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Holiday Joys
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How to Save Money on Holiday Shopping
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18 Become a Resort Family
Find something to help your family beat that winter chill!
These tips will help you stick to your budget while snagging real bargains.
How to Raise a World-Aware Teen
Your child’s now old enough to grasp global issues—and to change the planet for the better, too.
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6 Editor’s Note 10 My Family Saved Someone’s Life 14 Keeping Your Family Healthy 34 The Pros and Cons of Elf on the Shelf 38 How to Raise a World-Aware Teen 40 Professional Services 41 Party Central 42 Academic Enrichment and Educational Services 42 Tutors & Test Prep at a Glance 43 Open Houses 44 Meet the Doctor 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 Parenting Humor
12 Glitter Gifts
36 How to Save Money on Holiday Shopping
20 Family Fun a Ride Away
32 13 Ways to Stay Safe This Holiday Season
21 Family Activities Calendar 31 Holiday Joys
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Helping Parents Make Better Decisions ON THE COVER ›› 32 Kid-Safe Decorating 34 Elf on the Shelf: Yay or Nay? 36 Sticking to Your Gift-Giving Budget 38 World-Aware Teens facebook.com/nymetroparents
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DECEMBER 2018 • Vol.24 • No.5
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EDITORIAL DIRECTOR: Katelin Walling ASSISTANT EDITORS: Anja Webb, Melissa Wickes DIRECTOR OF CONTENT: Deborah Skolnik
Season’s Readings!
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absolutely adore this time of year, don’t you? The days may be short, but they’re jampacked full of joyful doings. Whether you’re shopping for presents for loved ones, admiring the twinkling holiday lights, or cooking up special treats, there’s a cozy feel to it all. And the only thing more delightful than savoring the season’s many pleasures is experiencing them from your child’s wide-eyed perspective. Of course, in all the excitement we want to make sure you and your kids steer clear of hazards—that’s why we urge you to read Lambeth Hochwald’s feature “13 Ways to Stay Safe This Holiday Season” on p. 32. Don’t light a candle, buy a festive new plant, or set out special décor before reading what the experts have to say. Speaking of experts, we also have the pros’ best tips for getting discounts on all those gifts you’re buying. Turn to p. 36 for “How to Save Money on Holiday Shopping” by Denise Porretto, which offers brilliant strategies for bargain-hunting, both online and at brick-and-mortar stores. You’ll wonder how you ever did without these easy ways to earn cash back on purchases, snag hot products at low prices, and more. Meanwhile, what would Christmas be without a few traditions? This issue, we take a closer look at a somewhat controversial one: Elf on the Shelf. He’s meant to watch over your young kids and report back to Santa about whether they belong on the ‘nice’ or ‘naughty’ list, but does that make him sweet, or a spy? In Anja Webb’s “The Pros and Cons of Elf on the Shelf” on p. 34, real parents, plus others who grew up with the steely-eyed sprite, offer advice on how to deploy your elf so he’s fun for little ones. Yet the holiday season isn’t only for small children, which is why those of you with older kids will appreciate Allison Ingrum’s story, “Raise a World-Aware Teen” on p. 38. These days more than ever, it’s important for our youth to know what’s happening around the globe—and help change our planet for the better. After the holidays wrap—or even before—you may just have had your fill of blustery weather and busy days. Who could blame you if you just want to get away from it all for a while? Not us! That’s what makes our travel story “Become a Resort Family” on p. 18 so timely. We’ve rounded up our picks of family-friendly all-inclusive resorts and destinations, blessed spots where all you have to do is relax. Even if you can’t book a getaway this minute, it’s a great read for fantasizing. On that subject, here’s wishing you and yours the holiday of your dreams! Deborah Skolnik Director of Content
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Glow-in-the-Dark Circus to Perform in Jamaica Who: Circus Glow What’s New: The show, which is scheduled to perform at Amuzara Dec. 28-31. Circus Glow is a new style of circus that features seven acts, including aerialists, contortionists, and LED robots. The performers are committed to providing children and families with an illuminated experience fused with art and entertainment at the highest level of excitement. All acts are performed completely in the dark and are illuminated by LED lights or glow-in-the-dark costumes. Illuminations vary depending on the style of act. The show is all people with no animals or fire. Circus Glow will perform eight shows over four days in Jamaica. Want More Info: AMUZARA, 91-12 144th Place, Jamaica; 718-230-0891; circusglow.com
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My Family Saved Someone’s Life ›› The close call that was the ultimate teachable moment for my kids. By Jenn Colucci, as told to Deborah Skolnik
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ave you ever had an ordinary day suddenly turn extraordinary? That’s what happened to us in late July. My husband Vinnie had come home early from work, and we’d gone to an afternoon movie at the Galleria Mall in Poughkeepsie with our four kids. As we left the theater around 4:30pm, I noticed a black BMW near our car in the parking lot. We got in our car and I pulled out of our parking spot. That’s when I saw the BMW’s driver: He was lying on his back across the center console, and his feet were sticking out the driver’s-side door. The car was running and the radio was blasting. “Something is wrong with this guy,” I said. Vinnie thought the man was just sleeping, but I urged him to check. Vinnie got out of the car and tapped the guy’s foot, saying “Hey buddy, hey bro.” There was no response. My husband looked at me. “Call nine-one-one,” he said. The emergency operator told us to pull the man out of the car and lay him on the ground. Vinnie got a couple of passersby to help him while I stayed on the phone with the operator. I pulled our car up so my kids couldn’t see what was happening, but I looked on. The driver—he was a young man—was taking breaths every 30 seconds, if that. He was pale, white, and sweaty, and his lips were blue-purple. The police showed up first. Immediately, they concluded the man was suffering from a drug overdose. They administered Narcan—a substance designed to counteract opioid overdose— through his nose, which did nothing. Paramedics arrived shortly thereafter and administered more Narcan through an IV. Immediately, miraculously, it brought the guy back to life. I heard him say he’d used two bags of heroin. He bounced back so much he wanted to go home, but of course
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the paramedics insisted he go to the hospital for observation. As I sat there watching it all unfold, stunned, one of the police officers came up to me. “This man was dead,” he told me. “You literally just saved his life by calling nine-one-one.” The young man, now sitting up on a stretcher, looked at the police officer and said, “Thanks.” “Don’t thank me,” the officer replied. “You can thank these two over here. They’re the ones that called.” On the way home, my 8-year-old daughter asked me, “Mom, did that man have a heart attack?” I looked at my husband and said, “I’m just going to tell them.” “That man was dying because he did very bad drugs,” I explained. We talked about how dangerous illegal drugs are, and why you should never use them. My husband and I turned it into a teaching moment—not only about drugs, but also about how if you see someone in trouble, you should call for help and not just walk by, as I’m sure a lot of people might have done. The movie we’d seen was The Incredibles 2, and my son said, “Mommy, you and Daddy are just like Mr. and Mrs. Incredible!” It’s true I did feel inspired by what we’d done—but I was also sad for what we’d seen. I’m sure this experience will stay with my three older kids, who are 12, 8, and 6, for the rest of their lives. My 4-year-old probably won’t remember, but I’m hoping she’ll learn from her older siblings. I’m also hoping people start realizing how big the opioid addiction crisis is. Most of all, I’m hoping the young man we saved stays safe. What happens if he needs saving again—will anyone be there to rescue him the next time? Because the mother in me knows: He’s someone’s child.
Jenn Colucci is a mother of four and the content coordinator for the upcoming Living Lagrange magazine, as well as the receiver of taxes for the Town of Beekman.
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Maintain a healthy diet. Your child should get all the vitamins she needs—something that will happen as long as she’s eating a healthy, nutritious diet. Also, check that your county’s water supply has fluoride in it. If not, you may want to make sure your child is getting the right amount, Dr. Kahn suggests. Don’t let your child share things that go in his mouth. After spending the last few years teaching your child the importance of sharing, flu season is the time to throw those lessons out the window. Well, at least for utensils, pacifiers, cups, and other items that go in your child’s mouth, Dr. Kahn stresses. If your child drops his pacifier, don’t be so quick to give it a swift wipe and pop it back in his mouth. Know when to take your child to the doctor. If he has a high fever that won’t come down with Tylenol or Motrin, you should see the doctor. Once your child is fever-free, wait 24 hours before letting her go back to school. Perhaps most importantly, if your child shows any signs of difficulty breathing, including fast breathing, nasal flaring, and using extra muscles to breathe, you should take her to the doctor immediately, Dr. Kahn says.
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5 Ways to Involve Your Nanny in Holiday Celebrations ›› Courtesy Mommybites.com
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olidays are an important time for your family and your nanny. Taking the time to think ahead, discuss, and plan properly will help ensure your nanny feels appreciated. Gifts are an important way of acknowledging your nanny over the holidays, but more important is the effort and respect you show in ensuring everyone has the opportunity to comfortably celebrate the holidays. Here are five ways you can involve your nanny in your family’s holiday celebrations. Encourage your kids to talk and ask questions. A nanny’s stories of how she celebrates the holidays will be met with enthusiasm, and the kids will gain from learning about her faith. Acknowledge each other’s faiths. This provides the opportunity to talk openly about upcoming celebrations and plan in advance. Invite your nanny to participate in your family’s holiday celebrations. Your kids may be thrilled to introduce her to traditional Jewish foods if you celebrate Hanukkah, or perhaps your family has a special Christmas or Kwanzaa tradition your kids want to share. If you prefer that your nanny not be present during your family’s holiday celebrations, the best way to prevent misunderstandings or bruised feelings is to talk about your expectations with her in advance.
If there are differences in faith or observance, you and she should identify and discuss what are acceptable traditions to share. Create a holiday schedule. It should clearly show when your nanny will and won’t be working. Give her ample opportunity to make her holiday plans, and offer to help her make arrangements if needed. Consider giving her additional paid days off around the holidays, like Christmas Eve, to make sure she doesn’t lose any wages. Encourage her and the kids to plan their own holiday party. They can enjoy some special time together and exchange gifts. Decisions should be made with your nanny’s input and consent so that everyone feels at ease with the holiday plan.
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Guests at Club Med in Punta Cana and Opio en Provence in France can learn Cirque de Soleil skills at CREACTIVE. Inset: Float down the Lazy River at Royalton Bavaro in the Dominican Republic.
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Traveling with the kids can get expensive, so we found the best all-inclusive resorts that are sure to keep everyone happy. By Katelin Walling
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efore kids, traveling with your partner was relatively easy. Sure, you had to figure out the logistics of getting from point A to destination B, along with where to stay, what to do, and places to eat, but that wasn’t too much of a hassle. Ever since kids entered the picture, though, planning a destination vacation has become a balancing act, one that includes making sure there are plenty of activities the little ones will love, that the restaurants you dine at have food your picky eaters will like, and that the hotel room has enough sleeping space for your brood. Does the thought of coordinating everything make you want to hire a vacation planner? Fear not! For a family vacation everyone will love, consider booking a stay at an all-inclusive resort. While some locations are for adults only, many others are turning their focus to families, offering unlimited activities, kids’ clubs, and dining options that even hardto-please children will love. This list doesn’t include every single all-inclusive resort brand out there; the five chosen here offer unique experiences for families, clubs for kids and teens, and other amenities to ensure everyone in the family has an unforgettable vacation.
