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Here Comes Summer!

• Fun Ways to Keep Kids Learning • Savvy Tips to $ave on Vacations • Awesome Activities Near You

The Daddy/Baby Bond: Real Fathers Tell All

Is Your Home Safe?

10 Things to Do Before Traveling

HELPING PARENTS MAKE BETTER DECISIONS

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16 Fun Ways to Stem the Summer Slide 20 Summer Fun Directory

Summertime Shine

Find nearby beaches, carousels, amuseument parks, and strawberry festivals for a fun June

Prep Your Home for Your Vacation Ten things to do before traveling to keep your house safe—and give you peace of mind

College Crash Course

Conversations to have with your teen before he heads off to college to ensure he has a successful four years

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 5 Things You Should Know About Traveling With Your Pet 12 Drowning Devices…and Diversions 36 The Beauty of Daddy-Baby Bonding 38 College Crash Course 40 Party Central 42 Meet the Doctor 44 Party Planner 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 Quotables

13 Freeze Style

32 Vacationing on a Budget

22 Summertime Shine

34 Prep Your Home for Your Vacation

23 Family Activities Calendar 30 Family Fun in Manhattan

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JUNE 2018 • Vol.11 • No.10

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EDITORIAL

Summer, We’ve Missed You!

EDITORIAL DIRECTOR: Deborah Skolnik MANAGING EDITOR: Katelin Walling ENGAGEMENT EDITOR: Samantha Neudorf ASSISTANT EDITOR: Melissa Wickes

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inter felt like it would never end. And then when it finally, finally did, the rain started. So we’re making no apologies for being extra-psyched for summer this year! That’s right: It’s time to haul out the cooler, unfold the lounge chairs, fire up the grill, and…did you think I was going to say relax? Come on, you’ve got kids!

If you slack off, your children probably will too. Research shows that on average in summer they lose a month’s worth of the knowledge they acquired during the school year. But don’t worry, we’ve got an easy solution: Turn to p. 16 to read “Fun Ways to Stem the Summer Slide” by Christina Vercelletto. It features eight fascinating places where kids can learn something new while having a uniquely entertaining time.

And how about overnight trips? Chances are you’re hoping to go on one with the fam this season. It can be tricky to plan a relaxing getaway that doesn’t put some stress on your finances, though. That’s why we hit up leading travel experts for their best moneysaving advice, shared in Melissa Wickes’ piece “Vacationing on a Budget” on p. 32. Read it and you’ll learn about secret sources of affordable travel packages, credit-card tricks that earn you deep discounts, and more. But don’t hit the road just yet! First have a look at “Prep Your Home for Your Vacation” on p. 34—security experts shared their best tips on how to keep your home burglarproof even while you’re away.

Of course we haven’t forgotten about Father’s Day. Dad power is a very real thing, and Jennie Russo’s feature, “The Beauty of Daddy-Baby Bonding” on p. 36, proves it. She got four real dads to dish on what makes fathers feel close to their newborns, and the things they did to build that all-important feeling of attachment. Speaking of powerful attachments, if you have a college-bound kid, you’re probably feeling kind of misty about his impending departure. Don’t miss “College Crash Course” (p. 38) by Caitlin Sawicki.

It gives the lowdown on some very important conversations you need to have with your child to assure his success as he heads for higher education.

Valerie Goldstein discusses how she got schooled—in the art of unplugging, that is—in her hilarious and touching essay, “Drowning Devices…and Diversions” on p. 12. When her toddler dropped her phone in the toilet, Valerie lost all her contacts for a while—but found herself in closer touch with her children and her sense of inner peace.

One last thing I want to mention: Time’s almost up for you to enter our contest to get your child on the cover of our magazines. Doesn’t your cutie deserve a shot at fame— and doesn’t your whole family deserve a great, FREE vacation? That’s the grand prize, and there’s more besides. Entering is easy—go to nymetroparents.com/covercontest and upload a favorite photo of your child, ages 2-16. Good luck!

Hoping your month is the very picture of happiness.

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Who: Phoneix Aquatic Club What’s New: A move to the indoor, heated pool at the HNA Palisades Conference Center, which is where the club’s Learn to Swim summer lessons will be held.

Lessons will take place on Saturdays and Sundays in three month-long sessions from May to July. Children ages 4 and older are welcome to register, and parents may enroll their kids in one of four levels according to prior swimming experience. Instructors will assess swimmers on the first day and move them to a more appropriate level if need be. Little to no experience is required in levels two and three.

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Who: Meals on Wheels What’s New: Two new programs for older adults with Alzheimer’s disease and other memory loss disorders, which are now offered at Meals on Wheels Adult Day Care in Nanuet.

The new activities aim to increase cognitive and physical stimulation through horticulture and exercise. Seniors can enjoy lunch and a range of activities each day, including arts and crafts, Zumba, music and art therapy, and tai chi. Transportation is available to and from the facility.

Developed in partnership with the Master Gardener Program of Cornell Cooperative Extension, the collective “growing wall” allows seniors to plant herbs. Herbs have the potential to create certain memory triggers.

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Who: Color Me Mine What’s New: The location inside the Palisades Mall, which the established world-wide pottery studio opened in March.

Painters can choose from plates, bowls, mugs, and even banks.

The studio offers workshops for all ages.

‘Kids Night Out’ occurs once a month and allows parents to drop off their children and enjoy a night out. Children ages 6 and older can watch a movie, have snacks, and paint. In June, Color Me Mine will host Muffins with Mom to paint gifts in time for Father’s Day. Want More Info: 3770 Palisades Center Drive, West Nyack; 845-358-5050; nyack.colormemine.com

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Paint Your Own Pottery Studio Opens in Palisades Mall

Children can choose from a variety of pottery options to paint and take home.

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5 Things You Should Know About Traveling With Your Pet ››

By Bethany Braun-Silva and Jeff Weber, D.V.M.

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f you’ll be enjoying a getaway this summer, make sure to include everyone’s favorite family member…your pet! As overwhelming as traveling with a cat or dog may seem, it’s totally doable if you take a few simple steps to prepare. Jeff Weber, D.V.M., renowned veterinarian and pet parenting specialist, lists five things every family should know about traveling with their furry friend.

The more comfortable your pet is with being transported, the easier the trip will be. If you’ll be taking a road trip, acclimate him to car rides through brief practice runs. Once the drive is complete, give praise and a treat. Increase the time gradually so he becomes accustomed to being on the road. Use this same approach to get your pet used to a carrier or crate, putting her inside for ever-longer intervals and giving rewards.

Make a thorough packing list. You’ll want to take along the essentials, of course, such as a leash, food bowl, any medications your pet needs, and a favorite toy. But don’t forget important documents as well such as your pet’s medical records and emergency information. Double-check that your pet’s collar-tag has your contact information in case you get separated, and that you have a photo of her on hand. Consider packing medications or supplements to help your pet with car or motion sickness; consult your veterinarian first, though. If you’re traveling with a cat take along a traveling litter box, and since dogs have sensitive GI tracts, fill a gallon jug with your local water. (At every stop, fill the jug back to the top so that new water is gradually introduced, always mixing with your local water supply.)

Always keep pets restrained in a car—either with a harness attached to a seat belt, or a pet carrier anchored in a seat belt.

Pets running freely in a car distract the driver. Cats should be contained in a seatbelt-secured pet crate. Try to plan stops around feeding times (and, for dogs, for bathroom breaks).

When stopping, make sure to connect the leash to your pet’s collar before opening car door—pets have a tendency to bolt when in strange locations. Never leave your pet in a parked car.

A parked car with a panting, nervous dog inside can get very hot, very quickly.

If you’re traveling by air, understand your airline’s pet policies. Not all airlines allow pets; others limit the number of animals per flight, in cabin and in cargo. Be sure your pet’s physical condition is compatible with flight. Discuss illnesses, injuries, and health risks (e.g., if your dog is very old, young, or pregnant) with your veterinarian. Certain breeds, such as collies and pugs, have special respiratory considerations.

If you’ll be staying with friends or family, let them know you’re bringing the four-legged kids too. There may be a resident dog or cat that might not be so welcoming. Make sure to bring some new toys and help out with pet-related chores. If you’re staying at a hotel, check ahead whether pet-friendly rooms are available and on the size of dog allowed.

Find out in advance what kinds of pet-friendly activities you can enjoy at your destination, such as hiking and visiting agility courses. With proper planning and preparedness, traveling with your pets can be great fun and hassle-free!

A graduate of the University of California Davis Veterinary School, Jeff Weber, D.V.M., established his Los Angeles-based clinic, Century Veterinary Group, in 1988. Dr. Weber cares for the pets of Hollywood’s biggest stars, including Eva Longoria, the Jonas Brothers, Lori McLoughlin, Demi Moore, Emmy Rossum, and Magic Johnson, along with those of everyday pet owners.

Dr. Weber has translated a childhood love of pets into a career committed to raising and shaping national awareness of the importance of high-quality pet care. To learn more about Dr. Weber, visit drjeff.com.

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Drowning Devices…and Diversions ›› How I became a more mindful parent when my daughter flushed my phone

By Valerie Goldstein

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t has been awhile since my cellphone took a memorable dive into the toilet. My then 14-month-old daughter took it, unbeknownst to me, and decided to play with it in the toilet like a sprightly kitten. Within the 2 minutes it took for me to give my son antibiotics for strep throat, that little nugget let my cellular device sink to the bottom of the bowl to its final porcelain resting place. She flushed my memories and contacts, but managed to give me a newfound freedom.

I did not possess one single ounce of anger or frustration (I could never be mad at that face, anyhow). I just prayed my photos from the past two years could somehow be restored. Who backs up their phone, right? Sigh. I envisioned myself without my phone for a couple of days. I didn’t have any upcoming phone conferences, so survival was possible.

In the first 24 hours sans phone, I would reach into my empty pocket to text someone, or want to take a photo of my children to preserve the memory. By day two, I lost the urge to do my daily Facebook check or read the news from a tiny screen. Not once did I hear, “Mommy, look at me!” I was already present and watching. There was no need to glance down at a text message, or investigate why I was receiving a “ping” every other minute. Oh, those group chats... I felt as if I were more tuned in to each child, and truly able to give each one my full attention.

In the couple of weeks following my phone’s complete engulfment into the washroom water abyss, each child made great strides. My then 4-year-old started reading three-letter words, my then 3-year-old was able to identify all of his shapes, as well as half of his letters and numbers, and my then 14-month-old said “purple” and something that resembles “caterpillar”. We regularly spend a great deal of time reading together, but for those few weeks, I was able to spend more time reading to them individually, as well as focusing on their age-appropriate skills. I could not help but wonder: Was my lack of phone contributing to these

Valerie Goldstein with her family

milestones? In addition, it felt like our 1-on-1 cuddle times were longer, and we spoke about the highlights of our day in detail.

Not to mention, our finger painting and rock-finding explorations were more frequent.

My mom commented that I seemed more relaxed without my cellphone. I felt less tense by not reading stress-inducing posts on social media sites or foreboding articles that made me fret. I found myself reading tangible articles, and reveling in the smell and touch of paper, like I always have (National Geographic Traveler is my newfound love). I checked Facebook on a couple of occasions, but my broken iPad is slower than the dial-up AOL I used in high school.

