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14 Spectacular Staycations 18 Holiday Fun a Ride Away

Regift Without Regret

The do’s and don’ts of courteous regifting

Family Activities Calendar

Find something to do every day this month in Queens

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Regift Without Regret 12 How to Be a Grinch 34 Sick Day Rx 36 Decoding Infant Reflexes 38 Don’t Let Go—Just Yet 40 Education Directory 42 Professional Services 43 Meet the Health Care Professional, Open Houses 44 Party Central 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 Trip of a Lifetime

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16 Declutter Your Home 32 Get Insured

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DECEMBER 2019 • Vol.25 • No.4

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Happy Holidays!

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o matter which holiday you celebrate this month, the end of the year is typically the time many families have travel plans—to visit family, escape the cold for a week, or even just a few days away to take advantage of kids’ time off from school. But if holiday travel isn’t on your calendar yet, we’ve got just the thing for you: six out-of-the-box staycation ideas in Manhattan, plus four can’t-miss seasonal holiday events across New York City (p. 14).

Of course, there’s always the trusty calendar (p. 19), chock-full of ideas for every day of the month to keep your kids active, entertained, and having a blast for the rest of 2019!

Speaking of holidays, have you ever been given a gift that, while thoughtful, wasn’t your style? Chances are you’ll get at least one more this year. Not to worry!

It’s 100-percent acceptable to regift any presents you receive, says Lizzie Post, greatgreat-granddaughter of etiquette guru Emily Post. Just make sure you read Lizzie’s do’s and don’ts of regifting first (p. 10)!

And while we’re thinking about gifts (and the season’s hottest toys your kids are begging for)…it might be time to purge the toy box and get rid of any toys your child has outgrown. Read expert organizers’ tips for decluttering your home on p. 16. This might not be the highlight of your holiday vacation, but it will benefit your family in the long run.

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In partnering with Autism Speaks, Queens Center now offers sensory-friendly hours before Santa HQ opens to the public to provide a comforting environment to those with sensory, physical, and developmental needs. Sensory-friendly hours are on Dec. 1 and Dec. 8.

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s it rude to regift? Not at all, says Lizzie Post, great-great-granddaughter of the legendary etiquette guru Emily Post, author of numerous proper-behavior books, and co-host of the Awesome Etiquette podcast. Post says she prefers to be open and honest when she regifts. She once regifted a bracelet from an old boyfriend to her cousin on her 21st birthday. “I told her that I was given the bracelet by someone who really loved me and that I thought she would appreciate it, and she was thrilled,” Post says.

“It became a piece that meant something to her and that I felt good about letting go of because I let her know the history.”

But even if you want your gift’s origin to remain a secret, keeping useful items in circulation is not only good for the planet, but can make others happy. Here are Post’s do’s and don’ts for courteous regifting.

Use Original Packaging

The item shouldn’t look like it’s been open, tested, or used. If you’re not telling the recipient it’s a regifted item, then it really has to look brand-new. Reminder for gift bags: Remove the tag that’s inscribed to you.

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else, including a wedding date or inscription. Needless to say, this is not acceptable. Unless the new recipient has the exact same wedding date, keep the gift.

Let Time Pass Before Regifting

If you’re choosing to keep your regifting a secret, Post says you need to be 99-percent sure the person you’re giving it to and the person who gave it to you aren’t going to find out. Let some time lapse before immediately regifting the item—the amount of time, according to Post, is a personal decision and calls for good judgement.

Don’t Regift Unique or Handmade Items

If someone paints you a painting or gives you a particularly unique or memorable gift (such as an Octopus planter), there’s no way to regift these items within your family or circle of friends. Avoid hurt feelings and keep the gifts or regift to a friend or relative who will never cross paths with the original giver.

Be Thoughtful About Regifting

Only regift when you think the item will benefit the person receiving it. In other words, don’t thoughtlessly regift things simply to get rid of them or save money. If it’s not a good match, sell or donate the item, Post advises.

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rom taking the perfect family photo for your holiday cards to decorating your house so it’s picture-perfect and scurrying around finding the must-haves on your children’s gift wish lists, it’s easy to suck the joy right out of the holiday season. If, by some chance, you’d rather have a holiday season full of cheer where everyone is happy, we have recommendations for you!

Here’s how to put the bah-humbug in the holidays—or not: 1. Insist on getting the perfect photo for your annual holiday card. Dress up everyone in their finest clothes and keep stagedirecting them (“a little to the left…a little to the right”) until their smiles are as frozen as a snowman’s.

Instead: Go for a shot that’s casual or silly—it’s what life is really like with kids.

2. Knock yourself out trying to find this season’s hottest overpriced toy, even if your child didn’t ask for it.

Instead: Have your child help you pick out a toy for Toys for Tots or another organization that brings joy to children in need.

Show her that it’s what caring families do.

3. Write a glowing holiday letter to your family and friends, then spend the rest of the season wishing your life were half as awesome as you made it sound.

Instead: Be honest about some of the struggles you’ve faced, like losing your battle with the scale or struggling to make your kids understand that “no means no.” People will appreciate your honesty.

4. Scurry around so much getting ready for the holidays that you spend less time with your kids than you want to.

Instead: Slow down and enjoy the season together. Take an evening to drive around and admire the holiday lights or go iceskating one afternoon.

5. Decorate your home with lots of “don’t-touch” holiday objects, then get upset when your child breaks one (or worse, get scared when he ends up hurting himself).

Instead: Learn how to keep your home festive but hazard free.

6. Drag your children to a nighttime holiday religious service, then feel embarrassed when they can’t keep it together.

Instead: Look for a “family” service, where kids are welcome and a certain amount of squirminess is permitted.

7. Pressure your kids to give hugs and kisses to family friends and relatives they barely know.

Instead: Remember that kids, like adults, have the right to decide whom they want to be cozy with. If your child doesn’t feel like it, ask him to give a simple wave or say a friendly hello. Really young kids may not even be able to manage that much, but it’s okay; the adults around them will almost certainly understand.

8. Go into debt making this “the best holiday ever.”

Instead: Create a reasonable budget and stick to it. You’ll start the new year feeling refreshed—not impoverished.

Deborah Skolnik lives in Westchester with her husband and two daughters, and enjoys writing, cooking, and gardening.

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is the season to stay in town! That’s because New York City has some of the best staycation options—and we don’t mean a visit to the Met or a chilly walk through Central Park. In fact, once we started thinking outside the box, we discovered some extraordinary and innovative ways to spend your holiday.

in Hudson Yards, the Crowne Plaza HY36’s Hibernation Vacation Suite is stocked with cozy sleeping bags and plush throw blankets.

Artificial candles, crackling fireplace sounds, and a mini chocolate fountain for deconstructed s’mores bring elements of camping into your room.

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Don’t just go to the theater. Book a night at the Row NYC hotel, just steps away from some of the biggest shows including The Lion King, which is just a block away. This year Row NYC is offering the Bloomingdale’s Shop & Stay package, which includes exclusive in-store savings, a branded duffle bag, and a $50 gift card to the store. For the perfect pre-theater or post-shopping treat, stop by City Kitchen, a food hall located right off Row NYC’s lobby, for snacks such as Dough’s famous doughnuts.

Glamp in the City

It may be too cold for camping, but several hotels are bringing the experience inside. The JW Marriott Essex House New York, just a stone’s throw from the Wollman Rink at Central Park, sets up custom camper tents in family-sized luxury suites. Further downtown

At the new Conrad New York Midtown, the first-ever FAO Schwarz Holiday Suite comes decorated with the iconic store’s favorites for the season—including a mini gourmet kitchen, ride-on train tracks, and DJ turntables. Suite guests also get a private shopping spree and tour of the store by an FAO Schwarz toy soldier.

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During an invigorating walk across the Brooklyn Bridge, it helps to know a cozy food hall awaits on the other side. That place is Dumbo’s Time Out Market New York, which serves Juliana’s Pizza (without the wait), and the now-legendary blueberry pancakes courtesy of Clinton Street Baking Co., alongside views of the East River waterfront and lower Manhattan skyline. Before you eat, take a spin on nearby Jane’s Carousel—which is not just for kids.

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Spend an afternoon at Madame Tussauds New York, where you can snap Insta-worthy pics of your kids with their favorite celebrities, comic heroes, and more—including Taylor Swift and the Hulk.

Locals as Tourists

Just blocks away from the Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree, The Knickerbocker, aka The Knick, is a boutique hotel that feels like an oasis even though it’s in busy Times Square. Relax over a meal at Charlie Palmer at The Knick, which offers a kids’ menu that’s as varied as it is healthy. (Salmon and veggies on a kids’ menu? Now we’re talking.) Plus, it’s steps away from popular destinations, such as Madame Tussauds, National Geographic Encounter: Ocean Odyssey, and Ripley’s Believe It or Not! Don’t forget to ask about the hotel’s holiday partnership with Shoott—which is offering an hourlong professional photoshoot to commemorate your special staycation. It could yield the perfect picture for next year’s holiday card.

Sweet Indulgence

There’s a new shake in town this holiday season, and you can find it at Black Tap 35th, the restaurant’s new flagship location in Herald Square. The Holiday Shake (available Dec. 1-31) is a cheesecake-flavored milkshake with a vanilla-frosted rim and white, gold, and silver sprinkles. As if that weren’t decadent enough—it’s topped with a slice of white-chocolate, macadamia-nut cheesecake, whipped cream, and a cherry. The kids will go bananas watching this and other shakes come to life at the Black Tap’s CrazyShake Bar.

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Satisfy your sweet tooth with a decadent milkshake from Black Tap 35th, like the seasonal Holiday Shake.

After you stop by Brookfield Place in the Financial District, head up to One World Observatory for a spectacular view of Manhattan (and some Instaworthy photo ops with your family).

TRADITIONAL TREATS You won’t feel like a tourist with seasonal activities at these New York City destinations.

Shopping, and Santa, and Skating, Oh My! Brookfield Place is Financial District’s must-see shopping center, located across from One World Trade. It hosts a Santa meet-up, ice-skating on The Rink, and Light Up Luminaries, a spectacular light installation. While you’re in the neighborhood, head up to One World Observatory for an unbelievable view of Manhattan.

Marvel at Mini and Vintage Trains At the New York Botanical Garden, the Holiday Train Show features miniature model trains that zip through more than 175 mini landmarks, including the Brooklyn Bridge and the Statue of Liberty. Or head to Brooklyn’s Transit Museum and take a Holiday Nostalgia Ride on a vintage 1930s train car (on select Sundays this season.)

Be Wowed by Lights For the first time since 2007, the Bronx Zoo is bringing back its dazzling light display as part of its Bronx Zoo Holiday Lights celebration. The event features custom Asian lanterns, animated light shows as well as ice-carving demos, train rides, and holiday-themed music performances.

Support Local Artists Shop for gifts and crafts by local artists at one of the many holiday markets that pop up around town—including in Union Square and Columbus Circle. In Midtown, the Bank of America Winter Village at Bryant Park, now in its 18th year, features the only free-admission skating rink in New York City, as well as more than 170 holiday kiosks curated

by Urbanspace. And don’t miss the Holiday Handmade Cavalcade at Brooklyn Historical Society (Dec. 7-8) and the Holiday Market in Astoria (Dec. 1, 8, and 15).

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By having your whole family sort through their belongings and deciding what to get rid of, you all are making room for new clothes, books, toys, and more— and giving new life to your old items.

Declutter Your Home

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Simple strategies that will make a big difference By Madeleine Burry

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iles of papers, overstuffed closets, and toys scattered everywhere. Does this sound familiar? Clutter can seem like an unavoidable, but essentially harmless, way of life, particularly for families in tight quarters. But chaos and disorganization can have a negative impact, both physically and mentally.

“As the clutter piles up, so do the feelings of anxiety,” says Elsa Elbert, professional organizer and owner of the Los Angeles-based personal organizing company Composed Living.

