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September 2016 ›› Features 16 Cute Kids Meet the winner of our cover contest, and the rest of the finalists 18 Filling the Gap Taking a year off between high school and college can set teens up for a lifetime of success 20 Calming the Chaos of the Cafeteria How to get kids to eat a healthy lunch while chatting with friends 24 Should Your Kid Play Contact Sports? New policies are being put into place to reduce the risk of concussions in children

48 Healing Powers What it’s like to provide your child with medical marijuana in New York

Connections 6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Quotables 14 Voices: Learning to let go 15 NYMP Q&A: Walker Lamond shares ‘pearls of wisdom’ for fatherhood

Fun & Activities 12 Media Matters: Screen-Time Recommendations 12 DIY Corner: Sail boat for imaginary play 26 Outing: New York City Fire Museum 29 Family Activities Calendar 40 Where-To Guide: Pick Your Own Apples

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SEPTEMBER 2016 • Vol.8 • No.4

NYMetroParents Publications EDITORIAL

EDITOR’S NOTE

EDITORIAL DIRECTOR: Michael Kress

New Beginnings, Emotional Transitions

ike many parents, I feel unprepared for a new school year to begin, and less than eager to restart the cycle of lunch prep and hustling out the door every morning. Really, though, this feeling is less about the hassle and more about being forced to confront the very clear fact that my babies are no longer babies. Our youngest, not yet out of diapers and still sleeping in a crib, begins nursery school this month, while my middle daughter will be in kindergarten, starting the transition away from play-based learning to more traditional schooling. And my oldest, still so young in my mind, starts fourth grade, when, I am told, the work gets more intense and the pace quicker. Sunrise, sunset, indeed; those years certainly do swiftly fly. And so I look to parents who have older kids with a mix of awe and curiosity. How do we encourage our not-so-little ones to grow into independent people and not inadvertently stand in their way? Dana Greenberg offers her own perspective on letting go of her middle-school-age daughter and teaching her to navigate NYC streets by herself (p. 14). Meanwhile, any of you whose kids are entering their senior year of high school are contemplating a whole new level of letting go. Decisions about next year will likely consume much of your attention the next few months. But even as today’s seniors apply to and choose their colleges, many will be opting to delay actually starting that school for one year. Find out why so many grads are taking a so-called “gap year,” what they’re doing during that time—and why many experts are encouraging it (p. 18). Meanwhile, my family—and many of yours, I am sure—will be focused on more mundane matters, such as the aforementioned lunch prep. Despite the care I give to my kids’ meals, I’ve found pieces of my daughters’ lunches coming home uneaten, not because they weren’t hungry, but because they didn’t have time to finish. Besides eating, lunch provides valuable, much-needed social time for our kids, and we’ve got tips on how to ensure your kids can eat and gab during their fleeting cafeteria moments (p. 20). Lastly, an invitation to join Long Island Parent for an event that promises to be great fun for everyone. LI FamFest, taking place on Sept. 17 at Long Island University’s Pratt Recreation Center, is a day of kid-focused fun—think face painting, arts and crafts, a rope obstacle course, live reptiles, and plenty of snacks (and snack making). While the little ones have a blast, the grown-ups will have a chance to plan the year ahead, with more than 100 exhibitors, such as after-school programs, birthday party venues, and much more. See lifamfest.com for more info and to register. See you there, and may everyone have a happy and smooth start to the 2016-17 school year!

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Children’s Entertainment Center Offers Sensory Friendly Facilities Who: Safari Adventure What’s New: The play space, which has been refinished, now includes arcade games and inflatables as well as a sensory calming spa, a room with dim LED lighting and calming music for children who may get overstimulated by loud noises and bright environments. The room also includes a hands-on sensory table, weighted blankets, and other hands-on sensory toys such as a train table and a Lego table. Summer camps and movie nights are also offered. Socks are required. Want More Info: 1074 Pulaski St., Riverhead; 631-727-4386; thesafariadventure.com The Safari Adventure Facilities

Who: The Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium What’s New: Fishing birthday parties during which partygoers ages 4 and older can fish for 45 minutes, catch-and-release only. The parties can occur year-round, rain or shine, and two experienced staff members will be on-hand to guide all attendees. Fishing poles and bait are provided. Parties can only be scheduled from 3:30-5pm and cannot be scheduled on the weekends from June-August. Following the fishing portion, the facility will provide pizza, soda, and goodie bags for each guest. Want More Info: 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor, 516-692-6768; cshfishhatchery.org

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Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery Now Offering Fishing Birthday Parties

Guests try their hand at fishing at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery.

Who: Prime Time Early Learning Center What’s New: Enrichment programs, including Spanish enrichment, art, and Zumba for students ages 18 months and older. Director Michelle Friedman says the art enrichment program is perhaps the most exciting for young ones. Students will be able to fully exercise their freedom of expression in this messy art program. Smocks keep the kids clean as they “have a grand old time just making a mess creating something, taking it home and being proud of it,” Friedman says. Call to register. Want More Info: 270 Airport Plaza, Farmingdale; 631-777-9090; primetimeschools.com/farmingdale-day-care

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Early Learning Center Adds Enrichment Programs to Fall Curriculum

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UOTABLES The days are hot, hot, hot; and the house is stale and messy. I am often reminded in its state something my neighbor said to me one afternoon, after I apologized for our home’s condition: ‘You are living. That’s what this is.’ —NYC mom Latonya Yvette in a post entitled “Motherhood Right Now” on her blog blog.latonyayvette.com

in an instagram He couldn’t wait to get on and he claimed the frog right away. His eyes were big and he kept throwing his head back and looking up at the lights, bopping his head to the carrousel music. Then as soon as he got off he asked if there was a roller coaster in the park he could ride next. #boys (Posted by Manhattan mom @lilliesandleon, aka Nicole Gonzalez, who blogs at lilliesandleon.com)

PARENTING AFRICAN-AMERICAN BOYS “I see my fellow black moms hurting. I’m hurting. I see my non-black friends hurting. And I see those who are keeping silent.”

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—Long Island mom Kimberly Thomas, who runs the blog valleystreammom.com in an essay on entitled “At What Age Will My Son Become a Threat?” Read it all at nymetroparents. com/kimberly-thomas

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“It’s okay to be scared. If we aren’t terrified about some of the things we need to do as we learn how to be a parent, we aren’t parenting well enough.” —Manhattan dad Pete Cataldo, who runs the website daddymindtricks.com, in a Huffington Post article entitled “5 Thoughts On The First Year Of Fatherhood”

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Media Matters: TV

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Recommended Age: 3+ H H H H

These delightful YouTube shorts have quality content for tots.

Screen-Time Recommendations

Elena of Avalor (Disney Junior)

Recommended Age: 5+ H H H H

The spunky Latina-inspired princess is an excellent role model.

The Loud House (Nickelodeon)

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This funny commentary on big-family dynamics has kind messages.

The Deep (Netflix)

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This fantastic family-focused adventure explores the vast ocean.

In Theaters Sept. 23: Storks

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Parents need to know that Storks takes a common explanation for where babies come from and expands it into a feature-length animated film. But in this universe, storks are getting out of the baby-delivery business and moving into package delivery for a large internet retailer. Junior (voiced by Andy Samberg) is all set to receive a huge promotion from the CEO of Stork Mountain (Kelsey Grammar), when he accidentally turns on the Baby Making Machine to produce a single baby girl. With the help of his human friend, Tulip (Katie Crown), Junior must get rid of baby—maybe by delivering her to the boy who wrote to him about wanting a new brother or sister?—before his job ends up in jeopardy. Given the subject matter, expect some innuendo that could go over younger kids’ heads.

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DIY CORNER IMAGINARY PLAY

Hello, Sailor!

After a fresh batch of laundry is fluffed and folded, take your basket to the high seas. What you’ll need: • 1 40-inch stick or dowel • 1 18-inch stick or dowel • Thin cotton rope • 1 24-by-18-inch piece of fabric or bed sheet • Scissors • Hot-glue gun (optional) • Fabric scraps • 1 laundry basket 1. To make the mast and the boom, cross the short stick perpendicularly over the long stick approximately 24 inches down from one end and wrap the joint, making figure eights back and forth around the sticks, with approximately 2 feet of cotton rope. 2. To make the sail, cut your piece of fabric in half diagonally. Place the right corner of the sail where the mast and the boom meet. For a quick assembly, have an adult hot-glue the fabric edges to the mast and the boom, or tie your sail on: Use your scissors to poke holes every 3 inches along the two perpendicular edges of the fabric, approximately 1 inch in from the edge. Cut 4-inch pieces of rope and thread them through the holes and around the sticks.

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3. Cut an 80-inch piece of rope and then tie strips of fabric scraps you might have every 3-5 inches along the rope. Tie the rope to the top of the mast, and let it hang down. 4. Use rope to tie the mast to the side of the basket, securing it through the holes in at least two places. Excerpted from Project Kid: Crafts That Go! by Amanda Kingloff (Artisan Books). Copyright © 2016. Photographs by Alexandra Grablewski and Amanda Kingloff

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cannot believe that my little girl is starting eighth grade, her final year of middle school. Where has the time gone? The days when I would tag along on the walk to school in the mornings are just about over. I may have squeezed my last “I’ll take you and your friends for pizza” out of her. I can only hope I have done my job and prepared her well for the road on which we are now embarking. When my daughter was going into sixth grade, just starting middle school, parents of older children in New York City told me that many kids start traveling alone, without an adult, sometime during the middle school years. The thought of this absolutely terrified me: the strangers, the cars, the bikers. I knew I had to start preparing her to navigate the streets without me by her side. In the beginning of sixth grade I made a very conscious effort to start making her aware of everything I could think of on the route to school—and even scare her a little bit. We discussed which streets had turning signals, what side of the street the liquor store is on, how to wait until the bikers stop before crossing the street, and so much more. I did this over and over and over again for months, just like a broken record. Finally it was time to let her guide the way. “Tell me what to do, when to cross, where to stand,” I told her. By the end of the sixth grade, she was walking home from school without an adult. As we moved to seventh grade, I suspected she would have even more of a zest for independence. To that point, she’d only gone to and from school by herself. Now she wanted to go to friends’ apartments, the movies, the frozen yogurt shop. How was I going to deal with this? I really needed to think about the next steps. Since she was not necessarily going to be staying in our neighborhood, we talked about the choices of transportation in the city—buses, subways, Ubers. There are so many options, but we needed to figure out what would make us both feel safe and comfortable. I got her the Uber app for her phone, and I make

sure she always has a MetroCard with funds on it. We both agreed that walking should be her first choice if the distance is not too far. We talked about safe places she could duck into if she ever felt it was necessary for any reason at all, such as Starbucks, Duane Reade, or CVS, places with which she is familiar and are very easy to find. She assured me, “Mom, I can do this. I’ll be fine.” I must admit, her confidence was somewhat reassuring; however, deep down, I was dying just a little bit. She was still my little girl, and I would worry no matter what. We did tons of talking and prepping. Then one day, it was time for her to go use all of her newfound knowledge and be a big kid with her friends. Even today, I still remind her before she leaves the house to make sure her phone is fully charged and that her tracker app is on. “No texting while walking, don’t stand too close to the curb, and be careful of those bikers,” I remind her as I watch her walk down the hall to the elevator. I typically get a cute smirk in return. As time goes on, I admit, it does get a little easier—but just a little easier—to watch her walk out the door. As hard as it is to watch this independence sprouting right in front of my eyes, I have found an upside to all of this. I no longer have to take her everywhere. I don’t have to drag her brother out in the rain to pick her up from a friend’s apartment. I can even send her down to the supermarket to pick up a few things for me. This independence thing might not be so bad after all! As my city kid now starts her last year of middle school, I feel almost as confident as she does when she is out and about on her own or with her friends. I must remind myself that I have done my job and taught her to make smart choices. I can’t be with her every second, so I must trust that she has listened and paid attention along the way. She has come a long way since starting middle school. I will continue to let go, even while still trying to hold on to her, a little bit at a time.

Dana Greenberg is a mom of twins living in Manhattan. Dana’s site theautismclub.com was created as a way to connect moms who have kids with special needs, like her son Jack—who has autism—and offer them a space to tell their stories.

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Rules to Live By ›› By Bethany Braun

Walker Lamond’s first book, Rules for My Unborn Son was based on his blog of a similar name. He recently released a follow-up, Rules for My Newborn Daughter, in which he shares hilarious “pearls of wisdom” such as, “Don’t pawn your grandmother’s jewelry” and “Practice safe selfies.”

