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Holiday Joys

How to Save Money on Holiday Shopping

14 Become a Resort Family

Find something to help your family beat that winter chill!

These tips will help you stick to your budget while snagging real bargains.

How to Raise a World-Aware Teen

Your child’s now old enough to grasp global issues—and to change the planet for the better, too.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 My Family Saved Someone’s Life 12 Keeping Your Family Healthy 18 The Pros and Cons of Elf on the Shelf 38 How to Raise a World-Aware Teen 40 Professional Services 41 Open Houses 42 Party Central 43 Academic Enrichment and Educational Services 43 Tutors & Test Prep at a Glance 44 Meet the Health Care Professional 45 Advertisers’ Index 46 Parenting Humor

11 Glitter Gifts

16 13 Ways to Stay Safe This Holiday Season

20 Family Fun in Manhattan

36 How to Save Money on Holiday Shopping

23 Family Activities Calendar 34 Holiday Joys

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Helping Parents Make Better Decisions ON THE COVER ›› 16 Kid-Safe Decorating 18 Elf on the Shelf: Yay or Nay? 36 Sticking to Your Gift-Giving Budget 38 World-Aware Teens facebook.com/nymetroparents

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DECEMBER 2018 • Vol.10 • No.7

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EDITORIAL DIRECTOR: Katelin Walling ASSISTANT EDITORS: Anja Webb, Melissa Wickes DIRECTOR OF CONTENT: Deborah Skolnik

Season’s Readings!

absolutely adore this time of year, don’t you? The days may be short, but they’re jampacked full of joyful doings. Whether you’re shopping for presents for loved ones, admiring the twinkling holiday lights, or cooking up special treats, there’s a cozy feel to it all. And the only thing more delightful than savoring the season’s many pleasures is experiencing them from your child’s wide-eyed perspective. Of course, in all the excitement we want to make sure you and your kids steer clear of hazards—that’s why we urge you to read Lambeth Hochwald’s feature “13 Ways to Stay Safe This Holiday Season” on p. 16. Don’t light a candle, buy a festive new plant, or set out special décor before reading what the experts have to say. Speaking of experts, we also have the pros’ best tips for getting discounts on all those gifts you’re buying. Turn to p. 36 for “How to Save Money on Holiday Shopping” by Denise Porretto, which offers brilliant strategies for bargain-hunting, both online and at brick-and-mortar stores. You’ll wonder how you ever did without these easy ways to earn cash back on purchases, snag hot products at low prices, and more. Meanwhile, what would Christmas be without a few traditions? This issue, we take a closer look at a somewhat controversial one: Elf on the Shelf. He’s meant to watch over your young kids and report back to Santa about whether they belong on the ‘nice’ or ‘naughty’ list, but does that make him sweet, or a spy? In Anja Webb’s “The Pros and Cons of Elf on the Shelf” on p. 18, real parents, plus others who grew up with the steely-eyed sprite, offer advice on how to deploy your elf so he’s fun for little ones. Yet the holiday season isn’t only for small children, which is why those of you with older kids will appreciate Allison Ingrum’s story, “Raise a World-Aware Teen” on p. 38. These days more than ever, it’s important for our youth to know what’s happening around the globe—and help change our planet for the better. After the holidays wrap—or even before—you may just have had your fill of blustery weather and busy days. Who could blame you if you just want to get away from it all for a while? Not us! That’s what makes our travel story “Become a Resort Family” on p. 14 so timely. We’ve rounded up our picks of family-friendly all-inclusive resorts and destinations, blessed spots where all you have to do is relax. Even if you can’t book a getaway this minute, it’s a great read for fantasizing. On that subject, here’s wishing you and yours the holiday of your dreams! Deborah Skolnik Director of Content

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ave you ever had an ordinary day suddenly turn extraordinary? That’s what happened to us in late July. My husband Vinnie had come home early from work, and we’d gone to an afternoon movie at the Galleria Mall in Poughkeepsie with our four kids. As we left the theater around 4:30pm, I noticed a black BMW near our car in the parking lot. We got in our car and I pulled out of our parking spot. That’s when I saw the BMW’s driver: He was lying on his back across the center console, and his feet were sticking out the driver’s-side door. The car was running and the radio was blasting. “Something is wrong with this guy,” I said. Vinnie thought the man was just sleeping, but I urged him to check. Vinnie got out of the car and tapped the guy’s foot, saying “Hey buddy, hey bro.” There was no response. My husband looked at me. “Call nine-one-one,” he said. The emergency operator told us to pull the man out of the car and lay him on the ground. Vinnie got a couple of passersby to help him while I stayed on the phone with the operator. I pulled our car up so my kids couldn’t see what was happening, but I looked on. The driver—he was a young man—was taking breaths every 30 seconds, if that. He was pale, white, and sweaty, and his lips were blue-purple. The police showed up first. Immediately, they concluded the man was suffering from a drug overdose. They administered Narcan—a substance designed to counteract opioid overdose— through his nose, which did nothing. Paramedics arrived shortly thereafter and administered more Narcan through an IV. Immediately, miraculously, it brought the guy back to life. I heard him say he’d used two bags of heroin. He bounced back so much he wanted to go home, but of course

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the paramedics insisted he go to the hospital for observation. As I sat there watching it all unfold, stunned, one of the police officers came up to me. “This man was dead,” he told me. “You literally just saved his life by calling nine-one-one.” The young man, now sitting up on a stretcher, looked at the police officer and said, “Thanks.” “Don’t thank me,” the officer replied. “You can thank these two over here. They’re the ones that called.” On the way home, my 8-year-old daughter asked me, “Mom, did that man have a heart attack?” I looked at my husband and said, “I’m just going to tell them.” “That man was dying because he did very bad drugs,” I explained. We talked about how dangerous illegal drugs are, and why you should never use them. My husband and I turned it into a teaching moment—not only about drugs, but also about how if you see someone in trouble, you should call for help and not just walk by, as I’m sure a lot of people might have done. The movie we’d seen was The Incredibles 2, and my son said, “Mommy, you and Daddy are just like Mr. and Mrs. Incredible!” It’s true I did feel inspired by what we’d done—but I was also sad for what we’d seen. I’m sure this experience will stay with my three older kids, who are 12, 8, and 6, for the rest of their lives. My 4-year-old probably won’t remember, but I’m hoping she’ll learn from her older siblings. I’m also hoping people start realizing how big the opioid addiction crisis is. Most of all, I’m hoping the young man we saved stays safe. What happens if he needs saving again—will anyone be there to rescue him the next time? Because the mother in me knows: He’s someone’s child.

Jenn Colucci is a mother of four and the content coordinator for the upcoming Living Lagrange magazine, as well as the receiver of taxes for the Town of Beekman.

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Glitter Gifts!

Add a little sparkle to your holiday season with these crafty gift ideas, perfect for Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or just because! Create a cozy mug with some added ﬂair to enjoy a nice cup of hot cocoa, an abstract art canvas to unleash your inner Picasso, or a shining ornament to make your tree stand out. No matter what your occasion for gift giving, make it extra special with something handmade… and glittery! These crafts, excerpted from “Glitter!” by Adams Media, are sure to make your holiday season one to remember!

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Make a (dishwasher safe) glitter-dipped mug with easy-to-find items! You’ll need:

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Now… 1. Tape off your mug and use paintbrush to apply Mod Podge below the tapeline. 2. Now go glitter-crazy! 3. Peel off tape and let dry for 4-8 hours. 4. Use paintbrush to dab a coat of Mod Podge over the glitter. Let sit for 28 days before washing. Beware: Friends will be tempted to “borrow” it.

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5 Ways to Keep Your Family Healthy During Flu Season By Melissa Wickes

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old and flu season: Every parent dreads it. It can feel crippling knowing there is likely a sneeze coming in your child’s direction or a kid with a fever drooling on your day care’s set of Legos. Remember: Kids are still building their immune systems, so it’s normal for them to get sick frequently. “I have parents tell me that they can remember more days when their kid had a runny nose than days when they didn’t,” says Aimée Kahn, M.D., M.P.H., pediatrician at Crystal Run Healthcare in Nyack. This year, get ahead of the cold and flu game by instilling these simple practices in your children and taking precautions, as suggested by Dr. Kahn.

weather, but you’re not getting the flu from the flu shot. In fact, it is nothing compared to the actual flu,” Dr. Kahn says. Maintain a healthy diet. Of course, your child should also be getting all the vitamins she needs—something that will happen as long as she’s eating a healthy, nutritious diet (though you can’t go wrong with a multivitamin!). Also check that your county’s water supply has fluoride in it. If not, you may want to make sure your child is getting the right amount of fluoride, Dr. Kahn suggests.

Wash your hands. It’s one of the most important things you, your child, or anyone can do to prevent spreading infection. Teach your children to wash before eating, after playtime, after playgroup, and after using the bathroom, Dr. Kahn suggests. Properly washing your hands means wetting, cleaning with soap for 10-15 seconds, and rinsing completely. Also emphasize sneezing and coughing into a sleeve or tissue and then throwing that tissue away.

Don’t let your child share things that go in his mouth. After spending the last few years teaching your child the importance of sharing, flu season is the time to throw those lessons out the window. Well, at least for utensils, pacifiers, cups, and other items that go in your child’s mouth, Dr. Kahn stresses. Even if a child in playgroup is not showing symptoms of a cold or flu, there is often an incubation period when she is contagious anyway, so it is best not to share these things ever. If your child drops his pacifier, don’t be so quick to give it a swift wipe and pop it back in his mouth.

Get your vaccinations. Especially this flu season, getting vaccinated is the best way to protect yourself and your children from the flu. A record number of 183 pediatric deaths were reported to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention during the 2017-2018 season. Approximately 80 percent of the deaths occurred in children who did not receive a flu vaccination, according to the CDC. Many parents are concerned their child can contract the flu from the vaccine itself. “The injection is not a live vaccine, so if you are feeling under the weather after receiving the vaccine, it is simply your body’s autoimmune response. It may make you feel under the

Know when to take your child to the doctor. Although kids do get sick frequently, it’s important to know the signs that it is time to get your child evaluated by a pediatrician. If he has a high fever that won’t come down with Tylenol or Motrin, you should see the doctor. Once your child is fever-free, wait 24 hours before letting her go back to school. Think about it: Would you want someone else sending their sick kid into school to cough all over your child? Perhaps most importantly, if your child shows any signs of difficulty breathing, including fast breathing, nasal flaring, and using extra muscles to breathe, you should take her to the doctor immediately, Dr. Kahn says.

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Traveling with the kids can get expensive, so we found the best all-inclusive resorts that are sure to keep everyone happy. By Katelin Walling

efore kids, traveling with your partner was relatively easy. Sure, you had to figure out the logistics of getting from point A to destination B, along with where to stay, what to do, and places to eat, but that wasn’t too much of a hassle. Ever since kids entered the picture, though, planning a destination vacation has become a balancing act, one that includes making sure there are plenty of activities the little ones will love, that the restaurants you dine at have food your picky eaters will like, and that the hotel room has enough sleeping space for your brood. Does the thought of coordinating everything make you want to hire a vacation planner? Fear not! For a family vacation everyone will love, consider booking a stay at an all-inclusive resort. While some locations are for adults only, many others are turning their focus to families, offering unlimited activities, kids’ clubs, and dining options that even hardto-please children will love. This list doesn’t include every single all-inclusive resort brand out there; the five chosen here offer unique experiences for families, clubs for kids and teens, and other amenities to ensure everyone in the family has an unforgettable vacation.