And that’s true for kids, as well as moms and dads. “When kids are surrounded by clutter or too many things, they can have difficulty choosing what to play with and this can impact their attention span and ability to concentrate,” says Jane Stoller, professional organizer and author of Decluttering for Dummies.

The reasons to declutter are clear, Stoller adds: an increase in productivity, happiness, and free time to spend with loved ones. And the actual process doesn’t have to be daunting if you do it right.

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Before you dive into a declutter project, keep in mind it will be less successful as a solo mission. “It is very important that everyone in the house is aware and on board with your decluttering mission,” Stoller advises.

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relationship,” Stoller says. These benefits may include more time to spend together or less early-morning stress about locating the kids’ sports equipment before the school bus arrives.

And get your kids involved, too. “Ask your children to go through their rooms and make two piles—the things they love, and the things they don’t love so much,” Elbert suggests. This will help them feel empowered, and far more willing to be part of the process. Another trick: Let kids know their toys will be donated to others—and by sorting through them, they’re clearing space for new toys.

You can also gamify decluttering to encourage participation, Stoller says. Try setting the timer for 30 minutes, she suggests. If your kids declutter 20 items and put them into their boxes in 30 minutes, they get a small reward.

Follow Through

Even after you’ve sorted the mail and thrown out stained clothes, more mail will enter your home, and you’ll drip more coffee on your jeans. Decluttering is not a one-and-done project.

“It should be an automatic part of your daily routines and lifestyle,” Stoller says. Her advice? Before you purchase an item or allow it into your space, question if it will provide value. If it won’t, don’t allow it inside your door. Avoid impulse purchases; a list or clearly defined purpose when you head into a store can help.

Marty Basher, home organization expert for Modular Closets, suggests making decluttering a routine. “Schedule a time each week, or even each day, to tidy up and get things in their place,” he says. That way, you won’t get overwhelmed by the volume of items in your home.

If you find yourself avoiding the task, just remember, decluttering benefits you—and your family—in important ways.

As Elbert says, “Decluttering, in combination with creating easyto-maintain systems, is a great way to turn your home into the sanctuary you and your family deserve.”

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Start small.

If you are overwhelmed by the entire house, tackle one space at a time, suggests Jane Stoller, professional organizer and author of Decluttering for Dummies. For example, attack the kitchen junk drawer or an unruly closet. Alternatively, choose one category— papers, sweaters, or that Tupperware collection.

Use a timer.

“Set a timer for 15 minutes and see how much you can accomplish,” says Marty Basher, home organization expert for Modular Closets, who finds that 15 minutes is the perfect amount of time to bring order to a bathroom cabinet or a heaping pile of mail. Elsa Elbert, professional organizer and owner of Composed Living, says other easy-to-tackle spots are sock drawers and kids’ dressers, along with shelves of expired food in the pantry.

Start with non-sentimental items.

Going through the kids’ artwork or baby clothes can be hard because of all the emotions attached, so begin your decluttering with items that aren’t laden with sentiment, Basher says.

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Choose a donation spot.

“Every time you find anything you don’t love or no longer use, immediately place it in the donation station,” Elbert says. Put an appointment on your calendar to drop things off monthly (or less frequently, depending on how much it piles up), Basher suggests.

“If you want to make a little extra money, sell your items on eBay or your local Facebook marketplace,” he suggests.

Go room by room.

Divvying up the task makes it far more manageable. Once you’ve selected a room, be prepared to go through and categorize items into piles for toss, donate/sell, and keep, Basher says.

Make sure to put an organizational system in place so closets and tables don’t revert to their pre-decluttering look. “The key is to make sure everything has a place or a ‘home,’” he adds.

Cut down on keepsakes.

Consider having a curated—not comprehensive—collection of your little ones’ arts-and-crafts projects. “For your own personal memorabilia and those of your kids, sort through your keepsakes and think hard about their importance,” Basher says. “Only keep items that you feel will be important to look back at years from now, or ones to share with your kids.”

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Every room in the 100-year-old mansion at Old Westbury Gardens will be decked out in holiday décor.

Santa is at Hicks Nurseries for visits with families every day through Christmas.

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Hicks Nurseries Around the holidays, Hicks Nurseries is far more than a home and garden store. In addition to getting all of your holiday decoration shopping done, you can enjoy the animated children’s Christmas story Cookies for Santa, a visit with Santa, drop your letter in the North Pole mailbox, or stop by the café for a cup of hot chocolate.

Visit It: 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury; hicksnurseries.com; 516-334-0066

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Listed on the National Register of Historic Places, Old Westbury Gardens is home to a 100-year-old mansion, furnished with beautiful English antiques.

On select dates from Dec. 1-22, every room in the mansion will be decked out in magnificent holiday decor for Christmas at Westbury House, featuring Christmas trees, cookies, cider, and even a visit from Santa.

Visit It: 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury; oldwestburygardens.org; 516-333-0048

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Santa will dive into the aquarium’s 110,000-gallon Ocean Beyond the Sound exhibit, which is home to 8- and 9-foot sharks.

At the Whaling Museum and Education Center of Cold Spring Harbor’s Menorah Workshop, visitors will learn about whale oil and create a whale menorah.

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Get up close and personal with all of your favorite sea critters, such as harbor seals, sea turtles, crabs, and lobsters. On select days throughout December, watch Santa take a dive in the shark tank and snap a picture when he swims up to the glass. Other fun wintry features include a menorah lighting ceremony, Flurry Zone! An Indoor Snow Experience, which sets off a “snowfall” every hour on the hour, and screenings of The Polar Express.

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This unique museum offers a plethora of information and activities about whaling, once one of Long Island’s most important industries. Throughout the holiday season, stop by for a variety of activities, such as a sea glass ornament workshop or a menorah workshop, where you can learn all about whale oil lamps and create a Whale Menorah to light up your home.

Visit It: 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk County; 631-367-3418; cshwhalingmuseum.org

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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS

Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 8 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

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Ranger’s Choice: The World’s Fair Adventure Quest FREE

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‘The Nutcracker’ and Visit to Santa’s Toyland

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 1, 10-11:30am WHERE: Flushing Meadows Corona Park, 111th Street to Van Wyck, Flushing AGES: All WHAT: This Urban Park Ranger challenge leads teams through the park on a part scavenger hunt, part walking tour that combines easy physical challenges, photo clues, and searches while testing your knowledge of local history.

WHY WE LOVE IT: A unique way to learn about the World’s Fair and Flushing Meadows Corona Park.

WANT TO GO? 516-671-4041. nycgovparks.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 15, 3:30pm WHERE: LaGuardia Performing Arts Center, 31-10 Thomson Ave., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: For generations children have enjoyed this charming tale of holiday adventure that follows a little girl’s journey through a fantasy world of dolls, toy soldiers, an army of mice, snowflakes, princes, and fairies.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Meet and greet the principal soloists from the cast along with Santa in a magical Toyland where each child will receive a special gift.

WANT TO GO? $20. lpac.nyc.

Christmas in the Garden FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 22, 2pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: All WHAT: A special holiday screening of the beloved 1978 special, in which Big Bird deals with a major question: How does Santa fit down the chimney? Special guests will be on hand to discuss the show and present clips from other Sesame Street holiday shows.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Some lucky audience members will receive rare Sesame Street holiday gifts!

WANT TO GO? $15; $9 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3. 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

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WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 8, 12-5pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live musical performances, photos with Santa, face painting (fee required), a tree lighting, and holiday crafts. Register online.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a great way to kick off the holiday season with a full afternoon of festive fun!

WANT TO GO? 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

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‘The Nutcracker’

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 15, 3pm WHERE: Kupferberg Center for the Arts, 65-30 Kissena Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: The Nutcracker is returning to KCA for another spectacular holiday season.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s the same authentic Russian choreography that’s performed in Moscow by the famous Bolshoi Ballet!

WANT TO GO? $23-$42. 718-793-8080. kupferbergcenter.org.

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Family New Year’s Countdown And Celebration FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 31, 11:15am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library–Rochdale Village Branch, 169-09 137 Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Kids of all ages are invited to celebrate 2020. Ring in the new year with a story or two, resolutions, and noisemakers and hats.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Ten seconds to noon there will be a countdown and a balloon drop!

WANT TO GO? 718-723-4440. queenslibrary.org.

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‘A Charlie Brown Christmas’

WHEN: Dec. 19-Jan. 4, see website for showtimes WHERE: The Secret Theatre, 44-02 23rd St. (between 44th Avenue and 44th Road), Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Join Charlie Brown and his Peanuts gang in this heart-warming holiday musical as they dig past the commercialized gimmicks of presents and decorations to rediscover the true meaning of Christmas.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The performances features the music of Vince Guaraldi, and new original dance and song numbers as well.

WANT TO GO? $25 ($22 advance); $15 children younger than 17 ($12.50 advance). 718-392-0722. secrettheatre.com.

Gingerbread Lane 2019

WHEN: Through Jan. 12: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; SaturdaySunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Visitors can marvel at homemade gingerbread houses made entirely of edible gingerbread, royal icing, and candy. The houses are drafted, designed, baked, planned, built, and decorated by chef Jon Lovitch over the course of an entire year.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Visitors can make their own gingerbread houses or trains during dedicated workshops.

WANT TO GO? FREE with museum admission ($16 adults; $13 children ages 2-17). 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

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WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

Giant Snowflake Craft FREE WHEN: Monday, Dec. 2, 6-7pm WHERE: Queens Library–Poppenhusen Branch, 121-23 14th Ave., College Point AGES: All WHAT: Create a giant snowflake to add to your holiday décor.

WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 9am-2pm WHERE: Maspeth Federal Savings, 56-18 69th St., Maspeth AGES: All WHAT: Bring in the little ones to take a photo with Santa!

WANT TO GO? maspethfederal.com.

Holiday Karaoke FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 16, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library–Auburndale Branch, 25-55 Francis Lewis Blvd., Flushing AGES: 6 and older WHAT: Share your favorite song and be prepared to have fun with your friends.

WANT TO GO? 718-352-2027. queenslibrary.org

Nail Polish Workshop FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 5-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library: Ridgewood, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: All WHAT: Design and polish your own nails or have them done for you.

WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

Nature Play Club FREE

WHEN: Through April 23: Third Sunday of each month, 2pm WHERE: Queens Zoo, 53-51 111th St., Corona AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy free monthly sessions at the Zoo and in nearby parks, connecting families back to nature through unstructured, free-play exploration. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 718-271-1500. queenszoo.com. ››

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It’s Time for Kind: Pet Shelter Blankets FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 4, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library–Peninsula, 92-25 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Beach AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens are welcome to come and assist Peninsula staff in creating blankets for shelter animals.

WANT TO GO? 718-634-1110.

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Holiday Market FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 8, 1-5pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Artists and Craftspeople from Queens will be selling jewelry, paintings, hand-crafted ceramics, paper goods, greeting cards, and more.

WANT TO GO? 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

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AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Titan Theatre Company’s award-winning and critically acclaimed musical adaptation of Charles Dickens’ classic novel brings the timeless story of Ebenezer Scrooge to the stage.

WANT TO GO? $25. 718-860-0064. queenstheatre.org.

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SHOW TIME! QDP ‘Nutcracker’ Performance

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 6:30pm WHERE: Queens Dance Project, 214-26 41st Ave., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: QDP is presenting its first ever Nutcracker performance and incorporating all styles of dance.

WANT TO GO? $10. 718-229-1133. queensdanceproject.com.

Global Arts for Global Kids: Benefit Showcase for FTH Education

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 2pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5-12, adult WHAT: A benefit showcase and concert featuring fabulous FTH teaching artists and school partners for an afternoon of singing, dancing, theater, art, and more.

