Rockland Parent October 2019

Rockland Parent NYMETROPARENTS.COM OCTOBER 2019

Happy Halloween!

Keeping kids safe while trick-or-treating Haunted houses, pumpkin patches, and more!

Wild Birthdays Three major party trends Surviving the Sweet 16 Plus, planning resources

Crafting the Perfect Baby Registry

HELPING PARENTS MAKE BETTER DECISIONS

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Safety Tricks (and Treats) for Halloween

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Halloween Fun in NYC

Prepare your kids, so Halloween is safe and stress-free for everyone

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Events to kick off the spooky season and guides for other fall events

Can You Afford to Stay Home?

What to consider when deciding whether to go back to work or become a stay-at-home parent

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Safety Tricks (and Treats) for Halloween 11 Working with Your Nanny—When You Work from Home 16 Study Habits to Improve Grades 18 Back-to-School Resources 36 Baby’s Wish List 39 The Disaster Zone 42 Meet the Health Care Professional 44 Party Planner 45 Advertisers’ Index

20 Halloween Fun in NYC

38 Can You Afford to Stay Home?

21 Family Activities Calendar

40 Moving Right Along

32 50 Fall Faves for Families 34 How to Carve a Jack-O’-Lantern

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Helping Parents Make Better Decisions ON THE COVER ›› 10 Keeping kids safe while trick-or-treating 12 Three major party trends 14 Planning Resources 20 Haunted houses, pumpkin patches, and more 36 Crafting the Perfect Baby Registry 46 Surviving the Sweet 16 facebook.com/nymetroparents

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OCTOBER 2019 • Vol.13 • No.1

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It’s Spooky Season

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risp air, cooler temperatures, and (soon) the changing of the leaves. Those are a few of our favorite things, but nothing beats our favorite fall holiday: Halloween! Some people celebrate their birthdays for the whole month, but we celebrate Halloween all month long—and affectionately refer to it as Spooky Season.

(Though, if we’re being honest, we officially started celebrating on Friday the 13th.)

In this issue, you’ll find a roundup of the best Halloween events in the community (p. 30), from spooky movie screenings to Halloween scavenger hunts, as well as a few can’t-miss celebrations in Manhattan (don’t miss the dogs in costumes!), to get you in a ghoulish mood (p. 20). Plus, you’ll find tips to keep your kids safe while trick-ortreating (p. 10).

Bonus: We’re creating a Halloween e-book just for you, full of advice, 2019’s hottest costumes, places to celebrate, and more! Look for it on nymetroparents.com in early October.

Speaking of celebrating birthdays all month long, this also happens to be our birthday issue! We spoke to moms, party planners, and trend experts to find the three most-popular party themes that break the mold—and provide tips for throwing them (p. 12).

I didn’t have a huge bash for my Sweet 16—they weren’t really a thing in Maine.

We likely celebrated with dinner at my favorite restaurant, followed by blueberry pie and presents at home. Looking back, I don’t mind that the affair was low-key— especially after reading about Suzanne Bergen’s experience. In “The (Not-So) Sweet Season” (p. 46), Bergen compares organizing her daughter’s Sweet 16 to planning her own wedding. Ultimately, though, it was all worth it. If you’re getting ready to plan a birthday party, make the best decisions for your child’s celebration by checking out the birthday party resources directory (p. 14).

However you choose to celebrate (Halloween or birthdays), we hope it’s a blast!

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Helping Parents Make Better Decisions

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Who: Powerhouse Dance Center What’s New: The Stony Point location, which opened Sept. 7.

The studio has classes that range from beginner level to advanced, for dancers ages 2 to adult.

Classes encompass a wide array of dance styles including ballet, tap, jazz, hip-hop, lyrical, pointe, contemporary, acro, and combo classes for toddlers.

Melissa Smith and Joe Avallone, owners of Powerhouse Dance Center, say they decided to open the Stony Point location because their former facility could not fit their roster of 350 students. The state-of-the-art facility is 12,000 square feet and comfortably accommodates the dance center’s climbing enrollment.

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Who: Dental Wellness of Suffern What’s New: Sherri Alpert, D.M.D., received official certification for dental implants in August.

This means Dr. Alpert can give dental implants to adults who need them. She also became a fellow in the international congress of oral implantologists.

Dr. Alpert describes Dental Wellness of Suffern as a practice that offers emotional support in a non-stressful environment for kids and their families. She says she intends to give kids a great first dental experience with comforting aspects, such as a kid’s room and indoor mural painted by all first-year patients.

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Safety Tricks (and Treats) for Halloween

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alloween is one of kids’ favorite nights of the year, but it can also present some scary situations. Walking in the dark, wearing costumes, and receiving candy from strangers can make kids vulnerable to danger. Fortunately, there are ways to prepare your kids so Halloween is safe and stress-free for everyone.

Be Careful About Candy

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Choose Costumes Wisely

When it comes to Halloween safety, there’s no substitute for parental supervision, says Chris Hughes, the chief of police at Northport Police Department in Suffolk County. Kids younger than 12 should not go trick-or-treating without an adult, adds Debra Holtzman, J.D., M.A., author of The Safe Baby, and a national child safety expert. “Always look left, right, and left again when crossing, and keep looking as you cross. Hold the hands of young children and accompany them to the door of every home they visit,” she says.

Stay Local

When kids are ready to go out on their own, they should not trick or treat in any unfamiliar part of town, Hughes says.

Knowing where they are, how to get home safely, and who to go to for help—such as a neighbor or other trusted adult in the neighborhood—is crucial. They should only go up to houses with lights on, keep their cellphones fully charged, and never go inside any home, Holtzman advises.

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Make sure your child knows to never eat anything that is unwrapped or appears to be homemade, Hughes says. You should “discard any candy that is a choking hazard, or that your child is allergic to, or that is not in its original wrapper, or looks as though it has been opened,” Holtzman adds.

“Children are more than twice as likely to be hit by a car and killed on Halloween than on any other day of the year,” Holtzman says. Crossing the street carefully can help prevent car accidents—but costumes matter too. Kids should wear reflective tape on their costumes, and costumes should allow for 100-percent visibility. “Should something happen, you want to be able to see it coming,” Hughes says.

Consider face-paint instead of masks, Holtzman suggests, because it ensures kids can see and it won’t restrict breathing.

Costumes should also be flame-resistant, and short enough that kids won’t trip or fall.

Don’t Be Spooked

Halloween is and should remain a fun and festive holiday—as long as a few safety rules are in place. In general, Hughes says, kids should stay aware of their surroundings and avoid engaging with strangers. This will help everyone have more fun—even parents, who won’t have to worry while their kids trick or treat.

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Here are a few guidelines that will help everyone work well together.

• Have a weekly or biweekly meeting (though not in front of the kids) to discuss how things are going.

• Avoid interrupting conversation between the nanny and children when they are engaged.

• Don’t intervene. Even when a child is crying, throwing a tantrum, or having some sort of problem at school, let the nanny handle this as though you were working out of the house.

• You and the nanny should set up a routine for mealtime, naptime, bathing, bedtime, and social activities. If you need to step out of the home office, try to do it when the kids are otherwise engaged.

• The day should operate as if the parent commuted to a job outside the home. Say a quick goodbye each day and then head to the home office.

Although maneuvering between work and home mindsets (when office and home are in the same place!) can be confusing, it can be done successfully and smoothly as long as you and your nanny respect each other’s workspaces. In fact, it could be the best of both worlds— the people who care most about the kids are all in one place!

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Favors: Try this Pinterest favorite: Put animal crackers in mini mason jars or clear bags and decorate them with homemade tags. Or have the kids create mini terrariums, which double as favors, says Seri Kertzner, founder of Little Miss Party, a New York events company. Another idea: stuffed animals the kids can “adopt” and take home.

Kidchella

Throwing your own festival became a popular trend after Kim Kardashian celebrated her daughter North’s first birthday party with a kids’ version of the famous music festival Coachella. (Etsy has recently seen a 33 percent increase in searches for festival-themed items, Johnson says.) Kardashian’s bash featured a Ferris wheel, food stands, tents, and a stage, but fear not!

You don’t need to have her budget to throw your own Kidchella.

Tips: Festivals are all about the music. There are DJs out there who specialize in kids’ parties, and will do dance games and give out prizes. If a DJ isn’t in the budget, create a great playlist. You could also hire a face painter or use a tool like Blinger to decorate hair and clothes with sparkles. When it comes to décor, hang outdoor fairy lights and make your own festival signs.

Favors: Set up a craft station and make flower crowns (Little Miss Party has a great online tutorial).

Enchanted Forest

One of Pinterest’s biggest party trends of 2019 (searches jumped by 238 percent since last year, according to Johnson) is fairy forests. Think: fairy and elf costumes, toadstool seats, and lots of natural decorations like flowers, wood, grass, and moss. With all this magic, it’s a great theme to inspire little imaginations.

Tips: Summer Ticas, a Manhattan mom, brought the enchanted forest inside for her daughter Andrea’s fourth birthday party. She used online tutorials from Pinterest to create trees out of twisted green and brown craft paper, and fairy lanterns using jars and glitter. She then sourced fairy garden miniatures (think mini-houses and toadstools) to decorate. For activities she set up craft stations for kids to make fairy dust necklaces and mini terrariums they could take home.

Favors: Ticas made fairy tutus, wands and wings, elf hats, and capes for her daughter’s guests. The kids loved running around the enchanted forest in their fairy garb. Plus, Pinterest has some great DIY fairy houses, which could work as favors.

Emma Steven is a British freelance writer living in Manhattan with her husband, two small kids, and two cats.

HELPFUL TIPS FOR PLANNING A CREATIVE BASH Decorations

Creating themed party décor looks easy enough on social media, but it can be overwhelming to do yourself. You could consult a party planner, or you could try one of these tricks: • U tilize Etsy. It’s a great place to find creative décor, favors, and invitations that look like you made them yourself.

• F or DIYers, start early and stay organized with a timeline. Manhattan mom Summer Ticas, who often creates all the décor herself, says she starts planning six months out.

• Plan with Pinterest. “I look at all the ideas that come out of the themes and I do spend quite a bit of time creating a board,” Ticas says.

• S ource from wholesalers. In order to save money, Ticas says she sourced fairy gardens for her daughter’s enchanted forest party direct from wholesalers rather than the craft store.

• C reate a balloon garland. It’s one of the most requested items but very easy to do yourself, according to Seri Kertzner, founder of Little Miss Party. “They can be enormous or much more low-key,” Kertzner says, but anything around 10 feet long (approximately 30 balloons) looks fancy and is affordable because there’s no helium. For instructions, check out Little Miss Party’s YouTube tutorial.

Entertainment

Now that you’ve decided to host your own party, figuring out the entertainment is key to happy partygoers.

• M ake the theme age-appropriate. Tarantulas might be great for older kids, but choose something a little easier to handle for toddlers.

• D o your research. Irvington mom Stephanie Minkoff used word of mouth recommendations and Facebook reviews to help her choose a wild animal handler for her sons’ party. “I probably contacted ten different people, and I got prices from four hundred dollars to four thousand dollars,” she says.

• B ook early. “These guys get booked quickly!” Minkoff says.

• C onsider low-cost options that fit with the theme. Think: a scavenger hunt, an epic game of hide and seek, or DIY party favors.

Favors

If you’ve settled on giving favors to each guest, consider these tips: • D on’t give a favor that’s just going to end up in the trash.

“I will always do something that is seasonally related or something that’s going to be useful to the parent or child,” Kertzner says. For example, personalized water bottles in the summer and mittens in the winter.

• B ring spares in case an extra guest turns up.

“I always have extra favors on hand now,” Kertzner says. “If I end up with extras at the end of the party, I use them as gifts or return them.”

Birthday Party Directory BIRTHDAY PARTY ENTERTAINMENT Characters On Call

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Whether you’re looking for a princess, superhero, mermaid, or cuddly friend, we are ready to help you. Popular characters are brought to life by entertainers who are professional actors, childcare workers, teachers, or artists with big hearts and imaginations.

Fudgie the Clown and Mystique the Magician

Serving Rockland and Bergen counties 201-825-7481 fudgietheclown.com Clowning and magic for any occasion!

