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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 9 The Road to Happy Motherhood 11 How to Help Your Teen Be Active & Healthy 19 Parochial Schools and Private Schools 32 ‘Sharental’ Advisory 36 Teen Milestones You Need to Know 40 Party Central 41 Open Houses 42 Professional Services 44 Meet the Doctor 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 Quotables
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October Chills & Spooky Thrills
Get in the Halloween spirit with some ghoulish fun and light-hearted haunts
‘Sharental’ Advisory
Which moments with your baby you should share, and which ones you shouldn’t
401K vs. IRA vs. Nothing
Let us help you determine which retirement savings vehicle is best for you 34 Babyproofing 2.0 38 401K vs. IRA vs. Nothing
20 Family Fun in Manhattan 21 Family Activities Calendar 31 October Chills & Spooky Thrills
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love every issue of Suffolk Parent we publish, but there’s something extra-sweet about the months when we cover kids’ birthday parties. After all, who doesn’t love a celebration? It’s a blast seeing your child so happy, and it’s also a terrific chance to put your parental pride on display. But when it comes to kids’ parties, is bigger always better? What do our children actually remember about their special day? We asked writer Lambeth Hochwald to investigate. The result: “What Kids Really Want at Their Birthday Parties” on p. 12, an unflinching look at the gotta-haves, nice-to-haves, and don’t-really-needs, through the eyes of those who know children the best. Read this insightful piece right now—it may significantly change the way you go about your party planning in the future. Speaking of public shows of parental pride, do you run to social media and share the news each time your baby does something cute or new? There’s a name for that— ‘sharenting’—and we’re almost all doing it. Dasha Kofman examines our motives, as well as this trend’s pros and cons, in her report “Sharental Advisory” (p. 32). It may make you think twice about safeguarding your little one’s privacy. Meanwhile over on p. 34, Anja Webb’s story, “Baby Proofing 2.0,” will have you thinking about how to safeguard your little one in general. It gives a terrific rundown of ways to keep active and curious toddlers safe at home; you’ll want to make sure you take every tip to heart. Then there’s a story near and dear to my own heart: “Teen Milestones You Need to Know,” on p. 36. As the mom of two teenage daughters, I know kids make some real quantum leaps in their adolescent years, especially when it comes to cognitive and emotional development. No, these milestones aren’t Insta-worthy—sorry, sharents!—but they’re important signs that your child’s growth is right on track. Read on and you’ll see why it’s actually a good (if annoying) thing that your teen is embarrassed by you or disagrees with your politics. While you’re focused on your child’s well-being (and what decent parent isn’t?) it’s easy to forget your own. That’s why Melissa Wickes’s article, “Saving for Retirement” (p. 38), is so vital to read. It demystifies the most common types of savings vehicles, and explains painless ways to build your nest egg now so it’s ready when you need it most. And don’t miss my essay, “The Road to Happy Motherhood” on p. 9. I share the “selfish” decision that helped me escape a dreary bout of postpartum blues, and made me a happier, better mom—I guess it wasn’t so selfish doing something for myself after all. Would you like to share your personal essay about parenthood with us? We’re always looking for great new submissions for our Voices page. Feel free to send yours to editor@nymetroparents.com! Of course, no October issue of our magazine would be complete without a celebration of my favorite holiday: Halloween! There’s something about the sight of little kids in costumes (and, I’ll admit, mounds of candy) that makes me so happy, and you too, I bet. For some chills and thrills, turn to p. 31, where we share information on pumpkinpicking spots, haunted houses, and more. Wishing you a boo-tiful month ahead!
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one friend voiced the true sticking point: “It’s a two-seater. Where will you put the kids?” she pressed, even knowing we were keeping the minivan and the Buick. I was disappointed in, or rather for, my friends. We mothers have only come so far. We urge one another to do things that affirm our individuality—provided they tie into our families. We cheer each other on to assert our financial power—so long as our purchases can be stashed in the closet, away from judgmental eyes. It’s fine for a dad to buy himself a sports car— in fact my neighbor just had—but if a mom buys herself one, it’s unseemly. Rattled, I called my oldest friend, Matt, for advice. “You’re in a full-fledged midlife crisis!” he teased. Then he grew serious. “My buddy used to drive me around in his sports car,” he mused. “On the highway, it felt like all four wheels had lifted off the ground.” He paused. “Buy the car.” So I did. I had to learn to drive stick, which was intimidating. It takes finesse to start a manual transmission car from a dead stop. At first I either stalled out or hit the gas too fast, sending the engine into frenetic revolutions. Yet each day, my driving improved, and so did my blues, until both miraculously smoothed out. Who knew a car had healing powers? Okay, it wasn’t really the car; it was the fact that I had done something solely for myself. Some shifts, I came to see, are automatic—girlhood’s dreams give way to motherhood’s realities. But figuring out how to be a mom while still asserting your individuality? That’s a conscious shift, but one worth making. After weeks of practice, I drove my daughter to preschool in the Miata. As I pulled out of the parking lot, several mothers gathered around. One stroked the Miata’s door. “Looks fun,” she said. I smiled. Then I prayed, Please God, don’t let me stall out in front of everyone. I pulled out smoothly. I was barely going 10 miles per hour, but it felt like all four wheels had lifted off the ground. LongIslandParent
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Dream Catcher
Going to bed alone can be scary for children, especially those who tend to have nightmares or difficulty getting settled down for the night. One thing that can help relieve bedtime anxiety is the reassurance a dream catcher can provide. Because they were made to protect children from bad dreams, you can help your kid get some shut-eye by making this dream catcher craft from Laura Minter and Tia Williams’s “The Big Book of 100 Outdoor Activities.” This dream catcher is made from the center part of an embroidery hoop, which you can find in most craft stores. A dream catcher is traditionally woven to resemble a spider’s web. You will need some feathers, which you can search for on a woodland walk, and some beads to decorate. You will need
Different-colored beads
2 shades of brightly colored twine
6 feathers
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Glue
1. To make the weave on the embroidery hoop, begin by tying the end of the twine onto the hoop. Pull the twine about 1½ inches along and fold it over the top of the hoop from the front. Bring the twine in through the loop and pull tight. Continue all the way along the hoop. 2. When you get to the beginning, continue to loop the twine and go forward, but instead of looping around the hoop, loop through the previous row of twine, in the center of each loop. Pull tight each time.
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Extract reprinted here with permission from GMC Publications, The Big Book of 100 Outdoor Activities by Laura Minter and Tia Williams, RRP $19.95, published July 2018
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ood exercise and eating habits are vital and are best established at a young age. By teaching your teen effective and enjoyable ways to exercise and stay well, you are setting her up to live a healthy, happy life. Here are five ways you can help your teen get excited about fitness and wellness, according to Christian Palmer, strength and conditioning coach and personal trainer at Equinox Mamaroneck. Make sure his focus isn’t the scale. In a world dominated by social media and superficial mindsets, teens are very conscious of how they look versus how they feel. Palmer suggests the first thing to teach your child when it comes to exercising is not to focus on the scale, but instead on the way that exercising makes him feel. Help her eat healthy, but don’t enforce a strict diet. Developing a healthy and well-balanced diet is important, especially in growing teenagers. But, giving a strict, structured diet to a teen may not be necessary or the best option for her. Instead, Palmer suggests encouraging her to make the best choices she can and emphasize eating from the ground (unprocessed, natural foods). Don’t be afraid of weights. A lot of parents are afraid their child will stunt his growth if he begins lifting weights at a young age. The reality, Palmer says, is most kids aren’t strong enough to lift weights that would negatively impact their growth in any way. Teach him the proper form for motions such as squatting, deadlifting, and pressing. “Strength is typically what translates to better movers, better athletes, and ultimately more confidence,” Palmer says. Help your child develop a structured weightlifting plan, and keep it simple! Make sure she loves what she’s doing. Forcing your kid to work out in a way she doesn’t find enjoyable can be the easiest way to make her hate exercising, Palmer warns. Instead of making her go for a run when she really doesn’t want to, find out what she loves and integrate it into the exercise plan. “Take your daughter to the field, invite her friend, and make it a competition. Make it fun but add a challenge so she gets the cardiovascular benefit as well,” Palmer says Lead by example. “A lot of kids come to me and say, ‘my dad wants me to go to the gym but he doesn’t really do it so I don’t really think it’s that important,’” Palmer says. Parents are the strongest influence on their children. If you are implementing healthy eating and exercise habits in your own life, it will not only be easier for your teen to do so, but it might make him want to.
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What Kids Really Want at Their Birthday Parties ››
Bigger isn’t always better—learn what will make the celebration truly special.
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ake it from parents who know: Your kids may say they want a huge birthday blowout at the local arcade, but what they really want is a celebration that’s far more meaningful—and less chaotic. “A birthday is a time to enter your child’s world,” says Julie Morganstern, author of several books, including her latest, Time to Parent: Organizing Your Life to Bring Out the Best in Your Child and You. “All kids want is for someone to see [them] and to understand [them] and that’s what I think a birthday celebration is really about.” In fact, keeping the party smaller and simpler may make a bigger impression on your kid in the long run. “The most memorable experiences are those that incorporate multiple senses, evoke an emotional connection, and incorporate an element of novelty,” says Chrissy Khachane, an educational consultant and parenting coach. “Slowing down a bit to focus on some of life’s simple pleasures—family, good food, and laughter—affords children a party that incorporates the most important parts of childhood.” So this year, instead of getting into a frenzy planning your child’s party, consider tapping into your sense of nostalgia. Plan a day that involves playing tag in the backyard, tossing a ball, gathering on a beach or in the park, or playing board games or Duck, Duck, Goose. And whatever you do, consider taking a few cues from these parents and experts as they share their take on rethinking our kids’ birthday parties.
Step Away from the Competition
It’s super easy for birthday parties to become competitive, or all about status, where parents are one-upping each other over everything from the venue to just how deluxe the goodie bags are, Morganstern warns. Instead, “you want to establish values and make sure your kids 12 October 2018 | nymetroparents.com
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don’t get caught up in all that external pressure to compete,” Moganstern says. “You also want to focus on redefining what the real value is of a birthday party. In my book it’s all about celebrating who you are, it’s connecting with the people you really love and the ones who care most about you. That’s your family and friends. It’s not about impressing anybody. If it’s about competition with other parents then the party isn’t about [your child], it’s about other people.”
Let Your Child Play Party Planner
If your child insists on helping out with the party planning, don’t hesitate to invite him to play an important role—depending on how old he is, of course. “One way you can let your child take the lead is picking out the party theme,” says Amy Horta, owner of AEH Events, a custom event planning and design firm in Westchester County. Horta let her own 3-year-old son have a hand in creating his construction-themed birthday party. “He went with me on a trip to Home Depot (his favorite place!) for décor,” she says. “He also helped paint toolbox favors for all his guests.”
Exercise Crowd Control
If you have a toddler who doesn’t love big crowds, having a party with lots of guests just won’t be fun for her. “If there are loads of family and friends who want to shower the birthday boy or girl with good wishes, consider inviting family over for cake the weekend before the birthday and then have a small kids’ party the weekend after,” Horta recommends. “It may be a little more work planning two events, but it helps make sure that the birthday boy or girl doesn’t get completely overwhelmed on his or her big day!”
Teens, too, may feel that a crowded bash isn’t right for them. They may prefer to do a special activity with couple of friends in place of a bustling party. “Think indoor rock climbing, a trapeze class, a double feature at the movies—with popcorn—or even a day out in Manhattan,” Horta says. “A birthday celebration doesn’t always have to mean a big party with lots of people.”
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“We keep our daughter’s birthday parties pretty low key,” says Raakhee Mirchandani Singh, a Hoboken, NJ mom of Satya, 5, and author of the forthcoming kids’ book, Super Satya Saves the Day. “For Satya’s second, third, and fourth birthdays, we’ve had a story time at our local bookstore,” she says. The owner “reads some of Satya’s favorite titles, and some new ones too. And Satya and her friends love it,” Singh says. Instead of receiving goodie bags, “the kids go home with a book,” Singh adds. “I feel awesome knowing we’re...encouraging the next generation of bookworms!”
Honor Your Kid’s Passions
“When my daughter was seven, we decided to focus her birthday party around her interest in dance,” Morganstern says. “I invited a woman who did dance parties to come and lead the kids in a series of dances. It was so wonderful to watch our daughter share something she loved with her friends.” Incorporating your child’s interests is a great way to make a party special, Khachane agrees: “Through focusing on something that is important to the birthday girl or boy there is a strong connection that takes the experience beyond what one might find at a [generic] party.”
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A birthday party should absolutely focus fully on the birthday boy or girl, but it can also serve another purpose, especially if you’re new in town. For Cherie Corso, a Westchester parent expert, blogger, and mom of a 15-year-old daughter, birthday parties through the years have been wonderful ways to meet other families in town. “My daughter always wanted to invite her whole class so these gatherings were a great way for me to get to know the parents,” Corso says. “Best of all, my daughter has wonderful memories of those gatherings and I got to meet so many other families, too.”
