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A Blended Family

How reluctantly raising my son in two homes turned out to be a blessing in disguise

Family Activities Calendar

Find something to do with your kids every day this month, from fairs and farmers’ markets to movies and crafts

back-to-school 12 Choices, Choices, Choices

14 Create a Homework Hot Spot 16 After-School Classes & Programs

Cash for College

Ten ways to ﬁnd scholarships, grants, and ﬁnancial aid online

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 9 Raising an Entrepreneur 10 A Blended Family 34 The Different Ways to Talk to a Baby 36 A Tale of Two Tests 40 Party Central 42 Professional Services 44 Meet the Doctor 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 Quotables

11 Pom Pom Hand Puppets

38 Cash for College

19 Family Fun in Manhattan 20 August Activities 21 Family Activities Calendar

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Back to School Before You Know It!

on’t hate me for stating the obvious: In just a few short weeks, these lazy, hazy days aren’t going to be so lazy anymore. Though technically it will still be summer, at least for a while, school (or “the S-word” as my daughters like to call it) will be back in session. Maybe you’ll be relieved, glad to no longer have bored children underfoot, demanding to be entertained or bickering with each other. Or perhaps like me you’ll feel as sad as the kids do, mourning the loss of blank-slate days and the endless possibilities that accompany them. It’s also fine to fall somewhere between these two extremes, wistful for all that delicious free time but glad your family will once again settle into a more predictable routine. If you’re the parent of a child in middle or high school, you know that kids in the upper grades have unique challenges. This month we’re tackling some of the major bigkid educational issues out there, offering guidance to help your year get off to a good start. Katelin Walling’s piece “Choices, Choices, Choices” on p. 12 examines the benefits of different types of schools, from public and parochial to charter and beyond, so you can determine what sort of environment will allow your child to ﬂourish. Of course, your home environment should be geared toward your student’s needs too! “Create a Homework Hot Spot” by Lambeth Hochwald (p. 14) shares easy ways to design a study space that will help your student buckle down and excel. And speaking of excelling, for parents of teens, the SAT and the ACT both loom large on the radar. Which test is best for your child to take? The expert insights in “A Tale of Two Tests” on p. 36 will assist you in coming up with the right answer. We’ll also help you tackle the exorbitant cost of higher education with “Cash for College” (p. 38). But don’t worry: We haven’t forgotten those of you with little ones. You’ll definitely want to read Melissa Wickes’ article, “The Different Ways to Talk to a Baby,” on p. 34. Child development pros share how to boost your little one’s speech development—and the way you may unintentionally be sabotaging it. And don’t miss popular kids’ musician Suzi Shelton’s essay (p. 10) about how raising a child under two roofs gave him a strong foundation. Wishing you lots of fun as you get in your last licks of summer!

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Who: Alternatives for Children What’s New: Classrooms, physical and occupational therapy gym, speech therapy treatment areas, and an expanded office space, which were added in January to serve more children and families. “You can see by our expansion how great the need is for special education,” says Therese Blanton, parent engagement coordinator at Alternatives for Children. The expansion will allow the center to provide services for more children and families. Alternatives for Children offers a full continuum of preschool special education options. Special or integrated classes taught by certified teachers and teaching assistants are available based on the needs of the child. Want More Info: 1116 Main Road, Aquebogue; 631-722-2170; alternatives4children.org

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Children’s Fitness Center in Huntington and Stony Brook Continues to Accept Registration for Summer Classes Who: My Gym What’s New: Extended registration for summer classes and camp in Huntington and Stony Brook. Classes started June 26 and are running through Sept. 2. For one fee, parents can get unlimited classes and practice and play with parental supervision throughout the rest of that month. Classes include Mommy & Me for ages 4 months to 3½ years, and a variety of independent classes, such as gymnastics and martial arts, for ages 3-9. Summer camp for ages 3-9 started June 26 and will be offered through the end of August. Parents can take advantage of the gym’s pay-by-day options and multi-day discounts. Want More Info: 1320 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook; 631-751-KIDS (5437); mygym.com/stonybrook; 128 W. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington; 631-427-GYMS (4967); mygym.com/huntingtonstation

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Raising an Entrepreneur ›› By Melissa Wickes

f your child demonstrates an entrepreneurial spirit, you should encourage him to pursue that. Here are five ways you can teach your child to be an entrepreneur with help from Mark Cuban, owner of the Dallas Mavericks and star of the hit TV show Shark Tank, Shaan Patel, M.D., M.B.A., founder of Prep Expert, an SAT and ACT prep company that was pitched on Shark Tank in 2016, and Ian McCue, a rising senior at UNLV and the founder of Spark Skill, a technology summer camp provider. All three co-authored Kid Start-Up: How You Can Be an Entrepreneur. Be supportive of your child’s ideas. The first step to starting a business is to get feedback from as many people as possible before spending any money, according to Dr. Patel. And don’t worry that someone will ‘steal’ your kid’s idea if she asks for feedback. Chances are, even if someone wanted to ‘steal’ the idea, they won’t put in the time, effort, and passion that she would. “Ideas are cheap, execution is the hard part,” Cuban says. Instill perseverance. When running a business, you are very rarely going to do everything right the first time, McCue says. Teaching your child it is okay to fail can make him all the more successful. “You have to be willing to try a bunch of things and accept that only a few will work out,” McCue says. In teaching perseverance, you will also help your child know it may take time to get traction in a business. Teach self-control. This is important because, when starting and running your own business, you regulate your own hours, Dr.

From left: Shaan Patel, M.D., M.B.A., Mark Cuban, and Ian McCue, co-authors of Kid Start-Up: How You Can Be an Entrepreneur

Patel says. By teaching your child self-control, even when she is a toddler being told to only eat one cookie, you are increasing the odds that she’ll one day have a higher income, better relationships, higher SAT scores, and fewer issues involving drugs and alcohol. Encourage him to pursue his hobbies. It may seem unlikely that a kid can really be a master in anything. However, kids become infatuated with things they like without even knowing they’re an expert. “My advice to all entrepreneurs is to start a business that you’re an expert in,” Dr. Patel says. Teach her to be a problem-solver. In a world where so many ideas have been thought of and so many inventions have been created, one might ask, where do you even begin brainstorming creative ideas? Look at everyday problems, no matter how small, and find a way to solve them. These challenges are familiar to us, making it easier to think of ways to fix them.

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A Blended Family ››

How reluctantly raising my son in two homes turned out to be a blessing in disguise By Suzi Shelton

hen my son was just 2 years old, his father and I decided to split up. We had tried for a while to make it work, but it was clear we would all be happier apart. For me, this meant our son would live with me full time in our Brooklyn apartment, and have visitation with his dad. For his dad, splitting up meant our son would split his time equally, and live in two homes. This wasn’t something I was ready to accept. There was no way this was going to work out. It couldn’t be in the best interest of our young son. Could it? A very wise family therapist told us, “Yes, actually, it could work out.” And yes, it could be a very happy and healthy way to raise our son. As long as we were both 100 percent onboard. So, I thought long and hard about it, and decided I would get onboard. For our son. At first, it was awful. I hated having to give up Sebastian (still a baby for God’s sake) for half of the week. And overnight! I would hand him over with his little Thomas the Tank Engine backpack with tears in my eyes and a pain in my heart. I would count the hours and then minutes until he came back to me, and I would hold him so tightly when he walked in the door. Except it wasn’t actually about me. It was about Sebastian and the fact that he deserved to have quality time with his Dad. We learned (through our family therapist) how to help Sebastian make this transition easier on himself, and on us. We learned to say things like, “I can’t wait to hear what you did at Daddy’s house,” instead of, “I’ll miss you so much!” And it became our new normal for our son to live in two homes. And have two beds and two sets of toys. And, eventually, two more parents. And Sebastian was fine with this. In fact, he was more than fine. He was happy.

Our blended family (from left): Sebastian (19), Julia (3), Emma (13), and Cole (10)

The thing I didn’t really anticipate with all of this was I would meet my now husband and have another child, and his Dad would marry and do the same, and those “extra” parents and children would be part of our family, too. Our modern family had expanded and grown and there was still quite a lot of love to go around. In fact, when Sebastian was in elementary school, he and his dad wrote a poem called “Mama’s House, Daddy’s House,” which we turned into a song that I put on my second album to share our message with the world…two homes but “one heart—filled with love.” Now almost 18 years later, Sebastian’s dad and stepmom are two of my closest friends. We still share raising Sebastian, and we share raising our other children, too. My 13-year-old daughter has her own drawer of clothes at their house, and their two younger children have the same at my house. My husband and I fondly call them our “stepchildren” since there really isn’t another word for it, and you know what? It works. Our 10-year-old stepson comes over regularly after school to “hang out” and get away from his 3-year-old sister. That same 3-year-old sister calls me “Mama!,” runs into my arms when I occasionally pick her up at preschool, and loves to come over and play with our dog, Penny. They both bring me so much joy. We all decided to spend holidays together instead of alternating Sebastian between the two homes. It’s much easier this way, and actually more fun. I feel like I have four children instead of two. And when I need them, I have three other parents I can count on instead of just one. I feel lucky. I never would have imagined (way back when) that things would have turned out this way, and to be honest, I can’t imagine it any other way now.

Suzi Shelton, an award-winning singer/songwriter for the playground set, has been writing, recording, and performing music for families for more than 15 years. She is the proud mama of two and step-mama of two more. Shelton has just released her fourth solo album and is currently working on her fifth season of Sing with Suzi videos on YouTube for her preschool fans. See and hear it all at suzishelton.com.

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While we love the summer weather and perfect beach days, sometimes it’s just too hot (or rainy) to be outside with the kids. But keeping them cooped up inside all day without planned activities can sometimes drive us crazy. So pull out the pipe cleaners and hot glue gun to make these hand puppets—a project featured in Debbie Chapman’s “Low-Mess Crafts for Kids”—and then have the kids write and perform a show for you! Who needs a fancy puppet when you can use your hand?! Slide your middle finger into one of these pom pom hand puppets and use your fingers and thumb as the mouth. Hands can be surprisingly funny when you make them talk in a silly voice! Materials • 5 pipe cleaners, 6 inches long (or 3 full length pipe cleaners, cut in half) • 2 large pom poms • 2 small pom poms

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Directions 1. Fold one pipe cleaner in half, then bend it into a “U” shape. 2. Spread apart the ﬂuff in one of the large pom poms. Add a small glob of hot glue into the opening, then press one of the pipe cleaner ends into the glue, pushing the ﬂuff of the pom pom back into place around the pipe cleaner. Repeat with the other end of the pipe cleaner with the second large pom pom. 3. Fold two pipe cleaners in half. Add a small dab of hot glue onto the small pom poms and press them onto the tip of each pipe cleaner half. These will be the antennae. 4. Attach the pipe cleaner antennae to the top of each of the large pom poms using a glue gun. 5. Bend the pipe cleaner antennae slightly so they curve. 6. Take the end of another pipe cleaner and fold the end by about ½ inch. Fold it by ½ inch in the other direction. Continue folding it back and forth, in opposite directions, until you get to the end. Repeat for the last pipe cleaner. These will be the puppet’s eyebrows. 7. Attach the eyebrows to the front of the large pom poms using hot glue. Then attach the googly eyes slightly over the top of the eyebrows, again using hot glue. 8. Your pom pom hand puppet is complete!

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Choices, Choices, Choices

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The New York metro area provides families with a variety of school options, allowing you to choose the best one for your child. By Katelin Walling

e all worry about whether we’re making the best choices in raising our kids, and one thing most of us fret over is whether our children are getting the best education possible that is suited to their needs. In a lot of areas in the country, traditional district public schools may be the only option for kids. But living in the New York metro area, we are #blessed with an abundance of choices in addition to great public schools, from charter and independent schools, to magnet, international, and Catholic schools. While one school option doesn’t necessarily provide a better education than another, each type has pros and cons for every individual family. It’s up to you to determine which school setting best suits your child’s needs. Read on to learn more about charter, home, independent, international, magnet, and parochial schools.

Charter Schools

“The most important concept to get is that a charter school is a public school,” says Ian Rowe, CEO of Public Prep Network, a system of three nonprofit charter schools in New York City. But charter schools often have a specific focus, one that typically responds to a need articulated by public school families. Public Prep schools, for example, are all single sex (two schools for girls and one school for boys) and have a focus in STEM education. As with public schools, charter schools are tuition-free, though students have to apply for admission. Public Prep currently admits students via a lottery system due to high demand. Charter schools, though, tend to operate with fewer regulations than traditional public schools and can set their own curriculum. But there is typically an accountability system in which charters are evaluated each year to see if they are meeting the outcomes set by the state, Rowe adds. Plus, there is a renewal process every five years to determine whether the charter is able to continue. “So, there is a much 12

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greater accountability in return for the freedoms you have to operate as a charter,” Rowe says.

