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Contents

All-in-One Resource Guide 2016-2017 ›› Features 10 Building Great Homework Skills Help your child build organization and time management best practices for success 14 Managing Your Child’s Busy Schedule Five tips to reduce the stress of a busy afterschool schedule

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18 Throw a Great Party for Any Age Three experts share their knowledge for planning the perfect birthday bash 36 Our Best Advice A roundup of health and safety tips from local doctors and experts

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40 Staying Positive How to really help your child with special needs in everyday life

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46 Summer Camp and Taxes An expert shares whether you can claim summer camp on your taxes

Connections 6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs

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juLY 2016 • Vol. 8 • No. 2

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Editor’s Note

DEPUTY EDITOR: Bethany Braun MANAGING EDITOR: Katelin Walling ASSISTANT EDITOR: Samantha Neudorf EDITORIAL ASSISTANT: Catherine Patwell

Decisions, Decisions

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y kids—like yours, I am guessing—start planning next year’s birthday parties the moment this year’s parties end. Over the course of the next 11 or so months, they will change their minds approximately 100 times, cycling through party ideas such as pottery decorating, sports, dance, spa, and any number of others before starting back at the beginning and wanting each of them, intensely, for a short period once again. And while my wife and I wait for their final choices, we are going through our own grown-up version of this, as we debate such questions as where to send the toddler to nursery school, what the kids will do for the summer, and whatever else comes up in the moment.

Parenting demands a series of decisions, large and small, some more consequential than others.

Museum or amusement park this weekend? Private school or public? Little league or dance classes or STEM classes, or all of the above? Which pediatrician should we use? And what in the world is for dinner tonight anyway?

Whether you’re choosing what to do this weekend or where to send your child to school, all this decision-making can sometimes feel overwhelming. Add in the fact that we are blessed to live in a metro area with an astounding, seemingly infinite number of choices—schools, doctors, after-school programs, birthday party venues, and, of course kids’ entertainment spots—and, if you’re anything like me, you may sometimes find yourself paralyzed with indecision.

That’s why we’re bringing you this special issue of Long Island Parent, the All-in-One Resource Guide. In these pages, you will find directories listing local businesses and professionals in the categories in which you need to make decisions about your kids’ activities, education, health, and more. We’ve designed this guide for you to hang onto and refer to all year long. You can also find these directories and so many other useful resources on nymetroparents.com.

We hope that these guides help make those many, many decisions a little bit easier.

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Who: Three Village Behavioral Medicine What’s New: The practice, which was founded by James Parles, M.D., PLLC. It opened in Stony Brook last month in order to treat children with behavioral issues such as ADHD, anxiety, and depression.

Dr. Parles spent 27 years as a general pediatrician before devoting himself to treating these issues.

Three Villiage Behavioral Medicine aims to provide the highest quality and most empathetic pediatric and young adult behavioral medicine services at a cost that is affordable to families.

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Building Great Homework Skills By learning specific tools for time management, organization, and homework best practices, students will be well on their way toward homework success. ›› By Emily Levy, Ed.D.

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oes your child ever come home from school and complain that he has too much homework, has no idea how to complete the work, or says he has no homework at all?

Kids invent all kinds of excuses to avoid sitting down and doing their homework. Some lack the academic abilities to complete their work independently. Others, however, simply need to learn effective homework strategies. By learning specific tools for time management, organization, and general homework skills, students will be well on their way toward homework success.

Time Management

Time management is one of the underlying components of effective homework skills. When students sit down to work on their assignments, they may feel overwhelmed by the number of tasks they need to complete. They may not know which order is best for completing them, and they might feel that they need frequent, or not frequent enough, breaks. Some may not write down their assignments at all, and may find themselves frantically looking through their notes or calling friends the night before the assignment is due.

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book. This should be large enough to provide ample space for each day of the week. (It should not be a monthly or yearly calendar that has only a small box for each day). It should also have space not only for daily homework assignments, but also for any after-school or evening activities. Students should be able to see a global picture of all school-related, athletic, and social activities for that week.

In their assignment books, students should divide each day into five columns: ET (Estimated Time); AT (Actual Time); O (Order); D (Done); and a wide column for “Assignment.”

Students should create these columns in their assignment books, in advance, for about two weeks of time. The only place where students should write any information while at school is in the “Assignment” column. Once they arrive home from school and sit down to complete their assignments, their first task is to estimate how much time they think it will take to complete each assignment.

They should write that estimated time in the “ET” column.

Next, based on the estimated time for each assignment, students should decide which order they will follow in completing the assignments. For example, they might feel that math will take 35 minutes, science will take 20 minutes, and English will take 40 minutes. Based on these estimates, they can choose to either

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complete the shorter assignments first to get them over with, or focus their energy on completing the longer assignments first. Either choice is fine, as long as they try to stay consistent with their approach. As they complete each assignment, they should time themselves, using a clock or stopwatch. In the “AT” column, they should write the actual time it takes them to complete each assignment.

Finally, when the assignment is completed, they should draw one side of an “X” in the “D” column, and once the assignment is put away in the right place to be turned in, they should complete the “X”.

Often, when students begin using this strategy, they notice a large discrepancy between the estimated and actual times for each assignment. Many students initially have unrealistic expectations of how long an assignment might take to complete.

The more they practice using this strategy, however, the more realistic they will become with their time.

Organization

Maintaining a well-structured organizational system is important for effective homework management. To organize homework assignments, all students should have a homework “inbox” and “outbox” contained in a two-pocket folder that they check on a regular basis. The pocket on the left is the “inbox” and the pocket on the right is the “outbox.” Younger students can have one homework inbox and outbox folder to use for all subjects, while older students usually benefit from a separate inbox and outbox folder for each class.

At school, when teachers pass out assignment sheets, students should place these into the “inbox” section of their folder. After they complete the assignments at home, they should put them into the “outbox” section on the right. Thus, when students are at school and are asked to turn in their homework assignments, they will know exactly where to look to find them.

General Homework Skills

As a general note, students should choose a consistent place at home for completing their homework each night. A clean desk with basic supplies, including pens, pencils, erasers, notebook paper, a hole puncher, a pencil sharpener, and other materials for their classes is ideal. They should choose a consistent time to complete their homework, either right after school, after a social or athletic activity, or after dinner. They should stick with this time on a daily basis.

You may want to help them to break down large projects into small steps, and to enter each step into their assignment book.

With practice, they will begin to use this strategy independently.

Give them positive reinforcement and encourage them to try to complete as much of the assignment independently before you help them. If need be, help them complete an assignment by asking them questions that guide them to their own answers, rather than immediately telling them what to do.

Homework can be a challenging task. Yet with the proper strategies in place, this task can become easier, more efficient, and even enjoyable.

Emily Levy, Ed.D., is the director of EBL Coaching, which offers one-on-one tutoring and small group workshops for students in pre-K through 12th grades. For more information, visit eblcoaching.com or call 646-342-9380.

Instilling Healthy Habits For Your Family -Nutrition & Wellness-

With diminishing outdoor playtime, a lack of healthy meal options in the school lunchroom, and a litany of high-processed food products marketed to children, it can be an uphill battle to instill in your family healthy, nutritious eating habits.

According to the CDC, childhood obesity has more than doubled in the past 30 years, with more than one third of American kids now overweight or obese. The immediate and long-term health effects of carrying that extra weight is profound, including cardiovascular disease, bone and joint problems, sleep apnea, social stigmatization, and increased risk of many types of cancers. But just as overweight or obese youth are more likely to become obese adults, children who are taught healthy lifestyles and proper nutrition at an early age are likely to carry those healthy habits into adulthood.

The 12-week Balanced Plate program coaches kids through weight loss with one-on-one lessons covering such topics as: What are macronutrients? How do we choose them appropriately? And why do we eat when we feel bored? Participants also receive an individually tailored meal plan, including recipes structured around their specific likes and dislikes. (Childhood weight issues often go hand-in-hand with other health problems, such as allergies, celiac disease, diabetes, or depression. In these cases, it is important that nutritionists work with general practitioners and physicians in addressing underlying medical problems that require nutritional support.)

There is a psychological aspect of eating along with the physiological, which can lead to emotionally driven overeating. A crucial lesson all kids should learn is to listen to your body and understand what it really needs-how to perceive the sensation of real hunger and satiation. Before reaching for a snack, ask yourself, are you really hungry? Or do you just feel like eating because it feels good?

Of course, no one wants to deprive their kids or institute a rigid diet on an adolescent. An important part of health and wellness is maintaining balance. Just like adults, kids must learn how to incorporate special treats-pizza and cake at a birthday party, for instance-into a successful wellness plan so they can enjoy and participate in real life.

An active, physical lifestyle is an essential part of any health and wellness program. But exercise doesn’t necessarily mean an organized soccer game. It could be as simple as daily dog walks, family bike rides, or throwing a ball in the yard.

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DAY CARE & CHILD CARE Alternatives For Children

Aquebogue, Dix Hills, East Setauket, and Southampton 631-331-6400 alternatives4children.org Alternatives For Children’s day care and preschool staff create a natural educational learning environment fostering each child’s development, self-esteem, and self-confidence. Alternatives For Children is an Early Intervention and Preschool Special Education evaluation site and approved provider of EI and Preschool Special Education services for eligible children. Preschool Special Education and developmentally appropriate integrated nursery classes, taught by NYS Special Education and Early Childhood teachers, promote a child’s development through individualized instruction that will support them for the rest of their lives. Special education services of physical, occupational, and speech therapies are provided by licensed therapists.

Prime Time Early Learning Center

270 Airport Plaza, Farmingdale 631-777-9090 primetimeschools.com/ farmingdale-day-care Prime Time Farmingdale offers expert child care for infants six weeks through pre-K, summer camp, and an enriching beforeand after-school program. Families are welcome to register for as little as 16 hours per week or for our full-time program that provides child care during any of our hours of operation. We are dedicated to fostering harmonious home-school relations through open, real-time communication, and strive to always be responsive to the needs of families and the community. Prime Time of Farmingdale is open Monday-Friday from 6:30am-7pm.

Preschools Building Blocks Developmental Preschool

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631-499-1237 bbdps.com Building Blocks Developmental Preschool is a NYS-approved provider of special education preschool services, serving Suffolk County for more than 31 years. All of our special education classes follow NYS Learning Standards for preschool special education. The preschool curriculum encompasses pre-literacy activities, language development, math concepts, fine and gross motor activities, and peer socialization while incorporating each child’s specific educational plan. Individual goals are targeted through a multi-model approach to encourage success.

Our staff has many years of experience in early childhood special education. Half- and full-day programs available.

Long Island Lutheran Day School

106 Vernon Valley Road, East Northport 631-754-4424 x224 longislandlutheran.org admissions@ludaynorthport.org LuDay’s preschool program serves children ages 2-5 in fulland half-day programs. Nursery classes emphasize learning through imaginative play and exploration as the means for cognitive, social, emotional, and physical growth. Attention is given to the student’s continued development of language and self-expression skills. Preschool curriculum includes tools for mathematics and reading readiness, and is designed to build a solid foundation for future learning. The Kindersteps program provides an extra year of preparation for a child who has a late birthday or is not quite ready for kindergarten.

Prime Time Early Learning Center

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their transition to school.

Phonological awareness, vocabulary, comprehension, and critical thinking are emerging literacy skills we work on during the pre-K year. Characteristics such as staying on task, regulating behaviors, and a positive, confident approach to learning prepare your child for school success. Prime Time of Farmingdale is open Monday-Friday from 6:30am-7pm.

Private Schools Catholic Elementary Schools of Long Island Diocese of Rockville Centre

128 Cherry Lane, Hicksville 516-678-5800 drvcschools.org Long Island’s Catholic elementary schools are 43 unique and beautiful schools in Nassau and Suffolk counties. Academically, the expectations of each student are high and the historical performance has been exceptional. The schools are differentiated from their public counterparts by their integrated program of learning and living the Catholic faith and values. We help instill the moral values, self-respect, and study habits that go on to serve our students well as they continue their education, and for the rest of their lives.

Long Island Lutheran Day School

106 Vernon Valley Road, East Northport 631-754-4424 x224 longislandlutheran.org admissions@ludaynorthport.org Long Island Lutheran Day School at St. Paul’s offers an outstanding early childhood and elementary program that combines challenging academics with a caring and nurturing faith-based environment. Classroom technology enhances and encourages innovative teaching that keeps students actively engaged in hands-on learning.

Our caring and dedicated faculty and staff work to preserve a warm, family atmosphere. Faculty and staff alike share a deep

commitment to the growth and success of each student. We are proud to foster children in a Christ-centered environment, helping them to become confident, lifelong learners.

Special Needs Bakshi Law

Offices in Long Island, the Financial District, Manhattan, and Westchester County 917-244-6133 lawbakshi.com lara.bakshi@gmail.com Bakshi Law specializes in special education law. We represent parents and children with disabilities, acquire correct classification under IDEA, ensure proper implementation of IEP, ascertain correct placement for children, and tuition reimbursement. We attend CSE meetings, resolution meetings, and suspension hearings, and all disciplinary hearings for special needs and general education students. Bakshi Law’s attorneys are passionate about your child’s education and offer assistance on a sliding scale for parents experiencing financial difficulties.

Building Blocks Developmental Preschool

29 Pinewood Drive, Commack 631-499-1237 bbdps.com Building Blocks is an early childhood learning center focusing on the education of all young children. We offer parent and child groups, nursery and preschool classes, and child care options. As a New York state-accredited special education program serving children and their families for more than 30 years, we provide services including special instruction; ABA; speech, occupational, and physical therapies; psychological services; and diagnostic services to infants, toddlers, and preschoolers. We develop skills that enable all of our children to attain their highest potential while building self-esteem and independent learning.