WANT TO GO? $14; $8 children. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

Aoranza de Colombia

WHEN: Through Dec. 15: Fridays and Saturdays, 8pm; Sundays, 4pm WHERE: Thalia Spanish Theatre, 4117 Greenpoint Ave., Sunnyside AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A romantic love story between dancers of Modern Ballet and Colombian Folklore.

WANT TO GO? $37-$45. 718-729-3880. thaliatheatre.org.

‘The Nutcracker’–Saturday Family Matinee

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 21, 2-3pm WHERE: Jamaica Center for Arts and Learning (JCAL), 161-04 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: The Nutcracker tells the story of Clara, a young girl on the brink of womanhood, whose dreams are both childlike and tinged with romance.

WANT TO GO? $5. 718-658-7400. jcal.org.

Oratorio Society of Queens Holiday 2019 Concert

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 22, 4pm WHERE: St. Kevin R.C. Church, 42-21 194th St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: The first half of the program spotlights excerpts of Handel’s “Messiah.” The second half of the program features Christmas favorites and Chanukah songs inviting all to experience the magic of the season.

WANT TO GO? $40; $35 seniors (62+) and students with ID; $10 children younger than 13. 718-279-3006. queensoratorio.org.

‘A Christmas Carol’

WHEN: Dec. 6-22, see website for showtimes WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Avenue South, Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Corona 22

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WHEN: Monday, Dec. 23, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library–Central Library, 89-11 Merrick Blvd., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Let The Jewel Tones serenade you with favorites such as “Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas,” “Frosty the Snowman,” “Santa Baby,” and a few other surprises!

WANT TO GO? 718-990-0778. queenslibrary.org.

‘A Christmas Carol’

WHEN: Nov. 29- Dec. 30, see website for showtimes WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-12 WHAT: A new version of Charles Dickens’ classic A Christmas Carol is brought to life through the art of puppetry.

WANT TO GO? $12 ($9 if purchasing museum admission for $14). 516224-5828. licm.org.

‘Guess What’-The Family-Friendly Stand Up Comedy Show

WHEN: Through March 21: third Saturday of each month, 12:30pm WHERE: The Creek & The Cave, 10-93 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: The show is hosted by an 11-year-old and her dad.

WANT TO GO? $10. 718-706-8783. creeklic.com.

Children’s Book Club and Performance Series

WHEN: Through June 3: 10am and 11:45am WHERE: Queensborough Performing Arts Center, 222-05 56th Ave., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: At an Arts On Stage show, the theater is converted into a learning laboratory deepening and enriching student learning. A combination of live adaptations of children’s literature, academic and rich cultural programs, enable real-life lessons in friendship, math, science and history.

WANT TO GO? $9. 718-631-6311. visitqpac.org.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Mommy and Me Double Dutch FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 11am-4pm WHERE: Sorrentino Recreation Center, 1848 Carnaga Ave., Far Rockaway AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A family-friendly Double Dutch competition to showcase your skills. Participants can register as a two or three person team.

WANT TO GO? nycgovparks.org.

Keep Talking And Nobody Explodes: VR Game For Teens FREE WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 11, 4-5pm WHERE: Long Island City Library, 37-44 21 St., Long Island City AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Play this collaborative VR game!

WANT TO GO? 718-752-3700. queenslibrary.org.

Grab Bag BINGO FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 18, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library­–Fresh Meadows Branch, 193-20 Horace Harding Expressway, Fresh Meadows AGES: 13-17

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WHAT: Teens play bingo with friends for gift-wrapped mystery prizes!

WANT TO GO? 718-454-7272.

Angry Birds With Snapology Of Forest Hills FREE

WHEN: Dec. 5-19, Thursdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Forest Hills Library, 108-19 71 Ave., Forest Hills AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Build, explore, and create your favorite bird adventures while you learn about the physics behind the catapults, levers, and slingshots used to make birds fly. Preregistration required.

WANT TO GO? 718-268-7934. queenslibrary.org.

Family Charades

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 19, 4-4:45pm WHERE: Queens Library–Auburndale Branch, 25-55 Francis Lewis Blvd., Flushing AGES: 6 and older WHAT: Celebrate the holiday season by playing charades.

WANT TO GO? 718-352-2027. queenslibrary.org

Holiday Game Time FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 26, 2:30-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library­–Auburndale Branch, 25-55 Francis Lewis Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: An afternoon of checkers, chess, Connect Four, Jenga, jigsaw puzzles, mancala for kids, Monopoly, Scrabble, World Hangman, and more!

WANT TO GO? 718-352-2027. queenslibrary.org

Virtual Reality For Kids FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library–Cambria Heights Branch, 218-13 Linden Blvd., Cambria Heights AGES: All WHAT: Relax and have fun by trying out some virtual reality glasses!

WANT TO GO? 718-528-3535. queenslibrary.org.

Baby Playdate FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Mondays, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Queens Library: Court Square, 25-01 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Drop in for an unstructured playdate.

WANT TO GO? 718-937-2790. queenslibrary.org.

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NYRR Open Run Baisley Pond Park FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 26: 9am; check-in 8:45am WHERE: Baisley Pond Park, 156-10 Baisley Blvd., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: NYRR Open Run is a community-based, volunteer-led running initiative bringing free weekly runs and walks to local neighborhood parks.

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Apollo 11: First Steps

WHEN: Through Jan. 21: 2pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: This film showcases the real-life moments of the first lunar landing.

WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children, students, and senior citizens, plus museum admission. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Friday At The Movies FREE

ON SCREEN Family Film Screening: ‘Elf’ FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 3, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Bay Terrace Library, 18-36 Bell Blvd., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy this family-friendly holiday comedy.

WANT TO GO? 718-423-7004. queenslibrary.org.

Wednesday Afternoon Movie: ‘Wonder’ FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 4, 3:30-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library–Richmond Hill Branch, 118-14 Hillside Ave., Richmond Hill AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a showing of the movie Wonder (2017, PG).

WANT TO GO? 718-849-7150. queenslibrary.org.

Teen Movie: ‘The Grinch’ FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 19, 3:30-6:30pm WHERE: Queens Library for Teens, 2002 Cornaga Ave., Far Rockaway AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Enjoy popcorn and a movie.

WANT TO GO? queenslibrary.org.

Maspeth Movie: ‘A Christmas Story’ FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 20, 3-5pm WHERE: Queens Library–Maspeth Branch, 69-70 Grand Ave., Maspeth AGES: All WHAT: Watch this hilarious holiday classic (1983, PG).

WANT TO GO? 718-639-5228. queenslibrary.org.

Wii Games FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library­–Poppenhusen Branch, 121-23 14th Ave., College Point AGES: All WHAT: Play Wii games and relax at the end of the week!

WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.

Movie Screenings FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 28: see website for days and times WHERE: Bayside Library, 214-20 Northern Blvd., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: Watch fun family movies including Toy Story 4 and Frozen.

WANT TO GO? 718-229-1834. queenslibrary.org.

A Time For Kind (Ness) Movie: ‘Elf’ FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 30, 1:15-2:45pm WHERE: Queens Library–East Flushing Branch, 196-36 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Watch this family-friendly holiday comedy.

WANT TO GO? 718-357-6643. queenslibrary.org.

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WHEN: Through Jan. 31: Every other Friday, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Queens Library-Ozone Park Branch, 92-24 Rockaway Blvd., Ozone Park AGES: All WHAT: Head to the library to see a G or PG movie.

WANT TO GO? 718-845-3127.

Teen Digital Media Lab

WHEN: Through May 22: select Fridays, 4-6pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: 13-17 WHAT: A series of free design jams just for teens and a unique opportunity to get exclusive access to the museum, to share in your favorite kinds of media-making, or to experiment with something new.

WANT TO GO? Free with museum admission ($15 adults; $11 seniors; $9 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3). 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

Superpower Dogs 3D

WHEN: Through May 31: daily; 11am & 1pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: This immersive 3D movie showcases the life-saving superpowers and extraordinary bravery of some of the world’s most amazing dogs.

WANT TO GO? $6 adults; $5 children, students & senior citizens, plus museum admission. 718-699-0005. nysci.org

CRAFTY KIDS It’s Time For Kind: Creating A Kindness Tree FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 2, 3-4pm WHERE: Forest Hills Library, 108-19 71 Ave., Forest Hills AGES: All WHAT: Help spread kindness by putting your thoughtful good deeds or good intentions on paper for others to see and get inspired by–and help decorate a holiday kindness tree! Throughout the month of December, perform acts of kindness small or large to add decorations to the tree.

WANT TO GO? 718-268-7934. queenslibrary.org.

Arts And Crafts: Creating Snowflakes FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 3, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library–South Hollis Branch, 204-01 Hollis Ave., South Hollis AGES: All WHAT: An easy winter craft for toddlers, preschoolers, and kids.

WANT TO GO? 718-465-6779. queenslibrary.org.

Caribbean Arts Festival: Migration of Colors: Painting Workshop for Children FREE WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 3, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library–St. Albans Branch, 191-05 Linden Blvd., St. Albans AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about the rich heritage of the Caribbean and paint like a Caribbean artist with Audley Geo Smith.

WANT TO GO? 718-528-8196. queenslibrary.org.

Holiday Card Making FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 3, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Queens Library–South Ozone Park Branch, 128-16 Rockaway Blvd., South Ozone Park AGES: 4-12 WHAT: Children can be creative and learn how to make pop-up cards and other designs.

WANT TO GO? 718-529-1660. queenslibrary.org.

Winter Holiday Crafternoons FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 6, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Langston Hughes Library–Community Cultural Center, 10001 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the season by creating Kwanzaa, Hanukkah, and Christmas crafts for your loved ones this year: make a Nguzo Saba favor, a Star of David mobile, and/or paint a ceramic tree ornament.

WANT TO GO? 718-875-3500. littleflowerny.org.

Hands on History: Make Your Own Scented Pomander! FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 1-4pm WHERE: King Manor Museum, 150-03 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Make pomanders, a spiced, scented ornament that decorated 18th and 19th century homes and filled the house with a lovely aroma.

WANT TO GO? 718-206-0545. kingmanor.org.

Holiday Family Craft Night

activities, and face painting.

WANT TO GO? 718-739-4088. queenslibrary.org.

Crafts and Stories FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 17: Tuesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library­–Jackson Heights Branch, 35-51 81st St., Jackson Heights AGES: 4-7 WHAT: Join for stories and crafts. Caregiver must attend with the child.

WANT TO GO? 718-899-2500. queenslibrary.org.

Star Wars Craft FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 19, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library­–Ozone Park Branch, 92-24 Rockaway Blvd., Ozone Park AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Your mission young Padawan, should you choose to take it, is to learn the ways of the Jedi. To that end you will learn how to make some of the tools you will need!

WANT TO GO? 718-845-3127.

Snowflake Paper Craft FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 20, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library–Central Library, 89-11 Merrick Blvd., Jamaica AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Make beautiful 3D snowflakes!

WANT TO GO? 718-990-0778. queenslibrary.org.

Moving Image Studio

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 8, 4:30-6pm WHERE: My Gym Fresh Meadows, 176-60 Union Turnpike, 3rd Floor, Fresh Meadows AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Families will have a blast creating Christmas, Hanukkah, and Kwanzaa decorations to take home. While their crafts are drying, there will be holiday-themed games and activities.

WANT TO GO? $15. mygym.com.

WHEN: Through Dec. 22: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: All WHAT: Families are welcome to stop by and experiment with puppet making and animation inspired by The Jim Henson Exhibition and the core exhibition Behind the Screen.

WANT TO GO? Free with museum admission ($15 adults; $11 seniors; $9 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3). 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

Interactive Puppetry Workshop FREE

Mommy and Me FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 9, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Long Island City Library, 37-44 21 St., Long Island City AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Puppet artist Adelka Polak will guide participants through the process of making their own puppets using all natural materials from pine cones and twigs to wool and feathers brought together with a variety of weaving, knotting, and imaginative skills. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 718-752-3700. queenslibrary.org.

