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education 12 Full STEAM Ahead 16 Education Directory 18 Highlighted Programs

Family Fun in Manhattan

Things to do and shows to see this month in the Big Apple.

What Your Teen Really Needs From You

Where There’s a Will

Ten things your teen is still relying on you for, despite her newfound independence.

Having a plan in place will protect your children and prepare them for the future.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 9 5 Reasons It’s Okay to Be a Lazy Parent 10 A Healthy Obsession 34 What Your Teen Really Needs From You 36 Ready, Set, Sibling! 40 Meet the Director 42 Party Central 44 Meet the Health Care Professional 45 Advertiser’s Index 45 Party Planner 46 Stuff We Like

11 Starry Slime

32 Are You Ready to Move?

20 Family Fun in Manhattan

38 Where There’s a Will

21 Family Activities Calendar

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New Year, New Resolutions

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appy New Year! For many of us, January means turning over a new leaf (or at least trying!). We make resolutions we promise ourselves we will keep only to let our family take priority. It’s only natural; after all, you want to make the best decisions for your kids, from finding fun and exciting things to do with your children any day of the month to selecting the right camps, health care providers, schools, or after-school activities for your brood. We here atWestchester Parent are here to help find just what you’re looking for and make better decisions for your family! Ensuring our kids get a great education is always a priority, so we’re also here to tell you about a big trend in more and more schools: Art is being added to STEM studies. In “Full STEAM Ahead” by Madeleine Burry (p. 12), you’ll find six reasons schools are embracing art as part of science, technology, engineering, and math education. And turn to our Education Directory on p. 16 to find a school, academic enrichment program, or tutor for your child to kick the new semester off on a great start. If you’re expecting a second child, you’ll want to make sure your first-born is fully prepared. In “Ready, Set, Sibling!” (p. 36), Denise Porretto shares tips on everything, from sharing the news to post-birth bonding. Speaking of growing your family: The size of your home or where you live may soon become a hot-button topic, so check out “Are You Ready to Move?” by Lambeth Hochwald (p. 32). Are you the parent of a teen? Once upon a time, you were your teen’s social director, homework-helper, and more, but most of those roles have been phased out. While it may seem like your oh-so-grown-up child needs you less, she actually still needs a lot from you. Read Deborah Skolnik’s “What Your Teen Really Needs from You” (pg. 34) for 10 reasons you shouldn’t keep your distance. Go ahead, give your teen a hug—just maybe not in public. Another thing that should be a priority? Take time to establish a will (see p. 38 for willwriting advice). While no one wants to think about the unimaginable, having a plan in place will protect your children should something happen to you and your partner. From our family—me, Melissa, Anja, Alice, Whitney, and Debbie—to yours, we wish you all a happy, healthy New Year!

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Who: SENSE-sational FUN-damentals, Inc. What’s New: The occupational therapy program, which is slated to launch with two classes this month. SENSE-sational School Skills 101 will facilitate and promote optimal sensory, strength, and school skills in all children through carefully designed games and strategies. Through playbased activities, children will work on the skills they will need to be successful in preschool and kindergarten. The second class, SENSE-sational Messy Play, focuses on creating different mediums such as flubber, snow, or gak to help strengthen motor-skills required in preschool or kindergarten. Kristin Ciorra, M.S., O.T.R/L., and mom of three, created SENSE-sational FUNdamentals because she saw a need for children to develop fundamental skills that are not currently addressed in traditional community classes or school programs. Want More Info: Congregation B’nai Yisrael, 2 Banksville Road, Armonk; World Cup Nursery School & Kindergarten, 160 Hunts Lane, Chappaqua; sensesationalfundamentals. com; 914-222-3569

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Art Studio Starts Winter Session Classes in South Riverdale, Bronx Who: Anya’s Art Room What’s New: The winter semester, which is scheduled to begin Monday, Jan. 7. Children can engage in a variety of art methods, including sculpture, painting, sketching, jewelry making, and model drawing. Classes are modeled after the fine arts courses one might take in art school. Instead of step-by-step instruction, owner and instructor Anya Marfin reinforces the importance of developing one’s unique process and perspectives. Classes for ages 7-8 will take place from 3:30-4:30pm on Mondays and classes for ages 8-12 will take place from 5-6pm on Tuesdays. All materials are provided. Want More Info: Anya’s Art Room, South Riverdale, Bronx; 914575-2395; anyasartroom@gmail.com; facebook.com/anyasartroom

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Who: Clowns.com What’s New: STEM-themed birthday parties for kids, which are slated to begin this month. The science parties will consist of two scientists, Scientist X and Scientist Y (named after the chromosomes). Each scientist will perform demonstrations and lead hands-on experiments with the partygoers. The experiments can be anything from making slime to learning about magnetic fields, with each activity tailored to the party attendee’s age group. Comedy is a key aspect of the party performance as well. The science party is suitable for all ages, but its recommended for children ages 8-10. “We want to combine entertainment with some real-world learning experiences for kids,” says George Blackstone, owner of Clowns.com. Want More Info: clowns.com; 516-777-0000 8

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5 Ways to ‘Not Quite Ruin Your Child’

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here’s an abundance of resources—from books and magazines to Facebook and parent groups—to turn to when seeking advice on how to raise the smartest, highest-achieving, and most successful children. We all want what’s best for our kids, after all. But James Breakwell, professional comedy writer and selfproclaimed amateur father of four girls (and two pigs), suggests it’s simply a waste of time. “In the long run, we all work out to be average,” he says. “Your child would be better off if you just relax and do a little less for them, rather than stress yourself out and push them as hard as possible.” Breakwell, author of Bare Minimum Parenting: The Ultimate Guide to Not-Quite Ruining Your Child, shares advice that proves it’s okay to be a “lazy parent.” Say no to (parental) peer pressure. When the mother of a boy in your son’s Boy Scout troop makes comments about the KitKat you put in his lunch or your daughter’s field hockey coach asks why she’s not on a travel team yet (in fourth grade), it can be difficult to stick to your own parenting ways. But if every parent thinks they’re right about how to parent and you’re wrong, then everyone is wrong, according to Breakwell. “If someone tells you you’re a terrible parent, who cares,” he says. “They can’t stop you from giving your kid that candy bar. We’ve been raising kids for hundreds of thousands of years before Facebook and online forums. Don’t let parent-shaming control your decisions.” Show up sometimes, but not all the time. “Raise your kid to think they’re a member of the family, not the entire family,” Breakwell suggests. By dropping everything, leaving work, and traveling far and wide to go to every single one of your son’s lacrosse games, you’re teaching him that he’s the epicenter of the universe and he should only do things in search of your validation, not because he loves them. Instead, Breakwell suggests showing up when you can, and when you do, take him out for dinner after the game. “After all, your kids aren’t going to remember the games you weren’t at, but they will remember the one time you took them for pizza after,” he says. Speaking of sports, are you spending all of your time and money to fly around the country, pay tournament fees, and book hotels so your child can potentially get a scholarship to college and you can save money? Breakwell compares that to spending $1,000 at a claw machine for a $5 stuffed animal. “Why not take all of that money

James Breakwell (middle), author of Bare Minimum Parenting: The Ultimage Guide to Not-Quite Ruining Your Child, with his family

you’re wasting and save it for college?” Breakwell suggests. Plus, it’s likely your kid won’t become a professional sports player. Convince them they had a great childhood. When parents post pictures on Facebook, Breakwell says they’re lying to their friends. “You post your best picture, I post my best picture, and we create an echo chamber of lying where everyone thinks the other is telling the truth,” Breakwell says. “Use this to your advantage.” Due to the strange phenomenon known as childhood amnesia, kids can only remember events that occurred before age 3 when they’re little, according to Popular Science. By the time they’re 7, these early memories are almost entirely gone and what they “remember” is a product of what you tell them and the photos they see. “If they don’t remember anyway, why are we stressing out?!” Breakwell asks. “Save the pictures that frame you in a good light and tell your kid she had a happy childhood, and, when she grows up, she won’t blame you for all of her problems.” Stop worrying about preschool (and middle school, high school, college…). “Overachieving parents say that all they care about is their child getting a good education and that education is all that matters. Honestly, I don’t think education matters all that much as long as your kid somehow gets one somewhere,” Breakwell says. “Nobody has secret math. Math at one school will be the same as it is at another school even if the other school has a swimming pool and a polo field.” If a parent is saying she wants her son to go to the best school, does this mean the school that will make him the happiest and feel the most fulfilled, or is it the one that will ensure he makes the most money? Instead of focusing on getting your kid into the school with the ‘best reputation,’ focus on helping your child make the most of his education. Gently shove your child out the door. The first benchmark of successful parenting is if you raised your child to ultimately support themselves, according to Breakwell. Now, no one is suggesting your 7-year-old live off of lemonade stand money. However, when the time is right, if your child doesn’t get a job, he will certainly never leave. While every parent ideally wants to encourage his child to follow her dreams of becoming a freelance traveling poet, money does ultimately matter. If she’s not making any, it’s coming from you. While you don’t have to explicitly discourage your child from choosing a “fun but impoverishing career,” it can’t hurt to not encourage her to choose a career that will lead to her living in your basement. WestchesterParent

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My son is my best reason yet to learn to limit my OCD behaviors. By Christopher Dale

did not hit the genetic lottery. Depression, anxiety, and addiction run in my family, and in early adulthood I battled all three. Fortunately, a combination of psychiatry, medication, and Alcoholics Anonymous have made my 30s far better than my 20s. I got well—or at least well enough—just in time to salvage my marriage and become a father. Now, as my toddler marches steadily toward constant cognizance— into remembering and mimicking his parents’ mannerisms—I feel urgency to address another diagnosis, one less dangerous but nonetheless a source of angst and alienation. I want to overcome my obsessive-compulsive disorder—before it affects my son. At its root, OCD is a fear-based mental illness. It involves counterproductive efforts to maintain a sense of safety when feeling threatened or at risk. A telltale peculiarity is the actions taken to offset these uneasy feelings are completely unassociated with the perceived threats. For example, my OCD might compel me to mitigate fear of failing at work by adjusting a framed photo in the bedroom. Thus commences a cycle where, contrary to intentions, the safety-seeking actions actually lead to worsening anxiety. It’s the feeling of hopelessness attached to knowing that what you’re doing is patently illogical…and being incapable of doing anything about it. Though no specific gene has been pinpointed, research indicates OCD runs in families. Those with a parent or sibling with OCD have a higher risk of developing it. Experts also believe environmental factors can cause OCD tendencies to develop—a “monkey see, monkey do” effect. In other words, the more my son, Nicholas, sees my OCD-mandated movements, the more likely he is to develop his own. I got off lightly compared to many others with OCD, as my obsessive thoughts and routines aren’t extreme or dangerous. I’m compelled to rigidly arrange my shoes, and often fail to flick a light switch per my compulsion’s inexplicable ideal, leading to multiple repeats. I do this pinching thing with my hands (the pressure quells my OCD), and, stereotypically, I’m uneasy stepping on sidewalk cracks. I also fight the urge to grind my teeth—often unsuccessfully, considering my dental records. These bodily compulsions are particularly burdensome since, unlike shoes and light switches, I can’t just walk away from my teeth. Constant triggers require constant vigilance. And though it hasn’t impacted my career, relationships, or other big-ticket items, my OCD is still a significant source of alienation,

The author with his son, Nicholas

humiliation, and stress. Despite this, I’ve never hit an “immediate pain vs. long-term reward” ratio sufficient to commit myself to truly overcoming my OCD. Until now. Until Nicholas. If Nicholas develops OCD via overwhelming genetics, so be it. But if nurture plays a determining role, it’s my responsibility to prevent my son from following in my pavement crack-averse footsteps. From a parenting perspective, this dilemma’s simplicity is refreshing. Even at age 2, raising Nicholas presents a spectrum of gray areas. Is he eating enough? Learning enough? Interacting enough? Answers typically fall into the “probably,” “I think so,” or “I have no idea” columns. Clear-cut cases of yes and no are elusive. Not so with this issue. It’s a must-do. In spite—or perhaps because—of this, the execution is exceptionally intimidating. So are the stakes: There is absolutely nothing in which I am more invested than my only child. For his sake, I simply cannot fail at this, and that fact is overwhelming. Sometimes I watch him at play—a carefree mind concocting universes where roaring dinosaurs and anthropomorphized trains coexist—and can’t imagine burdening that innocence with my compulsions. That my failing is even a possibility brings deep shame, and I feel guilty even though the jury is still out. The disorder’s volatility adds even more pressure. My OCD is relatively minor, but those who are not as lucky as I am can be hindered or even debilitated by it. What if Nicholas not only gets it from me, but gets it worse than me? It is with this tenuous poker hand—these imperfect cards, these unknowable variables and outcomes—that I simply have to go all in. I do this by default, as neither standing pat nor folding are viable options. My path to success is straight but uphill: Cognitive behavioral therapy is the most proven way to overcome mild-to-moderate OCD such as mine. The specific therapy is astoundingly simple, yet exceedingly difficult: exposure and response prevention, which is clinical speak for facing my triggers without acting on my fear-based physical impulses. Apparently, there’s a catch phrase to this: “Better sane than safe.” The fact that such a phrase exists is, well, kind of insane. Nevertheless, here we go. The shoe rack is about to get less tidy, the light fixtures less flickered, my teeth less clenched (and hopefully less sore). Wish me luck. It’ll be a tough road. Thankfully my son—my ultimate motivator—is riding shotgun.