Invite Fudgie or Mystique to your next party, picnic, or event. Fudgie is an awardwinning clown and professional family entertainer specializing in magic, face painting, and balloon animals. Ask about mid-week special rates. Fully insured.

Inflatable Party Adventures

Serving Rockland, Northern New Jersey, and Westchester 845-267-2022 inflatablepartyadventures.com Premier state-of-the-art inflatables and entertainment equipment at a price that can’t be beat. Every rental includes our riskfree rain policy. We specialize in delivering the type of fun guaranteed to make your next event one to be remembered and talked about for years to come.

SweetGuy Ice Cream Truck

Serving Rockland and Bergen since 2011 845-499-5480 sweetguyicecream.com sweetguyicecream@gmail.com Invite SweetGuy to your child’s birthday party and get some really sweet extras! We provide a photo booth and great props for souvenir photos. The birthday child will get a free t-shirt and a guest server spot onboard the SweetGuy Ice Cream truck!

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Bach to Rock - Nanuet

150 E. Route 59, Nanuet 845-215-9536 nanuet.b2rmusic.com nanuet@bachtorock.com Bach to Rock offers birthday parties for kids and adults. The Rock Birthday Party consists of a two-hour jam and recording session. Karaoke Birthday Party is for kids eager to become a superstar singer for a day. The Rock City Birthday Party allows children to explore rock ‘n’ roll instruments.

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Come visit our unique toy store in Pomona. We offer a great selection of Melissa & Doug crafts and many other quality, affordable, educational toys, crafts, games, and puzzles for kids of all ages, both boys and girls.

BIRTHDAY PARTY PLACES

Jill’s Ceramics

180 Germonds Road, West Nyack 845-623-4975 jillceramics.com jillsceramics@aol.com We offer a fully equipped ceramics and plaster studio where children and adults let their creativity run wild.

Parties for kids include paper goods, a painter’s hat for the birthday child signed by their friends, and an item for each child to paint.

Abrakadoodle Art Studio for Kids

53 Prospect Place, Hillsdale 201-383-0027 abrakadoodle.com kroberts@abrakadoodle.com Paint, slime, draw, fun, clay, and glitter are the cool things we do at our studio!

Abrakadoodle has been serving the community for more than 13 years offering Artie Parties and “no school Workshops” for ages 3 and older. We love mess and watching your children have fun while creating.

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8 Orangetown Shopping Center, Orangeburg 845-359-4500 rocklandkarate.com 7-11 Suffern Place, Suffern 845-368-3209 martialartssuffern.com A karate party is a great way to enter the world of martial arts. It’s also a great way for experienced students to share the martial arts with friends and family.

Spacious, fully-equipped facility, an energetic, cheerful, and professional staff, and martial arts-themed fun and games.

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90 N. Main St., New City 845-634-4977 newcitybowlandbattingcages.com We are well known for our great birthday party packages and offer Glow Bowling for Sunday parties. All parties include bowling, shoe rental, food, paper goods, setup, and cleanup. You bring the cake, and we do the rest. Upgraded packages include custom invitations, French fries, and goodie bags.

43 S. Liberty Drive, Stony Point 845-533-5544 nowyouretalkingspeech.com We offer the perfect party space for an affordable, customizable birthday event for kids age 3 and younger. DIY or premium themed party options. Packages start at just $150 for up to 12 kids. Each additional child only $15. Add-on options available including face painting and Carnival Corner.

Paint Our Pottery

66 Route 9W, Haverstraw 845-553-9002 paintourpottery.com We offer fun and creative ceramic birthday parties where each child gets to take home their own handpainted creation! You can choose party packages that include decorations, food, and themed items or just paintingdepending on your budget.

All parties include painting supplies and party coordinator.

Palisades Climb Adventure

4590 Palisades Center Drive, Level 4 of the Palisades Center, West Nyack 845-727-3500 palisadesclimb.com Palisades Climb Adventure offers the world’s tallest indoor ropes challenge course with 75 unique challenge elements to explore, climb, and conquer.

Our Sky Tykes kids’ ropes course is designed for ages 2-7.

Both courses are available for birthday parties. Book your party today!

Romp N’ Roll

28-29 Orangetown Shopping Center, Orangeburg 845-580-9065 rompnroll.com orangeburg@rompnroll.com Our awesome parties for kids ages 1-6 include exclusive use of gym and party room, moon bounce, rock wall, monkey bars, and bubble machine. Energetic party hosts customize and lead games, songs, and activities that you get to select! We set it up and we clean it up.

Tumble-Bee Gymnastics and Fitness 401 Market St., Nanuet Mall South, Nanuet 845-623-2553 tumble-beegymnastics.com Our bright, colorful facility is the perfect place for your child’s private birthday party (ages 1-12) We provide wonderful, exciting, and energetic party instructors.

Also, free invitations, paper products, and utensils for the kids. The birthday child receives a free gift and balloons. Reserve in advance.

They book quickly!

Vicki’s Dance Studio and Kreative Kids

61 Maple Ave., New City 845-634-2202 vickistudio.com We offer great birthday parties for boys and girls of all ages with a variety of themed options such as Hip-Hop Dance Party and Games Mix, Jumping Gymnastics, Disney Dance Mix, and Dress-up Princess Party! Party packages include decorations, paper products, entertainment, and a party coordinator. Call for details.

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37 W. Jefferson Ave., Pearl River 845-517-1427 visionsportsclub.com Our fun-filled parties are 1½ hours with games and activities of your choice in our Sports Zone, plus a private party room for pizza and cake! Upgrade packages available including additional party time, party favors, Bubble Ball, and Crafts & Kicks. We do the work and you show up for the fun!

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21 Pralle Lane, Nanuet 845-623-3636 westrockindoor.com With 26,000-square-feet of turf, two regulation-size basketball courts, six Har-Tru tennis courts, indoor bouncers, and private party room, we are the ultimate place for your birthday party. Choose one of our specialty or sports parties or customize your own.

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Study Habits to Improve Grades

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Find out how your kids should be hitting the books this back-toschool season.

By Stephen Ferraro, LCSW

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ach school year, I get asked about ways children can improve their grades. With this in mind, I set out to explore how my successful students study. Year after year, I find the following strategies the most successful. It can make a huge difference when you tell your children these are the ways students who earn A’s and B’s study.

Actively listen during review sessions.

This is a time when teachers go over what’s on the test, providing similar questions to what students will see on the real assessment.

It’s a time for students to ask questions and get practice for the upcoming test. It’s critical to be alert!

Ask questions in class to clarify confusion.

Unfortunately, some students may be too embarrassed or afraid to ask questions, but it is likely that another student has the same question on his mind. If something doesn’t make sense, students should ask while it’s fresh in their head.

Read over material two or more times.

Despite its simplicity, some students don’t bother even looking at their notes or opening their textbook. Students may have to read their textbook if they don’t understand something. Although dreaded by many, it’s another method of learning the material.

Furthermore, if you notice that your child has no notes or can’t find her textbook, there’s probably an issue.

Outline text.

Although this requires a lot of patience and time, it forces students to read and think about what’s important enough to write down or type in an organized manner. It then provides a quick study guide to use at any time.

Study in a quiet place.

This allows students to focus their attention on the material being studied without any distractions. Children should put away their phones and just focus on studying. Libraries are a great resource for students because they are quiet and your child will see other people reading, studying, or doing research, which may help with motivation.

Go to extra-help sessions.

Teachers typically offer extra help for students who need it.

Students can set up an appointment or show up during specific days and times. It shows teachers that your child cares about the class and wants to perform better. It puts a student in a positive spotlight and may help him gain a few extra bonus points, not to mention a higher grade from increased learning. If your child is failing, one of the first questions you should ask is whether she has gone to extra help yet.

Watch educational videos.

With Khan Academy, YouTube, and WatchKnowLearn, there is a plethora of websites and resources that students can use to learn from a second source. Sometimes we understand better from one instructor than another, and technology allows it! Just remember, don’t always assume your child needs a new teacher. Sometimes the challenge for your child to learn another way or put forth a little more effort turns out to be a valuable lesson in grit.

Have someone quiz your child beforehand.

Your child can give her notebook, study guide, or textbook to a sibling, parent, or friend, and have him ask questions. If your child is getting the questions right, it will boost her confidence and reassure her she has a good grip on the material. If she is getting questions wrong, it’s time for your child to study more.

Study for multiple days.

If there is a big test coming up, studying a little bit each day can help a child see the material multiple times in a row and ask questions the next day in class if he had trouble. It also provides good time management skills for students with busy schedules who may not be able to devote a lot of time the night before a test.

Just remember, every student learns differently, and it never hurts for her to try a new study strategy. Act as a consultant with your children and help them take responsibility for their learning. The long-term goal should be to make them selfdriven and resilient.

Stephen Ferraro, LCSW, is a current school counselor and former history teacher in a diverse, suburban community in New Jersey. He holds a doctorate in educational leadership and two master’s degrees in school counseling and teaching from Saint Peter’s University.

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Back-to-School Resources CLASSES DANCE Coupé Theatre Studio

430 Market St., Nanuet 845-623-2808 coupedance.com For more than 45 years Coupé Theatre Studio has offered the finest training in all areas of the performing arts. Classes include Ballet, Pre-pointe and Pointe, Variations, Partnering, Jazz, Contemporary Jazz, Acro, Tap, Modern Dance, Hip-hop, Theatre Dance, Musical Theatre, Acting, and Vocal Technique. For students ages 3 through adult.

FOREIGN LANGUAGE German Language School - Westwood

Saturday only class and Summer Camp 460 Hillsdale Ave., Hillsdale 201-825-9770 germanschoolnj.org info@germanschoolnj.org The German Language School Westwood is a non-profit organization in Bergen County. We welcome students of all nationalities and backgrounds. Most classes meet on Saturday mornings, for children of all levels, with additional adult classes offered on evenings. All teachers are experienced language instructors.

THEATER

Danceworks

69 Lake Road, Congers 845-268-4669 Offering classes in creative dance, pre-ballet, pointe, tap, jazz, and hip-hop for ages 3 through teen as well as adult ballet workout classes (free babysitting).

Specializing in children-encouraging a friendly, non-competitive atmosphere.

Several children have gone on to study at the School of American Ballet in Manhattan. Free trial classes.

Studio Jacked Dance Company

149 Main St., Unit K, Nanuet 845-623-5225 studiojacked.com studiojackeddance@gmail.com We welcome dancers of all abilities into our dance family with love, support, and positive vibes. Offering recreational and competitive dance classes including ballet, jazz, lyrical, lyrical hip-hop, contemporary, street jazz, blast, all boy hip-hop, mommy and me, Jacked Ice Breakerz, and adult fitness. Come join Rockland’s coolest dance family.

Vicki’s Dance Studio and Kreative Kids

61 Maple Ave., New City 845-634-2202 vickistudio.com For more than 30 years, Vicki’s Studio has been inspiring and motivating students. They offer beginner to advanced classes for ages 2-adult, including jazz, tap, hip-hop, ballet, pointe, lyrical, modern, creative movement, boys hip-hop, gymnastics, combination classes, and musical theater classes. For experienced dancers they offer a competitive dance team (try-outs required).

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Clarkstown Theatre Company

8 Second St., Lower Level, New City 845-708-2288 clarkstowntheatrecompany.com Clarkstown Theatre Company began in our community to create and develop artists as actors and performers. We are a year-round studio that offers acting classes, musical theater workshops, and intimate, original showpieces. Join us where the craft of theater is experienced in a warm and positive environment with professional instructors.

GYMNASTICS & CHEERLEADING Tumble-Bee Gymnastics and Fitness

401 Market St., Nanuet Mall South, Nanuet 845-623-2553 tumble-beegymnastics.com Tumble-Bee Gymnastics and Fitness offers an education in gymnastics, fitness, and fun. Serving Rockland for more than 30 years, we offer programs for children ages 10 months to 12 years. Our staff is warm, caring, and well trained to work with your child building confidence and self-esteem to achieve success in the future.

MARTIAL ARTS The Academy For Martial Arts

8 Orangetown Shopping Center, Orangeburg 845-359-4500 rocklandkarate.com 7-11 Suffern Place, Suffern 845-368-3209 martialartssuffern.com As a parent, you want to protect your child from dangerous situations. Martial arts lessons are a fantastic solution and TAMA has been teaching them for more than 20 years. Every kid should learn self-defense. It’s like learning to swim-it’s lots of fun, can save your life, and builds self-control and self-confidence.