Let Your Kids Have a Say
After Fort Lee, NJ mom Zaida Khaze’s daughters spent their sixth and seventh birthday parties with close friends, they both announced that for their next birthdays they’d rather go somewhere special. “With all the money that was spent per party for ninety minutes of fun and a goodie bag, I didn’t object,” Khaze says. “The next year, my older daughter opted for a weekend visit with the immediate family to [Great] Wolf Lodge and my younger daughter wanted to go to Six Flags.” Khaze says she was happy to not spend the time or money planning parties. “I would rather spend that money on their birthday presents. I was very impressed how my kids figured this out on their own.”
Focus on the Love
“Satya just wants to feel loved and celebrated,” Singh says. “I don’t think she cares about the specifics of the venue, the cake, or anything else...As for gifts, we’re pretty aggressive in our ‘no gifts’ policy and have been since her first birthday as Satya is a cancer survivor. Our friends bring gift cards to the party that we donate to the Tomorrows Children’s Fund in Hackensack,” she says. “Truth is, the kid has everything a little girl could want and then some: good health, sneakers that light up, parents who adore her, and more Wonder Woman junk than I ever thought humanly possible. So we encourage her to share with others.” And isn’t that the point of an awesome birthday party after all? Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in New York City.
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Call for locations throughout Long Island 855-264-1672, 516-620-6768 madscienceli.com info@madscienceli.com For more than 30 years Mad Science has provided top-quality, educational, and fun science programs for children. Their hands-on, high-energy parties are performed by a trained Mad Scientist who brings all the necessary equipment to your home or location of your choice. All birthday party packages include Mad Science invitations and a take-home activity each child works on during the party. They also offer fantastic grand finales such as Bubbling Potions, Rocket Launching, and Science Goodie Bags.
63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event! We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy—children, parents, family, friends, and boys and girls of any age. Guests enjoy our first-class facility complete with a huge exhibition-size kitchen and private party rooms. Baking experiences for adults and children include fabulous children’s birthday parties, classes, social gatherings for teens, and adult night out. Popular events include, sugar cookie baking, all about pizza, cupcakes from scratch, doughnuts, and chocolate and candy projects. Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen.com for more information.
Spin DJ Academy
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202 Merrick Road, 2nd floor, Rockville Centre 16 Broadway, Amityville 631-608-8858 spindjacademy.com Spin DJ Birthday Parties are a fun and personalized experience for your child! Party goers get to be the life of the party and learn basic DJ skills with today’s top hits! Customize your DJ dance party with songs and instruments your child loves, then head to our playspace for food and fun! Add to the party with music videos, a character appearance, glitter tattoos, and party favors! Spin DJ can bring the party to you! We’ll bring DJ equipment and instruments to create an experience to remember!
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1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfishhatchery.org info@cshfishhatchery.org Celebrate your child’s next birthday at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium! See the Hatchery & Aquarium’s exciting live exhibits. Feed the hungry trout and learn about fish, reptiles, and amphibians with an up-close animal encounter. For children turning ages 3 and older. Fishing Parties available too! Fishing Party goers will enjoy a 45-minute fishing bonanza. Fishing is catch and release only. For children turning ages 4 and older. All parties will be followed by your desired festivities. Educational party hosts and goodie bags included.
Great Strides Long Island
229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com Have your next party at the newly renovated @ Play Amusements! It offers 40,000-square-feet of fun ranging from arcade games, inflatables, bumper cars, a roller coaster, a carousel, disco room, and laser tag! It even provides all the paper goods, invites, thank you notes, food, and private hostess! It features five glow-in-the-dark private party rooms that are sure to be a hit! The action-packed amusement center will make your child’s special day one that they will never forget! Fun for all ages!
41 Coram-Swezeytown Road, Middle Island 631-786-9708 greatstridesli.org julie@greatstridesli.org Great Strides offers equestrian activities for children and adults of all ages and abilities. Our equine friends can help us face all of life’s challenges with strength and confidence. Our programs are hosted on a beautiful 15-acre ranch featuring three outdoor rings and a heated indoor arena. We offer a warm, friendly environment supervised by seasoned, certified instructors. Offering summer programs, a weeklong introduction to horses in July and August. Private lessons available for English and Western students. Ask about riding lessons, birthday parties, Therapeutic Riding, and scholarship opportunities.
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101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com BounceU Farmingdale was voted “Best of Long Island” for Children’s Party Place and Family Amusement Center. We provide the ideal combination of inflatable structures, a clean environment, incredible customer service, and non-stop excitement in a private party atmosphere. We feature giant inflatable toys and a wide variety of activities for children and adults, including basketball and boxing, obstacle courses, and slides. We take pride in providing superior customer service. Private parties are meticulously planned and prepared by our knowledgeable staff, so parents can relax and enjoy themselves.
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310 New York Ave., Huntington 631-271-4626 huntingtoncenteronline.com/category/theater huntingtoncenter@yahoo.com Make your child’s birthday a memorable and creative event with our dance-themed birthday parties. We offer a variety of parties and will also customize anything for you. Choose a theme and we provide the rest. Our staff will help you be creative with your theme; your choice of ballerina, nutcracker, soldier, princess, or sugar plum fairy! As a special treat, a guest artist will come in costume to perform for your guests! We specialize in making your child’s birthday a magical memory to cherish for a lifetime!
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Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum
Pier 86, West 46th Street and Twelfth Avenue, Manhattan 646-381-5010 intrepidmuseum.org groupsales@intrepidmuseum.org Celebrate your child’s birthday with a one-of-akind party! The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum will captivate groups of all ages and interests. Choose from exciting themes, value packages, and customization options to create a birthday adventure they’ll remember forever. Packages start at $30 per person. Experience life aboard an aircraft carrier during Operation Slumber! Enjoy after-hours access to the ship and the Space Shuttle Pavilion as well as tours and activities. It’s ideal for scouts, students, and campers ages 6–17.
Island Cinemas
1708 Montauk Highway, Mastic 631-657-3198 island-cinemas.com sales@island-cinemas.com Mom and Dad, be the greatest parent around. Have your child’s birthday party at the movies! Your child is the star at a movie birthday party! We have thousands of satisfied customers. Here’s why, your party includes a private auditorium, choice of movie, popcorn, and soda for each guest, with optional catering! Go to island-cinemas.com or call for more information.
Key to My Art, Inc.
131 Main St., Amityville 877-539-2278 keytomyart.com/nymetroparents.html info@keytomyart.com Celebrate your child’s birthday or special occasion with us at Key to My Art! It’s a mini paint night for kids! Your child chooses what the group paints! They can choose any theme, character, animal, or place! Our children’s paint parties include all supplies from aprons to easels, plus step by step instruction, pizza, and juice for all the children! Everyone leaves with a finished painting that they can proudly hang on their wall at home! Our paint events are also great for showers, Girl Scout troops, and fundraisers.
Long Island Aquarium
431 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-208-9200 xH2O (426) or 631-208-9200 x125 longislandaquarium.com Have your child’s birthday party at the Long Island Aquarium. Party options include a choice of private rooms, select food items, and ice cream cake. All parties include a guided tour of the aquarium, special seating at the Sea Lion Show, and rides on the submarine simulator! Add an animal interaction, like a visit from an alligator or penguin, for extra fun! Let us take care of all the details as you sit back and enjoy the fun-filled day! Ask about our Sweet 16 and bar or bat mitzvah packages.
Long Island Science Center
21 N. Country Road, Rocky Point 631-208-8000 sciencecenterli.org office@sciencecenterli.org Give your future coder, game scientist, robotics engineer, and designer an “edutainment” experience that they will never forget with one of
our specially customized STEM birthday parties (Dino Detective, Spa Chemistry, Wacky Chemistry, Sky Explorer, Rockets, or Ice Cream Chemistry). The party package includes the program of your choice including one hands-on project, exclusive use of the museum for two hours, birthday T-shirt for birthday boy or girl, and invitations. We make parties fun!
My Gym Children’s Fitness Center
1320 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook 631-751-KIDS (5437) mygym.com/stonybrook 128 W. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington Station 631-427-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/huntingtonstation At My Gym the goal is to not only to make your party amazing but to make it a wonderful memory for all that attend. Parties include special touches like our “Birthday March,” and customized music and activities. You will also have exclusive use of the gym, including a zip line, rock wall, trampoline, trapeze, climbing structures, and slides. The highly trained, enthusiastic instructors lead your guests through action-packed activities, with theme options like Superheroes, Mickey Mouse, Princesses, or any theme you choose.
Nastics A Total Gymnastics Experience
921-1 Lincoln Ave., Holbrook 631-567-0066 nasticsnextgen.com Nastics birthday parties include quality gymnastics instruction, exciting games, and the unforgettable experience on our trapeze, 40-foot tumble track, and trampoline.
Not Just Art
183 South St., Oyster Bay 516-922-8300 notjustart.com create@notjustart.com Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and older. Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard. We customize the fun to your child’s interest! Each party is thoughtfully designed with variations and adaptations to make sure all children feel successful and included. Staffed by seasoned teachers and party helpers, our celebrations are unique and personalized experiences! Parties can be adapted for playgroups, scout troops, field trips, and other events.
Picasso Kidz, Creative Art Studio For Children
72 Broadway, Greenlawn 631-261-5500 picassokidz.com; picassokidzart@gmail.com Picasso Kidz puts the “ART” in pARTy! Birthdays at Picasso Kidz are truly unique and memorable. We have many packages and options for ages 2-17. We work with you to create the birthday of your child’s dreams! We are committed to creating a fun party and making sure each artist creates a work that is uniquely his or hers. Party hosts are NYS-certified art teachers, who teach the children two unique art lessons. Break out of the typical party and create a memorable, educational, and fun party for your child!
Safari Adventure
1074 Pulaski St., Riverhead 631-727-4386 thesafariadventure.com dan@thesafariadventure.com Safari Adventure is Long’s Island’s premier family fun center and birthday party place. Children have a blast with the best mix of attractions on the East End, and parents can feel comfortable knowing their children are playing in one of the cleanest facilities on the island. Fun for the whole family with inflatables, four-level soft playground, arcade, hands-on creative sensory, interactive floor games and kinetic sand table, sensory calming spa for children with special needs, and a full café!
Sky Zone Trampoline Park-Deer Park
111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park 631-392-2600 skyzone.com/deerpark deerparkinfo@skyzone.com The best birthday parties are always at Sky Zone, Deer Park, Long Island. We customize every birthday party to create your party, your way. We have multiple packages to fit every budget creating unforgettable birthdays for kids, parents, and especially the birthday child. We have themed parties and super hero parties. We offer dodgeball, Foam Zone, Sky Slam, and endless jumping opportunities. Private trampoline courts are available. A Sky Zone Deer Park party is not only the best party ever, but is the easiest party ever for you.
Spin DJ Academy
202 Merrick Road, 2nd floor, Rockville Centre 16 Broadway, Amityville 631-608-8858 spindjacademy.com Spin DJ Birthday Parties are a fun and personal-
ized experience for your child! Party goers get to be the life of the party and learn basic DJ skills with today’s top hits! Customize your DJ dance party with songs and instruments your child loves, then head to our playspace for food and fun! Add to the party with music videos, a character appearance, glitter tattoos, party favors and more! Spin DJ can bring the party to you! We’ll bring DJ equipment and instruments to create an experience to remember!
Studio E Art Classes
565 Route 25A, Miller Place 631-744-4001 studioeartclass.com/parties Studio E offers birthday party starting at only $290! Parties include ten painters, two hours of party time, art project of choice, two pizza pies, juice, water, homemade cupcakes, paper goods, and personalized invitations. The best party around for the best price around! For more information visit studioeartclass.com/parties or call 631-744-4001. Studio E is located in Miller Place.
TAS New York – Theory of Arts and Sciences
153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1-888-827-8188 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park tasnewyork.com The Theory of Arts & Sciences (TAS) provides the best birthday party services in Long Island. Your child can make his or her very own work of art to treasure for years to come. Our packages include everything you need for a two-hour guided paint or arts and crafts party; we even offer special add-ons such as face painting, henna, and custom invitations to give your guest an unparalleled experience. Everything you need to give your child a unique, memorable party is at TAS. For more information call 1-888-827-8188.
Thomas School of Horsemanship Riding Academy
250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com tsh@tshcamp.com Birthday parties, scout parties, and class trips are always a blast at the Thomas School of Horsemanship. For groups of 14-18 children. They receive one hour of riding time taught by one of our certified ride instructors who will teach them a fun-filled beginner lesson. We provide the paper goods, the party room, playground, and party host so you can focus on having fun. Scouts can earn their Horse Care and Riding badges. Call and speak with our party specialist to plan the perfect outing!
