Suffolk Parent February 2019

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The Parent-Teen Bond She’s growing up, but that doesn’t have to mean growing apart

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20 camp 12 What Camp Directors Wish Parents Knew 14 Camp Directory 18 At-a-Glance Camp Guide

Family Fun in Manhattan

Things to do and shows to see this month in the Big Apple.

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Ways to Get (and Stay) Closer to Your Teen

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Checking Out Neighborhoods

How to maintain a strong relationship with your child through her adolescence.

Experts share what you should consider before handing over a down payment.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Crossing the Digital Divide 11 5 Tips for Traveling with Young Children 32 Orthodontia Explained 33 Meet the Health Care Professional 34 Baby Cry Decoder 36 Ways to Get (and Stay) Closer to Your Teen 37 SAT & ACT Prep Directory 41 Open Houses 42 Professional Services 44 Party Central 45 Advertiser’s Index 46 Stuff We Like

20 Family Fun in Manhattan

38 Credit Check-Up

21 Family Activities Calendar

40 Checking Out Neighborhoods

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Helping Parents Make Better Decisions ON THE COVER ›› 12 Camp Directors Tell All 14 Find the Perfect Camp 32 Orthodontia Explained 36 The Parent-Teen Bond facebook.com/nymetroparents

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FEBRUARY 2019 • Vol.10 • No.9

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s I write this, we’re getting weather warnings for Winter Storm Harper, and I couldn’t be happier about it. What can I say; this Maine-girl-at-heart loves the cold and snow! But, I’m sure many of you can’t wait for the warmer weather of summer to arrive—dreaming of beach days and no school (well, the kids are dreaming of this at least). We here at Suffolk Parent are also turning our thoughts to the summer months— reminiscing about our long-gone days of summer camp.

While you may think it’s too early to consider your child’s summer camp plans, the American Camp Association actually suggests that now is the perfect time to start planning. And we’re here to help you make the best decisions for your children to set them up for the. Best. Summer. Ever.

In this issue, camp directors and counselors tell all, revealing the top things they wish you knew about summer camp, from choosing a camp to ensuring your kids have a great experience (p. 12). You’ll also find two must-read camp planning resources: our Camp Directory (p. 14), full of the area’s best summer camp options, and our At-aGlance Camp Guide (p. 18), where you’ll be able to quickly see which camps offer transportation, extended hours, lunch, flexible schedules, and other specialty programs.

And to help you even more, this year we are publishing our first-ever Suffolk Parent Digital Camp Guide, which is full of great free content, including expert advice for planning your child’s summer, descriptions of area camps, camp comparison charts, and open house schedules. You won’t want to miss this ultimate, all-in-one, camp planning resource! You can find it at nymetroparents.com/campguide/suffolk beginning Feb. 15!

Of course, camp isn’t the only thing on our minds right now. This issue is also full of great advice, including ways to get and stay close to your teens at a time when it feels like they’re pulling away from you (pg. 36), how you can begin to discern what your baby’s cries mean (pg. 34), tips for improving your credit score in a year (really!) (pg. 38), and how to thoroughly check out a neighborhood to see if it’s the right place for your family live (pg. 40). Plus, February is National Children’s Dental Health Month, so local orthodontists share all you need to know about orthodontic appliances (pg. 32).

And since February also brings us Valentine’s Day, we’re wishing you lots of love, laughter, and great memories with your kids!

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Who: Park Shore Country Day Camp What’s New: Cooking With Stars and Extreme STEAM Science Kids Design Innovation & Robotics, which are slated to begin June 28.

Cooking With Stars will be led by former Today Show producer, Chef Paula Gottlieb Herman. Campers in first-fifth grades will cook recipes inspired by global cuisine and learn about culinary techniques, food hygiene, and harvesting.

Extreme STEAM Science Kids Design Innovation & Robotics is led by a Stony Brook University professor of machine design and robotics and takes place in the Science Center. Campers in sixth-ninth grades will explore robotics and engineering utilizing the SnappyXO robot kit and MotionGen app.

Park Shore Day Camp also plans to extend transportation services across the South Shore of Long Island and into Nassau County.

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In Cooking With Stars, campers in first-fi fth grades will cook recipes inspired by Greek, French, Italian , and Mexican cuisine and learn about harvesting in Park Shore’s vegetable and herb garden.

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Jake Atchoo, the area manager, says he saw a need for a swim school in Centereach due to its proximity to the shores and the number of unfenced backyards with pools.

The curriculum at Goldfish Swim School focuses on The Science of Swim Play®, which is the concept that children learn best through play, according to Atchoo. Once a week, 30-minute swim lessons are available to children ages 4 months to 12 years. Classes are capped at four children enabling instructors to give personalized attention.

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Who: Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts What’s New: A creative writing minor, Divise theater classes, and small ensemble classes, all of which will be offered this summer.

Performance, Poetry, and Podcasting, the creative writing minor, has an emphasis on writing slam poetry and creating a podcast. The Divise theater classes will allow students to conceptualize and create new plays, usually with a social justice bend. The small ensemble classes will occur the last three weeks of camp, including chamber ensembles, silent films, and opportunities to work with current composers.

Usdan will also be rebuilding the two studios and bathrooms that were destroyed when lightning struck the campus last summer, with plans to modernize the two studios as well as adding heat. The bathrooms are expected to be complete by this summer and the studios by summer 2020.

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Crossing the Digital Divide ›› One simple thing we do every week as a family to connect with our teens By Emily Orton

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s part of the first wave of parents raising children in the digital age, I often feel like I’m in a conga line of the blind leading the blind. We’re guessing. We’re occasionally desperate. My husband and I went so far as to take our five kids to live on a sailboat for a year, so we could connect and create memories before they grew up and moved out. While a year at sea is more doable than most people think, you don’t have to go to those extremes to connect.

Upon returning to the land of milk and Wi-Fi, we found ourselves digitally drifting apart again, even in our 900-squarefoot apartment. Should we embrace or eschew ubiquitous screens?

How do we navigate the middle ground? My husband came up with a first-world solution for a first-world problem. Now, every Sunday evening, my family gathers for a ritual that is more Roku than Rockwell. We call it: Week in Pictures.

Starting with our youngest and working our way up, each family member syncs their iPod or iPhone to our Apple TV using airplay or screen mirroring and shares their photos, videos, and snaps from the week. It’s that simple. Any smartphone or streaming TV device should do the trick.

Our kids were skeptical at first. We didn’t know if it would stick, but it has for more than three years. It does not require elaborate preparation. It’s a quick, “Hey kids, grab your phones. Time for Week in Pictures.” If the Wi-Fi is wimpy, we put our phones on Airplane Mode until it’s our turn to share. Our only rule? We all stay to see each other’s photos.

You might not think a few minutes once a week can make a difference, but it’s had a huge impact in our home. In a few

Emily and Erik Orton decided to spend a year sailing with their five kids.

You can read about their adventure in Seven At Sea, available March 5.

minutes a whole family can orient to each other. We see into each other’s lives through each other’s eyes. Try it once. You may be surprised what you learn about one another. You may have the satisfaction of knowing you really do have a pulse on your child’s interests or you may have the pleasure of being educated.

So often months blur together. Week in Pictures reveals some measure of what has made each week unique. Knowing we’ll have an opportunity to share insights, discoveries, and silly faces with each other makes us more aware of life in real time.

It’s like sipping a cozy cup of Our Town. I am regularly amazed at how much life is compressed into seven days—milestones, epiphanies, emotions, and experiences—even when we’re just having a “regular” week.

When we have company on Sunday evenings, we invite them to join us for Week in Pictures. When we are visiting others, we ask if our hosts would like to have a Week in Pictures. Everyone has loved it.

Two of our daughters are away at college now. We call. We FaceTime. We email. We follow each other on Instagram. We have a family text group for sharing ongoing dialogue and momentous updates, so we can console or congratulate and keep our inside jokes alive. But when they come home between semesters, they want to share their pictures.

We block out time over several days to make sure our grown-up kids get to show us everything they want us to know about their lives. I’m not kidding. A lot of parents are looking for the key to that secret garden where they can glimpse into their kid’s lives. If you’re one of them, the key may already be in your hand.

Emily Orton blogs with her husband, Erik, at Fezywig.com. They are the co-authors of Seven at Sea: Why a New York City Family Cast Off Convention for a Life-Changing Year on a Sailboat, available on SevenAtSea.com on March 5.

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t’s difficult to predict how your little one will react to being on an airplane for an extended period of time. Similarly, you can’t foresee how your child will be once you reach your destination. After all, you’re turning your tot’s world upside down for a couple of days.

Harvey Karp, M.D., pediatrician, faculty member of University of Southern California School of Medicine, and author of Happiest Baby on the Block, shares how to make traveling with young children a little easier.

Pre-trip prep. Make sure you have a local doctor’s information on hand. If your child is old enough, tell them about where they’re going, Dr. Karp suggests. Show them pictures of where they’re going, who they’ll meet, and what they’ll see. If you anticipate needing to help your child sleep, talk to your doctor and test out medications to ensure they don’t make your child hyper instead of drowsy.

Have modest expectations. This is one of the most important things, according to Dr. Karp. If you are traveling with an infant, you can easily wear your baby in a carrier and walk around. But once your baby begins to toddle, these sorts of activities are no longer a breeze. Plan kidfriendly activities, but don’t over-schedule; having some days to relax by the pool is a good idea. If you’re staying in a different time zone for a short period of time, keep your watches in your usual time zone, suggests Dr. Karp; your child won’t have time to adjust to a new one.

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Be prepared. Bring a kit filled with essentials and medicines just in case. Dr. Karp suggests ibuprofen for fevers, cortisone creams for burns, Benadryl for allergies, and anything your child may need specific to his health needs. Don’t forget your child’s “lovie” and a backup one. If you’re on a long ride, distractions are key, Dr. Karp says. Bring a supply of toys to keep the child interested.

Anticipate pressure changes on a plane. One of the most difficult parts of taking a baby on a plane are the pressure changes. When you experience that painful throbbing in your ears as a result of take-off or landing, you pop your ears. However, babies don’t know what is causing this pain, or how to fix it, so Dr. Karp suggests giving your baby a bottle 10 minutes into take-off and 30 minutes before landing.

Baby-proof your space. “Be prepared to baby-proof wherever you’re going to stay,” Dr. Karp says. “Bring paper bandage tape to tape electric outlets, cords up against walls, and the toilet and fridge shut. You can also tape cotton balls on sharp corners.” Dr. Karp also suggests creating a sense of familiarity in the space, whether it’s by playing white noise in the hotel room, hanging up your child’s drawings on the wall, or packing your child’s favorite blanket.

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Six camp owners and directors tell all—from evaluating camps to asking about your child’s day.

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or parents, summer can present a logistical nightmare: How will your child spend all those days from June through August? Camp, of course, is the perfect solution.

At camp, your child will learn new skills, build confidence, and have uninhibited fun in a safe environment, says Bob Budah, one of the owners of Park Shore Country Day Camp and School in Dix Hills.

But which one? And what do you need to know to make your child’s experience during those weeks at camp stellar?

Six camp directors and owners—from day camps across the New York metro area—share their must-know tips for parents.

Know the camp’s reputation and accreditation.

Keep your kid’s needs (and hobbies!) in mind.

“The first thing I really hope parents do prior to choosing a camp is understand their children and know their likes and dislikes,” Grosbard says. For kids, he says, summertime is a break from school— that doesn’t just mean a respite from testing, homework, and the classroom, but an opportunity to do what they enjoy.

