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16 When Can They...? A guide to when your kids are old enough to do certain activities on their own
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20 Happy Birthday, Unhappy Timing Tips for handling common birthday party scheduling dilemmas 42 So Your Teen Wants a Job... What adolescents need to know to earn their first paycheck 44 20-Minute Meals Three healthy recipes that can each be made in 20 minutes 46 Family First, Even From Afar How one NYC couple makes it work when the father travels with the Texas Rangers for much of the year
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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Quotables 14 NYMP Q&A: Ron Leiber, the “Your Money” columnist for the New York Times, talks kids and money
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12 Media Matters: New on DVD & Streaming 13 DIY Corner: Pumpkin Animals 24 Outing: Historic Village at Alliare 27 Family Activities Calendar 38 Where-To Guide: Pick Your Own Pumpkins 40 Where-To Guide: Haunted Houses, Corn Mazes, and Pumpkin Activities
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t feels like Adira, my 9-year-old daughter, has been agitating for more independence since the moment she came into this world. Like most parents, we’ve gradually given her more freedom, but letting her walk the streets on her own was a scary idea to us—until, one day, that changed rather spontaneously. I was home with our sleeping toddler while my wife took our two older kids on an errand. When we realized that Adira wouldn’t be home in time to catch her ride to play rehearsal, my wife and I decided that Adira would walk the several blocks home by herself. I waited for her outside, peering down the block until her smiling, proud-of-herself face came into view. Since then, we’ve talked a lot about when she might be allowed to do even more on her own. It can be hard to know when it’s appropriate and safe to give kids independence. To help guide you in making these decisions, we’ve gathered expert advice on when kids may be ready for specific milestones of independence, including getting a cellphone, going to the mall, and walking to school on their own (p. 16). Of course, no matter how old and mature our kids get, birthdays always loom large in their lives. We all want to give them the party they’re hoping for, but sometimes reality collides with those plans. In our case, we’ve got one kid born on Thanksgiving weekend and another on New Year’s Day, making party scheduling a challenge. We’ve also had the experience of calling a party venue weeks in advance only to find it’s booked for the weekend we’d like— and often for weeks before and after. Such problems are not uncommon, so we’re offering a useful guide to dealing with party scheduling dilemmas (p. 20). As kids get older, something else tends to grow in importance to them as well: money. Once they hit their teenage years, getting a part-time job is a realistic option and one that can provide important life lessons in addition to cash. Katelin Walling tells us everything we need to know for teens to get started in the work world, including the top jobs they might pursue (p. 42). If it’s October, it means baseball playoffs are upon us, and Halloween is just around the corner. To mark the former, Bethany Braun-Silva profiles a New York City family for whom Dad’s dream job—as a coach for the Texas Rangers—keeps him away from home for long stretches. The couple tells us how they make it work and how he stays involved in his kids’ lives even from a distance (p. 46). And as Halloween spirit ramps up, check out our guides to pumpkin-picking farms (p. 38) and haunted houses and other Halloween activities (p. 40). Or learn how to go beyond the standard jack-o’-lantern and make cool pumpkin animals (p. 13). Happy fall and happy Halloween to all! Michael Kress Editorial Director
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in an instagram Growing up NYC >> The brownstones in our neighborhood go all out for Halloween and #lilStrange kept sneaking candy out of her pumpkin. (Posted by @kristrange, aka Kris Strange, a NYC mom of two who blogs at mystrange.family)
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in an instagram (Posted by @cuddlesandchaos, aka Jennifer Garry, a Westchester mom who blogs at cuddlesandchaos.com).
“We’ve made it a tradition each year to visit a senior citizen home before we head out to trick-or-treat. The elderly folks get such a kick out of the kids’ costumes and they usually put on quite the production.” —Brianne Manz, an NYC mom, in a post entitled “Halloween of ‘14” on her blog strollerinthecity.com
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There’s no need to stop at carving pumpkins when it comes to Halloween. Experiment by making all sorts of creatures from pumpkins, squash, and other vegetables to add fun to your Halloween party. And when you have finished you can still cook and eat everything you have used! You Will Need • Pumpkins and squash in any shape, size, and color • Selection of other vegetables—carrots, Brussels sprouts, eggplants (aubergine), and zucchini (courgette) are all great • Pumpkin and sunflower seeds, fresh ginger root, bay leaves • Sharp knife • Chopping board • Toothpicks (cocktail sticks) • Wooden skewers
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1. Lay all your vegetables out on the table so you can see what you have. Start thinking about which animals you would like to make and play around with different arrangements to create some crazy creatures! 2. Push one end of a toothpick (cocktail stick) into the vegetable you would like to use, such as a carrot, and then push the other end into your pumpkin. 3. Push seeds into pumpkins to make eyebrows, teeth, nose, etc.
4. Seeds make great spikes for hedgehogs. Push them into a squash, using the pointed top of the squash as a nose. 5. Use a sharp knife and chopping board to cut slices of vegetables. (Remember to keep your fingers out of the way or ask an adult to help you.) The slices make great eyes when held in place with toothpicks. 6. Push half of one of the wooden skewers into a squash to join one onto the other. 7. Push another squash onto the rest of the skewer to join two together. 8. Make antlers, ears, arms, and eyes by attaching vegetables to the squash with toothpicks—Brussels sprouts make great ears! 9. Bay leaves are a good shape to use as hair or headdresses and decoration on your creatures. It is easy to push toothpicks through them, which can then be pushed into the pumpkins.
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Should kids start earning their own money early on? When I think about jobs, I think about work that you do for somebody that you’re not related to for which you get paid—not household chores. I think every child should have at least one job, preferably a full-time job that they take on in the summer sometime during high school, and preferably every summer. I think every child should contribute, hopefully substantially, to the cost of their undergraduate education, and I think there’s something developmentally profound about having to show up someplace every day, where a team of other people or customers are relying on you and learning what it means to perform that task or a set of tasks for a wage where there’s a possibility that you’ll be kicked out by a boss if you’re not doing the things that you’re supposed to do. What’s your view on giving kids an allowance? Allowance is for practice, and money is something we want our kids to get good at. We should think about it in the same way that we should think about a musical instrument, or art supplies, or athletic equipment, and as with those things, or books, these are not things that we take away generally if our kids have not done their chores. I think the allowance should be given out without any conditions except that the money gets used responsibly, that you don’t lose it or burn it, and that you don’t buy anything or do anything with the money that is on the family’s banned-items list. As long as you follow all those rules, the allowance is yours. For parents who are tired of being nagged all the time for stuff, the quickest way to nip that in the bud is to actually double your child’s allowance if you can afford it, which may seem like a counterintuitive approach. But once it’s clear to them that they have this sum of money—but that until further notice, every single thing that they want as opposed to things that they need is going to have to come out of the allowance—then there’s no reason to bug you anymore because they know that the answer is going to be, “No, that’s what the allowance money is for.” Whatever that allowance is, they have to make that last and parcel it out and make tradeoffs around the things that they want the most.
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Riding the bus, walking to school, going to sleepaway camp, and more milestones of growing up: a guide to when your kids are old enough to do activities on their own By Laurie Sue Brockway
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fter years of knowing your child’s exact whereabouts, who he is with, and what she is eating, it can be daunting, even scary, to ease your child into independent activities. But there will come a time when you will have to give your little one wings to fly—or at least, money to take a train somewhere. “A parent’s confidence in a child’s age-appropriate abilities to make good choices and be responsible goes a long way to instilling confidence in the child and provides a much-needed inner resource that would benefit any kid,” says Jody Ripplinger, MA, LMHC, a psychotherapist at Manhattan’s Citron Hennessey Private Therapy and a Brooklyn mom of three. “I think the real test is whether we as parents feel able to let our children out of our sight for periods of time, without letting our anxiety get the better of us.” We rounded up some of the big firsts and offer advice on when you might expect your child to be ready for them. Of course, you know your child best and every person and situation will be different, but we hope this helps you figure out when it’s okay for your child to take some big steps on his own.
Getting a Cellphone
It may seem like your child has been begging for her own phone for as long as she’s known how to talk. Most experts agree that kids should have phones once they start going out and about on their own, whenever that may be. Pre-paid, no-frills, functional phones just for calling in to the mothership, and vice-versa, are 16
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fine. “We gave our kids cellphones once they started traveling alone, so it was around the age of 9,” says Alina Adams, a mother of three and author of Getting Into NYC Kindergarten. “But these phones are for announcing that they’ve arrived at their destination only. And the very, very cheap phones we got them can’t even download apps.”
Attending Sleepaway Camp
Experts we spoke with suggested 7 years old as the minimum age for sleepaway camp. Before you enroll, take into consideration your child’s prior response to separations, if he’s already successfully experienced a few nights away, whether friends are attending the same camp, and what the child’s expectation is, says clinical psychologist Joe Taravella, Ph.D., clinical assistant professor at New York University School of Medicine. “The average age for a first trip to sleepaway camp ranges from 7 to 9 years old, but it really depends on your child’s maturity and ability to separate from parents.” Some kids will dive in and others may beg to come home, so find out how the camp handles homesickness. “Sleepaway camp presents a wonderful opportunity for your child’s growth,” Dr. Taravella says. “Children feel part of a community and develop self-respect, maturity, self-esteem, independence, and responsibility.” They can also learn new coping skills and strengths, become more resilient and resourceful, and cultivate life-long friendships.
Going for a Bike Ride
Developmentally, children ages 8 and older should be able to take a bicycle out for a spin around the block by themselves if they are familiar with the neighborhood. A 10-year-old should be able to go out on longer rides accompanied by a friend, as long as they practice safety rules, Ripplinger says. There is a lot to pay attention to, so a child must be able to keep track of the environment around her while moving quickly on a bike. “Make sure he knows how to stay safe,” Ripplinger says. “Tell him to always wear a helmet, always stop at corners and wait for the green light, and be on the lookout for turning cars on the green when it is time to cross.” In New York City, kids can legally bike on the sidewalk until they are 12, and she recommends that they do. A cellphone, and assuring the child that she has your trust, helps.