Beaches
A sister brand to Sandals, the first Beaches resort opened in 1997 in response to requests from couples who loved Sandals Resorts and wanted a similar experience with their families. Destinations: Beaches has three family-friendly resorts: two are located in Jamaica and one is in Turks & Caicos. Highlights: Each location features a Pirates Island waterpark (Turks & Caicos recently expanded its waterpark offerings) with waterslides, spray areas, waterfalls, zero-entry pools, and more. Plus, Turks & Caicos is the only Beaches resort to offer SurfStream®, a surf simulator. Beaches has an exclusive partnership with Sesame 18
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Street, so you’ll frequently spot your favorite characters roaming the grounds for kids to meet, interact with in special themed activities, and see in stage shows and character parades. Tweens and teens can take advantage of the arcade Trench Town and the Xbox Play Lounge. These resorts also offer teens-only dance time at Club Liquid before it transitions to the 21 and older night club. And for teens who want a more meaningful vacation, Beaches offers Island Impact volunteer opportunities in July and August. Kids Clubs: All Beaches resorts have Kids Camp for younger guests, ages newborn to 12, and programs that are just for tweens and teens. And your children will be in good hands: Kids Camp staff and private child care providers are members of the International Nanny Association. In addition, Beaches’ Kids Camps are Certified Autism Centers through the International Board of Credentialing and Continuing Education Standards, so staff members are able to cater to children who are on the spectrum. To book: beaches.com
Club Med
With more than 70 locations worldwide in a variety of destinations, you’ll find a resort in the spot of your dreams, whether you prefer tropical weather for beach lounging or snowier climates for all-day skiing. Destinations: In addition to its Sandpiper Bay resort in Florida, Club Med has locations in Mexico; the Caribbean; the Alps in France, Italy, and Switzerland; throughout Europe and the Mediterranean, including Greece, Portugal, and Turkey; across Asia, including Thailand, Maldives, China, Indonesia, Japan, and Malaysia; Brazil; and Africa, including Morocco, Tunisia, and Senegal. Highlights: Kids younger than 4 always stay free, though services for this age range sometimes cost extra. Some locations have a trapeze for high-flying fun, and Punta Cana in the Dominican
Republic and Opio en Provence in France are home to CREACTIVE, a Cirque du Soleil-inspired playscape at which guests can learn acrobatic and artistic skills (including trapeze, high bungee, and trampoline). Cancun Yucatan recently underwent renovations and now offers an expanded Aguamarina, a family area featuring two-bedroom accommodations with a dedicated pool area and stretch of beach only for families staying in this part of the resort. Kids Clubs: Of the many locations worldwide, only a select few are adult-only resorts. Kids’ clubs are available at most locations for ages 4 months to 17 years, including Baby Club Med (ages 4-23 months), Petit Club Med (ages 2-3), Mini Club Med (ages 4-10), Juniors’ Club Med (ages 11-17), and Club Med Passworld (ages 11-17). In addition, Club Med offers Pyjama Club from 7-11pm and babysitting services (both an additional fee) for date nights or those times you wish to have an adults-only excursion. To book: clubmed.us
Dreams Resorts & Spas
If staying at an environmentally conscious resort is more your speed, Dreams Resorts & Spas has eight locations that are Rainforest Alliance-certified (they follow the alliance’s eight principles of sustainability). Destinations: Dreams has 15 destinations for families throughout Mexico, the Dominican Republic, Costa Rica, Panama, and Puerto Rico. Highlights: There’s so much to do at Dreams, the kids will never complain of boredom. Though activities vary at each location, indoor and outdoor offerings include pingpong, volleyball, soccer, archery, painting, ocean trampoline, a scalable iceberg, Pilates and yoga, pool tables, croquet, a giant chess board, tennis, dance lessons, movies, and Euro-Bungee. In addition, water sport activities include water polo, kayaking, snorkeling, catamarans, sailing, and windsurfing. Once a week kids can have a camping adventure on the beach, hosted by the Explorer’s Club at all locations, while parents can enjoy a date night. Kids Clubs: Dreams resorts offer Explorer’s Club for ages 3-12 and various activities just for teens. Properties in the Dominican Republic, Costa Rica, and Dreams Sands Cancun Resort & Spa offer Core Zone Teens Club for ages 13-17. Private babysitting services are available at participating locations for an additional fee. To book: dreamsresorts.com
Grand Memories and Memories
As their names imply, Grand Memories and Memories resorts aim to help families create lasting memories with natural surroundings, white-sand beaches, and a host of activities for kids. Destinations: Memories and Grand Memories have eight family-friendly resorts located in Cuba and the Dominican Republic. Highlights: Memories Splash Punta Cana closed in August for renovations to become Grand Memories Splash and Grand Memories Punta Cana, both slated to open mid-November. Splash features family-friendly accommodations, including rooms with bunk beds, plus one of the largest on-site waterparks in the Caribbean, with seven slides, a wave pool, splash pads, and spray features. As a neighboring property, Grand Memories Punta Cana has access to Splash’s waterpark. Kids Clubs: Each of the Memories and Grand Memories properties offers a kids’ club for ages 4-12, where kids can socialize, play on the playground, and enjoy games. Plus, all kids’ clubs feature Toopy & Binoo, a cat-and-mouse duo that make interactive appearances and host activities and games, as well as a live show. Grand Memories Splash and Punta Cana, as well as Memories Parasio and Flamenco, are the only locations with a Teens’ Lounge for ages 13-17. In addition, Memories Parisio, Varadero, and Flamenco offer Baby Club for ages newborn to 3. To book: memoriesresorts.com
Royalton Luxury Resorts
Royalton resorts feature All-In Luxury®, where every aspect of your vacation has been carefully designed to meet your needs. And with the optional Diamond Club™ upgrade available at all locations, you can have access to an exclusive beach and pool, along with other amenities, for an unforgettable stay. Destinations: Royalton has seven family-friendly locations in Jamaica, Saint Lucia, Dominican Republic, and Mexico. Plus, Royalton Antigua is slated to open in early 2019. Highlights: Each property features a splash pad for kids, on-site entertainment, and an All-In White Party once a week featuring music, dancing, entertainment, and light shows. For extra water fun, select locations have additional waterpark attractions. Riviera Cancun features Splash Safari, with water slides for all ages, water spray features, and a Crocodile Walk Way challenge in the wading pool; White Sands features a pirate-themed splash park with water sprays and slides of varying heights; and Bavaro is the only property with a Flowrider surf machine. Meanwhile, as a sister resort to Grand Memories, Royalton Punta Cana guests and Diamond Club™ members at Bavaro have access to Grand Memories Splash’s waterpark. In addition, all locations have high-speed Wi-Fi, which makes checking in with each other easy (and prevents teens from going into social media withdrawal). Kids Clubs: All Royalton locations offer Clubhouse Kids Club for ages 4-12 and Hangout Teens Club for ages 13-17. The kids’ club allows young resort guests to have fun with their peers while interacting with the beloved brother-sister bunny duo, Max & Ruby. Meanwhile, the club for teen vacationers features PlayStation gaming consoles, pingpong tables, and scheduled activities across the resort. To book: royaltonresorts.com
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Class Trip Programs at
the Bowne House THE 1661 BOWNE HOUSE offers educational tours for students K-12.
The tours compliment the New York State Curriculum and follow the Social Studies Scope and Sequence guidelines of the New York City Department of Education.
We offer four unique tours: • Colonial Life in Queens • Objects from the Past • The Flushing Remonstrance, Cornerstone of American Democracy • Bowne House on the Go For Group Tours, please call: 718-359-0528 or email: office@bownehouse.org. You may download a form from our website: www.bownehouse.org. All group tours are by advance appointment.
The Bowne House is located at: 37-01 Bowne Street,Flushing, Queens Bowne House is a City, State and National landmark; it is chartered by the New York State Board of Regents.
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Family Fun a Ride Away Courtesy The Maritime Aquarium
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In Fairfield County, CT…
The Maritime Aquarium’s 110,000-gallon habitat is home to a variety of sharks.
Stepping Stones Museum for Children’s Energy Lab teaches children about the science of energy.
The Maritime Aquarium
Stepping Stones Museum for Children
The Mid-Hudson Children’s Museum aims to help each child develop curiosity, confidence, and self-worth.
Mid-Hudson Children’s Museum
Located in the heart of Poughkeepsie’s historic waterfront, this children’s museum is the ideal destination for families with young children, who can immerse themselves in early literacy, art, STEM, health, and the community through exhibits such as Imagination Playground, Rivertown, and The Children’s Garden . The newest exhibition, Tell Me a Story, encourages early language and literacy through physical play and storytelling. Visit It: 75 N. Water St., Poughkeepsie; 845-471-0589; mhcm.org
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Explore exhibits that were built with input from those who know kids best: parents, educators, experts, and, of course, children! With fun for infants, toddlers, preschoolers, kindergarteners, and kids ages 7 and older, this museum has something every child will love: The Energy Lab is an exciting way for children to learn about energy, while Express Yourself is focused on social-emotional learning. Visit It: Mathews Park, 303 West Ave., Norwalk, CT; 203-899-0606; steppingstonesmuseum.org
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Visitors of all ages can appreciate and learn about The Long Island sound and the marine life that inhabits it. The Maritime Aquarium explores the ecosystem of, conservation issues surrounding, and animals living in the Long Island Sound throughout its exhibits. Explore the new jellyfish display, say hello to the aquarium’s two green sea turtles, touch several species of sharks and rays, and much more. Visit It: 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT; 203-852-0700; maritimeaquarium.org
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The Doc McStuffins exhibit at Liberty Science Center is designed to help visitors learn about staying healthy and taking care of yourself.
Liberty Science Center
This learning center is home to a variety of exciting offerings, including 12 exhibition halls, a live animal collection with 110 species, aquariums, a 3-D theater, hurricane- and tornado-force wind simulators, and the Western Hemisphere’s biggest planetarium. Join the hundreds of thousands of students, teachers, and parents that visit each year and experience the tens of thousands of programs the center has to offer. Visit It: 222 Jersey City Blvd., Jersey City; 201-200-1000; lsc.org
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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS
Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the seven events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!
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First Night and Tree Lighting
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 6:30-9pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live holiday music, a performance by members of the Bethel Concert Choir, a visit from Santa Claus, a tree lighting ceremony, and refreshments. WHY WE LOVE IT: The house will be enchantingly illuminated for this special evening! WANT TO GO? $15; $8 children ages 7-17; free for children younger than 7. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.
10th Annual Langston Hughes Literary Arts Festival FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 11am-4pm WHERE: Langston Hughes Library-Community Cultural Center, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Corona AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Celebrating the power of the written word through performances, poetry, and prose. Come along for a day of engaging panels and talks by accomplished authors. WHY WE LOVE IT: Celebrates the legacy of Langston Hughes, the written word, and the diverse writers in the Queens community. WANT TO GO? 718-875-3500. queenslibrary.org.
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Christmas in the Garden FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 12-5pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live musical performances, photos with Santa, holiday 22
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crafts, tree lighting, and blowout sales at the QBG Shop! WHY WE LOVE IT: A wonderful way to get into the holiday spirit. WANT TO GO? 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.
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City of Science, Queens FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2 , 10am-4pm WHERE: York College, Health and Physical Education Complex, 160-02 Liberty Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: The day is jam-packed with demonstrations, exhibits, and hands-on activities. Kids can launch objects 20 feet in the air, walk on water, create an orbiting universe, explore mind-bending challenges and puzzles, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids get hands-on experience with STEM principles and have a blast! WANT TO GO? worldsciencefestival.com.
‘The Rainbow Fish’ by Mermaid Theatre of Nova Scotia
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WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 8, 2:15pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5-8, Adult WHAT: This show will enchant even the youngest child with Mermaid Theatre’s striking puppetry production of Marcus Pfizer’s books about the beautiful fish who learned to share his most prized possession. WHY WE LOVE IT: This amazing production hails all the way from Nova Scotia! WANT TO GO? $14; $8 children; free for teens. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.
