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The Vaccine Debate Examining the myths and truths

SpecialParent Do you need a special education attorney?

Why Teens Drive Us Crazy

HELPING PARENTS MAKE BETTER DECISIONS

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8 health 12 The Vaccine Debate 14 Stay Calm and Carry On 16 Health Directory

special needs 32 Do You Need a Special Education Attorney?

36 “We’re a Package.”

The Payoffs of Chores

Routine housework can help teach children vital life skills.

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Family Fun in Manhattan

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Safe and Sound

Things to do and see this month in the Big Apple

These tips from security experts will go a long way to keeping your home secure, especially during the upcoming holiday season.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 The Payoffs of Chores 10 Nine Ways to Celebrate Your Nanny 39 Party Central 42 Why Teens Drive Us Crazy 43 Education Directory 44 Meet the Health Care Professional 45 Advertisers’ Index, Party Planner, Family Resource Guide 46 If I Can’t See You, I Can’t Hear You

18 Family Fun in Manhattan 19 Family Activities Calendar

family life 40 Safe and Sound

38 Special Needs Directory

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NOVEMBER 2019 • Vol.13 • No.2

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EDITORIAL

A Season for Caring

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chool’s been in session for two months now—how many times has your family gotten sick? Right now, the cold count for the edit team here at Rockland Parent is zero (knock on wood!).

To protect your family from getting completely knocked out by the nasty bug, you’ve likely all already gotten your flu shots, but there are some parents who still choose not to vaccinate their kids (who could forget the measles outbreak that occurred earlier this year?). We took a dive into “The Vaccine Debate” (p. 12) to uncover why it is people still aren’t vaccinating their kids—and got straight answers from local doctors debunking some common myths.

If you’re looking for a new provider to give your family the flu shot, need a teeth cleaning, or have another health care need, check out our Health Directory (p. 16). It’s full of health care providers in Rockland, so you can choose the best one for your family.

We’re also shining a light on special education this month. If your child has a diagnosed special need and is struggling in school despite their school’s efforts, you might want to consider consulting with a special education attorney. We outline when it’s time to hire one and how they can help you secure the education your child is entitled to on p. 38.

While raising kids means dealing with some serious topics (like the ones mentioned above), a lot of the time we’re looking for fun things to do with our family. So, turn to p. 19 for our November calendar of activities, where you’ll find more than 100 kidfocused events all month long. We’re positive you’ll find the best things to do with your kids—we can’t wait for the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade!

Speaking of which…this month we all give thanks, and we here at Rockland Parent are thankful for you, dear reader!

Happy turkey day!

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The Payoffs of Chores

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›› By Shana Liebman

hores have a bad rap among kids, tweens, and teens for a reason: They’re often boring, difficult, and cut into screen or social time. But parents have many good reasons to ignore the complaints. Routine housework can help teach children vital life skills—not just how to vacuum and do laundry, but habits and strengths that will serve them well in the future. Financial planner Gregg Murset, CEO of chores and financial literacy app BusyKid and a father of six, explains five benefits your children will get from chores.

that is linked to a debit-type card that you put money on based on chores completed, to illustrate the concepts of receiving payments and paying for purchases.

Work Ethic

Time Management Skills

An Appreciation of the Value of a Dollar

An Entrepreneurial Spirit

Your child may not have his first job until well into his teens, so chores can actually function as a first job—teaching him about accountability, quality of work, organization, and planning.

Paying your child biweekly for chores can also help him understand how paychecks work.

When kids see parents shopping online, it can look like they are just picking out items that show up at the house. In this increasingly cash-free society, it’s difficult for kids to understand our “invisible” transactions. Murset recommends parents download a chore management app, such as Chore Check, 8

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The Ability to Budget

If your child wants a new toy or game, have her save money from chores to make the purchase. When kids are given freedom to spend their earned money, they quickly learn the value of hard work vs. the cost of goods.

Kids often aren’t in charge of managing their own busy schedules—school, sports, extra-curriculars—so give your child a sense of control by letting him set the schedule for getting his weekly chores done. Incentivize her by paying only for the chores that get done in a timely fashion.

Kids who start chores young learn skills—say, pet sitting or lawn care—that they can turn into a neighborhood-wide job.

By teaching her that hard work pays, you will inspire her to put down her phone and gaming controller in favor of earning an income.

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Give her a surprise day off.

Have the children make her a special gift.

Invite her to share dinner with your family—either at home or at a restaurant.

Give her an unexpected bonus.

Treat her to a mani-pedi or a full spa day.

Offer help with an aspect of her life you sense she’s struggling with.

Get her a gift, small or large.

Write her a heartfelt card.

Just say “thank you.”

It’s easy to get lost in the day-to-day routine and forget how much of an impact your nanny has on your life. Take the time to recognize her worth—everyone will be happier for it.

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The Vaccine Debate

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Why are parents still refusing to vaccinate? We examine the myths and truths.

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ew York City’s biggest measles outbreak in almost 30 years ended in September, according to Health Department officials, but the conversation about vaccinations is still raging. Headlines in the media, warnings at doctor’s offices, regulations by schools, and even celebrities’ social media posts have perpetuated the debate about the truths and myths of vaccinating. We spoke with pediatricians about this controversial issue that continues to baffle many parents.

Personal Choice or Civic Duty?

Vaccinations are classified into two groups, explains Harvey Karp, M.D., pediatrician, faculty member of University of Southern California School of Medicine, and author of Happiest Baby on the Block. The first group of shots includes rotavirus, hepatitis A, hepatitis B, and chicken pox. While Dr. Karp recommends all vaccines, he classifies these vaccinations as a parent’s choice because the risk you are imposing is limited to your child and family, not the community. That’s because those illnesses are either difficult for a child to pass onto another or are very common—and can spread quickly even with a vaccine.

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are given to protect your child and your neighbor’s child. “[These vaccinations] halt diseases that are so contagious that just one cough, one airplane flight, or one germy doorknob can spread them like wildfire throughout your town,” Dr. Karp says.

“I believe giving this second group of shots is an important civic responsibility because delaying them creates a serious public health risk.” Specifically, these vaccines protect other kids who are too young to receive vaccinations, as well as people with cancer, those who are older than 60, and others who are considered especially vulnerable to these diseases.

A minimum percentage of the population must be vaccinated against a virus to prevent its spread, according to Daniel Sinyor, pediatrician at Crystal Run Healthcare in Nyack. By ensuring that at least 95 percent of children are immunized against a certain virus, you are creating herd immunity, which “stymies the spread of disease the way that frequent rain keeps lightning strikes from starting raging forest fires,” Dr. Karp says.

The Major Misconceptions

Several misconceptions have surrounded vaccines for years, but perhaps the most disruptive one is that the MMR (measles, mumps, and rubella) vaccine causes autism. In 1998, Andrew Wakefield, a discredited British ex-physician, published a

fraudulent paper suggesting there was a link between the MMR vaccine and autism. The data was found to be incorrect, and throughout the decade following the publication, many epidemiological studies proved there is no link between the two. Still, the paper did its damage, and, combined with the fact that the MMR vaccine is given around the same time autism is usually detected (ages 1-2), many parents still believe there is a causal relationship between the two, according to Dr. Sinyor.

Similarly, because children generally receive the flu vaccine at a time of year when they are picking up other illnesses, people have grown to believe the vaccine can cause the flu.

That’s impossible, Dr. Sinyor says, because the vaccine does not carry the flu virus.

Another common misconception is there is mercury in vaccines. However, in 1999 the Food and Drug Administration and the U.S. Public Health Service removed thimerosal (a mercury-containing compound used as a preservative) from all vaccines except multi-dose vials of flu vaccine. Aluminum, an element that is present in vaccines, has also caused worry among parents. Not only has aluminum been safely used in vaccines for more than 70 years, the amount used is similar to that found in 32 ounces of infant formula, according to Dr. Sinyor.

Unfortunately, these myths are still widely circulating. The list of celebrities who have spoken out or expressed concern about vaccinations includes Jessica Biel and Jenny McCarthy.

The latter has been claiming for more than 10 years that her son’s autism was caused by a vaccine. “I would venture a guess that the spread of false information through social media, celebrities, and anecdotal stories of friends who claim to have been harmed by vaccines all contribute to parental fear and distrust of vaccines,” Dr. Sinyor says.

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The main misconceptions aside, there are potentially concerning aspects of vaccines that are valid. For example, some shots have an effectiveness rate as low as 30-60 percent, which has long upset parents. But, as Dr. Sinyor says, “if I told you I could give you a shot with minimal side effects that would reduce your chances of getting into a car accident by sixty percent—or even thirty—would you not take it?”

Another upsetting truth? Not all children will develop immunity after a vaccination, according to Robert Segal, M.D., founder of Medical Offices of Manhattan. However, this does not discount the fact that 85-95 percent of children do. And finally, “in very rare cases, vaccines can cause allergic reactions. It’s important that parents tell their doctor of any history of allergies,” Dr. Segal advises.

While vaccines are not perfect, they are still widely administered. In fact, in light of the recent measles outbreak, the list of doctor’s offices, day cares, schools, and other children’s facilities that will exclude your child if unvaccinated is growing, according to Dr. Segal. In August, the Supreme Court of the State of New York instated a ban on religious exceptions to vaccines for school attendance.

New York is now 1 of 5 states that have banned religious vaccination exceptions.

This is a good thing; all the doctors we spoke to agree.

After all, vaccinations are our best protection against potentially life-threatening illnesses. Choosing to forgo them significantly increases the risk of making not only our own children sick, but also spreading illness in our community, Dr. Karp says.