Christopher Dale is a freelance writer and public relations executive who resides in Little Falls, NJ. His work has appeared in a variety of outlets, including NY Daily News, Newsday, The Daily Beast, and Parents.com. Follow him on Twitter at @ChrisDaleWriter.

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Starry Slime

Experiment with chemistry, astronomy, and art with this out-of-this-world craft! Slime is huge these days—what kid doesn’t have a can full of this stuff to squish, pull, and shape? Your kids may already have a batch slime or two, but do they have one with a galactic (and educational) twist? Explore the patterns and colors of the Milky Way while spending a little quality time crafting. Use this project to segway the conversation into a STEM (or STEAM) learning opportunity to think creatively about outer space or how something sticky like glue can produce something smooth like slime. You’ll Need 2 Elmer’s® Washable Clear School Glue, 5 oz. 1 Creatology™ Jumbo Wood Craft Sticks 1 Glitter Shakers By Creatology®

1 Creatology™ Glitter, 3 oz. 2 Elmer’s® Washable School Glue, 4 oz. Wilton® Gel Icing Colors, 12 Pieces

Instructions Project Notes: All types of Elmer’s® glue work with this recipe; however, this project uses two 5 fl. oz. bottles of clear glue and two 4 fl. oz. bottles of white glue to make Starry Slime as shown. Be careful when children are crafting with sequins, as the product does have a choke hazard warning on the label. Protect your work surface with wax (or palette) paper and wear an apron (or other protective garment) to protect clothing, as the food coloring may stain. 1. First, find your favorite glue slime recipe [visit michaels.com for a few options]. For the Starry Slime, add color to each slime according to your recipe’s instructions. 2. This slime has four colored stripes: black star slime, pink slime, teal slime, and crystal slime. To make black star slime, use one 5 fl. oz. bottle of clear glue. To get the color shown, add black food coloring and a very small quantity of royal blue food coloring, according to your recipe’s instructions. (Tip: Dip a craft stick into the food-coloring container, then mix the color into the glue, stirring thoroughly until it’s completely blended.

Always use a new, clean craft stick when dipping into your food coloring to avoid cross-contamination.) 3. Flatten out your slime on a piece of wax (or palette) paper and sprinkle on fine glitter in silver, pink, purple, peacock blue, and dark blue. Fold the slime’s edges in toward the center to blend the glitters into the slime. Continue until they are evenly distributed throughout the slime. Repeat to mix tiny silver stars into the slime. 4. T o make crystal slime, make your favorite 5 oz. clear glue recipe. Repeat Step 3 to blend white iridescent glitter into the slime. Continue until it is evenly distributed throughout the slime. 5. To make pink slime, use a recipe that calls for a 4 fl. oz. bottle of white glue. To get the color shown add pink food coloring and a tiny quantity of violet food coloring, according to your recipe’s directions. 6. To make teal slime, use a recipe that calls for a 4 fl. oz. bottle of white glue. To get the color shown add teal food coloring according to your recipe’s instructions. 7. Form each slime into a long strip and lay each one next to the other on your non-stick surface. Now, fold and twist the slimes together until you have blended them just the way you like. 8. Store your slime in an airtight, sealable container (or re-sealable plastic bag).

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How the arts play an important role in your child’s science, technology, engineering, and math education By Madeleine Burry

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’ve always loved both science and art,” says Liz Heinecke, author of several STEAM project books for children, including STEAM Lab for Kids: 52 Creative Hands-On Projects for Exploring Science, Technology, Engineering, Art, and Math. If you think about it, she says, science and art are inseparable. But that’s not always how educators and learning experts have approached the two disciplines. Nowadays, STEAM is a common phrase. The acronym, as Heinecke’s book title suggests, stands for science, technology, engineering, art, and math. Rewind just a few years, though, and the buzzed-about term was STEM—science, technology, engineering, and math, without the arts included. And earlier still, elementary, middle, and high schools didn’t devote much time to engineering and technology, and math and science were typically taught in different classrooms, without much exploration of the interactions between the two topics. We asked experts to explain the evolution, and why it makes sense from an educational perspective.

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STEM was first mentioned in the 1990s, says Jackie Speake, Ed.D., STEM education consultant and author of Designing Meaningful STEM Lessons. The concept “spread like wildfire through the educational landscape,” she says. Driving STEM’s popularity were concerns that American children lack the skills required for a 21st-century workforce, from problem solving to a strong backbone of knowledge. That’s backed up by data: American students “rank around the middle of the pack” in international math and science assessments, Pew Research notes. With STEM, the focus is not primarily on knowledge—for instance, how accurately students can recite times tables or elements in the periodic table—but on the application of information, and growing problem-solving, observational, and exploratory skills. And rather than treating the four pillars as separate and distinct from each other, STEM education focuses on how they’re connected and inform each other.

So, what about that “A”? Artist and author John Maeda, former president of Rhode Island School of Art and Design, was the first champion of adding the arts to STEM and growing the acronym to STEAM. “There is great power in these fields [design and technology] taken separately, and even more when they are put together,” he wrote in a 2013 op-ed for Seattle Times. But, he went on to note, the key is to develop creative, critical-thinking skills in kindergarten through 12th-grade schools.

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Why add the arts to STEM? For one thing, the arts make for an inviting, easy access point to STEM topics. “Art is a great on-ramp for a lot of kids, to get them doing science, technology, engineering, and math experiments in a way that is entertaining and approachable,” Heinecke says. And that’s just one reason why it’s smart to embrace the arts within STEM. These are some others: The arts are already a vital part of science, technology, engineering, and math. No need to shoehorn in the arts when it comes to learning—or teaching—science, technology, engineering, and math. “Art and design have played a prominent role in STEM, whether it’s pointed out to people or not,” Heinecke notes. Speake agrees. “STEM lessons naturally involve art (for example, product design), language arts (communication), and social studies and history (setting the context for engineering challenges),” she says. Here’s where a schism occurs, however, between STEAM and STEM proponents: “I’m not necessarily supportive of additional disciplines as separate entities within STEM,” Speake says. This isn’t due to a lack of appreciation for the arts. “STEM projects do not deliberately exclude the arts or any other subject,” she says, noting that they’re included as needed. She—and other educators and experts—have concerns that giving the arts equal weight dilutes the focus on the core STEM disciplines. STEAM advocates, on the other hand, see art’s presence as just surfacing a discipline that was already involved and integral to learning STEM topics. Arts make STEM topics more engaging—even to kids who don’t think they like science or math. Does your child say, “I hate science” or “I’m just not good at math”? These phrases can start early but including the arts in learning can be transformative for some kids. It’s easy to find memorizing a long litany of facts and formulas unappealing, but Heinecke points out math is also a language that helps us describe the universe. If we can get kids to see math as art and beauty and nature, that changes the way they think about the world and the way they approach subjects in school,” Heinecke says. Doing hands-on projects and experiments that involve the arts solidifies a child’s understanding of concepts. Take tessellations—they’re a pattern of repeated shapes without any gaps. Think: the tiles on your kitchen backsplash or bathroom walls. Explain the concept and it’s possible kids will follow, but also possible they’ll be intimidated by the long word or struggle to find the relevance. A better option? Have kids create tessellations of their own, Heinecke suggests. This is a project in one of her books, done using candy wrappers or dried pasta as the pattern-making device. By creating tessellations, kids see the concept in action and may be

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inspired to seek out other tessellations in nature (the design on the back of a turtle’s shell, for instance). Plus, the creation process is most likely more memorable than a lecture or slides.

Mandarin Discovery School

An immersive Mandarin language school

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Mommy & Me, Preschool, Children 5 years old through high school, Chinese Culture AND Tutoring for all ages

Classes held in White Plains & Yonkers

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Scarsdale Synagogue Temples Tremont & Emanu-El 2 Ogden Road, Scarsdale, NY 10583

Nursery School & Summer Programs For Children 18 months through Age 5 www.sstte.org | 914-723-3001

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STEAM connects your child’s interests to the real world. Watch any popular cooking show (say, The Great British Baking Show, Top Chef, or MasterChef Junior) and you and your kids will see science and art, and possibly engineering and technology, in action, Heinecke points out. There’s the wizardry of sous vide cooking, the science to temper chocolate, architectural decorations, and so on. “Kids connect best with things when they can touch, see, or understand how to use it everyday life,” Heinecke says. “One great thing about adding the arts is that it’s just another way for kids to connect their interests in the real world to the STEM disciplines.” The arts show children how to be creative problem-solvers, and the value of mistakes. Amazing engineers aren’t good at their jobs because of their fast, mental arithmetic or equationsolving abilities. Those are important skills, but it’s creative approaches to problem solving that truly make the difference between a flip phone and an iPhone. “People come from all around the world to be educated in the United States because kids here learn to be creative. A big part of that is art,” Heinecke says. “Art forces you to be creative and brings you out of your shell.” And, art gives kids a place to make interesting mistakes and challenge themselves. “Our kids don’t have enough space to be creative,” she says. “Art gives kids an arena where there isn’t always a right answer.” Art reduces STEM’s intimidation factor—and helps raise informed children. In day-to-day life as grown-ups, even if we work in fields and industries far removed from STEM, we need to have a basic understanding of the topics involved. “Not every kid has to be a scientist or engineer, but the more you embrace the STEM disciplines, the better citizen of the world you’ll be,” Heinecke says. “The more well-informed people are as children, the more they’ll grow up to be wellinformed adults.”

How Parents Can Encourage STEAM Learning

Avoid any kids’ play or building kits that do not encourage creative, independent thinking, Speake advises. “It is not STEM (or STEAM) if there is little creativity in the solving of problems,” Speake says. There’s little value to kits where each child builds the same projects, without options for individualization and exploration, she says. Heinecke’s advice is simple: “Throw some math tools in with your kids’ art supplies.” Rulers, protractors, and compasses are all fair game. And highlight the moments when disciplines overlap, Heinecke says. As your child learns about patterns and shapes, let her know this is geometry, a type of math. Ultimately, Heinecke says, a big goal is to make kids comfortable and familiar with STEM before they hit middle school. And inclusion of the arts can help, she says. “The idea is really to get kids engaged—and keep them engaged.”

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Eastchester Shopping Center 721 White Plains Road, Scarsdale 914-722-6100 650 Central Ave., Scarsdale 914-946-7800 335 Downing Drive, Yorktown Heights 914-245-8882 58 E. Route 59, Nanuet 845-624-6800 huntingtonhelps.com Huntington Learning Center is the premier tutoring and test prep provider for kindergarten students through 12th grade. Founded in 1977, its mission is to give every student the best education possible. The company prides itself on personalized attention and proven results with individualized programs taught by certified teachers at accredited centers.

Project Explore

70 Columbus Ave., Valhalla 914-328-1578 eastersealsny.org We serve children with and without disabilities in inclusive, integrated, small classrooms.We offer high-quality full- and part-time programs, school year and year-round, for children ages 18 months-5 years, from 8:30am-2:30pm. Before- and after-school care, vacation clubs during school breaks, and summer camp are available.

Starlight Starbright Music

78 Garth Road, Scarsdale 914-924-0995 slsbmusic.com jackie@slsbmusic.com Nurture your child’s musical growth in parent-child Music Together or Spanish-immersion Canta y Baila Conmigo classes, for children ages newborn to 5. We offer Music Together Babies for infants through 6 months, Uke U, parent-child beginner ukulele for ages 3-6, and Guitar for Grownups for the adults in Music Together.

Daycare & Childcare Ann and Andy Child Care

2170 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-3027 annandandychildcare.com annandydca@aol.com Ann and Andy, family-owned and operated since 1973, offers a variety of fun activities for children ages 2 months-14 years. We are licensed by NYSOCFS and the Health Department. We offer flexible schedules, reasonable rates, nutritious lunches, a caring staff, individualized attention, and age-appropriate field trips.

The Nurtury Montessori School

914-632-6200 thenurtury-montessori.com info@thenurtury-montessori.com The Nurtury is committed to promoting quality, full-time Montessori childcare for children ages 6 weeks-6 years. The first six years of life is when intelligence and personality are formed. We greatly understand this concept, and, as a result, the Nurtury has set the standard for full-time Montessori childcare.

Parochial Schools Iona Preparatory School K–12

Brother Thomas R. Leto, C.F.C., Ed.D., president Lower School (grades pre-K-4 to eighth) 173 Stratton Road, New Rochelle 914-633-7744 Upper School (grades ninth to 12th) 255 Wilmot Road, New Rochelle 914-632-0714 ionaprep.org Westchester’s only all-boys, K-12th Catholic school has been preparing young men for success for more than 100 years. Rigorous academics with three levels of study, personalized and comprehensive school counseling and college advisement, unique Christian service and leadership opportunities, and championship athletics, provide students with the foundation for success.