2018 Annual Holiday Historic House Tour
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WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 1-5pm WHERE: Queens Historical Society, 14335 37th Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: The historic houses will offer tours, sponsors activities, musical performances, holiday crafts, and historically-themed seasonal displays and decorations. WHY WE LOVE IT: A special holiday celebration at seven historic sites in the borough. WANT TO GO? $15 advance purchase; $20 at the door; $5 children younger than 12. 718-939-0647. queenshistoricalsociety.org.
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WHEN: Friday, Dec. 14, 7:30pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: A Magical Cirque Christmas has it all– magic, circus acts, and angelic voices singing our favorite Christmas carols live on stage WHY WE LOVE IT: It transports you to the golden age of entertainment with great talent and stunning costumes. WANT TO GO? $38.50 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.
Bangladesh Victory Day FREE
WHEN: Friday, Dec. 14, 4pm WHERE: Central Library, 89-11 Merrick Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Celebrate when Bangladesh was freed from Pakistan 40 years ago. WHY WE LOVE IT: You could call it the birthday of Bangladesh! WANT TO GO? 718-990-0700. queenslibrary.org.
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WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 22, 1:30pm and 5pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Corona AGES: All WHAT: Set in the 1970s, a young man is transported magically to the Land of Television where he discovers ballet for the first time. WHY WE LOVE IT: Experience the Hanly family’s Christmas party and see a twist on this classic tale! WANT TO GO? $25; $20. 718-860-0064. queenstheatre.org.
Holiday Open House FREE
WHEN: Dec. 26 -28, Wednesday-Friday, 12-4pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Take a tour of this historic landmark and enjoy kids’ crafts and hot mulled cider throughout the afternoon! WHY WE LOVE IT: Let the spirit of the holiday warm your heart! WANT TO GO? 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.
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Circus Glow
WHEN: Dec. 28 -31, See website for showtimes WHERE: AMUZARA, 91-12 144th Place, Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Be thrilled by aerial acts, contortionists, LED robots, and more like you have never seen before. WHY WE LOVE IT: See what happens when you turn off the lights! WANT TO GO? $24. 718-230-0891. circusglow.com.
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WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the six no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Community Concerts for Kids: Marimba Magic FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 4pm WHERE: The Church-in-the-Gardens, 50 Ascan Ave., Forest Hills AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Discover how this beautiful instrument from Africa has inspired so many composers with its beautiful tones. WANT TO GO? 718-894-2178. MusicaReginae.org.
James Kreger 2018 Holiday Album Release Party FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 8, 2pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 10 and older WHAT: This holiday album release party features an internationally acclaimed cellist who has been noted as one of the foremost cellists of his generation. WANT TO GO? 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.
Holiday Market FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 1-5pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Artisans from the Queens area will be selling their wares including jewelry, paintings, hand-crafted ceramics, paper goods, greeting cards, and clothing. WANT TO GO? 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.
STEM: Binary Code and Binary Bracelets FREE
WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 11, 3:30pm WHERE: Queens Village Library, 94-11 217th St., Queens Village AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn the uses of binary code such as speaking to a spacecraft and make a binary bracelet. WANT TO GO? 718-776-6800. queenslibrary.org.
Virtual Realiteen FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 20: Thursdays, 3:30pm WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Tour Venice, take a space walk, or punch robots WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.
Family Playtime FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Saturdays, 10am WHERE: Corona Library, 38-23 104 St., Corona AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Children can play with toys and other children to socialize, explore, and discover! WANT TO GO? 718-426-2844. queenslibrary.org. ›› QueensParent 23
WHAT: Shop at the Kwanzaa marketplace and enjoy a full day of craft workshops, live music, dance, and spoken word performances! WANT TO GO? 718-875-3500. queenslibrary.org.
Polar Express Parents Night Out
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 15, 6-9pm WHERE: My Gym Fresh Meadows, 176-60 Union Turnpike, Suite 310, Fresh Meadows AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Drop the kids off for a night of Polar Express, pizza, games, dancing, and more. WANT TO GO? $30. 718-380-4599. mygym.com/queens.
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HOLIDAY FUN
6th Annual Holiday Festival & Tree Lighting Celebration FREE WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 2-5pm WHERE: Astoria Park Great Lawn, 19th Street & 23rd Avenue, Astoria AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a day filled with music, train rides, refreshments, and holiday fun. WANT TO GO? 718-728-7820. centralastoria.nyc.
Breakfast with Santa and Operating Christmas Train Display
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 10am-12:30pm WHERE: Sacred Heart of Jesus R.C. Church, 215-35 38th Ave., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: Meet and Greet with Santa over continental style breakfast, craft tables, vintage postwar trains in action, and a photo with Santa. WANT TO GO? $15 advance; $20 at the door. 718-631-4804. facebook.com/sacredheartbayside.
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 16, 1:30-2:30pm and 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: My Gym Fresh Meadows, 176-60 Union Turnpike, Suite 310, Fresh Meadows AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Bring the kids to enjoy Christmas songs, dances, games, relays, cookies and milk, and pictures with Santa. WANT TO GO? $18. 718-380-4599. mygym.com/queens.
‘Navidad: A Mexican-American Christmas’
WHEN: Through Dec. 16: Fridays-Saturdays, 8pm; Sundays, 4pm WHERE: Thalia Spanish Theatre, 41-17 Greenpoint Ave., Sunnyside AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the holiday traditions experienced by a young person of Mexican immigrant parents growing up in New York City. From Aztecinspired dance to Christmas carols, the youngster tries to bring the two worlds together. WANT TO GO? $45; $37 seniors and students. 718-729-3880. thaliatheatre.org.
Holiday Movie Magic FREE
WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 4, 1pm WHERE: Rochdale Village Library, 169-09 137 Ave., Jamaica AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Learn more about staying safe when shopping online in these informative, hands-on sessions. WANT TO GO? 718-723-4440. queenslibrary.org.
WHEN: Through Dec. 26: Saturday, Mondays, and select Thursdays, 1pm WHERE: Rochdale Village Library, 169-09 137th Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Families are welcome to see a childhood classic or a new favorite! 12/1: A Rugrats Hannukah, 12/8: Home Alone, 12/10: A Charlie Brown Christmas, 12/17: A Muppet Christmas Carol, 12/22: How the Grinch Stole Christmas, 12/26: The Proud Family - Seven Days of Kwanzaa. WANT TO GO? 718-723-4440. queenslibrary.org.
It’s Time for Kind: Holiday Cards FREE
Holiday Movie Screening FREE
Holiday Virtual Shopping FREE
WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 5, 3:30pm WHERE: Queens Village Library, 94-11 217 St., Queens Village AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Celebrate the holidays by making cards for senior citizens and the homebound as an act of kindness. WANT TO GO? queenslibrary.org.
Voices of New York Holiday Choral Concert FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 8, 2:30pm WHERE: Forest Hills Library, 108-19 71st Ave., Forest Hills AGES: All WHAT: This 25-member community chorus based in Manhattan presents their annual concert of sacred and secular Christmas and Hanukkah music. WANT TO GO? 718-268-7934. queenslibrary.org.
34th Annual Kwanzaa Celebration FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 8, 11am - 7pm WHERE: Langston Hughes Library-Community Cultural Center, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All 24
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WHEN: Dec. 15 -29, Saturday and Thursday, 2:30pm; Wednesday and Friday, 12:30pm WHERE: Bayside Library, 214-20 Northern Blvd., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: Watch movies together with families, friends, or other library patrons. Dec. 15: The Man Who Invented Christmas, Dec. 22: A Christmas Carol, Dec. 26: How the Grinch Stole Christmas Dec. 27: The Incredibles 2, Dec. 28: Mr. Peabody & Sherman WANT TO GO? 718-229-1834. queenslibrary.org.
Gingerbread Lane
WHEN: Through Jan. 21, 2019: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; Saturday and Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: A holiday tradition not to be missed! Visitors marvel at homemade gingerbread houses made entirely of edible gingerbread, royal icing, and candy. WANT TO GO? $16 adults; $13 children, students, and senior citizens. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.
SMARTY PANTS Think Tank: Evergreen Experiments
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 1pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children will be challenged to form a hypothesis based on the materials of the day, then draw conclusions based on their experiments. WANT TO GO? $24. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.
Relationship Repair and Reconnection Workshop
WHEN: Monday, Dec. 3, 7-9pm WHERE: Paul Schreiber High School Adult Education, 101 Campus Drive, Port Washington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Aviva Chansky Guttmann, an advanced imago clinician and certified imago relationship therapist, will offer an interactive workshop demonstrating the key components of Imago Therapy. WANT TO GO? $35. 516-767-5023. avivachanskyguttmann.com.
Starry, Starry Night Pajama Party
WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 6:30pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Parents can drop off their little ones for an evening of astronomy fun including star gazing and a make-and-take galaxy in a bottle. WANT TO GO? $24. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.
Constellation Celebration
WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 6:30pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids will explore the night sky. The evening includes an astral snack, outer space film, and a make-and-take star map with some stardust slime to go. WANT TO GO? $24. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.
Kids’ Discovery Club FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Tuesdays, 3:30pm WHERE: Queens Library - Howard Beach Branch, 92-06 156 Ave., Howard Beach AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Something new every week! Will it be science, art, or math? There is always a surprise for kids, and their friends and families. WANT TO GO? 718-641-7086. queenslibrary.org.
Retold with Tech FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Tuesdays, 4pm WHERE: Broadway Library, 40-20 Broadway, Long Island City AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Reinterpret your favorite books using tech tools, apps, and programs. WANT TO GO? 718-721-2462. queenslibrary.org.
STACKS Program FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Monday-Friday 4:30pm, except Dec. 25 WHERE: Poppenhusen Library, 121-23 14th Ave., College Point AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Activities include STEM and literacy-based activities that complement the school curriculum. WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.
SHOW TIME! Renaldo and Little Lou- Circus Clowns
WHEN: Dec. 1-2, Saturday-Sunday, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Laugh and clap along with the juggling, pranks, magic, and humor of these world-class clowns. They engage with the audience directly and bring volunteers on stage. WANT TO GO? $12. 516-224-5800. licm.org.
Magic Show with Speedo The Clown and Company FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 15, 3pm WHERE: Arverne Library, 312 Beach 54 St., Arverne AGES: 3 and older WHAT: This fun-filled event will feature balloon twisting and magic! WANT TO GO? 718-634-4784. queenslibrary.org.
The Nutcracker and Visit to Santa’s Toyland
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 16, 3:30pm WHERE: Laguardia Performing Arts Center Mainstage Theater, 31-10 Thomson Ave., Long Island City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy this charming tale of a little girl’s journey through a fantasy world of dolls, toy soldiers, an army of mice, snowflakes, princes, and fairies, plus visit Santa in a magical toy land and receive a free gift. WANT TO GO? $20. 718-482-5151. lpac.nyc.
‘Charlotte’s Web’
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 16, 1pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Corona AGES: 5-12, adult WHAT: This treasured tale explores bravery and the true meaning of friendship. WANT TO GO? $14; $12 seniors; $10 family flex pass. 718-860-0064. queenstheatre.org.
The Big Bolt!
WHEN: Through Dec. 30: See website for times WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Jimmi is a confident, curious girl and aspiring engineer who loves to build and explore the neighborhood with her friendly dog Conrad. WANT TO GO? $23; $22 seniors and children; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org. ›› QueensParent 25
with a high-energy performance of seasonal favorites! WANT TO GO? $35 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.