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MULTI-SPORTS PROGRAMS West Rock Indoor Sports and Entertainment Complex

21 Pralle Lane, Nanuet 845-623-3636 westrockindoor.com Rockland’s premier facility for sports training, development, birthday parties, and special events, offers programs for children and adults in basketball, soccer, lacrosse, baseball, tennis, and fitness. Our skilled staff ensures your child has the perfect mix of fun, physical activity, and training.

BACK TO SCHOOL SERVICES DENTISTS & ORTHODONTISTS Clemente Orthodontics

603 S. Route 304, New City 845-638-6646 60 W. Ridgewood Ave., Ridgewood, NJ 201-447-2888 clementeorthodontics.com Our patients receive the benefit of experience, quality, and energy that comes with a multigenerational team. Dr. Michael Clemente and his daughters, Drs. Nicole Clemente and Marissa Clemente, work together seamlessly. They run a state-ofthe-art practice with digital X-rays, private treatment rooms, impression-free Invisalign, Acceledent, and an experienced staff. Complimentary consultations.

Cohen Orthodontics - Gwen Cohen, D.D.S. Practice Limited to Orthodontics

156 Ramapo Valley Road, Mahwah 201-828-9188 cohenortho.com Dr. Gwen Cohen, in private practice for 20 years, provides both children and adults a friendly, modern approach to orthodontics. Dr. Cohen is a board-certified orthodontist, and a Diamond Level Top 1 percent provider of Invisalign. The office utilizes digital scanning and x-rays in a relaxed and comfortable atmosphere.

Dental Wellness of Suffern Sherri Alpert, D.D.S.

2 Executive Blvd., Suite 307, Suffern 845-918-1801 dentalwellnessofsuffern.com dentalwellness@optonline.net Dr. Alpert is excited to offer drill-free, needle-free dentistry with the Solea CO2 Laser. A parent herself, Dr. Alpert enjoys working with children who are apprehensive about the dentist, as well as those with special needs, creating a fun environment with magic tricks, a wall mural, and a lot of patience.

Marita Smith, D.D.S. Smith’s Little Smiles Pediatric Dentistry

5C Medical Park Drive, Pomona 845-414-9626 smithslittlesmiles.com drsmith@smithslittlesmiles.com Dr. Marita Smith is a board-certified pediatric dentist dedicated to providing excellent dental care for children infancy-adolescence in a warm and friendly environment. Dr. Smith completed her pediatrics specialty at a Level 1 Trauma center, with extensive training at the Rose F. Kennedy Center in caring for children with special needs.

Nyack Pediatric Dentistry Dr. Angela Boudounis-Hatzis

265 N. Highland Ave., (Route 9W), Nyack 845-512-8434 nyackpediatricdentistry.com drb@nyackpediatricdentistry.com Nyack Pediatric Dentistry is a cutting-edge practice that delivers state-ofthe-art oral health care to the pediatric population, from birth through their teenage years. We believe that good oral health begins with prevention. Using age-appropriate techniques, we accomplish this through education and motivation. We welcome special needs patients.

Smile More Kidz Dr. Darren Tong

140 Oak Tree Road, Tappan 845-367-7782 smilemorekidz.com Dr. Tong is a certified pediatric dentist, voted Favorite Kids Doc by NJ Family Magazine for five consecutive years. He specializes in treating children including those with special needs. Dr. Tong and his entire Smile Team is focused on the specific dental needs of kids of all ages.

DOCTORS Crystal Run Healthcare

and teens to give them tools that are transferable to all aspects of their lives. Using a variety of strategies and techniques, she teaches important life skills that allow them to function well emotionally now and in the future.

Now You’re Talking LLC Sandra Gotthardt, M.S., C.C.C.-S.L.P., T.S.S.L.D. Diana Hughes, M.S., C.C.C.-S.L.P., T.S.S.L.D. Pediatric Private Speech Therapy Clinic

43 South Liberty Drive, Stony Point 845-533-5544 nowyouretalkingspeech.com sgotthardt@nowyourtalkingspeech.com We offer the utmost care in treating your child’s unique needs with a fun, tailored, speech language plan aimed at bringing communication skills to an age-appropriate level. Sandra and Diana are nationally board-certified speech language pathologists. Sandra is also a certified orofacial myofunctional therapist who works collaboratively with other related health specialists.

STORES & RESOURCES SPOTS Special Programs in Occupational Therapy Services

30 Ramland Road, Orangeburg 845-848-2228 spotsot.com SPOTS is a pediatric occupational therapy practice that provides services for toddlers-teens. We are committed to fostering a child’s self-esteem and confidence while utilizing their strengths to improve areas of difficulty, such as sensory processing skills, fine and gross motor skills, handwriting skills, social skills, attention and self-regulation skills.

EDUCATION DAY CARE & CHILD CARE Bright Beginnings Preschool & Childcare

2 Centerock Road, West Nyack 845-348-1100 crystalrunhealthcare.com Crystal Run Healthcare is a multi-specialty medical group offering the convenience of more than 50 specialties and 400 providers. Our West Nyack facility offers high quality health care with more than 20 medical and surgical specialties, an infusion center, urgent care, diagnostic testing services, on-site laboratory, diagnostic imaging, and women’s imaging.

6 Charles St., New City 914-420-5785 2 Mountainview Court, Pomona brightbeginningsofrockland.com We offer two great locations to meet your preschool and childcare needs for ages 2 to school-age. Owned and operated by a NYS-certified elementary teacher, we follow a full NYS pre-K curriculum, offer before- and after-school programs, flexible scheduling, NYS-licensed/NAFCC accredited facility. Staff are CPR- and first aid-certified.

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Lipson Family Coaching - Melissa Lipson

275 Route 304, Bardonia 914-649-6923 lipsonfamilycoaching.com melissa@lipsonfamilycoaching.com Melissa Lipson, a professional school guidance counselor, works with children

Bright Beginnings Preschool & Childcare

6 Charles St., New City 914-420-5785 2 Mountainview Court, Pomona brightbeginningsofrockland.com We offer two great locations to meet your preschool and childcare needs for ages

2 to school-age. Owned and operated by a NYS-certified elementary teacher, we follow a full NYS pre-K curriculum, offer before- and after-school programs, flexible scheduling, NYS-licensed/NAFCC accredited facility. Staff are CPR- and first aid-certified.

Kreative Kids & Vicki’s Dance Studio

61 Maple Ave., New City 845-634-2202 vickistudio.com Kreative Kids is a toddler and nursery program for ages 16 months to 4 years (diapers welcomed)! Classes are divided by age. We offer arts and crafts, music with instruments, singing, creative movement, tumbling, story time, snack time, and early learning skills. We offer small class sizes and flexible, extended hours.

PRIVATE SCHOOLS Blue Rock School

110 Demarest Mill Road, West Nyack 845-627-0234 bluerockschool.org Blue Rock School offers a unique, progressive, educational approach based on handson experiences. Our creative academic curriculum is infused with the arts, nature, and play from kindergarten through eighth grade. By nurturing children’s love of learning, developing their skills, and encouraging critical thinking we prepare them for a changing world.

Green Meadow Waldorf School

307 Hungry Hollow Road, Chestnut Ridge 845-356-2514 gmws.org gmws.org/admissionseventschedule Green Meadow Waldorf School in Chestnut Ridge offers Parent and Child classes for babies and toddlers age 3 and younger, serves children from nursery-12th grade, and runs popular summer programs.

Founded in 1950, one of the oldest, largest Waldorf schools in the U.S., with approximately 375 students.

SPECIAL NEEDS SPOTS Special Programs in Occupational Therapy Services

30 Ramland Road, Orangeburg 845-848-2228 spotsot.com SPOTS is a pediatric occupational therapy practice that provides services for toddlers-teens. We are committed to fostering a child’s self-esteem and confidence while utilizing their strengths to improve areas of difficulty, such as sensory processing skills, fine and gross motor skills, handwriting skills, social skills, attention and self-regulation skills.

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Courtesy Carl Schurz Park

When it comes to October, all we can think about is Halloween. What better way to enjoy the crisp fall air, the changing colors of the leaves, and decorating for the ghoulish season than getting outside with the family and picking the perfect pumpkin to take home and carve. And if carving pumpkins isn’t your thing, but you want to see epic jack-o’-lanterns, why not meander through a display of 1,000 of them on Governors Island?

The Carl Schurz Park event invites families to bring their decked-out dogs on Sunday, Oct. 20.

Happy Howl-oween!

We love kids in Halloween costumes, but there’s nothing cuter than dogs in Halloween costumes! Carl Schurz Park invites more than 200 uniquely dressed pups to show off in front of a bluechip fashion industry board of judges at the Howl-oween Howl Healthy Hound Fair. Watch, gush, and cheer on the four-legged friends as they wag their tails and strut their stuff. Careful, your little one might be asking for a dog of his own by the end of the day! Sunday, Oct. 20; 12-3pm; Ages: All; Basketball and Hockey Court and John Finley Walk at Carl Schurz Park, 86th Street and East End Ave., Upper East Side; carlschurzparknyc.org

PICK PUMPKINS Decker Farm

435 Richmond Hill Road, Staten Island 718-351-1611 historicrichmondtown.org/ deckerfarm Hours: Saturday-Sunday, Oct. 5-26, 12-5pm Admission: $6 per person or $20 for a family of four. Additional cost for pumpkins Self-guided tours and hayrides offered. Cornfield on-site. Free shuttle bus service available from the Historic Richmond Town parking lot to the farm.

Courtesy Boo at the Zoo

>> For more places to pick pumpkins in your area, visit nymetroparents.com/pumpkins.

Night of 1,000 Jack O’Lanterns NYC

The Halloween-themed weekends at Boo at the Zoo incorporate wildlife while highlighting the best parts of the season.

Lions and Goblins and Gouls, Oh My!

The Bronx Zoo’s annual Halloween favorite Boo at the Zoo is back with spooky fun for the whole family. Favorites include magic shows, the extinct animal graveyard, a corn maze, a costume parade, pumpkin carving demos, mind reading, and (who could forget) a candy trail!

Special events, including the Dinosaur Safari and Spooktacular Night Walks, are available with the purchase of extra an ticket on the website. Saturday-Sunday, Sept. 28-Nov. 3, including Monday, Oct. 14., 10am-5:30pm; Ages: All. $39.95; $34.95 ages 65 and older; $29.95 ages 3-12; free for children 2 and younger. Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx; 718-220-5100; bronxzoo.com/boo-at-the-zoo 20

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Courtesy Rise of the Jack O’Lanterns

GET IN THE SPIRIT OF THE SEASON

Governors Island; ferries leave from 10 South St., Lower Manhattan 718-351-1611 therise.org Hours: Thursday-Sunday, Oct. 17-27, 7-10:30pm Admission: $26; $22 children ages 3-17; free for children 2 and younger See 1,000 jack-o’-lanterns carved by professional artists from the tristate area staged along an illuminated, scenic walking path among the backdrop of centuries-old buildings. Advanced tickets are required. >> For more fun Halloween events like this, visit nymetroparents.com/halloween-fun.

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26 Fun Fairs & Festivals

23 We Can’t Believe It’s FREE!

27 Movers & Shakers

24 The Great Outdoors,

28 Show Time!, Animal Lovers

30 Holiday Fun

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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS

Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

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Fall Forestry Festival FREE

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Yorktown Festival & Street Fair FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 10am-3pm WHERE: New Jersey Forest Tree Nursery, 370 E. Veterans Highway, Jackson, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Explore the great outdoors with demonstrations and activities, including a Forest Fire Service Helicopter water drop, maple sugaring, woodcarving and woodturning, Native American drum circle and dancing, and a scavenger hunt.

WHY WE LOVE IT: There will also be live music and a surprise guest, “Theodore Roosevelt!”

WANT TO GO? facebook.com/events/1324450614377670.

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 11am-5pm WHERE: Jack Devito Veterans Memorial Field, 208-294 Veterans Road, Yorktown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Bring the whole family for a day of food, music, exhibitors, rides, musical performances, and fun.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The fun includes a White Castle eating contest, Dog Costume Parade, and open mic!