Temple Israel Center Nursery School

Patty Goldstick, director 280 Old Mamaroneck Road, White Plains 914-948-2800 x126 templeisraelcenter.org Temple Israel Center Nursery School is dedicated to providing a warm and nurturing environment where children can achieve their full potential—socially, emotionally, creatively, cognitively, physically, and Jewishly. We offer classes for children ages 2-4, mommy-and-me programs, after-school enrichment, and Stay and Play Extended Hours. View our microsite at nymetroparents.com/listing/ temple-israel-center-nursery-school.

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and living fully in the present, in the context of a caring environment. Children learn through discovery, multi sensory, child-centered, and rich adult-child interactions.

Preschools Alcott Montessori School

535 Broadway, Dobbs Ferry 914-693-4443 27 Crane Road, Scarsdale 914-472-4404 46 Fox Meadow Road, Scarsdale 914-725-7551 alcottschool.org Alcott School provides children ages 2-6 a supportive, multicultural, learning environment where they develop independence, self-confidence, and pride in their abilities. All sites offer a developmentally appropriate curriculum with Montessori materials, music, creative movement, and nature enrichment programs.

Congregation Kol Ami

252 Soundview Ave., White Plains 914-949-4717 nykolami.org Children learn best through play and experimentation. Our Early Childhood Program provides opportunities for these learning experiences within a warm, accepting, and nurturing environment. We recognize and respect each child’s unique qualities and strive to foster their growth and development in all aspects: cognitive, physical, social, and emotional.

Kids’ B.A.S.E. & The Little School

307 Mamaroneck Road, Scarsdale 914-472-5409 kbls.org Kids’ B.A.S.E. & The Little School encompass before- and after-school programs for school age children, and a preschool program for ages 2-4. The Little School provides a Breakfast Club, an extended day program until 6:30pm, enrichments, and sports. The Little School is licensed by NYS OCFS and accredited by NAEYC.

Mandarin Discovery Preschool

Classes in White Plains and Yonkers 914-351-6788 mandarindiscov.org shanshanli@mandarindiscov.org Mandarin Discovery Preschool is an immersion program for children. We offer mommy-and-me classes, preschool classes, afternoon programs, and a Chinese culture class on the weekend. We also offer tutoring to any age and adults. Our goals are to create a fun learning environment for children and to help them learn Mandarin.

Mazel Tots Early Childhood Program at Scarsdale Synagogue 2 Ogden Road, Scarsdale 914-723-3001 bit.ly/nymetrosite mazeltots@sstte.org, Jody Glassman Mazel Tots® helps children grow!

It serves ages newborn-kindergarten-bound. Featuring a wide variety of developmentally-appropriate activities including sports, music, sign language, yoga, science, art, and the study of Jewish holidays. They also have fully-equipped indoor and outdoor play spaces.

The Milestone School

70 W. Broad St., Mount Vernon 914-667-3478 themilestoneschool.com Founded in 1979 on the premise that “the first years of a child’s education are the most important,” The Milestone School is an independent, non-sectarian, nursery-fourth grade school. Celebrating 40 years of excellence, our unique, stimulating academic environment emphasizing “Early Reading” prepares students to continue on to top private schools.

The Nurtury Montessori School

Project Explore

70 Columbus Ave., Valhalla 914-328-1578 eastersealsny.org We serve children with and without special needs in inclusive, integrated, small classrooms. We offer high-quality full- and part-time programs, school year and year-round, for children ages 18 months-5 years, from 8:30am-2:30pm. Before- and after-school care, vacation clubs during school breaks, and summer camp options are available.

Temple Israel Center Nursery School

Patty Goldstick, director 280 Old Mamaroneck Road, White Plains 914-948-2800 x126 templeisraelcenter.org Temple Israel Center Nursery School is dedicated to providing a warm and nurturing environment where children can achieve their full potential socially, emotionally, creatively, cognitively, physically, and Jewishly. We offer classes for children ages 2-4, mommy-and-me programs, after-school enrichment, and Stay and Play Extended Hours. View our microsite at nymetroparents.com/listing/temple-israel-center-nursery-school.

Torbank Community Nursery School

108 Pinesbridge Road, Ossining 914-941-1563 torbanknurseryschool.com Your child is a very important person. With your help we will provide a wide variety of learning opportunities and experiences, to encourage self-expression, independence, and group

interaction. We will give your child the opportunity to explore, experiment, and reach out into his or her environment.

Westchester Jewish Center Early Childhood Center

Ann Pardes, director 914-698-2767 Palmer and Rockland Avenues, Mamaroneck Use 175 Rockland Ave. for GPS purposes wjcenter.org WJC’s Early Childhood Center (ECC) offers programs for children newborn to 5. Our developmentally-appropriate program provides a balance between preparing for the future, and living fully in the present, in the context of a caring environment. Children learn through discovery, multisensory, child-centered, and rich adult-child interactions.

Private Schools German International School New York (GIS)

ship opportunities, and championship athletics, provide students with the foundation for success.

King School

1450 Newfield Ave., Stamford, CT 203-322-3496 x350 kingschoolct.org/visit King School, a pre-K-12th grade school educating students from 30 towns, prepares students to thrive in a rapidly changing world. What sets King apart is academic challenge, kindness, and personal growth united within our unique community of engaged minds and meaningful connections.

Thornton-Donovan School

100 Overlook Circle, New Rochelle

914-632-8836 td.edu Thornton-Donovan School, located in the heart of New Rochelle’s Beechmont section, was founded in 1901. T-D is an independent, international, kindergarten to 12th, coed school that attracts students from 40 different countries, and teaches French, Spanish, Italian, Latin, Greek, German, and Japanese.

Special Needs Huntington Learning Center

Eastchester Shopping Center 721 White Plains Road, Scarsdale 914-722-6100 650 Central Ave., Scarsdale

914-946-7800 335 Downing Drive, Yorktown Heights 914-245-8882 58 E. Route 59, Nanuet 845-624-6800 huntingtonhelps.com Huntington Learning Center is the premier tutoring and test prep provider for kindergarten students through 12th grade. Founded in 1977, its mission is to give every student the best education possible. The company prides itself on personalized attention and proven results with individualized programs taught by certified teachers at accredited centers.

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50 Partridge Road, White Plains 914-948-6513 gisny.org; admissions@gisny.org Bilingual education opens a world of opportunities. German International School New York is an independent, pre-K through 12th, college preparatory program. No German knowledge required for pre-K and kindergarten.

Hudson Country Montessori School

Ms. Neeru Bhambree director of education 340 Quaker Ridge Road, New Rochelle 914-636-6202 hudsoncountry.org Inspiring and promoting innate curiosity and love of learning through our progressive Montessori pedagogy. We help children grow into respectful, socially-adept and compassionate leaders. Our curriculum is designed to empower students to become independent, creative thinkers and confident achievers. Toddlers (18 months) through eighth grade. Schedule a private tour today!

Iona Preparatory School K–12

An Iona Prep education is one of the best investments you can make for your son’s development.

• An all-boys environment that allows faculty to cater to the needs and interests of boys and actively engage them in learning • Small classes averaging 15 students ensure that each student receives the care and attention he deserves

ATTEND OUR INFORMATION SESSION GRADES PRE-K– 8

Thurs, Feb. 7 9 am & 7 pm Iona Preparatory Lower School 173 Stratton Road New Rochelle, NY 10804

RSVP ONLINE AT IONAPREP.ORG/VISIT For more information, contact: Deirdre Mone at (914) 633-7744 x418 or dmone@ionaprep.org Don’t forget to schedule your Gael-For-A-Day visit at IonaPrep.org/gaelforaday

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Come learn from our experienced Montessori teachers who provide an individual, hands on learning environment. We offer a variety of toddler and pre-K programs! Extended hours are available.

Iona Preparatory School K–12

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27 Crane Rd. 914-472-4404

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46 Fox Meadow Rd. 914-595-7551

Dobbs Ferry

535 Broadway 914-693-4443

Brother Thomas R. Leto, C.F.C., Ed.D., president Lower School (grades pre-K-4 to eighth) 173 Stratton Road, New Rochelle 914-633-7744 Upper School (grades ninth to 12th) 255 Wilmot Road, New Rochelle 914-632-0714 ionaprep.org Iona Preparatory Lower School celebrated the reopening of the Devlin Library and Center for Excellence last month following renovations that have transformed the space into a multi-faceted learning environment. Headlining the enhancement is an all-new makerspace, a collaborative workspace for students to explore interests and solve complex problems creatively.

Kids’ B.A.S.E. & The Little School

Good Beginnings Never End...

Celebrating 40 Years of Excellence

The Milestone School

Pre-School Kindergarten Primary Grades 1 – 4 Early Phonics Program Diaper Friendly Programs EXTENDED DAY 7:30am – 6:00pm Flexible Scheduling Conveniently located across from the Fleetwood Station (Harlem Line) in Mt. Vernon

The Milestone School 70 West Broad St, Mt. Vernon 914-667-3478 themilestoneschool.com Chartered by NYS Board of Regents

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King School

1450 Newfield Ave., Stamford, CT 203-322-3496 x350 kingschoolct.org Each year, a group of students who clearly demonstrate an ability and interest in achieving true excellence within science, technology, engineering, or mathematics will be selected for independent study and competition preparation, or a laboratory research experience, based on the rigorous standards of advanced math and science research.

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307 Mamaroneck Road, Scarsdale 914-472-5409 kbls.org We offer a variety of after-school sports and enrichment programs, structured to best interest and intrigue children. Transportation, a snack, and many of the enrichments classes are included in the tuition. Some recent offerings include: chess, cooking, Future Legends Soccer, and taekwondo.

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Classes in White Plains and Yonkers 914-351-6788 mandarindiscov.org shanshanli@mandarindiscov.org Mandarin Discovery Preschool is an immersion program for children. Our preschool classes are offered from Mondays-Saturdays. We create a fun learning environment. Learn Mandarin with arts and crafts, reading, and singing with musical instruments. Learn traditional Chinese calligraphy known as ‘Mao Bi’, and learn Chinese zodiac animals for fun.

Mazel Tots Early Childhood Program at Scarsdale Synagogue

2 Ogden Road, Scarsdale 914-723-3001 bit.ly/MTspecialprograms mazeltots@sstte.org Mazel Tots® provides a warm, stimulating environment, encouraging children’s growth socially, emotionally, and intellectually. We feature developmentally appropriate activities including sports, games, music, creative movement, sign language, nature, yoga, karate, science, and art. Spiritual growth is enriched by learning about Jewish holidays and values. Our program serves newborns through pre-K.

The Nurtury Montessori School

914-632-6200 thenurtury-montessori.com info@thenurtury-montessori.com Children’s development of personality and social behavior is the essential aspect of Montessori education. Good manners, gentleness with each other, confidence, and ease with those both younger and older than themselves, their care with the environment, eagerness and energy to learn, make clear the benefits of a Montessori education.

Temple Israel Center Nursery School Patty Goldstick, director 280 Old Mamaroneck Road, White Plains 914-948-2800 x126 templeisraelcenter.org Turning Two provides a fun and loving introduction to the classroom for children who just turned two or are turning two in the first quarter of 2019. Children will participate in art, music, sensory play, and learn about Jewish holidays while developing independence as well as social and communication skills.

Westchester Jewish Center Early Childhood Center

Ann Pardes, director 914-698-2767 Palmer and Rockland Avenues, Mamaroneck Use 175 Rockland Ave. for GPS purposes wjcenter.org This month we are about to launch “Handwriting Without Tears” (HWWT). This multisensory program is designed for young children. It incorporates fun, engaging, and developmentally appropriate instructional methods to enable children to master handwriting as an automatic and comfortable skill. HWWT provides opportunities for children to feel like competent, capable learners.

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Little Ones & Friends Toddlers 1-2 Years Old A Fun & Interactive Class!

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Programs from Birth to Age 5 Mommy & Me and 2, 3, & 4 year old classes Art, music, nature, science & movement in a warm nurturing environment where children can achieve their full potential A true sense of community in a progressive Jewish preschool that prepares your child for kindergarten

EARLY MORNING DROP-OFF at 8AM STAY & PLAY EXTENDED HOURS Call or Email Patty Goldstick 914-948-2800 x126 p.goldstick@templeisraelcenter.org • 280 Old Mamaroneck Rd, White Plains

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Age Appropriate activities including: tween trips, bowling, swimming, golf, drama, sports, water slide, zip-line, climbing wall, train rides, arts & crafts, sports, computers, air castle and more!

Call for a Tour and Appointment! 914-592-3027

Saturday, February 2, 10am-1pm

We offer a structured learning environment for children to grow in the areas of cognitive, motor and social development. Programs Offered: Toddlers 18 months - 2.9 years of age Integrated Pre-School Program 2.9 through 5 years of age If you are interested in touring our Program, please contact Asanchez@eastersealsny.org or call us at 914-328-1578. Easterseals Project Explore

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Families will love the witty lyrics and off-the-wall humor of the Okee Dokee Brothers.