Clementi & Co: An Evening of Baroque and Chamber Music
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 6:30pm WHERE: King Manor Museum, 150-03 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: 9 and older WHAT: A beautiful evening of wintry, festive music! WANT TO GO? $15. 718-206-0545. kingmanor.org.
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MUSICIANS Long Island Flute Club Holiday Concert
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 1pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: The Long Island Flute Club performs holiday favorites in the Red Ballroom. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children younger than 7. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.
FEI Music: A Fusion Music Concert
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 2:30pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 9 and older WHAT: From Jay Chou to Beyoncé, this concert brings East and West popular cultures together on one stage. WANT TO GO? $16; $10 students; free for teens. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.
LITHIUM The 90’s Experience Concert FREE
WHEN: Monday, Dec. 3, 6pm WHERE: Central Library, 89-11 Merrick Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 13 and older WHAT: A ‘90s grunge rock band featuring some of the best musicians in the tri-state area assembled in one band. WANT TO GO? 718-990-0700. queenslibrary.org.
Co-Written: An Evening of Songs Written by Young People of Color FREE
WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 7:30pm WHERE: Jamaica Center for Arts & Learning, 160-04 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: The songs that emerge from these workshops seek to empower the youth with a sense of ownership by crediting them as co-writers. WANT TO GO? 718-658-7400. jcal.org.
Swingtime Big Band: Swing In The Holidays!
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WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 2pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Come welcome this exciting youth orchestra to Queens! WANT TO GO? $10; free for students and teens. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.
JCAL Thursday Night Jazz: Caroline Davis’ Heart Tonic
WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 13, 8pm WHERE: Jamaica Center for Arts & Learning, 160-04 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: For the past four years, saxophonist/composer Caroline Davis has been tied up in matters of the heart- all of which come to bear on her new recording, Heart Tonic. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-658-7400. jcal.org.
New Music Horizons: Collaborative Artists in Concert
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 15, 8pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The evening features jazz composers Roberta Piket and Mark Wade in concert. Each will present a set of their original works with an informal Q&A to follow. WANT TO GO? $10; free for students and teens. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.
Lioness Presents Lauren Sevian’s LSQ
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 16, 2pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Lioness, a concert series featuring women in jazz, is curated by Convergence Arts. WANT TO GO? $5; free for students and teens. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.
2018 Holiday Concert
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 16, 4pm WHERE: Queensborough Performing Arts Center, 222-05 56th Ave., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the holiday season with Christmas and Hanukkah songs performed by The Orchestral Arts Ensemble of Queens. WANT TO GO? $40; $35 seniors and students; $10 children. 718-631-6311. visitqpac.org.
Laughin’ Rockin’ New Year’s Eve 2018
WHEN: Monday, Dec. 31, 6pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Enjoy the music and stories of Sinatra and Bennet, played by the great sidemen of the era, plus top-notch comedians. WANT TO GO? See website. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.
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LITTLE FOODIES Make Your Own Gingerbread House FREE
Saturday Movies: ‘The Polar Express FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 10:30am WHERE: St. Albans Library, 191-05 Linden Blvd., St. Albans AGES: All WHAT: On Christmas Eve, a young boy embarks on a magical adventure to the North Pole on the Polar Express while learning about friendship, bravery, and the spirit of Christmas. WANT TO GO? 718-528-8196. queenslibrary.org.
Fall 2018 Film Series: Therapeutic Cinema FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 12: See website WHERE: Queens Museum, 111-01 Corona Ave., Flushing AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Whether the focus is on a patient or a therapist, these movies offer a peek into the myriad workings of the mind. WANT TO GO? $8; $4 seniors; free for children 18 and younger. 718-592-9700.
Film Screening: George Balanchine’s ‘The Nutcracker’ FREE WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 12, 2pm WHERE: Hillcrest Library, 187-05 Union Turnpike, Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Watch New York City Ballet’s performance of The Nutcracker choreographed by George Balanchine. WANT TO GO? 718-454-2786. queenslibrary.–org.
It’s Time for Kind: Cinema Saturdays FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 15: Saturdays, 2:30pm WHERE: Forest Hills Library, 108-19 71st Ave., Forest Hills AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Sit back and enjoy great feature films that focus on the importance of kindness. Dec. 1: The Secret Garden, Dec. 8: Pollyanna, Dec. 15: Elf WANT TO GO? 718-268-7934. queenslibrary.org.
It’s Time for Kind Movie Screenings FREE
WHEN: Dec. 2 -23, Sundays, 2:15pm WHERE: Kew Gardens Hills Library, 72-33 Vleigh Place, Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: In keeping with the act of kindness, enjoy these family film screenings: 12/2: Wonder, 12/23: Radio WANT TO GO? 718-261-6654. queenslibrary.org.
It’s Time for Kind: Family Movie FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Saturdays, 2:30pm WHERE: Woodside Library, 54-22 Skillman Ave., Woodside AGES: All WHAT: Come see a family-friendly movie celebrating the spirit of the season. WANT TO GO? 718-429-4700. queenslibrary.org.
WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 6, 4pm WHERE: Bellerose Library, 250-06 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Time to decorate the gingerbread house before Christmas WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org.
Young Chefs: Winter is Coming
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 8, 10:30am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Young Chefs will decorate and enjoy cupcakes and hot cocoa. WANT TO GO? $24. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.
Little Cooks: Fill your Coat with Oats
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 8, 11am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Hang out with Doug the Bobwhite Quail WANT TO GO? $22. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.
2018 Gingerbread Lane Workshops
WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Saturdays-Sundays, and Friday 12/27, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Create gingerbread houses and trains with gingerbread, icing, and candy. WANT TO GO? $15. 718-699-0005. nysci.org. ››
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WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Wednesday-Thursday, 10:30am-2pm; Fridays, 10:30am-8pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11:30am-7pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 35-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: All WHAT: This is a one-of-a-kind experience that immerses visitors in the creative and technical process of producing, promoting, and presenting digital entertainment. WANT TO GO? $15; $11 seniors; $7 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3. 718-777-6888. movingimage.us.
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NUTCRACKER PERFORMANCES Tchaikovsky’s Nutcracker
WHEN: Through Dec. 2: Friday, 7:30pm; Saturday, 5pm; Sunday, 4pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: With a full score, this magical extravaganza features guest ballet stars of international prestige and talented young dancers from the metro area. WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.
The State Ballet Theatre of Russia Presents ‘The Nutcracker’
MOVERS & SHAKERS The Jingle Bell Run for Arthritis
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 8:30am registration; 10am 5K run WHERE: Hofstra University North Campus, 1000 Fulton Ave., Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: Bring a team of friends, family, and co-workers to run or walk. 100 percent of your registration fee and fundraising efforts go to this great cause. WANT TO GO? $35; $20 children. 917-794-2711. jbr.org/longisland.
Music and Movement
WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 5, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy creative exercises and interactive sing-alongs that get little bodies moving to the rhythm. WANT TO GO? $17; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.
Toddler and Preschool Play Date FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Thursdays, 1:30pm WHERE: Queens Village Library, 94-11 217 St., Queens Village AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Children and their caretakers can drop in for circle time, stories, and open play. Come join this great opportunity for socialization and early literacy development WANT TO GO? queenslibrary.org.
The Original Harlem Globetrotters
WHEN: Friday, Dec. 28, 2pm and 7pm WHERE: NYCB Live Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: A star-studded roster will have fans on the edge of their seats to witness the ball handling wizardry, basketball artistry, and one-of-a-kind family entertainment. WANT TO GO? $26.50 and up. 516-231-4848. ticketmaster.com.
NYRR Open Run: Astoria Park FREE
WHEN: Through June 1, 2019: Saturdays, 9am WHERE: Astoria Park Track, 19 Street and Astoria Park South, Astoria AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a community-based, volunteer-led running initiative for free weekly runs and walks to local neighborhood parks. WANT TO GO? 212-360-3300. nycgovparks.org. 28
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WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 15, 7pm WHERE: Kupferberg Center for the Arts- Colden Auditorium, 65-30 Kissena Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: This treasured holiday adventure follows a little girl’s journey through a fantasy world of fairies, princes, toy soldiers, and an army of mice. WANT TO GO? $23 and up. 718-793-8080. kupferbergcenter.org.
‘The Shell-Shocked Nut’
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 15, 2pm WHERE: Jamaica Performing Arts Center, 153-10 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a new performance that upends the classic structure the Nutcracker to take a veteran and a child on a journey through NYC. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children. 718-658-7400. jcal.org.
‘The Nutcracker’ By The Joffrey Ballet School
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 16, 3:30pm WHERE: LaGuardia Performing Arts Center at LaGuardia Community College, 31-10 Thomson Ave., Long Island City AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This performance is a l-hour rendition, and just when you think the excitement has ended, participants can visit Santa. WANT TO GO? $20; $10 children. 718-482-5151. lpac.nyc.
Ohman’s New York Dance Theatre ‘The Nutcracker’
WHEN: Dec. 15-16, Saturday, 12pm; Sunday, 5pm WHERE: Hofstra University- John Cranford Adams Playhouse, 102B Adams Playhouse, Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: This show brings joy to young and old alike with added music, scenes, dances, all performed in the tradition of George Balanchine. WANT TO GO? $42; $32 children 12 and younger, and seniors 65 and older. 631-462-0964. ohmanballet.org. ››
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SPECIAL NEEDS We Can Be Superheroes Day FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 11am WHERE: Douglaston-Little Neck Library, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Come to the library and make crafts that are perfect for snowy days! WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 11am-1pm WHERE: Ridgewood Library, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: All WHAT: See demonstrations of the TAPit® platform, the first assistive learning center using “intended touch” to serve each individual’s special needs. WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.
Hands On History: Make an 18th-Century Scented Ornament FREE
ArtAccess: Open Studio For Young Adults with Autism FREE
‘Erasures’ Exhibition Opening
‘Charlotte’s Web’ ASL Interpretation/Sensory Relaxed Performance
Snowy Day Crafts FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 1-4pm WHERE: King Manor Museum, 150-03 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: 3-5, 5-8, 9-12, Adult WHAT: Participants can make their own pomander (scented ornament), then learn about Rufus King- founding father and early voice in the antislavery movement. WANT TO GO? 718-206-0545. kingmanor.org. WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 2:30pm-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Historical Society- Kingsland Homestead, 143-35 37th Ave., Flushing AGES: 13 and older WHAT: This exhibition will show the everyday lives of immigrant, working-class families of Flushing through the lens of poetry installations. WANT TO GO? $5; $3 students and seniors. 718-939-0647. queenshistoricalsociety.org.
Puppetry Workshop
WHEN: Through Dec. 16: See website for dates and times WHERE: Queens Museum, 111-01 Corona Ave., Flushing AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Participants work on projects of their choosing and with mentors, encouraging exploration and expression. WANT TO GO? 718-592-9700. queensmuseum.org.
WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 16, 3pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Corona AGES: 5-12, Adult WHAT: This treasured tale, featuring endearing farm animals, explores bravery, selfless love, and the true meaning of friendship. WANT TO GO? $14; $12 seniors; $10 family flex pass. 718-860-0064. queenstheatre.org.
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 8, 1pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Families will work together to build shadow puppets and write and perform a short story together! WANT TO GO? $8; $5 children; free for teens. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.
It’s Time for Kind: Kindness FOREVERgreen Tree FREE
WHEN: Dec. 3 -15, 12-8pm, see website for exact dates WHERE: Auburndale Library, 25-55 Francis Lewis Blvd., Flushing AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Kids can decorate and write an act of kindness on a snowflake, while adults and teens choose a snowflake ornament and fulfill the kindness act written within. WANT TO GO? 718-352-2027. queenslibrary.org.
