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November 2016 ›› Features
14 The Voters of Tomorrow How local teachers are using the election to engage students and raise civic awareness
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16 Better Than an Apple a Day Tips to help kids aviod common health problems, and how to treat them when it fails 22 A New Spin on Thanksgiving Favorites Three variations on traditional side dishes to amp up our favorite fall feast 42 All Grown Up What to consider when your child with special needs turns 21—and is no longer a child 46 Planning for the Worst Teaching toddlers and preschoolers how to handle emergencies
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Connections
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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Quotables 11 Voices: When Awkward Becomes Unsafe 13 NYMP Q&A: Marie Kondo talks about the art of organizing
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12 Media Matters: Apps for Learning & Fun 12 DIY Corner: Hot Glue Magic Wand 24 Outing: Morris-Jumel Mansion 27 Family Activities Calendar 38 Where-To Guide: Ice-Skating
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NOVEMBER 2016 • Vol.8 • No.6
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e had a fire in our home last year, small but terrifying. A crackling noise woke my wife and me early one morning, and it took only a groggy second to notice flames leaping up just beyond the foot of our bed, sparked by an old extension cord. While my wife hustled the kids outside, I doused the fire before the firefighters even arrived. Afterward, we talked to our children about what to do in case of another fire, especially if a grown-up can’t get to them. I was reminded of this scary episode while editing this month’s feature about teaching toddlers to handle emergencies (p. 46)—and learned that we didn’t go far enough in training our children to handle such situations. There is more we can do to prepare them for a moment we hope will never come, and I hope all of you will do the same. When it comes to avoiding dangerous situations, we parents are always on guard. But illness—short-term and long-term, serious and less so—seems to lurk everywhere. To help, we’ve put together a helpful guide to preventing common childhood health problems, from cold and flu to diabetes and depression (p. 16). And since illness will sometimes come despite our best efforts, we offer our seasonal directory of health care professionals (p. 20). As parents, we all have a certain vision for how our kids’ lives will progress. For parents of children with severe special needs, however, these milestones are not always possible, and the vision of their children’s future may be very different. As their children approach adulthood, there are many unique issues parents of kids with special needs face. To help them, Samantha Neudorf speaks with experts about how parents should prepare for the future (p. 42). At Thanksgiving time, we can all take a moment to count the blessings we have in life, no matter what challenges we face. It’s also a time when many of us focus on helping others through community service. If your kids—or your whole family—do volunteer work, we want to hear about it! We’re launching the NYMetroParents Caring Kids Awards to recognize those who are helping to make the world a better place. See below for details. Wishing everyone a happy Thanksgiving, filled with blessings and peace. Michael Kress Editorial Director
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UOTABLES My daughter, a quintessential all-American girl, loves to sing, dance, and perform. She has indulged in ballet, gymnastics, drama, musical theater, piano lessons—and she’s only 6 years old. I tell her she can do anything she can imagine and I want to make sure she knows it and gets to try. —NYC mom Galina Nemirovsky in a post entitled “’Living Vicariously Through My Children’ Club” on her blog heartseverywhere.com
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VOICES When Awkward Becomes Unsafe ›› Our kids interact regularly with people who are different and might make them uncomfortable. Sometimes, though, ‘uncomfortable’ becomes dangerous. By Ann Lapin
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don’t know if it was a parenting fail or not but it certainly didn’t feel good—not for me, and not for her. Our middle child had an after-school function with three other schools. Gavri, our eldest, had attended the same function two years before and joined us, curious to see if she’d recognize any alumni from her year. Sure enough, close to the end of the evening, I spotted Gavri sitting on a windowsill with a teenager from one of the other schools. I snapped a picture of the two girls in long skirts, one with fair skin and a sweater modestly covering her shoulders, one with dark skin and a hijab. I planned to caption it, “Stolen Moments,” along with some witty hashtag, no doubt. I recognized the young woman from earlier in the evening: She had approached me when the schools—two Jewish and two Muslim—took time to recite their respective afternoon prayers. I suspected from her overly affectionate behavior that she might have some social delays. But Gavri was smiling and nodding her head as the girl talked to her. My children spend a lot of time with people who are “different.” Our family hosts a free meal at our synagogue every week. Every week, my children interact with folks who want a free meal and folks who need a free meal. My husband serves as rabbi for a local retirement residence, and we visit their Shabbat (Sabbath) table at least monthly. My kids help set the table and serve the residents. My children are used to feeling uncomfortable. They are sometimes annoyed that this is how we have chosen to live our lives—surrounded by people who are “different”—as well as the fact that we expect them to actively engage with all of these people. “Arrrrgh! But I’m BORED! I don’t WANT to!” they might argue. “I don’t care,” I have responded. I have definitely told my children that I don’t care about their feelings in situations like these. Big mistake. At one point during the after-school function, I looked up and the girl had her arm around Gavri. But what had at first looked like two teenage girls sharing personal space and innocent secrets soon looked more like the other girl dragging my daughter from one person to the other. I finally realized Gavri had a combined look of “I’m so flattered she likes me!” and “OK, this dragging is a little awkward and uncomfortable—OMG, when will she STOP?!” I had ignored any inclination I had that my daughter was unsafe
because they were such a vision of harmony—a picture of peace and unity and the innocence of youth. But there was something about the way Gavri was pressing her lips into a smile as she was dragged from person to person. There was something about the way she seemed to plead with me with her eyes. I knew something was wrong even if I didn’t know what it was. So I approached them. “Do you need a break?” I asked Gavri. She didn’t quite answer. So I asked in Hebrew, a language we both speak but I knew the other child would not understand, “Do you need help?” She replied. “Maybe...kinda...yeah...” I ended up having to remove the girl’s arm from around Gavri’s shoulders. When she walked away, Gavri started crying. She hadn’t really believed that anything bad would happen, but felt scared nonetheless. The girl had actually whispered threatening comments in her ear, but Gavri could tell the girl had delays and didn’t want to hurt her feelings by asking for help “I realized afterward I should have asked you for help in Hebrew,” she said the next day. I pointed out that because she is regularly pushed outside her comfort zone, spending time with people who are different than she is, she is used to suppressing expressions of discomfort. But this crossed a line. “There doesn’t have to be a ‘should have,’” I told her. “Now you know, going forward, sometimes your feelings have to be more important than someone else’s. It wasn’t so nice for me to speak to you in Hebrew in front of someone else (who wouldn’t understand), was it?” Gavri nodded. “It’s not my job to be nice. It’s my job to be your mommy.” I know it’s the exposure Gavri has to people who make her feel uncomfortable and the fact that she placed greater emphasis on the other girl’s feelings than her own that caused Gavri to not ask for help outright or even to really advocate for herself. It really is important to us that our children learn to tolerate a little discomfort. I’m hoping, going forward, our children will feel confident and understand the distinction between “uncomfortable” and “unsafe.” I’ve also made an effort to begin reminding my children that everybody’s feelings count—including theirs.
Ann Lapin and her family live in Riverdale, Bronx. They have been an interim boarding care family for more than four years. Ann owns a Mary Kay business and teaches classes at Fit Figure Boot Camp in the northwest Bronx. Follow her at facebook.com/annephrat and on Twitter @ann4marykay.
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Constructed from everyday materials, this magic wand is both customizable and quick to assemble, making this a project perfect for mass production and outfitting a classroom full of wizards. Supplies 1 sheet of copy paper Clear tape or masking tape 1 unsharpened wooden pencil 1 marble or similar small trinket Craft paint (brown suggested)
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Directions 1. On a flat surface, slowly roll a sheet of copy paper (or an old wizard wanted poster) into a tight paper cone. When finished, one end should come to a point, while the other end should have a ¼to ½-inch opening in it. Once it’s tightly rolled, use clear tape or masking tape along the side of the cone to fasten it in place. The finished cone will be roughly 10-13 inches long. 2. Slide an unsharpened wooden pencil into the open end of the paper cone, with the eraser end facing out. Wedge the pencil into the tip of the cone until the combined assembly is 11-15 inches long. Secure the pencil by adding some hot glue to the open end of the paper cone, around the wedged pencil. Additional hot glue can be used to strengthen the wand tip as well.
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3. With your fingers, dislodge the pencil’s eraser from the metal band that holds it in place. Avoid bending the metal band. Add hot glue to the inside of the empty metal band, and then attach a small marble or a similar small trinket. Add more hot glue around the bottom of the attached item for increased strength. When dry, the attached item will serve as the wellspring of your wand’s mystical powers—and the ideal base for your wand’s finger grip! 4. With the glue gun, add front and back grip details 3-4 inches apart. As the glue dries, increase the thickness of the new grip details by adding additional layers of glue. With more glue, create custom textures around the grip area of the wand shaft. When the hot glue has dried, use craft paint to add some color. Excerpted from John Austin’s Labcraft Wizards, currently in stores. © 2016 by John Austin. Used with permission from Chicago Review Press. All rights reserved.
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Marie Kondo is an organizing guru, founder of the KonMari method, and author of the New York Times best-sellers The Life‑Changing Magic of Tidying Up and Spark Joy. What are your tips for parents to stay organized with kids? The first thing parents should teach their child is not how to organize toys, but how to fold clothes correctly. Folding clothes is equivalent to taking care of what you wear daily, and by habituating your children to fold clothes, they naturally begin to learn the KonMari way of organizing—to value the things that are important to you. Do you find that there is value for children in being raised in an organized home? Being organized means knowing what is important to you, and also knowing what it means to value what is important to you. Children with these skills have the power to make decisions and accomplish things under their own criteria when they face many situations as they grow up. Any tips for negotiating with a child who might not want to give up or let go of certain items? If the item is something valuable to the child, there is absolutely no need to let go of it. Parents should not decide whether the item is necessary or not. What is important is how the child feels about it, and whether the child wants to keep and take care of the item.
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Can you recommend any organizational tips that children can practice? Like I said before, to teach children how to fold clothes first. Other than that, it is basically the same with adults—to keep only what you want to keep and value, to designate a “home” (a specific spot to keep things) for each item that you own, and to put the items back to their “homes” every day. How do you balance children’s creativity, which can also be messy, with an organized home? There are two points. First, designate a play area for the child. Teach the child where the play area is, and whatever goes out of the area, put it back every time. The second point is to put each item back to its “home” every day. It depends on the age of the child, but if they are still little, parents should put the item back in its “home.” If they are big enough to think for themselves, parents should teach them to put the things that they value back to their “home” every day.
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How local teachers are using the election and its aftermath to engage students and raise civic awareness. By Melissa Kagan
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very four years, educators use the presidential election to impart valuable lessons to students about the electoral process, democracy, government, and the responsibilities of citizenship. While many teachers avoid discussing matters of personal opinion, they are finding creative ways to use the campaign as fodder for especially impactful lessons and classroom activities. Teachers across the region have implemented lesson plans and programs for students of all ages, and many have ambitious plans for the weeks leading up to Election Day and beyond, as they dissect and discuss the results. Because the 2016 election has been especially contentious, Jen Hickey, a sixth grade Individuals and Societies (formerly known as social studies) teacher at Dobbs Ferry Middle School in Dobbs Ferry is using this opportunity to teach her students about respect and how it’s possible to get a point across without using inflammatory language. “This will prepare them for adulthood,” she says. “In order to be taken seriously, it’s important to sound educated while discussing topics such as the election.” Hickey oversees a lesson in which students work in small groups and read excerpts from the candidate’s websites. They focus on five issues the students have identified as being important to them. However, the excerpts are labeled 14
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as Candidate A and Candidate B, instead of identifying the candidate with whom they are associated. “After reading all of the text excerpts, students decide which candidate their views align better with and vote for that candidate,” Hickey says. “After all of the classes have voted, at the end of the day, we announce who was Candidate A and who was Candidate B. In our next class, we talk about their vote and would it have been any different if they knew which candidate was A and B. It’s a great opportunity for students to have conversations with each other and also their families about how they voted on certain issues.”