Home Schools

There are numerous motivations for a family to decide to home-school their children, from religious and health reasons to a child’s learning style, aptitude level, or schedule (think child actors). There are also numerous options for home-schooling your child, whether you decide to take the lead in teaching, you enroll him in an online home-school program, such as the George Washington University Online High School, or you join a home-school community, such as Classical Conversations. Parents who decide to home-school rather than enroll their child in a physical school need to submit a letter of intent, an Individualized Home Instruction Plan, and quarterly reports by specific dates, according to the New York City Department of Education.

Independent Schools

Also known as private schools, independent schools are funded by tuition and charitable donations as opposed to taxpayer dollars. “It is independently funded for the most part and also independent from the state to a certain degree,” says Scott Nelson, headmaster of Rye Country Day School, a college preparatory day school in Rye. “For instance, we don’t follow the NYS testing program (regents testing program), so we have more independence as far as curriculum choices.” To enroll in an independent school, students have to fill out an application, parents and the student have an interview, and the student has to take an entrance exam, either the Independent School Entrance Exam or the Secondary School Admissions Test, according to Nelson. Though tuition is a factor in attending an independent school, many offer need-based financial aid. For instance, RCDS offers $5.5 million annually to 16 percent of students, Nelson says.

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Magnet Schools

Another tuition-free public school option, magnet schools are federally funded by competitive grants from the U.S. Department of Education’s Office of Innovation and Improvement. Over the past few years, the NYC DOE has won funding for 31 magnet schools across 12 districts in NYC, says Todd Levitt, senior director of magnet programs of NYC DOE. Due to the grants, the NYC DOE is able to offer specialized thematic programs, innovative curriculum, and diversified approaches to teaching, and provide professional development, partnerships, residencies, and extra funding to support special programs, he adds. These 31 schools have a STEAM/STEM component, and each school follows a theme (architecture, civic leadership, and global conservation to name a few). Partnerships are tailored to each school’s individual pursuits and include Columbia University, American Ballet Theatre, Lego, CUNY, NYIT, Apple Education, and Buck Institute of Education Project Based Learning. The grants allow magnet schools to have state-of-the-art technology, purchase new art and science supplies, and provide specialty rooms like broadcast studios and STEAM labs. Though public schools, the NYC magnet schools have an application process through the NYC DOE Office of Enrollment and the magnet schools, but there is no screening or testing involved in applying. For information about open houses and school tours happening in the fall, email JGallag@schools.nyc.gov or TLevitt@schools.nyc.gov.

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A second private school option, international schools are typically multi-cultural and integrate those different cultures into everyday learning. “We have families who hail from all over the world…and we embrace their backgrounds,” says Emily Benson, director of admissions at International Academy of New York in Manhattan. “We celebrate different times of the year that are holidays for those different cultures, and if we don’t actually make a big celebration about it, we at least discuss it.” Many international schools are bilingual. IANY, for instance, teaches Mandarin and Spanish, and students spend almost 40 percent of their time interacting in those languages. “When we have a family coming from say Egypt, we might be studying Spanish or Mandarin, but we will ask that child how do you say this in Arabic,” Benson says of welcoming students’ cultures. “We encourage and embrace these other languages and we find that through the way we teach, our children are not only embracing different cultures...but they are also excited to share their home countries’ language and tradition.” As with other private schools, international schools have an application process, and some require testing while others do not. Many international schools also offer need-based financial aid.

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Parochial Schools

Catholic schools are private schools that follow a traditional curriculum but with an added religious component. Students enrolled in a Diocese of Rockville Centre school, for instance, are taught in accordance with the New York state learning standards and take the same Regents Exams and SAT as public school students, but learning is infused with a religious curriculum directed by the Diocese, according to Gary Layton, director of marketing and enrollment for DRVC. “Because we are schools that are run by a religious institution, we take a more holistic view and aim to educate the mind, body, and spirit. It is not just about educating. It is about building character, instilling values. It is about the kindness, the respect they show each other. It is about doing for others through service projects” Layton says. Though the schools in the Diocese are Catholic schools, teach religion courses, and prepare students for their first Holy Communion and Confirmation, not all students practice Catholicism. Those that don’t practice are required to take and pass religion classes, but are not required to participate in religious events or sacraments. DRVC requires applicants to fill out admissions paperwork, and there is a “modest tuition” that is typically supplemented by the Diocese and the Parish that runs the school, Layton says.

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Create a Homework Hot Spot

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Kids need a dedicated space to get their homework done. But what if the space you’ve carved out for them isn’t so ideal? Read on for some quick and easy fixes. By Lambeth Hochwald

f it seems like your kids find any excuse not to sit down and do their homework, it could be their workstation is lacking in the right light, the right inspiration, or even the right chair. “As parents, getting our kids to focus on homework can be a daily grind,” says Lisa Sugarman, a nationally syndicated opinion columnist and parenting expert. “But by creating a space that entices our kids to sit down and dig into their work, we’re setting them up for success without anyone kicking and screaming along the way. And that means less stress for us and for our kids.” It’s very important to pick a quiet spot without any distractions like TV, devices of any sort, and toys. “Tell your kids that it’s their spot to do their work,” Sugarman says. “Giving your kids ownership of their homework area is a really big deal to a kid. Next, always make sure to help them get invested in the space by encouraging them to help shop for the items they’d like and then set it up and get it organized together.” Now that you know why your kids need a dedicated homework station, read on as Annie Draddy, a professional organizer and co-founder of Henry & Higby, a professional organizing company in New York City, shares 10 ways to get your kids to actually sit down and get their work done—plus products that will help enhance their space. We promise that your kids will thank you later!

Make the space appealing.

Once you’ve carved out a room or space in your home that works for your child and is intended just for homework, make it aesthetically pleasing by adding decorative items such as a colorful accent rug, bookends, and a funky desk lamp that matches their personality. “It doesn’t matter if this spot is in a communal room of the home or a desk in their own room, provided it feels personal to them,” Draddy says. “Ultimately, the goal is to get them to work in a proper set-up with a table and chair instead of doing their homework on the couch. This way they establish good habits and 14 August 2018 | nymetroparents.com

can properly work on their handwriting and other skills.” Desk Pick: Kids Navy Blue Campaign Desk, $399 (crateandbarrel.com)

Select a good desk chair.

The goal here: to select a desk chair that’s as comfortable as it is supportive. “You don’t want a lousy chair to be the reason that your kids are doing their homework in front of the TV,” Draddy says. Chair Picks: Rockin’ Roller Desk Chair, $149 (pbteen.com)

Make it easy to keep a shipshape desk.

Although it may seem obvious, keeping a trash or recycling can near your child’s desk is a win-win. “Not only will this encourage him to throw out old papers, but also—perhaps with a little coaxing—purge the garbage from his backpack on a regular basis,” Draddy says. Bonus points if you encourage your child to routinely empty that trash on her own as part of her chores. Trashcan Pick: Pink or Gray Trash Can, $39 (potterybarnkids.com)

Post important notices.

By hanging up a corkboard for your kids to pin papers, reminders, and a calendar, you’re keeping important information within sight. “This is a space that should be within reach of their desk so they can easily add/remove important items on a regular basis,” Draddy says. “It can also give them a chance to decorate and personalize their space—and maybe even sketch out a dream board, which will hopefully inspire them to keep using it!” Corkboard Pick: Zig Zag Cork Board, $12.99 (containerstore.com)

Keep supplies close at hand.

Stowing supplies within reach of your child’s desk is one of the biggest keys to your kid’s productivity. “There needn’t be twelve trips around the house looking for the tools they need to complete each project,”

Draddy says. It’s easy: Just keep pens, pencils, erasers, Post-Its, highlighters, three-ring binder paper, graph paper, rulers, and a pencil sharpener within easy reach. “If desk space is an issue, consider making your own mobile supply station that can be easily wheeled in and out of the space when it’s homework time,” she says. “A version of this caddy can also be made for the road if your children won’t always be home when it comes time for homework.” Caddy Pick: Acrylic Accessory Drawers, $12.99-$13.99 (containerstore.com)

life skill that will bode them well in life after school, too.” Timer Pick: Time Timer Original 8 Inch, 60 Minute Visual Analog Timer, $24.99 (amazon.com)

helps kids keep their notes organized whether on their desk or in their book bag,” Draddy says. Color-Coded File Pick: White, Pool Blue + Aqua Letter Size File Folders, $15 (poppin.com)

Encourage color-coding.

Behold the power of the in-box.

Color-coded file folders can be vital to keeping organized. Encourage your child to stow all science papers in a green folder, English compositions in their blue folder, French worksheets in a red folder, and so on. “This

With school comes tons of assignments and papers that need to stay organized. “Consider setting up an ‘in’ and ‘out’ bin where your kids can put assignments that need to be done and others that are already completed,”

Draddy says. “This makes it easier to remember that everything in the ‘out’ bin needs to be packed in their backpacks and returned to school the next day.” For papers your kids want to keep for future nostalgia, consider keeping these in bins. By doing this, your house will stay streamlined too. Storage Picks: Archival Album & Scrapbook Storage Box, $17.99 (containerstore.com) Lambeth Hochwald is a New York Citybased journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

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Embrace your label maker.

It’s time to dust off your label maker and use it to help your kids stay organized. “Label everything on your supply containers/caddy,” Draddy says, adding that this includes recent tests, papers, and assignment sheets as well as bins containing supplies. “This will help teach your children how to maintain their space and hopefully put an end to the continuing cycle of them asking where to put their supplies when they are done with their homework,” Draddy adds. Label Picks: Simply Remarkable Reusable Chalk Labels, $9.95 or Brother P-Touch PTD 210 Easy-to-Use Label Maker, $24.99 (both on amazon.com)

Corral those cords.

As your kids get older, homework will often require the use of technology, whether that’s a laptop, iPad, or other plug-ins, all of which means cord and charging chaos. “Keep your kids’ homework space tidy from the cord clutter by using some of those ingenious products and hacks to help cables stay neat and handy for when it’s time to plug in and charge,” Draddy says. Cord Storage Pick: Cable Twisters, $9.99 (containerstore.com)

Time it right.

If assignments need to be timed, give your kids the tools to manage their own time by keeping a clock or timer on their workspace. “Setting time limits for each subject can help them stay on track,” Draddy says. “This is a

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1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfishhatchery.org info@cshfishhatchery.org Join us for a fun-filled hour of nature activities (fish feeding included). Using live animals, crafts, stories, and games, we guide you and your little ones through nature adventures sure to last a lifetime. Juice and snack available to all participants. Ages 2-5 at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium Pollywog Adventures program. Catch & Keep Trout Fishing: spaces available on a firstcome, first-served basis. Bring your own fishing equipment or rent from the Hatchery. Call us for details and registration information for Pollywog Adventures and fishing.

Eye Level Suffolk

myeyelevel.com Many parents today are facing educational challenges and looking for answers to help their children succeed academically. Whether the immediate goal is for early learning, remedial education, or academic advancement, Eye Level is the answer. Eye Level offers math and English programs for ages 3-14. Our instructors tailor a curriculum by understanding the learning abilities of the student. With ongoing guidance, each student will set attainable goals and learn at a comfortable pace. With each success, the student grows more self-confident, self-motivated, and self-directed in the quest for knowledge.

The Gateway Performing Arts Center of Suffolk County The Gateway School for the Performing Arts

215 S. Country Road, Bellport 631-286-1133 631-286-0555 x5000 thegateway.org Since 1950, The Gateway has been Long Island’s home for high-quality arts education—both Robert Duvall and Gene Hackman began their careers here. More than 300 students each year, from Montauk to Manhattan, receive professional-level training at The Gateway School for the Performing Arts. The focus at Gateway is on providing training that will build technique while working toward a production. Whether it’s audition techniques, scene study, improvisation, or character development, stu-

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Huntington Ballet Academy at Huntington Center for Performing Arts

310 New York Ave., Huntington 631-271-4626 huntingtoncenteronline.com/category/ ballet huntingtoncenter@yahoo.com The school follows the American Ballet Theatre® National Training Curriculum and is divided by levels of study based upon proficiency. Study of Ballet, Conditioning, and Character Dance begins at age 4½. In addition to Ballet, Pointe, Modern, and Classical Variations are offered for ages 11 and older. The curriculum provides a safe, nurturing environment in which to master this challenging, beautiful art form. Students are encouraged to audition for productions produced by LI Ballet Theatre, which is also in residence at Huntington Center.