And while it’s nice to go into the first day of camp knowing someone, don’t automatically opt for your child’s best friend’s camp. “You want to pick the best camp for your individual child and that might not be the camp that their friends go to,” says Roberta Katz, co-owner and director of Deer Mountain Day Camp in Pomona.

Checking into the camp’s reputation should be high on your to-do list, Budah says. Do your usual due diligence: Ask fellow parents about their impression of the camp, and check online reviews.

Budah also strongly urges parents to confirm the camp is accredited by the American Camping Association and inspected by the health department. The ACA sets standards for everything from the age appropriateness of activities to first-aid equipment standards.

Trust the camp director.

Factor in the camp’s location—and how far it is from home.

Feel free to pick up the phone.

Does this sound like a minor detail? Not so, says Jack Grosbard, owner of Mill Basin Day Camp in Brooklyn. “If a camper travels long ways back and forth, it can really ruin the experience,” Grosbard says. So, keep proximity in mind during the selection process.

Think about the camp’s size, too, says Joseph O’Sullivan, camp director at Magic Day Camp in Queens. “Many camps are so big that kids can get lost, and if you’re the type of child who doesn’t make friends easily, this can be lonely,” he says. Check the camp’s website for the staff-to-child ratio, as well as its overall size.

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If something comes up, by all means, get in touch. But one perk of sending your kid to camp, says Matt Davanzo, camp director at Squire Day Camp in Hartsdale, is feeling secure knowing your child is well taken care of by an experienced, capable staff.

“What I like to impart to my parents is: We’ve got this. We’ll take care of it,” Davanzo says. “My goal is to be a non-factor.”

Ultimately, you should feel confident in the camp you select. But if something comes up, camp directors urge you to get in touch.

“Call me with anything,” Katz says. “In order to make camp the best possible experience for each child here, we need to have very open communication with each of our families,” she says.

O’Sullivan agrees. At his camp, parents get cellphone numbers for every staff member their kids will encounter. That way, there’s no need to navigate the office or make multiple calls in order for parents to speak to their child, or their child’s counselor.

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The first day of camp can be nerve-wracking—for you, and for your child. To quell those concerns, Katz urges parents to focus on how your child will feel at the end of the experience.

And worry less about your kid fitting in or making friends right away too, she recommends. “I try to make parents feel comfortable with the idea of helping kids flourish as individuals,” she says.

Familiarize yourself with the camp’s procedures.

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Every camp has a set of rules and procedures, so consider getting to know these guidelines your homework. And “pay attention to correspondence,” Grosbard says. That way, if there’s a dance show with everyone wearing white T-shirts, your kid won’t be the lone performer in a red tank top. And, Grosbard adds: be on time for pick-up and drop-off.

Even more than keeping up with logistics, it’s nice to have a sense of what your kid does during the day, says David Stapleton, camp director of Future Stars Summer Camps in Old Westbury.

Tip: Depending on your camp, social media can be a way to keep up with your kid’s daytime adventures.

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121 Wolf Hill Road, Melville 631-692-6222 campwdaycamp.com info@campwdaycamp.com Camp W “Where Friendships Are Made” located in Melville, is a day camp for ages 4-15. Campers enjoy baseball, basketball, soccer, Gaga, game room, camp lounge, easel painting, swimming, robotics, dance, cooking, go karts, and day trips.

Small group sizes. Campers choose their afternoon activities. Transportation and early and late care available.

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium Nature Summer Camp

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfishhatchery.org steved@cshfishhatchery.org Young explorers, grades pre-K to 12th, spend summer surrounded by nature.

Encourage their love of nature with hands-on activities, nature crafts, live animals, and outdoor adventure nature camps. Expeditions to nearby salt marsh, ponds, and woodlands. One to four-day camps available. Summer fun at a great price! Prepare to get wet and muddy!

Future Stars Summer Camps The College at Old Westbury

The College at Old Westbury, Old Westbury 516-876-3490 Farmingdale State College 2350 Broadhollow Road, Farmingdale St. Joseph’s College 155 W. Roe Blvd., Patchogue fscamps.com Future Stars Summer Camps offer weekly sports, STEAM, and specialty camp programs at three locations (The College at Old Westbury, Farmingdale State College, and St Joseph’s College Patchogue). Programs are offered to children entering kindergarten-ninth grade. A balanced camp day ensures the perfect blend of instruction and fun.

Kenwal Day Camp

100 Drexel Ave., Melville 631-694-3399 kenwaldaycamp.com Kenwal Day Camp, the “camp that cares,” fosters high self-esteem in its campers, ages 3-15. Situated on 20 magnificent acres, with nature trails and a man-made lake. Activities include an inflatable water park, mini golf, arts and crafts, sports, theater, dance, swimming, zip lines, go karts, and rope rappelling.

Kids Country Day Camp

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Long Island Voyager’s Day Camp

516-238-4586 livoyagersdaycamp.com livoyagersdaycamp@gmail.com Long Island Voyager’s Day Camp is an exciting, action-packed, safe summer experience for ages 4-14. We offer swimming, sports, art, drama, activities, door-to-door transportation, before- and after-care, and swim instruction. Trips to Fire Island, amusement parks, ball games, paddle boating, animal farms, aquariums, and a talent show are also included.

Park Shore Country Day Camp

450 Deer Park Road, Dix Hills 631-499-8580 parkshoredaycamp.com info@parkshoredaycamp.com Located in Dix Hills on 15 acres. Programs for ages 2-14. Activities include athletics, aquatics, high-ropes course, bungee, rock wall, ninja course, ATV, arts and crafts, performing arts, and special events. Specialty camps include Extreme STEAM Science Kids, Sports Track, and Cooking With Stars.

Transportation, before- and after-care, and lunch available.

St. Patrick Youth Community Summer Camp

St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-360-0185 stpatsyouth.com; spyouth@optonline.net Camp St. Pat’s provides the ultimate camp experience for children ages 3-15.

Celebrating more than 30 years of safe, summer fun, with one of the best counselor-to-camper ratios in Suffolk County. Offering before- and after-care, flexible schedules, day and overnight trips, STEAM, vacation bible school, art, sports, music, and dance.

Thomas School of Horsemanship Summer Day Camp

250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com tsh@tshcamp.com TSH Day Camp offers activities of a traditional day camp plus a full riding program. Children ages 3-15 participate in riding, horse science, swimming, sports, art, theater, and special events. We feel passionately about children having funfilled days while learning life’s important lesson such as responsibility, compassion, kindness, and critical thinking.

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts

185 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights 631-643-7900 usdan.org Usdan, the nation’s preeminent arts

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Locations: Bay Shore, East Hampton, Glen Cove, Holtsville, Huntington, and Patchogue 855-2YMCALI (962254) ymcali.org/camp tamar.simpson@ymcali.org Awesome adventures await at YMCA of Long Island Summer Day Camp!

Choose from traditional day camp, full-, or half-day specialty camps including sports, performing arts, coding, and waterfront. Transportation, extended day morning and afternoon, and lunch plans offered for additional cost. For more information or to register online, visit ymcali.org/camp.

Young People’s Day Camps Suffolk

631-476-3330 ypdc.com YPDC of Suffolk is licensed by the NYS Health Department, and accredited by the ACA for your child’s safety. Free door-to-door transportation, with activities supervised by licensed teachers and administrators. Superior camper-to-counselor ratio. YPDC is fun, educational, diversified, and convenient. Keeping children smiling and parents at ease since 1972.

Specialty Camps Art League of Long Island Summer Art Adventure 30 DeForest Road, Dix Hills 631-462-5400 Summer Pre-College Portfolio Development 107 E. Deer Park Road, Dix Hills artleagueli.org; info@artleague.org Summer Art Adventure offers kids and teens ages 5-18 fun and creative activities in a variety of visual arts mediums led by certified art professionals. Find inspiration by creating art using specific artists’ unique styles.

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1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfishhatchery.org steved@cshfishhatchery.org Young explorers, grades pre-K to 12th, spend summer surrounded by nature. Encourage their love of science with hands-on activities, nature crafts, live animals, and outdoor

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Cold Spring Harbor Laboratory DNA Learning Center

One Bungtown Road, Cold Spring Harbor 516-367-5170 dnalc.org; dnalc@cshl.edu The Cold Spring Harbor Laboratory DNA Learning Center is the world’s first science center devoted entirely to genetics education. We offer fun, challenging programs for students entering sixth through 12th grades. Guided by experienced educators, students use sophisticated laboratory and computer equipment to perform experiments several grade levels ahead of peers.

Destination Science - The fun science day camp for curious kids 5-11!

multiple locations in Nassau and Suffolk counties 888-909-2822 destinationscience.org Destination Science Kids experience “Aha!” moments of understanding, creativity, and curiosity while engineering, building, experimenting, and playing with astonishing gadgets and fantastic gizmos. Our top notch, enthusiastic educators make STEM learning an adventure! 2019 programs include Robot Challengers and Reaction Racers, Young Innovators Science, Rocket Space Science, and Physics Coaster and Science Magic.

Extreme STEAM Science Kids

450 Deer Park Road Dix Hills 631-499-8580 extremesteamcamp.com info@extremesteamscience.com Located in Dix Hills on 15 acres, for grades first-ninth geared to develop skills and curiosity in science. The curriculum is centered around STEAM in our state-of-the-art Science Center. Core focus includes robotics, engineering, programing, science, mathematics, coding, and arts. Transportation, before- and after-care, and lunch available.

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Karen Lynch, artistic director 237A E. Main St., Huntington 631-470-9711 lynchballet.com; info@lynchballet.com Lynch School of Ballet offers a variety of summer programs in a professional and nurturing environment. Young dancers have a magical experience in our Swan Lake Camp. Intermediate and advanced dancers improve their technique in our July Ballet Intensive and August Ballet Workshop. Visit lynchballet.com or call 631-470-9711 for details.

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St. Patrick Youth Community Summer Camp

St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-360-0185 stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net Camp St. Patrick offers Summer Sports Camps! Our Basketball Camp engages children in skills, drills, games, and scrimmages. Great prep for school try outs or Catholic Youth Organization! One-week Cheerleading Camp to strengthen new and old cheerleading skills. We offer Dek Hockey and lacrosse clinics during the summer as well.

Studio E Art Classes

565 Route 25A, Miller Place 631-744-4001 studioeartclass.com/childrens-camps Studio E offers art enrichment camps to three age groups: children (ages 5-8), tweens (ages 9-12), and teens (ages 13-17). Topics include pottery, hand-building, painting, drawing, sketching, collage, and illustration.

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250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com; tsh@tshcamp.com Camp gives kids the skills they need to thrive in the world. Thomas School of Horsemanship expands that knowledge exponentially with horses! For more than 70 years Thomas School of Horsemanship Day Camp offers campers ages 3-5, all the daily activities of a traditional day camp plus a full riding program.

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts

185 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights 631-643-7900 usdan.org Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts, the nation’s preeminent arts day camp offers more than 70 programs of study in the arts including visual art, dance, music, theater, creative writing, nature, chess, and recreational arts. Three-, four-, and seven-week sessions are offered.

Village East Gifted Camp ThinkTank Summer Program

Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted® (VEG), located in both Nassau and Suffolk counties, offers 20 three- or four-day science workshops in its Summer STREAM Program (STEM + Art + Research) for gifted students in grades firstsixth. Workshops are held during the day and in the evenings (after camp).

Winston Preparatory School

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Fans of the classic fairy tale who love the book or movie will appreciate seeing Cinderella on stage.

