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Build a Budget That Works
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April Activities
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16 A Child on the Spectrum—and a Happy Marriage 18 Special Needs Directory
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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 A Passion for the Performing Arts 11 5 Ways to Stay Healthy While Traveling 36 Planning a Blowout Birthday Party 38 Party Central 40 What Makes Toddlers Tick 42 Is Your Child Ready to be a CIT? 44 Camps for Older Kids 48 Camps-at-a-Glance Chart 50 Professional Services 51 Open Houses 52 Meet the Health Care Professional 53 Advertisers’ Index 54 Quotables
Planning a Blowout Birthday Party
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22 Give Your Home a Health Check
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APRIL 2018 • Vol.9 • No.11
Special Times, Special Kids
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EDITORIAL EDITORIAL DIRECTOR: Deborah Skolnik MANAGING EDITOR: Katelin Walling SENIOR EDITOR: Bethany Braun-Silva ENGAGEMENT EDITOR: Samantha Neudorf
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hen my daughter Clara turned 3, I planned an at-home party with a clown and cake. It seemed like the perfect idea—until the clown got lost on the way to our house. For 45 minutes, 20 bored preschoolers ran wildly around my living room. The clown finally arrived at the same time the pizza did, so I told her she’d have to wait till the kids were done eating. A few minutes later, I spied her through our front window: She’d set up a lawn chair in front of my neighbor’s house and was smoking a cigarette. My neighbor was freaking out at the sudden appearance of a random, smoking clown. It was a party I’ll never forget—and neither will the family next door! Birthday celebrations can be tons of fun, but only if they’re done right. That’s why I’m loving our birthday party feature this month. “Planning a Blowout Birthday Party” by Samantha Neudorf (p. 36) reveals event planners’ secrets for throwing bashes, with advice on finding a venue, vendors, and more. In addition to extraordinary occasions, extraordinary kids are on our mind right now: April is Autism Awareness Month. Turn to our Special Parent section on p. 13 to read two thoughtful pieces: “Autism Myths to Ignore,” by Katelin Walling, which debunks harmful stereotypes about those on the autism spectrum, and “A Child on the Spectrum—and a Happy Marriage,” by Madeleine Burry. April is when Earth Day is observed. On p. 22, Emma Steven explores how to freshen your home by reducing toxins. We’ve also got a fresh look at toddlers’ quirky behaviors on p. 40. And you won’t want to miss Lambeth Hochwald’s story on p. 42, “Is Your Child Ready to be a CIT?” We explore the traits that make a kid a great counselor-in-training. Of course, this month also brings us Easter and Passover. Wishing a happy holiday to all of you observing, a fun and healthy spring to everyone, and not a smoking clown in sight! Deborah Skolnik Editorial Director, NYMetroParents
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A Passion for the Performing Arts ›› How sharing my interest in the arts helped me become a better parent. By Darren Critz
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hough nothing has been disastrous (yet), I have managed to mess up many aspects of parenthood. A good example: Easter. Somewhere along the way, I began referring to the Easter Bunny as Peter—he bizarrely morphed with Peter Rabbit for a reason I can’t remember. To avoid a Sunday morning food-coloring feast because of my own aversion to chemicals in food dye, Peter would steal the Easter eggs from our house rather than leave them out to be found and consumed. Perhaps even more reflective of my failures is the fact that this alternate history about the Easter Bunny came about at all, since my family has been Jewish as far back as anyone can remember. Spoiler alert: Jews don’t celebrate Easter. But I have done a lot of things right, too. I’ve demystified swearing and curse words, taught my daughter that avant-garde jazz isn’t always as terrible as people say it is, and, perhaps most importantly, I’ve helped instill in her a love for the performing arts. From practically the moment she was born, I’ve been bringing my daughter to events, both at Symphony Space and all around the city. I’ve made efforts to make the arts a regular part of her life, and not just a once-a-year visit to the Radio City Music Hall Christmas Spectacular with the Rockettes (thereby avoiding Christmas-specific events and balancing out the whole Jewish/Easter thing, I suppose). I’ve taken her to music concerts that spanned genres, from rock to jazz to classical and just about everything in between. We’ve attended a ton of dance performances, seeing everything from tap to ballet to percussive dance. And we’ve been to more theatrical events than I can count. The results have made a huge impact on her life. We’ve had discussions about what it takes to write songs and compose music, and where the different styles of music originated. I’ve watched her choreograph dances for stuffed animals and our cat after viewing dance performances (great stuff, despite the erratic performances by the lazy stuffed bears and the overly entitled cat, who studied briefly with Balanchine—as if we needed to hear that story again for the billionth time!). I’ve also witnessed her take the things she’s seen and apply some amazing thoughts and questions to the world outside of the performances: How do bands decide where to put their instruments onstage? How do puppeteers transport their fragile-looking puppets without breaking them? How do performers create funny voices, and is that what the actor sounds like in real life? And the results have helped her in school as well. Why write yet another story about a turtle, when a critique of the lighting for
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that circus show is so much more interesting? Don’t think math is important? How are you going to settle up with the venue for your 80-percent cut of the merchandise profits if you can’t figure out how to calculate percentages? (She’s way into money—the little capitalist!) All of this is to say the arts have helped shape her as a thinker and communicator in ways I could never have done as successfully without their assistance. Sure, you could argue there’s another dad out there who lets his kids eat the damn eggs crawling with Yellow Dye No. 6 (aka benzenesulfonic acid, treated with hydrochloric acid and sodium nitrite), and whose preference for baseball means he can testify that sports have had the same effect on his child as the arts has on mine. But I guess that kind of just strengthens what I’m saying, right? When we find ways to share our passions, hobbies, loves, and interests with our children, we bond in ways we could never imagine, help expand our children’s minds, and become more communicative, responsive parents as a result. Thanks, arts! Thanks, baseball! And thanks, Easter Bunny, for burying your eggs in Mr. McGregor’s garden and not in mine!
Darren Critz is director of Performing Arts Programs at Symphony Space, a performing arts center on the Upper West Side of Manhattan. He curates Symphony Space’s Just Kidding series. The 2018-2019 season will begin in October, with such performances as New Mermaid Theatre of Nova Scotia’s The Rainbow Fish in October, Elizabeth Mitchell and You Are My Flower in December, and more family performances most weekends through March 2019.
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5 Ways to Stay Healthy While Traveling ›› By Bethany Braun-Silva with Zak Zarbock, M.D.
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t’s no secret that when traveling you put yourself at risk for getting sick. Your chances of catching a germ or two are pretty high—after all, you’ll be doing everything from mingling with crowds to breathing recycled air on the plane. And when you’re traveling with children, your chances of contracting a bug are even higher. After all, kids love to put their fingers in their mouths, roll on the floor, and do many other not-so-sanitary things. But there are precautions you can take to ensure they (and you!) stay as healthy as possible. Zak Zarbock, M.D., dad, pediatrician, and founder of Zarbee’s Naturals shares five ways you can keep kids healthy while traveling. Sanitize once you get past security. Most fliers are required to take off their shoes at airport security. With everyone touching the bottoms of their shoes, germs and bacteria are being transferred to their hands, and then on everything else they touch past that point. Quickly using a hand wipe just past security can go a long way toward keeping germs at a minimum. Be prepared. The best defense is a good offense. To ensure your family feels their best, take a multivitamin to fill any nutritional gaps in your diet. Also, focus on wholesome immune support ingredients such as vitamin C, zinc, and even elderberry.
Wipe down contact points. When you get to your seat (both at the gate and on the plane), quickly wipe down the arm rests, handles, and side or tray tables before you settle in. You’ll feel better knowing your kid’s food, drinks, snacks, toys, and activities will be handled with clean hands on fresh surfaces. Hydrate. Make sure you and your family drink lots of water. Planes are known to dehydrate people, and keeping hydrated will make everyone less vulnerable to dry skin, eyes, and mouths. Consider bringing a refillable water bottle or getting bottled water at the airport so you are prepared for the entire flight. Wash your hands. No one wants to arrive at their destination only to find an illness coming on, so hand washing is a no brainer, and soap and water are always best to fight germs you might pick up en route to your destination. If soap and water aren’t available, use a baby wipe on the hands, followed by hand sanitizer. Zak Zarbock, M.D., was inspired to create Zarbee’s Naturals after looking for alternative wellness products, only to realize there weren’t many wholesome, safe, and chemical-free options on the shelf.
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Despite what many people may think, people diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder do like spending time with peers. In fact, interacting with people on the spectrum is the best way to battle these misconceptions.
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There are a lot of stereotypes about autism spectrum disorder that just aren’t true—here are the five biggest misconceptions. By Katelin Walling
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hile the awareness of autism spectrum disorder has grown due to social media, increased research, Autism Awareness Month, and more, there are still many misconceptions about ASD, from its causes to the characteristics and abilities of those on the spectrum. As its name denotes, autism is a spectrum, meaning not everyone diagnosed with autism displays the same traits, exhibits the same behaviors, or has the same abilities—just like you or me. So applying blanket statements to those on the spectrum would be like saying girls can’t throw or boys don’t cry. We spoke to experts about stereotypes of ASD, and uncovered the truth behind five big misconceptions about the disorder and those diagnosed with it.
Myth 1: Vaccines cause autism.
Unfortunately we do still hear the misconception that autism is related to vaccinations, commonly the measles, mumps, rubella vaccination, says Sarah Kuriakose, Ph.D., BCBA-D, clinical assistant professor of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry at NYU Langone Health. “Not only was the initial study that showed that a fraudulent study, but follow-up studies have debunked that many times,” she explains. There are other concerns that autism is caused by “various environmental factors that a pregnant mother may be exposed to and in utero some of those environmental causative factors may have somehow affected the fetus,” says John Pfeifer, senior director of Clinical Services and the Family Center for Autism, part of Life’s WORC, a Long Island nonprofit that supports people with developmental disabilities and autism. “There’s still ongoing research about the expansion of electromagnetic technology and various environmental chemicals and such that may be at play, but not knowing everything in the environment that may be affecting a fetus, either seen or unseen, makes it hard to decipher that.” 14
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“What we do know about autism is there seems to be a genetic component, and about ten to twenty percent of cases with ASD are linked to an identified genetic disorder,” says Dr. Kuriakose, who is also senior director of the NYU Langone Autism and Developmental Neuroscience Initiative and the clinical director of the Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical and Research Program at NYU’s Child Study Center. “We anticipate that that number will go up with more genetics research. But even in identical twins, the concordance rate is not one-hundred percent, so we know there is some factor that is not genetic as well.”
Myth 2: People on the spectrum are anti-social and don’t have feelings.
Dr. Kuriakose says parents, teachers, and even doctors will tell her things like, “that child can’t have autism because…he’s affectionate, …she makes eye contact, or …he’s interested in other kids.” “So what can end up happening is people have this very blackand-white picture that a person with autism is someone who is anti-social and isn’t interested in other people,” she says. “We know that those aren’t necessarily true.” Yet thanks to this persistent myth, a child who does have autism might not be given a diagnosis—his parents may be hanging on to the fact that their child is affectionate though he is struggling in other ways. “It is often thought that people with autism don’t have feelings, which is a very sad misconception and very far from the truth,” adds Janet Koch, CEO of Life’s WORC. “They are capable of having loving relationships with family members and friends.”
Myth 3: People with autism exhibit challenging and/or maladaptive behaviors.
“It’s not fair to say that challenging behaviors are inherent in the diagnosis,” Pfeifer says. “They are often a byproduct of ineffective
treatment of some of the things that are inherent in the diagnosis, which are communication and socialization difficulties.” These behaviors could include flapping hands, rocking, or other self-stimulatory behaviors. “We still unfortunately have the misconception from previous media portrayals that kids with autism are nonverbal, are going to sit in the corner, and just rock or flap their hands,” Dr. Kuriakose says. As society becomes more educated about autism, people are learning about adapting communication efforts. “I have young children, and they’re learning in integrated classrooms about what these behaviors may mean. It could actually help a person [on the spectrum] to not escalate to such a significant behavior because they’ll be able to communicate more easily with people who have been taught how to communicate with them,” Koch says.
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Myth 4: Those on the spectrum are savants and/or are fixated on one topic.
The media commonly portrays those with autism as being savants or having restricted interest in a singular subject area: Sam Gardner in Netflix’s Atypical and Shaun Murphy in ABC’s The Good Doctor are two recent portrayals. “Certainly we have kids and adults with autism who have an amazing depth of knowledge in a particular area, incredible memory, incredible pattern recognition skills, things like that that are going to set them up for a particular career,” Dr. Kuriakose says, but not all people on the spectrum show these characteristics. In fact, the most recent criteria for an ASD diagnosis from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders fall into two categories: social communication and restricted, repetitive behaviors (RRB). There are four traits that fall under the RRB category—repetitive speech or behavior/mannerisms, restricted interest, sensory challenges, and difficulty with transitions or insistence on sameness—and a person needs to only exhibit two of the RRB traits (and meet criteria from the social communication category) to receive a diagnosis of autism, according to Dr. Kuriakose. “So you could have a kid who has some sensory challenges and insistence on sameness without any restricted interest at all and you could still have the diagnosis,” she says.
Myth 5: People with ASD can’t go to college, have jobs, or get married.