It’s Time For Kind: Cards and Coloring Sheets for Hospitalized Kids, Seniors, and Soldiers FREE
WHEN: Dec. 4 -18, Tuesdays, 3:30pm WHERE: Glendale Library at the Atlas Park Mall, 8000 Cooper Ave., Glendale AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Make cards or drawings that will be shared with hospitalized kids, seniors, and troops overseas. WANT TO GO? 718-821-4980. queenslibrary.org.
Kids Create FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Saturdays, 2pm WHERE: South Jamaica Library, 108-41 Guy R. Brewer Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Draw, trace, or color in a laid-back environment where art supplies are provided. WANT TO GO? 718-739-4088. queenslibrary.org.
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ONCE UPON A TIME Animal Tales: Winter Celebration
ANIMAL LOVERS Animal Alive with Alley Pond Environmental Center FREE
WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 12, 3:30pm WHERE: East Flushing Library, 196-36 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: This interactive lesson offers observation and handling of live animals. WANT TO GO? 718-357-6643. queenslibrary.org.
Winter Owl Prowl
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 22, 4pm and 5:30pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: A wildlife expert from Volunteers for Wildlife brings live owls for a meet and greet and later leads the outdoor search. WANT TO GO? $14; $10 children ages 7-17. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.
Winter Warm-Up
WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 27, 10am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 3-5, Adult WHAT: Learn about how local animals survive the winter months, bundle up for a nature walk, make a craft to take home, and play. WANT TO GO? $18. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.
Winter Survival
WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 27, 10am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Learn about physical and behavioral adaptations of forest animals through interactive activities, science-themed children’s literature, and a craft. WANT TO GO? $24. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.
Animal Care Club
WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 27, 10am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children will learn about the needs of APEC’s animals, and gain hands-on experience in feeding, brushing, and cleaning them. WANT TO GO? $24. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.
Winter Break Camp
WHEN: Dec. 26 -28, 9am-3pm, see website for exact days WHERE: Queens Zoo, 3-51 111th St., Corona AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Explore the zoo with hands-on activities and animal encounters. WANT TO GO? Call for cost. 800-433-4149. queenszoo.com. 30
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WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 11am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Share a seasonal book, make a craft, enjoy a nature walk, and meet live animal guests that are characters from the story. WANT TO GO? $18. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.
Day of the Ninja Story Time Party for Kids FREE
WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 5, 4pm WHERE: Queensboro Hill Library, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children will hear stories about ninjas and make a ninja craft. They are welcome to come dressed as ninjas! WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332. queenslibrary.org.
Gingerbread Adventures Family Story and Craft Time FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 8, 3pm WHERE: Broadway Library, 40-20 Broadway, Long Island City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: After listening to The Gingerbread Boy and other cookie-themed stories, kids will decorate a gingerbread boy or girl paper chain and make a paper-bag gingerbread house! WANT TO GO? 718-721-2462. queenslibrary.org.
Queens Theatre Reads from ‘Charlotte’s Web’ by E.B. White FREE
WHEN: Friday, Dec. 14, 4:30pm WHERE: Langston Hughes Library-Community Cultural Center, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Corona AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Children can play theater games together and listen as an actor from Queens Theatre reads from Charlotte’s Web by E. B. White. WANT TO GO? 718-875-3500. queenslibrary.org.
Musical Bubble Mother Goose and Toddler Time FREE
WHEN: Through Dec. 26: Wednesdays, 10:30-11:45am WHERE: Queensboro Hill Library, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Families will listen to interactive stories and hand rhymes, including music, bubbles, and an alphabet craft. WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332. queenslibrary.org.
Coming up next month: JAN. 10-13, 2019: Disney on Ice Presents: Frozen at NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, Uniondale JAN. 19, 2019: CRICK! CRACK! at Jamaica Performing Arts Center, Jamaica JAN. 27, 2019: The Havana Cuba All-Stars at Queensborough Performing Arts Center, Bayside
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HOLIDAY JOYS for Girls & Boys Compiled by Anja Webb
Happy Holidays! Whether you’re celebrating Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or Christmas, or just enjoying a cozy winter with your loved ones, December is certainly the most wonderful time of the year! Spend some time outside at an ice-skating rink (or inside, too!) and grab a delicious hot cocoa afterward to warm up from the chilly weather. Head out of town to hand cut your Christmas tree. And if the frost and snow of a winter day doesn’t make your heart sing, check out one of our favorite indoor play spaces to beat cabin fever without freezing.
BEST HOT COCOA SPOTS Cannelle Patisserie
75-59 31st Ave., Jackson Heights 718-565-6200; cannellepatisserie.com Monday-Friday, 6:30am-8pm; Saturday, 7am-8pm; Sunday, 7am-4pm Original hot chocolate is a homemade blend of milk and dark chocolates, milk, vanilla, and secret ingredients. The French patisserie also serves more than 10 varieties of Harney and Sons full-leaf teas, as well as classic Lipton. Additionally, Canelle serves a wide array of quiches, sandwiches, cakes, and tarts. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/hot-chocolate
CUT-YOUR-OWN CHRISTMAS TREE Shamrock Christmas Tree Farm
20685 Main Road, Mattituck 631-298-4619 or 631-298-4118; shamrockchristmastreefarm.com Hours: Open Nov. 23-Dec. 24, daily, 9am-5pm Tools and assistance provided. Pre-cut trees, handmade wreaths, and crafts also available. Santa appearances on weekends, 12-5pm. Shamrock Express train rides (weather permitting) and a fire pit to enjoy while you’re waiting for your ride. Ornaments, nutcrackers, tree toppers, and more available in the gift shop. No pets allowed. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/christmas-tree
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ICE-SKATING
ACD Playspace
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31-24 38th St., Astoria 718-204-ACDP (2237); acdplayspace.com Since opening, ACD has joined up with many businesses such as Petite Ballroom, Kids Music Together, The Pineapple Explorers Club, and Soccer Friends USA. Its goal is to provide a safe and educational space for children to learn and grow through exploring, music, dance, and play most of all!
131-35 Avery Ave., Flushing Meadows-Corona Park, Flushing 718-760-9001; worldice.com Hours: Year-round: Through July 3, 2019: Monday-Thursday, 10:30am-5:15pm; Friday, 9am-5:15pm; Saturday, 12-4:45pm and 8-9:50pm; Sunday, 12-4:45pm. Opens at 11am on summer weekdays. Price: $6 weekdays; $10 weekends (starting Friday at 7pm) and holidays, including school vacation weeks. $6 skate rental.
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13 Ways to Stay Safe This Holiday Season
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It’s the most wonderful time of the year, but the holidays are also fraught with potential home safety hazards. Read on as we help you keep your entire family safe this season. By Lambeth Hochwald ’
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is the season to be jolly for sure. But the holidays are also the time of year when things get so hectic that household accidents can easily occur. Whether it’s a Christmas tree that topples over or a bubbling pot of mulled cider that splatters, it’s important to be aware of the biggest potential safety hazards around the house during the holidays, when you may be more focused on stringing lights than the toddler getting tangled in the electrical cord. Here are the 13 most important things you can do to stay safe this holiday season. Practice smart Christmas tree set-up. Once you’ve hauled your tree into your home, make sure to place it in a sturdy, appropriately sized stand. You need to take this crucial step to ensure it doesn’t become a tipping hazard, says Debra Holtzman, a nationally recognized child safety and health expert and the author of The Safe Baby. “To prevent your tree from tipping over, securely anchor it or put a safety gate around it,” she says. In addition, place your tree away from the busiest trafficked areas in your home. “Always place it out of the doorways, exits, and heat sources,” she says. Stay on top of family members’ tree allergies. Some live Christmas trees, including cedars, can cause asthma, allergies, and an itchy skin rash because they can be filled with mold spores and allergens, says Robert Weitz, a certified microbial investigator and founder of RTK Environmental, a mold testing and mold inspec-
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tion company in New York City. In addition, the needles on pine, spruce, and fir trees are a definite choking hazard. How do you know if a family member may be allergic? “Rashes can be a sign of mold allergy or sensitivity,” Weitz says. “Other symptoms can include headaches, fatigue, throat and eye irritations, wheezing, and many respiratory problems including asthma.” If your child suffers from allergies or asthma, consider purchasing a fake tree. Be choosy about artificial trees. Many are manufactured in China and made from two items: PVC, a petroleum-based plastic, and lead, used to stabilize PVC. “The lead in the ‘greens’ breaks down into lead dust, which is released into the air, poisoning everyone, but especially children younger than six,” Weitz says. “To protect your children from lead poisoning, be sure to buy a tree that’s made in the USA.” Tip: If you’re going the artificial tree route, also make sure it’s labeled “fire resistant,” Holtzman says. Decorate safely. Only purchase décor that is made of non-combustible or flame-retardant materials, Holtzman advises. “If you have small children, avoid decorations that are sharp, breakable, weighted, or have small movable parts,” she says, “and avoid trimmings that resemble candy or food that may tempt a child to eat them.” Some decorations may contain lead, cadmium (a toxic metal), or other toxic materials that can be harmful to young children, so it’s best to stow all holiday decorations out of reach. Tip: There’s an easy way to iden-
tify objects that are too small for your child. “If the object itself or a detachable part fits through an empty toilet paper roll, it is unsafe and should be kept away from children under the age of three years and from any child who still puts objects in her mouth,” Holtzman says. Assess your plants. There’s nothing like filling your home with cheery seasonal plants such as mistletoe, holly, Christmas rose, and Jerusalem cherry. However, these are all quite poisonous. “Be sure to keep these plants (and all plants) out of the reach of small children,” Holtzman says. Also, while those ubiquitous Christmastime poinsettias were once blamed for a death about a century ago, recent studies indicate they’re not as toxic as was thought at that time, Holtzman says. However, they may cause some gastric irritation and burning in the mouth if the leaves are ingested, so make sure your little ones stay away from them. Important tip: If you suspect your child has ingested a poisonous plant, call the Poison Help Line at 1-800-222-1222 ASAP. Skip the candles. While they add wonderful atmosphere to a holiday celebration, avoid them, Holtzman says. “Consider using electric or battery-operated flameless candles instead,” she says. If you just can’t quit the candles, keep them on a stable, heat-resistant surface in sight where kids and pets cannot reach them or knock them over. “And always make sure you extinguish them when you leave the room or home or go to sleep, and never use lit candles to decorate the tree,” Holtzman adds. Use caution with electric lights. This means using only lights that have been tested for safety by a nationally recognized testing laboratory such as Underwriters Laboratories. “And make sure to check outdoor lights for labels showing that the lights have been certified for outdoor use, and only plug them into a ground-fault circuit interrupter-protected receptacle or to a portable GFCI,” Holtzman says. “To be safe always read the manufacturer’s instructions for the maximum number of light strands to connect. Replace any strand [that has] a frayed cord or loose bulb connections.” Practice fireplace safety. Once a year you should hire a professional chimney sweep to prevent build-up and potential fire hazards in your fireplace, Holtzman says. “In addition, be sure to put a safety gate in the doorway to the room with a fireplace or install a hearth gate around the area,” she adds. Never leave your fire unattended. “Extinguish the fire fully before leaving the house or going to bed and allow the ashes to cool before removing them,” she says. Ashes should be disposed of in a tightly covered metal container and placed outdoors, at least 10 feet from the home and any other nearby buildings. “Never empty the ash directly into a trash can,” Holtzman says. “Always douse and saturate the ashes with water.” Take precautions with button batteries. You know those small, shiny batteries that are found in flashing holiday jewelry or holiday decorations? They’re a severe choking hazard. “When swallowed, a coin-sized lithium battery can lodge in the throat of a child,” Holtzman says. “Saliva then triggers an electrical current, causing a chemical reaction that can severely burn the esophagus in as little as two hours. The chemicals in the battery can also cause serious harm to a child if the battery is inserted into the ear or nose.” Your best bet: Corral any item that contains lithium batteries including your remote controls, toys, singing greeting cards, digital thermometers, flameless candles, calculators, key fobs, watches, flashing holiday jewelry, or decorations. “Know which items and devices in your home have button batteries,” Holtzman says. “Children love to pick up gadgets, play with them, and take them apart. Duct tape battery compartments if they do not have a screw to secure them closed, and keep these objects out of the sight and reach of small children.”