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A dancing clock, two wacky stepsisters, and everyone’s favorite rags-to-riches princess are all part of this enchanting production of Cinderella. A perennial favorite of New York Theatre Ballet audiences across America, Cinderella is 1-hour in length with choreography by Donald Mahler, costumes by Sylvia Taalson Nolan, and set design by Gillian Bradshaw-Smith. Feb. 9-10, SaturdaySunday, 11am, 1pm, and 3:30pm. Age: All. $27; $15 children.

Florence Gould Hall, 55 E. 59th St., Midtown. nytb.org.

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Founded in 1980, this museum is dedicated to preserving and presenting the history, heritage, culture, and diverse experiences of people of Chinese descent in the United States. The greatly expanded, interactive museum brings 160 years of Chinese American history to life through innovative exhibitions and programs. The collections are comprised of more than 65,000 letters and documents, clothing, photographs, precious artifacts, and more. It hosts festivals, workshops, and family-friendly events celebrating Chinese American history.

Visit it: 215 Centre St., Chinatown; 855-955-6622; mocanyc.org Can’t-miss event: Lunar New Year Family Festival; Feb. 16; 10am-1pm and 2-5pm Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 20-minute drive or a 1-hour, 40-minute LIRR and subway ride from Huntington

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Elmo, Big Bird, Cookie Monster, and Abby Cadabby put on a high-energy show that’s perfect for preschoolers.

See Yeti, Set, Snow! through Feb. 24 at Swedish Cottage Marionette Theatre.

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The littlest theater-goers will be spellbound by Sesame Street Live!

Make Your Magic this month. Elmo is inspired to learn a magic trick when he meets magician extraordinaire Justin. But there’s just one problem: Elmo doesn’t know how to do magic! Through encouragement to practice, work hard, and never give up, Elmo learns it’s okay to make mistakes and magic can be found anywhere when you believe in yourself. Sesame Street Live! Make Your Magic is an inspirational introduction to live theater and the art of illusion.

Feb. 15-24, see website for showtimes. Age: All. $35 and up. The Hulu Theater at Madison Square Garden, 4 Pennsylvania Plaza, Midtown. msg.com/sesame.

For decades, the Swedish Cottage Marionette Theatre in Central Park has been bringing enjoyment to legions of people through its contemporary and innovative marionette productions based on children’s classics. A perfectly located venue for families who want to enjoy the beauty of the park in wintertime and catch a quick show, SCMT has recently produced Neverland: Peter Returns and Beppo the Clown.

Visit it: Central Park, 79th Street and West Drive, Upper West Side; 212-360-1399; cityparksfoundation.org Can’t-miss event: Yeti, Set, Snow!; through Feb. 24; see website for schedule.

Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 15-minute drive or a 1-hour, 45-minute LIRR and subway ride from Huntington

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Editor’s Hot Tickets

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Smarty Pants

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We Can’t Believe It’s FREE!

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Movers & Shakers, Show Time!

Once Upon a Time, Fun Fairs & Festivals

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Crafty Kids

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Animal Lovers

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The Great Outdoors

Dance Party, Little Foodies

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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS

Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 8 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

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2019 Chinese New Year

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SOFO Cleans the Beach FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 1:30-4:30pm WHERE: Stony Brook Village, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the Year of the Pig with Chinese dancing and singing, Taiko Drums, a lion dance, and crafts for the kids.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Families will get to witness an authentic Shaolin Kung Fu demonstration.

WANT TO GO? $12; $10 kids younger than 12 and seniors. 631-6895888. stonybrookvillage.com.

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 8am WHERE: South Fork Natural History Museum, 377 Bridgehampton Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: All WHAT: Help clean the beach! All of the findings will be weighed to get an idea of how much trash is washing up on the beaches.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Show the kiddos how to keep these hometown beaches pollution-free.

WANT TO GO? 631-537-9735. sofo.org.

Annual Groundhog Day Celebration FREE

Circus Performance with the National Circus Project

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WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 7am WHERE: Holtsville Ecology Site, 249 Buckley Road, Holtsville AGES: All WHAT: Hundreds will gather to hear Holtsville Hal’s famous forecast!

WHY WE LOVE IT: Following the ceremony, residents are welcome to enjoy free hot chocolate and visit the Animal Preserve.

WANT TO GO? 631-758-9664. brookhavenny.gov.

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WHEN: Friday, Feb. 15, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: All WHAT: Have a ball at this interactive performance featuring circus arts from around the world.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Learn circus skills after the show!

WANT TO GO? $12; $9 seniors; $6 guests of members; free for students with ID, children younger than 18, and museum members. 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

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Jack Hanna’s Into The Wild Live!

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 3pm WHERE: NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Fans will enjoy stories, from brushing a hippo’s teeth to eating with wombats, and footage from Jack Hanna’s adventures.

WHY WE LOVE IT: A visit from Jungle Jack would not be complete without an array of animals including cheetahs, kangaroos, and penguins.

WANT TO GO? $29.50 and up. 516-247-5200. thetheatreatwestbury.com.

Turtle Island Quartet - The Art of the Groove

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 4pm WHERE: Staller Center, Stony Brook University, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook AGES: 5-12 WHAT: An engaging presentation that draws comparisons between a quartet and a family to help students understand how a string quartet functions and thrives.

WHY WE LOVE IT: There will be a Q-and-A after a rousing rock ‘n’ roll finish.

WANT TO GO? $10-$20. 631-632-6000. Stallercenter.com.

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Presidents Week: Whalers Wanted Workshop!

WHEN: Feb. 20-22, Wednesday and Friday, 12pm and 1pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: In honor of Black History Month, celebrate America’s first racially integrated industry, and learn about what life was like on a whale ship for people of color.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids can carve a scrimshaw box as a special keepsake.

WANT TO GO? $12 per participant; $6 members. 631-387-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

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‘Jack and the Beanstalk’

WHEN: Through Feb. 23: see website for schedule WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: All WHAT: Explore the castle in the sky with Jack and his many friends as he learns the importance of telling the truth in a hilarious, original musical for the entire family.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The performance times leave plenty of space for afternoon naps!

WANT TO GO? $10. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

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WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

Free Child Safety Seat Check FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 1, 4-8pm WHERE: Blue Point Fire Department, 205 Blue Point Ave., Blue Point AGES: 3-8, adult WHAT: Brookhaven Highway Department and the Suffolk County Sheriff ’s Office will inspect car seats and provide essential information about child passenger safety.

WANT TO GO? 631-363-3770. brookhavenny.gov.

Long Island High School for the Arts Open House FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 11am-2pm WHERE: Long Island High School for the Arts, 239 Cold Spring Road, Syosset AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Visit Long Island’s only public high school for the arts and see what supplementing half of the school day with intense training in dance, music, art, filmmaking, and theater is all about.

WANT TO GO? 516-622-5678. longislandhighschoolforthearts.org.

Friday Night In FREE

WHEN: Through Feb. 8: Fridays, 5-9pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Tweens and teens can enjoy a variety of activities, including video games, board games, and movies.

WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Open House FREE

WHEN: Feb. 12-28, Tuesdays and Thursdays, 9:15am WHERE: Winston Preparatory School, 30 Deforest Road, Dix Hills AGES: Adult WHAT: Learn about Winston Preparatory School’s unique model of education, which provides skill remediation while encouraging students to build independence, responsibility, and self-awareness.

WANT TO GO? 212-719-5598. winstonprep.edu.

Reframing Parenting; Suffolk Winter Series FREE

WHEN: Through March 9: Sundays, 10am-1pm WHERE: Suffolk Independent Living Organization, 755 Waverly Ave., Holtsville AGES: Adult WHAT: A workshop series for adoptive and guardianship parents raising children with adverse childhood experiences.

WANT TO GO? 6466884321. affcny.org. ›› LongIslandParent 23

SHOW TIME! Cirque Eloize ‘Saloon’

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 7pm WHERE: Staller Center, Stony Brook University, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: The wild, wild west comes alive with the multi-talented, FrenchCanadian cirque company.

WANT TO GO? $44. 631-632-6000. stallercenter.com.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Family Super Bowl Party FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 3, 1-2:05pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Head to the library for great snacks, games, and the Super Bowl!

WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Under The Big Top Extravaganza

WHEN: Through Feb. 2: Saturdays, 11am WHERE: The Noel S. Ruiz Theatre at CM Performing Arts Center, 931 Montauk Highway, Oakdale AGES: All WHAT: Create new circus memories and enjoy face painting, popcorn, games, and a water bottle.

WANT TO GO? $15. 631-218-2810. cmpac.com.

‘Running Scared Running Free’

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 10, 9:30-11am WHERE: Kehillath Shalom Synagogue, 58 Goose Hill Road, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: Adult WHAT: Rabbi Lina Zerbarini will add a new perspective and ideas to your parenting. There will be coffee and light refreshments.

WANT TO GO? 631-367-4589. kehillathshalomsynagogue.org.

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 7, 7pm WHERE: Stony Brook Village Educational & Cultural Center, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Experience this on-stage drama about the links between the Underground Railroad, secret codes hidden in quilts, and the strength of the human spirit.

WANT TO GO? $20. 631-689-5888. stonybrookvillage.com.

Pony Party

The MickMags- Comedy Rock For Kids

Pokémon Day Celebration FREE

Disney’s ‘The Lion King Jr.’

Jewish Spiritual Parenting FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 10, 4:15-6:15pm WHERE: Tumbling Tunes, 212 Laurel Road, East Northport AGES: 3-12 WHAT: The party will feature Rainbow Dash’s nail salon, pony charm bracelets, and a pizza dinner.

WANT TO GO? $25 for one child; $40 for two siblings; $55 for three siblings. 631-697-1040. tumblingtunes.com.

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 26, 7-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Celebrate Pokémon Day with fun games, activities, and crafts.

WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Mommy and Me Active Fun Time FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 28, 10-11am WHERE: Bay Shore-Brightwaters Public Library, 1 S. Country Road, Brightwaters AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Learn how to be active with your little one and how to make a healthy plate for your child.

WANT TO GO? 631-665-4350. bsbwlibrary.org.

Tot Spot

WHEN: Feb. 6-April 17, select Wednesdays, 10:45-11:45am WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: This program provides toddlers with opportunities to explore, observe, and get moving in a way that helps social emotional skills, fine motor skills, and emerging language.

WANT TO GO? $24; free for members. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.

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WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 11am WHERE: The Vail-Leavitt Music Hall, 18 Peconic Ave., Riverhead AGES: 3-8 WHAT: The MickMags is an original children’s comedy rock group that strives to entertain everyone through strong vocals, musicality, and hilarious lyrics.

WANT TO GO? $10. 631-727-5782. themickmags.com.

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 11am and 3pm WHERE: Patchogue Theatre for the Performing Arts, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: All

WHAT: The African savannah comes to life with Simba, Rafiki, and an unforgettable cast as they journey from Pride Rock to the jungle and back.

WANT TO GO? $15. 631-207-1313. patchoguetheatre.com.

FROGZ!

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 10, 3pm WHERE: Patchogue Theatre, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: All WHAT: FROGZ! combines mime, dance, original music, and special effects to create a menagerie like no other!

WANT TO GO? $20-$30. 631-207-1313. patchoguetheatre.org.

Play in a Day: Winter Break Mini Camp

ANIMAL LOVERS

Wintering Birds & How They Survive FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 19, 9am-12pm WHERE: ThinkBIG! Theater Arts, 42 S. Ocean Ave., Patchogue AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Bring to life a beloved story from page to stage complete with costumes, props, and a musical number or two.