The Hagedorn Little Village School, Jack Joel Center for Special Children

750 Hicksville Road, Seaford 516-520-6000 littlevillage.org jon.feingold@littlevillage.org The Hagedorn Little Village School is a nonprofit school highly regarded for providing outstanding educational and therapeutic services for children with a wide range of developmental disabilities. HLVS provides year-round programs and services that include diagnostic evaluations and treatment, early intervention, a preschool, an elementary school, SEIT, and related services. Services provided on-site, in homes, nursery schools, and day care centers include speech, feeding, occupational, physical, and movement therapies; behavior management or Applied Behavior Analysis; counseling; and support groups.

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Managing Your Child’s Busy Schedule Do you worry that your child’s extracurriculars are taking up all of her free time? Here are five tips to help reduce the stress of a busy after-school schedule. ›› By Ann K. Dolin, M.Ed.

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f your after-school schedule feels more hurried, stressful, and complicated than you would prefer, try the following solutions to make life a little simpler for you and your child.

1. Reassess the after-school schedule.

I’m sure we can all agree that each child is different—some thrive on hectic schedules, whereas others crave downtime. Listening to our kids is the only way we’ll know how they feel. Take time to ask your child if his load is too stressful or just right.

The flip side of this equation is your personal situation. Perhaps more than children, parents feel overextended and exhausted.

Managing kids, a job, transportation to sports, and of course, homework, is enough to put even the most organized and efficient parent through the wringer. If this feels too familiar, consider reexamining your children’s schedules. Can one activity go by the wayside? Is there a sport or lesson that your child doesn’t truly enjoy, but you insisted upon so that she doesn’t miss out on an opportunity? These are the activities you might want to reconsider.

2. Create a predictable schedule.

Although each child in your household is likely to have a different

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schedule, it helps to create a family policy that homework must at least be started before leaving for an after-school activity. Getting a jump-start on homework significantly reduces procrastination and stress later in the evening.

3. Use a white board.

It’s easy to keep track of assignments with a white board. Hang a large white board near an area that will be used for homework.

When your children return from school each day, insist that they write their assignments on the white board. By using this tool, you or any other adult in the home will know of the assignments each child has for the day, what has been completed, and what is still left to do. When the homework assignment list is visible, unfinished work is less likely to slip through the cracks. This is a great solution for busy households.

4. Conduct an audit.

Busy parents know that it’s difficult to check every assignment each child has night after night. The Internal Revenue Service keeps taxpayers in line with random audits. You can do the same in your home by auditing homework a few times per week. Let’s say that

you have a family policy that all homework must be done by 9pm otherwise privileges are taken away the following day. At that time, ask to see your child’s homework. Praise him or her if the work is done. If it’s not done, rescind privileges such as leaving the house after school the following day to see friends or watching television.

5. Take a one-hour timeout.

A one-hour timeout is meant to be time away from anything that flashes, beeps, or has a screen. Choose 60 minutes every weekday (the hour immediately following dinner works well) and make that a mandatory quiet time. In our fast-paced world, we’re bombarded by loud noises, which can cause over-stimulation, agitation, and anxiety. During this time, there should be no iPods, televisions, video games, computers, or phones. Instead, consider activities such as reading independently or together, doing a puzzle, or playing cards. You may find that simply leaving craft supplies out encourages creativity. A one-hour timeout also forces kids who would usually be glued to electronics to go outside to play or get together with neighborhood friends.

It takes a concerted effort to manage stress. Choose one or two of these ideas that might work for you and implement them for at least 21 days to see change. Remember, research shows that it truly takes 21 days to modify a habit!

Ann K. Dolin, M.Ed., is the founder and president of Educational Connections, Inc. and author of the book Homework Made Simple: Tips, Tools, and Solutions for Stress-Free Homework. Learn more at ectutoring.com.

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AFTER-SCHOOL CLASSES & PROGRAMS DIRECTORY

ACADEMIC ENRICHMENT Kumon Math & Reading Center Commack

6096 Jericho Turnpike, Commack 631-462-3300 279 Main St., Farmingdale 516-293-2933 326 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington 631-689-9409 796 Udall Road, West Islip 631-487-1005 460 County Road 111, Manorville 631-399-1991 60 Terry Road, Smithtown 631-656-0799 232 N. Belle Meade Road, East Setauket 631-689-0183 69 Industrial Road, Wainscott 631-324-8444 kumon.com kzimmerman@kumon.com Kumon is a structured, proven self-learning program that gives your child the critical thinking skills and mindset to learn new materials independently. The key to Kumon programs is the individualized instruction, carefully planned by an instructor.

Regardless of academic level, your child will progress through the individualized instruction at his or her own pace advancing step by logical step. Kumon’s disciplined, worksheet approach to learning advances your child’s abilities in the classroom and throughout life.

Prime Time Early Learning Center

270 Airport Plaza, Farmingdale 631-777-9090 primetimeschools.com/ farmingdale-day-care Prime Time Farmingdale’s before- and after-school program provides homework assistance, supervised play, computers, group games, and playground time in a safe, educational, and relaxed environment. There is ample opportunity for children ages 10 and younger to study, socialize, do homework, rest or engage in play activities. Our Farmingdale center offers an environment that is safe and loving, with a staff that is well trained, highly motivated, and dedicated to each child’s well-being. Prime Time of Farmingdale is open Monday-Friday from 6:30am-7pm.

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St. Patrick Youth Community

St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick’s Youth Enrichment Center offers a kindergarten readiness program, before- and after-school camp, and care for children. Our center is a secure environment in which children can learn and grow. Children ages 2-12 will have an option for morning, afternoon, or after-school camp hours. Challenging, timely activities on-site will provide your child with what they need to be a well-rounded, thoughtful student. St. Patrick’s Youth Learning Center offers tutoring for students in kindergarten through 12th grade. SAT preparations, study skills, and Catholic High School entrance exams classes are offered.

Village East Gifted - Enrichment Center for the Gifted Learner

Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted® is a highly rigorous, creative and engaging academic enrichment program for gifted students ages 3-16. Its curriculum includes Latin, writing, geography, global studies, world history, STEM, advanced linguistics, SAT vocabulary enrichment, public speaking, art, and creative problem solving. Gifted pre-kindergarten (ages 3-4) is offered as well as parallel classes for bright children not classified as gifted.

More than 400 students have enrolled in the program, all of whom have placed in the 90th percentile or higher on national tests with IQ scores between 130 and 155.

ART Picasso Kidz, Creative Art Studio For Children

72 Broadway, Greenlawn 631-261-5500 picassokidz.com picassokidzart@gmail.com Picasso Kidz is a children’s art studio for ages 2-17. We offer age

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appropriate art classes by experienced NYS art teachers dedicated to giving children a well-rounded art education. Children will be taught drawing, painting, sculpture, printmaking, and collage, in a caring and creative environment. Creative thinking and risk taking will be encouraged with patience and kindness. We offer classes, birthday parties, girl scout events, and special playdates.

Come visit our magical studio in Greenlawn for your free trial class.

DANCE Ohman School Of Ballet New York Dance Theatre

60 Calvert Ave., Commack 631-462-6266 ohmanballet.org office@ohmanballet.com Our school serves as a training ground for promising young dancers and offers the opportunity to learn classical ballet in the tradition of George Balanchine.

Students are guided from first steps to advanced technique.

The Early Childhood Program instills creativity, discipline, and a love for ballet in our students ages 4-6. Students explore the characters and music of various classical ballets, are introduced to classical ballet steps, create their own movements, and practice in costume. The school is a non-competition, non-recital school, focusing on proper classical ballet technique.

MOMMY & ME @ Play Amusements

229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com Visit the newly renovated @ Play Amusements, and specially designed play space for babies and toddlers! This fun, stimulating environment is available for all Parent and Me activities.

Classes include baby playgroups, toddler programs, socialization, and birthday parties personalized to your child’s interests. With each visit, you’ll witness your child’s developmental evolution in social skills and self-esteem. @ Play Amusements Mommy and Me activities are a wonderful opportunity for you and your

child to make new friends within an environment full of energy, imagination, and playful delight.

BounceU Farmingdale

101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com It’s not your birthday yet? That’s okay! Our Open Bounces are perfect for children to come in with their parents and bounce to their hearts’ content. Every Friday morning we host a Preschool Playdate that includes bounce and snack for children ages 6 and under, Wednesday nights we have Family Bounce Night, and Thursday nights are our All Ages Open Bounces. Sessions may be added or cancelled based on availability, so please make sure to call us at 631-777-5867 or go online to bounceu.com/farmingdale-ny/ calendar/ to reserve your spot!

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfha.org; steved@cshfha.org Pollywog Adventures: Tuesday and Wednesday at 10am. Join us for a fun-filled hour of nature activities (fish feeding included). Using live animals, crafts, stories, and games, we guide you and your little ones through nature adventures sure to last a lifetime. Juice and snack available to all participants. Enjoy Parent and Me time with your children ages 2-5 at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium Pollywog Adventures program.

Call us for details and registration information.

East End PTPC Preventative Therapeutic Play Center

170 Mill Pond Path, Westhampton 631-235-2146; 631-804-5728 eastendptpc.com lauren@eastendptpc.com ronni@eastendptpc.com We believe that all children learn best through play. We focus on each individual’s unique abilities and needs to help them grow and maximize their learning potential.

Therapists with more than 10 years of pediatric clinical experience, we offer physical and occupational therapy, sensory play, handwriting groups, children’s yoga, mommy and me classes, fitness, and nutri-

tion. We instill fun, confidence, and strength in the children we treat.

Our passion is to teach children to believe in themselves and their dreams despite any physical limitation they may encounter.

Picasso Kidz, Creative Art Studio For Children

72 Broadway, Greenlawn 631-261-5500 picassokidz.com picassokidzart@gmail.com Picasso Kidz Mommy and Me classes are taught by NYS-certified art teachers and are appropriate for ages 2-3. Our youngest little artists will explore painting, sculpture, collage, and printmaking with the guidance of both teacher and parent.

Classes are 1 hour long and include, creative play, easel time, story time, and sit down art lessons. All projects in this class focus on the process and experience of art making rather than the finished product.

Tumbling Tunes

212 Laurel Road, East Northport 631-697-0140 tumblingtunes.com tumblingtunes@gmail.com At Tumbling Tunes, parents and children ages 1-3 enjoy some special time with each other while participating in music, movement, and gymnastics activities. Our unique Mommy and Me program combines basic gymnastics skills and exciting music activities to enhance children’s self-esteem and social awareness. Children will be introduced to different instruments and learn basic skills such as forward rolls and balancing. Each class is 45 minutes long and ends with bubbles and parachute. Call today for a free trial class! 631-697-0140.

STEM Long Island Lutheran Day School

106 Vernon Valley Road, East Northport 631-754-4424 x224 longislandlutheran.org admissions@ludaynorthport.org LUDay’s newly installed STEAM Lab provides students with a learning environment that encourages the creative freedom to explore sophisticated concepts using an inquiry-based model of teaching and learning. This lab is a unique space that is not only visually beautiful, but equipped with the technology, furnishings, materials, and equipment to support high-level and engaging lessons and experiments. Our

students participate in hands-on learning that helps them realize the connectedness of interdisciplinary project-based learning.

Our STEAM program goes handin-hand with the characteristics of young children as learners and naturally curious problem-solvers.

Village East Gifted - Enrichment Center for the Gifted Learner

Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com The Village East Gifted® STEAM program integrates art into interactive workshops and experiments in the following areas of study: anatomy and physiology, biomedical studies, genetics, microscope analysis, infectious disease and pathology, engineering, astronomy, space flight, life sciences, and living environment. VEG STEAM classes and workshops are offered after school and on weekends for kindergarten-seventh grades. VEG offers highly rigorous, creative and engaging academic enrichment in all subject areas. All gifted participants place in the 90th percentile or higher on national tests with IQ scores between 130-155.

Convenient locations in Nassau and Suffolk counties.

THEATER The Gateway Performing Arts Center of Suffolk County The Gateway School for the Performing Arts

215 S. Country Road, Bellport 631-286-1133 thegateway.org Since 1950, The Gateway has been Long Island’s home for high-quality arts education—both Robert Duvall and Gene Hackman began their careers here. More than 300 students each year, from Montauk to Manhattan, receive professional-level training at The Gateway School for the Performing Arts. The focus at Gateway is on providing training that will build technique while working towards a production. Whether it’s audition techniques, scene study, improvisation, or character development, students learn from professional teachers in a fun and social environment!

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FITNESS The Adventure Park at Long Island

75 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights 631-983-3844 climbli.org The Adventure Park at Long Island features zip lines and challenge crossings between tree platforms. Perfect on your own, or with friends and family.

Great for birthday parties. Ask about group rates. Children ages 7 and older. Choose from multiple color-coded trails from beginner (easier and lower to the ground) to advanced. Summer hours: seven days, day or night. See website for details.

Use discount code MPL6 and save on your general admission ticket! Reserve your visit at climbli.org.

GYMNASTICS & CHEERLEADING Artistic Gymnastics

425 Oser Ave., Hauppauge 631-273-8426 artisticgymnastics.net Gymnastics is the ultimate preparation for all other sports. Our sport requires strength and flexibility from every single muscle in the body. At Artistic Gymnastics, we combine the beautiful art of gymnastics with the superior knowledge of the growing body to make a safe and fun experience for all of our students.

From the recreational gymnast to the competitive athlete, we help all of our students to be stronger, faster, and healthier.