Keep alcohol out of reach. That bowl of spiked holiday punch and those cups of leftover drinks (including the ice cubes in them) that may be strewn around the house should be kept out of reach of children at all times. Ditto for the eggnog. “Alcohol affects children more drastically than adults, so even small amounts of alcohol can be dangerous,” Holtzman says. “Remove all empty and partially empty cups as soon as possible.” Plan menus around guests’ allergies. The holidays are a wonderful time for friends and family to get together, but a celebration can go seriously awry if any guests have allergies to the foods you are serving or the ones that are being brought to a potluck. Send around a list of foods you plan to serve to your guests before they arrive at your house so you’re sure to keep your visitors safe. Place choking-hazard treats out of reach. For many families, holiday parties are best known for featuring delicious homemade Chex mix and bowls of mixed nuts. “Those are exactly the types of foods you should keep out of the reach of young children,” Holtzman says. “Any firm round foods such as popcorn, nuts, and candy canes should be kept as far away from children as possible because they pose a choking risk.” Create an no-kid zone. If you’re planning to serve food from your stovetop, whether it’s a bowl of chili, stew, or other cold-weather goodies, make your kitchen a no-kid zone, Holtzman says. Consider this a safe way to make sure your cuties don’t get splashed, burned, or injured while you’re cooking. Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in New York City.
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appy holidays! Many of you who celebrate Christmas have already unpacked your Elf on the Shelf and begun plotting the hijinks your little guy will get into for the ’gram. But is Elf on the Shelf really for everyone? While he’s loved by many, there are those who find the steelyeyed sprite manipulative or even—dare we say?—creepy. Let’s take a moment to think about the pros and cons of Santa’s little spy.
A Cute and Cherished Tradition
Now don’t get us wrong: We can see the value in creating a holiday tradition for your household. And, of course, we’ve all seen the pictures on social media of the little cuties bathing in marshmallow baths, sleeping in tissue boxes, and playing mini games of Twister with My Little Pony. A lot of families think their elf adds that extra dash of Christmas magic to their holiday season. “My kids absolutely love it! It’s such a fun experience for them in preparation for Christmas,” says Antoinette McCune, a mother of three. “It’s also a fun, and sometimes stressful, game for us as parents to try and think of new ways to hide our little elf.” And let’s not forget that the elf encourages kids to be on their best behavior during the month of December, which can certainly make parenting a little bit easier. “My son loves it! It works to remind him that Santa is watching if he is being good,” says Frank Martinez, a father of two. After all, a big part of the Santa lore is that ‘he sees you when you’re sleeping,’ whether that be through good old-fashioned omniscience or a scout elf.
(S)elfish Motives?
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his parents misplaced it. The parents didn’t think anything of it, but every day after school he would come home and search the whole house for his elf. After seeing it wasn’t there, he assumed he was disliked by the elf,” says Sadie Sparks. “Trying to instill positive morals on a child by tricking them also seems very counterproductive to society.” Though it may seem a bit harsh, others also feel it’s selfinterested for parents to use the Elf to teach morals. And, they add, it’s an approach that may backfire: The concept of being constantly under surveillance could scare the child or teach him that he should only behave when there is some tangible benefit to him, like getting presents. “It really depends on the level of trust in the parent-child relationship. I definitely valued my privacy and my mom respected it to a degree,” says Brandon Klemm, a chef and pizza maker who grew up with the elf. “I don’t know how I feel about kids being afraid of being themselves because they believe they’re being watched at all times.” Now, that’s not entirely the Elf ’s fault; as previously mentioned, legend has it that Santa’s constantly watching kids. But something about having that abstract concept materialized and in the home doesn’t quite sit well with everyone.
A Less Invasive Elf
So what can we parents do if we still want a snazzy little add-on to our holiday celebrations, but one that doesn’t instill in our child a fear of being watched at all times? Well, we could try repurposing our Elf on the Shelf. “I had an alternate version in my house growing up. It was called the Kindness Elf and my mom did a pretty good job of
making it a positive thing,” says Lauren Farrell, a student at New York University. “It was generally kept in public spaces within the house and every day I had to find the elf and it was always holding a different card that challenged me to do something kind for someone that day.”
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How to Save Money on Holiday Shopping
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You don’t have to go into debt to buy great gifts for everyone on your list! These tips will help you stick to your budget while snagging real bargains. By Denise Porretto
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t’s that time of year again, when gifts and toys are delivered free of charge to your living room, pre-wrapped and labeled, making every family member’s dreams come true. All you need to do is leave out a few cookies. If only it were so. In reality, holiday prep plays out more like this: You overpay for the popular toys your kids want. Giftwrap is surprisingly expensive— newspaper, anyone? In exasperation, you eat all the cookies. Holiday shopping is difficult, but don’t lose hope. There are plenty of ways to save money. We’ve spoken to some experts who know just how you can control your seasonal spending; read on for their smart advice.
each name and stick to it!” says Rachel Cruze, New York Times best-selling co-author, with her dad Dave Ramsey, of Smart Money Smart Kids. Download a free budgeting app such as EveryDollar, which has interactive visuals and goal-planning features. Another handy app, one for your phone, is Santa’s Bag. It includes holiday-specific features such as the ability to import receipts, plan budgets, create shopping lists, locate gifts, and track shopping progress.
Pre-Shopping Strategies
Locate any unused gift cards you have. You can spend them to buy holiday gifts, food, and décor, or sell them at a gift card exchange site such as Cardpool.com or Raise.com for some ready cash. (If you’re looking for gift cards, you can also purchase them on these sites at a percentage off face value.)
Create a list and a budget. “As you write down the names of everyone that you have to buy for, put a dollar amount next to
Sign up for cash-back sites that give you a rebate—typically 2-5 percent—on just about anything you buy online. Popular sites include Ebates.com, Shopathome.com, Mrrebates.com, and TopCashback.com. They work very simply: You go to the
Before you set foot in a brick-and-mortar store or click the “purchase” button, do the following:
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cash-back site and locate the store you want to shop. Then you purchase your desired item to earn your rebate, which can be paid to you in a variety of ways. Ebates, for example, will send you your accumulated rebate every quarter in the form of a check, a PayPal deposit, or, in some instances, as a digital gift card. Collect coupons. Many consumers think coupons are relics from the past. Not so; they’ve just gone digital. So put down those scissors and go online. Some well-trafficked coupon sites include Coupons.com, TheKrazyCouponLady.com, RetailMeNot.com, and CouponSherpa. com. Most of the sites offer coupons that can be used in a physical or digital store. Additionally, Honey is a browser extension that will automatically apply all coupon codes available to find the one that will save you the most money at select online retailers. Sign up with online stores, “like” their Facebook page, or follow them on Twitter, so you can be alerted to upcoming sales and promotions. You may end up getting an enormous amount of emails, but if you’re patient enough you may find what you’re looking for at a great price, and sometimes with free shipping too.
While You’re Shopping
Now that you’ve planned and are ready to stock up on gifts, remember to: Track the rise and fall of prices. It’s difficult to pin down an item’s price during the hectic holidays; even Amazon changes the prices of individual items frequently. The site CamelCamelCamel.com is designed for shopping on Amazon—it generates alerts based on price and availability, so you can be notified when the price for a desired item drops to a predetermined point. In addition, the site has price history charts for more than 18 million Amazon items. Be cyber-cart smart. One way you can potentially score coupons to an online store is by providing your email address and adding merchandise to your cart—and then abandoning it. This may trigger an automated coupon to be delivered to your inbox. You may have been willing to purchase the items at full price, but by waiting a couple of days, you can buy your merchandise at 10-20 percent off. Harness the power of price-matching apps. Whether you’re shopping online or at the mall, you can use a price-matching app to compare prices. The Flipp app brings up flyers from other stores, so you can easily determine where to find the best bargains. If the app shows a better price for an item at another store, you can show the cashier proof. (Many big box stores will match a lower price for the same item.) With Earny, your credit card and email link to the app so your past purchases can be tracked. If you’re eligible for a price adjustment you can get the money back automatically. Finally, InvisibleHand is a browser extension that notifies you if the product you’re shopping for is available for less from another retailer. A convenient button links you to the relevant page on the competing website. Come to stores prepared to crunch numbers. If you’re headed to a brick-and-mortar shop, have a calculator available so you can figure out the exact price of an item, including any discounts and sales tax. (You may lose the ability to do calculations in your head when you’re tired and the store is crowded). Bring cold, hard cash. “You actually spend less when you use cash,” Cruze explains. “Cash is emotional. You feel it when you
pay with tangible currency. You don’t get that same sensation when you swipe a piece of plastic. Also, you’ll be less anxious when you use cash because you know to stop spending when the money runs out. Even if you can’t buy everything you want, you’ll still feel relieved about not having to make a payment in the new year!” Shop on Black Friday—or not. If you’re convinced that Black Friday offers the best deals, then head to the mall in the wee hours. Indeed, Black Friday does have incomparable sales, such as classic toys at 40-50 percent off. If you’d rather bypass the chaos, however, venture out later in the day. “All the heavily promoted items will probably be gone, but you can still find pretty good deals while avoiding the crazy crowds that pile in when the doors open,” Cruze says. Set your sights on Cyber Monday, which is the Black Friday of the Internet. You can find a lot of good deals without having to camp out in a parking lot all night, Cruze says. In addition to shopping the sales at online stores, you may want to browse eBay. The reason? Some shoppers hit the stores on Black Friday to purchase popular items at rock-bottom prices and then sell them for a profit on eBay. So with a bit of luck, you may be able to pick up that gift at only a small premium over its Black Friday price. Don’t overlook off-peak shopping times. After the big sale days are over, try either shopping online on Tuesdays, as cyber retailers tend to offer their best deals on that day, or at brick-and-mortar stores in the evenings. Some retailers may have the next day’s early-morning sales already in effect, saving you from having to rise at the crack of dawn. Look for last-minute steals. For all the procrastinators out there, you may even do well shopping late in the season. Some of the best deals arrive the week before Christmas, according to the New York Times. Outsmart the shopping environment. Sure, you love stores’ holiday music and ambience—but they’re up to no good. Studies have shown that Christmas songs evoke nostalgia and generosity, leading to larger purchases, explains Mari Corella, a retail specialist who has worked for major retailers such as Sears and Saks Fifth Avenue. The same is true of scent. “During the holidays, stores often smell of gingerbread and pine, invoking a sense of warmth,” she says, leading to—yep—more spending. Some experts recommend wearing headphones with soothing music playing to calm you during the stress of shopping. (Can you guess what stress leads to?) Even the placement of products is designed to make you spend more. Brands pay to have their items on the end of the aisles or at eye level, Corella shares: “The cost of this additional exposure is added to the cost of the product.” She recommends browsing the entire section to make sure you’re getting the best price. Think out of the (gift) box. Not everything you buy has to be expensive or from a popular retailer. Consider shopping at thrift shops for vintage items, or gathering the family together to make DIY gifts, such as personalized stationery for the grandparents. Something handmade, and from the heart, is priceless—in every sense of the word. Denise Porretto is a freelance writer living in Princeton, NJ.