I’m glad it’s as slow as molasses because I think my mind had been craving a much-needed break from social media and other nonsensical outlets. I think we all need this, whether you have children or not.

Exactly three weeks after the incidental immersion, I received my new phone. While my contacts took an additional week to be restored, I was finally able to look up anything in an instant.

Surprisingly, I did not touch it until the following day. Maybe it’s like after Hurricane Sandy, when I still sat in the dark even though the power was restored. I was used to not having power for 14 days, so it took time for me to register that I could finally turn the lights on. I had grown used to not having my phone on me at all times, and deep down, I know I had a couple of great weeks without it. I did not miss the interruptions, or having my attention diverted from the important things in life.

With a phone back in my life, I am going to strive to put away electronic devices until my children are asleep. My objective will continue to be more mindful, present, and living in the here and now with my family. They are my everything, and each precious moment does not necessarily need to be captured through the lens of my phone. The sights, sounds, and sensations I take in by being in the moment will far surpass dozens of digital prints I deem as being perfect.

Valerie Goldstein is a freelance writer who lives in Northport with her husband and three children, ages 5, 4, and 2. She conducts presentations for preschool and elementary students on disabilities and those with different abilities to promote social awareness and inspire discussions on acceptance and diversity. She has been published in Woman’s Day and ADVANCE for Occupational Therapy Practitioners. She writes about being a mother with disabilities and other inspiring topics at myfiretoinspire.blogspot.com.

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Freeze Style

Nothing screams summertime and fun camp days to us quite like tie-dyeing T-shirts, but we’re ready for a new take on the multicolored tops. Enter Kid Made Modern’s galaxy-like T-shirt, which uses frozen cubes of dye that have been smashed up with a hammer. So prepare your materials and head outside for an afternoon of custom T-shirt making fun!

You will need: • Dye

• Hammer

• Ice cube trays

• Cloth for hammering

• Plastic sandwich bags

• Washed T-shirt

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Step 1: Prepare dye colors and freeze them in ice cube trays.

Place the frozen cubes in plastic bags.

Step 2: Place the cloth on top of the bag and lightly break the cubes apart with the hammer.

Step 3: This part can get messy so best to do this outside.

Sprinkle the frozen dye onto the T-shirt as you like.

Step 4: Continue sprinkling the frozen dye onto the T-shirt until your design is complete.

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Step 5: Watch the dye diffuse and blend and then shake the dye off when you feel the design is finished. Rinse and “set” per the dye instructions on the box.

Project and images courtesy Kid Made Modern

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16 F un Ways to Stem the Summer Slide: Eight educational day trips to keep your kids entertained while learning all season long.

20 S ummer Fun Directory: Find summer classes, programs, activities, and excursions in Rockland County.

Photos courtesy New York State Department of Environmental Conservation

Fun Ways to Stem the

Summer Slide

›› Keep your kids entertained while learning something new all season long. By Christina Vercelletto

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ummer vacation. Those two words conjure up the happiest, most carefree memories of childhood. But aside from lazy, hazy days, summer brings something else: a phenomenon experts call “summer slide.” On average, student achievement scores decline over summer vacation by one month as compared to where they were in June, states a report by the Brookings Institution. And the loss was larger at middle and high school grades than in elementary school.

These days, between camp, vacations, birthday parties, and sports, kids don’t have much time to reinforce the academic skills they learned during the school year. And even if they did, there’s no way you’re actually going to make your kid do math worksheets instead of hitting the beach.

So, however understandable the summer learning loss is, the result is kids, and their teachers, have to play catch-up in September.

What’s a fun-minded, but achievement-conscious, parent to do?

Compromise, of course. We scoured our region to identify fascinating places you can take the kids that have an educational spin, yet still have that “school’s out!” vibe. No matter where you live, or what your kid’s personality is like, you’ll find the perfect idea on this list.

If he’s a nature-lover, explore Piermont Marsh & Pier Piermont, Rockland County dec.ny.gov A federal estuarine sanctuary, the Piermont Marsh (pictured above) spans 2 miles on the western shore of the Tappan Zee. “The pier is a great scenic 16

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walk and has a lot of history,” says Stephanie Mullen, a mom in Blauvelt.

Families can hike or bike the trails, kayak, or canoe. If you have a license, you can fish or crab off the mile-long pier while taking in views of the Hudson River and Palisades Ridge. Birds are everywhere; during the summer, keep an eye out for species such as double-crested cormorants, ruddy ducks, blue jays, yellow-rumped warblers, and bald eagles. Harbor seals and snapping turtles have also been spotted in the area. If you’d like to bring a picnic lunch, it’s allowed at adjacent Tallman Mountain State Park.

There’s also a fascinating historical aspect to this destination.

During World War II, more than half a million soldiers left for Europe from the pier, and those who came home returned directly to it. Every Memorial Day, a three-story high “watchfire” is lit for 24 hours at the end of the pier to symbolically light the way home for the soldiers who perished in the conflict.

If she says math is boring, visit National Museum of Mathematics 11 E. 26th St., Nomad, Manhattan momath.org Some kids can get turned off to math when they associate it with dull drills to find the right answer. The antidote? Seeing math for what it is: the patterns that undergird the world around us. Enter “MoMath” with its more than 30 interactive exhibits, including a laser beam “wall,” a Jumbotron floor that illuminates the spatial relationship of everyone standing

on it, a design studio for creating 3-D designs, and a café devoted to digital puzzles. And good luck dragging your kids away from Robot Swarm, an interactive exhibit that has glowing, robotic creatures that resemble crabs reacting to their every move based on one of several directives.

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If he has a big imagination, head to Old Bethpage Village Restoration 1303 Round Swamp Road, Bethpage, Nassau County, Long Island obvrnassau.com Long Island kids have been taking field trips to this Colonial Williamsburg-esque hamlet, snacking on root beer and pretzels at the Noon Inn bar and buying candy sticks at the Layton General Store, since the 1970s. The authentic homes and shops—the oldest built in 1730—will entrance any kid who likes to imagine what life was like in another time. A blacksmith hammers away in his shop, while across the way the hatter is putting the finishing touches on a man’s chapeau. Women are sewing and knitting, candles are being made, pottery is being shaped, and tin is being worked into housewares.

The village runs special programs year-round. Two of the most popular in the summer are the Civil War encampment weekends and baseball games played using 1860 rules and equipment. “Jack, who’s in little league, loved watching this old-time game!” shares Melissa Koehler of Seaford. If your kid is really enamored of the whole experience when you visit, you may want to sign him up for one of the summer “Junior Apprentice” weeks. He’ll go to school in an 1845 schoolhouse, make ice cream with a crank, do farm chores, make a scarecrow (a necessity, not a decoration), play 1860s games, and take part in military drills, something even 10-year-olds did back then.

If she thinks libraries are just for books, spend time at Brooklyn Public Library, Central Branch 10 Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights, Brooklyn bklynlibrary.org If your child stopped asking to go to the library when she was 5, this is the perfect place to reignite her interest. The Central Branch in Brooklyn, a 1941 art deco landmark, is on the National Register of Historic Places. It rivals the better-known New York Public Library in the wow-factor, thanks to the 50-foot-high entry portico and 15 bronze sculptures of famous characters and authors of American literature.

Far from being a storehouse of books overseen by a shushing librarian, BPL will surprise and delight any kid who hasn’t been to a library in a while. The Tech Loft houses 27 computers for children ages 16 and younger. The Universal Maker Space will inspire kids to put down their phone (for a few minutes, anyway) and get creative. With a parent’s supervision, kids can take over the amateur recording studio, equipped with an iMac editing workstation, DSLR camera, and microphone, to make their own audio or video masterpiece. High school students can learn new computer skills in a two-week summer technology institute, and then help patrons use library computers (fulfilling school community service requirements and polishing up college applications).

Before you go, duck into the Popular Library department and introduce your kid to ancient relics: a typewriter and a phone book.

If he’s not interested unless it’s digital, visit New York Hall of Science 47-01 111th St., Corona, Queens nysci.org Presented in the Great Hall, Connected Worlds is an exhibit that shows kids, in real time, how even their slightest movements impact the rest of planet Earth. Six environments are fed by a 38-foot-high waterfall that flows across an interactive floor. It’ll be crystal-clear how what we do here has repercussions across the world, and vice versa.

Mini (15-minute) interactive science demonstrations are happening throughout the summer, during which NYSCI Explainers demonstrate easy-to-grasp experiments in chemistry, physics, and biology. continued on next page ››

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Summer Arts Day Camp June 25-August 17, 2018 3 or 5 days per week 2, 4, 6, or 8 week sessions grades K-9 Hudson River Museum offers fun art workshops for all ages.

Fine Arts l Swimming l Yoga Nature Trails l Dance l Theater Arts ROCKLAND CENTER FOR THE ARTS 27 s greenbush rd, w nyack, ny 10994 (845) 358-0877 www.rocklandartcenter.org

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If she hates art class, walk around Hudson River Museum 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers, Westchester County hrm.org Does your child think art period is a waste of time? Give her a boost (and make next year angst-free) with a visit to Hudson River Museum. The three summer exhibits running concurrently showcase art that isn’t exactly traditional.

Force Field displays the work of Brooklyn artist Christine Hiebert: line drawings, made with charcoal, graphite, and ink, and even dirt.

Artist Ellen Kozak and composer Scott D. Miller collaborated on Riverthatflowsbothways, a four-channel video installation. Taking its name from the translation of the Native American word for the Hudson River, the videos don’t show scenic views or much realism at all, but instead have viewers feeling the movement of a river.

Variations on a Theme displays the minimalist art of Donald Judd, a collection of 16 etchings. Judd wanted his art to be self-evident, meaning whatever the viewer sees is what it is. Your child will go home knowing she can be an artist after all.

Among the permanent exhibits, Red Grooms: The Bookstore, a funky, immersive, pop-art installation, is a kid magnet. “Every time we went there, Grace made a beeline for The Bookstore,” recalls Darcy Falcone, a mom of two in New Rochelle.

If Stephen Hawking was his hero, go to The Vanderbilt Reichert Planetarium 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport, Suffolk County, Long Island vanderbiltmuseum.org Long Island parents with a kid who’s into astronomy need not truck in to the Upper West Side for stellar educational fun. The Vanderbilt’s Reichert Planetarium recently got a $4-million makeover. The theater offers top-notch educational programs for families, some developed by the most prestigious planetariums around the world. The sky shows recreate celestial events before your eyes on a 60-foot dome.

“The Vanderbilt has been one of our go-tos for ages,” says Ruthie Bein, a mom of four in Babylon. “And when you’re done with the planetarium, there’s an interesting museum and mansion on the same beautiful property.”

The rooftop observatory is open every Friday night, weather permitting. Led by a professional astronomy educator, you and your kids can look deep into the night sky through the Vanderbilt’s 16-inch Meade reflecting telescope.

Christina Vercelletto, a former editor at NYMetroParents, Parenting, Scholastic Parent & Child, and Woman’s Day, lives on Long Island with her kids, a chiweenie, Pickles, and a 20-pound calico, Chub-Chub.