Beaches

A sister brand to Sandals, the first Beaches resort opened in 1997 in response to requests from couples who loved Sandals Resorts and wanted a similar experience with their families. Destinations: Beaches has three family-friendly resorts: two are located in Jamaica and one is in Turks & Caicos. Highlights: Each location features a Pirates Island waterpark (Turks & Caicos recently expanded its waterpark offerings) with waterslides, spray areas, waterfalls, zero-entry pools, and more. Plus, Turks & Caicos is the only Beaches resort to offer SurfStream®, a surf simulator. Beaches has an exclusive partnership with Sesame 14

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Street, so you’ll frequently spot your favorite characters roaming the grounds for kids to meet, interact with in special themed activities, and see in stage shows and character parades. Tweens and teens can take advantage of the arcade Trench Town and the Xbox Play Lounge. These resorts also offer teens-only dance time at Club Liquid before it transitions to the 21 and older night club. And for teens who want a more meaningful vacation, Beaches offers Island Impact volunteer opportunities in July and August. Kids Clubs: All Beaches resorts have Kids Camp for younger guests, ages newborn to 12, and programs that are just for tweens and teens. And your children will be in good hands: Kids Camp staff and private child care providers are members of the International Nanny Association. In addition, Beaches’ Kids Camps are Certified Autism Centers through the International Board of Credentialing and Continuing Education Standards, so staff members are able to cater to children who are on the spectrum. To book: beaches.com

Club Med

With more than 70 locations worldwide in a variety of destinations, you’ll find a resort in the spot of your dreams, whether you prefer tropical weather for beach lounging or snowier climates for all-day skiing. Destinations: In addition to its Sandpiper Bay resort in Florida, Club Med has locations in Mexico; the Caribbean; the Alps in France, Italy, and Switzerland; throughout Europe and the Mediterranean, including Greece, Portugal, and Turkey; across Asia, including Thailand, Maldives, China, Indonesia, Japan, and Malaysia; Brazil; and Africa, including Morocco, Tunisia, and Senegal. Highlights: Kids younger than 4 always stay free, though services for this age range sometimes cost extra. Some locations have a trapeze for high-flying fun, and Punta Cana in the Dominican

Dreams Resorts & Spas

If staying at an environmentally conscious resort is more your speed, Dreams Resorts & Spas has eight locations that are Rainforest Alliance-certified (they follow the alliance’s eight principles of sustainability). Destinations: Dreams has 15 destinations for families throughout Mexico, the Dominican Republic, Costa Rica, Panama, and Puerto Rico. Highlights: There’s so much to do at Dreams, the kids will never complain of boredom. Though activities vary at each location, indoor and outdoor offerings include pingpong, volleyball, soccer, archery, painting, ocean trampoline, a scalable iceberg, Pilates and yoga, pool tables, croquet, a giant chess board, tennis, dance lessons, movies, and Euro-Bungee. In addition, water sport activities include water polo, kayaking, snorkeling, catamarans, sailing, and windsurfing. Once a week kids can have a camping adventure on the beach, hosted by the Explorer’s Club at all locations, while parents can enjoy a date night. Kids Clubs: Dreams resorts offer Explorer’s Club for ages 3-12 and various activities just for teens. Properties in the Dominican Republic, Costa Rica, and Dreams Sands Cancun Resort & Spa offer Core Zone Teens Club for ages 13-17. Private babysitting services are available at participating locations for an additional fee. To book: dreamsresorts.com

Grand Memories and Memories

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As their names imply, Grand Memories and Memories resorts aim to help families create lasting memories with natural surroundings, white-sand beaches, and a host of activities for kids.

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Republic and Opio en Provence in France are home to CREACTIVE, a Cirque du Soleil-inspired playscape at which guests can learn acrobatic and artistic skills (including trapeze, high bungee, and trampoline). Cancun Yucatan recently underwent renovations and now offers an expanded Aguamarina, a family area featuring two-bedroom accommodations with a dedicated pool area and stretch of beach only for families staying in this part of the resort. Kids Clubs: Of the many locations worldwide, only a select few are adult-only resorts. Kids’ clubs are available at most locations for ages 4 months to 17 years, including Baby Club Med (ages 4-23 months), Petit Club Med (ages 2-3), Mini Club Med (ages 4-10), Juniors’ Club Med (ages 11-17), and Club Med Passworld (ages 11-17). In addition, Club Med offers Pyjama Club from 7-11pm and babysitting services (both an additional fee) for date nights or those times you wish to have an adults-only excursion. To book: clubmed.us

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Destinations: Memories and Grand Memories have eight family-friendly resorts located in Cuba and the Dominican Republic. Highlights: Memories Splash Punta Cana closed in August for renovations to become Grand Memories Splash and Grand Memories Punta Cana, both slated to open mid-November. Splash features family-friendly accommodations, including rooms with bunk beds, plus one of the largest on-site waterparks in the Caribbean, with seven slides, a wave pool, splash pads, and spray features. As a neighboring property, Grand Memories Punta Cana has access to Splash’s waterpark. Kids Clubs: Each of the Memories and Grand Memories properties offers a kids’ club for ages 4-12, where kids can socialize, play on the playground, and enjoy games. Plus, all kids’ clubs feature Toopy & Binoo, a cat-and-mouse duo that make interactive appearances and host activities and games, as well as a live show. Grand Memories Splash and Punta Cana, as well as Memories Parasio and Flamenco, are the only locations with a Teens’ Lounge for ages 13-17. In addition, Memories Parisio, Varadero, and Flamenco offer Baby Club for ages newborn to 3. To book: memoriesresorts.com

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Royalton resorts feature All-In Luxury®, where every aspect of your vacation has been carefully designed to meet your needs. And with the optional Diamond Club™ upgrade available at all locations, you can have access to an exclusive beach and pool, along with other amenities, for an unforgettable stay. Destinations: Royalton has seven family-friendly locations in Jamaica, Saint Lucia, Dominican Republic, and Mexico. Plus, Royalton Antigua is slated to open in early 2019. Highlights: Each property features a splash pad for kids, on-site entertainment, and an All-In White Party once a week featuring music, dancing, entertainment, and light shows. For extra water fun, select locations have additional waterpark attractions. Riviera Cancun features Splash Safari, with water slides for all ages, water spray features, and a Crocodile Walk Way challenge in the wading pool; White Sands features a pirate-themed splash park with water sprays and slides of varying heights; and Bavaro is the only property with a Flowrider surf machine. Meanwhile, as a sister resort to Grand Memories, Royalton Punta Cana guests and Diamond Club™ members at Bavaro have access to Grand Memories Splash’s waterpark. In addition, all locations have high-speed Wi-Fi, which makes checking in with each other easy (and prevents teens from going into social media withdrawal). Kids Clubs: All Royalton locations offer Clubhouse Kids Club for ages 4-12 and Hangout Teens Club for ages 13-17. The kids’ club allows young resort guests to have fun with their peers while interacting with the beloved brother-sister bunny duo, Max & Ruby. Meanwhile, the club for teen vacationers features PlayStation gaming consoles, pingpong tables, and scheduled activities across the resort. To book: royaltonresorts.com LongIslandParent 15

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It’s the most wonderful time of the year, but the holidays are also fraught with potential home safety hazards. Read on as we help you keep your entire family safe this season. By Lambeth Hochwald ’

is the season to be jolly for sure. But the holidays are also the time of year when things get so hectic that household accidents can easily occur. Whether it’s a Christmas tree that topples over or a bubbling pot of mulled cider that splatters, it’s important to be aware of the biggest potential safety hazards around the house during the holidays, when you may be more focused on stringing lights than the toddler getting tangled in the electrical cord. Here are the 13 most important things you can do to stay safe this holiday season. Practice smart Christmas tree set-up. Once you’ve hauled your tree into your home, make sure to place it in a sturdy, appropriately sized stand. You need to take this crucial step to ensure it doesn’t become a tipping hazard, says Debra Holtzman, a nationally recognized child safety and health expert and the author of The Safe Baby. “To prevent your tree from tipping over, securely anchor it or put a safety gate around it,” she says. In addition, place your tree away from the busiest trafficked areas in your home. “Always place it out of the doorways, exits, and heat sources,” she says. Stay on top of family members’ tree allergies. Some live Christmas trees, including cedars, can cause asthma, allergies, and an itchy skin rash because they can be filled with mold spores and allergens, says Robert Weitz, a certified microbial investigator and founder of RTK Environmental, a mold testing and mold inspec-

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tion company in New York City. In addition, the needles on pine, spruce, and fir trees are a definite choking hazard. How do you know if a family member may be allergic? “Rashes can be a sign of mold allergy or sensitivity,” Weitz says. “Other symptoms can include headaches, fatigue, throat and eye irritations, wheezing, and many respiratory problems including asthma.” If your child suffers from allergies or asthma consider purchasing a fake tree. Be choosy about artificial trees. Many are manufactured in China and made from two items: PVC, a petroleum-based plastic, and lead, used to stabilize PVC. “The lead in the ‘greens’ breaks down into lead dust, which is released into the air, poisoning everyone, but especially children younger than six,” Weitz says. “To protect your children from lead poisoning, be sure to buy a tree that’s made in the USA.” Tip: If you’re going the artificial tree route, also make sure it’s labeled “fire resistant,” Holtzman says. Decorate safely. Only purchase décor that is made of non-combustible or flame-retardant materials, Holtzman advises. “If you have small children, avoid decorations that are sharp, breakable, weighted, or have small movable parts,” she says, “and avoid trimmings that resemble candy or food that may tempt a child to eat them.” Some decorations may contain lead, cadmium (a toxic metal), or other toxic materials that can be harmful to young children, so it’s best to stow all holiday decorations out of reach. Tip: There’s an easy way to iden-

Assess your plants. There’s nothing like filling your home with cheery seasonal plants such as mistletoe, holly, Christmas rose, and Jerusalem cherry. However, these are all quite poisonous. “Be sure to keep these plants (and all plants) out of the reach of small children,” Holtzman says. Also, while those ubiquitous Christmastime poinsettias were once blamed for a death about a century ago, recent studies indicate they’re not as toxic as was thought at that time, Holtzman says. However, they may cause some gastric irritation and burning in the mouth if the leaves are ingested, so make sure your little ones stay away from them. Important tip: If you suspect your child has ingested a poisonous plant, call the Poison Help Line at 1-800-222-1222 ASAP. Skip the candles. While they add wonderful atmosphere to a holiday celebration, avoid them, Holtzman says. “Consider using electric or battery-operated flameless candles instead,” she says. If you just can’t quit the candles, keep them on a stable, heat-resistant surface in sight where kids and pets cannot reach them or knock them over. “And always make sure you extinguish them when you leave the room or home or go to sleep, and never use lit candles to decorate the tree,” Holtzman adds. Use caution with electric lights. This means using only lights that have been tested for safety by a nationally recognized testing laboratory such as Underwriters Laboratories. “And make sure to check outdoor lights for labels showing that the lights have been certified for outdoor use, and only plug them into a ground-fault circuit interrupter-protected receptacle or to a portable GFCI,” Holtzman says. “To be safe always read the manufacturer’s instructions for the maximum number of light strands to connect. Replace any strand [that has] a frayed cord or loose bulb connections.” Practice fireplace safety. Once a year you should hire a professional chimney sweep to prevent build-up and potential fire hazards in your fireplace, Holtzman says. “In addition, be sure to put a safety gate in the doorway to the room with a fireplace or install a hearth gate around the area,” she adds. Never leave your fire unattended. “Extinguish the fire fully before leaving the house or going to bed and allow the ashes to cool before removing them,” she says. Ashes should be disposed of in a tightly covered metal container and placed outdoors, at least 10 feet from the home and any other nearby buildings. “Never empty the ash directly into a trash can,” Holtzman says. “Always douse and saturate the ashes with water.” Take precautions with button batteries. You know those small, shiny batteries that are found in flashing holiday jewelry or holiday decorations? They’re a severe choking hazard. “When swallowed, a coin-sized lithium battery can lodge in the throat of a child,” Holtzman says. “Saliva then triggers an electrical current, causing a chemical reaction that can severely burn the esophagus in as little as two hours. The chemicals in the battery can also cause serious harm to a child if the battery is inserted into the ear or nose.” Your best bet: Corral any item that contains lithium batteries including your remote controls, toys, singing greeting cards, digital thermometers, flameless candles, calculators, key fobs, watches, flashing holiday jewelry, or decorations. “Know which items and devices in your home have button batteries,” Holtzman says. “Children love to pick up gadgets, play with them, and take them apart. Duct tape battery compartments if they do not have a screw to secure them closed, and keep these objects out of the sight and reach of small children.”

