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11 16 family health

12 Processed Foods 101 14 Health & Wellness Directory

5 Ways to Instill Gratitude in Children

How to encourage your kids to show their thanks all year long, not just during this season of giving

Sensory-Friendly Theater in NYC

A roundup of inclusive performances in New York City for children with special needs

Speed-Clean Your House

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 9 The Quiet Child 11 5 Ways to Instill Gratitude in Children 32 Kids & Politics 34 Out and About with Baby 41 Open Houses 42 Party Central 43 Preschool Directory 44 Meet the Doctor 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 Quotables

10 String of Stalactites

36 Stay Safe While Shopping Online

16 Sensory-Friendly Theater in NYC

38 Speed-Clean Your House

18 Activities to be Thankful For 20 Family Fun in Manhattan 21 Family Activities Calendar

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EDITORIAL DIRECTOR: Katelin Walling ASSISTANT EDITORS: Anja Webb, Melissa Wickes DIRECTOR OF CONTENT: Deborah Skolnik

Giving Thanks A

hh, fall. The delightfully crisp weather before Old Man Winter rolls in, the start of the NHL season, and pumpkin spice everything (is my millennial showing?) makes it my favorite time of year. Let me take a minute to introduce myself: I’m NYMetroParents’ new editorial director, though you may recognize my name, as I’ve been with Suffolk Parent for almost seven years now. While Deborah Skolnik will return with her editor’s letter next month, I wanted to take advantage of this season of showing gratitude to share what I’m thankful for. First and foremost, I’m thankful for my health; I’ll bet most of you are as well. While I try to eat a well-balanced diet, I’ll inevitably grab a granola bar as a snack on the go. Usually I end up thinking I should have chosen an apple instead of a processed treat, but Emma Steven’s article “Processed Foods 101” on pg. 12 tempered my food guilt. She spoke to nutrition experts to get the low down on processed foods and how you can cut back the amount of it your family eats. I’m also thankful for my best friend who is more like a sister. She’s planning to come stay with me for Thanksgiving, which I’m very much looking forward to. What I’m not looking forward to? Cleaning my apartment before her arrival. That’s why I’m going to take the advice given in Deborah Skolnik’s “Speed-Clean Your House” (pg. 38), in which professional cleaners give pointers on the areas you should tackle in your home first for minimal effort but maximal results. (As someone who isn’t fond of cleaning, I’m also thankful for these tips.) Family is another thing for which I’m thankful. I have seven nieces and nephews, with one on the way, so I’ll be taking a look at “Out and About with Baby” (pg. 34) for some ideas on what to get the expecting parents in my life. And I know these products are good because local parents recommend their favorite gear to make a day out with the kids as smooth as possible. I learned that I should express my gratitude to those I’m thankful for in Melissa Wickes’s “5 Ways to Instill Gratitude in Children” (pg. 11), so, dear readers, please know that I’m especially thankful for you. Happy Thanksgiving!

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Trampoline Park in Deer Park Adds Attraction Who: Sky Zone Deer Park What’s New: A three lane Warped Wall, which is slated to arrive in December. Sky Zone Deer Park will be the only trampoline park on Long Island with a three lane Warped Wall. It is the kind of attraction that you see on the Ninja Warrior competitions, except it has three lanes to accommodate all levels of ability, says Anthony Grassa, general manager of Sky Zone Deer Park. The trampoline facility also offers Fortnite parties and competitions, other themed birthday parties, dodgeball, Sky Slam and a foam pit, and toddler time. In addition, Sky Zone hosts programs for people with special needs. Want More Info: 111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park; 631-392-2600; skyzone.com/deerpark

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Who: Thomas School of Horsemanship What’s New: Intro to Horses course and Equine Studies School Days Off Camp, which both began in October. The class is for children who are interested in horses but might not have had the opportunity to interact with them before. It aims to serve as an introduction to horses and focuses on proper care and ways to remain safe around the animal. The class is a series of four non-ride lessons for $60, available in four different levels with topics ranging from horse safety to grooming and feeding. As the child progresses, the subjects become more complicated such as equine health and veterinary care. The school will host the Equine Studies camp any time school is closed, except major holidays. Campers will ride twice a day and cover various topics in horsemanship. Want More Info: 250 Round Swamp Road, Melville; 631-6926840; tshcamp.com

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The Quiet Child ››

How learning what to listen for helped me hear my daughter’s voice

braced myself for our third grade parent-teacher interview. By this time, I had come to expect the usual comments from teachers and other adults who came into contact with my daughter. “We wish she would speak up more,” or the slightly accusatory, “We’re wondering if there’s a reason she’s so quiet?” or the cheerier, “We want to get to know your daughter better!” Sometimes well-meaning people try to connect with her, (and use the word I’ve come to strongly dislike), “I was shy like you too, when I was young.” Since my daughter has been very little, I’ve been perplexed by the assessment made by many of the (again, wellintentioned) adults she encounters. Though in my gut I’ve always known she was fine just the way she is, there was something about her entering school—her first large group setting—that started making me second-guess everything. My 3am spiral went something like this: Would she actually “grow” out of this? (There was usually an implication that she would, that she should, mature beyond this, that it was at worst some sort of inadequacy, and at best just a phase of growing up.) Maybe she wasn’t comfortable at her current school? Maybe she should be in another environment where the classes were smaller and she received more individual attention, which in turn would make her feel more at ease, which in turn would make her speak out more, which in turn would make her more accepted by her teachers and peers, which in turn would make her life easier? Obviously, this got me nowhere. Then I picked up Susan Cain’s brilliant book, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking. Although I thought I knew a lot of what the author wrote about already, the way she broke everything down was a

By Rosalind Muggeridge

revelation for me. The gist of the book is so-called quiet people (those with introverted tendencies) have calmly gotten down to the business of accomplishing a lot of the real work done in the world: inventions, scientific breakthroughs, brilliant novels, etc. In other words, introversion isn’t a shortcoming that needs to be overcome; it’s simply a type of personality that lends itself to different pursuits—some really useful ones as it happens. The problem is not with people who fall into that category, but with the world we live in that seems to reward and most value the loudest voices in the room. Now when I’m met with the usual comments about how quiet my daughter is, I try to honor her character without being defensive. I try to emphasize her strengths: She flourishes in very small group settings and loves individual work. I also try to check in now and then to make sure her environment isn’t causing her to withhold at all. Beyond that, I try not to stress. Now that she and I both have the language and tools to better frame her character, we can do our best to ignore any expectations about how outspoken she needs to be. I can get out of her way, and she can get on with whatever contribution she chooses to make to the world. It’s the most important lesson I’ve learned as a parent (and one I evidently need to learn over and over): Following your child’s lead is usually the smoothest and happiest way toward growth and development. Obviously, that doesn’t mean feeding her chocolate cake for breakfast when she asks for it or buying her every random can of slime she wants. For me it means learning to stay quiet for a moment, take a beat, and let my kid not do the talking.

Rosalind Muggeridge lives in Prospect Heights, Brooklyn with her husband and two children.

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String of Stalactites With the kids home from school for a few days at Thanksgiving, why not take the time to do some hands-on learning? Consider making a craft that gives you and your child an opportunity to spend time exploring science and creating together, an experience you’re both sure to be thankful for. Get ready for some parent-child quality time with this DIY experiment from Jonathan Adolph’s “Mason Jar Science!” Grow some underground décor for your kid cave. You think growing bigger takes a long time? Try being a stalactite. Those drippy columns you see in caves grow just a few inches every thousand years! You can observe how they do it by growing your very own string of stalactite crystals. The best part is, it won’t take a thousand years! (More like a week.) Set up your experiment where no one will touch it, check your drip bowl every day, and watch what happens. Materials 2 pint-size mason jars Piece of yarn, about 4 feet long Scissors 2 bendy straws Skewer or pipe cleaner

Hot tap water Baking soda, about ½ cup Spoon or other stirrer Food coloring (optional) Bowl for drips

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them. Remember: The crystals are very delicate and will fall easily if jostled, so set up your experiment in a place where you can leave it for several days. 4. S oak the yarn in the solution, making sure it’s wet all the way through the straws. Hang it between the jars using the elbows to hold it in place as shown. The ends of the yarn must be in the solution and the center of the yarn must be lower than the level of the solution in the jars, forming a drip point. What to Watch For The solution should start dripping into the bowl right away. You’ll begin to see crystals form after a day or so. Over the next few days, observe how much they grow. When the bowl gets full, carefully pour the solution back into the jars. What’s Going On Baking soda, or sodium bicarbonate, is a crystal, meaning it forms in a distinctive shape. As the solution of dissolved baking soda moves through the yarn, thanks to capillary action, the water evaporates, forcing the baking soda to form again as a solid, a process called crystallization. Speak Like a Scientist Here’s a handy way to tell your stalactites from your stalagmites: stalaCtites hang down from the C-eiling while stalaGmites rise up from the G-round. Science in Real Life Real stalactites are created through a similar process. In certain caves, water flows through soft rock, such as limestone, and carries away dissolved minerals. As the mineralized water drips from the ceiling it creates an icicle-like column of minerals and crystals. The world’s largest stalactite is more than 25 feet long!

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5 Ways to Instill Gratitude in Children ››

By Melissa Wickes

ovember is a time when we tend to think about gratitude; your family is likely familiar with the ‘what are you thankful for’ exercise at the Thanksgiving dinner table. But it is vital to instill the importance of gratitude in your children year-round. Alan Daniel Schlechter, M.D., clinical assistant professor at the department of child and adolescent psychiatry at NYU Langone Health, director of outpatient child and adolescent psychiatry at Bellevue Hospital, and instructor of the course The Science of Happiness at New York University shares five ways you can instill gratitude in your children.

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Model being grateful. As is the case with most traits you want to instill in your children, the best way to do so is by modeling this behavior. Dr. Schlechter, co-author of U Thrive: How to Succeed in College (and Life), emphasizes the importance of taking the time to thank the people around you. “Thank [your] waiter... Write handwritten thank-you notes instead of emails to make sure your kids see you doing it,” he suggests. Play Best, Best, Worst. At Dr. Schlechter’s dinner table, everyone in the family says their two best moments of the day and their one worst. What makes this exercise unique in his house, though, is each family member also states a time someone helped them. “Sometimes the best parts of your day can be when someone else supported you,” Dr. Schlechter says. “If the best part of your child’s day was scoring a goal in soccer, ask ‘who helped you score that goal?’” Write gratitude letters and journals. Jotting down the things you’re grateful for increases your well-being, according to Dr. Schlechter. So try keeping a family gratitude journal in which each member writes down what they are thankful for. Or encourage your kids to write gratitude letters to those they are thankful for (and let them see you do this, too). Point out examples of gratitude. When you’re reading, watching TV, or just going about your everyday life, point out people who do a great job of expressing gratitude to those around them, Dr. Schlechter suggests. Ask how it makes them feel. Many people get into the habit of saying thank you because it’s the right thing to do. But expressing gratitude toward someone makes you feel happy, and that should be the reason to do it, Dr. Schlechter says. “What you want to do with all of these exercises is make sure that it makes [your children] feel good and that they know it makes them feel good,” he says. Feeling happy when you’re giving gratitude encourages you to keep doing it.