WANT TO GO? $30. 631-307-4042. thinkbigtheaterarts.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 6, 12pm WHERE: Rogers Memorial Library, 91 Coopers Farm Road, Southampton AGES: All WHAT: Hear a talk on winter birds, followed by a bird walk at Agawam Park.

WANT TO GO? 631-283-0774 x523. myrml.org.

‘Charlotte’s Web’

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 19, 11am WHERE: YMCA Boulton Center, 37 W. Main St., Bay Shore AGES: 5 and older WHAT: See one of the most memorable children’s books on stage with live actors, puppets, and multimedia.

WANT TO GO? $12 reserved; $7 reserved VIP club member. 631-969-1101. boultoncenter.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 2pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: In honor of Boy Scout Day, all Cub and Boy Scouts in uniform will get a free tour with paid admission.

WANT TO GO? $6; $4 kids ages 3-12 and seniors 65 and older; free for members. 516-692-6768. cshfishhatchery.org.

‘Sleeping Beauty’

Eastern Tiger Salamander Search with Andy

WHEN: Saturdays, Feb. 2 and 23, 11am; Feb. 16, 2pm; Feb. 10, 11:30am WHERE: BroadHollow at East Islip, 265 E. Main St., Suite 160, East Islip AGES: All WHAT: See the classic Sleeping Beauty live!

WANT TO GO? $11 in advance; $13 after advance closes. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 7:30pm WHERE: South Fork Natural History Museum, 377 Bridgehampton Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Don’t miss a rare opportunity to see this salamander as it makes its way to the pond.

WANT TO GO? $15; $10 children ages 3-12; free for children ages 2 and younger and for members. 631-537-9735. sofo.org.

Disney’s ‘Aladdin Jr.’

Snowbirds Painting

Boy Scout Day

WHEN: Through Feb. 24: see website for schedule WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Based on the 1992 film and the 2014 Broadway show!

WANT TO GO? $18. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 20, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Picasso Kidz, 72 Broadway, Greenlawn AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Children are guided, step by step, to create an acrylic painting on canvas.

WANT TO GO? $35. 631-261-5500. picassokidz.com.

American Girl LIVE!

WHEN: Feb. 28-March 1, Thursday, 7pm; Friday, 5pm WHERE: The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Join your favorite American Girl characters as they follow their hearts, share their dreams, and learn the power of friendship.

WANT TO GO? $27.50-$42.50. 631-673-7300. paramountny.com.

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 21, 10am-12pm WHERE: Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Explore the wildlife dioramas, touch teeth and claws, and make a mask of your favorite big cat in the collection.

WANT TO GO? $20; $18 members. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Seussical the Musical

Things That Sting (and Things That Don’t!)

WHEN: Through March 3: Saturday, 11am and Sunday, 10:30am WHERE: John W. Engeman Theater at Northport, 250 Main Street, Northport AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Narrated by the Cat in the Hat, SEUSSICAL takes some beloved Dr. Seuss characters on a musical adventure.

WANT TO GO? $15. 631-261-2900. engemantheater.com.

Creative Children’s Workshops: Big Cats and Mask

WHEN: Feb. 20-21, Wednesday-Thursday, 9:30am-12pm and 1-3:30pm WHERE: Cornell University Sport Fishing Education Center and Aquaculture Facility, Ocean Parkway, Babylon AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Discover sea creatures that are known to sting, bite, or slime!

Then look at some that don’t sting and dispel myths. Make a nonstinging creature to take home.

WANT TO GO? $32. 631-587-2873. ccesuffolk.org. ›› LongIslandParent 25

Farmer’s Helper

WHEN: Feb. 3-17, Sundays, 10am-12pm WHERE: The Green School, 287 Merchants Path, Sagaponack AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Explore the farm and learn how to care for the animals.

WANT TO GO? $50. 631-237-1148. the-green-school.org.

Full Snow Moon Hike with Friends of the Long Pond Greenbelt FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 19, 6:30pm WHERE: South Fork Natural History Museum, 377 Bridgehampton Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: All WHAT: Join this leisurely paced, 1-hour hike through open-field trails and stay for light refreshments and conversation.

WANT TO GO? 631-537-9735. sofo.org.

Seatuck’s Saturday Nature Explorers

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Play on the Farm

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 3-4:30pm WHERE: The Green School, 287 Merchants Path, Sagaponack AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Children can enjoy free play on the farm, visiting the animals, and occasionally groom a horse or snuggle the bunnies.

WANT TO GO? $30. 631-237-1148. the-green-school.org.

Searching for Seals & Winter Walk

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 3pm WHERE: South Fork Natural History Museum, 377 Bridgehampton Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Join us on a walk toward the ocean where, at low tide, you can expect to see seals sunning themselves.

WANT TO GO? $15; $10 children ages 3-12; free for members. 631537-9735. sofo.org.

Winter Hike FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 10am-12pm WHERE: Arthur Kunz County Park, Landing Road and Landing Avenue, Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy magnificent views of the Nissequogue River as you hike.

WANT TO GO? 631-581-6908. seatuck.org.

SOFO Young Birders Club with Miles Todaro FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 10am WHERE: South Fork Natural History Museum, 377 Bridgehampton Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The Young Birders Club will focus on birding in local areas.

WANT TO GO? 631-537-9735. sofo.org.

Seatucks Family Nature Club

WHEN: Feb. 3-17, Sundays, 1-2pm WHERE: Suffolk County Environmental Center, 550 S. Bay Ave., Islip AGES: All WHAT: Here’s your family’s chance to get outside together and enjoy nature.

WANT TO GO? $4; free for members. 631-581-6908. seatuck.org.

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WHEN: Feb. 2-23, Saturday 1-2pm WHERE: Seatuck Environmental Center, 550 S. Bay Ave., Islip AGES: All WHAT: Topics include winter birds, tremendous trees, and Winter Wonders.

WANT TO GO? $4; free for members. 631-581-6908. seatuck.org.

Saturday Nature Explorers at the South Shore Nature Center

WHEN: Feb. 9-23, Saturdays, 3-4pm WHERE: South Shore Nature Center, 130 Bayview Ave., East Islip AGES: All WHAT: Informative programs about what’s happening in nature that week.

WANT TO GO? $4; free for members. 631-581-6908. seatuck.org.

Public Skating

WHEN: Through March 3: Monday-Friday, 4-8pm; Saturday, 12-8pm; Sunday, 12-6pm WHERE: The Rinx at Wyandanch Village, 40 Station Drive, Wyandanch AGES: All WHAT: Take a skate around the ice rink in the Wyandanch Village.

WANT TO GO? $8; $4 seniors; $5 children 17 and younger. 631-643-2050. therinx.com.

Public Skating Sessions

WHEN: Through March 10: Monday-Thursday, 12-8pm; Friday, 1210pm; Saturday, 10am-10pm; Sunday, 10am-7:30pm WHERE: The Rinx at Harborfront Park, 101-A E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: All WHAT: Head to the Village of Port Jefferson for ice-skating on the Harbor.

WANT TO GO? See website for rates. 631-473-1414. therinx.com.

Seal Walks

WHEN: Feb. 2-March 31, see website for schedule WHERE: Montauk Point State Park, 2000 Montauk Highway, Montauk AGES: All WHAT: A State Park naturalist will lead visitors on a leisurely beach walk to an area where up to four species of seals can be observed. See many winter birds and explore marine geology as well.

WANT TO GO? $4. 631-668-5000 x200. parks.ny.gov.

Ice Skating at Tanger Outlets Deer Park

WHEN: Through March 31: Monday-Thursday, 3-9pm; Friday, 3-10pm; Saturday, 11am-10pm; Sunday, 11am-9pm WHERE: Tanger Outlets Deer Park, 152 The Arches Circle, Deer Park AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy ice-skating for the entire family or your special group.

WANT TO GO? $10; $4 skate rentals; free for children younger than 5.

631-667-0600. tangeroutlet.com/deerpark.

Children’s Etiquette Workshop

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 20, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Carl’s Candies, 50 Main St., Northport AGES: All WHAT: Kids will learn the social skills necessary to face everyday situations with grace, integrity, and confidence.

WANT TO GO? $35. 800-827-4564. actasifetiquette.com.

Vacation Ventures

SMARTY PANTS Snow Science with Melanie

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 3, 10:30am WHERE: South Fork Natural History Museum, 377 Bridgehampton Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Learn about the science of snow at this STEAM-based program.

WANT TO GO? $15; $10 children; free for members; $3 material fee.

631-537-9735. sofo.org.

Ocean Science Sunday

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 10, 12-1pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Try experiments to explore how scientists study the Long Island Sound.

WANT TO GO? $6; $12 children; members half price. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Children’s Workshops: Portraits

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 18, 10am-12pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Learn about the Vanderbilt family, make interesting observations about the collections, and create a self-portrait.

WANT TO GO? $20; $18 members. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Children’s Workshops: Ancient Egypt and Rattle Instrument

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 19, 10am-12pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Travel back to ancient Egypt and make an instrument.

WANT TO GO? $20; $18 members. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Family Drop-In Day FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 20, 11am-1pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy activities in the Carriage Museum and outside on the grounds.

WANT TO GO? 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.

Children’s Workshops: Deep Blue Sea and Mixed Media Collage

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 20, 10am-12pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Compare fish and mammals, examine teeth and baleen, and create art using a variety of materials and techniques.

WANT TO GO? $20; $18 members. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 21, 10am-12pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Discuss author and illustrator Leo Lionni and create beautiful projects inspired by his stories and illustrations.

WANT TO GO? $25. 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.

Polar Animals and Repurposed Water Bottle Art

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 22, 10am-12pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Explore the wildlife dioramas, learn how animals adapt to less light, and make a snow globe.

WANT TO GO? $20; $18 members. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Rotting Log Wildlife

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 23, 10:30am WHERE: South Fork Natural History Museum, 377 Bridgehampton Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Learn more about a hibernation hideaway of countless creatures.

WANT TO GO? $15; $10 children ages 3-12; free for members. 631-537-9735. sofo.org.

Winter Engineer Club

WHEN: Feb. 2-March 9, Saturdays, 11am-12pm WHERE: Suffolk County Farm, 350 Yaphank Ave., Yaphank AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids will learn new and exciting skills while completing different engineering challenges each week.

WANT TO GO? $5 per class. 631-852-4610. ccesuffolk.org.

Afterschool Lego League

WHEN: Feb. 7-March 21, select Thursdays, 3:45-4:45pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids will test their Lego skills with a new challenge every week.

WANT TO GO? $5; $36 eight-week series; members: $3; $20 8-week series for members. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.

New Traveling Exhibit- Sonic Sensation

WHEN: Through May 5: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Visitors will experience the sonic world through 14 interactive learning stations to discover key listening skills.

WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-2245800. licm.org.

SAT & ACT Practice Exams

WHEN: Through May 25: Saturdays, 9:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Sylvan of Huntington, 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Bring your teen to take a practice SAT or ACT exam.

WANT TO GO? $50. 631-424-5600. sylvanlearning.com/huntingtonny. ›› LongIslandParent 27

ONCE UPON A TIME FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS Black History Experience FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 7, 7-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Learn about African-American poetry during this author-led workshop.

WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Kids’ Book Hangout FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 2pm WHERE: Barnes and Noble, East Northport, 4000 E. Jericho Turnpike, East Northport AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Enjoy activities, get free book swag, and save on featured books!

WANT TO GO? 631-462-0208. barnesandnoble.com.

Storytime and Activities: ‘All You Need Is Love’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 11am WHERE: Barnes and Noble, 600 Smith Haven Mall, Lake Grove AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Listen to the story, then enjoy a cookie coloring activity.