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Island Cinemas
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keytomyart.com
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Parochial Schools and Private Schools PAROCHIAL SCHOOLS Catholic Elementary Schools of Long Island Diocese of Rockville Centre
Multiple locations 516-678-5800 licatholicelementaryschools.org Long Island’s Catholic elementary schools are 43 unique and beautiful schools in Nassau and Suffolk counties. Academically, the expectations of each student are high and the historical performance has been exceptional. The schools are differentiated from their public counterparts by their integrated program of learning and living the Catholic faith and values. We help instill the moral values, self-respect, and study habits that go on to serve our students well as they continue their education, and for the rest of their lives.
Holy Angels Regional School
1 Division St., Patchogue 631-475-2641 holyangelsregional.org mconnell@holyangelsregional.org Since 1923, Holy Angels Regional School has illuminated hearts and minds of students through academic excellence and the values of Catholic faith. Our mission is to provide each student the opportunity to grow spiritually, intellectually, emotionally, socially, and physically in a safe and caring environment. Children’s success is based on the collaboration of parents, pastors, teachers, and administration. We offer a rich curriculum with innovative special classes, after-school activities, an early childhood academic program, an advanced curriculum, and unique campus setting. Give your children the advantage that lasts a lifetime!
Holy Family Regional School
2 Indian Head Road, Commack 631-543-0202 holyfamilyregional.com Holy Family Regional School is a regional Catholic school located in Commack. We directly connect to the parishes of St. Josephs, Christ the King, St. Matthews, and St. Thomas More. The school is grounded on the teachings of Jesus Christ, which permeates everything we do. Students learn in a 21st century classroom using Smart Boards, iPads, Chromebooks, and many online resources. To add to the excellent academics, students have opportunities to participate in extracurricular sports, music, and STEM clubs. Our students have participated in and won major middle school robotics competitions.
Smithtown Christian School
1 Higbie Drive, Smithtown 631-265-3334 learnwithscs.org Smithtown Christian School was founded in 1978. Its student body is comprised of more than 400 students from preschool through 12th grade, and draws from numerous churches and more than 40 school districts. The mission of Smithtown Christian School is to teach with excellence in the classroom and through life-on-life influence to produce exceptional young Christian leaders with a heart for God, a mind for truth, and a passion to change the world. The curriculum at SCS is designed to prepare students for college and exceeds NYS requirements for graduation.
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29 Pinewood Drive, Commack 631-499-1237 bbdps.com Building Blocks is an early childhood learning center focusing on the education of all young children. We offer parent and child groups, nursery and preschool classes, and childcare options. As a New York state-accredited special education program serving children and their families for more than 30 years, we provide services including special instruction, ABA, speech, occupational, and physical therapy, psychological services, and diagnostic services to infants, toddlers, and preschoolers. We develop skills that enable all our children to attain their highest potential while building self-esteem and independent learning.
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1025 5th Ave., East Northport 631-261-5130 trinityregional.org Trinity Regional School offers halfand full-day programs in our Early Childhood Program and Full Day Kindergarten Program. Elementary grades first-eighth are offered. Our Early Childhood Program lays the foundation for a child to become a thinking, caring student. Our Elementary Program teaches our students all the major subject areas and students participate in field trips, contests, and STEM activities. All students receive daily instruction in our Catholic faith. Don’t miss out. Join the Trinity Family, you will be glad that you did.
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See butterflies from all over the world in this special exhibit where it’s always summer.
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‘Animaniacs’ in Concert
Get up close and personal with more than 500 species of free-flying tropical butterflies from the Americas, Africa, and Asia at the Tropical Butterfly Conservatory! Housed in a vivarium that features nectar-producing plants and is designed to mimic the butterflies’ natural habitat, these beautiful creatures are diverse in color, size, and shape. Plus, learn about the anatomy, metamorphosis, and evolution of butterflies. Oct. 6-May 27, 2019; daily, 10am-5:45pm. Age: All. $28; $22.50 students and seniors; $16.50 children ages 2-12. American Museum of Natural History, Central Park West at 79th Street, Upper West Side.
See your favorite Animaniacs characters sing live on stage, and introduce your kids to the wacky, unforgettable tunes you grew up with.
A Cartoony Concert
Animation lovers across multiple generations will get a huge kick out of Animaniacs in Concert, a special performance featuring live orchestra music from Emmy-winning composer Randy Rogel and the beloved characters and songs of Animaniacs as voiced by legendary voice actor Rob Paulsen, as cartoons are screened. Paulsen, whose return to these roles follows a recovery from throat cancer, is the voice of many popular characters on The Powerpuff Girls, The Fairly OddParents, and Transformers. Sunday, Oct. 7, 1:30pm. Age: All. $45. Joe’s Pub at the Public Theater, 425 Lafayette St., Noho.
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This free, family-friendly celebration of fall will have live music, pumpkin decorating, face painting, and more.
Randall’s Island Park
This NYC park offers more than 60 fields, a world-class track and field facility, tennis, golf, waterfront pathways, and more. The Randall’s Island Park Alliance works to restore and renovate the island’s natural resources including the freshwater wetlands, salt marsh, and Urban Farm. The island itself offers a variety of special events each year. Visit it: 20 Randalls Island Park, New York; 212-860-1899; randallsisland.org Can’t-miss event: Harvest Festival, Sunday, Oct. 14, 12pm Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 15 -minute drive or 1 hour, 40 minute LIRR and subway ride from Huntington
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This museum in downtown Manhattan celebrates the city’s beautiful architectural history and examines the progression of its skyline. Learn about the buildings through exhibitions, programs, and publications as sites of construction and products of technology, design, real estate, places of work, and residence. The museum shares a building with the Ritz Carlton in Battery Park City. Visit it: 39 Battery Place, New York; 212-945-6324; skyscraper.org Can’t-miss event: Building Blocks, Saturday, Oct. 27, 10:30-11:45am Directions: Approximately a 55-minute drive or a 1 hour, 55 minute LIRR and subway ride from Huntington
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EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!
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Deconstructing the Beatles: Deconstructing Abbey Road with Scott Freiman
WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 4, 7-10pm WHERE: Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Freiman takes the audience on a journey track-by track explaining the inspiration for the songs and their evolution in the studio. WHY WE LOVE IT: This group continues to appeal to all ages. WANT TO GO? $16. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org.
‘Catapult’
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 7, 7pm WHERE: Patchogue Theater for Performing Arts, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Dancers work behind a screen to create shadow silhouettes of shapes from the world around us. WHY WE LOVE IT: Bodies transform into a mountain, an elephant, even a helicopter. WANT TO GO? $20-$45. 631-207-1313. patchoguetheatre.com.
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Deer Park Annual Fall Festival FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 14, 10am-5pm WHERE: Geiger Lake Memorial Park, Grand Boulevard, Deer Park AGES: All WHAT: There will be food trucks, entertainment, a car show, trunk or treat activity, and free pumpkin picking. WHY WE LOVE IT: There will be a scarecrow and pie-eating contests! WANT TO GO? 631-872-9764. events.longisland.com.
Annual Halloween Bash
WHEN: Friday, Oct. 26, 4-6pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: All
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WHAT: Families are invited to join this fun-filled evening of ghoulish games, trick-or-treating, creepy crafts, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: A costume parade is planned as well! WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 12. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.
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Heritage Halloween
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 11am-12:30pm and 1:30-3pm WHERE: Heritage Trust, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: All WHAT: There will be pumpkin decorating, Halloween games, a costume parade, and raffles. WHY WE LOVE IT: The perfect way to get in the Halloween spirit! WANT TO GO? $10. 631-509-0882. msheritagetrust.org.
Great Jack-O’-Lantern Spectacular Sail
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 3pm WHERE: Belmont Lake State Park, 625 Belmont Road, North Babylon AGES: All WHAT: Pumpkins are placed on flotation devices with candles inserted inside and sailed around the lake behind kayaks. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a beautiful sight! WANT TO GO? 631-667-5055. nysparks.com.
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WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 6-9pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Halloween in a fun, safe and spooky way! WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids get to make some cool and creepy craft projects! WANT TO GO? $14; $13 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.
A Kooky Spooky Halloween
WHEN: Oct. 6-27, Saturdays, 11am; Sunday, 3pm; Sensory Sensitive Performance: Oct. 14, 11am WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 3 and older WHAT: A merry musical about a ghost who’s afraid of the dark. WHY WE LOVE IT: Hilarious hijinks and a message of cooperation highlight this delightful musical. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.
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Haunted Wail-ing Boo-seum
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 28, 11am–3pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: WHAT: See live critters in Dr. Gellerman’s Spooky Zoo, meet costumed characters, and go home with tons of spooky crafts. WHY WE LOVE IT: This is ‘not-so-scary’...just sheer fun! WANT TO GO? $6; $12 children. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.
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Rise of the Jack-O’-Lanterns
WHEN: Oct. 5-29, check website for exact dates and times WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Some of the top pumpkin sculptors in the country will carve a dozen pumpkin sculptures! WHY WE LOVE IT: The pumpkin trail is well lit to ensure that the experience is always safe and enjoyable for everyone. WANT TO GO? $26; $22 children ages 3-17 and seniors; free for children 2 and younger. 818-639-8981. therise.org.
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Traveling Exhibit -TINKERTOY®: Build Your Imagination
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WHEN: Through Jan. 6: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Visitors can explore a walk-in size replica of the canister, create their own designs, experiment with renewable energy and water filtration, and take part in a scavenger hunt. WHY WE LOVE IT: A great way to introduce children to STEM concepts! WANT TO GO? $13; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.
WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE
Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Annual Harvest Day Fair FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 11am-4pm WHERE: Rogers Mansion, 17 Meeting House Lane, Southampton Village AGES: All WHAT: There will be sheep shearing demonstrations and the Colonial Militia will be on hand. WANT TO GO? 631-283-2494. southamptonhistoricalmuseum.org.
Yoga in the Park provided by Om Shanti Yoga and Reiki Center FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 7, 8:30–9:30am WHERE: The Common Ground, Rotary Park between Gillette and Candee avenues, Sayville AGES: All WHAT: Yoga for all ages and skill. WANT TO GO? 631-664-4230. thecommonground.com.
Teen Scene FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 21, 3:30–4:15pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 13 and older WHAT: A time for teens to get together, hang out, do some crafts, and make friends. WANT TO GO? 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.
Trick-or-Treat FREE
WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 23, 4-5pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s- East Meadow, 1897 Front St., East Meadow AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Children are invited to dress in their costumes and go trick-ortreating throughout the store. WANT TO GO? 516-394-9001. stewleonards.com.
Sag Harbor’s 2018 Ragamuffin Parade FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 28, 1pm WHERE: Sag Harbor Chamber of Commerce, Nassau Street, AGES: All WHAT: Parade down Main Street to the Custom House Lawn for family fun games and homemade baked goods. WANT TO GO? sagharborchamber.com. ››
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SHOW TIME! National Theatre Live Screening: ‘Julie’ by Polly Stenham after Strindberg
WHEN: Friday, Oct. 12, 7pm WHERE: Guild Hall of East Hampton, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 13 and older WHAT: ‘Miss Julie’ remains shocking and fiercely relevant in its new setting of contemporary London. WANT TO GO? $18. 631-324-4050. guildhall.org.
Compania Flamenca - with Eduardo Guerrero
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13, 8pm WHERE: Staller Center- Stony Brook University, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Eduardo Guerrero combines classical and contemporary Spanish dance, ballet, and contortion to express this Spanish art form. WANT TO GO? $44. 631-632-6000. stallercenter.com.
‘The Sixties Show’
WHEN: Oct. 12-13, Friday and Saturday, 8pm WHERE: Bay Street Theater, 1 Bay St., Sag Harbor AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The show features former band members for Bob Dylan, Ray Charles, James Brown, and The Kinks and current members of legendary multi-platinum pop superstars The Smithereens. WANT TO GO? $45. 631-725-9500. baystreet.org.
‘Saturday Night Fever’
WHEN: Through Oct. 14: See website for exact dates and times WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre at Elmont, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: All WHAT: This classic performance is a tale of love, competition, and dancing. WANT TO GO? $29; $24 seniors; $20 students; $15 children 12 years and younger. 516-775-4420. broadhollow.org.
‘Pinkalicious’
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 14, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Patchogue Theater for Performing Arts, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Pinkalicious’s pink indulgence lands her at the doctor’s office with Pinkititis, an affliction that turns her pink from head to toe. WANT TO GO? $15-$25. 631-207-1313. patchoguetheatre.com. 24
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Megan Hilty
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 8pm WHERE: Staller Center, Stony Brook University, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Megan Hilty made her Broadway debut as Glinda in Wicked and won acclaim for her role in the revival of Noises Off. WANT TO GO? $52. 631-632-6000. stallercenter.com.