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Experts say it’s okay to eat some processed foods, but the bulk of your diet should consist of whole foods.

Processed Foods 101

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We spoke to nutrition experts to get the skinny on processed foods and your kids’ health, so you can make smart choices in the grocery store. By Emma Steven

or parents today there is an overwhelming amount of information available on what we should and should not be eating. The everyday job of grocery shopping or planning meals for our families is a maze of choices. One food group we hear a lot about is processed foods, but what exactly are they and why are they bad for us? First, let’s clear things up. Processed foods are defined as any foods that have been changed before they reach the consumer, according to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics. Unless you grow and raise all of your own food, this means almost everything. “All foods undergo some level of processing. The level falls on something of a spectrum, from minimally processed to more heavily processed,” says Malina Malkani M.S., R.D., C.D.N., registered dietician nutritionist and spokesperson for AND. “To call all processing unhealthy is a bit of a misnomer.” Processed foods typically fall into 1 of 5 categories: • Minimally processed: prepared fruits and vegetables, bagged salads, nuts, and coffee • Processed to preserve freshness at harvest: canned food, frozen fruits and vegetables, and jarred purees • Packaged foods with added ingredients to improve vitamin content, taste, color, texture, and shelf life: rice, jarred tomato sauce, and boxed pasta and mashed potatoes • Ready-to-eat foods: soda, cereal, snack foods, deli meats, yogurt, and ice cream • Pre-made meals: toaster pastries, microwave meals, and frozen pizza

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The healthiest foods are whole foods and those on the minimally processed end of the scale. The unhealthiest are the hyper- or ultra-processed foods, which are “foods that really don’t resemble their original state and have a lot of ingredients, a lot of additives,” says Sally Kuzemchak, M.S., R.D., author of The 101 Healthiest Foods for Kids and founder of RealMomNutrition.com.

Low in Nutrients, High in “Bad” Stuff

A high intake of ultra-processed foods has been linked in studies to obesity, diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease, and cancer, according to BMJ Open, American Institute for Cancer Research, and National Institutes of Health. “The more heavily processed foods tend to be higher in the nutrients that we want to limit, namely added sugars, sodium, saturated fat, and artificial trans fat,” Malkani explains. “These, when eaten in large quantities over time, do lead to more detrimental health effects.” Yet because these foods are convenient and taste good, we eat a lot of them. A 2016 study published in BMJ Open revealed that ultra-processed foods make up more than half of Americans’ diets. The same study found that as we eat more of them, we consume fewer essential nutrients (protein, fiber, vitamins, and minerals) and more added sugar, salt, carbohydrates, and saturated and trans fats overall. Because they contain very little protein, fiber, and whole grains, ultra-processed foods can be unsatisfying. This means you eat more than you should, and are more likely to go over the recommended daily allowance of salt, sugar, and saturated and trans fats.

The Hidden Additives

In July 2018, the American Academy of Pediatrics made a statement warning of the dangers to children of chemicals from additives, colorings, preservatives, and packaging of many processed foods. These include artificial colors in foods, preservative nitrates (found in processed meats), and BPA, phthalates, PFCs, and perchlorate in packaging. “There are critical weaknesses in the current food additives regulatory process, which doesn’t do enough to ensure all chemicals added to foods are safe enough to be part of a family’s diet,” said Leonardo Trasande, M.D., M.P.P., F.A.A.P. “As pediatricians, we’re especially concerned about significant gaps in data about the health effects of many of these chemicals on infants and children.”

Small Steps, Big Impact

Experts suggest doing the following to reduce the amount of processed foods you and your children eat: Choose the products with the fewest ingredients. “The lower the amount of ingredients, usually the better,” says Natalie Monson, R.D.N., C.D., registered dietitian and co-founder of Super Healthy Kids. Anything with a long list of ingredients you cannot pronounce means it’s ultra processed. Pick whole grains. Even if the front of the package says whole grain, check the ingredients for refined or enriched flours. These are white flours stripped of their nutritional value. Read the ingredients list. “Ingredients are listed in descending order by weight. If you look at the first three and they are white flour and sugar, then you know that these are going to predominantly make up the food,” Malkani says. Avoid artiﬁcial colorings. Studies have linked them to behavioral problems in some children. While the effects aren’t seen in all kids, there are plenty of natural options. Don’t eat processed meats, especially when pregnant. Unless marked nitrate-free, nitrates—a known carcinogen—are used as preservative. Check how much of the recommended 2,300mg of sodium a day a product contains. “The vast majority of our sodium comes from processed foods and restaurant foods, only ten percent comes from the salt shaker,” Kuzemchak says. “A quick tip is to compare grams of sodium and calories,” says Bridget Murphy, R.D.N., registered dietitian at Hassenfeld Children’s Hospital, NYU Langone. “If a food has more grams of sodium than calories, it’s probably very salty.” Beware trans fats, which are listed as hydrogenated or partially hydrogenated oils. Since the U.S. Food and Drug Administration announced in 2015 that trans fats were “not recognized as safe,” food companies are being forced to remove them. But it will be several years before all of the foods that contain those oils disappear from circulation. If a product has 0.5g of trans fat or less per serving, manufacturers can round down to zero, so it’s important to look at the ingredient list, not just the nutrition label. Look for added sugar. Government dietary guidelines recommend consuming no more than 10 percent of our daily calories from added sugars. There are many different names for sugar, including natural sounding ingredients such as honey and maple syrup. By 2021 manufacturers will have to list added sugars on labels to make it easier for us to identify them. To keep your daily consumption on track, a trick is to remember that 4 grams equals 1 teaspoon. Children should only be eating 6-11 teaspoons a day, depending on their age. A good rule? Choose processed foods that are higher in fiber and protein, and lower in sodium, sugar, and saturated fat, Malkani says.

Finding a Balance

If cutting out ultra-processed foods seems like a daunting task, don’t panic—it isn’t necessary to avoid them completely. “I don’t

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or families affected by autism or sensory sensitivities, going to see a show or theater production can seem impossible. The good news is many top venues in NYC are now trying to be more accessible and inclusive. We found the best autism- and sensory-friendly shows for the 2018-2019 season at New York City theaters and venues. The list includes Broadway shows, kids’ theater and music, the circus, and those famous blue men! Buy your tickets soon, as these shows tend to sell out.

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This nonprofit aims to bring the performing arts to everyone, regardless of their special needs. Its autism-friendly season of Broadway shows is now in its eighth year. Each show is performed in a fully supportive environment, with adaptions to noise and light where possible. Fully staffed quiet and play areas are provided in the lobby for anyone who needs to leave their seats. Tickets sell out quickly and can only be purchased via tdf.org/autism. Sign up early to get alerts when the tickets go on sale, at a discounted price of $55-$80. These are full-length Broadway shows, so may not be suitable for younger kids. FROZEN: the Musical When: Sunday, Nov. 4, 1pm Where: St. James Theatre, 246 W. 44th St., Times Square Theater District Ages: 8 and older What: The Broadway version of the Disney movie you know and love.

Aladdin When: Sunday, March 3, 2019, 1pm Where: The New Amsterdam Theatre, 14 W. 42nd St., Times Square Theater District Ages: 6 and older What: The award-winning show about a genie and a magical lamp (and other things).

Lerner and Loewe’s My Fair Lady When: Sunday, May 5, 2019, 1pm Where: The Vivian Beaumont Theater, 50 Lincoln Center Plaza, Upper West Side Ages: 8 and older What: A lavish revival of a beloved musical.

Autism Speaks

This nonprofit has partnered with two shows this fall to offer adapted productions. It also has a national calendar of autism-friendly events on its website (autismspeaks.org). Big Apple Circus When: Saturday, Oct. 27, 11am

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Where: Damrosch Park, 60 Lincoln Center Plaza, Upper West Side Ages: All What: The famous circus will come back to Lincoln Center! This show will feature modifications to sound and lighting, a calming/break out area, trained staff, fidgets, signage, and earplugs. Information about the show is available before you go. Tickets: $25 and up Blue Man Group When: Saturday, Nov. 3, 2pm Where: Astor Place Theatre, 434 Lafayette St., East Village Ages: 7 and older What: This version of the unique show will be calmer, with less audience interaction, and sound and light modifications. Earplugs and a calming zone in the lobby will be available. Tickets: $65.50, with $5 going to Autism Speaks

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One of the first venues to offer autism-friendly shows every season, this children’s theater offers lots of support to parents and kids. There are break out zones, trained staff, show information, family bathrooms, help with transitions, and fidget toys. Tickets: $25; visit newvictory.org or call 646-223-3010 for more information. 209 W. 42nd St., Times Square Theater District. Beauty and the Beast When: Sunday, Nov. 4, 11am Ages: 6 and older What: A re-telling of the familiar story with a Jazz Age score. Circus Abyssinia: Ethiopian Dreams When: Friday, Dec. 14, 7pm Ages: 5 and older What: The New Victory’s circus show is always a crowd pleaser. Emily Brown and The Thing When: Saturday, Jan. 26, 2019, 3pm Ages: 4-7 What: Musical adventure based on the much-loved book. Ajijaak on Turtle Island When: Saturday, March 2, 2019, 7pm

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There are a few shows on this venue’s schedule that are adapted for neuro-diverse audiences. Adjustments have been made to sensory stimuli, and there are no restrictions to sound, movement, leaving, or re-entering the theater. Tickets: $25; visit lincolncenter.org or call 212-721-6500 for more information; Clark Studio Theater, 165 W. 65th St., 7th Floor, Upper West Side. 9 When: Sunday, Nov. 4, 11am Ages: 6 and older What: The popular Quebecois dance company’s show about Beethoven’s Ninth Symphony.

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While you’re celebrating Thanksgiving, be someone else’s reason to give thanks by volunteering with the kids. And with the leaves finally changing, now is a perfect time to venture into the great outdoors and go leaf peeping with your family. On days when it’s a bit too chilly to hit the trails, round up the kids for an exciting evening of laser tag, an indoor activity that’s sure to beat any cabin fever boredom. However, if you’re on a budget, fear not! Check out our complete guide to finding when to visit a museum for free admission!