Riding the Bus or Subway
Some parents are comfortable starting kids young, yet some transportation systems have established minimum age requirements for unaccompanied minors. Metro-North Railroad and Long Island Rail Road require kids to be at least 8, while Amtrak’s minimum is 12. “Additional factors to consider could include your child’s desire to ride alone, history of demonstrating responsibility and good judgment, and ability to follow directions as well as the length of the trip and/or the safety of the route,” says Amy DiBernardo, LMSW, clinical assistant professor in the department of child and adolescent psychiatry at NYU Langone Medical Center’s Child Study Center. In preparation, go for a trial run, review subway and bus maps, and walk the route to the train or bus to point out places the child can go for help if needed along the way. Discuss safety concerns and how to identify police officers and security guards. DiBernardo says to send them with, an “emergency kit” that includes contact information, a cellphone if they have one, and additional money ($5-$15) in case a their pass, MetroCard, or ticket gets lost and your child needs to use another form of transportation.
Crossing the Street
National Highway Traffic Safe Administration says children are not ready to cross a street alone until 10 years of age, according to Dr. Taravella. Your child’s readiness depends on the ability to shift attention and also concentrate. “Children who tend to be impulsive and easily distracted can engage in unsafe crossing choices and other unsafe behavior,” he says. “Parents can reinforce judgment skills by walking with their children and always modeling safe pedestrian behavior for their children, such as not crossing the street when you don’t have the right of way or stopping at the curb and looking in all directions when crossing the street.”
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Once children reach fifth or sixth grade, they might be ready to take the leap with their friends or by themselves, Dr. Taravella says. Some children initiate the conversation by asking their parents if they can walk alone or with their friends. “Parents should evaluate the distance to the school, how many streets to cross, the availability of crossing guards, and their child’s ability to navigate the streets safely to and from school,” he says. They’ll need coaching on continuously taking the safest route between school and home, and they should demonstrate for their parents that they have excellent traffic-safety skills.
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Not every child is anxious to go it alone. “My middle child was uncomfortable with the idea of going to school by himself,” Adams says. He was accustomed to traveling with his older brother, who moved on to a new school, but Adams had to take her younger daughter to school in a different direction, so she started him walking alone at 10 years old. “He was anxious, but he did it anyway, and has had no problems since,” she says. “He did not feel he was ready, but I did.”
Going to the Mall
“Dropping a child off anywhere alone definitely depends on the maturity level of the child, but I would say age 11 or sixth grade should be fine for any child with a friend, as long as the parent knows and trusts the friend,” says parenting coach Elisabeth Stitt, author of Parenting as a Second Language. Parents may be more concerned about kids being loud and disrespectful than being harassed, so avoid letting them go in large groups or trios. Pairs make for a better buddy system and less chance of fighting. Give kids a primer on safety and strangers. Limit money to just what they need, and outline your no-go zones. “Video arcades are good places to avoid until kids are a little older,” Stitt says. “They tend to be dark, and kid-to-adult ratio favors kids, which allows for more room for kids to behave obnoxiously and for peer mentality to develop. Places such as skating rinks, on the other hand, although kid-heavy, invite less trouble.”
Studying at the Library
You can start dropping them off at the library by themselves around ages 11 or 12, according to Danielle Lindner, children’s book author and founder and CEO of the London Day School in Florham Park, NJ. Start by accompanying your child but spending time in separate areas so that he knows where to find you if needed. This offers freedom without you being right on top of him. “As they get older and become more comfortable, demonstrating that they can be responsible, you can slowly give them more and more freedom to walk places with a friend or spend time with friends without adult supervision,” Lindner says. The other factor is library location, she adds. “If visiting the library means walking through an area that would generally be thought of as unsafe, I don’t think there is any age that a child should be able to walk alone in that case.”
Staying Home Alone
Opinions on when kids can stay home by themselves are wide ranging. “Trusting your child to stay home alone, especially the first time, is daunting for any parent,” DiBernardo says. “While concerns are warranted, allowing your child to stay home alone can have real benefits. It fosters a sense of responsibility and independence in your child and may help strengthen your work and life balance.” The decision depends on your child’s maturity and the situation: Is it a safe neighborhood, is there an alarm system, are there friends and family nearby? “Generally speaking, between the ages of 10 and 12 is an acceptable age range to leave your child home alone for a short period of time (an hour or so), provided that your child is not scared and you believe they are mature enough to handle the situation,” DiBernardo says.
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TIPS TO DETERMINE YOUR CHILD’S READINESS Start in small increments, do trial runs, and try role-playing. Additionally, ask yourself whether your child has: Exercised good judgment in the past and/or demonstrated responsibility. Examples may include finishing homework without being asked, completing chores, or watching a sibling. Shown that she can follow basic directions, such as locking the door or not opening the door for strangers. Demonstrated problem-solving skills. For examples, has he called you or family members in the past when he needed help? Has she demonstrated that she is capable of coping in stressful situations?
honesty with the physician. “Children can come into the office at 13 years old by themselves,” says Mary Ellen Renna, M.D., a pediatrician in practice in Jericho and author of 10 Steps to Almost Perfect Parenting. Even if you are there, stay out of the exam room. “It is always better to see a teenager without the parent present,” Dr. Renna says. “They are more likely to be forthcoming about sexual behavior or drug use if the parent is not in the room.” It’s different when a child is sick, because it is always better to have someone with you when you are ill. “Sick visits and emergencies should be accompanied by a parent as often as possible,” she says—unless the child is older than 17, drives, and is physically able to drive to the office.
Signing Up for an Email Account
Let school be the lead and find out if there is an age or grade in which they require students to have their own email, or if the school assigns email addresses to everyone. “Kids don’t really need one,” says Richard Rende, Ph.D., a developmental psychologist and co-author of Raising Can-Do Kids: Giving Children the Tools to Thrive in a Fast-Changing World. “Keep in mind that all kids— including and especially teens—can be impulsive and emotional and that plays out socially. So think about an age when you feel they are mature enough to use it responsibly—early teens—and teach them the rules of the game.” This applies also to texting, which kids probably do more frequently, he adds.
Getting on Social Media
Early teens is probably the right time for most kids to start entering the social media world, but this may require a long period of monitoring, Dr. Rende says. “It will be a learning curve for kids because now they have a device that permits instantaneous expression of moods, kids will say things about other kids, misinterpretations can happen.” There are many different kinds of social media kids may delve into, so parents should take a proactive stance in learning about them and teaching safety tips. Parents should also be aware of the different minimum ages set by the individual networks for membership. “Practice transparent monitoring—not constant surveillance or lurking,” Dr. Rende says. While teaching good online protocol, hang on until you think they are ready to truly go solo. “You will need to practice good communication skills with your child and partner with them.” Laurie Sue Brockway is a journalist and author who has written extensively on love, romance, marriage, parenting, well-being, and emotional health. Her work has appeared in hundreds of print and online publications, including Woman’s Day, Everyday Health, and The Huffington Post.
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Dilemma: The invites have all been sent and the venue has been booked. You drop your child off at school a few days later only to find out that another child in his class has scheduled a birthday party for the same day. Solution: Ask the parents if they are absolutely set on that date. If so, suggest a change in time, and if they still won’t budge, see if your venue will offer a change in time. After all, two parties in one day is a dream for kids, even if it’s a nightmare for most parents.
The Venue Has No Openings Dilemma: You thought you were being a good parent by trying to book your child’s birthday party venue of choice months in advance. Or maybe you’re a lastminute person, and despite the best intentions, are calling just a little too late to schedule it. Whatever the reason, it turns out the place is all booked up and so are similar venues in the area.
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Dilemma: If your child’s birthday is a week before Christmas, falls on Leap Day, or is July 4 or Jan. 1, fear not. You’ve probably already heard the stories of slighted kids who share their big day with a national holiday, but that doesn’t mean it has to be lacking in fun or that your kid won’t get all the birthday attention he deserves. Solution: Try moving your kid’s party a few days after the big holiday; that way the holiday is in the past and everyone can be completely focused on the birthday boy or girl. If that won’t work, try incorporating the holiday into your child’s party to make it all about her. Vicky’s Valentine’s Birthday Bash or Steven’s 7th St. Patty’s Day might be a great way to celebrate your child’s birthday without ignoring the big holiday elephant in the room. And families that have lateafternoon or evening get-togethers—such as Thanksgiving dinners or Memorial Day barbecues—might appreciate a morning activity that gets the kids out of the house and allows them some fun.
Siblings Who Have the Same Birthday
Dilemma: Your children have the same birthday or their birthdays are only a few days apart. While it may be convenient for you (no need to remember multiple dates!), your kids aren’t too keen on sharing a party. Solution: You can get really crafty here and try to convince your kids of all the great reasons to have a shared party. Or you can choose to split the parties, which means more work for you. If you choose to split them up, try to keep each party small and ask each child for one special thing she would like to include. If two parties are just not in the budget or schedule, try to arrange for separate events at the combined party. Perhaps have each child open presents in separate rooms, or split off for certain games. Each child can choose a favorite food, and you can have separate, smaller cakes for each, so no one feels slighted or has to compromise on his favorite flavor or decoration. Everyone can come together for cake and playtime—just make sure each kid has her moment in the spotlight.
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229 NY-110, Farmingdale 631-815-5355 atplayamusement.com info@playamusement.com Have your next party at the newly renovated @ Play Amusements! It offers 30,000 square feet of fun ranging from 92 arcade games, inflatables, and bumper cars to a roller coaster, a carousel, disco room, and laser tag! It even provides all the paper goods, invites, thank you notes, food, and private hostess! It features five glow-in-thedark private party rooms that are sure to be a hit! The action-packed amusement center will make your child’s special day be one they will never forget! Fun for all ages!
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101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com BounceU Farmingdale was voted “Best of Long Island” for Children’s Party Place and Family Amusement Center. We provide the ideal combination of inflatable structures, a clean environment, incredible customer service, and non-stop excitement in a private party atmosphere. We feature giant inflatable toys and a wide variety of activities for children and adults, including basketball and boxing, obstacle courses, and slides. We take pride in providing superior customer service. Private parties are meticulously planned and prepared by our knowledgeable staff, so parents can relax and enjoy themselves.
Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium
1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor 516-692-6768 cshfha.org steved@cshfha.org Celebrate your child’s next birthday at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium! See the Hatchery & Aquarium’s exciting live exhibits. Feed the hungry trout and learn about fish, reptiles, and amphibians with an up-close animal encounter. For children turning ages 3 and older. Fishing Parties available too! Fishing
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Party guests will enjoy a 45-minute fishing bonanza. Fishing is catch and release only. For children turning ages 4 and older. All parties will be followed by your desired festivities. Educational party hosts and goodie bags included.