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 914-218-3968. yorktownchamber.org.

New York Renaissance Faire

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 10am-5pm WHERE: Downtown Nyack, Main Street, Broadway and Cedar Street, Nyack AGES: All WHAT: The whole family will have fun shopping at this unique street fair.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The fun includes a Kid’s Zone with inflatables, delicious festival foods, and live music.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 845-358-9126. acadaofnyack.com/nyack-street-fair.

WHEN: Through Oct. 6: Saturday-Sunday, 10am-7pm WHERE: Sterling Forest, 600 Route 17A, Tuxedo AGES: All WHAT: The Faire is a rollicking romp through Elizabethan England, set within the Majestic Groves of Sterling Forest. Join Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth I on a grand visit to a beautiful 16th-century English village. Cheer your favorite knight at the Joust Tournament.

Feast on savory sweets and tempting treats.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids will be amazed by acrobats, magical fairies, swashbuckling pirates, and more!

WANT TO GO? $29.95; $25.95 seniors and military; $13 children. 845351-5171. renfair.com/ny.

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Warwick Applefest FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 6, 9am-5pm WHERE: Hudson Valley Village of Warwick, GPS: 225 West St. (Warwick Middle/High School) or 10 Park Ave. (Park Avenue Elementary School), Warwick AGES: All WHAT: The Warwick Applefest features food vendors, music and entertainment, a children’s carnival, and more.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Peruse the farmers’ market and taste slices from the apple pie-baking contest!

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. warwickapplefest.com.

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Nyack Street Fair FREE

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Harvest Fest

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 10am-5pm WHERE: New Jersey Botanical Garden, 2 Morris Road, Ringwood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Have a blast with games, face painting, applesauce making, booths, exhibits, free activities for the youngsters, and all-day music and dancing.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Hayrides and pumpkin painting are just the start of a fun-filled family weekend.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods; $5 per car to park. 973-962-9534. njbg.org.

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7th Annual Great Fall Festival

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, 1-4pm WHERE: Flat Rock Brook Nature Center, 443 Van Nostrand Ave., Englewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Join Flat Rock Brook Nature Center for an afternoon of family fun, music, and great food.

WHY WE LOVE IT: There’s something for everyone with delicious barbecue, live bluegrass music, games, crafts, face and pumpkin painting, canoe rides, and a live birds of prey program.

WANT TO GO? $15; $10 ages 6-17; free for children younger than 5 and for members with pre-registration. 201-567-1265. flatrockbrook.org.

Boo at the Zoo

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 10:30am-3pm WHERE: Trailside Museums & Zoo (for GPS: 55 Hessian Drive, Bear Mountain), Tomkins Cove AGES: All WHAT: Meet at the Bear Den to make spooky snacks for the black bears. Touch real animal skulls, see stuffed specimens in the Nature Study museums, make autumn crafts, and learn about bats and not-soscary owls and vultures.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids can watch the zookeepers help bears enjoy the tasty Halloween treats.

WANT TO GO? $1; $10 parking. 845-786-2701. trailsidezoo.org.

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Home of the ‘Legend’

WHEN: Sept. 28- Nov. 3, see website for schedule WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 639 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Take a spooky tour of Washington Irving’s cottage, and learn about the history of hair-raising stories and 19thcentury crazes—like the vampire scares and séances.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Families can create Halloween-themed art activities, explore the grounds on a literature-themed scavenger hunt, play historic games, pose for a photo op, and listen to some spooky tales.

WANT TO GO? $16; $12 seniors 65 and older and students 18-25; $8 children 3-17; free for members and children younger than 3.

914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

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The Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze

WHEN: Sept. 20-Nov. 30, see website for schedule WHERE: Van Cortlandt Manor, 525 S. Riverside Ave., Croton-on-Hudson AGES: All WHAT: See more than 10,000 individually hand-carved, illuminated jack-o’-lanterns in this elaborate walk-through experience.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The jack-o’-lanterns are awe-inspiring!

WANT TO GO? See website for prices. 914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

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WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the six no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

Crystal Run Healthcare Prenatal Class FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 1, 5-6pm WHERE: West Nyack Office, 2 Centerock Road, West Nyack AGES: Adult WHAT: This program provides guidance and emotional support and helps prepare expectant parents for the arrival of their new baby.

WANT TO GO? 845-703-6999. crystalrunhealthcare.com.

Exploration Station FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 16, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Explore science and the world around you with hands-on stations, along with a discussion and a story. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Culinary Corner FREE

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 21, 5-6pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 8-12 WHAT: Try some Ghoulish Delights. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

FIT4MOM Rockland: Stroller Strides FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 30: Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays, 9-10am WHERE: The Shops at Nanuet, 5101 Fashion Dr., Nanuet AGES: 3-5, adult WHAT: Stroller Strides is a functional, total-body conditioning workout designed for moms with kids in tow. Each 60-minute workout is comprised of strength training, cardio, and core restoration, all while entertaining little ones with songs, activities, and fun. Try your first class for free!

WANT TO GO? 845-367-9450. simon.com.

Preschool Science Storytime FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 18: Fridays, 10-10:45am WHERE: Pearl River Library, 80 Franklin Ave., Pearl River AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Join the library for stories and activities that will encourage interest and exploration in different areas of science.

WANT TO GO? 845-735-4084. pearlriverlibrary.org.

Weekly Drop-In at Rockland Baby Café FREE

WHEN: Through Jan. 31, 2020: Tuesdays, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Rockland Baby Café, 14 S. Main St., Spring Valley AGES: Newborn to 2, adult WHAT: Meet and talk to new moms, learn how to make breast-feeding easier, and get tips on pumping, going back to work, and other parenting topics.

WANT TO GO? 914-922-2240. rocklandgov.com. ››

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Haunted Forest

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 3:30-6:30pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Designed to be entertaining and educational (not scary), tours along the nature center trails to visit the “haunts” of nocturnal forest denizens take approximately 1½ hours, after which participants can enjoy refreshments and crafts around the campfire.

WANT TO GO? $16; $11 members. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Apple Cider Making

WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Sundays, 2-3pm and 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Use an apple press to help make cider and learn about the history of apple cultivation and cider making. Help by bringing three or more apples per person. Pre-registration is required.

WANT TO GO? $30 family max; $15 family max members; $10 per person; $5 per person members. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Hayrides

WHEN: Through Oct. 31: Monday-Friday, 3-5pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-4pm WHERE: Secor Farms, 85 Airmont Ave., Mahwah, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Take a hayride to the farms corn maze and pumpkin patch.

WANT TO GO? $4; free for children younger than 1. 201-529-2595. secorfarms.com.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Pick Your Own Apples

WHEN: Through Oct. 12: daily, 9am-5pm WHERE: Masker Orchards, 45 Ball Road, Warwick AGES: All WHAT: With 14 varieties of apples ripening throughout the season at Masker Orchards, you’re sure to find all of your family’s favorites.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free; $29.95 per bag of apples. 845-986-1058. maskers.com.

Seasonal Scavenger Hunt

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 2-3pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Families will receive a set of clues to independently solve nature riddles along Tenafly Nature Center trails.

WANT TO GO? $20 family max; $10 family max members; $6 individual; $3 individual member; free for children younger than 2. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Sunset Hikes

WHEN: Through Oct. 22: Tuesdays, 7pm WHERE: Flat Rock Brook Nature Center, 443 Van Nostrand Ave., Englewood, NJ AGES: 10 and older WHAT: These hikes are great for beginners and an easy workout and a relaxing way to end your day. Adults and children 10 and older.

Register online.

WANT TO GO? $5; free for members. 201-567-1265. flatrockbrook.org.

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ONCE UPON A TIME Stories, Songs, and Silliness FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 21: Mondays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Pearl River Library, 80 Franklin Ave., Pearl River AGES: Newborn to 3 WHAT: Stories, songs, and a book or two. Come for the stickers, stay for the bubbles!

WANT TO GO? 845-735-4084. pearlriverlibrary.org.

Twos & Threes Together FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 23: Wednesdays, 9:30-10am WHERE: Pearl River Library, 80 Franklin Ave., Pearl River AGES: 2-3, adult WHAT: This story time is for folks with short attention spans and lots of energy.

WANT TO GO? 845-735-4084. pearlriverlibrary.org.

Tales & Tunes FREE

WHEN: Oct. 1-29, Monday, 11-11:30am and 7-7:30pm; Tuesday, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 36 months and younger WHAT: Stories, fingerplays, songs, and bubbles! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Family Storytime FREE

WHEN: Oct. 1-29, Tuesdays, 2-2:45pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville

AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Stories, songs, puppets, and more! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

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Stories & Craft FREE

WHEN: Oct. 2-30, Wednesdays, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Stories, crafts, and more! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Stories and a Craft with Dee FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 12: Tuesdays, 10-10:45am and 11:15am-12pm WHERE: Pearl River Library, 80 Franklin Ave., Pearl River AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Read, sing, move, and create in this fun story time that supports early literacy.

WANT TO GO? 845-735-4084. pearlriverlibrary.org.

WHAT: Collaborate with Freestyle Arts Association and construct giant sails out of colored fabric that catch the wind and billow and flap into lively, living sculptures.

WANT TO GO? $18; $15 seniors 65 and older; $8 ages 5-18 and students with valid ID; FREE for children 4 and younger and members.

845-534-3115. stormkingartcenter.org.

Preschool Storytime FREE

Crafts with Miss Cheryl FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Wednesdays, 3-4pm WHERE: Teaneck Public Library, 840 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, NJ AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children are invited to this fun preschool story time.

WANT TO GO? 201-837-4171. teanecklibrary.org.

Storytime

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Mondays, 11:30am WHERE: Glaze, 34 Orangetown Shopping Center, Orangeburg AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children enjoy 30 minutes of a new book, then paint a piece of pottery.

WANT TO GO? $20. 845-359-9020. glazeartstudio.com.

Saturday Storytime FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 25, 2020: Saturdays, 11am-12pm WHERE: Teaneck Public Library, 840 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, NJ AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy old and new favorites at this family story time.

WANT TO GO? 201-837-4171. teanecklibrary.org.

CRAFTY KIDS

Children & Families: Watercolor Painting

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 6, 1pm WHERE: Storm King Art Center, Old Pleasant Hill Road (for GPS: 1 Museum Road, New Windsor), Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Observe and paint Storm King’s sculptures and landscapes while experimenting with watercolors.

WANT TO GO? $18; $15 seniors 65 and older; $8 ages 5-18 and students with valid ID; FREE for children 4 and younger and members. 845534-3115. stormkingartcenter.org.

Children & Families: Sail Sculptures

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 13, 1pm WHERE: Storm King Art Center, Old Pleasant Hill Road (for GPS: 1 Museum Road, New Windsor), Cornwall AGES: All

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 23, 4:30-5:15pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Make a fun craft! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Science in Action: Ghost Slime FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 24, 5-6pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 8-12 WHAT: Participate in fun chemistry, physics, and technology experiments to discover more about the world around you! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Children & Families: Pumpkins and Painted Faces

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 27, 1pm WHERE: Storm King Art Center, Old Pleasant Hill Road (for GPS: 1 Museum Road, New Windsor), Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Have fun sculpting pumpkins and enjoy creative face painting.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $18; $15 seniors 65 and older; $8 ages 5-18 and students with valid ID; free for members and children younger than 5.

845-534-3115. stormkingartcenter.org.

Builders Club FREE

WHEN: Oct. 9-28, see website for schedule WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Have fun with LEGO bricks, marble runs, Magic Nuudles, littleBits, K’nex, and more!

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Maker Space Open Hours FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 20: Wednesdays, 6pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Try the 3D printer, take a self-guided coding course, tinker with circuits, or share your current projects in the mini-maker space.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org. ››

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Pearl River Day Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 11am-6pm WHERE: Pearl River Chamber of Commerce, Central Avenue (between John and Main streets), Pearl River AGES: All WHAT: The day will be filled with numerous events and activities including food, music, entertainment, demonstrations, pumpkin painting, bouncy attractions, and more.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. pearlriverny.org.

Fall Festival

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS Fiesta Latina FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 2-4pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Celebrate Hispanic Heritage month with food, music, and dancing! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org.