Huntington Center for Performing Arts

310 New York Ave., Huntington 631-271-4626 huntingtoncenteronline.com huntingtoncenter@yahoo.com Musical Theater for ages 6-12. Workshops are offered for 10 weeks in fall and spring. Our musical theater workshops offer training in various skills needed to participate in a musical theater production. The program begins with auditions for a selected Broadway musical, however all participants are given speaking, singing, and dancing opportunities. During the rehearsal period students are taught vocal technique, acting skills, and appropriate movement necessary to tell the story through words and music. The objective is to build confidence and discipline in each child.

Joffrey Ballet School

434 Sixth Ave., 5th Floor, Manhattan 888-438-3808 joffreyballetschool.com The Joffrey Ballet School offers classes in Musical Theater, Hip-Hop, Jazz, Contemporary Ballet, and more. We specialize in dancers ranging in age from 2-18. We also offer superb adult evening dance fitness classes. The Musical Theater classes for kids are instructed by actual Broadway stars. Come and experience our more than 60 years of excellence

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Key to My Art Inc.

10 W. Oak St., Amityville 131 Main St., East Rockaway 877-539-2278 keytomyart.com/nymetroparents.html info@keytomyart.com Key to My Art is owned and operated by a New York state-certified art teacher who believes that anyone can create art if they want to. We teach your child how to work with different materials and mediums, while using a variety of techniques and styles. Your child will learn to give critique and look at the work of their peers, as well as expand on their skills. We offer art classes for all ages and abilities.

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900 Walt Whitman Road, Suite LL2, Melville 631-479-2595 licetamers.com licetamers@gmail.com Head lice infestations can be traumatic for families. At Lice Tamers we can help relieve some of the stress. It is important to check your children before school starts. Owned and operated by a medical professional, Lice Tamers offers same-day lice treatment and head checks at our comfortable, child-friendly treatment center or in the comfort of your home. All of our products are safe and non-toxic. Lice Tamers is dedicated to dispelling the myths surrounding head lice. Be sure to stop by before or after school for a quick lice check.

LIU Post Center for Gifted Youth

Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, director LIU Post, Brookville 516-299-2160 liu.edu/giftedyouth The Long Island University program for gifted children was established in 1979 in response to the recognition of society’s special responsibilities for children with demonstrably superior intellectual ability. The LIU Center for Gifted Youth brings together two important elements of education for the gifted: extraordinary teachers recruited from leading schools in the metropolitan area and university-level facilities. These factors, combined with an administrative and psychological team schooled in the needs of gifted children, give the program at LIU Post unique strengths in producing positive benefits for young people admitted to the program.

Long Island Whole Child Academy

175 Wolf Hill Road, Melville 347-668-3676 liwholechild.org info@liwholechild.org After-school and weekend Enrichment Classes are open to gifted, twice exceptional, and all students. Flight Team: Become familiar with flying our professional-grade flight simulator. Martial Arts: Students use their bodies and sense of self through martial arts techniques, developing self-confidence, self-respect, social cognition skills, and muscle tone. Science of Magic: Learn the science behind magic tricks and perform your own. Makers Space: Create, plan, dig, and build, using a variety of materials and tools. Readers/Writers Workshop: Students create wondrous stories from even our most reluctant readers and writers.

Music Together

Various locations; find the location near you: musictogetherli-queens.com While the big kids head back to school this fall, have some family-style, music-makin’ fun with your little ones. Once a week for 10 weeks, you’ll sing, dance, and play with your baby, toddler, or preschooler in a playbased, developmentally appropriate musical environment. Some centers offer classes for the big kids, too! Founded in 1987, Music Together is a research-based program. Each family receives a CD or download set and songbook so you can continue the fun at home. Find a location near you in Queens or on Long Island: musictogetherli-queens.com.

Nastics A Total Gymnastics Experience 921-1 Lincoln Ave., Holbrook 631-567-0066 nasticsnextgen.com Now in our 38th year, Nastics offers classes in preschool, recreational, and competitive gymnastics. Nothing is more important than your child’s self-confidence and safety as we provide a positive, fun environment. Watch your child’s confidence grow as they work through challenges and experience the wonderful sport of gymnastics. Teaching and improving coordination, strength, flexibility, power, listening and social skills, self-esteem, self-improvement, and confidence are foundational aspects of our classes. We instill in each gymnast the belief that with the proper effort and focus, she can accomplish her goals and dreams!

Northwell Health Ice Center

200 Merrick Ave., East Meadow 516-441-0070 northwellhealthicecenter.com Looking for a way to keep your youngster active now that summer vacation is over? Learn to skate classes at Northwell Health Ice Center offer something for everyone—from first steps on the ice to mastering advanced techniques. We offer Young Beginner classes for kids ages 2–5, and Group Lesson programs for ages 6 and older. Fall learn to skate classes start in late September. Visit northwellhealthicecenter.com to learn more.

Ohman School of Ballet New York Dance Theatre

60 Calvert Ave., Commack 631-462-6266 ohmanballet.org office@ohmanballet.com Our school serves as a training ground for promising young dancers and offers the opportunity to learn classical ballet in the tradition of George Balanchine. Students are guided from first steps to advanced technique. The Early Childhood Program instills creativity, discipline, and a love for ballet for our students ages 4-6. Students explore the characters and music of various classical ballets, are introduced to classical ballet steps, create their own movements, and practice in costume. The school is a non-competition, non-recital school, focusing on proper classical ballet technique.

Picasso Kidz, Creative Art Studio For Children

72 Broadway, Greenlawn 631-261-5500 picassokidz.com picassokidzart@gmail.com Picasso Kidz is a children’s art studio for ages 2-17. We offer age-appropriate art classes by experienced NYS-certified art teachers dedicated to giving children a well-rounded art education. Children will be taught drawing, painting, sculpture, printmaking, and collage in a caring and creative environment. Mommy and Me classes for ages 2-3 include creative play, easel time, story time, and art lessons. “Extraordinary Picasso” art classes are for children with special needs. These are smaller classes, taught by NYS-certified art teachers who have also been trained by Missing Piece Awareness.

Posey School

57 Main St., Northport 631-757-2700 poseyschoolofdance.com poseyschoolofdance@gmail.com Posey School offers dance classes for infants to adults, a preschool program, and Fine Art classes. We offer classes during convenient days and times. Posey preschool runs every day from 9am-12pm with certified teachers and a lunch option after from 12-1pm. Dance classes include Ballet, Pointe, Contempo-

rary-Modern, Jazz, Tap, Choreography, Character Dance, Mommy and Me, and Creative Movement. Based on nationally recognized criteria, our unique programs emphasize the artistic and cultural benefits of applying oneself in the arts. These benefits include acquiring and maintaining basic physical skills, and cognitive development in problem solving.

St. Patrick Youth Community

St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-360-0185 stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick’s Youth Enrichment Center offers a kindergarten readiness program, and before- and after-school and care for children. Our center is a secure environment where children can learn and grow. Children ages 2-12 will have an option for morning, afternoon, or after-school hours. Challenging, timely activities on-site will provide your child with what they need to be a well-rounded, thoughtful student. St. Patrick’s Youth Learning Center offers tutoring for students in kindergarten through 12th grade. SAT preparations, study skills, and Catholic High School entrance exams classes are offered.

Studio E Art Classes

565 Route 25A, Miller Place 631-744-4001 studioeartclass.com Studio E is now registering for fall classes! View classes online at studioeartclass.com or call 631744-4001. Studio E offers weekly Ceramics and Mixed Media classes for ages 5-8. We also offer two preschool-aged classes called Art Start and Toddler and Me. Teen and tween students will love our huge variety of Illustration, Painting, Drawing, Pottery, and Ceramics classes. All classes are taught by a NYS-certified art teacher.

Sylvan Learning Centers of Mineola and Huntington

393 Jericho Turnpike, Mineola 516-743-9943 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 sylvanlearning.com sylvanlearning@optonline.net At Sylvan of Huntington and Mineola, every child’s learning plan is unique. Sylvan’s diagnostic assessments help us to uncover your child’s specific strengths and can enable us to create a plan just for them! If you are looking to enhance your child’s skills in reading, writing, mathematics, or STEM concepts, then Sylvan is here to help. Our certified teachers are able to challenge your child in a number of ways unique to their specific skill set. Enrichment enables children to explore their talents and build confidence! continued on next page ››

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153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1-888-827-8188 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park tasnewyork.com Here education matters. The No. 1 learning center in New York. We offer after-school programs, private and group tutoring, kids and adult art classes, computer coding, SAT and ACT prep, Create and Meditate sessions, and summer camp! We believe that every student has a unique gift to share. Classes are geared toward providing a friendly environment to learn and excel. We offer classes in creativity and art to all ages. Meditation is an important ingredient in our programs to creatively engage your mind and build a rewarding learning environment. Call today!

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556 N. Country Road, St. James 631-584-6888 310 Main St., Holbrook 631-585-6900 tjedance.com info@tjedance.com Come experience the finest, most talented, creative, award-winning staff that will motivate your child to do the best they can! The benefits your children will receive while dancing at TJE are the qualities every child needs to succeed: focus, concentration, self-confidence, and self-esteem, plus they’ll make a ton of new friends and will be having fun while learning the many forms of dance. The best part of TJE is the wonderful families that have been with us over the years, many still with us since opening in 1993! Celebrating 25 years!

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The guitar-wielding Captain Jam and his live band of musicians, storytellers, and dancers take the stage and invite the audience to join a musical adventure—even giving children the chance to come up on stage, play a drum solo, or sing in a microphone at FunikiJam’s Totally Awesome Summer. By the end of the show, imagination, live music, colorful costumes, and lots of audience interaction will have helped Captain Jam complete the three-part FunikiJam mission: to have fun, jam, and celebrate summer around the world. Aug. 12 and 26, 11am. Age: 3-8. $30. Actors Temple Theatre, 339 W. 47th St., Midtown. funikijam.com/offbroadway.

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The Charles A. Dana Discovery Center is located on the north end of Central Park.

Charles A. Dana Discovery Center in Central Park

Located on the northern shore of the Harlem Meer, this discovery center is Central Park’s newest building and the first to be built primarily as a visitor center. The center offers a variety of community programs and free education, as well as the opportunity to borrow discovery kits, take an official Central Park tour, and learn all about the park. The Charles A. Dana Discovery Center is also home to the catch-and-release fishing program and allows visitors to borrow fishing poles. Visit it: West 110th Street, between Malcom X Boulevard and Fifth Avenue, Harlem Can’t-miss event: Harlem Meer Performance Festival: Calpulli Mexican Dance Company: Aug. 5, 2pm Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 15-minute drive or 1½-hour LIRR and subway ride from Huntington

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Families will get a breathtaking view of the late summer sky through powerful telescopes.

The Coney Island boardwalk has food options and fun for the whole family.

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Ever wonder exactly where are we among the stars in the Milky Way? Do we hold a special place among the planets, stars, and galaxies in the universe? Brian Abbott and Jillian Bellovary guide families from Earth to the most distant objects in the observable universe at Astronomy Live: The Grand Tour of the Universe at the American Museum of Natural History on the Upper West Side. Aug. 28, 6:30pm. Age: 9 and older. $15; $13.50 seniors and students. Central Park West and 79th Street, Upper West Side. amnh.org.

Between the beach, Luna Park, the boardwalk, the food, and more, Coney Island is the perfect city summer destination. There is no shortage of fun at the seaside amusement park, filled with rides for all ages. Visit the New York Aquarium this summer to view the newly rebuilt Shark exhibit or enjoy a hotdog on the boardwalk. Visit it: West 10th to West 12th streets, Coney Island, Brooklyn Can’t-miss event: Coney Island Sand Sculpting Contest: Aug. 18, 12pm Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 15-minute drive or a 2-hour, 20-minute LIRR and subway ride from Huntington LongIslandParent 19

August where-to guide

Activities

Compiled by Samantha Neudorf

Summer is almost coming to a close and school is right around the corner, so it’s time to make the most of those last weeks of vacation! What better way to close the season than by doing something memorable with your family? There are many boat rides you can take around the New York metro area, and there’s nothing like being on the water on a hot summer’s day. August also means it’s berry-picking season, so visit a local farm to pick a variety of blueberries, blackberries, and raspberries. Alternatively, you can visit your local farmers’ market to see what’s in season for late summer. Finally, if it’s just too hot to be outside, you can always bring the family indoors for a round of bowling. Stay cool!

BERRY PICKING Wickham Farms 28700 Main Road (Route 25), Cutchogue 631-734-6441; wickhamsfruitfarm.com Open Monday-Saturday, 9am-4pm; farm stand open Monday-Saturday, 9am-5pm; tours are available Monday-Friday by appointment. Pick your own strawberries in June, cherries in late June, blueberries and blackberries in July and August, as well as peaches in August, and apples and pumpkins in October. (Note: Berry seasons may be early this year due to weather conditions.)