WANT TO GO? 631-724-0341. barnesandnoble.com.

Children: Pajama Storytime FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 13, 6:30-7:15pm WHERE: Deer Park Public Library, 44 Lake Ave., Deer Park AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Wear your pajamas and join sleepy-time stories, songs, and rhymes.

WANT TO GO? deerparklibrary.org.

Valentine’s Story Time FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 15, 10:30-11am WHERE: John Jermain Memorial Library, 201 Main St., Sag Harbor AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Listen to Valentine’s Day stories and do a festive craft afterward.

WANT TO GO? 631-725-0049. johnjermain.org.

Storytime and Activities: ‘The Good Egg and The Bad Seed’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 11am WHERE: Barnes and Noble, 600 Smith Haven Mall, Lake Grove AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Learn how to keep yourself happy when everyone else is rotten.

WANT TO GO? 631-724-0341. Barnesandnoble.com.

Little Bookworms Storytime FREE

WHEN: Feb. 1-22, Fridays, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: East Hampton Library, 159 Main St., East Hampton AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: A themed story time with songs, flannel board activities, and movement.

WANT TO GO? 631-324-0222. easthamptonlibrary.org.

Storytime and Activities: ‘I Am Martin Luther King, Jr.’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 23, 11am WHERE: Barnes and Noble, 4000 E. Jericho Turnpike, East Northport AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Read about the inspiring leader, who had a dream of peace.

WANT TO GO? 631-462-0208. barnesandnoble.com.

Bookhampton Story Time! FREE

WHEN: Feb. 3-24, Sundays, 10:30am WHERE: Bookhampton, 41 Main St., East Hampton AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Lauren will read from the latest and greatest picture books.

WANT TO GO? 631-324-4939. bookhampton.com.

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Super Bowl ‘Saturday’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 2-4pm WHERE: Emma Clark Library, 120 Main St., Setauket AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Kick off Super Bowl weekend with football-themed festivities!

WANT TO GO? 631-941-4080. emmaclark.org.

SCS Priority Preview Re-Enrollment Open House Night FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 7, 7pm WHERE: Smithtown Christian School, 1 Higbie Drive, Smithtown AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Meet administrators and teachers, plus see a concert. There will be crafts and games for children.

WANT TO GO? 631-265-3334. learnwithscs.org.

Camp W Open House FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 12-2pm WHERE: Birchwood Intermediate School, 121 Wolf Hill Road, Melville AGES: All WHAT: Play soccer and basketball, get your face painted, make slime, visit a caricaturist, see a magician, and do some karate while checking out this camp program.

WANT TO GO? 631-692-6222. campwdaycamp.com.

Take Your Child to the Library Day FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 20, 2-4pm WHERE: Emma Clark Library, 120 Main St., Setauket AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Join for carnival games, face painting, temporary tattoos, balloon sculpting, and crafts.

WANT TO GO? 631-941-4080. emmaclark.org.

Toothpalooza!

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 24, 11am-2pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Visit the Tooth Fairy and see large and small teeth, including a whale tooth cavity. Make a scrimshaw tooth-fairy box, see a puppet show, and make crafts.

WANT TO GO? $6; $12 children; members half-price. 631-387-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Jackson Pollock With Joyce Raimondo

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 21, 10-11am WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Drip, drop, and splatter in the style of Jackson Pollock.

WANT TO GO? $1 for members; $3 for non-members; plus admission: $12. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.

Snowman Rock Painting

CRAFTY KIDS

WHEN: Feb. 19-21, Tuesday, 11am-2:30pm; Thursday, 2:30-4pm WHERE: Picasso Kidz, 72 Broadway, Greenlawn AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Celebrate the joy of winter by creating a snowman made of rocks.

WANT TO GO? $35. 631-261-5500. picassokidz.com.

2019 Student Exhibition

LOL Glitter Doll Paint Week

Open Studio for Families

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: All WHAT: Tour the galleries and create art through hands-on activities.

WANT TO GO? $12; $9 seniors; $6 guests of members; free for students with ID, children younger than 18, and museum members.

631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 10am-5pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: 3 and older WHAT: The exhibit showcases the work pre-K through high-school students.

WANT TO GO? $12; $9 seniors; $6 guests of members; free for students, children younger than 18, and members. 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

Valentine’s Family Paint Event

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 10, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Drop off the kids or stay and paint!

WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

Small Objects with Sculpey Workshop for All Ages with Ruby Jackson WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 16, 1-4pm WHERE: Southampton Arts Center, 25 Jobs Lane, Southampton AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Ruby will teach you how to make miniatures out of Sculpey clay.

WANT TO GO? $20; $15 for Friends of SAC. 631-283-0967. southamptonartscenter.org.

Crayon Workshop

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 21, 10-11:30am WHERE: Picasso Kidz, 72 Broadway, Greenlawn AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children will learn how to melt crayons to create sculptures.

WANT TO GO? $35. 631-261-5500. picassokidz.com.

Pop-Up Puppet Workshop: Mini Camp Day

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 21, 9am-12pm WHERE: ThinkBIG! Theater Arts, 42 S. Ocean Ave., Patchogue AGES: 5-12 WHAT: A hands-on puppet making and performing workshop.

WANT TO GO? $35. 631-307-4042. thinkbigtheaterarts.org.

WHEN: Feb. 18-21, Monday-Thursday, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Every day features a new LOL Glitter Doll character to paint.

WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

Pokémon Paint Week

WHEN: Feb. 18-21, Monday-Thursday, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Paint a new Pokémon character each day!

WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. Keytomyart.com.

African Masks FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 21, 2-3pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about symbolism behind African masks and create your own.

WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

February Break

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 19, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Picasso Kidz, 72 Broadway, Greenlawn AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Learn how to paint a fun snowman on canvas.

WANT TO GO? $35. 631-261-5500. picassokidz.com.

WHEN: Feb. 18-22, Monday-Friday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Make snow that won’t melt, ice cream, and gooey slime.

WANT TO GO? $6; $4 kids ages 3-12 and seniors ages 65 and older; free for members. 516-692-6768. cshfishhatchery.org.

Wood Creature Sculpture

Calligrafitti for Kids!

Snowman Portrait

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 20, 10-11:30am WHERE: Picasso Kidz, 72 Broadway, Greenlawn AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Build a creature out of wood pieces, and then add embellishments.

WANT TO GO? $35. 631-261-5500. picassokidz.com.

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 24, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: Art League of Long Island, 107 E. Deer Park Road, Dix Hills AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Students will learn to produce letterforms in the “Calligraffiti” style.

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LITTLE FOODIES Chef Rob Hugs & Kisses Cupcakes FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 12, 4:30pm WHERE: Babylon Public Library, 24 S. Carll Ave., Babylon AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Try your hand at icing and decorating two cupcakes.

WANT TO GO? 631-669-1624. babylonlibrary.org.

President’s Week Workshop: Focaccia Bread and Brownies

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 18, 3:30-5:30pm WHERE: The Baking Coach Inc., 320 Broadway-Greenlawn Road, Huntington AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Learn how to make delicious focaccia bread and brownies.

WANT TO GO? $45. 631-543-8608. bakingcoach.com.

President’s Week Workshops: Crescent Rolls and Cookies and Cream Truffles

DANCE PARTY Dance Program with South Bay Dance LLC FREE

WHEN: Friday, Feb. 1, 9:30-10:30am WHERE: Amityville Public Library, 19 John St., Amityville AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Children will be introduced to the world of dance.

WANT TO GO? 631-264-0567. amityvillepubliclibrary.org.

Zumbini FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 7, 10:30am WHERE: Babylon Public Library, 24 S. Carll Ave., Babylon AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: The program is designed to let your little one wiggle and sing.

WANT TO GO? 631-669-1624. babylonlibrary.org.

Savion Glover In All Funkd’ Up

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 8pm WHERE: Staller Center, Stony Brook University, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Glover will tap dance to an eclectic soundtrack.

WANT TO GO? $52. 631-632-6000. stallercenter.com.

I Got the Rhythm: African Dance FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 2-2:45pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Have fun learning the basic steps of West African dance.

WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Houston City Dance Company

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 23, 7pm WHERE: Suffolk County Community College, 1001 Crooked Hill Road, Brentwood AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This touring company performs its vibrant mix styles.

WANT TO GO? $19.75; $9.75 students ages 16 and younger; 1 free ticket for veterans and SCCC students. 631-851-6589. sunysuffolk.edu.

Children: Holiday Stomp It Up FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 28, 10-10:45am WHERE: Deer Park Public Library, 44 Lake Ave., Deer Park AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Sing and move with Darlene Graham.

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WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 19, 3:30-5:30pm WHERE: The Baking Coach Inc., 320 Broadway-Greenlawn Road, Huntington AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Learn how to bake crescent rolls, cookies, and cream truffles.

WANT TO GO? $45. 631-543-8608. bakingcoach.com.

President’s Week Workshops: Pretzel Dogs and Cake Pops

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 20, 1-3pm WHERE: The Baking Coach Inc., 320 Broadway-Greenlawn Road, Huntington AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Bake something salty and something sweet at this workshop.

WANT TO GO? $45. 631-543-8608. bakingcoach.com.

President’s Week Workshops: Crazy Milk Shakes and Cupcake Decorating

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 20, 3:30-5:30pm WHERE: The Baking Coach Inc., 320 Broadway-Greenlawn Road, Huntington AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Crazy for sweets? Check out this milkshakes and cupcake decorating class.

WANT TO GO? $45. 631-543-8608. bakingcoach.com.

President’s Week Workshops: Fondant Cake Decorating

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 21, 3:30-5:30pm WHERE: The Baking Coach Inc., 320 Broadway-Greenlawn Road, Huntington AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Kids can give fondant cake decorating a try!

WANT TO GO? $45. 631-543-8608. bakingcoach.com.

In the Kitchen: Sweet Potato Pie

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 23, 10-11am WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Kids will learn how to take just a few simple ingredients—eggs, vanilla, cinnamon, sweet potatoes—and turn them into a delicious pie.

WANT TO GO? $18; $5 for member children. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.

Princess Tea Party

WHEN: Sunday, Feb. 24, 10am, 12:30pm, 3pm WHERE: Long Island Aquarium, 431 E. Main St., Riverhead AGES: 3-8, adult WHAT: Formal white glove tea service will be served with finger sandwiches and sweets at this Princess Tea Party!

WANT TO GO? $35.95 ages 13 and older; $31.95 kids 3-12; $5 kids 2 and younger. 631-208-9200 x426. longislandaquarium.com.

Chinese New Year Drums FREE

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 11, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Celebrate Chinese New Year with this musical activity.

WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Valentine’s Day Special FREE

HOLIDAY FUN Groundhog Day Event

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 2, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Sherwood-Jayne Farm, 55 Old Post Road, East Setauket AGES: All WHAT: Have a little shadow fun and take a walk to see what the animals are doing.

WANT TO GO? $8; $4 members. 631-692-4664. seatuck.org.

Chinese New Year Art FREE

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 4, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Ring in the Year of the Pig with fun crafts.

WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Chinese New Year Candle Holder FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 6, 4-5pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Learn about and celebrate Chinese New Year with this colorful craft.

WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Chinese New Year Sensory Painting FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Feb. 7, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children celebrate and learn about Chinese New Year with a colorful, sensory activity. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Paint By Number: Valentine’s Day Edition

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 10am-12pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Families will have an opportunity to “fill in the blanks” to create a Valentine’s Day-themed mural.

