure there won’t be any packages delivered, and arrange for someone to take out the trash and recycling. It’s also a good idea to put interior and exterior lights on timers. Then there are the not-so-obvious things, like putting a television or two on a timer and asking a neighbor to park one of their cars in your driveway if you normally park your car in your driveway. (Anderson actually advises people to park their car in their garage if possible, so people won’t know their habits of coming and going.) The key is to make your house look the way it does when you are home. “A lot of people think when they go away that they should close all their curtains. If you don’t normally close all your curtains, you shouldn’t do it when you’re away,” Corey advises. And don’t forget to have someone mow the lawn or shovel snow if you’re away for more than a week. Both Corey and Anderson say leaving your house to the elements while you’re away is a sure sign the home isn’t occupied.

Be Smart with Your Smart Home

Aside from all these low-tech strategies, both Anderson and Corey recommend installing a home security system and/or video doorbell. “There’s a lot of new types of technologies out there that create video display in real time, where you’re aware of what’s going on in your house when you’re away. I think that those are certainly things that individuals could consider, to increase the security at their house,” Anderson says. “I can’t speak to any one technology, but having multiple security features is always better,” Corey says. “If you have video, if you have lighting, if you have an alarm system, that’s going to be better than if you had none of those things.” She recommends an alarm system with motion detectors and installing video cameras connected to a phone app but cautions people to remember that online systems can be hacked. “Use two-factor authentication and anything else the security or doorbell company recommends to protect the system,” Corey says. Nothing will guarantee 100-percent safety and security but taking a strategic approach and implementing the measures recommended by experts will reduce your chances of being victimized. Jaimie Seaton has been a journalist for more than 20 years and is the former Thailand correspondent for “Newsweek.” Her work on divorce, parenting, dating, and a wide range of topics has been featured in “The Washington Post,” “The Guardian,” “Glamour,” and numerous other publications. Follow her on Twitter @JaimieSeaton.

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Why Teens Drive Us Crazy ››

There is a reason your teen making bad or questionable decisions is the (unfortunate) norm in the adolescent years. But don’t worry! It’s just a phase. By Lambeth Hochwald

Having open and honest conversations with your teen can help prevent some bad choices from being made.

says Shuli Sandler, Psy.D., a clinical psychologist in Teaneck, NJ. “A lot of this time is about figuring out who they are and part of that is pushing limits in the service of that exploration and discovery.”

s a parent of a teenager, you probably know some vexing behavior often comes with this stage—whether it’s making choices without regard to consequences, questioning authority, or just becoming more distant. It’s a challenging time for both parent and child—and it’s often impossible for us to understand why our kids are acting out. One of the best ways to cope and communicate, however, is to understand the reasons for their behavior.

Their Brains Work Against Them

“While teenagers’ brains are growing at a rapid rate, they are still many years away from maturity—as brains typically complete growth at age twenty-five,” says David Ezell, founder and CEO of Darien Wellness, a counseling and psychiatry group in Darien, CT. “The last part of the brain to develop is the frontal cortex, which is the part that contains the executive functioning area and is involved with abstract thought, planning, and impulse control.” What does this mean for your teen who is juggling many new thoughts and emotions? “Executive functions allow us to plan and see consequences,” Ezell says. “So, what adults perceive to be obviously ‘risky’ behavior does not seem that way to teenagers because their brains have difficulty connecting today to tomorrow. The combination of a lack of experience and a developing brain sets young people up to put themselves in situations that most adults would consider to be very dangerous.”

They Lack Experience

There’s another very important reason your teens are acting out, and it’s actually quite simple: Teenagers haven’t had anywhere near the life experience you’ve had. “As adults, we know that if we don’t pay the ConEd bill, the lights will be turned off,” Ezell says. “Most teens lack that experience of cause and effect, nor have they seen their peers experience a similar situation.” Remember: Being a teenager is a developmental stage, albeit one that may involve intense mood swings, lying, social media obsession, and trading communication with you for spending way more time with his friends. “This is a time when a child is going from being a child to becoming an independent adult, which is also why there is so much change happening in their body, minds, and actions,”

Hormones are Surging

Along with changing bodies come changing hormones, which play a large role in what teens are feeling. “All of these new hormones can also contribute to a lack of impulse control,” says Nikita Banks, LCSW, a licensed psychotherapist in private practice in Brooklyn. “Think about all that your teen is juggling. She is both trying to figure out who she is as an individual and find her place in society, which is a very big transition. To do this, she may pull away or test the values of her family and adapt behaviors that will be seen as more desirable to her peer group. When you put all of these factors together it can make for one wild ride.” With this surge in independence, teens may push the envelope to see how far they can push you. “The goal you hope for as a parent is for your teen to ultimately end up in the middle where he takes appropriate risks but uses caution and prudence when indicated,” Dr. Sandler says. “It does take time for the two extremes to settle down in the middle, as is often the case in life.”