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A Child on the Spectrum—and a Happy Marriage ››
Your child’s diagnosis can be challenging to your relationship. Experts share how to keep your bond strong. By Madeleine Burry
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ere’s a fundamental truth: Being married with children is wonderful and rewarding—but also really, really hard. And for parents of children with autism spectrum disorder, raising a child is a whole other level of difficulty. More and more moms and dads face this situation; 1 in 68 children have ASD, according to the most recent data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. It’s a diagnosis that’s life changing for the entire family. “The diagnosis of a child with autism and the breakdown in communication create a major strain on a marriage,” says Alisha Griffith, Aud.D., CCC-SLP, autism parenting coach, author of Au-mazing Gift: A Journey to Autism Acceptance, and mom to an 11-year-old son with autism. That sounds ominous. Marriage is hard enough without additional stress or strain. And it’s true: The time-consuming daily grind of parenting a child on the spectrum, along with the financial and emotional burden involved, can take over moms’ and dads’ lives, leaving little time to nurture your partnership. Neglecting a marriage does not tend to lead to good things. In fact, for years, despite no actual scientific source, people thought the divorce rates were significantly higher—80 percent—for parents of children on the spectrum. A 2010 study from the Kennedy Krieger Institute debunked the anecdotal rumor. The reality: The divorce rate for parents is the same, regardless of whether they have a child with ASD or not. That points to something reassuring: Maintaining a healthy, happy marriage as a parent of a child on the spectrum may be challenging, but it’s definitely doable. We spoke to experts—couples therapists, coaches, and 16 April 2018 | nymetroparents.com
psychiatrists who are deeply familiar with the impact of this diagnosis on relationships—to find out practical tips to help your marriage stay strong.
Pick a Path Together
Often, parents react to a diagnosis in very different ways: One parent may seek to become an expert, researching the condition constantly, while the other is subsumed by emotions, feeling sorrow, grief, and frustration. “There’s a misalignment in this response that creates distance,” says Tracy Ross, LCSW, a couples and family therapist who specializes in treating parents of children on the spectrum. How can couples feel united in this fragmented moment? If it’s a matter of disagreeing over next steps, pick an expert and trust her to steer your path forward, recommends Gail Saltz, M.D., psychiatrist and author of The Power of Different: The Link Between Disorder and Genius. “To some degree, it’s useful to pick your maven and go with that. Pick someone you really both can feel confident in and then let them direct some of that decision-making,” she says. This is also a moment to sharpen your communication skills, discussing everything from feelings to treatment. That can be harder than it sounds (there’s a reason we praise preschoolers and kindergarteners when they’re good listeners; listening isn’t easy!). Schedule time for judgment-free conversations, recommends Dr. Griffith. “Respect the role of speaker and listener. Take turns to truly listen to each other. Create rules for a safe conversation,” she says, so it doesn’t break down in screams or stony silence.
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Typically, one parent becomes the primary caretaker for a child on the spectrum, Dr. Saltz says. (Yes, it’s usually the mom.) And that’s fine, so long as both parents have responsibilities and acknowledge each other’s contributions. “Caretaking doesn’t have to be fifty-fifty,” Dr. Saltz says, but without participation from both moms and dads, resentment festers. Ross adds that it’s helpful to recognize your spouse’s talents. Consider how your partner can help you become a better parent, and where your different skills can be most helpful to your child. “You can’t both be working on the same thing—there’s just too much to do. Divide and conquer is really better,” Ross says.
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Your child can easily become the focus of your every conversation, activity, and thought. And, doing otherwise may induce feelings of guilt (I shouldn’t go to the movies when I have that towering pile of paperwork to tackle). But your marriage requires attention, too. “Make sure you do carve out time to do pleasurable things together and do not spend every waking moment on your child,” Dr. Saltz says. “You have to keep your relationship interesting and spicy. You were married way before you were a parent, so you still have to nurture your marriage,” Dr. Griffith says. To that end, put date night on the calendar, just like any other important appointment. If you don’t feel comfortable leaving your child with a caretaker, or can’t afford one, Dr. Griffith suggests shifting date night to date day—after you drop your child off at school, skip out of your responsibilities for a few hours in favor of a long lunch, coffee at your local café, a walk in the park, or a trip to the museum or movies together.
Develop a Support System
It can be deeply lonely to be a parent of a child with ASD. “Parents who don’t have kids with special needs don’t know how hard it is. [They] don’t know what you go through,” says Jennifer Kaufman, an occupational therapist who works in NYC public schools and mom to a 9-year-old son who is on the spectrum. “When you have a typical child, you meet other families with kids and your world expands, but when you have a kid on the spectrum your world can constrict, and that’s harder,” Ross says. Simple social gatherings—like a trip to the park or a birthday party—are difficult for kids who are on the spectrum. That leads many parents to just opt out. “Parents with kids on the spectrum get embarrassed, feel judged, feel upset, so they tend to isolate, which can cause stress,” Ross says. Instead of RSVPing no until the invites end, Ross recommends educating the people around you: Have a conversation with friends about what to expect from your child, and how to talk to their own child about being around kids on the spectrum. As well as maintaining pre-existing relationships, look to make new connections. “Find other parents who may be having a similar struggle, so you have a community to be able to talk to about these [struggles],” Dr. Saltz says. Ross recommends seeking out parent groups.
Consider Volunteering
It can feel relieving and world opening to raise money or volunteer for autism-related causes, Dr. Saltz says. “Doing volunteer work together can be helpful and bonding,” she says. Immersed in therapy, testing, and schedules, it’s easy to neglect caring for your marriage—but it’s not a small thing to overlook. As Ross points out, “It’s not a luxury to work on your relationship. It’s really important for the adults and the whole family.” Having a strong partnership reduces the likelihood of burnout, and allows you to do more on behalf of your children. So go ahead: Enjoy some time with your spouse, and make your partnership a top priority. Madeleine Burry is a Brooklyn-based freelance writer and editor, covering everything from parenting to open data to workplace productivity. She’s held staff positions at Parents.com, Scholastic, and About.com. You can follow her on Twitter @lovelanewest.
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•SEIT •ABA Home Programs
•Related Services: -Speech - OT/PT - Parent Training - Family Support Services
•Special Ed Classes: - Developmental Groups (2 -3) - Pre-School (3-5) - School-Age (5-11) - Inclusion
750 Hicksville Road Seaford, NY 11783 • 516-520-6000 Funded and regulated by Nassau County (NCDOH) and Suffolk County (SCDOH) Department of Health, NYS, NYS ED Department
must be referred by NCDOH/SCDOH for EI and/or to the local school district for CPSE. Services are provided based on an individual child’s eligibility as established by NYS DOH and/or NYS ED department and local government at no direct cost to parents. Parents are responsible for fees/costs associated with childcare. 20
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Serving areas from Setauket to the North Fork Preschool location: Calverton Music Together locations: Setauket, Port Jeff, Miller Place, Shoreham, Calverton, Aquebogue, Southold Piano Kids locations: Setauket, Calverton 631-208-4003 lyricalchildren.com admin@lyricalchildren.com Lyrical Children presents Music Together®, a beneficial experience for children of all abilities including those with special needs. Our research-based, developmentally appropriate, and fun class techniques include adult participation and modeling for children, which gives every child opportunities to participate and process the information at their own developmental stage. Through the medium of music, children get visual, kinesthetic, and auditory stimuli, gross and fine motor skills practice, and speech articulation through songs. Various classes offered for children in the developmental range of birth to age 6, from Setauket to Aquebogue.
Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County Dr. Mike Ioannou 2171 Jericho Turnpike, Suite 145, Commack 631-486-6364 3237 Route 112, Building 6, Suite 7B, Medford 631-320-0880 supermolar.com
mikeioannou@hotmail.com We know taking your child to the dentist can be a stressful experience. All of our staff members at Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County have extensive training and experience in treating children. We treat every child as if they are our own. From a child with special needs to an everyday anxious child, our staff has experience to handle the most stressful moments. Our state-of-the-art offices are equipped with digital X-rays, video games, themed treatment rooms, flat screen televisions, and child-friendly staff to give your child a positive dental experience!
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150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337) 698 Manhattan Ave., Brooklyn 718-389-PEDS (7337) pediatricimmediatecare.com Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-of-the-art medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kid-friendly, walk-ins welcome, most insurance plans accepted. Complete pediatric and adolescent care, babies, school, and sports physicals. Certified urgent care recommended by Urgent Care Association of America. Thirty years of dedication to our patients. The offices are open seven days a week, including holidays, 8am-11pm.
Picasso Kidz, Creative Art Studio For Children 72 Broadway, Greenlawn 631-261-5500 picassokidz.com picassokidzart@gmail.com Picasso Kidz is now offering art classes for children with special needs. “Extraordinary Picasso”
classes are taught by NYS-certified art teachers who have also been trained by Missing Piece Awareness to cater to the needs of these children. Mommy and Me classes are offered for kids ages 2-4. Additional classes are offered for kids 5 and older. Classes are kept small and a caregiver must be present with the child. Therapists such as behavioral or occupational therapists are also encouraged to attend to help children achieve their specific goals.
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Sappo School
40 Kings Park Road, Commack 631-736-2146 sapposchool.com info@sapposchool.com Founded more than 20 years ago, Sappo School is one of the leading independent private schools on Long Island for students in K-12th grades. We are forerunners in the movement toward educational reform and academic excellence. For more than 20 years, Sappo School has been providing a safe and nurturing environment for students. We offer small class sizes and a tailored approach to learning. We have had proven success in working with students with anxiety, ADHD, dyslexia, and ENL students. We offer College Prep, SAT Prep, STEM, music and arts programs.
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July 1 to July 21, 2018 (1, 2, or 3 weeks) Held at Camp Claire Lyme, CT
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Spin DJ Academy
202 Merrick Road, 2nd floor, Rockville Centre 16 Broadway, Amityville 631-608-8858; spindjacademy.com DJ For Everyone and Music For Everyone is the first special education program of its kind, focusing on students of all ages, interests, and abilities. We provide amazing classes in a fun and supportive environment in which students learn new skills, participate, and gain confidence! Students work 1-on-1 with world class instructors and begin a path to musical success and new passions.
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Some plants, such as Spider Plants, Mother-in-Law’s Tongue, Peace Lilies, Aloe Vera, and Garden Mums are natural air purifiers, according to NASA. So this Earth Day, why not take your kids to pick out a little greenery for your home?
Give Your Home a Health Check ›› Five simple steps to reducing environmental toxins around your house
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o you want to detox your home but don’t know where to start? Got a couple of green products in your kitchen but want to know what else you should you be doing? Consider this: The average family is exposed to thousands of environmental toxins and the majority of this occurs in the home. The good news? There are simple things you can do to make your living space greener and healthier for your family. “The first point I would say is don’t get overwhelmed,” reassures Nneka Leibe, director of healthy living science at the Environmental Working Group. “There are simple changes that can make an impactful difference.” Here are five expert-approved priority tasks you can do in your home to go a little greener:
Improve your air quality.
“One thing people don’t realize is that the indoor air is a poorer quality than the outdoors. Even in cities,” says Maia James, green home consultant and founder of gimmethegoodstuff.org. In fact, indoor air is as much as two to five times more polluted than air outside. “A lot of people are thinking about the pollution they are exposed to outdoors,” Leibe says. “When we started to dig into the products we have indoors, we realized that a lot of the things we have in our home and furniture either release chemicals or are made with chemicals that we suggest to avoid.” 22
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Don’t panic: You can improve your air quality by replacing or eliminating poly vinyl chloride (especially the flexible kind found in shower curtains, toys, raincoats, and kids’ mattress covers), flame-retardants, conventional cleaning products and air fresheners, dry cleaning that uses perchloroethylene (PERC), particle board and MDF, furniture with waterproof or stain-guard finishes, chemical pesticides, synthetic carpeting, lead paint, asbestos, and radon gas. Visit nymetroparents.com/green-home for more details about these common problem areas. If you want to go one step further, James recommends investing in an air filter to actively clean the air. For a low-fi option, you can add wool rugs and plants—both have been shown in studies to be natural Volatile Organic Compound (VOCs include formaldehyde and benzene) absorbers. And don’t forget to open your windows every day!
Reduce household dust.
Those dust bunnies may look harmless, but nasties like lead, phthalates (endocrine disrupting chemicals or EDCs), BPA, flame-retardants, perfluorinated chemicals (PFCs), and chemicals from cleaning products lurk in them. Gary Ginsberg, Ph.D., an assistant professor and toxicologist at Yale School of Public Health, has studied household dust extensively. He says dust is a key source of children’s exposure to contaminants at home, with levels of phthalates, lead, and flame-retardants in dust relating closely to
levels in blood and urine. Children and babies ingest a lot because they spend more time on the floor and put things in their mouths. They are also much smaller and still developing, so toxins have a much bigger potential impact on their health. Vacuum regularly using a HEPA filter vacuum, wet-mop floors, and wipe down surfaces. Fit filters to heating and air-conditioning units, take off your shoes when you get home, and use a doormat to reduce the amount of outdoor dust and soil coming into your home.
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Buy a water filter.
“Another small change that is really impactful is purchasing a water filter,” Leibe says. The quality of tap water can vary widely, so it’s important to check yours via your water utility’s website or a resource like the EWG Tap Water Database (ewg.org/tapwater). Just make sure to regularly clean the water container and change the filter.