WANT TO GO? $12; free for members and children younger than 1.

631-537-8250. cmee.org.

Pet Photos With Your True Love FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Feb. 9, 9:30am and 3:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: A photographer will help you choose a background to take a photo of you and your pet or just your pet.

WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 11, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: This preschool readiness program will have children learning, playing, and sharing. Kids will make a Valentine’s Day craft.

WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Valentine Factory FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Feb. 12, 7-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Have fun together creating special valentine cards to give to your loved ones.

WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Crystal Hearts FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Feb. 13, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Make a lovely Valentine’s Day gift.

WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Kissing Booth Photos 2019 FREE

WHEN: Feb. 10-14, Sunday, 4-6pm; Monday-Thursday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Einstein’s Attic, 79 Main St., Northport AGES: All WHAT: Snap a pic or two in the new and improved kissing booth and in front of the backdrop.

WANT TO GO? 631-261-7564. einsteinsatticnorthport.com.

Presidents Day: Colonial Crafts

WHEN: Monday, Feb. 18, 12pm and 1pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the George Washington’s birthday and explore life in Colonial America. Get a glimpse of what children played with in the past!

WANT TO GO? $6; $12 children; members half-price. 631-387-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Presidents Week: Build-a-Boat Workshop

WHEN: Feb. 19-21, Tuesday and Thursday 1pm-3pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Drop in to create a wooden vessel of your design with a variety of materials.

WANT TO GO? $12 per participant; $6 members. 631-387-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Celebrate Presidents Week at the Fire Island Lighthouse

WHEN: Feb. 18-22, Monday-Friday, 10am-3pm WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park parking field 5, Fire Island AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Take advantage of reduced tower tour fees and a special activity.

WANT TO GO? $8; $4 seniors 65 and older, children 12 and younger, and veterans; $2 members; free for active military personnel. 631-6614876. fireislandlighthouse.com.

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Orthodontia Explained

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What you need to know about the various orthodontic treatments available

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hen it comes to oral health, we know to take our kids to the dentist for regular teeth cleanings and check-ups, but there’s another aspect of dental health you might be overlooking: orthodontics. In honor of February as National Children’s Dental Health Month, local orthodontists weigh in on important topics such as when to see an orthodontist, which apparatuses are used for treatment, and why orthodontia is an important aspect of kids’ oral health.

What is Orthodontics?

Though it may seem like orthodontics is solely about the cosmetic appeal of a smile, the practice has greater benefits than just aesthetics. “Orthodontics is a specialty that involves aligning the teeth and improving the bite,” says Alexis Fermanis, D.D.S., of Brooklyn Family Orthodontist. In short, orthodontia corrects a number of issues, from under bites, overbites, and cross bites, to misaligned jaws, teeth that grew in improperly, and overcrowded teeth.

However, that doesn’t mean orthodontic work will cramp your child’s style. “What orthodontics basically does is not just aligns the teeth within the jaws, but also aligns them such that it maintains the balance with the soft tissue of the face,” says Ameeta Sachdev, D.M.D., of Sachdev Family Orthodontics in Garnerville. In other words, treatment can be customized for your child’s looks.

When to See an Orthodontist

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a bit off about her smile or your dentist made a referral. Regardless, at a certain age, it’s a good idea to bring kids in for a quick check-up.

“Every seven-year-old should be brought to see an orthodontist,” says Chaninah Zweihorn, D.D.S., owner of Zweihorn Orthodontics in Brooklyn and Queens. “It’s very rare for the orthodontist to have to do any treatment or intervention at that point. It’s just a check in to see that everything is proceeding as expected.”

There are a few things you can check for at home that would indicate a visit is necessary. “The one that most people notice is crooked teeth or spaced teeth,” Dr. Zweihorn says. “In terms of bite and health of the jaws, [check] if a tooth is biting in the wrong place. If a bottom tooth is in front of a top tooth [under bite], that is a very significant issue.” Besides an under bite, Dr. Fermanis recommends checking for asymmetry in your child’s jaw or bite, having to shift the jaw in order to close his mouth, or severely crowded teeth.

If your child has an overbite (her front teeth stick out significantly), the severity of it and her age are factors to consider before seeing the orthodontist. For a young child, a large overbite that he gets teased about is worth treating to avoid bullying. If there aren’t any emotional downsides, it might be best to wait until he’s older because it can be difficult to entirely fix an overbite at a young age, according to Dr. Fermanis. For an older child, consider the severity of the condition. A significant overbite can lead to “increased risk of trauma to the teeth during a fall,” Dr. Zweihorn says. As a general rule, if your child can fit her lower lip between her top and bottom teeth, she should see an orthodontist.

Methods of Treatment

Orthodontia relies on using various appliances to correct issues, and as technology advances, so do the materials used in treatment. The braces available today have made advances since the braces of your childhood, but braces aren’t the only option.

Palate Expanders. Braces are not recommended for children younger than 7, but there are pre-braces appliances that can be used to help set your child up for a lifetime of good oral health.

“One of the more famous ones is an expander,” Dr. Zweihorn says, “which helps the upper jaw to grow properly, helps to have enough room for teeth to grow in if that’s needed, and helps the jaws to relate to each other with a proper bite if necessary.”

Traditional Braces. This is the most common and well-known method of correcting orthodontic issues. Braces involve gluing brackets to the teeth and using connecting wires to reposition the teeth and/or jaws. One of the biggest benefits of braces is the orthodontist has more control of your child’s treatment, according to Dr. Fermanis. Additionally, the impact braces will have on his teeth is very predictable, and they are easy to adjust in office.

Unfortunately, braces have some downsides worth thinking about.

“The disadvantage is you have to watch what you eat,” Dr. Sachdev says. “You have to take care of your braces because if you keep breaking them, your treatment can be prolonged.”

Lingual Braces. For the cosmetically conscious patient, there are lingual braces, which attach to the back of the teeth instead of the front. Lingual braces “are the most aesthetic option because they’re the least noticeable,” Dr. Fermanis says. “You’re not taking something in and out of your mouth all the time, but those are the most difficult to get used to because they’re next to your tongue.”

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Head Gear. Though less popular in recent times, another means of orthodontic treatment is headgear, or night braces, which attaches via straps around the head and/or neck. “Headgear is typically used to correct a skeletal problem in younger children such as a severe overbite or an underbite,” Dr. Fermanis says. Though it may seem like an appliance doomed to cramp your kid’s style, headgear is “prescribed for home-only wear to address growth problems in the upper jaw,” Dr. Zweihorn says.

Retainers. After orthodontic treatment is completed, it’s common to have a retainerhas prescribed.

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“Believe it or not there are a lot of people don’t like to smile… because they’re very conscious about their teeth,” Dr. Sachdev says.

Maintaining a good bite and healthy teeth are valuable, but orthodontic care can do more than that; it can boost your child’s confidence.

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Baby Cry Decoder

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With a little practice, it is possible to distinguish between your infant’s different cries— and respond to her more effectively. By Barbara Russo

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t’s 2am, and you just woke up to your baby crying uncontrollably. Exhausted, you get up to tend to her. What could it be this time? Is she hungry? Does she need to be changed? At that hour, you’re hoping it’s an easy fix, so both of you can get back to bed.

Crying is a normal part of a baby’s development. It’s his way of communicating something is wrong. Hunger, tiredness, frustration, colic, and pain are among the reasons he brings on the tears. But wouldn’t it be nice to hear a particular cry and know immediately which of these causes is making your baby so upset?

Some parents and experts say it’s possible.

“I have a two-year-old and a six-month-old, and yes I can absolutely tell what is wrong when they cry,” says Brittany Bailey, of Atlanta. “The louder, more desperate cry is the hungry or discomfort cry such as gas or a full diaper, but usually it’s hunger.

The pitiful whimper that grows to a nagging, impatient, dosomething-right-now cry is when they are sleepy.”

Although the sounds of the cries were the same for both of Bailey’s children, the level of desperation she heard was different.

“My daughter is mellow, so her hunger cry was nowhere near as loud as my son’s,” she says. “And her tired cry was more desperate than his, but they had similar tones and sounds, just different passions.”

Of course, every baby is different. While Bailey’s children cried loudly when they wanted food, Melissa Petruzzi of Staten

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Island, has an infant son, Nick, who takes the quieter approach to getting fed.

“When we brought our son home, he was a quiet baby,” Petruzzi says. “He only fussed when he was hungry, and it was more like a whimper than a cry. Sometimes he’ll put his fist to his mouth, too, giving off another cue that he’s hungry.”

By the time her son turned 3 months, Petruzzi was able to start recognizing what his other cries meant. “The ‘pick me up’ cry would start as a normal cry, then go to full-on sob where his mouth was open, but no sound came out. His frustrated cry was a high-pitched scream,” she says.

Learning to Decipher the Cries

Some babies cry more than others, but research shows maximum crying occurs during the first three months of life. From birth to 6 weeks, babies cry approximately about 110-118 minutes total daily. And certain cries in that almost 2 hours of daily crying can be characteristic of a baby’s need, according to Terry Cralle, R.N., sleep educator, and author of Snoozby and the Great Big Bedtime Battle. And while your baby’s cries for exactly what’s going on will be unique to her, the following characteristics can help you learn those cries a little quicker: He’s hungry: This is the most common reason babies cry, and crying is said to be a late sign of hunger, according to Cralle. “A

hungry cry is described as usually short and low-pitched, and it rises and falls,” she says. “Hungry cries are sometimes described as repetitive and rhythmic.”

She’s tired: This cry is sometimes accompanied by physical signals, such as yawning, pulling on ears, restlessness, hand clenching, blinking, closed eyes, or eye rubbing, according to Cralle.

He’s in pain. Cries from babies with colic last longer. Colic usually resolves when a baby turns 3 or 4 months old. Cries of a baby in pain have been described as harsh, sudden, shrill, loud, and long, followed by a quiet pause when your baby catches his breath. A high-pitched or very low-pitched cry that persists can be indicative of illness.

Don’t Give Up

Determining the reasons for your child’s cries doesn’t come easily, especially if you’re a first-time parent. It takes time to get to know the different sounds and signals that go along with each crying episode, so don’t be hard on yourself if you haven’t been able to quickly dry your baby’s tears yet.

“We learn in residency the different cries. Hunger, pain, obstinance, fear. Baby cries can be weak or strong and can have different pitches,” says Amy Luedemann-Lazar, D.D.S., a pediatric Waterlase dentist. “It would be hard for a first-time parent to understand or recognize the difference, but a well-seasoned provider and someone like myself who treats dozens of babies a day recognizes the cries right away.”

For many parents, deciphering their child’s cries is a learning curve. And sometimes, a baby will cry for reasons that remain a mystery to mom and dad.

“Each cry has a different nuance to it that you learn as you go,” says Ann-louise Brennan, a mother of two who lives in Bedford, U.K. “Sometimes it’s a cry you have never heard before, so you stand there begging this child to tell you what the problem is.

Typically, it’s an ‘I have no idea why I am crying I just am’ type of cry. You change them, they still cry. You feed them, they still cry.

You rock them, they still cry.”

Can You Spoil a Crying Child?

It’s a fact that babies will always cry. And not every parent will become a pro at recognizing the reason for each and every cry.

Many experienced parents and medical experts disagree with the popular notion that constantly running to a crying baby spoils them.

Parents should always respond to a crying baby, even if they aren’t sure why she’s crying, according to Cralle. “It’s a myth that promptly picking up a baby every time he or she cries will spoil a child,” she says.