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Stay Calm and Carry On ›› Don’t panic: These baby ailments are common By Madeleine Burry

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or new moms and dads, an infant’s first few months of life are thrilling—and a little nerve-wracking. Everything is so new, and your infant seems so fragile. “Between birth and three months, there are a lot of things that new parents especially worry about,” says Victoria Riese, M.D., of Flatiron Pediatrics in Manhattan. These can include baby acne, constipation, noisy breathing, and other frequent—but not worrisome—conditions. So, when can you relax, and when should you reach out to your pediatrician?

Digestive Issues

Does your baby have gas? Constipation? Act a bit fussy when feeding? These are all normal things, Dr. Riese says, and don’t require a doctor’s call unless they start to interfere with baby’s development. “When babies are having so much trouble eating that they’re crying or losing weight, we want to make sure that it’s not something more serious,” she says, adding that your doctor can help determine what is a possible cause for concern.

Noisy Breathing

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breathing or wheezing—it may even seem like your baby has a snoring problem. Not to worry! “Noisy breathing is not a sign that the baby is in distress,” Dr. Riese says. So long as your baby is acting normally while awake, and can eat and breathe at the same time, he’s most likely just fine.

Milia

Skin conditions are common in babies. “Sometimes being a pediatrician feels like being a dermatologist,” says Dyan Hes, M.D., F.A.A.P., pediatrician and medical director of Gramercy Pediatrics in Manhattan. For example, those little white bumps on her nose or face? “These are called milia and are caused by trapped skin debris near the surface of the skin. They are benign and will pass with time,” she says.

Baby Acne

Another skin ailment, baby acne can look red and inflamed—but it’s completely benign. “It can come out in the first month or two of life. It is due to hormonal changes in the baby, either from the birth itself or sometimes from breast milk,” Dr. Hes says. She recommends cleaning baby’s face daily with a mild hypoallergenic baby soap, which will help the acne resolve.

Jaundice

If your baby has jaundice—or slightly yellow skin—he’s far from alone. “About half of all babies have some amount of jaundice,” says Jennifer Janco, M.D., board-certified pediatrician and chairman of pediatrics at St. Luke’s University Heath Network in Bethlehem, PA. “The yellow color in the skin is a result of elevated bilirubin levels in the blood,” she adds, noting it can take a few days for a healthy baby’s liver to mature and handle bilirubin properly. If you are breast-feeding, supplementing with formula for the first few days will often treat the condition, Dr. Hes says, but some babies require phototherapy in the hospital. Therefore, if your baby appears yellowish, it’s a good idea to reach out to a pediatrician, Dr. Hes advises.

Bluish Skin

A faint blue cast on your newborn’s hands or feet sounds like an alarming symptom—but it’s not necessarily a cause for worry. In fact, Dr. Janco says it’s quite common, because your baby’s body is still figuring out temperature and circulation regulation. The situation only warrants a visit to the doctor if the bluish tone is facial. “A baby who appears blue in the face, tongue, or around the lips should prompt immediate evaluation,” Dr. Janco warns.

Call your doctor or 911 if the situation does not resolve.

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Too much time in pajamas or a warm stroller can lead to heat rash on baby’s upper chest and back, Dr. Hes says. To treat it, apply an over-the-counter baby eczema cream twice a day for a week. “If the rash spreads, let your doctor know,” she says.

Thrush

A yeast infection known as candida, thrush is also common in newborns, Dr. Janco says. The white patches on the sides of cheeks, inner lips, or tongue can’t easily be wiped off. “Let your doctor know if you suspect thrush,” she says—it’s easily treatable and not an emergency.

Cradle Cap

Does your baby have yellow or white crusty patches on his scalp?

This benign condition is known as cradle cap or seborrhea capitis, Dr. Hes says. The biggest downside is your baby may lose some hair as it spreads. “Initially, I like to treat mild cradle cap with some olive oil on the scalp to loosen the flakes, and then comb it out with a fine baby comb,” she says. “Parents can also apply dandruff shampoo to the baby’s scalp, leave it on for two to three minutes, and rinse it, away from the baby’s eyes.” If neither of these options work, check in with your pediatrician.

When to Reach for the Phone

Your pediatrician expects you to have concerns and questions— after all, these curious symptoms are new to you. So, “in between visits, write down questions if they can wait,” Dr. Riese advises.

And if you’re in doubt? Call. Also, always get in touch with a doctor if your baby has a fever, which in a newborn is any temperature above 100.3, Dr. Riese says. The other big warning sign: Your baby isn’t acting like herself, including not wanting to wake up, not interacting as usual, or not feeding. In these cases, contact your pediatrician immediately.

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Crystal Run Healthcare

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Our West Nyack facility offers high quality health care with more than 20 medical and surgical specialties, an infusion center, urgent care, diagnostic testing services, on-site laboratory, diagnostic imaging, and women’s imaging.

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Good Samaritan Hospital Birthing Center

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Good Samaritan Hospital OB Emergency Department

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275 Route 304, Bardonia 914-649-6923 lipsonfamilycoaching.com melissa@lipsonfamilycoaching.com Melissa Lipson, a professional school guidance counselor, works with children and teens to give them tools that are transferable to all aspects of their lives. Using a variety of strategies and techniques, she teaches important life skills that allow them to function well emotionally now and in the future.

Marita Smith, D.D.S. Smith’s Little Smiles Pediatric Dentistry

5C Medical Park Drive, Pomona 845-414-9626 smithslittlesmiles.com drsmith@smithslittlesmiles.com We provide excellent dental care for children infancy-adolescence in a warm and friendly environment. As a mother of two, Dr. Smith knows how important it is for a child to be comfortable and stress-free during their dental visits. Most insurances accepted. Evening and Saturday hours and 24-hour emergency service available. Se habla Español.

Now You’re Talking LLC Sandra Gotthardt, M.S., C.C.C.-S.L.P., T.S.S.L.D. Diana Hughes, M.S., C.C.C.-S.L.P., T.S.S.L.D. Pediatric Private Speech Therapy Clinic

43 South Liberty Drive, Stony Point 845-533-5544 nowyouretalkingspeech.com sgotthardt@nowyourtalkingspeech.com We offer the utmost care in treating your child’s unique needs with a fun, tailored, speech language plan aimed at bringing communication skills to an age-appropriate level.

Sandra and Diana are nationally board-certified speech language pathologists. Sandra is also a certified orofacial myofunctional therapist who works collaboratively with other related health specialists.

Nyack Pediatric Dentistry Dr. Angela Boudounis-Hatzis

Saturday hours, and 24-hour emergency service available.

265 N. Highland Ave., (Route 9W), Nyack 845-512-8434 nyackpediatricdentistry.com drb@nyackpediatricdentistry.com Nyack Pediatric Dentistry is a cutting-edge practice that delivers state-of-the-art oral health care to the pediatric population, from birth through their teenage years.

We believe that good oral health begins with prevention. Using age-appropriate techniques, we accomplish this through education and motivation. We welcome special needs patients.

Sachdev Family Orthodontics

124 E. Ramapo Road, Suite 2, Garnerville 845-786-7736 sfojustsmile.com sfojustsmile@gmail.com We provide individualized braces and Invisalign treatment to kids and adults. Dr. Ameeta Sachdev has been in the dental field for two decades with dual dental degrees, from India and the U.S. She teaches orthodontics at St. Barnabas Hospital. Most insurance accepted, evening and

Smile More Kidz Dr. Darren Tong

140 Oak Tree Road, Tappan 845-367-7782 smilemorekidz.com Dr. Tong is a certified pediatric dentist, voted Favorite Kids Doc

by NJ Family Magazine for five consecutive years. He specializes in treating children including those with special needs. Dr. Tong and his entire Smile team is focused on the specific dental needs of kids of all ages.

SPOTS Special Programs in Occupational Therapy Services

30 Ramland Road, Orangeburg 845-848-2228 spotsot.com SPOTS is a pediatric occupational therapy practice that provides services for toddlers-teens. We are committed to fostering a child’s self-esteem and confidence while utilizing their strengths to improve areas of difficulty, such as sensory processing skills, fine and gross motor skills, handwriting skills, social skills, attention and self-regulation skills.

PROVIDING KID APPROVED DENTAL CARE! Expert & Caring Podiatry Services For The Whole Family!

Marita Smith, DDS Board Certified Pediatric Dentist

Our Caring and Experienced group of Foot and Ankle Specialists treat adults and children with foot and ankle issues.

We use the most advanced techniques in: • Sports Medicine • Trauma & Wound Care • Pediatric Foot Care • Skin and Nail Care • Reconstructive Surgery • Diabetic Foot Care • Onsite X ray, Ultrasound, Laser and Orthotic Manufacturing allows us to accommodate all of your foot care needs • Emergency appointments available

Complete Foot & Ankle Ridgewood, NJ • (201) 445-2288 • Garfield, NJ www.completefootandankle.com

Specializing in Dental Care for Children of All Ages State of the Art Dental Care & Facility Evening & Saturday Hours Available 24 Hour Emergency Service Available Most Dental Insurances Accepted Nitrous Oxide available for children when necessary Se Habla Espanol

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The Prehistoric Safari features 22-foot animatronic dinosaurs, 13-foot tropical plants, and a color-changing volcano amidst an illuminated prehistoric environment.

Light Up Your Family’s Life

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Luminocity’s Light Arts Park at Randall’s Island Park offers three unique light art experiences spanning across 12 acres, each featuring LED illuminated art displays within the theme. In the Winter Fantasy, the Wild Adventure, and the Sweet Dream, you’ll see the Cake Terraces, the Prehistoric Safari, the Lush Rainforest, the Icy Valley, the Skating Unicorn, and so much more. Nov. 23-Jan. 5, 2020; see website for dates and themed nights. $38; $30 seniors and students; $19 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. Book by Nov. 11 for a 15-percent early bird discount. Ages: All. 20 Randall’s Island, Randall’s Island; luminocityfestival.com.

A variety of fan favorites, including the Ronald McDonald balloon, will return to the parade, along with new balloons and floats.