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Summer fun ACTIVITIES & EXCURSIONS

Jill’s Ceramics

180 Germonds Road, West Nyack 845-623-4975 jillceramics.com jillsceramics@aol.com Looking for a creative and fun summer activity for your group or family? You can schedule field trips to our fully equipped ceramics and plaster studio in West Nyack, or we can schedule a program to be held at your location. Sportsthemed items, piggy banks, jewelry boxes, and Disney characters are just a few of the many choices from our paint-and-take items. All age groups, very affordable rates; call for details. We also offer open ceramic hours weekly for individuals and groups over the summer.

Call ahead to confirm large groups and check current hours.

Land of Make Believe

354 Great Meadows Road, Route 611, Hope, NJ 908-459-9000; lomb.com The No. 1 Amusement Park in North Jersey is the perfect day trip destination! A magical amusement park and a pirate-themed state-ofthe-art water park feature short lines, free parking, low prices, and awesome family fun. Ride the Scream Machine 360, our Ultimate New Thrill Experience this season! Bring your own food and enjoy our beautiful picnic grove. Safe, wholesome, family atmosphere is just minutes away.

Open Memorial Day weekend and weekends in June, then open daily, 10am-6pm, from June 16-Sept. 3.

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Party Animals

1302 Palisades Center Drive Palisades Mall, 1st floor near Best Buy, West Nyack 914-336-0144; partyanimalsonline.com Party Animals offers an indoor, air-conditioned play space where your kids can escape rainy or too hot days this summer with fun daily activities for both boys and girls at reasonable pricing. We provide plush animal rides for kids to drive around. Our drop-in arts and crafts activities include canvas painting, paint a pet rock (owl, frog, turtle), paint a stuffed animal (elephant, penguin, kangaroo, monkey),

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necklace or bracelet making, paint small wood toys (cars, planes), and sand art. Stop by and let your child’s creativity go wild.

Wild West City

50 Lackawanna Drive, Stanhope, NJ 973-347-8900; wildwestcity.com Come on down to Wild West City: the perfect place for a fun, unique, and educational day trip for all. We have a number of special events and shows that are sure to be hits with the entire family. Wild West City is a western heritage theme park that brings the old west back to life through portrayals of real-life western characters, legendary events, and a frontier town re-creation.

Featuring 22 different live-action shows throughout the course of the day, we offer visitors the chance to “live” in the old west!

PROGRAMS & CLASSES

The Academy For Martial Arts

8 Orangetown Shopping Center, Orangeburg 845-359-4500 theacademyformartialarts.com Every kid should learn self-defense.

It’s like learning to swim: It’s a lot of fun and it can save your life.

Your child can receive self-defense training, get fit, and improve their focus and self-confidence—all while having a great time this summer at The Academy For Martial Arts Summer Camp. In addition to learning karate and jiu-jitsu, we’ll offer plenty of other activities to keep them active and entertained all summer long: dodgeball and other games, big screen movies, and arts and crafts. Enroll in advance, by the week. Space is limited. Call for more information.

Camp registration is now open.

Bach to Rock - Nanuet

150 E. Route 59, Nanuet 845-215-9536 nanuet.b2rmusic.com B2R’s unique Summer Camp approach makes it possible for students with no previous musical training to be rocking out with a band or singing in Glee in a matter of hours. Bands and groups are coordinated by age, grade, and/ or ability level. Bands or group ensembles learn a variety of classic rock and current pop songs, and even compose original music. All

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students perform in a weekly concert, record in our state-of-the-art studios, and leave with a digitally mastered CD of songs recorded by their band or group ensemble.

Brilliant Minds Daycare and Learning Center

67 N. Little Tor Road, New City 845-535-9658 brilliantmindsdaycare.com myra@brilliantmindsdaycare.com We are a NYS-licensed day care and learning center for children ages 6 weeks to 5 years and after-school care for children ages 12 and younger. We will be offering full- and part-day summer hours for children of all ages. We nurture all aspects of a child’s development and include specialized activities in order to fully engage your child, such as baking, Spanish, dance, yoga and exercise, science experiments, daily outdoor play (weather permitting), learning centers equipped with iPads and computers, dramatic play, and art.

Flexible scheduling to fit your needs.

Danceworks

69 Lake Road, Congers 845-268-4669 Danceworks will be offering a Craft and Dance Camp this summer. The program will be for kids going into first and second grades and will be held from July 9-Aug. 3. Please call our studio at 845-268-4669 for day and time availability. Danceworks specializes in children—encouraging a friendly and non-competitive atmosphere.

Glaze Pottery and Art Studio

34 Orangeburg Plaza, Orangeburg 845-359-9020; glazeartstudio.com Unleash your child’s inner artist at Glaze Pottery and Art Studio during our Summer Art Experience. Our resident artist will take your child on a journey that will produce artwork from Disney and a host of themes including tie-dye, jewelry, and outer space. Flexible registration makes it easy to sign up for one week or all seven! Become part of the Glaze family this summer. For children in first-sixth grades. Check our website or call for more information.

Joffrey Ballet School

434 Sixth Ave., 5th Floor, Manhattan 888-438-3808 joffreyballetschool.com The Joffrey Ballet School offers

classes in Musical Theater, HipHop, Jazz, Contemporary Ballet, and more. We specialize in dancers ranging in age from 2-18. We also offer superb adult evening dance fitness classes. The Musical Theater classes for kids are instructed by actual Broadway stars. Come and experience our more than 60 years of excellence in dance training. You will love the way we care for your child’s dance training.

Come and grow with us.

Moon River Mother And Child Music Together classes in Nyack and Sparkill 201-247-0052 moonrivermotherandchild.com director@moonrivermotherandchild.com Come join us for 45 minutes of pure fun with your family this summer! Moon River Mother And Child is a center for the world-renowned early childhood music program, Music Together, here in Rockland County. Music Together provides developmentally appropriate music and movement classes for babies, toddlers, and preschoolers…and the grown-ups that love them. Our summer session begins July 10, with classes in Nyack and Sparkill. For more information, visit moonrivermotherandchild.com or contact director Catherine Rubin at 201-247-0052.

New City School of Music

12 N. Main St., New City 845-709-8383 newcitymusicschool.com Is your child singing all of the time? Singing around the house, in the car, just jamming non-stop?

If so, you’re lucky and they’re trying to tell you something! Kids that sing a lot, dance, tap on furniture, or love to hold toy guitars are sending you some strong signals that they want to play music!

The New City School of Music is Rockland’s most awarded music school and offers music lessons to students of all ages on piano, guitar, voice, drums, violin, saxophone, flute, and clarinet! Register now for summer music lessons!

Palisades Country Day Camp

248 Herbert Ave., Closter, NJ 201-784-7600 x3 palisadescountryday.com It’s all about fun at Palisades Country Day Camp in Closter, NJ!

Bergen County’s No. 1 summer day camp for toddlers (18 months) through second-graders ensures that every child has the opportunity to grow socially, emotionally, physically, and intellectually. Campers enjoy three heated pools with twisty slides, two drenching splash parks, a triple-decker playground, and amazing daily activities. Gated community for Tiny Tots, swim lessons, recreational swim, special events, themed weeks including petting zoos, and magic shows. Before and after care, 1-on-1 swim lessons, and busing available at additional cost.

Phoenix Aquatic Club

Lessons held at HNA Palisade Conference Center 334 Route 9W, Palisades 845-708-5349; phoenixaquatic.com PAC will be offering swim lessons in our new location at HNA Palisade Conference Center. HNA pool provides a warm-water facility just right for swim lessons. Lessons are guided by certified USA Swimming Coaches. Each instructor is trained to teach a progress of skills that will enhance your child’s swimming ability. We offer small group instructor-to-child ratio for the younger swimmers in Level 2 and 3. Our Level 4 and Pre-Team programs are great for children interested in swimming, but not in a yearlong program. Competitive swimming and Master’s program available year-round.

RoCA Summer Camp/Rockland Center for the Arts

Amy Alinkofsky, camp director 27 S. Greenbush Road, West Nyack 845-358-0877 x18 rocklandartcenter.org

amy@rocklandartcenter.org Camp RoCA—where children explore their creativity and imaginations while developing skills they can use throughout their lives—is a place for developing artists to explore various art forms in our studio-based activities. RoCA features one of the region’s most comprehensive art programs.

Under the guidance of teaching artists, campers explore art in an environment where cooperation, personal development, and self-esteem are encouraged. Join us and see why RoCA is one of the area’s most unique and praised day camps. Available five or three days a week; two, four, six, or eight weeks from June 25-Aug. 17.

rocklandtheatreco@yahoo.com Rockland Theatre Company summer programs provide children from second grade through high school the opportunity to participate in a fun and educational theater environment. Staffed by professional and certified instructors, each child is guided through all aspects of acting, dancing, and singing. The two- and three-week programs culminate into professional productions. This summer we will be performing Seussical Kids for second-fifth grades and The Wizard of Oz (Young Performers Edition), Junior Cast (fifth-eighth grades) and Senior Cast (sixth to 12th grades). Please go to our website for details and to register.

Rockland Fencers Club

West Rock Indoor Sports and Entertainment Complex

40 Lydecker St., Nyack 718-697-1440 rocklandfencersclub.com info@rocklandfencersclub.com Join the nationally top ranked Rockland Fencers Club Summer Program for ages 8-16. Day camps starting at $425 a week (9am-4pm).

No experience required and all necessary equipment included. The 6,000-square-foot, fully air-conditioned facility is conveniently located in downtown Nyack. RFC’s highly qualified, international coaching staff includes former national team members. The club offers group and private classes six days a week for all levels and ages. Visit our website, email, or call for more information.

Rockland Theatre Company RTC Kids Summer

67 Walter Drive, Stony Point 845-548-6699 rocklandtheatrecompany.com

Acting Workshops For Kids of All Ages!

• Learn acting fundamentals in a creative environment • Gain confidence – by contributing to the process • PRIVATE COACHING • COLLEGE PREP / PRESCREENS • Creating original theatre & performances for all ages!

8 Second Street, New City | 845-708-2288 clarkstowntheatrecompany.com

7 New Lake Road, Valley Cottage 845-268-7532 wholenesscenterny.com hello@wholenesscenterny.com In addition to birthday parties, yoga, arts and crafts classes, and Pathfinder for Young Boys, The Wholeness Center of Rockland will be offering fun summer classes and programs for kids this year! Visit our website or call for more information. The Wholeness Center is a whole place devoted to you! A place to receive support, feel inspired, and restore a sense of balance. We help to guide, while holding loving space, which allows everyone to open and connect to their wholeness. Stop in our beautiful, newly renovated facility for a tour.

Young Chefs Academy of New City

21 Pralle Lane, Nanuet 845-623-3636; westrockindoor.com Our All Sports Summer Camp features fun-filled instruction and encompasses various sports and games. Friday special theme days include Color War, Relay Races, Field Day, and Olympics! Our Basketball Summer Camp focuses specifically on basketball skills. All campers, regardless of age and athletic ability, will improve their conditioning, while honing existing sports skills.

We emphasize fun and learning good sportsmanship in a positive, social setting. State-of-the-art air-conditioned facility, six Har-Tru tennis courts, two regulation-size basketball courts, and four indoor turf fields (26,000 square feet).