‘Mamma Mia!’
WHEN: Oct. 6-21, Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: BroadHollow at East Islip, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 9 and older WHAT: A daughter’s quest to discover the identity of her father brings three men from her mother’s past back to the island they visited 20 years ago. WANT TO GO? $30. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.
‘The Addams Family’ - A New Musical Comedy
WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Wednesday Addams brings home her “normal” boyfriend to meet the tribe in this new adaptation of the Charles Addam’s characters. WANT TO GO? $35; $28 children 13-18; $20 children ages 5-12; children younger than 5 not permitted. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.
‘The Rainbow Fish’
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 2pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts at LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookeville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: An original stage adaptation of Marcus Pfister’s colorful stories. WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.
Disney’s and Cameron Mackintosh’s ‘Mary Poppins Jr.’
WHEN: Through Oct. 28: Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Your favorite nanny takes center stage in this adventure. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.
‘Phantom’
WHEN: Oct. 13- Nov. 3, Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: CM Performing Arts Center, 931 Montauk Highway, Oakdale AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The Phantom lives for beautiful music and is mesmerized by a young and beautiful soprano, Christine. WANT TO GO? $18-$42. 631-218-2810. cmpac.com.
SMARTY PANTS Lego Club FREE
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 1, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: East Hampton Library, 159 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Have fun creating with Legos and meeting new friends. WANT TO GO? 631-324-0222. easthamptonlibrary.org.
Teens: Virtual Reality FREE
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 1, Mondays, 5–7pm WHERE: East Hampton Library, 159 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Experience a virtual world with this new age technology. WANT TO GO? 631-324-0222. easthamptonlibrary.org.
Do-It-Yourself Terrariums- STEM Program FREE
WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 3, 4-5pm WHERE: East Hampton Library, 159 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Using a 2-liter soda bottle, create self-watering terrarium. WANT TO GO? 631-324-0222. easthamptonlibrary.org.
Brain Cancer: New Advances in Research and Treatment Technologies at Stony Brook FREE WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 3, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Ward Melville Heritage Organization, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Learn about in-site vaccination, radiosurgery, and immunotherapy. WANT TO GO? 631-689-5888. wmho.org.
Pizza & Pajama Night
Saturday Stay ‘n Play FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13, 10-11am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: There will be educational toys available. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
Open House FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13, 10am-12pm WHERE: Harbor Country Day School, 17 Three Sisters Road, St. James AGES: All WHAT: Stop by Harbor Country Day School to tour the school, see engaging classrooms, meet teachers, and hear about the curriculum. WANT TO GO? 631-584-5555. hcdsny.org.
6TH Annual LEGO® Building Block Contest & Exhibit
WHEN: Through Oct. 14: daily, 10am-5pm WHERE: Ward Melville Heritage Organization Education and Cultural Center, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Grab your family and friends and start building. Creations are on display everyday until prizes are awarded. WANT TO GO? $2-$4. 631-689-5888. wmho.org.
SCS Super Saturday Open House FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 10-11:30am WHERE: Smithtown Christian School, 1 Higbie Drive, Smithtown AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Come see why students from over 40 districts across Nassau and Suffolk counties choose SCS. WANT TO GO? 631-265-3334. learnwithscs.org.
WHEN: Friday, Oct. 5, 5:30-7pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Read Room on the Broom by Julia Donaldson. Enjoy pizza and open play in the Museum, and create a Halloween themed craft. WANT TO GO? $15; free for children younger than 1. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.
Open Call Audition with Harriet Greenspan Casting FREE
Ranger Talk: TR and the Cowboy Years FREE
Puffy Ghosts Sensory Experience FREE
Workshops for Children: Raptors and Owl Craft
Workshops for Children: Spooky Scavenger Hunt
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 2pm WHERE: Sagamore Hill National Historic Site, 20 Sagamore Hill Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy an overview of Theodore Roosevelt’s time as a ranch owner and how it impacted his presidency. WANT TO GO? 516-922-4788. nps.gov/sahi. WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 10am–12pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Make a nature craft! WANT TO GO? $20. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.
Workshops for Children: Ravenous Raptors
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 8, 10am–12pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Learn all about raptors. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 21, 2pm WHERE: Tower Talent, 535 Broadhollow Road, Melville AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Tower Talent is hosting a one day only, open call talent search with Nickelodeon casting director Harriet Greenspan. WANT TO GO? 516-765-2400. towertalent.com.
WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 25, 10am WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Celebrate Halloween at the library with this spooky sensory craft. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net. WHEN: Friday, Oct. 26, 6-8pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Have fun with a Halloween themed scavenger hunt! WANT TO GO? $20. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.
My First Story Time FREE
WHEN: Oct. 3-31, Wednesdays, 11am WHERE: Barnes and Noble-Bay Shore, 842 Sunrise Highway, Bay Shore AGES: Newborn-5 WHAT: It varies from week to week, but a typical story time includes a mix of short stories and favorite songs. WANT TO GO? 631-206-0198. barnesandnoble.com. ›› LongIslandParent 25
Halloween Family Day
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 21, 1-4pm WHERE: Walt Whitman Birthplace State Historic Site, 246 Old Walt Whitman Road, Huntington AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy a magic show, non-scary games, face painting, and more. WANT TO GO? $9 children. 631-427-5240. waltwhitman.org.
Spooky Walk
WHEN: Oct. 26-27, Friday-Saturday, 6:30-9:30pm WHERE: Clark Botanic Garden, 193 I.U. Willets Road, Albertson AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Clark Botanic transforms into a haunted maze! WANT TO GO? $5. 516-484-2208. clarkbotanic.org.
HOLIDAY FUN Exquisite Corpse
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 7, 10am-12pm WHERE: Art League of Long Island, 107 E. Deer Park Road, Dix Hills AGES: All WHAT: This parlor game is a fun pre-Halloween art game for families and artists of all ages. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-462-5400. artleagueli.org.
Halloween Glow in the Dark Dance Party
WHEN: Friday, Oct. 19, 6–7pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s - East Meadow, 1897 Front St., East Meadow AGES: 5-12 WHAT: A special dance floor and light machine will be available for everyone to show off their best moves with costumed characters. WANT TO GO? $10; $14.99 children. 516-394-9001. stewleonards.com.
Halloween Cupcakes FREE
WHEN: Friday, Oct. 19, 6pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Decorate spooky cupcakes just in time for Halloween. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
Harbor Haunts Walking Tour!
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 4:30 and 6pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Listen as an educator recounts fascinating tales of mishaps, apparitions and historic hauntings of Bedlam Street. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 children. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.
Pumpkin Carving FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 10am–4pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s - East Meadow, 1897 Front St., East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: Lenny Calvin will use clay tools and X-Acto knives to create a spooky scene on the pumpkin. WANT TO GO? 516-394-9001. stewleonards.com.
Trunk or Treat FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 12pm WHERE: Westhampton Beach Elementary School, 301 Main St., Westhampton Beach AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Dress up and decorate your car for this annual trunk-or-treat Halloween event. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net. 26
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Bats, Barnacles & Broomsticks: Halloween Celebration
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 10am-4pm WHERE: Long Island Aquarium, 431 E. Main St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Children gather treats and enjoy a Costume Parade for Penguins. WANT TO GO? $29.50; $22.50 children ages 3-12; children in costume 50% off; free for children younger than 2. 631-208-9200. longislandaquarium.com.
Halloween Spooktacular FREE
WHEN: Oct. 20-27, Saturdays, 2pm; Sunday, 11am WHERE: CM Performing Arts Center, 931 Montauk Highway, Oakdale AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Come in your favorite Halloween costume. WANT TO GO? 631-218-2810. cmpac.com.
They Mystery of Halloween High BW
WHEN: Oct. 7-27, Saturdays and Sundays, times vary WHERE: BayWay Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 5-12 WHAT: The students of BHT Middle School are suspicious of their new substitute teacher’s odd and wacky behavior. WANT TO GO? $13. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.
Family Fun Day FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 28, 1-4pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Dress in costume, paint a pumpkin, and trick-or-treat. WANT TO GO? 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.
Boo at the Zoo Party for Kids
WHEN: Oct. 7-28, Sundays, 1-3pm WHERE: Long Island Game Farm, 489 Chapman Blvd., Manorville AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Children are invited to wear costumes for animal encounters. WANT TO GO? $14; $16.95 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 631-878-6644. longislandgamefarm.com.
Dress-Up Parade FREE
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 29, 4–5pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Dress up, listen to stories, and parade through the library. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
Halloween Festival FREE
WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 31, 2-5pm WHERE: Stony Brook Village, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Bring your little ones by to trick-or-treat and play some games. WANT TO GO? 631-689-5888. stonybrookvillage.com.
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Jackson Pollock Family Drip Painting Workshop
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 10-11:30am WHERE: Pollock-Krasner House and Study Center, 830 Springs Fireplace Road, East Hampton AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Families tour the Pollock-Krasner House and studio, followed by a drip painting workshop for children. WANT TO GO? $40. 917-502-0790. imaginearted.com.
Emojii Unicorn Paint Event for Kids!
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art East Rockaway, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Come paint the Emoji Unicorn. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.
Ceramic Tealight Ghosts FREE
WHEN: Friday, Oct. 12, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Create a spooky ceramic ghost with a face that glows. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
Learn to Draw a Black Cat with Art Teacher Amy
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 2-3pm WHERE: South Huntington Public Library, 145 Pidgeon Hill Road, Huntington Station AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Make a black cat and jack-o’-lantern in watercolors. WANT TO GO? 631-549-4411. shpl.info.
Calligraphy with Howard Rose
Build-a-Boat
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 10am-12pm WHERE: Art League of Long Island, 107 E. Deer Park Road, Dix Hills AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Improve your penmanship and learn calligraphy. WANT TO GO? $35. 631-462-5400. artleagueli.org.
LOL Doll Heartbreaker Paint Event
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 22, 3pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Drop in to create your very own cape. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 7, 11am–2pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Drop in to create a wooden vessel with a variety of materials. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org. WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 7, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Paint the Jojo Lol doll. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.
SuperHero Crafts
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 8, 12–3pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Be inspired by the giant champions of the sea and create superhero-themed crafts at help-yourself stations. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children ages 4-18; free for children younger than 4. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.
Teen/Tween Pottery Immersion
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 8, 12:15-3:15pm WHERE: Studio E Art Classes, 565 Route 25A, Miller Place AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Students work on high-powered pottery wheels and learn hand-building techniques with clay. WANT TO GO? $50. 631-744-4001. studioeartclass.com.
Dogman Paint Event!
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 8, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Come paint the cover of the latest Dogman book. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.
LOL Doll Surprise JoJo Siwa Paint Event
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 8, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Come paint the Jojo Siwa LOL doll. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.
Design your Own Cape FREE
Mummy Candy Holders FREE
WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 23, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Celebrate Halloween by making a spooky candy holder. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
Halloween Drawing with Art Teacher Amy FREE
WHEN: Friday, Oct. 26, 4-5pm WHERE: Sayville Public Library, 88 Greene Ave., Sayville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Draw a cute black cat in colored pencils and markers. WANT TO GO? 631-589-4440. sayvillelibrary.org.
Charlie Brown Halloween Paint Event!
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Learn to paint Charlie Brown! WANT TO GO? $2. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.
Bat T-Shirts FREE
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 29, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Celebrate Halloween with this ghoul-riffic fashion activity. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
Family Sundays
WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Sundays, 1pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Reconnect while talking about and making art together. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors and students; $4 children. 516-4849337. nassaumuseum.org. ››
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Fall Fest and Zombie Walk FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13, 10am-4pm WHERE: Downtown Wading River, 1900 Wading River Manor Road, Wading River AGES: All WHAT: There will be crafts, pumpkin carved contest, apples, and more. WANT TO GO? wadingrivershorehamchamber.com.
Fall Family Fiesta FREE
WHEN: Friday, Oct. 19, 4:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Beach Village Gazebo, Main Street and the Roads of Mill and Beach, Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Includes pumpkin carving, dinner, and a showing of Coco. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS Apple Festival Amityville Rotary Club FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 10am-4pm WHERE: Park Avenue Memorial Elementary School, 140 Park Ave., Amityville AGES: All WHAT: There will be a large variety of freshly picked NY State apples, apple donuts, pies and turnovers, craft vendors, music, and entertainment. WANT TO GO? amityville.com.
Riverhead Country Fair 2018 FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 7, 10am-5pm WHERE: Riverhead’s Main Street, Main Street, Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the works of original artists, agricultural and homemaking displays and competitions, entertainers, food, amusement rides, and pony rides. WANT TO GO? riverheadcountryfair.com.
37th Fall Festival Clam Chowder Contest FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 7, 11am WHERE: Montauk Village Green, 742 Montauk Highway, Montauk AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live music, Oktoberfest foods, a 30-horse carousel, farmer’s market, and more. WANT TO GO? montaukchamber.com.