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Do you have a favorite rule or piece of parenting advice? For you? Your kids? I think I come from the paint-inside-the-lines school of parenting. I tell my kids that if you’re the kind of person that respects dress codes and knows what the little fork is for, you’ll be given more liberty to be the life of the party. As a parent I just have to remind myself every day to be patient, kind, and silly. And not throw shoes. Do your kids follow these rules? I’m lucky if they leave the house with shoes. Have you experienced a difference in parenting boys vs. girls? Universally? No, I don’t think so. Kids learn from your example. Which is why I probably use these books more as manuals for being a better dad than I do as rulebooks for raising better kids. That being said, my son is way more susceptible to bribes. Do you think parents should collect their own sets of rules for their kids? Absolutely! These books were imagined as conversations with my own kids and are specific to my own experiences growing up. There’s plenty in there that some parents will disagree with, and I love it when readers give the rules their own spin or take to Twitter to tell me how wrong I am. I think writing down your own rules for your kids is a great way not just to keep your little angels in line, but also to pass down your own experiences and institutional knowledge about how to live a fun, fulfilling life. How was writing the book for your daughter different than writing it for your son? When I started Rules for My Newborn Daughter, I did have a nagging concern that it may not be appropriate for a man to be doling out advice to a young woman. I mean if I wanted my daughter to grow into a strong, independent woman unafraid to challenge traditional power structures and gender stereotypes, handing her a book full of rules written by a man didn’t seem like the best way to start her journey. But I think a dad has a right and a duty to tell his daughter what he expects of her. To share with her what he knows about life and how to make the best of it. And while I might not know even a fraction of what it takes to become an independent, intelligent, courteous, courageous, honest, adventurous, self-reliant, well-read, well-dressed, well-mannered young woman, I do know someone who does. Thankfully, I married her.

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Cute Kids!

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Meet the winner of our 2016 cover contest, and take a look at all eight finalists.

rom April to June the staff here at NYMetroParents had the hard job of picking eight finalists from hundreds of adorable entries. Once we were able to narrow it down, the finalists traveled from all across the New York metro area to meet for a photo shoot at PhotoOp NYC. The finalists wore their best smiles and some seriously stylish clothes and had a blast shooting with the studio’s awesome photographers. The kids did a great job posing for the camera, but at the end of the day it was 3-year-old Carter from Suffolk County who was selected as the Grand Prize Winner. Carter and his family will enjoy a weekend trip to Great Wolf Lodge to celebrate his big win! Each finalist received a $25 gift card from Appaman, who also provided most of the clothes for the shoot, and a New York CityPASS ticket book. Plus, our fan favorite, Konstancja from Brooklyn, received a family fourpack of tickets to Sesame Place in Langhorne, PA. You’ll get to see more of these smiling cuties in the coming months. Thank you to everyone who helped make this contest a success, especially our sponsor, Barbizon.

Carter

Age: 3 Hometown: Suffolk County

GRAND PRIZE WINNER

Genesis

Age: 8 Hometown: Fairfield County, CT

Ryan

Angelina

Age: 13 Hometown: Nassau County

Age: 6 Hometown: Manhattan

Lucas

Age: 5 Hometown: Queens

Emma

Age: 10 Hometown: Rockland County

Angelina C.

Age: 4 Hometown: Westchester County

Konstancja

Age: 7 Hometown: Brooklyn

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Filling the Gap

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Many high school graduates are opting to take a year “off” before starting college. But far from doing nothing, they are participating in programs and gaining experiences that set them up for success in college and provide a lifetime of benefits. By Lauren Diaz New York City native and Columbia University graduate David Hamburger (left) volunteered for a nonprofit called Pencils of Promise during his gap year. He traveled on behalf of the organization to visit rural schools in northern Laos.

hen Malia Obama announced her decision to defer her acceptance to Harvard University for a year, she became the poster child for a growing trend. The Associated Press reports that Malia is one of an estimated 30,000-40,000 students each year who choose to take an academic break before attending college—a number that is steadily rising, according to the American Gap Association, which tracks this data. After spending 13 years in the educational system, many students are now electing to take a year off from school to do a variety of activities and programs—known as a gap year—and are coming back to start college with a new perspective and maturity. There are many options for those looking for a rewarding, meaningful gap year, including travel or study abroad and volunteering or working here in the United States in virtually any setting imaginable. When many of us imagine gap years, we tend to think of expensive programs abroad or at sea, but many teens opt for volunteering or working instead. Students can either invest money in a program or spend the time gaining work experience and saving money for tuition. When it comes to managing college applications, they can either apply to college and defer matriculating for a year, or wait to apply during their gap year after mulling it over. There is something formative out there for every student. David Hamburger, a New York City native and Dalton School alumnus, deferred his 2011 admission to The University of Chicago in order to devote himself to a year of service work for 18

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multiple organizations. Hamburger volunteered at Habitat for Humanity during the fall while also working for an educational development nonprofit called Pencils of Promise. As a volunteer at the relatively new organization, Hamburger was given a great amount of responsibility, which led to an internship with its International Programs team in the spring of his gap year. At 18, Hamburger was responsible for spearheading an overhaul of Pencils of Promise’s data storage, supervising four junior interns, and training new hires. After applying to Columbia University during the fall of his gap year, Hamburger was admitted for the fall semester of 2012. By 19, he entered Columbia with a level of real-world work experience practically unheard of for his age.

The Benefits of Taking a Gap Year

While gap years may be relatively new in the broader culture, they have long been a staple of Jewish education, with schools encouraging students to study in Israel for a year before heading to college. Dorothy Denburg, director of college counseling at Heschel High School, a Jewish day school in Manhattan, reports that approximately a third of her students chose to defer college last year. “There are so many options for different structured programs for them,” she says, adding that when she previously worked for a college, 90 percent of the students she saw taking a gap year were Jewish, and most of them had spent their year on a wide variety of programs based in Israel. The motivation, Denburg says, is to “spend a year in Israel but not necessarily in study”

and to “go to college with a year of maturity under your belt,” a sentiment that is quickly gaining ground among students and educators far beyond the Jewish community. A huge benefit of taking a gap year is the life or work experience that comes with it. Contrary to some people’s misperceptions, “it is very often our strongest students who will choose to take a gap year”—not to improve anything specific academically but to foster their own “intellectual and personal growth,” notes Jessica Landis, a guidance counselor at King School, an independent school in Stamford, CT. That includes self-discovery, which can be achieved richly and deeply from gap-year experiences. “It’s so much better if you take time to get to know yourself in a different situation outside of the academic world,” since you “learn so much more about yourself when you’re actually participating as opposed to just sitting in a classroom learning,” says Susan Avery, a guidance counselor at Harvest Collegiate High School, a Manhattan public school. Another, often vital reason to take a gap year is to take a breather. Thinking back to her time working at private schools, Avery says the “level of stress seen on children was astounding.” A gap year is “the single best thing a kid can do for themselves after spending 13 years in school.” Hamburger agrees, adding that it is especially important for students dealing with a physical or mental illness. “One thing I observed at college is how difficult it can be for people that aren’t 100-percent [well] to make it through a semester,” he says, adding that “it paid dividends” for his peers who took time off as a “chance to recharge.”

engaged in during my gap year continued at Columbia,” he says. From his gap year Hamburger attained lifelong friends, a great mentor, the initiative to participate in a future study abroad program, and an established interest in international education. He also considers his work at Pencils of Promise to be “among the most substantial and important work I’ve ever done in my professional life” and believes the experience ultimately led him to attaining his current postgraduate Fulbright-Nehru fellowship.

Formula for a Successful Gap Year

Hamburger argues that in order to have a successful gap year, a teenager must “be devoting him or herself to something he or she is interested in or cares about.” Keep yourself busy, and maintain good communication with your parents, he advises. While he thinks almost everyone would benefit from a gap year, he also believes those students who are able to take initiative, are struggling with an illness, have a “once-in-a-lifetime opportunity,” or are lacking in maturity would glean the most from taking a year off, while those hoping to just take an unstructured vacation would not do as well. Taking a gap year is a highly personal and complicated decision that can only be made by the student. The role of a parent is similar to that of the guidance counselor: listen, guide, and support. Avery points out that we do not even know what Malia Obama is doing with her gap year yet, but “the fact that the Obamas are 100-percent behind their daughter taking an academic breather just truly makes my heart joyful because it sends such an important message that everybody needs to slow the heck down.”

Debunking the Case Against Gap Years

The low number of students taking gap years in years past can in some ways be attributed to societal pressures and common misconceptions. For many high school students, immediate college enrollment seems like the necessary next step in a strict path. There has been an ingrained fear of facing social ridicule and alienation, falling behind, and ultimately failing professionally as a result of taking a year off. Landis says she recognizes many students fear condemnation from their peers but countered that “once those students talk about what their plans are, what they’ll be doing with that time, I think a lot of students actually look back and say ‘Wow. I wish I had considered doing that a little bit more.’” Students tend to fear being left behind, since most of their former classmates will be sophomores while they are in their first years, but “that’s ok,” Landis says. “You have done something equally valuable that will also have a really positive impact on your future.” Avery agrees, saying “there’s no such thing as graduating on time. People just want to know that you went to college.” A huge misconception plaguing high school seniors is the notion that gap years are only for the affluent. “So is money a problem?” Avery says, “Well, no, because you’re not spending. You’re not paying college tuition when you’re on a gap year.” There are certainly students who spend the year in programs for which they need to pay, Avery says, recalling a student who did a semester at sea. But money is not a prerequisite, and there are many tuitionfree ways to spend a productive gap year. For “kids who need to just stop the carousel of academics and jump off and go do something different,” Avery says, “there are always options.” Hamburger personally found no disadvantages in his gap year, saying it was a “tremendous year of growth” that set him up for the “next four years and beyond.” “Legitimately, every activity I

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hances are it’s been a while since you’ve ordered “hot lunch” in the school cafeteria. Whether you send a homepacked lunch with your child or they order lunch, eating in the cafeteria can be overwhelming at first. Coach Mel [Melanie Potock, M.A., CCC-SLP ] had a client who called it the “caféFEAR-ia” because the whole experience was a bit scary for him. Imagine being a brand-new kindergartner, toting your sparkly new Disney princess lunch box down the school hallway, when you turn and enter utter chaos. Older kids tower over you as you cross the sea of tables and try to find where you are supposed to sit for the next 20 minutes. Irritating fluorescent lights flicker while children chatter, teachers clap loudly to insist on silence, and rebellious kids ignore the adult plea and pop potato chip bags open with a bang! Metal lunch boxes clang as hungry tykes unpack a multitude of tins, cartons, juice boxes, and squeezable thingamajigs. The display on the tables is like a giant fire sale. Now picture the typical metal cafeteria table with benches made to fit the average fifth-grader. Your kindergartner’s feet are

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dangling and there’s no backrest. She has to balance while her elbows hunch up practically to shoulder level in order to stabilize herself on the table edge, her little eyes barely able to see past the barrage of sandwich bags and containers spread before her. In an effort to ensure that their kids eat anything at all, well-meaning parents pack lunch boxes filled to the brim, typically with seven to eight different options. She sits and tries to ignore the boy next to her who keeps elbowing her in the ribs as he turns to talk to his friend on the other side of her—and turns back to eat—and then turns back to his friend. By the time she gets out all the containers you’ve packed, plus the juice box straw finally unwrapped and poked hard enough that juice squirts her in the face, five minutes have gone by. She’s holding up her other hand to signal the teacher, “Can you please open this lid?” but there are three other kids who need help first. Meanwhile, that nice girl who played with her at the craft table this morning wants to chat—and she just wants to make friends. Maybe she’ll get a few containers open and swig down that juice, but now her mind is on recess. Here’s the biggest dilemma:

For most kids, their priority during that very quick lunch is to visit with their friends and get a few bites of food in in the process. However, teachers and the parents have a different priority for lunchtime: They want kids to have a nutritious meal so they are well fueled and ready to learn in the afternoon.

