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Contents

February 2017 ››

Features

16 Queens’s Caring Kids Learn how area families volunteer 20 Adulting 101 How to get your children ready for the real world—while they’re still young 24 Why Camp Is Great Kids share why they love summer camp. 50 Teaching Kids Consent Tips to talk to children of all ages about appropriate and inappropriate touching 52 Demystifying the Dentist What to expect at kids’ dental visits, and how to keep their mouths healthty

54 Soup and a Sandwich Two combos to warm up on a chilly day

56 Learning to Ski A peek at how to New York mountains teach newbies the popular winter sport

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 NYMP News: Mommybites Joins the NYMetroParents Family 12 Quotables 13 NYMP Q&A: Laurie Hollman, Ph.D., discusses parental intelligence 62 Voices: Why I hated all nine months of pregnancy

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14 DIY Corner: Mini Terrarium 15 Media Matters: Family Favorite Films 30 Outing: Rye Nature Center 33 Family Activities Calendar 48 Where-To Guide: Indoor Play Spaces

Directories 26 57 58 59 59 60 61

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EDITOR’S NOTE

NYMetroParents Publications EDITORIAL

EDITORIAL DIRECTOR: Michael Kress

Raising Kids Ready for Life

ne recent Sunday, we converted our youngest daughter’s crib to a toddler bed, and just like that, with 15 minutes of tinkering, she was on to a new, exciting stage of her life. Needless to say, the actual transition—from baby to toddler to stages beyond—is hardly that seamless or quick. As parents, our deepest hope is to raise our kids to be independent adults, able to navigate their way in the world successfully on their own. Lately, though, there’s been a focus in the media on the difficulties many young adults face in doing that. “Adulting” has become a verb that connotes the conscious effort it takes to accomplish basic life skills. To help your kids avoid having to learn to “adult” when they are adults, we’re offering a guide to raise independent kids who will be ready for life in the real world when their time comes to leave your crib for their own grown-up lives (p. 20). When I was a child and especially a teenager, it was summer camp, particularly sleepaway camp, that had one of the most profound influences on my growth and readiness to be independent. The classroom gave me knowledge and the ability to think and understand, but the fields and hiking trails and activity centers of camp gave me the chance to do for myself and become the person I was meant to be. And I am far from alone in this. Since it’s now camp enrollment season, check out stories from kids around the region who tell us, in their own words, the impact camp has had on their lives (p. 24). As our kids grow up, there are any number of difficult conversations we must have with them. One involves touching—what is appropriate and what is inappropriate, and who gets to decide (short answer: they do). It’s never too early, and certainly never too late, to have this discussion; in truth, it’s likely more than one conversation, one you need to revisit over the years as your child matures. Since these talks are inevitably awkward and hard for you and your child, we hope our guide to discussing consent with kids of all ages helps as you address this important topic (p. 50). February is National Children’s Dental Health Month, and we know going to the dentist can be scary and confusing for kids. To help, check out our explanation of common pediatric dental procedures and find some great tips for keeping your kids’ mouths healthy (p. 52). And, of course, this month also brings Valentine’s Day, and in that spirit, I wish you and your family a month of love and happiness. Michael Kress Editorial Director

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Who: Queensborough United Soccer Club What’s New: Two teams, which allow more boys and girls ages 7-10 to play travel league soccer. The nonprofit organization aims to make travel-league style youth soccer easily accessible and affordable for families in Queens. QUSC is now part of the Long Island Junior Soccer League, one of the largest youth sports organizations in the world. It competes in the spring and fall seasons. In addition, Adidas has signed a four-year sponsorship deal with QUSC, which includes providing players with uniforms and discounts on Adidas merchandise, among other perks. Want More Info: 106-06 Queens Blvd., Forest Hills; 347-909-4113; queensboroughunitedsc.com

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Who: Braithwaite Nursery School What’s New: Flexible day options, which will allow parents to make their own schedules, choosing one to five days for their child to attend the 9am-12pm weekday class (early registration recommended). At Braithwaite, classes are limited to six children, ages 2-4, with two teachers per class to allow for individual attention. Each day follows the same routine, with different activities. Braithwaite Nursery School was founded in 2003 by two long-time early childhood teachers, Lynne and Ron Braithwaite. Want More Info: 160-21 13th Ave., Beechhurst; 718-767-2776; braithwaitenurseryschool.com

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Day Camp in Flushing Offers Music Program Who: Hillcrest Jewish Center Day Camp What’s New: A music program with classes for campers in kindergarten through eighth grade that will close with a camp concert at the end of the summer. Hillcrest music classes will be taught by Zachary Elyshevitz, an elementary music teacher in his fourth year at Hillcrest. Elyshevitz has a BFA in jazz performance and has played the drums in various bands. “The campers really enjoyed the music portion of camp last summer, so we wanted to officially start the program,” Elyshevitz says. Want More Info: 183-02 Union Turnpike, Flushing; 718-380-4145; hjcdaycamp.org

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Mommybites Joins the NYMetroParents Family ›› Mommybites.com provides parents with trusted Nanny Boards, online classes, local events, and more. By Caitlin Berens

early 10 years ago Laura Deutsch was a new mom living in Manhattan, eager to find a community. So in 2006 she created one on her own, a grassroots events company for local moms. She partnered with Heather Ouida in 2009, and today Mommybites is an online parenting resource offering education, nanny placement, and activity information services for families in New York City and beyond. Mommybites offers two to three convenient online classes for parents each month such as the upcoming Support Your Child’s Development Through Play, as well as many other topics, including infant and toddler sleep, potty training, and preschool readiness. These classes are always free. On the mom-generated Nanny Boards, parents can post their trusted nannies looking for work or find a mom-approved nanny for their own family. By visiting mommybites.com parents can sign up for a weekly newsletter, read articles written by experts, and check out the jobs-for-moms portal. Mommybites was recently acquired by Davler Media Group, owner of NYMetroParents. “Mommybites is a great brand and perfect fit for NYMetroParents,” says David Miller, CEO of Davler Media Group. “We look forward to bringing Mommybites’ online education classes and Nanny Boards to the one million families we reach every month. Their editorial content also expands our offerings for parents of newborns and toddlers.” Mommybites’ recently appointed managing director, Rebecca Dixon, joined the team in 2011. The Manhattan mom of three will take over as the head of Mommybites, with Deutsch and Ouida staying on as advisors. “I’ve been fortunate to have the opportunity to help Mommybites grow into one of the most respected parenting resources in the greater New York metro area,” Dixon says. “I’m excited to leverage the expertise of the NYMetroParents team to grow our offerings.” Visit mommybites.com to find a nanny, post a nanny job, or sign up for an online class.

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UOTABLES Be true to yourself, and don’t throw shade at other moms. Please, please let’s just throw away our Judgy McJudgerson Pants because, for starters, judgy pants were, like, so 1990s, and they never looked good on you anyway. —Heather Sadlemire, in a post entitled “The Best Resolution I Ever Made Was To Quit Mom-Shaming,” on scarymommy.com

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“Seeing and experiencing New York (outside of the city), is easy. Within an hour the city turns to dust in the distance and you are shown expansive lands, lakes to swim, towns with feasts, and mountains to hike. Experiencing this as a family…. has been the greatest gift.” —Latonya Yvette, in a post entitled “Experience New York: Hike Up Bear Mountain,” on her blog, blog.latonyayvette.com.

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“Suddenly the lights went out and the students started to scream and shriek. Tiny pairs of eyes began to light up on and around the stage. The music gained momentum. The Inside Broadway experience had begun. Students heard from the actors, both in and out of costume, as well as the behind-the-scenes crew responsible for the lighting, props, makeup, music, set, and more.” —Caitlin Berens in an article entitled “NYC Students Get a Peek Behind the Scenes of ‘Cats’ on Broadway.” Read the whole thing at nymetroparents.com/cats-on-broadway.

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Laurie Hollman, Ph.D., is a psychoanalyst who recently wrote the book Unlocking Parental Intelligence. What is parental intelligence? The crux of parental intelligence is trying to understand your child’s mind. Finding meaning in the child’s behavior, trying to understand the underlying issues of the behavior, and how to solve that behavior. It’s slowing down, pausing, taking no action, which may be counterintuitive to most parents, and instead taking the time to review the behavior, going over what your child did, when they did it, and looking for a sequence to track the behavior. It’s suspending judgment about your child’s behavior as well as your own parenting behavior. It gives you permission to not know what to do. If you don’t understand how to do something, then what can you do about it? When kids see parents taking their time, it has a calming effect on the situation. What advice do you have for handling outbursts or temper tantrums in public? I think the key is that you’re in public. The parent is often humiliated and embarrassed, and the child isn’t listening. If the behavior really gets out of hand, I would leave the store. That isn’t a time where you can sit and understand the child’s feelings. You need to remove them from the environment. It is inconvenient and you don’t get the shopping done, but it gives you a chance to slow the child down and not give them the experience of a full-blown temper tantrum. Once you’re home and time has passed where they’ve calmed down, you can use parental intelligence to figure out what was going on and what is behind this behavior. Parental intelligence sounds like an effective way to parent, but do you believe in any more traditional forms of discipline? The word discipline comes from the word disciple, which means teaching. If you think about wanting to teach your child a lesson, using parental intelligence is the best avenue. Most parents give consequences for bad behavior immediately and react immediately. This is usually not effective because the child doesn’t understand the punishment necessarily. They stop and follow the punishment but they don’t learn from it. Parental intelligence is discipline, but it is from a different point of view. It is an approach that says, “I know what is in my child’s mind, I know how to solve it.”

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One of the best ways to use a large jar is to transform it into a terrarium. I love succulents and they have made a real comeback recently. What better way to display them than with fun pink flamingos and decorative white sand—a mini beach scene for your table! In the smaller jar, a gold-painted dinosaur roars out from a succulent forest—I think the little ones in your life will appreciate this one. Make sure your jar is big enough for your plant to grow, so search the supermarket shelves for the biggest jar they have! Editor’s note: We love this idea for showing your valentine how much they mean to you!

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Directions 1. Start by placing a layer of pebbles in the base of your jar —this will help with drainage and will prevent the potting compost from becoming waterlogged. 2. Put a layer of potting compost on top and position your plants. 3. Top with more potting compost, firming it in around the base of the plant, then add a layer of decorative sand or pebbles. 4. Place your chosen ornaments around the plants for a whimsical effect. 5. Water the plants very carefully, trying not to disturb the sand or pebbles. Succulents and cacti make a good plant choice as they require little watering. Crafting with Mason Jars by Hester Van Overbeek, CICO Books, $19.95. rylandpeters.com. Photography by CICO Books.

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In Theaters Feb. 10: The Lego Batman Movie Parents need to know that The Lego Batman Movie gives one of the most popular characters from The Lego Movie his own super spin-off. In a Gotham City completely built out of Lego bricks, mysterious hero Batman (voiced by Will Arnett) sulks in his mansion/Batcave while his disappointed butler, Alfred (Ralph Fiennes), tries to get him to take a greater interest in his adopted son, Robin (Michael Cera). Batman eventually agrees to take Robin under his wing, so to speak, but he must learn that if he wants to save the day, he can’t go it alone. While much of the fun-loving spirit of the first Lego movie remains, this one seems like it might be more oriented toward older kids. The animation is darker and edgier, and the humor seems more reliant on rude behavior (for example, Robin loses his pants, and Batman accidentally karate-chops Alfred into a piano). But kids are sure to want to flock to this “block”-buster.

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Caring AWARDS Kids

Queens’s Caring Kids We asked how your family gives back, and here are your stories of amazing kids who make our community better every day. ›› For the NYMetroParents Caring Kids Awards, we invited you to submit stories and photos of families and kids who do volunteer work to help others. We hope you will be as inspired as we were by these stories of young Queens residents committed to making the world a better place and helping those in need. These local kids are making a difference in the community every day, and we salute all of them!

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Anna was diagnosed with leukemia in 2010 and fought an extremely hard battle. She won. Four years ago we walked out of Cohen’s Children’s Hospital ready to celebrate Christmas with her sisters and family. When she asked me if Santa was going to bring her friends toys for the holidays, I said yes. The ride home was hard, knowing her friends were not going home. She wanted to take her money and buy them gifts just in case they didn’t get any. So that is what we did. Later that night, I wrote a status on Facebook letting our community know what we were doing and how proud I was of her. That is what started Anna’s first annual toy drive. She has donated more than 2,000 brand-new toys to the Cohen’s Hospital and the Ronald McDonald House. This year was our fourth year, and with every passing year, it gets larger and larger with the tremendous generosity of so many people. My daughter counts, stacks bags, and loads all the gifts and works really hard. A child who has been through so much and continues to battle side effects from chemo deserves a lot for herself, and she asks for nothing in return.

As a Caring Kids Award Recipient, Anna will receive a $500 gift card and a certificate of recognition for her community service.

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Yicara, 12, Helps Children with Disabilities My child Yicara (means precious) is 12 years old. She loves to help children with disabilities. Her little sister has disabilities—she is 9 years old and she cannot walk or speak. Yicara, besides helping her sister, helps other children with disabilities. She won an award that celebrates this. She is very caring and compassionate, and she would like to be a pediatrician when she grows up. She is my hero, and I am proud as her mother for being such a caring little girl always ready to help others, specially children with disabilities.

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As Caring Kids Award Recipients, Myah Victoria, Christopher Ryan, and Justin Xavier will receive a $500 gift card and certificates of recognition for thier community service.

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My children Myah Victoria (age 13), Christopher Ryan (age 10), and Justin Xavier (age 6) all use the creative art of mime to spread joy and smiles year-round at i w ards Rec local schools, family and domestic violence shelters, children’s hospitals, community centers, street fairs, Veteran’s hospitals, malls, churches, colleges, police and fire departments, community centers, and more. My children use a creative form of dance, mime, a little American Sign Language, and drama, set to music or spoken word, and perform all around the city. They were invited [to perform] by the chaplain at Queens’s Veteran’s Hospital, and after performing a veteran approached me in tears [and] asked for permission to shake my children’s hands because he was so moved by their talent and willingness to entertain a veteran for the day when they seem to be forgotten. The children performed at a Queens College’s anti-bullying and anti-violence conference sponsored by the Department of Health. During Black History month the children were invited to police headquarters and entertained uniformed officers with a piece they dedicated to all our brave law enforcement officers.

Uni, 15, Teaches Taekwondo

A Family Serving with Catholic Charities

Uni is a sophomore attending Francis Lewis High School in Queens. She is a black belt in taekwondo and also competes in national and international competitions. Being an Olympic sport, her goal is to participate in Youth Olympics in Argentina in 2018 and ultimately stand on the podium at the 2020 Olympics in Tokyo. She gives back to the community through annual parades, demonstrations for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, and teaches taekwondo at Eagles Training Center in Queens, as well as being responsible for taekwondo lessons in public schools where lunch recess is taken away, and local churches and community centers on a weekly basis. She also assists me in teaching at Stony Brook University, where they have a taekwondo club within the university. This summer she also visited the Native American village in South Dakota to spread the gospel as well as teaching taekwondo to the kids in the village as an ice breaker.

We volunteered as a family (mom, dad, son 7, and son 5) with Catholic Charities to help those in need. Because of us individuals will receive blankets and much needed toiletry items; children in service waiting rooms will have fun Busy Books to keep them active; lonely seniors will receive a beautifully made snow globe; and clients throughout Catholic Charities programs received a heartwarming Christmas card designed by my family.

