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Staging a Holiday Classic

Behind the scenes at a local Nutcracker production

Weird Behavior Explained Why kids do the strangest things

Staycation Inspiration

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Features

14 Upholding a Holiday Tradition A behind-the-scenes look at what it takes to put on a performance of The Nutcracker

16 Minding Their Manners It may seem quaint, but etiquette schools for kids are thriving. 18 Make Your Own Hot Cocoa Four recipes that use favorite flavor combinations 20 Kids Do the Weirdest Things Some of your child’s strangest behaviors and habits, explained by experts 40 A Staycation a Day Ideas for seven fun-filled family days around the New York metro area 42 Get as Good as You Give How to indulge in gift-giving instincts without spoiling your kids

44 Why Messy Can Be Better Not all bacteria are bad

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Quotables 11 Voices: Pride and Fear 13 NYMP Q&A: Risa Klein, a certified nurse midwife, talks midwifery

Fun & Activities

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12 Media Matters: Virtual Stocking Stuffers 12 DIY Corner: Christmas Crackers 24 Outing: Vanderbilt Museum 27 Family Activities Calendar 38 Where-To Guide: Cut Your Own Christmas Tree

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ne of my kids compulsively put her feet on everything, to the point where I had to institute a rule that’s become infamous in our household: “No feet in soup.” Another one can’t go more than a few minutes without her fingers in her belly button. I am sure many of you are nodding knowingly, since my kids are hardly unusual, even if the particulars differ person to person. Let’s face it: Kids do weird stuff, even they can’t explain why they do it. So we turned to the experts and asked them to explain kids’ unusual habits, from putting things up their noses to stripping in public to finding potty humor irresistible (p. 20). Usually, these odd-but-normal behaviors fade as kids get older and move on to the next mysterious habit. But learning to navigate the world can be difficult for many children. Enter manners and etiquette schools. You may have thought these were a thing of the past, but they’re alive and well in our region. And while they still teach kids the basics—sitting and eating properly at the dinner table, making eye contact and conversing with adults, and so on—many also ready their students for a world where so much communication happens via social media, texts, and email. Megan Bailey takes a look at today’s manners and etiquette programs and how participants benefit from them (p. 16). Holidays are, of course, a good time for kids to remember their manners, between the festive dinners and the presents for which they need to say thank you. It’s one of my favorite times of year, as I look forward to Hanukkah lights and my kids’ winter break. I often find, however, that I can’t decide what to do as a family, even when we are all eager for a fun outing. To help out, Bethany Braun-Silva offers seven “staycation” itineraries around the region (p. 40). Even though I don’t celebrate Christmas myself, I’ll admit to loving the lights, decorations, and general vibe the season brings. I’ll also make another admission: I’ve never seen The Nutcracker. Not by design, nor by opposition to it—it’s just never happened. So I was fascinated to read what it takes to mount a local production of this holiday classic in Samantha Neudorf’s behind-the-scenes look (p. 14). Whatever your plans this December, and whatever holiday(s) you celebrate, may the month—and the new year ahead—be filled with joy, peace, and health for all of you. Michael Kress Editorial Director

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UOTABLES Their quirks are the things that are important to me. Not photos of them looking perfect. … When they were ready to go out that door, I was pretty sure that my heart might literally burst. My girls felt completely comfortable with themselves and completely beautiful. What better gift is there to give them? —Westchester mom Jennifer Garry, in a post entitled “School Picture Day Rebellion,” on her blog cuddlesandchaos.com

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A SPECIAL MILESTONE “My son has autism and, at age 13, recently saw a movie in a theater for the first time. It is not something I thought would work for him—until now.”

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“Every mother should know she is not alone in this. It is going to take some getting used to. Everyone struggles at first—everyone—even if they don’t admit it.” —Kate Bingham-Smith, in a post on scarymommy.com entitled “What Every Mother Should Know.”

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—Manhattan mom Dana Greenberg in an article entitled “Taking a Child with Autism to the Movies: 5 Tips From a Mom Who’s Been There.” Read the whole thing at nymetroparents.com/autism-movies.

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The intense, mixed emotions of being the wife of a police officer. By Bethany Braun-Silva

uring Spirit Week at my son’s school, students were asked to dress up as what they wanted to be when they grew up. My son chose to be a baseball player, and I figured we would see lots of other ballplayers, along with plenty of doctors and superheroes. But that wasn’t the most popular choice among kids at his school—not even close. As we approached the school, I noticed dozens of kids dressed as police officers, which surprised me. Boys and girls, younger as well as older kids, all decked out in navy blue uniforms and badges. I had a sense of pride, and I smiled at the innocence of these kids’ desires to serve and protect. I also got a rush of anxiety because, should these young children still want to be cops when they actually do grow up, they are in for a rough road. It’s a tough life, and police officers and their families need a lot of support—not to mention, it’s scary as all get out. My husband is a New York City police officer, and he is very dedicated to his job. He takes it seriously; he does it with pride and rarely complains. With two young boys at home and a demanding job with even more demanding hours, the fact that my husband doesn’t complain isn’t just worth mentioning, it’s a feat in itself. As a cop’s wife who also works, it has been tricky managing our schedules. He works nights, and so, between work and parenting duties, I sometimes go several days without interacting with my husband face to face. This is the norm, and the boys and I have grown accustomed to missing him and spending weekends without him. We try to capitalize on any time off my husband has by spending quality time together and doing fun things as a family. However, with the recent bombings and ever-present threats in New York City, we’ve had even less time together than usual, since he has been working tons of overtime. As for me? I am more anxious than ever about his career given the current climate and recent police shootings.

At home, we talk about these things in private. Our sons are 4 and 1 and best left out of conversations about the dangers of their father’s job, at least for now. However, one day in the near future we will have to sit them down and explain the realty of being a police officer. We will have to tell them that police officers sometimes make the ultimate sacrifice in order to protect the people of their community. That sometimes officers make bad decisions. That while it is a noble, selfless profession, many officers misunderstand the responsibility they have to protect and serve. In lieu of those talks, right now we have a strict family rule of saying “I love you” and giving hugs and kisses when Daddy leaves for work. It’s a great tradition that I’m sure many families enjoy, but in our home, as in many law-enforcement families, it is not to be missed, even on the busiest days. That’s the strange reality of living with a police officer. He might not come home after his shift. He might not come home ever again. That truth is something I carry with me always, but am sadly reminded of it more frequently of late. We live in scary times and part of me just wants to run away from it all and move to a more serene environment—somewhere with a backyard and a garden, where I can give my kids a more innocent upbringing. But that’s out of the question given my husband’s job. Plus, the reality is there are dangers everywhere. I support my husband in his career, just as he supports me in mine. Whatever happens, we will get through it as a family. With all that being said, life is otherwise great. Our boys are happy and healthy, and I have pretty much adjusted to the demands of being a police officer’s wife. It’s unfortunate that we live with the ever-present knowledge of potential tragedy in our lives, but that just comes with the territory. On the other side of it, we have our own personal hero who protects and serves us daily. My boys and I couldn’t be prouder.

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Making your own crackers is fun and easy, and it means you can put your own choice of novelties and silly handwritten jokes inside. Make the crackers from colorful wrapping paper and trim them with sequins or glitter finished with pretty bows. Or throw in some confetti to add a fun element to your New Year’s Eve party. You will need: • Cardboard toilet rolls • 8-by-8-inch piece of paper per cracker • Pencil • Ruler • Scissors

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4. Now unfold the paper and lay it flat, wrong side facing up. Place the cardboard roll on top. Apply a dab of glue or use a small piece of double-sided tape to hold the paper on the roll. Wrap the paper around the roll as tightly as you can. Apply glue along the whole edge of the paper and press firmly in place. Allow to dry completely. 5. Push the cracker snap through the open end of the roll. This is also the time to insert any small gifts or trinkets, a paper hat, and a joke or other motto. 6. Cut the ribbon in half and tie a length of ribbon around one end of the cracker. Tie in a knot. Repeat at the other end. Trim the ends of the ribbon on the diagonal with scissors to prevent them fraying. 7. Measure the circumference of the cracker and cut three lengths of sequin trim to fit. Glue the sequin trim in rows around the cracker. Allow glue to dry completely. Crackers Safety: Crackers snaps are a low-risk fire hazard and must always be used with adult supervision. Never pull a snap on its own. Visit nymetroparents.com/crackers for step-by-step photos. Excerpted from My First Christmas Craft Book, Cico Kidz, $14.95; rylandpeters.com. Photography by CICO Books 2016.

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What a Midwife Does ›› By Bethany Braun-Silva

Risa Klein is a certified nurse midwife with an office on Manhattan’s Upper East Side. She was the “birth consultant” for the feature films Baby Mama and Laze. Are there any misconceptions about midwives you want to set straight? Midwives are very smart. We go through very rigorous academic accredited midwifery schools. Sometimes people think midwives only do home-births for impoverished, poverty-stricken people around the world, and that’s really not true. Midwives serve women of all socio-economic backgrounds and what we do is we pride ourselves on understanding what is normal for each woman we see. We also do GYN-care, conscious conception planning, and contraceptive planning. Basically, midwives have a holistic view of the process of birth and childbirth is just an organic, natural process. Midwives see it as normal, it’s not a disease; it’s nothing to be afraid of. Can any woman see a midwife during her pregnancy? We take care of healthy, low-risk women. We don’t take care of women with pre-existing conditions, such as diabetes, liver disease, or other metabolic diseases. We could co-manage women, but for the most part we take care of healthy women, but we are educated and experienced to screen for other risk factors. So many women think, “Oh, I’ll be safer with an OB,” but if there’s a true medical issue, then we will refer, consult, and collaborate with an obstetrician, with a perinatologist, or with a genetic counselor. So what I could share is that a lot of people don’t understand the magnitude of experience midwives have in terms of understanding the medical piece of it, and knowing when to and how to recognize if there is a challenge, and when to consult and co-manage. Any tips for woman to help make pregnancy an easier, more enjoyable process? Many women are working very hard, and they’re going up and down stairs and going to the gym, but unbeknownst to them, they’re throwing themselves into pre-term labor and their waters are breaking early because they’re doing too much. So I really encourage women to go slow. My phrase is, “be boring.” Modify work, go in late, work from home, do what you can so you can enjoy the last few weeks and not risk a premature labor. In our country we have very high infant morbidity and mortality, and it’s truly something that I believe could be avoided with positive communication about eating well, having protein in the diet, making sure a woman’s blood volume stays high, and getting enough rest. If a woman is dizzy by exercising and running around and forgetting to eat or drink, those all set up for preterm labor contractions.

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The party scene from the Westchester Ballet Company’s 2015 production of The Nutcracker

Logrea Dance Academy students rehearse the finale from The Nutcracker in October.

Upholding a Holiday Tradition

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A behind-the-scenes look at what it takes to plan, choreograph, and perform The Nutcracker, a beloved holiday show. By Samantha Neudorf

t 1pm on a recent Saturday, Beth Fritz-Logrea ushers all of her ballet students into the studio to begin rehearsing the snow scene from Act I of The Nutcracker. The girls stand in position and Fritz-Logrea walks up to them to go over placement on the stage at Logrea Dance Academy in Ossining. Each girl is given a number, which corresponds to a marker on the stage designating where she should stand. Twenty minutes after first inviting the students in, they’re all in place and Fritz-Logrea walks to the front of the studio, sits in a director’s chair, and cues her husband, Jean Logrea, to start the music from the top of the snow scene. Rehearsal has begun. The Nutcracker is a holiday tradition that kids and adults look forward to each year. First performed at the Imperial Mariinsky Theatre in St. Petersburg, Russia, in 1892, the ballet is Alexandre Dumas père’s adaptation of the story The Nutcracker and the Mouse King, written by E.T.A. Hoffmann. Despite those roots, it was not until 1964 that The Nutcracker gained popularity. That’s when George Balanchine—considered by many as the “Father of American Ballet”—debuted his rendition of the ballet at New York City Center. In Balanchine’s words, his Nutcracker was to be “full-length and expensive,” according to Vanity Fair. He envisioned a grandiose tree for the background, and somehow managed to get a $40,000 tree commissioned to make the magic of The Nutcracker feel as real as possible. That magic, as well as the tradition of this ballet, are still very much alive and well today—at major venues such as Lincoln Center as well as at regional and local theaters seemingly everywhere. No matter where it is produced, the grace and 14

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beauty on display is the result of countless hours of hard work by dedicated dancers, many of them teens at local high schools.