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BOWLING ALLEYS Massapequa Bowl 117 E. Main St., East Islip 631-581-6200; eilanes.com Hours: Monday-Tuesday, 10am-12am; Wednesday-Thursday, 9-12am; Saturday, 9-1am; and Sunday, 8:30-12:30am Kids ages 15 and younger can bowl two free games through Sept. 14. There are also themed bowling days throughout the week. Find more>>nymetroparents.com/bowling

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Kings Park Market Municipal Lot 25A and Main Street, Kings Park ligreenmarket.org/kingspark Hours: Through Nov. 18: Sundays, 9am-2pm Offering certified organic vegetables and greens, Long Island corn, heirloom tomatoes, milk, cheese, pasta, and baked good, this market serves members of the Smithtown community and features cooking demonstrations and local events.

Long Island Aquarium 431 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-208-0466; longislandaquarium.com Rides: Add extra aquatic adventure to your visit with an interactive cruise aboard the Atlantis Explorer Tour Boat. Enjoy hands-on exploration including trap pulls, horseshoe crab encounters, and a stroll along a remote beach. Hours: Departs weekends at 12pm and 2pm during May; Saturday-Sunday, 12pm and 2pm in June; daily at 12pm, 2pm, and 4pm from July through Labor Day; weekends at 12pm and 2pm in September. Cost: Tour boat only: $20 adult and child; $5 for children ages 2 and under. Combo Aquarium Admission: $42.50; $35.50 children ages 3-12; discounts for aquarium members and Suffolk County green key cardholders.

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Editor’s Hot Tickets

We Can’t Believe It’s FREE!

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On Screen

Show Time!

Mini Musicians, Little Foodies

Movers & Shakers, Smarty Pants

Browse & Buy, Animal Lovers, Dance Party

Kindness Crusaders

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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS

Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Civil War Living History FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 4, 10am-4pm WHERE: Westhampton Beach Historical Society, 101 Mill Road, Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Witness demonstrations of firearms, military drills, canon firing, cooking over open fire, and other typical camp activities all done in authentic military dress. WHY WE LOVE IT: Important history for the entire family! WANT TO GO? 631-288-1139. whbhistorical.org.

Pastry Wars FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 8, 6:30pm or 7:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Families will decorate a pastry similar to ones served at five-star restaurants. Chef Rob Scott will select a winner at the end of each session. WHY WE LOVE IT: This is the best kind of battle...an edible one! WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

‘Cinderella’

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 11, 11am WHERE: Goat on a Boat @ Bay Street, 1 Bay St., Sag Harbor AGES: 3-8 WHAT: A peppy interpretation of the classic story in which Cinderella is helped by her fairy godmother and the clock at the top of the castle tower.

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WHY WE LOVE IT: This elaborate production features a clever set and detailed marionettes. WANT TO GO? $18. 631-725-9500. baystreet.org.

2018 Snapper and Crab Derby Fishing Tournament

WHEN: Aug. 11-12, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-2pm WHERE: Captree State Park, 3500 Ocean Parkway, Babylon AGES: 5-17 WHAT: The Snapper Derby is held to encourage children to fish numerous locations throughout Captree State Park. WHY WE LOVE IT: Children learn a Long Island tradition. WANT TO GO? $8 vehicle use fee. 631-669-0449. nysparks.com.

Movies on the Great Lawn: ‘Pitch Perfect’ FREE

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 13, 7:50pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Enjoy an movie outdoors plus a Cup Song lesson and Pitch Perfect soundtrack karaoke. WHY WE LOVE IT: Singing in the great outdoors—it’s pitch perfect! WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Family Fridays: National Circus Project FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 24, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: The Common Ground, Rotary Park, between Gillette and Candee avenues, Sayville AGES: All WHAT: A panoramic presentation of circus skills as a sensational

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Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.

comedy-variety show with lots of audience participation. WHY WE LOVE IT: This is good, old-fashioned family fun! WANT TO GO? 631-664-4230. thecommonground.com.

Josh Seiden: The Circus Guy FREE

58th Annual Scottish Festival and Highland Games

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 25, 8am-5pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: It is believed that the games were begun by the ancient highland chieftains to help them select the strongest men for their armies. Don’t miss the Grand Opening Ceremony at 12:30pm as the bagpipers march down the North Lawn to open the games. WHY WE LOVE IT: Frankly, we can’t get enough of highland dancing, kilts, and bagpipes! Who could ask for anything more? WANT TO GO? $20; $18 seniors; $10 children 7-17; free children 6 and younger. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Harbes Watermelon Festival FREE

WHEN: Aug. 25-26, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-7pm WHERE: Harbes Family Farm, 715 Sound Ave., Mattituck AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy two fun-filled Watermelon Eating Contests twice daily at Harbes Watermelon Festival! WHY WE LOVE IT: Pig races, singing hayrides, and bounce pillows are all part of the fun. WANT TO GO? 631-298-0800. harbesfamilyfarm.com.

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 1, 3-4pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: This kid-friendly entertainment features comedy, magic, balancing, and juggling. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Family Fridays: Mermaids & Giants FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 3, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: The Common Ground, Rotary Park, between Gillette and Candee avenues, Sayville AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: An acoustic duo sings familiar children’s songs. WANT TO GO? 631-664-4230. thecommonground.com.

Harbes Tomato Festival FREE

Elephant & Piggie’s ‘We Are in a Play!’

WHEN: Aug. 22-31, see website for select times; no performances Aug. 26-27 WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Elephant and Piggie storm the stage in a rollicking musical romp filled with plenty of pachydermal peril and swiney suspense perfect for young audiences. WHY WE LOVE IT: Carefully cautious Gerald and spirited playful Piggie share a day where anything is possible in an imaginative exploration of the meaning of friendship. WANT TO GO? $9 with museum admission: $13; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

‘Flashdance: the Musical’

WHEN: Aug. 29-Sept. 15, check the website for performance dates and times WHERE: Patchogue Theater for Performing Arts, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The story of 18-year-old Alex, a welder by day and “flashdancer” by night, and her dreams of becoming a professional dancer. WHY WE LOVE IT: Long Island native Julia Macchio, daughter of Ralph Macchio, stars. WANT TO GO? $59-$89. 631-207-1313. patchoguetheatre.com.

WHEN: Aug. 4-5, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-7pm WHERE: Harbes Family Farm, 715 Sound Ave., Mattituck AGES: All WHAT: Bring the whole family to see who will be Harbes annual Tomato Eating Contest King and Queen. WANT TO GO? 631-298-0800. harbesfamilyfarm.com.

Concert Under the Stars Featuring the West Point Concert Band & Laser Light Show FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 16, 6:30pm WHERE: Long Island State Veterans Home, 100 Patriots Road, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Bring your blankets, chairs, and the whole family. Food vendors will be on-site. WANT TO GO? 631-444-8606. lisvh.org.

Family Fridays: The Magic of Amore FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 17, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: The Common Ground, Rotary Park, between Gillette and Candee avenues, Sayville AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Be mesmerized by illusions, comedy, and magic. WANT TO GO? 631-664-4230. thecommonground.com. ››

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Watermelon Pizza with Chef Rob Scott

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 10, 7pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Learn how to make a delicious treat with Chef Rob Scott (Registration required). WANT TO GO? Free with Westhampton Free Library Card. 631-2883335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Mermaid Tea Party

CRAFTY KIDS

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 11, 1-3pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Decorate a mermaid wand, explore beautiful shells, and enjoy yummy treats. WANT TO GO? $12; $5 for adults. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Sculpt a Panda in Clay!

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 13, 10:30-11:30am and 11:45am-12:45pm WHERE: Connetquot Public Library, 760 Ocean Ave., Bohemia AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Come make a cute clay panda with art teacher Amy. Call the library to sign up. WANT TO GO? Free with Connetquot/Bohemia library card. 631-5675079. connetquotlibrary.org.

Art Club FREE

Draw Anime with Art Teacher Amy FREE

Libraries Rock! FREE

Frozen in the Summer!

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 1, 5-6pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Use leftover craft supplies to make an original piece of art. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org. WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 2, 2pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Tweens decorate rocks at the library. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Art Workshop FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 5, 11am-3pm WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park, parking field 5, Fire Island AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy an afternoon in the Art Studio with Fire Island’s own David Adams. Photo painting is today’s medium. WANT TO GO? 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.

Perler Bead Drink Coasters

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 6, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Design you own personal coaster (registration required). WANT TO GO? Free with Westhampton Free Library Card. 631-2883335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Paint a Matisse! FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 9, 4-5:30pm WHERE: Emma Clark Library, 120 Main St., Setauket AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Paint a Matisse watercolor with art teacher Amy. Call the Emma Clark Setauket library to sign up. WANT TO GO? 631-941-4080. emmaclark.org. 24

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WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 16, 4-5:30pm WHERE: Emma Clark Library, 120 Main St., Setauket AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Draw your own anime character with art teacher Amy. No experience necessary. Call to sign up. WANT TO GO? 631-941-4080. emmaclark.org. WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 19, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Paint Olaf with a lesson in watercolor painting and meet Princess Anna of Arrendele. Register online. WANT TO GO? $30. 631-608-9048. gal.re/e/vnkZMMY5qN.

Draw Fireflies! FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 22, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Brightwaters Library, 1 S. Country Road, Brightwaters AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Draw fireflies in a jar in chalk pastel WANT TO GO? 631-665-4350. bsbwlibrary.org.

Wild Animals Art Camp!

WHEN: Aug. 21-23, Tuesday-Thursday, 1-4pm WHERE: Bohemia Recreation Center, 1 Ruzika Way, Bohemia AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn to draw animals from China, Africa, and South America. Draw and sculpt different animals each day. Sign up via the website. WANT TO GO? $50 per day. 206-484-7711. artteacheramy.com.

Scrimshaw Workshop Week

WHEN: Aug. 19-24, daily, 2-3pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Adults and kids can visit a collection of beautiful scrimshaw and create an inked scrimshaw keepsake box. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

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Ocean Sand Pudding Cups

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 24, 4:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Make a dessert that will make you feel like you are at the beach (Registration required). WANT TO GO? Free with Westhampton Free Library Card. 631-2883335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Press Here Book Collage

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 25, 2pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Read Press Here and then make your own book. Registration required. WANT TO GO? Free with Westhampton Free Library Card. 631-2883335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Cetacean Celebration

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 26, 11am-2pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: See and touch baleen, whale teeth, and other artifacts from the museum’s collection. Get crafty in a workshop with some fun make-andtake whale projects. WANT TO GO? $12; $5 for adults. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Children’s Back-To-School Programs: Make a Cornhusk Figure WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 29, 12:30pm WHERE: Walt Whitman Birthplace State Historic Site, 246 Old Walt Whitman Road, Huntington AGES: 5-17 WHAT: With a knowledgeable interpreter, fashion your own cornhusk figure. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-427-5240. waltwhitman.org.

Jackson Pollock Family Drip Painting Workshop

WHEN: Through Sept. 15: Saturdays, 10-11:30am WHERE: Pollock-Krasner House and Study Center, 830 Springs Fireplace Road, East Hampton AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Families tour the Pollock-Krasner House and studio, followed by a drip painting workshop for children. WANT TO GO? $40. 917-502-0790. imaginearted.com.

ON SCREEN ‘Snow White’ (1937)

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 1, 2pm WHERE: Patchogue Theater for Performing Arts, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: 3-12 WHAT: This 1937 Disney classic follows the Wicked Queen’s hunt for her innocent stepdaughter, Snow White, after becoming jealous that she is the “fairest one of all”. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-207-1313. patchoguetheatre.com.

Summer of Spielberg: ‘Poltergeist’ FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 3, 8:30pm WHERE: Southampton Arts Center, 25 Jobs Lane, Southampton AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Bizarre and creepy happenings beset an average California family. WANT TO GO? 631-283-0967. southamptonartscenter.org.

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Movies on the Great Lawn: ‘Jumanji’: Welcome to the Jungle FREE

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 6, 8pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Enjoy a movie outdoors, plus face painting and balloon animals. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Outdoor Movie: ‘Night at the Museum’ FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 8, 7:30-9pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: All WHAT: Bring your summer chairs or a blanket; snacks and drinks will be provided. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

‘101 Dalmations’ (1961)

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 8, 2pm WHERE: Patchogue Theater for Performing Arts, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Dalmatian puppies are abducted by the minions of Cruella de Vil and their parents must find them before she uses them for a diabolical fashion statement. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-207-1313. patchoguetheatre.com.

Summer of Spielberg: ‘Ready Player One’ FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 10, 8:30pm WHERE: Southampton Arts Center, 25 Jobs Lane, Southampton AGES: 9 and older WHAT: In the year 2045, people can escape their harsh reality in the OASIS, an immersive virtual world in which you can go anywhere, do anything, be anyone. WANT TO GO? 631-283-0967. southamptonartscenter.org.