“Toddlers can be spoiled and are smart and know how to manipulate to get their way,” Bailey says. “Babies aren’t being manipulative when they cry. It is their sole means of communication. They’re trying to tell us something is wrong.”

Bottom line? Don’t worry if you can’t immediately pinpoint the reason for your baby’s tears. Crying bouts are inevitable when you have an infant. But if you have any questions, doubts, or concerns, especially if the crying is sudden or lasts a long time or is accompanied with physical symptoms such as fever or diarrhea, contact your pediatrician.

Barbara Russo is a freelance writer who holds a bachelor’s degree in communications from the City University of New York. She enjoys playing guitar, following current events, and hanging out with her pet rabbits.

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Ways to Get (and Stay) Closer to Your Teen ›› The relationship with your child will inevitably change during her adolescence but drifting apart isn’t the only option. By Christina Vercelletto

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ere’s what it felt like to me: There was a time when I couldn’t do a thing wrong in my child’s eyes, and I often found myself thinking, “I don’t deserve this sweet, forgiving kid.”

Then, in a twinkling, I couldn’t do a thing right in my child’s eyes, and I often found myself thinking, “I don’t deserve this...kid.”

And I’m far from alone. As Nanci Kenny, a mom of three in Suffolk County, puts it about her 15-year-old, “the teen years are truly a tough time for both of us. I feel so distant from my daughter, even though I know she needs me.”

There is a reason the teen years are notorious for being tricky for parents to navigate, and you’ll be happy to hear it’s got nothing to do with terrible parenting. “The task of adolescence is to be more independent, to develop satisfying relationships outside of your family unit, and to develop one’s identity and personal moral code,” says Kashmira Rustomji, M.D., M.P.H., a psychiatrist at the Mount Sinai Adolescent Health Center in Manhattan.

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and their wish to be taken care of,” Dr. Rustomji explains. So, the way most teens act defiant, or indifferent, is them trying to fight the feeling of being dependent on you, which they, on some level, know will keep them from having a successful life.

While it can be all too easy for teens and parents to drift apart, the good news is it doesn’t have to be that way. Here’s what to do to stay close to your aspiring adult.

Pick your battles. Decide what is and isn’t worth fighting over and stick to those lines in the sand. You might start by identifying which behaviors your teen is exhibiting are annoying, as opposed to those that are in opposition to your family’s important values or a safety concern. “To thwart fatigue and feelings of anger, pick your battles and combine warmth and responsiveness with firmness—especially on your core values,” Dr. Rustomji says. “Adolescents still need rules but set your limits and be clear about your ‘no’s.” Kenny has found that allowing her daughter some slack has helped their bond. “I stay close to her by giving her some freedom

to make her own decisions and become her own person,” she shares. “When she does need me, I give her my full attention.”

Resist judging. This may be a bit harder than you think. As you may have noticed, teens are super-sensitive to your conveying disapproval—even non-verbally. “You have to learn how to have a poker face when talking to a teen about their life,” urges Justine Carino, a licensed mental health counselor at the Family Institute of Westchester in White Plains. That goes double for anything having to do with her friend group. A teen’s biggest priority is fitting in, Carino explains. That ties back to the healthy adolescent urge to develop strong relationships beyond family. “If they start to tell you something about their friend that you have a negative reaction to, try your best to put your feelings aside,” Carino suggests. Instead, “ask your teen how they feel about their friend’s decision.”

Let personality be your guide. Think of your teen first and foremost as a unique individual. Siblings may share DNA and have been raised in the same home, but an approach that elicits a positive reaction from one may not have the same effect on the other. What you should be looking at most are how your child communicates, tolerates stress, and shows emotion, Dr. Rustomji notes. Gender shouldn’t influence your approach too much, our experts agree. Personality should be your touchstone. That said, “there is some limited evidence that girls tend to express more internalized emotions, such as anxiety and sadness, and that boys express more externalizing emotions, like anger,” Dr. Rustomji says. The most prominent difference between genders is girls mature faster than boys, says John E. Mayer, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist specializing in treating families with adolescents and the author of Family Fit: Find Your Balance. “Parents need to be mindful of that and adjust their expectations accordingly,” he adds.

Observe. “If we observe our kids, we can intervene when they need us and learn who they are,” Dr. Mayer says. The only way to truly do that is to participate in his life. Aside from attending games, performances, and the like, and staying in contact with his teachers, make your home the hang-out place. “Try inviting their friends over for dinner, and on weekends,” Dr. Rustomji suggests. “This is a way for you to keep your eyes and ears open to their inner world, without seeming nosey.”

Leveraging car rides accomplishes the same thing. Offer to pick up and drop off friends when you’re driving your own kid to a party, the mall, or a school event. You might be surprised how much you learn about your teen by listening on a 15-minute ride.

A car ride with only the two of you is still an opportunity to build your bond. “Face-to-face conversations can be uncomfortable and intimidating for a teen,” Carino says. “Having the music on low and not looking at each other may create an environment in which a teen feels more comfortable opening up.”

Work on yourself. Who says your teen will grow out of idolizing you?

True, eventually we all realize our parents are flawed. Nevertheless, your lease on being a role model never has to expire. “Be someone they want to admire,” Dr. Mayer insists. “Be healthy. Keep yourself fit.

Be socially engaged. Be dynamic. Don’t let yourself go.” If you have a cheerful, positive attitude and continually try to improve yourself in whatever ways resonate with you, others will want to be around you.

That includes your kid and her friends. “If you do all that, their friends will say, ‘You have a cool mom or dad’.” And once that happens, it may not be a stretch to say you’re golden.

Never give up. Ever. The senior year of high school can be a difficult time to try to forge a better relationship because of the focus on college and the future. Plus, “seniors tend to zone in even more on their friendships because they know many changes will be happening socially once they graduate,” Carino notes. If your son is in his later teens, and you’ve had a rough ride of a relationship, you may think it’s too late to close the gap between you.

Don’t. “It’s never too late,” Carino insists. “It’s usually after high school that young adults connect with their parents in ways they didn’t before. Especially if they’re away at college, relationships often improve because of the space and distance.” Try to remember you’re aiming for the long haul. “We have many more years of a close, meaningful relationship with our children in adulthood than the short span of adolescence,” Dr. Mayer says.

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re you considering getting a new car or putting a down payment on your dream house? Unless you’ve been diligently saving, you’ll likely need to apply for a loan to make one of those purchases. The biggest obstacle that could be standing between you and getting approved for a loan? A low credit score, which can also affect the job hunt and prevent you from getting new credit cards.

“When applying for these types of loans, lenders perform a credit check. This helps lenders decide if they want to do business with you,” says Jake Lunduski, a financial industry analyst at Credit Card Insider. “Generally, the better your credit, the better the interest rates you’ll be able to secure.” Credit scores range from 300-850 and tell lenders how reliable you are when it comes to repaying debt.

It’s possible you’ll be approved for a loan if you have a lower score, but you may be required to put down a larger deposit or pay more interest. For example, someone with a score of 720 may have a 5 percent interest rate on a $500,000 30-year mortgage while someone with a score of 800 may have a 4.5 percent interest rate on the same mortgage. That .5 percent difference is like giving away $40,000-$50,000, says Roxana McKinney, founder of Women Wealth & Worth.

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scoring systems. However, the type of score most commonly used by lenders is one of your FICO scores,” Lunduski says. Thankfully, consumer credit scores tend to follow common principles, which makes improving your score a less daunting task.

Check Your Credit Score

FICO scores are based on five different criteria: 35 percent payment history, 30 percent amounts owed, 15 percent length of credit history, 10 percent new credit, and 10 percent types of credit.

It’s very important to stay on top of your payment history and credit usage, since they make up the bulk of your score. In addition to one free credit report per year from each credit bureau at AnnualCreditReport.com, McKinney recommends checking your credit score every three months on a free credit score site such as Credit Karma, which won’t hurt your score. Hard inquiries— when a potential lender reviews your credit—may pull your score down by five to 10 points. You can dispute a hard inquiry, but it will generally fall off your report in 2 years.

Look for Inaccuracies

When requesting your annual report, make sure each major consumer credit bureau is checked, including Equifax, Experian, and

TransUnion, in addition to free credit score sites. There are six things you should check when you get your report, according to Lunduski: • Is your personal information accurate and up to date?

• Do you recognize every account listed? Are all the dates and lenders names correct?

• Do account balances listed match the balances on recent statements?

• Make sure hard inquiries on your reports were made at your request.

• Are any late payments listed that don’t belong? If you do have late payments, make sure they are classified correctly (30 days late, 60 days late, etc.).

• Check for any bankruptcies, tax liens, and collection accounts and make sure the details are correct.

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“Because too many cards can become unmanageable, get them all paid in one day,” McKinney advises. You can ensure your bills are being paid on time by changing the payment dates, turning on online-billing Auto-Pay, which automatically takes money out of your bank account, or paying as soon as you get a statement in the mail.

Above all, “let your life events drive your financial decisions,” D’Ordine recommends. As much as you may want to plan and budget, life happens. If it all seems too daunting to do on your own, don’t be afraid to seek out a certified financial planner.

Prevention is the best form of defense. Before you even suspect fraud, you can protect yourself by freezing your accounts, preventing others from stealing your information.

Freezing your account locks your credit score, so no individual or company can access your credit information unless you unlock it. After reporting fraud, it takes time to repair credit score damaged by identity theft, so why not be one step ahead? Whether or not you suspect fraud, Daniel D’Ordine, CFP, founder of DDO Advisory Services LLC, recommends “LifeLock.com because it aggressively monitors for negative activity, especially when there are too many things to lose track of and data breaches.”

Watch Those Credit Card Balances

The smaller your credit utilization (how much of your credit card limit you use month to month), the better your score. So, to have an immediate impact, you want to pay your debt down, D’Ordine says.

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If you find yourself in debt across multiple credit accounts, Lunduski recommends the Avalanche Method, explained by his colleague Brendan Harkness. First, make the minimum payments on all of your accounts. Then, put as much extra money as possible toward the account with the highest interest rate. Once that debt is paid, do the same on the account with the next highest interest rate. Use this method until all of your debt is paid off.

“After any debts are paid off, ensure that you’re using your credit cards with discipline,” Lunduski adds. “Always make sure you’re paying off your statement balances on time and in full to take advantage of the grace period most cards have to avoid expensive interest.”

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“Another misconception is opening a credit card hurts your credit scores. Although your credit scores may temporarily dip after applying for a new card, you won’t face any long-term negative effects unless you max your new card out and accumulate debt or don’t pay on time,” Lunduski says. Opening a new card raises your total overall credit limit and can help lower your credit utilization ratio. You’ll take a hit in average account age in the short term, but more cards can help you in the long term.

But, D’Ordine warns against opening a handful of credit cards willy-nilly. Instead, research what credit card is best for you, whether you want to earn airline miles, cash back, or points for other benefits, and try to choose one with a lower interest rate.

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t the beginning of the home-buying process, there are surely 100 different factors swirling around your head that will determine on which house you put an offer. One of the most important things to consider before starting the house hunt? Finding the right neighborhood for your family. After all, you can’t change things about the neighborhood, but you can renovate a less-than-perfect house.

Solving that mystery will be completely individual for your family, as your check list of must-haves, things that would be nice, and those that are not a deal-breaker will be different from your friends. Once you narrow down which neighborhood or town is right for your family, you’ll be one step closer to finding the perfect place to raise your little ones. Read on for a little help from the experts for finding the right neighborhood for your family.

Visit at varying times.

