Rockland Parent February 2019

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20 camp 12 What Camp Directors Wish Parents Knew 14 Camp Directory 16 Camp Guide

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Ways to Get (and Stay) Closer to Your Teen

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Checking Out Neighborhoods

How to maintain a strong relationship with your child through her adolescence.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Crossing the Digital Divide 11 5 Tips for Traveling with Young Children 18 Orthodontia Explained 32 Baby Cry Decoder 34 Ways to Get (and Stay) Closer to Your Teen 40 Meet the Health Care Professional 42 Party Central 44 Party Planner 45 Advertiser’s Index 46 Stuff We Like

20 Family Fun in Manhattan

36 Credit Check-Up

21 Family Activities Calendar

38 Checking Out Neighborhoods

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raising kids editor’s note FEBRUARY 2019 • Vol.12 • No.6

All About Camp!

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s I write this, we’re getting weather warnings for Winter Storm Harper, and I couldn’t be happier about it. What can I say; this Maine-girl-at-heart loves the cold and snow! But, I’m sure many of you can’t wait for the warmer weather of summer to arrive—dreaming of beach days and no school (well, the kids are dreaming of this at least). We here at Rockland Parent are also turning our thoughts to the summer months—reminiscing about our long-gone days of summer camp.

While you may think it’s too early to consider your child’s summer camp plans, the American Camp Association actually suggests that now is the perfect time to start planning. And we’re here to help you make the best decisions for your children to set them up for the. Best. Summer. Ever.

In this issue, camp directors and counselors tell all, revealing the top things they wish you knew about summer camp, from choosing a camp to ensuring your kids have a great experience (p. 12). You’ll also find two must-read camp planning resources: our Camp Directory (p. 14), full of the area’s best summer camp options, and our At-aGlance Camp Guide (p. 16), where you’ll be able to quickly see which camps offer transportation, extended hours, lunch, flexible schedules, and other specialty programs.

And to help you even more, this year we are publishing our first-ever Rockland Parent Digital Camp Guide, which is full of great free content, including expert advice for planning your child’s summer, descriptions of area camps, camp comparison charts, and open house schedules. You won’t want to miss this ultimate, all-in-one, camp planning resource! You can find it at nymetroparents.com/campguide/rockland beginning Feb. 15!

Of course, camp isn’t the only thing on our minds right now. This issue is also full of great advice, including ways to get and stay close to your teens at a time when it feels like they’re pulling away from you (pg. 34), how you can begin to discern what your baby’s cries mean (pg. 32), tips for improving your credit score in a year (really!) (pg. 36), and how to thoroughly check out a neighborhood to see if it’s the right place for your family live (pg. 38). Plus, February is National Children’s Dental Health Month, so local orthodontists share all you need to know about orthodontic appliances (pg. 18).

And since February also brings us Valentine’s Day, we’re wishing you lots of love, laughter, and great memories with your kids!

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Silly Science will focus on introducing children to basic scientific concepts through experiments and hands-on activities. Sample experiments include changing cream into ice cream and making homemade fossils. The class is one hour long and best suited for children ages 3-5 years.

In Crayons to Canvas, children ages 3-5 will learn about the work of iconic artists including Vincent Van Gogh, Pablo Picasso, and Jackson Pollock. After being inspired by the work of the artists, kids can create their own masterpieces by mimicking the style and mediums. Children will also learn about space, texture, perspective, abstraction, and creativity.

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Crossing the Digital Divide ›› One simple thing we do every week as a family to connect with our teens By Emily Orton

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s part of the first wave of parents raising children in the digital age, I often feel like I’m in a conga line of the blind leading the blind. We’re guessing. We’re occasionally desperate. My husband and I went so far as to take our five kids to live on a sailboat for a year, so we could connect and create memories before they grew up and moved out. While a year at sea is more doable than most people think, you don’t have to go to those extremes to connect.

Upon returning to the land of milk and Wi-Fi, we found ourselves digitally drifting apart again, even in our 900-squarefoot apartment. Should we embrace or eschew ubiquitous screens?

How do we navigate the middle ground? My husband came up with a first-world solution for a first-world problem. Now, every Sunday evening, my family gathers for a ritual that is more Roku than Rockwell. We call it: Week in Pictures.

Starting with our youngest and working our way up, each family member syncs their iPod or iPhone to our Apple TV using airplay or screen mirroring and shares their photos, videos, and snaps from the week. It’s that simple. Any smartphone or streaming TV device should do the trick.

Our kids were skeptical at first. We didn’t know if it would stick, but it has for more than three years. It does not require elaborate preparation. It’s a quick, “Hey kids, grab your phones. Time for Week in Pictures.” If the Wi-Fi is wimpy, we put our phones on Airplane Mode until it’s our turn to share. Our only rule? We all stay to see each other’s photos.

You might not think a few minutes once a week can make a difference, but it’s had a huge impact in our home. In a few

Emily and Erik Orton decided to spend a year sailing with their five kids.

You can read about their adventure in Seven At Sea, available March 5.

minutes a whole family can orient to each other. We see into each other’s lives through each other’s eyes. Try it once. You may be surprised what you learn about one another. You may have the satisfaction of knowing you really do have a pulse on your child’s interests or you may have the pleasure of being educated.

So often months blur together. Week in Pictures reveals some measure of what has made each week unique. Knowing we’ll have an opportunity to share insights, discoveries, and silly faces with each other makes us more aware of life in real time.

It’s like sipping a cozy cup of Our Town. I am regularly amazed at how much life is compressed into seven days—milestones, epiphanies, emotions, and experiences—even when we’re just having a “regular” week.

When we have company on Sunday evenings, we invite them to join us for Week in Pictures. When we are visiting others, we ask if our hosts would like to have a Week in Pictures. Everyone has loved it.

Two of our daughters are away at college now. We call. We FaceTime. We email. We follow each other on Instagram. We have a family text group for sharing ongoing dialogue and momentous updates, so we can console or congratulate and keep our inside jokes alive. But when they come home between semesters, they want to share their pictures.

We block out time over several days to make sure our grown-up kids get to show us everything they want us to know about their lives. I’m not kidding. A lot of parents are looking for the key to that secret garden where they can glimpse into their kid’s lives. If you’re one of them, the key may already be in your hand.

Emily Orton blogs with her husband, Erik, at Fezywig.com. They are the co-authors of Seven at Sea: Why a New York City Family Cast Off Convention for a Life-Changing Year on a Sailboat, available on SevenAtSea.com on March 5.

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t’s difficult to predict how your little one will react to being on an airplane for an extended period of time. Similarly, you can’t foresee how your child will be once you reach your destination. After all, you’re turning your tot’s world upside down for a couple of days.

Harvey Karp, M.D., pediatrician, faculty member of University of Southern California School of Medicine, and author of Happiest Baby on the Block, shares how to make traveling with young children a little easier.

Pre-trip prep. Make sure you have a local doctor’s information on hand. If your child is old enough, tell them about where they’re going, Dr. Karp suggests. Show them pictures of where they’re going, who they’ll meet, and what they’ll see. If you anticipate needing to help your child sleep, talk to your doctor and test out medications to ensure they don’t make your child hyper instead of drowsy.

Have modest expectations. This is one of the most important things, according to Dr. Karp. If you are traveling with an infant, you can easily wear your baby in a carrier and walk around. But once your baby begins to toddle, these sorts of activities are no longer a breeze. Plan kidfriendly activities, but don’t over-schedule; having some days to relax by the pool is a good idea. If you’re staying in a different time zone for a short period of time, keep your watches in your usual time zone, suggests Dr. Karp; your child won’t have time to adjust to a new one.

Be prepared. Bring a kit filled with essentials and medicines just in case. Dr. Karp suggests ibuprofen for fevers, cortisone creams for burns, Benadryl for allergies, and anything your child may need specific to his health needs. Don’t forget your child’s “lovie” and a backup one. If you’re on a long ride, distractions are key, Dr. Karp says. Bring a supply of toys to keep the child interested.

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Anticipate pressure changes on a plane. One of the most difficult parts of taking a baby on a plane are the pressure changes. When you experience that painful throbbing in your ears as a result of take-off or landing, you pop your ears. However, babies don’t know what is causing this pain, or how to fix it, so Dr. Karp suggests giving your baby a bottle 10 minutes into take-off and 30 minutes before landing.

Baby-proof your space. “Be prepared to baby-proof wherever you’re going to stay,” Dr. Karp says. “Bring paper bandage tape to tape electric outlets, cords up against walls, and the toilet and fridge shut. You can also tape cotton balls on sharp corners.” Dr. Karp also suggests creating a sense of familiarity in the space, whether it’s by playing white noise in the hotel room, hanging up your child’s drawings on the wall, or packing your child’s favorite blanket.

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What Camp Directors Wish Parents Knew ››

Six camp owners and directors tell all—from evaluating summer camps to asking about your child’s day. By Madeleine Burry

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or parents, summer can present a logistical nightmare: How will your child spend all those days from June through August? Camp, of course, is the perfect solution.

Attending camp builds character. At camp, your child will learn new skills, try new things, build confidence, and most importantly, have uninhibited fun in a safe environment, says Bob Budah, one of the owners of Park Shore Country Day Camp and School in Dix Hills.

But which one? And what do you need to know to make your child’s experience during those weeks at camp stellar?

Six camp directors and owners—from day camps across the New York metro area—share their must-know tips for parents.

Factor in the camp’s location—and how far it is from home.

Know the camp’s reputation and accreditation.

“The first thing I really hope parents do prior to choosing a camp is understand their children and know their likes and dislikes,” Grosbard says. Just because you love crafting, doesn’t mean your child does. Same goes for other camp focuses, from sports to academics.

For kids, Grosbard says, summertime is a break from school— that doesn’t just mean a respite from testing, homework, and the classroom, but an opportunity to do what they enjoy.

And while it’s nice to go into the first day of camp knowing someone, don’t make the mistake of automatically opting for your child’s best friend’s camp. “You want to pick the best camp for your individual child and that might not be the camp that their friends go to,” says

Checking into the camp’s reputation should be high on your to-do list, Budah says. Do your usual due diligence: Ask fellow parents about their impression of the camp, and check online reviews.

Budah also strongly urges parents to confirm the camp is accredited by the American Camping Association and inspected by the health department. The ACA sets standards for everything from the age appropriateness of activities to first-aid equipment standards.

“Many entities call themselves camps and they’re not inspected,” Budah says. “A parent needs protection and has to know their child is going to a reputable camp that’s ACA-accredited.”

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Does this sound like a minor detail? Not so, says Jack Grosbard, owner of Mill Basin Day Camp in Brooklyn.

“If a camper travels long ways back and forth, it can really ruin the experience,” Grosbard says. “It waters down the excitement both coming and going.” So, keep proximity in mind during the selection process.

Think about the camp’s size, too, says Joseph O’Sullivan, camp director at Magic Day Camp in Queens. “Many camps are so big that kids can get lost, and if you’re the type of child who doesn’t make friends easily, this can be lonely,” he says. Check the camp’s website for the staff-to-child ratio, as well as its overall size.

Keep your kid’s needs (and hobbies!) in mind.

Roberta Katz, co-owner and director of Deer Mountain Day Camp in Pomona. Opt for a place where your child will flourish, she says.

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Trust the camp director.