Green Meadow Fall Fair

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 10am-4pm WHERE: Green Meadow Waldorf School, 307 Hungry Hollow Road, Chestnut Ridge AGES: All WHAT: Activities include candle dipping, face painting, hayride, tree climbing, the Dragon Run, pumpkin carving, caramel apples, and much more.

WANT TO GO? Activity and food prices range from $1-$7. 845-356-2514. gmws.org.

Baby Show Expo

WHEN: Oct. 5-6, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-4pm WHERE: New Jersey Convention and Exposition Center, 97 Sunfield Ave., Edison, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Discover local and regional products and services for newborns, toddlers, and new and expecting parents. Enter to win prizes, join in the seminars, shop, browse, and speak with the experts.

WANT TO GO? $10; $5 in advance; free for kids 13 and younger.

973-477-9101. babyshowexpo.com.

Hogtoberfest

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 1-5:30pm WHERE: Orange County Farmers Museum, 850 NY-17K, enter Berea Road entrance, Montgomery AGES: All WHAT: Hudson Valley’s Official and Biggest Hogtoberfest will be filled with the most amazing bacon and German vendors. The goods include bacon fries, bacon-wrapped meatballs, chocolate-covered bacon, maple bacon donuts, and more.

WANT TO GO? $10 and up; free for kids 12 and younger. baptickets.com.

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WHEN: Oct. 12-14, Saturday-Monday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Sugar Loaf Chamber of Commerce, GPS to 1407 Kings Highway, Sugar Loaf AGES: All WHAT: Spend Columbus Day Weekend at the Sugar Loaf Fall Festival featuring local shops, food, a Kid Zone, live music, and more.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 848-467-8427. sugarloafnewyork.com.

5th Annual Harvest Festival FREE

WHEN: Oct. 12-20, Saturday, 11am-5pm; Sunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: Soukup Farms, 271 Halls Corners Road, Dover Plains AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a long hayride to the PYO pumpkin patch, climb the hay pyramid, get lost in the hay-maze, and play games around the barn and upper lawn.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 845-264-3137. soukupfarms.com.

Heritage of West Nyack Fall Festival FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, 12-4pm WHERE: Heritage of West Nyack, 131 Germonds Road, West Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy food, music, crafts, and more.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 914-419-0720. heritageofwestnyack.org.

Haverstraw Farmers’ Market

WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Sundays, 9am-1pm WHERE: Haverstraw Village Hall, Maple Avenue, Haverstraw AGES: All WHAT: Stop by for fruits, vegetables, healthy eating, and more at the Haverstraw Farmers’ Market.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 845-429-0300. voh-ny.com.

Piermont’s Farmers Market FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 24: Sundays, 10am-3pm WHERE: M & T parking lot in downtown Piermont, Piermont AGES: All WHAT: Visit booths with Hudson Valley farmers, artists, artisans, and chefs.

WANT TO GO? facebook.com/piermontfm

Oradell Farmer’s Market FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 24: Sundays, 10am-3pm WHERE: Oradell Post Office’s Parking Lot, 618 Veldran Ave., Oradell AGES: All WHAT: Peruse a variety of vegetables, fruits, honey, bread, jelly, nuts, cheese, plants, herbs, flowers, eggs, pastries, pickles and olives, and great coffee.

WANT TO GO? 908-605-0041. co.bergen.nj.us.

Nyack Farmers’ Market FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 28: Thursdays, 8am-2pm WHERE: Main Street Parking Lot, Main Street, Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live music, cooking demonstrations, and much more while you shop!

WANT TO GO? 845-353-2221. nyackchamber.org.

Farmers Market

WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Sundays, 10am-2pm WHERE: Hudson Valley Regional Farmers Market, 15 Mount Ebo Road S., Brewster AGES: All WHAT: See what this year-round indoor-outdoor Farmer’s Market has to offer every Sunday.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 845-629-2824. facebook.com/hvregionalfarmersmarket.

Zumbini with Flo FREE

WHEN: Oct. 10-24, Thursdays, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: The Zumbini program combines music, dance, and educational tools for 45 minutes of can’t-stop, won’t-stop bonding, learning, and fun!

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Friday Fun FREE

WHEN: Oct. 4-25, Fridays, 4-5pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: 5-13 WHAT: Enjoy different programs every week, including Builder’s Club, games, 3-D fun with 3-D pens, PS4, Code Club, Science Squad, and more!

WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org.

Gaming Hour FREE

MOVERS & SHAKERS All Sports Day Camp

WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 9, 9am-3pm WHERE: West Rock Indoor Sports Complex, 21 Pralle Lane, Nanuet AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy a day of sports, inflatables, arts and crafts, and activities!

Counselors will create teams to compete in relay races, kickball, dodgeball, basketball, soccer, and much more.

WANT TO GO? $60; $50 in advance; $5 additional for lunch. 845-623-3636. westrockindoor.com.

Gaming Hour FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 3-4pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Play the Nintendo Switch on the big screen!

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

WHEN: Oct. 1-29, Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: 6-13 WHAT: Play the Nintendo Switch and the PS4 on the big screen!

WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org.

Master Ben’s Boardgames FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 25: Mondays, 4-6pm WHERE: Nyack Library, 59 South Broadway, Nyack AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Play some awesome new board games and meet fellow gamers.

WANT TO GO? 845-358-3370x214. nyacklibrary.org.

Magic the Gathering with Master Ben FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 27: Wednesdays, 4-6pm WHERE: Nyack Library, 59 South Broadway, Nyack AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Learn the basics of Magic the Gathering or learn new tricks.

WANT TO GO? 845-358-3370x214. nyacklibrary.org. ››

2019 Meadows & Trails 5K and Kids Dash

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, Registration begins at 7am WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy majestic scenery and gorgeous autumn color as you run (or walk!). Kids 3-6 will have fun during their own Kid’s Dash.

WANT TO GO? $40; $30 5K pre-entry fee through Oct. 17; free entry for Kids Dash. 845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

SunriseWALKS-Pearl River 2019

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, early registration and pre-walk festivities: 9-10am; WALK: 10:15am WHERE: Sunrise Day Camp-Pearl River, Henry Kaufmann Campgrounds, 44 Henry Kaufmann Road, Orangeburg AGES: All WHAT: SunriseWALKS is an event filled with music, face painting, games, prizes, and more! By participating, you will be playing a key role in sending children affected by cancer to Sunrise Day Camp, where they can enjoy summer camp filled with excitement, friendship, and fun.

WANT TO GO? Free for spectators. 516-634-4015. sunrise-walks.org.

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An Afternoon With Edgar Allen Poe FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, 2pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 North Main St., New City AGES: 9 and older WHAT: See Edgar Allen Poe’s works read and performed by The Nyack Village Theatre.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

Regina Carter in Concert

SHOW TIME ‘Sesame Street Live! Make Your Magic’

WHEN: Oct. 4-6, see website for schedule WHERE: New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center St., Newark, NJ AGES: All WHAT: When magician extraordinaire Justin visits Sesame Street to put on a magic show for the entire neighborhood, Elmo wants to be part of the big event. He teams up with Abby and Justin, and together they embark on an amazing journey during which Elmo discovers “the power of yet”—the lesson that with perseverance and practice, nothing can stand between you and your dreams!

WANT TO GO? $26-$131. 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

So You Think You Can Dance Live! 2019

WHEN: Monday, Oct. 14, 7pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: All WHAT: The dancers will captivate audiences with styles varying from lyrical to salsa, hip-hop to contemporary, plus the latest street moves.

WANT TO GO? $49 and up. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

So You Think You Can Dance Live! 2019

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 8pm WHERE: SUNY RCC in Suffern, 145 College Road, Suffern AGES: 5 and older WHAT: See “the finest jazz violinist of her generation.”

WANT TO GO? $40. 845-786-2873. sunyrockland.edu.

‘Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince’ in Concert

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 2pm and 7:30pm WHERE: New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center St., Newark, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Experience the music of the New Jersey Symphony Orchestra live, performing the unforgettable score to the sixth film of the Harry Potter series.

WANT TO GO? $39-$89. 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

ANIMAL LOVERS Woolly Bears

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 5, 10-11:15am WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Take a closer look at these curious, legendary creatures. Help release caterpillars back to the field and then make a woolly bear craft.

WANT TO GO? $5; free for members and children younger than 2.

845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 15, 7:30pm WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: This tour will feature this season’s most popular routines, as well as original pieces created specifically for the nationwide tour.

WANT TO GO? $49 and up. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.

Animals of the Night FREE

American Revolution Demonstration FREE

Children & Families: What’s All the Buzz About?

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 11am-4pm WHERE: Stony Point Battlefield State Historic Site, 44 Battlefield Road, Stony Point AGES: All WHAT: Join the 2nd New York as they demonstrate how an American unit in the first year of the American Revolution would march, drill, charge bayonets, and fire in unison.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-2521. parks.ny.gov.

Disney and the Boys: Will and Anthony Nunziata sing the Sherman Brothers

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 6pm and 8:30pm WHERE: New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center St., Newark, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy timeless songs from Mary Poppins, The Lion King, Aladdin, The Little Mermaid, and more of your favorite Disney films at this multimedia concert from brothers Will and Anthony Nunziata.

WANT TO GO? $50-$70. 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

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WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 12, 1pm WHERE: Sterling Forest State Park, 116 Old Forge Road, Tuxedo AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about the different types of nighttime creatures found within the Park, then dissect owl pellets. Parental supervision is required.

WANT TO GO? 845-351-5907. parks.ny.gov.

WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 20, 1pm WHERE: Storm King Art Center, Old Pleasant Hill Road (for GPS: 1 Museum Road, New Windsor), Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Join a Hudson Highlands Nature Museum educator to explore the minuscule world of insects at the Art Center. Learn who buzzes, whirs, chirps, and sings in fields and forests.

WANT TO GO? $18; $15 seniors 65 and older; $8 ages 5-18 and students with valid ID; free for members and children younger than 5. 845-534-3115. stormkingartcenter.org.

READ to a Dog FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Sign up for a 15-minute session to read to a dog! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org. ››

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Halloween Happenings FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 1-4pm WHERE: Sterling Forest State Park, 116 Old Forge Road, Tuxedo AGES: All WHAT: Learn about the not-so-spooky world of bats and build a bat box of your very own! Also, get into the Halloween spirit with pumpkin painting and trick-or-treating. Parental supervision is required.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-351-5907. parks.ny.gov.

32nd Annual Nyack Chamber of Commerce Halloween Parade FREE WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 3-7:30pm; parade: 5:30pm WHERE: Memorial Park, 4 Depew Ave., Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Dress up and march in the parade. Prizes awarded for best costume and float.

WANT TO GO? 845-353-2221. nyackchamber.org.

HOLIDAY FUN 2019 Grace Pumpkin Parade FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 19, 11am-3pm WHERE: Pulaski Park, 162 Washington St., Poughkeepsie AGES: All WHAT: Don a costume and march, build a float to ride, or just enjoy the festivities as a community to denounce family violence.

WANT TO GO? Event is free, fundraising is encouraged. 845-471-3033. gshpumpkinparade.org/.

No Scare Halloween

WHEN: Oct. 19-20, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: Museum Village, 1010 State Route 17M, Monroe AGES: 3-8, Adult WHAT: Wear your favorite costume and enjoy games and crafts, a scavenger hunt, costume parade, and goodies in the snack bar, plus explore the buildings!

WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $8 children ages 4-12; free for children 3 and younger. 845-782-8248. museumvillage.org.

Kathy Najimy With Screening of ‘Hocus Pocus’ and a Witchy Halloween Costume Contest WHEN: Friday, Oct. 25, 7:30pm WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Join actress Kathy Najimy for a costume contest, live discussion, and Q-and-A before a screening of the classic Halloween movie Hocus Pocus.

WANT TO GO? $29-$99. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.

‘Hocus Pocus’ with Kathy Najimy

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 8pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Join actress Kathy Najimy for a live discussion and Q-and-A before a screening of the classic Halloween movie Hocus Pocus.

WANT TO GO? $19 and up. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

Ridgewood Chamber Annual Halloween Haunted Harvest FREE WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 26, 12-3pm WHERE: Memorial Park at Van Neste Square, South Walnut Street, Ridgewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Wear your costumes for family-friendly fun at this annual event.