A Ballet Family

Westchester Ballet Company’s version of this classic has been the responsibility of co-directors Jean Logrea and Beth Fritz-Logrea since they became owners of the dance troupe in 1985. A year later, they founded the Logrea Dance Academy and named it the official school of the Westchester Ballet Company. Though Fritz-Logrea stopped personally performing in the production 25 years ago, she is both the choreographer and director of the show. Her husband has played the role of Uncle Drosselmeyer for the past 31 years, while their son, Nick, will be performing in his 25th Nutcracker show in several different roles: the butler in the party scene, the Mouse King, the Arabian pas de deux, and a soloist for the company’s Ukranian variation—an added scene that is not usually performed in other Nutcracker productions. Nick says the best part about performing each year is being on stage. “There’s something about being on stage and being in front of a large group of people and performing for them then getting the satisfaction of them applauding you at the end,” Nick says. “It’s a big adrenaline rush, something that I’ve loved from the very beginning.”

Balancing High School with Rehearsal

Back at rehearsal, there are nearly 28 girls who have been cast in the snow scene, divided into two groups, each of which will perform at two of the four shows. Fritz-Logrea runs through the

Planning the Production

To mount an ambitious production such as The Nutcracker, the Logreas start thinking about the show as early as late July or early August. Right after their spring season is over in May, they sit down and discuss which dancers are returning and start calling guest dancers to see if they will be available. Auditions for this year’s Nutcracker were held in midSeptember, and are typically open to whoever would like to be a part of it. Students at Logrea Dance Studio are not required to participate in The Nutcracker, and they are also not guaranteed a role just because they are a part of the company. Rehearsals begin a week after auditions and run until performance week—Dec. 16-18 this year. In order to ensure the production is staged as planned, there are also many logistics to be considered. Westchester Ballet Company

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scene with the first cast for the first time this season. All of these dancers are wearing pointe shoes and are between ages 11-18, including the dance studio’s three graduating seniors: Charlotte Chandler, Clare Hammonds, and Molly Powers. These three girls have been dancing for 15 years and have been performing in the Westchester Ballet Company’s Nutcracker for 10-12 years each. Powers and Chandler first started out as mice and Hammonds was a page; this year, they each have three roles—Chandler, a 17-year-old from Cross River, is a snow soloist, Chinese soloist, and the Dew Drop Fairy; Hammonds, a 17-yearold from Ossining, is a snow soloist, in the gigue variation, and is the flower soloist; Powers, a 17-year-old from Hawthorne, is a party scene guest, in the snow scene, and is a flower soloist. The teens dance ballet six days a week, which is how they’ve grown close to one another. “We’re all such good friends and the community surrounding us helps to put on the performance,” Hammonds says. “That plays a huge part in performance week for us.” The most challenging part for these seniors is juggling college applications and extracurricular activities with dance rehearsals six days a week. Saturday rehearsals for The Nutcracker are four hours long. “This teaches you time management because you’re here so often, but you need to focus on your studies, too,” says Powers, a member of the National Honor Society at her school. The end of the snow scene transitions into one in which Clara, the main character, travels to the Land of Sweets with the Nutcracker Prince. Clara is played by 14-year-old Rylee Carpenter of Ossining. She has played Clara for the past three years, and aspires to perform on Broadway when she is older. “I love being able to act, especially doing Clara,” Carpenter says. “I love the feeling of acting and dancing because it just lets me express myself more.” She also takes theater and singing lessons in addition to dance. Tim Bohrman, a 14-year-old from Carmel, is Logrea Dance Studio’s oldest boy, and has been dancing for 10 years. He will play Fritz, the lead soldier, and the Chinese soloist in this year’s performance, and this is his first year as a soloist. “A lot of the guy parts are a lot of fun because there’s usually a lot of cool jumps and turns,” he says. Bohrman started taking ballet after his older sister—who is now 20 and a trainee with the Orlando Ballet Company in Florida— started taking lessons. Though Bohrman also takes modern and tap at the dance studio, he says his favorite dance is ballet and intends to join a ballet company, just like his older sister.

Clara, as played by Rylee Carpenter, holds a Nutcracker doll in the 2014 show.

board members must consult with the performance venue—the Westchester County Center in White Plains—and the county Parks and Recreation department to take care of contracts. They also have to coordinate with the stage crew at Westchester County Center about technicalities such as lighting and set changes. The Logreas are able to bring in guest dancers from ballet companies around the world because of the connections they have made over the years as ballet dancers themselves. Beth and Jean met when they both danced at the Graz Opera House in Austria. There are usually four to five guest dancers who perform in their show, and the Logreas say it is good experience for their students to see what it is like to dance among a professional. “[To see] how they carry themselves on and off the stage, how they prepare for the production in the warm-up class, how early they arrive to the theater—it’s just good for the kids to witness,” Logrea says.

Keeping the Magic Alive

After the Mouse King is slayed on stage during the performance, a screen comes down, the Nutcracker Prince comes to life, and Drosselmeyer introduces him to Clara. The music crescendos, the lights dim, and dry ice blocks are placed to create the illusion of a dreamlike fog—then the snow scene begins. Nick says that is his favorite scene from the show. “I know dancers that have graduated from us and have come back to watch… they still say to this day that they always cry during the beginning of the snow scene,” Nick says. “I still get chills every time that music comes up.” Logrea recalls a time when a college student visited Westchester and watched the show—particularly the transition into the snow scene. “He said, ‘I’ve never seen anything like that before, and I will never forget that in my life,’” Logrea says. It’s what every Nutcracker performer everywhere hopes for, performance after performance of this holiday-season tradition.

WHERE TO SEE PERFORMANCES OF THE NUTCRACKER IN QUEENS This 70’s Nutcracker Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing Meadows Corona Park Dec. 10, 7:30pm; Dec. 11, 1:30pm and 5pm $30. licsb.com. QueensParent 15

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Students at Fleur de Lis Academy in Norwalk, CT, prepare for the day’s lesson.

Minding Their Manners

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It may seem quaint in today’s world, but etiquette schools for kids are thriving nonetheless. By Megan Bailey

t seemed to be that whenever 5-year-old Belle sat down for dinner, most of it would end up on the floor rather than in her mouth. She overlooked the fork and knife and used the tools she was born with—her fingers. As a result, Belle’s parents got tired of crawling under the table to pick up whatever they’d had for dinner that night. But they couldn’t seem to get Belle to stop, so they turned to some outside help. That’s right: We’re talking etiquette school. Belle’s mom, Anne, decided to enroll her in a dining course at Beaumont Etiquette in Manhattan. Not wanting it to feel like a punishment, Anne set out to make sure Belle saw it as a fun and light-hearted activity. When the day came to start, Anne made it a big deal for Belle, dressing her daughter in a cute party dress, letting her put on some makeup, and getting her excited about using fancy tableware. During class time, Beumont’s founder and director, Myka Meier, taught Belle the basics of mealtime etiquette, including where your napkin goes, when to use a fork and a spoon, and how you shouldn’t put your feet up while eating. Today, Anne is happy to report, Belle’s food now reaches her mouth instead of the floor, she utilizes her silverware, and she even stirs her mother’s tea on a regular basis. “Do you think Myka would be proud that I did this?” Belle will ask Anne from time to time. Or she will turn to her little brother and say, “Good, Jack. You’re eating over the plate!” “She picked up some things from it, and I think it was a great thing, and I know she had fun doing it,” Anne says. “It was more of a fun activity than a class.”

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In our fast-paced world, in which families are eating together less often and informality seems to rule the day, it may seem as if manners and etiquette are a thing of the fabled past. But Belle is far from the only area child who’s learned a thing or two from a program like Beaumont’s. Schools, classes, and private teachers dedicated to spreading the gospel of good manners are still thriving in 2016. “I think we’re all seeing a big increase in business because it’s becoming almost trendy again, it’s becoming cool,” Meier says. “I think the millennial generation and onward have a lot of new challenges in everyday life, and we have to cater to the changes that are happening around us.”

Manners vs. Etiquette

To understand what goes on in these programs, it’s helpful to define some terminology, starting with the fact that manners and etiquette are not, in fact, the same thing. “Good manners never change,” says Michelle Sperry, founder and director of Fleur de Lis Academy in Norwalk, CT. “For example, 100 years ago it wasn’t okay to bonk someone over the head and take their food. And, it still isn’t okay to do that.” Etiquette, on the other hand, is culturally specific, dependent on time and place. “Etiquette is a set of rules,” Sperry continues. “It changes with each era, style, demographic, etc. For example, 100 years ago people used to eat with their hands. Now, we eat with forks and knives, although in some cultures they still eat with their hands. But, nonetheless, these things will change.”

Manners, then, are basic social skills, such as holding the door for someone or sharing toys with friends, while etiquette programs cover modern American norms, which can include making eye contact with others or shaking hands. “All parents want their child to be successful. However, success is not only measured in academia, but through the way we teach our children to show courtesy, respect, honesty, and politeness,” says Dianne Marsch, founder and director of the Etiquette School of Manhattan.

Today’s Needs

Most parents who send their children to these programs have modest goals, seeking attainable improvements in their kids’ behavior. “Most of the time the parents just want the kids to listen a little bit more, to chew their food with their mouths closed—it’s mainly that. If these things are not addressed now, later on they will be harder to learn,” says Arely Mendoza-Cantos, founder and director of Always Gracious, a manners and etiquette school for Long Island youth. “I find that young kids are really eager to please their parents and show their manners.” Many programs today include classes on digital etiquette—how to behave online, and how and when to put the device down and be present in the real world. “We have social media, and children especially are on computers all day and that sometimes is their preferred method of communication,” Meier says. “So, I found that they were losing really basic social skills.” Despite the emphasis on technology and digital media, many of the schools find their more traditional classes, especially those covering mealtime behavior, are the most popular. Educating today’s youth on how to communicate clearly—face-to-face and through their screens—how to conduct themselves in professional settings, and how to act at the dinner table are skills that can have an impact on their future and ultimately give them an advantage over those who have not been brushing up. “It’s interesting, a kid in our very modern world who has great social skills and great manners and great etiquette really stands out, because for most kids the bar is so low when it comes to social skills,” says Faye de Muyshondt, founder and director of the Manhattan etiquette school Socialsklz:-). “Parents are always trying to give our kids the competitive edge, but really the competitive edge in the modern world is an awesome set of social skills and a great foundation of manners and etiquette in life, because most kids don’t have it.” With the introduction of social media and the rise of technology, there is a newfound urgency to etiquette education. “Is it okay to text someone who’s more senior than you and use emojis? Is it okay to still be writing old-fashioned thank you letters? Just going over and making it a bit more relevant to today— that’s the whole point of it—for it to be practical etiquette that they use every day,” Meier says. Despite our digital world’s dizzying pace of change, knowing how to chew your food politely or conduct yourself during an interview are skills that are ultimately timeless. On the other hand, maybe putting our pinkies up and carrying a handkerchief are, indeed, a bit outdated. The key is to find the balance, and today’s schools understand the difference. “The more students we can teach all of these social, communication, and leadership skills to, it can change an entire generation,” Marsch says. “And I love every day that I can teach and make a difference in the life of someone.”

A GLIMPSE INSIDE LOCAL MANNERS AND ETIQUETTE PROGRAMS Alice Austen House 2 Hylan Blvd., Staten Island 718-816-4506 info@aliceausten.org aliceausten.org The Alice Austen House isn’t primarily focused on etiquette, but there is a reason its programs include this topic: Austen, a prolific photographer in the early years of the medium, lived for many years with Gertrude Tate, who taught etiquette and manners. Family courses are offered at the house or programs can be set up in schools and can focus on social etiquette, communication skills, or table manners. Always Gracious: The Academy of Etiquette 516-593-3817 alwaysgracious@optonline.net alwaysgracious.com Long Island’s Always Gracious has no set location, offering its programs—which include social etiquette, table etiquette, and image and style classes—in a family’s home, or for groups of 10 or more participants, on-site at a school or office. Lessons are also offered for the Spanishspeaking community. Beaumont Etiquette 5 Columbus Circle, #1701, Manhattan 212-390-1557 info@beaumontetiquette.com beaumontetiquette.com Beaumont Etiquette offers training one-on-one or in small groups and customizes courses based on a survey parents or guardians fill out about their child when they enroll. Beaumont Etiquette also offers online courses for children. In addition to classes on social skills and American dining manners, among others, its roster covers international dining and travel etiquette.