Balloons and Floats and Clowns, Oh My!

It’s that time of year again! The 93rd Annual Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade is around the corner with the classic floats and balloons—including Pikachu, Ronald McDonald, and Sesame Street—as well as new additions such as Astronaut Snoopy, Smokey Bear, and a Cracker Barrel Old Country Store. The best part? If you’re not up for the early rise to grab a spot on the sidewalk, watch it on TV on NBC from the comfort of your couch. Free.

Thursday, Nov. 26, 9am-12pm. Ages: All. Central Park West and 77th Street, moving south via Central Park South and Sixth Avenue, to Macy’s Herald Square on 34th Street. macys.com/parade.

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The Washington Square Arche was built in celebration of the centennial of George Washington’s inauguration as President of the United States and is often used as an unofficial symbol of New York University.

Washington Square Park

This New York City oasis is a spot for artists to express themselves, chess players to battle, dogs to roam, and families to take it all in.

Home to the renowned arch and fountain, Washington Square Park is known as a center for cultural activity and the place for a variety of monuments and statues to enjoy amid the hustle and bustle of New York City.

Visit it: Fifth Avenue and Waverly Place, West 4th and Macdougal streets, Greenwich Village Can’t-miss event: Kids Bulb Planting Day; Saturday, Nov. 2, 12:302pm, and Thursday, Nov. 7, 3:30-5pm. Free.

Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 20-minute drive from New City

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The annual Holiday Train Show will showcase new additions, such as One World Trade Center and Battery Maritime Building, as well as old favorites.

New York Botanical Garden

Don’t let cooler weather keep you indoors this fall. New York Botanical Garden is the perfect haven for families to embrace the beauty and colors of fall in New York. Throughout the month, visit for a Fall Forest Weekend and take a walk through the Thain Family Forest for an unforgettable foliage experience (and, of course, the perfect Instagram!).

Visit it: 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx; 718-817-8700; nybg.org Can’t-miss event: Holiday Train Show; Nov. 23-Jan. 26, 2020; $30; $28 students and seniors; $18 children ages 2-12; free for children younger than 2. Purchase tickets by Nov. 1 for a 30-percent discount with the code Holiday30.

Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 20-minute drive from New City

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

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Orange County 4-H Horse Program Horse Fun Day

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 9am-1pm WHERE: Northwind Horse Farm, 2496 Bruynswick Road, Wallkill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids will get to learn about and interact with horses at five different fun stations. Groom a horse or pony. Ride a horse “lead-line,” learn about horse anatomy, tack, and the standard-bred breed, play horse games, and create and decorate a horse craft. Register online.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Here’s a chance to explore your child’s interest in horses, without committing to tons of lessons!

WANT TO GO? $10. 845-344-1234. weblink.donorperfect.com/horsefunday19.

Great Pumpkin Festival

WHEN: Nov.2-3, 10am-6pm WHERE: Heaven Hill Farm, 451 State Route 94, Vernon AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy all the fun farm activities at the Great Pumpkin Festival, include hay wagon tractor rides to the pumpkin patch, a corn maze, pig races, a spider web crawl, the Chicken Little Show, the Dancing Robot Show, the vortex tunnel, and visiting farm friends like cows, horses, goats, and bunnies.

WHY WE LOVE IT: For a little extra, families can have fun with carnival rides, face painting, and sand art.

WANT TO GO? $15. 973-764-5144. heavenhillfarm.com.

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WHEN: Through Nov. 3: See website for schedule WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 639 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Take a spooky tour of Washington Irving’s cottage, learn about the history of hair-raising stories and 19th-century crazes—like the vampire scares and séances.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Families can create Halloween-themed art activities, go on a literature-themed scavenger hunt, and play historic games.

WANT TO GO? $16; $12 seniors 65 and older and students 18-25; $8 children 3-17; free for members and children younger than 3. 914-6318200. hudsonvalley.org.

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Paramus Food Truck Festival

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 11am-5pm WHERE: Paramus Park Mall, 700 Paramus Park, East Main Entrance-In front of Old Navy & LL Bean, Paramus AGES: All WHAT: Check out more than 20 gourmet food trucks, kids activities, and live music.

WHY WE LOVE IT: You can help support the Food Pantry by bringing a non-perishable canned or boxed item.

WANT TO GO? $5; free for children younger than 10. justjerseyfest.com.

Family Barn Dance

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 8, 7-9pm WHERE: Congers Lake Memorial Park Auditorium, 6 Gilchrest Road, Congers AGES: All WHAT: Renowned dance caller Eric Hollman will lead the way as guests keep step to live, traditional fiddle tunes from Ireland, New England, Appalachia, and beyond.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids of all ages are welcome, and there will be popcorn, cider, donuts, and apples for sale.

WANT TO GO? $10; free for children 3 and younger. 845-627-0234. bluerockschool.org.

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Disney Junior Holiday Party on Tour!

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 12pm and 4pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Sing and dance along to your favorite Disney Junior songs plus holiday classics with your favorite Disney friends.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The show includes a special visit from Santa Claus!

WANT TO GO? $39-$59. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

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Muts Gone Nuts

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 10, 1pm WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood AGES: All

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WHAT: These amazing mutts unleash havoc and hilarity in a breathtaking, action-packed, comedy dog spectacular.

WHY WE LOVE IT: You don’t have to love dogs to appreciate this show!

WANT TO GO? $19-$29. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.

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Dan + Claudia Zanes Family Sensory-Friendly Show Featuring The Rock ‘n’ Rollers

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 17, 2-4pm WHERE: The Rittenhausen Theater @ BOCES (Old Nyack High School), 131 North Midland Ave., Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Grammy award-winning children’s performer Dan Zanes and Haitian-American music therapist/jazz vocalist Claudia Eliaza have been making music with each other since the day they met in the fall of 2016. The musicians offer a sensory-friendly show for kids and adults.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It promises to be a feel-good show in the spirit of inclusion!

WANT TO GO? $18. 855-278-7762. artsrock.org.

Westchester’s Winter Wonderland

WHEN: Nov. 29-Dec. 22, Fridays, 5-10pm; Saturdays, 4-10pm; Sundays, 4-9pm WHERE: Kensico Dam Plaza, 1 Bronx River Parkway, Valhalla AGES: All WHAT: Westchester’s Winter Wonderland provides fun and affordable holiday cheer for the entire family, including holiday circus performances, ice skating, visits with Santa, and holiday rides.

WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a truly special night out as a family!

WANT TO GO? $20; $18 if purchased by 11/15; free for children 3 and younger. 914-231-4033. wwinterwonderland.com.

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‘Dinosaur Train’: The Traveling Exhibit

WHEN: Through Jan. 20: Tuesdays-Fridays, 9:30am4pm; Saturdays and Sundays, 9am-5:30pm WHERE: Liberty Science Center, 222 Jersey City Blvd., 3rd Floor, Jersey City AGES: All WHAT: Join a curious Tyrannosaurus rex named Buddy who travels the world to discover everything there is to know about dinosaurs! Based on the Dinosaur Train TV series, the exhibition embraces and celebrates the fascination kids have with both dinosaurs and trains. Don’t miss this adventure back to the time of dinosaurs and unearth basic concepts in life science, natural history, and paleontology!

WHY WE LOVE IT: You can even meet Buddy the T-Rex live during select dates at the Science Center.

WANT TO GO? $24.99; $21.99 seniors 62 and older; $19.99 ages 2-12. 201-200-1000. lsc.org.

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Crystal Run Healthcare Prenatal Class FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 5, 5-6pm WHERE: West Nyack Office, 2 Centerock Road, West Nyack AGES: Adult WHAT: This program provides guidance and emotional support and helps prepare expectant parents for the arrival of their new baby.

WANT TO GO? 845-703-6999. crystalrunhealthcare.com.

Veterans Day Parade and Ceremony FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 11, 11am-1pm WHERE: Village of Suffern and American Legion Fromm Maxwell DeBaun Post #859, 61 Washington Ave., Suffern AGES: All WHAT: The parade will line up at Village Hall and proceed to Soldiers Monument for the ceremony.

WANT TO GO? 845-357-7943. suffernny.gov.

Veteran’s Day Commemoration FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 11, 1pm WHERE: Fort Lee Historic Park, Hudson Terrace, Fort Lee AGES: All WHAT: Commemorate Veteran’s Day with a cannon demonstration.

WANT TO GO? 201-461-1776. njpalisades.org.

Happy Hearts FREE

WHEN: Nov. 6-20, 11/6 6:15-7pm and 7:15-8pm; 11/20 6:15-7pm and 7:15-8pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy games, stories, and simple conversations that bring out the best in us. This program fosters confidence and compassion while empowering kids to develop great character traits.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Weekly Drop-In at Rockland Baby Café FREE

WHEN: Through Jan. 31: Tuesdays, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Rockland Baby Cafe, 14 S. Main St., Spring Valley AGES: Newborn-2, Adult WHAT: Meet and talk to new moms, learn how to make breastfeeding easier, and get tips on pumping, going back to work, and other parenting topics.

WANT TO GO? 914-922-2240. rocklandgov.com. ›› RocklandParent 21

Earth Living Skills-Family Session

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 2-4:30pm WHERE: The Nature Place Day Camp, 285 Hungry Hollow Road, Chestnut Ridge AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Connect with each other, as well as with the Earth, as you cover the foundations of Earth living skills in a fun, family-oriented way.

WANT TO GO? $25 per person. 845-356-1234. thenatureplace.com.

Earth Living Skills Workshop-Children’s Session

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Pick-Your-Own-Apples

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: Weekends, 9am-5pm WHERE: Masker Orchards, 45 Ball Road, Warwick AGES: All WHAT: Bring the family to pick their own fresh, delicious apples, hear live music, enjoy pony rides, a haunted house, and more.