Switch to cleaner personal care items.
Many beauty products contain small amounts of chemicals, including EDCs and lead. James recommends starting with the products that are used the most often and on the biggest areas such as moisturizers, sunscreen, and shampoos. Many people are surprised to hear the U.S. Food and Drug Administration does not require safety testing for personal care and cosmetic products, so it’s up to the consumer to check labels. The EWG Skin Deep Cosmetics Database (ewg.org/skindeep) is a great resource for researching ingredients as are apps such as Think Dirty, which let you check on the go.
Ditch plastic and non-stick cookware.
Replace plastic bottles with stainless steel or glass. The dangers of BPA are well known, but the plastics used to replace it (like bisphenol S aka BPS) are also thought to contain EDCs, according to the EWG and James. Never heat food in the microwave in plastic as this can lead to chemicals such as phthalates leaching into it, and replace non-stick cookware as these are made with PFCs.
Don’t obsess.
All of the experts interviewed were keen to emphasize that we should not be lying awake at night (on our non-organic mattresses) panicking. “I know it’s hard to not freak out about this stuff as you begin to educate yourself,” James says. “But it’s helpful to remember that it’s all about cumulative risk. No one item in the home is going to make or break your family’s health.” “It’s not a life or death situation,” Dr. Ginsberg agrees. “There are a lot of low-level risks out there. We are doing much better today than we were when I was a kid. We don’t want to overwhelm people because then [they] will be paralyzed.” “All of these changes combine to reduce our body burden of chemical exposure,” Leibe adds. “They’re small changes but very, very important to reducing the number of chemicals we’re exposed to that lead to adverse health impacts.” The onus is now on us, as consumers, to do the legwork to find out what’s in the things we use. “The biggest piece of advice is that because of lapses in regulation, parents have to become amateur investigators,” Leibe concludes. “They can’t rely on claims and advertising hype.” By increasing your knowledge and making smart choices, it is possible to make your home a greener and healthier place. So you can sleep better in more ways than one! Emma Steven is a British freelance writer living in Manhattan with her husband, two small kids, and two cats. Previously the Manhattan calendar editor for NYMetroparents.com, she writes about parenting and New York City. When asked about what she most misses about the UK she’s most likely to say British humor and least likely to say British weather.
LIU Post’s Center for Gifted Youth
announces its 38th annual summer program for gifted children. The summer
program runs on Monday to Friday from July 2-27. The program is open to gifted children entering grades 2-8 in September 2018. The program expands students’ knowledge, develops creative and critical thinking skills, and offers children the opportunity to learn in an exciting and accepting environment.
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Build A Budget That Works
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Stop living from paycheck to paycheck! Here’s how to make a spending plan that covers the things you need—and helps you save for the things you want. By Katelin Walling
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o you know how much, on average, you’ll spend each year on raising a child? $12,980, according to the U.S. Department of Agriculture if your child was born in 2015. That’s $233,610 over the course of your child’s underage years, ages newborn to 17. For good measure, add in another $51,000 for projected inflation. And that’s not even taking into consideration how much you’ll need to save if you want to buy a house for your family, pay for a chunk of your children’s college educations, or contribute to your retirement. Oh, and speaking of college: Most parents in their 20s and 30s are paying off their student loans, too. Is thinking about all of these numbers making your head spin? Before you panic, consider doing this: making a budget. It will help you “create realistic goals by understanding your spending and savings behaviors and make sure you don’t spend more than you earn,” says Keri Danielski, consumer finance expert and spokeswoman for Intuit’s money management tools Mint and Turbo. If you’re hoping the magic fix is cutting your daily latte habit or bringing a lunch from home instead of buying a $15 salad, you’re in for a rude awakening. While those small changes will certainly help you save money (as long as you actually save it), they’re only the start. What you really need to do is step back and take in the big picture of how much you earn—and spend. “I know a lot of people struggle with this, but it’s worth the struggle. I tell my clients all the time: This is the foundation to financial planning,” says Kristen Euretig, CFP, founder of Brooklyn 24
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Plans, a financial planning service geared toward women in their 20s to early 40s. “This is what’s coming in and going out every month, and if you can get this piece right, you can do everything else.” Before sitting down to tackle your finances, set yourself up for success by finding a system that both you and your partner feel comfortable using. “Whether it’s tracking everything manually in a spreadsheet or using a personal finance tracker like Mint to help track in real-time, you need something that works for you,” Danielski says. “This will make budgeting easier and more enjoyable for you.” Once you have a system figured out, creating your budget can be accomplished in four steps: Know how much you’re bringing in. Before you and your partner can even think about determining how much money to allocate to various expenses, you need to know your total net annual income. That’s how much you’re both taking home after taxes. “When we go to create a budget, we automatically go to the expenses side,” Euretig says. “But that side is meaningless if you don’t have the right income number because that’s how you actually figure out if you can afford your monthly expenses. So that’s the first step.” The easiest way to figure out your total net annual income, if you’re salaried employees, is to multiply your last paycheck amount by however many pay periods are in a year. This will be a little trickier for freelancers, Euretig notes.
Determine your current spending habits. “People tend to underestimate what they spend and overestimate what they save,” says Daniel D’Ordine, CFP, founder of DDO Advisory Services LLC, which offers financial planning, investment management, and insurance solutions for families and business owners in New York City, the Hudson Valley, and New England. “You have to get a very good sense of what your steady spending habits are.” He suggests reviewing 12 months of statements from credit cards and bank accounts to see what you actually spent in a year and on what. Categorize what you spent into fixed expenses (rent, transportation or commute, groceries, utilities, child care, etc.) and discretionary expenses (takeout, entertainment, clothes, gym memberships, vacations, birthday parties, etc.). Then use the total amount you spent in the past year as a baseline to determine an average monthly expenditure. “It’s as simple as knowing that we spend around $8,500 a month all-in,” D’Ordine says. This will help you figure out how much of your total net monthly income you have left over to save for various goals. Figure out your goals. First and foremost, D’Ordine suggests bulking up your emergency fund if you don’t have one. He advises keeping approximately three months of expenses in your savings account in case something happens, like you lose your job or your partner needs to take an extended leave. Then sit down together and write down your goals, “and be very realistic,” Danielski says. Do some research on how much these goals will cost and how long it will take to reach them—a down payment on a house, retirement, paying off debt (find tips at nymetroparents. com/decrease-debt). “Once you identify how much you need to start saving, you can figure out your budget,” Danielski adds. Periodically check in on your budget to make sure you’re meeting your goals. “I think that a monthly check-in provides accountability,” D’Ordine says. “So that when unexpected opportunities arise to spend money that maybe aren’t in the budget, something will go off in the individual’s brain that will say ‘this is going to come back to haunt me when we check in at the end of the month.’” “The more you’re aware of your spending and savings habits, the better you’ll be able to meet your budget goals,” adds Danielski, who suggests couples plan “money dates” out of the house to make these check-ins something to look forward to. “Weekly or bi-weekly meetings are helpful if you’re trying to cut back on spending habits,” she says. “Monthly and quarterly meetings may be a better fit if you’re checking in on the overall health of your budget and goals.” These periodic check-ins are also a good time to take a peek at your emergency fund. “If it’s being depleted, that means you’re spending more than your average monthly amount or you’re spending more than is coming in,” D’Ordine says. You’ll want to review your discretionary expenses to see what you can trim (find tips at nymetroparents.com/spending-cuts). But, D’Ordine adds, “if that emergency buffer is creeping up, then that extra money is what you can throw into the college fund or save for a down payment.” While all of this might seem like a massive undertaking, setting up a budget and attacking problem areas now will set you up for success down the road. “Once you’re cash-flow positive and you have more savings and you’re spending less than you earn, you can pay off debt, you can save for a home, you can save for other goals,” Euretig says. “So it’s really crucial and it’s worth the time to get right because it sets you up for literally anything else you want to do financially.”
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Welcome the spring season and celebrate Japanese culture at the Cherry Blossom Festival at Randall’s Island Park. There will be lots of paper flower making, face painting, kite flying, yo-yo balloon fishing, origami, kimono try-ons, crafts, games, and more. Expect performances from J.D. Patch Band, NY Suwa Taiko Drumming, and Taisan Tanaka Calligraphy, too. April 21, 12-4pm. Age: All. FREE. Randall’s Island Park, Fields 62/63. randallsisland.org.
Your imagination will soar with the help of live music and puppetry!
The Big Umbrella Festival at Lincoln Center is the world’s first month-long festival dedicated to performing arts programs for children on the autism spectrum and their families. Over the course of five weeks, there will be a wide range of experiences, including three original interactive theater productions, as well as relaxed performances across the LC campus. There will also be a symposium and various professional development opportunities for artists, arts professionals, and presenters interested in creating a learning community around neurodiversity and the arts. April 14-May 6, see website for times. Age: All. See website for ticketed event prices. Lincoln Center, Broadway and 65th Street. bigumbrellafestival.org.
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The museum is home to the private library of financier Pierpont Morgan and has expanded to include rare artifacts, books, music manuscripts, and more for visitors to see. Besides concerts, lectures, films, tours, and gallery talks, the museum hosts family programming, such as Morgan Explorers, which is a drop-in experience with hands-on activities to learn more about the library. Visit it: 225 Madison Ave., Murray Hill; 212-685-0008; themorgan.org Can’t-miss event: Spring Family Fair on April 15, 2-4:30pm Directions: Approximately a 1½-hour drive or LIRR and subway ride from Huntington Courtesy American Museum of Natural History
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There’s no prettier way to celebrate spring than by viewing Japanese cherry blossoms, also known as sakura.
A First-Of-Its-Kind Festival!
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Family Fun in Manhattan
American Museum of Natural History
As one of the world’s leading scientific and cultural institutions, the American Museum of Natural History offers a plethora of kid-friendly, educational exhibits to learn about dinosaurs, animals, fossils, space, and human origins. View the Titanosaur—a 122-foot-long dinosaur—on display in the Miriam and Ira D. Wallach Orientation Center, or take part in a self-guided tour throughout the museum. Visit it: Central Park West and 79th Street, Upper West Side; 212769-5100; amnh.org Can’t-miss event: Butterfly Conservatory through May 28: daily, 10am-5:45pm Directions: Approximately a 1½-hour drive or a 1-hour, 40-minute LIRR and subway ride from Huntington
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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS
Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the nine events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!
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‘Disney Live! Mickey and Minnie’s Doorway to Magic’
Baby Animal Weekend
WHEN: April 7-8, Saturday-Sunday, see website for times WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: Join Mickey Mouse, Minnie Mouse, and the comical duo of Donald and Goofy as 25 of your favorite Disney characters surprise and captivate at every turn of the knob. WHY WE LOVE IT: There are special appearances and you never know what to expect or who might join in the fun! WANT TO GO? $19 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.
‘Awesome Allie: First Kid Astronaut’
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WHEN: Through April 8: daily, 11am WHERE: Cradle of Aviation Museum, Charles Lindbergh Boulevard, Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Yesterday Allie was just a normal kid, but today she’s headed into outer space. Grab your space suit and get ready for an adventure that’s out of this world. WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids will have fun and learn some fascinating science facts along the way! WANT TO GO? $15; $13 seniors and for children 12 and younger. 516572-4066. cradleofaviation.org.
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Catapult
WHEN: Saturday, April 14, 8pm WHERE: Staller Center, Stony Brook University, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Catapult astounds the audience with seemingly impossible dancing shadow silhouettes. WHY WE LOVE IT: The group was a finalist in America’s Got Talent. WANT TO GO? $40. 631-632-6000. stallercenter.com.
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WHEN: Saturday, April 21, 12-5pm WHERE: Stony Brook Village Center, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the arrival of spring with music by Burke and Brenda, Walkie the Bear and WALK radio, petting zoo, Three Village School’s Art Show, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: A great way to get into the spirit of spring! WANT TO GO? 631-751-2244. stonybrookvillage.com. 28
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8 WHEN: April 7-22, Saturday-Sunday, 9am-5pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Meet and pet baby animals including rabbits, lambs, goats, and chicks. Family Fun Fields includes hayride and many attractions. WHY WE LOVE IT: Baby animals...we love ’em. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.
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Fling Into Spring Carnival
WHEN: April 20-22, Friday, 6-9pm; Saturday, 11am-9pm; Sunday, 11am-6pm WHERE: Heritage Center, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy rides, games, and food at the annual spring carnival at Heritage Park. WHY WE LOVE IT: Nothing kicks off spring better than a carnival! WANT TO GO? $1.25 per ticket; $30 pay-one-price. 631-509-0882. msheritagetrust.org.
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WHEN: Sunday, April 29, 10am-4:30pm WHERE: Long Island Hilton/Huntington, Grand Ballroom, 598 Broad Hollow Road, Melville AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy this celebration of life on Long Island for kids and their families. Included with admission is access to a bounce house, petting zoo, popcorn, photo booth, cotton candy, face painting, water ice samples, and balloon animals. WHY WE LOVE IT: There will be more than 80 exhibitors on hand, plus tons of kids’ classes for all ages to enjoy with their adults. WANT TO GO? $5; free for children younger than 3. 516-621-1446. allkidsfair.com.