Solutions to the Chaos

If your school cafeteria resembles the picture we’ve painted above, and you want to rest assured that your child gets a healthy lunch in her belly, here are six solutions to finding some calm in the chaos: Send one easy-open container plus a drink. Bento boxes are all the rage nowadays. For many families, there is just enough time to get lunches packed and to grab them on the way out the door in the morning. The solution is a one-piece bento with an easyopen lid. Bentos are not as overwhelming as a lunch box filled to the brim with individual plastic bags, containers, and drippy fruit cups with tricky foil lids. Our favorites are EasyLunchboxes (the best-selling lunch-box system on Amazon) and the Yumbox (yumboxlunch.com). Both offer easy-open lids and compartments that are just the right size for kids. The Yumbox can be ordered with different trays that fit inside the box itself. Our favorite tray has five compartments each marked with a food group: Protein, Vegetables, Fruit, Dairy, and Grains to ensure a balanced lunch every time you pack. Pack “grab and gab” food. Cut fresh fruit, veggies, sandwiches, cheese, etc., small enough so that kids can grab a piece without having to look down, and continue to gab with their friends across the table. Using a cookie cutter to create food in a fun shape like a dinosaur keeps the eating on track for some kids. But for kids who tend to eat a sandwich and skip the other items, try cutting the sandwich into small pieces so the child alternates grabbing a variety of foods, much like a mini-smorgasbord. Remember, you don’t need to send a whole sandwich when sending half leaves room in little bellies for other key food groups. Include a power-packed smoothie that you made the night before. Freeze it directly in a cup or Mason jar with a lid and be sure to include a wide straw. Wrap some rubber bands around the continued on next page ››

COACH MEL’S TIP: WHAT’S THE STAR OF YOUR CHILD’S LUNCH? As a speech-language pathologist, I teach the parents engaged in lunch-box dinners with their child to practice this little script: “I’ve got ____ in my lunch!” In all my years of sitting in school cafeterias and listening to young kids, it’s always the first thing they say to each other. It’s their traditional conversation starter, usually accompanied by them proudly holding up the celebrity food—the star of the lunch box. I can attest that I hear just as many kids enthusiastically say, “I have fruit today!” as “I have chips today!” Try for the veggies. It’s really OK—it’s just as cool to have vegetables cut up into stars or other fun shapes so they can announce, “I have CUCUMBER STARS today!” Better yet, get the kids involved packing the lunches and creating fun shapes so they can exclaim, “I made carrot triangles for lunch!”

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Pack a waste-free lunch. A lunch-box system means that you won’t be throwing away plastic bags every day. Use brightly colored cloth napkins and stainless steel water bottles to make lunch even more fun. Use lunch packing as a chance to show kids that they help to reduce, reuse, and recycle. Start weekly lunch-box dinners at home. For kids transitioning to school lunch, introduce once-a-week lunch-box dinners where the entire family pretends to eat in the school cafeteria. At the entrance to the kitchen or dining area, one parent stashes a large bin, just like the kids will find at school. Each member of the family has their own distinct lunch box thrown into the bin, along with a few “old” random empty lunch boxes, so kids can practice digging down to the bottom to find their own. Once everyone is seated at the table, the child can practice the fine motor skills of unzipping zippers, unfastening Velcro flaps, and opening up containers. Choose a lunch box that is easy to open and pack it with “grab and gab” food, just like you would in the cafeteria. Once the meal is over, everyone latches their lunch box and puts it back in the bin, just like at school.

Phasing in New Foods

When packing lunch, parents pray that their child will “just eat something!” But at the end of the day, especially if the child is a picky eater, parents sigh as they open the lunch-box latch and see that lunch has barely been touched. What can a parent do at home to encourage kids to eat lunch, even when they eat only five to 15 different foods and are hesitant to try anything new? Here are some tips to encourage young eaters to explore beyond their preferred foods: Begin with exposure. Kids may need to see a new food multiple times before they may even consider trying it. That means they need to see it at school, too. If you’re thinking, “But he won’t eat it, so why pack it?” remember that the first step is helping your hesitant eater get used to the presence of that food in his lunch box again and again. Food doesn’t have to be eaten to serve a purpose in food education, and it doesn’t have to be a large quantity of food when first introduced. Give kids ownership in the lunch-packing process. All kids like predictability and being a part of the process. Ask them to help with choosing, preparing, and packing lunch items. They are more likely to enjoy food when they are involved. Include a favorite, but just enough. Most of us eat our favorite foods first, so be sure to include your child’s preferred food, but not too much. Provide just enough so that you won’t be worried that they are starving, but not so much that the other lesspreferred choices don’t stand a chance.

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As our understanding of concussions grows, policies are being put in place to keep young athletes safe. But some still wonder whether certain sports can ever be considered safe for kids. By Melissa Kagan

t’s a question more and more parents are asking these days: “Should I let my kid play football?” Or maybe it’s soccer, lacrosse, ice hockey, or some other contact sport. Their concern with these activities can be summed up in one word: concussions. For most kids, playing sports is fun, social, and challenging. Sports are also an excellent way to teach teamwork, competitiveness, and responsibility, while helping kids grow stronger and stay fit. But at the same time, a growing body of research has focused on the dangers of concussions and head injuries in youth sports, and the conversation has escalated over the past few years. Lawsuits by former pro-football players with lingering health problems and Will Smith’s 2015 movie Concussion have brought the topic of sportsrelated head injuries into the spotlight. In some ways, this extra attention is great for young athletes. And yet, in other ways it’s holding them back, as some parents wonder whether contact sports are safe in any capacity.

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stand the signs and symptoms of concussions. They’re seeking care when necessary, taking precautions, and following the proper return-to-play guidelines (a set of criteria detailing when someone can return to the field after a concussion)—all positive developments. Concerns over athletes returning to play too quickly have led legislators in almost all states to pass laws stating that no player may return to play the same day of getting a concussion and that the athlete must be cleared by an appropriate health care professional before she is allowed to return to play in games or practices. The laws typically also mandate that players, parents, and coaches receive education on the dangers of concussions and recognizing their signs and symptoms. The return-to-play protocol is significant for athletes of all ages and competitive levels because the long-term effects of concussions in children can be considerable. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends a six-step program, allowing approximately 24 hours for each step. If any symptoms return during this process, it’s a sign of incomplete recovery and the young athlete should wait an additional 24 hours before attempting that step again. Generally speaking, symptoms should

improve within a week to 10 days, but a doctor should re-evaluate athletes with persistent symptoms. “There’s a rare condition called ‘second’ impact in which a second concussion occurs before a first concussion has properly healed,” according to Jay Selman, M.D., chief of neurosurgery and consultant to the Traumatic Bain Injury Unit at Blythedale Children’s Hospital in Valhalla. “This causes rapid and severe brain swelling and a vast majority of these cases end in death.” The first step in the AAP’s protocol is for the child to rest— physically, as well as cognitively. “Relative cognitive rest involves minimizing potential cognitive stressors, such as schoolwork, but this also includes video games,” Dr. Selman says. “Modified school assignments shouldn’t result in your child playing Xbox all afternoon.” After that, the steps call for the child to slowly and methodically return to activities.

New Policies

Another result of the public discussion about concussions is that Pop Warner, the country’s largest youth football organization, announced in May that it will ban kickoffs in games starting this fall, the latest attempt to reduce the risk of head blows that can lead to concussions. The elimination of kickoffs will apply to the three youngest Pop Warner divisions, which include players ages 5-10. It will possibly expand to older kids in the near future, once the results of the change have been reviewed. Instead of kickoffs, the ball will be placed at the 35-yard-line at the beginning of each half and after each score. Pop Warner will also reduce the amount of contact time in practice in all age groups, to 25 percent from 33 percent. Because the number of children who sustain concussions is on the rise, youth recreation programs and many school districts are responding with stricter policies to ensure safer play. For example last winter, the Westchester County Concussion Task Force unveiled a list of best practices for concussion management for high school and youth sports. The 10-point plan focuses on improving collaboration between school officials when treating head injuries. It also stresses the importance of parent education about concussions and how to identify symptoms. The task force’s goal is to get schools caught up on the latest, rapidly evolving science of head injury protocol and concussion treatment. Many advocacy groups encourage parents to have their children evaluated before the playing season begins to establish a baseline measure of brain function. One such test, called the Immediate Post-Concussion Assessment and Cognitive Testing (ImPACT), evaluates memory, motor speed, and reaction time. Athletes take the test at the start of the season and periodically thereafter, and again if they’re injured.

Paralyzed by Fear

The recent attention to the dangers of concussions has led some parents to say they are now paralyzed with fear and are choosing to keep their kids out of sports entirely. Lisa, a mother of two in Scarsdale, is relieved that neither of her boys has asked to play football. “I would be fine with flag football but I would be entirely opposed to tackle football,” she says. “Although, my 13-yearold son, who, like many boys his age, has suffered from one concussion already from soccer. So now I’m rethinking soccer as well. I’m starting to question the safety of any sport at this point.” There is a middle ground that some experts are advocating. Instead of kids avoiding sports entirely, these advocates believe

in setting a minimum age for when kids should be allowed to start playing contact sports. Bennet Omalu, M.D., a forensic pathologist and leading expert in the growing field of concussion research, wrote an op-ed piece last year for The New York Times saying that children should be prevented from playing football and other high-impact contact sports before the age of 18. “Our children are minors who have not reached the age of consent,” Dr. Omalu wrote. “It is our moral duty as a society to protect the most vulnerable of us. The human brain becomes fully developed at about 18 to 25 years old. We should at least wait for our children to grow up, be provided with the information and education on the risk of play, and let them make their own decisions. No adult, not a parent or a coach, should be allowed to make this potentially life-altering decision for a child.” Other experts in the field propose that tackle football, heading in soccer, and full-body checking in ice hockey not start until kids are 14, largely because their brains and bodies are still developing and are therefore more vulnerable to serious injury. “Nothing magic happens when an athlete turns 14,” Dr. Selman says. “There are big 14-year-olds who develop earlier and then there are 14-year-olds who look like they are 10. But by the time teens are juniors or seniors in high school, the difference in size between the athletes isn’t quite as dramatic.”

When to Quit

There is no set number of concussions that determine when a young person should give up playing contact sports. The circumstances that surround each individual injury, such as how the injury occurred and the duration of symptoms, are very important and must be factored in when assessing an athlete’s risk for—and potential long-term consequences from—experiencing additional and potentially more serious concussions. The decision to quit certain sports is a decision best reached after a complete evaluation by your child’s primary care provider and consultation with a physician or neuropsychologist who specializes in treating sports concussions. It’s not an easy decision to make. Ultimately, it is up to parents to make informed choices based on their individual circumstances about whether to let children play contact sports. And above all, it is critical for parents and coaches to arm themselves with proper concussion knowledge, the right equipment, good training, an understanding of the symptoms of a concussion, and a healthy attitude about sports should they let their kids participate. Melissa Kagan is the former editor-in-chief of the now-defunct lifetimemoms.com. She is currently a freelance writer whose work has been featured in Mommy Poppins, Westchester Magazine and Westchester Family. She lives in Pelham with her husband and two children.

RETURN-TO-PLAY STEPS This is an example of a what a typical return-to-play plan looks like: 1. T he athlete must observe complete physical and cognitive rest while symptoms are present. 2. O nce the athlete has stopped showing any symptoms, he or she can progress to light aerobic activity. 3. P rovided symptoms don’t return, activity may increase to sportspecific exercises without head impact. 4. The athlete may advance to more complex, non-contact drills. 5. The athlete may advance to full-contact practice. 6. The athlete may advance to normal game play. LongIslandParent 25

OUTINGS: New York City Fire Museum

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New York’s Bravest 1

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Housed in a 1904 firehouse, this must-see museum tells the history of the FDNY. ›› By Melissa Wickes 3

1 This 1912 American LaFrance Tractor-Steamer, a coal-fired steam engine drawn by a gasoline powered front-drive tractor, was dubbed “Old 93” upon its retirement in 1933 when it was then used as a parade vehicle. 2 The New York City Fire Museum is housed in the former quarters of Engine Company No. 30, a 1904 Beaux-Arts firehouse. 3 The Brooklyn Company Engine No. 8 is a steam engine pumper made by American LaFrance in 1901 and was drawn by three horses. 4 Framed documents and works of art illustrate firefighting in the volunteer period in the Romance of Firefighting exhibit. 5 This permanent memorial to the 343 firefighters lost on 9/11 was designed by Jude Amsel and is made of tiles with the names and images of each firefighter.

The New York City Fire Museum is the official museum of the Fire Department of the City of New York. Housed in the former quarters of Engine Company No. 30, the museum is a tribute to firefighting and takes visitors through the history of techniques, equipment, and more. Upon entering, guests are greeted by a fire truck—fun for kids to climb on and perfect for a photo op.