MARTIAL ARTS Modern Warrior

711 N. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst 631-226-8383 888-MWARRIOR (692-7746) modernwarrior.com info@modernwarrior.com Modern Warrior Wolverinz Self-Defense and Leadership Program gives kids skills and parents a piece of mind!

Improve confidence, build strength, enhance awareness, and increase attention span!

Wolverinz Program is for ages 4-14, and provides age-appropriate, real world, self-defense training and promotes life skills that will give your child a strong platform they can build on to become better students, better peers, and better people!

Fitness activities are paired with fun tasks and challenges.

Programs for adult self-defense and women-only self-defense training available! Inquire about free classes!

MULTI-SPORTS The All Star

96 Main Road, Riverhead 631-998-3565 theallstar.com events@theallstar.com The All Star in Riverhead has much to offer. Bowl over our 22 main lanes with black lights, cutting edge audio and visual system, and projection screens showing sports over our glow in the dark lanes. Bowling specials for the family to enjoy, bowling leagues for all ages, Special Olympic Bowling, and after-school bowling programs are just some of what we have to offer. Check out our website, theallstar.com, for available times and pricing. For additional fun, explore our new games in our new arcade.

St. Patrick Youth Community

St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick’s Youth Sports Programs promote our values, set goals, and help build lifelong friendships. We offer exciting team sport programs for boys and girls ages 4-16. Our sports programs include Deck Hockey, Soccer, Basketball, Girl’s Softball, Boy’s Baseball, and Intramural Basketball. St. Patrick’s is a wonderful place for children and young people to be together, work as a team, have fun, learn, and grow. We are a community where there is something for everyone. Call us for details and registration dates.

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Throw a Great Party for Any Age Three experts share their knowledge for planning a perfect birthday bash. ››

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lanning and hosting a birthday for a child of any age can be stressful and seem daunting. We’re here to help! A party planner, a party entertainer, and a mom who’s been in your shoes share their best tips to ensure everyone has a good time, no matter the age.

First Birthday

Time: Children get tired quickly so having a 90-minute party scheduled after naptime is preferred. You don’t want your child to have a meltdown, and this is when children have the highest energy level. —Linda Kaye, owner of Linda Kaye’s Partymakers and author of Bake a Cake Party Book Guest List: Limit it to no more than two or three children and their parents. Keep in mind that the more children there are, the louder the volume. —Jenna Higgins, author of Bashes on a Budget: Kids’ Birthdays Entertainment: It should engage your baby and use lots of music and instruments. Look for an entertainer who can use finger play, scarves, and parachutes, and involve the adults as well. —Janis Dionne McDavid, a.k.a. Ms. Janis, musician and birthday party entertainer 18

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Food: Bite-sized foods that don’t require sitting down and cutting are great options. Consider a buffet of mini-wraps, cheese, fruit, and mini water bottles. —LK Cake: Make or buy a cake with a design that your child will recognize, such as a favorite stuffed animal or toy. Having a separate mini-cake (or “smash cake”) for him has become popular, and he can get messy with that one. —LK Goodie Bags: Fun stickers that go with your theme or a coloring book and crayons are perfect. —JM Capture This Moment: Take a few family photos before your child gets cake all over her new outfit. Must-have photos include blowing out the candles, the entertainer with your child, and a group photo of all the children. —JH

Toddlers

Time: Ninety minutes is a good time frame. A light lunch, some running around, and then it is time for a nap. Guests won’t expect a long birthday. —JH Guest List: The number of guests should be between 12 and 20. Keep in mind: Children should be supervised by the parent, caregiver, or grown-up that brings them to your party. —JM

Entertainment: Clowns who arrive without any makeup and then put their makeup on in front of the children is fun because the children won’t get intimidated when they see that the clown is a real person. —LK Food: For the children, chicken tenders, applesauce, crackers, and fruit are great. Keep it simple for the adults with a chili or a taco bar. Something you can fix before the birthday is key. —JH Cake: Make your own birthday cake and get your child involved. Baking your own makes the cake that much more special, especially if it’s the first time you will be baking one together. —JM Goodie Bags: Incorporate the theme of the party and your child’s interests. For instance, if he loves robots, the children can build and decorate the robots and then take them home. —JM Capture This Moment: Children love watching themselves, so upload photos from the party to your computer and put together a simple slideshow the kids can watch on TV. —LK

Preschoolers

Time: Two hours works well for those parents brave enough to leave their children and pick them up later, and gives the children enough time to enjoy themselves without hitting the dreaded meltdown point. —JH Guest List: The number depends on where you’ll be having the party, but do invite the people significant in your child’s life. —LK Entertainment: Your child’s personality should reflect the entertainment. Themed parties are fun because the children jump right in and use their imaginations. Get creative and make up activities related to the theme. —JM Food: Individually wrapped items such as granola bars, fruit treats, and prepackaged crackers are all fantastic options to supplement your main meal. You can recycle what the children don’t eat, and it’s your best shot at getting them to eat something. —JH Cake: Ask your child what she wants and offer her options.

She’ll feel like she has input and it will certainly get her excited. —JH Goodie Bags: Books related to the theme of the party along with a small bag of candy are great. —LK Capture This Moment: Shoot the times when your child is interacting without you. Independence is huge at this age, so try to get those moments from a distance if possible. —JH

Elementary School (ages 6-8)

Time: Ninety minutes to two hours is appropriate at this age, when many kids have parties outside the home. —JM Guest List: The number of guests won’t overwhelm your child, so decide based on the capacity of the party location.

Families often opt for two parties: one for family and one for friends and classmates. —JH Entertainment: Places such as museums and skating rinks are great because the entertainment is built in. Or the party can be held at your child’s karate or dance school, and the children can take a class together, and then enjoy food and cake. —JM Food: A make-your-own sandwich buffet makes the food continued on next page ››

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experience fun and saves on the cost of catering. —LK Cake: Stick with your child’s tradition, but change it a little with sparkling, numbered, or unique candles. —JH Goodie Bags: Burn a CD of music that matches the theme of the party. —JM Capture This Moment: Children typically won’t have any problem playing it up for the cameras so ask them fun, silly questions on camera and make sure to get a group photo to remember the day. —JH

Tweens (ages 9-12)

Time: Two to three hours is ideal. —JM Guest List: Consider the space in which you are entertaining and then overestimate that amount. There tends to be a little wiggle room with RSVPs, and you should expect last-minute additions as well. —JH Entertainment: Children want to feel grown-up, so do a makeover party, a sleepover with an activity, or a baseball game. —LK Food: Cook your child’s favorite meal or have his favorite foods delivered. —JM Cake: You can make the cake the centerpiece of the party or get a cake that ties into the theme. —LK Goodie Bags: Try unexpected things such as a bag of microwaveable popcorn with soda and candy for a backyard movie-theme party or a jar of chocolate syrup and one topping with a label that reads, “After Party Indulgence.” —JH Capture This Moment: Give each party guest a disposable camera to take as many pictures as he or she wants. It’s fun for them, and you’ll end up with some great shots. —JM

Teenagers (ages 13-18)

Time: Between three and four hours, depending on the activity and how big the party is. —JM Guest List: Expect 20 or more teens, unless you are hosting a destination birthday party in which case your child should invite one or two friends. —JH Entertainment: Teens want to feel cool, so choose a place with a lounge-like atmosphere. A dance instructor can teach the group some moves. —LK Food: Serve fried chicken and easy-to-eat pastas, and a sundae or a smoothie bar. —LK Cake: Simply cut the cake and pass it out, or if your child can handle the attention, have a few friends carry out the cake and sing. —JH Goodie Bags: Gift cards such as $5 for Starbucks are the perfect fit. —JH Capture This Moment: Documentary style works well, so videotape the scene before the guests arrive, a few moments of your teen getting ready, and some candid moments with friends. —JH

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Now that your children are headed toward the pre-teen and adolescent years, party planning takes on a whole different hue. Here are some popular party ideas to help in your planning.

Party Ideas for Tween Girls

“Tween girls have very definite ideas about what they want for a party,” says Linda Kaye, owner of Linda Kaye’s Partymakers. “It’s important though—and this is also true for the parents of teens—for the parents to work with their daughters and offer direction.” Some favorite parties for girls of this age include: • Craft parties: Doll-making, jewelry design, ceramics, chocolate molding, and all kinds of structured craft activities. May be held at home or at a crafts studio or local Y. • Gymnastics, skating, and pool parties: Held at gymnastics centers, where the girls are instructed in the use of equipment such as hoops, balance beams, and trampolines; at ice-skating or roller rinks; or at community or backyard pools.

• Makeover and spa parties: These are held either at home (in which a makeup and hair consultant is present) or in a beauty salon or spa. Girls get their hair and nails done, and may experiment with makeup application or a variety of skin-care products.

• Sleepovers: Usually begin after dinner, and may include anywhere from three to 12 girls. Some parties are loosely structured with watching movies being the only planned activity. Others include some craft projects or organized games. Instead of (or in addition to) a birthday cake, many sleepovers include a make-your-own sundae bar.

• Specialty parties: Zumba or other dance class party held at a dance studio, murder mystery, bake-your-own goodies party held at a bakery, or parties held at a comedy club that caters to this age group.

Party Ideas for Tween Boys

Since this tends to be a high-energy, boisterous age, most parties are held outside the home in some type of rented facility, such as: • Action-themed parties: “Boys like adventure and team playing,” Kaye says. “Anything from a scavenger hunt at home or through the city is fun.” Visiting a museum or some kind of science activity are always options, she adds.

• Sports parties: Everything from basketball to miniature golf, soccer, roller hockey, and bowling. These can be held in a specialty facility (like a bowling alley or roller rink), but are increasingly held at large, multi-sports complexes where party guests can participate in a number of different activities. Parties at sporting events—Mets or Yankees, anyone?—are also popular.

• “Hi-tech” parties: Activities may include laser tag, hyperspace simulators, and virtual reality games such as virtual skiing or motorcycle racing.

Party Ideas for Teens

Many teens are happy to forego parties until a bar or bat mitzvah or the big sweet 16 gala. Other than those times, birthday parties for teens tend to be lowkey and casual, such as: • Dinner parties: Host a party at your teen’s favorite restaurant for a group of their friends.

• Sports parties: For 12- to 16-year-old boys, some variations on sports parties may still be popular, especially the ones that require a level of skill and dexterity.

• Experience parties: Teen dance parties, karaoke events, going to a movie, or attending a sporting event are often popular with this age group.

• Coed parties: Some teenage girls are definitely into large birthday parties, as long as they get to invite boys, and plenty of them! Entertainment usually includes music and dancing, and typical fare includes nachos, pizza, chips, and cake.

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BIRTHDAY PARTY PLACES @ Play Amusements

229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com Have your next party at the newly renovated @ Play Amusements! It offers 30,000-square-feet of fun ranging from 92 arcade games, inflatables, bumper cars, roller coaster, a carousel, disco room, and laser tag! It even provides all the paper goods, invites, thank you notes, food, and private hostess! It features five glow-in-the-dark private party rooms that are sure to be a hit! The action-packed amusement center will make your child’s special day be one that they will never forget! Fun for all ages!

The Adventure Park at Long Island

75 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights 631-983-3844 climbli.org The Adventure Park at Long Island features zip lines and challenge crossings between tree platforms. Perfect on your own, or with friends and family.

Great for birthday parties. Ask about group rates. Children ages 7 and older.

Choose from multiple color-coded trails from beginner (easier and lower to the ground) to advanced. Summer hours: seven days, day or night. See website for details. Use discount code MPL6 and save on your general admission ticket!

Reserve your visit at climbli.org.

The All Star

96 Main Road, Riverhead 631-998-3565 theallstar.com events@theallstar.com Bring your “A” Game to The All Star and have an unforgettable birthday experience! Bowl over our 22 main lanes with black lights, cutting edge audio and visual system, and projection screens showing music videos and sports over the glow-in-the-dark lanes. Captain Headpin will greet you and your friends!

Continue the party and experience our full arcade with the latest games for additional fun. You can also have your party in our private VIP room with six private bowling lanes. The All Star is the place for endless fun!

Artistic Gymnastics

425 Oser Ave., Hauppauge 631-273-8426 artisticgymnastics.net Give your child a birthday they will talk about for years to come. Your child will run, jump, laugh, flip, and tumble in a safe environment. Our highly trained staff will introduce your party guests to the wonderful sport of gymnastics.

Party goers will use all of the traditional equipment as well as Tumbl-Trak and our huge foam-filled pit. We provide the invites, staff, paper goods, utensils, drinks, and pizza. You supply the cupcakes, candles, matches, and party favors.

BounceU Farmingdale

101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com BounceU Farmingdale was voted “Best of Long Island” for Children’s Party Place and Family Amusement Center.

We provide the ideal combination of inflatable structures, a clean environment, incredible customer service, and non-stop excitement in a private party atmosphere. We feature giant inflatable toys and a wide variety of activities for children and adults, including basketball and boxing, obstacle courses, and slides.

We take pride in providing superior customer service. Private parties are meticulously planned and prepared by our knowledgeable staff, so parents can relax and enjoy themselves.

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfha.org steved@cshfha.org Celebrate your child’s next birthday at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium! See the Hatchery & Aquarium’s exciting live exhibits. Feed the hungry trout and learn about fish, reptiles, and amphibians with an upclose animal encounter. For children turning ages 3 and older. Fishing Parties available too! Fishing Party guests will enjoy a 45-minute fishing bonanza.

Fishing is catch-and-release only. For children turning ages 4 and older. All parties will be followed by your desired festivities. Educational party hosts and goodie bags included.