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Experts suggest teens volunteer to get involved with the community and broaden their view of the world around them.
How to Raise A World-Aware Teen ›› Your child’s now old enough to grasp global issues—and to change the planet for the better, too. By Allison Ingrum
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very few minutes our phones light up with the latest news alert. From social issues to politics, there seems to be a constant flow of news cycling from around the globe. Being world-aware means understanding these issues and educating yourself about what is going on outside of yourself, your home, and your immediate neighborhood. For your teen, it also means realizing there is a world outside the latest video game or most recent post on Instagram. It isn’t always easy for your child to look beyond the bubble he exists in, though. A variety of things, from the technology that surrounds him to your own protective parenting style, can make it difficult. But with a little guidance from you, your teen can get on track to becoming a global citizen. It will benefit him, and the whole world, in the long run.
Big Kids, Big Ideas
We constantly hear that children are most likely to take risks when they’re in their teens. Sure, this can lead to accidents. But their risk-taking can also be a positive thing, putting them on the path to innovation, says Teodora Pavkovic, a parenting coach with a master’s degree in clinical psychology. The teenage years are the “most creative period of our lives,” Pavkovic says. “I think if we harness that teenage brain energy that they have, it can really make a big change for the world…[Teens] are just naturally very inquisitive, innovative. They have ideas all of the time. They want to try things out. I think they can probably help us figure things out more than we can do on our own.” The teenage years are also a time of self-exploration, and being world-aware aids a teen in figuring out her own identity, says 38
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Sophie Stoyadinovich, M.D., a life coach at Nobel Coaching, an online coaching and tutoring platform. Your teen should have as much information as possible to see where her particular interests lie and what kinds of problems she may like to solve. In fact, being world-aware might completely alter her direction in life.
What’s Blocking Your Teen’s Worldview?
While it’s only natural to feel protective of your child, being a helicopter parent can cause more harm than good. “[Kids] could get so comfortable that they become fearful of doing anything outside of their comfort zone, or you will have the flip side when they become very rebellious at some point, and you don’t want either one,” Pavkovic says. Technology can act as the other main roadblock that keeps children from being world-aware, she adds. While our devices give us access to almost any information we may need, a passive use of technology (such as scrolling through social media) has the potential to draw people into themselves in a negative way, she explains. Along with this comes a lack of critical-thinking skills. “We take our view of the world from the media, from the news...and from the things that elicit the click response,” says Andrew Sachs, CEO of Nobel Coaching. “That is a… severely distorted version.” Instead, parents should teach children of all ages to have a critical eye toward the information they take in. “They will be on social media. They will read things and they will see things on TV. I think it is always good to keep that conversation going about what they think, why they think so, how accurate they think it is, and whether they have any other sources for that,” Stoyadinovich says.
Teaching Your Child to Think Global
While your child can grow up to be world-aware on his own, this is rarely the case. We humans have an instinctive tribal nature. While this tribalism served a great purpose when humans were pack animals, now it is simply a fear that holds us back from interacting with people and places that are different, Sachs explains. It takes a team of parents and teachers to coax a child into becoming more world-aware. Try these steps: Start simple. Talk about current events around the dinner table. These stress-free, no-pressure conversations foster an environment in which your child can speak her mind. Listen to what she is passionate about and try to incorporate that into the conversations. Pair your child with a pal from another place. When your teen tries to learn a language, connect her with a student in another country who speaks the language fluently. In the process of helping each other learn, they will hear about each other’s daily life. Even if it’s only an online call or chat, it is an immersive experience. Volunteer. It’s an easy yet effective way to get your child involved with the surrounding community, explains Zelda Warner, president of the Volunteer Referral Center. And it’s a two-way street: As your child helps someone, that person simultaneously impacts his life by opening his eyes and allowing him to see the world through a new lens. He will learn to appreciate those differences, and also see how lucky he is to live the life he leads. Travel. If you can, take a family vacation to another country or give your child the opportunity to participate in a studentexchange program. And do so as soon as you are able; the sooner you travel, the earlier your child’s brain begins to expand, Sachs says. “They are able to see the world for what it is, and they are not constrained by the little bubble. A lot of us exist in a bubble,” he explains. “Having that kind of opportunity to connect with real people I think can drastically change your view on the countries they are from and the rest of the world.” Likewise, even short cruises or camps expose children to others from around the country, or possibly the world, who will share experiences and stories. Dan Appleman, author of Developing Teen Leadership, suggests enrolling your child in a summer camp outside of her comfort zone. Send an athlete to theater camp or a musician to art camp. Send your teen to an overnight camp farther from home. These small changes will allow your child to meet peers with different backgrounds and experiences. Take a cultural field trip to NYC. Not up for international travel right now? You don’t have to venture far from home to help your child become more world-aware. Luckily, here in the New York area, we have the luxury of being surrounded by many different cultures and people from diverse backgrounds. A train ride will take you to Chinatown with Little Italy one block away. Talk to your child about these cultures and eat at authentic restaurants. You can also take him to one of the many museums around New York. No matter what you do, this engaging experience will ignite his brain and get him thinking outside of his home. Model world-aware behaviors. Ultimately, remember your children are both mirrors and sponges, Pavkovic says—they reflect your behavior and absorb lessons from your actions. Whether you want your kids to use technology less, spend more time outdoors, or speak more kindly, you must do the same. Appleman seconds this sentiment, recalling parents he knows who bring their children to protests. “Have them be world-aware and have them involved in your life. Yes, there are other things
one can do in providing guidance, but there is nothing like setting an example,” he says. This being said, “we need to take into account that the older your child is, the less they are under your influence. If they are seven, yes, obviously you are their greatest role model and you are the best,” Stoyadinovich says. “But as they grow older, their peers become that for them…Your direct influence, I think, at that point gets a little bit smaller and you need to lean more toward consulting with them and providing them with opportunities rather than instructing them and pushing them to do something.” Look at what the students of Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School have done in Parkland, FL to raise awareness of gun violence. When one teen is world-aware and a leader, others will follow. In that case, millions from all over the world already have. At this rate, world-aware teens will be the ones to create a worldaware society. Allison Ingrum, a former NYMP editorial intern, is a junior at Syracuse University.
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DOCTORS & MEDICAL PROVIDERS LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Queens: 718-640-6767 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.
LICE FAIRY LICEMOTHERS 2463 S. Long Beach Road, Oceanside 866-561-0492 1755 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 866-561-0492 679 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Head 866-561-0492 fairylicemothers.com fairylicemothers@gmail.com Our treatment centers are kid-friendly and our products are 100 percent non-toxic. Treatments include two free re-checks. Whether or not you use our service, we are here to help you.
SPECIAL NEEDS DR. STEVE IMBER, PSYCHOEDUCATIONAL CONSULTANTS Serving Nassau and Suffolk counties as well as the five boroughs of NYC 61-43 186th St., Fresh Meadows 516-273-1961 Sprout Building 166 Valley St., Providence, RI 401-421-4004 dr-imber.com; scimber1@aol.com Dr. Imber has more than 40 years of experience consult-
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think socially, step by step. Working in small groups, we cover a variety of topics, including how to establish and maintain friendships and initiating and maintaining conversations.
HUG MUSIC, CREATIVE & NURTURING MUSIC LESSONS FOR EVERYBODY Music Lessons and Music Therapy 112-01 75th Ave., Lower Level, Forest Hills 718-487-4309 hugmusicny.com contact@hugmusicny.com We offer various fun and nurturing music classes including music lessons on multiple instruments, music therapy for children with special needs, and baby-toddler music classes.
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LITTLE OPTICS, INC. 192-07 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 53-15 Roosevelt Ave., Woodside 718-468-7500 Hablamos Español. littleopticsinc@yahoo.com We provide eyeglasses and professional eye care for children, including infants, and young adults. We also alleviate any self-esteem issues associated with the stigma of wearing glasses. When your child leaves Little Optics, rest assured that they will feel confident. LITTLE STEPS 1, INC. SPEECH & LANGUAGE CLINIC Adelina Samuels, M.A. C.C.C.-S.L.P. speech pathologist 63-70 Woodhaven Blvd., Rego Park 929-335-7707 littlestepsspeech.com Little Steps 1, Inc. aims to help people develop their communication abilities, as well as treat speech, language, swallowing, and voice disorders. Services include prevention, identification, evaluation, diagnosis, treatment, and rehabilitation. LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Queens: 718-640-6767 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders. STEPS TO SOCIALIZATION 13 S. Bayles Ave., Port Washington 516-767-0266 Steps to Socialization was created to help children who have difficulty socializing. We teach children how to
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COMPREHENSIVE CONSULTATION PSYCHOLOGICAL SERVICES, P.C. 114-20 Queens Blvd., Suite CS 2, Forest Hills 180 E. 79th St., Suite 1C, Manhattan 1-888-441-0015 comprehendthemind.com Dr. Sanam Hafeez, an expert in diagnosing and treating all childhood psychological and learning conditions, has a refreshing approach direct, warm, and competent. These qualities have made her sought after in the field of neuropsychology and child development. ELSA LEE, PH.D., LICENSED PSYCHOLOGIST 254-18 Northern Blvd., Suite 3, Little Neck 646-389-2283 queenspsychology.com contact@queenspsychology.com Dr. Lee is a psychologist who provides counseling and neuropsychological/psychoeducational evaluations. More than 10 years of experience in clinical and school settings. Free consultation. Services also available in Chinese.
TUTORS & TEST PREP EYE LEVEL QUEENS Eye Level Fresh Meadows 184-10 Horace Harding Expressway, Fresh Meadows 917-563-5000 Eye Level Elmhurst 87-37 Justice Ave, Elmhurst 718-393-2428 myeyelevel.com Eye Level offers math and English programs for ages 3-14. Whether the immediate goal is early learning, remedial education, or academic education, Eye Level is the answer. VILLAGE EAST GIFTED - ENRICHMENT CENTER FOR THE GIFTED LEARNER Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted provides after-school enrichment and private tutoring for gifted and talented students. We are a designated John Hopkins CTY and SAT testing center.
PartyCentral PARTY ENTERTAINMENT CLOWNS.COM Proudly serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000 718-971-5862 clowns.com
We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.
PARTY PLACES @ PLAY AMUSEMENTS 229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com
Have your next party at the newly renovated @ Play Amusements! It offers 40,000-square-feet of fun ranging from 92 arcade games, inflatables, bumper cars, roller coaster, a carousel, disco room, and laser tag!
ACD PLAYSPACE 31-24 38th St., Astoria 718-204-ACDP (2237) acdplayspace.com info@acdplayspace.com
Create your own party package or choose one of our many options. Choices include music, BEAM projection screen, games, bounce house, pizza, cake, decorations, and face painting. Check our website for more information: acdplayspace.com/parties.
AMERICAN DANCE & DRAMA 188-22 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 718-479-8522 americandanceanddrama.net
We are one of Queens’s largest and most exciting birthday party locations, offering dress-up, disco, and gymnastics parties. We also offer bubble and fog machines, cotton candy, plus crazy craft and princess parties!
BOUNCEU OF COLLEGE POINT Whitepoint Center, 13225 14th Ave., College Point 646-883-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/college-point-ny collegepoint.ny@bounceu.com
BounceU of College Point is where birthdays come to life! We provide the ultimate
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BROOKLYN BOULDERS QUEENSBRIDGE 23-10 41st Ave., Long Island City 718-482-7078 brooklynboulders.com
Brooklyn Boulders hosts birthday parties, after-school and weekend youth programs, and adventure camps. Our friendly, highly-trained staff teaches kids how to climb, solve problems, and conquer challenges. BKB is the place to be for your next party!