Long Island Fall Festival 2018 FREE
Fall On The Bay
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 11am-10pm WHERE: Tanner Park Beach, 400 Baylawn Ave., Copiague AGES: All WHAT: Pumpkin picking, live music, hay rides, a spook walk, a bounce castle maze, and food are part of the festivities. WANT TO GO? $9-$20. festivalsonthebay.com.
Pumpkin Festival FREE
WHEN: Oct. 1-21, Saturdays and Sundays, 9am-6pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Children enjoy many attractions including a pedal kart track, maze, lavender labyrinth, and friendly farm animals. WANT TO GO? 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.
2nd Annual Islip Fall Festival FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 11am-5pm WHERE: Main Street, 401 Main St., Islip AGES: All WHAT: Activities include live entertainment, line dancing, pumpkin decorating, kid’s costume parade and contest, and pie eating contest. WANT TO GO? islipchamberofcommerce.org.
Ivy League Fall Festival
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 11am-4pm WHERE: Ivy League Day Camp, 211 Brooksite Drive, Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: There will be pumpkins, hayrides, and inflatables. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-265-4177. ivyleaguekids.com.
WHEN: Oct. 5-8, Friday, 5-9pm; Saturday and Sunday, 11am-9pm; Monday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Heckscher State Park, Route 25A and Prime Avenue, Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Includes entertainment, a carnival, and activities for young children. WANT TO GO? lifallfestival.com.
West Hills Fall Festival 2018 FREE
Village of Lake Grove Annual Harvest Festival FREE
Oktoberfest
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 11am-3pm WHERE: West Hills Day Camp, 21 Sweet Hollow Road, Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy haunted houses, carnival rides, trick-or-treating, and more. WANT TO GO? 631-427-6700. westhillscamp.com.
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13, 12-3pm WHERE: Kelly Park, Patricia Lane, Lake Grove AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy an afternoon of games, pumpkin decorating, pony rides, hayrides, Halloween costume contest, face painting, and more. WANT TO GO? lakegroveny.gov.
WHEN: Oct. 27-28, Saturday and Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy fall with live music, pumpkin picking, hayrides, and more. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.
PTA Fall Festival
WHEN: Through Oct. 28: Saturdays and Sundays, 10am-4pm WHERE: White Post Farms, 250 Old Country Road, Melville AGES: All WHAT: Family activities include sing-along hayrides, bounce houses, entertaining shows, a petting zoo, and pumpkin picking. WANT TO GO? $24; free for children younger than 16 months. 631351-9373. whitepostfarms.com.
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 13, 12-4pm WHERE: Chippewa Elementary School, 31 Morris Ave., Holtsville AGES: All WHAT: There will be games, prizes, a petting zoo, face painting, tattoos, photo station, and a kids costume contest. WANT TO GO? $10. eventbrite.com. 28
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SPECIAL NEEDS ADHD and Executive Function: Understanding the Impact on Learning, Motivation, and Behavior
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 1, 10:30am-12:30pm WHERE: PTS Coaching, 3 Huntington Quadrangle, #105 South Tower, Melville AGES: Adult WHAT: Learn how to reduce stress and help your child succeed and thrive. WANT TO GO? $55; $70 couple. 516-802-0593. ptscoaching.com.
Krishna Das In Concert: Fundraiser for Orkestai Farm and Elija Farm WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 2pm WHERE: Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: This concert is a fundraiser to support Orkestai Farm and Elija Farm, which work with young people on the spectrum. WANT TO GO? $40; $20 children younger than 18. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org.
An Evening Under the Stars
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 6, 5:30–10pm WHERE: Saddle Rock Ranch, 41 Coram Swezeytown Road, Middle Island AGES: Adult WHAT: Enjoy cocktails and a country buffet. Proceeds benefit the community therapeutic riding and Veterans’ programs. WANT TO GO? $50. 631-205-0432.
Webinar: ADHD and Executive Function: Understanding the Impact on Learning, Motivation, and Behavior
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 15, 7-9pm WHERE: PTS Coaching, Online Seminar, Melville AGES: Adult WHAT: Learn why it’s hard for your child to stay organized and motivated. WANT TO GO? $55. 516-802-0593. ptscoaching.com.
A Morning for Children with Special Needs FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 9am-12pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: All WHAT: Activities include a sensory garden and planetarium show. WANT TO GO? 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.
Puppy Fun FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 28, 3:30–4:15pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Dogs from the Bide-A-Wee Therapy Dog class visit. WANT TO GO? 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.
Estate Planning vs. Guardianship FREE
WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 30, 9:30am WHERE: Hauppauge Palace Diner, 525 Smithtown Bypass, Hauppauge AGES: Adult WHAT: Discuss estate planning and important special needs issues. WANT TO GO? 631-941-3434. burnerlaw.com.
Music Therapy Class
WHEN: Oct. 15- Nov. 26, Mondays, 5pm-5:45pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Music can impact social and cognitive development. Learn how it can help you regulate your system and keep you calm. WANT TO GO? $75. 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.
ON SCREEN Manhattan Short
WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 2, 7:30pm WHERE: Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: View and vote on the Finalists’ Films in the 21st Annual Manhattan Short Film Festival. WANT TO GO? $16. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org.
Night Owl Cinema: ‘Nosferatu, The Vampyre’ by Werner Herzog WHEN: Friday, Oct. 5, 10pm WHERE: Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Count Dracula moves from Transylvania to Wisman, spreading the Black Plague across the land. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org.
There’s a Future in the Past: with Vince Giordano in Person!
WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 10, 7:30 PM WHERE: Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This documentary offers an intimate portrait of a musician as he shares his passion for jazz with a new generation of music and swing-dance fans. WANT TO GO? $11-$16. 631-423-7610. cinemaartscentre.org.
Halloween Hay Bale Theater FREE
WHEN: Oct. 5-19, Fridays except Oct. 12, 6pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 1897 Front St., East Meadow AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Children watch a Halloween-themed movie. WANT TO GO? 516-394-9001. stewleonards.com.
Cinema for Kids! ‘Corpse Bride’
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 27, 11am WHERE: Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: 9 and older WHAT: When a shy groom practices his wedding vows in the inadvertent presence of a deceased young woman, she rises from the grave assuming he has married her. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 12. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. ›› LongIslandParent 29
KINDNESS CRUSADERS Long Island Cares Mobile Food Pantry FREE
WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 4, 11am–1pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: The van will be on-site for a three-day food supply distribution. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
MOVERS & SHAKERS HeartBeet Farm Stand FREE
WHEN: Through Oct. 13: Saturdays, 10am-12pm WHERE: Stony Brook Village Center, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: HeartBeet Farms produces organically grown fruits and vegetables. WANT TO GO? 631-751-2244. stonybrookvillage.com.
South Shore Fishing Classic
WHEN: Oct. 12-14, Friday and Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Captree State Park, 3500 Ocean Parkway, Babylon AGES: 9 and older WHAT: All fish must be hooked and landed from the beach, surf, jetty, bank, or pier. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-669-0449. nysparks.com.
Farmer’s Market FREE
WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Saturdays, 10am–3pm WHERE: Tanger Outlets: The Arches, 152 The Arches Circle, Deer Park AGES: All WHAT: The market will feature Long Island’s local farms, wineries, and bakers offering local fruits, vegetables, wines, and more. WANT TO GO? 631-667-0600. tangeroutlet.com.
Coding Club FREE
WHEN: Oct. 9- Nov. 13, Tuesdays, 5:30–6:30pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This popular introduction to coding class fills up quick! WANT TO GO? 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.
Hip Hop – 6 Week Session FREE
WHEN: Oct. 3- Nov. 14, Wednesdays, 5–5:45pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 5-8, 13-17, Adult WHAT: Learn the latest hip hop steps, get some exercise, and have fun while making friends. WANT TO GO? 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.
Children’s Yoga
WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Wednesdays, 4:45-5:45pm WHERE: Heritage Center, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Lilie Perito teaches various workshops in yoga and mindfulness across Long Island. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-275-6618. msheritagetrust.org.
Warrior Courses Wednesdays
WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Wednesdays, 6-8pm WHERE: Sky Zone Mount Sinai, 269 Route 25A, Mount Sinai AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Run the course as many times as you like, and try to get your name on the leader board. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-938-1420. skyzone.com/mountsinai. 30
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Volunteer Training FREE
WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 9, 7-8pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Learn all about volunteering with the Friendship Circle WANT TO GO? 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.
Getting Started with AMCS
WHEN: Friday, Oct. 12, 6-7:30pm FREE WHERE: Hallock State Park Preserve, 6062 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Learn about scientist involvement with marine animals. WANT TO GO? 631-315-5475.
SNAP Counseling FREE
WHEN: Friday, Oct. 19, 10-11am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Meet with Fatima Lasso to see if SNAP can work for you. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
8th Annual Chili Cook-Off and Fall Festival FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 20, 12-4pm WHERE: Association for Mental Health and Wellness, 939 Johnson Ave., Ronkonkoma AGES: All WHAT: Games and a halloween costume contest. Proceeds benefit people impacted by mental illness including at-risk and homeless veterans. WANT TO GO? hmhaw.org.
Gleaning of the Fields FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 21, 10am-12pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Help pick vegetables to donate to those less fortunate. WANT TO GO? 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.
The Ward Melville Heritage Organization Presents the 25th Annual Walk for Beauty...in a Beautiful Place!
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 21, 7:30am WHERE: Stony Brook Village Center, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: All proceeds go to breast cancer research at Stony Brook Medicine. WANT TO GO? $35-$45. 631-751-2244. stonybrookvillage.com.
Coming up next month: NOV. 10-12: Red, White and Blue Crafts at The Whaling Museum and Education Center, Cold Spring Harbor NOV. 17-DEC. 23: Annie at the CM Performing Arts Center, Oakdale NOV. 18: Inside Song: An Elementary School Musical Experience at Staller Center for the Arts, Stony Brook University
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October Chills & Spooky Thrills Compiled by Anja Webb
Get in the Halloween spirit and get ready for a fun-filled fall! Whether you’re looking for some ghoulish fun to scare the pants off your teens or some more light-hearted haunts for the little ones, we’ve got you covered with our ultimate Halloween guide. Keep the thrills going with escape rooms that allow you to embrace your inner Houdini and give your kids the perfect opportunity to show off their detective skills. Or, if you’d rather take it easy, try taking a family day trip to the farm for some pumpkin picking. Now if it’s already a little too chilly outside, you might want to stay indoors and go for a skate at your local roller rink instead. Whatever you’re looking for, we’ve got what you need to get ready for the Halloween season and make it a great October with your family!
PUMPKIN PICKING Hank’s Pumpkintown
240 Montauk Highway, Watermill 631-726-4667; hankspumpkintown.com U-pick pumpkins and apples through October, daily, 9:30am-6pm. Three corn mazes, wagon rides, tractor rides, pedal cart racetrack, and more. New attractions include a giant chair for family photos, a wooden dairy barn play structure, and tractor seesaws. Maze Park and apple orchard are only open on Saturdays, Sundays, and school holidays. Admission: $13. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/pumpkins
HALLOWEEN FOR KIDS Gateway’s Haunted Playhouse
215 S. Country Road, Bellport 631-286-1133; gatewayshauntedplayhouse.com Sept. 29-Nov. 3; see website for schedule This haunted house also offers food and drink, souvenirs, and a Not so Scary Kid’s Adventure for children younger than 12 who may not be suited for the original Haunted Playhouse. A limited amount of Fast Passes are available for those who want to skip the line. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/Halloween
ESCAPE ROOMS Hour Escape
1303 Main St., Port Jefferson 631-403-3030; hourescapeportjeff.com You have 1 hour to solve the mystery of The Show Must Go On or Cafe Lorenzo. Birthday parties, private bookings, corporate team building, and networking events are also available. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/escape-rooms
ROLLER RINKS United Skates of America
1276 Hicksville Road, Seaford 516-795-5474; unitedskates.com This classic facility for roller skating also offers an arcade and a menu of pizza, hot dogs, and wings. Check the website for each daily schedule and special offers. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/roller-rinks
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Posting about your little one’s life on social media is big-time fun—but is it smart? And safe?
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n parenthood, there are moments of mayhem we don’t want anyone else to see and moments we want to highlight on Instagram—and, if we’re being honest, moments of mayhem that are totally worthy of a post on Instagram. If this is something you know all too well, welcome to ‘sharenthood.’ It is no secret that as we scroll through our various social media feeds, most (if not all) of what we see is staged. Everyone has a different motive for posting their children on social media, and some choose to keep their babies off Facebook and Instagram completely. The 38,000-follower Instagram account @thispugslife, winner of The Ellen DeGeneres Show’s Ellen Rate My Baby, began as an account showcasing Charlie, a black pug. Account creator Meredith Kreuger’s daughter was added to the mix when she was born. “Followers tell me all the time that the two of them make them smile and make them happy,” Kreuger says. “My goal is to make people laugh via Instagram and blogging. I love captioning photos and I love to write!” There are parents who post pictures to keep their families in the loop, some who use Instagram as a scrapbook of sorts, others who are aiming to send a greater message, and in some cases, to receive a sense of validation. This all leads us to the question: to post or not to post?