Long Island Aquarium & Exhibition Center

431 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-208-9200 x186 longislandaquarium.com Have an Aquatic Birthday Party at the Long Island Aquarium! Take a private tour of the aquarium with one of our expert educators. Receive preferential treatment at our Submarine Simulator and Discovery Tower rides and special seating at our Sea Lion Show, where the birthday child will get a shout-out from one of the stars! Have lunch and a Friendly’s ice cream cake in your private party room. The party doesn’t end when the candles are blown out. Your guests have access to the aquarium for the entire day.

Modern Warrior

711 N. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst 631-226-8383 888-MWARRIOR (692-7746) modernwarrior.com info@modernwarrior.com This year, give your child the “Party of a Lifetime” at Modern Warrior! Parents will appreciate the practical, easy-tolearn self-defense skills their children will gain and the kids have a blast! Parties include realistic and age-appropriate self-defense; fun activities including blindfolds, cool lighting, and obstacle courses; and pizza and complimentary gift certificates for all the guests! Birthday guest of honor is free and will get an honorary belt to wear for the duration of the party. Parties are $249 for 15 guests, and additional guests are $10 each.

Tumbling Tunes

212 Laurel Road, East Northport 631-697-0140 tumblingtunes.com tumblingtunes@gmail.com Tumbling Tunes specializes in parties for children ages 1-6. Our parties consist of music, movement, games, gymnastics, and free play tailored to your child’s age and ability. Pizza, juice boxes, and balloons are included for kids. We also offer a healthy food option if desired. Ample staff assures a safe, interactive environment. Parties start at $300 for up to 12 children. A photographer, gourmet cupcakes, and goodie bags are also available. Children are sure to enjoy their special day at our high-energy parties!

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Check out this list of great family outings. While most can be visited year-round, we’ve suggested the best time of year to visit each one, to help organize your family’s calendar so you can discover new adventures all year long.

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1 As you stroll the Museum of the Moving Image’s galleries, you’ll get a peek at movie-making’s early days and develop an appreciation for how far the industry has advanced in the last century. 2 The annual Hallockville Museum Farm Barn Dance is fun for all ages—no dancing experience needed! 3 The American Folk Art Museum’s main gallery showcases works of American creative expression from the past and present. 4 Kids can get behind the wheel of a vintage bus in the On the Streets exhibit at New York Transit Museum. 5 Students participating in the Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Early Childhood Action in

Nature—a project that offers free pre-K and kindergarten programs during the school year as part of the Nature Play grant from the Institute for Museum and Library Services—excitedly enter Grasshopper Grove. 6 Alice Austen House is a Dutch farmhouse that was built in 1690, and is a National Historical Landmark.

winter American Folk Art Museum

Learn about America’s rich historical, social, and artistic culture at the American Folk Art Museum on the Upper West Side of Manhattan. See more at nymetroparents.com/afa-museum.

Museum of the Moving Image

Spring Alice Austen House

A historical landmark and vibrant cultural center, the Alice Austen House, located on Staten Island, exhibits parts of Austen’s extensive photography collection with the mission of keeping the spirit of early American photograpy alive. See more at nymetroparents.com/aah.

The Museum of the Moving Image in Astoria, Queens, is the only museum of its kind in the country. Visitors young and old can get a behind-the-screen view of films, TV shows, and video games, from classics to modern-day favorites. See more at nymetroparents.com/mmi-queens.

Hudson Highlands Nature Museum

New York Transit Museum

At the Hallockville Museum Farm in Riverhead, kids can learn about Long Island’s agricultural history. Visit farm animals, try your hand at old-fashioned crafts, and attend annual events such as the Fleece and Fiber Fair in spring. See more at nymetroparents.com/hmf.

Housed inside a historic subway station in Downtown Brooklyn, Brooklyn, the New York Transit Museum takes an interactive, educational look at how the city moves—literally. See more at nymetroparents.com/nytm.

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Wildlife abounds at Hudson Highlands Nature Museum in Cornwall, which was founded in 1959 with a focus on environmental education. See more at nymetroparents.com/hhnm.

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Governors Island

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Built in 1755 and rebuilt in 1779 after the Revolutionary War, the Burr Homestead, in Fairfield, CT, has hosted visitors, such as George Washington and Samuel Adams, and events, such as John Hancock and Dorothy Quincy’s wedding. The venue now hosts several annual events for families See more at nymetroparents.com/bh.

An aerial view of New York Harbor and Governors Island

Connecticut’s Beardsley Zoo

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Beardsley Zoo in Bridgeport, CT, offers visitors of all ages the chance to experience nature with yearround family-friendly programming that emphasizes education, conservation, and fun. See more at nymetroparents.com/cbz.

Located in the heart of the Fairfield Town Green historic district, the Burr Mansion is a historically renowned location offering a look into what was Fairfield’s cultural and social center.

Philipsburg Manor

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Governors Island offers summer days filled with outdoor fun, culture, and learning. A 72-acre island in the heart of New York Harbor, Governors Island opened as a military fortress in 1775, and remained a full-service base for the U.S. Army and Coast Guard until 1996. In 2003 it was land-marked and designated a national park, and in 2014, 30 acres opened to the public. See more at nymetroparents.com/gi.

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The Burr Homestead

Play games such as Ring a Cob at the CORNucopia festival in September at Philipsburg Manor.

Through historical interpretation and interactive storytelling, Philipsburg Manor, a living history museum in Sleepy Hollow, immerses visitors in the lives of colonial slaves on an 18th-century estate. See more at nymetroparents. com/pm.

Cradle of Aviation Museum

Visit Bear Mountain State Park where there are plenty of outdoor activities to enjoy the warmer weather. Situated in Rockland County, the terrain is home to countless Bear Mountain Lodge was built in 1915. native animal and plant species, including the black bear—from which it gets its name. See more at nymetroparents.com/bmsp.

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Bear Mountain State Park

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Enjoy a ride on Beardsley Zoo’s colorful indoor carousel.

This Grumman F-11A Tiger, developed in Bethpage in 1954, hangs in the museum’s visitor center atrium. The Navy’s Blue Angels aerobatic team flew Tigers for more than 10 years.

Fly with the Blue Angels, meet an astronaut, and soar into space at the Cradle of Aviation Museum in Garden City, an institution that celebrates the grand history of aviation on Long Island. See more at nymetroparents.com/aviation-museum.

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Editor’s Hot Tickets Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the eight events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

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KidFEST: ‘Peter Pan’

WHEN: Wednesday, July 6, 5pm WHERE: John Drew Theater at Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 3-8 WHAT: In this refreshing adaptation, DuffleBag Theatre invites audience members to come up on stage and join in the action.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This unpredictable performance is a truly interactive experience in which the dream of living a fairy tale actually does come true.

WANT TO GO? $18; $14 children. 631-237-4810. guildhall.org.

Sprinkler Dance Party

WHEN: Sunday, July 10, 12-3pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center of Cold Spring Harbor, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Dance and splash in sprinklers and enjoy face painting, ice pops, and craft stations.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Sprinklers are the epitome of summertime fun!

WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children; $4 face painting. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

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WHEN: Monday, July 11, 5-6pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Take an imaginary walk through an amusement park to discover the wild world of physics.

WHY WE LOVE IT: What a great way to learn physics!

WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

WHEN: July 23-24, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: Harbes Family Farm, 715 Sound Ave., Mattituck AGES: All WHAT: Bring the family to see who’s the best country corn eater around, then visit Barnyard Adventure for a Singing Hayride and pig races.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Corn custard ice cream will be available for purchase, and we hear it’s out of this world!

WANT TO GO? $12.95 Barnyard Adventure. 631-298-0800. harbesfamilyfarm.com.

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WHEN: July 14-17, Thursday-Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Great South Bay Music Festival, Shorefront Park, Patchogue AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Families can enjoy this four-day music festival, which includes KidZone, educational entertainment, and more.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This outdoor music festival capped by a performance by the Laurie Berkner Band will have the whole family on their feet!

WANT TO GO? $39. 631-331-0808. greatsouthbaymusicfestival.com.

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Mermaid Tea Party

WHEN: Saturday, July 23, 12-3pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center of Cold Spring Harbor, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Decorate a tiara, explore shells, and enjoy treats and iced tea.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Every day should be a tea party!

WANT TO GO? $15 adult-child pair; $4 additional children. 631-3673418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

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WHEN: Tuesday, July 26, 5:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 3-12, adult WHAT: Enjoy a unique performance by madcap balloon artist Allynn Gooen, who will fill the stage with extraordinary balloon creations.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Balloons have a special place in our heart!

WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

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WHEN: Friday, July 29, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Picasso Kidz, 72 Broadway, Greenlawn AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Learn how to make cool pieces of art using old CDs, ink, and a pencil.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Great way to refashion something that would otherwise end up in the landfill!

WANT TO GO? $35. 631-261-5500. picassokidz.com.

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Summer Kick-Off and Picnic FREE

WHEN: Friday, July 1, 5pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Take a self-guided tour of the summer exhibitions. Bring a picnic and stake your territory on museum grounds for an outdoor concert performed by the Stony Brook Chamber Ensemble.

WANT TO GO? 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.

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WHEN: Thursday, July 21, 5-6pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Discover exciting fitness feats in pictures by famous artists LeRoy Neiman and others. Then create your own fitness fantasy picture using cut-out figures and papers.

WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Family Fridays FREE

WHEN: July 8-29, Fridays, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: The Common Ground, Rotary Park between Gillette and Candee avenues, Sayville AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy performances and shows every Friday night for families, including Jester Jim, Darlene Graham, Magic of Amore, and Erik’s Edventures.

WANT TO GO? 631-664-4230. thecommonground.com.

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WHEN: July 18-19, Monday-Tuesday, 1pm WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park, parking field 5, Fire Island AGES: All WHAT: Visit the Keeper’s Quarters, historic boathouse, and Fresnel Lens Building from a keeper’s perspective.

WANT TO GO? 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.

It Takes a Team to Build a Village FREE

WHEN: Through Sept. 7: daily, 10am-5pm WHERE: WMHO Educational & Cultural Center, 97P Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: To commemorate the 75th anniversary of the construction of Stony Brook Village, the Ward Melville Heritage Organization will display memorabilia spanning seven decades.

WANT TO GO? 631-751-2244. wmho.org. ››

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‘My Son Pinocchio Jr.’

WHEN: July 8-16, see website for dates and times WHERE: The Gateway, 215 South Country Road, Bellport AGES: 3-8 WHAT: In this updated version of the Disney classic, the story is told through Gepetto’s perspective.

WANT TO GO? $12. 631-286-0555. thegateway.org.

‘Caps for Sale’

WHEN: Saturday, July 16, 11am WHERE: Bay Street Theater, Bay and Main streets, Sag Harbor AGES: 3-8 WHAT: To celebrate the 75th Anniversary of Esphyr Slobodkina’s story, The PuppeTree has updated this production to include the book’s original art and tells the story with puppets from different cultures. Presented by Goat on a Boat Puppet Theater at Bay Street.

WANT TO GO? $15. 631-725-9500. baystreet.org.

‘The Wizard of Oz’

SHOW TIME! ‘Squirrel Stole My Underpants’

WHEN: Thursday, July 7, 11am WHERE: Bay Street Theater, Bay and Main streets, Sag Harbor AGES: 3-8 WHAT: A mischievous squirrel steals Sylvie’s favorite piece of clothing and runs off. When Sylvie gives chase, an entire world emerges from her laundry basket. Presented by Goat on a Boat Puppet Theater at Bay Street.

WANT TO GO? $15. 631-725-9500. baystreet.org.

‘Sondheim on Sondheim’

WHEN: July 9-17, Saturday-Sunday, 11:30am and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Join Dorothy, the Scarecrow, the Tin Man, and the Cowardly Lion as they come to life in an adaptation featuring the music of the MGM movie.

WANT TO GO? $12. 516-599-6870. plazatheatrical.com.

KidFEST: ‘Pinkalicious, The Musical’

WHEN: Wednesday, July 20, 5pm WHERE: John Drew Theater at Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Pinkalicious can’t stop eating pink cupcakes despite warnings from her parents WANT TO GO? $18; $14 children. 631-237-4810. guildhall.org.

WHEN: Through July 10: Wednesdays, 2pm; Fridays, 8pm; Saturdays, 8pm; Sundays, 2:30pm WHERE: The Bayway Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Through the use of exclusive interview footage, audiences get an inside look at famed composer Stephen Sondheim’s personal life and artistic process.

WANT TO GO? $28. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

‘Princess Pirates Pea’

Kids on the Green: Ned Gelfars FREE

‘Into the Woods’

WHEN: Tuesday, July 12, 5:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Audiences laugh out loud at Gelfars’ show full of juggling, unicycling, and more.

WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

National Circus Project

WHEN: Friday, July 15, 11:30am and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Meet one of the talented performers for a solo circus showcasing a variety of circus skills, including juggling, stilts, unicycles, and clowning.

WANT TO GO? $5 with museum admission: $13; $12 for seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

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WHEN: Thursday, July 21, 11am WHERE: Bay Street Theater, Bay and Main streets, Sag Harbor AGES: 3-8 WHAT: In this tale about the benefits of cooperation, a princess stays one step ahead of a pirate in a search for hidden treasure.

Presented by Goat on a Boat Puppet Theater at Bay Street.

WANT TO GO? $15. 631-725-9500. baystreet.org.

WHEN: July 16-31, Wednesdays, 2pm; Friday-Saturday, 8pm; Sundays, 2:30pm WHERE: The Bayway Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A baker and his wife wish to have a child, Cinderella wishes to attend the King’s Festival, and Jack wishes his cow would give milk.