Flexible schedules, extended hours, multi-week discounts, and lunch options available.

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59 S. Main St., New City 845-638-0601 newcityny.youngchefsacademy.com newcityny@youngchefsacademy.com At Young Chefs Academy, your kids can attend a camp program where they gain useful culinary skills, new friendships, original YCA recipes, and memories to utilize and last a lifetime!

Camp Can-I-Cook themes for Summer 2018 include It’s a Summer Party (June 25-28), International Culinary Tour (July 2, 3, 5, 6), YCA Showdown: Baking Edition (July 9-12), Summertime Treats (July 16-19), The Cupcake Shoppe (July 23-26), Summer Road Trip (July 30-Aug. 2), YCA Showdown: Secret Ingredient Edition (Aug. 6-9), YCA Showdown (Aug. 20-23), and YCA Showdown: Baking Edition (Aug. 27-30). Flexible options for one or more weeks. Member and sibling discounts available.

OPEN ENROLLMENT 2018 • NYS Licensed Facility • Daycare for Ages 6 weeks – 5 yrs • Flexible Hours to Fit Your Schedule • After School & Holiday Break Care for Children up to 12 yrs • Learning Center Equipped with Ipads & Computers • Full & Part Time Summer Program • We Follow NYS Pre-k Curriculum • Fun activities including baking, dance, yoga/exercise, science experiments, daily outdoor play (weather permitting), dramatic play, Spanish and Art.

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It’s finally summer, which means it’s time to do all of your favorite outdoor activities! Nothing screams summer quite like that first drive to the beach to sit in the sand and dip your toes in the ocean. Summer also means trips to amusement parks or carousels (if your child is not ready to take on the big roller coasters).

Finally, June marks the beginning of strawberry season, with festivals and fairs happening in and around the New York City area. Grab your hat, sunscreen, and plenty of water, and get out there to enjoy the warm weather because school’s out for summer!

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Bear Mountain State Park Carousel Route 9W North, Bear Mountain 845-786-2731; parks.ny.gov/parks/13/details.aspx Hours: Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm Price: $2 per ride Built in 2001, the carousel is located on the southwest side of the baseball field. The 42-seat ride features detailed portrayals of local animals such as turkeys, deer, bobcats, rabbits, and black bears.

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Harriman State Park/Bear Mountain Park Bear Mountain 845-786-2701 (Bear Mountain office); parks.ny.gov Hours: Vary by area Cost: $10 parking per vehicle; some additional pool fees apply.

Attractions: Thirty-one lakes and reservoirs, more than 200 miles of hiking trails, two beaches, two public camping areas, plus miles of streams and scenic roads and scores of wildlife species, vistas, and vantage points. Bear Mountain also has a small zoo with animals native to the area.

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BEACHES

Dragon Coaster is one of Playland Park’s oldest and most iconic roller coasters.

AMUSEMENT PARKS

Beacon Strawberry Festival Beacon Riverfront Park, 2 Red Flynn Drive, Beacon 845-463-4660; beaconsloopclub.org Hours: Sunday, June 10, 12-5pm The Beacon Sloop Club will host its Strawberry Festival for another sweet season. Enjoy ripe and juicy strawberries and other sweet treats. Listen to live music and help raise money for the environment and other important issues as you socialize with locals and friends.

Playland Park 100 Playland Parkway, Rye 914-813-7010; playlandpark.org Hours: May 12-Sept. 3, hours vary; see website.

Price: Pay-one-price admission: $30 (includes all rides); $20 for children shorter than 48 inches; $10 for spectators; free for children younger than 2. Westchester County residents receive $5 off with proof of residency.

Along with many rides, Rye Playland has a beach, pool, boardwalk, and pier with lake boating, picnic area, and mini golf. There are fireworks every Friday night in the summer, starting in July.

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the eight events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Touch-A-Truck at Clarkstown Farmers’ Market FREE

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WHEN: Saturday, June 2, 10am-1pm WHERE: Traphagen Park, 131 Germonds Road, West Nyack AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Children will have a hands-on opportunity to be able to explore police, fire, emergency, highway, and heavy machinery. Then stop by the market for fresh local produce and goods every Saturday.

WHY WE LOVE IT: A perfect morning for curious little truck-lovers.

WANT TO GO? 845-639-6200. town.clarkstown.ny.us.

Newburgh Illuminated Festival

WHEN: Saturday, June 2, 12-10pm WHERE: Downtown Newburgh, Broadway and Liberty Street, Newburgh AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy art, music, dance, poetry, food, and more at this festival featuring several performance stages, vendors, activities for kids, and Colorfest.

WHY WE LOVE IT: A fun celebration of history and community.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. newburghilluminatedfestival.com.

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JerseyFest Food Truck Mash Up

WHEN: Saturday, June 2, 12pm WHERE: Meadowlands Racing & Entertainment, 1 Racetrack Drive, East Rutherford, NJ AGES: All WHAT: The fun includes the best food trucks from New Jersey and Philadelphia, a live DJ, kids activities, and more.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The perfect excuse to eat our way through the weekend.

WANT TO GO? $8; $5 advance tickets; free for children younger than 5. 201-843-2446. thebigm.com.

Children’s Earth & Water Festival

WHEN: Saturday, June 2, 11am-5pm WHERE: Thomas Bull Memorial Park, Day Camp Site, 93 Grove St., Montgomery AGES: All WHAT: There will be water conservation educators, baby animals, turtles and other cute critters, games, and lots of fun educational activities, plus more than 70 vendors, food, live music, and entertainment.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It takes a village to raise responsible little citizens.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. 845-615-3868. waterauthority.orangecountygov.com.

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Ocean Conservation Day

WHEN: Saturday, June 9, 11am-2pm WHERE: Bergen County Zoo, 216 Forest Ave., Paramus, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Learn how to help and preserve our oceans and its wildlife. There will be lessons, stories, crafts, and more.

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WANT TO GO? $8; $5 children ages 3-14; $2 seniors. 201-262-3771. co.bergen.nj.us.

Father’s Day Hike

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WHEN: Sunday, June 17, 1-3pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Father’s Day with a guided walk outdoors, whether you’re an outdoor enthusiast or just hoping to spend some quality time with Dad. WHY WE LOVE IT: A walk is the perfect activity to celebrate this special family day.

WANT TO GO? $6; free for children younger than 2 and dads.

201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

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State Fair Meadowlands

WHEN: June 21-July 8, Monday-Friday, 5pm-1am; Saturday-Sunday, 2pm-2am WHERE: MetLife Stadium, 1 MetLife Stadium Drive, East Rutherford, NJ AGES: All WHAT: With more than 150 rides and attractions, everyone will have plenty to do. Take a ride on the area’s only Sky Ride or a ride in the original Batcopter, and enjoy more than 50 food vendors serving up delicious meals, snacks, and sweets.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The definition of summer fun!

WANT TO GO? $8 and up; $5 parking Thursday-Sunday. 201-355-5911. njfair.com.

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WHEN: June 3-Nov. 25, 9am-2pm WHERE: Ramsey Farmers’ Market, Main St. Erie Plaza train station, Ramsey, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Kick off the 9th season with the annual Strawberry Festival!

Enjoy complimentary strawberry shortcake, along with other goodies; and as always local farmers and food purveyors offer fresh, local produce and products.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Strawberries and summer go hand in hand.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. 201-675-6866. ramseyfarmersmarket.org.

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WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

Pearl River Chamber’s Movie Night: ‘A Night at the Museum’ FREE

WHEN: Friday, June 1, 7:15pm WHERE: Central Avenue Field, Central Avenue, Pearl River AGES: All WHAT: Bring your chair or blanket and enjoy A Night at the Museum under the stars with your friends and family.

WANT TO GO? 845-548-4272. pearlriverny.org.

Nyack Motorcycle Expo FREE

WHEN: Thursday, June 7, 5-8:30pm WHERE: Downtown Nyack, Main Street, Nyack AGES: All WHAT: The bikes roll into town at 5pm and stay on display until dusk.

Visitors will enjoy live entertainment, outdoor dining, and special offers in the village’s many eclectic shops and specialty stores.

WANT TO GO? 845-353-6300. nyackchamber.org.

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WHEN: June 4-Aug. 20, Mondays, 11am WHERE: Palisades Center, 1000 Palisades Center Drive, West Nyack AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Bring your dancing shoes and celebrate the summer at this concert series. Located on Level 1 in the East Court.

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Up, Up & Away Show with Mad Science FREE

WHEN: Sunday, June 10, 2-3pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-12 WHAT: This spellbinding special event introduces children to the principles of air and pressure.

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WHEN: Year-round: Tuesdays, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Rockland Baby Café, 14 S. Main St., Spring Valley AGES: Newborn to 2, adult WHAT: Meet and talk to new moms, learn how to make breast-feeding easier, make sure your baby is latching and gaining well, and get tips on pumping, going back to work, and other parenting topics.

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FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS 5th Annual Nanuet Chamber Street Fair

WHEN: Sunday, June 3, 10am-5pm WHERE: Nanuet Chamber of Commerce, Main Street to Prospect Street, Nanuet AGES: All WHAT: More than 200 vendors will showcase jewelry, crafts, and art, plus a wine and beer garden, food, family games, kids rides, live entertainment, and more. The first 500 families to stop by the chamber’s booth will receive a free gift bag.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. 845-393-1954. nanuetchamber.com.

The Flavors of Haverstraw Food Crawl

WHEN: Sunday, June 3, 1-5pm WHERE: Sterling Bank Parking Lot, 38 New Main St., Haverstraw AGES: All WHAT: Savor and celebrate the diverse cuisine of this great community. Sample small plates from a wide range of participating restaurants in the downtown district, and enjoy live music throughout the crawl and an outdoor beer garden.

WANT TO GO? $3-$6 food. haverstrawriverarts.org.

Nature Day

WHEN: Sunday, June 10, 12-4pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate all things TNC with staff educators for a fun day for the whole family. Enjoy story times, guided hikes, scavenger hunts, canoe rides, animal presentations, crafts, the butterfly house, and a vendor fair.

WANT TO GO? $8; $24 per family. 551-804-7794. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

20th Annual Rockland County Pride Sunday

WHEN: Sunday, June 10, 11am-5pm WHERE: GARNER Historic District, 55 W. Railroad Ave., Garnerville AGES: All WHAT: Rockland County Pride Sunday continues its tradition of celebrating the LGBT communities, featuring vendors, entertainment, children’s activities, and more.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. 917-375-5320. rocklandpridecenter.org.

New City Summer Street Fair

WHEN: Sunday, June 10, 10am-5pm WHERE: Town of Clarkstown, Main Street, New City AGES: All WHAT: Hundreds of vendors share their wares and services. Kids will enjoy inflatables, face painting, arts and crafts, DJ, live band, food, drinks, and more.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. newcitychamber.com.

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WHEN: June 7-10, Thursday, 5:30-10pm; Friday-Saturday, 12-10pm; Sunday, 12-8pm WHERE: Saints Constantine & Helen Greek Orthodox Church, 1 Marycrest Road, West Nyack AGES: All WHAT: The largest cultural festival in Rockland County is back featuring Greek food and desserts, live music, dancing, games, rides, and more.