Picasso Kidz, Creative Art Studio For Children
72 Broadway, Greenlawn 631-261-5500 picassokidz.com picassokidzart@gmail.com Picasso Kidz puts the ART in pARTy! Birthdays at Picasso Kidz are truly unique and memorable. We have many packages and options to choose from for ages 2-17. We work with you to create the birthday of your child’s dreams! We are committed to creating a fun party and making sure each artist creates a work that is uniquely theirs. Party hosts are NYS-certified art teachers, who teach children two unique art lessons. Break out of the typical party and create a memorable, educational, and fun party for your child!
Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts
2 E. Main St., Smithtown 631-724-3700 smithtownpac.org boxoffice@smithtownpac.org Treat your child to a different type of birthday party this year! Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts will present three great shows for kids beginning Nov. 25 with Elf Jr. until Dec. 30, Shrek Jr. from Jan. 21-Feb. 26, 2017, and Annie Jr. from March 18-April 15, 2017. We provide a private room for your gathering. Cast members will meet with your party to sign autographs and pose for pictures. Call 631724-3700 for more information and to book your date today.
Spirit’s Promise Horse Rescue Program
2746 Sound Ave., Riverhead 631-875-0433 spiritspromiserescue.org marisa@spiritspromiserescue.org Spirit’s Promise Equine Rescue and Rehabilitation Program: Spirit’s Promise rescues horses that have been abused
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Tumbling Tunes
212 Laurel Road, East Northport 631-697-0140 tumblingtunes.com tumblingtunes@gmail.com Tumbling Tunes specializes in parties for children ages 1-6. Our parties consist of music, movement, games, gymnastics, parachute, and free play tailored to your child’s age and ability. Pizza, juice boxes, and balloons are included for kids. We also offer a healthy food option if desired. Ample staff assures a safe, interactive environment. Parties start at $300 for up to 12 children. A photographer, gourmet cupcakes, and goodie bags are also available. Children are sure to enjoy their special day at our high-energy parties!
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30 E. Main St., Oyster Bay 516-922-COOK (2665) whatscookingny.com info@whatscookingny.com Martha Stewart, Newsday, and News 12 boast What’s Cooking? is a culinary school and No. 1 choice birthday party place at which children explore their creativity in culinary arts. Offering a variety of party themes and classes, we exceed customer’s expectations with superior service, quality, and value. Fall hands-on cooking classes with stellar recipes are booking now! Hottest party theme: Cupcake Wars! Fun-tastic cookie, cupcake, chocolate, pretzel, or pizza parties can be customized in our spacious party room with an ice cream candy bar or chocolate fountain, making your party memorable!
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The Historic Village at Allaire in Farmingdale, NJ, engages visitors and teaches the public what everyday life was like during early Industrial America by offering families historic re-enactments, craft demonstrations, carpentry, tinsmithing, hearth cooking, and much more.
Year-Round Fun
This museum with 13 original buildings offers a variety of educational tours, living history interpretations, gardens, exhibits, and special programs for all ages. Allaire’s historic interpreters and guides will give you an inside look into a different time and way of life, and the many challenges and triumphs of an early 19th century industrial community. Explore Allaire State Park with more than 3,000 acres of walking trails, picnic areas, and biking trails. Be sure to stop by the fresh bakery and do some shopping at the old-fashioned General Store and Enameling Building shop.
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are a great way to experience industrial history. Tours can be scheduled at any time for any type of group. Allaire’s monthly calendar offers many great events including An Evening with Edgar Allen Poe, which includes a chilling performance of some of the poet’s favorite tales, and James P. Allaire’s Birthday every July 16, which includes numerous craft demonstrations and sweet treats. The Annual Ducky Derby, which is typically held in July, is a great event to raise money for the village. Children enter their rubber ducks into a race and are awarded prizes. Also be sure to check out the numerous flea markets and craft shows, the Annual Rolling Iron Antique Show in August, the Allaire 5K Run in October, and the Allaire Auxiliary Stocking Stuffer Sale in November.
October Highlights
Allaire dares you to brave the village and forest at nighttime when all the “monsters” come out. Join the Haunted Allaire hayrides, have your fortune told, dance
with Zombie Zumba, listen to haunted ghost stories around the campfire, and explore Hogwarts at Allaire. Pre-registration is suggested. Oct. 14, 15, 21, and 22; 6-9:30pm. Adults: $15; children younger than 12: $10. Another favorite is the 19th Century All Hollow’s Eve celebration on Oct. 30. This is a fun event for all ages featuring spooky storytellers. Take a ride on the tractor and hay wagon to explore the park. Take part in historic demonstrations as villagers prepare for fall. Pick a pumpkin (limited supply) and decorate it! Costume contest and parade at 3pm. Adults: $5; children ages 5-12: $3. Wagon and tractor rides extra.
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Address: 4263 Atlantic Ave., Farmingdale, NJ Directions: Approximately a 2-hour, 15-minute drive from Huntington Hours: Wednesday-Sunday, 11am-4pm Admission: Free; special events cost extra. For more information: 732-919-3500 or allairevillage.org
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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 10 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month! Long Island Fair
WHEN: Through Oct. 2: Friday, 10am-4pm; SaturdaySunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Old Bethpage Village Restoration, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Prize-winning vegetables, flowers, arts and crafts, culinary delights, farm animals, hot air balloons, entertainment, wagon, camel, pony rides, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a beloved tradition that celebrates Long Island’s agricultural heritage and showcases the creative talents of Long Islanders from all walks of life. WANT TO GO? $10; $8 seniors and children ages 5-12; free for children younger than 5. 516-572-8400. lifair.org.
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WHEN: Oct. 1-2, Saturday, 10:30am, 2pm, and 5:30pm; Sunday, 10:30am WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: When the new music teacher’s instruments go missing, Elmo, Abby Cadabby, Big Bird, and more come to the rescue. WHY WE LOVE IT: Children learn that everyone can make and enjoy beautiful music together! WANT TO GO? $28 and up. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.
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WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 9, 12-2pm WHERE: Long Island Game Farm, 489 Chapman Blvd., Manorville
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AGES: All WHAT: Prizes, photo opportunities with a real-life pirate and princess, and complimentary refreshments are all part of the fun. WHY WE LOVE IT: Children age 18 or younger in pirate or princess garb can take part in a treasure hunt. WANT TO GO? $18.95; $16.95 children. 631-878-6644. longislandgamefarm.com.
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Sol y Sombra: Ah! Cuba! FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 9, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: All WHAT: Join Sol y Sombra in a concert that celebrates the influence of Cuba’s rhythms and melodies on the dance and music of the Hispanic world. WHY WE LOVE IT: The time is right to learn about the rich Cuban culture. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.
‘The Legend of Sleepy Hollow’
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 10, 1pm WHERE: BayWay Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The story of Ichabod Crane and his hapless attempt to win the heart and hand of Katrina Van Tassel. WHY WE LOVE IT: No Halloween is complete without hearing the story of Ichabod Crane. WANT TO GO? $13. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.
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Pokémon Paint Party
WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 12, 11am-1pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Children paint a Pikachu portrait on a canvas, sculpt Pikachu from polymer clay, and eat Poképizza. WHY WE LOVE IT: We can’t get enough of Pokémon right now. WANT TO GO? $35. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.
HappyFest Obstacle Course & Festival
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 15, 10am WHERE: Long Island Sports Park, 149 Edwards Ave., Calverton AGES: All WHAT: HappyFest is designed so that every member of every family and their friends can do the longer-than-1-mile obstacle course and cross the finish line together with wheelchair accessible alternative for all who choose. Entry includes the obstacle course, T-shirt, medal, entrance to the live music festival, and the awesome bubble finish. WHY WE LOVE IT: What a unique activity to do together as a family! WANT TO GO? $45; $39 children ages 3-13; free for children younger than 3. 888-593-0087. happyfestusa.com.
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Trunk or Treat FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 22, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Westhampton Beach Elementary School, 379 Mill Road, Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Decorate the trunk of your car for Halloween and bring treats. The community will trick or treat from trunk to trunk. WHY WE LOVE IT: A clever riff on the traditional “door to door” version. WANT TO GO? westhamptonchamber.org.
‘Legally Blonde: The Musical’
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WHEN: Through Oct. 29: Friday-Saturday, 8pm WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Elle Woods tackles stereotypes, snobbery, and scandal in pursuit of her dreams in the hallowed halls of Harvard Law School. WHY WE LOVE IT: We love a strong female role model who happens to have a sense of humor! WANT TO GO? $35; $28 children ages 13-18; $20 children ages 5-12. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.
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Spooky Walk
WHEN: Oct. 21-29, Friday-Saturday, 7-9pm WHERE: Camp Pa-Qua-Tuck, 2 Chet-Swezey Road, Center Moriches AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The Spooky Walk is a fundraiser hosted by the Moriches Paquatuck Squaws to benefit Camp Pa-Qua-Tuck, a camp for children and adults with special needs. WHY WE LOVE IT: Delivering nearly 45 minutes of scares, Spooky Walk is considered the longest lasting haunted walk on Long Island. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-878-1070. camppaquatuck.com. ››
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ANIMAL LOVERS Jungle Bob FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 1, 1pm WHERE: Connetquot Public Library, 760 Ocean Ave., Bohemia AGES: All WHAT: Jungle Bob shows exotic reptiles from around the globe including a Cuban rock iguana, albino Burmese python, and a giant African Pixie Frog. WANT TO GO? 631-567-5079. connetquotlibrary.org.
WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE
Pony Rides
Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome.
Meet the Breeds FREE
Peaceful Families Weekend FREE
WHEN: Oct. 1-2, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-2:30pm WHERE: Dipamkara Meditation Center, 282 New York Ave., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: A special open house weekend for the whole family. Learn to meditate together. WANT TO GO? 631-549-1000. meditationonlongisland.org.
Fall Family Freshwater Fishing Festival FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 15, 10-4pm WHERE: Hempstead Lake State Park, Lake Side Drive, West Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: This annual family oriented fishing festival integrates fishing with fall activities such as casting for pumpkins. WANT TO GO? 631-321-3510. nysparks.com.
Tween Movie Matinee: ‘Hocus Pocus’ FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 15, 12pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Bring your own lunch and watch Hocus Pocus in the library’s Tween Scene. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.