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Mac & Mia, an online children’s clothing service, surveyed 2,000 new parents about how they felt when it came to posting their babies on social media. The survey concluded there are two types 32
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of parents: those who claim they use social media to keep friends and family involved and develop content for future scrapbooking projects (87 percent) and those who have no shame in saying ‘it just feels good to show off my kid’ (13 percent). Although parents link their posting motives to being about their kids, it turns out it’s more about appeasing themselves, according to Ida Jeltova, Ph.D., a licensed psychologist in Rockland and Bergen counties with more than 14 years of clinical experience working with children, youths, and families. “Social media provides a perception, if not actual validation, of ‘my child is liked and doing well. I am a good parent’,” she says. There is a small population of parents who are competitive due to insecurity, Dr. Jeltova adds, which forces the child to develop an extension of parental ego and self-esteem. “The parent needs the child to be liked to feel likeable themselves,” she says. At the end of the day, every parent is different, and there’s nothing wrong with feeling validated, whether you’re helping others by sending a message or it gives you an extra boost—as long as it’s all in good spirit.
Sending a Message
A national survey conducted by Edison Research, as a part of Minute Maid’s this is GOOD campaign, revealed that 94 percent of sharents stage their social media posts. Although this might seem shocking, it is important to remember that social media is meant for an audience and the photos are staged to project a motive, whether it’s clear or ambiguous.
For example, the Instagram account @papaanddaddy, which has 44,600 followers, is clear in its message and role in the social media world: to normalize same-sex parenting. “There’s a lot of work left to be done in normalizing same-sex parenting. This is our small way of paying it forward,” says James Loduca, one of the dads behind the account. “At the end of the day, representation matters. It’s hard to dream about what you can’t see. As kids, there weren’t gay families represented in media. We want to do our part to change that for generations to come.”
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Christine Di’Amore, a Youtuber with nearly 300,000 subscribers, is best known for her videos about makeup and lifestyle. Despite her Internet presence, she has chosen to keep her daughter out of the public eye for now. “While hateful comments don’t hurt me, a lot of people who aren’t conditioned to the harsh world that social media can be (like my daughter) might be more affected by those words, regardless of how ridiculous or untrue they are,” Di’Amore says. “If my daughter does come across any negative comments, she knows I will have a conversation with her and try to help her understand the psyche behind those who bully others, and the reason they want to bring others down to their level.” As children grow older and have more access to the Internet they will come to realize cyber bullies are everywhere. While their hurtful comments can be ignored, they might be hard to brush off. On the flip side, being exposed to cyber bullying at a young age can help children understand how to deal with it as they enter their teenage years. “Another reason for not sharing that I often hear is a desire to protect the child’s privacy. The child has the right to be growing up in a protected, emotionally safe environment,” Dr. Jeltova says. “Having his or her images posted is inviting feedback and judgment and potentially jeopardizes the privacy and emotional safety.” When you place yourself in the public eye, whether it’s to express a message to thousands of followers or you’re sharing your child’s preschool graduation, there is a safety concern and a leeway for hatred. “There are a ton of people out there that are looking to do harm in a variety of ways,” says Amaliya Makarovskaya, a Manhattan mom of two. “I find that there is very little to be gained from social media in general, especially through my kids posts.” Circling back to the Mac & Mia survey, 42 percent of parents say they have planned posts of their children in advance and have spent up to 2 hours to get the perfect shot. As with all things when it comes to parenting, it’s ultimately up to you to weigh the pros and cons of sharing snapshots of your children on social media, but think beyond safety and look into your true motive for posting a photo of your child. Remember: There is a definitive line between remembering a moment and wasting time. Dasha Kofman, a senior at Binghamton University, was a summer 2018 editorial intern for NYMetroParents.
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hen your little one starts walking and begins exploring in greater depth, you may start to wonder what the next step is for child proofing your living space. It’s a good question to ask yourself: “As you prepare your home for the toddler stage, every part of the home should be reviewed to ensure the safety of your newly and very mobile little one,” says Geneuviève Thibault, founder of bblüv, a baby and toddler accessory retailer. “As your toddler grows and develops strength and ability, some tools, such as gates and play yards, can become obsolete as they triumphantly climb right over them. Now, the little things we can easily overlook, like outlet covers, cabinet door locks, door handles, potentially hazardous house plants, pets, and cleaning products, become critically important as your toddler expands and explores his environment.” With this in mind, here are five areas of your home that you’ll want to scrutinize.
Bathroom
There are so many things a child could get into—and make a major mess with—in a bathroom, from lipstick to toilet-paper rolls. “The toddler stage finds little ones still testing every object with their hands and mouth,” Thibault says. As a result, parents should lock all cabinets with a child-proof latch to keep any cleaners and medications out of reach. It’s also important to keep your poisons and sharps “well out of reach…high up above the reach of the child,” in case someone forgets to relock the cabinet after use, says Carolyn Ziegler, a child proofer with 35 years of experience and 34
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founder of Dreambaby, a child safety company. There’s another potential danger lurking in your bathroom: the toilet. Besides the obvious sanitary issues surrounding children playing in the toilet, they could also drown, according to the Consumer Product Safety Commission. The water may seem shallow enough to us, but it’s the perfect height and depth for a toddler to fall in face first and get stuck with his head underwater. “You have to be very careful that your child does not have access to the toilet,” Ziegler says. “There are a number of products that can be used to close your toilet and make sure it is fully closed.” You can either purchase a latch specifically for the toilet, or use a childproof safety lock like the ones on your cabinets.
Windows
Nearly 5,000 children fall out of windows annually, with urban children being the most frequently affected, according to the CPSC. Though most modern homes have windows with screens and locks, those measures just simply aren’t enough. Screens are meant to stop insects, not children, so they are not a means of preventing falls. “When living in an apartment you need to understand the height of your apartment. You do not want children to have access to fall out of those windows,” Ziegler says. “So you must make sure you have a restrictor on [windows] so they will only open four inches, no more. You want to be able to make sure you can get a bit of fresh air, but the children are secured within.” Though there’s no substitute for parental supervision, parents
can’t keep a watchful eye 24/7. “Window and door alarms also alert parents quickly to potential dangers and are especially helpful during times when parents are sleeping,” Thibault recommends. “Avoid putting shelves or climbable furniture under windows.” Falling isn’t the only window-related danger for children. A study by the Center for Injury Research and Policy shows that nearly 17,000 children younger than 6 are hospitalized annually for injuries caused by window blinds, which can be a potential strangulation hazard. “Many blinds have got long cords,” Ziegler says. “Make sure you keep those well out of reach of children.” In order to prevent injury, replace traditional blinds with cordless blinds, or get a retrofitting kit that allows you to tie up cords in spaces that are out of reach of children. And don’t let renting inhibit your toddler proofing. “If you can’t screw things in because you’re renters, don’t do it. There are plenty of products that are adhesive, or work on handles that you can slide over,” according to Ziegler.
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Just like the bathroom, the kitchen is filled with potential hazards. As always, you’ll want to secure all cabinets and drawers with childproof latches, but that’s not all. “One of the things I try to encourage parents to do is actually do most of the cooking while the child is asleep so you haven’t got all of this buzzing activity, sharp knives, hot stoves, ovens, and everything at the same time,” Ziegler advises. Of course, on a busy day it’s not always convenient to wait until nighttime to prepare dinner or do the week’s meal prep. When waiting isn’t an option, try to cook on the back burners so children can’t reach up and grab anything. Additionally, “make sure you always turn [pots’ and pans’] handles inwards,” Ziegler says.
Heating System
We all know how cold it can get in New York when winter rolls around. However, radiators may be a potential hazard. “Parents with radiators can install covers that are both functional and fashionable,” Thibault says. These covers can prevent children from coming into direct contact and sustaining serious burns. Also begin educating your children about the risk of injury from burns. “Start teaching them the word ‘hot’ very early,” Ziegler advises. “You need to sound a little alarming when you say the word. You need to start instilling the understanding of hot. You don’t want them to be touching that hot radiator and getting that burn.” And though a nice hot bath may seem ideal after a day in the snow, keep your water heater set to lower than 120 degrees Fahrenheit. “A lot of water that comes out of your tap is very, very hot and a child can be scalded by it,” Ziegler warns. “Make sure that if there is a temperature gauge that you can vary, bring it down.” If you’re not sure if an area of your home is fully toddler proofed, you may need a change of perspective. “Check out your home from your toddler’s viewpoint,” Thibault advises. “What looks interesting but is potentially dangerous?” This could point out any aspects of child proofing you might have overlooked.
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Teen Milestones You Need to Know ›› This tumultuous time of life is full of firsts—here’s how to roll with some of your child’s big changes.
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t seems like only yesterday your child was a baby and you were cooing over his every breakthrough. From first smile to first laugh to first wobbly step, your days were filled with scrapbook-stuffers and Insta-worthy occasions. Guess what? As your child enters the teen years, she’ll be launching into a period of all-new milestones. No, they’re (mostly) not so cute—no need to pull out that scrapbook again!—but they are important signs that he’s growing up and branching out in healthy new ways. While children develop at their own pace, we asked leading experts to identify some of the leaps forward you might experience soon, and offer advice to help you cope with the challenges they may present.
Peer-Group Preference
Remember the good old days when your child wanted you to accompany her everywhere, and fought with her siblings and even your partner for the right to sit next to you at dinners out? Steel yourself: Your days at the top of the A-list may be numbered. “One [milestone] I think is common is shifting to your peer group instead of your family as a source of guidance and companionship,” says Rachel Annunziato, Ph.D., an associate professor of clinical psychology at Fordham University in the Bronx. “That can be hard for us as parents, but it can be a normal part of adolescent development,” Dr. Annunziato says. Teens “are being given more autonomy, and it’s a time when there’s more experimenting. It’s more of a chance to socialize on their own terms.” Your best response? Give your child some of the space he’s craving. “This is where they are working things out in a way that will be helpful before going into the college environment,” Dr. Annunziato explains. It doesn’t mean you have to retreat entirely— plan parent-kid activities scheduled around his other obligations. 36
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“I sometimes call it ‘calendaring backwards,’ where you set up the stuff that’s fixed and you can’t change in the calendar, and then put in the stuff that you want to prioritize,” says Mark Bertin, M.D., a developmental pediatrician in Pleasantville and author of How Children Thrive and Mindful Parenting for ADHD.
Social Calendar Commandeering
It can be a little distressing when your child’s social plans no longer include you. But if you’re at least consulted, you’re better off than many parents! That’s because the day may come when your kid makes plans for herself without asking your permission at all. (It may happen sooner in the city and in areas where there’s good public transportation.) In part, your child has become his own social director because he’s developing a better sense of time management. But for you it can be “very fear-inducing,” Dr. Annunziato says, especially if your child’s plans involve new friends you haven’t met yet. Your greatest ally, she says, is social media; thanks to it you may have more of an opportunity to get to know your kids’ friends’ parents, not to mention the friend herself. Alternatively, you can suggest the kids come over before going out. Don’t be afraid to nix a plan that seems unsafe or involves unsavory people, or a locale or return time that breaks family rules.
Extreme Embarrassment
Times were, you could be yourself around your child and his friends. Doing your victory dance at sports games will send her into a red-faced tizzy. And singing? Don’t even try. Why are you suddenly such a disgrace, no matter what you do? “That sense of being embarrassed by your parents is kind of exactly what you’d expect from teens. It’s because of the kind
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Your child’s been learning a lot in school, and from you, lately. “Maybe empathy for others is changing and increasing,” Dr. Annunziato says. “This is a time when moral reasoning really amps up and cognitively a lot is happening.” These changes may manifest themselves in strident ways: Your child could proclaim that meat is murder or argue with your politics heatedly. This is a positive transformation, Dr. Annunziato says. “It’s great to foster teens’ expression...to teach them how to respectfully disagree,” she explains. Acknowledge your teen’s opinions, and accommodate his wishes whenever possible without necessarily backing off of your viewpoints.
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No one’s saying your child didn’t plot out her future when she was younger. Perhaps she planned on being a rock star, but now her dreams may come down to earth and start taking on a more realistic slant—she may say she wants to become a physician or a mechanical engineer. Teens “begin to become more goal oriented,” Dr. Annunziato says. “I think that it’s something that I am seeing even younger, and it lasts into the college years.” As teens’ sense of time becomes refined and their cognitive skills develop, planning for the future seems more doable. “If someone is showing an interest in [their future], run with it, make sure their plans make sense, let them take the lead if they’re showing maturity in that way,” Dr. Bertin says. But not all kids will be laser-focused on their life after school, he cautions.” And don’t be disappointed if your child’s desire ultimately peters out: “A lot of us are a lot different in college than in high school... Things are going to keep changing,” he says—an apt description of the teen years.