WANT TO GO? $28. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

‘Curious George and The Golden Meatball’

WHEN: July 16–Aug. 28, Saturday-Sunday, 11am WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: 3-8 WHAT: George goes on a mission to enter the Chef Pisghett’s meatballs in the world-famous Golden Meatball Contest in Rome.

WANT TO GO? $15. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.

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Musicians Kids on the Green: Uncle Brothers Band FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, July 13, 7-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Earn community service hours by making special projects for the children at Stony Brook Hospital Pediatric Hematology/Oncology Clinic.

WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

WHEN: Tuesday, July 5, 5:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Enjoy this family-friendly, upbeat music show.

WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Meet the Breeds FREE

Picnic Pops: The Harlem Speakeasy Orchestra

WHEN: Friday, July 15, 7-8pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Meet some dachshunds, whose owner is serving in the military, and learn how you can help veterans.

WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Run for a Reason 5K Run/Walk

WHEN: Saturday, July 23, 9am WHERE: Southampton Cultural Center, 25 Pond Lane, Southampton AGES: All WHAT: Run (or walk) and help directly support the programs and services Southampton Youth Services and AHRC Suffolk provide.

AHRC Suffolk is a leader in programs and services for individuals with intellectual and developmental challenges.

WANT TO GO? $25. 631-585-0100.

America’s VetDogs Long Island Run and Dog Walk

WHEN: Wednesday, July 6, 7pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: The group presents the music of the Big Band Era. Bring a chair or blanket and your dancing shoes.

WANT TO GO? $12; free for children 17 and younger. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Steel Impressions Band Concert FREE

WHEN: Friday, July 8, 6:30-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: All WHAT: Steel Impressions performs authentic Caribbean music: calypso, reggae, and soca tunes on state-of-the-art steel pans.

WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

WHEN: Saturday, July 30, 7-9:30am WHERE: Old Bethpage Restoration Village, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Consider a 5K timed run on a certified course or choose a 2-mile walk with or without a pup. All proceeds to benefit America’s VetDogs.

WANT TO GO? $25-$35. 631-930-9054. lirace4vets.vetdogs.org.

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WHEN: Saturday, July 30, 9:15am WHERE: Peconic Riverfront, 18 Peconic Ave., Riverhead AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This fun-filled day of races helps raise money for the nonprofit organization United Way’s VetsBuild program. The Kids Sprint is a 150-yard race for children younger than 12.

WANT TO GO? $40 canoe and kayak rentals; $15 Kids Sprint. 631208-9200. paddlebattleli.com.

Free Summer Meals For Kids FREE

WHEN: July 5–Aug. 12, Monday-Friday, 11am-1pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Sponsored by the U.S. Department of Agriculture, the Summer Food Service Program provides free, nutritious meals to help children in low-income areas get the nutrition they need to learn, play, and grow when school is not in session.

WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

WHEN: Saturday, July 16, 1-1:45pm WHERE: Blue Duck Bakery, 309 E. Main St., Riverhead AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Sing-along to some of the award-winning Music Together Storybooks and make maracas that your child can use to dance and jam.

WANT TO GO? 631-208-4003. lyricalchildren.com.

WHEN: Tuesday, July 19, 5:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 3-12 WHAT: This upbeat show will have you singing, clapping, and dancing from the very first song right through his last rocking song “Dance with Me to My Music.”

WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Summer Concert Series FREE

WHEN: July 7–Sept. 29, Thursdays, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Smith Haven Mall, 313 Smith Haven Mall, Lake Grove AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy Thursday nights listening to music at the Smith Haven Mall. See website for performance schedule.

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Fireworks Spectacular at Jones Beach

WHEN: Monday, July 4, dusk WHERE: Jones Beach State Park, 1000 Ocean Parkway, Wantagh AGES: All WHAT: There’s nothing like watching a spectacular fireworks show with the whole family.

WANT TO GO? $10 per car. 631-321-3510. nysparks.com/parks.

Parade of American Flags FREE

WHEN: Monday, July 4, 10am-4pm WHERE: Heritage Park in Mount Sinai, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: All WHAT: Walk between national, state, territory, and local flags, and read about our history to serve as a remembrance of those who have served our nation.

WANT TO GO? 631-384-8900. msheritagetrust.org.

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WHEN: Sunday, July 3, 11am-5pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s Farmingdale, 261 Airport Plaza, Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Acclaimed chuck wagon cook, humorist, and “cowboy poet” Kent Rollins invites customers to take a trip to the Old West this Independence Day weekend and experience the best food on the trail.

WANT TO GO? 516-962-8210. stewleonards.com.

1861 Independence Day Celebration

WHEN: Monday, July 4, 10am-4pm WHERE: Old Bethpage Village Restoration, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: The 1861 Independence Day is celebrated in the same fashion as it was 155 years ago. There will be a parade followed by speeches and ceremonies, historic trade demonstrations, Civil War era soldiers, and more.

WANT TO GO? $10; $7 children ages 5-12; free for children younger than 5. 516-572-8400. nassaucountyny.gov.

40th Annual Macy’s 4th of July Fireworks FREE

WHEN: Monday, July 4, 9:20pm WHERE: East River, South Street Seaport and Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: America’s most explosive Independence Day party will take place from two locations on the East River; midtown and the South Street Seaport district. Arrive early to secure your spot.

WANT TO GO? 212-494-4495. macys.com/fireworks.

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WHEN: Saturday, July 2, 2pm WHERE: Heckscher State Park, 1 Heckscher State Parkway, East Islip AGES: All WHAT: This interactive show features 10 amazing reptiles and a petting zoo.

WANT TO GO? 631-581-2100. parks.ny.gov/parks.

Animal Passport

WHEN: July 2-3, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Learn about eels, then children can make eel-related crafts and play games.

WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org.

Goin’ Quackers FREE

WHEN: Friday, July 15, 11-11:45am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Use your five senses, hear a story, make a craft, and have handson interaction with live ducks.

WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Horseshoe Crab Program

WHEN: Monday, July 18, 7pm WHERE: The Fire Island Lighthouse, 1 Burma Road, Fire Island AGES: All WHAT: Learn about Horseshoe Crabs and watch them come ashore to lay their eggs while reveling in the beauty of the evening on a June beach. Reservations required.

WANT TO GO? $4. 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.

Whales and Whaling FREE

WHEN: Monday, July 18, 4-5pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-12

WHAT: Learn about whales and discuss the life of Captain Henry Green, a whaler from Sag Harbor. Then, make a scrimshaw craft just like the sailors on whaling ships.

WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

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Family Fridays: Erik and His Reptile ‘Edventures’ FREE

WHEN: Friday, July 29, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: The Common Ground, Rotary Park between Gillette and Candee avenues, Sayville AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Erik returns with his amazing creatures for this exciting event for the whole family.

WANT TO GO? 631-664-4230. thecommonground.com.

Build a Bug House

David Rosaire’s World-Famous Dog Show

WHEN: Through Sept. 5: daily, 12pm and 3pm WHERE: Long Island Game Farm, 638 Chapman Blvd., Manorville AGES: All WHAT: New this year is the addition of Chinese-themed costumes and production elements that celebrate the heritage of Mr. Rosaire’s pups.

WANT TO GO? $16.95; $14.95 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 631-878-6670. longislandgamefarm.com. ››

Put a bit of ooh-la-la in your weekend at this French street fair.

Vive La Upper East Side Celebrate Bastille Day and enjoy the best of French culture at the French Institute Alliance Française’s annual street fair Bastille Day on 60th Street. From Can-Can to crafts for les enfants, macarons to cheese tastings, enjoy the transformation of the Upper East Side to Paris for the day. July 10, 12-5pm. Age: All. East 60th Street between Fifth and Lexington avenues, Upper East Side.

212-355-6100. bastilledayny.com.

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WHEN: July 27-31, Wednesday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Using natural materials, design and build a bug house to help the environment and the bees.

WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.

Catch the July 4th fireworks on the East River.

Happy Birthday America!

The most famous July 4th fireworks display in the U.S. returns to the East River, celebrating a milestone birthday of its own. The 40th Macy’s 4th of July Fireworks will explode from barges in two locations this year: South Street Seaport and Midtown. An amazing 45,000 pyrotechnic shells will be used during the 25-minute synchronized display! If you’re not lucky enough to live in a DUMBO penthouse and want to snag a good spot, arrive very early and be prepared to wait. Or simply turn on your TV instead. July 4, 9:20pm. Age: All. East River, South Street Seaport and Midtown.

212-494-4495. macys.com/fireworks.

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Chess Nuts FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, July 13, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-12 WHAT: For an hour, beginners as well as experienced chess players, develop strategies, sharpen their skills, and have fun playing a game of chess.

WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Super Heroes of the Sea

WHEN: July 11-15, Monday-Friday, 9:30am-1pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Hone your superhero skills as you explore the amazing abilities of science and secrets behind ocean champions.

WANT TO GO? $35 per day. 6313673418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Oceans of Motion!

WHEN: July 13-17, Wednesday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Make a model sea using colorful solids and liquids to explore density and see what floats and what sinks.

WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.

Energy Week

smarty pants Ocean Explorers Camp

WHEN: Through July 1: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-1pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center of Cold Spring Harbor, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Discover life at sea with nautical games, craft projects, and seaworthy activities.

WANT TO GO? $30 per day; $80 for 3 days. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Ready, Set, Make a Magnet FREE

WHEN: Thursday, July 7, 11-11:30am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Make and take home a sports-themed magnet.

WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Let’s Get Rolling!

WHEN: July 6-10, Wednesday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Build and test your own roller coaster while you explore physics and math. Find ways to make objects move just the right amount up or down through pathways and ramps to keep the “car” on the track.

WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.

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WHEN: July 18-22, Monday-Friday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Learn about energy conservation through hands-on STEM activities provided by LICM’s Green Teens and in connection with National Grid.

WANT TO GO? $13; $12 for seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Sailor Boot Camp

WHEN: July 18-22, Monday-Friday, 9:30am-1pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Learn about life at sea as a whaler (or a pirate) with games, crafts, and seaworthy activities.

WANT TO GO? $35 a day. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Archaeological Dig with Quadrats

WHEN: July 20-24, Wednesday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Learn how to use transects and quadrats to go on an archaeological dig right in the museum.

WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.

Bug Day

WHEN: Sunday, July 24, 12-4pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn about and handle a variety of bugs, and if you’re craving something more adventurous, eat some bugs at the Bug Café, where you can taste different bug-based products and learn about entomophagy, the practice of eating insects.

WANT TO GO? $15; $12 children ages 2-17. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Egg-to-Table Brunch

WHEN: Sunday, July 17, 10am-12pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Meet pastured chickens and collect their eggs, right from the nest.

Then enjoy a farm-fresh organic buffet brunch on the farm.

WANT TO GO? $25; $15 children. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.

Tick Wise FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, July 26, 11am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Lean how to prevent tick bites and what to do if bitten.

WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Family Seaside Adventure

WHEN: July 6-27, Wednesdays, 10am-12pm WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park, parking field 5, Fire Island AGES: 7-12, adult WHAT: Tour the tower and make a lighthouse wind chime.

WANT TO GO? $5. 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.

Wacky Water Wednesdays

WHEN: July 6-27, Wednesdays, 11am-2pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Children should bring a towel and cool off under the Hatchery’s lawn sprinklers.

WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org.

Tots Cook

WHEN: July 7-28, Thursdays, 11am-12:30pm and 2-3:30pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Tour the farm to gather the ingredients needed to make a healthy, farm-to-table delicacy and learn how they were produced.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $15 per class. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.

Tinkergarten Outdoor Play Classes

WHEN: July 9-30, Saturdays, 10-11am and 11:30am-1pm WHERE: Kalers Pond Park, Montauk Highway, Center Moriches AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: This engaging, play-based learning program takes place outdoors and is designed to develop well-balanced people who can problem-solve, lead, and create.

WANT TO GO? $20 per class. 516-672-1395. tinkergarten.com.

Ice Cream Social

WHEN: Saturday, July 30, 4-6pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy free ice cream with a variety of toppings while meeting others who love the hatchery.

WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org.

special needs Special Olympics Bowling at the All Star

WHEN: Through Dec. 1: Mondays, 5pm WHERE: The All Star, 96 Main Road, Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Bowlers with special needs are invited to bowl on the main lanes and experience the arcade with the latest games.

WANT TO GO? $10 for two games. 631-998-3565. theallstar.com.

Sky Zone Cares

WHEN: Monday, July 11, 3-6pm WHERE: Sky Zone Deer Park, 111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park AGES: All WHAT: Sky Zone dials down the music, increases the staff ratio, and limits capacity.

WANT TO GO? $16 per hour. 631-392-2600. skyzone.com/deerpark. ›› LongIslandParent 33

Crafty Kids Create Stations

WHEN: Through July 1: Monday-Friday, 2-5pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center of Cold Spring Harbor, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy crafty stations around the museum set up with materials for open-ended nautical creations.

WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Create a Colorful Piece of Firework Art

WHEN: July 2-3, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: See how colors blend together on paper, then cut out your own colorful designs to make a beautiful firework scene.

WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.

Cupcake Painting Workshop

WHEN: Friday, July 15, 4-5:30pm WHERE: Picasso Kidz, 72 Broadway, Greenlawn AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Learn to paint a cupcake step by step just like famous artist Wayne Thiebuad.

WANT TO GO? $35. 631-261-5500. picassokidz.com.

Recycled Art Workshop

WHEN: Wednesday, July 27, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Picasso Kidz, 72 Broadway, Greenlawn AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Using recycled materials, create fun and whimsical pieces of art.

WANT TO GO? $35. 631-261-5500. picassokidz.com.

Color Manga Madness FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, July 27, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Learn the proper techniques to color manga characters from manga artist Mina.

WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

KidFEST: Hands-On Arts and Crafts Workshop

WHEN: July 6-27, Wednesdays, 4-4:45pm WHERE: Boots Lamb Education Center at Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Participate in various art activities, including creating and designing fairy wings and drawing treasure maps. See website for schedule.

WANT TO GO? $10. 631-324-0806. guildhall.org.

Throwback Thursday Workshops

WHEN: July 7-28, Thursdays, 2:30-4:30pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center of Cold Spring Harbor, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Stop in and create in family-friendly, historical craft workshops. Sessions include Build-a-Boat, Lighthouse Designer, and Scrimshaw Carving.

WANT TO GO? $8 with museum admission: $6; $5 children. 631-3673418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Mommy and Me Workshop

WHEN: July 5-30, Tuesday-Wednesday and Saturdays, 10-11am WHERE: Picasso Kidz, 72 Broadway, Greenlawn AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Enjoy an hour of fun process-based art taught by NYS-certified art teachers.

WANT TO GO? $25. 631-261-5500. picassokidz.com.

Ballerina Painting on Canvas

WHEN: Sunday, July 31, 12-1:30pm WHERE: Picasso Kidz, 72 Broadway, Greenlawn AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Knowledgeable NYS-certified art teachers will show you how to create a beautiful ballerina on canvas.

WANT TO GO? $35. 631-261-5500. picassokidz.com.

Jackson Pollock Family Drip Painting Workshop

WHEN: Through Oct. 8: Saturdays, 10-11:30am WHERE: Pollock-Krasner House and Study Center, 830 Springs Fireplace Road, East Hampton AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Families tour the Pollock-Krasner House and studio, followed by a drip painting workshop for children.

WANT TO GO? $35. 917-502-0790. imaginearted.com.

ON SCREEN Kid Flix

WHEN: July 12-14, Tuesday-Thursday, 9:30-11:10am and 12-2:10pm WHERE: The Plaza Cinema & Media Arts Center, 20 Terry St., Patchogue AGES: 3-12 WHAT: View the top films from the New York Children’s International Film Festival. Each screening will be followed by a short activity related to making animated movies.

WANT TO GO? $10 child-adult pair; $9 adults. 631-438-0083. plazamac.org.

Movies in the Moonlight: ‘Inside Out’ FREE

WHEN: Friday, July 15, dusk WHERE: Heritage Park in Mount Sinai, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: All WHAT: Bring a blanket or chair and enjoy a family event in the park watching a movie on a large screen. Food and beverages available for purchase.

WANT TO GO? 631-509-0882. msheritagetrust.org.

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Annual Barn Dance

movers & shakers Mounted Cowboy Shooting Match

WHEN: Sunday, July 10, 11:30am-1:30pm WHERE: Old Bethpage Village Restoration Fairgrounds, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: The show is based on the historical reenactment of shooting events held at Wild West Shows during the 19th century.

WANT TO GO? $10; $7 children ages 5-12; free for children younger than 5. 516-572-8400. islandlongriders.com.

Light Keepers Behind the Scenes Tour

WHEN: Monday, July 11, 9am WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park, parking field 5, Fire Island AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Follow a present day lighthouse keeper on his rounds.

WANT TO GO? $20. 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.

KidFEST: Soul Street Dance Workshop

WHEN: Wednesday, July 13, 3-4pm WHERE: Boots Lamb Education Center at Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Different styles of choreography are taught that students can then use to create their own original dances.

WANT TO GO? $10. 631-324-0806. guildhall.org.

Storytime Yoga FREE

WHEN: Thursday, July 21, 10-11:45am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Bring favorite book characters to life with yoga poses.

WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Zumba FREE

WHEN: Monday, July 25, 5:30-6:30pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Try this Latin-inspired dance/fitness class.

WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

KidFEST: Pirate School

WHEN: Wednesday, July 27, 5pm WHERE: John Drew Theater at Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Pirate professor Billy Bones teaches youngsters how to be good pirates with lessons on how to stand, talk, sing, and laugh like buccaneers.

WANT TO GO? $18; $14 children. 631-237-4810. guildhall.org.

WHEN: Saturday, July 30, 6:30pm WHERE: Hallockville Farm, 6038 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live traditional music and learn the dance steps from caller Chart Guthrie in the historic Naugles Barn.

WANT TO GO? $25; $5 children ages 5-12; free for children younger than 5. 631-779-2934. peconiccommunityschool.org.

Kiddie Fit FREE

WHEN: July 18–Aug. 1; Mondays, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children will combine academic skills and exercise.

WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Bagel & Bowl

WHEN: Through Dec. 25: Sundays, 10am-12pm WHERE: The All Star, 96 Main Road, Riverhead AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Enjoy a bagel, juice, and two games of bowling.

WANT TO GO? $10. 631-998-3565. theallstar.com

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALES Heritage Car Show FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, July 12, 10am-3pm WHERE: Heritage Park in Mount Sinai, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy great cars, vendors, raffles, and food.

WANT TO GO? 631-509-0882. msheritagetrust.org.

5th Annual Fun On The Farm Day

WHEN: Saturday, July 16, 11am-4:30pm WHERE: Wickham’s Fruit Farm, 28700 Route 25, Cutchogue AGES: All WHAT: Visit Long Island’s largest fruit farm on Peconic Bay, ride a wagon, pick seasonal berries, and prepare jam and desserts. Visit the only goat dairy on the North Fork, and learn how cheese is made. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $40; $50 children ages 3-15; free for children younger than 3. 516-338-0552. funonthefarmday.com.

Family Fun Day FREE

WHEN: Sunday, July 31, 1-4pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Family activities include gallery tours, crafts, refreshments, and a live, interactive musical performance by Funky Town Playground.

WANT TO GO? 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.

Parents Night Out

WHEN: July 1-29, Fridays, 6:30-9:30pm; Saturdays, 6-9pm WHERE: Tumbling Tunes, 212 Laurel Road, East Northport AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Parents enjoy a night out while children enjoy gymnastics, crafts, music games, and more with an experienced staff. Reservations required.

WANT TO GO? $12 per hour; $17 for two siblings; $20 for three siblings. 631-697-0140. tumblingtunes.com.

Coming up next month: Aug. 3: Seaside Story Time at The Fire Island Lighthouse Aug. 24: Children’s Victorian Tea Party at Walt Whitman Birthplace Aug. 27: Bay Street Presents The Joshua Show at Bay Street Theater LongIslandParent 35

HEALTH

Our Best Advice

A roundup of health and safety tips from local doctors and experts ››

W

e searched the archives of our website and found some of the best health and safety advice from local experts, from dealing with colds to choosing the right doctor for your family, and even some valuable safety tips for when your family is having fun outdoors.

Dealing with Colds “There are so many cold symptoms, but it’s ok to send your child to school with a runny nose, a little sneezing, and a slight cough with instructions to always cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze and always dispose of tissues. Send her with a hand cleaner or hand sanitizer for her to keep in her bag so she can constantly clean her hands.” —Sandyha Katz, M.D., an emergency medical associate of Nyack Hospital Emergency Department in Nyack, on when your child should stay home vs. when it’s okay to go to school (nymetroparents.com/symptoms) “Hand washing is one of the most effective things you can do to safeguard your health and should be done both before eating or drinking and before touching your mouth, eyes, or nose (these

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are entrance points for germs). For best results, wash hands to the tune of ‘Happy Birthday,’ sung twice, or about 15-20 seconds.

Make sure to clean in between fingers, the top and bottom surfaces of hands, and under the nail bed.” —Philip Tierno, Ph.D., clinical professor of microbiology and pathology at NYU School of Medicine in Manhattan, on keeping your family healthy when one person is sick (nymetroparents.com/family-health) “Figuring out whether your child has the flu can be difficult. The common cold is associated with a runny nose, congestion, cough and occasionally a fever. It may also initially begin with a sore throat.

Influenza usually causes fatigue, body and muscle aches, sore throat, congestion, cough, and fever.” —Gary Mirkin, M.D., CEO of Allied Physicians Group, which has practices in New York City, Long Island, and Westchester and Rockland counties, on determining whether your child has a cold or the flu (nymetroparents.com/cold-flu)

Choosing a Doctor “Your pediatrician becomes a member of your extended family in some sense. We don’t only take care of the babies—it’s important

to take care of the whole family unit and how the baby affects the family unit. So its really important that parents feel like they can trust the advice their pediatrician gives and feel like they’re not being judged by how they feel and what they’re bringing to the table.” —Hai Cao, M.D., a pediatrician at Park Slope Pediatrics in Park Slope, Brooklyn, on choosing a pediatrician (nymetroparents.com/pediatrician) “Ask yourself whether the pediatrician isn’t a good fit or whether it’s the whole practice. If you are interested in working with another pediatrician in the practice, it shouldn’t be a problem.

You can ask for a different pediatrician when you make your child’s next appointment. If you wish to change to a different practice, don’t feel guilty or worry that you will hurt anyone’s feelings. Your child’s care is the most important consideration.”

—Sanjiv Shah, M.D., chief medical director of Fidelis Care, which offers free and low-cost health insurance coverage, on changing pediatricians (nymetroparents.com/new-doc) “What, if any, training is given to staff regarding providing care for patients with developmental disabilities? What do you do if a patient becomes agitated or combative in the waiting room? How do you draw blood or give shots if a patient with a developmental disability objects? Do you have or participate in any programs to help desensitize a patient to these more invasive procedures?” —Lela Mayers, M.D., M.P.H., medical director at Aetna and former chief of medicine at Premier HealthCare in New York City, on some questions to ask when searching for a doctor for your child with special needs (nymetroparents.com/special-doctor)

Outdoor Health & Safety “Following swimming or bathing, dry the outside of the ear with a dry towel. Tilt the head to the side for 10 seconds to allow excess moisture to drain out. For adults only, if you or your child experiences water in the canal a hair dryer can be used on the lowest setting held at least 1 foot away from the ear. The warm air will dry the canal.” —Stefanie Wolf, Au.D., clinical audiologist at Audiology of Nassau County in Rockville Centre, on preventing swimmer’s ear (nymetroparents.com/swimmers-ear)

50 clothing. Sunscreen should be re-applied every two hours, assuming that one isn’t sweating a lot or swimming. Every time one is in the water or is sweating, they should reapply every 45 minutes. Sunscreen should also be purchased every year— most sunscreens are good for a year.” —Elizabeth C. Smith, M.D., board-certified dermatologist at Fairfield Dermatology in Fairfield, CT, on SPF and sunscreen guidelines for kids and adults (nymetroparents.com/sunscreen) “The American Academy of Pediatrics has a position statement on DEET that suggests that DEET in concentrations of 10 percent to 30 percent is safe for children. It should not be used on children younger than 2 months of age, and it should not be used in concentrations more than 30 percent.” —Adhi Sharma, M.D., a board-certified medical toxicologist and senior vice president of medical affairs and chief medical officer at South Nassau Communities Hospital in Oceanside, on preventing bug bites and stings (nymetroparents.com/bug-bites) “Although many people associate Lyme with the hallmark bull’s-eye rash, less than 50 percent develop one. If you develop what seems like a summertime flu, and you live in or have visited an area where deer ticks are found, it’s important that you see a doctor and get tested for Lyme and other tick-borne illnesses.” —Deborah Siciliano, co-president of Lyme Research Alliance, on how to tell if it’s the summer flu or Lyme disease (nymetroparents.com/lyme) “Explain to kids that they should bail out—by covering their face and head with their arms to protect their face and eyes, then rolling off the sled—whenever they lose control, lose visibility, or think they’re going to end up in a treacherous area, such as a pond, parking lot, or an area with trees and poles.” —Fidel Garcia, M.D., medical director of PM Pediatrics in Brooklyn and Staten Island, on sledding safety and preventing serious injuries (nymetroparents.com/sled-safe)

“With the helmet level on your head, you should see the very edge or rim of your helmet when you look up past your eyebrows— approximately two finger widths above your eyebrow. The straps should meet and form a ‘V’ right under each ear lobe. To check, form a ‘V’ with two fingers around your ear. Once the straps are adjusted in a ‘V’, buckle them. The straps should be snug but not too tight. Adjust until you can put no more than two fingers between the strap and your chin.” —Dr. Katz, on making sure bike helmets fit properly (nymetroparents.com/proper-helmet-fit) “The American Academy of Dermatology recommends that anyone, kids and adults, wear an SPF 30 at all times. They also recommend avoiding midday sun whenever possible—try to seek shade when outdoors between 10am and 2pm. The American Academy of Dermatology also recommends that children, whenever possible, wear sun-proof clothing—UPF

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As a parent, it’s hard not to feel sorry for your own child sometimes. It’s especially hard if your child has the extra burden of an atypical profile. Children with learning disabilities, physical disabilities, ADHD, autism, or developmental delays are additionally weighed down by the necessities of their diagnosis, which can often include extra tutoring, multiple therapies, socialization groups, or intensive behavior training programs.

Parents may have to let go of typical fun activities, such as sports teams or school plays, in lieu of prescriptive interventions.

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worry that he will be bullied, have no friends, never go to college, or get married. That he’ll suffer.

But yet, because children learn by watching their parents, it is critical to adopt a cheerful attitude. The way you see your child ultimately shapes her own self-perspective. On top of everything you’re challenged to do, you have to cultivate optimism, resilience, and confidence in your child’s outcome. Is that hard? You bet it is.

But if you keep these tips in mind, you’ll find it easier.

Behaviors to Avoid

Don’t confuse feeling sorry for your child with support.

There’s a big difference between pity and empathy. Stay positive and help him find resources to build resilience and confidence.