MacKenzie, 6, Raises Money for Breast Cancer Awareness My 6-year-old daughter MacKenzie will take any opportunity she can to raise money for breast cancer awareness! She became aware of the disease after a close friend lost her mother to the disease. She saw our friend crying one day and declared, “We need cancer to get out of here and never come back.”

Raising Funds for a Sick Child The kids of My Gym Queens are working hard to raise $1,000 for Josie, a child they don’t even know but want to help. Josie has tumors on her spine and can’t walk. She is hoping for a Fire Fly scooter. This will help her play on the floor like other 4-year-olds. They have raised $350 so far.

Grace and Kaela Raise Money for Autism Grace and Kaela have hosted several bake sales and lemonade stands to raise money for their cousin’s school. Their cousin has autism and attends a specialized middle school in Queens. They have raised $150 for the school.

Founding a Charity That Trains Young Philanthropists Every month, my two girls ages 13 and 15 go to the Kew Gardens Elderly Home to play piano for the elderly. Each month, they play a couple of songs for about 50 people. At the end of their concert, the laughter, smiles, singing, and applause that my two girls hear from the elderly crowd is what makes them happy. Giving back to the community is very important because no one knows where they might end up. But we all know that one day, we will get old and we will want someone to entertain us. Showing the elderly that young children do think of them is the greatest feeling of all. My kids enjoy playing for them because they know that one day they too will wait for someone to show them attention and entertain them.

Parent and Child Care for Animals I’m a disabled veteran with a 6-year-old son, and we go out and we feed about 15-20 stray and feral cats. I do this for the love I have for these animals. Just recently I got one of the stray cats adopted—I got him neutered [and got] his shots and he has a forever home now. I’m so happy.

JasD’Jor: Emerging Philanthropists was established after my son’s diagnoses of autism and leukemia at age 2. JDJ has two wings: training children in the business of philanthropy through the Wilson Sisters Academy and providing direct grants for families of children with special needs through Peppermint Promises. Every Saturday from 12-4pm, my children volunteer at the Briarwood Family Shelter in Queens. Training has resulted in 10 children who have donated to three worthy causes.

A Family That Gives Back I am a foster mom of two kids [and] adopted six kids. One of the children, Rosemary, is 16 years old with a mild disability [and she] donates her time to tutoring kids in lower grades for free, serves at soup kitchen, and helps kids that are being bullied or picked on. Danny J., 12 years old, has taken extra snacks to school since he was in kindergarten for kids without snack. Mia, 10 years [old], helps her younger brothers and sisters at home. Me and my husband host Toys for Tots, hurricane relief, and various charity events. continued on next page

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A Family Dedicated to Service

My 14-year-old daughter Christina gives back to our community by collecting donations and walking in the American Cancer Society Walk each October. Last year was her sixth year participating in the Queens walk. In addition, Christina also collects gently used clothing from family members and donates them at local community events. She also collects canned goods from family and donates them at school to benefit the Daily News Food Drive with City Harvest.

Our family loves doing volunteer work together. We participated in two beach clean ups at Fort Totten. We volunteered for several Sundays at “Pets 4 Luv” animal shelter where we socialized the cats, walked the dogs, and helped with feedings. We took a trip to CAS - Catskills Animal Sanctuary where we painted the chicken coop. We also planted trees in Flushing Meadow Park with NYC Million Trees organization. We collected toys for Toys 4 Tots, collected pet food for animal shelters, and collected canned food for the River Fund. We love spending time together and it makes us so happy to give back and help the community, it feels really good.

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My family is formed of all girls because they are Girl Scouts. These young girls meet every Sunday throughout the whole year to plan and work extremely hard on how to improve the community and give back the best they can while earning their badges. Recently they helped Samaritan’s Purse organization form part of operation Christmas child by filling more than 30 shoeboxes with donated items that included clothing, toys, school supplies, hygiene items, and a lovely letter each girl personalized by writing a special message. Also they participate in park and beach clean-ups to make the world a better place for us to live in. They support our community to fight cancer by volunteering in the breast cancer walk to raise awareness. My family is St. Mark’s Girl Scouts Troops: 4297, 4272, 4274.

Every Christmas day we all go to a Doe Fund (also know as “The Men in Blue”) facility and volunteer to serve food to those less fortunate. As a Jewish family, we don’t observe Christmas so we decided to use Christmas Day to help those who celebrate Christmas.

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Playing Christmas Carols for the Elderly Every day for four months before the winter holidays, my son practices Christmas carols and other pieces on the piano to play for the elderly at Ozanam Nursing Home in Queens. Last year was his fourth performance.

Athina, 11, Helps Kids Read Athina deserves any award that acknowledges experience acquired from volunteering 30 hours each summer at the Woodhaven Public Library helping children to read and assisting librarians. In addition to her own development in learning, work ethics, and building relationships, she has inspired her peers to discover and harness the benefits of reading and personal responsibility that will positively impact their forward approach.

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Delilah, 8, Helps the Cats Delilah has spent the past 28 Saturdays volunteering with cats at Bobbi and the Strays animal shelter. She spends almost all of her time with special needs, elderly, and feral cats, and it’s her favorite day of the week. Her ultimate goal is to open a shelter someday that specializes in placing pets with special needs, and we truly believe she’s just the person for the job!

Kate, 11, Serves at a Food Pantry Kate has been a Girl Scout for six years, since she was 5 years old in kindergarten. As a devoted Girl Scout, Kate spends her time volunteering for many causes, events, and charities. This year Kate earned the Girl Scouts Bronze award, the highest honor a Girl Scout Junior can achieve, by helping the community. Kate earned this award by raising money and obtaining food from organizations and people for the Our Lady of Mercy Food Pantry. Together with her Girl Scout troop, they try to raise $1,000 worth of food contributions yearly, especially during the OLM Thanksgiving Food Drive. Kate and her Girl Scout troop also made recyclable food bags out of old T-shirts to donate to the food pantry recipients.

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Adulting 101

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How to get your children ready for the real world—while they’re still young By Laurie Sue Brockway

emember the days when parents figured they’d be done with childrearing by the time their children reached voting age or graduated from college? Ha! These days, the timeline for becoming a full-fledged, rentpaying, independently living adult has stretched into the mid-20s and beyond for many families. Forbes recently reported that less than half of the population ages 22-26 surveyed pay their own rent (47 percent), health insurance (41 percent), or contribute to a retirement account (27 percent). Just surveying the proliferation of YouTube videos and other instructional content on the web detailing how to cook an egg, do one’s laundry, and accomplish other everyday tasks, it’s clear there’s a need out there for basic life-skills instruction. It’s fondly known as “adulting,” and UrbanDictionary.com describes it this way: “Adulting (v): to do grown-up things and hold responsibilities such as a 9-5 job, a mortgage/rent, a car payment, or anything else that makes one think of grown-ups.” It’s not the worst thing in the world to have your kids living at home longer. But it is important for them to acquire basic life 20

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skills along the way, so whether they are living with you or on their own they can cook their own dinner and wash their own clothes. Experts say how we raise our kids can make or break their ability to run their own lives as they age out of their adorable phase and grow into adulthood. We asked experts for their best tips on how, when, and why to prepare your kids practically and emotionally to be grown-ups.

Act like an adult

Parents must be role models for grown-up behavior. “Your children are watching you even when you think they aren’t paying attention,” says developmental psychologist Martha Mendez-Baldwin, Ph.D., an assistant professor of psychology at Manhattan College in the Bronx. “They pick up a tremendous amount of information about your value system and your patterns of behavior simply by watching you.” As our children’s first teachers, we can impart skills necessary for them to function in life as productive members of society, she says. “This includes life lessons about respect, accountability, hard work, perseverance, and emotional regulation.”

Be authoritative

Parents often struggle with the balance between being loving and being the boss, but firm guidance is essential. “Authoritative parents are emotionally and physically available but are not their child’s pal or friend,” Dr. Mendez-Baldwin says. “There are clear boundaries and rules and expectations are enforced consistently.” Authoritative parents can listen to their children’s opinions and respect their feelings and encourage communication and family time, she adds. On the flip side, pushing kids too hard toward specific achievements can backfire.

Plant the seeds of self-esteem early

A healthy sense of self is one of the keys to healthy adulting. “Without self-esteem children will be ill prepared to navigate the world of decisions and social dilemmas that await them as they voyage through adolescence and into adulthood,” Dr. Mendez-Baldwin says. In addition to life skills, parents should start molding their child’s self-esteem as early as possible, she advises. Begin as early as age 2, when kids begin to test the limits of their independence.

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It is natural to want to protect your child from negative events and emotions because you don’t want to see him hurt or experience a blow to his self-esteem. “But we live in a world of positive and negative, good and bad,” says Angela Reiter, Ph.D., who offers therapeutic services and psychological evaluations in Eastchester. “In order to know how to handle the negative and appreciate the positive in life, we have to actually experience the negative and learn from it, in order to develop a sense of self-efficacy and a positive self-schema of what we can do when faced with a similar situation or emotion the next time it comes around. “

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Let them feel disappointment

Lindsey Cormack, Ph.D., of Stevens Institute of Technology, College of Arts and Letters, in Hoboken, NJ, is a parent of a 4-yearold and a professor to students ages 18-22. “With my own child, I try to let her experience letdown,” she says. “For instance when a playdate is cancelled, I find that I have an urge to protect my child from sadness by offering an alternative, like a date with me.” She refrains from trying to fix it and instead helps her daughter through a lesson in knowing that sometimes things don’t work out, and sadness is OK. “I think letting children experience and understand letdown in the small forms of childhood may better prepare them for the relatively larger let downs of their college years, such as bad grades on an assignment, non-admittance to certain schools and programs, and more,” she adds.

Allow kids to develop naturally

Parents and teachers often underestimate when children are capable of doing activities on their own, and we may inadvertently slow down their natural reflexes to deal with the world around them, says parenting coach Jesse McCarthy, a former school principal and Montessori educator. “As adults, we can infantilize children from the very beginning, when they’re infants,” she says. “A toy rattle might—seemingly—be just out of the reach of a baby girl, and instead of letting her struggle a bit to reach it, we almost instinctually help her by placing the toy in her hands.” She points out that we forget that with children, sometimes the process of striving for a toy is just as important as the result of playing with the toy. It’s a metaphor for the older years, when we still tend to do more for our children than they need, making them accustomed to having things “handled” for them in life. continued on next page ››

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Create environments that foster independence

Avoid “an unintentional breeding of dependence” as kids continue to grow, McCarthy says. “Our children are fully capable of all sorts of independent activities, when we prepare the environment for their success.” For example, when child-sized shelves with cups and a movable stool are within 5- and 6-year-olds’ reach, they don’t have to ask an adult for help just to get a drink of water from the sink. Show 8- and 9-year-olds how to do the laundry, and mom and dad are no longer needed for that process afterward. Let 11- and 12-year-olds walk to school to learn to navigate the streets and the world around them. Trust teenagers not to burn the house down and leave them alone for short periods of time. She points out that little steps toward independence at every stage prepares kids while doing everything for them stunts their development.

Encourage your child to take on chores

If kids are not given responsibilities, it will be hard for them to learn responsibility. “Assign children age-appropriate chores and praise them when they are completed,” says Deena Blanchard, M.D., M.P.H., a board-certified pediatrician at Premier Pediatrics in Brooklyn. “Part of this process may involve parents letting children experiment and find the best way to complete the chore.” As parents, it’s challenging to let go of some of the control but it is important to let children figure out their way to do it, which may not be exactly the same as yours, she says. “If a child feels they accomplished the chore their way and on their own, they will be more likely to feel a sense of pride and responsibility for that task and continue to do it.”

Show them how to manage money

Earning, managing, and saving money is key to adulting, so give kids a sense of financial reality and ownership early, starting with a home savings bank to get them thinking about acquiring and managing income early. “Get them a bank account and stress saving for the future rather than rushing out to spend their money without giving it thought,” advises Laurie Hollman, Ph.D., a psychoanalyst specializing in infant-parent, child, adolescent, and adult psychotherapy and author of Unlocking Parental Intelligence. Also, having them write checks and pay bills is a good lesson for the future.

Have them invest time and money in others

Vivian Glyck encouraged her son Zak to forgo gifts and divert his bar mitzvah money to a special online fund that was used to build a much-needed library at the Namunia Primary School in Luwero, Uganda. The fundraiser was also opened to the public, and he raised $10,000, but it wasn’t meant as just a charitable exercise. “This was about giving him a connection to the world,” says Manhattan-born Glyck, founder of the Just Like My Child Foundation, which runs many humanitarian programs in Africa. “It was about having an impact on someone’s life.” She recently took him to see the outdoor structure with books that was built by his good deed. It’s called Zak’s Library. Local children gathered around to thank him. In that moment, Glyck said to her son: “How much bigger is this than having $1,000 in your savings account?” It was a good life lesson in sacrificing his needs for a greater outcome.

Don’t make excuses for your children

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real danger,” says parenting and relationship expert Thomas Gagliano, author of The Problem Was Me and his newest title, Don’t Put Your Crap in Your Kid’s Diaper: The Clean Up Cost Can Last a Lifetime. “Don’t call into school if their excuse for not going to school is a lie. Let them call in for themselves. Let them face life on life’s terms. No bailouts. Always be there to talk to them or guide and support them, but let them be responsible for their own actions.”

Teach children their choices affect outcomes

Encourage independent choices but hold kids accountable for their decisions. “If you don’t put your toys away, then you choose not to play with your toys later,” Gagliano says. “If you choose to not clean your room, then you choose to not get your allowance. If you choose to come home past the curfew we have agreed upon, then you have chosen to not go out this weekend.”

Consider a more limited life menu

Providing children with too many choices can open them to life’s possibilities but can also be overwhelming. Opening all of life’s doors for them can also present a false sense of reality about what the real world is like when they get there. “Having many choices is a double edged sword,” Dr. Mendez-Baldwin says. “While it creates many opportunities for children, it also requires decision making and problem solving. Children who do not have a healthy sense of self-esteem, children who are insecure, and children who do not have a trusted adult to talk to will have trouble making the right choices.”

Give them age-appropriate freedom

The amount of freedom given to a child must be a good fit between their age and their personality. “A 5-year-old may have freedom to choose a Halloween costume or choose between two snacks to pack in their lunch box but cannot choose their bed time,” Dr. Mendez-Baldwin says. “Keep in mind that children develop at slightly different rates. For example, two 16-year-olds many not be able to handle the same amount of freedom.” She points out that appropriate levels of freedom will allow children to make decisions and start to gain confidence in their decision-making process while still having you around to support and guide them in areas where parental assistance is still required. “If parents control too much of a child’s life, children tend to rebel and often will make poor decisions because they have had no practice in this important life skill.”

Coach them on planning for the future

Having kids think about goals is healthy and helpful. “Let them establish a timeline even if it’s tentative and will change with new experiences,” Dr. Hollman says. “Encourage them to think about where they want to be in two years, five years, 10 years, and beyond.” Just make sure this is an exercise in creating the life they choose, not a stressful mandate for achievements.