Kay Cameron Jewelers Monday Night at the Movies: ‘Gnomeo and Juliet’ FREE WHEN: Monday, Aug. 13, 8:30pm WHERE: The Common Ground, Rotary Park, between Gillette and Candee avenues, Sayville AGES: All WHAT: Families can enjoy the movie with friends and neighbors. WANT TO GO? 631-664-4230. thecommonground.com.

Movies on the Great Lawn: ‘Casablanca’ FREE

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 20, 7:40pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Enjoy a movie outdoors, plus summer swing dancers. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Movie Matinee

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 20, 3pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Enjoy popcorn and watch, Hook (1991, Rated PG). Registration required. WANT TO GO? Free with Westhampton Free Library Card. 631-2883335. westhamptonlibrary.net. ›› LongIslandParent 25

‘Bugtown Follies’

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 16, 11am WHERE: Goat on a Boat @ Bay Street, 1 Bay St., Sag Harbor AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Master of Ceremonies, Bugsby Berkeley, heads a cast of all-star insects who perform in the craziest Vaudeville show ever. WANT TO GO? $18. 631-725-9500. baystreet.org.

Choir! Choir! Choir!

SHOW TIME!

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 17, 8pm WHERE: Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: All WHAT: Equal parts singing, comedy, and community building: you get a lyric sheet at the door, will learn the vocal arrangement, and a video will be recorded. WANT TO GO? $25-$45. 631-324-4050. guildhall.org.

KidFEST: The Amazing Max

‘Mary Poppins, Jr.’

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 1, 5pm WHERE: Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: All WHAT: The Amazing Max is an interactive magic show with a mind of its own. WANT TO GO? $14 and up. 631-324-4050. guildhall.org.

‘Aladdin’

WHEN: Through Aug. 2: 10am; check the website for specific dates WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: All WHAT: Welcome to Agrabah, City of Enchantment and the fantastic tale of the street rat. WANT TO GO? $13. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

The Amazing Max Off-Broadway Illusionist

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 3, 11am and 2pm WHERE: The Gateway Performing Arts Center of Suffolk County, 215 S. Country Road, Bellport AGES: All WHAT: Celebrated Off-Broadway illusionist Max Darwin displays a unique brand of visual magic, comedy, and audience participation. WANT TO GO? $15-$25. 631-286-0555. thegateway.org.

KidFEST: Hudson Vagabond Puppets: ‘Mammoth Follies’

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 8, 5pm WHERE: Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a musical trip through the wonders of pre-history in this fast-paced revue with host, Willie Mammoth. WANT TO GO? $18; $14 children. 631-324-4050. guildhall.org.

‘The Princess Who Saved a Dragon’

WHEN: Aug. 10-18, Friday-Saturday, 11am and 2pm WHERE: The Gateway Performing Arts Center of Suffolk County, 215 S. Country Road, Bellport AGES: All WHAT: Young Jane and Michael have sent many a nanny packing before Mary Poppins arrives on their doorstep. WANT TO GO? $15-$25. 631-286-0555. thegateway.org.

Disney’s ‘Aladdin Jr.’

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 18, 11am WHERE: Patchogue Theater for Performing Arts, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Adapted especially for young performers, this musical includes favorite Alan Menken songs such as “Friend Like Me,” “A Whole New World,” and “Prince Ali.” WANT TO GO? $20-$28. 631-207-1313. patchoguetheatre.com.

‘Pinkalicious the Musical’

WHEN: Through Aug. 19: Saturdays, 2pm; Sundays, 11am WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Pinkalicious can’t stop eating pink cupcakes despite warnings from her parents, and comes down with a bad case of Pinkititis. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.

‘The Doubtful Sprout’

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 23, 11am WHERE: Goat on a Boat @ Bay Street, 1 Bay St., Sag Harbor AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Tunnel down with Worm and Sprout as they discover the mysterious life found inside soil. WANT TO GO? $18. 631-725-9500. baystreet.org.

WHEN: Through Aug. 9: Friday-Saturday, 11am WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: In a topsy-turvy turnaround, an independent-minded princess rescues a bedraggled dragon and they set-off on a wild adventure where they learn that being different can be a wonderful thing. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

The Comedians

‘Alice’s Most Decidedly Unusual Adventures in Wonderland’

‘Evita’

WHEN: Aug. 3-11, Friday, 11am; Saturday, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: All the famous figures gather for a 21st-century take on the Lewis Carroll classic. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

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WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 25, 11am WHERE: Goat on a Boat @ Bay Street, 1 Bay St., Sag Harbor AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Harlequin, Pantalone, and Capitano star in funny episodes of puppet theater with universal language, a lot of music, and a few words in Italian. WANT TO GO? $18. 631-725-9500. baystreet.org. WHEN: July 31-Aug. 26, Tuesday-Sunday, see website for times WHERE: Bay Street Theater, 1 Bay St., Sag Harbor AGES: 9 and older WHAT: From poverty to stardom to political dominance, Evita follows the life of Eva Perón and her ascent to the top as the First Lady of Argentina. WANT TO GO? $40 and up. 631-725-9500. baystreet.org.

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MUSICIANS Live at the Shoppes: The Como Brothers FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 1, 6-8pm WHERE: The Shoppes at East Wind, 5768 New York 25A, Wading River AGES: All WHAT: The pop-rock duo has written, recorded, and released two albums, five EP’s, and two singles that will keep the audience engaged. WANT TO GO? 631-929-3500. eastwindlongisland.com/shoppes/welcome.

Evan Gottfried: Family Music Extravaganza FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 8, 2-3pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: A high-energy performance of fun songs and plenty of opportunity for participation with shakers, ribbon sticks, a parachute, and bubbles. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Live at the Shoppes: Craig Rose FREE

Summer Concerts on the Green FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 19: Sundays, 7-9pm WHERE: Stony Brook Village Center, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live music outdoors on the green. WANT TO GO? 631-751-2244. wmho.org.

LITTLE FOODIES My Plate (Families) FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 2, 2pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Families will learn about the five food groups and how to incorporate each in meal planning. Call to register. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Eat a Rainbow! FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 9, 7-8pm WHERE: Central Islip Public Library, 33 Hawthorne Ave., Central Islip AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Children learn about the importance of eating a rainbow and how to use vegetables from the garden. WANT TO GO? 631-234-9333. centralisliplibrary.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 8, 6-8pm WHERE: The Shoppes at East Wind, 5768 New York 25A, Wading River AGES: All WHAT: Craig brings his brand of everyone’s favorite hits for singalongs and dance music from the ’60s to today. WANT TO GO? 631-929-3500. eastwindlongisland.com/shoppes/welcome.

Organic Melon Festival

Family Music Extravaganza FREE

Harbes Peach Festival FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 9, 1-1:45pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Evan Gottfried’s original music will have your entire family dancing and singing along. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

WHEN: Aug. 18-19, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-7pm WHERE: Harbes Family Farm, 715 Sound Ave., Mattituck AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the arrival of Harbes own fresh peaches and enjoy a funfilled Peach Eating Contest twice daily. WANT TO GO? 631-298-0800. harbesfamilyfarm.com.

Hands-On Instruments FREE

Tomato Tasting Weekends!

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 13, 7-7:45pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Young children can make music with friends using drums, bells, and other instruments. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Music Under the Stars: That 70s Band FREE

WHEN: Aug. 4-12, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Judge the taste of a rainbow of organic melon varieties, see melons growing, and enjoy melon-eating contests, farm tours, and more. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.

WHEN: Aug. 18-26, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Taste 20 varieties of heirloom and traditional tomatoes and enjoy hayrides and rotten tomato throwing. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.

Tots Cooking Classes

WHEN: Tuesday, Aug. 14, 6-8:30pm WHERE: Middle Country Public Library, 101 Eastwood Blvd., Centereach AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy ’70s dance music from your favorite acts including Earth Wind & Fire, Kool & the Gang, and Donna Summer. WANT TO GO? 631-585-9393. mcplibrary.org.

WHEN: Through Aug. 31: Thursdays, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Tour the farm to gather the ingredients needed for a recipe. Register online. WANT TO GO? $20 per class; $10 for additional children. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.

Live at the Shoppes: Brady Rymer FREE

Summer Lunch FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 15, 6-8pm WHERE: The Shoppes at East Wind, 5768 New York 25A, Wading River AGES: All WHAT: Brady Rymer, along with with Claudia Mussen on accordion and vocals, will perform his most popular children’s songs. WANT TO GO? 631-929-3500. eastwindlongisland.com/shoppes/welcome.

WHEN: Through Aug. 31: 12-1pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Island Harvest Food Bank’s Summer Food Service Program helps children get nutritious meals when school’s out. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org. ›› LongIslandParent 27

SMARTY PANTS Bubblemania

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 4, 11am-1pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Did you know humpback whales use bubbles to hunt? Experiment with bubble blowing, and create bubble art! WANT TO GO? $12; $5 for adults. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Hunting the Whale: The Rise and Fall of a Southampton Industry

MOVERS & SHAKERS Town of Smithtown Youth & Community Alliance Cultivating Community Leaders FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 15, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Smithtown Library: Main Branch, 1 N. Country Road, Smithtown AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Learn how to control the manifestations of fear and anxiety and develop effective communication skills. Register by email: ssanders@tosgov.com. WANT TO GO? 631-360-2480. smithlib.org.

Pizza & Putt-Putt Night

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 15, 5:30-7pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Kids will enjoy pizza and then hit the links for a round (or two) on a science-themed mini-golf course. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.

Karoke Night FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 17, 6-8:30pm WHERE: Connetquot Public Library, 760 Ocean Ave., Bohemia AGES: All WHAT: A list of songs, ranging from Disney to popular titles, will be available. WANT TO GO? 631-567-5079. connetquotlibrary.org.

Yoga in the Park Provided by Om Shanti Yoga and Reiki Center FREE

WHEN: Aug. 5-26, Sundays, 8:30-9:30am. No class Aug. 12 WHERE: The Common Ground, Rotary Park, between Gillette and Candee avenues, Sayville AGES: All WHAT: No experience necessary. Bring a towel and yoga mat. Rain cancels class. WANT TO GO? 631-664-4230. thecommonground.com.

Warrior Courses Wednesdays

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Wednesdays, 6-8pm WHERE: Sky Zone Mount Sinai, 269 Route 25A, Mount Sinai AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Run the course as many times as you like, and try to get your name on the Leader Board. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-938-1420. skyzone.com/mountsinai. 28

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WHEN: Through Aug. 4: Wednesday-Saturday, 11am-4pm WHERE: Southampton Historical Museum: Rogers Mansion, 17 Meeting House Lane, Southampton AGES: All WHAT: Whaling tools, maps, illustrations, archival images, and text will be displayed with an eye toward making the exhibit accessible to audiences of varied interests. WANT TO GO? $4; free for children younger than 18. 631-283-2494. southamptonhistory.org.

My Partner and Me

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 5, 2-3:30pm WHERE: ThinkBIG! Theater Arts, 42 S. Ocean Ave., Patchogue AGES: 5-12, adult WHAT: Connect with the artwork, new friends, and creative activities during these weekend workshops for artists. WANT TO GO? $35. 631-307-4042. thinkbigtheaterarts.org.

Water Xylophone

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 9, 4pm WHERE: Westhampoton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Create and test your own instrument. Registration required. WANT TO GO? Free with Westhampton Free Library Card. 631-2883335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Teen Trivia Night FREE

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 10, 6:30-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Put your knowledge of pop culture and trivia to the test! Snacks will be served. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Historic Weaving FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 11, 10am-1pm WHERE: Westhampton Beach Historical Society, 101 Mill Road, Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: A weaver demonstrates a rigid heddle loom used for making fabric, inkle loom for strapping, and a lap loom for small projects. WANT TO GO? 631-288-1139. whbhistorical.org.

Children’s Creative STEAM Workshops

WHEN: Through Aug. 14: Monday-Tuesday, 10am-1pm; preschoolers, 10am-12pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 3-8 WHAT: In these fun, creative STEAM programs, students explore land, sea, and sky and discover the wonders in our world. Call to register. WANT TO GO? $25; $20 preschool. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Candle Dipping FREE

Children’s Back-To-School Programs: Victorian Tea Party

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 18, 10am-1pm WHERE: Westhampton Beach Historical Society, 101 Mill Road, Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Watch the process of making candles, an indispensable form of lighting. WANT TO GO? 631-288-1139. whbhistorical.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 29, 2:30pm WHERE: Walt Whitman Birthplace State Historic Site, 246 Old Walt Whitman Road, Huntington AGES: 5-17 WHAT: This fun and informative program teaches social skills, self-esteem, and confidence. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-427-5240. waltwhitman.org.