Don’t see everything through the disability lens. Your kid is a whole person with different gifts and great potential. The special need aspect is just one aspect of her life.

Don’t project. Sometimes, parents will worry about something that might happen—but it’s stemming from their own experiences or fears. Are you worried that he won’t be popular because you weren’t popular? Take some time to find out what your child is

worried about; you might be surprised to find out that she is much more at ease than you thought.

Don’t overindulge to “compensate.” Extra video games or unlimited treats, for example, do not have anything to do with your child’s disability. Stick to “typical” rules, while allowing for occasional leniency in circumstances that really do relate to his disability.

Don’t be too tough. Tough love doesn’t work with atypical kids. Atypical children are more fragile. Get to know your child and work with her consciously and gently.

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Step in when necessary. Some atypical kids are prone to social isolation and depression. Teachers, even if unintentionally, can exacerbate the problem. Keep an eye on your child and have open communication so he’ll feel comfortable confiding in you. You are your child’s advocate, and your child will need assertive intervention at times. This is not “babying” your child. It’s part of your job as a proactive parent of an atypical child.

Encourage participation. Don’t limit your child’s activity options based on what you think she can’t do. If she really wants to join that club or try that sport or take those lessons, chances are there is a way to make it happen.

Enjoy the present. Staying in the moment and noticing your amazing child as he unfolds is an important—and joyful— exercise. Take a short break from the everyday jostle to savor small moments of just being together.

Express gratitude daily. Before bed, perhaps at tuck-in time, encourage your child to think about what she’s thankful for. And always be sure to chime in with a few contributions of your own.

Rita Eichenstein, Ph.D., is a leading pediatric neuropsychologist, renowned in the field of child development, and author of Not What I Expected: Help and Hope for Parents of Atypical Children (Perigee) and the popular blog Positively Atypical! by Dr. Rita Eichenstein (positivelyatypical.com). For more information, visit drritaeichenstein.com.

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The Hagedorn Little Village School, Jack Joel Center for Special Children

750 Hicksville Road, Seaford 516-520-6000 littlevillage.org jon.feingold@littlevillage.org The Hagedorn Little Village School is a nonprofit school highly regarded for providing outstanding educational and therapeutic services for children with a wide range of developmental disabilities. HLVS provides year-round programs and services that include diagnostic evaluations and treatment, early intervention, a preschool, an elementary school, SEIT, and related services. Services provided on-site, in homes, nursery schools, and day care centers include speech, feeding, occupational, physical, and movement therapies; behavior management or Applied Behavior Analysis; counseling; and support groups.

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Dr. Steve Imber, Psychoeducational Consultants

Serving Nassau and Suffolk counties as well as the five boroughs of NYC 516-273-1961 dr-imber.com scimber1@aol.com Dr. Imber has more than 40 years of experience consulting, evaluating, and advocating for children, adolescents, and adults with various disabilities including autism (e.g. Asperger’s syndrome), attention deficit disorders, intellectual disabilities, emotional and behavioral disorders, and learning disabilities. Dr. Imber is a professor of special education and a special education expert.

He addresses needs of students in public, private, and charter schools. Services are available to parents, students, pediatricians, and attorneys. A confidential complimentary phone consultation is available upon request (Nassau and Suffolk counties and the five boroughs of NYC).

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needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law. He’ll guide you, decipher lingo, and develop effective strategies.

He’s also a New York state-certified impartial hearing officer who hears cases in New York City and Rockland and Westchester counties.

AUTISM SPECTRUM DISORDERS ABA Psychological Services, P.C.

Servicing Suffolk, Nassau, and Queens 516-294-5000 abapsychologicalservices.com ABA Psychological Services, P.C. is a private, professional agency providing high quality Applied Behavior Analytic therapy to children and adults of all ages who have been diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder. Our goal is for individuals with autism to learn the skills necessary to reach their full potential by creating a treatment program that is specific to each person’s needs.

Our clinical director, Dr. Tricia Moss, is both a doctoral-level board-certified behavior analyst (B.C.B.A.-D.), as well as a New York state-licensed psychologist.

The Family Center for Autism

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96 Main Road, Riverhead 631-998-3565 theallstar.com events@theallstar.com Special Olympics Bowling at The All Star. Bowlers with special needs can come to The All Star and bowl on our main lanes every Monday at 5pm. You can bowl two games for $10. After bowling you can experience all of our games in the arcade. The arcade is for all ages for additional fun. Our bowling alley and arcade is the perfect place to go for a great time.

Alternatives For Children

Aquebogue, Dix Hills, East Setauket, and Southampton 631-331-6400 alternatives4children.org Alternatives For Children’s day care and preschool staff create a natural, educational, learning environment fostering each child’s development, self-esteem, and self-confidence.

Alternatives For Children is an early intervention preschool, special education evaluation site, and approved provider of early intervention preschool special education services for eligible children. Preschool special education and developmentally appropriate integrated nursery classes, taught by NYS special education early childhood teachers, promote a child’s development through individualized instruction that will support them for the rest of their lives. Special education services of physical, occupational, and speech therapies are provided by licensed therapists.

Building Blocks Developmental Preschool

29 Pinewood Drive, Commack 631-499-1237 bbdps.com Building Blocks offers a wide array of early childhood learning opportunities for children ages newborn to 3 years. Both parent-child groups and separation classes are available. Early intervention experiences are provided within the framework of a multidisciplinary team.

Their goal is to work collaboratively with families to build upon children’s strengths to enhance their skills and overall level of independence. Building Blocks’ personnel are respectful of the unique nature of each child and cognizant of creating educational opportunities that are mindful of individual strengths, weaknesses, and preferred learning styles.

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170 Mill Pond Path, Westhampton 631-235-2146 631-804-5728 eastendptpc.com lauren@eastendptpc.com ronni@eastendptpc.com We believe that all children learn best through play. We focus on each individual’s unique abilities and needs to help them grow and maximize their learning potential. Therapists with more than 10 years of pediatric clinical experience, we offer physical and occupational therapy, sensory play, handwriting groups, children’s yoga, mommy and me classes, fitness, and nutrition. We instill fun, confidence, and strength in the children we treat. Our passion is to teach children to believe in themselves and their dreams despite any physical limitation they may encounter.

The Hagedorn Little Village School, Jack Joel Center for Special Children

750 Hicksville Road, Seaford 516-520-6000 littlevillage.org jon.feingold@littlevillage.org The Hagedorn Little Village School is a nonprofit school highly regarded for providing outstanding educational and therapeutic services for children with a wide range of developmental disabilities. HLVS provides year-round programs and services that include diagnostic evaluations and treatment, early intervention, a preschool, an elementary school, SEIT, and related services. Services provided on-site, in homes,

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Students with ADD, ADHD, or autism spectrum disorder, and students with other disabilities have flourished in their ability to interact with others, and take on leadership roles after just a few months. In addition to learning self-defense skills that enable them to avoid abduction and handle school bullies, students build confidence through teamwork, leadership, and accountability.

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Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: Commack, East Yaphank, Farmingville, Jericho, Lake Success, Stony Brook, and Wantagh 631-689-6858 lispeechandmyo.com Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, is owner and operator of Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. Along with her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES—Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. There is a total of seven affiliated offices across Long Island, all participating with most major health insurance companies and offering evening and Saturday hours.

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750 Hicksville Road, Seaford 516-520-6000 littlevillage.org jon.feingold@littlevillage.org The Hagedorn Little Village School is a nonprofit school highly regarded for providing outstanding educational and therapeutic services for children with a wide range of developmental disabilities. HLVS provides year-round programs and services that include diagnostic evaluations and treatment, early intervention, a preschool, an elementary school, SEIT, and related services. Services provided on-site, in homes, nursery schools, and day care centers include speech, feeding, occupational, physical, and movement therapies; behavior management or Applied Behavior Analysis; counseling; and support groups.

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id you know that your children’s summer camp may qualify for a tax credit? Many hard-working parents need to enroll their children in summer camps while summer recess is in session. The IRS understands this hardship of working individuals and allows parents to deduct certain summer camp expenses as part of the Child and Dependent Care Credit.

There are some exclusions and certain situations that do not apply to this credit. Here are six facts to help you determine whether your child’s summer camp expenses qualify for a tax credit: 1. The child must be younger than 13 years old.

2. The cost of day camp may count as an expense toward the Child and Dependent Care Credit.

3. Expenses for overnight camps do not qualify.

4. Whether your child care provider is a sitter at your home or day care or camp facility outside the home, you’ll get some tax benefit if you qualify for the credit.

5. The credit can be up to 35 percent of your qualifying expenses, depending on your income.

6. You may use up to $3,000 of the unreimbursed expenses paid in a year for one qualifying individual or $6,000 for two or more qualifying individuals to figure the credit.

To claim the credit on your tax return you will need: • Company name or care provider name • Address of facility or home address of care provider • EIN (Employer ID Number) or Social Security number • Total fees spent on child care for each child Many summer camps, day cares, and child care providers will issue W-10s to parents to make it easier for them to include the information on their tax returns. If the camp does not supply you with a W-10, you may call the facility or child care provider and ask them for this information directly.

If you have any questions about whether your child’s summer camp expenses qualify for the Child and Dependent Care Credit, get in touch with a tax professional.

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Locations in Baldwin, Bellmore, Farmingdale, Hicksville, Valley Stream, and West Islip 516-935-CAMP (2267) campsrus.org info@campsrus.org At Camps ‘R’ Us, we provide families with the most safe, fun, and affordable summer day camp experience available. Our award-winning camp programs offer children ages 3-15 years, a diverse summer experience, including sports, arts and crafts, gaming, swimming, bowling, trips, and special events. Our premier facilities, top-notch staff, and unique affordability have earned us the reputation as one of the best summer camps on Long Island.

Long Island Voyager’s Day Camp

516-238-4586 livoyagersdaycamp.com livoyagersdaycamp@gmail.com Long Island Voyager’s Day Camp, for ages 4-14, offers your child a full range of specialties and fun-filled days of recreation. We provide free transportation in Suffolk and Nassau counties. Our amazing activities include swimming, sports, arts and crafts, laser tag, bowling, horseback riding, talent shows, and movies, plus trips to Splish Splash, Adventureland, Mets and Yankee games, museums, iMax Theater, Bronx Zoo, Fire Island, and Bayville Adventure Park!

Staff members are CPR, First Aid, and AED-certified. Our caring staff builds campers’ self-esteem, self-confidence, and character.

Prime Time Early Learning Center 270 Airport Plaza, Farmingdale 631-777-9090 primetimeschools.com/ farmingdale-day-care Our Farmingdale Summer Camp offers children the same benefits of the large outdoor camps, but with the safety and security of our year-round child care facility right in your back yard. Each camp week provides

a theme for summer learning incorporating music, arts and crafts, exciting field trips, and swimming. Our flexible hours and schedule include beforeand after-care beyond the regular camp schedule of 9am-5pm, with three- and five-day options.

You can sign up for one week or the entire summer.

St. Patrick Youth Community

St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net Camp St Patrick now celebrates more than 28 years of safe, summer fun. With one of the best counselor-to-camper ratios, we pride ourselves as one of the safest camps in Suffolk County. Coed programs for ages 3-15. Travel to various spots on the island, with affordable two-, three-, or five-day options. Before care begins at 7:30am, camp hours from 9am4pm, and after care until 6pm.

We offer flexible camp schedules, from one to seven weeks.

Sports camps, Vacation Bible School, and other options are also available.

SLEEPAWAY CAMPS Dorothy P. Flint 4-H Camp

3186 Sound Ave., Riverhead 516-433-7970 x11 ccenassau.org dpf4hcamp@cornell.edu Dorothy P. Flint 4-H Camp in Riverhead is a coed, recreational eight-week sleepaway camp.

A three-day, two-night “mini camp” is also offered. Stay-over weekends are available! We are located on 140-acres of woodland, farmland, and beachfront on the Long Island Sound.

The location includes a 10acre working farm, swimming, kayaking, adventure course, nature-science education center, horseback riding, archery, arts, and sports. The atmosphere fosters independence, leadership development, and self-esteem.

We are a cellphone-free camp!

Accredited by the American Camp Association and operated

by Cornell Cooperative Extension of Nassau County.

SPECIALTY CAMPS Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfha.org steved@cshfha.org Give your young explorer a summer surrounded by nature.

Encourage their love of science with our weeklong outdoor nature camps. Summer fun at a great price! Close Encounters (kindergarten) offers outdoor games and arts and crafts. Kids will enjoy Curious Naturalist (first-second grades), Field Explorers (third-fifth grades), and Junior Biologists (sixtheighth grades). Prepare to get wet and muddy! Expeditions to nearby salt marsh, ponds, and woodlands. Turtle Trackers, Fly Fishing, and Outdoor Photography. One- to three-day camps are available. For more information, visit our website cshfha.org or call 516-692-6768.

The Family Center for Autism

1517 Franklin Ave., Garden City 516-355-9400 fcautism.org info@familycenterforautism.org The Family Center for Autism: Where life-changing moments happen. Simple moments can be life changing ones for people with autism. These moments happen every day at the Family Center for Autism in Garden City. Long Island’s first venue offering a lifespan of services to people with autism and a lifeline to their families, the center’s new Summer Gap Camp provides awesome experiences and social enrichment—in one-week programs—to kids ages 5 and older, teens, and adults ages 23 and younger. Call 516-355-9400 or visit familycenterforautism.org.

The Gateway Performing Arts Center of Suffolk County The Gateway School for the Performing Arts

215 S. Country Road, Bellport 631-286-1133 thegateway.org Since 1950, The Gateway has

been Long Island’s home for high-quality arts education— both Robert Duvall and Gene Hackman began their careers here. More than 300 students each year, from Montauk to Manhattan, receive professional-level training at The Gateway School for the Performing Arts.