Let them see news

We may be tempted to shield their eyes and ears but learning about current events, problems in the world, and differing points of view is an important part of growing up. “We can’t protect them from everything,” says parenting expert and blogger Cherie Corso. She watches the news and reads the newspaper with her young daughter and discusses events, something she recommends for kids older than 6. Just skip the graphic details and images, answer their questions, and explain some of the more complex issues. “When explained, kids can logically think about events and they do have opinions and

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Don’t let them adult too fast

On the flip side of kids struggling to grow up are those who try to fast track to adulthood. They also need a little help. “Children who are inherently more responsible may try to take on roles of taking care of everything for various people in their lives,” Dr. Blanchard says. “These children may feel the pressure to do “the right” thing all the time. While this is a good character trait, it can sometimes lead to children to being taken advantage of by peers or having trouble saying no.” She says to especially teach tweens and adolescents that sometimes saying no is actually the right thing to do and that being responsible is not about always trying to make everyone happy.

Be patient

Give kids space to find their way on their own time. “Not every child will be able to accept independence and responsibility in the exact time frame you would like,” Dr. Blanchard says. “Some children will take longer to be able to do chores that other children in their age group can do. Try not to compare your child to their peers or scold them if they really can’t do something. Praise them when they are doing a good job and praise the process of trying as well.” Laurie Sue Brockway is a journalist and author who has written extensively on love, romance, marriage, parenting, well-being, and emotional health. Her work has appeared in hundreds of print and online publications, including Woman’s Day, Everyday Health, and The Huffington Post.

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sk parents about the benefits of a children’s summer camp program and you can pretty much guarantee that those who have either attended camp themselves or whose children return to the same camp each year will wax poetic about the experience. Those of us whose knowledge of camp stems only from sentimental movies may question the value of bunking together in cabins or jumping into murky lakes on frigid mornings. But even skeptics find it difficult to ignore the allure of providing children with the kind of independence that has become increasingly rare in a world of helicopter parenting. And it certainly doesn’t hurt that research is on the side of camps. In an article for Psychology Today, Michael Ungar, Ph.D., co-director of The Resilience Research Centre, spoke to 300 camp directors and concluded that camp can help make children more resilient and strengthen their coping strategies. Another study performed at Clemson University found camp experiences push children’s boundaries in a positive way, build self-confidence, and have a lasting and measurable impact on children, thanks to skillbuilding and decision-making exercises.

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Clearly, more and more adults are hip to the benefits of sleepaway and day camps. But what do kids really think about their camp experiences? At the end of the day, most parents who send their children to camp want to be sure they are investing in their futures—because learning, fostering social connections, and growing as individuals shouldn’t be put on hold simply because the academic year has wrapped up. The proof that camps are helping to expand our kids’ minds and horizons is evident in the lasting memories and lessons children take from camp and carry with them into adulthood. We spoke with kids and teens who say camp isn’t just a place— it’s a second home and an experience that doles out important life lessons they continue to use long after their camp’s closing ceremonies. In their own words, here’s what they had to say about why they feel camp is beneficial. “I attended Silver Lake Camp in New York. My favorite thing about camp was playing Color War [a competition in which teams are divided into various colors and each team competes against the others in challenges and events to earn points and rewards]. I liked

it a lot because Color War is something you can only do at camp. It made it feel special.” —Emma R., 14, Long Island “I split my summer vacation between two camps: Felix Neck and the Y camp, both on Martha’s Vineyard [Felix Neck is run by the Massachusetts Audubon Society, and the YMCA runs the Y camp]. I enjoy catching and observing creatures at Felix Neck, and I love swimming at the Y with my friends. Most of all, I am happy to have time to play outdoors with my summer friends. I even ride on the 4th of July float with fellow Felix Neck campers!” —Abigail, 7½, Massachusetts. “I attended Brown Ledge Camp in Colchester, VT. My camp experience was unlike any I had ever had before. With all the different activities to choose from, it’s practically impossible to be bored. The thing I enjoyed the most was meeting girls from all over the world. This past year there were campers and counselors from 18 different countries, so now I can say I have friends from almost every continent. There is a real sense of community at my camp and a huge emphasis is put on the freedom to choose. There is only a single activity that is scheduled and that is riding. My first year at camp I learned how to become more self-sufficient and I developed good leadership skills that I use every day. Every activity at camp comes with the ability to learn more and more. I gravitated toward riflery—something I never would have thought of doing back home—and I immediately took to it. I still do it now and I even compete. Camp has given me so many opportunities and I wouldn’t trade my camp experience for anything.” —Rebecca P., 17, New Jersey “They gave us a lot of options to do different activities. Even though it was tennis camp, we also got to play pingpong, swim, and just relax so it never got boring.” — Nolan, 13, Orlando, FL, who attended Nike Tennis Camp in Florida “I loved being with my friends all day, and I loved being outside a lot. I attended a theater camp and it inspired me to join my school’s drama club this year. At camp, we put on several small skits at the end of each week and a larger production once a month. We learned some blocking, how to project our voices without screaming, set design, set direction, and we did acting exercises like improv, breathing techniques, becoming different characters, and changing emotions.” — Sydney C., 13, Brooklyn, who attended Our Lady of Angels’ Brooklyn Sports and Theatre Camp in Bay Ridge “I enjoyed doing the Lion King in Impact Conservatory because it showed how fun acting can be and it had great snacks and field trips. I also enjoyed the cooking camp at Culver City Adult School because it taught me how to cook food so that I can eat healthier—and it taught me how to be creative with food. I didn’t know how to swim when I went to Saken Sports Camp, but it helped me develop as a swimmer.” —Morgan, 10, Los Angeles, CA “I went to camp for the first time this summer at Allen Park in Farmingdale, Long Island. Every day the camp counselors set up new things for us to do so we never got bored. I loved getting to

put on a big dance and show at the end of the summer because we got to practice our dance and work together to make up a cheer. I liked that we made it up ourselves with only a little bit of help. Carnival day was also amazing—the park was set up so that different spots were different holidays. It was so much fun getting to make snowmen crafts in the summer!” —Kiera F., 5, Long Island, who attended the Town of Oyster Bay Summer Recreation Program “I go to Silver Lake Camp in New York. Everything about the experience is so much fun. But my favorite thing of all is when we have shampoo wars!” —Sabrina R., 11, Long Island “I really love summer camp because you get to meet so many new people, especially the people in your cabin. Also, you can try lots of new activities you may have never had the chance to. Last year at camp, I learned how to windsurf, play the guitar, and canoe, which were all super fun. Camp is an awesome way to find good activities and great friends! I admit, I was nervous to go to a summer camp away from home, but I had so much fun that I didn’t get homesick. On our last night at camp, all of the cabins staying for one week gathered around a campfire in the woods. We sang songs, made s’mores, and watched as the counselors played funny skits. I had so much fun there! I went to Camp Foley in Minnesota.” —Reese D., 12, Minneapolis, MN “West LA Camp for Kids had a lot of learning and it helped me prepare for school the following semester.” —Madison, 8, Los Angeles, CA “I went to Windsor Mountain International in New Hampshire from seventh grade until junior year of high school. The camp is known for hosting a large number of campers who come from all over the world. Having camp friends is a very unique experience because you find people are really different at camp than they are in the actual world. I was a nerdy kid who played Dungeons & Dragons and I had no idea I’d meet these kids from New Jersey who wanted to play these nerdy games with me. The social boundaries we develop in our real lives are gone at camp. After a few years [at Windsor Mountain], they offer a lot of different programs once you get into high school for traveling outside of the United States. After I was a camper for a couple of years, I became a Leader in Training and helped with certain classes. I also had a group of campers I worked with and tried to mentor. A year after that, I became a Leader in Action. All of the leaders took a trip to St. Vincent in the Caribbean, where we traveled to different villages on the island and set up a camp for the kids in those villages. We had a little help, but we were mostly left entirely in charge of setting up those camps. The experience gave us a lot of independence and that independence allowed us to gain a much stronger connection to the community. It wasn’t like we were getting to know the villagers through a third party—it was just us getting to know them. Now, as a college student, I try to travel as much as possible because I learned from that age onward that the best opportunities come from traveling and meeting people.” —Seamus, 20, New Hampshire Lisa Fogarty is a freelance writer based in New York whose work has appeared in Redbook, Men’s Health, Racked, and other publications. She lives with her husband and two children.

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Garden School

33-16 79th St., Jackson Heights 718-335-6363 gardenschool.org Garden School is voted the best camp in Queens! Register soon

for ages nursery to 13! Choose a summer of creative fine arts, stimulating academics, exciting sports, or intriguing technology, or try something different each week! Our on-site pool with certified lifeguards for swimming and lessons, air-conditioned gym, game room, fun weekly themes, and positive atmosphere satisfies every camper! The early childhood is in self-contained, enriched classes. We make it easy for parents with optional extended day, door-todoor transportation, and flexible three, four, or five days per week available, full- and half-days.

Hillcrest Jewish Center Day Camp

183-02 Union Turnpike, Flushing 718-380-4145 hjcdaycamp.org daycamp@hillcrestjc.org The camp “where everybody knows your name” offers preschool, nursery, and kindergarten for ages 4-5; junior for ages 6-7; senior for ages 8-10; tween for ages 11-13; and a CIT program. The age-appropriate programs include Red Cross swim instruction, arts and crafts, outdoor play and exercise, sports, tennis, field trips, Jewish culture program, organized games and activities, and weekly cookout. Teen lounge and late night trips offered for upper campers. Fee includes transportation, hot kosher lunch and afternoon snack, trip admission fees, T-shirt, and a group picture. A partial season program is available.

Magic Day Camp

216-15 Peck Ave., Bayside 718-634-8109 magicdaycamp.com Magic Day Camp, “Where Every Day Is Magical,” offers children ages 4-14 adventures and activities that stimulate and motivate a young person’s mind and physical ability. We are the only traveling camp that swims everyday in an Olympic country club pool, in addition to a jampacked fun day with professional adult counselors who work with and understand children. With multiple exciting weekly trips, our rates also include door-to-

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door transportation, hot and cold healthy lunches, professional tennis, dance, and instructional sports programs for all children.

Mill Basin Day Camp

5945 Strickland Ave., Brooklyn 718-251-6200 millbasindaycamp.com Summers are times to spend with friends, make memories, and share experiences that last a lifetime. MBDC is dedicated to providing exciting and fulfilling camp experiences for children through fun, recreational, and safe activities. Our modern, air-conditioned and private facility offers a wide range of activities for children entering pre-K through ninth grade. There are six individual camps, each with unique and innovative programming. Bring the family for a personal tour of the facility and discussion of the camp program.

Noah’s Ark Preparatory

38-20 Bell Blvd., Bayside 718-279-4251 62-48 Mount Olivet Crescent, Middle Village 347-335-0044 noahsarkschool.com noahsarkpreparatory@gmail.com Noah’s Ark Preparatory Inc. strives to create a learning environment that invites the fullest potential of each person’s gifts. Both nursery and pre-kindergarten classrooms are divided into distinct learning areas and foster in the children a love of learning. Their setting offers the children the opportunity to teach themselves through their own discoveries. Noah’s Ark also offers an after-school program with bus service for ages 6-12, during which time will be spent building academic skills and addressing the needs of each individual student. For further information about any of our programs, including UPK and our wonderful summer camp for ages 2-10, please call the number above.

Oasis Day Camp in Bayside

Queensborough Community College, Bayside Library room 14 (basement)

646-519-5055 oasischildren.com bayside@oasischildren.com Oasis Camp offers programs for children 3 years to sixth grade! With facilities in Manhattan, Queens, Long Island, Westchester, and New Jersey, Oasis features mature staff with a low camper-to-staff ratio and a warm environment in which kids can participate in activities tailored to their interests. The Early Start camp for ages 3 years to kindergarten offers sports, daily Red Cross swim, arts, dance, theater, and a Ready for September enrichment program. The Traditional Camp (firstsixth grades) provides campers with sports, crafts, theater, dance, and Red Cross Swim. Teen Travel has daily trips, team building, and overnights.

Pee Wee Folks

12-45 Clintonville St., Whitestone 718-746-6107 peeweefolkspreschool.com Pee Wee Folks is a renowned preschool, operating for more than 35 years. We are recognized for our powerful curriculum and strong sense of community. Our school offers programs for children ages 2-4, Universal Pre-K for those born in 2013, as well as an after-school program for students ages 5-10. Registration for the 2017-2018 school year has begun! Pee Wee Folks also has a wonderful summer camp program for children ages 2-10. We offer on-site activities in our fabulous playground complete with water slide and music garden, and field trips for our older campers.

Tiny Footsteps

167-01 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 718-969-5500 tinyfootstepsny@yahoo.com Tiny Footsteps is the place to be for kids ages 1-5! Our hands-on curriculum is theme-based allowing for student growth, exploration, and creativity. Students are prepared academically and socially for the big step into elementary school. All of our educators

are dedicated to the profession of early childhood with extensive experience. Nutritious, kosher meals are prepared on-site three times daily. Free pre-K for all for children born in 2013. Various schedules and transportation are available for busy parents. Call for more information and to find out about our summer program.

World of Discovery Day Camp

718-229-3037 worldofdiscovery.org info@worldofdiscovery.org World of Discovery Day Camp creates an environment in which kids can just be kids. Since 1977, children ages 4-15 have enjoyed baseball, volleyball, basketball, gymnastics, dance and drama, carnivals, scavenger hunts, swimming, Olympic week, and trips. Counselors must meet stringent standards and all directors and assistant directors are New York state-certified and trained in CPR, first aid, and responding to emergency. All swim instructors are certified lifeguards. Door-to-door transportation is provided.

OUTINGS @ Play Amusements

229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com Bring your campers to the newly renovated @ Play Amusement this summer—Long Island’s favorite indoor amusement park! Campers of all ages can explore 40,000 square feet of safe, clean, climate-controlled fun. @ Play provides your campers with 92 arcade games, inflatables, bumper cars, roller coaster, a carousel, disco room, and laser tag! Campers will never get bored as they enjoy going from one activity to the next. @ Play is easily accessible from Nassau, Suffolk, and the five boroughs of New York. Call and register your camp today for an outing your campers will never forget.

SPECIALTY CAMPS All Kids Can Learn

96-19 69 Ave., Forest Hills allkidscanlearn.net

allkidscanlearn@gmail.com All Kids Can Learn offers college level courses in GRE and GMAT, and Calculus I, II, and III. The preparatory courses of Regents, AP, SAT, and ACT with all subjects are taught by licensed teachers. Merit scholarships are offered for high achievers. We will do free assessments for SHSAT and Hunter exams. The NYS ELA and Math Comprehensive Preparation Program will be offered during the midwinter break (Feb. 20-24) with licensed teachers, and the most current learning materials for third-eighth grades. For more information about any of these programs and what types of programs we will be offering during the summer, please contact Ms. Wendy at 718-664-7408.

All Star Studios

108-21 72nd Ave. (4th ﬂoor), Forest Hills 718-268-2280 allstarstudiosnyc.com allstarstudios@gmail.com Sign up now for summer classes—limited space available.

All Star Studios’s program is designed to encourage and educate the students on how to increase flexibility, improve coordination, focus on muscle strengthening, build poise, and have fun. All instructors have experience in both teaching and performing, to teach students the skills needed to pursue a career as a true artist as well as the compassion to help push them toward their goals, build their self-confidence, and encourage a healthy, active lifestyle. Visit allstarstudiosnyc.com.