Keep alcohol out of reach. That bowl of spiked holiday punch and those cups of leftover drinks (including the ice cubes in them) that may be strewn around the house should be kept out of reach of children at all times. Ditto for the eggnog. “Alcohol affects children more drastically than adults, so even small amounts of alcohol can be dangerous,” Holtzman says. “Remove all empty and partially empty cups as soon as possible.” Plan menus around guests’ allergies. The holidays are a wonderful time for friends and family to get together, but a celebration can go seriously awry if any guests have allergies to the foods you are serving or the ones that are being brought to a potluck. Send around a list of foods you plan to serve to your guests before they arrive at your house so you’re sure to keep your visitors safe. Place choking-hazard treats out of reach. For many families, holiday parties are best known for featuring delicious homemade Chex mix and bowls of mixed nuts. “Those are exactly the types of foods you should keep out of the reach of young children,” Holtzman says. “Any firm round foods such as popcorn, nuts, and candy canes should be kept as far away from children as possible because they pose a choking risk.” Create an no-kid zone. If you’re planning to serve food from your stovetop, whether it’s a bowl of chili, stew, or other cold-weather goodies, make your kitchen a no-kid zone, Holtzman says. Consider this a safe way to make sure your cuties don’t get splashed, burned, or injured while you’re cooking. Lambeth Hochwald is a New York City-based journalist covering trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

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appy holidays! Many of you who celebrate Christmas have already unpacked your Elf on the Shelf and begun plotting the hijinks your little guy will get into for the ’gram. But is Elf on the Shelf really for everyone? While he’s loved by many, there are those who find the steelyeyed sprite manipulative or even—dare we say?—creepy. Let’s take a moment to think about the pros and cons of Santa’s little spy.

A Cute and Cherished Tradition

Now don’t get us wrong: We can see the value in creating a holiday tradition for your household. And, of course, we’ve all seen the pictures on social media of the little cuties bathing in marshmallow baths, sleeping in tissue boxes, and playing mini games of Twister with My Little Pony. A lot of families think their elf adds that extra dash of Christmas magic to their holiday season. “My kids absolutely love it! It’s such a fun experience for them in preparation for Christmas,” says Antoinette McCune, a mother of three. “It’s also a fun, and sometimes stressful, game for us as parents to try and think of new ways to hide our little elf.” And let’s not forget that the elf encourages kids to be on their best behavior during the month of December, which can certainly make parenting a little bit easier. “My son loves it! It works to remind him that Santa is watching if he is being good,” says Frank Martinez, a father of two. After all, a big part of the Santa lore is that ‘he sees you when you’re sleeping,’ whether that be through good old-fashioned omniscience or a scout elf.

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his parents misplaced it. The parents didn’t think anything of it, but every day after school he would come home and search the whole house for his elf. After seeing it wasn’t there, he assumed he was disliked by the elf,” says Sadie Sparks. “Trying to instill positive morals on a child by tricking them also seems very counterproductive to society.” Though it may seem a bit harsh, others also feel it’s selfinterested for parents to use the Elf to teach morals. And, they add, it’s an approach that may backfire: The concept of being constantly under surveillance could scare the child or teach him that he should only behave when there is some tangible benefit to him, like getting presents. “It really depends on the level of trust in the parent-child relationship. I definitely valued my privacy and my mom respected it to a degree,” says Brandon Klemm, a chef and pizza maker who grew up with the elf. “I don’t know how I feel about kids being afraid of being themselves because they believe they’re being watched at all times.” Now, that’s not entirely the Elf ’s fault; as previously mentioned, legend has it that Santa’s constantly watching kids. But something about having that abstract concept materialized and in the home doesn’t quite sit well with everyone.

A Less Invasive Elf

So what can we parents do if we still want a snazzy little add-on to our holiday celebrations, but one that doesn’t instill in our child a fear of being watched at all times? Well, we could try repurposing our Elf on the Shelf. “I had an alternate version in my house growing up. It was called the Kindness Elf and my mom did a pretty good job of

making it a positive thing,” says Lauren Farrell, a student at New York University. “It was generally kept in public spaces within the house and every day I had to find the elf and it was always holding a different card that challenged me to do something kind for someone that day.”

Elf Alternative

If the elf doesn’t quite match your aesthetic (even though felt is so in right now) you can always give Reindeer in Here a chance: It’s a plush toy children are meant to bond with during the month of December. It’s similar to the elf, except children can touch and play with it, and its purpose is to listen to what the child really wants for Christmas and then inform Santa. “It’s not about watching a child, or intimidating a child,” says Adam Reed, an author, television producer, and creator of Reindeer in Here. “It’s about empowering and creating a positive Christmas tradition that families can look back to.” Reindeer in Here is also designed with one antler shorter than the other and has a companion book that features a cast of sidekicks with visible differences, such as a cross-eyed penguin and a polar bear with a bit of a bald patch. “The true message is being different is normal, not being different is special,” Reed says. “This book is about getting to the heart of why each child is unique and different and finding what their true Christmas wishes are.”

Make Room for a Mensch

But let’s not forget that the holiday season is more than just Christmas. For all you guys and gals who celebrate Hanukkah, there’s a Mensch on the Bench—a Jewish man sitting on a bench—just for you. “It’s tough to be Jewish during the month of December. There’s Christmas music on every radio, there’s decorations up, and all your friends have trees. You’re already feeling a little left out, and then Elf on the Shelf comes along and now we’re seeing that on social media as well,” says Neal Hoffman, creator of Mensch on a Bench. “There was an opportunity for what would be a Jewish alternative.” Enter the Mensch (which translated literally means a person of integrity and honor). It’s a plush toy that watches over the menorah at night and encourages more family time and engagement with pre-existing Hanukkah traditions such as playing dreidel and eating latkes (potato pancakes) and gelt (chocolate coins). The Mensch also places an emphasis on charity and doing good, as the name would imply. “Mensches encourage kids to do one good deed,” Hoffman says. “One of the rules for having a mensch is that on one night of Hanukkah you give presents to someone in need rather than get presents yourself.” Whether you love your elf (or mensch) or wish it would just stop staring at you, here’s to a happy and wholesome holiday season with your family.

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From a luminous owl that flies above the audience to mice dressed in polka dots and dancers with huge chopsticks, this re-imagined version of The Nutcracker bursts with energy and excitement. The production is danced to Tchaikovsky’s beloved score and set in Art Nouveau style circa 1907 with choreography by Keith Michael, set design by Gillian Bradshaw-Smith, and costumes by Resident Costume Designer of the Metropolitan Opera, Sylvia Taalsohn Nolan. Dec. 14-16: Friday, 6pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11am, 1pm, and 3:30pm. Age: All. $27; $15 children. Florence Gould Hall, 55 E. 59th St., Upper East Side. nytb.org.

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Dazzling children and adults alike, the Transit Museum’s 17th Annual Holiday Train Show will feature Lionel trains traveling along a 34-foot, two-level, “O” gauge model train layout in the Shuttle Passage of Grand Central Terminal. Departing from a miniature replica of Grand Central on their way to the North Pole, the model trains featured in this year’s exhibit will be set against a backdrop designed by artist Ebony Bolt. Through Feb. 3: Monday-Friday, 8am-8pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-6pm. Age: All. FREE. New York Transit Museum Gallery and Store, Grand Central Terminal, Midtown. grandcentralterminal.com.

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For a day filled with fun and imagination, head over to American Girl Place to dine with your doll at the American Girl Café for brunch, afternoon tea, lunch, or dinner. Then, visit the salon for a spa treatment, ear piercing for both you and your doll, or get your hair done. It’s way more than just a store; it’s a whole day filled with activities. Visit it: American Girl Place Rockefeller Plaza, 75 Rockefeller Plaza, Midtown; americangirl.com; 877-247-5223 Can’t-miss event: Holiday Cookie Decorating: Fridays, Dec. 7-14 at 11am Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 10-minute drive or 1 hour, 30-minute LIRR and subway ride from Huntington.

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At the second annual Winter Onederland, your family will experience the holidaytransformed observatory, with visits from Santa, the Glacier Cave, the Giant Snow Globe, and more.

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See the city from an all new perspective at One World Observatory, where you’ll climb 102 stories in 47 seconds in a SkyPod elevator. Step onto the Sky Portal and see the streets 100 floors below, and, of course, experience 360 views of the greatest city in the world from the top of the tallest building in the Western Hemisphere! Visit it: One World Observatory, 285 Fulton St., Financial District; 844-595-1776; oneworldobservatory.com Can’t-miss event: Winter Onederland, Nov. 26-Jan. 7, 2019 Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 15-minute drive or a 1-hour, 30-minute LIRR and subway ride from Huntington.

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

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WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 9am-1pm WHERE: Great Hollow Middle School, 150 Southern Blvd., Nesconset AGES: All WHAT: There will be pictures with Santa, holiday shopping, face painting, gingerbread cookie decorating, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: Meeting Santa and giving back to your community is a wonderful holiday combo! WANT TO GO? $16 pre-sale; $20 at the door; free for children younger than 4. 516-521-7234. smithtownchildrensfoundation.com.

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 7pm WHERE: Barnes and Noble Smith Haven Mall, 600 Smith Haven Mall, Lake Grove AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: The beloved Christmas story features a young boy who is on a magical trip to the North Pole to make his Christmas wish. Plus, get free hot chocolate and a cookie. WHY WE LOVE IT: A cozy story wearing cozy pajamas...the ultimate holiday treat! WANT TO GO? 631-724-0341. barnesandnoble.com.

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WHEN: Dec. 1-2, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Port Jefferson Station Chamber of Commerce, 118 W. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: All WHAT: The Village of Port Jefferson will magically transform with streets filled with roaming characters such as Father Christmas, Dickens Mayor, Scrooge, the Town Crier, and the beloved chimney sweeps. WHY WE LOVE IT: A family event with festivities the whole family will enjoy! WANT TO GO? portjeffchamber.com.

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WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 16, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: All WHAT: Charlie Brown, Snoopy, and friends discover the real meaning of Christmas in this very special stage adaptation. WHY WE LOVE IT: Enjoy everyone’s favorite holiday classic! WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Ohman’s New York Dance Theatre ‘The Nutcracker’

WHEN: Dec. 16-17, Saturday-Sunday, 12pm and 5pm WHERE: Hofstra University, 102B Adams Playhouse, Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: Ohman’s The Nutcracker brings joy to young and old alike with added music, scenes, and dances. It’s the only one on Long Island performed in the tradition of New York City Ballet’s George Balanchine. WHY WE LOVE IT: New York City Ballet’s Daniel Ulbricht and Brittany Pollack will perform Cavalier and Sugarplum Fairy. WANT TO GO? $42; $32 seniors and children. 631-462-0964. ohmanballet.org.

The Nutcracker 2018 Seiskaya Ballet

WHEN: Dec. 20-23, daily, check the website for times WHERE: Staller Center - Stony Brook University, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The lavish sets and scenery are complimented by the work of the nationally recognized costume mistress, Haydee Morales. WHY WE LOVE IT: Check out choreography by world renowned, Russian-born choreographer, Valia Seiskaya. WANT TO GO? $40; $34 children. 631-632-6000. stallercenter.com.

‘Go Home Tiny Monster’ Puppet Show

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 29, 11am WHERE: Bay Street Theater, 1 Bay St., Sag Harbor AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Sylvie and her family of handmade creatures suddenly find themselves in need of a new home. WHY WE LOVE IT: The story is silly, joyful, and poignant. WANT TO GO? $15 cash/$18 credit. 631-725-9500. baystreet.org.

‘Elf’

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Check the website for schedule WHERE: John W. Engeman Theater, 250 Main St., Northport AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Buddy embarks on a journey to New York City to find his birth father, discover his true identity, and help New York remember the true meaning of Christmas. WHY WE LOVE IT: A modern-day Christmas classic! WANT TO GO? $73. 631-261-2900. engemantheater.com.

Let’s Celebrate the New Year!

WHEN: Dec. 22-31, daily except Dec. 24-25, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Explore the principles of geometry and design your own Times Square Ball. WHY WE LOVE IT: Start the New Year with a teachable moment! WANT TO GO? $5; free for children younger than 2. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.

Fishes & Wishes: Family Friendly New Year’s Eve Party

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WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 2-3pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Beloved characters share their own silly, funny versions of classic fairy tales. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Tween Paint Night FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 14, 5pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Learn how to paint a snowy, winter landscape. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Reading of a Christmas Carol and Holiday Sing-Along FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 20, 7pm WHERE: Bay Street Theater, 1 Bay St., Sag Harbor AGES: All WHAT: A special, one-night-only reading of Charles Dickens’s A Christmas Carol will be performed by a versatile and distinguished company of actors. WANT TO GO? 631-725-9500. baystreet.org.