LEAF PEEPING Montauk Point Lighthouse Museum 2000 Montauk Highway, Montauk 631-668-2544; montauklighthouse.com Hours: Nov. 3-25, Saturday-Sunday, 10:30am-4pm. Admission: $11; $8 seniors; $5 children; $8 parking fee from 8am-4pm. Located on the eastern-most point of Long Island—it’s worth the drive out there, we promise!—the oldest lighthouse in the state offers stunning views of fall foliage from above. Explore the museum, which features an assortment of historical documents (including ones signed by Thomas Jefferson and George Washington), photographs, drawings, and the lighthouse’s old lens, which was removed when the lighthouse was automated in 1987. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/leaf-peeping

LASER TAG LazerLand of LI 54A Motor Parkway, Commack 631-543-8300; lazerlandofli.com Check out the 5,500-square-foot, multi-level laser tag facility that can hold up to 40 players. Players can choose from different game scenarios and strategic mirror placement and wall openings for sniping make it feel like the “real deal.” Open play is offered, be sure to check website for times. All skill levels are welcome, from novice to expert. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/laser-tag

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New York Hall of Science 47-01 111th St., Corona 718-699-0005; nysci.org Hours: Monday- Friday, 9:30am-5pm; Saturday and Sunday, 10am-6pm. Free admission on Fridays, 2-5pm and Sundays, 10-11am. Enjoy special events, the 3D Theater, and interactive, educational exhibits. Exhibits include The Hidden Mathematics, Winged Jewels of the Forest, and Animation Academy: From Pencils to Pixels.

Island Harvest 613-873-4775 x228; islandharvest.org Island Harvest works to end hunger and reduce food waste on Long Island. The organization offers opportunities for all ages to make a difference, including children involved in a school club, scout troop, or youth group. Kids and adults alike can help out at community fairs, food drives, and other special events. Groups can also organize their own “food raisers” or fundraisers with help from Island Harvest. One idea is to run a themed food drive through your group or in your neighborhood, with themes like “sandwich fixings,” or “holiday trimmings.”

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Celebrate 90 years of Mickey Mouse’s influence on art and pop culture in an immersive experience that explores the Disney icon’s status as an anything-but-mousy muse. The exhibit will feature historic and contemporary artwork, and highlight Mickey’s contributions to fashion, commerce, media, and beyond—one of the first pieces of Mickey merchandise, a wristwatch from the Ingersoll-Waterbury Company, was so popular it helped save the company from bankruptcy! See it and more at Mickey: The True Original Exhibition. Nov. 8-Feb. 10, 2019, Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-8pm. Age: All; no strollers. $38; free for children 3 and younger. 60 Tenth Ave., Chelsea. disney.com.

Macy’s Great American Marching Band is comprised of the country’s finest highschool musicians, accompanied by nearly 40 flags and dancers.

The Ultimate Turkey Trot

Everyone’s favorite Thanksgiving tradition is back! The 92nd Annual Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade promises its awe-inspiring classic balloons—Charlie Brown, the Macy’s Stars, and more—plus marching bands, performers, floats, and clowns. Arrive early to snag a spot with a view, or turn your TV to NBC and watch in your PJs. Keep an eye out for some new additions, including the Three Baby Dinos ballonicles and the newly designed Tom Turkey float. Nov. 22, 9am-12pm. Age: All. FREE. Central Park West and 77th Street, moving south via Central Park South and Sixth Avenue, to Macy’s Herald Square on 34th Street. macys.com/parade.

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New-York Historical Society

Established in 1804 as New York’s first museum, the New-York Historical Society aims to educate visitors about the history of New York and America. Its DiMenna Children’s History Museum is the first history museum in the U.S. designed for kids, and it features interactive exhibits, games, and programming for toddlers to teens. Visit it: 170 Central Park West, Upper West Side; nyhistory.org; 212873-3400 Can’t-miss event: Harry Potter: A History of Magic; through Jan. 27, 2019: See website for hours. Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 30-minute drive or LIRR and subway ride from Huntington.

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New York City Fire Museum

Located in the former quarts of Engine Company No. 3, this museum takes you through the history of firefighting by displaying techniques, equipment, and more. Climb on a fire truck for the perfect Instagram photo or visit one of the permanent exhibits. Visit it: 278 Spring St., Hudson Square; nycfiremuseum.org; 212-352-3117 Can’t-miss event: NYC Fire Museum Cook Off; Thursday, Nov. 8, 6pm Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 30-minute drive or LIRR and subway ride from Huntington.

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We Can’t Believe It’s FREE!

Show Time!

Once Upon A Time, Smarty Pants

Movers & Shakers

Holiday Fun

Crafty Kids, Kindness Crusaders

Special Needs

EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS

Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

The I Love Chocolate Fest

WHEN: Saturday-Sunday, Nov. 3-4, 10am-5pm WHERE: Old Bethpage Village Restoration, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: More than 50 chocolate exhibits with everything from decadent truffles and handcrafted chocolates to unusual treats like chocolate bourbon. WHY WE LOVE IT: The perfect opportunity for chocoholics! WANT TO GO? Before Nov. 3rd, $15; $12 seniors and kids ages 4-12; after $16.50; $13.50 seniors and children. 631-488-0521. lovechocolatefest.com.

Explore and Discover Setauket’s Revolutionary History

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 10, 3pm WHERE: Setauket Presbyterian Church, 5 Caroline Ave., Setauket AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Discover Setauket’s rich history as you explore its architecture and beautiful natural environment. WHY WE LOVE IT: Visit the cemetery where the leader of the Setauket Spy Ring is buried. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-751-3730. threevillagehistoricalsociety.org.

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The Butterfly Effect Fundraiser

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 15, 8pm WHERE: The Suffolk Theater, 118 E. Main St., Riverhead AGES: 5 and older

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WHAT: Listen to the greatest hits of Motown. Proceeds benefit The Butterfly Effect Project, a program to empower young girls in underserved communities. WHY WE LOVE IT: Great music for a great cause! WANT TO GO? $45. 631-727-4343. suffolktheater.com.

Meteor Mania!

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 17, 11am-12pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Discover how whalers navigated with the stars, explore navigational tools, go on a celestial scavenger hunt, and create a glow-in-the-dark diorama. WHY WE LOVE IT: Just in time for the Leonids Meteor Shower. WANT TO GO? $6; $12 children. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Inside Song: An Elementary School Musical Experience

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 3pm WHERE: Staller Center - Stony Brook University, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Staller Center presents an interactive musical journey that leaves children feeling confident about themselves. WHY WE LOVE IT: An instrument petting zoo is part of the fun! WANT TO GO? $20. 631-632-6000. stallercenter.com.

Mooseltoe

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 23, 12pm and 2:30pm WHERE: Bellport Middle School Theatre, 35 Kreamer St., Bellport AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Mooseltoe pursues his seemingly impossible dream of being a North Pole reindeer, while learning many valuable lessons along the way. WHY WE LOVE IT: The perfect show to introduce toddlers to a new holiday tradition. WANT TO GO? $15-$25. 631-286-1133. thegateway.org.

Open Studio for Families: Puppet Making Workshop

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 24, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: All WHAT: Participants are invited to create their very own figure decorated and embellished with colored pencil, yarn, fabric, and paper. WHY WE LOVE IT: These puppets will even have with hinged, movable arms and legs. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 18. 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

Disney On Ice presents Mickey’s Search Party

WHEN: Nov. 15-25, See website for exact dates and times. WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Join Mickey Mouse for a new adventure filled with world-class skating, high-flying acrobatics, and unexpected stunts. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a delightful, magical celebration of all our favorite characters- on ice! WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 516-231-4848. nycblive.com.

Community Day FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 11, 10am-5pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: All WHAT: The Parrish celebrates the community with activities including hands-on workshops with artists, music, tours, an art scavenger hunt, refreshments, and more. WANT TO GO? 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

Free Family Shorts FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 12, 12pm WHERE: Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Through animation and live-action storytelling, these shorts offer fun for the entire family. WANT TO GO? 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org.

ArtXchange FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 25, 1-4pm WHERE: Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This fun, family afternoon includes creative activities centered on the exchange of traditions, ideas, and stories to foster respect and ignite interaction within the community. WANT TO GO? 631-324-0806. GuildHall.org.

Santa Claus’ Arrival FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 27, 5pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 261 Airport Plaza, Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Families are invited to take pictures with Santa at the event and enjoy a variety of holiday songs performed by Woodward Parkway Elementary School’s 3rd Grade Chorus. WANT TO GO? 516-962-8210. stewleonards.com. ››

‘Elf’

WHEN: Nov. 15 - Dec. 30, Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: John W. Engeman Theater, 250 Main St., Northport AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Buddy embarks on a journey to New York City to find his birth father, discover his true identity, and help New York remember the true meaning of Christmas. WHY WE LOVE IT: A modern-day Christmas classic! WANT TO GO? $73. 631-261-2900. engemantheater.com.

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE

Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Fall Family Festival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 10am-3pm WHERE: The Rinx, 660 Terry Road, Hauppauge AGES: All WHAT: Families will be able to enjoy many activities including inflatable rides, a live DJ, archery, arts and crafts, high ropes course, and more. WANT TO GO? Suggested donation of one can of food. 631-232-3222. therinx.com.

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Harvest Gospel Concert

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 16, 8pm WHERE: Mattituck Presbyterian Church, 12605 Main Road, Mattituck AGES: All WHAT: This non-denominational celebration of song connects many community members together sharing the joy of music from the soul. WANT TO GO? $10 suggested donation. 631-727-0900. eastendarts.org.

32nd Annual Harvest Gospel Concert

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 17, 8pm WHERE: Friendship Baptist Church, 59 Anchor St., Flanders AGES: All WHAT: The group will perform an eclectic mix of gospel music that should not be missed. WANT TO GO? $10 suggested donation. 631-727-0900. eastendarts.org.

SHOW TIME! ‘Phantom’

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: CM Performing Arts Center, 931 Montauk Highway, Oakdale AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The Phantom lives for beautiful music and is mesmerized by a young and beautiful soprano, Christine. WANT TO GO? $18-$42. 631-218-2810. cmpac.com.

National Theatre Live Screening: ‘King Lear’

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 9, 7pm WHERE: Guild Hall of East Hampton, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 13 and older WHAT: King Lear sees two aging fathers – one a King, one his courtier – reject the children who truly love them. WANT TO GO? $18. 631-324-0806. guildhall.org.

‘Beatlemania Now!’