Singin’ in a Winterland

Courtesy 2019 Progressive® Insurance New York Boat Show®

The Okee Dokee Brothers are coming to Symphony Space for A ‘Winterland’ Concert featuring music from their latest album. Justin Lansing and Joe Mailander have been exploring the outdoors together since they were kids. Now they’re a Grammy Awardwinning folk-and-roots music duo that puts the natural world at the heart of their Americana music. Performing songs from their new album Winterland, the Okee Dokee Brothers make room for kids to dance, for parents to share stories, and for everyone to gain respect for nature, each other, and the world in which we live. Saturday, Jan. 5, 11am. Ages: 2 and older. $14-$17. Symphony Space, 2537 Broadway, Upper West Side. symphonyspace.org.

Boat-lovers big and small can check out some impressive vessels up close.

Boats, Boats, Everywhere!

The 2019 Progressive® Insurance New York Boat Show® docks at the Javits Center this month, bringing lifelong boaters and enthusiastic dreamers the latest in luxury motor yachts, sport fishers, performance boats, watersport boats, and thousands of new marine technologies and accessories. A New York tradition since 1905, the five-day event delivers a shopping paradise for boaters with the latest in boating innovations, plus interactive boating workshops and fun for the whole family. Jan. 23-27, Wednesday-Friday, 12-9pm; Saturday, 10am-9pm; Sunday, 10am-6pm. Age: All. $16; free for children 12 and younger. Jacob Javits Center, 655 W. 34th St., Chelsea. nyboatshow.com.

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The Bryant Park ice-skating rink is the only free rink in Manhattan.

Bank of America Winter Village at Bryant Park

In its 17th season, the iconic holiday experience features the beloved ice-skating rink (the only free admission skating rink in NYC), more than 170 holiday shop vendors curated by Urbanspace (through Jan. 2), and the debut of The Lodge, an après skate-style escape from the cold anchored by a festive cocktail bar and a luxury Champagne Bollinger bar, along with 12 new and classic restaurant concepts. Visit it: 40th Street, between Fifth and Sixth avenues, Midtown; 212768-4242; bryantpark.org Can’t-miss event: Read-to-Skate Storytime: Jan. 12-Feb. 23, Saturdays, 12-1pm Directions: Approximately a 1-hour drive or a 50-minute Metro-North ride from White Plains

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The Big Apple Circus is back for its 41st season at Lincoln Center.

Lincoln Center

Whether you love dance, music, film, or theater, there’s always something spectacular to be seen at Lincoln Center, especially in the wintertime. LC Kids has an always-evolving smorgasboard of arts and culture for children, as does CMS Kids (Chamber Music Society of Lincoln Center). Plus, it’s always fun to let the littles run around the adjacent plazas and burn some energy before and after showtime! Visit it: 10 Lincoln Center Plaza, Upper West Side; 212-257-2330; bryantpark.org Can’t-miss event: The Big Apple Circus: through Jan. 27, see website for schedule Directions: Approximately a 45-minute drive or a 1-hour, 15-minute Metro-North and subway ride from White Plains

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the 8 events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

Howl in the New Year with Winter Wolves for Kids

WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 1, 11am WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: Kids will learn about the mythology surrounding wolves and the important role of wolves in the natural world. WHY WE LOVE IT: The perfect reason to get out of the house on New Year’s Day! WANT TO GO? $15; $12 children younger than 12. 914-763-2373. nywolf.org.

Kids Unplugged: MyGym Ninja Training (Circus Style) FREE WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 8, 4-5pm WHERE: Harrison Public Library, 2 Bruce Ave., Harrison AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Let your child try a My Gym Ninja Training class, designed to develop strength, stamina, and agility in relays while remaining safe and noncompetitive. WHY WE LOVE IT: Your kiddo will be challenged both mentally and physically, all while having tons of fun. WANT TO GO? 914-835-0324. harrisonpl.org.

Disney’s ‘Beauty & the Beast’

WHEN: Through Jan. 13: See website for show times WHERE: White Plains Performing Arts Center, 11 City Place, White Plains AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Showcasing spectacular costumes and scenery, this show is based on the Academy Award-winning animated feature. WHY WE LOVE IT: Have a ball singing along to “Be Our Guest,” “Gaston,” and, of course, “Beauty and the Beast.” WANT TO GO? $24 and up. 914-328-1600. wppac.com.

Holiday Landmarks Tour

WHEN: Through Jan. 20: Sundays, 2:30pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Meet at the Reflecting Pool for a fascinating overview of the Garden’s history and its importance as a vital NYC cultural destination since 1891. With an expert guide, explore the Tulip Tree Allee, the Fountain of Life, and the Library. WHY WE LOVE IT: The tour wraps up at the Gardens’ must-see destination- the Enid A. Haupt Conservatory. WANT TO GO? $23; $10 children ages 2-12; free for children younger than 2. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

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Family Art Project: Freedom Quilting Bee

WHEN: Jan. 19-20, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: All

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WHAT: Create your own brilliant compositions out of bountiful squares of donated fabric to honor Dr. King’s Birthday and the inspiring women quilters of Gee’s Bend. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s an all-ages art project with an inspiring history lesson. WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6; free until 12pm on Saturdays. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

The Amazing Max

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 20, 3pm WHERE: The Palace Theatre, 61 Atlantic St., Stamford, CT AGES: All WHAT: Max combines magic and comedy, making objects appear, disappear, and generally defy the laws of physics. WHY WE LOVE IT: This isn’t your average pull-a-rabbit-out-of-a-hat magic show! WANT TO GO? 203-325-4466. palacestamford.org.

27th Annual Holiday Train Show

WHEN: Through Jan. 21: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Featuring model trains, trolleys, and ferries, this annual show highlights NYC landmarks using natural materials. WHY WE LOVE IT: For the first time ever, this year’s display will feature two vintage ferry boats! WANT TO GO? $23; $10 children ages 2-12; free for children younger than 2. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

Celebrate Party Showcase

WHEN: Sunday, January 27, 12-4pm WHERE: Park Ridge Marriott, 300 Brae Blvd., Park Ridge, NJ AGES: All WHAT: From DJs and favors to invites and decor, you will find everything you need for the perfect celebration. Sample food, try games, meet DJs, and find the perfect logo and decorations for your party. Vendors will also offer exclusive discounts to attendees at the showcase. WHY WE LOVE IT: There’s a free seminar before the showcase at which you can learn to incorporate community service in your child’s Simcha! WANT TO GO? $10 per family; register online for free admission. celebratepartyshowcase.com.

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DANCE PARTY Tarrytown Fred Astaire Dance Studio ‘Dancespiration’ FREE

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WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 19, 7pm WHERE: Tarrytown Music Hall, 13 Main St., Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the magic of ballroom dance WANT TO GO? 914-631-3390. tickets: tarrytownmusichall.org/musichallmarket.

Three Kings Day Event with Calpulli Mexican Dance Company FREE

Hokey Pokey Roll & Dance

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 6, 4-5:30pm WHERE: New Rochelle Public Library, 1 Library Plaza, New Rochelle AGES: All WHAT: The cultural traditions of Central and Latin America will come alive in this annual event marking the close of the holiday season. WANT TO GO? 914-632-7878. nrpl.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 23, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Enjoy singing and playing as you roll dice to identify body parts. WANT TO GO? $10. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

The Environment of Local Breweries FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 26, 8-10pm WHERE: Westchester Community College, Academic Arts Theatre, 75 Grasslands Road, Valhalla AGES: All WHAT: A 2-hour global journey of music, song, and dance WANT TO GO? $24; $22 students and seniors; $18 children younger than 13. 914-606-6262. sunywcc.edu.

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 9, 7-9pm WHERE: Dobbs Ferry Public Library, 55 Main St., Dobbs Ferry AGES: Adult WHAT: Discuss sustainable hop growing, locally sourced ingredients, grain composting, and more. WANT TO GO? 914-693-6614. dobbsferrylibrary.org.

Vento Trio: ‘Wind, Water and Motion’ Original and Latin American Music FREE

Tamburitzans International Folk Dance

Ballroom Dancing with Fred Astaire Dance Studios FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 12, 3-4pm WHERE: Philipse Manor Hall State Historic Site, 29 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Join Vento Trio as they perform original and Latin American chamber music reflecting the theme of “Wind, Water and Motion.” WANT TO GO? 914-965-4027. ventotrio.com.

WHEN: Thursday, Jan. 31, 4-5pm WHERE: Harrison Public Library, 2 Bruce Ave., Harrison AGES: All WHAT: A new series of three ballroom dance lessons. WANT TO GO? 914-835-0324. harrisonpl.org.

Movie Music Magic: Live Concert by Filmharmonic Brass FREE

KINDNESS CRUSADERS

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 13, 3-4pm WHERE: New Rochelle Public Library, 1 Library Plaza, New Rochelle AGES: All WHAT: This concert will feature the music of John Williams, who composed soundtracks for Star Wars, Jaws, E.T., Close Encounters of the Third Kind, and Indiana Jones. WANT TO GO? 914-632-7878. nrpl.org.

All About Ice FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 20, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 NY-100, Katonah AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about the role ice plays at Muscoot Farm and take a hike out to an ice pond for an ice cutting demonstration. WANT TO GO? 914-864-7282. sawmillriveraudubon.org.

Babies & Bagels FREE

WHEN: Through May 21: select Tuesdays and Thursdays, 9:15-10:30am WHERE: Temple Israel Center, 280 Old Mamaroneck Road, White Plains AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Share breakfast, converse with other parents, and listen to speakers with topics including sleep issues, nutrition, dealing with inlaws, and separation. WANT TO GO? 914-948-2800. templeisraelcenter.org.

Trash to Treasure FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 15, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids can make a fun craft using recycled materials. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Good Deed of the Month Club

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 26, 11am-12pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Enjoy a kindness-themed book reading and discussion WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Art Show: Bedford

WHEN: Jan. 25-Feb. 3, see website for schedule WHERE: St. Matthew’s Fellowship Hall, 382 Cantitoe St., Bedford AGES: All WHAT: A mix of art, sculpture, and photography, and more. WANT TO GO? Donations vary. artshowbedford.org. ›› WestchesterParent 23

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WHEN: Friday, Jan. 4, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., 1st floor, Tuckahoe AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Flor Bromley sings, dances, and plays with pint-sized music makers. WANT TO GO? $20. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

HOLIDAY FUN

Holiday A Cappella

WHEN: Through Jan. 1: daily, 1pm, 2pm, and 3pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Get in the holiday spirit with seasonal music plus contemporary alternative music sung by top a cappella groups. WANT TO GO? $23; $10 children ages 2-12; free for children younger than 2. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

A Magical Christmas Eve at the Lockwood-Mathews Mansion Museum

WHEN: Through Jan. 6: Wednesday-Sunday, 12pm WHERE: Lockwood-Mathews Mansion, 295 West Ave., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: The exhibit will capture the enchantment and excitement of the night before Christmas and explore Christmas Eve. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 seniors; $8 students; free for children ages 7 and younger. 203-838-9799. lockwoodmathewsmansion.com.

Family Art Project: Create Your Year- Hello 2019!

WHEN: Jan. 5-6, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Use vibrant colors to capture the delights that nature presents throughout the year on a circular calendar. WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6; free until 12pm on Saturdays. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Ice Skating Rink

WHEN: Through Jan. 13: Tuesday-Friday, 4-8pm; Saturday-Sunday, 128pm; and Jan. 1, 12-4pm WHERE: Cross County Shopping Center, 8000 Mall Walk, Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Glide on a synthetic floor using real ice skates. See the schedule for special Skate with the Characters events. WANT TO GO? Tuesday-Thursday, $8; Friday-Sunday, $12; free for children younger than 4. 914-968-9570. crosscountycenter.com.

Winter Wolves on Martin Luther King Jr. Day

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 21, 11am WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: Winter offers families a unique opportunity to visit the wolves during their favorite time of year. WANT TO GO? $15; $12 children younger than 12. 914-763-2373. nywolf.org.

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‘Mamma Mia!’

WHEN: Jan. 5-6, Saturday, 2pm and 7pm; Sunday, 2pm WHERE: The Emelin Theater, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: All WHAT: Rock out to Artistree Performing Arts’ High School Production of ‘Mamma Mia!’ WANT TO GO? $25-$30; $20 students. 914-835-2200. artistreearts.com.

Story Garden with Miss Alexia FREE

WHEN: Friday, Jan. 11, 11:30am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join Alexia for stories, songs, and her magic ukulele. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Marilyn’s Musical Maracas A Bilingual Story Time FREE

WHEN: Jan. 10-24, select Thursdays, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Rye Free Reading Room, 1061 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Have fun learning simple words, numbers, and colors in Spanish through songs while moving to the music! WANT TO GO? 914-967-0480. ryelibrary.org.