The focus at Gateway is on providing training that will build technique while working toward a production. Whether it’s audition techniques, scene study, improvisation, or character development, students learn from professional teachers in a fun and social environment!

Ohman School Of Ballet New York Dance Theatre

60 Calvert Ave., Commack 631-462-6266 ohmanballet.org office@ohmanballet.com Summer Dance: In its 37th year, the Ohman School of Ballet was founded by Frank Ohman, former soloist of NYC Ballet and is one of the few remaining direct links to legendary George Balanchine. Offering a two-week summer dance intensive as well as a six-week summer evening program. The school opens its doors to all students who wish to study classical ballet and also serves as a training ground for promising young dancers. It is a nonprofit, non-recital facility with three spacious studios and convenient location.

Art, and Matisse Mania. We offer sibling and multi-camp discounts.

Tumbling Tunes

212 Laurel Road, East Northport 631-697-0140 tumblingtunes.com tumblingtunes@gmail.com We encourage high self-esteem through an energetic and fun, yet safe, environment. We offer music and gymnastics, art, and enrichment classes, as well as birthday parties, open play, and drop-off for children ages 6 months to 8 years. During our summer session, we offer music and gymnastics camp, and art camp. Camps can be reserved by the day or week, and are for children ages 2½-8. Sibling, Stroller Strides, and North Shore Mama discounts are available. All classes are led by New York state-certified early childhood education teacher Kerry Anastasi.

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts 185 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights 844-818-6223 usdan.com Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts is the nation’s pre-eminent nonprofit arts day camp.

TimeOut New York Kids declared Usdan a “Best Of” camp, and Usdan has been profiled in The New York Times and Time Magazine. Each day, 1,600 students, ages 6-18 years, travel to Usdan’s Wheatley Heights

campus from all Long Island neighborhoods. Usdan offers 40 programs in music, art, theater, dance, writing, chess, and nature.

Transportation to and from the camp is by air-conditioned buses.

Three, four, or seven-week sessions are offered from June 27-Aug. 12.

Village East Gifted Camp ThinkTank Summer Program Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights villageeastgifted.com villageeastgifted@gmail.com Village East Gifted and Talented is an enrichment program for gifted students offering classes year-round for ages 3-18. Its summer program known as Camp ThinkTank offers threeand four-day workshops for participants in first-seventh grades.

Using our trademarked teaching approach, the follow topics will be covered: Practical Mathematics, Engineering and Structural Design, BioMedical Studies, Culinary Science and Construction, Underwater Archaeology and The Art of Saponification, and Earthly Elements of Magic and Jeweled Artifacts. The workshop dates are July 5-8, July 12-15, Aug. 9-11, and Aug. 24-26.

Multiple workshops and siblings discounts are available.

Picasso Kidz, Creative Art Studio For Children

72 Broadway, Greenlawn 631-261-5500 picassokidz.com picassokidzart@gmail.com Picasso Kidz offers engaging, educational, and fun art camps for children of all ages. We offer weekly thematic camps that focus on specific art themes for the duration of the week. Camps are 2½ hours a day, morning or afternoon sessions, Monday-Friday. We supply all materials and smocks. Camps are taught by NYS-certified art teachers. Sign your child up for one of our many creative camps such as Portraits through Art History, Exploring Sculpture, Bookmaking, Optical

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Adelberg Montalvan Pediatric Dental and Orthodontics 1000 F. Park Blvd., Massapequa Park 516-798-1111 62 Lake Ave. S., Suite A, Nesconset 631-360-PEDS (7337) 615 Montauk Highway, West Islip 631-661-PEDS (7337); ampediatricdental.com adelbergped@optonline.net

We are Drs. Adelberg, Montalvan, Bennet, Pistilli, Postel, Schecter, and Abraham.

Our purpose is to provide outstanding dentistry in a child- and family-friendly environment. We treat your family like they are our own. All of our doctors are board-certified specialists and offer the most combined laser dentistry experience on Long Island. We want your visit to our office to be an extraordinary experience that will make you say, “Wow!” Our three offices even look like a theme park.

We hope to make your children love visiting the dentist.

Pediatric Immediate Care 150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337)

698 Manhattan Ave., Brooklyn 718-389-PEDS (7337) pediatricimmediatecare.com Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-of-the-art medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit.

Kid-friendly; walk-ins welcome; most insurance plans accepted. Complete pediatric and adolescent care, as well as baby, camp, school, and sports physicals.

Certified urgent care recommended by Urgent Care Association of America.

Thirty years of dedication to our patients. The offices are open seven days a week including holidays, 8am-11pm.

Building Blocks Developmental Preschool 29 Pinewood Drive, Commack 631-499-1237; bbdps.com

Donna M. Charbonneau is the executive director of Building Blocks Developmental Preschool. BBDPS offers a range of programs and services to children from infancy through age 5.

Currently staffed with more than 100 teachers, therapists, and paraprofessionals, including registered nurses as well as psychologists, speech and language pathologists, occupational therapists, a physical therapist, and a developmental pediatrician. Early Intervention services are provided for children age 3 and younger, who have developmental delays. Building Blocks Developmental Preschool continues to ensure delivery of the highest quality educational services to all students.

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Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 • Nassau: 516-216-1791 Queens: 718-640-6767

Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, is owner and operator of Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. Along with her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES—Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. There is a total of seven affiliated offices across Long Island, all participating with most major health insurance companies and offering evening and Saturday hours.

Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County Dr. Mike Ioannou 2171 Jericho Turnpike, Suite 145, Commack 631-486-6364 3237 Route 112, Building 6, Suite 7B, Medford 631-320-0880 supermolar.com

Dr. Michael Ioannou, a native of Suffolk County, received his dental degree at the University of Connecticut - School of Dental Medicine, with a residency in pediatric dentistry from Albert Einstein College of Medicine/Montefiore Medical Center. A friendly, patient dentist, Dr. Ioannou strives to make visiting the dentist a fun experience, all while providing exceptional dental care. He uses excellent behavioral management approaches, a child-friendly environment (TV and cartoons in all treatment rooms), and he sings to the patients! Dr. Ioannou currently participates with most insurance companies and has convenient evening and Saturday office hours.

Jennifer Nastasi, D.O., F.A.A.P. Allied Physicians Group, Peds First Pediatrics 2799 Route 112, Suite 11, Medford 631-732-5222; alliedphysiciansgroup.com

Dr. Jennifer Nastasi graduated from New York College of Osteopathic Medicine in Old Westbury in 2000 with honors. She completed her residency in pediatrics at Winthrop Hospital in Mineola in 2003, and has since been a practicing pediatrician in Suffolk County. Dr. Nastasi is board-certified by the American Board of Pediatrics and is a fellow of the American Academy of Pediatrics. She cares for newborns and inpatients at both St. Charles Hospital in Port Jefferson, and Stony Brook University Medical Center where she is an assistant professor.

OPEN HOUSES 2016 The All Star

96 Main Road, Riverhead 631-998-3565 theallstar.com; events@theallstar.com Come to The All Star in Riverhead, meet with us to learn about all our kids programs, sign up for Kid’s Bowling Leagues, and see what we have to offer!

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfha.org; steved@cshfha.org Give your young explorer a summer surrounded by nature.

Encourage their love of science with outdoor nature camps for pre-K to teens. Come meet the educators and learn more.

Long Island Voyager’s Day Camp

516-238-4586 livoyagersdaycamp.com livoyagersdaycamp@gmail.com Long Island Voyager’s Day Camp will be happy to meet with you

Picasso Kidz, Creative Art Studio For Children

to tell you and your campers, ages 4-14, about our exciting programs. Call for details.

Modern Warrior

711 N. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst 631-226-8383 888-MWARRIOR (692-7746) modernwarrior.com info@modernwarrior.com Meet with us to learn about Wolverinz Martial Arts and Leadership Program, giving kids skills and parents a piece of mind! Practical techniques emphasize leadership, teamwork, accountability, and good decision-making.

Ohman School Of Ballet New York Dance Theatre

60 Calvert Ave., Commack 631-462-6266; ohmanballet.org office@ohmanballet.com Now in it’s 36th year, the Ohman School of Ballet is looking forward to its summer and after-school dance programs. Call to visit and schedule a free trial class!

Out. Come play! Newborn to 9 years. Call 631-697-0140 for a free trial class.

72 Broadway, Greenlawn 631-261-5500; picassokidz.com picassokidzart@gmail.com Picasso Kidz Summer Art Camp offers one-week half-day sessions for children of all ages. Multicamp and sibling discounts available. Visit our studio to meet the director to learn more.

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts

185 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights 844-818-6223; usdan.com Young artists flourish at Usdan.

Join us for a Visit and Information Session; explore our wooded campus, learn about our many courses, and make a plan for your child’s summer.

Prime Time Early Learning Center

270 Airport Plaza, Farmingdale 631-777-9090 primetimeschools.com/ farmingdale-day-care Visit Prime Time Farmingdale and meet with our directors. Learn about our child care, preschool, and after-school programs for children ages 6 weeks to 10 years.

Call us to schedule a tour.

Village East Gifted - Enrichment Center for the Gifted Learner

Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Our director will be happy to meet with you, to tell you about our unique academic Summer Workshops for the gifted and talented student ages 4-16. Call for details.

Tumbling Tunes

212 Laurel Road, East Northport 631-697-0140; tumblingtunes.com tumblingtunes@gmail.com Tumbling Tunes: music, gymnastics, free play, art, enrichment camp, parties, and Parents Night

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Acrobatics / Gymnastics

Diocese of RVC............................................................... 2

Play Spaces

Artistic Gymnastics........................................................ 39

Hagedorn Little Village School...................................... 13

Adventure Parks of Outdoor Adventures ...................... 15

Tumbling Tunes............................................................. 41

Kumon North America................................................... 39

BounceU - Farmingdale................................................ 41

Law Offices of Brad H Rosken...................................... 41 Birthday / Party Services

LI Lutheran Day School at St. Pauls.............................. 43

Adventure Parks of Outdoor Adventures ...................... 15

Prime Time Early Learning Center................................ 37

All Star Lanes (The)....................................................... 19

St. Patrick Youth Community......................................... 19

BounceU - Farmingdale................................................ 41

Village East Gifted........................................................... 7

Relgious Diocese of RVC............................................................... 2 LI Lutheran Day School at St. Pauls.............................. 43

Long Island Aquarium & Exhibition Center.................... 27 Long Island Parent Party Planner.................................. 49

Family Entertainment /

Research

Tumbling Tunes............................................................. 41

Events / Outings

Tobacco Action Coalition of Long Island........................ 15

All Star Lanes (The)....................................................... 19 Camps

BounceU - Farmingdale................................................ 41

Artistic Gymnastics........................................................ 39

Gateway Playhouse......................................................... 5

Dorothy P Flint 4-H Camp............................................. 39

Great South Bay Music Fest............................................ 9

LI Lutheran Day School at St. Pauls.............................. 43

Live Nation - NYCB Theatre at Westbury........................ 7

LI Voyagers Day Camp.................................................... 9

Long Island Aquarium & Exhibition Center.................... 27

Ohman School Of Ballet................................................ 39 Prime Time Early Learning Center................................ 37

Fitness

St. Patrick Youth Community......................................... 19

Adventure Parks of Outdoor Adventures ...................... 15

Special Events Great South Bay Music Fest............................................ 9 Live Nation - NYCB Theatre at Westbury........................ 7 Long Island Aquarium & Exhibition Center.................... 27

Special Needs Adelberg Montalvan - Massapequa Office.................... 48 Alternatives for Children................................................ 45

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts................................. 52 Village East Gifted........................................................... 7

Health

Bakshi Law.................................................................... 43

Adelberg Montalvan - Massapequa Office.................... 48

Building Blocks Developmental Preschool.............. 45, 48

Child Care / Day Care

Allied Physicians Group........................................... 11, 48

East End PTPC............................................................. 45

Prime Time Early Learning Center................................ 37

Fairy LiceMothers.......................................................... 45 Fidelis Care New York..................................................... 5

Classes

Mosquito Joe................................................................. 27

East End PTPC............................................................. 45

Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County......................... 2, 48

Modern Warrior.............................................................. 43

Pediatric Immediate Care........................................ 38, 48

Village East Gifted........................................................... 7

Tobacco Action Coalition of Long Island........................ 15

Dance

Home Services

Ohman School of Ballet................................................. 39

Mosquito Joe................................................................. 27

Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech................. 38, 48 Law Offices of Brad H Rosken...................................... 41 Modern Warrior.............................................................. 43 Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County......................... 2, 48 Pediatric Immediate Care........................................ 38, 48

Sports All Star Lanes (The)....................................................... 19

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts................................. 52 Developmental

Hagedorn Little Village School...................................... 13

Legal Services

Artistic Gymnastics........................................................ 39

Bakshi Law.................................................................... 43

LI Voyagers Day Camp.................................................... 9

Alternatives for Children................................................ 45 Building Blocks Developmental Preschool.............. 45, 48

Music

East End PTPC............................................................. 45

Great South Bay Music Fest............................................ 9

Modern Warrior.............................................................. 43 St. Patrick Youth Community......................................... 19

Hagedorn Little Village School...................................... 13

Tumbling Tunes............................................................. 41

Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech................. 38, 48

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts................................. 52

Education

Performing Arts / Acting

Bakshi Law.................................................................... 43

Gateway Playhouse......................................................... 5

Tutors

Building Blocks Developmental Preschool.............. 45, 48

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts................................. 52

Kumon North America................................................... 39

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