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 10, 8pm WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Beatlemania Now recreates the music of the Fab Four. WANT TO GO? $39. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

Pure Led

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 11, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This Led Zeppelin tribute band returns to perform in the Vanderbilt Reichert Planetarium. WANT TO GO? $25; $15 children younger than 16. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

‘Pinocchio’

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 11, 3pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 3-12 WHAT: We’ll join Pinocchio on an adventure full of magic and wonder as he sings and dances his way to becoming a real boy. WANT TO GO? $25; $20 children. 516-767-1384. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

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Peridance Contemporary Dance Company

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 17, 8pm WHERE: Staller Center-Stony Brook University, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This company invokes timelessly elegant musical choreography and has an illustrious performance history. WANT TO GO? $44. 631-632-6000. stallercenter.com.

‘Anastasia’

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 11am WHERE: YMCA Boulton Center, 37 W. Main St., Bay Shore AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Watch the movie and meet the princess. WANT TO GO? $14. 631-969-1101. boultoncenter.org.

‘Camelot’

WHEN: Nov. 3-18, Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: BayWay Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 9 and older WHAT: King Arthur’s ideals are tested when his lovely queen, Guinevere, falls in love with the young knight, Lancelot, and the fate of the kingdom hangs in the balance. WANT TO GO? $30. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

Carriage House Players Presents ‘Constellations’

WHEN: Nov. 9-18, Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: Vanderbilt Carriage House, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 13 and older WHAT: In Nick Payne’s spellbinding story, a romantic journey begins with a simple encounter between a man and a woman, and the difference between choice and destiny. WANT TO GO? $20; $15 children. 516-293-0674. arenaplayers.org.

The Paramount Tribute Series Presents: Dark Star Orchestra ‘Fall Tour 2018’ WHEN: Nov. 23 -24, Friday-Saturday, 8pm WHERE: The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Celebrate the Grateful Dead experience. WANT TO GO? $39.50 and up. 631-673-7300. paramountny.com.

Goat on a Boat: ‘The Headless Horseman of Sleepy Hollow’

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 24, 11am WHERE: Bay Street Theater, 1 Bay St., Sag Harbor AGES: 5-12 WHAT: In this comedic version of the classic tale, Ichabod Crane helps the Headless Horseman find a new head and a spookier image. WANT TO GO? $15-$18. 631-725-9500. baystreet.org.

Kids Flicks Tour - 2018 New York International Children’s Film Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 24, 1-3pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Watch a selection of whimsical, extraordinary, and award winning animated and live action short films from the 2018 New York International Children’s Film Festival. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 18. 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

‘Annie’

WHAT: Twenty million dollars worth of missing gems bring Carrie Singleton’s long-lost and larcenous dad back into her life and it’s up to Carrie to clear his name. WANT TO GO? 631-724-0341. barnesandnoble.com.

Coding Club FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 13: Tuesdays, 5:30-6:30pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This popular introduction to coding class fills up quick! WANT TO GO? 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.

WHEN: Nov. 17-Dec. 23, Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: CM Performing Arts Center, 931 Montauk Highway, Oakdale AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Annie is determined to find the parents who abandoned her years ago on the doorstep of a New York City Orphanage that is run by the cruel Miss Hannigan. WANT TO GO? $18-$42. 631-218-2810. cmpac.com.

Family Book Bingo FREE

‘Frosty’

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 23, 6pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Laird’s story is told against the backdrop of a winter surf season on Kauai, where El Niño storm systems threaten to bring the biggest surf in decades. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

WHEN: Nov. 24 - Dec. 30, Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: John W. Engeman Theater, 250 Main St., Northport AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join Jenny and Frosty on their chilly adventures as they try to save the town of Chillsville from mean old Ethel Pierpot and her evil machine that will melt all the snow. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-261-2900. engemantheater.com.

Irving Berlin’s ‘White Christmas’

WHEN: Nov. 10 - Dec. 30, Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Veterans Bob Wallace and Phil Davis follow a duo of beautiful singing sisters en route to their Christmas show at a Vermont lodge. WANT TO GO? $25-$38. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Old Time Base Ball

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: Saturdays, 11am WHERE: Old Bethpage Restoration Village, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Watch as teams from the 1864 league play base ball (as it was spelled then) following the rules and customs of the 19th century in vintage uniforms. WANT TO GO? See website for cost. 631-930-9054. obvrnassau.com.

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 17, 2-3pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Play Bingo to win free books. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Film: ‘Take Every Wave - The Life of Laird Hamilton’

Children’s Yoga

WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Wednesdays, 4:45-5:45pm WHERE: Heritage Center, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Lilie Perito teaches various workshops in yoga and mindfulness across Long Island. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-275-6618. msheritagetrust.org.

Warrior Courses Wednesdays

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Wednesdays, 6-8pm WHERE: Sky Zone Mount Sinai, 269 Route 25A, Mount Sinai AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Run the course as many times as you like, and try to get your name on the leader board. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-938-1420. skyzone.com/mountsinai. ››

Fear Factor FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 8, 3-4pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Compete in gross and creepy mini-competitions to win prizes. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Read and Gone: A Haunted Library Mystery With Author Allison Brook FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 9, 7pm WHERE: Barnes and Noble - Smith Haven Mall, 600 Smith Haven Mall, Lake Grove AGES: 5-12

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Veteran’s Day Paint Army Man

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 12, 11am WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Paint an army man with instructions. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

Veteran’s Day Paint Statue of Liberty in Style of Keith Haring WHEN: Monday, Nov. 12, 1:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Paint the Keith Haring Statue of Liberty. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

HOLIDAY FUN Thanksgiving Centerpieces FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 11am WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Work together as a family to design a Thanksgiving centerpiece using fabric leaves, paper gourds, colorful ribbons, and more. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Nightmare on Main Street FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 3: Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: Main Street Gallery, 213 Main St., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Long Island students were asked to submit works inspired by the theme of Halloween. WANT TO GO? 631-271-8423. huntingtonarts.org.

Diwali Festival of Lights

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 4, 1pm WHERE: Ward Melville Heritage Organization, 97P Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Performance by Nartan Rang Dance Academy of Bharatiya Vidya Bhavan with food tastings, refreshments, and much more. WANT TO GO? $15; $12 children. 631-689-5888. wmho.org.

Election Day Paint Event- Paint Voter Girl

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 6, 1:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Paint the “Voter Girl” with step-by-step instruction. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

Edible Pumpkin Pie Playdough FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 9, 10:30am WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Celebrate Thanksgiving early by making this fun and edible sensory project. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Woven Thanksgiving Potholders FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 9, 4:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Learn how to make a handmade potholder to use while preparing Thanksgiving dinner. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

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Veteran’s Day Commemoration

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 12, 10:30am-2pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Join us for a day of remembrance and historical appreciation as we travel back in time to the years of the First World War. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free children younger than 7. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Turkey Oreos FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 15, 5:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Make some delicious, turkey-themed treats with Oreos. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Family Pumpkin Bread FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 2-2:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Create a yummy treat to add to your Thanksgiving celebration. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Thanksgiving Family Paint Event

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 11am WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Drop off kids or stay and paint with step-by-step instruction. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

Let’s Talk Turkey FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 20, 6:30-7:15pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Join this Thanksgiving celebration featuring a story, crafts, and lots of fun. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

‘Who Took Tom the Turkey’

WHEN: Nov. 10-24, Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: BayWay Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Tom the Turkey is missing and everyone is a suspect. WANT TO GO? $13. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

Christmas at Westbury House

WHEN: Friday-Sunday, Nov. 23-25, 10am-5pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: With decorated period rooms, Santa, cookies, and cider, our holiday celebration is a must for the entire family. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free children 6 and younger. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

‘Barnaby Saves Christmas’

WHEN: Nov. 23 - Dec. 29, Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: As the little elf and his reindeer friend set off on their journey to save Christmas, they meet some new friends along the way and learn the true meaning of Christmas, Hanukkah, and the holiday season. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

‘A Christmas Carol’

WHEN: Nov. 17 - Dec. 29, Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Follow the miser Ebenezer Scrooge on a journey that teaches him the true meaning of Christmas—past, present, and future. WANT TO GO? $35; $28 students ages 13 and older; $20 children ages 5-12; children younger than five not allowed. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

A Children’s Theatre Presentation: ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas’

WHEN: Nov. 17 - Dec. 30, Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A mouse, an elf, and a spunky little girl are on a quest to find out why Santa missed their house last year. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS

Opening Day For Ice Skating on the Harbor

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 23, 10am-10pm WHERE: The Rinx at Harborfront Park, 101-A E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy an outside session of ice-skating on the harbor. WANT TO GO? $12; $7.50 skate rental. 631-473-1414. therinx.com.

Annual Tree Lighting FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 24, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: All WHAT: This family-friendly event in the Mansion Courtyard features carol singing, cookies and hot chocolate, and a visit from Santa and Mrs. Claus. WANT TO GO? 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org. ››

Veterans Day Cross Country 4K

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 10am WHERE: Northport VA Medical Center, 79 Middleville Road, Northport AGES: All WHAT: A 1K (0.6 mile) fun run will be held entirely on the golf course. WANT TO GO? $5. nrcrun.org.

Early Bird Walk

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 9am WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: A wildlife expert leads the outdoor tour and shares expertise on local species. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children younger than 7. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

LIU POST’S CENTER FOR GIFTED YOUTH SPRING 2019 SATURDAY PROGRAM

Feb 2nd – April 27th for students entering grades K-8

Are You the Parent of a Gifted Child?

INQUIRE ABOUT OUR SUMMER PROGRAM

Evelyn Knapp’s 5K Run & 3K Wellness Walk

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 4, 8:30am WHERE: Sunken Meadow State Park, 25A and Sunken Meadow Parkway, Kings Park AGES: All WHAT: Proceeds from the event support exercise classes for cancer patients as well as nutrition classes, walking classes, and an empowerment group. WANT TO GO? $25; $15 children younger than 15. 631-675-6513. strengthforlifeny.org.

Egg Taking Demonstration

WHEN: Through Nov. 11: Saturday-Sunday, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Witness the centuries old process of live trout reproduction. WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org.

LIU Post’s Center for Gifted Youth announces its 38th annual fall and spring program for gifted children. The spring program runs on Saturdays from February 2nd to April 27th. The program is open to gifted children entering grades K-8 in September 2018. The program expands students’ knowledge, develops creative and critical thinking skills, and offers children the opportunity to learn in an exciting and accepting environment.

For information call 516-299-2160 liu.edu/post/giftedyouth Now find us on Facebook

Admission is highly selective and enrollment is limited.

LIU Post • College of Education, Information and Technology • 720 Northern Blvd. • Brookville, NY 11548-1300 liu.edu/post/giftedyouth • Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, Director

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SMARTY PANTS Home School Day

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 1, 1-3pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Use map, images, and masterfully crafted silver objects to investigate the important role that craft and trade played in the Revolutionary War. WANT TO GO? Free for adults; $5 per student; max $20 per family. 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.