CELEBRATIONS IN THE KITCHEN 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event! We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy, including sugar cookie baking, all about pizza, cupcakes from scratch, doughnuts, and chocolate and candy projects. Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen.com for more information on parties.
CK KIDS BIRTHDAY PARTIES 68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 917-602-6271 ctkny.org; jmichel@ctkny.org
We know your child’s birthday is a special day, so we only book one party at time! Private party room available with two bounce houses, a ball pit, disco lighting, cotton candy, face painting, tattoos, music, and games!
FANTASY FOREST AMUSEMENT PARK Fantasy Forest Amusement Park at the Flushing Meadows Carousel 111th Street and 55th Avenue, Flushing Meadows-Corona Park next to the Queens Zoo 718-788-2676 fantasyforestnyc.com info@nycarousel.com
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Crown Jewel of Queens!” Book our custom birthday package and personalize it with our exclusive food and entertainment add-ons.
THE LANYARD LADIES 433 Merrick Road, Oceanside 516-578-2248 thelanyardladies.com info@thelanyardladies.com
The Lanyard Ladies friendship bracelet and lanyard birthday parties bring the party to you, or you can come to their brand-new party place! Many amazing themes and packages to choose from.
MUSIC TOGETHER® WITH MUSIC AND ME Celebrating our new look with our new name! Wendy DeAngelis, center director (Mommy, Music & Me, Inc. since 2003) Gym-Azing in Astoria Shotokai USA Karate in Bayside The Reform Temple of Forest Hills in Forest Hills The Church in The Gardens in Forest Hills Tiger Schulmann’s MMA in Glendale 718-229-0033 musictogetherwithmusicandme.com info@musictogetherwithmusicandme.com
We provide unique birthday party musical experiences for first-sixth birthdays. Call us to customize your child’s musical birthday. We can also come to your space.
SKY ZONE TRAMPOLINE PARK-DEER PARK 111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park 631-392-2600
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The best birthday parties are at Sky Zone, Deer Park. We customize every birthday party. We have themed parties and super hero parties that include Dodgeball, Foam Zone, Sky Slam, and endless jumping opportunities!
SOCCER FRIENDS USA, INC. 106-06 Queens Blvd., 3rd Floor Gym, Forest Hills 718-261-2403, 718-261-2400, 347-7562568 (para Español) soccerfriendsusa.com soccerfriendsusa@hotmail.com
Soccer Friends USA wants to celebrate your child’s next birthday party with you! We offer soccer parties for children ages 2 and older at several fantastic locations.
USTA BILLIE JEAN KING NATIONAL TENNIS CENTER Flushing Meadows-Corona Park, Flushing 718-760-6200 x0 ntc.usta.com Birthday party packages include one hour of court time with drills and games organized by our USTA Pro staff and one-hour private room for pizza.
WHITESTONE LANES 30-05 Whitestone Expressway, Flushing 718-353-6300 whitestonelanes.net
We are now booking children and teen birthday parties as well as corporate and team building events for 2018-2019. Call our party hostess, Lisa, for more information.
Give your child the best birthday with our VIP Birthday Party Package at Queens’s No. 1 destination for family fun! Book our custom birthday package and personalize it with our exclusive food and entertainment add-ons.
FOREST PARK CAROUSEL AMUSEMENT VILLAGE Woodhaven Boulevard and Forest Park Drive, Woodhaven 718-788-2676 forestparkcarousel.com info@nycarousel.com
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Kent Prep
194-11A Northern Blvd., Bayside 718-423-5757 kentprep.com For more than 30 years, Kent Prep’s team of teachers, curriculum developers, and counselors have successfully prepared students for various standardized tests such as Gifted and Talented test, NYS Common Core exams, SSAT, and SHSAT. All year-round, small classes are created
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8702 Grand Ave., Elmhurst 718-205-7508 92-22 Corona Ave., Elmhurst 718-606-1056 tutornina@hotmail.com We tutor kids in grades kindergarten to 12th. For the past nine years, we have provided quality education that helps kids excel in school. Our excellent, highly-dedicated, and experienced tutors are very competent. We specialize in homework help and offer critical thinking and writing classes. We help improve skills in math, ELA, science, and social studies. We have intensive preparation programs for ELA, math, science, citywide and statewide exams. We opened our second branch on Corona Avenue to serve our community better. Please call to find out more about year-round programs.
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68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 718-366-7400 x247 ctkny.org CK Kids offers families one location for all of their educational and leisure activities. We offer a variety of programs for children ages 2½-18. Our educational support programs for grades kindergarten to 12th are designed to review and reinforce subject matter and skills necessary to achieve success. On-site parking, reasonable prices, and flexible scheduling!
35-30 Francis Lewis Blvd., suite 204, Bayside 917-563-5655 icodingclub.com info@icodingclub.com iCodingClub recognizes the way the world is changing. Technology is everywhere and it has only just begun. Our goal at iCodingClub is to prepare our students for the future. Throughout the course, students will learn the fundamentals of web design and front-end development. This allows them to pursue coding on their own even after the class has finished. Students leave our program with their own website based off their name and also receive an email address from their website. Contact us now to register!
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OPEN HOUSES 2018 Beth Sholom Day Camp
401 Roslyn Road, Roslyn Heights 516-621-9257 bethsholomdaycamp.com Come see what everyone is talking about on Sunday, Dec. 9 from 10am-1pm. BSDC is a summer camp for children ages 3-15 serving Nassau and Queens.
kcobos@schools.nyc.gov P.S. 140 offers amazing learning experiences through project based learning and STEAM curriculum. Join us for an open house Monday, Dec. 10 from 9-10:30am. Dec. 13 5-6:30pm Fall Family STEAM night.
P.S. 201Q: The Discovery School for Inquiry and Research: STEAM Magnet School
I.S. 145: The Joseph Pulitzer Magnet School of Innovation and Applied Learning
Ivan Rodriquez, principal 33-34 80th St., Jackson Heights 718-457-1242 145innovators.com info@magnetschools.com All the academic experiences at I.S. 145 are designed to engage, inspire, and promote student achievement. Please call or email us for an appointment to tour the school.
The Kew-Forest School
119-17 Union Turnpike, Forest Hills 718-268-4667 x125 kewforest.org/openhouse Join us for an open house for preschool to 12th grade on Wednesday, Dec. 5 at 8:15am. Please RSVP at kewforest.org/openhouse.
M.S. 358: The Magnet School of STEAM Exploration and Experiential Learning
Brendan Mims, principal 88-08 164th St., Jamaica 718-558-6240 ms358.org info@magnetschools.nyc Join us for an open house on Thursday, Dec. 13 from 4-6pm. Come to explore the innovative opportunities that our magnet school offers its students.
P.S. 140Q: The Edward K. Ellington Magnet School of Science, Technology and the Arts - A STEAM Magnet School David Norment, principal 166-01 116th Ave., Jamaica 718-657-4760 theedwardkellingtonschool.org
Umit Serin, principal 65-11 155th St., Flushing 718-359-0620 PS201.org info@magnetschools.nyc Join us on Wednesday, Nov. 28 from 6:30-8pm (Family Fun@201:CODING night) and Tuesday, Dec. 11 from 2:30-4pm. Come tour our school, STEAM Learning Center, and specialty classrooms.
P.S. 349: The Magnet School of Leadership and Innovation Through STEAM
Tanya Bates Howell, principal 88-08 164th St., Jamaica 718-558-6220 ps349.info All families are welcomed to join us for the Candy Corn Launch on Thursday, Nov. 29 or Gingerbread House Build on Dec. 13. Both family nights are from 4:30–6:30pm.
P.S. 55: The Maure Magnet School of Communication Arts, Technology and Multimedia Ralph Honore, principal 131-10 97th Ave., Richmond Hill 718-849-3845 ps55q.com info@magnetschools.nyc Join us for an open house—Family Night for Star Gazing on Nov. 29, and Multicultural Night on Dec. 20 from 6:30-8pm. Learn how these experiences promote academic achievement.
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P.S./M.S. 200: The Magnet School of Global Studies and Leadership
Kevin McAuliffe, principal 70-10 164th St., Flushing 718-969-7780 globalstudiesandleadership.org info@magnetschools.com All are welcome to join us for an open house on Wednesday, Dec. 5 from 9-11am. Come explore the innovative opportunities that our magnet school offers students.
P.S.-92Q: The Harry T. Stewart, Sr. Magnet School for Engineering, Architecture & the Arts
Pasquale Baratta, principal 99-01 34th Ave., Corona 718-533-1013 ps92q.org info@magnetschools.nyc Join us for an open house on Wednesday, Dec. 5 from 9-11am. Come to learn about all the academic experiences designed to engage, inspire, and promote student achievement.
Vincent Smith School
322 Port Washington Blvd., Port Washington 516-365-4900 vincentsmithschool.org Tour our beautiful, four-acre campus in Port Washington on Dec. 11 from 7-9pm. Learn about our small, personalized classes for students grades first to 12th with dyslexia, ASD, ADHD, anxiety, or other learning issues.
Winston Preparatory School
30 Deforest Road, Dix Hills 212-719-5598 x2213 winstonprep.edu/our-campuses/li liadmissions@winstonprep.edu Winston Prep is a highly individualized setting for third to 12th grade students with specific learning differences. Open house: Thursday, Dec. 6 at 9:15am, and Thursday, Jan. 10 at 9:15am.
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How to Un-Fun the Holidays in 8 Easy Steps It’s easy to suck the joy right out of the holiday season, especially when you have kids—just follow this guide. If, by some chance, that’s not what you want to do, we have other recommendations for you! 1. Insist on getting the perfect photo for your annual holiday card. Dress up everyone in their finest clothes and keep stage-directing them (“a little to the left…a little to the right”) until their smiles are as frozen as a snowman’s. Instead: Go for a shot that’s casual or silly—it’s what life is really like with kids. 2. Knock yourself out trying to find this season’s hottest overpriced toy, even if your child didn’t ask for it. After all, isn’t that what caring parents do? Instead: Have your child help you pick out a toy for Toys for Tots or another organization that brings joy to children in need. Show her that it’s what caring families do. 3. Write a glowing holiday letter to your family and friends, then spend the rest of the season wishing your life were half as awesome as you made it sound. Instead: Be honest about some of the struggles you’ve faced, like losing your battle with the scale or struggling to make your kids understand that “no means no.” People will appreciate your honesty 4. Scurry around so much getting ready for the holidays that you spend less time with your kids than you want to. 46
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Instead: Remember to slow down and enjoy the season together. Take an evening to drive around and admire the holiday lights, or go skating one afternoon. Your child may remember those moments more than all the fancy presents that come his way. 5. Decorate your home with lots of “don’t-touch” holiday objects, then get upset when your child breaks one (or worse, get scared when he ends up hurting himself). Instead: Learn how to keep your home festive, but hazard free, by reading “13 Ways to Stay Safe This Holiday Season” on p. 32. 6. Drag your children to a nighttime holiday religious service, then feel embarrassed when they can’t keep it together. Instead: Look for a “family” service, where kids are welcome and a certain amount of squirminess is permitted. 7. Pressure your kids to give hugs and kisses to family friends and relatives they barely know. Instead: Remember that kids, like adults, have the right to decide whom they want to be cozy with. If your child doesn’t feel like it, ask him to give a simple wave or say a friendly hello. Really young kids may not even be able to manage that much, but it’s okay; the adults around them will almost certainly understand. 8. Go into debt making this “the best holiday ever.” Instead: Create a reasonable budget and stick to it. You’ll start the new year feeling refreshed—not impoverished.
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