Debating the Issues
Students at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Hall Regional School in Bellmore are required to watch the presidential debates and engage in discussions about the campaign during time set aside for current events every Friday. “I want my students to know where each candidate stands on key issues so they can see how their opinions impact our country’s economy,” says Laura Sena, a middle school social studies teacher at the school. The seniors in Richard Salerno’s Advanced Placement Government class at Iona Preparatory School in New Rochelle are also encouraged
to engage in debate. “I partner up with our speech-and-debate coach Charles Sloat, using his debate methodology on our shared project,” Salerno says. “We coordinate topics to be debated by my students on our blog. This year our first two topics were fashioned to discuss the 2016 presidential election.” The first topic for debate was whether social media coverage of the presidential race this year will do more to influence the outcome of the election than traditional news outlets. The second topic focused on whether contempt for the candidates has made many Americans feel disenfranchised—and whether that will lead to a particularly low voter turnout.
Voter Registration
Speaking of turnout, eighth grade students at Pelham Middle School in Pelham are focusing heavily on voter registration and how to get people to the polls. The students have been tasked with creating public service announcements to encourage voting, and discussions and lessons have emphasized citizens’ responsibilities. “In addition to the PSAs and the analysis of last year’s voter turnout, we are also asking students to interview relatives about their voting experiences,” says Maria Thompson, director of humanities at the Pelham Public Schools. “We want to find out what they remember most about their first time voting and their last time voting.” Some schools took their election lessons outside of the classroom. Five Oceanside High School students were randomly selected by their social studies teacher, Laura Trongard, to attend a day-long series of election-related events at Hofstra University in Hempstead. Their day culminated with attending the first debate between Hillary Clinton and Donald Trump, which took place on campus. Members of the Massapequa mock trial team also spent the day on Hofstra’s campus, taking part in various media events. They were involved in panel discussions led by political correspondents, witnessed historical reenactments of the 1872 and 1972 debates, learned about the role social media is playing in this election, saw a video art display on the issues at stake, and participated in a mock vote. Their day concluded by participating in a debate party, during which they were able to watch a live feed of the debate in an auditorium on campus with students from other area high schools.
Engaging Even the Youngest Students
This time of the year, even the youngest children know something is up. They see a running stream of political advertisements on television, flyers coming in the mail with photos of politicians, and the ubiquitous lawn signs. To address the election with the younger set, many schools are turning to visual displays. Elementary schools in Pelham, for instance, have set up “word walls” highlighting vocabulary related to the election so kids can make the connection between what they sometimes hear at home and how it relates to the real world. Some educators, such as those at the Green Ivy Schools in Manhattan, approach the topic differently when it comes to the younger grades, waiting for them to raise the issue and ask questions. “Because we are committed to relevant and purposeful inquiry, we would explore the particular aspects of the election children ask about and want to pursue deeper knowledge in,” says Christina Stanfield, chief marketing officer at Green Ivy, “rather than preformulating how we want them to view any important election.” Whatever the approach, teachers know that a presidential election offers a once-in-four years opportunity to add some real-world excitement and engagement to their curriculum. “Our lessons are ideal for preparing students for life outside of the classroom,” Hickey says. “We want to open their eyes beyond Dobbs Ferry to create educated global citizens,” she says. Melissa Kagan is the former editor-in-chief of the now-defunct lifetimemoms.com. She is currently a freelance writer whose work has been featured in Mommy Poppins, Westchester Magazine, and Westchester Family. She lives in Pelham with her husband and two children.
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Pelham students will participate in a mock online election, which will occur just prior to Election Day, with the results posted online as well. Mock elections like this are particularly successful at energizing young people to take an interest in voting, teachers say. “The mock election gives students the chance to understand how the election system works,” Hickey says. “My hope is that when the students become old enough to vote, they will remember what they learned here and take the time to study the issues before they vote in a real election.” The mock election at Dobbs Ferry Middle School will require students in sixth through eighth grades to “sign in” at a polling site and cast their vote. The school will post interviews with students at the “polling site” throughout the day on its Facebook page and announce who the students “elected” for President.
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Prevention is always preferable to having to treat your sick child. We asked area pediatricians how to help kids avoid common childhood health problems—and how to treat them when that fails. By Alison Kotch
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hat’s more challenging than dealing with the ever-changing demands of parenting? Dealing with sick children: They’re miserable, and you want to do everything you can to make them better, fast. Your first instinct might be to call your pediatrician for advice once they’re under the weather, but let’s face it: You’d rather they didn’t get sick in the first place. It’s easy to get overwhelmed by conflicting online research and advice, so we asked local pediatricians how to prevent and treat several common health problems, so your little one can get back to happy and healthy, fast.
Cold and Flu
Among the most common and easily transmitted fall/winter/backto-school illnesses, colds and flu can strike regularly, as they’re spread by mucus and saliva. Symptoms: While a stuffy or runny nose, coughing, sore throat, and fever can be symptoms of both cold and flu, you’ll know if it’s the flu if your child is complaining—a lot. “I tell my parents all the time that snots are ok—kids are full of snots,” says Elissa Rubin, M.D., of Happy and Healthy Pediatrics in Mineola. “If they’re miserable, that’s what you should pay attention to and look to avoid.” Causes: Sharing food or drink, or spending time in close contact with someone who is already sick Prevention: The flu vaccine is the best preventative measure: Once your child is 6 months old, it’s safe to get it. Other than that, “there’s no bubble to put our kids in to avoid all germ 16
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exposure,” says Stanley Jacob, M.D., of Helping Kids Pediatrics in New City. But you can reduce the spread of germs by encouraging frequent hand washing to stop the illness from spreading. Treatment: Lots of rest, and avoiding exposure to others who are sick will help; electrolyte-enhanced fluids such as juice will go a long way toward helping strengthen the immune system to help it fight off infection.
Ear Infection
Aside from cavities, ear infections are one of the most common bacterial infections, and they occur when the middle ear becomes inflamed: Fluid builds up behind the eardrum, causing an earache. While five out of six kids will have one by their third birthday, these infections drop off by age 5 or 6. Symptoms: While ear pain is the most recognizable (your child will probably tell you she’s hurting), look out for ear pulling, which could be a sign of wax buildup and/or infection. Causes: In some children, viruses are the culprit; others might just be more prone to them. However, environmental factors such as smoking in the home or allowing your child to go to sleep with a bottle can also contribute. Prevention: “There is no way to prevent an ear infection, but talk to your doctor if your child is having recurrent ones for a otolaryngology referral,” recommends Dyan Hes, M.D., medical director of Gramercy Pediatrics in Manhattan.
Treatment: While your initial reaction might be to agree to put your child on antibiotics, stat, many physicians and parents are opting for the “watch and wait” approach. “If a child comes in with pain and an infection and has a cold, the recommendation is to wait for 24 hours and see how they’re doing, rather than just knee-jerk prescribe antibiotics,” says Christina Johns, M.D., senior medical advisor for PM Pediatrics, which has locations in New Jersey and the New York metro area. “Sometimes they feel better naturally, and the body becomes better at getting rid of it faster.”
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Diabetes
In children without diabetes, the pancreas releases insulin into the bloodstream after meals, helping the body regulate blood sugar naturally; between meals, the liver releases stored glycogen and converts it into glucose, keeping blood sugar within a normal range. While the causes of Type 1 and Type 2 diabetes are different, both cause a buildup of sugar in the blood that needs to be regulated. Symptoms: Extreme hunger, weight loss, excessive thirst, frequent urination, fatigue, irritability, and blurred vision Causes: While Type 1 diabetes is thought to be caused by genetics or exposure to viruses such as Coxsackie or EpsteinBarr, as children’s lifestyles become increasingly more sedentary (thanks, television and technology!), Type 2 diabetes is becoming more common: “We think of Type 2 as adult-onset diabetes, but with the obesity epidemic on the rise, we’re seeing it in 9- and 10-year-old kids,” Dr. Johns says. Prevention: There is no known way to prevent or cure Type 1—you’ll need to administer insulin shots for life—but Type 2 is avoidable. To prevent Type 2 diabetes, it’s important to be a good role model through your own exercise and dietary habits. “If you keep your children active with at least 30-45 minutes of exercise daily and limit television and video games to no more than two hours, you can stay ahead of the potential development of diabetes and manage it if it comes—hopefully prevent it,” Dr. Jacob says. Treatment: If your child has Type 1 diabetes, topical anesthetics and a pep talk can ease the anxiety that can come with daily shots, Dr. Jacob says. A child psychiatrist can also assist with open communication about how to manage a chronic disease. For kids with Type 2, a healthy diet and daily exercise is key. Plus, studies have shown that people with diabetes tend to have low vitamin D, so adding dairy can help, too: Aim for two or three 8-ounce glasses of milk per day.
Depression
While the occasional bout of sadness is normal, depression can often go untreated because parents mistake it for normal emotional or psychological changes that occur as your child matures—and early depression can also be masked by acting out. Symptoms: Loss of interest in activities at home or school, hopelessness, appetite or sleep fluctuations, lack of energy, anxiety, anger, and not spending time with friends Causes: Change in family setting (divorce, death of a family member, moving); bullying, academic or social pressure. Lack of parental connection can also be an issue: “We live in a generation where parents look at their cellphones more than their children,” Dr. Rubin says. Be aware that the causes of a child’s depression are not always apparent, and it may not take a major event or obvious problem to spark depression.
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Prevention: Trust your instincts, and let your children know you’re there to talk (and just as importantly, listen) during the tough times. “Let them know that you’re there but be open minded, and remember what it was like to be their age,” Dr. Jacob advises. “Actively listen and engage, be observant and ask questions—but realize when they need space.” Treatment: Since depression can be caused by neurotransmitters being out of balance, this is one case where a child’s psychiatrist can recommend medication—in combination with cognitive behavioral therapy—as a form of treatment. Just as important: Tending to your own mental health. “Parents need to be aware of their own anxieties, since issues from their own childhood often resurface,” adds Dr. Rubin. “Anxiety and depression is taught behavior. Break that cycle by being aware of your own emotions and monitoring them.”
Obesity
While some children are naturally heavier due to excess muscle from fat, bone, muscle, water, or a combination of all of the above, obesity is on the rise: According to the CDC, 1 in 6 children in the United States is obese. Symptoms: Children are considered obese when their body mass index is at or above the 95th percentile compared to children of similar age and sex. (To calculate BMI, divide your child’s weight in kilograms by the square of their height in meters). Causes: Poor diet and a lack of exercise are top causes, but stress (and the emotional eating response to it) can also be contributing factors, especially if you’re guilty of this as a parent. “If you eat when you’re stressed or relate emotions to food, kids will notice that and do it too,” Dr. Rubin says. Prevention: Getting your kids interested in and excited about food at an early age is key. Try taking them to the store and letting them pick out their own fruits and vegetables, or allowing them to be involved in food preparation at home. Doing this will encourage kids to select fruit as a snack instead of sugary treats, Dr. Johns says. Another tip: Instead of rewarding accomplishments like a great report card with ice cream, ask your child what activity or outing he wants to do to celebrate instead. Treatment: If your child isn’t involved or interested in sports, take a walk with her, or offer to watch him doing his favorite activity. “What kids like more than anything is attention,” Dr. Johns says. “Whether it’s jumping rope or shooting hoops, they’ll be more likely to do something if you watch and give them positive feedback.”