WANT TO GO? 201-493-9911. ridgewoodchamber.com.

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‘I Spy’ Halloween Scavenger Haunt

WHEN: Oct. 26-27, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Can you find all of the objects cleverly hidden along the Halloween Trail? Find them all and earn a prize! Then do a Halloween craft.

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 children; $8 members; $6 members’ children.

845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

Halloween Cartoon Marathon FREE

WHEN: Oct. 30-31, Wednesday, 1-8pm; Thursday, 10am-8pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy spooky cartoons and celebrate Halloween!

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Zombie Makeovers FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 31, 4-5pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: 5-14 WHAT: Get ready to get grotesque! Learn how to make yourself look like a zombie with scary make-up tricks. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org.

Haunted Orchards

WHEN: Oct. 3-Nov. 2, see website for schedule WHERE: Demarest Farms, 244 Wierimus Road, Hillsdale AGES: All WHAT: Be transported deep into the orchard to visit the forgotten graveyard nestled within the apple trees, featuring a hayride and a bonechilling series of haunted adventures filled with ghouls, ghosts, and all kinds of scary creatures.

WANT TO GO? $30; $25 in advance. 201-666-0472. hauntedorchardsfarm.com.

Horseman’s Hollow

WHEN: Oct. 4-Nov. 3, See website for schedule WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 381 N. Broadway, Sleepy Hollow AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The undead, the evil, and the insane rule this terrifying landscape, all paying homage to the Hessian who forever hunts his head. Enter the foreboding gates and make your way through haunted landmarks like the cemetery, tavern, and Old Dutch Church.

WANT TO GO? $28 Saturdays; $22; $15 fast track pass; members receive $5 discount. 914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

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Sleepy Hollow Experience

WHEN: Oct. 4-Nov. 3, See website for schedule WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 639 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Meet Ichabod Crane and Katrina Van Tassel, along with a certain headless Hessian, in the very place where Washington Irving imagined them. Follow the characters from scene to scene with live music and a little bit of mayhem. Sip seasonal drinks and enjoy tasty treats at the Van Tassels’ harvest party.

WANT TO GO? $45 and up; $25 and up for children 3-17; members receive 10-percent discount/ticket; free for children younger than 3.

914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

Irving’s Legend

WHEN: Oct. 4-Nov. 3, Thursday-Friday, 6:15pm, 7:30pm, 8:45pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11:30am, 1:30pm, 3:30pm, 5pm, 6:30pm, and 8pm WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 639 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Master storytellers offer dramatic performances of Washington Irving’s classic tale, featuring the Headless Horseman, Ichabod Crane, Brom Bones, and Katrina Van Tassel. Flavored with live spooky music, the spellbinding storytelling captivates all audiences.

WANT TO GO? $28; $22 child; members receive a $5 discount. 914631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

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50 Fall Faves for Families

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e’re lucky to live in an area that’s beautiful all year round, but it’s never prettier than in the fall. Autumn is also a perfect time to have fun as a family: The temperatures are sane, the crazy crowds are gone, and busy work and school schedules make together time a commodity to be especially celebrated. To help you get started, we’ve rounded up 50 awesome seasonal activities—pick and choose your faves and make this a fall your family will always remember.

1. Attend a fall festival in your area (nymetroparents.com/fall-fests). 8. Join the Kite Flight for Peace & Human Rights on Roosevelt Island on Saturday, Sept. 28 (fdrfourfreedomspark.org).

2. Join in on the 93rd Annual Feast of San Gennaro in Manhattan’s Little Italy. (It runs Sept. 12-22—11 days!)

9. Enjoy some of the best leaf-peeping in the entire Northeast (nymetroparents.com/leaf-peeping).

3. Play putt-putt before it’s too cold out (nymetroparents.com/mini-golf).

10. Have an old-timey experience at the 37th Annual Queens County Fair at Queens County Farm Museum Sept. 21-22.

4. Spend a still-warm morning or afternoon exploring the High 11. Take a scenic boat ride before the season ends Line, a 1.45-mile-long public park that runs down Manhattan’s west side from 34th to Gansevoort streets.

(nymetroparents.com/boat-rides).

Attend the Long Island Fair at Old Bethpage—the county 5. Celebrate Hispanic Heritage Month by dancing, decorating a 12. fair for the entire island—Sept. 21-29 (lifair.org). piñata, and more (nymetroparents.com/hispanic-heritage).

13. Make colorful memories at Color Factory in Soho, 6. Learn about marine science at the SUBMERGE Marine Science Festival on Saturday, Sept. 28 in midtown Manhattan (hudsonriverpark.org).

Take in a sensory-friendly theater show in NYC (nymetroparents.com/shows).

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Manhattan (colorfactory.co).

14. Just because summer’s over, it doesn’t mean you have

to stop family vacations! Plan a day trip for a long weekend at nymetroparents.com/day-trips.

15. Rainy day? Make a Low-Mess Pom Pom Hand Puppet with the kids (nymetroparents.com/pompom-craft).

16. Take in the scenery from horseback (nymetroparents.com/horseback).

17. Meet some of your kids’ favorite authors on Saturday, Oct. 5 at Chappaqua Children’s Book Festival (ccbfestival.org).

31. Find vintage treasures at the Brooklyn Flea (brooklynflea.com).

32. Aw, shucks: Oyster Bay’s annual Oyster Festival is Oct. 19-20.

33. Go ice-skating (nymetroparents.com/ice-skating). Nope, it’s not too soon; some rinks open in mid- to late October.

34. See the colorful sights at one of the many Diwali festivals around the city in late October (nymetroparents.com/Diwali).

18. Visit an apple orchard or farm for a day of pretty picking

35. Get lost in (and find your way out of) a corn maze

19. Spend the day exploring Times Square—it’s not just for

36. Spend a weekend in scenic Mystic, CT. 37. For some truly spooky sights, don’t miss the 46th Annual

(nymetroparents.com/apples).

tourists (nymetroparents.com/times-square)!

20. Lace up your hiking boots and hit an area hiking trail (nymetroparents.com/hike).

(nymetroparents.com/corn-mazes)

Village Halloween Parade in Greenwich Village, Manhattan (halloween-nyc.com).

21. Have (way) old-school fun at the New York

38. Check out Six Flags Great Adventure’s Fright Fest Sept.

22. Shop for costumes for the fam at one of these fun

39. Get yourself over to Governor’s Island before it closes Oct. 31.

40. Head to the Bronx Zoo’s Treetop Adventure for nighttime

Renaissance Faire in Tuxedo through Oct. 6 (nymetroparents.com/ren-faire).

Halloween costume store (nymetroparents.com/halloween-stores).

23. Visit Stone Barns Center for Food & Agriculture in Pocantico Hills any weekend through November to meet the pigs and bees, taste farm-to-table foods, and more (stonebarnscenter.org).

24. Come out to watch Manhattan’s Columbus Day parade on Monday, Oct. 14, with more than 100 bands and floats.

25. Take some time to reflect at NYC’s 9/11 Memorial & Museum (911memorial.org).

13-Nov. 3 (sixflags.com).

zip lining (bronxzootreetop.com).

41. Cheer on runners at the New York City Marathon on Nov. 3.

42. Observe Native American Heritage Month with feasts,

arrowhead making, and more (nymetroparents.com/native-american).

43. Planning a bar/bat mitzvah, Sweet 16, or other bash?

Browse the Celebrate Party Showcase in Melville in Suffolk County on Sunday, Nov. 3 or in Tarrytown in Westchester County on Sunday, Nov. 24 (celebrateshowcase.com).

26. Ramble through Wave Hill on Saturday, Oct. 19

44. Enjoy the harvest bounty at a farmer’s market

27. Go big and pick your own pumpkins (nymetroparents.com/pumpkins).

45. Ooh and aah at the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade!

46. Volunteer with your family at a local worthy cause

28. Then decorate your pumpkins with our no-carve ideas

47. Toast the return of cooler weather by trying some of the best

before taking in Vulture Culture: A Live Bird Presentation (wavehill.org).

(nymetroparents.com/no-carve).

29. Head out and enjoy some family-friendly Halloween

activities (nymetroparents.com/halloween-fun). We’re talking haunted houses, corn mazes, and more!

30. Check out the Spooky Pumpkin Garden at the New

York Botanical Garden Sept. 21-Oct. 31, with more than 100 scarecrows set among nearly 1,000 rare and unusual pumpkins and gourds (nybg.org).

(nymetroparents.com/farmers-markets).

(nymetroparents.com/volunteer).

hot chocolates and teas in the area (nymetroparents.com/hot-chocolate).

48. Sit ringside at the Big Apple Circus, returning to Lincoln Center Oct. 12-Feb. 2 (bigapplecircus.com)!

49. Bake a birthday cake with your children—even if it’s no one’s birthday.

50. Get a jump on holiday decorating by cutting your own

Christmas tree—if you celebrate (nymetroparents.com/xmastrees)!

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How to Carve a Jack-O’-Lantern

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Planning to carve a pumpkinfor Halloween but not sure where to start? Follow these easy carving tips from Michael Natiello, creative director of The Great Jack O’ Lantern Blaze in Westchester.

Pick the Perfect Pumpkin

There are two ways to approach it. You either have a design in mind and you know what you want to do, such as a Celtic knot, and then you find the pumpkin that suits the design, or the pumpkin sort of speaks to you and says ‘This is what I want to be.’ For example, if a pumpkin looks like Frankenstein, carve it into Frankenstein.

Head to your nearest pumpkin patch.

• When choosing your pumpkin, look for one that is without bruises, is evenly colored, and isn’t moldy or rotten. Check the bottom for rot and tap gently to hear a firm, hollow sound.

• The lighter the pumpkin’s skin, the softer the pumpkin will be, thus the easier to carve. However, lighter-skinned pumpkins may not last as long post carving.

• Choose a pumpkin with a smooth, flat face, with shallow ridges and few of them. Never carry your pumpkin by the stem.

• If it’s heavy, that’s a good sign. If it’s light, it has probably been sitting around a while, so it will be shriveled up or dried out. It’s like picking an apple—you want the freshest fruit.

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Prepare Your Pumpkin

One you get your orange gourd home: • Wash and dry the pumpkin.

• Cut a hole in the bottom.

• Scoop out the guts.

• Scrape the inside flesh clean and smooth until it’s approximately 1-inch thick.

• Transfer your pattern onto the chosen side or draw your pattern directly onto the pumpkin.

• Make cutouts.

• Light the pumpkin and fine tune as necessary.

• Once complete, wash under cold water.

• Cut a vent or chimney in the back top of the pumpkin.

• Light and enjoy!

The “Cut Out” Method

This is the traditional method of carving a pumpkin, whereby shapes are cut from the flesh, allowing light to shine through.

• Think about your cut before you make it.

• Start in the middle and work your way out (this helps keep the pumpkin structurally sound).

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• • • • • • •

Leave large areas to cut out for last (same reason as above), and cut them into smaller pieces for easier removal.

Keep all cut edges parallel.

Hold your cutting tool perpendicular to the surface.

Cut with gentle, steady, sawing motions.

Point the cutting tool towards the pumpkin’s center.

Resist the urge to poke the cut out into the pumpkin.

Instead, push it out toward you from the inside.

On corners or if changing directions, remove the carving tool then reinsert it in the new direction.

When complete, put a candle in the pumpkin, turn out the lights, and fine tune as needed.

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• Keep it simple. There’s nothing wrong with the triangle for eyes and simple circle for nose and kind of jaggedy mouth, like what you would think of as a traditional jacko’-lantern. Don’t overcomplicate it. There is something really elegant and beautiful about just a simply carved, glowing jack-o’-lantern.

• Make sure that your tools are safe—and supervise your children at all times during the carving. Tools should be sturdy, clean, and sharp. It is actually more dangerous to work with a dull knife or a dull blade.

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How long your pumpkin lasts will depend on weather and the elements, but here are a few tips to lengthen your gourd’s lifespan as much as possible: • It is a fruit. It is perishable. So, make sure it’s in a cool environment. Some people put it in their fridge or a cool, dark place. You don’t want it baking in the blazing sun, because it will rot and turn to mush.