Etiquette School of Manhattan 101 W. 23rd St., Suite 525, Manhattan 877-506-2663 dianne@etiquetteschool.org nyc.etiquetteschool.org At the Etiquette School of Manhattan, founder and director Dianne Marsch mostly avoids classrooms and teaches her courses at restaurants, in private groups, or in schools. In addition to programs about dining, basic manners, and social skills, the school offers classes that include parents and grandparents as well as a Nanny Educational Etiquette Certification program (also taught in Spanish). Marsch also works with many low-income families and at-risk kids, teaching them the skills they need to transition into adulthood. Fleur de Lis Academy 327 Main Ave., Norwalk, CT 203-210-7155 enrollmanners@gmail.com fleurdelisacademy.com Fleur de Lis Academy runs several programs, one of which is First Impressions, covering manners and etiquette. It offers classes, private and semi-private lessons, workshops, leadership training, in-school sessions, and other programs. Socialsklz:-) 250 W. 85th St., Suite 1B, Manhattan 212-579-5300 info@socialsklz.com socialsklz.com Socialsklz:-) offers many public workshops and caters to our digital age (hence the emoticon and slang in the title). It offers a wide range of courses, from basic workshops to technology courses to CAMPsocialsklz:-).

Megan Bailey is a former NYMetroParents intern.

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Make Your Own Hot Cocoa

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Four hot chocolate recipes that use favorite flavor combinations. By Chelsie Jangord Nothing makes us enjoy winter more than coming in from the cold and enjoying a nice, steamy cup of hot cocoa. While these recipes call for specific vegan ingredients, feel free to use what you have in your cupboard.

Orange Hot Chocolate Makes 2-3 cups

Ingredients 3 cups non-dairy milk 2 Tbsp. cocoa powder 2 Tbsp. sugar 1 tsp. vanilla 1/ 3 cup vegan chocolate chips Zest and juice of 1 orange Instructions In a saucepan over low heat, whisk together milk, cocoa powder, sugar, vanilla, orange juice, and zest. Once thoroughly combined and heated, pour into mugs and top with Dandies Mini Marshmallows. Enjoy!

Pumpkin Spice Hot Cocoa Mix

Yields: Approximately 3 cups of dry mix Ingredients Dandies Pumpkin Marshmallows 1 cup cocoa powder 1 bag of vegan chocolate chips, frozen 3 Tbsp. pumpkin pie spice 1 Tbsp. cornstarch ½ cup powdered sugar Instructions Add frozen chocolate chips (it is very important that they’ve been thoroughly frozen) to a food processor and blend until chips have turned into a fine powder. In a mixing bowl whisk together chocolate chip powder, cocoa powder, pumpkin pie spice, powdered sugar, and cornstarch. Fill a Mason jar with cocoa mix and top with Pumpkin Dandies to make a great gift that will stay good for up to a month. To make a cup of a hot cocoa, bring 1½ cups of non-dairy milk to a boil, add 3-4 Tbsp. of mix, and stir. Reduce heat and let simmer, stirring often to remove any clumps. Taste as you go: If you like your cocoa on the sweeter side, add an extra tablespoon of mix. Top with Pumpkin Dandies and enjoy!

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Peppermint Hot Cocoa

Peanut Butter Hot Chocolate

Ingredients 1 handful of Dandies Peppermint Marshmallows 4 Tbsp. cocoa powder 2 cups non-dairy milk 4 Tbsp. sugar ½ tsp. peppermint extract Crushed peppermint candies, optional garnish Melted chocolate, optional garnish

Ingredients 3 cups non-dairy milk 1/ 3 cup natural peanut butter ¼ cup sugar 2 Tbsp. cocoa powder ¼ cup chopped dark chocolate or vegan chocolate chips 1 tsp. vanilla Handful of Dandies Mini Marshmallows

Instructions In a saucepan over medium heat, combine milk, cocoa powder, sugar, and peppermint extract. Whisk until all clumps have dissolved. Bring to a boil, then remove from heat. Optional: Dip the rim of a mug in melted chocolate, then into the crushed peppermint candies. Fill with hot cocoa, top with Peppermint Dandies Marshmallows, and enjoy!

Instructions In a saucepan over low heat, whisk together all the hot chocolate ingredients. Once thoroughly combined and heated, pour into mugs and top with Dandies. Up your game by drizzling on some additional peanut butter! The longer it sits the thicker it gets. If you prefer a thinner hot chocolate, you can add more non-dairy milk to reach the desired consistency.

Serves 2

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Kids Do the Weirdest Things

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Some of your child’s strangest behaviors and habits, explained by experts. By Laurie Sue Brockway

hen my son was in kindergarten, the teacher called me in to tell me the staff was taking up a collection so that I could buy him new clothing. He’d been wearing the same clothes every day for two weeks, and the staff assumed it was because I was not able to properly clothe him. It took everything for me not to burst out laughing as I explained that my son decided he would wear only black pants and a favorite black sweatshirt—so I’d bought him five pairs of the same pants and sweatshirts and washed his clothes constantly. But I told him that it was the same outfit every day. When the teacher asked if he had other clothes, he apparently said no. Don’t get me started on the phase in which he insisted on wearing his Superman cape to school. Or the stuffed cat that had to be with us as all times. Kids do weird things. Really weird things. We asked experts to comment on some of the unusual traits we are bound to see as our kids grow.

Toddlers

Touching everything. If you feel like smudgy fingerprints cover every surface in your home, you’re not alone. “Many toddlers learn by touching,” says Mary Ellen Renna, M.D., a pediatrician in practice in Jericho and author of 10 Steps to Almost Perfect Parenting. “They are tactile learners. They need to touch, manipulate, open, tear, and pull items. They need to see what sounds they make, how they feel, what it tastes like.” Eating and licking gross things. Toddlers do not discriminate 20

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when it comes or putting things in their mouths or up to their lips—dirt and snot included. “Children are inherently curious,” says Deena Blanchard, M.D., a Brooklyn- and Manhattan-based pediatric and postpartum depression expert with Premier Pediatrics and a mom of three boys. “As they grow and explore the world they will explore with all their senses. Early exploration is often oral in nature.” That’s why parents have to make sure there are no small pieces of things on the floor or within grasp. “The good news is that as children get older these habits fade,” Dr. Blanchard says. Flushing stuff down the toilet. Remember that time when you couldn’t find a toy or your sunglasses, and then you heard a splash? “Kids are attracted to the toilet more between ages 18 months and 2½ years, when they are developing their bathroom skills—toilet training,” Dr. Renna says. “Once they develop the aversion to their waste products, they don’t play around the toilet as much.” Taking over cellphones. Phones and other mobile devices are very attractive because they are filled with colors and sounds, Dr. Renna says. “They also have games and songs that are entertaining.” That doesn’t mean they should play with them. “I don’t believe kids should have access to a parent’s phone,” she says. “Too much potential danger there.”

Small Children

Sticking things up their noses—and elsewhere. Kids are usually led by the desire to see how things fit into other things.

“It is rare for children to put things in various places to act out or purposely annoy their parents,” Dr. Blanchard says. “It is much more likely that they are curious about what it would feel like to put a pretzel in their nose, or if a bead could fit inside their ear.” She says to talk to children about how their bodily orifices work and explain, We only put food in our mouths and that it’s not healthy or safe for your body to put things in your nose or ear. Most children grow out of these behaviors by age 5 or 6, or after they have to see a doctor to have something removed from an ear or nose. “It’s not actually a fun experience and that works in our favor as parents,” Dr. Blanchard says. Peeing on, or in, stuff. While dogs do it to mark their territory, kids do it to experiment and explore. “I know a 4-year-old who urinated in a backpack because he wanted to see what it felt like,” Dr. Blanchard says. To make sure it doesn’t happen again, focus on the positive and make it a teachable moment. “For example,” she says, “you can say, ‘I sometimes wonder what things may feel like too. It is important to only go pee in the potty or your pull up so we can keep the house clean.’” Also, tell children to check with you if they aren’t sure about whether they should do something. Clinging to an object of affection. Linus isn’t the only one who likes his security blanket. “The object in some way represents the parent who the child does not want to separate from,” says Gail Saltz, Ph.D., an associate professor of psychiatry at The New York Presbyterian Hospital Weill-Cornel School of Medicine and host of “The Power of Different” podcast. “The parent can come and go, so the object provides comfort and permanence in staying with the child and being snuggled or held.” Termed a transitional object, it can be a blanket, a stuffed animal, or toy—something that can be carried around. “Parents know if you leave it at home or it gets lost, there is hell to pay in the form of tantrums or refusal to go anywhere without it,” Dr. Saltz says. Making animal noises and sounds. There are a number of things that inspire kids to roar, purr, or make odd or loud noises. “It may be dramatic play, actually pretending to be an animal,” says Jephtha Tausig-Edwards, Ph.D., a New York City-based clinical psychologist. “It would not be unusual for a 3- or 4-year-old to pretend he or she was an animal until they tired of doing so.” It can also be to gain attention, or to make parents or peers laugh, she adds. Inviting imaginary friends to dinner. Imaginary friends can be helpful to kids who have gone through trauma and can serve as allies to any child. “These friends are sometimes only in the child’s head but can sometimes be seen in great detail by the child,” Dr. Saltz says. “It may be one or multiple people, animals or fantasy beings and is often viewed in a real friend way, with discussion, shared feelings, and inclusion in family activities.” This is all a reflection of this child’s imagination and creativity, and is more likely to occur for a child who has enough unstructured play time to invent a friend, she says. Stripping in public. “Young children can be unselfconscious about their bodies such that they may spontaneously strip off their clothing because they feel hot, or too restricted, or just like the feel of being naked—but obviously not when it’s cold out,” Dr. Tausig-Edwards says. “Sometimes, they may want to show the world their ‘big boy underpants’ or something they are proud of, which could also include genitalia if they feel this is continued on next page ››

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important.” She says this behavior usually stops due to caregiver reprimands and/or pressure from peers in social situations such as birthday parties or playdates. It should clear up completely during the first year of preschool if not before. Drawing a masterpiece on a freshly painted wall. Remember that time when your kids unleashed their inner Michelangelos in unsolicited wall murals—furniture, upholstery, and other items? “This behavior can be an expression of artistic impulses and/or a method of gaining our attention,” Dr. Tausig-Edwards says. Or kids just think it is a good idea at the time. She suggests hanging large sheets of butcher paper with masking or some other nonmarking tape on all four corners and then invite your children to draw only on the paper. “You will know fairly quickly whether the driver of their behavior is more of an artistic impulse or more of an attention-getting one.” Decorating a sibling’s face with magic markers. They’re not trying to ruin their sister or brother’s good looks out of jealousy. “It’s usually part of fun, curiosity, or an imagination game,” Dr. Blanchard says. “It’s rarely manipulative or purposefully intent on upsetting someone. Kids are fun, curious little beings. They aren’t yet fully aware of the consequences of their actions and likely have not thought it through.” While this may lead to some coloring on your baby, it also leads to a time where your child is super fun to play with and talk to, she says. “Their minds are open and the world is their oyster. Try to embrace this period and guide your child in making good choices.”

Older Kids

Refusing to talk about their day at school. Some kids just need downtime when they get home. “As a mom of three boys, I totally understand the frustration of asking your child how was your day at school and getting back, ‘fine.’” Dr. Blanchard says. “After a long day at school kids may not be in the mood to talk or review their day.” Try asking your child more specific questions instead of broad ones, such as: What did you eat for lunch? Or, What made you smile today? Or wait until bedtime to chat, when kids are more relaxed. Giving the pet a makeover. Some kids like to dress up pets like dolls and put barrettes on long-haired dogs, but Rachel Barrack, a veterinarian with Animal Acupuncture, has also seen cases of kids trying to add color. “Kids love to color with markers and crayons, but keep these away from your pets,” says Barrack, who practices in NYC. She says that body glitter and nail polish are also not safe. Holding pets (or siblings) up like Simba. The sweet scene in the Lion King inspires kids to hold their pets up like a baby lion. However, Barrack says, “this is not only scary for them, but you can drop them.” That goes for little sister or brother, too. “We don’t want to encourage children to do any weird things with pets,” Barrack says, suggesting pet-friendly alternative activities such as cuddling, teaching and learning new tricks, exercise, reading, and “pet-friendly” arts and crafts. Playing with prickly things. Some foods need close parental supervision. Naresh C. Rao, D.O., FAOASM, of Sports Medicine at Chelsea, shares a cautionary tale about a 9-year-old sister and

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6-year-old brother who saw a prickly pear in a grocery store. “The sister picked it up, and it felt fuzzy. She then told her brother to pick it up,” he says. “After both of them held it, they felt pain and told mom.” As it turned out, he says, “The slivers from the Prickly Pear had to be removed by a pediatric dermatologist because the spikes were so small that the doctor needed specialized equipment to have it removed from their skin.” Creating obstacle courses. Dr. Rao, who lives in Scarsdale and was on Team USA’s sports medicine team for the 2016 Summer Olympics, has treated injuries relating to kids playing around in cars. One 9-year-old boy decided to buckle all the seat belts in the back of mom’s minivan and swing through them like an obstacle course. “He then convinced his 11-year-old sister to join him,” Rao says. “She got through one but then got caught up in the next one. It was so tightly wrapped around her body that the latching mechanism would not release.” The seat belt needed to be cut to free her.