Cuentos y Canciones FREE

WHEN: Jan. 4-25, Fridays, 10:30am WHERE: Warner Library, 121 N. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: Share songs, finger plays, and rhymes in two languages. WANT TO GO? 914-631-7734. warnerlibrary.org.

Tales for Tots FREE

WHEN: Jan. 8-29, Tuesdays, 3:30pm WHERE: Warner Library, 121 N. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: Share tales, engage in play, make crafts, and have lots of fun. WANT TO GO? 914-631-7734. warnerlibrary.org.

Musical Tots FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 30, 11:15am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join Lori Cohen for an interactive program of music and movement. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Young Discoverers: The Science of Music

WHEN: Jan. 2-30, Wednesdays, 11-11:30am WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Simple experiments and craft projects all add to the excitement of learning something new. WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 914421-5050. discoverwcm.org. ››

ANIMAL LOVERS Accordion Snake Craft

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 7, 4-4:30pm WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Through twists, turns, and folds, create your very own accordion snake. WANT TO GO? $10. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Winter Birding

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 13, 9:30am WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Explore Wave Hill’s gardens and woodlands to observe birds WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6; free until 12pm on Saturdays. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

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Winter Wolves for Kids

WHEN: Jan. 5-26, select Saturdays and Sundays, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: Visit Ambassador Wolves Alawa, Nikai, and Zephyr, as well as potentially the WCC’s critically endangered red wolves and Mexican gray wolves. WANT TO GO? $15; $12 children younger than 12. 914-763-2373. nywolf.org.

Seal-Spotting & Birding Cruises

WHEN: Jan. 12-27, select Saturdays, 9am; select Sundays, 9:30am WHERE: Maritime Aquarium, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Journey out onto Long Island Sound in hopes of seeing some of the seals and waterfowl that spend the winter just off the shores. WANT TO GO? $29.95. 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org.

Daddy-and-Me Animal Show

WHEN: Through May 4: select Saturdays, 9:15am WHERE: Friends of Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Fathers can drop in with their children for this fun animal adventure. WANT TO GO? $10-$15 per family. 914-967-5150. ryenaturecenter.org.

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Floating Pirate Ships

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 16, 4-4:30pm WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Using foam puzzle-like pieces, little ones can build a floating ship. WANT TO GO? $10. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Make Your Own Terrarium

CRAFTY KIDS

Soap-Making Workshop

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 2, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Sheldrake Environmental Center, 685 Weaver St., Larchmont AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Combine the fragrances to make your own bars of soap. WANT TO GO? $10. 914-834-1443. sheldrakecenter.org.

First Saturday Art Workshop

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 5, 11am-1pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: All WHAT: Drop in for a hands-on art workshop led by a fine arts specialist. WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Rainbow Yarn Prints

WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 8, 4-4:45pm WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Using yarn and paint, artists wrap a crafting tool and then roll out a variety of patterns in a rainbow of colors. WANT TO GO? $20. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Mad Art! FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 9, 4:30pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Consult with a teen volunteer and channel your inner artist. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Melted Snowmen

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 9, 4-4:45pm WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Lil artists create their own interpretation of what Frosty looks like when the sun hits using a variety of materials. WANT TO GO? $15. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Family Art Project: Sunrise, Sunset

WHEN: Jan. 12-13, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Design your favorite dawn or dusk landscape with the silhouette of a forest, city skyline, or bridge. WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6; free until 12pm on Saturdays. 718-5493200. wavehill.org. 26

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WHEN: Monday, Jan. 21, 10-11:30am WHERE: Sheldrake Environmental Center, 685 Weaver St., Larchmont AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Create your very own habitat in a container to bring home. WANT TO GO? $10. 914-834-1443. sheldrakecenter.org.

Family Art Project: Painted Papers and the Stories of Eric Carle

WHEN: Jan. 26-27, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, 649 W. 249th St., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Hear some of Eric Carle’s stories, then learn from his techniques, as you cut and layer hand painted papers to form bright and colorful images. WANT TO GO? $8; $4 students and seniors; $2 children ages 6-18; free for children younger than 6; free until 12pm on Saturdays. 718-5493200. wavehill.org.

Snow Paint

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 30, 4-4:45pm WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Use snow paint to create a cool, 3-D effect on paper. WANT TO GO? $15. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

MOVERS & SHAKERS Exhibit Songwriting

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 5, 2pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Techniques will include song structures, rhyme schemes, and rhythms. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors; $4 children ages 3-18; free for children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Color Sorting

WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 8, 9:45-10:15am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Play with various objects and sort them by color, then discuss the colors that make up a rainbow and build one together. WANT TO GO? $10. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Games Galore! FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Jan. 24, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Team up with friends for an afternoon of board game fun! WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Pizza Bingo Night

WHEN: Friday, Jan. 25, 5:45-7:15pm WHERE: C.C. Pieragostini Multipurpose Room, Leonard Park, Mount Kisco AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy a fun evening playing bingo and eating a pizza with friends. WANT TO GO? $25. 914-666-3059. mountkiscony.gov.

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FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALS Party Planning Showcase & Mitzvah Project Fair FREE

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 6, 11am-1pm WHERE: Temple Sholom, 300 E. Putnam Ave., Greenwich, CT AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Meet with more than 30 vendors specializing in entertainment, photo/video, catering, décor, and floral arrangements and representatives from local organizations to discuss mitzvah project opportunities with b’nai mitzvah families. WANT TO GO? 203-869-7191. templesholom.com.

The Winter Extravaganza Baseball Card Show

WHEN: Jan. 11-13, Friday, 2-7pm; Saturday, 9am-5pm; Sunday, 9am4pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Browse thousands of autographed cards, modern and vintage sports cards, and accessories. WANT TO GO? $10; free for children younger than 12. 800-745-3000. nyshows.org.

Opening Reception for HyperAccumulators FREE

WHEN: Friday, Jan. 18, 6:30-8pm WHERE: Pelham Art Center, 155 Fifth Ave., Village of Pelham

AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy light refreshments, meet the artists and curators, and celebrate the newest exhibit HyperAccumulators, which considers the connections between nature, toxicity, and regeneration. WANT TO GO? 914-738-2525. pelhamartcenter.org.

Westchester County Cheerleading Invitational

WHEN: Jan. 22-23, Tuesday, 5pm (Modified & Junior Varsity); Wednesday, 5pm (Varsity) WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Check out this high-energy cheerleading competition. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 students and children younger than 12. 800745-3000. nyshows.org.

Toy and Train Show

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 27, 9am-3pm WHERE: Westchester County Center, 198 Central Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Expect to see new and antique toys and trains, train parts, books, test tracks, and toy soldiers. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children 12 and younger. 800-745-3000. westchestertoytrain.com. ››

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‘Pete The Cat’

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 19, 11am and 1:30pm WHERE: Emelin Theatre, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Join Jimmy and Pete on an adventure of friendship, all the way to Paris and back in a VW Bus. WANT TO GO? $20; $15 children. 914-698-0098. emelin.org.

Magic Show

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 19, 11am-12pm WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Georgie Porgie the magician wows children and adults alike WANT TO GO? $25 per family. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

Sunday Cinema @ the TROVE FREE

WHEN: Jan. 6-20, Sundays, 2pm WHERE: White Plains Public Library, 100 Martine Ave., White Plains AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This month’s movies include all three Curious George films WANT TO GO? 914-422-1476. whiteplainslibrary.org.

All Aboard with Thomas & Friends

SHOW TIME!

‘Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone’

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 12, 2pm WHERE: Jacob Burns Film Center, 364 Manville Road, Pleasantville AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Who doesn’t love the Harry Potter movies? Join for a 5- to 10-minute discussion following the film. WANT TO GO? $14; $7.50 children ages 13 and younger. 914-747-5555. burnsfilmcenter.org.

‘The Victory Gardens Plays’ FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 12, 1:30pm WHERE: St. Paul’s Church National Historic Site, 897 S. Columbus Ave., Mount Vernon AGES: All WHAT: Learn about the popular victory gardens of the World War II era. WANT TO GO? 914-667-4116. nps.gov/sapa.

Nature Movie

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 12, 1-2:30pm WHERE: Cranberry Lake Preserve, 1609 Old Orchard St., West Harrison AGES: All WHAT: Come in from the cold and take in a nature movie with popcorn. WANT TO GO? $4. 914-428-1005. parks.westchestergov.com.

‘The Addams Family, Jr.’

WHEN: Through Jan. 21: See website for select days and times WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Join Thomas and Driver Sam on a fun-filled, sing-along, mini-performance adventure. WANT TO GO? $23; $10 children ages 2-12; free for children younger than 2. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

The Best of the 2018 New York International Children’s Film Festival: Kid Flicks One

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 21, 2:30pm WHERE: Jacob Burns Film Center, 364 Manville Road, Pleasantville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: A lineup of nine short films from around the world, including Party Mouth (US) and I Want to Live in the Zoo (Russia) WANT TO GO? $14; $7.50 children age 13 and younger. 914-747-5555. burnsfilmcenter.org.

‘Bye Bye Birdie’

WHEN: Jan. 25-26, Friday-Saturday, 7:30pm WHERE: Irvington Town Hall Theater, 85 Main St., Irvington AGES: All WHAT: This fun-filled, exuberant rock ‘n’ roll musical is chock full of some of the most famous songs in the musical theater canon! WANT TO GO? $22; $18 students and seniors. 914-591-6602. irvingtontheater.com.

‘The Hungry Caterpillar & Other Eric Carle Favorites’

WHEN: Jan. 12-13, Saturday, 10am; Sunday, 1pm WHERE: The Emelin Theater, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: All WHAT: For a spooky good time see this elementary and middle school production of The Addam’s Family. WANT TO GO? $25-$30; $20 students. 914-698-0098. emelin.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 26, 11am WHERE: Tarrytown Music Hall, 13 Main St., Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: Three beloved stories by Eric Carle, award-winning children’s book illustrator and author, are retold on stage through black light and puppets. WANT TO GO? $30; $25 children. 877-840-0457. tarrytownmusichall.org.

‘Hairspray, Jr.!’

Hudson Chorale Concert at Maryknoll

WHEN: Jan. 12-13, Saturday, 12:30pm; Sunday, 4:30pm WHERE: The Emelin Theater, 153 Library Lane, Mamaroneck AGES: All WHAT: See Artistree Performing Arts’ middle and high school production of Hairspray, Jr.! WANT TO GO? $25-$30; $20 students. 914-698-0098. emelin.org. 28

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WHEN: Jan. 26-27, Saturday-Sunday, 3-4:30pm WHERE: The Chapel at Maryknoll, 55 Ryder Road, Ossining AGES: 13 and older WHAT: These two matinee concerts highlight the works of Fauré, Mendelssohn, Bruckner, and Johannes Brahms. WANT TO GO? $25-$30; $10 students. 800-838-3006. hudsonchorale.org.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS LITTLE FOODIES Little Garden Club of Rye presents Sogetsu Ikebana FREE

Marshmallow Challenge FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, Jan. 8, 10am-12pm WHERE: Rye Free Reading Room, 1061 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Sogetsu Ikebana is a modern form of an ancient art of sculpture with living materials sometimes known as Japanese flower arranging. WANT TO GO? 914-967-0480. ryelibrary.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 16, 4-5pm WHERE: Chappaqua Library, 195 S. Greeley Ave., Chappaqua AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Try your hand at engineering with food. WANT TO GO? 914-238-4779. chappaqualibrary.org.

Checking the Vital Signs of the Hudson

WHEN: Jan. 3-31, select Thursdays, 3:15-4:30pm WHERE: Somers Library, Route 139 and Reis Park, Somers AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Make snacks and small meals the group can enjoy. WANT TO GO? 914-232-5717. somerslibrary.org.

WHEN: Wednesday, Jan. 9, 1:30pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Learn how you can help keep the Hudson River healthy. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors; $4 children ages 3-18; free for children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Saw Mill River Audubon Second Saturday Walk FREE

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 12, 9-11am WHERE: Brinton Brook Sanctuary, 1339 Albany Post Road (Route 9A), Croton-on-Hudson AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Enjoy a family-friendly hike. WANT TO GO? 914-666-6503. sawmillriveraudubon.org.

Family Tour: Watersheds & Rivers

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 19, 2:30pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Learn about the Hudson River watershed, explore the exhibition for natural patterns, and create your own version of a watershed system. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors; $4 children ages 3-18; free for children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

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Pleasantville Farmers Market FREE

WHEN: Through March 30: Saturdays, 8:30am-1pm WHERE: Pleasantville Middle School Cafeteria, 40 Romer Ave., Pleasantville AGES: All WHAT: Shop winter-grown produce along with a variety of other foods. WANT TO GO? 914-205-4545. pleasantvillefarmersmarket.com.