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What is a 401K?
A 401K is an employer-sponsored program that allows eligible employees of a company to save and invest a percentage of their own salary for retirement without paying taxes on it, according to Rosanna Guardavaccaro, financial advisor with Strategies for Wealth in Rye Brook and The Guardian Life Insurance Company of America. This savings plan allows you to put away up to $18,500 each year. Only an employer can sponsor a 401K for its employees, and this includes if you work for yourself. 38
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If you are lucky enough to work for a company that offers a 401K, especially one that will make a matching contribution, Daniel D’Ordine, CPF, founder of DDO Advisory Services in Rhinebeck, suggests contributing at least the matching percentage, if it’s financially feasible for you to do so. For example, if your employer will make a matching contribution of up to 6 percent of your salary, you should contribute 6 percent of your salary. There are a handful of benefits to a 401K. “Contribution limits are so high that you can really lower your current income tax bill by taking money and putting it into your 401K,” D’Ordine says. If you live in a high tax area, this is especially valuable because you are lowering your tax bracket by contributing to your 401K. For example, if you pocket $12,000 of your paycheck, you will have to pay up to 40 percent of taxes on that amount. However, if you put that same $12,000 into your 401K, it’s tax-free money and you have the opportunity to have a portion of that matched by your company (aka free money). Another advantage is a 401K is ‘automated invisible savings,’ D’Ordine says. “Once you can adjust to this slight reduction in your paycheck, the savings are happening automatically,” he says. “You forget about it and it takes away the emotional component of saving.” Another great benefit of investing in a 401K is dollar-cost averaging, which means you are investing a fixed dollar amount on a regular schedule and any market fluctuations will not affect this investment, D’Ordine says. Should your salary or your financial situation change, you can change your investment contributions on a quarterly or yearly basis, depending on your company’s policy.
What is an IRA?
An IRA is a mini-federal retirement account you can set up on your own, without sponsorship from an employer, according to D’Ordine. An investment custodian, bank, mutual fund company, or advisor can help you set up a traditional or Roth IRA. With both IRAs, you can put away up to $5,500 each year, plus an additional $1,000 if you are older than 50. The difference between the two is in contributions. When you contribute to a traditional IRA, you can claim the contribution on your tax return. This means you will pay taxes on the money when you retire, Guardavaccaro says. But you might not get the full amount back in your refund. If your employer offers a retirement plan and your income exceeds certain levels, your deduction may be limited; if your employer doesn’t offer a plan, your deduction is allowed in full, according to the Internal Revenue Service. Roth IRA contributions are not tax-deductible, and you will receive that sum of money tax-free when you retire. If your modified adjusted gross income (the total income you report that is eligible to be taxed, minus some adjustments you can make) is more than $120,000 as a single or $189,000 as a couple, you may no longer qualify for an IRA. It’s best to consult your accountant or tax advisor if you think this may be the case.
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Determining which plan is best for you is easier than you may think. If your company will match any amount of your 401K contribution, D’Ordine suggests to do that. A matching contribution should be your number-one priority when determining how to invest for your future since it is a 100-percent return on investment. Many people believe 401Ks are not the most beneficial options due to fees and investment selections, however having access to one is actually a huge benefit of working for a company, D’Ordine says. “Put in enough to get your match, and if you don’t love the idea of solely investing in a 401K, invest in other stuff as well,” D’Ordine says. While most large companies offer 401K plans, some ‘mom and pop shop’ businesses may not, D’Ordine says. However, this doesn’t mean your boss doesn’t have a retirement plan in place. Some small business owners may put away money for employees in their own plan. Things get a little more jumbled when your company doesn’t match or doesn’t begin to match until after a few years of employment, or if your company doesn’t offer a 401K. At that point, look into an IRA. When opening an IRA, whether traditional or Roth, D’Ordine suggests working with an investment professional who can give you advice, as well as a CPA who can double check all of the numbers for you. It is important to know the difference between an investment shop, which can help you set up your plan, and someone who is in the business of giving tax advice because there is a huge tax component to investing for retirement, according to D’Ordine. An IRA is a great option for anyone, whether your company offers a 401K plan or not, so why not have both if you can afford it?
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Celebrate your child’s next birthday at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium! See the Hatchery & Aquarium’s exciting live exhibits. Feed the hungry trout and learn about fish, reptiles, and amphibians with an up-close animal encounter. GREAT STRIDES LONG ISLAND
41 Coram-Swezeytown Road, Middle Island 631-786-9708 greatstridesli.org julie@greatstridesli.org
Lasso some birthday fun at Great Strides Long Island. We offer a relaxed picnic atmosphere (indoor facility is available), farm animals, and a horse ride all for a reasonable price. Email julie@greatstridesli.org for more information. HUNTINGTON CENTER FOR PERFORMING ARTS
310 New York Ave., Huntington 631-271-4626 huntingtoncenteronline.com huntingtoncenter@yahoo.com
Make your child’s birthday a memorable and creative event with our dance-themed birthday parties. As a special treat, a guest artist will come in costume to perform for your guests! INTREPID SEA, AIR & SPACE MUSEUM
Pier 86, West 46th Street and Twelfth Avenue, Manhattan 646-381-5010 intrepidmuseum.org groupsales@intrepidmuseum.org
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LONG ISLAND AQUARIUM
431 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-208-9200 xH20 (426), 631-2089200 x125 longislandaquarium.com
Have your child’s birthday party at the Long Island Aquarium. Party options include a choice of private rooms, select food items, and an ice cream cake. All parties get a guided tour, special seating at the Sea Lion Show, and rides on the submarine simulator! LONG ISLAND SCIENCE CENTER
21 N. Country Road, Rocky Point 631-208-8000 sciencecenterli.org office@sciencecenterli.org
Give your future coder, game scientist, robotics engineer, and designer an “edutainment” experience that they will never forget with one of our specially customized STEM Birthday Parties. MY GYM CHILDREN’S FITNESS CENTER
1320 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook 631-751-KIDS (5437) mgym.com/stonybrook 128 W. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington Station 631-427-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/huntingtonstation My Gym parties include exclusive use of the gym, including a zip line, rock wall, trampoline, trapeze, climbing structures, and slides. Instructors lead your guests through action-packed activities of your choice from Gazillion Bubbles to sports, with multiple theme options.
NASTICS A TOTAL GYMNASTICS EXPERIENCE
Celebrate your child’s birthday with a one-of-a-kind party! The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum will captivate groups of all ages and interests. Choose from exciting themes, value packages, and customization options to create a birthday adventure they’ll remember forever!
921-1 Lincoln Ave., Holbrook 631-567-0066 nasticsnextgen.com
ISLAND CINEMAS
NOT JUST ART
1708 Montauk Highway, Mastic 631-657-3198 island-cinemas.com sales@island-cinemas.com
Dear Mom and Dad, be the greatest parent around. Have your child’s birthday party at the movies! Call or visit our website today island-cinemas.com. KEY TO MY ART, INC.
10 W. Oak St., Amityville 131 Main St., East Rockaway 877-539-2278 keytomyart.com
At Key to My Art, our children’s paint parties include all supplies from aprons to easels. The guest of honor picks the theme, we provide the instruction, and each guest leaves with a finished painting!
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Nastics birthday parties include quality gymnastics instruction, exciting games, and the unforgettable experience on our trapeze, 40-foot tumble track, and Trampoline.
183 South St., Oyster Bay 516-922-8300 notjustart.com create@notjustart.com
Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and beyond. Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard. PICASSO KIDZ, CREATIVE ART STUDIO FOR CHILDREN
72 Broadway, Greenlawn 631-261-5500 picassokidz.com picassokidzart@gmail.com
Picasso Kidz puts the “ART” in pARTy! Birthdays at Picasso Kidz are truly unique and memorable. We have many packages
and options to choose from for ages 2-17. SAFARI ADVENTURE
1074 Pulaski St., Riverhead 631-727-4386 thesafariadventure.com dan@thesafariadventure.com
Safari Adventure is Long’s Island’s premier family fun center and birthday party place. Fun for the whole family with inflatables, four-level soft playground, arcade, interactive floor games, and a full café! SKY ZONE TRAMPOLINE PARK-DEER PARK
111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park 631-392-2600 skyzone.com/deerpark deerparkinfo@skyzone.com
The best birthday parties are at Sky Zone, Deer Park. We customize every birthday party. We have themed parties and super hero parties that include dodgeball, Foam Zone, Sky Slam, and endless jumping opportunities! SPIN DJ ACADEMY
202 Merrick Road, 2nd floor, Rockville Centre 16 Broadway, Amityville 631-608-8858 spindjacademy.com
Customize your own DJ dance party with songs and instruments your child loves. Then head to our playspace for play and pizza! STUDIO E ART CLASSES
565 Route 25A, Miller Place 631-744-4001 studioeartclass.com/parties
Studio E Art Classes offers two economical party options! “The Bash” Starting at only $290 and “The Extravaganza” starting at only $420! View details at studioeartclass.com/parties. TAS NEW YORK – THEORY OF ARTS AND SCIENCES
153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1-888-827-8188 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park tasnewyork.com
The Theory of Arts & Sciences (TAS) birthday packages include all you need for a two-hour guided paint or arts and crafts party. We also offer special add-ons including face painting, henna, and custom invitations. THOMAS SCHOOL OF HORSEMANSHIP RIDING ACADEMY
250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com tsh@tshcamp.com
Birthday parties, scout parties, and class trips are always a blast at the Thomas School of Horsemanship. For groups of 14-18 children. They receive one hour of riding time.
OPEN HOUSES 2018 Catholic Elementary Schools of Long Island Diocese of Rockville Centre
Multiple locations 516-678-5800 licatholicelementaryschools.org Early Childhood Education Open Houses run from Sunday, Oct. 21-Saturday, Oct. 26 at a Catholic Elementary School in your neighborhood. Classes begin at age 3 in our safe and loving environment.
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Friends Academy
270 Duck Pond Road, Locust Valley 516-676-0393 fa.org Join us for an open house Monday, Nov. 5 (Middle School), Tuesday, Nov. 6 (Upper School), and Thursday, Nov. 8 (Lower School).
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Long Island School For The Gifted
165 Pidgeon Hill Road, Huntington Station 631-423-3557 lisg.org info@lisg.org Learn about LISG, a private school for academically gifted children in grades pre-K through ninth. Meet LISG administrators and teachers who will explain our accelerated program and admissions criteria.
Long Island Whole Child Academy School for Twice Exceptional Learning
175 Wolf Hill Road, Melville 347-668-3676 liwholechild.org info@liwholechild.org Visit LIWCA to meet with our director, tour our facility, and learn more about our school for the twice exceptional learner. Call us to register for our October open house.
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Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com VEG is an academic enrichment program for gifted students in preschool through 12th grade. Register for an October demo class, followed by a facility tour and an evaluation with our director.
Winston Preparatory School
30 Deforest Road, Dix Hills 212-719-5598 x2213 winstonprep.edu/our-campuses/li liadmissions@winstonprep.edu Register for an open house to learn about our educational philosophy and participate in a Q-and-A session. Thursdays, Oct. 11 and 25 at 9:15 am.
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Your local guide to tutors, teachers, lawyers, financial planners, and other professionals. DENTISTS & DENTAL PROVIDERS CUMMINGS FAMILY DENTAL
42 High St., Huntington 631-425-1650 cummingsfamilydentistry.com cummingsfamilydentistry@aol.com At Cummings Family Dentistry, we believe that dentist and patient become a team. We spend time listening to your concerns and responding with the best treatment options for you.
NORTH SHORE ORTHODONTICS
50 Route 111, Suite 214, Smithtown 631-265-3435 nsorthodontics.com Dr. Craig Smith and his team at North Shore Orthodontics offer a variety of orthodontic services, including American Orthodontics Mini Brackets, Invisalign®, Invisalign Teen™, A.O. Radiance translucent brackets, and teeth whitening.
SUFFOLK PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY
8 Medical Drive, Port Jefferson Station 631-928-8585 6144 Route 25 A, Suite D20, Wading River 631-929-7575 750 Roanoke Ave., Riverhead 631-727-8585 suffolkpediatricdentistry.com infoportjeff@suffolkpediatricdentistry.com For 40 years, we have provided dental care that’s friendly, gentle, and compassionate. We provide preventive and comprehensive treatment for infants, children, and adolescents including sedation and general anesthesia dentistry. We strive to help our patients develop good oral hygiene habits, and beautiful healthy smiles.