Tweens

Girls going gaga over male pop idols. It’s a rite of passage that harkens back beyond Elvis and the Beatles and the Backstreet Boys. “Teen idols are often fantasy romantic partners when tweens and teens first start to have crushes,” Dr. Saltz says. “It is a safe way to express and experience romantic and sexual feelings in an exciting way.” Teens and tweens feel close to the idol by going to concerts and playing their music, which explains why parents find themselves shelling out money for tickets, T-shirts, and posters. Because adolescent brains are more primed for risk taking and emotionality, a teen may go to great lengths to be close to and experience their idol, Dr. Saltz says. Boys using potty humor. “Boys love potty humor—farts and poop jokes never get old— and that’s why they will read a series like Captain Underpants over and over again,” says Hillary Tubin, former literacy educator and author of Boys and Books: What You Need to Know. “Boys also love to read in the weirdest positions: standing, squeezed into a tiny space, in a fort, on their backs with their arms raised and the book high in the air, and while moving around to name a few.” She says boys are the happiest when they get to read a book such as Captain Underpants squeezed into a tiny space made into a fort, with a flashlight in hand and their favorite pet close by. Being tied to electronic devices. The romance begins early on and by the time kids have cellphones and iPads they might as well have been born with the device firmly attached to their hand. Texting is how teens communicate. “We live in a world of constant motion and as such they grab anything to keep constantly busy,” says technology expert Donna Conroy, co-founder of House Monkey. Always monitor use, she says, and get kids to take a time-out from devices as much as possible. Laurie Sue Brockway is a journalist and author who has written extensively on love, romance, marriage, parenting, well-being, and emotional health. Her work has appeared in hundreds of print and online publications, including Woman’s Day, Everyday Health, and The Huffington Post.

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The Piano Guys

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 2, 8pm WHERE: Kupferberg Center for the Arts, 65-30 Kissena Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: It’s the Piano Guys’ highly original blend of classical music with pop that has led to more than 500 million YouTube views. Their endearing personalities, along with their obvious will to inspire young and old, keeps fans coming back for more. WHY WE LOVE IT: An internet sensation by way of their innovative and strikingly original music videos. WANT TO GO? $39 and up. 718-793-8080. kupferbergcenter.org.

The Laurie Berkner Band

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 3, 11am WHERE: New York Society for Ethical Culture, 2 W. 64th St., Upper West Side, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Best-selling, award-winning children’s musician Laurie Berkner returns to the Upper West Side for a holiday concert. Celebrate the season with a mix of traditional songs, Berkner classics, and new songs. WHY WE LOVE IT: A rare chance to see Berkner in person. WANT TO GO? $37.50 and up. 212-799-5000. ticketfly.com.

Visuality

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 3, 8pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A spectacle that merges newly composed music with visual arts and technology. The endeavor experiments with light and sound, intersecting them in their purest forms to create an atmosphere unlike any other. WHY WE LOVE IT: A remarkable production fuses together a variety of art forms to create a wholly authentic, visually and aurally compelling experience. WANT TO GO? $25. 718-760-0064. queenstheatre.org.

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Tree Lighting Celebration FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 9, 6pm WHERE: The Shops at Atlas Park, 8000 Cooper Ave., Glendale AGES: All WHAT: Don’t miss all the fun and merriment. Music, giveaways, entertainment, and, of course, Santa will be there to light the tree. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas! WANT TO GO? 718-326-3300. shopatlaspark.com.

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WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 10, 10am WHERE: QED: A Place to Show & Tell, 27-16 23rd Ave., Astoria AGES: 3-8 WHAT: It’s the first late night-style comedy show just for kids set in the daytime, and features hilarious kids comedy sketches, jokes, and videos. WHY WE LOVE IT: Think David Letterman, Jimmy Kimmel, or Jimmy Fallon for kids. WANT TO GO? $15 per family. 347-451-3873. qedastoria.com.

29th Annual Holiday Historic House Tour

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 11, 1-5pm WHERE: The Voelker Orth Museum, 149-19 38th Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the holiday season with seven Queens historic sites and learn about their unique histories, including Kingsland Homestead, Bowne House, Lewis H. Latimer House, Friends Meeting House, Flushing Town Hall, the Voelker Orth Museum, and Louis Armstrong House Museum. WHY WE LOVE IT: A wonderful and unique holiday treat. WANT TO GO? $15 in advance; $20 at the door; $5 children younger than 12. 718-359-6227. hhht2016.eventbrite.com.

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WHEN: Through Dec. 24: Monday-Saturday, 10am9pm; Sundays, 11am-8pm WHERE: Queens Center Mall, 90-15 Queens Blvd., Elmhurst AGES: All WHAT: Experience the wonder of Santa’s workshop in the digital and social media age. Enjoy a visit and have a photo taken with Santa and his helpers at his winter wonderland house. WHY WE LOVE IT: Expect a jingle-filled sensory overload, with all the sights and sounds of the season. WANT TO GO? See website for photo pricing. 718-592-3900. shopqueenscenter.com.

Macy’s Santaland FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 24: daily, 9am-9pm WHERE: Macy’s Herald Square, 151 W. 34th St., Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Come and meet the man with the white beard and enter the North Pole recreated on 34th Street. There are real-life elves, animatronic displays, and the famous windows to excite your little ones. WHY WE LOVE IT: Santaland is a magical place and offers much more than a photo opportunity with Old St. Nick. WANT TO GO? 212-695-4400. macys.com/santaland.

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WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. First Friday FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 2, 10am-5pm WHERE: The Noguchi Museum, 9-01 33rd Road, Long Island City AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Art lovers can enjoy extended hours and special programing, including public tours led in English and Japanese, beginning at 2pm. WANT TO GO? 718-204-7088. noguchi.org.

Santa HQ: Breakfast with Santa FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 3, 8am-10am WHERE: Queens Center Mall, 90-15 Queens Blvd., Elmhurst AGES: All WHAT: Have a jolly good time with Santa at the Kids Club Breakfast. Children enjoy complimentary breakfast, fun, games, and a special visit with Santa himself. WANT TO GO? 718-592-3900. shopqueenscenter.com.

Kite Score Flying Performance FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 17, 3pm WHERE: Socrates Sculpture Park, 32-01 Vernon Blvd., Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: Explore the aesthetic, conceptual, and transcendent aspects of flight, invention, and collaboration. Dylan Gauthier pairs a sculpture based on the triangular-trussed kites built by Alexander Graham Bell with a monthly publication of kite patterns (“scores”) for visitors to take away, assemble, and fly. WANT TO GO? 718-956-1819. socratessculpturepark.org.

Holiday Open House FREE

WHEN: Dec. 26-28, Monday-Wednesday, 12-4pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a tour of the decorated 1772 Adriance Farmhouse with seasonal craft activities, freshly mulled cider, and snacks. A Victorian Christmas tree will be on display. WANT TO GO? 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

Friday Kids Club FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Fridays, 3pm WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: 5-12 WHAT: A variety of fun activities each week, including knitting, arts and crafts, board games, and Legos. Parents, grandparents, and other adult caregivers are encouraged to join the activities. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.

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Lincoln Center Local Screening: ‘Sinatra: Voice for a Century’ FREE WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 3, 11am WHERE: Bellerose Library, 250-08 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a screening of the gala concert filmed at the 100th birth-

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day celebration of Ol’ Blue Eyes. The NY Philharmonic and performances by Christina Aguilera, Sting, and Bernadette Peters—among others—make this a memorable event. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org.

Children’s Movie: ‘Finding Dory’ FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 5, 3:30pm WHERE: Queens Village Library, 94-11 217th St., Queens Village AGES: All WHAT: The film is the sequel to 2003’s Finding Nemo and features the reprised voices of Ellen DeGeneres and Albert Brooks, focusing on the amnesiac fish Dory, who journeys to be reunited with her parents. WANT TO GO? 718-776-6800. queenslibrary.org.

Karaoke at the Movies: ‘The Little Mermaid’

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 10, 6:30pm WHERE: Queensborough Performing Arts Center, 222-05 56th Ave., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the magic of Disney and be the star of the movie, as the audience is encouraged to dress up as their favorite character and sing and dance their way through this interactive family-oriented film. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-631-6311. qcc.cuny.edu/qpac.

Film Society of Lincoln Center Presents Community Screenings FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 17, 2pm WHERE: Jamaica Performing Arts Center, 153-10 Jamaica Ave., Jamiaca AGES: All WHAT: Children and families will watch a series of award-winning short films from around the world, and together they will discuss the journey that each film traveled and the cinematic choices that these filmmakers made to bring their stories to the screen. WANT TO GO? 718-658-7400. lincolncenter.org.

Winter Wonderland Movies FREE

WHEN: Dec. 5-19, Mondays, 5pm WHERE: Peninsula Library, 95-25 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Beach AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy holiday classics, including How the Grinch Stole Christmas on Dec. 5; Elf on Dec. 12; and A Christmas Story on Dec. 19. WANT TO GO? 718-634-1110. queenslibrary.org.

Behind the Screen

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Wednesday-Thursday, 10:30am-5pm; Friday, 10:30am-8pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11:30am-7pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 35-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: All

WHAT: The museum’s dynamic core exhibition features more than 1,400 historical objects, art works, video clips, and interactive experiences that show how moving images are made, marketed, and exhibited. Visitors can create their own short animations, star in their own Video Flipbook, experiment with sound effects, and film music. WANT TO GO? $12; $9 students with ID; $6 children ages 3-12. 718-777-6888. movingimage.us.

‘Wonders of the Arctic’

WHEN: Through March 2, 2017: daily, 10:30am-4:30pm WHERE: American Museum of Natural History, Central Park West and 79th Street, Upper West Side, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Directed by award-winning filmmaker David Lickley, Wonders of the Arctic takes audiences on a journey across one of the most beautiful and frigid places on earth, exploring how humans and animals have adapted and flourished for thousands of years in the vast ice wilderness of the Arctic. WANT TO GO? $27; $22 students and seniors; $16 children. 212769-5100. amnh.org.

BROWSE AND BUY 67th Annual Bazaar and Book Sale FREE

WHEN: Dec. 3-5, Saturday-Monday, 5:30pm WHERE: Temple Beth Sholom of Flushing, 171-39 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: A huge selection of white elephants, antiques, art, and jewelry. Not to mention more than 25,000 books, CDs, DVDs, and computer games. WANT TO GO? 718-463-4143. templebethsholom.org.

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WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 1, 4pm WHERE: St. Albans Library, 191-05 Linden Blvd., St. Albans AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Instructor Davone Livingston demonstrates his hip-hop workout through dance, and shows participants how to follow a healthy lifestyle. WANT TO GO? 718-528-8196. queenslibrary.org.

Tween Yoga

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 3, 10:30am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9-12 WHAT: This class mixes traditional poses with partner work, breath/body awareness, and strength builders. Bring a towel and water; mats provided. WANT TO GO? $16. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

National Double Dutch League’s 2016 Double Dutch Holiday Classic WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 4, 1-4pm WHERE: The Apollo Theater, 253 W. 125th St., Harlem, Manhattan AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The Super Bowl of Double Dutch comes to Harlem for this annual event, now in its 25th year. This year’s participants come from Africa, Belgium, Dominican Republic, France, Japan, Trinidad, and the U.S. to compete for the grand prize. WANT TO GO? $20. 800-653-8000. apollotheater.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 11, 1-5pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Artists and crafts people from the Queens area will be selling their wares, including jewelry, paintings, hand-crafted ceramics, paper goods, greeting cards, clothing, and more. WANT TO GO? 718-939-0647. flushingtownhall.org.