Ghost Stories & Legends of Fire Island FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 22, 7pm WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park, Parking Field 5, Fire Island AGES: 5 and older WHAT: On the Lighthouse Terrace, listen to tales of eerie happenings along the Barrier Beach. Come early to visit the Spooky Boat House. WANT TO GO? 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.
Kids Hay Maze FREE
WHEN: Oct. 1-31, daily, 8am-dusk WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 261 Airport Plaza, Farmingdale AGES: 3-12 WHAT: This family-friendly hay maze is festively decorated with pumpkins, scarecrows, and corn stalks. WANT TO GO? 516-962-8210. stewleonards.com.
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WHEN: Monday, Oct. 3, 10am-2pm WHERE: Greenlawn Equestrian Center, 29 Wood Ave., Greenlawn AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy a fall pony ride led by a walker. Call ahead to schedule. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-456-1700. greenlawnequestrian.com. WHEN: Friday, Oct. 14, 7-8pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Come meet and learn about dogs in this hands-on program. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
Bats, Barnacles & Broomsticks Halloween Party
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 29, 10am-4pm WHERE: Long Island Aquarium, 431 E. Main St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: In addition to trick-or-treating throughout the aquarium there will be a Penguin Parade, a puppet show by Katie’s Puppets, face painting, crafts and game stations, and more. Kids in costumes will receive half-off admission. WANT TO GO? $27.95; $21 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 2. 631-208-9200. longislandaquarium.com.
Egg Taking Demonstration
WHEN: Oct. 22-30, Saturday-Sunday, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Witness the centuries old process of live trout reproduction. Staff will answer questions. WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org.
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Fall Fun FREE
WHEN: Through Oct. 12: Wednesdays, 6:30-7:15pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy stories, songs, and a craft each week with your child. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.
STEM Preschool Storytime FREE
WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 13, 1pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Preschoolers explore early science topics through literature and “hands-on” experimentation. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org. WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 16, 3pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Join a discussion of Countdown by Deborah Wiles. WANT TO GO? 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.
Pajama Storytime FREE
WHEN: Friday, Oct. 21, 7-7:45pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Come in pajamas to listen to stories, sing songs, and dance. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.
Get Cape, Wear Cape, Fly Get your superhero costumes ready, The East Coast’s biggest popular culture convention New York Comic Con is back! This huge event features star-studded panels, autograph sessions, screening rooms, sneak previews, and launches of movies and shows. Everything from comics, graphic novels, anime, manga, video games, and toys to movies and television. There’s a special Family HQ area with kids activities too. Oct. 6-9, see website for times. Age: All. $40-$50, Jacob K. Javits Convention Center, 655 W. 34th St., Hell’s Kitchen. 718-707-0711. newyorkcomiccon.com. Lightwire Theater
Collaborative Book Club FREE
Busy Bees FREE
WHEN: Oct. 3-24, Mondays 4-4:30pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Children enjoy stories and a craft to help develop reading skills. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
Circle of Stories FREE
WHEN: Oct. 18-25, Tuesdays, 11-11:45am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Prepare your children for reading. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
My First Story Time FREE
WHEN: Oct. 5-26, Wednesdays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children are introduced to their first experience at story times and learn early literacy skills. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
stART (Story + Art)
WHEN: Through Oct. 27: Tuesdays and Thursdays, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children listen to childhood classics and new favorites. WANT TO GO? $3 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org. ››
Glow in the Dark Theater The award-winning theater company (and America’s Got Talent semi-finalists) brings two classic stories to the Upper West Side this month. Part of Just Kidding’s new season, Lightwire Theater’s production of The Ugly Duckling & The Tortoise and the Hare is just one of the fun shows on offer in October. See these two fables like you’ve never seen them before as they come to life in the dark, like magic. The secret is the company’s electroluminescent wires, used to create amazing 3-D puppets and props. Once the lights are off they seem to dance, move, and leap on their own. Set to a mix of classical and modern music, you won’t find a show like this anywhere else. Oct. 29, 11am and 2pm. Age: All. $17. Symphony Space, 2537 Broadway, Upper West Side. 212-864-5400. symphonyspace.org. LongIslandParent 31
CRAFTY KIDS Mommy and Me Pumpkin Painting Workshop
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 3, 9:30-10:30am and 11am-12pm WHERE: Picasso Kidz, 72 Broadway, Greenlawn AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children will work with a parent by their side and learn how to decorate a pumpkin. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-261-5500. picassokidz.com.
THE GREAT OUTDOORS Seafaire
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 2, 12-3pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Explore Long Island’s maritime history with visiting artisans as the new exhibit Thar She Blows! is unveiled. There will also be crafts, candle dipping, and boat building. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.
The Doxsee Legacy: Growing Up in a Fishing and Clamming Family FREE
WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 12, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Connetquot Public Library, 760 Ocean Ave., Bohemia AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Bob Doxsee Jr. shares his childhood experiences of life in Freeport and Point Lookout, fishing with his father, harvesting clams, and operating a fishing boat. WANT TO GO? 631-567-5079. connetquotlibrary.org.
South Shore Classic
WHEN: Oct. 14-16, Friday-Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Between the Moriches and Jones inlets, 3500 Ocean Parkway, Bay Shore AGES: All WHAT: Each participant must have an entry permit. All fish must be hooked and landed from the beach, surf, jetty, bank, or pier within the legal boundaries of the Jones and Moriches inlets. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-669-0449. nysparks.com.
The Great Jack O’ Lantern Spectacular Sail FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 29, 4pm WHERE: Belmont Lake State Park, 625 Belmont Road, North Babylon AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: The first 50 pumpkins will get to sail on the lake. Visit the Spooky Den, play games, and make crafts while “trick-or-treating.” WANT TO GO? 631-667-5055. nysparks.com.
Tinkergarten Nature-Play Classes: Making Mud
WHEN: Through Nov. 19: Saturdays, 10-11:30am WHERE: Kalers Pond Park, Montauk Highway, Center Moriches AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Activities are based on a curriculum that’s child-led and parent-guided. WANT TO GO? $25. 516-672-1395. tinkergarten.com.
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Celebrate Ship in a Bottle Day
WHEN: Oct. 1-4, Saturday-Tuesday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Build or draw your own miniature ship to fit in a bottle to take the sea with you wherever you go. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.
Pokémon Day
WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 4, 11am-2pm WHERE: Mini Monet Studio, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Come draw and sculpt Pikachu. WANT TO GO? $45. 206-484-7711. artteacheramy.com.
Hands on Art
WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 6, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Learn the elements of art using different materials to create your own masterpiece. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-751-0066 x212. longislandmuseum.org.
Origami for Teens FREE
WHEN: Friday, Oct. 7, 3-4pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Learn how to make a variety of simple shapes from animals to planes. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.
Jackson Pollock Family Drip Painting Workshop
WHEN: Through Oct. 8: Saturdays, 10-11:30am WHERE: Pollock-Krasner House and Study Center, 830 Springs Fireplace Road, East Hampton AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Families tour the Pollock-Krasner House and studio, followed by a drip painting workshop for children. WANT TO GO? $35. 917-502-0790. imaginearted.com.
Pumpkin Painting Workshops
WHEN: Oct. 3-16, see website for dates and times WHERE: Picasso Kidz, 72 Broadway, Greenlawn AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Children will learn how to decorate a pumpkin for Halloween and other fall festivities. WANT TO GO? $35. 631-261-5500. picassokidz.com.
Parent Night Out
WHEN: Friday, Oct. 21, 6-8:45pm WHERE: Mini Monet Studio, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Includes pizza and a 1-hour watercolor lesson. WANT TO GO? $30; $15 siblings. 206-484-7711. artteacheramy.com.
Pre-K Draw and Paint
WHEN: Oct. 5-26, Wednesdays, 1-2pm WHERE: Mini Monet, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Step by step art instruction to draw basic animals, people, landscapes, and works by famous artists. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-218-9797. minimonetsayville.com.
Kid’s Halloween Paint Night
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 30, 5-6:30pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Drop off your child paint a “not so spooky” Halloween painting on canvas. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.
SPECIAL NEEDS Sensory-Friendly Production: ‘Halloween Rules’
FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS Fall Festival and Craft Fair FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 1, 10am-5pm WHERE: St. Joseph Church, 59 Church St., Kings Park AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy pumpkin picking, fall plant sale, craft vendors, food trucks, and activities and games for children. WANT TO GO? 631-543-0202. holyfamilyregionalschool.com.
Fall Into Fun Carnival
WHEN: Through Oct. 2: Thursday-Friday, 6-11pm; Saturday, 12-11pm; Sunday, 12-7pm WHERE: Heritage Park, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy four days of rides, games, food, and fireworks. WANT TO GO? Free admission, tickets prices vary. 631-384-8900. msheritagetrust.org.
Aquebogue 24th Annual Craft Fair/Chinese Auction FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 22, 10am-4pm WHERE: Aquebogue Elementary School, 499 Main Road, Aquebogue AGES: All WHAT: Features vendors, raffles, baskets for auction, school apparel, and food. WANT TO GO? 516-971-5254. riverhead.net.
Mission Pink Health & Wellness Fair FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 22, 12-6pm WHERE: Smith Haven Mall, 313 Smith Haven Mall, Lake Grove AGES: All WHAT: There will be products and services for everyone. It will also promote awareness of Susan G. Komen’s National Breast Cancer Awareness Month. WANT TO GO? 631-724-8066. simon.com.
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 22, 11am WHERE: The Noel S. Ruiz Theatre, CM Performing Arts Center, 931 Montauk Highway, Oakdale AGES: All WHAT: House lights will remain on during the performace and the volume will be reduced. Children can sing, talk, and vocalize as they wish. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-218-2810. cmpac.com.
Pumpkin Festival
Sky Zone Cares
Halloween Festival FREE
Special Olympics Bowling at the All Star
Oktoberfest
WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Mondays, 3-6pm WHERE: Sky Zone Deer Park, 111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park AGES: All WHAT: Each first Monday of the month for children and adults with special needs, Sky Zone dials down the music, increases the staff ratio, and limits capacity. WANT TO GO? $16 per hour. 631-392-2600. skyzone.com/deerpark. WHEN: Through Dec. 1: Mondays, 5pm WHERE: The All Star, 96 Main Road, Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Bowlers with special needs are invited to bowl on the main lanes and experience the arcade with the latest games. WANT TO GO? $10 for two games. 631-998-3565. theallstar.com.