Santaland FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 24: daily, see website for store hours WHERE: Macy’s, 151 W. 34th St., 8th floor, Midtown AGES: All WHAT: Every holiday season, visitors from around the world gather at the 13,000-square-foot Christmas village for a special visit with Santa Claus. WANT TO GO? 212-494-4495. macys.com/santaland.

Noon Year’s Eve Party FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 31, 11:30am-12:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Ring in 2019 with games, crafts, and a special countdown to noon. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org. ››

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 31, 6:30-11pm WHERE: Long Island Aquarium, 431 E. Main St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: This family-friendly event includes crafts, an ice cream bar, a sparkling cider toast, and a meet and greet with a penguin. WHY WE LOVE IT: A great way to ring in the New Year with your kids! WANT TO GO? $99; $60 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 631-208-9200. longislandaquarium.com. LongIslandParent 25

AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Frosty and his friend, Jenny, must save the town of Chillsville from Ethel Pierpot’s evil plan to melt all the snow. WANT TO GO? $13. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

‘Rudolph’

WHEN: Dec. 2-29, check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: BroadHollow at East Islip, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: All WHAT: Excluded by his peers, Rudolph proves himself one Christmas Eve after Santa catches sight of his nose and asks him to lead his sleigh. WANT TO GO? $13. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

SHOW TIME! Renaldo and Little Lou - Circus Clowns

WHEN: Dec. 1-2, Saturday-Sunday, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Laugh and clap along with the juggling, pranks, magic, and humor of these world-class clowns. They engage with the audience directly and bring volunteers on stage. WANT TO GO? $12. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Simple Gifts Productions Presents ‘The Wiz’

WHEN: Dec. 1-2, check the website for showtimes WHERE: Temple Beth El, 660 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This funky version of the Wizard of Oz story is filled with great music, fun characters, and beautiful sets and costumes. WANT TO GO? $18; $15 children younger than 11. 631-561-9522. simplegiftsproductions.com.

Holiday Theater Treat: Carriage House Players Present ‘Jacob Marley’s Christmas Carol’

WHEN: Dec. 7-16, check website for showtimes WHERE: Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Chained and shackled, Marley is condemned unless he redeems Scrooge. This funny production proves redemption is possible for anyone. WANT TO GO? $20; $15 children. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Goat on a Boat: ‘The Joyfully Jolly Jamboree’ Puppet Show

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 22, 11am WHERE: Bay Street Theater, 1 Bay St., Sag Harbor AGES: 3-12 WHAT: This sing-along variety puppet show features original holiday tunes and a smattering of your favorite classics. WANT TO GO? $15 cash/$18 credit. 631-725-9500. baystreet.org.

‘Annie’

WHEN: Through Dec. 23: Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: CM Performing Arts Center, 931 Montauk Highway, Oakdale AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Annie is determined to find the parents who abandoned her years ago on the doorstep of a New York City Orphanage that is run by the cruel Miss Hannigan. WANT TO GO? $18-$42. 631-218-2810. cmpac.com.

‘Frosty the Snowman’

WHEN: Dec. 27-28, Thursday-Friday, 1pm WHERE: BroadHollow at East Islip, 265 E. Main St., East Islip 26

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‘Annie, Jr.’

WHEN: Dec. 8-29, Saturdays, 2:30pm WHERE: Studio Theatre Long Island, 141 Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst AGES: 3-12 WHAT: An abbreviated, one-hour version of the musical Annie. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-226-8400. studiotheatreli.com.

‘Frosty’

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: John W. Engeman Theater, 250 Main St., Northport AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join Jenny and Frosty on their chilly adventures as they try to save the town of Chillsville from mean old Ethel Pierpot and her evil machine that will melt all the snow. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-261-2900. engemantheater.com.

‘Beauty and the Beast’

WHEN: Dec. 14-30, check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: Patchogue Theatre for the Performing Arts, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This “tale as old as time” follows Belle, a book-smart and adventurous young woman, and Beast, a formerly dashing young prince cursed by an enchantress. WANT TO GO? $29.50 and up. 631-207-1313. patchoguetheatre.com.

‘Barnaby Saves Christmas’

WHEN: Through Dec. 29: Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: As the little elf and his reindeer friend set off on their journey to save Christmas, they meet some new friends along the way and learn the true meaning of Christmas, Hanukkah, and the holiday season. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

A Children’s Theatre Presentation: ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas’

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A mouse, an elf, and a spunky little girl are on a quest to find out why Santa missed their house last year. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.

Irving Berlin’s ‘White Christmas’

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Veterans Bob Wallace and Phil Davis follow a duo of beautiful singing sisters en route to their Christmas show at a Vermont lodge. WANT TO GO? $25-$38. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.

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WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 10-11:30am WHERE: Sunken Meadow State Park, 25A Sunken Meadow Parkway, Kings Park AGES: All WHAT: Join this winter family walk to view how animals and plants prepare for winter. WANT TO GO? 631-581-1072. nysparks.org.

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The St. James Model Railroad Club Annual Holiday Open House

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 28, 2pm and 7pm WHERE: NYCB Live Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: A star-studded roster will have fans on the edge of their seats to witness the ball handling wizardry, basketball artistry, and one-of-a-kind family entertainment. WANT TO GO? $26.50 and up. 516-231-4848. ticketmaster.com.

WHEN: Through Dec. 2, Friday, 6-9pm; Saturday, 11am-5pm; Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Mills Pond House, 660 Route 25A, St. James AGES: All WHAT: This Lionel train layout represents railroading from the Age of Steam to present day with many freight and passenger trains running simultaneously in a scenic, imaginative setting. WANT TO GO? $2; $.50 children. 516-263-9607. stjamesmodelrailroadclub.weebly.com.

Art with a Partner Inclusion Workshops for Children & Young Adults WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 1-3pm WHERE: Art League of Long Island, 107 E. Deer Park Road, Dix Hills AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This series will provide each participant and his/her special loved one a precious opportunity to bond together while creating something beautiful. WANT TO GO? $35. 631-462-5400. artleagueli.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 26, 2-3pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Join this fun night of bingo based on everyday sight words. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

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Warrior Courses Wednesdays

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Wednesdays, 6-8pm WHERE: Sky Zone Mount Sinai, 269 Route 25A, Mount Sinai AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Run the course as many times as you like and try to get your name on the leader board. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-938-1420. skyzone.com/mountsinai. ››

Children’s Yoga

WHEN: Through Dec. 18: Wednesdays, 4:45-5:45pm WHERE: Heritage Center, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Lilie Perito teaches various workshops in yoga and mindfulness across Long Island. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-275-6618. msheritagetrust.org.

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AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Construct giant snowflakes out of wooden craft sticks. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Northport High School Craft Fair FREE

WHEN: Dec. 8-9, Friday, 10am-5pm; Saturday, 10am-4pm WHERE: Northport High School, Laurel Hill Road, Northport AGES: All WHAT: Shop the craft fair for holiday gifts. WANT TO GO? depasmarketfair.com.

CRAFTY KIDS Teen Open Studio: Finger Puppets

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Young artists will explore different media and methods each session with guidance from a teaching artist. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 12. 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

Santaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Elves Workshop FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 1-3pm WHERE: Rogers Mansion, 17 Meeting House Lane, Southampton Village AGES: All WHAT: Create some handmade ornaments and tour through the house which will be decorated for the holidays from top to bottom. WANT TO GO? 631-283-2494. southamptonhistoricalmuseum.org.

55th Holiday Fine Art & Craft Fair FREE

WHEN: Dec. 1-2, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Art League of Long Island, 107 E. Deer Park Road, Dix Hills AGES: All WHAT: Meet the artists behind the unique handcrafted items on display. WANT TO GO? 631-462-5400. artleagueli.org.

Menorah Workshop

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 12:30-1:30pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Dive into the world of oil, from whale oil to olive oil, and create a working tiled menorah. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Sea Glass Ornaments

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 2-3pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Create your own colorful, sea-glass mosaic ornament or decoration to hang up at home. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Giant Wooden Snowflakes FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 4:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach 28

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Winter Craft Extravaganza

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 11am-2pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Design an array of Victorian-style crafts while visiting the museum. WANT TO GO? $6; $12 per child. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Gingerbread Houses

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 10, 6:15pm or 7:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Work together as a family to decorate a gingerbread house. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Winter Stained Glass Ornaments FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 13, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Celebrate the start of winter by making a lovely keepsake. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Giant Gingerbread Man FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 13, 5:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Decorate your own giant gingerbread man. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Learn to Draw the Grinch with Art Teacher Amy FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 15, 2-3pm WHERE: South Huntington Public Library, 145 Pidgeon Hill Road, Huntington Station AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn to draw the Grinch in markers and colored pencils with Art Teacher Amy through step-by-step instruction. WANT TO GO? 631-549-4411. shpl.info.

Holiday Card Factory FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 21, 7-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Make your own holiday cards for friends and loved ones. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Santa Family Paint Event

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 23, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Families can paint Santa together. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

Holiday Vacation Art Workshops

WHEN: Dec. 26-28, Wednesday-Friday, 10am-12pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill

AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Celebrate your holidays at the Parrish with creative workshops, a gallery tour, and visual arts. WANT TO GO? $40. 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

Open Studio for Families

WHEN: Dec. 8-29, Saturdays, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: All WHAT: Take a tour of the galleries and create art through hands-on activities. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 12. 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

Family Sundays

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Sundays, 1pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Reconnect while talking about and making art together. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors and students; $4 children. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

Holiday Break Classes

WHEN: Dec. 29-30, Saturday-Sunday, 10-11:30am WHERE: Craftree, 7 Green St., Huntington AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Children will sew a stuffed penguin or rabbit. WANT TO GO? $40. 631-268-4072. craftreeclasses.com.

NUTCRACKER PERFORMANCES ‘The Nutcracker’ Suite with Atlantic Wind Symphony Orchestra

WHEN: Dec. 1-2, Friday, 1pm and 7pm; Saturday, 1pm and 6pm WHERE: The Patchogue Theatre for the Performing Arts, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: All WHAT: This Nutcracker performance, with a live, 25-piece orchestra, will thrill audiences of all ages. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-207-1313. patchoguetheatre.org.

Ovations Dance Repertory Company Presents ‘The Nutcracker’

WHEN: Dec. 1-2, Saturday, 1pm and 7pm; Sunday, 1pm and 6pm WHERE: Patchogue Theater for Performing Arts, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Clara travels to the Land of the Sweets where the Sugar Plum Fairy is reunited with her prince. WANT TO GO? $20-$40. 631-207-1313. patchoguetheatre.com.

Hampton Ballet’s Tenth Annual Production of ‘The Nutcracker’

WHEN: Dec. 7-9, Friday, 7pm; Saturday, 1pm and 7pm; Sunday, 2pm WHERE: Guild Hall, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Students transport the audience to a land where angels, snowflakes, and flowers dance and Clara saves the Nutcracker Prince from the evil Mouse King. WANT TO GO? $20-$50. 631-324-4050. guildhall.org.

Lynch Ballet Company Presents ‘The Nutcracker’

WHEN: Dec. 15-16, Saturday, 2pm and 6pm; Sunday, 12pm and 4pm WHERE: Huntington High School Auditorium, 188 Oakwood Road,

Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Lynch Ballet Company celebrates it’s 10th anniversary of The Nutcracker with beautiful costumes and sets. WANT TO GO? $30; $20 children. 631-470-9711. tututix.com/lynchballet.

‘Northport Nutcracker’ Ballet

WHEN: Dec. 15-16, Saturday, 4pm; Sunday, 2pm WHERE: Northport Middle School, 11 Middleville Road, Northport AGES: All WHAT: Northport Nutcracker takes place on Main Street, Northport, Village in the year 1893. WANT TO GO? $25. 855-222-2849. tututix.com/poseyschool.

‘The Nutcracker’

WHEN: Dec. 15-16, Saturday, 7pm; Sunday, 1pm WHERE: Van Nostrand Theatre, 1001 Crooked Hill Road, Brentwood AGES: All WHAT: Witness toys that come to life, a Christmas tree that grows before your eyes, flowers that dance, and snowflakes that waltz in this classic story. WANT TO GO? $20, $25. 631-472-3455. adtli.org.

KINDNESS CRUSADERS Holiday Shopping Kickoff and Holiday Toy Drive FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 10am-1pm WHERE: Bethpage Ballpark, 3 Court House Drive, Central Islip AGES: All WHAT: The Ducks will be collecting new, unwrapped toys as part of the team’s annual toy drive. WANT TO GO? 631-940-3825. liducks.com.