• After carving, clean up the pumpkin with soapy water or disinfect it with a mild bleach solution—that inhibits any mold or bacteria from growing.

• You also can coat any openings with petroleum jelly or commercially available pumpkin preservatives.

• Keep the pumpkin wrapped in plastic in a cool location when not in use.

I ignored your advice about the petroleum jelly. Can I save my jack-o’-lantern?

To rehydrate a shriveled pumpkin, soak in a tub of water overnight. Dry before putting back on display. To prevent mold growth, soak in a solution of water with 10 percent bleach. Dry before putting back on display.

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Baby’s Wish List ›› Don’t be overwhelmed by all the doodads and cute outfits—here’s how to streamline the process of creating a baby registry By Madeleine Burry

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abies may arrive in their birthday suits, but these tiny humans need a whole lot of gear, products, and clothing on hand from day one. The task of creating a baby registry for all that stuff can be overwhelming. “And it doesn’t help that the market is oversaturated and ever-changing,” says Molly Pross, a baby gear expert and founder of Bump Bestie, a baby-planning service.

Parents should register for 85-120 items, according to Pross.

But which items are must-haves, and which can you safely skip?

We asked experts—along with parents, the ultimate pros—to identify their picks for registries, along with advice for crafting a just-right list for your growing family.

Do you need a registry?

If you’re planning to have a baby shower—or anticipate that friends and family will gift your little one with presents—it’s a good idea to have a registry or wish list in place. That way, you can avoid receiving multiple sets of bassinet sheets when you don’t have a bassinet (or getting sheets that don’t fit your particular bassinet). You don’t want to worry about complicated exchanges and returns after baby’s arrival. Creating a registry also helps you get clear on what you’ll want and need to have on hand.

Where should you register?

Thanks to the Internet, registering is easier than ever. You can choose from any number of brick-and-mortar stores or online establishments, such as Target or Amazon. You can also create a registry that pulls in options from several retailers with sites such as babylist.com and myregistry.com. In general: Be mindful of the store’s return policy (just in case you change your mind), as well as

perks the store may offer to parents who register with them.

In addition to registering online, Pross recommends registering at a local boutique. That way, people can touch and feel items, and you’re supporting a local business.

How do you make your wish list?

Try thinking in categories, Pross suggests. “Organizing into buckets gives you a much better picture and helps you prioritize. For example, nursery furniture can have a ten- to fourteen-week lead time [for delivery], so it’s best to get the big items ordered first,” she says.

And while it may be tempting to add tons of items to your list— every single adorable outfit and every might-be-helpful product— Pross suggests a better strategy is to keep your list focused. “If you have everything on there, guests may end up buying things that you don’t need immediately,” Pross notes. It can be helpful to create a private section of your wish list—that only you and your partner can see—to save items you’re considering and to track the items you’ve purchased yourself, Pross suggests.

Safety is an important consideration as you add items to your registry, says Joe Shamie, president of Delta Children.

“Parents should check that the products they are interested in are Juvenile Products Manufacturers Association-certified,” he advises. Products with that certification meet the standards of the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, as well as ASTM International, which develops standards used around the world.

And don’t shy away from practical essentials, says Liz Jeneault, vice president of marketing for Faveable, and a Philadelphia-based mom of a toddler. Diapers, she says, are especially critical (since you’ll go through so many) as well as baby laundry detergent.

Madeleine Burry is a freelance writer and editor who has held staff positions at Parents.com, Scholastic, and About.com. Burry lives in Park Slope, Brooklyn, with her husband and their cat.

You can follow her on Twitter @lovelanewest.

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AN IDEAL REGISTRY ››

The list of specific purchases varies from one parent to another. If you are planning to take advantage of a lot of hand-me-downs, for instance, your needs may be slimmer. A mom who plans to breast-feed will have different needs than a parent who’s opting to bottle- feed.

That said, these are the most important items to consider.

Nursery and Sleep A safe place for your baby to sleep is the No. 1 registry must-have, says Joe Shamie, president of Delta Children. “Portable cribs and play yards are the next best place for a baby to sleep if a crib isn’t available, making them great for short vacations or trips to Grandma’s,” he says. q Crib, along with a mattress and sheets q Changing table—or a changing table topper that you can fit on top of a dresser q Baby monitor q Rocker or gliding chair

q B aby bottles, a breast pump, and bottle cleaning supplies, including a drying rack: Check whether your health insurance plan covers the cost of a breast pump before adding it to your registry. q Formula q N ursing bras and supportive pillows: Liz Jeneault, vice president of marketing for Faveable and a Philadelphiabased mom of a toddler, recommends the My Brest Friend pillow. “It definitely helped me when I was super tired and struggling to stay awake! I feel it also helped my baby latch on better,” she says.

q S torage: closets, drawers, and other organizational systems.

“Baby clothes are small, so it’s easier to have drawer separators or boxes to keep things organized,” says Molly Pross, a baby gear expert and founder of Bump Bestie.

Bath Time What will you need for bathing your infant?

q B aby swing and bouncy chair: These will allow you to put baby down in a comfortable—and safe—space, says Eva Klein, certified infant and child sleep consultant, mom of three, and owner and founder of My Sleeping Baby. “Otherwise, [parents] could find themselves holding the baby all day, which is exhausting!” she adds.

q Bath toys

q S waddle blankets: Klein notes that infants sleep best when they’re properly swaddled.

q A baby-sized towel and washcloths

q A soft cover for the bathtub faucet q An infant tub q S hampoo, soap, and lotion: Look for products specifically made for baby.

q W hite noise machine: Opt for one that won’t automatically shut off, Klein advises.

Transportation Even city parents who only rarely drive should get a car seat, says Sarah Haverstick, safety advocate at Evenflo. “You never know when you may need to utilize a taxi or ride-share vehicle,” she notes.

q S oothing and play items: Think: pacifiers and blankets, Pross says. And, you’ll want to have some toys and books for baby’s first six months, too.

q C ar seat: “Infant car seats are often compatible with strollers—which can make walking around town or getting in and out of ride-share vehicles even easier,” Haverstick says.

Clothing and Diapering What will baby wear? You may be surprised by how many times in a day you’ll change baby’s outfits—and diapers.

q Stroller

q A n outfit for coming home from the hospital—remember, you’ll be buckling your baby into a car seat, so choose something slim fitting with legs.

Safe to Skip q O utfits: Yes, you do need clothes for baby, but it might be a good idea to keep the number included on your registry low.

“They grow out of them quickly, and I had so many left over,” Jeneault says.

q C lothing—including footed pajamas, bodysuits, side-snap tops, socks, and booties q Burp cloths q Sleep sacks q H ats, sweaters, swimsuits, snowsuits: These, of course, will vary depending on the season q Diapers, diaper cream, and wipes Feeding Your needs here will vary depending on if you’ll be breast-feeding or bottle-feeding.

q Wearable baby carrier

q C ar seat covers and accessories: These can present a health risk, Haverstick says, who recommends avoiding extra inserts, cushions, or fluffy harness covers. “You should only use items that are approved by your car seat manufacturer,” she says. Using ones that are not approved may compromise the performance of the car seat in a crash, she adds. q P illows and soft crib items: These are also best avoided for safety reasons, Shamie says, who advises parents to skip baby pillows, crib bumpers, plush toys, and other decorative items destined to live in the crib. “To keep your child safe, we recommend keeping a completely bare crib,” he says.

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Can You Afford to Stay Home? ››

Financial advisors outline what to consider when deciding whether to go back to work or become a stay-at-home parent. By Jacqueline Neber

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any new parents wonder if one of them can stay at home with the kids without straining their finances and current lifestyle. There are several factors at play in that decision, including salary, retirement outlook, and plans for education. It’s a stressful analysis, but financial advisors can offer families crucial feedback about the potential consequences of a parent leaving work, and if stay-at-home parenting makes sense for them.

Sheraz Iftikhar, a managing partner at Arch Global Advisors in New York City, uses several different metrics to figure out how much time at home families can afford. If one parent stays home, he says, the family should ideally be able to afford the same lifestyle as before. Sometimes staying home with your child is more important than the potential revenue from going back to work, but before making that decision, you must consider all of the variables.

Planning for Retirement

If one parent leaves work, the couple should still be able to contribute the same amount to their retirement fund. Iftikhar says 5-10 percent of disposable income made by a couple between the ages of 30-40 should go into retirement savings; that number should increase by 5 percent for a couple between 40-50.

“Now why is that important?” Iftikhar asks. “If you are in your thirties and you’re not able to put away five to ten percent, because now one spouse decides to stay at home, that becomes a difficult decision. Our advice then would be, yeah, you may be able to survive today, but what happens five years down the road and ten years down the road?”

College Tuition

Saving for college is another big issue to consider. Inflation in education is just north of 6 percent for private institution tuition— which means a private college’s current tuition will double in 1213 years. Parents must be aware that if one stops working, they might not be able to save comfortably for their kids’ college.

However, parents can take some of the anxiety out of the college situation by talking about what kind of college they are targeting, Iftikhar says. Private tuition can be incredibly expensive and public schools can be much more affordable. In fact, the price disparity is so large, Iftikhar suggests parents make the discussion a priority.

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both should agree on whether they want to pay for their children’s entire education or make the kids contribute.

“What I wanted [my kids] to do is at least have skin in the game.

I said, ‘I’ll pay for a SUNY—anything above a SUNY cost is on you if you really want that,’” Cohen says. On the other hand, if parents want to pay the entire tuition cost at whatever their child’s dream school may be, they may not be able to afford to have one parent stay at home. “There are tradeoffs on both sides,” Cohen says.

Re-Entering the Workforce

Chris Congema, a certified financial planner at Landmark, raises another potential consequence of one parent leaving the workforce—it’s difficult to get back into it.

“If someone’s going to be leaving the workplace for ten years or five years as they’re raising their children…as technology and time pass them by, do they lose some of the skills that made them employable?” Congema asks. “Do they have to change careers?

Will their education still make sense now? Getting back into the workforce can be a challenge after you’ve been out for so long.”

Making Difficult Decisions

Despite these challenges, Cohen and Congema have noticed a shift in how parents are able to continue working and be with the kids by keeping flexible schedules or working from home.

They have also seen an increase in stay-at-home dads with moms remaining in the workforce. And they’ve noticed that as couples marry and have kids later in life, they are more aware of the preciousness of watching their kids grow up—and of being around for early milestones.

When making the difficult stay-at-home decision, having a financial planner can be vital. At Landmark, Cohen and Congema help couples figure out how much disposable income they have each month, whether they can go without one person’s income, and whether there is any “fat” in their spending that can be cut to mitigate losing one person’s salary.

But even when all the numbers are in, some parents will still decide to buck the financial repercussions in order to spend more time with the kids. This is a decision that ultimately only parents can make.

As Congema says, “[Spending time with the kids] during this important time when they’re forming a personality and who they will be in the future…that’s something that can’t be overlooked or understated.”

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The Disaster Zone

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If your teen can’t seem to keep her room clean, no matter how much you nag her, we’ve got expert tips to help! By Lambeth Hochwald

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f the last time you walked into your teen’s bedroom you walked right out, shocked by the sheer disarray, you’re not alone. Whether due to hormones or disinterest in cleaning, your teen’s bedroom can easily become tornados of dirt and mess. But is it her fault?

“Teenagers’ brains are full,” says Jennifer Snyder, a certified professional organizer and owner of Neat as a Pin Organizing and Cleaning, who works with teens and their parents on ways to keep their rooms tidy. “They have school, driving, tests, sports, work, and other activities. Keeping their rooms clean is usually at the bottom of their priority list.”

Another factor is parents are often the ones who design the layouts of their kid’s rooms—often without the child’s input—which is usually not consistent with how the teen wants to live.

So, without letting your teen too far off the hook, how can you help him maintain some order?

Set Her Up for Success

Leslie Josel, an academic/life coach for teens and a parenting coach in Westchester, says parents have a responsibility to help their teens keep clean. “When parents ask me how to get their kids to organize their room and keep it that way, I lob a question right back at them,” she says. “I ask if their child’s bedroom is set up in a manner that makes it easy for them to create and maintain an organizing system. If they can’t answer that, I send them on a tour of the room.” Then she asks parents to answer the following questions to help them configure a neater space: • Can your teen open his closet door easily or is it partially blocked?