Arts Dance Music Camp of Rego Park

The DanceSource 98-11 Queens Blvd. (at 65th Avenue), Rego Park/Forest Hills 718-997-1278 dancesource.net info@dancesource.net Varta Academy of Musical Arts 97-15 64th Road, 2nd Floor, Rego Park 718-275-2725 info@vartamusic.com vartamusic.com New! Arts Dance Music Camp of Rego Park hosts its first Artistic Camp to take place between continued on next page ››

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at Queensborough Community College

Summer 2017!

Early Start Imagination Camp • Specialized Programming for Pre-K campers ages 3-1st grade • 8:30am - 5:30pm with extended hours available • Beautiful outdoor facilities • Ample air-conditioned indoor space • Sports, games & outdoor adventure • Visual arts, crafts & performing arts • Special events, theme days, carnivals & all traditional camp activities • Red Cross Swim Instruction. • Healthy hot lunch & transportation available (A/C) • Low ratios with mature staff • Flexible enrollment for 2-8 weeks **Traditional Day Camp (ages 6-11), Teen Travel (ages 12-14) & CIT/LIT Program (ages 14-16) also available**

Info Sessions at Queensborough Community College

(222-05 56th Ave, Bayside, NY 11364) Feb. 18, 2017 at 11:00 am - Library Building Room #25 (lower level)

Visit us online for 2017 info session dates & locations!

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two companies: The DanceSource and Varta Academy of Music Arts. We will be hosting a summer camp to run from June 30-Aug. 18, a full Monday-Friday, 8am-4pm (or later) camp offering art, crafts, music, and dance. Your family will be able to choose between weekly or monthly attendance. Contact us for pricing and information. The DanceSource: 718-997-1278, info@dancesource.net; and Varta Academy of Musical Arts: 718275-2725, info@vartamusic.com.

Camp Clio

Held at Camp Claire, Lyme, CT 212-472-5207 campclio.org Camp Clio and our new Camp Clio Teen offer a unique experience for adopted children (ages 9-12) and teens (ages 13-17). Camp Clio campers and counselors (themselves adopted and serving as role models) share the intimacy and safety of being with other adopted friends, providing the opportunity to share feelings and adoption stories with others who understand adoption without explanation because they are “just like me”—all in a fun camp environment. Camp Clio Teen: June 25–July 7. Camp Clio youth: July 2-22. Campers may come for one or more sessions. Scholarships available.

The Church-in-the-Gardens Nursery School

50 Ascan Ave., Forest Hills 718-268-7980 citgnurseryschool.org nurseryschool@thecitg.org Our nursery and pre-K programs reflect research that encourages learning through hands-on activities. This summer we are offering two new pilot programs for children ages 3-4 (nursery students entering pre-K, and pre-K students entering kindergarten). From mid-June to mid-July we will be having a literacy-based summer class twice a week. In August we are having a transitional class for those students entering our nursery. Please call 718-268-7980 or email us at nurseryschool@thecitg.org for more information.

Hug Music, Creative & Nurturing Music Lessons for Everybody Music Lessons and Music Therapy 112-01 75th Ave., Lower Level,

Forest Hills 718-487-4309 hugmusicny.com contact@hugmusicny.com Hug Music’s mission is to nurture a love for music by promoting students’s musical growth and important life skills. All of our music teachers are board-certified music therapists. We offer various programs to all individuals including children with special needs. Hug Music provides baby and toddler music groups, dyad and private music lessons, and music therapy. Our original method, Musicreative, is especially effective for children with autism and ADHD. Summer schedule will be announced online. Fiveweek package is available for new students. Contact us today to schedule your first class!

JEI Learning Centers

Auburndale: 347-408-4098 Floral Park: 718-347-3138 Fresh Meadows: 718-740-7888 Great Neck: 516-482-2234 Rego Park: 718-441-3762 Forest Hills: 917-702-8505 jei.com JEI Learning Centers have helped children achieve academic success around the world since 1977. We offer a variety of academic enrichment and tutoring programs for children in pre-K through ninth grade, including math, problem solving, English, reading, and writing. Our program is designed to elevate each student’s abilities to the next level and beyond. JEI’s scientific diagnostic system pinpoints the missing links in learning and prescribes individual study programs based on specific needs. Our curriculum is aligned with the Common Core Standards. Call for information about our minibreak and summer programs.

Kent Prep

194-11A Northern Blvd., Bayside 718-423-5757 kentprep.com Summer doesn’t mean that learning should come to a halt! Kent Prep is currently taking registrations for its summer enrichment classes for students in pre-K all the way to the 12th grade! Experienced and certified teachers work with students in a small classroom environments to help students enter their next grade level with more

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confidence. Classes are offered Monday-Thursday, 9am-1:45pm. Extended day programs are also available. For more information, email us at info@kentprep.com or call 718-423-5757.

Kuei Luck Enrichment Center

195-05 69th Ave., Fresh Meadows 718-679-9908 kueiluck.com For more than 20 years, Kuei Luck Enrichment Center has been providing a wide variety of programs for kindergarten through 12th grades. We provide after-school, Chinese school, enrichment classes, summer camp, and SAT and SHSAT test prep programs. Join Kuei Luck Summer Camp this summer. Our camp is a balance of academics and fun activities. Students will engage in classroom learning in the morning with a licensed teacher and participate in fun activities in the afternoon. Kuei Luck Summer Camp is licensed by the DOHMH and accredited by the American Camp Association.

LIU Post Center for Gifted Youth

Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, director LIU Post, Brookville 516-299-2160 liu.edu/giftedyouth The Long Island University program for gifted children was established in 1979 in response to the increasing recognition of society’s special responsibilities for children with demonstrably superior intellectual ability. The LIU Center for Gifted Youth brings together two important elements of education for the gifted: extraordinary teachers recruited from leading schools in the metropolitan area and university-level facilities. These two factors, combined with an administrative and psychological team schooled in the needs of gifted children, give the program at LIU Post unique strengths in producing positive benefits for young people admitted to the program.

Mathnasium Learning CentersQueens

43-17 Bell Blvd., Bayside 718-747-MATH (6284) 108-14 72nd Ave., Forest Hills 718-544-MATH (6284) LaGuardia Center 43-32 Ditmars Blvd., Astoria 718-726-MATH (6284) 185-10 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 718-544-MATH(6284)

mathnasium.com Mathnasium Learning Centers offer math-only educational programs for students of all ages in more than 600 centers worldwide. In a relaxed, homework-free environment, Mathnasium is where kids catch up, keep up, or get ahead in math, and gain confidence in their math abilities. With a personalized curriculum, instant feedback, and proven, time-tested learning plans designed by experienced instructors, Mathnasium guides students to develop and maintain the mathematics knowledge needed to succeed. Programs, including homework help and test prep, run year-round for students of all ages! Call us today for more information!

Nina’s Tutoring Center

8702 Grand Ave., Elmhurst 718-205-7508 92-22 Corona Ave. Elmhurst 718-606-1056 tutornina@hotmail.com We tutor kids in kindergarten through 12th grades. For the past nine years, we have provided quality education that helps kids excel in school. Our excellent, highly dedicated, and experienced tutors are very competent. We specialize in homework help and offer critical thinking and writing classes. We help improve skills in math, ELA, science, and social studies. We also have an intensive preparation program for ELA, math, and science, citywide and statewide exams. We opened our second branch on Corona Avenue to serve our community better. Please call to find out more about the programs we run throughout the year.

Performing Arts Conservatory of New York

35-57 89th St., Jackson Heights 718-639-1425; 917-774-3411 paconyschool.com info@paconyschool.com Performing Arts Conservatory of New York invites you to participate in its summer program. Children will be exposed to all of the school’s programs including music, art, dance, drama, and Spanish. Students also have free time to enjoy snacks and movies. Our outstanding artist-teachers and active concert performers will help your children develop their artistic and musical talent. For more information, please call 718-639-1425 or 917-774-3411, or visit paconyschool.com.

CAMP MARKETPLACE Rhythm NY

70-68 Kissena Blvd., 3F (close to Queens College), Flushing 213-01 Northern Blvd., Bayside 718-224-3364 rhythmny.com Rhythm NY has been serving its community with valuable musical instruction and resources. Our summer boot camp offers an excellent opportunity for children and teenagers to improve and perform their musical skills in a short time. Within the program, students are exposed to both artistic guidance and a rigorous practice environment every day. For more information, please visit our website at rhythmny. com or call 718-224-3364.

Rose Academy of Ballet

70-11 Austin St., Forest Hills 718-520-0207 roseacademyofballet.com racademyofballet@gmail.com Located in the heart of Forest hills, our pre-ballet classes combine movement and music, while always leaving space for personal creativity. Preschool skills are reinforced as students are introduced to the funda-

mentals of ballet. Children gain physical strength, personal confidence, and increased body awareness, all while exploring ballet and having fun. Our ballet classes feature professional instruction and live accompaniment. We offer tap for ages 3 and older, and a refreshing twist on day camps, our performing arts-based summer day program for children ages 3-7.

LIU POST’S CENTER FOR GIFTED YOUTH

SUMMER 2017 MONDAY - FRIDAY PROGRAM July 3-28, 2017 | 9:00am to 3:30pm Are You the Parent of a Gifted Child?

Soccer Friends USA Inc.

106-06 Queens Blvd., 3rd Floor Gym, Forest Hills 718-261-2403, 347-756-2568 (para Español) soccerfriendsusa.com soccerfriendsusa@hotmail.com SFUSA offers two types of soccer summer camps. The first option is a drop-off summer camp that can be booked on a weekly or daily basis. The second option is our Flexible Class Pass. You will have the entire six-week season to use up the amount of classes you purchase. Go to the beach, hang out with family and friends—you will still have time to attend your classes and not worry about make-ups.

LIU Post’s Center for Gifted Youth announces its 37th annual summer program for gifted children. The summer program runs on Monday to Friday from July 3-28. The program is open to gifted children entering grades 2-8 in September 2017. The program expands students’ knowledge, develops creative and critical thinking skills, and offers children the opportunity to learn in an exciting and accepting environment.

For information call 516-299-2160 liu.edu/post/giftedyouth Now find us on Facebook

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Admission Admi miissio sio i n iis h highly ighly s selective and enrollment is limited.

LIU Post • College of Education, Information and Technology • 720 Northern Blvd. • Brookville, NY 11548-1300 liu.edu/post/giftedyouth • Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, Director

We make math make sense. Enroll now and build your math skills like never before! At Mathnasium, we believe that every child has the ability to be successful in math—it’s just a matter of teaching the way that makes sense to them. When math makes sense, kids leap way ahead—whether they started out far behind or already ahead in math.

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43-32 Ditmars Blvd. 43-17 Bell Blvd. 185-10 Union Turnpike 108-14 72nd Ave. Astoria, NY 11105 Bayside, NY 11361 Forest Hills, NY 11375 Fresh Meadows, NY 11366

718-726-MATH 718-747-MATH (Parking Available)

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OUTINGS: Rye Nature Center

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Explore and learn about the wilderness year-round at Rye Nature Center, New York’s environmental conservation organization. ›› By Melissa A. Kay

1 As the temperature dips, Nanderwhere Pond is still as serene as ever. 2 Fresh greenery and lush landscaping make the garden a sight to see. 3 The observation hive allows visitors to see honeybees hard at work. 4 Rye Nature Center is set on 47 acres of forest and trails so families can walk in the wilderness and take in the natural surroundings. 5 Ecology students enjoy winter activities.

ye Nature Center protects natural resources and promotes environmental education and stewardship within its urban forest, wildlife sanctuary, and surrounding community. The independent, nonprofit organization offers exciting programs for kids and adults of all ages and abilities.

Year-Round Fun

There’s so much to explore at Rye Nature Center. See honeybees in action by viewing the traditional and observational hives. Nature’s Playground features natural elements, such as tree stumps. And there’s also a new Con Edison STEM Challenge Course. Nanderwhere Pond, one of the center’s favorite teaching sites, is full of natural beauty year-round. Families can take a hike along the surrounding trail, or any of the 47 acres of forest trails. Explorers of all ages can go hunting for rocks and minerals at the Old Quarry. Weekly ecology classes allow elementary school kids to get outdoors and learn. There 30

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are also mommy/daddy-and-me classes, along with public programs and festivals.

Annual Events

Rye Nature Center’s summer day camp for preschool through 10th-grade students offers a hands-on approach to science and the environment. Oktoberfest is an annual fundraiser with delicious food and fun activities. Wilderness Encounters, an immersive outside program, challenges elementary school students to work together to explore the woodlands in the winter, spring, and fall. The Forest Kindergarten program, also in the winter, spring, and fall, uses Swiss concepts and principles to encourage children to connect to the natural world. Rye Nature Center offers a Preschool Ecology extended-day program, and its Forest Preschool program will be held five days a week, beginning in September 2017. Fifty percent of class time will be outside.

February Highlights

The annual Old-Fashioned Winter’s

Afternoon with a log-sawing contest, nature crafts, hiking, pony rides, candy making, archery, and more will be held Feb. 4. Rye nature center also has vacation camps for preschool through elementary school kids with programs throughout the month in which kids can learn about winter animals, glaciers, forest ecology, and more. On Feb. 11 and Feb. 25 see a tree being tapped, learn about the production of sap, and visit the Maple Sugar Shed to get a sneak peek at the maple sugaring process.

Details

Address: Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye Directions: Approximately an hour train ride from Grand Central; take the MetroNorth New Haven Line to Rye Hours: Visitor Center, Museum, and Office: Monday-Saturday, 10am-4pm; Grounds, trails, and playgrounds: daily, dawn to dusk Admission: Free (membership required for special programs) For more information: ryenaturecenter.org, info@ryenaturecenter.org, or 914-967-5150

35-57 89th Street Jackson Heights, NY 718-639-1425 • 917-774-3411 www.paconyschool.com info@paconyschool.com

Ballet • Tap Tippy Toes Playgroups Summer Programs Summer Registration has started. Ask about our Early Bird Savings! 70-11 Austin Street, 2nd Floor Forest Hills, NY 11375

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GARDEN SCHOOL

SUMMER CAMP! ARTS • ACADEMICS • SPORTS • TECHNOLOGY  Swimming Pool + Lessons  Door to Door Transport  Lunch & Snack Included

 Flexible Scheduling  Special Events  Drop In Available

Nursery-13 Years Old • June 26 to August 18

Half/Full Days • 7:30am-6pm Available Enroll for just one or all eight weeks at a discount

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40 Holiday Fun

36 We Can’t Believe It’s FREE!, On Screen, Special Needs

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38 Crafty Kids, Once Upon a Time

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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS

Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the nine events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Relay For Life of Bayside Kickoff FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 2, 6-9pm WHERE: Monahan and Fitzgerald, 214-17 41st Ave., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Learn how to get involved in the community and give back, aid in the prevention, diagnosis, support, and treatment of all types of cancer. Find out how to get involved in the Relay For Life family event in June. WHY WE LOVE IT: Supporting the community and cancer efforts is a very good thing. WANT TO GO? 212-237-3890. cancer.org.