Asthma
If you’re wondering if your child’s cough could possibly be asthma, consider this: Most children with asthma have symptoms before age 5 and experience recurring coughing or wheezing that gets worse in the presence of irritants such as smoke or dust mites. Symptoms: Coughing at night, wheezing while breathing out, and/or fast breathing that causes the skin to tighten around the neck or ribs. A good test if you can’t tell: Have your child take a deep breath. If he starts coughing at the end or has spastic, relentless coughing fits, he likely has asthma, Dr. Rubin says. Causes: Although allergens and exercise can trigger asthma, the change in seasons can, too—especially the cold, dry air that winter brings. Genetics can also play a part, and so can your family pet (but don’t worry, you won’t need to get rid of it!) Prevention: If your household has pets, your pediatrician can administer a blood test to find out if your fluffy loved ones are the culprit. If they are, don’t worry: You can limit the pet to certain rooms in the house, or install a HEPA air filter to purify air in your 18
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child’s room. Cleaning your home regularly (to reduce dust) and not smoking indoors can also help her breathe easy. Treatment: While a rescue inhaler can help children with intermittent asthma ward off periodic attacks, children with prolonged attacks will need to administer medication from a controller inhaler daily. Regardless of the type of asthma your child has, it’s wise to have an inhaler on hand—at home and at school. “Kids will let you know when they have tightness in their chest and ask for relief,” Dr. Rubin adds.
Bedwetting
Also known as enuresis, bedwetting is a common childhood problem that can be embarrassing for children, and frustrating and stressful for parents. The good news is that it’s usually easy to treat and typically stops on its own as your child learns how to control his or her bladder during the late stages of potty training. Symptoms: Touch your child’s sheets in the morning. If they’re wet or she comes downstairs with wet PJs, you’ll know something’s up. Causes: While some children can inherit it from their parents, others fall into such a deep sleep that their bladder just lets go. Even if your child is already potty trained when it occurs, younger children often regress due to divorce, separation, or during life changes, such as moving. Prevention: Behavioral change, such as limiting drinks and caffeine prior to bedtime, can help. In addition, products designed to treat the condition, called wet stop alarms, trigger an alarm that reminds your child to get up to use the bathroom. Treatment: Whatever you do, don’t make your child feel ashamed. Some children experience it until age 9 or 10, and pullups are a great solution to avoid frequent loads of laundry. Finally, don’t torture yourself thinking you’re doing something wrong. “No child will go to college wearing a diaper—they just need time to mature,” Dr. Rubin says.
Nightmares
Any parent who’s had to comfort her child in the middle of the night knows that nightmares are a common—but easily fixed— childhood health problem. While young children in their “afraid of the dark” phase are most susceptible to nightmares, they can affect children at any age. Symptoms: Luckily, this one’s easy: Your child will likely let you know that she’s scared to go to bed (or wake you in the middle of the night, looking for comfort). Causes: Fear of the dark, lack of sleep, exposure to scary or unsettling TV without context Prevention: “Parents should make sure that children aren’t exposed to anything frightening on the TV or Internet, and discuss if there are any stressors leading to nightmares. Often, they will pass with time,” Dr. Hes says. Treatment: “There’s not much a parent can do but comfort during these times,” Dr. Hes says. A night-light, bedtime security object, or temporary distraction—such as face-washing, a back rub, or calming conversation about what’s troubling them—can help soothe them back to sleep. Remember, no child is healthy all the time and no amount of preventative effort is going to be 100-percent effective. So don’t beat yourself up when your child gets sick, and focus instead on giving her the TLC and medical care she needs to get back on her feet as quickly as she can! Alison Kotch is a writer living in Brooklyn.
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Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy
Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: Commack, East Yaphank, Farmingville, Jericho, Lake Success, Stony Brook, and Wantagh Nassau: 516-216-1791 Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Queens: 718-640-6767 lispeechandmyo.com Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, is owner and operator of Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy, and Suffolk Center for Speech. Along with her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES—Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. There is a total of seven affiliated offices across Long Island, all participating with most major health insurance companies and offering evening and Saturday hours.
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FOOD & NUTRITION
A New Spin on Thanksgiving Favorites ›› Three cookbook authors share their takes on traditional side dishes to amp up our favorite fall feast. Oyster Stuffing for American Thanksgiving American Thanksgiving is always a big hit at our farmhouse. Each year, I carefully plan a harvest menu using as many ingredients from the farm as possible. We invite family and friends and generally serve the traditional stuffed turkey, mashed potatoes, cranberry sauce, and pumpkin pie, but I always like to add a few surprises depending on what is left in the garden as well. One Thanksgiving, a fellow American expat living in Dublin joined us at the farm. She made an unforgettable oyster stuffing that we have adopted as a new Thanksgiving tradition ever since. Here’s my take on it. Serves 8-10 Ingredients 11 cups crusty bread cut into ½-inch cubes 6 slices bacon, coarsely chopped 6 tbsp. unsalted butter, melted, plus more for greasing the pan 6 shallots, thinly sliced 1 leek, thinly sliced 4 celery stalks, thinly sliced 40 medium (about 1 lb) oysters, shucked, with 1 cup of the liquor reserved
1 cup chicken stock ¼ cup sherry 1/ 3 cup chopped flat-leaf parsley 2 tbsp. chopped thyme leaves 2 tbsp. chopped sage leaves 1 tsp. sweet marjoram, chopped 1 tbsp. fennel seeds ½ tsp. hot pepper sauce Sea salt and freshly ground black pepper, to taste
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2. Arrange the bread cubes on a baking sheet in a single layer and bake, stirring occasionally, until dried but not browned, approximately 15 minutes. Remove from the oven and let cool. 3. Cook the bacon in a 12-inch skillet over medium-high heat, stirring frequently, until it is crisp and the fat has rendered, approximately 10 minutes. Add 4 tablespoons of the melted butter. Add the shallots, leek, and celery; reduce the heat to medium and cook, stirring occasionally, until the vegetables are soft, approximately 10 minutes. 4. Add the oyster liquor, chicken stock, sherry, parsley, thyme, sage, marjoram, fennel seeds, hot pepper sauce, and salt and pepper. Bring to a boil over high heat and cook, stirring occasionally, for 5 minutes. Scrape the mixture into a large bowl, and stir in the bread cubes and oysters. Set aside to allow the flavors to come together for 10 minutes. 5. Raise the oven temperature to 400°F. Transfer the oyster mixture to the prepared baking dish and cover with foil. Bake for 30 minutes. Remove the foil, drizzle with the remaining butter, and continue baking until golden brown and crusty, approximately 15 minutes more. 6. Serve immediately. Scullery Notes Fresh oysters are best, but if you are in a pinch, canned or jarred oysters in liquor will work as well. From The Farmette Cookbook, © 2016 by Imen McDonnell. Reprinted by arrangement with Roost Books, an imprint of Shambhala Publications Inc., Boulder, CO. roostbooks.com
Eggplant Mashed Potatoes
Roasted Squash with Ginger Shallot Browned Butter
Eggplant mashed potatoes? Sounds a little crazy, right? Trust me— they’re not! This recipe is perfection, as well as a wonderfully creative way of hiding extra veggies in a well-loved dish. The inspiration for this was sort of random: I once had a comment on my blog about putting tahini in mashed potatoes. Months and months later, while I was cooking, my mind jumped back to that comment. My taste buds and brain went from tahini to hummus to babaganoush to eggplant to “Hey! That might not be too bad!” And it wasn’t bad—in fact, it was awesome! Just make sure you roast the eggplant to complete creaminess, and you’ll have yourself a surprisingly delicious side dish featuring a double dose of vegetables!
I could happily eat plain roasted squash on a regular basis. Its natural sweetness paired with a sprinkle of salt and wrapped in a crisp-on-theoutside, soft-on-the-inside bite is near perfection. But since I like to make it easy to spice things up, I often dress my roasted squash in ginger shallot browned butter. And boy, is it mouthwateringly good.
Serves 4 as a side dish Ingredients 1 small eggplant, halved Olive oil for roasting 1 tsp. salt, plus more for baking eggplant 3 medium creamer potatoes, chopped
2 tbsp. dairy-free butter Splash of dairy-free milk Freshly cracked black pepper to taste
Directions 1. P reheat the oven to 400°F. 2. B rush the flesh side of the eggplant with olive oil and sprinkle it with salt. 3. P lace the eggplant halves peel side down on a baking sheet and cook for 30-40 minutes (depending on the size), until the insides are very, very tender. Pierce through the top to test the inside; the softer, the better. 4. W hile the eggplant is roasting, place the potatoes in a medium pot and cover them with water. Bring to a boil, then simmer until the potatoes are soft. 5. D rain the water from the potatoes and place them in a large bowl. Remove the peel, if you prefer. 6. S coop out the inside of the eggplant and place it in the mixing bowl with the potato. Discard the peel. 7. W hip the potatoes, eggplant, butter, and salt together until smooth and creamy. Add a splash of milk, if necessary. 8. Season with salt and pepper. A Note About This Recipe: While I don’t like to rely on “hidden vegetable” meals, since I think kids should learn to love every vegetable on its own (okay, well, maybe not every one), sometimes they are the quickest way to get your kid to start eating less-palatable veggies. This dish works like a charm. Tip: Garlic mashed potatoes? Yes, please! Since you’ll be heating up the oven to cook the eggplant anyway, consider roasting a whole head of garlic, too, and mixing it in with the potatoes. Kid-Friendly Tip: Nutritional yeast, always and forever. A sad day for Marlowe (the author’s daughter) involves mashed potatoes without it. Throw in a tablespoon when you whip the potatoes.
Recipe from The Plantiful Table: Easy, From-the-Earth Recipes for the Whole Family, copyright © Andrea Duclos, 2015. Reprinted by permission of the publisher, The Experiment. Available wherever books are sold. theexperimentpublishing.com
Serves 4 Ingredients Approximately 6 cups peeled, seeded, and cubed butternut squash, cut into 1- to 2-inch pieces (from one mediumsize squash or two 20-ounce packages of precut squash) 2 tbsp. olive oil
¼ tsp. salt, plus more to taste Freshly ground black pepper 4 tbsp. (½ stick) unsalted butter ½ cup thinly sliced shallots 2 tsp. chopped fresh ginger Chives, chopped, for garnish (optional)
Directions 1. Preheat the oven to 425°F. In a large bowl, toss the squash with the olive oil, the ¼ teaspoon of salt, and a pinch of pepper. Spread the squash in a single layer on a rimmed baking sheet (set the empty bowl aside to keep cleanup to a minimum) and roast until tender all the way through and caramelized in spots, approximately 40 minutes. (Make sure that the squash can hold its shape well enough to be handled without getting mushy.) 2. In the meantime, in a small pan, melt the butter over medium heat. Once the butter has melted completely and begins to foam, start swirling the pan continuously. Watch carefully as the butter cooks and turns color: once you see it turn chestnut brown, remove the pan from the heat and add the shallots and ginger. Swirl the pan a couple more times and return to the heat. 3. Continue to cook, stirring constantly, until the ginger is fragrant and the shallots are soft and caramelized in spots, approximately 3 minutes. Take off the heat for good and set aside. 4. R emove the squash from the oven and carefully transfer it to the bowl you’ve set aside. Pour the ginger shallot browned butter over the squash and gently toss. Season with more salt and pepper to taste, if desired, and garnish with chives, if using. Serve immediately. Make It Easier: Get help from the store—or a very sharp knife. Let’s be honest, dealing with butternut squash can be a total drag. Although you don’t always get the same vibrant flavor out of the precut kind you can find in most supermarkets nowadays, I find the shortcut totally worth it, especially when roasting will coax out so much delicious flavor. If you can’t find or just refuse to buy precut (hey, we all choose the hard path for something!), make it easy by using a sharp knife and sharp peeler. Start by cutting off each end of the squash, then peel—with a peeler, not your knife. Once you’ve removed all the skin, stand the squash upright on one of the cut ends. It should be stable so that you can cut the vegetable in half lengthwise. Once split open, you can scoop out the seeds with a spoon and cut each half where the neck meets the body. The neck will be solid; cut it into slices at whatever thickness you like (1½-2 inches is good), then cut each slice into strips and, after that, cubes. Cut each remaining half in slices and each slice into cubes. You did it. Excerpted from Make It Easy: 120 Mix-and-Match Recipes to Cook From Scratch—with Smart Store-Bought Shortcuts When You Need Them by Stacie Billis. Copyright © 2016. Available from Da Capo Lifelong Books, an imprint of Perseus Books, LLC, a subsidiary of Hachette Book Group, Inc.