If something comes up, by all means, get in touch. But one perk of sending your kid to camp, says Matt Davanzo, camp director at Squire Day Camp in Hartsdale, is feeling secure knowing your child is well taken care of by an experienced, capable staff.

“What I like to impart to my parents is: We’ve got this. We’ll take care of it,” Davanzo says. “People live very busy, hectic lives and my goal is to be a non-factor,” allowing parents to have one less nagging item on their to-do list.

Feel free to pick up the phone.

Ultimately, you should feel confident in the camp you select. But if something comes up, camp directors urge you to get in touch.

“Call me with anything,” Katz says. “In order to make camp the best possible experience for each child here, we need to have very open communication with each of our families,” she says.

O’Sullivan agrees. At his camp, parents get cellphone numbers for every staff member their kids will encounter, from the director to the bus counselor. That way, there’s no need to navigate the office or make multiple calls in order for parents to speak to their child, or their child’s counselor.

Bottom line: “The more comfortable parents feel, the more comfortable their child will be at camp,” Katz says.

Focus on the last day of camp–not the first.

The first day of camp can be nerve-wracking—for you, and for your child. To quell those concerns, Katz urges parents to focus on how your child will feel at the end of the experience—after weeks of activities, friend-making, and growth.

And worry less about your kid fitting in or making friends right away too, she recommends. “I try to make parents feel comfortable with the idea of helping kids flourish as individuals,” she says.

“Campers should be able to be who they are when they’re here. ...Everyone is different, and we want to celebrate those differences.”

Familiarize yourself with the camp’s procedures.

Every camp will have a set of rules and procedures, so consider getting to know these guidelines your homework. And “pay attention to correspondence,” Grosbard says. That way, if there’s a dance show with everyone wearing white T-shirts, your kid won’t be the lone performer in a red tank top. (Sounds like a small thing, but for children, these moments can really be embarrassing and diminish the experience.) And, Grosbard adds: be on time (not too early, not too late) for pick-up and drop-off.

Even more than keeping up with logistics, it’s nice to have a sense of what your kid does during the day, says David Stapleton, camp director of Future Stars Summer Camps in Old Westbury.

That way, you can lend support and see how the program builds from week to week, he says. Tip: Depending on your camp, social media can be a way to keep up with your kid’s daytime adventures.

Talk to your kid about their day.

Parents should talk to their kids about their camp experience every day, Grosbard says. He suggests asking questions like: What did you do? Did you like it? What was exciting? What would you like to do more or less of? What new skills did you learn?

And, when your child shares, be excited in response! Don’t make the conversation a quick stopover before TV time; be genuinely engaged, Grosbard urges. This will help keep your child’s camp memories alive.

Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents.com, Scholastic, and About.com. You can follow her on Twitter: @lovelanewest.

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Pier 86, West 46th Street and Twelfth Avenue, Manhattan 646-381-5010 intrepidmuseum.org groupsales@intrepidmuseum.org An exciting destination for camp groups that want to learn science, history, and innovation.

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Jill’s Ceramics

180 Germonds Road, West Nyack 845-623-4975 jillceramics.com jillsceramics@aol.com We provide a great ceramics program for campers this summer. Schedule field trips to our fully-equipped ceramics and plaster studio in West Nyack, or a program to be held at your location.

We offer many choices from our “paint and take home” items. All age groups, affordable rates.

Launch Trampoline Park

260 W. Nyack Road, West Nyack 845-977-0415 launchrockland.com Great for camp outings! Our state-of-the-art trampoline facility features extreme dodgeball, 1-on-1 basketball, a battle beam, dunk basketball, a warrior ninja course, more than 15,000-square-feet of open jump trampoline space, a full arcade with redemption, a café, private party rooms, and group rates. Great for specialty programs, fundraisers, and field trips.

Palisades Climb Adventure

4590 Palisades Center Drive, Level 4 of the Palisades Center, West Nyack 845-727-3500 palisadesclimb.com We offer the world’s tallest indoor ropes challenge course. Standing 85-feet tall, with five levels and 75 unique challenge elements to explore, climb, and conquer including a zip line. Our Sky Tykes kids’ ropes course is designed for ages 2-7. Both courses are available for camp groups, parties, and special events.

Sky Zone Allendale

80 Commerce Drive, Allendale, NJ 201-574-1800 skyzone.com/allendale Sky Zone is the world’s first indoor trampoline park. Experience “wow”–the weightlessness of bouncing, flipping, and landing into 10,000 foam cubes. Enjoy Open Jump, Toddler Time, Sky Slam, Foam Zone, Dodgeball, and now Sky Wars for ages 8 and older! Perfect for camps, parties, events, groups, and fundraisers.

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Day Camps Alpine Day Camp

441 US 9W Box 377, Alpine, NJ 201-768-1910 alpinedaycamp.org Are you ready for some adventure this summer? The Alpine Day Camp is open to all children entering grades first-seventh. Swimming, climbing, archery, nature, theater, art, outdoor skills, sports, and team building. Morning and afternoon extended hours included at no additional cost. Open houses March 16, 30, and April 6, 27.

Camp Ramaquois

30 Mountain Road, Pomona 845-354-1600 ramaquois.com Camp Ramaquois is “a day camp as complete as sleepaway camp,” situated on 44 acres in Rockland County. From adventurous activities to creative arts and athletic activities, boys and girls ages 3-15 experience a traditional day camp program filled with a variety of stimulating activities.

JCC Rockland Camps

450 W. Nyack Road, West Nyack 845-362-4400 jccrockland.org camps@jccrockland.org Join us this summer at JCC Rockland Camps! With nine unique program options for children ages 18 months–entering 10th grade, your camper will feel right at home. Surrounded by experienced staff, your camper will spend their day engaged in creative camp activities and fun! Daily swim and lunch included.

The Lindgren Nursery School and Camp

211 Irving Ave., Closter, NJ 201-768-3550 lindgrenschool.com/summer-camp Set in our spacious, woodland oasis, Lindgren is a haven, unlike any camp in the local area. Pools, pavilions, and farm animals create a true outdoor camp experience. Local elementary teachers and artisans bring talents to each department. Campers meet for a Red Cross swim lesson with their troop daily.

Mosholu Day Camp

261 Arden Valley Road, Southfields 845-243-0751 mosholudaycamp.com Mosholu Camps offer a quality program at a low cost. With a strong emphasis on developing new relationships and experiences, our traditional camp day is filled with dynamic activities. Campers participate in activities such as swimming, music, arts, trips, archery, boating, dance, and sports. At Mosholu, we make memories!

Palisades Country Day Camp

248 Herbert Ave., Closter, NJ 201-784-7600 x3 palisadescountryday.com It’s all about fun at Palisades Country Day Camp in Closter, NJ, Bergen County’s No. 1 summer day camp for toddlers-second graders ensures that every

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child has the opportunity to grow socially, emotionally, physically, and intellectually. Campers enjoy three heated pools, two splash parks, a triple-decker playground, and amazing daily activities.

RoCA Summer Camp/Rockland Center for the Arts

Amy Alinkofsky, camp director 27 S. Greenbush Road, West Nyack 845-358-0877 x18 rocklandartcenter.org; amy@rocklandartcenter.org RoCA features one of the region’s most comprehensive art programs. At Camp RoCA, with guidance from teaching artists, campers explore various art forms in studio-based activities where they learn cooperation, personal development, and self-esteem.

Available five or three days-a-week, two, four, six, or eight weeks. July 1-Aug. 23.

Romp N’ Roll

28-29 Orangetown Shopping Center, Orangeburg 845-580-9065 rompnroll.com; orangeburg@rompnroll.com Our kid-tested and approved camps are the perfect place for your little one to play (and learn)! A new theme each week. Kids experience art, music, and movement with fun, energetic, and experienced instructors. For kids 2-5 years old, no potty training required, snack and drink provided daily.

Specialty Camps The Academy For Martial Arts

8 Orangetown Shopping Center, Orangeburg 845-359-4500 rocklandkarate.com 7-11 Suffern Place, Suffern 845-368-3209 martialartssuffern.com Your child can receive self-defense training, get fit, and improve their focus and self-confidence-all while having a great time this summer at TAMA. In addition, we’ll offer plenty of other activities to keep them active and entertained including games, big screen movies, and arts and crafts. Enroll in advance.

Bright Beginnings Preschool & Childcare

6 Charles St., New City 914-420-5785 2 Mountainview Court, Pomona brightbeginningsofrockland.com We offer a fun, affordable summer program for children 6 months-school age. Private cul-de-sac location with an acre of property for outdoor play. Program includes meals, water table and sprinkler play, dance lessons, arts and crafts, physical education, and theme weeks. NYS-licensed/NAFCC accredited facility. Staff are CPR- and first aid-certified.

Coupé Theatre Studio

430 Market St., Nanuet 845-623-2808 coupedance.com Coupé offers a variety of exciting summer programs for students ages 4 through teens and a Ballet Intensive (by audition). Programs feature age-appropriate classes in ballet, jazz, tap, modern, hip-hop, musical theater, acro and acrodance, voice training, and acting.

Trips to Broadway shows, and ballet at Lincoln Center. Flexible schedules.

German Language School-Westwood

Saturday only class 47 Berkeley Ave., Westwood, NJ 201-825-9770 germanschoolnj.org info@germanschoolnj.org The German Language School-Westwood, a non-profit organization in Bergen County offers German Language Immersion Summer All Day Camp in Alpine, NJ for campers 5 years and older. Activities include swimming, archery, rock-climbing, nature walks, daily German lessons, other outdoor activities. Before- and after-care available. Tuition includes lunch. Email or call for details.

Kreative Kids & Vicki’s Dance Studio

61 Maple Ave., New City 845-634-2202 vickistudio.com We are the best alternative to an all-day camp, at reasonable rates! We cater to ages 16 months (diapers welcomed) to 5 years. This multi-arts program includes music, creative movement, theme weeks, and tumbling. Other special summer programs for ages 2½ to adult include a variety of dance and combination classes.

St. Anne Stages - Musical Theater Summer Workshop c/o the Church of St. Anne 15-05 St. Anne St., Fair Lawn, NJ stannestages.com stannestages@aol.com We are an award-winning, non-profit local theater company established in

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Surge Studio

285 N. Route 303 (in Colonial Plaza), Congers 845-589-0990 surgestudioarts.com info@surgestudioarts.com Surge Studio is a true dance home for students of all ages and levels. Perfect for students taking dance for recreational purposes, as well as students who want to establish a professional dance career! This summer we will offer a variety of classes and programs.

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West Rock Indoor Sports and Entertainment Complex

21 Pralle Lane, Nanuet 845-623-3636 westrockindoor.com All Sports Summer Camp features fun-filled instruction, sports, and games. Campers, regardless of age and ability, will improve their conditioning, while honing sports skills. Stateof-the-art air-conditioned facility, six Har-Tru tennis courts, two regulation-size basketball courts, and four indoor turf fields. Flexible schedules, extended hours, multi-week discounts, and lunch options.

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Session I: Session II: July 9th-12th & 15th-19th July 29th-August 2nd & August 5th-10th Performances on July 19th & 20th Performances on August 9th and 10th.

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SUMMER CAMP? WE’RE THE NATURAL CHOICE. Wander down the Lindgren drive and you know you’ve entered into a very special place. From our extensive arts and crafts program, to sports and swim lessons, the farm animals and gardens, and the adjacent Closter Nature Center, we’re a unique country atmosphere that engages and inspires campers—and lets children be children.