It’s Time For Kind: Holiday Cards for Our Troops FREE WHEN: Monday, Dec. 9, 2-4pm WHERE: Hollis Library, 202-05 Hillside Ave., Hollis AGES: All WHAT: Fill out a holiday card for the troops overseas.

WANT TO GO? 718-465-7355. queenslibrary.org.

Family Art: The Gift That Keeps On Giving FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Queens Library: Cambria Heights, 218-13 Linden Blvd., Cambria Heights AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join for playtime with arts and crafts.

WANT TO GO? 718-528-3535. queenslibrary.org.

Coloring Club FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Mondays, 3-5pm WHERE: Queens Library–Seaside Branch, 116-15 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Park AGES: All WHAT: Come down to the Seaside Library and de-stress with some coloring!

WANT TO GO? 718-634-1876.

Remake the Holidays

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 12, 4-5pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Make a paper-folded “fortune teller” full of good wishes and positive messages and give it to someone!

WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Dec. 27-30, daily, 12-4pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Families bend, twist, light, sculpt, and animate a new version of the holiday season with workshops, demos, artist installations and more.

WANT TO GO? Free with museum admission ($16 adults; $13 children).

718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Winter Celebration FREE

Knitting Club FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 2-4pm WHERE: Queens Library­–South Jamaica Branch, 108-41 Guy R. Brewer Blvd., South Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Families are welcomed to a winter celebration of crafts, stories,

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Tuesdays, 2:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library–Bellerose Branch, 250-06 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: All WHAT: Come learn knitting and enjoy the fun! Yarns and needles are provided during the sessions. ›› QueensParent 25

Celebrate A Filipino Christmas With Queens Public Library! FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 13, 3-5pm WHERE: Queens Library–Broadway Branch, 40-20 Broadway, Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Watch a Christmas lantern making demonstration. Parol is a Christmas lantern, a traditional iconic symbol of the Filipino Christmas spirit.

WANT TO GO? 718-721-2462. queenslibrary.org.

Gingerbread Houses FREE

HOLIDAY FUN Crafty Tuesday Holiday Craft FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 3, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library­–Poppenhusen Branch, 121-23 14th Ave., College Point AGES: All WHAT: A fun make-and-take to help lift your holiday spirits!

WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.

‘The Nutcracker’ by The Salzburg Marionette Theatre

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 4, 7pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5-8, adult WHAT: Coming to Queens all the way from Austria, The Salzburg Marionette Theatre has charmed countless children and adults for more than a century!

WANT TO GO? $14; $8 children. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

Tree Lighting FREE WHEN: Friday, Dec. 6, 6pm

WHERE: Maspeth Memorial Square, 69th Street and Borden Avenue, Maspeth AGES: All WHAT: Countdown to a festive holiday tree lighting!

WANT TO GO? maspethtownhall.org.

7th Annual Holiday Festival & Tree Lighting Celebration FREE WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 8, 4pm WHERE: Astoria Park Great Lawn, 19th Street between Astoria Park South and Ditmars Boulevard, Astoria AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a day filled with holiday fun and a special tree lighting ceremony!

WANT TO GO? 212-639-9675. nycgovparks.org.

2019 Holly Tour: Annual Holiday Historic House Tour

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 8, 1-5pm WHERE: Queens Historical Society, 14335 37th Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the holiday season with a walking tour of six historic sites in Queens and learn about their unique histories!

WANT TO GO? $20; free for children younger than 13 (limit two children per family). 718-939-0647. queenshistoricalsociety.org.

Holiday Card Making

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 12, 6-7pm WHERE: Laurelton Library, 134-26 225 St., Laurelton AGES: All WHAT: Have fun with homemade holiday card making!

WANT TO GO? 718-528-2822. queenslibrary.org.

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WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 2:30-4pm WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: All WHAT: A gingerbread house kit will be provided to each family.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.

Christmas Party

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, all ages: 1:30pm and 4:30pm; ages 3 and younger: 3pm WHERE: My Gym Fresh Meadows, 176-60 Union Turnpike, 3rd Floor, Fresh Meadows AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Santa Claus is coming to My Gym, along with cookies and milk!

WANT TO GO? $20 per child ($18 members). mygym.com.

35th Annual Langston Hughes Kwanzaa Celebration FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 10am-5pm WHERE: Queens Library­–Langston Hughes Branch, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Corona AGES: All WHAT: At this celebration of the black family and community, enjoy a film screening of The Black Candle, a Kwanzaa party, an opening ceremony, live entertainment, a craft festival, craft workshops, refreshments, and more.

WANT TO GO? 718-651-1100. queenslibrary.org.

Holiday Face Painting With Apryl Cadabra FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 2-5pm WHERE: Queens Library–Arverne, 312 Beach 54th St., Arverne AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children can have their faces painted with elaborate, ornate designs by Apryl Cadabra Entertainment Agency Inc. Preregistration is required.

WANT TO GO? 718-634-4784.

Winter Wonderland Party

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 5-8 pm WHERE: Queens Dance Project, 214-26 41st Ave., Bayside AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Drop off your children for a fun season-themed party at the studio!

WANT TO GO? $30; $25 members. 718-229-1133. queensdanceproject.com.

Santa Claus Is Coming To The Central Library! FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 14, 12-4pm WHERE: Queens Library–Central Library, 89-11 Merrick Blvd., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy holiday songs, crafts, face painting, balloon twisting, and receive a free picture with Santa!

WANT TO GO? 718-990-0778. queenslibrary.org.

Christmas Tinker Festival and Tree Lighting FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 15, 2:30-5:30pm WHERE: Lewis Latimer House Museum, 3441 137th St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the holidays with tinkering, tree lighting, hot cocoa,

and music! RSVP required.

WANT TO GO? 718-961-8585. lewislatimerhouse.org.

Chanukah Festival & Winter Celebration

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 15, 1-3:30pm WHERE: Commonpoint Queens, 67-09 108th St., Forest Hills AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy inflatable bounce houses, arts and crafts, games, balloon twisting, face painting, children’s entertainment, and more!

WANT TO GO? $5 per child ($15 max per family).

Winter Solstice Workshop: Rice Ball & Dumpling Making

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 15, 2pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Make Cantonese tangyuan (rice ball in soup) and northern Chinese kiaozi (dumplings) along with two cultural bearers from the Chinese community.

WANT TO GO? $10 adults; $5 children; free for teens. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

Astoria Holiday Market at Bohemian Hall FREE

WHEN: Dec. 1-15, Sundays, 12-6pm WHERE: Bohemian Hall & Beer Garden, 29-19 24th Ave., Astoria AGES: All WHAT: A full house of fantastic vendors, offering art, jewelry, toys, chocolates, body care, handbags, clothing, stationery, scarves and hats, pottery, and more!

WANT TO GO? 718-274-4925. astoriamarket.com.

‘Navidad: A Mexican-American Christmas’

WHEN: Dec. 14-15, Saturday, 2pm and 8pm; Sunday, 1pm and 5pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Avenue South, Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Corona AGES: 9 and older WHAT: A young person caught between two worlds: their family’s past in Mexico and their present life in New York City. Aztec-inspired dance is performed to Christmas carols, and Mariachi music fuses with “Dance of the Sugar Plum Fairy.”

WANT TO GO? $20 and up. 718-860-0064. queenstheatre.org.

Children’s Holiday Party FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 17, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library–Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Stop by for some holiday fun at this children’s party!

WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

Winter Celebration FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 18, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Queens Library–Cambria Heights Branch, 218-13 Linden Blvd., Cambria Heights AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Celebrate winter with crafts, stories, winter face painting, characters, and ballooning.

WANT TO GO? 718-528-3535. queenslibrary.org.

Make A Gingerbread House FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 19, 4-5:15pm WHERE: Queens Library–McGoldrick branch, 155-06 Roosevelt Ave., Flushing AGES: 8-12 WHAT: Make your own gingerbread house. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 718-461-1616. queenslibrary.org.

Winter Celebrations FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 20, 3:30-5:30pm WHERE: Langston Hughes Library–Community Cultural Center, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Children and their families celebrate with stories, crafts, winter face painting characters, and more.

WANT TO GO? 718-875-3500. queenslibrary.org.

Celebrate The Holidays: Learn To Make A Typical Puerto Rican Christmas Dish FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 21, 2:30-4:30pm WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: All WHAT: Pickled green bananas are iconic in our Puerto Rican cuisine. They appear at all family parties especially during Thanksgiving and Christmas.

WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.

Friends Of St. Albans Presents Kwanzaa Talk, Trim Our Tree & Holiday Celebration FREE WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 21, 1:30-4pm WHERE: Queens Library–St. Albans Branch, 191-05 Linden Blvd., St. Albans AGES: All WHAT: Andrew P. Jackson (Sekou Molefi Baako) will provide a talk on Kwanzaa. Please bring an ornament to trim the tree.

WANT TO GO? 718-528-8196. queenslibrary.org.

Kids’ Christmas Party

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 21, 5-8pm WHERE: Mud Genius, 212-91 26th Ave., Bayside AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Paint Christmas pieces! Party includes face paint, fun games, and dancing, plus pizza and juice. Call to RSVP. WANT TO GO? $40. 718-428-8288. mudgenius.com.

Queens Farm Holiday Market FREE

WHEN: Dec. 1-24, daily, 10am-5pm (10am-2pm on Dec. 24) WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Expect a rich assortment of Christmas trees, wreaths, poinsettias, traditional games, toys, handmade stuffed animals, and Queens-made gifts.

WANT TO GO? 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

Caribbean Arts Festival: Migration Of Colors Community Kwanzaa Celebration FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 26, 5-7pm WHERE: Queens Library–Cambria Heights Branch, 218-13 Linden Blvd., Cambria Heights AGES: All WHAT: Learn about the history, principles, values, and customs of this African American holiday. Kids can do craft activities and hear from community elders.

WANT TO GO? 718-528-3535. queenslibrary.org.

Noon Year’s Eve Party

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 31, 10am-12pm WHERE: My Gym Fresh Meadows, 176-60 Union Turnpike, 3rd Floor, Fresh Meadows AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Ring in the new year at noon with games, activities, relays, and noise makers! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $20 per child ($18 members). mygym.com. ››

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WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

A Reptile Edventure with Erik Callender FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 12, 4-5pm WHERE: Lefferts Library, 103-34 Lefferts Blvd., Richmond Hill AGES: 6-12 WHAT: This fun-filled educational experience gives children a unique opportunity to see and learn about reptiles, amphibians, and even some large insects from around the world.

WANT TO GO? 718-843-5950. queenslibrary.org.

Book Jeopardy FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 17: Tuesdays, 5-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library­–Ridgewood Branch, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: 7-12 WHAT: Children are invited to join for an exciting, book-themed, kid version of the trivia game Jeopardy.

WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

Girls Who Code FREE

SMARTY PANTS Crazy 8s STEM Club FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 17, Tuesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library­–Corona Branch, 38-23 104 St., Corona AGES: 8-11 WHAT: A free program for girls, where kids can learn computer science and talk about female role models in science and technology.

WANT TO GO? 718-426-2844. queenslibrary.org.

Snapology Superhero Workshop FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 3, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library–Rochdale Village Branch, 169-09 137 Ave., Jamaica AGES: 8-11 WHAT: Join us for Rochdale’s Crazy 8s STEM Club focusing on math, where you’ll build stuff, run and jump, make music, and make a mess.

WANT TO GO? 718-723-4440. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Dec. 4-18, Wednesdays, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library–Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: 5-12 WHAT: To the Batcave, LEGO fans! In this program, kids will design their own superheroes, create their own hero adventures, build the cool superhero vehicle, and so much more! Preregistration required.

WANT TO GO? 718-225-8414. queenslibrary.org.