WANT TO GO? Free admission; food and activity tickets for purchase.

845-623-4023. saintschchurch.org.

Montvale Street Fair

WHEN: Sunday, June 10, 10am-5pm WHERE: Montvale, 101 Paragon Drive, Montvale, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Featuring more than 150 exhibitors, an arts and crafts section, kids area, community section, two food courts, and live entertainment all day. The Kids Traveling Shindig section includes rides, pony rides, petting zoo, climbing wall, clowns, face painting, sand art, temporary tattoos, live entertainment, and more.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. 201-998-1144. jcpromotions.info.

Family Fun Day

WHEN: Saturday, June 16, 12-5pm WHERE: Piermont Railroad Station Museum, 50 Ash St., Piermont AGES: All WHAT: A great way to kick off the season with a day of fun activities for the whole family.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. piermontchamber.org.

Children’s Day FREE

WHEN: Sunday, June 17, 1-4pm WHERE: New Windsor Cantonment State Historic Site, 374 Temple Hill Road, New Windsor AGES: All WHAT: A fun-filled day of family entertainment with the Two by Two petting zoo, magician Mr. Bayly, and a host of 18th-century games.

WANT TO GO? 845-561-1765. parks.ny.gov.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Seasonal Scavenger Hunt

WHEN: Saturday, June 9, 2-3pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Families will receive a set of clues to solve nature riddles along nature center trails. Each family will need to work as a team as they hike along the trails to complete the hunt and receive a small prize.

WANT TO GO? $6; $20 per family; free for children younger than 2.

201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Family Camp Out

WHEN: June 8-9, Friday-Saturday, 6pm-8am WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Bring your family, tent, and sleeping bags for an evening of nocturnal fun. As the sun goes down, enjoy entertainment and s’mores around the campfire. A light breakfast and coffee will be provided Saturday morning. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $20; $12 children. 845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

Ladybug Release

WHEN: Saturday, June 23, 10am WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Learn about ladybugs and how helpful they are, then release native ladybugs into the fields and gardens.

WANT TO GO? $8; $6 children. 845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

Condor Day

WHEN: Sunday, June 24, 11am-2pm WHERE: Bergen County Zoo, 216 Forest Ave., Paramus, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy keeper chats, stories, crafts, and displays all about Andean condors.

WANT TO GO? $8; $5 children ages 3-14; $2 seniors. 201-262-3771. co.bergen.nj.us.

Music at the Marina FREE

WHEN: Thursday, June 28, 7:30-9pm WHERE: Edgewater Marina Park & Ferry Landing, 989 River Road, Edgewater, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Bring a blanket or lawn chair and a picnic basket to enjoy music and dinner al fresco on the Marina lawn.

WANT TO GO? 201-944-2628 x3134. edgewaternj.org.

International Mud Day

WHEN: Saturday, June 30, 11am-3pm WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Celebrate Mud Day—a chance to appreciate nature and the great outdoors by getting muddy at Grasshopper Grove. Bring a towel or a change of clothes.

WANT TO GO? $3; free for children younger than 2. 845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

Children and Family Program FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 25: Sundays, 1pm WHERE: Storm King Art Center, 1 Museum Road, New Windsor AGES: All WHAT: Hands-on experiences are created and led by artists, conservators, arts educators, and environmental educators at these drop-in workshops. Check the website for activity details.

WANT TO GO? 845-534-3115. stormkingartcenter.org. ››

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BROWSE & BUY Full Circle: Art Sale/Fundraiser

WHEN: June 10-16, Sunday-Friday, 10am-5pm; Saturday, 2-5pm WHERE: Rockland Center for the Arts, 27 S. Greenbush Road, West Nyack AGES: All WHAT: A special limited exhibition of affordable artwork. Leading Regional Artists will create contemporary circular artwork using only a round format as a point of departure. Artists are free to create whatever they envision within the circle. All proceeds benefit RoCA’s exhibitions and educational programs.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. 845-358-0877. rocklandartcenter.org.

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MOVERS & SHAKERS End of School Party/Parents Night Out

WHEN: Friday, June 1, 6-8:30pm WHERE: JTS Community Center, 115 Torne Valley Road, Hillburn AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids will be entertained by activities, including inflatables, games, and crafts. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. 845-753-2324. ramapoparks.org.

Hudson River Barn Dance

WHEN: Sunday, June 3, 2-4pm WHERE: Alpine Pavilion at Alpine Picnic Area and Boat Basin, Alpine Approach Road off of U.S. Route 9W, Alpine, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Dave Harvey and a live band will call the afternoon dance, offering simple and engaging instruction for visitors of all ages and abilities. Hot dogs will be on sale for $1 while they last.

WANT TO GO? $5 parking fee. 201-768-1360 x108. njpalisades.org.

The Big Bounce America

WHEN: Through Oct. 14: 9:30am-3pm WHERE: M&T Bank Parking Lot, Piermont Avenue and Ash Street, Piermont AGES: All WHAT: Local farmers and area food makers who source locally are brought together for a delicious experience.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. 914-923-4837. downtoearthmarkets.com.

Suffern Farmers’ Market

WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Saturdays, 8:30am-1pm WHERE: Commuter Parking Lot A, Lafayette Avenue between Orange and Wayne avenues, Suffern AGES: All WHAT: A family-friendly market with food vendors, craft vendors, children’s activities, and live entertainment weekly.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. 845-659-9203. suffernchamber.org.

Farmers’ Market at the Village of Haverstraw

WHEN: Through Oct. 28: Sundays, 9am-1pm WHERE: Village Hall, Maple Avenue, Haverstraw AGES: All WHAT: Support local businesses and the community with fresh produce, jams, spices, and more.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. 845-429-0300. voh-ny.com.

WHEN: June 15-17, Friday, 1-6:30pm; Saturday-Sunday, 8am-7pm WHERE: Cousins Paintball, 380 Mount Airy Road, New Windsor AGES: 3-17 WHAT: A super-sized family-friendly day out featuring the world’s largest bounce house with 10,000 square feet of fun and games for all ages. Yard games will be set up around the perimeter, along with multiple vendors and plenty to enjoy before and after your bounce session.

WANT TO GO? $10-$25. thebigbounceamerica.

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WHEN: Through July 3: Fridays, 4:45-5:30pm WHERE: Wholeness Center, 7 New Lake Road, Valley Cottage AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Explore body awareness, self-regulation, self-esteem, strength, and flexibility through yoga, play, and story. Each class will offer active yoga poses, balance poses, partner and group poses, breathing techniques, and relaxation. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $18 per session. 845-268-7532. wholenesscenter.com.

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WHEN: June 24-Nov. 18, Sundays, 9am-3pm WHERE: Train Station Parking Lot, Godwin and West Ridgewood avenues, Ridgewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Find farm-to-table, fresh produce; homemade jams with unique flavors; preservative-free baked goods; and more.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. 201-445-2600. ridgewoodchamber.com.

WHEN: Through Nov. 29: Thursdays, 8am-2pm WHERE: Downtown Nyack, Main Street Parking Lot, Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Join local artists and craftspeople in the region who come together to sell locally produced food such as fresh produce, baked goods, sweets, and other great items.

WANT TO GO? Free admission. 845-642-0859. nyackchamber.org.

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SHOW TIME! Classic Film Club: ‘Forrest Gump’

WHEN: Saturday, June 2, 11:30am WHERE: Lafayette Theater, 97 Lafayette Ave., Suffern AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Bring the kids to see Forrest Gump as part of the Classic Film Club series.

WANT TO GO? $3. 845-368-1889. lafayettetheatersuffern.com.

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‘Shrek the Musical’

WHEN: June 1-3, Friday, 7:30pm; Saturday, 2pm and 7:30pm; Sunday, 2pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Based on the DreamWorks Animation film, Shrek the Musical is a fairy tale adventure that brings all the beloved characters you know from the film to life on stage and proves there’s more to the story than what meets the ears.

WANT TO GO? $20-$30. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

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WHEN: Sunday, June 3, 1pm WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood, NJ AGES: 3-5 WHAT: With every swing and flip, George takes the audience through a fun-filled adventure in which he learns more about Rome...and meatballs...and the “secret ingredient” to cooking.

WANT TO GO? 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.

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‘Homeward Bound: The Incredible Journey’

WHEN: Saturday, June 16, 12pm WHERE: Jacob Burns Film Center, 364 Manville Road, Pleasantville AGES: 5 and older WHAT: When their owners move and temporarily leave the family pets with a friend, bulldog Chance, golden retriever Shadow, and cat Sassy think they are being left for good and decide to take matters into their own paws to reunite the family. JBFC Kids curator Emily Ohara will lead a Reel Talk Q&A following the film.

WANT TO GO? $14; $7.50 for children 13 and younger.

914-747-5555. burnsfilmcenter.org.

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Celebrate the spirit of the community at the Rubin Museum Annual Block Party. This year’s theme is We Make the Future. Join thousands of other New Yorkers at this event on Father’s Day, featuring art and activities for all ages inspired by the Rubin’s yearlong exploration of the future. Expect performances by Cham dance by Palyul Monks, a Healing Garden indoor plant trailer, a Build a Future City activity, a drone demo, and treats from the Van Leeuwen Ice Cream truck and Brooklyn Popcorn truck. June 17, 1-4pm.

Age: All. FREE. 150 W. 17th St., Chelsea. rubinmuseum.org.

Families can enjoy the tasty traditions of various cultures.

Celebrate Chinese, Jewish, and Puerto Rican cultures at the Egg Rolls, Egg Creams & Empanadas Festival at the Museum at Eldridge street. There will be traditional Chinese and Jewish paper cutting, Puerto Rican lacemaker Elena Martinez, Klezmer band Litvakus, Chinese calligraphy, a Chinese Tea Ceremony, Yiddish Dance Instructor Steve Weintraub, Puerto Rican Vejigantes paper mache mask making, a Mahjongg tournament, and more. Plus kosher egg rolls, egg creams, empanadas, and other tasty traditional foods. June 17, 12-4pm. Age: All. FREE. The Museum at Eldridge Street, 12 Eldridge St., Lower East Side. eldridgestreet.org.

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The only park in Manhattan to have a natural salt marsh, Inwood Hill Park is filled with other natural formations such as caves, valleys, and ridges as a result of shifting glaciers. Bordering the Hudson and Harlem rivers, this park also used to be home to Native Americans in the 17th century. Along with hiking trails to explore nature, the park has three playgrounds, basketball courts, tennis courts, baseball fields, handball courts, and a site to kayak or canoe.

Visit it: Dyckman Street, Inwood nycgovparks.org/parks/inwood-hill-park Can’t-miss event: Drums Along the Hudson on June 3, 11am-6pm Directions: Approximately a 45-minute drive from New City Courtesy South Street Seaport Museum

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Located on the East River, this museum highlights the city’s history as a major port for trade and immigration. Visit the museum to participate in walking tours, historic ships tours, and a visit to Bowne Print Shop—the oldest operating business under the same name. Kids can take part in an early childhood program called miniMATES to learn about marine life and develop fine motor skills, or have fun during Open Play.