WANT TO GO? $29.95 per bag of apples; $6 attractions. 845-986-1058. maskers.com.

Closing Day of Grasshopper Grove

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 11am-3pm WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Play one last time in Grasshopper Grove before it closes for the winter, meet an animal, and enjoy a special snack.

WANT TO GO? $5; free for members. 845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

Seasonal Scavenger Hunt

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 2-3pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Work together to solve nature riddles along the trails.

WANT TO GO? $20 family max; $5 per person; free for members and children younger than 2. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Fishing Day FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 11, All day fishing WHERE: New York’s public waters, See website for locations AGES: All WHAT: This is a great opportunity to try fishing for the first time or for experienced anglers to take friends fishing for the first time.

WANT TO GO? 518-402-8845. dec.ny.gov.

Fall Scavenger Hunt FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 17, 2-3pm WHERE: Flat Rock Brook Nature Center, 443 Van Nostrand Ave., Englewood AGES: All WHAT: Find all the items among the falling leaves and make it back to the Nature Center in time and win a Flat Rock prize! Register online.

WANT TO GO? 201-567-1265. eventbrite.com/e/fall-scavenger-hunttickets-73983020205.

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WHEN: Nov. 16-24, 11/16 and 11/24, 10am-12:30pm WHERE: The Nature Place Day Camp, 285 Hungry Hollow Road, Chestnut Ridge AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Gain experience across many skill areas and foster friendships with peers who share similar interests! This program meets participants where they are and develops self-reliance and comfort in the outdoors.

WANT TO GO? $45. 845-356-1234. thenatureplace.com.

Earth Living Skills-Family Session

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 24, 2-4:30pm WHERE: The Nature Place Day Camp, 285 Hungry Hollow Road, Chestnut Ridge AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Connect with each other as well as with the Earth, as you cover the foundations of Earth living skills in a fun, family-oriented way.

WANT TO GO? $25 per participant. 845-356-1234. thenatureplace.com

ANIMAL LOVERS Paws for Reading with Buster and Seamus FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 4, 4-5pm WHERE: Palisades Free Library, 19 Closter Road, Palisades AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children read one-on-one with a specially trained Reading Education Assistance Dog (R.E.A.D.) and its handler. Register for a 15-minute time slot.

WANT TO GO? 845-359-0136. palisadeslibrary.org.

READ to a Dog FREE

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WHEN: Nov. 2-7, 11/2, 10:30am-12pm; 11/7, 5:30-7pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Sign up for a 15-minute session to read to a dog!

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Outragehisss Pets Animal Show FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 11:30am-12:15pm WHERE: Palisades Free Library, 19 Closter Road, Palisades AGES: All WHAT: Meet exotic animals from all over the world in this interactive program!

WANT TO GO? 845-359-0136. palisadeslibrary.org.

Owls at the Wildlife Education Center

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 22, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Education Center, 20 Kenridge Farm Drive, Route 9W, Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Learn about these nocturnal raptors and their fascinating natural history and meet a live owl. Register online.

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 members; $7 children; $5 children members.

845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

Thanksgiving Weekend at the Wildlife Education Center

WHEN: Nov. 29-30, 12-4pm WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum, 25 Boulevard, Cornwall-on-Hudson AGES: All WHAT: Visit live animals and find out what they had for Thanksgiving dinner. Shop for nature-themed holiday presents or purchase an animal sponsorship as a unique gift.

WANT TO GO? $5; free for members and children younger than 3. 845534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

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Children & Families: Curator for a Day

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 1pm WHERE: Storm King Art Center, Old Pleasant Hill Road, For GPS, enter One Museum Road, New Windsor, New York, Mountainville AGES: All WHAT: Learn about fabrication, siting, and installation, and make miniature sculptures for your own miniature outdoor art center.

WANT TO GO? $18; $15 seniors 65 and older; $8 ages 5-18; free for members and children younger than 4. 845-534-3115. stormkingartcenter.org.

Culinary Corner FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 4, Ages 5-7: 11/4, 5-6pm; Ages 8-12: 11/18, 5-6pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Teams will make different seasonal soups and end with a taste-off competition. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

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Wee Craft Together FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 6, 5-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Make a fun craft together designed to help young children develop their fine motor skills.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Thanksgiving Tasting

WHEN: Nov. 9-10, 12-4pm, daily WHERE: Museum Village, 1010 State Route 17M, Monroe AGES: All WHAT: Taste Thanksgiving delicacies made from recipes of the pilgrim and Victorian eras. There will be foods made right on the hearth for everyone to sample, such as soups, breads, stewed pumpkin, boiled onions, spinach salad, potato balls, cranberry sauce, puddings, and pies!

WANT TO GO? $14; $12 seniors; $10 children ages 4-12; free for children ages 3 and younger. 845-782-8248. museumvillage.org.

Children & Families: Kinetic Creations

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 10, 1pm WHERE: Storm King Art Center, Old Pleasant Hill Road, For GPS, enter One Museum Road, New Windsor, New York, Mountainville AGES: All WHAT: Create enchanting wind chimes and decorate garlands made from natural materials that come alive with the wind.

WANT TO GO? $18; $15 seniors 65 and older; $8 ages 5-18; free for members and children younger than 4. 845-534-3115. stormkingartcenter.org.

Maker Space Open Hours FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 20: Wednesdays, 6pm WHERE: New City Library, 220 N. Main St., New City AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Try the 3D printer, take a self-guided coding course, tinker with circuits, or share your current projects in the mini-maker space.

WANT TO GO? 845-634-4997. newcitylibrary.org.

Crafts with Miss Cheryl FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 20, 4:30-5:15pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Make a fun craft! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Breakerspace FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 24, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Rd., Garnerville AGES: 7-12 WHAT: Have fun taking things apart with a screwdriver and other tools.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org. ››

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Nyack Farmers’ Market FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 28: Thursday, 8am-2pm WHERE: Main Street Parking Lot, Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live music, cooking demonstrations, and much more while you shop!

WANT TO GO? 845-353-2221. nyackchamber.org.

Greenberg Train & Toy Show

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS ToyConNJ

WHEN: Nov. 9-10, Saturday, 10am-5pm; Sunday 10am-4pm WHERE: Parsippany P.A.L. Building, 33 Baldwin Road, Parsippany AGES: All WHAT: ToyConNJ is a family-friendly event jam-packed with more than 250 vendor tables filled with thousands of current and vintage hard-to-find toys, comics, movie memorabilia, and more. Free entertainment includes cosplay, an indoor RC track, Japanese candy cabs, and arcade games.

WANT TO GO? $25 weekend pass; $20 daily early bird; $15 daily; $8 veterans and cosplayers special; free for children 10 and younger. toyconnj.com.

Sugarloaf Crafts Festival

WHEN: Nov. 15-17, Friday and Saturday 10am-6pm; Sunday 10am-5pm WHERE: New Jersey Expo and Convention Center, 97 Sunfield Ave., Edison AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a weekend of artistic appreciation and entertainment for collectors and enthusiasts of all ages.

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 online; free for children 12 and younger. 301990-1400. sugarloafcrafts.com.

Piermont’s Farmers Market FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 24: Sunday, 10am-3pm WHERE: M & T parking lot in downtown Piermont, Piermont AGES: All WHAT: Visit booths with Hudson Valley farmers, artists, artisans, and chefs.

WANT TO GO? facebook/piermontfm.

Oradell Farmer’s Market FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 24: Sundays, 10am-3pm WHERE: Oradell Post Office’s Parking Lot, 618 Veldran Ave., Oradell AGES: All WHAT: Peruse a variety of vegetables, fruits, honey, bread, jelly, nuts, cheese, plants, herbs, flowers, eggs, pastries, pickles and olives, and great coffee.

WANT TO GO? 908-605-0041. co.bergen.nj.us.

Ramsey Farmers’ Market FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 24: Sunday, 9am-2pm WHERE: Ramsey Main Street Train Station, Ramsey AGES: All WHAT: Fresh, local produce and products, including organic and responsibly grown vegetables and fruit, artisan breads and fine cheese, and so much more.

WANT TO GO? 201-675=6866. ramseyfarmersmarket.org.

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WHEN: Nov. 30-Dec. 1, 10am-4pm WHERE: New Jersey Expo and Convention Center, 97 Sunfield Ave., Edison AGES: All WHAT: The Greenberg’s Great Train & Toy Show will feature hundreds of tables of trains and accessories for sale, huge operating exhibits, activities for kids, and more.

WANT TO GO? $10 Saturday; $9 Sunday; free for children 11 and younger. 630-279-4087. greenbergshows.com.

Farmers Market

WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Sundays, 10am-2pm WHERE: Hudson Valley Regional Farmers Market, 15 Mount Ebo Road S., Brewster AGES: All WHAT: See what this year-round, indoor-outdoor farmer’s market has to offer every Sunday.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 845-629-2824. facebook.com/HVRegionalFarmersMarket.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Tri-State NJ Spartan Kids Race

WHEN: Nov. 2-3, Saturday 9am-2:30pm; Sunday 9am-1:30pm WHERE: Mountain Creek Resort, 200 Route 94, Vernon AGES: 4-14 WHAT: Children of all abilities are welcome to climb, crawl, run, get muddy, and become a Spartan with family and friends. Spartan Kids is a half mile (suggested age 4-6), one mile (suggested age 7-9), and two mile (required age 10-14) course with competitive racing available for twomile racers in age groups 10-11 and 12-14.

WANT TO GO? $25.99-$47.99. spartan.com.

Nature Strollers

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 4, 9:30-10:30am WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Follow gentle stroller-friendly trails as you enjoy a fun nature lesson presented by an environmental educator.

WANT TO GO? $5; free for members and children younger than 1. 845534-5506. hhnm.org.

New Jersey Ballet: Season Opener

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 8pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown AGES: All WHAT: This evening aims to showcase the varied artistic strengths of the company in works by a variety of contemporary choreographers.