18th Annual Chinatown Lunar New Year Parade & Festival FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 5, 12-4:30pm; parade at 1pm WHERE: Chinatown, parade begins on the corner of Canal and Mott streets, Chinatown, Manhattan AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Celebrate the beginning of the year of the Rooster with this famous New York parade and street festival. Every year thousands take to the streets of Chinatown and Little Italy to watch traditional Chinese New Year performances, marvel at decorations and costumes, throw confetti, and enjoy great food. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids will love the lion dancers and confetti! WANT TO GO? 917-660-2402. betterchinatown.com.

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Art As Activism: A Blackout Poetry Workshop FREE WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 9, 6pm WHERE: Langston Hughes Library, 100-01 Northern Blvd., Corona

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AGES: 5 and older WHAT: At this fun and interactive workshop participants will create their own poems using text from books, newspapers, and magazines—a technique known as blackout poetry. Explore themes related to history, civil rights, community empowerment, and social activism. WHY WE LOVE IT: A fun and creative way to explore art and activism. WANT TO GO? 718-651-1100. queenslibrary.org.

Five Boroughs Music Festival

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 12, 3pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Don’t miss the Queens premiere of this new collection of songs, with an exciting array of NYC stories written by 20 wonderful composers. Join in at 2pm for a discussion with several of the creators. WHY WE LOVE IT: Celebrate the Big Apple in story and song. WANT TO GO? $25; free for teens with ID. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

Broken Hearts Week FREE

WHEN: Feb. 12-18, see website for schedule WHERE: Various libraries throughout Queens, see website for addresses AGES: All WHAT: Celebrating all aspects of love through art, music, cinema, spoken word, comedy, and crafts, events are designed for kids, teens, families, and adults. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s all about love! WANT TO GO? queenslibrary.org.

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Korean Traditional Marching Band

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 19, 5pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Professional musicians and their student performers from the Korean Traditional Marching Band come together to present their Korean folk drumming repertoire followed by an interactive workshop. WHY WE LOVE IT: A great opportunity to learn Korean rhythms and instruments and explore traditional movements. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

‘Princess Frog: A Musical Fairy Tale’

WHEN: Feb. 15-25, see website for schedule WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City, Long Island AGES: All WHAT: Mix three wild boys, who happen to be princes; one frustrated Queen; three magic rocks; and an enchanted frog, and you have the makings of a modern fairy tale. WHY WE LOVE IT: It reminds us all to trust our instincts. WANT TO GO? $9 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Science Inspires Art: Food

WHEN: Through Feb. 26: Monday-Friday, 2-5pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: All WHAT: This 18th art-science, juried exhibition includes more than two dozen images of art that reflect on the topic of food from all angles. WHY WE LOVE IT: Includes foods from the historical record to the elite haute-cuisine of today’s “molecular gastronomy.” WANT TO GO? $15; $12 children ages 2-17, students, and seniors. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Ringling Bros. Barnum and Bailey Circus Presents ‘Out of This World’

WHEN: Feb. 23-March 3, Thursday-Sunday and Tuesday-Friday, see website for times WHERE: Barclays Center, 620 Atlantic Ave., Prospect Heights, Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Through the lens of a magic telescope, Out Of This World transports your entire family on an unforgettable journey as the circus Star Seeker battles to bring the most spectacular and talented performers back to Earth after years in outer space. WHY WE LOVE IT: All ages will be amazed by the cosmic voyage of gravity-defying acrobats, orbital aerialists, majestic animals, fearless daredevils, and wacky clowns. WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 212-359-6387. barclayscenter.com. ››

REGO PARK’S FIRST CREATIVE AND PERFORMING ARTS CAMP! Hosted by The DanceSource & Varta Academy of Musical Arts.

★ Arts, Crafts, Dance, Music, Field Trips and more.

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ON SCREEN Black History Month: ‘Queen of Katwe’ Movie FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 10, 3:30pm WHERE: Rochdale Village Library, 169-09 137 Ave., Jamaica AGES: 5-17 WHAT: True story of a young girl selling corn on the streets of rural Uganda whose world rapidly changes when she is introduced to the game of chess, and is instilled with the confidence and determination she needs to pursue her dream of becoming an international chess champion. WANT TO GO? 718-723-4440. queenslibrary.org.

Heartbreak Hilarities FREE

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Makers Space Create FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 3, 3:45pm WHERE: Long Island City Library, 37-44 21st St., Long Island City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join the crew of science explorers and collaborate on a variety of maker lab projects with an emphasis on teamwork and innovation. WANT TO GO? 718-752-3700. queenslibrary.org.

Comic Con FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 4, 10am-4pm WHERE: Rego Park Library, 91-41 63rd Drive, Rego Park AGES: All WHAT: Queens Library and Harry Lion Comics are hosting their first annual Comic Con. Costumes are welcome, call to reserve a session. WANT TO GO? 718-459-5140. queenslibrary.org.

International Mother Language Day

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 16, 3:30pm WHERE: Hollis Library, 202-05 Hillside Ave., Hollis AGES: 3-12 WHAT: A special program for children. WANT TO GO? 718-465-7355. queenslibrary.org.

Fun Times at the Library FREE

WHEN: Feb. 21-23, Tuesday-Thursday, 2pm WHERE: Bayside Library, 214-20 Northern Blvd., Bayside AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids can spend winter break with Puzzle Time on Tuesday, craft time on Wednesday, and watching The Secret Life of Pets on Thursday. WANT TO GO? 718-229-1834. queenslibrary.org.

Tweens and Teens Puzzles and Coloring Club FREE

WHEN: Through Feb. 27: Monday-Friday, 3-8pm WHERE: Laurelton Library, 134-26 225th St., Laurelton AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Relax and color the stress of the school day away, or maybe look for more of a challenge with visual, spatial, logical geometric, and pictorial puzzles; Lego; wooden blocks; and more. All supplies provided. WANT TO GO? 718-528-2822. queenslibrary.org. 36

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WHEN: Friday, Feb. 17, 2pm WHERE: Whitestone Library, 151-10 14th Road, Whitestone AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy animated cartoons of the 1920-30s that show the downside of love and romance. WANT TO GO? 718-767-8010. queenslibrary.org.

Broken Heart Week: Film Festival FREE

WHEN: Feb. 15-18, Wednesday-Saturday, 1pm WHERE: Windsor Park Library, 79-50 Bell Blvd., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a week of films that explore the many facets of love. WANT TO GO? 718-468-8300. queenslibrary.org.

Family Fun Movie: ‘The BFG’ FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 22, 3pm WHERE: Bay Terrace Library, 18-36 Bell Blvd., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: A movie about a girl’s friendship with a misunderstood giant. WANT TO GO? 718-423-7004. queenslibrary.org.

Children’s Matinee FREE

WHEN: Feb. 3-24, Fridays, 3:30pm WHERE: Mitchell-Linden Library, 31-32 Union St., Flushing AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Enjoy these screenings of blockbuster children’s movies: Feb. 3: Brave; Feb. 10: The Boxtrolls; Feb. 17: Minions; and Feb. 24: Lilo & Stitch. WANT TO GO? 718-539-2330. queenslibrary.org.

Martin Scorsese Exhibition

WHEN: Through April 23: Wednesday-Thursday, 10:30am-2pm; Friday, 10:30am-8pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11:30am-7pm WHERE: Museum of the Moving Image, 36-01 35th Ave., Astoria AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Drawing from Scorsese’s own collection, the exhibition includes production material from his films, objects from his childhood, behindthe-scenes images, and large-scale projections his work. WANT TO GO? $15; $11 seniors with ID; $7 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3. 718-429-2579. movingimage.org.

SPECIAL NEEDS Paint Party: Workshop for Children with ASD FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 18, 10:30am WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: 3-5, adult WHAT: Kids investigate colors, invent new ones, and mix up their own batch of washable paint from everyday ingredients to make a work of art. WANT TO GO? 718-699-0005. nysci.org. ››

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Rooster Shadow Puppet Workshop

CRAFTY KIDS APEC Adventure Time: Heart-Shaped Animals

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 4, 10am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 2 and younger WHAT: Toddlers and caregivers have fun with shapes and make an animal craft out of hearts. Enjoy some special time together as they socialize with other youngsters and learn about nature. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $18. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Hands-On History: Natural Dyes FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 4, 1pm WHERE: King Manor Museum, 150-03 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: During the 1800s, berries and plants were used to create homemade pigments and liven up fabrics. Learn these techniques and experiment with color. WANT TO GO? 718-206-0545. kingmanor.org.

Little Makers: Bath Tub Art

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 12, 10:30am WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Scrub-a-dub-dub, it’s time to have fun in the tub! Kids make their own colorful crayons to make bath time fun. WANT TO GO? $8 with museum admission: $15; $12 children ages 2-17. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Paint Me a Poem FREE

WHEN: Feb. 7-14, Tuesday-Wednesday, 4pm WHERE: St. Albans Library, 191-05 Linden Blvd., St. Albans AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Take artistic license and paint a poem in three steps. In session one, kids can let their ideas rain freely by writing about the painting The Harvesters; in session two, they will write a poem based on their brainstorming ideas; and finally in session three, they will paint their own harvest picture. WANT TO GO? 718-528-8196. queenslibrary.org.

Valentine’s Craft FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 14, 4pm WHERE: Queens Village Library, 94-11 217th St., Queens Village AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Come join the fun making valentine’s arts and crafts. WANT TO GO? 718-776-6800. queenslibrary.org. 38

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WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 15, 1pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Associated with the sun and with the element of fire in 2017, the rooster’s bright feathers and resonant crowing announce the arrival of a dynamic new period. Participants will use paper stock and a variety of materials to create their own roosters inspired by Chinese shadow puppet techniques. WANT TO GO? $10; $8 children. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

Paint & Sip: Hearts on Fire FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 16, 4pm WHERE: St. Albans Library, 191-05 Linden Blvd., St. Albans AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Participants enjoy juice and light refreshments while beautifying their canvases with paint and creativity. All supplies provided, registration required. WANT TO GO? 718-528-8196. queenslibrary.org.

I Heart Worms for Families

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 23, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St, Flushing AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Presented by the NYC Compost Project, this unique handson workshop introduces kids to the life of indoor, composting, red wiggler worms. Make heart-shaped compost cookies for your plants and be prepared to get your hands dirty. WANT TO GO? $10 material fee. 718-886-3800. iheartworms2017. eventbrite.com.

Winter Trees Workshop

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 24, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Trees provide us with wood, food, and paper and help our environment in many ways. Explore and learn about our winter trees and their life cycle and create a twig pendant to take home. WANT TO GO? $6 per child. 718-886-3800. wintertrees.eventbrite.com.

Little Makers: Ooey Gooey Ooez

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 26, 10:30am WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Mix simple household ingredients to make wacky oobleck. Discover new and exciting ways to play with this non-Newtonian fluid. Freeze it, swirl in colors, and even make it dance! WANT TO GO? $8 with museum admission: $15; $12 children ages 2-17. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

ONCE UPON A TIME Toddler Tales: I Love Animals!

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 5, 1:30pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 22806 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 3-5 WHAT: February is the month to share a little love with our animal friends, and encourage a child’s love of reading by listening to a nature-related story especially chosen for the littlest nature lovers. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $21. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Animal Tales: Valentine’s Day at the Zoo

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 5, 1:30pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Kids make animal-themed valentines for APEC’s animals. Enter the wonderful world of nature and hear an enchanting book about different animal friends. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $21. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Literacy Inc. FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 14, 4pm WHERE: South Jamaica Library, 108-41 Guy R. Brewer Blvd., South Jamaica AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Kids will read an entertaining story and do a fun activity to reinforce the ideas of the book they’ve read. Healthy refreshments will be served. WANT TO GO? 718-739-4088. queenslibrary.org.

Storytime & Craft for Families FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 22, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Bring your little gardeners and nature lovers in for a relaxing winter afternoon featuring nature-inspired stories, followed by a botanically themed craft activity. WANT TO GO? 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

Story Plays FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 23, 2:30pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Kids will read scenes aloud from Cornelia Funke’s Inkheart, discuss what they read, perform scenes from the stories, and learn other theater games. WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

Adventures in Literature FREE

WHEN: Feb. 22 and 24, Wednesday and Friday, 1pm WHERE: Glen Oaks Library, 256-04 Union Turnpike, Glen Oaks AGES: 3-12 WHAT: This program offers children an opportunity to develop a love for literature. Children will be exposed to nursery rhymes, classic fairy tales, nonfiction books, and award-winning children’s literature through story books, dramatization, puppeteering, and music. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8636. queenslibrary.org.

DANCE PARTY Flamenco Vivo Carlota Santana

WHEN: Feb. 11-12, Saturday, 2pm and 8pm; Sunday 3pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, Flushing Meadows Corona Park, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Drawing from centuries of Arabic, Gypsy, and Sephardic Jewish influences, the company presents the extraordinarily rich diversity of Flamenco in powerful, invigorating performances. WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 718-760-0064. queenstheatre.org.

‘Do Not Disturb’

WHEN: Feb. 11-12, Saturday-Sunday, 11am and 2pm WHERE: BAM Fisher, Fishman Space, 321 Ashland Place, Fort Greene, Brooklyn AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Four factory workers struggle to assemble a gigantic wheel in this creative evocation of play through work. A simple story of teamwork reaches new heights—figurative and literal—through incredible partner balances, acrobatic feats, and choreographed dances. WANT TO GO? $15. 718-636-4100. bam.org/kids.

Anna Azrieli: ‘Dance Face’

WHEN: Feb. 22-25, Wednesday-Saturday, 8pm WHERE: The Chocolate Factory Theater, 5-49 49th Ave., Long Island City AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Created and performed by Anna Azrieli, she tells the story of how three people fit into and modify her desires. One inspires her presence on stage, one inspires the way she moves, and one is her child. WANT TO GO? $20. 718-482-7069. chocolatefactorytheater.org.

‘The Beauty of Ballet’ FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 26, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Queens Theatre, Flushing Meadows Corona Park, 14 United Nations Ave. S., Flushing AGES: 3-17 WHAT: This presentation will illustrate how students of the School of American Ballet develop into accomplished classical ballet dancers, alternating examples of advanced classroom training exercises with the performance of excerpts from notable ballets. WANT TO GO? 718-760-0064. queenstheatre.org. ›› QueensParent 39

Valentine’s Craft by Sueli Zaquem FREE

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 13, 4pm WHERE: Bellerose Library, 250-08 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Make a gift for someone you love for Valentine’s Day. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org.

Valentine’s Day Craft FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 14, 4pm WHERE: Central Library, 89-11 Merrick Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 5-12 WHAT: You won’t have the heart to miss out on this one! Kids can come and spread some love making a Valentine’s Day craft. WANT TO GO? 718-990-0700. queenslibrary.org.

Origami Heart Valentine’s Day Craft FREE

HOLIDAY FUN Lunar New Year Celebration FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 14, 4pm WHERE: Peninsula Library, 95-25 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Beach AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about the origins of Valentine’s Day and complete a craft. WANT TO GO? 718-634-1110. queenslibrary.org.

‘Clifford’s Valentine’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 4, 1-3pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 4350 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the Year of the Rooster with crafts for kids. WANT TO GO? 718-886-3800. queensbotanical.org.