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Orthodontia Explained

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What you need to know about the various orthodontic treatments available

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hen it comes to oral health, we know to take our kids to the dentist for regular teeth cleanings and check-ups, but there’s another aspect of dental health you might be overlooking: orthodontics. In honor of February as National Children’s Dental Health Month, local orthodontists weigh in on important topics such as when to see an orthodontist, which apparatuses are used for treatment, and why orthodontia is an important aspect of kids’ oral health.

What is Orthodontics?

Though it may seem like orthodontics is solely about the cosmetic appeal of a smile, the practice has greater benefits than just aesthetics. “Orthodontics is a specialty that involves aligning the teeth and improving the bite,” says Alexis Fermanis, D.D.S., of Brooklyn Family Orthodontist. In short, orthodontia corrects a number of issues, from under bites, overbites, and cross bites, to misaligned jaws, teeth that grew in improperly, and overcrowded teeth.

However, that doesn’t mean orthodontic work will cramp your child’s style. “What orthodontics basically does is not just aligns the teeth within the jaws, but also aligns them such that it maintains the balance with the soft tissue of the face,” says Ameeta Sachdev, D.M.D., of Sachdev Family Orthodontics in Garnerville. In other words, treatment can be customized for your child’s looks.

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a bit off about her smile or your dentist made a referral. Regardless, at a certain age, it’s a good idea to bring kids in for a quick check-up.

“Every seven-year-old should be brought to see an orthodontist,” says Chaninah Zweihorn, D.D.S., owner of Zweihorn Orthodontics in Brooklyn and Queens. “It’s very rare for the orthodontist to have to do any treatment or intervention at that point. It’s just a check in to see that everything is proceeding as expected.”

There are a few things you can check for at home that would indicate a visit is necessary. “The one that most people notice is crooked teeth or spaced teeth,” Dr. Zweihorn says. “In terms of bite and health of the jaws, [check] if a tooth is biting in the wrong place. If a bottom tooth is in front of a top tooth [under bite], that is a very significant issue.” Besides an under bite, Dr. Fermanis recommends checking for asymmetry in your child’s jaw or bite, having to shift the jaw in order to close his mouth, or severely crowded teeth.

If your child has an overbite (her front teeth stick out significantly), the severity of it and her age are factors to consider before seeing the orthodontist. For a young child, a large overbite that he gets teased about is worth treating to avoid bullying. If there aren’t any emotional downsides, it might be best to wait until he’s older because it can be difficult to entirely fix an overbite at a young age, according to Dr. Fermanis. For an older child, consider the severity of the condition. A significant overbite can lead to “increased risk of trauma to the teeth during a fall,” Dr. Zweihorn says. As a general rule, if your child can fit her lower lip between her top and bottom teeth, she should see an orthodontist.

Methods of Treatment

Orthodontia relies on using various appliances to correct issues, and as technology advances, so do the materials used in treatment. The braces available today have made advances since the braces of your childhood, but braces aren’t the only option.

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Palate Expanders. Braces are not recommended for children younger than 7, but there are pre-braces appliances that can be used to help set your child up for a lifetime of good oral health.

“One of the more famous ones is an expander,” Dr. Zweihorn says, “which helps the upper jaw to grow properly, helps to have enough room for teeth to grow in if that’s needed, and helps the jaws to relate to each other with a proper bite if necessary.”

Traditional Braces. This is the most common and well-known method of correcting orthodontic issues. Braces involve gluing brackets to the teeth and using connecting wires to reposition the teeth and/or jaws. One of the biggest benefits of braces is the orthodontist has more control of your child’s treatment, according to Dr. Fermanis. Additionally, the impact braces will have on his teeth is very predictable, and they are easy to adjust in office.

Unfortunately, braces have some downsides worth thinking about.

“The disadvantage is you have to watch what you eat,” Dr. Sachdev says. “You have to take care of your braces because if you keep breaking them, your treatment can be prolonged.”

Lingual Braces. For the cosmetically conscious patient, there are lingual braces, which attach to the back of the teeth instead of the front. Lingual braces “are the most aesthetic option because they’re the least noticeable,” Dr. Fermanis says. “You’re not taking something in and out of your mouth all the time, but those are the most difficult to get used to because they’re next to your tongue.”

Clear Aligners. Made popular by the brand Invisalign, clear aligners are pieces of plastic specifically molded to the individual’s mouth that can be taken out when necessary. However, this convenience can also reduce effectiveness. “Because they’re removable, they’re much more dependent upon the cooperation of the patient and wearing them as they’re supposed to,” Dr. Zweihorn says. Clear aligners also make it more difficult to have a flexible treatment plan, as is available with traditional braces. “Because the appliances are made by a laboratory, changes need to be made working with the laboratory and are harder to make in the office as needed,” Dr. Zweihorn says.

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Head Gear. Though less popular in recent times, another means of orthodontic treatment is headgear, or night braces, which attaches via straps around the head and/or neck. “Headgear is typically used to correct a skeletal problem in younger children such as a severe overbite or an underbite,” Dr. Fermanis says. Though it may seem like an appliance doomed to cramp your kid’s style, headgear is “prescribed for home-only wear to address growth problems in the upper jaw,” Dr. Zweihorn says.

Retainers. After orthodontic treatment is completed, it’s common to have a retainer prescribed. There are a number of different types, both removable and semi-permanent, but the function is more or less the same. “A retainer won’t necessarily move the teeth,” Dr. Fermanis says. “Instead, a retainer is supposed to hold the teeth in their current position.” The goal is “to maintain the results achieved with braces or aligners,” Dr. Zweihorn says.

“Believe it or not there are a lot of people don’t like to smile… because they’re very conscious about their teeth,” Dr. Sachdev says.

Maintaining a good bite and healthy teeth are valuable, but orthodontic care can do more than that; it can boost your child’s confidence.

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You won’t want to miss the Lunar New Year celebration on Feb. 16!

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Fans of the classic fairy tale who love the book or movie will appreciate seeing Cinderella on stage.

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A dancing clock, two wacky stepsisters, and everyone’s favorite rags-to-riches princess are all part of this enchanting production of Cinderella. A perennial favorite of New York Theatre Ballet audiences across America, Cinderella is 1-hour in length with choreography by Donald Mahler, costumes by Sylvia Taalson Nolan, and set design by Gillian Bradshaw-Smith. Feb. 9-10, SaturdaySunday, 11am, 1pm, and 3:30pm. Age: All. $27; $15 children.

Florence Gould Hall, 55 E. 59th St., Midtown. nytb.org.

Founded in 1980, this museum is dedicated to preserving and presenting the history, heritage, culture, and diverse experiences of people of Chinese descent in the United States. The greatly expanded, interactive museum brings 160 years of Chinese American history to life through innovative exhibitions and programs. The collections are comprised of more than 65,000 letters and documents, clothing, photographs, precious artifacts, and more. It hosts festivals, workshops, and family-friendly events celebrating Chinese American history.

Visit it: 215 Centre St., Chinatown; 855-955-6622; mocanyc.org Can’t-miss event: Lunar New Year Family Festival; Feb. 16; 10am-1pm and 2-5pm Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 15-minute drive from New City

Elmo, Big Bird, Cookie Monster, and Abby Cadabby put on a high-energy show that’s perfect for preschoolers.

See Yeti, Set, Snow! through Feb. 24 at Swedish Cottage Marionette Theatre.

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The littlest theater-goers will be spellbound by Sesame Street Live!

Make Your Magic this month. Elmo is inspired to learn a magic trick when he meets magician extraordinaire Justin. But there’s just one problem: Elmo doesn’t know how to do magic! Through encouragement to practice, work hard, and never give up, Elmo learns it’s okay to make mistakes and magic can be found anywhere when you believe in yourself. Sesame Street Live! Make Your Magic is an inspirational introduction to live theater and the art of illusion.

Feb. 15-24, see website for showtimes. Age: All. $35 and up. The Hulu Theater at Madison Square Garden, 4 Pennsylvania Plaza, Midtown. msg.com/sesame.

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For decades, the Swedish Cottage Marionette Theatre in Central Park has been bringing enjoyment to legions of people through its contemporary and innovative marionette productions based on children’s classics. A perfectly located venue for families who want to enjoy the beauty of the park in wintertime and catch a quick show, SCMT has recently produced Neverland: Peter Returns and Beppo the Clown.

Visit it: Central Park, 79th Street and West Drive, Upper West Side; 212-360-1399; cityparksfoundation.org Can’t-miss event: Yeti, Set, Snow!; through Feb. 24; see website for schedule.

Directions: Approximately a 1-hour drive from New City

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the ten events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

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The Pop Ups

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: See Grammy-nominated children’s musical duo, the Pop Ups, perform their rock ‘n’ roll puppet musical.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This performance is part of the Sensory Friendly Kidz Cabaret Series.

WANT TO GO? $19. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.

Hip Hop Dance Master Class with Ana ‘Rokafella’ Garcia at NJPAC!

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WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 12-2pm WHERE: New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center St., Newark, NJ AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Garcia is an NYC native who has represented hip-hop dance professionally over the past two decades. The NYC public and private schools, national universities, prestigious dance studios, and community centers present her workshops to aspiring dancers as part of their dance-based career development programs.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It promises to be an instructional and inspiring class, especially for teen girls who want to dance.

WANT TO GO? $10. 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

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Chinese New Year Celebration

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 7:30pm WHERE: New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center St., Newark, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Musical riches abound in this program that blends Eastern and Western musical traditions.

WHY WE LOVE IT: There will be special pre-concert festivities designed for the whole family, including traditional Chinese music performers, calligraphy demonstrations, and crafts.

WANT TO GO? $20-$90. 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

iLuminate

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 5, 7:30pm WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: An action-filled journey of light and sound with a clique of 20-somethings who thrive to the beat of life in a city of glowing colors and heart-pounding musical tempos.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This unique show is a total wonder to watch as the performers dance in the dark.

WANT TO GO? $29 and up. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.

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WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 9am-4pm WHERE: Trailside Museum and Zoo at Croton Point Park, 1 Croton Point Ave., Croton-On-Hudson AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy bird presentations, nature walks, live music, food trucks, and more.

WHY WE LOVE IT: You might get a chance to observe wild eagles through a viewing scope.

WANT TO GO? $1 suggested donation. 845-786-2701. trailsidezoo.org.

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Family Fun Night FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 22, 5:30-6:45pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: All WHAT: Bring the family to play life-size games including a black light Chutes and Ladders and Candy Land.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a great way to spend that witching hour before dinnertime!

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

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Winter Blast FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 23, 11am-4pm WHERE: JTS Community Center, 115 Torne Valley Road, Hillburn AGES: All WHAT: This winter-themed festival features Rockland Boulders, inflatable rides, arts and crafts, baseball clinics, player meet and greets, a DJ, and more.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Young ball fans will be excited to meet the official mascot of the Rockland Boulders, Boulder Bird!

WANT TO GO? 845-753-2324. ramapoparks.org.

Teen Painting Party FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 24, 2-5pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Celebrate the winter with this yellow snowbird or paint your own picture.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s more than your average crafternoon with refreshment breaks during the 3-hour workshop.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

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Bergen County’s Winter Wonderland

WHEN: Through Feb. 24: Check website for times and activity schedules WHERE: Bergen County Zoo, 216 Forest Ave., Paramus, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy ice-skating, face painting, balloon artists, and ice carving demonstrations.