WANT TO GO? $29-$59. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

Gaming Hour FREE

WHEN: Nov. 9-21, 11/9, 3-4pm; 11/21, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Rd, Garnerville AGES: 6-12 WHAT: Play the Nintendo Switch on the big screen!

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Master Ben’s Boardgames FREE

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WHEN: Through Nov. 25: Mondays, 4-6pm WHERE: Nyack Library, 59 South Broadway, Nyack AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Play some awesome new board games and meet fellow gamers.

WANT TO GO? 845-358-3370 x214. nyacklibrary.org.

Gaming Hour FREE

WHEN: Nov. 5-26, Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Play the Nintendo Switch and the PS4 on the big screen! Ages 6-13.

WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org.

Magic the Gathering with Master Ben FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 27: Wednesdays, 4-6pm WHERE: Nyack Library, 59 South Broadway, Nyack AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Learn the basics of Magic the Gathering or learn new tricks.

WANT TO GO? 845-358-3370 x214. nyacklibrary.org.

Black Friday Rock Climbing Break Camp

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 29, 9-11am and 12-2pm WHERE: The Gravity Vault Upper Saddle River, 107 Pleasant Ave., Upper Saddle River AGES: 5-13 WHAT: Kids will experience the perfect blend of top-rope climbing, games, and more!

WANT TO GO? $50 and up. 201-934-7625. gravityvault.com.

Friday Fun FREE

WHEN: Nov. 1-29, Fridays, 4-5pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: 5-13 WHAT: Friday fun at the village with a new program every week, including Builder’s Club, games, 3-D fun with 3-D pens, PS4, Code Club, Science Squad.

WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org.

Public Skating Sessions

WHEN: Nov. 2-March 1, 2020, Mondays and Tuesdays, 10-11:30am and 12-1:30pm; Fridays, 8-9:30pm; Saturdays, 10am-9:30pm; Sundays, 10am-7:30pm; Please check website for additional times during school breaks and school holidays.

WHERE: Bear Mountain Ice Rink, Bear Mountain Ice Rink State Park, Bear Mountain AGES: All WHAT: Break out your skates, or rent a pair for the day, and enjoy the outdoor Bear Mountain Ice Rink.

WANT TO GO? $5; $2 non-skaters and seniors; free for children 4 and younger; $5 skate rentals. 845-786-2701. bearmountainicerink.com.

MUSICIANS Intro to Opera for Children FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 3, 2-3pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: All WHAT: Learn about operas from Anne Tormela, an opera singer and the Artistic Director of Manhattan Lyric Opera.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Music Sessions @ RoCA-A.J. Croce

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 7:30-9pm WHERE: Rockland Center for the Arts, 27 S. Greenbush Road, West Nyack AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Rockland Center for the Arts presents an intimate concert with A.J. Croce performing Croce Plays Croce. This will be a special night of music featuring a complete set of classics from his late father, Jim Croce, some of his own tunes, and songs that influenced both him and his father.

WANT TO GO? $30; $25 in advance. 845-358-0877. rocklandartcenter.org.

‘Peter and the Wolf’

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 16, 2pm and 3:30pm WHERE: New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center St., Newark AGES: All WHAT: Join the New Jersey Symphony Orchestra and a guest narrator for this timeless fairy tale.

WANT TO GO? $20; $10 child. 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

NJMEA All-State Mixed Chorus and Orchestra

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 17, 3pm WHERE: New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center St., Newark AGES: All WHAT: This annual musical performance in Prudential Hall puts the spotlight on the state’s most outstanding young musicians and vocalists.

WANT TO GO? $17-$34. 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

Learn to play the Ukulele FREE

WHEN: Nov. 5-Dec. 17, Tuesdays, 6-6:45pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Rd, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: If your child is interested in the guitar, this is an excellent way to provide them with the skills they will need. Registration required.

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Family Movie FREE

WHEN: Nov. 11-25, 11/11 and 11/25 at 5pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: 4-12 WHAT: Join the library for a fun family movie!

WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org.

PJ Masks Live!

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 29, 1pm and 5pm WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Catboy, Owlette, and Gekko will delight fans of all ages with live performances, toe-tapping tunes, and a whole lot of super fun. The new show features preschoolers’ favorite pre-school superheroes and familiar songs from the show along with new music and a whole new adventure.

WANT TO GO? $29.50 and up. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.

Paw Patrol Live! The Great Pirate Adventure

SHOW TIME

WHEN: Nov. 30-Dec. 1, Saturday, 10am, 2pm, 6pm; Sunday, 10am and 2pm WHERE: New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center St., Newark AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: It’s Pirate Day in Adventure Bay–and Ryder will need all paws on deck to find a pirate treasure–before Mayor Humdinger finds it first!

WANT TO GO? $23-$79. 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

‘Othello’

HOLIDAY FUN

Disney Junior Holiday Party! On Tour

WHEN: Through Nov. 2: See website for schedule WHERE: Demarest Farms, 244 Wierimus Road, Hillsdale AGES: All WHAT: Be transported deep into the orchard to visit the forgotten graveyard nestled within the apple trees, featuring a hayride and a bonechilling series of haunted adventures filled with ghouls, ghosts, and all kinds of scary creatures.

WANT TO GO? $30; $25 in advance. 201-666-0472. hauntedorchardsfarm.com.

WHEN: Nov. 1-2, 7pm WHERE: Palisades Presbyterian Church, 117 Washington Spring Road, Palisades AGES: 8 and older WHAT: One of Shakespeare’s best known tragedies is updated for a modern audience.

WANT TO GO? $15; $12 seniors; $10 kids. 845-826-2623. cstothello. brownpapertickets.com.

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 2pm and 5pm WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 North Van Brunt St., Englewood AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Children and their families can sing and dance along to their favorite Disney Junior songs, plus holiday classics, with their favorite Disney friends.

WANT TO GO? $29.50 and up. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.

‘Romeo and Juliet’

WHEN: Through Nov. 17: times vary WHERE: The Shakespeare Theatre of New Jersey, 36 Madison Ave., Madison AGES: 5 and older WHAT: See the world’s most famous love story come to life on stage.

WANT TO GO? $29 and up. 973-408-5600. shakespearenj.org.

Mad Science FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 19, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 West Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Be amazed by Mad Science!

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

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Haunted Orchards

Horseman’s Hollow

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: See website for schedule WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 381 N. Broadway, Sleepy Hollow AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The undead, the evil, and the insane rule this terrifying landscape, all paying homage to the Hessian who forever hunts his head. Enter the foreboding gates and make your way through haunted landmarks like the cemetery, tavern, and Old Dutch Church.

WANT TO GO? $28 Saturdays; $22; $15 fast track pass; members receive $5 discount. 914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

Sleepy Hollow Experience

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: See website for schedule WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 639 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Meet Ichabod Crane and Katrina Van Tassel, along with a certain headless Hessian, in the very place where the Washington Irving imagined them. Follow the characters from scene to scene with live music and a little bit of mayhem. Sip seasonal drinks and enjoy tasty treats at the Van Tassel’s harvest party.

WANT TO GO? $45 and up; $25 and up for children 3-17; members receive 10 percent discount/ticket; free for children younger than 3. 914631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

Irving’s Legend

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: Thursday-Friday 6:15pm, 7:30, 8:45; Saturday and Sunday 11:30am, 1:30pm, 3:30pm, 5pm, 6:30pm, and 8pm WHERE: Historic Hudson Valley, 639 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Master storytellers offer dramatic performances of Washington Irving’s classic tale, featuring the Headless Horseman, Ichabod Crane, Brom Bones, and Katrina Van Tassel. Flavored with live spooky music, the spellbinding storytelling captivates all audiences.

WANT TO GO? $28; $22 child; members receive a $5 discount. 914-6318200. hudsonvalley.org.

Great Food Expo

WHEN: Nov. 2-3, Saturday, 10am-5pm; Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: New Jersey Expo and Convention Center, 97 Sunfield Ave., Edison AGES: All WHAT: Shop, sip, and sample at the premiere event for cooking and entertaining enthusiasts of all ages and skill levels.

WANT TO GO? $10. 800-400-2099. greatfoodexpo.com

Harmony Christian School Christmas Festival

WHEN: Nov. 15-16, Friday 3-8pm; Saturday 9am-7pm WHERE: Orange County Fairgrounds, 239 Wisner Ave., Middletown AGES: All WHAT: Featuring artisans, hand crafters, a gingerbread house competition, gingerbread cookie decorating, and much more.

WANT TO GO? $5; free for children 5 and younger. 845-692-5353. harmonychristianschool.com.

A Magical Cirque Christmas

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 3pm and 8pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown AGES: All WHAT: Experience the magic of Christmas with dazzling performers and breathtaking cirque artists from all corners of the world, accompanied by your favorite holiday music performed live.

WANT TO GO? $39 and up. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

‘Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer’

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 24, 1pm and 4pm WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood AGES: All WHAT: See the holiday classic that teaches us that what makes you different can be what makes you special.

WANT TO GO? $25-$55. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.

The Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze

WHEN: Through Nov. 30: Fridays-Sundays WHERE: Van Cortlandt Manor, 525 South Riverside Ave., Croton-on-Hudson AGES: All WHAT: See more than 10,000 individually hand-carved, illuminated jacko’-lanterns in this elaborate walk-through experience.

WANT TO GO? $22 (Fri-Sat $27); $16 (Fri-Sat $20) children 3-17; free for members and children younger than 3. 914-631-8200. hudsonvalley.org.

Mannheim Steamroller Christmas by Chip Davis

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 30, 3pm and 8pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown AGES: All WHAT: Experience the Christmas music of Mannheim Steamroller along with dazzling multimedia effects that bring the magic of the holidays to life.