WHEN: Through Oct. 23: Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Children explore the expanded Kiddie Korral, including a giant Hay Tower, farm animals, corn and sunflower Maze, and Pedal Kart Track. WANT TO GO? Kiddie Korral: $10 children; $5 adults; $30 whole family includes hayride and pony ride. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com. WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 30, 11am-4pm WHERE: Heritage Center, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy pumpkin picking, pumpkin decorating, Halloween games, prizes, face painting, and more. Costumes encouraged. WANT TO GO? Free admission, activity prices vary. 631-384-8900. msheritagetrust.org. WHEN: Oct. 29-30, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy live music, pumpkin picking, hayrides, and more. WANT TO GO? Kiddie Korral: $10 children; $5 adults; $30 whole family includes hayride and pony ride. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com. ›› LongIslandParent 33
Chess Nuts FREE
WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 12, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Beginners and experienced players develop strategies, sharpen their skills, and have fun playing a game of chess. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
States of Matter Sea Creatures
WHEN: Oct. 15-16, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Celebrate National Chemistry Week by witnessing a chemical reaction that will inflate a balloon, and transform the balloon into your very own creature. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.
Renoir and the Masters: Visions of Impressionism FREE
WHEN: Oct. 14-16, Friday-Sunday, 6-8pm WHERE: LaMantia Gallery, 127 Main St., Northport AGES: All WHAT: This exhibition includes works by Modern Master Alexandre Renoir, as well as Masters Pierre Auguste Renoir, Pablo Picasso, Marc Chagall, and Joan Miro. WANT TO GO? 631-754-8414. lamantiagallery.com.
SMARTY PANTS Bilingual Family Gallery Talk & Art Workshop
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 2, 2pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: All WHAT: Family tours offered on the first Sunday of the month include a bilingual English-Spanish tour. WANT TO GO? $10; free for children younger than 18. 631-2832118. parrishart.org.
Light Keepers Behind the Scenes Tour
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 8, 9am WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park parking field 5, Fire Island AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This bottom to top tour takes you from the auxiliary generator and the Light Keepers workshop in the basement to the beacon in the lantern room. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.
Build a Biome
WHEN: Oct. 9-10, Sunday-Monday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Recycle water bottles and grow something green to help keep the atmosphere clean. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.
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Afara FREE
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 16, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 5 and older WHAT: A collaboration that explores connections between the music of the African and Spanish Diasporas. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.
4th Annual Lego Building Contest and Exhibit
WHEN: Through Oct. 17: Saturday-Sunday, 9am-5pm WHERE: Educational & Cultural Center, 97P Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Enter the Lego building contest, or come see all of the creations on display and vote for your favorite. WANT TO GO? $4; $2 for children younger than 12. 631-689-5888. wmho.org.
Hands on History
WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 20, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Long Island Museum, 1200 Route 25A, Stony Brook AGES: 5-8 WHAT: The past comes alive through activities and objects. Includes gallery visit and exhibition-related craft. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-751-0066. longislandmuseum.org.
Gorgeous Gobstoppers
WHEN: Oct. 22-23, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Deconstruct candy to reveal the marvels of science, technology, engineering, art, and math. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.
MOVERS & SHAKERS Mounted Cowboy Shooting Match
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 9, 11:30am-1:30pm WHERE: Old Bethpage Village Restoration Fairgrounds, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Watch as a mounted shooting club navigates a course on horseback. WANT TO GO? $10; $7 children ages 5-12; free for children younger than 5. 516-572-8400. islandlongriders.com.
Fit Kids FREE
WHEN: Friday, Oct. 14, 6-7pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-12 WHAT: An hour of storytelling, yoga, and music. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
Parking Self Defense for Children & Families
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 15, 1-3pm WHERE: Modern Warrior, 711 N. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Both child and adult participation needed. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-226-8383. modernwarrior.com.
Commack Coalition of Caring 6th Annual Red Ribbon Week 5K Run/Walk WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 29, 9am WHERE: Commack High School, 1 Scholar Lane, Commack AGES: All WHAT: The run raises awareness of the dangers of alcohol and drugs. WANT TO GO? $25. commack.k12.ny.us/ccc.
Parents Night Out
WHEN: Oct. 1-29, Fridays, 6:30-9:30pm; Saturdays, 6-9pm WHERE: Tumbling Tunes, 212 Laurel Road, East Northport AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy a night out while your children enjoy gymnastics equipment, crafts, instruments, games, and toys. WANT TO GO? $12 per hour; $17 for two siblings; $20 for three siblings. 631-697-0140. tumblingtunes.com. ››
LIU POST’S CENTER FOR GIFTED YOUTH
Latin Dance Class with Sol y Sombra FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 15, 2-3pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: All WHAT: Join Maria Loreta to learn the basics of Latin dance styles. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.
Historic Old Time Baseball Matches: 1864 Rules
WHEN: Oct. 15-16, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: Old Bethpage Village Restoration, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Watch as teams from the 1864 League play following the rules and customs of the 19th century in vintage uniforms. WANT TO GO? $10; $7 children ages 5-12 and seniors; free for children younger than 5. 516-572-8401. nymutuals.com.
The 23rd Annual Walk for Beauty
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 23, 9:30am WHERE: Stony Brook Village Center, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Proceeds go to a research fund at Stony Brook Medicine for Breast Cancer Research and WMHO Unique Boutique. WANT TO GO? $45 for 10K; $35 for 4K/6K. 631-751-2244. wmho.org/wfb.
Play With Me FREE
WHEN: Oct. 6-27, Thursdays, 10-10:45am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Parents are involved in their child’s early learning. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.
SPRING 2017 SATURDAY PROGRAM January 28th, 2017 - April 22nd, 2017 for students entering grades K-8 in 2016
Are You the Parent of a Gifted Child?
LIU Post’s Center for Gifted Youth announces its 37th annual spring program for gifted children. The spring program runs on Saturdays from January 28-April 22. The program is open to gifted children entering grades K-8 in 2016. The major focus of the program is to expand students’ knowledge and develop creative and critical thinking skills. The program offers children the opportunity to learn in an exciting and accepting environment.
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WHAT: Trick-or-treat at The Bridges Academy and enjoy an evening of Halloween fun getting candy from the trunks of cars. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-358-5035. thebridgesacademy.net.
Kidgits Boo Bash FREE
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 29, 1-3pm WHERE: Smith Haven Mall, 313 Smith Haven Mall, Lake Grove AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children receive a goodie bag upon entry containing novelties, toys and crafts, and a pumpkin to decorate. WANT TO GO? 631-724-8066. simon.com.
RISE of the Jack O’Lanterns
HOLIDAY FUN Columbus Day Cosplay
WHEN: Oct. 7-30, see website for dates, 6-10:30pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: You’ll see classic fan-favorites such as life-sized dinosaurs, dragons, and safari animals, as well as a number of new structures featuring time-honored characters from some favorite movies, including one that will make you feel like you’re in a galaxy far, far, away. WANT TO GO? $26; $22 children ages 3-12 and seniors; free for children 2 and younger. 818-639-8981. therise.org/njny.
WHEN: Monday, Oct. 10, 12-4pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Design a comic strip and create a cosplay mask. Everyone in costume will receive half-off admission. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children ages 4-18; free for children younger than 4. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.
Haunted Wail-ing Boo-seum and Festival
Pumpkin Carving Demo FREE
Mix Up Some Halloween Slime
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 23, 10am-4pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 261 Airport Plaza, Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Pumpkin carver Lenny Calvin will bewitch shoppers with his elaborate Halloween-themed etchings on the store’s pumpkins using knives, chisels, and X-Acto knives. WANT TO GO? 516-962-8210. stewleonards.com.
Halloween Family Day
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 23, 1pm WHERE: Walt Whitman Birthplace, 246 Old Walt Whitman Road, Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Events include face painting, a costume contest, a guided tour of the Walt Whitman Birthplace, and a magic show with Michael the Magician. WANT TO GO? $9 per child; chaperones free. 631-427-5240. waltwhitman.org.
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WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 25, 5-6pm WHERE: Stew Leonard’s, 261 Airport Plaza, Farmingdale AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Children can pick up a map from and use it to find treats throughout the store. WANT TO GO? 516-962-8210. stewleonards.com.
The Bridges Academy Trunk to Treat Halloween Event WHEN: Friday, Oct. 28, 6-8pm WHERE: Bridges Academy, 339 Snedecor Ave., West Islip AGES: 3-12
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WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 30, 12-4pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Come visit the SpookTacular Zoo, try owl pellet dissections, themed crafts, slime brewing, and see spooky exhibits coming to life. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org. WHEN: Oct. 29-30, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Stir up a batch of colorful slime just in time for Halloween. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.
The ‘Not So Scary’ Haunted House
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 30, 2-4pm WHERE: Posey School, 57 Main St., Northport AGES: All WHAT: From dancing in a “monster mash” to testing experiments in “frankenstein’s science lab” children will have have a “not so scary” time. Proceeds benefit the December 2016 Northport Nutcracker. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-757-2700. poseyschool.com.
Family Days at Chamber of Horrors NY
WHEN: Oct. 23-30, Sundays, 1-4pm WHERE: Chamber of Horrors NY, 1745 Expressway Drive N., Hauppauge AGES: All WHAT: Trick-or-treat through the haunt where there are smaller scares for smaller fans. WANT TO GO? $20 for up to 4 people. 516-710-1845. chamberofhorrorsny.com.
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WHEN: Oct. 27–Nov. 5, Monday-Friday, 9am-5pm; Saturday, 12-4pm WHERE: Huntington Arts Council, 213 Main St., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Exhibition featuring selected works of student artists that is inspired by a Halloween theme. WANT TO GO? 631-271-8423. huntingtonarts.org.
SHOW TIME! ‘The Legend of Sleepy Hollow’
WHEN: Wednesday, Oct. 12, 1pm WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 3-12 WHAT: The story of Ichabod Crane and his hapless attempt to win the heart and hand of Katrina Van Tassel. WANT TO GO? $13. 516-775-4420. broadhollow.org.
‘Bunnicula: Tales of the Vampire Bunny’
WHEN: Oct. 9-16, Monday-Sunday, 11am WHERE: YMCA Boulton Center, 37 W. Main St., Bay Shore AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Chester and Harold find room in their hearts and their home for one very unique bunny. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-969-1101. boultoncenter.org.