Mamaroneck’s Down to Earth Farmers Market FREE

WHEN: Jan. 5-April 13, Saturdays, 9am-1pm WHERE: St. Thomas Episcopal Church, 168 W. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck AGES: All WHAT: Shop all the delicious flavors of winter. WANT TO GO? 914-923-4837. downtoearthmarkets.com. ››

Winter Wonderland Tree Tour

WHEN: Through Jan. 21: Saturdays, 12:30pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Embark on a 45-minute walk to view the stately conifer collection. WANT TO GO? $23; $10 children ages 2-12; free for children younger than 2. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

Winter Farm Tour

WHEN: Jan. 5-27, Saturday-Sunday, 3-4pm WHERE: Stone Barns, 630 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Visit favorite places on the property while discussing the ways in which the staff farms and their diverse work to build a sustainable food system. WANT TO GO? $15. 914-366-6200. stonebarnscenter.org.

Project Feeder Watch FREE

WHEN: Jan. 13- April 7, Sundays, 9-11am WHERE: Croton Point Nature Center, 1 Croton Point Ave., Croton-on-Hudson AGES: All WHAT: Try to ID and count birds at the bird feeders. WANT TO GO? 914-862-5297. projectfeederwatch.org.

Mommy & Me

WHEN: Through May 20: select Mondays, 9:45-10:45am WHERE: Friends of Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Make crafts and meet animals while learning about the natural world. WANT TO GO? $10-$15 per family. 914-967-5150. ryenaturecenter.org.

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WHEN: Jan. 7-28, Mondays, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Larchmont Public Library, 121 Larchmont Ave., Larchmont AGES: All WHAT: Play a traditional Chinese tile-based game. WANT TO GO? 914-834-2281. larchmontlibrary.org.

Puzzle this! FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Jan. 31, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Join for a fun time solving puzzles for every kind of puzzle-lover. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

ONCE UPON A TIME SMARTY PANTS Virtual Reality: Outer Space Discovery FREE

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 7, 4-5pm WHERE: Harrison Public Library, 2 Bruce Ave., Harrison AGES: All WHAT: Explore outer space with the library’s Occulus Rift and touch Virtual Reality System. WANT TO GO? 914-835-0324. harrisonpl.org.

Mad Science FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Jan. 10, 4pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join for some fun, kid-friendly science experiments and challenges. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Science Sunday

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 13, 11:30am and 1:30pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Parkway, Rye AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy a drop-in science program! WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors; free for children younger than 1. 914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

Winter Family Day: Block Party at the Bruce

WHEN: Monday, Jan. 21, 1-4pm WHERE: Bruce Museum, 1 Museum Dive, Greenwich, CT AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Play with the new Imagination Playground Blocks, complete engineering challenges, create art centered on engineering, and part in engineering programming. WANT TO GO? $10; $8 students and seniors; free for children younger than 5. 203-869-0376. brucemuseum.org.

The Science of Snowflakes

WHEN: Saturday, Jan. 26, 1pm WHERE: Rye Nature Center, 873 Boston Post Road, Rye AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Explore how the falling snow forms and make your own “snow” and snowflakes! WANT TO GO? $5 members; $8 non-members. 914-967-5150. ryenaturecenter.org. 30

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Mother Goose for Babies FREE

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Pirate Songs and Stories Concert

WHEN: Sunday, Jan. 20, 2pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: A teaching artist-in-residence will spin traditional and modern tales about pirates on the high rivers. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors; $4 children ages 3-18; free for children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Story Time for Toddlers

WHEN: Jan. 9-23, second and fourth Wednesdays, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join for stories, music, movement, and art. WANT TO GO? $7; $5 seniors; $4 children ages 3-18; free for children younger than 3. 914-963-4550. hrm.org.

Storytelling Sing-A-Long

WHEN: Jan. 4-25, Fridays, 10:30-11am WHERE: Lil Chameleon, 29 Elm St., Tuckahoe AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Enjoy nursery rhymes, stories, and songs with Flor Bromley. WANT TO GO? $20. 914-346-5148. lilchameleon.com.

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WHEN: Jan. 3-31, Mondays and Thursdays, 9:30-10am WHERE: Chappaqua Library, 195 S. Greeley Ave., Chappaqua AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy an interactive story time. WANT TO GO? 914-238-4779. chappaqualibrary.org.

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Are You Ready to Move?

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Real-estate experts (and real parents!) share the factors that make families relocate. By Lambeth Hochwald

he signs might be right in front of you: Maybe you and your family are feeling squished into a too-small apartment or perhaps your children are getting ready to start school and you aren’t sure your local school district is right for your kids. These are just two scenarios in which it feels like you might be ready to switch neighborhoods or spend your savings on upgrading to your first home. “Many moves are dictated by lifecycles in the family,” says Alison Bernstein, founder of Suburban Jungle, a real estate firm exclusively focused on buyers leaving the city for the suburbs. “If thinking down the road about your kids’ school experience causes you to break into a cold sweat, it may be time to go. Ultimately, whether you move or stay in your neighborhood comes down to the level of happiness you have day to day, and whether there is a need for change.” The following, experts say, are all signs it may be time to start reading the real estate ads: Your place is less kid-friendly than you thought. For Becky Margel, mom of Remy (3) and Reese (6 months), it was a staircase that prompted her and her husband, Jesse, to move from Manhattan to Glen Rock, NJ in February 2018. “We lived in a duplex and when our three-year-old began walking up and down the very steep spiral staircase on her own. It started to make us nervous,” says Margel, who lived in NYC for a decade before the move to the suburbs. Your family is growing—but your space isn’t. Another nudge for the Margels was the fact that Becky was pregnant again. “With baby 32

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two on the way and additional baby gear entering our apartment, we knew it was time to get out of the city and move to the suburbs,” she says. “With no space to put all the toys that was another sign that it was time to live somewhere with way more space.” Bernstein sees families in similar situations all the time: “Often the addition of a child into an already at-capacity apartment is enough to signal that it’s time for a change,” she says. Ultimately, it may no longer be fun to stow toilet paper under the bed and extra diapers in your clothing closet. You’re longing for a lawn. Outdoor space may be one of the biggest reasons families opt to relocate, says Greg McHale, a real estate agent at Compass. “While we have seen city folks adapt to living with kids in living quarters your cousin in Oshkosh, Wisconsin, would deem postage stamp-sized, for many parents, not being able to essentially kick your kids outside when they are rowdy ultimately becomes a major sticking point,” he says. Of course, you don’t always have to leave the city to get a yard. “Whether the family can afford an apartment or a house with private outdoor space in their favorite neighborhood or school district can sometimes be the ‘make or break’ decision,” McHale says. Your local parks suddenly seem puny. Another way to gauge your need for greenery is by doing this exercise, which McHale recommends to his clients: “If you’re okay with spending the day in Central or Prospect park for your weekend expeditions, then stick with the city,” he says.

City life is starting to feel overwhelming. Cramped conditions and a lack of green space can prompt an exodus, but so can other realities of an urban existence. Add in the strain of school applications, the sleep issues if you’re in a noisy apartment, the expense, and other annoyances, and you’ve got a family ready to make a move. That’s exactly the scenario Amy Hill, who moved from Brooklyn to Tarrytown with her husband and two sons, faced last year. “We were getting kicked out of our apartment (the owners wanted to sell it), so we didn’t have much of a choice,” Hill says. But the decision to leave Brooklyn—where Hill’s entire family still lives— was one they made on their own, due not only to a desire for more space, but also a list of irritants that included the grime of urban living. “Our other triggers included the broken glass on the sidewalks, the worry over the kids running into the street, and navigating the narrow [store] aisles with our double stroller,” she says. You haven’t found your parent tribe. Loneliness is another reason many parents find it’s time to move. “When you are a new parent living in New York City and you find yourself feeling isolated or without any baby playmates for your little one, it may be time to consider a move,” says Amy Owens, a real estate broker at Keller Williams in NYC. The same thing can happen in the suburbs if you’re living in a neighborhood populated by mostly older families. You feel like you’ve aged out of your ’hood, as in you’re the only one with a baby and everyone else is crowding into your favorite local bar for happy hour. While this neighborhood once felt familiar, it can suddenly feel strange to be in a different life stage from pretty much everyone else around you. Your bustling neighborhood is starting to be annoying. When your busy morning schedule clashes with the neighborhood’s latenight vibe, it can also feel like a big disconnect. “It’s extremely taxing as well when people are out partying in the streets until all hours of the night keeping you and/or your whole family awake,” Bernstein adds. You already know people in the town you’re considering. Having pals already in place always eases the transition. They can show you where to buy groceries, what the schools are like, and which pediatrician to choose, as well as clue you in to favorite traditions in town, Margel advises. And you just might find other urbanites living in your new town, too. “Many New York City suburbs are loaded with residents who just a few short years ago were your Brooklyn and Manhattan neighbors,” Owens says.

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You’ve always dreamed of owning a home. For many families, saving for a home of their own is an important goal. For Margel and Hill, leaving the city for the suburbs turned out to be one of the best things they ever did and have zero regrets about it. “We love the shopping,” Margel says. “We have every store imaginable within 15 minutes. Well, I love it, my husband not so much!” And if you end up missing things about your former neighborhood, you can vent about this, too, with your new neighbors who are likely going to be easily able to relate to how you feel. “No matter how much we love our new town, we do miss my family, the pizza, and the bagels,” Hill says. An easy fix: Just take the train, bus, or ferry back to your old neighborhood for the day. You might just come to realize you miss fewer and fewer things about it the longer you’ve put down roots in a new place. Lambeth Hochwald covers trends, relationships, and life in New York City.

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What Your Teen Really Needs from You

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Your oh-so-grown-up child is less independent than she seems—here’s what she’s still relying on you to provide. By Deborah Skolnik

f you have a teen, you probably look at him—on those rare moments when he isn’t holed up in his room or out somewhere with his friends—and wonder: “How’d you get so big?” And the bigger your child gets, the smaller the list of things he relies on you for becomes. Once upon a time, you were his wardrobe coordinator, social activities director, and on and on, but most of those roles have long been phased out. In fact, aside from food, money, rides, and more food, it’s easy to conclude your teen needs nothing from you at all. But thinking that way is a mistake. “Teens look like little adults, and so a lot of times parents treat them like little adults, but their brains are not caught up yet,” says Emily Roberts, M.A., L.P.C., psychotherapist and author of Express Yourself. And adolescents have lots of big tasks to accomplish, from hammering out their moral code to making plans for the future. With so much on their plates, it’s a time kids still rely on their parents, says Kashmira Rustomji, M.D., M.P.H., a child and adolescent psychiatrist at Mount Sinai Adolescent Health Center. So don’t keep your distance. Make sure your child is still getting what he needs from you, especially the following: Praise (when appropriate). “There tends to be a lot more conflict in parent-adolescent relationships,” Dr. Rustomji says. “Often that conflict is about trivial things.” Take time to give your teen props when she’s earned it, whether that’s for a good grade, going out of her way to help a younger sibling (or you!), or being a great friend. It will balance out some of the times you and your teen find yourselves at odds, and boost her self-esteem. Your good example. Teens “are still very sensitive creatures at this time and they’re still very impressionable, so they may hear half of

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what you’re saying and they make that their reality,” Roberts points out. That’s why it’s important not to just tell your teen what’s right and what’s wrong, but to show it to him through everything you do. “Teens are always watching you,” Dr. Rustomji adds. So be a good role model—“show them how to cope with stress, how to be respectful, and model the moral code you developed for yourself,” she urges. Chores. No one wants them, but all teens need them, Roberts says. “A lot of parents forget that that practice of helping around the house is not only about [teens] showing their family they are involved, it’s really a habit they need to have especially as they ease into adulthood,” she explains. Yes, teens tend to have busy lives, but that’s not a reason to do away with chores altogether: “You and I sometimes have a lot of work, and we still have to go home and clean our rooms and do our laundry,” Roberts says. Just be considerate of your teen’s hectic weeks: “Have a conversation with them about their schedule, especially in the beginning and middle of the school year with midterms and homework and homecoming and all that, asking how you can help,” Roberts advises. Some weeks you may need to make your teen’s chore load a little lighter. The key is to keep her responsibilities as consistent as possible over time, so she accepts chores as a part of life. Help managing his hectic schedule. Your child’s time commitments are growing exponentially—faster than his brain can keep up, Roberts says. “The adolescent brain doesn’t stop growing until the early twenties, and sometimes teens overestimate or underestimate [things],” she explains, including how long certain activities may take. Roberts suggests saying, “Let’s look at how we can schedule your time together,” and then doing just that.