WANT TO GO? $59 and up. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

Fall Classic: ‘The Polar Express’

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 30, 11:45am WHERE: Lafayette Theater, 97 Lafayette Ave., Suffern AGES: All WHAT: See The Polar Express as part of the theater’s Fall Classic Series.

Arrive at 11am for an organ performance prior to the film.

WANT TO GO? $4. 845-547-2120. lafayettetheatersuffern.com. ››

Weekend Nature Program: Turkey Tales

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 24, 10-11:30am WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn about the turkey’s natural history and interesting adaptations. Make a fun turkey craft.

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 children; $7 members; $5 children members.

845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

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Seasonal Storytime FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 24, 1:30-2:30pm WHERE: Flat Rock Brook Nature Center, 443 Van Nostrand Ave., Englewood AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Sit down in the display room for a snuggly storytime perfect for little tykes right before naptime. Storytime will be followed by a small animal presentation.

WANT TO GO? 201-567-1265. eventbrite.com/e/seasonal-storytimetickets-73977575921.

Family Storytime FREE

WHEN: Nov. 5-26, Tuesday 2-2:45pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Enjoy stories, songs, puppets, and more! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Tales & Tunes FREE

ONCE UPON A TIME

WHEN: Nov. 4-26, Mondays, 11-11:30am and 7-7:30pm; Tuesdays, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 12-35 months WHAT: For walkers younger than 36 months and their adults. Stories, fingerplays, songs, and bubbles! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Saturday Tales & Tunes FREE

Stories & Crafts FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 11-11:30am WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 12-35 months WHAT: Stories, fingerplays, songs, and bubbles! Registration required.

For walkers younger than 36 months and their adults.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Stories and a Craft with Dee FREE

WHEN: Nov. 6-27, Wednesdays, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Enjoy stories, a craft, and more! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Playtime Storytime FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 12: Tuesdays, 10-10:45am and 11:15am-12pm WHERE: Pearl River Library, 80 Franklin Ave., Pearl River AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Read, sing, move, and create in this fun storytime that supports early literacy.

WANT TO GO? 845-735-4084. pearlriverlibrary.org.

WHEN: Nov. 1-29, Fridays, 10:30-11:15pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Join the library for fun on Fridays! Stories and songs, sensory story time with cool activities, fun with non-fiction, and more!

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Exploration Station FREE

Preschool Storytime FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 13, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Explore science and the world around you with hands-on stations, along with a discussion and a story. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Riordan Mythology Club FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 14, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 9-13 WHAT: Discuss the incredible world of modern mythological creatures and gods introduced to us by Rick Riordan. Compare the mythological world from Riordan with the traditional mythological lore of each region. November will cover The Son of Neptune, from The Heroes of Olympus Series. The Roman myth of Romulus and Remus will be discussed.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

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WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Wednesdays, 3-4pm WHERE: Teaneck Public Library, 840 Teaneck Road, Teaneck AGES: 3-5 WHAT: A fun preschool storytime.

WANT TO GO? 201-837-4171. teanecklibrary.org.

Storytime

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Mondays, 11:30am WHERE: Glaze, 34 Orangetown Shopping Center, Orangeburg AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children enjoy 30 minutes of a new book, then paint a piece of pottery.

WANT TO GO? $20. 845-359-9020. glazeartstudio.com.

Saturday Storytime FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 25, 2020: Saturdays, 11am-12pm WHERE: Teaneck Public Library, 840 Teaneck Road, Teaneck AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: Enjoy old and new favorites at this family storytime.

WANT TO GO? 201-837-4171. teanecklibrary.org.

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Preschool Science Storytime FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 18: Fridays, 10-10:45am WHERE: Pearl River Library, 80 Franklin Ave., Pearl River AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Join the library for stories and activities that will encourage interest and exploration in different areas of science.

WANT TO GO? 845-735-4084. pearlriverlibrary.org.

242nd Commemoration of the Retreat from Fort Lee, 1776 FREE WHEN: Nov. 23-24, Saturday 10am-5pm and Sunday 2-4pm WHERE: Fort Lee Historic Park, Hudson Terrace, Fort Lee AGES: All WHAT: Take the weekend to enjoy music, cooking, artillery demonstrations, a parade to Monument Park, and more.

WANT TO GO? 201-461-1776. njpalisades.org.

Angry Birds Universe: The Art and Science Behind a Global Phenomenon

WHEN: Through April 19, 2020: Tuesdays-Fridays, 9:30am-4pm; Saturdays and Sundays, 9am-5:30pm WHERE: Liberty Science Center, 222 Jersey City Blvd., 3rd Floor, Jersey City AGES: All WHAT: Explore different concepts in science, tech, engineering, arts, and math in an extreme hands-on environment!

WANT TO GO? $30.99; $27.99 seniors 62 and older; $24.99 ages 2-12.

201-200-1000. lsc.org.

Weekly Drop-In at Rockland Baby Cafe FREE

WHEN: Through Jan. 31: Thursdays, 11am-1pm WHERE: Martin Luther King Multi-Purpose Center, 110 Bethune Blvd., Spring Valley AGES: Newborn-2, Adult WHAT: A drop-in to meet and talk to new moms, learn how to make breastfeeding easier, make sure your baby is latching and gaining well, get tips on pumping and going back to work, and learn about other parenting topics.

WANT TO GO? 914-922-2240. rocklandgov.com.

BROWSE & BUY Ridgewood Chamber Of Commerce 19th Annual Farmers’ Market FREE

WHEN: Nov. 24-June 23, 2020, Sundays, 9am-3pm WHERE: Ridgewood Chamber Of Commerce, west side of NJ Transit Train Station, Ridgewood AGES: All WHAT: Stroll around and get some fresh mozzarella, homemade jams in flavors you can’t get anywhere else, fresh baked goods, preservative-free pickles on a stick for the kids, and more.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 201-445-2600. ridgewoodchamber.com.

Stage Left Children’s Theater 7th Annual Shop and Win FREE WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 2, 10am-4pm WHERE: The Manse Barn, 32 Old Tappan Road, Tappan AGES: All WHAT: Get some holiday shopping done and don’t forget to treat yourself to a little something. There will be $5,000+ in raffle prizes!

WANT TO GO? 845-365-9000. stageleftct.org.

Annual Holiday Craft Bazaar FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 9, 10am-4pm WHERE: Palisades Community Center, 675 Oak Tree Road, Palisades AGES: All WHAT: Shop beautiful crafts by artisan crafters of the Hudson Valley just in time for holiday gift giving.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 845-359-3988. palisadescc.org.

Bells on Broadway: Holiday Market and Children’s Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 23, 11am-4pm WHERE: The Ritz Theater, 107 Broadway, Newburgh AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live music, storytelling, crafts for the kids, and photos with Santa and Frosty while getting a jump on holiday shopping.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 845-784-1199. safe-harbors.org.

Crafts in Ridgewood FREE

WHEN: Nov. 22-23, Friday, 7-9:30pm and Saturday 10am-5pm WHERE: Unitarian Society of Ridgewood, 113 Cottage Place, Ridgewood AGES: All WHAT: Shop hand-made crafts for the holidays with prices to suit every budget.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 201-444-6225. uuridgewood.org.

HOLIDAY MARKET

WHEN: Nov. 29-30, Friday, 12-7pm; Saturday, 10am-6pm WHERE: Warwick Community Center, 11 Hamilton Ave., Warwick AGES: All WHAT: A festive Thanksgiving market featuring locally made gifts, music, gift-making stations for all ages, and baked goods.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 845-986-6422. warwickvalleycommunitycenter.org.

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ou know when your child isn’t receiving the education that is right for him. Maybe he’s struggling in a class that’s not a good fit. Perhaps he’s not receiving the supports and services he’s entitled to outside of class. He might even be in the wrong school altogether. But going up against a school district and the New York State Department of Education to fight for your child can be a daunting task for any parent. That’s where special education attorneys come in. They can help you understand your child’s rights, fight for his free and appropriate education, reach an agreement with your school, or get him into a new one. In fact, a special education attorney can make all the difference.

Why an Attorney is Necessary

The special education system in New York is complex. Some attorneys claim school districts don’t know which services are required for students with special needs, while others say schools are deliberately not providing the services these kids deserve. Laura Adler-Greene, an associate attorney at the law offices of Andrew Cohen in Garden City, says she believes district leaders do know the law. If they don’t, they have law firms to inform them.

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can receive, says Gerald Raymond, a managing partner at Tully Rinckey PLLC in Syracuse. If parents have their child evaluated by someone outside the district, they could walk into a planning meeting for their child’s services with an idea that’s completely different from what school representatives are prepared to offer. In that case, conflict arises not because school authorities don’t know what they’re meant to provide, but because parents have a different idea.

How Lawyers Help

Often a lawyer is necessary to get your school district to do what it must, says Bernard A. Krooks, founding partner of Littman Krooks LLP and head of its special needs department. A lawyer can help you get your child into a different type of class, receive the right services as dictated by her Individualized Education Program, or transfer to a different type of school. A lawyer can also help when your student has behavioral challenges, and help your student avoid the school-to-prison pipeline—a trend in which students with special needs are funneled out of public schools and into the criminal justice system. The American Civil Liberties Union reports that students with disabilities are disproportionately represented in the pipeline because of schools’ inadequate special education resources and a reliance on zero tolerance policies.

Once you’ve retained a lawyer, she can be as involved in your family’s progress as you want. Your attorney can attend IEP, Committee on Special Education, or annual review meetings with you or call for an impartial hearing or mediation. In some cases, a lawyer will take a family’s case all the way to federal court.

Raymond says having an attorney can make a big difference in your child’s well-being. In one case, after a student fell behind in school when the district took his 1-to-1 aide away, Raymond’s firm provided the CSE with documentation as to why the child needed an aide— and got the aide restored to the child. Having an aide can significantly increase a child’s well-being, performance in school, and safety.