Kahoot! Beat The Librarian FREE

ONCE UPON A TIME Toddler Time FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 1, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Library, 95 Harbor Road, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: A beginning story time filled with more advanced books, songs, finger plays, movement, and crafts. WANT TO GO? 631-692-6820. cshlibrary.org.

A Visit With the Cat in the Hat FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 11am WHERE: Barnes and Noble - Smith Haven Mall, 600 Smith Haven Mall, Lake Grove AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Stop by and say hello to The Cat in the Hat. WANT TO GO? 631-724-0341. barnesandnoble.com.

Hands-On Art

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 8, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Children visit Elias Pelletreau and engage in a story and art project. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.

Toddler Time FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 14, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: East Hampton Library, 159 Main St., East Hampton AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Make new friends, share a story, and take time to play. WANT TO GO? 631-324-0222. easthamptonlibrary.org.

Workshops for Children: Bears and Mask Craft

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 17, 10am-12pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children hear a story in the wildlife dioramas, learn about bears, and make a mask. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

My First Story Time FREE

WHEN: Nov. 7 -28, Wednesdays, 11am WHERE: Barnes and Noble - Bay Shore, 842 Sunrise Highway Bay Shore AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: This story time includes a mix of short stories and favorite songs. WANT TO GO? 631-206-0198. barnesandnoble.com.

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WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 1, 6-7pm WHERE: East Hampton Library, 159 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Compete with your local librarian and face off in a pop culture trivia game using Kahoot. WANT TO GO? 631-324-0222. easthamptonlibrary.org.

Open House FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 2, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: The Bridges Academy, 339 Snedecor Ave., West Islip AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Tour the school and learn about the academically enriched programs offered for toddlers-eighth grade. WANT TO GO? 631-358-5035. thebridgesacademy.net.

Parent Seminar: Importance of 21st-Century Skills and your Child FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: The Rinx, 660 Terry Road, Hauppauge AGES: Adult WHAT: Find out what Fortune 500 companies have said about prospective employee candidates and how it applies to our children today. WANT TO GO? 631-232-3222. therinx.com.

Reframing Parenting Fall Series FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 10am-1pm WHERE: Kids Need More, 600 Albany Ave., #14, Amityville AGES: Adult WHAT: This 6-week workshop series is for adoptive and guardianship parents raising children with adverse childhood experiences or difficult past histories. WANT TO GO? 631-598-1983. affcny.org.

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My Partner and Me

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 4, 2-3:30pm WHERE: ThinkBIG! Theater Arts, 42 S. Ocean Ave., Patchogue AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Connect with artworks, new friends, and creative activities during these weekend workshops WANT TO GO? $35. 631-307-4042. thinkbigtheaterarts.org.

This Is Us: Long Island FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 7, 6:30-9pm WHERE: Adelphi University Hauppauge Education and Conference Center, 55 Kennedy Drive, Hauppauge AGES: Adult WHAT: Join for a moderated panel discussion about adoption, family, and relationships. WANT TO GO? 646-688-4321. affcny.org.

Reading is Fundamental Night FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 8, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Like Books? Pick what interests you from the free “book store.” WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Una Noche De Family Fun FREE

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Museum Adventures

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 15, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Children learn what it was like to spend winter on a farm in the 1800s. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.

Open House FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 16, 9am WHERE: Long Island School for the Gifted, 165 Pidgeon Hill Road, South Huntington AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Learn about this independent private school for academically gifted children in grades Pre-K to ninth. WANT TO GO? 631-423-3557. lisg.org.

Open Studio for Families

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 9, 7-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy an evening of bilingual activities, time with family, and fun. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

WHEN: Nov. 10-17, Saturdays, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: All WHAT: Take a tour of the galleries and create art through hands-on activities. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 18. 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

Family Hour

Family Hands-on Program

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 11, 1-2pm WHERE: Heckscher Museum of Art, 2 Prime Ave., Huntington AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Take a family-friendly tour and experience the museum through close-looking, lively conversation, and hands-on gallery projects. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-351-3250. heckscher.org.

Walk Through History with Farmer and Revolutionary War Spy Abraham Woodhull

WHEN: Nov. 23-24, Friday-Saturday, 10am-12pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: All WHAT: A museum educator will be on hand in the Memorial Wing with preserved specimens for examination. WANT TO GO? $8; $7 children ages 13-17; $5 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 11, 2pm WHERE: Setauket Village Green, Dyke Road, Caroline Church parking lot at the Carriage Shed, East Setauket AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Tour-goers are introduced to the woods, fields, ponds, and bays that tell the story of Long Island’s colonization. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-751-3730. threevillagehistoricalsociety.org.

Family Nutrition FREE

The Pillowcase Project FREE

Podcast Club FREE

After School Lego League

Teen Trivia Night FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 14, 7-8pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Personalize a pillowcase to use as a preparedness kit in cases of emergencies or natural disasters. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org. WHEN: Through Nov. 15: Thursdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 5-12 WHAT: From bridges to zip lines, this program is designed for builders looking to get a little more out of their Lego. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 28, 7-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Families will learn how much fat and sodium their favorite fast foods have and the effects they can have on the body. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org. WHEN: Nov. 1 -29, every other Thursday; 3-4:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Learn all about audio recordings, editing, and become part of the first Brentwood Public Library teen podcast with your friends. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org. WHEN: Friday, Nov. 30, 6:30-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Think you know pop culture and trivia? Come bring your friends and put your knowledge to the test. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org. ››

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Banana Muffins FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 16, 7pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Learn how to make delicious banana muffin batter to take with you and bake at home. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

CRAFTY KIDS Teen Open Studio: Collage Face Mash Up

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 3, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Young artists explore different media and methods with guidance from teaching artist Pamela Collins. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 18. 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

Buggy Palooza FREE

WHEN: Monday, Nov. 5, 7-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Learn about all different types of bugs and create a buggy craft to take home. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Paint Blue Dog

WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 6, 11am WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Paint the “I voted” blue dog with step-by-step instruction. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

Food Cornucopia FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 10, 3pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Build a colorful snack out of fruit and waffle cones. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Spiderman Paint Event

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 10, 11am WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Paint Spiderman with step-by-step instruction. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

Red, White, and Blue Crafts

WHEN: Saturday-Sunday, Nov. 10-12, 12-3pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Create an array of self-serve patriotic crafts for your favorite veteran or to display at home. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children ages 4-18; free for children younger than 4. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org. 30

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Learn to Draw Owls with Art Teacher Amy FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 1, 2-3pm WHERE: South Huntington Public Library, 145 Pidgeon Hill Road, Huntington Station AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn step-by-step how to draw snowy owls in oil pastel and watercolor with Art Teacher Amy. WANT TO GO? 631-549-4411. shpl.info.

Fall Tree Globes FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 24, 2pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Save a bit of fall by making this snow globe craft. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Learn to Draw a Watercolor Fox in the Snow FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 30, 4-5pm WHERE: Sayville Library, 88 Greene Ave., Sayville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn to draw a fox in the snow in watercolors with Art Teacher Amy. WANT TO GO? 631-589-4440. sayvillelibrary.org.

Family Sundays

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Sundays, 1pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Reconnect while talking about and making art together. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors and students; $4 children. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

Traveling Exhibit -TINKERTOY: Build Your Imagination

WHEN: Through Jan. 6, 2019: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Visitors can explore a walk-in size replica of the canister, create their own designs, experiment with renewable energy and water filtration, and take part in a scavenger hunt. WANT TO GO? $13; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

KINDNESS CRUSADERS Long Island Cares Mobile Food Pantry FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 1, 11am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Long Island Cares will have a Mobile Food Pantry van on site for a three-day food supply distribution. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Volunteer Opportunity: Teen Cookie Bake FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 1, 10am-7pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Library, 95 Harbor Road, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Bake and drop off two-dozen homemade cookies that will be distributed to a local food pantry. WANT TO GO? 631-692-6820. cshlibrary.org.

TD & The Paramount Presents: Mike DelGudice & Big Shot

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 2, 8pm WHERE: The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This benefit concert for veterans celebrates the music of Billy Joel. WANT TO GO? $20-$50. 631-673-7300. paramountny.com.

Veterans Resources Fair FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 8, 11am-2pm WHERE: Middle Country Public Library, 101 Eastwood Blvd., Centereach AGES: All WHAT: Visit with local organizations dedicated to helping veterans. WANT TO GO? 631-585-9393. mcplibrary.org.

Teens Care FREE

WHEN: Friday, Nov. 9, 3-4pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Come make centerpieces for soup kitchens. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

‘Barnaby Saves Christmas’ - Sensory Friendly Performance

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 25, 11am WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: As our littlest elf and his reindeer friend set off on their journey to save Christmas, they meet some new friends along the way and learn the true meaning of Christmas, Hanukkah, and the holiday season. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

NY Friendship Circle: Music Therapy Class

WHEN: Through Nov. 26: Mondays, 5pm-5:45pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Music can impact social and cognitive development. Learn how it can help you regulate your system and keep you calm. You must be registered with the Friendship Circle to be considered for this class. WANT TO GO? $75. 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.

Community Service: Teen Tech Time FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 17, 10am-12pm WHERE: East Hampton Library, 159 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens help tech-averse adults with tablets, social media, and more. WANT TO GO? 631-324-0222. easthamptonlibrary.org.

SPECIAL NEEDS NY Friendship Circle: Puppy Fun FREE

Coming up next month: DEC. 2: Holiday Festival 2018 at Stony Brook Village, Stony Brook DEC. 16: Northport Nutcracker Ballet at Northport Middle School, North Port DEC. 14-20: Disney’s Beauty and the Beast at the Gateway Performing Arts Center of Suffolk County, Bellport

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 4, 3:30-4:15pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Spend some time with therapy dogs and reduce some stress with some love and licks. WANT TO GO? 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.

Hip Hop - 6 Week Session FREE

WHEN: Through Nov. 14: Wednesdays, 5-5:45pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn the latest hip-hop steps, get some exercise, and have fun while making friends with and without special needs. WANT TO GO? 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.

Teen Scene FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 18, 3:30-4:15pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teen volunteers and teens with special needs get together monthly for social activities and group hangouts. WANT TO GO? 631-351-8672. nyfriendshipcircle.com.