WHY WE LOVE IT: There’s open skate every day and the rink offers skating and hockey lessons.

WANT TO GO? $15; free for children 3 and younger. 201-262-3771. bergencountywinterwonderland.com.

Weekly Drop-In at Rockland Baby Café FREE

WHEN: Through Jan. 31, 2020: Tuesdays, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Rockland Baby Café, 14 S. Main St., Spring Valley AGES: Newborn to 2, adult WHAT: Meet and talk to new moms, learn how to make breast-feeding easier, and get tips on pumping, going back to work, and other parenting topics.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s the first drop-in baby cafe in the New York metro area.

WANT TO GO? 914-922-2240. rocklandgov.com.

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WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

Chess Club FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 1, 12:30-1:15pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Drop in to the library for a game of chess. Boards, opponents, and instruction are provided.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

Crystal Run Healthcare Prenatal Class FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 5, 5-6pm WHERE: West Nyack Office, 2 Centerock Road, West Nyack AGES: Adult WHAT: This program provides guidance and emotional support and helps prepare expectant parents for the arrival of their new baby.

WANT TO GO? 845-703-6999. crystalrunhealthcare.com.

Family Bingo FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 8, 6:30-8pm WHERE: Dennis P. McHugh Piermont Public Library, 25 Flywheel Park W., Piermont AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Join Miss Nancy for family bingo and enjoy snacks and prizes.

WANT TO GO? 845-359-4595. piermontlibrary.org.

Minecraft Challengers FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 3-4pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Rd, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Talk and play everything Minecraft!

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Anime Club for Teens FREE

WHEN: Feb. 5-26, Tuesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 9-17 WHAT: This club will meet to discuss anime and manga.

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CRAFTY KIDS Heart Candy Box FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 9am-12pm WHERE: The Home Depot, 7605 Tonnelle Ave., North Bergen, NJ AGES: All WHAT: You and your child can build a heart-shaped box for Valentine’s Day. WANT TO GO? 201-868-8125. homedepot.com.

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WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 3, 2-3pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Make a multi-colored design using a technique called scratchboard.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Practice your reading with Buster and friends. Certified therapy dogs and their handlers will be on hand to help new readers, struggling readers, and children who just want to read to the dogs.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

Crafts with Miss Cheryl FREE

Salamander Migration

Wee Craft Together FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 10, 10am WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum, 25 Boulevard, Cornwallon-Hudson AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn about salamanders and then take a guided walk in search of these springtime residents.

WANT TO GO? Members: $5; $3 children; non-members: $8; $6 children. 845-534-5506. hhnm.org.

Full Moon & Owl Prowl

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 17, 5-6:30pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Join a Tenafly Nature Center Environmental Educator for a short introduction to these raptors and a visit from a live owl.

WANT TO GO? $5 members; $10 non-members. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Read to a Dog FREE

WHEN: Feb. 2-24, see website for schedule WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Sign up for a 15-minute session to read to a dog.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Great Backyard Bird Count FREE

WHEN: Feb. 17-27, daily, 10am WHERE: Flat Rock Brook Nature Center, 443 Van Nostrand Ave., Englewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Program leaders will bring you on a hike across Flat Rock Brook’s preserve in search of bird species. They will help participants find and identify the birds spotted along the way. This is a great way to learn about birding and discover the avian species that may be found in the area.

WANT TO GO? 201-567-1265. flatrockbrook.org.

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WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 6, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Make a fun craft!

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

WHEN: Feb. 5-7, Tuesday, 6-7pm; Thursday, 10-10:30am WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 2-4, adult WHAT: Make a creative craft with your child.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Sewing for Kids! FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 8, 4-5:30pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Learn to use a sewing machine and make a simple project.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

Quilt Block Project FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 3-3:45pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Design a quilt block to be sewn together and displayed at the library.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

My Art Class with Judy Pedersen FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 1:30-2:30pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Fill some bottle caps with tiny pictures, glitter, and beads, then attach a magnet to the back.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Pinterest Party @ the Library: ‘Wine Cork Bulletin Board’ FREE WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 21, 6:30-7:45pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Turn a dollar store frame into a unique bulletin board using corks.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

MAKE Break Crunchy Spring Slime WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 23, 1-3pm

WHERE: Michaels, 75 Interstate Shopping Center, Ramsey, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Mix in colorful pony beads and glitter for a satisfying texture WANT TO GO? cost of supplies varies. 201-934-5435. michaels.com.

Newspaper Forts FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 27, 6-7pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Help build forts using only newspapers, tape, and lots of imagination.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

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MUSICIANS Romper Room on Saturday! FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join Mrs. B for singing, clapping, rhyming, drumming, and popping bubbles.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

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morrow’s H Expanding To save the date

Sunday, March 10th 2019

at RCC Fieldhouse 11am - 4pm

over 4,000 Visitors Expected

FREE ADMISSION & PARKING over 150 Booths & Displays

Tons of activities for the KIDS

It’s Government Day too! Learn from Staff all about our County!

FREE FAMILY

Musicians Face Painting Craft Tables Demonstrations and More!

FUN!

Want to have a Booth?

Contact the

Rockland County Youth Bureau (845) 364-2929 or email: parisik@co.rockland.ny.us

Music with Melinda FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 6, 10-10:30am WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Move and groove with music therapist Melinda Burgard.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Music with Bumblesong’s Mr. Matt FREE

WHEN: Feb. 4-11, Monday, 10-10:30am WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Experience music with Bumblesong’s Mr. Matt!

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Milk and Cookies Playhouse: Dan Zanes with Claudia Eliaza

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 17, 2-3pm WHERE: Rittenhausen Theater at BOCES, 131 N. Midland Ave., Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Dan Zanes returns with Claudia Eliaza to present a sensory-friendly show for kids and adults.

WANT TO GO? $18. 855-278-7762. artsrock.org.

Hudson Valley Ebony Strings FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 24, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Celebrate Black History Month with an afternoon of beautiful music performed by the chamber orchestra.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Mr. Kurt at Night! FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 27, 6-6:45pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy music, singing, dancing, and bubbles with Mr. Kurt.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org. ››

Valid until: 2/28/2019

Valid until: 2/28/2019

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Black History Month: ‘Dave, the Potter’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 23, 1:30-2:30pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Read and discuss the biography Dave, the Potter. Then create a “peace” pinch pot.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

43rd Annual Holiday Exhibition: Cherished & Charming

HOLIDAY FUN Kids Club Foxy Valentines

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 10am-12pm (must arrive by 11:30am for last seating) WHERE: Michael’s, 75 Interstate Shopping Center, Ramsey, NJ AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Kids can craft while you shop!

WANT TO GO? $2 ages 3-5; $5 ages 6 and older. 201-934-5435. michaels.com.

Welcome to the Year of the Pig! FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 7, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Dennis P. McHugh Piermont Public Library, 25 Flywheel Park W., Piermont AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Celebrate The Year of the Pig and the Chinese New Year!

WANT TO GO? 845-359-4595. piermontlibrary.org.

MAKE Break Slime Your Heart Out

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 1-3pm WHERE: Michaels, 75 Interstate Shopping Center, Ramsey, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Fill slime with glittery mix-ins for a little Valen-slime fun!

WANT TO GO? Cost of supplies varies. 201-934-5435. michaels.com.

Kids Club Lovely Frames

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 10am-12pm (must arrive by 11:30am for last seating) WHERE: Michael’s, 75 Interstate Shopping Center, Ramsey, NJ AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Kids 3 and older can make a Valentine’s frame.

WANT TO GO? $2. 201-934-5435. Michaels.com.

‘Be My Valentine’ Vintage Sale FREE

WHEN: Through Feb. 24: Wednesday-Friday, 10am-5pm; Sunday, 12-4pm WHERE: Historical Society of Rockland County, 20 Zukor Road, New City AGES: All WHAT: Along with the traditional selection of dollhouses and miniatures, the display will feature vintage collectible cottages, engravings, and paintings; folk art woodblock replicas of Rockland County historic homes and buildings by Congers artist John Rossi; charming vintage holiday cards and ephemera; and rarely seen tiny objects.

WANT TO GO? Wednesday-Friday: free; Sunday: $7; $3 seniors, children ages 3-12, and HSRC members; free for children younger than 3.

845-634-9629. rocklandhistory.org.

Celebrate Madame C.J. Walker FREE

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 25, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about entrepreneur Madame C.J. Walker and try out a new hairstyle.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

LITTLE FOODIES Teen Fandom Foods FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 1, 5-6pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Make a dish based on your favorite book, show, or video game.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Jr. Chefs: Stories & Cooking FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 1:30-2:30pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Follow the amazing journey of the cacao bean and prepare a chocolate treat.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

WHEN: Feb. 9-10, Saturday, 5-8pm; Sunday, 9am-3pm WHERE: Palisades Community Center, 675 Oak Tree Road, Palisades AGES: All WHAT: Browse and buy vintage treasures from jewelry to furs to home decor.

WANT TO GO? 845-359-3988. palisadescc.org.

Teen Crafternoon: Chocolate Making FREE

Pre-School Valentine’s Day Craft FREE

Mix It Up! FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 13, 6-6:45pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Make some beautiful Valentine’s Day crafts!

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

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WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 3-4pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Melt, shape, flavor, and pour chocolates.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 12, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Make a yummy cookie dough, roll it, and use cookie cutters to

cut out the cookies. Take it home to bake and enjoy.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Tween Cooking Program FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 12, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Learn how to make delicious smoothies with fruits and veggies.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Teen Chocolate Workshop FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 13, 7-8pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Make some tasty treats for friends, family, and yourself. Chocolate hearts, roses, and dipped pretzels will be featured.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. Newcitylibrary.org.

Teen Chopped Challenge FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 20, 4-6pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens will work in teams to prepare an entree and dessert in 1 hour. Baskets of ingredients will be provided as well as a few pantry items.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. Newcitylibrary.org.

Winter Farmers Market FREE

WHEN: Through March 29: Thursdays, 8am-2pm WHERE: Nyack Farmers Market, 58 Depew Ave., Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Join some of the greatest vendors in the region who come together to bring you locally grown produce, baked goods, sweets, and other great items.

WANT TO GO? 845-642-0859. nyackchamber.org/winter-farmers-market.

Ramsey Farmers Market FREE

WHEN: Through March 31: Sundays, 10am-2pm WHERE: Eric Smith School, 2 Monroe St., Ramsey, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Shop local farmers and vendors.

WANT TO GO? 201-675-6866. ramseyfarmersmarket.org.

Masters of Illusion Live!

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 8, 8pm WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood, NJ AGES: 9 and older WHAT: See levitating women, escapes, comedy magic, sleight of hand, and more magical wonders.

WANT TO GO? $29-$69. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.

Rodgers + Hammerstein’s ‘Cinderella’

WHEN: Feb. 8-9, Friday, 7:30pm; Saturday, 2pm and 7:30pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Be transported back to your childhood as you rediscover some beloved songs in this hilarious and romantic Broadway experience.

WANT TO GO? $59 and up. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

Disney’s DCappella

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 15, 8pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy modern a cappella versions of Disney hits.