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 14, 4:30pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children will enjoy hearing the story Clifford’s Valentine and then make a special valentine to take home. WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

Urban Stages Presents Circle Singing in the African Diaspora FREE

Broken Heart Week: Chain of Memories FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 4, 2:30pm WHERE: Rochdale Village Library, 169-09 137th Ave., Jamaica AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Anaïs Maviel performs traditional songs from the African Diaspora with voice, surdo (brazilian drum), and n’goni (West African bass cora) and leads a circle singing workshop for audience members. WANT TO GO? 718-723-4440. queenslibrary.org.

Black History Month: Arts, Literature, & Music FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 14, 2-4pm WHERE: Seaside Library, 116-15 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Park AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Families are invited to create a memorial art piece honoring their lost loved ones. WANT TO GO? 718-634-1876. queenslibrary.org.

Turn The Broken Heart Into Something Special FREE

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 6, 4:30pm WHERE: Seaside Library, 116-15 Rockaway Beach Blvd., Rockaway Park AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Explore visual artists, poets, and musicians. WANT TO GO? 718-634-1876. queenslibrary.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 15, 3:30pm WHERE: Whitestone Library, 151-10 14th Road, Whitestone AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Turn broken hearts into something new by using heart pieces to create creatures. WANT TO GO? 718-767-8010. queenslibrary.org.

Let’s Fall In Love: A Swingtime Big Band Valentine

Shine a Light on Love FREE

Broken Heart Week: Pieces of My Broken Heart FREE

Happy Hearts Wreaths

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 12, 3pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre, Long Island AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Long Island’s own big band celebrates Valentine’s Day with an exciting program of classic love songs from the swing era. WANT TO GO? $30 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org. WHEN: Monday, Feb. 13, 3:45pm WHERE: Middle Village Public Library, 72-31 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village AGES: All WHAT: Make a special Valentine’s Day craft utilizing mosaic art to mend pieces of a broken heart. Share musical lyrics from songs of heartbreak and tell stories of lost loves and friendships. WANT TO GO? 718-326-1390. queenslibrary.org. 40

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WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 15, 4pm WHERE: Bellerose Library, 250-08 Hillside Ave., Bellerose AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Give a broken heart a “break.” Families can reminisce about those extraordinary moments and express themselves through storytelling, poetry, or a craft project. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 718-831-8644. queenslibrary.org. WHEN: Feb. 1-17, daily, 2:30-4pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City, Long Island AGES: All WHAT: Create your own heart wreath to display in your loving home. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516224-5800. licm.org.

Celebrate Black History Month: George Washington Carver Workshop

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 21, 1pm WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Called the “Wizard of Tuskegee,” Dr. George Washington Carver made significant contributions in the field of botany. Kids will follow in Dr. Carver’s steps by using plants to paint and to creating a healing lotion to take home. WANT TO GO? $6. 718-886-3800. eventbrite.com.

Broken Heart Week: Finding Poetry in Pain FREE

WHEN: Feb. 17-23, Friday and Thursday, 6pm WHERE: Windsor Park Library, 79-50 Bell Blvd., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: Queens Poet Laureate, Maria Lisella will lead a circle of ethnically diverse poets in an exploration of the universal poetic voice. WANT TO GO? 718-468-8300. queenslibrary.org.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Tween Yoga

WHEN: Saturdays, Feb. 4, 11, and 25, 10:30am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 228-06 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9-12 WHAT: This class mixes traditional poses with partner work, breath and body awareness, and strength builders. Bring a towel and water; mats provided. WANT TO GO? $16. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Hip-Hop Dance & Health FREE

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 13, 4pm WHERE: Far Rockaway Library, 1637 Central Ave., Far Rockaway AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Instructor Darlene demonstrates her hip-hop workout, and shows participants how to follow a healthy lifestyle. WANT TO GO? 718-327-2549. queenslibrary.org.

ANIMAL LOVERS Vet Tech 101

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 11, 10am WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 22806 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 9-12 WHAT: All animals need care that goes beyond the basics of food and water. Students can learn the specialized skills needed to keep animals healthy, and will earn a Vet Tech certificate of achievement. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $25. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Love is the Air

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 11, 1:30pm WHERE: Alley Pond Environmental Center, 22806 Northern Blvd., Douglaston AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Celebrate the season of love by making treats for APEC’s animals. Share a story, make a sweet treat to enjoy in class, and take a short nature walk. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $21. 718-229-4000. alleypond.com.

Seal Walks

WHEN: Through March 12: Saturday-Sunday, call for times WHERE: Theodore Roosevelt Nature Center, Jones Beach State Park, 1000 Ocean Parkway, Wantagh, Long Island AGES: All WHAT: A State Parks naturalist leads a 1½-hour walk to an area where up to four species of seal can be seen. The outdoor walk to view seals in the waters surrounding Jones Beach is preceded by an indoor introduction. WANT TO GO? $4; free for children younger than 3. 516-785-3614. nysparks.com/events.

NYC Audubon Winter Eco Cruise

WHEN: Through March 12: Sundays, 12-2pm WHERE: South Street Seaport, Pier 16, 89 South St., Lower Manhattan, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Look for harbor seals and learn about the surprisingly diverse winter birds of New York City, including long-tailed ducks, geese, common loons, and sandpipers. WANT TO GO? $35; $25 children. 212-742-1969. nywatertaxi.com. ››

Mid-Winter Recess: Wii Marathon FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 24, 12-5pm WHERE: Hollis Library, 202-05 Hillside Ave., Hollis AGES: All WHAT: Participants can test their skills in a different type of marathon. WANT TO GO? 718-465-7355. queenslibrary.org.

Public Skating

WHEN: Through Dec. 23: Monday-Friday, 9am-5:15pm; Friday, 7-9:50pm; Saturday-Sunday, 12-4:45pm; Saturday, 8-9:50pm WHERE: World Ice Arena, Flushing Meadows Corona Park, 131st Street and Avery Avenue, Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Whether you’re lacing up skates for the first time, or you’re an experienced skater, participants will love ice-skating at the World Ice Arena. WANT TO GO? $6 weekdays; $9 weekends; $5 skate rental. 718-7609001. worldice.com. QueensParent 41

unforgettable era in time that were heady days of the 1960s with The Sixties Show. WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

‘Coyote’s Dance’

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 11, 2pm WHERE: Kumble Theater, 1 University Plaza, Downtown Brooklyn, Brooklyn AGES: 3-12 WHAT: This interactive spectacle leads young audiences into the remarkable world of Coyote, the infamous mischief-maker from Native American cultures. Written and choreographed by Treehouse Shakers’ co-founders Mara McEwin and Emily Bunning, Coyote’s Dance envelops the culture and story of Coyote, whose exploits are recounted among many North American Indian Nations. WANT TO GO? $15. 718-951-4500. brooklyncenter.org.

Broken Heart Week: Open Mic for Kids FREE

SHOW TIME! ‘Elephant and Piggie’

WHEN: Through Feb. 5: Saturdays, 11am, 3pm, and 7pm; Sundays, 11am WHERE: New Victory Theatre, 229 W. 42nd St., Theater District, Manhattan AGES: 3-12 WHAT: A musical adaptation of Mo Willems’s best-selling children’s books, Elephant and Piggie. They dance across the stage and tackle questions such as: What do you wear to a fancy costume pool party? How can two friends play with one toy? WANT TO GO? $25. 646-223-3010. newvictory.org.

Plaza Theatricals Presents ‘Madagascar’

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 5, 2pm WHERE: Queensborough Performing Arts Center, 222-05 56th Ave., Bayside AGES: All WHAT: Based on the Disney film, this show tells the story of four Central Park Zoo animals who have spent their lives in blissful captivity and are unexpectedly shipped back to Africa, getting shipwrecked on the island of Madagascar. WANT TO GO? $12. 718-631-6311. qcc.cuny.edu/qpac.

Red Yarn

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 5, 11:30am and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City, Long Island AGES: All WHAT: Red Yarn leads audiences into the Deep Woods, a magical forest where all the animals of American folk songs live together. WANT TO GO? $9 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

‘The Sixties Show’

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 11, 8pm WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre, Long Island AGES: 9 and older WHAT: You can revisit or encounter for the first time the feeling of that 42

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WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 14, 4:30pm WHERE: Baisley Park Library, 117-11 Sutphin Blvd., Jamaica AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Participate in a Valentine’s Day open mic program to send a message to parents and friends. WANT TO GO? 718-529-1590. queenslibrary.org.

Broken Heart Week: Frida Kahlo A Broken/Feisty Heart FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 15, 3pm WHERE: Jackson Heights Library, 35-51 81st St., Jackson Heights AGES: All WHAT: Frida Kahlo’s most famous art works, her passionate love letters to her partner, Diego Rivera, and a live performance of Mariachi music will bring the feisty artist to life in celebration of her uncompromised spirit in art and love. WANT TO GO? 718-899-2500. queenslibrary.org.

Winter Wonderland Music Bubble and Comedy Show FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 23, 4pm WHERE: Windsor Park Library, 79-50 Bell Blvd., Bayside AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: This sensory-friendly “turtle-riffic” musical experience is designed to engage children through song, movement, stories, projections and interactive music technology. WANT TO GO? 718-468-8300. queenslibrary.org.

‘Sesame Street Live: Make a New Friend’

WHEN: Feb. 16-26, Thursday-Monday, see website for times WHERE: The Theater at Madison Square Garden, 4 Pennsylvania Plaza, Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: See Elmo, Grover, and Cookie Monster live onstage as they welcome Chamki, Grover’s friend from India, to Sesame Street. This musical production will be a big hit with the preschool set. WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 866-858-0008. theateratmsg.com.

Children’s Classics

WHEN: Through April 28: See website for dates, 10:30am WHERE: Once Upon A Time Inc., 87-61 111th St., Richmond Hill AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy an intro to live musical theater, in this production that features old friends and new. Pinocchio, Alice In Wonderland, Peter Pan, Charlie Brown, and Mary Poppins will all be met in a whirlwind morning. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-849-6954. onceuponatime-inc.com.

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MUSICIANS Monthly Jazz Jam

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 1, 7pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Jazz Jams are a fun way to hone your skills and jam with your peers with the house band led by saxophonist Carol Sudhalter. Don’t play? Come listen! WANT TO GO? $10; free for students and performers. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

QL International Resource Center Presents Music from Around World by Iris Ornig FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 3, 6:30pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: This concert features an exquisite collection of songs from around the world that made history, including songs from the Great American Songbook, contemporary pop, and traditional folk music. WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

Guy Davis: American Blues Ambassador

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 4, 2:15pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: Explore the roots of the blues, jazz, and folk with Guy Davis, who grew up in a family of artists and fell under the spell of Blind Willie McTell and Fats Waller at an early age. WANT TO GO? $13; $8 children. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

Thursday Night Jazz: Jun Miyake and Delehei

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 9, 8pm WHERE: Jamaica Center Arts and Learning, 161-4 Jamaica Ave., Jamaica AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Jun Miyake lives in Astoria. His ensemble, Groove Merchant, toured the Northeast and will introduce one of the most important traditional and improvising musicians of Mongolia: Delehei, who has been described as Mongolian folk at its absolute best. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-658-7400. jcal.org.

R&B and Motown Music with the New Shades of Soul FREE WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 11, 1:30pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: The New Shades of Soul have been performing together for more than eight years. The repertoire includes songs from The Stylistics, Spinners, ChiLites, Blue Magic, and many others using a unique style of three-part harmony. WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

Sunday Concerts at Central Presents Jazz Plus Featuring Stacia Hobdy FREE

WHEN: Feb. 5-18, Saturday-Sunday, 3pm WHERE: Central Library, 89-11 Merrick Blvd., Jamaica AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy this tribute to musical giants such as Etta James, Aretha Franklin, Natalie Cole, Sade, and others with some of their memorable songs from R&B, soul, blues, and jazz genres. WANT TO GO? 718-990-0700. queenslibrary.org.

Grace Kelly Quartet

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 24, 8pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: 13 and older WHAT: At the ripe age of 24, this straight ahead jazz phenomenon and vocalist has released 10 albums, headlined more than 700 shows in 30 countries, and recorded or performed with notable musicians like Dave Brubeck, Wynton Marsalis, and Harry Connick, Jr. WANT TO GO? $16; free for teens with ID. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org. ››

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African-American History Month Jeopardy FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 22, 4pm WHERE: Flushing Library, 41-17 Main St., Flushing AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Join in for Jeopardy on the big screen with buzzers and enjoy African-American History Month trivia, as well as our usual mixer. WANT TO GO? 718-661-1200. queenslibrary.org.

STEM Challenge FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 23, 2pm WHERE: Hillcrest Library, 187-05 Union Turnpike, Flushing AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Use science, technology, engineering, and math to tinker, design, and create the challenge with an array of unexpected materials. Explore new materials, tools, and processes as you make a project to take home. WANT TO GO? 718-454-2786. queenslibrary.org.

Pauline Benton and the Red Gate Exhibition

WHEN: Feb. 3-26, Saturday-Sunday, 12-5pm WHERE: Flushing Town Hall, 137-35 Northern Blvd., Flushing AGES: All WHAT: The exhibition features a selection from the hundreds of rare Chinese shadow figures that Pauline Benton collected or commissioned on her frequent trips to China, her touring shadow stage, as well as materials from the Red Gate archives. The opening reception is on Friday, Feb. 3 from 5-7pm. WANT TO GO? $5. 718-463-7700. flushingtownhall.org.

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WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 4, 11am WHERE: Queens Botanical Garden, 43-50 Main St., Flushing AGES: 3-12 WHAT: In this class, participants will get to learn about the different ways to grow plants and even plant a few to take home. Each week will include indoor, nature-themed, hands-on activities, followed by a short nature walk around the garden. WANT TO GO? $10. 718-886-3800. eventbrite.com.

Little Makers: Magnetic Explorations

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 19, 10:30am WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Investigate the powerful science of magnets by tinkering with everyday objects and exploring their magnetic fields. Use magnets in fun ways from painting to making magnetic slime. WANT TO GO? $8 with museum admission: $15; $12 children ages 2-17. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

WHEN: Feb. 6-27, 3:45-5pm WHERE: Middle Village Public Library, 72-31 Metropolitan Ave., Middle Village AGES: All WHAT: Makerclub is a learning environment in which children and families can tinker, design, and create together using everyday materials. WANT TO GO? 718-326-1390. queenslibrary.org.

African-American History Trivia Night FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 28, 4pm WHERE: Queens Village Library, 94-11 217th St., Queens Village AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children can test their knowledge of African-American history in a fun game. WANT TO GO? 718-776-6800. queenslibrary.org.

Teknopolis 2017

WHEN: Feb. 25-March 12, Saturday-Sunday, see website for times WHERE: BAM Fisher, 321 Ashland Place, Fort Greene, Brooklyn AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Teknopolis is a three-week-long digital art installation experience designed to inspire creativity, connect with the future, and imagine new possibilities through interaction with technology. WANT TO GO? $15. 718-636-4100. bam.org/kids.

History of Dolls of Color: Celebrating Black History Month

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 19, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City, Long Island AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Go on a journey through time as you view April Marius’ collection of rare African-American dolls. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org. 44

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If you’re looking for a fun place for your kids to get the sillies out, don’t let the cold weather keep you home. There are plenty of enjoyable ways to keep children amused during the winter months, including bounce houses, sports centers, and indoor gyms. When you’re looking to get out of the house but still stay warm, you can drop in at these places on a moment’s notice, no reservation or membership required. Hours are subject to change—please call ahead or check the website to confirm.