• C an she reach the rod and shelves?

• A re the dresser drawers hard to open?

• I s his dresser crammed full?

• Is there enough room for your teen to store all of her clothes?

• Does he have enough hangers, hooks, storage bins, and boxes?

• D oes she have adequate shelf space for books, memorabilia, electronics, etc.?

• I s there a bulletin board or cork squares on the wall?

• I s there a trash can and hamper? Are they in good condition and easy to use?

• I s there a nightstand for a phone charger, tissues, lamp, water bottle?

• A re there items that belong to other family members stored in your teen’s room?

• D oes your teen know where everything in her room goes?

Tackle the Mess

The first rule of thumb when organizing is everything needs a home. “It’s really that simple,” Josel says. “No matter what your organizing style, if you don’t know where something lives in your room, you’re more apt to let it sit wherever it lands.

That partially explains the landmine that is their floor!” Josel

offers 10 steps to get the cleanup underway.

Before organizing begins, purge. Is the room loaded with empty water bottles, food wrappers, cords to electronics he doesn’t own anymore? Grab a garbage bag and out everything goes.

Start designating specific “homes” for all her belongings.

And make sure these spaces are clearly labeled. When your teen is tired after a long day, visual reminders make cleaning up that much easier.

If your teen needs to see his stuff, remove the closet door.

If you hate looking at his crowded closet, hang curtains above the opening so he can close it off when friends come over.

Replace her dresser with bins lined against a wall to store shirts, jeans, socks, and underwear. This gives her an easy and simple way to get and stay organized.

Hang hooks if he can’t seem to grasp the concept of putting clothes on hangers.

Put all essentials in your teen’s “prime real estate,” which means these items should be stored between his shoulders and knees for easy access. If you have to reach high or move several items out of the way in the closet to put something away, then the likelihood of your teen doing it is super slim.

Leverage the walls. If there’s ample wall space in your teen’s room, hang a bulletin board, cork squares, or even a peg board. They all come in fun colors, are easy to hang, and provide space for notes, invites, and anything else that is hard to organize.

Maximize space with a clear shoe bag. Hang one in her closet or behind the bedroom door and stash small items, like device chargers, jewelry, socks and underwear, belts, and toiletries, for an instant catch-all.

Clear is king: If your teen can’t see it, it doesn’t exist. Don’t stop at clear shoe bags! Consider purchasing transparent bins to help your teen remember what he owns and strategize where it goes.

Pair like with like. This means storing printer paper, ink, toner, and even batteries together. The fewer places your teen needs to look for things, the more likely she will be able to find what she’s looking for quickly and efficiently.

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Moving Right Along ››

10 ways to make a move easier on the whole family By Lambeth Hochwald

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oving is considered one of the most stressful life events, and anyone who has done it knows why. The packing, organizing, re-organizing, and (literal) heavy lifting are always harder than anyone anticipated. Then there are the emotional detachments and re-attachments.

“A move is a huge transition even if you’re going down the street,” says Nicole Black, who runs Coffee and Carpool, a parenting advice site. She should know—she has moved her three school-aged kids to three different states in three years because of her husband’s career.

“While a move away from friends, family, and the only home a child has known can be traumatic and overwhelming, when you take the time to focus on helping your kids through this process, it becomes a smoother, more positive experience for everyone.”

It’s never easy, but experts have found 10 time-tested ways to cope with a big move and ease the journey to a new home.

Focus on the Future

“Moving means two things: You want to be open with your kids about what they’re leaving behind, but you also want to get them focused on new adventures to come,” says Liz Tenety, co-founder of Motherly, a site for millennial moms, and a mom of three who has moved 10 times as a parent due to graduate schools, changing careers, and a growing family. “My husband and I know that our moves were hard on our kids, but by focusing on new people and experiences, they were able to stay resilient.”

Savor the Memories

“One way for your kids to adjust to this big move is to create a picture book about the house you are currently living in, especially if it is the home your kids were brought home to as infants,” Stitt says. “Have them go around and photograph or video a tour of the house, the neighborhood, and even their school. If they are moving more than an hour or two away, having pictures of their old life will give them something to share with their new life, and a younger child might even be able to bring the book to school for show-and-tell.”

Make Decluttering Fun

“When it came time to move, I created a ‘toy store’ so my kids could be part of decluttering their toys and books,” says Ali Wenzke, author of The Art of Happy Moving: How to Declutter, Pack, and Start Over While Maintaining Your Sanity and Finding Happiness. “We bring every single toy into one space and we display it like a toy store. Then the kids can ‘buy’ all of the toys they want to keep, and we donate whatever remains.

Since we create toy store sections such as dolls, cars, puzzles, and board games, everything is already organized in sub-categories.

Decluttering by sub-category makes the items easy to pack and unpack when you get to your new place.”

Don’t Forget to Supervise

“Especially if your kids are very little, you want to make the timing of a move very specific,” says Elisabeth Stitt, a parenting coach at Joyful Parenting Coaching. “This means you should put dates on the family calendar (even if they might change). Refer often to how much more time you have. For toddlers and preschoolers, make it as concrete as possible by tying the date to their regular routine, as in, ‘two more library visits before we go to the new library.’”

“It’s easy to get overwhelmed the days before and during a move,” says Sarah Drennan, a realtor at Terrie O’Connor Realtors in Allendale, NJ. “All the more reason to keep an eye on your kids to avoid what happened to me. I left my toddlers in a room with crayons and packing paper while I was cleaning, only to return to the room to find their art covering every wall. They drew on every wall the night before we were to close and hand our home over to the new buyers. Thank goodness for Mr. Clean Magic Eraser!”

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“Your goal is to make sure your kids are involved in the process from beginning to end,” says Lisa Jacobs, a professional organizer in New York City. “Have a conversation with them about how exciting it is to move into a new home with a brand-new room, while assuring them that all of their favorite toys will go wherever they go.”

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“Kids can easily get freaked out by the frantic scene that occurs when the movers arrive,” says T.J. Peterson, digital media coordinator at Oz Moving & Storage. “When parents hire a sitter, the kids will stay calm during the chaotic moving day scene, and your movers will be able to handle tasks unfettered.”

Focus on a Cool, New Bedroom

“If your child is especially stressed about an upcoming move, recast it and focus on how cool his or her new room will be,” suggests Kristen Wilkenson, founder of Mom Managing Chaos, a site that focuses on helping families stay organized. The mom of three children has moved 11 times in the last 15 years to facilitate job changes. “Is there a paint color he or she has in mind for the room, and how does he or she want it to be decorated? Make it fun by looking through décor magazines and Pinterest to get ideas. Start making the idea of the new place an exciting one.”

Get the Kids Settled First

“The first day you get to your new home will be very stressful, but it’s most important that you arrange your child’s space first,” Wenzke says. “Set up the bedding and create a quiet spot where he or she can be alone, if needed. This way, your child will have a private oasis to escape to during the moving chaos. Plus, you may even get a few minutes to unpack some of your own boxes.”

Scout the Neighborhood for Other Kids

“Having moved my own children several times, I found that it was very important for my kids to meet other kids their age,” Drennan says. “Ask friends of friends if they know of any families with kids the same age or check out local mom groups. I noticed that once my kids had a friend or two nearby, they were better able to settle in.”

Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in NYC.

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The (Not-So) Sweet Season ›› One mom’s account of surviving the planning of the epic birthday blowout By Suzanne Bergen

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That thing sucked up more time and energy than my wedding did. The extravaganza, from what I can tell, is a phenomenon unique to our area and coastal California. Relatives and friends in Florida, Michigan, Pennsylvania, Maryland, Rhode Island, North Carolina, Ohio, and, for that matter, Canada, were all like, “What are you talking about…?”

Kasey has been invited to six Sweets (as the girls call them) in as many months, with plenty more in the pipeline. Not a one is what we might remember from our high school days, i.e., a backyard barbecue in summer or a sleepover. Among them was a Vegas Night blowout of 150 guests at country club. Another invitation, to an Under the Sea gala, came wrapped in an aquamarine tulle ribbon adorned with a real sand dollar that had been sealed to keep it from breaking in the mail.

Yes, this is all nuts for a seemingly random birthday. But as a mom, you want your kid to have and do what her friends have and do. It’s a hard emotion to resist, even if your brain knows the money could be better spent.

Here’s how Kasey’s fete compared to my 1994 wedding: Wedding: The caterer asked what color flowers I wanted on the tables, since they came with the standard wedding package. “Red, I guess, since the bridesmaids are wearing red.” The End. Sweet 16: To come up with the perfect centerpieces for Kasey’s Fashion theme, we evaluated 8,997 Pinterest images. We settled on square glass jars with Chanel labels and a drop of pink food coloring in the water (One drop! Not too dark!) so they look like perfume bottles, but with light pink, white, and blush wildfloweresque flowers in them. No roses. (Even the florist didn’t know the difference between blush and light pink.) I had to go to a craft store to buy the exact right glass jars…well, two craft stores, because the first one didn’t have enough. Then we downloaded and printed out Chanel perfume labels, changing No. 5 to No. 16 (get it?), bought food coloring, and picked up strands of fake pearls to drape over the flowers, because wasn’t Coco Chanel famous for her pearls? After presenting all of this to the florist, he informed me I had to Mod Podge the labels in case water splattered on them.

Wedding: I ordered the second dress I tried on. It came in. It fit fine…I didn’t really love the sleeves, but I didn’t want to complain because the lady was nice. The End. Sweet 16: I took Kasey to nine stores over the course of six Saturdays before she found The Dress. These outings were always accompanied by Kasey’s BFF, Molly, who would buzz around fishing out about a dozen dresses she thought Kasey would like.

Kasey wound up trying on eight to 10 of Molly’s dozen at each of the stores, so you do the math. At the end of each exhausting expedition, the three of us were hungry, and given Molly’s undying patience, I felt the least I could do was treat her to the diner. I spent I don’t know how much on diner meals capping off fruitless dress searches, listening to the girls discuss high-level matters (should the boyfriends of Kasey’s friends get their own invitations?).

We finally secured The Dress at a shop 50 minutes away, and Kasey needed not one, not two, but three fittings at this far-flung locale.

Wedding: The best man gave a short, nice speech. The End. Sweet 16: The candle ceremony, during which the birthday girl recites a short poem in honor of each important person in her life, has more moving parts than 16 candles (Sorry; 17. I kept forgetting the one for good luck). Kasey decided on floating candles, so there were canisters of varying heights. Don’t even ask about the water.

A specially decorated candle lighter was needed, as was her name spelled out in big sparkling letters in front of the candles.

Then there was the matter of drafting 17 poems that not only, obviously, rhymed, but suitably encapsulated Kasey’s history with and feelings for that person, yet wouldn’t take longer than 45 seconds to recite. One candle had two people attached to it (her Girl Scout co-leaders), so that poem alone took an entire evening to craft. Then the DJ reminded us that Kasey needed to pick a song snippet for him to play as each person was called up.

Seventeen song snippets that suitably encapsulated Kasey’s history with and feelings for that person (or Girl Scout co-leaders).

I asked one sympathetic veteran mom, “Please tell me it will be worth it?!” She said it would be when I saw how happy Kasey was.

She was right. My Kasey was beaming all night long. The restrained, quiet, hard-to-read teen was gone, replaced by a silly, laughing girl, clapping, spinning, and jumping up and down—and not just on the dance floor. The last candle lit that night was for me. Kasey said she saved the best for last and thanked me far more eloquently than I had ever heard her speak. The feeling I couldn’t shake in the weeks running up to the big day, that I had done all this, and she wouldn’t appreciate it, was unfounded. My song snippet was from “Wind Beneath My Wings:” It might have appeared to go unnoticed; But I’ve got it all here in my heart; I want you to know I know the truth, of course I know it; I would be nothing without you.

Now I’m among the veterans. Molly’s Sweet is up next. Kasey’s been running around with her dress shopping (payback is…well, you know).

Her mom asked if she could use our floating candle canisters. When I dropped them off, she said, “This is a lot!” I said, “Yep…Let me know how I can help. But it will all be worth it.”

Suzanne Bergen is Long Island writer who marked her son’s 16th birthday with bagels and new sneakers.

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