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Five ways to encourage tweens and teens to get involved in democracy

hen I was in sixth grade, my middle school held a mock election during the George W. Bush vs. Al Gore election in 2000. Leading up to mock Election Day, social studies teachers taught the student body about the democratic process and educated us on the candidates’ political stances, so we could make well-informed decisions. While I don’t remember which candidate I voted for or who won the mock election, I do remember the anticipation my class buzzed with as we waited for the principal to announce the winner. That was my first experience with politics. And while participating in my school’s mock election didn’t inspire me to pursue a career in politics, it, and the actual election’s hotly contested outcome (ultimately decided by the Supreme Court of the United States), cemented the importance of doing my civic duty. I knew that once I turned 18, I needed to register and vote in elections to make my voice heard. I have since voted in three Presidential elections. The 2016 election cycle was the most contentious (but you don’t need me to tell you that) because how we consumed and shared information had evolved. With the breakneck pace at which media is being shared and the tumultuous political landscape of today, how can we ensure our children will be well-informed, active participants in democracy?

Encourage an Informed Interest

Regardless of where you live, how much money you make, or what your career is, politics impact your day-to-day life whether you know it or not, says Anil R. Beephan, Jr., a town councilman at-large in East Fishkill in Dutchess County; he is a representative for a New York state senator for Dutchess and Putnam counties, and an active county committee member. He knows first-hand how politics and government can affect lives. As a first-generation American, Beephan watched his parents, who are from Trinidad and Tobago, go through a difficult immigration process. “I always thought that one day I’d like to get involved in government and see what it’s like to maybe 32

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help fix that process,” he says. Participating in government club in high school and the 2012 election solidified his interest in politics. James Kuntz, a junior at the Dalton School in Manhattan, credits the 2016 election for his interest in politics. “There was something about the election cycle that really drew me to it, and I think it was also my age,” he says. “I was 13, 14 years old leading up to the election, so I was beginning to find my own interests and politics happened to be one.” That interest led him to found Teens in Politics, an organization to help teens find political internships in the NYC area. Another reason Kuntz says he founded Teens in Politics? He says he’s noticing a lot of political apathy in his generation, and “it’s a real problem for democracy.” So how can you prevent that political indifference in your tweens and teens? Read with your kids. From an early age you can encourage an interest in civics by reading political- and activism-related books to your children. Try reading Voting with a Porpoise, written by Rock the Vote board member Russell Glass and children’s book author Sean Callahan, which brings the election process to life under the sea. If You’re Going to a March, by Martha Freeman, illustrates what kids can expect if they’re attending a march with their parents. For the elementary school set, Eleanor Roosevelt’s When You Grow Up to Vote explains how the government works for the people—from the police officers in your town all the way through the role of the SCOTUS—and instills the importance of voting in kids. Originally published in 1932, after Franklin D. Roosevelt was first elected as President, this book was updated and re-released in September. Tweens and teens can read denser books, such as biographies about presidents, nonfiction works about history, or any of the number of recently released books about the current political environment. Take them with you, Beephan suggests. If your kids are 18, carpool to the polls on Election Day, and if they’re not yet old enough to vote,

they can still see democracy in action. Considering attending a march or rally for an issue you feel passionately about? Bring your kids along (even if they’re young) and explain what you’re marching for, why you’re marching, and how it makes you feel to participate. After all, modeling a behavior for your children is the best way to instill it. Watch the news together and talk about it. Kuntz and Beephan both suggest you start doing this when your kids are in elementary school. You should “really explain to them why [following current events] is important, what’s going on, and try to inform them at a very early age about the real facts behind each story and what’s going on in the media and government itself,” Beephan advises. You can do the same with newspapers or credible online news sites. After all, encouraging an interest in following the news and current events fosters a curious intellectual mindset in children, Kuntz adds. And if listening is more your family’s style, there are a host of political and current event podcasts available. Encourage your teen to pursue an internship. “If you’re in high school, you’re at an age where you can take internships at the state senate, state assembly, or congressional offices, or even help out at the local town level,” Beephan says. Kuntz, who is a member of his district’s congressional youth cabinet, aims to make finding an internship in politics easy for teens: “I’m very interested in politics myself, and when I was looking for opportunities to get involved in politics—volunteer opportunities and internships specifically—I didn’t find any place where the information was centralized,” he says. “The only way that somebody my age would be able to find those opportunities would be to look at individual members of the city council or state assembly or state senate.” “You can also get involved with the political party when you’re in high school, more so you could even actively participate in campaigns,” Beephan adds. If your teen knows which party she identifies with, encourage her to research internship opportunities with the New York Democratic or Republican national committees. Volunteer for a campaign together. If you’re introducing your younger children to politics or you and your teen agree on a party or candidate, find opportunities to put your boots to the ground. Canvas neighborhoods and knock on doors to talk to other voters or sign up for a shift to make calls for a candidate. In fact, Beephan says high school students have become more and more involved in campaigns. “It actually makes a difference because, when you’re at the door, people notice when a kid takes an interest in an issue, and it kind of makes them think twice. They question: aren’t you a little too young to be at the door?” he says. “But when a kid actually justifies why they’re there, why they’re doing what they’re doing, it kind of reinvigorates the person to pay more attention to what’s going on. I think kids sometimes underestimate the impact they have in the political realm, even if they can’t vote.”

Toe the Line

When encouraging an interest in politics, remember to let your teens form their own opinions. “I think it’s vital for the parent to not force their opinions on their kids,” Beephan says. “Trust that your kids are able to make a conscious decision on which side of the aisle they’d like to sit on certain issues.” Urge your teens to read opposing views of the same issue so they can figure out their own opinions. And if your teen aligns with a different political party than you? “I think it’s actually a good thing because being in an environment where your views are being questioned strengthens your own opinions and forces you to reconsider things with a more critical lens,” Kuntz says—a perfect opportunity to bolster your teen before he heads out into the world on his own.

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You’re a new parent, but that doesn’t mean you should be a shut-in. Read on for everything you need to know about exploring new places with your little one. By Lambeth Hochwald

f you’re hesitant to go on outings now that you’re a new parent, we’re here to tell you that getting out and about with your baby is not only good for your wee one, but it’s especially good for you too. Being in the fresh air, surrounded by sights, sounds, and energy will work wonders to help you adjust to new-parent life. We asked the experts—all New York-area parents—to weigh in and everyone agreed: To have the best exploration experience you need to be ready for every scenario, from sudden hunger to a diaper explosion to a need-a-nap meltdown. Whether they shared their favorite products or just a little bit of advice that worked for them, these parents are enthusiastic about the benefits of exploring, baby in tow. Read on for their tried-and-true tips.

his hat, which he rips off as soon as we get inside. Also the jacket distracts from the fact I sometimes take him out in PJs when we are having one of those mornings!” For Anna Zak, mom of a 5-month-old son, a fully packed bag of ‘what-if’ supplies makes a day outside a win-win. “I always pack a big park blanket folded tightly and placed at the base of my stroller—we opted for the Bugaboo Bee5 because it’s lightweight for the city,” she says. “I make sure to pack my Munchkin Arm & Hammer diaper disposal bags because as long as I have them I have somewhere to put a dirty diaper if I’m out and about and don’t immediately have a trash can to toss it into.”

Take a Fun Walk Outside

Public transportation is not only a quicker way to get from place to place, it offers its own share of amusement for kids of all ages. But being prepared for the journey is ultra-important. Loving the ride is half the fun, says Heath Fradkoff, a Brooklyn dad whose 2-year-old son, Hugh, adores public transportation. “We take buses and subways frequently,” he says. “Hugh has a little wooden MTA bus and subway car. When he plays with them he shouts, ‘Please exit through the rear door’ and ‘Stand clear of the closing doors, please,’ respectively.” As for gear, Fradkoff is a fan of his trusty Maclaren Triumph umbrella stroller. “It’s good on stairs, and it folds up easily so we can quickly get it out of the way of other passengers,” he says. For

With the weather changing and cool mornings on the horizon, you want to dress your baby in clothing that’s versatile and adapts to a chilly morning followed by bright midday sun, says Allison Chiaramonte, a real estate agent at Warburg Realty and mom of two kids, ages 2 and 4. “When I’m out and about with my kids I usually have a long list of errands for myself and them,” she says. “This means we are constantly in and out of houses, offices, and stores. When it’s cold outside this can cause problems, but I have found the best thing ever for my son—a cute winter jacket with a hood. Easy on and off with the hood means I don’t have to keep track of where he left 34

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Ride the Subway—and Bus

walks around town, Fradkoff has another fave method of toting Hugh that might look more at home in the mountains than in the city. “During the spring and fall weather I love taking Hugh around in an Osprey backpack,” he says. “This keeps my hands free to walk the dog or run errands and Hugh likes the higher vantage point on my shoulders.” Marisa Pincas, who lives on the Upper East Side with her 2-yearold son, is also a big fan of taking public transportation for jaunts. “My husband and I travel all over the city with our son, from the museums on the Upper West Side all the way down to Governors Island, across to Long Island City, and many more neighborhoods in between,” she says. The key to a smooth trip: a lightweight, easily foldable stroller. “New York City buses require you to fold up a stroller and, while I find most New Yorkers will help you carry a stroller up and down the stairs, it can be a real challenge if it’s just you and your child!” Pincas says. All the more reason she suggests mapping out your route first. “This way you can make sure you know how you will exit— escalator, stairs, or elevator. I also suggest making sure that the elevators are working before heading out, especially if you have an infant or a larger stroller that you can’t easily fold or carry,” Pincas says. (This information can be found at web.mta.info/ mta/eles.html). “I’ve found myself struggling to carry my son in his infant seat up the stairs while also balancing the stroller and anything else you may have because an elevator was out of order,” she adds. Also, Pincas suggests parents always leave themselves extra time when traveling on the subway. “This way you can account for navigating the corridors in search of those elevators,” she explains. “I’ve forgotten to do this in the past and have missed my train out of Penn!” In the end, the best tip might just be this one: Be sure to take along plenty of hand sanitizer and baby wipes. “Pediatricians advise parents to avoid public transportation until your baby is at least two months,” Zak says. “After the two-month mark, we were happy to take the subway. We just made sure to cover our son’s hands with sanitizer.”

will save the day, Chiaramonte adds. “It’s important to make sure you have a baby- or kid-friendly snack ready when you first sit down, something neat and easy like Cheerios or string cheese,” she says. “It may seem counterintuitive to bring food to a restaurant, but this ensures there are no hunger-induced tantrums while waiting for your food!” Keeping your baby’s dining gear on hand is another way to ensure the meal will be a little less messy and reduce the odds that you leave a trail of crumbs on the floor after you pay the bill, Chiaramonte adds. “It’s always good to tote your own baby utensils and placemats,” she says. And believe it or not, it’s never a bad idea to opt for outdoor seating and have an escape route should the meal go south, Zak adds. “Look for tables that are spacious and have easy access to head out the door in case your baby gets cranky,” she says. “Also, at any point, be okay with the fact that you may have to abandon your plans and get your food to go.” No matter what, you’ll have gotten a bit of fresh air—and had an adventure you can laugh about later. Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