Permanent Exhibits

Firefighting on Parade displays beautifully crafted machines and artifacts used by volunteer firefighters who marched in the firefighter parades. Paintings and illustrations depicting volunteer firefighters at work are shown in Romance of Firefighting, which honors the venerable New Yorkers who risk their lives to keep the city safe. Check out the evolution of the fire engine from the steam engine to the motorized machine in Fire Apparatus. A 26

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crowd favorite is Tools and Uniforms, which shows how significantly firefighting gear has changed throughout the last 30 years, from breathing masks to protective garments to tools. The 9/11 Memorial Room is the first permanent memorial recognizing the 343 members of the FDNY who sacrificed their lives on Sept. 11. The exhibit includes a black marble and tile memorial showing pictures of the firefighters who lost their lives, cases displaying tools used and items recovered, and a computer station at which visitors can browse profiles of the fallen.

Fire Safety Education Program

In collaboration with the FDNY, the museum operates a fire safety program, which teaches participants about fire prevention in homes and how to escape a fire. After classroom training, students go through a simulated fire in a mock home environment. The simulation consists of a

tour through four rooms and common fire hazards are explained. A bedroom is then filled with theatrical smoke and a firefighter teaches the children how to escape.

Remembering 9/11

The NYC Fire Museum will hold a 9/11 Memorial Ceremony on Sept. 11, at 1pm, which will be led by the FDNY commissioner, with songs and a speech made by the museum director.

Details

Address: 278 Spring St., Manhattan Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 20-minute drive from Huntington Hours: Daily, 10am-5pm Admission: $8; $5 students, seniors, and children ages 2-12; free with ID: FDNY, NYPD, DSNY, PANYNJ, Active U.S. Military, and Merchant Marine For more information: 212-352-3117 or nycfiremuseum.org

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SEPTEMBER CALENDAR

30 Editor’s Hot Tickets

35 Show Time!

31 We Can’t Believe It’s FREE!,

36 Smarty Pants, Little Foodies

32 Crafty Kids

37 Animals Lovers

33 Once Upon a Time, Must-Sees in NYC

38 Movers & Shakers, Fun Fairs & Festivals

34 The Great Outdoors, Special Needs

39 Mini Musicians, Dance Party

LI FamFest 2016

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 17, 10am-3pm WHERE: Long Island University, Pratt Recreation Center, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: LI FamFest is a fun day for the whole family. Kids can play in the Kids Corner and participate in Activity Classes and parents can meet many Back to School exhibitors, such as birthday party venues, after school classes, special needs professionals, enrichment programs, health related professionals, and many other family-oriented businesses. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s discovery and fun all in one place, in one afternoon. WANT TO GO? $25 with up to 4 kids, $30 day of show, see website for discount code. 212-315-0800. lifamfest.com.

EDITOR’S HOT TICKETS Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the nine events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Studio on the Steps: Persons of Influence

WHEN: Thursday, Sept. 1, 4:30pm WHERE: Southampton Arts Center, 25 Jobs Lane, Southampton AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Inspired by the exhibition on view, Winning the White House: From Press Prints to Selfies, participants create pro-active videos and photos while trying on a character to interview. WHY WE LOVE IT: A clever introduction to civics! WANT TO GO? $5 suggested donation. 631-283-0967. southamptonartscenter.org.

Bilingual Poetry Reading FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Sept. 8, 6:30-8:30pm WHERE: Walt Whitman Birthplace, 246 Old Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Luis Alberto Ambroggio will give a bilingual poetry reading from his book Todos somos Whitman / We Are All Whitman. Vijay Seshadri, who won the 2014 Pulitzer Prize, will also give a poetry reading. WHY WE LOVE IT: A fun opportunity to hear poetry in another language. WANT TO GO? 631-427-5240. waltwhitman.org.

10th Annual North Fork Foodie Tour

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 11, 10am-4pm WHERE: North Fork, 2 Goose Neck Lane, Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the bounty of the North Fork and visit farms, vineyards, and other food producers. WHY WE LOVE IT: There’s nothing better than supporting local farmers and businesses. WANT TO GO? $25; free for children younger than 13. 631-722-5712. northforkreformsynagogue.org.

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Lantern Light Tour

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 17, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park parking field 5, Fire Island AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy an escorted lantern light walk along the beach as stationed interpreters unfold the stories of the United States Life Saving Service and the Fire Island Light Station. WHY WE LOVE IT: A great way to close out the summer! WANT TO GO? $10. 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.

Big Truck Day

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 17, 10am-12pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton/Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Emergency vehicles, construction and farming machines and more will be on-site along with the people who drive them. WHY WE LOVE IT: What kid isn’t fascinated by big trucks? WANT TO GO? $12. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.

Fall Festival

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 24, 10am-4:30pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the change of seasons and learn about the natural world. WHY WE LOVE IT: Fishing is fun for young children. WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org.

Oktoberfest

WHEN: Sept. 23-25, Friday-Sunday, 12-11pm WHERE: Camp Pa-Qua-Tuck, 2 Chet Swezey Road, Center Moriches AGES: All WHAT: The three-day event will include German food, beer gardens, a carnival, vendors, live German entertainment, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s wonderful to share another culture’s celebration! WANT TO GO? $10; free for visitors younger than 21. 631-878-1070. camppaquatuck.com.

Nature Quest

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 25, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Caleb Smith State Park Preserve, 581 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: Participate in a scavenger hunt with your family. WHY WE LOVE IT: This is a super fun family activity. WANT TO GO? $4; $3 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3. 631-265-1054. nysparks.com.

Long Island’s Premier Gymnastics Studio

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Kids Workshop FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 3, 9am-12pm WHERE: Home Depot, 600 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Kids learn to build or create a useful, fun product. WANT TO GO? 516-488-8500. homedepot.com.

Classes ages 2-18 for boys and girls Beginner to competitive Gymnastics, Tumbling, Agility Training 425 Oser Ave Suite 4C Hauppauge, NY 11788 Contact: 631-273-8426 • www.artisticgymnastics.net

Free Art Class FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 3, 1-2pm WHERE: Mini Monet, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Try out drawing and painting lessons at the new Mini Monet. WANT TO GO? 631-218-9797. minimonetsayville.com.

International Dot Day FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Sept. 15, 11:30am-12pm and 6-7pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Make your mark and see where it takes you with some fun activities. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Shark Tank FREE

WHEN: Monday, Sept. 19, 3-4:30pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Teens learn how to come up with a business plan and practice presentation skills. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

C on t u s to a c t v a c l a i s it s s!

Sensory Play FREE

WHEN: Sept. 1-30, Tuesdays, 10-11am WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: You and your children can explore different textures and toys and facilitate play skills during this one-to-one play time. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net. ››

Discover the joy of making music together with your family! Find a location near you in Long Island or Queens: www.MusicTogetherLI-Queens.com

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Whip Up the Wind

WHEN: Sept. 17-18, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Measure wind speed with simple machines and construct your own anemometer to measure the wind speed on the deck. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.

Parent-Child Paint Night

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 24, 6-8:30pm WHERE: Mini Monet, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 3-12, adult WHAT: Learn about colors, blending, shading, and art history while painting together. WANT TO GO? $40; $30 children. 631-218-9797. minimonetsayville.com.

Draw and Paint for Pre-K

WHEN: Sept. 21-28, Wednesdays, 1-2pm WHERE: Mini Monet, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Step by step art instruction to draw basic animals, people, landscapes, and works by famous artists. Learn about colors, shapes, and how to use markers, oil pastels and watercolors, and paint. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-218-9797. minimonetsayville.com.

CRAFTY KIDS Gone Fishing!

WHEN: Sept. 10-11, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Make your own fishing pole with a magnet lure to lure magnetic fish. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.

Instructors’ Exhibition FREE

WHEN: Through Sept. 11: Monday-Thursday, 9am-9pm; Fridays, 9am-4pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: Art League of Long Island, 107 E. Deer Park Road, Dix Hills AGES: All WHAT: The Art League of Long Island is proud to showcase artwork created by its highly talented visual arts instructors. WANT TO GO? 631-462-5400. artleagueli.net.

Parent Night Out

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 16, 6-8:30pm WHERE: Mini Monet, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Drop your child off for drawing, painting, games, pizza, and fun. WANT TO GO? $30; $15 siblings. 631-218-9797. minimonetny.com. 32

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Mommy and Me Art Class

WHEN: Sept. 22-29, Thursdays, 10-11am WHERE: Mini Monet, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Come have fun, read stories, and create with a caregiver. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-218-9797. minimonetsayville.com.

Creative Art for Preschoolers

WHEN: Sept. 22-29, Thursdays, 1-2pm WHERE: Mini Monet, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Have fun with glitter, paint, collage, feathers, oil pastels, and watercolors while making cute animals, flowers, bugs, and more. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-218-9797. minimonetsayville.com.

Jackson Pollock Family Drip Painting Workshop

WHEN: Through Oct. 8: Saturdays, 10-11:30am WHERE: Pollock-Krasner House and Study Center, 830 Springs Fireplace Road, East Hampton AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Families tour the Pollock-Krasner House and studio, followed by a drip painting workshop for children. WANT TO GO? $35. 917-502-0790. imaginearted.com.

Messy Afternoons

WHEN: Sept. 17–Oct. 30; Saturday-Sunday, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Kids will be up to their elbows in goop, guts, shaving cream, and play-dough. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

ONCE UPON A TIME

CityBound

Must-Sees in N Y C

Storybook Stroll: ‘The Tree Lady’ by H. Joseph Hopkins

Courtesy WHIDC

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 3, 12pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Snuggle into a shady spot to hear the true story of how one woman’s leafy green vision transformed an entire city. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 seniors; $7 children ages 7-17; free for children 6 and younger. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Pajama Storytime FREE

Story Time

WHEN: Wednesday, Sept. 28, 11am WHERE: Studio Theatre, 141 S. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Actors will read The Pout Pout Fish and include the children in interactive play. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-226-8400. studiotheatreli.com.

Fall Fun FREE

WHEN: Sept. 28–Oct. 12; Wednesdays, 6:30-7:15pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy stories, songs, and a craft each week with your child. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

Medieval fun in 2016

Gallop Into History Get your armor ready, saddle up your horse, and gallop up to Fort Washington for the popular Medieval Festival at Fort Tryon Park. Great fun for families, there are performances, processions, music, food and drink, and medieval wares to buy. The main event is the armed combat and jousting competition in which wannabe Jon Snows will show you how it was done in olden times. A living history lesson for all ages. Sep. 18; 11:30am-6pm. Age: All. Fort Tryon Park, 741 Fort Washington Ave., Fort Washington. 212-7951600. whidc.org. Courtesy New Victory Theater

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 16, 7-7:45pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children can come in their pajamas to listen to stories, sing songs, and dance. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

stART (Story + Art)

WHEN: Sept. 20–Oct. 27; Tuesdays and Thursdays, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Children listen to the reading of childhood classics and new favorites. WANT TO GO? $3 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org. ››

Go 20,000 leagues under Times Square with this eye catching new production

Find The Original Nemo The New Victory Theater opens its new season with a production of the Jules Verne science fiction classic, 20,000 Leagues Under the Sea. The atmospheric production has eye-catching special effects and uses multimedia and projections to bring the sea to the stage. Kids will learn about the infamous Captain Nemo and the tale of the Nautilus. For ages 8 and older due to complex story. Sep. 30-Oct. 10; see website for show times. $16-$38. New Victory Theater, 229 W. 42nd St., Times Square Theater District. 646-223-3010. newvictory.org. LongIslandParent 33

WHAT: Each program’s theme will use nature explorations and hands-on activities as a springboard for learning. WANT TO GO? $4; $3 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3. 631-265-1054. nysparks.com.

Camouflage Commandos

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Nature Maker Space

WHEN: Through Sept. 2: Monday-Friday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Engage in gardening and nature fort building, and reconnect with the natural world. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 for seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

The Trails Less Traveled

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 3, 10am-12pm WHERE: Hempstead Lake State Park, Lakeside Drive, Lakeside AGES: All WHAT: Join in to hike 3-4 miles at Hempstead Lake. Hiking shoes and water are recommended. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $4; $3 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3. nysparks.com.