Long Island Cares Mobile Food Pantry FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 6, 11am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Long Island Cares will have a mobile food pantry van on site for three-day food supply distribution. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Hanukkah Happening - Music Together style!

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 10-10:45am WHERE: Chance To Dance, 140 N. Bell Mead Road, Setauket AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Children will sing and dance to Hanukkah songs. Proceeds help to support the Lyrical Children Music Together Scholarship Fund. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-208-4003. lyricalchildrenmusic.yourvirtuoso.com.

Holiday Respite for Adoptive Families FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 15, 10am-1pm WHERE: Kids Need More, 600 Albany Ave., #14, Amityville AGES: All WHAT: Take advantage of this opportunity to practice some self care this holiday season. WANT TO GO? 646-688-4321. affcny.org.

The Pajama Project FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 21: Monday-Friday, 9am-9pm; Saturday, 9am5pm; Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Consider donating new PJs and a book for local children and teens. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org. ››

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Kids Can Code FREE

WHEN: Mondays, Dec. 3, 4:30-6:30pm; Dec. 10 and Dec. 17, 5-7pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids learn the basics of computer language, code structure, and implementation. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Winter Solstice and Glowing Lanterns

SMARTY PANTS Dickens’s Festival: Maker Spotlight

WHEN: Dec. 1-2, Saturday-Sunday, 1:30-3:30pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: On Saturday, kids discover how to make marbled paper. On Sunday, Smithtown Robots will be on hand. WANT TO GO? $5; free for children younger than 2. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.

Relationship Repair and Reconnection Workshop

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 3, 7-9pm WHERE: Paul Schreiber High School Adult Education, 101 Campus Drive, Port Washington AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Aviva Chansky Guttmann, an advanced imago clinician and certified imago relationship therapist, will offer an interactive workshop demonstrating the key components of Imago Therapy. WANT TO GO? $35. 516-767-5023. avivachanskyguttmann.com.

Idea Place Tinkers FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 26, 10am-2pm WHERE: Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Children learn why days are shorter in winter, observe the sun with a specialized telescope, and make lanterns using re-purposed materials. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Animals at Night and Diorama

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 27, 10am-2pm WHERE: Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Explore the collections, learn how wildlife adapts to less sunlight, and make a miniature, glow-in-the-dark diorama. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Family Night Workshop: Playing with Light

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 28, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: All WHAT: Participants will work together to create an illuminated piece of art by incorporating an LED bulb, battery, and copper tape. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 12. 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

Starry Night Snow Globe

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 10:30am WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children explore endless possibilities with blocks and age-appropriate manipulatives while using their imaginations. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 28, 10am-2pm WHERE: Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Visit the wildlife dioramas, learn how animals adapt to less sunlight, and make a twinkling snow globe. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Creative Workshops: Beneath the Waves

Aquaman and the Sea!

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 8, 10am-12pm WHERE: Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Explore the seas, learn about the diversity of ocean life, examine preserved specimens, and make a marine invertebrate pillow. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 28, 11am-2pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: See and touch some awesome items from the museum’s collection and create a seahorse puppet along with other under-the-sea crafts. WANT TO GO? $6; $12 children. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Let’s Celebrate Light!

WHEN: Dec. 7-Jan. 5, 2019: Check the website for specific dates and times WHERE: Main Street Gallery, 213 Main St., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Work in the exhibition focuses on seaside industry, farm life, Native Americans, the American Revolution, and art colonies. WANT TO GO? 631-271-8423. huntingtonarts.org.

WHEN: Dec. 8-9, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Explore patterns while creating a luminary to light your path. WANT TO GO? $5; free for children younger than 2. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.

Let’s Celebrate Snow!

WHEN: Dec. 15-16, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Explore the science of snowflakes and make one to take home! WANT TO GO? $5; free for children younger than 2. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org. 30

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Huntington Arts Council Presents ‘Discovering Long Island’ FREE

Traveling Exhibit-TINKERTOY: Build Your Imagination

WHEN: Through Jan. 6, 2019: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Visitors can explore a walk-in size replica of the canister, create their own designs, experiment with renewable energy and water filtration, and take part in a scavenger hunt. WANT TO GO? $13; free children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

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TREE & MENORAH LIGHTINGS Tree Lighting Ceremony & Santa

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 5-7pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Santa Claus will light the Hatchery’s Christmas tree! WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-692-6768. cshfishhatchery.org.

Holiday Tree Lighting Ceremony FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 4:15pm WHERE: Belmont Lake State Park, 625 Belmont Road, North Babylon AGES: All WHAT: In addition to the holiday music and tree lighting by Santa Claus there is an ice sculptor, juggler, refreshments, and fireworks. WANT TO GO? 631-667-5055. nysparks.com.

Annual Menorah Lighting FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 3-4pm WHERE: Heritage Center, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the start of the Festival of Lights at the annual Heritage Trust Menorah Lighting hosted by the Temple Beth Emeth. WANT TO GO? 631-509-0882. msheritagetrust.org.

Annual Christmas Tree Lighting FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 5pm WHERE: Heritage Center, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: All WHAT: Drink hot chocolate and cookies, listen to Christmas carols, and hang out with Santa Claus. WANT TO GO? 631-509-0882. msheritagetrust.org.

Chai Center Grand Menorah Lighting FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 5, 4:30pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy latkes, doughnuts, hot chocolate, and music as well as lighting of the grand menorah. WANT TO GO? 631-351-8672. thechaicenter.com.

Holiday Tree Lighting Ceremony FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 5:30-7:30pm WHERE: Bayard Cutting Arboretum, 440 Montauk Highway, Great River AGES: All WHAT: Join in a sing-along of traditional holiday carols while awaiting the arrival of Santa Claus. Bring canned goods or a new, unwrapped toy for those in need. WANT TO GO? 631-581-1072. bayardcuttingarboretum.com.

Orient Beach Tree Lighting FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Orient Beach State Park, 40000 Main Road, Orient AGES: All WHAT: The Oysterponds Elementary School chorus will sing holiday

MUSICIANS Soweto Gospel Choir

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 8, 7pm WHERE: Staller Center - Stony Brook University, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Songs are given a powerful new vitality through the group’s passionate renditions and harmonies, joined by improvised dancing and live percussion. WANT TO GO? $44. 631-632-6000. stallercenter.com.

The Liverpool Shuffle

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The Liverpool Shuffle, the popular Long Island Beatles tribute band, returns for its tenth performance. WANT TO GO? $20; $15 children ages 5-15. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Long Island Concert Orchestra: A Classical Christmas

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 3pm WHERE: Patchogue Theater for Performing Arts, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: All WHAT: This festive concert will bring in the yuletide cheer with classical music selections from Tchaikovsky’s The Nutcracker and Handel’s Messiah. WANT TO GO? $29-$59. 631-207-1313. patchoguetheatre.com.

Holiday Jam - Music Together Style!

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 13, 9:45-10:30am or 11-11:45am WHERE: Marchand’s School of Dance, 451 Route 25A, Miller Place AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join as a community and share holiday music from various cultures, Music Together style. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-208-4003. lyricalchildrenmusic.yourvirtuoso.com.

Holiday Jam - Music Together Style!

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 17, 10:15-11am WHERE: Our Redeemer Lutheran Church, 269 Main Road, Aquebogue AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy holiday music from different cultures with Music Together. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-208-4003. lyricalchildrenmusic.yourvirtuoso.com.

Holiday Jam - Music Together Style!

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 19, 5:15-6pm WHERE: Port Jefferson Village Center, 101A E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Sing, dance, and jam with your community to holiday music with Music Together. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-208-4003. lyricalchildrenmusic.yourvirtuoso.com.

Karaoke FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 28, 2-4pm WHERE: Connetquot Public Library, 760 Ocean Ave., Bohemia AGES: All WHAT: A list of songs, ranging from Disney to popular titles, will be available at the Adult and Children’s Services Desks. WANT TO GO? 631-567-5079. connetquotlibrary.org. ››

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Chanukah at Walt Whitman Shops FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 6, 5:30-6:30 pm WHERE: Walt Whitman Shops, Route 110, Huntington Station AGES: All WHAT: Come join the annual Hanukkah at the Walt Whitman Shops celebration. Special children’s show, free Hanukkah gelt and dreidels, donuts, prizes, giant menorah and more. WANT TO GO? 631-385-2424. ChabadofHuntington.com.

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HOLIDAY FUN Story Time and Activities Featuring ‘How to Catch a Snowman’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 11am WHERE: Barnes and Noble- Smith Haven Mall, 600 Smith Haven Mall, Lake Grove AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: An entry for a snowman contest magically come to life. WANT TO GO? 631-724-0341. barnesandnoble.com.

Yuletide Family Fun Day

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 1-3pm WHERE: Walt Whitman Birthplace Association, 246 Old Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station AGES: All WHAT: Activities include a holiday sing-along, visit with Santa, decorating a cookie and an ornament, face painting, old-time games, and guided tours. WANT TO GO? adults free; children $9. 631-427-5240. waltwhitman.org.

Chanukah Wonderland

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Hanukkah with arts & crafts, games and activities such as decorating donuts, sand art, finding Judah the Maccabee, and making olive oil. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-351-8672. thechaicenter.com.

Holiday Festival 2018 FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 9, 8am, 10am, 12pm WHERE: Heritage Center, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: All WHAT: This event includes a buffet breakfast, family photo with Santa, a favor for each child, and a food drive. WANT TO GO? $19; $15 children younger than 10; free for children younger than 2. 631-509-0882. msheritagetrust.org.

Winter Holidays FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 13, 6-7pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Learn about holidays with some really good books. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Santa Brunch

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 16, 10am, 12pm, 2pm WHERE: Long Island Aquarium, 431 E. Main St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a buffet brunch in the Sea Star Ballroom, make a special take-home holiday keepsake, and capture a family photo with Santa. WANT TO GO? $54.95; $26.95 children ages 3-12; $5 children younger than 3. 631-208-9200. longislandaquarium.com.

Annual Brookhaven Town Holiday Spectacular

WHEN: Through Dec. 16: Friday-Saturday, 5-9pm; Sunday, 5-8pm WHERE: Holtsville Ecology Site, 249 Buckley Road, Holtsville AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy festive light displays for the holidays during this indoor, walk-through show. Photos with Santa are available for additional fee. WANT TO GO? $6; free for children younger than 4. 631-451-9276. brookhavenny.gov/holiday.

Owl and Reindeer Ornaments!

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Stony Brook Village, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Don’t miss the “Legends and Spies” puppet parade. Stick around for a visit with Santa and the annual tree lighting. WANT TO GO? 631-689-5888. stonybrookvillage.com.

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 16, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Make owl and reindeer ornaments. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

Kwanzaa Celebration FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 22, 11am or 1pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Make an edible holiday creation with your family. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 2, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: All WHAT: Norman Daniels discusses this unique American holiday and presents songs, music, poetry, and dancing. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Hanukkah Story and Snack FREE

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 3, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Families can celebrate Hanukkah by listening to some stories and building an edible dreidel snack. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net. 32

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Holiday Sugar Cone Party Horns FREE

Grinch Paint Event

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 22, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-17 WHAT: In this drop off event, children paint the Grinch. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

Santa’s Winter Wonderland

WHEN: Through Dec. 23: Saturday-Sunday, 10:30am-5:30pm

WHERE: White Post Farms of Melville, 250 Old Country Road, Melville AGES: All WHAT: Visit the animals, make a holiday craft, and meet Santa. For an additional fee you can ride the Safari Express Train, take a pony ride, or bottle-feed a goat. WANT TO GO? $15.95. 631-351-9373. whitepostfarms.com.

Twilight Tours of Vanderbilt Mansion

WHEN: Dec. 27-28, Thursday-Friday, 5-8pm WHERE: Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: All WHAT: Visitors can see the Vanderbilt family’s luxurious living quarters decorated for the holidays. WANT TO GO? $10; $9 students; $5 children younger than 13. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

New Year’s Eve Bash!

WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 30, 11am-12pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum & Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Countdown to noon, make a time capsule, enjoy hot chocolate, and think of some resolutions for 2019. WANT TO GO? $6; $12 children. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Guided Tours of Decorated Mansion

WHEN: Through Dec. 30: Tuesday, Saturday-Sunday; 12:30-3:30pm WHERE: Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: All WHAT: Take a guided tour of the Vanderbilt Mansion, decorated elegantly for the holidays by local designers and garden clubs. WANT TO GO? $6. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

ON SCREEN ‘Elliot, The Littlest Reindeer’

Family Night Out: ‘Teen Titans Go!’ FREE

WHEN: Friday, Dec. 7, 6:30-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: All WHAT: Bring the whole family to spend an evening out at the movies. Snacks and drinks provided. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

National Theatre Live Screening: ‘The Madness of George III’ by Alan Bennett WHEN: Friday, Dec. 14, 7pm WHERE: Guild Hall of East Hampton, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 13 and older WHAT: With the King’s mind unraveling at a dramatic pace, ambitious politicians and the scheming Prince of Wales threaten to undermine the power of the Crown, and expose the fine line between a king and a man. WANT TO GO? $18. 631-324-0806. guildhall.org.

Guild Hall presents The Met: Live in HD: ‘La Traviata’ (Giuseppe Verdi)

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 1, 11am WHERE: Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Elliot, a small but determined horse, travels to the North Pole to compete for a spot alongside the famous reindeer that pull Santa’s sleigh. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 12. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 15, 1pm WHERE: Guild Hall of East Hampton, 158 Main St., East Hampton AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Directed by Michael Mayer, this new production features a dazzling, 18th-century setting that changes with the seasons. WANT TO GO? $22; $15 students. 631-324-0806. guildhall.org.

‘Killer Bees’ - Community Connections

WHEN: Wednesday, Dec. 26, 11am and 1:30pm WHERE: Connetquot Public Library, 760 Ocean Ave., Bohemia AGES: All WHAT: See Sherlock Gnomes at 11am and Incredibles 2 at 1:30pm. WANT TO GO? 631-567-5079. connetquotlibrary.org.

WHEN: Monday, Dec. 3, 7:30pm WHERE: Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: 9 and older WHAT: A championship high school basketball team provides pride, tradition, and hope for an African American community struggling to survive in the middle of one of the wealthiest communities in America—the Hamptons. WANT TO GO? $16. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org.

Family Movies FREE

Chaplin at Essanay: His New Job, A Woman, and A Jitney Elopement WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 6, 7:30pm WHERE: Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: 5 and older WHAT: At Essanay, Chaplin was able to spend more time on his films, allowing him to shape his on screen persona and the comedic style that would make him a household name. WANT TO GO? $16. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org.

Coming up next month: JAN. 5-6: Tinkerbell at the Bayway Arts Center, East Islip JAN. 12: Rubber Ducky Party at the Cold Spring Harbor Whaling Museum and Education Center, Cold Spring Harbor JAN. 26: Asere! A Fiesta Cubana at the Staller Center, Stony Brook

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HOLIDAY JOYS for Girls & Boys Compiled by Anja Webb

Happy Holidays! Whether you’re celebrating Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or Christmas, or just enjoying a cozy winter with your loved ones, December is certainly the most wonderful time of the year! Spend some time outside at an ice-skating rink (or inside, too!) and grab a delicious hot cocoa afterward to warm up from the chilly weather. Head out of town to hand cut your Christmas tree. And if the frost and snow of a winter day doesn’t make your heart sing, check out one of our favorite indoor play spaces to beat cabin fever without freezing.

BEST HOT COCOA SPOTS Caffé Portofino 249 Main St., Northport 631-262-7656; caffeportofinonpt.com Daily, 7am-8pm Serves breakfast, lunch, and a full espresso bar in a kid- and strollerfriendly environment. Its rich hot chocolate is made with Guittard chocolate sauces and comes in a variety of flavors. Its specialty hot chocolate, called Campfire Cocoa, is made with milk chocolate and toasted marshmallow syrup and topped with marshmallow cream and graham cracker crumbs. The café carries full-bodied Mighty Leaf teas in 10 varieties and offers an organic chai tea latte. Its specialty is the Dirty Hippie, a chai latte with espresso. Find more>> nymetroparents.com/hot-chocolate

CUT-YOUR-OWN CHRISTMAS TREE Shamrock Christmas Tree Farm 20685 Main Road, Mattituck 631-298-4619 or 631-298-4118; shamrockchristmastreefarm.com Hours: Through Dec. 24, daily, 9am-5pm Tools and assistance provided. Pre-cut trees, handmade wreaths, and crafts also available. Santa appearances on weekends, 12-5pm. Shamrock Express train rides (weather permitting) and a fire pit to enjoy while you’re waiting for your ride. Ornaments, nutcrackers, tree toppers, and more available in the gift shop. No pets allowed.

ICE-SKATING

@ Play Amusements 229 Broadhollow Road, Farmingdale 631-815-5355; atplayamusement.com Features laser tag, bumper cars, arcade games, inflatables, and an indoor roller coaster. Reserve packages for unlimited play for access to all attractions.

The Rinx 660 Terry Road, Hauppauge 631-232-3222; therinx.com Hours: Year-round: Monday-Friday, 12:30-2:30pm; TuesdayFriday, 4-5:45pm; Friday, 8:15-10:15pm (Rock & Roll Night); Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm. On holiday and school vacation days, call for additional public admission times. Price: Monday-Friday: $11 ($13.50 on Friday nights); $8.50 children ages 11 and younger; $5 seniors. Saturday-Sunday and school holidays: $12; $9.50 children ages 11 and younger; $6 seniors. Islip residents receive $1 off adult admission with recreation card; $6 skate rental.

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You don’t have to go into debt to buy great gifts for everyone on your list! These tips will help you stick to your budget while snagging real bargains. By Denise Porretto

t’s that time of year again, when gifts and toys are delivered free of charge to your living room, pre-wrapped and labeled, making every family member’s dreams come true. All you need to do is leave out a few cookies. If only it were so. In reality, holiday prep plays out more like this: You overpay for the popular toys your kids want. Giftwrap is surprisingly expensive— newspaper, anyone? In exasperation, you eat all the cookies. Holiday shopping is difficult, but don’t lose hope. There are plenty of ways to save money. We’ve spoken to some experts who know just how you can control your seasonal spending; read on for their smart advice.

each name and stick to it!” says Rachel Cruze, New York Times best-selling co-author, with her dad Dave Ramsey, of Smart Money Smart Kids. Download a free budgeting app such as EveryDollar, which has interactive visuals and goal-planning features. Another handy app, one for your phone, is Santa’s Bag. It includes holiday-specific features such as the ability to import receipts, plan budgets, create shopping lists, locate gifts, and track shopping progress.

Pre-Shopping Strategies

Locate any unused gift cards you have. You can spend them to buy holiday gifts, food, and décor, or sell them at a gift card exchange site such as Cardpool.com or Raise.com for some ready cash. (If you’re looking for gift cards, you can also purchase them on these sites at a percentage off face value.)

Create a list and a budget. “As you write down the names of everyone that you have to buy for, put a dollar amount next to

Sign up for cash-back sites that give you a rebate—typically 2-5 percent—on just about anything you buy online. Popular sites include Ebates.com, Shopathome.com, Mrrebates.com, and TopCashback.com. They work very simply: You go to the

Before you set foot in a brick-and-mortar store or click the “purchase” button, do the following:

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cash-back site and locate the store you want to shop. Then you purchase your desired item to earn your rebate, which can be paid to you in a variety of ways. Ebates, for example, will send you your accumulated rebate every quarter in the form of a check, a PayPal deposit, or, in some instances, as a digital gift card. Collect coupons. Many consumers think coupons are relics from the past. Not so; they’ve just gone digital. So put down those scissors and go online. Some well-trafficked coupon sites include Coupons.com, TheKrazyCouponLady.com, RetailMeNot.com, and CouponSherpa. com. Most of the sites offer coupons that can be used in a physical or digital store. Additionally, Honey is a browser extension that will automatically apply all coupon codes available to find the one that will save you the most money at select online retailers. Sign up with online stores, “like” their Facebook page, or follow them on Twitter, so you can be alerted to upcoming sales and promotions. You may end up getting an enormous amount of emails, but if you’re patient enough you may find what you’re looking for at a great price, and sometimes with free shipping too.

While You’re Shopping

Now that you’ve planned and are ready to stock up on gifts, remember to: Track the rise and fall of prices. It’s difficult to pin down an item’s price during the hectic holidays; even Amazon changes the prices of individual items frequently. The site CamelCamelCamel.com is designed for shopping on Amazon—it generates alerts based on price and availability, so you can be notified when the price for a desired item drops to a predetermined point. In addition, the site has price history charts for more than 18 million Amazon items. Be cyber-cart smart. One way you can potentially score coupons to an online store is by providing your email address and adding merchandise to your cart—and then abandoning it. This may trigger an automated coupon to be delivered to your inbox. You may have been willing to purchase the items at full price, but by waiting a couple of days, you can buy your merchandise at 10-20 percent off. Harness the power of price-matching apps. Whether you’re shopping online or at the mall, you can use a price-matching app to compare prices. The Flipp app brings up flyers from other stores, so you can easily determine where to find the best bargains. If the app shows a better price for an item at another store, you can show the cashier proof. (Many big box stores will match a lower price for the same item.) With Earny, your credit card and email link to the app so your past purchases can be tracked. If you’re eligible for a price adjustment you can get the money back automatically. Finally, InvisibleHand is a browser extension that notifies you if the product you’re shopping for is available for less from another retailer. A convenient button links you to the relevant page on the competing website. Come to stores prepared to crunch numbers. If you’re headed to a brick-and-mortar shop, have a calculator available so you can figure out the exact price of an item, including any discounts and sales tax. (You may lose the ability to do calculations in your head when you’re tired and the store is crowded). Bring cold, hard cash. “You actually spend less when you use cash,” Cruze explains. “Cash is emotional. You feel it when you

pay with tangible currency. You don’t get that same sensation when you swipe a piece of plastic. Also, you’ll be less anxious when you use cash because you know to stop spending when the money runs out. Even if you can’t buy everything you want, you’ll still feel relieved about not having to make a payment in the new year!” Don’t overlook off-peak shopping times. After the big sale days are over, try either shopping online on Tuesdays, as cyber retailers tend to offer their best deals on that day, or at brick-and-mortar stores in the evenings. Some retailers may have the next day’s early-morning sales already in effect, saving you from having to rise at the crack of dawn. Look for last-minute steals. For all the procrastinators out there, you may even do well shopping late in the season. Some of the best deals arrive the week before Christmas, according to the New York Times. Outsmart the shopping environment. Sure, you love stores’ holiday music and ambience—but they’re up to no good. Studies have shown that Christmas songs evoke nostalgia and generosity, leading to larger purchases, explains Mari Corella, a retail specialist who has worked for major retailers such as Sears and Saks Fifth Avenue. The same is true of scent. “During the holidays, stores often smell of gingerbread and pine, invoking a sense of warmth,” she says, leading to—yep—more spending. Some experts recommend wearing headphones with soothing music playing to calm you during the stress of shopping. (Can you guess what stress leads to?) Even the placement of products is designed to make you spend more. Brands pay to have their items on the end of the aisles or at eye level, Corella shares: “The cost of this additional exposure is added to the cost of the product.” She recommends browsing the entire section to make sure you’re getting the best price. Think out of the (gift) box. Not everything you buy has to be expensive or from a popular retailer. Consider shopping at thrift shops for vintage items, or gathering the family together to make DIY gifts, such as personalized stationery for the grandparents. Something handmade, and from the heart, is priceless—in every sense of the word. Denise Porretto is a freelance writer living in Princeton, NJ.

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Experts suggest teens volunteer to get involved with the community and broaden their view of the world around them.

How to Raise A World-Aware Teen ›› Your child’s now old enough to grasp global issues—and to change the planet for the better, too. By Allison Ingrum

very few minutes our phones light up with the latest news alert. From social issues to politics, there seems to be a constant flow of news cycling from around the globe. Being world-aware means understanding these issues and educating yourself about what is going on outside of yourself, your home, and your immediate neighborhood. For your teen, it also means realizing there is a world outside the latest video game or most recent post on Instagram. It isn’t always easy for your child to look beyond the bubble he exists in, though. A variety of things, from the technology that surrounds him to your own protective parenting style, can make it difficult. But with a little guidance from you, your teen can get on track to becoming a global citizen. It will benefit him, and the whole world, in the long run.