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OUTINGS: Morris-Jumel Mansion
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1 Inside the historical mansion, visitors can see the way people lived centuries ago. 2 Children take care of the lush gardens surrounding the property. 3 The outside of the Morris-Jumel Mansion, NYC’s oldest house. 4 Many people including George Washington have called the mansion home. 5 The mansion offers
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Morris-Jumel Mansion serves as a cultural resource for national and international visitors and particularly the diverse residents of New York City. Visitors will learn about the lives of the people who have been an important part of the history of this mansion, which includes both the Morris and Jumel families and even George Washington. Harlem Renaissance artists and many immigrant groups have been neighbors to the mansion as well.
Year-Round Features
The mansion provides an unsurpassed educational history for children and young adults via writing, critical thinking, and art. The adult program focuses on theater, music, lectures, and tours of the mansion. Docent-guided tours of the mansion are offered regularly—$12 for adults and $9 for students and seniors. Lead by one of the mansion’s expert docents, families can learn about the rich history of the mansion, the famous people who have come through it over the years, and the rich lives of people from centuries ago. 24
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School tours, full of hands-on learning adventures, are beloved by students. Kids learn about archaeology, the Revolutionary War, and more. The garden and grounds are spectacular, and events such as yoga and picnicking are a wonderful way to see the manicured landscape, the lush greenery, and fresh flowers. Various art exhibitions from artists worldwide are on display year-round and change season by season.
illusions that create a moving image. The event is free with the price of museum admission. RSVP by calling 212-923-8008 or email education@morrisjumel.org. This event is recommended for kids ages 8-14. An additional Family Day is scheduled for Nov. 19 during which you can make homemade butter and learn about colonial-style cooking to prep for Thanksgiving. It’s free to attend this mouthwatering event with the price of museum admission.
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This month offers some exciting programs and events that are not to be missed. From Nov. 3-5, see a theatrical performance from 8-9pm entitled Fancy Me Mad. The play is set in Baltimore and will intrigue the audience with a story of a young man visiting the home of his recently deceased grandmother at which he learns of her obsession with Edgar Allen Poe. Family Day will be held Nov. 5 from 11am1pm. Families can create a movie as they were made in the 1860s using zoetropes—optical
Address: 65 Jumel Terrace, Manhattan Directions: Approximately a 50-minute drive from Huntington Hours: Monday, by appointment only; Tuesday-Friday, 10am-4pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm. The museum is closed on New Year’s, Memorial, Labor, Thanksgiving, and Christmas days. Admission: $10; $8 seniors and students; free for children 12 and younger and members For more information: 212-923-8008 or morrisjumel.org
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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the eight events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!
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‘The Lightning Thief’
WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 8, 12-4pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Children get the right to vote, see how campaigns to “Save the Whales” were initiated, cast a vote for favorite artifacts, and create patriotic crafts. WHY WE LOVE IT: Including children in the voting process is a great warm up to the real thing! WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children and seniors. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 20, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, Hillwood Recital Hall, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Mythological monsters and the gods of Mount Olympus seem to be walking straight out of the pages of Percy’s Greek mythology textbook and into his life. WHY WE LOVE IT: Percy Jackson is about to be kicked out of boarding school again, and that’s the least of his troubles. WANT TO GO? $20. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.
Bubble Time!
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 26, 11am WHERE: Bay Street Theater Present Goat on a Boat, 1 Bay St., Sag Harbor AGES: 3-8 WHAT: With a fistful of bananas, Chucky rides into town on his trusty goat for a showdown with Big Bad Bart and his gang of bandits. WHY WE LOVE IT: Features 20 hand-crafted glove, mouth, and rod puppets, and a slew of flying bananas. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-725-9500. baystreet.org.
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WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 13, 2pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Port Washington AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Casey Carle is “Yesac Elrac The Bubblemaniac,” a bubble artist extraordinaire with a flair for showmanship and infectious energy\. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s the dawn of undiluted joy when circus meets soap! WANT TO GO? $23. 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.
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Native American Heritage Celebration
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 27, 12-3pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: In this presentation, explore the rich native cultures on Long Island and find out about their role in whaling history, then create an arrowhead craft. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s the perfect, post-Thanksgiving activity. WANT TO GO? $3 with admission: $6; $5 children and seniors. 631367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.
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The New York City Ballet Performs George Balanchine’s ‘The Nutcracker’
WHEN: Nov. 25-Dec. 31, see website for show times WHERE: David H. Koch Theater, Lincoln Center, 10 Lincoln Center Plaza, Upper West Side, Manhattan AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Tchaikovsky’s beloved melodies will transport you to a magical world in which mischievous mice besiege a battalion of soldiers, and an onstage blizzard leads to an enchanted Land of Sweets. WHY WE LOVE IT: A New York holiday tradition—the original and the best! WANT TO GO? $40 and up. 212-496-0600. nycballet.com.
‘Elf Jr.’
Open House - 9:00 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Tuesday, November 8 Thursday, January 12
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WHEN: Nov. 26-27, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-2pm WHERE: Hallockville Museum and Farm, 6038 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: See the 1765 Homestead and the 1931 Farmhouse up close, plus see craft demonstrations including quilting and woodworking. WHY WE LOVE IT: Experience what life was like on a historic farm during the holidays. WANT TO GO? 631-298-5292. hallockville.com.
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WHEN: Nov. 25-Dec. 31, Saturday-Sunday, 2pm WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Based on the beloved holiday film, this hilarious fish-out-ofwater comedy follows Buddy the Elf in his quest to find his identity. WHY WE LOVE IT: With heart and humor, this story teaches children about self esteem. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org. ››
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The Precisions FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 20, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: All WHAT: The Precisions is renowned for its high-powered live performances, which span three decades and include the best in rock music from doo-wop to disco. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.
ANIMAL LOVERS 9th Annual Scales and Tails: Pet Fair FREE
WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.
Egg Taking Demonstration
WHEN: Nov. 5-13, Saturday-Sunday, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Learn how trout are reproduced in a fish hatchery. WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org.
The Indigo Musicians FREE
Animal Tracks
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 6, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: All WHAT: Spanish-influenced music, featuring classical guitarist Eran Polat, percussionist Akiva, and Sicanni, a Native American pan flutist. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.
WHEN: Nov. 19-20, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Discover the animal prints of various creatures and create your own prints as you create their natural habitats. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.
American Red Cross Citizen’s Preparedness Corps FREE
Live Animal Encounter
WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 9, 3-4pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This course will provide an introduction to responding to a disaster, manmade or natural. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.
Parade of Flags FREE
WHEN: Friday, Nov. 11, 10am-4pm WHERE: Heritage Park, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: All WHAT: Walking between state, territory, and local flags and reading about history will lift your spirits, and promote pride in your country and for those who have served our nation. WANT TO GO? 631-384-8900. msheritagetrust.org.
Native Life on Long Island FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 20, 2:30-3:45pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children explore a hands-on artifact display, participate in a powwow with authentic Native American instruments, and more. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org. 30
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 5, 11am-2pm WHERE: Middle Country Public Library, 101 Eastwood Blvd., Centereach AGES: All WHAT: Exhibits and informational booths include rescue groups, shelters and adoption facilities, and pet therapy programs. WANT TO GO? 631-585-9393. mcplibrary.org.
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WHEN: Nov. 5-20, Saturday-Sunday, call for a reserved time WHERE: Jungle Bob’s Reptile World, 2536 Middle Country Road, Centereach AGES: All WHAT: Encounter live animals one-on-one in a safe and educational environment. Reservations required for your 15-minute program. WANT TO GO? $35 per family of four. 631-737-6474. junglebobsreptileworld.com.
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ONCE UPON A TIME STEM Preschool Storytime FREE
WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 10, 1pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Preschoolers will explore early science topics through literature and experimentation. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
Read to Roscoe FREE
WHEN: Nov. 1-15, Tuesdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Reading to a specially trained and certified therapy dog helps struggling readers become more confident. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
Fall Fun FREE
WHEN: Nov. 3-17, Thursdays, 6:30-7:15pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy stories, songs and a craft each week with your child. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.
Circle of Stories FREE
WHEN: Nov. 8-22, Tuesdays, 11-11:45am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Stories and activities created to enlist parents and caregivers as partners in preparing their children for learning to read. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
If I Ran the Zoo: The Secret Art of Dr. Seuss FREE
Flying High for 90 Years The Annual Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade marches onto Central Park West for its 90th (yes 90th!) year this month. Get up really early (6am) on Turkey Day to secure a spot to see the parade and take in the holiday atmosphere. Seeing the giant helium balloons, performers, and marching bands in person is a must-do Thanksgiving tradition. The whole family will be transfixed at the sight of favorites such as Spider-Man, Buzz Lightyear, and SpongeBob. You can also check out the helium giants up close at the popular big balloon inflation event the day before, which has become as big an event as the parade itself! See nymetroparents. com for details. Nov. 24, 9am-12pm. Age: All. Parade begins at 77th Street and Central Park West, Upper West Side. 212-494-4495. macys.com/parade. MSG Entertainment
WHEN: Nov. 11-27, daily, 10am-6pm WHERE: La Manttia Gallery, 127 Main St., Northport AGES: All WHAT: Visitors will view works from Dr. Seuss’s best-known children’s books, a collection based on decades of artwork that Dr. Seuss created at night for his own personal pleasure. WANT TO GO? 631-754-8414. lamantiagallery.com.
‘Curlee Girlee’ Author Event FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 27, 1-2pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Listen to Atara Twersky read her brand new book about a spunky little girl who doesn’t love her very curly hair. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
Reading to Leo FREE
WHEN: Nov. 1–Dec. 31, Tuesdays, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Practice your reading skills with the adorable and hypoallergenic dog, Leo. Register for a 10 minute appointment. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net. ››
High Kicks and Holiday Fun Whether it’s your first time or your 10th, a visit to the iconic Radio City Music Hall to see the The Christmas Spectacular Featuring The Radio City Rockettes is a New York holiday tradition. Audiences have been lining up since 1933 to see classic routines such as The Parade of the Wooden Soldiers and The Living Nativity as well as high-kicking new numbers. Old fashioned fun that will appeal to all ages. Nov. 11-Jan. 2, 2016. Check website for show times. Age: 6 and older. $49-$120. Radio City Music Hall, 1260 Sixth Ave., Midtown. 866-858-0007. radiocitychristmas.com. LongIslandParent 31
AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Swap your doubles and paint Linda Layered Cake on a canvas. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.
Draw, Paint, and Sculpt
WHEN: Friday, Nov. 11, 11am-2pm WHERE: Mini Monet Art Studio, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Come draw, paint, and sculpt a cute animal with Art Teacher Amy. WANT TO GO? $45. 206-484-7711. minimonetsayville.com.