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WHEN: Through Dec. 28: Wednesdays, 10:30am WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: Newborn to 5, adult WHAT: Little ones and caregivers enjoy songs, movement, finger plays, puppets, and more. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 18, 11am-4:30pm WHERE: Queens Museum, NYC Building-Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Escape the winter cold and enjoy the holiday with an amazing market filled local arts and crafts. This year the Queens Museum is teaming up with Queens Night Market, offering a platform for local artisans to sell original designed objects or prepared foods. WANT TO GO? 718-592-9700. queensmuseum.org.

Christmas Tree and Wreath Sale

WHEN: Dec. 1-24, daily, 10am-5pm WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park AGES: All WHAT: Popular varieties and sizes of Christmas trees and evergreen wreaths will be for sale for the holidays. Proceeds benefit programs at Queens Farm. WANT TO GO? 718-347-3276. queensfarm.org.

WHEN: Dec. 6-20, Tuesdays, 1:30pm WHERE: Woodside Library, 54-22 Skillman Ave., Woodside AGES: Newborn to 5, adult WHAT: Children can sing, dance, and play with musical instruments. WANT TO GO? 718-429-4700. queenslibrary.org.

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WHEN: Friday, Dec. 16, 7pm WHERE: New Victory Theater, 229 W. 42nd St., Theater District, Manhattan AGES: 3 and older WHAT: An autism-friendly performance of this holiday show. Lighting and sound elements have been adapted to accommodate sensory sensitivity needs. WANT TO GO? $20 and up. 646-223-3010. newvictory.org. ›› QueensParent 31

WHAT: Parents will engage with their children in discussions about art in the galleries, and work together or individually to make their own works of art. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $10 for families with up to four members. 718-2047088. noguchi.org.

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WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 1, 4pm WHERE: Lefferts Library, 103-34 Lefferts Blvd., Richmond Hill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Come design a park for a shoreline, adding landscaping, pathways, a playground, bridges, and more. WANT TO GO? 718-8435950. queenslibrary.org.

Hands on History: Namesake Bookplate FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 3, 1pm WHERE: King Manor Museum, 150-03 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Families can learn about what made Rufus King’s bookplate special and create one of their own. WANT TO GO? 718-206-0545. kingmanor.org.

Wreath Decorating Workshop

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 3, 1pm WHERE: The Voelker Orth Museum, 149-19 38th Ave., Flushing AGES: 9 and older WHAT: An aromatic and visual delight! Work with fragrant winter greens and seasonal decorations. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $20. 718-359-6227. vomuseum.org.

Public Tour with Artist Leah Raintree

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 4, 2-3pm WHERE: The Noguchi Museum, 9-01 33rd Road, Long Island City AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This tour will introduce visitors to the Museum’s collection, and Raintree’s experience developing a relationship between her own work and Isamu Noguchi’s sculptures. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 seniors and students; free for children younger than 12. 718-204-7088. noguchi.org.

Open Studio: Indigo Dyeing FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 4, 11am WHERE: The Noguchi Museum, 9-01 33rd Road, Long Island City AGES: All WHAT: This program encourages families to explore the galleries and make art in response to their experiences. WANT TO GO? 718-204-7088. noguchi.org.

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WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 11, 10:30am WHERE: The Noguchi Museum, 9-01 33rd Road, Long Island City AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Parents will learn strategies for engaging their children during museum visits while exploring art materials and The Noguchi Museum galleries as a family. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $10 families with up to four members. 718-204-7088. noguchi.org.

Magazine Paper Craft FREE

WHEN: Dec. 9-16, Fridays, 4pm WHERE: Central Library, 89-11 Merrick Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Create Christmas trees from recycled magazines. WANT TO GO? 718-990-0700. queenslibrary.org.

Family Program: Moving Image Studio

WHEN: Dec. 3-17, Saturdays, 12pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Families can create media and other projects. WANT TO GO? $12; $9 seniors and students with ID; $6 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 718-429-2579. movingimage.org.

Gift (W)Rap Workshop FREE

WHEN: Dec. 6-20, Tuesdays, 4pm WHERE: Broadway Library, 40-20 Broadway, Long Island City AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Maker Space is devoted to making gifts, cards, and wrappin’ ‘em up. Cut, paste, sew, draw, crochet, and get inspired to make a unique gift. WANT TO GO? 718-721-2462. queenslibrary.org.

ONCE UPON A TIME Toddler Tales: Lots of Spots

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 3, 10:30am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Encourage a child’s love of reading by listening to a nature-related story especially chosen for our littlest nature lovers, create a nature craft, and meet some of APEC’s animals. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $21. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Animal Tales: Two Little Birds

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 3, 10:30am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-6 WHAT: Kids enter the wonderful world of nature. Read an enchanting book about different animal friends, crafts, and a nature walk. WANT TO GO? $21. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

APEC Adventure Time: Birds and Berries WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 4, 10:30am

WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 2 and younger WHAT: Toddlers and their caregivers enjoy some special time together as they socialize with others and learn about nature. Each class focuses on a different theme and includes live animals, art projects, trail walks, and stories. WANT TO GO? $18. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Pajama Storytime FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 13, 6:30pm WHERE: Queens Village Library, 94-11 217th St., Queens Village AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Kids and their caregivers enjoy storytime. Be sure to wear your PJs. WANT TO GO? 718-776-6800. queenslibrary.org.

Children’s Storytime FREE

WHEN: Dec. 1-29, Thursdays, 11am WHERE: The Astoria Bookshop, 31-29 31st St., Astoria AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Listen to stories from authors and staff featuring selections from some current and classic children’s books. WANT TO GO? 718-278-2665. astoriabookshop.com.

Toddler Learning Center FREE

WHEN: Dec. 2-30, Fridays, 10:30am WHERE: Bellerose Library, 250-08 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: 2 and younger WHAT: Play and learn with your child with toys, games, puzzles, and other items selected to enhance a toddler’s development. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org.

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MUSICIANS Five Boroughs Music Festival Brooklyn Rider

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 2, 7:30pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 13 and older WHAT: This genre-defying string quartet has taken the chamber music scene by storm. It combines an eclectic repertoire with a gripping performance style that is attracting fans and drawing critical acclaim. WANT TO GO? $25. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

Chamber Music Beginnings: Making Melodies FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 3, 2pm WHERE: Jamaica Performing Arts Center, 150-10 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Struggling composer Wolfgang Amadeus Schmutzinberry learns that all it takes to make a beautiful melody is a few steps, skips, and leaps—along the musical scale, that is. The music of composers such as Beethoven and Brahms are the guides in this fun-filled musical journey. WANT TO GO? 718-658-7400. lincolncenter.org.

QL International Resource Center Presents: World-Infused French Music

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 5, 6:30pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: This ensemble comes from every corner of the world. They mix French chanson with reggae, klezmer, accordion, violin, ukulele, horns, and a rhythm section, and lyrics in both French and in English. WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

2016 Winter Holiday Piano Students Recital Presented by New York Sol Sharp Music Studio FREE WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 8, 4:30pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Young pianists will perform works by Chopin, Beethoven, Debussy, Christmas carols, and more. WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

Holiday Jubilee: Filigree Baroque

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 9, 6:30pm WHERE: King Manor Museum, 150-03 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: This all-female group from Juilliard is a powerful arrangement of musicians specializing in early music and education. This program will feature holiday carols and 18th-century music. WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 718-206-0545. kingmanor.org.

Queens College Choral Society 76th Annual Winter Concert

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 10, 8pm WHERE: Kupferberg Center for the Arts, 65-30 Kissena Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Beethoven’s Ninth Symphony concludes with a glorious setting of Schiller’s famous ‘Ode to Joy,’ highlighting themes of freedom, unity, and fellowship. Brahms’s ethereal setting of Schiller’s poem “Nänie” is an extraordinary ‘requiem in miniature,’ providing comfort to those who have experienced loss. WANT TO GO? $20. 718-793-8080. kupferbergcenter.org.

Ringing in the New: A Festive Winter Concert

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 11, 2pm and 5:30pm WHERE: 92nd Street Y, 1395 Lexington Ave., Upper East Side, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: The exciting annual celebration of holiday music and the multicultural communities of New York City. WANT TO GO? See website for prices. 212-415-5500. ypc.org.

Annual Christmas Concert: The Messiah and Christmas Favorites

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 11, 4pm WHERE: Our Lady Queen of Martyrs, 110-6 Queens Blvd., Forest Hills AGES: All WHAT: The concert features highlights from the Christmas portion of Handel’s Messiah and beloved Christmas songs of the season. WANT TO GO? $30; $10 for children ages 12 and younger. 718-2686251. ourladyqueensofmartyrs.org.

Gamelan Son of Lion: Indonesian Percussion

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 16, 7pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: This repertory ensemble bridges two musical worlds: experimental contemporary America and the bright gongs of Indonesia. WANT TO GO? $16; $10 children. 718-939-0647. flushingtownhall.org. ›› QueensParent 33

AGES: All WHAT: A stage production of the classic animated TV special featuring Santa and Mrs. Claus, Hermey the Elf, Bumble the Abominable Snow Monster, Clarice, Yukon Cornelius, and, of course, Rudolph. WANT TO GO? 212-465-6741. theateratmsg.com.

Festival of Lights: As the Seasons Turn—from Darkness to Light

HOLIDAY FUN Christmas in the Garden and Tree Lighting FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 4, 1-5:30pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Get into the holiday spirit with fun for the whole family. Additional fee for photos with Santa. WANT TO GO? 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

Celebrate Christmas with a Special Adaptation of the ‘Tortoise and the Hare’ FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 5, 3pm WHERE: Long Island City Library, 37-44 21st St., Long Island City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: A bilingual, fun, and twisted adaptation of the famous Aesop’s fable, adding music and magic to this old race that has entertained kids and adults alike. This holiday season be part of this great competition, encourage your favorite character, and have fun dancing and singing with Santa. WANT TO GO? 718-752-3700. queenslibrary.org.

Holiday Historic House Tour

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 11, 1-5pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the holiday season and learn about the unique history of seven historic sites in Flushing and Corona. Each site will offer special activities and delicious refreshments. A trolley will be available to take visitors from one historic house to the next. WANT TO GO? $20; $5 children ages 12 and younger. 718-939-0647. flushingtownhall.org.

Winter Solstice Star Celebration

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 17, 7pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Join professor and astronomer Mark Freilich for an evening of stargazing and a party in celebration of the winter solstice. Enjoy some light snacks and fellowship with fellow stargazers. WANT TO GO? $18. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

‘Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer: the Musical’

WHEN: Dec. 1-18, Wednesday-Sunday, see website for times WHERE: The Theater at Madison Square Garden, 4 Pennsylvania Plaza, Midtown, Manhattan

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WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 18, 2pm WHERE: The Voelker Orth Museum, 149-19 38th Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the Winter Solstice with four poets and music. Across cultures and over the centuries the solstice is marked with festivals of light bringing people together. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-359-6227. vomuseum.org.

The Joys of Collage FREE

WHEN: Dec. 7-21, Wednesdays, 4pm WHERE: Langston Hughes Library, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Corona AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Lighten the holiday season with collage projects. Using paper, cardboard, yarn, and a variety of materials. Enjoy making gifts and keepsakes. WANT TO GO? 718-651-1100. queenslibrary.org.

Santa Photos

WHEN: Through Dec. 23: see website for times WHERE: The Shops at Atlas Park, 8000 Cooper Ave., Glendale AGES: All WHAT: Take photos with Santa and visit his winter home, located near the Center Green. WANT TO GO? See website for pricing. 718-326-3300. shopatlaspark.com.

Photos With Santa

WHEN: Through Dec. 24: see website for times WHERE: The Shops at Skyview Center, 40-24 College Point Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Whether the kids have been naughty or nice, they don’t want to miss a visit with the Big Guy in the red suit. WANT TO GO? See website for photo pricing. 718-460-2000. shopskyviewcenter.com.

2016 Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree FREE

WHEN: Dec. 1-Jan. 7, 2017, daily, 5:30am-12am WHERE: Rockefeller Center, 30 Rockefeller Plaza, Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: The king of Christmas trees in NYC. More than half a million people pass by the tree every day during the holidays. WANT TO GO? 212-632-3975. rockefellercenter.com.