Lego Amusement Park Class FREE

African American History FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 6, 4-5pm WHERE: Queens Library: Baisley Park Branch, 117-11 Sutphin Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children will enjoy this amusement park class using LEGO bricks.

WANT TO GO? 718-529-1590. queenslibrary.org.

Access Mornings @ MoMI

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 7, 9:30-10:30am WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: All WHAT: This early access hour, before the museum is open to the general public, will allow visitors of all ages to explore the exhibitions and participate in art making projects, facilitated by museum educators. For families with members on the autism spectrum.

WANT TO GO? $5. 718-429-2579. movingimage.us.

STEM: Binary Code And Magnets FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 10, 3-3:45pm WHERE: Queens Library­–Douglaston-Little Neck Branch, 249-01 Northern Blvd., Little Neck AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Children are welcome to join in a STEM program about binary 28

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WHEN: Through Dec. 26: Thursdays, 3-4pm WHERE: Laurelton Library, 134-26 225 St., Laurelton AGES: 5-10 WHAT: Experience an education and discussion about African American history.

WANT TO GO? 718-528-2822. queenslibrary.org.

Chess Club FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Mondays, 5-6pm WHERE: Queens Library­–Seaside Branch, 116-15 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Park AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Challenge your brain, make new friends, and have fun while learning critical thinking and problem-solving skills!

WANT TO GO? 718-634-1876.

Sit & Think (Sudoku) FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Monday-Saturday, 1-1:15pm WHERE: Queens Library–Richmond Hill Branch, 118-14 Hillside Ave., Jamaica AGES: All

WHAT: Try a Sudoku puzzle or just refresh your math skills.

WANT TO GO? 718-849-7150. queenslibrary.org.

ONCE UPON A TIME

Weather the Weather

Drag Queen Story Hour FREE

WHEN: Through Jan. 10: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; SaturdaySunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: The weather is ever-present, often dramatic, and always uncontrollable. Submissions for this exhibition cover the topics of studying, understanding, and experiencing the weather.

WANT TO GO? Free with museum admission ($16 adults; $13 children ages 2-17). 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

The Art of the Brick

WHEN: Through Jan. 26: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; SaturdaySunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 4701 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Museum visitors can experience the world’s largest display of LEGO art during this special exhibition.

WANT TO GO? $7 per person, plus museum admission ($16 adults; $13 children, students and senior citizens). 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

STEAM Activities FREE

WHEN: Through June 18: Thursdays, 3-4pm WHERE: Queens Library­–Astoria Branch, 14-01 Astoria Blvd., Long Island City AGES: 6-11 WHAT: This program introduces children to the amazing world of science, technology, engineering, art, and math through simple science experiments and related activities.

WANT TO GO? 718-278-2220. queenslibrary.org.

Circle of Friends FREE

WHEN: Through June 19: Fridays, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library–Astoria Branch, 14-01 Astoria Blvd., Long Island City AGES: 6-13 WHAT: This program is for children with autism spectrum disorder.

The goal of this program is to help children to learn social skills through simple science experiments, art projects, and board games. A therapist or caregiver must be present.

WANT TO GO? 718-278-2220. queenslibrary.org.

Chess with Mr. Fariad FREE

WHEN: Through June 27: Saturdays, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: Queens Library–Rosedale Branch, 144-20 243rd St., Rosedale AGES: All WHAT: All chess lovers are welcome to this program: advanced players, intermediate players, and beginners.

WANT TO GO? 718-528-8490. queenslibrary.org.

Chess For All FREE

WHEN: Through June 30: Tuesdays, 4-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Library–Rosedale Branch, 144-20 243rd St., Rosedale AGES: All WHAT: This program is open to all chess lovers from beginners to advanced players.

WANT TO GO? 718-528-8490. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 5, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library­–Jackson Heights Branch, 35-51 81st St., Jackson Heights AGES: All WHAT: The program features a drag queen reading picture books, singing songs, and leading children in a craft activity.

WANT TO GO? 718-899-2500. queenslibrary.org.

Tell Me a Story FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 11: Wednesdays, 3:30-4pm WHERE: Pomonok Library, 158-21 Jewel Ave., Flushing AGES: 3-9 WHAT: Relax with a story.

WANT TO GO? 718-591-4343. queenslibrary.org.

Picture Book Time FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Wednesdays, 11:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Queens Library: Richmond Hill, 118-14 Hillside Ave., AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Join for stories, songs, finger plays, and simple crafts.

WANT TO GO? 718-849-7150. queenslibrary.org/branch/Richmond-Hill.

Babies & Books FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 27: Fridays, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Queens Library–Seaside Branch, 116-15 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Park AGES: 6-17 months WHAT: Enjoy a variety of board books, nurture preliteracy skills, meet up with other caregivers, and discover the joy of reading with your baby at the library!

WANT TO GO? 718-634-1876.

Musical Bubble Storytime for Kids FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 28: select Wednesdays and Saturdays, 10:3011:30am WHERE: Queensboro Hill Library, 60-05 Main St., Flushing AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Children will listen to stories and music with bubbles.

WANT TO GO? 718-359-8332.

Picture Book Time FREE

WHEN: Through Jan. 31: Fridays, 10:15-11:15am WHERE: Queens Library–Ozone Park Branch, 92-24 Rockaway Blvd., Ozone Park AGES: Newborn to 4 WHAT: Children and their parents or other adult caregivers are welcome for storytelling, music, and games.

WANT TO GO? 718-845-3127.

Kwanzaa Celebration With Songhai Djeli FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 27, 6-7pm WHERE: Pomonok Library, 158-21 Jewel Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Songhai Djeli presents a Kwanzaa program composed of music, poetry, and storytelling.

WANT TO GO? 718-591-4343. queenslibrary.org ››

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Holiday Concert in Classical Music Style with Slavic Arts Ensemble FREE

• Work Spaces With Free Wi-Fi

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 1, 2-3pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: The group will perform works by Pergolesi, Legawiec, Mielczewski, Handel, Grieg, and Corelli, and popular Christmas carols.

WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

• Private Drop-in Offices With Option of Supervised Play

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WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 8, 4-5pm WHERE: Book Culture LIC, 26-09 Jackson Ave., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Children of all ages are welcome to roll, crawl, squeal, and dance to their hearts’ content, while parents, grandparents, and caregivers can sit back and unwind.

WANT TO GO? $35; free for children younger than 12. 718-4403120. bookculture.com.

Monthly Jazz Jam: Celebrating the Legacy of Louis Armstrong

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 11, 7-10pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Open to jazz students, musicians, and music educators, Monthly Jazz Jams are a fun way to hone your skills and jam with your peers.

WANT TO GO? $10 (free for students and participating musicians).

718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

Winter Celebrations: An Evening of Classical Chamber Music WHEN: Friday, Dec. 13, 6:30-8:30pm WHERE: King Manor Museum, 150-03 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: An evening of wintry, festive music featuring the King Manor Museum’s Longman, Clementi & Co. fortepiano (London, c. 1800), and popular chamber music from the time of Rufus King.

WANT TO GO? $15; $10 students and seniors. 718-206-0545. kingmanor.org.

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WHEN: Through Dec. 16: Mondays, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Library–Ridgewood Branch, 20-12 Madison St., Ridgewood AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Sing with your friends every Monday.

WANT TO GO? 718-821-4770. queenslibrary.org.

Music and Movement for Infants and Toddlers FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 28: Wednesdays, 10:15-11:15am WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Infants, toddlers, and caregivers enjoy songs, movement, finger plays, puppets, and other activities.

WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.

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Are You the Parent of a Gifted Child?

LIU Post’s Center for Gifted Youth announces its 40th annual program for gifted children. The spring program runs Saturdays from Feb. 1, 2019 to April 25, 2020 and the summer program runs Monday to Friday from July 6 to July 30, 2020. The spring program is open to gifted children K-8 and the summer program is open to gifted children 2-8. The program expands students’ knowledge, develops creative and critical thinking skills, and offers children the opportunity to learn in an exciting and accepting environment.

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How to choose and sign up for a health insurance plan if your company doesn’t offer one By Emma Steven

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f you don’t receive health insurance from an employer, getting covered can be a daunting process, especially with dependents.

Many people consult a broker or an agent, but before making any choices, it’s important to do your homework. To help you sort out the complex options, we spoke to health care experts about how best to choose a plan.

Know Your Timing

The most important thing to remember when it comes to buying health insurance is there is a limited period of time each year— open enrollment season—when you are able to enroll in a new plan (or make a change, such as being added to a spouse’s plan).

One of the most common mistakes people make is they miss this window, says Lisa Zamosky, spokesperson for private online health insurance exchange eHealth and author of Healthcare, Insurance, and You: The Savvy Consumer’s Guide. “The window has shortened in the last two years. It’s now just a month and a half,” she says.

In our area, open enrollment runs from Nov. 1-Dec. 15, 2019, with coverage beginning Jan. 1, 2020. Open enrollment periods for employer plans vary. Remember: It’s impossible to enroll at any other time, unless you have what qualifies as special enrollment—a change of circumstances, such as losing your job, getting married, or having a baby. New York is one of the only states in the U.S. that considers pregnancy a special enrollment event.

Decide What You Need

Some folks may qualify for Medicaid and/or Child Health Insurance Protection—visit health.ny.gov for more information. Most people, however, will have to choose a plan depending on their individual medical needs. This can get confusing. “One of the most common mistakes people make is focusing exclusively on the monthly premium,” Zamosky says. “That’s really important. It’s got to fit into your budget.

But it’s also really important to understand how the things that you need are covered.” For example, consider how often you go to the doctor, your medications, and what you seek in preventative care.

Brittney Castro, Certified Financial Planner and expert at Investopedia.com has this advice: “Anytime you shop for insurance…start with looking at the policy offer (what is it covering?) and the benefits you want,” she says. “Start there and see what the cost comes out to be, then compare it against your budget and see if that’s realistic. Then you can start to eliminate certain bits of the coverage to get that premium down to a level that you feel you could afford.”

Types of Plans

Don’t just choose a plan at random. Make sure you weigh the pros and cons of each, then select the best one for you and your family.

Here is an overview of the various health insurance plans available.

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Spouse Plans If you are married, check if your spouse’s employer offers coverage as part of his or her benefits package. You can be added to the plan during the open enrollment period or under special enrollment.

If you aren’t married, many employers also offer domestic partner benefits to their employees. This can be tricky: Domestic partner benefits are not tax-free like the premiums paid for a spouse; on the other hand, employers may help cover the cost of these premiums.

Before you go this route, Zamosky recommends checking the numbers. “More often than not, it’s a better and more cost-effective choice. But there are certainly scenarios where that may not be the case,” she says. “It costs you nothing to go online and take a look at the plans.”

If adding everyone to one policy is too expensive, you can search for a new family plan on the Affordable Care Act marketplace, or private exchanges such as eHealth. You may qualify for financial help. Unfortunately, due to a rule colloquially called the “Family Glitch,” even if you qualify for subsidies based on your family income, the system may still count you as having access to an affordable plan because the calculation is based on the individual premium, not the family premium. This means you might not always be eligible for assistance, even if adding your whole family to the plan is unaffordable.

COBRA If you recently quit or lost your job, you can keep your old insurance for a limited period thanks to the Consolidated Omnibus Reconciliation Act, COBRA for short. This federal law allows you to continue paying for your old plan. The catch? You now have to pick up the entire cost, so it is often very expensive. Plus, you only have 60 days to sign up after your job coverage ends, so you need to move quickly.

You can also use COBRA to get coverage if you get a divorce, your insured spouse dies, or you become too old to be on your parents’ plan. The maximum amount of time you can get coverage this way is 18 months, and you can opt out at any time.