WANT TO GO? $39-$89. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

Darci Lynne & Friends: ‘Fresh Out of the Box’

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 3pm WHERE: New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center St., Newark, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Singer and ventriloquist Darci Lynne Farmer impresses audiences across the country with her sweetheart disposition and undeniable, show-stopping talent.

WANT TO GO? $29.75-$49.75. 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

New Shanghai Circus

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 27, 8pm WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Astonishing athletes defy gravity and execute breathtaking feats.

WANT TO GO? $29-$69. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org. ››

SHOW TIME! Nai Ni Chen Dance Company: Year of the Pig Chinese New Year Celebration

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 2pm WHERE: New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center St., Newark, NJ AGES: All WHAT: See this spellbinding dance and music celebration of the Chinese New Year full of colorful costumes, twirling ribbons, and dancing dragons.

WANT TO GO? $27-$35. 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

Johnny Peers and the Muttville Comix

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 3, 1:30pm and 4:30pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Johnny leads more than a dozen dogs through challenging and hilarious tricks as he plays the straight man role in this wonderful show.

WANT TO GO? $12-$15. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

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Maple Sugaring

WHEN: Feb. 3-24, select Sundays, 12:30-1:30pm, 2-3pm, and 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Identify a maple tree, discover the history of syrup making, check TNC’s tapped tree, and boil down sap to make fresh, warm maple syrup.

WANT TO GO? Members: $5; $15 per family; non-members: $10; $30 per family. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Public Skating Sessions

WHEN: Through March 2: Monday-Tuesday, 10am-1:30pm; Friday, 8-9:30pm; Saturday, 10am-9:30pm; Sunday, 10am-7:30pm WHERE: Bear Mountain Ice Rink, 7 Lakes Drive, Tomkins Cove AGES: All WHAT: Lace-up for the season and enjoy skating outdoors in the fresh air.

WANT TO GO? $5; $2 non-skaters and seniors; free for children younger than 4. $5 skate rental. 845-786-2701. bearmountainicerink.com.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Celebrate Groundhog Day

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 10am WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum, 120 Muser Drive, Cornwall-on-Hudson AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn about this age-old tradition, make a craft, and take a walk outside to look for your shadow.

WANT TO GO? Non-members: $8; $6 children; members: $5; $3 children. 845-534-5506. hhnm.org.

Family Nature Discovery: Tracks and Scat

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Families enjoy a winter discovery-themed lesson, featuring hands-on activities and animal encounters.

WANT TO GO? Members: $5; $20 per family; non-members: $8; $32 per family. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Seasonal Scavenger Hunt

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 2-3pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Each family will need to work as a team as they hike along the trails to complete the hunt.

WANT TO GO? Members: $3; $10 per family; non-members: $6; $20 per family; free for children younger than 2. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Great Backyard Bird Count At Tenafly Nature Center

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 10-11:30am WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Participate in this important citizen science project to tally the birds who live at TNC! WANT TO GO? $3 members; $6 non-members. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

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Adventures In Reading: Scoot! FREE

WHEN: Feb. 1-March 6, Monday-Friday, 9am-5pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Hikers read a nature-themed story while they walk in the woods.

WANT TO GO? 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Knee-High Naturalists

WHEN: Through March 18: Wednesdays, 10-10:45am WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Explore the natural world through a series of topics lead by a Tenafly Nature Center Environmental Educator. Each week has a different focus emphasizing working together through discovery stations, songs, and journeys outside.

WANT TO GO? $10 members; $15 non-members; $56 series for members; $80 series for non-members. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Ski, Snowboard, and Tubing Season

WHEN: Through March 31: Monday-Thursday, 2-8pm; Friday, 1-10pm; Saturday, 8:30am-10pm; Sunday, 8:30am-8pm WHERE: Campgaw Mountain, 200 Campgaw Road, Mahwah, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy skiing, snowboarding, and tubing (with a surface lift!) for all abilities on trails that aren’t crowded. Equipment rentals and instruction available.

WANT TO GO? See website for rates and packages. 201-327-7800. skicampgaw.com.

Public Skating Sessions

WHEN: Through March 31: Monday and Friday, 3:30-5pm; Saturday, 1:30-4:30pm; Sunday, 2-5pm WHERE: John T. Wright Arena, 130 W. Englewood Ave., Set GPS to 85 W. Englewood Ave., Englewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Go outdoor ice-skating with your family! Lessons available too.

WANT TO GO? $6 Englewood residents; $8 non-resident; $4 skate rentals. 201-568-3133. mackayicerink.com.

MOVERS & SHAKERS All Sports Open Play

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 4, 9am-3pm WHERE: West Rock Indoor Sports and Entertainment Complex, 21 Pralle Lane, Nanuet AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy a fun-filled day of sports, inflatables, arts and crafts, and activities. Counselors will create teams to compete in relay races, kickball, dodge ball, basketball, soccer, and more.

WANT TO GO? $50 per child full day, $30 per child half day, $5 additional for lunch. 845-623-3636. westrockindoor.com.

‘Swan Lake’ presented by National Ballet Theatre of Odessa

Imagination Station FREE

WHEN: Feb. 5-19, Tuesdays, 1:30-2:15pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Each week promises a new activity, such as dress up, music, a movie, a craft, puppets, or stories.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

Teen Game Night FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 22, 5-6:30pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Play some video games, card games, and board games.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 6, 7:30pm WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: This full-scale production, follows a heroic young prince as he works to free the beautiful swan maiden from an evil spell.

WANT TO GO? $39-$69. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.

Baby & Me FREE

LEGO Junior Club FREE

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 11, 4-4:45pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Fantastic free play for Lego lovers.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 26, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Build your own obstacle course. Team up with friends and compete for the best time.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Romper Room FREE

Patty Cake Club

WHEN: Feb. 6-13, Wednesdays, 9:30-10:15am WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Singing, dancing, and bubbles! Bring your New City/ West Nyack library card and pick up a ticket for that day’s session.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 27, 10-10:45am WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Drop in for coffee and cake while the kids have some free, parentsupervised playtime.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

Builders Club FREE

DreamWorks Trolls The Experience

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 13, 5-6pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Have fun with Legos, marble runs, magic nuudles, LittleBits, K’nex, and more.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

WHEN: Feb. 5-26, select Tuesdays, 10-10:45am WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Babies and a caregiver can join for playtime and songs.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

Tween Makey Journey FREE

WHEN: Through May 31: Monday-Friday, 10am-8pm; Saturday-Sunday, 9am-8pm WHERE: 218 W. 57th St., Midtown, Manhattan AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Guided by a rainbow path, visitors will sing, dance, hug, and celebrate alongside DreamWorks Trolls.

WANT TO GO? $40. 800-844-3545. trollstheexperience.com.

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Science Squad FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 7, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Learn to make a paper circuit panel that will help with creating your own greeting card that will light up.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Unplugged Play FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 14, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Play all kinds of board games for an hour of screen-free fun.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

SMARTY PANTS Puzzle Competition FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 1, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Check out the library’s first puzzle competition. Teams of up to four people will do their best to complete a 300-piece puzzle within a set time period.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Code-a-pillars & Ozobots! FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 1:30-2:30pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Arrange and rearrange code-a-pillars/ozobots to follow the maze you create.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Underground Railroad Scavenger Hunt! FREE

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 4, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Learn about the Underground Railroad while finding clues in the library.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Tween Hour of Code: Adventures in Minecraft FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 5, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 9-12 WHAT: New to coding? Try one of these easy lessons for beginners using characters from Minecraft.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

3D Printing for Kids FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 6, 4-5pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Use software to design 3-D projects, which will be printed and ready for pick up later.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

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Family Free Night FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 5-8pm WHERE: Mid-Hudson Children’s Museum, 75 N. Water St., Poughkeepsie AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: MHCM is open late with free admission!

WANT TO GO? 845-471-0589. mhcm.org.

Exploration Station FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 27, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Explore science and the world around you with hands-on stations, along with a discussion and a story.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Library Chess Group FREE

WHEN: Feb. 6-27, Wednesdays, 5:30-8pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Enjoy non-instructional games of chess. New players welcome!

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

‘Elemental Forces’ Exhibit FREE

WHEN: Through April 30: Monday-Friday, 10am-4pm; Saturday-Sunday, 1-4pm WHERE: Rockland Center for the Arts, 27 S. Greenbush Road, West Nyack AGES: All WHAT: This public art exhibit invited artists to create sculptures using renewable energy utilizing solar, wind, and geothermal to show the potential of alternative energy.

WANT TO GO? 845-358-0877. rocklandartcenter.org.

Weekly Drop-In at Rockland Baby Cafe FREE

WHEN: Through Jan. 31, 2020: Thursdays, 11am-1pm WHERE: Martin Luther King Multi-Purpose Center, 110 Bethune Blvd., Spring Valley AGES: Newborn to 2, adult WHAT: A drop-in to meet and talk to new moms, learn how to make breast-feeding easier, make sure your baby is latching and gaining well, get tips on pumping and going back to work, and learn about other parenting topics.

WANT TO GO? 914-922-2240. rocklandgov.com.

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Fun Times this Valentines

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In between spending time with your special someone and picking out the perfect gift, how about a little family fun? Get away from everyday life for a weekend on the slopes. Take your little ones to a warm and cozy indoor play space for a play date. Learn all about maple sugaring and taste something sweet with the sweethearts in your life! And, of course, if all the romance of February is too much, why not put all the mushiness behind and try your hand at finding your way out of an escape room with your teen?

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MAPLE SUGARING Tenafly Nature Center

157A Main St., Hackensack, NJ 201-815-1784; escaperoomnj.com The two rooms at this location are S.W.A.T. and The Other Side, which is available in horror and detective (not scary) versions.

Party packages and other activities such as airsoft, human bumper balls, and Minute to Win It are also available.

313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ 201-568-6093; tenaflynaturecenter.org Maple Sugaring: Sundays, Feb. 3-March 24, 12:30-3:30pm Learn how to identify a maple tree. Discover the history of syrup making and how technology has changed the gathering of sap over the centuries. Check tapped trees and boil down sap to make fresh, warm maple syrup, and then have a taste. Dress warmly; program will be both inside and outdoors. Registration required. $22 per child-adult pair; $12 member child-adult pair.

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Baby Cry Decoder

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With a little practice, it is possible to distinguish between your infant’s different cries— and respond to her more effectively. By Barbara Russo

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t’s 2am, and you just woke up to your baby crying uncontrollably. Exhausted, you get up to tend to her. What could it be this time? Is she hungry? Does she need to be changed? At that hour, you’re hoping it’s an easy fix, so both of you can get back to bed.

Crying is a normal part of a baby’s development. It’s his way of communicating something is wrong. Hunger, tiredness, frustration, colic, and pain are among the reasons he brings on the tears. But wouldn’t it be nice to hear a particular cry and know immediately which of these causes is making your baby so upset?

Some parents and experts say it’s possible.

“I have a two-year-old and a six-month-old, and yes I can absolutely tell what is wrong when they cry,” says Brittany Bailey, of Atlanta. “The louder, more desperate cry is the hungry or discomfort cry such as gas or a full diaper, but usually it’s hunger.

The pitiful whimper that grows to a nagging, impatient, dosomething-right-now cry is when they are sleepy.”

Although the sounds of the cries were the same for both of Bailey’s children, the level of desperation she heard was different.

“My daughter is mellow, so her hunger cry was nowhere near as loud as my son’s,” she says. “And her tired cry was more desperate than his, but they had similar tones and sounds, just different passions.”