GingerBread Lane

WHEN: Through Jan. 15, 2017: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; SaturdaySunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Marvel at the homemade gingerbread houses made entirely of edible gingerbread, royal icing, and candy. The winner of 2015 Guinness World Record for the largest gingerbread village is drafted, designed, baked, planned, built, and decorated by chef Jon Lovitch over the course of an entire year. WANT TO GO? $15; $12 seniors and children ages 2-17. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

SHOW TIME!

in Linus this fact, citing his dismay with the over-commercialization of Christmas and his inability to grasp what Christmas is all about. WANT TO GO? $12. 718-631-6311. qcc.cuny.edu/qpac.

Comedy Magic Show FREE

Long Island City School of Ballet: ‘This ‘70s Nutcracker’

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 5, 4pm WHERE: Poppenhusen Library, 121-23 14th Ave., College Point AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join Adam Auslander in this fun-filled Family Literacy event that promotes reading. Children and their family will enjoy an hour filled with laughter and excitement. WANT TO GO? 718-359-1102. queenslibrary.org.

‘A Christmas Carol’

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 9, 7pm WHERE: Queensborough Performing Arts Center, 222-05 56th Ave., Bayside AGES: 5 and older WHAT: All the splendor, magic, and joy of the holiday season is here in this Dickens classic! Celebrate the true spirit of Christmas with this brand-new, original production filled with haunting special effects and heartfelt sentiments. WANT TO GO? $35 and up. 718-631-6311. qcc.cuny.edu/qpac.

‘Peter and the Wolf’ with Isaac Mizrahi

WHEN: Dec. 3-11, see website for show times WHERE: Guggenheim Museum, 1071 Fifth Ave., Upper East Side, Manhattan AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Isaac Mizrahi narrates Sergei Prokofiev’s charming children’s classic in a show that has become a holiday tradition. The story features 30 minutes of suspense, including a happy ending, and allows the young and young-at-heart to hear and learn the various instruments in the orchestra. WANT TO GO? $40. 212-423-3587. guggenheim.org.

‘A Charlie Brown Christmas’

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 11, 2pm WHERE: Queensborough Performing Arts Center, 222-05 56th Ave., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: It’s Christmas season, and Charlie Brown is depressed. He confides

WHEN: Dec. 10-11, Saturday-Sunday, see website for schedule WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Set in the ’70s, a young man is transported magically to the Land of Television by his strange relative Chick where he discovers ballet for the first time. WANT TO GO? $30. 718-760-0064. queenstheatre.org.

School Assembly: ‘We The People’

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 13, 10:30am WHERE: Jamaica Performing Arts Center, 153-10 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: A musical review that brings American Civics lessons to life and promises to make social studies exciting and accessible. Students will learn about the three branches of government, the First Amendment, presidential elections, democracy, the judicial process, and more. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 children. 718-658-7400. jcal.org.

‘A Christmas Carol’

WHEN: Dec. 9-22, see website for dates and times WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This fresh, delightful musical production transports audiences to Victorian England, where Ebenezer Scrooge is visited by spirits from the past, present, and future, who change his life forever. WANT TO GO? $18. 718-760-0064. queenstheatre.org.

‘Mother Africa: My Home’

WHEN: Dec. 1-Jan. 2, 2017: see website for show times WHERE: New Victory Theater, 229 W. 42nd St., Theater District, Manhattan AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This holiday season visit Cape Town’s largest township, Khayelitsha, for a unique circus spectacular with a diverse cast of 26 acrobats, musicians, and dancers that will wow audiences with breathtaking feats, exuberant afro-beats, and colorful sets. WANT TO GO? $20 and up. 646-223-3010. newvictory.org.

‘Radio City Christmas Spectacular’ featuring The Rockettes

WHEN: Nov. 11-Jan. 2, 2017, see website for show times WHERE: Radio City Music Hall, 1260 Sixth Ave., Midtown, Manhattan AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Celebrate the holiday season in a way that only Radio City can deliver: with this celebrated Christmas spectacle in an iconic venue. Be wowed by favorite numbers including The Parade of the Wooden Soldiers and The Living Nativity. WANT TO GO? $46 and up. 866-858-0007. radiocitychristmas.com.

Children’s Classics

WHEN: Through April 28, 2017: see website for dates, 10:30am WHERE: Once Upon A Time Inc., 87-61 111th St., Richmond Hill AGES: 3-8, Adult WHAT: Enjoy an intro to live musical theater in this production that features old friends and new. Pinocchio, Alice In Wonderland, Peter Pan, Charlie Brown, and Mary Poppins will all be met in a whirlwind morning. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-849-6954. onceuponatime-inc.com. ›› QueensParent 35

The New York Theatre Ballet: Keith Michael’s ‘The Nutcracker’

WHEN: Dec. 10-11, Saturday-Sunday, 11am, 1pm, and 3:30pm WHERE: Florence Gould Hall, 55 E. 59th St., Upper East Side, Manhattan AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Keith Michael’s re-imagined version of Nutcracker, performed by New York Theatre Ballet, is a favorite introduction to the story for little ones. WANT TO GO? $34; $24 for children ages 12 and younger. 800-653-8000. nytb.org.

Dances Patrelle Presents ‘The Yorkville Nutcracker’

DANCE PARTY ‘Cinderella’: Performed by The State Ballet Theatre of Russia WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 3, 7:30pm WHERE: Kupferberg Center for the Arts, 65-30 Kissena Blvd., Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The enchanting story of wishes that really do come true. Set to the music of S. Prokofiev and inspired by the timeless fairy tale, this is one of the most magical and hopeful of the storybook ballets. WANT TO GO? $23 and up. 718-793-8080. kupferbergcenter.org.

Valerie Green and Dance Entropy FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 3, 1:30pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: The colorful, vibrant short works in this modern dance program are sure to get the audience thinking, feeling, and moving. WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

Dance Performance: Kensaku Shinohara + Gabrielle Revlock FREE

WHEN: Dec. 3-4, Saturday-Sunday, 12:30 and 3pm WHERE: Queens Museum, NYC Building, Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Flushing AGES: All WHAT: New York premiere featuring two new contemporary dance pieces. WANT TO GO? 718-592-9700. queensmuseum.org.

Dance It Out: A Fitness Workshop for Kids FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 5, 2:30pm WHERE: Long Island City Library, 37-44 21st St., Long Island City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: This interactive dance fitness workshop encourage healthy habits and positive attitudes toward physical exercise. WANT TO GO? 718-752-3700. queenslibrary.org.

Historical Social Dances of Harlem Presented by the Apollo Theater FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Dec. 6, 3:30pm WHERE: Woodside Library, 54-22 Skillman Ave., Woodside AGES: 5-12 WHAT: History comes to life as students learn the classic dances of Harlem’s Savoy Ballroom, including the Lindy Hop, Shorty George, and the Suzy Q. WANT TO GO? 718-429-4700. queenslibrary.org. 36

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WHEN: Dec. 8-11, Thursday-Friday, 7pm; Saturday, 2pm and 7pm; Sunday, 12pm and 5pm WHERE: The Kaye Playhouse at Hunter College, East 68th Street, Upper East Side, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Set in 1895, it takes the audience on a tour of Olde New York, including a holiday party at Gracie Mansion, dancing at the Crystal Palace in the New York Botanical Garden, and skating in Central Park. WANT TO GO? $45 and up. 212-772-4448. dancespatrelle.org.

Ohman’s New York Dance Theatre ‘The Nutcracker’

WHEN: Dec. 17-18, Saturday-Sunday, 12pm and 5pm WHERE: Hofstra University, John Cranford Adams Playhouse, Hempstead, Long Island AGES: All WHAT: This rendition of The Nutcracker is the only one on Long Island performed in the tradition of New York City Ballet’s legendary George Balanchine. WANT TO GO? $42; $32 seniors and children. 631-462-0964. ohmanballet.org.

Paul Taylor Dance Company

WHEN: Dec. 17-18, Saturday, 2pm and 8pm; Sunday, 3pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A Queens Theatre favorite, Paul Taylor continues to shape the American art of modern dance. WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 718-760-0064. queenstheatre.org.

Calpulli Dance Company

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 18, 2pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate a year of learning in dance and music as students and adults from Queens and Staten Island perform folk dances and music. WANT TO GO? $15; $12 children. 718-939-0647. flushingtownhall.org.

Family Fun Belly Dancing with Nancy FREE

WHEN: Dec. 1-29, Thursdays, 4pm WHERE: Langston Hughes Library, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Corona AGES: All WHAT: Have you ever wanted to try out belly dancing? Join Nancy as she demonstrates the basics. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 718-651-1100. queenslibrary.org.

SMARTY PANTS Theater Explorations with the Apollo Theater FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 2, 4pm WHERE: Jackson Heights Library, 35-51 81 St., Jackson Heights AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Explore and perform techniques used in theater productions. Learn dialogue, improvisation, and gestures, and how they create powerful theater. WANT TO GO? 718-899-2500. queenslibrary.org.

Young Writers Workshop

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 4, 12:30pm WHERE: The Astoria Bookshop, 31-29 31st St., Astoria AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Join instructor Jenn Wehrung and use writing prompts and exercises to work on the creative writing process in a fun and encouraging environment. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-278-2665. astoriabookshop.com.

Don’t Snooze on Clues: An Anti-Bullying Workshop FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 5, 4pm WHERE: Baisley Park Library, 117-11 Sutphin Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 5-12 WHAT: This workshop will teach children different types of bullying, and safe ways to stand-up against it. WANT TO GO? 718-529-1590. queenslibrary.org.

Young Discoverers Club: Wind Power

AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join Mr. Chris in an educational musical experience with hiphop music, movement, storytelling, and interactive games. WANT TO GO? 718-739-4088. queenslibrary.org.

Animal Care Trainee

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 28, 10am-12pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 22806 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 8-12 WHAT: This program teaches children about the interesting job of an animal caretaker. Children will have hands-on experience learning all about the needs of APEC’s animals. Snack and animal care trainee certificate included. WANT TO GO? $21. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 10, 12:30pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Wind flows all around us, and it whistles strongest in the winter. Calling all Young Discoverers to come learn all about this mysterious and important part of weather. WANT TO GO? $24. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Family Nature Bingo

Day Camp Open House FREE

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WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 11, 10am-12pm WHERE: Beth Sholom Day Camp, 401 Roslyn Road, Roslyn Heights AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Meet camp leadership, tour this beautiful indoor/outdoor facility, and ask all of your questions. WANT TO GO? 516-621-9257. bethsholomdaycamp.com.

Techsplorers FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 14, 4:30pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: In addition to its books and encyclopedias, Queens Library also has access to a number of great databases and online educational materials to promote learning. This program has access to a number of great databases and online educational materials to promote learning, and explores a range of online learning tools. WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

The Mr. Chris Musical Experience FREE

WHEN: Dec. 2-23, Fridays, 3:30pm WHERE: South Jamaica Library, 108-41 Guy R. Brewer Blvd., South Jamaica

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 29, 2pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn interesting science facts about local plants and wildlife, and compete to win exciting prizes. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $14. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com. WHEN: Through Aug. 13, 2017: daily, 10am-5:45pm WHERE: American Museum of Natural History, Central Park West and 79th Street, Upper West Side, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: A bilingual exhibit exploring Cuba like never before, in partnership with the Cuban National Museum of Natural History, featuring live animals and a chance to explore recreations of the island’s wetlands, as well as a typical Cuban street. WANT TO GO? $27; $17 students and seniors; $12.50 children ages 2-12. 212-769-5100. amnh.org.

Coming up next month: JAN. 14: Tarzan at Queensborough Performing Arts Center, Bayside JAN. 17: Bebe Winans Special Martin Luther King Jr. Celebration at Kupferberg Center for The Performing Arts, Flushing JAN. 28: Moving Image Studio Family Program at Museum of The Moving Image, Astoria QueensParent 37

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Bring holiday cheer and family bonding from the farm to your home by cutting your own Christmas tree this winter. Head to your local tree farm and spend a few fun hours seeking out your family’s perfect tree, then cut it yourself. You can also load up on some festive wreaths, garlands, and baked goods to make the holiday merry and bright! As always, call ahead of time to confirm hours and tree availability before planning your adventure. Santa’s Christmas Tree Farm 30105 Main Road, Cutchogue 631-734-8641 santaschristmastreefarm.com Thanksgiving weekend through December (until inventory sells out), daily, 9am6pm; call to check availability. Tools and assistance provided. Santa appearances on weekends. Christmas shop on premises. Shamrock Christmas Tree Farm 20685 Main Road, Mattituck 631-298-4619; 631-298-4118 shamrockchristmastreefarm.com Nov. 25-Dec. 24, daily, 9am-5pm. Tools and assistance provided. Pre-cut trees, handmade wreaths, and crafts also available. Santa appearances on weekends, 12-5pm. Shamrock Express train rides (weather permitting) and a fire pit to enjoy while you’re waiting for your ride. No pets allowed.