Exchange Plans Another option is buying a plan on an exchange and, thanks to the ACA, every state now has an insurance marketplace (ours is nystateofhealth.ny.gov), where you can compare plans and choose the best one for you. Each is guaranteed to comply with the ACA’s

rules, such as covering pre-existing conditions and preventative care, and no cap on annual benefits. There are also many subsidies you can apply for. You can buy a plan from the marketplace online, on the phone, via a paper form, through a private exchange, or direct from a broker or agent. Again, you can only do this during open enrollment or special enrollment.

What many people don’t realize is the state marketplace doesn’t include all ACA-compliant plans offered by insurers. “If you don’t qualify for subsidies, it’s a good idea to have a look at something like eHealth or speak to a broker, because there may be a plan that isn’t on the state marketplace that could be good for you,” Zamosky says.

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Small Business Owners One exception to the open enrollment period rule is available to small business owners. If you run a small business with two or more full-time employees, you can buy something called small business plan insurance. These are ACA-compliant and often work out to be very good value, Zamosky says.

If you don’t have your own business, there are many business associations that offer health insurance plans. For example, if you are one of the 57 million freelance workers in the United States, you can buy a plan through the Freelancer Union (freelancersunion.org). There are 450,000 members nationwide, and it’s free to join. Association plans like this can only be joined during open enrollment or special enrollment.

High-Deductible Health Plans With HDHPs, you pay a lower monthly premium because your deductible is high. They are often offered by employers alongside a Health Savings Account they contribute to, but HDHPs can be bought individually. Before deciding on one of these plans, it’s very important to figure out if it makes sense based on your specific medical needs. According to Zamosky, there are two types of people who this plan suits: those who rarely visit the doctor and so save money with the low premium, and those who anticipate high costs (such as people planning surgery in the next year) who benefit from the cap on the out-ofpocket expenses.

Whatever path you choose, don’t opt out. No insurance means you won’t be able to take care of your health with regular check-ups and preventative care. You won’t be prepared in the case of an accident if you need medical attention or hospitalization. Medical bills can quickly add up if you don’t have insurance, and are a leading cause of bankruptcy, according to a recent study by the American Public Health Association. “I would never recommend that as a financial planner—or as just a citizen,” Castro says.

Emma Steven is a British freelance writer living in Manhattan with her husband, two small kids, and two cats.

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While your kid may be fighting through the sniffles, you’ve got to field calls from work, arrange child care for tomorrow (just in case), and keep your feverish little monster entertained. It won’t necessarily be fun, but it can be easier. By Katelin Walling

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he alarm clock rings for school, and your child complains of not feeling well. While fluids and rest are the best treatments when your child is sick, according to Tanya Altmann, M.D., FAAP, pediatrician, mother of two, and American Academy of Pediatrics spokesperson, you’ve got some immediate decisions to make. Here’s your prescription for sick days, including when your child should stay home and finding last-minute child care to keep this sick day from turning into a Ferris Bueller’s Day Off-like escapade (hey, it’s okay to keep the kid entertained, but let’s skip the parades).

Going to School vs. Staying Home Nearly 22 million school days are lost each year due to colds, and approximately 38 million school days are lost each year due to the flu, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. If your child is starting to feel ill but you don’t want her to contribute too many of her own sick days to those millions of missed school days, you can still send her to school if she has a runny nose, is sneezing, or has a slight cough, says 34

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Sandhya Katz, M.D., board-certified in pediatric and pediatric emergency medicine. “But send them with instructions of: Always cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze and always dispose of used tissues. And send them with a hand sanitizer to keep in their bag so they can constantly clean their hands.”

Dr. Katz says you should absolutely not send your child to school when he is feverish, is vomiting more than two times a day, has discharge coming from his eyes, is having trouble breathing, or has a whooping-kind of cough or persistent abdominal pain. If your child is unable to perform daily tasks or be in class for 6-8 hours, Dr. Katz adds, that is also a reason why your child should stay home.

When your child has not had a fever for more than 24 hours, is not vomiting, and can sit through a full day of school, she is in the clear to head back to class.

Find last-minute child care.

“There are times when you choose to take a somewhat ill child to school because it will seriously inconvenience you.

Other times you don’t want to keep your child home because something special will be missed—a school trip, or a crucial test,” says Susan Bartell, Psy.D., a Port Washington-based child, teen, and parenting psychologist. “We all do it, but let’s face it, it’s not right. If you’re sick you should be home recuperating.” But keeping your child home may not be a cutand-dry situation, especially if both you and your spouse work.

Here, a few suggestions for last-minute child care: • Set up an agreement with your partner: If you and your spouse have the flexibility of taking a sick day at work when your child’s sick, take turns on who will stay home each day so one of you isn’t taking all the time off, or consider each working a half-day so neither of you misses a full day of work.

• Ask your employer if you have a work-from-home option: Some businesses will allow employees to telecommute for a day or two, which makes it easier for you to care for your child. Just make sure your child understands that you still need to work and can’t give him one-on-one attention all day.

• Keep a list of caregivers that may be available at the lastminute: If you have family close by, check with them to see if they’d be willing to care for your child when she has to stay home sick. Another option is asking a friend who works from home to work from your home while keeping an eye on your child.

• Call the local hospital: Your neighborhood hospital or pediatrician may offer day care for sick children, or they may know of a sick child drop-in center nearby. (Do this research ahead of time so you’re not scrambling day of.)

• Browse online sitter services: Sites such as SitterCity.com, UrbanSitter.com, and Care.com allow you to search for sitters that are available last-minute to care for your child. Full disclosure: Tell the sitter before booking that your child is sick.

Keep the rest of your family healthy.

Once school begins, colds spread like wildfire. And if you’re not careful, that school-borne illness your child has can easily spread to the rest of the family. “About 65 percent of all colds are caught in the home,” says Philip Tierno, Ph.D., director of clinical microbiology and immunology at New York University Langone Medical Center.

So how do you keep the rest of the family healthy? Dr. Tierno suggests you wash your hands regularly and thoroughly (Dr. Altmann suggests teaching your kids to sing “Happy Birthday” or “Row, Row, Row Your Boat” twice while washing

KEEP THE BOREDOM AT BAY Our top 10 mellow activities to keep sick kids entertained without wearing them out.

Make a fort in your child’s bedroom or the living room where he can nap.

Have various story times throughout the day if your child is young. Alternatively, if your child is older, give her some pleasure reading books (not school books).

Mix up some Jell-O—the perfect snack for sore throats!—in creative shapes, either with fun-shaped silicone baking molds or ice cube trays, or use a good ol’ cookie cutter.

Change location. Being confined to the same spot all day will make anyone restless, so switch between the bedroom and living room. This writer’s favorite place when home sick? Mom and Dad’s bed, which was big enough to snuggle with Fido.

Cook up a big pot of chicken noodle soup, which delivers protein, carbohydrates, some vitamins, and other helpful nutrients in an easily digested form. A study at Mount Sinai Medical Center found that hot chicken soup, either the smell or the taste, “appears to possess an additional substance for increasing the flow of nasal mucus,” which helps remove germs from your system and gets you on the way to recovery, according to Sue Castle, in her book Mother Knows Best?

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Dust off that stack of coloring and activity books or print free ones at home (check out crayola.com for seemingly endless options).

Legos…need we say more?

A little screen time never hurt—cue up movies on Netflix, the Disney Channel, or Nickelodeon.

Dawdle in a long, warm bath, especially if your kids love playing in the tub but never get enough time for it before bed.

Play a board or card game of bygone days—crazy eights, cribbage (bonus: math skills practice), or Sorry, anyone?

hands for proper cleaning); teach your children the proper etiquette for coughing and sneezing—use a tissue or the crux of your arm—and model these actions to your children; sanitize surfaces in the home—doorknobs, dining surfaces, remote controls, telephones; and practice good food hygiene by sanitizing countertops and cooking surfaces regularly, always use a clean cutting board, and avoid mixing uncooked plantand animal-based foods.

It’s also important to discourage kids from touching their eyes, nose, and mouth with unwashed hands and tell them to avoid close contact (such as kissing, hugging, and sharing cups or eating utensils) with people who are sick.

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The Palmar Grasp reflex, which happens when you stroke your infant’s palm, is practice for mastering voluntary grasping.

Decoding Infant Reffllflexes ›› Here’s the breakdown on baby’s baffling—but totally normal—built-in behaviors

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lmost everything about a newborn is overwhelming. On littleto-no sleep, you’re expected to assemble gear that requires an engineering degree. You can’t go out without carrying what feels like the entire contents of your home. Then you start to notice your baby is doing these...weird things. And your new-parent panic kicks in: What. Is. Happening!? No need to worry. Those fascinating, quirky little behaviors are natural, and actually serve a purpose.

What are reflexes?

Reflexes are involuntary, spontaneous movements that are part of normal infant development. Adults have them too; the “knee-jerk” reaction to a tap of your doctor’s hammer is probably the most familiar.

Infant developmental reflexes are also known as primitive reflexes, and they arise from the brain stem and spinal cord. “They are generally believed to exist because they have offered a survival benefit to human infants from an evolutionary perspective,” says Lauren Levine, M.D., assistant professor of Pediatrics at Columbia University Medical Center in Manhattan. Primitive newborn reflexes will generally fade away between 1 and 6 months of age.

“If you think that your infant’s reflexes persist past this age, you should let your pediatrician know,” Dr. Levine says. “But I tell parents not to stress about newborn reflexes. A good pediatrician will be assessing them at each well-baby visit without you even realizing it!”

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The Rooting Reflex

What: When either side of a baby’s mouth is touched, he’ll turn his head in that direction, open his mouth, and root around.

Why: This helps a baby find the nipple and be able to feed. “You can imagine how an infant without these primitive reflexes might not have survived after birth thousands of years ago,” Dr. Levine notes.

In the first month of your baby’s life, when she’s learning how to eat and you’re learning how to feed her, you can leverage this reflex. “Stroking the baby’s face at the corner of the mouth can help encourage the baby to latch on or take the nipple in the mouth,” says Victoria Riese, M.D., of Flatiron Pediatrics in Manhattan. “Just be aware that a baby will root any time the cheek or corner of the mouth is stroked, so don’t mistake the reflex for a sign of hunger, especially if the baby has just eaten.”

The Sucking Reflex

What: When the roof of a baby’s mouth is touched, she immediately starts sucking. (Newborns also have a strong urge to put their fists in their mouths and suck on their own fingers.)

Why: Newborns’ neurological systems are immature in the first six months of life. “There needs to be a fail-safe method for the baby to get nourishment without any purposeful behavior, and then growth and development can follow,” Dr. Riese says. (This particular reflex isn’t completely cemented in utero until about 36 weeks, which is

why preemies often have a compromised ability to feed.)

Sucking in general is soothing to babies, a secondary function of this reflex that probably developed to motivate babies to suck to get milk. “When a baby is fussy, putting a clean finger or pacifier in her mouth is extremely soothing and will help calm her very easily, especially if she has recently eaten and is not hungry,” Dr. Riese says.

“This is one of the most useful methods to calm babies.”

The Moro (aka Startle) Reflex

What: In reaction to a sound or nearby sudden movement, a newborn throws back his head, extends his arms and legs out, then pulls his legs and arms back in. He might cry as well. Some babies even display this reflex in response to their own cry. “They are often the reason babies wake themselves up from sleep,” Dr. Levine says. “This is why swaddling infants helps them to sleep better.

Their arms are tucked in and can’t flail about.”

Why: “The reflex movement adjusts the baby’s posture to keep him or her balanced. Once a baby develops more voluntary control over movements, these automatic responses fade away,” says Devorah Segal, M.D., Ph.D., pediatric neurologist at New York-Presbyterian Komansky Children’s Hospital and Weill Cornell Medicine in Manhattan. And a good sense of balance is quite useful for a new human to have. For one thing, it can make it easier to grab onto your mother if she should start to lose her grip on you.

The Tonic Neck (aka the Fencing Position) Reflex

What: When your baby is lying down, and his head is turned to one side, the arm on that same side extends out, while the other arm bends at his elbow, like a fencer would stand.