Late Summer Seasonal Stroll

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 4, 11am-1pm WHERE: Caumsett State Historic Park, 25 Lloyd Harbor Road, Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Witness summer’s slow, subtle change, as she withers and goes to seed. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $4. 631-423-1770. nysparks.com.

Moonlight Walk

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 16, 8-10pm WHERE: Sunken Meadow State Park, 25A and Sunken Meadow Parkway, Kings Park AGES: All WHAT: A bustling park during the day, Sunken Meadow is a different place after the sun sets. WANT TO GO? $4; $3 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3. nysparks.org.

International Coastal Cleanup

WHEN: Sept. 17-18, Saturday-Sunday, 9am WHERE: Various Long Island State Parks AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens can volunteer to protect the seashore by calling the park they are interested in lending a helping hand to help. WANT TO GO? $8 vehicle use fee. 631-669-1000. nysparks.com.

Tiny Tots: Nature Discoveries

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WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 24, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Caleb Smith State Park Preserve, 581 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: An indoor training session will be followed by an outdoor recon mission as you search for the highly skilled, ever elusive camouflage commandos. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $4; $3 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3. 631-265-1054. nysparks.com.

Gleaning of the Fields FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 25, 10am-12pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Pick vegetables that have been left behind to donate to those who are less fortunate through food pantries across Long Island. WANT TO GO? 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.

Tinkergarten Nature-Play Classes: Making Mud

WHEN: Sept. 17–Nov. 19; Saturdays, 10-11:30am WHERE: Kalers Pond Park, Montauk Highway, Center Moriches AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Activities are based on a progressive curriculum that’s child-led and parent-guided. WANT TO GO? $25. 516-672-1395. tinkergarten.com.

SPECIAL NEEDS Lego Play: Special Needs-Friendly

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 18, 1pm WHERE: Pixie Dust, 125 W. Main St., Bay Shore AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: For those into Legos, this event is for you. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-647-8777. pixiedustbayshore.com.

Learn to Draw and Paint for Special Needs Children

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 24, 11:15am-12:15pm WHERE: Mini Monet, 64 Railroad Ave., Sayville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Step by step drawing method includes learning to use watercolors, oil pastels, and markers while drawing animals, people, famous artist works, and more. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-218-9797. minimonetsayville.com.

Sky Zone Cares

WHEN: Monday, Sept. 5, 3-6pm WHERE: Sky Zone Deer Park, 111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park AGES: All WHAT: Sky Zone dials down the music, increases the staff ratio, and limits capacity. WANT TO GO? $16 per hour. 631-392-2600. skyzone.com/deerpark.

Special Olympics Bowling at the All Star

WHEN: Through Dec. 1: Mondays, 5pm WHERE: The All Star, 96 Main Road, Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Bowlers with special needs are invited to bowl on the main lanes and experience the arcade with the latest games. WANT TO GO? $10 for two games. 631-998-3565. theallstar.com.

‘Rapunzel’

WHEN: Through Sept. 11: Saturdays, 11am; Sundays, 10:30am WHERE: John W. Engeman Theater, 250 Main St., Northport AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Before the prince and Rapunzel have their inevitable “happily ever after,” they will have to face the wrath of the witch and few other hilarious obstacles. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-261-2900. engemantheater.com.

Remote Controlled Fall Aero Show FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 11, 10am-5pm WHERE: Sunken Meadow State Park, Route 25A and Sunken Meadow Parkway, Kings Park AGES: All WHAT: There will be demonstrations of all types of miniature aircrafts, including fixed wing, helicopters, gliders, and electric. WANT TO GO? nysparks.org.

The Wiggles

SHOW TIME!

‘Mysterious Lake’

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 2, Monday-Thursday, 10:30am and 1pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5 and older WHAT: See how spirits and humans learn to celebrate the old and new of our world. WANT TO GO? $9 with museum admission: $13; $12 for seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Pirate School with Captain Billy Bones

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 2, 11:30am and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Billy Bones is generally a good pirate, and youngsters have a little bit of pirate in them. Like pirates, kids naturally yearn for adventure, independence, and self-actualization. WANT TO GO? $9 with museum admission: $13; $12 for seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 18, 1pm and 4pm WHERE: The Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road, Westbury AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Joined on stage by their lovable friends Dorothy the Dinosaur, Captain Feathersword, Wags the Dog, and Henry the Octopus, The Wiggles will be celebrating its 25th birthday. WANT TO GO? $29.50 and up. 516-247-5200. thetheatreatwestbury.com.

Disney’s ‘Beauty and the Beast Jr.’

WHEN: Sept. 17-25, Saturday-Sunday, 11:30am and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: The classic story of Belle, a young woman in a provincial town, and the Beast, who is really a young prince trapped under the spell of an enchantress. WANT TO GO? $12 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors; free children younger than 1. 516-599-6870. plazatheatrical.com.

‘Carousel’

WHEN: Sept. 10-25, Saturday-Sunday, see website for times WHERE: BayWay Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Charming, roguish carnival barker, Billy Bigelow, and mill worker Julie Jordan, both loners, meet and fall in love. WANT TO GO? $28. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org. ››

Goat on a Boat: ‘Bugaboo Revue’

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 2, 4:30pm WHERE: Southampton Arts Center, 25 Jobs Lane, Southampton AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Outdoor puppet show featuring Talking Hands Theatre. WANT TO GO? $5 suggested donation. 631-283-0967. southamptonartscenter.org.

Back to School Movie: ‘Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice’ FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Sept. 7, 2:15-5pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Hang out with your friends and enjoy a movie and a snack. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

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Special & General Education Classes EI Special Instruction • Parent Child Groups Toddler Separation Groups Building Blocks is a 501(c)(3) not-for-profit agency and has been providing services to children from birth to age 5 years and their families for 30 years. To refer a child suspected of developmental delay please call Suffolk County DOH EIP at 631-853-3100 for children 0-3yrs; or the child’s school district for children 3-5 years of age. All authorized services provided to eligible children are funded through NYS & Suffolk County at no cost to families. BBDPS is an approved provider and evaluator of Early Intervention & Preschool special education services and is regulated by NYSED and NYSDOH.

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Sign with Toddlers FREE

WHEN: Sept. 9-23, Fridays, 10-10:45am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Learn the basics of finger-signing with your toddler; it also enables you to communicate more effectively with your child. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Measure, Make, Marvel!

WHEN: Sept. 24-25, Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Mix and measure colors as you try to make the perfect green for Shrek, Fiona, or the Incredible Hulk. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.

Lego Club

WHEN: Through Sept. 25: Saturdays, 10am-12pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton/Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Children create original designs and can leave their works-inprogress and plan future sessions with the staff. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.

Musical Theatre Class

WHEN: Sept. 1-30, Tuesdays, 4pm WHERE: Pixie Dust, 125 W. Main St., Bay Shore AGES: 5-8 WHAT: A mix of singing, dancing, and acting taught by a certified teacher. Special needs friendly. WANT TO GO? $18. 631-647-8777. pixiedustbayshore.com.

4th Annual Lego Building Contest and Exhibit

SMARTY PANTS Run the Colors

WHEN: Sept. 1-5, Thursday-Monday, 1-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Put on your detective hat and try to solve the crime of “Who ate the cookies?” by using evidence and conducting experiments. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-331-3277. maritimeexplorium.org.

LITTLE FOODIES Tots Cook

WHEN: Wednesday, Sept. 14, 7-8pm WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn all about writing and play games in this fun-filled, author-led workshop. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwoodnylibrary.org.

WHEN: Aug. 1–Sept. 1, Thursdays, 11am-12:30pm and 2-3:30pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Tour the farm to gather the things needed for a recipe and learn how they were produced. Then, bring the ingredients back to the Farm Market and turn them into delicacies while learning simple ways to incorporate farm-to-table eating at home. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $15 per class. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.

Amazing Amate

Kids in the Kitchen

Junior Writers FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 18, 2pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Explore the beauty and techniques of Amate Bark painting, one of the many folk arts of the Latin American culture. WANT TO GO? $13; $12 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org. 36

WHEN: Sept. 17–Oct. 16; Saturday-Sunday, 9am-5pm WHERE: Educational & Cultural Center, 97P Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Enter the Lego building contest, or come see all of the creations on display and vote for your favorite. WANT TO GO? $4; $2 for children younger than 12. 631-689-5888. wmho.org.

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WHEN: Sept. 2-30, Fridays, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Create tasty treats, take home recipes, and enjoy your yummy creations at the end of each class. WANT TO GO? $5 with museum admission: $13; $12 seniors 65 and older; free for children younger than 1. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

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ANIMAL LOVERS David Rosaire’s World-Famous Dog Show

WHEN: Through Sept. 5: daily, 12pm and 3pm WHERE: Long Island Game Farm, 638 Chapman Blvd., Manorville AGES: All WHAT: New this year is the addition of Chinese-themed costumes and production elements that celebrate the heritage of Rosaire’s pups. WANT TO GO? $16.95; $14.95 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 631-878-6670. longislandgamefarm.com.

Giraffe Encounter

WHEN: Through Sept. 5: daily, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Game Farm, 638 Chapman Blvd., Manorville AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a short presentation, followed by the opportunity to feed the majestic animal from an elevated platform. WANT TO GO? $6 with admission: $16.95; $14.95 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 631-878-6670. longislandgamefarm.com.

I Spy A Dragonfly

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 10, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Caleb Smith State Park Preserve, 581 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: Discover the dragonfly’s many beautiful colors, life cycle, and unique behaviors. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $4; $3 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3. 631-265-1054. nysparks.com. ››

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Fitness Fantasy FREE

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 23, 5-6pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Discover exciting fitness feats in pictures by famous artist LeRoy Neiman and others. Then create your own fitness fantasy picture. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Parents Night Out

MOVERS & SHAKERS Bike, History, and Nature Tour

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 2, 5-7pm WHERE: Caumsett State Historic Park, 25 Lloyd Harbor Road, Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Bike the 3-mile mansion loop and stop at noteworthy historic and natural areas. Bring your bike and helmet. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $4; $3 children ages 3-17; free for children younger than 3. 631-423-1770. nysparks.com.

Motorcycles and the Open Road

WHEN: Through Sept. 5: daily, 10am-5pm WHERE: Educational & Cultural Center, 111 Main St., Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: This exhibit showcasing motorcycles from across the decades has unique motorcycles on display, as well as motorcycle-related memorabilia, artwork, sculptures, speakers, and more. WANT TO GO? $5; $3 for children younger than 12. 631-689-5888. wmho.org/events.

Parking Lot Safety for Children and Families

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 10, 1-3pm WHERE: Modern Warrior, 711 N. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn how to use a parking lot or driveway to your benefit in the event of an attempted abduction or attack. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-226-8383. modernwarrior.com.

WHEN: Sept. 2-30, Fridays, 6:30-9:30pm; Saturdays, 6-9pm WHERE: Tumbling Tunes, 212 Laurel Road, East Northport AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Children enjoy a night featuring gymnastics equipment, crafts, musical instruments, games, parachute, and toys. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $12 per hour; $17 for two siblings; $20 for three siblings. 631-697-0140. tumblingtunes.com.

Sensory Play

WHEN: Sept. 3-24, Saturdays, 10am WHERE: Pixie Dust, 125 W. Main St., Bay Shore AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Messy play for all ages. Special needs friendly. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-647-8777. pixiedustbayshore.com.

Mommy/Daddy & Me Yoga

WHEN: Sept. 4-25, Sundays, 11:30am WHERE: Pixie Dust, 125 W. Main St., Bay Shore AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Classes are taught by a certified trainer. Special needs friendly WANT TO GO? $18. 631-647-8777. pixiedustbayshore.com.

Historic Old Time Baseball Matches: 1864 Rules

WHEN: Sept. 4–Oct. 2; Sundays, 12-3pm WHERE: Old Bethpage Village Restoration, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Watch as teams from the 1864 League play base ball (as it was spelled then) following the rules and customs of the 19th century in vintage uniforms. WANT TO GO? $10; $7 children ages 5-12, seniors, and volunteer firefighters; free for children younger than 5. 516-572-8401. nymutuals.com.

Light Keepers Behind the Scenes Tour

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 10, 9am WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park parking field 5, Fire Island AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Follow a present day Lighthouse Keeper on his rounds in a bottom to top tour. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.

Long Island Heart Walk FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 18, 10am WHERE: Jones Beach, 1000 Ocean Parkway, Field 5, Wantagh AGES: All WHAT: The American Heart Association is encouraging physical activity this fall. Take your place among thousands who believe in fitness and who would like to support a great cause. WANT TO GO? 516-450-9104. longislandheartwalk.org.