Of course, every baby is different. While Bailey’s children cried loudly when they wanted food, Melissa Petruzzi of Staten

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Island, has an infant son, Nick, who takes the quieter approach to getting fed.

“When we brought our son home, he was a quiet baby,” Petruzzi says. “He only fussed when he was hungry, and it was more like a whimper than a cry. Sometimes he’ll put his fist to his mouth, too, giving off another cue that he’s hungry.”

By the time her son turned 3 months, Petruzzi was able to start recognizing what his other cries meant. “The ‘pick me up’ cry would start as a normal cry, then go to full-on sob where his mouth was open, but no sound came out. His frustrated cry was a high-pitched scream,” she says.

Learning to Decipher the Cries

Some babies cry more than others, but research shows maximum crying occurs during the first three months of life. From birth to 6 weeks, babies cry approximately about 110-118 minutes total daily. And certain cries in that almost 2 hours of daily crying can be characteristic of a baby’s need, according to Terry Cralle, R.N., sleep educator, and author of Snoozby and the Great Big Bedtime Battle. And while your baby’s cries for exactly what’s going on will be unique to her, the following characteristics can help you learn those cries a little quicker: He’s hungry: This is the most common reason babies cry, and crying is said to be a late sign of hunger, according to Cralle. “A

hungry cry is described as usually short and low-pitched, and it rises and falls,” she says. “Hungry cries are sometimes described as repetitive and rhythmic.”

She’s tired: This cry is sometimes accompanied by physical signals, such as yawning, pulling on ears, restlessness, hand clenching, blinking, closed eyes, or eye rubbing, according to Cralle.

He’s in pain. Cries from babies with colic last longer. Colic usually resolves when a baby turns 3 or 4 months old. Cries of a baby in pain have been described as harsh, sudden, shrill, loud, and long, followed by a quiet pause when your baby catches his breath. A high-pitched or very low-pitched cry that persists can be indicative of illness.

Don’t Give Up

Determining the reasons for your child’s cries doesn’t come easily, especially if you’re a first-time parent. It takes time to get to know the different sounds and signals that go along with each crying episode, so don’t be hard on yourself if you haven’t been able to quickly dry your baby’s tears yet.

“We learn in residency the different cries. Hunger, pain, obstinance, fear. Baby cries can be weak or strong and can have different pitches,” says Amy Luedemann-Lazar, D.D.S., a pediatric Waterlase dentist. “It would be hard for a first-time parent to understand or recognize the difference, but a well-seasoned provider and someone like myself who treats dozens of babies a day recognizes the cries right away.”

For many parents, deciphering their child’s cries is a learning curve. And sometimes, a baby will cry for reasons that remain a mystery to mom and dad.

“Each cry has a different nuance to it that you learn as you go,” says Ann-louise Brennan, a mother of two who lives in Bedford, U.K. “Sometimes it’s a cry you have never heard before, so you stand there begging this child to tell you what the problem is.

Typically, it’s an ‘I have no idea why I am crying I just am’ type of cry. You change them, they still cry. You feed them, they still cry.

You rock them, they still cry.”

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Can You Spoil a Crying Child?

It’s a fact that babies will always cry. And not every parent will become a pro at recognizing the reason for each and every cry.

Many experienced parents and medical experts disagree with the popular notion that constantly running to a crying baby spoils them.

Parents should always respond to a crying baby, even if they aren’t sure why she’s crying, according to Cralle. “It’s a myth that promptly picking up a baby every time he or she cries will spoil a child,” she says.

“Toddlers can be spoiled and are smart and know how to manipulate to get their way,” Bailey says. “Babies aren’t being manipulative when they cry. It is their sole means of communication. They’re trying to tell us something is wrong.”

Bottom line? Don’t worry if you can’t immediately pinpoint the reason for your baby’s tears. Crying bouts are inevitable when you have an infant. But if you have any questions, doubts, or concerns, especially if the crying is sudden or lasts a long time or is accompanied with physical symptoms such as fever or diarrhea, contact your pediatrician.

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Ways to Get (and Stay) Closer to Your Teen ›› The relationship with your child will inevitably change during her adolescence but drifting apart isn’t the only option. By Christina Vercelletto

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ere’s what it felt like to me: There was a time when I couldn’t do a thing wrong in my child’s eyes, and I often found myself thinking, “I don’t deserve this sweet, forgiving kid.”

Then, in a twinkling, I couldn’t do a thing right in my child’s eyes, and I often found myself thinking, “I don’t deserve this...kid.”

And I’m far from alone. As Nanci Kenny, a mom of three in Suffolk County, puts it about her 15-year-old, “the teen years are truly a tough time for both of us. I feel so distant from my daughter, even though I know she needs me.”

There is a reason the teen years are notorious for being tricky for parents to navigate, and you’ll be happy to hear it’s got nothing to do with terrible parenting. “The task of adolescence is to be more independent, to develop satisfying relationships outside of your family unit, and to develop one’s identity and personal moral code,” says Kashmira Rustomji, M.D., M.P.H., a psychiatrist at the Mount Sinai Adolescent Health Center in Manhattan. And that natural and beneficial struggle for independence causes the friction. “Teens alternate between a wish to be autonomous and their wish to be taken care of,” Dr. Rustomji explains. So, the way most teens act defiant, or indifferent, is them trying to fight the feeling of being dependent on you, which they, on some level, know will keep them from having a successful life.

While it can be all too easy for teens and parents to drift apart, the good news is it doesn’t have to be that way. Here’s what to do to stay close to your aspiring adult.

Pick your battles. Decide what is and isn’t worth fighting over and stick to those lines in the sand. You might start by identifying which behaviors your teen is exhibiting are annoying, as opposed to those that are in opposition to your family’s important values or a safety concern.

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“To thwart fatigue and feelings of anger, pick your battles and combine warmth and responsiveness with firmness—especially on your core values,” Dr. Rustomji says. “Adolescents still need rules but set your limits and be clear about your ‘no’s.” Kenny has found that allowing her daughter some slack has helped their bond. “I stay close to her by giving her some freedom to make her own decisions and become her own person,” she shares. “When she does need me, I give her my full attention.”

Resist judging. This may be a bit harder than you think. As you may have noticed, teens are super-sensitive to your conveying disapproval—even non-verbally. “You have to learn how to have a poker face when talking to a teen about their life,” urges Justine Carino, a licensed mental health counselor at the Family Institute of Westchester in White Plains. That goes double for anything having to do with her friend group. A teen’s biggest priority is fitting in, Carino explains. That ties back to the healthy adolescent urge to develop strong relationships beyond family. “If they start to tell you something about their friend that you have a negative reaction to, try your best to put your feelings aside,” Carino suggests. Instead, “ask your teen how they feel about their friend’s decision.”

Let personality be your guide. Think of your teen first and foremost as a unique individual. Siblings may share DNA and have been raised in the same home, but an approach that elicits a positive reaction from one may not have the same effect on the other. What you should be looking at most are how your child communicates, tolerates stress, and shows emotion, Dr. Rustomji notes. Gender shouldn’t influence your approach too much, our experts agree. Personality should be your touchstone. That said, “there is some limited evidence that girls tend to express more internalized emotions, such as anxiety

and sadness, and that boys express more externalizing emotions, like anger,” Dr. Rustomji says. The most prominent difference between genders is girls mature faster than boys, says John E. Mayer, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist specializing in treating families with adolescents and the author of Family Fit: Find Your Balance. “Parents need to be mindful of that and adjust their expectations accordingly,” he adds.

Observe. “If we observe our kids, we can intervene when they need us and learn who they are,” Dr. Mayer says. The only way to truly do that is to participate in his life. Aside from attending games, performances, and the like, and staying in contact with his teachers, make your home the hang-out place. “Try inviting their friends over for dinner, and on weekends,” Dr. Rustomji suggests. “This is a way for you to keep your eyes and ears open to their inner world, without seeming nosey.”

Leveraging car rides accomplishes the same thing. Offer to pick up and drop off friends when you’re driving your own kid to a party, the mall, or a school event. You might be surprised how much you learn about your teen by listening on a 15-minute ride. A car ride with only the two of you is still an opportunity to build your bond. “Face-to-face conversations can be uncomfortable and intimidating for a teen,” Carino says.

“Having the music on low and not looking at each other may create an environment in which a teen feels more comfortable opening up.”

Work on yourself. Who says your teen will grow out of idolizing you? True, eventually we all realize our parents are flawed. Nevertheless, your lease on being a role model never has to expire. “Be someone they want to admire,” Dr. Mayer insists. “Be healthy. Keep yourself fit. Be socially engaged. Be dynamic. Don’t let yourself go.”

If you have a cheerful, positive attitude and continually try to improve yourself in whatever ways resonate with you, others will want to be around you. That includes your kid and her friends. “If you do all that, their friends will say, ‘You have a cool mom or dad’.” And once that happens, it may not be a stretch to say you’re golden.

Never give up. Ever. The senior year of high school can be a difficult time to try to forge a better relationship because of the focus on college and the future. Plus, “seniors tend to zone in even more on their friendships because they know many changes will be happening socially once they graduate,” Carino notes. If your son is in his later teens, and you’ve had a rough ride of a relationship, you may think it’s too late to close the gap between you. Don’t. “It’s never too late,” Carino insists.

“It’s usually after high school that young adults connect with their parents in ways they didn’t before. Especially if they’re away at college, relationships often improve because of the space and distance.” Try to remember you’re aiming for the long haul. “We have many more years of a close, meaningful relationship with our children in adulthood than the short span of adolescence,” Dr. Mayer says.

Whether we like it or not, our relationships with our children will change. “Being prepared for this change will help you overcome the loss and grief of going from the always-needed parent to one who is supportive from a distance,” Dr. Rustomji says. Your child—even when she technically isn’t a child—will always benefit from your comfort and guidance.

Parenting a teen is rarely easy. Getting and staying close to your older child won’t happen in a weekend. Consider it a work in progress.

Christina Vercelletto is a former editor at NYMetroParents, Parenting, Scholastic Parent & Child, and Woman’s Day.

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Credit Check-Up

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Experts share how you can improve your credit score in a year.

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By Megan Vasquez

re you considering getting a new car or putting a down payment on your dream house? Unless you’ve been diligently saving, you’ll likely need to apply for a loan to make one of those purchases. The biggest obstacle that could be standing between you and getting approved for a loan? A low credit score, which can also affect the job hunt and prevent you from getting new credit cards.

“When applying for these types of loans, lenders perform a credit check. This helps lenders decide if they want to do business with you,” says Jake Lunduski, a financial industry analyst at Credit Card Insider. “Generally, the better your credit, the better the interest rates you’ll be able to secure.” Credit scores range from 300-850 and tell lenders how reliable you are when it comes to repaying debt.

It’s possible you’ll be approved for a loan if you have a lower score, but you may be required to put down a larger deposit or pay more interest. For example, someone with a score of 720 may have a 5 percent interest rate on a $500,000 30-year mortgage while someone with a score of 800 may have a 4.5 percent interest rate on the same mortgage. That .5 percent difference is like giving away $40,000-$50,000, says Roxana McKinney, founder of Women Wealth & Worth.