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‘Stand Up! Stand Out! The Bullying Project’
WHEN: April 21-May 5, Saturdays, 11am WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 3-8 WHAT: It’s a bright spring day when Peg watches as Nellie is bullied on the playground and takes matters into her own hands. WHY WE LOVE IT: Features live actors, puppets, and a toe-tapping original score. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.
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‘Frog & Toad’
WHEN: April 21-May 12, Saturdays, 2pm; Sundays, 11:30am WHERE: Bayway Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: All WHAT: The beloved story of two great friends, the cheerful and popular frog and the rather grumpy toad, through four fun-filled seasons. WHY WE LOVE IT: Children will find these characters endearing. WANT TO GO? $13. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.
WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE
Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Spring Family Freshwater Fishing Festival FREE
WHEN: Saturday, April 7, 10am-4pm WHERE: Belmont Lake State Park, 625 Belmont Road, North Babylon AGES: All WHAT: Belmont Lake will be stocked with brown, brook, and rainbow trout on top of the lake’s large yellow perch population, providing a perfect opportunity to introduce families and friends to the wonderful sport of freshwater fishing. WANT TO GO? 631-667-5055. nysparks.com.
Treasure That Trash FREE
WHEN: Through April 15: Sunday-Friday, 10am-4pm WHERE: Ward Melville Heritage Organization, 97P Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Artists bring originality and imagination to their works and offer a whole new meaning to the phrase, “one man’s trash is another man’s treasure.” WANT TO GO? 631-689-5888. wmho.org.
ANIMAL LOVERS Spring Break: Animal Tracks: Who’s Been Here
WHEN: Thursday, April 5, 11am-3pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Learn to identify animal tracks and make your very own track to take home. WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org.
Spring Break: Live Animal Encounters
WHEN: April 2-6, Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, 2pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Learn about the hatchery’s reptiles and amphibians. WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org.
Stan and Yukon’s First Birthday Party
WHEN: Sunday, April 22, 11am-3pm WHERE: West Hills Day Camp, 21 Sweet Hollow Road, Huntington AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Enjoy carnival rides, bounce houses, face painting, balloon animals, DJ, games, local vendors, and giveaways. WANT TO GO? 631-427-6700. westhillscamp.com.
WHEN: Saturday, April 14, 12-2pm WHERE: Long Island Game Farm, 489 Chapman Blvd., Manorville AGES: All WHAT: There will be a special birthday celebration for two not-so-little red foxes. Take part in a red foxes Q-and-A, get your face painted like a fox, craft your own fox headband, or decorate your own fox cupcake or cookie. WANT TO GO? $16.95; $14.95 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 631-878-6644. longislandgamefarm.com.
Candy Sushi FREE
Long Island Game Farm Spring 2018 Opening Weekend
West Hills Spring Carnival FREE
WHEN: Friday, April 27, 6pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Learn how to make candy sushi out of Rice Krispies treats, Swedish Fish, and other candy. Registration and Westhampton Free Library card required. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
TulipFest FREE
WHEN: April 28-29, Saturday-Sunday, 9am-6pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Special weekend events include photo ops amid a gorgeous array of breathtaking tulips, perfect for family photos. WANT TO GO? 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.
WHEN: April 14-15, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Game Farm, 489 Chapman Blvd., Manorville AGES: All WHAT: Come meet and feed all the new babies, including chicks, ducklings, and kid goats. WANT TO GO? $16.95; $14.95 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 631-878-6644. longislandgamefarm.com.
Junior Olympics Horse Show FREE
WHEN: April 14-15, Saturday-Sunday, 9am-4pm WHERE: Thomas School of Horsemanship, 250 Round Swamp Road, Melville AGES: All WHAT: Riders in teams of three will compete in jumping classes with the hopes of earning a gold, silver, or bronze medal in each event. WANT TO GO? 631-692-6840. tshcamp.com. ›› LongIslandParent 29
WHAT: In honor of Earth Day, enjoy a hands-on afternoon celebrating conservation of the Long Island Sound. There will be tented activities for all ages, including a live touch tank, hands-on science experiments, art exhibit, and water monitoring station. WANT TO GO? 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.
Earth Day Mini Garden Keepsakes FREE
HOLIDAY FUN Penguin Egg Hunt
WHEN: Through April 1: Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Long Island Aquarium, 431 E. Main St., Riverhead AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Share the egg-citement at this annual egg hunt with prizes including a free birthday party, Family Fun Center vouchers, tour boat tickets, and rides on the submarine simulator. WANT TO GO? $29.50; $22.50 children ages 3-12. 631-208-9200. longislandaquarium.com.
Easter with the Chicks FREE
WHEN: Through April 1: Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Practice collecting eggs from real chickens, learn how chicks grow, how to take care of them, and hold a real chick. WANT TO GO? 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.
Easter Brunch + Day of Aquarium Fun
WHEN: Sunday, April 1, 10am, 12pm, and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Aquarium, 431 E. Main St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a buffet breakfast, make a special take-home holiday craft, and participate in a Penguin Egg Hunt. WANT TO GO? $54.95; $26.95 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 2. 631-208-9200. longislandaquarium.com.
Little Fishies: Junior Gardener
WHEN: Wednesday, April 11, 9-10am WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Celebrate Earth Day and learn about conservation. Create a garden-themed craft, listen to a storytime, participate in a museum hunt, and enjoy a snack with your little one. WANT TO GO? $12; $4 each sibling. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.
Ocean Blooms Tote Bag: Teen/Tween Drop-Off Program
WHEN: Wednesday, April 11, 4-5pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Discover ways to help the environment, including creating a reusable tie-dye tote bag. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.
Sound-Off! (Save Long Island Sound) FREE
WHEN: Sunday, April 22, 11am-3pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All 30
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WHEN: Monday, April 23, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Celebrate Earth Day by listening to a story and creating a keepsake to take home and plant. Registration and Westhampton Free Library card required. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
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WHEN: April 3-5, Tuesday-Thursday, 10-11:30am WHERE: The Ward Melville Heritage Organization’s Educational and Cultural Center, Stony Brook Village Center, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Music, songs, stories, activities, and movement with a spring theme. WANT TO GO? $35 per day. 631-751-2244. stonybrookvillage.com.
Music Together® Sing Shalom Preview Class FREE
WHEN: Friday, April 6, 10am WHERE: Chance To Dance, 140 N. Bell Mead Road, Suite F, Setauket AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: This new Music Together class brought to you by Lyrical Children combines multi-cultural, traditional, and original Music Together songs with a new Jewish repertoire. WANT TO GO? 631-246-9650.
The George Gee Swing Orchestra
WHEN: Saturday, April 7, 8pm WHERE: Suffolk Community College, 1001 Crooked Hill Road, Brentwood AGES: All WHAT: In more than 30 years of playing for dancing feet, the band has developed a special bond with lindy hoppers all around the world. Join in for a free swing dance workshop before the show at 7pm. WANT TO GO? $18; $10 for children younger than 17. 631-423-0620. familypetshows.com.
Long Island’s Got Talent
WHEN: Saturday, April 14, 2-5pm WHERE: Educational and Cultural Center, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Showcase your musical talent this Long Island’s Got Talent preliminary event. Submit a registration form along with the entry fee, an audition tape, and proof of age. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-751-2244. wmho.org.
Main Street Gallery Presents Singer-Songwriter Night
WHEN: Thursday, April 26, 7-10pm WHERE: Main Street Gallery, 213 Main St., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Singer-songwriters of all skill levels hone their craft, sing their songs, and play and talk about their original music. WANT TO GO? $5-$10. 631-271-8423. huntingtonarts.org.
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‘Elephant & Piggie’s We Are in a Play!’ Sensory Friendly Performance
WHEN: Monday, April 2, 6pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Introduce young people to theater with a comedic musical adventure, ripped from the pages of Mo Willems’ beloved, award-winning, best-selling children’s books. Sensory-friendly performances allow for individuals on the autism spectrum to attend theater performances in a more comfortable setting that includes lighting and sound adjustments. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.
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WHEN: Thursday, April 5, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Children with learning or developmental disabilities and their families will use various materials and found objects to create works inspired by American artist Louise Nevelson. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.
Soccer Stars
WHEN: April 15-22, Sundays, 1:15-2pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Class is geared to accommodate all levels of ability. Any participant needing extra help will be partnered with a teen volunteer to assist with full integration into the class. Register online. WANT TO GO? $18. 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.
Hip Hop FREE
431 E. Main Street, Riverhead | LongIslandAquarium.com Closed Christmas & Thanksgiving. *Admission must be used within 7 days of your birthday. No exceptions and no refunds for previously purchased tickets. Valid ID is required. No ID no admittance. Birthday offer cannot be combined with any other offer. Good for 2018.
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WHEN: April 18-25, Wednesdays, 5-5:45pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Participants with special needs will be partnered with teen volunteers to assist with full integration. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.
Teen Scene FREE
WHEN: Sunday, April 29, 1:15-2pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Teens get together to socialize and do crafts. Participants with special needs will be partnered with volunteers. Register online. WANT TO GO? 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.
Zumba
WHEN: April 9-30, Mondays, 5:45-6:30pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 5 and older WHAT: For all abilities, taught by a licensed instructor. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.
Creative Expeditions
WHEN: April 14-June 16, Saturdays, 10am WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Families will engage in interactive gallery experiences that provide opportunities for everyone to look at and talk about art in a group setting followed by hands-on art making activities. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org. ››
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SMARTY PANTS Spring Break Workshops
WHEN: April 2-4, Monday-Wednesday, 10am-12pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Activities include exploring gardens and natural history and dressing up like a butterfly or moth and comparing the two. Call to register. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.
Tween STEM stations FREE
MOVERS & SHAKERS KZAM Open Play
WHEN: April 2-6, Monday-Friday, 10am and 1pm WHERE: KZAM, 85 Sea Lane, Farmingdale AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy open play in the Grand Arena and Event Room. Register online. WANT TO GO? $14.95. 631-393-0801. kzamlongisland.com.
Patchogue Family YMCA 5K Run/Walk FREE
WHEN: Sunday, April 8, 9am WHERE: Shorefront Park, 255 W. Main St., Patchogue AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Proceeds benefit the Y’s Diabetes Prevention Program. WANT TO GO? 516-829-8374. elitefeats.com/ymca.
Parent Palooza FREE
WHEN: Saturday, April 14, 1-3pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Meet with various community organizations and learn about the different year-round or summer activities, classes, and programs and services. Westhampton Free Library card required. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
AHRC Suffolk’s Annual Polar Bear Splash
WHEN: Saturday, April 21, 10am WHERE: Bay Shore Marina, South Clinton Avenue, Bayshore AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Support AHRC Suffolk’s mission to provide programs and services to those with intellectual and developmental disabilities on Long Island. WANT TO GO? $20; $10 students; free for children younger than 13. 631-585-0100. ahrcsuffolk.org.
Karaoke Night FREE
WHEN: Friday, April 27, 6-8:30pm WHERE: Connetquot Public Library, 760 Ocean Ave., Bohemia AGES: All WHAT: Bring your family and friends to sing with you or to be your audience. WANT TO GO? 631-567-5079. connetquotlibrary.org.
Warrior Courses Wednesdays
WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Wednesdays, 6-8pm WHERE: Sky Zone Mount Sinai, 269 Route 25A, Mount Sinai AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Run the course as many times as you like. Get your name posted on the Leader Board. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-938-1420. skyzone.com/mountsinai. 32
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WHEN: Wednesday, April 4, 1pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Tweens will attempt to construct objects using a variety of materials. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
On the Water Series: ‘Working the Waters’
WHEN: Sunday, April 8, 11am-2pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Meet local Baymen from the North and South Shores of Long Island and discover how they harvest oysters, clams, and other shellfish. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children ages 4-18; free for children younger than 4. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.
After School Lego League
WHEN: April 5-12, Thursdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids will put their Lego skills to the test with a new challenge every week. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.
Family Coding Night FREE
WHEN: Friday, April 13, 5pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn how to use the Cosmo Robot and learn about other coding games. Registration and required. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
Engineer’s Club
WHEN: Saturday, April 14, 10-11am WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Children enjoy a series of STEM-based activities including popsicle stick bridges, household chemistry, and basic circuitry. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.
Mommy & Me
WHEN: Through April 19: Thursdays; 6-11 months: 10-10:45am; 12-20 months: 11am-12pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: Newborn to 2, adult WHAT: Unique creative arts Mommy & Me is a time to bond with your child while exploring music, singing, arts and crafts, bubbles, parachute play and more. Registration required. No class April 2. WANT TO GO? 631-351-8672. thechaicenter.com.
Museum Adventures
WHEN: Thursday, April 26, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook
AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Visit the Carriage Museum and learn all about transportation on a 19th-century city street. Then enjoy art projects. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.
Dinosaurs: Land of Fire and Ice™
WHEN: Through May 13: 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Travel back to the Cretaceous Period and come face to face with dinosaurs of all sizes in their prehistoric environments. The immersive bilingual exhibit takes you to two dinosaur habitats and a Field Research Station. WANT TO GO? $13; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.