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Enjoy a Meal—at Your Favorite Spot

Every parent we spoke to agreed: You’re better off going to dinner early-bird style, say, before 6pm or whenever the dinner rush commences. In addition, distraction is key when taking baby to breakfast, lunch, or dinner at your favorite restaurant. This becomes more and more important the older your little one gets. “Always come prepared with toys or coloring books to keep them occupied,” Pincas says. “When you are waiting for a meal to arrive, having something for my son to focus on has saved me and my fellow patrons from witnessing a meltdown or having him try to squirm away from the table. And having multiple items is definitely needed with short attention spans!” Another way to plan ahead: Make sure the restaurant is actually baby- and/or child-friendly. “For example, some bars don’t let babies in past a certain hour or at all,” Zak says. “As a young mom I often take my son with us when we meet up with family or friends for a drink. We’ve taken him to plenty of bars/rooftops during the day and have had no problem doing so. Recently, however, when some family was in town we attempted to walk into a bar that had a strict ‘no baby’ policy. While at first we were offended on behalf of our baby, after reconsidering it we realized that after a certain hour this is as much for his safety as it is for the convenience of the patrons.” No matter the restaurant you plan to dine in, bringing snacks

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Stay Safe While Shopping Online ›› Hackers and cyber-scams can spoil your holiday. Experts share what you need to know before you click “buy.” By Anja Webb

hen I was in high school, one of my friends bought a prom dress online. She had never heard of the company before, but the dress was hundreds of dollars cheaper than retail value, and the photo in the advertisements looked beautiful. She took her parents’ debit card and bought the discount “designer” gown without telling anyone. When it finally arrived in the mail weeks later in a package from China, she was overjoyed. But once she put on the dress, her excitement quickly turned to disappointment: The fabric was cheap and poorly cut, and the dress fit her like a trash bag despite the precise measurements she had sent the company. The “Swarovski” crystals were nothing more than cheap, poorly adhered rhinestones. My friend had been the victim of an online shopping scam, and her parents had to pay the price. Unfortunately, this isn’t an isolated incident. With Cyber Monday (the Monday after Black Friday, which falls on Nov. 26 this year) becoming one of the biggest days for online shopping, it’s important to know how to recognize Internet shopping scams and phishing, or the act of stealing private information through viruses or malicious computer codes. What may seem like the perfect gift for a great price could very easily be a sneaky way to rob you. And the methods of fooling people are getting more and more creative.

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So how can you avoid these schemes and keep your family safe this holiday season? Here are a few things to look for when shopping online to help you recognize shady sites and keep your information private.

Be Leery of Links

“You should never, ever trust a link in an email,” says Eric Cole, Ph.D., a consultant, author, and former CIA employee with more than 30 years of experience in cyber security. “[People] get an email from a store that says, ‘Hey, we have a seventy-percent-off sale, but it’s only good for the next two hours. Click on the link below to take advantage of it.’ And they’re so excited about the sale they never look at the link very closely.” If you do get an unfamiliar email, “click on the name in the ‘sent from’ box to view the actual email address,” suggests Justin Lavelle, chief communications officer of BeenVerified, an online background check platform. “If you don’t recognize the sender, your best bet is to not open the email, period, and never click on a link, attachment, or file within.” And, as obvious as it sounds, “if it seems to good to be true, it is,” says Alex Krush, a development operations engineer at Royal Bank of Canada. Finding $100 discounts or deals that are significantly below market value is a huge red flag, as are those

2-hour sales. These incredible deals are a means of luring in customers to a shady site. “More than not, an item that has an incredibly low price tag or out-of-the-world features is probably part of a scam,” says Alayna Pehrson, manager of identity theft content for BestCompany.com, a consumer-review data company. You might think you’re saving money, but the potential savings are never worth the risk.

Learn to Spot Suspicious Sites

Of course, this is the season when some legitimate retailers do offer sweet deals. How do you know if the offer (and seller) you’re looking at is on the level? Usually there are a few other factors to be wary of when visiting a potentially sketchy site. “If you think the website lacks some design skills, has a disorganized layout, and/or has several grammar and language mistakes, then you should probably not purchase anything from it,” Pehrson says. It’s important to keep in mind that retailers will care about their aesthetic, but a scam site likely won’t. Wherever you end up shopping, Dr. Cole advises you to “make sure you’re using an up-to-date browser that’s verifying the digital certificate of the site.” Most modern browsers will let you know if something is secure. On Chrome, there will be a green lock next to the URL bar; that’s an indicator that not only is your information going in a secure manner, but it’s also verifying and validating the digital certificate of that site to give a higher level of trust, Dr. Cole says. In other browsers the lock may be yellow or appear as a key. If your Internet browser doesn’t have an icon to indicate security, “Look for ‘https’ in the website address,” says Jacob Lunduski, a financial industry analyst for Credit Card Insider, a site that helps people find the right credit card for their finances. “This means the website is ‘secure’ and provides credibility when purchasing an item off the site.”

Think Twice About Third-Party Sellers

What if you’re shopping from a big company like Amazon? Even though the distributor is trusted, some of the retailers that operate on the site might not always be legitimate. For Amazon purchases, look out for third-party sales that are neither sold nor fulfilled by Amazon. “When you click on an item it will tell you whether you’re buying it directly from Amazon or if it’s going through a third party,” Dr. Cole says. “Anytime you’re buying things from a thirdparty, your credit card is now being charged and sent to that thirdparty, and if they’re not legitimate…they could easily be able to steal your information.” If you’re determined to purchase something from a thirdparty vendor, there are a few things you can do to minimize your risk. “Always read descriptions and reviews when possible,” Krush says. Predominantly bad reviews are a good sign that something is fishy. And occasionally good reviews can be faked, so Will Geddes, author of Parent Alert, recommends you be wary of “a small number of short, generic, and positive reviews all posted within a short period of time and from the same country.” Also try to check how long the retailer has been a vendor on Amazon. “If they’ve been a retailer for Amazon for five years, that’s probably an indicator that they’re somewhat legit,” Dr. Cole says. “If they’ve been selling with Amazon for two months, that’s probably a bigger concern.”

Be Careful with Your Credit

Even if you take all possible precautions, fraud and identity theft are still possibilities. The reason for this is simple: Every day, hackers are getting better and better at what they do. “The number one thing families can do [to protect themselves from fraud] is to utilize a separate credit card just for online purchases that has a small balance,” Dr. Cole advises. “If fraudulent activity occurs or if it gets stolen, now all you have to do is get a new card and you don’t have to worry about if you’re using that card for bills.” There are other good reasons to use a credit card rather than another form of payment for your online shopping. “With credit cards, the liability is with the credit card provider. With debit cards, the liability is with you,” Dr. Cole says. Additionally, it’s important to note that “credit cards offer many purchase and fraud protections where you’ll have time to report and manage the fraud before your bill is due,” Lunduski says. “With a debit card, fraudulent purchases leave your account immediately, causing you to have to work with your bank to get your money back.” When it comes to safety features, you should always “go to your credit card’s website or call them, [and] turn [these features] on,” says Dr. Cole, who personally receives text messages every time his card is used. If somehow your credit card is compromised, he recommends that you activate this feature as well, so that you can stay informed at all times.

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Speed-Clean Your House Holiday guests are on the way! Learn the pros’ secrets for tidying your home in a hurry.

clean house. If you’re a parent, that concept is probably nothing more than a dream, right up there with a year of paid parental leave and children who love lima beans. Even if you were a neat freak before you had a family, chances are these days you struggle to stay ahead of dirty laundry and dishes, strewn-about shoes and toys, and that somehow-always-sticky refrigerator door handle. You’ve probably made peace with a certain level of chaos (mostly because you have no choice). But how about when guests are coming over? Before you hit the panic button—or bolt the door—read on. We asked two cleaning authorities to explain how you can get your house company-ready in a rush. Their easy tips will have you greeting holiday visitors with a bright smile, and a sparkling home.

Pre-Cleaning Plan of Attack

Conceal the clutter. Your first step is to put away all the jumbled-up stuff in any rooms your company might glimpse. “Hide the shoes, hide the coats, and take out any boxes from deliveries,” says Ann Harasim, owner of Ann’s Cleaning Service in New York City. In the kitchen, clear the countertops and put away pots, pans, and shopping bags. Everything will instantly look better. Concentrate on areas where guests will go. “If you’re in a jam and you need to do things quickly, you need to prioritize the most

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important spaces,” says Jennifer Gregory, marketing director of Molly Maid, a cleaning service with branches throughout the New York metropolitan area. Usually, after your initial de-cluttering, that means attacking the foyer, living room, kitchen, and bathrooms, one at a time. “Then you can move down along the line as you go along,” Gregory says.

Foyer and Living Room

Freshen up the furniture. “Take a barely-damp microfiber cloth and wipe it down. It will catch any hair and debris, and does a really good job of removing the dust from intricate carvings,” Gregory says. (She advises against furniture polish: “It tends to grab dirt faster and make it stick to the furniture,” she explains.) Address areas above your eye level. “People tend to look around at where their height is [as they clean]. They forget to look up,” Gregory warns. Using a high duster, skim the place where the walls meet the ceiling, making sure to dust ceiling fans and light fixtures. Fold and fluff. “If you have any blankets in the living room, make sure they’re folded,” Harasim says. Fluff up non-woolen throw pillows and smaller throw rugs by placing them in the dryer along with a clean tennis ball and drying them on low for 5-10 minutes, Gregory recommends.

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Shine up mirrors, windows, and glass-framed photos and paintings. Give them a quick once-over with a slightly damp microfiber cloth, Gregory says, or use a microfiber cloth and Molly Maid’s DIY cleaner: 1 gallon of water, ½ cup white vinegar, ½ cup rubbing alcohol, and about 2 squirts of Dawn dish detergent. For photos that aren’t covered in glass, dust them with an unused large paintbrush. Dust the mantle. Use a microfiber cloth to dust the fireplace mantle (if you have one) and any knick-knacks that you keep on it. Clear away any wood debris in front of the fireplace, and if there’s tile in front of the hearth, make sure it’s dusted, mopped, and dried. If you have a gas fireplace, use your microfiber cloth to make sure the outside is cleaned.

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Take out any trash and replace the trash bag. “If your trash can has a lid, wipe it off too,” Gregory says.

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Got a little time left over? If you live in a house, go outside and “walk up [to your home] the way your guests would walk, and remove anything your guests would find there,” Gregory suggests. Make sure your pathways are cleared (and salted, if it’s snowy or icy out), children’s toys are put away, and there are no leaves or grass clippings on the walkway. Use an outdoor broom to sweep the walkway and clear away any cobwebs. Clean the storm door and sidelight windows with some glass cleaner and a microfiber cloth to make it shine. “If you have time, you’ll want to clean the bedroom along with the rest of the house,” Gregory says. “Worst case, shut the door, but absolutely make the bed.” That way, if anyone stumbles in, they’ll get an overall impression that—kids and all—you keep a tidy home.