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THE GREAT OUTDOORS Starry, Starry Night
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 13, 2-3pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: In honor of the Leonids meteor shower, go on a star-filled scavenger hunt, learn how whalers used stars for navigation, and create a glowing Starry Night jar. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children and seniors; $3 craft fee. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.
Tinkergarten Nature-Play Classes: Making Mud
WHEN: Through Nov. 19: Saturdays, 10-11:30am WHERE: Kalers Pond Park, Montauk Highway, Center Moriches AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Activities are based on a progressive curriculum that’s child-led and parent-guided. WANT TO GO? $25. 516-672-1395. tinkergarten.com.
Thanksgiving Weekend Evening Tower Tour
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 26, 4pm WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park parking field 5, Fire Island AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Experience the lighthouse at night. Bring a flashlight for your walk back to the parking field. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.
CRAFTY KIDS Anime & Comic
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 5, 11:15am-12:15pm WHERE: Mini Monet Art Studio, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Learn to draw anime, manga, and comic book characters step by step. Blend and shade with watercolors, markers, and colored pencils. WANT TO GO? $21. 206-484-7711. minimonetsayville.com.
Swapkins Shopkin’s Paint & Swap Event
WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 8, 12-1:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville 32
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WHEN: Nov. 12-13, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Use materials to practice your skills in forensic science. Make all kinds of “prints” that are uniquely yours. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.
Mommy & Me Paint & Play
WHEN: Nov. 3-17, Thursdays, 11am-12pm WHERE: Mini Monet Studio, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Play and paint with your toddlers and other moms in the area. WANT TO GO? $12. 206-484-7711. artteacheramy.com.
Draw, Paint, and Sculpt
WHEN: Friday, Nov. 25, 10am-12pm or 1-4pm WHERE: Mini Monet Art Studio, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Come draw, paint, and sculpt a cute animal with Art Teacher Amy on Black Friday. WANT TO GO? $35 for 2 hours; $45 for 3 hours. 206-484-7711. minimonetsayville.com.
Let’s Celebrate Nature
WHEN: Nov. 25-27, Friday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Create a holiday decoration using materials found in nature. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.
Collage & Printmaking
WHEN: Nov. 1-29, Tuesdays, 4:15-5:15pm WHERE: Mini Monet Studio, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about the printmaking process and make a collage project based on animals, people, and works by famous artists. WANT TO GO? $21. 206-484-7711. artteacheramy.com.
Sculpture and Upcycled Art
WHEN: Nov. 1-29, Tuesdays, 5:30-6:30pm WHERE: Mini Monet Studio, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Create sculptures from found objects, and sculpt animals in clay. WANT TO GO? $21. 206-484-7711. artteacheramy.com.
Pre-K Draw & Paint
WHEN: Nov. 2-30, Wednesdays, 1-2pm WHERE: Mini Monet Studio, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Learn to draw simple animals, famous artist works, and more using oil pastels, markers, and watercolors. WANT TO GO? $21. 206-484-7711. artteacheramy.com.
SMARTY PANTS Frederick Gilbert Bourne: His Life and His Relationship with the Oakdale Community FREE
WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 2, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Connetquot Public Library, 760 Ocean Ave., Bohemia AGES: 13 and older WHAT: The talk covers Bourne’s time as president of Singer Sewing Machine and Commodore of the New York Yacht Club, and his elegant Indian Neck Hall estate. WANT TO GO? 631-567-5079. connetquotlibrary.org.
The Bridges Academy Open House FREE
WHEN: Friday, Nov. 4, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: Bridges Academy, 339 Snedecor Ave., West Islip AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Visit The Bridges Academy to learn about academically enriched programs for preschool through eighth grade. WANT TO GO? 631-358-5035. thebridgesacademy.net.
Admissions Open House Upper School FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 6, 9:30am WHERE: Schechter School of Long Island, 6 Cross St., Williston Park AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Meet students, faculty, and administration, and see for yourself how a Schechter High School education delivers academic excellence, warm community, and Jewish values. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 516-539-3700 x1115. schechterli.org.
How to Say ‘Communicate With Me’ in Nine Languages
WHEN: Nov. 5-6, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Learn how nanotechnology is used in communication, explore the International Code of Signals, and design your own code to use with friends and send messages. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.
Family Story Treasure: Preserving the Past and Enriching the Future FREE
WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 10, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Connetquot Public Library, 760 Ocean Ave., Bohemia AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Heather Forest, storyteller, educator, and author provides tips on discovering and preserving stories from your family’s past. WANT TO GO? 631-567-5079. connetquotlibrary.org.
When Should You Tell FREE
WHEN: Monday, Nov. 14, 7-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 5-12 WHAT: This interactive workshop teaches children how to trust their instincts and what to do in uncomfortable situations. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.
After-School Lego League
WHEN: Nov. 3-17, Thursdays, 4-5pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton/Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 5-8 WHAT: From bridges to zip lines, this program is designed for builders looking to get a little more out of their Legos. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.
Yiddish for Dummies
WHEN: Nov. 7-28, Mondays, 7-8:15pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 9 and older WHAT: A fun, four-week beginner course for anyone who wants to learn Yiddish. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $40. 631-351-8672. thechaicenter.com.
Open Houses FREE
WHEN: Nov. 19-30, Wednesday, 6pm; Saturday, 10am WHERE: Long Island Whole Child Academy School for Twice Exceptional Learning, 175 Wolf Hill Road, Melville AGES: All WHAT: Learn about cutting edge and unique educational models for gifted students who learn differently. WANT TO GO? 347-668-3676. liwholechild.org. ››
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Royal Winnipeg Ballet ‘Dracula’
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 19, 8pm WHERE: Staller Center for the Arts, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Presenting the story of Count Dracula, complete with flying bats, dancing gargoyles, and world-class dancers. WANT TO GO? $48; $24 for children 12 and younger. 631-632-2787. stallercenter.com.
‘A Dog’s Life’
WHEN: Nov. 5-20, Saturdays, 8pm; Sundays, 2:30pm WHERE: BayWay Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 5 and older WHAT: When Joel adopts Jack the dog at the pound, he soon realizes life will never be the same. Dog parks, trips to the vet, separation anxiety; it’s all here in a celebration of the inseparable bond between man and mutt. WANT TO GO? $23; $21 seniors. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.
‘The Jungle Book’
WHEN: Nov. 6-Dec. 3, Saturdays, 2pm; Sundays, 12pm WHERE: BayWay Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Mowgli, the “man cub,” bounds through the jungle and learns what it means to be human. WANT TO GO? $13. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.
‘Annie Jr.’
SHOW TIME! ‘The Wiz of Oz’
WHEN: Through Nov. 5: Saturdays, 1pm WHERE: Studio Theatre, 141 S. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Dorothy and her friends face witches, munchkins, and flying monkeys as they learn the valuable lessons of friendship and bravery. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-226-8400. studiotheatreli.com.
Sing Along With Irv FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 5, 2-3pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Singer Irv Plastock will have children singing familiar children’s songs. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.
WHEN: Nov. 19-Dec. 3, Saturdays, 1pm WHERE: Studio Theatre, 141 S. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst AGES: All WHAT: Join Little Orphan Annie and her friends, Daddy Warbucks, and Miss Hannigan in this fun-filled, 1-hour musical for the entire family. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-226-8400. studiotheatreli.com.
‘Sister Act’
WHEN: Nov. 26-Dec. 11, Saturdays, 8pm; Sundays, 2:30pm WHERE: BayWay Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Featuring original music by Alan Menken, this uplifting musical was nominated for five Tony Awards, including Best Musical. WANT TO GO? $23; $21 seniors. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.
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‘Rent: 20th Anniversary Tour’
Special Needs Fair FREE
Twyla Tharp Dance: 50th Anniversary Tour
Special Needs Art Partner Workshop
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 6, 7pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: This Tony Award®-winning masterpiece continues to speak loudly and defiantly across generations and around the world. WANT TO GO? $33 and up. 516-931-6849. tillescenter.org. WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 12, 8pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: An evening of classic and new work featuring a hand-chosen and meticulously rehearsed cast. WANT TO GO? $25 and up. 516-931-6849. tillescenter.org. 34
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WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 5, 11am-3pm WHERE: Sachem Public Library, 150 Holbrook Road, Holbrook AGES: All WHAT: Connect with local organizations that provide services for the special needs community. There will be crafts and a performance for children. WANT TO GO? 631-588-5024 x265. achemlibrary.org. WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 6, 1-3pm WHERE: Art League of Long Island, 107 E. Deer Park Road, Dix Hills AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This workshop series is led by Toni Neuschaefer, who directs the Town of Huntington’s Saturday Recreational Program for Children with Special Needs. WANT TO GO? $35. 631-462-5400. artleagueli.org.
Sky Zone Cares
WHEN: Monday, Nov. 7, 3-6pm WHERE: Sky Zone Deer Park, 111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park AGES: All WHAT: Sky Zone dials down the music, increases the number of staff on duty, and limits capacity. WANT TO GO? $16 per hour. 631-392-2600. skyzone.com/deerpark.
Cupcake Decorating Class
WHEN: Nov. 7-28, Mondays, 4-7pm WHERE: Cause Café, 1014 Fort Salonga Road, East Northport AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This class is tailored to young adults with special needs, but everyone is welcome. Admission includes a beverage and a cupcake. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-651-8667. facebook.com/ourcoffeewcause.
Creative Expeditions
WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 29, Tuesdays, 4-5:15pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children on the autism spectrum, along with their families or caregivers, engage in gallery experiences that encourage talking about and making art. WANT TO GO? $12; $8 seniors; $4 children ages 4-12; $2 weekend parking fee. 516-484-9338. nassaumuseum.org.
Ariella’s NY Friendship Circle: Zumba
WHEN: Nov. 7–Dec. 19, Mondays, 5:45-6:30pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Ariella’s friendship circle unites teen volunteers and children with special needs. This Zumba class is for kids of all abilities run by a licensed Zumba instructor who is also a speech language pathologist. WANT TO GO? $15 per class. 631-351-8672. thechaicenter.com.
Special Olympics Bowling at the All Star
WHEN: Through Dec. 1, 2018: Mondays, 5pm WHERE: The All Star, 96 Main Road, Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Bowlers with special needs are invited to bowl on the main lanes and experience the arcade with the latest games. WANT TO GO? $10 for two games. 631-998-3565. theallstar.com.
MOVERS & SHAKERS Mounted Cowboy Shooting Match
WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 5, 11:30am-1:30pm WHERE: Old Bethpage Village Restoration Fairgrounds, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Watch as New York’s original mounted shooting club The Island Long Riders, dressed in Old-West attire, navigate a course on horseback while shooting targets. The show is based on the historical reenactment of shooting events held at Wild West Shows during the 19th century. WANT TO GO? $10; $7 children ages 5-12; free for children younger than 5. 516-572-8400. islandlongriders.com.
Holocaust Survivor
WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 9, 7pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Hear an extraordinary Jewish mother’s battle to save her seven children during the outbreak of World War II as told by her youngest child, Jeannie Parnes Wechsler. WANT TO GO? $30; $12 children younger than 16. 631-351-8672. thechaicenter.com.
Robotics Bowling FREE
WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 16, 5:30-7pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Program a robot to knock down bowling pins. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
Play Place FREE
WHEN: Nov. 3-17, Thursdays, 10-11am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join this informal drop-in playtime program for newborns and toddlers to play, and meet new friends. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
Half Hollow Hills Robotics Annual Invitational Tournament FREE WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 19, 8am WHERE: Half Hollow Hills High School West, 50 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: All WHAT: Watch students’ homemade robots battle for points in an arena at this free all-day event. WANT TO GO? team3624.org.