CRAFTY KIDS
Buffed Copper Relief Sculpture FREE
WHEN: Tuesday, April 3, 2-3pm WHERE: East Hampton Library, 159 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Design your own geometric relief sculpture from tooling copper. WANT TO GO? 631-324-0222. easthamptonlibrary.org.
Build-a-Boat Workshop
WHEN: April 3-5, Tuesday and Thursday, 2-4pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Bring your imagination to create a wooden vessel. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.
Constellation Scarf FREE
WHEN: Monday, April 16, 3:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Be inspired by the great, big mysterious sky and create a oneof-a-kind galaxy scarf. Registration and Westhampton Free Library card required. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
Learn to Draw with Art Teacher Amy
WHEN: April 10-24, Tuesdays, 4:15-5:15pm WHERE: Learn to Draw, 18 Ketcham Ave., Amityville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn to draw and paint using various mediums. WANT TO GO? $20. 206-484-7711. artteacheramy.com.
Mud Everywhere FREE
WHEN: Thursday, April 26, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Participants will listen to a “muddy” story and then create a mud cup treat to eat. Registration and Westhampton Free Library card required. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
Plaster Craft Hour
WHEN: April 13-27, Fridays, 12:45-1:45pm WHERE: Lyrical Children’s Preschool & Learning Center, 4492 Middle Country Road, Calverton AGES: 3-5, adult WHAT: Create a special plaster craft creation. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-208-4003. lyricalchildren.com. ››
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WHEN: Thursday, April 5, 10am-12pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Create works inspired by artist Louise Nevelson. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.
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Family Drop-In Day
WHEN: Friday, April 6, 11am-1pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Join museum educators for activities and crafts. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 students ages 6-17; free for children younger than 6. 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.
Hands-On Art
WHEN: Thursday, April 12, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Discuss different paintings in Jane Peterson: At Home and Abroad, then enjoy art projects inspired by Peterson’s works. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.
Long Island’s Best: Young Artists at the Heckscher Museum
WHEN: Through April 15: Wednesday-Friday, 10am-5pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Heckscher Museum of Art, 2 Prime Ave., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: View juried artwork from high school students across Long Island. WANT TO GO? $8; $5 students; free for children younger than 10. 631351-3250. heckscher.org.
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The Hampton Ballet Theatre School Presents: ‘Coppelia’
WHEN: April 20-22, Friday, 7pm; Saturday, 1pm and 7pm; Sunday, 2pm WHERE: Guild Hall - John Drew Theater, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 3 and older WHAT: The courtship of Swanhilda and Franz, and the doll, Coppelia, who Franz mistakenly courts, will entertain all. WANT TO GO? $20-$50. 631-324-4050. guildhall.org.
‘Swan Lake’
WHEN: Saturday, April 28, 2pm and 7pm WHERE: Westhampton Beach Performing Arts Center, 76 Main St., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A cast of local ballerinas take on Tchaikovsky’s popular ballet. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-288-1500. whbpac.org.
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SHOW TIME! Plaza Theatrical Presents ‘Sleeping Beauty’
WHEN: Wednesday, April 4, 11am WHERE: Levittown Hall, 201 Levittown Parkway, Hicksville AGES: All WHAT: A quirky adaptation of the popular tale. WANT TO GO? $6; free for children 2 and younger. 516-933-6400. levittownchamber.com.
‘Mary and the Witch’s Flower’
WHEN: Saturday, April 7, 11am WHERE: Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A girl discovers a flower that grants magical powers for one night. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 12. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org.
‘The Wedding Singer’
WHEN: Through April 14: Saturdays, 8pm; Sundays, 2:30pm WHERE: Bayway Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Rock star wannabe Robbie Hart is the life of the party until his fiancée leaves him at the altar. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.
‘Aladdin’
WHEN: Through April 14: Saturdays, 2pm WHERE: Bayway Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: All WHAT: A musical adventure filled with magic, mayhem, and flying carpets. WANT TO GO? $13. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.
‘The Adventures of Peter Rabbit’
WHEN: Through April 14: Saturdays, 11am WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Peter, Flopsy, Mopsy, Cotton-Tail, Benjamin Bunny, the McGregors, and all of their friends come to life in this delightful adaption. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.
‘You’re a Good Man, Charlie Brown’
WHEN: April 13-14, Friday-Saturday, 7pm WHERE: Westhampton Beach Performing Arts Center, 76 Main St., Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Join Charlie Brown, Lucy, and Snoopy in this musical celebration. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-288-1500. whbpac.org. 34
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WHEN: Through April 29: Saturdays, 2pm; Sundays, 11am; WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Based on the story Oh, the Thinks You Can Think!. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.
THE GREAT OUTDOORS Spring Break: Nature’s Gardeners
WHEN: Tuesday, April 3, 11am-3pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Learn about nature’s gardeners with an up-close look at earthworms and how bees pollinate plants. WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org.
Spring Fling: Discovery Backyard Annual Opening Event FREE
WHEN: Saturday, April 14, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: East Islip Public Library, 381 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 3-12 WHAT: There will be nature activities for the entire family to enjoy and a visit with the animals of Green Meadows Farm. WANT TO GO? 631-581-9200 x6. eipl.org.
Spring Festival
WHEN: Saturday, April 28, 10am-4:30pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the change of seasons with environmental exhibitions, live animal encounters, kids’ fishing, and more. WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org.
Coming up next month: MAY 3: Whale of a Mom at The Whaling Museum & Education Center, Cold Spring Harbor MAY 20: AHRC Suffolk’s Superhero Run for a Reason 5K at Smith Point Park, Shirley MAY 27: Annual Community Mosaic Street Painting Festival at East End Arts, Riverhead
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They say April showers bring May flowers, but why should a little rain stop you from getting outside? With the onset of warmer weather (and quite frankly more daylight now that we have sprung forward for Daylight Saving Time), there is no excuse to hibernate at home anymore. Get out to a farmers’ market to gather local, in-season produce or head to a fundraising walk to support a cause. Minor league baseball season is also around the corner, which is always a great reason to root for your home team. And finally, books are always in season, so there’s no reason why you shouldn’t pay a visit your local bookstore to sharpen your child’s mind and imagination.
FARMERS’ MARKETS Port Jefferson Winter Farmers’ Market
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Port Jefferson Village Center, 101-A E. Broadway, Port Jefferson portjeff.com/port-jeff-farmers-market Through May: Sundays, 10am-2pm Enjoy a selection of locally sourced goods such as produce, honey, bread, baked goods, and plants. The market moves outdoors to the Jeanne Garant Harborfront Park May-November. Find more>> farmers’ markets in Suffolk County at nymetroparents.com/farmers-markets.
Long Island Ducks mascot QuackerJack enjoys time with a family during one of the team’s regular season home games.
MINOR LEAGUE BASEBALL Long Island Ducks
Bethpage Ballpark, 3 Court House Drive, Central Islip liducks.com Season begins April 27; home game on May 4 Tickets: $12-$15; discounts for groups of 25 or more Kids ages 14 and younger can join the Kids Club for discounts and special events. Members are invited to Kids Club Day, when they can go on a behind-the-scenes tour of Bethpage Ballpark and get a chance to run the bases. Find more>> local minor league teams at nymetroparents.com/ballparks.
FUNDRAISING WALKS NAMIWalks Long Island/Queens
41 Main St., East Hampton 631-324-4939; bookhampton.com This well-curated shop has a wide selection of books to keep eager readers entertained, and can order any book you don’t find at the store.
Jones Beach, 1 Ocean Parkway, Wantagh namiwalks.org Supporting the National Alliance on Mental Illness, these walking events collectively are the largest and most successful mental illness awareness events in America. Funds raised at these walks support NAMI’s mission to build better lives for the 60 million Americans who experience a mental health condition each year. Join the Long Island/Queens walk May 5.
Find more>> children’s bookstores in Suffolk County at nymetroparents.com/bookstores.
Find more>> fundraising walks in Suffolk County at nymetroparents.com/walks.
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PartyCentral PARTY ENTERTAINMENT THE FOOD WIZARD FOR KIDS Serving all of Long Island 631-606-2680 thefoodwizardforkids.com info@thefoodwizardforkids.com Try a healthy twist on birthday parties! The Food Wizard for Kids provides birthday party workshops for younger children. Kids discover new foods through fun activities including taste tests and art projects. MAD SCIENCE OF LONG ISLAND Call for locations throughout Long Island: 855-264-1672 madscienceli.com info@madscienceli.com A Mad Scientist brings all the necessary equipment to you. Party packages include invitations and a take-home activity each child makes. Optional grand finales include Bubbling Potions, Rockets, and Cotton Candy. SPIN DJ ACADEMY 202 Merrick Road, 2nd floor, Rockville Centre 16 Broadway, Amityville 631-608-8858 spindjacademy.com Put together a personalized DJ dance party in your home. We’ll bring kids DJ equipment and instruments to play and create an amazing experience for your child!
PARTY PLACES @ PLAY AMUSEMENTS 229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com Have your next party at the newly renovated @ Play Amusements! It offers 40,000-square-feet of fun ranging from 92 arcade games, inflatables, and bumper cars to a roller coaster, carousel, disco room, and laser tag! BOUNCEU FARMINGDALE 101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com BounceU Farmingdale was voted “Best of Long Island” for Children’s Party Place and Family Amusement Center. We provide the ideal combination of inflatable structures, a clean environment, incredible customer service, and non-stop excitement in a private party atmosphere. CELEBRATIONS IN THE KITCHEN 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville
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What Makes Toddlers Tick Why toddlers do the weird things they do.
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y toddler will not keep his clothes on. Seconds upon entering our apartment he strips down to his diaper and pretty much stays like that until it’s time to leave again. He also answers almost every question with a “no,” and will only eat out of a green bowl. While we entertain this weirdness because he is only 2, it turns out it might not be so weird after all. I’m sure most parents of toddlers have at least a few things they consider out-of-the-ordinary behavior, and like me, find themselves constantly chasing after a naked dictator while dodging attacks from his green bowl. Toddlers are new to this earth and are figuring things out at their own speed and in their own weird way. Read on for some of the strangest things they do, and why they do them.
No Means No
Chances are if you ask a toddler a question, you will be met with… “No!” “Do you want to go outside?” “No.” “Do you want to eat dinner?” “No.” “How about you put some pants on.” “No!” That last one wasn’t really a question, but you get my drift. So what’s with the negative attitude, tots? Turns out, it’s not 40
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really so negative. Toddlers who are learning to express themselves use “no” as way to assert their independence and gain just a bit of control in a world where they are constantly told what to do and when to do it. “Toddlers are gaining independence from their parents. Up until about eighteen months or so, kids really feel as though they are one with their mom (or primary caregiver). Their little brains don’t have the maturity to understand seeing the perspective of another person,” says Amy Webb, creator of the blog thoughtfulparent.com, who has a doctorate in Human Development and Family Sciences and is mom of two. “So as they are gaining this independence, they want to ‘do it myself’ for just about everything, and this could include dressing or just about anything else.” While hearing “no” from your toddler all day long can be increasingly frustrating, just know it means your little one is growing up and growing into herself. Here’s what you can do if your child’s refusal is becoming a bit too much: • Offer choices. Instead of telling your child to put pants
on, ask what color pants he would like to wear today. This leaves little room for a negative answer. • Make it a learning game. Help your child count how many peas are left on her plate as she eats them one at a time. Make it fun! • Watch your language. Toddlers are sponges and will pick up your behavior. Instead of telling your spouse, “No, I’m not watching another episode of The Bachelor tonight,” try saying, “How about we watch a movie we will all enjoy.” • Don’t back down. Toddlers can be defiant, but they need their parents to set boundaries. If what your child is saying no to is a non-negotiable, stand your ground. It will get better.
Again, Again!
I have seen Moana at least 50 times. While it’s a great movie, I’m ready to move on. In fact, since starting this article we have moved on…I am currently on my 20th viewing of Trolls. Ughhhhh. When my toddler finds a movie he likes, he will watch it every day, sometimes twice a day. Melissa Robles from Kew Gardens, Queens, has the same issue with her 2½-year-old. “Gracie is obsessed with reading Green Eggs and Ham. She would have me read it to her ten times in a day, and on more than one occasion, I have,” she says. While this repetition is frustrating for parents, it’s extremely comforting for little ones. “Toddlers really thrive on repetition and it makes them feel safe and it’s also exciting and fun to them,” says Tanya Altmann, M.D., pediatrician, mother, and author of Baby & Toddler Basics: Expert Answers to Parents’ Top 150 Questions. “They like patterns, they like counting the steps walking up to preschool the same way every day, and will get mad if you skip a step.” Toddlers rely on repetitive behavior to know what to expect. Their communication skills are so minimal at this age that knowing what to expect is, in fact, key to their health and happiness. Repetition is actually a great tool for parents, too because if you stick to the same routine, your toddler will know what’s expected of him and will likely do it. Dr. Altmann suggests using this behavior to your advantage. “The good thing about repetition is that you can change any toddler behavior that you want to change. Whether it’s getting them to sleep through the night or eat green vegetables, as long as you’re consistent for a week and offer positive reinforcements and ignore undesired behavior, you can change their behavior,” she says.