Singer Toby Tobias Returns: ‘Journey from Johannesburg’
WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 16, 7pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The show features theatrical vignettes and songs based on his life in South Africa and later in Israel. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.
Jarrod Spector & Kelli Barrett ‘This is Dedicated: Music’s Greatest Marriages’
WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 22, 8pm WHERE: Staller Center, Stony Brook University, 100 Nicolls Road, Stony Brook AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Songs birthed from great marriages performed by Broadway stars Spector and Barrett. WANT TO GO? $48; $24 for children younger than 13. 631-632-6000. stallercenter.com.
‘James and the Giant Peach, Jr.’
WHEN: Oct. 1-23, Saturdays, 2pm; Sundays, 12pm WHERE: BayWay Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 3 and older WHAT: A delightfully offbeat adaptation of the classic Roald Dahl adventure, a boy and his insect friends take an amazing journey across the ocean. WANT TO GO? $13. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.
‘Pumpkin Patch Magic’
WHEN: Oct. 1-29, Saturdays, 11am WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 3-8 WHAT: A nervous gnome, a grounded witch, and a mixed-up ghost join forces to save the Magic Pumpkin Patch. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.
‘The Wiz of Oz’
WHEN: Oct. 8–Nov. 1, Saturdays, 1pm WHERE: Studio Theatre, 141 S. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Dorothy and her friends face witches, munchkins, and flying monkeys as they learn the valuable lessons of friendship and bravery. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-226-8400. studiotheatreli.com.
‘The Jungle Book’
WHEN: Oct. 2–Nov. 5, Saturdays, 2pm; Sundays, 12pm WHERE: BroadHollow Theatre, 700 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Mowgli, the “man cub,” bounds through the jungle and learns what it means to be human. WANT TO GO? $13. 516-775-4420. broadhollow.org.
‘The Wizard of Oz’
WHEN: Oct. 1–Nov. 6, Saturdays, 11am; Sundays, 10:30am WHERE: John W. Engeman Theater, 250 Main St., Northport AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Dorothy Gale, bored with her life on a Kansas farm, is swept away to a magical land by a tornado and sets off on a quest to see the Wizard who can help her return home. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-261-2900. engemantheater.com.
‘I’ll Be Back Before Midnight!’
WHEN: Oct. 7-29, Fridays and Saturdays, 8pm; Oct. 9 and 30 at 3pm WHERE: Arena Players Repertory Theater, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This funny thriller tells the story of Jan, a woman recovering from a nervous disorder who retreats to a cabin with her husband, Greg. WANT TO GO? $25 on Saturdays; $20 on Fridays and Sundays. 516293-0674. arenaplayers.org.
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You can paint them, carve them, bake with them, and decorate with them! This fall, get out and pick your own pumpkins, then playfully master them into crafts or treats. Many pumpkin patches offer fun autumn activities, such as hayrides, corn mazes, and farm stands with fresh fruits, vegetables, and delicious pastries. Spooky or silly, picking your own pumpkin is definitely one thing: fun for the whole family. As always, confirm details ahead of time. rides and food concessions. Haunted corn maze and haunted mansion Friday-Sunday through October. Fairview Farm 69 Horsemill Lane, Bridgehampton (GPS: 69 Horsemill Road, Watermill) 631-537-6154; fairviewfarmatmecox.com Pick your own pumpkins, gourds, and squash through the second week of November, 10am-6pm, ThursdaySunday, plus Monday holidays. Eightacre corn maze. Admission: $10; $8 children ages 4-11; free for children younger than 4.
Albert H. Schmitt Family Farms 6 Bagatelle Road, Dix Hills 631-549-1159; schmittsfamilyfarms.com Pick your own pumpkins through October, 8am-6pm daily. Fall festival featuring hayrides and a haunted maze on weekends, as well as a train ride, John Deere trike play area, duck races, and fire truck slides. Fall decorations for sale, as well as roasted corn, fresh baked pies, candy apples, mums, and ornamental kale. Benner’s Farm 56 Gnarled Hollow Road, East Setauket 631-689-8172; bennersfarm.com Pick your own pumpkins through October, 12-4pm weekends only. Hayrides (including a haunted hayride), Big Swing, and farm animals. Select Saturdays and Sundays feature special guests and Sundays feature live music. Admission: $8; $6 children (includes corn and hayrides). Harvest Festival: Oct. 9, 12-4pm. Borellas Farm Stand 485 Edgewood Ave., Saint James 631-862-7330; borellasfarmstand.com U-pick pumpkins in October, 11am-5pm weekends only. Hayrides, snacks, corn
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maze, live music, and other activities. Farm stand with homegrown fruits and vegetables. Free parking. Free admission for children younger than 3. Live music and tasting room available on weekends (12-7pm on Saturday; 12-6pm Sunday). Brightwaters Farms & Nursery 1624 Manatuck Blvd., Bay Shore 631-665-5411; brightwatersfarms.com U-pick pumpkins through Oct. 30, 9am5pm daily. Hayrides, inflatable rides, and a farm store with novelty decorations, apples, candy apples, and full concession stand on weekends only. Admission is charged on weekends and Columbus Day, and includes face painting, clown entertainment, animal viewing, and unlimited hay rides. The Fall Festival starts Sept. 24 with pumpkin fields, a beer festival, and live music. F&W Schmitt’s Family Farm 26 Pinelawn Road, Melville 631-271-3276; schmittfarms.com Pick your own pumpkins through October, 9am-5pm daily. Free hayrides. Seven-acre corn maze with admission. Country store on premises. Weekend and Columbus Day activities include inflatable
Greenland Family Farms 17155 County Road 48, Cutchogue 631-734-5791; greenlandfamilyfarms.com Pumpkin picking throughout October, 9am-5pm daily. Hayrides by appointment only. Fall decorations, kites, statues, trees, bushes, and perennials for sale. Harbes Family Farm 715 Sound Ave. Mattituck 631-298-0800; harbesfamilyfarm.com U-pick pumpkins through Nov. 1, 9am6pm. Apple picking on weekends (and Columbus Day), 9am-6pm. Hayrides weekends only, corn maze, pony rides, farm animals, and snacks available. Fall decorations for sale. Restrooms on-site. Hank’s Pumpkintown 240 Montauk Highway, Watermill 631-726-4667; hankspumpkintown.com U-pick pumpkins and apples through October, 9:30am-6pm daily. Three corn mazes, wagon rides, tractor rides, pedal cart racetrack, and more. New attractions include a giant chair for family photos, a wooden dairy barn play structure, and tractor seesaws. Maze Park and apple orchard are only open on weekends and school holidays. Admission to Maze Park: $13. Krupski’s Vegetable & Pumpkin Farm 38030 Route 25, Peconic
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631-734-7841 U-pick pumpkins through October. Farm-fresh produce for sale. Open MondayThursday, 10am-6pm, and Friday-Sunday, 9am-6pm. Lewin Farms 812 Sound Ave., Calverton 631-929-4327 lewinfarm.com Pick your own pumpkins through October, 9am-5pm daily except Tuesdays. Cash only. Call before visiting to confirm pick-your-own dates, as they are subject to change. Stakey’s Pumpkin Farm 270 West Lane, Aquebogue 631-722-3467 stakeyspumpkinfarm.com Pick your own pumpkins through October. Hayrides, corn maze, bounce house, face painting, and pony rides on-site. Greenhouse, country store, and Snack Shack with roasted corn and apple cider doughnuts on-site. Open Monday-Friday, 12-5pm; weekends and Columbus Day, 9am-5pm. Open 9am-5pm weekdays for schools and other groups; call in advance for reservations. The Milk Pail Farm & Orchard 50 Horsemill Lane, Water Mill 631-537-2565 milk-pail.com U-pick pumpkins and apples through October, 10am5:30pm Saturday-Monday and holidays. White Post Farms 250 Old Country Road, Melville 631-351-9373 U-pick pumpkins through Oct. 30. Fall festival weekends through the end of October include live entertainment, hayrides, pony rides, games, and more; 10am-4pm. Open
weekdays 10am-4pm with free admission. Woodside Nursery & Garden Center Inc. 134 E. Woodside Ave., Patchogue 631-758-1491 woodsidenurseryandgarden.com Pick your own pumpkins through October, 9am-6pm daily. Haunted house and balloon bounce every day. Face painting, gold rush, scarecrow making, and roasted corn on weekends and Columbus Day. Birthday parties and field trips available.
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Fairfield County, CT Blue Jay Orchards 125 Plumtrees Road, Bethel 203-748-0119 bluejayorchardsct.com Pick your own pumpkins and apples through October, check website for hours. Scenic orchard wagon rides available. Fruit, pies, apple cider doughnuts, cider, and 10-12 varieties of apples available in the farm store. Castle Hill Farm 25 Sugar Lane, Newtown 203-426-5487 castlehillfarmct@gmail.com castlehillfarm.net Pick your own pumpkins through Oct. 31, weekdays, 3-5pm; weekends, 10am5pm. Open Columbus Day, 11am-5pm. Four-acre pumpkin patch, pumpkin launcher, 7-acre corn maze, pony rides, petting zoo, hayrides, face painting, music, and refreshments available on the weekends. Weekdays feature pick-yourown pumpkins and corn maze only. Barnyard buddies on weekends and weekdays. Reservations available for groups and parties.
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Haunted Houses, Corn Mazes, and Pumpkin Activities ›› Research by Jonathan Perry
Whether you’re looking for something spooky or just outdoor fall fun this Halloween season, these haunted houses, corn mazes, pumpkin blazes, and autumn activities in New York are sure to make this Halloween one to remember.
Pumpkin Park at Adventureland 2245 Broad Hollow Road (Route 110), Farmingdale 631-694-6868; adventureland.us Sick of haunted houses? Visit Pumpkin Park for haunted train rides instead: one for children of all ages, and a scarier version for teens and adults. Bonus: Your kids can enjoy free trick-or-treating in the park, and unlimited admission bracelets to use on other rides during the day.
Chamber of Horrors NY 1745 Express Drive N., Hauppauge 855-227-6384; chamberofhorrorsny.com Great for groups (you can buy tickets in advance for specific dates and times) and younger children: This haunted house offers family days, during which costumed guides provide tours of the house with the lights on and without spooky noises. Bring your camera for a memorable posttour photo with your guide!