Why: Much like the Moro reflex, Dr. Segal explains, this one likely originated as an automatic protective response to help maintain balance. After six months or so, “more purposeful balancing motions replace it,” she says.

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The Palmar Grasp (aka Grip) Reflex

What: Stroking your baby’s palm spurs her to close her fingers in a grasp. (A similar lesser-known reflex in the feet and toes usually lasts until babies are about 9 months old.)

Why: It’s practice, essentially, for being able to master voluntary grasping, which will happen in a few months. Some experts call it a vestigial reflex, meaning its evolutionary purpose is no longer useful.

It is thought to have originated as a way for babies to hang onto their mothers’ fur when humans were hairier. That alleviated the need for a mother to hold onto her baby while trying to, say, run from a predator.

The Stepping Reflex

What: Despite not being able to support his own weight, your baby moves his legs as though walking, even dancing, when you’re holding him upright with his feet touching a solid surface.

Why: This reflex is pretty much what it looks like: preparation and training for the all-important ability of humans to walk upright.

“The best thing for parents to do when it comes to their infant’s primitive reflexes is to know what they are,” Dr. Levine notes. “That way, they’re not alarmed when they see them, and they’re able to tell the pediatrician if any of them are asymmetrical.” For example, your baby only grasps with her right hand and not the left, or, when startled, flails her left arm but not her right. “Such asymmetries could indicate a nerve or musculoskeletal injury from the birth process and need further evaluation,” Dr. Levine says. But remember, the reflexes themselves are not harmful to your baby in any way. Dr. Segal agrees: “There is nothing parents need to do to ‘train’ their baby out of a reflex. They will go away on their own over time.”

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Your teens still need some guidance when it comes to healthy habits, such as eating a balanced meal, so try cooking together once or twice a week and enjoying a meal as a family.

Don’t Let Go—Just Yet

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Even though your teen is gaining more independence, you still need to do these four things. By Laura D’Angelo

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“ ’m not a little kid anymore!”

Those six heart-wrenching words are often what adolescents tell their parents, who may still view their teens as the babies they once were. It can be hard to let go, whether you are handing over the car keys, packing your “child” up for college, or accepting that your 13-year-old wants to start wearing makeup to school.

No parent is fully prepared to come to terms with their teenager outgrowing certain childhood habits. However, society sometimes misconstrues what the actual meaning of adolescence is: an extension of childhood. Even though your teenager is beginning to gain independence, that doesn’t mean he is going to become a full-fledged, independent adult overnight. Here are four ways your teen still needs you, according to experts in adolescent psychology.

Set Rules and Boundaries

You’ve likely set guidelines throughout your teen’s life, relating to your family values and morals—and those of society and culture at large. But internalizing and acting according to those rules is a lot for her to take on by herself right now, according to Erin Jant, Ph.D., developmental psychology professor at 38

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Binghamton University. “They’ve had all these routines and rules throughout their life, but they might still need reminders on some things,” Dr. Jant says.

This is especially true when it comes to the pressure your teen may feel from her peers or what she sees on social media, according to Alyson Cohen, LCSW, who works with adolescents and young adults at her private practice in midtown Manhattan.

Your teen doesn’t need to be micromanaged in every aspect of her life, but gentle reminders here and there—especially when it comes to what’s okay to share and how to act on social media—will go a long way to ensuring your teen stays safe online, Cohen points out.

Remind About Dietary and Hygiene Habits

While your teenager may not need to rely on you entirely for meals and reminders about cleanliness anymore, it’s possible he still might need some help adjusting to becoming independently accountable for the many responsibilities that come with growing up.

Check in on your teenager to make sure he’s practicing healthy food habits to balance the junk food he eats when you’re not

around. In many situations she deals with, Cohen finds it helpful when parents are involved in preparing their teenager’s food. Try cooking together once or twice a week, or give him more freedom to choose and prepare a meal for the family.

When it comes to hygiene, it’s especially important to help young teens along with some gentle reminders—after all, needing deodorant and getting acne is new for them. Cohen suggests asking questions like: “Are you brushing and flossing your teeth at night?”; “Are you actually using body wash and shampoo when you take a shower?”; “When was the last time your sheets were changed?”; and “Are you making sure your favorite jeans are getting washed?” The important thing is not to come down on him for doing something wrong, but rather to reinforce his positive behaviors and habits through encouragement.

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Allow for Natural Consequences

One of the most influential factors in whether a teenager becomes a self-reliant, confident adult is whether she has been allowed to face (and learn from) the consequences of her actions, Dr. Jant stresses. If you fix every single issue for him, he won’t ever get the sense of autonomy he needs to thrive in the real world. After all, if you keep bringing your teen her lunch at school because she always forgets to pack it, will she ever learn to remember? “[It’s important] that their parents are giving them rules, sending them off, and hoping that they’re learning from their own failures, while always providing support when necessary,” Dr. Jant says. “Natural consequences are very useful and impactful for teens especially.” So, consider letting your teens experience safe and natural consequences. For example, instead of emailing her English teacher asking if she can do extra credit to boost her grade, let her take the lower grade. It’s the only way she’ll realize writing her essays on the bus the morning they are due isn’t a great idea.

Show Emotional and Physical Affection

Even if your teenager tells you he can’t stand your smothering hugs, appropriate physical affection from a parent or guardian is something he’ll never outgrow, Cohen says. “There has been so much research in the last 25 years that there is no amount of love that you can give your child that’s too much,” Cohen says. “And when I say love, I don’t mean being overbearing, in their face trying to do everything for them, but [saying], ‘I love you. I care so much about you. I’m so happy you’re in my life.’”

It is especially important to remember your teenager has not outgrown physical affection, according to Dr. Jant. Why? “The risk for depression in adolescence jumps up exponentially compared to middle childhood,” she says. So, it’s crucial that parents pay attention to behavior shifts in their children, and not take on a permissive parenting style just because they want to be liked, Dr. Jant says. “There are so many parents who feel that tension…so then they pull back. They just allow [their teen] to do whatever, and then that can lead to negative consequences for that child.”

Even though it can be difficult, it’s important to remember to remain calm when your teenager is acting up or shutting you out. Even if she’s behaving like she wants nothing to do with you, what she really needs more than ever is your love, support, and affection.

Laura D’Angelo, a former NYMetroParents editorial intern, is a junior at Binghamton University.

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33-34 80th St., Jackson Heights 718-457-1242, 718-759-4977 145innovators.com info@magnetschools.nyc I.S. 145: A 21st century learning community. By infusing science, technology, engineering, arts, and math (STEAM) into the curriculum, students are engaging in collaboration, creativity, communication, and critical thinking on a daily basis. Regents track and Spanish-English dual-language programming and enrichment courses are offered during and after school hours.

MS 358: The Magnet School of Steam Exploration and Experiential Learning

88-08 164th St., Jamaica 718-558-6240 ms358.org info@magnetschools.nyc At The Magnet School of STEAM Exploration and Experiential Learning, everyone learns with purpose. Classroom instruction incorporates passionate speaking, purposeful writing, powerful presentations, and digital literacy.

Experiential learning supports students in taking intellectual risks, making real world connections, increasing engagement, and providing opportunities to explore authentic topics and challenges.

PS 140Q: The Edward K. Ellington Magnet School of Science, Technology and The Arts - A Steam Magnet School 166-01 116th Ave., Jamaica

718-657-4760, 718-759-4977 theedwardkellingtonschool.org info@magnetschools.nyc The Edward K. Ellington Magnet School of Science, Technology, and the Arts - our motto, “Where Greatness Occurs, One Step At A Time.� Project-based STEAM curriculum, advanced technology, arts, music, enrichment clubs, and middle-school prep. We strive to develop productive, self-thinking, problem-solving citizens, capable of thriving in an ever-evolving world.

PS 195: The William Haberle Magnet School of Multimedia, Arts, and STEM

84-40 101st St. 718-846-1840 ps195magnet.org PS 195 - The Magnet Academy of Multimedia Arts and STEM is a warm community environment where every student is welcomed.

Students use technology to create animations, news broadcasts, and documentaries that illustrate their learning. STEM is woven throughout the curriculum, giving students opportunities to learn science content in new ways.

PS 201: The Discovery School for Inquiry and Research: Steam Magnet School

65-11 155th St., Flushing 718-359-0620 ps201.org info@magnetschools.nyc, info@ ps201.org At PS 201: A STEAM Magnet School, inquiry-based learning encourages students to become independent thinkers, ask questions, and actively research answers. The innovative curriculum is motivating for all students. STEAM learning combines the study of science, technology, engineering, art, and mathematics into projects that prepare students for college and careers.

PS 254: The Rosa Parks Magnet School of Leadership Development and the Arts

84-40 101st St. 718-846-1840 ps254q27.com PS 254 - The Rosa Parks Magnet School of Leadership Development and the Arts is a place where every child is a leader. Children

internalize the “seven habits of highly effective leaders” through the Leader in Me program. Students develop creativity through a theatrical production, dance classes, music, and visual arts.

PS 316: The Queens Explorers Magnet School of Global Conservation and Service Learning

90-07 101st Ave. 718-558-7088 qemagnetschool.org PS 316 - The Queens Explorers Magnet School for Conservation and Service Learning uses project based learning to engage students and connect them in an authentic way with the world while instilling empathy in their students. Learners participate in five large scale community service projects throughout the year.

PS 349: The Magnet School of Leadership and Innovation Through Steam

88-08 164th St., Jamaica 718-558-6220, 718-759-4977 ps349.info info@magnetschools.nyc PS 349 offers a rigorous STEAM curriculum designed to ignite students’ imagination through engineering and design, spark their curiosity, and engage through exploration. Leadership instruction integrates The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People into all classes, allowing for collaboration and leadership through self–management, self–awareness, and responsible decision-making.

PS 52: The Magnet School of Innovation, Exploration, and Engineering

178-37 146th Terrace 718-528-2238 ps52magnet.org PS 52 - The Magnet School of Innovation, Exploration, and Engineering features a STEM lab and engineering spaces where students solve real world problems and work collaboratively.

Students use the Engineering Design Process to analyze challenges and generate solutions. Teachers use a hands-on approach to make learning come alive.

PS 55: The Maure Magnet School of Communication Arts, Technology and Multimedia 131-10 97th Ave., Richmond Hill 718-849-3845, 718-759-4977 ps55q.com info@magnetschools.nyc, info@

ps55q.com At PS 55 every student has a voice.

Theme-based instruction, project-based units, arts and technology integration. Students develop higher order thinking skills, share ideas, connect with each other, engage and explore. Learning is expanded by writing code, creating audio and video presentations, performing music, graphic design, and using 3D printers.

PS 62: The Chester Park Magnet School of Computer Science and Innovation

97-25 108th St. 718-286-4460 ps062.org PS 62- The Magnet School for Computer Science and Innovation has established itself as a leader in elementary computer science instruction. Teachers integrate coding, robotics, 3D printing, and other technologies into everyday instruction.

Students participate in an annual Makerfaire where they showcase their innovation.

PS 92: The Harry T. Stewart, Sr. Magnet School for Engineering, Architecture & the Arts

99-01 34th Ave., Corona 718-533-1013, 718-759-4977 ps92q.org info@magnetschools.nyc All grades at PS 92 participate in hands-on Project Based Learning (PBL) themed around engineering, architecture, and the arts. Our rigorous curriculum is designed for students to explore and generate evidence to support learning through projects and culminating events. Students learn to discuss ideas, refine prototypes, and collaborate with others.

PS/MS 200: The Magnet School of Global Studies & Leadership

70-10 164th St., Flushing 718-969-7780, 718-759-4977 globalstudiesandleadership.org info@magnetschools.nyc Students at The Magnet School of Global Studies & Leadership graduate with a profound understanding of the worldwide challenges and the necessary leadership skills needed to effect change in the 21st century.