Big Kids, Big Ideas

We constantly hear that children are most likely to take risks when they’re in their teens. Sure, this can lead to accidents. But their risk-taking can also be a positive thing, putting them on the path to innovation, says Teodora Pavkovic, a parenting coach with a master’s degree in clinical psychology. The teenage years are the “most creative period of our lives,” Pavkovic says. “I think if we harness that teenage brain energy that they have, it can really make a big change for the world…[Teens] 38

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are just naturally very inquisitive, innovative. They have ideas all of the time. They want to try things out. I think they can probably help us figure things out more than we can do on our own.” The teenage years are also a time of self-exploration, and being world-aware aids a teen in figuring out her own identity, says Sophie Stoyadinovich, M.D., a life coach at Nobel Coaching, an online coaching and tutoring platform. Your teen should have as much information as possible to see where her particular interests lie and what kinds of problems she may like to solve. In fact, being world-aware might completely alter her direction in life.

What’s Blocking Your Teen’s Worldview?

While it’s only natural to feel protective of your child, being a helicopter parent can cause more harm than good. “[Kids] could get so comfortable that they become fearful of doing anything outside of their comfort zone, or you will have the flip side when they become very rebellious at some point, and you don’t want either one,” Pavkovic says. Technology can act as the other main roadblock that keeps children from being world-aware, she adds. While our devices give us access to almost any information we may need, a passive use of technology (such as scrolling through social media) has the potential to draw people into themselves in a negative way, she explains.

Along with this comes a lack of critical-thinking skills. “We take our view of the world from the media, from the news...and from the things that elicit the click response,” says Andrew Sachs, CEO of Nobel Coaching. “That is a… severely distorted version.” Instead, parents should teach children of all ages to have a critical eye toward the information they take in. “They will be on social media. They will read things and they will see things on TV. I think it is always good to keep that conversation going about what they think, why they think so, how accurate they think it is, and whether they have any other sources for that,” Stoyadinovich says.

Teaching Your Child to Think Global

While your child can grow up to be world-aware on his own, this is rarely the case. We humans have an instinctive tribal nature. While this tribalism served a great purpose when humans were pack animals, now it is simply a fear that holds us back from interacting with people and places that are different, Sachs explains. It takes a team of parents and teachers to coax a child into becoming more world-aware. Try these steps: Start simple. Talk about current events around the dinner table. These stress-free, no-pressure conversations foster an environment in which your child can speak her mind. Listen to what she is passionate about and try to incorporate that into the conversations. Pair your child with a pal from another place. When your teen tries to learn a language, connect her with a student in another country who speaks the language fluently. In the process of helping each other learn, they will hear about each other’s daily life. Even if it’s only an online call or chat, it is an immersive experience. Volunteer. It’s an easy yet effective way to get your child involved with the surrounding community, explains Zelda Warner, president of the Volunteer Referral Center. And it’s a two-way street: As your child helps someone, that person simultaneously impacts his life by opening his eyes and allowing him to see the world through a new lens. He will learn to appreciate those differences, and also see how lucky he is to live the life he leads. Travel. If you can, take a family vacation to another country or give your child the opportunity to participate in a studentexchange program. And do so as soon as you are able; the sooner you travel, the earlier your child’s brain begins to expand, Sachs says. “They are able to see the world for what it is, and they are not constrained by the little bubble. A lot of us exist in a bubble,” he explains. “Having that kind of opportunity to connect with real people I think can drastically change your view on the countries they are from and the rest of the world.” Likewise, even short cruises or camps expose children to others from around the country, or possibly the world, who will share experiences and stories. Dan Appleman, author of Developing Teen Leadership, suggests enrolling your child in a summer camp outside of her comfort zone. Send an athlete to theater camp or a musician to art camp. Send your teen to an overnight camp farther from home. These small changes will allow your child to meet peers with different backgrounds and experiences. Take a cultural field trip to NYC. Not up for international travel right now? You don’t have to venture far from home to help your child become more world-aware. Luckily, here in the New York area, we have the luxury of being surrounded by many different cultures and people from diverse backgrounds. A train ride will take you to Chinatown with Little Italy one block away. Talk to your child about these cultures and eat at authentic restaurants. You can also take him to one of the

many museums around New York. No matter what you do, this engaging experience will ignite his brain and get him thinking outside of his home. Model world-aware behaviors. Ultimately, remember your children are both mirrors and sponges, Pavkovic says—they reflect your behavior and absorb lessons from your actions. Whether you want your kids to use technology less, spend more time outdoors, or speak more kindly, you must do the same. Appleman seconds this sentiment, recalling parents he knows who bring their children to protests. “Have them be world-aware and have them involved in your life. Yes, there are other things one can do in providing guidance, but there is nothing like setting an example,” he says. This being said, “we need to take into account that the older your child is, the less they are under your influence. If they are seven, yes, obviously you are their greatest role model and you are the best,” Stoyadinovich says. “But as they grow older, their peers become that for them…Your direct influence, I think, at that point gets a little bit smaller and you need to lean more toward consulting with them and providing them with opportunities rather than instructing them and pushing them to do something.” Look at what the students of Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School have done in Parkland, FL to raise awareness of gun violence. When one teen is world-aware and a leader, others will follow. In that case, millions from all over the world already have. At this rate, world-aware teens will be the ones to create a worldaware society. Allison Ingrum, a former NYMP editorial intern, is a junior at Syracuse University.

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50 Route 111, Suite 214, Smithtown 631-265-3435 nsorthodontics.com Dr. Craig Smith and his team at North Shore Orthodontics offer a variety of orthodontic services, including American Orthodontics Mini Brackets, Invisalign®, Invisalign Teen™, A.O. Radiance translucent brackets, and teeth whitening.

SUFFOLK PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY

8 Medical Drive, Port Jefferson Station 631-928-8585 6144 Route 25 A, Suite D20, Wading River 631-929-7575 750 Roanoke Ave., Riverhead 631-727-8585 suffolkpediatricdentistry.com infoportjeff@suffolkpediatricdentistry.com For 40 years, we have provided dental care that’s friendly, gentle, and compassionate. We provide preventive and comprehensive treatment for infants, children, and adolescents including sedation and general anesthesia dentistry. We strive to help our patients develop good oral hygiene habits, and beautiful healthy smiles.

DOCTORS & MEDICAL PROVIDERS LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Nassau: 516-2161791 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders.

PEDIATRIC IMMEDIATE CARE

150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337) 698 Manhattan Ave., Brooklyn 718-389-PEDS (7337) pediatricimmediatecare.com

STONY BROOK CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL PEDIATRIC VOIDING IMPROVEMENT PROGRAM (VIP)

24 Research Way, East Setauket 631-444-6270 A comprehensive program for children and teens with bed-wetting and other urinary and bowel issues. Our experts offer innovative, age-appropriate solutions along with compassionate care.

EDUCATIONAL CONSULTANTS ACT AS IF ETIQUETTE & PROTOCOL

718 Walt Whitman Road, Melville 561-889-4464 actasifetiquette.com Offering fun, informative, engaging classes for children, teens, and young adults, with the content geared toward modern manners for modern times. Serving scout troops, libraries, after-school programs, camps, groups, and individuals.

FINANCIAL PLANNING & INSURANCE LINDA SPRINGER, INVESTMENT ADVISER REPRESENTATIVE WITH PRIMERICA ADVISORS

1600 Expressway Drive S., Hauppauge 631-235-1749 cell, 631-361-6271 office primerica.com/lindaspringer linda.springer@primerica.com Linda Springer, an investment adviser representative with Primerica Advisors has proudly served the community in financial literacy education and team training and development for more than 20 years. Contact her at 631-235-1749 (cell) or 631-361-6271(office).

FOOD & NUTRITION LITTLE VICKY’S

631-338-1722 littlevickys.com littlevickys@yahoo.com Little Vicky’s products are small batched with only the finest, natural ingredients. Real food, no junk. Products include honey butter, garlic honey, and honey lemonade. Sold at all Best Markets throughout Long Island and select Stop & Shops.

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FOSTER CARE & ADOPTION BERKSHIRE FARM CENTER AND SERVICES FOR YOUTH

535 Broad Hollow Road, Suite B30, Melville 631-420-4444 berkshirefarm.org Berkshire Farm Center & Services for Youth helps children find safety and comfort in the homes of foster parents. Become a foster parent and give the gift of family!

LEGAL SERVICES

LICE TAMERS, INC.

900 Walt Whitman Road, Suite LL2, Melville 877-237-LICE (5423) licetamers.com licetamers@gmail.com Lice Tamers offers same-day lice treatment and head checks at our comfortable, child-friendly treatment center or in the comfort of your home. All of our products are safe and nontoxic.

SPECIAL NEEDS ALTERNATIVES FOR CHILDREN

250 W. 57th St., Suite 1216, Manhattan 212-244-0595 1100 Franklin Ave., Suite 305, Garden City 516-877-0595 amcohenlaw.com ac@amcohenlaw.com The Law Offices of Andrew M. Cohen can help you achieve your objectives through careful special needs legal planning, regardless of the size of your estate. All clients are provided with high quality service at a reasonable cost.

1116 Main Road, Aquebogue 631-722-2170 600 South Service Road, Dix Hills 631-271-0777 14 Research Way, East Setauket 631-331-6400 168 Hill St., Southampton 631-283-3272 alternatives4children.org Licensed daycare, EI/Preschool Special Education evaluations provider for eligible children. Early childhood professionals create a natural learning environment, promoting a child’s cognitive, social, and emotional development.

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ANDREW COHEN, ESQ., LAW OFFICES OF ANDREW M. COHEN

534 Broadhollow Road, Suite 275, Melville 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law.

LICE FAIRY LICEMOTHERS

2463 S. Long Beach Road, Oceanside 866-561-0492 1755 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 866-561-0492 679 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Head 866-561-0492 fairylicemothers.com fairylicemothers@gmail.com Our treatment centers are kid-friendly and our products are 100 percent nontoxic. Treatments include two free re-checks. Whether or not you use our service, we are here to help you.

DR. STEVE IMBER, PSYCHOEDUCATIONAL CONSULTANTS

Serving Nassau and Suffolk counties as well as the five boroughs of NYC 61-43 186th St., Fresh Meadows 516-273-1961 Sprout Building 166 Valley St., Providence, RI 401-421-4004 dr-imber.com scimber1@aol.com Dr. Imber has more than 40 years of experience consulting, evaluating, and advocating for children, adolescents, and adults with

various disabilities including autism (e.g. Asperger’s syndrome), attention deficit disorders, intellectual disabilities, emotional and behavioral disorders, and learning disabilities.

LIFE’S WORC THE FAMILY CENTER FOR AUTISM

1501 Franklin Ave., Garden City 516-741-9000 familycenterforautism.org mreno@lifesworc.org The Family Center for Autism provides services and support for people with autism and their families. Programs include insurance services, birthday parties, art, music, sports and culinary classes, camps, parent and sibling programs, social events, vocational programs, and behavior intervention.

LITTLE OPTICS, INC.

192-07 Union Turnpike, Fresh Meadows 53-15 Roosevelt Ave., Woodside 718-468-7500 Hablamos Español. littleopticsinc@yahoo.com We provide eyeglasses and professional eye care for children, including infants, and young adults. We also alleviate any self-esteem issues associated with the stigma of wearing glasses. When your child leaves Little Optics, rest assured that they will feel confident.

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THERAPY & COUNSELORS AVIVA CHANSKY GUTTMANN, L.M.S.W., C.I.R.T.

631-885-4375 avivachanskyguttmann.com helpconnectingus@gmail.com Aviva Chansky Guttmann is a certified imago relationship therapist offering home-based therapy for couples, partners, and families. Flexible scheduling and large travel radius.

TUTORS & TEST PREP EYE LEVEL SUFFOLK

myeyelevel.com Eye Level offers math and English programs for ages 3-14. Whether the immediate goal is early learning, remedial education, or academic advancement, Eye Level is the answer.

ST. PATRICK YOUTH COMMUNITYST. PATRICK TUTORING CENTER

St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick Tutoring Center is here to assist your learner from grades kindergarten to 12th with Catholic Entrance Exam Prep, SAT, Regents, or daily schoolwork.

ST. PATRICK YOUTH COMMUNITYYOUTH ENRICHMENT LEARNING CENTER

St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick Youth Enrichment and Learning Center provides programs for your child ages 1½ years–sixth grade. A faith-based program offers a loving, caring environment.