Music & Movement FREE
WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 23, 11-11:45am WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3-8 WHAT: You and your child will enjoy singing songs and dancing together. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.
Parents Night Out
WHEN: Nov. 4-26, Fridays, 6:30-9:30pm; Saturdays, 6-9pm WHERE: Tumbling Tunes, 212 Laurel Road, East Northport AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy a night out while your children enjoy a night featuring gymnastics equipment, crafts, musical instruments, games, a parachute, and toys. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $12 per hour; $17 for two siblings; $20 for three siblings. 631-697-0140. tumblingtunes.com. ›› LongIslandParent 35
HOLIDAY FUN Nightmare on Main Street FREE
WHEN: Through Nov. 5: Monday-Friday, 9am-5pm; Saturday, 12-4pm WHERE: Huntington Arts Council, 213 Main St., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Exhibition featuring selected works of student artists inspired by a Halloween theme. WANT TO GO? 631-271-8423. huntingtonarts.org.
Veterans Day at the Whaling Museum
WHEN: Friday, Nov. 11, 12-4pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: There will be red, white, and blue create stations for everyone to enjoy. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children and seniors; free for veterans. 631367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.
Veterans Day FREE
WHEN: Friday, Nov. 11, 12-4pm WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park parking field 5, Fire Island AGES: All WHAT: As a thank you to all of the United States veterans, free tower tours will be offered during regular operating hours to all veterans who served in the military. WANT TO GO? 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.
Veteran’s Day at the Hatchery
WHEN: Friday, Nov. 11, 10am-5pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Veterans with Military ID receive free admission. WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org.
90th Annual Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade FREE
WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 24, 9am-12pm WHERE: Central Park West and 77th Street to Macy’s Herald Square on 34th Street, via Central Park South and Sixth Avenue, Upper West Side and Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: The one and only! If you want to see it in person, arrive early and well before the parade starts to secure a good spot, or watch the whole thing on TV while still in your PJs. WANT TO GO? 212-494-4495. macys.com/parade.
‘Who Took Tom the Turkey?’
WHEN: Friday, Nov. 25, 11am WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Tom the Turkey has gone missing and Chief Clumsy Bull and the rest of the gang need to find him before the autumn festival. WANT TO GO? $11 in advance; $13 at door. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.
‘A Christmas Carol’
WHEN: Nov. 19–Dec. 30, Thursday-Sunday, 7pm; Sundays, 3pm WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Follow the miser Ebenezer Scrooge on a journey that teaches him the true meaning of Christmas—past, present, and future. WANT TO GO? $35; $28 children ages 13-17; $20 children ages 5-12. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.
KINDNESS CRUSADERS Scarf Donation FREE
WHEN: Monday, Nov. 7, 7-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Make a scarf from a T-shirt to be donated to a local women’s shelter. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.
Election Day Fundraiser for Children in Need
WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 8, 9am-5pm WHERE: Tumbling Tunes, 212 Laurel Road, East Northport AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Drop you child to play at Tumbling Tunes and walk next door to enjoy a hair service. Proceeds will benefit Children’s Foundation which provides financial assistance to families of underprivileged children for medical bills, therapeutic equipment, and toys. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $12 per hour; $17 for two siblings; $20 for three siblings. 631-697-0140. tumblingtunes.com.
HTx Services Hosts Turkey Drive FREE
WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 16, 8am-2pm WHERE: Happauge Industrial Park, 70 Corporate Drive, Hauppauge AGES: All WHAT: Drop off frozen turkeys, non-perishables, as well as financial donations to benefit Island Harvest Food Bank, which supplies holiday meals to more than 300,000 Long Islanders. WANT TO GO? 631-427-1713. 36
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Based on the beloved holiday film, this hilarious fish-out-of-water comedy follows Buddy the Elf in his quest to find his true identity. Shows every Sat. & Sun. @ 2:00PM Friday 11/25 @ 2:00PM No Show Sun. 12/18 Shows Daily 12/26-12/30 @ 1:00PM
Bethpage Turkey Drive to Benefit Island Harvest
WHEN: Friday, Nov. 18, 7am-6pm WHERE: Bethpage Federal Credit Union Headquarters, 899 S. Oyster Bay Road, Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Donate frozen turkeys, non-perishable food items, or cash donations to help a Long Island families in need enjoy a Thanksgiving meal. WANT TO GO? 800-628-7070. lovebethpage.com.
American Heart Association’s 8th Annual Healing Heart 5K Run/Walk
WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 20, 10am WHERE: Pugliese Vineyards, 34515 Main Road, Cutchogue AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The event creates a culture of health and physical activity, giving families the opportunity to participate in heart healthy activities together. WANT TO GO? $35; $20 for children younger than 16. 631-7342804. healingheart5k.org.
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Ice-Skating
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Time to lace up your skates and practice your figure eights! Winter is upon us and local rinks are ready to have you on the ice. Whether you’re just learning to skate or a total pro, ice-skating is fun for the whole family. Plus, if you don’t land that jump you’ve been working on, you can always cheer up with a cup of cocoa at many ice rink concession stands. As always, call ahead to verify hours and prices before your ice-skating outing. 2:15pm, 3:45-5:45pm, and 8:1510:15pm (DJ night); Saturday, 11:30am1:30pm and 2-4pm; Sunday, 11:30am1:30pm and 2-4pm. Price: $12; $9 children, teens, and seniors. With Rec Card: $7.50 adult; $6 children; $5 seniors; $4 skate rental.
Outdoor Rinks
Mitchell Park Ice Rink Mitchell Park on Front Street, Greenport 631-477-2200 greenportvillage.com villageofgreenport.org Hours: Opening date TBA; weather permitting: Monday, 3-6pm; TuesdayFriday, 3-5pm; Saturday, 11am-6pm; Sunday, 11am-5:30pm. Holiday hours vary. Open for all Greenport school holidays from 11am-5pm. Price: Weekdays: $5; $3 children and seniors. Weekends and school holidays: $10; $7 children and seniors; $5 skate rental. Season passes and youth group discounts available. Prices subject to change. The Rinx at Harborfront Park Port Jefferson Village Center, 101-A E. Broadway, Port Jefferson 631-403-4357 therinx.com/port-jefferson Hours: Nov. 25–March 12, 2017: Monday-Friday, 12-1:30pm, 2-3:30pm, 4-5:30pm, 6:30-8pm; Friday, 8-10pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10-11:30am, 1-2:30pm,
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2:45-4:15pm; Saturday, 8-10pm. Price: Weekdays: $10 ($12 Friday and Saturday night); $7.50 children ages 11 and younger; $4.50 seniors. Weekends and school holidays: $11; $8.50 children ages 11 and younger; $5.50 seniors; $5.50 skate rental. Tanger Outlets Deer Park 152 The Arches Circle, Deer Park 631-242-0239 tangeroutlet.com/deerpark/events/11 Hours: Nov. 19–March 5, 2017: MondayThursday, 3-9pm; Friday, 3-10pm; Saturday, 11am-10pm; Sunday, 11am-9pm. Hours are subject to change due to weather. Price: $10; free children younger than 5; $4 skate rental. Indoor Rinks
Dix Hills Ice Rink 575 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills 631-462-5883; huntingtonny.gov Hours: Open year-round: Labor DayMemorial Day schedule: Monday-Friday, 10am-12pm; Monday, 12:15-2:15pm; Thursday, 3:45-5:45pm; Friday, 12:15-
The Rinx 660 Terry Road, Hauppauge 631-232-3222; therinx.com Hours: Year-round: Monday-Friday, 12:30-2:30pm; Tuesday-Friday, 4-5:45pm; Friday, 8:15-10:15pm (Rock & Roll Night); Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm. On holiday and school vacation days, call for additional public admission times. Price: Weekdays: $11 ($13.50 on Friday nights); $8.50 children ages 11 and younger; $5 seniors. Weekends and school holidays: $12; $9.50 children ages 11 and younger; $6 seniors; $6 skate rental. Islip residents receive $1 off adult admission with recreation card. Superior Ice Rink 270 Indian Head Road, Kings Park 631-269-3900 superioricerink.com facebook.com/superioricerink Hours: Year-round: Wednesday, 12:302:30pm and 4:30-6pm; Friday, 8:3010:30pm (with DJ); Saturday-Sunday, 12:30-2:30pm. Price: $9 adults; $7 children ages 11 and younger; $5 seniors and children ages 3 and younger; $4 skate rental. $11 Friday night DJ skate admission.
Nassau County, Long Island Outdoor Rinks
Grant Park Skating Rink Broadway and Sheridan Avenue, Hewlett 516-571-7821; nassaucountyny.gov/parks Hours: Nov. 28 through mid-March: daily, 1-3pm; Tuesday and Friday, 3:30-5:30pm; Wednesday-Thursday and Saturday-Sun-
day, 10:30am-12:30pm; Friday-Saturday, 7-9pm; Sunday, 4-6pm. Price: $22; $15 children. With Leisure Pass: $8; $6 children 12 and younger (must be accompanied by an adult); $4 seniors; $5 skate rental. Marjorie R. Post Community Park Ice Rink 451 Unqua Road (at Merrick Road), Massapequa 516-797-7990 oysterbaytown.com Hours: Opens Friday, Nov. 25. Updated hours were not available at press time; call or check the website for updates. Price: Admission per 2-hour session. Residents: $5; $4 children ages 5-17; $2 children ages 2-4 and seniors ages 60 and older. Nonresidents: $8; $7 children ages 5-17; $2 children ages 2-4 and seniors ages 60 and older; $3 skate rental.
Thursday, 10am-12pm and 12:30-2:30pm; Friday, 12:30-3:15pm, 3:30-5:30pm, and 8-10pm (Teen Night); Saturday, 3-5:30pm, 8-10pm; Sunday, 9:30-11:30am, 2-4pm, 7:30-9:30pm (14 years and older). Price: Residents or customers with Park Card: $7; $5 children and seniors. Nonresidents or customers without Park Card: $10; $7 children; $3.50 skate rental.
Cantiague Park Ice Skating Rink 480 W. John St., Hicksville 516-571-7056 516-571-7058 nassaucountyny.gov/parks Hours: Through June: 1-3pm daily; additional sessions on Fridays, 3:305:30pm. Hours vary by month; call to confirm. Price: $22 for non-resident
adults; $15 for non-resident children (with accompanying adult) and seniors. $8 for resident adults; $6 for resident children; $5 seniors. With Leisure Pass: $8; $6 children ages 12 and younger with adult; $5 seniors, veterans, disabled, and civil volunteers; free for children ages 3 and younger with paying adult; $6 skate rental.
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Syosset-Woodbury Community Park Ice Rink 7800 Jericho Turnpike, Syosset 516-677-5990 oysterbaytown.com Hours: Opens Friday, Nov. 25 for the season. Skating hours were not available at press time; call or check the website for updates. Price: Admission per 2-hour session. Residents: $5; $4 children ages 5-17; $2 children ages 2-4 and seniors ages 60 and older. Non-residents: $8; $7 children ages 5-17; $2 children ages 2-4 and seniors; $3 skate rental. Indoor Rinks
Andrew Stergiopoulos Ice Rink /Parkwood Ice Skating Rink Parkwood Sports Complex 65 Arrandale Ave., Great Neck 516-487-2975 x3 greatneckparks.com Hours: Through May: Monday, 12:30-2:30pm; Tuesday, 10am-12pm and 12:30-2:30pm; Wednesday, 10am-12pm, 12:30-2:30pm, 3-5pm, and 8:30-10:30pm;
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What to consider when your child with special needs turns 21—and is no longer a child. By Samantha Neudorf
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s parents, we hope for our children to grow up and— difficult though it may be for us emotionally—fly the coop to live on their own as full-fledged, independent adults. But if you have a child with special needs, these concerns may run deeper, and that goal may seem elusive or even impossible. That is why parents should start to consider what happens to their children with special needs, no matter how young they may be, well before they turn 21. The first thing to consider is what your child with special needs will do after completing high school. Will she go to college? Will he attend a vocational school? Will she live on her own? These are all conversations you should be having now. Here are some points to consider when planning the future for your child with special needs.