You should always consider the time of day and time of year you visit a neighborhood, which can vary depending on the nature of the location. For example, if the house you’re interested in is near a school, visit during drop-off and pick-up times to see how busy it gets, suggests Melanie Kalmaer Lichaa, CBR, BFA, MA, M.Ed., licensed salesperson at Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International Realty.

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is also beneficial to see if it’s a family neighborhood where people walk around and ride bikes or if it’s really quiet.”

Pay attention to the neighborhood vibe.

In addition to visiting the area at different times, spend time exploring the neighborhood and chatting with others who live there, recommends Alison Bernstein, founder and CEO of The Suburban Jungle, a real estate and lifestyle advisory firm focused on buyers leaving the city for the suburbs. “What if the whole town goes to Nantucket over the summer, but you pictured yourself having barbecues with your neighbors?” she poses.

When you’re visiting the neighborhood, consider the characteristics that are important to your family. If you want to live in a place where your family can safely ride bikes in the streets or go for a walk with the stroller, do these things when visiting. Go for a walk after school when kids would normally be riding scooters to their friends’ houses or playing hockey in the street. Talk to the parents walking by and get the story from the people who know the neighborhood best.

“It’s very important to look in between the data points because that’s where the real story of the town exists,” Bernstein says.

“Feel out what people are doing on the weekends, how involved they are in the school systems, and so on.”

“I bought my house seven years ago solely because of the block it was on! I absolutely hated the house itself,” says Ellie Makris, an East Williston resident and mother of two boys. “We knocked it

down and built new, and throughout the difficulties with construction I would not change a thing. My son gets to ride his bike down the street as I walk next to him with the stroller, and we know that our neighbors will slow down when they pass in their cars.”

If you want a little extra help when finding the perfect neighborhood for your family, a buyer’s representative can point you in the right direction. Buyer’s representatives obtain specialized information, programs, and updates that can help you best determine what neighborhood to look in, according to the Association of Realtors. The Suburban Jungle also aims to convey the overall culture of a neighborhood by partnering with local agents who can explore the area for you.

Take a look at the statistics.

Everyone’s definition of what makes a town safe varies, and if you’re a numbers person who feels more secure making decisions based on proven statistics, there are various online resources that can help give you peace of mind. Multiple Listing Service, a network of real estate offices on Long Island as well as in Queens and Brooklyn, provides a variety of information about neighborhoods including community and school information, housing statistics, and news.

Searching a neighborhood in the Community and School Info section of the website will turn up visual statistics measuring quality of life such as commute time, crime risks, air quality, physicians per capita, environment, schools, economy, people, and housing.

Another resource that measures the livability of a neighborhood is Total Home Score. It aims to make the things that may be less obvious more transparent, so you can determine which parts of the home search are a priority to you, including Road Safety, Quiet, Traffic, and Entertainment scores.

Determine what “a good school” means to you.

While you can learn which school is deemed “better” in terms of test scores, what are the factors that define a good school to you?

Do you have a child who requires special education services? Or, perhaps, your child is gifted and talented. Will your child need an Individualized Education Plan? Does she need extra help in math?

“I always recommend parents call up and speak to the head of their child’s grade level for the upcoming year to ask these sorts of questions,” says Lichaa, who is a mom of two and a former educator. “Different districts have different ways of analyzing a child and their grade readiness when they enter the district.”

“Read between the lines and determine what a great school system means to you,” Bernstein suggests. “Do I want my child in a class of two thousand or a class of sixty, and what are the pros and cons of each? Do I want a district where everyone is...gunning for the [Ivy League], or do I want a more laid-back environment?”

While you’re getting the answers to these important questions, it’s also a good idea to find out about transportation within that district. Some districts have rules that children who live less than a mile from the school will not receive transportation, according to Lichaa. And don’t be afraid to ask questions about the more personal things that are important to your family. If your child is a swimmer, find out if the school has a swim team. If not, but it checks all of your other boxes, see if there is a local Y, JCC, or Boys and Girls Club with a team that your child can join.

Ultimately, what makes a neighborhood “the right neighborhood” for your family may be the one with the highest scoring school district.

It also could be the one with a little league team that practices within walking distance of your home. As long as you know what your family needs to be happy, learning to love a new neighborhood will be as easy as learning to hate the parking restrictions in your old one.

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50 Route 111, Suite 214, Smithtown 631-265-3435 nsorthodontics.com Dr. Craig Smith and his team at North Shore Orthodontics offer a variety of orthodontic services including American Orthodontics Mini Brackets, Invisalign®, Invisalign Teen™, A.O. Radiance translucent brackets, and teeth whitening.

ACT AS IF ETIQUETTE & PROTOCOL

718 Walt Whitman Road, Melville 561-889-4464 actasifetiquette.com Offering fun, informative, engaging classes for children, teens, and young adults, with the content geared toward modern manners for modern times. Serving scout troops, libraries, after-school programs, camps, groups, and individuals.

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8 Medical Drive, Port Jefferson Station 631-928-8585 6144 Route 25 A, Suite D20, Wading River 631-929-7575 suffolkpediatricdentistry.com infoportjeff@suffolkpediatricdentistry.com For 40 years, we have provided dental care that’s friendly, gentle, and compassionate. We provide preventive and comprehensive treatment for infants, children, and adolescents including sedation and general anesthesia dentistry.

We strive to help our patients develop good oral hygiene habits and beautiful, healthy smiles.

FINANCIAL PLANNING & INSURANCE LINDA SPRINGER, INVESTMENT ADVISER REPRESENTATIVE WITH PRIMERICA ADVISORS

1600 Expressway Drive S., Hauppauge 631-235-1749 cell 631-361-6271 office primerica.com/lindaspringer linda.springer@primerica.com Linda Springer, an investment adviser representative with Primerica Advisors has proudly served the community in financial literacy education and team training and development for more than 20 years. Contact us at 631-235-1749 (cell) or 631-361-6271(office).

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

PEDIATRIC IMMEDIATE CARE

150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337) 698 Manhattan Ave., Brooklyn 718-389-PEDS (7337) pediatricimmediatecare.com Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-of-the-art medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kid-friendly; walk-ins welcome; most insurance plans accepted.

STONY BROOK CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL PEDIATRIC VOIDING IMPROVEMENT PROGRAM (VIP) 24 Research Way, East Setauket 631-444-6270 A comprehensive program for children and teens with bed-wetting and other urinary and bowel issues. Our experts offer innovative, age-appropriate solutions along with compassionate care.

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534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law.

LICE FAIRY LICEMOTHERS

2463 S. Long Beach Road, Oceanside 866-561-0492 1755 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 866-561-0492 679 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Head 866-561-0492 fairylicemothers.com; fairylicemothers@gmail.com Our treatment centers are kid-friendly and our products are 100 percent non toxic. Treatments include two free re-checks. Whether or not you use our service, we are here to help you.

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FOOD & NUTRITION LITTLE VICKY’S

631-338-1722 littlevickys.com littlevickys@yahoo.com Little Vicky’s products are small batched with only the finest, natural ingredients. Real food, no junk. Products include honey butter, garlic honey, and honey lemonade sold at all Best Markets throughout Long Island and select Stop & Shops.

FOSTER CARE & ADOPTION BERKSHIRE FARM CENTER AND SERVICES FOR YOUTH

535 Broad Hollow Road, Suite B30, Melville 631-420-4444 berkshirefarm.org Berkshire Farm Center & Services for Youth helps children find safety and comfort in the homes of foster parents.

Become a foster parent and give the gift of family!

LEGAL SERVICES ANDREW COHEN, ESQ., LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW M. COHEN 250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com; ac@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen can help you achieve your objectives through careful special needs legal planning, regardless of the size of your estate. All clients are provided with high-quality service at a reasonable cost.

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ALTERNATIVES FOR CHILDREN

1116 Main Road, Aquebogue 631-722-2170 600 S. Service Road, Dix Hills 631-271-0777 14 Research Way, East Setauket 631-331-6400 168 Hill St., Southampton 631-283-3272 alternatives4children.org Licensed daycare, EI/Preschool Special Education evaluations provider for eligible children. Early childhood professionals create a natural learning environment, promoting a child’s cognitive, social, and emotional development.

ANDREW COHEN, ESQ., LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW M. COHEN 250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen can help you achieve your objectives through careful special needs legal planning, regardless of the size of your estate. All clients are provided with high-quality service at a reasonable cost.

DR. STEVE IMBER, PSYCHOEDUCATIONAL CONSULTANTS

Serving Nassau and Suffolk Counties as well as the five boroughs of NYC 61-43 186th St., Fresh Meadows 516-273-1961 Sprout Building 166 Valley St., Providence, RI

401-421-4004 dr-imber.com; scimber1@aol.com Dr. Imber has more than 40 years of experience consulting, evaluating, and advocating for children, adolescents, and adults with various disabilities including autism (e.g.

Asperger’s syndrome), attention deficit disorders, intellectual disabilities, emotional and behavioral disorders, and learning disabilities.

LIFE’S WORC THE FAMILY CENTER FOR AUTISM

1501 Franklin Ave., Garden City 516-741-9000 familycenterforautism.org mreno@lifesworc.org The Family Center for Autism provides services and support for people with autism and their families. Programs include insurance services, birthday parties, art, music, sports and culinary classes, camps, parent and sibling programs, social events, vocational programs, and behavior intervention.

LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C.

534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law.

TUTORS & TEST PREP AVIVA CHANSKY GUTTMANN, L.M.S.W., C.I.R.T.

631-885-4375 avivachanskyguttmann.com helpconnectingus@gmail.com Aviva Chansky Guttmann is a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist offering home-based therapy for couples, partners, and families. Flexible scheduling and large travel radius.

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Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

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Studio E Art Classes offers two economical party options! “The Bash” Starting at only $290 and “The Extravaganza” starting at only $420! View details at studioeartclass.com/parties.

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To Chew and To Hold

Children who have anxiety often get a sense of relief by chewing, and the Heart Chewlery Necklace by Chewigum is the perfect way to show a little Valentine’s Day love. Made from medical-grade, FDA-approved silicone, the heart has various thicknesses around the perimeter. Plus, the opening in the middle (perfect for little fingers to grab and squeeze) gives it a dual purpose: It supports oral sensory and tactile fidget needs ($23.50; pattiandricky.com).

Better Than a Bouquet

If your kids are fascinated with plants or you want to do a little good for the environment, Sprout Pencils are just the Valentine’s Day gift to give. Once you reach the end of these nontoxic, sustainably sourced and produced pencils, you can plant them and grow sunflowers, daisies, basil, thyme, and more. That’s right; the ends of these pencils have seeds in them. Once planted, the pencil stubs act as name markers, and they’re 100-percent biodegradable (available in graphite and color; $12.95$15.95; amazon.com).

A V-Day Accessory

Little fashionistas will love this heart-shaped backpack from Parkland Mfg’s Be Mine Collection. And we love that it’s a sustainable brand; the exteriors of all available bags and accessories are made from recycled plastic bottles. Available Feb. 1, the Be Mine Collection also includes fanny packs and accessories pouches, all of which come in light pink and the pictured red with pink hearts ($24.99; parklandmfg.com).

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Personalized Pendants

New York Citybased jewelry designer, Alex Woo, makes the perfect gift for the mom or teen in your life: Little Autograph Letter and Little Letter necklaces.

Moms will surely swoon over a necklace with their children’s initials on it, while tweens and teens will love that their first “real” jewelry is a personalized bauble. Little Letters come in sterling silver, gold, white gold with diamond, or mixed metal, while Little Autograph Letters come in sterling silver, gold, and a handful of colors (starting at $98; alexwoo.com).

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