Long Island Carter Christmas Tree Farm 123 N. Country Road, Miller Place 631-331-4699; cartertreefarm.org Through Dec. 18, weekends, 9am-4:30pm. Saws are provided or bring your own. Pre-tagging trees is available starting Nov. 19. Also offers tree-wrapping services. Dart’s Christmas Tree Farm 2355 Main Bayview Road, Southold 631-765-4148 dartstreefarm.com Nov. 25-Dec. 24, daily, 9am-5pm. Offers hayrides, hot chocolate, snacks, handmade wreaths, tree-cutting supplies, and friendly elves to cut and carry your tree. Visits from Santa on weekends in the afternoon. Dogs on leashes are welcome. Elwood Pumpkin Farm 1500 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-368-8626 elwoodpumpkinfarm.com/elwood-christmas-tree-farm Nov. 25-Dec. 24; weekends, 10am-dusk (to cut your own) or 7pm (to purchase pre38

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cut); weekdays, 3pm-dark (to cut your own) or 7pm (to purchase pre-cut). Bring your own saw to cut your tree. Staff will help you tie your tree to your car (no charge). Grandpa Tony’s Tree Farm 305 Weeks Ave., Manorville 516-639-3587 Nov. 27-Dec. 24, daily, 8am-4:30pm. Call to schedule an appointment. Matt’s Christmas Tree Farm 309 Weeks Ave., Manorville 631-874-6260 mattschristmastreefarm.com Nov. 25-Dec. 24, daily, 8am-4:30pm. Bow saws and netting available. Trailer rides back from the field. Loading and tying assistance provided. Candy canes available for kids. Leashed dogs welcome. Potted trees also available. Mike’s Christmas Tree Farm 323 Weeks Ave., Manorville 631-874-3551; mikestreefarm.com Nov. 25-Dec. 24, daily, 8am-4:30pm. Fresh wreaths also available. Tree wrapping and saws provided.

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Hidden Pond Tree Farm 4 West Field Road, Mendham 973-865-6362 hiddenpondtreefarm.com Nov. 25-Dec. 20, Tuesday-Sunday, 9am-5pm. Pre-cut trees also available. All trees grown at the farm are pesticide-free. Refreshments available. Free hay rides (weather permitting). Marshmallow roasting around the bonfire and free hot chocolate on weekends. Christmas shop with wreaths, greenery, centerpieces, and other decorations. After the first weekend, call for updates on availability before visiting. Rolling Green Farm 61 Hacklebarney Road, Long Valley 908-879-7457 Nov. 25-Dec. 24, Black Friday and weekends, 10am-5pm. Cut your own trees. Wreaths, tree sprays, and antiques for sale in the shop.

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Nov. 25-Dec. 18, weekends, 9am-4pm. Saws provided. Christmas shop with decorations, ornaments, wreaths, holly, tree stands, and garland on-site. Hayride to haul tree back from field provided.

908-835-0557 evergreenvalleychristmastrees.com Nov. 25-Dec. 24, Friday-Saturday, 10am-sundown; Sunday-Thursday, 12pm-sundown. Tools and assistance provided. Wagon rides and hot chocolate available on weekends. Pets on leashes allowed.

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Celebrate the holidays with the beloved Radio City Rockettes and witness the iconic kickline.

Kids take in the view at Brooklyn Boulders. A Grumman F-11ATiger, one of 75 aircraft at Cradle of Aviation Museum Billy Beez’s play space will keep the kids busy for hours.

A Staycation a Day

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Ideas for seven fun-filled family days around our region. By Bethany Braun-Silva

here’s no better way to create lasting memories as a family than taking a trip together, especially around the holidays. As a mom of two young boys, however, I know how hard—and expensive—it can be to take a trip. The good news is you don’t need to get on an airplane or even stay at a hotel to have a memorable and exciting winter break. The New York metro area offers such a wealth of things to do with kids that there are virtually endless possibilities for a “vacation” right here at home. To help, we’ve created a list of seven great local “staycation” itineraries—a week’s worth of kid-focused fun for you and your family to enjoy this holiday season.

Brooklyn

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Check out Brooklyn Boulders, at which adults and kids can scale mountain-like fixtures in Boerum Hill. You can also experience a bit of history at the New York Transit Museum in Downtown Brooklyn. Got an animal-lover on your hands? Head to Coney Island and visit the New York Aquarium to marvel at the sea turtles, sharks, seals, and more.

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Check out the Maritime Aquarium in Norwalk, which is home to a special “Animals Without Passports” exhibit through Jan. 2, 2017. The Stepping Stones Museum for Children, also in Norwalk, offers a great variety of activities, including Zumba® classes for kids and an Elf Workshop in which children can create their own Christmas tree ornament. Top off the day by catching a performance of The Nutcracker at The Palace in Stamford.

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Long Island

Garden City’s Cradle of Aviation Museum features more than 75 aircraft and spacecraft, a dozen cockpits, and 30 hands-on exhibits. You can keep the learning going with a trip to Sagamore Hill in Oyster Bay, Theodore Roosevelt’s home, which offers tours and ranger activities for kids. Kids can also enjoy troutfeeding demonstrations and tours at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium in Cold Spring Harbor and take a trip back in time at Old Bethpage Village Restoration in Old Bethpage, at which they can take part in the junior apprenticeship program, dress in authentic period clothing, and learn historic crafts.

Manhattan

Start at everyone’s favorite, the American Museum of Natural History on the Upper West Side. You can then take a short trip downtown—walk through Central Park if it’s not too cold—to experience the holiday fun

at Rockefeller Center or take in the Rockettes’ Christmas Spectacular at Radio City Music Hall. Finish up with some grub at Ellen’s Stardust Diner in Midtown, since you’re sure to be hungry.

All Kids Can Learn

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Head to Corona to experience GingerBread Lane at the New York Hall of Science. It won the Guinness World Record—in 2013, 2014, and 2015—for the largest gingerbread village. You can also see a family-friendly show at Flushing Town Hall or check out the annual Holiday Market there. Next, head over to Funtopia USA for some arcade fun in Middle Village.

Kids take in the amazing feat that is GingerBread Lane at the New York Hall of Science.

Rockland County

Head to the Palisades Center in West Nyack for some serious family fun all in one place. Kids and adults can take on the ropes course at Palisades Climb Adventure. Afterward, parents can sit back while their kids jump and play at Billy Beez, an indoor play space. Younger kids will enjoy the Ferris wheel and carousel just off the food court, while older ones can catch a movie or IMAX and go ice-skating.

Westchester County

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Have a museum-filled day at the Katonah Museum of Art in Katonah or the Westchester Children’s Museum in Rye (or both!). Afterward, head over to Ridge Hill in Yonkers for an afternoon at Legoland Discovery Center, to experience the festive creations at Bricktacular. Walk just a block or two within Ridge Hill to find a bite to eat or be truly adventurous and try indoor skydiving at iFly.

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Winter Break Activities 96-19 69 Ave., Forest Hills allkidscanlearn.net allkidscanlearn@gmail.com The NYS ELA and Math Intensive and Comprehensive Preparation Program will be offered at Forest Hills during the mid-winter break with licensed teachers and the most current learning materials. All short and extended writing responses will be graded with comments by licensed teachers. Math will be focused on words and questions with explanation. For students in third-eighth grades, from Feb. 20-24, ELA will be offered from 9:30am to 12pm, and math from 12:30-3pm. Level 4 students from previous year, early registration, and sibling discount available. Contact Ms. Wendy at 718-664-7408.

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Whitepoint Center 13225 14th Ave., College Point 646-883-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/college-point-ny collegepoint.ny@bounceu.com Winter recess fun! When school is out, we are open! Bounce on over for a funtastic experience every day of the week. Visit our Events Calendar for the most up-to-date information on our daily Open Bounces (Preshool, All Age, and Cosmic) and the latest themes of our new arts camp, Create & Bounce. Whether you come for a session, the morning, or the day, your kids will have a blast!

Happy Days Children’s Wear Inc.

Serving Brooklyn, Queens, Manhattan, and Staten Island 56-40 Myrtle Ave., Ridgewood 718-456-5422 331 Knickerbocker Ave., Brooklyn 718-366-3620 4802 5th Ave., Brooklyn 718-567-3900 Happy Days Children’s Wear, in business for more than 30 years, is the one-stop shop for all your children’s needs. We carry everything you need from newborn through teenage clothes, including a full line of layette. A full line of school uniforms is available all year long. We also have a juvenile furniture department. We look forward to assisting you with all of your holiday shopping needs.

Kent Prep

194-11A Northern Blvd., Bayside 718-423-5757; kentprep.com This winter recess, Kent Prep is offering special crash courses in preparation for the Gifted and Talented Entrance Exam (pre-K to first grade), Hunter HS College Entrance Exam (sixth grade), NY Common Core ELA Prep (third-seventh grades), and lastly for the ACT and SAT (10th-11th grades). Take advantage of your child’s winter recess to maximize preparation for their tests. Seats are limited, so call us at 718-423-5757 to speak with a counselor today!

Performing Arts Conservatory of New York

35-57 89th St., Jackson Heights 718-639-1425; 917-774-3411 paconyschool.com info@paconyschool.com We offer music instruction in piano, violin, guitar, voice, and winds; dance instruction in ballet, folk dance, modern, and flamenco; and art instruction. We also offer Dalcroze, music and movement for preschoolers. Drama program and Spanish for kids are also available. Adults are also welcome. We prepare music, art, and dance students for special high schools (LaGuardia, Frank Sinatra, etc.), and pre-college and college auditions. Please call for winter break hours and programs.

What’s Cooking?

30 E. Main St., Oyster Bay 516-922-COOK (2665) whatscookingny.com info@whatscookingny.com Martha Stewart, Newsday, and News 12 boast What’s Cooking? is a No. 1 choice birthday party place and culinary school at which children can explore their creativity in culinary arts. Offering a wide variety of party themes and classes, we exceed customers’ expectations with superior service, quality, and value. Hottest party theme: Cupcake Wars! Funtastic cookie, cupcake, chocolate, pretzel, or pizza parties can be customized in our spacious party room with an ice cream candy bar or chocolate fountain, making your party memorable! Don’t miss our amazing Gingerbread Workshop, and Winter MiniCamp at the end of December!

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Get as Good as You Give!

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We all want to grant our kids’ every wish, especially during the holidays—but is showering them with presents really best? How to model the spirit of giving without spoiling your child, make generosity a part of your family’s routine, and bring smiles to their faces. By Katelin Walling

efore families sit down for Thanksgiving dinner, stores put out holiday decorations. With all the hype and commercialism of the extended season, it’s hard to not feel pressure to get your children the most extravagant gifts. “One kid can’t have a better Christmas than the other one, so you keep upping the ante. The pressure is so much. I start getting a stomachache, like, in November,” said comedian Louis C.K., talking about buying gifts for his daughters in his appearance on the nowdefunct The Tonight Show with Jay Leno on NBC on Jan. 6, 2014. “I actually do think that one Christmas with nothing would make [my kids] more generous, more cautious, and smarter people, so it would actually be good parenting to have one Christmas where [they] get nothing,” he said of not wanting to give in to the contagious gift-buying frenzy. “But I can’t do it. I can’t do what’s right for my kids.” You don’t need to go to the extreme measure of refraining from giving your children gifts this holiday season to encourage them to be more grateful, more generous beings.

Understand how we got to ‘affluenza.’