Nudity, Nose Picking, and Head Banging
No, this is not the name of the latest Tarantino film, but rather three distinct (and strange) behaviors you might witness from your little one. As I mentioned earlier, the main problem we deal with in our family is getting my toddler to keep his clothes on. While
we manage to keep our little nudist contained at home, sometimes he starts stripping in public. Toddlers have no concept of what’s socially acceptable, so they don’t really see this as a problem. Same goes for nose picking. If your toddler has an itch or a booger, she will stick her finger up her nose because she doesn’t realize it’s a gross thing to do. Teaching your toddler social cues and what’s expected of him in the house and outside of the house will go a long way to making his behavior more acceptable. As for head banging, that’s a bit different. Some toddlers will bang their heads against their crib at night or before falling asleep for a nap. While this behavior can seem worrisome or outright scary, it’s actually completely normal and a way for your toddler to self-soothe. Often head banging happens at night as way for her to get herself to sleep. She is soothed by the rhythm she is creating and will most likely outgrow it in no time.
When to Worry
Toddlers definitely display some strange behaviors from time to time, but there are certain behaviors that could raise a red flag. For instance if your child is using the above-mentioned head banging as a way of cutting off interaction from you and others, it might be time to reach out to your pediatrician. Also, “if your child consistently is testing limits to the point where it’s driving you crazy and it’s disrupting everyone in the house and causing a lot of extra stress, that could be a sign that there is something else going on with your toddler, and you may want to talk to your pediatrician,” Dr. Altmann says. Rafi Bilek, LCSW, director of Baltimore Therapy Center, suggests parents watch out for certain behaviors, as they may be indicators of something more serious going on, such as autism or a behavioral disorder: • Regression in language or motor skills (e.g., child was using many words but then can’t seem to speak in words at all; child was running but now can’t seem to walk) • Child screams for hours without a break • Child clutches at private parts anxiously (possible sign of sexual abuse) • Child is violent to the point of causing serious injury to self or others As the parent, you know your child. If any of your toddler’s behaviors seem really strange or off to you, make an appointment with his pediatrician or even ask to chat over the phone. That’s what they’re there for. Raising a toddler is one of the most challenging times for parents—they don’t call it the Terrible 2s for nothing. One thing I know for sure is my toddler is weird (but adorable!), and it’s my job as his mom to help him feel comfortable and safe enough to let his little freak flag fly.
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Find out what being a counselor-in-training really means, and what camp directors look for in their trainees. By Lambeth Hochwald
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f you’re the parent of a teen who lives for anything related to camp, now might be the time to talk to him about applying for a summer job as a counselor-in-training. Turns out, becoming a CIT is the next best thing to being a camper because your teen will get firsthand experience and job training, and have a little fun, too.
How Do I Know My Child Is Ready?
Your teenager may have set up many a lemonade stand or sold Girl Scout cookies, but for most kids a CIT position will be their first job. As a parent, you’ll know that your teen is a great CIT candidate if he or she is extra trustworthy. “An important question for parents to consider is, ‘Would I trust my teen to watch other people’s children?’ suggests Michael Halpern, director of Mosholu Day Camp in the Bronx. If your answer is yes, “That’s usually a good sign that you, as a parent, think that your child would be a great counselor-in-training.” Also ask yourself how reliable your teen is, says Colleen Barnhart, camp director at Camp Claire in Lyme, CT. “When you ask him or her to do something and walk away, does it get done?” she asks. Again, if you’re able to answer ‘yes’ to this question, your child probably is conscientious enough to make a good CIT. To help your teen get ready for the job, give her responsibilities around the house and hold her accountable, Barnhart says. “Assign her chores, show her exactly how to do them by participating with her as a partner, and then have her do that task alone the next week. If she messes up, don’t tell her that it is not her fault. Instead, be constructive. Tell her it’s okay because she is learning and show her how to do better next time.” There’s one more important character trait your child should have: He should really love camp. At Mosholu, for example, 95 42 April 2018 | nymetroparents.com
percent of CITs are ex-campers, and supervisors there have worked up the ranks all the way from their days as campers to unit leader. “The perfect CIT is one who grew up in my camp because they know how things go,” Halpern says. “That’s even more important to us than an application filled with babysitting experience. The fact that you’ve been in camp means that you know about the group dynamic,” Halpern explains. “As CITs, you’re not going to be oneon-one with a child ever, so we need to know that you’ve had that experience interacting in groups.” Last of all, make sure your teen has the right motivation for applying for a CIT job. Does he want to work with kids, or does he just want to be back at camp? “CIT work is hard work,” Barnhart says. “To know if your child is really ready to be a CIT, ask what his goals are for the summer. Be sure he’s clear on why he wants this job.”
The Qualities Camp Directors Value
One of the key qualities of a CIT is an eagerness to learn. “I want my CITs to take on a leadership role and add more responsibilities as they get experiences,” says Peter Corbin, founder and director of Corbin’s Crusaders Sports Club in Greenwich, CT, who hires five to 10 CITs each summer. “When they come to us as a CIT they don’t have a lot of experience. That’s why at the beginning we give them a taste of responsibility, and as they get more and more successful, we give them more. If they’re not as successful, we’ll give them more direction.” The other qualities camp directors look for include good communication skills, maturity, responsibility, respect, care for others, interest in working and engaging with children, teamwork, and initiative, Barnhart says.
“At the beginning, initiative looks like being a willing buddy to a camper for trips to the bathroom or nurse,” she explains. “It’s also helping campers clean their area without being asked, and starting games with campers during downtime...Initiative is one of many qualities that is important for a camp staff to function as a team, because that is what we essentially are when it comes down to it.” Familiarity with the camp can also be an important factor when a teen is hired to be a CIT, Halpern says. “We look at the type of camp they went to and if their camp was similar to ours,” he says. In the end, a meeting without the parents present is a critical part of most hiring procedures. “We like to have a conversation with teens— without their parents there—so we can speak to their maturity and their abilities to be outgoing and friendly,” Halpern says.
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What Kids Can Expect From a CIT Program
As a CIT, your teen may stay with her assigned bunk or switch around the camp depending on the need for extra help. She could be asked to pitch in on a variety of tasks, such as setting up the baseball fields before campers arrive (including making sure all the equipment is in place), assisting the arts and crafts counselors, or helping the swim instructors. “Typically we give the CITs the option to either be with a group or with an activity,” Corbin says. “I’ve had CITs learn how to become swim instructors and ultimately work as lifeguards, while others tend to work with a particular age group all summer.” Regardless, CITs should expect to always have someone supervising them. Your child should also be prepared for long, tiring days. “CITs tend to get tired very easily because they’re working the full day and may have never done so before,” Corbin says. “They realize quickly that the work isn’t always easy, but it’s also really wonderful to see their sense of pride in the job—they often tell me how cool it was to work with such and such kids, or do a particular job.” In addition, Barnhart says that while CITs should expect fun lessons and team-building activities, they should also realize that, unlike camp itself, not every second is going to be fun. “Working at a camp is a lot of hard, sometimes gross work, especially at resident camps where we are on duty twenty hours a day, six days a week,” she says. “CITs will get tired and frustrated, but it is all part of the process of maturing and learning how to be a camp counselor.” Another thing your child needs to realize is he will in all likelihood not get paid. CITs “are legally campers, so they pay to attend, but we write them letters for community service hours,” Barnhart says. Of course, CIT experience may lead to a paid counselor job in future years. For some kids, it can be a bit of a transition to move from camper to counselor. Barnhart understands this. “I firmly believe in giving CITs the chance to grow into the role and rise to expectations, which is why I don’t call them ‘kids’ anymore,” she says. “They are no longer campers, except legally, so we start treating them like the young adults they are. They are never in charge of supervision but they certainly can assist us with it.” In the end, consider this: Being a CIT is essentially one giant job interview for the next year. “We look for CITs to use feedback to grow,” Barnhart says. “We constantly give CITs feedback on how they are doing, what their strengths are, what we would like to see more of, and specifically what negative behaviors we would like them to be aware of and change. A great CIT will often go out of their way to ask for feedback...reflect on it, and actively try to do better.” That feedback loop is what will enable your teen to become a CIT and then, hopefully, be asked back as a counselor for a future summer.
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Camps for Older Kids Art League of Long Island Summer Art Adventure
30 DeForest Road, Dix Hills Summer Pre-College Portfolio Development 107 E. Deer Park Road, Dix Hills 631-462-5400 artleagueli.org info@artleague.org The Art League of Long Island’s Summer Art Adventure Mature Artist Program offers tweens and young teens ages 11-14 an intensive and exciting visual arts experience hosted at the Forest Park Elementary School in Dix Hills. In the Summer Portfolio Program, teens ages 15-18 work under the guidance of Lucas Sheridan, an experienced high school studio art teacher, to create a well-rounded portfolio essential for admission to their favorite college. Summer Portfolio takes place in the art studios at the Art League’s center in Dix Hills.
Camp Clio
Held at Camp Claire 15 Oakland Ave., Lyme, CT Middlesex County Camp 298 E. Haddam Moodus Road, Moodus, CT 212-472-5207 campclio.org Camp Clio and our new Camp Clio Teen offer a unique experience for adopted children (ages 9-12) and teens (ages 13-16). Camp Clio campers and counselors, themselves adopted and serving as role models, share the intimacy and safety of being with other adopted friends, providing the opportunity to share feelings and adoption stories with others who understand adoption without explanation because they are “just like me”—all in a fun camp environment. Camp Clio Teen: July 1-13. Camp Clio Youth: July 1-21. Campers may come for one or more sessions. Scholarships available.
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campsrus.org info@campsrus.org Camps ‘R’ Us Teen and Tween Programs. Seventh and eighth graders comprise our most senior camper division. Tweens and teens enjoy a dynamic summer camp experience, with a combination of traditional day camp activities and a flexible program providing an array of choice-based programming, electives, and workshops. Campers also enjoy unique on and off-campus programming, with exclusives just for seventh and eighth graders. Learn more at campsrus.org/division-78. The C2 Program is for campers who have completed ninth grade. It’s our version of a Counselor-In-Training program, designed specifically to fully assist in the transition from camper to staff member. Learn more at campsrus.org/c2-program.
Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium Nature Summer Camp
1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfishhatchery.org steved@cshfishhatchery.org Naturalist in Training (NIT) at the CSH Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, for students in eighth to 12th grades. Students will learn what it is like to work at a summer camp, gaining leadership skills and participating in fun, outdoor adventures. NITs work in a team assisting hatchery education staff and become small group leaders during camp activities. There are opportunities throughout the summer to participate in at least one week of camp. Naturalists in Training must have participated in Junior Biologists in previous years. Exceptions for students entering ninth to 12th grades will be made on a case-by-case basis.
Destination Science The fun science day camp for curious kids 5 to 11!
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888-909-2822 destinationscience.org Leaders in Training is a handson leadership experience for kids entering seventh to 11th grades. Perfect for graduates of Destination Science camp, student body officers, or any students interested in gaining real-world leadership experience. Has your teen previously participated in our camp experience and mentioned how they wish they could still be involved with Destination Science? Are they looking for something new and exciting to do this summer and to add real leadership experience to their school resumes? They may want to consider becoming a Leader in Training with Destination Science!
East End Arts School
141 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-369-2171 eastendarts.org education@eastendarts.org East End Arts Fine Arts and Music Camps allow tweens to immerse themselves in their passion. Our award- winning camps provide experiences for campers to grow creatively in the arts. These one-week programs are designed to bring out each camper’s unique, artistic ability in a fun, supportive atmosphere. Our professional instructors are talented in their field and group sizes are small for personal mentoring. This summer our offerings include Drawing and Painting, Sculpture, Mixed Media, Group Guitar, Rock That Band!, Singing Camp, and Intro To Recording Studio!
Eglevsky Ballet
700 Hicksville Road, Suite 102, Bethpage 516-746-1115 eglevskyballet.org Eglevsky Ballet, under the artistic direction of Maurice Brandon Curry, provides professional caliber training for students of all ages and abilities. Eglevsky presents an annual production of The Nutcracker, two summer intensives, master classes, performing opportunities, and
community education. The July Summer Intensive is geared toward serious dancers. This is a full-day program, with classes in ballet, pointe, variations, modern, jazz, character, Pilates, and pas de deux. Housing is available. The August Summer Intensive is a half-day program, Monday-Friday, and focuses on development of ballet fundamentals.
Future Stars Summer Camps
The College at Old Westbury, Old Westbury 516-876-3490 Farmingdale State College 2350 Broadhollow Road, Farmingdale St. Joseph’s College 155 W. Roe Blvd., Patchogue fscamps.com Future Stars Summer Camps offer weekly Sports, STEAM, and Specialty camp programs at three outstanding collegiate locations (The College at Old Westbury, Farmingdale State College, and St Joseph’s College Patchogue). Programs are offered to boys and girls entering kindergarten-ninth grade. Future Stars programs help campers improve their skills in their chosen activities and a balanced day ensures the perfect blend of instruction and fun. Stop by open house events to view the facilities, meet the staff, and take advantage of enrollment savings. See you in the summer!
Gersh Academy at West Hills Day Camp
21 Sweet Hollow Road, Huntington 631-427-6700 gershsummerprogram.com scott@westhillscamp.com At West Hills Day Camp, campers entering sixth and seventh grades can enjoy a traditional camp program or our Junior Travel program that incorporates camp days, day trips, and extended overnight trips covering the East Coast and Canada. Teens entering eighth, ninth, and 10th grades have three options: a day camp experience, a Leadership in Training Program (LIT), and Teen Travel. LITs have the opportunity for peer socialization
and also receive mentored handson training working at our camp. Travel combines day trips and overnight travel trips including weeklong experiences.