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Family trips can be relaxing, but they can put unwanted stress on your wallet. By Melissa Wickes

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acations are something we look forward to the whole year. They provide a rare chance to wind down, go on fun adventures, and spend quality time with the ones we love. Unfortunately, vacation expenses add up, and planning a trip in the most cost-effective way can be overwhelming. In fact, New York University’s 2017 Family Travel survey revealed that 30 percent of the middle-income families and 25 percent of the high-range income families who participated found affordability to be their main challenge when planning a trip.

If both groups of respondents found affordability to be a challenge, what does this mean? Low cost is not necessarily the ultimate goal; the expected “bang for your buck” is. Whether that translates into using only credit card points for a flight with a ton of legroom or finding a decently priced hotel room with a great ocean view, planning an affordable family vacation is a daunting task.

So how do we maximize our families’ fun without dipping into our savings? Read on for insider advice from leading travel experts.

More Bang for Your Buck

There are many travel-planning websites, apps, and services. In fact, the sheer number can make the process harder to navigate than airport security.

Lyla Gleeson, an NYC mom and founder of GlobetrottingMommy.com, has whittled down those sites and apps into an easy-to-navigate A-list: TripAdvisor: By comparing the prices of more than 200 websites, this site helps families book the best hotels, airlines, attractions, and restaurants for the lowest cost. TripAdvisor also hosts an online travel community, providing a place to read reviews and ask questions about your upcoming trip.

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“TripAdvisor is my favorite website for planning a vacation in terms of activities and lodging,” Gleeson says. “I love reading hotel reviews to gain the inside scoop on rooms to request and rooms to avoid.”

Travelzoo: This site recommends deals that pass Travelzoo’s high quality standards from the best companies. The deals listed are not based on what the travel companies pay Travelzoo; they’re featured because Travelzoo considers them to be genuinely good travel or entertainment deals.

Groupon: The deals offered on Groupon are available in 15 countries and more than 500 markets globally, including savings on activities, attractions, and dining. Users can buy deals on the site or the app.

When you’re visiting a new city, the best thing to do beforehand is check Groupon for discounts on amusement parks and other family-friendly local activities, according to Gleeson.

Hopper: If you want to know the best time to buy a flight, this mobile app will clue you in. You can even “follow” a flight, enabling notifications when the price changes. “I always use the Hopper app to track prices and alert me when to buy,” Gleeson says.

HotelTonight: This mobile app makes it easy to book last-minute hotel rooms at amazing rates for tonight, tomorrow, and next week. The unsold rooms in a hotel go onto the app, which can score you some heavy discounts, Gleeson says.

If you’re not looking to risk it with a last-minute deal, Gleeson recommends booking your travel plans at least three to six months in advance for vacations during a school break or holiday week.

“If you’re planning a big holiday trip or family reunion, a year or two in advance is the norm for popular hotels and cruises, especially for Christmas,” Gleeson says. “Always be flexible when booking air and hotels because sometimes moving a trip by a day or two can save hundreds of dollars. It isn’t always doable, but you will get the best deals when you travel mid-week.”

You can also score various deals through corporate employee discounts. Ask the human resources contact in your office if your company is partnered with any corporate discount websites such as Plum Benefits for deals on shows, theme parks, hotel stays, and more.

There are also lesser-known discounts that you may not have considered, and they’re easy to claim. Birthday, senior citizen, teacher, military, and kids eat or stay free discounts are a no-brainer! Costco and AAA sometimes offer special travel savings to their members as well. Have a museum junkie in the family? Ask your local library if members can receive any free museum offerings, and do a quick search online to see if any museums at your destination offer pay-what-you-wish or free-admission days.

For even more savings, cash-back sites like Ebates.com will pay you a percentage of what you spend on certain other sites. Some of the above resources, such as Groupon, frequently partner with these sites.

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“Although credit cards are the fastest way to rack up points and miles, you can earn them just by flying, shopping, dining, and more,” says Emily McNutt, news editor at The Points Guy, the travel advice blog. “If you have a frequent-flyer account, you can earn miles by flying with that airline or partner airlines. Or, if you want to earn miles without flying, you can do online shopping through an airline shopping portal, granting you bonus miles for every dollar spent.”

This is good news because while credit cards require certain credit scores, credit balances, and other qualifications to apply, none of that applies to collect miles through an airline’s program. And while you’re at it, check to see if the airline has retail partners. For instance, if you link your JetBlue TrueBlue account to your Lyft app, you can earn miles each time you take a Lyft to and from an airport.

Of course, don’t write off credit card rewards either. Some cards, such as the IHG Rewards Club Premium, offer a free one-night hotel voucher each year if you spend a minimum annually, according to McNutt. Chase Sapphire Preferred and Amex Platinum have travel perks including credits for Uber and refunds for TSA Pre Check enrollment, Gleeson says.

“Points and miles are a currency, and should be treated with the same value in mind that you have when dealing with cash,” McNutt says. “Usually, you’ll get the best value out of redeeming your points or miles for free travel—flights or hotel stays.”

When planning a Disney trip, the Chase Disney credit card is very convenient, according to Lauren Holt, a member of Disney Parks Mom’s Panel, a group of people that are experienced in planning Disney trips.

For every Disney trip you book using this card, you get six months to pay it off, interest free. The card also helps you garner Disney reward credit at the park, including discounts on tours, restaurants, and merchandise.

What many people don’t know is, not every travel rewards program locks you into a certain airline based on the travel card you have.

While certain cards, such as a Delta co-branded Amex card, only allow you to fly with that particular airline, many offer greater flexibility.

Though planning ahead can help you save money and stress, Holt suggests leaving some room during your trip for spontaneity.

“The planning can be very helpful, but don’t feel like you need to have an itinerary for every single minute,” Gleeson says. “Leave room for unscripted moments.” The unexpected fun you may have will add extra value to your already affordable vacation!

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Prep Your Home for Your Vacation Ten things to do before traveling to keep your house safe—and give you peace of mind

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ummer is fast approaching, which means it’s time for sun, fun, and a family vacation. Unfortunately, it’s also busy season for criminals who take advantage of the fact that homeowners will be away for days or weeks at a time. Most home burglaries take place in July and August, when windows are more likely to be left open and families leave for excursions, according to information from Esurance.

As if property theft wasn’t enough to threaten your house while you’re away, plumbing and other utility mishaps could result in property damage and big financial problems when you return.

The good news? There are some simple things you can do to prepare your house before you leave to help prevent these catastrophes from occurring. The below list of tips from home-protection experts will help you enjoy a stress-free and relaxing holiday without worrying about things back home.

Make Your House Look Occupied

The simplest yet most effective thing you can do to thwart burglars is to leave a few lights on around the house, giving the appearance that someone is home. Dale Martin, co-vice president of claims at Franklin Mutual Insurance, recommends setting interior and exterior lights on an automatic timer.

Another telltale sign no one is home is a full mailbox. “Have a family member or trusted neighbor collect the mail, newspaper, and packages, or have the post office put a temporary hold on delivery,” Martin says.

Arrange for Yard Care

An unkempt lawn can be another clear indicator that a house is empty. Mow your lawn before you leave, or “ask a trusted neighbor or lawn service to keep the yard cut and maintained while you’re away,” Martin advises.

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Prevent Potential Water Damage

Avoid a plumbing disaster by turning off the main water supply valve to your home before you head out, Martin recommends. Doing so will help prevent small leaks that may occur from turning into a nightmare scenario of a flooded house, destroyed property, and huge repair bills.

You can also do a quick search for leaks or cracks in water lines that lead to sinks and toilets, and get them fixed before you leave.

And make sure gutters, downspouts, and drains are clear. “If water overflows from its proper channels, it can seep under siding and flood the basement,” says Kristie Bergey, a leasing and sales agent at Very Real Estate in Philadelphia.

Run the Dishwasher

“After the cycle has finished, empty the dishwasher, then leave the door open,” Bergey recommends. “That will allow the interior to dry, and it won’t smell musty by the time you get home.”

Bergey also recommends flushing the toilet and leaving the lid up so the water doesn’t become stagnant.

Unplug Appliances

Do a double check before you leave to unplug small appliances, especially ones you’ll be using right before you walk out the door. “Make sure you unplug things like hair curlers, irons. You’re packing and you’re in a rush, you can leave something plugged in that is potentially a dangerous situation,” says Anthony Marino, a licensed associate real estate broker based in southwest and downtown Brooklyn.

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Or make sure you schedule payments so you don’t miss important due dates. Travelers often use credit cards, so it’s especially important to

make sure those bills are paid. “Sometimes, if you don’t pay your credit card on time, they’ll lock your account until it’s paid. Then, all of a sudden you’re making calls or having to pay over the phone,” Marino says.

It’s also a good idea to let your credit card companies, bank, and cellphone service know in advance you’ll be traveling. Otherwise, your out-of-town purchases can look like suspicious activity, resulting in a hold being placed on your cards.

Arm the Alarms

Bergey advises homeowners to let their security companies know they’ll be away. “Give a family member or friend your alarm code, the security company’s phone number, your itinerary, and contact numbers,” she says. “Press the test button on your smoke alarms to make sure they work, and change the battery if necessary.”

Consider Smart-Home Technology

Smart home cameras and surveillance systems are all the rage in home security these days. They tend to be easier to install than fullfledged security systems, and being wire-free, it’s much harder for a burglar to take apart the system before attempting to break in. The technology works through your cellphone or tablet, allowing you to see what’s going on back home. “When people go on vacation, they tend to make changes to household care routines to make sure things run smoothly while they’re gone, like coordinating with the house cleaner and keeping the dog walker on a tighter schedule,” according to Alex Teichman, CEO and co-founder of Lighthouse AI, which manufactures a 3-D sensing smart-home security camera.

“Smart home cameras ensure your home continues to run normally while you’re away on holiday or even if you’re traveling locally.”

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If you’re going away without your car, make sure you’re parked for alternate side of the street laws. You don’t want to come back with a bunch of tickets on your windshield. “Depending on how long and when you’re going to be away, try to find a place where you can either park and have it okay for the week, or have someone, like a family member, potentially move your car for you,” Marino says.

If your house has a driveway, have that be your car’s home while you’re away. If you have a garage, Bergey recommends parking your car outside against the doors to block access. “Remove garage door remotes from the car and unplug the electric door opener—the box unit attached to the garage ceiling—so that the door can’t be opened while you’re away,” she says. “Make sure to lock the car and garage doors.”

Don’t Post Your Trip on Social Media

It may be tempting to tell the world about your upcoming tropical getaway or camping experience, but doing so could be dangerous.

Most home-security experts will agree that announcing you’re not home on social media is an open invitation to burglars. Wait until you return to post that selfie of you with a palm tree or exploring the Grand Canyon.

Some things seem obvious to do before you say, “bon voyage,” but a gentle reminder can’t hurt. If possible, ask a trusted neighbor or family member to check in on the house every so often. And of course, make arrangements for your beloved pets and plants, and take the time to make sure all your doors and windows are locked.

A double check for peace of mind before you get going is a good idea, too. It’ll make lounging on the beach much more relaxing.