Those with young children can visit the daytime corn maze on Schmitt’s Family Farm; older kids who scare less easily should opt for Schmitt’s Haunt, which offers a mansion, stage show, and nighttime corn maze. All are haunted by a doctor, who ‘lives’ at the farm and became possessed after he was given a book of ancient texts by a former patient.
Harbes Family Farm 715 Sound Ave., Mattituck 631-298-0800; harbesfamilyfarm.com The corn maze at this farm is Robin Hood-themed: You’ll find archery and sword-fighting equipment in it that will help you on your way to defeat the Sherriff’s Champion. Your kids will delight in meeting the characters that guide you in your travels, which should take approximately 35 minutes to complete.
RISE of the Jack O’Lanterns 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury 516-252-3392; therise.org With five locations (Old Westbury; Secaucus, NJ; Boston, MA; Los Angeles, CA; and Pomona, CA), this event features more than 5,000 hand-carved glowing pumpkins and live celebrity carving artists. Follow the 1/3-mile-long jack-o’-lantern walking trail made extra festive with an original Halloweenthemed musical score. Look out for a 50-foot dragon comprised entirely of pumpkins, plus safari-themed creations at this year’s event.
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Wantagh Halloween Haunted House 1632 Wantagh Ave., Wantagh 516-804-9047 In lieu of admission, this haunted house accepts food, personal care items, and/or pet food donations to Long Island Cares. Come in costume for the haunted house; stay for the Halloween party and spook walk on haunted trails. Bayville Scream Park 8 Bayville Ave., Bayville 516-624-7433; bayvillescreampark.com Amusement park enthusiasts will want to take advantage of unlimited one- and twoday passes to the scream park, featuring tamer versions of the park’s nighttime haunted houses. Other fun activities include the tombstone treasure hunt, storytelling, and Halloween arts and crafts.
NEW YORK CITY Queens Queens County Farm Museum 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park 718-347-3276; queensfarm.org This ‘maize’ maze is produced by the American Maze Company—its first three corn mazes made it into the Guinness Book of World Records. Arrive early for the ‘stalk talk,’ which features puzzlesolving tips to prepare you and your kids for the challenge of navigating the 3-acre labyrinth.
Halloween Harvest Festival 32-01 Sculpture Park at Broadway, Long Island City 718-956-1819 socratessculpturepark.org At this free event, make your own Halloween costume, dance to live music, get crafty with art projects, ghoul up with some spooky face paint, and enjoy locally harvested treats! Got a cute canine that loves to dress up in costume? Enter them in the Annual Juried Canine Costume Contest. Rockaway Fall Festival Bay 32nd Street and Beach Channel Drive, Rockaway 718-318-4000 Now in its 10th year, this (free!) festival offers a pumpkin patch, pony and hayrides, and other seasonal entertainment.
Brooklyn Gravesend Inn Haunted Hotel 186 Jay St., DUMBO 718-260-5588 gravesendinn.org Produced by City Tech’s theatrical troupe, Theatreworks, as its annual fall production, this visually stunning haunted house is high-tech as well; sensors react to visitors’ movements. Luna Park Halloween Harvest 1000 Surf Ave., Coney Island 718-373-5862; lunaparknyc.com Not only can you see one of NYC’s largest pumpkins here (and win up to $1,000 if you guess its weight!), you can pick and paint a (smaller) pumpkin of your own to take home, or enter a carving competition. Other offerings include a dog costume parade and free trick-or-treating. Ghouls and Gourds, Brooklyn Botanic Garden 150 Eastern Parkway, Prospect Heights 718-623-7200; bbg.org While pumpkin-related crafts are involved, there’s so much to do at this annual 6-hour celebration you might end up
skipping them. Enjoy book signings from renowned authors and illustrators, waltz with woodland creatures, and witness a flying flea circus. Costumes are essential: You’ll want to wear them to the day’s closing parade.
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Museum of Natural History 21st Annual Halloween Celebration Central Park West at 79th St., Upper West Side 212-769-5100; amnh.org Technically this isn’t a haunted house, but we’ll let that slide: It’s a chance to experience the Halloween version one of NYC’s most iconic buildings. Magic, zombie shows, origami, and trick-or-treating are some of the top attractions; be sure to say hello to Clifford and Curious George if you see them roaming the halls! Central Park Conservancy Halloween Parade and Pumpkin Sail 14 E. 60th St., Upper East Side 212-310-6600; centralparknyc.org After pre-registering for your ‘flotilla,’ bring your pre-carved pumpkin or jack-o’-lantern for a sunset journey across the Harlem Meer (Note: Arrive early before it reaches capacity!). Other festive activities include spooky mask making and live carving demonstrations, as well as arts and crafts. Haunted High Line Halloween West 14th Street to West 17th Street, Chelsea 212-206-9922; thehighline.org The haunted house at this event is actually a haunted train tunnel, created by puppet master Ralph Lee (Fun fact: Lee is responsible for turning the Greenwich Village Halloween Parade from a community event to the festival of today). Other memorable events include meeting ghosts from the West Side’s industrial past, and creating kites out of fears to be set free.
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What kids need to know to earn their first paycheck. By Katelin Walling
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rowing up, if I wanted something that wasn’t necessary (makeup, UGG boots, CDs, my pet rat and all the proper accouterments), I had to buy it with my own money. I also knew from an early age that I would be responsible for paying for my college education while my parents would pay for room and board. (Mom and Dad decided this as a way to guarantee all of their kids would attend classes and do well in school—they figured that if my brothers and I were paying for our own education, we wouldn’t waste it.) Since my brothers and I didn’t get a weekly allowance to buy the unnecessary items we wanted, I took a job the first chance I could. My first job was delivering newspapers when I was in fourth or fifth grade, and I began babysitting when I turned 12 (only on the weekends!). Other positions I held were as a janitor at the church my family attended, a housekeeper for an inn during the summer, a newspaper carrier (again), a waitress in a retirement community’s dining room, and a waitress at a Mexican-Irish restaurant. And that was all before earning my high school diploma. So I know a thing or two about working as a teenager. There are a lot of options available, but also a lot of rules and regulations specific to teens younger than 18 in the workplace. If your teen wants to start earning his own money, where to start? Here is our best advice.
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There are a variety of options available to those ages 16 and older (some are even available for tweens and younger teens)—just make sure to check the state’s child labor laws to see what jobs minors can legally hold and whether they need working papers, as well as how many hours per week and what times of day they can work. Our top choices for first jobs for teens include: Babysitting: There are a plethora of sources for teens to find families who need sitters, first and foremost family connections and word-of-mouth. The two families I primarily sat for in middle school were my first-grade teacher and one of my dad’s coworkers. Other sources available now for finding families are sites such as UrbanSitter.com, HelloSitter.com, Sitter.me, and SitterCity.com. An option for younger kids is being a mother or father’s helper— someone who is there to occupy the kids while Mom or Dad is trying to get work done in the house. One thing I did to ensure my preparedness for caring for children was to take an American Red Cross Babysitter Training course, which teaches 11- to 15-year-olds basic child care and first aid skills, as well as how to keep everyone safe and help children behave.
Camp counselor: For those teens who went to summer camp as a kid and wish they could go back after they age out, being a counselor at a sleepaway or day camp is the perfect option. According to a 2012 Economic Impact Report conducted on behalf of the American Camp Association, 7,000 camp programs in the Northeast employed a total of 190,000 people, with the majority of those seasonal jobs being held by 16- to 24-year-olds. Bonus: Teens will learn valuable skills such as communication, teamwork, leadership, responsibility, time management, and problem-solving. Dog walker: Whether a neighbor needs someone to walk Fido occasionally for a few extra bucks, or your teen wants to make dog-walking a full-fledged part-time job (heck, some people in NYC are able to make a living by walking dogs), this task gets your kids active outside. Plus, if you’re thinking of getting a family pooch, this is good practice for a tween to see what goes into the care of a dog. Food service: There are a variety of jobs in the food service industry, from scooping ice cream at the local shop to making cappuccinos and lattes in the neighborhood café to any of the jobs in a restaurant, including busser, dishwasher, host or hostess, server, or bartender. Note: The minimum age to serve alcohol in New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut is 18. Landscaping: From mowing lawns to raking leaves to shoveling driveways and sidewalks in the neighborhood, this is a sure-fire way for tweens and teens to earn some cash. Kids: Just make sure you ask your parents for permission before you push their mower around the neighborhood! Lifeguard: Another (mainly) summer option, teens as young as 15 (some facilities require teens to be at least 16) can take the American Red Cross Lifeguarding course to learn to recognize and respond to aquatic emergencies and provide care until EMS personnel arrive. Lifeguarding locations include local pools, beaches, amusement parks, and water parks. Paper routes: I had paper routes a couple of times when I was growing up, my first in elementary school in a nearby neighborhood and my second in eighth grade in a neighborhood near school so I could walk there after school. I earned a small fee each week, but the real money was in weekly or monthly tips from subscribers—and especially during the holidays. Check with your town’s paper to see if it has any opportunities available.
must obtain working papers to document where they are working—and to make sure the minors and employers know the limits of the laws. In New York, a minor first needs to get an application from her local public high school or school district office. (NYC residents need to visit their local public high school.) After the minor fills out the form, a parent or guardian must sign it. In addition, the minor needs proof of age (birth certificate) and a written statement from a doctor, nurse practitioner, or physician assistant saying he is physically fit to work. Once the minor has all the necessary documentation, she needs to bring the application back to the high school, and working papers can be issued on the spot, according to the New York State Department of Labor (labor.ny.gov). I credit my strong work ethic as an adult to my early entry into the workforce—yes, even though it was only a paper route. It taught me responsibility, reliability, time management, and following through with a commitment. It also taught me the value of a dollar at an early age. Yes, I may have wanted the expensive Levi’s, but I didn’t need them when the much-cheaper jeans from Old Navy worked just as well. When I did want something (like those aforementioned UGG boots), I saved my hard-earned money to pay for them myself—and I wore those ruby-colored slipper-like shoes until they had holes in the soles to get my money’s worth. For some, their first job sparks an interest that leads to their future career. I delivered papers, which got me interested in journalism and led me to publishing; a friend mowed lawns and now owns a landscaping company. But for many, the first job was a way to earn money on their way to success. If you follow #FirstSevenJobs, you know that Tony Goldwyn (President Fitzgerald Grant on Scandal) was a farm hand; LinManuel Miranda (creator of Broadway’s Hamilton) worked the slushee machine at his aunt’s store; Stephen Colbert worked in construction; and astronaut Buzz Aldrin was a dish washer. Even First Daughters aren’t off the hook: the Boston Herald reported that Sasha Obama worked at a restaurant in Martha’s Vineyard over the summer. So… What’s your teen’s first job going to be?