Great Strides Long Island
41 Coram-Swezeytown Road, Middle Island 631-786-9708 greatstridesli.org julie@greatstridesli.org Great Strides offers equestrian activities for children and adults of all ages and abilities. Our equine friends can help us face all of life’s challenges with strength and confidence. Our programs are hosted on a beautiful 15-acre ranch featuring three outdoor rings and a heated indoor arena. We offer a warm, friendly environment supervised by seasoned, certified instructors. Offering summer programs, a weeklong introduction to horses in July and August. Private lessons are available for English and Western students. Ask about riding lessons, birthday parties, Therapeutic Riding and scholarship opportunities. Email julie@greatstridesli.org for more information.
iD Tech Camps
1-844-788-1858 idtech.com iD Tech is the world’s No. 1 summer STEM program for ages 7-18 held at 150 prestigious universities including Stony Brook University, NYIT-Old Westbury, Adelphi, Queens College, NYU, and Columbia. With worldclass instructors and innovative courses in coding, game development, robotics, and design, our programs instill in-demand skills that embolden students to shape the future. Learn more at idtech.com.
Kenwal Day Camp
100 Drexel Ave., Melville 631-694-3399 kenwaldaycamp.com Kenwal Day Camp, the “camp that cares,” fosters a positive attitude and high self-esteem in its campers, ages 3-15, who participate, have fun, and try their best. Situated on 20 magnificent acres with nature trails, a man-made lake, and the finest facilities and equipment. Campers enjoy hours of exploration, excitement, and maximum
attention from our staff. Activities include inflatable water park, mini golf, arts and crafts, sports, theater, dance, swimming, zip lines, go-karts, rope rappelling, and special events. We provide an atmosphere filled with memories that your child will cherish forever.
Kenwal Day Camp-Extreme Teens Travel Program
100 Drexel Ave., Melville 631-694-3399 kenwaldaycamp.com Extreme Teens Travel Program. Kenwal’s Extreme Teens Travel Program is the perfect blend of outdoor camp activities, as well as overnight and local travel experiences. The program creates an opportunity for campers in seventh to 11th grades, to enjoy an unforgettable summer on the road with their peers. Additionally, Extreme Teens will enjoy the comforts of home during camp days and local day trips. Our extreme teen program is a chance for campers to be active, confident, and resilient; unplug from technology; develop lifelong skills; grow more independent; learn social skills; and make true friends.
Key to My Art Inc.
10 W. Oak St., Amityville 131 Main St., East Rockaway 631-608-9048 keytomyart.com/nymetroparents.html info@keytomyart.com Camps for Tweens and Teens. Join us at Key to My Art this summer to create some amazing art projects! We offer a 2-hour afternoon art-making camp session for your children ages 8 and older! We work in all mediums, from drawing and painting to clay and collage. Each week we follow a special theme, and every day is a new project. We have flexible scheduling: You can book one day, one week, one month, or the entire summer. The more you book, the more you save!
Kids Country Day Camp
37 Crystal Brook Hollow Road, Mount Sinai 631-331-5351 kidscountrydaycamp.com Ten acres of indoor and outdoor adventure, sports, activities, and special events. Kids take part in more than 50 fun exciting activities including
field and court sports, arts and crafts, dance, rockets, talent show, glow party, giant water slide, pedal karts, and challenge course. Camp program includes eight weeks excluding July 4 holiday. Various combinations of weeks and days available. Activity hours are 9am-4pm. Extended care from 7am-6pm. Rates include lunch, snack, refreshments, towel service, arts and crafts and activity materials, sports equipment, two camp shirts, and accident insurance.
Knox School Summer Adventures
541 Long Beach Road, St. James 631-686-1600 x414 knoxschool.org/summer-programs/ summer-adventures ndezenzo@knoxschool.org Summer Adventures at the Knox School is Long Island’s best kept camp secret! Located in St. James on the shores of Stony Brook Harbor, our picturesque waterfront campus is 48 rolling acres. Kids in kindergarten through 10th grade can get away from the stress of the school year and enjoy good old-fashioned fun in the great outdoors! Knox offers flexible scheduling, choose the days and weeks best for your child to attend camp. Before- and after-care program fully staffed by adult professionals available 7am and until 6pm. Now offering nine weeks!
LIU Post Center for Gifted Youth
Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, director LIU Post, Brookville 516-299-2160 liu.edu/giftedyouth The Long Island University program for gifted children was established in 1979 in response to the increasing recognition of society’s special responsibilities for children with demonstrably superior intellectual ability. The LIU Center for Gifted Youth brings together two important elements of education for the gifted: extraordinary teachers recruited from leading schools in the metropolitan area and university-level facilities. These two factors, combined with an administrative and psychological team schooled in the needs of gifted children, give the program at LIU Post unique strengths in producing positive benefits for young people admitted to the program.
Long Island High School for the Arts Summer Arts Academy: sixth to 12th grades
239 Cold Spring Road, Syosset 516-622-5678 nassauboces.org/lihsa The Long Island High School for the Arts offers a four-week Summer Arts Academy that promises to be a rewarding experience for all aspiring artists sixth through 12th grade. The program offers students professional-level classes designed to provide challenging artistic opportunities taught by practicing artists. Students have the choice to focus on one of LIHSA’s major disciplines: Theatre, Music, Dance, Fine Art, Digital Media, Special Effect, or Filmmaking. For more information or to find out what’s new for summer 2018, please call 516-622-5678. Open house April 28.
Long Island Voyager’s Day Camp
516-238-4586 livoyagersdaycamp.com livoyagersdaycamp@gmail.com Long Island Voyagers Teen and CIT Program. Long Island Voyagers offers our teens an amazing summer program and if desired, the opportunity to work with our counselors and younger campers. Our CIT program builds confidence, teaches responsibility and leadership, and prepares them to enter the workforce. CITs can also make tips throughout the summer while enjoying our amazing trips and activities including Splish Splash, Adventureland, Bounce, Sky Zone, movies, bowling, boomers, go-karts, lazer tag, Bayville Adventure Park, and zip lining. CITs receive a discount and door-todoor transportation. Call us for details 516-238-4586.
Long Island Whole Child Academy Mentoring Scientific Minds Summer STEM Program
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submersible ROVs, “see” underwater, study rescued sunken treasures, and learn orienteering and survival skills outdoors at Environmental Boot Camp. Join our Flight Team to fly any airplane to any airport in the world with our own “Captain Joe,” and flight simulator. Build mini drones and robots, and learn electronics and engineering at our own Makers’ Space. Call now for information: 347-558-3676.
Mid Island Aero Camp Aero Camp at Mid Island Air Services 101 Herring Drive (MacArthur Airport), Ronkonkoma 631-588-5400 midislandair.com Fly high with aero camp! Have an interest in aviation and are in sixth to 12th grades? Enroll in one of our weeklong camps, Alpha (ninth to 12th grades), or Bravo (sixth-eighth grades) from 9am-3pm each day. There will be classroom instruction, tours of aviation facilities, a simulator flight, and several airplane flight lessons, as well as an introduction to many aviation careers. Desire more flight time? We offer an optional sixth flight day which will be spent learning cross country navigation and a flight lesson to CT. Prices, dates, and registration documents are available at midislandair.com.
Ohman School of Ballet New York Dance Theatre
60 Calvert Ave., Commack 631-462-6266 ohmanballet.org office@ohmanballet.com The Ohman School of Ballet was founded in 1979 by former NYC Ballet soloist Frank Ohman. The school is a non-competition, non-recital school, focusing on proper classical ballet technique. Offering a two-week summer intensive as well as six weeks of summer evening classes for children through age 17, and Ballet Barre Fitness classes. Call or visit our website for more information. The Frank Ohman School of Ballet guides children from their first steps toward advanced technique, while instilling true appreciation and love for the art form.
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Picasso Kidz, creative art studio for children Summer Art Camp
72 Broadway, Greenlawn 631-261-5500 picassokidz.com picassokidzart@gmail.com Picasso Kidz offers one-week art camps for children of all ages. Our camps are taught by NYS-certified art teachers and are engaging, educational, unique, and fun! Each camp follows an artistic theme for the week, and children will learn about and create art in that theme. Our camps are 1½ or 4½ hours a day depending on age and specific camp. Half-day camps break for short snack and full-day will have snack and lunch.
Quinipet Camp and Retreat Center
99 Shore Road (4 Rocky Point Road), P.O. Box 549, Shelter Island Heights 631-749-0430 quinipet.org quinipet@nyac.com Established by the Methodist Church in 1947, Quinipet is built upon the rocks of faith, courage, love, humility, and honesty, creating a foundation that welcomes campers from all walks of life, faith, and church affiliation. Our day and overnight programs provide all the fun of a traditional summer camp at our amazing beachfront setting on Shelter Island! Waterfront activities, sports, arts and crafts, music and theater, nature discovery, camp fires, and Leader-In-Training program. Register online for Overnight Camp (ages 7-17), Day Camp (ages 5-14) and, Community Sailing (ages 9-15) at quinipet.org.
Sappo School
40 Kings Park Road, Commack 631-736-2146 sapposchool.com info@sapposchool.com Sappo School will be offering a four-week summer program for students in third to 12th grades. With Dr. Concetta Russo as the newly appointed director of reading, Sappo School now offers a tailor-made Orton Gillingham (OG) program for students with reading disorders, including but not limited to children with dyslexia. The language arts program follows
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OG methodology, which offers a research-based, multisensory curriculum. Summer students will receive 3 hours of instruction per day, with the program available 8:30-11:30am from July 9-Aug. 3. It is designed to improve the reading and writing skills of any student.
available to our Teen Travel group are our overnight trips. Overnight trips are a big step for a teenager so we make sure they are fully prepared and supervised. Informational meetings regarding the trips are held to address any concerns that you or your camper may have.
School of Rock Port Jefferson
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4837 Nesconset Highway, Port Jefferson Station 631-476-7625 locations.schoolofrock.com/portjefferson portjefferson@schoolofrock.com School of Rock is the national leader in performance-based music education. Our popular summer camps will get your child rocking! We offer four distinct one-week camps created to teach music, build confidence, and create memories. Historically designed for kids ages 9-18 with some experience on their instrument (guitar, bass, vocals, drums, keys, or horns), this year we are also offering AC/DC for beginners ages 7 and older with very minimal experience. All camps culminate in a live rock show at a local venue! Sign up. Plug in. Rock out!
Spin DJ Academy
202 Merrick Road, 2nd floor, Rockville Centre 16 Broadway, Amityville 631-608-8858 spindjacademy.com Spin DJ Camp is an interactive DJ education camp teaching campers everything they need to be the life of the party in a social and creative setting! Our two-week camp program includes DJ and Music Production classes using the hottest gear, a fun and social group environment, special guest DJs to inspire, and at the end of each session students will create a live performance, recorded DJ set, and live video!
St. Patrick Youth Community Summer Camp
St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-360-0185 stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick’s Teen Travel program is for children ages 13-15. Our Teen Travel group goes on trips every day including places in New York City, New Jersey, and Pennsylvania. Exclusively
565 Route 25A, Miller Place 631-744-4001 studioeartclass.com/childrens-camps Studio E offers weekly camps for tweens (ages 9-12) and teens (ages 13-17). We offer different topics every week such as pottery, landscape painting, portrait painting, and water color painting. Camps meet every week of the summer, Tuesdays-Fridays. Camps are half-day, and we include a pizza party every Friday! Camps are taught by a certified art teacher. Register for as many or as few weeks of camp as you like! We are offering an early bird rate of 15 percent off your entire tuition through May 1!
Sylvan Learning Centers of Mineola and Huntington
393 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola 516-743-9943 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 sylvanlearning.com sylvanlearning@optonline.net Summer learning loss. It’s real! If kids don’t stay engaged in learning, they can lose up to 2½ months of what they learned. Sylvan can tackle any subject or need so your child can take on the next school year with confidence. Our flexible schedules ensure we fit into your plans. With personalized and small group options available, there is something for everyone. Ask about our Comprehension Edge program (third-seventh grades), Elementary Math and High School Math Edge programs (first to 12th grades), catch up or preview next year’s concepts! Make this summer count!
Thomas School of Horsemanship Summer Camp
250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com tsh@tshcamp.com Campers in Leadership Train-
Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts
185 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights 631-643-7900 usdan.org Get your camp on at Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts— the perfect place for young artists ages 12 and older. With more than 100 classes to choose from including Ukulele, Rock Band, Mobile Photography, Yoga, Quidditch, Cosplay, Matinee Idol: Mean Girls, Sculpture, and Hip-Hop Dance. There’s something for everyone, whatever your interest. Interested in having fun and honing your leadership skills? Check out Usdan’s Leadership Institute, where campers can meet and be mentored by visiting artists and performers. Enroll with promo code CampOn for $100 off. More info at usdan.org.