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So what makes for a rough start to fatherhood? It isn’t only about biology: Social stereotypes, the workplace, and gender role expectations are all partly to blame. Although the U.S. Department of Labor says that paternity leave—especially longer leaves of several weeks or months—can promote parent-child bonding, improve outcomes for children, and even increase gender equality at home and work, many new fathers don’t take it. While New York’s paid family leave is certainly encouraging more new dads to step off from the workplace for a little while, there is still a serious imbalance between maternity and paternity leave.

Fathers are pressured by society and employers to return to work much sooner than they should. They are seen as breadwinners, not caregivers, unless they have the option to be a stay-at-home dad.

Unfortunately, according to the DOL, fewer than half the countries in the world provide men with access to paid leave to care for a new child, while virtually all provide paid maternity leaves. On average, 70 percent of new fathers take 10 days or fewer after their baby is born—not nearly enough time to adjust to parenthood and create that everlasting bond with their child.

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Confidence and Patience Are Key

“The process of bonding with a new baby is natural for most mothers,” says Mary Beth Steinfield, M.D., developmental and behavioral pediatrician at University of California Davis Medical Center and University of California Davis Children’s Hospital.

A mother’s instincts generally kick in immediately as she starts to differentiate her baby’s cries, wants, and needs based on body language alone. But not all women jump right into motherhood knowing exactly what to do and when. In those instances, “giving the father time to bond with the baby can be a crucial step,” says Christina Johnson, mother of an 8-month-old.

A father may also be able to take the lead when a mother has a complicated delivery such as an emergency C-section, which was the case for Johnson. “For the first few days I wasn’t able to do anything,” she says. “He was the one who fed and changed her.” In situations like this one, a father has an opportune moment to step in and not only help the mother but create his own bond starting right after delivery.

Even when the moment arises, though, “fathers often feel less confident than new mothers,” according to Dr. Steinfield. Here is what most people don’t realize: Fathers “can become just as nurturing as mothers,” and “are capable of a strong bonding attachment to their infants during the newborn period,” says William Sears, M.D., associate professor of pediatrics at University of California Irvine School of Medicine.

In fact, there’s scientific evidence to back up that statement.

Although dads are not involved in some of the physical aspects of child rearing, such as birthing or breast-feeding, research has discovered they show elevated levels of oxytocin that match the oxytocin levels in mothers. Oxytocin plays a major role in making “a healthy father-baby bond,” says Ruth Feldman, Ph.D., a professor of developmental social neuroscience at Bar-Ilan University in Israel.

A baby’s instant attachment to mom may seem like a blockade for some dads, but for Brandon Foltz, Salvatore Ferro, John Fontain, and Chad Patoray, it was never an issue. These dads, who have children ranging in age from 6 weeks to 16 years, say they were just happy to be new fathers to their babies. They too wanted to succeed, protect their children, be involved, and do better than their own parents. Although they may not be the ones who gave birth to their babies, they’ve been more than capable of connecting with their children on a mental and emotional level, as well as participating in their newborn’s care.

A Relationship Worth the Work

Although not all fathers find it easy to bond with their baby right from birth, it’s worth working at the relationship, experts say. A study by the Journal of Obstetric, Gynecologic, & Neonatal Nursing found that when fathers delay bonding with their newborns, they risk altering the longterm course of paternal involvement as the infant progresses throughout childhood and adolescence. Delayed bonding also increases the risk that a dad will experience postpartum depression, the study discovered.

Perseverance is key. “For dads, it sometimes seems difficult to bond with their newborns because they always seem to want their mom,” Ferro explains. “What I used to do is if the baby started crying, instead of my wife holding him, I would pick him up, cradle him, talk or sing to him, and wait for him to fall asleep. As he got a little older, whenever he would cry he would reach his arms out for me.”

Infants aren’t always the most exciting to watch or interact with, which may make it frustrating to find a way to connect. “When your child is an infant, it’s tough for a male to bond. At first, he just lies there and does nothing,” Foltz admits. His advice? “Take it in because he is always changing and molding. My baby, at six weeks, doesn’t even look the same as when he was born. His habits are always changing too, i.e. feedings, changings, and different cries. The

more you know, the more you understand.” As the baby continues to grow and form a distinct personality, the relationship between father and baby will become more lively and obvious.

Other things Fontain, Foltz, Ferro, and Patoray say they did to bond with their babies include taking their infants for a walk to give their wife a break, talking to them, holding them as much as possible, playing with them, sleeping next to them, having skin-to-skin contact, doing tummy time on the activity mat together, and giving lots of hugs and kisses. Additionally, mothers can hand off the responsibility of feeding their infant to Dad. (If their infant is breast-fed, Mom can pump and allow Dad to bottle-feed the baby.) This way the father gets the same kind of intimate, private bonding time as the mother does.

Bonding Beyond Infancy

As infants get older, the way fathers bond with them naturally shifts, too. Foltz, Fontain, Patoray, and Ferro share ideas for continued father-child closeness: • Shoulder a fair share of child-care chores. Foltz stresses the importance of taking over some of the day-to-day child-rearing tasks such as bath time and diaper changes.

• Be there for the child. Patoray urges fathers to “not miss a thing,” from major milestones to little moments such as snuggling together with a book.

• Resist taking the easy way out when watching your child.

Fontain advises fathers to play with their children, not just put them in front of the TV. • Use favorite hobbies and interests as a way to connect. Ferro says that passing down his love for soccer very early on enabled him and his son to have a common interest in later years.

Johnson agrees that the little things, like changing a stinky diaper or reading a story, “go a long way.” These are all moments that matter in children’s development and bond creation with their father. As unsatisfying as it may seem at the time, it ultimately adds up to a wonderful father-baby relationship.

Jenny Russo, a graduate of the College of Saint Elizabeth and New York University, is a freelance writer and editor and full-time marketing associate. She is an avid animal lover who enjoys working part-time at Pet Valu and volunteering her time to help A Pathway to Hope Rescue raise money and find forever homes for dogs and cats.

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ollege is a brand-new experience for teens, and while it can be exciting, it can also be overwhelming. The number one thing parents can do to prepare their teen for her first semester is to talk to her and let her know it’s okay to experience a range of conflicting emotions.

Katherine Fireborn, parenting expert and head of the Fireborn Institute, which helps students thrive in school through parent education, says teens are likely experiencing a lot of emotions about the transition and tend to focus on the negative.

“You really want to talk about preparing for college,” Fireborn says. “It is totally different than anything they’ve ever experienced.

Ask what they’re looking forward to, what they’re scared of.”

But don’t be overbearing or push the subject too hard with your teen since it can lead to feelings of uncertainty, Fireborn notes. If your teen seems to be uninterested in talking, it can help to share fun stories with him about your college experience and what you were excited for, such as going out with friends during the week or extracurricular activities.

Having a few conversations with your teen about what to expect and how to handle herself will go a long way to ensuring she has a successful four years at college.

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her practice for college by letting her have a later curfew or not “checking in” with her as often as you normally would. It could make the transition to being in charge of his own schedule easier.

“If they make a mistake, you want them to make it while they’re still at home, so you are there for them and have a nonoverbearing discussion about it,” Fireborn says.

Advocating for Academic Success

Classes and academic work are essential to the college experience—they’re the reasons your teen is there, after all.

College courses tend to have more rigorous syllabi than high school, so it can be difficult for some students to keep up. But the scare tactics some high school teachers love to use about professors only caring about their paycheck and not their students are often false and can lead to discouragement.

“Professors are not in the business of wanting to fail students,” says Rogernelle Griffin, director of William Paterson University’s Academic Success Center. “If students don’t have a grasp of the material or [are] intimidated, they’ll withdraw [from the class] and not be engaged.”

But students have to be the one to initiate contact, according to Griffin. A professor won’t know if a student is struggling unless the student approaches her and takes advantage of her office hours. Students who want to do well will be attentive and go after their grade.

Parents should encourage self-advocacy and tell their teen it’s okay to ask for help, Griffin says. Many academic advisors and tutoring centers have open door policies and can answer any questions students may have. If your teen is struggling, Griffin recommends asking him, “Have you visited the academic success center?” instead of pressuring him by saying, “I’m paying all this money.”

And just talking about it isn’t enough, Fireborn says. It is also important for teens to check their school’s resources as soon as possible, especially if your teen has learning disabilities. “By being aware of what’s offered, if something arises, you know where to go for help,” Fireborn says.

In addition to encouraging their teen to speak up for herself, parents should suggest she get involved in clubs and activities on campus. Students who are involved in extracurricular activities tend to get better grades, says Zoe Ragouzeos, Ph.D., LCSW, executive director of Counseling and Wellness Services at New York University.

Staying Healthy

Talking to your teen about his physical and mental health while he’s in school is important to his success. A good mental health discussion for parents to have with their teen is the importance of eating well, getting adequate sleep, and setting time aside to unwind, Dr. Ragouzeos says. But decide how much you’re going to do for your teen once she’s in college, she advises. There is a line between advocating for your teen and not teaching him how to be his own advocate.

Megan Hener, certified personal trainer and owner of Meg Hener Fitness in Clifton, NJ, believes lack of structure is the number one culprit for deteriorating physical and mental health in college students, along with exhaustion from over scheduling.

“Sometimes meal prepping takes time and a lot of college students do not want to invest the time out of their already packed schedules. The same goes for workouts,” she says.

But a healthy lifestyle is so important—in college and in life after.

“There are no negatives to living a healthy lifestyle and it’s setting the stage for the rest of your life,” Hener says. “First is the obvious, looking and feeling better overall. Exercise also helps you mentally. When you do something for yourself daily, it gives you an opportunity to clear your head and feel good about yourself.”

Share these tips with your teen to help her stay healthy, mentally and physically: Find on-campus resources. If your teen is on medication and/ or is seeing a therapist prior to college, have her connect with and learn about her school’s resources before she arrives, Dr. Ragouzeos recommends.

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Drink in moderation if you are of legal age. Avoiding alcohol may not feel like an option to some college students, but refraining from drinking every night and choosing a light beer over sweeter drinks is a way to watch sugar intake.

Don’t be afraid to ask for help! Many schools have anonymous hotlines and can connect students to external sources if needed.

Although there continues to be stigma around mental health, it is much different than it used to be.

Being Safe at Parties

It is important to remind your child that movies depicting college party scenes are not reality; they rarely show the consequences of partying and drinking. And give her these basic tips for having fun wisely: Have a designated driver. This person should be determined before she and her group of friends arrive at the party. Ask if she has Uber or Lyft downloaded on her smartphone for easy access. (She should always double check that the driver is the same person indicated on her phone, and that the license plate is a match as well.)

Have a buddy system. Be sure your teen knows to arrive at and leave the party in the same Uber, Lyft, or designated driver’s car as his friends.

Keep an eye on your drinks, even nonalcoholic ones. This will decrease any chances of her drink being tampered with.

Though you may not be ready to talk about your child leaving the nest just yet, having discussions with your teen about these topics can prevent future issues. “You don’t want to wait until there is a problem or scramble at the last minute,” Dr. Ragouzeos says.

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With 16 years of orthodontic experience, Dr. Brett Kastin prides his practice on conservative early treatment and cost-free childhood dental monitoring, enabling the most effective treatment possible, as well as being a knowledgeable, compassionate clinician and friend. He utilizes state-of-the-art materials and customized treatment planning for every patient to ensure the highest quality of care. Dr. Kastin is a certified Invisalign® provider, has been president of the Rockland County Dental Society since 2006, and was voted Rockland’s “Top Orthodontist” by the dentists of Rockland County for the past 10 years. Initial exams are complimentary, as are children’s recall appointments.