Entitled children are not born, they’re made, according to Wednesday Martin, Ph.D., a social researcher with a background in anthropology and author of Primates of Park Avenue, who lives in New York City. Our modern culture is a time of “ecological relief,” Dr. Martin says—meaning we’re not foraging for food, hunting prey, or primarily occupied with matters of survival. “One of the things that means is, that to a completely unprecedented extent, we can invest really heavily in each and every child we have versus the way it was in our evolutionary prehistory when humans had to balance care for their offspring with care for themselves,” Dr. Martin says. “They were always playing the numbers game—how much attention can I give this child without dying myself?” 42

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“Affluenza”—which “is characterized by a sense of entitlement, an inability to delay gratification, an exaggerated belief in the ability to control one’s life, and a diminished capacity for empathy and compassion,” according to Josh Glawe, LCSW, who provides individual, family, marital, and group therapy in Parsippany, NJ— also stems from the fact that we, as primates, give gifts because we live to make social connections, Dr. Martin says. “We long to belong. We long to build connections and cement relationships, and gifts are one of the ways that we do that. By giving something to someone we say, ‘I value you. I like you. You mean something to me.’ But now, because we live in a state of ecological relief, sometimes we give really lavish gifts,” Dr. Martin says. “And we know that most people around the holiday, no matter what their financial situation, give to the outer extent that is possible for them.”

Counteract the ‘gimmes.’

Glawe says the most important step to guard against the escalating effects of entitlement is to recognize the problem and work toward a more balanced view of the role of money and material items to your child, as well as within the family as a whole. Once this has been determined, there are a few easy things you can do with your children to help them become more gracious. Name your blessings. Beyond counting your blessings, naming them is a great way to reflect on the things you’re grateful for each day. “There are so many ways that you can do that,” says Andrea Reiser, a Westport, CT-based happiness coach and co-author of Letters From Home: A Wake-Up Call for Success and Wealth. Reiser suggests you write your blessings down once a week; go around the dinner table and have each family member mention a few things they’re grateful for. Or participate in the “100 Days of Happiness” (100happydays.com) challenge by capturing images

of things that make you happy or that you’re grateful for 100 days in a row—71 percent of people who tried have cited “lack of time” as the main reason they were unable to complete the challenge. Let’s instill in our kids that making time for happiness is a worthwhile priority! Show gratitude every day. Be a grateful parent and tell your children why you’re grateful for them. “It models what gratitude is and it also helps them build self-esteem because they realize you love them for certain skills, qualities, and characteristics, and it makes them feel good to know they’re appreciated,” Reiser says. Parents should also model gratitude by saying “thank you” sincerely and often in your everyday life. “Yes, the grocery store cashier is paid to ring up your order, but say ‘thank you’ to that person just for the interaction that you’ve had with them,” Reiser suggests. Help children express gratitude. Unfortunately, thank-you notes have largely disappeared from our culture, Reiser says. “There are so many ways you can make it easier for kids to send thank-you notes, even if it’s a thank-you email, to make the child acknowledge that they received something from someone else and show that they appreciate it,” she adds. Create a form note for younger kids on which they fill in the blanks for who gave them the gift, what they received, and sign it or maybe draw a picture. Take older kids shopping for their own stationery to send handwritten notes. And remember: A phone call to the giver is a simple way to say thank you, especially in this age of texts. “I think that gratitude is such a great solution because it kind of counteracts the ‘gimmes’,” Reiser adds. “Really instilling gratitude in kids and living it yourself as a model goes so far to change the entitlement culture.”

Indulge your gift-giving instincts.

So, how can you indulge in some of your gift-giving instincts without spoiling your kids? Give the gift of time. We live in a very fast-paced, hyped-up culture, so we give lavish gifts because it’s the most efficient way to say “I love you,” Dr. Martin says. But the most extravagant, most precious gift you can give your child? Your time. Dr. Martin suggests you give children gift certificates, such as 1 hour of arts-and-crafts with Mommy or the opportunity to help Daddy make dinner. Or give a board game, which is something that will facilitate everyone spending time together, and then commit to a family game night once a week. “As your child is opening a gift, talk about how using it will allow you to spend time together,” Dr. Martin says. “What you’re modeling is that a gift is a route to a social and personal connection.” Spend money doing rather than having. “I’m huge into giving kids experiences rather than material stuff—spending time instead of spending money, and also asking relatives to do the same,” Reiser says. “It’s so much more meaningful and lasting to have experiences together.” A 2014 study by Amit Kumar, Matthew A. Killingsworth, and Thomas Gilovich titled “Waiting for Merlot” found that experiential purchases (spending money on doing) tends to provide longer-lasting happiness than material purchases (spending money on having). So you’ll be happier buying experiences for you and your child, and your child will be happier because you’ll be spending time with him.

Set realistic expectations. The only way to prevent your children from feeling extreme disappointment when they don’t get everything they want is to talk about expectations beforehand. “I grew up celebrating Hanukkah, and we did not get a gift every night for the eight days of Hanukkah, but we knew that up front,” Reiser says. “Maybe the first and fourth and eighth nights my mom would give us a gift. We didn’t know exactly what nights to expect them, but we knew we weren’t getting something every night, and it just made it more realistic.” Once you’ve set expectations with your child, share with relatives and ask them to follow suit with you. Reiser adds that there may be some initial disappointment, but you have to remind the child that you discussed expectations beforehand and to appreciate the things they were given. While it may not be easy during the holidays, Reiser suggests asking your child to participate in purchasing the newest gadget or fashion accessory they want. “Then, they have a little more investment in it, and it’s more rewarding when they finally get to that point where they’ve saved up enough to be able to buy it,” she says.

Keep the charitable feeling year-round.

“In general, I don’t believe that kids act selfishly because they genuinely don’t care about others. It’s more that they aren’t really sure how to help others and give back because they aren’t being taught,” says Todd Patkin, author of Finding Happiness: One Man’s Quest to Beat Depression and Anxiety and—Finally—Let the Sunshine In. “Ultimately, raising children who understand the value of giving back—and whose lives reflect that knowledge—is one of the most philanthropically-minded things parents can do.” The best way to teach your children is to set an example for them. Whether it’s donating time, money, or items to an organization, or simply a random act of kindness such as helping an older person with their groceries or taking homemade soup to a sick friend, showing your kids that you take a little time every day to be kind to someone is “going to go just as far as going to a soup kitchen but in a different way that’s profound,” Dr. Martin says. And if you see something happening in a charitable way, Resier says you should point it out to your children so they have real life experiences within their own community. After showing your children a few ways you give back, get them involved in giving back, too—just keep them interested. Use your kids’ interests to focus on what they might want to do, whether it’s supporting a charitable foundation monetarily or volunteering, Reiser suggests. If your child likes animals, volunteer at the local humane society; if she loves reading, take her to buy and donate books to a literacy foundation. One way Reiser kept her four sons interested in donating money when they were young was to connect the act to baseball. Each child picked a baseball statistic to follow for the family’s favorite team, the Boston Red Sox. “One of them would pledge one dollar each time Big Papi (David Ortiz) hit a home run. Another might give 50 cents for each strikeout during the month of August. It was a fun way to incorporate an interest of theirs and keep them engaged on how much money we were donating,” Reiser says. Again, setting expectations is key. “At the end of the day, kids are still kids. You can’t expect them to always want to donate their toys,” Patkin says. “Be conscious of your children’s ages and capabilities, and (without being too quick to exclude them from an activity or event that might not be ‘fun’ from start to finish) keep in mind that your budding philanthropists are still kids.”

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HEALTH

Why Messy Can Be Better

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It turns out bacteria aren’t always the enemy. By Patricia Schnabel Ruppert, DO, MPH

n the wake of the recent news that the Food and Drug Administration has ordered many antibacterial soaps off the shelves, I have a surprising call to action for parents: Sit your toddlers on the floor, let the dog lick their faces, and use plain soap and water later to wash your toddler’s hands. A move away from antibacterial products isn’t a call to avoid dirt—it’s a reminder that what lives in mess is often our friend. The FDA’s concern is that in our effort to rid our lives of microbes, we are doing two things that will harm us. First, we are wiping out the bacteria that actually help us in countless ways, from digesting food to supporting our immune system in avoiding disease. The other concern is that we are contributing to the growing threat of bacteria that are resistant to medications, the so-called “superbugs.”

The Role Microbes Play

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it comes to microbes in our environment, diversity is best. We have more bacteria in our intestines than there are stars in the sky, yet a small fraction of those—fewer than 100 species— actually cause infection. The rest do not cause disease, and many actually work to protect our health. These include those bacteria that synthesize vitamin K to protect us from bleeding to death. At birth, legions of microorganisms “set up shop” in and on the newborn, aiding digestion and keep harmful microbes away. There is a temporary suppression of the infant’s immune system that allows for this establishment of microorganisms. Sugars in human milk actually nourish the bacteria that live in the baby’s intestine. Keeping the bacteria healthy keeps the infant healthy. Research even shows that an antibody in human milk (Secretory Immunoglobulin A or SIgA) assists in setting up the healthier environment in the baby’s intestine, which is associated with less diarrheal illness in the infant and a reduction of inflammatory bowel disease and other chronic diseases later in life. In our industrialized society with its antibacterial soaps, lotions, and cleansers we have almost “sterilized” our microbe

environment, leaving fewer “good” bacteria to fight the “bad” bacteria. However, it is frequent challenges to our immune system from everyday bacteria that keep our army of good microbes in fighting shape for the more dangerous threats to our health. In fact, you may be surprised to know that the licks of dogs contain microbes that are thought to strengthen the immune system of children, which may relate to a decrease in the frequency of asthma and other allergies. None of this, however, is to discount the danger of some bacteria and the millions of lives that have been saved by hygienic practices and the judicious use of antibiotics. Hand washing with plain soap and water for 20 seconds or cleansing with an alcohol-based sanitizer for 15 seconds remains the most effective way to prevent infection.

The Rise of Antibiotic-Resistant Bacteria

The other issue the FDA is addressing through this action is the rise of bacteria that are now resistant to treatments such as antibiotics. Antibiotic resistance is the ability of a microorganism to resist the effects of an antibiotic to which it was once sensitive. The unnecessary and broad prescribing of antibiotics has led to this increase in resistance and serious infections, which are becoming more deadly. Each year, there are more than 700,000 deaths worldwide due to antibiotic resistance with 10 million per year predicted to occur by the year 2050. One example of an increasingly antibiotic-resistant bacterium is Clostridium Difficile (or “C.Diff”), which causes more than 200,000 cases of a serious and often fatal infection of the colon in the U.S. each year. C.Diff can make your grandparent’s simple hospital stay morph into a life-threatening contagious illness. This can occur because of the altered balance of “good vs. bad” bacteria in the intestines and the overgrowth of the toxic C.Diff bacteria. Complications can occur even when antibiotics are used appropriately, but we need to focus on decreasing unnecessary prescribing, including for patients with viral conditions such as the common cold. Antibiotics don’t treat viral infections. Never. Ever. While the main cause of this increasing resistance is the misuse of antibiotics, this is part of a much larger issue. We are also contributing to resistance when we overuse antibacterial products. You can think of the issue of antibiotic resistance as an arms race between humans and the bad bacteria. Our efforts to blindly avoid bacteria are only tipping this arms race in the favor of the bad bacteria. So what can you do? Remember: Bacteria aren’t the enemy, and we need a diverse balance of good and bad bacteria in and on our bodies and in our environments. Help your children build up their own defense to the bad bacteria. Let the dog lick your child. Allow your child to play on the floor. Don’t follow her around with antibacterial wipes. And only take antibiotics when it is appropriate. Remember that we can be clean without trying to be sterile. And we’ll all be much better off. Patricia Schnabel Ruppert, DO, MPH, is the Health Commissioner of Rockland County, an Assistant Professor of Medicine at Columbia University Medical Center, and Fellows Ambassador of the New York Academy of Medicine.

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175 Wolf Hill Road, Melville 347-668-3676 liwholechild.org etrdream@aol.com Join us for an open house, Dec. 14 at 6pm. RSVP requested. Call 347-668-3676.

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Village East Gifted - Enrichment Center for the Gifted Learner

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322 Port Washington Blvd., Port Washington 516-365-4900 vincentsmithschool.org Join us for an admissions open house on Thursday, Dec. 8 at 7pm, and Sunday, Jan. 22 at 12pm.

173-53 Croyden Road, Jamaica Estates 718-658-6166 unis.org; rsorrentini@unis.org Join us for an open house on Friday, Dec. 2 at 9am.

Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Register your child ages 4-18 for a demo lesson taught by our director. Learn about our gifted kindergarten, after-school enrichment, writing workshops, art workshops, and STEM/STEAM classes. Call 631-549-2313.

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