Obtaining Guardianship
If your child has health issues, you may want to consider applying for guardianship, because once your child with special needs turns 18, you as the parent may not have access to his health care information because of HIPAA: the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996. Under HIPAA, patients older than 18 have their own rights to privacy for their medical records, meaning parents or caregivers do not automatically have the right to this information. One way to work around this, if your child is unable to take care of himself,
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is to obtain guardianship—which means, essentially, that you will retain legal responsibility for your child even though he is of age to be considered an adult. Bernard Krooks is an attorney and founding partner of Littman Krooks, a law firm that specializes in elder law and special-needs planning, with offices in Manhattan and White Plains. Krooks advises that parents start to apply for guardianship by the time their child is 17 years old because the process could take longer than six months. The guardianship process involves petitioning the court. Parents begin by filling out an application to certify that their child does indeed have a disability, and a doctor must submit a form to verify this. The application must also specify why the child with special needs is not able to care for himself. Then there will be a hearing in front of a judge, which is why it may be valuable to hire a special needs attorney to assist in the process. Krooks also suggests setting up a special needs trust to create a supplementary source of funds to pay for everyday necessities that government benefits will not cover, such as services that are not covered by Medicaid. “The reality is what the government gives you is decreasing due to fiscal constraints,” Krooks says, “so it’s very important to have a special needs trust to pay for things that help improve the quality of life of somebody with disabilities.”
Pursuing Higher Education
Under the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act, children are entitled to free and appropriate public education by federal law, and schools must provide them with an education through 12th grade. The IDEA covers 13 kinds of disabilities, including autism, deafness, orthopedic impairment, and visual impairment. As a part of the IDEA, children with special needs will receive an Individualized Education Program, which is a document that specifies what your child’s disability is and how the school will support her. The IEP will specify how the child is doing in school, educational goals, and transition planning to prepare him for life after high school. In order for a child to move on to college, she will need a regents diploma if she went to high school in New York, and will have to undergo psychoeducational testing to analyze the mental processes that might affect her educational performance. Once a child takes this test, he can apply to college and the school will provide the proper accommodations when taking exams. Lara Bakshi, special needs and special education attorney and founder of Bakshi Law in Manhattan and West Islip, strongly advises that, if they are able to, children with special needs either receive a higher education or pursue a vocational program. “The most important thing for a child with special needs is to be able to interact with their peers that are not special,” Bakshi says. Bakshi suggests that a child with special needs attend a small liberal arts college because it will be more structured and less overwhelming than a large university. If he decides to attend a vocational school, programs such as the Boards of Cooperative Educational Services, which has 37 locations across New York state, are popular choices. There are programs, such as Career and Technical Education to learn how to operate different machineries. Littman Krooks, among other companies, employs people with special needs in its office to help with administrative tasks that include making photocopies, filing paperwork, and helping with shredding and scanning documents.
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Deciding Where to Live
The other big question to consider is where your child with special needs should live because she will technically no longer be a child after turning 21. Krooks says that parents tend to keep their children at home, but the problem is it’s not preparing them to live independently. “Statistically speaking, the parents will predecease the child,” Krooks says. “Years ago, children with special needs did not have a normal, typical life expectancy, but now many kids, even with Down syndrome and other special needs, are able to live a full or close to full life expectancy.” Parents should therefore consider helping their child with special needs find a place to live in proximity to his doctors, he says. Krooks suggests finding a specialist who has worked in the area for a long time and to establish a relationship with the doctor throughout the child’s lifetime. “The sooner you plan for this, the fewer things that you’ll be unprepared for along the way,” Krooks says.
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Adelberg Montalvan Pediatric Dental and Orthodontics
1000 F. Park Blvd., Massapequa Park 516-798-1111 62 Lake Ave. S., Suite A, Nesconset 631-360-PEDS (7337) 615 Montauk Highway, West Islip 631-661-PEDS (7337) ampediatricdental.com adelbergped@optonline.net We specialize in treating children with special needs. We know that you have enough to worry about, so let us take the stress and worry out of taking your child to the dentist. We have an anesthesiologist on call to safely put your child to sleep right here in our offices. Please feel free to call for more information.
Bakshi Law
Offices in the Financial District, Manhattan, Long Island, and Westchester 917-244-6133 lawbakshi.com lara.bakshi@gmail.com Bakshi Law specializes in special education law. We represent parents and children with disabilities, acquire correct classification under IDEA, ensure proper implementation of IEP, ascertain correct placement for children, and tuition reimbursement. We attend CSE meetings, resolution meetings, and suspension hearings, and all disciplinary hearings for special needs and general education students. Bakshi Law’s attorneys are passionate about your child’s education and offer assistance on a sliding scale for parents experiencing financial difficulties.
Building Blocks Developmental Preschool
29 Pinewood Drive, Commack 631-499-1237 bbdps.com Building Blocks is an early childhood learning center focusing on the education of all young children. We offer parent and child groups, nursery and preschool classes, and child care options. As a New York state-accredited special educa-
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Camp Huntington
56 Bruceville Road, High Falls 855-707-2267 camphuntington.com dfalk@camphuntington.com Camp Huntington is a coed, residential program for children (ages 6-22) with autism and related learning and developmental needs. Our summer and weekend camp programs maximize a child’s potential, and locate and develop strengths and hidden abilities. Campers enjoy fun-filled days while learning practical social and life skills. Our unique program of adaptive, therapeutic recreation combines key elements that encourage progress: structured programming, nurturing care, a positive setting, and academic instruction to meet IEP goals.
Cummings Family Dental
42 High St., Huntington 631-425-1650 cummingsfamilydentistry.com cummingsfamilydentistry@aol.com The perfect place where the special needs patient is welcome with open arms! Cummings Family Dentistry has the training, experience, knowledge, and willingness to see and treat patients with special needs. At Cummings Family Dentistry, we believe a dentist and patient become a team. We spend time listening to understand your concerns and respond with a specialized program of preventative care and treatment that is geared toward the special needs patient Our staff is very kind and caring. There’s a story behind every smile...we’d like to be part of yours!
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Huntington Learning Centers
656 Sunrise Highway, Baldwin 516-867-4041 607 E. Main St., Bay Shore 631-968-5100 79-81 Westbury Ave., Carle Place 516-747-5600 Elwood Shopping Center 1928B Jericho Turnpike, East Northport 631-462-8900 Phillips Plaza 639 Sunrise Highway, Lynbrook 516-568-1900 1506 Northern Blvd., Manhasset 516-365-4455 South Gate Shopping Center 49-34 Merrick Road, Massapequa Park 516-799-9500 Gateway Plaza 499-5 Sunrise Highway, Patchogue 631-289-4900 443 South Oyster Bay Road, Suite B, 2nd floor, Plainview Smithtown Shopping Center 8 Miller Place, Smithtown 631-360-0422 huntingtonhelps.com Huntington Learning Center is an accredited K-12 tutoring and test prep leader with certified teachers providing individualized instruction in phonics, reading, writing, math, science, study skills, executive functioning skills, SAT, ACT, and state and standardized exams. Huntington helps students at all levels achieve results including students with dyslexia, ADHD, and other learning disabilities. The skills, confidence, and motivation developed by Huntington help students succeed and meet Common Core State Standards. A former parent states: In just four months, the improvements I have seen in Jessica’s grades and confidence were incredible.
Dr. Steve Imber, Psychoeducational Consultants
Serving Nassau and Suffolk Counties as well as the five boroughs of NYC 61-43 186th St., Fresh Meadows 516-273-1961 dr-imber.com scimber1@aol.com Dr. Imber has more than 40 years of experience consulting, evaluating, and advocating for children, adolescents, and adults with various disabilities including autism (e.g. Asperger’s syndrome), attention deficit disorders, intellectual disabili-
ties, emotional and behavioral disorders, and learning disabilities. Dr. Imber is a professor of special education and a special education expert. He addresses the needs of students in public, private, and charter schools. Services are available to parents, students, pediatricians, and attorneys. A confidential complimentary phone consultation is available upon request (Nassau and Suffolk counties and the five boroughs of NYC).
Law Offices of Brad H. Rosken, P.L.L.C.
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Long Island Whole Child Academy School for Twice Exceptional Learning
175 Wolf Hill Road, Melville 347-668-3676 liwholechild.org etrdream@aol.com The Long Island Whole Child Academy, School for Twice Exceptional Learning, is the only Long Island school dedicated to serving once highly capable students who also cope with anxiety, executive functioning, social cognition, and sensory processing challenges, ADHD, and high-functioning ASD youth, who do not thrive in a traditional school setting. Our mission is to provide a cutting-edge, integrated educational experience that raises the academic bar while building social and emotional strength and resilience through individualized attention and best clinical and gifted education practices. We also offer Saturday adventures and mid-week homeschoolers’ clubs.
Pediatric Immediate Care
150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337) 698 Manhattan Ave., Brooklyn 718-389-PEDS (7337) pediatricimmediatecare.com Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-of-the-art medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kid-friendly, walk-ins welcome, most insurance plans accepted. Complete pediatric and adolescent care, babies, school, and sports physicals. Certified urgent care recommended by Urgent Care Association of America. Thirty years of dedication to our patients. The offices are open seven days a week, including holidays, 8am-11pm.
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Suffolk Pediatric Dentistry
8 Medical Drive, Port Jefferson Station 631-928-8585 For 40 years, Suffolk Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics has provided dental care that’s friendly, gentle, and compassionate. We provide preventive and comprehensive treatment for infants, children, and adolescents, including sedation and general anesthesia dentistry. We strive to help our patients develop good oral hygiene habits, and beautiful healthy smiles. Our full time orthodontist offers braces and Invisalign treatment to our patients. With three locations, we care for patients all over Suffolk County. Call our offices today to ensure your children get the quality orthodontic and dental care they need.
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Teaching toddlers and preschoolers how to handle emergencies. By Melissa Kagan
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o your little ones know what to do in the event of an emergency? If the answer is no, it’s time to equip them with some basic skills so they can manage worst-case scenarios independently and confidently. While it’s a topic many parents avoid because they don’t want to scare their toddlers and preschoolers, readying your family for a fire, serious injury, or any other emergency is one of the most important lessons you can teach them. Most small children can be taught to handle the basics of emergency situations, but the first step is to define what an actual emergency is. Generally speaking, a problem requires the attention of a parent or trusted adult, while an actual emergency warrants the assistance of police, emergency medical, or firefighter services. Giving examples will make it easier to establish which situations fall under which category. A fire in the house or an unconscious family member qualifies as emergencies. A stolen bike, a scraped knee, or a lost pet do not.
Calling 911
The first step is to teach your kids how to dial 911. You can unplug a landline and teach even a 3-year-old to dial the numbers.