Artistic Stitch Sports Complex 79-08 Cooper Ave., Glendale 718-416-1380 artisticstitchsportscomplex.com This complex offers drop-ins for older kids who want to spend the day playing sports. They can choose from baseball, soccer, basketball, and rock climbing. Kids will love the on-site pizzeria. Bounce ‘N Play NY 20-21 Steinway St., Astoria 718-777-7529; bouncenplayny.com This play space boasts two, huge inflatable slides, bouncy house, and climbing wall, in addition to arcade attractions and toddler area. It offers regular drop-in and open play hours. BounceU of College Point Whitepoint Center, 132-25 14th Ave., College Point 718-747-5867; bounceu.com Kids will love the 16-foot Spider Mountain Slide and numerous other inflatables. It also offers a Cosmic Open Bounce when kids can jump around in the dark. It’s a great way to burn off some much needed steam. Reservations are recommended. 48

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Kids Fun House 6273 Fresh Pond Road, Ridgewood 718-418-5437 kidsfunhouse.com Kids Fun House is family-owned and -operated and has an awesome “triple slide” as well as mazes and tunnels for kids to explore. The playground is three-stories, so you can easily spend the whole day there. There is also a separate gated toddler area for younger children. Kids ‘N Shape 162-26 Cross Bay Blvd., Howard Beach 718-848-2052; kidsnshape.com The open play sessions at Kids ‘N Shape feature an exclusive variety of interactive fitness attractions designed to improve your children’s motor skills and engage them in physical activity. Its uniquely unstructured open play is a healthy alternative to video games while providing a safe, clean, and supervised environment. Two-hour fitness play open sessions cost $10 per child. LIC Kids Gymnastics 5-02 50th Ave., Long Island City 718-392-5437; lickids.com

This huge activity center has a public gym that is available for open play. There is a trampoline and a rock wall for older kids. Toddlers can take part in the mat obstacle course and pick from tons of sensory toys. LIC Kids offers weekend morning drop-in hours. Raising Astoria 26-11 23rd Ave., Astoria 718-440-9444; raisingastoria.com Raising Astoria is a local favorite and the facility is a space for open play. The staff at Raising Astoria encourages kids to run, jump, and play with its sensory wall of toys, games, and books. Open play sessions are for kids ages 7 and younger. Sabrina’s Play Studio 52-07 Queens Blvd., Woodside 929-522-0104 facebook.com/sabrinaplaystudio This mom-run play space is great for younger kids. The inflatables are small and there are tons of toys for imaginative play, a maze, and a gated baby area. Highlights include stroller parking and an eating area. Outside food is permitted.

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Teaching Kids Consent

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How to talk to children of all ages about appropriate and inappropriate touching By Bethany Braun-Silva

s parents, we naturally try to compensate for our kids’ shortcomings. My son is painfully shy around people he doesn’t know, a fact I often tell people before they have a chance to make assumptions about him. However, with family I tend to compensate in the other direction and insist that my son give Aunt So-and-So a hug when we leave family events. However, I recently learned this is not recommended as a parenting technique: Our kids need to learn consent and how to set boundaries themselves. Though you can guide them, they will ultimately have to decide for themselves. If my son doesn’t want to give his aunt a hug, then she will just have to accept that—and so will I. Here are some helpful tips for discussing consent with your kids and helping them to establish their own boundaries.

Young Children

Teaching “no” and “stop”: Empower your children to say no when they don’t want to have physical contact with another person, including relatives. “When kids can speak up about what kind of play and affection is and is not okay with them, even under emotional pressure to please someone, they are far better prepared to handle sexual pressure as they get older,” says Irene van der Zande, founder of Kidpower, a nonprofit that teaches kids and adults skills for child protection, positive communication, and personal safety. Teach empathy. Very young children don’t understand their actions have consequences. Teach them that if they hit, the

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person they hit gets hurt. Ask them how they would feel if they were hit. Keep the tone kind and casual, so you don’t induce shame in your child. Help children understand facial expressions and body language. Being able to read another person is a great way for children to understand consent and also to be able to react appropriately. They can learn to back off if they are overwhelming a friend or offer kind words if they notice a sibling is sad. Help them recognize when something feels strange. Teaching kids to honor their gut instincts is a great way to teach consent and awareness. If something doesn’t feel right, then it probably isn’t. Teach your children to speak up in uncomfortable situations. Talk to them on their level. When discussing issues like touching and consent with young children, keep conversations short, very focused, and to the point, says Lisa Cassidy, Ph.D., a psychologist who practices on Long Island.

Big Kids

Encourage kids to check in with each other during playtime. Imaginary worlds can sometimes be consuming to children at play, and it’s important to remind them to take a timeout now and again to make sure every one is okay. Encourage your child to be more mindful. Did he see bullying on the playground? Did she say something hurtful unknowingly? Ask your kids how they would handle the situation

differently next time. Also, this is a good age to discuss stranger safety, Dr. Cassidy says. Don’t tease, even if you think it’s harmless. Children may start to develop crushes during this time, and it’s important to take your children’s emotions seriously. You can ask questions, but make sure your child feels comfortable enough to talk about it. “As children mature, open conversations are essential,” says Jeffrey Kassinove, Ph.D., clinical director at Therapy West in Manhattan. “Your child needs to feel that they won’t be judged by you. As they move into the pre-teen and teenager stage, emotions are strong. Teaching them about situations that can put them at risk is key.” Reinforce the idea that your child’s behavior has an effect on others. And encourage her to help others when she can. This includes things as simple as noticing litter on the street, cleaning her room (and noticing what happens when she doesn’t), or sharing with a sibling. If your child learns the effect he has on his surroundings, he will be more inclined to make positive choices.

Teens

Build self-esteem. As kids grow, they become more selfconscious and fall into the habit of comparing themselves to their peers or to images on social media (thanks, Instagram!). Continue to remind her that she is special and unique. Highlight his talents and accomplishments and remember to keep an eye out for signs of bullying. Nix “locker room” talk. While this phrase has gotten a lot of press lately, it’s important to teach our children that offensive and disrespectful talk is unacceptable even in private. Remind your teenagers that words carry weight and talking about people like they are objects can have some serious repercussions and leave badly hurt feelings in its wake. Discuss changing hormones. Teens’ bodies go through a lot of changes. Some can be scary and unusual, so tell your teen that as embarrassing as it may be, she can always come to you with questions about her body. Set expectations about drinking and partying. Set clear boundaries. Let your child know that you do not want him drinking or doing drugs but you understand that there will be parties. Loading your child with information about drugs and alcohol will be the best defense. Explain how behaviors change when a person gets inebriated and that defenses go down. Explain that someone who is impaired by drugs or alcohol is not capable of making decisions about whether to be kissed or touched—and drunkenness or being high is certainly no excuse for someone to be physically aggressive or to try to push them to have unwanted physical contact. Empower her to not fall victim to peer pressure. Talk about sex. This promises to be an awkward but nonetheless important talk. Teaching children what is and is not appropriate when it comes sex will lay the groundwork for them for years to come. Teens, though they hate to admit it, still need guidance from their parents. You are their best resource when it comes to explaining hormones and sexuality. Tell him whatever he decides to do sexually is ultimately his own choice, and though it can be scary, the best thing is for him to be empowered and informed. It’s okay to tell her that a healthy, consensual, sexual relationship can be a wonderful thing—and be sure to emphasize in no uncertain terms that mutual consent and practicing safe sex are non-negotiable.

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Demystifying the Dentist

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A guide to what to expect at kids’ dental visits and tips for keeping their mouths healthy By Jonathan Perry

t’s no secret that many children are scared of going to the dentist, a fear that is unfortunately often reinforced by dentists’ portrayal on TV shows and in pop culture—as well as by many grown-ups’s own reactions to the twice-yearly need for dental checkups. For sure, visits to the dentist can be confusing, for kids and parents, coming as they do with an array of procedures and terminology, not to mention equipment and instruments that are all unique to the dentists’ and orthodontists’ offices. In that spirit, we spoke with several area pediatric dentists and orthodontists in an effort to demystify visits to their offices and explain what goes on there and why these procedures are so important. “Children fear the unknown, and are often misinformed about the dentist,” says Marc Adelberg, D.D.S., who practices at Adelberg Montalvan Pediatric Dentistry, which has three locations on Long Island. “We understand that what we do impacts the child’s life forever, so we try to make things fun and inviting for them.” Since February is National Children’s Dental Health Month, here’s a primer to what generally goes on when kids visit the dentist and orthodontist. 52

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Dental Procedures Explained

Routine dental exams are evaluations that gauge your child’s overall dental health. At the exam, the dentist (and/or hygienist) will clean your child’s teeth, review the technique for how she should be flossing and brushing, discuss oral hygiene generally, and apply topical fluoride treatment, which is a delivery of fluoride minerals to the teeth to help protect them from cavities. At some visits, the dentist will take X-rays. Checkups can address potential problems in your child’s mouth early so she’ll need minimal treatment or interventions when she’s older. Children, like adults, should have routine dental exams every six months. “Bad brushing habits and hygiene habits can all be taken into account,” Dr. Adelberg says. “Parents should get them to the dentist early so we can help treat and coach them at an early age.” X-rays are screenings that take images of your child’s mouth on each side. They provide a close-up view of your child’s jaw and tooth structure, and can reveal weaknesses such as cavities and demineralization, which is the reduction of mineral substances in the teeth. X-rays provide a view of your child’s mouth that normal eyesight can’t provide, according to Rania

Elbaz, D.D.S., who practices at Merrick Pediatric Dentistry in Merrick. “Bite-wings, occlusal, and panoramic X-rays take images of the child’s mouth from front to back, including the molars,” Dr. Elbaz says, referring to three different types of X-rays. “These X-rays can evaluate a child’s bite and even identify jaw abnormalities.” Your child’s teeth push closer together as they grow, making them more prone to cavities as more plaque accumulates between the teeth. When your child is 2 or 3 years old, dentists will take X-rays of his mouth to help track the teeth’s progression. Sealants are thin, white plastic coatings that are placed at the tops of the chewing surfaces of the back teeth to help prevent tooth decay. The groves and chewing surfaces of the teeth can accumulate plaque, since they’re the most susceptible to cavities in children and teens. The protective coating offered by sealants is recommended for kids ages 6-8 for the first set of molars and ages 12-14 for the second set of molars. Fillings are composites that are placed in the weakened mineral deposits of one’s teeth to help prevent cavities or fill the holes when cavities occur. Fillings can prevent the teeth from decaying further by blocking bacteria from entering the teeth. They can also be used to restore teeth for cosmetic purposes by giving them the appropriate shade of color that matches one’s teeth. Extractions are used to either facilitate other procedures in a crowded mouth or to remove a tooth that is beyond saving. Extractions can also be necessary to correct jaw spacing or provide the room necessary for braces. Every child’s mouth is different, says Glen Ehrenman, D.D.S., who practices at Ehrenman & Khan Pediatric Dentistry in Westbury. “Kids are evaluated each time they come in with growth and development, but everyone grows and develops at their own pace.” Pediatric dentists will evaluate your child’s mouth to see if she needs any extractions. If your child is anxious about the procedure, dentists can offer the option of sedating your child through the extraction. Laser treatment is a method of handling delicate procedures in children as young as 2-3, such as cavities and lip ties, which happen when the upper lips of infants are tethered to the upper gums from birth. The laser can remove tooth decay without touching the tooth, and it also numbs the tooth as an added bonus for your child’s comfortability. Laser treatment is not a common treatment, and only select offices have this equipment. Renuka Bijoor, D.D.S., who practices at Briarcliff Pediatric Dentistry in Briarcliff Manor, says laser technology is her practice’s most utilized procedure tool. She explains that it can be used in multiple procedures in children without instilling any trauma like anesthesia shots. For example, dentists can use laser treatment in place of the conventional drill when treating cavities, eliminating the need for anesthesia shots and making your child’s experience the least invasive and painful as possible. “The experience is shorter and much less dramatic,” Dr. Bijoor says. “It gives the patient a healthy experience and prevents the fear of the dentist from developing early on.” Braces are used for aligning crooked teeth and to help position someone’s bite. Wires are attached along the teeth to align them slowly over time causing minimal discomfort. Pediatric dentists evaluate kids’ mouths to decide if braces may be required, while an orthodontist will make the decision and do the work of installing

braces. The wires on the braces are tightened to adjust teeth every four to six weeks, and children can wear them for two to three years on average.

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Of course, a strong dose of prevention can help your child avoid some of the more invasive and intense dental procedures (though, as with everything health-related, there is no way to guarantee it). Here is some advice for securing, recovering, and sustaining oral health. Oral health begins as early as in infancy. Clean your child’s gums and mouth with a washcloth before teeth start coming in, Dr. Bijoor says. Once his teeth come in, you can use a finger brush or baby toothbrush with just water, no toothpaste required, and then maintain the routine of brushing every morning and night. Your child should see a dentist regularly after her first tooth comes in. Dr. Bijoor recommends your child see the dentist when she turns 1 or six months after her first tooth comes in. She should then see the doctor every six months thereafter. Understand your dentist’s emergency procedures early on. At an early age, your child’s teeth are vulnerable to trauma such as tooth chipping from tripping on the playground, Dr. Elbaz says. Most dentists reserve time in their daily schedules for such emergency occasions, allowing them to take action on her teeth immediately. Discuss with your dentist what to do when emergencies arise—before any actually happen. Visit the proper pediatric dentist. Go to the dentist that best fits your child’s specific needs, Dr. Ehrenman says. Some examples of what your child may need include habit counseling for pacifier use or thumb sucking, special preventative care for teething and gum disease, or management of conditions such as ulcers and tongue-tie. Maintain regular routines. Dr. Elbaz recommends your child follow the proper routine of having her teeth brushed every morning and night once they start coming in. Brushing and flossing should be as much a part of her expected daily set of activities as bathing, changing clothes or pajamas, and the like. Eat a proper diet. Limit juice, snacks, and sugars, Dr. Ehrenman says. Frequent snacking can build up carbohydrates in the mouth, leading to acids that could promote tooth decay. Snacks should be healthy and not too sticky or full of sugar. Avoid caloric drinks after nighttime brushing. Consuming calories after brushing one’s teeth—which we do to eliminate the buildup of plaque on the teeth—defeats the point of brushing, Dr. Elbaz says. Items to avoid include soda, juices, and milk; water is okay. Help your children with brushing until they learn to tie their own shoes. That’s when a child’s motor skills are advanced enough for him to be adept at brushing his own teeth properly. Give your child fluoride supplementation. Children can be given fluoride vitamin supplements that’ll help strengthen their permanent teeth in the future, Dr. Ehrenman says. Don’t give up. It is important for you not to stop performing a dental-health routine or technique because your child isn’t cooperating or making a fuss, Dr. Bijoor says. Eventually, children will get used to the routine. And, eventually, they may even thank you for helping to keep their mouths healthy. Jonathan Perry is a former NYMP editorial intern.