Students celebrate countries and cultures through an emphasis on global competence, geographic literacy, project-based learning, and STEM education.

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ZWEIHORN ORTHODONTICS

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Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Queens: 718-640-6767 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

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SALONS AND SPAS NAILS BY JUDES – COMING SOON

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SPECIAL NEEDS ABLE HEALTH CARE SERVICE

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THE LAW OFFICES OF DEBORAH S. BALL

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LITTLE STEPS 1, INC. SPEECH & LANGUAGE CLINIC

Adelina Samuels, M.A. C.C.C.-S.L.P. speech pathologist 63-70 Woodhaven Blvd., Rego Park 929-335-7707 littlestepsspeech.com Little Steps 1, Inc. aims to help people develop their communication abilities, as well as treat speech, language, swallowing, and voice disorders. Services include prevention, identification, evaluation, diagnosis, treatment, and rehabilitation.

LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Queens: 718-640-6767 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children

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Bayside at Shotokai Karate, USA upper level of the Baybridge Commons Shopping Center Forest Hills at the Reform Temple of Forest Hills Forest Hills at the Church-InThe-Gardens Glendale at Tiger Schulmann’s Glendale musictogetherwithmusicandme. com info@musictogetherwithmusicandme.com Call or go online and click to schedule a free trial class with your family at one of our open house classes and get ready to make Music Together® with Music and Me!

PS 140Q: The Edward K. Ellington Magnet School of Science, Technology and the Arts - A Steam Magnet School 166-01 116th Ave., Jamaica 718-657-4760, 718-759-4977 theedwardkellingtonschool.org info@magnetschools.nyc Join us for an open house on Dec. 12 from 9:30-10:30am.

Come to learn about all the academic experiences designed to engage, inspire, and promote student achievement.

PS 55: The Maure Magnet School of Communication Arts, Technology and Multimedia

131-10 97th Ave., Richmond Hill 718-849-3845, 718-759-4977 ps55q.com info@magnetschools.nyc info@ps55q.com Join us for open house on Wednesday, Dec. 11 from 9-10am. Learn about the interesting, innovative academic experiences designed to engage, inspire, and promote student achievement.

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PartyCentral PARTY ENTERTAINMENT CLOWNS.COM Proudly Serving Westchester, Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, Manhattan, and the Bronx 516-577-0000 718-971-5862 clowns.com

We are a family-owned and -operated entertainment company, offering a wide range of party and entertainment services including clowns, inflatable bounce houses, characters, magicians, princesses, magic shows, face painting, and party concession rentals.

KIDS PARTY WITH RUBY 646-683-1881 kidspartywithruby.com ruby@kidspartywithruby.com

Kids Party with Ruby offers party planning assistance, kids party entertainment packages, bounce houses, balloon decorations, and party favors! We bring everything to your party to ensure all the kids have a fun and unforgettable experience.

YOURQUEENS.COM Proudly serving the New York City Tri-State area, Westchester, New Jersey, and Connecticut 917-892-1654 yourqueens.com

We are the first registered costume character company depicting the stories of real African kings and queens through storytelling, song, and dance. Now booking for camps, birthday parties, and special events.

PARTY PLACES AMERICAN DANCE & DRAMA 188-22 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 718-479-8522 americandanceanddrama.net

We are one of Queens’s largest and most exciting birthday party locations, offering dress-up, disco, and gymnastics parties. We also offer bubbles and fog machines, cotton candy, plus crazy craft, and princess parties!

BEE YOU ART STUDIO 32-43 Francis Lewis Blvd., (inside Bayside Plaza, upper level), Bayside 718-926-9728 beeyouartstudio.com beeyouartstudio@gmail.com

Bee You Art Studio offers birthday parties for ages 4 and older! The whole studio is yours for two hours. Parties consist of a step-by-step painting of your choice. We offer canvas paintings, ceramic plates, or mugs.

CELEBRATIONS IN THE KITCHEN 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com 44

Your local guide to entertainers, party places, activities, and other resources.

The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event! We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy, including sugar cookie baking, all about pizza, cupcakes from scratch, doughnuts, chocolate and candy projects.

Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen.com for more information on parties.

CK KIDS BIRTHDAY PARTIES 68-02 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village 917-602-6271 ctkny.org jmichel@ctkny.org

We know your child’s birthday is a special day-so we only book one party at time! Private party room available with two bounce houses, ball pit, disco lighting, cotton candy, face painting, tattoos, music, and games!

GRAVITY VAULT MELVILLE INDOOR ROCK GYM 40 Melville Park Road 516-777-9255 gravityvault.com/locations/melville-ny melville@gravityvault.com

Climbing is a great way to celebrate your birthday! Our awesome climbing parties give kids an exciting day they will never forget! Offering different party package options to accommodate your needs.

THE LANYARD LADIES 433 Merrick Road, Oceanside 516-578-2248 thelanyardladies.com info@thelanyardladies.com

The Lanyard Ladies friendship bracelet and lanyard birthday parties bring the party to you, or you can come to their brand-new party place! Many amazing themes and packages to choose from.

LASER BOUNCE – FAMILY FUN CENTER The Shops at Atlas Park, 80-28 Cooper Ave., Glendale 347-599-1919 laserbounce.net

Queens’ premiere indoor fun center featuring a gigantic arcade, laser tag, virtual reality, bouncers, 3D Simulator, and bowling. Specializing in private birthday parties for all ages. We have fun for everyone!

MUSIC TOGETHER® WITH MUSIC AND ME Celebrating our new look with our new name!

Wendy DeAngelis, center director (Mommy, Music & Me, Inc. since 2003) Gym-Azing in Astoria Bayside at Shotokai Karate, USA upper level of the Baybridge Commons Shopping Center The Reform Temple of Forest Hills in Forest Hills The Church in The Gardens in Forest Hills Tiger Schulmann’s MMA in Glendale 718-229-0033 musictogetherwithmusicandme.com info@musictogetherwithmusicandme.com

We provide unique birthday party musical experiences for first through sixth birthdays. Call us to customize your child’s musical birthday. We can also come to your space.

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SKY VILLAGE NYC 23-05 29th St., Astoria 917-608-1658 skyvillagenyc.com skyvillageevents@gmail.com

Sky Village NYC offers the best art themed birthday parties in Queens! Our space offers 15-foot high, floor to ceiling windows. Your child’s paint party will feel like a breath of fresh air as your guests enjoy a Zen play space.

SOCIAL PLAY HAUS 200 Express St , Plainview 516-200-6444 socialplayhaus.com info@socialplayhaus.com

Social Play Haus is the newest and hippest cafe and event space created for modern families on Long Island. We specialize in first birthday celebrations, birthdays, showers, baptisms, reveals, fundraisers, and corporate events.

SUGAR FACTORY Sugar Factory - Meatpacking District 835 Washington St. Sugar Factory - The Row 700 8th Ave. Sugar Factory - Upper West Side 1991 Broadway 212-414-8700 sugarfactory.com sfny@sugarfactory.com

Party where the stars play! Here at Sugar Factory, we offer pre-fixed and customizable party packages for any celebration and budget! From private large-scale events to private dinners for two, a Sugar Factory celebration is one you will never forget!

SUPERKICKERS P.S. 69, Jackson Heights 718-350-1535 superkickers.com info@superkickers.com

Super kickers party consists of soccer games, bouncy house, two staff members, setup and cleanup, basic color paper goods, pizzas, and juice for each child. Party is for 20 kids plus the birthday child.

USTA BILLIE JEAN KING NATIONAL TENNIS CENTER Flushing Meadows-Corona Park, Flushing 718-760-6200 x0 ntc.usta.com

Birthday party packages include one hour of court time with drills and games organized by our USTA Pro staff and one hour private room for pizza.

WHITESTONE LANES 30-05 Whitestone Expressway, Flushing 718-353-6300 whitestonelanes.net

We are now booking children and teen birthday parties as well as corporate and team building events for 20192020. Call our party hostess Lisa for more information.

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Trip of a Lifetime ›› Despite every precaution, our family vacation turned tragic. By Shana Liebman

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insisted on the vaccinations. Typhoid, hepatitis A, MMR, polio.

I even drove the kids upstate to a clinic because the yellow fever vaccine was in short supply. Their arms hurt for days.

For malaria we had to take pills, which for a 7-year-old and a 9-year-old is virtually impossible. I sprayed our clothes with Deet and packed the extra anti-malaria pills along with six bottles of Off and a scarf that was supposed to repel mosquitoes.

My husband thought I was crazy. “Bobby says it’s not necessary,” he said. Bobby is our friend who lives in Kenya. We were on our way to visit him for what was going to be—to use a cliched phrase that we found ourselves reluctantly repeating—the trip of a lifetime.

“Why take a risk?” I argued.

“Whatever you want,” my husband said.

Finally, we were ready for what I thought was going to be the hardest part of our journey: a 17-hour plane ride. Instead, we breezed through the epic flight. “See?” My husband said.

“It’s easy.”

Bobby was there to greet us and drove us through the packed, dusty Nairobi streets to his home behind a guarded gate. That afternoon, the kids held mini bananas while monkeys jumped on their backs. We fed giraffes and drank wine beneath avocado trees.

After three days, we flew to the Mara—the bush—where we watched a lioness kill a gazelle then offer the carcass to her cubs.

We saw wildebeests, led by zebras, cross a river filled with crocodiles. Our kids gaped in awe from the back of the jeep and slept beneath mosquito nets back at camp.

Then we hopped another plane to Watamu, a small town on the Indian Ocean where we found ourselves in a beachfront five-bedroom with a personal chef. I read an entire novel while the kids frolicked in the pool. I am happy, I emailed a friend.

After snorkeling, we decided to check out the Crab Shack on the mangrove where we could watch a stunning sunset. It was 5pm, daylight just starting to fade. “Boys get your shoes,” I said.

A few seconds later we heard a shatter like a planter had been knocked over and then I saw what had actually happened, a vision that still haunts me every time I close my eyes.

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Nate and Mack, the author’s sons, in the Mara with a Masai guide

Mack, my 7-year-old, who was running to get his shoes, had smashed right through the sliding glass door. Glass was everywhere and Mack was screaming. And then there was blood. So much of it. I thought of the gazelle in the Mara. I thought of the book I read where a boy walks through glass and dies. And I thought, is this it?

I immediately started reassuring everyone, but for the first time as a parent, I thought: It’s not going to be okay. This is when the good times end.

And then: What if? What if he had not left his shoes outside? What if we had decided to stay in that evening?

My hands shook as I wrapped Mack’s wounds. The ambulance arrived. A doctor tried to give Mack an IV, but his veins had collapsed.

We drove 2 hours through black night under pouring rain on dirt roads to a hospital where a young African girl was wheezing.

Was this really happening?

There were waves of nausea and blurry floors. Finally, the doctor said, “He’s going to be okay.”

“He is?” I asked, still unsure.

We spent the rest of our vacation in African hospitals, getting Mack sewn back together. The pain was so bad at times that he needed IVs and shots and nerve-blockers. He screamed and cried and vomited from the medicine. But after a week, we learned there would be no permanent damage, minus a few brutal scars.

When we got home, there were notes and flowers from our friends. Exhausted, I unpacked our dusty clothes and saw the bottle of anti-malaria pills. I thought of all the shots I had made the boys get, the forms I carried with us in a sturdy plastic folder— proof of our exceptional health and fortitude. That was us before, I thought, before we knew what it felt like to see our tiny, precious child hurt so badly that time stops.

I threw the pill bottle in the trash. We had shielded ourselves against deadly, crippling diseases, and yet life had thrown us a curveball that no vaccine could have blocked.

Are we better for it? Who knows? But two months later, as I write this, Mack is kicking a soccer ball against the house, shaking the walls—something I’ve told him many times not to do. And I am grateful, so grateful for it.

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