Village East Gifted Camp ThinkTank Summer Program
Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted, a yearround enrichment center for students ages 2-16, is offering 17 summer workshops many of which are designed for gifted students in grades fifth-eighth. Workshops are held between 4:30-8:30pm at its Huntington and Roslyn locations. Participants can sign up for just one or all of them. Topics covered
include engineering, 3-D printing, foreign language, business, physics, trigonometry, algebra, Newtonian Mechanics, oceanography, culinary art, and linguistic improvisation. Sibling, military, and multiple workshop discounts are available. Enroll early!
YMCA of Long Island
Camp Locations: Bay Shore, East Hampton, Glen Cove, Holtsville, Huntington, and Patchogue 855-2YMCALI (296-2254) ymcali.org/summer-day-camp tamar.simpson@ymcali.org YMCA Teen Camps are designed to develop decision-making skills in young teens by encouraging positive values and providing challenging, fun, and character-building experiences as well as making long lasting friendships. All campers will have the opportunity to participate in activities such as athletics, arts and crafts, swimming, fitness, games, and—the best part—trips! Our Counselor in Training program combines the fun of camp with leadership and on-the-job training skills. It is an exceptional opportunity for young adults to develop their leadership skills by assisting counselors with camp groups.
Young People’s Day Camps Suffolk
631-476-3330 ypdc.com These days, there’s no need to spend a fortune for your child to have a fun, educational, and safe summer. Consider the benefits of sending your children to YPDC of Suffolk, licensed by the NYS Health Department, and accredited by the ACA for your child’s safety. Free door-to-door transportation, with activities supervised by licensed teachers and administrators. Superior camper-to-counselor ratio to cater to your children’s individual needs. Payment plans are available. Take a look at our website for rates and a calendar of pre-planned, professionally supervised activities. YPDC is fun, educational, diversified, and convenient. Keeping children smiling and parents at ease since 1972.
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voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders. THERAPY & COUNSELORS DR. ELLEN T RICHER, EDUCATION CLINICIAN & COUNSELOR Convenient Long Island locations 347-668-3676 etrdream@aol.com We co-develop strategies to improve executive functioning, sensory processing, and social cognition challenges, and provide enrichment opportunities to engage and motivate highly capable yet underachieving children. TUTORS & TEST PREP ST. PATRICK YOUTH COMMUNITYST. PATRICK TUTORING CENTER St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com; spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick Tutoring Center is here to assist your learner from kindergarten to 12th grades with Catholic Entrance Exam Prep, SAT, Regents, or daily schoolwork. ST. PATRICK YOUTH COMMUNITYYOUTH ENRICHMENT LEARNING CENTER St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com; spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick Youth Enrichment and Learning Center provides programs for your child ages 1½ years to sixth grade. A faith-based program offers a loving, caring environment. SYLVAN LEARNING CENTER OF HUNTINGTON 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 sylvanlearning.com sylvanlearning@optonline.net Sylvan of Huntington offers personalized tutoring programs in reading, writing, mathematics, and SAT/ACT prep. Sylvan will help identify the right program for your child and exactly where your child needs to start to get the best results. VILLAGE EAST GIFTED: ENRICHMENT CENTER FOR THE GIFTED LEARNER Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted provides after-school enrichment and private tutoring. Enriching every qualified, gifted child. We are also a John Hopkins CTY info and SAT testing center.
OPENHOUSES 2018 Camps ‘R’ Us Where Summer Vacation Is Our Job
Locations in: Baldwin, Bellmore, East Rockaway, Farmingdale, Hicksville, Saint James, Syosset, Valley Stream, and West Islip 516-935-CAMP (2267) campsrus.org/openhouse info@campsrus.org Join us for an open house in Baldwin, Bellmore, East Rockaway, Syosset, and Valley Stream on April 21 from 12:30-2:30pm; and in Farmingdale, Hicksville, Saint James, and West Islip on Sunday April 22 from 11:30am-1:30pm.
Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium Nature Summer Camp
1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768; cshfishhatchery.org steved@cshfishhatchery.org Give your young explorer a summer surrounded by nature at our summer science and outdoor nature camps for ages pre-K through teens. Call us to learn more and schedule a personal tour.
Future Stars Summer Camps
The College at Old Westbury, Old Westbury 516-876-3490 Farmingdale State College 2350 Broadhollow Road, Farmingdale St. Joseph’s College 155 W. Roe Blvd., Patchogue fscamps.com Stop by Future Stars Summer Camps Open House on Saturday, April 28 from 9:30am-12:30pm.
Holy Family Regional School
2 Indian Head Road, Commack 631-543-0202 holyfamilyregional.com You are invited to be a part of our family. Call anytime for a tour of our school.
Kenwal Day Camp
100 Drexel Ave., Melville 631-694-3399; kenwaldaycamp.com Visit Kenwal to meet with our directors and tour our beautiful 20acre campgrounds. Sundays through June from 12-3pm, or call for a personal tour. Lock in discounted rates through Summer 2020!
Kids Country Day Camp
37 Crystal Brook Hollow Road, Mount Sinai 631-331-5351 kidscountrydaycamp.com Join us for a Kids Country Day Camp and Kids of Mount Sinai school open house April 21, May 19, or June 9 from 11am-2pm.
Kids of Mount Sinai and Miller Place
37B Crystal Brook Hollow Road, Mount Sinai 631-331-5351; kidsofmountsinai.com 43 Echo Ave., Miller Place 631-403-4790; kidsofmillerplace.com Join us for a Kids Country Day Camp and Kids of Mount Sinai school open house April 21, May 19, or June 9 from 11am-2pm.
Knox School Summer Adventures
541 Long Beach Road, St. James 631-686-1600 x414 knoxschool.org/summer-programs/ summer-adventures ndezenzo@knoxschool.org Join us for an open house April 14 or May 19 from 10am-1pm.
Long Island High School for the Arts Summer Arts Academy: sixth to 12th grades
239 Cold Spring Road, Syosset 516-622-5678; nassauboces.org/lihsa Nassau BOCES Long Island High School for the Arts invites all students with artistic talent, passion, and ambition to an open house on April 28 from 10am-2pm.
Long Island Voyager’s Day Camp
516-238-4586 livoyagersdaycamp.com livoyagersdaycamp@gmail.com Join us at our open house on April 7 and 28, from 12-2pm at Adventureland, 2245 Broad Hollow Road (Route 110), Farmingdale. Registered new campers receive $100 off of tuition and a day bracelet!
Thomas School of Horsemanship Summer Day Camp
250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com; tsh@tshcamp.com Thomas School of Horsemanship open house: April 7, 8, 28, and 29 from 12-3pm. Take a guided tour of the facility with a camp director and meet some of our horses.
Trinity Regional School
1025 5th Ave., East Northport 631-261-5130; trinityregional.org Call anytime for a tour of our school. Join the Trinity family; you will be glad you did.
Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts
185 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights 631-643-7900; usdan.org Join new families interested in learning more about Usdan. Meet with our admissions counselors and tour the campus. Refreshments, warm drinks, information, and 2018 registration available. Sundays, April 15 and May 20 from 11am-2pm.
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Health Care Professional Cummings Family Dental 42 High St., Huntington 631-425-1650 cummingsfamilydentistry.com cummingsfamilydentistry@aol.com
Dr. Cummings believes that a dentist and patient become a team for treating an individual’s dental needs. She spends time listening to understand your concerns and responds with the best treatment options for you. She received her degree from Howard University College of Dentistry and received her postdoctoral training from University Hospital Stony Brook. Dr. Cummings is trained and experienced in providing dental care for patients with special needs, as well as complete dental care for the entire family. There’s a story behind every smile... we’d like to be part of yours!
Dr. Michael Gruttadauria, The Center for Integrative and Innovative Therapies (The CIIT Center) 131 Sunnyside Blvd., Suite 100, Plainview 516-243-8660;; theciitcenter.com
Dr. Michael Gruttadauria leads the operations at an advanced treatment center for autism spectrum disorder called The CIIT Center. The CIIT Center’s mission is to approach each child with autism as a total entity by enhancing the biomedical, neurological, nutritional, electrical, and immune system of each of our patients, combining this with occupational, physical, and speech therapies along with applied behavioral analysis. Our comprehensive approach starts with identifying the underlying factors that may be holding the child back, not just treating their symptoms. This gives each child every opportunity to reach their potential.
Pediatric Immediate Care 150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337) 698 Manhattan Ave., Brooklyn 718-389-PEDS (7337); pediatricimmediatecare.com
Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-of-theart medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kid-friendly; walk-ins welcome; most insurance plans accepted. Complete pediatric and adolescent care, as well as baby, camp, school, and sports physicals. Certified urgent care recommended by Urgent Care Association of America. Thirty years of dedication to our patients. The offices are open seven days a week including holidays, 8am-11pm.
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Building Blocks Developmental Preschool 29 Pinewood Drive, Commack 631-499-1237; bbdps.com
Donna M. Charbonneau is the executive director of Building Blocks Developmental Preschool. BBDPS offers a range of programs and services to children ages newborn to 5. Currently staffed with more than 100 teachers, therapists, and paraprofessionals, including registered nurses as well as psychologists, speech and language pathologists, occupational therapists, a physical therapist, and a developmental pediatrician. Early Intervention services are provided for children younger than 3, who have developmental delays. Building Blocks Developmental Preschool continues to ensure delivery of the highest quality educational services to all students.
Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County Dr. Mike Ioannou 2171 Jericho Turnpike, Suite 145, Commack 631-486-6364 3237 Route 112, Building 6, Suite 7B, Medford 631-320-0880; supermolar.com
Dr. Michael Ioannou, a native of Suffolk County, received his dental degree at the University of Connecticut - School of Dental Medicine, with a residency in pediatric dentistry from Albert Einstein College of Medicine/Montefiore Medical Center. A friendly, patient dentist, Dr. Ioannou strives to make visiting the dentist a fun experience, all while providing exceptional dental care. He uses excellent behavioral management approaches, a child-friendly environment (TV and cartoons in all treatment rooms), and he sings to the patients! Dr. Ioannou currently participates with most insurance companies and has convenient evening and Saturday office hours.
Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Nassau: 516-216-1791 • Suffolk: 631-689-6858 • Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, is owner and operator of Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. Along with her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES— Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. There is a total of seven affiliated offices across Long Island, all participating with most major health insurance companies and offering evening and Saturday hours.
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Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech................. 19, 52 Law Offices of Brad H Rosken...................................... 12 Long Island Whole Child Academy................................ 19
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The Learning Experience - Mount Sinai........................ 33
classes All Kids Fair..................................................................... 7
Northwell Health Ice Center / NY Islander..................... 37
Great Strides Long Island.............................................. 39
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Cummings Family Dental........................................ 17, 52
LIU Center for Gifted Youth........................................... 23
Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County......................... 3, 52
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Northwell Health Ice Center / NY Islander..................... 37
Pediatric Immediate Care.......................................... 9, 52
Huntington Learning Center.......................................... 17
Young Peoples Day Camp - LI...................................... 56
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What are some ways you’ve taught your kids kindness? “Leading by example is always the best way to teach kids anything. My husband and I do little things, like say, ‘please’ and ‘thank you,’ but we also show kindness and empathy to our children and to each other, which our kids see and emulate.” –Carol Bermudez, New City
“When my daughter was 4 and in an especially not-so-nice mood my partner and I explained The Golden Rule, which is essentially, ‘treat people how you want them to treat you.’ Now when she says something mean or refuses to share a toy with her brother, we just say, ‘Stay gold, Roxie,’ and usually that does the trick.” –Aisha R., Clinton Hill, Brooklyn
“It’s so hard for kids to think beyond themselves, especially when they are so young, but it is also so important. We teach our son kindness in the larger sense. We encourage him not only to be kind to his friends, but to himself, to the earth, to animals. Giving him a broad perspective early on will teach him to be a conscious citizen in this big world...we hope.” –Jeffrey Klimpton, Manhattan
in an instagram “I love this little guy so much! He’s going to be new to this big brother business but I know he’s going to have the baby laughing all the time with all of his jokes.”
“My kids’ school teaches a ‘Kind and Gentle’ philosophy that they carry over into all activities. The other day, I got what seemed to be my 100th call from a telemarketer and after some pretty foul language on my part, my daughter reminded my that I was not being K and G (kind and gentle). She’s the one who’s teaching me!” –Paula Terrozzo, Long Island City, Queens
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Go For It!
Whatever ‘it’ is that you feel like you might be the only mom doing or not doing or feeling or not feeling, you’ve probably got company somewhere. Find another mom at library lap time or in the church nursery or at the pediatrician’s and lay ‘it’ on the line—wait for the blessing of hearing that mom say ‘me, too.’ –Elizabeth Spencer in a post entitled “New Mama, You Don’t Have to ‘Cherish Every Moment’,” on motherly.ly
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“It’s always great to see your children trying new things, watching their adventurous side coming to light. It’s especially gratifying when I see my son—who’s been diagnosed with ADHD and autism spectrum disorder—take a leap even when he is scared. I have done plenty of things while afraid and after I complete them I feel so freakin’ good. That’s exactly what he’s been doing lately, only it is much harder for him than for me, or for most of us. He’s been trying new things and just going for it, even when he’s scared. –Eileen Carter-Campos in an article entitled “Helping a Child With Autism Try New Things;” read the whole thing at nymetroparents.com/new-things-autism.
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