“There are multiple scoring organizations that have different scoring systems. However, the type of score most commonly used by lenders is one of your FICO scores,” Lunduski says. Thankfully, consumer credit scores tend to follow common principles, which makes improving your score a less daunting task.

usage, since they make up the bulk of your score. In addition to one free credit report per year from each credit bureau at AnnualCreditReport.com, McKinney recommends checking your credit score every three months on a free credit score site such as Credit Karma, which won’t hurt your score. Hard inquiries—when a potential lender reviews your credit—may pull your score down by five to 10 points. You can dispute a hard inquiry, but it will generally fall off your report in 2 years.

Check Your Credit Score

Prevention is the best form of defense. Before you even suspect fraud, you can protect yourself by freezing your accounts, preventing others from stealing your information. Freezing your account locks your credit score, so no individual or company can access your credit information unless you unlock it. After reporting fraud, it takes time to

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Look for Inaccuracies

When requesting your annual report, make sure each major consumer credit bureau is checked, including Equifax, Experian, and TransUnion, in addition to free credit score sites. There are six things you should check when you get your report, according to Lunduski: • Is your personal information accurate and up to date?

• Do you recognize every account listed? Are all the dates and lenders names correct?

• Do account balances listed match the balances on recent statements?

• Make sure hard inquiries on your reports were made at your request.

• Are any late payments listed that don’t belong? If you do have late payments, make sure they are classified correctly (30 days late, 60 days late, etc.).

• Check for any bankruptcies, tax liens, and collection accounts and make sure the details are correct.

Protect Against Fraud

repair credit score damaged by identity theft, so why not be one step ahead? Whether or not you suspect fraud, Daniel D’Ordine, CFP, founder of DDO Advisory Services LLC, recommends “LifeLock.com because it aggressively monitors for negative activity, especially when there are too many things to lose track of and data breaches.”

Watch Those Credit Card Balances

The smaller your credit utilization (how much of your credit card limit you use month to month), the better your score. So, to have an immediate impact, you want to pay your debt down, D’Ordine says.

Another way to lower your utilization is to increase your credit lines. “This way, you can spend the same amount or more without a negative ding, because your utilization amount is higher,” McKinney says. Remember: Just because you have a higher credit line, doesn’t mean you need to use it.

Pay Off Debt

Living in the Now, Preparing for the Future

If you find yourself in debt across multiple credit accounts, Lunduski recommends the Avalanche Method, explained by his colleague Brendan Harkness. First, make the minimum payments on all of your accounts. Then, put as much extra money as possible toward the account with the highest interest rate. Once that debt is paid, do the same on the account with the next highest interest rate. Use this method until all of your debt is paid off.

“After any debts are paid off, ensure that you’re using your credit cards with discipline,” Lunduski adds. “Always make sure you’re paying off your statement balances on time and in full to take advantage of the grace period most cards have to avoid expensive interest.”

Many people believe closing a credit card is better for credit scores, but, in fact, it can have the opposite effect. “Young people who opened their first card in college will move to others for points or miles, and will close their first card,” McKinney says. “This will bring down your total available credit and average account age.” So, keep your starter credit card from college in addition to newer cards because it will boost two categories of your FICO criteria. As long as a card is paid off and has no fees, it can continue to help your credit score.

Consider Opening New Card Accounts

“Another misconception is opening a credit card hurts your credit scores. Although your credit scores may temporarily dip after applying for a new card, you won’t face any long-term negative effects unless you max your new card out and accumulate debt or don’t pay on time,” Lunduski says. Opening a new card raises your total overall credit limit and can help lower your credit utilization ratio. You’ll take a hit in average account age in the short term, but more cards can help you in the long term.

But, D’Ordine warns against opening a handful of credit cards willy-nilly. Instead, research what credit card is best for you, whether you want to earn airline miles, cash back, or points for other benefits, and try to choose one with a lower interest rate.

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“Because too many cards can become unmanageable, get them all paid in one day,” McKinney advises. You can ensure your bills are being paid on time by changing the payment dates, turning on online-billing Auto-Pay, which automatically takes money out of your bank account, or paying as soon as you get a statement in the mail.

Above all, “let your life events drive your financial decisions,” D’Ordine recommends. As much as you may want to plan and budget, life happens. If it all seems too daunting to do on your own, don’t be afraid to seek out a certified financial planner.

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Checking Out Neighborhoods

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Before you set out to find your dream home, you need figure out where you want to live.

Experts share what you should consider before handing over a down payment. By Melissa Wickes

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t the beginning of the home-buying process, there are surely 100 different factors swirling around your head that will determine on which house you put an offer. One of the most important things to consider before starting the house hunt? Finding the right neighborhood for your family. After all, you can’t change things about the neighborhood, but you can renovate a less-than-perfect house.

Solving that mystery will be completely individual for your family, as your check list of must-haves, things that would be nice, and those that are not a deal-breaker will be different from your friends. Once you narrow down which neighborhood or town is right for your family, you’ll be one step closer to finding the perfect place to raise your little ones. Read on for a little help from the experts for finding the right neighborhood for your family.

Visit at varying times.

You should always consider the time of day and time of year you visit a neighborhood, which can vary depending on the nature of the location. For example, if the house you’re interested in is near a school, visit during drop-off and pick-up times to see how busy it gets, suggests Melanie Kalmaer Lichaa, CBR, BFA, MA, M.Ed., licensed salesperson at Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International Realty.

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is also beneficial to see if it’s a family neighborhood where people walk around and ride bikes or if it’s really quiet.”

Pay attention to the neighborhood vibe.

In addition to visiting the area at different times, spend time exploring the neighborhood and chatting with others who live there, recommends Alison Bernstein, founder and CEO of The Suburban Jungle, a real estate firm focused on buyers leaving the city for the suburbs. “What if the whole town goes to Nantucket over the summer, but you pictured yourself having barbecues with your neighbors?” she poses.

When you’re visiting the neighborhood, consider the characteristics that are important to your family. If you want to live in a place where your family can safely ride bikes in the streets or go for a walk with the stroller, do these things when visiting. Go for a walk after school when kids would normally be riding scooters to their friends’ houses or playing hockey in the street. Talk to the parents walking by and get the story from the people who know the neighborhood best.

“It’s very important to look in between the data points because that’s where the real story of the town exists,” Bernstein says.

“Feel out what people are doing on the weekends, how involved they are in the school systems, and so on.”

“I bought my house seven years ago solely because of the block it was on! I absolutely hated the house itself,” says Ellie Makris, an East Williston resident and mother of two boys. “We knocked it

down and built new, and throughout the difficulties with construction I would not change a thing. My son gets to ride his bike down the street as I walk next to him with the stroller, and we know that our neighbors will slow down when they pass in their cars.”

If you want a little extra help when finding the perfect neighborhood for your family, a buyer’s representative can point you in the right direction. Buyer’s representatives obtain specialized information, programs, and updates that can help you best determine what neighborhood to look in, according to the Association of Realtors. The Suburban Jungle also aims to convey the overall culture of a neighborhood by partnering with local agents who can explore the area for you.

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Take a look at the statistics.

Everyone’s definition of what makes a town safe varies, and if you’re a numbers person who feels more secure making decisions based on proven statistics, there are various online resources that can help give you peace of mind. Multiple Listing Service, a network of real estate offices on Long Island as well as in Queens and Brooklyn, provides a variety of information about neighborhoods including community and school information, housing statistics, and news.

Searching a neighborhood in the Community and School Info section of the website will turn up visual statistics measuring quality of life such as commute time, crime risks, air quality, physicians per capita, environment, schools, economy, people, and housing.

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“I always recommend parents call up and speak to the head of their child’s grade level for the upcoming year to ask these sorts of questions,” says Lichaa, who is a mom of two and a former educator. “Different districts have different ways of analyzing a child and their grade readiness when they enter the district.”

“Read between the lines and determine what a great school system means to you,” Bernstein suggests. “Do I want my child in a class of two thousand or a class of sixty, and what are the pros and cons of each? Do I want a district where everyone is...gunning for the [Ivy League], or do I want a more laid-back environment?”

While you’re getting the answers to these important questions, it’s also a good idea to find out about transportation within that district. Some districts have rules that children who live less than a mile from the school will not receive transportation, according to Lichaa. And don’t be afraid to ask questions about the more personal things that are important to your family. If your child is a swimmer, find out if the school has a swim team. If not, but it checks all of your other boxes, see if there is a local Y, JCC, or Boys and Girls Club with a team that your child can join.

Ultimately, what makes a neighborhood “the right neighborhood” for your family may be the one with the highest scoring school district.

It also could be the one with a little league team that practices within walking distance of your home. As long as you know what your family needs to be happy, learning to love a new neighborhood will be as easy as learning to hate the parking restrictions in your old one.

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Health Care Professional Bobby Crohn, D.D.S. Monroe Dental Office 400 State Route 17M, Suite 2, Monroe 845-782-0189 monroedentaloffice.com monroedental@optonline.net

Dr. Crohn graduated from SUNY Stony Brook with a degree in biology. He received his Doctor of Dental Surgery from the University at Buffalo in 1992, and he completed his general practice residency at Danbury Hospital in 1993. Dr. Crohn has done extensive additional training in implant dentistry including training with Dr. Nick Elian at Vistara Institute, DentalXP Symposiums, and training at Zimmerman Institute.

Dr. Crohn is a Fellow of the International Congress of Oral Implantologists. He offers state-of-the art treatment including on-site cone beam 3-D imaging.

Tenafly Pediatrics 74 Pascack Road, Park Ridge, NJ 201-326-7120 Offices also in Tenafly, Fort Lee, Clifton, Paramus, and Oakland, NJ tenaflypediatrics.com

Dr. David Schaumberger is one of the pediatricians working out of our newly expanded Park Ridge office. As someone who lives nearby, he enjoys working in Northern Bergen and Rockland counties. Dr. Schaumberger completed his pediatric residency from the Mount Sinai School of Medicine in New York and has been working at Tenafly Pediatrics since 2001.

On a personal note, he enjoys ethnic cuisine and spending time with his three children. Tenafly Pediatrics is a recent Angie’s List Winner with offices conveniently located throughout Bergen County.

Marita Smith, D.D.S. Smith’s Little Smiles Pediatric Dentistry 5C Medical Park Drive, Pomona 845-414-9626 smithslittlesmiles.com drsmith@smithslittlesmiles.com

Smile More Kidz Meet Your Smile Team 140 Oak Tree Road, Tappan 845-367–4866 smilemorekidz.com

Clemente Orthodontics 603 S. Route 304, New City 845-638-6646 60 W. Ridgewood Ave., Ridgewood, NJ 201-447-2888 clementeorthodontics.com

Sachdev Family Orthodontics 124 E Ramapo Road, Suite 2, Garnerville 845-786-7736 sfojustsmile.com sfojustsmile@gmail.com Facebook.com/sachdevfamilyorthodontics Instagram: @sachdevfamilyorthodontics

Dr. Marita Smith is a board-certified pediatric dentist dedicated to providing excellent dental care for children from infancy-adolescence in a warm and friendly environment. As a mother of two, Dr. Smith knows how important it is for a child to be comfortable and stress-free during their dental visits. Dr. Smith places great focus on prevention and her goal is to keep your child’s smile healthy! Most insurances accepted. Evening and Saturday hours and 24-hour emergency service available. Se habla Español.