Kids’ Night Out/Parents’ Night Off

Astronomy in the Sun: One-Day Summer Workshops for Grades 3-12

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 18, 6-9pm WHERE: ThinkBIG! Theater Arts, 42 S. Ocean Ave., Patchogue AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy a night off while your kids enjoy themselves at ThinkBig. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $25; $20 for each additional child. 631-307-4042. thinkbigtheaterarts.org.

Jr. Marine Biologist

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 19, 10am-12pm WHERE: Sport Fishing Education Center and Aquaculture Facility, Ocean Parkway, Babylon AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children learn about the marine environment. WANT TO GO? $25 per child (includes 1 adult). 631-587-2873. ccesuffolk.org.

Jr. Marine Biologist for Preschoolers

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 19, 10am-12pm WHERE: Sport Fishing Education Center and Aquaculture Facility, Ocean Parkway, Cedar Beach Marina, Babylon AGES: 3-5, adult WHAT: Join for a fun-filled 2 hours as you and your child learn about the marine environment. This program includes hands-on time with live marine animals, beach activities, and a craft. WANT TO GO? $25 for one child-adult pair; $5 each additional adult. 631-587-2873. ccesuffolk.org.

Lighthouse Weekend

WHEN: Aug. 18-19, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Montauk Lighthouse, 2000 Montauk Highway, Montauk AGES: All WHAT: This fun-filled weekend entails a Pirate Show, march with the 3rd Regiment of 1776, and colonial games. WANT TO GO? $12; $5 for children younger than 13. 631-668-2544. MontaukLighthouse.org.

WHEN: Through Aug. 30: Tuesdays and Thursdays, 10am-1pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 9-17 WHAT: The intriguing, creative one-day workshops will be taught by Roger Ledgister, a Vanderbilt astronomy educator. Third-seventh grades: Tuesdays; eighth to 12th grades: Thursdays. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Family Day Programs: Learn a Whaler’s Skill FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 31: Fridays, 3pm WHERE: Southampton Historical Museum, 17 Meeting House Lane, Southampton AGES: All WHAT: Families learn how to tie sailing knots, create faux scrimshaw art, write with quill and ink pens, and more. WANT TO GO? 631-283-2494. southamptonhistory.org.

Bridge Building

WHEN: Aug. 29-Sept. 2, Wednesday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Long Island Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Using a variety of materials, design and build a structure that spans a “river” and supports as much weight as possible! WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. longislandexplorium.org.

Huntington Arts Council Presents Wearable Art FREE

WHEN: Aug. 24-Sept. 15, check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: Main Street Gallery, 213 Main St., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Wearable Art explores the intersection of fashion and fine art through design, costume, and culture. WANT TO GO? 631-271-8423. huntingtonarts.org. ››

Moon Sand Sensory Experience

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 23, 11am WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Play with pieces of the moon through this sensory program. Registration required. WANT TO GO? Free with Westhampton Free Library Card. 631-2883335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Leather Working FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 25, 10am-1pm WHERE: Westhampton Beach Historical Society, 101 Mill Road, Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: See a leather worker hand stitching and waxing various items— including a canteen, belts, straps, military cartridge boxes, and hunting bags—using 18th-century tools. WANT TO GO? 631-288-1139. whbhistorical.org. LongIslandParent 29

AGES: All WHAT: Join the Montauk Historical Society and Quogue Wildlife Refuge for Meet the Reptiles. The show is included in the price of admission. WANT TO GO? $12; $5 for children younger than 13. 631-668-2544. MontaukLighthouse.org.

Farm Animals FREE

BROWSE & BUY Hallockville Country Fair and Craft Show

WHEN: Aug. 25-26, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Hallockville Farm, 6038 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the rich folk arts and agricultural traditions of the community in a true old-fashioned country fair atmosphere. WANT TO GO? $8; $5 children ages 5-12, free for children younger than 5. 631-298-5292. hallockville.com.

Treasures and Collectables Fair FREE

WHEN: Through Sept. 15: Saturdays, 9am-4pm WHERE: Southampton Historical Museum, 17 Meeting House Lane, Southampton AGES: All WHAT: Vintage furniture, jewelry, textiles, glass, ceramics, artwork, collectibles, and more will be sold inside the Red Barn and on the grounds. WANT TO GO? 631-283-2494. southamptonhistory.org.

HeartBeet Farm Stand FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 13: Saturdays, 10am-12pm WHERE: Stony Brook Village Center, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: HeartBeet Farms produces fresh, organically grown fruits and vegetables. WANT TO GO? 631-751-2244. stonybrookvillage.com.

Farmer’s Market FREE

WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Saturdays, 10am–3pm WHERE: Tanger Outlets: The Arches, 152 The Arches Circle, Deer Park AGES: All WHAT: The market will feature Long Island’s local farms, wineries, and bakers offering local fruits, vegetables, wines, and more. WANT TO GO? tangeroutlet.com.

ANIMAL LOVERS Paw Patrol

WHEN: Aug. 1-5, Wednesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: White Post Farms, 250 Old Country Road, Melville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Visit with and take pictures with Chase and Skye from Paw Patrol. Also enjoy the water slides and parrot show. WANT TO GO? $18.95. 631-351-9373. whitepostfarms.com.

Reptile Show

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 8, 12pm and 1:30pm WHERE: Montauk Lighthouse, 2000 Montauk Highway, Montauk 30

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WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 18, 10am-1pm WHERE: Westhampton Beach Historical Society, 101 Mill Road, Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: See farm animals and the role they played in agriculture. WANT TO GO? 631-288-1139. whbhistorical.org.

KidFEST: Olate Dogs

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 22, 5pm WHERE: Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 5 and older WHAT: TAhigh-energy, fast-paced act filled with amazing pet tricks. WANT TO GO? $18; $14 children. 631-324-4050. guildhall.org.

By the Pond FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 30, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children enjoy fun stories about their favorite pond animals. Bring a blanket. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

David Rosaire and the One and Only Pekingese Dog Act

WHEN: Through Sept. 3: daily, 12pm and 3pm WHERE: Long Island Game Farm, 489 Chapman Blvd., Manorville AGES: All WHAT: David Rosaire and his pack of talented dogs are back. WANT TO GO? $16.95; $14.95 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 631-878-6644. longislandgamefarm.com.

DANCE PARTY Drop-Off Dance Party

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 3, 5:30-8pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Kids are invited for dinner and dancing under the disco ball. WANT TO GO? $55 per child; $35 for each additional sibling. 631-5378250. cmee.org.

Annual Hallockville Barn Dance Fundraiser

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 4, 6:30-9pm WHERE: Hallockville Farm, 6038 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live traditional music and learn the dance steps. WANT TO GO? $25; $5 children younger than 13. 631-298-5292. hallockville.com.

Just Dance Party

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 17, 6pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Join other teens to play “Just Dance.” Registration required. WANT TO GO? Free with Westhampton Free Library Card. 631-2883335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

New York City Ballet On and Offstage

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 24, 8pm WHERE: Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Principal Dancer Jared Angle hosts an informal evening centered around the work of one of NYCB’s Founding Choreographers Jerome Robbins. WANT TO GO? $45 and up. 631-324-4050. guildhall.org.

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Drop-Off Dance Party

WHEN: Friday, Aug. 31, 5:30–8pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 3-12 WHAT: While parents enjoy a night to themselves, kids are invited for dinner and dancing under the disco ball. WANT TO GO? $55 per child; $35 for each additional sibling. 631537-8250. cmee.org.

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KINDNESS CRUSADERS Long Island Cares Mobile Food Pantry FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 2, 11am-1pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Long Island Cares will have a Mobile Food Pantry van on-site for three-day food supply distribution. There is no identification required to pick up your supply of food. No registration needed. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Annual Fundraising Yard Sale FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Aug. 4, 9am-3pm WHERE: Hugs Inc., 108C Mill Road, Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Items being sold include sporting goods, household decor and items, books, and furniture. WANT TO GO? 631-288-9505.

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Young Musicians Unite...For Gun Sanity

WHEN: Thursday, Aug. 9, 8pm WHERE: Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Young Musicians United is a local initiative featuring young, local bands to help continue the awareness of gun safety in America. WANT TO GO? $15-$40. 631-324-4050. guildhall.org.

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Free Summer Lunch for Kids FREE

WHEN: Aug. 1-17, Monday-Friday, 11am–1pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Free, nutritious meals for kids in the summer. Children younger than 11 must be accompanied by an adult. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

The 23rd Annual Ellen’s Run

WHEN: Sunday, Aug. 19, 12pm WHERE: Stony Brook Southampton Hospital, 265 Herrick Road, Southampton AGES: All WHAT: Nearly all the funds granted support programs on The East End of Long Island. WANT TO GO? $45. ellenhermanson.org. ››

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WHEN: Through Aug. 1: Saturdays, 10-11:30am WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Tour the farm each week to see what’s growing, taste the fruits of the field, and learn about how it grows. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 additional siblings; $30 per family. 631722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.

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Be Social

WHEN: Monday, Aug. 13, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a picnic outside on the library lawn for sun and family fun! There will be snacks and plenty of activities to explore. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

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Pizza Night @ Amber Waves Farm

WHEN: Wednesday, Aug. 22, 5:30-7pm WHERE: Amber Waves Farm, 375 Main St., Amagansett AGES: All WHAT: Families can pick pizza toppings to be cooked in a custom, wood-fired copper oven and enjoy a tour of the farm, crafts, games, and cutting fresh flowers. WANT TO GO? $50. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.

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Jr. Marine Biologist

WHEN: Aug. 19-24, Sunday and Friday, 10am-12pm and 1-3pm WHERE: Centerport Beach, Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Young children learn about the marine environment as they interact with native sea creatures. WANT TO GO? $30 per child (includes one adult). 631-727-7850. ccesuffolk.org.

Gone Fishing

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WHAT: Make your own fishing pole with a magnet to lure and attract your own fish. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. longislandexplorium.org.

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Sandcastle Contest

WHEN: Through Aug. 30: Thursdays, 9:30-10:30am WHERE: Hither Hills State Park, 164 Old Montauk Highway, Montauk AGES: All WHAT: Sand, water, and natural materials native to the beach can be used to create sculptures. Prizes are provided by the Natural Heritage Trust. WANT TO GO? $10 vehicle use fee. 631-668-2554. nysparks.com.

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WHEN: Through Aug. 31: Wednesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: White Post Farms, 250 Old Country Road, Melville AGES: All WHAT: There will be water bouncers, a magic show, giraffe station, monkey barn, bird aviary, and friendly animals. WANT TO GO? $18.95. 631-351-9373. whitepostfarms.com.

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The Different Ways to Talk to a Baby There’s more than one method to building up your little one’s speech skills.

alking to your baby can be fun, but it’s not all fun and games. Everything you say to an infant (and even a toddler) influences the way and the speed at which he learns to speak. Narrating what you do every day, singing, reading, speaking in “baby talk,” asking questions, facilitating conversations, and virtually any noises you make when you are around your infant affects her speech development as well as other skills. In all, babies and toddlers need to hear more than 20,000 words a day, according to Krysti Maloney, M.S., CCC-SLP, speech-language pathologist and supervisor at The Suffolk Center for Speech. Clearly you need to talk a lot to your little one. But how should you speak, exactly? Whether you use nonsense words like “ittle-widdle,” sing-song speech, or address her like she is a full-grown adult, each of these approaches has a different impact on your child’s speech development. Certain methods such as baby-babble may come more naturally, while tactics like narrating what you’re doing may feel forced or uncomfortable at first. However you talk to your baby, it is important to recognize the benefits and disadvantages of each method—and know when and how to use each. 34

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By Melissa Wickes

Don’t Be Afraid of ‘Parentese’

Many experts have weighed in on the topic of baby talk, saying the best way to teach adult language to a baby is to speak to him as though he is a grown-up. However, ‘parentese’ (also known as infant-directed speech or ‘motherese’), a sing-song voice that puts emphasis on certain sounds, may be the best way to help a baby learn how to speak, according to a new Rutgers UniversityNewark study on infant-directed speech. Parentese refers to the fluctuating speech patterns people use when speaking to babies, according to Corie Viscomi, M.A., CCC-SLP, director and speech-language pathologist at The Speech Studio in Chappaqua. While it may be second nature to speak to your baby in this cutesy, fun manner, you are actually facilitating speech development in doing so. This speech pattern makes it easier for babies to determine which words are the most important to the meaning of what you are saying because you are placing emphasis on the key words in the sentence. “Changing the emphasis, speed, and pitch is a very good thing for infants because it helps kids differentiate between your words and background noise,” Viscomi says. “Motherese tells babies

what words to pay attention to and breaks down speech a little more, and infants need that.” This form of speech will generally fade out gradually in accordance with the baby’s speech development, according to Viscomi, so there’s no need to determine a set time to stop speaking this way. While changing intonation and melody when speaking, using elongated vowels and consonants, and changing pitches, it is important to remember to speak with precise pronunciation and accurate grammar, according to Maloney. Part of speaking in parentese, according to Viscomi, is using a lot of repetition. Lisa Orban, mother of five and author of It’ll Feel Better when it Quits Hurting, found that using repetitive phrases such as ‘Who’s a good baby?’ or ‘Where’s the baby?’ were helpful in teaching her children to talk, but not accompanied by any sort of baby-talk. “I used conversational English with them throughout their infancy going forward and never ‘dumbed down’ my speaking around them,” Orban says. By the time her children entered preschool, Orban says they each had a far wider vocabulary than their peers and had an easier time determining words through context. “They also had a more nuanced understanding of humor and sarcasm, much higher than their age level,” she says. Still, Megan Carolan, mother and director of policy research at the Institute for Child Success in Jersey City, NJ, emphasizes the fact that using baby talk is okay. “Babies babble as they start finding their own abilities and they eventually try to imitate sounds,” Carolan says. “Cooing back and forth with them, especially when they are very little and just starting these noises, is a great contribution to their language development. It’s good to incorporate real words that they might hear more often (bottle, milk, crib, toy) alongside the cute versions like ‘baba.’ It doesn’t need to be one or the other.”