What You Can Do

Given all of this change, keeping the lines of communication open with your teen is very important—especially when he makes bad or questionable choices. Plan regular outings together or eat meals as a family to bridge the gaps and enable everyone to feel heard. “This time together is very important, and it serves another purpose, too. It’s actually a really good way to get an inside view of what is going on in their life,” Banks says. “Your goal should be twofold: You want to monitor their social interactions with friends to the best of your ability, but also give your child a voice.” After all, any strong connection you can keep with your teen is crucial and will help ease the very important transition she is moving through. “When teens feel that they are not only seen but heard at home, it helps them develop a greater sense of self-esteem,” Banks adds. “It also provides a strong foundation for them to be able to withstand the social pressures of this time of life.”

Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

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HOW TO MAKE THINGS EASIER We’re not going to sugarcoat it: This is a challenging phase in your life as a parent, but you can get through it in a healthy way—and keep your relationship as strong as it ever was— by following these three tips from Shuli Sandler, Psy.D., a clinical psychologist in Teaneck, NJ. Be open to hearing about anything. Try to have as many candid conversations as possible with your teenagers, in which you talk about everything, including, but not limited to, sex, drugs, friends, and school. Make sure the rules are clear. Spell out your rules of conduct but understand your teen may not follow them. If she doesn’t, she needs to know exactly what the consequences will be. Be there to help him. Make sure your teen understands that he can and should ask for help whenever he needs it. He should also know that he will not be penalized for asking for help—even if he’s at a party and needs to call you for a ride at 1am because his ride has been drinking.

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If I Can’t See You, I Can’t Hear You ›› The challenges of being a mother with hearing loss

“ s this the year we can finally get earbuds?” It’s a question my teenagers ask me every year on their birthday, but they already know the answer: No. And they know the reason why. I have an adult-onset genetic hearing loss passed down through my father’s side of the family. Thankfully, my children have healthy hearing so far, but I need them to guard it with a vengeance. If they develop problems with their hearing in adulthood, like I did, I want them to be starting off with as little residual damage as possible—hence, no earbuds. That’s not our first struggle triggered by my hearing issues. When you’re a mom with hearing loss, communication with your children is always a bit difficult. It’s just the nature of the challenge that changes as they grow. When they were infants, I would strain to hear their cries through the baby monitor. At night, with my hearing aids removed, I might sleep through the sound, even with the volume turned up to the max. Luckily, my husband would usually hear them and wake me up when necessary. If he was traveling for work, I slept fitfully, worried my babies might need me, but I wouldn’t hear them. In later years, I trained my children to seek me out at night if a problem arose, so I would be sure to respond. The struggles weren’t all bad. As toddlers, my kids reveled in the game hide-and-seek, probably because they were at such an advantage. I could hear their giggles and squeals, but had a hard

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time pinpointing the location of the sounds. When I walked past their hiding place, giggles would erupt, but I wouldn’t know exactly where to look. Circling back, I would hear laughter again. They enjoyed it so much, I made a point to wander back and forth calling, “Where are you?” for several minutes. I knew a limb would eventually poke out from their secret spot, and I would find them. When they started school, communication became even more important, and a few logistical rules were required: Remember to face me when you talk to me; speak slower so I can understand you; don’t cover your mouth with your hands; if I can’t see you, I can’t hear you. I know I sound like a broken record, but what choice do I have? Some days they remember, others they forget. They face me for one sentence but turn away for the next. It causes sadness and irritation on both sides. I wonder why they can’t consistently speak so I can understand them, and they get annoyed that their nagging mom can’t hear them. There are some tough moments, especially when they wave their hands at me in frustration and say, “Never mind.” That really brings me to a boil. The good news is, children can be very accepting. One day I asked my children if it bothered them to have a mom with hearing loss. They looked at me like they didn’t understand the question. It is all they have ever known.

Shari Eberts is a hearing health advocate, writer, and the founder of livingwithhearingloss.com, a blog and online community for people living with hearing loss and tinnitus. She serves on the board of trustees of Hearing Loss Association of America. Connect with Eberts on Facebook @livingwithhearingloss and Twitter @sharieberts.

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