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And while you may think your kid is an expert at mobile devices, show them how to use a cellphone. “Many cellphones also have an emergency button that can be used to call for help,” explains Michelle Tween, director of early childhood education at The Chapel School in Bronxville. It’s also important to stress to kids that they should only dial 911 for emergencies. “Kids of all ages need to realize that police or fire trucks will arrive, even if the kids call just out of curiosity,” says Barbara Schori, director of the Ridge Street Country School in Rye Brook. Also, prepare youngsters for any questions they will be asked by an emergency operator, such as “Where are you calling from?” or “What is your emergency?” It’s natural to be nervous when urgent situations arise, but being prepared for these questions will help. “A small child may forget his or her own address,” Tween says, “but calls can be traced, so if they do forget, they will still get the help they need.” Paul J. Donahue, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist and founder and director of Child Development Associates in Scarsdale, recommends telling kids ahead of time that the operator is there to help them and that they can trust the voice at the other end of the line. “This will help little kids to remain calm so that they will be able to stay on the line for as long as the operator needs to them to.”
Take the Fear Out of Situations Ahead of Time
Loud sirens, smoke alarms, and firefighters in uniform are all examples of things that can be very scary to young children. Tween recommends taking the time to familiarize toddlers and preschoolers with them ahead of time. “Take a family trip to your local fire department and show them the equipment the firefighters will be wearing or holding,” she says. “This will give them a frame of reference should a fire actually occur and the fire department shows up.” This would also be a good time to have a discussion about the Stop, Drop, and Roll and Stay Low and Roll techniques. Tween also recommends intentionally setting off fire alarms and the carbon monoxide detectors in your house during a family meeting so that your kids can hear what they sound like in a controlled environment. (If your alarms connect directly with the local fire department, don’t forget to disable them beforehand, or else you will have real-life firefighters at your door in minutes.) “These sounds can be very loud and scary so you want your kids to be familiar with what they sound like ahead of time in order to reduce panic or anxiety,” she says. You can further involve toddlers and preschoolers by asking them to help you change batteries in fire detection devices and assemble emergency supply kits. Create and practice your escape plan with your family from every room in the house. Practice staying low to the floor and checking for hot doors using the back of your hand. It’s just like a routine school fire drill—but in your home. “Involving your kids will empower them,” Tween says.
Provide Reassurance
It’s easy to become so wrapped up in teaching small children the basics of emergency preparedness you forget how easily overwhelmed they can become. While you’re teaching them how to handle an emergency, make sure you also explain they are safe and protected. Let them know these things probably won’t happen, but it’s your job to make sure they know what to do in a worst-case scenario. Barbara Klein, director of the Huguenot Nursery School in Pelham, runs emergency drills during the school year, but it is done without frightening her students. “Our goal is to be prepared for any event, but to keep it low key for the children,” she says. “I feel strongly that at this age the children should not have to worry about ‘what might happen’ and to feel safe knowing the teachers will always look out for them.”
First Aid
Emergencies happen, but it isn’t always the child who needs emergency care. If a parent or caregiver is injured, it may be the child who must administer basic care until emergency medical services arrives. For this reason, children should be taught basic first aid. If a child finds herself with an incapacitated caregiver, her own survival may depend on knowing what steps to take. Her sharp mind is limited only by her physical strength and emotional state. Helping feels good and soothing someone feels important and grown-up. Learning a few first-aid principles does more than prepare kids for the worst: It also helps them develop their compassion, self-esteem, and sense of purpose. Here’s how to do it in an age-appropriate way: • Introduce basic first aid (treating scrapes and bruises) by using a doll.
• Videotape your child treating a friend’s mock injury and then review the tape with all of the children, asking what could have been done better or more safely. • Engage with their natural love of playing “doctor” by pretending to be their imaginary patient and telling them your symptoms. • Ham it up! Use ketchup for blood, white rags for bandages, socks stuffed inside clothing to indicate swelling. • Go through the first aid kit together, and have some extra bits of gauze, tape, and cotton balls on hand so your child can practice with real tools—smaller kids get a special thrill out of these materials. • Focus on emergencies your family is most likely to encounter such as someone who has epilepsy. Make sure your child is aware of the conditions and knows how to name them to emergency personnel. • Finally, remember part of our job as parents is to assure kids they never need to be a hero or overstep their abilities. Make sure children know their first and most important job is to stay safe themselves. Melissa Kagan is the former editor-in-chief of the now-defunct lifetimemoms. com. She is currently a freelance writer whose work has been featured in Mommy Poppins, Westchester Magazine, and Westchester Family. She lives in Pelham with her husband and two children.
MORE NON-THREATENING IDEAS TO GET YOUR KIDS READY FOR EMERGENCIES • B rainstorm words that relate to emergency preparedness and create flashcards to review and discuss with your child. • Encourage children to prepare a skit or role-play how your family should respond to an emergency such as a fire in the house. • Preschoolers may find it easier to use songs to learn your phone number. Tunes such as “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star” and “Row, Row, Row Your Boat” lend themselves to this exercise. • Break out the glitter glue, scissors, and construction paper to have your child write out important phone numbers in a decorative fashion.
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Cummings Family Dental 42 High St., Huntington 631-425-1650 cummingsfamilydentistry.com cummingsfamilydentistry@aol.com
Long Island Whole Child Academy School for Twice Exceptional Learning 175 Wolf Hill Road, Melville 347-668-3676 liwholechild.org etrdream@aol.com
Pediatric Immediate Care 150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337) 698 Manhattan Ave., Brooklyn 718-389-PEDS (7337); pediatricimmediatecare.com
Dr. Rich is a graduate of Albert Einstein College of Medicine. She continued her pediatrics residency at the same institution and went on to serve as chief resident at the Children’s Hospital of Montefiore. She is a board-certified pediatrician and is an associate professor of pediatrics at Albert Einstein College of Medicine. Dr. Rich has a special interest in the prevention and treatment of childhood obesity, medical education, and biomedical ethics.
Dr. Ellen Richer, founder and head of The Long Island Whole Child Academy, the first and only school for Twice Exceptional Learning, earned her doctorate at Teachers College Columbia University, specializing in the psychology of motivation, behavior change, and learning styles of at-risk youth, and creating non-traditional learning environments to reignite motivation and achievement. Also a trained literacy specialist, she has spent her career investigating, observing, and interacting with highly capable learners who are limited by a variety of learning challenges: executive functioning, sensory processing, social cognition, ADHD, extreme anxiety, Asperger’s syndrome, ASD, and dyslexia.
Adelberg Montalvan Pediatric Dental and Orthodontics 1000 F. Park Blvd., Massapequa Park 516-798-1111 62 Lake Ave. S., Suite A, Nesconset 631-360-PEDS (7337) 615 Montauk Highway, West Islip 631-661-PEDS (7337); ampediatricdental.com adelbergped@optonline.net
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Dr. Cummings believes that a dentist and patient become a team for treating an individual’s dental needs. She spends time listening to understand your concerns and responds with the best treatment options for you. She received her degree from Howard University College of Dentistry and received her postdoctoral training from University Hospital Stony Brook. Dr. Cummings is trained and experienced in providing dental care for patients with special needs, as well as complete dental care for the entire family. There’s a story behind every smile... we’d like to be part of yours!
Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-of-the-art medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kid-friendly; walk-ins welcome; most insurance plans accepted. Complete pediatric and adolescent care, as well as baby, camp, school, and sports physicals. Certified urgent care recommended by Urgent Care Association of America. Thirty years of dedication to our patients. The offices are open seven days a week, including holidays, 8am-11pm.
Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com; Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Nassau: 516-216-1791 • Queens: 718-640-6767
Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, is owner and operator of Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. Along with her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES—Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. There is a total of seven affiliated offices across Long Island, all participating with most major health insurance companies and offering evening and Saturday hours.
Suffolk Pediatric Dentistry 8 Medical Drive, Port Jefferson Station 631-928-8585
Dr. Coniglio grew up in Bethpage, and graduated with a B.A. from the University of Pennsylvania. He received his D.D.S. from Case Western Reserve University and is a diplomat of the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry. He was chief resident in pediatric dentistry at Lutheran Medical Center. He is president of the Suffolk Pediatric Dentistry Study Club. He is on the attending staff of St. Charles Hospital and Mather Hospital and is a member of the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, Suffolk County Pediatric Dental Society, New York Dental Society, and American Dental Association.
PTS Coaching Goldrich, Ed.M., A.C.A.C. Certified ADHD Parent Coach Long Island ptscoaching.com info@ptscoaching.com
Cindy Goldrich specializes in parenting children and teens with ADHD. She helps parents reduce arguing, stress, and chaos to help children reach their true potential. Cindy conducts a parent workshop series to help parents develop the tools to create a calm, more compliant environment. Specific strategies are developed to establish workable, realistic rules and expectations; reduce homework stress; and improve children’s problem solving, self-advocacy, and communication skills. Additional services include school support, staff development, and presentations. Coaching is available in person on Long Island and Manhattan or via phone.
Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County Dr. Mike Ioannou 2171 Jericho Turnpike, Suite 145, Commack 631-486-6364 3237 Route 112, Building 6, Suite 7B, Medford 631-320-0880; supermolar.com
Dr. Michael Ioannou, a native of Suffolk County, received his dental degree at the University of Connecticut - School of Dental Medicine, with a residency in pediatric dentistry from Albert Einstein College of Medicine/ Montefiore Medical Center. A friendly, patient dentist, Dr. Ioannou strives to make visiting the dentist a fun experience, all while providing exceptional dental care. He uses excellent behavioral management approaches, a child-friendly environment (TV and cartoons in all treatment rooms), and he sings to the patients! Dr. Ioannou currently participates with most insurance companies and has convenient evening and Saturday office hours.
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Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Visit VEG and let your child join a demo lesson taught by our director. Learn about our gifted kindergarten, after-school enrichment, writing workshops, art workshops, and STEM/STEAM classes. Ages 4-18.
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LI Lutheran Day School at St. Paul’s............................. 29
Ohman School of Ballet................................................. 13 Posey School of Dance................................................. 19
LIU Center for Gifted Youth........................................... 19 Ohman School of Ballet................................................. 13
RESEARCH Tobacco Action Coalition of LI....................................... 19
RETAIL Anton Media.................................................................... 7
Smithtown Performing Arts Center................................ 37 Smugglers’ Notch Resort............................................... 39 Spirit’s Promise.............................................................. 21
Posey School of Dance................................................. 19 Smithtown Performing Arts Center................................ 37
LI Lutheran Day School at St. Paul’s............................. 29
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HEALTH Adelberg Montalvan - Massapequa Office.............. 49, 52 Affinity Health Plan........................................................ 17
DEVELOPMENTAL Building Blocks Developmental Preschool.................... 43 Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech................. 40, 49 Long Island Whole Child Academy.......................... 43, 49 PTS Coaching Tutors.............................................. 33, 50
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Suffolk Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics................. 5, 50 Tobacco Action Coalition of LI....................................... 19
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Building Blocks Developmental Preschool.................... 43 Camp Huntington........................................................... 40 Cummings Family Dental.............................................. 25 Huntington Learning Center.......................................... 40 Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech................. 40, 49 Law Offices of Brad H Rosken...................................... 40 Long Island Whole Child Academy.......................... 43, 49 Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County......................... 3, 50 Pediatric Immediate Care........................................ 15, 49
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Law Offices of Brad H Rosken...................................... 40 LI Lutheran Day School at St. Paul’s............................. 29
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PTS Coaching Tutors.............................................. 33, 50
Building Blocks Developmental Preschool.................... 43 Huntington Learning Center.......................................... 40
Adelberg Montalvan - Massapequa Office.............. 49, 52
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Live Nation - NYCB Theatre at Westbury...................... 25
LIU Center for Gifted Youth........................................... 19
Bay Street Theater........................................................ 29
Long Island Whole Child Academy.......................... 43, 49
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