Avoid the Temptation of Telegraphic Speech

Telegraphic speech refers to the way children begin to speak—in shortened phrases, using only nouns and verbs, and omitting the “small words” such as adjectives and articles that make the sentence grammatically correct, according to Viscomi. Examples of telegraphic speech include “more cookie,” “mommy help,” and “doggie run.” “Parents can be tempted to speak the same way to toddlers, assuming that it is easier for them to learn language this way,” Viscomi says. “This is not the case! Young children learn language by hearing language, so it is important to model grammatically correct sentences but in a simple way.” Parents who use telegraphic speech more frequently tend to have children who know fewer words and take longer to learn to speak, according to a 2015 study published in the Journal of Speech, Language, and Hearing. The study observed 55 parentchild pairs in which the children were on average 3 and 4 years old. While speaking this way to your young child may feel natural, it is not recommended, especially to children with delayed language development and autism spectrum disorder.

“Telegraphic speech won’t help the child learn grammar,” Viscomi says. “Kids can’t use proper grammar unless they’re hearing it. If you use the full grammatical structure of a sentence, young kids will be provided with a better language model.”

Facilitate Conversation, Don’t Interrogate

The more words a child hears a day, the better. But this doesn’t mean putting her in front of the TV or downloading apps on his iPad. Make conversation with your child, no matter her age or stage of development. It is important to keep interactions with a child at any age as lengthy as possible, but 1- to 2-year-olds often feel interrogated when we quiz them with a bunch of questions, according to Viscomi. One way to keep the conversation going without putting pressure on your young child is to make statements instead of asking questions. For example, try saying, “Oh, this cow looks hungry, I think it’s going to eat something” as opposed to “What animal is this? What does a cow eat? What does the cow say?” (This tactic is helpful with older kids and teens as well.) “With children who are beginning to exhibit babbling, I often suggest imitating the sounds you hear them make,” Maloney says. “A ‘conversation’ made up of pure baby-babble can be a helpful learning moment—your little one will start to learn the give-andtake of conversation and be more likely to imitate things he hears you say.” Talking about what you’re doing while you’re doing it may feel silly or seem uncomfortable, but it is actually the best and easiest way to incorporate language learning into the everyday lives of kids, according to Viscomi. This kind of learning provides kids with tangible models for new concepts and vocabulary they may not have been exposed to otherwise. “Babies take in so much well before they are able to respond,” Carolan says. “If you have your child in the stroller and you’re in the grocery store, talk about walking down the aisle, picking up pasta for dinner, etc.” Facilitating open-ended conversations even before children can respond fosters language engagement, according to Carolan. It is important to be conscious of the fact that a lot of conversations young children have with adults consist of instruction: “Don’t touch that,” “No,” “Put on your coat.” Instead of leading primarily with instruction, Carolan suggests creating scenarios in which children can choose between options, such as deciding which color sweatshirt they want to wear. This not only fosters a richer vocabulary and language skills, but also self-regulation skills, she says. Reading to, singing to, talking to, and having face-to-face interaction with your child is teaching him way more than you think. Reading is such a huge ‘life hack’ for fostering language development and literacy skills,” Carolan says. “I find that when I try to make up a story off the top of my head, I freeze up. However, keeping a book in the diaper bag is so helpful. Even if we don’t read it word for word, we talk about the pictures and what’s going on.” While the words we choose and the way we use them matter, “the most important thing to remember is to talk to your child,” Maloney says.

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The SAT and ACT for college-bound teens are more alike than different—but one may still be a better fit for your child. By Deborah Skolnik

f you have a teenager, she’s probably planning to take a standardized test for college admissions. And you almost certainly know there are two to choose between: the SAT and its slightly newer rival, the ACT. Both tests are operated by nonprofit organizations, follow a roughly similar format, and serve the same purpose: “It’s to try to estimate your potential college readiness,” says Tony DiGiacomo, Ph.D., of Novella Prep, an academic advising, college planning, standardized test prep, and tutoring company in Westchester and Fairfield counties. That being the case, could a child possibly score higher on one or the other? Is it a question even worth asking? The answer, say the people who know best, is yes. Though both tests assess scholastic skills, there are subtle differences between the two. We asked experts to share their thoughts and observations on the SAT and ACT and their design; use their insights to your child’s advantage.

SAT Savvy

The SAT is the older of the two tests, first administered to high school students in 1926. (Its letters, which originally stood for Scholastic Aptitude Test, now merely connote the brand.) But just because the SAT has a more extensive history, is it the better test for your kid? The answer: It depends. Your child may do better on the SAT if he… …attends a public school. Public schools follow the Common Core, a set of standards for teaching and testing math and English. And as it happens, “the person who revamped the SAT [most recently] was one of the key architects behind the Common Core curriculum,” says Greg Kaplan, a college counselor, author of Earning Admission and creator of CollegePath, a free and premium app that guides college-bound students with advice tailored to their interests and school goals. It should be no surprise, then, that the SAT more closely covers what public-school kids may learn in class. 36

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…does well with evidence-based questions. “One of the differences is the SAT allegedly gives you a little more information to use to answer some of their verbal questions,” Dr. DiGiacomo says. “Let’s say there’s a passage and a question—the ACT will tend to just ask the question, such as ‘the main character was courageous because…’ But the SAT will give you a line to look it up. They are pushing evidence-based textual understanding, the idea of being able to look it up and find it.” …has a rich vocabulary. The often-perplexing analogy questions you may remember from your own days taking the SAT are a thing of the past. The reason? “This privileged understanding of vocabulary words wasn’t a way to understand a student’s skill level,” Dr. DiGiacomo says. The SAT creators “have worked very hard to de-emphasize this. If you grow up in a lower-income household, you may not hear the same vocabulary in the home. Even if you go to the same school as a wealthier student, your overall exposure to vocabulary may be limited. But your ability to interpret and defend an argument are learned in school.” That said, the SAT “does a bit more vocabulary [than the ACT] still,” Dr. DiGiacomo notes. …is a big reader and can easily stay focused. “The reading comprehension portion on the SAT is much trickier,” Kaplan shares, so a kid who has a superior ability to pay attention to written material may distinguish himself on the SAT: “They take very boring, dense passages and use them as a pressure point to see who can get through it.” …hasn’t yet taken Algebra 2 or trigonometry. Both the SAT and the ACT cover this material, Kaplan says, “but the SAT is a more even playing field. The questions are more complex, and they require more creative thinking than the ACT questions. If I have a student who is a year behind in math I tend to recommend the SAT. It’s easier to improvise.”

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The ACT (its initials originally stood for American College Testing but now, like the SAT, just signify the brand) is the newer standardized test, first offered in 1959. Your child may do better on the ACT if she… …tends to work quickly. If she prides herself on her ability to get through material speedily, and prefers doing so to poring over questions at length, the ACT may suit her. “The SAT offers thirty-three percent more time per question than the ACT,” Kaplan says. But there’s a catch, he adds: “The flip slide of that coin is that the SAT questions are more complex and may require more thought and analysis.” …excels in science. The ACT has a discrete section called science. But, Dr. DiGiacomo adds, “the SAT is offering a science subscore now.” While the score isn’t based on a science section per se, it’s based on similar questions to the ACT science section—“math questions using vocabulary that implies an understanding of sciences, such as orbits and velocity. But they are really at the end of the day math questions,” he explains. …is math-minded “The ACT does cover a little more content than the SAT in mathematics,” Dr. DiGiacomo says—he tracks these subtle variations by creating a matrix of topical differences between the tests. If your child has studied math broadly and extensively, he may be better prepared for the multitude of math topics on the ACT. …likes the security of having a calculator by her side. “The SAT [math] has two parts—calculator and no calculator,” Dr. DiGiacomo says. By contrast, “the ACT lets you use the calculator for the entire test,” he notes. But don’t automatically assume this will always be the case: “Any given year, the College Board [which makes the SAT] and the ACT can change their policy,” he cautions.

…is a stickler for grammar. “The ACT is a little more focused on grammar, punctuation, and syntax,” Dr. DiGiacomo says. “The SAT might focus more on a student’s writing style and use of evidence.”

The Power of Personal Preference While the insights listed here can be helpful, nothing will inform your child better than first-hand experience. “I recommend for all students to take a real, released practice exam for both the ACT and the SAT. That way you’re

comparing apples to apples,” Kaplan says. Use a convergence chart—there are many on the web—to determine on which test your child scored higher. “Eighty percent of students have a clear-cut preference,” Kaplan adds. “That difference is worth up to one hundred points right out of the gate.” And rest assured that colleges are fine with that: “There is not one college in the U.S. that prefers one [test] over the other,” Kaplan says. No matter which test your child decides to take, Kaplan

recommends he start reading The Economist or The New Yorker. “They actually pull passages from those magazines in the reading tests,” he says. “Get familiar with the complexity of the language and the structure. Sometimes students like to prepare in a way that doesn’t involve a workbook. When you actually are studying but you don’t feel like it, I think that’s a win.” By making an informed choice, and properly preparing, your child can get a score that truly adds up to success.

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If your teen puts in the work, she can graduate college with minimal debt. By Barbara Russo

ollege is expensive. Even with financial aid, many students still have to take out loans to help with tuition, books, and other costs that go along with achieving a higher education. This often leaves them in debt long after they’ve graduated. Fortunately, there are many scholarship opportunities out there. The U.S. Department of Education and universities give out billions of dollars in scholarship and grant money each year, according to Debt.org. Other organizations, including private corporations and nonprofit groups, offer scholarships too. This is all money that is given to qualifying students as gifts and does not need to be paid back. The term “qualifying” can mean many different things, depending on the scholarship’s criteria. A student doesn’t necessarily have to excel at sports or academics; scholarship opportunities are available to students from a variety of backgrounds and who have a wide range of hobbies or interests. There’s an abundance of information online about these opportunities, but it can be overwhelming. The good news is, we’ve spoken to some experts and compiled a list of 10 online resources that offer different kinds of scholarships and scholarship information. Keep in mind there are many more scholarship information sites out there. No matter your child’s age, it’s worth it to start looking early so you don’t miss any deadlines—and have time to gather as much information as possible. One important tip to keep in mind before you even launch your favorite Internet browser: Write down your child’s family background and academic statistics and achievements. Almost all of these sites will require this information for setting up profiles or applying for scholarships. “You go to these scholarship search engines, and they’ll want you to enter this specific information. They ask really specific questions about your family heritage and stuff, and that’s what they’re using in their algorithms,” says Kim Stezala, The Scholarship Lady® and author 38

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of Scholarships 101: The Real-World Guide to Getting Cash for College. “If you just hop on the Internet and don’t have that information, it’s going to take you more time.” Now, on to our list:

Scholarships.com

One of the most popular and established scholarship search sites, it boasts more than 16 million registered users. Its free, quick profile format allows you to enter your child’s basic information to get instant match results to potential scholarship opportunities.

Fastweb.com

Owned by Monster.com, the site offers access to more than 1.5 million scholarships. It’s a free student-to-scholarship matching service that uses a quick profile format and also offers an array of college prep tools. Bonus: The site’s new Deals and Promos feature lists discounts available to students from major retailers, including Dell, J. Crew, and Ford.

Scholly

This is both a website (myscholly.com) and mobile app. Like the sites listed above, it uses the scholarship-matching platform to generate a list of scholarships suited for the individual user. The site was founded by Christopher Gray, who grew up in poverty in Birmingham, AL, and was able to win $1.3 million in scholarship money. His experience gave him the idea for Scholly, which has helped hundreds of thousands of students and families find more than $70 million in scholarship awards for college.