SYLVAN LEARNING CENTER OF HUNTINGTON

1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 sylvanlearning.com sylvanlearning@optonline.net Sylvan of Huntington offers personalized tutoring programs in reading, writing, mathematics, and SAT and ACT prep. Sylvan will help identify the right program for your child and exactly where your child needs to start to get the best results.

OPEN HOUSES 2018

Smithtown Christian School

1 Higbie Drive, Smithtown 631-265-3334 learnwithscs.org Join us at our open house in January; call us for details. See what makes SCS stand apart from the rest. Take a tour of our school and meet our directors.

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts

185 Colonial Springs Road, Wheatley Heights 631-643-7900 usdan.org Join us for an open house Sundays, Jan. 13 and 27. The campus is yours to visit and explore. Receive a chance to “spin to win” a tuition discount. Register at usdan.org/visit.

Winston Preparatory School

30 Deforest Road, Dix Hills 212-719-5598 x2213 winstonprep.edu/our-campuses/li liadmissions@winstonprep.edu Winston Prep is a highly individualized setting for third to 12th grade students with specific learning differences. Open house: Thursday, Dec. 6 at 9:15am and Thursday, Jan. 10 at 9:15am.

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153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park 1-888-827-8188 tasnewyork.com Here education matters. The No. 1 learning center in New York. We offer after-school programs, private and group tutoring, kids and adult art classes, computer coding, SAT and ACT prep, Create and Meditate sessions, and summer camp!

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PartyCentral @ PLAY AMUSEMENTS

229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com

Have your next party at the newly renovated @ Play Amusements! It offers 40,000 square feet of fun ranging from 92 arcade games, inflatables, bumper cars, a roller coaster, a carousel, a disco room, and laser tag! BOUNCEU FARMINGDALE

101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com

BounceU Farmingdale was voted “Best of Long Island” for Children’s Party Place and Family Amusement Center. We provide the ideal combination of inflatable structures, a clean environment, incredible customer service, and nonstop excitement in a private party atmosphere. CELEBRATIONS IN THE KITCHEN

63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville 516-396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen.com celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com

The most unique, fun-filled, joyous event! We have created a true baking experience for everyone to enjoy, including sugar cookie baking, all about pizza, cupcakes from scratch, doughnuts, and chocolate and candy projects. Come in, call, or visit celebrationsinthekitchen.com for more information on parties. COLD SPRING HARBOR FISH HATCHERY & AQUARIUM

1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfha.org steved@cshfha.org

Celebrate your child’s next birthday at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium! See the Hatchery & Aquarium’s exciting live exhibits. Feed the hungry trout and learn about fish, reptiles, and amphibians with an upclose animal encounter. GREAT STRIDES LONG ISLAND

41 Coram-Swezeytown Road, Middle Island 631-786-9708 greatstridesli.org julie@greatstridesli.org

Lasso some birthday fun at Great Strides Long Island. We offer a relaxed picnic atmosphere (indoor facility is available), farm animals, and a horse ride all for a reasonable price. Email julie@greatstridesli.org for more information. HUNTINGTON CENTER FOR PERFORMING ARTS

310 New York Ave., Huntington 631-271-4626 huntingtoncenteronline.com huntingtoncenter@yahoo.com

Make your child’s birthday a memorable and creative event with our dance-themed birthday parties. As a special treat, a guest artist will come in costume to perform for your guests! INTREPID SEA, AIR & SPACE MUSEUM

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Celebrate your child’s birthday with a one-of-a-kind party! The Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum will captivate groups of all ages and interests. Choose from exciting themes, value packages, and customization options to create a birthday adventure they’ll remember forever! ISLAND CINEMAS

1708 Montauk Highway, Mastic 631-657-3198 island-cinemas.com sales@island-cinemas.com

Dear Mom and Dad, be the greatest parent around. Have your child’s birthday party at the movies! Call or visit our website today island-cinemas.com. KARTS INDOOR RACEWAY

701 Union Parkway, Ronkonkoma 631-737-5278 karts1.com info@karts1.com

Karts offers a variety of options for kids and adults starting at age 4 (40 inches tall). Whether it be racing, laser tag, or one of our other great activities, our unforgettable parties are loved by both kids and parents. KEY TO MY ART, INC.

10 W. Oak St., Amityville 131 Main St., East Rockaway 877-539-2278 keytomyart.com

At Key to My Art, our children’s paint parties include all supplies from aprons to easels. The guest of honor picks the theme, we provide the instruction, and each guest leaves with a finished painting! LONG ISLAND AQUARIUM

431 E. Main St., Riverhead 631-208-9200 xH20 (426), 631-208-9200 x125 longislandaquarium.com

Have your child’s birthday party at the Long Island Aquarium. Party options include a choice of private rooms, select food items, and an ice cream cake. All parties get a guided tour, special seating at the Sea Lion Show, and rides on the submarine simulator! MY GYM CHILDREN’S FITNESS CENTER

1320 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook 631-751-KIDS (5437) mgym.com/stonybrook 128 W. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington Station 631-427-GYMS (4967) mygym.com/huntingtonstation

My Gym parties include exclusive use of the gym, including a zip line, rock wall, trampoline, trapeze, climbing structures, and slides. Instructors lead your guests through action-packed activities of your choice from Gazillion Bubbles to sports, with multiple theme options. NASTICS A TOTAL GYMNASTICS EXPERIENCE

921-1 Lincoln Ave., Holbrook 631-567-0066 nasticsnextgen.com

Nastics birthday parties include quality gymnastics instruction, exciting games, and the unforgettable experience on our trapeze, 40-foot tumble trak, and trampoline.

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NOT JUST ART

183 South St., Oyster Bay 516-922-8300 notjustart.com create@notjustart.com

Not Just Art has oodles of excellent music, art, and science parties for ages 1-12 and beyond. Choose from our treasury of super imaginative projects or use favorite themes and activities as a creative springboard. PICASSO KIDZ, CREATIVE ART STUDIO FOR CHILDREN

72 Broadway, Greenlawn 631-261-5500 picassokidz.com picassokidzart@gmail.com

Picasso Kidz puts the “ART” in pARTy! Birthdays at Picasso Kidz are truly unique and memorable. We have many packages and options to choose from for ages 2-17. SAFARI ADVENTURE

1074 Pulaski St., Riverhead 631-727-4386 thesafariadventure.com dan@thesafariadventure.com

Safari Adventure is Long’s Island’s premier family fun center and birthday party place. Fun for the whole family with inflatables, four-level soft playground, arcade, interactive floor games, and a full cafe! SKY ZONE TRAMPOLINE PARK-DEER PARK

111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park 631-392-2600 skyzone.com/deerpark deerparkinfo@skyzone.com

The best birthday parties are at Sky Zone, Deer Park. We customize every birthday party. We have themed parties and super hero parties that include Dodgeball, Foam Zone, Sky Slam, and endless jumping opportunities! STUDIO E ART CLASSES

565 Route 25A, Miller Place 631-744-4001 studioeartclass.com/parties

Studio E Art Classes offers two economical party options! “The Bash” Starting at only $290 and “The Extravaganza” starting at only $420! View details at studioeartclass.com/parties. TAS NEW YORK – THEORY OF ARTS AND SCIENCES

153 S. Broadway, Hicksville 1-888-827-8188 1915 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park tasnewyork.com

The Theory of Arts & Sciences (TAS) birthday packages include all you need for a two-hour guided paint or arts and crafts party. We also offer special add-ons including face painting, henna, and custom invitations. THOMAS SCHOOL OF HORSEMANSHIP RIDING ACADEMY

250 Round Swamp Road, Melville 631-692-6840 tshcamp.com tsh@tshcamp.com

Birthday parties, scout parties, and class trips are always a blast at the Thomas School of Horsemanship. For groups of 14-18 children. They receive one hour of riding time.

Academic Enrichment 1160 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington 631-424-5600 sylvanlearning.com sylvanlearning@optonline.net Every child’s learning plan is unique! At Sylvan of Huntington students are posed with challenges that are tailored to their specific skill set, mixing the best in teaching and technology, ensuring your child gets just what he or she needs. Advanced topics in math, enhancing writing skills, and learning how to interact with text on a higher level are just some of our many enriching opportunities. Robotics and coding programs are also fun enrichment activities to enhance your child’s after-school routine. Our team of college-readiness experts help teens with personalized SAT and ACT test prep.

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St. Patrick Youth Community .........................................21

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery .................................19

NYBG - Train Show..........................................................7

Studio E Art Classes.......................................................13

Gateway Playhouse .........................................................5

Posey School of Dance .................................................13

Thomas School of Horsemanship Riding Academy &

Harlem Globtrotters .........................................................3

Special Needs..................................................................a

Island Cinemas ..............................................................37

Alternatives for Children ................................................19

Karts Indoor Raceway .....................................................3

Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech....................9, 44

Long Island Aquarium & Exhibition Center ....................17

Pediatric Immediate Care.........................................13, 44

NYBG - Train Show..........................................................7

Winston Prepatory School - Long Island .........................7

Summer Camp ................................................................9 Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts....................................2

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Posey School of Dance .................................................13

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Harlem Globtrotters .........................................................3

Converge Direct/Health First .........................................48

St. Patrick Youth Community .........................................21

Lice Tamers ...................................................................44

Thomas School of Horsemanship Riding Academy &

Pediatric Immediate Care.........................................13, 44

Summer Camp ................................................................9

The Jewish Education Project .......................................21

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theater

Tower Talent - Melville ...................................................27

Lice Tamers ...................................................................44

Gateway Playhouse .........................................................5

Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery .................................19 Gateway Playhouse .........................................................5 LIU Center for Gifted Youth............................................13 Studio E Art Classes.......................................................13 Sylvan Learning Center - Huntington ............................21

Island Cinemas ..............................................................37

Village East Gifted ...........................................................9

music dance

Music Together LLC .........................................................9

tutors

Posey School of Dance .................................................13

The Jewish Education Project .......................................21

Sylvan Learning Center - Huntington ............................21

Usdan Summer Camp for the Arts....................................2

Village East Gifted ...........................................................9

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How to Un-Fun the Holidays in 8 Easy Steps It’s easy to suck the joy right out of the holiday season, especially when you have kids—just follow this guide. If, by some chance, that’s not what you want to do, we have other recommendations for you! 1. Insist on getting the perfect photo for your annual holiday card. Dress up everyone in their finest clothes and keep stage-directing them (“a little to the left…a little to the right”) until their smiles are as frozen as a snowman’s. Instead: Go for a shot that’s casual or silly—it’s what life is really like with kids. 2. Knock yourself out trying to find this season’s hottest overpriced toy, even if your child didn’t ask for it. After all, isn’t that what caring parents do? Instead: Have your child help you pick out a toy for Toys for Tots or another organization that brings joy to children in need. Show her that it’s what caring families do. 3. Write a glowing holiday letter to your family and friends, then spend the rest of the season wishing your life were half as awesome as you made it sound. Instead: Be honest about some of the struggles you’ve faced, like losing your battle with the scale or struggling to make your kids understand that “no means no.” People will appreciate your honesty. 4. Scurry around so much getting ready for the holidays that you spend less time with your kids than you want to. 46

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Instead: Remember to slow down and enjoy the season together. Take an evening to drive around and admire the holiday lights, or go skating one afternoon. Your child may remember those moments more than all the fancy presents that come his way. 5. Decorate your home with lots of “don’t-touch” holiday objects, then get upset when your child breaks one (or worse, get scared when he ends up hurting himself). Instead: Learn how to keep your home festive, but hazard free, by reading “13 Ways to Stay Safe This Holiday Season” on p. 16. 6. Drag your children to a nighttime holiday religious service, then feel embarrassed when they can’t keep it together. Instead: Look for a “family” service, where kids are welcome and a certain amount of squirminess is permitted. 7. Pressure your kids to give hugs and kisses to family friends and relatives they barely know. Instead: Remember that kids, like adults, have the right to decide whom they want to be cozy with. If your child doesn’t feel like it, ask him to give a simple wave or say a friendly hello. Really young kids may not even be able to manage that much, but it’s okay; the adults around them will almost certainly understand. 8. Go into debt making this “the best holiday ever.” Instead: Create a reasonable budget and stick to it. You’ll start the new year feeling refreshed—not impoverished.

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