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Soup and a Sandwich

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Nothing goes better with soup than a sandwich. Here are two combos to warm up after a chilly day. By Hannah Miles Vegetable soup with Reuben sandwiches This is a true comfort food combination—a wholesome vegetable soup served with classic New York Reuben sandwiches. I have to confess that I utterly adore a Reuben sandwich—there is just something so comfortingly indulgent about tangy horseradish mayo, sauerkraut, and salt beef all warm with melting gooey cheese. It’s happiness on a plate! This vegetable soup can be made with any vegetables you chose, so it is great for using up whatever is in your fridge. If you prefer a chunky vegetable soup, cut the vegetables into small pieces and simmer until soft but do not blend the soup. If you are short of time you can substitute store-bought mayonnaise for the Russian dressing and just stir through a little ketchup and horseradish. Serves 4 For the soup 1 onion, peeled and finely chopped 1 rib celery, trimmed and chopped 1 clove garlic, peeled and finely chopped 1 tablespoon olive oil 1 leek 2 tablespoons butter 3 carrots (approximately 8 oz.), peeled and chopped 2 parsnips (approximately 12 oz.), peeled and chopped generous 3¼ cups chicken or vegetable stock

For the Russian dressing 2 egg yolks 1 teaspoon Dijon mustard 1 tablespoon white wine vinegar generous ¾ cup mild olive oil 1 tablespoon horseradish 1 tablespoon tomato ketchup salt and pepper, to season For the Reuben sandwiches 8 slices rye bread 8-12 slices salt beef or pastrami 4 tablespoons prepared sauerkraut 8 slices Swiss cheese panini press

Directions 1. Begin by preparing the Russian dressing. Place the egg yolks, mustard, and vinegar in a blender or food processor and

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blitz. Very slowly drizzle in the olive oil and whisk until the mayonnaise is thick. Carefully fold through the horseradish and ketchup and season with salt and pepper. Store in a jar in the refrigerator until needed. 2. For the soup, add the onion, celery, and garlic to a large saucepan with the olive oil and fry over a gentle heat until soft. Trim the ends of the leek, discard any damaged leaves, and finely slice. Rinse well to remove any dirt and then add to the pan with the butter. Cook gently for approximately 5 minutes until the leeks have sweated down and are soft. Add the chopped carrots and parsnips to the pan with the stock and simmer for approximately 15 minutes until the carrots and parsnips are soft. The actual cooking time will depend on the size of the vegetables. Once the vegetables are soft, carefully transfer to a blender or food processor and blitz until the soup is smooth. Return to the pan and keep warm until you are ready to serve. 3. For the sandwiches, lightly butter the outside of the rye bread, then turn over on a board and spread a layer of the Russian dressing over four of the slices. Top with the salt beef slices. Heat the sauerkraut to evaporate the liquid and then sprinkle a spoonful over the beef in each sandwich. Top with two slices of cheese and a further spoonful of dressing and then top each sandwich with the remaining buttered rye slices. Toast each sandwich in the sandwich press until warm and the cheese has melted. 4. Serve the soup with sandwiches on the side for a delicious lunch or supper.

Butternut squash soup with Thanksgiving pretzel sandwiches I love to serve these as pretzel sandwiches, similar to those I have enjoyed on trips to Bavaria, but if you can’t find pretzels, thickcut slices of white bread are equally delicious. Serves 4

For the soup 2 onions, peeled and finely chopped 1 tablespoon olive oil 1 teaspoon garam masala 1 tablespoon nigella seeds 2 lb. butternut squash, peeled, deseeded and chopped into chunks ½ teaspoon ground cinnamon

pinch of cayenne pepper generous 3¼ cups chicken or vegetable stock For the sandwiches a few spoonfuls of mayonnaise 4 large soft pretzels 4 large slices turkey 4 tablespoons cranberry sauce 4 slices Swiss cheese

Directions 1. Place the onions in a large saucepan with the oil and cook over a gentle heat until the onions are soft and translucent. Add the garam masala, nigella seeds, cinnamon, and cayenne pepper. If you do not like spicy soup, omit the cayenne pepper. Fry for a few minutes further to allow the spices to heat. Add the squash to the pan and cook for a few minutes, then add the stock and simmer for approximately 30 minutes until the squash is soft. 2. Pour the soup into the blender or food processor and blitz until smooth. Keep warm until you are ready to serve. 3. For the sandwiches, carefully slice each pretzel in half horizontally and spread each half with a little mayonnaise. Place a slice of turkey on each base and top with some cranberry sauce. Add slices of Swiss cheese and cover each with the pretzel tops. Serve the turkey-filled pretzels with the soup.

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A peek at how two New York mountains teach newbies the popular winter sport By Katelin Walling

The author (in all black) and Franz Krickl, snowsports director at Windham Mountain Resort, ride a conveyer-belt type carpet lift to the top of one of Windham Mountain’s learning slopes. Hunter Mountain has a similar lift in its learning area.

rowing up in Maine, one would think I’d be a season lift ticket-holding ski bum, but that is not the case. I grew up cross-country skiing with Dad and snowshoeing with Mom and Dad, and I once took a snowboarding lesson with my older brother—because I had to do all of the cool things he was doing— but I ended up not wanting to pursue it. So when I got the opportunity to take private skiing lessons at Hunter Mountain (huntermtn. com) and Windham Mountain Resort (windhammountain.com), both in the Catskills region of New York, I jumped at the chance to see what many childhood friends were so obsessed with every winter.

Hunter Mountain

After the nearly 3-hour drive from Manhattan to Hunter, I acquired my lift ticket and lesson pass, headed over to the Rental Shop, and checked in on a computer, answering questions about my experience level, height, and weight—all needed to ensure I was given the proper skis. I was then fitted with boots, which should be snug but not uncomfortable to prevent blisters, and given skis, poles, and a helmet because as Mike, a rental attendant, said, “I like what I have between these,” pulling on his ears. Once I had my gear, I headed out to the Learning Zone to meet Hans, my instructor for the 1-hour lesson. After asking what I knew about skiing (next to nothing!), Hans taught me the basics—how to turn, stop, speed up, and slow down. I practiced these skills on a low-grade slope for almost 20 minutes, and when he thought I was ready, Hans took me up a conveyer belt-type carpet lift to the top of Gramercy Park—a slightly higher-grade slope—where I continued to practice my new skills. After 20 or so minutes on Gramercy Park, I graduated to riding the lift to a slightly higher trail, Central Park North, where Hans had me focus on controlling my speed and making complete, round turns while skiing among others—nerve-wracking to say the least! When my hour was up, Hans and I parted ways, but I stayed on the slopes for a while longer, practicing all the skills I had learned in the lesson.

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for day two. At Windham Mountain Resort, the check-in process is similar to Hunter’s—pick up lift ticket and lesson pass, answer questions on the computer, get equipment, and meet the instructor just outside the Rental Shop. I was lucky to have Franz Krickl, snowsports director at Windham, as my instructor for the 2-hour lesson. I told Krickl what I learned the previous day and what I knew I needed to work on. We warmed up on Whisper Run, and then moved up to Wooly Bear, where I worked on controlling my speed and making turns. After nearly an hour on those two runs, we progressed to What’s Next?, which was higher up on the mountain and required using the lift. Throughout the lesson, Krickl would give helpful tips and point out what I should change to make skiing easier—mainly that to really control my speed, I needed to make my pizza wedge (toes pointed inward, heels out) bigger. At the end of the lesson, during which I had fallen two or three times, I skied a few more runs on What’s Next? to end my day on a high note.

A New Winter Hobby

In addition to private and group lessons for adults, both Hunter and Windham offer a variety of learn-to-ski programs for the whole family, including full- and half-day lessons for kids; season-long programs; and special programs for the youngest skiers. Windham is also home to the second largest adaptive ski program in the country, according to Krickl. When I was at Windham, the Adaptive Sports Foundation was hosting its Warriors in Motion Learn-to Ski and Snowboard Festival for veterans injured in Afghanistan and Iraq. After seeing the variety of skiers on the mountains—from a preschooler learning with Mom and Dad to the seasoned skier—skiing, and learning to ski, is a great activity for the whole family, and one which the family can progress through together. I ended the weekend with some sore muscles, two lift tickets fastened to my coat, and a new winter hobby I hope to enjoy a few more times before the season ends. To find more mountains in upstate New York that offer lessons for the whole family, visit nymetroparents.com/ski.

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Rhythm NY..................................................................... 19

Arts Dance Music Camp................................................. 35

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BIRTHDAY / PARTY SERVICES

All Star Studio................................................................. 21

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Arts Dance Music Camp................................................. 35

BounceU - College Point................................................ 55

Bravo! Dance Boutique................................................... 55

Soccer Friends, USA Inc................................................ 32

DanceSource (The)........................................................ 51

Rhythm NY..................................................................... 19 PERFORMING ARTS / ACTING

New 42nd Street............................................................. 49

Hillcrest Jewish Center Day Camp................................. 11 CAMPS

Rose Academy of Ballet................................................. 31

@ Play Amusement........................................................ 49

All My Children Day Care............................................... 32 All Star Studio................................................................. 21 Arts Dance Music Camp................................................. 35 Blue Dolphin Summer Day Camp................................... 21 Camp Clio....................................................................... 31 Countryside Montessori School...................................... 55 DanceSource (The)........................................................ 51 Garden School................................................................ 31 Hillcrest Jewish Center Day Camp................................. 11 JEI Learning Center........................................................ 64 KENT Prep..................................................................... 32 Kuei Luck Enrichment Center......................................... 15 Magic Day Camp.............................................................. 2 Mathnasium.................................................................... 29 Mill Basin Day Camp ..................................................... 11 Noah’s Ark...................................................................... 10 Oasis Children Services................................................. 27 Pee Wee Folks Pre School............................................. 35 Performing Arts Conservatory........................................ 31 Rhythm NY..................................................................... 19 Rose Academy of Ballet................................................. 31 Soccer Friends, USA Inc................................................ 32 The Church-in-the-Gardens Nursery School.................. 23 Tiny Footsteps................................................................ 19 World of Discovery Camp............................................... 23

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C.I.I.T. Center........................................................... 37, 59 Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech.................. 51, 59 Young Child Expo........................................................... 57 EDUCATION

All Kids Can Learn............................................................ 7 All My Children Day Care............................................... 32 Braithwaite Nursery School ........................................... 37 Countryside Montessori School...................................... 55 Garden School................................................................ 31

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Yan Kalandarov - New York Life..................................... 43 RETAIL

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JEI Learning Center........................................................ 64 KENT Prep..................................................................... 32 Kuei Luck Enrichment Center......................................... 15 Mary Louis Academy (The)............................................... 5

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Mathnasium ................................................................... 29 Noah’s Ark...................................................................... 10

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C.I.I.T. Center........................................................... 37, 59

Success Academy............................................................ 9

Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech.................. 51, 59

The Church-in-the-Gardens Nursery School.................. 23

Young Child Expo........................................................... 57

Tiny Footsteps................................................................ 19 SPORTS FAMILY ENTERTAINMENT / EVENTS / OUTINGS

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Blue Dolphin Summer Day Camp................................... 21 Magic Day Camp.............................................................. 2 Mary Louis Academy (The)............................................... 5

Young People’s Day Camp - Queens............................. 13

Ski Butternut................................................................... 58

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Blue Dolphin Summer Day Camp................................... 21

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Hillcrest Jewish Center Day Camp................................. 11

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Kids RX - Queens........................................................... 57

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Magic Day Camp.............................................................. 2

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Mill Basin Day Camp ..................................................... 11

Pee Wee Folks Pre School............................................. 35

Queensborough United Soccer Club.............................. 55

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Rose Academy of Ballet................................................. 31

Tiny Footsteps................................................................ 19

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LIU Center for Gifted Youth............................................ 29

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Mathnasium.................................................................... 29

Kids RX - Queens........................................................... 57

Kuei Luck Enrichment Center......................................... 15

Mill Basin Day Camp ..................................................... 11 Queensborough United Soccer Club.............................. 55 Soccer Friends, USA Inc................................................ 32 World of Discovery Camp............................................... 23

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Why I hated all nine months of pregnancy By Karen J. Bannan

am obsessed with all things related to pregnancy. I always have been. I read trashy-but-fun celebrity baby bump gossip. I quiz my friends about their impending childbirth. I get misty-eyed when I hear about a new baby or a new pregnancy. So you’d think, because I have babies on the brain, that I loved it when I was actually pregnant myself. You’d be wrong. I hated every one of those 40 weeks. With all my being. From the moment I found out until the moment I delivered, I obsessed about not being pregnant. I was angry. I was depressed. Actually, I was more than depressed. When I found out I was carrying Big Girl, who was a planned pregnancy, I literally went off the deep end. My life was over. I would be huge. I would lose my career. I would lose myself. I was so anxious, sad, and ambivalent about being pregnant that I ended up on a therapist’s couch for the final six months of my pregnancy. Of course, I felt guilty for having these terrible feelings, so that only made me feel worse. And as soon as my baby was delivered? I fell in love with her, and with being a mom. My midwife and my therapist were in agreement with their diagnosis. It—antepartum depression—is hormonal, and my experience was not that uncommon. Between 10 and 20 percent of women experience antepartum depression, but few talk about it. It’s often a precursor to postpartum depression, too. I was lucky. I was pretty much cured once that little redhead came out of me. But I was thrown back into the chasm when I got pregnant again. At the time, Big Girl was only 18 months old. I went home numb from the sonogram holding a grainy picture of the baby. Again, the symptoms set in. I found myself stomping and crying around the house, saying I was ruining Big Girl’s life by bringing another baby into the picture so soon. Then, at 13 weeks, I miscarried. The guilt was overwhelming then. I felt like I wished that baby away. We tried for several years to get pregnant again, even though I

knew I was almost guaranteed to suffer the same symptoms. And we were blessed with my miracle baby—Little Girl—after we gave up trying. Yes, I went through the same horrific nightmare. This time it was even worse because I was told that I could literally die from carrying her. So I felt all the same emotional symptoms, but I also had another feeling: intense guilt about putting myself at risk. I didn’t want to leave Big Girl without a mother. And then the moment I went into labor I could hardly wait to meet my new baby. I look back at the delivery photos and can’t help but smile. I have never seen such pure love, exhilaration, and emotion on anyone’s face. It’s completely obvious how in love and excited I was to become a mom. Becoming a mother—from the first moment you find out you’re pregnant to the first late night feeding—is supposed to be such a natural thing. We’re programmed by magazine covers and other women to think pregnancy is wonderful, and mothering is instinctive. Women glow when they are pregnant, right? They dream about it like I did—and still do. They’re supposed to feel blessed when it happens. And yet that is not the experience of many people. Even those who aren’t afflicted with antepartum depression may, for example, hate the third trimester with all its aches and pains. They might pine for the day when their bodies are their own again. And that’s okay. That may be the most natural thing for them. It seems like such a sin to be depressed about such a miracle. At least that is how I saw it. But it’s a fact of life. It’s okay to hate being pregnant, and still love the outcome. Are you feeling sad about being pregnant? Talk it over with your doctor. She can shed light on any misconceptions you might have about your pregnancy or delivery. If you’re clinically depressed, she can refer you to a therapist who specializes in prenatal care. No matter what, though, don’t suffer silently. Broach the subject with other moms and moms-to-be. Chances are, they’ve felt the same way at one point during their pregnancy.

Karen J. Bannan is a Long Island writer who blogs at naturalaspossiblemom.com, where this first appeared.

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