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Retail: From stocking the shelves at the grocery store to folding clothes at Gap to staffing a register at Target, there are a number of opportunities at local and big-box retail stores for teens. Bonus: Some stores offer discounts for employees—teens just need to make sure they don’t spend their whole paycheck before it gets to their savings account!
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Child Labor Laws may vary from state to state, but for the most part, they all limit the number of hours minors can work daily and weekly, and during what time of day they can work. Some laws even limit what types of jobs minors can hold. In order to uphold these laws, minors who wish to work
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Bright and colorful, this fresh recipe makes a delicious light supper. It’s a good weekend brunch dish, too, which you could serve topped with a poached egg for each person. Serves 4 Ingredients 3 eggs ¾ cup plain/all-purpose flour 1 tsp. baking powder ½ cup crème fraîche 1 cup canned sweetcorn 1 bunch of coriander/cilantro, chopped A small bunch of spring onions/scallions, sliced 1 tbsp. canola oil, for frying Sea salt Freshly ground black pepper Lime wedges, to serve
For the Salsa 4 tomatoes, diced 1 red onion, diced 1 ripe avocado, peeled, pitted and diced 1 red chili, deseeded and finely chopped 1 garlic clove, crushed Juice of 1 lime 2 tbsp. olive oil NOTE: If you’re following glutenfree diet, simply replace the flour with a gluten-free blend, which will work just as well.
Directions 1. Start off by making the pancake batter. Place the eggs, flour, baking powder, crème fraîche, and two-thirds of the sweetcorn in a blender. Blend for approximately 30 seconds until smooth. Tip the batter into a bowl and then stir in the remaining sweetcorn, half of the coriander/cilantro, the spring onions/scallions, and a
Cod, Green Bean, and Cherry Tomato Parcels Baked in a parcel, this delicate fish retains all of its moisture while taking on plenty of flavor from the other ingredients. Serve with tender new, salad potatoes, which will soak up all of the cooking juices when crushed with the back of your fork. Serves 4 Ingredients 7oz French beans 4 cod fillets (each approximately 4-5 oz.) 4 small bunches of cherry tomatoes (each with approximately 5-6 tomatoes)
Olive oil, for drizzling ½ lemon 1 tbsp. pine nuts 16 basil leaves ¾ cup white wine Sea salt Freshly ground black pepper
Directions 1. Preheat the oven to 375°F. 2. Cut four pieces of baking parchment large enough to form a parcel for each piece of cod. 3. Place the green beans in equal piles in the middle of each piece of paper. 44
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pinch of salt. Leave to one side while you make the salsa. 2. To make the salsa, combine the tomatoes, onion, avocado, chili, and garlic in a bowl. Add the lime juice, olive oil, and some salt and pepper. Stir well and then add most of the remaining chopped coriander/cilantro. (If you have any extra sweetcorn left you can add this to the salsa, too.) 3. To cook the pancakes, heat 1 tbsp. canola oil in a frying pan and when sizzling, drop in 2–3 large tablespoons of batter at a time, letting each spread out to form small round pancakes. Cook for approximately 2 minutes, then flip over to cook for a further 2 minutes, until nicely golden brown. Keep the pancakes warm while you cook the rest of the batter. 4. Once all of the pancakes are cooked, top with the salsa and the remaining coriander/cilantro. Serve with wedges of lime to squeeze over.
4. Lay the cod fillets on top of each pile, followed by a bunch of cherry tomatoes. Drizzle each with a little olive oil, followed by a squeeze of lemon juice, and a few pine nuts. Tear each basil leaf in half before placing them on top. Season with salt and pepper. 5. Partially seal the parcels by twisting the edges of the paper together at both ends so that when you add the white wine it won’t leak out. Pour the wine into the parcels, then finish sealing the edges and top of the parcels and place them on a baking sheet. 6. Bake in the middle of the oven for 15 minutes until the fish is cooked through and the vegetables are tender. When you’re ready to serve, lift the whole parcels onto the plates, open the edges and dive in.
From ‘Healthy Speedy Suppers’ by Katriona MacGregor © Nourish Books 2016, photography by Heathcliff O’Malley.
Sweetcorn Pancakes with Avocado Salsa
From ‘Healthy Speedy Suppers’ by Katriona MacGregor © Nourish Books 2016, photography by Andrew Crowley.
As the school-year schedule kicks into high gear, cooking balanced meals can seem too time-consuming. Here are three healthy recipes that can each be made in 20 minutes. By Katriona MacGregor
From ‘Healthy Speedy Suppers’ by Katriona MacGregor © Nourish Books 2016, photography by Andrew Crowley.
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Beef Stir-Fry with Green Peppers Taking a minute or two to make your own stir-fry sauce is really worth it. Not only will the result be fresher and tastier than anything you squeeze out of a packet, you can play around with the ingredients and adjust the seasonings to suit your own tastes. To this quite basic recipe, you could also add black-eyed beans, mangetout/snow peas, mushrooms, or pak choi/bok choy in place of, or as well as, the vegetables listed. Don’t worry if you don’t have a wok, just use a large frying pan; the key is to cook quickly over a high heat without the ingredients being crowded. Frida
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For one NYC father, the job of his dreams means living apart from his wife and kids for much of the year. The couple tells us how they make it work. By Bethany Braun-Silva
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aseball season is coming to an end, and that means it’s time for Queens native Anthony Iapoce, hitting coach for the Texas Rangers, to finally return home to his family here in New York. Anthony fulfilled his lifelong dream of working in Major League Baseball when he was hired by the Rangers last fall. However, the job requires him to be with his team for long stretches of time. His wife, Suzanne, was accustomed to him traveling for work—including stints in the Chicago Cubs and Florida Marlins organizations—but this was the first time they faced a long-term separation. Somehow over the past year, the Iapoces were still able to buy a home, have a second baby—and there’s a third on the way now, too—and look completely unfazed (at least on the outside) by these major life events. I know the family personally—our kids went to school together, and I am friends with Suzanne—and I can attest to the fact that the Iapoces make living apart look easy, although it obviously is not. I talked to them about how they keep it all together and manage work and family time while one spouse lives away from home.
Making It Work
Suzanne and Anthony Iapoce met as kids growing up in Queens. Their mothers were very good friends, so they found themselves drifting in and out of each other’s lives as they got older. Anthony made a career for himself in baseball and traveled quite a bit as a result, and it was through the help of Facebook that he and Suzanne were finally able to make a romantic connection. Cut to a few years later, and they are now married with two beautiful daughters, 4-year-old Lily and Abby, who turns 1 this month, and a baby due in the spring. Anthony says even though he’s achieved his personal goal of working in the Major Leagues, what’s more important to him is being a great dad—and that balance takes a bit of figuring out. The key to making it all work is “great family and friends,” he says, and for the Iapoces, that includes Suzanne’s parents, who took Lily to and from school every day last year. When Anthony is away, the family uses FaceTime frequently, allowing Lily to connect with her dad by talking to him and showing him artwork and pictures from school. Since welcoming Abby in the fall, the family has been faced with the expected challenges that come along with having a new baby 46
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and being a family of four. This put extra pressure on Suzanne, who also worked full-time as teacher. “I remember being worried about my girls, thinking, How am I going to pick up the slack?,” she says. “Anthony is such a hands-on, active dad, even when he’s not there. He’s so engaged with them and so present with them, and his presence is extremely powerful, so I was worried about picking up the slack of him being absent.” For Suzanne, taking on double duty as a parent meant letting other chores go, at least temporarily. For one thing, the selfproclaimed “neat freak” chose to let dishes pile up in the sink in exchange for some quality time with her girls, which she says was well worth it.
Hometown Home Base
One of the biggest decisions the Iapoce’s faced upon receiving the news of Anthony’s new job was where to live. After some back and forth, they made the decision to keep their home in New York and not move to Texas. Anthony has been with four organizations during the past 10 years, so the family would be faced with potentially frequent moves if they relocated every time he took a new position. Plus, he travels with the Rangers, so the couple figured it would be best to keep the girls and Suzanne near their family in New York. “We decided to stay with our support system,” Suzanne says. “My parents are here and they are so active in our daughter’s lives, and it was important for us to be near them.” Even with Anthony being away, the couple managed to purchase their first home this summer. With some creative scheduling, Anthony was able to make it to the closing, and the Iapoces were
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able to check off another important milestone for their family. Suzanne and the girls spent the rest of the summer traveling to Anthony’s games. “Taking the opportunity to travel to him as much as possible is what we are going to be doing to make it work, we are learning as we go with this baseball life,” she says.
Anthony is a testament to what working hard and never giving up will get you. As a kid in Queens, he never stopped playing baseball, which included teams at St. Joseph’s Elementary School in Astoria and St. Joseph’s Catholic Youth Organization, and then in high school at Monsignor McClancy Memorial High School. He continued in college and transitioned to the Minor League, but the goal was always the Big League, Anthony says. When the Rangers came calling, Anthony and the family were excited, but he knew he was going to have to be away more than before and that was always in the back of his mind. “It’s tough because as far as a personal goal, like where I’ve wanted to be my whole life, this is it, but now it’s also that I want to be a great dad,” he says. “So I’m trying to figure out how to balance that.” Anthony hopes that this fulfillment of a lifelong dream will inspire his girls to pursue their own passions. “The thing with Lily and Abby is trying to show them that you can get to where you want to get, you just got to keep going and believe in yourself,” he says. When it comes to his girls he wants them to “believe that anything is possible.” With the Rangers holding a comfortable lead in their division as of our press time and widely expected to go deep into the playoffs, Anthony’s return home is likely to be delayed a bit this year—albeit for all the right reasons. Still, he, along with Suzanne and the children, look forward to spending some time living in the same place for a while, until it’s time for Anthony to head back to work for next season.
Abby and Lily Iapoce sport Texas Rangers gear.
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