Laura Davis, director of the Special Education Unit at New York Legal Assistance Group, says sometimes the impact of a lawyer might not look like much to an untrained eye, but it can mean the world to parents.

“I’m working with a family whose child spent four years in an inappropriate six-one-one [six students, one teacher, and one aide] class in a public school, and is now at Gersh [Academy],” Davis says. “[The mother says] her child can now look at her, sit in a chair for a couple of minutes at a time, wave goodbye. This is all so meaningful to the parent. To somebody else it might look like nothing, but to her, her eight-year-old child is now, for the first time, making progress.”

Finding an Attorney

In his experience, the special needs community is a connected, supportive one, Krooks says. Information, such as lawyer recommendations, tends to get passed around quickly. “You can also use Facebook, discussion and support groups, or simply search online,” he adds. But at the end of the day, Krooks says, it’s not necessarily that difficult to find someone who has the knowledge

needed—though it may be a challenge to find a good match.

That’s why it’s important to vet each name. “You have to hire someone you can build a relationship with, someone who’s compassionate, who’s empathetic, who can represent your interests and your child’s, and who cares about your case,” Krooks says. “Trust your instincts. You have to feel comfortable.”

Affording Services

An attorney might be necessary to go up against your child’s school—especially in wealthier districts where schools often have big law firms on retainer. But affording a lawyer can be tricky no matter where you live—and, unfortunately, petitioners in education law cases do not get attorneys appointed for them by the court, as petitioners in family law cases do.

As Davis explains, it is especially important for families making lower incomes and families whose native language is not English to understand their parental rights. Many of these families, however, don’t have the means to pay retainers and fees, according to Ashley Grant, supervising staff attorney at Advocates for Children in New York City. But these fees, she says, should not prevent parents from seeking assistance.

For example, families can reach out to Advocates for Children, which is just one of several organizations in the city that connects families with lower incomes to legal resources. Some law firms will take on cases regardless of family income. As Krooks points out: “We’ll take on cases like this because we went to law school to help people.” When a lawyer helps a family win a case in New York, the firm can have their attorney’s fees reimbursed by the Department of Education, at no cost to the family. continued on next page››

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AN EDUCATION SUCCESS STORY Alicia Lewis’s* 6-year-old daughter has global developmental delays and is largely nonverbal. She needs a very small classroom, autism-specific methodologies, and an individualized teaching approach. When the New York City Department of Education placed her in an inadequate school last fall—twice— Lewis realized she needed the help of an attorney.

Lewis had gone through an initial placement meeting, in which she says DOE representatives “did not seem to factor in our input and the evaluations we submitted, and did not allow the professionals who evaluated our daughter to testify.” Lewis asked for a reconvene, but the placement recommendations made at that second meeting were the same.

“We were [finally] given a District 75 placement,” she says, “and we wanted to visit it, but it was a new site that wouldn’t be open until the first day of school. We were told to visit a similar site, and we did. But it seemed like none of our daughter’s needs would be met there. They had no autismspecific methodologies. We couldn’t even see any of the teachers or therapists. They hadn’t been hired yet.”

That’s when Lewis knew she had to hire an attorney. “When the DOE fails completely to provide an appropriate educational setting for your child, and you have no other choice but to seek resolution through an impartial hearing, having a lawyer is imperative.”

With the help of an attorney, Lewis informed the DOE she’d placed her daughter in a private special education school and would be moving forward with an impartial hearing. During the hearing, Lewis won the tuition for her daughter’s new school, meaning the DOE would handle all costs. Lewis also won athome therapy for her daughter’s needs. Since then, her daughter has changed tremendously, both in school and at home.

“She’s much more attentive and responsive. She has made a lot of progress. She’s really grown,” Lewis says. “She is so much more focused, she shows that she’s interested, she participates, she’s much more engaged with us at home.”

Lewis attributes this success to having a lawyer. “The impartial hearing process is not something I would have been able to maneuver on my own,” she says. “Without an attorney, I would not have known the specific steps we needed to follow, the timeline, and the legal terminology.” *Name has been changed to protect the identity of the family involved.

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“We’re a Package.” ››

The moment I realized my daughter understood—and accepted—the responsibility of caring for her twin brother.

By Ceilann Neber

M

y twins were never in the same play group, class, or even grade. They were together only in the womb, the NICU and, later, our home.

They were on complete opposite ends of the spectrum. Why couldn’t they meet somewhere in the middle? I often asked myself.

Born 16 weeks premature, my baby girl had her struggles, but I knew she would prevail. My instinct was right; she did. Relentless in my efforts to somehow change the course of his outcome, I knew my baby boy’s struggles would be permanent. And they were—a mother’s intuition.

Now, 23 years later, I still wonder what life would have been like. Seeing neurotypical twins is a reminder of what they (and honestly, I) did not have. It’s a reminder of everything that was missed, how nothing was typical—and, ultimately, how it has affected my daughter.

What would it have been like to bring my healthy twins home, memorialize their milestones in their baby books, and open our home to visitors wanting to celebrate them? What would it have been like to take my babies to the store or a friend’s home, to smile rather than cry, to savor each moment rather than worry about the next?

What would it have been like to experience my babies developing typically? What would it have been like for my baby girl to have a playmate, a best friend, a partner in crime—to grow up like I did with my brother, who is 15 months older than me?

What would it have been like for her to grow up without the constant flow of nurses and therapists in our home, visits to the hospital, or doctor and therapist appointments?

What would it have been like to not worry about my son’s future—or about my daughter’s, for that matter, as the only sibling of a brother with multiple disabilities? What would it have been like to not feel guilty?

When they were 10 years old, I drove the three of us home from yet another doctor’s appointment—an appointment I was hoping would bring a different diagnosis for my boy. It was during that car ride that I realized my daughter already understood what her future was going to look like.

“Mommy...do you think Matt will ever get married?” she asked.

“I’m not sure, why?”

“Well, while we were in the doctor’s office, there was something on TV that said kids like Matt will probably never get married or have children.”

I held back tears.

Ceilann Neber lives on Long Island with her husband and twins.

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“It’s okay, Mom,” she said. “He will live with me when you and Dad can’t take care of him anymore.”

“Oh, Sweetie,” I said. “I know you love your brother. But you will have your own life and your future husband may not want your brother to live with you.”

Without hesitation she said, “I wouldn’t marry anyone that didn’t want Matt, Mom. We’re a package. We’re twins!”

In these 23 years, every one of my daughter’s accomplishments has been met with celebration and happiness—but deep down those same accomplishments were always bittersweet for me. She felt it, too, because she wanted her brother to be able to accomplish the same things. I knew she felt it, and it makes me sad still. She has watched me move through this journey, and she wants me to be wholly happy—not the half-happy I am because I wish her brother could be beside her. She gets it, and she always has.

I sat down to write this essay about what it was like to raise twins when one has a disability. But, ultimately, it’s an essay about my daughter. My son is the happiest boy. His innocent smile is the most beautiful thing. He is our light. But my daughter understands and feels more than any mother would wish for her child. It’s been a long and complicated path, and yet despite this, or perhaps because of this, she has grown into an amazing young adult. Her journey, our family’s journey, has grounded and humbled her, given her strength and understanding, and taught her compassion and kindness firsthand.

Will I ever stop wondering what it would be like if my twins were both neurotypical? Maybe. One thing I won’t have to question is who will take care of my son when my husband and I aren’t able to. My daughter chose to take on the responsibility of making sure her brother is safe in the future. That is a responsibility she has understood for a long time, though it’s not what I hoped for her future. It’s something I think about all the time, and I know she thinks about it, too.

Despite these worries, I wouldn’t change either of my twins for anything. The reality of life and her future responsibilities can seem overwhelming, but my daughter will approach all of it with the same compassion and strength her brother has helped her learn from the beginning. My twins will always be on opposite ends of the spectrum in many ways. I will always worry about them equally, too. But they give light to each other. And while my intuition about my son was correct, it was also correct about my daughter. She will prevail, she will keep him safe, and she will be okay.

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These tips from security experts will go a long way to keeping your home secure, especially during the upcoming holiday season. By Jaimie Seaton

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ith the holidays just around the corner, apartment doormats and front stoops will soon be stacked with packages—and that means “porch pirates” will be out in full force. Many of us will be traveling and leaving our homes unattended during the holidays. Many residents have turned to video doorbells, such as Ring and Nest Hello, to give them an edge over the package-stealing crooks and burglars, but this latest craze in home security isn’t a cure-all. In fact, there’s a lot more to home safety than filming people who come to your door.

Mind the Basics

It’s hard to believe, but some people fail to take the most basic precautions, including locking their doors. “They may feel a false sense of security, and they may live in a safe area, but you can never be too certain,” says Cassandra Anderson, vice president of the New York Insurance Association, who adds that it’s a good idea to have a deadbolt lock.

It can also be easy to overlook the door itself, but all doors are not created equal. An exterior door should be metal or solid wood, not the hollow-core type used for interiors. And remember, a lock is only as strong as the door and the door is only as strong as its frame.

“You can have very good locks, but if your door frame is rotted, it defeats the purpose,” says Jessica Corey, commanding officer of the NYPD’s Crime Prevention Division. “Somebody can just push the door in. You can’t install a lock or a door without looking at the whole system.”

Corey also notes that many people overlook the hinges. If the door’s hinges are on the outside and the pins exposed, someone can remove the pins and remove the door. She suggests either changing the door or installing non-removable pins.

Another basic step many people forget about is to make a video inventory of your possessions. That way, if you are burglarized (or suffer a house fire or flood), you have a detailed record for police and insurance.

Secure the Perimeter

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make sure landscaping doesn’t block your windows, and that shrubbery can’t be used to shield an intruder from passing neighbors or a police patrol car.