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My Gym parties include exclusive use of the gym, including a zip line, rock wall, trampoline, trapeze, and climbing structures and slides. Instructors lead your guests through action-packed activities of your choice from Gazillion Bubbles to sports, with multiple theme options. NASTICS A TOTAL GYMNASTICS EXPERIENCE

921-1 Lincoln Ave., Holbrook 631-567-0066 nasticsnextgen.com

Nastics birthday parties include quality gymnastics instruction, exciting games, and the unforgettable experience on our trapeze, 40-foot tumble track, and trampoline.

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NOT JUST ART

183 South St., Oyster Bay 516-922-8300 notjustart.com create@notjustart.com

Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and beyond. Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard. PICASSO KIDZ, CREATIVE ART STUDIO FOR CHILDREN

72 Broadway, Greenlawn 631-261-5500 picassokidz.com picassokidzart@gmail.com

Picasso Kidz puts the “ART” in pARTy! Birthdays at Picasso Kidz are truly unique and memorable. We have many packages and options to choose from for ages 2-17. SAFARI ADVENTURE

1074 Pulaski St., Riverhead 631-727-4386 thesafariadventure.com dan@thesafariadventure.com

Safari Adventure is Long’s Island’s premier family fun center and birthday party place. Fun for the whole family with inflatables, a four-level soft playground, an arcade, interactive floor games, and a full cafe! SKY ZONE TRAMPOLINE PARK-DEER PARK

111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park 631-392-2600 skyzone.com/deerpark deerparkinfo@skyzone.com

The best birthday parties are at Sky Zone, Deer Park. We customize every birthday party. We have themed parties and super hero parties that include dodgeball, Foam Zone, Sky Slam, and endless jumping opportunities! STUDIO E ART CLASSES

565 Route 25A, Miller Place 631-744-4001 studioeartclass.com/parties

Studio E Art Classes offers two economical party options! “The Bash” Starting at only $290 and “The Extravaganza” starting at only $420! View details at studioeartclass.com/parties. TAS NEW YORK – THEORY OF ARTS AND SCIENCES

153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1-888-827-8188 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park tasnewyork.com

The Theory of Arts & Sciences (TAS) birthday packages include all you need for a two-hour guided paint or arts and crafts party. We also offer special add-ons including face painting, henna, and custom invitations. THOMAS SCHOOL OF HORSEMANSHIP RIDING ACADEMY

250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com

tsh@tshcamp.com Birthday parties, scout parties, and class trips are always a blast at the Thomas School of Horsemanship. For groups of 14-18 children. They receive one hour of riding time.

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1116 Main Road, Aquebogue 631-722-2170 600 S. Service Road, Dix Hills 631-271-0777 14 Research Way, East Setauket 631-331-6400 168 Hill St., Southampton 631-283-3272 alternatives4children.org Providing quality affordable daycare and special education services since 1988. Creating a natural learning environment fostering each child’s development. Early Intervention and Preschool Special Education evaluation site and provider. Preschool special education, integrated classes, and daycare classes taught by NYS special education early childhood teachers, and certified daycare staff promoting a child’s development through individualized instruction that will support them for the rest of their lives. Special education services of physical, occupational, and speech therapy provided by licensed therapists. Children leave Alternatives For Children ready to learn and ready for kindergarten.

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29 Pinewood Drive, Commack 631-499-1237 bbdps.com Building Blocks Developmental Preschool is a NYS-approved provider of special education preschool services, serving Suffolk County for more than 31 years. All of our special education classes follow NYS Learning Standards for preschool special education. The preschool curriculum encompasses pre-literacy activities, language development, math concepts, fine and gross motor activities, and peer socialization while incorporating each child’s specific educational plan. Individual goals are targeted through a multi-model approach to encourage success. Our staff has many years of experience in early childhood special education. Half- and full-day programs available.

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Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com; info@villageeastgifted.com The Village East Gifted® (VEG) Preschool, Pre-K, and Kindergarten programs implement a “100 percent Academic” curriculum designed for young accelerated learners ages 2-5. The classes are small and lessons are differentiated to accommodate the highest level of comprehension in each class. Students are taught skills to prepare them for the VEG CORE afterschool classes (grades kindergarten to 11th) which include Latin, writing and grammar, geography, global studies, SAT and ACT vocabulary, mathematics, living science, study skills, and creative problem solving. IQ scores are not required but an interview must be scheduled to determine academic readiness.

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1 Higbie Drive, Smithtown 631-265-3334 learnwithscs.org Smithtown Christian Preschool has been in existence since 1972 and has maintained a high standard of excellence. Our preschool program and teachers are registered and permanently certified with the New York State Department of Education. In all curriculum areas of our three-year-old and four-year-old programs, emphasis is placed on inspiring a love for one another as explained in God’s Word-the Bible, developing a love for learning and developing the ability to think logically, make associations, and solve problems independently.

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Posey School

57 Main St., Northport 631-757-2700 poseyschoolofdance.com; poseyschoolofdance@gmail.com Posey School offers dance classes for infants-adults, a preschool program, and fine art classes. We offer classes during convenient days and times. Posey preschool runs every day from 9am-12pm with certified teachers and a lunch option after from 12-1pm. Dance classes include ballet, pointe, contemporary-modern, jazz, tap, choreography, character dance, mommy-and-me, and creative movement. Based on nationally recognized criteria, our unique programs emphasize the artistic and cultural benefits of applying oneself in the arts. These benefits include acquiring and maintaining basic physical skills, and cognitive development in problem solving.

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Donna M. Charbonneau is the executive director of Building Blocks Developmental Preschool. BBDPS offers a range of programs and services to children from infancy through age 5. Currently staffed with more than 100 teachers, therapists, and paraprofessionals, including registered nurses, psychologists, speech and language pathologists, occupational therapists, a physical therapist, and a developmental pediatrician. Early Intervention services are provided for children younger than 3, who have developmental delays. Building Blocks Developmental Preschool continues to ensure delivery of the highest quality educational services to all students.

Cummings Family Dental 42 High St., Huntington 631-425-1650 cummingsfamilydentistry.com cummingsfamilydentistry@aol.com

Lice Tamers, Inc. 900 Walt Whitman Road, Suite LL2, Melville 631-479-2595 licetamers.com licetamers@gmail.com

Dr. Cummings believes that a dentist and patient become a team for treating an individual’s dental needs. She listens to understand your concerns and respond with the best treatment options for you. She received her degree from Howard University College of Dentistry and her postdoctoral training from University Hospital Stony Brook. Dr. Cummings is trained and experienced in providing dental care for patients with special needs, as well as complete dental care for the entire family. There’s a story behind every smile and we’d like to be part of yours!

Melissa Levin is a board-certified family nurse practitioner. She is also the owner and operator of Lice Tamers. For the past 15 years Melissa has treated children and their families for lice using a natural, holistic approach. She has also worked tirelessly to educate parents about lice prevention, and to help remove the stigma associated with contracting lice. Lice Tamers offers a child-friendly approach to lice removal, in a relaxed, fun environment with snacks, WiFi, and toys. Melissa also offers free educational seminars to schools and camps.

Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 • Nassau: 516-216-1791 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, owns and operates Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. With her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES (Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing) are also offered. Seven affiliated offices across Long Island participate with most health insurance and offer evening and Saturday hours.

Pediatric Immediate Care 150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337) 698 Manhattan Ave., Brooklyn 718-389-PEDS (7337) pediatricimmediatecare.com

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How to Have a Forgettable Thanksgiving By Deborah Skolnik

If you want to have a turkey of a Thanksgiving, just follow these steps. (And in case you don’t, we have some suggestions for you!) 1. Before everyone arrives, bet out loud that your uncle will tell his same dumb jokes again. (Of course, you also won’t be laughing when your kids ask, “Is he the one who tells bad jokes, mommy?” when he’s standing right in front of them.) Instead: Be tolerant of your family’s flaws—after all, you’ll only be spending a few hours together. And remember that young kids pick up on what you say, but don’t always realize it isn’t nice to repeat it. 2. Apologize to everyone for everything—the state of your house, the size of the table, the overdone green beans… Instead: Relax! Your guests can’t unwind unless you do. Focus on the positive and that will be what they—and you—remember. 3. Spend the entire meal fretting that one of the children will spill cranberry sauce on your best tablecloth. Instead: Use a paper tablecloth and put out some crayons so the kids can color on it. (Then watch as an adult, not a kid, spills the cranberry sauce. Oops.) 4. Discuss politics over pumpkin pie and watch everyone get into a big ole Thanksgiving fight. Instead: Go around the table and have everyone share what they’re most grateful for this year. Even little kids can participate. 5. Get pouty when people want to watch football instead of eating. Instead: Realize that for some guests, football is a highlight of the holiday. Pick the game that matters the most to everyone, and schedule your meal around it. 6. Leave the kids to do their own thing during the football game or adult conversation time, then get upset because they made a mess or broke a vase. Instead: Set up a dedicated play space—away from breakable items—with games, crafts, and other fun stuff for the kiddos to enjoy.

Kids Giving Back “‘I’ve always lived an incredibly fortunate life,’ [Hannah] Taylor says. ‘Always had a bed to sleep in, food to eat, and love and care. I didn’t realize that anybody in Canada had to live a homeless life. It hit me right in the gut. I think that everyone has a moment like that in life. A striking realization that you just cannot let go and forget about. For me, this was it.’” —as told to Julia Hyman in “Making a Difference: Meet 5 Young Adults Who Started Nonprofit Organizations”; read the full article at nymetroparents.com/making-a-difference.

More NYMetroParents.com Highlights: CLOWNING AROUND: Find out what it takes to be in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade at nymetroparents.com/clowns. GIVING THANKS: 10 Thanksgiving traditions you can start this year (nymetroparents.com/traditions) BEST FALL EVER!: See our list of 50 ways to make the most of the season at nymetroparents.com/fall. DISH UP: Try these new spins on old Thanksgiving favorites (nymetroparents.com/thanksgiving-sides)

7. Let an overtired child throw a monster tantrum. Instead: Make a bedroom, den, or other space available for napping.

POTTERHEADS REJOICE: Read about New-York Historical Society’s new Harry Potter exhibit at nymetroparents.com/harry-potter.

8. Heroically refuse offers to help with cleanup. Instead: Say, “Yes, thanks!” You’ll get your kids (and yourself) to bed sooner.

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