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FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS Arts and Craft Festival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 3, 10am-5pm WHERE: Greenport High School, 720 Front St., Greenport AGES: All WHAT: There will be arts, crafts, food, music, and children’s activities. Proceeds benefit the Greenport PTA. WANT TO GO? 631-846-1459.

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Dockside Family Festival

WHEN: Sept. 17-18, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Captree State Park, 3500 Ocean Parkway, Bay Shore AGES: All WHAT: This family event features boat rides, live music, pony rides, interactive pirate shows, crab races, and more. WANT TO GO? $8 vehicle use fee. 631-669-0449. nysparks.com.

Wildwood Fall Festival FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 24, 10am-4pm WHERE: Wildwood State Park, 790 Hulse Landing Road, Wading River AGES: All WHAT: Activities include children’s games, wagon rides, pony rides, petting zoo, funny photos, inflatables, children’s doughnut eating contest, build a scarecrow contest, and pumpkin weight raffle. WANT TO GO? 631-929-4314. nysparks.com.

25th Annual Long Island Apple Festival

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 25, 11am-4:30pm WHERE: Sherwood Jayne Farm, 55 Old Post Road, East Setauket AGES: All WHAT: Activities include old-fashioned games such as apple relay races, tug-o-war, and apple-head doll making, as well as storytelling, pony rides, hay ride, sheep shearing, and face painting. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 children ages 2-12. 631-692-4664. co.suffolk.ny.us.

Montauk Surf Fishing Classic

WHEN: Sept. 23-25, Friday-Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Montauk Point State Park, 2000 Montauk Highway, Montauk AGES: All WHAT: A fishing tournament for the largest striped bass and/or bluefish. All areas must be accessible by foot or by wading. The awards ceremony takes place at the end of the tournament. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-668-3781. nysparks.com.

Fall Into Fun Carnival

WHEN: Sept. 29–Oct. 2; Thursday-Friday, 6-11pm; Saturday, 1211pm; Sunday, 12-6pm WHERE: Heritage Park, 633 Mount Sinai Coram Road, Mount Sinai AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy four days of rides, games, food, and fireworks. WANT TO GO? Free admission, tickets prices vary. 631-384-8900. msheritagetrust.org.

MUSICIANS Rascal Flatts Concert

WHEN: Thursday, Sept. 1, 7pm WHERE: Nikon at Jones Beach Theater, 1000 Ocean Parkway, Wantagh AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Don’t miss this end-of-summer concert. WANT TO GO? $27 and up. 212-377-7900.

International Music Nights Concert Series: Latino-American Night FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 4, 2pm WHERE: Harry Chapin Lakeside Theatre, Eisenhower Park, Merrick Avenue and Hempstead Turnpike, East Meadow AGES: All WHAT: An exciting evening of Latino-American music. WANT TO GO? 516-572-0200. nassaucountyny.gov.

Summer Concert Series FREE

WHEN: Through Sept. 29: Thursdays, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Smith Haven Mall, 313 Smith Haven Mall, Lake Grove AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy Thursday nights listening to music. WANT TO GO? 631-724-8066. simon.com.

DANCE PARTY Friday Night Drop-Off Party

WHEN: Friday, Sept. 2, 5:30-7:30pm WHERE: Children’s Museum of the East End, 376 Bridgehampton/Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Children are invited to join museum staff for dinner and dancing. WANT TO GO? $50; $25 for each additional sibling. 631-537-8250. cmee.org.

Creative Movement Dance Class

WHEN: Sept. 7-28, Wednesdays, 4pm WHERE: Pixie Dust, 125 W. Main St., Bay Shore AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Classes include elements of ballet, jazz, and character with props. WANT TO GO? $18. 631-647-8777. pixiedustbayshore.com.

Coming up next month: OCT. 1: The Wizard of Oz at the John Engman Theater in Northport OCT. 16: HappyFest Obstacle Course & Festival at Long Island Sports Park in Calverton OCT. 30: Haunted Wail-ing Boo-seum and Festival at The Whaling Museum and Education Center in Cold Spring Harbor LongIslandParent 39

WHERE-TO GUIDE

Pick Your Own Apples ››

Research by Megan Bailey, Lauren Diaz, and Melissa Wickes

Bite into crunchy, juicy, just-picked apples this month! A day trip to a local orchard yields fresh fruit to take home by the bucket, sweet pastries and baked goods (apple cider doughnuts, please!), and lots of kid-friendly perks, from hayrides to petting zoos. Grown-ups: Some farms even serve up hard cider and homemade wines! Note that dates are projected and availability is subject to change. We recommend calling ahead before visiting these locations.

Davis Peach Farm 561 Hulse Landing Road (near Wildwood State Park), Wading River 631-929-1115; davispeachfarm.com Pick-your-own nectarines through late September, peaches through mid-October, and apples through late October. Call for availability. Open 9am-5pm daily. Lewin Farms 812 Sound Ave., Wading River Second location: Fresh Pond Avenue, Baiting Hollow 631-929-4327 lewinfarm.com Apple picking late August through early October, weekends, 9am-4:30pm. Pumpkin picking late September through October. Corn maze and roasted corn on weekends, 11am-4:30pm.

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Seven Ponds Orchard 65 Seven Ponds Road, Water Mill 631-726-8015 Apple, pumpkin, winter squash, and raspberry picking 9am-6pm daily through Thanksgiving. Hayrides, 5-acre corn maze, wooden toys, and picnic area. Farmers market with pre-picked fruits and vegetables, roasted corn, homemade pies, jams, and snacks. Call for availability. Wickham’s Fruit Farms 28700 Route 25, Cutchogue 631-734-6441; wickhamsfruitfarm.com Apple picking through September into mid-October, Monday-Saturday, 9am-4pm. Closed Sunday. Also offers U-pick blackberries and pumpkins (call for availability). Hayrides 9am-4pm on Saturdays and Columbus Day in October.

Milk Pail Farm & Orchard 1346 Montauk Highway, Water Mill 631-537-2565; milk-pail.com Apple and pumpkin picking from Labor Day through early November, FridaySunday and holidays, 10am-5:30pm. The Country Store offers cider, doughnuts, muffins, pies, cookies, and more. Hank’s Pumpkin Farm 240 Montauk Highway, Water Mill Farm stand: 324 County Road 39, Southampton 631-726-4667; hankspumpkintown.com Apple and pumpkin picking early September through late October, 9:30am6pm daily. Corn maze, wagon rides, face painting, farm stand, and roasted corn shack with sweet corn, pies, doughnuts, candy apples, apple cider, and kettle corn.

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Beardsley’s Cider Mill & Orchard, LLC 278 Leavenworth Road (Route 110), Shelton 203-926-1098 beardsleyscidermill.com Farm opens in September; check the website for exact opening date. Apple picking: 10am5pm weekends. Cash or check only. Dwarf apple trees for easy picking. Cider press on location. Farm store with apple cider and doughnuts, maple syrup, local honey, pumpkin cheesecake, fruit butter, jams, and jellies. Silverman’s Farm 451 Sport Hill Road, Easton 203-261-3306 silvermansfarm.com Apple picking through midOctober, 9:30am-4:30pm daily. Pumpkins available midSeptember to October. Animal petting park, farm market, greenhouse, and tractor rides through October. Hartford County

Easy Pickin’s Orchard 46 Bailey Road, Enfield 860-763-3276 (FARM) easypickinsorchard.com Pick-your-own apples, pears, and raspberries, MondayThursday, 9am-12pm (closed Tuesdays); Friday-Sunday, 9am-5pm. Vegetable and flower gardens available for picking and cutting. Cash or check only. Karabin Farms 894 Andrews St., Southington 860-620-0194 karabinfarms.com Apple and pumpkin picking on weekends (Friday-Monday)

through October, 9:30am4pm. Store open daily with farm-raised beef products and eggs available for sale. Call for updates on hours. Rogers Orchards 336 Long Bottom Road, Southington 2876 Meriden-Waterbury Turnpike, Southington 860-229-4240 rogersorchards.com Apple picking Labor Day weekend through October, Friday-Sunday, 10am-5pm. Apple cider doughnuts, pies, and local products available at on-site farm store; open daily, August through mid-May. Litchfield County

Averill Farm 250 Calhoun St., Washington Depot 860-868-2777 averillfarm.com Pick-your-own apples midAugust to Thanksgiving on a scenic family farm; pickyour-own pears through early October. Open 9:30am5:30pm daily. Pre-picked fruit, apple cider, hard cider, doughnuts, jams, jellies, honey, and flowers available on the farm through November. Ellsworth Hill Orchard & Berry Farm 461 Cornwall Bridge Road (Route 4), Sharon 860-364-0025 ellsworthfarm.com Apple picking through early November; call for hours. Blueberries and raspberries available for picking while they last. Family-fun hayrides, corn maze, and apple cider for tasting. Pre-picked fruit and vegetables, fresh-baked pies, fresh pretzels, apple cider vinegar, jam, honey, maple syrup, freshly ground peanut butter and cider doughnuts available for

purchase. Interactive train display in store area. March Farm 160 Munger Lane, Bethlehem 203-266-7721 marchfarms.com Apple and pumpkin picking through October, 10am5pm daily. Farm market with homegrown fruits and vegetables. Bakery with cider doughnuts and other baked goods and specialty items. Picnic areas, animal yard, hayrides, corn maze, and farm hiking trails. New Haven County

Bishop’s Orchards 1355 Boston Post Road, Guilford 203-458-PICK (7425) bishopsorchards.com Apple picking available from mid-August through late October. Call PYO hotline for daily picking updates on the farm. Raspberry and peach picking also available for the season. Pumpkins start in mid-September. Check out the Bishop’s Farm Bakery for homemade sweet treats and Bishop’s Orchards Kitchen for delicious prepared entrees. Fresh cider and Bishop’s Orchards Winery on-site. Drazen Orchards 251 Wallingford Road, Cheshire 203-272-7985 drazenorchards.com Apple picking through October, 10am-6pm daily. Pick-your-own pears, peaches, nectarines, and plums also available. Farm stand with pre-picked fruit, locally grown vegetables, local honey, pies, and cider. Hickory Hill Orchards 351 S. Meriden Road (Route 70), Cheshire 203-272-3824

hickoryhillorchards.com Pick-your-own apples, pears, peaches, and nectarines late August through November, 9:30am-5pm daily. Country store with apple cider, doughnuts, pies, and other baked goods, as well as gourmet foods, open 9:30am-6pm daily. New London County

Scott’s Yankee Farmer, LLC 436 Boston Post Road (Route 1), East Lyme 860-739-5209 scottsyankeefarmer.net Apple and pumpkin picking through late October. Open Monday-Friday, 11am-5pm; weekends, 10am-5pm. Farm stand open 8am-6pm daily. Wagon rides available on the weekends. Two-acre corn maze on premises. Tolland County

Wright’s Orchard and Dried Flower Farm 271 S. River Road, Tolland 860-872-1665 wrightsorchard.com Apple picking through October. Pick-your-own pumpkins in September and October. Farm store with pre-picked fruits and vegetables, cider doughnuts, and pies. Dried flower and basket barn. Open MondaySaturday, 12:30-5:30pm; Sunday, 1-5:30pm. Windham County

Buell’s Orchard 108 Crystal Pond Road, Eastford 860-974-1150 buellsorchard.com Apple picking begins after Labor Day and continues through October, MondayFriday, 8am-5pm; Saturday, 8am-3pm. Harvest festival on Oct. 8 and 10. Farm store with a variety of apple items on-site.

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Back-to-School Adelberg Montalvan Pediatric Dental and Orthodontics

1000 F. Park Blvd., Massapequa Park 516-798-1111 62 Lake Ave. S., Suite A, Nesconset 631-360-PEDS (7337) 615 Montauk Highway, West Islip 631-661-PEDS (7337) ampediatricdental.com adelbergped@optonline.net Our underwater themed offices are so much fun that children don’t want to leave. As pioneers in laser pediatric dentistry we are able to eliminate the need for injections for many fillings. Our pediatric dentists have gone above and beyond their additional two years of residency training to become board-certified. We even have an orthodontist on staff so that we can coordinate all of your child’s comprehensive treatment needs. We have flexible hours including evenings and weekends. In-house sedation with an anesthesiologist is available when indicated. Check out our website, ampediatricdental. com, and call our friendly staff to find out more information.