Tammy Gold, M.S.W., L.C.S.W., a family therapist, is a fan of putting a calendar in your teen’s room. “Studies show that children really love structure,” she says. “Show them what their week looks like...so they know when the soccer game is, when the test is.” Time spent hanging out with you. Yes, it can seem like you’re the last person your child wants to pass the time with, but that’s not true, Gold says. Look for lulls in your teen’s busy social schedule: “Maybe they weren’t invited somewhere and they’re not going to say that to you, but they could be suffering, so you make the plans,” Gold explains. Even if they weren’t snubbed, teens often don’t like being alone, and could be up for a little company. You can also make a ritual to spend time together at a certain time each week. Spending time together isn’t just nice; it has important developmental benefits for your teen. “Obviously, for a toddler you need to be there to say things like ‘Don’t touch the flame!’ But for a teenager you need to be there not only to teach appropriate social behavior and values and model them, but to help them decode what they’re seeing,” Gold says. Help understanding social media. Speaking of things your teen may need your assistance in decoding, social media tops the list, Gold says. “For kids on social media, they need to know that this is a fictitious life, not real life,” she explains. “Everyone is just putting the best of themselves out there, so don’t let it make you feel bad.” If your teen is often down because she finds out via social media that she wasn’t invited somewhere with pals, or because her posts got too few likes, it may be time for a social media break. Gold’s own 13-year-old is only allowed to use Snapchat. “That still has the ability to make you say ‘OMG I missed that party, it stinks that I wasn’t invited,’ but that’s gone after twenty-four hours,” Gold says. Rules and limits. Oh, we know you’re going to get some eye rolls when you say, “Be home before ten!” or “No walking home from the party alone!” but that’s no reason to hold back. “Adolescents...tend to want to do things that give them thrills and give them excitement, and sometimes that behavior leads to maladaptive behavior like drugs and alcohol and unsafe sex,” Dr. Rustomji says. “So this is a time when it’s really important for parents to set those limits to protect their child.” It’s also helpful to walk through some sticky scenarios ahead of time. Pose questions to your teen, like, “If someone is drinking at a party and wants you to drink too, how do you say no?” or “If someone gets drunk, what do you do?” Again, your teen may think it’s silly, but try anyway. “If your family has a certain set of values that you want to impart in your children, just make those clear,” Dr. Rustomji says. “And also tell your teen why.” Reassurance that you’re always there. “It’s important to tell teens ‘Hey, you’re growing, you’re maturing and because of that you get to go to the mall, you get to go out, but we’re still here to help you,’” Gold says. And it’s even more crucial to make that clear when you and your teen are fighting, she adds. “[Tell your teen] ‘You can yell at me and scream at me, but I’m never going away,’” she urges. Your apologies (when appropriate). Did you lose control and scream at your teen? “That happens, it’s normal,” Gold says. “What are you going to do about it now? Recover and say you’re sorry. Teach your child how to say you’re sorry.” Not only will your child learn it’s right to apologize when he’s wrong, he’ll also learn nobody’s perfect. Your love. “Teens need holding, as silly as it sounds,” Gold says. “I like to spoon my 13-year-old for ten minutes a night, and we talk about what happened during the day, and she loves it.” So go ahead, give your big kid a hug. Who knows? You might even get a hug back. Deborah Skolnik is the former editorial director of NYMetroParents. She lives in Westchester with her husband and 14-year-old, both of whom are much taller than she is.

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Ready, Set, Sibling!

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Pregnant again? Learn how to prepare your first-born for the baby on the way. By Denise Porretto

t was once believed that Earth was the center of the universe. But those early scientists got it wrong: Ask any mom and she will tell you that everything revolves around her first-born. Whether it’s for 10 months or a few years, the oldest child has Mom and Dad’s attention all to herself. So while parents may be delighted they’re expecting a second child, they may worry about how to break the news to their first-born and prevent any jealousy that might arise. “Bringing a new baby into the world is a very complex and magical process,” says Kenneth Schuster, Psy.D., clinical neuropsychologist in the Learning and Development Center and director of clinical training at the Child Mind Institute. “But for a child, it is best to keep things simple and concrete. Introduce the subject in an age-appropriate manner. Answer his or her questions using age-appropriate language. Keep in mind that what is appropriate for one two-year-old may not be appropriate for another. Different children have different language skills and social maturity. ...You need to meet your child where he is, and remember that anecdotal stories about what may have worked for another family will not necessarily work for your child.” With that in mind, read on for ways to prepare your child for the new baby.

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young child, breaking the baby news early may not be best. He may not even understand at first or remember what you’ve said. Many other factors may impact your decision about when to share your news. For instance, if you’re not feeling well, you may consider telling her sooner rather than later, or else she may worry you’re really sick. Your growing belly will eventually become noticeable, making the talk inevitable. “The news that a baby is on the way becomes more meaningful to a young child when there are perceptible changes to their physical environment,” Dr. Schuster says. “For instance, perhaps the child is noticing mommy’s shrinking lap. Or the child has taken note that his parents are moving in furniture and painting walls.” Until you’re ready to share the news, be discreet. Even a very young child hears her parents talking and can pick up on “secret” information. More importantly, however, you don’t want your child, at any age, hearing the news from anyone else. “You want to make sure you’re keeping them in the loop,” says Jen Trachtenberg, M.D., assistant clinical professor of pediatrics at Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai.

Keep It Simple

When sharing the news with your young child, be direct. Simply say, “Mommy has a baby in her belly.” Even older children don’t need to hear additional details. This is not the time for a “birds and bees” talk, Dr. Schuster says. There will be plenty of time for your child to ask questions should she need further explanation. Be sure not to ask your child if he wants a baby brother or sister.

This could backfire! (What are you going to do if she says, “No”?) Just as important as sharing the factual news with your child is conveying the emotions surrounding it. Reassure her that you and your partner are fully capable of loving both her and her new sibling. “Emphasize that she will not be left out, that there’s more than enough love to go around,” Dr. Trachtenberg says.

Accentuate the Positive

Over the coming months, there will be many opportunities for you to prepare your child for the big event. Of course, not everything you tell him about the new baby will be rosy. Explain that new baby brothers and sisters are not born ready to play, but rather spend a lot of time sleeping, eating, crying, and pooping (expect a giggle for that one). Tell your child he did the same thing when he was a baby. The trick is to spin the “bad news” in a positive way. For instance, tell your child the baby will cry a lot, but also say it will be like a game to figure out what she needs. Is she hungry? Tired? Needing a diaper change? Emma L., who lives in New York City with her husband and two children, Ella (7) and Rafa (4), believes finding a good marketing angle is the best way to deal with potential issues. “Need to transition the older child to a bed, so the newborn can have the crib? Market it as an amazing new bed she gets to have because she is such a big girl!” she suggests.

Get Ready Together

Once you’ve shared the news, build on it with age-appropriate activities: • Read books together about having a new sibling. Many favorite TV characters have siblings as well. Watch the show your child likes and talk about how those siblings interact. • Give your child a baby doll and feed, change, and rock it together. • Introduce your child to a friend or relative’s baby. The baby should be older than 3 months to reduce the risk of catching an illness from your child, and you should exercise caution if you let your child hold the baby. • Share old photos of you and your siblings, and tell stories about what life was like growing up together. Don’t forget current photos. Fran L., a mother of two boys in Syosset, told 3½-year-old Ben about the baby on the way by surprising him with her sonogram photo. • Allow your child to pick out clothes or toys for the new baby. • Have your child participate in a sibling-preparation class at a local hospital. • Enlist your first-born as an all-important “mommy’s helper,” Dr. Schuster suggests. “Tell your two-year-old that you will need her help letting you know when the baby is crying and figuring out what the baby needs. You can tell older children that you’ll need their help getting clean diapers ready and making the baby laugh by making silly faces.” • When referring to the baby-to-be, use language such as “our baby” and “your baby sister/brother”—it suggests your child has a relationship with the baby and has an important role to play.

apering or bathing supplies to the parent. Children of all ages can sing songs to a fussy newborn. (If your child doesn’t want to help, though, don’t force it. Encourage him to say hello and goodnight to his sibling and let the relationship blossom on its own.) • Praise your first-born whenever she is behaving well. • Have her spend time with other family members, such as grandparents, to deepen those relationships. Emphasize that you are one big happy family with enough love to go around. Even if you do all of the above, there may be some bumps in the road. For one thing, expect a bit of regression—sliding backward on previously mastered skills is not unusual. Emma’s daughter Ella, who had been toilet-trained for five months, briefly went back to diapers after the birth of her little brother. The key, Dr. Trachtenberg says, is not to make a big deal of it. A certain amount of jealousy and acting out may also be unavoidable. Stay the course with the strategies above, and remain positive—hugs, kisses, and kind words will go a long way. And be sure to have regular 1-on-1 time with your older child. Emma has a “girls’ lunch out” once a week with Ella. Realize that for a child, no matter what his or her age, having a baby brother or sister enter the family is nowhere near as tumultuous as parents imagine it to be. “Most of the time it’s a smooth transition,” Dr. Trachtenberg says. “I’ve been in private practice twenty-two years and people always ask me when is the best time to have a second child. But whether the children are close in age or far apart, it’s super rare that there’s any ongoing jealousy. It will work out.” Denise Porretto is a freelance writer in Princeton, NJ.

Post-Birth Bonding

To keep the sibling relationship growing after the baby arrives, do a few more things: • Help your child choose a gift for the newborn. Give your first-born a gift the newborn “picked out” as well. • Avoid introducing big changes in your older child’s routine while your baby is still settling in. That includes toilet training, going from a bottle to a sippy cup, and giving up the pacifier. • Allow your child to help with the baby. Closely supervised older children can hold the baby while sitting, or can pass diWestchesterParent 37

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Where There’s a Will

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Though you may not want to consider the unthinkable, having a plan in place will protect your children and prepare them for the future. By Anja Webb

o you know who would have legal guardianship of your children if something were to happen to you or your partner? Do you know for certain your estate would be quickly and indisputably transferred to your heirs? On that note, have you selected your heirs? Though you may think there’s no need to create a will because you’re young and healthy, life is unpredictable. “The sooner you put a comprehensive plan in place, the better off you and your family will be,” say Rosanna Guardavaccaro, a registered representative and financial advisor of Strategies For Wealth and a financial representative of Guardian based in New York City and Rye. Here’s what you need to know when it comes to planning your will.

Choose a Will-Writing Method

There are a number of ways you can set up your will, and, depending on your financial resources, each method has its pros and cons. A lawyer is the best option, especially if you have a large estate, according to Guardavaccaro. A typical fee for a simple will is approximately $500, Guardavaccaro says, but that extra expense is worth it for the peace of mind that comes with hiring a professional. If hiring a lawyer is out of your budget, or if you just don’t have the time to sit down with one, there are online forms and apps that can help you get started. For example, USLegalWills.com allows you to make your will at home by simply filling in a form and answering questions. With a fee of approximately $40, it’s a more affordable option for young professionals or those with young 38

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children. You could also use an app to develop your will, such as Tomorrow, which offers the software free of charge. In extreme cases, a holographic will, one written in your own handwriting and typically without multiple witnesses, is an option in certain states. Though not legal in New York in most instances, holographic wills are accepted in New Jersey. “To be clear, not all do-it-yourself approaches to will writing result in a holographic will,” says Tim Hewson, president of USLegalWills.com. “It is an absolutely terrible way to prepare your own will and is almost certainly going to result in a very poorly drafted document. Holographic wills are written into law to cover extreme circumstances, like being pinned under a rock, where witnesses are not available. It is not a will-writing approach that should be considered under normal circumstances.”

Think About the Details

Once you’ve selected the method to create your will, it’s time to think about the details. Guardavaccaro suggests consulting with a lawyer to ensure this is done right, “but the basic process is relatively straightforward: Make a list of your assets, decide who gets what, and pick someone to serve as an executor for your estate,” she says. “Meet with the attorney and iron out expectations both monetarily and the actual creation of the will. Once an attorney is chosen and the will is created, the individual picks three witnesses. …The witnesses should be friends you trust.”

When planning your will, it can also be easy to overlook a few aspects like social media and gifting rights. It’s good to think about who will shut off your Facebook and Instagram, and whether or not your heirs can give away their inheritance as they see fit. Be sure to discuss these with your lawyer, if you have one, or make provisions for them otherwise.

Select a Guardian and Heir

If you haven’t already done so, now’s the time to appoint a guardian for your children if they’re younger than 18. “The parent has to figure out who will…take care of the assets for the benefit of the children,” Guardavaccaro says. “When appointing a guardian, it is best to look at either a family member or friend that you can currently count on and raises their children in a similar fashion that you do.” Some aspects you might want to take into consideration are fiscal responsibility and religious or ethical values. When it comes to selecting an heir, you’ll want to keep in mind how old your children are. For younger children, the guardian will likely also be named as the property guardian and manage the estate until the kids are old enough to take over, according to Nolo.com, a resource with easy-to-understand legal information. For children who are 18 or older, it’s important to have a clear line of communication about what to expect should anything happen to you. “Make sure they’re aware of any wills, accounts, or trusts that name them as beneficiaries,” Guardavaccaro advises. “Also, give them the name of your lawyer and your financial representative, as well as details on accessing your financial holdings.” This will help prepare them for the future and simplify the process in the future. But what if you and your partner pass away or become incapacitated without having selected either a guardian or an heir? “Without having a clear directive from you, the state takes over and the next of kin can be brought in to take care of the children and assets,” Guardavaccaro says. This means your loved ones and belongings can very easily end up in the hands of the wrong person, especially if you’ve had a falling out with certain members of your immediate family. For this reason, you should clearly specify who you want to look after your children. Though this is a big decision, if you end up changing your mind or part ways with the person you had selected as your guardian, you can always amend the document later, according to Guardavaccaro.