Corey also reminds people to secure their windows—particularly at ground level. When installing window air conditioners, make sure to secure them with the proper (and usually included) hardware so they can’t be pushed in.

And use outside lighting. “It’s is one of the cheapest and most effective deterrents that you have,” Corey says. “Either lighting that comes on from dusk to dawn, or lighting that’s motionactivated. That’s something that’s easily installed.”

Keep Up Appearances

When you broadcast news of your vacation plans across social media (or to the clerk at the local store) you never know who else is watching and listening, including thieves. It’s best to be cautious about whom you talk to—and wait to post pictures of your trip until you return.

Remember that scene in Home Alone, when Kevin rigs up mannequins and lights to make it look like his empty house is full of people? You don’t have to go quite that far, but when you’re away, you want your house to look lived-in. Ask the post office to hold your mail, ensure there won’t be any packages delivered, and arrange for someone to take out the trash and recycling. It’s also a good idea to put interior and exterior lights on timers.

Then there are the not-so-obvious things, like putting a television or two on a timer and asking a neighbor to park one of their cars in your driveway if you normally park your car in your driveway. (Anderson actually advises people to park their car in their garage if possible, so people won’t know their habits of coming and going.) The key is to make your house look the way it does when you are home.

“A lot of people think when they go away that they should close all their curtains. If you don’t normally close all your curtains, you shouldn’t do it when you’re away,” Corey advises.

And don’t forget to have someone mow the lawn or shovel snow if you’re away for more than a week. Both Corey and Anderson say leaving your house to the elements while you’re away is a sure sign the home isn’t occupied.

Be Smart with Your Smart Home

Aside from all these low-tech strategies, both Anderson and Corey recommend installing a home security system and/or video doorbell. “There’s a lot of new types of technologies out there that create video display in real time, where you’re aware of what’s going on in your house when you’re away. I think that those are certainly things that individuals could consider, to increase the security at their house,” Anderson says.

“I can’t speak to any one technology, but having multiple security features is always better,” Corey says. “If you have video, if you have lighting, if you have an alarm system, that’s going to be better than if you had none of those things.”

She recommends an alarm system with motion detectors and installing video cameras connected to a phone app but cautions people to remember that online systems can be hacked. “Use two-factor authentication and anything else the security or doorbell company recommends to protect the system,” Corey says.

Nothing will guarantee 100-percent safety and security, but taking a strategic approach and implementing the measures recommended by experts will reduce your chances of being victimized.

Jaimie Seaton has been a journalist for more than 20 years and is the former Thailand correspondent for Newsweek. Her work on divorce, parenting, dating, and a wide range of topics has been featured in The Washington Post, The Guardian, Glamour, and numerous other publications. Follow her on Twitter @JaimieSeaton.

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Having open and honest conversations with your teen can help prevent some bad choices from being made.

Why Teens Drive Us Crazy

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There is a reason your teen making bad or questionable decisions is the (unfortunate) norm in the adolescent years. But don’t worry! It’s just a phase. By Lambeth Hochwald

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s a parent of a teenager, you probably know some vexing behavior often comes with this stage—whether it’s making choices without regard to consequences, questioning authority, or just becoming more distant. It’s a challenging time for both parent and child—and it’s often impossible for us to understand why our kids are acting out. One of the best ways to cope and communicate, however, is to understand the reasons for their behavior.

Their Brains Work Against Them

“While teenagers’ brains are growing at a rapid rate, they are still many years away from maturity—as brains typically complete growth at age twenty-five,” says David Ezell, founder and CEO of Darien Wellness, a counseling and psychiatry group in Darien, CT. “The last part of the brain to develop is the frontal cortex, which is the part that contains the executive functioning area and is involved with abstract thought, planning, and impulse control.”

What does this mean for your teen who is juggling many new thoughts and emotions? “Executive functions allow us to plan and see consequences,” Ezell says. “So, what adults perceive to be obviously ‘risky’ behavior does not seem that way to teenagers because their brains have difficulty connecting today to tomorrow.

The combination of a lack of experience and a developing brain sets young people up to put themselves in situations that most adults would consider to be very dangerous.”

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They Lack Experience

There’s another very important reason your teens are acting out, and it’s actually quite simple: Teenagers haven’t had anywhere near the life experience you’ve had.

“As adults, we know that if we don’t pay the ConEd bill, the lights will be turned off,” Ezell says. “Most teens lack that experience of cause and effect, nor have they seen their peers experience a similar situation.”

Remember: Being a teenager is a developmental stage, albeit one that may involve intense mood swings, lying, social media obsession, and trading communication with you for spending way more time with his friends.

“This is a time when a child is going from being a child to becoming an independent adult, which is also why there is so much change happening in their body, minds, and actions,” says Shuli Sandler, Psy.D., a clinical psychologist in Teaneck, NJ. “A lot of this time is about figuring out who they are and part of that is pushing limits in the service of that exploration and discovery.”

Hormones are Surging

Along with changing bodies come changing hormones, which play a large role in what teens are feeling.

“All of these new hormones can also contribute to a lack of impulse control,” says Nikita Banks, LCSW, a licensed

HOW TO MAKE THINGS EASIER We’re not going to sugarcoat it: This is a challenging phase in your life as a parent, but you can get through it in a healthy way—and keep your relationship as strong as it ever was— by following these three tips from Shuli Sandler, Psy.D., a clinical psychologist in Teaneck, NJ. Be open to hearing about anything.

Try to have as many candid conversations as possible with your teenagers, in which you talk about everything, including, but not limited to, sex, drugs, friends, and school.

Make sure the rules are clear.

Spell out your rules of conduct but understand your teen may not follow them. If she doesn’t, she needs to know exactly what the consequences will be.

Be there to help him.

Make sure your teen understands that he can and should ask for help whenever he needs it. He should also know that he will not be penalized for asking for help—even if he’s at a party and needs to call you for a ride at 1am because his ride has been drinking.

psychotherapist in private practice in Brooklyn. “Think about all that your teen is juggling. She is both trying to figure out who she is as an individual and find her place in society, which is a very big transition. To do this, she may pull away or test the values of her family and adapt behaviors that will be seen as more desirable to her peer group. When you put all of these factors together it can make for one wild ride.”

With this surge in independence, teens may push the envelope to see how far they can push you.

“The goal you hope for as a parent is for your teen to ultimately end up in the middle where he takes appropriate risks but uses caution and prudence when indicated,” Dr. Sandler says. “It does take time for the two extremes to settle down in the middle, as is often the case in life.”

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What You Can Do

Given all of this change, keeping the lines of communication open with your teen is very important—especially when he makes bad or questionable choices. Plan regular outings together or eat meals as a family to bridge the gaps and enable everyone to feel heard.

“This time together is very important, and it serves another purpose, too. It’s actually a really good way to get an inside view of what is going on in their life,” Banks says. “Your goal should be twofold: You want to monitor their social interactions with friends to the best of your ability, but also give your child a voice.”

After all, any strong connection you can keep with your teen is crucial and will help ease the very important transition she is moving through.

“When teens feel that they are not only seen but heard at home, it helps them develop a greater sense of self-esteem,” Banks adds.

“It also provides a strong foundation for them to be able to withstand the social pressures of this time of life.”

Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

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Shari Eberts and her family at a recent Hearing Loss Association of America Walk4Hearing

If I Can’t See You, I Can’t Hear You ›› The challenges of being a mother with hearing loss

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“ s this the year we can finally get earbuds?” It’s a question my teenagers ask me every year on their birthday, but they already know the answer: No. And they know the reason why.

I have an adult-onset genetic hearing loss passed down through my father’s side of the family. Thankfully, my children have healthy hearing so far, but I need them to guard it with a vengeance. If they develop problems with their hearing in adulthood, like I did, I want them to be starting off with as little residual damage as possible—hence, no earbuds.

That’s not our first struggle triggered by my hearing issues.

When you’re a mom with hearing loss, communication with your children is always a bit difficult. It’s just the nature of the challenge that changes as they grow.

When they were infants, I would strain to hear their cries through the baby monitor. At night, with my hearing aids removed, I might sleep through the sound, even with the volume turned up to the max. Luckily, my husband would usually hear them and wake me up when necessary. If he was traveling for work, I slept fitfully, worried my babies might need me, but I wouldn’t hear them. In later years, I trained my children to seek me out at night if a problem arose, so I would be sure to respond.

The struggles weren’t all bad. As toddlers, my kids reveled in the game hide-and-seek, probably because they were at such an advantage. I could hear their giggles and squeals, but had a hard

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time pinpointing the location of the sounds. When I walked past their hiding place, giggles would erupt, but I wouldn’t know exactly where to look. Circling back, I would hear laughter again.

They enjoyed it so much, I made a point to wander back and forth calling, “Where are you?” for several minutes. I knew a limb would eventually poke out from their secret spot, and I would find them.

When they started school, communication became even more important, and a few logistical rules were required: Remember to face me when you talk to me; speak slower so I can understand you; don’t cover your mouth with your hands; if I can’t see you, I can’t hear you. I know I sound like a broken record, but what choice do I have?

Some days they remember, others they forget. They face me for one sentence but turn away for the next. It causes sadness and irritation on both sides. I wonder why they can’t consistently speak so I can understand them, and they get annoyed that their nagging mom can’t hear them. There are some tough moments, especially when they wave their hands at me in frustration and say, “Never mind.” That really brings me to a boil.

The good news is, children can be very accepting. One day I asked my children if it bothered them to have a mom with hearing loss. They looked at me like they didn’t understand the question.

It is all they have ever known.

Shari Eberts is a hearing health advocate, writer, and the founder of livingwithhearingloss.com, a blog and online community for people living with hearing loss and tinnitus. She serves on the board of trustees of Hearing Loss Association of America. Connect with Eberts on Facebook @livingwithhearingloss and Twitter @sharieberts.

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