At Clemente Orthodontics, our patients receive the benefit of experience, quality, and energy that comes with a multigenerational team. Dr. Michael Clemente and his daughters, Dr. Nicole Clemente and Dr. Marissa Clemente, work together seamlessly to care for your orthodontic needs. They run a stateof-the-art practice with digital X-rays, private treatment rooms, impression-free Invisalign, and a highly experienced staff. They are an Invisalign Super Elite Premier provider, offering Invisalign and Invisalign Teen as treatment options.

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At Smile More Kidz, we are part of a local tradition of providing your children with the very best that dentistry has to offer in a friendly, comfortable setting. Our entire team understands how children develop and learn and make sure nervous kids feel comfortable and respected. We offer 8am–7pm and Saturday appointments so our patients don’t have to miss school for their care. We believe in building a foundation for a lifetime of healthy smiles by making every visit to our office a fun and informative experience.

At Sachdev Family Orthodontics, we provide individualized braces and Invisalign treatment to kids and adults. Dr. Ameeta Sachdev has been in the dental field for two decades with dual dental degrees, from India and U.S. She teaches orthodontics at St. Barnabas Hospital, Bronx. She pays attention to detail, whether it is designing the state-of-the-art office herself or perfecting your smile. Being committed to serve, she is an active supporter of community events and local art. Free consults, most insurance accepted, evening and Saturday hours and 24-hour emergency service available.

Bear Brook Dental Care Dr. Kiwon Lee, D.D.S. Adult Dentistry & Dental Medicine for Sleep Apnea 305 W. Grand Ave., Suite 100, Montvale, NJ 201-746-9474 bearbrookdentalcare.com; info@bearbrookdentalcare.com

Crystal Run 2 Centerock Road, West Nyack 845-348-1100 crystalrunhealthcare.com

Bear Brook Children’s Dental Specialists Dr. Tommy Lee, D.M.D., Pediatric Dentist 305 W. Grand Ave., Suite 100, Montvale, NJ 201-746-9474 bearbrookdentalcare.com info@bearbrookdentalcare.com

Dental Wellness of Suffern Sherri Alpert, D.D.S. 2 Executive Blvd., Suite 307, Suffern 845-918-1801 dentalwellnessofsuffern.com dentalwellness@optonline.net

Dr. Kiwon Lee received his D.D.S. degree from Columbia University and completed his residency at New York-Presbyterian/Columbia University Medical Center. Dr. Lee is a fellow of the International Congress of Oral Implantologists.

He is also a Diplomate of the American Academy of Dental Sleep Medicine.

Dr. Kiwon Lee is well-recognized in the industry as one of the most experienced dental sleep medicine providers, having successfully managed more than 500 obstructive sleep apnea patients during his career and being featured as an expert on “American Health Front” on WCBS-TV, CBS, Channel 2.

Dr. Tommy Lee specializes in pediatric dentistry. He treats patients from infancy to adolescence, including children with special needs. Understanding that many dental phobias develop in early childhood, Dr. Lee will take great care to ensure your kids grow up with a positive outlook on oral health. Even the most nervous child will leave with a healthier smile under Dr. Lee’s care.

Dr. Lee earned his Doctor of Medicine in Dentistry degree at Boston University and completed his pediatric dental specialty training at Yale School of Medicine. Most major insurance accepted.

A & R Advanced Dental Group, Anna Alekseyeva, D.D.S., Roman Izmailov, D.D.S. 5C Medical Park Drive, Pomona 845-364-9400 aradvanceddental.com

At A&R Advanced Dental Group, patient satisfaction and comfort is our No. 1 priority. We are a cutting-edge practice that delivers state-of-the-art dental care to our patients. Dr. Roman Izmailov and Dr. Anna Alekseyeva have more than 30 years of experience in all phases of dentistry, including high-quality and affordable dental implants, zirconia crowns, porcelain veneers, fixed bridges, root canal treatments, teeth whitening, and composite fillings. Evening appointments are available and we accept most insurances.

Crystal Run Healthcare is a premier multispecialty group medical practice with more than 400 providers, offering the convenience of Primary Care and nearly 50 medical specialties. Our state-of-the-art West Nyack facility offers patients easy access to quality health care with more than 20 medical and surgical specialties, including adolescent medicine, pediatrics, maternal-fetal medicine, obstetrics and gynecology, including urogynecology. Our innovative facility boasts an Infusion Center, Urgent Care, diagnostic testing services, on-site laboratory services, diagnostic imaging, and women’s imaging. Crystal Run also has offices in Haverstraw, Stony Point, and Suffern.

Dr. Alpert is excited to offer drill-free, needle-free dentistry with the Solea CO2 Laser. Her practice offers comfortable cosmetic dentistry for the entire family including implants and full mouth reconstruction if necessary. Dental Wellness of Suffern provides natural, effective, quality dental care to make your visit as enjoyable, comfortable, and relaxing as possible. A parent herself, Dr. Alpert enjoys working with children who are apprehensive about the dentist, creating a fun environment with magic tricks, a wall mural, and a Find the Dental Helpers game.

Kastin Orthodontics 6 Medical Park Drive, Pomona 845-354-7233 kastinorthodontics.com drkastin09@yahoo.com

With 17 years of orthodontic experience, Dr. Brett Kastin prides his practice on conservative early treatment and cost-free childhood dental monitoring, enabling the most effective treatment possible, as well as being a knowledgeable, compassionate clinician and friend. He utilizes state-of-theart materials and customized treatment. Dr. Kastin is a certified Invisalign® provider, has been president of the Rockland County Dental Society since 2006, and was voted Rockland’s “Top Orthodontist” by the dentists of Rockland County for the past 10 years. Initial exams are complimentary, as are children’s recall appointments.

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PARTY PLACES ABRAKADOODLE ART STUDIO FOR KIDS 53 Prospect Place, Hillsdale, NJ 201-383-0027 abrakadoodle.com kroberts@abrakadoodle.com

Paint, slime, clay, and glitter are all the cool things we use at our studio! Abrakadoodle has been serving the community for more than 13 years offering Artie Parties and “no school Workshops” for ages 3 and older.

THE ACADEMY FOR MARTIAL ARTS 8 Orangetown Shopping Center, Orangeburg 845-359-4500 rocklandkarate.com 7-11 Suffern Place, Suffern 845-368-3209 martialartssuffern.com

A karate party is a great way to enter the world of martial arts. It’s also a great way for experienced students to share the martial arts with friends and family. Spacious, fully-equipped facility, an energetic, cheerful, and professional staff, and martial arts-themed fun and games.

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Bach to Rock offers birthday parties for kids of all ages and adults. Call to find out more about The Rock Birthday Party, Karaoke Birthday Party, and The Rock City Birthday Party!

CHOCOLATIER MATISSE 32 Orangetown Shopping Center, Orangeburg 845-365-0285 chocolatiermatisse.com chocolatiermatisse@gmail.com

Chocolatier Birthday Parties for girls and boys ages 3 and older. Children learn how chocolate is made and make and decorate a chocolate pizza, balloon bowl filled with dipped items, candy apples, and other hand dipped goodies to take home. You pick what your guests create.

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We offer a fully-equipped ceramics and plaster studio where children and adults let their creativity run wild.

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LAUNCH TRAMPOLINE PARK 260 West Nyack Road, West Nyack 845-977-0415 launchrockland.com

Launch Trampoline Park is a new family fun park located in West Nyack. This brand-new, state-of-the-art facility offers three private party rooms for hosting birthday parties!

PALISADES CLIMB ADVENTURE 4590 Palisades Center Drive, Level 4 of the Palisades Center, West Nyack 845-727-3500 palisadesclimb.com

Palisades Climb Adventure offers the world’s tallest indoor ropes challenge course with 75 unique challenge elements. Our Sky Tykes kids’ ropes course is designed for ages 2-7. Both courses are available for birthday parties. Book your party today!

ROCKLAND FENCERS CLUB 40 Lydecker St., Nyack 718-697-1440 rocklandfencersclub.com info@rocklandfencersclub.com

Rockland Fencers Club (RFC) is excited to announce their new Private Fencing Party Package for ages 8-16. No experience required and all necessary equipment included.

ROMP N’ ROLL 28-29 Orangetown Shopping Center, Orangeburg 845-580-9065 rompnroll.com orangeburg@rompnroll.com

Our awesome parties for kids ages 1-6 include exclusive use of gym, party room, moon bounce, rock wall, monkey bars, and bubble party. Plus games, music, and activities!

SKY ZONE ALLENDALE 80 Commerce Drive, Allendale, NJ 201-574-1800 skyzone.com/allendale

Experience “wow”–the weightlessness of bouncing, flipping, and landing into 10,000 foam cubes at Sky Zone indoor trampoline park. Call or check our website for customizable party packages.

SURGE STUDIO 285 N. Route 303 (in Colonial Plaza), Congers 845-589-0990 surgestudioarts.com info@surgestudioarts.com

Let us host a fun and customizable birthday party for your child and their friends at Surge Dance Studio. Parties consist of games, activities, pictures, choreography to the birthday guest’s favorite song, and of course pizza and cake!

TUMBLE-BEE GYMNASTICS AND FITNESS 401 Market St., Nanuet Mall South, Nanuet 845-623-2553 tumble-beegymnastics.com

boys and girls of all ages. Great party theme options include Hip-Hop Dance Party & Games Mix, Jumping Gymnastics, Disney Dance Mix, and Dress-up Princess Party!

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West Rock offers the ultimate place to hold your birthday party. Our unique and versatile facility boasts 40-foot ceilings, 26,000-square-feet of turf, two regulation-size basketball courts, six Har-Tru tennis courts, indoor bouncers, and private party room.

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To Chew and To Hold

Children who have anxiety often get a sense of relief by chewing, and the Heart Chewlery Necklace by Chewigum is the perfect way to show a little Valentine’s Day love. Made from medical-grade, FDA-approved silicone, the heart has various thicknesses around the perimeter. Plus, the opening in the middle (perfect for little fingers to grab and squeeze) gives it a dual purpose: It supports oral sensory and tactile fidget needs ($23.50; pattiandricky.com).

Better Than a Bouquet

If your kids are fascinated with plants or you want to do a little good for the environment, Sprout Pencils are just the Valentine’s Day gift to give. Once you reach the end of these nontoxic, sustainably sourced and produced pencils, you can plant them and grow sunflowers, daisies, basil, thyme, and more. That’s right; the ends of these pencils have seeds in them. Once planted, the pencil stubs act as name markers, and they’re 100-percent biodegradable (available in graphite and color; $12.95$15.95; amazon.com).

A V-Day Accessory

Little fashionistas will love this heart-shaped backpack from Parkland Mfg’s Be Mine Collection. And we love that it’s a sustainable brand; the exteriors of all available bags and accessories are made from recycled plastic bottles. Available Feb. 1, the Be Mine Collection also includes fanny packs and accessories pouches, all of which come in light pink and the pictured red with pink hearts ($24.99; parklandmfg.com).

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Personalized Pendants

New York Citybased jewelry designer, Alex Woo, makes the perfect gift for the mom or teen in your life: Little Autograph Letter and Little Letter necklaces.

Moms will surely swoon over a necklace with their children’s initials on it, while tweens and teens will love that their first “real” jewelry is a personalized bauble. Little Letters come in sterling silver, gold, white gold with diamond, or mixed metal, while Little Autograph Letters come in sterling silver, gold, and a handful of colors (starting at $98; alexwoo.com).

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