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The Ramiﬁcations of No Will

Aside from the obvious concerns of your property and family going to the wrong people, not having a will can cause strife and disagreements among your relatives. “I have encountered squabbles over small items of sentimental value to large, truly valuable items like paintings,” says David Reischer, Esq., a New York attorney and CEO of LegalAdvice.com. “Families seem to fight over anything and everything. Therefore, always remember: Have the deceased execute a last will and testament prior to leaving this world, in order to determine his intent how to distribute any remaining items in the estate.” After all, it’s better to have a will in place and not need it, rather than leave your loved ones to scrap over your possessions. The emotional aspect of setting up a will—coming to grips with your mortality, imagining a world where your children grow up without you, divvying up your possessions with the understanding that all you own and all you love will someday be out of your grasp—is intense. But don’t let that stop you from taking the steps to ensure your family and friends will be prepared in the event the unthinkable happens. Parenting is full of tough decisions that can make you stop in your tracks, but at the end of the day, you have to do what you can to ensure your family will be okay. WestchesterParent 39

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Camp Ramaquois 30 Mountain Road, Pomona 845-354-1600 ramaquois.com Jared Gelb and Phil Rainone have both been part of the Camp Ramaquois staff for more than 25 years. Now, as co-directors, Jared and Phil are able to share their decades of public school teaching and camp leadership experience with the Ramaquois and camp communities. They are frequent presenters at the country’s largest camp conferences and generally regarded as leaders in the summer camp industry.

Future Stars Summer Camps - Purchase College 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase 914-273-8500 fscamps.com Jordan is returning for his 27th year as director of Future Stars at Purchase College. He has a B.A. from Rollins College, (where he won the NCAA Tennis Championship), and an M.B.A. from the Stern School of Business, NYU. He is currently the Men’s Head Tennis Coach at Purchase College while also coaching a variety of youth sports at all levels. His education, business, and sports experience make him uniquely qualified to direct the camps for boys and girls, ages 4-16. Hand-picked, experienced program directors offer weekly sessions in tennis, soccer, lacrosse, basketball, baseball, circus arts, magic, diving, rising stars, cheerleading, field hockey, football, softball, volleyball, multi-sports, and academics.

Jodi’s Gym 25 Hubbels Drive, Mount Kisco 914-244-8811 244 E. 84th St., Manhattan 212-772-7633 jodisgym.com As early as Jodi Levine could walk, she was tumbling. Jodi ultimately became a national-level gymnast. In 1982, she started Jodi’s Gym, launching the first gymnastics-based mommy-and-me classes in NYC. At Jodi’s Gym, Jodi leverages her more than 40 years of experience in gymnastics to create well-balanced programs that focus on all aspects of a child’s development. Jodi’s Gym offers classes in gymnastics, music, and art, in addition to a variety of camps, birthday parties, and off-site “Jodi’s Gym To Go” programs in Manhattan and Westchester County.

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Kids’ B.A.S.E. & The Little School 307 Mamaroneck Road, Scarsdale 914-472-5409 kbls.org “It takes a village to raise a child” and Janice Barnes is thrilled to be an integral piece of that puzzle at KBLS. With more than 30 years of experience in early childhood education, Janice runs her school with a very hands-on approach. As executive director, she is a team player and enjoys mentoring teachers and staff to be the best they can be. She is a resource for parents and students, and her door is always open to everyone.

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It was a love of fitness and children that led Jeff Freeman and Ian Axelrod to open several The Little Gym locations throughout New York and New Jersey. Jeff’s love of sports shows through his own athleticism as well as his career choices. For nearly two decades, he and The Little Gym have been helping children develop socially and physically while having fun, teaching them that the key to a healthy lifestyle is an active lifestyle.

Musical Munchkins 167 Scarsdale Road, Tuckahoe 914-771-7000 musicalmunchkins.com Eileen Oddo celebrates 36 years as co-founder of Musical Munchkins. With degrees in piano performance and piano pedagogy from Loyola University and Conservatoire de Cachan in France, Eileen is uniquely qualified to understand the steps from early childhood to success on an instrument. Eileen has received wide recognition as an early childhood professional because of her finely-honed, sensitive approach to each stage, from 6 months to 6 years. Eileen has lectured at local, state, and national educational conferences and publishes books and recordings under the Musical Munchkins label.

The Play Group Theatre 1 N. Broadway, Suite 111, White Plains 914-946-4433 playgroup.org info@playgroup.org Jill Abusch (artistic director) is co-founder, and camp director of The Play Group Theatre. As artistic director, Jill has guided PGT’s innovative theatre programs from their inception. She is proud to have directed the Teen Conservatory summer writing program for several years. She has taught a variety of classes and has gone into schools and camps to train teachers on the use of drama in the classroom. Jill studied acting and directing at the Stella Adler Conservatory and the Classical Studio at NYU Tisch School of the Arts, where she earned a B.F.A. in drama.

The Whale Camp 610-399-1463 whalecamp.com Amy Lorenz and Cailin Burmaster lead Whale Camp’s educational program with focus on marine biology field experiences. Amy studied terrestrial ecology and marine mammals and has been teaching in field programs for the last ten years. Her Masters research focused on creating opportunities to engage students in science. Cailin brings knowledge from her studies and fieldwork in marine biology and oceanography, along with years of experiential education. Whale Camp’s passion is leading diverse staff and students to explore marine science and make lifelong connections with each other and the natural world.

Winston Preparatory Summer Enrichment Program 57 W. Rocks Road, Norwalk 203-557-4466 x5645 winstonprep.edu summerct@winstonprep.edu Jordan Yannotti has been the director of the summer program for the past 10 years. Also, he is a dean and math instructor. Due to his background in education and psychology, he provides an understanding and diagnostic approach. Each summer, Winston provides students with the opportunity to participate in an individually designed program aimed to enhance academic skills. Students from grades four to 12 are grouped according to skill level and learning style in small classes. Additionally, each student receives daily one-to-one instruction targeting areas of greatest need within Winston’s Focus Program.

Squire Camps, Inc. at Maria Regina High School, Hartsdale 914-328-3798 squirecamps.com squirecamps@gmail.com Celebrating 46 years and winner of Westchester County Inspectors Choice Award! Matt Davanzo operates Squire Advantage Camps, distinctive day camps for children in kindergarten-ninth grades at Maria Regina High School in Hartsdale. Campers design custom schedules from more than 50 exciting courses including robotics, art, gourmet cooking, swimming, computers, digital photography, and Legos. All courses are taught by certified school teachers. Squire also operates a Baseball, Tennis, and All Sports Academy at Maria Regina High School. Hot lunch, snack, T-shirt, and early drop off included. Transportation and extended day available.

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Tilly...A Deer’s Tale is about a real deer that lives in upstate New York and faces challenges after an accident. This powerful story is meant to inspire children living with physical challenges or limitations. The book makes a great birthday gift!

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ARTISTREE PERFORMING ARTS 114 W. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck 914-835-2200 artistreearts.com jeanette@artistreearts.com

Artistree Performing Arts creates amazing birthday parties for children ages 1-12. Have your party in our beautifully renovated studio or let us come to you with just the entertainment.

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Looking for a fun birthday party at a reasonable price? We have three different parties: Rock Star, Karaoke, or Rock City, for an unforgettable experience!

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Celebrate your special occasion with an outdoor aerial adventure. Climb, balance, swing, and zip through the trees on a variety of unique elements like ropes, bridges, and spider webs. Choose from a variety of party packages designed for all abilities.

CHELSEA PIERS CONNECTICUT 1 Blachley Road, Stamford, CT 203-989-1100 chelseapiersct.com/birthday info@chelseapiersct.com

Birthday parties at Chelsea Piers are action-packed! Options include gymnastics, dance, basketball, volleyball, soccer, T-ball, ice-skating, ninja warrior, gaga, and water slides! New inflatable obstacle course and bounce house party option!

CREATIVE CORNER OF LARCHMONT 7 Addison St., Larchmont 914-833-2880 creativecornerlarchmont.com creativecornerlarchmont@gmail.com

Creative Corner is the perfect place to celebrate a birthday! Art party options include wood toys, treasure boxes, canvas bags, ceramic piggy banks, and canvas paintings. We will help every step of the way.

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Be our guest at a Dance Cavise birthday party where your child and friends will feel like stars. The birthday “star” and friends will dance, sing, and play, under the supervision of trained instructors.

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Calling all birthday superstars! You and your guests will be dazzled by a unique, interactive party experience!

GREAT PLAY OF SCARSDALE Interactive Gym for Kids 969B Central Park Ave., Scarsdale 914-713-3470 greatplay.com/scarsdale

Our award-winning, high-energy parties are spectacular events in our amazing Interactive Gym™. We customize each party based on your child’s interests, using some of our most popular Great Play games.

HOMMOCKS PARK ICE RINK Boston Post Road and Weaver Street, Larchmont 914-834-1069 hommocksparkicerink.org

Have your birthday party on ice! Host your next special party at the coolest place in town, Mamaroneck’s popular enclosed Hommocks Park Ice Skating Rink.

JODI’S GYM 25 Hubbels Drive, Mount Kisco 914-244-8811 244 E. 84th St., Manhattan 212-772-7633 jodisgym.com

Kids run, jump, climb, tumble, slide, bounce, and giggle to their hearts’ delight at Jodi’s Gym, where action-packed parties and unmatched experience have won children’s hearts for 34 years.

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Come party with Lil Chameleon! Book our Silver or Gold Package and choose from truly unique experiences in our bright and stylish space.

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tlgwaldwicknj.com A private party at The Little Gym is a perfect way to celebrate your child’s next birthday. Gymnastics, games, obstacle courses, trampoline, sports, and music are tailored to your child’s interests!

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Join us for a fun-ﬁlled birthday party, with interactive sports games and happy faces as we learn about emotions in a fun, cool way!

MUSICAL MUNCHKINS 167 Scarsdale Road, Tuckahoe 914-771-7000 musicalmunchkins.com

Musical Munchkins is the perfect birthday party activity for babies through age 5! Enjoy group drumming, funny favorite singalong songs, and fabulous dancing scarves!

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Pine Brook Fitness, awarded as Westchester’s Best Multi-Sport Family Fitness Facility, provides a ﬁtness experience for you and your family and an exciting venue for birthday parties.

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The Play Group Theatre® (PGT) is Westchester’s theater for children and teens. PGT shows make ideal birthday parties for a variety of ages. Enjoy the show, followed by a backstage tour.

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Places to build, explore, and discover, the Westchester Children’s Museum is Westchester’s newest, most creative place for birthday parties! Have the museum’s exhibits, MakerSpace, and party room to yourself-our parties offer exclusive use of the museum space when the general public has gone home.

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Created specifically for the delicate skin of premature babies, the nutrientrich BEB Organic Silky Cream and Nourishing Oil pack a supermoisturizing one-two punch when used together—and since they were created for preemie skin, they’re super gentle and NICU-safe. For moms who need a little extra moisture in the winter, use the Silky Cream at night to relieve dry skin followed by the Nourishing Oil to lock in moisture. And if pregnancy has caused hormonal acne, or your little one has infant acne, apply some Healing Gel, which is great for treating break outs, healing eczema, and minimizing scars. (Silky Cream: $68; Nourishing Oil: $52; Healing Gel: $64; beborganic.com)

After a nearly 3-year hiatus, Johnson’s brought back the fanfavorite Baby Creamy Oil with Aloe & Vitamin E last July due to consumer demand. If that doesn’t tell you how great this moisturizer is, maybe this will: It’s paraben-, phthalate-, sulfate-, and dye-free due to Johnson’s total brand relaunch last year. The company is now being 100-percent transparent about the ingredients in its products, and is using more naturally derived (and fewer total) components. The nongreasy formula of the creamy oil absorbs quickly—and it’s great for the whole family! ($3.99; target.com)

Old Remedies, New Uses This One’s for the Dads—and Teens

A super-gentle moisturizer, miniOrganic’s Superﬁne Jojoba can be used from cradle to parenthood. Use it on babies during infant massage, to relieve cradle cap, or add a few drops to the bath. Meanwhile, moms can use it as makeup remover and for treating cuticles and nails. What we’re most excited about is dads and teens can use it, too! Encourage your hubby to use it postshave as a soothing balm. And the certified organic, vegan, cruelty-free moisturizer is gentle enough to use if you or your teen has acne-prone skin. ($38; miniorganics.com)

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Inspired by proven, centuries-old remedies from various countries, Vivaiodays Rose Geranium Cleansing Water takes its cue from Zulu women healers, who use Rose Geranium leaves as a treatment. While formulated as a sanitizer for easy cleanup on the go, just add a bit to a cotton pad and use it as oil-free makeup remover. It’s ophthalmologistand dermatologist-tested, plus gluten- and cruelty-free, and certified vegan. Bonus: For every Vivaiodays product sold, the company donates money to fund a day of school for a deserving student somewhere in the world. ($14; vivaiodays.com)

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