The All Star

96 Main Road, Riverhead 631-998-3565 theallstar.com events@theallstar.com The All Star in Riverhead has much to offer. Bowl over our 22 main lanes with black lights, cutting edge audio and visual system, and projection screens showing sports over our glowin-the-dark lanes. Bowling specials for the family to enjoy, bowling leagues for all ages, Special Olympic Bowling, and after-school bowling programs are just some of what we have to offer. Check out our website at theallstar.com for available times and pricing. For additional fun explore our new games in our new arcade.

Allied Physicians Group

More than 30 locations available. Please visit the website to find a location near you. 866-621-2769 alliedphysiciansgroup.com The more than 120 physicians that comprise Allied Physicians

Group are among the top pediatricians throughout Long Island, New York City, Westchester County, the Hudson Valley, and beyond. When you bring your children to an Allied pediatric practice, you know they are getting the very best care. Our doctors have access to resources, technology, and support that other, stand-alone pediatric practices simply cannot offer. Our doctors have more time for what matters most: you and your child! For more information, visit alliedphysiciansgroup.com or call us at 866-621-2769.

Alternatives For Children

Aquebogue, Dix Hills, East Setauket, and Southampton 631-331-6400 alternatives4children.org Alternatives For Children’s Day Care and Preschool staff create a natural educational learning environment fostering each child’s development, self-esteem, and self-confidence. Alternatives For Children is an Early Intervention and Preschool Special Education evaluation site and approved provider of EI and Preschool Special Education services for eligible children. Preschool Special Education and developmentally appropriate integrated nursery classes, taught by NYS Special Education and early childhood teachers promote a child’s development through individualized instruction that will support them for the rest of their lives. Special education services of physical, occupational, and speech therapy are provided by licensed therapists.

American Girl Fashion Show Our Lady of Mercy

520 S. Oyster Bay Road, Hicksville 516-433-7040 olmshicks.org americangirlfashionshows.com The American Girl Fashion Show is a fun-filled event for girls and their families, friends, and favorite dolls! Celebrate the experience of being a girl, whether yesterday or today through a colorful presentation of historical and contemporary fashions. Enjoy tea party-style refreshments, enter to win raffle and door prizes, and learn how

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clothing has changed over the years to reflect history, culture, and girls’ individual styles. Hosted by Our Lady of Mercy School, Saturday, Oct. 15 at 1pm and 6pm. Sunday, Oct. 16 at 2pm. Tickets: $30.

Artistic Gymnastics

425 Oser Ave., Hauppauge 631-273-8426 artisticgymnastics.net Gymnastics is the ultimate preparation for all other sports. Our sport requires strength and flexibility from every single muscle in the body. At Artistic Gymnastics, we combine the beautiful art of gymnastics with the superior knowledge of the growing body to make a safe and fun experience for all of our students. From the recreational gymnast to the competitive athlete, we help all of our students to be stronger, faster, and healthier.

Bakshi Law

Offices in the Financial District, Manhattan, Long Island, and Westchester 917-244-6133 lawbakshi.com lara.bakshi@gmail.com Bakshi Law specializes in special education law. We represent parents and children with disabilities, acquire correct classification under IDEA, ensure proper implementation of IEP, ascertain correct placement for children, and tuition reimbursement. We attend CSE meetings, resolution meetings, suspension hearings, and all disciplinary hearings for special needs and general education students. Bakshi Law’s attorneys are passionate about your child’s education and offer assistance on a sliding scale for parents experiencing financial difficulties.

BounceU Farmingdale

101 Carolyn Blvd., Farmingdale 631-777-JUMP (5867) bounceu.com/cities/farmingdale.ny farmingdale.ny@bounceu.com It’s not your birthday yet? That’s okay! Our Open Bounces are perfect for children to come in with their parents and bounce to their hearts’ content. Every Friday morning we host a Preschool

Playdate that includes bounce and snack for children ages 6 and younger, Wednesday nights we have Family Bounce Night, and Thursday nights are our All Ages Open Bounces. Sessions may be added or cancelled based on availability, so please make sure to call us at 631-777-5867 or go online to bounceu.com/ farmingdale-ny/calendar to reserve your spot!

The Bridges Academy

339 Snedecor Ave., West Islip 631-358-5035 x103 thebridgesacademy.net renee.elder@thebridgesacademy.net The Bridges Academy is an independent private day school located centrally in West Islip, providing students from toddlers to eighth grade with academically accelerated and enriched programs. Our small class sizes coupled with our dedicated teachers ignite a student’s interest in learning. Programs include foreign languages, STEM, greenhouse, theater, music, sports, and character development. Visit us at thebridgesacademy.net or call 631-358-5053 x103 to learn more.

Building Blocks Developmental Preschool

29 Pinewood Drive, Commack 631-499-1237 bbdps.com Building Blocks is an early childhood learning center focusing on the education of all young children. We offer parent and child groups, nursery and preschool classes, and child care options. As a New York state-accredited special education program serving children and their families for more than 30 years, we provide services including special instruction; ABA, speech, occupational, and physical therapies; psychological services; and diagnostic services to infants, toddlers, and preschoolers. We develop skills that enable all our children to attain their highest potential while building self-esteem and independent learning.

Cummings Family Dental

42 High St., Huntington 631-425-1650 cummingsfamilydentistry.com

cummingsfamilydentistry@aol.com Begin the school year with a confident, healthy smile! At Cummings Family Dentistry, we believe that a dentist and patient become a team. We spend time listening to understand your concerns and responding with the best treatment options for you. Patients are informed about dental problems and treatments, because informed patients make better decisions about their health and well-being. Our practice offers the personal commitment you look for from a dentist. Schedule your back-to-school appointment with us today. There’s a story behind every smile...we’d like to be part of yours!

East End PTPC Preventative Therapeutic Play Center

170 Mill Pond Path, Westhampton 631-235-2146; 631-804-5728 eastendptpc.com lauren@eastendptpc.com ronni@eastendptpc.com We believe that all children learn best through play. We focus on each individual’s unique abilities and needs to help them grow and maximize their learning potential. Therapists with more than 10 years of pediatric clinical experience, we offer physical and occupational therapy, sensory play, handwriting groups, children’s yoga, mommy and me classes, fitness, and nutrition. We instill fun, confidence, and strength in the children we treat. Our passion is to teach children to believe in themselves and their dreams despite any physical limitation they may encounter.

Elite Dance Centre

275 Larkfield Road, East Northport 631-368-0299 elitedancecentre.com elitedancecentre@hotmail.com Elite Dance Centre has a reputation for excellence in dance instruction! We specialize in beginners of all ages and offer training through pre-professional levels. Classes are taught by skilled teachers in positive classrooms. EDC is more than just great dancing! Our dancers go beyond technique and poise to develop important life skills—learning the value of family and friendships and to be respectful, confident, and conscientious young people. EDC offers a large selection of classes including specialty classes for preschoolers, home-schoolers, special needs, older beginners, teens, boy’s only, and mommy and me!

Family Joy of Music

600D Montauk Highway, Bayport 631-833-1906 familyjoyofmusic.com Family Joy of Music uses a holistic approach to provide age-appropriate programs to introduce music to children from a very young age. We teach music through playing piano, music games that enhance ear training, movement, and rhythmic activities, while incorporating sing-along songs and solfège. Our programs invite family members to actively participate during class sessions and at home studies. We offer group keyboard lessons, group music lessons, group theory lessons, private piano lessons, NYSSMA Level I-VI, an annual recital, music and movement for infants and toddlers, and children’s birthday parties.

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LIU Post Center for Gifted Youth

Dr. Lynne Manouvrier, director LIU Post, Brookville 516-299-2160 liu.edu/giftedyouth The Long Island University program for gifted children was established in 1979 in response to the increasing recognition of society’s special responsibilities for children with demonstrably superior intellectual ability. The Long Island University Center for Gifted Youth brings together two important elements of education for the gifted: extraordinary teachers recruited from leading

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Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy

Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 Nassau: 516-216-1791 Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, is owner and operator of Speech Pathology and Swallowing Disorder Services of Long Island. Along with her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES—Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. There is a total of seven affiliated offices across Long Island, all participating with most major health insurance companies and offering evening and Saturday hours.

Long Island Lutheran Day School

106 Vernon Valley Road, East Northport 631-754-4424 x224 longislandlutheran.org admissions@ludaynorthport.org LuDay’s preschool program serves children ages 2-5 in fulland half-day programs. Nursery classes emphasize learning through imaginative play and exploration as the means for cognitive, social, emotional, and physical growth. Attention is given to the student’s continued development of language and self-expression skills. Preschool curriculum includes tools for mathematics and reading readiness, and is designed to build a solid foundation for future learning. The Kindersteps

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Modern Warrior

711 N. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst 631-226-8383 888-MWARRIOR (692-7746) modernwarrior.com info@modernwarrior.com Modern Warrior Wolverinz Self-Defense and Leadership Program gives kids skills and parents a piece of mind! Improve confidence, build strength, enhance awareness, and increase attention span! Wolverinz Program is for ages 4-14, and provides not just age-appropriate, real world, self-defense training but also promotes life skills that will give your child a strong platform they can build on to become better students, better peers, and better people! Fitness activities are paired with fun tasks and challenges. Programs for adult self-defense and women-only self-defense training available! Inquire about free classes!

Music Together

Various locations Find the location near you: musictogetherli-queens.com While the big kids head back to school this fall, have some family-style, music-makin’ fun with your little ones. Once a week for 10 weeks, you’ll sing, dance, and play with your baby, toddler, or preschooler in a play-based, developmentally appropriate musical environment. Some centers even offer classes for the big kids, too! Founded in 1987, Music Together is a research-based program. Each family receives a CD/download set and songbook so you can continue the fun at home with the rest of the family. Find a location near you in Queens or on Long Island: musictogetherli-queens.com.

Ohman School Of Ballet New York Dance Theatre

60 Calvert Ave., Commack 631-462-6266 ohmanballet.org office@ohmanballet.com Our school serves as a training ground for promising young dancers and offers the opportunity to learn classical ballet in the tradition of George Balanchine. Students are guided from first steps to advanced technique. The Early Childhood Program instills creativity, discipline, and

a love for ballet for our students ages 4-6. Students explore the characters and music of various classical ballets, are introduced to classical ballet steps, create their own movements, and practice in costume. The school is a non-competition, non-recital school, focusing on proper classical ballet technique.

Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County Dr. Mike Ioannou

2171 Jericho Turnpike, Suite 145, Commack 631-486-6364 3237 Route 112, Building 6, Suite 7B, Medford 631-320-0880 supermolar.com mikeioannou@hotmail.com Dr. Michael Ioannou, a native of Suffolk County, received his dental degree at the University of Connecticut’s School of Dental Medicine, with a residency in pediatric dentistry from Albert Einstein College of Medicine/ Montefiore Medical Center. A friendly, patient dentist, Dr. Mike strives to make visiting the dentist a fun experience, all while providing exceptional dental care. He uses excellent behavioral management approaches, offers a child-friendly environment (TV and cartoons are available in all treatment rooms), and sings to the patients! Dr. Mike currently participates with most insurance companies!

Pediatric Immediate Care

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Picasso Kidz, Creative Art Studio For Children 72 Broadway, Greenlawn

631-261-5500 picassokidz.com picassokidzart@gmail.com Picasso Kidz is a children’s art studio for ages 2-17. We offer age-appropriate art classes led by experienced NYS-certified art teachers dedicated to giving children a well-rounded art education. Children will be taught drawing, painting, sculpture, printmaking, and collage in a caring and creative environment. Mommy and Me classes for ages 2-3, include creative play, easel time, story time, and art lessons. “Extraordinary Picasso” art classes are for children with special needs. These are smaller classes, taught by NYS-certified art teachers who have also been trained by Missing Piece Awareness.

Posey School

57 Main St., Northport 631-757-2700 poseyschool.com poseyschoolofdance@gmail.com Posey School offers dance classes, infants to adults, a Preschool Program, and our new art classes. We offer classes during convenient days and times, and a preschool program for boys and girls ages 2-5 every day from 9am-12pm. Classes include Ballet, Contemporary-Modern, Jazz, Tap, Choreography, and Creative Movement. Based on nationally recognized criteria, our unique programs emphasize the artistic and cultural benefits of applying oneself in the arts. These benefits include acquiring and maintaining basic physical skills, as well as cognitive development in problem solving.