Clemente Orthodontics 603 S. Route 304, New City 845-638-6646 60 W. Ridgewood Ave., Ridgewood, NJ 201-447-2888 clementeorthodontics.com

At Clemente Orthodontics, our patients receive the benefit of experience, quality, and energy that comes with a multigenerational team. Dr. Michael Clemente and his daughters, Dr. Nicole Clemente and Dr. Marissa Clemente, work together seamlessly to care for your orthodontic needs. They run a stateof-the-art practice with digital X-rays, private treatment rooms, impression-free Invisalign, and a highly experienced staff. They are an Invisalign Super Elite Premier provider, offering Invisalign and Invisalign Teen as treatment options.

Consultations are complimentary.

Crystal Run 2 Centerock Road, West Nyack 845-348-1100 crystalrunhealthcare.com

Crystal Run Healthcare is a premier multispecialty group medical practice with more than 400 providers, offering the convenience of Primary Care and nearly 50 medical specialties, all under one roof. Our 70,000-square-foot, state-of-the-art West Nyack facility offers patients easy access to quality health care by way of more than 20 medical and surgical specialties, including Adolescent Medicine, Pediatrics, Maternal-Fetal Medicine, Obstetrics and Gynecology, including Urogynecology. In addition, our innovative facility boasts an Infusion Center, Urgent Care, diagnostic testing services, on-site laboratory services, Diagnostic Imaging, and Women’s Imaging, making it a one-stop health care destination for all. We are here to meet the needs of every family member, regardless of age or medical condition. Crystal Run also has offices in Haverstraw, Stony Point, and Suffern.

Sachdev Family Orthodontics 124 E. Ramapo Road, Suite 2, Garnerville 845-786-7736 sfojustsmile.com sfojustsmile@gmail.com facebook.com/sachdevfamilyorthodontics Instagram: @sachdevfamilyorthodontics

At Sachdev Family Orthodontics, we provide individualized braces and Invisalign treatment to kids and adults. Dr. Ameeta Sachdev has been in the dental field for two decades with dual dental degrees, from India and U.S. She teaches orthodontics at St. Barnabas Hospital, Bronx. She pays attention to detail, whether it is designing the state-of-the-art office herself or perfecting your smile. Being committed to serve, she is an active supporter of community events and local art. Free consults, most insurance accepted, evening and Saturday hours and 24-hour emergency service available.

Bobby Crohn, D.D.S., Monroe Dental Office 400 State Route 17M, Suite 2, Monroe 845-782-0189 monroedentaloffice.com monroedental@optonline.net

Jill’s Ceramics Where children & adults create their own functional works of art

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Call for Extended Group Hours/Pricing and Current Weekend Hours

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Dr. Crohn graduated from SUNY Stony Brook with a degree in biology. He received his Doctor of Dental Surgery from the University at Buffalo in 1992, and he completed his general practice residency at Danbury Hospital in 1993. Dr. Crohn has done extensive additional training in implant dentistry including training with Dr. Nick Elian at Vistara Institute, DentalXP Symposiums, and training at Zimmerman Institute.

Dr. Crohn is a Fellow of the International Congress of Oral Implantologists. He offers state-of-the art treatment including on-site cone beam 3-D imaging.

Angela Boudounis-Hatzis, DDS

• Specialist in dentistry for children and adolescents

Smile More Kidz Meet Your Smile Team 140 Oak Tree Road, Tappan 845-367–4866 smilemorekidz.com

At Smile More Kidz, we are part of a local tradition of providing your children with the very best that dentistry has to offer in a friendly, comfortable setting.

Our entire team understands how children develop and learn and will make the extra effort to make sure nervous kids feel comfortable and respected. We offer 8am–7pm and Saturday appointments so our patients don’t have to miss school for their care, something our team feels strongly about. We believe in building a foundation for a lifetime of healthy smiles by making every visit to our office a fun and informative experience.

A&R Advanced Dental Group, Anna Alekseyeva, D.D.S., Roman Izmailov, D.D.S. 5C Medical Park Drive, Pomona 845-364-9400; aradvanceddental.com

At A&R Advanced Dental Group, patient satisfaction and comfort is our No. 1 priority. We are a cutting edge practice that delivers state-of-the-art dental care to our patients. Dr. Roman Izmailov and Dr. Anna Alekseyeva have more than 30 years of experience in all phases of dentistry, including high quality and affordable dental implants, zirconia crowns, porcelain veneers, fixed bridges, root canal treatments, teeth whitening, and composite fillings.

Evening appointments are available, and we accept most insurances.

Mon, Tues & Weds 930am-300pm; Thurs 700pm-930pm; Friday Kids Classes 300-500pm

• New, state of the art facility

• Digital X-rays used

• Insurance friendly

• Patients seen on time

• Warm and friendly staff.

Stop in and meet us!

265 N. Highland Ave - Suite 101 (Rte 9W-in Children of America Bldg) Nyack, NY Tel: 845-512-8434 www.nyackpediatricdentistry.com

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raising kids ad index NYMetroParents.com features more than 20,000 businesses serving the NY metropolitan area! acrobatics / gymnastics

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Rockland Behavioral Health...........................................33

Tumble-Bee Gymnastics..................................................9

Young Chefs Academy...................................................18

Sachdev Family Orthodontics...................................33, 43

birthday / party services

dance

Smile More Dentistry......................................................43

Academy for Martial Arts................................................14

Danceworks....................................................................33

Smith’s Little Smiles Pediatric Dentistry...................31, 42

Bach to Rock - Nanuet...................................................19

Joffrey Ballet...................................................................19

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Tenafly Pediatrics.....................................................35, 42

Glaze Pottery & Art Studio..............................................14

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education

Valley Pediatrics.............................................................43

Brilliant Minds Daycare & Learning Center.....................21

home services

K12 ..................................................................................7

Suez...............................................................................31

Palisades Country Day School & Camp.........................17

music

family entertainment /

Bach to Rock - Nanuet...................................................19

events / outings

Harrison School of Music................................................11

Greek Festival................................................................29

Moon River Music & Yoga LLC.......................................18

Jill’s Ceramics.................................................................43 Rockland Fencers Club..................................................19 Rockland Parent Party Planner......................................44 Tumble-Bee Gymnastics..................................................9 West Rock Indoor Sports Complex................................14 Young Chefs Academy...................................................18

camps Academy for Martial Arts................................................14 Bach to Rock - Nanuet...................................................19 Brilliant Minds Daycare & Learning Center.....................21 Clarkstown Theatre Company........................................21 Glaze Pottery & Art Studio..............................................14 Harrison School of Music................................................11 HPAL - Rockland Theatre Company...............................31 Joffrey Ballet...................................................................19 Moon River Music & Yoga LLC.......................................18 Palisades Country Day School & Camp.........................17

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Rockland Center for the Arts..........................................18

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Academy for Martial Arts................................................14

The Wholeness Center...................................................14

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West Rock Indoor Sports Complex................................14 Young Chefs Academy...................................................18

child care / day care Brilliant Minds Daycare & Learning Center.....................21

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Tumble-Bee Gymnastics..................................................9

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Help is Here Coaching, LLC...........................................27 Jill’s Ceramics.................................................................43 Nyack Pediatric Dentistry...............................................43 Spots OT........................................................................37 Tumble-Bee Gymnastics..................................................9

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Moon River Music & Yoga LLC.......................................18

Kastin & Newman Orthodontics......................................42

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Nyack Pediatric Dentistry...............................................43

West Rock Indoor Sports Complex................................14

Academy for Martial Arts................................................14 Phoenix Aquatic Club.....................................................11

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raising kids quotables

What are you most looking forward to doing with your kids this summer?

“Nothing! Having four kids means making four lunches and driving to four different after-school activities. I’m looking forward to taking a break and spending some quality time as a family doing nothing.”

—Sabrina Marquez, Haverstraw

“We take a trip every summer to the Poconos. This year my husband’s family will be joining too, and I’m so excited about slowing things down a bit and getting away from our busy Brooklyn neighborhood.”

—Corrina Inez, Williamsburg, Brooklyn

“My oldest daughter will be attending camp for the first time. I’m excited to visit her on Parent’s Day and learn about all the great things she is experiencing. Camp was such a special time in my life, and I’m happy to share that with my daughter.”

—Rachel Fisher, Manhattan

in an instagram “Long work weeks allow me to appreciate these moments that much more. I live for the moment that I get to unplug and sneak away with my little people to explore, discover, and take in the beauty of nature. What I have realized is minus the devices I barely have to use my motivational mom voice.”

“I love taking my kids to the playground in the summer, especially at dusk, when the sun is starting to set but it’s still warm out. It’s just one of those uniquely New York experiences, being outside in the city at night with kids. It’s almost magical.”

—Lisa Terk, Long Island City, Queens

“The beaches on Long Island are where it’s at during the summer.

This summer my kids are learning to surf, so I can’t wait to see them on their boards!”

—Christine Feldenberg, Smithtown

(Posted by @geaninecilenti aka Bronx mom, Geanine Cilenti)

Because on those nights, when that sweet little girl asks for one more thing (whether it’s another glass of water or another book or another snuggle), she doesn’t understand.

She doesn’t understand that for the last two hours, you said “please eat your dinner” and “please stop falling off of your chair” and “yes, you need to eat at least once carrot” and “we don’t slap each other’s butts at the table”… and then you washed the hair of a small human who writhed in pain and spit fire at you as shampoo clearly is a form of torture and then wrestled him into pajama bottoms as he tried wriggling away in a 10-minute long game of pretending to be a slippery eel.

-Karen Johnson in a post entitled “Why I F*cking Hate Bedtime,” on scarymommy.com.

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Stay Cool When It’s HOT Outside!

“Whenever high heat and humidity reach critical levels, any activities that last 15 minutes or more should not be too intense. Before prolonged physical activity (think baseball, soccer, or any kind of running), your child should be well hydrated. During the activity, make sure your child drinks periodically, even if he is not thirsty.”

—Danielle Sullivan in an article entitled “Outdoor Summer Safety For Kids”; read the whole thing at nymetroparents.com/ summer-safety.

More NYMetroParents.com Highlights: CELEBRATE DAD: Find tips for making Father’s Day extra special at nymetroparents.com/fathers-day.

DAY TRIP: Visit Hyde Park, home of President Franklin Roosevelt (nymetroparents.com/hyde-park).

ACTIVITY QUIZ: Plan the perfect day for your family at nymetroparents.com/activity-quiz.

FREE ADVICE: Download a helpful parenting guide at nymetroparents.com/freebies.

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RECLAIMING MY PRIDE Ransom Ashley

An Art Exhibition presented

by Metrosource atop One World Observatory June 21-24, 2018 Each exhibit ticket purchased will raise funds for the Ali Forney Center

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Images are of submissions to the contest and are not finalists. Exhibited works are subject to change without notice.

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Finalist artists showcased in the exhibition entered their works into Metrosource’s Reclaiming My Pride contest to express what pride means to them in the spirit of community, creativity, and charity.

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