JLVCollegeCounseling.com

Founded by Jessica Velasco, a former college-admissions professional, the site provides free information about scholarships, college prep, admission, and financial aid. The scholarships are organized in lists with

deadlines for each month. There are also scholarships based on grade level, major, residence, hobbies, and religion. With 10 years of experience in higher education, Velasco knows how much work it takes to apply for scholarships and recommends students take the time to perfect each application. “Quality is always better than quantity,” she says. “Many times students get so caught up in sending out as many scholarship applications as possible and forget to make sure their applications are of the highest quality. In addition to proofreading applications...students must make sure their applications are unique.”

Cappex.com

Using the popular student-scholarship match system, the free site lists thousands of private scholarships. It also provides more than $30,000 in its own unique scholarships.

Niche.com

Applicants can search by category or get matched to scholarships by creating a quick profile. The site also offers information on college rankings plus an admissions calculator.

University Websites

In many cases, a college admissions office is given a budget it can use to give varying amounts of scholarships to incoming students based on merit factors such as high test scores, good grades, or talents. Money that comes this way is renewed all four years of schooling, but each school’s application process is different. “We want students to go on the school’s websites and in the top search window type ‘scholarships,’ and it will tell you, ‘here’s how we handle scholarships, here’s how we get them out,’” says Elizabeth Hartley, owner of Scholarship Gold Consulting. “A school’s website is one of their most powerful tools for scholarships.” Some universities, particularly prestigious ones, have endowments that can provide financial aid to students, Hartley adds. “Even if a family makes too much money to get aid to go to a local state school, they may be able to get money from a more elite school,” she says.

Googling for Dollars

Stezala recommends coming up with list of traits about your teen and family background—things that go beyond academics and can help uncover hidden dollars—and use these terms in your searches. “Is either parent or a grandparent part of the military or a veteran? And is anyone in your family a member of any kind of professional organization or civic group?” Stezala poses. “I find sometimes that students make the mistake of only doing Internet searches about themselves, so the keywords that they’re using aren’t going to peel back the layers of some of these smaller local scholarships that can really add up.”

Local Community Foundation Websites

Some of these manage what are called donor-advised funds, Stezala says. Donors who may not want to set up their own scholarship program will give their money to a community foundation, and it’s the foundation’s responsibility to collect applications and do the judging. “They are a great resource...even if they don’t give out scholarships, their websites might have links to local scholarships,” Stezala says.

The Net Price Calculator

The net price refers to the amount a student pays after receiving scholarships and other financial aid that do not need to be paid back. Hartley recommends using net price calculators to find out what your estimated price tag for college will be. Searching online for scholarship money will take some time and patience, but it’s hard work that will ultimately pay off, both in savings and for your child’s education. Barbara Russo is a freelance writer who holds a bachelor’s degree in communications from the City University of New York. She enjoys playing guitar, following current events, and hanging out with her pet rabbits.

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Jeanmarie Wilson, school counselor, Your Journey To College consultant, and author; and Karen Schmalz 631-834-9503 yourjourneytocollege.com pafrentingfromyoursoul.com yourjourneytocollege.blogspot.com/p/testimonials.html;

LICE FAIRY LICEMOTHERS

2463 S. Long Beach Road, Oceanside 866-561-0492

1755 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 866-561-0492 679 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Head 866-561-0492 fairylicemothers.com fairylicemothers@gmail.com Our treatment centers are kid-friendly and our products are 100-percent non-toxic. Treatments include two free re-checks. Whether or not you use our service, we are here to help you.

LICE TAMERS INC.

900 Walt Whitman Road, Suite LL2, Melville 877-237-LICE (5423) licetamers.com; licetamers@gmail.com Lice Tamers offers same-day lice treatment and head checks at our comfortable, child-friendly treatment center or in the comfort of your home. All of our products are safe and non-toxic.

SPECIAL NEEDS ALTERNATIVES FOR CHILDREN

1116 Main Road, Aquebogue 631-722-2170 600 S. Service Road, Dix Hills 631-271-0777 14 Research Way, East Setauket 631-331-6400 168 Hill St., Southampton 631-283-3272 alternatives4children.org Licensed day care, EI/Preschool Special Education evaluations provider for eligible children. Early childhood professionals create a natural learning environment, promoting a child’s cognitive, social, and emotional development.

ANDREW COHEN, ESQ., LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW M. COHEN

1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen can help you achieve your objectives through careful special needs legal planning, regardless of the size of your estate. All clients are provided with high quality service at a reasonable cost.

DR. STEVE IMBER, PSYCHOEDUCATIONAL CONSULTANTS

Serving Nassau and Suffolk counties, as well as the five boroughs of NYC 61-43 186th St., Fresh Meadows 516-273-1961 Sprout Building 166 Valley St., Providence, RI 401-421-4004 dr-imber.com; scimber1@aol.com Dr. Imber has more than 40 years of experience consulting, evaluating, and advocating

for children, adolescents, and adults with various disabilities including autism (e.g. Asperger’s syndrome), attention deficit disorders, intellectual disabilities, emotional and behavioral disorders, and learning disabilities.

mediate goal is for early learning, remedial education, or academic advancement, Eye Level is the answer.

LIFE’S WORC THE FAMILY CENTER FOR AUTISM

St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick Tutoring Center is here to assist your learner in kindergarten to 12th grades with Catholic Entrance Exam Prep, SAT, Regents, or daily schoolwork.

1501 Franklin Ave., Garden City 516-741-9000 familycenterforautism.org mreno@lifesworc.org The Family Center for Autism provides services and support for people with autism and their families. Programs include insurance services, birthday parties, art, music, sports and culinary classes, camps, parent and sibling programs, social events, vocational programs, and behavior intervention.

LITTLE OPTICS INC.

192-07 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows, Queens 53-15 Roosevelt Ave., Woodside, Queens 718-468-7500; hablamos Español littleopticsinc@yahoo.com We provide eyeglasses and professional eye care for children, including infants, and young adults. We also alleviate any self-esteem issues associated with the stigma of wearing glasses. When your child leaves Little Optics, rest assured they will feel confident.

LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 • Nassau: 516-2161791 • Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C.

TUTORS & TEST PREP

ST. PATRICK YOUTH COMMUNITY: ST. PATRICK TUTORING CENTER

ST. PATRICK YOUTH COMMUNITY: YOUTH ENRICHMENT LEARNING CENTER

St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick Youth Enrichment and Learning Center provides programs for your child ages 1½ years to sixth grade. A faith-based program offers a loving, caring environment.

SYLVAN LEARNING CENTER OF HUNTINGTON

1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 sylvanlearning.com sylvanlearning@optonline.net Sylvan of Huntington offers personalized

tutoring programs in reading, writing, mathematics, and SAT and ACT prep. Sylvan will help identify the right program for your child and exactly where your child needs to start to get the best results.

TAS NEW YORK: THEORY OF ARTS AND SCIENCES

153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 1-888-827-8188 tasnewyork.com Here education matters. The No. 1 learning center in New York. We offer after-school programs, private and group tutoring, kids and adult art classes, computer coding, SAT and ACT prep, Create and Meditate sessions, and summer camp!

VILLAGE EAST GIFTED: ENRICHMENT CENTER FOR THE GIFTED LEARNER

Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted provides after-school enrichment and private tutoring. Enriching every qualified, gifted child. We are also a John Hopkins CTY info and SAT testing center.

Long Island Speech & Myofunctional Therapy 718-640-6767 • 516-216-1791 www.LISpeechandMyo.com

Licensed Speech Pathologists & Myofunctional Therapists Specializing in the Treatment and Correction of: • Language Disorders • Memory & Auditory Processing Difficulties • Fluency • • Voice Disorders • Motor Planning Disorders • Deviate Swallowing • Tongue Thrust • • Feeding & Swalling Problems /Aversions • Thumb Sucking • Articulation Disorders • Oral Facial Muscle Weakness •

Specialized Therapy Approaches Including Including: PROMPT Therapy • Individual FEEDING Therapy Augmentative Communication Evaluations & Therapy

“FEES”...Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing Participating with most Major Health Insurance Companies

Jericho

500 North Broadway Suite 141

Lake Success 444 Lakeville Road Suite 202

Wantagh

3375 Park Avenue Suite 4010

EYE LEVEL SUFFOLK

myeyelevel.com Eye Level offers math and English programs for ages 3-14. Whether the im-

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Health Care Professional Cummings Family Dental 42 High St., Huntington 631-425-1650 cummingsfamilydentistry.com cummingsfamilydentistry@aol.com

Dr. Cummings believes that a dentist and patient become a team for treating an individual’s dental needs. She spends time listening to understand your concerns and responds with the best treatment options for you. She received her degree from Howard University College of Dentistry and her postdoctoral training from University Hospital Stony Brook. Dr. Cummings is trained and experienced in providing dental care for patients with special needs, as well as complete dental care for the entire family. There’s a story behind every smile—we’d like to be part of yours!

Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 • Nassau: 516-216-1791 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES—Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. Seven affiliated offices across Long Island participate with most health insurance and offer evening and Saturday hours.

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Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County Dr. Mike Ioannou 2171 Jericho Turnpike, Suite 145, Commack 631-486-6364 3237 Route 112, Building 6, Suite 7B, Medford 631-320-0880; supermolar.com

Dr. Michael Ioannou, a native of Suffolk County, received his dental degree at the University of Connecticut-School of Dental Medicine, with a residency in pediatric dentistry from Albert Einstein College of Medicine/Montefiore Medical Center. A friendly, patient dentist, Dr. Ioannou strives to make visiting the dentist a fun experience, while providing exceptional dental care. He uses excellent behavioral management approaches, a child-friendly environment (TV and cartoons in treatment rooms), and sings to the patients! Dr. Ioannou currently participates with most insurance companies and has evening and Saturday hours.

Pediatric Immediate Care 150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337) 698 Manhattan Ave., Brooklyn 718-389-PEDS (7337); pediatricimmediatecare.com

Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-ofthe-art medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kid-friendly; walk-ins welcome; most insurance plans accepted. Complete pediatric and adolescent care, as well as baby, camp, school, and sports physicals. Certified urgent care recommended by Urgent Care Association of America. Thirty years of dedication to our patients. The offices are open seven days a week including holidays, 8am-11pm.

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raising kids quotables

How did you feel when you were chosen as a f inalist in our cover contest? “I was very happy and excited to be able to come.” —Daniella, 14, Suffolk

“Excited. I’ve never done this before and I think it’s really exciting.” —Brielle, 12, Rockland

“I felt great! I mean, I was excited for this!” —Chazz, 12, Manhattan

“Excited!” —Sophia, 4, Rockland

“I don’t know.” —Aaliyah, 4, Rockland

[Ran away] —Jaden, 3, Manhattan

“I felt excited because this is something I wanted to do for a while. I like acting and modeling and this stuff. So I was super happy when I found out I won.”

“I hope that you look at today, tomorrow, and the rest of your life seeking out the nothing moments. I hope we can all realize that the nothing moments are what we are going to be holding onto during our last few years. We aren’t going to care about how much money we made or how many small wonders we photographed. But we will remember the sound of our children’s’ laughter and how good we made people feel. I wish for you a lifetime of nothing.”

—Dillon, 11, Westchester

“I felt happy.” —Samantha, 6, Nassau

“I was excited.” —Scarlett, 4, Queens Check out our upcoming September issue to find out who the Grand Prize winners are!

Thriving in College “Teens may think that heading off to college will be four years of partying. But what they might not realize is college can be one of the most stressful times of their lives. To ensure your teen is successful in college and beyond, spend the summer preparing him to effectively deal with stress, handle the anxiety that comes with it, and learn from it to reduce stress in the future.” —Licensed clinical psychologist Lata McGinn Ph.D., in an article entitled “How Can I Help Prepare My Teen for Stress in College?” Read the whole story at nymetroparents.com/college-stress

More NYMetroParents.com Highlights:

—Vera Sweeney, in a post entitled “The Nothing Moments” on ladyandtheblog.com

SUMMER FUN: See the top 100 summer activities in the NY metro region at nymetroparents.com/summer-100

“I start each day with the best intentions. I’m going to apply all those expert parenting tips I’ve read. I’m going to be present. Mindful. Patient. And…then the kids wake up.”

GIDDYUP: Where to go horseback riding in the NYC area (nymetroparents.com/horseback)

—Ilana Wiles, in a post entitled “A Day Inside Mom’s Brain,” on mommyshorts.com

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GIVE A LISTEN: Podcasts to help you navigate parenting’s ups and downs (nymetroparents.com/podcasts) PLAY IT SAFE: Learn how to keep your family out of the ER in the summer months (nymetroparents.com/ summersafety)

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