Prime Time Early Learning Center

270 Airport Plaza, Farmingdale 631-777-9090 primetimeschools.com/ farmingdale-day-care Prime Time Farmingdale offers expert child care for infants ages 6 weeks through pre-K, and an enriching before- and after-school program for children 10 and younger. We are dedicated to fostering harmonious homeschool relations. Our before- and after-school program provides homework assistance, supervised play, computers, group games, and playground time in a safe, educational, and relaxed environment. Our center offers an environment that is safe and loving, with a staff that is well trained, highly motivated, and dedicated to each child’s well-being. Prime Time Farmingdale is open Monday-Friday from 6:30am-7pm.

PTS Coaching - Cindy Goldrich, Ed.M., A.C.A.C. Certified ADHD Parent Coach

Long Island ptscoaching.com info@ptscoaching.com Cindy Goldrich specializes in parenting children and teens with ADHD. She helps parents reduce arguing, stress, and chaos to help children reach their true potential. Cindy conducts a parent workshop series to help parents develop the tools to create a calm, more compliant environment. Specific strategies are developed to establish workable, realistic rules and expectations, reduce homework stress, and improve children’s problem-solving, self-advocacy, and communication skills. Additional services include school support, staff development, and presentations. Coaching is available in person on Long Island and Manhattan or via phone.

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The Reading/Writing Learning Clinic at the Joan and Arnold Saltzman Community Services Center of Hofstra University

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Spirit’s Promise Horse Rescue Program

2746 Sound Ave., Riverhead 631-875-0433 spiritspromiserescue.org marisa@spiritspromiserescue.org Spirit’s Promise Equine Rescue and Rehabilitation Program. Spirit’s Promise rescues horses that have been abused or neglected. Located in Riverhead, our horses have found companionship, respect, and love at the rescue center. They get a second chance as teachers and healers through our rehabilitation program, “Through Our Horses.” Spirit’s Promise provides a unique destination for many family events, with birthday parties, Halloween, and Christmas events! Join us for a tour of the farm, line dancing, equine education, or the summer day camp. Volunteer every Sunday!

St. Patrick Youth Community St. Patrick Church, Smithtown

631-724-1261;stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net The best kept secret is now available to you! St. Patrick Youth Enrichment Learning Center is available for ages 2-5, Monday–Friday, during the school year. Flexible hours, days, and reasonable rates make this program an option for all. Music, reading readiness skills, and NYS standards are just some of the reasons to join. We offer arts and crafts, circle time number

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Tower Talent

535 Broadhollow Road, Suite A2A, Melville 516-765-2400; towertalent.com towertalentclasses@gmail.com On-camera acting, modeling, and vocal coaching for kids and teens ages 4 and older. Build confidence, overcome shyness, and prepare your child for a future career in entertainment. Local auditions with NYC talent agencies, management, and casting companies are held at our Melville location and are provided to students for potential jobs in commercials, TV, film, fashion shows, and print campaigns. Attend special guest workshops and learn from working actors, models, and casting directors. After school and on weekends. If your child has star quality, give us a call today.

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wice a day—once with breakfast, and once again at dinner— Melissa Hilt administers medicine to her 9-year-old daughter, Haley. Hilt uses a syringe to measure out a precise dosage, and gives it to Haley mixed in her food. It’s a normal, everyday scene for a child who needs medication, with one big difference: The medicine Haley is ingesting is a coconut oil compound that contains extract from the marijuana plant. A resident of East Schodack in Rensselaer County, Haley is among the first New York residents to take advantage of the state’s recent legalization of medical marijuana. Haley has severe intractable epilepsy. She can’t walk or talk, and is incontinent. Her first seizure was at 4 weeks old; since then, she seized at least once daily. But in the months since Haley started taking medical marijuana, she’s improved tremendously. “Within 24 hours of her first dose,” Hilt says, Haley “was more alert, bright in the best way.” She has just two or three seizures each week, compared to the seven to 10 she experienced prior to the drug. Before she began taking medical marijuana, “we were never really sure what Haley knew, and what she didn’t.” Now, she’s able to communicate using an eye gaze computer. Hilt describes Haley as making “huge, huge gains” due to the medication. Haley can now stand on her feet and even ride a tricycle at school. In fact, “she loves to stand with support and dance,” her mom says. With the help of a walker-like device, Haley can walk down the hallways at school. Haley is able to legally take medical marijuana thanks to New York’s legalized medical cannabis program, which took effect at the beginning of this year. New York joins the District of Columbia and 24 other states—including Connecticut and New Jersey— which have passed laws allowing use of marijuana in some form for medical purposes. The new laws, in addition to those in a handful of states that have legalized or reduced punishment for recreational marijuana use, come as public opinion has shifted dramatically. A 2015 survey from the Pew Research Center found that 53 percent of people believe marijuana should be legalized. That may seem like a slim majority—and it is—but just a decade ago, in 2006, a similar survey from Pew found that only 32 percent believed marijuana should be legalized.

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Still, if you came of age in the unequivocal “Say no to drugs” era, when marijuana was labeled a gateway drug, the idea of children being recommended medical marijuana may cause trepidation. Hilt, however, has no regrets or reservations about the treatment method for Haley. Side effects are familiar to Haley: Steroid injections caused a heart murmur; a special high-fat diet aimed at reducing seizures caused Haley to go into liver failure; benzodiazepine, a tranquilizer used to reduce seizures, “zombified” Haley. Once, a medication caused her to sleep for 72 hours straight. In contrast, the coconut oil compound that’s used as a delivery agent for the cannabis treatment can sometimes cause Haley to get constipated. “When you’re looking 48

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at the side effects of the other medications that are out there, it’s nothing in comparison. Honestly, part of me wishes I could have tried it before we put her little body through all of these horrible things, to see if it would have worked then,” Hilt says. The American Academy of Pediatrics sounds a more cautionary note. In a policy statement issued in March 2015, the AAP points out that there is ample documentation on “the adverse effects of marijuana” on adolescents as well as a lack of “published studies on the use of medicinal marijuana or pharmaceutical cannabinoids in pediatric populations.” As well as all the well-known side effects— including reduced attention span, short term memory, coordination, and judgment—the AAP also points out that “new research has also demonstrated that the adolescent brain, particularly the prefrontal cortex areas controlling judgment and decision-making, is not fully developed until the mid-20s, raising questions about how any substance use may affect the developing brain.” Still, while opposing medical marijuana outside of the oversight and regulation of the U.S. Food and Drug Administration, “the AAP recognizes that marijuana may currently be an option for cannabinoid administration for children with life-limiting or severely debilitating conditions and for whom current therapies are inadequate.” Against this backdrop of increased accessibility of medical marijuana, at least in some states, the federal government continues to classify marijuana as a Schedule I drug, alongside LSD, heroin, and ecstasy. The Drug Enforcement Agency defines these drugs as having “no currently accepted medical use and a high potential for abuse.” These Schedule I drugs are considered “the most dangerous.” It’s an undeniably complex landscape, and this, perhaps, is why New York’s medical marijuana program has been implemented with tight regulations. Stephen Dahmer, M.D., the Chief Medical Officer at Vireo Health of NY, one of five organizations approved to dispense

medical marijuana in the state, agrees that there are undeniable risks involved with medical marijuana. “Any physician that reads the literature about children or anyone under 21 and THC [a part of the marijuana plant] knows that caution has just been amplified a thousandfold,” he says. But for children such as Haley—people with intractable disease and extreme pain and discomfort—these risks may be worth it. “When these children arrive at our dispensary, this is one of their last hopes,” Dr. Dahmer says.

New York’s Cautious, Medical-Led Program

How do children—or any patients—get to Vireo or the other dispensaries in New York? The journey isn’t easy. The first New York dispensaries opened in January 2016. You may be imagining storefronts festooned with decorative marijuana leaves, Mason jars stuffed full of pot, boxes of pre-rolled joints, or plastic-wrapped cannabis-laced cookies, brownies, and other edibles. Erase that image: New York’s implementation of legalized medical cannabis differs sharply from states with more lenient, and lower regulated, programs (ahem, California). In New York state, no wink-wink, nudge-nudge diagnosis will get you access to medical marijuana. The program is tightly regulated and cautious. Dr. Dahmer describes New York’s program hewing “very closely to a medical model.” Vireo’s work with doctors, and the state’s program, mimics the general practices that govern doctors’ habits and style, Dr. Dahmer says. “Anything we do—in our practice, and oftentimes in our lives—is done with a lot of caution. We want to always take the safest route…and make sure that our patients are protected and that some unforeseen circumstance doesn’t catch us by surprise.”

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insights. And then, “Fight for your kid.” Medical marijuana is “not something our government should say we can or can’t have. This is something our physicians should determine, not the government. Call your legislators, call your senator, and tell them, I want this available for myself, for my children, for whomever.”

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Dr. Scott Friedman received his doctorate of dental surgery and orthodontic training from New York University College of Dentistry. He has 33 years of clinical experience and a vast background in all phases of orthodontic treatment. Our practice’s top priority is to provide you the highest quality orthodontic care in a friendly, comfortable environment. Whether you’re an adult, adolescent, or child, our knowledgeable doctors and staff are committed to helping you achieve the smile you deserve: a healthy, beautiful one!

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Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, is owner and operator of Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. Along with her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES—Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. There is a total of seven affiliated offices across Long Island, all participating with most major health insurance companies and offering evening and Saturday hours.

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Dr. Michael Ioannou, a native of Suffolk County, received his dental degree at the University of Connecticut - School of Dental Medicine, with a residency in pediatric dentistry from Albert Einstein College of Medicine/Montefiore Medical Center. A friendly, patient dentist, Dr. Ioannou strives to make visiting the dentist a fun experience, all while providing exceptional dental care. He uses excellent behavioral management approaches, a child-friendly environment (TV and cartoons in all treatment rooms), and he sings to the patients! Dr. Ioannou currently participates with most insurance companies and has convenient evening and Saturday office hours.

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Dr. Oleszak and her husband left Poland a few years after completing medical school. After taking Canadian and American medical licensing exams, they settled on Long Island. Dr. Oleszak joined the pediatric residency program at Stony Brook University Hospital, receiving an award for “Best Resident.” She completed her pediatric residency in 1993, and joined Kids First Pediatrics. Dr. Oleszak is board-certified, a fellow of the American Academy of Pediatrics, and a member of the Suffolk County Pediatric Society. She is affiliated with St. Charles Hospital/Mather Hospital, and Stony Brook University Hospital.

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Dr. Cummings believes that a dentist and patient become a team for treating an individual’s dental needs. She spends time listening to understand your concerns and responds with the best treatment options for you. She received her degree from Howard University College of Dentistry and received her postdoctoral training from University Hospital Stony Brook. Dr. Cummings is trained and experienced in providing dental care for patients with special needs, as well as complete dental care for the entire family. There’s a story behind every smile... we’d like to be part of yours!

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LI Lutheran Day School at St. Pauls.............................. 46

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Elite Dance Centre........................................................ 50

Posey School of Dance................................................. 46

Modern Warrior.............................................................. 23

Prime Time Early Learning Center................................ 49

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PTS Coaching Tutors.............................................. 50, 53

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St. Patrick Youth Community......................................... 15

Rubie’s Costume Company............................................. 2

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Artistic Gymnastics........................................................ 31

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LI Lutheran Day School at St. Pauls.............................. 46

BounceU - Farmingdale................................................ 45

Music Together, LLC...................................................... 31

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Ohman School Of Ballet................................................ 22

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Prime Time Early Learning Center................................ 49

Rubie’s Costume Company............................................. 2

St. Patrick Youth Community......................................... 15

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Building Blocks Developmental Preschool.............. 35, 52

Prime Time Early Learning Center................................ 49 HEALTH

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Cummings Family Dental........................................ 11, 53

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Elite Dance Centre........................................................ 50

Family Joy of Music....................................................... 45

Allied Physicians Group........................................... 13, 52

Hofstra University.......................................................... 43

Cummings Family Dental........................................ 11, 53

HappyFest / HTBAD Inc.................................................. 9

LIU Center for Gifted Youth........................................... 47

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Picasso Kidz.................................................................. 21

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Law Offices of Brad H Rosken...................................... 43 Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County......................... 3, 52

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Posey School of Dance................................................. 46

Horizon Orthodontics .............................................. 13, 52

Tower Talent - Melville................................................... 19

Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County......................... 3, 52

Village East Gifted......................................................... 55

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