DOCTORS & MEDICAL PROVIDERS LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY
Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858; Nassau: 516-216-1791; Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.
PEDIATRIC IMMEDIATE CARE
150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337)
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698 Manhattan Ave., Brooklyn 718-389-PEDS (7337) pediatricimmediatecare.com Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-of-the-art medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kid-friendly; walk-ins welcome; most insurance plans accepted.
STONY BROOK CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL PEDIATRIC VOIDING IMPROVEMENT PROGRAM (VIP) 24 Research Way, East Setauket 631-444-6270 A comprehensive program for children and teens with bed-wetting and other urinary and bowel issues. Our experts offer innovative, age-appropriate solutions along with compassionate care.
EDUCATIONAL CONSULTANTS ACT AS IF ETIQUETTE & PROTOCOL 718 Walt Whitman Road, Melville 561-889-4464 actasifetiquette.com
Offering fun, informative, engaging classes for children, teens, and young adults, with the content geared toward modern manners for modern times. Serving scout troops, libraries, after-school programs, camps, groups, and individuals.
YOUR JOURNEY TO COLLEGE Jeanmarie Wilson school counselor, Your Journey To College consultant and author, and Karen Schmalz 631-834-9503 yourjourneytocollege.com; parentingfromyoursoul.com yourjourneytocollege.blogspot.com/p/testimonials.html jwilson@yourjourneytocollege.com Your Journey to College: find the right fit! College search, applications, essay, resume, and scholarships. Join our College Application Boot Camp Program for summer or fall. Book a session. Do it right. Get it done!
FINANCIAL PLANNING & INSURANCE LINDA SPRINGER, INVESTMENT ADVISER REPRESENTATIVE WITH PRIMERICA ADVISORS 1600 Expressway Drive S., Hauppauge 631-235-1749 cell; 631-361-6271 office primerica.com/lindaspringer linda.springer@primerica.com
Linda Springer, an investment adviser representative with Primerica Advisors has proudly served the community in financial literacy education,team training, and development for more than 20 years. Contact us at 631-235-1749 (cell) or 631-361-6271(office).
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FOOD & NUTRITION LITTLE VICKY’S
631-338-1722 littlevickys.com littlevickys@yahoo.com Little Vicky’s products are small batched with only the finest, natural ingredients. Real food, no junk. Products include honey butter, garlic honey, and honey lemonade sold at all Best Markets throughout Long Island and select Stop & Shops.
FOSTER CARE & ADOPTION BERKSHIRE FARM CENTER AND SERVICES FOR YOUTH 535 Broad Hollow Road, Suite B30, Melville 631-420-4444 berkshirefarm.org Berkshire Farm Center & Services for Youth helps children find safety and comfort in the homes of foster parents. Become a foster parent and give the gift of family!
LEGAL SERVICES ANDREW COHEN, ESQ., LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW M. COHEN
250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen can help you achieve your objectives through careful special needs legal planning, regardless of the size of your estate. All clients are provided with high quality service at a reasonable cost.
LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C.
534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law.
LICE FAIRY LICEMOTHERS
2463 S. Long Beach Road, Oceanside 866-561-0492 1755 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 866-561-0492 679 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Head 866-561-0492 fairylicemothers.com fairylicemothers@gmail.com Our treatment centers are kid-friendly and our products are
100-percent non-toxic. Treatments include two free re-checks. Whether or not you use our service, we are here to help you.
LICE TAMERS, INC.
900 Walt Whitman Road, Suite LL2, Melville 877-237-LICE (5423) licetamers.com licetamers@gmail.com Lice Tamers offers same-day lice treatment and head checks at our comfortable, child-friendly treatment center or in the comfort of your home. All of our products are safe and non-toxic.
SPECIAL NEEDS ALTERNATIVES FOR CHILDREN
1116 Main Road, Aquebogue 631-722-2170 600 S. Service Road, Dix Hills 631-271-0777 14 Research Way, East Setauket 631-331-6400 168 Hill St., Southampton 631-283-3272 alternatives4children.org Licensed daycare, and EI/Preschool Special Education evaluations provider for eligible children. Early childhood professionals create a natural learning environment, promoting a child’s cognitive, social, and emotional development.
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LIFE’S WORC THE FAMILY CENTER FOR AUTISM
1501 Franklin Ave., Garden City 516-741-9000 familycenterforautism.org mreno@lifesworc.org The Family Center for Autism provides services and support for people with autism and their families. Programs include insurance services, birthday parties, art, music, sports and culinary classes, camps, parent and sibling programs, social events, vocational programs, and behavior intervention.
LITTLE OPTICS, INC.
192-07 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 53-15 Roosevelt Ave., Woodside 718-468-7500 Hablamos Español. littleopticsinc@yahoo.com We provide eyeglasses and professional eye care for children, including infants, and young adults. We also alleviate any self-esteem issues associated with the stigma of wearing glasses. When your child leaves Little Optics, rest assured that they will feel confident.
LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858; Nassau: 516-2161791; Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.
250 West 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen can LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, help you achieve your objectives through P.L.L.C. careful special needs legal planning, regard534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, parents make better decisions less of the size of yourHelping estate. All clients Melville are provided with high quality service at a 631-379-9569 Be Social reasonable cost. specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com DR. STEVE IMBER, Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial PSYCHOEDUCATIONAL attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with CONSULTANTS special needs. He knows how far to push a Serving Nassau and Suffolk counties as school district to obtain the maximum that well as the five boroughs of NYC your child is entitled to under law. 61-43 186th St., Fresh Meadows
THERAPY & COUNSELORS EYE LEVEL SUFFOLK
myeyelevel.com Eye Level offers math and English programs for ages 3-14. Whether the immediate goal is for early learning, remedial education, or academic advancement, Eye Level is the answer.
ST. PATRICK YOUTH COMMUNITYST. PATRICK TUTORING CENTER
sylvanlearning.com sylvanlearning@optonline.net Sylvan of Huntington offers personalized tutoring programs in reading, writing, mathematics, SAT and ACT prep. Sylvan will help identify the right program for your child and exactly where your child needs to start to get the best results.
TAS NEW YORK – THEORY OF ARTS AND SCIENCES
St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick Tutoring Center is here to assist your learner from grades kindergarten to 12th with Catholic Entrance Exam Prep, SAT, Regents, or daily schoolwork.
153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 1-888-827-8188 tasnewyork.com Here education matters. The No. 1 learning center in New York. We offer after-school programs, private and group tutoring, kids and adult art classes, computer coding, SAT and ACT prep, Create and Meditate sessions, and summer camp!
ST. PATRICK YOUTH COMMUNITYYOUTH ENRICHMENT LEARNING CENTER
VILLAGE EAST GIFTED ENRICHMENT CENTER FOR THE GIFTED LEARNER
St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick Youth Enrichment and Learning Center provides programs for your child ages 1½ years–sixth grade. A faith-based program offers a loving, caring environment.
SYLVAN LEARNING CENTER OF HUNTINGTON
1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600
Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted provides after-school enrichment and private tutoring for gifted and talented students. We are a designated John Hopkins CTY and SAT testing center.
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516-273-1961 Sprout Building 166 Valley St., Providence, RI 401-421-4004 dr-imber.com scimber1@aol.com Dr. Imber has more than 40 years of experience consulting, evaluating, and advocating for children, adolescents, and adults with various disabilities including autism (e.g. Asperger’s syndrome), attention deficit disorders, intellectual disabilities, emotional and behavioral disorders, and learning disabilities.
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THERAPY & COUNSELORS AVIVA CHANSKY GUTTMANN, L.M.S.W., CERTIFIED IMAGO RELATIONSHIP THERAPIST
631-885-4375 avivachanskyguttmann.com helpconnectingus@gmail.com Aviva Chansky Guttmann is a certified Imago Relationship Therapist offering home-based therapy for couples, partners, and families. Flexible scheduling and large travel radius.
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Health Care Professional Cummings Family Dental 42 High St., Huntington 631-425-1650 cummingsfamilydentistry.com cummingsfamilydentistry@aol.com
Dr. Cummings believes that a dentist and patient become a team for treating an individual’s dental needs. She spends time listening to understand your concerns and responds with the best treatment options for you. She received her degree from Howard University College of Dentistry and her postdoctoral training from University Hospital Stony Brook. Dr. Cummings is trained and experienced in providing dental care for patients with special needs, as well as complete dental care for the entire family. There’s a story behind every smile-we’d like to be part of yours!
Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 • Nassau: 516-216-1791 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES—Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. Seven affiliated offices across Long Island participate with most health insurance and offer evening and Saturday hours.
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Building Blocks Developmental Preschool 29 Pinewood Drive, Commack 631-499-1237 bbdps.com
Donna M. Charbonneau is the executive director of Building Blocks Developmental Preschool. BBDPS offers a range of programs and services to children from infancy through age 5. Currently staffed with more than 100 teachers, therapists, and paraprofessionals, including registered nurses as well as psychologists, speech and language pathologists, occupational therapists, a physical therapist, and a developmental pediatrician. Early Intervention services are provided for children under the age of 3, who have developmental delays. Building Blocks Developmental Preschool continues to ensure delivery of the highest quality educational services to all students.
Pediatric Immediate Care 150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337) 698 Manhattan Ave., Brooklyn 718-389-PEDS (7337) pediatricimmediatecare.com
Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-ofthe-art medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kid-friendly; walk-ins welcome; most insurance plans accepted. Complete pediatric and adolescent care, as well as baby, camp, school, and sports physicals. Certified urgent care recommended by Urgent Care Association of America. Thirty years of dedication to our patients. The offices are open seven days a week including holidays, 8am-11pm.
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What do you think your kids will be for Halloween? “My six-year-old son, Dillon, and four-year-old son, Reed, can’t get enough of Star Wars. My husband and I are trying to influence them to dress up as a member of the Resistance, but it is looking more likely that Dillon will be a Tusken Raider and Reed will be Darth Vader!” —Felicia Soler, Westchester County
“My five-year-old daughter is obsessed with Cookie Monster (second year in a row), so she will probably wear that costume again. My seven-year-old son is thinking of being a character from his favorite video game, Fortnite.” —Karen Ann, Rockland County
“Last year, for my daughter’s first Halloween, she was a peapod. This year I was thinking some kind of a woodland animal like a fox or a raccoon. I asked my three-year-old niece what Baby Gigi should be and she said a witch. When I said I wasn’t sure about that one, she said a pumpkin without hesitation. So a pumpkin it is!” —Amy Elliott, Brooklyn
“My daughter is four and she wants to be a fairy.” —Cathy Como-Marcotrigiano, Queens
“A giraffe. We already have the costume because I was so excited.” —Leslie Brachfeld Sanchez, Manhattan
Ultimately, my goal is for my girls to know that their ideas and creations are loved and valued. Whether it be a drawing, a dance move, a song they made up, or a funny-looking batch of peanut butter cookies. — Ilana Wiles, in a post entitled “Encouraging Creativity and Confidence in My Girls” on mommyshorts.com
“Stop putting kids first. Imagine a relationship that centers on the two of you, and all the stability and care your kids will take from that. Accept that a truly wonderful relationship only multiplies the love available to your kids— not robs them of some of yours. Because in those families, there is all the more love to go around.” — Emma Johnson, in a post entitled “Why Single Parents Should Put Their Kids Second When Dating” on wealthysinglemommy.com
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“Since my one-year-old son loves airplanes, he will most likely be dressed as a pilot. My daughter? Definitely Peppa Pig! She loves everything Peppa, especially ‘Princess Peppa.’” —Vanessa Gordon, Suffolk County
“Seriously, any Fortnite character.” —Chrissy MonteMastro, Nassau County
YOU SNOOZE OR YOU LOSE “Anyone with a toddler who woke up a little too early, stayed up a little too late, or missed a nap knows the dreaded consequences: whines that escalate into ear-shattering screams that make you want to run away and join the circus — if that were an option. One simpler remedy is adequate sleep. In about a third of all-cases, sleep-deprived behavior is often misdiagnosed as ADHD.” —Rebecca Kempton, JD, in an article entitled “10 Ways Good Sleep Habits Make Kids Smarter, Happier, and Healthier.” Read the whole story at nymetroparents.com/sleep-habits.
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Early Childhood Education Week • October 21-27
Give your children a leg up, with Early Childhood Education. You want to give them a safe, loving environment. With structure and discipline. Not just day care, but a real school with certified teachers. A school that supports working Moms (and Dads), with before and after care—and gives students as young as three years old the fundamental skills they need to develop a lifetime love of learning. Of course, choosing a Catholic education gives them much more than an educational advantage. It also helps them understand their purpose in life and their obligations to others, reinforcing the values you live at home. Isn’t that what you want for your children? To learn more about why Catholic Elementary School is a better place to start, and to find a school near you, visit us online at www.LICatholicElementarySchools.org or call 516-678-5800 x 258.